The Best Retreat Wedding Venues in Pawling, NY

The Best Retreat Wedding Venues in Pawling, NY

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23 Wedding Venues in Pawling, NY

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Blenheim Hill Farm 

5.0

  • Up to 225 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $30,000

Blenheim Hill Farm is a heavenly wedding destination in the Catskills Mountains. Our capacity is from 100-225 guests. We grow the food and cook it for you in ​our ​own kitchen. You don't have to worry about outside catering, rentals, or even a planner. Our in-house team—at the farm and at our NYC restaurant—help you every step of the way, and everything is included. Our historic farmhouses ​ ​are gorgeously appointed sanctuaries for you and your family, sleeping up to 40 guests. With over 15 years in farm-to-table dining and destination weddings, we are committed to hosting your best-day-ever with extraordinary attention to detail, making it a very personal experience. Please read our couples reviews.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Classic, vintage atmosphere
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Unique barn setting

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • No free parking
Awarded Best of Zola
Our wedding at Blenheim Hill was nothing short of amazing. From the moment we went on our first venue tour to wedding weekend, the staff of Blenheim Hill was communicative, professional and organized. The roadmap they use is a great resource that helps keep you organized through the wedding planning process. We loved having a full weekend at the farm. The service, hospitality, food and drinks were amazing. We dealt with a rainy wedding day and the staff worked with us to ensure a perfect ceremony and reception. We could not have asked for more!
Meaghen D., a year ago
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Ryan Family Farm 

5.0

Lagrangeville, NY
  • Up to 165 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $300

The restored dairy barn built in 1828 on a 100 acre, family ran, historic venue with modern-day amenities is nestled in the Hudson Valley, NY. It can host up to 150 guests comfortably inside the barn, with additional space on the deck for cocktail hour and an adjacent lawn area for your ceremony. There is also an additional lounge seating area if some of your guests would like to relax with a bit of quiet time. Antique chandeliers accent the hardwood floors, walls and beams providing the rustic character that compliments the temperature controlled AC and heat to enable us to provide year-round events. In addition to the barn, deck, and ceremony space, the onsite 4 bedroom (7 queen beds) restored farmhouse is included in the venue for the weekend. A Friday check in enables you to prepare yourself for the big day and set up the space in the barn with any decor. The house is yours for the entire weekend for up to 8 guests. It works perfectly as a bridal suite for everyone to get ready.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Dressing room available
  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • No venue-provided food services
  • Does not allow pets
Ryan Family Farm was an absolute pleasure to work with for our event. They were incredibly easy to communicate with, always providing thorough and timely responses to our questions. The venue itself is a beautiful, rustic barn that provided the perfect backdrop for our special day. They were highly accommodating, ensuring our event ran smoothly from start to finish. We would highly recommend Ryan Family Farm to any couple or person looking for a memorable wedding or event at a venue with a team that is easy to work with.
Lynne, 8 months ago
The Abbey Inn & Spa 

4.8

Peekskill, NY
  • Up to 130 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $25,000

With its views over the Hudson River Highlands, Fort Hill was a key lookout post for George Washington and his army during the Revolutionary War; in 1902, it became home to a convent and chapel, established by the Episcopal Sisters of Saint Mary. The abbey and its chapel have been converted into The Abbey Inn & Spa – a luxury hotel with 42 rooms and suites, a Michelin recommended farm-to-table restaurant, a luxurious spa, an outdoor pool, and over 65 acres to explore. The chapel offers a unique venue for important occasions, and a peaceful English garden provides s gorgeous background for photos. Lovingly restored and meticulously designed, our hotel pays homage to its historic heritage while offering contemporary amenities and world-class service to each and every guest. All of us at The Abbey Inn and Spa are thrilled to be part of this exciting transformation, and we’re eager to share it with you.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a chic vibe
  • Provides event staff
  • Combines timeless elegance with history

Venue considerations

  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
We recently got married in Peekskill and stayed at the Abbey and had our rehearsal dinner, welcome drinks, and morning after brunch there. The building and the grounds are beautiful. The food was very good and they were able to accommodate our dietary restrictions and guests needs. The rooms were nice, spacious, and very clean. Everyone had positive things to say about the events held at the space. There are two things that bring down this review. The first is that the event/sales staff is very hard to get in touch with. We left countless voicemails and sent many emails that all went unanswered. The turnover of the staff was quite high, and we never knew who we were going to be speaking with. The second major issue was that there is only one elevator and no freight elevator. The morning of our wedding the elevator was out of service. There are only 2 stories to the hotel so that is not the issue, but the wheelchair accessible room, which a guest of ours who is in a wheelchair was given, was on the second floor. Thankfully the elevator was fixed and he was able to make it to our wedding, but in the event of an emergency, we don’t know what would have happened.
Samantha Y., a month ago
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Kismet House 

5.0

Clintondale, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

Nestled in the heart of the Hudson Valley, Kismet House was brought to life as the perfect venue for your dream wedding and next event. With housing for 24 onsite it's an amazing local destination wedding weekend. The Kismet property spans 62 acres, anchored around our centerpiece, an original classic Red Barn. Surrounded by acres of apple orchards, a secretly nestled pond amidst the trees, meandering walking trails. — Kismet House is a memorable and escape close enough to find a wooded paradise less than two hours from New York City.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • On-site parking not available
Awarded Best of Zola
Kismet House was the perfect venue for our wedding. From the moment we booked the space, the owners were incredibly helpful and efficient in their communication, answering all of our questions promptly. Their suggestions for the setup and use of the space were amazing and really helped make our day less stressful. The quality of their work and the overall value was worth every cent - the barn, pond, and every corner of the property provided a dreamlike backdrop that all of our guests raved about. From the ceremony to the sunset and evening by the fireplace, it was magical. I cannot recommend Kismet House enough to any couple looking for a perfect wedding venue.
Alex R., 7 months ago
Inn at Mount Pleasant 

5.0

Torrington, CT
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,200

Welcome to the Inn at Mount Pleasant! We have a barn for a rustic wedding, an inn for 10 guests, and beautiful New England views. We offer numerous scenic ceremony locations, a firepit, bistro lighting and chandeliers, farm tables, and much more!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • Does not provide event staff
  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
Nestled in the Torrington valley, this unique venue is one of our favorites. This careful maintained and expertly run facility offers the best of indoor venues with the great outdoors all in one location. Always a pleasure working with the owners and the event planning team of EngagedCT. Well organized and extremely professional.
[email protected], 4 years ago

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Diamond Mills Resort & Blackbarn 

4.9

Saugerties, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $175

Located just south of the Catskill Mountains where the Esopus Creek meets the Hudson River and 100 miles North of NYC, Diamond Mills in beautiful Saugerties NY is one of the most flexible, modern and beautiful facilities in all of the Hudson Valley. Whether you’re looking to host an elegant wedding reception in our traditional Grand Ballroom, or have cozy gathering in mind, Diamond Mills has the innate ability to tailor our venues to your unique style. With 30 boutique hotel rooms and a full-service restaurant on-site, we are the perfect destination to celebrate all weekend long in Upstate, New York. Our Event Professionals understand and truly appreciate the importance of your event and work with you each step of the way throughout your planning process. From start to finish, we customize and coordinate each little detail to ensure you the best day ever on your wedding day!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Classic seating dinner
  • Dressing room available
  • Caters to out-of-town guests

Venue considerations

  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Awarded Best of Zola
We had the most amazing time at Diamond Mills Hotel! The venue is BEAUTIFUL, and the staff is wonderful to work with. My husband and I also loved exploring Saugerties! Planning a wedding in two months was challenging, but booking Diamond Mills for our wedding venue was the best decision ever! We loved working with Stephanie, Carrie, and Brianne. They are highly organized and professional. Our wedding day was truly magical! Our guests had a wonderful time! We also really appreciate how the staff working on the day of our wedding ensured that my husband and I ate well (and remembered to eat as we interacted with our guests). The food served was delicious and we loved our wedding cake! Another great thing about booking the wedding at Diamond Mills is that the hotel is attached to the wedding venue - it was very convenient for us and our guests! We received a good discount for our hotel block. The wedding package they offer at Diamond Mills Hotel is truly well-rounded! Beautiful venue with indoor and outdoor spaces, catering, open bar, wedding cake, and supportive and amazing staff to help you plan your wedding and ensure that everything runs smoothly during the day of the wedding all for a reasonable price! I used some rental decorations, and the staff made sure to carefully pack everything at the end of the night, so shipping and packing up the following day was easy! We highly recommend Diamond Mills!
Marichelle P., a year ago
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A Private Estate Events LLc 

5.0

Germantown, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $12,000
  • Offer

✨ Planning Your Perfect Event? We've Got You! ✨ Looking for a seamless, no-stress vibe for your ceremony? We’re all about making it easy—ceremonies are on the house! 🎉 Keep the party going with music until 11 pm (yep, gotta respect those town rules) and wrap up your event on time, but don’t worry—we’ve got after-party options in Hudson or Rhinebeck! 🌃 Bars stay open ‘til 3 am, and food’s served ‘til 1 am, so you can keep the energy high. 🍕🍸 Bonus: Get rehearsal time the day before AND clean-up time the morning after. More time to make it perfect, less stress on the big day. ✨ We don’t do catering, but no sweat—we’ve got a lineup of awesome vendors we recommend. Plus, we require a wedding coordinator (because organization = peace of mind) and wedding insurance to keep things covered. ✅ Let’s make your event one for the books! 📖

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Rustic yet refined style
  • Pets can join the celebration

Venue considerations

  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No in-house catering options
Awarded Best of Zola
We were so lucky to celebrate our wedding at A Private Estate, and it truly exceeded all of our expectations. When we were searching for a venue, we visited A Private Estate in the depth of winter during a snowstorm, but even then, we immediately knew it was the perfect place for us. Ripley, the owner, was friendly and direct, and it was clear she genuinely cared about making sure people had an amazing experience. The property was beautifully maintained, and the convenience of having the Carriage House accommodation along with the barn for the reception made it a much better value than most other venues we considered. We chose to have our ceremony outside, overlooking the Hudson River, which created a breathtaking and peaceful setting for our vows. The manor house made for a stunning backdrop for our family photos, adding a touch of elegance to the day. We held our reception in the barn, which we highly recommend to other couples. The rustic charm of the space, combined with the elegance of the estate, created the perfect atmosphere for our celebration. Our mid-August wedding was made even more memorable by the beauty and ambiance of the setting. The property manager, Jack, went above and beyond to ensure our day was perfect. Not only did he assist us with practical matters, like putting up blinds in the Carriage House to help our family members' kids sleep, but he also saved the day when a special bottle of wine we had intended to keep was accidentally thrown out by the caterers. Jack took it upon himself to dig it up and return it to us—an act of kindness we won’t forget. We are incredibly grateful for the hospitality and attention to detail from both Jack and Ripley. If you're looking for a venue that combines beauty with exceptional service, we wholeheartedly recommend A Private Estate.
Eliot J., a year ago
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The Mod House 

5.0

Ellenville, NY
  • Up to 125 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $1,800

As seen on HGTV's Frozen in Design, The Mod House is a wedding venue located 90 minutes from Manhattan in Ellenville, New York. Celebrate your big day at a luxurious midcentury modern retreat in the Catskill Mountains with a secret speakeasy inside it. The 4200-square-foot Mod House is an architectural gem built in 1959 by a follower of the renowned architect Frank Lloyd Wright. The open-plan layout and floor-to-ceiling windows connect the spacious interior to the natural world outside. You can tie the knot on the lawn with a lush forested backdrop. After the ceremony, revel with your guests in Love, Velma, an underground speakeasy and dance club within the venue. The speakeasy comes fully equipped with a bar, projector, stage, and lights. Love, Velma is wheelchair accessible and can host up to 100 guests, with parking available for up to 40 cars. Four bedrooms are available if you prefer to stay on-site on the wedding night. A large open kitchen can accommodate caterers.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a fun and festive vibe
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Offers convenient lodging options

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Not wheelchair accessible
The Mod House was the perfect venue for our wedding celebration. From our first interaction, the staff was polite, caring, and highly professional. They worked tirelessly to ensure every detail was attended to, creating a truly inviting and welcoming atmosphere. The midcentury decor and natural surroundings provided a retro yet warm backdrop, perfectly framing our special day. We couldn't have asked for a better venue to host our wedding, and we're so grateful to the team at The Mod House for helping to make it an unforgettable experience.
Jakub A., 4 days ago
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The Prospect 

5.0

Egremont, MA
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $50,000

Transform your special occasions into unforgettable experiences against the backdrop of pristine lake views and mountain vistas. From intimate weddings to large gatherings, our collection of distinctive venues accommodates 40 to 200 guests. Say your vows in a place where promises have been made for over a century — one built on reverence for nature, the beauty of gathering, and the sacred duty of hosting those you love.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Flexible event spaces
  • Allows pets
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • No free parking
  • Not wheelchair accessible
We're over the moon to work at this new property. PROSPECT offers a complete experience that beautifully blends the magic of nature with the warmth and comfort of exceptional hospitality. The vision is for your guests to gather together and enjoy beautifully appointed cabins with stunning views of Lake Prospect. The campus invites exploration, beginning at THE CLIFF HOUSE, which features a premium coffee program and a seasonal farm breakfast. Guests can take advantage of the saltwater pools for swimming, enjoy paddleboarding in the afternoon, or relax under the shade of the pines. Various locations on the property are available for events, including a casual poolside party, a cliffside aperitivo hour, and a candlelit family-style dinner, a cookout overlooking the lake, or a larger gathering in a tented affair under the stars. To conclude the weekend, guests can indulge in a departing brunch or opt to stay an extra day to unwind and relax. Planning and envisioning the guest experience at PROSPECT is effortless; it truly is a stunning destination!
Nancy T., 4 months ago
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Powder Ridge Mountain Park and Resort 

5.0

Middlefield, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Powder Ridge has plenty of indoor/outdoor space for your wedding. Our unique venue offers you the opportunity to have your ceremony at the Top of a Mountain. All your guests can travel to the top on our Ski Lift to get to the beautiful views of the property. If the Base of the Mountain is preferred, you may select to be next to our pond or by the outdoor fireplace. For your reception, our Rustic Lodge including two stone fireplaces, barn door along with bistro lighting is able to accommodate up to 180 people for dinner and dancing. New to the property, is our outdoor Pavilion, located next to the pond that can accommodate up to 200 people. Add on some firepits and lawn games for a fun and relaxing event. Choose our wedding package or customize your own to fit your need.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Has onsite accommodations

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
Powder Ridge Mountain Park and Resort was an absolute dream venue for our wedding! From the moment we first reached out, Marla and the team were excellent communicators, always staying on top of every detail and being incredibly flexible as we planned our special day. The space was transformed from a restaurant and ski lodge into a lovely ceremony space and magical reception area. The decor outside our wedding space was decked out for Christmas, which went perfectly with our rustic winter theme and made our photographs look fantastic. Marla and Powder Ridge accommodated our every need and assembled our vision without a flaw. Not to mention, the food was absolutely delicious! We couldn't have asked for a better venue or team to bring our wedding to life.
Julia L., 5 months ago
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Merced Manor 

5.0

Ringwood, NJ
  • Up to 70 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $2,500

Merced Manor is a unique, rustic-style all-inclusive venue located in the beautiful spaces of Ringwood, New Jersey. Built in 1899 this special property offers a natural and stunning vintage vibe, with calming aesthetics that will make anyone feel like they are right at home. With beautiful landscapes in all seasons, this acre of land is the perfect arena to host an intimate affair of up to 40 guests or outdoor event of 100 and an overnight stay for up to 10 guests. Together with our warm and welcoming atmosphere, we are the perfect setting for weddings and special events. We know what it feels like to already have the perfect day in mind. But when it comes to execution, that’s usually where expectations get lost under the mountains of to-dos and possibilities. While it can be hard to picture the finished product of a whole event, the true work begins with just one location. At Merced Manor, we bring your ideas to life with seamless service from beginning to end.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic yet refined style
  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Dance floor not included
The Merced Manor is such a refreshing venue in New Jersey ! It's got a clean/chic feel yet also quaint and with a lot of soft rustic character! It's a perfect spot for intimate weddings and a wide range of events! I loved that you can have spaces inside but also there was a large space for tents/activities outside as well. Farida was so so lovely and easy to communicate with.
Dawnpoint Studios, 2 years ago
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The Mansion At Glen Cove 

4.0

Glen Cove, NY
  • Up to 225 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $17,000

Marry Me At The Mansion From the moment you turn onto the winding driveway of this glorious Gold Coast landmark Georgian estate, it becomes easy to envision exchanging your vows and celebrating your wedding day here, at The Mansion. Nestled on 55 sprawling acres of landscaped grounds, magnificent surroundings, both inside and out, the possibilities are as limitless as your imagination…and our experienced wedding professionals are unsurpassed in their ability to ensure that your vision becomes a reality. Grand or intimate, formal or casually elegant, your wedding and the preparation leading up to it should be easy and carefree, allowing you, your family and friends to celebrate this most memorable milestone of your life. We vow to make that happen. Experience the New Era in Gold Coast Luxury.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Bridal suite on site
  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • No free parking
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Overall, we are happy with our wedding day. The Mansion is in the process of being renovated/restored and so far it is looking beautiful! The hotel rooms were recently updated and guests were happy with them. The food was also FANTASTIC! (All of our guests were raving about all of the food). They clearly are a well oiled machine when it comes to throwing weddings. We also had our welcome dinner there the night before, which went amazingly and there was so much food everyone was happy! However, there were a few hiccups that bothered us considering how much money is put into having a wedding & how this venue does weddings all.the.time. so expectations are high. In the planning process, the event coordinator position was replaced 3 times in the year we were planning our wedding with them, the last replacement being the week before our wedding. The final replacement did not have any of our vendor info or cake selections and called me 4 days before my wedding about it (...scary). It must've been a miscommunication from the coordinator prior to her, as that girl never responded to any of our emails; I'm sure she did not keep any notes. The current coordinator also could not answer simple questions our friends/family asked her and was very pushy. On our wedding day, I was paired with a Maitre D who was very sweet, but I'm not sure about her "years" of experience that she claimed to have. While taking photos with our photographer she wasn't paying attention and wasn't fixing my dress/veil every time wind blew it out of place so the photographer had to leave his place each time to fix it himself (it was a windy day so this happened a lot). The photographer also asked her to assist in a "veil toss" shot and she ripped the veil from my head, yanking my head back, when she was just supposed to toss it up in the air. It hurt and pulled on my hair style that was supposed to last all night. I mentioned before the food was excellent, and the Chef is incredible. However, when we booked our venue last year, we were adamant about wanting a real wedding cake--not a fake one you cut one slice into for pictures. We were told by one of the event planners there that all tiers were going to be real cake, but during our cake cutting, we cut into styrofoam...it was disappointing. The cake they served was delicious, but we thought we were paying for a real cake because we were told it would be 100% real. We probably would not have booked this venue had we known we'd get a fake cake; it was something my dad made sure to ask at every venue we checked out, it was important to him. Additionally, some rude comments were overheard by our guests made by various staff members about our wedding. As a business owner whose business is to also provide a service, that is absolutely unacceptable, especially while on the job where people can hear you. Jazmin, the Chef, and the front desk ladies were very pleasant and professional to work with, but no one else there seemed to know what they were doing. It ended up working out but again, with how many weddings this place throws, you'd expect a better level of professionalism.
Siena B., 22 days ago
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Vanderbilt Lakeside Bar Room & Guesthouse 

5.0

Hudson, NY
  • Up to 130 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,000

Vanderbilt Lakeside offers thoughtfully curated stays and events in a welcoming gathering space, with custom in-house food and bar packages. Charming, versatile, and ideal for group getaways, retreats, and celebrations of all sizes—from intimate dinner parties, to large scale gatherings and bespoke weddings. ​ The space itself is a newly redesigned, large (6000 SF) house. It was originally built in the 1800s. The outdoor areas can also be incorporated for your event--our deck and yard are completely open-air; you would be welcome to work with a third-party rental company to have a tent set up, if of interest. Including the outdoor areas, we have the following approximate Capacity for Events: *Seated Dinner with a Ceremony: 100 guests *Seated Dinner without a Ceremony (or with a ceremony that has fewer guests in attendance): 130 *Cocktail Party with or without a Ceremony: up to 150 guests

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • No on-site bridal suite
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Awarded Best of Zola
We held our wedding at Vanderbilt Lakeside and cannot recommend it enough. Our whole wedding party was able to stay at the Guesthouse with us, which was so special. The rooms are cozy and have everything you might need for a short stay. The grounds are lovely and feel so private and tucked away even though the venue is in downtown Philmont. The event staff are fantastic--Henrietta helped make our vision come to life and was so responsive throughout the wedding planning process, Matt's food was incredible, and all of the staff were so lovely and helpful throughout. It was a dream, and we would recommend it to anyone and everyone! We're already dreaming of hosting another event there one day.
Caitlin S., 2 months ago
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Bear Mountain Inn 
Bear Mountain, NY
  • Up to 240 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor

Nestled at the base of Bear Mountain along the Appalachian Trail, the historic Bear Mountain Inn, Merry Go Round and Overlook Lodge venues are the idyllic destination getaways for the adventurer, the romantic, and for those looking to celebrate a memorable wedding. Whether you’re looking to host an unforgettable wedding, unique corporate event, or warm family reunion, the rustic natural backdrop of our venues will exceed your expectations. Just a 45-minute drive from New York City, our versatile venues can accommodate events from intimate to grand.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Rustic yet refined style

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No on-site bridal suite
  • No built-in audiovisual options
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Minnewaska Lodge 
Gardiner, NY
  • Up to 70 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $30,000

You've dreamed of this special day for a long time, and the experienced staff at the Minnewaska Lodge will ensure your wedding is a day to remember. Allow us the honor of planning your ceremony or reception under the majestic Shawangunk Cliffs, with surrounding serene vistas and the astounding beauty of one of the most intimate upstate NY wedding venues. We look forward to making your wedding dreams come true at the Minnewaska Lodge.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Offers full flexibility in setup and decor
  • Has a sophisticated vibe

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Does not allow pets
  • Additional event staff required
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Pinstripes Norwalk 
Norwalk, CT
  • Up to 1200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Are you looking for a private event venue to host your next corporate event, wedding reception, Holiday party, or birthday party? Pinstripes provides the perfect event space to meet whatever your party or group event needs! We offer a variety of flexible room sizes, awesome menu options, and fun group activities including bowling and bocce ball. Our Norwalk, Connecticut location offers a unique variety of entertainment and events every day of the week. Enjoy our made-from-scratch Italian-American cuisine during Sunday Brunch with the family, happy hour after work, or a night of bowling and bocce.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Feels like a getaway

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Does not allow pets
Race Brook Lodge 
Sheffield, MA
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Welcome to Race Brook Lodge, gateway to the Berkshires! Nestled at the foot of Mount Race in Sheffield MA, Race Brook Lodge welcomes you to a place of peaceful respite and outstanding hospitality in alignment with local sustainability and inner harmony right here in the Berkshires. When you step outside your room, you’ll be greeted with breathtaking hiking trails that will lead you to the must-see views from the top of Race Brook Falls. We host couples seeking a tranquil, romantic Berkshires getaway for anniversaries, weddings, or just because. We also host wellness and yoga retreats, corporate events, and family gatherings. Regardless of your needs, we are here to provide you with an unforgettable, easeful experience that will leave you feeling rejuvenated, refreshed, and more connected to yourself, nature, and any new friends you made along the way.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Allows pets
  • Handles all cleanup logistics

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Honor's Haven Retreat & Conference 
Ellenville, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Nestled at the foothills of the Shawangunk Mountain Range and just 90-minutes from NYC and Albany, Honors Haven offers a breathtaking backdrop for your special celebration. Complete with 232 guest room accommodations and spa amenities as well as the Zephyr Lounge for possible after-parties, Honors Haven is so much more than a reception site. It’s a destination! Honor's Haven can accommodate large and small events and special celebrations, indoor and/or outside, and at any time of the year. Our island ceremony site provides seating for up to 400 guests in lush greenery and vibrant blossoms, and the Lakeside Tent can welcome up to 200 guests for a banquet. The special open-air settings with views of lake and mountains makes your event a truly life-time experience. The extraordinary event venues like the Beautiful Wedding Island and Lakeside Tent combined with exceptional hospitality services will make memories that last a lifetime.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Feels like a getaway

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Does not allow pets
Sleep Inn & Suites Middletown - Goshen 
Middletown, NY
  • Up to 2500 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $175

Dream better at The Sleep Inn & Suites hotel in Middletown, NY. We are near the Galleria at Crystal Run mall and are a simple stylish sanctuary that’s designed for a happy night’s rest. Our location off Interstate 84 makes it easy to enjoy hot air balloon rides, outdoor activities in the Poconos in Pennsylvania and attractions like: Hudson River, Holiday Mountain Ski Area and Monticello Raceway. You’ll find current, stylish design elements inspired by nature to refresh and relax around every corner at our affordable Middletown hotel. Our reasonable amenities simply complete your stay and include: Free breakfast ,Free WiFi, use of our indoor pool, fitness center, and business center. All of our guest rooms help you rest and unwind and include microwaves and refrigerators! Dream better at the Sleep Inn & Suites. Middletown hotels like ours are just as restful as home, but better–so that you leave with a smile on your face and a spring in your step.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • No in-house catering options
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Does not allow pets
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Onteora Mountain House 
Boiceville, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $22,000
  • Offer

The Onteora Mountain House is a picturesque venue nestled in the heart of the Catskill Mountains, offering a perfect blend of natural beauty and rustic elegance. Surrounded by breathtaking views of the mountains, the property creates an idyllic setting for your special day. It boasts spacious indoor and outdoor areas, including beautifully landscaped gardens, a sprawling bluestone terrace, and a grand pavilion with large windows with panoramic views. The cozy, inviting accommodations offer guests a warm and welcoming experience. Onteora is the perfect getaway for your wedding. It's tranquil environment ensures that each event is an unforgettable experience, set against one of the most beautiful backdrops in the Northeast.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Combines timeless elegance with history
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • On-site parking not available
  • Does not allow pets
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The Kaaterskill Inn 
Catskill, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $2,800

The petite Pond House offers a setting for cocktail hours or after parties. Wherever you decide to host your celebration on the grounds, you will surely be followed by the area's beauty and enjoy a unique celebration experience. Services Offered As you host your wedding at The Kaaterskill, you can avail of the many services and amenities available to you. From a get-ready suite for your pre-ceremony preparations to essential event rentals to decorate your space, the venue can provide it. The in-house coordinator will also work closely with you to understand your ideas and needs to ensure a seamless planning process. Besides weddings, the property can throw engagement parties, rehearsal dinners, and birthdays. Outside vendors can also work on the premises to ensure everything is tailored to your vision. Moreover, once your festivities have concluded, you and a few important guests can stay overnight in the comfortable on-site accommodations.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic yet refined style
  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Raw space for complete customization

Venue considerations

  • No all-inclusive dining options
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Not wheelchair accessible

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Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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