The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Oxford, NY

The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Oxford, NY

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10 Wedding Venues in Oxford, NY

Historic estates, mansions
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The Cracker Factory 

4.5

  • Up to 376 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

The Cracker Factory is a renovated industrial factory in Geneva, New York. This 65,000 square foot factory houses The Cracker Factory, 3Stories non-for-profit, and Miles and May Furniture Works. The Cracker Factory building, built in the early 1900s, was first home to Geneva Forge, a cutlery manufacturer. In 2007, Miles and May Furniture Works moved their production to the first story and began renovations on the previously unoccupied building. Since 2010, the second-floor gallery space has been in use for art shows, concerts, and events.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Provides event staff
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
Not only is the Cracker Factory a beautiful hidden gem, but every person on the team is amazingly considerate, kind, and helpful. Ashley, Brandon, and Amanda were a joy to work with from the initial tour to all email correspondence, the day of and even when picking up our decor the day after. We stumbled on the venue in a random Google search and decided to check it out while passing through after the holidays, and were blown away by the venue's layout, architecture, interior design, and features. It was everything we wanted and more. They provided us a very detailed list of recommended vendors covering everything from furniture rentals to catering, even hotels and airbnbs in the area. Their bar service packages were expertly tailored and they even had NA beer and wine which quite a few of our guests really appreciated. Brandon and Ashley were like extra coordinators during our tea ceremony, welcome party, and wedding day. They are extremely understanding of cultural ceremonies and were happy to boil water needed for our tea ceremony and set up the necessary seating and tables for it. Brandon was so attentive to us and our whole wedding party and family. We got so many compliments on his friendliness and kindness, as well as how beautiful and unique the venue is. Ashley was so quick to respond and answer any questions we had weeks and days leading up to our wedding. When we were visiting shops and places in the Geneva area a couple days leading up to the wedding, everyone in the community gave them such high praise, telling us we were in great hands, and they couldn't have been more right. Everyone at the cracker factory is professional, kind, communicative, and fun. They helped us have an incredibly fun and stress-free wedding. We couldn't recommend this space and this team enough.
Anna V., 6 months ago
The Sherwood Hotel 

5.0

Greene, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $900

This storybook and historic Sherwood Hotel offers the perfect setting for weddings, banquets, reunions, and special events. A magical location in the setting of Greene, New York, just 20 miles from Norwich and 20 miles from Binghamton.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Dance floor not included
  • Additional event staff required
If you are looking for a blank slate to create your own dream reception/wedding experience in a vintage historical setting then the Sherwood Inn is the perfect place for you. Literally a beautiful classic venue with such potential to make any brides dream come true. We rented the entire hotel for our reception all 19 rooms and it was perfect for our guests. The bridal suite room is beautiful with a whirlpool tub and was perfect for my wedding party to get ready for the ceremony in. Our ceremony was elsewhere but I could see someone have everything right at the Sherwood and it being completely beautiful. Greg was absolutely wonderful to work with. There are 2 venues to choose from a formal venue room on the 1st floor and a basement bar venue which we rocked and danced our reception into the early morning hours. The photos are to die for trust me!! And, the town of Greene is wonderful and welcoming.
Michele S., a year ago
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The Lincklaen House 

5.0

Cazenovia, NY
  • Up to 130 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $1,500

The Lincklaen House is a historic wedding venue and grand hotel in Cazenovia, New York. The space is an elegant and unique site that will create a romantic ambiance for your special day. The Lincklaen House has been a welcoming and comfortable venue for travelers and betrothed couples alike for over 180 years, even having housed President and Mrs. Grover Cleveland. Their experienced staff will make you feel at home, and the meals will leave you talking about them for years to come. The stunning architecture provides the perfect backdrop for photos, inside and outside. With a wedding at The Lincklaen House, your memories will last a lifetime.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Provides catering services
  • Pets can join the celebration

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • On-site parking not available
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
My husband and I were married at the Lincklaen House in Cazenovia in August of 2018 and it was absolutely amazing! Such a fun experience! We worked with Carrie throughout the whole process and she was so accommodating when it came to us needing anything at all. The ease and guidance throughout the whole process allowed us to not worry about anything on our big day! We would 100% recommend the Lincklaen House to all of our friends!
Alyssa D., 4 years ago
Stonewall at The Meredith 

5.0

Delhi, NY
  • Up to 100 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Serves Oxford, NY

Stonewall at the Meredith is a wedding venue with a formal dining room and cocktail lounge for a mix of casual elegance for up to 100 guests indoors. With lush, naturally-landscaped grounds, your ceremony will have a beautiful backdrop for an outdoor ceremony anywhere on our 6 acres for up to 300 guests. It is more than just a gorgeous space to have your ceremony and reception, it is a unique place for families and friends to enjoy the entire day.We strive to provide all of our guests with a one-of-a-kind experience!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Exudes old-world charm
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Handles all cleanup logistics

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
Awarded Best of Zola
We (Cullen Creations) have worked at stonewall many times in the past and each time the venue/staff have been great to work with, they quickly get back to us and are super flexible. We love being a part of a Stonewall Wedding!! The venue is unbelievably beautiful, it give you all the necessities you need but also gives you enough freedom to make it truly unique to the couple and their vision! All of our couples have been beyond happy with how their stonewall wedding turned out & I would highly recommend this venue to anyone looking for a barn venue!
Heather Cullen, 4 years ago
GemHidden gem
Maple Shade 1785 Farm & Estate 

5.0

Delhi, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

Our majestic property catches your eye immediately with a large yellow barn set back from the road draped by rolling grassy fields. As beautiful as the entry is behind the barn there is a lovely flat featuring a large spring fed pond, stonewalls galore and a Catskill mountain backdrop. Grand entrances welcome guests to spacious dining and entertaining spaces. The barn was completed in 1890 and is a one-of-a-kind piece of art and architecture Warm lights highlight the original wood interior, wide floorboards welcome dancers and cozy nooks create mingling opportunities for every guest. The soft grass courtyard and old paths are surrounded by stonewalls that lure you to a secret ceremony site and first look locations. Breathtaking sunsets and star filled skies make your day magical. Come see the Maple Shade Magic for yourself!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Multiple event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Requires outside catering services
  • Does not provide event staff
Yes! CHOOSE THIS VENUE!! You’ve found the right place! We are finally getting around to posting our review about the most perfect wedding venue we could have imagined! We saw Maple Shade November ‘22 when we were ‘shopping’ for a wedding venue; choosing it was a no brainer. The barn itself is unique and different than any others we have seen and it comes with everything. Dining area upstairs, separate from the cocktail hour, dancing, downstairs bar, lounge area, game room (this place has it all!). Long farm tables are gorgeous within themselves and need minimal decorations. And with the venue having SO MUCH on site, there was no need for us to order and prepare any other decor items like we would have needed at some of the ‘Blank Canvas’ barns we initially considered. The barn sits on acres and acres of land, giving you the option of where to have your ceremony, we chose right in front of the pond where our wedding party had a grand entrance from the large barn doors. MAGICAL! Enough about the venue, although we hope this paints an accurate picture! Everything you could need is there!! More importantly, Jay and Abby Wilson (owners of Maple Shade) are absolute rockstars. From our first visit and follow up phone call, we knew working together would be a breeze. They were helpful in our initial planning stages, helping us plan different details, offering extremely helpful advice. Wedding day they were like conductors of an orchestra, making sure everyone and everything were in place and running according to plan. It was PERFECT! And when uncontrollable things don’t go to plan, they had us covered! On our wedding day in late July, there was a high percentage of rain expected only during the time of our ceremony; Jay and Abby made the call that morning to put up a tent and made all the adjustments needed without causing bride and groom any extra stress… THANK GOD they did - it literally monsooned during the ceremony, like nothing we've seen before at an outdoor wedding! (Just a fluke storm rolling though). They reminded us that as a bride and groom getting married at their venue, they make the same decisions for us and our guests that they would make for their own children. They are kind and caring and so fun, and certainly know how to run a wedding venue. We respected, trusted and appreciated all their knowledge and hard work. It’s definitely not their first rodeo! As we will continue to call this day "the best day ever," we are very grateful to Jay and Abby for all of their help, attention to detail, and their ability to see and understand our vision for the most perfect wedding we could have imagined. Ps- they made a few recommendations for supplementary vendors (catering, DJ, bartenders) and all their recommendations were also HOME RUNS! It was such a smooth operation.
Kiersten W., a year ago
Mark's Good Apples Farm 

5.0

Bloomville, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $2,500

Mark's Good Apples Farm is a former dairy, nestled into the hills of Bloomville, NY, boasting a 1790's farmhouse, post and beam barn, fruiting orchard & lush hay fields. Just a short drive from the towns of Delhi, Bovina & Andes, this property transports guest to a simpler era with glimpses into the past and hints at modern luxury. The agricultural setting with working orchard, historic stonewalls and hayfields will be the perfect place for your special event.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Exudes old-world charm
  • Offers full flexibility in setup and decor
  • Surrounded by nature

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • No venue-provided food services
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Fabulous place and experience Do not miss staying or having an event here . Sweeps you off you feet into nature , love and romance
Wendy Sutter, 5 years ago
John Joseph Inn 

5.0

Groton, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

Welcome to the John Joseph Inn, where timeless elegance meets modern luxury in the heart of the Finger Lakes region. Named after founder John Hamilton, our estate boasts 110 acres of picturesque grounds. Whether an intimate gathering or grand celebration, our versatile spaces exude romance and sophistication. Our six luxurious inn room suites and cottage seamlessly blend classic charm with modern amenities, offering a serene escape amidst the scenic beauty of our estate. Renowned Chef John Joseph Hamilton curates wedding menus harmonizing creativity, flavor, and local flair. His culinary creations showcase a passion for innovation, exceeding expectations and reflecting your unique love story. With a commitment to exceptional service, the John Joseph Inn ensures a seamless wedding experience. From arrival to farewell, we create a warm and welcoming atmosphere, allowing you to savor every moment.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has onsite accommodations
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Multiple event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
From the moment we first spoke with John at the John Joseph Inn, my husband and I felt incredibly cared for and supported. This was the first and only venue we visited when we first started planning and we knew right away this would be the place for our wedding day. John's thoughtful and flexible communication style put us at ease throughout the entire planning process. The stunning grounds and elegant venue felt like something out of a movie - the perfect backdrop for our special day. John and his team went the extra mile to incorporate every detail that was important to us, including working with us to build a custom menu that featured chicken from our family farm and custom desserts inspired by our mothers' recipes. The ability to have welcome cocktails and a day-after brunch all on the property allowed our guests, some of whom traveled a great distance, to spend more quality time celebrating with us. We also had plenty of kids attend, and they were having the time of their lives playing in the orchard throughout the wedding weekend. We are so grateful to the John Joseph Inn for helping to make our wedding day truly unforgettable.
Isidora, 9 months ago
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Book Village Inn 

5.0

Hobart, NY
  • Up to 75 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Host Your Event at Book Village Inn: Our historic inn is a one-of-a-kind setting for unforgettable gatherings. From elegant weddings to intimate celebrations, Book Village Inn offers a charming backdrop, thoughtful hospitality, and timeless character for every occasion. Weddings: Whether you’re planning a cozy elopement or a weekend-long celebration, Book Village Inn is a romantic destination with soul. Exchange vows in our lush backyard, toast with loved ones in the book-lined bar, and take over the entire inn for a private, personalized experience. We offer flexible packages and a dedicated team to help bring your vision to life.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a sophisticated vibe
  • Has onsite accommodations
  • Both indoor and outdoor options

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Additional event staff required
  • Not wheelchair accessible
From the moment we booked our wedding at Book Village Inn, their communication was fast, clear and proactive. The owners were incredibly helpful in guiding us through the planning process and making sure everything went smoothly. The venue itself was absolutely gorgeous - a charming, nostalgic space that felt so clean and welcoming. The space was more special than we ever could have imagined, and truly made our wedding day feel like a magical, one-of-a-kind celebration. We are so grateful to the entire team at Book Village Inn for helping to make our day so perfect and unforgettable.
Nick J., 21 days ago
Hyde Hall, Glimmerglass State Park, Cooperstown 
Cooperstown, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Hyde Hall is considered the finest example of a neoclassic country mansion anywhere in the United States. Our Hyde Hall Event team is available to assist you in any way to make your memorable day run as smoothly as possible. We can offer suggestions and assistance with event details; from caterers to flowers to music and more. We are a small historic organization and are able to give personal attention to each unique wedding.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Historic touches
  • Offers full flexibility in setup and decor

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • No on-site guest accommodations

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About wedding venues in Oxford, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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