The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Wilmington, DE

The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Wilmington, DE

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9 Wedding Venues in Wilmington, DE

Historic estates, mansions
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Bellevue Hall 

5.0

Wilmington, DE
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

This notable estate is truly a one-of-a-kind property at which to host your wedding celebration. The mansion was built in the 1850’s and is the former home of William DuPont Sr. and his family. Your ceremony can be held on the sprawling lawn alongside a charming gazebo and gorgeous perennial garden. An elegant reception then follows beneath a pristine clear outdoor tent or, for a more intimate crowd, in one of the mansion’s luxurious indoor rooms. Bellevue Hall features stylish dining rooms, elaborate marble fireplaces, a sophisticated wood-paneled library, and an enormous central foyer with a grand staircase. Celebrate your happy occasion at Bellevue Hall. It’s sure to be a memorable event!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not allow pets
When looking for a venue, my fiance has been very particular. She has a certain look and style she is going for and would not bend toward the typical ballroom venues, that are still beautiful but not her specific style. When she found Bellevue Hall, she took a tour while I was at work and all she could talk about was how much she couldn't wait to show me the place to see for myself. I trusted her gut and booked without even seeing the place until months later for our tasting. Let me tell you, the food was out of this world and the venue was even more beautiful. Not only did we get to choose our menu while sitting in a mock reception set up, there was so much that they offered at the tasting from all of the appetizer stations, dessert stations, and the sit down part of dinner. It ran like the actual reception and left nothing for our imagination. I was BLOWN away. The venue itself is really beautiful too. It is a very nice estate with beautiful grounds. If you're looking for an estate wedding, where guests can utilize the entire wedding and aren't forced to stay in one or two rooms the whole time, this place is a must for you. Our planner is also great and very responsive with emails and phone calls. They are very thorough about pricing too and offer a lot of incentives. We're excited about our wedding in a few months!
Jullian, a year ago
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Cairnwood Estate 

5.0

  • Up to 230 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,000

For over a century, Cairnwood has been hosting wedding receptions within its halls. The tradition began with John and Gertrude Pitcairn opening their home for a marriage celebration in 1896. Today, the Estate is available for sit-down dinners with 200 guests or an opulent stations-style event for up to 275. The graciousness of the Estate provides a setting that departs from the ordinary with endless indoor and outdoor possibilities. The distinguished architecture, terraces, grand staircase, balconies, and flowering gardens inspire couples to welcome guests into their own spacious mansion for a unique and memorable celebration.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Space for a large guest list
  • Natural elegance with open spaces

Venue considerations

  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • No free parking
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
The team at Cairnwood was great to work with from our first tour til our wedding day. They are very helpful with finding additional vendors including hotel blocks and shuttles. We had the wedding of our dreams thanks to this venue!
Karli K., 10 months ago
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HOTEL DU PONT 

5.0

Wilmington, DE
  • Up to 275 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $30,000

Elegant. Timeless. Iconic. HOTEL DU PONT sets a beautiful stage for your wedding in Wilmington, Delaware. Celebrate your love story in the storied elegance and rich traditions of one of the most prestigious hotels in the world. HOTEL DU PONT features more than 25,000 square feet of event space, including two event ready ballrooms. From glittering chandeliers and gilded rosettes to soaring ceilings and dramatic handcrafted staircases, every detail highlights Wilmington's rich past and cosmopolitan present. With stunning architecture dating back to 1913 and a reputation for impeccable service, the HOTEL DU PONT offers a dramatic, historic location that is truly unforgettable. We'll turn your vision into the celebration of your dreams.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Offers full-service amenities

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
Shellie and the Hotel Du Pont team are total pros. They were very accommodating throughout the process and were always willing to work with us to make our day as special as possible. The food and drinks were all terrific and the service was exceptional. We were attracted to Hotel Du Pont as a venue because of the opportunity to host a “Wedding Weekend” and not only did we get to pull that off, but Hotel Du Pont made it a better experience than we could have hoped for. Great food, beautiful ballrooms and accommodations, and a professional and friendly staff made this a home run wedding venue for us.
Bayley S., a year ago
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The Carriage House In Rockwood Park 

4.0

Wilmington, DE
  • Up to 225 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $7,500

Spectacular setting on the grounds of a 19th century country estate Indoor and outdoor ceremony locations amidst lush gardens or a captivating Carriage House Extensive and exquisite menu selections Personal event coordinator for impeccable service Over 40 years experience of culinary excellence

Why you'll love this venue

  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Classic seating dinner

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No on-premises lodging options
Awarded Best of Zola
We had the most incredible experience hosting our wedding at the Carriage house! It has been taken over by Prime Hospitality catering who did an amazing job from start to finish! Our guests raved over the food, waitstaff, and bartenders! Katie and her team took care of every single aspect of our wedding which allowed my husband and I, our families, and our bridal party to be stress free and enjoy the day! I could go on and on about how amazing our wedding day was! Not a single thing went wrong, Katie and her team decorated the venue beautifully, the service was fantastic, and our guests continue to reach out about how beautiful the wedding venue was. It was better than I could’ve ever expected! I hope that the Carriage House starts to see an increase in weddings at their venue because they are truly amazing at their job! Katie coordinated and helped me with planning the wedding out from day 1. She worked relentlessly behind the scenes to ensure we had a great day. The food was the best wedding meal I have ever had and I’m not just saying that because I had my wedding here. The restaurant associated with the caterers “Brandywine Prime” makes amazing food. I will admit when initially wedding planning I was unsure of the carriage house due to the lack of online presence and photos of recent weddings. It is truly a hidden gem and definitely worth considering for your wedding day!!
Rachel and T., a year ago
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Dupont Country Club And Brantwyn Estate 

5.0

Wilmington, DE
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

The DuPont Country Club and Historic Brantwyn Estate are located in the picturesque Brandywine Valley in Wilmington, Delaware. The DuPont Ballroom is an ideal site for your lavish wedding reception with accommodations up to 250 guests. The Upper Terrace provides a grand view of our breathtaking golf course for your guests to enjoy during cocktail hour. Brantwyn Estate is located on the grounds of The DuPont Country Club. It is a former du Pont family residence and is a perfect example of Georgian charm situated on 60 acres of wooded landscape full of photographic opportunities. The estate's cultured country manor setting with its lush formal gardens offers a splendid backdrop any time of the year. Feel free to visit our website and take a virtual tour at DuPont Country Club. com

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Designed for grand celebrations

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • No on-premises lodging options
Awarded Best of Zola
Erin at Brantwyn Estates is great to work with! We (Dover Tents & Events) are always in communication when scheduling tent installs for weddings held on the property; she is wonderful with keeping us updated on any adjustments needed or time restrictions. The grounds crew is also fantastic, always has power run for lighting and expecting us upon arrival.
Meghan Garrison, 4 years ago
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The Farmhouse 

5.0

Wilmington, DE
  • Up to 190 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,500

Conveniently located in Wilmington, Delaware, The Farmhouse is family owned and operated and hosts one event per day. The historical estate boasts a beautiful outdoor ceremony site underneath romantic willow trees & four acres of manicured grounds and gardens. Hosting up to 190 guests, the Farmhouse offers numerous indoor spaces for your event including the bright and open main terrace hall, indoor lounge and bar, dressing suites and more. Outside, a large wrap around deck and patio overlook the gazebo bar & gardens. The Farmhouse is proud to be a women-owned business, still managed by the fourth generation of the Murray family. As a small family-run business, the Farmhouse provides a personal touch and flexibility in hosting your dream wedding.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Lush gardens
  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
Awarded Best of Zola
The Farmhouse was an absolute dream to work with for our wedding. From our very first interaction, their communication was great, easy, and thoughtful - they made us feel at ease and confident that all would be taken care of. The quality of their work was beautiful, timeless, and elegant, creating an atmosphere that was perfect for our special day. They were attentive to any need we had to ensure a smooth, seamless experience. We couldn't recommend The Farmhouse more highly - book them for your wedding, you won't regret it!
Dana and A., a month ago
Greenbank Mill & Phillips Farm 
Wilmington, DE
  • Up to 80 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $750

Greenbank is a beautiful setting for your DIY event, with historic charm and a natural outdoor setting by the Red Clay Creek. You’ll want to plan hours before and after your event for setup/decorating and cleanup. You can choose to rent in smaller blocks of time using our Standard Package or take advantage of our Wedding Package: it provides access to the site across two days to allow for stress-free setup, deliveries, rehearsals, photographs, and event preparations, plus cleaning services and other special accommodations.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Combines timeless elegance with history

Venue considerations

  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • Dance floor not included
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Terrain at Styer's 

5.0

Glen Mills, PA
  • Up to 110 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $4,000

Terrain at Styer's, is located on the historic site of J. Franklin Styer's nursery, a Philadelphia landmark for over 100 years. With over five acres of everchanging blooms and greenery combined with a variety of historic spaces, the property serves as a stunning setting for celebrations of all kinds for up to 110 people. In addition to our bespoke event spaces, Terrain at Styer’s boasts a terrain retail store and Terrain Cafe. Terrain at Styer's is located just 40 minutes outside of Philadelphia at 914 Baltimore Pike Glen Mills, PA 19342.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Wheelchair accessible

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
Awarded Best of Zola
Terrain at Styer's was an absolute dream venue for our wedding! From the very first meeting, their communication was flawless - they never missed a beat and were always available to answer our questions. The quality of their work and attention to detail was truly unparalleled. They absolutely made sure my wife and I were comfortable at all times, and they also made sure we had a few moments to relax and soak everything in - we truly appreciated that personal touch. The venue itself was so unique and perfectly suited our vision. I 110% recommend this place - it's top notch!
Veronica H., 8 months ago
The Inn at Montchanin Village & Spa - A Historic Hotel of America 
Montchanin, DE
  • Up to 50 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $1,200

Whether you are planning a petite wedding gathering of 4, a boutique celebration of 50, or a wedding reception anywhere in between; you will love our specialized services, uniquely designed for Wilmington's luxury intimate weddings. Come stroll our intimate gardens and share your wedding vision with our team of wedding professionals. Together, we will make your wedding everything YOU have imagined.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Exudes old-world charm

Venue considerations

  • Small venue, not ideal for a large guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Does not have a dance floor

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About wedding venues in Wilmington, DE

Why Choose Delaware for Your Wedding Celebration?

Delaware packs exceptional wedding venues into its compact size, giving you access to stunning waterfront settings along the Chesapeake Bay, historic mansions with roots in the 18th century and charming rural farm estates featuring centuries-old barns. You'll appreciate Delaware's strategic location that makes it easy for your guests traveling from Philadelphia, Baltimore and Washington DC to attend without you having to pay the premium prices these metropolitan areas command.

What Does a Typical Delaware Wedding Cost?

Planning a wedding with 150 guests in Delaware? You'll want to budget around $38,281 with venue costs averaging $4,622 which represents about 12% of your total wedding budget.

Here's what you can expect to spend based on guest count:

  • 50 guests (small wedding): $17,057
  • 100 guests: $27,995
  • 150 guests: $38,281
  • 200 guests: $47,482
  • 250 guests: $56,683
  • 300 guests (large wedding): $65,884

Where Can You Find Delaware's Most Beautiful Venues?

You'll discover Delaware's wedding venues clustered in three main regions across the state. In Northern Delaware and the Wilmington Area you can celebrate at Hotel Du Pont with its ornate chandeliers European-inspired architecture and century-old craftsmanship or choose Winterthur Museum & Country Estate featuring 60 acres of breathtaking naturalistic gardens. The Delaware Beaches offer perfect settings for couples dreaming of waterfront celebrations with panoramic bay views and beachfront ceremony spaces. If you head to Southern Delaware you'll find The Farmhouse with its 1800s architecture massive timber beams and multiple outdoor ceremony sites nestled within lush gardens.

Which Delaware Venues Offer Accessibility Features?

You can count on Hilton Wilmington/Christiana for wheelchair accessibility throughout all spaces along with stylish event rooms and customizable packages that fit your vision. The Clubhouse at Baywood gives you wheelchair-accessible pathways connecting all ceremony sites to reception spaces and accommodates up to 250 guests with both indoor and outdoor options so everyone in your party can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Delaware Venues Enhance Remote Participation?

Juniper by Tonic in Wilmington offers you contemporary design with floor-to-ceiling windows creating an ideal backdrop for incorporating interactive live streaming and digital platforms that bring distant loved ones into your celebration. At Hagley Museum you'll enjoy historic charm with lush gardens where virtual attendees can experience 360-degree views of your special day. Winterthur Museum & Country Estate can help you integrate virtual tours of its vast gardens and galleries for remote guests making them feel included in all aspects of your wedding day.

Which Delaware Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You'll love Juniper by Tonic's famous seafood and steak options served in a chic dining atmosphere that impresses even the most discerning guests. Deerfield Golf Club near White Clay Creek State Park delivers refined catering options and comprehensive culinary experiences that can be tailored to your preferences. Hotel Du Pont provides you with luxurious dining experiences in a prestigious setting where every detail is crafted to enhance your celebration.

When Should You Book Your Delaware Wedding Venue?

You need to book Delaware venues about 16 months (484 days) before your wedding date with October being the most competitive month requiring even earlier planning. If you're eyeing prime Saturday dates in May June September or October you should move quickly as these book first especially at historic properties with limited weekend availability.

What Seasonal Considerations Matter for Delaware Weddings?

Spring weddings let you showcase Delaware's flowering landscapes while fall ceremonies feature dramatic foliage creating vibrant backdrops for your photos. Summer beach weddings give you extended daylight for stunning sunset photography opportunities. Winter celebrations benefit from existing holiday décor at venues like Hotel Du Pont and often come with attractive off-season pricing at waterfront properties that might otherwise be beyond your budget.

Why Choose Delaware for Your Wedding Celebration?

Delaware packs exceptional wedding venues into its compact size, giving you access to stunning waterfront settings along the Chesapeake Bay, historic mansions with roots in the 18th century and charming rural farm estates featuring centuries-old barns. You'll appreciate Delaware's strategic location that makes it easy for your guests traveling from Philadelphia, Baltimore and Washington DC to attend without you having to pay the premium prices these metropolitan areas command.

What Does a Typical Delaware Wedding Cost?

Planning a wedding with 150 guests in Delaware? You'll want to budget around $38,281 with venue costs averaging $4,622 which represents about 12% of your total wedding budget.

Here's what you can expect to spend based on guest count:

  • 50 guests (small wedding): $17,057
  • 100 guests: $27,995
  • 150 guests: $38,281
  • 200 guests: $47,482
  • 250 guests: $56,683
  • 300 guests (large wedding): $65,884

Where Can You Find Delaware's Most Beautiful Venues?

You'll discover Delaware's wedding venues clustered in three main regions across the state. In Northern Delaware and the Wilmington Area you can celebrate at Hotel Du Pont with its ornate chandeliers European-inspired architecture and century-old craftsmanship or choose Winterthur Museum & Country Estate featuring 60 acres of breathtaking naturalistic gardens. The Delaware Beaches offer perfect settings for couples dreaming of waterfront celebrations with panoramic bay views and beachfront ceremony spaces. If you head to Southern Delaware you'll find The Farmhouse with its 1800s architecture massive timber beams and multiple outdoor ceremony sites nestled within lush gardens.

Which Delaware Venues Offer Accessibility Features?

You can count on Hilton Wilmington/Christiana for wheelchair accessibility throughout all spaces along with stylish event rooms and customizable packages that fit your vision. The Clubhouse at Baywood gives you wheelchair-accessible pathways connecting all ceremony sites to reception spaces and accommodates up to 250 guests with both indoor and outdoor options so everyone in your party can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Delaware Venues Enhance Remote Participation?

Juniper by Tonic in Wilmington offers you contemporary design with floor-to-ceiling windows creating an ideal backdrop for incorporating interactive live streaming and digital platforms that bring distant loved ones into your celebration. At Hagley Museum you'll enjoy historic charm with lush gardens where virtual attendees can experience 360-degree views of your special day. Winterthur Museum & Country Estate can help you integrate virtual tours of its vast gardens and galleries for remote guests making them feel included in all aspects of your wedding day.

Which Delaware Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You'll love Juniper by Tonic's famous seafood and steak options served in a chic dining atmosphere that impresses even the most discerning guests. Deerfield Golf Club near White Clay Creek State Park delivers refined catering options and comprehensive culinary experiences that can be tailored to your preferences. Hotel Du Pont provides you with luxurious dining experiences in a prestigious setting where every detail is crafted to enhance your celebration.

When Should You Book Your Delaware Wedding Venue?

You need to book Delaware venues about 16 months (484 days) before your wedding date with October being the most competitive month requiring even earlier planning. If you're eyeing prime Saturday dates in May June September or October you should move quickly as these book first especially at historic properties with limited weekend availability.

What Seasonal Considerations Matter for Delaware Weddings?

Spring weddings let you showcase Delaware's flowering landscapes while fall ceremonies feature dramatic foliage creating vibrant backdrops for your photos. Summer beach weddings give you extended daylight for stunning sunset photography opportunities. Winter celebrations benefit from existing holiday décor at venues like Hotel Du Pont and often come with attractive off-season pricing at waterfront properties that might otherwise be beyond your budget.

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