Proposals

Planning to propose soon? You're in the right place. Find advice from experts on how to plan the perfect proposal, how photograph the moment, and when and how to announce your engagement aftwards. We're so excited for you!

25 Simple Proposal Ideas for the Low Maintenance Couple Explore effortless yet meaningful proposal ideas for couples who cherish simplicity. Discover heartfelt ways to celebrate your love with minimal fuss.

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Tips for Proposing Without A Ring + 10 Alternatives

Advice

Don’t know if it’s okay to propose without a ring? Find out what our experts say by checking out our latest guide.

A Woman's Guide to Proposing to a Man

How-To

A man proposing to a woman might be the norm, but it doesn’t have to be. Read on for tips on how to propose to a man.

28 Best Surprise Proposal Ideas + Tips to Make It Memorable

How-To

Looking to pull off the perfect surprise proposal? Check out our latest article for all our top tips and tricks.

Most Popular Months to Get Engaged and Married in 2023

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In 2023, the most popular months to get engaged and married will look a bit familiar. It’s official: Everyone’s opting for these months—and here’s why.

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Just Engaged? Here’s What To Do Next!

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Just engaged and wondering what’s next? A lot goes into wedding planning, but you don’t have to do it all at once. Here are the must-do to-dos after getting engaged.

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Getting engaged

Engagement Photo Book: Tips + 10 Ideas

An engagement photo book is a beautiful way to put part of your love story on display. Here are the best ways to go about creating it and what you can use it for.

Couple kissing and showing engagement ring to camera in an engagement announcement photo card.

Getting engaged

The Ultimate Guide to Engagement Announcements

It’s time to spread the good news of your engagement to your friends and family! But how, you ask? Here’s your guide to engagement announcements.

Getting engaged

Just Engaged? Here’s What To Do Next!

Just engaged and wondering what’s next? A lot goes into wedding planning, but you don’t have to do it all at once. Here are the must-do to-dos after getting engaged.

Getting engaged

29 Proposal Ideas at Home to Make the Moment Extra Special

Looking for unique proposal ideas at home? Get inspired by these romantic and unique ways to pop the question in the privacy and comfort of your own space.

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Getting engaged

100+ Best Engagement Captions for Pics on Social Media in 2024

Get inspired with some unique, funny, cute, and celeb-inspired engagement captions for your announcement on social media. We’re so excited for you!

Getting engaged

What Are the Best Places to Propose?

Deciding where to propose is a big deal—you want it to be special, memorable, and above all, the perfect start to your engagement. If you’re looking for the best places to propose, here are the winners, all of which you can pull off anywhere you live.

Getting engaged

How to Propose on Vacation

Proposing on vacation is many people’s dream, but when you are so far from home, the stakes are higher. Read on for more about vacation proposal ideas

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Getting engaged

50 Unique Marriage Proposal Ideas [+ Printables]

Thinking of popping the question? Arrange the perfect proposal for your partner with these creative ideas. From romantic to adventurous, there's one for you!

Getting engaged

28 Best Surprise Proposal Ideas + Tips to Make It Memorable

Looking to pull off the perfect surprise proposal? Check out our latest article for all our top tips and tricks.

Getting engaged

12 Winter Engagement Session Photo Shoot Ideas

The winter season brings with it majestic photo opportunities. But, to capture those frost-tinged winter engagement photos, you’ll need to come prepared.

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Getting engaged

What Knee Do You Propose On? And Why?

Wait a minute, what knee do you propose on? Don’t fret, we’ve got the answer to that, to why people get on their knee, to what it symbolizes and, alternatives!

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Tips for Proposing Without A Ring + 10 Alternatives

Don’t know if it’s okay to propose without a ring? Find out what our experts say by checking out our latest guide.

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It can feel like there are a million and one tasks to conquer at this stage in the game, but if you add an engagement photo book to the list, you won’t be sorry you did.\n\nAn engagement photo album is more than just a keepsake for beautiful photos of you and your boo. It celebrates the season you’re in—engagement—and captures the moment in paperback or hardcover and leather-bound fashion. Plus, it highlights a different part of your relationship than your wedding photo albums will.\n\nThere are a dozen reasons to invest in an engagement photo book and quite a few ways to create it. From a proposal memory book to a wedding photo book, documenting every moment from “Yes!” to “I Do” will help you tell the story of your engagement (and beyond) in a personalized way. Read on to learn about an engagement photo book's unique styles, content options, and potential uses for custom photo books.\n\n## What to Do With Your Engagement Photo Book? Top Tips.\n![Zola - Engagement Photobook Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1HASRGfQa40YY3PF5aQKAN/b310080e5dfe7cf90a452416738bbeff/inline_shutterstock_1_.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Shutterstock\n\n### 1. Add Proposal Photos\nDid someone capture your proposal on camera? If so, a proposal photo book is perfect for letting that joyous day live on. Proposal photos are full of genuine surprise, heartfelt warmth, and raw emotion and tend to show a couple at their happiest. Bottle those emotions up in a beautiful photo album, and you’ll be glad you can relive the day over and over again, especially in the midst of wedding planning when tensions can be high.\n\nAdditionally, everyone loves a good proposal story. A proposal photo book lets you share the day with friends and family who may not have been there and let them see how it all went down.\n\n### 2. Include Engagement Photos\nIf you paid good money for an engagement session, why not put those photos to work? Your engagement photos are good for more than just your wedding website and save-the-dates, but useful for placing around your home and in a photo album. Take advantage of what is probably some of your first professional photos together, and create an engagement photo book made up of your favorite images from your engagement photoshoot.\n\nWhether the session took place on top of a mountain, at a nearby park, or in front of your favorite ice cream shop, the photos will surely be beautiful and deserve more than a one-time glance. You’ll be happy to have a place for all the photos from the shoot, and even happier when you can utilize the book as your [guest book](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/do-you-need-a-wedding-guest-book) at your wedding or the first coffee table book in your home.\n\n### 3. Use Engagement Party Photos\nAn engagement photo book isn’t limited to photos from your proposal or engagement. You can also include photos from both occasions and/or events, such as your engagement party. By including photos from the event, you’ll be able to include the significant people that were there in your engagement photo book. A photo book highlighting the party and people there is also a great thank-you gift for the host of the engagement party. He or she will be thrilled to see all their hard work in print and touched by the thoughtful sentiment.\n\n### 4. Select Photos From Your Engagement Season\nWhether your engagement lasts a few months or a few years, you’re bound to take plenty of photos throughout the season. For a casual and personal take on an engagement photo book, scroll through your camera roll and pull all your favorite photos from the time. You can include the actual proposal, wedding shower photos, and party pics, but the candid shots of you and your significant other picking out the venue or signing your marriage license will make it feel more personal and fun, too.\n\n## Types of Engagement Photo Books\n![Zola - Engagement Photobook Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/AFlb9Hj2YwReCIgaWl72P/644f0837f19a4df4d98223802d2b5b71/inline_shutterstock.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Shutterstock\n\n### 1. Fabric Hardcover\nThere’s a bounty of digital services that can help you create your engagement photo book today and an array of options to choose from when designing it. You’ll be surprised at how easy these services make it to assemble a photo book and how beautiful it can turn out.\n\nOne of the most timeless looks for an album is a fabric hard-covered album, such as this __[linen-covered album](https://www.artifactuprising.com/wedding-guest-book)__ from Artifact Uprising. When you choose a fabric-covered album, you will likely have various color options to choose from, so you can pick the hue that matches your wedding color scheme or the tones of your home. You can also personalize the cover with your names and the date of your engagement or wedding day in foil-pressed lettering that will add an elegant look and feel to the outside. \n\n### 2. Stately Leather\nAnother timeless option is leather. Leather-bound albums immediately feel high-quality and indestructible. The heavy yet soft material will protect pages of precious photos and provide the perfect canvas for text or imagery on the front cover. Also, when you opt for a fabric or leather photo book, you often have the option for lay-flat binding, which allows the pages to lie completely flat when you open them. This makes for easy viewing and ensures there won’t be a seam cutting through you or your partner’s face on photo pages that bleed from one to the next.\n\n### 3. Small Softcover\nIf you want to put your engagement photos in an album without spending too much time creating it, a small softcover album may be the way to go. Plenty of sites, like Chatbooks, offer easy-to-make softcover photo books. Just upload your choice of photos, and the platform will automatically fill your book with one photo per page. You can add captions if you like or leave it simple. With a seamless and affordable process like that, you can create multiple engagement photo books: one for your proposal, one for your photo session, one for your party, and so on. This style is quick for viewing, and storing takes up very little space, which is also great. \n\n### 4. Scrapbook\nAlternatively, you may want to consider a more customizable photo book where you can truly let your creativity shine. With a good old-fashioned DIY scrapbook, you can include fun mementos from bachelor/bachelorette parties, silly selfies, and ticket stubs or brochures from places you went and things you saw. Beyond photos and mementos, you can also personalize this with handcrafted touches, such as stickers on the album cover.\n\nA handmade scrapbook is also a heartfelt gift for your fiancé on the morning of your wedding. Your partner will love looking back on all the memories that led you both to that very moment. If you’re creative, skip the layflat templates and leather photo album in lieu of having your special moments showcased in a one-of-a-kind cover design. \n\n### 5. Text Pages\nIf you plan to use your engagement photo book as your [guest book](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-guest-book-ideas) at your wedding, pick out a book with room for long meaningful messages and short and sweet notes. A great way to go about this is by designing the book with a photo page and a blank page side by side or by bordering each image with blank space. Even if you don’t use your engagement album for your [guest book](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/diy-wedding-guest-book-ideas), text pages can be a good option if you want to add your notes or captions throughout. \n\n## What to Do With Your Engagement Photobook\n\n## 1. Use It as Your Guest Book\nOne of the best uses for your engagement photo book is to use it as a [guest book](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-guest-book-ideas) at your wedding. While a blank book is clean and classic, one filled with photos of you and your new spouse is more fun for guests to sign and look at. Let guests find their favorite page and sign their names. Plus, using your engagement book as __[your wedding guest book photo book](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/do-you-need-a-wedding-guest-book)__ removes the need to buy both, and when you’re spending as much money as you are on your big day, every small budget saver makes a big difference when planning your special day.\n\n### 2. Give It as a Gift\nAn engagement photo book is a great gift for a birthday or holiday, but it also makes a great wedding present for your fiancé, parents, future in-laws, or grandparents. If you put time into creating it, you may as well order a few, tie them up with ribbon, and pass them out to the people who will love them the most. \n\nIt’s one of those gift ideas that your loved ones will truly enjoy. Give it as an engagement gift to your fiance, as a premium photo book will make a special keepsake. If you don’t have time, you can always gift a book filled with your special moments to him or her as one of your wedding gift ideas. \n\n### 3. Put It on Your Coffee Table\nPart of the fun of decorating your newlywed home is filling it with pieces of you two. Let your engagement story live on by giving the book a place to live on your coffee table or bookshelf. It’s the decor, but your friends—old and new—will also enjoy flipping through it.\n\nWhether you create it as soon as you have the photos from your engagement shoot or wait until after your wedding, an engagement photo book is a beautiful way to display part of your love story.\n\n## Best Engagement Photo Book Ideas\nSome keepsake books are best sellers, but you may want something more unique. Here’s a collection of TK engagement photo album ideas. You can even checkout these as references for [your wedding photo albums](https://www.zola.com/wedding-albums/shop).\n\n1. [Bold Modern Book](https://www.mixbook.com/all-photo-books?coupon=CHEERS23A&utm_source=adwords&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=WP_G_SRCH_NOB_AMT_ALBUM_DESKTOP_US&utm_term=G_SRCH_NOB_PROS_AMT_ALBUM_SOFTCOVER&utm_matchtype=c&utm_content=642400770427&utm_keyword={adgroup}&gclid=CjwKCAiA0cyfBhBREiwAAtStHMmPWKV4ZjR0R-HuMqP3aO-dSpen4NgvFXpD_O6YMFq2KNeA5Uet7hoCeMAQAvD_BwE)\n2. [Classic Hardcover Layflat Album](https://www.zola.com/wedding-albums/select?album_type=classic) \n3. [5x7 Softcover Book](https://www.snapfish.com/softcover-photo-book-5x7#/bspview?ptype=books&sku=CommerceProduct_8032&filters=skuList~CommerceProduct_8032&offset=0&view=BSP&defaultSkuSelection=true&bspOffset=0&isLoadMore=false&productCategory=Photo%20Books)\n4. [DIY Linen Scrapbook Album](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1260367910/linen-scrapbook-photo-album-large-13-x?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=scrapbook+album&ref=sr_gallery-1-1&frs=1&bes=1&sts=1&organic_search_click=1)\n5. [Wedding Guest Book](https://www.artifactuprising.com/photo-books/wedding-guest-book)\n6. [Hardcover Leather Photo Album](https://www.zola.com/wedding-albums/select?album_type=deluxe)\n7. [Square Softcover Photo Book](https://www.milkbooks.com/photo-books/luxe-softcover-photo-books/)\n8. [Premier Hardcover Photo Alum](https://www.zola.com/wedding-albums/select?album_type=premier)\n9. [Premium Softcover Photo Book](https://www.mpix.com/photo-books/premium-softcover)\n10. [Modern Flip Box Album](https://www.flipchap.com/handmade-box/)\n\n## Zola, Your Best Wedding Source\nOf course, you should display your favorite pre-wedding images in a photo frame, but there is also something special about a personalized engagement photo album. From displaying it at your bridal shower to keeping it a secret to give on Valentine’s Day, Zola can help you create a lovely keepsake. However, our expert advice section contains a plethora of wedding planning advice to get you on your way. 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Here’s your guide to engagement announcements.","author":"Jane Chertoff and Georgie Darling","publishedAt":"2024-09-10T08:00+05:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5mYwiZUABFvjp9K49edtVT/202d04e54ef936d1cc857115b1f96c90/EAHero_engagement-announcement.jpg","altText":"Couple kissing and showing engagement ring to camera in an engagement announcement photo card."},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"__Inside this article__\n\n- 6 FAQs about how to share your news\n- 10 Creative ways to announce your engagement\n- Formal engagement announcement wording examples\n- 4 Ideas for a fabulous engagement shoot\n- 9 Ideas for creative engagement announcement photos\n- Start planning your wedding with Zola\n","body":"__TLDR:__\n- Share the news with close family members and friends before making general announcements on social media.\n- Prep for your engagement photo shoot by considering unique ideas, like including your pet or toasting during the session.\n- Get creative with your announcement by throwing a surprise engagement party, calling over FaceTime, or having a scavenger hunt to figure out the clues.\n\n## The ins and outs of engagement announcements\nThe moment is finally here—you and your SO are planning to say “I do!” Now it’s time to tell the world. Maybe you’re ready to start shouting the happy news from your rooftop, your [social media pages](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/9-savvy-ways-to-use-social-media-at-your-wedding), and possibly the front page of your local paper. Or perhaps you’d rather keep the whole thing a little more intimate and just tell your nearest and dearest. Here’s everything you need to know about your engagement announcement (in person, online, or by mail) no matter how lavish or intimate you plan to make it. \n\n## What to consider before announcing your engagement\n\nGetting engaged can be exciting, overwhelming, and flat-out exhilarating. It may be tempting to immediately tell your family, friends, coworkers, mailman, food delivery person, (etc.) about the happy news.\n\nBut first, take a breath—your engagement is an intimate experience between you and your partner. It’s an important step toward a lifetime of highs and lows spent with the one you love. From this moment on, everything you face, you’ll face together, their heart in your hand and your heart in theirs.\n\nSo try to savor the moment before your friends and family are in the know. Pretty soon, you’ll be wrapped up in well-wishes, [wedding planning](https://www.zola.com/#:~:text=Everything%20you%20need%20to%20plan%20the%20wedding%20you%20want), [rehearsal dinners](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-to-invite-to-a-rehearsal-dinner), [showers](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-shower-guide), and [receptions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-reception-timeline). Take some one-on-one time with your SO to privately celebrate each other, and how far you’ve come to reach this incredible moment.\n\n## 6 FAQs about how to share your news \n\n### 1. Are we expected to share the exciting news in person?\nOnce you and your SO feel you’ve had enough time to celebrate your engagement with each other, it’s time to consider how you’ll share the news with your loved ones. Of course, everyone important is going to know about your engagement eventually, but with certain people, you just can’t skip the in-person announcement. A good place to start is with your immediate family on both sides. \n\nIf it’s not possible to get together with your immediate family in person, call them on the phone or see them via video chat. They will absolutely appreciate that you chose to share the news with them personally.\n\nIf you’re still struggling to define the list of people you should tell personally, it’s okay! After all, no one really needs to learn about your engagement in person. As long as you and your partner go with your gut and reach out to the people you care about most, you’re doing great. Don’t bend over backward or postpone your public engagement announcement if your hearts are telling you to share with everyone right away.\n\nOnce you’ve told your immediate family members, you can decide if you want to extend the circle of in-the-know folks to other relatives and close friends.\n\n### 2. Should we have an engagement party?\nSome couples choose to throw a full-blown engagement party to share the news and celebrate. We have lots of expert advice articles on engagement parties to help you plan if this is something you want to do! Check out our [engagement party planning guide](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party), [tips on curating your engagement party guest list](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-do-you-invite-to-an-engagement-party), and [50 engagement party themes](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-ideas)!\n\n__Expert Advice:__ Chances are, the people you’ll be telling in person and [inviting to your engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-invite-ideas) will also be on your guest list. As you’re making your list of “People we need to tell face-to-face that we’re engaged,” you can also get a jumpstart on invitations, Save the Dates, and more with [Zola’s Wedding Guest List Manager](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/guests). This digital tool will help you keep track of everything from RSVP’s to meal choices. It’s never too early to start planning ahead. Your future-selves will thank you!\n\n![What Is an Engagement Party? | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2JtgTXsHvKDQxFEvsKC7mb/5069e0c6b1960ec88c5b870021947571/Inline_stocksy.png)\n\n### 3. Can we share the news on social media?\nNot everyone wants to post a snap of their ring on social media. And it’s totally fine if you’d rather keep your engagement private from the wider world. However, posting on social media has become a popular part of the engagement experience for many newly engaged couples. \n\nBut there’s more to it than just shooting off an errant thought or sharing a silly meme. Your engagement post is likely the very first experience that most people will have of you and your SO as a to-be-married couple. You’ll want your personality, happiness, and unique love story to shine through the screen!\n\nOne of the best parts of your engagement post on social media is that when you pair it with a [perfect engagement photoshoot](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-get-most-out-of-your-engagement-photos), it can make everyone in your network feel like they were there. Your friends and family will want to celebrate your joy, and being able to like and comment on a beautiful engagement post lets them do that, even if they live far away.\n\nPlus, how awesome will it be to read all those loving messages of excitement from your extended communities? If you want to share your big news on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, and elsewhere, keep scrolling for some of the most popular engagement announcement ideas.\n\n__Expert Advice:__ Not sure what to caption your engagement announcement post? Check out our article [on engagement captions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-captions-for-social-media) for social media!\n\n### 4. When should we post our engagement photo on social media?\nOnce you’ve had your engagement shoot and landed on an engagement photo you love, you’ll probably feel the urge to share it as soon as possible. However, you and your SO should take a step back and talk through any potential conflicts that could come up if you post your engagement photo right away. Ask yourselves if any of your friends or family:\n\n- Just recently posted their own engagement photo\n- Are having a wedding within the next couple of days\n- Are celebrating another kind of major milestone\n- Have recently suffered a serious loss\n\nIf they have, it’s probably best to refrain from posting your engagement photo for a few days. Even if the only photo you have is a quick ring selfie after the proposal, it's still a good idea to wait.\n\n### 5. Should we have a newspaper announcement?\nIt’s still common for couples in smaller towns to publish their engagement news in a local newspaper. Whether you live in a small town or you just like the tradition of this announcement style, it’s not hard to find a local paper that would be willing to print your happy news! Even if this isn’t the most effective way to spread the word, it can be really cool to have your name as a couple in print for the first time. Plus, you can save that newspaper, frame it, and have it as a keepsake of your engagement forever.\n\n### 6. Is a trip a proper way to celebrate our engagement before announcing?\nBesides an [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-an-engagement-party), a popular trend among newly engaged couples these days is to go on an engagement-moon. Like a pre-marriage honeymoon, an engagement-moon is an opportunity to get away and enjoy quality time together before the madness of wedding planning takes over your to-do lists.\n\nWhether you take a major vacation jet-setting around the world, or simply take a long weekend at a nice spot outside of town, your engagement-moon should be an experience that helps you celebrate this moment in your love story.\n\n![engagement-party-cheers](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NcBqknXzNb74xgrcfF7FI/e5144796ec84fab5228489d88e2dcd7c/engagement-party-cheers.jpg)\n\n## 10 Creative ways to announce your engagement \n\nLooking for unique ways to tell everyone you're engaged? Take a peek at Zola's list below.\n\n1. Host a brunch and make a surprise announcement.\n2. Organize a casual dinner at home or at a restaurant to let everyone know.\n3. Opt for a casual backyard barbecue. \n4. Relay the news over evening drinks at a homemade cocktail party.\n5. Send folks on a scavenger hunt with the final clue being—you're engaged!\n6. Call family and friends over FaceTime to share the good news and excitement together.\n7. Show up to an event with coffeeshop coffees in hand. Have the shop write \"future Mrs. (insert post-wedding last name)\" on the cup and see who notices it first. Or put \"future bride\" or \"future groom\" on the cups instead.\n8. Put a sign on your pet that says \"my parents are getting married\" and send them out.\n9. Throw a surprise engagement party for yourselves. Invite everyone and then let them know at the event that it's actually an engagement party.\n10. Organize a game night, such as charades or pictionary, and act out the fact that you're engaged as part of the game.\n\n## Formal engagement announcement wording examples \nDo you send out engagement announcements in the mail? After announcing your engagement on social media, you may want to follow up with a formal engagement announcement by mail. A formal [engagement announcement card](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop) is a tradition that demonstrates all the love, compassion, and value you’ve put into your future union.\n\nEngagement announcement cards are typically written (or at least voiced) by someone other than the couple themselves. Often, a wedding is said to be “hosted” by someone close to the couple. Fittingly, engagement announcements are usually written from the perspective of the hosts. In other words, it’s the hosts (not the couple) who invite all the guests to the wedding.\n\nThere are many variations you can use to suit any hosting situation, and you’ll want to choose one that feels the most authentic to you and your partner.\n\n### Traditional engagement announcement wording\nTraditionally, you’d use wording like “Mr. and Mrs. Jackson Hayes of Brooklyn, New York announce the engagement of their daughter Cynthia to Kevin Park, son of Lee and Ellie Park of Morris Plains, New Jersey.” In this case, the engagement announcement wording from parents is the focus.\n\n### Wording for a self-hosted event\nIf you’re hosting the wedding yourselves, your announcement may look something like “Colin Kilpatrick, a civil rights attorney in Los Angeles, is to be married to Javier Formosa, a professor of comparative literature at UCLA. Mr. Kilpatrick is the son of Jack and Molly Kilpatrick of Woodlawn, New York. Mr. Formosa is the son of Carlos and Consuela Formosa of Phoenix, Arizona.”\n\nIf you’re reading this and think that feels a little old-fashioned, there’s no reason why you can’t announce your engagement in your own, natural voice. After all, your engagement (and wedding, and wider relationship) should represent who you are as people. \n\nEven something as simple as “Big announcement incoming: Sarah and I are thrilled to announce we’re officially engaged! We can’t wait to share more details with you in time,” can work beautifully to share your exciting news.\n\n__Expert Advice:__ Some couples choose to have their [save the date card](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/save-the-date/shop) double as their engagement announcement. If you want to save money and time, Save the Dates are a great way to share your engagement photos and announce your engagement and your upcoming wedding to family and friends all in one! Check out our article on [save the dates](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/when-to-send-save-the-dates) for more.\n\n![Hand written messages](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6sK7a36RXlLVELsNB2sfmN/4f32ce69b446f6bd13d54746ebfa8102/hand_written_messages.jpg)\n\n## 4 Ideas for a fabulous engagement shoot \nAlthough lots of engagement photos seem to have been taken at the actual moment of the proposal, most are taken at a later date. For many couples, it’s best to keep the proposal a totally intimate and private affair.\n\n### 1. Take your pics soon.\nThat said, you should try to take your engagement photo within a couple of months of getting engaged. One reason is that you’ll probably be dying to share your exciting news with the world, and you’ll want to put your best foot forward when you do. A more practical reason for taking care of your engagement photo early is that you don’t want to worry about it while planning your wedding.\n\n### 2. Have fun and relax.\nYour engagement photo should be fun and exciting, not stressful or taxing. Your wedding is an incredible moment, but the planning can definitely be a handful. You don’t want to rush your engagement photo just because you’re dealing with your normal life. If you want to take an engagement photo with a professional photographer, be sure to hire one soon after your engagement, because their schedules can be busy.\n\nThrowing an engagement party? Check out these [engagement party invitation ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-invite-ideas) (hint: using your engagement photos)!\n\n### 3. Go pro — or don’t.\nYour photo is the centerpiece of your engagement post and sometimes your Save the Dates. Some people choose to hire a professional photographer to capture the essence of the moment, while other people opt for a more authentic and individual touch by taking the photo themselves. Either way, you can’t go wrong, as long as your engagement photo speaks to you and your partner’s personalities. Check out our article [How to Take Authentic Engagement Photos](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-take-authentic-engagement-photos) for more tips.\n\n### 4. Capture moments for your wedding photo album.\nAnother benefit to taking engagement photos? They can be the first pics in your wedding album. Your wedding album is a collection of photos that tell the story of your special day, and your engagement photos can be the first chapter. Or make a [photobook specific to your proposal and engagement photos](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-photobook-ideas)! Zola’s innovative [album builder](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/zola-wedding-albums) helps you arrange and curate images from the engagement to the honeymoon, so your wedding story can come to life every time you open up the album.\n\nIf you need help finding the perfect photographer to capture you and your SO’s special moment, take a peek at [wedding photographers](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers) on Zola’s vendor marketplace. Our photographer profile pages give you a look into each photographer’s price list, portfolio, and specialties. Plus, you can favorite the ones you like, compare, contrast, and book the perfect match.\n\n![210427 Zola Album3](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4NjzYMJU4zSiwqC4OgLmRs/ade9475218c14639d9d57846c413e09a/210427_Zola_Album3.jpg)\n\n## 9 Ideas for creative engagement announcement photos \nThere are limitless ways to take engagement announcement photos. These cute photo ops are fun to plan, and even more fun to bring to life with your other half. \n\n### 1. Add a hand written message.\nNothing adds a personal touch more than a hand-written message, especially if it’s written on the palm of your hand. You and your SO can write small messages like “Now” and “& Forever” on one palm each. Then, point them to the camera (making sure to highlight the new sparkling rock on your finger). This is a totally adorable and totally easy way to announce your engagement online.\n\n### 2. Include a pet close up.\nIf you and your partner are parents to an adorable dog, why not include them in your engagement photo? Presenting your pup front and center is a surefire way to draw attention to your post. You can take a shot of the whole family, and even get a little chalkboard sign for your dog to wear. Write a cute message like, “My humans are getting married!” for all the likes.\n\n### 3. Show your love for a beverage.\nThey say a picture is worth a thousand words. Well, this kind of picture only needs a couple of words to work wonders. You and your SO can go to a Starbucks (or any other coffee shop where they write customer names on each to-go cup) and capture a low-key engagement photo that still shines. When you order your drinks, ask them to write “fiancé” on each cup, and snap a pic of you two cheering your union.\n\n### 4. Be the ultimate sports fans.\nIf you and your partner connected over your mutual sports fandom, you can show your love of the game and your love for each other at the same time. This engagement photo works best if you already have a date saved for your wedding, but if you haven’t gotten that far in your planning, even just the wedding year will do. Get dressed in your favorite jerseys and write the date on a football, basketball, or whichever kind of sports equipment makes sense for you.\n\n### 5. Show off the ring.\nFor a more traditional and elegant engagement photo that you can perfect on your own, go for a body shot that highlights the ring. One person stands with their hands folded over their waist. Then, whoever’s wearing the ring hugs them from behind, also folding their hands over their waist. Your photo should focus on the midsection, really showing off the engagement ring and the joined hands.\n\n![Prong Setting Engagement Ring by Camden and Hailey George on Unsplash](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5dBCGeFsXmUxWRAd9pqVYB/fee55bf4243b11ee89e642da7f9a77da/Prong_Setting_Engagement_Ring_by_Camden_and_Hailey_George_on_Unsplash.jpg)\n\n### 6. Get creative at night.\nFor a super romantic and dramatic look, you can take your engagement photo at night while holding a lightbox that displays a cute message like “He Said Yes” or “Love You To The Moon And Back.” Your silhouettes behind the bright message of love will definitely make an eye-catching post.\n\n### 7. Opt for candid over formal.\nA professional photographer can help you capture a real-life tender moment between you and your SO. Instead of a very obviously staged portrait, your engagement photo will be fun, spontaneous, and true to life.\n\n### 8. Celebrate with champagne.\nA timeless marker of celebration, popping champagne in your photo makes it instantly recognizable as a big deal to everyone scrolling by. A professional photographer will get amazing coverage of the moment when the cork pops and the sparkling champagne shoots out of the bottle, something that can be super hard to do on your own. Spice up your photo by popping champagne in a scenic locale.\n\n### 9. Plan an outdoor picnic.\nAlthough it’s a more subdued look, the outdoor picnic engagement photo is a fabulous opportunity to craft a truly special image. Picnics are an especially popular setting for summer and spring engagement photos. You can put a lot of thought into your wardrobe, the location, as well as the accouterments around you. Show off your personalities and your happiness with a few props for a truly unique engagement picture.\n\nNeed guidance on what to wear? Check out our article on [engagement photo outfit ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-for-your-engagement-photos).\n\n## How to start planning your wedding with Zola \nAfter your announcements are in the mail and it’s time to start [wedding planning](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-wedding), Zola will be your go-to wedding expert. We’ll help you build your personalized wedding checklist and wedding budget for free, and it doesn’t stop there.\n\n### 1. Look at save the dates, wedding invitations and more.\nIf you’re curious about sending your save the dates with Zola, you can get a feel for paper type and print quality with free samples first. Then, you can order personalized proofs of up to five designs (with free shipping!) to see your cards in real life before making the final decision. [Shop save the dates](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/save-the-date/shop) and all other [wedding paper](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/paper) on Zola.\n\n### 2. Select wedding vendors.\nAll in one place, you can discover [top wedding vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors) for food, drinks, florals, and more. You can also find your dream [wedding venue](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues). Manage your guest list, create a custom photo album, and make your dream wedding a reality all in one place with Zola.\n\n### 3. Curate your wedding website.\nOur free [wedding website builder](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website) allows you to streamline those all-important things like a [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry), [guest list management](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/guests) with RSVP tracking, and more. We've got customizable template designs for every type of wedding, made to match your invites, as well as a user-friendly interface for editing pictures and wedding details. It’s all just a few clicks away.\n\n### 4. Add items to your wedding registry.\nHave all your gifts in one place on Zola where you can integrate registries from other stores and add gifts, experiences, and [honeymoon and cash funds](https://www.zola.com/shop/honeymoon-cash-funds). Then, share one link with your guests on your wedding website and with a QR code on your invites. 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Yes, there’s wedding planning to do, but it doesn’t all need to happen at once.\n\n## Just got engaged, now what?\n \n\nWith the help of Zola, you’ll be off planning in a jiffy, but your list of to-do’s after engagement doesn’t have to be stressful. However, there are certain things you and your partner should accomplish in the first month (or so) after your engagement. Plus, you’ll discover the things you shouldn’t do right away, so you’ll know what to look forward to doing.\n\nSo, now that you’ve officially ticked “[getting engaged](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/getting-engaged)” off the list, it’s time to begin. First, congrats! Second, here’s your checklist of what’s coming up next as you begin to plan your wedding day. \n\n## 17 steps for the just engaged couple\n \n\n### 1. Celebrate\n\nIt might feel tough, but refrain from reaching for your phone right away. Instead, take some time to celebrate your engagement with your new fiancé. Make your way over to your favorite bar or restaurant and enjoy each other’s company. Take a walk on the beach or through your favorite part of the city.\n\nRegardless of the setting, enjoy the moment one-on-one (unless, of course, your loved ones were in on the [proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/getting-engaged/proposals) and are waiting in the wings). Before you know it, you’ll be up to your neck in wedding planning, so savor this time for all it’s worth. Bask in that newly engaged glow.\n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5TinaZh7eVfqET7ez5FgmP/527c65acd1e95d3ecf50b5852795015a/INLINE___Unsplash_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### 2. Share the news.\nWhen you’re ready to tell others, start with those closest to you. This is likely your immediate family (parents and siblings), other close relatives, and best friends. Ring them personally or pay a visit, if possible, but steer clear of text messages. While it might seem like the most efficient way to tell your people, it can feel a bit impersonal. Save text announcements for people you aren’t as close with.\n\nTypically, there’s a hierarchy that states you should tell family first. However, we realize that not all dynamics are the same. [Share the news of your engagement](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-announcements-101) with those you love in the order you deem most appropriate.\n\n### 3. Alert the (social) media\n\nThat is if you’re on social media, of course. Once you tell your close family and friends, now it’s time to tell the world. Share a status update on Facebook to say that you’re just engaged, or post a photo or story on Instagram. Take a selfie with your partner, show off [your ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/dont-like-engagement-ring), or upload a photo someone snapped of the actual engagement moment.\n\nYou’re engaged—you should absolutely share the story. However, we do caution against spamming your various timelines with [engagement news](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-announce-your-engagement). There will be plenty of opportunities to share wedding planning highlights as you work out details. Maybe don’t exhaust your followers with too much upfront.\n\n### 4. Tell your loved ones first\n\nIt's normal to be extremely thrilled and excited about the proposal. Of course, you want to let everyone within earshot—or everyone with access to a smartphone—know of the good news. We get it, it’s convenient to make a couple of posts online.\n\nAnd while it’s completely up to you who you tell and how you do it, you probably don’t want the friend you lost touch with after college to find out via Facebook that you’re engaged—before your own parents or best friends. \n\nHold off on making any social media posts until you’ve delivered the news to your important people in person, if not via a phone call.\n\n### 5. Start thinking about dates\nDue to desirable venues and [certain months](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/choosing-your-wedding-month) getting booked well in advance, it’s wise to start thinking about dates quite early. This is especially the case if you’re looking to have your wedding within a year or two of getting engaged. \n\nStart by discussing the ideal time of year or month with your significant other. Then, check for any holidays, birthdays, or other conflicts that you’d like to avoid double-booking. \n\nAlso, reach out to important loved ones, such as close friends and family members, to check for conflicts before settling on anything. Find out what works for you and those closest to you, and settle on a few days or weekends that you can ask potential [venues](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues) about.\n\n### 6. Start talking logistics\nYou and your partner have brainstormed locations, dates, and your wedding style—now’s the time to start setting things in stone. Be pragmatic in your discussions and decisions. Start by sitting down together and drawing out a personalized budget and timeline. Or, let Zola do the manual work for you – create a personalized wedding checklist, timeline and budget in just a few minutes. [Sign up and access our free wedding planning tools here](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/onboard).\n\nThere’s no official timeline you need to stick to but your own, by the way. If you want to be engaged for a couple of years, do that. Circle back to planning in a few months or years. If that’s not you, however, start with a location and date. Once you have both of those, reach out to venues. Figure out what they have for availability around your desired date and book it. From there, you can begin looking into and [securing other vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors#:~:text=Explore%20wedding%20vendors%20by%20category), such as a wedding planner, catering, and entertainment.\n\n### 7. Say your thank yous\n\nThroughout the first few weeks of being engaged, you might receive celebratory cards and even gifts from friends and family. This is even more likely if you have an engagement party. Maintain a list of everyone who sends or brings you a card and/or gift, so that you can send out proper [thank you cards](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop).\n\n### 8. Spend some time researching before booking\n\nRemember how important it is to think about the big picture? You’ll want to put considerable time into that before booking a venue or any vendors for your big day. You’re just engaged, after all. \n\nWe know that locking down a space or [photographer](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/questions-to-ask-wedding-photographer) you love ASAP can be stressful, but trust us, you want to take the time to be really clear about what you both want before making anything official. \n\nTry not to rush. Allow yourselves the time to dream, find inspiration, and bounce ideas and desires off of one another.\n\n### 9. Hold off on sorting the wedding party\n\nMaid of honor, best man, bridesmaids, groomsmen, and every bridal party and wedding party member in between… there’s potential for a lot of loved ones to be involved in your wedding day! While this is one of the most exciting parts of planning a wedding, we highly recommend you hold off a few weeks before asking anyone to officially take on a role. There are many details that can shape not only who you’ll want by your side but how many people you’ll be able to include. \n\nWait to ask your helpers until you’ve figured out your wedding’s basics—your budget, venue, and the type of wedding you want, to start.\n\n### 10. Keep things vague with guests for now\n\nAs with requests and potential wedding party members, hold off on inviting anyone to your wedding until you have planning underway. The excitement of being newly engaged, added to the love and well-wishes from all around, can have you wanting to share the excitement and invite everyone. Refrain. Better to keep things polite and vague now than to be put in an awkward position when someone doesn’t make the [guest list](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/guests) later on.\n\n### 11. Wait to purchase your wedding attire\n\nIt’s incredibly tempting to start trying on [wedding dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/tips-wedding-dress-shopping), suits, and other [wedding day attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/fashion-beauty/wedding-attire) soon after getting engaged. However, it’s crucial that you don’t jump in too soon. At this point, odds are you haven't yet decided on your budget or what you really want. \n\nRushing this process and making a purchase too soon out of excitement can lead to regret and financial issues down the line. Wait until you’re sure of what you’re looking for and can afford before making any try-on appointments.\n\n### 12. Relax\n\nOne more time: you just got engaged, so slow down. Wedding planning has the potential to be pretty stressful right off the bat. With guest list creation, wedding venue touring, budget making, and every other aspect of the wedding planning process right around the corner, don’t forget to make time to enjoy being engaged. \n\nSet some time aside for a relaxing date night, just the two of you. Put the beginning stages of planning on pause and focus on each other and how happy you are to be where you are right now.\n\n### 13. Expect some unsolicited advice\n\nUpon telling loved ones of your engagement, chances are you’re going to be hearing a lot of advice from those who have had a wedding. Take any and all unsolicited advice with grace, but don’t be quick to take it to heart. \n\nWhile you may come to agree with and appreciate some advice here and there, you definitely don’t need to take or even consider it all. Offer a “thank you,” pocket what gems you can, and move forward.\n\n### 14. Host an engagement party\n\nAfter saying yes, it’s time to celebrate! Depending on how you want to announce your engagement, this should take place before or after you post to social media. If you like the idea of telling your friends and family all at once, plan a surprise [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party) before making a public announcement. That way, the news is completely unexpected. Many couples also prefer to host a more formal engagement party (with invitations and maybe even scheduled activities) a few weeks after the engagement.\n\nIf your loved ones are already in the know, one or some of them may come forward and offer to host your party for you. Whatever you decide works—engagement parties aren’t necessary, so if you choose to have one, get creative with [engagement party ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-ideas) and celebrate however you want. Be aware, though: You shouldn’t invite anyone to the engagement party that you won’t invite to the wedding. Plan accordingly.\n\n### 15. Book an engagement shoot\n\nThis is another optional to-do. If an engagement photoshoot doesn’t sound like your style, stay with us for just a second. Engagement shoots are popular for a few reasons. Mainly, they’re usually free and come as an additional component of your wedding photography package. If you haven’t yet [booked a photographer](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers) (totally normal at this stage, by the way!), you can either wait until you do or you can hire another local photographer for this shoot.\n\nCouples also often see an [engagement shoot](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-take-authentic-engagement-photos) as an opportunity to get comfortable in front of the camera together. Again, if you have a photographer booked, this is a great time to get to know more about his or her style. This way, you’ll hopefully feel more natural when your photo is being taken from all angles come wedding day. Use your engagement photos on your [save the dates](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/save-the-date/shop), wedding website, and/or wedding invitations.\n\n### 16. Think big picture\n\nNow that you’re no longer just engaged, your engagement celebrations have probably slowed. Now it feels like time to really start thinking about your big day. Don’t stress yourself out by immediately looking into every single detail, though. Start off by discussing big-picture ideas with your partner. Now is the time to figure out if you’re both on the same page with your dream wedding style and guest count.\n\nTalk about everything from wedding location and wedding size to a potential color palette and wedding date options. And, of course, always be open to your partner’s ideas. Stay organized off the bat by gathering inspiration in a place that’s easy to access and edit. Pinterest board, Google Doc, computer folder, binder—whatever works for you.\n\n### 17. Make time to soak it all in\n\nWe’re aware that we’re reiterating here, but it’s worth the reminder. Don’t get so immediately wrapped up in wedding planning that you forget to enjoy being just engaged. Skipping over this part can lead to considerable stress later on. Pop some bubbly, spend quality time with your fiancé(e), and bask in the excitement from all of those closest to you.\n\n## Engagement rings and wedding bands\n \n\nIf you were over the moon to put your new [ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/getting-engaged/rings) on… only to find it didn’t quite fit, you’ll want to get it sized ASAP. This won’t be the most exciting part of getting engaged, but it’s necessary if you want to avoid losing your special stone.\n\nSpeaking of losing your ring, enter ring insurance! When it comes to what to do after getting engaged, sorting out insurance definitely isn’t the most exciting task. While it's not super sexy, it's highly recommended. Most jewelry experts suggest taking out a policy with a jewelry insurance provider (and not extending your homeowner’s or renter’s insurance to cover it). Head to a jeweler or another certified professional and get an appraisal. Here’s more on [engagement ring insurance](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/reasons-to-insure-engagement-ring).\n\n## FAQs about getting engaged and post-proposal to dos\n \n\n### What does it mean to be engaged?\nJust engaged? That means you and your partner have decided to get married and are planning your future together. Being engaged is more than just wearing a ring. It's an exciting and romantic phase of your relationship. However, it also comes with some responsibilities and challenges as you grow together.\n\n### What to do after getting engaged?\nFirst of all, remember to celebrate! Next on the list comes telling your family and friends. Then, start thinking about wedding dates, share your good news on social media (optional), and arrange an engagement party and/or photo shoot. For now, don't worry about the guest list or wedding attire.\n\n### How do we announce our engagement?\nHow you announce your engagement is completely up to you and your partner. Most couples like to tell their immediate family and friends face to face before announcing their good news on social media. Others will share the news through phone calls, TikTok, or traditional paper announcements.\n\n### How to start planning a wedding?\nThe first thing you'll need for wedding planning is a [wedding checklist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist) and a budget. You may want to create a wedding Google Drive and email to keep everything organized. Or you can use free budgeting and checklist tools from wedding planning sites like Zola. Then you can start on the finer details: where, when, what you'll wear, and who will take part.\n\n## Final Thoughts\n\nOnce you’ve checked these boxes, you’ll be ready to go all in on wedding planning. Buckle up because it can (read: probably will) get hectic. Just remember to take a pause every now and then to enjoy being engaged.\n\nHere at Zola, we have everything you need to make wedding planning as seamless (but exciting) as possible. Even if you don’t publish it yet, you can start working on your [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website) and making your wishlist on your [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) right away. Zola can help you every step along the way from proposal to your new life together as a married couple. 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Get inspired by these romantic and unique ways to pop the question in the privacy and comfort of your own space.","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2023-12-27T00:00-05:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5b6xgsAcvm9PClnkcoqpbm/7086d259cf5eb8a1fa25b524aa6cdfa1/GettyImages-1498350039.jpg","altText":"Just engaged same sex couple at home"},"heroCredit":"Getty Images","tldr":"## Inside this article\n\n- Simple proposal ideas at home\n- Proposal ideas at home with family\n- Romantic proposal ideas at home\n- Unique proposal ideas at home\n- How to plan a proposal at home\n","body":"There are many ways to ask your partner to marry you. For couples that value a more intimate setting, it’s completely normal to pop the question in the comfort of your own home. After all, a proposal should take place in a setting that holds meaning, and your home is filled with memories and relationship milestones. Proposing at home also lets you savor the once-in-a-lifetime moment without distractions. \n\nWhether you prefer a simple proposal or an activity that requires more planning, there are countless ways to make it uniquely special. Read through our comprehensive list of the best proposal ideas at home, from the classic breakfast in bed to a creative scavenger hunt. Once you find one that inspires you, you can focus on planning your dream proposal (check out our planning tips at the bottom of this article).\n\n## Simple proposal ideas at home \n\nReady to plan something low key? If you want to propose without all the fuss, check out these simple proposal ideas that are easy as pie.\n\n### 1. Make a home-cooked meal\n\n![Stocksy txp05f31680VSp300 Large 4393583](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/M61DW5GeWvu5fk28aEm4F/6ff9b06201a5df87012dcbd2edecf6bd/Stocksy_txp05f31680VSp300_Large_4393583.jpg)\n\nPreparing a home-cooked meal is a thoughtful at-home proposal idea. Cook a dish that invokes a feeling of warmth and nostalgia (like your first date meal or their favorite cuisine). Turn up the romance with a candle-lit dinner and a tailored playlist for an unforgettable night.\n\n### 2. Serve breakfast in bed\n\nBegin their morning with a sweet surprise — pancakes or french toast that spells out \"Marry Me” in bed. You can also serve freshly brewed coffee in a mug etched with your proposal or scatter love notes on the breakfast tray about why you want to be with them.\n\n### 3. Host a backyard picnic\nEntice your nature lover with a cozy backyard picnic outdoors. Before the sun sets, place a blanket on the grass and arrange their favorite snacks alongside a basket of flowers. Use the warm golden hour light as a dreamy backdrop for your proposal photos.\n\n### 4. Use your furry friend\n\n![Happy couple holding French bulldog](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7rBt8Y8KlSvV4NPn9xrYS5/f0e412430395f6db20559bc20aa1a85d/Stocksy_txpcc0a0e480Hn200_Large_3111038.jpg)\nIncorporating your pet into your engagement proposal at home can make it even more memorable. You can dress them in a cute outfit or attach a sign or collar with the ring. Or, you can train your pet to bring the ring box to you to really impress your partner.\n\nNeed help deciding on a ring? See our article [Moissanite vs Diamond](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/moissanite-vs-diamond) to learn the pros and cons of each.\n\n### 5. Make a music playlist\n\nCreate a personalized music playlist with tracks that reflect the different stages of your relationship. Begin with tunes that resonate with your early days and finish with ones that signify your love today. Turn on the playlist during a romantic dinner or when you’re simply lying together in bed. \n\n### 6. Play a board game\n\nLevel up your proposal with a board game night. Choose an existing game that you both love or make up your own game from scratch if you’re up for it. You can even customize cards or game elements with romantic messages. \n\n### 7. Write a sentimental letter\n\nPull out a pen and paper and craft a proposal letter they’ll never forget. Expressing your emotions on paper with your intent to marry them is an at-home proposal idea that’s meaningful and requires minimal planning. They can also save the letter and cherish it as a keepsake for years to come.\n\n### 8. Place a note in a fortune cookie\n\nIf you steam a fortune cookie for around five to ten minutes, it becomes soft and easy to open. Gently use tongs to pull out the old fortune and replace it with a small note containing your proposal. Fold the cookie back into its original form and allow it to cool and harden, then voilà!\n\nCheck out more [simple proposal ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/12-no-fuss-proposal-ideas-for-the-low-maintenance-couple) here.\n\n## Proposal ideas at home with family \n\nProposing to your SO surrounded by loved ones will create lasting memories for the entire family. If family presence matters, explore these home proposal ideas where the whole crew can take part.\n\n### 9. Host a dinner party\n\n![pexels-nicole-michalou-5775062](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1XAQO1ADtLDxeSgdGmOdxT/a87fd09515a80d6c715c58499bc77ef7/pexels-nicole-michalou-5775062.jpg)\n\nHost a family dinner party, subtly centering it around your loved one. Prepare their favorite dishes, adorn the table with flowers, and involve the family in some way. Choose the ideal moment for your heartfelt proposal, such as after a shared family activity or when the mood feels just right.\n\n### 10. Propose during a holiday\n\n![pexels-gustavo-fring-6699444](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5Ws6KgNxN0FyoJReQAvWM1/42ebc7b7bb6a720ff1641d99360f3331/pexels-gustavo-fring-6699444.jpg)\n\nFrom Thanksgiving to Valentine's Day, the holidays create a joyous backdrop for proposals amidst the festivities. Gift-wrapping your engagement ring, creating a custom Christmas ornament, or asking for their hand when the clock strikes midnight on New Years are just a few heartfelt Holiday options.\n\nWondering if you should pop the question somewhere else? See our article on [the best places to propose](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-best-places-to-propose) to get some ideas.\n\n### 11. Organize a family photo shoot\n\nHire a photographer and host a family photo shoot in the comfort of your backyard. Coordinate outfits, incorporate fun props, and at the perfect moment, propose. Whether you want to keep it a secret from your family or let them know beforehand, have the photographer capture the genuine reactions of your partner and loved ones. \n\n### 12. Create a video montage \n\nWant to recognize the importance of your families while still keeping the proposal private? Have them create a 20 to 30-second video expressing their love for you as a couple. This way, your family gets to be part of the experience, but you can still cherish the private moment alone as a couple.\n\n### 13. Enjoy backyard bonfire and s'mores\n\nWhen evening falls, gather around the bonfire with family and friends. Set up a cozy scene with blankets, camping chairs, and all the s’mores essentials (graham crackers, marshmallows, and chocolate). After popping the question, enjoy eating ooey-gooey s'mores around the warmth of the fire.\n\n### 14. Create a trivia game\n\nConsider a personalized trivia game for a creative proposal idea at home. Add questions related to your relationship, like milestones and memorable dates. Divide the questions into categories and split your family into teams. Conclude the game with a special question that includes your proposal.\n\n### 15. Compile a family cookbook\n\n![NFP-2018-proof-7-final-English-and-Spanish-2-880x453](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/171plGpiy4lNRJo0WTJJHh/fb41996ae091f5bc316ba071c48223d2/NFP-2018-proof-7-final-English-and-Spanish-2-880x453.jpg)\n\nCreate a heartwarming family cookbook by gathering recipes and anecdotes from your family members. At the end of the book, include a unique “Recipe for Forever” page that will contain the proposal. Print the recipe book and present it to them at a family gathering.\n\n## Romantic proposal ideas at home \n\nGet ready to turn on the charm. These romantic proposal ideas at home call for a heartfelt engagement proposal where affection is at the forefront. \n\n### 16. Make a candlelit dinner\n\nFor a [classic marriage proposal idea](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/classic-marriage-proposal-ideas), cook or order their favorite meal surrounded by the soft glow of candles. Set an elegant tablescape and add fresh flower petals to the table for extra romance. Place the ring on a dessert tray to symbolize the sweetness they bring into your life.\n\n### 17. Spell it out with rose petals\n\nChoose a room or area in your home where you'd like to propose. With the rose petals, spell out “Marry Me” or another sentimental saying surrounded by fairy lights. Blindfold them and lead them to the area where the proposal is, then reveal the surprise. \n\n### 18. Stroll under the stars\n\nOn a clear night, take your SO on a moonlit stroll around the neighborhood. Seize the perfect moment to tell your loved one how much they mean to you, then ask them to be your forever partner under the twinkling stars.\n\n### 19. Make a proposal book\n\nCompile a personalized proposal book complete with photos, memories, messages, and the reasons why you want to spend your life together. You can have it ready for them to open or [you can create a surprise setup](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-pull-off-a-surprise-proposal) where your spouse-to-be discovers it somewhere in the home. \n\n### 20. Have a spa day\n\nTreat your future spouse to a relaxing spa day filled with soothing face masks, lotions, and scrubs. Give each other oil-infused massages with calming tunes in the background, then pop the question when they feel the most Zen.\n\n### 21. Surprise them with a slow dance\n\n![Stocksy txp2fd4b7c3E0m200 Large 1723171](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4CQfA1KjVxpBLB0mqwfIQJ/7cfe7db5b343157908117edcc44eb766/Stocksy_txp2fd4b7c3E0m200_Large_1723171.jpg)\n\nTurn on a special tune and surprise them with an impromptu slow dance. Whether you pull them into a dance in the refrigerator light (thank you Taylor Swift) or while you’re simply hanging out, they’ll appreciate this intimate proposal idea that involves just the two of you.\n\n### 22. Do a poetry reading\n\nWriting a poem is one of the most romantic at-home proposal ideas for your partner. Within the verses, reflect on your relationship and write about how much they mean to you. Rehearse reciting the poem, then when the time is right, present the poem amidst the backdrop of candles, rose petals, and instrumental music.\n\n### 23. Perform an original song\n\nIf music is your love language, convey your feelings for your SO with an original melody. Use your relationship as an inspiration for the lyrics. Play the song for your partner at home for a memorable performance that’ll pull on their heartstrings. \n\n### 24. Snuggle by the fire\n\nCreate a cozy proposal by the fireplace. Arrange a blanket and cushions and pour a celebratory glass of champagne or red wine. Snuggle together by the fire's warmth and invite them to spend a lifetime with you.\n\n## Unique proposal ideas at home \n\nProposing at home gives you the chance to really get creative. Any of these unique proposal ideas are guaranteed to leave a lasting impression on your SO.\n\n### 25. Arrange an at-home wine tasting\n![Stocksy txp203fe3d1l3o200 Large 3189709](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7lSHGCJq0F9ihkBenaS6qh/ae8f2f67b1e3e3905e1eff07f8c8a34d/Stocksy_txp203fe3d1l3o200_Large_3189709.jpg)\n\nTransform your home into a vineyard. Choose a selection of wines and arrange a table with wine glasses, tasting notes, and palate cleansers. Complement the wine with cheeses, chocolates, and fruits. Attach the ring to a wine bottle or place it in a custom wine glass designed for them.\n\n### 26. Participate in a social media challenge\n\nPlay around with TikTok trends and participate in a social media challenge. While you’re recording the video, [get down on your left knee](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/which-knee-should-you-propose-on) and capture their surprised reaction. Post the video online or simply share it with friends or family when announcing the news.\n\n### 27. Organize a scavenger hunt\n\nFor a fun and creative proposal idea at home, try organizing a scavenger hunt. Brainstorm a series of riddles, clues, or surprises, then choose multiple rooms in the house (or even outside) to hide them. The clues could center around the things you and your partner love and special moments you’ve shared.\n\n### 28. Plan a painting session\n\nFor those with an artistic edge, consider proposing during a couple’s painting session at home. Choose a painting theme that holds significance in your relationship, like a scene from a date or a place that you both love. Infuse a meaningful message within the artwork to seamlessly integrate the proposal into the session.\n\n### 29. Build a DIY fort\n\nChannel your inner child and recreate a whimsical DIY fort with blankets, pillows, and cushions. Cover the structure in fairy lights and decorate the inside with photos and mementos from your time together. This unique proposal will make them feel like a kid all over again.\n\nSee more [unique proposal ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/proposal-ideas) here.\n\n## How to plan a proposal at home \n\n![pexels-andres-ayrton-6578957](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7FcDmNdXURjSPjH9wL6JwM/fce2293a0b21973d0764e9b04d55e0ef/pexels-andres-ayrton-6578957.jpg)\n\nWe understand that proposing, regardless of the location, can be nerve-wracking. Here are a few steps to make your proposal at home go as smoothly as possible. \n\n### Consider your partner’s interests and likes\n\nStart by considering your partner’s interests and likes. Ask yourself, \"What brings them joy and makes them feel special?” Whether they enjoy nature and outdoor activities or prefer cozy weekends indoors with a board game, knowing what makes them happy is key.\n\nIf you’re struggling for ideas, think about what makes your relationship unique. Do you have a shared passion? Is there an activity at home that you love to do together? Ultimately, you know your partner better than anyone else, and the thought and effort you put into the proposal will shine through.\n\nIf you still need to get the ring, check out our guide on [How to Finance an Engagement Ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-finance-an-engagement-ring).\n\n### Take time to plan your idea\n\nConsider a variety of marriage proposal ideas before settling on the one. Once you have your idea, set aside time to craft your plan. Even the simplest of proposals require planning, from picking up the ingredients for a candlelit dinner to meticulously planning a multi-step scavenger hunt.\n\nIf you’re involving other people in the proposal, such as family or friends, maintain constant communication with them, especially if plans change. The last thing you want is for someone to accidentally ruin the surprise.\n\nSpeaking of planning, wondering if you need to get insurance on the ring? Read our full guide to [Engagement Ring Insurance](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/reasons-to-insure-engagement-ring) to help you decide.\n\n### Have a backup plan\n\nLife is unpredictable. Despite thorough planning, unforeseen circumstances, like changes in the weather, can occur in an instant. That’s why it’s always a good idea to have a backup plan. Having an alternative proposal option not only provides peace of mind but also helps alleviate stress leading up to the moment.\n\n### Hire local businesses\n\n![Stocksy txp47f2cd6eWmj300 OriginalDelivery 1221872](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/v8N4r7BSpaYEfofrRx7QI/c74f9b24dff52846ef7fc5eec228160e/Stocksy_txp47f2cd6eWmj300_OriginalDelivery_1221872.jpg)\n\nConsider involving local businesses in your proposal plans. Enlist the help of a local florist to embellish the space with exquisite blooms or have a fresh bouquet delivered to complement your proposal. You might even coordinate the delivery of freshly baked desserts from a nearby bakery to celebrate afterward. Or maybe you want to find the perfect photographer to [capture the moment](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-take-authentic-engagement-photos).\n\nCheck out [Zola’s wedding vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors) to find local shops in your area that can help you with your home engagement proposal. \n\n### Incorporate family members\n\nIf they love spending quality time with their family and have expressed a desire for their presence, consider bringing in loved ones by hosting a dinner party or a family photo session. Or, you can recruit family members to help you execute your proposal vision. For example, a family member could entertain your partner while you decorate the space.\n\n### Enjoy the moment\n\nPlanning a proposal can be stressful, especially leading up to their answer, but remember that the effort and thought you put into the experience are part of what makes it so special for your spouse-to-be. When the proposal finally comes, take a deep breath and stay present. After the proposal, plan a small celebration with family and friends or relish the moment privately between the two of you.\n\nWhen you’re ready to start planning the wedding, Zola has everything you need to plan the wedding you want. [Sign up](https://www.zola.com/) today and jump in whenever you’re ready. Let us know how the proposal goes! We know you’ll be great.\n","tag":"Inspiration","updatedAt":"2024-02-07T17:58:43.564Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Proposals","slug":"proposals"},"slug":"engagement-captions-for-social-media","title":"100+ Best Engagement Captions for Pics on Social Media in 2024","excerpt":"Get inspired with some unique, funny, cute, and celeb-inspired engagement captions for your announcement on social media. We’re so excited for you!","author":"Charlotte Grainger","publishedAt":"2023-12-27T00:00-05:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7iBCzbGcyI27tUsdPz2xyt/45bb452923762bacabfd0f7e8e504e47/Stocksy_txp903e93f442c300_Medium_4098385.jpg","altText":"Same sex couple smiling and looking at phone."},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","tldr":"## Inside this article \n\n- Funny engagement captions\n- Unique engagement captions\n- Romantic and cute engagement captions\n- Non-cheesy engagement captions\n- Simple engagement captions\n- Celebrity engagement announcements\n- Engagement quotes \n","body":"It’s official! You’re getting married. Allow yourself a moment to bask in the sheer thrill of being newly engaged. This is a real milestone that you’ll remember for the rest of your life. You’re over the top excited, and now it’s time to let people in on the secret. \n\nWhile you may want to tell your closest friends and family in person, reaching out to everyone you know IRL is time intensive. Luckily, social media can do the hard work for you. \n\nSharing your announcement on Instagram or Facebook is a quick way to get the news out there. However, deciding what to write as your [caption](https://www.tiktok.com/@zola/video/7315469468321402158) can be a challenge. \n\nNot to worry, we can help you find just the right words to share this major life update. Check out our guide featuring more than 100 engagement captions that may be right for you.\n\n## Funny engagement captions \n\n![Stocksy txpbf334545kKJ200 Large 1042712](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3KxaEg5DWxMNsXariKrdw/1f395041777578f97880cba2673bb219/Stocksy_txpbf334545kKJ200_Large_1042712.jpg)\n\nLooking for a cute engagement caption that will make your friends smile? Check out these funny engagement captions for inspiration for inspiration: \n\n- Feeling cute. Might get married later. ✨\n\n- Officially off the market!\n\n- TL;DR: We’re getting married. \n\n- “Engaged” definitely has a ring to it! 💍\n\n- Thank goodness we swiped right!\n\n- Liked it so we put a ring on it \n\n- Current mood: Engaged. \n\n- My horoscope didn’t see this one coming but I’m not complaining! \n\n- Changing my name, and I didn't even have to rob a bank.\n\n- Does this ring make me look engaged?\n\n- We understood the assignment. 💒\n\n- Felt engaged. Won’t delete later.\n\n- BRB… Saying “yes” to the love of my life!\n\n- It’s official. I’m marriage material! \n\n- Booked for the rest of our lives.\n\n- Well, I guess we’re doing this now! \n\n- My partner proposed and all I got was this beautiful ring 💍\n\n- Best. Friday. Night. Ever. #Engaged \n\n- The One Where We Got Engaged.\n\n- I’ve got 99 problems, but getting engaged ain’t one. \n\n- Yes. Yep. Obviously. Definitely. Hell yeah! \n\n- Let the wedding planning begin! #WeGotEngaged\n\n- So, we did a thing… \n\n- Pending: Our wedding.\n\n- We’re planning to take a little walk soon… down the aisle. \n\n__Expert advice:__ Before you start planning your [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party), you need to spread the word. Sharing the big news should be at the top of [your to do list](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/to-dos-after-you-get-engaged). \n\n## Romantic and cute engagement captions \n\n![Stocksy txp44d3bb788ZT200 OriginalDelivery 1511211 edit](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6yGWdOrKJtIKg4jfWo2AWk/849eda001c88c602bd2e8d8d364ecbc5/Stocksy_txp44d3bb788ZT200_OriginalDelivery_1511211_edit.jpg)\n\nChances are, you’re feeling all mushy right now. We don’t blame you. If you want to ramp up the romance, try these cute engagement captions on for size: \n\n- Forever doesn’t sound so scary with you by my side.\n\n- Starting the next chapter of our love story. The first word? “Yes.”\n\n- My whole heart for my whole life.\n\n- The moment we met, I knew that you were the one. \n\n- Two souls, one heart. \n\n- Through thick and thin, love will win.\n\n- You already had my heart, now you have my answer: Yes!\n\n- We said “yes” to happily ever after.\n\n- I love you to the moon and back, so of course I said “YES”. \n\n- You are my person — today, tomorrow, forever.\n\n- The first day of the rest of our lives. \n\n- When we say “yes,” we mean it forever.\n\n- We’re taking a one-way ticket to happiness. \n\n- Here’s to my love, my heart, and my home. #Forever\n\n- Love stories don’t get much more perfect than ours. \n\n- Forever starts today.\n\n- We decided it’s about time to make things official. \n\n- Legally, my forever life partner.\n\n- Life update: We got engaged.\n\n- We’re in it for the long haul. ✈️ #FlyingToCloud9\n\n- Keep calm and get engaged. \n\n- From “me” to “we” — let’s start our journey!\n\n- Poor quality manicure, high-quality fiancé 💅\n\n- Our lives just got a little more sparkly.\n\n__Expert advice__: You’re ready to tell the world you’re getting married! But wait, there’s an art to crafting the [perfect engagement announcement](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-announce-your-engagement) to post on social media.\n\n## Non-cheesy engagement captions \n\n![s-a-r-a-h-s-h-a-r-p-973485-unsplash](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4SKVljUPqRdlp2oYoz4elO/b2ce2fdef22594b37bbeecc672b53b64/s-a-r-a-h-s-h-a-r-p-973485-unsplash.jpg)\n\nWorried that your post will sound too cheesy? Don’t panic — there are plenty of non-cheesy engagement captions you can use. Check out these examples: \n\n- And just like that, we’re getting married. \n\n- Looks like we’re in this for the long-term. \n\n- Deleting our dating apps forever.\n\n- Here’s to forever, together! 🥂\n\n- Okay, let’s do this! \n\n- Important announcement: We’re getting married! \n\n- Forever sounds good to us.\n\n- Obligatory engagement post.\n\n- We decided it was about time to do this. \n\n- Introducing: My person, for life. \n\n- Here’s to forever and always. \n\n__Expert advice__: Decide on your announcement vibe ahead of time. You might want a fancy caption, something simple, or an all-out romantic declaration.\n\n## Simple engagement captions \n\n![parker-whitson-592843-unsplash](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4z0jmfAW2B0ILiRky4VhRX/307dfdfcd942cf0beff5d17ee52943a5/parker-whitson-592843-unsplash.jpg)\n\nWhy not keep things simple? Let's take a look at some short and sweet engagement captions you can use on your announcement post:\n\n- The easiest “Yes” I ever said. \n\n- No caption needed: We’re doing this. \n\n- #Engaged \n\n- We’re getting married! \n\n- Found my forever person. ❤️\n\n- I’m marrying my best friend. \n\n- We decided on forever.\n\n- Engaged? Check! \n\n- When date night turns into a proposal… #GettingMarried\n\n- Marriage, here we come.\n\n- Bring on married life — we can’t wait.\n\n- Ready for our new beginning!\n\n- Dear reader, we did it. We got engaged. \n\nReady to start planning your wedding? Get organized with the [Ultimate Wedding Planning Checklist and Timeline](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist).\n\n## Engagement quotes from songs, books, and movies \n\n![ethan-robertson-gWzGqPw2ODY-unsplash](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/19AokWatRq6CTODVxwfnUH/3d716a1d7b0d1570e818f11bec6907a9/ethan-robertson-gWzGqPw2ODY-unsplash.jpg)\n\nMusic, film, art, and literature… They are all a goldmine when it comes to beautiful quotations. If you can’t find the words to express your love story, why not borrow these?\n\n- \"If you're a bird, I'm a bird.\" — The Notebook\n\n- “It's a beautiful night, we're looking for something dumb to do.” — Bruno Mars\n\n- “If you look for it, I've got a sneaky feeling you'll find that love actually is all around.” — Love Actually \n\n- “I wanna love you, and treat you right. I wanna love you every day and every night.” — Bob Marley\n\n- “If you remember me, then I don't care if everyone else forgets.” — Haruki Murakami\n\n- \"When you’re a kid, you assume your parents are soulmates. My kids are gonna be right about that.\" — The Office\n\n- \"I would rather share one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone.\" — J. R. R. Tolkien\n\n- “Love is the longing for the half of ourselves we have lost.” — Milan Kundera\n\n- \"When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.\" — When Harry Met Sally\n\n- “Shine bright like a diamond.” — Rihanna \n\n- “But what can I make of love when we are all born at a different time and place and only meet through a trick of centuries and a chance three steps to the left? You.”― Charles Bukowski\n\n- \"I love you and I like you.\" — Parks and Recreation\n\n- \"We loved with a love that was more than a love.\" — Edgar Allan Poe\n\n- “All my love is yours, all my time is ours.” — George Ezra\n\n- “Whenever I’m alone with you, you make me feel like I’m at home again.” — The Cure\n\n- “I love you more and more every day if it’s even possible to love someone that much.” — Gossip Girl\n\n- Forever? Forever ever?” — Outkast\n\n- “Love you to the moon, and to Saturn” — Taylor Swift \n\n- “Let me share this whole new world with you.” — Aladdin\n\n- “Take my hand, take my whole life, too. For I can't help falling in love with you” — Elvis Presley\n\n- “Please be mine. Share my life. Stay with me. Be my wife.” — David Bowie\n\n- \"Some people are worth melting for.\" — Frozen\n\n- “Ever since time began, people have recognized their true love by the light in their eyes.” – Paulo Coelho\n\n- “Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps, fences, penetrates walls, to arrive at its destination full of hope.” —Maya Angelou\n\n## Unique engagement captions \n\n![Stocksy txpaad8bf52JEX200 Large 1360939](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7s4wvzlFnFgUExqjRaU47c/1dbadec1f25e76c9a787bcc36775d1a1/Stocksy_txpaad8bf52JEX200_Large_1360939.jpg)\n\nLooking for engagement captions that stand out from the crowd? You can make your engagement caption more unique by focusing on elements of your own story (how you met, when you knew you wanted to get married, or an activity you share together.)\n\nHere are some examples, but you’ll want to write your own from scratch:\n\n- It all started on Mt. Katahdin!\n\n- We paddled our way to a marriage license!\n\n- We said yes in Atlantic City and the rest is history.\n\n- She’s definitely my favorite lawyer.\n\nWondering what to do after the proposal, besides announcing your engagement? Check out or article [Just Engaged, Next Steps](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/to-dos-after-you-get-engaged). \n\n## Celebrity engagement announcements \n\n![ethan-haddox-jvUZkoh4Hhw-unsplash](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7lohQyyQMMSEGlVMfXuabz/3099c7654658bf621089be34be16ae0a/ethan-haddox-jvUZkoh4Hhw-unsplash.jpg)\n\nLooking for some inspiration from the stars? Here are some of the most popular celebrity engagement announcements: \n\n- “Don’t mind if I do” – [Kat Dennings](https://www.instagram.com/p/CO0Y2LSnNXy/?utm_source=ig_embed&ig_rid=699f44a1-d114-4dbb-a03b-a40e49ab1506)\n\n- “I’ve been waiting my lifetime for you and I can’t wait to spend our lifetime together.” — [Lily Collins](https://www.instagram.com/p/CFkMyNVpOcI/?utm_source=ig_embed&ig_rid=77869eb5-5cb2-4445-bbaf-fe3eabfa231c)\n\n- “Ummmm so this happened....#Engaged #Dubai #Happiness” — [Eva Longoria](https://www.instagram.com/p/_PNAE3iGpx/)\n\n- “He gave me his heart on Valentine's Day, and I said YES!” — [Lady Gaga](https://www.instagram.com/p/zLTE0fJFNd/)\n\n- “When you find your soulmate, you don’t just know it. You feel it.” — [Paris Hilton](https://www.instagram.com/p/CLZYmbZBN8e/?hl=en)\n\n- “I love you more than I have words to express. You’re my best friend and my soulmate. I can’t wait for forever together. Yes a million times over. 💍” —[Karlie Kloss](https://www.instagram.com/p/BlnwAWIH5Y6/?utm_source=ig_embed&ig_rid=8c23cb1c-06de-4102-bbbf-af07ccdbfeaf)\n\n- “Got myself a fiancé just before new year. We are very happy and in love, and our cats are chuffed as well xx” — [Ed Shearan](https://www.instagram.com/p/BeLG5CBlLYw/)\n\n- “Committed to spending my life getting to know every single part of you loving you patiently and kindly.” — [Justin Bieber](https://www.instagram.com/p/BlBvw2_jBKp/?utm_source=ig_embed&ig_rid=fde817aa-5cc5-44e4-8dc7-54462bf1cb5a)\n\n- “I asked. She said yes!!!” — [Skylar Astin](https://www.instagram.com/p/BADpx4AgpPM/)\n\nOur ultimate list of captions for engagement pictures is certain to give you the inspiration that you need to craft your own caption. Now that you’re officially engaged, it’s time to start planning your wedding! To get started, [sign up with Zola](https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard/wedding-planning) for access to free planning tools, support and advice for all the days along the way.","tag":"Inspiration","updatedAt":"2024-02-07T17:57:23.783Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Proposals","slug":"proposals"},"slug":"what-are-the-best-places-to-propose","title":"What Are the Best Places to Propose?","excerpt":"Deciding where to propose is a big deal—you want it to be special, memorable, and above all, the perfect start to your engagement. If you’re looking for the best places to propose, here are the winners, all of which you can pull off anywhere you live. ","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-12-30T19:41:43.435Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/buINc29AQuafZB0BE2eOb/a5198a179972e5690f0980bec84692fd/Hero_EtherealCoastalRomanceStyledShoot_ArleneJacobsPhotography__1_.jpg","altText":"Best Places to Propose"},"heroCredit":"Arlene Jacobs Photography","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- You can propose at the location of your very first date or take a trip to the most breathtaking view in town (bonus points if you manage to get some photos of the surprise proposal as well). \n- Incorporate your favorite hobby—like hiking, kayaking, or hitting the movie theater—for a uniquely “you” proposal.\n- If home is where the heart is, a proposal at your own home might be the perfect way to ask the most important question. \n","body":"There are a lot of components to consider when it comes to pulling off the perfect proposal. While the ring, the speech, and the day are important, figuring out where you’re going to propose is the glue that holds it all together. If you’re scratching your head wondering what the best places to propose are, we’ve got you covered with the[ top marriage proposal ideas.](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/classic-marriage-proposal-ideas)\n\n## Where You Had Your First Date\nThere’s a good chance your first date was one of the most important days of your life—so much so you probably still celebrate that exact day. With this in mind, the location of your first date is one of the best spots for a romantic proposal. Consider keeping where you’re going a secret so as not to ruin the surprise, but once you get there, remind them how special the date was and how it brought you to where you are today. \n\n## The Best View in Your Town\n![Zola: What Are the Best Places to Propose?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6qZV2TzCxPWpZV1bbV2mNl/fda8b2fe224708ad81de0195e96c671b/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\nWhether it’s a dock overlooking a marina, a hilltop with vast city vistas, or something in between, chances are there’s a spot or two your city is known for when it comes to breathtaking scenery. Consider hiring a photographer or having someone snap a few shots as you get down on your knee. It’s important to note, however, that if your partner isn’t a fan of long hikes, eliminate that option on your list, no matter how gorgeous the view. \n\n## Your Favorite Bar/Restaurant\nIf you’re looking to keep things a total surprise, visiting your favorite restaurant or bar as a couple is a great way to keep your SO on his or her toes. It doesn’t matter if it’s a small pub on the corner that you can walk to or a local bistro with sparkling market lights on the other side of town. Not only will your almost fiance head into the date without any notion that a proposal is on the horizon, but it will make your special proposal spot even more memorable. Consider asking the staff to do something special, like the print out a unique menu or decorate an area, or ask friends and family to stop by after the “yes.” \n\n## A Place That Defines Your Relationship\nDo you have a joint passion for hiking? Kayaking? Seeing new movies at your local theater? Maybe you just like to take a Sunday stroll along the water after a full brunch of pancakes and mimosas. If you have a joint hobby or traditional date that you both love, this could be a great option to incorporate in your romantic proposal. Consider ways to make your usual date a little different (like setting up photos and flowers at the hiking site or creating a fake movie trailer and asking the theater to play it) to amp up the romance. \n\n## Where You First Met\nMaybe you met in freshman year English class at your university or you bumped into each other at the cereal aisle of your local gourmet market. Either way, returning to the exact spot where your eyes first met is a sweet idea. Even if it’s not a place you wouldn’t “traditionally” think would be a spot to propose, the history of the spot makes it one of the most romantic choices possible. Think of ways to make this perfect spot extra special—like incorporating candles, lights, or framed photographs, and be sure to get permission if it’s at a business or on private property. \n\n![Zola: What Are the Best Places to Propose?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4wHtVUYCGC1YBaST97t8bW/12f9493e430dab57c551d89175c1a4f6/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Where You First Said “I Love You”\nThe first “I love you” is a big deal in a relationship, just like your proposal. Chances are, this was a turning point in your bond, so what better way to ask one of the most important questions of your life than at the spot where you embarked on the next chapter of your relationship? Mention in your marriage proposal how monumental that special moment was for your lives and where you hope this next adventure takes you. If you want to make it extra special, consider recreating the date leading up to the “I love you” or adding things like candles, lights, or rose petals to mark the proposal spot and make it magical. \n\n## Where They Grew Up\nIf your SO is close with their family (and you can’t imagine the proposal without them there), popping the question at their childhood home or parents’ house is a sweet way to honor the joy of tying two families together. After getting permission from his or her family, proposing where they grew up is one of the sweetest ways to get engaged. Consider asking the family to set up something special and make it clear whether you want them there during the actual marriage proposal or if you’d prefer to keep the moment private and celebrate together right after. \n\n### Your Own Home\nNo place honors your bond quite like your very own home. This is where you laugh together, cry together, and foster the relationship you have to this day. If the home is the heart of your link, consider decking it out for an unforgettable proposal. Ask their friends to steal them for the day, and while they’re gone, decorate with flowers, candles, Christmas lights, and photos of your relationship at different stages. Be sure to set up your phone to record the whole thing and have a bottle of Champagne chilling in the fridge to open after the big “yes!”\n\nThe most important component when selecting the perfect place to propose is that it rings true to your relationship. While a stunning backdrop might be the perfect proposal location for some, others might consider a romantic getaway to be the best proposal idea. So, whether it’s a romantic dinner at your favorite restaurant, the spot of your first date, or in the living room of your own home, as long as it feels like “you,” it will be a special moment you’ll treasure forever. \n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Finding the person you spend forever with is no easy task. There are signs to look out for to know if someone is your soulmate. Learn more here.","title":"How Do You Know You’ve Found “The One“?","slug":"how-do-you-know-youve-found-the-one","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1qEbZGmQOEVaFZN6Y5nzWM/6c3650f50147658c78f789ed88111e8a/Hero_ModernFallElopementatFreeman-s_AngelicaRadwayPhotography.jpg","altText":"Finding the one to marry"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Thinking of popping the question? Arrange the perfect proposal for your partner with these creative ideas. 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Read on for more about vacation proposal ideas","author":"Rachel Varina","publishedAt":"2020-12-30T20:59:40.971Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4zVGYam02Il67jpLMrdvol/eb5d8e156621da08839c036b443bec82/Hero_RomanticRainforest-InspiredStyledShoot_Angie_Marko.jpg","altText":"How to Propose on Vacation"},"heroCredit":"Angie & Marko","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- Pick a destination that you’ll both love—whether it’s a new spot or a repeat—and don’t feel like you have to select a “classically romantic” spot. \n- When making reservations, make your plans known in case sweet extras can be added to elevate the proposal or celebratory trip. \n- If possible, propose early in your trip so that you have the rest of the time to celebrate your new engagement stress-free.","body":"For many, a vacation proposal is the mecca of all things luxury and romance. Whether it’s on the beach in Mexico, under the Eiffel Tower in Paris, or just in a small town that you fell in love with early on in your relationship, a trip-turned-engagement is a great way to ask the question—and celebrate after! \n\nWhile there are a few more components to consider when proposing outside your hometown, we’re breaking it all down so that you can head to the airport feeling confident in your plans. Here’s how to propose on vacation, in style and feeling stress-free, for a trip that you’ll cherish for a lifetime. \n\n## Plan Your Destination Accordingly \nThe first step toward planning a vacation proposal is to pick a destination. Whether you’re selecting a spot as a couple (and the proposal is just an added bonus) or the whole trip is a surprise, one of the biggest components is choosing a destination that you’ll both love. Don’t feel pigeon-holed in selecting a “classically romantic” locale such as Paris or Hawaii. \n\nInstead, plan your trip to a spot that you’ve both always wanted to go to, or a place you loved and want to revisit without too much stress on whether or not it’s deemed “romantic” by society. All that matters is that it’s a place you both are (or will be) majorly excited about, and that it's safe (so you feel comfortable traveling with a ring and presenting it to your SO). \n\n![5 Unique Ways to Propose](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4luk9Ycy1oLr5SlpIgZNYG/715fced47460cc16f8a372cb20b78a06/inline_unsplash.jpg)*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Pack the Ring Right\nAs you’re getting ready for your trip, take extra care when packing the ring. First, make sure to pack it in your carry-on, as opposed to a checked bag. Almost everyone has dealt with a lost bag (which sometimes takes weeks to show up), and if your trip is centered around a proposal, it would be a big bummer to be waiting on the ring. While you might be afraid of a TSA agent searching your carry-on and ruining the surprise, there are a few precautions that you can take to avoid it.\n\nFirst, pack the ring in either a watch box, shaving box, or a different container that doesn’t shout “something exciting is in here” in case your SO rummages through your bag for toothpaste or a sweater. Additionally, be sure to put the box in a compartment that you don’t need to access often (so you don’t accidentally knock it out). \n\nPrior to flying, remove liquids, gels, and anything that could look suspicious to avoid getting flagged for a more thorough check (which could result in them pulling out the ring and flashing it to your almost-fiancé). If your bag is selected for a more thorough check, request to undergo it in a private room with your SO waiting outside to avoid having to propose at the airport on the spot.\n\n## Make Sure That the Ring Is Insured \nYou don’t want to think about the ring getting lost, stolen, or losing a gem (especially *before* actually proposing), but being prepared ahead of time is better than scrambling after the fact. One of the first things most couples do after getting engaged (and after popping a bottle of bubbly) is insuring the ring, so it’s something you’ll have to check off the list eventually. Doing it before traveling will give you peace of mind, should anything happen before the special moment. Check with your jeweler or homeowners’ insurance about adding the ring to a current (or new) policy. \n\n## Tell Your Hotel/Lodging About Your Plans \nProposals are exciting, not just for those getting engaged but for everyone around them, so don’t be afraid to tell your plans as you’re making reservations. Chances are that your resort or hotel will have packages you can add on, or ideas to elevate the proposal (or celebratory trip afterward) even more. If you don’t want to shell out extra money, the odds are in your favor that they’ll at least hook you up with some flowers, Champagne, or breakfast in bed. Even for things such as excursions, dinners, or shows, let them know that this is your proposal trip if you’re a fan of extra surprises. \n\n## Have a Proposal Plan...and a Plan B\nPrior to traveling, make sure to have a plan in place as to where, exactly, you’d like to propose. While you might envision doing it at a popular tourist destination or on an action-packed excursion, it’s better to keep the actual proposal a little more lowkey. In crowded places, the chances of snagging a good spot (free from excessive noise or people pushing you to get a photo op) can be tricky, and if you’re on an excursion, you don’t want to risk losing or damaging the ring while swimming, hiking, or exploring. \n\nOnce you do have a spot in mind, consider coming up with one or two backup options in case the weather doesn’t permit, or you arrive and are underwhelmed by the original choice. This is a great way to utilize your hotel’s concierge or Airbnb host to see if they have additional ideas that are sure to “wow” your SO without running into snags such as too much tourist traffic. \n\n![Proposing on Vacation | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3wHBE4Y9Q3j75krQji2ACE/034036f44d5576936fe9aca68339499b/unsplash_inline_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Propose Early \nNo matter how calm and cool you think you are, there’s a good chance that your SO will be able to tell that you seem a little off going into the trip.\n\nNerves will be high and the pressure is on, so if you can avoid prolonging the proposal until the end of the trip, all the better. That way, you’ll get to share the beautiful moment together and have time to celebrate together (stress-free) before heading back home and celebrating with your family and friends. This gives you a little bubble of romantic vacation time to soak up the excitement of the proposal, just the two of you, before including others. If you do plan to wait until later in the trip, keep the ring locked in a safe back in your room while out and about so that you don’t have to worry about it while exploring on your vacay. \n\nSo, whether you propose in an ornate hotel room, on a sunset cruise, at a romantic dinner, or just on a stunning beach, a vacation engagement is one of the most fun ways to celebrate the next chapter in your relationship. As long as you have a plan (and a plan B), keep the ring safe, and pack smart, you’re in for a perfect proposal—and one of the most memorable trips of a lifetime. \n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"There are guides for almost every first, but there’s no manual on proposal etiquette. Our complete guide can help. 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","title":"13 Unique Beach Proposal Ideas for a Romantic Getaway","slug":"most-unique-beach-proposal-ideas","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5ieQt6XnsH30jIJSUZYMOe/683c087b922eccfc01aee8aa07587dc7/Hero_Bright_BohoCoastalStyledShoot_HeidiBeePhotography.jpg","altText":"Most Unique Beach Proposal Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Thinking of popping the question? Arrange the perfect proposal for your partner with these creative ideas. 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","title":"What Are the Best Places to Propose?","slug":"what-are-the-best-places-to-propose","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/buINc29AQuafZB0BE2eOb/a5198a179972e5690f0980bec84692fd/Hero_EtherealCoastalRomanceStyledShoot_ArleneJacobsPhotography__1_.jpg","altText":"Best Places to Propose"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:55:30.716Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Proposals","slug":"proposals"},"slug":"proposal-ideas","title":"50 Unique Marriage Proposal Ideas [+ Printables]","excerpt":"Thinking of popping the question? Arrange the perfect proposal for your partner with these creative ideas. From romantic to adventurous, there's one for you!","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2021-04-14T00:59:05.158Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6dR1PxiYWKzfOfBhHANhYv/cd70212d7dfbc320706b4488eed2dd13/proposal-ideas-2.jpg","altText":"proposal idea hero image of person holding engagement ring box"},"heroCredit":"Marko Klaric","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- Below, we've compiled a list of 50 proposal ideas for every type of couple.\n- Include your proposal in your favorite place or activity with our indoor, outdoor, and hobby proposals.\n- Those who want to share this moment with their loved ones will enjoy our pet-inclusive, and socially distanced marriage proposal ideas—plus, some bridesmaid proposals.\n- For some added excitement, consider our playful and holiday-involving wedding proposal ideas, as well as some additional ideas.","body":"While men were once the ones to propose in traditional settings, [we surveyed 1200+ recently engaged couples](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/addressing-the-stigma-around-women-proposing-to-men) and found that __85% of couples believe gender roles__ shouldn't limit who gets to propose. That’s why we’ve put together a list of 44 unique proposal ideas for all genders and types of couples. From romantic proposal ideas to trending, adventurous or imaginative ones, there’s plenty of inspiration to craft an experience that is sure to give the love of your life a proposal story they’ll never forget.\n\nLet’s take a look at X of the best proposal ideas to help you create a special moment you’ll remember for the rest of your life:\n\n## Indoor Proposal Ideas \n\n \n\nDoes your partner prefer [low-key](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/12-no-fuss-proposal-ideas-for-the-low-maintenance-couple) quality time together? They’ll love these intimate proposal ideas: \n\n### 1. Hire a Chef at Home\nOne of the most romantic ways to propose is over an amazing meal. But instead of dining out at a favorite restaurant, make your proposal more memorable with a __[date night dinner](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/12-fabulous-date-ideas-to-put-on-your-registry)__ at your place—complete with a hired chef. Set the stage by sending your partner a photo of the menu before their arrival. Have the chef prepare all the favorite foods your partner loves—including appetizer, entrée, and dessert. After finishing your entrées, have the chef bring out the dessert: the engagement ring. \n\n### 2. Create a Video\nIf you’re savvy with video editing, consider creating one. Compile different moments that you have spent together, such as snippets from your phone and social media. This can be random or a timeline from the time you both met to your most recent moments. Play it in your living room, followed by you proposing. \n\n### 3. Candlelight Home Surprise\nCreate a pathway in your house using rose petals, __[candlelights](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=candle)__,and romantic quotes. Once your partner enters, they will follow the dimly lit path of love quotes to the engagement ring—and you get to watch them light up more brightly than the candles!\n\n### 4. Breakfast-in-Bed Proposal\nTreat your partner to a delicious breakfast-in-bed. You can get creative by serving heart-shaped pancakes or strawberries as a symbol of your love. Bring in the dish on a meal tray with a love message hinting to your partner where you’ve placed the ring. \n\n### 5. Photo Booth Proposal\nPull your partner into a __[photo booth](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/diy-photo-booth)__ for some impromptu couple’s photos. Then, when they least expect it, put out the ring. This surprise moment in the photos can become a cherished keepsake (talk about a perfect selfie!) and fun way to share the news. \n\n## Outdoor Proposal Ideas\n\nIf your partner prefers being out and about, they’ll love these creative outdoor proposal ideas.\n\n### 6. Plan a Surprise Photoshoot\nSuggest that you and your partner hire a professional photographer to take fancy couples’ photos of you two in a beautiful location, like on the beach or at your favorite local park. Inform the photographer in advance that you plan to propose during the shoot. At a moment when the photographer distracts your partner’s attention, pull out the ring. Once they turn back to you, the photographer will capture the moment.\n\n### 7. Pop the Question on a Hike\nDoes your significant other love a good hike? Then this [simple proposal](https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/12-no-fuss-proposal-ideas-for-the-low-maintenance-couple&sa=D&source=docs&ust=1660343594332683&usg=AOvVaw2tnQkhlFGFL5j_HD4trRR7) idea is sure to be a great fit. Take them out on a hiking adventure in the mountains and propose to them with the beautiful backdrop of nature.\n\n### 8. Propose on a Boat Ride\nDo you live near the water? Enjoy a romantic boat ride for the day and propose while sailing. \n\n### 9. Spontaneous Weekend Getaway\nWhat better way to surprise your significant other than a spontaneous trip? Instruct your partner to pack their bags without revealing the destination. Slip the ring or a proposal note in their luggage for them to see once you all arrive and unpack.\n\n### 10. Take a Guided Tour\nTour a luxurious or historical site that your partner would enjoy, such as a famous winery. When the moment feels right, propose!\n\n## Proposal Ideas for Favorite Hobby\nIncorporating your proposal into your partner’s favorite pastime is a great way to catch them by surprise. Check out a few of our favorite hobby proposal ideas below. \n\n### 11. Take a Couple’s Paint Class\nPlan a fun couple’s paint class. You can check for art studios and restaurants that host paint nights for special occasions. During the session, paint your proposal question, making sure your canvas isn’t visible to your partner. Then, once the paint session ends, turn your canvas around to reveal your message.\n\n### 12. Fishing Surprise\nIf you or your partner enjoy fishing, spend a romantic afternoon by the lake. When your partner isn’t looking, place the engagement ring on your fishing hook. Call your partner over and say you’ve caught something big. It’ll be the “perfect catch.” \n\n### 13. Trip Down Memory Lane\nPut together a collection of treasured memories that you both share in a box. This can include items such as you and your partner’s favorite games, songs, photos, books, and snacks. Hide the ring box beneath the other items for your partner to discover. \n\n### 14. DIY Scrapbook\nRecreate the above idea as a scrapbook! Put together a decorative book full of you and your partner’s favorite things using photos, images, stickers, and written messages. Dedicate each page to a particular hobby or activity, such as your favorite vacation trip or music. Reserve the last page for the written proposal or the engagement ring taped to the page.\n\n### 15. Felt Letter Board Message\n![Proposal idea felt letter board message](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2ue0858WAjehtdd1Mv9jZX/7e5a1d7e9431655c624f872ee0a7ff4e/proposal-ideas-1.jpg)\nDoes your partner enjoy using felt letter boards? Rearrange the letters on it one day with a funny or romantic message hinting at your proposal.\n\n### 16. Bookmark Proposal\nIs your partner a bookworm? Sneak in this creative bookmark proposal in the book they’re currently reading. Your partner will never suspect it!\n\n![proposal idea bookmark](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3bFwRyT3wHLUYuQXGFsO5f/1934af60d82557a21261d8b86fbcb394/proposal-ideas-bookmark-mockup.jpg)\n\n $\"download$ \n\n## Proposal Ideas with Pets \n\nPets are family, too! Try these cute proposal ideas that involve your furry friends.\n\n### 17. “Marry Me?” Collar Sign\nHang an adorable proposal sign around your dog’s collar before your partner takes them out for a walk.\n\n### 18. Paw-print Proposal Cards\nCreate a thoughtful card with a hand-written message of your proposal. You can decorate the card with your cat or dog’s paw prints. You can use water-based, non-toxic paint that is pet-friendly, as well as non-toxic ink pads.\n\n### 19. “Fetch the Ring”\nIf your dog loves playing fetch, have him or her fetch the ring! Secure the ring onto an item that’s easy for the dog to bring, such as a frisbee or stuffed animal.\n\n## Playful Proposal Ideas\n\n \n\nShare some laughs and great memories with these playful proposal ideas.\n\n### 20. Bathroom Mirror Message\nUse lipstick or a dry erase marker to write your proposal on the bathroom mirror. This will be one trip to the bathroom your partner won’t forget!\n\n### 21. Ring-Pop Proposal\nDoes your partner have a sweet tooth? Pop the question using the tasty Ring-Pop candy. This could be a fun photo to share with your family and loved ones to announce the engagement.\n\n### 22. Game Night Proposal\nInsist that you and your partner host a game night with friends and family (who can also be in on the surprise). You can use a word game like Scrabble to spell out “will you marry me?” with the letters. For artsy games like Pictionary, you can draw a ring or a figure down on one knee. \n\n### 23. Make a Playlist\nCreate a playlist of all the favorite songs you and your partner share. Towards the end of the list, add in some romantic songs about love and marriage, such as __[Marry You](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dElRVQFqj-k)__ by Bruno Mars. Choose an evening where both of you can enjoy listening, like while cooking dinner. The end of the playlist can be the moment you pull out the ring. \n\n### 24. Scavenger Hunt Surprise\nIf you’re looking for a fun way to get engaged, consider sending your partner on a treasure hunt! Leave notes of clues around the house for your partner to find. Each clue can lead to the next, and the final clue will reveal the hidden engagement ring.\n![proposal idea scavenger hunt](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2itdlo0mK4Ym6jb7fK6I86/fde5fa0517d4528b820ebad6f757dbdf/proposal-ideas-scavenger-hunt-mockup.jpg)\n\n $\"download$ \n\n## Holiday Proposal Ideas\n\n \n\nHolidays spent with loved ones are the perfect opportunity to pop the question. Here are a few creative holiday proposal ideas to try.\n\n### 25. Jack-O'-Lantern Carved Proposal\nThrow a Halloween party and initiate a jack-o'-lantern carving contest. Surprise your significant other with a carved out “marry me” message.\n\n### 26. Proposal in Christmas Lights\nUse lit Christmas trees or holiday lights as decoration around your proposal message—or assemble the lights as the message!\n\n### 27. Easter Egg with the Ring Inside\nInsist that adults join in on the Easter egg hunt game. This way, you can hide the ring in one of the eggs that your partner collects.\n\n### 28. Fourth of July Fireworks\nSet up a romantic evening to watch the fireworks on the Fourth of July. That way, you can propose beneath a beautifully lit sky of sparks and colored flames.\n\n### 29. Thanksgiving Dinner Surprise\nWhen your partner is distracted, sneak the ring box in front of them onto the dinner table. You can also write the proposal message on their napkin and pull out the ring once read.\n\n## Additional Fun Proposal Ideas\nWhen it comes to expressing your love, the possibilities are endless. Here are several more fun and creative proposal ideas to try.\n\n### 30. “The Big Question” Birthday Balloons\nIf it’s your partner’s birthday, slip a proposal note inside one of the birthday balloons. Have your partner pop the balloons to reveal their surprise proposal.\n\n### 31. Propose at Disney World\nThis amusement park is full of entertainment and attractions, such as a fireworks cruise and Disney characters, available to create the perfect moment.\n\n### 32. Hire a Singer\nGo out for a romantic dinner or stroll in the park. Then, have a serenader arrive at your location to perform a special song for you both. Finally, end the performance with the big moment.\n\n### 33. Hot Air Balloon Proposal\nPropose to your partner up in the air! Plan a hot air balloon ride together for a breathtaking view of the city when you propose.\n\n### 34. Include the Kids\nInclude your child or children in the surprise! Consider planning a family outing, such as a secret beach proposal trip. While your partner is distracted, the kids can help set the scene, such as drawing “will you marry me?” in the sand.\n\n### 35. Personalized Lantern Message\nSimple yet thoughtful, order a personalized lantern with your marriage proposal carved inside. Once your partner lights the lantern, your message will display on the wall.\n\n### 36. Fortune Cookie Surprise\nFortune cookies are hard once opened, but completely malleable when warmed. Quickly heat up a fortune cookie in the microwave and, once soft, gently open the sides to slip in your “fortune” proposal note. The cookie will cool and re-harden within minutes. Your partner won’t notice the difference!\n\n### 37. Message in a Bottle\nWrite a love letter or poem with your proposal message on a sheet of paper and roll it up in a bottle. You can place the bottle somewhere fun and mysterious, like in the sand at the beach, where you both can walk past and “discover” it.\n\n### 38. Pizza Box Proposal\nCheesy and adorable! Order delivery from your partner’s favorite pizza spot and ask the staff to write “will you marry me?” inside the box.\n\n### 39. Re-create Your First Date\nIf your first date was a memorable moment, re-create it! Whether it's a café, restaurant, park, or otherwise, it'll be instantly romantic. Enjoy yourselves for a while, then steer the conversation towards __[your proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-say-during-a-proposal)__. Pull out the engagement ring for a surprise that will feel like a fairytale!\n\n### 40. Dance Proposal\nGet dressed up and go out together for an evening of dancing. You can make a special request to the DJ to play your favorite love song. It will be the perfect moment to pop the question. Bonus points if you turn the dance party into a flash mob—and choreograph a dance just for the engagement!\n\n### 41. Proposal Movie Trailer\nIf you have videography skills, create a faux movie trailer. This will require planning in advance, so give yourself ample time to put everything together. Once complete, host a ‘movie night’ with your partner where you will reveal the trailer.\n\n### 42. Lip-Dub Proposal\nFor theatre lovers, a lip-dub proposal would make a wonderful performance. A __[video](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5_v7QrIW0zY)__ of this idea has ranked on YouTube as the best proposal ever for eight years straight!\n\n### 43. Aquarium Proposal\nPlan a nice afternoon trip to your local aquarium. You can ask the staff in advance if they can assist in the surprise. Once your partner is surrounded by exotic sea animals and tranquil blue scenery, you’ll have the perfect backdrop for your proposal!\n\n### 44. Coffee Mug Surprise\nOffer to prepare your morning coffees. Secretly write “will you marry me” inside the coffee cup before pouring in the batch. Once your partner begins to drink, the proposal message will gradually appear!\n\nWe hope this gives you plenty of ideas to choose from for your surprise proposal. Once engaged, Zola has everything you and your fiancé-to-be will need to plan your dream wedding. From __[vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors)__ to __[invites](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/invites-paper)__, we’re your one-stop shop for all things wedding.","tag":"How-To ","stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:55:29.958Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Proposals","slug":"proposals"},"slug":"how-to-pull-off-a-surprise-proposal","title":"28 Best Surprise Proposal Ideas + Tips to Make It Memorable","excerpt":"Looking to pull off the perfect surprise proposal? Check out our latest article for all our top tips and tricks.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-12-29T21:35:40.650Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/ZSvx7fS927GXT72ZS6XYW/3278ca8712f9f8e9edeac2ca35019fa1/Hero_EarthyPunkRockStyledShoot_CreatrixPhotography.jpg","altText":"Surprise Proposal"},"heroCredit":"Creatrix Photography","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- Surprise proposals can be exciting, but be sure that it’s the right type of proposal for your partner. \n- Be careful who you tell, and don’t leave clues, such as the ring or receipt, where your SO can find them. \n- Do things to distract your partner, such as using a different credit card and throwing them off the proposal trail.\n","body":"Life affords many surprises. While there’s the wrong kind—cracking your iPhone screen or a flat tire—many unexpected circumstances are oh-so-right. Popping the question is one of those, but coming up with romantic ways to keep your big moment a secret can be difficult.\n\nIf you’re trying to pull off a __[surprise proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/proposal-ideas)__, there are creative ways to fly under the radar. Below, our experts share a number of __[best wedding proposal ideas/best proposal ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/12-no-fuss-proposal-ideas-for-the-low-maintenance-couple)__ on how to inspire the perfect proposal story, so you'll have no issues in planning that special moment without your partner knowing, helping you continue to shape your love story—and the rest of your life together. Let’s look at some unique marriage proposal ideas/unique proposal ideas.\n\n## How to Pull Off the Best Surprise Proposals \n\n### 1. Be careful who you tell about your epic proposal\nYour __[friends and family](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/introduce-families-after-engagement)__ could have the best intentions, but some have loose lips. Others get so nervous about keeping a secret that they act awkwardly and arouse suspicion. If you need to rely on others to pull off your surprise proposal, use caution. Remind them that it’s essential to keep their eye on the prize and not let one word—or glance—slip. \n\n### 2. Ensure that your marriage proposal is well planned.\nChances are your SO will be clued in if you’re acting nervous or distracted. Don’t leave the planning of your __[surprise proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/classic-marriage-proposal-ideas)__ to the last minute. Have everything in place, such as a beautiful setup and a proposal photographer. If others are involved, be sure that they are clear on their role and know exactly what to do when. A well-organized plan will help you relax and act naturally until it’s time to pop the question. \n\n### 3. Guard your devices before you pop the question.\nThe last thing you want your partner to do is to read a stray text that pops in. Put conversations with everyone involved on mute. Turn off notifications if you have to do so. Your faraway mom may send you a “good luck popping the question” text. Yikes! How do you explain that to your partner? It’s best to keep track of your smartphone, but don’t let that spark suspicion, either. Just make sure there are no accidental slips, so it can remain a total surprise.\n\n### 4. Distract them to throw them off the trail. \nIf you’re afraid that they’ll sense something is coming, throw them off course. Have your SO anticipate a marriage proposal at a different time or location than you planned. When they assume that you’ll be popping the question next month, imagine their shock when you propose this week. Distraction can be one of the best ways to divert their attention from what’s going on. \n\n### 5. Hide the engagement ring and anything that has to do with it.\nIn the words of __[Antoine Dodson](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EzNhaLUT520&list=FLBk90eKSRwxjUUZMbUkmVag&index=20)__, “Hide yo ring, hide yo box, hide yo bag.” Oh, wait—that’s not what he said? Well, it’s what he would have said if someone was asking him about the best surprise proposal ideas. That said, don’t leave anything—__[ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring)__, box, receipt, and for heaven’s sake, the jewelry store bag—where your partner can find it.\n\n### 6. Stick to the routine.\nUnless you’re an ultra-spontaneous couple, changing plans can be a big red flag. Your partner may already know a __[ring is coming](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ritani_fivestone_wedding_ring_14ktwhitegold)__, and senses can heighten at anything out of the norm. When planning surprise wedding proposals, it’s best to develop a plan that includes your everyday routine. Ask while at your favorite restaurant on a Tuesday night. Pop the question at your favorite team’s next home game. Keep it simple and undetectable. \n\n### 7. Don’t use a joint credit card or account to purchase the ring.\nWhen your charge card bill is double what it typically is, your SO will be looking at line items. Another big surprise-spoiler is a __[high-dollar charge](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-finance-an-engagement-ring)__—or possibly any charge—from XYZ jewelry store. Do your best to pay cash, use store credit, or get a new card to pay.\n\nReady for some covert operations? No matter what attempts you make, your partner may be alerted if they’re naturally suspicious or a super sleuth. If they figure it out, change course and start with a new plot. No matter the method, doing your best to plan the ultimate surprise proposal will __[pay off in the long run](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-announce-your-engagement)__.\n\n## Pros and Cons\n### Pros\n- __Fond memories.__ When many people look back at getting engaged, the surprise is what's greatly admired and remembered.\n\n- __Creativity and dedication.__ Your partner may deeply appreciate the creativity, time, and work put into a special surprise proposal.\n\n- __Tradition.__ Many significant others consider the surprise aspect of a proposal necessary and, thus, __[part of the whole tradition](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/proposal-etiquette-what-you-need-to-know-before-popping-the-big-question)__.\n\n### Cons\n- __Uncertainty.__ If you're uncertain whether or not your partner is ready to get engaged, don't spring a surprise proposal—especially not in front of other people.\n\n- __Keeping the secret.__ Proposal planning can be difficult to pull off in secret. If you're worried you'll give it away or that any suspicious behavior will come off badly, skip the secrecy.\n\n- __Not into surprises.__ Surprise engagements don't excite everybody. If your partner isn't typically a fan of surprises (or you aren't a fan of pulling them), don't try to force it.\n\n## 21 Surprise Proposal Ideas\n\n![How to Pull Off a Surprise Proposal | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5mvq6UvIYPZo3H3Nc7gtjl/10c5acb04946d100d45dc10b4bee2bbf/Inline_Pixabay__2_.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Pixabay\n\n### 1. Recreate a movie scene\nIf you and your partner are big film fans—or fans of one film, in particular—base your surprise proposal on a certain scene. This will be easier if the scene itself is a proposal (à la Pride and Prejudice, Love Actually, and Crazy Rich Asians), but don't be discouraged if it isn't. Even Star Wars and Lord of the Rings moments can have a proposal built into them. You can take this as far as you'd like, with a special setting, costumes, or the movie playing in the background. Surprise your SO with the set up and performance, followed by asking them to marry you.\n\n### 2. Take advantage of a holiday\nIf your partner loves a particular holiday, try to plan your proposal around it. Whether that's doing a Christmas proposal in the middle of gift-giving, planning an Easter egg scavenger hunt that ends with a ring, going into the New Year engaged, or taking advantage of the chocolates and rose petals that come with Valentine's Day, your SO is sure to enjoy the added cause to celebrate.\n\n### 3. Recreate your first date\nIf your first date was memorable or extra special, consider recreating it. Café, restaurant, park, or otherwise, plan a day or night out at your first date spot, ring in tow. Once there, settle in and have a good time. When you're ready to propose, start reminiscing about your first date. Not only what happened, but how you felt about your partner. Then, when you feel the time is right, bring out the ring and propose.\n\n### 4. Hold a game night\nFor the couple that loves a night in with loved ones, prepare for the perfect surprise. Invite close family and best friends over for a game night, in which you've crafted your proposal into one of the games. Not sure how to do this? We think Scrabble is an easy way to go. Ask someone to distract your partner in another room as you pull the game out and place \"Will you marry me?\" on the board. Then, bring them back in to play. When they notice the big question, get down on one knee and launch into your __[proposal speech](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-say-during-a-proposal)__.\n\n### 5. Have a photo shoot\nIf you're a frequent photographer, consider planning a photoshoot. You can ask to take photos of your significant other or suggest a couple's shoot. The latter works especially well if a holiday is coming up, like Valentine's Day or Christmas. Start snapping away, then, at the end of the shoot, get in front of the camera, get down on one knee, and propose! Just make sure you're getting photos as it happens. Bonus: You'll immediately have engagement photos you can share with family and across social media.\n\n### 6. Gift them flowers\nSurprise proposals don't need to be big productions, nor do they need to be very public. For the __[low-key couple](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/12-no-fuss-proposal-ideas-for-the-low-maintenance-couple)__, consider slipping the engagement ring or ring box into a bouquet of flowers. Bring a bouquet home from a local grocery store or florists (or have the flowers delivered), carefully place the ring amidst the blooms, and give them to your partner. They'll be in for not one, but two sweet and intimate surprises.\n\n### 7. Take a walk along the beach\nWhether you're on vacation or live near the coast, a beach proposal is extremely romantic. What's more, it's very easy to pull off. Slip the ring box in your pocket and take a walk along the shoreline with your partner, perhaps during sunrise or sunset. When the time feels right, surprise your SO by getting down on one knee. You can also have friends and family standing by, waiting to jump out and celebrate.\n\n### 8. Plan a boat ride\nIf you live near the water and have access to a boat (don't forget rentals!), plan a day or evening out at sea. Gather friends or family to join you for extra fun—and to not tip your partner off to the surprise. Then, when the sun is setting or you feel the time is right, propose to your partner. Tell a friend or family member when you're just about to do it so they can get the whole gorgeous scene on video from nearby.\n\n### 9. Take a special trip\nNot everyone can jet off at a moment's notice, but you can plan a special trip ahead of time. Jet-setting to a different country, taking a road trip to a nearby destination, and everything in-between can work wonderfully for a surprise proposal. Even stay-cations can be very romantic. Wherever you end up, once you've settled, pick a beautiful location and ask your partner the big question. You'll both love the ability to celebrate after, be it by relaxing or adventuring.\n\n### 10. Host an engagement party\nNothing says \"surprise\" like a party. Plan your proposal at a location where you can also host an engagement party afterwards. Consider restaurants, nice bars, hotels, and even your home. You don't have to go all out with your budget, but can definitely splurge on a big celebration if you want to. Simply plan a \"date night\" with your partner, get them to dress for the occasion, and bring them to the spot. Once there, surprise them with a romantic proposal and the arrival of your loved ones.\n\nSurprise proposals can be tough to pull off. Even the simplest of ideas run the chance of being spilled. That being said, try not to put too much pressure on yourself. So long as the moment is meaningful and your words come from the heart, your partner is sure to love whatever efforts you put in.\n\n### 11. Organize a flash mob\nGet together with loved ones—or hire professional dancers—to coordinate and organize a flash mob proposal. Then, take your partner somewhere public—like a park, mall, or beach—where the waiting flash mob will spring into action to help you pop the big question. (A flash mob works especially well for outdoor proposals!)\n\n### 12. Hide the ring in your Christmas tree\nThe holidays make for an especially romantic and magical time of year, so why not use them to come up with the perfect proposal? Before you go to bed on Christmas Eve, hide the ring box in the Christmas tree. On Christmas morning, call special attention to “one more gift” before your partner pulls the box out of the branches.\n\n### 13. Visit Disney for a fairytale proposal\nIt’s called the Magic Kingdom for a reason. What’s more magical than proposing in front of Disney’s Cinderella Castle? Enchant your partner and have them feel like they’re living a fairytale by popping the question while surrounded by the magic and classical beauty of some of their favorite characters and stories.\n\n### 14. Ride a ferris wheel\nWith the stars above and city lights flickering in the distance, a ferris wheel proposal is a surefire way to surprise your partner. For the best effect, wait until the ferris wheel is at its apex, with a vast and stunning view to serve as the backdrop when you pull out the ring and have your big moment.\n\n### 15. Hide the ring inside a fortune cookie\nCracking open a fortune cookie and reading your fortune is always fun. But what if, instead of a fortune, that cookie hid an engagement ring instead? Next time you order Chinese takeout, slip away with one of the cookies and heat it in the microwave quickly to help it open up before secreting the ring inside of it. When it’s time for your partner to read their fortune, dazzle them with a beautiful engagement ring! (It’ll definitely be the most memorable cookie they’ve ever had!)\n\n### 16. Go for a hot air balloon ride\nCruising through the sky on a hot air balloon is a great way to enjoy a little bit of excitement and romance with your loved one. As you drift over and past the natural beauty below, pull out the ring and ask for your partner’s hand in marriage for a truly surprising—and breathtaking—proposal. (Just make sure to share your plan with the pilot and staff first).\n\n### 17. Put together a jigsaw puzzle\nPuzzles are always more fun when you’re not sure what the final result should look like. Purchase or create a jigsaw puzzle for the perfect surprise proposal by encouraging your partner to gradually piece it together until it’s all but obvious that you’re asking “will you marry me?”\n\n### 18. Climb a mountain in a ski lift\nIf you and your partner enjoy hitting the slopes, a ski lift is the perfect surprise proposal idea. As the lift caresses over the gentle snow-covered slopes of your favorite resort with the promise of a warm hot chocolate in each of your near-futures, get down onto your knee and ask to share the rest of your lives together.\n\n### 19. Hire a skywriter\nFor a grandiose and surprising proposal, invite your partner to join you somewhere with a great and unobstructed view of the sky—ideally on a day with clear weather and little cloud cover. When you hear the whirring engine of a low-flying plane above, direct your partner’s attention to it and pull out the ring just in time for the pilot to finish writing out the big question against the clear blue sky.\n\n### 20. Spend a night stargazing\nStars shine brilliantly for millions of years with the same amount of energy with which you love your partner. For this surprise proposal idea, head out somewhere with a clear view of the night sky and little light pollution, roll out a blanket onto the ground (or enjoy the soft grass against your backs), and stare up at the sky overhead. Point out your favorite constellations and, when the time is right, pull out the ring and share your speech beneath the night sky.\n\n### 21. Create a treasure hunt\nFor another perfect proposal idea, think of all the places you and your partner consider special or important, like the place you had your first date and your favorite restaurant. Hide clues in or at each of these places to create a trail of breadcrumbs your partner can follow until the end, where the final treasure awaits: a beautiful proposal ring and a heart-warming speech in which you ask to spend the rest of your lives together.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"There are guides for almost every first, but there’s no manual on proposal etiquette. Our complete guide can help. 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But, to capture those frost-tinged winter engagement photos, you’ll need to come prepared.","author":"Ruksana Hussain","publishedAt":"2021-06-23T19:13:08.925Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1lC4wwkjgEzqVvNVU6bxxG/176ce103a51a56abc6e0bedf31f4badd/Hero_Zola.jpg","altText":"Winter Engagement Photo Shoot Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- If having or not having snow and sweaters is an essential part of your winter engagement photo session, __[check the forecast frequently](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/winter-engagement-photo-shoot-ideas#check)__ to make sure that conditions are in your favor.\n- __[Make a backup plan](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/winter-engagement-photo-shoot-ideas#backup)__ if the weather doesn't improve. Have a few indoor locations that you can relocate to if need be, or use an umbrella as a prop.\n- Take advantage of wintertime activities, seasonal locations, or holiday props to __[add an air of festivity to your photos](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/winter-engagement-photo-shoot-ideas#festive)__.\n- Set a general theme for your winter engagement to determine __[your photoshoot’s style, tone, and location](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/winter-engagement-photo-shoot-ideas#ideas)__. Then, use Zola to find a wedding paper design that matches your engagement's aesthetic.","body":"This marvelous season offers a little something extra to every setting, whether you’re in front of a dazzling mountain range or relishing in the intimacy of your own home. Let the magic of the winter frost act as your personal filter and give your photoshoot the complete storybook treatment. We’re here to help break down everything you need to know about winter engagement pictures:\n\n- Winter Engagement Themes\n- Tips for Troubleshooting Winter Engagement Photos\n- 12 Winter Engagement Photo Ideas to Help Kickstart Your Own\n\n## Winter Engagement Themes \n\nWinter engagements come in all shapes, sizes, and colors, and the amount of choices that you must make planning them can be overwhelming. Whether you started planning yesterday or you’ve been dreaming of it since you were 12, identifying the theme for your engagement can help you organize all the different details for the photos. Start with broad categories, such as:\n\n- __Formal and classic –__ A more traditional approach is an excellent excuse for you both to get fancy and dressed up. But, if you're willing to brave the cold (or you live somewhere mild), outdoor settings can provide a nice contrast for all your finery.\n\n- __Casual and modern –__ Showcase your personalities with casual clothes that make you look and feel good. Let your individuality and fashion sense shine through as you walk around the city or give the camera a glimpse of your everyday life together at home.\n\n- __Sporty and adventurous –__ For athletic couples, the outdoors is an excellent opportunity to showcase your prowess. Hit the ice or snowy hiking trails for more active and informal pictures.\n\n- __Bohemian and creative –__ Soft pastels, mixed fabrics, and winter florals make up the vision board for this style category. Artsy couples can let their creativity shine through in their fashion choices both indoors and out.\n\nWhatever theme you choose for your [engagement photos](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-get-most-out-of-your-engagement-photos), Zola will help you find the perfect match for them in our wedding paper collections via eye-catching __[wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/paper)__ and more.\n\n## Tips for Troubleshooting Winter Engagement Photos \n\nThat classy picture of your intertwined hands with the sparkly new ring on it looks great on your phone, but nothing shouts, “We’re engaged!” like a professional engagement photoshoot. Keep these tips in mind as you plan your winter engagement photos:\n\n- __Don’t get caught off guard by the chill –__ If you want to frolic outdoors in the snow for your photos, try to dress warmly. For those brave souls who want to bare some skin in their __[engagement photo outfits](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-for-your-engagement-photos)__, have a friend or sibling on standby with a blanket or coat ready to bundle you up in between shots. \n\n \n- __Check the weather forecast frequently –__ If snow is involved, you want the fresh, unspoiled stuff, not the grey slush that’s already been trekked over. Keep an eye on your weather app so that you can be the first one out in the winter wonderland. Working with a local engagement photographer who can be on the ground when you are there could also make the process easier.\n\n- __Take advantage of winter daylight –__ Many couples prefer the flattering light of golden hour, but for photoshoots set in the wintertime, make sure that you start well before sunset. Since days in the winter are shorter, it gets dark earlier, and you don’t want to lose the light before you’ve finished capturing the perfect pictures.\n\n \n- __Have a backup plan –__ Sometimes plans fall through, or the weather doesn’t hold up. Don’t let your session go to waste by making sure that you have a Plan B in place. Backup plans include having a second location if the snow's already been disturbed in your first or having somewhere cozy and romantic indoors ready if a sudden storm hits.\n\n- __Get a variety of different photos –__ Snap a few extra shots that switch up the tone so that you have a variety to pick from for other wedding paper purposes. That way, you're not stuck with the same type of pictures and poses for everything. \n\nNeed help finding someone who can bring your vision to life? Zola makes it easy to search for top __[wedding photographers](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-photographers)__ by style so that you can find the perfect match.\n## 12 Winter Engagement Photo Ideas to Kickstart Your Own \n\nFor those who need a helping hand with brainstorming, we’ll go over 12 detailed ideas for winter engagements that you can use for your own. \n\n### 1. Hit the Ice\nYou don’t need to have fully planned choreography to be magic on ice. Grab your skates and hit the rink together for some movement-packed shots. Photo credit: [Unsplash](https://unsplash.com/photos/uCbG29zk6mY)\n\n### 2. Take Advantage of Outdoor Winter Festivities \n\nFor those who prefer their feet firmly on solid ground, look around your community for winter fairs and outdoor markets where you can take a romantic stroll. Photo credit: [Unsplash](https://unsplash.com/photos/bprCANG7TsA)\n\n### 3. Drive to a Place with a View\nCouples who love to see the sights together on road trips can show off their adventurous and romantic lifestyle. Puffer jackets, wool caps, and big smiles are welcome. Photo credit: [Unsplash](https://unsplash.com/photos/7dJr4ca5Bp4)\n\n### 4. Use Empty Streets and Cityscapes as Your Backdrop\n\nTry scheduling during the off hours to avoid busy times of the day where there’s sure to be lots of heavy foot traffic. Be patient and flexible as snow in the city is more likely to get trampled to mush, so the key to getting the perfect shots is speed. Get to your location soon as it stops snowing. Find locations with great shots of the architecture as part of your backdrop. This could also be your wedding venue! \n\nPhoto credit: [Unsplash](https://unsplash.com/photos/MGMA4bT96Ik)\n\n### 5. Get Playful with Snow\n\n- Build a miniature snow couple together. Or cuddle up on a sled with your partner, and then brace yourselves for the rush of adrenaline as you go down the hill. \n\n- Photo credit: [Unsplash](https://unsplash.com/photos/49yFLvfM5aU)\n\n- If there’s a beloved furry member of your family, include them in the shoot with you. They’ll love being included in the fun, and extra points if the presence of a beloved canine friend helps you two relax in front of the camera. \n\nPhoto credit: [Unsplash](https://unsplash.com/photos/-CSUFu0IpOQ)\n\n- Unleash your inner child and make snow angels beside one another. Make sure that you save this shot for last after you’ve taken all the other photos that you want, so that you don’t have to worry about wet clothes or hair. \n\nPhoto credit: [Unsplash](https://unsplash.com/photos/p4ibmu67rzQ)\n\n### 6. Use Your Own Backyard\nIf you have a photogenic backyard, why not eliminate the risk of public locations, and stage a winter photoshoot on your own property? \n\nPhoto credit: [Unsplash](https://unsplash.com/photos/fCvFg2zAY6U)\n\n### 7. Stand Out with Colorful Accessories or Coordinated Outfits\nMake use of the cool winter palette, avoid distracting prints and stick with classic looks. Use these elements to inspire your winter engagement look:\n\n- __Red__ is a tried-and-true crowd favorite when it comes to winter colors. Crimson dresses or burgundy suits make for [show-stopping outfits](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-for-your-engagement-photos) that evoke a festive air.\n\n- __An umbrella__ makes an excellent prop that’ll keep you dry, while adding an element of whimsy to your shoot. Lean in with a bold color (red is again an iconic option).\n\nPhoto credit: [Unsplash](https://unsplash.com/photos/NSVJAAXOYHs)\n\n### 8. Take Your Engagement Photos While the City Is in Its Holiday Best\n\nPart of the seasonal cheer comes from cities getting dressed up in their winter best for the most wonderful time of the year. Why not take advantage of all the lights and holiday wreaths? \n\nPhoto credit: [Unsplash](https://unsplash.com/photos/dzK3t2oH-yU)\n\n### 9. Go Tree Shopping\n\nWhy go to nature when nature can come to you? If you’d like to evoke a winter forest without leaving city limits, go shopping for Christmas trees in an open market or with a local seller. \n\nPhoto credit: [Unsplash](https://unsplash.com/photos/9j-cpV3dStU)\n\n### 10. Use Seasonal Locations\nPopular winter getaway spots, such as ski slopes and cabins, make excellent backdrops for __[authentic looking engagement photos](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-take-authentic-engagement-photos)__. \n\nPhoto credit: [Unsplash](https://unsplash.com/photos/bzJjHwdzBsA)\n\n### 11. Staying Indoors\nFor those love birds who prefer to winter away somewhere toasty and warm, windows with snow piling up the sill or painting the scenery outside the glass white will do plenty. Settle in for the night by the fire with mugs of hot chocolate and marshmallows. \n\nPhoto credit: [Unsplash](https://unsplash.com/photos/lyTgIeUBOUE)\n\n### #12 Recreate the New Year Magic\nA new year means new beginnings, and your engagement is a new beginning to the next chapter of your lives together. Capture the midnight kiss on camera as fireworks light up your faces. \n\nPhoto credit: [Unsplash](https://unsplash.com/photos/LmfNrCinak0)\n\n## Chill Out After Your Engagement Photo Shoot with Zola\nSo, you've figured out all the details for a dazzling set of winter engagement photos—now what?\n\nTurn your attention to the many ways that you can repurpose engagement pics for your __[wedding planning](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning)__ needs. From your wedding invitations to the FAQ page on your __[wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website)__, Zola can help you enhance your engagement photos onto hundreds of different designs. \n\nDo you have the perfect engagement photo that you’d like to turn into a keepsake for all your guests? Zola can help make your __[Save the Dates](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/save-the-date/shop)__ magnets so that they can go on the fridge of your invited guests. For all the different ways that you can deck out the wedding paper with your gorgeous winter engagement photos, check out our [Invites + Papersection](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-invite-ideas) at __[Zola](https://www.zola.com/wedding/manage)__. Plus, if you're interested in booking other seasonal photoshoots, we have a list of spring, summer and __[fall engagement photo](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/fall-engagement-photo-shoot-ideas)__ ideas, too!","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Seasons_Quiz"}},"stickyCta":{"copy":"Find Vendors in Your Area","url":"https://www.zola.com/inspiration/onboard?question=intro"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:55:26.781Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Proposals","slug":"proposals"},"slug":"which-knee-should-you-propose-on","title":"What Knee Do You Propose On? And Why?","excerpt":"Wait a minute, what knee do you propose on? Don’t fret, we’ve got the answer to that, to why people get on their knee, to what it symbolizes and, alternatives!","author":"Jane Chertoff and Georgie Darling","publishedAt":"2023-12-11T00:00-05:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5kxiqlnoWKjx0115yg56WN/cfe37a20e826274c620fa12cda03be30/Hero_New__5_.jpg","altText":"Graphic image of a man proposing to a woman"},"heroCredit":"Zola","body":"You’ve chosen the ring. You’ve planned out the perfect marriage proposal idea. You’re about to pop the question — but wait a second. How do you propose? Are there rules or traditions you should follow here? Does it matter what knee you propose on?\n\nIt turns out there’s a quick, simple answer. But in the end, even if you choose “wrong,” you’ll be just fine.\n\nThe swoon-worthy proposal where someone gets on their knee and asks their partner to marry them is one of those iconic moments you’ve probably thought about plenty of times. \n\nSince it’s the ultimate symbol of love showcased in romantic novels and rom-coms, there’s probably a good chance you’re considering incorporating it in your proposal. But is it necessary? And if so, what knee should you propose on? We’ll break it all down, so you can pull off the perfect proposal.\n\n## What knee do you propose on?\nAccording to experts, it’s not super important, but traditionally you propose with your left knee on the ground. You should hold the ring box in your left hand, and open it with your right. The custom of kneeling as a sign of respect comes from medieval knights who got down on their left knees to be knighted.\n\n![The day it all began - Zach & Sean 2](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1lR1CTtyupHezKfZXuwD5B/70ec07434753622513d07aca40906320/240BA102-AD16-4BB8-9135-33AEE5975849_-_Zach_Eisenstein.JPG)\n\n## Does it matter what knee you propose on?\nThe long and short of it is: It doesn’t matter. Odds are your SO won’t notice which knee you get down on in the moment. Since the majority of the population is right-side-dominant, there’s a good chance it will feel more comfortable and steady to get down on your right knee during the big moment.\n\n## Why do you get on one knee to propose?\nThe act of getting down on one knee dates back to medieval times when knights would bow and kneel to noblewomen. The famous “will you marry me” question wasn’t added to the act until somewhat recently. While it's optional, it's a classic, romantic way to show your SO just how much they mean to you.\n\nAccording to a study done by Men’s Health, 76 percent of men believe they should go down on a bent knee to propose, and many people dream of having their SO drop a knee to ask the big question.\n\n### What does getting down on one knee symbolize?\nWhy do men get on one knee to propose? Getting down on one knee is often considered the ultimate sign of respect: quite literally putting your other half above you. Proposing in this manner originally symbolized respect to royalty. And we guess your fiance-to-be is pretty regal in your eyes!\n\nIt wasn’t until about a century ago that marriage was based upon love, intimacy, and mutual respect, and even more recently that marriage proposals and weddings became such an important part of modern marriages. \n\nFor couples getting engaged prior to the 1960s, the “what knee do you propose on?” question probably wasn’t a part of the proposal. Instead, casually asking the other person to get married was more the style. Prior to that, proposals and marriages weren’t even necessarily about love.\n\nInstead, they were more like business deals between families in order to gain power, money, and connections.\n\n## What to say when you get down on one knee?\nThe best way to figure out what to say when you propose is to think about what your SO would appreciate hearing the most. Generally, the proposer takes their SO by the hand and drops to one knee. Then, they say a few sentences outlining why they want to get married, what they love about their relationship and/or partner, and what they hope for the future. What comes to mind as you imagine it happening? Say that. \n\n__Need more help planning the proposal? Check out our [Wedding Proposal Checklist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-proposal-checklist).__\n\n## Do you put the ring on when you propose?\nJust before asking the big question, take out [the ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/moissanite-vs-diamond) from its hiding place (usually either in your purse or pocket) and present it to your SO. After they say “yes”, you slip the ring on the ring finger of their left hand, get up, share a hug and kiss, and then celebrate BIG time.\n\n## Do You Need to Get Down on Your Knee for a Proposal?\nNo. Just like with most things wedding-related (other than legalities), you can make any traditional marriage proposal your own. There’s no hard and fast rule that you have to get down on one knee, present your SO with a diamond ring, and have a photographer hiding in the bushes, capturing it all. \n\nSo, instead of wondering what knee do you propose on, you might decide that kneeling isn’t the right decision for you. While many western couples choose to go this route, doing something different won’t make your proposal, engagement, or marriage any less special.\n\nThat said, before nixing the bended knee proposal idea, take some time to think about what your partner might be envisioning in a romantic proposal. This is a big moment—probably one they’ve dreamed about for a long time. \n\nEven if they’re non-traditional, they might still picture you down on one knee. Unless they’ve explicitly told you they’re not a fan of bent-knee proposals or a close confidante told you to avoid getting down on your knee, you may want to incorporate it in your marriage proposal plans.\n\n![Zola: Which Knee Should You Propose On?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4L3dGDYA1pplSw9Roiq81a/3dcb9b0f122968383927c62a142709ca/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n\nPhoto Credit: Unsplash \n\n## Bended-Knee Proposal Alternatives\nIf you’ve weighed up the “which knee for proposal” debate and decided the answer is “neither”, there are plenty of other options to consider. If you’re at a restaurant, ask while sitting at the table. Or, if you’re home and [keeping things low-key](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/12-no-fuss-proposal-ideas-for-the-low-maintenance-couple), sitting side by side on the couch is a great option. \n\nIf your SO isn’t about going the traditional route, don’t be afraid to opt for [something completely unique](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/proposal-ideas), like tying the engagement ring on your pet’s collar, proposing after a hike while standing at a gorgeous vista, or slipping the ring on their finger as they’re just waking up.\n\nWhether you get down on your left knee as tradition suggests or you choose your own proposal stance, the key is to make the special moment about you and your future spouse.\n\n__Ready to start planning your wedding? Start with our [Free Wedding Planning Suite](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning).__","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Deciding where to propose is a big deal—you want it to be special, memorable, and above all, the perfect start to your engagement. If you’re looking for the best places to propose, here are the winners, all of which you can pull off anywhere you live. ","title":"What Are the Best Places to Propose?","slug":"what-are-the-best-places-to-propose","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/buINc29AQuafZB0BE2eOb/a5198a179972e5690f0980bec84692fd/Hero_EtherealCoastalRomanceStyledShoot_ArleneJacobsPhotography__1_.jpg","altText":"Best Places to Propose"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Finding the person you spend forever with is no easy task. There are signs to look out for to know if someone is your soulmate. 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Find out what our experts say by checking out our latest guide. ","title":"Tips for Proposing Without A Ring + 10 Alternatives","slug":"can-you-propose-without-a-ring","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/58Was5Fgz8kxScfS0XaaCE/0069bf3d28ceb04517d39c06a9c172fc/Hero_EtherealCoastalRomanceStyledShoot_ArleneJacobsPhotography.jpg","altText":"Propose Without a Ring"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:55:25.721Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Proposals","slug":"proposals"},"slug":"can-you-propose-without-a-ring","title":"Tips for Proposing Without A Ring + 10 Alternatives","excerpt":"Don’t know if it’s okay to propose without a ring? Find out what our experts say by checking out our latest guide. ","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2020-12-30T18:32:15.371Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/58Was5Fgz8kxScfS0XaaCE/0069bf3d28ceb04517d39c06a9c172fc/Hero_EtherealCoastalRomanceStyledShoot_ArleneJacobsPhotography.jpg","altText":"Propose Without a Ring"},"heroCredit":"Arlene Jacobs Photography","body":"Engagement rings — some people love them, some people hate them, but not every couple expects them. You can propose without a ring. Getting engaged is about deciding that you and your partner (AKA your soon-to-be fiance!) want to spend the rest of your lives together. That decision does not need to come with a piece of jewelry in a ring box—or anything else, for that matter. Any proposal that ends in a decision to get married is great. \n\nNonetheless, the [engagement ring](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-rings) has become the symbolic object of impending marriages everywhere. So what should you do if you’re planning to propose, but don’t want an engagement ring to be part of the moment—whether because you want a [low maintenance proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/12-no-fuss-proposal-ideas-for-the-low-maintenance-couple), you want to propose with another piece of jewelry, or rings simply aren’t your partners style? The Zola team is here to walk you through the process. \n\n### Make Sure You’re Both on the Same Page\n\nEngagement rings are a big social signifier of being engaged, and some people don’t feel properly engaged unless they have a ring to show for it. You want to make sure your partner is on board with the idea of a marriage proposal without a wedding ring. You don’t want the absence of the ring to be the focus of your proposal. Even if the two of you generally forgo conventional [wedding traditions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/decor-inspiration/wedding-traditions), people can be surprisingly attached to engagement rings. Before you plan your proposal, check-in with your partner to gauge their general feelings about rings. \n\nIf you’re more concerned that you won’t buy the right ring, then read on for suggestions on proposing before making your purchase. \n\n### Propose Now, Buy the Ring Later\n\nBuying an engagement ring is a big deal. Engagement rings are expensive, wildly different from one another, and something that your partner might wear for his or her entire life. A lot of people are hesitant to jump into such a big decision without the direct input of their partner. \n\nIf you’re planning to propose now and buy the ring later, you have a few options. You can propose with a heartfelt gift instead of a ring, such as a photo album with pictures that span your relationship or a particularly meaningful poem. If you propose without a ring—but want to show your partner that a ring is on the way—you can buy a temporary ring that’s a placeholder, such as a large candy rock ring or a paper mache ring. Or, you can make a certificate good for one ring-shopping experience together, and present this along with your proposal. \n\nThe idea is to convey that the ring will be part of your engagement period, but not part of your marriage proposal. \n\n![Can You Propose Without a Ring?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/57BcxK1mE95lk4Lm73u7s6/2b0a8dfb2ff3b27e0dc68b7d9d44a2ee/Inline_Pixabay.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Pixabay\n\n### The Decision to Ditch the Ring Entirely \n\nIncreasingly, many couples are foregoing engagement rings entirely. Some feel the tradition is antiquated, overly gendered, or simply an unneeded expense. When both partners agree, the decision to go without a ring is an easy one. \n\nThe more difficult part of this decision can be dealing with the negative feedback of family and friends. We’ve all heard the routine: When a woman gets engaged to be married, she’s often asked to show off her ring. (This is way less of an issue with men, who often don’t wear engagement rings.) Social media photos of engagement announcements often feature at least one, if not multiple, close-ups of the ringed finger. \n\nIf you decide to propose without a ring, you might want to prepare for the people in your life who will be upset by this decision. Not because you need to pander to them, but because you want to get ahead of those critiques. Plan out your one sentence, the calm and collected explanation that says that you don’t need a diamond ring to decide to get married, and move on. \n\n### Alternatives to Engagement Rings\n\nFor many people, the engagement ring is about the symbolism of the investment. The ring, for all its expense, implies permanence. In other words, the person is putting down some serious investment in the person by investing so seriously in a diamond ring. \n\nLots of other gifts can achieve these same goals when planning out a romantic proposal, though. When considering alternatives to the engagement ring, you want to consider gifts that come with some symbolic backstory and demonstrate a significant amount of investment, either emotional or financial. The goal is to convey that you are “all in” on this proposal and willing to back that up with some thought and personal investment. \n\n### 1. Buy a Watch \nIn recent years, it’s become more commonplace for women to propose to men to present them with a watch. This can be a beautiful way for a couple to take charge of the too-often gendered reality of proposals and guide the process themselves. Make sure the watch matches the style of your partner. \n\n### 2. Book a Vacation\nIn place of a ring, present your loved one with a planned vacation to a spot you both want to visit. The trip can be a way to spend time together and celebrate your decision to get married. This trip should be a truly exciting and adventurous proposal. \n\n### 3. Take An Adventure\nHas there been an adventure you and your partner have been wanting to experience together—like skydiving, rock climbing, or whitewater rafting? If so, plan an excursion for the two of you—and then cap off the adrenaline-filled day with a proposal they’re sure to remember for the rest of their life!\n\n![Can You Propose Without a Ring?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2BgqWB13HjPfxm0Y4EIkq1/cbd507a23bc64d94983561403ae90de6/Inline_Pixabay__1_.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Pixabay\n\n### 4. Shop for Jewelry\nWho says you need a ring? If you want a gift that will last forever, but your partner isn’t interested in a ring, try another type of jewelry. Diamond earrings, pendant necklaces, or anything that you know your partner will love and adore can be a really beautiful gift for a proposal.\n\n### 5. Offer a Family Heirloom\nIf you want to give your significant other jewelry to signify your engagement, it doesn’t need to come from the jewelry store. An heirloom from your family (like your mothers’s necklace or a bracelet your grandfather gifted your grandmother when they got engaged) is a meaningful symbol of love—and a great way to propose.\n\n### 6. Plan The Perfect Surprise Proposal\nNot all engagement gifts need to be physical items. If your partner is the kind of person that watches proposal videos on YouTube, planning an over-the-top surprise proposal (like a flash mob!) is the perfect way to begin the rest of your lives together. \n\n### 7. Buy a House\nThis is a rather dramatic option, but for the right couple, a stunning gesture can be to present your loved one with the home you want to live in, with them, forever.\n\n### 8. Go Romantic\nLet’s just say again that no proposal needs a big, expensive gift. Sometimes the best proposal is one that comes straight from the heart. A romantic gift, which might be anything from tracking down some beloved childhood toy to putting together a recipe book of her favorite family dishes, can be the absolute right choice. The point is to show that you care and that you’re putting your love on full display. Think of a gift that will make your partner feel overwhelmed with love, and you’ll be on the right track.\n\n### 9. Write It In The Sky\nIf you want to propose in a way your partner will never forget, using a skywriting service to write your proposal in the sky is a fun, memorable way to ask for their hand in marriage.\n\n### 10. Create Something From Scratch\nYou don’t have to buy something to propose. If you’re the crafty type, building or creating something handmade (for example, building a table or creating a painting) can be a personal way to commemorate such a special day. \n\n## Tips to Propose Without A Ring\nNeed some more tips popping the question—but without the bling? Here are some things to keep in mind:\n\n- __Be clear__. When someone sees an engagement ring, it’s clear what’s happening—and, as such [what you say during your proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/12-no-fuss-proposal-ideas-for-the-low-maintenance-couple) isn’t as critical; they’ll get the idea. But if you’re going to propose without a ring, it’s super important that you’re clear—and make sure to distinctly ask “will you marry me?” Otherwise, your partner might not know you’re proposing!\n\n- __Set the mood__. Ring or no ring, you want your proposal to be special—so make sure to set the mood and create a memorable backdrop for your engagement (for example, by choosing the perfect song, filling the space with flowers, or lighting candles). \n\n- __Consider involving friends and family__. If you really want your proposal to be a celebration, consider inviting friends and family to witness the big moment and/or celebrate with you immediately afterwards. Who needs an engagement ring when you’re surrounded by the people you love most?\n\nEven if your proposal idea doesn’t include a diamond ring to match, that doesn't mean you have to wait until you have one. Sometimes people don't want fancy jewelry. No matter how you choose to propose, just be sure that both individuals are on the same page.","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Planning a wedding proposal is no joke. Make sure you’re prepared by following this wedding proposal checklist. ","title":"Wedding Proposal Checklist","slug":"wedding-proposal-checklist","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4yu05UOJ3vPezTnlJkOJFR/0a404fe21dbe265fcda15418ce693871/Hero_ClassicKeyWestOceanfrontAffair_LivingWaterImages.jpg","altText":"Wedding Proposal Checklist"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"There are guides for almost every first, but there’s no manual on proposal etiquette. Our complete guide can help. ","title":"Proposal Etiquette: How to Ask for a Father's Permission to Marry His Daughter?","slug":"proposal-etiquette-what-you-need-to-know-before-popping-the-big-question","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1CrIRnIrgR2agUQxhfJpO1/c8b2a42c550da4bdc8ee4049a30801bb/Hero_BohoSummerWeddingatCampMontShenandoah_SabrinaSteelePhotography.jpg","altText":"Proposal Etiquette"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Thinking of popping the question? Arrange the perfect proposal for your partner with these creative ideas. 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Discover heartfelt ways to celebrate your love with minimal fuss.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-12-29T22:10:27.050Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3hM1ElGqlQw3XBF60ba8o/b351b89a68f1d6f663f96b31abb34067/Hero_EarthyPunkRockStyledShoot_CreatrixPhotography__1_.jpg","altText":"12 No-Fuss Proposal Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Creatrix Photography","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- Make the mundane things, such as working, going out to lunch, or running errands, __interesting with a surprise proposal__. \n- __Have a private engagement__ by rowing out to the middle of a lake or taking a sunset walk. \n- Don’t let others pressure you into having an elaborate engagement, and __do what speaks to you both__ to create the perfect proposal. ","body":"Simply being with your significant other speaks volumes to you. It doesn’t matter if you’re walking in the park hand in hand or grabbing a late-night milkshake—your proposal process can be as easy as you'd like it to be.\n\nPomp and circumstance have little place in your relationship. If this sounds like you—and it’s time to pop the question—don’t worry about doing something over the top. Just focus on your love and use one of our no-fuss marriage __[proposal ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/proposal-ideas)__.\n\n## Easy and Creative Proposal Ideas \n\n### 1. Include Your Outdoor Activities\nCouples who enjoy biking, hiking, horseback riding, or something more competitive like golf, beach volleyball, or another sport have ample opportunity to turn their beloved outdoor activity into a perfect proposal. In fact, proposing during any of these can end up making the activity all the more meaningful to you both (and if you __[plan on proposing](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/proposal-etiquette-what-you-need-to-know-before-popping-the-big-question)__ in the water, we recommend proposing with a __[silicone ring](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=silicone%20ring)__ and saving the __[precious metal one](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ritani_diamond_milgrain_wedding_ring_18ktwhitegold)__ for when you’re on land).\n\n### 2. Head Out on a Hike\nInvite your loved one to join you on your favorite or most treasured trails for a romantic trek with a stunning backdrop, then wait for just the right moment on your journey to pop the question. Being alone with a view can make for a truly romantic atmosphere. A mountain, lake, or walk along the beach can easily suffice. Skip the professional photographer and set your phone up for a video pre-proposal. Tell your partner you're capturing the view, then capture the entire moment on camera!\n\n### 3. Make the Most of a Small Moment\nIf you’re the spontaneous type, keep the ring with you and wait for the right moment. How fun it would be to surprise your partner—and yourself!—when you decide to pop the question. Xiaoqi Li of __[Xiaoqi Li Photography](https://xiaoqili.com/)__ suggests, “Instead of a grand gesture, start the conversation during one of your favorite little moments you share daily or weekly.” Think shared morning coffee or breakfast, the ways you relax together after a long day (watching your favorite show? reading together?), or taking your beloved pet on a walk.\n\n### 4. Order in for the Night\nAt-home proposal ideas don’t need to be complex. Ordering pizza, Chinese, or just about any type of takeout food online can still serve as a creative proposal idea or romantic dinner—all in the comfort of your own home. When the food arrives, be sure you’re the one to answer the door, then securely slip the ring into the delivery box, onto a drinking straw, in with the fortune cookies, or into a bundle of cutlery. Let your significant other happen upon the bling and be ready to pop the question once he or she finds it. \n\nWant more inspiration for proposing at home? Check out our article for [29 more unique and romantic at home proposal ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/at-home-proposal-ideas)!\n\n### 5. Watch a Movie With a Proposal Scene\nPlenty of proposal scenes throughout film history are endearing—some to the point of being emotional and moving. Embrace this living room proposal idea by __[hiding the ring](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ritani_womens_fivestone_diamond_wedding_ring_platinum)__ in a couch cushion or somewhere nearby and cueing up a movie like The Notebook, Pride and Prejudice, and more humorous options like The Wedding Singer\n\nAs the movie’s big moment gets closer, and when it does—pop the question. You can either use the words from the movie or wait until after the romantic scene has finished to ask, “Will you marry me?” For some shock or added humor, begin saying the proposal lines along with the film (seriously or humorously) before pulling out the engagement ring.\n\n### 6. Utilize Ribbon and Love Notes\n__[Unique and creative proposals](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/proposal-ideas)__ can often sound intimidating—especially if they bring forth thoughts of extensive ones from film and television. Don't fret. Oftentimes, all you need is a bit of thought and a few craft supplies. For example, all this __[surprise proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-pull-off-a-surprise-proposal)__ requires is a long string of ribbon (or two, or three, depending on the size of your home) and some handwritten notes.\n\nSimply secure one end of a pretty ribbon at one end of your home—be it by tape, pin, or tying it off—and the other end on the opposite side. You can choose to get creative with the path, leading your partner in various directions, but don't have to. Then attach handwritten love notes along the ribbon with tape or a stapler. These notes can be a written out timeline of milestones in your relationship, different things you love about your partner, or some of your favorite memories together.\n\nAt the end of the ribbon, be there waiting with the ring box in hand. Share a few more heartfelt words with your partner, then pop the big question! Not only is this a thoughtful and surprising proposal, but it can also play off of the East Asian belief of The Red Thread of Fate—also referred to as the Red Thread of Marriage. Or, if you're more familiar, Taylor Swift's \"Invisible String\" idea. Bonus points for playing the song.\n\n### 7. Fill a Room With Photographs\nPlenty of proposals include a verbal look back on your relationship history. Talking about your love story can be lovely and especially powerful during such an emotional moment. Play on that idea by incorporating special photographs from all throughout your relationship into your proposal plan.\n\nA few weeks before you plan to ask your partner to marry you, start collecting photos that have been taken from the time you started dating. Remember to look through your phone, social media accounts (including Instagram and Facebook), and computer. Once you start collecting, we suggest saving them into one folder.\n\nThen, simply have the photos printed. If you have a photo printer, you can do this right at home. If you don't mind the photos being printed on regular paper, you can also do this on a normal printer. And, of course, you can choose to have them printed at a local store. In any case, when you have all of the physical photos, place them all around the room you'll proposal in, like a relationship montage. They can be taped to the walls, framed, or displayed in any way you like. Lead your SO into the room, reveal the surprise, and launch into your __[proposal speech](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-say-during-a-proposal)__.\n\n### 8. Pop the Question at Your Favorite Spot\nIt's likely that by now you and your significant other have a few favorite spots you like to frequent. Or, perhaps there's a place you both love to go together that you don't get to go to very often. In either case, having your proposal at one of these places can be extremely special.\n\nThink about your most favorite restaurant, cafes, cocktail bars, movie theaters, and the like. Is there one that really stands out to you as both of your favorite spot to go together? If so, start making plans to go! If not, casually ask your partner if there's a place you both love that they'd like to go to again soon. Make it seem like a normal date idea.\n\nOnce you arrive at the spot, try to make the experience special—without giving anything away, of course. Because you've both been here before and enjoy the place, you can relax and focus on enjoying yourselves before proposing. When the timing seems right, bring out the ring box and propose.\n\n### 9. Pop the Question While Camping\nYes, __[camping](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=camping)__ can be a romantic proposal idea. It may seem a bit specific, but it can be as low-key as you can get. Send your SO out to grab firewood. When he or she gets back, be __[down on one knee](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/which-knee-should-you-propose-on)__, ready to pop the question. Just hope that he or she doesn’t take too much time finding kindling.\n\n### 10. Incorporate the Family\nChildren are adorable, and if you have any, they would love being involved. Have them make cute “Will you marry me?” signs, and designate one child as the __[smartphone photographer](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-get-most-out-of-your-engagement-photos)__. Laughter and giggles will ensue, which is one reason that proposal ideas with kids are such a huge success.\n\n### 11. Steal a Moment Out in the Country\nIf you adore farm life or have access to a tractor or ATV, ask your partner to take a ride on a lovely day. While you’re out exploring, stop and pop the question. Other country proposal ideas include asking while you’re picnicking in a field or while relaxing after a long day of chores.\n\n### 12. Take a Sunset Walk on the Beach\n__[Vacations](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/raffles_100_gift_card)__ can be a perfect time to ask, “Will you marry me?” Beach proposal ideas are relatively plentiful. However, for the low maintenance couple, take a walk by the ocean at sunset. Doing so can be one of the most romantic ways to secure that “Yes!”\n\n### 13. Take Advantage of a Holiday\nIf your partner loves any particular holiday, try to plan your proposal around it. Whether that's bending down on one knee in the middle of a Christmas tree farm, planning an Easter egg scavenger hunt, going into the New Year engaged, or taking advantage of the chocolates and rose petals that come with Valentine's Day, your SO is sure to enjoy the added cause to celebrate.\n\n### 14. Plan a Game Night\nFor the couple that has a blast playing board games together, craft your at-home proposal into a game night. You can do this just between the two of you or invite your closest friends and family over to join in on the fun. Not sure how to work a proposal into a game? We think Scrabble is an easy and exciting way to go about it. If you have people over, suggest you all play the game. Then, have someone distract your SO while you spell out \"Will you marry me?\" on the board. Finally, bring them back to the game table for the special moment.\n\n### 15. Set Up a Picnic\nPicnics with your partner are inherently romantic. Putting effort into an outdoor snack or meal together, especially with the right view, is sure to strike the right mood. You can go simple with a blanket and picnic basket of food or include some extra flourishes, like candles, champagne, fresh flowers, and chocolate covered strawberries.\n\n### 16. Say it With Music\nIf you're musically talented, an endearing proposal is likely right at your fingertips. Write or compose a special song that reflects on your relationship, talks about your hopes for the future, or dotes on your partner. Then, once you've played it, finish it off with your proposal. You can even write your proposal into the song, if you prefer.\n\n### 17. Involve Your Partner's Favorite Things\nIf your partner has a lot of love for any particular thing—a book, a film, a type of art, a place—do your best to incorporate it (or them) into your proposal. This can make asking them to marry you especially fun and special, since you're including something you know they care about. Some quick ideas include placing the engagement ring in their favorite book, recreating their favorite movie scene, and planning to make some art together and working in the big question.\n\n### 18. Have Your Pet Ask For You\nThere are a handful of adorable ideas when it comes to involving your pet in your proposal. For collared pets, consider getting a new tag that has \"Will you marry me\"? engraved in it. Similarly, you can purchase a bandana with the same phrase and tie it around your fury friend's neck. Some pets may be a bit more difficult to work around (birds, reptiles, fish), but with some creativity, any house animal can get it on the big moment.\n\n### 19. Have a Photo Shoot\nIf you're into photography, plan an outdoor or at-home photo shoot between you and your SO. This can start off with you taking photos of just them, or all along be self-timed shots of the two of you together. Just be sure you have the camera on both of you and ready to shoot when you surprisingly propose.\n\n### 20. Surprise Your Them With Fresh Flowers\nIt's one thing to surprise your significant other with some gorgeous flowers, but it's another entirely to turn that into a proposal. Get a hold of a beautiful bouquet either at a local grocery store or florist, or get them delivered right to your door. Then place the ring box or engagement ring among the blooms and (carefully!) gift them to your partner. Once they notice, start your proposal speech or pop the question.\n\n## First Comes Love, Then Comes Zola!\nRelationships take time and effort, yet there is no reason to stress out over the marriage ask. You and your partner know how to show love to each other. If that means a low-maintenance proposal, then so be it! No matter what you decide to do, the start of your life together will reflect you perfectly. In short, don’t be afraid to keep it simple. Some of the best proposal ideas are the simplest. So long as you've got yourself, your partner, and some heartfelt words, you've got everything you need. And when you need some help planning your wedding, Zola's got all the advice and tools you'll need, right here.","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Thinking of popping the question? 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","title":"Proposal Etiquette: How to Ask for a Father's Permission to Marry His Daughter?","slug":"proposal-etiquette-what-you-need-to-know-before-popping-the-big-question","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1CrIRnIrgR2agUQxhfJpO1/c8b2a42c550da4bdc8ee4049a30801bb/Hero_BohoSummerWeddingatCampMontShenandoah_SabrinaSteelePhotography.jpg","altText":"Proposal Etiquette"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:55:00.947Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Proposals","slug":"proposals"},"slug":"can-you-propose-without-a-ring","title":"Tips for Proposing Without A Ring + 10 Alternatives","excerpt":"Don’t know if it’s okay to propose without a ring? Find out what our experts say by checking out our latest guide. ","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2020-12-30T18:32:15.371Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/58Was5Fgz8kxScfS0XaaCE/0069bf3d28ceb04517d39c06a9c172fc/Hero_EtherealCoastalRomanceStyledShoot_ArleneJacobsPhotography.jpg","altText":"Propose Without a Ring"},"heroCredit":"Arlene Jacobs Photography","body":"Engagement rings — some people love them, some people hate them, but not every couple expects them. You can propose without a ring. Getting engaged is about deciding that you and your partner (AKA your soon-to-be fiance!) want to spend the rest of your lives together. That decision does not need to come with a piece of jewelry in a ring box—or anything else, for that matter. Any proposal that ends in a decision to get married is great. \n\nNonetheless, the [engagement ring](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-rings) has become the symbolic object of impending marriages everywhere. So what should you do if you’re planning to propose, but don’t want an engagement ring to be part of the moment—whether because you want a [low maintenance proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/12-no-fuss-proposal-ideas-for-the-low-maintenance-couple), you want to propose with another piece of jewelry, or rings simply aren’t your partners style? The Zola team is here to walk you through the process. \n\n### Make Sure You’re Both on the Same Page\n\nEngagement rings are a big social signifier of being engaged, and some people don’t feel properly engaged unless they have a ring to show for it. You want to make sure your partner is on board with the idea of a marriage proposal without a wedding ring. You don’t want the absence of the ring to be the focus of your proposal. Even if the two of you generally forgo conventional [wedding traditions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/decor-inspiration/wedding-traditions), people can be surprisingly attached to engagement rings. Before you plan your proposal, check-in with your partner to gauge their general feelings about rings. \n\nIf you’re more concerned that you won’t buy the right ring, then read on for suggestions on proposing before making your purchase. \n\n### Propose Now, Buy the Ring Later\n\nBuying an engagement ring is a big deal. Engagement rings are expensive, wildly different from one another, and something that your partner might wear for his or her entire life. A lot of people are hesitant to jump into such a big decision without the direct input of their partner. \n\nIf you’re planning to propose now and buy the ring later, you have a few options. You can propose with a heartfelt gift instead of a ring, such as a photo album with pictures that span your relationship or a particularly meaningful poem. If you propose without a ring—but want to show your partner that a ring is on the way—you can buy a temporary ring that’s a placeholder, such as a large candy rock ring or a paper mache ring. Or, you can make a certificate good for one ring-shopping experience together, and present this along with your proposal. \n\nThe idea is to convey that the ring will be part of your engagement period, but not part of your marriage proposal. \n\n![Can You Propose Without a Ring?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/57BcxK1mE95lk4Lm73u7s6/2b0a8dfb2ff3b27e0dc68b7d9d44a2ee/Inline_Pixabay.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Pixabay\n\n### The Decision to Ditch the Ring Entirely \n\nIncreasingly, many couples are foregoing engagement rings entirely. Some feel the tradition is antiquated, overly gendered, or simply an unneeded expense. When both partners agree, the decision to go without a ring is an easy one. \n\nThe more difficult part of this decision can be dealing with the negative feedback of family and friends. We’ve all heard the routine: When a woman gets engaged to be married, she’s often asked to show off her ring. (This is way less of an issue with men, who often don’t wear engagement rings.) Social media photos of engagement announcements often feature at least one, if not multiple, close-ups of the ringed finger. \n\nIf you decide to propose without a ring, you might want to prepare for the people in your life who will be upset by this decision. Not because you need to pander to them, but because you want to get ahead of those critiques. Plan out your one sentence, the calm and collected explanation that says that you don’t need a diamond ring to decide to get married, and move on. \n\n### Alternatives to Engagement Rings\n\nFor many people, the engagement ring is about the symbolism of the investment. The ring, for all its expense, implies permanence. In other words, the person is putting down some serious investment in the person by investing so seriously in a diamond ring. \n\nLots of other gifts can achieve these same goals when planning out a romantic proposal, though. When considering alternatives to the engagement ring, you want to consider gifts that come with some symbolic backstory and demonstrate a significant amount of investment, either emotional or financial. The goal is to convey that you are “all in” on this proposal and willing to back that up with some thought and personal investment. \n\n### 1. Buy a Watch \nIn recent years, it’s become more commonplace for women to propose to men to present them with a watch. This can be a beautiful way for a couple to take charge of the too-often gendered reality of proposals and guide the process themselves. Make sure the watch matches the style of your partner. \n\n### 2. Book a Vacation\nIn place of a ring, present your loved one with a planned vacation to a spot you both want to visit. The trip can be a way to spend time together and celebrate your decision to get married. This trip should be a truly exciting and adventurous proposal. \n\n### 3. Take An Adventure\nHas there been an adventure you and your partner have been wanting to experience together—like skydiving, rock climbing, or whitewater rafting? If so, plan an excursion for the two of you—and then cap off the adrenaline-filled day with a proposal they’re sure to remember for the rest of their life!\n\n![Can You Propose Without a Ring?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2BgqWB13HjPfxm0Y4EIkq1/cbd507a23bc64d94983561403ae90de6/Inline_Pixabay__1_.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Pixabay\n\n### 4. Shop for Jewelry\nWho says you need a ring? If you want a gift that will last forever, but your partner isn’t interested in a ring, try another type of jewelry. Diamond earrings, pendant necklaces, or anything that you know your partner will love and adore can be a really beautiful gift for a proposal.\n\n### 5. Offer a Family Heirloom\nIf you want to give your significant other jewelry to signify your engagement, it doesn’t need to come from the jewelry store. An heirloom from your family (like your mothers’s necklace or a bracelet your grandfather gifted your grandmother when they got engaged) is a meaningful symbol of love—and a great way to propose.\n\n### 6. Plan The Perfect Surprise Proposal\nNot all engagement gifts need to be physical items. If your partner is the kind of person that watches proposal videos on YouTube, planning an over-the-top surprise proposal (like a flash mob!) is the perfect way to begin the rest of your lives together. \n\n### 7. Buy a House\nThis is a rather dramatic option, but for the right couple, a stunning gesture can be to present your loved one with the home you want to live in, with them, forever.\n\n### 8. Go Romantic\nLet’s just say again that no proposal needs a big, expensive gift. Sometimes the best proposal is one that comes straight from the heart. A romantic gift, which might be anything from tracking down some beloved childhood toy to putting together a recipe book of her favorite family dishes, can be the absolute right choice. The point is to show that you care and that you’re putting your love on full display. Think of a gift that will make your partner feel overwhelmed with love, and you’ll be on the right track.\n\n### 9. Write It In The Sky\nIf you want to propose in a way your partner will never forget, using a skywriting service to write your proposal in the sky is a fun, memorable way to ask for their hand in marriage.\n\n### 10. Create Something From Scratch\nYou don’t have to buy something to propose. If you’re the crafty type, building or creating something handmade (for example, building a table or creating a painting) can be a personal way to commemorate such a special day. \n\n## Tips to Propose Without A Ring\nNeed some more tips popping the question—but without the bling? Here are some things to keep in mind:\n\n- __Be clear__. When someone sees an engagement ring, it’s clear what’s happening—and, as such [what you say during your proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/12-no-fuss-proposal-ideas-for-the-low-maintenance-couple) isn’t as critical; they’ll get the idea. But if you’re going to propose without a ring, it’s super important that you’re clear—and make sure to distinctly ask “will you marry me?” Otherwise, your partner might not know you’re proposing!\n\n- __Set the mood__. Ring or no ring, you want your proposal to be special—so make sure to set the mood and create a memorable backdrop for your engagement (for example, by choosing the perfect song, filling the space with flowers, or lighting candles). \n\n- __Consider involving friends and family__. If you really want your proposal to be a celebration, consider inviting friends and family to witness the big moment and/or celebrate with you immediately afterwards. Who needs an engagement ring when you’re surrounded by the people you love most?\n\nEven if your proposal idea doesn’t include a diamond ring to match, that doesn't mean you have to wait until you have one. Sometimes people don't want fancy jewelry. No matter how you choose to propose, just be sure that both individuals are on the same page.","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Planning a wedding proposal is no joke. Make sure you’re prepared by following this wedding proposal checklist. ","title":"Wedding Proposal Checklist","slug":"wedding-proposal-checklist","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4yu05UOJ3vPezTnlJkOJFR/0a404fe21dbe265fcda15418ce693871/Hero_ClassicKeyWestOceanfrontAffair_LivingWaterImages.jpg","altText":"Wedding Proposal Checklist"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"There are guides for almost every first, but there’s no manual on proposal etiquette. 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Read on for tips on how to propose to a man.","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2020-12-30T17:03:43.838Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7c3zU7NCSq4IdpOmArMWZM/a37b0e47c1323e761830de9dc0b9e0a3/Hero_IntimateMountaintopElopementStyledShoot_RaynaMcginnisPhotography.jpg","altText":"Guide to Proposing to a Man"},"heroCredit":"Rayna Mcginnis Photography","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- If *you* want to be the one to pop the question, know you're not alone! 2% of women today propose to their male partners, a trend that's bound to grow as more couples challenge gender norms.\n- You don’t need a ring to propose to your man. You can present a card, a watch, a gift, or nothing at all. \n- If you decide to kneel when you propose, make sure your outfit allows for the task. \n- Have a strategy for when—and how—to announce the engagement to family and friends. \n","body":"We all know how popular culture portrays the classic marriage proposal: the man on one knee, the proffered ring box, the woman overcome with emotion. It’s an image that needs no explanation. Even in a modern world, the kneeling man with a perfect ring remains the visual reference point for a wedding proposal. \n\nAccording to a [recent Zola survey](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/addressing-the-stigma-around-women-proposing-to-men), __only 2% of women today propose to their male partners.__ The #1 thing holding most women back from feeling like they can propose is the idea of the \"perfect proposal\" that society-at-large, the media, and the wedding industry has shaped for them. \n\nBut the truth is that there's no right way, or right person, to propose. __Zola is setting out to celebrate couples who embrace the endless possibilities with all aspects of their weddings, and that includes reimagining what proposals should look like.__ The water can still be tricky to navigate, as there’s a real lack of guidance on the subject. Luckily, the Zola team is here to help with the woman’s guide to proposing to a man. \n\n\n\n## Deciding to Propose \n\nThe best time to propose is after you and your partner know that you want to get married. For many couples, the formal proposal is the last step in a much longer series of conversations about marriage. You don’t want your moment of proposal to be the first time you and your partner have ever discussed marriage. While the proposal itself might be a surprise—the day, the time, the method of asking—the question itself shouldn’t shock your partner, especially if you have friends or family present for the big moment.\n\n- __If you’ve never discussed marriage, first open up the conversation.__ How do each of you envision the next step of your relationship? If you sense your partner is reluctant to commit, do not propose as a way to force their hand.\n- __There is also the big question of when you hope to plan your wedding.__ Some couples don’t like to have an extended engagement, and so one partner might propose only when they’ve decided on an ideal wedding date.\n-__You should also consider work schedules and other big family announcements.__ Proposing right before a two-week work trip or having your engagement announcement conflict with his sister’s wedding is not ideal.\n\nOf course, some couples get engaged during an informal, spontaneous conversation in which one partner asks the other to marry them. This organic moment can be very intimate and beautiful. Some couples might choose to follow up with a more elaborate proposal idea, and some will consider the question asked and answered.\n\nFor a woman, deciding to be the one who proposes can also mean making waves in traditional marriage protocol. This might matter to some brides, and it might be no big deal to others. But the proposal remains one of the few gendered marriage rituals, even among otherwise egalitarian social groups. You might be surprised by the reaction of family and friends to your decision to ask the big question. \n\nIf you haven’t discussed it at all with your partner, you might be surprised by his reaction, too. [Zola's recent survey](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/addressing-the-stigma-around-women-proposing-to-men) revealed that __though more than half (58%) of women believe that their male partner would not be okay with them proposing, but most men (93%) would have said \"Yes\" if they were poposed to.__ Though we hope this is reassuring, checking in with your partner first is one of the most important things in [how to plan a proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/proposal-etiquette-what-you-need-to-know-before-popping-the-big-question). For all you know, he was planning an elaborate proposal of his own. If your partner is a pretty traditional guy, check in with him about his general feelings around proposals. Proposals should be delightful surprises, not come with unexpected reactions. \n\n![How to Propose to a Man | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5teyNUVOJguI4VGtDpRyQL/bb2eb87835ca683b6f56654e4d74ed66/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### What to Do About the Ring \n\nThe proposal is about asking someone to marry you, and finding out if the answer is yes—that’s it. There certainly doesn’t need to be a [ring](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/womens-wedding-rings) involved to make that happen. As such, many women decide to propose and then discuss the question of buying rings separately from the decision to get married. \n\nIn recent years, an alternative tradition has emerged for women to buy the man a watch when they propose, symbolizing the time they will spend together. If you go this route, then make sure to pay close attention to your partner’s style and taste in watches. This should be a substantial purchase that he will wear for years to come, and you want to make sure he likes it. You could even go watch shopping together.\n\nSome women want to have something on hand for the moment they propose, but a ring or a watch doesn’t quite fit their vision. You can get creative with your proposal idea. Maybe present him with a heartfelt card about why you want to get married or a gift that will be particularly meaningful to him. This might be something of sentimental value, tickets to his absolute favorite band, or plans for a once-in-a-lifetime trip together. Again, the most important thing is to mark the moment as meaningful for you as a couple.\n\nIf you do want a ring to be a part of the proposal, you have a few options. You can give him a wedding band that he can choose to wear after the wedding, you can present him a ring that he will choose to wear as an engagement ring, or you can buy him a ring he might wear on his right hand until the wedding.\n\n### To Kneel or Not to Kneel \n\nThe tradition of kneeling in order to ask someone to marry you is very old. In many traditional contexts, kneeling is a sign of respect that demonstrates loyalty and allegiance. Knights, for example, knelt before their king and queen, and in many religions the faithful will kneel in front of an altar, respected clergy, or sacred image as a way to pay homage and respect. Similarly, the man knelt before the woman to symbolize the honor it was to ask for her hand.\n\nFor a lot of people, the gesture of kneeling feels symbolic and meaningful for a wedding proposal. Women who want to kneel when they ask the question should definitely do so. If you have a gift to offer, make sure it’s in easy reach before you go down on that one knee. If you’re not offering a gift, then kneel down and take your partner’s hand when you ask the question, or keep your hands on your knee.\n\nYou should also be dressed for the occasion. Don’t wear a tight pencil skirt or high stilettos, as it will make the kneeling position more difficult. You want some stretch in your clothes. You should also be mindful of short, flowy skirts that might blow in the wind or prove too revealing in the position. Some people find trousers the easiest option. Whatever you wear, practice kneeling in your outfit beforehand, so you’re not caught off guard during the moment.\n\nFor women who don’t want to kneel, but want to physically mark the moment, there are gestures of intimacy you can adopt. You can take your partner’s hands and look into his eyes as you ask him to marry you, for example. \n\n![A Woman’s Guide to Proposing to a Man](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3bx7x4OgpR86pHSmiaCidz/c465dae3d736b459f6f4f298dd9dd243/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Proposal Tips\nAs with any proposal, those planning to propose to their man could benefit from a few quick tips. Before diving head-first into things, read the following. Keep them top-of-mind as you plan what's sure to be a day (or evening, or night) to remember.\n\n- __Be completely sure you're ready.__ Check in with yourself and make sure you aren't feeling any sort of uncertainty. Know that you're proposing, because you and your partner are ready to make things official and step into married life together.\n- __Consider your partner's feelings.__ Equally as important is where your partner is at with your relationship. Before proposing, have a conversation and make sure you're on the same page. At this point, it shouldn't be about if, but when.\n- __Tailor your proposal to your partner.__ Remember: You aren't planning your dream proposal, but his (or the both of yours, if your tastes here align). Shape your proposal to your SO's personality and/or passions.\n- __Be sensitive to several reactions.__ Gender roles typically have a man proposing to his partner. If you haven't floated the idea of you proposing to them, be prepared for an sensitive to a variety of reactions. There's a chance he may be disappointed he didn't get to ask you first. In that case, suggest that he ask you in return at another time of his choosing. Having asked each other is a lovely thought and will make for wonderful proposal stories.\n- __Prepare.__ You know the saying, *failing to prepare*... Well, the same can be said for any and all proposals. Have a backup plan or two in mind in case the weather shifts, you can't make it to your planned location, people can't show, or any other array of things goes wrong. In any case, always roll with the punches and remember what matters: That you're asking your partner to spend the rest of your lives together. Your partner won't know your new plan from the actual proposal plan.\n\n## Special Proposal Ideas\nEquipped with your newfound information, it's time to brainstorm some proposal plans. At the heart of things, your proposal should be genuine and heartfelt. That being said, a few [fun and creative ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/proposal-ideas) never hurt. Read on for some of our favorite ideas.\n\n### 1. A Beach or Hike Proposal. \n\nFor the couple that loves to be outdoors together, plan a proposal that takes place on the beach or at the end of your beau's favorite hike. A major pro, here, is that you can have family members and best friends waiting nearby to surprise your SO post-proposal. This proposal is also fairly easy to put together, depending on any extra details you might include, and can be very cost-efficient.\n### 2. Involve your pets. \n\nIf you and/or your SO have a beloved pet, get them involved in asking the big question. For example, purchase (or make) a bandana that says, \"Will you marry me?\" and tie it around your pet's neck while out on a walk. This surprise proposal makes for a lovely moment you're both sure to remember for the rest of your lives.\n\n### 3. A Holiday Proposal. \n\nAnother proposal idea for those who want loved ones nearby is to pop the question during a favored holiday. Plan a special moment in advance (e.g. Christmas tree shopping, the countdown during New Year's Eve) or keep the ring on you and let spontaneity decide. Either approach is sure to get a sentimental SO's \"I do.\"\n\n## Announcing the Engagement \n\nWomen and men will often announce their engagement in gendered language, for example proclaiming “she said yes!” or “I said yes!” to share the good news. Similarly, social media is full of engagement pictures that are nothing but a woman’s hand with a perfect ring, announcing the engagement without any words.\n\nFor women who propose to their partners, it can be tricky to find the right language. Some couples want to celebrate the fact that the woman popped the question. This can be a great way to flip any stereotypes on their head and normalize women proposing to men. You can take some fun pictures captioned “he said yes!” or “I can’t believe I convinced this guy to marry me” to share with family and friends. This is a time to have fun.\n\nOther couples may opt to put the focus on the upcoming marriage and not the proposal. Social media captions such as “we’re getting married!” is a more forward-focused way to let people know about the engagement.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Thinking of popping the question? Arrange the perfect proposal for your partner with these creative ideas. From romantic to adventurous, there's one for you!","title":"50 Unique Marriage Proposal Ideas [+ Printables]","slug":"proposal-ideas","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6dR1PxiYWKzfOfBhHANhYv/cd70212d7dfbc320706b4488eed2dd13/proposal-ideas-2.jpg","altText":"proposal idea hero image of person holding engagement ring box"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Explore effortless yet meaningful proposal ideas for couples who cherish simplicity. 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Check out our latest article for all our top tips and tricks.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-12-29T21:35:40.650Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/ZSvx7fS927GXT72ZS6XYW/3278ca8712f9f8e9edeac2ca35019fa1/Hero_EarthyPunkRockStyledShoot_CreatrixPhotography.jpg","altText":"Surprise Proposal"},"heroCredit":"Creatrix Photography","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- Surprise proposals can be exciting, but be sure that it’s the right type of proposal for your partner. \n- Be careful who you tell, and don’t leave clues, such as the ring or receipt, where your SO can find them. \n- Do things to distract your partner, such as using a different credit card and throwing them off the proposal trail.\n","body":"Life affords many surprises. While there’s the wrong kind—cracking your iPhone screen or a flat tire—many unexpected circumstances are oh-so-right. Popping the question is one of those, but coming up with romantic ways to keep your big moment a secret can be difficult.\n\nIf you’re trying to pull off a __[surprise proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/proposal-ideas)__, there are creative ways to fly under the radar. Below, our experts share a number of __[best wedding proposal ideas/best proposal ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/12-no-fuss-proposal-ideas-for-the-low-maintenance-couple)__ on how to inspire the perfect proposal story, so you'll have no issues in planning that special moment without your partner knowing, helping you continue to shape your love story—and the rest of your life together. Let’s look at some unique marriage proposal ideas/unique proposal ideas.\n\n## How to Pull Off the Best Surprise Proposals \n\n### 1. Be careful who you tell about your epic proposal\nYour __[friends and family](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/introduce-families-after-engagement)__ could have the best intentions, but some have loose lips. Others get so nervous about keeping a secret that they act awkwardly and arouse suspicion. If you need to rely on others to pull off your surprise proposal, use caution. Remind them that it’s essential to keep their eye on the prize and not let one word—or glance—slip. \n\n### 2. Ensure that your marriage proposal is well planned.\nChances are your SO will be clued in if you’re acting nervous or distracted. Don’t leave the planning of your __[surprise proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/classic-marriage-proposal-ideas)__ to the last minute. Have everything in place, such as a beautiful setup and a proposal photographer. If others are involved, be sure that they are clear on their role and know exactly what to do when. A well-organized plan will help you relax and act naturally until it’s time to pop the question. \n\n### 3. Guard your devices before you pop the question.\nThe last thing you want your partner to do is to read a stray text that pops in. Put conversations with everyone involved on mute. Turn off notifications if you have to do so. Your faraway mom may send you a “good luck popping the question” text. Yikes! How do you explain that to your partner? It’s best to keep track of your smartphone, but don’t let that spark suspicion, either. Just make sure there are no accidental slips, so it can remain a total surprise.\n\n### 4. Distract them to throw them off the trail. \nIf you’re afraid that they’ll sense something is coming, throw them off course. Have your SO anticipate a marriage proposal at a different time or location than you planned. When they assume that you’ll be popping the question next month, imagine their shock when you propose this week. Distraction can be one of the best ways to divert their attention from what’s going on. \n\n### 5. Hide the engagement ring and anything that has to do with it.\nIn the words of __[Antoine Dodson](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EzNhaLUT520&list=FLBk90eKSRwxjUUZMbUkmVag&index=20)__, “Hide yo ring, hide yo box, hide yo bag.” Oh, wait—that’s not what he said? Well, it’s what he would have said if someone was asking him about the best surprise proposal ideas. That said, don’t leave anything—__[ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring)__, box, receipt, and for heaven’s sake, the jewelry store bag—where your partner can find it.\n\n### 6. Stick to the routine.\nUnless you’re an ultra-spontaneous couple, changing plans can be a big red flag. Your partner may already know a __[ring is coming](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ritani_fivestone_wedding_ring_14ktwhitegold)__, and senses can heighten at anything out of the norm. When planning surprise wedding proposals, it’s best to develop a plan that includes your everyday routine. Ask while at your favorite restaurant on a Tuesday night. Pop the question at your favorite team’s next home game. Keep it simple and undetectable. \n\n### 7. Don’t use a joint credit card or account to purchase the ring.\nWhen your charge card bill is double what it typically is, your SO will be looking at line items. Another big surprise-spoiler is a __[high-dollar charge](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-finance-an-engagement-ring)__—or possibly any charge—from XYZ jewelry store. Do your best to pay cash, use store credit, or get a new card to pay.\n\nReady for some covert operations? No matter what attempts you make, your partner may be alerted if they’re naturally suspicious or a super sleuth. If they figure it out, change course and start with a new plot. No matter the method, doing your best to plan the ultimate surprise proposal will __[pay off in the long run](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-announce-your-engagement)__.\n\n## Pros and Cons\n### Pros\n- __Fond memories.__ When many people look back at getting engaged, the surprise is what's greatly admired and remembered.\n\n- __Creativity and dedication.__ Your partner may deeply appreciate the creativity, time, and work put into a special surprise proposal.\n\n- __Tradition.__ Many significant others consider the surprise aspect of a proposal necessary and, thus, __[part of the whole tradition](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/proposal-etiquette-what-you-need-to-know-before-popping-the-big-question)__.\n\n### Cons\n- __Uncertainty.__ If you're uncertain whether or not your partner is ready to get engaged, don't spring a surprise proposal—especially not in front of other people.\n\n- __Keeping the secret.__ Proposal planning can be difficult to pull off in secret. If you're worried you'll give it away or that any suspicious behavior will come off badly, skip the secrecy.\n\n- __Not into surprises.__ Surprise engagements don't excite everybody. If your partner isn't typically a fan of surprises (or you aren't a fan of pulling them), don't try to force it.\n\n## 21 Surprise Proposal Ideas\n\n![How to Pull Off a Surprise Proposal | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5mvq6UvIYPZo3H3Nc7gtjl/10c5acb04946d100d45dc10b4bee2bbf/Inline_Pixabay__2_.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Pixabay\n\n### 1. Recreate a movie scene\nIf you and your partner are big film fans—or fans of one film, in particular—base your surprise proposal on a certain scene. This will be easier if the scene itself is a proposal (à la Pride and Prejudice, Love Actually, and Crazy Rich Asians), but don't be discouraged if it isn't. Even Star Wars and Lord of the Rings moments can have a proposal built into them. You can take this as far as you'd like, with a special setting, costumes, or the movie playing in the background. Surprise your SO with the set up and performance, followed by asking them to marry you.\n\n### 2. Take advantage of a holiday\nIf your partner loves a particular holiday, try to plan your proposal around it. Whether that's doing a Christmas proposal in the middle of gift-giving, planning an Easter egg scavenger hunt that ends with a ring, going into the New Year engaged, or taking advantage of the chocolates and rose petals that come with Valentine's Day, your SO is sure to enjoy the added cause to celebrate.\n\n### 3. Recreate your first date\nIf your first date was memorable or extra special, consider recreating it. Café, restaurant, park, or otherwise, plan a day or night out at your first date spot, ring in tow. Once there, settle in and have a good time. When you're ready to propose, start reminiscing about your first date. Not only what happened, but how you felt about your partner. Then, when you feel the time is right, bring out the ring and propose.\n\n### 4. Hold a game night\nFor the couple that loves a night in with loved ones, prepare for the perfect surprise. Invite close family and best friends over for a game night, in which you've crafted your proposal into one of the games. Not sure how to do this? We think Scrabble is an easy way to go. Ask someone to distract your partner in another room as you pull the game out and place \"Will you marry me?\" on the board. Then, bring them back in to play. When they notice the big question, get down on one knee and launch into your __[proposal speech](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-say-during-a-proposal)__.\n\n### 5. Have a photo shoot\nIf you're a frequent photographer, consider planning a photoshoot. You can ask to take photos of your significant other or suggest a couple's shoot. The latter works especially well if a holiday is coming up, like Valentine's Day or Christmas. Start snapping away, then, at the end of the shoot, get in front of the camera, get down on one knee, and propose! Just make sure you're getting photos as it happens. Bonus: You'll immediately have engagement photos you can share with family and across social media.\n\n### 6. Gift them flowers\nSurprise proposals don't need to be big productions, nor do they need to be very public. For the __[low-key couple](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/12-no-fuss-proposal-ideas-for-the-low-maintenance-couple)__, consider slipping the engagement ring or ring box into a bouquet of flowers. Bring a bouquet home from a local grocery store or florists (or have the flowers delivered), carefully place the ring amidst the blooms, and give them to your partner. They'll be in for not one, but two sweet and intimate surprises.\n\n### 7. Take a walk along the beach\nWhether you're on vacation or live near the coast, a beach proposal is extremely romantic. What's more, it's very easy to pull off. Slip the ring box in your pocket and take a walk along the shoreline with your partner, perhaps during sunrise or sunset. When the time feels right, surprise your SO by getting down on one knee. You can also have friends and family standing by, waiting to jump out and celebrate.\n\n### 8. Plan a boat ride\nIf you live near the water and have access to a boat (don't forget rentals!), plan a day or evening out at sea. Gather friends or family to join you for extra fun—and to not tip your partner off to the surprise. Then, when the sun is setting or you feel the time is right, propose to your partner. Tell a friend or family member when you're just about to do it so they can get the whole gorgeous scene on video from nearby.\n\n### 9. Take a special trip\nNot everyone can jet off at a moment's notice, but you can plan a special trip ahead of time. Jet-setting to a different country, taking a road trip to a nearby destination, and everything in-between can work wonderfully for a surprise proposal. Even stay-cations can be very romantic. Wherever you end up, once you've settled, pick a beautiful location and ask your partner the big question. You'll both love the ability to celebrate after, be it by relaxing or adventuring.\n\n### 10. Host an engagement party\nNothing says \"surprise\" like a party. Plan your proposal at a location where you can also host an engagement party afterwards. Consider restaurants, nice bars, hotels, and even your home. You don't have to go all out with your budget, but can definitely splurge on a big celebration if you want to. Simply plan a \"date night\" with your partner, get them to dress for the occasion, and bring them to the spot. Once there, surprise them with a romantic proposal and the arrival of your loved ones.\n\nSurprise proposals can be tough to pull off. Even the simplest of ideas run the chance of being spilled. That being said, try not to put too much pressure on yourself. So long as the moment is meaningful and your words come from the heart, your partner is sure to love whatever efforts you put in.\n\n### 11. Organize a flash mob\nGet together with loved ones—or hire professional dancers—to coordinate and organize a flash mob proposal. Then, take your partner somewhere public—like a park, mall, or beach—where the waiting flash mob will spring into action to help you pop the big question. (A flash mob works especially well for outdoor proposals!)\n\n### 12. Hide the ring in your Christmas tree\nThe holidays make for an especially romantic and magical time of year, so why not use them to come up with the perfect proposal? Before you go to bed on Christmas Eve, hide the ring box in the Christmas tree. On Christmas morning, call special attention to “one more gift” before your partner pulls the box out of the branches.\n\n### 13. Visit Disney for a fairytale proposal\nIt’s called the Magic Kingdom for a reason. What’s more magical than proposing in front of Disney’s Cinderella Castle? Enchant your partner and have them feel like they’re living a fairytale by popping the question while surrounded by the magic and classical beauty of some of their favorite characters and stories.\n\n### 14. Ride a ferris wheel\nWith the stars above and city lights flickering in the distance, a ferris wheel proposal is a surefire way to surprise your partner. For the best effect, wait until the ferris wheel is at its apex, with a vast and stunning view to serve as the backdrop when you pull out the ring and have your big moment.\n\n### 15. Hide the ring inside a fortune cookie\nCracking open a fortune cookie and reading your fortune is always fun. But what if, instead of a fortune, that cookie hid an engagement ring instead? Next time you order Chinese takeout, slip away with one of the cookies and heat it in the microwave quickly to help it open up before secreting the ring inside of it. When it’s time for your partner to read their fortune, dazzle them with a beautiful engagement ring! (It’ll definitely be the most memorable cookie they’ve ever had!)\n\n### 16. Go for a hot air balloon ride\nCruising through the sky on a hot air balloon is a great way to enjoy a little bit of excitement and romance with your loved one. As you drift over and past the natural beauty below, pull out the ring and ask for your partner’s hand in marriage for a truly surprising—and breathtaking—proposal. (Just make sure to share your plan with the pilot and staff first).\n\n### 17. Put together a jigsaw puzzle\nPuzzles are always more fun when you’re not sure what the final result should look like. Purchase or create a jigsaw puzzle for the perfect surprise proposal by encouraging your partner to gradually piece it together until it’s all but obvious that you’re asking “will you marry me?”\n\n### 18. Climb a mountain in a ski lift\nIf you and your partner enjoy hitting the slopes, a ski lift is the perfect surprise proposal idea. As the lift caresses over the gentle snow-covered slopes of your favorite resort with the promise of a warm hot chocolate in each of your near-futures, get down onto your knee and ask to share the rest of your lives together.\n\n### 19. Hire a skywriter\nFor a grandiose and surprising proposal, invite your partner to join you somewhere with a great and unobstructed view of the sky—ideally on a day with clear weather and little cloud cover. When you hear the whirring engine of a low-flying plane above, direct your partner’s attention to it and pull out the ring just in time for the pilot to finish writing out the big question against the clear blue sky.\n\n### 20. Spend a night stargazing\nStars shine brilliantly for millions of years with the same amount of energy with which you love your partner. For this surprise proposal idea, head out somewhere with a clear view of the night sky and little light pollution, roll out a blanket onto the ground (or enjoy the soft grass against your backs), and stare up at the sky overhead. Point out your favorite constellations and, when the time is right, pull out the ring and share your speech beneath the night sky.\n\n### 21. Create a treasure hunt\nFor another perfect proposal idea, think of all the places you and your partner consider special or important, like the place you had your first date and your favorite restaurant. Hide clues in or at each of these places to create a trail of breadcrumbs your partner can follow until the end, where the final treasure awaits: a beautiful proposal ring and a heart-warming speech in which you ask to spend the rest of your lives together.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"There are guides for almost every first, but there’s no manual on proposal etiquette. Our complete guide can help. 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It’s official: Everyone’s opting for these months—and here’s why.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2022-01-06T22:41:32.982Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1RBNfTEOwI6UdlwKrEQqw0/8bddc5094111a16de83743ba5ec39212/1116_EA_FLR-Months_Everyones_Getting_Engaged.jpg","altText":"top months to get engaged and married"},"heroCredit":"Katie Dawn Photo","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- This year the __most popular months to get engaged and married__ look a little familiar. Below we cover all of the ‘whens’ and ‘whys.’\n- Due to extended engagements and brewing excitement, 2023 will see an __earlier wedding season than usual__.\n- The __top months to get engaged__ haven’t seen too much change, being influenced mostly by the holidays, time spent with loved ones, and the weather.\n- However, the __top months to get married__ have shifted from April and May, to October, September and June.\n","body":" \nWhen a couple gets engaged or married is typically based on a number of factors. Holidays, breaks from work and school, and—perhaps most notable—weather, all play into the month that someone proposes or says I do. In fact, __[wedding season](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-season-should-you-get-married-in)__ exists for these exact reasons.\n\nThis coming year, things are looking a bit familiar to popular wedding months of the past. While some of the most popular times to get engaged and married remain mainstays, we’re seeing new months on couples’ radars and an overall shift in 2023’s projected wedding season. It’s official: Everyone’s getting engaged and married in these months. Here’s why.\n\n## Top Months to Get Married \nWith 2023 coming off the heels of one of the busiest wedding seasons ever, it's no surprise to see the most popular wedding months pre-pandemic rising back to the top. \n\nAfter last year's shift due to postponed weddings, [September](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/september-wedding-heres-everything-you-need-to-know) returns to the #1 most popular wedding month for 2023. Summertime and early fall typically host the most weddings, next year’s couples have set the most dates between May and September.\n\n### September\nMany people’s calendars are marked up with wedding dates and summer vacations during the summer months. __[September](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/september-wedding-heres-everything-you-need-to-know)__, however, sees a decrease in packed plans, making it ideal for couples with longer guest lists. Guests have more time and availability for early [fall weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/november-wedding-heres-everything-you-need-to-know) and are more likely to attend your celebration. September also embodies that desired fall feeling many engaged couples are after, while still offering the warm weather present at the end of summer. Add in the three-day Labor Day weekend, and many are sold on this being the best time of year.\n\n### June\n__[June weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/june-wedding-everything-you-need-to-know)__ are well-liked for many of the reasons that we’ve already covered. However, the month is also steeped in history and tradition. For one, June is named after Juno, the Roman goddess of marriage and childbirth, and thus long considered a favorable month to get married. Nowadays, June weddings are often sought after for more practical reasons. The beginning of summer has great weather, school break offers flexibility, and you can choose an outdoor wedding venue.\n\n### May\nMay weddings enjoy many of the benefits that June weddings do, such as nice weather and the accompanying flexibility. May is one of the months of the year that’s less likely to clash with plans, such as summer vacations and weddings. On that note, guests won’t suffer from wedding fatigue, which is possible during the busy summer wedding season. For many venues and vendors, a May spring wedding falls outside peak summer pricing. For couples that prioritize sticking to a budget, this month provides all of the perks of a summer wedding without the extra cost.\n\n### October\nThe reasons why October sees so many weddings are similar to why it sees so many engagements. In many places, it’s the perfect post-summer temperature, and vibrant fall colors have started to paint mountains, trees, and landscapes. You can also use deeper, moodier, or cozier decor than is usually seen in the spring or summer. An autumn wedding also opens the door to fun and seasonal food and cocktail options. __[Halloween](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-put-together-a-spooky-halloween-wedding)__ also gives couples the chance to throw the ultimate themed ceremony and reception in potentially cold weather, especially on the east coast.\n\n### April\nAlthough April showers can occur, this seems to be the only downside to having a wedding this month. When it isn’t raining, couples and their guests can enjoy comfortable weather, with temperatures anywhere from the fifties to the eighties throughout the US. [April](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/april-wedding-heres-everything-you-need-to-know) also has a popular and traditional context, making it a favorable month. After all, William and Kate chose April 29th, and the Romans considered April the Sacred Month of Venus, the Goddess of love and fertility.\n\n### July\nOne of the first things that come to mind with a mid-summer wedding is the high likelihood of fantastic weather. In many parts of the US, there is a very low risk of showers or strong winds, which is a great relief for those who want an outdoor ceremony or destination wedding. The days are longer, an abundance of flowers and fresh fruits are in season, and people are more willing to spend time traveling and socializing.\n\n## Top Months to Get Engaged \nWith that in mind, let’s start by looking at the months when people get engaged. This data hasn’t been seen as big of a change, likely due to proposals being a more intimate experience. That is to say, not many couples plan on having all of their loved ones present for it.\n\nMore often, proposals involve the couple, if not a handful of close friends and family members. This has made getting engaged throughout the last year easier to manage, with the usual factors such as weather, time off from work and school, and holidays having the largest influence. \n\n### December\nThe holiday season has long reigned supreme when it comes to the most popular months to get engaged—and we can’t say that we’re surprised. December brings with it feelings of thankfulness and love in the winter months. It’s the time that we’re most likely to be surrounded by loved ones, many of whom couples want to share these special moments with, which is one reason winter weddings are popular. With loved ones near, holiday cheer, and many towns decked out in festive decor, it is no surprise it is such a beloved time of the year to get engaged.\n\n### May\n[May](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/may-wedding-heres-everything-you-need-to-know) is one of the best months and lands in that nice place between late spring and early summer, with sunnier weather making an appearance in many places. Warmer days and the long Memorial Day weekend begin to coax people outside, making outdoor proposals much easier to pull off. Another plus to getting engaged in May is that it leads seamlessly into summer; a time when __[celebrating your engagement](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party)__ and beginning wedding planning becomes more manageable due to summer break and people’s availability opening up.\n\n### October\nWith fall kicking off just a few weeks earlier, __[October](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/october-wedding-heres-everything-you-need-to-know)__ is a prime time to take advantage of the best weather. Come mid-October, most of the US sees the arrival of fall foliage, a great excuse to drive into the mountains or take a surprise trip upstate. A vibrant, gorgeous autumn backdrop makes quite the backdrop for a proposal. Of course, we can’t go without mentioning Halloween, as spirited couples who go all out find it an especially special day to get engaged.\n\n### March\nLate March marks the beginning of springtime peak season, a time representative of renewal, rebirth, and fresh new beginnings. It’s a wonderful time to celebrate the start of something new, especially with the return of warmer weather and new blooms. Spring break starts around mid-March, allowing couples with children to make a sunny escape full of adventure and relaxation. This month also has two holidays that provide the perfect time: St. Patrick’s Day (especially if you or your partner are Irish) and National Proposal Day.\n\n### June\nSummer is finally in full swing, and with it comes sunny skies, large family gatherings, and the chance to go on trips with your significant other. Many couples take advantage of the typically warm weather by spending time together at their favorite outdoor spots near or far from home. Moreover, school’s out for summer, which means that couples or significant others with children can more easily involve them in the proposal. All of this provides ample opportunity for exciting engagements in all parts of the country.\n\n### February\nThough Valentine’s only lasts a single day (February 14th), the feeling of love permeates the entire month. Whether due to the anticipation leading up to the holiday, the giddiness thereafter, or both, it isn’t shocking that a lot of couples get engaged throughout. __[Valentine’s Day](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/proposal-ideas)__ alone is an apt time for big surprises and grand expressions of love. It’s romantic and traditional, as well as pretty unforgettable.\n\n## Dates to Avoid and Consider for Your Wedding\nNot only is the time of year important to consider when planning your wedding day, but there are some dates you need to consider avoiding. Although, some holidays can be helpful. If you’re considering having your big day near a holiday, poll essential wedding guests to see if they’ll be able to attend.\n\n#### Wedding Dates to Avoid\n- __Super Bowl Sunday__ (or other major sporting events, depending on your guest list and country)\n\n- __Thanksgiving Day__\n\n- __Christmas Day__\n\n- __Easter Sunday__\n\n#### Wedding Dates to Consider\n- __Long Weekends,__ such as Memorial Day, Labor Day, and Easter, Thanksgiving, and Christmas weekends\n\n- __Weekday Weddings,__ getting married in the off-season or weekday can help avoid peak wedding season pricing\n\n- __New Year’s Eve__ and __New Year’s Day__\n\n- __Halloween__\n\n- __Valentine’s Day__\n\n- __Interestingly Numbered Dates,__ for example, 4/24/24 or 2/5/25\n\n## Setting a Schedule at Zola\nOnce you’re engaged and your date’s been picked, much of your wedding planning can begin. Great! Although, admittedly, this can be an intimidating thing to approach. Not sure where to start? Zola’s got you covered. By __[creating an account](https://www.zola.com/onboard/select-product)__, you gain access to a number of helpful tools, like a customized monthly wedding checklist. Just sign up, tell us your wedding date and any special traditions that you’ll be following, and allow us to compile the rest. Come for the checklist and stay for the __[Wedding Website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website)__ builder, online RSVPs, and more __[Expert Advice](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice)__.","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"There are guides for almost every first, but there’s no manual on proposal etiquette. Our complete guide can help. ","title":"Proposal Etiquette: How to Ask for a Father's Permission to Marry His Daughter?","slug":"proposal-etiquette-what-you-need-to-know-before-popping-the-big-question","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1CrIRnIrgR2agUQxhfJpO1/c8b2a42c550da4bdc8ee4049a30801bb/Hero_BohoSummerWeddingatCampMontShenandoah_SabrinaSteelePhotography.jpg","altText":"Proposal Etiquette"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Looking to pull off the perfect surprise proposal? 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","title":"How to Choose The Best Wedding Month ","slug":"choosing-your-wedding-month","topic":"Wedding planning 101","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/71pkqiAypqFZ7CL8KRWGIr/4f34666823e73a80647f762866ec1bd0/Hero_New_Unsplash.jpg","altText":"best month for wedding"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:55:05.864Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Proposals","slug":"proposals"},"slug":"to-dos-after-you-get-engaged","title":"Just Engaged? Here’s What To Do Next!","excerpt":"Just engaged and wondering what’s next? A lot goes into wedding planning, but you don’t have to do it all at once. Here are the must-do to-dos after getting engaged.","author":"McCall Minnor","publishedAt":"2019-11-15T21:25:37.344Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6KWedC7RqcjzNqK8zy0LoU/286c6acfc830a30a9ac4d274ebf14501/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"Illustration graphic of an engagement ring box with a wedding ring and shine marks to indicate sparkle"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"__Inside this Article:__\n- Just got engaged, now what?\n- 17 steps for the just engaged couple\n- Engagement rings and wedding bands\n- FAQs about getting engaged and post-proposal to dos","body":"\nYou’re engaged! Whether you asked or answered, you just took the first step toward one of the happiest days (and chapters) of your life. You’ve probably heard that now the work begins—and, if you’re hoping to wed in a year or less, that’s true. Wait, wait, wait… don’t get overwhelmed. Yes, there’s wedding planning to do, but it doesn’t all need to happen at once.\n\n## Just got engaged, now what?\n \n\nWith the help of Zola, you’ll be off planning in a jiffy, but your list of to-do’s after engagement doesn’t have to be stressful. However, there are certain things you and your partner should accomplish in the first month (or so) after your engagement. Plus, you’ll discover the things you shouldn’t do right away, so you’ll know what to look forward to doing.\n\nSo, now that you’ve officially ticked “[getting engaged](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/getting-engaged)” off the list, it’s time to begin. First, congrats! Second, here’s your checklist of what’s coming up next as you begin to plan your wedding day. \n\n## 17 steps for the just engaged couple\n \n\n### 1. Celebrate\n\nIt might feel tough, but refrain from reaching for your phone right away. Instead, take some time to celebrate your engagement with your new fiancé. Make your way over to your favorite bar or restaurant and enjoy each other’s company. Take a walk on the beach or through your favorite part of the city.\n\nRegardless of the setting, enjoy the moment one-on-one (unless, of course, your loved ones were in on the [proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/getting-engaged/proposals) and are waiting in the wings). Before you know it, you’ll be up to your neck in wedding planning, so savor this time for all it’s worth. Bask in that newly engaged glow.\n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5TinaZh7eVfqET7ez5FgmP/527c65acd1e95d3ecf50b5852795015a/INLINE___Unsplash_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### 2. Share the news.\nWhen you’re ready to tell others, start with those closest to you. This is likely your immediate family (parents and siblings), other close relatives, and best friends. Ring them personally or pay a visit, if possible, but steer clear of text messages. While it might seem like the most efficient way to tell your people, it can feel a bit impersonal. Save text announcements for people you aren’t as close with.\n\nTypically, there’s a hierarchy that states you should tell family first. However, we realize that not all dynamics are the same. [Share the news of your engagement](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-announcements-101) with those you love in the order you deem most appropriate.\n\n### 3. Alert the (social) media\n\nThat is if you’re on social media, of course. Once you tell your close family and friends, now it’s time to tell the world. Share a status update on Facebook to say that you’re just engaged, or post a photo or story on Instagram. Take a selfie with your partner, show off [your ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/dont-like-engagement-ring), or upload a photo someone snapped of the actual engagement moment.\n\nYou’re engaged—you should absolutely share the story. However, we do caution against spamming your various timelines with [engagement news](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-announce-your-engagement). There will be plenty of opportunities to share wedding planning highlights as you work out details. Maybe don’t exhaust your followers with too much upfront.\n\n### 4. Tell your loved ones first\n\nIt's normal to be extremely thrilled and excited about the proposal. Of course, you want to let everyone within earshot—or everyone with access to a smartphone—know of the good news. We get it, it’s convenient to make a couple of posts online.\n\nAnd while it’s completely up to you who you tell and how you do it, you probably don’t want the friend you lost touch with after college to find out via Facebook that you’re engaged—before your own parents or best friends. \n\nHold off on making any social media posts until you’ve delivered the news to your important people in person, if not via a phone call.\n\n### 5. Start thinking about dates\nDue to desirable venues and [certain months](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/choosing-your-wedding-month) getting booked well in advance, it’s wise to start thinking about dates quite early. This is especially the case if you’re looking to have your wedding within a year or two of getting engaged. \n\nStart by discussing the ideal time of year or month with your significant other. Then, check for any holidays, birthdays, or other conflicts that you’d like to avoid double-booking. \n\nAlso, reach out to important loved ones, such as close friends and family members, to check for conflicts before settling on anything. Find out what works for you and those closest to you, and settle on a few days or weekends that you can ask potential [venues](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues) about.\n\n### 6. Start talking logistics\nYou and your partner have brainstormed locations, dates, and your wedding style—now’s the time to start setting things in stone. Be pragmatic in your discussions and decisions. Start by sitting down together and drawing out a personalized budget and timeline. Or, let Zola do the manual work for you – create a personalized wedding checklist, timeline and budget in just a few minutes. [Sign up and access our free wedding planning tools here](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/onboard).\n\nThere’s no official timeline you need to stick to but your own, by the way. If you want to be engaged for a couple of years, do that. Circle back to planning in a few months or years. If that’s not you, however, start with a location and date. Once you have both of those, reach out to venues. Figure out what they have for availability around your desired date and book it. From there, you can begin looking into and [securing other vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors#:~:text=Explore%20wedding%20vendors%20by%20category), such as a wedding planner, catering, and entertainment.\n\n### 7. Say your thank yous\n\nThroughout the first few weeks of being engaged, you might receive celebratory cards and even gifts from friends and family. This is even more likely if you have an engagement party. Maintain a list of everyone who sends or brings you a card and/or gift, so that you can send out proper [thank you cards](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop).\n\n### 8. Spend some time researching before booking\n\nRemember how important it is to think about the big picture? You’ll want to put considerable time into that before booking a venue or any vendors for your big day. You’re just engaged, after all. \n\nWe know that locking down a space or [photographer](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/questions-to-ask-wedding-photographer) you love ASAP can be stressful, but trust us, you want to take the time to be really clear about what you both want before making anything official. \n\nTry not to rush. Allow yourselves the time to dream, find inspiration, and bounce ideas and desires off of one another.\n\n### 9. Hold off on sorting the wedding party\n\nMaid of honor, best man, bridesmaids, groomsmen, and every bridal party and wedding party member in between… there’s potential for a lot of loved ones to be involved in your wedding day! While this is one of the most exciting parts of planning a wedding, we highly recommend you hold off a few weeks before asking anyone to officially take on a role. There are many details that can shape not only who you’ll want by your side but how many people you’ll be able to include. \n\nWait to ask your helpers until you’ve figured out your wedding’s basics—your budget, venue, and the type of wedding you want, to start.\n\n### 10. Keep things vague with guests for now\n\nAs with requests and potential wedding party members, hold off on inviting anyone to your wedding until you have planning underway. The excitement of being newly engaged, added to the love and well-wishes from all around, can have you wanting to share the excitement and invite everyone. Refrain. Better to keep things polite and vague now than to be put in an awkward position when someone doesn’t make the [guest list](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/guests) later on.\n\n### 11. Wait to purchase your wedding attire\n\nIt’s incredibly tempting to start trying on [wedding dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/tips-wedding-dress-shopping), suits, and other [wedding day attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/fashion-beauty/wedding-attire) soon after getting engaged. However, it’s crucial that you don’t jump in too soon. At this point, odds are you haven't yet decided on your budget or what you really want. \n\nRushing this process and making a purchase too soon out of excitement can lead to regret and financial issues down the line. Wait until you’re sure of what you’re looking for and can afford before making any try-on appointments.\n\n### 12. Relax\n\nOne more time: you just got engaged, so slow down. Wedding planning has the potential to be pretty stressful right off the bat. With guest list creation, wedding venue touring, budget making, and every other aspect of the wedding planning process right around the corner, don’t forget to make time to enjoy being engaged. \n\nSet some time aside for a relaxing date night, just the two of you. Put the beginning stages of planning on pause and focus on each other and how happy you are to be where you are right now.\n\n### 13. Expect some unsolicited advice\n\nUpon telling loved ones of your engagement, chances are you’re going to be hearing a lot of advice from those who have had a wedding. Take any and all unsolicited advice with grace, but don’t be quick to take it to heart. \n\nWhile you may come to agree with and appreciate some advice here and there, you definitely don’t need to take or even consider it all. Offer a “thank you,” pocket what gems you can, and move forward.\n\n### 14. Host an engagement party\n\nAfter saying yes, it’s time to celebrate! Depending on how you want to announce your engagement, this should take place before or after you post to social media. If you like the idea of telling your friends and family all at once, plan a surprise [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party) before making a public announcement. That way, the news is completely unexpected. Many couples also prefer to host a more formal engagement party (with invitations and maybe even scheduled activities) a few weeks after the engagement.\n\nIf your loved ones are already in the know, one or some of them may come forward and offer to host your party for you. Whatever you decide works—engagement parties aren’t necessary, so if you choose to have one, get creative with [engagement party ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-ideas) and celebrate however you want. Be aware, though: You shouldn’t invite anyone to the engagement party that you won’t invite to the wedding. Plan accordingly.\n\n### 15. Book an engagement shoot\n\nThis is another optional to-do. If an engagement photoshoot doesn’t sound like your style, stay with us for just a second. Engagement shoots are popular for a few reasons. Mainly, they’re usually free and come as an additional component of your wedding photography package. If you haven’t yet [booked a photographer](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers) (totally normal at this stage, by the way!), you can either wait until you do or you can hire another local photographer for this shoot.\n\nCouples also often see an [engagement shoot](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-take-authentic-engagement-photos) as an opportunity to get comfortable in front of the camera together. Again, if you have a photographer booked, this is a great time to get to know more about his or her style. This way, you’ll hopefully feel more natural when your photo is being taken from all angles come wedding day. Use your engagement photos on your [save the dates](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/save-the-date/shop), wedding website, and/or wedding invitations.\n\n### 16. Think big picture\n\nNow that you’re no longer just engaged, your engagement celebrations have probably slowed. Now it feels like time to really start thinking about your big day. Don’t stress yourself out by immediately looking into every single detail, though. Start off by discussing big-picture ideas with your partner. Now is the time to figure out if you’re both on the same page with your dream wedding style and guest count.\n\nTalk about everything from wedding location and wedding size to a potential color palette and wedding date options. And, of course, always be open to your partner’s ideas. Stay organized off the bat by gathering inspiration in a place that’s easy to access and edit. Pinterest board, Google Doc, computer folder, binder—whatever works for you.\n\n### 17. Make time to soak it all in\n\nWe’re aware that we’re reiterating here, but it’s worth the reminder. Don’t get so immediately wrapped up in wedding planning that you forget to enjoy being just engaged. Skipping over this part can lead to considerable stress later on. Pop some bubbly, spend quality time with your fiancé(e), and bask in the excitement from all of those closest to you.\n\n## Engagement rings and wedding bands\n \n\nIf you were over the moon to put your new [ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/getting-engaged/rings) on… only to find it didn’t quite fit, you’ll want to get it sized ASAP. This won’t be the most exciting part of getting engaged, but it’s necessary if you want to avoid losing your special stone.\n\nSpeaking of losing your ring, enter ring insurance! When it comes to what to do after getting engaged, sorting out insurance definitely isn’t the most exciting task. While it's not super sexy, it's highly recommended. Most jewelry experts suggest taking out a policy with a jewelry insurance provider (and not extending your homeowner’s or renter’s insurance to cover it). Head to a jeweler or another certified professional and get an appraisal. Here’s more on [engagement ring insurance](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/reasons-to-insure-engagement-ring).\n\n## FAQs about getting engaged and post-proposal to dos\n \n\n### What does it mean to be engaged?\nJust engaged? That means you and your partner have decided to get married and are planning your future together. Being engaged is more than just wearing a ring. It's an exciting and romantic phase of your relationship. However, it also comes with some responsibilities and challenges as you grow together.\n\n### What to do after getting engaged?\nFirst of all, remember to celebrate! Next on the list comes telling your family and friends. Then, start thinking about wedding dates, share your good news on social media (optional), and arrange an engagement party and/or photo shoot. For now, don't worry about the guest list or wedding attire.\n\n### How do we announce our engagement?\nHow you announce your engagement is completely up to you and your partner. Most couples like to tell their immediate family and friends face to face before announcing their good news on social media. Others will share the news through phone calls, TikTok, or traditional paper announcements.\n\n### How to start planning a wedding?\nThe first thing you'll need for wedding planning is a [wedding checklist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist) and a budget. You may want to create a wedding Google Drive and email to keep everything organized. Or you can use free budgeting and checklist tools from wedding planning sites like Zola. Then you can start on the finer details: where, when, what you'll wear, and who will take part.\n\n## Final Thoughts\n\nOnce you’ve checked these boxes, you’ll be ready to go all in on wedding planning. Buckle up because it can (read: probably will) get hectic. Just remember to take a pause every now and then to enjoy being engaged.\n\nHere at Zola, we have everything you need to make wedding planning as seamless (but exciting) as possible. Even if you don’t publish it yet, you can start working on your [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website) and making your wishlist on your [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) right away. Zola can help you every step along the way from proposal to your new life together as a married couple. 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Find resources and expert advice on your journey to engagement from choosing the perfect ring to popping to question to photographing and announcing the proposal. We guide you step-by-step though the beginning of your forever!","subtopics":[{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Rings","slug":"rings"},"slug":"best-diamond-shape-for-your-finger","title":"The Best Diamond Shape & Size For Your Finger","excerpt":"Different diamonds look different on different fingers. The diamond experts at The Clear Cut share which diamond shapes look best on which finger sizes.","author":"McCall Minnor","publishedAt":"2019-12-26T15:52:16.629Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5ECvXhLPmPgOpov3xDS8WX/6546f0108bf3a0ca312f65037cce0c8b/Hero_Zola.jpg","altText":"best diamond shape for your finger type"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- A round brilliant cut will flatter most every finger shape, while long, thin fingers are better suited to elongated cuts.\n\n- People with chubby fingers find that oval and pear cuts suit them best.\n\n- Finally, if you have small fingers or hands, stick with a more delicate style that’s proportional to your anatomy.\n","body":"When it comes to shapes and styles, not all diamonds are created equal—and not all diamonds work equally well with every finger. You might be in love with your [best friend’s engagement](https://zola.app.link/01BPrmyN71) ring, but that same shape and style may not look the same when you try it on your own finger. It’s true: Different diamonds look different on different fingers. To help you find your perfect fit, we asked the diamond experts at [The Clear Cut](https://theclearcut.co/) to share how to find a diamond shape and style that works best with your ring finger. \n\n![INLINE ClearCut 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2ae4s50gqVHT9Vci2PuM2z/5dd9b34685d0dbae4639c773aa925f32/INLINE_ClearCut_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // The Clear Cut\n\n## What To Consider Before Choosing A Diamond Ring\nFirst things first—before we jump into the best diamond shapes and style for each finger type, let’s quickly go over some of the most important factors that go into choosing the right diamond ring for you.\n\nSome of the main criteria you’re going to want to consider when choosing the perfect diamond shape and style for your engagement ring include:\n\n### The Width and Length of Your Finger\nWhen choosing a diamond shape and style, you want to create a sense of balance and proportion on your finger—so the length, width, and overall size of your finger is going to dictate which diamonds are going to look balanced and proportionate.\n\n### The Size of the Stone\nThe size of a diamond is also going to play into how flattering a certain shape or style is going to look on your finger. As a rule of thumb, the larger the stone, the more noticeable any issues with balance, proportion, or unflattering shapes will be.\n\n### Your Personal Style\nIt doesn’t matter if a diamond shape or style “works” on your finger shape—if it doesn’t match your [personal style](https://zola.app.link/XXGCpJyN71), it’s not going to make you happy in the long run. Make sure you choose a diamond shape and style that feels like a reflection of your own personal taste—and that you’ll be happy rocking on your finger from now until forever.\n\n### Band Width\nNot only do the stones on your ring have a high impact, but the band. While material—silver, gold, white gold, rose gold, etc.—is important to consider, even more important is the width of the band. For example, if you have thinner fingers, a thicker band might overwhelm them. At the same time, if you prefer a ring with a lot of stones, a thin band might not be able to accommodate that. Also consider the style of wedding band you’d like to go with your engagement ring and how the widths of each band might look together.\n\n### Accent Gemstones\nPerhaps you’d like more than a singular diamond. Whether that means a ring design with a couple accent stones around the center stone or a band covered in pavé diamonds is up to your preference. Accent gemstones, too, can add a variety of shapes, styles, and uniqueness to a diamond ring. If that sounds like what you’re looking for, consider those that add color to a ring that’s diamond color is more classic. Also try those that add to the overall ring style.\n\n### Budget\nWe couldn’t talk about important deciding factors without discussing budget. While this isn’t the most exciting aspect of ring shopping, it’s paramount to think over before setting your heart on something. Set a realistic budget range for yourself and be transparent about it with any jewelers and/or sellers. If a proposal isn’t a total surprise, consider having an open conversation about budget and expectations with your partner.\n\n## Best Diamond Shape For Each Finger Type\nAs we said, different diamonds look different on different fingers and hands. Here’s how to figure out what diamond will best suit your finger.\n\n### A Universally Flattering Diamond That Looks Good On Every Finger\nA round brilliant is one of the most classic diamond shapes on the market. And it’s a classic for a reason. This diamond holds a lot of its weight at the top, which takes up a lot of real estate on your ring finger. Plus, because of the round diamond shape, you get a balanced look that will work on a variety of finger shapes and [sizes](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-ring-size-guide).\n\nWhile there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to choosing the right diamond shape/style, if you want a diamond that’s going to be [universally flattering](https://zola.app.link/vi2RlmyN71), the round brilliant is a solid choice.\n\n### For Long And Thin Fingers\nIf you have long, thin fingers, you’re going to want to choose a diamond shape that compliments your finger length. So, elongated diamonds are a fantastic choice.\n\nLuckily, there are a ton of different styles out there to choose from. A naturally elongated diamond shape, like an oval, pear, or marquise cut, will look gorgeous on your finger, as will an elongated radiant or an emerald cut. Just remember, if you have long fingers, you want your diamond to have a more elongated appearance to match. Moreover, solitaire rings (those with a single diamond on a band) can also look beautiful, as they won’t overwhelm your finger.\n\n__What to Avoid:__ Anything too square-shaped or princess cut. More square-shaped diamonds like a standard (not elongated) emerald or radiant cut aren’t always the most flattering on long, thin fingers. The shape can actually make your fingers look longer (and your ring can look disproportionate on your finger).\n\n### For Stout Fingers\nIf your fingers are on the thicker side, going with a more delicate diamond shape or style can actually make them look wider. Instead, look for a stone that’s going to really make a statement and take up a lot of real estate on your finger—like an oval or pear-shaped diamond.\n\n__What to Avoid:__ Narrow diamonds. You want a stone that’s going to fill out the width of your finger. If you have your heart set on a [narrower cut](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-different-diamond-cut-options), you can add side stones to create width and add a sense of balance.\n\n### For Small Fingers\nIf you have small hands, you have a serious benefit when shopping for engagement rings; everything is going to look bigger on your small fingers.\n\nOn the flip side, going with a diamond shape or style that’s overly big or bold can have the opposite effect, looking too over-the-top on your tiny finger. If your hands are noticeably small, make sure to stick to a more delicate style (such as a round cut, oval cut, or pear cut) that looks proportionate on your finger. On the other hand, opposing styles—such as elongated radiant cuts and emerald cuts—can look too harsh or overwhelming.\n\n__What to Avoid:__ Huge diamonds. As mentioned, any diamond you put on a small finger is going to look larger than it would on a bigger finger. So, oversized diamonds can look almost cartoonishly disproportionate on someone with extremely small hands.\n\n## Choosing The Perfect Diamond Carat Size\nFor those who don’t know, a carat is a unit of measurement in regards to a diamond’s (or gemstone’s) physical weight. Note that carat weight is just that—a stone’s weight, not the size of the diamond. Jewelers, gemologists, and similar ring and stone sellers will use diamond carat size in the description of diamond engagement rings in order to describe how heavy one’s cut diamond is. This weight will be the same across natural diamonds and lab grown diamonds, as their physical and chemical makeup is the same.\n\nFor reference, a half carat diamond weighs .1 grams, a 1 carat diamond weights .2 grams, a 2 carat diamond weights .4 grams, and so on and so forth. Pro tip: Diamond rings that don’t have a neat carat weight (such as a half carat, one carat, two carat, etc.) can sometimes cost less than those that do, despite being unnoticeable to the naked eye. When discussing stones, ring sizes, and the like with a jeweler, feel free to ask about carat sizes and to see those of similar weights.\n\nThese are some suggestions on which diamond cuts, shapes, and styles tend to work best with different finger types. Take the above information into consideration when figuring out how to choose a diamond shape, size, and style for your [engagement ring](https://zola.app.link/6iNeuzyN71).\n\nRemember, though, these are just suggestions. You’re the one (or your partner’s the one) who’s going to be wearing your ring every day, so ultimately, it’s up to you to get out there and find the diamond that feels perfect for you.\n\nFor more information regarding carat size (because we know it can be tricky), check out our [Ultimate Diamond Carat Size Guide](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-ultimate-diamond-carat-size-guide).","body2":"### If you have long, thin fingers, try an elongated diamond.\nIf you have long, thin fingers, you’re going to want to choose a diamond shape that compliments your finger length. So, elongated diamonds are a fantastic choice.\n\nLuckily, there are a ton of different styles out there to choose from. A naturally elongated diamond shape, like an oval or pear cut, will look gorgeous on your finger, as will an elongated radiant or an emerald cut. Just remember, if you have long fingers, you want your diamond to have a more elongated appearance to match. \n\n__What to Avoid:__ Anything too square-shaped. More square-shaped diamonds like a standard (not elongated) emerald or radiant cut aren’t always the most flattering on long, thin fingers. The shape can actually make your fingers look longer (and your ring can look disproportionate on your finger).\n\n### If you have stout fingers, try an oval or pear shape.\nIf your fingers are on the thicker side, going with a more delicate diamond shape or style can actually make them look wider. Instead, look for a stone that’s going to really make a statement and take up a lot of real estate on your finger—like an oval or pear-shaped diamond.\n\n__What to Avoid:__ Narrow diamonds. You want a stone that’s going to fill out the width of your finger. If you have your heart set on a narrower cut, you can add side stones to create width and add a sense of balance.\n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720 (10)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6HVbmW4UNMQkSp3HC0m9kz/d300c0aead944ea5c6ce4f95cec62db5/INLINE_Unsplash_1080x720__10_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### If you have small fingers, try to stick to a more delicate style\nIf you have small hands, you have a serious benefit when shopping for engagement rings; everything is going to look bigger on your small fingers.\n\nOn the flip side, going with a diamond shape or style that’s overly big or bold can have the opposite effect, looking too over-the-top on your tiny finger. If your hands are noticeably small, make sure to stick to a more delicate style that looks proportionate on your finger.\n\n__What to Avoid:__ Huge diamonds. As mentioned, any diamond you put on a small finger is going to look larger than it would on a bigger finger. So, oversized diamonds can look almost cartoonishly disproportionate on someone with extremely small hands.\n\nThese are some suggestions on which diamond cuts, shapes, and styles tend to work best with different finger types. Take these into consideration when figuring out how to choose a diamond shape for your [engagement ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring). \n\nRemember, though, these are just suggestions. You’re the one who’s going to be wearing your ring every day, so ultimately, it’s up to you to get out there and find the diamond that feels perfect for you. ","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Unlock 50 unique engagement party ideas. You'll find ideas you've never thought of and something for every couple. 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Licensed therapists share what to do and how to talk about it when your parents and partner don't get along.","title":"5 Reasons Your Parents and Fiancé Don't Get Along—and How to Deal","slug":"parents-and-fiance-dont-get-along","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5Tlmlny0gut2tGN3YKWOnA/609bf1855ee4ea250a587cd926039832/SPECIAL_HERO_MonnettePhotography_1080x720_Ashleigh_Drew.jpg","altText":"couple with partner and parents who don't get along"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Just engaged and wondering what’s next? A lot goes into wedding planning, but you don’t have to do it all at once. Here are the must-do to-dos after getting engaged.","title":"Just Engaged? Here’s What To Do Next!","slug":"to-dos-after-you-get-engaged","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6KWedC7RqcjzNqK8zy0LoU/286c6acfc830a30a9ac4d274ebf14501/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"Illustration graphic of an engagement ring box with a wedding ring and shine marks to indicate sparkle"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Got questions on how to finance an engagement ring? Our experts can help. Read on to find out now.","title":"How to Finance an Engagement Ring","slug":"how-to-finance-an-engagement-ring","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/ly1YKAgHTRF8cAIPdJ8yX/2b696d93ce89053fd3177a4fe5136cc4/hero_unsplash.jpg","altText":"couple admiring engagement rings"},"type":"articlePage"}],"featured":[{"excerpt":"You're engaged! Now it's time to tell people. Here are the best ways to make an engagement announcement that works for you. ","title":"How to Announce Your Engagement","slug":"how-to-announce-your-engagement","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3hk4Xt2gcurIwwAACqfcxh/52d16b9f41ed4c4e63d6f316dcb0379d/How-to-Announce-your-Engagement.jpg","altText":"Couple makes engagement announcement"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Getting engaged at the same time as your best friend can be exciting—and tricky. 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Here's how to make the most of those photos.\n","title":"12 Ways to Get The Most Out of Your Engagement Photos","slug":"how-to-get-most-out-of-your-engagement-photos","topic":"Getting engaged","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4DEuaFrXVcKgYHHKzYTPMa/ce4ad8cb1fd645069d15c4af106f045b/ErinJacksonPhotog.jpg","altText":"table with decoration pieces and Engagement Photo frame"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:17.512Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Rings","slug":"rings"},"slug":"where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring","title":"Where You Can (and Can't) Wear Your Engagement Ring","excerpt":"Diamond experts share all the places you can wear your engagement ring and where you shouldn't wear your ring. Plus, tips for keeping your engagement ring like new.","author":"Deanna deBara","publishedAt":"2019-12-26T16:54:49.731Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1EkyCSqm040daFYaobOyaH/00c105e08f44c0785713e860c896e31e/Hero_Zola__1_.jpg","altText":"where you can wear your engagment rings"},"heroCredit":"Zola","body":"After you get engaged, chances are, you’re going to want to rock that [engagement ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring) anywhere and everywhere you go. While there are plenty of places you can (and should) wear your bling, there are also some places where wearing your ring is a no-no if you want to keep it clean, safe, and sparkly. Let’s make this easy. The diamond experts at [The Clear Cut](https://theclearcut.co/) helped us outline where you can wear your engagement ring and where you can’t wear your engagement ring.\n\n\n\n## You CAN wear your engagement ring during your normal day-to-day activities.\nYour engagement ring is a symbol of your commitment and upcoming marriage to your partner, so it makes total sense that you’re going to want to wear it as often as possible.\n\nAnd the good news? For most of your normal, day-to-day activities, you can absolutely rock your bling. Going to work? Wear your engagement ring. Swinging by the grocery store? Wear your engagement ring. Meeting friends for dinner? Wear your engagement ring.\n\n## You CAN’T wear your engagement ring to bed.\nThere is, however, one place you go every day that you shouldn’t wear your wedding ring—and that’s to bed. \n\nSome people experience slight swelling in the hands overnight—and if your fingers swell while you sleep, it can not only feel uncomfortable, but it can make it harder to get your ring off in the morning. Plus, your ring can get snagged on your sheets, your blanket, your pajamas. It’s just not fun. \n\nWearing your engagement ring to bed could also put you at risk for injury. Diamonds can be sharp—and you don’t want to wake up in the middle of the night after scratching your face with your engagement ring.\n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7s96MB8mHAFphDMS9SC5oz/fb8ccde13dbf105e316715aa5372f11a/INLINE_Unsplash__1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## You CAN wear your engagement ring while tidying up—as long as you avoid harsh cleaning products. \nThere’s no need to take off your wedding ring for household chores like sweeping, laundry, or making the bed. There is, however, one exception to that rule—and that’s if you’re tackling any deep cleaning where you’ll be using harsh cleaning products that could damage your ring. \n\nIf you’re cleaning includes bleach, ammonia, or any other harsh chemicals, do yourself (and your diamond) a favor and take your engagement ring off beforehand.\n\n## You CAN’T wear your engagement ring in the shower.\nA shower is great for keeping you clean—but your ring? Not so much. All the products you use to clean your face, hair, and body can latch onto your diamond, creating a film that makes it look cloudy, dull, and all-around dirty. \n\nNot to mention that you don’t want your ring to slip off your finger and down the drain. Anyone who’s seen Apollo 13 knows that. So, don’t wear your ring in the shower and wait to put it back on until all your after-shower grooming activities (like slathering on lotion) are complete.\n\n## You CAN wear your engagement ring when you travel…\nIf you want to keep your ring on your finger during your travels (whether that’s on [your honeymoon](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/when-should-we-go-honeymoon), your [bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pack-for-a-bachelorette-party), or any other upcoming trips), there’s no reason you can’t. \n\nJust make sure to take the proper steps to keep your ring safe, like bringing along a ring stand to securely hold your ring while you sleep and never, ever leaving your ring unattended in a hotel room or vacation rental property.\n\nYou also shouldn’t travel with your engagement ring unless it’s insured. Read more about [engagement ring insurance here](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/reasons-to-insure-engagement-ring).\n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4POaDqNGbqYuOSQZDlNnUS/982c2bfdee2974ee70efc02f4e3838bb/INLINE_Unsplash_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## ...but you CAN’T wear it to the beach.\nOne travel destination that’s not the best fit for your engagement ring? The beach. Taking care of your skin at the beach means a lot of sunscreen. All that sunscreen will leave your diamond looking cloudy and dirty (and it’s also a pain in the neck to clean!). \n\nPlus, the ocean can spell disaster for your ring. Not only will the sand and saltwater quickly dirty up your ring, but your fingers actually get slightly smaller when you swim, and it goes without saying that losing your engagement ring in the ocean? Not exactly a day at the beach.\n\n## Engagement Ring Care Tips: How to Clean Your Ring at Home\n\n\n\nNo matter where you do or don’t wear your engagement ring, you always want to keep your bling as safe and sparkly as possible. Here are a few tips to keep it that way:\n\n- __Get your engagement ring insured.__ It doesn’t matter how careful you are or where you do/don’t wear your ring. Things happen, and you want to [make sure you’re insured](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/reasons-to-insure-engagement-ring) and covered should your ring gets lost, stolen, or damaged. \n- __Diamond looking dull? Clean up your ring at home.__ Wearing your ring certain places (like in the shower) can leave it looking dull. Get it back to sparkling with a [simple at-home engagement ring cleaning](https://theclearcut.co/blogs/clear-cut-classroom/cleaning-and-caring-for-your-engagement-ring). Fill a bowl with warm water and a few drops of Dawn dish soap and let your ring soak for a few minutes. Remove the engagement ring from the bowl, scrub with a soft-bristled toothbrush, and rinse off the excess soap with warm water (just make sure your sink drain is covered). Dry with a soft cloth or paper towel, and your ring will shine like new.\n- __When in doubt, wear a stand-in ring.__ If you’re going somewhere that makes you feel uneasy about wearing your wedding ring, it’s always better to be safe than sorry. When in doubt, leave your ring in a safe, secure place at home and wear a stand-in ring. You can get a cute silicone version for less than $10.\n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Unlock 50 unique engagement party ideas. You'll find ideas you've never thought of and something for every couple. 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Get advice from the experts on how to choose the perfect ring and how to insure it plus engagement ring trends and more!"},{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Proposals","slug":"proposals"},"slug":"12-no-fuss-proposal-ideas-for-the-low-maintenance-couple","title":"25 Simple Proposal Ideas for the Low Maintenance Couple ","excerpt":"Explore effortless yet meaningful proposal ideas for couples who cherish simplicity. Discover heartfelt ways to celebrate your love with minimal fuss.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-12-29T22:10:27.050Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3hM1ElGqlQw3XBF60ba8o/b351b89a68f1d6f663f96b31abb34067/Hero_EarthyPunkRockStyledShoot_CreatrixPhotography__1_.jpg","altText":"12 No-Fuss Proposal Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Creatrix Photography","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- Make the mundane things, such as working, going out to lunch, or running errands, __interesting with a surprise proposal__. \n- __Have a private engagement__ by rowing out to the middle of a lake or taking a sunset walk. \n- Don’t let others pressure you into having an elaborate engagement, and __do what speaks to you both__ to create the perfect proposal. ","body":"Simply being with your significant other speaks volumes to you. It doesn’t matter if you’re walking in the park hand in hand or grabbing a late-night milkshake—your proposal process can be as easy as you'd like it to be.\n\nPomp and circumstance have little place in your relationship. If this sounds like you—and it’s time to pop the question—don’t worry about doing something over the top. Just focus on your love and use one of our no-fuss marriage __[proposal ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/proposal-ideas)__.\n\n## Easy and Creative Proposal Ideas \n\n### 1. Include Your Outdoor Activities\nCouples who enjoy biking, hiking, horseback riding, or something more competitive like golf, beach volleyball, or another sport have ample opportunity to turn their beloved outdoor activity into a perfect proposal. In fact, proposing during any of these can end up making the activity all the more meaningful to you both (and if you __[plan on proposing](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/proposal-etiquette-what-you-need-to-know-before-popping-the-big-question)__ in the water, we recommend proposing with a __[silicone ring](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=silicone%20ring)__ and saving the __[precious metal one](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ritani_diamond_milgrain_wedding_ring_18ktwhitegold)__ for when you’re on land).\n\n### 2. Head Out on a Hike\nInvite your loved one to join you on your favorite or most treasured trails for a romantic trek with a stunning backdrop, then wait for just the right moment on your journey to pop the question. Being alone with a view can make for a truly romantic atmosphere. A mountain, lake, or walk along the beach can easily suffice. Skip the professional photographer and set your phone up for a video pre-proposal. Tell your partner you're capturing the view, then capture the entire moment on camera!\n\n### 3. Make the Most of a Small Moment\nIf you’re the spontaneous type, keep the ring with you and wait for the right moment. How fun it would be to surprise your partner—and yourself!—when you decide to pop the question. Xiaoqi Li of __[Xiaoqi Li Photography](https://xiaoqili.com/)__ suggests, “Instead of a grand gesture, start the conversation during one of your favorite little moments you share daily or weekly.” Think shared morning coffee or breakfast, the ways you relax together after a long day (watching your favorite show? reading together?), or taking your beloved pet on a walk.\n\n### 4. Order in for the Night\nAt-home proposal ideas don’t need to be complex. Ordering pizza, Chinese, or just about any type of takeout food online can still serve as a creative proposal idea or romantic dinner—all in the comfort of your own home. When the food arrives, be sure you’re the one to answer the door, then securely slip the ring into the delivery box, onto a drinking straw, in with the fortune cookies, or into a bundle of cutlery. Let your significant other happen upon the bling and be ready to pop the question once he or she finds it. \n\nWant more inspiration for proposing at home? Check out our article for [29 more unique and romantic at home proposal ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/at-home-proposal-ideas)!\n\n### 5. Watch a Movie With a Proposal Scene\nPlenty of proposal scenes throughout film history are endearing—some to the point of being emotional and moving. Embrace this living room proposal idea by __[hiding the ring](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ritani_womens_fivestone_diamond_wedding_ring_platinum)__ in a couch cushion or somewhere nearby and cueing up a movie like The Notebook, Pride and Prejudice, and more humorous options like The Wedding Singer\n\nAs the movie’s big moment gets closer, and when it does—pop the question. You can either use the words from the movie or wait until after the romantic scene has finished to ask, “Will you marry me?” For some shock or added humor, begin saying the proposal lines along with the film (seriously or humorously) before pulling out the engagement ring.\n\n### 6. Utilize Ribbon and Love Notes\n__[Unique and creative proposals](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/proposal-ideas)__ can often sound intimidating—especially if they bring forth thoughts of extensive ones from film and television. Don't fret. Oftentimes, all you need is a bit of thought and a few craft supplies. For example, all this __[surprise proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-pull-off-a-surprise-proposal)__ requires is a long string of ribbon (or two, or three, depending on the size of your home) and some handwritten notes.\n\nSimply secure one end of a pretty ribbon at one end of your home—be it by tape, pin, or tying it off—and the other end on the opposite side. You can choose to get creative with the path, leading your partner in various directions, but don't have to. Then attach handwritten love notes along the ribbon with tape or a stapler. These notes can be a written out timeline of milestones in your relationship, different things you love about your partner, or some of your favorite memories together.\n\nAt the end of the ribbon, be there waiting with the ring box in hand. Share a few more heartfelt words with your partner, then pop the big question! Not only is this a thoughtful and surprising proposal, but it can also play off of the East Asian belief of The Red Thread of Fate—also referred to as the Red Thread of Marriage. Or, if you're more familiar, Taylor Swift's \"Invisible String\" idea. Bonus points for playing the song.\n\n### 7. Fill a Room With Photographs\nPlenty of proposals include a verbal look back on your relationship history. Talking about your love story can be lovely and especially powerful during such an emotional moment. Play on that idea by incorporating special photographs from all throughout your relationship into your proposal plan.\n\nA few weeks before you plan to ask your partner to marry you, start collecting photos that have been taken from the time you started dating. Remember to look through your phone, social media accounts (including Instagram and Facebook), and computer. Once you start collecting, we suggest saving them into one folder.\n\nThen, simply have the photos printed. If you have a photo printer, you can do this right at home. If you don't mind the photos being printed on regular paper, you can also do this on a normal printer. And, of course, you can choose to have them printed at a local store. In any case, when you have all of the physical photos, place them all around the room you'll proposal in, like a relationship montage. They can be taped to the walls, framed, or displayed in any way you like. Lead your SO into the room, reveal the surprise, and launch into your __[proposal speech](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-say-during-a-proposal)__.\n\n### 8. Pop the Question at Your Favorite Spot\nIt's likely that by now you and your significant other have a few favorite spots you like to frequent. Or, perhaps there's a place you both love to go together that you don't get to go to very often. In either case, having your proposal at one of these places can be extremely special.\n\nThink about your most favorite restaurant, cafes, cocktail bars, movie theaters, and the like. Is there one that really stands out to you as both of your favorite spot to go together? If so, start making plans to go! If not, casually ask your partner if there's a place you both love that they'd like to go to again soon. Make it seem like a normal date idea.\n\nOnce you arrive at the spot, try to make the experience special—without giving anything away, of course. Because you've both been here before and enjoy the place, you can relax and focus on enjoying yourselves before proposing. When the timing seems right, bring out the ring box and propose.\n\n### 9. Pop the Question While Camping\nYes, __[camping](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=camping)__ can be a romantic proposal idea. It may seem a bit specific, but it can be as low-key as you can get. Send your SO out to grab firewood. When he or she gets back, be __[down on one knee](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/which-knee-should-you-propose-on)__, ready to pop the question. Just hope that he or she doesn’t take too much time finding kindling.\n\n### 10. Incorporate the Family\nChildren are adorable, and if you have any, they would love being involved. Have them make cute “Will you marry me?” signs, and designate one child as the __[smartphone photographer](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-get-most-out-of-your-engagement-photos)__. Laughter and giggles will ensue, which is one reason that proposal ideas with kids are such a huge success.\n\n### 11. Steal a Moment Out in the Country\nIf you adore farm life or have access to a tractor or ATV, ask your partner to take a ride on a lovely day. While you’re out exploring, stop and pop the question. Other country proposal ideas include asking while you’re picnicking in a field or while relaxing after a long day of chores.\n\n### 12. Take a Sunset Walk on the Beach\n__[Vacations](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/raffles_100_gift_card)__ can be a perfect time to ask, “Will you marry me?” Beach proposal ideas are relatively plentiful. However, for the low maintenance couple, take a walk by the ocean at sunset. Doing so can be one of the most romantic ways to secure that “Yes!”\n\n### 13. Take Advantage of a Holiday\nIf your partner loves any particular holiday, try to plan your proposal around it. Whether that's bending down on one knee in the middle of a Christmas tree farm, planning an Easter egg scavenger hunt, going into the New Year engaged, or taking advantage of the chocolates and rose petals that come with Valentine's Day, your SO is sure to enjoy the added cause to celebrate.\n\n### 14. Plan a Game Night\nFor the couple that has a blast playing board games together, craft your at-home proposal into a game night. You can do this just between the two of you or invite your closest friends and family over to join in on the fun. Not sure how to work a proposal into a game? We think Scrabble is an easy and exciting way to go about it. If you have people over, suggest you all play the game. Then, have someone distract your SO while you spell out \"Will you marry me?\" on the board. Finally, bring them back to the game table for the special moment.\n\n### 15. Set Up a Picnic\nPicnics with your partner are inherently romantic. Putting effort into an outdoor snack or meal together, especially with the right view, is sure to strike the right mood. You can go simple with a blanket and picnic basket of food or include some extra flourishes, like candles, champagne, fresh flowers, and chocolate covered strawberries.\n\n### 16. Say it With Music\nIf you're musically talented, an endearing proposal is likely right at your fingertips. Write or compose a special song that reflects on your relationship, talks about your hopes for the future, or dotes on your partner. Then, once you've played it, finish it off with your proposal. You can even write your proposal into the song, if you prefer.\n\n### 17. Involve Your Partner's Favorite Things\nIf your partner has a lot of love for any particular thing—a book, a film, a type of art, a place—do your best to incorporate it (or them) into your proposal. This can make asking them to marry you especially fun and special, since you're including something you know they care about. Some quick ideas include placing the engagement ring in their favorite book, recreating their favorite movie scene, and planning to make some art together and working in the big question.\n\n### 18. Have Your Pet Ask For You\nThere are a handful of adorable ideas when it comes to involving your pet in your proposal. For collared pets, consider getting a new tag that has \"Will you marry me\"? engraved in it. Similarly, you can purchase a bandana with the same phrase and tie it around your fury friend's neck. Some pets may be a bit more difficult to work around (birds, reptiles, fish), but with some creativity, any house animal can get it on the big moment.\n\n### 19. Have a Photo Shoot\nIf you're into photography, plan an outdoor or at-home photo shoot between you and your SO. This can start off with you taking photos of just them, or all along be self-timed shots of the two of you together. Just be sure you have the camera on both of you and ready to shoot when you surprisingly propose.\n\n### 20. Surprise Your Them With Fresh Flowers\nIt's one thing to surprise your significant other with some gorgeous flowers, but it's another entirely to turn that into a proposal. Get a hold of a beautiful bouquet either at a local grocery store or florist, or get them delivered right to your door. Then place the ring box or engagement ring among the blooms and (carefully!) gift them to your partner. Once they notice, start your proposal speech or pop the question.\n\n## First Comes Love, Then Comes Zola!\nRelationships take time and effort, yet there is no reason to stress out over the marriage ask. You and your partner know how to show love to each other. If that means a low-maintenance proposal, then so be it! No matter what you decide to do, the start of your life together will reflect you perfectly. In short, don’t be afraid to keep it simple. Some of the best proposal ideas are the simplest. So long as you've got yourself, your partner, and some heartfelt words, you've got everything you need. And when you need some help planning your wedding, Zola's got all the advice and tools you'll need, right here.","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Thinking of popping the question? 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","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2020-12-30T18:32:15.371Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/58Was5Fgz8kxScfS0XaaCE/0069bf3d28ceb04517d39c06a9c172fc/Hero_EtherealCoastalRomanceStyledShoot_ArleneJacobsPhotography.jpg","altText":"Propose Without a Ring"},"heroCredit":"Arlene Jacobs Photography","body":"Engagement rings — some people love them, some people hate them, but not every couple expects them. You can propose without a ring. Getting engaged is about deciding that you and your partner (AKA your soon-to-be fiance!) want to spend the rest of your lives together. That decision does not need to come with a piece of jewelry in a ring box—or anything else, for that matter. Any proposal that ends in a decision to get married is great. \n\nNonetheless, the [engagement ring](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-rings) has become the symbolic object of impending marriages everywhere. So what should you do if you’re planning to propose, but don’t want an engagement ring to be part of the moment—whether because you want a [low maintenance proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/12-no-fuss-proposal-ideas-for-the-low-maintenance-couple), you want to propose with another piece of jewelry, or rings simply aren’t your partners style? The Zola team is here to walk you through the process. \n\n### Make Sure You’re Both on the Same Page\n\nEngagement rings are a big social signifier of being engaged, and some people don’t feel properly engaged unless they have a ring to show for it. You want to make sure your partner is on board with the idea of a marriage proposal without a wedding ring. You don’t want the absence of the ring to be the focus of your proposal. Even if the two of you generally forgo conventional [wedding traditions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/decor-inspiration/wedding-traditions), people can be surprisingly attached to engagement rings. Before you plan your proposal, check-in with your partner to gauge their general feelings about rings. \n\nIf you’re more concerned that you won’t buy the right ring, then read on for suggestions on proposing before making your purchase. \n\n### Propose Now, Buy the Ring Later\n\nBuying an engagement ring is a big deal. Engagement rings are expensive, wildly different from one another, and something that your partner might wear for his or her entire life. A lot of people are hesitant to jump into such a big decision without the direct input of their partner. \n\nIf you’re planning to propose now and buy the ring later, you have a few options. You can propose with a heartfelt gift instead of a ring, such as a photo album with pictures that span your relationship or a particularly meaningful poem. If you propose without a ring—but want to show your partner that a ring is on the way—you can buy a temporary ring that’s a placeholder, such as a large candy rock ring or a paper mache ring. Or, you can make a certificate good for one ring-shopping experience together, and present this along with your proposal. \n\nThe idea is to convey that the ring will be part of your engagement period, but not part of your marriage proposal. \n\n![Can You Propose Without a Ring?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/57BcxK1mE95lk4Lm73u7s6/2b0a8dfb2ff3b27e0dc68b7d9d44a2ee/Inline_Pixabay.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Pixabay\n\n### The Decision to Ditch the Ring Entirely \n\nIncreasingly, many couples are foregoing engagement rings entirely. Some feel the tradition is antiquated, overly gendered, or simply an unneeded expense. When both partners agree, the decision to go without a ring is an easy one. \n\nThe more difficult part of this decision can be dealing with the negative feedback of family and friends. We’ve all heard the routine: When a woman gets engaged to be married, she’s often asked to show off her ring. (This is way less of an issue with men, who often don’t wear engagement rings.) Social media photos of engagement announcements often feature at least one, if not multiple, close-ups of the ringed finger. \n\nIf you decide to propose without a ring, you might want to prepare for the people in your life who will be upset by this decision. Not because you need to pander to them, but because you want to get ahead of those critiques. Plan out your one sentence, the calm and collected explanation that says that you don’t need a diamond ring to decide to get married, and move on. \n\n### Alternatives to Engagement Rings\n\nFor many people, the engagement ring is about the symbolism of the investment. The ring, for all its expense, implies permanence. In other words, the person is putting down some serious investment in the person by investing so seriously in a diamond ring. \n\nLots of other gifts can achieve these same goals when planning out a romantic proposal, though. When considering alternatives to the engagement ring, you want to consider gifts that come with some symbolic backstory and demonstrate a significant amount of investment, either emotional or financial. The goal is to convey that you are “all in” on this proposal and willing to back that up with some thought and personal investment. \n\n### 1. Buy a Watch \nIn recent years, it’s become more commonplace for women to propose to men to present them with a watch. This can be a beautiful way for a couple to take charge of the too-often gendered reality of proposals and guide the process themselves. Make sure the watch matches the style of your partner. \n\n### 2. Book a Vacation\nIn place of a ring, present your loved one with a planned vacation to a spot you both want to visit. The trip can be a way to spend time together and celebrate your decision to get married. This trip should be a truly exciting and adventurous proposal. \n\n### 3. Take An Adventure\nHas there been an adventure you and your partner have been wanting to experience together—like skydiving, rock climbing, or whitewater rafting? If so, plan an excursion for the two of you—and then cap off the adrenaline-filled day with a proposal they’re sure to remember for the rest of their life!\n\n![Can You Propose Without a Ring?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2BgqWB13HjPfxm0Y4EIkq1/cbd507a23bc64d94983561403ae90de6/Inline_Pixabay__1_.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Pixabay\n\n### 4. Shop for Jewelry\nWho says you need a ring? If you want a gift that will last forever, but your partner isn’t interested in a ring, try another type of jewelry. Diamond earrings, pendant necklaces, or anything that you know your partner will love and adore can be a really beautiful gift for a proposal.\n\n### 5. Offer a Family Heirloom\nIf you want to give your significant other jewelry to signify your engagement, it doesn’t need to come from the jewelry store. An heirloom from your family (like your mothers’s necklace or a bracelet your grandfather gifted your grandmother when they got engaged) is a meaningful symbol of love—and a great way to propose.\n\n### 6. Plan The Perfect Surprise Proposal\nNot all engagement gifts need to be physical items. If your partner is the kind of person that watches proposal videos on YouTube, planning an over-the-top surprise proposal (like a flash mob!) is the perfect way to begin the rest of your lives together. \n\n### 7. Buy a House\nThis is a rather dramatic option, but for the right couple, a stunning gesture can be to present your loved one with the home you want to live in, with them, forever.\n\n### 8. Go Romantic\nLet’s just say again that no proposal needs a big, expensive gift. Sometimes the best proposal is one that comes straight from the heart. A romantic gift, which might be anything from tracking down some beloved childhood toy to putting together a recipe book of her favorite family dishes, can be the absolute right choice. The point is to show that you care and that you’re putting your love on full display. Think of a gift that will make your partner feel overwhelmed with love, and you’ll be on the right track.\n\n### 9. Write It In The Sky\nIf you want to propose in a way your partner will never forget, using a skywriting service to write your proposal in the sky is a fun, memorable way to ask for their hand in marriage.\n\n### 10. Create Something From Scratch\nYou don’t have to buy something to propose. If you’re the crafty type, building or creating something handmade (for example, building a table or creating a painting) can be a personal way to commemorate such a special day. \n\n## Tips to Propose Without A Ring\nNeed some more tips popping the question—but without the bling? Here are some things to keep in mind:\n\n- __Be clear__. When someone sees an engagement ring, it’s clear what’s happening—and, as such [what you say during your proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/12-no-fuss-proposal-ideas-for-the-low-maintenance-couple) isn’t as critical; they’ll get the idea. But if you’re going to propose without a ring, it’s super important that you’re clear—and make sure to distinctly ask “will you marry me?” Otherwise, your partner might not know you’re proposing!\n\n- __Set the mood__. Ring or no ring, you want your proposal to be special—so make sure to set the mood and create a memorable backdrop for your engagement (for example, by choosing the perfect song, filling the space with flowers, or lighting candles). \n\n- __Consider involving friends and family__. If you really want your proposal to be a celebration, consider inviting friends and family to witness the big moment and/or celebrate with you immediately afterwards. Who needs an engagement ring when you’re surrounded by the people you love most?\n\nEven if your proposal idea doesn’t include a diamond ring to match, that doesn't mean you have to wait until you have one. Sometimes people don't want fancy jewelry. No matter how you choose to propose, just be sure that both individuals are on the same page.","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Planning a wedding proposal is no joke. Make sure you’re prepared by following this wedding proposal checklist. ","title":"Wedding Proposal Checklist","slug":"wedding-proposal-checklist","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4yu05UOJ3vPezTnlJkOJFR/0a404fe21dbe265fcda15418ce693871/Hero_ClassicKeyWestOceanfrontAffair_LivingWaterImages.jpg","altText":"Wedding Proposal Checklist"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"There are guides for almost every first, but there’s no manual on proposal etiquette. 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Read on for tips on how to propose to a man.","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2020-12-30T17:03:43.838Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7c3zU7NCSq4IdpOmArMWZM/a37b0e47c1323e761830de9dc0b9e0a3/Hero_IntimateMountaintopElopementStyledShoot_RaynaMcginnisPhotography.jpg","altText":"Guide to Proposing to a Man"},"heroCredit":"Rayna Mcginnis Photography","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- If *you* want to be the one to pop the question, know you're not alone! 2% of women today propose to their male partners, a trend that's bound to grow as more couples challenge gender norms.\n- You don’t need a ring to propose to your man. You can present a card, a watch, a gift, or nothing at all. \n- If you decide to kneel when you propose, make sure your outfit allows for the task. \n- Have a strategy for when—and how—to announce the engagement to family and friends. \n","body":"We all know how popular culture portrays the classic marriage proposal: the man on one knee, the proffered ring box, the woman overcome with emotion. It’s an image that needs no explanation. Even in a modern world, the kneeling man with a perfect ring remains the visual reference point for a wedding proposal. \n\nAccording to a [recent Zola survey](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/addressing-the-stigma-around-women-proposing-to-men), __only 2% of women today propose to their male partners.__ The #1 thing holding most women back from feeling like they can propose is the idea of the \"perfect proposal\" that society-at-large, the media, and the wedding industry has shaped for them. \n\nBut the truth is that there's no right way, or right person, to propose. __Zola is setting out to celebrate couples who embrace the endless possibilities with all aspects of their weddings, and that includes reimagining what proposals should look like.__ The water can still be tricky to navigate, as there’s a real lack of guidance on the subject. Luckily, the Zola team is here to help with the woman’s guide to proposing to a man. \n\n\n\n## Deciding to Propose \n\nThe best time to propose is after you and your partner know that you want to get married. For many couples, the formal proposal is the last step in a much longer series of conversations about marriage. You don’t want your moment of proposal to be the first time you and your partner have ever discussed marriage. While the proposal itself might be a surprise—the day, the time, the method of asking—the question itself shouldn’t shock your partner, especially if you have friends or family present for the big moment.\n\n- __If you’ve never discussed marriage, first open up the conversation.__ How do each of you envision the next step of your relationship? If you sense your partner is reluctant to commit, do not propose as a way to force their hand.\n- __There is also the big question of when you hope to plan your wedding.__ Some couples don’t like to have an extended engagement, and so one partner might propose only when they’ve decided on an ideal wedding date.\n-__You should also consider work schedules and other big family announcements.__ Proposing right before a two-week work trip or having your engagement announcement conflict with his sister’s wedding is not ideal.\n\nOf course, some couples get engaged during an informal, spontaneous conversation in which one partner asks the other to marry them. This organic moment can be very intimate and beautiful. Some couples might choose to follow up with a more elaborate proposal idea, and some will consider the question asked and answered.\n\nFor a woman, deciding to be the one who proposes can also mean making waves in traditional marriage protocol. This might matter to some brides, and it might be no big deal to others. But the proposal remains one of the few gendered marriage rituals, even among otherwise egalitarian social groups. You might be surprised by the reaction of family and friends to your decision to ask the big question. \n\nIf you haven’t discussed it at all with your partner, you might be surprised by his reaction, too. [Zola's recent survey](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/addressing-the-stigma-around-women-proposing-to-men) revealed that __though more than half (58%) of women believe that their male partner would not be okay with them proposing, but most men (93%) would have said \"Yes\" if they were poposed to.__ Though we hope this is reassuring, checking in with your partner first is one of the most important things in [how to plan a proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/proposal-etiquette-what-you-need-to-know-before-popping-the-big-question). For all you know, he was planning an elaborate proposal of his own. If your partner is a pretty traditional guy, check in with him about his general feelings around proposals. Proposals should be delightful surprises, not come with unexpected reactions. \n\n![How to Propose to a Man | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5teyNUVOJguI4VGtDpRyQL/bb2eb87835ca683b6f56654e4d74ed66/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### What to Do About the Ring \n\nThe proposal is about asking someone to marry you, and finding out if the answer is yes—that’s it. There certainly doesn’t need to be a [ring](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/womens-wedding-rings) involved to make that happen. As such, many women decide to propose and then discuss the question of buying rings separately from the decision to get married. \n\nIn recent years, an alternative tradition has emerged for women to buy the man a watch when they propose, symbolizing the time they will spend together. If you go this route, then make sure to pay close attention to your partner’s style and taste in watches. This should be a substantial purchase that he will wear for years to come, and you want to make sure he likes it. You could even go watch shopping together.\n\nSome women want to have something on hand for the moment they propose, but a ring or a watch doesn’t quite fit their vision. You can get creative with your proposal idea. Maybe present him with a heartfelt card about why you want to get married or a gift that will be particularly meaningful to him. This might be something of sentimental value, tickets to his absolute favorite band, or plans for a once-in-a-lifetime trip together. Again, the most important thing is to mark the moment as meaningful for you as a couple.\n\nIf you do want a ring to be a part of the proposal, you have a few options. You can give him a wedding band that he can choose to wear after the wedding, you can present him a ring that he will choose to wear as an engagement ring, or you can buy him a ring he might wear on his right hand until the wedding.\n\n### To Kneel or Not to Kneel \n\nThe tradition of kneeling in order to ask someone to marry you is very old. In many traditional contexts, kneeling is a sign of respect that demonstrates loyalty and allegiance. Knights, for example, knelt before their king and queen, and in many religions the faithful will kneel in front of an altar, respected clergy, or sacred image as a way to pay homage and respect. Similarly, the man knelt before the woman to symbolize the honor it was to ask for her hand.\n\nFor a lot of people, the gesture of kneeling feels symbolic and meaningful for a wedding proposal. Women who want to kneel when they ask the question should definitely do so. If you have a gift to offer, make sure it’s in easy reach before you go down on that one knee. If you’re not offering a gift, then kneel down and take your partner’s hand when you ask the question, or keep your hands on your knee.\n\nYou should also be dressed for the occasion. Don’t wear a tight pencil skirt or high stilettos, as it will make the kneeling position more difficult. You want some stretch in your clothes. You should also be mindful of short, flowy skirts that might blow in the wind or prove too revealing in the position. Some people find trousers the easiest option. Whatever you wear, practice kneeling in your outfit beforehand, so you’re not caught off guard during the moment.\n\nFor women who don’t want to kneel, but want to physically mark the moment, there are gestures of intimacy you can adopt. You can take your partner’s hands and look into his eyes as you ask him to marry you, for example. \n\n![A Woman’s Guide to Proposing to a Man](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3bx7x4OgpR86pHSmiaCidz/c465dae3d736b459f6f4f298dd9dd243/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Proposal Tips\nAs with any proposal, those planning to propose to their man could benefit from a few quick tips. Before diving head-first into things, read the following. Keep them top-of-mind as you plan what's sure to be a day (or evening, or night) to remember.\n\n- __Be completely sure you're ready.__ Check in with yourself and make sure you aren't feeling any sort of uncertainty. Know that you're proposing, because you and your partner are ready to make things official and step into married life together.\n- __Consider your partner's feelings.__ Equally as important is where your partner is at with your relationship. Before proposing, have a conversation and make sure you're on the same page. At this point, it shouldn't be about if, but when.\n- __Tailor your proposal to your partner.__ Remember: You aren't planning your dream proposal, but his (or the both of yours, if your tastes here align). Shape your proposal to your SO's personality and/or passions.\n- __Be sensitive to several reactions.__ Gender roles typically have a man proposing to his partner. If you haven't floated the idea of you proposing to them, be prepared for an sensitive to a variety of reactions. There's a chance he may be disappointed he didn't get to ask you first. In that case, suggest that he ask you in return at another time of his choosing. Having asked each other is a lovely thought and will make for wonderful proposal stories.\n- __Prepare.__ You know the saying, *failing to prepare*... Well, the same can be said for any and all proposals. Have a backup plan or two in mind in case the weather shifts, you can't make it to your planned location, people can't show, or any other array of things goes wrong. In any case, always roll with the punches and remember what matters: That you're asking your partner to spend the rest of your lives together. Your partner won't know your new plan from the actual proposal plan.\n\n## Special Proposal Ideas\nEquipped with your newfound information, it's time to brainstorm some proposal plans. At the heart of things, your proposal should be genuine and heartfelt. That being said, a few [fun and creative ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/proposal-ideas) never hurt. Read on for some of our favorite ideas.\n\n### 1. A Beach or Hike Proposal. \n\nFor the couple that loves to be outdoors together, plan a proposal that takes place on the beach or at the end of your beau's favorite hike. A major pro, here, is that you can have family members and best friends waiting nearby to surprise your SO post-proposal. This proposal is also fairly easy to put together, depending on any extra details you might include, and can be very cost-efficient.\n### 2. Involve your pets. \n\nIf you and/or your SO have a beloved pet, get them involved in asking the big question. For example, purchase (or make) a bandana that says, \"Will you marry me?\" and tie it around your pet's neck while out on a walk. This surprise proposal makes for a lovely moment you're both sure to remember for the rest of your lives.\n\n### 3. A Holiday Proposal. \n\nAnother proposal idea for those who want loved ones nearby is to pop the question during a favored holiday. Plan a special moment in advance (e.g. Christmas tree shopping, the countdown during New Year's Eve) or keep the ring on you and let spontaneity decide. Either approach is sure to get a sentimental SO's \"I do.\"\n\n## Announcing the Engagement \n\nWomen and men will often announce their engagement in gendered language, for example proclaiming “she said yes!” or “I said yes!” to share the good news. Similarly, social media is full of engagement pictures that are nothing but a woman’s hand with a perfect ring, announcing the engagement without any words.\n\nFor women who propose to their partners, it can be tricky to find the right language. Some couples want to celebrate the fact that the woman popped the question. This can be a great way to flip any stereotypes on their head and normalize women proposing to men. You can take some fun pictures captioned “he said yes!” or “I can’t believe I convinced this guy to marry me” to share with family and friends. This is a time to have fun.\n\nOther couples may opt to put the focus on the upcoming marriage and not the proposal. Social media captions such as “we’re getting married!” is a more forward-focused way to let people know about the engagement.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Thinking of popping the question? Arrange the perfect proposal for your partner with these creative ideas. From romantic to adventurous, there's one for you!","title":"50 Unique Marriage Proposal Ideas [+ Printables]","slug":"proposal-ideas","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6dR1PxiYWKzfOfBhHANhYv/cd70212d7dfbc320706b4488eed2dd13/proposal-ideas-2.jpg","altText":"proposal idea hero image of person holding engagement ring box"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Explore effortless yet meaningful proposal ideas for couples who cherish simplicity. Discover heartfelt ways to celebrate your love with minimal fuss.","title":"25 Simple Proposal Ideas for the Low Maintenance Couple ","slug":"12-no-fuss-proposal-ideas-for-the-low-maintenance-couple","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3hM1ElGqlQw3XBF60ba8o/b351b89a68f1d6f663f96b31abb34067/Hero_EarthyPunkRockStyledShoot_CreatrixPhotography__1_.jpg","altText":"12 No-Fuss Proposal Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Getting married is exciting, and using a tried-and-true method to propose can be meaningful. Our classic marriage proposal ideas can help. Check out our latest blog to discover classic marriage proposal ideas from the experts at Zola.","title":"20 Classic Wedding Proposal Ideas Your Partner Will Love","slug":"classic-marriage-proposal-ideas","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4A5fLUA9nH9HyoW3fj87MC/d9b39d206399496f3dbca1e584533315/Hero_CopperRaptureStyledShoot_B.JonesPhotography.jpg","altText":"Classic Marriage Proposal Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Looking to pull off the perfect surprise proposal? 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Check out our latest article for all our top tips and tricks.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-12-29T21:35:40.650Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/ZSvx7fS927GXT72ZS6XYW/3278ca8712f9f8e9edeac2ca35019fa1/Hero_EarthyPunkRockStyledShoot_CreatrixPhotography.jpg","altText":"Surprise Proposal"},"heroCredit":"Creatrix Photography","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- Surprise proposals can be exciting, but be sure that it’s the right type of proposal for your partner. \n- Be careful who you tell, and don’t leave clues, such as the ring or receipt, where your SO can find them. \n- Do things to distract your partner, such as using a different credit card and throwing them off the proposal trail.\n","body":"Life affords many surprises. While there’s the wrong kind—cracking your iPhone screen or a flat tire—many unexpected circumstances are oh-so-right. Popping the question is one of those, but coming up with romantic ways to keep your big moment a secret can be difficult.\n\nIf you’re trying to pull off a __[surprise proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/proposal-ideas)__, there are creative ways to fly under the radar. Below, our experts share a number of __[best wedding proposal ideas/best proposal ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/12-no-fuss-proposal-ideas-for-the-low-maintenance-couple)__ on how to inspire the perfect proposal story, so you'll have no issues in planning that special moment without your partner knowing, helping you continue to shape your love story—and the rest of your life together. Let’s look at some unique marriage proposal ideas/unique proposal ideas.\n\n## How to Pull Off the Best Surprise Proposals \n\n### 1. Be careful who you tell about your epic proposal\nYour __[friends and family](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/introduce-families-after-engagement)__ could have the best intentions, but some have loose lips. Others get so nervous about keeping a secret that they act awkwardly and arouse suspicion. If you need to rely on others to pull off your surprise proposal, use caution. Remind them that it’s essential to keep their eye on the prize and not let one word—or glance—slip. \n\n### 2. Ensure that your marriage proposal is well planned.\nChances are your SO will be clued in if you’re acting nervous or distracted. Don’t leave the planning of your __[surprise proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/classic-marriage-proposal-ideas)__ to the last minute. Have everything in place, such as a beautiful setup and a proposal photographer. If others are involved, be sure that they are clear on their role and know exactly what to do when. A well-organized plan will help you relax and act naturally until it’s time to pop the question. \n\n### 3. Guard your devices before you pop the question.\nThe last thing you want your partner to do is to read a stray text that pops in. Put conversations with everyone involved on mute. Turn off notifications if you have to do so. Your faraway mom may send you a “good luck popping the question” text. Yikes! How do you explain that to your partner? It’s best to keep track of your smartphone, but don’t let that spark suspicion, either. Just make sure there are no accidental slips, so it can remain a total surprise.\n\n### 4. Distract them to throw them off the trail. \nIf you’re afraid that they’ll sense something is coming, throw them off course. Have your SO anticipate a marriage proposal at a different time or location than you planned. When they assume that you’ll be popping the question next month, imagine their shock when you propose this week. Distraction can be one of the best ways to divert their attention from what’s going on. \n\n### 5. Hide the engagement ring and anything that has to do with it.\nIn the words of __[Antoine Dodson](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EzNhaLUT520&list=FLBk90eKSRwxjUUZMbUkmVag&index=20)__, “Hide yo ring, hide yo box, hide yo bag.” Oh, wait—that’s not what he said? Well, it’s what he would have said if someone was asking him about the best surprise proposal ideas. That said, don’t leave anything—__[ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring)__, box, receipt, and for heaven’s sake, the jewelry store bag—where your partner can find it.\n\n### 6. Stick to the routine.\nUnless you’re an ultra-spontaneous couple, changing plans can be a big red flag. Your partner may already know a __[ring is coming](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ritani_fivestone_wedding_ring_14ktwhitegold)__, and senses can heighten at anything out of the norm. When planning surprise wedding proposals, it’s best to develop a plan that includes your everyday routine. Ask while at your favorite restaurant on a Tuesday night. Pop the question at your favorite team’s next home game. Keep it simple and undetectable. \n\n### 7. Don’t use a joint credit card or account to purchase the ring.\nWhen your charge card bill is double what it typically is, your SO will be looking at line items. Another big surprise-spoiler is a __[high-dollar charge](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-finance-an-engagement-ring)__—or possibly any charge—from XYZ jewelry store. Do your best to pay cash, use store credit, or get a new card to pay.\n\nReady for some covert operations? No matter what attempts you make, your partner may be alerted if they’re naturally suspicious or a super sleuth. If they figure it out, change course and start with a new plot. No matter the method, doing your best to plan the ultimate surprise proposal will __[pay off in the long run](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-announce-your-engagement)__.\n\n## Pros and Cons\n### Pros\n- __Fond memories.__ When many people look back at getting engaged, the surprise is what's greatly admired and remembered.\n\n- __Creativity and dedication.__ Your partner may deeply appreciate the creativity, time, and work put into a special surprise proposal.\n\n- __Tradition.__ Many significant others consider the surprise aspect of a proposal necessary and, thus, __[part of the whole tradition](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/proposal-etiquette-what-you-need-to-know-before-popping-the-big-question)__.\n\n### Cons\n- __Uncertainty.__ If you're uncertain whether or not your partner is ready to get engaged, don't spring a surprise proposal—especially not in front of other people.\n\n- __Keeping the secret.__ Proposal planning can be difficult to pull off in secret. If you're worried you'll give it away or that any suspicious behavior will come off badly, skip the secrecy.\n\n- __Not into surprises.__ Surprise engagements don't excite everybody. If your partner isn't typically a fan of surprises (or you aren't a fan of pulling them), don't try to force it.\n\n## 21 Surprise Proposal Ideas\n\n![How to Pull Off a Surprise Proposal | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5mvq6UvIYPZo3H3Nc7gtjl/10c5acb04946d100d45dc10b4bee2bbf/Inline_Pixabay__2_.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Pixabay\n\n### 1. Recreate a movie scene\nIf you and your partner are big film fans—or fans of one film, in particular—base your surprise proposal on a certain scene. This will be easier if the scene itself is a proposal (à la Pride and Prejudice, Love Actually, and Crazy Rich Asians), but don't be discouraged if it isn't. Even Star Wars and Lord of the Rings moments can have a proposal built into them. You can take this as far as you'd like, with a special setting, costumes, or the movie playing in the background. Surprise your SO with the set up and performance, followed by asking them to marry you.\n\n### 2. Take advantage of a holiday\nIf your partner loves a particular holiday, try to plan your proposal around it. Whether that's doing a Christmas proposal in the middle of gift-giving, planning an Easter egg scavenger hunt that ends with a ring, going into the New Year engaged, or taking advantage of the chocolates and rose petals that come with Valentine's Day, your SO is sure to enjoy the added cause to celebrate.\n\n### 3. Recreate your first date\nIf your first date was memorable or extra special, consider recreating it. Café, restaurant, park, or otherwise, plan a day or night out at your first date spot, ring in tow. Once there, settle in and have a good time. When you're ready to propose, start reminiscing about your first date. Not only what happened, but how you felt about your partner. Then, when you feel the time is right, bring out the ring and propose.\n\n### 4. Hold a game night\nFor the couple that loves a night in with loved ones, prepare for the perfect surprise. Invite close family and best friends over for a game night, in which you've crafted your proposal into one of the games. Not sure how to do this? We think Scrabble is an easy way to go. Ask someone to distract your partner in another room as you pull the game out and place \"Will you marry me?\" on the board. Then, bring them back in to play. When they notice the big question, get down on one knee and launch into your __[proposal speech](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-say-during-a-proposal)__.\n\n### 5. Have a photo shoot\nIf you're a frequent photographer, consider planning a photoshoot. You can ask to take photos of your significant other or suggest a couple's shoot. The latter works especially well if a holiday is coming up, like Valentine's Day or Christmas. Start snapping away, then, at the end of the shoot, get in front of the camera, get down on one knee, and propose! Just make sure you're getting photos as it happens. Bonus: You'll immediately have engagement photos you can share with family and across social media.\n\n### 6. Gift them flowers\nSurprise proposals don't need to be big productions, nor do they need to be very public. For the __[low-key couple](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/12-no-fuss-proposal-ideas-for-the-low-maintenance-couple)__, consider slipping the engagement ring or ring box into a bouquet of flowers. Bring a bouquet home from a local grocery store or florists (or have the flowers delivered), carefully place the ring amidst the blooms, and give them to your partner. They'll be in for not one, but two sweet and intimate surprises.\n\n### 7. Take a walk along the beach\nWhether you're on vacation or live near the coast, a beach proposal is extremely romantic. What's more, it's very easy to pull off. Slip the ring box in your pocket and take a walk along the shoreline with your partner, perhaps during sunrise or sunset. When the time feels right, surprise your SO by getting down on one knee. You can also have friends and family standing by, waiting to jump out and celebrate.\n\n### 8. Plan a boat ride\nIf you live near the water and have access to a boat (don't forget rentals!), plan a day or evening out at sea. Gather friends or family to join you for extra fun—and to not tip your partner off to the surprise. Then, when the sun is setting or you feel the time is right, propose to your partner. Tell a friend or family member when you're just about to do it so they can get the whole gorgeous scene on video from nearby.\n\n### 9. Take a special trip\nNot everyone can jet off at a moment's notice, but you can plan a special trip ahead of time. Jet-setting to a different country, taking a road trip to a nearby destination, and everything in-between can work wonderfully for a surprise proposal. Even stay-cations can be very romantic. Wherever you end up, once you've settled, pick a beautiful location and ask your partner the big question. You'll both love the ability to celebrate after, be it by relaxing or adventuring.\n\n### 10. Host an engagement party\nNothing says \"surprise\" like a party. Plan your proposal at a location where you can also host an engagement party afterwards. Consider restaurants, nice bars, hotels, and even your home. You don't have to go all out with your budget, but can definitely splurge on a big celebration if you want to. Simply plan a \"date night\" with your partner, get them to dress for the occasion, and bring them to the spot. Once there, surprise them with a romantic proposal and the arrival of your loved ones.\n\nSurprise proposals can be tough to pull off. Even the simplest of ideas run the chance of being spilled. That being said, try not to put too much pressure on yourself. So long as the moment is meaningful and your words come from the heart, your partner is sure to love whatever efforts you put in.\n\n### 11. Organize a flash mob\nGet together with loved ones—or hire professional dancers—to coordinate and organize a flash mob proposal. Then, take your partner somewhere public—like a park, mall, or beach—where the waiting flash mob will spring into action to help you pop the big question. (A flash mob works especially well for outdoor proposals!)\n\n### 12. Hide the ring in your Christmas tree\nThe holidays make for an especially romantic and magical time of year, so why not use them to come up with the perfect proposal? Before you go to bed on Christmas Eve, hide the ring box in the Christmas tree. On Christmas morning, call special attention to “one more gift” before your partner pulls the box out of the branches.\n\n### 13. Visit Disney for a fairytale proposal\nIt’s called the Magic Kingdom for a reason. What’s more magical than proposing in front of Disney’s Cinderella Castle? Enchant your partner and have them feel like they’re living a fairytale by popping the question while surrounded by the magic and classical beauty of some of their favorite characters and stories.\n\n### 14. Ride a ferris wheel\nWith the stars above and city lights flickering in the distance, a ferris wheel proposal is a surefire way to surprise your partner. For the best effect, wait until the ferris wheel is at its apex, with a vast and stunning view to serve as the backdrop when you pull out the ring and have your big moment.\n\n### 15. Hide the ring inside a fortune cookie\nCracking open a fortune cookie and reading your fortune is always fun. But what if, instead of a fortune, that cookie hid an engagement ring instead? Next time you order Chinese takeout, slip away with one of the cookies and heat it in the microwave quickly to help it open up before secreting the ring inside of it. When it’s time for your partner to read their fortune, dazzle them with a beautiful engagement ring! (It’ll definitely be the most memorable cookie they’ve ever had!)\n\n### 16. Go for a hot air balloon ride\nCruising through the sky on a hot air balloon is a great way to enjoy a little bit of excitement and romance with your loved one. As you drift over and past the natural beauty below, pull out the ring and ask for your partner’s hand in marriage for a truly surprising—and breathtaking—proposal. (Just make sure to share your plan with the pilot and staff first).\n\n### 17. Put together a jigsaw puzzle\nPuzzles are always more fun when you’re not sure what the final result should look like. Purchase or create a jigsaw puzzle for the perfect surprise proposal by encouraging your partner to gradually piece it together until it’s all but obvious that you’re asking “will you marry me?”\n\n### 18. Climb a mountain in a ski lift\nIf you and your partner enjoy hitting the slopes, a ski lift is the perfect surprise proposal idea. As the lift caresses over the gentle snow-covered slopes of your favorite resort with the promise of a warm hot chocolate in each of your near-futures, get down onto your knee and ask to share the rest of your lives together.\n\n### 19. Hire a skywriter\nFor a grandiose and surprising proposal, invite your partner to join you somewhere with a great and unobstructed view of the sky—ideally on a day with clear weather and little cloud cover. When you hear the whirring engine of a low-flying plane above, direct your partner’s attention to it and pull out the ring just in time for the pilot to finish writing out the big question against the clear blue sky.\n\n### 20. Spend a night stargazing\nStars shine brilliantly for millions of years with the same amount of energy with which you love your partner. For this surprise proposal idea, head out somewhere with a clear view of the night sky and little light pollution, roll out a blanket onto the ground (or enjoy the soft grass against your backs), and stare up at the sky overhead. Point out your favorite constellations and, when the time is right, pull out the ring and share your speech beneath the night sky.\n\n### 21. Create a treasure hunt\nFor another perfect proposal idea, think of all the places you and your partner consider special or important, like the place you had your first date and your favorite restaurant. Hide clues in or at each of these places to create a trail of breadcrumbs your partner can follow until the end, where the final treasure awaits: a beautiful proposal ring and a heart-warming speech in which you ask to spend the rest of your lives together.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"There are guides for almost every first, but there’s no manual on proposal etiquette. Our complete guide can help. 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It’s official: Everyone’s opting for these months—and here’s why.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2022-01-06T22:41:32.982Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1RBNfTEOwI6UdlwKrEQqw0/8bddc5094111a16de83743ba5ec39212/1116_EA_FLR-Months_Everyones_Getting_Engaged.jpg","altText":"top months to get engaged and married"},"heroCredit":"Katie Dawn Photo","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- This year the __most popular months to get engaged and married__ look a little familiar. Below we cover all of the ‘whens’ and ‘whys.’\n- Due to extended engagements and brewing excitement, 2023 will see an __earlier wedding season than usual__.\n- The __top months to get engaged__ haven’t seen too much change, being influenced mostly by the holidays, time spent with loved ones, and the weather.\n- However, the __top months to get married__ have shifted from April and May, to October, September and June.\n","body":" \nWhen a couple gets engaged or married is typically based on a number of factors. Holidays, breaks from work and school, and—perhaps most notable—weather, all play into the month that someone proposes or says I do. In fact, __[wedding season](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-season-should-you-get-married-in)__ exists for these exact reasons.\n\nThis coming year, things are looking a bit familiar to popular wedding months of the past. While some of the most popular times to get engaged and married remain mainstays, we’re seeing new months on couples’ radars and an overall shift in 2023’s projected wedding season. It’s official: Everyone’s getting engaged and married in these months. Here’s why.\n\n## Top Months to Get Married \nWith 2023 coming off the heels of one of the busiest wedding seasons ever, it's no surprise to see the most popular wedding months pre-pandemic rising back to the top. \n\nAfter last year's shift due to postponed weddings, [September](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/september-wedding-heres-everything-you-need-to-know) returns to the #1 most popular wedding month for 2023. Summertime and early fall typically host the most weddings, next year’s couples have set the most dates between May and September.\n\n### September\nMany people’s calendars are marked up with wedding dates and summer vacations during the summer months. __[September](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/september-wedding-heres-everything-you-need-to-know)__, however, sees a decrease in packed plans, making it ideal for couples with longer guest lists. Guests have more time and availability for early [fall weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/november-wedding-heres-everything-you-need-to-know) and are more likely to attend your celebration. September also embodies that desired fall feeling many engaged couples are after, while still offering the warm weather present at the end of summer. Add in the three-day Labor Day weekend, and many are sold on this being the best time of year.\n\n### June\n__[June weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/june-wedding-everything-you-need-to-know)__ are well-liked for many of the reasons that we’ve already covered. However, the month is also steeped in history and tradition. For one, June is named after Juno, the Roman goddess of marriage and childbirth, and thus long considered a favorable month to get married. Nowadays, June weddings are often sought after for more practical reasons. The beginning of summer has great weather, school break offers flexibility, and you can choose an outdoor wedding venue.\n\n### May\nMay weddings enjoy many of the benefits that June weddings do, such as nice weather and the accompanying flexibility. May is one of the months of the year that’s less likely to clash with plans, such as summer vacations and weddings. On that note, guests won’t suffer from wedding fatigue, which is possible during the busy summer wedding season. For many venues and vendors, a May spring wedding falls outside peak summer pricing. For couples that prioritize sticking to a budget, this month provides all of the perks of a summer wedding without the extra cost.\n\n### October\nThe reasons why October sees so many weddings are similar to why it sees so many engagements. In many places, it’s the perfect post-summer temperature, and vibrant fall colors have started to paint mountains, trees, and landscapes. You can also use deeper, moodier, or cozier decor than is usually seen in the spring or summer. An autumn wedding also opens the door to fun and seasonal food and cocktail options. __[Halloween](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-put-together-a-spooky-halloween-wedding)__ also gives couples the chance to throw the ultimate themed ceremony and reception in potentially cold weather, especially on the east coast.\n\n### April\nAlthough April showers can occur, this seems to be the only downside to having a wedding this month. When it isn’t raining, couples and their guests can enjoy comfortable weather, with temperatures anywhere from the fifties to the eighties throughout the US. [April](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/april-wedding-heres-everything-you-need-to-know) also has a popular and traditional context, making it a favorable month. After all, William and Kate chose April 29th, and the Romans considered April the Sacred Month of Venus, the Goddess of love and fertility.\n\n### July\nOne of the first things that come to mind with a mid-summer wedding is the high likelihood of fantastic weather. In many parts of the US, there is a very low risk of showers or strong winds, which is a great relief for those who want an outdoor ceremony or destination wedding. The days are longer, an abundance of flowers and fresh fruits are in season, and people are more willing to spend time traveling and socializing.\n\n## Top Months to Get Engaged \nWith that in mind, let’s start by looking at the months when people get engaged. This data hasn’t been seen as big of a change, likely due to proposals being a more intimate experience. That is to say, not many couples plan on having all of their loved ones present for it.\n\nMore often, proposals involve the couple, if not a handful of close friends and family members. This has made getting engaged throughout the last year easier to manage, with the usual factors such as weather, time off from work and school, and holidays having the largest influence. \n\n### December\nThe holiday season has long reigned supreme when it comes to the most popular months to get engaged—and we can’t say that we’re surprised. December brings with it feelings of thankfulness and love in the winter months. It’s the time that we’re most likely to be surrounded by loved ones, many of whom couples want to share these special moments with, which is one reason winter weddings are popular. With loved ones near, holiday cheer, and many towns decked out in festive decor, it is no surprise it is such a beloved time of the year to get engaged.\n\n### May\n[May](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/may-wedding-heres-everything-you-need-to-know) is one of the best months and lands in that nice place between late spring and early summer, with sunnier weather making an appearance in many places. Warmer days and the long Memorial Day weekend begin to coax people outside, making outdoor proposals much easier to pull off. Another plus to getting engaged in May is that it leads seamlessly into summer; a time when __[celebrating your engagement](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party)__ and beginning wedding planning becomes more manageable due to summer break and people’s availability opening up.\n\n### October\nWith fall kicking off just a few weeks earlier, __[October](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/october-wedding-heres-everything-you-need-to-know)__ is a prime time to take advantage of the best weather. Come mid-October, most of the US sees the arrival of fall foliage, a great excuse to drive into the mountains or take a surprise trip upstate. A vibrant, gorgeous autumn backdrop makes quite the backdrop for a proposal. Of course, we can’t go without mentioning Halloween, as spirited couples who go all out find it an especially special day to get engaged.\n\n### March\nLate March marks the beginning of springtime peak season, a time representative of renewal, rebirth, and fresh new beginnings. It’s a wonderful time to celebrate the start of something new, especially with the return of warmer weather and new blooms. Spring break starts around mid-March, allowing couples with children to make a sunny escape full of adventure and relaxation. This month also has two holidays that provide the perfect time: St. Patrick’s Day (especially if you or your partner are Irish) and National Proposal Day.\n\n### June\nSummer is finally in full swing, and with it comes sunny skies, large family gatherings, and the chance to go on trips with your significant other. Many couples take advantage of the typically warm weather by spending time together at their favorite outdoor spots near or far from home. Moreover, school’s out for summer, which means that couples or significant others with children can more easily involve them in the proposal. All of this provides ample opportunity for exciting engagements in all parts of the country.\n\n### February\nThough Valentine’s only lasts a single day (February 14th), the feeling of love permeates the entire month. Whether due to the anticipation leading up to the holiday, the giddiness thereafter, or both, it isn’t shocking that a lot of couples get engaged throughout. __[Valentine’s Day](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/proposal-ideas)__ alone is an apt time for big surprises and grand expressions of love. It’s romantic and traditional, as well as pretty unforgettable.\n\n## Dates to Avoid and Consider for Your Wedding\nNot only is the time of year important to consider when planning your wedding day, but there are some dates you need to consider avoiding. Although, some holidays can be helpful. If you’re considering having your big day near a holiday, poll essential wedding guests to see if they’ll be able to attend.\n\n#### Wedding Dates to Avoid\n- __Super Bowl Sunday__ (or other major sporting events, depending on your guest list and country)\n\n- __Thanksgiving Day__\n\n- __Christmas Day__\n\n- __Easter Sunday__\n\n#### Wedding Dates to Consider\n- __Long Weekends,__ such as Memorial Day, Labor Day, and Easter, Thanksgiving, and Christmas weekends\n\n- __Weekday Weddings,__ getting married in the off-season or weekday can help avoid peak wedding season pricing\n\n- __New Year’s Eve__ and __New Year’s Day__\n\n- __Halloween__\n\n- __Valentine’s Day__\n\n- __Interestingly Numbered Dates,__ for example, 4/24/24 or 2/5/25\n\n## Setting a Schedule at Zola\nOnce you’re engaged and your date’s been picked, much of your wedding planning can begin. Great! Although, admittedly, this can be an intimidating thing to approach. Not sure where to start? Zola’s got you covered. By __[creating an account](https://www.zola.com/onboard/select-product)__, you gain access to a number of helpful tools, like a customized monthly wedding checklist. Just sign up, tell us your wedding date and any special traditions that you’ll be following, and allow us to compile the rest. Come for the checklist and stay for the __[Wedding Website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website)__ builder, online RSVPs, and more __[Expert Advice](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice)__.","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"There are guides for almost every first, but there’s no manual on proposal etiquette. Our complete guide can help. 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Yes, there’s wedding planning to do, but it doesn’t all need to happen at once.\n\n## Just got engaged, now what?\n \n\nWith the help of Zola, you’ll be off planning in a jiffy, but your list of to-do’s after engagement doesn’t have to be stressful. However, there are certain things you and your partner should accomplish in the first month (or so) after your engagement. Plus, you’ll discover the things you shouldn’t do right away, so you’ll know what to look forward to doing.\n\nSo, now that you’ve officially ticked “[getting engaged](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/getting-engaged)” off the list, it’s time to begin. First, congrats! Second, here’s your checklist of what’s coming up next as you begin to plan your wedding day. \n\n## 17 steps for the just engaged couple\n \n\n### 1. Celebrate\n\nIt might feel tough, but refrain from reaching for your phone right away. Instead, take some time to celebrate your engagement with your new fiancé. Make your way over to your favorite bar or restaurant and enjoy each other’s company. Take a walk on the beach or through your favorite part of the city.\n\nRegardless of the setting, enjoy the moment one-on-one (unless, of course, your loved ones were in on the [proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/getting-engaged/proposals) and are waiting in the wings). Before you know it, you’ll be up to your neck in wedding planning, so savor this time for all it’s worth. Bask in that newly engaged glow.\n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5TinaZh7eVfqET7ez5FgmP/527c65acd1e95d3ecf50b5852795015a/INLINE___Unsplash_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### 2. Share the news.\nWhen you’re ready to tell others, start with those closest to you. This is likely your immediate family (parents and siblings), other close relatives, and best friends. Ring them personally or pay a visit, if possible, but steer clear of text messages. While it might seem like the most efficient way to tell your people, it can feel a bit impersonal. Save text announcements for people you aren’t as close with.\n\nTypically, there’s a hierarchy that states you should tell family first. However, we realize that not all dynamics are the same. [Share the news of your engagement](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-announcements-101) with those you love in the order you deem most appropriate.\n\n### 3. Alert the (social) media\n\nThat is if you’re on social media, of course. Once you tell your close family and friends, now it’s time to tell the world. Share a status update on Facebook to say that you’re just engaged, or post a photo or story on Instagram. Take a selfie with your partner, show off [your ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/dont-like-engagement-ring), or upload a photo someone snapped of the actual engagement moment.\n\nYou’re engaged—you should absolutely share the story. However, we do caution against spamming your various timelines with [engagement news](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-announce-your-engagement). There will be plenty of opportunities to share wedding planning highlights as you work out details. Maybe don’t exhaust your followers with too much upfront.\n\n### 4. Tell your loved ones first\n\nIt's normal to be extremely thrilled and excited about the proposal. Of course, you want to let everyone within earshot—or everyone with access to a smartphone—know of the good news. We get it, it’s convenient to make a couple of posts online.\n\nAnd while it’s completely up to you who you tell and how you do it, you probably don’t want the friend you lost touch with after college to find out via Facebook that you’re engaged—before your own parents or best friends. \n\nHold off on making any social media posts until you’ve delivered the news to your important people in person, if not via a phone call.\n\n### 5. Start thinking about dates\nDue to desirable venues and [certain months](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/choosing-your-wedding-month) getting booked well in advance, it’s wise to start thinking about dates quite early. This is especially the case if you’re looking to have your wedding within a year or two of getting engaged. \n\nStart by discussing the ideal time of year or month with your significant other. Then, check for any holidays, birthdays, or other conflicts that you’d like to avoid double-booking. \n\nAlso, reach out to important loved ones, such as close friends and family members, to check for conflicts before settling on anything. Find out what works for you and those closest to you, and settle on a few days or weekends that you can ask potential [venues](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues) about.\n\n### 6. Start talking logistics\nYou and your partner have brainstormed locations, dates, and your wedding style—now’s the time to start setting things in stone. Be pragmatic in your discussions and decisions. Start by sitting down together and drawing out a personalized budget and timeline. Or, let Zola do the manual work for you – create a personalized wedding checklist, timeline and budget in just a few minutes. [Sign up and access our free wedding planning tools here](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/onboard).\n\nThere’s no official timeline you need to stick to but your own, by the way. If you want to be engaged for a couple of years, do that. Circle back to planning in a few months or years. If that’s not you, however, start with a location and date. Once you have both of those, reach out to venues. Figure out what they have for availability around your desired date and book it. From there, you can begin looking into and [securing other vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors#:~:text=Explore%20wedding%20vendors%20by%20category), such as a wedding planner, catering, and entertainment.\n\n### 7. Say your thank yous\n\nThroughout the first few weeks of being engaged, you might receive celebratory cards and even gifts from friends and family. This is even more likely if you have an engagement party. Maintain a list of everyone who sends or brings you a card and/or gift, so that you can send out proper [thank you cards](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop).\n\n### 8. Spend some time researching before booking\n\nRemember how important it is to think about the big picture? You’ll want to put considerable time into that before booking a venue or any vendors for your big day. You’re just engaged, after all. \n\nWe know that locking down a space or [photographer](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/questions-to-ask-wedding-photographer) you love ASAP can be stressful, but trust us, you want to take the time to be really clear about what you both want before making anything official. \n\nTry not to rush. Allow yourselves the time to dream, find inspiration, and bounce ideas and desires off of one another.\n\n### 9. Hold off on sorting the wedding party\n\nMaid of honor, best man, bridesmaids, groomsmen, and every bridal party and wedding party member in between… there’s potential for a lot of loved ones to be involved in your wedding day! While this is one of the most exciting parts of planning a wedding, we highly recommend you hold off a few weeks before asking anyone to officially take on a role. There are many details that can shape not only who you’ll want by your side but how many people you’ll be able to include. \n\nWait to ask your helpers until you’ve figured out your wedding’s basics—your budget, venue, and the type of wedding you want, to start.\n\n### 10. Keep things vague with guests for now\n\nAs with requests and potential wedding party members, hold off on inviting anyone to your wedding until you have planning underway. The excitement of being newly engaged, added to the love and well-wishes from all around, can have you wanting to share the excitement and invite everyone. Refrain. Better to keep things polite and vague now than to be put in an awkward position when someone doesn’t make the [guest list](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/guests) later on.\n\n### 11. Wait to purchase your wedding attire\n\nIt’s incredibly tempting to start trying on [wedding dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/tips-wedding-dress-shopping), suits, and other [wedding day attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/fashion-beauty/wedding-attire) soon after getting engaged. However, it’s crucial that you don’t jump in too soon. At this point, odds are you haven't yet decided on your budget or what you really want. \n\nRushing this process and making a purchase too soon out of excitement can lead to regret and financial issues down the line. Wait until you’re sure of what you’re looking for and can afford before making any try-on appointments.\n\n### 12. Relax\n\nOne more time: you just got engaged, so slow down. Wedding planning has the potential to be pretty stressful right off the bat. With guest list creation, wedding venue touring, budget making, and every other aspect of the wedding planning process right around the corner, don’t forget to make time to enjoy being engaged. \n\nSet some time aside for a relaxing date night, just the two of you. Put the beginning stages of planning on pause and focus on each other and how happy you are to be where you are right now.\n\n### 13. Expect some unsolicited advice\n\nUpon telling loved ones of your engagement, chances are you’re going to be hearing a lot of advice from those who have had a wedding. Take any and all unsolicited advice with grace, but don’t be quick to take it to heart. \n\nWhile you may come to agree with and appreciate some advice here and there, you definitely don’t need to take or even consider it all. Offer a “thank you,” pocket what gems you can, and move forward.\n\n### 14. Host an engagement party\n\nAfter saying yes, it’s time to celebrate! Depending on how you want to announce your engagement, this should take place before or after you post to social media. If you like the idea of telling your friends and family all at once, plan a surprise [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party) before making a public announcement. That way, the news is completely unexpected. Many couples also prefer to host a more formal engagement party (with invitations and maybe even scheduled activities) a few weeks after the engagement.\n\nIf your loved ones are already in the know, one or some of them may come forward and offer to host your party for you. Whatever you decide works—engagement parties aren’t necessary, so if you choose to have one, get creative with [engagement party ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-ideas) and celebrate however you want. Be aware, though: You shouldn’t invite anyone to the engagement party that you won’t invite to the wedding. Plan accordingly.\n\n### 15. Book an engagement shoot\n\nThis is another optional to-do. If an engagement photoshoot doesn’t sound like your style, stay with us for just a second. Engagement shoots are popular for a few reasons. Mainly, they’re usually free and come as an additional component of your wedding photography package. If you haven’t yet [booked a photographer](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers) (totally normal at this stage, by the way!), you can either wait until you do or you can hire another local photographer for this shoot.\n\nCouples also often see an [engagement shoot](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-take-authentic-engagement-photos) as an opportunity to get comfortable in front of the camera together. Again, if you have a photographer booked, this is a great time to get to know more about his or her style. This way, you’ll hopefully feel more natural when your photo is being taken from all angles come wedding day. Use your engagement photos on your [save the dates](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/save-the-date/shop), wedding website, and/or wedding invitations.\n\n### 16. Think big picture\n\nNow that you’re no longer just engaged, your engagement celebrations have probably slowed. Now it feels like time to really start thinking about your big day. Don’t stress yourself out by immediately looking into every single detail, though. Start off by discussing big-picture ideas with your partner. Now is the time to figure out if you’re both on the same page with your dream wedding style and guest count.\n\nTalk about everything from wedding location and wedding size to a potential color palette and wedding date options. And, of course, always be open to your partner’s ideas. Stay organized off the bat by gathering inspiration in a place that’s easy to access and edit. Pinterest board, Google Doc, computer folder, binder—whatever works for you.\n\n### 17. Make time to soak it all in\n\nWe’re aware that we’re reiterating here, but it’s worth the reminder. Don’t get so immediately wrapped up in wedding planning that you forget to enjoy being just engaged. Skipping over this part can lead to considerable stress later on. Pop some bubbly, spend quality time with your fiancé(e), and bask in the excitement from all of those closest to you.\n\n## Engagement rings and wedding bands\n \n\nIf you were over the moon to put your new [ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/getting-engaged/rings) on… only to find it didn’t quite fit, you’ll want to get it sized ASAP. This won’t be the most exciting part of getting engaged, but it’s necessary if you want to avoid losing your special stone.\n\nSpeaking of losing your ring, enter ring insurance! When it comes to what to do after getting engaged, sorting out insurance definitely isn’t the most exciting task. While it's not super sexy, it's highly recommended. Most jewelry experts suggest taking out a policy with a jewelry insurance provider (and not extending your homeowner’s or renter’s insurance to cover it). Head to a jeweler or another certified professional and get an appraisal. Here’s more on [engagement ring insurance](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/reasons-to-insure-engagement-ring).\n\n## FAQs about getting engaged and post-proposal to dos\n \n\n### What does it mean to be engaged?\nJust engaged? That means you and your partner have decided to get married and are planning your future together. Being engaged is more than just wearing a ring. It's an exciting and romantic phase of your relationship. However, it also comes with some responsibilities and challenges as you grow together.\n\n### What to do after getting engaged?\nFirst of all, remember to celebrate! Next on the list comes telling your family and friends. Then, start thinking about wedding dates, share your good news on social media (optional), and arrange an engagement party and/or photo shoot. For now, don't worry about the guest list or wedding attire.\n\n### How do we announce our engagement?\nHow you announce your engagement is completely up to you and your partner. Most couples like to tell their immediate family and friends face to face before announcing their good news on social media. Others will share the news through phone calls, TikTok, or traditional paper announcements.\n\n### How to start planning a wedding?\nThe first thing you'll need for wedding planning is a [wedding checklist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist) and a budget. You may want to create a wedding Google Drive and email to keep everything organized. Or you can use free budgeting and checklist tools from wedding planning sites like Zola. Then you can start on the finer details: where, when, what you'll wear, and who will take part.\n\n## Final Thoughts\n\nOnce you’ve checked these boxes, you’ll be ready to go all in on wedding planning. Buckle up because it can (read: probably will) get hectic. Just remember to take a pause every now and then to enjoy being engaged.\n\nHere at Zola, we have everything you need to make wedding planning as seamless (but exciting) as possible. Even if you don’t publish it yet, you can start working on your [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website) and making your wishlist on your [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) right away. Zola can help you every step along the way from proposal to your new life together as a married couple. 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Whether you asked or answered, you just took the first step toward one of the happiest days (and chapters) of your life. You’ve probably heard that now the work begins—and, if you’re hoping to wed in a year or less, that’s true. Wait, wait, wait… don’t get overwhelmed. Yes, there’s wedding planning to do, but it doesn’t all need to happen at once.\n\n## Just got engaged, now what?\n \n\nWith the help of Zola, you’ll be off planning in a jiffy, but your list of to-do’s after engagement doesn’t have to be stressful. However, there are certain things you and your partner should accomplish in the first month (or so) after your engagement. Plus, you’ll discover the things you shouldn’t do right away, so you’ll know what to look forward to doing.\n\nSo, now that you’ve officially ticked “[getting engaged](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/getting-engaged)” off the list, it’s time to begin. First, congrats! Second, here’s your checklist of what’s coming up next as you begin to plan your wedding day. \n\n## 17 steps for the just engaged couple\n \n\n### 1. Celebrate\n\nIt might feel tough, but refrain from reaching for your phone right away. Instead, take some time to celebrate your engagement with your new fiancé. Make your way over to your favorite bar or restaurant and enjoy each other’s company. Take a walk on the beach or through your favorite part of the city.\n\nRegardless of the setting, enjoy the moment one-on-one (unless, of course, your loved ones were in on the [proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/getting-engaged/proposals) and are waiting in the wings). Before you know it, you’ll be up to your neck in wedding planning, so savor this time for all it’s worth. Bask in that newly engaged glow.\n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5TinaZh7eVfqET7ez5FgmP/527c65acd1e95d3ecf50b5852795015a/INLINE___Unsplash_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### 2. Share the news.\nWhen you’re ready to tell others, start with those closest to you. This is likely your immediate family (parents and siblings), other close relatives, and best friends. Ring them personally or pay a visit, if possible, but steer clear of text messages. While it might seem like the most efficient way to tell your people, it can feel a bit impersonal. Save text announcements for people you aren’t as close with.\n\nTypically, there’s a hierarchy that states you should tell family first. However, we realize that not all dynamics are the same. [Share the news of your engagement](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-announcements-101) with those you love in the order you deem most appropriate.\n\n### 3. Alert the (social) media\n\nThat is if you’re on social media, of course. Once you tell your close family and friends, now it’s time to tell the world. Share a status update on Facebook to say that you’re just engaged, or post a photo or story on Instagram. Take a selfie with your partner, show off [your ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/dont-like-engagement-ring), or upload a photo someone snapped of the actual engagement moment.\n\nYou’re engaged—you should absolutely share the story. However, we do caution against spamming your various timelines with [engagement news](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-announce-your-engagement). There will be plenty of opportunities to share wedding planning highlights as you work out details. Maybe don’t exhaust your followers with too much upfront.\n\n### 4. Tell your loved ones first\n\nIt's normal to be extremely thrilled and excited about the proposal. Of course, you want to let everyone within earshot—or everyone with access to a smartphone—know of the good news. We get it, it’s convenient to make a couple of posts online.\n\nAnd while it’s completely up to you who you tell and how you do it, you probably don’t want the friend you lost touch with after college to find out via Facebook that you’re engaged—before your own parents or best friends. \n\nHold off on making any social media posts until you’ve delivered the news to your important people in person, if not via a phone call.\n\n### 5. Start thinking about dates\nDue to desirable venues and [certain months](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/choosing-your-wedding-month) getting booked well in advance, it’s wise to start thinking about dates quite early. This is especially the case if you’re looking to have your wedding within a year or two of getting engaged. \n\nStart by discussing the ideal time of year or month with your significant other. Then, check for any holidays, birthdays, or other conflicts that you’d like to avoid double-booking. \n\nAlso, reach out to important loved ones, such as close friends and family members, to check for conflicts before settling on anything. Find out what works for you and those closest to you, and settle on a few days or weekends that you can ask potential [venues](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues) about.\n\n### 6. Start talking logistics\nYou and your partner have brainstormed locations, dates, and your wedding style—now’s the time to start setting things in stone. Be pragmatic in your discussions and decisions. Start by sitting down together and drawing out a personalized budget and timeline. Or, let Zola do the manual work for you – create a personalized wedding checklist, timeline and budget in just a few minutes. [Sign up and access our free wedding planning tools here](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/onboard).\n\nThere’s no official timeline you need to stick to but your own, by the way. If you want to be engaged for a couple of years, do that. Circle back to planning in a few months or years. If that’s not you, however, start with a location and date. Once you have both of those, reach out to venues. Figure out what they have for availability around your desired date and book it. From there, you can begin looking into and [securing other vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors#:~:text=Explore%20wedding%20vendors%20by%20category), such as a wedding planner, catering, and entertainment.\n\n### 7. Say your thank yous\n\nThroughout the first few weeks of being engaged, you might receive celebratory cards and even gifts from friends and family. This is even more likely if you have an engagement party. Maintain a list of everyone who sends or brings you a card and/or gift, so that you can send out proper [thank you cards](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop).\n\n### 8. Spend some time researching before booking\n\nRemember how important it is to think about the big picture? You’ll want to put considerable time into that before booking a venue or any vendors for your big day. You’re just engaged, after all. \n\nWe know that locking down a space or [photographer](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/questions-to-ask-wedding-photographer) you love ASAP can be stressful, but trust us, you want to take the time to be really clear about what you both want before making anything official. \n\nTry not to rush. Allow yourselves the time to dream, find inspiration, and bounce ideas and desires off of one another.\n\n### 9. Hold off on sorting the wedding party\n\nMaid of honor, best man, bridesmaids, groomsmen, and every bridal party and wedding party member in between… there’s potential for a lot of loved ones to be involved in your wedding day! While this is one of the most exciting parts of planning a wedding, we highly recommend you hold off a few weeks before asking anyone to officially take on a role. There are many details that can shape not only who you’ll want by your side but how many people you’ll be able to include. \n\nWait to ask your helpers until you’ve figured out your wedding’s basics—your budget, venue, and the type of wedding you want, to start.\n\n### 10. Keep things vague with guests for now\n\nAs with requests and potential wedding party members, hold off on inviting anyone to your wedding until you have planning underway. The excitement of being newly engaged, added to the love and well-wishes from all around, can have you wanting to share the excitement and invite everyone. Refrain. Better to keep things polite and vague now than to be put in an awkward position when someone doesn’t make the [guest list](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/guests) later on.\n\n### 11. Wait to purchase your wedding attire\n\nIt’s incredibly tempting to start trying on [wedding dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/tips-wedding-dress-shopping), suits, and other [wedding day attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/fashion-beauty/wedding-attire) soon after getting engaged. However, it’s crucial that you don’t jump in too soon. At this point, odds are you haven't yet decided on your budget or what you really want. \n\nRushing this process and making a purchase too soon out of excitement can lead to regret and financial issues down the line. Wait until you’re sure of what you’re looking for and can afford before making any try-on appointments.\n\n### 12. Relax\n\nOne more time: you just got engaged, so slow down. Wedding planning has the potential to be pretty stressful right off the bat. With guest list creation, wedding venue touring, budget making, and every other aspect of the wedding planning process right around the corner, don’t forget to make time to enjoy being engaged. \n\nSet some time aside for a relaxing date night, just the two of you. Put the beginning stages of planning on pause and focus on each other and how happy you are to be where you are right now.\n\n### 13. Expect some unsolicited advice\n\nUpon telling loved ones of your engagement, chances are you’re going to be hearing a lot of advice from those who have had a wedding. Take any and all unsolicited advice with grace, but don’t be quick to take it to heart. \n\nWhile you may come to agree with and appreciate some advice here and there, you definitely don’t need to take or even consider it all. Offer a “thank you,” pocket what gems you can, and move forward.\n\n### 14. Host an engagement party\n\nAfter saying yes, it’s time to celebrate! Depending on how you want to announce your engagement, this should take place before or after you post to social media. If you like the idea of telling your friends and family all at once, plan a surprise [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party) before making a public announcement. That way, the news is completely unexpected. Many couples also prefer to host a more formal engagement party (with invitations and maybe even scheduled activities) a few weeks after the engagement.\n\nIf your loved ones are already in the know, one or some of them may come forward and offer to host your party for you. Whatever you decide works—engagement parties aren’t necessary, so if you choose to have one, get creative with [engagement party ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-ideas) and celebrate however you want. Be aware, though: You shouldn’t invite anyone to the engagement party that you won’t invite to the wedding. Plan accordingly.\n\n### 15. Book an engagement shoot\n\nThis is another optional to-do. If an engagement photoshoot doesn’t sound like your style, stay with us for just a second. Engagement shoots are popular for a few reasons. Mainly, they’re usually free and come as an additional component of your wedding photography package. If you haven’t yet [booked a photographer](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers) (totally normal at this stage, by the way!), you can either wait until you do or you can hire another local photographer for this shoot.\n\nCouples also often see an [engagement shoot](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-take-authentic-engagement-photos) as an opportunity to get comfortable in front of the camera together. Again, if you have a photographer booked, this is a great time to get to know more about his or her style. This way, you’ll hopefully feel more natural when your photo is being taken from all angles come wedding day. Use your engagement photos on your [save the dates](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/save-the-date/shop), wedding website, and/or wedding invitations.\n\n### 16. Think big picture\n\nNow that you’re no longer just engaged, your engagement celebrations have probably slowed. Now it feels like time to really start thinking about your big day. Don’t stress yourself out by immediately looking into every single detail, though. Start off by discussing big-picture ideas with your partner. Now is the time to figure out if you’re both on the same page with your dream wedding style and guest count.\n\nTalk about everything from wedding location and wedding size to a potential color palette and wedding date options. And, of course, always be open to your partner’s ideas. Stay organized off the bat by gathering inspiration in a place that’s easy to access and edit. Pinterest board, Google Doc, computer folder, binder—whatever works for you.\n\n### 17. Make time to soak it all in\n\nWe’re aware that we’re reiterating here, but it’s worth the reminder. Don’t get so immediately wrapped up in wedding planning that you forget to enjoy being just engaged. Skipping over this part can lead to considerable stress later on. Pop some bubbly, spend quality time with your fiancé(e), and bask in the excitement from all of those closest to you.\n\n## Engagement rings and wedding bands\n \n\nIf you were over the moon to put your new [ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/getting-engaged/rings) on… only to find it didn’t quite fit, you’ll want to get it sized ASAP. This won’t be the most exciting part of getting engaged, but it’s necessary if you want to avoid losing your special stone.\n\nSpeaking of losing your ring, enter ring insurance! When it comes to what to do after getting engaged, sorting out insurance definitely isn’t the most exciting task. While it's not super sexy, it's highly recommended. Most jewelry experts suggest taking out a policy with a jewelry insurance provider (and not extending your homeowner’s or renter’s insurance to cover it). Head to a jeweler or another certified professional and get an appraisal. Here’s more on [engagement ring insurance](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/reasons-to-insure-engagement-ring).\n\n## FAQs about getting engaged and post-proposal to dos\n \n\n### What does it mean to be engaged?\nJust engaged? That means you and your partner have decided to get married and are planning your future together. Being engaged is more than just wearing a ring. It's an exciting and romantic phase of your relationship. However, it also comes with some responsibilities and challenges as you grow together.\n\n### What to do after getting engaged?\nFirst of all, remember to celebrate! Next on the list comes telling your family and friends. Then, start thinking about wedding dates, share your good news on social media (optional), and arrange an engagement party and/or photo shoot. For now, don't worry about the guest list or wedding attire.\n\n### How do we announce our engagement?\nHow you announce your engagement is completely up to you and your partner. Most couples like to tell their immediate family and friends face to face before announcing their good news on social media. Others will share the news through phone calls, TikTok, or traditional paper announcements.\n\n### How to start planning a wedding?\nThe first thing you'll need for wedding planning is a [wedding checklist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist) and a budget. You may want to create a wedding Google Drive and email to keep everything organized. Or you can use free budgeting and checklist tools from wedding planning sites like Zola. 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