The Best Retreat Wedding Venues in South Butler, NY

The Best Retreat Wedding Venues in South Butler, NY

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7 Wedding Venues in South Butler, NY

Lodges, retreats
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Inns of Aurora Resort & Spa 

5.0

  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Offer

Imagine a collection of historic inns, restored to luxury, with beautiful balconies and porches overlooking pristine Cayuga Lake. Picture sweeping lawns that roll down to the water’s edge, where the sun sets each night in a riot of golden hues. Add exquisite artwork, from-scratch meals, and all of the on-site assistance you never knew you needed. Visit and see why we’ve been hailed by BRIDES as the “perfect place for a weekend wedding” and by Country Living as “America’s best-kept secret.”

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Has onsite accommodations

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
Awarded Best of Zola
My husband and I got married at Inns of Aurora in June and I cannot say enough great things about the property, the staff, our contacts Lindsey and Kim, the food, and every piece of the weekend. We knew we wanted to get married in the Finger Lakes and looked at a few venues, but nothing compared to Inns. We loved the intimate nature of the property, the wedding and reception spaces, the accommodations, the convenience of Fargo across the street for the after party, and the relaxed yet elevated vibe. Lindsey and Kim were incredible to work with - we felt both understood what we were looking for and wanted to do and were a joy to work with. During the wedding weekend, Kim was absolutely amazing - anticipating our every need, offering to take our dog out during our wedding if needed, and checking in on me throughout the welcome party and reception to see if I needed anything (often already prepared with my drink of choice in hand in case I needed a refill). The food was incredible - our guests all remarked about the food and service the entire weekend. Our guests loved spending the weekend in Aurora - walking to the Village Market to grab a coffee in the morning, enjoying the spa, wineries and breweries, just enjoying time with friends on the gorgeous properties, having lunch at Fargo, etc. Overall this is a phenomenal property and venue - they deliver an exceptional level of service and I can't recommend it enough. Two vendors to call out - Metropolitan Players was the wedding band of our dreams and Laura of Laura Rose Photography was truly the best (a pleasure to work with, incredible energy on the day of, and stunning photos). We look forward to coming back to Inns for many years to come!
Kathryn P., 8 months ago
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Bristol Mountain 

4.0

Canandaigua, NY
  • Up to 400 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $8,000

The scenic Bristol Mountain estate spans over 200 acres with a 1200' vertical summit for stunning views, private celebrations, and unparalleled experience. With multiple outdoor ceremony locations and two indoor reception locations, couples can choose the space that speaks to their vision.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • On-site parking not available
  • Does not allow pets
I loved every bit of my wedding but things were kind of strict and left me restricted.
Angeleen L., 3 years ago
Dutch Harvest Farm 

5.0

Lansing, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Dutch Harvest Farm sits on 50 picturesque acres along the east side of the Cayuga Lake Wine Trail (Route 34B) in Lansing, NY. The Farm is bordered by tall mature trees that create a wooded-wonderland but not to be out done by the cascading falls running the length of the property into Cayuga Lake. We are conveniently located only 15 minutes from downtown Ithaca, the Ithaca Tompkins Regional Airport (ITH) and an hour from Syracuse Hancock International Airport (SYR). ​ Our 7,000+ square foot event barn offers many layout options that let you design the event your way. The barn can comfortably seat 280+ people inside for a reception and there is no need for a tent with plenty of ceremony options such as the enclosed loft, attached porches, custom pavilion or our lavish gardens. You have plenty of layout options - it's your day, plan it your way! ***Date availability, pricing information or tour requests must be submitted on our website***

Why you'll love this venue

  • Feels like a getaway
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Lush gardens

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Does not provide event staff
  • Requires outside catering services
Awarded Best of Zola
My fiance' and I committed to Dutch Harvest Farm when it was nothing but a drawing on a page and acres of land covered by trees and tall grass. Many people thought we were crazy for signing a contract without seeing the finished product, but they hadn't met Laura. Laura is communicative, excited, caring and thoughtful. Our experience with her thus far has been nothing but positive, and that is difficult to say when you had to cancel your initial wedding due to COVID-19. She has helped us navigate the complex situation and continues to keep us informed even throughout the madness. Although we have not had our wedding just yet, we are ecstatic for our day at DHF and can't wait to share the venue we have seen come to fruition with as many friends and family as we can! Thank you Laura! <3
Brian & B., 4 years ago
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New Park Event Venue & Suites 

5.0

Ithaca, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor

New Park is a stunning and inspirational wedding venue and retreat center with several special spaces to accommodate overnight guests. New Park can host large and small gatherings - weddings, reunions, anniversaries, memorials, wellness retreats, corporate retreats, etc. New Park's incredible dog-friendly suites and cottages have stonework, stained glass, and details that make a romantic and special place to stay. New Park is located in Ithaca, just north of the city and just south of Taughannock Falls, in the stunning Finger Lakes region of upstate New York. There are many things to do in the Finger Lakes to satisfy your wanderlust, including wine tasting, hiking, boating, and hot air ballooning. ​ You can learn more about New Park here on our website, and our Facebook page, Instagram page, and by booking a (low pressure) coffee chat with one of our event coordinators. You can also book a tour to view New Park. New Park is a special place best experienced in person.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Dance floor not included
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Awarded Best of Zola
New Park was everything we dreamed of!! Sarah and her staff were amazing!
Eve, a year ago
The Craftsman Inn & Suites 
Fayetteville, NY
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor

Celebrate your wedding in an extravagant fashion. Say "I do" in the charismatic village of Fayetteville, minutes from downtown Syracuse. The ceremony and rehearsal dinner is sure to inspire hearts in one of our indoor or outdoor venues. Share your reception time with the family and friends you love. Our professional wedding planners will see to it that you do. We start with your vision, outline the to-do’s, and handle every detail from your venue design and catering to your Champaign toast and guest accommodations. So you relax and enjoy your day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Rustic yet refined style
  • Provides setup and cleanup

Venue considerations

  • Does not have a dance floor
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No free parking

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About wedding venues in South Butler, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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