Lem LeRoy - Wedding Officiant

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Prices start at $250

Packages

Prices start at $250

About Lem LeRoy - Wedding Officiant

Lem LeRoy - Wedding Officiant

Officiant

I am an ordained minister based in the Charlotte metropolitan area. I've served a local church as a minister and music director in the region for over 20 years. I've had over 30 years experience of helping couples plan and facilitate their wedding ceremony, in grand or intimate venues, either as an officiant or as a musician. I grew up in a small town outside of Athens, GA and graduated from the University of Georgia (GO DAWGS) in 1995 with a Bachelor of Music degree concentrating in piano and voice. I've been married since 2006 to my wife, Ellen and we have three beautiful children: Kate, Meredith, and Owen.

As a concierge-level wedding officiant, I bring passion, professionalism, and a personable touch to every ceremony. I work closely with each couple to craft a stress-free experience that authentically reflects their bond and personality. Whether you’re planning a simple courthouse-style ceremony, an intimate elopement, or a traditional wedding in a grand venue or outdoor space, I officiate with warmth, care, and attention to detail.

In three words: Calm, Flexible, Fun

Services

Ceremony types

Civil Union
Commitment Ceremony
Elopement
Interfaith Ceremony
Legal License Signing
Multicultural Weddings
Non-religious Ceremony
Other
Religious
Vow Renewal Ceremony

Religious affiliations

Catholic
Christian
Interfaith
Other
Secular
Spiritual

Lem LeRoy - Wedding Officiant packages

Classic Ceremony

Description

A timeless and elegant ceremony that blends tradition with personal touches, featuring vows, the exchange of rings, and a joyful pronouncement.

What’s included

Complimentary, no-obligation initial consultation
Roundtrip travel within 25 miles of my home
Unlimited consultations
Details about the marriage license
Access to ceremony script w/unlimited revisions
Coordination with wedding planner + other vendors
Officiating a legal and customizable ceremony
Signing and delivery of license to deeds office

Elopement/Micro Ceremony

Description

A personalized, intimate ceremony for couples seeking simplicity and meaning, often with just a small group of loved ones. The focus is on heartfelt vows, the exchange of rings, and a meaningful pronouncement of marriage.

What’s included

Complimentary, no-obligation initial consultation
Roundtrip travel within 25 miles of my home
Unlimited consultations
Details about the marriage license
Access to ceremony script w/unlimited revisions
Officiating a brief and simple ceremony
Signing and delivery of license to deeds office

Vow Renewal

Description

A heartfelt celebration of love and commitment, where couples reaffirm their vows and celebrate their journey together.

What’s included

Complimentary, no-obligation initial consultation
Roundtrip travel within 25 miles of my home
One consultation by phone or video call
Renewing of vows ceremony

Civil Ceremony

Description

A "courthouse-style" ceremony that offers a simple yet meaningful celebration of commitment, typically with just the couple and a few witnesses. It includes the exchange of vows and rings, followed by a legal pronouncement of marriage.

What’s included

Complimentary, no-obligation initial consultation
One additional phone consultation
Roundtrip travel within 25 miles of my home
Details about the marriage license
Simple, legal "courthouse alternative" ceremony
Signing and delivery of license to deeds office

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Recommended by a fellow officiant
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•Julia G.•May 4, 2025
Our chosen officiant flaked out a month before the wedding and luckily, Lem was available. I already knew vendor quick response time, a contract and more good reviews than bad were requirements. Lem fit all these; was friendly, helpful and rates were reasonable and average. Lem stood out to me because another officiant recommended him. He listened to our needs and was a total professional on the wedding day. A great choice.
Ceremony At Home
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•Gracie•Apr 20, 2025
We had an incredible experience with Lem! He was extremely easy to communicate with from day one. My husband and I wanted a legal ceremony in NC before we eloped overseas, but we didn't want to go to the courthouse, so Lem came to our home for a small, intimate secret ceremony. It was so very special, even as a "short & sweet" ceremony Lem spoke some beautiful & meaningful words prayer over us. 10/10 recommend!!
Phenomenal Officiant!
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•Isabel D.•Apr 19, 2025
We recently had the pleasure of working with Lem for our wedding, and we couldn't be happier with the experience. From the moment we connected with him, we knew we were in good hands. He took the time to get to know us both individually and as a couple, which made our ceremony incredibly personalized and intimate. Our wedding was an interfaith ceremony, and Lem handled it with such grace and sensitivity. He seamlessly blended elements from both of our traditions, creating a beautiful and meaningful service that honored our religious backgrounds and brought our families together. His words were heartfelt and touching, capturing the essence of our love story perfectly. Throughout the entire process, Lem was professional, supportive, and attentive to our needs. He provided guidance and reassurance, making sure every detail was just right. His warm and calming presence on our wedding day put us at ease and allowed us to fully enjoy the moment. We received so many compliments from our guests about how special and unique our ceremony was - Lem truly made our day unforgettable, and we are forever grateful for him! We highly recommend Lem to anyone looking for an officiant who will create a personalized and graceful ceremony.
Wonderful experience!
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•Jennifer•Apr 18, 2025
Lem did a wonderful job making our day special! He was very professional and I couldn’t be more pleased with his officiating. So happy we picked him for our special day!

I've been officiating weddings for almost 30 years.

I can be present for a rehearsal if needed for an additional fee. Normally I'm not needed since the primary reason for a rehearsal is practicing walking in, standing, and walking out.

Absolutely! We spend time in our consultations discussing the best ways to personalize the ceremony including highlighting your story, unity ceremonies, ring warming, etc.

Of course!

I do not require premarital counseling, but I do recommend it. Because I'm a full time minister at my church, I typically do not have time to do the counseling myself, but I do offer recommendations for local counselors.

I was ordained by my church over 30 years ago. That allows me to legally marry couples in most states including North and South Carolina.

My pricing begins at $200 for a local (south Charlotte/Ballantyne area), simple civil ceremony and goes up from there. My fee depends on your needs i.e. travel distance, length and style of ceremony, rehearsal, etc. I can be flexible on pricing based on your wants and needs.

I usually arrive about 30 - 45 minutes ahead of time.

The process for moving forward is: (1) to have a free consultation by text, phone, or video call to connect about the vision for your ceremony and for you to see if I'm a good fit for your needs, then (2) complete a simple online contract and arrange payment. Once booked, we schedule a consultation about 4 - 6 weeks out from the ceremony date. I prefer for that meeting to be in-person if local.

Your wedding day is a big event, and you want to ensure all details run smoothly, especially the ceremony. Choosing the right officiant is crucial—they should be experienced, reliable, and communicative. While their main duty is to fulfill legal requirements, like signing and filing the marriage license, they should also bring warmth, understanding, and a sense of fun. Your officiant should help create a positive, relaxed atmosphere, making sure your ceremony reflects your vision and personality while ensuring everything is official.

It's helpful for the couple to share the specific date, time, and location of the ceremony and/or rehearsal with the officiant as soon as possible. They should also consider marriage requirements in their state, like needing witnesses for a marriage license (e.g., NC requires two witnesses, but SC doesn’t). Other key details include: wedding planner, PA system, wedding party size, guest count, preferences from past weddings, religious or secular ceremony, traditions/rituals to include or omit, family/friends involved, and family dynamics.

I have had the privilege of working with couples from a wide range of backgrounds, including various ages, ethnicities, and socio-economic statuses. I've worked with couples who are planning traditional ceremonies, as well as those who are incorporating modern or interfaith elements. I’ve also had experience with couples who are celebrating their second marriages and those with unique cultural or spiritual traditions. Each ceremony is special, and I strive to create a meaningful, personalized experience for every couple, regardless of their background or beliefs.

A classic traditional ceremony is usually 20 - 30 minutes. An elopement or civil ceremony is about 15 minutes.

In my 600+ weddings, I've never had to miss due to unforeseen circumstances. But if something unexpected happens, I have several ministers that I'm able to reach out to.

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Lem LeRoy - Wedding Officiant

Pricing

Packages

About Lem LeRoy - Wedding Officiant

Lem LeRoy - Wedding Officiant

Services

Ceremony types

Religious affiliations

Lem LeRoy - Wedding Officiant packages

Classic Ceremony

Elopement/Micro Ceremony

Vow Renewal

Civil Ceremony

Reviews

Recommended by a fellow officiant

Ceremony At Home

Phenomenal Officiant!

Wonderful experience!

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