Wedding shower

Whether you throw a wedding shower, bridal shower or jack and jill party, our experts make sure you have everything you need to plan the perfect event. Find guides, practical advice, and inspiration for the different types of shower celebrations.

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What to Wear to a Bridal Shower as a Guest

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Find ideal attire for a bridal shower. Explore outfit ideas, styles, and tips to shine as you celebrate the bride-to-be's special day

Bridal Shower Thank You Messages with Examples and How To's

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We have all the Q&As on bridal shower thank you messages, complete with ideas and examples of what to write. Grab a pen—it’s time to spread the love!

Bridal Shower vs. Bachelorette Party

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Are the bridal shower and the bachelorette party the same? What happens at a bridal shower vs. a bachelorette party? Find out in our latest guide.

38 Bridal Shower Themes for Modern Couples

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From elegant tea parties to the casual bonfire, plan your perfect party with creative bridal shower themes for the modern couple.

7 Bridal Shower Traditions, Updated

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Bridal showers are great celebrations but they could use some updating. Bring your bridal shower traditions into modern times with our guide to updating the traditional bridal shower.

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38 Bridal Shower Themes for Modern Couples

From elegant tea parties to the casual bonfire, plan your perfect party with creative bridal shower themes for the modern couple.

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What to Write in a Bridal Shower Card

Find inspiration for bridal shower card messages with our tips, quotes, and examples. Craft heartfelt wishes that celebrate the bride-to-be in a special way.

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What is a Jack and Jill Wedding Shower? Pros & Cons

Jack and Jill wedding showers are gaining popularity over traditional bridal showers. Here's how to decide if it's right for you—plus ideas for coed wedding shower themes and games.

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Bridal Shower Thank You Messages with Examples and How To's

We have all the Q&As on bridal shower thank you messages, complete with ideas and examples of what to write. Grab a pen—it’s time to spread the love!

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60+ Bridal Shower Games to Celebrate the Couple

These bridal shower games are the perfect way to add some fun to your pre-wedding event. Find ideas, designs, and links to download 20+ different games.

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Bridal Shower Planning & Etiquette

Learn about bridal shower etiquette. Our guide offers insights and tips for hosting or attending a memorable celebration in honor of the bride.

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Bridal Shower vs. Bachelorette Party

Are the bridal shower and the bachelorette party the same? What happens at a bridal shower vs. a bachelorette party? Find out in our latest guide.

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How to Plan a Queer Wedding Shower

Trying to plan a queer wedding shower? We can help. Read on for all of our top tips and advice.

5 Virtual Backgrounds to Match Your Wedding Shower Theme

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5 Virtual Wedding Shower Backgrounds to Match Your Theme

Celebrating your virtual wedding shower and want your guest to feel involved? We've got 5 virtual backgrounds to match your wedding shower theme.

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DIY Bridal Shower Decoration Ideas

Shower your bride with love and appreciation without breaking the bank. Check out Zola's guide to DIY bridal shower decorations that your bride will love!

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40 Best Wedding Shower Favors Your Guests Will Actually Want to Use

Can’t decide on your wedding shower favors? Here’s 40 favor ideas your guests will actually use!

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When To Have a Wedding Shower — 11 Things To Consider

If you’re getting married, you might be asking: When should you have a wedding shower? Keep reading for tips on planning your wedding shower!

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Of course, you're welcome to extend a bridal shower invitation to anyone you'd like to celebrate your upcoming wedding.\n\nOne of the first steps of planning a bridal or couple's shower is choosing your party’s theme. There’s no end to theme opportunities, and you can plan any activity or decor you like. (Just keep in mind that this isn’t the __[bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-themes)__ and that your grandmother may be there, so keep things PG.)\n\nFrom tea time to beach bash, check out all 38 bridal shower theme ideas below.\n\n## Elegant Bridal Shower Themes\n \nAn elegant bridal shower is perfect for the classic couple who wants to celebrate with a beautiful and traditional party. The entertainment is food, conversation, and maybe some light party games, and the decor is chic and simple. If you’re interested in an elegant celebration, browse these bridal shower themes below:\n\n### 1. Garden Gala\nStart with a beautiful venue and host a garden party as everything’s beautiful and blooming. Light snacks, cocktails, and some fun games are all you need to make this party a hit. Nothing is simpler or more classy than a garden party.\n\n![Bridal Shower Themes](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7yiXszW9spLVh3NAgWaiDc/b49db3433730ecf4baa8e7e400bd1c65/1-bridal-shower-themes-sign-mockup.jpg) Photo via Zola\n\n[![Bridal Shower Themes](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5jrzVWHcWQyVfxHAfi6Y01/31913e407f44d97bd13e727f9150536a/bridal-shower-themes-download-wedding-signs.png)](//downloads.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/fwXHlwxQdHWAAXwgxeCh1/49397648ea58fc70d51d0aedf9c21e42/Zola-Wedding-Signs.pdf)\n\n### 2. Minimalist Mixer\nMinimalism is super trendy and a great way to gather reusable decorations. When it comes to bridal shower decorations, less is more! Choose small centerpieces like lanterns and succulents, and place signs with simple calligraphy on a plain or acrylic background. A beautiful venue will carry most of the weight for a minimalist party.\n\n![Minimal Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5q6xmBITOmc4DWRcXWhBOi/2e1aa9e4efc21fd3e3b238ba8c1fedcb/Minimal_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Captured By Maleah Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/captured-by-maleah-photography)\n\n### 3. Party in Paris\nAh, Paris—it’s everything classic romance and makes for a sophisticated party theme. French stripes, signs in French, and Eiffel Tower statuettes are easy, go-to decor. And, of course, what's a French shower without French food. Plenty of pastries, macarons, and a charcuterie board are delicious snacks that will elevate the party—and don’t forget __[wine to pair](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/cake-and-wine-pairings)__!\n\n![2-bridal-shower-themes-paris (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2e7KnLIYDt2NtZRgOmvqxn/0b729e16b72a89b46bfdd25132897078/2-bridal-shower-themes-paris__1_.jpg)\n\n### 4. Vintage Soiree\nThrow a party ‘70s style, or with whichever decade aesthetics you prefer. This is a perfect bridal shower theme for repurposing old furniture and decor. Collect vintage and intricate frames, as well as funky bottles and fabrics for tables and tapestries. Have your guests dress for the decade as inspiration to really throw it back.\n\n![3-bridal-shower-themes-vintage-soiree (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/017rex1qXGEnZzWT2m0s6g/77a8d8848078898fb540497f1420dc95/3-bridal-shower-themes-vintage-soiree__1_.jpg)\n\n### 5. Glitz and Glamor\nPlan a more sophisticated evening party with glittered cocktail attire and hors d’oeuvres. Host a wine tasting as entertainment and decorate with a simple floral arrangement, candles, anything that sparkles, and a few gold accents for a glam party with your friends.\n\n![Glitz and Glamour Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6RMLJtnEBIUaFwSBLnJcdY/1c715d96d5f333bf1d59a23cc52f1892/Glitz_and_Glamour_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Marigny Opera House](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/marigny-opera-house)\n\n[![bridal-shower-themes-download-elegant-moodboard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7BipeOW1c8F2p7ikTQ0sw4/542c210743e108da3a39d64fc17bdf73/bridal-shower-themes-download-elegant-moodboard.png)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2m4kDmJrQIGULTpnGbNR7W/424b9209b627676de73f6450b2a8ec30/bridal-shower-themes-elegant.png)\n\n## Adventurous Couple’s Shower Themes\n \nIf you’re looking for unique bridal shower themes, engaging games, and an energizing party atmosphere, then these adventurous themes are for you. These bridal shower themes are great for representing you as a couple and celebrating the things you love most:\n\n### 6. Boho Bash\nBohemian themes and decor are perfect for the casual couple. The best part of a boho bash is that there are plenty of opportunities to use thrifted and repurposed decor, so you can save some money and stay __[eco-friendly](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/eco-friendly-wedding)__. Grab some decorative frames for signs, boho pillows for seating, and plenty of wildflowers for a flower crown and the centerpieces.\n\n![Boho Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2ZIwL2JKvzbbJi4xn5WtlG/501c0a63621d87519543628fce7de13c/Boho_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Chellise Michael Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/chellise-michael-photography)\n\n### 7. Happily Ever After\nWhat’s better than a fairytale party for your happily ever after? Greenery, fairy lights, books, and some nods to your favorite fairytale stories will bring this theme to life. You can go with a bridal shower theme around the master of happily ever after—Disney. Choose your favorite Disney stories and characters and get creative—set each table with a different centerpiece theme, or dive in with a costume party and dress as your favorite Disney couple.\n\n![Fairytale Wedding Shower Theme](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4tQZwB8Typlp1NkHwPUjaw/9d4c131a3b31799944c5aac361212dfa/Fairytale_Wedding_Shower_Theme.jpg) Photo via [Woolverton Inn](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/woolverton-inn)\n\n### 8. Travel-Themed Bridal Shower\nCelebrate life’s big adventure with a trip around the world themed shower. Luggage, globes, and maps are all great decor pieces that are easy to find and use. Serve international favorites with their national flags, and include global monuments in your decor—like the Sphinx, Eiffel Tower, Leaning Tower of Pisa, or the Taj Mahal.\n\n![6-bridal-shower-themes-around-the-world](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2PesuuJAEbJprzovDEmOY8/0597ced533d88f51e533319c45cb7ef0/6-bridal-shower-themes-around-the-world.jpg)\nPhoto by [Kati Rosado](http://katirosado.com/contact)\n\n### 9. Mexican Food and Fun\nIf the bride is a Mexican cuisine enthusiast, then a Mexican-themed fiesta could be the perfect option for a bridal shower. Create a build-your-own taco bar and pair the food with refreshing margaritas (frozen or one the rocks—bride’s choice!).\n\n![Mexican Themed Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6vMw8hDdFoLPzxr6o5pvcC/c4f6438c362ff545850ac1e4c3d6b5f8/Mexican_Themed_Party.jpg) Photo by [JamsCreative Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/jamscreative-photography)\n\n### 10. Drama and Dancing\nDress up and get to dancing! Have everyone dress their best and decorate with rich jewel tones and dramatic lighting. The most important part is the perfect playlist everyone will enjoy, so take suggestions from your guests leading up to the party. Prepare fun cocktails and plenty of snacks, and you’re ready to go.\n\n![Wedding Dance Ladies](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2awo4Idmo8V3xaDcRB8QUZ/05b6bff2712a8a908e5a89d008aebba7/Wedding_Dance_Ladies.jpg) Photo by [Joyce Li Photo](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/joyce-li-photo)\n\n### 11. Under the Sea\nIf you’re all-in on the mermaid aesthetic, this may be the theme for you. Cool color palettes and some iridescent or silver metallics are your theme’s core. Gather seashells, glass pieces, and simple greenery arrangements for centerpieces. This is a great chance to repurpose wine bottles as candlestick holders with sand and shells inside—then let guests take home the marine-themed decor as bridal party favors.\n\n![Under the Sea Beach Wedding Table](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6a82w3p1nGjU31X39fG0rj/5919702498a7bfb3abe84682697cc462/Under_the_Sea_Beach_Wedding_Table.jpg) Photo by [Krystal Zaskey Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/krystal-zaskey-photography)\n\n[![bridal-shower-themes-download-adventurous-moodboard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/68kisdb07WwEjygaEdtOL7/a33e3c98803fa462b6e37b750912ae25/bridal-shower-themes-download-adventurous-moodboard.png)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4I0zC1PUoerR73vSCn0Bg9/9e2a658e9e93d9d12f6f663b592ded8e/bridal-shower-themes-adventurous.png)\n\n## Fun Bridal Shower Themes \n\n### 12. Karaoke Lounge\nTake a break from wedding planning and plan a karaoke party at home or out at a lounge — either way, you’re sure to have a good time. Prepare challenges with your favorite songs in a draw bag, or choose a genre to build your theme around. Push the theme further and ask your guests to come dressed as their favorite artists and perform to a music video.\n\n![Karaoke Wedding Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5mzdoPTEXSSIbCRjT5igqs/6a4ffce0be27b1fe09710c207336b5a3/Karaoke_Wedding_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Morgan Wiltse Photo Co.](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/morgan-wiltse-photo-co)\n\n### 13. Ice Cream Party\nWhen there's ice cream, there is always fun in store! Hire an ice cream truck to come to your event. You could also take it a step further and do a full ice cream sundae bar. Get several flavors of ice cream, and splurge on toppings—sprinkles, syrups, and more. Don't forget the cones or waffle bowls to enhance the event. \n\n![S-mores Ice Cream Sundae Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4LMR0QltpjA8Kufnc8LQoq/764f80376ff18627ade5b74557c29c11/S-mores_Ice_Cream_Sundae_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Pint's Peak Ice Cream](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-cakes-desserts/pints-peak-ice-cream)\n\n### 14. Game Night\nGame night is perfect for a night in with your friends, and everyone will warm up to each other quickly. Bring your favorite games and snacks, and get the party started. Decorate using Jenga pieces as a guest book for your friends and family to sign, and candy dice to top cupcakes. Or take it outside and play lawn games.\n\n![Lawn Games at a Wedding Reception](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6V3o1HPFvvSSpWqw7j6DCm/b2e768aa8635552305188dad3525b224/Lawn_Games_at_a_Wedding_Reception.jpg) Photo via [The Wedding Connection](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-planners/the-wedding-connection)\n\n### 15. Nautical\nIf you (and the engaged couple!) love being on the water, consider using a nautical bridal shower theme. Host your event by the sea, on the beach, or on a boat for added cohesion. However, it's also perfectly acceptable to have a blue and white palette and maritime touches for a land-centric party. \n\n![Nautical Bridal Shower Theme](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4txV3Tg5fsTby2WR8nAscV/d072de20b83f64d2279b823a9c3008d1/Nautical_Bridal_Shower_Theme.jpg) Photo by [Aprea Media](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/aprea-media)\n\n### 16. Candy Crush\nCelebrate your engagement to your crush with candy! Sweet, delicious, and super aesthetically pleasing, candy is an affordable and easy way to cover decor and favors for your guests. Arrange gumball bowls, giant lollipops, and macaron towers as centerpieces, and serve colorful and bubbly drinks for a great summer fun party theme. Not a fan of candy? Have homemade pastel color treats instead.\n\n![Dessert Bar for Reception](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2dr0ZZqsCNecbLJqzOnMAD/db2e187716f6c975778cd728a461e1e3/Dessert_Bar_for_Reception.jpg) Photo via [Twin Treats](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-cakes-desserts/twin-treats)\n\n## Laidback Wedding Shower Themes\n \nThese laidback shower themes are for the casual couple looking to host a great party all of their friends and family can enjoy. Find 10 bridal shower themes and trending party ideas that are all about you and your guests, instead of heavily themed decor and entertainment:\n\n### 17. Pajama Party\nFor the ultimate laid back event, invite guests to dress in their pjs. Host an evening event that goes late into the night, or have a morning brunch. The sky's the limit for this casual, fun event. It's also an ideal theme if you're hosting a lingerie shower where the bride can also give her attendants their wedding day robes at the event.\n\n![Pajama Party Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/741K8Hfz5Z5WG1HYRFf0t3/088b51dad241984586676b0dbedd46f0/Pajama_Party_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Hotel Arista](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/hotel-arista)\n\n### 18. Fruit Fest\nFruit themes are fresh and fun and bring a bright tropical vibe without the need for grass skirts. Vibrant fruit arrangements are great centerpieces by themselves, but some flowers and decorative trays wouldn’t hurt. Don’t forget the fruit cocktails, coconuts, and novelty straws — this party is all about the drinks.\n\n![Fruit Bachelorette Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/42VVD3mZn7IsrJRHDvBSzD/1580821430af54b2c765318327f477f8/Fruit_Bachelorette_Party.jpg) Photo via [Hill City Bride](https://hillcitybride.com/2017/05/citrus-bachelorette-party-styled-shoot/)\n\n### 19. Sock Hop\nGo back to the ‘50s with a fun sock hop themed party. Bring circle skirts and polka dots back for a night, and prepare a rocking playlist that will have everyone dancing. Retro signs and glass Coke bottles make for fun decor, and malt milkshakes are the perfect dessert.\n\n![Clinking Coke Bottles at Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/39rrbGkiQm1Jax3xKKx1Jk/7c0a6e95a3a28b1ce8af2d5c0f92d607/Clinking_Coke_Bottles_at_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Bradley Pisney](https://unsplash.com/@bradleypisney)\n\n### 20. Wine Tastings\nSchedule a wine tasting for your wedding shower. Not only is this perfect for a co-ed event, but you can organize it in various ways. Hire a limo and go from winery to winery doing several tastings. Or you can head to a winery with a vineyard on site and spend a few hours walking through the vines and sampling. Either way, a DD is vital, so put that on your list.\n\n![Wine Tasting Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3f7Oj2kxOS2427ekFg4wC6/0548ec4ed0dac20af00de180967041b9/Wine_Tasting_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Kym Ellis](https://unsplash.com/@kymellis)\n\n### 21. Brunch and Bubbly\nThe bridal brunch is simple and welcoming to all of your guests, and gives plenty of opportunity for the couple’s family and friends to get to know each other. The menu is full of brunch favorites, like waffles and scones—and, of course, you stock the bar with champagne, juice, and other __[mimosa bar](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-make-a-mimosa-bar)__ staples. Light floral arrangements and simple table settings are all you need to host a nice __[brunch](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/brunch-wedding)__.\n\n![10-bridal-shower-themes-brunch-and-bubbly (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6wOGbpj3KwpmsljYghFVJn/8a8bbc6418a7f8b15431fe9612a10abc/10-bridal-shower-themes-brunch-and-bubbly__1_.jpg) Photo via Zola\n\n[![bridal-shower-themes-download-laidback-moodboard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3oknARV7UK6Mj1pBdt7QkH/a6a0c07c809b7361b0e492c855d845a4/bridal-shower-themes-download-laidback-moodboard.png)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5BpHrs1JlVGebXUYNptl6L/6ec2848f7ceee432656915418153ed92/bridal-shower-themes-laidback.png)\n\n## Unique Bridal Shower Themes\n \nSome themes just don’t fit in a box. If you’re still looking for the perfect party idea, try one of these creative and trendy bridal shower theme ideas:\n\n### 22. Breakfast at Tiffany’s\nWhat’s more glamorous and classic than Breakfast at Tiffany’s? Decorate with Tiffany blue, or even get some Tiffany’s gift boxes and candles as centerpieces. Channel your inner Holly Golightly with a little black dress, and gift pearls and sunglasses as themed favors to your guests.\n\n![Brunch Wedding Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5oIrbZnmy0ssZz2ZWlxTnX/8df5feb85b1859e63da860bdb2a6f2be/Brunch_Wedding_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Rachel Park](https://unsplash.com/@therachelstory)\n\n### 23. Bold and Bright\nFill your party with bright colors and bold decor to bring a ton of energy and fun to your party. Choose a handful of your favorite colors, or cover everything in rainbows. Either way, you’re setting yourself up for plenty of photo-ops and unlimited possibilities.\n\n![Vibrant Wedding Shower Tablescape](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NM9triQ8FKUTjoUi3ARe5/742de0e3927783efe3644d5f74952a1e/Vibrant_Wedding_Shower_Tablescape.jpg) Photo by [Jason Rhee Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/jason-rhee-photography-llc)\n\n### 24. Classic Hollywood Chic\nYou can still have a glam party in the winter with a throwback to the silver screen. Decorate with jewel tones and gold accents, and centerpieces of pearls and ostrich feathers. Roll out the red carpet to a photobooth with props of faux-fur boas, beads, and other vintage accessories and a vintage-inspired [photo backdrop](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-backdrop).\n\n![Hollywood Glam Styled Event Wedding](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6ohR6cWSm8QqcVJqxI7O2N/a46b330a523c9468ff6d3c9c0dc90ae6/Hollywood_Glam_Styled_Event_Wedding.jpg) Photo via [Zola's Real Weddings](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding/old-hollywood-glamour-styled-shoot)\n\n### 25. Potter Party \nInvite all of your witch and wizard friends to celebrate with butterbeer and chocolate frogs. You can find recipes for all of your favorite magic treats and gift DIY wands and house badges to your friends. Marathon the movies, host a trivia game or play a quick Quidditch match. There’s plenty of Hogwarts fun for everyone.\n\n![Harry Potter Theme Wedding Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7wtJubue6dlPErnCtRbkKa/679d8a53027681bdaa73e47845972d18/Harry_Potter_Theme_Wedding_Shower.jpg) Photo via [The Winery at Bull Run](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/the-winery-at-bull-run)\n\n### 26. Blue and White\nIf you're in touch with decor trends, you've probably seen blue and white palettes everywhere. It's a classic! So, why not include it in a wedding shower? Scour thrift shops and antique stores for blue and white elements like dishes, vases, and more. Some can even be gifted to the bride-to-be. The added touch of decorative cookies brings an element of sophistication to the event. \n\n![Blue and White Cookies](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3nZ4X0Y2BUl58s1t31L3Q0/87d09e9d1913556ee425e70adaf022ff/Blue_and_White_Cookies.jpg) Photo via [The Everly](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/the-everly)\n\n### 27. Retro\nTo have a retro bridal shower, pick an era and go all out. You can mock the Roaring 20's or go with the hippie vibe of the 1970s. It's all up to you. Use Pinterest to search for inspiration for the various decades, and take cues from color palettes, fashions, and photo styling for your own era-inspired bridal shower.\n\n![Retro Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2c5FRZk3Xo8uO5AQoDzNAj/8aea45876f2bfdeaf156489c1e30ce19/Retro_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Love Wildly](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/love-wildly)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Fall \n\n### 28. Backyard Bonfire\nThe best way to relax with your favorite people is around a bonfire with s’mores, tunes, and drinks. Make sure you have plenty of seating and snacks, and this party is good to go. If you want to build decor, collect old tins and trays to display the snacks and place lanterns and string lights around the party to add to the vibe.\n\n![8-bridal-shower-themes-backyard-bonfire](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/Yqz2xEY7DjS08IqkMTkup/06e9651087dc4a332d3d4385fac7c037/8-bridal-shower-themes-backyard-bonfire.jpg)\nSource: [Allie Dearie Photography](http://alliedeariephotography.com/)\n\n### 29. Rustic and Cozy\nRustic-themed showers are having a moment. Whether you go with rustic farmhouse BBQ (think DIY mason jar flower arrangements, gingham linens and napkins, and homemade sweet tea), or a more comfy, cozy cabin vibe (think enjoying hot cocoa in pajamas in front of the fire while you play bridal shower games), this bridal shower theme is sure to appeal to brides that are more country than city.\n\n![9-bridal-shower-themes-comfy-cozy](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6a017sAwGsvQpaoT9kv7An/4c70551b6ad65362481722a035787f40/9-bridal-shower-themes-comfy-cozy.jpg) Photo by \n[Carina Skrobecki](https://www.carinaskrobecki.com/)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Winter \n\n### 30. Trim the Tree\nInvite your guests to help you trim your holiday tree with DIY ornaments. Collect some craft instructions for your guests and gather supplies to create keepsake ornaments for you and your partner. Cookies and eggnog are sure to get everyone in the festive spirit. (You could even have guests wrap bridal shower gifts in holiday paper!)\n\n![Christmas Bridal Shower Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2tgHfQcFvUlnrhmMJ8uczi/866564843aecf63d4ac3f622811d1cff/Christmas_Bridal_Shower_Ideas.jpg) Photo by [Limelight Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/limelight-photography)\n\n### 31. Winter Wonderland\nSnow and ice are nature’s glitter, so embrace the sparkle and celebrate a winter wonderland. Glitter centerpieces and warmth from candlelight are sure to set the mood. Pinecones and frosted evergreens are great for adding texture and colors, too.\n\n![Winter Wonderland Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/9H8GuAzenjgmLiwgNtFJd/dfc06f10a4e96593d52735a703656f7f/Winter_Wonderland_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [The Preserve at Chocorua](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/the-preserve-at-chocorua)\n\n### 32. Flannel and Frost\nDecorate your party with evergreens, flannel fabrics, and lanterns for a warm and inviting atmosphere for everyone. Cider drinks and spiced cookies are the perfect treats, and your guests will love playing group games and mingling.\n\n![Flannel Bridal Shower Theme](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/zBmzuRgSFTrWPJMFPgHhD/21372946bf45ebfa6086ae17634835e0/Flannel_Bridal_Shower_Theme.jpg) Photo on [Zola's Real Weddings](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding/plaid-accented-fall-styled-shoot)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Spring \n\n### 33. Lovely in Lemon\nFruit themes are hugely popular, and lemons may just top that list. They’re bright, refreshing, and so fun for a party. Decorate with yellow and white flowers with plenty of greenery, and of course lemons themselves. Host a lemonade and iced tea bar with a variety of flavors — lemon cupcakes and cookies are a must (and make for great take-home party favors!).\n\n![Lemon Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3txCeg3in7GnYkk0E6Os8t/a90377c1fc8cf146a6f1f1f833e675bc/Lemon_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Hill City Bride](https://hillcitybride.com/2020/01/bridal-shower-decorations/)\n\n### 34. Tea Party Time\nTea parties are a bridal shower classic and a great way to include everyone on your guest list. Rent or thrift adorable teaware, then gather some fresh flower bouquets for your tables, and voila—your decor is pretty much finished! Simple and sweet pastries and a collection of teas to sample is all the entertainment you need with good company at your wedding shower. (You could even send home personalized tea bags as bridal shower favors!)\n\n![Bridal Shower Tea Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6PkQtkyVcQC2ytoPGR6JmB/25f2d95f525d6969fb29cf23e2eeaad0/Bridal_Shower_Tea_Party.jpg) Photo by [Carolyn Christine](https://unsplash.com/@carolynchristine)\n\n### 35. Gives Me Butterflies\nThe bride-to-be is in love, so focus on the feeling. Throw a butterfly themed bridal shower at a butterly garden or botanical center. Release butterflies and have lovely, themed details, such as butterfly nets and vintage prints featuring the flying insects. It's perfect for spring! \n\n![Butterfly Themed Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5umS2PAkojSa4YYOcXvxAF/59e4e6cece3414eae51269e4281a20fd/Butterfly_Themed_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Peterson Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/petersen-photography-llc)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Summer \n\n### 36. Fair Food\nEveryone loves the fair, and even if you’re not into rides, how can you say no to fair food? The carnival aesthetic is a lot of fun to play with — saturated colors and novelty lights can take you a long way, and a Ferris wheel statue would be great. Of course, the centerpiece of this theme is the food! Rent decorative machines if you can, and serve caramel corn, corn dogs, and more. For an added splash, serve drinks topped with cotton candy.\n\n![Cotton Candy Cocktail](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/9LOxLRXh7LGoVzfOdIKVn/33423d89b2f7cee1c9a82c01b4babb58/Cotton_Candy_Cocktail.jpg) Photo by [Johann Trasch](https://unsplash.com/@cocktailbart)\n\n### 37. Beach Bash\nBeach themes are a bridal shower favorite. Subtle colors, seashells, and elegant candles can really elevate this theme if you’re looking for something more sophisticated or romantic. Of course, you can always plan a beach party with a pool, fun shades, and plenty of games.\n\n![7-bridal-shower-themes-beach-bash (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6bDCsVEIx3W5IVLzxiGJ5P/9172793b112dcf2b1526468f47c83b7e/7-bridal-shower-themes-beach-bash__1_.jpg)\nPhoto by [Amanda Hedgepeth](http://www.amandahedgepethphotography.com/)\n\n### 38. Tropical Luau\nA tropical bridal shower is the perfect way to bring fun, sun, and the tropics to your party. Plan a party by the pool with fruity drinks, beach decor, and fun inflatables that double as photo props. Pool parties are great for large guest lists and as a theme for a couple’s shower.\n\n![Bridal Shower Themes](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/29TdexcZKU8OFodcAPVQM4/b7a0a7fe5448fc084caa500fad553bc4/zola-1680x1060.jpg)\nPhoto by [Meagan Gibson](https://www.meagangibsonphotography.com/ \"Source: Meagan Gibson Photography\")\n\nWhether you’re hosting a throwback bash or a comfortable night in, your guests will be happy to receive their __[invites](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop)__, so choose the bridal shower theme that suits you best. Once you have your theme and decor ideas, the fun (and the countdown to the big day can really begin! So get to planning, add some fun __[printable games or activities](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/free-bridal-shower-printables)__, and enjoy your perfect party.","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-10-03T19:35:00.980Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding shower","slug":"wedding-shower"},"slug":"how-to-write-a-bridal-shower-card","title":"What to Write in a Bridal Shower Card ","excerpt":"Find inspiration for bridal shower card messages with our tips, quotes, and examples. Craft heartfelt wishes that celebrate the bride-to-be in a special way.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2024-07-29T13:13-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1i6aeplGYDEzk7RquRxZ4K/388498136d2828ba63f64e25efd60cc2/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"What to write in a bridal shower card"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"__Inside this article:__\n\n- [Basic steps to writing a bridal shower card](#steps)\n- [General wedding shower card example](#sample)\n- [Simple shower card messages](#simple)\n- [What to write for a sister](#sister)\n- [What to write for a daughter-in-law](#daughter-in-law)\n- [What to write for a daughter](#daughter)\n- [What to write for a friend](#friend)\n- [What to write for a coworker](#coworker)\n- [Humorous bridal card messages](#card)\n- [Bridal shower quotes](#shower)","body":"__TLDR:__\n\n- A standard [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-vs-bridal-shower) card begins with congratulations, followed by compliments, personal stories, or encouragement, and ends with words of inspiration.\n- Keep things light or go super-sentimental, but remember the best bridal shower cards are personalized and come from the heart.\n- Don’t be afraid to use templates or examples for inspiration when writing a card for a daughter-in-law, sister, coworker, or friend.\n\n## Let's get to writing that bridal shower card\nLucky you—you’ve been invited to a [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-themes)! As you prepare to attend this festive pre-wedding party, you should be thinking of ways to help “shower” the bride-to-be with love, support, and encouragement on her route towards married life. \n\nA shower is supposed to be a special moment of togetherness for the bride where, surrounded by her closest family and friends, she’s able to forget about the stress of wedding planning and revel in the excitement of what lies ahead. However, you may find yourself wondering what to write in a bridal shower card. Yikes!\n\nBy following Zola's simple outlines of what to write, you’ll be sure to craft the perfect message. You could simply say, \"happy bridal shower,\" but there are so many other options to write in a bridal card. We're sure you can't wait to celebrate!\n\nAs a bridal shower guest, you can help her achieve these warm-and-fuzzy feelings by writing a lovely bridal shower message in a card attached to your gift. Below, find details and examples to help you to craft the perfect sentiment.\n\n![woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3kANG3FP0QuuQxkSb1vXSo/04ac6084f0e2c735c5a63d07f2e11f22/woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card.jpg)\n\n## How to write bridal shower card: basic steps\n\nWhile you should feel empowered to write whatever feels natural to you in your card, here are a few elements of a standard [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-traditions-updated) message that should make it easy for you to fill up that white space. Remember, the most important thing is to craft a message that feels personal, genuine, and reflects both your and the bride’s personalities and relationship. Celebrate the couple's true love and let them know they deserve all the happiness life has in store.\n\n__1. Begin with congratulations:__ Open your bridal shower message with the most basic of social graces. Offer your congratulations on her upcoming marriage, on finding the love of her life, on making it this far through wedding planning… whatever you feel she’ll appreciate the most.\n\n__2. Make her feel great:__ Offer the bride-to-be a compliment that will guarantee she feels amazing. You could tell her how beautiful she’ll look on her wedding day, or boost her confidence about the stellar choices she’s already made with the wedding details.\n\n__3. Share something personal:__ Perhaps you have a great memory about the beautiful bride that reflects her character strengths, the depth of your friendship, or how special her relationship is to her future spouse. The best card messages are the ones that feel thoughtful and unique, so don’t be afraid to get personal and write something from the heart.
\n\n__4. Offer encouragement:__ Since she’s about to embark on a major life journey, be sure to include well-wishes for her and her partner for a lifetime of happiness. Let her know you want her to have a wonderful and successful marriage ahead.\n\n__5. End with words of inspiration:__ Wrap up your bridal shower message with an uplifting thought, a piece of advice, or a quotation that leaves a lasting impression on the power of love and the beautiful, magical journey she’s about to take. \n\n## Bridal shower message example\n\nStaring at a blank card with a pen in hand? Lose your fear and get started by following this example of a bridal shower card message:\n\n*Dear Lauren,*\n\n*Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! I know you are going to make an absolutely stunning bride, and I simply can’t wait to see all of the beautiful wedding details that I know you’ve worked so hard to plan.*\n\n*I am so amazed and touched by the relationship you have created with Peter, and I know that the love you share runs very deep. From how you always encourage and support each other’s career goals, to the way you rock out on the dance floor together, I know you two will continue to find joy and strength in your shared love for years to come.*\n\n*I wish you nothing but a lifetime of laughter, happiness, and dance parties. As Gene Kelly said, “You dance love, and you dance joy, and you dance dreams.” Cheers to you and all the dancing to come! From your walk down the aisle, to the lifetime ahead, I'm excited to be part of your special day as you begin it together.*\n\n*Love,\nKate*\n\n![Creative Wedding Shower Invite Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5uwrWi9RcicSafmivDnAF3/2615a012fe6e66bc16954189d51980a7/INLINE_CreativeWeddingShowerInviteIdeas___.jpg)\n\n## Simple bridal shower messages\n\nSometimes less is more. Here are some examples of quick, simple messages to communicate your happy wishes.\n\n- So thrilled for you!\n- Cheers to a lifetime of love & happiness! You deserve it.\n- Congratulations on a wonderful partnership and years of happiness to come!\n- Showering you with the happiest of wishes!\n- Here’s to your special day! Thank you for letting me be a part of this joyous occasion.\n- Best wishes to you in this new chapter of your life!\n\n## Sample bridal shower wishes\nWhether you’re trying to keep things light, go super-sentimental, or remind the bride about your special relationship, there are tons of different bridal shower wishes you can share in your shower card. Get inspired with these sample messages for all types of moods and recipients. \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a sister\n\nA sister offers support and friendship, serves as a partner in crime, loans her favorite sweater, and knows the bride better than anyone else. A bridal shower card message should reflect the depth and nature of a sister-sister relationship, whether lighthearted or sentimental. \n- *My dear sister, can you believe this day has finally come? You have always been the sweetest little sister to me, and I can’t wait to watch you walk down the aisle. All my love, always!* \n- *From the time we used to play wedding in the backyard, to your many bad dates and terrible boyfriends I witnessed over the years, I am so thrilled that you’ve found the one to make you happy forever! You deserve all the happiness and love in the world.* \n- *Congratulations on being the most beautiful bride, sister, and friend in the world! I love you forever and am here for you always. Thank you for letting me be by your side throughout this wedding journey.*\n- *While I love Derek almost as much as I love you, we both know that the sister bond runs deep! Remember I have your back no matter what—but I know you will rock this marriage thing. Thank you for always being such a great big sister and role model. I love you!* \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a daughter-in-law\n\nWelcome your future daughter-in-law to the family and express your joy in continuing to build a relationship with her over the years to come. Feel free to share memories or thoughts about your son that would touch the bride’s heart.\n- *We are so lucky that our son has chosen you to be his lifelong partner! We can’t wait to see where love will take you both.* \n- *Welcome to the family! You are an incredible woman on your own, and we know you’ll make an even more incredible addition to our tribe. Congratulations!* \n- *I knew it would take a very special woman to serve as a match for Ash...and once I met you, I knew you were the one! I am so thrilled to welcome you into our family and wish the very best in all things for you both.* \n- *You are a stunning woman inside and out, and you will make a beautiful bride. We can’t wait for the big day and for all the years of love and togetherness that will follow.* \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a daughter\n\nWhat is more special than sending off a daughter into marriage? Share your heartfelt happiness, your advice on marriage, your memories of her as a child, and/or your wishes and hopes for the couple for the future in your bridal shower card. \n- *You fill my heart with light, and I am so thrilled that you have found someone to spend your life with. Congratulations on taking this next huge step!* \n- *My daughter, you’re an endless source of joy and love to me and your father, and I know Paul feels the same. Although you belong to each other now, we will always be here for you no matter what!* \n- *Every parent wants their child to find lifelong happiness, health, safety, and fulfillment—I know your future holds all these things and more with Jordan by your side. I couldn’t be more thrilled for you both, and can’t wait to see your love grow over the years!*\n- *Marriage is both an incredible blessing, and a lot of hard work. Through good times and bad, remember to be on the same team, listen as much as you talk, and never go to bed angry! Keep your love front and center, and I know you will have an incredible future together.* \n\n![mother-and-bride](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5hdzaDOVLWAJ92N9SUb7PF/cd6c9beea448954533c4d5c7430e0bd5/freshen-up-items.jpg)\n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a friend\n\nIf you’re writing a bridal shower card to [a friend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engaged-same-time-as-best-friend), let your message be personal and either funny or sweet (or both) depending on the nature of your friendship. Regardless of the tone, share your excitement for her big day, offer help or support as needed, and express your gratitude for being included. \n- *Congratulations! I am so happy for you both, and I know you will have the most amazing life together. Thanks for letting me share in the excitement!* \n- *As Beyoncé would say, may you always feel this “crazy in love.” Congratulations on a wonderful partnership and years of happiness to come!* \n- *Thank you so much for letting me take part in your celebration and “shower” you with love! Please let me know if there’s anything I can help you with leading up to the wedding.* \n- *Dear friend, I’m so glad you’ve found the one that makes your heart sing. I can’t wait to celebrate you both in a few months! Cheers to the most beautiful, smart, and kindest of brides.*\n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a coworker\n\nYou don’t have to go into great or complicated detail when writing a wedding shower card message to a coworker: keep it short, sweet, and simple. Offer your congratulations and share your enthusiasm and thanks for being included. \n- *I am so excited for you and Alex, and can’t wait for the big day! Thanks for including me in such a special celebration.* \n- *I remember the morning after your first date with Tom...you were glowing (and gushing!). I knew right then that you’d found your perfect match. I am so happy for you, and wish you both all the love in the world!* \n- *It’s clear that you and Taylor have a love that runs deep, and will last for a lifetime. Congratulations on your upcoming wedding and thank you for letting me play a small role in it! I’m so thrilled for you both.*\n- *As you make the transition from my “work wife” to a real wife, I know you will handle it with your characteristic grace, charm, and dedication. Congrats on this happy day, and best wishes for what’s to come!* \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card to be funny\n\nThere’s no rule that says you have to be serious when writing a shower card message. In all likelihood the bride will be reading a lot of heavy-handed and sentimental messages, so have some [fun with your words](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-write-in-a-wedding-card) to her… just be sure to keep things appropriate and respectful, of course. \n- *Best wishes for a lifetime of love, trust, and shared dishwashing duties!* \n- *You know I’m here for you no matter what, dear friend—even if that means tying ribbon around hundreds of tiny bottles of bubbles until 3 a.m. so that you can cross “wedding favors” off your to-do list. Happy wedding!* \n- *Wow, you’re getting married! Congratulations! Now that your love life is figured out, I expect you’ll have more time to help me figure out mine...kidding! But also, help me. Love you both and can’t wait for the wedding!* \n- *Congratulations on finding the match to your candle, the aloe to your sunburn, the Tabasco to your tacos. You two are a one hot match! Here’s to keeping the fire burning for years to come.* \n\n## Wedding shower quotes\n\nIf you’re coming up short on poetic ways to share your bridal shower wishes, don’t sweat. Talented wordsmiths have been talking about love and marriage for centuries, so let the pros express your thoughts for you with one of these bridal shower quotes. \n\n- “A happy marriage is a long conversation which always seems too short.” — Andre Marois\n- “True love is singing karaoke Under Pressure and letting the other person sing the Freddie Mercury part.” — Mindy Kaling\n- “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” — Mignon McLaughlin\n- “Who, being loved, is poor?” — Oscar Wilde\n- “Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.” — Maya Angelou\n- “If I had a flower for every time thought of you… I could walk through my garden forever.” — Alfred Tennyson\n- “Love is a two-way street constantly under construction.” — Carroll Bryant\n- “Every heart sings a song, incomplete, until another heart whispers back. Those who wish to sing always find a song. At the touch of a lover, everyone becomes a poet.” — Plato\n- “Sexiness wears thin after a while, and beauty fades. But to be married to a man who makes you laugh every day, now that’s a real treat.” — JoAnne Woodward\n- “Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.” — Emily Brönte\n- “Love is sharing your popcorn.” — Charles Schultz\n- “Before you marry a person, you should first make them use a computer with slow Internet service to see who they really are.” — Will Ferrell\n- \"To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe.\" — Anatole France\n- “I love being married. It's so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.” — Rita Rudner\n- \"Love must be as much a light as it is a flame.\" — Henry David Thoreau\n\n![Bridal Shower Registry and a Wedding Registry](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1EAKrUV9HfOuHzMJqB3SZL/43ba9cdf14f656eeafa3cf6899bfd85a/Hero_Zola__1_.jpg)\n\n## Ready to head to the wedding shower?\nNow that you know what to write in a bridal shower card, you may have other burning questions. Whether you're wondering what to give as a [bridal shower gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-shower-gifts) (\nhint: check their [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry)!) or need to know [what to wear](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-bridal-shower) to the event for the bride-to-be, Zola has you covered. From being a great [mother of the bride](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/mother-of-the-bride-duties) to [attending a wedding solo](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-attend-a-wedding-alone), Zola is here with expert advice for every step of the journey.\n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"This bridal shower guide will introduce you to the basics of bridal showers: traditional bridal shower etiquette (and which of those “rules” you can break), whom to invite, what to do, and who pays for it all.","title":"A Guide to Bridal Showers","slug":"a-guide-to-bridal-showers","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5o4uxtDjG6d4qgVGaLVrBU/16da092c9b0b80d7acca15ab930a1aef/A-Guide-to-Bridal-Showers.jpg","altText":"a bridal shower card labeled \"soon to be mrs.\" on the grass next to a few pastel-colored bridal shower cookies"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"If you’re hosting a bridal shower and need a little guidance, here’s a step-by-step planning timeline to help you figure out what you need to do, and in what order, to pull off a great party.","title":"How To Plan A Bridal Shower To Remember","slug":"how-to-plan-a-bridal-shower","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5AVNykInJuWweK0Imia8gM/632b15feafece7db3ce9f85ad7d3d0bf/Hero_New_Zola.jpg","altText":"woman in yellow dress holding antique tea cup with macaroons inside"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Find ideal attire for a bridal shower. 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Here's how to decide if it's right for you—plus ideas for coed wedding shower themes and games.\n","author":" Jane Chertoff and Erin Celetti","publishedAt":"2024-03-17T14:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4BDPHaPAVnIZSjnFmRYgp8/10ff8d2d944f6c338d2239419c656fe7/Should-We-Have-a-Coed-Wedding-Shower.jpg","altText":"Graphic of two umbrellas where one is blue and the other green"},"heroCredit":"Zola","body":"If you and your soon-to-be spouse have a knack for doing things your own way, you might love the idea of a couple’s shower—otherwise known as a coed wedding shower or a Jack and Jill shower. \n\nJack and Jill showers are more laid-back and casual than traditional [bridal showers](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers). They can be a great way to celebrate with close friends, family members, and loved ones—regardless of whether they know you or your partner better.\n\nOf course, they aren’t for everyone. Here’s a look at the benefits, potential drawbacks, who to invite, and other details.\n\n## What is a Jack and Jill party? \n\nA Jack and Jill shower is a contemporary take on the traditional bridal shower that involves everyone in the gifts, games, and everything else. (Keep in mind that a Jack and Jill shower differs from a coed bridal shower, which is still focused solely on the bride but has a coed guest list.)\n\n## FAQ about coed wedding showers\n\n### Are both partners invited to a Jack and Jill party?\n\nWith a Jack and Jill shower, you and your partner get to celebrate and be celebrated at the same time. Your closest family and friends will surround you for some pre-wedding fun, and if you don’t like being the center of attention, your partner will be next to you for those (occasionally awkward) shower games. You’ll both share the gifts (and thank you note responsibilities!) and spend time with extended family and friends.\n\n### Are Jack and Jill showers more casual? \n\nWhile coed showers may have longer guest lists (which can also be a drawback—see below), they tend to feel more relaxed. Instead of a sit-down brunch, why not throw an afternoon BBQ in one of your family member’s backyards, complete with brats and brews? Or, if that isn’t your style, look for a restaurant or other space that can hold your nearest and dearest for the event.\n\n![INLINE LeviStolovePhotography 1080x720 Kate&Bryant](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7tV9h248TOWncVpPRuZLcs/fa7b7cdc2e49cd6a6dcda65927761ee0/INLINE_LeviStolovePhotography_1080x720_Kate_Bryant.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Levi Stolove Photography\n\n### What do coed wedding showers cost? \n\nOne challenge to a Jack and Jill shower is that the guest list will be longer, so it’ll cost more. If the host(s) are on a tight budget and your heart is set on an elaborate shower, the couple’s route may not be for you. Or, you may need to adjust your expectations (for example, by hosting the event in your backyard instead of renting a venue).\n\n### Do you still open gifts at a joint wedding shower? \n\nWith an extended guest list, you’ll likely receive more gifts at a Jack and Jill shower. You may not have time to [open each gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/do-i-have-to-buy-a-wedding-shower-gift-and-a-wedding-gift) one by one. That being said, you don't have to open all your gifts at your shower. Instead, you might consider putting up a sign on the gift table letting guests know how much you appreciate the gifts and that you’re so excited to open them—later, at home.\n\n### Who is invited to a Jack and Jill shower? \n\nRegarding who to invite, you can limit the list to include your best friends and closest relatives—plus, of course, both sides of the wedding party. If you’re up for a bigger shower, you can include the usual bridal shower list and give everyone a plus-one. You can also open up the event to more of your wedding guests. For the most casual backyard showers where guests can drop by as they please, you can also include kids!\n\n### Who throws a couple’s shower?\n\nJust like a bridal shower is thrown by one of the bride's close friends, family members, or bridesmaids, a coed wedding shower is hosted by someone (or multiple people) close to the couple. That can be the maid of honor and best man or the siblings of the soon-to-be-married couple.\n\n### When should you host your Jack and Jill party?\n\nWedding showers—including Jack and Jill showers—generally take place one to three months before the wedding day (although if a good portion of guests will need to travel to attend, you may want to have it earlier to avoid back-to-back travel for the shower and the wedding).\n\n### How long do coed wedding showers last?\n\nJack and Jill wedding showers typically last between two and four hours. If you're doing a more casual event (like a backyard BBQ), you can extend those hours to have more time to enjoy with your friends and family.\n\n### Do you bring your significant other to a Jack and Jill party?\n\nThis depends on how the invitation is worded. The general rule of thumb is whoever the envelope is addressed to gets to go. If it says “and guest” or addresses you and a partner or date by name, then yes you can bring them! If it’s addressed to you alone, you’re flying solo. \n\n## Tips for throwing a coed wedding shower\n\nHere are a few tips to ensure planning your Jack and Jill party is a breeze.\n\n### Choose a venue that represents both of you.\n\nOnce you’ve decided to have a couple’s shower, it’s time to choose the venue. The options are limitless but try to keep both of you in mind when you decide on the locale. (For the nature-loving couple, for example, grandmother’s tearoom may be out, but the park with the picnic tables may be in.)\n\nSome potential venues include the host’s backyard, a poolside party, a local restaurant the couple loves, a bar with a private party room, or a country club. If you're on a budget, you may want to look into community centers or local parks, too.\n\n### Serve food/drinks everyone will enjoy.\n\nBridal showers have traditionally been associated with dainty fare like tea sandwiches (we’re talking super traditional showers). With a Jack and Jill shower, anything goes, though. Depending on the time of day, you may want to have a brunch buffet with eggs, bacon, and mimosas, a more casual backyard \"I do BBQ\" with burgers, or an all-you-can-eat taco bar (complete with plenty of margaritas!).\n\nOr, if you wanted to do something more elegant, you could even have an evening cocktail party or an intimate dinner party.\n\n### Make the favors gender-neutral.\n\nYou’ll need to make the [party favors](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-shower-favors) universally appealing. Some ideas for a coed wedding shower include a [sweet treat](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-cakes-desserts) from the couple’s favorite bakery, a local delicacy that represents the couple’s hometown, personalized bottle openers, or monogrammed glasses or cups with a fun anecdote.\n\nIn the same spirit, you'll also want to let your guests know that if they're bringing shower gifts, they should be appropriate for a Jack and Jill wedding shower. (For example, while you might want your bridesmaids to give you lingerie for your bridal shower or bachelorette party, opening those kinds of gifts at a coed couples wedding shower could feel pretty uncomfortable—both for you and your guests.)\n\n![INLINE GabbyChapinPhotography 1080x720 Alicia&Mathew](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2CZ4JJdAMVwyd6mVxBEA95/ede493e8896b17caf19c1baf52512a9b/INLINE_GabbyChapinPhotography_1080x720_Alicia_Mathew.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Gabby Chapin Photography\n\n## Choose the right games for your coed wedding shower.\n\nThe right bridal shower games won't necessarily work for a coed wedding shower; if you want your wedding shower games to be a hit, you need to pick party games that work for all the coeds in attendance.\n\nNot to worry! There are plenty of game-centric couples shower ideas that will please the whole crowd, including:\n\n- __Outdoor games.__ Easy outdoor games like cornhole, bocce, or badminton are a perfect way to insert some Jack and Jill-friendly fun into your couple's shower. Weather permitting, set up a few games outside for guests to play at their leisure.\n- __Who knows the couple best?__ Another fun game to play at a couple’s wedding shower is \"Who knows the couple best?\" Put together a series of questions about you and your partner—like how you met, the details of your first date, and the story of your proposal. Whoever answers the most questions right knows the couple best—and wins the game!\n- __Karaoke.__ If you want to infuse some fun into your Jack and Jill wedding shower, why not have a good old-fashioned sing-along? Karaoke is a great way to let loose with your shower guests. You can turn it into a game by challenging guests to choose and sing a song they feel best captures the spirit of you, your partner, and your upcoming nuptials. Then, at the end of the sing-along, you can choose the song you felt was the best fit—and whoever sang that song is the winner!\n\n### Theme it.\n\nA coed shower is a great opportunity to introduce a fun theme for the event and/or for the gifts guests will bring. Here are some ideas for [shower themes](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-themes):\n\n- __Stock the bar:__ Guests bring a bottle of wine, alcohol, or another bar cart accessory so the couple will be stocked up for the future.\n- __Round the clock:__ Guests are assigned a time of day to theme their gift around. Some may get the morning hours and bring a breakfast-themed gift like a waffle iron. Others may get the evening hours and gift a meal kit delivery service gift card or new bedding accessories.\n- __Round the year:__ This is a variation on the round the clock theme. This time, guests are assigned a season or month and must give a gift accordingly.\n\nWhatever theme you choose, make sure to tie it into all the details of your Jack and Jill party—like themed couple's shower invitations and shower decorations. The bottom line? A Jack and Jill (or coed or couple’s— call it what you choose!) wedding shower is a fun way to get excited about your wedding together. It also serves as an opportunity to bring your friends and family together before the wedding.","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Discover the 60 best bachelorette party themes of 2024 with ideas for activities, drinks, and food. 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Grab a pen—it’s time to spread the love!","author":"Emily Forrest and Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2024-04-10T09:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5GlWzMJKN61eHNXPxPVuI0/777bc1e0c90ceed6c32544b05d5a8312/Bridal-Shower-Thank-You-Card-Etiquette.jpg","altText":"Zola wedding thank you card graphic"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"__Inside this article:__\n\n- Bridal shower thank you card etiquette\n- 3 Things to consider before writing bridal shower thank you cards\n- Bridal shower thank you template\n- Bridal shower thank you card wording examples\n- FAQs about bridal shower thank you messages\n- Trust Zola with your stationery needs","body":"At the [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers), your friends and family members “showered” you with love and generous presents. Now it’s time to let your loved ones know how much you loved celebrating with them—and how much you appreciate the beautiful gifts you received—with a heartwarming [thank you card](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop). The task is easier said than done, especially if you struggle translating gratitude into written bridal shower thank you messages.\n\nBut don’t let writing bridal shower thank you notes cause you undue stress: we have the answers to all your gratefulness-centric etiquette questions, complete with [wording ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-invitation-wording) for what to write on your [bridal shower card](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers). \nGrab a pen—and that stack of blank thank you cards—let’s get to writing.\n\nNeed help writing wedding thank you notes instead? See our guide on [how to word wedding thank you cards](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-write-wedding-thank-you-cards).\n\n## Bridal shower thank you card etiquette \n\nNavigating all the rules for writing a thank you note can be a bit overwhelming, especially when you’re in the throes of [planning your wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-wedding), too. But there’s no need to stress—we’ve broken down the most important things to know below.\n\n- Dos \n - Write the note by hand to express your thoughtfulness. \n - Use a blank [thank you card](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop). \n - Keep a record of who attended and gave a bridal shower gift. \n - Plan what you’re going to say before writing. \n\n- Don’ts\n - Write too much. \n - Be critical of the gift (or the lack of a gift). \n - Mention the specific amount given for monetary gifts. \n\n## 3 Things to consider before writing bridal shower thank you cards \n\nBefore you begin writing, there are a few key questions you should ask yourself that will make crafting your thank you note easier.\n\n### 1. What is your relationship to the guest?\n\nIf you’re close with the guest, such as a bridesmaid or your best friend, your message should be personal and heartfelt. However, if you don’t know the guest well or just met them for the first time, a short and sweet thank you note is fine.\n\n### 2. Do you send a bridal shower thank you for someone who didn’t attend?\n\nIf the guest was able to celebrate with you in person, make sure to mention this in your thank you note. If they could not attend, let them know how much you missed them, and acknowledge their gift, of course.\n\n### 3. Did the guest provide a gift? \n\nIf so, what was it? Bridal shower thank you notes are required for every guest that attended your bridal shower, whether they brought a present or not. However, if a guest did purchase a gift, it’s important to specifically mention it in your note (see more on this below). The same goes for guests who mailed a gift but were unable to attend the party.\n\n![Thank You Card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5j6S7jfWH2TYKe8CEEnABO/97c2cfac5062b573a3f13a09f3b050e6/Invites_Jan2019_14.jpg)\n\n## Bridal shower thank you template \n\nNext, let’s look at the basic anatomy of thank you notes for bridal showers. Sticking to these six simple steps will structure your bridal shower thank you message and help reduce time spent mulling over how you should express your gratitude. \n\n### 1. Address them using their name.\n\n- Audra\n- Mrs. Jones\n\n### 2. Thank them for their presence.\n\n- Thank you so much for celebrating with me at my bridal shower!\n- I’m so grateful that you could be there to join me on this special day.\n\n### 3. Thank them for the gift.\n\n- Thank you so much for the beautiful set of cheese knives.\n- We so appreciate our new set of wine glasses.\n\n### 4. Share what you love about their present.\n\n- They’ve been such a great addition to our weekly cheese and charcuterie date night.\n- We think about you every Saturday when we pour ourselves a glass of wine and work on planning our upcoming wedding.\n\n### 5. Show your appreciation for them as a person.\n\n- Your friendship means so much to us. Thanks again for your support as we journey into married life together.\n- It was so fun to see you at the shower. We can’t wait to continue the celebration with you at our wedding.\n\n### 6. Sign off.\n- With love, Finny & Spencer\n- Cheers, Lynne & Toby\n\n![Thank You Card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5j6S7jfWH2TYKe8CEEnABO/97c2cfac5062b573a3f13a09f3b050e6/Invites_Jan2019_14.jpg)\n\n## 8 Bridal shower thank you card wording examples \n\nTo get the ink flowing, check out these simple bridal shower thank you [wording examples](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-word-wedding-invitations) for how to word thank you notes for all kinds of situations.\n\n### 1. Thank you message for a registry gift\n\nDear Molly,\nThank you so much for coming to my bridal shower last Saturday! We’re so grateful for the beautiful tea towels you gave us. They already make a great addition to our kitchen.\nYour friendship means so much to us and we can’t wait to celebrate with you at the wedding in a few weeks.\nLove, Kieran & Tina\n\n### 2. Bridal shower thank you messages for cash gifts\n\nDear Aunt Diana,\nIt was a true delight to see you at the shower. Thank you so much for your generous gift. We’ve just booked a glass bottom boat ride during our upcoming honeymoon, thanks to you. We’ll tell you all about the experience when we see you this Thanksgiving!\nThanks again for the support you’ve shown us throughout our engagement. We look forward to hitting the dance floor with you on the big day.\nAll our love, Emma & Julian\n\n### 3. Thank you wording for a gift you exchanged, didn’t like, or was awkward\n\nDear Mila,\nHow wonderful to see you at the bridal shower! Thank you for the bagel toaster you gave us. It was very generous, and we appreciate you thinking of us.\nLooking forward to having you at the wedding next month. We know that many more great memories will be made with you there!\nLove, Tessa & Will\n\n### 4. Bridal shower thank you message for someone who didn’t give a gift\n\nDear Beatriz,\nThank you for celebrating with me at my shower! I hope that you had an amazing time. It was great to see you there and catch up.\nThank you again for being there to honor this special time with us. Can’t wait to see you at the wedding!\nLove always, Ronan & Adrienne\n\n### 5. Thank you wording for someone who didn’t attend but sent a gift.\n\nDear Goldie,\nThank you so much for the beautiful luggage. We’ve already used the carry-ons at our weekend getaway in New York last weekend, and we can’t wait to show off these stylish suitcases on our honeymoon to Italy this spring.\nWe missed you at the shower, but we are so excited to see you at the wedding. Thank you again for the thoughtful gift!\nLove, Rebecca & Hannah\n\n### 6. Bridal shower message for a close friend\n\nDear Susie,\nThank you for celebrating with me at the bridal shower. Toby and I appreciate the awesome French press and coffee beans you gave us. We can’t help but think of you every time we sip our morning brew.\nYou have no idea how much your love has meant to us over the years. It will make our day so special to have you in the crowd on the big day, and we’re excited to see you bust one of your famous moves on the dance floor!\nMuch love, Lynne & Toby\n\n### 7. Bridal shower thank you messages for formal acquaintances\n\nDear Mrs. Perdu,\nPlease accept our sincere thanks for the beautiful picture frames you gave us. They make a lovely addition to our mantle, and we are looking forward to using them to display our favorite memories in the years to come.\nIt meant so much to us that you could attend the shower. Your kindness is appreciated, and we look forward to seeing you at the wedding.\nSincerely, Finny & Spencer\n\n### 8. Thank you note for the bridal shower host\n\nDear Amar,\nWords can’t express how truly grateful we are for the shower you planned and hosted. From the balloon display to the delicious cake pops, every detail was perfect. None of it would have been possible without you. Thank you for always being such an amazing friend and for supporting us through every detail of planning our wedding. Having you in our lives has made this special time even more meaningful.\nWe can’t wait to have you join us as we exchange our vows and journey into married life. Thanks again for everything you do.\nWith love, Audra & Charles\n\n![woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3kANG3FP0QuuQxkSb1vXSo/04ac6084f0e2c735c5a63d07f2e11f22/woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card.jpg)\n\n## FAQs about bridal shower thank you messages \n\n### When do I send bridal shower thank you cards? \n\nBridal shower thank you messages should be sent to each individual who attended your bridal shower and/or purchased a gift no more than two weeks after the date of the party.\n\n__Pro Tip:__ Purchase thank you cards before the bridal shower—especially if you’re using a custom design—so you already have them on hand immediately following the celebration.\n\n### Who should sign bridal shower thank you cards?\n\nAlthough it may feel like the gift was given just to you, bridal shower thank you cards should be signed by you and your partner. 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Find ideas, designs, and links to download 20+ different games.","publishedAt":"2024-03-02T09:00-05:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7xgt4edAtkcz1USNg4x7Vk/c7e5db74925a8954bea78bfde3c53f60/Bridal_Shower_Game_by_Casey_Chae.jpg","altText":"Woman sitting with a game paper on her knee playing he said, she said writing with a blue sharpie"},"heroCredit":"Casey Chae","heroCreditUrl":"https://unsplash.com/photos/writing-woman-on-he-said-she-said-card-enzI8-sWOQY","tldr":"__Inside this Article__\n- Bridal Shower Games\n- More Free Bridal Shower Games\n- Free Bridal Shower Printables\n- Bridal Shower Games FAQs","body":"Bridal shower games are a classic party addition for a reason: they give your closest family and friends an opportunity to get together, learn about you and your relationship, and have plenty of fun at the same time. \n\nSince some of the attendees at these events are meeting for the first time, [bridal shower activities](https://zola.app.link/HNFU3jyN71) are the perfect way to break the ice and keep the conversation moving. Like any other party, you want your bridal shower to be well organized and entertaining so everyone in attendance has a good time. If you’re hosting, make sure to also check out our guide on [how to plan a bridal shower](https://zola.app.link/1tbNwzyN71). \n\n## Bridal shower games \n\nGames are great ice-breakers at [pre-wedding events](https://zola.app.link/8BM4wzyN71) like bridal showers. Whether guests are meeting for the first time or simply getting to know each other better, playing games helps bring everyone together to create lasting memories. Find something that fits you and your guests in this list of top bridal shower games. Find even more free bridal shower game printables at the end!\n\n### Bridal trivia\nSome games for bridal showers are more complex than others. This one keeps things simple, yet heartfelt. It’s time to find out who knows the bride best. Hand out this trivia card to bridal shower guests and challenge them to answer questions about the bride-to-be. Some of these questions also focus on the couple and wedding, letting attendees learn more about the celebrations leading up to the big day.\n\nAll you need is a color printer and some pens to pull off this trivia game! Make sure to have your bride answer these questions ahead of time to make scoring straightforward and easy.\n\n![who-knows-the-bride](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3B8UDS3dcyejcvwaVK5KF6/b9d3520607eeb86d6bcfee11af3c42e4/who-knows-the-bride.jpg)\n\n[![bridal-trivia-button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3CngtlPruJO1kzOBoHRKcZ/f46adbdae65e2a8645baedbd479dbe73/bridal-trivia-button.jpg)\n](https:////assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3X24BGMugQH8KZpuwJpgIu/c23f13bd380adbd328196e5ba93b37ac/bridal-shower-printables-knows-the-bride.pdf)\n\n### Ring hunt \nA ring hunt is a fun and interactive game that will send your guests on a scavenger hunt throughout the shower. The plastic [engagement rings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/getting-engaged/rings) keep it on theme and a prize for the winner will keep everyone hunting.\n\nAfter downloading this printable, all you’ll need is 24 plastic rings, some great hiding spots, and a prize for the winner. This is one of the best bridal shower game ideas to add some energetic fun.\n\n![ring-hunt-mockup](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4yxR5UBzhmoMpZa62KVzSR/d57a29477d9f4504ade4a484e33561f6/ring-hunt-mockup.jpg)\n\n[![ring-hunt-button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4wXzU0BysRN7Mv5Xz8tlHk/76f470ea717ae72760ec34a8d32d4a90/ring-hunt-button.jpg)](http:////assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7B0MVVlvlKUjFbxuJhIg03/f70f0c19f41ab15e20cb1b508dea743f/bridal-shower-printables-ring-hunt.pdf)\n\n### Bridal shower charades \nGet the bridal shower games questions going with a game of classic charades with a bridal twist. This game will break the ice and get guests laughing together as someone on their team acts out a wedding-themed clue.\n\nSplit your shower into two teams and have one player from each team draw a card. Give each team two minutes to guess the clue before the other group gets an opportunity for one guess. Then, it moves onto the next round. All you’ll need after printing these charades cards is a bowl to place the clues in and a timer.\n\n![bridal-shower-mockup](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/14KyP6T1dqbhXkINYoxBnM/22f6ea833ac32800022d9499177a6b5f/bridal-shower-mockup.jpg)\n\n[![bridal-charades-button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6zut9kRAK4qlStP6dplMz6/f36ed37bc077562abf2686619f92a083/bridal-charades-button.jpg)](https:////assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1Ffi0ZT4ucyt1fYTAY3fPB/7324ef6f97cc40908801293a305c2d57/Bridal-shower-charades.pdf)\n\n### Design the dress\nWhen it comes to funny bridal shower games, this one’s right at the top. Design a [wedding dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/fashion-beauty/wedding-dresses) using only toilet paper. Divide the guests into teams of two or three, and give each team a roll of toilet paper. The teams will have a limited time to create a wedding dress for one of their members using only TP, as well as any accessories like ribbons, flowers, or jewelry if you decide to provide them. The judge will award points to each team, and the team with the highest score wins a prize.\n\n### The forbidden word\nGive each guest a mini clothes pin at the beginning of the party, and tell them to clip it onto their clothes. They're not allowed to say any forbidden words, like wedding, bride, groom, marriage, etc. If someone hears another guest saying one of the forbidden words, they can snatch their pin and add it to their own collection. The guest with the most pins at the end of the game wins a prize.\n\n### Love lies\nAlso called “Two Truths and a Lie,” this hilarious game reveals each guests’ romantic secrets and lies. Ask each guest to tell two stories about their love lives, one true and one false. The stories can be funny, embarrassing, romantic, or outrageous. The other guests will have to guess which story is true and which is false. \n\nYou can use points to determine the winner. For each story, the guests will get one point for correct guesses and lose one point for incorrect guesses. The story teller will get ten points if nobody gets the right answer. The guest with the highest score at the end of the game wins.\n\n### Guess the memory \nLooking for easy-to-arrange games for a bridal shower? This one’s up there with the best. When prepping for the shower, include a little card in the invite and ask each guest to write down a memory with the bride. The bride will have to guess which memory belongs to which guest. You can also adapt this game for [different themes](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-themes), such as aprons, cupcakes, or anything else. The bride will have to guess who brought which item and why. \n\n### Honeymoon hijacks \nEach guest writes down an outlandish item on a card, which is put into a container and shuffled. Each guest gets a card that isn't theirs and has to explain how that item would be used on a [honeymoon](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/honeymoons/honeymoon-planning). The bride will have to rate each explanation on a scale of 1 to 10 based on how convincing, original, and amusing it is. \n\n### Where in the world? \nDig up a handful of pictures of the couple at different locations and hang them up around the room. You can number each picture and print out a sheet of paper. Guests can write down their guesses for the location of each photo, to be cross-checked by the bride, who has the master list of the correct answers. This is one of those bridal shower games ideas that might just have you planning a vacation swiftly after!\n\n### Who's more likely to?\nThis bridal shower game reveals whether opposites really attract or if the [soon-to-be-wed](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/relationship-advice/newlywed-couples) pair are a mirror image of each other. Write down a short list of scenarios, and add two columns with the pair's names. Feel free to make these as adventurous or as funny as you like. Each guest works their way through the list, guessing who the bride and groom voted for each time. The winner is the person who guesses the most correct answers.\n\n### The newlywed quiz\nHow well does the bride know their partner? Find out by quizzing her on personal questions that you’ve asked her partner beforehand. You’ll need to ask some questions about their [relationship](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-5-most-important-things-in-a-relationship), like “where was your first kiss?” or “what’s her go-to restaurant starter?” Record their answers on video, and save them for the shower. At the shower, ask the bride the same questions, and see if she can match her partner’s answers. Play the video clips after each question to reveal the truth.\n\n### Mad lib vows\nCreate your own hilarious version of [wedding vows](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-write-wedding-vows) by deleting some words from them, then filling in the blanks with random words. The host will print out traditional vows and leave spaces for nouns, verbs, and adjectives. Ask each guest for a word to fill in each blank. At the end of the party, the bride will read the vows aloud, made up of everyone's random word choices.\n\n### Famous spouses\nIf you're in step with celebrity trivia, you'll love this bridal shower game idea. The host writes down the names of some well-known celebrity spouses of people like Beyoncé, Michelle Obama, Sarah Jessica Parker, and Kate Middleton. She then gives each guest a card with a name to tape it to their forehead without looking at it. Guests take turns asking yes-or-no questions to the others, like “Is my spouse an actor?” or “Is my spouse alive?” The others will answer the questions and give hints until the guest guesses their [celebrity spouse](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/news-culture/news-culture).\n\n### Wedding advice cards \n\n[Wedding advice cards](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-do-you-write-in-a-marriage-advice-card) give guests the opportunity to pass along advice and best wishes to the bride and groom as they start the next chapter of their lives together. Older guests, in particular, may enjoy passing along wisdom to the future bride and groom given their wealth of knowledge and experience.\n\nThis activity is also easy to set up. Just print the advice cards, lay out some pens, and then collect and arrange the advice cards in a [photo album](https://www.zola.com/wedding-albums/shop) for the bride.\n\n![advice-and-wishes-mockup02](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/eYJU7l12dnwdjLxWPRhw2/fea2196133494ca9ee0b86ae5d0431d9/advice-and-wishes-mockup02.jpg)\n\n[![wedding-advice-cards-button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/PtEQaZnhvQcC8MUBCey9P/9be84ce2d7491fa3d7904803137ddb30/wedding-advice-cards-button.jpg)](https:////assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3C7vW7pUSmF3aYIBOO2ubo/8757bb9db9b52f156172ff439177ae20/bridal-shower-printables-advice-and-wishes.pdf)\n\n### Date night jar \n\nYou can help prevent the bride and groom from ever running out of [date night ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/12-fabulous-date-ideas-to-put-on-your-registry) with this DIY date night jar. This jar will come in handy when the couple needs [date night inspiration](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/30-romantic-affordable-date-night-ideas). It is also a sweet and simple way to remind them to always put their relationship first.\n\nEncourage guests to brainstorm at least one date night for the happy couple. You can provide examples to help guests think of ideas such as *watch the sunrise, have a picnic*, and *go to a concert*. Set up a jar next to the date night sign and cards for guests to place their date ideas in.\n\n![date-jar-mockup](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1ZdhknELMaawdELIDBNdJ6/f65cc3e3934d693a3589ad32c1cb2102/date-jar-mockup.jpg)\n\n[![date-night-idea-cards-button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4DGZMH06TtkruDBfUOlPPl/784795bd929e555c230285cd79c2fe8a/date-night-idea-cards-button.jpg)](https:////assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/YRXIucWYsyzCjvrwRzmBI/761c02bc94b4a411235f971dcb1a8eb9/bridal-shower-printables-date-night-cards.pdf)\n\n### Flower crown bar \nEntertain guests during a shower by setting up a dreamy flower crown bar. This fun activity lets guests accessorize their hairstyles with floral arrangements.\n\nFlower crown bars are perfect for people of all ages and any size group. This hands-on addition to your shower will have guests feeling stylish and ready to pose for pictures. Consider setting up a DIY photo booth nearby for a photoshoot opportunity.\n\nIn addition to fresh flowers, you’ll need greenery, wire, scissors, and floral tape. Check out this guide on [how to make a flower crown](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/decor-inspiration/flowers/how-to-make-a-flower-crown) for simple instructions! \n\n![flower-crown-mockup](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/42n2UULat6ZxrKkj4bvmx6/b5e50558466948323d2de08ff0eda21a/flower-crown-mockup.jpg)\n\n[![flower-crown-poster-button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2lKQK7O2naXwC7wC0lmthd/27e9d7863aaaa23c07a41c58311c2d98/flower-crown-poster-button.jpg)](https:////assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1LyemzodjVlLElFBdvxGp7/fcd24b661195108a191ee532abb2cb4e/bridal-shower-printables-flower-crown-bar.pdf)\n\n### Recipe cards\nRecipe cards are an easy and useful bridal shower activity that has the potential to become heirlooms for the bride and groom. You never know what delicious recipe will get put in the pile and possibly be passed down for generations to come.\n\nAfter downloading these recipe cards, all you need to do is set up a station with pens and a place to display the completed cards such as a [recipe box](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ironwoodgourmet_recipebox). That way, the bride can easily keep track of her new recipes.\n\nMake sure to let guests know on the invitation to come prepared with a recipe so they don’t have to think of one on the fly.\n\n![recipe-mockup](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4CeSafUUOI247iwDyAMVnL/9619dad6d5986724bf8d40e79aead0cd/recipe-mockup.jpg)\n\n[![recipe-idea-cards-button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1Bas66am4PRPPbQT46SbFy/0d0a0af8d7afe556ad11c35f10e7fdc4/recipe-idea-cards-button.jpg)](https:////assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/32UVjozTeRN3rvQ16Uteoy/f8c2384cc24216a5b925893332585262/bridal-shower-printables-recipe-cards.pdf)\n\n### Wine tasting scorecards\nToast to your future bride with a wine tasting themed bridal shower. See, swirl, sniff, repeat as you bond with other guests over a sophisticated bridal shower game. To really stay on theme, you can even add in a wine and food pairing station so guests can snack as they sip.\n\nGuests will sample five different wines and rate them in five categories: appearance, aroma, body, taste, and finish. The wine with the highest average among all the guests wins. Try a blind tasting and see if guests can guess which wine variety they're sampling, then reveal the winner and the wine varieties at the end!\n\nIn addition to wine scoring cards, you’ll need [wine glasses](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=wine%20glasses), and at least five bottles of different wine brands.\n\n## More free bridal shower printables \n\nLooking for a few more of the best unique bridal shower games to play? We’ve collected some of our other favorites below, from couples bridal shower games to easy bridal shower games (for a truly stress-free day!) and plenty more.\n\n- Let your guests learn more about the bride and groom with this Guess Who game from [Morning Motivated Mom](https://www.morningmotivatedmom.com/bridal-shower-game-printable-guess-who/).\n- Pop culture enthusiasts will love this famous couple memory game from [Studio DIY](https://studiodiy.com/2016/02/02/famous-besties-couples-matching-game-free-printable/).\n- Hum along to your favorite childhood songs with the Disney love song game printable from [Samantha Jean Photo](http://samanthajeanphoto.com/free-printable-bridal-shower-games/).\n- Help your guests mingle with an icebreaker game printable like [Freebie Finding Mom’s](https://www.freebiefindingmom.com/free-printable-bridal-shower-games/) Bridal Shower Discovery Game.\n- These 14 free and fun wedding Mad Libs printables from [PopSugar](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/Free-Printable-Wedding-Mad-Libs-35778533) will add an entertaining and creative twist to your bridal shower.\n- Staches and Tiaras by [Craftaholics Anonymous](https://www.craftaholicsanonymous.net/staches-and-tiaras-bridal-shower-game) is a fun game of his and hers.\n- These bright colored bridal bingo cards from I [Try DIY](https://itrydiy.me/2014/08/bridal-bingo-downloadable-cards/) are perfect for summertime.\n- This garden-inspired bridal bingo game from [Elegance and Enchantment](https://www.eleganceandenchantment.com/printable-bridal-shower-bingo-cards/) will help pass the time while the bride opens her gifts.\n- Movie buffs and Disney fanatics will love this animated movie quote game from [Clementine Creative](https://www.clementinecreative.co.za/free-printable-animated-movie-quote-game/). Perfect for a bridal shower with kids in attendance!\n- Play a classic game of \"He Says She Says\" with this downloadable template from [Aisle With Style](http://aislewithstyle.blogspot.com/2010/11/free-download-friday-diy-he-says-she.html).\n- Add a touch of pink to your bridal shower with these pink and white bridal shower games from [So in the Know](https://sointheknow.com/bridal-shower-games-free-printables-instructions/).\n- For a crowd with a sense of humor, try this funny bridal shower game from [Happy Home Fairy](https://happyhomefairy.com/funny-bridal-shower-game/).\n- Have guests giggling with this floral bridal Scattergories game from [The Flair Exchange](http://theflairexchange.com/free-bridal-shower-scategories-game/).\n- If you’re hosting a couples shower, try these co-ed bridal game printables from [The Tom Kat studio](https://thetomkatstudio.com/2014/01/couplesshowergames/).\n- These bride or groom game sheets will have shower guests competing to see who knows the couple best. Get a free download from [Kate Aspen](https://www.kateaspen.com/blog/2018/05/09/3-magical-bridal-shower-games-printables/).\n- These watercolor flower games from [Printable Market](https://www.printablemarket.com/shop/free-bridal-shower-watercolor-flower-games-printable-package-instant-download/) are perfect for springtime.\n- Test your bride on how well she knows the groom with this newlywed game from [The Game Gal](https://www.thegamegal.com/2019/01/31/the-newlywed-game-bridal-shower-version/).\n- These tropical bridal shower games from [I Should be Mopping the Floor](https://www.ishouldbemoppingthefloor.com/2019/04/free-printable-bridal-shower-games.html) include Put a Ring on It and He Said She Said.\n- This emoji game printable from [Play Party Plan](https://www.playpartyplan.com/free-printable-bridal-shower-emoji-game/) is perfect for millennial brides.\n- This wedding cake word game from [Word Game World](https://www.word-game-world.com/bridal-party-games.html) will challenge guests to spell as many words as they can using only the letters found in ‘wedding cake’.\n- Writers and literary buffs will love The Story of the Bride and Groom game from [Domestic Randomness](http://domesticrandomness.blogspot.com/2012/08/bridal-shower-games-free-printables.html).\n- This blast from the past bridal shower game from [This Grandma is Fun](https://www.thisgrandmaisfun.com/1950s-style-printable-funny-bridal-shower-game/) is perfect for older brides or brides who love the 1950s!\n\n## Free bridal shower printables \nStill haven’t found what you’re looking for? Here are 16 more free bridal shower printables to dress up your event!\n\n- Hang an Instagram sign next to your bridal shower photo booth so guests can keep track of the hashtag, like this free printable Instagram sign from [Pretty Little Palace](http://prettylittlepalace.blogspot.com/2014/03/free-printable-instagram-sign-for.html).\n- Add a touch of sweetness to classic bridal bingo with these donut-themed printables from [Aww Sam](http://www.awwsam.com/2015/06/mini-donut-game-night-printables.html#.VXebjc_BzGc). Just add mini donuts!\n- Hang these free printable jar labels from [Eighteen25](https://eighteen25.com/2012/01/free-download-made-with-love/) on your date night jar.\n- Create fun and flirty floral DIY hangings with this illustrated floral backdrop printable from [Ruffled Blog](https://ruffledblog.com/3d-illustrated-floral-backdrop-diy/).\n- Pair these free printable drink tags from [Mountain Modern Life](https://mountainmodernlife.com/diy-drink-tags-free-printable/) with your wine tasting station.\n- How about hosting a calligraphy workshop at your shower? This free printable worksheet from [The Postman's Knock](https://thepostmansknock.com/kaitlin-style-calligraphy-worksheet/) will show you how!\n- If your bridal shower is kid-friendly, entertain your young guests during gift opening with this wedding-themed coloring book activity from [Lovely Indeed](https://lovelyindeed.com/diy-activity-book-free-printable/).\n- If you’re hosting your bridal shower at a restaurant, these drink tickets from [Evermine](https://www.evermine.com/printables/drink-tickets-lucky-in-lace/) are a great way to keep the bar tab in the budget.\n- Use these 15 free party planning printables from [First Day of Home](https://firstdayofhome.com/free-party-planning-printables/) to keep track of all the supplies you need for your bridal shower games!\n- Is someone controlling the playlist at your shower? Let guests request a song with these printable song request cards from [Elizabeth Anne Designs](https://www.elizabethannedesigns.com/blog/2012/06/12/printable-song-request-cards/).\n- Save money on a flower bar by using paper flower printables like these fall succulent designs from [Lia Griffith](https://liagriffith.com/four-paper-succulent-tutorials/).\n- This difficult word scramble is full of misspelled Disney princes – perfect for the Disney obsessed bride. Get a free download from [Designs By Miss Mandee](https://www.designsbymissmandee.com/2017/04/disney-prince-word-scramble/).\n- Blow some bubbles at your bridal shower for a perfect photo opportunity. These bubble labels in yellow and pink from [Merriment Design](https://www.merrimentdesign.com/printable-free-bubble-labels-for-party-favors.php) will get you started!\n- Use these love-themed raffle tickets from [Miss Cutie Pie Goes 80s](http://misscutiepiegoes80s.blogspot.com/2012/02/free-printable-vintage-style-wedding.html) to give away prizes during the shower!\n- This wedding movie matchup game from [Fynes Designs](https://www.fynesdesigns.com/free-bridal-shower-game/) will have you reliving all your favorite wedding centric flicks.\n- Hosting a bridal shower around Easter? Set up an Easter egg painting station and use these printable easter egg holders from [Lia Griffith](https://liagriffith.com/printable-easter-critter-egg-holders/) so guests can keep track of their \"eggcellent\" creations.\n\nWe hope you’re well on your way to hosting a successful bridal shower with these game ideas and free printables.\n\nZola’s got all your party and wedding planning needs covered. [Sign up](http://zola.com) to get access to our suite of free wedding planning tools or visit our [invitations shop](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/bridal-shower/shop) to order your bridal shower invites!\n\n## Bridal shower games FAQs \nWe answer your most-asked questions about bridal shower games.\n\n### How many games should be played at a bridal shower?\nIt depends on the number of guests and how well they all know each other but, generally, you should aim to play one or two different bridal shower games that last between one or two hours in total. Some of the most popular games include Bridal Trivia, Where in The World, and Bride Shower Charades.\n\n### How to print bridal shower games?\nTo get the most out of your bridal shower printables, be sure to select the \"Fit to Page\" function when printing. For printables that need to be cut out, be sure to use the crop marks for a clean finish. You'll find plenty of cute and funny free printable bridal shower games here to get you started!\n\n### What is the \"Where Were They\" bridal shower game?\nOtherwise known as \"Where in The World\", the \"Where Were They\" bridal shower game involves displaying photos of the couple in different locations and having guests guess where they were. The bride confirms the correct guesses at the end. The guest with the most correct guesses wins the prize. ","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-03-06T19:26:22.742Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding shower","slug":"wedding-shower"},"slug":"who-typical-organizes-and-throws-a-bridal-shower","title":"Bridal Shower Planning & Etiquette ","excerpt":"Learn about bridal shower etiquette. Our guide offers insights and tips for hosting or attending a memorable celebration in honor of the bride.","author":"Anni Irish","publishedAt":"2021-01-27T17:30:13.814Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7swjwrKK1S99UGbQUh9i0G/aef3681e9a91e77440e2ac5f0f6433c9/Hero_New-02.jpg","altText":"Who organizes a Bridal Shower"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- Who Throws a Bridal Shower? \n- Responsibilities of a Bridal Shower Host \n- Is It Appropriate to Ask Someone to Host? \n- How To Ask Someone To Host Your Bridal Shower \n- How Much Does a Bridal Shower Cost? \n- Tips to Save Money in a Bridal Shower \n- Should the Couple Be Involved in the Planning? ","body":"Bridal showers (also known as wedding showers) are a longstanding wedding tradition that date all the way back to the 16th century. But the bridal parties of yesteryear hardly resemble today's celebrations! \n\nBridal showers have evolved tremendously over the years—and what was once a traditional, all-women's event meant to supply the bride with essentials she needed to help organize her new home has turned into a more inclusive party. Instead of limiting the event to just women, many brides are opting for celebrations with all their loved ones, regardless of gender identity; if they love the bride, they're welcome at the shower!\n\nThe bridal shower is generally one of the first pre-wedding parties thrown in a series (for example, the [bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-vs-bridal-shower), engagement party, and rehearsal dinner) leading up to the wedding day. And whether you're the guest of honor or you're the person tasked with planning the bridal shower, chances are, you have a lot of questions—especially around who is supposed to throw the shower and what, exactly, that person is supposed to do.\n\nLet's take a look at everything you need to know about who throws and organizes the bridal shower:\n\n## Who Throws a Bridal Shower? \n\nSo, the big question—who should throw the bridal shower? Close family members, immediate family, best friend, bridal party? \n\nGenerally, the wedding shower is hosted and organized by someone extremely close to the bride—like a best friend, immediate family member, or member of the bridal party. In some cases, the bridal shower may be hosted by more than one person (like a group of close family members, like the bride's sisters, or all the bridesmaids). \n\nGenerally speaking, the wedding shower is usually hosted and organized by the maid of honor, a close friend of the couple getting married, or the bridesmaids.\n\nWhen it comes to traditional wedding etiquette for throwing the shower, the mother of the bride or mother-in-law generally avoid throwing the party. That's because, traditionally, there was an idea that guests could perceive this as a way of directly asking for gifts for the couple. But nowadays, that rule has gone out the window. People do what works for them—and plenty of bride's mothers or future mother-in-law's organize and host the shower. It's all about who is willing and able to host the shower and what the couple wants. \n\n![Who Typical Organizes and Throws a Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1lAx0GDBFozxDBd35nNeRM/14b4075916578cd5e2a233d2e5253659/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\nThe maid of honor might seem like the ideal person to host the shower. And while there are certainly instances where the maid of honor is tasked with throwing the shower, they already have a lot on their plate, both from a wedding planning and financial perspective—and organizing and hosting can feel like a lot. If a couple is planning to ask their maid of honor to throw the bridal shower, that's something they should keep in mind when choosing who the maid of honor will be. That person needs to have the time, energy, skills, and resources to pull off not only the shower, but also all the other maid of honor duties—so choose accordingly!\n\nAs mentioned, some couples opt to have a group host their wedding shower. And one of the most popular groups for the task? The bridesmaids. When the bridesmaids work together to throw the bridal shower, all of the tasks and to-do's associated with throwing the event—making the guest list, designing shower invitations, choosing the food menu, scouting a location, etc—can be shared among a few people, making the entire process less overwhelming. If there are other family members—such as aunts, cousins, or sisters—who are willing to step up and want to host, that's also a possibility.\n\n## Responsibilities of a Bridal Shower Host \nWhether the bridesmaids, the mother of the bride, the maid of honor, or only loved one ends up hosting the bridal shower, it's important they know what, exactly, is expected of them.\n\nSome of the key responsibilities that go into bridal shower planning include:\n\n- Choosing the shower date, time, and location\n- Putting together the bridal shower guest list\n- Brainstorming bridal shower ideas and [bridal shower themes](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-themes) and deciding what type of wedding shower to throw (for example, will the event be a laid-back brunch at the bride's favorite breakfast spot, an elegant tea party at a local boutique hotel, or a casual backyard BBQ?)\n- Coordinating the details of the event, including food, drinks, shower decorations, [proper attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-bridal-shower), and activities (like bridal shower games)\n- Sending out shower invitations and tracking RSVPs\n- Making sure guests have access to wedding registry information for bridal shower gifts\n- Setting up the bridal shower on the day of the event (for example, putting out place cards, decorating the venue, and setting up a gift table)\n- Toasting the bride/Making a speech at the shower\n- Keeping track of the gifts and [bridal shower cards](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-write-a-bridal-shower-card)\n\n## Is It Appropriate to Ask Someone to Host? \nIf you're part of the happy couple getting married and no one has offered to host, try not to stress! First of all, a bridal shower is by no means obligatory—and just because no one has offered to host doesn't mean someone isn't planning a surprise shower behind the scenes.\n\nHowever, if you’re in a position where you don't think anyone is planning a shower—and you feel disappointed—then you have to decide if you’re comfortable asking someone to host one for you.\n\nIs it appropriate to ask someone to host? In most situations, yes—particularly if it's someone you have a close, open relationship with.\n\nHowever, how you ask someone to host your bridal shower is extremely important.\n\n## How To Ask Someone To Host Your Bridal Shower... \nIf you do decide to ask someone to host your bridal shower, the key is to do so in a way that doesn't put them on the spot or create any pressure. Let them know that they have every right to say no—and if they do say no, you won't be disappointed.\n\nIt's also important to keep in mind that asking someone to host is, essentially, asking them to invest their time, energy, and money into your shower—so make sure to suggest something low-key and affordable that won't put too much of a strain on them. For example, an afternoon tea-themed event with simple desserts the host can provide or perhaps even a dessert potluck of sorts—thrown at the host's home—could be a fun, low-pressure party.\n\nIf you're asking someone to host your bridal shower, you should also offer support if you can; for example, if you're asking them to throw the event at their home, you might offer to stay after the shower to help them clean up.\n\nNow, on the flip side of this scenario, you may have someone who has offered to host your bridal shower, but, for whatever reason, you don't want them to (for example, maybe one of your bridesmaids has offered to host—but you know they're not in the best financial place and don't want them to take on the cost of the event). Or maybe someone offers to organize and throw your bridal shower—but someone else has already started the planning process.\n\nIn that scenario, the key is to be as gracious as possible. Thank the person for offering to host—but let them know that, while you so appreciate their help and support, it's not necessary. If you feel comfortable sharing details as to why you don't want or need them to host—and those details won't hurt their feelings in any way—then you can. But it's also not necessary; a kind, gracious \"thanks, but no thanks\" will suffice.\n\n![Who Typical Organizes and Throws a Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7i9d2NtW9WThcaWnRIxEsB/5e4a406636976d3fd4ece19a91f7e47e/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## How Much Does a Bridal Shower Cost? \nWhen it comes to how much a bridal shower costs, there are no clear-cut answers. Having a casual event for 10 people in the host's backyard is going to be a lot more affordable than hosting a three-course meal at a high-end restaurant for 50 people. The budget will depend on what kind of event the host wants to throw and the number of guests in attendance. But the good news? You can throw a bridal shower on just about any budget—so whether you have a lot or a little to work with, you can throw an amazing event for the bride-to-be.\n\nThe next question: once the budget for the bridal shower is set, who covers the costs?\n\nWhen someone agrees to organize and host a bridal shower, generally, they're also agreeing to pay for it.\n\nNow, keep in mind that the person throwing the shower doesn't necessarily have to pay for the entirety of the event. In some instances, it's appropriate for the host to organize an event for the shower, but ask guests attending to pay for themselves. For example, someone may reserve slots at a spa and ask that those who are attending pay for their own services. Or if the event is being hosted at a restaurant, the bridal shower invitation may indicate that people will pay for their own meals and will celebrate with cake and Champagne after.\n\n## Tips to Save Money in a Bridal Shower \nHosting a wedding shower on a budget? Here are some must-know tips to help you save money in a bridal shower:\n\n- __Host at home.__ The venue is typically one of the largest expenses in throwing a bridal shower. So, if you're trying to save money, eliminate that cost—and host the shower at your home. \n- __Opt for affordable flowers.__ Floral arrangements can definitely make your bridal shower look and feel more elegant—but you don't need to spend an arm and a leg on flowers! Talk to a florist and let them know your budget; they should be able to help you find in-season blooms that will look gorgeous and won't sacrifice style or impact—but also won't break the bank.\n- __Let go of \"perfect\" expectations.__ Wanting to throw the perfect event for the bride can not only put undue pressure on you during the planning process, it can also lead to you splurging where it isn't necessary. As you're planning, know that no one is expecting you to put on a \"perfect\" event—and when you're making decisions about how much to spend (and how to spend it), don't let the pressure get to you. Instead, make rational, responsible decisions that are in line with your budget.\n\n## Should the Couple Be Involved in the Planning? \nOne thing that can determine if the couple will be involved in the planning of the event at all or not is if it is a surprise bridal shower. If you’re trying to organize the shower under the couple's radar (or if they're already totally overwhelmed with wedding planning), your best bet is to not involve them. Instead, try enlisting the help of a family member or a close friend. That way, you can be sure to work in specific details about food and beverage items they like and other thoughtful touches the couple enjoys.\n\nIf the couple being showered does know the event is happening, then the host should have a conversation with them about their preferred date and time, location, activities, and other details.\n\nWhoever hosts the shower, the most important thing is that it’s being organized in honor of the happy couple getting married. At the end of the day, the shower isn't about the gifts you will get or the kind of food or drinks you’ll have. While all those details are great, it’s about getting together with the people you care the most about to celebrate the next chapter of your life with your partner.","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":" A backyard bridal shower is a fun and affordable way to go about throwing what is the first in a series of pre-wedding festivities. 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Find out in our latest guide.","author":"Shira Telushkin","publishedAt":"2021-02-10T15:59:41.993Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/LIMh0JnOloe51GM6q34L0/3326f8e7211fde5ad12d79776a17b8f6/Hero_IndustrialWeddingAtStAugustineChurchAnd26Bridge_SarahZimmermanPhoto.jpg","altText":"Bachelorette Party vs Bridal Shower"},"heroCredit":"Sarah Zimmerman Photo","body":"![Bachelorette Party vs Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5FZjHYn3xodt1GyCdHwa4g/204ec420c4862dfa06d48bdfd6be164e/inline_shutterstock2.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Shutterstock\n\nThere are so many events that happen before the actual wedding day itself. The engagement party, the wedding shower, and the bachelorette party. But, when it comes to the wedding shower and the bachelorette party, it's not always clear how to differentiate between the two events. \n\n## Bridal Shower vs. Bachelorette Party: Are the Wedding Shower and the Bachelorette Party the Same?\n\nNope, bridal showers and bachelorette parties are not the same thing. Bridal showers are meant to prepare the bride-to-be for her future life as a married woman, whereas a bachelorette party is meant for the bride to de-stress, celebrate, and enjoy her present pre-married life.\n\nAdditionally, wedding showers are hosted parties, where the host pays for the event—including the food, catering, decorations, and anything else—and invites the guests, whereas bachelorette parties are often co-hosted by the friends of the bride. \n\nWith bridal showers, it’s very common and often expected, that guests will arrive with gifts. These gifts are typically related to the home or the life between the new couple. The wedding shower is traditionally hosted by a friend or family member close to the bride and is often an afternoon or late morning affair. \n\nThe bachelorette party is usually a weekend away or a night out that is planned by the bride’s close friends, and, typically, her maid of honor. Though a thoughtful gesture, [bachelorette party gifts](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/9-bachelorette-party-gifts-for-the-bride) are usually not the main focus of the night. The focus is on ensuring that the bride has fun and enjoys herself. You may ask, [who pays for the bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-pays-for-the-bachelorette-party)? As compared to the wedding shower, the costs are usually split between the event attendees.\n\n## Who Is Invited to the Wedding Shower, and Who Is Invited to the Bachelorette Party? \n\nThe wedding shower typically includes a wide assortment of guests who are connected to the bride. Traditionally, the wedding shower guest list only extends to women guests, although today wedding showers increasingly will include male friends of the bride. The guests often include the bride’s female cousins, aunts, and extended family members; female family friends of her parents; and female members of her religious community or another group in which she participates. All ages are included in the wedding shower guest list. Some brides may also invite co-workers if they’re close, but this is not expected in most situations. \n\nThe bachelorette party almost always includes the wedding party, and then the bride’s close friends. Traditionally, bachelorette parties only included women's friends, but today the bride might want to include friends of all genders. The bachelorette party might be organized by one of the bridesmaids or the maid of honor, but the costs are usually shared by all the guests attending. \n\nA wedding shower is an event that usually includes a wider range of guests than the bachelorette party. The guest list is ultimately up to the host, as she is the one planning the event and opening her home. However, the host will likely consult with the bride to ensure that there are no mix-ups or hurt feelings. Older and younger female relatives should be invited to the wedding shower, but in most cases would be out of place at the bachelorette party. Some social friends of the bride might have no interest in attending the wedding shower, but would be appropriate guests for the bachelorette party. \n\n## What Happens at a Wedding Shower vs. a Bachelorette Party?\n\n![Bachelorette Party vs Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1TdhwA5VmBESvBQ5m0ro5g/52f1a00b392a4d619745974fda7309d2/inline_shutterstock3.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Shutterstock\n\nThe wedding shower includes the opening of gifts, sometimes toasts by some of her female relatives (such as her mother, aunt, or sister), and certain games or activities related to her soon-to-be-married life. The tone of the event should be appropriate to the diverse range of guests, which might include older, conservative family members or co-workers. The wedding shower is about celebrating the bride’s new life as part of a couple and is often focused on her broader community. \n\nBachelorette parties include fun activities planned by the bride’s friends, games related to the bride and her soon-to-be life partner, and social bonding. The bachelorette party is not suited for friends or family that are not part of the bride’s social circle, and often include activities that incorporate [bachelorette party game questions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-game-questions-youll-love) that are a little more raunchy or intimate than what would happen at the wedding shower. The bachelorette party is really about fun and joy and focused entirely on the bride and her friends before she becomes a married woman. \n\nKnowing the difference between a wedding shower and a bachelorette party will help ensure that you plan the perfect event for each occasion. \n\n__The Best Winter Bachelorette Party Ideas__\n\n- COZY CABINS!!\n- snowman competitions\n- spa retreat -- no better time than when it is miserable out there\n- sledding!\n- smores and fire \n- ice skating \n- matching cozy flannel pajamas or gloves \n- cabin with a hot tub\n- winter festival \n- face masks, hair masks \n\n__8 Best Bachelorette Party Destinations: __\n\n- Vegas \n- Mexico City \n- Montreal \n- Cruise \n- New Orleans\n- Austin, TX\n- Charleston, SC\n- Miami\n- Nashville\n- Savannah, Georgia \n\n__Bachelorette Party Game Questions__\n\n“Who knows you best?”\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Discover unique bachelorette party gifts for the bride-to-be. 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Zola has you covered with an easy guide on who pays for the bachelorette party.","title":"Who Pays for the Bachelorette Party?","slug":"who-pays-for-the-bachelorette-party","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7kymfQsB1obkfDJRpMpa0L/0d56f318df5fc4cb58dec99ca03248a1/Hero_Zola__20_.jpg","altText":"Who Pays for the Bachelorette Party"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Headed off to a bachelorette party? Make sure that you’re dressed right with our easy guide on what to wear.","title":"What to Wear to a Bachelorette Party + 20 Outfit Ideas","slug":"what-to-wear-to-a-bachelorette-party","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"How To","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6wKA0OtqK2vpOznYnbN0Lf/0d658df4574d04c4fb097916030b3e85/Hero_Zola__19_.jpg","altText":"What to Wear to a Bachelorette Party"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"When planning a bachelorette, timing is essential. Read on to learn about when you should have a bachelorette party!.","title":"When Should You Have a Bachelorette Party?","slug":"when-should-you-have-a-bachelorette-party","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6Bam9xC60EjdGmXDTueWIr/3f4a1a83de97aee9d94f696de04d18a3/Hero_Zola__18_.jpg","altText":"When Should You Have a Bachelorette Party"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Planning a bachelorette party can be easy! With the help of our bachelorette party checklist, planning a bach weekend is a breeze. ","title":"Our Ultimate 2025 Bachelorette Party Checklist","slug":"bachelorette-party-checklist","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4Hz4P0xKJr9Xlm7WmFWLDU/ef7c3fb560b76973a28a5acf71247617/bachelorette-party-checklist-hero.jpeg","altText":"Four people enjoying champagne on a rooftop, likely attending a bachelorette party and having used a bachelorette party checklist to plan their trip."},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:57.217Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding shower","slug":"wedding-shower"},"slug":"how-to-plan-a-queer-wedding-shower","title":"How to Plan a Queer Wedding Shower","excerpt":" Trying to plan a queer wedding shower? We can help. Read on for all of our top tips and advice.","author":"Anni Irish","publishedAt":"2021-02-03T20:08:34.949Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/KhJIf08NcDJ8JlWUvNzFg/57602b4c5c1fc51687a8d659a695053f/Hero_SummerElopementatKingsCountyCourthouse_DAGIMAGES.jpg","altText":"How to Plan a Queer Wedding Shower"},"heroCredit":"DAG IMAGES","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- Throwing a queer wedding shower isn't that different from planning other wedding showers. What makes it different is being aware of—and sensitive to—couples who are getting married. \n- Be sure to keep the couple getting married in mind. Check with them about key details, such as the date, what kind of shower they want, as well as food and beverages selections. ","body":"When it comes to throwing a [wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-shower-guide) nowadays, there isn't a specific protocol people follow. At the end of the day, it’s about celebrating the engaged couple and the next step they are taking in life on their wedding date.\n\nWhen it comes to throwing a same sex wedding shower, there are some other things you want to keep in mind that may not come up when planning a heterosexual wedding or bridal shower. There aren't specific rules that need to be followed, but the most important thing to keep in mind what the engaged couple wants. It’s also important to make your guests feel comfortable. With that in mind, here are eight tips to [help you plan](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bridal-shower) a gay wedding shower. \n\n## Check-in With the Couple Regarding the Wedding Shower \n\nBefore you go all out planning a big event, it’s always a good idea to check in with the engaged couple to get an idea of what they would like. Have a conversation and see what, if any, kind of couple’s shower they would like to have. The party planning can include the couple or just one of them, but keep in mind what they want is what's key. \n\n## Decide Who Will Plan and Host It\nWhile the party planning details traditionally fall on the wedding party, in the case of an LGBT wedding, there may or may not be a designated wedding party. If there is, the terms bridesmaid, groomsmen, best man, etc. may not apply (as there may be two brides or two grooms), and there may be a different way the couple has chosen to organize it. If that’s the case, check-in and see if there is one. Then see if the individuals who will be at the wedding want to be involved in the wedding shower planning.\n\nIf there isn’t a wedding party, then the responsibility goes to whoever wants to take the planning on––usually friends, family, or a combination of the two. Planning the shower with multiple people also means you get more help and that you can even potentially go in on the overall costs of the party.\n\n## Pick a Date\nOnce the couple is on board, be sure to [pick a date](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/when-should-you-have-a-wedding-shower). Nail down a time that’s good for everyone involved and decide on the time of day. From there, other factors to keep track of are the time of year and the location. For example, if it’s in the fall and you’re planting outside, think about the details that will make people comfortable. You may want to consider a “Plan B” in case the weather doesn’t cooperate. Bottom line: It’s good to be prepared for all situations. \n\n![How to Plan a Queer Wedding Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1CTD6EE8I8E5dNR1NqgMSi/c77eac47ec38ad6eb05eb3c71dd9f4f0/inline_kathy_littwin_photography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Kathy Littwin Photography\n\n## Pick the Menu and Organize the Entertainment\nOnce you've got the data out of the way the next thing to tackle is the food menu and entertainment. You also want to think about what kind of party you’re hosting for the happy couple. Is it a brunch, an afternoon tea, a cocktail party, or a sit-down dinner? Or something more low key like a barbecue at a friend's house? Whatever way you decide to go, try to pick some of the couple’s favorite food items. Also, don't forget to think about the beverages and what's appropriate for the kind of party you're throwing.\n\nIt's also a good idea to think about some games or activities that you can do with guests. Think about fun games that highlight the couple and also help people get to know one another. Depending on your budget, you may even want to consider having some live music.\n\n## Don't Limit the Guest List\nWhen it comes to throwing an LGBTQ+ shower, inclusivity is key—and this means not limiting the guest list and only inviting friends, family, and acquaintances from one half of the couple and not the other. Make the party as inclusive as you can, and invite the people who are closest to the people getting married.\n\nOnce you've finalized the guest list, be sure to send out the shower invitations. Whether you choose to send them out in the regular mail or electronically, be sure to plan accordingly and give guests at least six weeks to respond—especially if you have people coming from out of state.\n\n## Be Respectful of People's Gender Pronouns and Circumstances\n\n![How to Plan a Queer Wedding Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/OAC3BModOhofFnUkwbniw/40ebca2c8275668aad27524c5ba06337/inline_airen_miller_photography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Airen Miller Photography\n\nIncreasingly, more people are asking what people's preferred gender pronouns are. This has become so commonplace that you may have even noticed this on people's email signatures. When you’re throwing a wedding shower for a gay couple (or any wedding shower, for that matter), this is something you want to keep in mind both when you are preparing the guest list and when you see them in person.\n\nRemember to ask what people's preferred pronouns are and not assume someone's identity based on their gender presentation. Be respectful of people's situations. If you don’t know, asking shows you are trying to be aware and sensitive.\n\n## Get the Couple to Complete Their Gift Registry\nAs the wedding shower draws near, you'll want to be sure the couple has created a wedding shower gift registry. Gifts are usually brought to the shower as a way to both celebrate the couple's new life together and to get them something they can use. However, they can also be something smaller and not from the registry. In any case, having a registry prepared will aid guests in coming up with gift ideas the wedding couple will appreciate.\n\n## Decide on Decorations\nJust like wedding planning, planning a wedding shower can involve as little or as much decoration as you or the couple desires. That being said, even a little decor can go a long way. We highly recommend adding a little something (or a lot) in order to create a unique wedding shower celebration. Personalized wedding shower decorations don’t need to be super extravagant, either. They can be printable, as well as purchased off of websites like Etsy. The following are a few of our favorite decor ideas to pull off.\n\n- __Personalized signage__. What better way to welcome the happy couple and their guests than with beautifully customized signage? If you’re particularly artistic or have a visual eye, you can DIY one yourself with some poster board and paint or even a chalkboard and chalk. Include a welcome message or celebratory message for the couple, including both of their names. Prop it up on top of a table, on an easel, or—if it’s big enough—lean it against a wall.\n\n- __Photo backdrop__. A themed backdrop for photos is tons of fun and fairly easy to put-together. Take the shower’s theme, colors, and/or formality into account when compiling backdrop materials. Some staples include streamers, balloons and balloon arches, banners, and hanging lights.\n\n- __Lighting__. Speaking of lights, some interesting lighting can take a wedding shower to a whole new level. Consider candles, fairy lights, Edison bulbs, neon lit signs, and similar that can spice up your space.\n\n- __Florals__. There’s no need to save florals for the wedding. Order or pick up a few bouquets of gorgeous blooms and put them in vases that can be placed around the shower. You can also continue the deor theme with garlands and drink garnishes.\n\n- __Food and drink displays__. No decor is quite as enticing as a food or drink display. Think donut walls and champagne displays that are eye-catching and easy to grab from.\n\n[Throwing a wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-bridal-shower-and-what-is-its-purpose) is all about having a good time and keeping the happy couple in mind, while also trying to get to know their friends and family better. Regardless of people's gender identities, everyone at the shower is there to celebrate the soon-to-be newlyweds. It’s all about them moving forward into a new life together and having a party that honors and celebrates that leading up to the wedding day.","tag":"How To","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Planning a bachelorette party can be easy! With the help of our bachelorette party checklist, planning a bach weekend is a breeze. 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Check out our list of favorites and find something for every budget and every couple.","title":"122 Top Wedding Registry Ideas + Advice for Curating Your Gift List","slug":"wedding-registry-ideas","topic":"Registry & gifts","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7nXVuNG7RZCFsYFy6pVLyY/ec4b4085d64679eea3b043fd2b2b7d58/Top_130_Wedding_Registry_Ideas.jpg","altText":"Composite image of green Le Creuset lidded pot to be added to registry along with other registry suggestions like gift cards, experiences, and cash funds"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:55.540Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding shower","slug":"wedding-shower"},"slug":"5-virtual-wedding-shower-backgrounds-to-match-your-theme","title":"5 Virtual Wedding Shower Backgrounds to Match Your Theme","excerpt":"Celebrating your virtual wedding shower and want your guest to feel involved? We've got 5 virtual backgrounds to match your wedding shower theme.","author":"Alexis Ferguson","publishedAt":"2021-05-07T20:48:09.560Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5zIh35LDZfFFhF8kDnsLAv/484b8afb6c911a83f5d06b9fd552a0fa/Untitled-2.png","altText":"5 Virtual Backgrounds to Match Your Wedding Shower Theme"},"heroCredit":"Zola","body":"One of the best parts about planning a wedding shower is picking the perfect [shower theme](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-themes). From picnic party to beach bash, there's so much fun to be had weaving your theme through all the elements of a wedding shower celebration.\n\nNow that online and hybrid wedding showers are becoming more and more popular, what better way to share that fun than creating matching virtual backgrounds for your guests? Luckily we've got you covered. \n\nHere are five virtual wedding shower backgrounds made to fit your wedding shower theme (and make for a beautiful virtual shower album).\n\n## Boho Bash\n![zoom-BG-boho](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/R8RnFSwpK8hFtfTmgLXSp/20c1407d57778cbd1612a176f698946a/zoom-BG-boho.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Zola\n\nA perfect backdrop for those free spirits who love a cozy and globally-inspired hangout.\n\n## Boozy Brunch\n![zoom-BG-boozy-brunch](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1aIcQVkfX3pmD7QLrbzGGk/f574932990b3f632fc3daa3299cf9b5b/zoom-BG-boozy-brunch.jpg)*Photo Credit* // Zola\n\nA brunch bash is never too early to those who want to be très très chic in pastel hues.\n\n## Garden Gala\n![zoom-BG-garden-gala](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/apcs3J3lHB0DNXeyirUCe/f6d701d7c38cdfcb18bd8725829ad92d/zoom-BG-garden-gala.jpg)*Photo Credit* // Zola\n\nA beautiful and blooming background for those who want to immerse in lush shades of blooming peonies and roses.\n\n## Tropical Luau\n![zoom-BG-tropical](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1n2EdxVVbxOgat72I1KY14/f525d3e6e54ab2920193503c8de8cb58/zoom-BG-tropical.jpg)*Photo Credit* // Zola\n\nBringing the tropics to those who want to bask in vibrant colors of monstera plants and bird of paradise flowers.\n\n## Trip to Europe\n![zoom-travel](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1ACwUfijPcWj7GbPVQdAD5/6161c8edde5489c0def78c0b71fcedc8/zoom-travel.jpg)*Photo Credit* // Zola\n\nSetting the scene for those who enjoy a glass of wine under the sun in a Tuscan hilltop town.\n","tag":"List","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Find out everything you need to know about virtual wedding etiquette with this complete guide. 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Keep reading for the best wedding shower gift etiquette!","title":"Wedding Shower Gift Etiquette","slug":"wedding-shower-gift-etiquette","topic":"Registry & gifts","tag":"How To","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4SyGly9sQm4gB1cEHaFEad/8a4f1cf98cb676e9b547801febc24766/Hero_Zola_2.jpg","altText":"Wedding Shower Gift"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:53.849Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding shower","slug":"wedding-shower"},"slug":"diy-bridal-shower-decoration-ideas","title":"DIY Bridal Shower Decoration Ideas","excerpt":"Shower your bride with love and appreciation without breaking the bank. Check out Zola's guide to DIY bridal shower decorations that your bride will love! ","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2020-10-20T19:07:21.614Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5uy74s73FiUOhA0Xmepzl8/70050359f7c26f34af203db2d999b41d/Hero_CasualVintage-BohoWeddingatReptacularRanch_KaitieBrainerdPhotography.jpg","altText":"DIY Bridal Shower Decorations"},"heroCredit":"David Lemp Photography","body":"Before the big day, it’s a wonderful experience for the bride to celebrate with her own group of friends and family. This is also an opportunity for some pre-wedding gift-giving to help brides prepare for the next stage of their lives. \n\nWhether you’re planning your own [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers), or you’re in charge of a friend’s, you want to create something special, memorable, and celebratory—without throwing an event that rivals the wedding in scope and budget. \n\nMany magazine photoshoots show bridal showers full of pink, white, and frills, but when you throw a DIY bridal shower, it’s easy to customize the palette and atmosphere to the bride’s unique personality. Consider this your guide.\n\n![DIY Bridal Shower Decoration Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/189AjtHKstXAUm7eZDF0U8/b63d25654dcdc6da219da22b62e8b5eb/inline_shutterstock.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Shutterstock\n\n## Choosing a Theme\nAs you begin to plan a bridal shower, make sure you start with a clear, focused theme. Once you have a theme, you can begin teasing it with the [bridal shower invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-invitation-wording). It can also help drive your choices for everything else on your to-do list, like decorating the venue and even creating gifts for guests.\n\nWhen zeroing in a on theme, consider the following:\n\n- __Plan around the bride’s hobby__: Is the bride a dedicated knitter or succulent enthusiast? Obsessed with astrology, or in love with the beach? Decorations can speak to that interest. After all, the bridal shower is all about the bride, so creating a theme that speaks to something she loves will make her feel loved.\n\n- __Tie it to the wedding destination__: If the couple is getting married in a unique locale, the shower could reflect the wedding’s location, whether it’s Tuscany, Thailand, or a local cidery. \n\n- __Make it seasonal__: Allow the date of the shower to determine the theme and palette. Think autumnal foliage in October or cozy tartans in winter.\n\n- __Play on a cultural tradition__: Whether it’s English high tea, a Japanese tea ceremony, or anything in between, theming the shower around a meal or event that already has its own [bridal shower traditions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-traditions-updated) and vibe can simplify planning.\n\n- __Take inspiration from film__: Does the bride have a favorite movie? Let its visual palette guide the planning.\n\n- __Choose a color scheme__: Not every bridal theme has to be elaborate. Does the bride love the color green? That alone could drive the decor.\n\n- __Recreate a memory:__ Use a bridal shower theme to transport the bride back to a cherished time in her life—that might be her semester abroad in Scotland, her years working as a Disneyland character actor, or even just one particularly awesome Halloween. \n\nOnce you have a theme, get ready to start crafting. \n\n## Banners and Backdrops\nLet’s admit it: The bridal shower is a great photo opportunity. That’s why so many Pinterest boards feature elaborate “Bride to Be” balloons and other dramatic backdrops. \n\nCreating a banner or photo backdrop can help you further specify your shower’s color palette, as well as provide a focal point for the room.\n\nBelow are a few easy ideas for creating an attractive [bridal shower backdrop](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-backdrop).\n\n### Balloon Banner\nThere’s perhaps no more iconic decoration than inflatable letter balloons spelling out “Bride to Be”—or perhaps a fun wedding hashtag. Pick up a set on your next trip to the craft store.\n\n### Balloon Arch\nWant to take your balloon game up a notch? Balloon garlands are widely available at craft stores, but you can also create a custom piece with the following materials:\n\n- Flowers and greens (plastic or natural)\n- Balloons in thematic colors and assorted sizes\n- A balloon pump\n- Balloon decorating strip\n- Glue dots\n\nYou can begin by arranging the decorating strip in the shape of your choice on the wall (use glue dots). Then, after blowing up the balloons, pull the ties through holes in the strip. Once you’ve arranged the balloons to your liking, you can add florals and greenery to fill out the display. For more ideas, see our guide to [wedding balloon decor ideas.](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-balloon-decor-ideas)\n\n### Flower Wall \nCreate an attractive, bright flower wall using flowers and greenery that fit with your theme and color palette.\n\n### All you need is:\n- A pegboard (any size)\n- Floral wire and wire cutters\n- Flowers and greenery of your choice (real or plastic)\n\nIf desired, spray paint the pegboard in the color of your choice. Then, you can begin [arranging your florals](https://lovelyindeed.com/diy-floral-photo-backdrop/). Fix them into the board with pieces of wire, pushing the wire through holes and twisting together in the back. \n\nIf you’ve chosen a large pegboard, you may want to glue foam to the back to give it greater stability.\n\n### Decorative Frame or Hula Hoop Wreath\nYou can also add flowers to a picture frame or [hula hoop](https://www.prettymyparty.com/hula-hoop-wreaths/) (or use several) to create a minimalist, yet striking backdrop.\n\nFirst, choose a hula hoop or frame. You can spray paint your material of choice to match your color scheme. If using several hoops or frames, attach them with floral wire. Then, use additional floral wire to attach small bouquets, individual stems, and greenery. You can also use fairy lights or any other light objects of choice.\n\n## Around the Room\nOnce you’ve assembled your backdrop, you’ll have a good sense of your base colors and materials. From there, you can create accents that use similar colors and flowers. You can even choose to echo the shape of your centerpiece. \n\nSome ideas include:\n\n- Adding more balloons at place settings or at the gift table to complement a balloon arch or banner\n\n- Creating tiny accent bouquets in jelly jars using leftover flowers from a wreath or flower wall\n\n- Adding more framed photos if you’ve begun with a floral frame, or adding spherical and circular objects to match the hula hoop\n\nIn addition, consider a few other ways to finish the effect.\n\n### Add Bouquets\nIf you’ve already begun a floral theme, continue it with bouquets around the room. Stumped for where to find vases? Try the following options:\n\n- __Tea tins__: If you're an enthusiastic vintage shopper, you’ll have no trouble finding decorative metal tea tins that could double as vases.\n\n- __Mason jars__: Minimalist, cost-effective, and oh-so-trendy, mason jars are handy vases. Choose several sizes, or use some of the iconic blue jars to create more visual interest.\n\n- __Wine bottles__: A lovely addition to a bridal shower and a great excuse to open up a few bottles with friends. Save up your wine bottles (or ask a few friends to help). Then, the options are endless. You can keep cute labels on, remove them all, or even spray paint the bottles gold (or another color). When all is said and done, place just a few stems in each.\n\n## Create a Flower Bar\nDon’t want to arrange loose flowers? Use a bar cart or table to create a flower “bar” with several varieties of flowers and greenery to choose from. Then, let guests assemble their own bouquets and use them to decorate the room.\n\n## Incorporate Live Plants\nInstead of using cut flowers, you could decorate with easy-to-care-for plants that can then double as guest gifts. Consider the following, which thrive in many homes:\n\n- Succulents and cacti\n- Hanging plants, including philodendron and purple queen vines\n- Chinese evergreens (aglaonema)\n- Easy-to-care for herbs, like rosemary and thyme\n\n### Construct a Champagne Tower\nIn three words, a Champagne tower is drinkable, sparkly, and stunning. Stack wide-rim champagne glasses (we recommend plastic) in a tower. Just be sure to place a tray underneath to avoid a mess when you start pouring. \n\n### Garlands\nFill in white space on the wall with garlands. Depending on your level of craftiness, this could be as simple as hanging fabric or as complex as making origami cranes. \n\nPotential garland materials include:\n\n- __Tulle__: Hang long, thin pieces of tulle, or cut tulle into squares and fold them over a piece of twine or yarn. Bunch the sides together, and use another piece of string to secure the tie.\n\n- __Paper__: Is origami your forte? This is your chance to shine. Similarly, folding decorative vintage wallpaper and simply gluing the sides together can also create an attractive garland.\n\n- __Greenery__: Clip leaves or even flowers to twine.\n\n- __Tinsel__: Buy pre-made tinsel garlands, and hang several together to create a dramatic, shimmery effect. \n\n- __Pom-poms__: Available in many sizes and colors, pom-poms are another great garland material.\n\n![DIY Bridal Shower Decoration Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/WsPZi2l8mchZaORFmyFzS/9131310399b2fd2ce285038779066283/inline_shutterstock_1_.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Shutterstock\n\n## Table Settings\nIf your wedding shower involves a meal, be sure the table is decorated to match the rest of the decor. Keep a few table decor elements in mind so that the table itself looks good enough to eat:\n\n### Runners and Tablecloths\nRather than buying a brand-new tablecloth or runner, think about what’s already in your fabric drawer. If you have leftover tulle from crafting a garland, that could serve as an interesting accent over a plain white tablecloth.\n\nDepending on the theme of your shower, a found material like a vintage quilt could work, too.\n\n### Placards\nPlacards assign seating and do double-duty as decoration. Create something that fits in with your theme. Ideas include:\n\n- Live plants with affixed name tags\n- Thematic objects with names painted on or added as tags\n- Attractive paper with calligraphed names\n\n### The Cake\nLooking for an attractive table centerpiece? If you’re a confident baker (or you’ve watched every episode of The Great British Bake-Off), a vivid homemade cake can be the perfect finishing touch. Decorate with edible flowers or a custom made cake topper to complete the effect.\n\n## Plan Your Shower with Zola\nAt [Zola](https://www.zola.com/), we know that there’s so much more to plan than just the wedding alone. From bridal showers, to rehearsal dinners, to your honeymoon, there are a million details to consider as each marriage begins.\n\nIt’s our goal to help couples plan every aspect of their weddings with more ease and less stress. With easy-to-use [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website) creation and [registry ](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry)tools, we have everything you need for planning.\n\nTired of crafting? While it’s admirable to DIY as much as you can, our [wedding boutique](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop) is here to help fill out your decor and take one more thing off your to-do list.","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:53.127Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding shower","slug":"wedding-shower"},"slug":"wedding-shower-favors","title":" 40 Best Wedding Shower Favors Your Guests Will Actually Want to Use","excerpt":"Can’t decide on your wedding shower favors? Here’s 40 favor ideas your guests will actually use! ","publishedAt":"2022-05-13T21:59:29.747Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7K5mCY2y5hJKkOULbKx4mH/bfefc38950e159141422d2e9b9ec3e2a/wedding-shower-favors.jpg","altText":"woman-putting-shower-favor-gifts-together"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/","heroCaption":"Wedding shower favor boxes","body":"It’s hard not to love wedding showers—a pre-wedding activity that calls for celebration, relaxation, and enjoyment in anticipation of the big day drawing near. While a key component of any wedding shower is [showering the happy couple with gifts](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-registry-ideas), it’s also an opportunity to give your guests a token of gratitude for joining in the festivities and celebrating with you before the wedding day. \n\nWhether you’re hosting a traditional wedding shower with family or a coed shower with your closest friends, shower favors don’t have to be complicated; something small and thoughtful can go a long way in showing your thanks. Read on to learn everything you should know about wedding shower favors and a roundup of our favorite favor ideas—all less than $25! \n\nFor more help planning the perfect shower, jump to our infographic below for a crash course on all things sparkling wine and what to know about choosing the perfect bubbly to serve at your soiree. \n\n## Do You Have to Give Wedding Shower Favors?\nGiving favors at your wedding shower isn’t a strict requirement, and it’s no sweat off your back if you choose not to, but it’s a nice gesture that many hosts choose to include. It’s an easy way to say thank you, and small gifts can also double as decor or party activities. Regardless of what you choose, your guests are sure to appreciate the thought (but we’re partial to favors that can be used and enjoyed post-party!). \n\nIf you’re wondering who’s responsible for wedding shower favors, it’s typically the host. Usually, the maid of honor and wedding party are the ones who coordinate the event, and they’ll often split the cost of the event. The parents of the soon-to-be newlyweds may also contribute to the expenses. Ultimately, there aren’t any hard rules as to who pays—except that it’s almost never the engaged couple! \n\n## How Much Should You Spend on Wedding Shower Favors? \nYou don’t need to think of shower favors as a full-blown gift for every guest—something small is all you need. What to spend on favors comes down to your budget, the number of guests, and your tastes and preferences. If you have a larger guest list, you might want to stick to the $1-$5 range per favor, whereas a smaller gathering might mean choosing to spend closer to $10-$25 per favor. Ultimately, it’s entirely up to you, but there’s no reason to spend more than $25 unless you want to. \n\n## 1. Wine Gummies \n![wine-gummies](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5i4fC26NIqRthxZLguZ8a3/df76d702b14964f86b15f9486d48207b/wine-gummies.jpg)\n\nFor fans of bite-sized treats, gummies inspired by your favorite varietals are a must. You can find them made with or without alcohol if you want something kid-friendly!\n\n## 2. \"Thank You\" Matchboxes\n![thank-you-matchbox](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7BCpWX7stnW4lzcElpVzeI/57eac94d9b61fbf13ef4c7a1a9d6043e/thank-you-matchbox.jpg)\n\nThese matchboxes make a sweet little favor, especially when paired with candles! \n\n[Buy on Zola](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/teaandbecky_thank_you_matchboxes_set6), $17.99\n## 3. Smudge Bundles\n![hand-assembled-smudge](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1U552IHpzeSi4KaaJ67Iih/9f16225f1a2317bf6f36cd27dbd1233f/hand-assembled-smudge.jpg)\n\nTraditionally used to remove stagnant and negative energy, this hand-assembled smudge bundle is created with ethically sourced elements and makes an inspired favor idea. Not to mention, it’s gorgeous! \n\n## 4. Essential Oil Shower Steamers\n![essential-oils-shower-steamers](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6cQ7QdzPkWJXDJN5xLdd5H/a5a036081b95d7ecbac312cd71a784f0/essential-oils-shower-steamers.jpg)\n\nGive your guests the gift of an at-home spa experience with these essential oil shower steamers. \n\n## 5. Temporary Wedding Tattoos\n![temporary-wedding-tattoos](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ksAIzD8WUMthHRBg9Iu8i/861412d8ff573dd94b244f0fce063044/temporary-wedding-tattoos.jpg)\n\nCelebrate in style with these glam rose gold temporary tattoos. Have friends and family choose their favorite and add a little fun to your shower! \n\n[Buy on Zola](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/gingerray_beautiful_botanics_temporary_wedding_tattoos_set12), $7.99\n## 6. Fig & Olive 2-Piece Gift Set\n![la-cadeaux-gift-set](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1cNP6sAQsyaokY28ckal6R/286dbed95ffadbfbe3e74461757a188e/la-cadeaux-gift-set.jpg)\n\nThis sweet set comes with a freshly milled soap bar on a charming melamine soap dish. Captivating fragrances of Mediterranean fig and soft olive blossom make washing your hands feel luxurious. \n\n[Buy on Zola](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lecadeaux_fig_olive_fresh_2pc_gift_set), $25\n## 7. Bath Soak\n![mer-sea-co-bath-soak](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6OlGRcJy7BcjLtMkk1yAx6/7334cfd1a209420b858a75f9ceef670e/mer-sea-co-bath-soak.jpg)\n\nHelp your guests unwind after the festivities with a bath soak in soothing aromas like sweet clementine, jasmine and orange blossom. \n\n## 8. Chalkboard Love Hand Sanitizers\n![chalkboard-love-hand-sanitizers](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2JwBYyJijpA4DOXao5z38q/15ed265857cd98483a34c170f365510c/chalkboard-love-hand-sanitizers.jpg)\n\nPretty meets practical with these adorable hand sanitizers. \n\n[Buy on Zola](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/zolabridal_chalkboard_love_hand_sanitizers_pack_of_10), $23.99\n## 9. Trinket Boxes\n![fringe-studio-trinket-box](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3RGfgFVlHfT4GaY7NXGcAH/aef9dc6015b4aa2539d8e43077ac514b/fringe-studio-trinket-box.jpg)\n\nYour guests will think of you every time they use this cute trinket box adorned with delicate gold foil constellations. \n\n## 10. Herb Jar Growing Kits\n![herb-jar-growing-kits](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/HLIa7I3CAFJVNJCcC0Pod/0a0af891f203bfc28bf2f8e71eb50022/herb-jar-growing-kits.jpg)\nWow your guests with self-watering herb jar growing kits! We love the style of this vintage-inspired mason jar design, which can also double as an eye-catching detail in your shower decor. \n\n## 11. Glam Mint To Be Slim Mints Tin\n![glam-mint-to-be-tin](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5LUKWLREi9aYjO3Mg63lte/6d375cadf558ef84f7c11745e603315f/glam-mint-to-be-tin.jpg)\nIt’s hard to go wrong with a practical favor, like this endearing “mint to be” slider tin filled with sugar-free peppermints. \n\n[Buy on Zola](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/zolabridal_glam_mint_to_be_slim_mints_tin), $3.99\n## 12. Teami Blends Green Tea Face Scrub\n![teami-blends-face-scrub](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4pDCBP87DjbSZlH7ksydDv/291e310c59f71050a50c407ed22161ee/teami-blends-face-scrub.jpg)\n\nTreat your guests to an invigorating facial scrub they can add to their self-care routine. We love this one for its all-natural, organic ingredients of matcha green tea, lemongrass, and sugar. \n\n[Buy on Zola](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/teamiblends_green_tea_face_scrub), $24.99\n## 13. Lip Balm\n![poppy-pout-lip-balm](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7qg9IfoXcRtmWNij09W0aI/50e67f503567f6749986d0a22765b8fd/poppy-pout-lip-balm.jpg)\n\nYou simply can’t go wrong with lip balm—we love ourselves a hand-poured balm for a perfect pout! \n\n## 14. Blooming Lollipops\n![blooming-lollipops](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1ycCI6xs5BFh2O5mF5SxYP/2e38f81f7c1d20f7d122647f90d94897/blooming-lollipops.jpg)\n\nGarden-inspired lollipops aren’t just a delectable treat—the sticks are embedded with seeds that you can plant to watch your herb or flower bloom! \n\n## 15. Ceramic Candles\n![groovy-flower-power-candle](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/SyWALtZyUBrF2NYXzNIQc/cd84b97be56ee4d405f16ee715a7fc01/groovy-flower-power-candle.jpg)\nYour guests are sure to adore a candle blooming from a darling ceramic holder with sweet cozy scents of cardamom and sparkling citrus. \n\n## 16. Strawberry Gelato Chocolate Bites\n![strawberry-gelato-chocolate-bites](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3vNO05RVNS1QlwibH3hNkI/cd32cf4e66be2ca75167055ee864092f/strawberry-gelato-chocolate-bites.jpg)\n\nIt’s hard to go wrong with a [tasty treat as a favor](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/edible-wedding-favors), like chocolate bites dipped in a cool strawberry shell! Bonus points if you find some with cute packaging for an adorable favor display moment! \n\n## 17. Cocktail Grow Kit\n![cocktail-grow-kit](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/63Fl4q6gACLJoo8lMPDHQN/a376deac8ef2901e30f5625ec76be323/cocktail-grow-kit.jpg)\n\nYour guests can enjoy an aromatic happy hour with this nifty grow kit, which comes with thyme, lavender, Thai basil, mint, lemon balm, and blue borage seed packets. Use the starter soil to plant your favorites, and enjoy a unique cocktail experience once they’ve grown! \n\n## 18. Rose Lip Polish\n![french-girl-lip-polish](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2msKUcalLcaMCHudYnbgi9/29bac9838efa754aa69fd4aa71b62c41/french-girl-lip-polish.jpg)\n\nPamper your guests with a gentle lip treatment made with soothing shea butter and plant oils. Bonus points if you find one that’s free of sulfates, parabens, and fragrance oils! \n\n## 19. Shiraleah Marta Zip Pouch\n![shiraleah-marta-zip-pouch](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/55ciho2svxipXs77bN8qhW/661714e50f4bbff1217d4ae481071a54/shiraleah-marta-zip-pouch.jpg)\n\nGift your guests something they’ll get plenty of use out of—this shimmering gold pouch will make organization a breeze for vacations and events (like your wedding!). \n\n[Buy on Zola](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/shiraleah_marta_zip_pouch), $10.99\n## 20. Loose Leaf Teas\n![vahdam-teas-set](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3KSTT5UISXMg3vKPFSORFL/40b46d46f366626ffc3ed5f9b4e177bb/vahdam-teas-set.jpg)\n\nA gorgeous set of three loose leaf teas is perfect for any garden-inspired wedding shower, and your guests will love the flavors of and unique blends. \n\n## 21. Fragrance Rollerballs\n![lavanila-rollerball](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5WPM15znMSGnEzHeOG6uhw/233573bde8850b1643cc91935d900b7d/lavanila-rollerball.jpg)\n\nSweet scent combinations make perfume rollerballs irresistible, and they’re perfect for on-the-go! \n\n## 22. Lilly Pulitzer Drink Koozie\n![lilly-pulitzer-koozie](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/10mDuH9NNQjT1bIy8fGDqn/ce3199e6e26d1cbabbb9f8c9866bac4e/lilly-pulitzer-koozie.jpg)\n\nHelp guests keep their favorite beverages cool with this neoprene koozie, featuring lovely gold accents and eye-catching patterns. \n\n[Buy on Zola](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lillypulitzer_drink_hugger_shellofaparty), $9.99\n## 23. Sophistiplate Cupcake Cups\n![sophistiplate-cupcake-cups](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2CqzcXMgRH2ffxTIvoPxu1/726fd5a4389814d602a668713599fe47/sophistiplate-cupcake-cups.jpg)\n\nIf you’re going the edible route, present your cupcake favors in these sweet gold dot cupcake cups. Guests can munch theirs at the party or choose to save it for a late-night snack!\n\n[Buy on Zola](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/sophistiplate_gold_dot_small_cupcake_cup_set50), $11.99\n## 24. Heart-shaped Sunglasses\n![heart-shaped-sunglasses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/lnEXbbJ8y5hoRvR53YW4W/1c268b2de4a51303077de2f74c37c770/heart-shaped-sunglasses.jpg)\n\nRetro-inspired heart-shaped sunglasses make for a fun party favor that can double as a cute prop for photos! \n\n## 25. Floral Hand Cream\n![mistral-hand-cream](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6Uulhxyng35TIwnnj5zfmV/1be27d09f0dc091de8e880b394d7c1cb/mistral-hand-cream.jpg)\n\nYour guests will appreciate receiving a gift they can use on the regular, like a pampering hand cream. Choose from scents like gardenia and jasmine, exotic lychee rose, or a sparkling mix of pink grapefruit and peony to go along with your garden-themed shower!\n\n## 26. Scented Botanical Sachets\n![scented-botanical-sachet](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6OZYE0cya14NRYtnIdSEJ2/d50dc775f9bd41781c33879c99245a5a/scented-botanical-sachet.jpg)\n\nBotanical wax sachets offer a unique alternative to burning a candle, and double as both a pleasing aroma and a beautiful adornment. \n\n## 27. Ring Dishes\n![garden-party-ring-dish](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2qum72yJRloqID7Z7x5V97/69dc460370544d13fa0b91beb6294af2/garden-party-ring-dish.jpg)\n\nYour guests will appreciate a useful and beautiful ring dish. Whether they stash it on their desk, by the sink, or on their nightstand, they’ll be reminded of your special event each time they use it. \n\n## 28. Mini Zodiac Crystals\n![mini-zodiac-crystals](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/499QcjFU5ubJfDYrzit6AK/46a49419182b6133fff367440087b15d/mini-zodiac-crystals.jpg)\n\nIf you're throwing a cosmic-inspired event, mini zodiac crystals are a must—besides being beautiful, they make a truly memorable keepsake. \n\n## 29. Tea Towels\n![strawberry-tea-towel](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/39dHNNIU7olnP74pXs2i2h/d3dba54602881d6b3a23e2baf931eb8f/strawberry-tea-towel.jpg)\n\nGift your guests something both practical and beautiful with vibrant printed tea towels. \n\n## 30. Tote Bags\n![botanica-tote-bag](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1K2boxnwoe8wBeFhRJTIVe/cc1e27003f32d72a42583d0ca8eeda9d/botanica-tote-bag.jpg)\n\nHelp your guests keep everything together in style with a gorgeous tote bag. We love ours with big, beautiful designs! \n\n## 31. Sour Rainbow Candy\n![sour-rainbows](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6JPzjusFEvftFy10Y4Ix0Z/cfc5072ed52748c5b080874428c86cbe/sour-rainbows.jpg)\n\nSweet and sour gummies will bring a fresh burst of sunshine to your guests’ taste buds. \n\n## 32. Writing Pens\n![writing-pen](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/469SXboEsuW8WP6FLKPog/a2ec3489dfcb780778769993b24b9a67/writing-pen.jpg)\n\nLet’s face it, you can never have too many pens—your guests will get plenty of use from colorful rollerball pens! \n\n## 33. Event Blossom Cactus Hair Ties\n![event-blossom-hair-ties](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2LWRQ0VP3m6UAzw0CTHZn4/cd6e82803cffcd0d257a66ebafb8b649/event-blossom-hair-ties.jpg)\n\nHair ties always come in handy, and we love the metallic foil cactus pattern with pops of gold! Each hair tie even comes with a cactus-shaped card, making this a one-and-done favor that won’t disappoint. \n\n[Buy on Zola](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/eventblossom_cactus_hair_ties_set6), $16.99\n## 34. Sparkle Maple Syrup\n![glimmer-of-hope-syrup](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1XIPSU2muLe79MrNJpNxGq/ccf3709bb4c5a2a7697a790a0ce89328/glimmer-of-hope-syrup.jpg)\n\nLove is sweet, and so is this edible favor idea! All-natural Vermont maple syrup adds some sparkling flair to your [brunch-themed](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/brunch-wedding) shower. \n\n## 35. Chocolate, Pretzel, and Chip Caramel Popcorn\n![hampton-popcorn](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/Qt1WDopWrrq896kNHQcw4/d80449386704a89bd2a737de9dd5719b/hampton-popcorn.jpg)\n\nA scrumptious treat for a favor is always a good idea—if you can’t decide between salty and sweet, go for chocolate, pretzel, and chip caramel popcorn for the best of both worlds! \n\n## 36. Picture Frames\n![scalloped-inlaid-frame](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4gOleAY2R2YSbEZExelc4N/77fbe1420ece933dfd636aff6166893e/scalloped-inlaid-frame.jpg)\n\nA picture frame is a guaranteed crowd-pleaser—fill each frame with [a photo of you and each of your guests](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/diy-photo-booth) to send them home with a thoughtful keepsake they’ll look back on for years to come. \n\n## 37. Mini Sparkling Wine\n![true-colours-mini-wine](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5rC7ZjXenMt7YqmWme1Po7/1f83379a801685cde14d08a73c4fe6f2/true-colours-mini-wine.jpg)\n\nTruly a no-fail favor idea—because every celebration calls for popping some bubbly! \n\n## 38. Mini Jam Jars\n![mini-strawberry-jam-jars](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1SR4a9mR2zXG0p9a7GXxoI/190b54c0b039cc5113a23ac6ddfe1c0f/mini-strawberry-jam-jars.jpg)\n\nYour guests will be thrilled to leave with mini artisan jams in their pocket! Whether they spread it on their morning muffin or add it to their next charcuterie board, this food favor is one they’re sure to love. \n\n## 39. DIY Potted Succulent Kit\n![diy-succulent-kit](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/509xOHgR2OiV0IrGK3tnce/293c341410cc7b05a8129b56cc698bbe/diy-succulent-kit.jpg)\n\nFor those that love the look of succulents but don’t have a green thumb, paper potted succulent kits are the perfect favor for your guests! \n\n## 40. Heart Keychains\n![floral-heart-keychain](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5BSGsAmpAkOcRUgZ8xhUW5/df6005ba7ea318e2dd1465caf21be34b/floral-heart-keychain.jpg)\n\nAdorable heart keychains make a lovely trinket for guests to take home! \n\n\n![sparkling-cocktail-guide (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7kkrs5YCzOWHftaVue24nh/889cda4ef99b0fc2237eb09dc2f37371/sparkling-cocktail-guide__1_.jpg)","tag":"Gift Etiquette","updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:52.239Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding shower","slug":"wedding-shower"},"slug":"when-should-you-have-a-wedding-shower","title":"When To Have a Wedding Shower — 11 Things To Consider","excerpt":"If you’re getting married, you might be asking: When should you have a wedding shower? Keep reading for tips on planning your wedding shower!","author":"Ruksana Hussain","publishedAt":"2021-01-25T18:29:47.310Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3euvLJobpNAPYiyiTzb0vM/062dbd6b695be78b8f2539d15d229f95/Hero_Zola__7_.jpg","altText":"When Should You Have a Wedding Shower?"},"heroCredit":"Zola","body":"There are a lot of things you’ll need to consider during the wedding planning process, from deciding whether to have an engagement party to picking a destination for your bachelorette party, choosing the perfect wedding dress to finalizing all the details for your big day.\n\nAnd another thing you’ll definitely have to consider when planning your wedding—and, more specifically, when planning your wedding-related events? When to have your [wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-bridal-shower-and-what-is-its-purpose).\n\nWhether you are directly involved in the planning or not, deciding when to host the perfect [wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-shower-guide) warrants taking a few factors into consideration. While it’s a day for close family and friends to gather to enjoy food, drink, games, and gifts, it’s most importantly a day to celebrate the bride-to-be or groom-to-be. \n\nSo, let’s take a look at everything you need to know about __[how to plan a wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bridal-shower)__ and when to have it.\n\n## 1. The Bride (or Groom) Is Everything\nFirst and foremost, as the bride-to-be or groom-to-be, you are the guest of honor—and planning your wedding shower around dates that you’re available and can accommodate the event in your calendar is integral. Your preferences take precedence and must be communicated to your wedding shower planner as soon as possible. Couples’ showers have gained popularity over the years, so if that’s your plan, then ensure that your fiancé has been consulted and is also able to share their preferences on all of the following aspects so that it’s a celebration that you both can enjoy together. \n\n![When Should You Have a Wedding Shower?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4qM8ix3iFJH5Q1eZw71ooK/ab02c34d7fb894783879401fd4c1b324/inline_shutterstock.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Shutterstock\n\n## 2. Consult Your Wedding Party\nThe last thing you want is to be planning your wedding shower without anyone from your wedding party showing up. As a first step, check in with all of your bridal party members to ensure that they will be at the event, especially if it matters to you that they are all present.\n\n## 3. Think in Timelines\nWhen planning your wedding shower, the general rule of thumb for timing is from about a few weeks to a few months before the wedding date. Consider how much time you’d like between your shower and the wedding (and any other events in between), and then space out the event in advance.\n\n## 4. Consider the Wedding Shower Venue\nIf you’re eyeing a specific spot to host the event, then keep that in mind when planning your perfect wedding shower. Some venues have waitlists that stretch out for years (or months), so, depending upon the popularity of the wedding shower venue, you might have to move your event around. \n\n## 5. Decide Upon Your Shower Guests\nYou probably won't invite your entire [wedding guest list](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/guests) to your shower, but this part still requires some thought. You do have to consider when family members, close friends, and members of your wedding party can make it, so consider asking around for their availability, or send out a quick e-poll to gauge which dates work best for maximum guest attendance. Also, if there are conflicts around dates and not everyone will be able to attend, you should consider choosing a date based on your most important attendees, like the maid of honor or mother of the bride or groom.\n\n## 6. Avoid a Public Holiday\nCheck your calendar to ensure that the date that you chose for your wedding shower doesn’t coincide with any national holiday or, if yours is an interfaith or intercultural wedding, that there is no religious holiday or traditional festivity on the same date. \n\n## 7. Ready the Gift Registry\nGuests at your wedding shower are planning to shower you with gifts (whether you open gifts at the shower or afterwards), so having your __[wedding gift registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry)__ ready for them ahead of hosting your bridal shower is important. If you need time to set up your registry with your fiancé, then that might dictate when you host the shower.\n\n## 8. Prepping a Wedding Shower Theme \nPlanning for your wedding shower with a theme in mind (whether that’s a tea party or a boozy brunch) may need some special elements in terms of bridal shower invitations, décor, food, party favors, bridal shower games, venue, or even outfits, so gauging the time that you’ll need to get everything together will help determine a date for the wedding party. \n\n![When Should You Have a Wedding Shower?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/322PSvPCMcZEVS76FnwY0k/bd2a72f3aec1a24e49d6fa8d173df07a/inline_paradis_photography.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Paradis Photography\n\n## 9. Not Too Close to the Wedding\nThis might turn into a surprise shower if your wedding party and you are open to that option. In that case, planning your wedding shower will depend on your proposing a handful of date options of when you’d be available and what your preferences are in making your wish a reality.\n\n## 10. It Could Be a Surprise\nThis might turn into a surprise shower if your wedding party and you are open to that option. In that case, planning your wedding shower will depend on your proposing a handful of date options of when you’d be available and what your preferences are in making your wish a reality.\n\n## 11. Virtual Version \nIf you’ve decided to host a __[virtual wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-bridal-shower-and-what-is-its-purpose)__ for any reason, there is a possibility that more guests will be able to attend, so plan on dates and times, considering all locations that guests will be calling in from. If you’re planning on creating some unique elements in the form of a virtual guest pack—such as a special wedding shower backdrop, party playlist, and suggested bites and cocktails—then ensuring that everyone received that information ahead of your virtual wedding shower will help determine when to host the event. \n\n## Choose The Best Time To Throw Your Wedding Shower\nThere are a lot of things to keep in mind when choosing the best time to host your bridal shower. You need to consider whether you want to host your event virtually or in-person; what date works best for you, your wedding party, and your guests; and what date would give you enough time to check off all the pre-shower tasks of your to-do list (like booking a venue, setting up your registry, and incorporating your theme into all your bridal shower ideas). But now that you know everything you need to consider, you have all the information you need to choose the perfect date for your wedding shower—and have the best bridal shower as a result.","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"From elegant tea parties to the casual bonfire, plan your perfect party with creative bridal shower themes for the modern couple. 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Craft heartfelt wishes that celebrate the bride-to-be in a special way.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2024-07-29T13:13-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1i6aeplGYDEzk7RquRxZ4K/388498136d2828ba63f64e25efd60cc2/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"What to write in a bridal shower card"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"__Inside this article:__\n\n- [Basic steps to writing a bridal shower card](#steps)\n- [General wedding shower card example](#sample)\n- [Simple shower card messages](#simple)\n- [What to write for a sister](#sister)\n- [What to write for a daughter-in-law](#daughter-in-law)\n- [What to write for a daughter](#daughter)\n- [What to write for a friend](#friend)\n- [What to write for a coworker](#coworker)\n- [Humorous bridal card messages](#card)\n- [Bridal shower quotes](#shower)","body":"__TLDR:__\n\n- A standard [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-vs-bridal-shower) card begins with congratulations, followed by compliments, personal stories, or encouragement, and ends with words of inspiration.\n- Keep things light or go super-sentimental, but remember the best bridal shower cards are personalized and come from the heart.\n- Don’t be afraid to use templates or examples for inspiration when writing a card for a daughter-in-law, sister, coworker, or friend.\n\n## Let's get to writing that bridal shower card\nLucky you—you’ve been invited to a [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-themes)! As you prepare to attend this festive pre-wedding party, you should be thinking of ways to help “shower” the bride-to-be with love, support, and encouragement on her route towards married life. \n\nA shower is supposed to be a special moment of togetherness for the bride where, surrounded by her closest family and friends, she’s able to forget about the stress of wedding planning and revel in the excitement of what lies ahead. However, you may find yourself wondering what to write in a bridal shower card. Yikes!\n\nBy following Zola's simple outlines of what to write, you’ll be sure to craft the perfect message. You could simply say, \"happy bridal shower,\" but there are so many other options to write in a bridal card. We're sure you can't wait to celebrate!\n\nAs a bridal shower guest, you can help her achieve these warm-and-fuzzy feelings by writing a lovely bridal shower message in a card attached to your gift. Below, find details and examples to help you to craft the perfect sentiment.\n\n![woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3kANG3FP0QuuQxkSb1vXSo/04ac6084f0e2c735c5a63d07f2e11f22/woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card.jpg)\n\n## How to write bridal shower card: basic steps\n\nWhile you should feel empowered to write whatever feels natural to you in your card, here are a few elements of a standard [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-traditions-updated) message that should make it easy for you to fill up that white space. Remember, the most important thing is to craft a message that feels personal, genuine, and reflects both your and the bride’s personalities and relationship. Celebrate the couple's true love and let them know they deserve all the happiness life has in store.\n\n__1. Begin with congratulations:__ Open your bridal shower message with the most basic of social graces. Offer your congratulations on her upcoming marriage, on finding the love of her life, on making it this far through wedding planning… whatever you feel she’ll appreciate the most.\n\n__2. Make her feel great:__ Offer the bride-to-be a compliment that will guarantee she feels amazing. You could tell her how beautiful she’ll look on her wedding day, or boost her confidence about the stellar choices she’s already made with the wedding details.\n\n__3. Share something personal:__ Perhaps you have a great memory about the beautiful bride that reflects her character strengths, the depth of your friendship, or how special her relationship is to her future spouse. The best card messages are the ones that feel thoughtful and unique, so don’t be afraid to get personal and write something from the heart.
\n\n__4. Offer encouragement:__ Since she’s about to embark on a major life journey, be sure to include well-wishes for her and her partner for a lifetime of happiness. Let her know you want her to have a wonderful and successful marriage ahead.\n\n__5. End with words of inspiration:__ Wrap up your bridal shower message with an uplifting thought, a piece of advice, or a quotation that leaves a lasting impression on the power of love and the beautiful, magical journey she’s about to take. \n\n## Bridal shower message example\n\nStaring at a blank card with a pen in hand? Lose your fear and get started by following this example of a bridal shower card message:\n\n*Dear Lauren,*\n\n*Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! I know you are going to make an absolutely stunning bride, and I simply can’t wait to see all of the beautiful wedding details that I know you’ve worked so hard to plan.*\n\n*I am so amazed and touched by the relationship you have created with Peter, and I know that the love you share runs very deep. From how you always encourage and support each other’s career goals, to the way you rock out on the dance floor together, I know you two will continue to find joy and strength in your shared love for years to come.*\n\n*I wish you nothing but a lifetime of laughter, happiness, and dance parties. As Gene Kelly said, “You dance love, and you dance joy, and you dance dreams.” Cheers to you and all the dancing to come! From your walk down the aisle, to the lifetime ahead, I'm excited to be part of your special day as you begin it together.*\n\n*Love,\nKate*\n\n![Creative Wedding Shower Invite Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5uwrWi9RcicSafmivDnAF3/2615a012fe6e66bc16954189d51980a7/INLINE_CreativeWeddingShowerInviteIdeas___.jpg)\n\n## Simple bridal shower messages\n\nSometimes less is more. Here are some examples of quick, simple messages to communicate your happy wishes.\n\n- So thrilled for you!\n- Cheers to a lifetime of love & happiness! You deserve it.\n- Congratulations on a wonderful partnership and years of happiness to come!\n- Showering you with the happiest of wishes!\n- Here’s to your special day! Thank you for letting me be a part of this joyous occasion.\n- Best wishes to you in this new chapter of your life!\n\n## Sample bridal shower wishes\nWhether you’re trying to keep things light, go super-sentimental, or remind the bride about your special relationship, there are tons of different bridal shower wishes you can share in your shower card. Get inspired with these sample messages for all types of moods and recipients. \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a sister\n\nA sister offers support and friendship, serves as a partner in crime, loans her favorite sweater, and knows the bride better than anyone else. A bridal shower card message should reflect the depth and nature of a sister-sister relationship, whether lighthearted or sentimental. \n- *My dear sister, can you believe this day has finally come? You have always been the sweetest little sister to me, and I can’t wait to watch you walk down the aisle. All my love, always!* \n- *From the time we used to play wedding in the backyard, to your many bad dates and terrible boyfriends I witnessed over the years, I am so thrilled that you’ve found the one to make you happy forever! You deserve all the happiness and love in the world.* \n- *Congratulations on being the most beautiful bride, sister, and friend in the world! I love you forever and am here for you always. Thank you for letting me be by your side throughout this wedding journey.*\n- *While I love Derek almost as much as I love you, we both know that the sister bond runs deep! Remember I have your back no matter what—but I know you will rock this marriage thing. Thank you for always being such a great big sister and role model. I love you!* \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a daughter-in-law\n\nWelcome your future daughter-in-law to the family and express your joy in continuing to build a relationship with her over the years to come. Feel free to share memories or thoughts about your son that would touch the bride’s heart.\n- *We are so lucky that our son has chosen you to be his lifelong partner! We can’t wait to see where love will take you both.* \n- *Welcome to the family! You are an incredible woman on your own, and we know you’ll make an even more incredible addition to our tribe. Congratulations!* \n- *I knew it would take a very special woman to serve as a match for Ash...and once I met you, I knew you were the one! I am so thrilled to welcome you into our family and wish the very best in all things for you both.* \n- *You are a stunning woman inside and out, and you will make a beautiful bride. We can’t wait for the big day and for all the years of love and togetherness that will follow.* \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a daughter\n\nWhat is more special than sending off a daughter into marriage? Share your heartfelt happiness, your advice on marriage, your memories of her as a child, and/or your wishes and hopes for the couple for the future in your bridal shower card. \n- *You fill my heart with light, and I am so thrilled that you have found someone to spend your life with. Congratulations on taking this next huge step!* \n- *My daughter, you’re an endless source of joy and love to me and your father, and I know Paul feels the same. Although you belong to each other now, we will always be here for you no matter what!* \n- *Every parent wants their child to find lifelong happiness, health, safety, and fulfillment—I know your future holds all these things and more with Jordan by your side. I couldn’t be more thrilled for you both, and can’t wait to see your love grow over the years!*\n- *Marriage is both an incredible blessing, and a lot of hard work. Through good times and bad, remember to be on the same team, listen as much as you talk, and never go to bed angry! Keep your love front and center, and I know you will have an incredible future together.* \n\n![mother-and-bride](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5hdzaDOVLWAJ92N9SUb7PF/cd6c9beea448954533c4d5c7430e0bd5/freshen-up-items.jpg)\n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a friend\n\nIf you’re writing a bridal shower card to [a friend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engaged-same-time-as-best-friend), let your message be personal and either funny or sweet (or both) depending on the nature of your friendship. Regardless of the tone, share your excitement for her big day, offer help or support as needed, and express your gratitude for being included. \n- *Congratulations! I am so happy for you both, and I know you will have the most amazing life together. Thanks for letting me share in the excitement!* \n- *As Beyoncé would say, may you always feel this “crazy in love.” Congratulations on a wonderful partnership and years of happiness to come!* \n- *Thank you so much for letting me take part in your celebration and “shower” you with love! Please let me know if there’s anything I can help you with leading up to the wedding.* \n- *Dear friend, I’m so glad you’ve found the one that makes your heart sing. I can’t wait to celebrate you both in a few months! Cheers to the most beautiful, smart, and kindest of brides.*\n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a coworker\n\nYou don’t have to go into great or complicated detail when writing a wedding shower card message to a coworker: keep it short, sweet, and simple. Offer your congratulations and share your enthusiasm and thanks for being included. \n- *I am so excited for you and Alex, and can’t wait for the big day! Thanks for including me in such a special celebration.* \n- *I remember the morning after your first date with Tom...you were glowing (and gushing!). I knew right then that you’d found your perfect match. I am so happy for you, and wish you both all the love in the world!* \n- *It’s clear that you and Taylor have a love that runs deep, and will last for a lifetime. Congratulations on your upcoming wedding and thank you for letting me play a small role in it! I’m so thrilled for you both.*\n- *As you make the transition from my “work wife” to a real wife, I know you will handle it with your characteristic grace, charm, and dedication. Congrats on this happy day, and best wishes for what’s to come!* \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card to be funny\n\nThere’s no rule that says you have to be serious when writing a shower card message. In all likelihood the bride will be reading a lot of heavy-handed and sentimental messages, so have some [fun with your words](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-write-in-a-wedding-card) to her… just be sure to keep things appropriate and respectful, of course. \n- *Best wishes for a lifetime of love, trust, and shared dishwashing duties!* \n- *You know I’m here for you no matter what, dear friend—even if that means tying ribbon around hundreds of tiny bottles of bubbles until 3 a.m. so that you can cross “wedding favors” off your to-do list. Happy wedding!* \n- *Wow, you’re getting married! Congratulations! Now that your love life is figured out, I expect you’ll have more time to help me figure out mine...kidding! But also, help me. Love you both and can’t wait for the wedding!* \n- *Congratulations on finding the match to your candle, the aloe to your sunburn, the Tabasco to your tacos. You two are a one hot match! Here’s to keeping the fire burning for years to come.* \n\n## Wedding shower quotes\n\nIf you’re coming up short on poetic ways to share your bridal shower wishes, don’t sweat. Talented wordsmiths have been talking about love and marriage for centuries, so let the pros express your thoughts for you with one of these bridal shower quotes. \n\n- “A happy marriage is a long conversation which always seems too short.” — Andre Marois\n- “True love is singing karaoke Under Pressure and letting the other person sing the Freddie Mercury part.” — Mindy Kaling\n- “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” — Mignon McLaughlin\n- “Who, being loved, is poor?” — Oscar Wilde\n- “Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.” — Maya Angelou\n- “If I had a flower for every time thought of you… I could walk through my garden forever.” — Alfred Tennyson\n- “Love is a two-way street constantly under construction.” — Carroll Bryant\n- “Every heart sings a song, incomplete, until another heart whispers back. Those who wish to sing always find a song. At the touch of a lover, everyone becomes a poet.” — Plato\n- “Sexiness wears thin after a while, and beauty fades. But to be married to a man who makes you laugh every day, now that’s a real treat.” — JoAnne Woodward\n- “Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.” — Emily Brönte\n- “Love is sharing your popcorn.” — Charles Schultz\n- “Before you marry a person, you should first make them use a computer with slow Internet service to see who they really are.” — Will Ferrell\n- \"To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe.\" — Anatole France\n- “I love being married. It's so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.” — Rita Rudner\n- \"Love must be as much a light as it is a flame.\" — Henry David Thoreau\n\n![Bridal Shower Registry and a Wedding Registry](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1EAKrUV9HfOuHzMJqB3SZL/43ba9cdf14f656eeafa3cf6899bfd85a/Hero_Zola__1_.jpg)\n\n## Ready to head to the wedding shower?\nNow that you know what to write in a bridal shower card, you may have other burning questions. Whether you're wondering what to give as a [bridal shower gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-shower-gifts) (\nhint: check their [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry)!) or need to know [what to wear](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-bridal-shower) to the event for the bride-to-be, Zola has you covered. From being a great [mother of the bride](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/mother-of-the-bride-duties) to [attending a wedding solo](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-attend-a-wedding-alone), Zola is here with expert advice for every step of the journey.\n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"This bridal shower guide will introduce you to the basics of bridal showers: traditional bridal shower etiquette (and which of those “rules” you can break), whom to invite, what to do, and who pays for it all.","title":"A Guide to Bridal Showers","slug":"a-guide-to-bridal-showers","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5o4uxtDjG6d4qgVGaLVrBU/16da092c9b0b80d7acca15ab930a1aef/A-Guide-to-Bridal-Showers.jpg","altText":"a bridal shower card labeled \"soon to be mrs.\" on the grass next to a few pastel-colored bridal shower cookies"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"If you’re hosting a bridal shower and need a little guidance, here’s a step-by-step planning timeline to help you figure out what you need to do, and in what order, to pull off a great party.","title":"How To Plan A Bridal Shower To Remember","slug":"how-to-plan-a-bridal-shower","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5AVNykInJuWweK0Imia8gM/632b15feafece7db3ce9f85ad7d3d0bf/Hero_New_Zola.jpg","altText":"woman in yellow dress holding antique tea cup with macaroons inside"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Find ideal attire for a bridal shower. 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Find the perfect look for every dress code and celebration.","title":"Wedding Guest Attire: A Guide to Every Dress Code","slug":"what-to-wear-to-a-wedding","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5bgD1lwZNmIWCwyoiQgUI/abb4b34d02674b500f4edb610fb1eea6/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"wedding guests laughing with bride at wedding receptions"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-07-29T17:38:47.505Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding shower","slug":"wedding-shower"},"slug":"what-to-wear-to-a-bridal-shower","title":"What to Wear to a Bridal Shower as a Guest ","excerpt":"Find ideal attire for a bridal shower. Explore outfit ideas, styles, and tips to shine as you celebrate the bride-to-be's special day","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2018-12-14T15:19:13.906Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3jyBNag7G8oqQco0QaI2om/840a6c239ab9c319db87cd86af04841b/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"What to wear to a bridal shower"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding-photographers/marni-rothschild-pictures/","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- Pastels, neutrals, florals, and bright celebratory colors are the way to go. And if there’s going to be games opt to wear something comfortable.\n- Avoid wearing white, black, or anything that may detract from the wedding festivities.\n- Bridal showers can range from formality, location, and season, so be sure to dress to fit the occasion.\n","body":"Choosing an outfit for a bridal shower is really no different than choosing what to wear to any other party. You’ll want to match the formality and season, be comfortable, look great, and photograph well in whatever you choose to wear. \n\n## Basic Rules for Bridal Shower Fashion\n \nWhile bridal showers can vary in terms or formality & theme, there are some bridal shower looks that will always fit the vibe:\n- Dress to impress, even if the theme is casual\n- Wear pastels, neutrals and bright colors to match the celebratory tone of the occasion\n- Floral prints are a great go-to\n- Wear something comfortable in case there are bridal shower games\n- Accentuate a neutral dress or top with bold shoes or accessories\n\n### What NOT to Wear to a Bridal Shower\n \n1. Don’t wear white. This wedding guest rule of etiquette applies to bridal showers as well. Since the bride-to-be often wears white to her shower, you don’t want to seem like you’re competing for her spotlight.\n\n2. Don’t wear black. Your bridal shower look should be celebratory, festive, and happy—black is a bit too somber and/or “date night out” to wear to a bridal shower. If you’re set on dark colors, opt for a softer gray or navy. \n\n3. Don’t wear anything too tight, sexy, or revealing. A bridal shower is not the time to flaunt your, um, assets. Since the guest list is usually all women, and since this event is technically part of the wedding festivities, keep things buttoned up. \n\nBut since bridal showers can come in all shapes and sizes—no two are the same—deciphering the dress code can be tricky. To help you choose a perfectly appropriate and flattering ensemble, we’ve outlined suggestions below for what to wear to a variety of different types of bridal showers based on their location, season, and formality. \n\n \n## What to Wear to a Fancy Bridal Shower\nLook for clues on your invitation to tell if a bridal shower will be on the fancier side. Invitation wording is generally a good indicator of formality: if numbers and abbreviations are spelled out, or if phrases like “request the pleasure of your company” are used, this is probably going to be a more formal bridal shower. Also look to see if the invitation provides words about the dress code, such as “festive” or “cocktail attire.” \nFor fancier bridal showers at upscale venues like country clubs, hotels, or restaurants, opt for cocktail attire, such as: \n- A cocktail (i.e. knee-length) dress\n- A pair of flowy, silk pants, a blouse, and a jacket\n- A sparkly pencil skirt, dark tights, and a cashmere sweater\n- A pair of satin ankle-length pants, a velvet blazer, and heels \n- Include accessories such as: \n - More formal, glitzy jewelry (real or costume)\n - A clutch or small purse\n\n## What to Wear to a Casual Bridal Shower\n\nIf the bridal shower is more casual, keep your outfit polished and festive but tone down on the level of formality. For example, swap out heels for ballet flats, if you’ll be more comfortable, or go for daytime fabrics like cotton, wool, and denim. Here are some ideas: \n\n- A gingham wrap dress\n- A pair of nice jeans, a floral top, and a faux fur vest\n- A denim shirt dress with knee-high boots\n- A summery jumpsuit \n- Include accessories such as: \n - Delicate jewelry\n - A crossbody purse or leather satchel ","body2":"## What to Wear to a Backyard Bridal Shower\n\nBackyard bridal showers are by nature less formal, although it’s never safe to assume that a bridal shower at a private home is casual. It’s a good idea to check in with the host(s)—if you’re attending an elegant garden party for high tea, showing up in jeans and Pumas would be embarrassing. Here are a few ideas for put-together looks suitable for a variety of seasons: \n\n- A flowing sundress \n- A pair of colored chinos and a structured top\n- A pair of dark jeans, a boho blouse, and ankle booties\n- A pleated midi skirt, a nice tank, and a linen jacket \n- Include accessories such as: \n - A wide-brimmed sun hat\n - Sunglasses\n - Sandals or wedges\n\n## What to Wear to a Restaurant Shower\n\nWhat you should wear to a bridal shower that’s held in a restaurant is really determined by the type and formality of the restaurant. If it’s a casual barbecue joint with outdoor picnic tables, opt for similar ideas to the casual or backyard showers above. If it’s a white tablecloth kind of restaurant, match the ambiance with an outfit that’s classy and chic, such as: \n\n- A lace sheath dress \n- An off-the-shoulder maxi dress\n- Matching separates, like a satin jacket and pajama-style pants\n- High-waisted trousers with a tie-neck blouse\n- Include accessories such as: \n - Block heels\n - Bright lipstick \n\n## What to Wear to a Fall or Winter Bridal Shower\n\nStick to rich, warm, or dark colors for bridal showers in the fall and winter months. Think burgundy, rust, navy, gray, brown, taupe, and forest green. Most showers during these months will be indoors, so don’t worry too much about outerwear, but reflect the season with long sleeves and hemlines and heavier fabrics. Check out these ideas: \n\n- A turtleneck sweater dress, opaque tights, and over-the-knee boots \n- A long-sleeve wrap dress\n- Wide-leg wool pants and an embroidered sweater\n- A crisp button-down tucked into a full skirt \n- Include accessories such as: \n - Dressy boots\n - Long, layered necklaces\n\n## What to Wear to a Spring or Summer Bridal Shower\n\nBright, light colors—pastels and hot hues all the way—rule when it comes to what to wear to spring or summer bridal showers, as do florals and other summery prints like gingham, madras plaid, and seersucker. Lightweight cotton, silk, and linen feel cool and crisp. To get you inspired, here are some warm-weather shower outfit possibilities: \n\n- A linen jumpsuit\n- A floral, ruffled high-low dress\n- A pair of cropped white pants, a bright silk top, and floral wedges\n- A patterned tunic dress and lace-up sandals\n- Include accessories such as: \n - A rattan purse or straw tote\n - A fresh pedicure","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"This bridal shower guide will introduce you to the basics of bridal showers: traditional bridal shower etiquette (and which of those “rules” you can break), whom to invite, what to do, and who pays for it all.","title":"A Guide to Bridal Showers","slug":"a-guide-to-bridal-showers","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5o4uxtDjG6d4qgVGaLVrBU/16da092c9b0b80d7acca15ab930a1aef/A-Guide-to-Bridal-Showers.jpg","altText":"a bridal shower card labeled \"soon to be mrs.\" on the grass next to a few pastel-colored bridal shower cookies"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"If you’re hosting a bridal shower and need a little guidance, here’s a step-by-step planning timeline to help you figure out what you need to do, and in what order, to pull off a great party.","title":"How To Plan A Bridal Shower To Remember","slug":"how-to-plan-a-bridal-shower","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5AVNykInJuWweK0Imia8gM/632b15feafece7db3ce9f85ad7d3d0bf/Hero_New_Zola.jpg","altText":"woman in yellow dress holding antique tea cup with macaroons inside"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Dress to impress! 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Grab a pen—it’s time to spread the love!","author":"Emily Forrest and Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2024-04-10T09:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5GlWzMJKN61eHNXPxPVuI0/777bc1e0c90ceed6c32544b05d5a8312/Bridal-Shower-Thank-You-Card-Etiquette.jpg","altText":"Zola wedding thank you card graphic"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"__Inside this article:__\n\n- Bridal shower thank you card etiquette\n- 3 Things to consider before writing bridal shower thank you cards\n- Bridal shower thank you template\n- Bridal shower thank you card wording examples\n- FAQs about bridal shower thank you messages\n- Trust Zola with your stationery needs","body":"At the [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers), your friends and family members “showered” you with love and generous presents. Now it’s time to let your loved ones know how much you loved celebrating with them—and how much you appreciate the beautiful gifts you received—with a heartwarming [thank you card](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop). The task is easier said than done, especially if you struggle translating gratitude into written bridal shower thank you messages.\n\nBut don’t let writing bridal shower thank you notes cause you undue stress: we have the answers to all your gratefulness-centric etiquette questions, complete with [wording ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-invitation-wording) for what to write on your [bridal shower card](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers). \nGrab a pen—and that stack of blank thank you cards—let’s get to writing.\n\nNeed help writing wedding thank you notes instead? See our guide on [how to word wedding thank you cards](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-write-wedding-thank-you-cards).\n\n## Bridal shower thank you card etiquette \n\nNavigating all the rules for writing a thank you note can be a bit overwhelming, especially when you’re in the throes of [planning your wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-wedding), too. But there’s no need to stress—we’ve broken down the most important things to know below.\n\n- Dos \n - Write the note by hand to express your thoughtfulness. \n - Use a blank [thank you card](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop). \n - Keep a record of who attended and gave a bridal shower gift. \n - Plan what you’re going to say before writing. \n\n- Don’ts\n - Write too much. \n - Be critical of the gift (or the lack of a gift). \n - Mention the specific amount given for monetary gifts. \n\n## 3 Things to consider before writing bridal shower thank you cards \n\nBefore you begin writing, there are a few key questions you should ask yourself that will make crafting your thank you note easier.\n\n### 1. What is your relationship to the guest?\n\nIf you’re close with the guest, such as a bridesmaid or your best friend, your message should be personal and heartfelt. However, if you don’t know the guest well or just met them for the first time, a short and sweet thank you note is fine.\n\n### 2. Do you send a bridal shower thank you for someone who didn’t attend?\n\nIf the guest was able to celebrate with you in person, make sure to mention this in your thank you note. If they could not attend, let them know how much you missed them, and acknowledge their gift, of course.\n\n### 3. Did the guest provide a gift? \n\nIf so, what was it? Bridal shower thank you notes are required for every guest that attended your bridal shower, whether they brought a present or not. However, if a guest did purchase a gift, it’s important to specifically mention it in your note (see more on this below). The same goes for guests who mailed a gift but were unable to attend the party.\n\n![Thank You Card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5j6S7jfWH2TYKe8CEEnABO/97c2cfac5062b573a3f13a09f3b050e6/Invites_Jan2019_14.jpg)\n\n## Bridal shower thank you template \n\nNext, let’s look at the basic anatomy of thank you notes for bridal showers. Sticking to these six simple steps will structure your bridal shower thank you message and help reduce time spent mulling over how you should express your gratitude. \n\n### 1. Address them using their name.\n\n- Audra\n- Mrs. Jones\n\n### 2. Thank them for their presence.\n\n- Thank you so much for celebrating with me at my bridal shower!\n- I’m so grateful that you could be there to join me on this special day.\n\n### 3. Thank them for the gift.\n\n- Thank you so much for the beautiful set of cheese knives.\n- We so appreciate our new set of wine glasses.\n\n### 4. Share what you love about their present.\n\n- They’ve been such a great addition to our weekly cheese and charcuterie date night.\n- We think about you every Saturday when we pour ourselves a glass of wine and work on planning our upcoming wedding.\n\n### 5. Show your appreciation for them as a person.\n\n- Your friendship means so much to us. Thanks again for your support as we journey into married life together.\n- It was so fun to see you at the shower. We can’t wait to continue the celebration with you at our wedding.\n\n### 6. Sign off.\n- With love, Finny & Spencer\n- Cheers, Lynne & Toby\n\n![Thank You Card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5j6S7jfWH2TYKe8CEEnABO/97c2cfac5062b573a3f13a09f3b050e6/Invites_Jan2019_14.jpg)\n\n## 8 Bridal shower thank you card wording examples \n\nTo get the ink flowing, check out these simple bridal shower thank you [wording examples](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-word-wedding-invitations) for how to word thank you notes for all kinds of situations.\n\n### 1. Thank you message for a registry gift\n\nDear Molly,\nThank you so much for coming to my bridal shower last Saturday! We’re so grateful for the beautiful tea towels you gave us. They already make a great addition to our kitchen.\nYour friendship means so much to us and we can’t wait to celebrate with you at the wedding in a few weeks.\nLove, Kieran & Tina\n\n### 2. Bridal shower thank you messages for cash gifts\n\nDear Aunt Diana,\nIt was a true delight to see you at the shower. Thank you so much for your generous gift. We’ve just booked a glass bottom boat ride during our upcoming honeymoon, thanks to you. We’ll tell you all about the experience when we see you this Thanksgiving!\nThanks again for the support you’ve shown us throughout our engagement. We look forward to hitting the dance floor with you on the big day.\nAll our love, Emma & Julian\n\n### 3. Thank you wording for a gift you exchanged, didn’t like, or was awkward\n\nDear Mila,\nHow wonderful to see you at the bridal shower! Thank you for the bagel toaster you gave us. It was very generous, and we appreciate you thinking of us.\nLooking forward to having you at the wedding next month. We know that many more great memories will be made with you there!\nLove, Tessa & Will\n\n### 4. Bridal shower thank you message for someone who didn’t give a gift\n\nDear Beatriz,\nThank you for celebrating with me at my shower! I hope that you had an amazing time. It was great to see you there and catch up.\nThank you again for being there to honor this special time with us. Can’t wait to see you at the wedding!\nLove always, Ronan & Adrienne\n\n### 5. Thank you wording for someone who didn’t attend but sent a gift.\n\nDear Goldie,\nThank you so much for the beautiful luggage. We’ve already used the carry-ons at our weekend getaway in New York last weekend, and we can’t wait to show off these stylish suitcases on our honeymoon to Italy this spring.\nWe missed you at the shower, but we are so excited to see you at the wedding. Thank you again for the thoughtful gift!\nLove, Rebecca & Hannah\n\n### 6. Bridal shower message for a close friend\n\nDear Susie,\nThank you for celebrating with me at the bridal shower. Toby and I appreciate the awesome French press and coffee beans you gave us. We can’t help but think of you every time we sip our morning brew.\nYou have no idea how much your love has meant to us over the years. It will make our day so special to have you in the crowd on the big day, and we’re excited to see you bust one of your famous moves on the dance floor!\nMuch love, Lynne & Toby\n\n### 7. Bridal shower thank you messages for formal acquaintances\n\nDear Mrs. Perdu,\nPlease accept our sincere thanks for the beautiful picture frames you gave us. They make a lovely addition to our mantle, and we are looking forward to using them to display our favorite memories in the years to come.\nIt meant so much to us that you could attend the shower. Your kindness is appreciated, and we look forward to seeing you at the wedding.\nSincerely, Finny & Spencer\n\n### 8. Thank you note for the bridal shower host\n\nDear Amar,\nWords can’t express how truly grateful we are for the shower you planned and hosted. From the balloon display to the delicious cake pops, every detail was perfect. None of it would have been possible without you. Thank you for always being such an amazing friend and for supporting us through every detail of planning our wedding. Having you in our lives has made this special time even more meaningful.\nWe can’t wait to have you join us as we exchange our vows and journey into married life. Thanks again for everything you do.\nWith love, Audra & Charles\n\n![woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3kANG3FP0QuuQxkSb1vXSo/04ac6084f0e2c735c5a63d07f2e11f22/woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card.jpg)\n\n## FAQs about bridal shower thank you messages \n\n### When do I send bridal shower thank you cards? \n\nBridal shower thank you messages should be sent to each individual who attended your bridal shower and/or purchased a gift no more than two weeks after the date of the party.\n\n__Pro Tip:__ Purchase thank you cards before the bridal shower—especially if you’re using a custom design—so you already have them on hand immediately following the celebration.\n\n### Who should sign bridal shower thank you cards?\n\nAlthough it may feel like the gift was given just to you, bridal shower thank you cards should be signed by you and your partner. The only exception to this rule is when you receive a gift that’s clearly meant for only you (think lingerie, spa gift card, or other bride-centric gifts).\n\n### Can I combine wedding and bridal shower thank you messages?\n\nThe short answer? No. A different thank you note should be written for each event (bridal party, wedding ceremony, or even a baby shower) a guest attends, regardless of whether they brought a gift each time.\n\n## Trust Zola with your stationery needs \n\nNow that you’re well-versed in [etiquette](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-invitation-etiquette-top-mistakes-to-avoid-or-zola), don’t stop there! Zola can take care of all your [wedding paper needs](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/invites-paper/invitations). 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Find out in our latest guide.","author":"Shira Telushkin","publishedAt":"2021-02-10T15:59:41.993Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/LIMh0JnOloe51GM6q34L0/3326f8e7211fde5ad12d79776a17b8f6/Hero_IndustrialWeddingAtStAugustineChurchAnd26Bridge_SarahZimmermanPhoto.jpg","altText":"Bachelorette Party vs Bridal Shower"},"heroCredit":"Sarah Zimmerman Photo","body":"![Bachelorette Party vs Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5FZjHYn3xodt1GyCdHwa4g/204ec420c4862dfa06d48bdfd6be164e/inline_shutterstock2.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Shutterstock\n\nThere are so many events that happen before the actual wedding day itself. The engagement party, the wedding shower, and the bachelorette party. But, when it comes to the wedding shower and the bachelorette party, it's not always clear how to differentiate between the two events. \n\n## Bridal Shower vs. Bachelorette Party: Are the Wedding Shower and the Bachelorette Party the Same?\n\nNope, bridal showers and bachelorette parties are not the same thing. Bridal showers are meant to prepare the bride-to-be for her future life as a married woman, whereas a bachelorette party is meant for the bride to de-stress, celebrate, and enjoy her present pre-married life.\n\nAdditionally, wedding showers are hosted parties, where the host pays for the event—including the food, catering, decorations, and anything else—and invites the guests, whereas bachelorette parties are often co-hosted by the friends of the bride. \n\nWith bridal showers, it’s very common and often expected, that guests will arrive with gifts. These gifts are typically related to the home or the life between the new couple. The wedding shower is traditionally hosted by a friend or family member close to the bride and is often an afternoon or late morning affair. \n\nThe bachelorette party is usually a weekend away or a night out that is planned by the bride’s close friends, and, typically, her maid of honor. Though a thoughtful gesture, [bachelorette party gifts](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/9-bachelorette-party-gifts-for-the-bride) are usually not the main focus of the night. The focus is on ensuring that the bride has fun and enjoys herself. You may ask, [who pays for the bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-pays-for-the-bachelorette-party)? As compared to the wedding shower, the costs are usually split between the event attendees.\n\n## Who Is Invited to the Wedding Shower, and Who Is Invited to the Bachelorette Party? \n\nThe wedding shower typically includes a wide assortment of guests who are connected to the bride. Traditionally, the wedding shower guest list only extends to women guests, although today wedding showers increasingly will include male friends of the bride. The guests often include the bride’s female cousins, aunts, and extended family members; female family friends of her parents; and female members of her religious community or another group in which she participates. All ages are included in the wedding shower guest list. Some brides may also invite co-workers if they’re close, but this is not expected in most situations. \n\nThe bachelorette party almost always includes the wedding party, and then the bride’s close friends. Traditionally, bachelorette parties only included women's friends, but today the bride might want to include friends of all genders. The bachelorette party might be organized by one of the bridesmaids or the maid of honor, but the costs are usually shared by all the guests attending. \n\nA wedding shower is an event that usually includes a wider range of guests than the bachelorette party. The guest list is ultimately up to the host, as she is the one planning the event and opening her home. However, the host will likely consult with the bride to ensure that there are no mix-ups or hurt feelings. Older and younger female relatives should be invited to the wedding shower, but in most cases would be out of place at the bachelorette party. Some social friends of the bride might have no interest in attending the wedding shower, but would be appropriate guests for the bachelorette party. \n\n## What Happens at a Wedding Shower vs. a Bachelorette Party?\n\n![Bachelorette Party vs Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1TdhwA5VmBESvBQ5m0ro5g/52f1a00b392a4d619745974fda7309d2/inline_shutterstock3.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Shutterstock\n\nThe wedding shower includes the opening of gifts, sometimes toasts by some of her female relatives (such as her mother, aunt, or sister), and certain games or activities related to her soon-to-be-married life. The tone of the event should be appropriate to the diverse range of guests, which might include older, conservative family members or co-workers. The wedding shower is about celebrating the bride’s new life as part of a couple and is often focused on her broader community. \n\nBachelorette parties include fun activities planned by the bride’s friends, games related to the bride and her soon-to-be life partner, and social bonding. The bachelorette party is not suited for friends or family that are not part of the bride’s social circle, and often include activities that incorporate [bachelorette party game questions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-game-questions-youll-love) that are a little more raunchy or intimate than what would happen at the wedding shower. The bachelorette party is really about fun and joy and focused entirely on the bride and her friends before she becomes a married woman. \n\nKnowing the difference between a wedding shower and a bachelorette party will help ensure that you plan the perfect event for each occasion. \n\n__The Best Winter Bachelorette Party Ideas__\n\n- COZY CABINS!!\n- snowman competitions\n- spa retreat -- no better time than when it is miserable out there\n- sledding!\n- smores and fire \n- ice skating \n- matching cozy flannel pajamas or gloves \n- cabin with a hot tub\n- winter festival \n- face masks, hair masks \n\n__8 Best Bachelorette Party Destinations: __\n\n- Vegas \n- Mexico City \n- Montreal \n- Cruise \n- New Orleans\n- Austin, TX\n- Charleston, SC\n- Miami\n- Nashville\n- Savannah, Georgia \n\n__Bachelorette Party Game Questions__\n\n“Who knows you best?”\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Discover unique bachelorette party gifts for the bride-to-be. 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","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2024-10-03T10:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/76ZaCVd5YdZKoKivIuHdcz/a27134cd9c6c2c5c0caf8ec2a2e3542d/40-Bridal-Shower-Themes-for-Modern-Couples.jpg","altText":"bridal shower theme ideas"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"__Inside this article:__\n- Elegant Bridal Shower Themes\n- Adventurous Couple's Shower Themes\n- Fun Bridal Shower Themes\n- Laidback Wedding Shower Themes\n- Unique Bridal Shower Themes\n- Fall Bridal Shower Themes\n- Winter Bridal Shower Themes\n- Spring Bridal Shower Themes\n- Summer Bridal Shower Themes\n","body":"The bridal shower is a celebration of the bride-to-be that welcomes both family and friends to the party. Traditionally it's been a girls-only event, but many modern couples are opting to plan a joint __[couple's shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/coed-wedding-shower)__. Of course, you're welcome to extend a bridal shower invitation to anyone you'd like to celebrate your upcoming wedding.\n\nOne of the first steps of planning a bridal or couple's shower is choosing your party’s theme. There’s no end to theme opportunities, and you can plan any activity or decor you like. (Just keep in mind that this isn’t the __[bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-themes)__ and that your grandmother may be there, so keep things PG.)\n\nFrom tea time to beach bash, check out all 38 bridal shower theme ideas below.\n\n## Elegant Bridal Shower Themes\n \nAn elegant bridal shower is perfect for the classic couple who wants to celebrate with a beautiful and traditional party. The entertainment is food, conversation, and maybe some light party games, and the decor is chic and simple. If you’re interested in an elegant celebration, browse these bridal shower themes below:\n\n### 1. Garden Gala\nStart with a beautiful venue and host a garden party as everything’s beautiful and blooming. Light snacks, cocktails, and some fun games are all you need to make this party a hit. Nothing is simpler or more classy than a garden party.\n\n![Bridal Shower Themes](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7yiXszW9spLVh3NAgWaiDc/b49db3433730ecf4baa8e7e400bd1c65/1-bridal-shower-themes-sign-mockup.jpg) Photo via Zola\n\n[![Bridal Shower Themes](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5jrzVWHcWQyVfxHAfi6Y01/31913e407f44d97bd13e727f9150536a/bridal-shower-themes-download-wedding-signs.png)](//downloads.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/fwXHlwxQdHWAAXwgxeCh1/49397648ea58fc70d51d0aedf9c21e42/Zola-Wedding-Signs.pdf)\n\n### 2. Minimalist Mixer\nMinimalism is super trendy and a great way to gather reusable decorations. When it comes to bridal shower decorations, less is more! Choose small centerpieces like lanterns and succulents, and place signs with simple calligraphy on a plain or acrylic background. A beautiful venue will carry most of the weight for a minimalist party.\n\n![Minimal Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5q6xmBITOmc4DWRcXWhBOi/2e1aa9e4efc21fd3e3b238ba8c1fedcb/Minimal_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Captured By Maleah Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/captured-by-maleah-photography)\n\n### 3. Party in Paris\nAh, Paris—it’s everything classic romance and makes for a sophisticated party theme. French stripes, signs in French, and Eiffel Tower statuettes are easy, go-to decor. And, of course, what's a French shower without French food. Plenty of pastries, macarons, and a charcuterie board are delicious snacks that will elevate the party—and don’t forget __[wine to pair](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/cake-and-wine-pairings)__!\n\n![2-bridal-shower-themes-paris (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2e7KnLIYDt2NtZRgOmvqxn/0b729e16b72a89b46bfdd25132897078/2-bridal-shower-themes-paris__1_.jpg)\n\n### 4. Vintage Soiree\nThrow a party ‘70s style, or with whichever decade aesthetics you prefer. This is a perfect bridal shower theme for repurposing old furniture and decor. Collect vintage and intricate frames, as well as funky bottles and fabrics for tables and tapestries. Have your guests dress for the decade as inspiration to really throw it back.\n\n![3-bridal-shower-themes-vintage-soiree (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/017rex1qXGEnZzWT2m0s6g/77a8d8848078898fb540497f1420dc95/3-bridal-shower-themes-vintage-soiree__1_.jpg)\n\n### 5. Glitz and Glamor\nPlan a more sophisticated evening party with glittered cocktail attire and hors d’oeuvres. Host a wine tasting as entertainment and decorate with a simple floral arrangement, candles, anything that sparkles, and a few gold accents for a glam party with your friends.\n\n![Glitz and Glamour Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6RMLJtnEBIUaFwSBLnJcdY/1c715d96d5f333bf1d59a23cc52f1892/Glitz_and_Glamour_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Marigny Opera House](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/marigny-opera-house)\n\n[![bridal-shower-themes-download-elegant-moodboard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7BipeOW1c8F2p7ikTQ0sw4/542c210743e108da3a39d64fc17bdf73/bridal-shower-themes-download-elegant-moodboard.png)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2m4kDmJrQIGULTpnGbNR7W/424b9209b627676de73f6450b2a8ec30/bridal-shower-themes-elegant.png)\n\n## Adventurous Couple’s Shower Themes\n \nIf you’re looking for unique bridal shower themes, engaging games, and an energizing party atmosphere, then these adventurous themes are for you. These bridal shower themes are great for representing you as a couple and celebrating the things you love most:\n\n### 6. Boho Bash\nBohemian themes and decor are perfect for the casual couple. The best part of a boho bash is that there are plenty of opportunities to use thrifted and repurposed decor, so you can save some money and stay __[eco-friendly](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/eco-friendly-wedding)__. Grab some decorative frames for signs, boho pillows for seating, and plenty of wildflowers for a flower crown and the centerpieces.\n\n![Boho Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2ZIwL2JKvzbbJi4xn5WtlG/501c0a63621d87519543628fce7de13c/Boho_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Chellise Michael Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/chellise-michael-photography)\n\n### 7. Happily Ever After\nWhat’s better than a fairytale party for your happily ever after? Greenery, fairy lights, books, and some nods to your favorite fairytale stories will bring this theme to life. You can go with a bridal shower theme around the master of happily ever after—Disney. Choose your favorite Disney stories and characters and get creative—set each table with a different centerpiece theme, or dive in with a costume party and dress as your favorite Disney couple.\n\n![Fairytale Wedding Shower Theme](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4tQZwB8Typlp1NkHwPUjaw/9d4c131a3b31799944c5aac361212dfa/Fairytale_Wedding_Shower_Theme.jpg) Photo via [Woolverton Inn](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/woolverton-inn)\n\n### 8. Travel-Themed Bridal Shower\nCelebrate life’s big adventure with a trip around the world themed shower. Luggage, globes, and maps are all great decor pieces that are easy to find and use. Serve international favorites with their national flags, and include global monuments in your decor—like the Sphinx, Eiffel Tower, Leaning Tower of Pisa, or the Taj Mahal.\n\n![6-bridal-shower-themes-around-the-world](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2PesuuJAEbJprzovDEmOY8/0597ced533d88f51e533319c45cb7ef0/6-bridal-shower-themes-around-the-world.jpg)\nPhoto by [Kati Rosado](http://katirosado.com/contact)\n\n### 9. Mexican Food and Fun\nIf the bride is a Mexican cuisine enthusiast, then a Mexican-themed fiesta could be the perfect option for a bridal shower. Create a build-your-own taco bar and pair the food with refreshing margaritas (frozen or one the rocks—bride’s choice!).\n\n![Mexican Themed Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6vMw8hDdFoLPzxr6o5pvcC/c4f6438c362ff545850ac1e4c3d6b5f8/Mexican_Themed_Party.jpg) Photo by [JamsCreative Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/jamscreative-photography)\n\n### 10. Drama and Dancing\nDress up and get to dancing! Have everyone dress their best and decorate with rich jewel tones and dramatic lighting. The most important part is the perfect playlist everyone will enjoy, so take suggestions from your guests leading up to the party. Prepare fun cocktails and plenty of snacks, and you’re ready to go.\n\n![Wedding Dance Ladies](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2awo4Idmo8V3xaDcRB8QUZ/05b6bff2712a8a908e5a89d008aebba7/Wedding_Dance_Ladies.jpg) Photo by [Joyce Li Photo](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/joyce-li-photo)\n\n### 11. Under the Sea\nIf you’re all-in on the mermaid aesthetic, this may be the theme for you. Cool color palettes and some iridescent or silver metallics are your theme’s core. Gather seashells, glass pieces, and simple greenery arrangements for centerpieces. This is a great chance to repurpose wine bottles as candlestick holders with sand and shells inside—then let guests take home the marine-themed decor as bridal party favors.\n\n![Under the Sea Beach Wedding Table](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6a82w3p1nGjU31X39fG0rj/5919702498a7bfb3abe84682697cc462/Under_the_Sea_Beach_Wedding_Table.jpg) Photo by [Krystal Zaskey Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/krystal-zaskey-photography)\n\n[![bridal-shower-themes-download-adventurous-moodboard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/68kisdb07WwEjygaEdtOL7/a33e3c98803fa462b6e37b750912ae25/bridal-shower-themes-download-adventurous-moodboard.png)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4I0zC1PUoerR73vSCn0Bg9/9e2a658e9e93d9d12f6f663b592ded8e/bridal-shower-themes-adventurous.png)\n\n## Fun Bridal Shower Themes \n\n### 12. Karaoke Lounge\nTake a break from wedding planning and plan a karaoke party at home or out at a lounge — either way, you’re sure to have a good time. Prepare challenges with your favorite songs in a draw bag, or choose a genre to build your theme around. Push the theme further and ask your guests to come dressed as their favorite artists and perform to a music video.\n\n![Karaoke Wedding Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5mzdoPTEXSSIbCRjT5igqs/6a4ffce0be27b1fe09710c207336b5a3/Karaoke_Wedding_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Morgan Wiltse Photo Co.](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/morgan-wiltse-photo-co)\n\n### 13. Ice Cream Party\nWhen there's ice cream, there is always fun in store! Hire an ice cream truck to come to your event. You could also take it a step further and do a full ice cream sundae bar. Get several flavors of ice cream, and splurge on toppings—sprinkles, syrups, and more. Don't forget the cones or waffle bowls to enhance the event. \n\n![S-mores Ice Cream Sundae Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4LMR0QltpjA8Kufnc8LQoq/764f80376ff18627ade5b74557c29c11/S-mores_Ice_Cream_Sundae_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Pint's Peak Ice Cream](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-cakes-desserts/pints-peak-ice-cream)\n\n### 14. Game Night\nGame night is perfect for a night in with your friends, and everyone will warm up to each other quickly. Bring your favorite games and snacks, and get the party started. Decorate using Jenga pieces as a guest book for your friends and family to sign, and candy dice to top cupcakes. Or take it outside and play lawn games.\n\n![Lawn Games at a Wedding Reception](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6V3o1HPFvvSSpWqw7j6DCm/b2e768aa8635552305188dad3525b224/Lawn_Games_at_a_Wedding_Reception.jpg) Photo via [The Wedding Connection](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-planners/the-wedding-connection)\n\n### 15. Nautical\nIf you (and the engaged couple!) love being on the water, consider using a nautical bridal shower theme. Host your event by the sea, on the beach, or on a boat for added cohesion. However, it's also perfectly acceptable to have a blue and white palette and maritime touches for a land-centric party. \n\n![Nautical Bridal Shower Theme](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4txV3Tg5fsTby2WR8nAscV/d072de20b83f64d2279b823a9c3008d1/Nautical_Bridal_Shower_Theme.jpg) Photo by [Aprea Media](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/aprea-media)\n\n### 16. Candy Crush\nCelebrate your engagement to your crush with candy! Sweet, delicious, and super aesthetically pleasing, candy is an affordable and easy way to cover decor and favors for your guests. Arrange gumball bowls, giant lollipops, and macaron towers as centerpieces, and serve colorful and bubbly drinks for a great summer fun party theme. Not a fan of candy? Have homemade pastel color treats instead.\n\n![Dessert Bar for Reception](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2dr0ZZqsCNecbLJqzOnMAD/db2e187716f6c975778cd728a461e1e3/Dessert_Bar_for_Reception.jpg) Photo via [Twin Treats](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-cakes-desserts/twin-treats)\n\n## Laidback Wedding Shower Themes\n \nThese laidback shower themes are for the casual couple looking to host a great party all of their friends and family can enjoy. Find 10 bridal shower themes and trending party ideas that are all about you and your guests, instead of heavily themed decor and entertainment:\n\n### 17. Pajama Party\nFor the ultimate laid back event, invite guests to dress in their pjs. Host an evening event that goes late into the night, or have a morning brunch. The sky's the limit for this casual, fun event. It's also an ideal theme if you're hosting a lingerie shower where the bride can also give her attendants their wedding day robes at the event.\n\n![Pajama Party Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/741K8Hfz5Z5WG1HYRFf0t3/088b51dad241984586676b0dbedd46f0/Pajama_Party_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Hotel Arista](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/hotel-arista)\n\n### 18. Fruit Fest\nFruit themes are fresh and fun and bring a bright tropical vibe without the need for grass skirts. Vibrant fruit arrangements are great centerpieces by themselves, but some flowers and decorative trays wouldn’t hurt. Don’t forget the fruit cocktails, coconuts, and novelty straws — this party is all about the drinks.\n\n![Fruit Bachelorette Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/42VVD3mZn7IsrJRHDvBSzD/1580821430af54b2c765318327f477f8/Fruit_Bachelorette_Party.jpg) Photo via [Hill City Bride](https://hillcitybride.com/2017/05/citrus-bachelorette-party-styled-shoot/)\n\n### 19. Sock Hop\nGo back to the ‘50s with a fun sock hop themed party. Bring circle skirts and polka dots back for a night, and prepare a rocking playlist that will have everyone dancing. Retro signs and glass Coke bottles make for fun decor, and malt milkshakes are the perfect dessert.\n\n![Clinking Coke Bottles at Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/39rrbGkiQm1Jax3xKKx1Jk/7c0a6e95a3a28b1ce8af2d5c0f92d607/Clinking_Coke_Bottles_at_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Bradley Pisney](https://unsplash.com/@bradleypisney)\n\n### 20. Wine Tastings\nSchedule a wine tasting for your wedding shower. Not only is this perfect for a co-ed event, but you can organize it in various ways. Hire a limo and go from winery to winery doing several tastings. Or you can head to a winery with a vineyard on site and spend a few hours walking through the vines and sampling. Either way, a DD is vital, so put that on your list.\n\n![Wine Tasting Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3f7Oj2kxOS2427ekFg4wC6/0548ec4ed0dac20af00de180967041b9/Wine_Tasting_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Kym Ellis](https://unsplash.com/@kymellis)\n\n### 21. Brunch and Bubbly\nThe bridal brunch is simple and welcoming to all of your guests, and gives plenty of opportunity for the couple’s family and friends to get to know each other. The menu is full of brunch favorites, like waffles and scones—and, of course, you stock the bar with champagne, juice, and other __[mimosa bar](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-make-a-mimosa-bar)__ staples. Light floral arrangements and simple table settings are all you need to host a nice __[brunch](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/brunch-wedding)__.\n\n![10-bridal-shower-themes-brunch-and-bubbly (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6wOGbpj3KwpmsljYghFVJn/8a8bbc6418a7f8b15431fe9612a10abc/10-bridal-shower-themes-brunch-and-bubbly__1_.jpg) Photo via Zola\n\n[![bridal-shower-themes-download-laidback-moodboard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3oknARV7UK6Mj1pBdt7QkH/a6a0c07c809b7361b0e492c855d845a4/bridal-shower-themes-download-laidback-moodboard.png)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5BpHrs1JlVGebXUYNptl6L/6ec2848f7ceee432656915418153ed92/bridal-shower-themes-laidback.png)\n\n## Unique Bridal Shower Themes\n \nSome themes just don’t fit in a box. If you’re still looking for the perfect party idea, try one of these creative and trendy bridal shower theme ideas:\n\n### 22. Breakfast at Tiffany’s\nWhat’s more glamorous and classic than Breakfast at Tiffany’s? Decorate with Tiffany blue, or even get some Tiffany’s gift boxes and candles as centerpieces. Channel your inner Holly Golightly with a little black dress, and gift pearls and sunglasses as themed favors to your guests.\n\n![Brunch Wedding Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5oIrbZnmy0ssZz2ZWlxTnX/8df5feb85b1859e63da860bdb2a6f2be/Brunch_Wedding_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Rachel Park](https://unsplash.com/@therachelstory)\n\n### 23. Bold and Bright\nFill your party with bright colors and bold decor to bring a ton of energy and fun to your party. Choose a handful of your favorite colors, or cover everything in rainbows. Either way, you’re setting yourself up for plenty of photo-ops and unlimited possibilities.\n\n![Vibrant Wedding Shower Tablescape](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NM9triQ8FKUTjoUi3ARe5/742de0e3927783efe3644d5f74952a1e/Vibrant_Wedding_Shower_Tablescape.jpg) Photo by [Jason Rhee Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/jason-rhee-photography-llc)\n\n### 24. Classic Hollywood Chic\nYou can still have a glam party in the winter with a throwback to the silver screen. Decorate with jewel tones and gold accents, and centerpieces of pearls and ostrich feathers. Roll out the red carpet to a photobooth with props of faux-fur boas, beads, and other vintage accessories and a vintage-inspired [photo backdrop](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-backdrop).\n\n![Hollywood Glam Styled Event Wedding](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6ohR6cWSm8QqcVJqxI7O2N/a46b330a523c9468ff6d3c9c0dc90ae6/Hollywood_Glam_Styled_Event_Wedding.jpg) Photo via [Zola's Real Weddings](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding/old-hollywood-glamour-styled-shoot)\n\n### 25. Potter Party \nInvite all of your witch and wizard friends to celebrate with butterbeer and chocolate frogs. You can find recipes for all of your favorite magic treats and gift DIY wands and house badges to your friends. Marathon the movies, host a trivia game or play a quick Quidditch match. There’s plenty of Hogwarts fun for everyone.\n\n![Harry Potter Theme Wedding Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7wtJubue6dlPErnCtRbkKa/679d8a53027681bdaa73e47845972d18/Harry_Potter_Theme_Wedding_Shower.jpg) Photo via [The Winery at Bull Run](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/the-winery-at-bull-run)\n\n### 26. Blue and White\nIf you're in touch with decor trends, you've probably seen blue and white palettes everywhere. It's a classic! So, why not include it in a wedding shower? Scour thrift shops and antique stores for blue and white elements like dishes, vases, and more. Some can even be gifted to the bride-to-be. The added touch of decorative cookies brings an element of sophistication to the event. \n\n![Blue and White Cookies](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3nZ4X0Y2BUl58s1t31L3Q0/87d09e9d1913556ee425e70adaf022ff/Blue_and_White_Cookies.jpg) Photo via [The Everly](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/the-everly)\n\n### 27. Retro\nTo have a retro bridal shower, pick an era and go all out. You can mock the Roaring 20's or go with the hippie vibe of the 1970s. It's all up to you. Use Pinterest to search for inspiration for the various decades, and take cues from color palettes, fashions, and photo styling for your own era-inspired bridal shower.\n\n![Retro Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2c5FRZk3Xo8uO5AQoDzNAj/8aea45876f2bfdeaf156489c1e30ce19/Retro_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Love Wildly](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/love-wildly)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Fall \n\n### 28. Backyard Bonfire\nThe best way to relax with your favorite people is around a bonfire with s’mores, tunes, and drinks. Make sure you have plenty of seating and snacks, and this party is good to go. If you want to build decor, collect old tins and trays to display the snacks and place lanterns and string lights around the party to add to the vibe.\n\n![8-bridal-shower-themes-backyard-bonfire](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/Yqz2xEY7DjS08IqkMTkup/06e9651087dc4a332d3d4385fac7c037/8-bridal-shower-themes-backyard-bonfire.jpg)\nSource: [Allie Dearie Photography](http://alliedeariephotography.com/)\n\n### 29. Rustic and Cozy\nRustic-themed showers are having a moment. Whether you go with rustic farmhouse BBQ (think DIY mason jar flower arrangements, gingham linens and napkins, and homemade sweet tea), or a more comfy, cozy cabin vibe (think enjoying hot cocoa in pajamas in front of the fire while you play bridal shower games), this bridal shower theme is sure to appeal to brides that are more country than city.\n\n![9-bridal-shower-themes-comfy-cozy](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6a017sAwGsvQpaoT9kv7An/4c70551b6ad65362481722a035787f40/9-bridal-shower-themes-comfy-cozy.jpg) Photo by \n[Carina Skrobecki](https://www.carinaskrobecki.com/)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Winter \n\n### 30. Trim the Tree\nInvite your guests to help you trim your holiday tree with DIY ornaments. Collect some craft instructions for your guests and gather supplies to create keepsake ornaments for you and your partner. Cookies and eggnog are sure to get everyone in the festive spirit. (You could even have guests wrap bridal shower gifts in holiday paper!)\n\n![Christmas Bridal Shower Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2tgHfQcFvUlnrhmMJ8uczi/866564843aecf63d4ac3f622811d1cff/Christmas_Bridal_Shower_Ideas.jpg) Photo by [Limelight Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/limelight-photography)\n\n### 31. Winter Wonderland\nSnow and ice are nature’s glitter, so embrace the sparkle and celebrate a winter wonderland. Glitter centerpieces and warmth from candlelight are sure to set the mood. Pinecones and frosted evergreens are great for adding texture and colors, too.\n\n![Winter Wonderland Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/9H8GuAzenjgmLiwgNtFJd/dfc06f10a4e96593d52735a703656f7f/Winter_Wonderland_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [The Preserve at Chocorua](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/the-preserve-at-chocorua)\n\n### 32. Flannel and Frost\nDecorate your party with evergreens, flannel fabrics, and lanterns for a warm and inviting atmosphere for everyone. Cider drinks and spiced cookies are the perfect treats, and your guests will love playing group games and mingling.\n\n![Flannel Bridal Shower Theme](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/zBmzuRgSFTrWPJMFPgHhD/21372946bf45ebfa6086ae17634835e0/Flannel_Bridal_Shower_Theme.jpg) Photo on [Zola's Real Weddings](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding/plaid-accented-fall-styled-shoot)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Spring \n\n### 33. Lovely in Lemon\nFruit themes are hugely popular, and lemons may just top that list. They’re bright, refreshing, and so fun for a party. Decorate with yellow and white flowers with plenty of greenery, and of course lemons themselves. Host a lemonade and iced tea bar with a variety of flavors — lemon cupcakes and cookies are a must (and make for great take-home party favors!).\n\n![Lemon Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3txCeg3in7GnYkk0E6Os8t/a90377c1fc8cf146a6f1f1f833e675bc/Lemon_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Hill City Bride](https://hillcitybride.com/2020/01/bridal-shower-decorations/)\n\n### 34. Tea Party Time\nTea parties are a bridal shower classic and a great way to include everyone on your guest list. Rent or thrift adorable teaware, then gather some fresh flower bouquets for your tables, and voila—your decor is pretty much finished! Simple and sweet pastries and a collection of teas to sample is all the entertainment you need with good company at your wedding shower. (You could even send home personalized tea bags as bridal shower favors!)\n\n![Bridal Shower Tea Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6PkQtkyVcQC2ytoPGR6JmB/25f2d95f525d6969fb29cf23e2eeaad0/Bridal_Shower_Tea_Party.jpg) Photo by [Carolyn Christine](https://unsplash.com/@carolynchristine)\n\n### 35. Gives Me Butterflies\nThe bride-to-be is in love, so focus on the feeling. Throw a butterfly themed bridal shower at a butterly garden or botanical center. Release butterflies and have lovely, themed details, such as butterfly nets and vintage prints featuring the flying insects. It's perfect for spring! \n\n![Butterfly Themed Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5umS2PAkojSa4YYOcXvxAF/59e4e6cece3414eae51269e4281a20fd/Butterfly_Themed_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Peterson Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/petersen-photography-llc)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Summer \n\n### 36. Fair Food\nEveryone loves the fair, and even if you’re not into rides, how can you say no to fair food? The carnival aesthetic is a lot of fun to play with — saturated colors and novelty lights can take you a long way, and a Ferris wheel statue would be great. Of course, the centerpiece of this theme is the food! Rent decorative machines if you can, and serve caramel corn, corn dogs, and more. For an added splash, serve drinks topped with cotton candy.\n\n![Cotton Candy Cocktail](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/9LOxLRXh7LGoVzfOdIKVn/33423d89b2f7cee1c9a82c01b4babb58/Cotton_Candy_Cocktail.jpg) Photo by [Johann Trasch](https://unsplash.com/@cocktailbart)\n\n### 37. Beach Bash\nBeach themes are a bridal shower favorite. Subtle colors, seashells, and elegant candles can really elevate this theme if you’re looking for something more sophisticated or romantic. Of course, you can always plan a beach party with a pool, fun shades, and plenty of games.\n\n![7-bridal-shower-themes-beach-bash (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6bDCsVEIx3W5IVLzxiGJ5P/9172793b112dcf2b1526468f47c83b7e/7-bridal-shower-themes-beach-bash__1_.jpg)\nPhoto by [Amanda Hedgepeth](http://www.amandahedgepethphotography.com/)\n\n### 38. Tropical Luau\nA tropical bridal shower is the perfect way to bring fun, sun, and the tropics to your party. Plan a party by the pool with fruity drinks, beach decor, and fun inflatables that double as photo props. Pool parties are great for large guest lists and as a theme for a couple’s shower.\n\n![Bridal Shower Themes](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/29TdexcZKU8OFodcAPVQM4/b7a0a7fe5448fc084caa500fad553bc4/zola-1680x1060.jpg)\nPhoto by [Meagan Gibson](https://www.meagangibsonphotography.com/ \"Source: Meagan Gibson Photography\")\n\nWhether you’re hosting a throwback bash or a comfortable night in, your guests will be happy to receive their __[invites](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop)__, so choose the bridal shower theme that suits you best. Once you have your theme and decor ideas, the fun (and the countdown to the big day can really begin! So get to planning, add some fun __[printable games or activities](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/free-bridal-shower-printables)__, and enjoy your perfect party.","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-10-03T19:35:00.980Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding shower","slug":"wedding-shower"},"slug":"bridal-shower-traditions-updated","title":"7 Bridal Shower Traditions, Updated ","excerpt":"Bridal showers are great celebrations but they could use some updating. Bring your bridal shower traditions into modern times with our guide to updating the traditional bridal shower.","author":"McCall Minnor","publishedAt":"2019-10-15T16:32:47.960Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6vfYcGpnDLIGFdgeLZ9F2c/b59c2ca2f2e6e3c2dd505a2b1ecbc00b/HERO_Unsplash_1080x720__1_.jpg","altText":"bridal shower gifting tradition"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"While a [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers) is a generous gesture from loved ones, we can’t deny that some aspects of the celebration can be awkward and outdated. That’s not to say you shouldn’t have one—those closest to you want to celebrate you and you should let them. You may just prefer to put your own more modern spin on things. Here are a few common bridal shower traditions and easy ways to update them for a party that truly fits your vibe. \n\n## The Tradition: It’s just for women.\nTraditionally, a bridal shower is a pre-wedding celebration thrown in honor of the bride, during which guests “shower” her with gifts. It usually takes place during the day, is women-only, and is thrown by a woman close with the bride.\n\n__The Update:__ More and more couples are choosing instead to have a [coed wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/coed-wedding-shower) that includes everyone: both partners and both sets of friends and family. This way there’s much more wiggle room in terms of activities and the theme. Plus, including both partners is a practical and thoughtful way to celebrate both people and also bring family and friends together ahead of the wedding. \n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/532VVdWGgxiLyK341ZcdQ7/749150933cb579d72591628987db3df9/INLINE__Unsplash_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## The Tradition: It happens less than two months before the wedding.\nUsually, the bridal shower is held just before the wedding: about 2-8 weeks out. Older etiquette suggests that this is to prevent your wedding festivities from spanning more than a few months, thus inconveniencing guests.\n\n__The Update:__ While it’s considerate to keep your guests in mind, having your shower within this time frame might just not work. It’s also possible that you don’t want to have your shower so close to your ceremony, regardless of any other reason. Giving yourself more time between the two occasions allows you the opportunity to open and sort through gifts, send thank you notes, and, honestly, just relax a little. It’s a lot to go event-for-event. Choose a time that works best for you and (most of) your guests.\n\n## Tradition: It’s a feminine daytime event.\nThe traditional bridal shower is a brunch party, afternoon tea, or another daytime affair. And it’s likely to include small appetizers and desserts, beverages like mimosas, and typically feminine decor. \n\n__The Update:__ Your bridal shower or coed wedding shower doesn’t need to fall within any kind of themed parameters—and it doesn’t need to be a brunch either. Your shower can—and should—take on any form that best suits you (or you and your partner). Hire a local bartender and have a cocktail hour mixology class. Spend a weekend at the beach or spa. Wine tastings, cooking classes, hiking, art lessons—all acceptable. When it comes down to it, your shower should be an event you’ll enjoy. No one will care if it’s in the evening or not at someone’s home, so long as you’re celebrating with one another.\n\n## Tradition: You play games.\nGames are almost always included in the traditional bridal shower itinerary. Common bridal shower games include gift bingo, a toilet paper wedding dress competition, and newlywed questions.\n\n__The Update:__ While many enjoy these specific—and admittedly cheesy—games, they’re by no means required. If you’d rather skip couple’s trivia and spend time doing just about anything else, do that. If you still like the idea of Say you’d still like to gather everyone together to do something. No problem. Opt instead for a non-shower themed group activity (remember that fun mixology class idea we mentioned before?).\n\n## Tradition: Gifts are mandatory—and you open them in front of everyone.\nEveryone invited to a bridal shower is expected to bring a gift for the bride or couple (if it’s a wedding shower). The bride or couple then open each gift in front of their guests.\n\n__The Update:__ Let’s be honest—there’s ample opportunity to receive gifts throughout your engagement and wedding. Between the engagement party, wedding shower, bachelor or bachelorette parties, and wedding, guests may feel pressured to give multiple times. If this isn’t something you’re comfortable with (or if you simply don’t have room for a lot of gifts), feel free to tell guests to skip gifts. \n\nIf you do, however, include gifts in your shower, don’t feel pressure to open them in front of everyone. Let [your guests](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/invite-to-wedding-shower) know that you won’t be opening them during the party—or simply don’t mention it at all. Send thank you notes no more than a week after the party, though!\n\n![INLINE Zola 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/FyJVw92zu27pIrPVJqOid/1a745129b8eedb7f1ce847593d12c4ef/INLINE_Zola_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Zola\n\n## Tradition: Someone creates a ribbon bouquet.\nThe Tradition: Traditionally, while you’re unwrapping presents at a bridal shower, someone else is collecting the ribbons and bows and fashioning them into a bouquet. This bouquet is then to be used for practice during your wedding rehearsal.\n\n__The Update:__ Feel free to cut this tradition out entirely—especially if you don’t plan on opening gifts in front of everyone. While the sentiment is nice, you really can just use another bouquet of flowers (or nothing) during your rehearsal.\n\n## Tradition: Your fiancé brings flowers at the end\nOlder tradition suggests that your fiancé should show up towards the end of the party, to “surprise” you with flowers. This is considered a sweet way to included them into the festivities (and help you load gifts into the car). Often, the fiancé will show up thirty minutes to an hour before the shower is over and sometimes participate in games.\n\n__The Update:__ Whether your spouse to-be is busy (they might be at their own party) or wants to leave the shower to you, there’s no reason they need to make an appearance. Your shower is yours, after all, and maybe they’d rather avoid the spotlight. You can still have them show up to help relocate gifts, just wait until everyone has left and you’re heading out. On the other hand, if you’d like your partner to be more involved, consider making the entire thing co-ed.\n\nIn the end, your wedding shower is meant to celebrate you and your upcoming marriage. Don’t worry yourself with what’s expected of a typical party. Focus on having a good time and getting excited for the main event—your wedding! We can toast to that.","tag":"List","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Fill your bachelor party with groom-approved activities. 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","title":"A Guide to Bachelor Parties","slug":"a-guide-to-bachelor-parties","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6xYvE1cGvmqiEWoqyMSoy0/c820939acd9d2ea06c136a83dc1d8a41/Hero_VentolaPhotography.jpg","altText":"groom and groomsmen"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"We have all the Q&As on bridal shower thank you messages, complete with ideas and examples of what to write. 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Find guides, practical advice, and inspiration for the different types of shower celebrations."},"topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events","description":"Leading up to a wedding, there are many different parties and events couples can choose to throw. The list of wedding events includes (but isn't limited to) engagement party, bridal or wedding shower, bachelor and bachelorette parties, rehearsal dinner, and sometimes a farewell brunch. Of course, it's up to you which parties you'll include in your wedding celebrations. Our articles and guides help you decide which parties are right for you and help you plan the perfect events!","subtopics":[{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Engagement party","slug":"engagement-party"},"slug":"pre-wedding-events-guide","title":"Guide to All Wedding Parties & Events","excerpt":"We created a guide to all the different pre-wedding, post-wedding, and wedding-related events so you can decide what you’ll include as part of your wedding.","publishedAt":"2022-04-13T18:06:06.745Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5uuVJB4T2Ib4wDoicjCgbZ/9b21dc45e3155dd604137c1bf2a53c2a/Hero_1.jpg","altText":"Circular image of friends toasting with champagne glasses and sparkling lights"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Years ago, once couples got engaged, they had two celebrations to look forward to—the bridal shower and the rehearsal dinner. Although those traditions remain, as time has moved on, couples have become more creative with the addition of other events. No matter your reasoning for including extra celebrations in your wedding festivities schedule, seize the opportunity to gather with family and friends. Here’s our ultimate guide to all the different kinds of [parties and events](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events) you can include in your [wedding timeline](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist).\n\n## Engagement party\n\nThe question gets popped, a ring is placed on your finger, and it’s time to celebrate with loved ones. Ideally, an [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party) takes place within the first month of the proposal, but if your schedule prevents that timeline, do it whenever is most convenient.\n\nSince this is generally a more intimate celebration, hosting anything from a casual backyard barbecue with lawn games and a [small guest list](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-do-you-invite-to-an-engagement-party) to a more upscale dinner gathering is appropriate. \n\nIf your interest is piqued, there are more [engagement party ideas here](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-ideas).\n\nWho hosts the engagement party depends on your take on the event. If you and your future spouse want to have family and friends gather to [meet each other](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/introduce-families-after-engagement), feel free to host. However, if you’re going to be hands-off, have someone close, such as a sibling or parent, orchestrate the event.\n\n__Expert advice:__ Unless your wedding will be very small or a destination wedding, only invite people who will also be guests on your wedding day. \n\nSee all of our [engagement party articles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/engagement-party) for more expert tips.\n\n![Craig Adderley - Pre-wedding events](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5GFhw3on6e3FyKap4ONlH7/1b4acace342fc222441fc06c9f64c8a4/Inline_1.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Craig Adderley\n\n## Wedding showers\n\nOnce referred to as a bridal shower, today’s [wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-bridal-shower-and-what-is-its-purpose) is more inclusive than its formerly women-only predecessor ([read more about the difference here](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one)). While you can keep it to just the ladies if you’d like, the main focus of this event is to shower the happy couple with gifts, which can take on several forms. Guests can bring items off the [couple’s registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry), or the event can be [themed](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-themes). Think of giving articles related to experiences or stocking the couple’s bar.\n\nIt’s probably best to let someone else handle the hosting and inviting for your [wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-shower-guide). But that doesn’t mean you need to be hands-off. Talk to your sibling, best man, maid of honor, or parent—all appropriate choices for hosting a shower—about a theme and what type of gifts you’d like. Invite close friends and family members, and hold the event two to three months before the wedding. Do it at someone’s home or somewhere else that gives off intimate, celebratory vibes.\n\n### So, then, what is a bridal shower?\n\nA traditional [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers) celebrates the bride and is a gathering of her closest friends and family, typically all female. It’s often thrown by the bride’s side of the family and her bridal party, but it has evolved into an “anything goes” event for cost responsibility. The key difference here is that the focus is on the bride.\n\n### What is a Jack and Jill party?\n\nA Jack and Jill party is a modern, inclusive way to celebrate both sides of the couple at once before the big day. It mixes sides and genders and is usually more laid back in a way more and more couples are choosing. It’s a chance to celebrate the couple together with everyone they love. If your coed curious, read more about the [pros and cons of having a coed wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/coed-wedding-shower).\n\n__Expert advice:__ Find [wedding or bridal shower invitations](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/bridal-shower/shop) of all styles on Zola. You can even match them to your [wedding invites](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop)! \n\nFor more expert tips, explore all of our [wedding shower articles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/wedding-shower).\n\n## Bach parties\n\nToday’s couples have reframed the bachelor or bachelorette party to be more classy while still partying and making memories with people they are close to. Think about inviting your bridal party, siblings, and close friends—as long as they don’t feel stilted by not being asked to be an attendant.\n\nIt’s perfectly appropriate for you to host this event yourself. Your wedding party can also take the reins. Often, bachelor and bachelorette parties have everyone pay their own way, especially if you jet-set out of town for a long weekend. That said, this pre-wedding celebration is more about getting together and being festive than major expenses. So, feel free to be flexible so everyone involved can celebrate leading up to your wedding day.\n\n### Bachelorette parties\n[Bachelorette parties](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bachelorette-parties) celebrate the bride-to-be and can be anything from an elevated brunch, a night on the town, or weekend away somewhere festive. Most importantly, they should reflect the bachelorette’s personality and wishes and be a gathering of her nearest and dearest. \n\nRead our full [guide to planning a bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bachelorette-party) for more deets. \n\n### Bachelor parties\n\n[Bachelor parties](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bachelor-party) honor, you’ve guessed it — the bachelor. It’s basically just a gathering of the groom’s best friends and family spending time together. Normally, they do what the groom enjoys most whether it be sports, hiking, the casino — anything goes. \n\nCheck out [47 bachelor party ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelor-party-ideas) to find something for every groom.\n\n### Joint Bachelor/Bachelorette parties\n\nBrides, grooms, and same-sex couples looking for ways to celebrate together might opt for a joint bachelor/bachelorette party. ‘Bachelorx’ as some call it, is much more than a coed party – it's a fun and inclusive way to focus pre-wedding festivities on the couple as a whole. \n\nCheck out [how to throw a joint bach party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/joint-bachelor-bachelorette-party-games) for the step-by-step. \n\n__Expert advice:__ Get answers to all of your bach party questions, from theme ideas to planning guides to gift inspiration. Find everything [bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/bachelorette-party) or [bachelor party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/bachelor-party) in our expert advice sectionon. \n\n![Melike Benli - Pre-wedding events](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5z3OG5MnN3cpIavaOqAcrX/0b0cc0586ce31c6d2b89c163a6a6ef16/Inline_2.jpg)*Photo Credit* // Melike Benli\n\n## Aufruf\n\nJewish culture has many celebrations, such as Hanukkah and Yom Kippur, but a wedding-centric event that many look forward to is the Aufruf. Yiddish for “calling up,” the Aufruf is traditionally only meant for the groom, although in more modern synagogues, both partners can participate. The entire congregation takes part in this pre-wedding tradition, which happens at the temple the Saturday before the wedding.\n\nDuring the ceremony, the groom will give a blessing over the Torah. Inviting friends and family to the service is appropriate since this is a public display. However, dash all thoughts of the Aufruf being solemn. Sometimes, the rabbi will give the couple candy, signifying a sweet union and fruitfulness throughout the marriage. Some folks will also schedule a post-Aufruf meal to continue the festivities, depending on the circumstances. Additionally, the Aufruf is not to be confused with Shabbat Chatan, which is also for the groom but takes place after the big day.\n\n## Mehndi party\n\nBorrowing beautiful influences from Hindu and [Muslim traditions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/muslim-wedding-checklist), the mehndi party is a unique way to celebrate while focusing on self and practicing ancient rituals. Also known as a henna party, this event is generally held by the bride’s parents and involves placing beautiful, intricate designs on the bride’s hands and feet using henna dye.\n\nToday’s celebrations often include other close family members and friends of the bride. Because these events can take hours—depending on how many henna artists are available and the intricacy of the designs—hosting at a spa, home, or Airbnb can be a nice touch. Henna also darkens over time, so if you’d like to have these designs on your hands and feet for your wedding day, it’s best to have henna applied three days beforehand to allow the natural ink to darken.\n\n## Welcome party \n\nIf you’re having a [destination wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/destination-wedding-checklist) (or a [wedding weekend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/plan-wedding-weekend) people are traveling in for), it’s customary to have some form of welcome reception when your guests arrive at the wedding location. \n\nThis differs from the rehearsal dinner—which typically happens the night before the wedding and only hosts the bridal party and your closest family. \n\nA wedding welcome party can be as casual as welcome drinks or a barbecue once everyone arrives and settles in. It can also be as extravagant as your budget and style preferences allow. Just remember that it’s optional. \n\n## Sangeet \n\nOften celebrated in India, sangeet is all about merriment with many family and friends. As a result, the number of folks invited to sangeet will often outnumber the wedding reception. Folks get together to party — sing, dance, eat, drink — before the big day to showcase their support for the couple and gather with those they haven’t seen in a while. Because this is a large celebration, hosts can often vary and may depend on the number of guests invited.\n\nBecause of the higher guest count, hosting should happen at a [wedding venue](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue) or another location that can hold many people. Although, sometimes, the sangeet will include a smaller number of guests. When it comes to pre-wedding events, sangeets are one of the most flexible, meaning that the location, who hosts, and its proximity to the wedding day can all vary. However, one thing sangeets have in common is the presence of music, which is no wonder since the word means “music” in Sanskrit.\n\n## Rehearsal dinner \n\nThe [rehearsal dinner](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/unique-rehearsal-dinner-ideas) follows your wedding rehearsal, in which your officiant or wedding planner guides you and everyone involved through your wedding ceremony. Along with these people, it’s nice to [invite any close family members](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-to-invite-to-a-rehearsal-dinner) who are wedding guests, as well as those traveling in. \n\nAs expected, the rehearsal dinner is usually the evening before your wedding. As such, it’s best to host it somewhere close to the wedding venue. Choose a restaurant close by or see if your ceremony venue has a space that is not already dedicated to your wedding reception.\n\n## Wedding party/bridal luncheon \n\nIt’s always great to get together with your wedding party. Plus, if you’re a groom who wants to hold a groomsmen’s brunch, go for it! Traditionally, a bridesmaids or wedding party luncheon or brunch is a meal for bridesmaids and/or groomsmen focused on socializing the [wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-many-people-in-wedding-party). Breaking the ice before the big day is a fantastic way to set the tone. \n\nThe bridesmaids’ brunch usually takes place at a restaurant, café, or loved one’s home. If you’d like to host this event, feel free to take the reins. As for when it takes place, that comes down to your personal preference and everyone’s schedules. If everyone is local, picking a date should be simple, but if a few are long-distance, the event may have to take place closer to your [wedding day](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-planning-101/wedding-day).\n\n## After party \n\nJust because the DJ has played the last song and the lights have come up doesn’t mean the party has to be over. It’s becoming more and more common for couples to host an after party that is, quite literally, after the party. \n\nThis after-hours event usually involves extra cocktails and snacks, is in a different location than the reception itself, and can help to keep the party going. And going, and going. Find the best DJs and live bands for your after party on [Zola’s Vendor Marketplace](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-bands-djs).\n\n## Farewell brunch \n\nThe final culminating event of a wedding celebration is the [farewell brunch](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/fun-post-wedding-brunch-invitation-ideas). It can be hosted by the couple, the families, a close relative, or anyone else who offers. It’s typically reserved for guests who’ve spent the night in a designated hotel or resort.\n\nThe farewell brunch gives your guests a chance to regroup, enjoying breakfast and coffee before heading on their merry way. It’s not a mandatory event, but it’s definitely nice to have for both the couple and their guests. As a result, it’s a relatively easy way to put the cherry on top of a great wedding. \n\n## Final thoughts on extra wedding events\n\nAs you can see, weddings can be as simple as the ceremony and reception itself. Or can be a true series of parties and events that lead up to and even continue after the wedding itself. There are no obligations or limits to the amount of wedding fun you can have.\n\nOthers want to honor and celebrate you—both on and before your big day. Incorporating one or more of these wedding festivities gives you more opportunities to spend time and celebrate with everyone you love. The best part? You don’t have to get overwhelmed with planning everything when you’ve got Zola on your team. Get instant access to our full suite of free wedding planning tools when you [sign up](https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard/wedding-planning).","tag":"List","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Need to know what delectable delights are right for you and your guests? Here are our tips for planning your bridal shower menu.","title":"Top 20 Bridal Shower Food Ideas","slug":"what-food-to-serve-at-your-bridal-shower","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"How To","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1BOn3idAlUsoOONoa9Hrnm/5cdf2e6d3ed2fe2a5ec6913261d1ba8a/Hero_Unsplash_MaddiBazzocco.jpg","altText":"Food to Serve at Your Bridal Shower"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Follow these step-by-step instructions for how to plan an engagement party to achieve guaranteed hosting success. ","title":"The Ultimate Guide to Plan an Engagement Party","slug":"how-to-plan-an-engagement-party","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6gsqs04WfHnnZR5YSUGvch/ac4778019adadb17d985dc84e1ef3aff/Brand_Book_Yeti_03.jpg","altText":"Yeti cooler filled with bottles of sparkling rose wine and glasses filled with wine in the background"},"type":"articlePage"}],"updatedAt":"2024-03-06T08:57:12.486Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Engagement party","slug":"engagement-party"},"slug":"how-to-plan-an-engagement-party","title":"The Ultimate Guide to Plan an Engagement Party","excerpt":"Follow these step-by-step instructions for how to plan an engagement party to achieve guaranteed hosting success. ","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2019-02-02T03:36:20.747Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6gsqs04WfHnnZR5YSUGvch/ac4778019adadb17d985dc84e1ef3aff/Brand_Book_Yeti_03.jpg","altText":"Yeti cooler filled with bottles of sparkling rose wine and glasses filled with wine in the background"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com","body":"If you’re throwing an [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-an-engagement-party) for a newly engaged couple, you might feel a tad overwhelmed by the pressure to pull off a perfect soirée. After all, this might be the very first event that the pair has attended as an engaged couple, and the first in a series of celebrations leading up to their actual wedding. And since this party is being held in their honor, the couple might have high expectations as they ride the giddy high of being newly engaged. \n\nBut if you’ve hosted other parties in the past, then never fear: putting together an engagement party is a lot like planning a typical luncheon or mixer. If you need help with themes or inspiration, check out these [engagement party ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-ideas). Follow these step-by-step instructions on engagement party planning to achieve guaranteed hosting success. \n\n## What is an Engagement Party?\nBefore jumping into planning, let’s cover the basics. Namely, what an engagement party is and the purpose it serves. Just as the name implies, an engagement party is a party thrown to celebrate and congratulate a couple on getting engaged. It usually takes place soon after an engagement and can also serve to introduce loved ones that may be seeing a lot more of each-other between now and the wedding (say, at a bridal shower, rehearsal dinner, and on the big day). Think workplace friends and family members that haven’t met before.\n\nEngagement parties are traditionally thrown by the bride’s family, but modern couples can choose to host theirs themselves, as well as a variety of loved ones.\n\nIf you happen to be hosting, follow the below steps to ensure the engagement party runs smoothly and is an all-around success. \n\n![engagement-party-cheers](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NcBqknXzNb74xgrcfF7FI/e5144796ec84fab5228489d88e2dcd7c/engagement-party-cheers.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### 1. Decide Who Should Host The Engagement Party \nYour first step is to decide who will host. Traditionally, the bride’s parents host the engagement party, but nowadays anyone who feels compelled may throw this pre-wedding kickoff event. The couple themselves can even host their own engagement party, if they so choose. \n\nIf someone other than the bride’s parents plan to host, it’s a good idea to check in with them at the outset to make sure there are no stepped-on toes, and to confirm they are not also planning an engagement party. \n\nThat being said, having more than one engagement party is perfectly acceptable so long as the guest lists do not overlap beyond immediate family. Members of the wedding party can also be invited to both parties.\n\n### 2. Talk With The Couple About What Kind of Party They Want\nAs the party host, you are doing an act of kindness by throwing the pair an engagement party, and as such you have control over what kind of event you’d like to plan. However, getting the input of the couple ahead of time is always a good idea to make sure they will have a good time at the celebration in their honor. Do they want a daytime or an evening affair? Would they prefer something very casual, like a backyard BBQ, or something a tad fancier like a cocktail party? How large or small a party would they prefer? Ask them about their preferred engagement party themes, locations, and times before setting anything in stone. \n\n### 3. Set The Date and Location for The Engagement Party\nConsult with the bride/groom to nail down a date that works for everyone’s schedules, including any VIP guests that the couple would like to attend (such as parents and siblings). An ideal engagement party date should be anywhere from a few weeks to a month or two after the proposal. Engagement parties should occur before any other pre-wedding celebrations, however. \n\nThe location of an engagement party can really vary based upon preference. Decide if you would like the party to be at a private home or in a public space: the house or yard of the couple, one of their families, or a standalone host are all good options, as are private rooms or sections of local restaurants and bars. \n\n### 4. Assign a Rough Engagement Party Budget\nHaving a financial total in mind will help inform the rest of your decisions and keep expectations in line. If you have more money to spend, you could consider hosting an intimate group at a sit-down restaurant or splurging on catering services that include servers and bartenders. If your budget is tight, everyone will still have a blast toasting the happy couple in a backyard or living room over burgers and beers. \n\n### 5. Make an Engagement Party Guest List\nYour next step is to create an engagement party guest list. Have the couple give you a list of people they’d like to invite—or, if you’re hosting your own party, sit down with your fiancé(e) and make this list together. Include names, emails, phone numbers, and mailing addresses for all guests, as this will make sending out engagement party invitations much easier. \n\nRemember that everyone invited to the engagement party should also be invited to the wedding. If you’re not yet sure who will make the cut for your wedding guest list, err on the side of safety and invite only those people you’re absolutely sure will receive a wedding invitation, such as: \n\n- The bride/groom’s parents\n- The bride/groom’s siblings\n- Members of the wedding party \n- Very close friends of the bride/groom who live in proximity to the party location\n- Close relatives of the bride/groom who live in proximity to the party location\n\n### 6. Order Invitations (or Create Digital Invites)\nIf the engagement party will be smaller and/or on the formal side, [paper invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-invite-ideas) are a classy way to share the news about the party with invited guests. To be safe, order custom paper invitations at least six weeks before the party date so you’ll have plenty of time to receive them and mail them out. For less formal engagement parties, or those with larger guest lists, digital invitations work perfectly fine. \n\nSend invitations through the post or by email at least three weeks from the party date. Be sure to include the following information on the invitation: \n\n- The occasion, including the names of the bride(s)/groom(s)\n- The date, time, and location of the party\n- Suggested attire and/or an indication of formality\n- An RSVP method (either phone, email, or digitally for online invitations)\n- An RSVP deadline\n\n### 7. Register for Gifts \nBe sure the couple has set up a [Zola Wedding Registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) by the time the invitations are sent out. Although not required, it’s customary for guests to bring a gift for the happy pair. Registering early—before the engagement party–will ensure that guests can shop for, and the couple will receive, gifts that they truly want. \n\n![How Many Gifts to Register for Your Wedding](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1E1cy3nyuGNZUdTe31hinD/afbc1b096a4467d02b36e839dab7019a/inline_zola_lecreuset_lecreuset_16pc_dinnerware_set_carribean_01.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Zola\n\n### 8. Create The Menu and Order Catering, if Necessary \nCome up with a plan for what type of food will be served. If you’re throwing the engagement party at a restaurant, work with the event staff to create a menu that fits your budget. If you’re partying at a home, decide whether you are up to the challenge of cooking the party food yourself or whether you’ll need to hire a caterer, based upon the extravagance and size of the menu. \n\nIf you opt to have the party catered, research and hire a local caterer that can execute your menu ideas within your budget. Be sure to get a price quote and confirm delivery, setup, and service details so there are no surprises.\n\nIf the hosts are handling the food themselves, map out a timeline for when to shop for ingredients and supplies, when to prep, when to cook, and when to plate and serve the food. \n\n### 9. Choose a List of Beverages and/or Specialty Drinks to Serve\nThe kind of drinks you serve at an engagement party vary depending on the party’s location, theme, mood, and menu. It’s a great idea to find out what kinds of beverages the couple enjoys so you can be sure to choose a bar menu that reflects their tastes. Here are a few tips when it comes to drinks for an engagement party: \n\n- Be sure to stock up on plenty of bubbly! Engagement parties are prime occasions for lots of toasting and champagne-sipping. \n- Decide on one or two specialty cocktails that can be prepared in bulk in advance. This will cut down on the amount of time you or another host will need to spend making drinks for guests throughout the night. It’s a cute touch to include the couple’s favorite drink(s), either individually or together.\n- Buy bottles of wine, liquor, beer, mixers, sparkling water, mineral water, and/or juice at bulk retailers for better discounts. \n- Don’t forget bar accessories like festive straws, cocktail napkins, bottle openers, and cut lemons and limes.\n\n### 10. Decide Upon The Party Décor, and Shop for Any Needed Supplies\nAs we’ve said before, pretty much anything goes when it comes to the theme and formality of engagement parties. Come up with a few, key decorative elements to match the party vibe you’re going for, and shop for them now. This may include fresh flowers in pretty vessels, candles, garlands, balloons, framed photos of the couple, or anything else that coordinates with the look and mood you’ve got in mind. \n\n### 11. Stock Up on Partyware Essentials, such as: \n- Disposable plates, cups, and utensils\n- Napkins and table linens\n- Trash bags\n- Paper towels and stain remover, in case of spills \n- Ice & ice cooler\n\nOf course, if the engagement party is located at an event space, restaurant, or bar, some or all of these items might be covered by the venue. \n\n### 12. One Day Before, Set up as much as Possible (Based on the Location), Including: \n- Décor\n- The bar table/area\n- The gifts table/area\n- Make-ahead food & drink items \n\n### 13. On The Day of The Party: \n- Prep all the final details\n- Get dressed in your finest party clothes\n- Get to the party location a few hours early to finish setting everything up\n- Raise a glass to the happy couple and enjoy a wonderful engagement party! \n\n![Bachelor Party Decoration Must-Haves](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2DYhO5jGlyykOqqLbxDlJr/6be910a8d8b23887782859575b587b1d/inline_shutterstock2.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Shutterstock\n\n## Engagement Party Etiquette\nWith the steps of planning an engagement party covered, let’s walk through some [etiquette](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party). While putting the event together is one thing, there are a few courtesies worthy of reminders. Whether you’re unsure of who pays for what or who all gets invited, read on.\n\n### When should an engagement party be thrown?\nTypically, engagement parties take place fairly soon after an engagement, allowing everyone to celebrate in a timely matter. That being said, if you’re having a longer engagement or can’t gather everyone that soon, a small push back usually isn’t a problem.\n\n### Who’s invited to an engagement party?\nAs mentioned previously, anyone who’s invited to your engagement party should also be someone you plan on inviting to your wedding. This goes for all pre-wedding events, such as bach bashes, bridal brunches, and showers. If you aren’t sure of your full guest list yet, keep it to your family and closest friends.\n\n### Can a couple have more than one engagement party?\nIn short, yes. In fact, this is fairly common for couples with different hometowns and/or groups of friends who might also want to throw you something a bit more informal (e.g. after-work drinks or a smaller weekend get-together).\n\n### How should you go about a gift registry?\nWhile it’s a good idea to have a registry with a decent amount of items prepared, it isn’t in good etiquette to suggest that a gift is require (e.g. putting the link on the party invitations). Rather, if you’ve already created your wedding website, connect it to that. Otherwise, rely on word of mouth.\n\n### Who should meet before the engagement party?\nOne good reason to throw an engagement party is to allow people who will be seeing more of each other leading up to the wedding to meet. That being said, this isn’t the time or place for everyone to meet for the first time. Both sets of parents—as well as any close siblings—should meet prior, in a more intimate setting that allows them to comfortably talk at length.\n\nWedding planning often consists of putting together several celebratory events leading up to the big day. Keep this to-do list top-of-mind to ensure you pull of a fun and successful engagement party. And if you find yourself in need of some help in other stags of wedding planning, [we’ve got you covered](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice).","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_InvitesPaper"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Plan a bachelorette party that will delight your bride-to-be with this this step-by-step planning timeline that covers everything you need to think about, plan for, and arrange in advance for a great bachelorette weekend. 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Craft heartfelt wishes that celebrate the bride-to-be in a special way.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2024-07-29T13:13-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1i6aeplGYDEzk7RquRxZ4K/388498136d2828ba63f64e25efd60cc2/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"What to write in a bridal shower card"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"__Inside this article:__\n\n- [Basic steps to writing a bridal shower card](#steps)\n- [General wedding shower card example](#sample)\n- [Simple shower card messages](#simple)\n- [What to write for a sister](#sister)\n- [What to write for a daughter-in-law](#daughter-in-law)\n- [What to write for a daughter](#daughter)\n- [What to write for a friend](#friend)\n- [What to write for a coworker](#coworker)\n- [Humorous bridal card messages](#card)\n- [Bridal shower quotes](#shower)","body":"__TLDR:__\n\n- A standard [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-vs-bridal-shower) card begins with congratulations, followed by compliments, personal stories, or encouragement, and ends with words of inspiration.\n- Keep things light or go super-sentimental, but remember the best bridal shower cards are personalized and come from the heart.\n- Don’t be afraid to use templates or examples for inspiration when writing a card for a daughter-in-law, sister, coworker, or friend.\n\n## Let's get to writing that bridal shower card\nLucky you—you’ve been invited to a [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-themes)! As you prepare to attend this festive pre-wedding party, you should be thinking of ways to help “shower” the bride-to-be with love, support, and encouragement on her route towards married life. \n\nA shower is supposed to be a special moment of togetherness for the bride where, surrounded by her closest family and friends, she’s able to forget about the stress of wedding planning and revel in the excitement of what lies ahead. However, you may find yourself wondering what to write in a bridal shower card. Yikes!\n\nBy following Zola's simple outlines of what to write, you’ll be sure to craft the perfect message. You could simply say, \"happy bridal shower,\" but there are so many other options to write in a bridal card. We're sure you can't wait to celebrate!\n\nAs a bridal shower guest, you can help her achieve these warm-and-fuzzy feelings by writing a lovely bridal shower message in a card attached to your gift. Below, find details and examples to help you to craft the perfect sentiment.\n\n![woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3kANG3FP0QuuQxkSb1vXSo/04ac6084f0e2c735c5a63d07f2e11f22/woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card.jpg)\n\n## How to write bridal shower card: basic steps\n\nWhile you should feel empowered to write whatever feels natural to you in your card, here are a few elements of a standard [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-traditions-updated) message that should make it easy for you to fill up that white space. Remember, the most important thing is to craft a message that feels personal, genuine, and reflects both your and the bride’s personalities and relationship. Celebrate the couple's true love and let them know they deserve all the happiness life has in store.\n\n__1. Begin with congratulations:__ Open your bridal shower message with the most basic of social graces. Offer your congratulations on her upcoming marriage, on finding the love of her life, on making it this far through wedding planning… whatever you feel she’ll appreciate the most.\n\n__2. Make her feel great:__ Offer the bride-to-be a compliment that will guarantee she feels amazing. You could tell her how beautiful she’ll look on her wedding day, or boost her confidence about the stellar choices she’s already made with the wedding details.\n\n__3. Share something personal:__ Perhaps you have a great memory about the beautiful bride that reflects her character strengths, the depth of your friendship, or how special her relationship is to her future spouse. The best card messages are the ones that feel thoughtful and unique, so don’t be afraid to get personal and write something from the heart.
\n\n__4. Offer encouragement:__ Since she’s about to embark on a major life journey, be sure to include well-wishes for her and her partner for a lifetime of happiness. Let her know you want her to have a wonderful and successful marriage ahead.\n\n__5. End with words of inspiration:__ Wrap up your bridal shower message with an uplifting thought, a piece of advice, or a quotation that leaves a lasting impression on the power of love and the beautiful, magical journey she’s about to take. \n\n## Bridal shower message example\n\nStaring at a blank card with a pen in hand? Lose your fear and get started by following this example of a bridal shower card message:\n\n*Dear Lauren,*\n\n*Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! I know you are going to make an absolutely stunning bride, and I simply can’t wait to see all of the beautiful wedding details that I know you’ve worked so hard to plan.*\n\n*I am so amazed and touched by the relationship you have created with Peter, and I know that the love you share runs very deep. From how you always encourage and support each other’s career goals, to the way you rock out on the dance floor together, I know you two will continue to find joy and strength in your shared love for years to come.*\n\n*I wish you nothing but a lifetime of laughter, happiness, and dance parties. As Gene Kelly said, “You dance love, and you dance joy, and you dance dreams.” Cheers to you and all the dancing to come! From your walk down the aisle, to the lifetime ahead, I'm excited to be part of your special day as you begin it together.*\n\n*Love,\nKate*\n\n![Creative Wedding Shower Invite Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5uwrWi9RcicSafmivDnAF3/2615a012fe6e66bc16954189d51980a7/INLINE_CreativeWeddingShowerInviteIdeas___.jpg)\n\n## Simple bridal shower messages\n\nSometimes less is more. Here are some examples of quick, simple messages to communicate your happy wishes.\n\n- So thrilled for you!\n- Cheers to a lifetime of love & happiness! You deserve it.\n- Congratulations on a wonderful partnership and years of happiness to come!\n- Showering you with the happiest of wishes!\n- Here’s to your special day! Thank you for letting me be a part of this joyous occasion.\n- Best wishes to you in this new chapter of your life!\n\n## Sample bridal shower wishes\nWhether you’re trying to keep things light, go super-sentimental, or remind the bride about your special relationship, there are tons of different bridal shower wishes you can share in your shower card. Get inspired with these sample messages for all types of moods and recipients. \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a sister\n\nA sister offers support and friendship, serves as a partner in crime, loans her favorite sweater, and knows the bride better than anyone else. A bridal shower card message should reflect the depth and nature of a sister-sister relationship, whether lighthearted or sentimental. \n- *My dear sister, can you believe this day has finally come? You have always been the sweetest little sister to me, and I can’t wait to watch you walk down the aisle. All my love, always!* \n- *From the time we used to play wedding in the backyard, to your many bad dates and terrible boyfriends I witnessed over the years, I am so thrilled that you’ve found the one to make you happy forever! You deserve all the happiness and love in the world.* \n- *Congratulations on being the most beautiful bride, sister, and friend in the world! I love you forever and am here for you always. Thank you for letting me be by your side throughout this wedding journey.*\n- *While I love Derek almost as much as I love you, we both know that the sister bond runs deep! Remember I have your back no matter what—but I know you will rock this marriage thing. Thank you for always being such a great big sister and role model. I love you!* \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a daughter-in-law\n\nWelcome your future daughter-in-law to the family and express your joy in continuing to build a relationship with her over the years to come. Feel free to share memories or thoughts about your son that would touch the bride’s heart.\n- *We are so lucky that our son has chosen you to be his lifelong partner! We can’t wait to see where love will take you both.* \n- *Welcome to the family! You are an incredible woman on your own, and we know you’ll make an even more incredible addition to our tribe. Congratulations!* \n- *I knew it would take a very special woman to serve as a match for Ash...and once I met you, I knew you were the one! I am so thrilled to welcome you into our family and wish the very best in all things for you both.* \n- *You are a stunning woman inside and out, and you will make a beautiful bride. We can’t wait for the big day and for all the years of love and togetherness that will follow.* \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a daughter\n\nWhat is more special than sending off a daughter into marriage? Share your heartfelt happiness, your advice on marriage, your memories of her as a child, and/or your wishes and hopes for the couple for the future in your bridal shower card. \n- *You fill my heart with light, and I am so thrilled that you have found someone to spend your life with. Congratulations on taking this next huge step!* \n- *My daughter, you’re an endless source of joy and love to me and your father, and I know Paul feels the same. Although you belong to each other now, we will always be here for you no matter what!* \n- *Every parent wants their child to find lifelong happiness, health, safety, and fulfillment—I know your future holds all these things and more with Jordan by your side. I couldn’t be more thrilled for you both, and can’t wait to see your love grow over the years!*\n- *Marriage is both an incredible blessing, and a lot of hard work. Through good times and bad, remember to be on the same team, listen as much as you talk, and never go to bed angry! Keep your love front and center, and I know you will have an incredible future together.* \n\n![mother-and-bride](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5hdzaDOVLWAJ92N9SUb7PF/cd6c9beea448954533c4d5c7430e0bd5/freshen-up-items.jpg)\n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a friend\n\nIf you’re writing a bridal shower card to [a friend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engaged-same-time-as-best-friend), let your message be personal and either funny or sweet (or both) depending on the nature of your friendship. Regardless of the tone, share your excitement for her big day, offer help or support as needed, and express your gratitude for being included. \n- *Congratulations! I am so happy for you both, and I know you will have the most amazing life together. Thanks for letting me share in the excitement!* \n- *As Beyoncé would say, may you always feel this “crazy in love.” Congratulations on a wonderful partnership and years of happiness to come!* \n- *Thank you so much for letting me take part in your celebration and “shower” you with love! Please let me know if there’s anything I can help you with leading up to the wedding.* \n- *Dear friend, I’m so glad you’ve found the one that makes your heart sing. I can’t wait to celebrate you both in a few months! Cheers to the most beautiful, smart, and kindest of brides.*\n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a coworker\n\nYou don’t have to go into great or complicated detail when writing a wedding shower card message to a coworker: keep it short, sweet, and simple. Offer your congratulations and share your enthusiasm and thanks for being included. \n- *I am so excited for you and Alex, and can’t wait for the big day! Thanks for including me in such a special celebration.* \n- *I remember the morning after your first date with Tom...you were glowing (and gushing!). I knew right then that you’d found your perfect match. I am so happy for you, and wish you both all the love in the world!* \n- *It’s clear that you and Taylor have a love that runs deep, and will last for a lifetime. Congratulations on your upcoming wedding and thank you for letting me play a small role in it! I’m so thrilled for you both.*\n- *As you make the transition from my “work wife” to a real wife, I know you will handle it with your characteristic grace, charm, and dedication. Congrats on this happy day, and best wishes for what’s to come!* \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card to be funny\n\nThere’s no rule that says you have to be serious when writing a shower card message. In all likelihood the bride will be reading a lot of heavy-handed and sentimental messages, so have some [fun with your words](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-write-in-a-wedding-card) to her… just be sure to keep things appropriate and respectful, of course. \n- *Best wishes for a lifetime of love, trust, and shared dishwashing duties!* \n- *You know I’m here for you no matter what, dear friend—even if that means tying ribbon around hundreds of tiny bottles of bubbles until 3 a.m. so that you can cross “wedding favors” off your to-do list. Happy wedding!* \n- *Wow, you’re getting married! Congratulations! Now that your love life is figured out, I expect you’ll have more time to help me figure out mine...kidding! But also, help me. Love you both and can’t wait for the wedding!* \n- *Congratulations on finding the match to your candle, the aloe to your sunburn, the Tabasco to your tacos. You two are a one hot match! Here’s to keeping the fire burning for years to come.* \n\n## Wedding shower quotes\n\nIf you’re coming up short on poetic ways to share your bridal shower wishes, don’t sweat. Talented wordsmiths have been talking about love and marriage for centuries, so let the pros express your thoughts for you with one of these bridal shower quotes. \n\n- “A happy marriage is a long conversation which always seems too short.” — Andre Marois\n- “True love is singing karaoke Under Pressure and letting the other person sing the Freddie Mercury part.” — Mindy Kaling\n- “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” — Mignon McLaughlin\n- “Who, being loved, is poor?” — Oscar Wilde\n- “Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.” — Maya Angelou\n- “If I had a flower for every time thought of you… I could walk through my garden forever.” — Alfred Tennyson\n- “Love is a two-way street constantly under construction.” — Carroll Bryant\n- “Every heart sings a song, incomplete, until another heart whispers back. Those who wish to sing always find a song. At the touch of a lover, everyone becomes a poet.” — Plato\n- “Sexiness wears thin after a while, and beauty fades. But to be married to a man who makes you laugh every day, now that’s a real treat.” — JoAnne Woodward\n- “Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.” — Emily Brönte\n- “Love is sharing your popcorn.” — Charles Schultz\n- “Before you marry a person, you should first make them use a computer with slow Internet service to see who they really are.” — Will Ferrell\n- \"To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe.\" — Anatole France\n- “I love being married. It's so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.” — Rita Rudner\n- \"Love must be as much a light as it is a flame.\" — Henry David Thoreau\n\n![Bridal Shower Registry and a Wedding Registry](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1EAKrUV9HfOuHzMJqB3SZL/43ba9cdf14f656eeafa3cf6899bfd85a/Hero_Zola__1_.jpg)\n\n## Ready to head to the wedding shower?\nNow that you know what to write in a bridal shower card, you may have other burning questions. Whether you're wondering what to give as a [bridal shower gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-shower-gifts) (\nhint: check their [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry)!) or need to know [what to wear](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-bridal-shower) to the event for the bride-to-be, Zola has you covered. From being a great [mother of the bride](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/mother-of-the-bride-duties) to [attending a wedding solo](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-attend-a-wedding-alone), Zola is here with expert advice for every step of the journey.\n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"This bridal shower guide will introduce you to the basics of bridal showers: traditional bridal shower etiquette (and which of those “rules” you can break), whom to invite, what to do, and who pays for it all.","title":"A Guide to Bridal Showers","slug":"a-guide-to-bridal-showers","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5o4uxtDjG6d4qgVGaLVrBU/16da092c9b0b80d7acca15ab930a1aef/A-Guide-to-Bridal-Showers.jpg","altText":"a bridal shower card labeled \"soon to be mrs.\" on the grass next to a few pastel-colored bridal shower cookies"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"If you’re hosting a bridal shower and need a little guidance, here’s a step-by-step planning timeline to help you figure out what you need to do, and in what order, to pull off a great party.","title":"How To Plan A Bridal Shower To Remember","slug":"how-to-plan-a-bridal-shower","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5AVNykInJuWweK0Imia8gM/632b15feafece7db3ce9f85ad7d3d0bf/Hero_New_Zola.jpg","altText":"woman in yellow dress holding antique tea cup with macaroons inside"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Find ideal attire for a bridal shower. 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Read our guide to gain insights on the average cost of a wedding cake this year.","title":"How Much Does the Average Wedding Cake Cost in 2025?","slug":"a-guide-to-wedding-cake-costs","topic":"Venues & vendors","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/ywuArPikb1BsvjvYzDQhn/24f27696b854c3c5a22eed69292c6c4b/Guide-to-Wedding-Cake-Costs-and-Price.jpg","altText":"Graphic of pink wedding cake with heart cake topper and price tag"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Dress to impress! Your go-to guide for wedding guest attire, from formal to casual. Find the perfect look for every dress code and celebration.","title":"Wedding Guest Attire: A Guide to Every Dress Code","slug":"what-to-wear-to-a-wedding","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5bgD1lwZNmIWCwyoiQgUI/abb4b34d02674b500f4edb610fb1eea6/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"wedding guests laughing with bride at wedding receptions"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-07-29T17:38:47.505Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding shower","slug":"wedding-shower"},"slug":"what-to-wear-to-a-bridal-shower","title":"What to Wear to a Bridal Shower as a Guest ","excerpt":"Find ideal attire for a bridal shower. Explore outfit ideas, styles, and tips to shine as you celebrate the bride-to-be's special day","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2018-12-14T15:19:13.906Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3jyBNag7G8oqQco0QaI2om/840a6c239ab9c319db87cd86af04841b/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"What to wear to a bridal shower"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding-photographers/marni-rothschild-pictures/","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- Pastels, neutrals, florals, and bright celebratory colors are the way to go. And if there’s going to be games opt to wear something comfortable.\n- Avoid wearing white, black, or anything that may detract from the wedding festivities.\n- Bridal showers can range from formality, location, and season, so be sure to dress to fit the occasion.\n","body":"Choosing an outfit for a bridal shower is really no different than choosing what to wear to any other party. You’ll want to match the formality and season, be comfortable, look great, and photograph well in whatever you choose to wear. \n\n## Basic Rules for Bridal Shower Fashion\n \nWhile bridal showers can vary in terms or formality & theme, there are some bridal shower looks that will always fit the vibe:\n- Dress to impress, even if the theme is casual\n- Wear pastels, neutrals and bright colors to match the celebratory tone of the occasion\n- Floral prints are a great go-to\n- Wear something comfortable in case there are bridal shower games\n- Accentuate a neutral dress or top with bold shoes or accessories\n\n### What NOT to Wear to a Bridal Shower\n \n1. Don’t wear white. This wedding guest rule of etiquette applies to bridal showers as well. Since the bride-to-be often wears white to her shower, you don’t want to seem like you’re competing for her spotlight.\n\n2. Don’t wear black. Your bridal shower look should be celebratory, festive, and happy—black is a bit too somber and/or “date night out” to wear to a bridal shower. If you’re set on dark colors, opt for a softer gray or navy. \n\n3. Don’t wear anything too tight, sexy, or revealing. A bridal shower is not the time to flaunt your, um, assets. Since the guest list is usually all women, and since this event is technically part of the wedding festivities, keep things buttoned up. \n\nBut since bridal showers can come in all shapes and sizes—no two are the same—deciphering the dress code can be tricky. To help you choose a perfectly appropriate and flattering ensemble, we’ve outlined suggestions below for what to wear to a variety of different types of bridal showers based on their location, season, and formality. \n\n \n## What to Wear to a Fancy Bridal Shower\nLook for clues on your invitation to tell if a bridal shower will be on the fancier side. Invitation wording is generally a good indicator of formality: if numbers and abbreviations are spelled out, or if phrases like “request the pleasure of your company” are used, this is probably going to be a more formal bridal shower. Also look to see if the invitation provides words about the dress code, such as “festive” or “cocktail attire.” \nFor fancier bridal showers at upscale venues like country clubs, hotels, or restaurants, opt for cocktail attire, such as: \n- A cocktail (i.e. knee-length) dress\n- A pair of flowy, silk pants, a blouse, and a jacket\n- A sparkly pencil skirt, dark tights, and a cashmere sweater\n- A pair of satin ankle-length pants, a velvet blazer, and heels \n- Include accessories such as: \n - More formal, glitzy jewelry (real or costume)\n - A clutch or small purse\n\n## What to Wear to a Casual Bridal Shower\n\nIf the bridal shower is more casual, keep your outfit polished and festive but tone down on the level of formality. For example, swap out heels for ballet flats, if you’ll be more comfortable, or go for daytime fabrics like cotton, wool, and denim. Here are some ideas: \n\n- A gingham wrap dress\n- A pair of nice jeans, a floral top, and a faux fur vest\n- A denim shirt dress with knee-high boots\n- A summery jumpsuit \n- Include accessories such as: \n - Delicate jewelry\n - A crossbody purse or leather satchel ","body2":"## What to Wear to a Backyard Bridal Shower\n\nBackyard bridal showers are by nature less formal, although it’s never safe to assume that a bridal shower at a private home is casual. It’s a good idea to check in with the host(s)—if you’re attending an elegant garden party for high tea, showing up in jeans and Pumas would be embarrassing. Here are a few ideas for put-together looks suitable for a variety of seasons: \n\n- A flowing sundress \n- A pair of colored chinos and a structured top\n- A pair of dark jeans, a boho blouse, and ankle booties\n- A pleated midi skirt, a nice tank, and a linen jacket \n- Include accessories such as: \n - A wide-brimmed sun hat\n - Sunglasses\n - Sandals or wedges\n\n## What to Wear to a Restaurant Shower\n\nWhat you should wear to a bridal shower that’s held in a restaurant is really determined by the type and formality of the restaurant. If it’s a casual barbecue joint with outdoor picnic tables, opt for similar ideas to the casual or backyard showers above. If it’s a white tablecloth kind of restaurant, match the ambiance with an outfit that’s classy and chic, such as: \n\n- A lace sheath dress \n- An off-the-shoulder maxi dress\n- Matching separates, like a satin jacket and pajama-style pants\n- High-waisted trousers with a tie-neck blouse\n- Include accessories such as: \n - Block heels\n - Bright lipstick \n\n## What to Wear to a Fall or Winter Bridal Shower\n\nStick to rich, warm, or dark colors for bridal showers in the fall and winter months. Think burgundy, rust, navy, gray, brown, taupe, and forest green. Most showers during these months will be indoors, so don’t worry too much about outerwear, but reflect the season with long sleeves and hemlines and heavier fabrics. Check out these ideas: \n\n- A turtleneck sweater dress, opaque tights, and over-the-knee boots \n- A long-sleeve wrap dress\n- Wide-leg wool pants and an embroidered sweater\n- A crisp button-down tucked into a full skirt \n- Include accessories such as: \n - Dressy boots\n - Long, layered necklaces\n\n## What to Wear to a Spring or Summer Bridal Shower\n\nBright, light colors—pastels and hot hues all the way—rule when it comes to what to wear to spring or summer bridal showers, as do florals and other summery prints like gingham, madras plaid, and seersucker. Lightweight cotton, silk, and linen feel cool and crisp. 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Grab a pen—it’s time to spread the love!","author":"Emily Forrest and Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2024-04-10T09:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5GlWzMJKN61eHNXPxPVuI0/777bc1e0c90ceed6c32544b05d5a8312/Bridal-Shower-Thank-You-Card-Etiquette.jpg","altText":"Zola wedding thank you card graphic"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"__Inside this article:__\n\n- Bridal shower thank you card etiquette\n- 3 Things to consider before writing bridal shower thank you cards\n- Bridal shower thank you template\n- Bridal shower thank you card wording examples\n- FAQs about bridal shower thank you messages\n- Trust Zola with your stationery needs","body":"At the [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers), your friends and family members “showered” you with love and generous presents. Now it’s time to let your loved ones know how much you loved celebrating with them—and how much you appreciate the beautiful gifts you received—with a heartwarming [thank you card](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop). The task is easier said than done, especially if you struggle translating gratitude into written bridal shower thank you messages.\n\nBut don’t let writing bridal shower thank you notes cause you undue stress: we have the answers to all your gratefulness-centric etiquette questions, complete with [wording ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-invitation-wording) for what to write on your [bridal shower card](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers). \nGrab a pen—and that stack of blank thank you cards—let’s get to writing.\n\nNeed help writing wedding thank you notes instead? See our guide on [how to word wedding thank you cards](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-write-wedding-thank-you-cards).\n\n## Bridal shower thank you card etiquette \n\nNavigating all the rules for writing a thank you note can be a bit overwhelming, especially when you’re in the throes of [planning your wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-wedding), too. But there’s no need to stress—we’ve broken down the most important things to know below.\n\n- Dos \n - Write the note by hand to express your thoughtfulness. \n - Use a blank [thank you card](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop). \n - Keep a record of who attended and gave a bridal shower gift. \n - Plan what you’re going to say before writing. \n\n- Don’ts\n - Write too much. \n - Be critical of the gift (or the lack of a gift). \n - Mention the specific amount given for monetary gifts. \n\n## 3 Things to consider before writing bridal shower thank you cards \n\nBefore you begin writing, there are a few key questions you should ask yourself that will make crafting your thank you note easier.\n\n### 1. What is your relationship to the guest?\n\nIf you’re close with the guest, such as a bridesmaid or your best friend, your message should be personal and heartfelt. However, if you don’t know the guest well or just met them for the first time, a short and sweet thank you note is fine.\n\n### 2. Do you send a bridal shower thank you for someone who didn’t attend?\n\nIf the guest was able to celebrate with you in person, make sure to mention this in your thank you note. If they could not attend, let them know how much you missed them, and acknowledge their gift, of course.\n\n### 3. Did the guest provide a gift? \n\nIf so, what was it? Bridal shower thank you notes are required for every guest that attended your bridal shower, whether they brought a present or not. However, if a guest did purchase a gift, it’s important to specifically mention it in your note (see more on this below). The same goes for guests who mailed a gift but were unable to attend the party.\n\n![Thank You Card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5j6S7jfWH2TYKe8CEEnABO/97c2cfac5062b573a3f13a09f3b050e6/Invites_Jan2019_14.jpg)\n\n## Bridal shower thank you template \n\nNext, let’s look at the basic anatomy of thank you notes for bridal showers. Sticking to these six simple steps will structure your bridal shower thank you message and help reduce time spent mulling over how you should express your gratitude. \n\n### 1. Address them using their name.\n\n- Audra\n- Mrs. Jones\n\n### 2. Thank them for their presence.\n\n- Thank you so much for celebrating with me at my bridal shower!\n- I’m so grateful that you could be there to join me on this special day.\n\n### 3. Thank them for the gift.\n\n- Thank you so much for the beautiful set of cheese knives.\n- We so appreciate our new set of wine glasses.\n\n### 4. Share what you love about their present.\n\n- They’ve been such a great addition to our weekly cheese and charcuterie date night.\n- We think about you every Saturday when we pour ourselves a glass of wine and work on planning our upcoming wedding.\n\n### 5. Show your appreciation for them as a person.\n\n- Your friendship means so much to us. Thanks again for your support as we journey into married life together.\n- It was so fun to see you at the shower. We can’t wait to continue the celebration with you at our wedding.\n\n### 6. Sign off.\n- With love, Finny & Spencer\n- Cheers, Lynne & Toby\n\n![Thank You Card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5j6S7jfWH2TYKe8CEEnABO/97c2cfac5062b573a3f13a09f3b050e6/Invites_Jan2019_14.jpg)\n\n## 8 Bridal shower thank you card wording examples \n\nTo get the ink flowing, check out these simple bridal shower thank you [wording examples](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-word-wedding-invitations) for how to word thank you notes for all kinds of situations.\n\n### 1. Thank you message for a registry gift\n\nDear Molly,\nThank you so much for coming to my bridal shower last Saturday! We’re so grateful for the beautiful tea towels you gave us. They already make a great addition to our kitchen.\nYour friendship means so much to us and we can’t wait to celebrate with you at the wedding in a few weeks.\nLove, Kieran & Tina\n\n### 2. Bridal shower thank you messages for cash gifts\n\nDear Aunt Diana,\nIt was a true delight to see you at the shower. Thank you so much for your generous gift. We’ve just booked a glass bottom boat ride during our upcoming honeymoon, thanks to you. We’ll tell you all about the experience when we see you this Thanksgiving!\nThanks again for the support you’ve shown us throughout our engagement. We look forward to hitting the dance floor with you on the big day.\nAll our love, Emma & Julian\n\n### 3. Thank you wording for a gift you exchanged, didn’t like, or was awkward\n\nDear Mila,\nHow wonderful to see you at the bridal shower! Thank you for the bagel toaster you gave us. It was very generous, and we appreciate you thinking of us.\nLooking forward to having you at the wedding next month. We know that many more great memories will be made with you there!\nLove, Tessa & Will\n\n### 4. Bridal shower thank you message for someone who didn’t give a gift\n\nDear Beatriz,\nThank you for celebrating with me at my shower! I hope that you had an amazing time. It was great to see you there and catch up.\nThank you again for being there to honor this special time with us. Can’t wait to see you at the wedding!\nLove always, Ronan & Adrienne\n\n### 5. Thank you wording for someone who didn’t attend but sent a gift.\n\nDear Goldie,\nThank you so much for the beautiful luggage. We’ve already used the carry-ons at our weekend getaway in New York last weekend, and we can’t wait to show off these stylish suitcases on our honeymoon to Italy this spring.\nWe missed you at the shower, but we are so excited to see you at the wedding. Thank you again for the thoughtful gift!\nLove, Rebecca & Hannah\n\n### 6. Bridal shower message for a close friend\n\nDear Susie,\nThank you for celebrating with me at the bridal shower. Toby and I appreciate the awesome French press and coffee beans you gave us. We can’t help but think of you every time we sip our morning brew.\nYou have no idea how much your love has meant to us over the years. It will make our day so special to have you in the crowd on the big day, and we’re excited to see you bust one of your famous moves on the dance floor!\nMuch love, Lynne & Toby\n\n### 7. Bridal shower thank you messages for formal acquaintances\n\nDear Mrs. Perdu,\nPlease accept our sincere thanks for the beautiful picture frames you gave us. They make a lovely addition to our mantle, and we are looking forward to using them to display our favorite memories in the years to come.\nIt meant so much to us that you could attend the shower. Your kindness is appreciated, and we look forward to seeing you at the wedding.\nSincerely, Finny & Spencer\n\n### 8. Thank you note for the bridal shower host\n\nDear Amar,\nWords can’t express how truly grateful we are for the shower you planned and hosted. From the balloon display to the delicious cake pops, every detail was perfect. None of it would have been possible without you. Thank you for always being such an amazing friend and for supporting us through every detail of planning our wedding. Having you in our lives has made this special time even more meaningful.\nWe can’t wait to have you join us as we exchange our vows and journey into married life. Thanks again for everything you do.\nWith love, Audra & Charles\n\n![woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3kANG3FP0QuuQxkSb1vXSo/04ac6084f0e2c735c5a63d07f2e11f22/woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card.jpg)\n\n## FAQs about bridal shower thank you messages \n\n### When do I send bridal shower thank you cards? \n\nBridal shower thank you messages should be sent to each individual who attended your bridal shower and/or purchased a gift no more than two weeks after the date of the party.\n\n__Pro Tip:__ Purchase thank you cards before the bridal shower—especially if you’re using a custom design—so you already have them on hand immediately following the celebration.\n\n### Who should sign bridal shower thank you cards?\n\nAlthough it may feel like the gift was given just to you, bridal shower thank you cards should be signed by you and your partner. The only exception to this rule is when you receive a gift that’s clearly meant for only you (think lingerie, spa gift card, or other bride-centric gifts).\n\n### Can I combine wedding and bridal shower thank you messages?\n\nThe short answer? No. A different thank you note should be written for each event (bridal party, wedding ceremony, or even a baby shower) a guest attends, regardless of whether they brought a gift each time.\n\n## Trust Zola with your stationery needs \n\nNow that you’re well-versed in [etiquette](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-invitation-etiquette-top-mistakes-to-avoid-or-zola), don’t stop there! Zola can take care of all your [wedding paper needs](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/invites-paper/invitations). 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Find out in our latest guide.","author":"Shira Telushkin","publishedAt":"2021-02-10T15:59:41.993Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/LIMh0JnOloe51GM6q34L0/3326f8e7211fde5ad12d79776a17b8f6/Hero_IndustrialWeddingAtStAugustineChurchAnd26Bridge_SarahZimmermanPhoto.jpg","altText":"Bachelorette Party vs Bridal Shower"},"heroCredit":"Sarah Zimmerman Photo","body":"![Bachelorette Party vs Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5FZjHYn3xodt1GyCdHwa4g/204ec420c4862dfa06d48bdfd6be164e/inline_shutterstock2.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Shutterstock\n\nThere are so many events that happen before the actual wedding day itself. The engagement party, the wedding shower, and the bachelorette party. But, when it comes to the wedding shower and the bachelorette party, it's not always clear how to differentiate between the two events. \n\n## Bridal Shower vs. Bachelorette Party: Are the Wedding Shower and the Bachelorette Party the Same?\n\nNope, bridal showers and bachelorette parties are not the same thing. Bridal showers are meant to prepare the bride-to-be for her future life as a married woman, whereas a bachelorette party is meant for the bride to de-stress, celebrate, and enjoy her present pre-married life.\n\nAdditionally, wedding showers are hosted parties, where the host pays for the event—including the food, catering, decorations, and anything else—and invites the guests, whereas bachelorette parties are often co-hosted by the friends of the bride. \n\nWith bridal showers, it’s very common and often expected, that guests will arrive with gifts. These gifts are typically related to the home or the life between the new couple. The wedding shower is traditionally hosted by a friend or family member close to the bride and is often an afternoon or late morning affair. \n\nThe bachelorette party is usually a weekend away or a night out that is planned by the bride’s close friends, and, typically, her maid of honor. Though a thoughtful gesture, [bachelorette party gifts](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/9-bachelorette-party-gifts-for-the-bride) are usually not the main focus of the night. The focus is on ensuring that the bride has fun and enjoys herself. You may ask, [who pays for the bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-pays-for-the-bachelorette-party)? As compared to the wedding shower, the costs are usually split between the event attendees.\n\n## Who Is Invited to the Wedding Shower, and Who Is Invited to the Bachelorette Party? \n\nThe wedding shower typically includes a wide assortment of guests who are connected to the bride. Traditionally, the wedding shower guest list only extends to women guests, although today wedding showers increasingly will include male friends of the bride. The guests often include the bride’s female cousins, aunts, and extended family members; female family friends of her parents; and female members of her religious community or another group in which she participates. All ages are included in the wedding shower guest list. Some brides may also invite co-workers if they’re close, but this is not expected in most situations. \n\nThe bachelorette party almost always includes the wedding party, and then the bride’s close friends. Traditionally, bachelorette parties only included women's friends, but today the bride might want to include friends of all genders. The bachelorette party might be organized by one of the bridesmaids or the maid of honor, but the costs are usually shared by all the guests attending. \n\nA wedding shower is an event that usually includes a wider range of guests than the bachelorette party. The guest list is ultimately up to the host, as she is the one planning the event and opening her home. However, the host will likely consult with the bride to ensure that there are no mix-ups or hurt feelings. Older and younger female relatives should be invited to the wedding shower, but in most cases would be out of place at the bachelorette party. Some social friends of the bride might have no interest in attending the wedding shower, but would be appropriate guests for the bachelorette party. \n\n## What Happens at a Wedding Shower vs. a Bachelorette Party?\n\n![Bachelorette Party vs Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1TdhwA5VmBESvBQ5m0ro5g/52f1a00b392a4d619745974fda7309d2/inline_shutterstock3.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Shutterstock\n\nThe wedding shower includes the opening of gifts, sometimes toasts by some of her female relatives (such as her mother, aunt, or sister), and certain games or activities related to her soon-to-be-married life. The tone of the event should be appropriate to the diverse range of guests, which might include older, conservative family members or co-workers. The wedding shower is about celebrating the bride’s new life as part of a couple and is often focused on her broader community. \n\nBachelorette parties include fun activities planned by the bride’s friends, games related to the bride and her soon-to-be life partner, and social bonding. The bachelorette party is not suited for friends or family that are not part of the bride’s social circle, and often include activities that incorporate [bachelorette party game questions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-game-questions-youll-love) that are a little more raunchy or intimate than what would happen at the wedding shower. The bachelorette party is really about fun and joy and focused entirely on the bride and her friends before she becomes a married woman. \n\nKnowing the difference between a wedding shower and a bachelorette party will help ensure that you plan the perfect event for each occasion. \n\n__The Best Winter Bachelorette Party Ideas__\n\n- COZY CABINS!!\n- snowman competitions\n- spa retreat -- no better time than when it is miserable out there\n- sledding!\n- smores and fire \n- ice skating \n- matching cozy flannel pajamas or gloves \n- cabin with a hot tub\n- winter festival \n- face masks, hair masks \n\n__8 Best Bachelorette Party Destinations: __\n\n- Vegas \n- Mexico City \n- Montreal \n- Cruise \n- New Orleans\n- Austin, TX\n- Charleston, SC\n- Miami\n- Nashville\n- Savannah, Georgia \n\n__Bachelorette Party Game Questions__\n\n“Who knows you best?”\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Discover unique bachelorette party gifts for the bride-to-be. 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","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2024-10-03T10:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/76ZaCVd5YdZKoKivIuHdcz/a27134cd9c6c2c5c0caf8ec2a2e3542d/40-Bridal-Shower-Themes-for-Modern-Couples.jpg","altText":"bridal shower theme ideas"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"__Inside this article:__\n- Elegant Bridal Shower Themes\n- Adventurous Couple's Shower Themes\n- Fun Bridal Shower Themes\n- Laidback Wedding Shower Themes\n- Unique Bridal Shower Themes\n- Fall Bridal Shower Themes\n- Winter Bridal Shower Themes\n- Spring Bridal Shower Themes\n- Summer Bridal Shower Themes\n","body":"The bridal shower is a celebration of the bride-to-be that welcomes both family and friends to the party. Traditionally it's been a girls-only event, but many modern couples are opting to plan a joint __[couple's shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/coed-wedding-shower)__. Of course, you're welcome to extend a bridal shower invitation to anyone you'd like to celebrate your upcoming wedding.\n\nOne of the first steps of planning a bridal or couple's shower is choosing your party’s theme. There’s no end to theme opportunities, and you can plan any activity or decor you like. (Just keep in mind that this isn’t the __[bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-themes)__ and that your grandmother may be there, so keep things PG.)\n\nFrom tea time to beach bash, check out all 38 bridal shower theme ideas below.\n\n## Elegant Bridal Shower Themes\n \nAn elegant bridal shower is perfect for the classic couple who wants to celebrate with a beautiful and traditional party. The entertainment is food, conversation, and maybe some light party games, and the decor is chic and simple. If you’re interested in an elegant celebration, browse these bridal shower themes below:\n\n### 1. Garden Gala\nStart with a beautiful venue and host a garden party as everything’s beautiful and blooming. Light snacks, cocktails, and some fun games are all you need to make this party a hit. Nothing is simpler or more classy than a garden party.\n\n![Bridal Shower Themes](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7yiXszW9spLVh3NAgWaiDc/b49db3433730ecf4baa8e7e400bd1c65/1-bridal-shower-themes-sign-mockup.jpg) Photo via Zola\n\n[![Bridal Shower Themes](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5jrzVWHcWQyVfxHAfi6Y01/31913e407f44d97bd13e727f9150536a/bridal-shower-themes-download-wedding-signs.png)](//downloads.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/fwXHlwxQdHWAAXwgxeCh1/49397648ea58fc70d51d0aedf9c21e42/Zola-Wedding-Signs.pdf)\n\n### 2. Minimalist Mixer\nMinimalism is super trendy and a great way to gather reusable decorations. When it comes to bridal shower decorations, less is more! Choose small centerpieces like lanterns and succulents, and place signs with simple calligraphy on a plain or acrylic background. A beautiful venue will carry most of the weight for a minimalist party.\n\n![Minimal Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5q6xmBITOmc4DWRcXWhBOi/2e1aa9e4efc21fd3e3b238ba8c1fedcb/Minimal_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Captured By Maleah Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/captured-by-maleah-photography)\n\n### 3. Party in Paris\nAh, Paris—it’s everything classic romance and makes for a sophisticated party theme. French stripes, signs in French, and Eiffel Tower statuettes are easy, go-to decor. And, of course, what's a French shower without French food. Plenty of pastries, macarons, and a charcuterie board are delicious snacks that will elevate the party—and don’t forget __[wine to pair](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/cake-and-wine-pairings)__!\n\n![2-bridal-shower-themes-paris (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2e7KnLIYDt2NtZRgOmvqxn/0b729e16b72a89b46bfdd25132897078/2-bridal-shower-themes-paris__1_.jpg)\n\n### 4. Vintage Soiree\nThrow a party ‘70s style, or with whichever decade aesthetics you prefer. This is a perfect bridal shower theme for repurposing old furniture and decor. Collect vintage and intricate frames, as well as funky bottles and fabrics for tables and tapestries. Have your guests dress for the decade as inspiration to really throw it back.\n\n![3-bridal-shower-themes-vintage-soiree (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/017rex1qXGEnZzWT2m0s6g/77a8d8848078898fb540497f1420dc95/3-bridal-shower-themes-vintage-soiree__1_.jpg)\n\n### 5. Glitz and Glamor\nPlan a more sophisticated evening party with glittered cocktail attire and hors d’oeuvres. Host a wine tasting as entertainment and decorate with a simple floral arrangement, candles, anything that sparkles, and a few gold accents for a glam party with your friends.\n\n![Glitz and Glamour Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6RMLJtnEBIUaFwSBLnJcdY/1c715d96d5f333bf1d59a23cc52f1892/Glitz_and_Glamour_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Marigny Opera House](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/marigny-opera-house)\n\n[![bridal-shower-themes-download-elegant-moodboard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7BipeOW1c8F2p7ikTQ0sw4/542c210743e108da3a39d64fc17bdf73/bridal-shower-themes-download-elegant-moodboard.png)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2m4kDmJrQIGULTpnGbNR7W/424b9209b627676de73f6450b2a8ec30/bridal-shower-themes-elegant.png)\n\n## Adventurous Couple’s Shower Themes\n \nIf you’re looking for unique bridal shower themes, engaging games, and an energizing party atmosphere, then these adventurous themes are for you. These bridal shower themes are great for representing you as a couple and celebrating the things you love most:\n\n### 6. Boho Bash\nBohemian themes and decor are perfect for the casual couple. The best part of a boho bash is that there are plenty of opportunities to use thrifted and repurposed decor, so you can save some money and stay __[eco-friendly](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/eco-friendly-wedding)__. Grab some decorative frames for signs, boho pillows for seating, and plenty of wildflowers for a flower crown and the centerpieces.\n\n![Boho Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2ZIwL2JKvzbbJi4xn5WtlG/501c0a63621d87519543628fce7de13c/Boho_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Chellise Michael Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/chellise-michael-photography)\n\n### 7. Happily Ever After\nWhat’s better than a fairytale party for your happily ever after? Greenery, fairy lights, books, and some nods to your favorite fairytale stories will bring this theme to life. You can go with a bridal shower theme around the master of happily ever after—Disney. Choose your favorite Disney stories and characters and get creative—set each table with a different centerpiece theme, or dive in with a costume party and dress as your favorite Disney couple.\n\n![Fairytale Wedding Shower Theme](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4tQZwB8Typlp1NkHwPUjaw/9d4c131a3b31799944c5aac361212dfa/Fairytale_Wedding_Shower_Theme.jpg) Photo via [Woolverton Inn](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/woolverton-inn)\n\n### 8. Travel-Themed Bridal Shower\nCelebrate life’s big adventure with a trip around the world themed shower. Luggage, globes, and maps are all great decor pieces that are easy to find and use. Serve international favorites with their national flags, and include global monuments in your decor—like the Sphinx, Eiffel Tower, Leaning Tower of Pisa, or the Taj Mahal.\n\n![6-bridal-shower-themes-around-the-world](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2PesuuJAEbJprzovDEmOY8/0597ced533d88f51e533319c45cb7ef0/6-bridal-shower-themes-around-the-world.jpg)\nPhoto by [Kati Rosado](http://katirosado.com/contact)\n\n### 9. Mexican Food and Fun\nIf the bride is a Mexican cuisine enthusiast, then a Mexican-themed fiesta could be the perfect option for a bridal shower. Create a build-your-own taco bar and pair the food with refreshing margaritas (frozen or one the rocks—bride’s choice!).\n\n![Mexican Themed Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6vMw8hDdFoLPzxr6o5pvcC/c4f6438c362ff545850ac1e4c3d6b5f8/Mexican_Themed_Party.jpg) Photo by [JamsCreative Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/jamscreative-photography)\n\n### 10. Drama and Dancing\nDress up and get to dancing! Have everyone dress their best and decorate with rich jewel tones and dramatic lighting. The most important part is the perfect playlist everyone will enjoy, so take suggestions from your guests leading up to the party. Prepare fun cocktails and plenty of snacks, and you’re ready to go.\n\n![Wedding Dance Ladies](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2awo4Idmo8V3xaDcRB8QUZ/05b6bff2712a8a908e5a89d008aebba7/Wedding_Dance_Ladies.jpg) Photo by [Joyce Li Photo](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/joyce-li-photo)\n\n### 11. Under the Sea\nIf you’re all-in on the mermaid aesthetic, this may be the theme for you. Cool color palettes and some iridescent or silver metallics are your theme’s core. Gather seashells, glass pieces, and simple greenery arrangements for centerpieces. This is a great chance to repurpose wine bottles as candlestick holders with sand and shells inside—then let guests take home the marine-themed decor as bridal party favors.\n\n![Under the Sea Beach Wedding Table](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6a82w3p1nGjU31X39fG0rj/5919702498a7bfb3abe84682697cc462/Under_the_Sea_Beach_Wedding_Table.jpg) Photo by [Krystal Zaskey Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/krystal-zaskey-photography)\n\n[![bridal-shower-themes-download-adventurous-moodboard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/68kisdb07WwEjygaEdtOL7/a33e3c98803fa462b6e37b750912ae25/bridal-shower-themes-download-adventurous-moodboard.png)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4I0zC1PUoerR73vSCn0Bg9/9e2a658e9e93d9d12f6f663b592ded8e/bridal-shower-themes-adventurous.png)\n\n## Fun Bridal Shower Themes \n\n### 12. Karaoke Lounge\nTake a break from wedding planning and plan a karaoke party at home or out at a lounge — either way, you’re sure to have a good time. Prepare challenges with your favorite songs in a draw bag, or choose a genre to build your theme around. Push the theme further and ask your guests to come dressed as their favorite artists and perform to a music video.\n\n![Karaoke Wedding Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5mzdoPTEXSSIbCRjT5igqs/6a4ffce0be27b1fe09710c207336b5a3/Karaoke_Wedding_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Morgan Wiltse Photo Co.](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/morgan-wiltse-photo-co)\n\n### 13. Ice Cream Party\nWhen there's ice cream, there is always fun in store! Hire an ice cream truck to come to your event. You could also take it a step further and do a full ice cream sundae bar. Get several flavors of ice cream, and splurge on toppings—sprinkles, syrups, and more. Don't forget the cones or waffle bowls to enhance the event. \n\n![S-mores Ice Cream Sundae Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4LMR0QltpjA8Kufnc8LQoq/764f80376ff18627ade5b74557c29c11/S-mores_Ice_Cream_Sundae_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Pint's Peak Ice Cream](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-cakes-desserts/pints-peak-ice-cream)\n\n### 14. Game Night\nGame night is perfect for a night in with your friends, and everyone will warm up to each other quickly. Bring your favorite games and snacks, and get the party started. Decorate using Jenga pieces as a guest book for your friends and family to sign, and candy dice to top cupcakes. Or take it outside and play lawn games.\n\n![Lawn Games at a Wedding Reception](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6V3o1HPFvvSSpWqw7j6DCm/b2e768aa8635552305188dad3525b224/Lawn_Games_at_a_Wedding_Reception.jpg) Photo via [The Wedding Connection](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-planners/the-wedding-connection)\n\n### 15. Nautical\nIf you (and the engaged couple!) love being on the water, consider using a nautical bridal shower theme. Host your event by the sea, on the beach, or on a boat for added cohesion. However, it's also perfectly acceptable to have a blue and white palette and maritime touches for a land-centric party. \n\n![Nautical Bridal Shower Theme](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4txV3Tg5fsTby2WR8nAscV/d072de20b83f64d2279b823a9c3008d1/Nautical_Bridal_Shower_Theme.jpg) Photo by [Aprea Media](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/aprea-media)\n\n### 16. Candy Crush\nCelebrate your engagement to your crush with candy! Sweet, delicious, and super aesthetically pleasing, candy is an affordable and easy way to cover decor and favors for your guests. Arrange gumball bowls, giant lollipops, and macaron towers as centerpieces, and serve colorful and bubbly drinks for a great summer fun party theme. Not a fan of candy? Have homemade pastel color treats instead.\n\n![Dessert Bar for Reception](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2dr0ZZqsCNecbLJqzOnMAD/db2e187716f6c975778cd728a461e1e3/Dessert_Bar_for_Reception.jpg) Photo via [Twin Treats](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-cakes-desserts/twin-treats)\n\n## Laidback Wedding Shower Themes\n \nThese laidback shower themes are for the casual couple looking to host a great party all of their friends and family can enjoy. Find 10 bridal shower themes and trending party ideas that are all about you and your guests, instead of heavily themed decor and entertainment:\n\n### 17. Pajama Party\nFor the ultimate laid back event, invite guests to dress in their pjs. Host an evening event that goes late into the night, or have a morning brunch. The sky's the limit for this casual, fun event. It's also an ideal theme if you're hosting a lingerie shower where the bride can also give her attendants their wedding day robes at the event.\n\n![Pajama Party Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/741K8Hfz5Z5WG1HYRFf0t3/088b51dad241984586676b0dbedd46f0/Pajama_Party_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Hotel Arista](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/hotel-arista)\n\n### 18. Fruit Fest\nFruit themes are fresh and fun and bring a bright tropical vibe without the need for grass skirts. Vibrant fruit arrangements are great centerpieces by themselves, but some flowers and decorative trays wouldn’t hurt. Don’t forget the fruit cocktails, coconuts, and novelty straws — this party is all about the drinks.\n\n![Fruit Bachelorette Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/42VVD3mZn7IsrJRHDvBSzD/1580821430af54b2c765318327f477f8/Fruit_Bachelorette_Party.jpg) Photo via [Hill City Bride](https://hillcitybride.com/2017/05/citrus-bachelorette-party-styled-shoot/)\n\n### 19. Sock Hop\nGo back to the ‘50s with a fun sock hop themed party. Bring circle skirts and polka dots back for a night, and prepare a rocking playlist that will have everyone dancing. Retro signs and glass Coke bottles make for fun decor, and malt milkshakes are the perfect dessert.\n\n![Clinking Coke Bottles at Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/39rrbGkiQm1Jax3xKKx1Jk/7c0a6e95a3a28b1ce8af2d5c0f92d607/Clinking_Coke_Bottles_at_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Bradley Pisney](https://unsplash.com/@bradleypisney)\n\n### 20. Wine Tastings\nSchedule a wine tasting for your wedding shower. Not only is this perfect for a co-ed event, but you can organize it in various ways. Hire a limo and go from winery to winery doing several tastings. Or you can head to a winery with a vineyard on site and spend a few hours walking through the vines and sampling. Either way, a DD is vital, so put that on your list.\n\n![Wine Tasting Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3f7Oj2kxOS2427ekFg4wC6/0548ec4ed0dac20af00de180967041b9/Wine_Tasting_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Kym Ellis](https://unsplash.com/@kymellis)\n\n### 21. Brunch and Bubbly\nThe bridal brunch is simple and welcoming to all of your guests, and gives plenty of opportunity for the couple’s family and friends to get to know each other. The menu is full of brunch favorites, like waffles and scones—and, of course, you stock the bar with champagne, juice, and other __[mimosa bar](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-make-a-mimosa-bar)__ staples. Light floral arrangements and simple table settings are all you need to host a nice __[brunch](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/brunch-wedding)__.\n\n![10-bridal-shower-themes-brunch-and-bubbly (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6wOGbpj3KwpmsljYghFVJn/8a8bbc6418a7f8b15431fe9612a10abc/10-bridal-shower-themes-brunch-and-bubbly__1_.jpg) Photo via Zola\n\n[![bridal-shower-themes-download-laidback-moodboard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3oknARV7UK6Mj1pBdt7QkH/a6a0c07c809b7361b0e492c855d845a4/bridal-shower-themes-download-laidback-moodboard.png)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5BpHrs1JlVGebXUYNptl6L/6ec2848f7ceee432656915418153ed92/bridal-shower-themes-laidback.png)\n\n## Unique Bridal Shower Themes\n \nSome themes just don’t fit in a box. If you’re still looking for the perfect party idea, try one of these creative and trendy bridal shower theme ideas:\n\n### 22. Breakfast at Tiffany’s\nWhat’s more glamorous and classic than Breakfast at Tiffany’s? Decorate with Tiffany blue, or even get some Tiffany’s gift boxes and candles as centerpieces. Channel your inner Holly Golightly with a little black dress, and gift pearls and sunglasses as themed favors to your guests.\n\n![Brunch Wedding Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5oIrbZnmy0ssZz2ZWlxTnX/8df5feb85b1859e63da860bdb2a6f2be/Brunch_Wedding_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Rachel Park](https://unsplash.com/@therachelstory)\n\n### 23. Bold and Bright\nFill your party with bright colors and bold decor to bring a ton of energy and fun to your party. Choose a handful of your favorite colors, or cover everything in rainbows. Either way, you’re setting yourself up for plenty of photo-ops and unlimited possibilities.\n\n![Vibrant Wedding Shower Tablescape](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NM9triQ8FKUTjoUi3ARe5/742de0e3927783efe3644d5f74952a1e/Vibrant_Wedding_Shower_Tablescape.jpg) Photo by [Jason Rhee Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/jason-rhee-photography-llc)\n\n### 24. Classic Hollywood Chic\nYou can still have a glam party in the winter with a throwback to the silver screen. Decorate with jewel tones and gold accents, and centerpieces of pearls and ostrich feathers. Roll out the red carpet to a photobooth with props of faux-fur boas, beads, and other vintage accessories and a vintage-inspired [photo backdrop](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-backdrop).\n\n![Hollywood Glam Styled Event Wedding](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6ohR6cWSm8QqcVJqxI7O2N/a46b330a523c9468ff6d3c9c0dc90ae6/Hollywood_Glam_Styled_Event_Wedding.jpg) Photo via [Zola's Real Weddings](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding/old-hollywood-glamour-styled-shoot)\n\n### 25. Potter Party \nInvite all of your witch and wizard friends to celebrate with butterbeer and chocolate frogs. You can find recipes for all of your favorite magic treats and gift DIY wands and house badges to your friends. Marathon the movies, host a trivia game or play a quick Quidditch match. There’s plenty of Hogwarts fun for everyone.\n\n![Harry Potter Theme Wedding Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7wtJubue6dlPErnCtRbkKa/679d8a53027681bdaa73e47845972d18/Harry_Potter_Theme_Wedding_Shower.jpg) Photo via [The Winery at Bull Run](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/the-winery-at-bull-run)\n\n### 26. Blue and White\nIf you're in touch with decor trends, you've probably seen blue and white palettes everywhere. It's a classic! So, why not include it in a wedding shower? Scour thrift shops and antique stores for blue and white elements like dishes, vases, and more. Some can even be gifted to the bride-to-be. The added touch of decorative cookies brings an element of sophistication to the event. \n\n![Blue and White Cookies](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3nZ4X0Y2BUl58s1t31L3Q0/87d09e9d1913556ee425e70adaf022ff/Blue_and_White_Cookies.jpg) Photo via [The Everly](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/the-everly)\n\n### 27. Retro\nTo have a retro bridal shower, pick an era and go all out. You can mock the Roaring 20's or go with the hippie vibe of the 1970s. It's all up to you. Use Pinterest to search for inspiration for the various decades, and take cues from color palettes, fashions, and photo styling for your own era-inspired bridal shower.\n\n![Retro Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2c5FRZk3Xo8uO5AQoDzNAj/8aea45876f2bfdeaf156489c1e30ce19/Retro_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Love Wildly](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/love-wildly)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Fall \n\n### 28. Backyard Bonfire\nThe best way to relax with your favorite people is around a bonfire with s’mores, tunes, and drinks. Make sure you have plenty of seating and snacks, and this party is good to go. If you want to build decor, collect old tins and trays to display the snacks and place lanterns and string lights around the party to add to the vibe.\n\n![8-bridal-shower-themes-backyard-bonfire](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/Yqz2xEY7DjS08IqkMTkup/06e9651087dc4a332d3d4385fac7c037/8-bridal-shower-themes-backyard-bonfire.jpg)\nSource: [Allie Dearie Photography](http://alliedeariephotography.com/)\n\n### 29. Rustic and Cozy\nRustic-themed showers are having a moment. Whether you go with rustic farmhouse BBQ (think DIY mason jar flower arrangements, gingham linens and napkins, and homemade sweet tea), or a more comfy, cozy cabin vibe (think enjoying hot cocoa in pajamas in front of the fire while you play bridal shower games), this bridal shower theme is sure to appeal to brides that are more country than city.\n\n![9-bridal-shower-themes-comfy-cozy](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6a017sAwGsvQpaoT9kv7An/4c70551b6ad65362481722a035787f40/9-bridal-shower-themes-comfy-cozy.jpg) Photo by \n[Carina Skrobecki](https://www.carinaskrobecki.com/)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Winter \n\n### 30. Trim the Tree\nInvite your guests to help you trim your holiday tree with DIY ornaments. Collect some craft instructions for your guests and gather supplies to create keepsake ornaments for you and your partner. Cookies and eggnog are sure to get everyone in the festive spirit. (You could even have guests wrap bridal shower gifts in holiday paper!)\n\n![Christmas Bridal Shower Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2tgHfQcFvUlnrhmMJ8uczi/866564843aecf63d4ac3f622811d1cff/Christmas_Bridal_Shower_Ideas.jpg) Photo by [Limelight Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/limelight-photography)\n\n### 31. Winter Wonderland\nSnow and ice are nature’s glitter, so embrace the sparkle and celebrate a winter wonderland. Glitter centerpieces and warmth from candlelight are sure to set the mood. Pinecones and frosted evergreens are great for adding texture and colors, too.\n\n![Winter Wonderland Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/9H8GuAzenjgmLiwgNtFJd/dfc06f10a4e96593d52735a703656f7f/Winter_Wonderland_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [The Preserve at Chocorua](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/the-preserve-at-chocorua)\n\n### 32. Flannel and Frost\nDecorate your party with evergreens, flannel fabrics, and lanterns for a warm and inviting atmosphere for everyone. Cider drinks and spiced cookies are the perfect treats, and your guests will love playing group games and mingling.\n\n![Flannel Bridal Shower Theme](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/zBmzuRgSFTrWPJMFPgHhD/21372946bf45ebfa6086ae17634835e0/Flannel_Bridal_Shower_Theme.jpg) Photo on [Zola's Real Weddings](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding/plaid-accented-fall-styled-shoot)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Spring \n\n### 33. Lovely in Lemon\nFruit themes are hugely popular, and lemons may just top that list. They’re bright, refreshing, and so fun for a party. Decorate with yellow and white flowers with plenty of greenery, and of course lemons themselves. Host a lemonade and iced tea bar with a variety of flavors — lemon cupcakes and cookies are a must (and make for great take-home party favors!).\n\n![Lemon Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3txCeg3in7GnYkk0E6Os8t/a90377c1fc8cf146a6f1f1f833e675bc/Lemon_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Hill City Bride](https://hillcitybride.com/2020/01/bridal-shower-decorations/)\n\n### 34. Tea Party Time\nTea parties are a bridal shower classic and a great way to include everyone on your guest list. Rent or thrift adorable teaware, then gather some fresh flower bouquets for your tables, and voila—your decor is pretty much finished! Simple and sweet pastries and a collection of teas to sample is all the entertainment you need with good company at your wedding shower. (You could even send home personalized tea bags as bridal shower favors!)\n\n![Bridal Shower Tea Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6PkQtkyVcQC2ytoPGR6JmB/25f2d95f525d6969fb29cf23e2eeaad0/Bridal_Shower_Tea_Party.jpg) Photo by [Carolyn Christine](https://unsplash.com/@carolynchristine)\n\n### 35. Gives Me Butterflies\nThe bride-to-be is in love, so focus on the feeling. Throw a butterfly themed bridal shower at a butterly garden or botanical center. Release butterflies and have lovely, themed details, such as butterfly nets and vintage prints featuring the flying insects. It's perfect for spring! \n\n![Butterfly Themed Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5umS2PAkojSa4YYOcXvxAF/59e4e6cece3414eae51269e4281a20fd/Butterfly_Themed_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Peterson Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/petersen-photography-llc)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Summer \n\n### 36. Fair Food\nEveryone loves the fair, and even if you’re not into rides, how can you say no to fair food? The carnival aesthetic is a lot of fun to play with — saturated colors and novelty lights can take you a long way, and a Ferris wheel statue would be great. Of course, the centerpiece of this theme is the food! Rent decorative machines if you can, and serve caramel corn, corn dogs, and more. For an added splash, serve drinks topped with cotton candy.\n\n![Cotton Candy Cocktail](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/9LOxLRXh7LGoVzfOdIKVn/33423d89b2f7cee1c9a82c01b4babb58/Cotton_Candy_Cocktail.jpg) Photo by [Johann Trasch](https://unsplash.com/@cocktailbart)\n\n### 37. Beach Bash\nBeach themes are a bridal shower favorite. Subtle colors, seashells, and elegant candles can really elevate this theme if you’re looking for something more sophisticated or romantic. Of course, you can always plan a beach party with a pool, fun shades, and plenty of games.\n\n![7-bridal-shower-themes-beach-bash (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6bDCsVEIx3W5IVLzxiGJ5P/9172793b112dcf2b1526468f47c83b7e/7-bridal-shower-themes-beach-bash__1_.jpg)\nPhoto by [Amanda Hedgepeth](http://www.amandahedgepethphotography.com/)\n\n### 38. Tropical Luau\nA tropical bridal shower is the perfect way to bring fun, sun, and the tropics to your party. Plan a party by the pool with fruity drinks, beach decor, and fun inflatables that double as photo props. Pool parties are great for large guest lists and as a theme for a couple’s shower.\n\n![Bridal Shower Themes](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/29TdexcZKU8OFodcAPVQM4/b7a0a7fe5448fc084caa500fad553bc4/zola-1680x1060.jpg)\nPhoto by [Meagan Gibson](https://www.meagangibsonphotography.com/ \"Source: Meagan Gibson Photography\")\n\nWhether you’re hosting a throwback bash or a comfortable night in, your guests will be happy to receive their __[invites](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop)__, so choose the bridal shower theme that suits you best. Once you have your theme and decor ideas, the fun (and the countdown to the big day can really begin! So get to planning, add some fun __[printable games or activities](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/free-bridal-shower-printables)__, and enjoy your perfect party.","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-10-03T19:35:00.980Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding shower","slug":"wedding-shower"},"slug":"bridal-shower-traditions-updated","title":"7 Bridal Shower Traditions, Updated ","excerpt":"Bridal showers are great celebrations but they could use some updating. Bring your bridal shower traditions into modern times with our guide to updating the traditional bridal shower.","author":"McCall Minnor","publishedAt":"2019-10-15T16:32:47.960Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6vfYcGpnDLIGFdgeLZ9F2c/b59c2ca2f2e6e3c2dd505a2b1ecbc00b/HERO_Unsplash_1080x720__1_.jpg","altText":"bridal shower gifting tradition"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"While a [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers) is a generous gesture from loved ones, we can’t deny that some aspects of the celebration can be awkward and outdated. That’s not to say you shouldn’t have one—those closest to you want to celebrate you and you should let them. You may just prefer to put your own more modern spin on things. Here are a few common bridal shower traditions and easy ways to update them for a party that truly fits your vibe. \n\n## The Tradition: It’s just for women.\nTraditionally, a bridal shower is a pre-wedding celebration thrown in honor of the bride, during which guests “shower” her with gifts. It usually takes place during the day, is women-only, and is thrown by a woman close with the bride.\n\n__The Update:__ More and more couples are choosing instead to have a [coed wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/coed-wedding-shower) that includes everyone: both partners and both sets of friends and family. This way there’s much more wiggle room in terms of activities and the theme. Plus, including both partners is a practical and thoughtful way to celebrate both people and also bring family and friends together ahead of the wedding. \n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/532VVdWGgxiLyK341ZcdQ7/749150933cb579d72591628987db3df9/INLINE__Unsplash_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## The Tradition: It happens less than two months before the wedding.\nUsually, the bridal shower is held just before the wedding: about 2-8 weeks out. Older etiquette suggests that this is to prevent your wedding festivities from spanning more than a few months, thus inconveniencing guests.\n\n__The Update:__ While it’s considerate to keep your guests in mind, having your shower within this time frame might just not work. It’s also possible that you don’t want to have your shower so close to your ceremony, regardless of any other reason. Giving yourself more time between the two occasions allows you the opportunity to open and sort through gifts, send thank you notes, and, honestly, just relax a little. It’s a lot to go event-for-event. Choose a time that works best for you and (most of) your guests.\n\n## Tradition: It’s a feminine daytime event.\nThe traditional bridal shower is a brunch party, afternoon tea, or another daytime affair. And it’s likely to include small appetizers and desserts, beverages like mimosas, and typically feminine decor. \n\n__The Update:__ Your bridal shower or coed wedding shower doesn’t need to fall within any kind of themed parameters—and it doesn’t need to be a brunch either. Your shower can—and should—take on any form that best suits you (or you and your partner). Hire a local bartender and have a cocktail hour mixology class. Spend a weekend at the beach or spa. Wine tastings, cooking classes, hiking, art lessons—all acceptable. When it comes down to it, your shower should be an event you’ll enjoy. No one will care if it’s in the evening or not at someone’s home, so long as you’re celebrating with one another.\n\n## Tradition: You play games.\nGames are almost always included in the traditional bridal shower itinerary. Common bridal shower games include gift bingo, a toilet paper wedding dress competition, and newlywed questions.\n\n__The Update:__ While many enjoy these specific—and admittedly cheesy—games, they’re by no means required. If you’d rather skip couple’s trivia and spend time doing just about anything else, do that. If you still like the idea of Say you’d still like to gather everyone together to do something. No problem. Opt instead for a non-shower themed group activity (remember that fun mixology class idea we mentioned before?).\n\n## Tradition: Gifts are mandatory—and you open them in front of everyone.\nEveryone invited to a bridal shower is expected to bring a gift for the bride or couple (if it’s a wedding shower). The bride or couple then open each gift in front of their guests.\n\n__The Update:__ Let’s be honest—there’s ample opportunity to receive gifts throughout your engagement and wedding. Between the engagement party, wedding shower, bachelor or bachelorette parties, and wedding, guests may feel pressured to give multiple times. If this isn’t something you’re comfortable with (or if you simply don’t have room for a lot of gifts), feel free to tell guests to skip gifts. \n\nIf you do, however, include gifts in your shower, don’t feel pressure to open them in front of everyone. Let [your guests](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/invite-to-wedding-shower) know that you won’t be opening them during the party—or simply don’t mention it at all. Send thank you notes no more than a week after the party, though!\n\n![INLINE Zola 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/FyJVw92zu27pIrPVJqOid/1a745129b8eedb7f1ce847593d12c4ef/INLINE_Zola_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Zola\n\n## Tradition: Someone creates a ribbon bouquet.\nThe Tradition: Traditionally, while you’re unwrapping presents at a bridal shower, someone else is collecting the ribbons and bows and fashioning them into a bouquet. This bouquet is then to be used for practice during your wedding rehearsal.\n\n__The Update:__ Feel free to cut this tradition out entirely—especially if you don’t plan on opening gifts in front of everyone. While the sentiment is nice, you really can just use another bouquet of flowers (or nothing) during your rehearsal.\n\n## Tradition: Your fiancé brings flowers at the end\nOlder tradition suggests that your fiancé should show up towards the end of the party, to “surprise” you with flowers. This is considered a sweet way to included them into the festivities (and help you load gifts into the car). Often, the fiancé will show up thirty minutes to an hour before the shower is over and sometimes participate in games.\n\n__The Update:__ Whether your spouse to-be is busy (they might be at their own party) or wants to leave the shower to you, there’s no reason they need to make an appearance. Your shower is yours, after all, and maybe they’d rather avoid the spotlight. You can still have them show up to help relocate gifts, just wait until everyone has left and you’re heading out. On the other hand, if you’d like your partner to be more involved, consider making the entire thing co-ed.\n\nIn the end, your wedding shower is meant to celebrate you and your upcoming marriage. Don’t worry yourself with what’s expected of a typical party. Focus on having a good time and getting excited for the main event—your wedding! We can toast to that.","tag":"List","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Fill your bachelor party with groom-approved activities. 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Find guides, practical advice, and inspiration for the different types of shower celebrations."},{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Bachelorette party","slug":"bachelorette-party"},"slug":"bachelorette-party-gifts-for-the-bride","title":"25 Best Bachelorette Gifts For The Bride","excerpt":"Discover unique bachelorette party gifts for the bride-to-be. Explore thoughtful ideas to make her celebration even more special.\n","author":"Jane Chertoff and Georgie Darling","publishedAt":"2024-03-04T14:00-05:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3Xtz5BdOXSAMpt2mOtHAgf/f40eeda1448084d60932d268ec036ac5/Hero_Zola__21_.jpg","altText":"Illustration graphic of 12 gift bags with hearts on them and tissue paper peeking out of each one"},"heroCredit":"Zola","body":"Bachelorette party gifts for the bride are a generous and fun way to show some love to the bride, pre-wedding. Although giving presents is a nice gesture, they are usually optional, so don’t feel pressured. \n\nHowever, if you want to give the bride-to-be a treat, there are plenty of directions you can head. Select a lovely piece of jewelry, or pop open a bottle of champagne. You could always get her [lingerie](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-the-perfect-wedding-day-lingerie#:~:text=Choose%20lingerie%20that%20works%20with,for%20your%20dress%20or%20gown.) or a cheeky gag gift, but the door is also open to give her something more meaningful. \n\nIf you don’t know where to begin, start by selecting a bachelorette gift you think matches the bride’s personality. It’s also an appropriate time to give her something racy or funny that you wouldn’t dare [give her at the bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-shower-gifts) with her future mother-in-law looking on. \n\nHowever, after paying for the [bachelorette weekend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-checklist), you may want to discuss amongst the attendees if you want gift-giving at all. Another option is to set a limit on the gift’s cost. If everyone is traveling and paying for an out-of-town trip, there’s no need to burden everyone with an extra cost. \n\nBachelorette gifts for the bride don’t need to be expensive or extensive. You can choose a yummy treat or a bottle of Champagne for everyone to enjoy at the hotel before going out to show your love just as well. \n\n## Best bachelorette party gift ideas\n\nNow that we've got the etiquette covered let's dive into the gifts for the bachelorette party. The following are 25 of the best bachelorette gifts for the bride that we can think of!\n\n![gartner](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1u43YfE5fgwqlqVnRl6osU/af661f6fe58c9e80aa397ef1ee54baf3/gartner.webp)\n\n### 1. Lingerie\n\nLingerie is perhaps the most traditional bachelorette party gift. Look for something that she can wear on her wedding night, such as an “I do” [thong/garter set](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-usually-buys-the-brides-garter) or “bride” thong. Or, choose a beautiful chemise or cami that she can wear on her honeymoon and for years to come.\n\n![Morgan Lane Tommy PJ Set](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7jWj7a6N0FudeMw7YeCOkj/ce341ecf210c0616dbad643d3ec9ead9/Morgan_Lane_Tommy_PJ_Set.jpg)\n\n### 2. Luxurious pajamas\n\nIf giving lingerie isn't quite your style, opt instead to pamper the bride-to-be with a silky pair of pajamas like this [Morgan Lane Tommy PJ Set](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/morganlane_tommy_pj_set_chalk). A nice slip or matching set is both beautiful and practical. Plus, if the bride wants, she can even wear them while getting ready on the morning of her wedding.\n\n![spa gift basket](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/76nuzCBLZF06sMJJqv7Yrp/c2f57985f5f02019c278bff1e149dcc0/gift_basket.avif)\n\n### 3. Spa gift basket\n\nSome parts of [planning a wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-planning-guide) can be pretty stressful. So, a gorgeous [gift basket of spa treats](https://www.etsy.com/de-en/search?q=Spa%20Gift%20Basket&ref=search_bar) is exactly what she’ll need to relax when working her way through that endless wedding checklist. This is one of the best gifts to give at a bachelorette party, regardless of how well you know (or don’t know) the bride. It can be a collection of delicious products from a local spa or a homemade basket of goodies from brands you’ve sourced yourself.\n\n![satin lace robe](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2bhGVWiRROqxrk0zXRg5G0/7a86aee8aae1e28981987549d8324b45/satin_lace_robe.jpg)\n\n### 4. Robe\n\nYour gift doesn’t have to be racy or too sexy to be enjoyed. A pretty bridal robe, like this [Event Blossom Satin Lace Robe](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/eventblossom_satin_lace_robe_white), is perfect. She can enjoy wearing it at the spa during the bachelorette weekend and wear it again while getting ready on her wedding day. What a wonderful gift that she’s sure to enjoy after the wedding is over.\n\n![bridal care beauty box](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2U78iarhEM6aOgQzviWD7r/c320f765402390352af82095405735db/bridal_care_beauty_box.jpg)\n\n### 5. Bridal care beauty box\n\nWedding planning isn’t all cake tasting and Champagne sipping—it can be a stressful time, too. Spoil the bride-to-be with a bridal care box that contains a facial roller, face masks, and a ring cleaner. Or, create your own gift set (start with [The Prosperity Box](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/theurbanthemystic_the_prosperity_box_)). Include nail polish, bubble bath, or anything else you think that she’d like to be pampered with.\n\n![rina hat](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1lerKkC9FvRxfEPbMvDqxf/92aa9f60bf0e18ae85577cf1c1af8f0d/rina_hat.jpg)\n\n### 6. Sun hat and sunscreen\n\nIf the bachelorette is in a sunny locale such as Miami or Cancun, one fun bride-to-be bachelorette gift is a wide-brim hat ([Shiraleah’s Rina Hat](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/shiraleah_rina_hat) is our fave). A perfect addition is sunscreen, which she’ll be grateful to have all weekend long. You can also give her this gift at the bachelorette party with instructions for it to be used at a later date. if she’s having a destination wedding or going on a tropical honeymoon, she’ll be grateful for the gear.\n\n![bride to be sash](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4SfFh9DpTCTd1FA0c7BDGb/31b923cbe9c34ce58911b6bd11ca5935/bride_to_be_sash.jpg)\n\n### 7. Bride sash/swag for the weekend\n\nThe bridal sash is a long-honored tradition that is a must for any bachelorette weekend. It’s one of the staple gifts for bachelorettes who like to keep things traditional. Make this and any other fun swag, such as a tiara, flower crown, or veil, your gift to the bride. Just make sure to tell everyone that you’re in charge of these items so that she doesn’t get multiple sashes or tiaras. This [Foxblossom Co. Bride to Be Sash](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/foxblossomco_bride_to_be_sash) is a great option. \n\n![Kate Spade New York say yes mrs cz necklace](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2S2a56YsNmuroMPMekZ6RE/08ebc7378cf1fcae7eb47555e5e71fd3/Kate_Spade_New_York_say_yes_mrs_cz_necklace.jpg)\n\n### 8. Jewelry\n\nJewelry is always a classic and generous gift choice. Choose something fitting such as a “Mrs” necklace that she is sure to wear all the time. Or give her a pendant with her new monogram. Another sweet option is just a beautiful pair of earrings that you think she would love. We’re big fans of this [Kate Spade New York Say Yes Mrs. CZ Necklace](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/katespade_say_yes_mrs._cz_necklace). She can wear these out on the bachelorette weekend, on her honeymoon, and on future date nights, too. This is one of the best bachelorette gift ideas for brides who love their sparkles. \n\n![Monogram jewelry case](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1HgA285HkA60t1f5zzcYHA/40840ac71d4d9a5a6a1533fc5c29b422/Monogram_jewelry_case.avif)\n\n### 9. Monogram jewelry case\n\nFor the bride-to-be who already has a glowing jewelry collection, consider gifting a [Personalized Jewelry Case](https://www.etsy.com/de-en/listing/1577670358/custom-name-velvet-travel-jewelry?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=monogram+jewelry+box&ref=sr_gallery-1-2&pro=1&frs=1&organic_search_click=1). These can be found in a variety of shapes and styles, from boxes to pouches and bags. Some even include small mirrors on the inside, ideal for the bride who is always on the go. Make this gift extra special by getting their initials monogrammed along the top or side in shimmering foil or luxurious embossing or debossing. Expert advice: coordinate this gift with another bachelorette party-goer who plans on giving the bride-to-be jewelry.\n\n![Monogrammed luggage tags](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6gH43Y55tv89N3FWaRZPcB/48bec334a9e65db456036f54a9cc8e6d/Monogrammed_luggage_tags.jpg)\n\n### 10. Monogrammed luggage tags\n\nThese [The Paisley Box Luggage Tags](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thepaisleybox_luggage_tag) are sure to get oohs and ahhs. Not only are they among the best wedding gifts if you’re on a budget, but they’re also a great choice when it comes to bridal bachelorette gifts. If the bachelorette party takes place away from the bride’s town, they can also work as bachelorette gifts from the bride to her guests, with each of their initials. \n\n![Viski Meridian Coupe Glasses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6VYlIECO5lthln2NNpdohL/9212e446e5b16e99362ccf07e1666692/Viski_Meridian_Coupe_Glasses.jpg)\n\n### 11. Drink glasses and alcohol\n\nYou’re all likely to be drinking a lot this weekend. You might as well get the bride a gift that’s on theme. A bottle of her favorite spirit and these [Viski Meridian Coupe Glasses](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/viski_meridian_coupe_glass_set2) are spot-on. Or give whiskey glasses and a good bottle of spirits to enjoy together. Another option is to go custom and get personalized wine glasses or a monogrammed cocktail shaker. \n\nIf you’re [flying out for the bach weekend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/top-15-places-to-go-to-for-a-bachelorette-party), this gift is a bit more challenging. However, you could stop by duty-free or a liquor store when you arrive to pick something up. Alternatively, a customized shot glass (or set of them) can be a great gift idea to commemorate the bachelorette bash. Stainless steel or stemless, any one of these gifts is sure to get a lot of use.\n\n![Personalized tumbler](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4K8172g2uCLwEbkrOXkgHs/8cf006c45541c27e35a334c0708c2d78/Personalized_tumbler.jpg)\n\n### 12. Personalized tumbler\n\nWith considerable drinking—or traveling, or any physical activity—comes the need for lots of water. Think ahead on the bride's behalf by gifting a beautiful [Letter Tumbler from The Paisley Box](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thepaisleybox_30_oz._letter_tumbler_pink). They come in several colors, and you can personalize them with the bride's first initial (or new surname, if applicable) on it.\n\n![Personalized Leather Manicure Kit](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/kcUnyesBjXwYas0YwueFo/795b6d7213163e69d355caedfb7aff3b/Personalized_Leather_Manicure_Kit.avif)\n\n### 13. Manicure kit\n\nIf she’s running from A to B in the months leading up to her wedding day, the bride may not have time for a trip to the salon. So, a [Personalized Leather Manicure Kit](https://www.etsy.com/de-en/listing/1570756687/personalized-leather-manicure-set-custom?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=Manicure+Kit&ref=sc_gallery-1-1&pro=1&edd=1&sts=1&referrer_page_guid=1f016245-8faf-45a3-a753-09163165b7da&plkey=16deb8bcc951e9d14780781afac9a1f3edb8ef2f%3A1570756687) can keep her feeling her best no matter how frantic the wedding planning gets. And, of course, she can keep on using the manicure kit long after she’s said “I do!” This is one of the best bachelorette gifts for brides, both pre-wedding and post-wedding. \n\n![The Paisley Box Bride-s Notebook](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5CVj8Ky4izvEZc9XZTLSrP/53cd027e682285c38eb0678fd641fdad/The_Paisley_Box_Bride-s_Notebook.jpg)\n\n### 14. High-quality notebook\n\nSpeaking of notebooks, these little yet useful gifts are not to be overlooked. These are ideal for sentimental brides, as well as those who love their to-do lists and jotting down thoughts. She’ll enjoy a high-quality notebook to write in like this [The Paisley Box Bride's Notebook](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thepaisleybox_brides_notebook). Put a meaningful note or dedication on the first page and encourage her to document all of the fun leading up to the wedding.\n\n![Meaningful keepsake-](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4e1YuCEkGMtTQp91eT6Rcq/d1b779172fbd4ccae0c23e411fd10b41/Meaningful_keepsake-.png)\n### 15. Meaningful keepsake\n\nMothers of the bride(s) or groom(s), as well as maids or matrons of honor, may feel inclined to gift something with sentimental value attached. We know a [bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/bachelorette-party) is often a time for fun and practical gift-giving. But sometimes you just can't help but do something extra special. A locket, passed down piece of jewelry, or framed photo perfectly fit the bill for meaningful bachelorette gifts.\n\n![Personalized Gold Bride Book](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/46sVCsgwcipvASFeBrE1SU/dd8eb37c1d92c6513a2c3b6fca89d9ba/Personalized_Gold_Bride_Book.webp)\n\n### 16. Bride-to-be journal\n\nNo doubt she’ll have plenty of incredible memories from this time in her life. Consider gifting a journal in her favorite colors or from her favorite stationery brand (or a [Personalized Gold Bride Book](https://www.etsy.com/de-en/listing/1452764399/personalized-gold-bride-proposal?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=Bride-To-Be+Journal&ref=sr_gallery-1-8&edd=1&sts=1&referrer_page_guid=e2039ca4-b474-499e-b2ae-3ac9a4370a86&organic_search_click=1).) This will let her log thoughts and memories up until the big day and reminisce about them later in life. \n\n![Event Blossom Sparkle Mrs Makeup Bag](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4xexLSACuHCrinGMuyymU4/e1871f03f748e21d3c5c1cd051f7fb47/Event_Blossom_Sparkle_Mrs_Makeup_Bag.jpg)\n\n### 17. Luxe makeup bag\n\nMaybe she’s mentioned a stylish lipstick she’ll be wearing on her big day. Or perhaps she’s treating herself to some fancy brands to commemorate this special time. A new [Event Blossom Sparkle Mrs Makeup Bag](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/eventblossom_sparkle_mrs_makeup_bag) makes the whole thing feel even more special. \n\n![Subscription box](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3mzGkkkth5fU6xAyvuZjy0/12067807fc6046e12fb81824fcde6d04/Subscription_box.jpg)\n\n### 18. Subscription box\n\nYou can shape this gift around her interests, hobbies, and passions. Or you can pool efforts and each contribute something to a homemade box of goodies. While choosing a subscription box is a relatively stress-free option, you can also take inspiration from boxes online and build your own to fit her tastes. Not sure where to start? Think about her favorite snacks, jewelry brands, drinks, or other personal interests. \n\n![What Do You Meme](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5wcZ8Sa6H8HAmZDzifZgLX/d95ded8b143d7e14f44a3e6f8f60b11e/What_Do_You_Meme.jpg)\n\n### 19. Gag/joke gifts\n\nIf there’s ever a chance to give your friend a gag gift that’s funny or inappropriate, the bachelorette party is it. Just make sure this fits her personality and won’t be offensive in any way if she’s not up for it. Some examples of bachelorette gifts like this include edible underwear, vibrators, or other toys or games that you think she and her future spouse could enjoy together. Or, keep it simple with this [What Do You Meme? For The Girls Party Game](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/whatdoyoumeme_adult_party_game_for_the_girls). \n\nCheck out our articles, [Bachelorette Party Game Questions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-game-questions-youll-love) and [Bachelorette Party Games the Squad will Love](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-games), to help get the party going!\n\n![Upgraded tote](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/47bxFvOeZpZxB8mm3xaZ9O/b9f9bee71cf7c0b99830804d3ee250f3/Upgraded_tote.webp)\n\n### 20. Upgraded tote\n\nPerhaps one of the gifts with the most uses (travel, the market, day-to-day wear), a high-quality [Bridal Bundle Bag Set](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1422333158/personalized-bridal-bundle-bag-set-bride), which won't go underappreciated. If you're especially crafty, this can be personalized, but any pattern, print, or brand is sure to go over well. What's more, you can use a tote as a gift bag to hold something a little extra—like a bottle of wine or notebook.\n\n![HomeWetBar Highbury Custom Flask](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1RABzQnaQfzfJhZYcCU0ER/1e3e89b1028aa2ceb1aec545792d3908/HomeWetBar_Highbury_Custom_Flask.jpg)\n\n### 21. Personalized hip flask\nNot all bachelorette parties involve alcohol. But if hers does, a [HomeWetBar Highbury Custom Flask](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/homewetbar_highbury_custom_flask) is one of the best bachelorette gifts you’ll find. Got more budget left over? Buy her a bottle of her favorite spirit to go along with the hip flask. Better yet, if she’ll be changing her name, get her new initials printed on the flask as a reminder of exciting things to come.\n\n![Zola Wedding Albums Album Gift Card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1wtMT8t9aQs5ibqgNgDx2J/1df1dd0edc3bd84e79d5e10955be831e/Zola_Wedding_Albums_Album_Gift_Card.jpg)\n\n### 22. Custom photo album\n\nFill a custom photo album with pictures from the bachelorette party, as well as all her other wedding memories. You can also stock it with favorite memories of you and the bride-to-be or a selection of photos of the bride and groom-to-be. Buy her a [Zola Wedding Albums Album Gift Card](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/zolaweddingalbums_classic_album_) if you’re not sure where to start.\n\n![Homesick Just Married Candle](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2V2873Urzz5mOep48xh8Lq/f636b1fa1593fa2371ecfb18bc9fcf8c/Homesick_Just_Married_Candle.jpg)\n\n### 23. Set of candles or a diffuser\n\nIf you want to step things up a notch, you can personalize these candles or the diffuser set with something significant. Add her wedding date, initials, name, or something else that’s special to her. Plus, her space will be smelling lovely in no time. We love this [Homesick Just Married Candle](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/homesick_just_married_candle).\n\n![Foxblossom Co. Bachelorette Party Bride Tank Top](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1FKBMoSGZspWnMcLG4VH5z/3c0bea905a891f5e7eeb0a5e78d741df/Foxblossom_Co._Bachelorette_Party_Bride_Tank_Top.jpg)\n\n### 24. Bride tank or t-shirt\n\nShe’s only going to be a bride once, so she might as well enjoy it to the fullest. A bride tank or T-shirt, like this [Foxblossom Co. Bachelorette Party Bride Tank Top](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/foxblossomco_bachelorette_party_bride_tank_top), will make her feel special. Of course, it will also guarantee she's the center of attention throughout the celebration and leading up to the [wedding day](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-planning-101/wedding-day).\n\n![custom stationery](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/27G8dXiNe7oEdZEJ2M70IO/1fedd05d6622fbe2f96546c261c8ec3f/custom_stationery.jpg)\n\n### 25. Thank you stationery \n\nA classic choice that never goes out of fashion. She could just send a round of “thank you” emails to family and friends. But being able to hand-write her gratitude on [custom stationery](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-planning-101/wedding-day)? That’s a whole lot more exciting. When it comes to bachelorette gifts, this is one of the most useful.\n\n## Bachelorette Gifts FAQs\n\n## What is a bachelorette party?\n\nA bachelorette party is a contemporary wedding tradition where a bride celebrates her final nights as a non-married woman. It's usually thrown by and spent with bridesmaids. However, the whole bridal party (maid of honor, mother of the bride, etc.) or other close friends and family members can also play host. Some couples are choosing to throw joint bachelor/bachelorette parties. If that peaks your interest, read our guide on [How to Throw a Joint Bach Party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/joint-bachelor-bachelorette-party-games).\n\nBachelorette parties may last a single evening, a weekend, or even an entire week. They can be extravagant, have a fun theme, or be laid back. During this time, a groom will likely have his own [bachelor party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelor-party-ideas) with his groomsmen and loved ones.\n\nTypical activities include, but are not limited to, spa days, lounging by the pool, scenic hikes, meals together, spending time in a decked-out Airbnb, and going out to drink and dance. Of course, brides and their parties may do whatever they consider a good time in celebration of the upcoming big day. Guests may also give wedding gifts to the bride, and hosts can give out bachelorette party favors.\n\nPlanning the party and need some theme inspo? Check out [60 Best Bachelorette Party Themes](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-themes).\n\n## Are gifts required?\n\nBachelorette gifts for the bride are usually optional—especially if your budget is tight. The host should discuss with everyone ahead of time to determine if gifts are required and what she is thinking in terms of what the bride might like. If someone in the group is crafty, they may offer to make the bridal sash or bedazzle the tiara as their gift.\n\nYou could also work the cost of the gift into your bachelorette weekend budget, such as offering to buy a round of shots or pay for the cupcakes. If you’re stretched thin and everyone else is bringing a gift, a nice card telling her how much she means to you, along with an offer to buy her lunch or coffee after she gets back from the honeymoon, will go a long way.\n\nStill looking for bachelorette gifts? [Explore more gifts here](https://www.zola.com/shop/collection/new-arrivals) on Zola. \n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_WebsiteQuiz"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Deciding who pays for the bachelorette party can be a tricky conversation. 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Find the perfect party for every bride!","author":"Quinlan Grim","publishedAt":"2023-12-28T00:00-05:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/33vA9FilPkEXnDkMjTkg5F/e698249214e8c6ce0673ab8fbee59392/pexels-yuliia-auer-5303406.jpg","altText":"Bachelorette Party Themes & Party Names"},"heroCredit":"Yuliia Auer via Unsplash","heroCaption":"Bride and bridesmaids holding BRIDE balloons by a pool.","body":"Celebrating the bride at her bachelorette party is one of the best ways to de-stress before the wedding and get to know her closest friends. While some brides prefer an exciting weekend bash, others would rather relax with their favorite people. If you’ve been tasked with [planning a bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bachelorette-party), your job is to put the bride’s interests first and then fill in the rest of the details.\n\nOnce you have a clear idea of how the bride wants to celebrate, the fun begins! Maybe your bride has a [wedding theme](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-themes) she loves that you can incorporate into the bachelorette party. These themes range from wild and crazy to sophisticated and chill, so you can find the perfect theme to party with your crew. First, let’s take a look at the latest bach party trends…\n\n## What are the latest trends in bachelorette party themes?\n\n[Bachelorette parties](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bachelorette-parties) are constantly changing with the times. So, what are the latest bach party trends for 2024?\n\nWe’ve seen several trends continuing from 2023, plus hot new trends emerging. Here are some highlights:\n\n- Summer bach parties – Spring used to be the most popular season for bachelorette parties, but with the rise of fall wedding popularity, we’re seeing more bashes in mid-to-late summer. \n- Bachelorette photo shoots – Forget about the wedding photos — the latest trend is to hire a professional photographer for your bachelorette party to capture lasting memories. \n- Short and sweet bridal bashes – As more people return to the office, many bachelorette parties return to pre-pandemic length: one night or a weekend.\n- Daytime parties – The combination of short weekends and summer parties has more bridal party events starting in the daytime, from mimosa brunches to lounging poolside. \n\nTo sum it up, sunny, quick, well-documented parties are all the rage in 2024. But that doesn’t mean you have to go with what’s popular! Consider your bride’s preferences and choose the pre-wedding activities that fit her style. \n\nFeeling like you need a little inspo? Here are 60 fun ideas to get your creative juices flowing. \n\n## Favorite bachelorette party themes\n\nHere are a few witty bach party ideas we love this year.\n\n### 1. Bohemian bash party \n\nTake it easy and plan some relaxing activities for the boho bride. Get outdoors and explore some beautiful scenery by visiting a winery or going on a hike to bond with your bride tribe. To wind down, attend a group yoga or Pilates class and find your zen before the big day comes.\n\nAnother fun spin on a boho bachelorette is to go with a “Bachella” festival theme for the music lover. Bring in all the florals, earth tones and macramé decorations to create a chill vibe for your party. Vintage patterns and fabrics make great backdrops for photo booths and dinner parties.\n\n#### Activity ideas:\n\n- Make [flower crowns](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-make-a-flower-crown) with your crew\n- Attend a group yoga class\n- Have an outdoor patio party\n- Tour a vineyard\n\n#### Destination ideas:\n\n- Sonoma, California\n- Scottsdale, Arizona\n- Tulum, Mexico\n\n![bachelorette-party-ideas-boho](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2swfQJRFWGmHBTxz1zHHNt/9a7bb6e77b01463505c17787a7abff06/bachelorette-party-ideas-boho.jpg)\n\n__Sources:__ Vintage drink glasses via [Magnolia Studios](http://www.magnoliastudios.ca/) | Tattoos via [Fancy That Loved](https://www.etsy.com/listing/265895976/bride-tribe-temporary-bachelorette-party) | Tablescape via [Twink + Sis](http://www.twinkandsis.com/) | Boho chair via [Madison Short](https://madisonrshort.com) and [Christine McFarlane Events](https://www.christinemcfarlaneevents.com/) \n\n### 2. Let’s get nauti-cal\n\nWant to head somewhere warm and sunny with your crew? A nautical bachelorette is the way to go. Deck out your “I Do” crew with sailor hats, fanny packs, and beach hats to create a weekend fit for the sea. If you’re planning a destination bachelorette party, consider some beach getaways and try to book a beach house or boat ride. Nautical-themed goodies like inflatable beach balls, palm trees, and anchors make great decorations for your weekend pad.\n\nLet your hair down, put your toes in the sand and celebrate the bride’s last sail before the veil with a “Let’s Get Nauti” themed bachelorette.\n\n#### Activity ideas:\n\n- Go on a boat ride or rent jet skis\n- Grab some beach chairs and relax on the beach\n- Have a sandcastle competition with [wedding boutique prizes](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop)\n\n#### Destination ideas:\n\n- Destin, Florida\n- Nantucket, Massachusetts\n- Malibu, California\n\n![bachelorette-party-ideas-nautical](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6xkuLszHftoQfnASYjlHv9/8b0bca55c29e6797b7e4afa366393ef2/bachelorette-party-ideas-nautical.jpg)\n\n__Sources:__ Bride on a boat via [Katrina Malaiba](https://www.instagram.com/katrinamalaiba/) | Nautical goodies via [Everyday Pursuits](https://www.everydaypursuits.com/blog//2015/09/nautical-bachelorette-party-essentials.html) | Beach ball drink stirrers via [Studio DIY](https://studiodiy.com/2013/07/24/diy-beach-ball-drink-stirrers/) | Nautical table setting via [Pizzazzerie](https://pizzazzerie.com/parties-weve-styled/nautical-party-style-mud-pie-faves/) | Beach hats via [Love Always, Audrey](http://www.lovealwaysaudrey.com/2016/06/beach-bachelorette-party/)\n\n### 3. The final fiesta\n\nPerfect for any time of year, this theme brings together [delicious food](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-food-ideas) and bright colors to create an atmosphere that makes you want to sip margaritas with your senoritas. Celebrate the bride-to-be with a fiesta-themed party full of quirky cactus decor and piñatas. Using just balloons and streamers, you can turn any hotel room or guest house into a desert oasis. As for the tasty treats, margarita-flavored cupcakes and a nacho or taco bar make great party snacks.\n\nThis final fiesta will have all of your friends crashing for a siesta in the afternoon.\n\n#### Activity ideas:\n\n- Try out salsa dancing\n- Build your own taco bar\n- Take a swing at a pinata\n\n#### Destination ideas:\n\n- San Diego, California\n- Miami, Florida\n- Cancun, Mexico\n\n### 4. Glamping weekend\nBachelorette parties are perfect for escaping the stress of planning a wedding so why not escape to the great outdoors? For the bride who likes to explore and unwind, consider planning a weekend in the woods. Whether you decide to stay in a cabin or glamping tent, this weekend will be full of new experiences. Create a cozy atmosphere using lots of blankets and pillows to make your campsite feel like home. For party favors, you can make some adorable fire starter kits with matches or create your own rustic wood coasters.\n\nHead out to where the wild things are and create a weekend full of happy campers.\n\n#### Activity ideas:\n\n- Take a nature hike\n- Make s’mores around the campfire\n- Try outdoor sports like fishing or whitewater rafting\n\n#### Destination ideas:\n\n- Denver, Colorado\n- Jackson, Wyoming\n- Portland, Oregon\n\n### 5. Tropic like it’s hot\n\nTake the bachelorette party to the tropics for a weekend that feels like a mini-vacay. Palm leaf prints, fresh florals, and bold colors make this tropical party bright and cheery. Add some fun flamingo and pineapple decor to turn your room into a tropical oasis. Sip fruity cocktails by the pool or head to the beach for a fun day in the sun. This [tropical palm swimsuit](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/eventblossom_tropical_palm_swimsuit) is perfect for the occasion! \nGrab some fabulous straw beach hats, and bright pool floats for a pool party no one will forget.\n\nAs the bride says “aloha” to married life, take this weekend to pamper her best friends.\n\n#### Activity ideas:\n\n- Get group manicures and pedicures\n- Hang out poolside\n- Play prosecco pong\n\n#### Destination ideas:\n\n- Key West, Florida\n- Cabo San Lucas, Mexico\n- Palm Springs, California\n\n### 6. The disco ball dancing queens\n\nMamma Mia, here we go again! Tell the wedding party to bring their best platform shoes and sequin tops for an ABBA-inspired, 70’s themed bachelorette bash. Serve appetizers inspired by the decade. Chill by the beach or pool in the daytime, then hit the bars at night in your silliest ’70s outfits. \n\n#### Activity ideas:\n\n- Take Mamma Mia-inspired photo shoots\n- Go bar-hopping\n- Watch musicals in your PJs \n\n#### Destination ideas:\n\n- Los Angeles, California\n- Miami, Florida\n- Las Vegas, Nevada\n\n### 7. Last splash mermaid bash\nFor the mermaid bride trading her tail for a veil, celebrate her bachelorette by the sea. Use plenty of sparkles and soft pastel colors to decorate your under-the-sea party with bubbles, seashells, and sea creatures. As for dress code, have your mermaid squad pack their swimsuits and gift them beach towels as a party favor so they’ll have a souvenir to take home. Add some mermaid-themed snacks and dive in.\n\nWhether you’re by the pool or hanging at the beach, you can party your tails off in full mermaid fashion.\n\n#### Activity ideas:\n\n- Set up a Mermosa bar\n- Prepare for a night out with a mermaid glitter bar\n- Have a last splash pool party\n\n#### Destination ideas:\n\n- Charleston, South Carolina\n- Santa Monica, California\n- Seaside, Florida\n\n![bachelorette-party-ideas-mermaid](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/kUilxNyW9RZ88kfFcZAMv/b47120f894403d96e97ca19810ee8c33/bachelorette-party-ideas-mermaid.jpg)\n\n__Sources:__ Photobooth and koozie via [Vandi Fair](https://vandifair.com/mermaid-bachelorette-party/) | Mermaid glitter bar via [Rachel Emma Studio](https://www.rachelemmastudio.com/blog/2018/5/23/diy-ideas-for-pop-up-stations-at-your-wedding) | Macarons via [Taste by Spellbound](http://spellbound.bigcartel.com/)\n\n## Low-key bachelorette party themes\n\nFor the low-key bride, here are a few mellow ideas that fit any style and budget.\n\n### 8. Bachelorette slumber party\n\nHost a sleepover — or two — with your besties. Paint your nails, make delicious snacks, and watch some of the bride’s favorite movies. This bach theme is perfect for a stay-at-home bachelorette party or a vacation rental. If you’re up for it, you can throw in an outing like a brunch or a trip to a brewery.\n\n### 9. Manis and mimosas spa day\n\nOnly have a day to celebrate? No problem. Take the group on a spa day for facials, manicures, and relaxing massages. This is a great celebration to kick off with a mimosa brunch or enjoy champagne and light snacks without the day. The nice thing about this bachelorette theme is that you can do it anywhere. Your spa day can be one event in a bachelorette weekend or a stand-alone party. \n\n### 10. Backyard BBQ\n\nIf someone in your bridal party can share their home, why not host a backyard barbecue? This theme is super accommodating to brides or bridesmaids with families, jobs, and busy lives. Bring your cowgirl hat and cook up your favorite barbecue dishes. You can include yard games like darts or cornhole, blend some margaritas, or just hang out with your best friends.\n\n### 11. Yoga and wellness-themed\n\nWho says a bachelorette party has to be about late nights and partying? A wellness-themed bachelorette party is perfect for a bride who loves to take care of herself. You could attend a yoga class together or hire a yoga teacher to visit your vacation rental. Other activities might include a sauna, massages, meditation, or spin class. Food can include green juice, smoothies, or a meal out at your local vegan restaurant.\n\n### 12. Movie night\n\nHost a movie night in your home or backyard. You might want to rent a projector screen to watch the bride’s favorite movies on the big screen. Be sure to bring popcorn and other movie-friendly snacks. If you want to fit in other activities, consider a costume contest with [wedding boutique prizes](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/pre-wedding-activities/bachelorette-parties), movie-themed drinking games, or making specialty cocktails that go with the movie.\n\n### 13. Vintage vibe campout\n\nAirbnb and other rental sites offer trailer rentals. This can be the perfect setting for your vintage bachelorette party in the woods, [like this one](https://www.100layercake.com/2011/12/12/lets-get-cozy-bachelorette-party-shoot/). Bring a barbecue and some hot apple cider, play games, and listen to your favorite vintage tunes. Don’t forget to bring a camera to capture the adorable vintage vibes. \n\n### 14. Celestial celebration\n\nYour bride has found someone she loves to the moon and back — celebrate their love with a night amongst the stars. Hire a fortune teller to read your tarot cards and learn more about your star signs, getting in touch with the cosmos before the big day.\n\n### 15. Game night\n\nFor the casual yet competitive brides out there, why not host a game night? Have all your friends bring their favorite card games, board games, or drinking games if you want to get a little silly. Order takeout and have casual beers or cocktails as you spend the night laughing and playing together. \n\n## Celebrity bachelorette party themes\n\nYour bride is the star of her show. Help her feel like the star of every show with a dazzling celebrity-themed bachelorette party. \n\n### 16. The eras tour bachelorette fan party\n\nThrowing a party for a Swiftie? A Taylor Swift bachelorette theme is perfect for a Nashville retreat or a night out in your hometown. Tell your guests to dress as their favorite era, take pictures, and then hit the town. You’ll get plenty of attention on a bar crawl or at a trendy restaurant. \n\n### 17. Beyoncé bachelorette\n\nNo one throws a more fabulous party than Queen Bee herself. A Beyonce theme is ideal for a night out in the big city, whether it’s LA, Vegas, or New York. Guests can dress in their favorite looks and blast Beyonce as they get ready to go out. \n\n### 18. Love on tour bach\n\nIf your bride is a Harry Styles fan, she’ll adore a Love on Tour theme. Decorate your venue in pastel colors and play concert footage in the background. Bachelorette party attire can be anything from flowy hippy dresses to bright, 70’s-era tops — or better yet, dress up as Harry himself! \n\n### 19. Night in Paris\n\nEmbrace your inner sparkle with a night of glitz and glam. This theme goes well with champagne dinners or after a day at the spa. The dress code should involve shimmery items and the classic red lip. Consider a fashion show, complete with catwalks and catcalls from the party. If you're going out, grab a beret for everyone to wear and offer macarons as party favors. \n\n### 20. Bride to be in Glee\n\nCalling all Gleeks! When you send your bachelorette party invitations, tell your guests to dress as their favorite Glee character. You could spend a night binge-watching the show or head out for a bar crawl in your costumes. Food and drink ideas include “cafeteria-style” charcuterie boards, boozy slushies, and fondue “for two.” \n\n## Daring bachelorette party themes\n\nDoes your bride love the spotlight? Here are a few daring themes for her to show off her wild side before she enters married life.\n\n### 21. Wiggin out\n\nGet wiggy with it! Put on your silliest wigs and go out dancing with your crew. Other activities could include classic bachelorette party games, a silly photo shoot, or a dance party at home. Pair your wigs with extravagant outfits and enjoy dinner at a laidback venue before you hit the town.\n\n### 22. Bach and boujee\n\nTreat yourself to a night of indulgence. This theme includes gold decorations, luxurious spa treatments, and plenty of champagne. Make reservations at an elegant restaurant or cocktail bar. This can be a great opportunity for a boujee photoshoot or video.\n\n### 23. Casino night\n\nA destination bachelorette trip in Vegas is always fun. However, you can throw your own casino night anywhere. Dress up in your best cocktail attire and play card games or dice at home, or visit the closest casino. If you want to emphasize the Vegas theme, throw in an Elvis costume. Make sure to decorate with bold lights and bright colors.\n\n### 24. Fifty Shades of Grey\nFor the brides with a naughty side, host a Fifty Shades of Grey party. Have every guest bring a kinky gift for the bride. She can open her gifts at the party while enjoying snacks and themed drinks. Set out an empty journal or slips of paper to let guests contribute anonymous suggestions for how to put those gifts to good use.\n\n### 25. Champagne campaign\n\nPop the champagne! Champagne Campaign is a perfect theme for a bachelorette party or bridal shower. Enjoy a champagne brunch complete with pastries and other sweets. Or, have several types of champagne and offer tastings. For decoration inspiration, check out this [champagne balloon photo backdrop](https://karaspartyideas.com/2018/03/champagne-brunch-bridal-shower.html).\n\n### 26. Karaoke night\n\nGet silly with a karaoke night! Take the squad to your local karaoke bar or rent a karaoke machine and sing your favorite songs at home. This fun theme pairs well with fruity cocktails and fun, eccentric outfits. Don’t be afraid to let your silly side shine.\n\n## Adventurous bachelorette party themes\n\nHere are a few adventurous, outdoorsy bachelorette trip themes for brides who love to get out there. \n\n### 27. Winery weekend\n\nPlan a getaway to wine country! Napa Valley, California, is famous for producing some of the world’s best wines. It’s a great place to rent a vacation home and get away for the weekend. While you’re there, visit some renowned restaurants in Santa Rosa, go for a hike along the Russian River, or visit the coast about an hour away. \n\n### 28. Bae-watch beach bash\n\nTake your bride squad to the beach and pack your best “bae-watch” bikinis. Your bachelorette beach party can include surf lessons, suntanning, and tropical drinks. Any beach destination would work for this theme, but a warm climate like Southern California or Florida is ideal.\n\n### 29. Boots and bling before the ring\n\nGet on your hat and cowgirl boots for this country-themed bachelorette party. This is the perfect theme for destinations like Nashville, Tennessee or Austin, Texas. Even though you’re dressed in Western attire, don’t be afraid to shine with sequins, flashy jewelry, and plenty of pinks. \n\n### 30. The hunt is over\n\nThis jungle-themed bachelorette is like a mini-safari. Dress up in your favorite animal prints and explore the city of your choice. Let your bride show off her wild side — you can even complete the look with animal ears and tails as party favors.\n\n### 31. Last swing before the ring\n\nIs your bride a baseball fan? Head to a ballgame with your crew, dressed in your best flashy outfits. Bring signs and try to get your bride on the jumbotron! Beers and ballpark snacks are a must, but you can also pair this theme with a fun dinner or bar crawl after the game. \n\n### 32. Flannel fling before the ring\n\nFor the outdoorsy type, a cozy, campfire-themed bach party is perfect for fall. Wear your comfiest flannels and head out for a weekend in the woods. This can be a camping trip or a getaway to a rustic cabin. Make sure you pack some marshmallows for s’mores, hot chocolate, and other tasty fireside treats. \n\n### 33. Lake life weekend\n\nHead to the lake for a laidback weekend with your crew. Activities can include canoeing or kayaking, fishing, swimming, or just tanning by the water. Head into the local town for dinner, or stay in your rental cabin and cook together. \n\n### 34. Celebrating puppy love\n\nIf your bride is an animal lover, consider spending a day volunteering at your local animal shelter. Many shelters need volunteers to walk, play with, and help socialize their dogs. You might even be able to take the pups on a hike or spend a day at the park. The only challenge? Trying not to take one home! \n\n### 35. Vail before the veil\n\nA winter bachelorette party is perfect for a spring wedding — and there’s no better winter getaway than Vail, Colorado. Rent a cabin or book some hotel rooms and hit the slopes. Printed beanies are a great way for your group to stand out, whether you’re skiing, boarding, skating, or exploring town. \n\n### 36. Jetset to the next adventure\n\nFor the international bride! Design [bachelorette party invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-nail-down-bachelorette-party-invite-wording) that look like passports, then serve food and drinks from around the world. This is a budget-friendly option to explore new places without actually leaving home. \n\n### 37. Hiking and biking\n\nMake it an active bach party by planning hikes and bike trips to whichever destination you choose. Enjoy the scenery, visit local breweries, and take plenty of photos as you go. This is the perfect theme for a casual yet adventurous bride who loves the outdoors. \n\n## Classy bachelorette party themes\n\nFor the elegant brides, here are a few themes that will make your crew feel like royalty.\n\n### 38. High-tea party\n\nSwap the mimosas for tea and enjoy a sophisticated tea party, complete with finger sandwiches, sweets, and imported chocolates. Party decorations should include florals and bright colors. If fresh flowers are in your budget, they’ll add an elegant touch to the table.\n\n### 39. Painting and wine\n\nHost a wine and painting night with your bride squad. This is a unique bachelorette theme as it lets you make your own souvenirs. You can attend a wine-and-painting class, watch a YouTube video for instruction, or just grab your paintbrushes and get creative. To keep it budget-friendly, ask every attendee to bring a bottle of wine and a snack. If you don't drink all of the wine, the bride gets to keep it for future use.\n\n### 40. Brunch and bubbly\n\nEnjoy a classy brunch with a full mimosa bar [like this one](https://www.peachfullychic.com/domestic/entertain/fall-brunch-biscuit-mimosa-bar-ideas/). This can be the start of a longer bachelorette weekend or a standalone event. Decorations can include rose-gold balloons, flowers, and champagne bottle prints.\n\n### 41. Chop it like it’s hot cooking class\n\nPut your cooking skills to the test with a professional cooking class. It could be an in-person class at your local community center or an online class with a program like MasterClass. Pop a bottle of bubbly and get cooking while listening to the bride’s favorite tunes. For party supplies, consider cute custom aprons with the date and bride’s name!\n\n### 42. Kentucky derby\n\nGet “down and derby” with your squad. This theme is all about delicious Southern cooking and extravagant outfits. Make some mint juleps or sweet tea and hand out fun party favors like [these fabulous hats](https://ohhappyday.com/2017/04/kentucky-derby-party/). \n\n### 43. Garden party\n\nEmbrace your inner fairy princess with a frilly flower garden party. Dress up in pastel colors — you can even hand out fairy wings — and host a brunch or lunch in a green garden. This is a great chance to try your croquet skills. Decorations include fresh flowers, floral prints, tiaras, and sparkles. Serve plenty of sweet treats and tea or cocoa. \n\n## Dress-up bachelorette party themes\n\nIf you and your crew love to get creative, consider these fun dress-up themes and bachelorette group outfit ideas. \n\n### 44. Come On Barbie, let’s go party\n\nShe’s everything. He’s just (insert groom’s name). Celebrate your bride with pink everything, bright workout gear, and high heels at this Malibu pool party. You could choose classic Barbie attire or ask your goals to dress up as their favorite character from the Barbie movie. Other activities include rollerblading, a dance party, or hanging out on the beach.\n\n### 45. Rockstars meet up\n\nParty like a rockstar! Dress up as your favorite rockstars and hit the town. This is a great theme for a destination bachelorette party in Vegas or another big city. If your crew prefers to stay in, throw a karaoke party or play RockBand together.\n\n### 46. Back to the 90s\n\nHave your bride squad dress up in vintage outfits and dance to your favorite 90s bands. If you want to go out, bring a boombox and blast 90’s tunes as you travel from place to place. You can end the night watching 90’s movies and TV shows. \n\n### 47. Celebrate the 80s\n\nChannel your inner Madonna with this bachelorette theme featuring big hair and 80s tunes. Put on your best spandex outfits, slap RC cola labels on your drinks, and hit the town together. As a bonus, take your squad to a karaoke bar and perform like your favorite 80s artists.\n\n### 48. Time for a masquerade\n\nThrow a classic masquerade bash with your people. This is the perfect theme for a bachelorette trip to New Orleans — eat some jambalaya and beignets, throw on some masks and party beads, and let the good times roll.\n\n### 49. Gatsby themed bash\n\nCelebrate like it’s the roaring 20s with flapper dresses, jazz, and champagne cocktails. For inspiration, check out [this Great Gatsby party](http://theblissfulbalance.com/a-little-party-never-killed-nobody/). This theme can be tons of fun for a house party or daytime pool party. \n\n### 50. Breakfast at Tiffany’s\n\nChoose Tiffany-blue décor and pearls for this party. Ask your friends to wear their favorite black bachelorette party outfit and pair it with cat-eye glasses. Throw brunch at home or in a rented venue, then spend the day shopping and \ntreating yourselves.\n\n### 51. The Royal bachelorette\n\nMake your bride feel like a queen. Take inspiration from The Crown and throw a royal English bachelorette, including teatime and English treats. As a bonus, you can pick your royalty era and dress up as Victorian or Edwardian royalty.\n\n### 52. From muggle to Mrs.\n\nIf your bride is a Harry Potter fanatic, this is the theme for you. Make your own butterbeer, serve Bertie Bott’s Every Flavor Beans, and sort your party guests into Hogwarts houses. Your invitations and décor should revolve around the theme: “We solemnly swear we’re up to no good.”\n\n### 53. So fetch bachelorette\n\nYou can’t sip with us! Wear the classic pink outfits from Mean Girls and watch the movie together. Decorations can include burn book posters and cutouts of Aaron Samuels — maybe with the groom’s face. Print T-shirts with your favorite Mean Girls quotes as party favors.\n\n### 54. Happily ever after\n\nCelebrate your bride’s happily ever after with a fairytale-themed bachelorette party. Dress up as your favorite princesses, and make sure you give the bride a tiara. This is a great theme for a brunch or daytime bachelorette party.\n\n### 55. F-R-I-E-N-D-S\n\nIt’s The One Where She Gets Married! Pay tribute to the late, great Matthew Perry with a groovy bachelorette party based on the hit 90’s sitcom. Dress in vintage 90’s clothes, print custom Central Perk mugs or shot glasses, and create an iconic yellow picture frame photo booth.\n\n### 56. Unicorn glitter\n\nFor a girly bride who loves to go all-out, throw a unicorn glitter party. Tell everyone to wear their best sparkly outfits and hand out unicorn horns as party favors. This is one of the best bachelorette theme night outfits for an outgoing group who wants to attract plenty of attention when they hit the town.\n\n### 57. Getting meowied\n\nIs your bride a crazy cat lady? A kitty-inspired bachelorette can include cat ears, funny cat prints and T-shirts, and stuffed animals as party favors. One activity could be visiting a cat café. \n\n### 58. The Bachelorette\n\nShe’s ready to give out her final rose. If your squad is renting a mansion for your party, why not celebrate like you’re on The Bachelorette? Wear stunning cocktail dresses and binge-watch the series as you’re getting ready. For activities, pick your favorite date concepts from the show. \n\n### 59. Sex and the city\n\nGet inspired by the original iconic girl squad. This is a fabulous yet sophisticated theme for a bridal party that loves to dress up. Watch the TV series or movies as you get ready, then head out to your favorite cocktail bar dressed as the characters.\n\n### 60. Disney magic\n\nEvery bride deserves a magical bachelorette party. A Disney trip is an amazing choice for a destination bachelorette trip. However, you can also throw your own Disney Magic party at home with Disney-themed decorations, the bride’s favorite movies, and snacks and drinks inspired by the happiest place on Earth.\n\n### Find what you need to plan all your wedding activities at Zola\n\nOnce you pick your theme, it’s time to start planning. This is the fun part! You’ll find everything you need for the party, from [bachelorette party shirts](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/eventblossom_retro_bridal_party_fitted_tshirt) to the best [venues and vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors), at Zola. \n","body2":" \n\n### Bride's Final Fiesta\n\nPerfect for any time of year, this theme brings together delicious [food](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-food-ideas) and bright colors to create an atmosphere that makes you want to sip margaritas with your senoritas. Celebrate the bride to be with a fiesta themed party full of quirky cactus decor and pinatas. Using just balloons and streamers, you can turn any hotel room or guest house into a desert oasis. As for the tasty treats, margarita flavored cupcakes and a nacho or taco bar make great party snacks. \n\nThis final fiesta will have all of your girls crashing for a siesta in the afternoon. \n\n__Activity ideas:__\n- Try out salsa dancing\n- Build your own taco bar\n- Take a swing at a pinata\n\n__Destination ideas:__\n- San Diego, California\n- Miami, Florida\n- Cancun, Mexico\n\n![bachelorette-party-ideas-fiesta](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/68r9HBSRNt1Hlo6QPrs4Jp/2d888ba574a51c1765ac6b01893533ba/bachelorette-party-ideas-fiesta.jpg)\n\n__Sources:__ Fiesta sign via [Giggles Galore](https://gigglesgalore.net/boho-chicks-and-churros-fiesta-party/) | Fiesta cookies via [Cowtown Cookie Co.](https://www.cowtowncookieco.com/cookies) | Cactus balloons via [Design Improvised](https://designimprovised.com/2015/06/cactus-balloons.html) | Fiesta garland via [The House That Lars Built](http://thehousethatlarsbuilt.com/2018/04/printable-papel-picado-streamers.html/) | Siesta blanket and eyemasks via and [Simply Audree Kate](https://www.simplyaudreekate.com/bachelorette-weekend-arsenas-final-fiesta/) and [Brooke Marcella Photography](https://www.brookemarcella.com/)\n\n \n\n### Glamping Girls Weekend\n\nBachelorette parties are perfect for escaping the stress of planning a wedding so why not escape to the great outdoors? For the bride who likes to explore and unwind, consider planning a weekend in the woods for you and your girls. Whether you decide to stay in a cabin or glamping tent, this weekend will be full of new experiences. Create a cozy atmosphere using lots of blankets and pillows to make your campsite feel like home. For party favors, you can make some adorable fire starter kits with matches or create your own rustic wood coasters. \n\nHead out to where the wild things are and create a weekend full of happy campers. \n\n__Activity ideas:__\n- Take a nature hike\n- Make smores around the campfire\n- Try outdoor sports like fishing or whitewater rafting\n\n__Destination ideas:__\n- Denver, Colorado\n- Jackson, Wyoming\n- Portland, Oregon\n\n![bachelorette-party-ideas-glamping](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/aFK61BmuPalOGWV449AcE/802c15a17be4f288a8c81d230641d2e1/bachelorette-party-ideas-glamping.jpg)\n\n__Sources:__ Glamping tent and blankets via [Gypsy Canyon Baja](https://www.gypsycanyonbaja.com/) and [Ana and Jerome Photography](https://www.anaandjerome.com/) | Wooden coasters via [House of Hawthornes](https://www.houseofhawthornes.com/arrow-wood-slice-coasters/) | Camp rules via [Legally Crafty](https://www.legallycraftyblog.com/blog/a-weekend-in-the-woods-camp-themed-bachelorette-party) and [Just Add Confetti](https://www.justaddconfetti.com/) | S’mores bar via [Katherine Mendieta](http://www.katherinemendieta.com/travel/glamping-bachelorette-camp-wandawega-wisconsin)\n\n \n\n### Tropic Like It’s Hot\n\nTake the bachelorette party to the tropics for a weekend that feels like a mini-vacay. Palm leaf prints, fresh florals, and bold colors make this tropical party bright and cheery. Add some fun flamingo and pineapple decor to turn your room into a tropical oasis. Sip fruity cocktails by the pool or head to the beach for a fun day in the sun. Adorn some fabulous straw beach hats and bright pool floats for a pool party no one will forget. \n\nAs the bride says “aloha” to married life, take this weekend to pamper her special girls.\n\n__Activity ideas:__\n- Get group manicures and pedicures\n- Hangout poolside\n- Play prosecco pong\n\n__Destination ideas:__\n- Key West, Florida\n- Cabo San Lucas, Mexico\n- Palm Springs, California\n\n![bachelorette-party-ideas-tropical](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4dlWYjR63Dzu6Japx7Agt/87d6bb8f216631e54426f1bbfd9346b3/bachelorette-party-ideas-tropical.jpg) \n\n__Sources:__ Pastel party decor via [Everyday Pursuits](https://www.everydaypursuits.com/blog/2018/3/2/epic-palm-springs-bachelorette-party) & [Valorie Darling Photography](https://valoriedarlingphotography.com/) | Mimosa bar and floral ice cubes via [The Beauty Approach](http://www.injessiland.com/2017/06/08/vintage-tropical-baby-shower/) | Pool floats via [Madison Short](https://madisonrshort.com/tropical-bridesmaid-brunch/) and [Christine McFarlane Events](https://www.christinemcfarlaneevents.com/) | Flamingo party cups via [Boxwood Avenue](https://boxwoodavenue.com/blog/diy-flamingo-pineapple-party-cups) \n\n \n\n## Additional Bachelorette Party Themes for Every Bride\n\n\n### For the Low Key Bride\n- __No Boys Allowed Slumber Party:__ Watch endless movies, paint your nails and eat plenty of snacks for a sleepover-themed bachelorette like this one from [Studio DIY](https://studiodiy.com/2017/09/05/holographic-neon-slumber-party/).\n- __Mani’s and Mimosas Spa Day:__ Take the girls to a spa for some facials, manicures and of course, mimosas. \n- __Backyard BBQ:__ Perfect for when the weather is nice, invite your girl squad over for a chill backyard party full of barbeque and brews. \n- __Yoga Themed:__ For the yogi bride, “Namaslay” with your girls and find time to [relax](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/top-15-places-to-go-to-for-a-bachelorette-party) before the big day. \n- __Movie Night:__ Make it a marathon and wear your PJs for a cozy night in. Or, take the movie outside and set up a projector to watch under the stars. \n- __Vintage Vibe Campout:__ Go retro and unplug in a vintage trailer for a throwback weekend like this party from [100 Layer Cake](http://www.100layercake.com/bachelorette-shower/lets-get-cozy-bachelorette-party-shoot/).\n- __Celestial Celebration:__ Throw a star party and get in touch with the cosmos since the bride has found someone she loves to the moon and back. \n- __Game Night:__ Have all the girls bring their favorite board games and card games over and spend the night laughing and playing together. \n\n### For the Wife of the Party\n- __Winery Weekend:__ Hit the vineyards and feel like you’re on cloud wine with your crew. Tour multiple wineries for a weekend getaway that helps you stop and smell the rosé. \n- __Feyoncé Bachelorette:__ Since he put a ring on it, celebrate in true Beyoncé style with a glammed out bachelorette full of dancing and being fabulous.\n- __Brew and Views:__ Take the bride to be to a number of breweries around town and add some sightseeing onto your itinerary. \n- __Wiggin Out:__ Put on a silly wig with your crew and dance like nobody’s watching. Mix up hair colors and styles and go all out for the bride. \n- __Bach and Boujee:__ It's girls night out. Think gold, luxurious and lots of champagne. Indulge in a bachelorette party where you treat yourself and your crew. \n- __Casino:__ If you can’t make it to Vegas, bring the lively atmosphere to your bachelorette party with casino-themed games and decor. Throw in an Elvis costume and party it up Vegas style. \n- __Fifty Shades of Grey:__ Throw a panty party for the bride and gift her all kinds of intimates for her wedding night. \n- __Champagne Campaign:__ Pop the champagne, she’s changing her last name! Decorate the party with a champagne balloon wall like this one from [Kara's Party Ideas](https://karaspartyideas.com/2018/03/champagne-brunch-bridal-shower.html) for a great photo backdrop.\n\n### For the Adventurous Bride\n- __Baewatch Beach Bash:__ Wifeguard or bride to bae? Hit the beach for a fun weekend in the sun and sand.\n- __Boots and Bling Before the Ring:__ Saddle up and have a wild western party for the honkytonk bride complete with cowgirl boots, hats, and bandanas. \n- __The Hunt is Over:__ This jungle themed bachelorette lets you dress up as a wild thing and party it up with the bride. Lions, tigers, and bears—oh my!\n- __Last Swing Before the Ring:__ Attend a baseball game and root for #teambride as you guys round out the homestretch of wedding planning. \n- __Flannel Fling Before the Ring:__ Perfect for fall and winter, wear matching flannels for a cozy weekend in the cabin. \n- __Lake Life Weekend:__ Head to the lake for a relaxing weekend outside with your ladies like this photoshoot from [Tinker Tin](http://www.tinkertin.com/blog/tag/Camping). Take the boat out for a sunset cruise and “cheers” to the married life.\n- __Cheers Beaches:__ Rent a beach house and stay oceanside for a weekend celebrating the bride to be. \n- __Vail Before the Veil:__ Plan a trip to Colorado and spend the weekend hitting the slopes or cozying up by the fire.\n- __Traveling from Miss to Mrs:__ Make [bachelorette party invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-nail-down-bachelorette-party-invite-wording) that resemble passports or boarding passes and throw the jet-setting bride a travel-themed party with cuisine and drinks from all around the world.\n- __Hiking and Biking:__ No matter what city the party is in, try renting bikes for a cruise around town or hike a local nature trail. \n\n### For the Classy Bride\n- __Tea Party:__ Swap out mimosas for tea and throw a sophisticated tea party full of florals. \n- __Painting and Wine:__ Grab a glass and paintbrush and let the wine do the painting. This is one of the few bachelorette parties where you make your own souvenir. \n- __Brunch and Bubbly:__ Bring brunch to the bachelorette with a mimosa bar like this from [Peachfully Chic](http://www.peachfullychic.com/domestic/entertain/fall-brunch-biscuit-mimosa-bar-ideas/). \n- __Chop it Like it’s Hot Cooking Class:__ Test your kitchen skills and learn a new recipe with the girls by signing up for a cooking class. Pop open a bottle of bubbly and get cooking!\n- __Kentucky Derby:__ Get “Down and Derby” with your bride squad as you eat southern comfort food and wear extravagant hats like this party from [Oh Happy Day](http://ohhappyday.com/2017/04/kentucky-derby-party/).\n- __Garden Party:__ Host your own secret garden bachelorette and make your own floral bouquets or pick berries at a local farm. \n- __Night in Paris:__ Celebrate in Parisian style by hosting a bash with macarons, champagne, and French eats. \n\n### For the Bride Who Loves to Dress Up\n- __Rockstar:__ Party like a rockstar and dress as famous rockers before you hit the town. \n- __90s:__ If the bride is obsessed with all things 90s, have the bachelorette party dress up in vintage outfits and dance to your favorite 90s bands. \n- __80s:__ Girls just wanna have fun. Channel your inner Madonna and throw a bachelorette with big hair and tunes from the 80s. \n- __Masquerade:__ Perfect for a New Orleans bachelorette party, grab some masks and beads and let the good times roll. \n- __Gatsby:__ A little party never killed nobody! Dress up in flapper dancer outfits and throw a bach bash even Gatsby would be jealous of like this one from [The Blissful Balance](http://theblissfulbalance.com/a-little-party-never-killed-nobody/).\n- __Breakfast at Tiffany’s:__ Tiffany blue decor and pearls set the scene for the perfect party. Have the girls wear their favorite little black dress and a pair of sunglasses to complete the theme. \n- __The Royal Bachelorette:__ Make the bride feel like a true queen by throwing a royal bachelorette party complete with English treats and tea. \n- __Come on Barbie, Let’s Go Party:__ Pink everything. Host a Malibu pool party or wear your brightest workout gear for a party that is both plastic and fantastic. \n- __From Muggle to Mrs:__ Keep the butterbeer coming for the bride to be. Celebrate with your favorite wizards and solemnly swear you’ll be up to no good. \n- __So Fetch Bachelorette:__ You can’t sip with us. Wear the classic pink outfits and watch the movie on repeat for a bachelorette inspired by Mean Girls. \n- __Happily Ever After:__ For the fairytale bride, dress up as different princesses and throw a ball that doesn’t have to end at midnight. \n- __F-R-I-E-N-D-S:__ The One Where She Gets Married. Pay tribute to the classic 90s TV show by hosting a party with Central Perk coffee and a yellow picture frame photo booth. \n- __Unicorn:__ The bride found her unicorn! Throw her a magical bachelorette bash with glitter and rainbows to celebrate just how special she is. \n- __Getting Meowied:__ If your favorite cat lady is tying the knot soon, plan her last meow with plenty of kitty-inspired decorations and maybe a few furry friends. \n- __The Bachelorette:__ Who will get the final rose? Dress up in stunning cocktail dresses and bring out the roses and champagne. Bonus points if you stay in a bachelor-style mansion. \n- __Pineapple:__ Party like a pineapple and host a party full of tropical flavors and decor. \n- __Donut Delight:__ In case you ever needed an excuse to have a donut wall at your bachelorette party. Check out this donut board from [Going for Grace](http://www.goingforgrace.com/how-to-donut-board/) for inspiration. \n- __Sex and the City:__ This iconic girl squad makes the perfect theme for a bride who is both fabulous and sophisticated. Dress up as your favorite characters and play the TV series or movies in the background. \n\nAfter all the fun of a bachelorette party and [games](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-games) to be played, you’ll need to pick out the [perfect present](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) for the bride to be. The bride may have just found her match, but she’s always had a strong group of supportive girls surrounding her.","tag":"Bride's Crew","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":" All the tips you need so that your bachelorette party goes off without a hitch! ","title":"Bachelorette Party Etiquette 101","slug":"bachelorette-party-etiquette-101","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"How To","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7buqLtUvoGgQRoIb3b2ARj/b3356098cec60f7b9951e2c73152903f/Hero_Zola__29_.jpg","altText":"Bachelorette Party Etiquette"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Planning a destination bachelorette party? Check out these ideas for the ultimate girls trip before you say “I do.” Read on to get inspired.","title":"Top 15 Places to Go to For a Bachelorette Party","slug":"top-15-places-to-go-to-for-a-bachelorette-party","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1Za08plUYTsJgT0hnlrf1k/809447b4b82e5ecf0264dd3846eb08b6/unnamed__1_.jpg","altText":"Top 15 Places to Go to For a Bachelorette Party"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Discover unique bachelorette party gifts for the bride-to-be. 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Make sure that you’re dressed right with our easy guide on what to wear.","author":"Jane Chertoff","publishedAt":"2021-02-02T18:27:25.279Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6wKA0OtqK2vpOznYnbN0Lf/0d658df4574d04c4fb097916030b3e85/Hero_Zola__19_.jpg","altText":"What to Wear to a Bachelorette Party"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- Bachelorette attire should be based on the location and time of year of the party—Vegas calls for glitzy dresses, while matching robes and sweats can be for a spa weekend.\n- The bride doesn’t have to wear white—she can choose silver, pink, gold, or even yellow to stand out instead.\n- Send out a detailed itinerary in advance so that everyone knows exactly what to wear to each event. \n","body":"Wondering what you should wear to an upcoming [bachelorette party weekend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bachelorette-party)? This is an event you’ve been looking forward to forever, so let’s get you dressed. Picking out the perfect outfit(s) sets the tone for the whole weekend—but it doesn’t have to be complicated. \n\nYou might go with the traditional little black dress (LBD) if you’re a guest and a [little white dress](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/second-looks?spi=46) if you’re the bride-to-be. There are endless variations on this, of course. You’ll also want to consider the location where the bachelorette weekend will be held and what kind of events you’ll be doing over the weekend. \n\nHere’s a guide to outfits that are [appropriate for a bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-etiquette-101) so that you can celebrate to your heart’s content all weekend with your favorite people.\n\n## Location, Location, Location \nWhat you pack for Vegas isn’t going to be the same as a girl’s spa and wine weekend in Napa, so, when choosing [what to pack for a bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pack-for-a-bachelorette-party), you’ll need to consider the location and weather carefully. Some ideas for what to wear in some popular destinations are below. \n\n### Las Vegas Bachelorette\nYou can get away with wearing almost anything (or barely anything!) in Vegas. The summers tend to be hot, while the winter months are cooler and may not be warm enough to swim. \n\n- Day \n[Swimsuit](https://www.zola.com/shop/kit/the-malibu-collection), romper, and/or sarong by the pool; and cutoffs or jeans, and matching T-shirts when exploring the city \n- Night \nGlitzy sequin dress and heels \n\n### Napa Wine Country Bachelorette \nFor wine country, pack wedges or flats that you’re comfortable walking through the vineyards in. The nighttime vibe tends to lean more casual and you can get away with jeans, a tank top, and a moto jacket. \n\n- Day Flowy floral dress, wedges, or flats \n- Night Jeans, tank top, moto jacket \n\n### Tropical Beach Bachelorette\nA beachy bach doesn’t mean that you’ll spend all your time in a bathing suit. Pack some maxi or wrap dresses for going out to dinner and for nightlife and fun in the evenings. \n\n- Day [Swimsuit](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/kennyflowers_the_malibu_one_pc) and [sarong](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/kennyflowers_the_malibu_long_sarong) \n- Night Flowy maxi or [wrap dress](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/fameandpartners_classic_wrap_dress) \n\n### New York City Bachelorette\nA big city bach may involve a spa day, going to see a show, and eating and drinking late into the early morning hours. Bring your comfiest shoes for walking during the day and switch to heels or wedges at night. \n\n- Day Jumpsuit or a dress (with tights for the winter months,) comfortable walking shoes \n- Night Little black dress and heels \n\n### Spa Weekend Bachelorette\nFor a spa weekend, you’ll want to be comfy as you get pampered. You and the girls can still make a statement, though, with matching [robes](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/eventblossom_bridal_party_satin_lace_robe) or sweatpants. You can also get the bride a special [robe](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/gingerray_bride_to_be_dressing_gown) just for her. Don't forget a bathing suit.\n\n## What Is The Plan For The Party?\nWhen it comes to bachelorette party outfits, what you’re actually going to do at the party will go a long way in determining the best dress code. For example, the outfit ideas that would make sense for a casual bachelorette brunch with the bridesmaids are going to be completely different from the ideal attire for a weekend bash where the main agenda is hitting the dance floor at the city’s hottest clubs.\n\nHere are some idea around what to wear to a bach party based on the celebration’s activities:\n\n### Night out on the town\nIf you and the rest of the bridal party and bachelorette attendees are planning to hit the town, you’ll want to choose ensembles that feel fun, festive, and appropriate for upscale restaurants and clubs. Any kind of cocktail dresses (like a mini dress or a bodycon dress) would work great as a bachelorette party dress—or, if you prefer pants, a dressier jumpsuit is a great alternative. Pair your outfit with some strappy heels or wedges and some eye-catching jewelry, and you’re ready to go!\n\n### Lounging poolside\nIf you plan to spend the majority of the bachelorette getaway lounging by the pool, you’ll need to back all your pool essentials—a bathing suit (go with a one-piece or a bikini, whichever makes you feel most comfortable!), sandals, sunglasses, a hat, and at least one or two-cover-ups.\n\n### Outdoor adventures\nIf the [bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bachelorette-parties) is centered on outdoor adventures you’ll want to wear an outfit that allows you to comfortably participate in said adventures; for example, if you’re doing a day hike, you might wear workout leggings, a moisture-wicking shirt, hiking boots, and a hat to block the sun. If you’re going camping, you can keep it casual with sneakers, jeans, and a hoodie.\n\n### Wine tasting\nGoing to tour a few wineries for the bachelorette? The key is to choose an outfit that’s both cute and comfortable—like a maxi dress, denim jacket, and comfortable sandals.\n\n## Bachelorette Outfit Ideas \nNeed some outfit inspiration? Here are some ideas for the perfect outfit for your next bachelorette celebration—whether you're the guest of honor or there to celebrate the bride-to-be:\n\n### For the Bride \n![What to Wear to a Bachelorette Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5dEMUEMMoEwTxmRnmf7ljP/da0d41315a69a3e792c47fa30d307c2b/inline_shutterstock2.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Shutterstock\n\n1. __A white dress.__ You’re the bride—and what says bride quite like a white dress? Have fun with the look and go for details that scream “bachelorette,” like sparkles or sequins. Pair it with some fun heels and statement jewelry.\n\n2. __A white jumpsuit.__ Dresses aren’t your thing? No problem! You can still rock the bachelorette look with a white jumpsuit. Dress it up with heels and a pair of eye-catching earrings.\n\n3. __A white romper.__ If your bachelorette is more casual, a white romper with flat sandals is a great outfit option.\n\n4. __The perfect LBD.__ Some brides don’t want to wear white on their bachelorette—and if you fall into that category, you can’t go wrong with an LBD. A black cocktail dress is one of the most versatile pieces of clothing out there—and the perfect bachelorette attire.\n\n5. __Bold colors...__ Your bachelorette is your opportunity to be the center of attention—and rocking a cocktail dress in a bold shade (like red, hot pink, or lime green) is a great way to do it.\n\n6. __...or bold prints.__ If you want to go bold—but not with color—opt for a dress with a bold print, like leopard.\n\n7. __A sparkly jumpsuit.__ Your bachelorette is your time to shine—and a great way to shine is with a sparkly jumpsuit. Keep it classic with black—or if you really want to sparkle, go with a bold color, like gold or purple.\n\n8. __A statement blazer.__ If you want to keep things more casual for your bachelorette, a statement blazer is a great way to dress up a pair of jeans and t-shirt—and make the whole outfit feel “special enough” for your big day.\n\n9. __A printed one-piece.__ Spending your bachelorette at the beach or by the pool? A printed one-piece that reads “BRIDE” is the perfect way to let everyone know you’re celebrating!\n\n10. __Coordinated outfits.__ If you want to create a cohesive look with your bachelorette babes, try coordinating your outfits! You can have everyone choose their favorite LBD, have everyone wear a similar cocktail dress in a different shade, or get matching t-shirts for your whole crew.\n\n### For The Guests\nAn LBD. An LBD is a great outfit choice for just about every occasion under the sun—including attending a bachelorette party.\n\n1. __A midi dress.__ Midi dresses are super versatile; with the right shoes and accessories, they’re formal enough to wear out to a swanky club—but you can also dress them down for more casual daytime events. (You may even be able to recycle your midi dress for other wedding events, like the bridal shower.)\n2. __A boho-inspired maxi dress.__ If you’re attending a more casual bachelorette party, like a wine tasting, a boho-inspired maxi dress is a great way to feel both pulled together and comfortable.\n3. __Bachelorette party shirts.__ If the bride gets matching bachelorette party shirts, you’ll 100% need to wear it! Pair it with a pair of jeans and sneakers to keep it casual.\n4. __Sparkly pants.__ A bachelorette party offers a great excuse to rock pieces that you might not wear in your day-to-day wardrobe—like a pair of sparkly pants. Pair it with a simple solid shirt on top and let the pants shine.\n5. __A sequined top.__ Prefer to sparkle on top? Try pairing a sequined top with dark jeans.\n6. __Leopard print.__ A leopard print dress is a fun way to incorporate print into your bachelorette party outfit—but it’s also something that’s versatile enough that you’ll likely have opportunities to wear it after the bach celebration.\n7. __A bold mini dress.__ If you like mini dresses, a bachelorette party is a great time to wear them. Elevate your mini by choosing a dress in a bold color, like red.\n8. __A swimsuit and cover-up.__ If the bachelorette party you’re attending has any beach or poolside activities, you’ll want to be sure to pack a bathing suit and cover-up.\n9. __A statement jacket.__ A statement jacket is eye-catching, unique, and fun—making it a great piece to wear to a bachelorette party.\n\n### Choose a Matching Touch\nCoordinating matching outfits with the other girls isn’t only unnecessary, it can be overkill. Instead, choose a color such as black or navy and have everyone wear what they are comfortable in that color. Then, choose a matching element such as headbands, sashes, or tiaras. You could also all get matching T-shirts to wear during the day. Just make sure that everyone is on board and comfortable with whatever you choose. \n\nThe only off-limits color is usually white—keep that reserved for the bride.\n\n## Additional Tips for Bachelorette Attire \n![What to Wear to a Bachelorette Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4kj0MMZo6LJuLlBU4mUFjQ/8caa80f5e764afea12fc3680b506e442/inline_shutterstock.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Shutterstock\n\n1. __If you’re in charge of planning the weekend__, make sure to send out a detailed itinerary with all the activities that you have planned ahead of time so that everyone knows what to wear. \n\n2. __Send suggested attire__ (ie. jeans and sturdy shoes for horseback riding), but avoid telling anyone exactly what they need to wear. \n\n3. __Pick out a matching element__ such as headbands, sashes, or glasses and include a note about when during the weekend everyone should plan on wearing these. \n\n4. __If you do have a matching element,__ don’t pass out the article of clothing until you’re at the bachelorette. Otherwise, you run the risk of someone leaving the item at home.\n\n5. __The bride doesn’t have to wear white__—anything sparkly or glitzy will do.\n\n6. __Bride doesn’t like sparkly or glitzy?__ Then don’t force her to wear it. Ultimately, you want the bride to be comfortable—so let her dictate what outfits make her feel her best.\n\n7. __If you’re going out in the evening,__ make sure to tell everyone to bring a jacket.\n\n8. __Even if everyone feels comfortable in heels,__ tell everyone to also pack flats; if someone’s feet are hurting after a night of dancing, you want them to have the option to switch into something more comfortable.\n\n9. __Accessories are a great way to jazz up an outfit.__ Consider asking attendees to bring a selection of fun jewelry—then, before you head out, have everyone lay out what they brought and choose from the items available.\n\n10. __Don’t forget to snap pictures__ of all your bachelorette outfits! \n\n*Looking for more tips for the perfect bachelorette party? Zola’s [Expert Advice](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/pre-wedding-activities/bachelorette-parties) has you covered.*","tag":"How To","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"When planning a bachelorette, timing is essential. Read on to learn about when you should have a bachelorette party!.","title":"When Should You Have a Bachelorette Party?","slug":"when-should-you-have-a-bachelorette-party","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6Bam9xC60EjdGmXDTueWIr/3f4a1a83de97aee9d94f696de04d18a3/Hero_Zola__18_.jpg","altText":"When Should You Have a Bachelorette Party"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Planning a bachelorette party can be easy! With the help of our bachelorette party checklist, planning a bach weekend is a breeze. 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","title":"Bachelorette Party Etiquette 101","slug":"bachelorette-party-etiquette-101","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"How To","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7buqLtUvoGgQRoIb3b2ARj/b3356098cec60f7b9951e2c73152903f/Hero_Zola__29_.jpg","altText":"Bachelorette Party Etiquette"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:55:34.015Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Bachelorette party","slug":"bachelorette-party"},"slug":"bachelorette-party-games","title":"28 Bachelorette Party Games the Whole Squad Will Love + Free Printables","excerpt":"No matter what you have in mind for your special night, we’ve created a list of our favorite bachelorette party games for a celebration you and your party guests won’t forget.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2020-03-04T21:54:24.912Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1B8QpFhLdsBbKrmd6RrtN8/459ea1e6c3c3bded7406b6303d4ae9ea/24-Bachelorette-Party-Games.jpg","altText":"Bachelorette Party Game Printables"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\nJump straight to the printable bachelorette party games, ideas, and decorations below:\n\n- What's On Your Phone?\n- Bachelorette Photo Scavenger Hunt\n- Bachelorette Party \"Drink If...\"\n- Beach Bash Photo Booth \n- Ring Party Door Sign\n- More Free Bachelorette Party Games\n- Bachelorette Party Games You Can Buy\n- Bachelorette Party Game Prizes","body":"Your bachelorette party (also known as a \"hen party\") is one of the last celebrations before you say “I do.\" And because it's kind of a \"last hurrah,\" it's the perfect opportunity to have some fun—and for many brides-to-be, that means playing plenty of fun bachelorette party games.\n\nWhether you’re traveling with your bridesmaids for a destination bachelorette party, hosting a virtual bachelorette party for your best friends near and far, or having your own [wellness bridal weekend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/top-15-places-to-go-to-for-a-bachelorette-party)with your maid of honor, we have a few bachelorette party game ideas to kick-start the festivities.\n\nWhether you're aiming for a low-key sleepover withy our besties or putting on your best party dress for a night on the town with the long list of people who scored an [invite to your bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-nail-down-bachelorette-party-invite-wording), here are 28 of the best bachelorette party games, printables, decorations, and party favors to help you kiss your single life goodbye—and have a ton of fun in the process:\n\n### What’s On Your Phone? Game\nYou can tell a lot about a person by their phone—whether it's packed with hundreds of photos of their dog, decked out in a bedazzled phone case, or full of notifications for unread texts and social media messages.\n\nAnd with the What's On Your Phone Game?, you can see what everyone's phone has to say about them; it's a fun way to see who in your Bride Tribe has the quirkiest things hidden on their phone in your bride tribe—and cal also be a great way to get to know the whole group on a deeper level. (Because this more of a \"get to know you\" game, this a fun icebreaker if you're hosting a bachelorette where some of your friends are meeting for the first time.)\n\n__Number of players: __\n\nUnlimited\n\n__What you need to play:__\n\nWith this fun game, you won’t need anything but your phones, a pen, and a prize (if you choose, that is!).\n\n__How to play:__\n\nFor this party game, print out the What's On Your Phone? printable game template and read each item on the list. As you read out each item, have your guests check the boxes that apply to them. Then, once you've read out all the items, have each person add up their totals and take turns sharing their tallies. Whoever has the most points wins!\n\n \n![What's On Your Phone Mock-Up](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1S7C6x5DqysPnOoLg1gxjD/c40fdbbf42c6ccddb7c9c02d0505104d/What_s_on_your_phone_Mock-Up.jpeg)\n[![What's On Your Phone Download Button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/47muOMwOYY50HbqfEgugh0/62959d21a6135999bed25a5b78f1bace/What_s_On_Your_Phone_Download_Button.png)\n](//assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1tgBOuS7ckRQhGJHI04Ox4/6f267cab8010cf0fc9030993a6af7010/What_s_On_Your_Phone.pdf)\n\n### Bachelorette Photo Challenge Scavenger Hunt\nIf you want your bachelorette party to have a more adventurous feel, hosting your own photo-centric bachelorette scavenger hunt is a great bachelorette party game option.\n\n__Number of players:__\n\nUnlimited\n\n__What you need to play:__\n\nEach team will need a camera and/or camera phone. Depending on how competitive your crew is, they may also want to rock some running shoes; that way, they can run from photo op to photo op—and not have to worry about uncomfortable shoes slowing them down!\n\n__How to play: __\n\nDivide your group into teams of two to three. Print out a copy of the photo scavenger hunt printable for each team—and let them know that the first team to capture all the photos on the list will be declared the winner.\n\nNot only is a photo scavenger hunt a fun, active way to celebrate your bachelorette party, it's also sure to generate some hilarious photos—making this one of the most funny bachelorette games on the list.\n\n \n![Bachelorette Photo Scavenger Hunt Mock-Up](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4j69VDx1UMVYYXIUkLVXJV/9279afe4fd54a35947d8711edbb667be/Scavenger_Hunt_Mock-Up.jpeg)\n[![Photo Scavenger Hunt Download Button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/24VigVhlX3a8P0z9UBKZdJ/194dfeb7563450bc3ba466f75dab25e7/Photo_Scavenger_Hunt_Game_Download_Button.png)\n](//assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5tmOCdEW94Ulw5AIsvuA78/58150c6704877ec2562db711c04a738c/Photo_Scavenger_Hunt_.pdf)\n\n### Bachelorette “Drink If…”\nIs your bachelorette crowd prefer cocktails and beer pong over good, old-fashioned game nights? If so, you'll need at least a few bachelorette party drinking games—and this bachelorette party idea might be exactly what you and your party pals need!\n\n__Number of players: __\n\nUnlimited\n\n__What you'll need:__\n\nBecause this is a drinking game, everyone will need a drink. (Got guests that don't drink alcohol? Not a problem—a [mocktail](https://https//www.tablespoon.com/meals/drinks/non-alcoholic-party-drinks-everyone-will-love) will work just fine!). You'll also need pens or pencils to check off items throughout the game.\n\n__How to play:__\n\nPrint out your \"Drink If..\" printable, grab your favorite drink, and have your fellow bachelorette party attendees do the same. Starting with \"Round 1,\" read out each item off the list—and have your guests check off each box that applies to them.\n\nAt the end of the round, whoever has checked off the most boxes takes a sip of their drink. Then, repeat for rounds two, three, and four.\n\n \n![Drink If Mock-Up](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/575Nq0I4wEszmTFKlLGcJU/0f5a3a5ff6586d80a665c44fa3781be1/Drink_If_Mock-Up.jpeg)\n[![Drink If Download Button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5BRcIyB0xZl1NoN3hWpVqw/47d17b904a5d441bc5f037b5a70b4933/Drink_If_Download_Button.png)\n](//assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4KvrjfhaXdySjMHxpMsdRJ/76fb7bdc718baed8eaedd8aeb485b890/Drink_If_Printable.pdf)\n\n## Printable Decorations For Your Bachelorette Party Games\n\n### Beach Bash Photo Booth\nIs all things beach the [theme of your bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-themes)? If the bachelorette party is being hosted on island time, set up a “shellfie” station in your hotel room with these free photo booth printables. Bachelorette party guests can strike their favorite pose and create photo keepsakes the bride can take home with her. (Need more ideas for your beachside bachelorette?) You can discover more ideas on how to create the perfect [island-themed bash](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-themes) here.\n\n__What you'll need:__\n\nTo use these printables, all you need is a printer and paper—and voila! Your DIY photo booth is ready to go!\n\n \n![Beach Bash Photo Booth Mock-Up](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1vMVOKdB9JyeMvJ4WNriwS/8d19d10699a61e7f98a8446426a52125/Beach_Bash_Photo_Booth_Mock-Up.jpeg)\n[![Beach Bash Photo Booth Props Download Button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4qil7Lfd8xIOH1txqMClgi/593a70f81fd74db0f63c2f7d7da18b9c/Beach_Bash_Photo_Booth_Props_Download_Button.png)\n](//assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4c3IF1HTHFjhcsTlrbTil9/f300eef4f0df65652a37aa94d02d8e8f/Beach_Bash_Photo_Booth_Props_Printable.pdf)\n\n## Ring Party Door Sign\nDecorate your party with a ring door sign taped on your front door. It’s only fitting since this is your last fling before you get the ring! This is especially useful for guests that are meeting you at a new location. Once they spot the ring, they’ll know exactly where they need to go!\n\n__What you'll need:__\n\nFor this printable bachelorette party decoration, you’ll need paper and a printer, cutting utensils, and tape to hang up each sign.\n\n \n![Door Sign Mock-Up](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3ybCgdDLqIlethWRhA6qD/3f29a6f16d4bad33044714b4104f26c8/Door_Sign_Mock-Up.jpeg)\n[![Diamond Ring Door Sign Download Button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/721PDoNbRcJ6P5q8F8D4nu/e17349839ddf7c0830cb6b8c25f8aab4/Diamond_Ring_Door_Sign_Download_Button.png)\n](//assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4QxMUTTRCmn3Vt20Bk4a81/a62251d59907a8ee28543098d21ceefe/Diamond_Door_Sign.pdf)","body2":"## More Free Bachelorette Party Games \n\nReady for a full night of bachelorette party game fun? We found 19 additional free game options that would be the perfect additional to your last game night as a single person. Whether you're looking for a classy game night, something a bit more wild, and games fit for a classic girls’ night, we've got for every soon-to-be newlywed.\n\n### Clean and Classy Games\n- Like our What’s In Your Phone game? See what odd things your guests carry around with them by playing [What’s In Your Purse](https://www.elegantweddinginvites.com/wedding-blog/special-wednesday-top-5-free-printable-bridal-shower-games/). \n- Send the bride and groom off on the right foot by writing them a heart-felt (or funny) letter with this [printable](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/35778533/image/35780329/Advice-Happy-Couple). \n- Have guests that have yet to see your wedding day attire? See who knows your style best with these [Guess the Dress](https://de.bridetrendy.com/50152/10-bachelorette-party-und-braut-dusche-spiele-free-printables/) printables. \n- Wear your favorite lip color and have your bridal party kiss your single life goodbye with this framable [Kiss for the Future Mrs. keepsake](https://www.bespoke-bride.com/2016/08/17/kisses-for-the-future-mrs-free-printable-hen-party-guest-book/).\n- For all the celebrity experts out there, this is the perfect game! Match up some popular celebrity couples with this [Celeb Couple Quiz](http://www.mockeri.com/free-printable-bachelorette-games/).\n- See who really knows the bachelorette better than anyone else in the room playing [How Well Do You Know The Bachelorette?](https://www.prettyprintablesink.com/uncategorized/freebie-friday-how-well-do-you-know-the-bachelorette/). This [list of questions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-game-questions-youll-love) will help answer \"how well do you know the bride?\" for each of your party guests—and is a fun way to see who really knows you best.\n- Fill in the blanks with this [Advice for Newlyweds](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/35778533/image/35780130/Advice-Newlyweds) printable. Think of it as \"Newlywed Mad Libs,\" gather advice from your closest friends, from newlywed tips to travel inspiration—and use it to fill in the blanks.\n- Keep in mind that, because all these activities are clean and classy (and, as such, totally appropriate for family members), they can easily double as bridal shower games—even though the [vibe of a bridal shower and a bachelorette party can feel super different](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-vs-bridal-shower).\n\n### Wild Party Games\n- For this unique game, start a three-minute timer while your crew writes out classic bachelorette terms starting with each letter of the alphabet on this [Bachelorette Alphabet](http://www.mypartygames.com/free-printable-naughty-alphabet-game-bachelorette-party/) print out. Once your time’s up, read each out loud to see who takes home the cake!\n- Are you and your friends into lingerie? Have everyone bring a pair of lacy underthings—then play [Guess the Panties](https://www.partygameideas.com/bachelorette-guess-the-panties/) to see who brought what. It's like \"Guess Who\"—just for underwear!\n- Emojis have been around for years. See if you can figure out which emoji set means what playing this [Emoji Pictionary Game](https://www.mypartygames.com/free-printable-bridal-shower-emoji-pictionary-game/).\n- See who knows your love story best by having your guests fill out your [Love Story Map](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/40617199/image/40618511/Story-Map). \n- Want to kick off your bachelorette party with a solid pregame? If so, start off your party with a nice game of [Bachelorette Bottoms Up](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/40617199/image/40617544/Bottoms-Up-Game). \n- Put your thinking cap on and brainstorm quirky answers by playing [Bachelorette Balderdash](https://www.designsbymissmandee.com/2015/08/bachelorette-party-game-bachelorette-balderdash/). See which of your guests comes up with the best answers. \n\n### Girls’ Night In Games\n\n- If your group knows celebrities well, play [Match the Famous Couple](https://www.mypartygames.com/match-the-famous-couple-free-printable-game/). See who can correctly match well-known big name couples. \n- Unscramble classic bachelorette party phrases with this [Bachelorette Party Word Scramble](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/40617199/image/40617247/Marriage-Word-Scramble).\n- Go into a wild girls’ night with guidelines. Have each member of your group sign this [Bachelorette Party Agreement](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/40617199/image/40617542/Bachelorette-Party-Agreement) before starting. \n- We all know a fun night out on the town with your closest friends can hit you hard in the morning—especially if you have a few too many cocktails. Create a [Bachelorette Party Survival Kit](https://diyinspired.com/party-survival-kit-free-printables/) for all your guests—complete with everything you need to keep a hangover at bay (like water bottles and Tylenol.) Write the name of each member on printable labels or stickers to make sure everyone gets one.\n- Before the party starts, have the opposing partner fill out the [Quiz the Groom](https://www.shopstagandhen.com/products/quiz-the-groom-free-digital-download) printable. Once starting the party, quiz your guests to see who knows the groom best. \n- Get competitive and play [Bachelorette Pictionary](https://addionubilato.altervista.org/bachelorette-party-pictionary-game/) to see who scores the most points with this guessing game. Or, if drawing isn't your thing, have some fun with a rowdy game of charades!\n\n## Bachelorette Party Games You Can Buy \n\nComing up with your own bachelorette party games is great. But there are plenty of ready-to-go games that you can pick up at the store!\n\nHere are a few bachelorette party games you can buy to have on hand for the festivities:\n\n- __Bachelorette Bash.__ This bachelorette party game (which is available on [Amazon](https://www.amazon.com/Bachelorette-BASH-Party-Games/dp/B086P8GS5V/ref=asc_df_B086P8GS5V/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=513296421741&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=5096604817470211460&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9033611&hvtargid=pla-1260272780798&psc=1)) combines from classic slumber party games (like Truth or Dare and Never Have I Ever) with bride-centric trivia and other fun party games to create an experience you and your crew won't soon forget!\n- __Jenga.__ Jenga is a party favorite—and that includes for bachelorette parties!\n- __Pin the tail on the donkey.__ Pin the tail on the donkey may remind you of birthday parties when you were a kid. But there are *ahem* more adult versions that might feel more at home at a bachelorette party—especially if you're going for a more wild vibe.\n- __Cards.__ Having a set of cards on hand is a must for a bachelorette party—as it opens up the possibility of playing an endless number of card games, whether that's Crazy 8's, Go Fish, or a fun game of poker.\n\n## Bachelorette Party Game Prizes \nWant to reward your bride tribe for participating in your bachelorette party games? Here are some prize ideas that you can share with the winners—or with all your party guests as a way to say \"thanks for playing\" :\n\n- A personalized keepsake, like a water bottle or t-shirt \n- A bottle of champagne (or sparkling cider for the non-alcoholic crowd)\n- A gift certificate (for example, a coffee gift card or a gift certificate for a mani/pedi)\n\nYou want your bachelorette party to be an event you and your friends will never forget—and these bachelorette party games will help you create the kind of fun, unforgettable experience you're looking for!\n\nNeed more bachelorette party tips? For more planning tips, take a look at our guide to [bachelorette parties](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pack-for-a-bachelorette-party)—and check out our packing list for the bachelorette weekend so you don’t skip any essentials. And don’t forget to send [thank you cards](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop) after the event. \n\nCheers to your bachelorette party festivities!\n\n__Sources:__[ Elegant Wedding Invites ](https://www.elegantweddinginvites.com/wedding-blog/special-wednesday-top-5-free-printable-bridal-shower-games/)| [My Party Games 1](http://www.mypartygames.com/free-printable-naughty-alphabet-game-bachelorette-party/), [2](https://www.mypartygames.com/free-printable-bridal-shower-emoji-pictionary-game/), [3](https://www.mypartygames.com/match-the-famous-couple-free-printable-game/) | [Alexandra Winzer](https://alexandrawinzer.com/die-3-herzlichsten-spiele-fuer-den-junggesellinnenabschied/) | [Popsugar 1](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/40617199/image/40617247/Marriage-Word-Scramble), [2](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/40617199/image/40617542/Bachelorette-Party-Agreement) | [Debridetrendy 1](https://de.bridetrendy.com/50152/10-bachelorette-party-und-braut-dusche-spiele-free-printables/), [2](https://de.bridetrendy.com/65163/diy-bachelorette-party-survival-kit-und-free-printables/) | [Shop Stag and Hen](https://www.shopstagandhen.com/products/quiz-the-groom-free-digital-download) | [Bachette](https://bachette.com/blogs/blog/free-printable-bachelorette-bingo-game) | [BeSpokeBride](https://www.bespoke-bride.com/2016/08/17/kisses-for-the-future-mrs-free-printable-hen-party-guest-book/) | [Mockeri](http://www.mockeri.com/free-printable-bachelorette-games/) | [Designs by miss Mandee](https://www.designsbymissmandee.com/2015/08/bachelorette-party-game-bachelorette-balderdash/) | [The House of Bachelorette 1](https://www.designsbymissmandee.com/2015/08/bachelorette-party-game-bachelorette-balderdash/), [2](https://www.thehouseofbachelorette.com/FREE_Bachelorette_Party_Checklist_p/free000chcklist.htm) | [Bachelorette Party Freebies](https://www.bachelorettepartyfreebies.com/free-printable-bachelorette-party-games/) | [E Wedding Favors](http://www.eweddingfavors.com/inspire/fun-bridal-shower-games-ideas/) ","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"widget2":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_WebsiteQuiz"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Planning your wedding shower and not sure who to invite? 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From trendy themes, party games, and unique location ideas to who to invite and what to wear here's everything you need to plan an unforgettable bachelorette party!"},{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Bachelor party","slug":"bachelor-party"},"slug":"bachelor-party-ideas","title":"55 Bachelor Party Ideas for Every Groom","excerpt":"Fill your bachelor party with groom-approved activities. From weekend getaways to nighttime options, explore the best and most unique bachelor party ideas.","author":"Jane Chertoff and Georgie Darling","publishedAt":"2024-11-08T11:00-05:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3tsqFK8yqAYtlWDMjoh4FA/7633b0eb185f8df51dfe0d0ae0cedef8/kats-weil-CLD1i8hp008-unsplash.jpg","altText":"Low angle of groomsmen holding beer bottles and having a celebratory toast"},"heroCredit":" Kats Weil via Unsplash","heroCreditUrl":"https://unsplash.com/photos/low-angle-of-men-holding-beer-bottles-and-having-a-toast-CLD1i8hp008","tldr":"## Inside this article\n- Bachelor party ideas - weekend getaway ideas\n- Daytime bachelor party ideas\n- Nighttime bachelor party activities\n- Creative bachelor party ideas","body":"__TLDR:__\n- Bachelor parties don't have to be crazy events, as you can have something classy and create a great experience for your group.\n- Our list of ideas is comprehensive and contains ideas for all types of folks.\n- Just because we use the term \"bachelor party\" there are a lot of other instances where these event ideas will work.\n\n## Let's get started with bachelor party planning!\n\nAh, the bachelor party. The pre-wedding ritual of celebrating a groom before the wedding. Typically, while the bride-to-be spends her time at her bachelorette party, the groom-to-be would hold bachelor parties that involve a weekend away, a few nice meals, drinking, and other daytime activities that suit the groom’s style with his close friend(s) and [groomsmen](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/groomsmen-etiquette-101-a-beginners-guide). \n\nWe’ve come to understand that a great bachelor party consists of wild weekends full of debauchery—and they certainly can be. However, don’t get caught up in the stereotype: A bachelor party can be anything you want it to be. This [Reddit thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingplanning/comments/151d2at/need_bachelor_party_ideas/) proves it.\n\nZola has compiled a comprehensive list of ideas for bachelor party games and activities. So, whether you’re into the great outdoors, a super sports fan, or want to settle into the traditional bachelor party planning mentality, we have ideas for you.\n\nOf course, we also enlisted the help of a few experts, including McKenna Folmar, a wedding planner at [Events by McKenna](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-planners/events-by-mckenna). \"When it comes to bachelor parties, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach—especially with today’s creative grooms and their friends,\" she says. \"From sentimental gatherings to over-the-top adventures, bachelor parties have evolved far beyond the typical night out.\" So, are you ready for some great ideas? \n\nOnce you’ve read through the best bachelor party ideas below, read through our step-by-step guide on [planning a bachelor party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bachelor-party) to really get the wheels in motion.\n\n## Bachelor party ideas - weekend getaways \n\nIf your [bachelor party guests](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-to-invite-to-a-bachelor-party) live in various states (or even countries), it might be best to plan a [weekend away](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/best-bachelor-party-destinations). Whether meeting in a centralized location, or somewhere new and exciting, there are many different types of multi-day travel ideas for you and your friends to celebrate your [bachelor party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bachelor-parties).\n\nWhy are weekend getaways popular? \"Destination parties give the groom a mini-vacation before the wedding,\" reveals Folmar. \"It’s a chance to escape the routine and spend quality time with friends in a memorable location. These trips tend to go all out with fine dining, epic night-outs, and a sense of adventure.\"\n\n### 1. __Rent a cabin in the woods__ \nIf you’re someone who likes the idea of hanging out with your friends out in nature, try going this direction. Through platforms like [Airbnb](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/airbnb_airbnb_gift_card), you’ll be able to secure an amazing house or cabin that fits your entire group.\n\n### 2. __Visit a national park__ \nThe recent craze of collecting National Park stamps has nature lovers traveling near and far to see the best Mother Earth has to offer. Whether you decide on the Florida Everglades or California’s Yosemite there are 61 different parks to choose from in the USA.\n\n### 3. __Head off to Las Vegas__\nIt’s quintessential bachelor party territory. So grab a few buddies and head over to Sin City. Just remember: What happens in Vegas doesn’t always stay in Vegas.\n\n### 4. __Take a cruise__ \n[Cruise ships](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/cruise-lines) are a unique bachelor party option suitable for everyone in your bachelor party thanks to a bevy of entertaining options like bars, casinos, and pool decks.\n\n### 5. __Go camping__ \nSome of the best bachelor party camping ideas are hiking, fishing, or just hanging out with friends around a campfire.\n\n![Bachelor Party Ideas Camping](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2Jz6zYMC0nFbe9akXYL6QA/6fbb6f7d51fd9269617bc6f7a3eb7784/Bachelor_Party_Ideas_Camping.jpg)\nPhoto by Scott Goodwill on Unsplash\n\n### 6. __Visit the Kentucky Bourbon Trail__\nThis is one of the best bachelor party ideas for bourbon lovers, and the area surrounding Louisville is a must-go. Take a bus tour of popular bourbon distilleries—without having to worry about a designated driver.\n\n### 7. __Go to a live music festival__ \nIf you and your crew are big on music and partying, hit a major music festival together to enjoy the live band and night raves.\n\n### 8. __Visit a new country__ \nIf getting a new stamp on your passport sounds like an amazing idea, grab your crew and venture out. Check [airlines](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/airline) for deals and jump on an opportunity.\n\n### 9. __Rent an RV__ \nOutdoor bachelor party ideas don’t always have to involve the elements. While road tripping with your buddies may take longer than a weekend, rent an RV and make your way down a scenic road intended to be covered in a couple of days. Try the California coast or the Blue Ridge Parkway in the Carolinas.\n\n### 10. __Go off to the races__ \nIf dressing in seersucker and rocking a koozie are two of your favorite things, you might want to head off to the horse races. From the Kentucky Derby to the Preakness races in Maryland, there are many big events to choose from where you and your friends can sip on Mint Juleps and enjoy the weekend.\n\n### 11. __Plan a beach getaway__\nAccording to Brittney Poole, wedding planner at [Forever Moments](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-planners/forever-moments--2), heading surfside is a laid-back idea. \"Many of my couples tell me they take the weekend to relax on the sand,\" she says. \"Specifically, going during a festival or air show also makes the experience more memorable.\" One of her couples also did an over-the-top bach experience on the beaches of Cancun.\n\n### 12. __Opt for an urban event__\nAccording to Folmar, destination bachelor parties are still going strong, and she cites Nashville and Miami as topping the list for an unforgettable weekend of festivities. \"Whether it's booking a suite at a top resort, hitting exclusive clubs, or lounging by the pool with VIP service, these experiences are all about luxury and indulgence,\" she adds.\n\n### 13. __Rent a ski cabin__ \nWhen it comes to the best winter bachelor party ideas, renting a ski cabin is among the top. Being in an A-frame in the middle of the mountains is a great way to add in a sporting adventure while kicking off your bachelor party celebration through bonding with your friends.\n\n![pexels-nathan-moore-2479641](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3I66GIrQv6FKgSQvSjDMzy/dd5366b33b5748a1c167f61370b32e9a/pexels-nathan-moore-2479641.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Nathan Moore via Pexels\n\n## Daytime bachelor party ideas \n\n### 14. __Go for a hike__ \nSetting out on a day hike is a great way to enjoy your surroundings and have plenty of time for meaningful moments with your friends. Sometimes cheap bachelor party ideas like this one are the best for a little bonding time. \n\n### 15. __Float down a river__ \nGrab an inner tube and float along the river, if possible. Some locations even have bars and restaurants at various stops along your tube ride.\n\n### 16. __Sign up for an obstacle course__\nInstead of an individual or singular event, try signing up for an obstacle course that puts you together in teams. This is one of the most memorable sober bachelor party ideas that you’ll all enjoy. \n\n### 17. __Try paintballing__ \nIf competition is your thing, split into teams for a few rounds of paintball outside.\n\n### 18. __Throw a backyard BBQ__ \nFire up the grill, get out the floaties (if you have access to a pool), and throw an awesome BBQ bachelor party. If you or your friends don’t have an outlet to host a BBQ party, try looking online to see if you can rent a house in your area for the day.\n\n### 19. __Hit a food and wine festival__\nLooking for bachelor party food ideas for a groom who’s a foodie? Bring together the most delicious celebration by hitting up a food and wine festival. From Disney’s Epcot to the Catalina Wine Mixer, food and wine festivals are always a huge hit. Look up local food festivals nearby or in the surrounding cities.\n\n![Bachelor Party at Wine Festival Winery](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2c8XzZcUHfGkXKGEEYivs5/77ceac3e5672f71e2242a1f0e0454047/Bachelor_Party_at_Wine_Festival_Winery.jpg)\nPhoto by Khuc Le Thanh Danh on Unsplash\n\n### 20. __Take a brewery tour__ \nMany cities around the country pride themselves on their expansion of craft breweries. While places like Denver and Asheville have become popular, look around for local breweries in your city and see what flights of beer or tours they’d be happy to offer you and your friends for a bachelor party. Jump in a party bus and let someone else take the wheel for the day while you sit back and enjoy with friends.\n\n### 21. __Go on a food tour__ \nYou can live in a city or neighborhood for years and not know about all the best eats. A food tour is a great way to appease the empty stomach and the tastebuds.\n\n### 22. __Visit a vineyard__\nWhile you may need to head out of a city for this one, you may find that a beautiful vineyard is closer than you imagined. Find one within a few hours of you and enjoy a day full of wine tasting and cheese.\n\n### 23. __Go to a monster truck rally__ \nWatch cars crush other cars—a truly unique experience!\n\n### 24. __Buy tickets to NASCAR__\nThere are so many motorways consistently hosting NASCAR races. For your bachelor party, pick a track closest to you and see what driving fast really means.\n\n### 25. __Take a white water rafting trip__\nNothing says teamwork like sitting in a boat with your buddies as you’re scaling down the rapids.\n\n![White Water Rafting Bachelor Party Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2KUTR28vXDchkwKGjGy1cP/9d0aaed0c950cff10a0053240d68c972/White_Water_Rafting_Bachelor_Party_Ideas.jpg)\nPhoto by Anna Sullivan on Unsplash\n\n### 26. __Rent ATVs__ \nRide your way through some rough terrain on ATVs.\n\n### 27. __Go hunting__ \nOkay, so this is one of the more unique bachelor party ideas on our list: Skeet shooting. Hunting's humane cousin, skeet shooting requires a level of precision and skill. Compete against your friends to see who has the highest levels of concentration and dexterity.\n\n### 28. __Learn a new skill__ \nWhether you try painting, cooking, or axe throwing, find a local artisan who can teach your crew something new.\n\n### 29. __Do a night of go-kart racing__ \nGo-karts are fun no matter what age you are. Put the pedal down and whoop it up. This idea is a good one for alcohol-free friends.\n\n### 30. __Take a risk__ \nAccording to Folmar, adventure-themed bachelor parties are a big hit. \"Think weekend getaways filled with hiking, camping, and even extreme sports like rock climbing, white-water rafting, or zip-lining,\" she says. \"These trips are great because they not only offer a thrill but also give the groom a chance to bond with his closest friends in a natural setting, away from the noise of everyday life.\"\n\n### 31. __Rock climb__\nWhether on inside boulders or out in nature, there are plenty of mountains to be climbed by you and your guys.\n\n### 32. __Visit a theme park__ \nIf you love rollercoasters, find the closest one and see how many times you and your friends can ride the most thrilling one.\n\n![Ideas for Bachelor Parties Amusement Park Roller Coaster](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4jwtDybLrBToqumG7qC4mH/987c130f0d70a7be5fcbf134877ee401/Ideas_for_Bachelor_Parties_Amusement_Park_Roller_Coaster.jpg)\nPhoto by Jacob Capener on Unsplash\n\n### 33. __Try a tour or an Airbnb Experience__\nLook up local tours or experiences via booking platforms. It may surprise you what you learn that your home city or the city you’re staying in has to offer.\n\n### 34. __Go fishing__ \nThere’s a fish in your area to catch. A fishing trip is a great way to bond and pass the time with your friends for a memorable bachelor party.\n\n### 35. __Learn to surf__ \nWhile this activity pertains to those closest to the ocean, surfing is a great athletic activity that will count as your workout for the weekend.\n\n### 36. __Play competition games__ \nSpeaking of competition, bring the edge up a notch by having your party compete in competitive games. This can be anything from beer Olympics to friendly pick-up basketball.\n\n### 37. __Participate in a scavenger hunt__\nDon’t assume that low key bachelor party ideas are any less fun than those that require more time or money. Divide your party into teams and compete in a local scavenger hunt game—or design your own.\n\n### 38. __Go golfing__ \nIf the groom-to-be is big into his sports, consider some bachelor party golf ideas. It's a great way to enjoy hours of bonding while spending time outside with your friends. Bonus points if you and your friends have similar skill sets and can compete out on the course.\n\n![Golfing at Primland Resort for Groomsmen Bachelors](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7GjrR3Cu3eLavfTqe68UrF/cc74a4d965fa8b2af29e2cd886ea6c9b/Golfing_at_Primland_Resort_for_Groomsmen_Bachelors.jpg)\nPhoto by Kenan Kitchen on Unsplash\n\n## Nighttime bachelor party activities \n\n### 39. __Stargaze__\nWhether you’re searching for a sky of stars atop a mountain or in a field of fireflies, nature can add a surreal lens to your bachelor activities.\n\n### 40. __Go to a concert__\nIf your favorite band or musician is coming to a venue close to you, invite your friends along for a themed bachelor party. Hire a driver for the night to get you there and back home safely.\n\n### 41. __Eat a fancy dinner__\nElevate the usual bachelor experience with a special evening at a luxe restaurant.\n\n### 42. __Hit up a comedy club__ \nIf you’re looking for funny bachelor party ideas, this has the potential to be up there with the best.\n\n### 43. __Host a game night__ \nFrom Monopoly to Code Names, if you love board games or video games, invite your friends over for a game night.\n\n### 44. __Set up a bar crawl__ \nHave your Best Man (or most responsible person in the group) plan a themed bar crawl for your bachelor night.\n\n![INLINE JuliaKinnuenPhotography 1080x720 Melissa&Nic](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1BhFecxn3T47gvmOVgu1xo/1c0e099b74cabc306fa0cc21f22bd901/INLINE_JuliaKinnuenPhotography_1080x720_Melissa_Nic.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Julia Kinnunen\n\n### 45. __Sing karaoke__ \nRent a room, order some drinks, and sing your heart out to your favorite hits.\n\n### 46. __Escape the room__ \nHost your bachelor party at an escape the room venue, where the mental skills of everyone attending will work together to help you all escape.\n\n### 47. __Interactive experience__ \nFor fun bachelor party ideas that offer something a little different, try an interactive dinner. If you’ve never tried a murder mystery dinner or gone to Medieval Times, we highly recommend this entertaining meal style.\n\n### 48. __Go to a sporting event__ \nThere’s almost always a pro-sports game happening close by—even better if you go see the groom’s favorite team.\n\n### 49. __Hit the arcade or do laser tag__ \nBarcades—bar and arcade combination locations are popping up in most major cities. Sip on drinks and play your favorite old-school video games or test those rusty laser tag skills.\n\n### 50. __Go bowling__ \nBetween drinking pitchers of beer and hitting strikes or spares, you and your friends are bound to have an amazing time at your bachelor party.\n\n![Bowling for Bachelor Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1YcxDZF9gbL50SmqtT0wf/62b2b76fd7fd2c3928b09ab6e9f1b489/Bowling_for_Bachelor_Party.jpg)\nPhoto by Karla Rivera on Unsplash\n\nFinish each day with some nighttime fun that will keep the party going—if you have the energy. Just like that, you have a full bachelor party itinerary—no matter what kind of weekend you’re hoping to have with your crew. \n\n## Creative bachelor party ideas \n### 51. __Plan a sports weekend__\nDo you and your crew love sports? Turn it into a weekend event! \"For sports-loving grooms, planning a weekend around a major sporting event—like a championship game or golf tournament—is a great way to celebrate,\" says Folmar. \"A baseball road trip, golf outing, or even renting out a suite at a stadium can make for an incredible time.\"\n\n### 52. __Get sentimental__\nIt's ok to feel nostalgic. \"We’ve seen guys opt for a low-key weekend at a family cabin or a meaningful location,\" recommends Folmar. \"Others have arranged dinners with close friends and family members, where they share toasts, stories, and good company in a relaxed setting.\" These events foster a deep connection while reminiscing. \n\n### 53. __Build on a theme__\nThere is also an uptick in creative events. \"From themed murder mystery dinners to escape room challenges, the focus is on making the event interactive and engaging,\" Folmar says. \"For those looking to add a bit of creativity, themed parties can range from classic black-tie dinners to ‘80s throwback nights or movie marathons.\"\n\n### 54. __Go over the top__\nAt times, life calls for a once-in-a-lifetime experience, such as private yacht charters, helicopters, or renting out venues. According to Folmar, \"These events are all about luxury, with no detail overlooked—high-end catering, private entertainment, and exclusive locations are all part of the package.\"\n\n### 55. __Check things off the groom's bucket list__\nHave something on your bucket list? Build it into the bach party! \"Whether it’s skydiving, a cross-country road trip, or attending a once-in-a-lifetime concert, these bachelor parties are designed around a dream experience the groom has always wanted to do,\" suggests Folmar. Not only is it exciting, but the groom gets to do an amazing activity with his BFFs by his side.\n\n![Photo by Kimson Doan](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/45R0RRe3PJQVlgHKg67hRb/23ca90e54e88a6fccf5e4c9b904b0dde/Photo_by_Kimson_Doan_.jpg) Photo by [Kimson Doan](https://unsplash.com/photos/group-of-people-setting-up-campfire-AZMmUy2qL6A)\n\n## Why use the term \"bachelor party\" for our ideas?\n\nBTW: we use the term “bachelor party” throughout this article. But if you’re planning a bach bash, a bachelorx party, a wedding send-off, a [joint bach party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/joint-bachelor-bachelorette-party-games), or something else, we hope you have just as much fun trying out the ideas above.\n\n## How to personalize the bach bash\n\"No matter the style, bachelor parties have become an extension of the groom’s personality, offering endless opportunities for creativity and fun,\" says Folmar. \"Whether it’s an intimate gathering or an over-the-top celebration, the best bachelor parties are the ones that reflect the groom’s interests and bring together the people closest to him.\"\n\nNo matter which picks you choose from our list, you're sure to have a good time. Fill your bachelor party itinerary with these fun group activities that all your best men will enjoy. Are you headed to a bachlor party and need a gift for your groom? 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","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2018-12-18T18:35:35.713Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6xYvE1cGvmqiEWoqyMSoy0/c820939acd9d2ea06c136a83dc1d8a41/Hero_VentolaPhotography.jpg","altText":"groom and groomsmen"},"heroCredit":"Ventola Photography","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding-photographers/ventola-photography","body":"## What Is a Bachelor Party?\n\n- A bachelor party is common pre-wedding ritual that honors the groom as he celebrates his “last night(s)” as a single man with his closest buddies. \n- Traditionally a group of close male friends throw the bachelor party in the groom’s honor.\n- A bachelor party typically lasts for an entire weekend, but may also just be a single day or evening. It occurs either near the groom’s home or at a specially chosen destination. \n- Typical bachelor parties involve at least one (or a few) nice meals at restaurants, drinking and bar hopping, and some daytime activities like playing or watching live sports, hiking or fishing, or hanging by the beach or pool. \n\n## Who Throws The Bachelor Party?\n\nWhile traditionally the groom’s wedding party—the man of honor and groomsmen—throw the bachelor party, really anyone who is close to the groom can plan it. If the groom has chosen to not have a wedding party, or if it’s not ideal or possible for the best man to handle this responsibility, the following people would be good candidates:\n\n- a sibling of the groom\n- a close cousin of the groom\n- a group of the groom’s long-time coworkers\n- a dear childhood friend of the groom\n\nOrganizing a large group of guys to make travel plans, book hotel rooms, and maneuver in and out of public spaces for a weekend takes special skills. Not every friend or relation will be the ideal person to plan a bachelor party. Here are some questions you should ask when deciding if your best man, groomsman, or other buddy or relative should throw the bachelor party:\n\n1. Is he close enough to the groom to know what he will want from his bachelor party experience?\n2. Is good at handling logistics, making reservations, and organizing groups of people?\n3. Does he have good communication skills?\n4. Can he keep track of costs to make sure expenses are appropriately settled up during or after the party is over?\n\n## Who Should You Invite to a Bachelor Party?\n\nThe invite list for a bachelor party is pretty much up to the groom. He should make a list of names and contact information for everyone he’d like to include in his special day or weekend, and hand it off to the bachelor party organizer(s) to send out an invitation. If the party organizers feel like being fancy, an online invitation is generally formal enough for a casual event like a bachelor party. A group email also works in lieu of formal invitations.\n\nWhile most bachelor parties are all-male gatherings, there’s no hard-and-fast rule that says women can’t be invited to a groom’s weekend of honor. It’s his weekend, after all, so if he is especially close to his sister or a few female friends and wants them present, go with it. It might change the group dynamic and/or itinerary slightly, but follow the groom’s wishes.\n\nIn general, the list of bachelor party invitees will include some or all of the following people:\n\n- The best man\n- The groomsmen\n- Other close friends of the groom\n- Siblings, soon-to-be-siblings, or same-age relatives of the groom\n- Close co-workers of the groom who will also be invited to the wedding\n\n## Who Should You NOT Invite to a Bachelor Party?\n\nThere are only two major rules of thumb when determining who should not be put on the invitation list for a bachelor party:\n\n1. __Anyone who would make the groom feel uncomfortable:__ As this celebration is all about the groom, make sure that everyone who’s invited is someone that he feels comfortable being himself (in various states) around. People like the groom’s father (or even the bride’s father), his more senior relatives, former coaches or teachers, or any buddies with whom he’s had tension or difficult relations with might not be the right candidates.\n2. __Anyone who’s not also invited to the wedding:__ It’s a standard rule of etiquette for all pre-wedding festivities that invitations should only be sent to people who will also make the guest list for the wedding itself. Otherwise, a very awkward and uncomfortable situation may arise.\n\n## Who Pays for The Bachelor Party?\n\nThe guys who plan and attend the bachelor party—that is, everyone except the groom—typically share the costs of the night or weekend. The groom is generally treated to this revelry (or debauchery?) as a gift from his closest buds, who should cover his portion of the expenses and split them among the group.\n\nThe only exception to this practice of “groom goes free” is if the bachelor party is held at a far-off and/or expensive destination. If the decision is made to take the bachelor party to Europe or the Caribbean, for example, the groom might want to pay for his own travel or chip in for the hotel or Airbnb rental. If it’s important to him to have a luxe or exotic experience for his bachelor party, it’s a nice gesture to offer to defray the costs of that wish for his friends who want to participate but don’t have unlimited budgets.\n\n## Budgeting Tips for Bachelor Parties\n\nThe money portion of bachelor parties can get sticky, to say the least. When spirits are flying high (in more ways than one), it’s easy to throw budgetary caution to the wind: another round of shots! Let’s order the prime rib! The entrance fee to that club is totally worth it! Then, when the final tallies have been added up in the harsh light of day and everyone is told what they owe, shock and dismay may set in.\n\nTo prevent sticker shock at the end of the weekend, and to make sure everyone who attends is comfortable with the anticipated costs, follow these best practices when it comes to talking $$$ about bachelor parties.\n\n- The party planner(s) should do a some quick guesstimating ahead of time—like when invitations are sent, or early as plans are being formed—and __provide a rough estimate__ for how much each dude will need to contribute financially for the weekend. This will help guys who are on tighter budgets make informed, wise decisions about whether or not they can attend.\n- __Pick a few big-ticket splurges__ that everyone can agree on ahead of time, such as tickets to a pro sports game, a private yacht cruise for the day, or a fully loaded rental home. Then let folks choose their own level of spending for smaller things, like breakfasts and drink orders. This will allow budget-minded guys to choose cheaper options wherever it doesn’t impact the group’s activities.\n- Pick __one responsible point person__ to be in charge of tracking the group’s shared expenses. Have him use an expense-tracking and money-sharing app, like Splitwise, to make it super easy to keep tabs on how money has been spent and who owes whom what.\n- For some easy savings, look for __off-season options__ when picking the date of the bachelor party. September can still offer beautiful beach weather, but house rentals will be considerably cheaper after the peak season.\n- Likewise, look for __cost savings in your choice of accommodations__. Maybe you can stay at someone’s vacation condo or weekend cabin to save money. If you’re headed to a big city, stay somewhere that’s within walking distance of downtown to save money on transportation.\n\n## What Do You Do at a Bachelor Party?\n\nEvery bachelor party will be a little bit different, just like every groom himself. In general, the bachelor party should reflect the groom’s interests and personality. If music is his passion, try to organize the bachelor party around seeing live musical acts or, if there are musicians among his crew, devoting time to jamming late into the night. If he’s an outdoorsy guy, a bachelor party at a cabin in the woods, complete with hiking, fishing, and bonfire bonding, would be an ideal scenario.\n\nHere are a few basic pointers on what *most* bachelor parties involve, to give you a general sense of what to expect:\n\n- __Drinking:__ At home, in bars, at clubs, pretty much when and wherever… bachelor parties typically involve a decent amount of alcohol consumption.\n- __Fun daytime activities:__ Think watching live sports, guided eating or drinking tours, visiting museums and cultural institutions, doing something physical like hiking, biking, or surfing, or just chilling on the beach.\n- __Nice dinners out:__ Steakhouses are popular choices, but anything that suits the groom’s appetite (sushi, pizza, burgers, Mexican, Italian, seafood, etc.) goes.\n- __Nightclubs:__ From standard nightclubs with DJs, dancing, and bottle service to adults-only entertainment, most bachelor parties wind up at some form of club for late-night revelry.\n \n## Creative Bachelor Party Ideas\n\nIf you’re the brains behind your buddy’s bachelor party, you can’t go wrong with a classic evening of good food, strong drinks, and great friends just hanging out and celebrating the groom. But if you’re looking to take things up a notch—or if your groom isn’t into the standard bachelor party protocol—check out some of our creative bachelor party ideas below:\n\n- Go to a concert or music festival\n- Rent a cabin in the woods\n- Take a road trip on Route 66\n- Go fly fishing \n- Do a backyard pig roast\n- Go hiking and/or backpacking\n- Learn to surf\n- Attend a monster truck rally\n- Float down a river in inner tubes\n- Visit a national park\n- Rent a ski cabin and hit the slopes\n- Get tickets to a pro wrestling or boxing match\n- Rent an RV and go car camping \n- Practice shooting at a rifle club or skeet range\n- Go golfing\n- Compete on an obstacle course (bonus if it involves mud) \n- Play paintball and/or laser tag\n- Schedule a guided white water rafting trip\n- Learn a hands-on skill, like woodworking\n- Access your inner child by going to batting cages and playing arcade games\n- Attend a food or wine festival \n- Rent ATVs and go off-roading \n\n\n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_InvitesPaper"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"To help your groom’s crew achieve wedding party perfection, here’s a total rundown of both traditional and lesser-known duties that the groomsmen can handle to make your day a breeze.","title":"The Groomsmen Duties: A Full Breakdown","slug":"what-are-the-groomsmen-duties","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/fWwz6PEGcwUqySiyogssM/896f7054e8a5e377c932d0a30417662c/Groomsmen-Duties_DreamlifePhotosandVideo.jpg","altText":"groom and groomsmen in light grey suits"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Wedding toasts are tricky. 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We help you plan a party for each kind of bachelor."}],"featured":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Engagement party","slug":"engagement-party"},"slug":"pre-wedding-events-guide","title":"Guide to All Wedding Parties & Events","excerpt":"We created a guide to all the different pre-wedding, post-wedding, and wedding-related events so you can decide what you’ll include as part of your wedding.","publishedAt":"2022-04-13T18:06:06.745Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5uuVJB4T2Ib4wDoicjCgbZ/9b21dc45e3155dd604137c1bf2a53c2a/Hero_1.jpg","altText":"Circular image of friends toasting with champagne glasses and sparkling lights"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Years ago, once couples got engaged, they had two celebrations to look forward to—the bridal shower and the rehearsal dinner. Although those traditions remain, as time has moved on, couples have become more creative with the addition of other events. No matter your reasoning for including extra celebrations in your wedding festivities schedule, seize the opportunity to gather with family and friends. Here’s our ultimate guide to all the different kinds of [parties and events](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events) you can include in your [wedding timeline](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist).\n\n## Engagement party\n\nThe question gets popped, a ring is placed on your finger, and it’s time to celebrate with loved ones. Ideally, an [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party) takes place within the first month of the proposal, but if your schedule prevents that timeline, do it whenever is most convenient.\n\nSince this is generally a more intimate celebration, hosting anything from a casual backyard barbecue with lawn games and a [small guest list](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-do-you-invite-to-an-engagement-party) to a more upscale dinner gathering is appropriate. \n\nIf your interest is piqued, there are more [engagement party ideas here](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-ideas).\n\nWho hosts the engagement party depends on your take on the event. If you and your future spouse want to have family and friends gather to [meet each other](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/introduce-families-after-engagement), feel free to host. However, if you’re going to be hands-off, have someone close, such as a sibling or parent, orchestrate the event.\n\n__Expert advice:__ Unless your wedding will be very small or a destination wedding, only invite people who will also be guests on your wedding day. \n\nSee all of our [engagement party articles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/engagement-party) for more expert tips.\n\n![Craig Adderley - Pre-wedding events](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5GFhw3on6e3FyKap4ONlH7/1b4acace342fc222441fc06c9f64c8a4/Inline_1.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Craig Adderley\n\n## Wedding showers\n\nOnce referred to as a bridal shower, today’s [wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-bridal-shower-and-what-is-its-purpose) is more inclusive than its formerly women-only predecessor ([read more about the difference here](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one)). While you can keep it to just the ladies if you’d like, the main focus of this event is to shower the happy couple with gifts, which can take on several forms. Guests can bring items off the [couple’s registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry), or the event can be [themed](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-themes). Think of giving articles related to experiences or stocking the couple’s bar.\n\nIt’s probably best to let someone else handle the hosting and inviting for your [wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-shower-guide). But that doesn’t mean you need to be hands-off. Talk to your sibling, best man, maid of honor, or parent—all appropriate choices for hosting a shower—about a theme and what type of gifts you’d like. Invite close friends and family members, and hold the event two to three months before the wedding. Do it at someone’s home or somewhere else that gives off intimate, celebratory vibes.\n\n### So, then, what is a bridal shower?\n\nA traditional [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers) celebrates the bride and is a gathering of her closest friends and family, typically all female. It’s often thrown by the bride’s side of the family and her bridal party, but it has evolved into an “anything goes” event for cost responsibility. The key difference here is that the focus is on the bride.\n\n### What is a Jack and Jill party?\n\nA Jack and Jill party is a modern, inclusive way to celebrate both sides of the couple at once before the big day. It mixes sides and genders and is usually more laid back in a way more and more couples are choosing. It’s a chance to celebrate the couple together with everyone they love. If your coed curious, read more about the [pros and cons of having a coed wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/coed-wedding-shower).\n\n__Expert advice:__ Find [wedding or bridal shower invitations](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/bridal-shower/shop) of all styles on Zola. You can even match them to your [wedding invites](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop)! \n\nFor more expert tips, explore all of our [wedding shower articles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/wedding-shower).\n\n## Bach parties\n\nToday’s couples have reframed the bachelor or bachelorette party to be more classy while still partying and making memories with people they are close to. Think about inviting your bridal party, siblings, and close friends—as long as they don’t feel stilted by not being asked to be an attendant.\n\nIt’s perfectly appropriate for you to host this event yourself. Your wedding party can also take the reins. Often, bachelor and bachelorette parties have everyone pay their own way, especially if you jet-set out of town for a long weekend. That said, this pre-wedding celebration is more about getting together and being festive than major expenses. So, feel free to be flexible so everyone involved can celebrate leading up to your wedding day.\n\n### Bachelorette parties\n[Bachelorette parties](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bachelorette-parties) celebrate the bride-to-be and can be anything from an elevated brunch, a night on the town, or weekend away somewhere festive. Most importantly, they should reflect the bachelorette’s personality and wishes and be a gathering of her nearest and dearest. \n\nRead our full [guide to planning a bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bachelorette-party) for more deets. \n\n### Bachelor parties\n\n[Bachelor parties](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bachelor-party) honor, you’ve guessed it — the bachelor. It’s basically just a gathering of the groom’s best friends and family spending time together. Normally, they do what the groom enjoys most whether it be sports, hiking, the casino — anything goes. \n\nCheck out [47 bachelor party ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelor-party-ideas) to find something for every groom.\n\n### Joint Bachelor/Bachelorette parties\n\nBrides, grooms, and same-sex couples looking for ways to celebrate together might opt for a joint bachelor/bachelorette party. ‘Bachelorx’ as some call it, is much more than a coed party – it's a fun and inclusive way to focus pre-wedding festivities on the couple as a whole. \n\nCheck out [how to throw a joint bach party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/joint-bachelor-bachelorette-party-games) for the step-by-step. \n\n__Expert advice:__ Get answers to all of your bach party questions, from theme ideas to planning guides to gift inspiration. Find everything [bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/bachelorette-party) or [bachelor party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/bachelor-party) in our expert advice sectionon. \n\n![Melike Benli - Pre-wedding events](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5z3OG5MnN3cpIavaOqAcrX/0b0cc0586ce31c6d2b89c163a6a6ef16/Inline_2.jpg)*Photo Credit* // Melike Benli\n\n## Aufruf\n\nJewish culture has many celebrations, such as Hanukkah and Yom Kippur, but a wedding-centric event that many look forward to is the Aufruf. Yiddish for “calling up,” the Aufruf is traditionally only meant for the groom, although in more modern synagogues, both partners can participate. The entire congregation takes part in this pre-wedding tradition, which happens at the temple the Saturday before the wedding.\n\nDuring the ceremony, the groom will give a blessing over the Torah. Inviting friends and family to the service is appropriate since this is a public display. However, dash all thoughts of the Aufruf being solemn. Sometimes, the rabbi will give the couple candy, signifying a sweet union and fruitfulness throughout the marriage. Some folks will also schedule a post-Aufruf meal to continue the festivities, depending on the circumstances. Additionally, the Aufruf is not to be confused with Shabbat Chatan, which is also for the groom but takes place after the big day.\n\n## Mehndi party\n\nBorrowing beautiful influences from Hindu and [Muslim traditions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/muslim-wedding-checklist), the mehndi party is a unique way to celebrate while focusing on self and practicing ancient rituals. Also known as a henna party, this event is generally held by the bride’s parents and involves placing beautiful, intricate designs on the bride’s hands and feet using henna dye.\n\nToday’s celebrations often include other close family members and friends of the bride. Because these events can take hours—depending on how many henna artists are available and the intricacy of the designs—hosting at a spa, home, or Airbnb can be a nice touch. Henna also darkens over time, so if you’d like to have these designs on your hands and feet for your wedding day, it’s best to have henna applied three days beforehand to allow the natural ink to darken.\n\n## Welcome party \n\nIf you’re having a [destination wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/destination-wedding-checklist) (or a [wedding weekend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/plan-wedding-weekend) people are traveling in for), it’s customary to have some form of welcome reception when your guests arrive at the wedding location. \n\nThis differs from the rehearsal dinner—which typically happens the night before the wedding and only hosts the bridal party and your closest family. \n\nA wedding welcome party can be as casual as welcome drinks or a barbecue once everyone arrives and settles in. It can also be as extravagant as your budget and style preferences allow. Just remember that it’s optional. \n\n## Sangeet \n\nOften celebrated in India, sangeet is all about merriment with many family and friends. As a result, the number of folks invited to sangeet will often outnumber the wedding reception. Folks get together to party — sing, dance, eat, drink — before the big day to showcase their support for the couple and gather with those they haven’t seen in a while. Because this is a large celebration, hosts can often vary and may depend on the number of guests invited.\n\nBecause of the higher guest count, hosting should happen at a [wedding venue](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue) or another location that can hold many people. Although, sometimes, the sangeet will include a smaller number of guests. When it comes to pre-wedding events, sangeets are one of the most flexible, meaning that the location, who hosts, and its proximity to the wedding day can all vary. However, one thing sangeets have in common is the presence of music, which is no wonder since the word means “music” in Sanskrit.\n\n## Rehearsal dinner \n\nThe [rehearsal dinner](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/unique-rehearsal-dinner-ideas) follows your wedding rehearsal, in which your officiant or wedding planner guides you and everyone involved through your wedding ceremony. Along with these people, it’s nice to [invite any close family members](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-to-invite-to-a-rehearsal-dinner) who are wedding guests, as well as those traveling in. \n\nAs expected, the rehearsal dinner is usually the evening before your wedding. As such, it’s best to host it somewhere close to the wedding venue. Choose a restaurant close by or see if your ceremony venue has a space that is not already dedicated to your wedding reception.\n\n## Wedding party/bridal luncheon \n\nIt’s always great to get together with your wedding party. Plus, if you’re a groom who wants to hold a groomsmen’s brunch, go for it! Traditionally, a bridesmaids or wedding party luncheon or brunch is a meal for bridesmaids and/or groomsmen focused on socializing the [wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-many-people-in-wedding-party). Breaking the ice before the big day is a fantastic way to set the tone. \n\nThe bridesmaids’ brunch usually takes place at a restaurant, café, or loved one’s home. If you’d like to host this event, feel free to take the reins. As for when it takes place, that comes down to your personal preference and everyone’s schedules. If everyone is local, picking a date should be simple, but if a few are long-distance, the event may have to take place closer to your [wedding day](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-planning-101/wedding-day).\n\n## After party \n\nJust because the DJ has played the last song and the lights have come up doesn’t mean the party has to be over. It’s becoming more and more common for couples to host an after party that is, quite literally, after the party. \n\nThis after-hours event usually involves extra cocktails and snacks, is in a different location than the reception itself, and can help to keep the party going. And going, and going. Find the best DJs and live bands for your after party on [Zola’s Vendor Marketplace](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-bands-djs).\n\n## Farewell brunch \n\nThe final culminating event of a wedding celebration is the [farewell brunch](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/fun-post-wedding-brunch-invitation-ideas). It can be hosted by the couple, the families, a close relative, or anyone else who offers. It’s typically reserved for guests who’ve spent the night in a designated hotel or resort.\n\nThe farewell brunch gives your guests a chance to regroup, enjoying breakfast and coffee before heading on their merry way. It’s not a mandatory event, but it’s definitely nice to have for both the couple and their guests. As a result, it’s a relatively easy way to put the cherry on top of a great wedding. \n\n## Final thoughts on extra wedding events\n\nAs you can see, weddings can be as simple as the ceremony and reception itself. Or can be a true series of parties and events that lead up to and even continue after the wedding itself. There are no obligations or limits to the amount of wedding fun you can have.\n\nOthers want to honor and celebrate you—both on and before your big day. Incorporating one or more of these wedding festivities gives you more opportunities to spend time and celebrate with everyone you love. The best part? You don’t have to get overwhelmed with planning everything when you’ve got Zola on your team. 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