The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Southern Pines, NC

The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Southern Pines, NC

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11 Wedding Venues in Southern Pines, NC

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The Southern Dream Wedding Venue 

5.0

Gibson, NC
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Imagine stepping into a beautifully elegant barn, where rustic charm meets refined sophistication. The Southern Dream venue features high, vaulted ceilings with exposed wooden beams, giving it a warm and inviting atmosphere. Crystal chandeliers hang gracefully, casting a soft, romantic glow over the space. The walls are adorned with vintage-inspired decor, and large windows and doors allow natural light to flood in, highlighting the stunning countryside views. The barn's interior is tastefully decorated with delicate drapery, creating a perfect blend of rustic elegance and timeless beauty. It's the ideal setting for a memorable and enchanting wedding celebration.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Rustic-chic setting
  • Has onsite accommodations

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • On-site parking not available
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
Awarded Best of Zola
From the moment we booked our wedding at The Southern Dream Wedding Venue, their team was fast, reliable, and incredibly attentive to our needs. The venue itself is very spacious, with multiple beautiful options for both the ceremony and reception. On the day of our wedding, they made sure I had everything I needed and went above and beyond to ensure we got everything we wanted. The Southern Dream team truly has the best ideas that we never would have thought of on our own - they helped make our special day absolutely perfect!
Kyra L., 7 months ago
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Villa Mirabela 

5.0

Fayetteville, NC
  • Up to 175 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $8,000

Villa Mirabela is a boutique wedding and event venue equipped to accommodate your special occasion for up to 175 guests. Nestled on 7 acres of picturesque landscape, this European-inspired venue will captivate and delight. We take your vision and curate a timeless experience that brings the most value for your special occasion. The Villa Mirabela team is prepared to make it memorable and stress-free. Your only priority should be celebrating with loved ones.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Natural elegance with open spaces
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
Awarded Best of Zola
I have had the pleasure of knowing Mirabela as our photographer for years, so when my husband and I wanted to renew our vows, I know we would be in good hands. Mirabela has recently taken over the most beautiful venue. The minute we drove back through the winding drive it was like we had been transported to another country! The setting was intimate and gorgeous. Mirabela was able to work with us to create a ceremony that fit our dream and our budget. Whether you are looking for a small ceremony or an all-inclusive package, I would highly recommend Mirabela and Villa Mirabela!
Nicole R., 10 months ago
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Donovan Manor 

5.0

Fuquay-Varina, NC
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $4,000

Nestled on 15 breathtaking acres just 10 miles from downtown Raleigh, Donovan Manor is a premier wedding and event venue where timeless elegance meets modern sophistication. Our estate features a stunning Grand Ballroom, beautifully manicured gardens, and thoughtfully designed wedding suites, creating the perfect setting for any celebrations. With both indoor and outdoor event spaces, luxury amenities, and exclusive catering, Donovan Manor offers a seamless experience tailored to your vision. Whether you’re planning an intimate gathering or a grand affair, our dedicated team ensures every detail is flawlessly executed, so you can celebrate with ease and joy.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Has a luxe vibe

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • No free parking
  • Does not have a dance floor
Donovan Manor is a stunning backdrop. There’s so much variety in photos to capture any celebration!
Letty, 3 months ago
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The Parlour At Manns Chapel 

5.0

Chapel Hill, NC
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

With a reimagined chapel, Euro-inspired courtyard, and beautifully landscaped grounds, this dream setting capacity is 100 guests or less. The thoughtful guest list allows you to focus on a highly put-together experience, filling your day with personal touches that leave you and your guests feeling valued and inspired. If this sounds like the perfect way to begin your new life together, we are so glad you're here. The Parlour is the only venue created for the refined, intimate event experience. If you don't believe in obligatory invites, and you value knowing everyone at the table- we're with you. If you prefer styled, more creative details over an "audience," then celebrate small with us at The Parlour, where "small" means well-curated, discerning, and the mark of meaningfulness.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Feels like a getaway
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Does not provide event staff
  • Does not allow pets
Awarded Best of Zola
The Parlour At Manns Chapel was the perfect venue for our wedding day. From the very beginning, their communication was friendly, fast and efficient - they made the planning process so easy. The venue itself has a charming, cozy garden feel that didn't require a lot of additional decor to make it special. We loved the intimate, welcoming atmosphere and the fact that they had all the vendors we needed as recommendations to make our day seamless. They made our wedding day perfect!
Samuel K., a month ago
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The Upchurch 

5.0

Cary, NC
  • Up to 225 guests
  • Select services
  • Starts at $5,500

Combining historic charm with modern amenities, The Upchurch offers a versatile space for weddings. The venue features elegant interiors and beautiful outdoor spaces, providing a sophisticated backdrop for any celebration. Personalized service ensures a unique and unforgettable wedding.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • No in-house catering options
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
Where to begin! The Upchurch is hands down the best venue to have your wedding at! Our wedding was back in September 2024 and I still can't get over how seamless the day went. This was the perfect space for a wedding where our guests were able to easily flow through the venue from start to finish. This venue is so versatile which really let’s you have full range of planning your day and how it looks. The details this venue and staff offers really pulled the day together and you can tell how thought out everything was. Cara and her staff took the BEST care of us and were so helpful throughout the planning process. Not only that but they are so friendly and inviting! Hannah is amazing!! She was so patient going through our questions and she was so thoughtful making us feel remembered and top priority the entire time! Cara is so connected in the industry, so we received a lot of our vendors through her recommendations and I’m so glad we trusted her because everyone was top quality and our perfect fit! The Upchurch goes above and beyond to make you and your day feel so special down to every detail! We received so many compliments from our guests and we couldn’t be happier with how our wedding went.
Jenna S., 6 months ago
Byrnes Mill Place 
Fayetteville, NC
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $750

In the year of 1762, Mr. Newberry and Mr. Thames purchased the land from Mr. Gray. In the deed, there was mention of a sawmill and grist mill on the place, but no mention of a house. In 1833 Mr. Byrne purchased the land from Mr. Newberry. At this time the house and store were on the land. Later on Mr. Byrne sold the land, and it change hands several times..." The house served as a mill home, store, and the Gray's Creek post office for many years.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Unique barn setting
  • Exudes old-world charm

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Requires outside catering services
  • No built-in audiovisual options
Westwood Lodge 
Wadesboro, NC
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $5,000

The world melts away as you drive up our long, gated entrance to the Westwood compound. Sitting on top of a lofty ridge, with unparalleled views, you'll find yourself immediately miles away from the hustle and bustle. Relax, partake, drink in our sumptuous offerings of earth, water, fire and sky. At Westwood there are 4 distinct wedding locations. The front or back lawn of the lodge provide an intimate and regal setting for your event. The Moongate, which symbolizes everlasting love, nestled between The Lodge and The Grange, accomodating 200. Foxtail Lake has a beautiful view of the sunset and also accomodates 200.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Historic touches
  • Has an intimate atmosphere
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No all-inclusive dining options
Het Landhuis 
Pittsboro, NC
  • Up to 500 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Initially, the 62-acre Het Landhuis Estate was part of a 1,000-acre farm owned by the Henderson family who operated a tanyard in the area, making saddles and other leather items. One day a future bride drove past Het Landhuis; she stopped in the main driveway and asked if she could get married there. That conversation changed the course of the estate, and Het Landhuis had its Grand Opening in 2010. Het Landhuis is not your ordinary location for a wedding; this becomes obvious once you visit the grounds and look at the eight different venues the estate offers. Het Landhuis presents you with a magical setting for your storybook wedding!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Dressing room available
  • Rustic-chic setting

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • No venue-provided food services
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Simply Divine Events & Lodging, LLC 
Dunn, NC
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $4,000

The Simply Divine Wedding Experience. Combining the elegance of a bygone era with timeless charm, modern convenience, and sophistication. If you’re planning your big day, getting all the little details right is so important. You need a great location, plenty of space, access to the right facilities and of course, a price that fits your budget, customized to your particular needs.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Limited cleanup and setup services
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Lavender Oaks Farm 
Chapel Hill, NC
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $12,500

Imagine all your favorite people in the most beautiful setting of 60 private acres located less than 5 miles to downtown Chapel Hill, NC, very close to all the hotels, restaurants, only 30 minutes to RDU Airport, and yes, Uber/Lyft and shuttles come to our farm.  We include all your Wedding Planning, a Day of Coordinator, all your décor, tables, chairs, centerpiece items, graphic design services, and we're here every step of the way to bring your wedding vision to life!  Our Barn is 7,000 sq. ft., rustic, yet refined, and includes an elegant and spacious Dressing Suite, a separate modern Log Cabin for a secondary dressing suite, gourmet kitchen, spacious restrooms, and a 1,000 sq ft loft. Enjoy our 3,000 outdoor patio with our stone fireplace, wrought iron gazebo, all overlooking our 4,000 lavender plants. Our covered outdoor Pavilion Barn is a beautiful setting for your ceremony, cocktail hour, or as a rain plan.  We would love the opportunity to make your wedding day spectacular!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Provides event staff
  • Pets can join the celebration

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • On-site parking not available

Location flexible? Discover venues near Southern Pines, NC

About wedding venues in Southern Pines, NC

North Carolina offers an impressive wedding venue landscape with everything from historic plantations to rustic barns, elegant urban spaces and coastal retreats. You'll find architectural diversity throughout the state; from colonial-era mansions in Charlotte to converted textile mills in the Triangle region. Mountain venues give you breathtaking panoramic views of the Blue Ridge Mountains that your guests won't forget.

What's the Average Cost for North Carolina Wedding Venues?

Wedding venues in North Carolina typically run between $6,400 and $7,800, making up about 16% of your total wedding budget. That's actually quite reasonable compared to the national average of $6,500-$12,000 or 25% of total costs. For a complete North Carolina wedding you can expect these total costs based on your guest count: A small wedding with 50 guests averages $19,707. With 100 guests you're looking at $32,695. For 150 guests the typical cost reaches $44,906. Larger celebrations with 200 guests average $55,823 while 250 guests pushes to $66,740. A large wedding with 300 guests typically costs $77,657.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in North Carolina?

Alexander Homestead in Charlotte offers ADA-accessible parking and restrooms in a beautiful historic setting with a rustic barn and gorgeous gardens. You'll appreciate the inclusivity without sacrificing style. The Mint Museum features various rooms and terraces that can accommodate different needs, making it a solid choice for accessible events with an artistic backdrop. Nantahala Weddings & Events is fully ADA-compliant while giving you stunning mountain views on a secluded estate. They even have nearby lodging options for your guests.

Which North Carolina Venues Support Remote Participation?

The Barn on New River in West Jefferson gives you a picturesque setting with modern amenities that can be customized for interactive remote elements. Your virtual guests won't miss a thing. River Landing near Wilmington features elegant spaces and grand ballrooms that support technical capabilities for streaming and live Q&A sessions. The Maxwell in Raleigh, with its contemporary design and abundant natural light, adapts beautifully to technology integration for virtual wedding experiences that feel intimate even from afar.

How Much Should I Budget for Wedding Services in North Carolina?

ServiceAverage CostPercentage of Total Budget (150 guests)
Venue$7,08916%
Catering$5,67113%
Flowers$5,54612%
Bar Services$4,53710%
Photographers$4,2669%
Planners$4,0249%
Videographers$3,7688%
Bands/DJs$1,3903%
Cakes/Desserts$9602%
Hair & Makeup$6351%

Where Can Foodies Find Outstanding Wedding Cuisine in North Carolina?

The Farm - A Gathering Place in Candler offers amazing farm-to-table dining with customized menus just west of Asheville. You'll love having multiple ceremony sites to choose from and the convenience of on-site lodging for your guests. The Carolina Inn in Chapel Hill is known for classic Southern cuisine with elegant event spaces right on UNC's campus. Their beautiful outdoor courtyards create a magical setting for your special day. Polanco Venue by Chef Carrasco in Asheville specializes in mixed cuisine with excellent service from experienced staff who can help create your perfect culinary experience.

When Should I Book My North Carolina Wedding Venue?

September is North Carolina's most popular inquiry month for weddings, so you'll need to book earlier if you're planning a fall celebration. Don't wait too long or your dream venue might be taken. Focus your venue tours on spaces that specifically accommodate your guest count to save time and avoid falling in love with locations that won't work for your party size. This targeted approach helps you find the perfect match faster.

North Carolina offers an impressive wedding venue landscape with everything from historic plantations to rustic barns, elegant urban spaces and coastal retreats. You'll find architectural diversity throughout the state; from colonial-era mansions in Charlotte to converted textile mills in the Triangle region. Mountain venues give you breathtaking panoramic views of the Blue Ridge Mountains that your guests won't forget.

What's the Average Cost for North Carolina Wedding Venues?

Wedding venues in North Carolina typically run between $6,400 and $7,800, making up about 16% of your total wedding budget. That's actually quite reasonable compared to the national average of $6,500-$12,000 or 25% of total costs. For a complete North Carolina wedding you can expect these total costs based on your guest count: A small wedding with 50 guests averages $19,707. With 100 guests you're looking at $32,695. For 150 guests the typical cost reaches $44,906. Larger celebrations with 200 guests average $55,823 while 250 guests pushes to $66,740. A large wedding with 300 guests typically costs $77,657.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in North Carolina?

Alexander Homestead in Charlotte offers ADA-accessible parking and restrooms in a beautiful historic setting with a rustic barn and gorgeous gardens. You'll appreciate the inclusivity without sacrificing style. The Mint Museum features various rooms and terraces that can accommodate different needs, making it a solid choice for accessible events with an artistic backdrop. Nantahala Weddings & Events is fully ADA-compliant while giving you stunning mountain views on a secluded estate. They even have nearby lodging options for your guests.

Which North Carolina Venues Support Remote Participation?

The Barn on New River in West Jefferson gives you a picturesque setting with modern amenities that can be customized for interactive remote elements. Your virtual guests won't miss a thing. River Landing near Wilmington features elegant spaces and grand ballrooms that support technical capabilities for streaming and live Q&A sessions. The Maxwell in Raleigh, with its contemporary design and abundant natural light, adapts beautifully to technology integration for virtual wedding experiences that feel intimate even from afar.

How Much Should I Budget for Wedding Services in North Carolina?

ServiceAverage CostPercentage of Total Budget (150 guests)
Venue$7,08916%
Catering$5,67113%
Flowers$5,54612%
Bar Services$4,53710%
Photographers$4,2669%
Planners$4,0249%
Videographers$3,7688%
Bands/DJs$1,3903%
Cakes/Desserts$9602%
Hair & Makeup$6351%

Where Can Foodies Find Outstanding Wedding Cuisine in North Carolina?

The Farm - A Gathering Place in Candler offers amazing farm-to-table dining with customized menus just west of Asheville. You'll love having multiple ceremony sites to choose from and the convenience of on-site lodging for your guests. The Carolina Inn in Chapel Hill is known for classic Southern cuisine with elegant event spaces right on UNC's campus. Their beautiful outdoor courtyards create a magical setting for your special day. Polanco Venue by Chef Carrasco in Asheville specializes in mixed cuisine with excellent service from experienced staff who can help create your perfect culinary experience.

When Should I Book My North Carolina Wedding Venue?

September is North Carolina's most popular inquiry month for weddings, so you'll need to book earlier if you're planning a fall celebration. Don't wait too long or your dream venue might be taken. Focus your venue tours on spaces that specifically accommodate your guest count to save time and avoid falling in love with locations that won't work for your party size. This targeted approach helps you find the perfect match faster.

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