Parties & events

Leading up to a wedding, there are many different parties and events couples can choose to throw. The list of wedding events includes (but isn't limited to) engagement party, bridal or wedding shower, bachelor and bachelorette parties, rehearsal dinner, and sometimes a farewell brunch. Of course, it's up to you which parties you'll include in your wedding celebrations. Our articles and guides help you decide which parties are right for you and help you plan the perfect events!

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Guide to All Wedding Parties & EventsWe created a guide to all the different pre-wedding, post-wedding, and wedding-related events so you can decide what you’ll include as part of your wedding.

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Guide to All Wedding Parties & Events

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We created a guide to all the different pre-wedding, post-wedding, and wedding-related events so you can decide what you’ll include as part of your wedding.

Who Do You Invite to an Engagement Party?

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Throwing an engagement party and wondering who to invite? Read our guide to decide who makes the cut.

The Complete Guide to Engagement Party Etiquette

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Who hosts an engagement party? Is it the couple or the parents of the bride or groom? Read our guide to hosting.

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50 Best Engagement Party Ideas of 2024

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Unlock 50 unique engagement party ideas. You'll find ideas you've never thought of and something for every couple. Happy planning!

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The Ultimate Guide to Plan an Engagement Party

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Follow these step-by-step instructions for how to plan an engagement party to achieve guaranteed hosting success.

What is an Engagement Party?

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Don’t know what an engagement party is or if you should host one? Find out now.

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What to Write in a Bridal Shower Card

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Find inspiration for bridal shower card messages with our tips, quotes, and examples. Craft heartfelt wishes that celebrate the bride-to-be in a special way.

What to Wear to a Bridal Shower as a Guest

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Find ideal attire for a bridal shower. Explore outfit ideas, styles, and tips to shine as you celebrate the bride-to-be's special day

Bridal Shower Thank You Messages with Examples and How To's

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We have all the Q&As on bridal shower thank you messages, complete with ideas and examples of what to write. Grab a pen—it’s time to spread the love!

Bridal Shower vs. Bachelorette Party

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Are the bridal shower and the bachelorette party the same? What happens at a bridal shower vs. a bachelorette party? Find out in our latest guide.

38 Bridal Shower Themes for Modern Couples

Inspiration

From elegant tea parties to the casual bonfire, plan your perfect party with creative bridal shower themes for the modern couple.

7 Bridal Shower Traditions, Updated

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Bridal showers are great celebrations but they could use some updating. Bring your bridal shower traditions into modern times with our guide to updating the traditional bridal shower.

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25 Best Bachelorette Gifts For The Bride

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Discover unique bachelorette party gifts for the bride-to-be. Explore thoughtful ideas to make her celebration even more special.

60 Best Bachelorette Party Themes of 2024

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Discover the 60 best bachelorette party themes of 2024 with ideas for activities, drinks, and food. Find the perfect party for every bride!

Bachelorette Party Game Questions You'll Love

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Our favorite questions to ask the bride-to-be, their partner, and their friends at any bachelorette party.

How to Throw a Joint Bachelor/Bachelorette Party

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Thinking of hosting a joint bachelor/bachelorette party? Check out these unique party ideas for an unforgettable event.

What to Wear to a Bachelorette Party + 20 Outfit Ideas

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Headed off to a bachelorette party? Make sure that you’re dressed right with our easy guide on what to wear.

28 Bachelorette Party Games the Whole Squad Will Love + Free Printables

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No matter what you have in mind for your special night, we’ve created a list of our favorite bachelorette party games for a celebration you and your party guests won’t forget.

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55 Bachelor Party Ideas for Every Groom

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Fill your bachelor party with groom-approved activities. From weekend getaways to nighttime options, explore the best and most unique bachelor party ideas.

A Guide to Bachelor Parties

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Get all your questions about bachelor parties—from who is responsible for planning to what to do—in this comprehensive guide.

Who to Invite to a Bachelor Party

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You don’t have to limit your guest list to your groomsmen! These are the guys you should consider sending a bachelor party invite to and what to know before you do.

Best Bachelor Party Destinations

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Looking for the best bachelor party destinations? Zola experts are here to help! Here is a list of great bachelor party destinations to help you kick-start your celebration planning.

How to Plan a Bachelor Party: The Complete Guide

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Planning an epic bachelor party is no easy feat, and takes some serious dedicated coordination and calculation. Here’s how to plan a bachelor party so that you can spend less time stressing and more time celebrating.

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\n \n \n\n\n\n\n\n\n \n ","slug":"parties-events","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events","description":"Leading up to a wedding, there are many different parties and events couples can choose to throw. The list of wedding events includes (but isn't limited to) engagement party, bridal or wedding shower, bachelor and bachelorette parties, rehearsal dinner, and sometimes a farewell brunch. Of course, it's up to you which parties you'll include in your wedding celebrations. Our articles and guides help you decide which parties are right for you and help you plan the perfect events!","subtopics":[{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Engagement party","slug":"engagement-party"},"slug":"pre-wedding-events-guide","title":"Guide to All Wedding Parties & Events","excerpt":"We created a guide to all the different pre-wedding, post-wedding, and wedding-related events so you can decide what you’ll include as part of your wedding.","author":"Jennifer Prince, Erin Celletti, and McCall Minnor","publishedAt":"2022-04-13T18:06:06.745Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5uuVJB4T2Ib4wDoicjCgbZ/9b21dc45e3155dd604137c1bf2a53c2a/Hero_1.jpg","altText":"Circular image of friends toasting with champagne glasses and sparkling lights"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Years ago, once couples got engaged, they had two celebrations to look forward to—the bridal shower and the rehearsal dinner. Although those traditions remain, as time has moved on, couples have become more creative with the addition of other events. No matter your reasoning for including extra celebrations in your wedding festivities schedule, seize the opportunity to gather with family and friends. Here’s our ultimate guide to all the different kinds of [parties and events](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events) you can include in your [wedding timeline](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist).\n\n## Engagement party\n\nThe question gets popped, a ring is placed on your finger, and it’s time to celebrate with loved ones. Ideally, an [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party) takes place within the first month of the proposal, but if your schedule prevents that timeline, do it whenever is most convenient.\n\nSince this is generally a more intimate celebration, hosting anything from a casual backyard barbecue with lawn games and a [small guest list](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-do-you-invite-to-an-engagement-party) to a more upscale dinner gathering is appropriate. \n\nIf your interest is piqued, there are more [engagement party ideas here](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-ideas).\n\nWho hosts the engagement party depends on your take on the event. If you and your future spouse want to have family and friends gather to [meet each other](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/introduce-families-after-engagement), feel free to host. However, if you’re going to be hands-off, have someone close, such as a sibling or parent, orchestrate the event.\n\n__Expert advice:__ Unless your wedding will be very small or a destination wedding, only invite people who will also be guests on your wedding day. \n\nSee all of our [engagement party articles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/engagement-party) for more expert tips.\n\n![Craig Adderley - Pre-wedding events](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5GFhw3on6e3FyKap4ONlH7/1b4acace342fc222441fc06c9f64c8a4/Inline_1.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Craig Adderley\n\n## Wedding showers\n\nOnce referred to as a bridal shower, today’s [wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-bridal-shower-and-what-is-its-purpose) is more inclusive than its formerly women-only predecessor ([read more about the difference here](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one)). While you can keep it to just the ladies if you’d like, the main focus of this event is to shower the happy couple with gifts, which can take on several forms. Guests can bring items off the [couple’s registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry), or the event can be [themed](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-themes). Think of giving articles related to experiences or stocking the couple’s bar.\n\nIt’s probably best to let someone else handle the hosting and inviting for your [wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-shower-guide). But that doesn’t mean you need to be hands-off. Talk to your sibling, best man, maid of honor, or parent—all appropriate choices for hosting a shower—about a theme and what type of gifts you’d like. Invite close friends and family members, and hold the event two to three months before the wedding. Do it at someone’s home or somewhere else that gives off intimate, celebratory vibes.\n\n### So, then, what is a bridal shower?\n\nA traditional [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers) celebrates the bride and is a gathering of her closest friends and family, typically all female. It’s often thrown by the bride’s side of the family and her bridal party, but it has evolved into an “anything goes” event for cost responsibility. The key difference here is that the focus is on the bride.\n\n### What is a Jack and Jill party?\n\nA Jack and Jill party is a modern, inclusive way to celebrate both sides of the couple at once before the big day. It mixes sides and genders and is usually more laid back in a way more and more couples are choosing. It’s a chance to celebrate the couple together with everyone they love. If your coed curious, read more about the [pros and cons of having a coed wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/coed-wedding-shower).\n\n__Expert advice:__ Find [wedding or bridal shower invitations](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/bridal-shower/shop) of all styles on Zola. You can even match them to your [wedding invites](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop)! \n\nFor more expert tips, explore all of our [wedding shower articles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/wedding-shower).\n\n## Bach parties\n\nToday’s couples have reframed the bachelor or bachelorette party to be more classy while still partying and making memories with people they are close to. Think about inviting your bridal party, siblings, and close friends—as long as they don’t feel stilted by not being asked to be an attendant.\n\nIt’s perfectly appropriate for you to host this event yourself. Your wedding party can also take the reins. Often, bachelor and bachelorette parties have everyone pay their own way, especially if you jet-set out of town for a long weekend. That said, this pre-wedding celebration is more about getting together and being festive than major expenses. So, feel free to be flexible so everyone involved can celebrate leading up to your wedding day.\n\n### Bachelorette parties\n[Bachelorette parties](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bachelorette-parties) celebrate the bride-to-be and can be anything from an elevated brunch, a night on the town, or weekend away somewhere festive. Most importantly, they should reflect the bachelorette’s personality and wishes and be a gathering of her nearest and dearest. \n\nRead our full [guide to planning a bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bachelorette-party) for more deets. \n\n### Bachelor parties\n\n[Bachelor parties](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bachelor-party) honor, you’ve guessed it — the bachelor. It’s basically just a gathering of the groom’s best friends and family spending time together. Normally, they do what the groom enjoys most whether it be sports, hiking, the casino — anything goes. \n\nCheck out [47 bachelor party ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelor-party-ideas) to find something for every groom.\n\n### Joint Bachelor/Bachelorette parties\n\nBrides, grooms, and same-sex couples looking for ways to celebrate together might opt for a joint bachelor/bachelorette party. ‘Bachelorx’ as some call it, is much more than a coed party – it's a fun and inclusive way to focus pre-wedding festivities on the couple as a whole. \n\nCheck out [how to throw a joint bach party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/joint-bachelor-bachelorette-party-games) for the step-by-step. \n\n__Expert advice:__ Get answers to all of your bach party questions, from theme ideas to planning guides to gift inspiration. Find everything [bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/bachelorette-party) or [bachelor party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/bachelor-party) in our expert advice sectionon. \n\n![Melike Benli - Pre-wedding events](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5z3OG5MnN3cpIavaOqAcrX/0b0cc0586ce31c6d2b89c163a6a6ef16/Inline_2.jpg)*Photo Credit* // Melike Benli\n\n## Aufruf\n\nJewish culture has many celebrations, such as Hanukkah and Yom Kippur, but a wedding-centric event that many look forward to is the Aufruf. Yiddish for “calling up,” the Aufruf is traditionally only meant for the groom, although in more modern synagogues, both partners can participate. The entire congregation takes part in this pre-wedding tradition, which happens at the temple the Saturday before the wedding.\n\nDuring the ceremony, the groom will give a blessing over the Torah. Inviting friends and family to the service is appropriate since this is a public display. However, dash all thoughts of the Aufruf being solemn. Sometimes, the rabbi will give the couple candy, signifying a sweet union and fruitfulness throughout the marriage. Some folks will also schedule a post-Aufruf meal to continue the festivities, depending on the circumstances. Additionally, the Aufruf is not to be confused with Shabbat Chatan, which is also for the groom but takes place after the big day.\n\n## Mehndi party\n\nBorrowing beautiful influences from Hindu and [Muslim traditions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/muslim-wedding-checklist), the mehndi party is a unique way to celebrate while focusing on self and practicing ancient rituals. Also known as a henna party, this event is generally held by the bride’s parents and involves placing beautiful, intricate designs on the bride’s hands and feet using henna dye.\n\nToday’s celebrations often include other close family members and friends of the bride. Because these events can take hours—depending on how many henna artists are available and the intricacy of the designs—hosting at a spa, home, or Airbnb can be a nice touch. Henna also darkens over time, so if you’d like to have these designs on your hands and feet for your wedding day, it’s best to have henna applied three days beforehand to allow the natural ink to darken.\n\n## Welcome party \n\nIf you’re having a [destination wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/destination-wedding-checklist) (or a [wedding weekend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/plan-wedding-weekend) people are traveling in for), it’s customary to have some form of welcome reception when your guests arrive at the wedding location. \n\nThis differs from the rehearsal dinner—which typically happens the night before the wedding and only hosts the bridal party and your closest family. \n\nA wedding welcome party can be as casual as welcome drinks or a barbecue once everyone arrives and settles in. It can also be as extravagant as your budget and style preferences allow. Just remember that it’s optional. \n\n## Sangeet \n\nOften celebrated in India, sangeet is all about merriment with many family and friends. As a result, the number of folks invited to sangeet will often outnumber the wedding reception. Folks get together to party — sing, dance, eat, drink — before the big day to showcase their support for the couple and gather with those they haven’t seen in a while. Because this is a large celebration, hosts can often vary and may depend on the number of guests invited.\n\nBecause of the higher guest count, hosting should happen at a [wedding venue](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue) or another location that can hold many people. Although, sometimes, the sangeet will include a smaller number of guests. When it comes to pre-wedding events, sangeets are one of the most flexible, meaning that the location, who hosts, and its proximity to the wedding day can all vary. However, one thing sangeets have in common is the presence of music, which is no wonder since the word means “music” in Sanskrit.\n\n## Rehearsal dinner \n\nThe [rehearsal dinner](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/unique-rehearsal-dinner-ideas) follows your wedding rehearsal, in which your officiant or wedding planner guides you and everyone involved through your wedding ceremony. Along with these people, it’s nice to [invite any close family members](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-to-invite-to-a-rehearsal-dinner) who are wedding guests, as well as those traveling in. \n\nAs expected, the rehearsal dinner is usually the evening before your wedding. As such, it’s best to host it somewhere close to the wedding venue. Choose a restaurant close by or see if your ceremony venue has a space that is not already dedicated to your wedding reception.\n\n## Wedding party/bridal luncheon \n\nIt’s always great to get together with your wedding party. Plus, if you’re a groom who wants to hold a groomsmen’s brunch, go for it! Traditionally, a bridesmaids or wedding party luncheon or brunch is a meal for bridesmaids and/or groomsmen focused on socializing the [wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-many-people-in-wedding-party). Breaking the ice before the big day is a fantastic way to set the tone. \n\nThe bridesmaids’ brunch usually takes place at a restaurant, café, or loved one’s home. If you’d like to host this event, feel free to take the reins. As for when it takes place, that comes down to your personal preference and everyone’s schedules. If everyone is local, picking a date should be simple, but if a few are long-distance, the event may have to take place closer to your [wedding day](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-planning-101/wedding-day).\n\n## After party \n\nJust because the DJ has played the last song and the lights have come up doesn’t mean the party has to be over. It’s becoming more and more common for couples to host an after party that is, quite literally, after the party. \n\nThis after-hours event usually involves extra cocktails and snacks, is in a different location than the reception itself, and can help to keep the party going. And going, and going. Find the best DJs and live bands for your after party on [Zola’s Vendor Marketplace](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-bands-djs).\n\n## Farewell brunch \n\nThe final culminating event of a wedding celebration is the [farewell brunch](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/fun-post-wedding-brunch-invitation-ideas). It can be hosted by the couple, the families, a close relative, or anyone else who offers. It’s typically reserved for guests who’ve spent the night in a designated hotel or resort.\n\nThe farewell brunch gives your guests a chance to regroup, enjoying breakfast and coffee before heading on their merry way. It’s not a mandatory event, but it’s definitely nice to have for both the couple and their guests. As a result, it’s a relatively easy way to put the cherry on top of a great wedding. \n\n## Final thoughts on extra wedding events\n\nAs you can see, weddings can be as simple as the ceremony and reception itself. Or can be a true series of parties and events that lead up to and even continue after the wedding itself. There are no obligations or limits to the amount of wedding fun you can have.\n\nOthers want to honor and celebrate you—both on and before your big day. Incorporating one or more of these wedding festivities gives you more opportunities to spend time and celebrate with everyone you love. The best part? You don’t have to get overwhelmed with planning everything when you’ve got Zola on your team. Get instant access to our full suite of free wedding planning tools when you [sign up](https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard/wedding-planning).","tag":"List","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Need to know what delectable delights are right for you and your guests? Here are our tips for planning your bridal shower menu.","title":"Top 20 Bridal Shower Food Ideas","slug":"what-food-to-serve-at-your-bridal-shower","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"How To","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1BOn3idAlUsoOONoa9Hrnm/5cdf2e6d3ed2fe2a5ec6913261d1ba8a/Hero_Unsplash_MaddiBazzocco.jpg","altText":"Food to Serve at Your Bridal Shower"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Follow these step-by-step instructions for how to plan an engagement party to achieve guaranteed hosting success. 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Read our guide to decide who makes the cut.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-12-15T02:47:19.387Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/25SBopO9NY1WkTuKP5Y9q0/f2e532633c374115ed1bc2a53480aca6/inline_unsplsh.jpg","altText":"Engagement party guests"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"With wedding planning, the [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party) is the first thing on many couples' lists as they look forward to the big day. Often this party can serve as a way to celebrate your newly engaged status, and for some couples, this may even be where you make the big __[engagement announcement](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-announcements-101)__.\n\nHowever you choose to organize your party, the guest list is one of the biggest elements to tackle. Who do you invite to the engagement party now that you're engaged?\n\nThere are a few different scenarios you may find yourself in. When you're putting together your engagement party guest list, one big factor to consider is who __[hosts the engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-hosts-an-engagement-party)__. Ultimately, the host will get the final say on headcount—with the happy couple's input, of course.\n\nUnlike other pre-wedding celebrations, the [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-announce-your-engagement) tends to be more open-ended in terms of how people approach it. And nowadays, many couples even host their own party. Sometimes, a friend or even the bride or groom’s parents host instead. You may have many wedding etiquette questions about your engagement celebration guest list, and Zola has the answers.\n\n## Who Should I invite?\nLots of folks probably come to mind, from your close loved ones to family members you only see once every few years. Although you shouldn’t feel pressured to invite everyone on your wedding guest list, here’s who should come to your celebration for the newly engaged couple. \n\n- Bride’s Parents and Groom’s Parents — Essentially, it’s important to invite each set of parents. You must consider your family dynamics and current relationships with those folks if you have divorced families. In this case, discuss this with your partner, and do what you’re comfortable with.\n\n- Immediate Family Members — Invite siblings and any family members you’re especially close to, such as an aunt or your grandparents. Even if some of these family members are out of town, you should invite them out of honor and respect.\n\n- Wedding Party — Bridesmaids and groomsmen are close enough to you to be in the wedding, so they should certainly make the engagement party guest list.\n\n- Closest Friends — Again, don’t feel obligated to invite each and every one of the bride-to-be’s friends but limit the event to those closest to you. A lot of this depends on how many folks you want in attendance at your celebration.\n\n### Should I Limit the Guest List?\n\n![Who Do You Invite to an Engagement Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4iXslAgW7yyhKHQ7vo1aiv/71dc9f2dca8497cb5fba07a948fba41c/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\nWhen you're deciding who should come, there are a few things to consider. As a rule of thumb, if you invite someone to the engagement celebration, they should also get a wedding invitation. That doesn't mean you must invite everyone to the engagement party. Instead of a huge bash, many couples decide to have a more intimate celebration, which means a smaller engagement party that’s more manageable to plan. Limiting the guest list can also help keep the cost of the event in check. \n\nGenerally speaking, both sets of parents of the engaged couple should be invited, as well as step-parents and grandparents, siblings, close aunts, uncles, and cousins, as well as members of your bridal party (if you're organized and know who they are), and of course, close friends, coworkers, and acquaintances. That said, some couples decide to make it a small get-together and may invite only family or friends to a small brunch. \n\n### Do I Need to Invite Everyone?\nIn some instances, whether it be due to family obligations or a couple's background, they may invite all wedding guests to the engagement party. If you can invite everyone to the engagement party, remember that this is still the first pre-wedding party leading up to the actual wedding. The tone of the engagement party should be different from the wedding. While it's still celebratory, remember it's still not a wedding.\n\n### Can I Have Two Parties?\n\n![Who Do You Invite to an Engagement Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/610DuvVYhcIWiOTMmqwYb9/5cfff899156238dcea1b4bcb2f868002/inline_unsplsh.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\nSometimes an engaged couple may decide to have two different parties. If both people getting married have large extended families, having a party for just the two sides is a great option. In this case, having a second party just for your friends could also be a good decision. \n\nOne thing to keep in mind regarding __[engagement party etiquette](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party)__ is that if you do decide to have two parties, don't invite the same people to both. It will defeat the purpose and could get confusing for the guests. Another option is to have a more traditional event with family and then party with friends during a different type of celebration. The choice is yours!\n\n### Who Not to Invite?\nWhen you're looking to make some cuts to your list, there are some folks you can consider not inviting. Generally speaking, inviting an ex to an engagement party probably isn't the best idea. While you may have maintained a friendship after the relationship ended, inviting them to the engagement party might be awkward for your significant other—unless you’ve already discussed it.\n\nDepending on the kind of party you throw, think backyard barbecue with __[engagement party games](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-ideas)__ versus a cocktail party, inviting children might not be the best idea. While you may have kids in the wedding party (think ring bearer and flower girl), if you are planning on a sit-down dinner for your engagement party, it might be easier to ask guests not to bring kids. If the event is more casual, having kids attend is perfectly acceptable.\n\nSometimes you may have mutual acquaintances and co-workers you might feel obligated to invite, but if you are not very close to them, then there’s no need to invite them. The engagement party is meant to be special and intimate. You'll want to be surrounded by the people who love and support you and know you best in the world.\n\nAlso, consider who you’ll need to invite for other events surrounding the nuptials. In addition to the wedding day, you’ll also have to curate guest lists for the rehearsal dinner, bachelorette party, and bridal shower. For example, out-of-town family members may not want the pressure of traveling in for your engagement party, so invite them to the rehearsal dinner instead.\n\n## What to Include in Engagement Party Invitations?\nWhether you decide to do paper invitations or use your [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website) as a way to inform everyone, there is engagement party etiquette when it comes to your invitations. Add the elements below to have everything you need to inform guests about your event using [engagement party invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-invite-ideas).\n\n- Include the __date__ and __time__ of your event, and make this very clear on your invitation.\n\n- Name the __venue__. Be sure to include the __address__ and __parking instructions__.\n\n- Your first and last __names__. Feel free to skip last names if everyone knows both of you.\n\n- The __host names__ if they would like to be included on the invitation.\n\n- State the __dress code__ to help field questions on the [formality of the event](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party).\n\n- Add your __wedding registry__ information if you feel comfortable having folks bring engagement party gifts.\n\n- Include how to __RSVP__ and a final __date__ for folks to let you know whether they’ll be attending or not.\n\n## Zola, Your Go-To Wedding Guide\nAt the end of the day, you have to make the best decision for you and your significant other. Land on a guest count that feels most comfortable for both of you, your host, and any budget constraints. And remember: Having a party that celebrates you and the new life you are embarking on is what’s most important. \n\nAnd once you’ve gone through all of Zola’s engagement party ideas, be sure to use the expert advice section as your personal wedding planner. Whether you’re hosting a destination wedding or an event at a nearby country club, Zola is here to help with traditional and trending topics for your special day. ","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Who hosts an engagement party? Is it the couple or the parents of the bride or groom? 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","title":"The Ultimate Guide to Plan an Engagement Party","slug":"how-to-plan-an-engagement-party","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6gsqs04WfHnnZR5YSUGvch/ac4778019adadb17d985dc84e1ef3aff/Brand_Book_Yeti_03.jpg","altText":"Yeti cooler filled with bottles of sparkling rose wine and glasses filled with wine in the background"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"It’s not uncommon for a wedding photographer to include an engagement photo session in their packages. Here's how to make the most of those photos.\n","title":"12 Ways to Get The Most Out of Your Engagement Photos","slug":"how-to-get-most-out-of-your-engagement-photos","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4DEuaFrXVcKgYHHKzYTPMa/ce4ad8cb1fd645069d15c4af106f045b/ErinJacksonPhotog.jpg","altText":"table with decoration pieces and Engagement Photo frame"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"You're engaged! Now it's time to tell people. 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Read our guide to hosting.","author":"McCall Minnor","publishedAt":"2020-12-15T02:43:26.762Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3cIRZa2bmTKPTmsVClWiAO/05f9f7ce61cc50b997657ac6af37c51f/inline_unsplash__25_.jpg","altText":"who hosts the engagement party"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Congratulations, you just got engaged! There’s much to be excited about at this time—including your engagement celebration. Having an [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party) is by no means required of you, but it is a fun way for you, your partner, and your loved ones to get together and celebrate this joyous news. Typically, this the first of many pre-wedding party celebrations, with possible bridal showers, bachelor/bachelorette parties, a rehearsal dinner, and, of course, your nuptials coming further down the line.\n\nBetween all of the wedding planning and aforementioned wedding celebrations, it can be hard to keep track of good etiquette. Each event seems to have its own recommended tips, which can get confusing. With that in mind, we’ve put together the following guide. Not only will we answer any engagement party etiquette questions you may have, but help you have the best engagement party for you. Read on for all of the need-to-knows.\n\n## Who Throws the Engagement Party?\nTraditionally, the engagement party is hosted by the bride’s parents. This tradition started centuries ago; given today’s larger views about gender, this can be viewed as a little dated. Back then, many people thought they were attending a regular party. Then, at the end, the father of the bride would make the big [engagement announcement](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-announcements-101).\n\nToday, a lot of things have shifted in terms of how people view the traditions associated with weddings and the [engagement party etiquette](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party) around it. Namely, hosting has become more relaxed. Nowadays, when trying to determine who’s supposed to host the engagement party, it's not uncommon for close friends of the engaged couple, or even the couple, to host the engagement party themselves. And, in some instances, there may even be multiple engagement parties thrown by multiple people (the parents of the bride, the groom’s parents, close friends, siblings, etc.).\n\n![Who Hosts an Engagement Party?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2UIWv3U2gB0NakR7z2bpSX/3dc856d0f4b94986fcbe8b495f6e65a6/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\nThat said, usually both friends and family attend the party, since it’s a great way for everyone to meet one another. The main takeaway is that there is no one right way to decide who hosts an engagement party. Every couple has to decide what works for them, whether that be the bride’s parents, friends of the couple, or the couple themselves choosing to host.\n\n## Who Pays for the Party?\nOne major factor to keep in mind is that, whoever ends up hosting the event—whether it be the engaged couple, their friends, or [family members](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/introduce-families-after-engagement)—is generally expected to pick up the bill for it. This is part of being a good host/hostess. However, there are a variety of ways to handle this.\n\nPerhaps the event is hosted by a few of your close friends and they choose to divvy up the tasks. For example, one person could have the event held at their house, while another close friend could provide the beverages, and someone else could offer to cover the cost of food. Or, another option might be to have the party at an event space, then divide the cost by all individuals who offered to have it. The same process could be applied to family or groups of any kind.\n\n## How Long After Engagement Do You Have Engagement Party?\nA key logistic—and one of the first—that needs to be decided is the date of your engagement party. This will largely effect your venue options and time available planning, as well as guests’ availability. Most often, a couple’s engagement party will take place within the first few months of engagement, while everyone is still caught up in the excitement and newness of it all. We recommend anything between a week and three months after the proposal. If most of your loved ones are local (or, perhaps you want to announce your engagement at the party), one to four weeks is ideal. On the other hand, if you’d like to plan something a bit more involved, you can definitely take a few more weeks to plan or gather everyone.\n\n## How Formal Should the Dress Code Be?\nLike every other detail of your celebration, the dress code is entirely decided on by you. Meaning, it definitely varies, depending on a couple’s personal taste and choice of engagement party. For example, if you’re hosting a backyard BBQ, you can encourage casual, comfortable attire. If, instead, you’re throwing a cocktail party, you may want to ask your guests to dress appropriately in cocktail attire. A helpful tip in deciding on your dress code is to consider your venue. What someone assumes they should wear to a country club is going to differ from what they think they should wear to a night-out bash.\n\nIn any case, be sure to include this piece of information on your engagement party invitation. Depending on what you think is best, your description can be general (‘casual,’ ‘cocktail attire’) or a little more descriptive.\n\n## Who to Invite to the Engagement Party\nNow to tackle what might be the most challenging aspect of your party: The guest list. No fear—while this can initially come off as an intimidating task, there are a few pieces of etiquette that can make the process smooth sailing.\n\nTo start, engagement party etiquette generally says that every person you invite—from relatives to close friends—should also be a wedding guest of yours down the line. Keeping your engagement celebration to these people helps avoid any uncomfortable situations once wedding invitations go out. You want to avoid confusion and blind-sidedness from those close to you who expected an invitation, but didn’t get one.\n\nHowever, there are a couple exceptions to this rule. For example, if you’re planning a destination wedding not many people will be able to attend. Similarly, times have changed and it’s no longer seen as bad etiquette to host a small, intimate wedding and a larger, more inclusive engagement party. Just remember to be honest and tactful with guests.\n\n## When (and How) to Send the Invitations\nWith the details and guests list all set, all there’s left for you to do is create and send out [invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-invite-ideas). (Note that these differ from [engagement announcements](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-announcements-101).) Since engagement parties typically take place rather quickly, it’s ideal that you get them sent out as soon as possible. This will allow your guests to adequately prepare, from taking off work, to travel logistics, to purchasing an engagement party gift. If you’re planning something fairly impromptu, you can speed up the process by sending out evites to your guest list. Just make sure you have an RSVP system in place (like text confirmations or [Zola’s wedding website RSVP tracker](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/guests)). Otherwise, if your celebration isn’t for a few weeks, you can mail out or hand-deliver paper invitations.\n\n## Time for a Toast\nA final aspect to consider is the toast. Usually, the party might start off with a toast by the hosts of the event, followed by the parents of the engaged couple, family members, and close friends. Perhaps some co-workers or acquaintances might add a few words as well. If you choose to go the more traditional route, the couple will toast one another. Also, the couple will conclude the event by thanking their hosts and company for coming to celebrate with them as well.\n\nThere are no hard-and-fast rules as to who should host and how to go about having an engagement party. For couples who decide to host it themselves, this can free you up to plan things as you see fit and to scale the party up or down as you choose. In some instances where the engaged couple hosts the party, they can even use it as a chance to announce their big news to their family, loved ones, or friends.\n\n![Who Hosts an Engagement Party?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7Mcbjra8w2CoUTt9xUd0VP/a19c799c2fcd58b7845c7fa0853815b9/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\nHaving an engagement party is entirely optional and should be a no-stress event. At the end of the day, you have to decide what works for you. However you choose to have your engagement party, the focus of it should be on the couple’s impending big day and how they are building a new life together.","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Don’t know what an engagement party is or if you should host one? Find out now. 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Happy planning!","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2023-12-21T00:00-05:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4Nv4GtlUw4LfNJVkpcFmSi/32aa338cea95b2f766f3f616efcc3985/50_Best_Engagement_Party_Ideas_hero__1_.png","altText":"People smiling and clinking wine glasses at a party"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"## Inside this article \n\n- Top 50 unforgettable engagement party ideas\n - Outdoor engagement party ideas\n - Engagement party ideas full of glitz and glam\n - Morning engagement party ideas\n - Creative engagement party themes\n- How to plan an engagement party\n- Engagement party FAQs","body":"Planning an engagement party is one of the first steps you and your partner will take to celebrate your love and commitment to each other. It's the perfect opportunity to gather your closest friends and family, toast to your future, and, of course, have a whole lot of fun.\n\nWith so many engagement party ideas out there, it can be overwhelming to decide on the perfect theme for your celebration. Whether you're into rustic charm, elegant soirées, or something unique, we've got you covered. We've rounded up a list of engagement party ideas to help you set the stage for a night to remember. Grab your partner, start scrolling, and be inspired!\n\n## Top 50 unforgettable engagement party ideas \n\n### Outdoor engagement party ideas \nWhether you are having a [long or short engagement](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-long-should-an-engagement-last), there’s nothing like a beautiful outdoor engagement celebration with your closest family and friends. Take your party to the beach, or opt for one of our backyard engagement party ideas. Soak up the sun and celebrate with your loved ones with the help of any theme below.\n\n__1. Incorporate elegant roses:__\nRoses aren’t just for Valentine’s Day. A rose-themed engagement party is a fantastic idea for couples who want to infuse their celebration with romance and elegance. Throw a rose-themed party with your favorite-colored roses and incorporate touches of rose gold to complete this elegant feel. Consider rose-inspired cocktails and rose petal decor, or maybe even encourage guests to wear rose colors.\n\n![Incorporate Elegant Roses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1drdUZVq7B27mStLSV8G5z/6b31536cce039a5b588ab957f7823091/Incorporate_Elegant_Roses.jpeg)\n\n__2. Get Competitive With Beach Games:__\nFor couples who love the laid-back, sun-soaked vibes of the shore, have a casual engagement party with a beach cookout. Toss volleyballs, feast on your favorite hamburgers, and laugh about all of your favorite memories as a couple. For decorations, think seashell centerpieces, beach blankets, and tiki torches.\n\n__3. Create your own Japanese garden:__\nCreating a Japanese garden is an excellent idea for couples who appreciate the serenity and beauty of Japanese culture. Begin with tea and then transition to your sushi main dish at your brightly colored garden party. For decor, add paper lanterns, cherry blossoms, or shades of jade.\n\n__4. Let the leaves fall:__\nThis is the perfect choice for nature-loving couples who want to celebrate their engagement in the breathtaking beauty of autumn. Recreate a heartwarming fall engagement party with rustic reds, greens, and yellows, plus golden silverware and simply decorated centerpieces. These natural engagement party decoration ideas will make for a unique and memorable occasion.\n\n![Let the Leaves Fall](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/22AADZEnEVhavdtfOHEUOi/f6f7674d4d9eb31c9ebc5c4ee2d20aa3/Let_the_Leaves_Fall.jpeg)\n\n__5. Re-create a tropical summer:__\nThis one’s for the couples dreaming of a tropical wedding destination! Decorate the venue with palm leaves, white minimalist chairs, and simple tables, then hang light pink streamers for a luscious tropical summer party. If you’ll be spending your wedding day in a tropical destination, this is a great way to get your engagement party guests excited. Make sure to capture the memory with summer [engagement photos](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-take-authentic-engagement-photos)!\n\n__6. Have a backyard bonfire:__\nIt’s perfect for outdoorsy couples who adore the cozy ambiance of a crackling fire! Light some matches and snuggle up in blankets to celebrate your love over s’mores, backyard games, and traditional bonfire tunes. \n\n![Celebrate in a Winter Wonderland](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/33MV7IjOwBRTNjSofyjWze/2dc5064e68bf03bcdec3ab79cfabd43e/Celebrate_in_a_Winter_Wonderland.jpeg) \n\n__7. Celebrate in a winter wonderland:__\nIf you got engaged during the winter months, enjoy sipping a hot cocoa cocktail with warm blankets up in the mountains for a heartwarming holiday party. Cover your venue in snowy white decorations and twinkling fairy lights to create a whimsical atmosphere. Add fabrics with plaid and gingham for a mountain cabin vibe. \n\n__8. Throw a luau:__\nBring the spirit of the tropics for a fun and laid-back celebration. Serve traditional Hawaiian egg rolls, pineapple pastries, and kabobs while wearing Hawaiian attire and flowers in your hair. Decorate with bright, fresh flowers and tropical elements to make your party feel like you’re on the beaches of Hawaii.\n\n__9. Have a classic picnic:__\nHost a traditional plaid picnic party in your backyard or local park. Pack your favorite pastries, popsicles, or sandwiches in celebration of this new milestone. Prepare a selection of lawn engagement party game ideas like bocce or frisbee to create that classic picnic atmosphere. \n\n__10. Make your own secret garden:__\nDecorate your backyard garden for a celebratory cocktail party complete with light green streamers, white balloons, and even mini gold vases for a whimsical engagement get-together. Your menu can feature botanical-inspired cocktails and elegant finger foods that capture the enchantment of your love story.\n\n![Make Your Own Secret Garden](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6Gfg9GHvGieTB2b54gYvVO/fc15474a4a9da163b86d42bae19e6fb4/Make_Your_Own_Secret_Garden.jpeg) \n\n__11. Add a rustic appeal:__\nDo you and your partner share a love of the countryside? Deck your venue out with wooden engagement decorations, mason jar centerpieces, and a down-to-earth ambiance. Get a wheelbarrow and picnic table, then crack open some beers to celebrate the next big step in your relationship with your loved ones. \n\n__12. Host a farm to table feast:__\nThis one is for food-loving couples who appreciate fresh, locally sourced ingredients, rustic decor, long wooden communal tables, and a menu that savors the flavors of the season. Pick out all of your favorite local food products for your engagement party and create your own farm-to-table celebration. Serve food on wooden crates in your backyard with festive product labels pointing out both your favorite picks. Pack a dessert table with your favorite sweet treats. If you and your fiancé share an affinity for vino, incorporate an informal wine tasting into the festivities.\n\n__13. Enjoy a BBQ__\nIf you adore the idea of a relaxed, sun-soaked celebration spent mingling with loved ones, keep reading. Decorate with picnic-style tables, gingham tablecloths, and mason jar centerpieces filled with wildflowers, and serve up a delectable spread of barbecue classics like smoky ribs and grilled veggies. \n\n__14. Cool Off at a Pool Party__\nMake a splash with your cool, refreshing engagement party. Ideal for those who love a refreshing dip, you can decorate the poolside with colorful inflatables, tropical plants, and lounge chairs. Serve fresh fruit platters, pastries, and cocktails to energize and entertain your guests.\n\n[![Download Take the Party Outside](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4YGTT22KBc9kOev1nkJn86/d2d65640b94f5a9e088ed1aaae54f31d/Download_Take_the_Party_Outside.jpeg)\n](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6SHKUeyuttpP62ht3LkTb3/7ffd7acc27efd8c6f25d428a3ac33b31/Take_the_Party_Outside.png)\n\n## Engagement party ideas full of glitz and glam \n\nMake your party personal and unique with all your favorite things—whether that includes bright watercolor fun or rooftop rosé with your closest friends and family. \n\n__15. Ring In the New Year__\nCan you think of a better theme for couples who love a touch of glamour and want to celebrate their love in style? Celebrate your engagement at a formal party while watching fireworks and munching on appetizers with your loved ones surrounding you. Toast to the New Year and your new engagement. Gold and silver accents will complement the fizzy beverages.\n\n![Ring in the New Year](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/24rgiOmwSbkn992L6aF7WN/27e7dad7515ce35b71e7fef83a79eecf/Ring_in_the_New_Year.jpeg)\n\n__16. Track Back to the 1920s__\nObsessed with the glamour and nostalgia of the Roaring Twenties? Throw a Gatsby-themed party with suits, jazz blaring on the stereo, and layered pearl necklaces on your tables for decoration. Fill the event space with art deco decorations, offer vintage cocktails, and design a menu with classic dishes of the era.\n\n__17. Host a White Party__\nCalling all couples looking for a chic, sophisticated engagement party theme! Craft a menu with a range of dishes in white hues, add white lace touches to your decorations, and have all your guests wear white to your event to show their love for the newly engaged couple.\n\n__18. Create your own Broadway bliss:__\nInfuse your celebration with the magic of the stage! Coordinate karaoke or impromptu performances to set the stage for a night of entertainment and drama. Compile your favorite tunes and add touches of velvet in a dimly lit venue for an intimate theater engagement party experience. \n\n![Create Your Own Broadway Bliss](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6Ie8SF78XNMw3PUUuftivC/ae3cf79eb4a314a058213cb7eadef6c4/Create_Your_Own_Broadway_Bliss.jpeg)\n\n__19. Be Parisian__\nBring the irresistible romance and chic vibes straight from Paris, the City of Love, to your party. This is the towering peak (get it?) of all romantic engagement party ideas! Choose French-inspired decor, a menu of delectable pastries, cheeses, and wine, and charming cafe background music. Have guests sign locks to hang on a wall and toast to love with macarons and champagne.\n\n__20. Become famous with a costume party__ \nThis entertaining and creative engagement party theme is perfect for fun-loving couples who enjoy dressing up and want to create a memorable, lively atmosphere. If you have a favorite movie, genre, or book, throw your own costume party! Pick out your favorite celebrities and have fun getting into character with your guests. \n\n__21. Have a pink flamingo party__\nEmbrace your playful side with tropical-inspired treats and fruity cocktails! Brighten your party up with pink accents and decorative paper flowers for your flamingo-themed celebration. Blow up a giant flamingo floaty for the perfect backdrop to take Polaroid pictures. Take it one step further and prepare pink party favors!\n\n![Have a Flamingo Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7baC3eWRK9eOEGZ6io4QpF/b7a5589013ccf7b2f3dc367c25f60cf2/Have_a_Flamingo_Party_.jpg)\n\n__22. Roll out the red carpet__\nWant to feel like A-list celebrities on your special day? Make your guests feel like stars by hosting a party full of Old Hollywood glamour with this glitzy party theme. Have a red carpet, flashing lights, and music blasting while guests make their way down the aisle.\n\n__23. Provide a glamorous menu__\nIf you and your significant other appreciate the finer things in life, shine the spotlight on a decadent meal. Curate a sophisticated menu of gourmet dishes, fine wines, and artisanal cocktails, offering an elegant dining experience and exceptional cuisine.\n\n__24. Have an enchanting party__\nShowcase your fairy-tale-like romance with personal touches, dreamy decorations, whimsical charcuterie boards, and delicate desserts. Decorate your engagement party with deep blues and purples with gold accents and a tiered cake. To top off your engagement party attire, wear gold headpieces to walk around like royalty.\n\n![Have An Enchanting Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4tOYTUJstR4wcFHFgQ5Dg8/8e077c8a2b22fcf3898de8e982452557/Have_An_Enchanting_Party_.jpeg)\n\n__25. Host a dessert party__\nIf you have a sweet tooth, create your own dessert decor with your favorite guilty pleasures all on one table. Serve wine, coffee, or tea for everyone to indulge in. Offer recipes as party favors or ask guests to bring their favorite dessert recipes to share with the love birds.\n\n__26. Celebrate with rosé all day__\nAre you partial to rosé wine? Decorate in pink and white decorations and serve a menu with light, wine-paired dishes like charcuterie and seafood. Rent out your favorite rooftop bar to celebrate with a view. Toast to your engagement over rosé and city lights.\n\n[![Download Add Glitz and Glam](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2U0cFzVNVxU1TAGlZTEcj2/5fff0a92fc6db7a4dfdcbae0d366c920/Download_Add_Glitz_and_Glam.jpeg)\n](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2XPf8NKAtdLoP5jKd5GfPS/1e4fbf895ae3b46d6987e4e4caf6e695/Glitz_and_Glam.png)\n\n### Morning engagement party ideas to toast to your new life \n\nHave you thought about toasting to your new adventures over an engagement party brunch? After all, breakfast may just take the top spot as everyone’s favorite meal. Consider celebrating your love with a donut party or a mimosa bar.\n\n__27. Make a mimosa bar__\nLooking for a bubbly and interactive engagement party idea? Buy your favorite fruit, juice, and champagne to toast your journey as a newly engaged couple. Set up a full bar for your guests to create their ideal mimosa. Provide a few suggested combinations as inspiration for your mixology guests. \n\n![Make a Mimosa Bar](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2TU6VRSIH9zRnIsj0vShxa/7f6b39e67a7a0fa936660505971b06c3/Make_a_Mimosa_Bar.jpeg) \n\n__28. Jazz brunch__\nDo you and your partner love the timeless allure of jazz music? Eat your classic go-to breakfast dishes at your own French Quarter Courtyard. From scrambled eggs to French toast and egg casserole, cheers to your new journey together over morning champagne and fresh beignets.\n\n__29. Have a morning fiesta__\nEmbody your lively, spirited relationship with an energetic, Mexican-inspired party. Enjoy breakfast burritos with guacamole and a tall glass of orange juice on tables decorated with cacti and bright pink for a proper morning fiesta celebration.\n\n![Have a Morning Fiesta](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3XJ1BVAdcGCNvXy5GhJ5ee/9cd22e048e7edeb075ea98f862e33889/Have_a_Morning_Fiesta.jpeg)\n\n__30. Bring out the sunshine__\nThis cheerful and radiant engagement party theme was made for couples who adore warm, sunny things. Add lemons to clear vases for your table centerpieces, and create your own full coffee bar for the perfect wake-up call. Incorporate bright yellows throughout your venue for a morning sunshine feel.\n\n__31. Show your love for blooms__\nShow your love for the natural beauty of flowers with a romantic and fragrant atmosphere. Have a sunrise breakfast celebration by decorating your venue with flower petals scattered on each table, bright-colored peony centerpieces, and mini breakfast sandwiches and pastries.\n\n__32. Create a donut wall__\nGot a serious sweet tooth? Set up a sweet surprise with a donut wall and glasses of milk to dip them in. Make your own pegboard wall filled with your favorite donut flavors for all your guests to test out. This is a good option for a drop-in party because it allows guests to come and go and serve themselves a sweet treat.\n\n![Create a Donut Wall](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/ARXCuK0kDKa54nSWwZs01/372330870d000a8962f01829d207f7be/Create_a_Donut_Wall.jpeg)\n\n__33. Join the breakfast club__\nIs 80s pop culture a huge part of your personality? Celebrate your love with a retro-themed party, complete with boomboxes and Polaroid cameras. Have your guests dress as they would in the ‘80s in remembrance of the classic 1985 “Breakfast Club.” Share breakfast appetizers like egg bites, coffee, and bagels.\n\n__34. Host a spring tea party__\nDemonstrate your grace and refinement with a classic tea gathering! Fill vases with brightly colored flowers, fill plates with light snacks, and serve pots of tea. Have various morning pastries like banana bread and muffins to pair with your tea. Ask guests to wear a \"fancy hat\" for an extra touch of fun.\n\n__35. Have your own bake-off__\nLet your competitive side shine through! Create an interactive and sweet experience by having your guests bring their favorite baked items to compete for the best-baked masterpiece at your engagement party. Have a prize table of gift cards and wedding ring cookies for the winners.\n\n![Have Your Own Bake-Off](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4yg2glEifO3RdUM4zs00kR/d10d60619087baa7c10add7f40dd4e4c/Have_Your_Own_Bake-Off.jpeg) \n\n__36. Throw a pancake pajama party__\nMake room for your lighthearted personalities to shine with a relaxed celebration. Have your guests show up in their favorite PJs to get the pancake party started. Have a variety of pancake toppers from fruit, granola, syrup, and edible roses to eat while enjoying the morning. Decorate with the comics and crossword sections of the newspaper to cultivate a \"Sunday breakfast around the table\" sort of feel.\n\n[![Download Have a Morning Toast](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1S5maqrGpKhtAwXGGHm9mk/66cbc35ed8fcdaff48fb0cfb8eb93686/Download_Have_a_Morning_Toast.jpeg)\n](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4VDl4w88NFXt2pVdtM0ZPi/b15dc12fc018bf1754b7f569ac3382cd/Have_a_Morning_Toast.png)\n\n### Get creative with these engagement party themes \n\nGet creative and let your playful spirit out to celebrate. Whether you’re a superhero geek, wannabe detective, or art lover, these creative engagement party ideas are just for you! Incorporate all of your favorite things into your engagement party for a night you’ll never forget. \n\n__37. Have a movie night__\nThis one is for film buffs: rent or buy a projector to have a movie night with all your loved ones. Stockpile all your favorite rom-coms or love stories to bring out the laughter. Lots of throw pillows, blankets, and popcorn will set the mood.\n\n![Have a Movie Night](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/UBEw3KjAWrhcAs4Km7xEy/776f4c5123691da6b2f318cc5d5d00e4/Have_a_Movie_Night.jpeg)\n\n__38. Design a scavenger hunt__\nWhat better way to start your biggest adventure than with an exciting, interactive engagement party? Think of all your relationship milestones and put your loved ones to the test with clues. Break up into groups and send them on a scavenger hunt to see who knows you best. Reward your guests with nostalgic childhood treats like sno-cones or cotton candy when they're done hunting.\n\n__39. Go modern gothic__ \nShowcase your moody and edgy aesthetics with a gothic-inspired event. Incorporate dark tones into your engagement party with taper candles, black roses, and even a couple of skulls for spooky touches. The engagement party outfit ideas for this theme are limitless! Carry the theme into your cocktails and food options, like offering blood red Campari-filled beverages and dark chocolate truffles.\n\n__40. Be the superhero__\nBring out your inner superheroes and celebrate your powerful love! Come to the rescue by incorporating your favorite desserts, photo booth superhero props, and capes to mimic your playful spirits as a newly engaged couple.\n\n![Be the Superhero](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4SWCjcMyexiuUhgj3ttT7b/d406b59e98a3a87c7a6dac5b1557d2d3/Be_the_Superhero.jpeg) \n\n__41. Become the Mad Hatter__\nWould you like to transport your guests to a world of enchantment and wonder? Play up your tea party with Wonderland essentials. Wear the classic Mad Hatter hat, sip tea, and brighten your party up with paper flowers. This is a great theme for a photo booth, complete with a white rabbit, bottles that say \"Drink me,\" and croquet mallets.\n\n__42. Create your own taco bar__\nThis yummy theme is perfect for couples that want a vibrant social atmosphere paired with delicious food. Display a variety of salsas, guacamole, beans, meats, and tortilla shells for your guests to make their own tacos. Have a full margarita and paloma table to quench your thirst. Don't feel like handling the food? Hire a taco truck to do the catering and enjoy the casual street taco vibes.\n\n__43. Gamble the night away__\nYou may have already hit the jackpot, but your guests will want to win big at your party! Have your loved ones gamble with play money to see who will win a prize by the end of the night. Be prepared with poker, roulette, and blackjack tables to guarantee an electrifying and entertaining atmosphere. Decorate with bright Vegas colors, playing cards, and poker chips.\n\n![Gamble the Night Away](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5rzFe6w5jdabik98VeLRg7/3de1ea801cbc07f7fb4c7735546e8c96/Gamble_the_Night_Away.jpeg) \n\n__44. Have fun with laser tag__\nBring out your competitive side and play laser tag. You’ll get to see which one of your friends is the most competitive and the best shot. The party will be complete with futuristic decorations, glow sticks, and snack bar foods like soft pretzels, nachos, and pizza.\n\n__45. A touch of history__\nPassionate about art, culture, and history? Rent out a local museum and hire guides to give your guests a tour of your favorite exhibits. Have appetizers and cocktails and a designated seating area for guests to relax. \n\n__46. Host a murder mystery__\nIf Halloween and scary movies are a couple of your favorite things, consider hosting a murder mystery party. Break out the extravagant characters and storylines and assign roles in your engagement party invitations—may the best man win! This event requires a bit of forethought and planning, but you'll also need an emcee to keep the party moving. Consider asking a friend to emcee so you and your partner in crime can enjoy the evening! \n\n![Host a Murder Mystery](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5Ue1rsIr7RKjLlJcLC4raq/927d0957d2e37dab2f718aeb393d9409/Host_a_Murder_Mystery.jpeg) \n\n__47. Go to an arcade__\nTake a break and act like a kid again. This one’s for couples who are into retro games and want to create a lighthearted and playful atmosphere! Rent out an arcade or bring the arcade to you by incorporating games you loved as a kid. Fire up the old Nintendo or start a Ms. Pac-man tournament. Whoever wins may just get a ring (cookie).\n\n__48. Host a homecoming party__\nPerfect for couples who want to relive their school days! Rent out a school gym, serve your favorite foods inspired by the cafeteria, and recreate your high school dream of being homecoming king or queen as you dance the night away. The music playlist is the key to setting the atmosphere. Choose your favorite hits from senior year to blast through the speakers.\n\n__49. Have a cocktail tasting__\nDo you and your partner share a love of mixology? Skip the bars and high-end restaurants (and their price tags) by hosting an at-home cocktail tasting. Buy the essentials, prepare the essentials for a few good drink recipes, and encourage guests to bring their own. You can even hire a mixologist to come make top-shelf drinks. For decor, consider using empty liquor bottles as flower vases. Unused cocktail glasses make great floating candle holders, too.\n\n__50. Host a mini-Olympics__\nBig sports fans? Schedule a day full of fun competitions for your guests. These can be anything from real sports—such as basketball, football, soccer, etc.—to board games or games entirely made up just for the occasion. Divide guests into teams and see who comes out on top. Bonus points if you award (fake) gold metals, hold opening and closing ceremonies, and offer energizing snacks!\n\n[![Download Get Creative](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/138AtYYObDmrH1lwkQ2gPa/9b096b57a9a0c2a788b826efd332d34a/Download_Get_Creative.jpeg)\n](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/12elwZqfNKDGLCLVhLdsMN/f339fc766e8a1febb32d157908c94728/Get_Creative.png)\n\n## How to plan an engagement party \nLet’s talk planning. While selecting an engagement celebration theme can be crucial, there are [plenty of other steps](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party) that also require your time, attention, and effort. In short, the steps include:\n\n- __Deciding on a host.__ This individual or couple typically plans and pays for the party.\n- __Deciding on a date.__ If the engaged couple isn’t hosting, consult with them and other important guests on which date will work best.\n- __Compile a guest list.__ Likewise, work with the engaged couple to create this if they, themselves, aren’t planning and hosting.\n- __Decide on a theme.__ Your theme will aid you in choosing a venue, building a menu, and creating a schedule, if need be. If you’d like one, choose it now to ease the rest of the planning process.\n- __Research and book a venue.__ Make sure this aligns with the kind of celebration the couple wants to have. Also, ensure that potential engagement party venues can accommodate your entire guest list. Consider a simple engagement party at home if a venue isn’t in the budget. \n- __Create an online registry.__ While [engagement party gifts](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-an-appropriate-gift-for-an-engagement-party) aren’t typically expected, many guests may want to give one. Use Zola to [create a gift registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) and take the guesswork out of gifting.\n- __Send out invitations.__ For larger groups, formal paper [engagement party invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-invite-ideas) are typically recommended. However, smaller groups can be invited via email, Facebook event, text message, etc.\n- __Decide on a menu.__ Consult with your venue (if it’s a restaurant or similar) or [caterer](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-catering) to create a food and drink menu.\n- __Purchase engagement décor and stock up on partyware.__ Some themes and venues won’t require much embellishing. If yours does, DIY or gather any preferred [decor and party supplies](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/party-supplies-decor). Now’s also the time to compile any playlists you’ll want to have on.\n\n## Engagement party FAQs \nWith the planning process and themes down, you might still find yourself with a few lingering questions. Luckily, we’re here to provide you with answers.\n\n__Who throws the engagement party?__ Traditionally, the parents of the bride will plan, throw and pay for the engagement party. However, it can be done by any loved one—or, as more modern couples are deciding, the couple themselves. Check out our [Guide to Engagement Party Etiquette](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-hosts-an-engagement-party) for more details.\n\n__Who do you invite to an engagement party?__ It’s engagement party etiquette that everyone who’s invited to the engagement party is also invited to the wedding. This includes close family members and best friends of the couple. That being said, some couples may choose to celebrate with different groups at different times, thus having multiple engagement parties (e.g. after-work drinks with work friends and dinner with family). This is completely fine, too.\n\n__What do you do at an engagement party?__ Engagement parties are meant to celebrate an engaged couple. How you do that should reflect something they enjoy, be it party games, trivia, or an all-out soirée. Ensure guests will have a good time by providing food and perhaps something entertaining, like games, live music, or a movie viewing.\n\nGetting engaged is a milestone worth celebrating! Your close friends and family are able to come together for this special occasion, and you get to kick off this new adventure of [wedding planning](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning).\n\n## Ready to start planning the main event? \nStart your wedding planning journey by mapping out your [budget](https://www.zola.com/wedding-budget), finding a [venue](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues), and sending [save the dates](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/save-the-date/shop). Check out Zola’s [free suite of wedding planning tools](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning) that help make the entire planning process a breeze. We’re with you all the days along the way!","tag":"Inspiration","stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:40:58.765Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Engagement party","slug":"engagement-party"},"slug":"how-to-plan-an-engagement-party","title":"The Ultimate Guide to Plan an Engagement Party","excerpt":"Follow these step-by-step instructions for how to plan an engagement party to achieve guaranteed hosting success. ","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2019-02-02T03:36:20.747Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6gsqs04WfHnnZR5YSUGvch/ac4778019adadb17d985dc84e1ef3aff/Brand_Book_Yeti_03.jpg","altText":"Yeti cooler filled with bottles of sparkling rose wine and glasses filled with wine in the background"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com","body":"If you’re throwing an [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-an-engagement-party) for a newly engaged couple, you might feel a tad overwhelmed by the pressure to pull off a perfect soirée. After all, this might be the very first event that the pair has attended as an engaged couple, and the first in a series of celebrations leading up to their actual wedding. And since this party is being held in their honor, the couple might have high expectations as they ride the giddy high of being newly engaged. \n\nBut if you’ve hosted other parties in the past, then never fear: putting together an engagement party is a lot like planning a typical luncheon or mixer. If you need help with themes or inspiration, check out these [engagement party ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-ideas). Follow these step-by-step instructions on engagement party planning to achieve guaranteed hosting success. \n\n## What is an Engagement Party?\nBefore jumping into planning, let’s cover the basics. Namely, what an engagement party is and the purpose it serves. Just as the name implies, an engagement party is a party thrown to celebrate and congratulate a couple on getting engaged. It usually takes place soon after an engagement and can also serve to introduce loved ones that may be seeing a lot more of each-other between now and the wedding (say, at a bridal shower, rehearsal dinner, and on the big day). Think workplace friends and family members that haven’t met before.\n\nEngagement parties are traditionally thrown by the bride’s family, but modern couples can choose to host theirs themselves, as well as a variety of loved ones.\n\nIf you happen to be hosting, follow the below steps to ensure the engagement party runs smoothly and is an all-around success. \n\n![engagement-party-cheers](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NcBqknXzNb74xgrcfF7FI/e5144796ec84fab5228489d88e2dcd7c/engagement-party-cheers.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### 1. Decide Who Should Host The Engagement Party \nYour first step is to decide who will host. Traditionally, the bride’s parents host the engagement party, but nowadays anyone who feels compelled may throw this pre-wedding kickoff event. The couple themselves can even host their own engagement party, if they so choose. \n\nIf someone other than the bride’s parents plan to host, it’s a good idea to check in with them at the outset to make sure there are no stepped-on toes, and to confirm they are not also planning an engagement party. \n\nThat being said, having more than one engagement party is perfectly acceptable so long as the guest lists do not overlap beyond immediate family. Members of the wedding party can also be invited to both parties.\n\n### 2. Talk With The Couple About What Kind of Party They Want\nAs the party host, you are doing an act of kindness by throwing the pair an engagement party, and as such you have control over what kind of event you’d like to plan. However, getting the input of the couple ahead of time is always a good idea to make sure they will have a good time at the celebration in their honor. Do they want a daytime or an evening affair? Would they prefer something very casual, like a backyard BBQ, or something a tad fancier like a cocktail party? How large or small a party would they prefer? Ask them about their preferred engagement party themes, locations, and times before setting anything in stone. \n\n### 3. Set The Date and Location for The Engagement Party\nConsult with the bride/groom to nail down a date that works for everyone’s schedules, including any VIP guests that the couple would like to attend (such as parents and siblings). An ideal engagement party date should be anywhere from a few weeks to a month or two after the proposal. Engagement parties should occur before any other pre-wedding celebrations, however. \n\nThe location of an engagement party can really vary based upon preference. Decide if you would like the party to be at a private home or in a public space: the house or yard of the couple, one of their families, or a standalone host are all good options, as are private rooms or sections of local restaurants and bars. \n\n### 4. Assign a Rough Engagement Party Budget\nHaving a financial total in mind will help inform the rest of your decisions and keep expectations in line. If you have more money to spend, you could consider hosting an intimate group at a sit-down restaurant or splurging on catering services that include servers and bartenders. If your budget is tight, everyone will still have a blast toasting the happy couple in a backyard or living room over burgers and beers. \n\n### 5. Make an Engagement Party Guest List\nYour next step is to create an engagement party guest list. Have the couple give you a list of people they’d like to invite—or, if you’re hosting your own party, sit down with your fiancé(e) and make this list together. Include names, emails, phone numbers, and mailing addresses for all guests, as this will make sending out engagement party invitations much easier. \n\nRemember that everyone invited to the engagement party should also be invited to the wedding. If you’re not yet sure who will make the cut for your wedding guest list, err on the side of safety and invite only those people you’re absolutely sure will receive a wedding invitation, such as: \n\n- The bride/groom’s parents\n- The bride/groom’s siblings\n- Members of the wedding party \n- Very close friends of the bride/groom who live in proximity to the party location\n- Close relatives of the bride/groom who live in proximity to the party location\n\n### 6. Order Invitations (or Create Digital Invites)\nIf the engagement party will be smaller and/or on the formal side, [paper invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-invite-ideas) are a classy way to share the news about the party with invited guests. To be safe, order custom paper invitations at least six weeks before the party date so you’ll have plenty of time to receive them and mail them out. For less formal engagement parties, or those with larger guest lists, digital invitations work perfectly fine. \n\nSend invitations through the post or by email at least three weeks from the party date. Be sure to include the following information on the invitation: \n\n- The occasion, including the names of the bride(s)/groom(s)\n- The date, time, and location of the party\n- Suggested attire and/or an indication of formality\n- An RSVP method (either phone, email, or digitally for online invitations)\n- An RSVP deadline\n\n### 7. Register for Gifts \nBe sure the couple has set up a [Zola Wedding Registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) by the time the invitations are sent out. Although not required, it’s customary for guests to bring a gift for the happy pair. Registering early—before the engagement party–will ensure that guests can shop for, and the couple will receive, gifts that they truly want. \n\n![How Many Gifts to Register for Your Wedding](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1E1cy3nyuGNZUdTe31hinD/afbc1b096a4467d02b36e839dab7019a/inline_zola_lecreuset_lecreuset_16pc_dinnerware_set_carribean_01.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Zola\n\n### 8. Create The Menu and Order Catering, if Necessary \nCome up with a plan for what type of food will be served. If you’re throwing the engagement party at a restaurant, work with the event staff to create a menu that fits your budget. If you’re partying at a home, decide whether you are up to the challenge of cooking the party food yourself or whether you’ll need to hire a caterer, based upon the extravagance and size of the menu. \n\nIf you opt to have the party catered, research and hire a local caterer that can execute your menu ideas within your budget. Be sure to get a price quote and confirm delivery, setup, and service details so there are no surprises.\n\nIf the hosts are handling the food themselves, map out a timeline for when to shop for ingredients and supplies, when to prep, when to cook, and when to plate and serve the food. \n\n### 9. Choose a List of Beverages and/or Specialty Drinks to Serve\nThe kind of drinks you serve at an engagement party vary depending on the party’s location, theme, mood, and menu. It’s a great idea to find out what kinds of beverages the couple enjoys so you can be sure to choose a bar menu that reflects their tastes. Here are a few tips when it comes to drinks for an engagement party: \n\n- Be sure to stock up on plenty of bubbly! Engagement parties are prime occasions for lots of toasting and champagne-sipping. \n- Decide on one or two specialty cocktails that can be prepared in bulk in advance. This will cut down on the amount of time you or another host will need to spend making drinks for guests throughout the night. It’s a cute touch to include the couple’s favorite drink(s), either individually or together.\n- Buy bottles of wine, liquor, beer, mixers, sparkling water, mineral water, and/or juice at bulk retailers for better discounts. \n- Don’t forget bar accessories like festive straws, cocktail napkins, bottle openers, and cut lemons and limes.\n\n### 10. Decide Upon The Party Décor, and Shop for Any Needed Supplies\nAs we’ve said before, pretty much anything goes when it comes to the theme and formality of engagement parties. Come up with a few, key decorative elements to match the party vibe you’re going for, and shop for them now. This may include fresh flowers in pretty vessels, candles, garlands, balloons, framed photos of the couple, or anything else that coordinates with the look and mood you’ve got in mind. \n\n### 11. Stock Up on Partyware Essentials, such as: \n- Disposable plates, cups, and utensils\n- Napkins and table linens\n- Trash bags\n- Paper towels and stain remover, in case of spills \n- Ice & ice cooler\n\nOf course, if the engagement party is located at an event space, restaurant, or bar, some or all of these items might be covered by the venue. \n\n### 12. One Day Before, Set up as much as Possible (Based on the Location), Including: \n- Décor\n- The bar table/area\n- The gifts table/area\n- Make-ahead food & drink items \n\n### 13. On The Day of The Party: \n- Prep all the final details\n- Get dressed in your finest party clothes\n- Get to the party location a few hours early to finish setting everything up\n- Raise a glass to the happy couple and enjoy a wonderful engagement party! \n\n![Bachelor Party Decoration Must-Haves](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2DYhO5jGlyykOqqLbxDlJr/6be910a8d8b23887782859575b587b1d/inline_shutterstock2.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Shutterstock\n\n## Engagement Party Etiquette\nWith the steps of planning an engagement party covered, let’s walk through some [etiquette](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party). While putting the event together is one thing, there are a few courtesies worthy of reminders. Whether you’re unsure of who pays for what or who all gets invited, read on.\n\n### When should an engagement party be thrown?\nTypically, engagement parties take place fairly soon after an engagement, allowing everyone to celebrate in a timely matter. That being said, if you’re having a longer engagement or can’t gather everyone that soon, a small push back usually isn’t a problem.\n\n### Who’s invited to an engagement party?\nAs mentioned previously, anyone who’s invited to your engagement party should also be someone you plan on inviting to your wedding. This goes for all pre-wedding events, such as bach bashes, bridal brunches, and showers. If you aren’t sure of your full guest list yet, keep it to your family and closest friends.\n\n### Can a couple have more than one engagement party?\nIn short, yes. In fact, this is fairly common for couples with different hometowns and/or groups of friends who might also want to throw you something a bit more informal (e.g. after-work drinks or a smaller weekend get-together).\n\n### How should you go about a gift registry?\nWhile it’s a good idea to have a registry with a decent amount of items prepared, it isn’t in good etiquette to suggest that a gift is require (e.g. putting the link on the party invitations). Rather, if you’ve already created your wedding website, connect it to that. Otherwise, rely on word of mouth.\n\n### Who should meet before the engagement party?\nOne good reason to throw an engagement party is to allow people who will be seeing more of each other leading up to the wedding to meet. That being said, this isn’t the time or place for everyone to meet for the first time. Both sets of parents—as well as any close siblings—should meet prior, in a more intimate setting that allows them to comfortably talk at length.\n\nWedding planning often consists of putting together several celebratory events leading up to the big day. Keep this to-do list top-of-mind to ensure you pull of a fun and successful engagement party. And if you find yourself in need of some help in other stags of wedding planning, [we’ve got you covered](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice).","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_InvitesPaper"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Plan a bachelorette party that will delight your bride-to-be with this this step-by-step planning timeline that covers everything you need to think about, plan for, and arrange in advance for a great bachelorette weekend. 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","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-12-15T02:18:34.928Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5hHh4BzTMrcEMTF8JcGLD5/60cff28dd9c218fde75dba6d26c5f90c/Inline_stocksy.png","altText":"Wedding engagement party"},"heroCredit":"Stocksy","body":"Planning the engagement party is the first in a series of social events that are centered around the biggest one of them all––the wedding. The party itself is a way to celebrate the couple and their engagement. It's a chance for both friends and loved ones of the soon-to-be-married couple to come together and make a toast for the bride and groom’s new life together.\n\nWhen you've finally said “Yes” and people find out the great news, you’ll be flooded with good wishes. Having an engagement party is a great way to both celebrate this happy occasion, but is also a chance for members of the family from both sides, as well as close friends and members of the wedding party, to meet one another. \n\nThis might even mean that family members, such as your parents, are meeting for the first time. With the upcoming wedding, having a party to celebrate the engagement is a great way to set the tone and also get the ball rolling with some of the larger planning details that come with a wedding. It can also help ease the tension of everyone meeting extended family and friends in an intimate setting.\n\n## Do You Need One?\n\nThe larger intention behind the party is to have everyone come together to celebrate the engagement and to get to know one another from the couple's lives in a casual way. When you’re planning the party, it’s customary to host the gathering within two to three months of the engagement. This is also the period when getting engaged is still new and exciting. \n\n## How to Host an Engagement Party\n\nTimes have changed, and what was once a very stuffy and formal affair, has since morphed into a very individualistic event. The great thing about the party, and the wedding itself, is that it can be as formal or informal as you like. There are no hard or fast rules as to how to throw an engagement party, and it's really about doing what makes the most sense for you. \n\nWhether you're a relaxed kind of couple and prefer a BBQ in the backyard, or you want to spring for a seated dinner with formal attire, or head to your favorite restaurant or banquet hall, these are all great options depending on the kind of engagement party that you want to throw. It's really about coming together to celebrate you and your partner and the next chapter of your life.\n\nTraditionally, the bride's parents host the first official celebration, and sometimes the groom's parents host their part (and let’s be honest two parties are way more fun than one). Although this is what people have done in the past, it doesn't mean that you have to do it this way. In some cases, both sets of parents will throw a combined party, sometimes it's a close relative or even friends of the couple that takes on the honor. And, sometimes, even the engaged couple will host their party.\n\nThe party is really about bringing together everyone in your life that you care about and having them share in the excitement with you. One additional note about the party is that whoever is hosting is generally fitting the bill as well, so keep that in mind when you’re moving forward with your engagement party planning. \n\n## Keep the Event Slightly Understated\n\n![What Is an Engagement Party? | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2Yriwjjtr6mEpMFBCtHXkV/21cf4efb2fcb6a6729fa084fde622bc1/Inline_stocksy__1_.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Stocksy\n\nYou also don't want your engagement party to be the biggest event of all. Think about it as a prelude to the [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers) and the wedding, which is the most important event of them all. When coming up with the guestlist for the party, it helps to keep things on the smaller end, plus it makes it more manageable in the long run. Remember, not everyone you invite to a wedding needs to come to an engagement party. The larger point of the party is to have guests become acquainted with one another and to take part in this special moment with the happy couple. \n\nYou'll also want to give guests at least a month's notice so that they can plan accordingly. Remember to send out your [invitations](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop) (either through snail mail or digital) at least a month before. If you’re having guests from out-of-state, give them a six-week window so that they can plan their travel arrangements accordingly. \n\nAt the actual engagement party, everyone will meet and socialize over delicious food, drinks, and, sometimes, even engagement party games and dancing. It's a time for people to congratulate you, and typically you'll be given customized gifts echoing these sentiments. As the host of the party, you'll want to make sure that everyone is comfortable and that there’s enough food and beverages, seating, and all of the other elements that make a successful party. It’s also customary for whoever is hosting the event to give a toast to the soon-to-be bride and groom.\n\nThe party is meant to be fun and all about celebrating the new life that the bride and groom will have together. However, you choose to plan it, remember it’s about you and your partner at the end of the day. This is about your wedding journey, and the engagement party is just the kickoff of the next chapter in your life together.","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Throwing an engagement party and wondering who to invite? 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Craft heartfelt wishes that celebrate the bride-to-be in a special way.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2024-07-29T13:13-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1i6aeplGYDEzk7RquRxZ4K/388498136d2828ba63f64e25efd60cc2/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"What to write in a bridal shower card"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"__Inside this article:__\n\n- [Basic steps to writing a bridal shower card](#steps)\n- [General wedding shower card example](#sample)\n- [Simple shower card messages](#simple)\n- [What to write for a sister](#sister)\n- [What to write for a daughter-in-law](#daughter-in-law)\n- [What to write for a daughter](#daughter)\n- [What to write for a friend](#friend)\n- [What to write for a coworker](#coworker)\n- [Humorous bridal card messages](#card)\n- [Bridal shower quotes](#shower)","body":"__TLDR:__\n\n- A standard [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-vs-bridal-shower) card begins with congratulations, followed by compliments, personal stories, or encouragement, and ends with words of inspiration.\n- Keep things light or go super-sentimental, but remember the best bridal shower cards are personalized and come from the heart.\n- Don’t be afraid to use templates or examples for inspiration when writing a card for a daughter-in-law, sister, coworker, or friend.\n\n## Let's get to writing that bridal shower card\nLucky you—you’ve been invited to a [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-themes)! As you prepare to attend this festive pre-wedding party, you should be thinking of ways to help “shower” the bride-to-be with love, support, and encouragement on her route towards married life. \n\nA shower is supposed to be a special moment of togetherness for the bride where, surrounded by her closest family and friends, she’s able to forget about the stress of wedding planning and revel in the excitement of what lies ahead. However, you may find yourself wondering what to write in a bridal shower card. Yikes!\n\nBy following Zola's simple outlines of what to write, you’ll be sure to craft the perfect message. You could simply say, \"happy bridal shower,\" but there are so many other options to write in a bridal card. We're sure you can't wait to celebrate!\n\nAs a bridal shower guest, you can help her achieve these warm-and-fuzzy feelings by writing a lovely bridal shower message in a card attached to your gift. Below, find details and examples to help you to craft the perfect sentiment.\n\n![woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3kANG3FP0QuuQxkSb1vXSo/04ac6084f0e2c735c5a63d07f2e11f22/woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card.jpg)\n\n## How to write bridal shower card: basic steps\n\nWhile you should feel empowered to write whatever feels natural to you in your card, here are a few elements of a standard [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-traditions-updated) message that should make it easy for you to fill up that white space. Remember, the most important thing is to craft a message that feels personal, genuine, and reflects both your and the bride’s personalities and relationship. Celebrate the couple's true love and let them know they deserve all the happiness life has in store.\n\n__1. Begin with congratulations:__ Open your bridal shower message with the most basic of social graces. Offer your congratulations on her upcoming marriage, on finding the love of her life, on making it this far through wedding planning… whatever you feel she’ll appreciate the most.\n\n__2. Make her feel great:__ Offer the bride-to-be a compliment that will guarantee she feels amazing. You could tell her how beautiful she’ll look on her wedding day, or boost her confidence about the stellar choices she’s already made with the wedding details.\n\n__3. Share something personal:__ Perhaps you have a great memory about the beautiful bride that reflects her character strengths, the depth of your friendship, or how special her relationship is to her future spouse. The best card messages are the ones that feel thoughtful and unique, so don’t be afraid to get personal and write something from the heart.
\n\n__4. Offer encouragement:__ Since she’s about to embark on a major life journey, be sure to include well-wishes for her and her partner for a lifetime of happiness. Let her know you want her to have a wonderful and successful marriage ahead.\n\n__5. End with words of inspiration:__ Wrap up your bridal shower message with an uplifting thought, a piece of advice, or a quotation that leaves a lasting impression on the power of love and the beautiful, magical journey she’s about to take. \n\n## Bridal shower message example\n\nStaring at a blank card with a pen in hand? Lose your fear and get started by following this example of a bridal shower card message:\n\n*Dear Lauren,*\n\n*Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! I know you are going to make an absolutely stunning bride, and I simply can’t wait to see all of the beautiful wedding details that I know you’ve worked so hard to plan.*\n\n*I am so amazed and touched by the relationship you have created with Peter, and I know that the love you share runs very deep. From how you always encourage and support each other’s career goals, to the way you rock out on the dance floor together, I know you two will continue to find joy and strength in your shared love for years to come.*\n\n*I wish you nothing but a lifetime of laughter, happiness, and dance parties. As Gene Kelly said, “You dance love, and you dance joy, and you dance dreams.” Cheers to you and all the dancing to come! From your walk down the aisle, to the lifetime ahead, I'm excited to be part of your special day as you begin it together.*\n\n*Love,\nKate*\n\n![Creative Wedding Shower Invite Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5uwrWi9RcicSafmivDnAF3/2615a012fe6e66bc16954189d51980a7/INLINE_CreativeWeddingShowerInviteIdeas___.jpg)\n\n## Simple bridal shower messages\n\nSometimes less is more. Here are some examples of quick, simple messages to communicate your happy wishes.\n\n- So thrilled for you!\n- Cheers to a lifetime of love & happiness! You deserve it.\n- Congratulations on a wonderful partnership and years of happiness to come!\n- Showering you with the happiest of wishes!\n- Here’s to your special day! Thank you for letting me be a part of this joyous occasion.\n- Best wishes to you in this new chapter of your life!\n\n## Sample bridal shower wishes\nWhether you’re trying to keep things light, go super-sentimental, or remind the bride about your special relationship, there are tons of different bridal shower wishes you can share in your shower card. Get inspired with these sample messages for all types of moods and recipients. \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a sister\n\nA sister offers support and friendship, serves as a partner in crime, loans her favorite sweater, and knows the bride better than anyone else. A bridal shower card message should reflect the depth and nature of a sister-sister relationship, whether lighthearted or sentimental. \n- *My dear sister, can you believe this day has finally come? You have always been the sweetest little sister to me, and I can’t wait to watch you walk down the aisle. All my love, always!* \n- *From the time we used to play wedding in the backyard, to your many bad dates and terrible boyfriends I witnessed over the years, I am so thrilled that you’ve found the one to make you happy forever! You deserve all the happiness and love in the world.* \n- *Congratulations on being the most beautiful bride, sister, and friend in the world! I love you forever and am here for you always. Thank you for letting me be by your side throughout this wedding journey.*\n- *While I love Derek almost as much as I love you, we both know that the sister bond runs deep! Remember I have your back no matter what—but I know you will rock this marriage thing. Thank you for always being such a great big sister and role model. I love you!* \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a daughter-in-law\n\nWelcome your future daughter-in-law to the family and express your joy in continuing to build a relationship with her over the years to come. Feel free to share memories or thoughts about your son that would touch the bride’s heart.\n- *We are so lucky that our son has chosen you to be his lifelong partner! We can’t wait to see where love will take you both.* \n- *Welcome to the family! You are an incredible woman on your own, and we know you’ll make an even more incredible addition to our tribe. Congratulations!* \n- *I knew it would take a very special woman to serve as a match for Ash...and once I met you, I knew you were the one! I am so thrilled to welcome you into our family and wish the very best in all things for you both.* \n- *You are a stunning woman inside and out, and you will make a beautiful bride. We can’t wait for the big day and for all the years of love and togetherness that will follow.* \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a daughter\n\nWhat is more special than sending off a daughter into marriage? Share your heartfelt happiness, your advice on marriage, your memories of her as a child, and/or your wishes and hopes for the couple for the future in your bridal shower card. \n- *You fill my heart with light, and I am so thrilled that you have found someone to spend your life with. Congratulations on taking this next huge step!* \n- *My daughter, you’re an endless source of joy and love to me and your father, and I know Paul feels the same. Although you belong to each other now, we will always be here for you no matter what!* \n- *Every parent wants their child to find lifelong happiness, health, safety, and fulfillment—I know your future holds all these things and more with Jordan by your side. I couldn’t be more thrilled for you both, and can’t wait to see your love grow over the years!*\n- *Marriage is both an incredible blessing, and a lot of hard work. Through good times and bad, remember to be on the same team, listen as much as you talk, and never go to bed angry! Keep your love front and center, and I know you will have an incredible future together.* \n\n![mother-and-bride](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5hdzaDOVLWAJ92N9SUb7PF/cd6c9beea448954533c4d5c7430e0bd5/freshen-up-items.jpg)\n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a friend\n\nIf you’re writing a bridal shower card to [a friend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engaged-same-time-as-best-friend), let your message be personal and either funny or sweet (or both) depending on the nature of your friendship. Regardless of the tone, share your excitement for her big day, offer help or support as needed, and express your gratitude for being included. \n- *Congratulations! I am so happy for you both, and I know you will have the most amazing life together. Thanks for letting me share in the excitement!* \n- *As Beyoncé would say, may you always feel this “crazy in love.” Congratulations on a wonderful partnership and years of happiness to come!* \n- *Thank you so much for letting me take part in your celebration and “shower” you with love! Please let me know if there’s anything I can help you with leading up to the wedding.* \n- *Dear friend, I’m so glad you’ve found the one that makes your heart sing. I can’t wait to celebrate you both in a few months! Cheers to the most beautiful, smart, and kindest of brides.*\n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a coworker\n\nYou don’t have to go into great or complicated detail when writing a wedding shower card message to a coworker: keep it short, sweet, and simple. Offer your congratulations and share your enthusiasm and thanks for being included. \n- *I am so excited for you and Alex, and can’t wait for the big day! Thanks for including me in such a special celebration.* \n- *I remember the morning after your first date with Tom...you were glowing (and gushing!). I knew right then that you’d found your perfect match. I am so happy for you, and wish you both all the love in the world!* \n- *It’s clear that you and Taylor have a love that runs deep, and will last for a lifetime. Congratulations on your upcoming wedding and thank you for letting me play a small role in it! I’m so thrilled for you both.*\n- *As you make the transition from my “work wife” to a real wife, I know you will handle it with your characteristic grace, charm, and dedication. Congrats on this happy day, and best wishes for what’s to come!* \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card to be funny\n\nThere’s no rule that says you have to be serious when writing a shower card message. In all likelihood the bride will be reading a lot of heavy-handed and sentimental messages, so have some [fun with your words](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-write-in-a-wedding-card) to her… just be sure to keep things appropriate and respectful, of course. \n- *Best wishes for a lifetime of love, trust, and shared dishwashing duties!* \n- *You know I’m here for you no matter what, dear friend—even if that means tying ribbon around hundreds of tiny bottles of bubbles until 3 a.m. so that you can cross “wedding favors” off your to-do list. Happy wedding!* \n- *Wow, you’re getting married! Congratulations! Now that your love life is figured out, I expect you’ll have more time to help me figure out mine...kidding! But also, help me. Love you both and can’t wait for the wedding!* \n- *Congratulations on finding the match to your candle, the aloe to your sunburn, the Tabasco to your tacos. You two are a one hot match! Here’s to keeping the fire burning for years to come.* \n\n## Wedding shower quotes\n\nIf you’re coming up short on poetic ways to share your bridal shower wishes, don’t sweat. Talented wordsmiths have been talking about love and marriage for centuries, so let the pros express your thoughts for you with one of these bridal shower quotes. \n\n- “A happy marriage is a long conversation which always seems too short.” — Andre Marois\n- “True love is singing karaoke Under Pressure and letting the other person sing the Freddie Mercury part.” — Mindy Kaling\n- “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” — Mignon McLaughlin\n- “Who, being loved, is poor?” — Oscar Wilde\n- “Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.” — Maya Angelou\n- “If I had a flower for every time thought of you… I could walk through my garden forever.” — Alfred Tennyson\n- “Love is a two-way street constantly under construction.” — Carroll Bryant\n- “Every heart sings a song, incomplete, until another heart whispers back. Those who wish to sing always find a song. At the touch of a lover, everyone becomes a poet.” — Plato\n- “Sexiness wears thin after a while, and beauty fades. But to be married to a man who makes you laugh every day, now that’s a real treat.” — JoAnne Woodward\n- “Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.” — Emily Brönte\n- “Love is sharing your popcorn.” — Charles Schultz\n- “Before you marry a person, you should first make them use a computer with slow Internet service to see who they really are.” — Will Ferrell\n- \"To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe.\" — Anatole France\n- “I love being married. It's so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.” — Rita Rudner\n- \"Love must be as much a light as it is a flame.\" — Henry David Thoreau\n\n![Bridal Shower Registry and a Wedding Registry](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1EAKrUV9HfOuHzMJqB3SZL/43ba9cdf14f656eeafa3cf6899bfd85a/Hero_Zola__1_.jpg)\n\n## Ready to head to the wedding shower?\nNow that you know what to write in a bridal shower card, you may have other burning questions. Whether you're wondering what to give as a [bridal shower gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-shower-gifts) (\nhint: check their [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry)!) or need to know [what to wear](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-bridal-shower) to the event for the bride-to-be, Zola has you covered. 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Explore outfit ideas, styles, and tips to shine as you celebrate the bride-to-be's special day","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2018-12-14T15:19:13.906Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3jyBNag7G8oqQco0QaI2om/840a6c239ab9c319db87cd86af04841b/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"What to wear to a bridal shower"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding-photographers/marni-rothschild-pictures/","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- Pastels, neutrals, florals, and bright celebratory colors are the way to go. And if there’s going to be games opt to wear something comfortable.\n- Avoid wearing white, black, or anything that may detract from the wedding festivities.\n- Bridal showers can range from formality, location, and season, so be sure to dress to fit the occasion.\n","body":"Choosing an outfit for a bridal shower is really no different than choosing what to wear to any other party. You’ll want to match the formality and season, be comfortable, look great, and photograph well in whatever you choose to wear. \n\n## Basic Rules for Bridal Shower Fashion\n \nWhile bridal showers can vary in terms or formality & theme, there are some bridal shower looks that will always fit the vibe:\n- Dress to impress, even if the theme is casual\n- Wear pastels, neutrals and bright colors to match the celebratory tone of the occasion\n- Floral prints are a great go-to\n- Wear something comfortable in case there are bridal shower games\n- Accentuate a neutral dress or top with bold shoes or accessories\n\n### What NOT to Wear to a Bridal Shower\n \n1. Don’t wear white. This wedding guest rule of etiquette applies to bridal showers as well. Since the bride-to-be often wears white to her shower, you don’t want to seem like you’re competing for her spotlight.\n\n2. Don’t wear black. Your bridal shower look should be celebratory, festive, and happy—black is a bit too somber and/or “date night out” to wear to a bridal shower. If you’re set on dark colors, opt for a softer gray or navy. \n\n3. Don’t wear anything too tight, sexy, or revealing. A bridal shower is not the time to flaunt your, um, assets. Since the guest list is usually all women, and since this event is technically part of the wedding festivities, keep things buttoned up. \n\nBut since bridal showers can come in all shapes and sizes—no two are the same—deciphering the dress code can be tricky. To help you choose a perfectly appropriate and flattering ensemble, we’ve outlined suggestions below for what to wear to a variety of different types of bridal showers based on their location, season, and formality. \n\n \n## What to Wear to a Fancy Bridal Shower\nLook for clues on your invitation to tell if a bridal shower will be on the fancier side. Invitation wording is generally a good indicator of formality: if numbers and abbreviations are spelled out, or if phrases like “request the pleasure of your company” are used, this is probably going to be a more formal bridal shower. Also look to see if the invitation provides words about the dress code, such as “festive” or “cocktail attire.” \nFor fancier bridal showers at upscale venues like country clubs, hotels, or restaurants, opt for cocktail attire, such as: \n- A cocktail (i.e. knee-length) dress\n- A pair of flowy, silk pants, a blouse, and a jacket\n- A sparkly pencil skirt, dark tights, and a cashmere sweater\n- A pair of satin ankle-length pants, a velvet blazer, and heels \n- Include accessories such as: \n - More formal, glitzy jewelry (real or costume)\n - A clutch or small purse\n\n## What to Wear to a Casual Bridal Shower\n\nIf the bridal shower is more casual, keep your outfit polished and festive but tone down on the level of formality. For example, swap out heels for ballet flats, if you’ll be more comfortable, or go for daytime fabrics like cotton, wool, and denim. Here are some ideas: \n\n- A gingham wrap dress\n- A pair of nice jeans, a floral top, and a faux fur vest\n- A denim shirt dress with knee-high boots\n- A summery jumpsuit \n- Include accessories such as: \n - Delicate jewelry\n - A crossbody purse or leather satchel ","body2":"## What to Wear to a Backyard Bridal Shower\n\nBackyard bridal showers are by nature less formal, although it’s never safe to assume that a bridal shower at a private home is casual. It’s a good idea to check in with the host(s)—if you’re attending an elegant garden party for high tea, showing up in jeans and Pumas would be embarrassing. Here are a few ideas for put-together looks suitable for a variety of seasons: \n\n- A flowing sundress \n- A pair of colored chinos and a structured top\n- A pair of dark jeans, a boho blouse, and ankle booties\n- A pleated midi skirt, a nice tank, and a linen jacket \n- Include accessories such as: \n - A wide-brimmed sun hat\n - Sunglasses\n - Sandals or wedges\n\n## What to Wear to a Restaurant Shower\n\nWhat you should wear to a bridal shower that’s held in a restaurant is really determined by the type and formality of the restaurant. If it’s a casual barbecue joint with outdoor picnic tables, opt for similar ideas to the casual or backyard showers above. If it’s a white tablecloth kind of restaurant, match the ambiance with an outfit that’s classy and chic, such as: \n\n- A lace sheath dress \n- An off-the-shoulder maxi dress\n- Matching separates, like a satin jacket and pajama-style pants\n- High-waisted trousers with a tie-neck blouse\n- Include accessories such as: \n - Block heels\n - Bright lipstick \n\n## What to Wear to a Fall or Winter Bridal Shower\n\nStick to rich, warm, or dark colors for bridal showers in the fall and winter months. Think burgundy, rust, navy, gray, brown, taupe, and forest green. Most showers during these months will be indoors, so don’t worry too much about outerwear, but reflect the season with long sleeves and hemlines and heavier fabrics. 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Grab a pen—it’s time to spread the love!","author":"Emily Forrest and Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2024-04-10T09:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5GlWzMJKN61eHNXPxPVuI0/777bc1e0c90ceed6c32544b05d5a8312/Bridal-Shower-Thank-You-Card-Etiquette.jpg","altText":"Zola wedding thank you card graphic"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"__Inside this article:__\n\n- Bridal shower thank you card etiquette\n- 3 Things to consider before writing bridal shower thank you cards\n- Bridal shower thank you template\n- Bridal shower thank you card wording examples\n- FAQs about bridal shower thank you messages\n- Trust Zola with your stationery needs","body":"At the [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers), your friends and family members “showered” you with love and generous presents. Now it’s time to let your loved ones know how much you loved celebrating with them—and how much you appreciate the beautiful gifts you received—with a heartwarming [thank you card](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop). The task is easier said than done, especially if you struggle translating gratitude into written bridal shower thank you messages.\n\nBut don’t let writing bridal shower thank you notes cause you undue stress: we have the answers to all your gratefulness-centric etiquette questions, complete with [wording ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-invitation-wording) for what to write on your [bridal shower card](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers). \nGrab a pen—and that stack of blank thank you cards—let’s get to writing.\n\nNeed help writing wedding thank you notes instead? See our guide on [how to word wedding thank you cards](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-write-wedding-thank-you-cards).\n\n## Bridal shower thank you card etiquette \n\nNavigating all the rules for writing a thank you note can be a bit overwhelming, especially when you’re in the throes of [planning your wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-wedding), too. But there’s no need to stress—we’ve broken down the most important things to know below.\n\n- Dos \n - Write the note by hand to express your thoughtfulness. \n - Use a blank [thank you card](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop). \n - Keep a record of who attended and gave a bridal shower gift. \n - Plan what you’re going to say before writing. \n\n- Don’ts\n - Write too much. \n - Be critical of the gift (or the lack of a gift). \n - Mention the specific amount given for monetary gifts. \n\n## 3 Things to consider before writing bridal shower thank you cards \n\nBefore you begin writing, there are a few key questions you should ask yourself that will make crafting your thank you note easier.\n\n### 1. What is your relationship to the guest?\n\nIf you’re close with the guest, such as a bridesmaid or your best friend, your message should be personal and heartfelt. However, if you don’t know the guest well or just met them for the first time, a short and sweet thank you note is fine.\n\n### 2. Do you send a bridal shower thank you for someone who didn’t attend?\n\nIf the guest was able to celebrate with you in person, make sure to mention this in your thank you note. If they could not attend, let them know how much you missed them, and acknowledge their gift, of course.\n\n### 3. Did the guest provide a gift? \n\nIf so, what was it? Bridal shower thank you notes are required for every guest that attended your bridal shower, whether they brought a present or not. However, if a guest did purchase a gift, it’s important to specifically mention it in your note (see more on this below). The same goes for guests who mailed a gift but were unable to attend the party.\n\n![Thank You Card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5j6S7jfWH2TYKe8CEEnABO/97c2cfac5062b573a3f13a09f3b050e6/Invites_Jan2019_14.jpg)\n\n## Bridal shower thank you template \n\nNext, let’s look at the basic anatomy of thank you notes for bridal showers. Sticking to these six simple steps will structure your bridal shower thank you message and help reduce time spent mulling over how you should express your gratitude. \n\n### 1. Address them using their name.\n\n- Audra\n- Mrs. Jones\n\n### 2. Thank them for their presence.\n\n- Thank you so much for celebrating with me at my bridal shower!\n- I’m so grateful that you could be there to join me on this special day.\n\n### 3. Thank them for the gift.\n\n- Thank you so much for the beautiful set of cheese knives.\n- We so appreciate our new set of wine glasses.\n\n### 4. Share what you love about their present.\n\n- They’ve been such a great addition to our weekly cheese and charcuterie date night.\n- We think about you every Saturday when we pour ourselves a glass of wine and work on planning our upcoming wedding.\n\n### 5. Show your appreciation for them as a person.\n\n- Your friendship means so much to us. Thanks again for your support as we journey into married life together.\n- It was so fun to see you at the shower. We can’t wait to continue the celebration with you at our wedding.\n\n### 6. Sign off.\n- With love, Finny & Spencer\n- Cheers, Lynne & Toby\n\n![Thank You Card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5j6S7jfWH2TYKe8CEEnABO/97c2cfac5062b573a3f13a09f3b050e6/Invites_Jan2019_14.jpg)\n\n## 8 Bridal shower thank you card wording examples \n\nTo get the ink flowing, check out these simple bridal shower thank you [wording examples](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-word-wedding-invitations) for how to word thank you notes for all kinds of situations.\n\n### 1. Thank you message for a registry gift\n\nDear Molly,\nThank you so much for coming to my bridal shower last Saturday! We’re so grateful for the beautiful tea towels you gave us. They already make a great addition to our kitchen.\nYour friendship means so much to us and we can’t wait to celebrate with you at the wedding in a few weeks.\nLove, Kieran & Tina\n\n### 2. Bridal shower thank you messages for cash gifts\n\nDear Aunt Diana,\nIt was a true delight to see you at the shower. Thank you so much for your generous gift. We’ve just booked a glass bottom boat ride during our upcoming honeymoon, thanks to you. We’ll tell you all about the experience when we see you this Thanksgiving!\nThanks again for the support you’ve shown us throughout our engagement. We look forward to hitting the dance floor with you on the big day.\nAll our love, Emma & Julian\n\n### 3. Thank you wording for a gift you exchanged, didn’t like, or was awkward\n\nDear Mila,\nHow wonderful to see you at the bridal shower! Thank you for the bagel toaster you gave us. It was very generous, and we appreciate you thinking of us.\nLooking forward to having you at the wedding next month. We know that many more great memories will be made with you there!\nLove, Tessa & Will\n\n### 4. Bridal shower thank you message for someone who didn’t give a gift\n\nDear Beatriz,\nThank you for celebrating with me at my shower! I hope that you had an amazing time. It was great to see you there and catch up.\nThank you again for being there to honor this special time with us. Can’t wait to see you at the wedding!\nLove always, Ronan & Adrienne\n\n### 5. Thank you wording for someone who didn’t attend but sent a gift.\n\nDear Goldie,\nThank you so much for the beautiful luggage. We’ve already used the carry-ons at our weekend getaway in New York last weekend, and we can’t wait to show off these stylish suitcases on our honeymoon to Italy this spring.\nWe missed you at the shower, but we are so excited to see you at the wedding. Thank you again for the thoughtful gift!\nLove, Rebecca & Hannah\n\n### 6. Bridal shower message for a close friend\n\nDear Susie,\nThank you for celebrating with me at the bridal shower. Toby and I appreciate the awesome French press and coffee beans you gave us. We can’t help but think of you every time we sip our morning brew.\nYou have no idea how much your love has meant to us over the years. It will make our day so special to have you in the crowd on the big day, and we’re excited to see you bust one of your famous moves on the dance floor!\nMuch love, Lynne & Toby\n\n### 7. Bridal shower thank you messages for formal acquaintances\n\nDear Mrs. Perdu,\nPlease accept our sincere thanks for the beautiful picture frames you gave us. They make a lovely addition to our mantle, and we are looking forward to using them to display our favorite memories in the years to come.\nIt meant so much to us that you could attend the shower. Your kindness is appreciated, and we look forward to seeing you at the wedding.\nSincerely, Finny & Spencer\n\n### 8. Thank you note for the bridal shower host\n\nDear Amar,\nWords can’t express how truly grateful we are for the shower you planned and hosted. From the balloon display to the delicious cake pops, every detail was perfect. None of it would have been possible without you. Thank you for always being such an amazing friend and for supporting us through every detail of planning our wedding. Having you in our lives has made this special time even more meaningful.\nWe can’t wait to have you join us as we exchange our vows and journey into married life. Thanks again for everything you do.\nWith love, Audra & Charles\n\n![woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3kANG3FP0QuuQxkSb1vXSo/04ac6084f0e2c735c5a63d07f2e11f22/woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card.jpg)\n\n## FAQs about bridal shower thank you messages \n\n### When do I send bridal shower thank you cards? \n\nBridal shower thank you messages should be sent to each individual who attended your bridal shower and/or purchased a gift no more than two weeks after the date of the party.\n\n__Pro Tip:__ Purchase thank you cards before the bridal shower—especially if you’re using a custom design—so you already have them on hand immediately following the celebration.\n\n### Who should sign bridal shower thank you cards?\n\nAlthough it may feel like the gift was given just to you, bridal shower thank you cards should be signed by you and your partner. The only exception to this rule is when you receive a gift that’s clearly meant for only you (think lingerie, spa gift card, or other bride-centric gifts).\n\n### Can I combine wedding and bridal shower thank you messages?\n\nThe short answer? No. A different thank you note should be written for each event (bridal party, wedding ceremony, or even a baby shower) a guest attends, regardless of whether they brought a gift each time.\n\n## Trust Zola with your stationery needs \n\nNow that you’re well-versed in [etiquette](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-invitation-etiquette-top-mistakes-to-avoid-or-zola), don’t stop there! Zola can take care of all your [wedding paper needs](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/invites-paper/invitations). 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Find out in our latest guide.","author":"Shira Telushkin","publishedAt":"2021-02-10T15:59:41.993Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/LIMh0JnOloe51GM6q34L0/3326f8e7211fde5ad12d79776a17b8f6/Hero_IndustrialWeddingAtStAugustineChurchAnd26Bridge_SarahZimmermanPhoto.jpg","altText":"Bachelorette Party vs Bridal Shower"},"heroCredit":"Sarah Zimmerman Photo","body":"![Bachelorette Party vs Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5FZjHYn3xodt1GyCdHwa4g/204ec420c4862dfa06d48bdfd6be164e/inline_shutterstock2.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Shutterstock\n\nThere are so many events that happen before the actual wedding day itself. The engagement party, the wedding shower, and the bachelorette party. But, when it comes to the wedding shower and the bachelorette party, it's not always clear how to differentiate between the two events. \n\n## Bridal Shower vs. Bachelorette Party: Are the Wedding Shower and the Bachelorette Party the Same?\n\nNope, bridal showers and bachelorette parties are not the same thing. Bridal showers are meant to prepare the bride-to-be for her future life as a married woman, whereas a bachelorette party is meant for the bride to de-stress, celebrate, and enjoy her present pre-married life.\n\nAdditionally, wedding showers are hosted parties, where the host pays for the event—including the food, catering, decorations, and anything else—and invites the guests, whereas bachelorette parties are often co-hosted by the friends of the bride. \n\nWith bridal showers, it’s very common and often expected, that guests will arrive with gifts. These gifts are typically related to the home or the life between the new couple. The wedding shower is traditionally hosted by a friend or family member close to the bride and is often an afternoon or late morning affair. \n\nThe bachelorette party is usually a weekend away or a night out that is planned by the bride’s close friends, and, typically, her maid of honor. Though a thoughtful gesture, [bachelorette party gifts](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/9-bachelorette-party-gifts-for-the-bride) are usually not the main focus of the night. The focus is on ensuring that the bride has fun and enjoys herself. You may ask, [who pays for the bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-pays-for-the-bachelorette-party)? As compared to the wedding shower, the costs are usually split between the event attendees.\n\n## Who Is Invited to the Wedding Shower, and Who Is Invited to the Bachelorette Party? \n\nThe wedding shower typically includes a wide assortment of guests who are connected to the bride. Traditionally, the wedding shower guest list only extends to women guests, although today wedding showers increasingly will include male friends of the bride. The guests often include the bride’s female cousins, aunts, and extended family members; female family friends of her parents; and female members of her religious community or another group in which she participates. All ages are included in the wedding shower guest list. Some brides may also invite co-workers if they’re close, but this is not expected in most situations. \n\nThe bachelorette party almost always includes the wedding party, and then the bride’s close friends. Traditionally, bachelorette parties only included women's friends, but today the bride might want to include friends of all genders. The bachelorette party might be organized by one of the bridesmaids or the maid of honor, but the costs are usually shared by all the guests attending. \n\nA wedding shower is an event that usually includes a wider range of guests than the bachelorette party. The guest list is ultimately up to the host, as she is the one planning the event and opening her home. However, the host will likely consult with the bride to ensure that there are no mix-ups or hurt feelings. Older and younger female relatives should be invited to the wedding shower, but in most cases would be out of place at the bachelorette party. Some social friends of the bride might have no interest in attending the wedding shower, but would be appropriate guests for the bachelorette party. \n\n## What Happens at a Wedding Shower vs. a Bachelorette Party?\n\n![Bachelorette Party vs Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1TdhwA5VmBESvBQ5m0ro5g/52f1a00b392a4d619745974fda7309d2/inline_shutterstock3.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Shutterstock\n\nThe wedding shower includes the opening of gifts, sometimes toasts by some of her female relatives (such as her mother, aunt, or sister), and certain games or activities related to her soon-to-be-married life. The tone of the event should be appropriate to the diverse range of guests, which might include older, conservative family members or co-workers. The wedding shower is about celebrating the bride’s new life as part of a couple and is often focused on her broader community. \n\nBachelorette parties include fun activities planned by the bride’s friends, games related to the bride and her soon-to-be life partner, and social bonding. The bachelorette party is not suited for friends or family that are not part of the bride’s social circle, and often include activities that incorporate [bachelorette party game questions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-game-questions-youll-love) that are a little more raunchy or intimate than what would happen at the wedding shower. The bachelorette party is really about fun and joy and focused entirely on the bride and her friends before she becomes a married woman. \n\nKnowing the difference between a wedding shower and a bachelorette party will help ensure that you plan the perfect event for each occasion. \n\n__The Best Winter Bachelorette Party Ideas__\n\n- COZY CABINS!!\n- snowman competitions\n- spa retreat -- no better time than when it is miserable out there\n- sledding!\n- smores and fire \n- ice skating \n- matching cozy flannel pajamas or gloves \n- cabin with a hot tub\n- winter festival \n- face masks, hair masks \n\n__8 Best Bachelorette Party Destinations: __\n\n- Vegas \n- Mexico City \n- Montreal \n- Cruise \n- New Orleans\n- Austin, TX\n- Charleston, SC\n- Miami\n- Nashville\n- Savannah, Georgia \n\n__Bachelorette Party Game Questions__\n\n“Who knows you best?”\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Discover unique bachelorette party gifts for the bride-to-be. Explore thoughtful ideas to make her celebration even more special.\n","title":"25 Best Bachelorette Gifts For The Bride","slug":"bachelorette-party-gifts-for-the-bride","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3Xtz5BdOXSAMpt2mOtHAgf/f40eeda1448084d60932d268ec036ac5/Hero_Zola__21_.jpg","altText":"Illustration graphic of 12 gift bags with hearts on them and tissue paper peeking out of each one"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Deciding who pays for the bachelorette party can be a tricky conversation. Zola has you covered with an easy guide on who pays for the bachelorette party.","title":"Who Pays for the Bachelorette Party?","slug":"who-pays-for-the-bachelorette-party","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7kymfQsB1obkfDJRpMpa0L/0d56f318df5fc4cb58dec99ca03248a1/Hero_Zola__20_.jpg","altText":"Who Pays for the Bachelorette Party"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Headed off to a bachelorette party? Make sure that you’re dressed right with our easy guide on what to wear.","title":"What to Wear to a Bachelorette Party + 20 Outfit Ideas","slug":"what-to-wear-to-a-bachelorette-party","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"How To","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6wKA0OtqK2vpOznYnbN0Lf/0d658df4574d04c4fb097916030b3e85/Hero_Zola__19_.jpg","altText":"What to Wear to a Bachelorette Party"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"When planning a bachelorette, timing is essential. Read on to learn about when you should have a bachelorette party!.","title":"When Should You Have a Bachelorette Party?","slug":"when-should-you-have-a-bachelorette-party","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6Bam9xC60EjdGmXDTueWIr/3f4a1a83de97aee9d94f696de04d18a3/Hero_Zola__18_.jpg","altText":"When Should You Have a Bachelorette Party"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Planning a bachelorette party can be easy! With the help of our bachelorette party checklist, planning a bach weekend is a breeze. ","title":"Our Ultimate 2025 Bachelorette Party Checklist","slug":"bachelorette-party-checklist","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4Hz4P0xKJr9Xlm7WmFWLDU/ef7c3fb560b76973a28a5acf71247617/bachelorette-party-checklist-hero.jpeg","altText":"Four people enjoying champagne on a rooftop, likely attending a bachelorette party and having used a bachelorette party checklist to plan their trip."},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:57.217Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding shower","slug":"wedding-shower"},"slug":"bridal-shower-themes","title":"38 Bridal Shower Themes for Modern Couples","excerpt":"From elegant tea parties to the casual bonfire, plan your perfect party with creative bridal shower themes for the modern couple. ","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2024-10-03T10:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/76ZaCVd5YdZKoKivIuHdcz/a27134cd9c6c2c5c0caf8ec2a2e3542d/40-Bridal-Shower-Themes-for-Modern-Couples.jpg","altText":"bridal shower theme ideas"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"__Inside this article:__\n- Elegant Bridal Shower Themes\n- Adventurous Couple's Shower Themes\n- Fun Bridal Shower Themes\n- Laidback Wedding Shower Themes\n- Unique Bridal Shower Themes\n- Fall Bridal Shower Themes\n- Winter Bridal Shower Themes\n- Spring Bridal Shower Themes\n- Summer Bridal Shower Themes\n","body":"The bridal shower is a celebration of the bride-to-be that welcomes both family and friends to the party. Traditionally it's been a girls-only event, but many modern couples are opting to plan a joint __[couple's shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/coed-wedding-shower)__. Of course, you're welcome to extend a bridal shower invitation to anyone you'd like to celebrate your upcoming wedding.\n\nOne of the first steps of planning a bridal or couple's shower is choosing your party’s theme. There’s no end to theme opportunities, and you can plan any activity or decor you like. (Just keep in mind that this isn’t the __[bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-themes)__ and that your grandmother may be there, so keep things PG.)\n\nFrom tea time to beach bash, check out all 38 bridal shower theme ideas below.\n\n## Elegant Bridal Shower Themes\n \nAn elegant bridal shower is perfect for the classic couple who wants to celebrate with a beautiful and traditional party. The entertainment is food, conversation, and maybe some light party games, and the decor is chic and simple. If you’re interested in an elegant celebration, browse these bridal shower themes below:\n\n### 1. Garden Gala\nStart with a beautiful venue and host a garden party as everything’s beautiful and blooming. Light snacks, cocktails, and some fun games are all you need to make this party a hit. Nothing is simpler or more classy than a garden party.\n\n![Bridal Shower Themes](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7yiXszW9spLVh3NAgWaiDc/b49db3433730ecf4baa8e7e400bd1c65/1-bridal-shower-themes-sign-mockup.jpg) Photo via Zola\n\n[![Bridal Shower Themes](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5jrzVWHcWQyVfxHAfi6Y01/31913e407f44d97bd13e727f9150536a/bridal-shower-themes-download-wedding-signs.png)](//downloads.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/fwXHlwxQdHWAAXwgxeCh1/49397648ea58fc70d51d0aedf9c21e42/Zola-Wedding-Signs.pdf)\n\n### 2. Minimalist Mixer\nMinimalism is super trendy and a great way to gather reusable decorations. When it comes to bridal shower decorations, less is more! Choose small centerpieces like lanterns and succulents, and place signs with simple calligraphy on a plain or acrylic background. A beautiful venue will carry most of the weight for a minimalist party.\n\n![Minimal Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5q6xmBITOmc4DWRcXWhBOi/2e1aa9e4efc21fd3e3b238ba8c1fedcb/Minimal_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Captured By Maleah Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/captured-by-maleah-photography)\n\n### 3. Party in Paris\nAh, Paris—it’s everything classic romance and makes for a sophisticated party theme. French stripes, signs in French, and Eiffel Tower statuettes are easy, go-to decor. And, of course, what's a French shower without French food. Plenty of pastries, macarons, and a charcuterie board are delicious snacks that will elevate the party—and don’t forget __[wine to pair](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/cake-and-wine-pairings)__!\n\n![2-bridal-shower-themes-paris (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2e7KnLIYDt2NtZRgOmvqxn/0b729e16b72a89b46bfdd25132897078/2-bridal-shower-themes-paris__1_.jpg)\n\n### 4. Vintage Soiree\nThrow a party ‘70s style, or with whichever decade aesthetics you prefer. This is a perfect bridal shower theme for repurposing old furniture and decor. Collect vintage and intricate frames, as well as funky bottles and fabrics for tables and tapestries. Have your guests dress for the decade as inspiration to really throw it back.\n\n![3-bridal-shower-themes-vintage-soiree (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/017rex1qXGEnZzWT2m0s6g/77a8d8848078898fb540497f1420dc95/3-bridal-shower-themes-vintage-soiree__1_.jpg)\n\n### 5. Glitz and Glamor\nPlan a more sophisticated evening party with glittered cocktail attire and hors d’oeuvres. Host a wine tasting as entertainment and decorate with a simple floral arrangement, candles, anything that sparkles, and a few gold accents for a glam party with your friends.\n\n![Glitz and Glamour Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6RMLJtnEBIUaFwSBLnJcdY/1c715d96d5f333bf1d59a23cc52f1892/Glitz_and_Glamour_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Marigny Opera House](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/marigny-opera-house)\n\n[![bridal-shower-themes-download-elegant-moodboard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7BipeOW1c8F2p7ikTQ0sw4/542c210743e108da3a39d64fc17bdf73/bridal-shower-themes-download-elegant-moodboard.png)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2m4kDmJrQIGULTpnGbNR7W/424b9209b627676de73f6450b2a8ec30/bridal-shower-themes-elegant.png)\n\n## Adventurous Couple’s Shower Themes\n \nIf you’re looking for unique bridal shower themes, engaging games, and an energizing party atmosphere, then these adventurous themes are for you. These bridal shower themes are great for representing you as a couple and celebrating the things you love most:\n\n### 6. Boho Bash\nBohemian themes and decor are perfect for the casual couple. The best part of a boho bash is that there are plenty of opportunities to use thrifted and repurposed decor, so you can save some money and stay __[eco-friendly](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/eco-friendly-wedding)__. Grab some decorative frames for signs, boho pillows for seating, and plenty of wildflowers for a flower crown and the centerpieces.\n\n![Boho Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2ZIwL2JKvzbbJi4xn5WtlG/501c0a63621d87519543628fce7de13c/Boho_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Chellise Michael Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/chellise-michael-photography)\n\n### 7. Happily Ever After\nWhat’s better than a fairytale party for your happily ever after? Greenery, fairy lights, books, and some nods to your favorite fairytale stories will bring this theme to life. You can go with a bridal shower theme around the master of happily ever after—Disney. Choose your favorite Disney stories and characters and get creative—set each table with a different centerpiece theme, or dive in with a costume party and dress as your favorite Disney couple.\n\n![Fairytale Wedding Shower Theme](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4tQZwB8Typlp1NkHwPUjaw/9d4c131a3b31799944c5aac361212dfa/Fairytale_Wedding_Shower_Theme.jpg) Photo via [Woolverton Inn](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/woolverton-inn)\n\n### 8. Travel-Themed Bridal Shower\nCelebrate life’s big adventure with a trip around the world themed shower. Luggage, globes, and maps are all great decor pieces that are easy to find and use. Serve international favorites with their national flags, and include global monuments in your decor—like the Sphinx, Eiffel Tower, Leaning Tower of Pisa, or the Taj Mahal.\n\n![6-bridal-shower-themes-around-the-world](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2PesuuJAEbJprzovDEmOY8/0597ced533d88f51e533319c45cb7ef0/6-bridal-shower-themes-around-the-world.jpg)\nPhoto by [Kati Rosado](http://katirosado.com/contact)\n\n### 9. Mexican Food and Fun\nIf the bride is a Mexican cuisine enthusiast, then a Mexican-themed fiesta could be the perfect option for a bridal shower. Create a build-your-own taco bar and pair the food with refreshing margaritas (frozen or one the rocks—bride’s choice!).\n\n![Mexican Themed Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6vMw8hDdFoLPzxr6o5pvcC/c4f6438c362ff545850ac1e4c3d6b5f8/Mexican_Themed_Party.jpg) Photo by [JamsCreative Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/jamscreative-photography)\n\n### 10. Drama and Dancing\nDress up and get to dancing! Have everyone dress their best and decorate with rich jewel tones and dramatic lighting. The most important part is the perfect playlist everyone will enjoy, so take suggestions from your guests leading up to the party. Prepare fun cocktails and plenty of snacks, and you’re ready to go.\n\n![Wedding Dance Ladies](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2awo4Idmo8V3xaDcRB8QUZ/05b6bff2712a8a908e5a89d008aebba7/Wedding_Dance_Ladies.jpg) Photo by [Joyce Li Photo](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/joyce-li-photo)\n\n### 11. Under the Sea\nIf you’re all-in on the mermaid aesthetic, this may be the theme for you. Cool color palettes and some iridescent or silver metallics are your theme’s core. Gather seashells, glass pieces, and simple greenery arrangements for centerpieces. This is a great chance to repurpose wine bottles as candlestick holders with sand and shells inside—then let guests take home the marine-themed decor as bridal party favors.\n\n![Under the Sea Beach Wedding Table](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6a82w3p1nGjU31X39fG0rj/5919702498a7bfb3abe84682697cc462/Under_the_Sea_Beach_Wedding_Table.jpg) Photo by [Krystal Zaskey Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/krystal-zaskey-photography)\n\n[![bridal-shower-themes-download-adventurous-moodboard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/68kisdb07WwEjygaEdtOL7/a33e3c98803fa462b6e37b750912ae25/bridal-shower-themes-download-adventurous-moodboard.png)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4I0zC1PUoerR73vSCn0Bg9/9e2a658e9e93d9d12f6f663b592ded8e/bridal-shower-themes-adventurous.png)\n\n## Fun Bridal Shower Themes \n\n### 12. Karaoke Lounge\nTake a break from wedding planning and plan a karaoke party at home or out at a lounge — either way, you’re sure to have a good time. Prepare challenges with your favorite songs in a draw bag, or choose a genre to build your theme around. Push the theme further and ask your guests to come dressed as their favorite artists and perform to a music video.\n\n![Karaoke Wedding Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5mzdoPTEXSSIbCRjT5igqs/6a4ffce0be27b1fe09710c207336b5a3/Karaoke_Wedding_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Morgan Wiltse Photo Co.](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/morgan-wiltse-photo-co)\n\n### 13. Ice Cream Party\nWhen there's ice cream, there is always fun in store! Hire an ice cream truck to come to your event. You could also take it a step further and do a full ice cream sundae bar. Get several flavors of ice cream, and splurge on toppings—sprinkles, syrups, and more. Don't forget the cones or waffle bowls to enhance the event. \n\n![S-mores Ice Cream Sundae Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4LMR0QltpjA8Kufnc8LQoq/764f80376ff18627ade5b74557c29c11/S-mores_Ice_Cream_Sundae_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Pint's Peak Ice Cream](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-cakes-desserts/pints-peak-ice-cream)\n\n### 14. Game Night\nGame night is perfect for a night in with your friends, and everyone will warm up to each other quickly. Bring your favorite games and snacks, and get the party started. Decorate using Jenga pieces as a guest book for your friends and family to sign, and candy dice to top cupcakes. Or take it outside and play lawn games.\n\n![Lawn Games at a Wedding Reception](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6V3o1HPFvvSSpWqw7j6DCm/b2e768aa8635552305188dad3525b224/Lawn_Games_at_a_Wedding_Reception.jpg) Photo via [The Wedding Connection](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-planners/the-wedding-connection)\n\n### 15. Nautical\nIf you (and the engaged couple!) love being on the water, consider using a nautical bridal shower theme. Host your event by the sea, on the beach, or on a boat for added cohesion. However, it's also perfectly acceptable to have a blue and white palette and maritime touches for a land-centric party. \n\n![Nautical Bridal Shower Theme](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4txV3Tg5fsTby2WR8nAscV/d072de20b83f64d2279b823a9c3008d1/Nautical_Bridal_Shower_Theme.jpg) Photo by [Aprea Media](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/aprea-media)\n\n### 16. Candy Crush\nCelebrate your engagement to your crush with candy! Sweet, delicious, and super aesthetically pleasing, candy is an affordable and easy way to cover decor and favors for your guests. Arrange gumball bowls, giant lollipops, and macaron towers as centerpieces, and serve colorful and bubbly drinks for a great summer fun party theme. Not a fan of candy? Have homemade pastel color treats instead.\n\n![Dessert Bar for Reception](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2dr0ZZqsCNecbLJqzOnMAD/db2e187716f6c975778cd728a461e1e3/Dessert_Bar_for_Reception.jpg) Photo via [Twin Treats](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-cakes-desserts/twin-treats)\n\n## Laidback Wedding Shower Themes\n \nThese laidback shower themes are for the casual couple looking to host a great party all of their friends and family can enjoy. Find 10 bridal shower themes and trending party ideas that are all about you and your guests, instead of heavily themed decor and entertainment:\n\n### 17. Pajama Party\nFor the ultimate laid back event, invite guests to dress in their pjs. Host an evening event that goes late into the night, or have a morning brunch. The sky's the limit for this casual, fun event. It's also an ideal theme if you're hosting a lingerie shower where the bride can also give her attendants their wedding day robes at the event.\n\n![Pajama Party Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/741K8Hfz5Z5WG1HYRFf0t3/088b51dad241984586676b0dbedd46f0/Pajama_Party_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Hotel Arista](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/hotel-arista)\n\n### 18. Fruit Fest\nFruit themes are fresh and fun and bring a bright tropical vibe without the need for grass skirts. Vibrant fruit arrangements are great centerpieces by themselves, but some flowers and decorative trays wouldn’t hurt. Don’t forget the fruit cocktails, coconuts, and novelty straws — this party is all about the drinks.\n\n![Fruit Bachelorette Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/42VVD3mZn7IsrJRHDvBSzD/1580821430af54b2c765318327f477f8/Fruit_Bachelorette_Party.jpg) Photo via [Hill City Bride](https://hillcitybride.com/2017/05/citrus-bachelorette-party-styled-shoot/)\n\n### 19. Sock Hop\nGo back to the ‘50s with a fun sock hop themed party. Bring circle skirts and polka dots back for a night, and prepare a rocking playlist that will have everyone dancing. Retro signs and glass Coke bottles make for fun decor, and malt milkshakes are the perfect dessert.\n\n![Clinking Coke Bottles at Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/39rrbGkiQm1Jax3xKKx1Jk/7c0a6e95a3a28b1ce8af2d5c0f92d607/Clinking_Coke_Bottles_at_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Bradley Pisney](https://unsplash.com/@bradleypisney)\n\n### 20. Wine Tastings\nSchedule a wine tasting for your wedding shower. Not only is this perfect for a co-ed event, but you can organize it in various ways. Hire a limo and go from winery to winery doing several tastings. Or you can head to a winery with a vineyard on site and spend a few hours walking through the vines and sampling. Either way, a DD is vital, so put that on your list.\n\n![Wine Tasting Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3f7Oj2kxOS2427ekFg4wC6/0548ec4ed0dac20af00de180967041b9/Wine_Tasting_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Kym Ellis](https://unsplash.com/@kymellis)\n\n### 21. Brunch and Bubbly\nThe bridal brunch is simple and welcoming to all of your guests, and gives plenty of opportunity for the couple’s family and friends to get to know each other. The menu is full of brunch favorites, like waffles and scones—and, of course, you stock the bar with champagne, juice, and other __[mimosa bar](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-make-a-mimosa-bar)__ staples. Light floral arrangements and simple table settings are all you need to host a nice __[brunch](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/brunch-wedding)__.\n\n![10-bridal-shower-themes-brunch-and-bubbly (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6wOGbpj3KwpmsljYghFVJn/8a8bbc6418a7f8b15431fe9612a10abc/10-bridal-shower-themes-brunch-and-bubbly__1_.jpg) Photo via Zola\n\n[![bridal-shower-themes-download-laidback-moodboard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3oknARV7UK6Mj1pBdt7QkH/a6a0c07c809b7361b0e492c855d845a4/bridal-shower-themes-download-laidback-moodboard.png)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5BpHrs1JlVGebXUYNptl6L/6ec2848f7ceee432656915418153ed92/bridal-shower-themes-laidback.png)\n\n## Unique Bridal Shower Themes\n \nSome themes just don’t fit in a box. If you’re still looking for the perfect party idea, try one of these creative and trendy bridal shower theme ideas:\n\n### 22. Breakfast at Tiffany’s\nWhat’s more glamorous and classic than Breakfast at Tiffany’s? Decorate with Tiffany blue, or even get some Tiffany’s gift boxes and candles as centerpieces. Channel your inner Holly Golightly with a little black dress, and gift pearls and sunglasses as themed favors to your guests.\n\n![Brunch Wedding Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5oIrbZnmy0ssZz2ZWlxTnX/8df5feb85b1859e63da860bdb2a6f2be/Brunch_Wedding_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Rachel Park](https://unsplash.com/@therachelstory)\n\n### 23. Bold and Bright\nFill your party with bright colors and bold decor to bring a ton of energy and fun to your party. Choose a handful of your favorite colors, or cover everything in rainbows. Either way, you’re setting yourself up for plenty of photo-ops and unlimited possibilities.\n\n![Vibrant Wedding Shower Tablescape](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NM9triQ8FKUTjoUi3ARe5/742de0e3927783efe3644d5f74952a1e/Vibrant_Wedding_Shower_Tablescape.jpg) Photo by [Jason Rhee Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/jason-rhee-photography-llc)\n\n### 24. Classic Hollywood Chic\nYou can still have a glam party in the winter with a throwback to the silver screen. Decorate with jewel tones and gold accents, and centerpieces of pearls and ostrich feathers. Roll out the red carpet to a photobooth with props of faux-fur boas, beads, and other vintage accessories and a vintage-inspired [photo backdrop](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-backdrop).\n\n![Hollywood Glam Styled Event Wedding](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6ohR6cWSm8QqcVJqxI7O2N/a46b330a523c9468ff6d3c9c0dc90ae6/Hollywood_Glam_Styled_Event_Wedding.jpg) Photo via [Zola's Real Weddings](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding/old-hollywood-glamour-styled-shoot)\n\n### 25. Potter Party \nInvite all of your witch and wizard friends to celebrate with butterbeer and chocolate frogs. You can find recipes for all of your favorite magic treats and gift DIY wands and house badges to your friends. Marathon the movies, host a trivia game or play a quick Quidditch match. There’s plenty of Hogwarts fun for everyone.\n\n![Harry Potter Theme Wedding Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7wtJubue6dlPErnCtRbkKa/679d8a53027681bdaa73e47845972d18/Harry_Potter_Theme_Wedding_Shower.jpg) Photo via [The Winery at Bull Run](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/the-winery-at-bull-run)\n\n### 26. Blue and White\nIf you're in touch with decor trends, you've probably seen blue and white palettes everywhere. It's a classic! So, why not include it in a wedding shower? Scour thrift shops and antique stores for blue and white elements like dishes, vases, and more. Some can even be gifted to the bride-to-be. The added touch of decorative cookies brings an element of sophistication to the event. \n\n![Blue and White Cookies](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3nZ4X0Y2BUl58s1t31L3Q0/87d09e9d1913556ee425e70adaf022ff/Blue_and_White_Cookies.jpg) Photo via [The Everly](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/the-everly)\n\n### 27. Retro\nTo have a retro bridal shower, pick an era and go all out. You can mock the Roaring 20's or go with the hippie vibe of the 1970s. It's all up to you. Use Pinterest to search for inspiration for the various decades, and take cues from color palettes, fashions, and photo styling for your own era-inspired bridal shower.\n\n![Retro Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2c5FRZk3Xo8uO5AQoDzNAj/8aea45876f2bfdeaf156489c1e30ce19/Retro_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Love Wildly](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/love-wildly)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Fall \n\n### 28. Backyard Bonfire\nThe best way to relax with your favorite people is around a bonfire with s’mores, tunes, and drinks. Make sure you have plenty of seating and snacks, and this party is good to go. If you want to build decor, collect old tins and trays to display the snacks and place lanterns and string lights around the party to add to the vibe.\n\n![8-bridal-shower-themes-backyard-bonfire](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/Yqz2xEY7DjS08IqkMTkup/06e9651087dc4a332d3d4385fac7c037/8-bridal-shower-themes-backyard-bonfire.jpg)\nSource: [Allie Dearie Photography](http://alliedeariephotography.com/)\n\n### 29. Rustic and Cozy\nRustic-themed showers are having a moment. Whether you go with rustic farmhouse BBQ (think DIY mason jar flower arrangements, gingham linens and napkins, and homemade sweet tea), or a more comfy, cozy cabin vibe (think enjoying hot cocoa in pajamas in front of the fire while you play bridal shower games), this bridal shower theme is sure to appeal to brides that are more country than city.\n\n![9-bridal-shower-themes-comfy-cozy](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6a017sAwGsvQpaoT9kv7An/4c70551b6ad65362481722a035787f40/9-bridal-shower-themes-comfy-cozy.jpg) Photo by \n[Carina Skrobecki](https://www.carinaskrobecki.com/)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Winter \n\n### 30. Trim the Tree\nInvite your guests to help you trim your holiday tree with DIY ornaments. Collect some craft instructions for your guests and gather supplies to create keepsake ornaments for you and your partner. Cookies and eggnog are sure to get everyone in the festive spirit. (You could even have guests wrap bridal shower gifts in holiday paper!)\n\n![Christmas Bridal Shower Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2tgHfQcFvUlnrhmMJ8uczi/866564843aecf63d4ac3f622811d1cff/Christmas_Bridal_Shower_Ideas.jpg) Photo by [Limelight Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/limelight-photography)\n\n### 31. Winter Wonderland\nSnow and ice are nature’s glitter, so embrace the sparkle and celebrate a winter wonderland. Glitter centerpieces and warmth from candlelight are sure to set the mood. Pinecones and frosted evergreens are great for adding texture and colors, too.\n\n![Winter Wonderland Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/9H8GuAzenjgmLiwgNtFJd/dfc06f10a4e96593d52735a703656f7f/Winter_Wonderland_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [The Preserve at Chocorua](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/the-preserve-at-chocorua)\n\n### 32. Flannel and Frost\nDecorate your party with evergreens, flannel fabrics, and lanterns for a warm and inviting atmosphere for everyone. Cider drinks and spiced cookies are the perfect treats, and your guests will love playing group games and mingling.\n\n![Flannel Bridal Shower Theme](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/zBmzuRgSFTrWPJMFPgHhD/21372946bf45ebfa6086ae17634835e0/Flannel_Bridal_Shower_Theme.jpg) Photo on [Zola's Real Weddings](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding/plaid-accented-fall-styled-shoot)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Spring \n\n### 33. Lovely in Lemon\nFruit themes are hugely popular, and lemons may just top that list. They’re bright, refreshing, and so fun for a party. Decorate with yellow and white flowers with plenty of greenery, and of course lemons themselves. Host a lemonade and iced tea bar with a variety of flavors — lemon cupcakes and cookies are a must (and make for great take-home party favors!).\n\n![Lemon Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3txCeg3in7GnYkk0E6Os8t/a90377c1fc8cf146a6f1f1f833e675bc/Lemon_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Hill City Bride](https://hillcitybride.com/2020/01/bridal-shower-decorations/)\n\n### 34. Tea Party Time\nTea parties are a bridal shower classic and a great way to include everyone on your guest list. Rent or thrift adorable teaware, then gather some fresh flower bouquets for your tables, and voila—your decor is pretty much finished! Simple and sweet pastries and a collection of teas to sample is all the entertainment you need with good company at your wedding shower. (You could even send home personalized tea bags as bridal shower favors!)\n\n![Bridal Shower Tea Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6PkQtkyVcQC2ytoPGR6JmB/25f2d95f525d6969fb29cf23e2eeaad0/Bridal_Shower_Tea_Party.jpg) Photo by [Carolyn Christine](https://unsplash.com/@carolynchristine)\n\n### 35. Gives Me Butterflies\nThe bride-to-be is in love, so focus on the feeling. Throw a butterfly themed bridal shower at a butterly garden or botanical center. Release butterflies and have lovely, themed details, such as butterfly nets and vintage prints featuring the flying insects. It's perfect for spring! \n\n![Butterfly Themed Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5umS2PAkojSa4YYOcXvxAF/59e4e6cece3414eae51269e4281a20fd/Butterfly_Themed_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Peterson Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/petersen-photography-llc)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Summer \n\n### 36. Fair Food\nEveryone loves the fair, and even if you’re not into rides, how can you say no to fair food? The carnival aesthetic is a lot of fun to play with — saturated colors and novelty lights can take you a long way, and a Ferris wheel statue would be great. Of course, the centerpiece of this theme is the food! Rent decorative machines if you can, and serve caramel corn, corn dogs, and more. For an added splash, serve drinks topped with cotton candy.\n\n![Cotton Candy Cocktail](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/9LOxLRXh7LGoVzfOdIKVn/33423d89b2f7cee1c9a82c01b4babb58/Cotton_Candy_Cocktail.jpg) Photo by [Johann Trasch](https://unsplash.com/@cocktailbart)\n\n### 37. Beach Bash\nBeach themes are a bridal shower favorite. Subtle colors, seashells, and elegant candles can really elevate this theme if you’re looking for something more sophisticated or romantic. Of course, you can always plan a beach party with a pool, fun shades, and plenty of games.\n\n![7-bridal-shower-themes-beach-bash (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6bDCsVEIx3W5IVLzxiGJ5P/9172793b112dcf2b1526468f47c83b7e/7-bridal-shower-themes-beach-bash__1_.jpg)\nPhoto by [Amanda Hedgepeth](http://www.amandahedgepethphotography.com/)\n\n### 38. Tropical Luau\nA tropical bridal shower is the perfect way to bring fun, sun, and the tropics to your party. Plan a party by the pool with fruity drinks, beach decor, and fun inflatables that double as photo props. Pool parties are great for large guest lists and as a theme for a couple’s shower.\n\n![Bridal Shower Themes](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/29TdexcZKU8OFodcAPVQM4/b7a0a7fe5448fc084caa500fad553bc4/zola-1680x1060.jpg)\nPhoto by [Meagan Gibson](https://www.meagangibsonphotography.com/ \"Source: Meagan Gibson Photography\")\n\nWhether you’re hosting a throwback bash or a comfortable night in, your guests will be happy to receive their __[invites](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop)__, so choose the bridal shower theme that suits you best. Once you have your theme and decor ideas, the fun (and the countdown to the big day can really begin! So get to planning, add some fun __[printable games or activities](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/free-bridal-shower-printables)__, and enjoy your perfect party.","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-10-03T19:35:00.980Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding shower","slug":"wedding-shower"},"slug":"bridal-shower-traditions-updated","title":"7 Bridal Shower Traditions, Updated ","excerpt":"Bridal showers are great celebrations but they could use some updating. Bring your bridal shower traditions into modern times with our guide to updating the traditional bridal shower.","author":"McCall Minnor","publishedAt":"2019-10-15T16:32:47.960Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6vfYcGpnDLIGFdgeLZ9F2c/b59c2ca2f2e6e3c2dd505a2b1ecbc00b/HERO_Unsplash_1080x720__1_.jpg","altText":"bridal shower gifting tradition"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"While a [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers) is a generous gesture from loved ones, we can’t deny that some aspects of the celebration can be awkward and outdated. That’s not to say you shouldn’t have one—those closest to you want to celebrate you and you should let them. You may just prefer to put your own more modern spin on things. Here are a few common bridal shower traditions and easy ways to update them for a party that truly fits your vibe. \n\n## The Tradition: It’s just for women.\nTraditionally, a bridal shower is a pre-wedding celebration thrown in honor of the bride, during which guests “shower” her with gifts. It usually takes place during the day, is women-only, and is thrown by a woman close with the bride.\n\n__The Update:__ More and more couples are choosing instead to have a [coed wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/coed-wedding-shower) that includes everyone: both partners and both sets of friends and family. This way there’s much more wiggle room in terms of activities and the theme. Plus, including both partners is a practical and thoughtful way to celebrate both people and also bring family and friends together ahead of the wedding. \n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/532VVdWGgxiLyK341ZcdQ7/749150933cb579d72591628987db3df9/INLINE__Unsplash_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## The Tradition: It happens less than two months before the wedding.\nUsually, the bridal shower is held just before the wedding: about 2-8 weeks out. Older etiquette suggests that this is to prevent your wedding festivities from spanning more than a few months, thus inconveniencing guests.\n\n__The Update:__ While it’s considerate to keep your guests in mind, having your shower within this time frame might just not work. It’s also possible that you don’t want to have your shower so close to your ceremony, regardless of any other reason. Giving yourself more time between the two occasions allows you the opportunity to open and sort through gifts, send thank you notes, and, honestly, just relax a little. It’s a lot to go event-for-event. Choose a time that works best for you and (most of) your guests.\n\n## Tradition: It’s a feminine daytime event.\nThe traditional bridal shower is a brunch party, afternoon tea, or another daytime affair. And it’s likely to include small appetizers and desserts, beverages like mimosas, and typically feminine decor. \n\n__The Update:__ Your bridal shower or coed wedding shower doesn’t need to fall within any kind of themed parameters—and it doesn’t need to be a brunch either. Your shower can—and should—take on any form that best suits you (or you and your partner). Hire a local bartender and have a cocktail hour mixology class. Spend a weekend at the beach or spa. Wine tastings, cooking classes, hiking, art lessons—all acceptable. When it comes down to it, your shower should be an event you’ll enjoy. No one will care if it’s in the evening or not at someone’s home, so long as you’re celebrating with one another.\n\n## Tradition: You play games.\nGames are almost always included in the traditional bridal shower itinerary. Common bridal shower games include gift bingo, a toilet paper wedding dress competition, and newlywed questions.\n\n__The Update:__ While many enjoy these specific—and admittedly cheesy—games, they’re by no means required. If you’d rather skip couple’s trivia and spend time doing just about anything else, do that. If you still like the idea of Say you’d still like to gather everyone together to do something. No problem. Opt instead for a non-shower themed group activity (remember that fun mixology class idea we mentioned before?).\n\n## Tradition: Gifts are mandatory—and you open them in front of everyone.\nEveryone invited to a bridal shower is expected to bring a gift for the bride or couple (if it’s a wedding shower). The bride or couple then open each gift in front of their guests.\n\n__The Update:__ Let’s be honest—there’s ample opportunity to receive gifts throughout your engagement and wedding. Between the engagement party, wedding shower, bachelor or bachelorette parties, and wedding, guests may feel pressured to give multiple times. If this isn’t something you’re comfortable with (or if you simply don’t have room for a lot of gifts), feel free to tell guests to skip gifts. \n\nIf you do, however, include gifts in your shower, don’t feel pressure to open them in front of everyone. Let [your guests](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/invite-to-wedding-shower) know that you won’t be opening them during the party—or simply don’t mention it at all. Send thank you notes no more than a week after the party, though!\n\n![INLINE Zola 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/FyJVw92zu27pIrPVJqOid/1a745129b8eedb7f1ce847593d12c4ef/INLINE_Zola_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Zola\n\n## Tradition: Someone creates a ribbon bouquet.\nThe Tradition: Traditionally, while you’re unwrapping presents at a bridal shower, someone else is collecting the ribbons and bows and fashioning them into a bouquet. This bouquet is then to be used for practice during your wedding rehearsal.\n\n__The Update:__ Feel free to cut this tradition out entirely—especially if you don’t plan on opening gifts in front of everyone. While the sentiment is nice, you really can just use another bouquet of flowers (or nothing) during your rehearsal.\n\n## Tradition: Your fiancé brings flowers at the end\nOlder tradition suggests that your fiancé should show up towards the end of the party, to “surprise” you with flowers. This is considered a sweet way to included them into the festivities (and help you load gifts into the car). Often, the fiancé will show up thirty minutes to an hour before the shower is over and sometimes participate in games.\n\n__The Update:__ Whether your spouse to-be is busy (they might be at their own party) or wants to leave the shower to you, there’s no reason they need to make an appearance. Your shower is yours, after all, and maybe they’d rather avoid the spotlight. You can still have them show up to help relocate gifts, just wait until everyone has left and you’re heading out. On the other hand, if you’d like your partner to be more involved, consider making the entire thing co-ed.\n\nIn the end, your wedding shower is meant to celebrate you and your upcoming marriage. Don’t worry yourself with what’s expected of a typical party. Focus on having a good time and getting excited for the main event—your wedding! We can toast to that.","tag":"List","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Fill your bachelor party with groom-approved activities. From weekend getaways to nighttime options, explore the best and most unique bachelor party ideas.","title":"55 Bachelor Party Ideas for Every Groom","slug":"bachelor-party-ideas","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3tsqFK8yqAYtlWDMjoh4FA/7633b0eb185f8df51dfe0d0ae0cedef8/kats-weil-CLD1i8hp008-unsplash.jpg","altText":"Low angle of groomsmen holding beer bottles and having a celebratory toast"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Discover the 60 best bachelorette party themes of 2024 with ideas for activities, drinks, and food. 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Although giving presents is a nice gesture, they are usually optional, so don’t feel pressured. \n\nHowever, if you want to give the bride-to-be a treat, there are plenty of directions you can head. Select a lovely piece of jewelry, or pop open a bottle of champagne. You could always get her [lingerie](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-the-perfect-wedding-day-lingerie#:~:text=Choose%20lingerie%20that%20works%20with,for%20your%20dress%20or%20gown.) or a cheeky gag gift, but the door is also open to give her something more meaningful. \n\nIf you don’t know where to begin, start by selecting a bachelorette gift you think matches the bride’s personality. It’s also an appropriate time to give her something racy or funny that you wouldn’t dare [give her at the bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-shower-gifts) with her future mother-in-law looking on. \n\nHowever, after paying for the [bachelorette weekend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-checklist), you may want to discuss amongst the attendees if you want gift-giving at all. Another option is to set a limit on the gift’s cost. If everyone is traveling and paying for an out-of-town trip, there’s no need to burden everyone with an extra cost. \n\nBachelorette gifts for the bride don’t need to be expensive or extensive. You can choose a yummy treat or a bottle of Champagne for everyone to enjoy at the hotel before going out to show your love just as well. \n\n## Best bachelorette party gift ideas\n\nNow that we've got the etiquette covered let's dive into the gifts for the bachelorette party. The following are 25 of the best bachelorette gifts for the bride that we can think of!\n\n![gartner](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1u43YfE5fgwqlqVnRl6osU/af661f6fe58c9e80aa397ef1ee54baf3/gartner.webp)\n\n### 1. Lingerie\n\nLingerie is perhaps the most traditional bachelorette party gift. Look for something that she can wear on her wedding night, such as an “I do” [thong/garter set](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-usually-buys-the-brides-garter) or “bride” thong. Or, choose a beautiful chemise or cami that she can wear on her honeymoon and for years to come.\n\n![Morgan Lane Tommy PJ Set](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7jWj7a6N0FudeMw7YeCOkj/ce341ecf210c0616dbad643d3ec9ead9/Morgan_Lane_Tommy_PJ_Set.jpg)\n\n### 2. Luxurious pajamas\n\nIf giving lingerie isn't quite your style, opt instead to pamper the bride-to-be with a silky pair of pajamas like this [Morgan Lane Tommy PJ Set](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/morganlane_tommy_pj_set_chalk). A nice slip or matching set is both beautiful and practical. Plus, if the bride wants, she can even wear them while getting ready on the morning of her wedding.\n\n![spa gift basket](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/76nuzCBLZF06sMJJqv7Yrp/c2f57985f5f02019c278bff1e149dcc0/gift_basket.avif)\n\n### 3. Spa gift basket\n\nSome parts of [planning a wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-planning-guide) can be pretty stressful. So, a gorgeous [gift basket of spa treats](https://www.etsy.com/de-en/search?q=Spa%20Gift%20Basket&ref=search_bar) is exactly what she’ll need to relax when working her way through that endless wedding checklist. This is one of the best gifts to give at a bachelorette party, regardless of how well you know (or don’t know) the bride. It can be a collection of delicious products from a local spa or a homemade basket of goodies from brands you’ve sourced yourself.\n\n![satin lace robe](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2bhGVWiRROqxrk0zXRg5G0/7a86aee8aae1e28981987549d8324b45/satin_lace_robe.jpg)\n\n### 4. Robe\n\nYour gift doesn’t have to be racy or too sexy to be enjoyed. A pretty bridal robe, like this [Event Blossom Satin Lace Robe](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/eventblossom_satin_lace_robe_white), is perfect. She can enjoy wearing it at the spa during the bachelorette weekend and wear it again while getting ready on her wedding day. What a wonderful gift that she’s sure to enjoy after the wedding is over.\n\n![bridal care beauty box](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2U78iarhEM6aOgQzviWD7r/c320f765402390352af82095405735db/bridal_care_beauty_box.jpg)\n\n### 5. Bridal care beauty box\n\nWedding planning isn’t all cake tasting and Champagne sipping—it can be a stressful time, too. Spoil the bride-to-be with a bridal care box that contains a facial roller, face masks, and a ring cleaner. Or, create your own gift set (start with [The Prosperity Box](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/theurbanthemystic_the_prosperity_box_)). Include nail polish, bubble bath, or anything else you think that she’d like to be pampered with.\n\n![rina hat](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1lerKkC9FvRxfEPbMvDqxf/92aa9f60bf0e18ae85577cf1c1af8f0d/rina_hat.jpg)\n\n### 6. Sun hat and sunscreen\n\nIf the bachelorette is in a sunny locale such as Miami or Cancun, one fun bride-to-be bachelorette gift is a wide-brim hat ([Shiraleah’s Rina Hat](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/shiraleah_rina_hat) is our fave). A perfect addition is sunscreen, which she’ll be grateful to have all weekend long. You can also give her this gift at the bachelorette party with instructions for it to be used at a later date. if she’s having a destination wedding or going on a tropical honeymoon, she’ll be grateful for the gear.\n\n![bride to be sash](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4SfFh9DpTCTd1FA0c7BDGb/31b923cbe9c34ce58911b6bd11ca5935/bride_to_be_sash.jpg)\n\n### 7. Bride sash/swag for the weekend\n\nThe bridal sash is a long-honored tradition that is a must for any bachelorette weekend. It’s one of the staple gifts for bachelorettes who like to keep things traditional. Make this and any other fun swag, such as a tiara, flower crown, or veil, your gift to the bride. Just make sure to tell everyone that you’re in charge of these items so that she doesn’t get multiple sashes or tiaras. This [Foxblossom Co. Bride to Be Sash](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/foxblossomco_bride_to_be_sash) is a great option. \n\n![Kate Spade New York say yes mrs cz necklace](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2S2a56YsNmuroMPMekZ6RE/08ebc7378cf1fcae7eb47555e5e71fd3/Kate_Spade_New_York_say_yes_mrs_cz_necklace.jpg)\n\n### 8. Jewelry\n\nJewelry is always a classic and generous gift choice. Choose something fitting such as a “Mrs” necklace that she is sure to wear all the time. Or give her a pendant with her new monogram. Another sweet option is just a beautiful pair of earrings that you think she would love. We’re big fans of this [Kate Spade New York Say Yes Mrs. CZ Necklace](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/katespade_say_yes_mrs._cz_necklace). She can wear these out on the bachelorette weekend, on her honeymoon, and on future date nights, too. This is one of the best bachelorette gift ideas for brides who love their sparkles. \n\n![Monogram jewelry case](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1HgA285HkA60t1f5zzcYHA/40840ac71d4d9a5a6a1533fc5c29b422/Monogram_jewelry_case.avif)\n\n### 9. Monogram jewelry case\n\nFor the bride-to-be who already has a glowing jewelry collection, consider gifting a [Personalized Jewelry Case](https://www.etsy.com/de-en/listing/1577670358/custom-name-velvet-travel-jewelry?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=monogram+jewelry+box&ref=sr_gallery-1-2&pro=1&frs=1&organic_search_click=1). These can be found in a variety of shapes and styles, from boxes to pouches and bags. Some even include small mirrors on the inside, ideal for the bride who is always on the go. Make this gift extra special by getting their initials monogrammed along the top or side in shimmering foil or luxurious embossing or debossing. Expert advice: coordinate this gift with another bachelorette party-goer who plans on giving the bride-to-be jewelry.\n\n![Monogrammed luggage tags](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6gH43Y55tv89N3FWaRZPcB/48bec334a9e65db456036f54a9cc8e6d/Monogrammed_luggage_tags.jpg)\n\n### 10. Monogrammed luggage tags\n\nThese [The Paisley Box Luggage Tags](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thepaisleybox_luggage_tag) are sure to get oohs and ahhs. Not only are they among the best wedding gifts if you’re on a budget, but they’re also a great choice when it comes to bridal bachelorette gifts. If the bachelorette party takes place away from the bride’s town, they can also work as bachelorette gifts from the bride to her guests, with each of their initials. \n\n![Viski Meridian Coupe Glasses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6VYlIECO5lthln2NNpdohL/9212e446e5b16e99362ccf07e1666692/Viski_Meridian_Coupe_Glasses.jpg)\n\n### 11. Drink glasses and alcohol\n\nYou’re all likely to be drinking a lot this weekend. You might as well get the bride a gift that’s on theme. A bottle of her favorite spirit and these [Viski Meridian Coupe Glasses](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/viski_meridian_coupe_glass_set2) are spot-on. Or give whiskey glasses and a good bottle of spirits to enjoy together. Another option is to go custom and get personalized wine glasses or a monogrammed cocktail shaker. \n\nIf you’re [flying out for the bach weekend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/top-15-places-to-go-to-for-a-bachelorette-party), this gift is a bit more challenging. However, you could stop by duty-free or a liquor store when you arrive to pick something up. Alternatively, a customized shot glass (or set of them) can be a great gift idea to commemorate the bachelorette bash. Stainless steel or stemless, any one of these gifts is sure to get a lot of use.\n\n![Personalized tumbler](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4K8172g2uCLwEbkrOXkgHs/8cf006c45541c27e35a334c0708c2d78/Personalized_tumbler.jpg)\n\n### 12. Personalized tumbler\n\nWith considerable drinking—or traveling, or any physical activity—comes the need for lots of water. Think ahead on the bride's behalf by gifting a beautiful [Letter Tumbler from The Paisley Box](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thepaisleybox_30_oz._letter_tumbler_pink). They come in several colors, and you can personalize them with the bride's first initial (or new surname, if applicable) on it.\n\n![Personalized Leather Manicure Kit](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/kcUnyesBjXwYas0YwueFo/795b6d7213163e69d355caedfb7aff3b/Personalized_Leather_Manicure_Kit.avif)\n\n### 13. Manicure kit\n\nIf she’s running from A to B in the months leading up to her wedding day, the bride may not have time for a trip to the salon. So, a [Personalized Leather Manicure Kit](https://www.etsy.com/de-en/listing/1570756687/personalized-leather-manicure-set-custom?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=Manicure+Kit&ref=sc_gallery-1-1&pro=1&edd=1&sts=1&referrer_page_guid=1f016245-8faf-45a3-a753-09163165b7da&plkey=16deb8bcc951e9d14780781afac9a1f3edb8ef2f%3A1570756687) can keep her feeling her best no matter how frantic the wedding planning gets. And, of course, she can keep on using the manicure kit long after she’s said “I do!” This is one of the best bachelorette gifts for brides, both pre-wedding and post-wedding. \n\n![The Paisley Box Bride-s Notebook](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5CVj8Ky4izvEZc9XZTLSrP/53cd027e682285c38eb0678fd641fdad/The_Paisley_Box_Bride-s_Notebook.jpg)\n\n### 14. High-quality notebook\n\nSpeaking of notebooks, these little yet useful gifts are not to be overlooked. These are ideal for sentimental brides, as well as those who love their to-do lists and jotting down thoughts. She’ll enjoy a high-quality notebook to write in like this [The Paisley Box Bride's Notebook](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thepaisleybox_brides_notebook). Put a meaningful note or dedication on the first page and encourage her to document all of the fun leading up to the wedding.\n\n![Meaningful keepsake-](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4e1YuCEkGMtTQp91eT6Rcq/d1b779172fbd4ccae0c23e411fd10b41/Meaningful_keepsake-.png)\n### 15. Meaningful keepsake\n\nMothers of the bride(s) or groom(s), as well as maids or matrons of honor, may feel inclined to gift something with sentimental value attached. We know a [bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/bachelorette-party) is often a time for fun and practical gift-giving. But sometimes you just can't help but do something extra special. A locket, passed down piece of jewelry, or framed photo perfectly fit the bill for meaningful bachelorette gifts.\n\n![Personalized Gold Bride Book](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/46sVCsgwcipvASFeBrE1SU/dd8eb37c1d92c6513a2c3b6fca89d9ba/Personalized_Gold_Bride_Book.webp)\n\n### 16. Bride-to-be journal\n\nNo doubt she’ll have plenty of incredible memories from this time in her life. Consider gifting a journal in her favorite colors or from her favorite stationery brand (or a [Personalized Gold Bride Book](https://www.etsy.com/de-en/listing/1452764399/personalized-gold-bride-proposal?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=Bride-To-Be+Journal&ref=sr_gallery-1-8&edd=1&sts=1&referrer_page_guid=e2039ca4-b474-499e-b2ae-3ac9a4370a86&organic_search_click=1).) This will let her log thoughts and memories up until the big day and reminisce about them later in life. \n\n![Event Blossom Sparkle Mrs Makeup Bag](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4xexLSACuHCrinGMuyymU4/e1871f03f748e21d3c5c1cd051f7fb47/Event_Blossom_Sparkle_Mrs_Makeup_Bag.jpg)\n\n### 17. Luxe makeup bag\n\nMaybe she’s mentioned a stylish lipstick she’ll be wearing on her big day. Or perhaps she’s treating herself to some fancy brands to commemorate this special time. A new [Event Blossom Sparkle Mrs Makeup Bag](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/eventblossom_sparkle_mrs_makeup_bag) makes the whole thing feel even more special. \n\n![Subscription box](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3mzGkkkth5fU6xAyvuZjy0/12067807fc6046e12fb81824fcde6d04/Subscription_box.jpg)\n\n### 18. Subscription box\n\nYou can shape this gift around her interests, hobbies, and passions. Or you can pool efforts and each contribute something to a homemade box of goodies. While choosing a subscription box is a relatively stress-free option, you can also take inspiration from boxes online and build your own to fit her tastes. Not sure where to start? Think about her favorite snacks, jewelry brands, drinks, or other personal interests. \n\n![What Do You Meme](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5wcZ8Sa6H8HAmZDzifZgLX/d95ded8b143d7e14f44a3e6f8f60b11e/What_Do_You_Meme.jpg)\n\n### 19. Gag/joke gifts\n\nIf there’s ever a chance to give your friend a gag gift that’s funny or inappropriate, the bachelorette party is it. Just make sure this fits her personality and won’t be offensive in any way if she’s not up for it. Some examples of bachelorette gifts like this include edible underwear, vibrators, or other toys or games that you think she and her future spouse could enjoy together. Or, keep it simple with this [What Do You Meme? For The Girls Party Game](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/whatdoyoumeme_adult_party_game_for_the_girls). \n\nCheck out our articles, [Bachelorette Party Game Questions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-game-questions-youll-love) and [Bachelorette Party Games the Squad will Love](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-games), to help get the party going!\n\n![Upgraded tote](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/47bxFvOeZpZxB8mm3xaZ9O/b9f9bee71cf7c0b99830804d3ee250f3/Upgraded_tote.webp)\n\n### 20. Upgraded tote\n\nPerhaps one of the gifts with the most uses (travel, the market, day-to-day wear), a high-quality [Bridal Bundle Bag Set](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1422333158/personalized-bridal-bundle-bag-set-bride), which won't go underappreciated. If you're especially crafty, this can be personalized, but any pattern, print, or brand is sure to go over well. What's more, you can use a tote as a gift bag to hold something a little extra—like a bottle of wine or notebook.\n\n![HomeWetBar Highbury Custom Flask](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1RABzQnaQfzfJhZYcCU0ER/1e3e89b1028aa2ceb1aec545792d3908/HomeWetBar_Highbury_Custom_Flask.jpg)\n\n### 21. Personalized hip flask\nNot all bachelorette parties involve alcohol. But if hers does, a [HomeWetBar Highbury Custom Flask](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/homewetbar_highbury_custom_flask) is one of the best bachelorette gifts you’ll find. Got more budget left over? Buy her a bottle of her favorite spirit to go along with the hip flask. Better yet, if she’ll be changing her name, get her new initials printed on the flask as a reminder of exciting things to come.\n\n![Zola Wedding Albums Album Gift Card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1wtMT8t9aQs5ibqgNgDx2J/1df1dd0edc3bd84e79d5e10955be831e/Zola_Wedding_Albums_Album_Gift_Card.jpg)\n\n### 22. Custom photo album\n\nFill a custom photo album with pictures from the bachelorette party, as well as all her other wedding memories. You can also stock it with favorite memories of you and the bride-to-be or a selection of photos of the bride and groom-to-be. Buy her a [Zola Wedding Albums Album Gift Card](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/zolaweddingalbums_classic_album_) if you’re not sure where to start.\n\n![Homesick Just Married Candle](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2V2873Urzz5mOep48xh8Lq/f636b1fa1593fa2371ecfb18bc9fcf8c/Homesick_Just_Married_Candle.jpg)\n\n### 23. Set of candles or a diffuser\n\nIf you want to step things up a notch, you can personalize these candles or the diffuser set with something significant. Add her wedding date, initials, name, or something else that’s special to her. Plus, her space will be smelling lovely in no time. We love this [Homesick Just Married Candle](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/homesick_just_married_candle).\n\n![Foxblossom Co. Bachelorette Party Bride Tank Top](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1FKBMoSGZspWnMcLG4VH5z/3c0bea905a891f5e7eeb0a5e78d741df/Foxblossom_Co._Bachelorette_Party_Bride_Tank_Top.jpg)\n\n### 24. Bride tank or t-shirt\n\nShe’s only going to be a bride once, so she might as well enjoy it to the fullest. A bride tank or T-shirt, like this [Foxblossom Co. Bachelorette Party Bride Tank Top](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/foxblossomco_bachelorette_party_bride_tank_top), will make her feel special. Of course, it will also guarantee she's the center of attention throughout the celebration and leading up to the [wedding day](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-planning-101/wedding-day).\n\n![custom stationery](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/27G8dXiNe7oEdZEJ2M70IO/1fedd05d6622fbe2f96546c261c8ec3f/custom_stationery.jpg)\n\n### 25. Thank you stationery \n\nA classic choice that never goes out of fashion. She could just send a round of “thank you” emails to family and friends. But being able to hand-write her gratitude on [custom stationery](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-planning-101/wedding-day)? That’s a whole lot more exciting. When it comes to bachelorette gifts, this is one of the most useful.\n\n## Bachelorette Gifts FAQs\n\n## What is a bachelorette party?\n\nA bachelorette party is a contemporary wedding tradition where a bride celebrates her final nights as a non-married woman. It's usually thrown by and spent with bridesmaids. However, the whole bridal party (maid of honor, mother of the bride, etc.) or other close friends and family members can also play host. Some couples are choosing to throw joint bachelor/bachelorette parties. If that peaks your interest, read our guide on [How to Throw a Joint Bach Party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/joint-bachelor-bachelorette-party-games).\n\nBachelorette parties may last a single evening, a weekend, or even an entire week. They can be extravagant, have a fun theme, or be laid back. During this time, a groom will likely have his own [bachelor party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelor-party-ideas) with his groomsmen and loved ones.\n\nTypical activities include, but are not limited to, spa days, lounging by the pool, scenic hikes, meals together, spending time in a decked-out Airbnb, and going out to drink and dance. Of course, brides and their parties may do whatever they consider a good time in celebration of the upcoming big day. Guests may also give wedding gifts to the bride, and hosts can give out bachelorette party favors.\n\nPlanning the party and need some theme inspo? Check out [60 Best Bachelorette Party Themes](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-themes).\n\n## Are gifts required?\n\nBachelorette gifts for the bride are usually optional—especially if your budget is tight. The host should discuss with everyone ahead of time to determine if gifts are required and what she is thinking in terms of what the bride might like. If someone in the group is crafty, they may offer to make the bridal sash or bedazzle the tiara as their gift.\n\nYou could also work the cost of the gift into your bachelorette weekend budget, such as offering to buy a round of shots or pay for the cupcakes. If you’re stretched thin and everyone else is bringing a gift, a nice card telling her how much she means to you, along with an offer to buy her lunch or coffee after she gets back from the honeymoon, will go a long way.\n\nStill looking for bachelorette gifts? [Explore more gifts here](https://www.zola.com/shop/collection/new-arrivals) on Zola. \n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_WebsiteQuiz"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Deciding who pays for the bachelorette party can be a tricky conversation. 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Read on to learn about when you should have a bachelorette party!.","title":"When Should You Have a Bachelorette Party?","slug":"when-should-you-have-a-bachelorette-party","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6Bam9xC60EjdGmXDTueWIr/3f4a1a83de97aee9d94f696de04d18a3/Hero_Zola__18_.jpg","altText":"When Should You Have a Bachelorette Party"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Planning a bachelorette party can be easy! With the help of our bachelorette party checklist, planning a bach weekend is a breeze. ","title":"Our Ultimate 2025 Bachelorette Party Checklist","slug":"bachelorette-party-checklist","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4Hz4P0xKJr9Xlm7WmFWLDU/ef7c3fb560b76973a28a5acf71247617/bachelorette-party-checklist-hero.jpeg","altText":"Four people enjoying champagne on a rooftop, likely attending a bachelorette party and having used a bachelorette party checklist to plan their trip."},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Explore Wedding Boutique","url":"https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop"},"updatedAt":"2024-03-06T12:43:24.882Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Bachelorette party","slug":"bachelorette-party"},"slug":"bachelorette-party-themes","title":"60 Best Bachelorette Party Themes of 2024","excerpt":"Discover the 60 best bachelorette party themes of 2024 with ideas for activities, drinks, and food. Find the perfect party for every bride!","author":"Quinlan Grim","publishedAt":"2023-12-28T00:00-05:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/33vA9FilPkEXnDkMjTkg5F/e698249214e8c6ce0673ab8fbee59392/pexels-yuliia-auer-5303406.jpg","altText":"Bachelorette Party Themes & Party Names"},"heroCredit":"Yuliia Auer via Unsplash","heroCaption":"Bride and bridesmaids holding BRIDE balloons by a pool.","body":"Celebrating the bride at her bachelorette party is one of the best ways to de-stress before the wedding and get to know her closest friends. While some brides prefer an exciting weekend bash, others would rather relax with their favorite people. If you’ve been tasked with [planning a bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bachelorette-party), your job is to put the bride’s interests first and then fill in the rest of the details.\n\nOnce you have a clear idea of how the bride wants to celebrate, the fun begins! Maybe your bride has a [wedding theme](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-themes) she loves that you can incorporate into the bachelorette party. These themes range from wild and crazy to sophisticated and chill, so you can find the perfect theme to party with your crew. First, let’s take a look at the latest bach party trends…\n\n## What are the latest trends in bachelorette party themes?\n\n[Bachelorette parties](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bachelorette-parties) are constantly changing with the times. So, what are the latest bach party trends for 2024?\n\nWe’ve seen several trends continuing from 2023, plus hot new trends emerging. Here are some highlights:\n\n- Summer bach parties – Spring used to be the most popular season for bachelorette parties, but with the rise of fall wedding popularity, we’re seeing more bashes in mid-to-late summer. \n- Bachelorette photo shoots – Forget about the wedding photos — the latest trend is to hire a professional photographer for your bachelorette party to capture lasting memories. \n- Short and sweet bridal bashes – As more people return to the office, many bachelorette parties return to pre-pandemic length: one night or a weekend.\n- Daytime parties – The combination of short weekends and summer parties has more bridal party events starting in the daytime, from mimosa brunches to lounging poolside. \n\nTo sum it up, sunny, quick, well-documented parties are all the rage in 2024. But that doesn’t mean you have to go with what’s popular! Consider your bride’s preferences and choose the pre-wedding activities that fit her style. \n\nFeeling like you need a little inspo? Here are 60 fun ideas to get your creative juices flowing. \n\n## Favorite bachelorette party themes\n\nHere are a few witty bach party ideas we love this year.\n\n### 1. Bohemian bash party \n\nTake it easy and plan some relaxing activities for the boho bride. Get outdoors and explore some beautiful scenery by visiting a winery or going on a hike to bond with your bride tribe. To wind down, attend a group yoga or Pilates class and find your zen before the big day comes.\n\nAnother fun spin on a boho bachelorette is to go with a “Bachella” festival theme for the music lover. Bring in all the florals, earth tones and macramé decorations to create a chill vibe for your party. Vintage patterns and fabrics make great backdrops for photo booths and dinner parties.\n\n#### Activity ideas:\n\n- Make [flower crowns](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-make-a-flower-crown) with your crew\n- Attend a group yoga class\n- Have an outdoor patio party\n- Tour a vineyard\n\n#### Destination ideas:\n\n- Sonoma, California\n- Scottsdale, Arizona\n- Tulum, Mexico\n\n![bachelorette-party-ideas-boho](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2swfQJRFWGmHBTxz1zHHNt/9a7bb6e77b01463505c17787a7abff06/bachelorette-party-ideas-boho.jpg)\n\n__Sources:__ Vintage drink glasses via [Magnolia Studios](http://www.magnoliastudios.ca/) | Tattoos via [Fancy That Loved](https://www.etsy.com/listing/265895976/bride-tribe-temporary-bachelorette-party) | Tablescape via [Twink + Sis](http://www.twinkandsis.com/) | Boho chair via [Madison Short](https://madisonrshort.com) and [Christine McFarlane Events](https://www.christinemcfarlaneevents.com/) \n\n### 2. Let’s get nauti-cal\n\nWant to head somewhere warm and sunny with your crew? A nautical bachelorette is the way to go. Deck out your “I Do” crew with sailor hats, fanny packs, and beach hats to create a weekend fit for the sea. If you’re planning a destination bachelorette party, consider some beach getaways and try to book a beach house or boat ride. Nautical-themed goodies like inflatable beach balls, palm trees, and anchors make great decorations for your weekend pad.\n\nLet your hair down, put your toes in the sand and celebrate the bride’s last sail before the veil with a “Let’s Get Nauti” themed bachelorette.\n\n#### Activity ideas:\n\n- Go on a boat ride or rent jet skis\n- Grab some beach chairs and relax on the beach\n- Have a sandcastle competition with [wedding boutique prizes](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop)\n\n#### Destination ideas:\n\n- Destin, Florida\n- Nantucket, Massachusetts\n- Malibu, California\n\n![bachelorette-party-ideas-nautical](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6xkuLszHftoQfnASYjlHv9/8b0bca55c29e6797b7e4afa366393ef2/bachelorette-party-ideas-nautical.jpg)\n\n__Sources:__ Bride on a boat via [Katrina Malaiba](https://www.instagram.com/katrinamalaiba/) | Nautical goodies via [Everyday Pursuits](https://www.everydaypursuits.com/blog//2015/09/nautical-bachelorette-party-essentials.html) | Beach ball drink stirrers via [Studio DIY](https://studiodiy.com/2013/07/24/diy-beach-ball-drink-stirrers/) | Nautical table setting via [Pizzazzerie](https://pizzazzerie.com/parties-weve-styled/nautical-party-style-mud-pie-faves/) | Beach hats via [Love Always, Audrey](http://www.lovealwaysaudrey.com/2016/06/beach-bachelorette-party/)\n\n### 3. The final fiesta\n\nPerfect for any time of year, this theme brings together [delicious food](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-food-ideas) and bright colors to create an atmosphere that makes you want to sip margaritas with your senoritas. Celebrate the bride-to-be with a fiesta-themed party full of quirky cactus decor and piñatas. Using just balloons and streamers, you can turn any hotel room or guest house into a desert oasis. As for the tasty treats, margarita-flavored cupcakes and a nacho or taco bar make great party snacks.\n\nThis final fiesta will have all of your friends crashing for a siesta in the afternoon.\n\n#### Activity ideas:\n\n- Try out salsa dancing\n- Build your own taco bar\n- Take a swing at a pinata\n\n#### Destination ideas:\n\n- San Diego, California\n- Miami, Florida\n- Cancun, Mexico\n\n### 4. Glamping weekend\nBachelorette parties are perfect for escaping the stress of planning a wedding so why not escape to the great outdoors? For the bride who likes to explore and unwind, consider planning a weekend in the woods. Whether you decide to stay in a cabin or glamping tent, this weekend will be full of new experiences. Create a cozy atmosphere using lots of blankets and pillows to make your campsite feel like home. For party favors, you can make some adorable fire starter kits with matches or create your own rustic wood coasters.\n\nHead out to where the wild things are and create a weekend full of happy campers.\n\n#### Activity ideas:\n\n- Take a nature hike\n- Make s’mores around the campfire\n- Try outdoor sports like fishing or whitewater rafting\n\n#### Destination ideas:\n\n- Denver, Colorado\n- Jackson, Wyoming\n- Portland, Oregon\n\n### 5. Tropic like it’s hot\n\nTake the bachelorette party to the tropics for a weekend that feels like a mini-vacay. Palm leaf prints, fresh florals, and bold colors make this tropical party bright and cheery. Add some fun flamingo and pineapple decor to turn your room into a tropical oasis. Sip fruity cocktails by the pool or head to the beach for a fun day in the sun. This [tropical palm swimsuit](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/eventblossom_tropical_palm_swimsuit) is perfect for the occasion! \nGrab some fabulous straw beach hats, and bright pool floats for a pool party no one will forget.\n\nAs the bride says “aloha” to married life, take this weekend to pamper her best friends.\n\n#### Activity ideas:\n\n- Get group manicures and pedicures\n- Hang out poolside\n- Play prosecco pong\n\n#### Destination ideas:\n\n- Key West, Florida\n- Cabo San Lucas, Mexico\n- Palm Springs, California\n\n### 6. The disco ball dancing queens\n\nMamma Mia, here we go again! Tell the wedding party to bring their best platform shoes and sequin tops for an ABBA-inspired, 70’s themed bachelorette bash. Serve appetizers inspired by the decade. Chill by the beach or pool in the daytime, then hit the bars at night in your silliest ’70s outfits. \n\n#### Activity ideas:\n\n- Take Mamma Mia-inspired photo shoots\n- Go bar-hopping\n- Watch musicals in your PJs \n\n#### Destination ideas:\n\n- Los Angeles, California\n- Miami, Florida\n- Las Vegas, Nevada\n\n### 7. Last splash mermaid bash\nFor the mermaid bride trading her tail for a veil, celebrate her bachelorette by the sea. Use plenty of sparkles and soft pastel colors to decorate your under-the-sea party with bubbles, seashells, and sea creatures. As for dress code, have your mermaid squad pack their swimsuits and gift them beach towels as a party favor so they’ll have a souvenir to take home. Add some mermaid-themed snacks and dive in.\n\nWhether you’re by the pool or hanging at the beach, you can party your tails off in full mermaid fashion.\n\n#### Activity ideas:\n\n- Set up a Mermosa bar\n- Prepare for a night out with a mermaid glitter bar\n- Have a last splash pool party\n\n#### Destination ideas:\n\n- Charleston, South Carolina\n- Santa Monica, California\n- Seaside, Florida\n\n![bachelorette-party-ideas-mermaid](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/kUilxNyW9RZ88kfFcZAMv/b47120f894403d96e97ca19810ee8c33/bachelorette-party-ideas-mermaid.jpg)\n\n__Sources:__ Photobooth and koozie via [Vandi Fair](https://vandifair.com/mermaid-bachelorette-party/) | Mermaid glitter bar via [Rachel Emma Studio](https://www.rachelemmastudio.com/blog/2018/5/23/diy-ideas-for-pop-up-stations-at-your-wedding) | Macarons via [Taste by Spellbound](http://spellbound.bigcartel.com/)\n\n## Low-key bachelorette party themes\n\nFor the low-key bride, here are a few mellow ideas that fit any style and budget.\n\n### 8. Bachelorette slumber party\n\nHost a sleepover — or two — with your besties. Paint your nails, make delicious snacks, and watch some of the bride’s favorite movies. This bach theme is perfect for a stay-at-home bachelorette party or a vacation rental. If you’re up for it, you can throw in an outing like a brunch or a trip to a brewery.\n\n### 9. Manis and mimosas spa day\n\nOnly have a day to celebrate? No problem. Take the group on a spa day for facials, manicures, and relaxing massages. This is a great celebration to kick off with a mimosa brunch or enjoy champagne and light snacks without the day. The nice thing about this bachelorette theme is that you can do it anywhere. Your spa day can be one event in a bachelorette weekend or a stand-alone party. \n\n### 10. Backyard BBQ\n\nIf someone in your bridal party can share their home, why not host a backyard barbecue? This theme is super accommodating to brides or bridesmaids with families, jobs, and busy lives. Bring your cowgirl hat and cook up your favorite barbecue dishes. You can include yard games like darts or cornhole, blend some margaritas, or just hang out with your best friends.\n\n### 11. Yoga and wellness-themed\n\nWho says a bachelorette party has to be about late nights and partying? A wellness-themed bachelorette party is perfect for a bride who loves to take care of herself. You could attend a yoga class together or hire a yoga teacher to visit your vacation rental. Other activities might include a sauna, massages, meditation, or spin class. Food can include green juice, smoothies, or a meal out at your local vegan restaurant.\n\n### 12. Movie night\n\nHost a movie night in your home or backyard. You might want to rent a projector screen to watch the bride’s favorite movies on the big screen. Be sure to bring popcorn and other movie-friendly snacks. If you want to fit in other activities, consider a costume contest with [wedding boutique prizes](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/pre-wedding-activities/bachelorette-parties), movie-themed drinking games, or making specialty cocktails that go with the movie.\n\n### 13. Vintage vibe campout\n\nAirbnb and other rental sites offer trailer rentals. This can be the perfect setting for your vintage bachelorette party in the woods, [like this one](https://www.100layercake.com/2011/12/12/lets-get-cozy-bachelorette-party-shoot/). Bring a barbecue and some hot apple cider, play games, and listen to your favorite vintage tunes. Don’t forget to bring a camera to capture the adorable vintage vibes. \n\n### 14. Celestial celebration\n\nYour bride has found someone she loves to the moon and back — celebrate their love with a night amongst the stars. Hire a fortune teller to read your tarot cards and learn more about your star signs, getting in touch with the cosmos before the big day.\n\n### 15. Game night\n\nFor the casual yet competitive brides out there, why not host a game night? Have all your friends bring their favorite card games, board games, or drinking games if you want to get a little silly. Order takeout and have casual beers or cocktails as you spend the night laughing and playing together. \n\n## Celebrity bachelorette party themes\n\nYour bride is the star of her show. Help her feel like the star of every show with a dazzling celebrity-themed bachelorette party. \n\n### 16. The eras tour bachelorette fan party\n\nThrowing a party for a Swiftie? A Taylor Swift bachelorette theme is perfect for a Nashville retreat or a night out in your hometown. Tell your guests to dress as their favorite era, take pictures, and then hit the town. You’ll get plenty of attention on a bar crawl or at a trendy restaurant. \n\n### 17. Beyoncé bachelorette\n\nNo one throws a more fabulous party than Queen Bee herself. A Beyonce theme is ideal for a night out in the big city, whether it’s LA, Vegas, or New York. Guests can dress in their favorite looks and blast Beyonce as they get ready to go out. \n\n### 18. Love on tour bach\n\nIf your bride is a Harry Styles fan, she’ll adore a Love on Tour theme. Decorate your venue in pastel colors and play concert footage in the background. Bachelorette party attire can be anything from flowy hippy dresses to bright, 70’s-era tops — or better yet, dress up as Harry himself! \n\n### 19. Night in Paris\n\nEmbrace your inner sparkle with a night of glitz and glam. This theme goes well with champagne dinners or after a day at the spa. The dress code should involve shimmery items and the classic red lip. Consider a fashion show, complete with catwalks and catcalls from the party. If you're going out, grab a beret for everyone to wear and offer macarons as party favors. \n\n### 20. Bride to be in Glee\n\nCalling all Gleeks! When you send your bachelorette party invitations, tell your guests to dress as their favorite Glee character. You could spend a night binge-watching the show or head out for a bar crawl in your costumes. Food and drink ideas include “cafeteria-style” charcuterie boards, boozy slushies, and fondue “for two.” \n\n## Daring bachelorette party themes\n\nDoes your bride love the spotlight? Here are a few daring themes for her to show off her wild side before she enters married life.\n\n### 21. Wiggin out\n\nGet wiggy with it! Put on your silliest wigs and go out dancing with your crew. Other activities could include classic bachelorette party games, a silly photo shoot, or a dance party at home. Pair your wigs with extravagant outfits and enjoy dinner at a laidback venue before you hit the town.\n\n### 22. Bach and boujee\n\nTreat yourself to a night of indulgence. This theme includes gold decorations, luxurious spa treatments, and plenty of champagne. Make reservations at an elegant restaurant or cocktail bar. This can be a great opportunity for a boujee photoshoot or video.\n\n### 23. Casino night\n\nA destination bachelorette trip in Vegas is always fun. However, you can throw your own casino night anywhere. Dress up in your best cocktail attire and play card games or dice at home, or visit the closest casino. If you want to emphasize the Vegas theme, throw in an Elvis costume. Make sure to decorate with bold lights and bright colors.\n\n### 24. Fifty Shades of Grey\nFor the brides with a naughty side, host a Fifty Shades of Grey party. Have every guest bring a kinky gift for the bride. She can open her gifts at the party while enjoying snacks and themed drinks. Set out an empty journal or slips of paper to let guests contribute anonymous suggestions for how to put those gifts to good use.\n\n### 25. Champagne campaign\n\nPop the champagne! Champagne Campaign is a perfect theme for a bachelorette party or bridal shower. Enjoy a champagne brunch complete with pastries and other sweets. Or, have several types of champagne and offer tastings. For decoration inspiration, check out this [champagne balloon photo backdrop](https://karaspartyideas.com/2018/03/champagne-brunch-bridal-shower.html).\n\n### 26. Karaoke night\n\nGet silly with a karaoke night! Take the squad to your local karaoke bar or rent a karaoke machine and sing your favorite songs at home. This fun theme pairs well with fruity cocktails and fun, eccentric outfits. Don’t be afraid to let your silly side shine.\n\n## Adventurous bachelorette party themes\n\nHere are a few adventurous, outdoorsy bachelorette trip themes for brides who love to get out there. \n\n### 27. Winery weekend\n\nPlan a getaway to wine country! Napa Valley, California, is famous for producing some of the world’s best wines. It’s a great place to rent a vacation home and get away for the weekend. While you’re there, visit some renowned restaurants in Santa Rosa, go for a hike along the Russian River, or visit the coast about an hour away. \n\n### 28. Bae-watch beach bash\n\nTake your bride squad to the beach and pack your best “bae-watch” bikinis. Your bachelorette beach party can include surf lessons, suntanning, and tropical drinks. Any beach destination would work for this theme, but a warm climate like Southern California or Florida is ideal.\n\n### 29. Boots and bling before the ring\n\nGet on your hat and cowgirl boots for this country-themed bachelorette party. This is the perfect theme for destinations like Nashville, Tennessee or Austin, Texas. Even though you’re dressed in Western attire, don’t be afraid to shine with sequins, flashy jewelry, and plenty of pinks. \n\n### 30. The hunt is over\n\nThis jungle-themed bachelorette is like a mini-safari. Dress up in your favorite animal prints and explore the city of your choice. Let your bride show off her wild side — you can even complete the look with animal ears and tails as party favors.\n\n### 31. Last swing before the ring\n\nIs your bride a baseball fan? Head to a ballgame with your crew, dressed in your best flashy outfits. Bring signs and try to get your bride on the jumbotron! Beers and ballpark snacks are a must, but you can also pair this theme with a fun dinner or bar crawl after the game. \n\n### 32. Flannel fling before the ring\n\nFor the outdoorsy type, a cozy, campfire-themed bach party is perfect for fall. Wear your comfiest flannels and head out for a weekend in the woods. This can be a camping trip or a getaway to a rustic cabin. Make sure you pack some marshmallows for s’mores, hot chocolate, and other tasty fireside treats. \n\n### 33. Lake life weekend\n\nHead to the lake for a laidback weekend with your crew. Activities can include canoeing or kayaking, fishing, swimming, or just tanning by the water. Head into the local town for dinner, or stay in your rental cabin and cook together. \n\n### 34. Celebrating puppy love\n\nIf your bride is an animal lover, consider spending a day volunteering at your local animal shelter. Many shelters need volunteers to walk, play with, and help socialize their dogs. You might even be able to take the pups on a hike or spend a day at the park. The only challenge? Trying not to take one home! \n\n### 35. Vail before the veil\n\nA winter bachelorette party is perfect for a spring wedding — and there’s no better winter getaway than Vail, Colorado. Rent a cabin or book some hotel rooms and hit the slopes. Printed beanies are a great way for your group to stand out, whether you’re skiing, boarding, skating, or exploring town. \n\n### 36. Jetset to the next adventure\n\nFor the international bride! Design [bachelorette party invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-nail-down-bachelorette-party-invite-wording) that look like passports, then serve food and drinks from around the world. This is a budget-friendly option to explore new places without actually leaving home. \n\n### 37. Hiking and biking\n\nMake it an active bach party by planning hikes and bike trips to whichever destination you choose. Enjoy the scenery, visit local breweries, and take plenty of photos as you go. This is the perfect theme for a casual yet adventurous bride who loves the outdoors. \n\n## Classy bachelorette party themes\n\nFor the elegant brides, here are a few themes that will make your crew feel like royalty.\n\n### 38. High-tea party\n\nSwap the mimosas for tea and enjoy a sophisticated tea party, complete with finger sandwiches, sweets, and imported chocolates. Party decorations should include florals and bright colors. If fresh flowers are in your budget, they’ll add an elegant touch to the table.\n\n### 39. Painting and wine\n\nHost a wine and painting night with your bride squad. This is a unique bachelorette theme as it lets you make your own souvenirs. You can attend a wine-and-painting class, watch a YouTube video for instruction, or just grab your paintbrushes and get creative. To keep it budget-friendly, ask every attendee to bring a bottle of wine and a snack. If you don't drink all of the wine, the bride gets to keep it for future use.\n\n### 40. Brunch and bubbly\n\nEnjoy a classy brunch with a full mimosa bar [like this one](https://www.peachfullychic.com/domestic/entertain/fall-brunch-biscuit-mimosa-bar-ideas/). This can be the start of a longer bachelorette weekend or a standalone event. Decorations can include rose-gold balloons, flowers, and champagne bottle prints.\n\n### 41. Chop it like it’s hot cooking class\n\nPut your cooking skills to the test with a professional cooking class. It could be an in-person class at your local community center or an online class with a program like MasterClass. Pop a bottle of bubbly and get cooking while listening to the bride’s favorite tunes. For party supplies, consider cute custom aprons with the date and bride’s name!\n\n### 42. Kentucky derby\n\nGet “down and derby” with your squad. This theme is all about delicious Southern cooking and extravagant outfits. Make some mint juleps or sweet tea and hand out fun party favors like [these fabulous hats](https://ohhappyday.com/2017/04/kentucky-derby-party/). \n\n### 43. Garden party\n\nEmbrace your inner fairy princess with a frilly flower garden party. Dress up in pastel colors — you can even hand out fairy wings — and host a brunch or lunch in a green garden. This is a great chance to try your croquet skills. Decorations include fresh flowers, floral prints, tiaras, and sparkles. Serve plenty of sweet treats and tea or cocoa. \n\n## Dress-up bachelorette party themes\n\nIf you and your crew love to get creative, consider these fun dress-up themes and bachelorette group outfit ideas. \n\n### 44. Come On Barbie, let’s go party\n\nShe’s everything. He’s just (insert groom’s name). Celebrate your bride with pink everything, bright workout gear, and high heels at this Malibu pool party. You could choose classic Barbie attire or ask your goals to dress up as their favorite character from the Barbie movie. Other activities include rollerblading, a dance party, or hanging out on the beach.\n\n### 45. Rockstars meet up\n\nParty like a rockstar! Dress up as your favorite rockstars and hit the town. This is a great theme for a destination bachelorette party in Vegas or another big city. If your crew prefers to stay in, throw a karaoke party or play RockBand together.\n\n### 46. Back to the 90s\n\nHave your bride squad dress up in vintage outfits and dance to your favorite 90s bands. If you want to go out, bring a boombox and blast 90’s tunes as you travel from place to place. You can end the night watching 90’s movies and TV shows. \n\n### 47. Celebrate the 80s\n\nChannel your inner Madonna with this bachelorette theme featuring big hair and 80s tunes. Put on your best spandex outfits, slap RC cola labels on your drinks, and hit the town together. As a bonus, take your squad to a karaoke bar and perform like your favorite 80s artists.\n\n### 48. Time for a masquerade\n\nThrow a classic masquerade bash with your people. This is the perfect theme for a bachelorette trip to New Orleans — eat some jambalaya and beignets, throw on some masks and party beads, and let the good times roll.\n\n### 49. Gatsby themed bash\n\nCelebrate like it’s the roaring 20s with flapper dresses, jazz, and champagne cocktails. For inspiration, check out [this Great Gatsby party](http://theblissfulbalance.com/a-little-party-never-killed-nobody/). This theme can be tons of fun for a house party or daytime pool party. \n\n### 50. Breakfast at Tiffany’s\n\nChoose Tiffany-blue décor and pearls for this party. Ask your friends to wear their favorite black bachelorette party outfit and pair it with cat-eye glasses. Throw brunch at home or in a rented venue, then spend the day shopping and \ntreating yourselves.\n\n### 51. The Royal bachelorette\n\nMake your bride feel like a queen. Take inspiration from The Crown and throw a royal English bachelorette, including teatime and English treats. As a bonus, you can pick your royalty era and dress up as Victorian or Edwardian royalty.\n\n### 52. From muggle to Mrs.\n\nIf your bride is a Harry Potter fanatic, this is the theme for you. Make your own butterbeer, serve Bertie Bott’s Every Flavor Beans, and sort your party guests into Hogwarts houses. Your invitations and décor should revolve around the theme: “We solemnly swear we’re up to no good.”\n\n### 53. So fetch bachelorette\n\nYou can’t sip with us! Wear the classic pink outfits from Mean Girls and watch the movie together. Decorations can include burn book posters and cutouts of Aaron Samuels — maybe with the groom’s face. Print T-shirts with your favorite Mean Girls quotes as party favors.\n\n### 54. Happily ever after\n\nCelebrate your bride’s happily ever after with a fairytale-themed bachelorette party. Dress up as your favorite princesses, and make sure you give the bride a tiara. This is a great theme for a brunch or daytime bachelorette party.\n\n### 55. F-R-I-E-N-D-S\n\nIt’s The One Where She Gets Married! Pay tribute to the late, great Matthew Perry with a groovy bachelorette party based on the hit 90’s sitcom. Dress in vintage 90’s clothes, print custom Central Perk mugs or shot glasses, and create an iconic yellow picture frame photo booth.\n\n### 56. Unicorn glitter\n\nFor a girly bride who loves to go all-out, throw a unicorn glitter party. Tell everyone to wear their best sparkly outfits and hand out unicorn horns as party favors. This is one of the best bachelorette theme night outfits for an outgoing group who wants to attract plenty of attention when they hit the town.\n\n### 57. Getting meowied\n\nIs your bride a crazy cat lady? A kitty-inspired bachelorette can include cat ears, funny cat prints and T-shirts, and stuffed animals as party favors. One activity could be visiting a cat café. \n\n### 58. The Bachelorette\n\nShe’s ready to give out her final rose. If your squad is renting a mansion for your party, why not celebrate like you’re on The Bachelorette? Wear stunning cocktail dresses and binge-watch the series as you’re getting ready. For activities, pick your favorite date concepts from the show. \n\n### 59. Sex and the city\n\nGet inspired by the original iconic girl squad. This is a fabulous yet sophisticated theme for a bridal party that loves to dress up. Watch the TV series or movies as you get ready, then head out to your favorite cocktail bar dressed as the characters.\n\n### 60. Disney magic\n\nEvery bride deserves a magical bachelorette party. A Disney trip is an amazing choice for a destination bachelorette trip. However, you can also throw your own Disney Magic party at home with Disney-themed decorations, the bride’s favorite movies, and snacks and drinks inspired by the happiest place on Earth.\n\n### Find what you need to plan all your wedding activities at Zola\n\nOnce you pick your theme, it’s time to start planning. This is the fun part! You’ll find everything you need for the party, from [bachelorette party shirts](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/eventblossom_retro_bridal_party_fitted_tshirt) to the best [venues and vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors), at Zola. \n","body2":" \n\n### Bride's Final Fiesta\n\nPerfect for any time of year, this theme brings together delicious [food](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-food-ideas) and bright colors to create an atmosphere that makes you want to sip margaritas with your senoritas. Celebrate the bride to be with a fiesta themed party full of quirky cactus decor and pinatas. Using just balloons and streamers, you can turn any hotel room or guest house into a desert oasis. As for the tasty treats, margarita flavored cupcakes and a nacho or taco bar make great party snacks. \n\nThis final fiesta will have all of your girls crashing for a siesta in the afternoon. \n\n__Activity ideas:__\n- Try out salsa dancing\n- Build your own taco bar\n- Take a swing at a pinata\n\n__Destination ideas:__\n- San Diego, California\n- Miami, Florida\n- Cancun, Mexico\n\n![bachelorette-party-ideas-fiesta](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/68r9HBSRNt1Hlo6QPrs4Jp/2d888ba574a51c1765ac6b01893533ba/bachelorette-party-ideas-fiesta.jpg)\n\n__Sources:__ Fiesta sign via [Giggles Galore](https://gigglesgalore.net/boho-chicks-and-churros-fiesta-party/) | Fiesta cookies via [Cowtown Cookie Co.](https://www.cowtowncookieco.com/cookies) | Cactus balloons via [Design Improvised](https://designimprovised.com/2015/06/cactus-balloons.html) | Fiesta garland via [The House That Lars Built](http://thehousethatlarsbuilt.com/2018/04/printable-papel-picado-streamers.html/) | Siesta blanket and eyemasks via and [Simply Audree Kate](https://www.simplyaudreekate.com/bachelorette-weekend-arsenas-final-fiesta/) and [Brooke Marcella Photography](https://www.brookemarcella.com/)\n\n \n\n### Glamping Girls Weekend\n\nBachelorette parties are perfect for escaping the stress of planning a wedding so why not escape to the great outdoors? For the bride who likes to explore and unwind, consider planning a weekend in the woods for you and your girls. Whether you decide to stay in a cabin or glamping tent, this weekend will be full of new experiences. Create a cozy atmosphere using lots of blankets and pillows to make your campsite feel like home. For party favors, you can make some adorable fire starter kits with matches or create your own rustic wood coasters. \n\nHead out to where the wild things are and create a weekend full of happy campers. \n\n__Activity ideas:__\n- Take a nature hike\n- Make smores around the campfire\n- Try outdoor sports like fishing or whitewater rafting\n\n__Destination ideas:__\n- Denver, Colorado\n- Jackson, Wyoming\n- Portland, Oregon\n\n![bachelorette-party-ideas-glamping](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/aFK61BmuPalOGWV449AcE/802c15a17be4f288a8c81d230641d2e1/bachelorette-party-ideas-glamping.jpg)\n\n__Sources:__ Glamping tent and blankets via [Gypsy Canyon Baja](https://www.gypsycanyonbaja.com/) and [Ana and Jerome Photography](https://www.anaandjerome.com/) | Wooden coasters via [House of Hawthornes](https://www.houseofhawthornes.com/arrow-wood-slice-coasters/) | Camp rules via [Legally Crafty](https://www.legallycraftyblog.com/blog/a-weekend-in-the-woods-camp-themed-bachelorette-party) and [Just Add Confetti](https://www.justaddconfetti.com/) | S’mores bar via [Katherine Mendieta](http://www.katherinemendieta.com/travel/glamping-bachelorette-camp-wandawega-wisconsin)\n\n \n\n### Tropic Like It’s Hot\n\nTake the bachelorette party to the tropics for a weekend that feels like a mini-vacay. Palm leaf prints, fresh florals, and bold colors make this tropical party bright and cheery. Add some fun flamingo and pineapple decor to turn your room into a tropical oasis. Sip fruity cocktails by the pool or head to the beach for a fun day in the sun. Adorn some fabulous straw beach hats and bright pool floats for a pool party no one will forget. \n\nAs the bride says “aloha” to married life, take this weekend to pamper her special girls.\n\n__Activity ideas:__\n- Get group manicures and pedicures\n- Hangout poolside\n- Play prosecco pong\n\n__Destination ideas:__\n- Key West, Florida\n- Cabo San Lucas, Mexico\n- Palm Springs, California\n\n![bachelorette-party-ideas-tropical](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4dlWYjR63Dzu6Japx7Agt/87d6bb8f216631e54426f1bbfd9346b3/bachelorette-party-ideas-tropical.jpg) \n\n__Sources:__ Pastel party decor via [Everyday Pursuits](https://www.everydaypursuits.com/blog/2018/3/2/epic-palm-springs-bachelorette-party) & [Valorie Darling Photography](https://valoriedarlingphotography.com/) | Mimosa bar and floral ice cubes via [The Beauty Approach](http://www.injessiland.com/2017/06/08/vintage-tropical-baby-shower/) | Pool floats via [Madison Short](https://madisonrshort.com/tropical-bridesmaid-brunch/) and [Christine McFarlane Events](https://www.christinemcfarlaneevents.com/) | Flamingo party cups via [Boxwood Avenue](https://boxwoodavenue.com/blog/diy-flamingo-pineapple-party-cups) \n\n \n\n## Additional Bachelorette Party Themes for Every Bride\n\n\n### For the Low Key Bride\n- __No Boys Allowed Slumber Party:__ Watch endless movies, paint your nails and eat plenty of snacks for a sleepover-themed bachelorette like this one from [Studio DIY](https://studiodiy.com/2017/09/05/holographic-neon-slumber-party/).\n- __Mani’s and Mimosas Spa Day:__ Take the girls to a spa for some facials, manicures and of course, mimosas. \n- __Backyard BBQ:__ Perfect for when the weather is nice, invite your girl squad over for a chill backyard party full of barbeque and brews. \n- __Yoga Themed:__ For the yogi bride, “Namaslay” with your girls and find time to [relax](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/top-15-places-to-go-to-for-a-bachelorette-party) before the big day. \n- __Movie Night:__ Make it a marathon and wear your PJs for a cozy night in. Or, take the movie outside and set up a projector to watch under the stars. \n- __Vintage Vibe Campout:__ Go retro and unplug in a vintage trailer for a throwback weekend like this party from [100 Layer Cake](http://www.100layercake.com/bachelorette-shower/lets-get-cozy-bachelorette-party-shoot/).\n- __Celestial Celebration:__ Throw a star party and get in touch with the cosmos since the bride has found someone she loves to the moon and back. \n- __Game Night:__ Have all the girls bring their favorite board games and card games over and spend the night laughing and playing together. \n\n### For the Wife of the Party\n- __Winery Weekend:__ Hit the vineyards and feel like you’re on cloud wine with your crew. Tour multiple wineries for a weekend getaway that helps you stop and smell the rosé. \n- __Feyoncé Bachelorette:__ Since he put a ring on it, celebrate in true Beyoncé style with a glammed out bachelorette full of dancing and being fabulous.\n- __Brew and Views:__ Take the bride to be to a number of breweries around town and add some sightseeing onto your itinerary. \n- __Wiggin Out:__ Put on a silly wig with your crew and dance like nobody’s watching. Mix up hair colors and styles and go all out for the bride. \n- __Bach and Boujee:__ It's girls night out. Think gold, luxurious and lots of champagne. Indulge in a bachelorette party where you treat yourself and your crew. \n- __Casino:__ If you can’t make it to Vegas, bring the lively atmosphere to your bachelorette party with casino-themed games and decor. Throw in an Elvis costume and party it up Vegas style. \n- __Fifty Shades of Grey:__ Throw a panty party for the bride and gift her all kinds of intimates for her wedding night. \n- __Champagne Campaign:__ Pop the champagne, she’s changing her last name! Decorate the party with a champagne balloon wall like this one from [Kara's Party Ideas](https://karaspartyideas.com/2018/03/champagne-brunch-bridal-shower.html) for a great photo backdrop.\n\n### For the Adventurous Bride\n- __Baewatch Beach Bash:__ Wifeguard or bride to bae? Hit the beach for a fun weekend in the sun and sand.\n- __Boots and Bling Before the Ring:__ Saddle up and have a wild western party for the honkytonk bride complete with cowgirl boots, hats, and bandanas. \n- __The Hunt is Over:__ This jungle themed bachelorette lets you dress up as a wild thing and party it up with the bride. Lions, tigers, and bears—oh my!\n- __Last Swing Before the Ring:__ Attend a baseball game and root for #teambride as you guys round out the homestretch of wedding planning. \n- __Flannel Fling Before the Ring:__ Perfect for fall and winter, wear matching flannels for a cozy weekend in the cabin. \n- __Lake Life Weekend:__ Head to the lake for a relaxing weekend outside with your ladies like this photoshoot from [Tinker Tin](http://www.tinkertin.com/blog/tag/Camping). Take the boat out for a sunset cruise and “cheers” to the married life.\n- __Cheers Beaches:__ Rent a beach house and stay oceanside for a weekend celebrating the bride to be. \n- __Vail Before the Veil:__ Plan a trip to Colorado and spend the weekend hitting the slopes or cozying up by the fire.\n- __Traveling from Miss to Mrs:__ Make [bachelorette party invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-nail-down-bachelorette-party-invite-wording) that resemble passports or boarding passes and throw the jet-setting bride a travel-themed party with cuisine and drinks from all around the world.\n- __Hiking and Biking:__ No matter what city the party is in, try renting bikes for a cruise around town or hike a local nature trail. \n\n### For the Classy Bride\n- __Tea Party:__ Swap out mimosas for tea and throw a sophisticated tea party full of florals. \n- __Painting and Wine:__ Grab a glass and paintbrush and let the wine do the painting. This is one of the few bachelorette parties where you make your own souvenir. \n- __Brunch and Bubbly:__ Bring brunch to the bachelorette with a mimosa bar like this from [Peachfully Chic](http://www.peachfullychic.com/domestic/entertain/fall-brunch-biscuit-mimosa-bar-ideas/). \n- __Chop it Like it’s Hot Cooking Class:__ Test your kitchen skills and learn a new recipe with the girls by signing up for a cooking class. Pop open a bottle of bubbly and get cooking!\n- __Kentucky Derby:__ Get “Down and Derby” with your bride squad as you eat southern comfort food and wear extravagant hats like this party from [Oh Happy Day](http://ohhappyday.com/2017/04/kentucky-derby-party/).\n- __Garden Party:__ Host your own secret garden bachelorette and make your own floral bouquets or pick berries at a local farm. \n- __Night in Paris:__ Celebrate in Parisian style by hosting a bash with macarons, champagne, and French eats. \n\n### For the Bride Who Loves to Dress Up\n- __Rockstar:__ Party like a rockstar and dress as famous rockers before you hit the town. \n- __90s:__ If the bride is obsessed with all things 90s, have the bachelorette party dress up in vintage outfits and dance to your favorite 90s bands. \n- __80s:__ Girls just wanna have fun. Channel your inner Madonna and throw a bachelorette with big hair and tunes from the 80s. \n- __Masquerade:__ Perfect for a New Orleans bachelorette party, grab some masks and beads and let the good times roll. \n- __Gatsby:__ A little party never killed nobody! Dress up in flapper dancer outfits and throw a bach bash even Gatsby would be jealous of like this one from [The Blissful Balance](http://theblissfulbalance.com/a-little-party-never-killed-nobody/).\n- __Breakfast at Tiffany’s:__ Tiffany blue decor and pearls set the scene for the perfect party. Have the girls wear their favorite little black dress and a pair of sunglasses to complete the theme. \n- __The Royal Bachelorette:__ Make the bride feel like a true queen by throwing a royal bachelorette party complete with English treats and tea. \n- __Come on Barbie, Let’s Go Party:__ Pink everything. Host a Malibu pool party or wear your brightest workout gear for a party that is both plastic and fantastic. \n- __From Muggle to Mrs:__ Keep the butterbeer coming for the bride to be. Celebrate with your favorite wizards and solemnly swear you’ll be up to no good. \n- __So Fetch Bachelorette:__ You can’t sip with us. Wear the classic pink outfits and watch the movie on repeat for a bachelorette inspired by Mean Girls. \n- __Happily Ever After:__ For the fairytale bride, dress up as different princesses and throw a ball that doesn’t have to end at midnight. \n- __F-R-I-E-N-D-S:__ The One Where She Gets Married. Pay tribute to the classic 90s TV show by hosting a party with Central Perk coffee and a yellow picture frame photo booth. \n- __Unicorn:__ The bride found her unicorn! Throw her a magical bachelorette bash with glitter and rainbows to celebrate just how special she is. \n- __Getting Meowied:__ If your favorite cat lady is tying the knot soon, plan her last meow with plenty of kitty-inspired decorations and maybe a few furry friends. \n- __The Bachelorette:__ Who will get the final rose? Dress up in stunning cocktail dresses and bring out the roses and champagne. Bonus points if you stay in a bachelor-style mansion. \n- __Pineapple:__ Party like a pineapple and host a party full of tropical flavors and decor. \n- __Donut Delight:__ In case you ever needed an excuse to have a donut wall at your bachelorette party. Check out this donut board from [Going for Grace](http://www.goingforgrace.com/how-to-donut-board/) for inspiration. \n- __Sex and the City:__ This iconic girl squad makes the perfect theme for a bride who is both fabulous and sophisticated. Dress up as your favorite characters and play the TV series or movies in the background. \n\nAfter all the fun of a bachelorette party and [games](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-games) to be played, you’ll need to pick out the [perfect present](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) for the bride to be. The bride may have just found her match, but she’s always had a strong group of supportive girls surrounding her.","tag":"Bride's Crew","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":" All the tips you need so that your bachelorette party goes off without a hitch! 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Here's a list of things to bring to a bachelorette party.","title":"What to Pack for a Bachelorette Party","slug":"pack-for-a-bachelorette-party","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7HPMkeTTs8MK81DT582XVE/d6690a8c3b1573931158c77d6030bfd3/Hero_Paul_Johnson_Photography.jpg","altText":"bachelorette party"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"No matter what you have in mind for your special night, we’ve created a list of our favorite bachelorette party games for a celebration you and your party guests won’t forget.","title":"28 Bachelorette Party Games the Whole Squad Will Love + Free Printables","slug":"bachelorette-party-games","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1B8QpFhLdsBbKrmd6RrtN8/459ea1e6c3c3bded7406b6303d4ae9ea/24-Bachelorette-Party-Games.jpg","altText":"Bachelorette Party Game Printables"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:55:36.557Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Bachelorette party","slug":"bachelorette-party"},"slug":"bachelorette-party-game-questions-youll-love","title":"Bachelorette Party Game Questions You'll Love","excerpt":"Our favorite questions to ask the bride-to-be, their partner, and their friends at any bachelorette party.","author":"Shira Telushkin","publishedAt":"2021-02-10T18:44:13.231Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6QpKArZHKlMgd2irMCLZ48/65196b3a046862bbaff62b0878b4226a/Hero_Zola__40_.jpg","altText":"Bachelorette Party Game Questions"},"heroCredit":"Zola","body":"The party game questions are the heart and soul of every good bachelorette party. With the bride-to-be celebrating her right of passage into married life, there are bound to be fun or even burning questions swirling around from both friends and family that they're dying to have answered. And a night full of activities like pampering trips to day spas or bar hopping and dancing is the perfect time to spill the deets.\n\nHere are our favorite questions to ask when playing the \"Who Knows Who Best\" game at your bachelorette party.\n\n### Who Knows Who Best: Couples Edition \n\n![Bachelorette Party Game Questions You'll Love ](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6U3MF8CzKEY4UQxa4hVGTo/08a1ea1cecd5e6cc0042045cbb3c965e/inline_shutterstock2.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Shutterstock\n\nThis bachelorette party game is played by coming up with a list of questions in advance, which are sent to the bride’s partner. Once he has filled out the list of questions with his answers, the bridesmaids pose the questions to the bride, who answers first. The bridesmaids then see if the bride’s answers match what her partner said! \n\nThe questions work best when they are tailored to your insider knowledge about the couple. If the groom always has the same stress dream before a big day at work, or the bride has a rare collection of spiders, then those are great areas to ask questions about in this fun game. The general questions are amusing, but try to think about unique quirks and tics specific to the couple, and ask them questions about those. \n\nOf course, some questions can be pretty tame, or at least comfortable for a wide range of bachelorette party guests. However, if you want your bachelorette party to have more of a wild side, then think more salaciously, and don’t be afraid to ask more bold quiz questions. When it comes to [bachelorette party etiquette](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-etiquette-101), the most important tip is to know your audience.\n\n__Here are some great questions to ask for this bachelorette game idea: __\n\n- When did you know that you fell in love with the bride?\n- What was the moment that you think the bride fell in love with you?\n- What was the first thing that the bride said after you proposed? (For the bride: What was the first thing that you said after the proposal?)\n- What’s one thing in your closet that the bride would want you to get rid of?\n- Where would the bride want your ideal honeymoon to be?\n- If you had to eat one favorite food for three months, what would it be?\n- What favorite food do you think the bride would eat for three months? \n- What TV show did the bride most recently binge?\n- Who was more annoying as a child? \n- For the bride: Dog or cat?\n- For the groom: Dog or cat?\n- For the bride: Sweet or savory?\n- For the groom: Sweet or savory?\n- Would the bride rather be hot or cold?\n- Who would be better in an emergency? Why? \n- Who would better handle an unexpected layover on a trip? \n- Who is a better swimmer?\n- Who is more helpful when building furniture?\n- What is the bride’s ideal pizza topping?\n- What is the one habit that the bride finds most annoying about you?\n- What does the bride find most attractive about you?\n- What do you find most attractive about the bride?\n- What is the bride’s favorite novel?\n- What’s the one song that will always get you onto the dance floor?\n- Who would be on the bride’s celebrity “cheat” list?\n- What is your most embarrassing moment? \n- Sunrise or sunset? \n- If the bride could live anywhere in the world for a year, where would she live?\n- How soon after you met did you kiss the bride?\n- Who made the first move?\n- Who is more adventurous in bed?\n- What’s one thing that the bride wants to try in bed? \n\n### Who Knows Her Best: Friendship Edition\n\n![Bachelorette Party Game Questions You'll Love ](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5LobD0VRIOpz8hZ2iH28g0/d2662e81fe9973d3d4751177fe1d9549/inline_shutterstock.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Shutterstock\n\nAnother fun game idea is to get the bridesmaids in on the question action and see who, among her best friends, knows her the best. This game can be a fun, sweet game between friends. Sometimes, wedding parties can have tensions between different groups of friends and some relatives, so don’t try to pit different bridesmaids against one another. Ultimately, the point is for the bride to feel loved, so while a little bit of roasting is fine, don’t go overboard. Your audience will probably guide how tame, or risque, you want the bachelorette party game questions to be. \n\n__Here are some great questions to see who knows the bride best:__ \n\n- What is the bride’s shoe size?\n- Who was the bride’s first kiss?\n- Who was her first celebrity crush?\n- When is the bride’s birthday?\n- Has she ever dyed her hair? What’s the most adventurous thing she’s done with her hair?\n- What was her best subject in school?\n- What was her worst subject in school?\n- Where was her first trip abroad? \n- What is the bride’s go-to brunch order? How does she like her eggs?\n- What is the bride’s go-to drink order?\n- What is the bride’s most irrational fear?\n- What is her most embarrassing story?\n- If the bride could become any animal, which animal would she choose?\n- What is the bride’s middle name?\n- Who was the bride named after?\n- Name all of the members of her immediate family.\n- What flavor of cake did the bride choose for the wedding cake?\n- What was the first dish that the bride learned to cook? When did she learn to cook?\n- What’s the bride’s favorite feature about herself? \n\nNo matter what kind of bachelorette party you’re throwing, the party game questions are always a hit, so make sure to include them as part of the bachelorette party checklist. This Zola list of best bachelorette party game questions will get you started in the right direction. ","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Planning a destination bachelorette party? Check out these ideas for the ultimate girls trip before you say “I do.” Read on to get inspired.","title":"Top 15 Places to Go to For a Bachelorette Party","slug":"top-15-places-to-go-to-for-a-bachelorette-party","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1Za08plUYTsJgT0hnlrf1k/809447b4b82e5ecf0264dd3846eb08b6/unnamed__1_.jpg","altText":"Top 15 Places to Go to For a Bachelorette Party"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Discover the 60 best bachelorette party themes of 2024 with ideas for activities, drinks, and food. 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How do you decide who to invite? Here's everything you need to know about guest lists and who to invite.","title":"How Many People Should I Invite to My Wedding?","slug":"how-many-people-to-invite-to-a-wedding","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1ZpIxwqIcetPEILmdpBQj4/940fd517a85d46fd0d37e3b1f3cfcb53/hero_HowManyGuests.jpg","altText":"Graphic of four people standing in a line celebrating"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:55:48.965Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Bachelorette party","slug":"bachelorette-party"},"slug":"joint-bachelor-bachelorette-party-games","title":"How to Throw a Joint Bachelor/Bachelorette Party","excerpt":"Thinking of hosting a joint bachelor/bachelorette party? Check out these unique party ideas for an unforgettable event. ","publishedAt":"2021-08-16T17:05:52.204Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/uZOhp33IRTbkGTF79OWGe/fd748182a0e974f8d4a1ded0cf3ff1b1/group-of-friends-clinking-wine-glasses__1_.jpg","altText":"group-of-friends-clinking-wine-glasses"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/","body":"Brides, grooms and same-sex couples are increasingly searching for unique ways to celebrate their wedding day, and ideas on how to throw a [more inclusive wedding](https://www.modernrebelco.com/) gathering is at the top of the list for many. Now more than ever, modern-day wedding goers want to celebrate in a way that includes all ages, genders and backgrounds.\n\nIf you have a flair for the non-traditional or are looking to host a more inclusive party, why not consider a joint bachelor/bachelorette bash? It gives you and your soon-to-be-betrothed a chance to gather all your closest friends before the big day, and doesn’t box you into any typical wedding traditions that don’t ring true to you. For an unforgettable event, here are 15 joint bachelor/bachelorette party games and ideas to get you started. \n\n- Icebreaker Bingo Printables \n- Couple's Trivia Printables\n\n## What Is a Joint Bachelor/Bachelorette Party? \n![what-is-a-joint-bachelor-bachelorette-party](//images.contentful.com/ut7rzv8yehpf/1ihzre63F2qajWB27YrYgy/7a4c6a714fe11cd29c1c1c1d9d8e169f/what-is-a-joint-bachelor-bachelorette-party.jpg)\nA joint bachelor/bachelorette event is much more than a coed party—it’s a party that celebrates both halves of the soon-to-be-wed. Instead of focusing the festivities on just one person, a joint bachelor/bachelorette event brings both parties together for the ultimate celebration inspired by the couple as a whole. \n\nEnter a bachelorx: the pre-wedding party that lets you decide who you’ll include in your celebration, without the need to ascribe to inherently gendered traditions that limit your ability to freely celebrate in a way that feels right for you. This modern day wedding trend breaks down the traditional barriers of a bachelor or bachelorette party, and offers the chance for a more gender inclusive event. \n\n## Why Combine Your Parties?\n![why-combine-your-parties](//images.contentful.com/ut7rzv8yehpf/18BV35ZcB5MnQq9GAuOJHG/b0c48a699ce7b489656824ad437c3112/why-combine-your-parties.jpg)\nA couple may choose to throw a joint bachelor/bachelorette party for different reasons, but there are a few distinct advantages to combining the event. Whether your preferred party style is an over-the-top destination trip or something more low-key at home, many couples are opting for a joint event as they look beyond traditional wedding festivities and find more out-of-the-box ways to celebrate in a way that makes sense to them. \n\nAside from being a less traditional way to celebrate, a joint event makes sense for couples who have many of the same friends and want to create a more inclusive celebration with all of them at once. And if you and your partner don’t share the same friends, a combined party is an opportunity to give both friend groups a chance to get to know each other before the wedding and bring groups closer before the big day.\n\n## 15 Joint Bachelor and Bachelorette Party Games\n![joint-bachelor-and-bachelorette-party-games](//images.contentful.com/ut7rzv8yehpf/11WZ3eLgNUF0ZJPET9jg3m/9ab782f8527ededa36b550328229af89/joint-bachelor-and-bachelorette-party-games.jpg)\n\n### 1. Race Down the Aisle\nStart your party off the right way with a fun activity that gets your guests moving! This classic three-legged race is perfect for setting a lighthearted mood to carry you throughout your event. To play, have guests break into partners and use a wedding garter or scarf to bind their legs together. Try not to laugh as you all compete to race down the “aisle” the fastest!\n\n### 2. Friendly Competition \nA bit of friendly competition never hurt anybody, and adding some competitive play to your festivities is the perfect way to help bond your wedding parties before the big day. Whether you want to scope out a local field space or use your own backyard, you can spin this activity any way you like it, but we recommend an Olympic-style relay tournament to keep people on their toes. Drinks that night are on the losing team!\n\n### 3. Scavenger Hunt\nFor an exciting, interactive activity that brings your wedding parties together, go all out with a scavenger hunt. The personalization options are endless, whether you choose a specific theme or focus it around the group’s knowledge of the bride and groom. Go old school and have people collect items or photos, and decide whether you want to stick to a limited area or spread across your whole city for an all day affair. At the end of the hunt, have the teams come together at a central location for dinner and drinks. \n\n### 4. Ring Hunt\nFor a more active activity, take a cue from this scavenger hunt-inspired Ring Hunt game—all you need is some toy rings or Ring Pops! Before guests arrive, hide the rings throughout the home (or wherever you’re hosting your party) and challenge guests to find them by a certain time. Whoever finds the most rings wins! To make it more festive, create a fun DIY sign with the game instructions to display at the event. \n\n### 5. Wedding Shoe Game\nThis tried and true wedding game is sure to make guests giggle as they see how well the happy couple really know each other—and the only props required are the shoes on their feet! To play, put two chairs back-to-back and have the couple take a seat so they’re facing away from each other. Have both take off their shoes and swap one of them, so that each person is holding one of their own shoes and one of their partner’s. \n\nTo begin, have the host read out questions about the couple. (For example, “Who made the first move?” and “Who’s the messy one?”). After each question, the couple raises the shoe of the person they think the question describes. Since they can’t see each other, it’s a hilarious way to gauge how the couple’s opinions might differ!\n\n### 6. Adult Summer Camp\nIf you’re looking for a joint event with plenty of adventure, consider escaping to an adult summer camp. These camps recreate the authentic summer camp experience you might’ve experienced as a kid, but with adult-only perks like no curfew and boozy social events. From outdoor activities and campfires to foam parties and talent shows, there’s something for every wedding group. You’ll find these camps scattered across the U.S.—Camp No Counselors features a variety of group camp activities during the day, and open bars and themed parties fill the evenings for a unique experience. \n\n### 7. Clothespin Game\nThis activity makes for a perfect icebreaker, and is a great way to kick off your bash with a little friendly competition. To prepare, gather clothespins (at least one per guest) and pick a “forbidden” wedding-themed word (like honeymoon, dress, or ring). Have guests attach their pin to their clothing once they arrive and announce the forbidden word. If another guest catches someone saying the word, the offender must give them their pin. Whoever ends up with the most pins wins! \n\n### 8. Host a Backyard Barbecue\n![host-a-backyard-bbq](//images.contentful.com/ut7rzv8yehpf/5bxnja3bDSthhPbiIxqgxh/6827feee153caedb7e4c6c9382e042bf/host-a-backyard-bbq.jpg)\nIf your party style is more low-key or you’re looking for a more affordable joint event, a backyard barbecue might be what you’re looking for. It requires minimal planning and coordinating and is far cheaper than an all-out [destination event](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/destination-wedding-checklist \"Destination Wedding Checklist\")—something your wedding party’s wallets will appreciate. Make it special by creating a theme, finding fun decorations, and customizing the menu for a memorable bash. \n\n### 9. How Old Were They? Photo Game\nThis party game is a fun way to bring guests together while also giving a nod to the happy couple. Before your event, grab a series of old photos of you and your partner at different ages. You can either print them out, or compile them in a slideshow that you play at the party. Have each guest write down how old they think each partner was in each photo, then reveal the correct answers at the end to see who wins! \n\n### 10. Two Truths and a Lie\nThis icebreaker game is a longtime favorite, and it works well for both close-knit groups or groups who are still getting to know each other! To play, each guest comes up with two truths and a lie about themselves. Take turns sharing your answers while the group tries to guess which one is the lie. You might be surprised by what you learn about the group! \n\n### 11. Pizza Box Toss\nWhether you’re ending a wild night out with pizza or made pizza your feast of choice for the evening, all that’s required for this game is an empty pizza box. To play, toss a coin in the box and draw a circle around it. Choose a task to be written inside the circle, for example, “truth or dare” or “make eye contact with someone for 1 minute”. Have guests toss their coins and add a new task and circle each time. If your coin lands inside a circle at any point, you have to perform the corresponding task! \n\n### 12. Wedding Charades\nThis interactive game is perfect for large groups and is a great way to bring your guests together. First, you’ll need to write down wedding-themed songs, movies and other items on slips of paper. This could be anything from romantic movies like The Notebook to common wedding phrases like “cut the cake” or “first dance”. \n\nPlace the slips of paper in a bowl and divide guests into two teams. One player from the first team pulls a card and has to act out whatever is written on it. They get two minutes to act it out while their team tries to guess what it is. If someone guesses correctly, the team gets a point and it’s now that person’s turn. If no one guesses the phrase, it’s the next team’s turn. \n\n### 13. Classic game night \n![classic-game-night](//images.contentful.com/ut7rzv8yehpf/54YDtLYC7naObiw0Jk2T8N/aaeb6bca9d1612c2c2a4a988ad490142/classic-game-night.jpg)\nContrary to popular belief, your bachelor/bachelorette party doesn’t have to be an all-night rager at a club. For a simpler affair that doesn’t require a huge budget, consider hosting a game night with you and your crew. Stick with classics like Clue, Monopoly or Catan, or in the spirit of weddings, add a raunchy twist with something like Cards Against Humanity. To uplevel the evening, you might even rent out a hotel suite for an upgraded sleepover vibe (complete with drinks and snacks, of course.) \n\n\n\n### 14. Ice Breaker Bingo\nIf you don’t have many shared friends between your two wedding parties, this icebreaker bingo game gives guests a chance to mingle and learn more about each other. For this party game, the group must find people at the party who admit to the characteristics on the bingo card. Once you find a match, write that person’s name in the corresponding box. The first person to complete a row across, down or diagonally wins! \n\n![icebreaker-bingo-mockup ](//images.contentful.com/77l22z9el0aa/48HucpnyhpEuguz1onQPnO/b58e472b6ec6ab87d10dcc2a009eaf90/icebreaker-bingo-mockup__1_.jpg)\n\n[![button-icebreaker-bingo](//images.contentful.com/ut7rzv8yehpf/1IB5tFDkrS8AttnUGmNja2/8bef6ffe40cc3d7856dffe2a60326241/download-icebreaker-bingo.png)](//assets.contentful.com/ut7rzv8yehpf/5zkROPOZGDrxnJ4F492k4i/cfc87de4822e75974b6bf8092ee2e7fd/icebreaker-bingo.pdf)\n\n\n\n### 15. Trivia Test\nFor a party game that invites a bit of friendly competition, [put your groups’ knowledge of the happy couple to the test.](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/newlywed-game-questions) This activity is a fun way to see how well your crew knows the bride and groom. Start a timer and have each guest answer as many questions as they can on the questionnaire. Then, have the couple read the correct answers aloud so guests can score themselves. You might be surprised how well your guests really know you!\n\n![who-knows-the-couple-best-mockup](//images.contentful.com/77l22z9el0aa/4ybdhWWUzHYa2CJ3A1KlpY/d1b55f87804acd4fbf5806df2847ea78/who-knows-the-couple-best-mockup.jpg)\n\n[![download-couple-trivia](//images.contentful.com/77l22z9el0aa/4YjiZkDvVGRHvyOX0cIDob/d7de5a605abfbb29bd6f3cefe1e26802/download-couple-trivia.png)](//assets.contentful.com/77l22z9el0aa/4It5Qf4zkf49ClXJSke7ZF/1eb0d184854b020028d17ed7c8d375cc/who-knows-the-couple-best.pdf)\n\n## Joint Bachelor and Bachelorette Party Planning Tips\n![joint-bachelor-and-bachelorette-party-planning-tips](//images.contentful.com/ut7rzv8yehpf/1rLsVouniseAXQLukAiAnE/f166b040130fb846fa8d3600ab963137/joint-bachelor-and-bachelorette-party-planning-tips.jpg)\nIf you’ve decided to rally both wedding parties together for a combined pre-wedding romp, there are a few things to keep in mind that can make the planning process smoother. \n\n### Consider Your Guest List as A Couple\nThe guest list for your event is arguably the most important part of the planning process, so take some time to craft it thoughtfully. Unlike pre-wedding events like showers and engagement parties (or even the wedding itself), there’s no must-invite list for a bachelor or bachelorette party. Instead, think about the type of event you want to throw and what that might look like as a combined group. \n\nTake some time to think about your ideal guest list as a couple. If both of your friend groups already know each other, it won’t be too difficult to plan a party that you know everyone will enjoy. However, if your friend groups don’t know each other well, think about how both groups might get along and craft your guest list from there. In the end, your final guest list should be one that both you and your partner feel good about. \n\nIt’s also important to manage guest expectations—make sure they know that a coed party doesn’t mean “bring a date.” Feel free to pick whoever you want to join in on the fun, and consider how the number of guests will impact your party budget. \n\n### Pick a Theme \nThe options for great party ideas are endless, but choosing an overarching theme can help focus your plans and activities. It helps to make your decision based on the collective tastes of the group (although ultimately, it should be whatever you and your sweetheart want it to be.) \n\nDo your friends enjoy some physical activity and the outdoors? Or do you think a bustling social scene is more their style? Do you want to get wild or do something more low-key? Answering these questions beforehand can make it easier to decide on the focus of your party. From there, you can explore games and activities that fall under the overarching theme. \n\n### Consider Your Budget\n![consider-your-budget](//images.contentful.com/ut7rzv8yehpf/4dvL54Q7Z25ADyMzyQ0tpy/a56b0fc51cd8a678fe2b673bbc4e61a3/consider-your-budget.jpg)\nNailing down a budget can be the trickiest part of the planning process, and throwing a combined party means you have twice as many guests to account for. To help smooth out the process, use a tool like [SurveyMonke](https://www.surveymonkey.com/)y to send a poll to your guests to get a feel for the ideal party budget. Choose budget range categories and ask guests to select how much they can plan to spend at the event. Their answers can give you a better idea of what you can and can’t afford for your party. \n\nPlanning a joint bachelor/bachelorette party might seem overwhelming, but once you nail the most important details down like your guest list and budget, all that’s left is deciding how you want to celebrate! If you're looking for more tips on how to plan an untraditional wedding, sites like Modern Rebel has tons of inspiration helping couples rewrite the rules of weddings. What matters most is that you’re surrounded by your closest friends as you prepare for your wedding day. For more planning tips, check out our [expert advice](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice?_branch_match_id=907675406038907225) for answers to all your wedding questions. \n","tag":"How-To ","updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:55:48.237Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Bachelorette party","slug":"bachelorette-party"},"slug":"what-to-wear-to-a-bachelorette-party","title":"What to Wear to a Bachelorette Party + 20 Outfit Ideas","excerpt":"Headed off to a bachelorette party? Make sure that you’re dressed right with our easy guide on what to wear.","author":"Jane Chertoff","publishedAt":"2021-02-02T18:27:25.279Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6wKA0OtqK2vpOznYnbN0Lf/0d658df4574d04c4fb097916030b3e85/Hero_Zola__19_.jpg","altText":"What to Wear to a Bachelorette Party"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- Bachelorette attire should be based on the location and time of year of the party—Vegas calls for glitzy dresses, while matching robes and sweats can be for a spa weekend.\n- The bride doesn’t have to wear white—she can choose silver, pink, gold, or even yellow to stand out instead.\n- Send out a detailed itinerary in advance so that everyone knows exactly what to wear to each event. \n","body":"Wondering what you should wear to an upcoming [bachelorette party weekend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bachelorette-party)? This is an event you’ve been looking forward to forever, so let’s get you dressed. Picking out the perfect outfit(s) sets the tone for the whole weekend—but it doesn’t have to be complicated. \n\nYou might go with the traditional little black dress (LBD) if you’re a guest and a [little white dress](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/second-looks?spi=46) if you’re the bride-to-be. There are endless variations on this, of course. You’ll also want to consider the location where the bachelorette weekend will be held and what kind of events you’ll be doing over the weekend. \n\nHere’s a guide to outfits that are [appropriate for a bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-etiquette-101) so that you can celebrate to your heart’s content all weekend with your favorite people.\n\n## Location, Location, Location \nWhat you pack for Vegas isn’t going to be the same as a girl’s spa and wine weekend in Napa, so, when choosing [what to pack for a bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pack-for-a-bachelorette-party), you’ll need to consider the location and weather carefully. Some ideas for what to wear in some popular destinations are below. \n\n### Las Vegas Bachelorette\nYou can get away with wearing almost anything (or barely anything!) in Vegas. The summers tend to be hot, while the winter months are cooler and may not be warm enough to swim. \n\n- Day \n[Swimsuit](https://www.zola.com/shop/kit/the-malibu-collection), romper, and/or sarong by the pool; and cutoffs or jeans, and matching T-shirts when exploring the city \n- Night \nGlitzy sequin dress and heels \n\n### Napa Wine Country Bachelorette \nFor wine country, pack wedges or flats that you’re comfortable walking through the vineyards in. The nighttime vibe tends to lean more casual and you can get away with jeans, a tank top, and a moto jacket. \n\n- Day Flowy floral dress, wedges, or flats \n- Night Jeans, tank top, moto jacket \n\n### Tropical Beach Bachelorette\nA beachy bach doesn’t mean that you’ll spend all your time in a bathing suit. Pack some maxi or wrap dresses for going out to dinner and for nightlife and fun in the evenings. \n\n- Day [Swimsuit](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/kennyflowers_the_malibu_one_pc) and [sarong](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/kennyflowers_the_malibu_long_sarong) \n- Night Flowy maxi or [wrap dress](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/fameandpartners_classic_wrap_dress) \n\n### New York City Bachelorette\nA big city bach may involve a spa day, going to see a show, and eating and drinking late into the early morning hours. Bring your comfiest shoes for walking during the day and switch to heels or wedges at night. \n\n- Day Jumpsuit or a dress (with tights for the winter months,) comfortable walking shoes \n- Night Little black dress and heels \n\n### Spa Weekend Bachelorette\nFor a spa weekend, you’ll want to be comfy as you get pampered. You and the girls can still make a statement, though, with matching [robes](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/eventblossom_bridal_party_satin_lace_robe) or sweatpants. You can also get the bride a special [robe](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/gingerray_bride_to_be_dressing_gown) just for her. Don't forget a bathing suit.\n\n## What Is The Plan For The Party?\nWhen it comes to bachelorette party outfits, what you’re actually going to do at the party will go a long way in determining the best dress code. For example, the outfit ideas that would make sense for a casual bachelorette brunch with the bridesmaids are going to be completely different from the ideal attire for a weekend bash where the main agenda is hitting the dance floor at the city’s hottest clubs.\n\nHere are some idea around what to wear to a bach party based on the celebration’s activities:\n\n### Night out on the town\nIf you and the rest of the bridal party and bachelorette attendees are planning to hit the town, you’ll want to choose ensembles that feel fun, festive, and appropriate for upscale restaurants and clubs. Any kind of cocktail dresses (like a mini dress or a bodycon dress) would work great as a bachelorette party dress—or, if you prefer pants, a dressier jumpsuit is a great alternative. Pair your outfit with some strappy heels or wedges and some eye-catching jewelry, and you’re ready to go!\n\n### Lounging poolside\nIf you plan to spend the majority of the bachelorette getaway lounging by the pool, you’ll need to back all your pool essentials—a bathing suit (go with a one-piece or a bikini, whichever makes you feel most comfortable!), sandals, sunglasses, a hat, and at least one or two-cover-ups.\n\n### Outdoor adventures\nIf the [bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bachelorette-parties) is centered on outdoor adventures you’ll want to wear an outfit that allows you to comfortably participate in said adventures; for example, if you’re doing a day hike, you might wear workout leggings, a moisture-wicking shirt, hiking boots, and a hat to block the sun. If you’re going camping, you can keep it casual with sneakers, jeans, and a hoodie.\n\n### Wine tasting\nGoing to tour a few wineries for the bachelorette? The key is to choose an outfit that’s both cute and comfortable—like a maxi dress, denim jacket, and comfortable sandals.\n\n## Bachelorette Outfit Ideas \nNeed some outfit inspiration? Here are some ideas for the perfect outfit for your next bachelorette celebration—whether you're the guest of honor or there to celebrate the bride-to-be:\n\n### For the Bride \n![What to Wear to a Bachelorette Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5dEMUEMMoEwTxmRnmf7ljP/da0d41315a69a3e792c47fa30d307c2b/inline_shutterstock2.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Shutterstock\n\n1. __A white dress.__ You’re the bride—and what says bride quite like a white dress? Have fun with the look and go for details that scream “bachelorette,” like sparkles or sequins. Pair it with some fun heels and statement jewelry.\n\n2. __A white jumpsuit.__ Dresses aren’t your thing? No problem! You can still rock the bachelorette look with a white jumpsuit. Dress it up with heels and a pair of eye-catching earrings.\n\n3. __A white romper.__ If your bachelorette is more casual, a white romper with flat sandals is a great outfit option.\n\n4. __The perfect LBD.__ Some brides don’t want to wear white on their bachelorette—and if you fall into that category, you can’t go wrong with an LBD. A black cocktail dress is one of the most versatile pieces of clothing out there—and the perfect bachelorette attire.\n\n5. __Bold colors...__ Your bachelorette is your opportunity to be the center of attention—and rocking a cocktail dress in a bold shade (like red, hot pink, or lime green) is a great way to do it.\n\n6. __...or bold prints.__ If you want to go bold—but not with color—opt for a dress with a bold print, like leopard.\n\n7. __A sparkly jumpsuit.__ Your bachelorette is your time to shine—and a great way to shine is with a sparkly jumpsuit. Keep it classic with black—or if you really want to sparkle, go with a bold color, like gold or purple.\n\n8. __A statement blazer.__ If you want to keep things more casual for your bachelorette, a statement blazer is a great way to dress up a pair of jeans and t-shirt—and make the whole outfit feel “special enough” for your big day.\n\n9. __A printed one-piece.__ Spending your bachelorette at the beach or by the pool? A printed one-piece that reads “BRIDE” is the perfect way to let everyone know you’re celebrating!\n\n10. __Coordinated outfits.__ If you want to create a cohesive look with your bachelorette babes, try coordinating your outfits! You can have everyone choose their favorite LBD, have everyone wear a similar cocktail dress in a different shade, or get matching t-shirts for your whole crew.\n\n### For The Guests\nAn LBD. An LBD is a great outfit choice for just about every occasion under the sun—including attending a bachelorette party.\n\n1. __A midi dress.__ Midi dresses are super versatile; with the right shoes and accessories, they’re formal enough to wear out to a swanky club—but you can also dress them down for more casual daytime events. (You may even be able to recycle your midi dress for other wedding events, like the bridal shower.)\n2. __A boho-inspired maxi dress.__ If you’re attending a more casual bachelorette party, like a wine tasting, a boho-inspired maxi dress is a great way to feel both pulled together and comfortable.\n3. __Bachelorette party shirts.__ If the bride gets matching bachelorette party shirts, you’ll 100% need to wear it! Pair it with a pair of jeans and sneakers to keep it casual.\n4. __Sparkly pants.__ A bachelorette party offers a great excuse to rock pieces that you might not wear in your day-to-day wardrobe—like a pair of sparkly pants. Pair it with a simple solid shirt on top and let the pants shine.\n5. __A sequined top.__ Prefer to sparkle on top? Try pairing a sequined top with dark jeans.\n6. __Leopard print.__ A leopard print dress is a fun way to incorporate print into your bachelorette party outfit—but it’s also something that’s versatile enough that you’ll likely have opportunities to wear it after the bach celebration.\n7. __A bold mini dress.__ If you like mini dresses, a bachelorette party is a great time to wear them. Elevate your mini by choosing a dress in a bold color, like red.\n8. __A swimsuit and cover-up.__ If the bachelorette party you’re attending has any beach or poolside activities, you’ll want to be sure to pack a bathing suit and cover-up.\n9. __A statement jacket.__ A statement jacket is eye-catching, unique, and fun—making it a great piece to wear to a bachelorette party.\n\n### Choose a Matching Touch\nCoordinating matching outfits with the other girls isn’t only unnecessary, it can be overkill. Instead, choose a color such as black or navy and have everyone wear what they are comfortable in that color. Then, choose a matching element such as headbands, sashes, or tiaras. You could also all get matching T-shirts to wear during the day. Just make sure that everyone is on board and comfortable with whatever you choose. \n\nThe only off-limits color is usually white—keep that reserved for the bride.\n\n## Additional Tips for Bachelorette Attire \n![What to Wear to a Bachelorette Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4kj0MMZo6LJuLlBU4mUFjQ/8caa80f5e764afea12fc3680b506e442/inline_shutterstock.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Shutterstock\n\n1. __If you’re in charge of planning the weekend__, make sure to send out a detailed itinerary with all the activities that you have planned ahead of time so that everyone knows what to wear. \n\n2. __Send suggested attire__ (ie. jeans and sturdy shoes for horseback riding), but avoid telling anyone exactly what they need to wear. \n\n3. __Pick out a matching element__ such as headbands, sashes, or glasses and include a note about when during the weekend everyone should plan on wearing these. \n\n4. __If you do have a matching element,__ don’t pass out the article of clothing until you’re at the bachelorette. Otherwise, you run the risk of someone leaving the item at home.\n\n5. __The bride doesn’t have to wear white__—anything sparkly or glitzy will do.\n\n6. __Bride doesn’t like sparkly or glitzy?__ Then don’t force her to wear it. Ultimately, you want the bride to be comfortable—so let her dictate what outfits make her feel her best.\n\n7. __If you’re going out in the evening,__ make sure to tell everyone to bring a jacket.\n\n8. __Even if everyone feels comfortable in heels,__ tell everyone to also pack flats; if someone’s feet are hurting after a night of dancing, you want them to have the option to switch into something more comfortable.\n\n9. __Accessories are a great way to jazz up an outfit.__ Consider asking attendees to bring a selection of fun jewelry—then, before you head out, have everyone lay out what they brought and choose from the items available.\n\n10. __Don’t forget to snap pictures__ of all your bachelorette outfits! \n\n*Looking for more tips for the perfect bachelorette party? Zola’s [Expert Advice](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/pre-wedding-activities/bachelorette-parties) has you covered.*","tag":"How To","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"When planning a bachelorette, timing is essential. Read on to learn about when you should have a bachelorette party!.","title":"When Should You Have a Bachelorette Party?","slug":"when-should-you-have-a-bachelorette-party","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6Bam9xC60EjdGmXDTueWIr/3f4a1a83de97aee9d94f696de04d18a3/Hero_Zola__18_.jpg","altText":"When Should You Have a Bachelorette Party"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Planning a bachelorette party can be easy! With the help of our bachelorette party checklist, planning a bach weekend is a breeze. ","title":"Our Ultimate 2025 Bachelorette Party Checklist","slug":"bachelorette-party-checklist","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4Hz4P0xKJr9Xlm7WmFWLDU/ef7c3fb560b76973a28a5acf71247617/bachelorette-party-checklist-hero.jpeg","altText":"Four people enjoying champagne on a rooftop, likely attending a bachelorette party and having used a bachelorette party checklist to plan their trip."},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"The best bachelorette parties don’t have to break the bank.","title":"20 Affordable Bachelorette Party Ideas","slug":"affordable-bachelorette-party-ideas","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1sN7WGOdgapsVDdMYuMyIx/580b96605937f321046be7cec4c43a5c/Hero_Zola__14_.jpg","altText":"Affordable Bachelorette Party Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":" All the tips you need so that your bachelorette party goes off without a hitch! ","title":"Bachelorette Party Etiquette 101","slug":"bachelorette-party-etiquette-101","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"How To","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7buqLtUvoGgQRoIb3b2ARj/b3356098cec60f7b9951e2c73152903f/Hero_Zola__29_.jpg","altText":"Bachelorette Party Etiquette"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:55:34.015Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Bachelorette party","slug":"bachelorette-party"},"slug":"bachelorette-party-games","title":"28 Bachelorette Party Games the Whole Squad Will Love + Free Printables","excerpt":"No matter what you have in mind for your special night, we’ve created a list of our favorite bachelorette party games for a celebration you and your party guests won’t forget.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2020-03-04T21:54:24.912Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1B8QpFhLdsBbKrmd6RrtN8/459ea1e6c3c3bded7406b6303d4ae9ea/24-Bachelorette-Party-Games.jpg","altText":"Bachelorette Party Game Printables"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\nJump straight to the printable bachelorette party games, ideas, and decorations below:\n\n- What's On Your Phone?\n- Bachelorette Photo Scavenger Hunt\n- Bachelorette Party \"Drink If...\"\n- Beach Bash Photo Booth \n- Ring Party Door Sign\n- More Free Bachelorette Party Games\n- Bachelorette Party Games You Can Buy\n- Bachelorette Party Game Prizes","body":"Your bachelorette party (also known as a \"hen party\") is one of the last celebrations before you say “I do.\" And because it's kind of a \"last hurrah,\" it's the perfect opportunity to have some fun—and for many brides-to-be, that means playing plenty of fun bachelorette party games.\n\nWhether you’re traveling with your bridesmaids for a destination bachelorette party, hosting a virtual bachelorette party for your best friends near and far, or having your own [wellness bridal weekend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/top-15-places-to-go-to-for-a-bachelorette-party)with your maid of honor, we have a few bachelorette party game ideas to kick-start the festivities.\n\nWhether you're aiming for a low-key sleepover withy our besties or putting on your best party dress for a night on the town with the long list of people who scored an [invite to your bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-nail-down-bachelorette-party-invite-wording), here are 28 of the best bachelorette party games, printables, decorations, and party favors to help you kiss your single life goodbye—and have a ton of fun in the process:\n\n### What’s On Your Phone? Game\nYou can tell a lot about a person by their phone—whether it's packed with hundreds of photos of their dog, decked out in a bedazzled phone case, or full of notifications for unread texts and social media messages.\n\nAnd with the What's On Your Phone Game?, you can see what everyone's phone has to say about them; it's a fun way to see who in your Bride Tribe has the quirkiest things hidden on their phone in your bride tribe—and cal also be a great way to get to know the whole group on a deeper level. (Because this more of a \"get to know you\" game, this a fun icebreaker if you're hosting a bachelorette where some of your friends are meeting for the first time.)\n\n__Number of players: __\n\nUnlimited\n\n__What you need to play:__\n\nWith this fun game, you won’t need anything but your phones, a pen, and a prize (if you choose, that is!).\n\n__How to play:__\n\nFor this party game, print out the What's On Your Phone? printable game template and read each item on the list. As you read out each item, have your guests check the boxes that apply to them. Then, once you've read out all the items, have each person add up their totals and take turns sharing their tallies. Whoever has the most points wins!\n\n \n![What's On Your Phone Mock-Up](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1S7C6x5DqysPnOoLg1gxjD/c40fdbbf42c6ccddb7c9c02d0505104d/What_s_on_your_phone_Mock-Up.jpeg)\n[![What's On Your Phone Download Button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/47muOMwOYY50HbqfEgugh0/62959d21a6135999bed25a5b78f1bace/What_s_On_Your_Phone_Download_Button.png)\n](//assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1tgBOuS7ckRQhGJHI04Ox4/6f267cab8010cf0fc9030993a6af7010/What_s_On_Your_Phone.pdf)\n\n### Bachelorette Photo Challenge Scavenger Hunt\nIf you want your bachelorette party to have a more adventurous feel, hosting your own photo-centric bachelorette scavenger hunt is a great bachelorette party game option.\n\n__Number of players:__\n\nUnlimited\n\n__What you need to play:__\n\nEach team will need a camera and/or camera phone. Depending on how competitive your crew is, they may also want to rock some running shoes; that way, they can run from photo op to photo op—and not have to worry about uncomfortable shoes slowing them down!\n\n__How to play: __\n\nDivide your group into teams of two to three. Print out a copy of the photo scavenger hunt printable for each team—and let them know that the first team to capture all the photos on the list will be declared the winner.\n\nNot only is a photo scavenger hunt a fun, active way to celebrate your bachelorette party, it's also sure to generate some hilarious photos—making this one of the most funny bachelorette games on the list.\n\n \n![Bachelorette Photo Scavenger Hunt Mock-Up](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4j69VDx1UMVYYXIUkLVXJV/9279afe4fd54a35947d8711edbb667be/Scavenger_Hunt_Mock-Up.jpeg)\n[![Photo Scavenger Hunt Download Button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/24VigVhlX3a8P0z9UBKZdJ/194dfeb7563450bc3ba466f75dab25e7/Photo_Scavenger_Hunt_Game_Download_Button.png)\n](//assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5tmOCdEW94Ulw5AIsvuA78/58150c6704877ec2562db711c04a738c/Photo_Scavenger_Hunt_.pdf)\n\n### Bachelorette “Drink If…”\nIs your bachelorette crowd prefer cocktails and beer pong over good, old-fashioned game nights? If so, you'll need at least a few bachelorette party drinking games—and this bachelorette party idea might be exactly what you and your party pals need!\n\n__Number of players: __\n\nUnlimited\n\n__What you'll need:__\n\nBecause this is a drinking game, everyone will need a drink. (Got guests that don't drink alcohol? Not a problem—a [mocktail](https://https//www.tablespoon.com/meals/drinks/non-alcoholic-party-drinks-everyone-will-love) will work just fine!). You'll also need pens or pencils to check off items throughout the game.\n\n__How to play:__\n\nPrint out your \"Drink If..\" printable, grab your favorite drink, and have your fellow bachelorette party attendees do the same. Starting with \"Round 1,\" read out each item off the list—and have your guests check off each box that applies to them.\n\nAt the end of the round, whoever has checked off the most boxes takes a sip of their drink. Then, repeat for rounds two, three, and four.\n\n \n![Drink If Mock-Up](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/575Nq0I4wEszmTFKlLGcJU/0f5a3a5ff6586d80a665c44fa3781be1/Drink_If_Mock-Up.jpeg)\n[![Drink If Download Button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5BRcIyB0xZl1NoN3hWpVqw/47d17b904a5d441bc5f037b5a70b4933/Drink_If_Download_Button.png)\n](//assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4KvrjfhaXdySjMHxpMsdRJ/76fb7bdc718baed8eaedd8aeb485b890/Drink_If_Printable.pdf)\n\n## Printable Decorations For Your Bachelorette Party Games\n\n### Beach Bash Photo Booth\nIs all things beach the [theme of your bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-themes)? If the bachelorette party is being hosted on island time, set up a “shellfie” station in your hotel room with these free photo booth printables. Bachelorette party guests can strike their favorite pose and create photo keepsakes the bride can take home with her. (Need more ideas for your beachside bachelorette?) You can discover more ideas on how to create the perfect [island-themed bash](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-themes) here.\n\n__What you'll need:__\n\nTo use these printables, all you need is a printer and paper—and voila! Your DIY photo booth is ready to go!\n\n \n![Beach Bash Photo Booth Mock-Up](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1vMVOKdB9JyeMvJ4WNriwS/8d19d10699a61e7f98a8446426a52125/Beach_Bash_Photo_Booth_Mock-Up.jpeg)\n[![Beach Bash Photo Booth Props Download Button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4qil7Lfd8xIOH1txqMClgi/593a70f81fd74db0f63c2f7d7da18b9c/Beach_Bash_Photo_Booth_Props_Download_Button.png)\n](//assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4c3IF1HTHFjhcsTlrbTil9/f300eef4f0df65652a37aa94d02d8e8f/Beach_Bash_Photo_Booth_Props_Printable.pdf)\n\n## Ring Party Door Sign\nDecorate your party with a ring door sign taped on your front door. It’s only fitting since this is your last fling before you get the ring! This is especially useful for guests that are meeting you at a new location. Once they spot the ring, they’ll know exactly where they need to go!\n\n__What you'll need:__\n\nFor this printable bachelorette party decoration, you’ll need paper and a printer, cutting utensils, and tape to hang up each sign.\n\n \n![Door Sign Mock-Up](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3ybCgdDLqIlethWRhA6qD/3f29a6f16d4bad33044714b4104f26c8/Door_Sign_Mock-Up.jpeg)\n[![Diamond Ring Door Sign Download Button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/721PDoNbRcJ6P5q8F8D4nu/e17349839ddf7c0830cb6b8c25f8aab4/Diamond_Ring_Door_Sign_Download_Button.png)\n](//assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4QxMUTTRCmn3Vt20Bk4a81/a62251d59907a8ee28543098d21ceefe/Diamond_Door_Sign.pdf)","body2":"## More Free Bachelorette Party Games \n\nReady for a full night of bachelorette party game fun? We found 19 additional free game options that would be the perfect additional to your last game night as a single person. Whether you're looking for a classy game night, something a bit more wild, and games fit for a classic girls’ night, we've got for every soon-to-be newlywed.\n\n### Clean and Classy Games\n- Like our What’s In Your Phone game? See what odd things your guests carry around with them by playing [What’s In Your Purse](https://www.elegantweddinginvites.com/wedding-blog/special-wednesday-top-5-free-printable-bridal-shower-games/). \n- Send the bride and groom off on the right foot by writing them a heart-felt (or funny) letter with this [printable](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/35778533/image/35780329/Advice-Happy-Couple). \n- Have guests that have yet to see your wedding day attire? See who knows your style best with these [Guess the Dress](https://de.bridetrendy.com/50152/10-bachelorette-party-und-braut-dusche-spiele-free-printables/) printables. \n- Wear your favorite lip color and have your bridal party kiss your single life goodbye with this framable [Kiss for the Future Mrs. keepsake](https://www.bespoke-bride.com/2016/08/17/kisses-for-the-future-mrs-free-printable-hen-party-guest-book/).\n- For all the celebrity experts out there, this is the perfect game! Match up some popular celebrity couples with this [Celeb Couple Quiz](http://www.mockeri.com/free-printable-bachelorette-games/).\n- See who really knows the bachelorette better than anyone else in the room playing [How Well Do You Know The Bachelorette?](https://www.prettyprintablesink.com/uncategorized/freebie-friday-how-well-do-you-know-the-bachelorette/). This [list of questions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-game-questions-youll-love) will help answer \"how well do you know the bride?\" for each of your party guests—and is a fun way to see who really knows you best.\n- Fill in the blanks with this [Advice for Newlyweds](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/35778533/image/35780130/Advice-Newlyweds) printable. Think of it as \"Newlywed Mad Libs,\" gather advice from your closest friends, from newlywed tips to travel inspiration—and use it to fill in the blanks.\n- Keep in mind that, because all these activities are clean and classy (and, as such, totally appropriate for family members), they can easily double as bridal shower games—even though the [vibe of a bridal shower and a bachelorette party can feel super different](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-vs-bridal-shower).\n\n### Wild Party Games\n- For this unique game, start a three-minute timer while your crew writes out classic bachelorette terms starting with each letter of the alphabet on this [Bachelorette Alphabet](http://www.mypartygames.com/free-printable-naughty-alphabet-game-bachelorette-party/) print out. Once your time’s up, read each out loud to see who takes home the cake!\n- Are you and your friends into lingerie? Have everyone bring a pair of lacy underthings—then play [Guess the Panties](https://www.partygameideas.com/bachelorette-guess-the-panties/) to see who brought what. It's like \"Guess Who\"—just for underwear!\n- Emojis have been around for years. See if you can figure out which emoji set means what playing this [Emoji Pictionary Game](https://www.mypartygames.com/free-printable-bridal-shower-emoji-pictionary-game/).\n- See who knows your love story best by having your guests fill out your [Love Story Map](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/40617199/image/40618511/Story-Map). \n- Want to kick off your bachelorette party with a solid pregame? If so, start off your party with a nice game of [Bachelorette Bottoms Up](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/40617199/image/40617544/Bottoms-Up-Game). \n- Put your thinking cap on and brainstorm quirky answers by playing [Bachelorette Balderdash](https://www.designsbymissmandee.com/2015/08/bachelorette-party-game-bachelorette-balderdash/). See which of your guests comes up with the best answers. \n\n### Girls’ Night In Games\n\n- If your group knows celebrities well, play [Match the Famous Couple](https://www.mypartygames.com/match-the-famous-couple-free-printable-game/). See who can correctly match well-known big name couples. \n- Unscramble classic bachelorette party phrases with this [Bachelorette Party Word Scramble](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/40617199/image/40617247/Marriage-Word-Scramble).\n- Go into a wild girls’ night with guidelines. Have each member of your group sign this [Bachelorette Party Agreement](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/40617199/image/40617542/Bachelorette-Party-Agreement) before starting. \n- We all know a fun night out on the town with your closest friends can hit you hard in the morning—especially if you have a few too many cocktails. Create a [Bachelorette Party Survival Kit](https://diyinspired.com/party-survival-kit-free-printables/) for all your guests—complete with everything you need to keep a hangover at bay (like water bottles and Tylenol.) Write the name of each member on printable labels or stickers to make sure everyone gets one.\n- Before the party starts, have the opposing partner fill out the [Quiz the Groom](https://www.shopstagandhen.com/products/quiz-the-groom-free-digital-download) printable. Once starting the party, quiz your guests to see who knows the groom best. \n- Get competitive and play [Bachelorette Pictionary](https://addionubilato.altervista.org/bachelorette-party-pictionary-game/) to see who scores the most points with this guessing game. Or, if drawing isn't your thing, have some fun with a rowdy game of charades!\n\n## Bachelorette Party Games You Can Buy \n\nComing up with your own bachelorette party games is great. But there are plenty of ready-to-go games that you can pick up at the store!\n\nHere are a few bachelorette party games you can buy to have on hand for the festivities:\n\n- __Bachelorette Bash.__ This bachelorette party game (which is available on [Amazon](https://www.amazon.com/Bachelorette-BASH-Party-Games/dp/B086P8GS5V/ref=asc_df_B086P8GS5V/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=513296421741&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=5096604817470211460&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9033611&hvtargid=pla-1260272780798&psc=1)) combines from classic slumber party games (like Truth or Dare and Never Have I Ever) with bride-centric trivia and other fun party games to create an experience you and your crew won't soon forget!\n- __Jenga.__ Jenga is a party favorite—and that includes for bachelorette parties!\n- __Pin the tail on the donkey.__ Pin the tail on the donkey may remind you of birthday parties when you were a kid. But there are *ahem* more adult versions that might feel more at home at a bachelorette party—especially if you're going for a more wild vibe.\n- __Cards.__ Having a set of cards on hand is a must for a bachelorette party—as it opens up the possibility of playing an endless number of card games, whether that's Crazy 8's, Go Fish, or a fun game of poker.\n\n## Bachelorette Party Game Prizes \nWant to reward your bride tribe for participating in your bachelorette party games? Here are some prize ideas that you can share with the winners—or with all your party guests as a way to say \"thanks for playing\" :\n\n- A personalized keepsake, like a water bottle or t-shirt \n- A bottle of champagne (or sparkling cider for the non-alcoholic crowd)\n- A gift certificate (for example, a coffee gift card or a gift certificate for a mani/pedi)\n\nYou want your bachelorette party to be an event you and your friends will never forget—and these bachelorette party games will help you create the kind of fun, unforgettable experience you're looking for!\n\nNeed more bachelorette party tips? For more planning tips, take a look at our guide to [bachelorette parties](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pack-for-a-bachelorette-party)—and check out our packing list for the bachelorette weekend so you don’t skip any essentials. And don’t forget to send [thank you cards](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop) after the event. \n\nCheers to your bachelorette party festivities!\n\n__Sources:__[ Elegant Wedding Invites ](https://www.elegantweddinginvites.com/wedding-blog/special-wednesday-top-5-free-printable-bridal-shower-games/)| [My Party Games 1](http://www.mypartygames.com/free-printable-naughty-alphabet-game-bachelorette-party/), [2](https://www.mypartygames.com/free-printable-bridal-shower-emoji-pictionary-game/), [3](https://www.mypartygames.com/match-the-famous-couple-free-printable-game/) | [Alexandra Winzer](https://alexandrawinzer.com/die-3-herzlichsten-spiele-fuer-den-junggesellinnenabschied/) | [Popsugar 1](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/40617199/image/40617247/Marriage-Word-Scramble), [2](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/40617199/image/40617542/Bachelorette-Party-Agreement) | [Debridetrendy 1](https://de.bridetrendy.com/50152/10-bachelorette-party-und-braut-dusche-spiele-free-printables/), [2](https://de.bridetrendy.com/65163/diy-bachelorette-party-survival-kit-und-free-printables/) | [Shop Stag and Hen](https://www.shopstagandhen.com/products/quiz-the-groom-free-digital-download) | [Bachette](https://bachette.com/blogs/blog/free-printable-bachelorette-bingo-game) | [BeSpokeBride](https://www.bespoke-bride.com/2016/08/17/kisses-for-the-future-mrs-free-printable-hen-party-guest-book/) | [Mockeri](http://www.mockeri.com/free-printable-bachelorette-games/) | [Designs by miss Mandee](https://www.designsbymissmandee.com/2015/08/bachelorette-party-game-bachelorette-balderdash/) | [The House of Bachelorette 1](https://www.designsbymissmandee.com/2015/08/bachelorette-party-game-bachelorette-balderdash/), [2](https://www.thehouseofbachelorette.com/FREE_Bachelorette_Party_Checklist_p/free000chcklist.htm) | [Bachelorette Party Freebies](https://www.bachelorettepartyfreebies.com/free-printable-bachelorette-party-games/) | [E Wedding Favors](http://www.eweddingfavors.com/inspire/fun-bridal-shower-games-ideas/) ","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"widget2":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_WebsiteQuiz"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Find fun and flirty ideas to add to your bachelorette party invitations. 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From weekend getaways to nighttime options, explore the best and most unique bachelor party ideas.","author":"Jane Chertoff and Georgie Darling","publishedAt":"2024-11-08T11:00-05:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3tsqFK8yqAYtlWDMjoh4FA/7633b0eb185f8df51dfe0d0ae0cedef8/kats-weil-CLD1i8hp008-unsplash.jpg","altText":"Low angle of groomsmen holding beer bottles and having a celebratory toast"},"heroCredit":" Kats Weil via Unsplash","heroCreditUrl":"https://unsplash.com/photos/low-angle-of-men-holding-beer-bottles-and-having-a-toast-CLD1i8hp008","tldr":"## Inside this article\n- Bachelor party ideas - weekend getaway ideas\n- Daytime bachelor party ideas\n- Nighttime bachelor party activities\n- Creative bachelor party ideas","body":"__TLDR:__\n- Bachelor parties don't have to be crazy events, as you can have something classy and create a great experience for your group.\n- Our list of ideas is comprehensive and contains ideas for all types of folks.\n- Just because we use the term \"bachelor party\" there are a lot of other instances where these event ideas will work.\n\n## Let's get started with bachelor party planning!\n\nAh, the bachelor party. The pre-wedding ritual of celebrating a groom before the wedding. Typically, while the bride-to-be spends her time at her bachelorette party, the groom-to-be would hold bachelor parties that involve a weekend away, a few nice meals, drinking, and other daytime activities that suit the groom’s style with his close friend(s) and [groomsmen](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/groomsmen-etiquette-101-a-beginners-guide). \n\nWe’ve come to understand that a great bachelor party consists of wild weekends full of debauchery—and they certainly can be. However, don’t get caught up in the stereotype: A bachelor party can be anything you want it to be. This [Reddit thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingplanning/comments/151d2at/need_bachelor_party_ideas/) proves it.\n\nZola has compiled a comprehensive list of ideas for bachelor party games and activities. So, whether you’re into the great outdoors, a super sports fan, or want to settle into the traditional bachelor party planning mentality, we have ideas for you.\n\nOf course, we also enlisted the help of a few experts, including McKenna Folmar, a wedding planner at [Events by McKenna](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-planners/events-by-mckenna). \"When it comes to bachelor parties, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach—especially with today’s creative grooms and their friends,\" she says. \"From sentimental gatherings to over-the-top adventures, bachelor parties have evolved far beyond the typical night out.\" So, are you ready for some great ideas? \n\nOnce you’ve read through the best bachelor party ideas below, read through our step-by-step guide on [planning a bachelor party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bachelor-party) to really get the wheels in motion.\n\n## Bachelor party ideas - weekend getaways \n\nIf your [bachelor party guests](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-to-invite-to-a-bachelor-party) live in various states (or even countries), it might be best to plan a [weekend away](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/best-bachelor-party-destinations). Whether meeting in a centralized location, or somewhere new and exciting, there are many different types of multi-day travel ideas for you and your friends to celebrate your [bachelor party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bachelor-parties).\n\nWhy are weekend getaways popular? \"Destination parties give the groom a mini-vacation before the wedding,\" reveals Folmar. \"It’s a chance to escape the routine and spend quality time with friends in a memorable location. These trips tend to go all out with fine dining, epic night-outs, and a sense of adventure.\"\n\n### 1. __Rent a cabin in the woods__ \nIf you’re someone who likes the idea of hanging out with your friends out in nature, try going this direction. Through platforms like [Airbnb](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/airbnb_airbnb_gift_card), you’ll be able to secure an amazing house or cabin that fits your entire group.\n\n### 2. __Visit a national park__ \nThe recent craze of collecting National Park stamps has nature lovers traveling near and far to see the best Mother Earth has to offer. Whether you decide on the Florida Everglades or California’s Yosemite there are 61 different parks to choose from in the USA.\n\n### 3. __Head off to Las Vegas__\nIt’s quintessential bachelor party territory. So grab a few buddies and head over to Sin City. Just remember: What happens in Vegas doesn’t always stay in Vegas.\n\n### 4. __Take a cruise__ \n[Cruise ships](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/cruise-lines) are a unique bachelor party option suitable for everyone in your bachelor party thanks to a bevy of entertaining options like bars, casinos, and pool decks.\n\n### 5. __Go camping__ \nSome of the best bachelor party camping ideas are hiking, fishing, or just hanging out with friends around a campfire.\n\n![Bachelor Party Ideas Camping](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2Jz6zYMC0nFbe9akXYL6QA/6fbb6f7d51fd9269617bc6f7a3eb7784/Bachelor_Party_Ideas_Camping.jpg)\nPhoto by Scott Goodwill on Unsplash\n\n### 6. __Visit the Kentucky Bourbon Trail__\nThis is one of the best bachelor party ideas for bourbon lovers, and the area surrounding Louisville is a must-go. Take a bus tour of popular bourbon distilleries—without having to worry about a designated driver.\n\n### 7. __Go to a live music festival__ \nIf you and your crew are big on music and partying, hit a major music festival together to enjoy the live band and night raves.\n\n### 8. __Visit a new country__ \nIf getting a new stamp on your passport sounds like an amazing idea, grab your crew and venture out. Check [airlines](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/airline) for deals and jump on an opportunity.\n\n### 9. __Rent an RV__ \nOutdoor bachelor party ideas don’t always have to involve the elements. While road tripping with your buddies may take longer than a weekend, rent an RV and make your way down a scenic road intended to be covered in a couple of days. Try the California coast or the Blue Ridge Parkway in the Carolinas.\n\n### 10. __Go off to the races__ \nIf dressing in seersucker and rocking a koozie are two of your favorite things, you might want to head off to the horse races. From the Kentucky Derby to the Preakness races in Maryland, there are many big events to choose from where you and your friends can sip on Mint Juleps and enjoy the weekend.\n\n### 11. __Plan a beach getaway__\nAccording to Brittney Poole, wedding planner at [Forever Moments](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-planners/forever-moments--2), heading surfside is a laid-back idea. \"Many of my couples tell me they take the weekend to relax on the sand,\" she says. \"Specifically, going during a festival or air show also makes the experience more memorable.\" One of her couples also did an over-the-top bach experience on the beaches of Cancun.\n\n### 12. __Opt for an urban event__\nAccording to Folmar, destination bachelor parties are still going strong, and she cites Nashville and Miami as topping the list for an unforgettable weekend of festivities. \"Whether it's booking a suite at a top resort, hitting exclusive clubs, or lounging by the pool with VIP service, these experiences are all about luxury and indulgence,\" she adds.\n\n### 13. __Rent a ski cabin__ \nWhen it comes to the best winter bachelor party ideas, renting a ski cabin is among the top. Being in an A-frame in the middle of the mountains is a great way to add in a sporting adventure while kicking off your bachelor party celebration through bonding with your friends.\n\n![pexels-nathan-moore-2479641](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3I66GIrQv6FKgSQvSjDMzy/dd5366b33b5748a1c167f61370b32e9a/pexels-nathan-moore-2479641.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Nathan Moore via Pexels\n\n## Daytime bachelor party ideas \n\n### 14. __Go for a hike__ \nSetting out on a day hike is a great way to enjoy your surroundings and have plenty of time for meaningful moments with your friends. Sometimes cheap bachelor party ideas like this one are the best for a little bonding time. \n\n### 15. __Float down a river__ \nGrab an inner tube and float along the river, if possible. Some locations even have bars and restaurants at various stops along your tube ride.\n\n### 16. __Sign up for an obstacle course__\nInstead of an individual or singular event, try signing up for an obstacle course that puts you together in teams. This is one of the most memorable sober bachelor party ideas that you’ll all enjoy. \n\n### 17. __Try paintballing__ \nIf competition is your thing, split into teams for a few rounds of paintball outside.\n\n### 18. __Throw a backyard BBQ__ \nFire up the grill, get out the floaties (if you have access to a pool), and throw an awesome BBQ bachelor party. If you or your friends don’t have an outlet to host a BBQ party, try looking online to see if you can rent a house in your area for the day.\n\n### 19. __Hit a food and wine festival__\nLooking for bachelor party food ideas for a groom who’s a foodie? Bring together the most delicious celebration by hitting up a food and wine festival. From Disney’s Epcot to the Catalina Wine Mixer, food and wine festivals are always a huge hit. Look up local food festivals nearby or in the surrounding cities.\n\n![Bachelor Party at Wine Festival Winery](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2c8XzZcUHfGkXKGEEYivs5/77ceac3e5672f71e2242a1f0e0454047/Bachelor_Party_at_Wine_Festival_Winery.jpg)\nPhoto by Khuc Le Thanh Danh on Unsplash\n\n### 20. __Take a brewery tour__ \nMany cities around the country pride themselves on their expansion of craft breweries. While places like Denver and Asheville have become popular, look around for local breweries in your city and see what flights of beer or tours they’d be happy to offer you and your friends for a bachelor party. Jump in a party bus and let someone else take the wheel for the day while you sit back and enjoy with friends.\n\n### 21. __Go on a food tour__ \nYou can live in a city or neighborhood for years and not know about all the best eats. A food tour is a great way to appease the empty stomach and the tastebuds.\n\n### 22. __Visit a vineyard__\nWhile you may need to head out of a city for this one, you may find that a beautiful vineyard is closer than you imagined. Find one within a few hours of you and enjoy a day full of wine tasting and cheese.\n\n### 23. __Go to a monster truck rally__ \nWatch cars crush other cars—a truly unique experience!\n\n### 24. __Buy tickets to NASCAR__\nThere are so many motorways consistently hosting NASCAR races. For your bachelor party, pick a track closest to you and see what driving fast really means.\n\n### 25. __Take a white water rafting trip__\nNothing says teamwork like sitting in a boat with your buddies as you’re scaling down the rapids.\n\n![White Water Rafting Bachelor Party Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2KUTR28vXDchkwKGjGy1cP/9d0aaed0c950cff10a0053240d68c972/White_Water_Rafting_Bachelor_Party_Ideas.jpg)\nPhoto by Anna Sullivan on Unsplash\n\n### 26. __Rent ATVs__ \nRide your way through some rough terrain on ATVs.\n\n### 27. __Go hunting__ \nOkay, so this is one of the more unique bachelor party ideas on our list: Skeet shooting. Hunting's humane cousin, skeet shooting requires a level of precision and skill. Compete against your friends to see who has the highest levels of concentration and dexterity.\n\n### 28. __Learn a new skill__ \nWhether you try painting, cooking, or axe throwing, find a local artisan who can teach your crew something new.\n\n### 29. __Do a night of go-kart racing__ \nGo-karts are fun no matter what age you are. Put the pedal down and whoop it up. This idea is a good one for alcohol-free friends.\n\n### 30. __Take a risk__ \nAccording to Folmar, adventure-themed bachelor parties are a big hit. \"Think weekend getaways filled with hiking, camping, and even extreme sports like rock climbing, white-water rafting, or zip-lining,\" she says. \"These trips are great because they not only offer a thrill but also give the groom a chance to bond with his closest friends in a natural setting, away from the noise of everyday life.\"\n\n### 31. __Rock climb__\nWhether on inside boulders or out in nature, there are plenty of mountains to be climbed by you and your guys.\n\n### 32. __Visit a theme park__ \nIf you love rollercoasters, find the closest one and see how many times you and your friends can ride the most thrilling one.\n\n![Ideas for Bachelor Parties Amusement Park Roller Coaster](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4jwtDybLrBToqumG7qC4mH/987c130f0d70a7be5fcbf134877ee401/Ideas_for_Bachelor_Parties_Amusement_Park_Roller_Coaster.jpg)\nPhoto by Jacob Capener on Unsplash\n\n### 33. __Try a tour or an Airbnb Experience__\nLook up local tours or experiences via booking platforms. It may surprise you what you learn that your home city or the city you’re staying in has to offer.\n\n### 34. __Go fishing__ \nThere’s a fish in your area to catch. A fishing trip is a great way to bond and pass the time with your friends for a memorable bachelor party.\n\n### 35. __Learn to surf__ \nWhile this activity pertains to those closest to the ocean, surfing is a great athletic activity that will count as your workout for the weekend.\n\n### 36. __Play competition games__ \nSpeaking of competition, bring the edge up a notch by having your party compete in competitive games. This can be anything from beer Olympics to friendly pick-up basketball.\n\n### 37. __Participate in a scavenger hunt__\nDon’t assume that low key bachelor party ideas are any less fun than those that require more time or money. Divide your party into teams and compete in a local scavenger hunt game—or design your own.\n\n### 38. __Go golfing__ \nIf the groom-to-be is big into his sports, consider some bachelor party golf ideas. It's a great way to enjoy hours of bonding while spending time outside with your friends. Bonus points if you and your friends have similar skill sets and can compete out on the course.\n\n![Golfing at Primland Resort for Groomsmen Bachelors](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7GjrR3Cu3eLavfTqe68UrF/cc74a4d965fa8b2af29e2cd886ea6c9b/Golfing_at_Primland_Resort_for_Groomsmen_Bachelors.jpg)\nPhoto by Kenan Kitchen on Unsplash\n\n## Nighttime bachelor party activities \n\n### 39. __Stargaze__\nWhether you’re searching for a sky of stars atop a mountain or in a field of fireflies, nature can add a surreal lens to your bachelor activities.\n\n### 40. __Go to a concert__\nIf your favorite band or musician is coming to a venue close to you, invite your friends along for a themed bachelor party. Hire a driver for the night to get you there and back home safely.\n\n### 41. __Eat a fancy dinner__\nElevate the usual bachelor experience with a special evening at a luxe restaurant.\n\n### 42. __Hit up a comedy club__ \nIf you’re looking for funny bachelor party ideas, this has the potential to be up there with the best.\n\n### 43. __Host a game night__ \nFrom Monopoly to Code Names, if you love board games or video games, invite your friends over for a game night.\n\n### 44. __Set up a bar crawl__ \nHave your Best Man (or most responsible person in the group) plan a themed bar crawl for your bachelor night.\n\n![INLINE JuliaKinnuenPhotography 1080x720 Melissa&Nic](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1BhFecxn3T47gvmOVgu1xo/1c0e099b74cabc306fa0cc21f22bd901/INLINE_JuliaKinnuenPhotography_1080x720_Melissa_Nic.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Julia Kinnunen\n\n### 45. __Sing karaoke__ \nRent a room, order some drinks, and sing your heart out to your favorite hits.\n\n### 46. __Escape the room__ \nHost your bachelor party at an escape the room venue, where the mental skills of everyone attending will work together to help you all escape.\n\n### 47. __Interactive experience__ \nFor fun bachelor party ideas that offer something a little different, try an interactive dinner. If you’ve never tried a murder mystery dinner or gone to Medieval Times, we highly recommend this entertaining meal style.\n\n### 48. __Go to a sporting event__ \nThere’s almost always a pro-sports game happening close by—even better if you go see the groom’s favorite team.\n\n### 49. __Hit the arcade or do laser tag__ \nBarcades—bar and arcade combination locations are popping up in most major cities. Sip on drinks and play your favorite old-school video games or test those rusty laser tag skills.\n\n### 50. __Go bowling__ \nBetween drinking pitchers of beer and hitting strikes or spares, you and your friends are bound to have an amazing time at your bachelor party.\n\n![Bowling for Bachelor Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1YcxDZF9gbL50SmqtT0wf/62b2b76fd7fd2c3928b09ab6e9f1b489/Bowling_for_Bachelor_Party.jpg)\nPhoto by Karla Rivera on Unsplash\n\nFinish each day with some nighttime fun that will keep the party going—if you have the energy. Just like that, you have a full bachelor party itinerary—no matter what kind of weekend you’re hoping to have with your crew. \n\n## Creative bachelor party ideas \n### 51. __Plan a sports weekend__\nDo you and your crew love sports? Turn it into a weekend event! \"For sports-loving grooms, planning a weekend around a major sporting event—like a championship game or golf tournament—is a great way to celebrate,\" says Folmar. \"A baseball road trip, golf outing, or even renting out a suite at a stadium can make for an incredible time.\"\n\n### 52. __Get sentimental__\nIt's ok to feel nostalgic. \"We’ve seen guys opt for a low-key weekend at a family cabin or a meaningful location,\" recommends Folmar. \"Others have arranged dinners with close friends and family members, where they share toasts, stories, and good company in a relaxed setting.\" These events foster a deep connection while reminiscing. \n\n### 53. __Build on a theme__\nThere is also an uptick in creative events. \"From themed murder mystery dinners to escape room challenges, the focus is on making the event interactive and engaging,\" Folmar says. \"For those looking to add a bit of creativity, themed parties can range from classic black-tie dinners to ‘80s throwback nights or movie marathons.\"\n\n### 54. __Go over the top__\nAt times, life calls for a once-in-a-lifetime experience, such as private yacht charters, helicopters, or renting out venues. According to Folmar, \"These events are all about luxury, with no detail overlooked—high-end catering, private entertainment, and exclusive locations are all part of the package.\"\n\n### 55. __Check things off the groom's bucket list__\nHave something on your bucket list? Build it into the bach party! \"Whether it’s skydiving, a cross-country road trip, or attending a once-in-a-lifetime concert, these bachelor parties are designed around a dream experience the groom has always wanted to do,\" suggests Folmar. Not only is it exciting, but the groom gets to do an amazing activity with his BFFs by his side.\n\n![Photo by Kimson Doan](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/45R0RRe3PJQVlgHKg67hRb/23ca90e54e88a6fccf5e4c9b904b0dde/Photo_by_Kimson_Doan_.jpg) Photo by [Kimson Doan](https://unsplash.com/photos/group-of-people-setting-up-campfire-AZMmUy2qL6A)\n\n## Why use the term \"bachelor party\" for our ideas?\n\nBTW: we use the term “bachelor party” throughout this article. But if you’re planning a bach bash, a bachelorx party, a wedding send-off, a [joint bach party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/joint-bachelor-bachelorette-party-games), or something else, we hope you have just as much fun trying out the ideas above.\n\n## How to personalize the bach bash\n\"No matter the style, bachelor parties have become an extension of the groom’s personality, offering endless opportunities for creativity and fun,\" says Folmar. \"Whether it’s an intimate gathering or an over-the-top celebration, the best bachelor parties are the ones that reflect the groom’s interests and bring together the people closest to him.\"\n\nNo matter which picks you choose from our list, you're sure to have a good time. Fill your bachelor party itinerary with these fun group activities that all your best men will enjoy. Are you headed to a bachlor party and need a gift for your groom? 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","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2018-12-18T18:35:35.713Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6xYvE1cGvmqiEWoqyMSoy0/c820939acd9d2ea06c136a83dc1d8a41/Hero_VentolaPhotography.jpg","altText":"groom and groomsmen"},"heroCredit":"Ventola Photography","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding-photographers/ventola-photography","body":"## What Is a Bachelor Party?\n\n- A bachelor party is common pre-wedding ritual that honors the groom as he celebrates his “last night(s)” as a single man with his closest buddies. \n- Traditionally a group of close male friends throw the bachelor party in the groom’s honor.\n- A bachelor party typically lasts for an entire weekend, but may also just be a single day or evening. It occurs either near the groom’s home or at a specially chosen destination. \n- Typical bachelor parties involve at least one (or a few) nice meals at restaurants, drinking and bar hopping, and some daytime activities like playing or watching live sports, hiking or fishing, or hanging by the beach or pool. \n\n## Who Throws The Bachelor Party?\n\nWhile traditionally the groom’s wedding party—the man of honor and groomsmen—throw the bachelor party, really anyone who is close to the groom can plan it. If the groom has chosen to not have a wedding party, or if it’s not ideal or possible for the best man to handle this responsibility, the following people would be good candidates:\n\n- a sibling of the groom\n- a close cousin of the groom\n- a group of the groom’s long-time coworkers\n- a dear childhood friend of the groom\n\nOrganizing a large group of guys to make travel plans, book hotel rooms, and maneuver in and out of public spaces for a weekend takes special skills. Not every friend or relation will be the ideal person to plan a bachelor party. Here are some questions you should ask when deciding if your best man, groomsman, or other buddy or relative should throw the bachelor party:\n\n1. Is he close enough to the groom to know what he will want from his bachelor party experience?\n2. Is good at handling logistics, making reservations, and organizing groups of people?\n3. Does he have good communication skills?\n4. Can he keep track of costs to make sure expenses are appropriately settled up during or after the party is over?\n\n## Who Should You Invite to a Bachelor Party?\n\nThe invite list for a bachelor party is pretty much up to the groom. He should make a list of names and contact information for everyone he’d like to include in his special day or weekend, and hand it off to the bachelor party organizer(s) to send out an invitation. If the party organizers feel like being fancy, an online invitation is generally formal enough for a casual event like a bachelor party. A group email also works in lieu of formal invitations.\n\nWhile most bachelor parties are all-male gatherings, there’s no hard-and-fast rule that says women can’t be invited to a groom’s weekend of honor. It’s his weekend, after all, so if he is especially close to his sister or a few female friends and wants them present, go with it. It might change the group dynamic and/or itinerary slightly, but follow the groom’s wishes.\n\nIn general, the list of bachelor party invitees will include some or all of the following people:\n\n- The best man\n- The groomsmen\n- Other close friends of the groom\n- Siblings, soon-to-be-siblings, or same-age relatives of the groom\n- Close co-workers of the groom who will also be invited to the wedding\n\n## Who Should You NOT Invite to a Bachelor Party?\n\nThere are only two major rules of thumb when determining who should not be put on the invitation list for a bachelor party:\n\n1. __Anyone who would make the groom feel uncomfortable:__ As this celebration is all about the groom, make sure that everyone who’s invited is someone that he feels comfortable being himself (in various states) around. People like the groom’s father (or even the bride’s father), his more senior relatives, former coaches or teachers, or any buddies with whom he’s had tension or difficult relations with might not be the right candidates.\n2. __Anyone who’s not also invited to the wedding:__ It’s a standard rule of etiquette for all pre-wedding festivities that invitations should only be sent to people who will also make the guest list for the wedding itself. Otherwise, a very awkward and uncomfortable situation may arise.\n\n## Who Pays for The Bachelor Party?\n\nThe guys who plan and attend the bachelor party—that is, everyone except the groom—typically share the costs of the night or weekend. The groom is generally treated to this revelry (or debauchery?) as a gift from his closest buds, who should cover his portion of the expenses and split them among the group.\n\nThe only exception to this practice of “groom goes free” is if the bachelor party is held at a far-off and/or expensive destination. If the decision is made to take the bachelor party to Europe or the Caribbean, for example, the groom might want to pay for his own travel or chip in for the hotel or Airbnb rental. If it’s important to him to have a luxe or exotic experience for his bachelor party, it’s a nice gesture to offer to defray the costs of that wish for his friends who want to participate but don’t have unlimited budgets.\n\n## Budgeting Tips for Bachelor Parties\n\nThe money portion of bachelor parties can get sticky, to say the least. When spirits are flying high (in more ways than one), it’s easy to throw budgetary caution to the wind: another round of shots! Let’s order the prime rib! The entrance fee to that club is totally worth it! Then, when the final tallies have been added up in the harsh light of day and everyone is told what they owe, shock and dismay may set in.\n\nTo prevent sticker shock at the end of the weekend, and to make sure everyone who attends is comfortable with the anticipated costs, follow these best practices when it comes to talking $$$ about bachelor parties.\n\n- The party planner(s) should do a some quick guesstimating ahead of time—like when invitations are sent, or early as plans are being formed—and __provide a rough estimate__ for how much each dude will need to contribute financially for the weekend. This will help guys who are on tighter budgets make informed, wise decisions about whether or not they can attend.\n- __Pick a few big-ticket splurges__ that everyone can agree on ahead of time, such as tickets to a pro sports game, a private yacht cruise for the day, or a fully loaded rental home. Then let folks choose their own level of spending for smaller things, like breakfasts and drink orders. This will allow budget-minded guys to choose cheaper options wherever it doesn’t impact the group’s activities.\n- Pick __one responsible point person__ to be in charge of tracking the group’s shared expenses. Have him use an expense-tracking and money-sharing app, like Splitwise, to make it super easy to keep tabs on how money has been spent and who owes whom what.\n- For some easy savings, look for __off-season options__ when picking the date of the bachelor party. September can still offer beautiful beach weather, but house rentals will be considerably cheaper after the peak season.\n- Likewise, look for __cost savings in your choice of accommodations__. Maybe you can stay at someone’s vacation condo or weekend cabin to save money. If you’re headed to a big city, stay somewhere that’s within walking distance of downtown to save money on transportation.\n\n## What Do You Do at a Bachelor Party?\n\nEvery bachelor party will be a little bit different, just like every groom himself. In general, the bachelor party should reflect the groom’s interests and personality. If music is his passion, try to organize the bachelor party around seeing live musical acts or, if there are musicians among his crew, devoting time to jamming late into the night. If he’s an outdoorsy guy, a bachelor party at a cabin in the woods, complete with hiking, fishing, and bonfire bonding, would be an ideal scenario.\n\nHere are a few basic pointers on what *most* bachelor parties involve, to give you a general sense of what to expect:\n\n- __Drinking:__ At home, in bars, at clubs, pretty much when and wherever… bachelor parties typically involve a decent amount of alcohol consumption.\n- __Fun daytime activities:__ Think watching live sports, guided eating or drinking tours, visiting museums and cultural institutions, doing something physical like hiking, biking, or surfing, or just chilling on the beach.\n- __Nice dinners out:__ Steakhouses are popular choices, but anything that suits the groom’s appetite (sushi, pizza, burgers, Mexican, Italian, seafood, etc.) goes.\n- __Nightclubs:__ From standard nightclubs with DJs, dancing, and bottle service to adults-only entertainment, most bachelor parties wind up at some form of club for late-night revelry.\n \n## Creative Bachelor Party Ideas\n\nIf you’re the brains behind your buddy’s bachelor party, you can’t go wrong with a classic evening of good food, strong drinks, and great friends just hanging out and celebrating the groom. But if you’re looking to take things up a notch—or if your groom isn’t into the standard bachelor party protocol—check out some of our creative bachelor party ideas below:\n\n- Go to a concert or music festival\n- Rent a cabin in the woods\n- Take a road trip on Route 66\n- Go fly fishing \n- Do a backyard pig roast\n- Go hiking and/or backpacking\n- Learn to surf\n- Attend a monster truck rally\n- Float down a river in inner tubes\n- Visit a national park\n- Rent a ski cabin and hit the slopes\n- Get tickets to a pro wrestling or boxing match\n- Rent an RV and go car camping \n- Practice shooting at a rifle club or skeet range\n- Go golfing\n- Compete on an obstacle course (bonus if it involves mud) \n- Play paintball and/or laser tag\n- Schedule a guided white water rafting trip\n- Learn a hands-on skill, like woodworking\n- Access your inner child by going to batting cages and playing arcade games\n- Attend a food or wine festival \n- Rent ATVs and go off-roading \n\n\n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_InvitesPaper"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"To help your groom’s crew achieve wedding party perfection, here’s a total rundown of both traditional and lesser-known duties that the groomsmen can handle to make your day a breeze.","title":"The Groomsmen Duties: A Full Breakdown","slug":"what-are-the-groomsmen-duties","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/fWwz6PEGcwUqySiyogssM/896f7054e8a5e377c932d0a30417662c/Groomsmen-Duties_DreamlifePhotosandVideo.jpg","altText":"groom and groomsmen in light grey suits"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Wedding toasts are tricky. 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These are the guys you should consider sending a bachelor party invite to and what to know before you do.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2020-08-08T05:25:21.851Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/lZUgjZ7Upe5a3keqVB7B8/fc18c69cef0bf83f6a7ebcb00b67a1d6/Hero_Rustic_RomanticinSanLuisObispo_DavidPascollaPhotography.jpg","altText":"bachelor party group photo"},"heroCredit":"David Pascolla Photography","body":"The [bachelor party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bachelor-parties \" A Guide to Bachelor Parties | Zola\")—one of the most anticipated pre-wedding activities—is traditionally a weekend-long bash for the groom and his guys to commemorate his final days as a single man. And because it’s the prime opportunity for the groom to spend quality time with his favorite people before the big day, it’s important to be thoughtful about the invite list. The event is bound to be a good time no matter what, but the company can make it even better. \n\nSo, who do you invite to a bachelor party? You’ve already chosen your best pals to stand up on the actual wedding day, so their invites are given, but the guest list doesn’t have to stop there. As the groom, you have the ultimate say, but your decision will affect everyone. These are the guys you should consider sending a bachelor party invite to—and what to know before you do.\n\n![Who to Invite to a Bachelor Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5QHw3t7yeMcqjT3Xy7NzbD/e92158c919b5e69f91aba8037e21ca9a/Inline_Who-to-invite-to-a-bachelor-party_John-arano-unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* John Arano Unsplash\n\n## What to Know Before You Send Bachelor Party Invites\nYou may be tempted to launch a group text or chain email right off the bat, but here’s what you need to ask yourself before you invite anyone to your bachelor party: \n\n### Where Is the Bachelor Party?\nThe location can dictate how big your party can get, so you should consider where you’re headed from the start. Are you traveling to another state or taking your party international? It’s a lot of work to organize a big group of guys, no matter where you go. With that in mind, the farther you’re traveling, the smaller your group should be. \n\n### What Activities Do You Have Planned?\nWill you be jumping up and down at your favorite show, waterskiing on the lake, gathering for a fancy dinner, or hitting up a nightclub venue? Activities not only help determine headcount, but also impact who will have a good time. Make sure everyone on your list will be comfortable with any activities you have planned. If they won’t, it’s probably best to leave them off the list or reconsider the itinerary. \n\n### What Is Your Max Capacity?\nBoth the location and activities will determine whether or not you can invite everyone you want to. How many will the house, hotel, or property you’re staying at hold comfortably? Make sure there are enough beds for your guests, or that your guys are willing to sleep on a couch, air mattress, or floor. \n\nLikewise, are you planning any activities that only allow a certain number of people, ie. boat rides, party buses, food tours, or fancy dinners? Unfortunately, some activities do have a max capacity; others just aren’t fun with too many people in tow. Consider what these are before you start adding people outside of your closest circle. \n\n### Who’s Planning It? \nGenerally, the best man hosts and plans the bachelor party, so when it comes to going over the guest list, he’s your guy. But whoever is organizing the party should be part of the conversation. Be sure to run through how many people you want to invite and who (he may not have thought of everyone), so he can handle planning and sending out the invite when the time comes. \n\n### Who Do You Want to Celebrate With?\nWe said it at the beginning, and we’ll reiterate it now: The bachelor party is your chance to spend quality time with your best guys. Picture your favorite people all in one place, celebrating your final single days. Who do you see? Include the guys you want to celebrate with, and you’ll be happy you did.\n\n![Who to Invite to a Bachelor Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4gY4jWwYZg6lFiBTipjQWu/441cd49cc20ba4496f8f7cbda8d6303e/Inline_Who-to-invite-to-a-bachelor-party_Ramiro-pianarosa-unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Ramiro Pianarosa Unsplash\n\n### Will Everyone Get Along? \nThe last thing you want at your bachelor party is a fight to break out. Make sure you’re not inviting anyone who will stir the pot and cause an unnecessary problem. \n\n## Who to Invite to Your Bachelor Party\nOnce you’ve mulled all of that over, you can move on to creating your guest list. These are the guys you should definitely send an invite to, plus a handful of additional people you might consider if space allows: \n\n### Groomsmen\nYour groomsmen should be invited to your bachelor party, without question. It comes with the honor of being in your wedding party. Plus, if they’re standing up for you on the day of, you should want them there anyway. \n\n### Family Members\nBrothers and future brothers-in-law should also always receive an invite. But you can extend the invitation to other family members as well, such as cousins, uncles, and potential future family members like your sister’s boyfriend or your fiancés relatives. Depending on the location and activities you have chosen, you may want to include your dad and even your future father-in-law, too.\n\n### Friends Outside of the Wedding Party\nIf you’re having a small wedding party, or have a lot of close friends, you should extend the bachelor party invite to people outside of your groomsmen. The number of groomsmen you have maybe fewer than you wanted for a number of reasons, from the size of your SO’s party to the size of the altar, or simply due to how many people can fit in one photo. Now’s your chance to include the guys you struggled to cut from your lineup, your ushers, or friends you never get to see. \n\nYou should also consider inviting roommates and coworkers to your bachelor party. You spend a lot of time with these people and will likely be talking about the bachelor party for weeks on end both before and after the fact. You can avoid any awkwardness by inviting them along, especially if they fall into the category of close friends already. \n\n## Who Not to Invite to Your Bachelor Party\nSince a bachelor’s party may not be suited for all the people you know, we’ve also included a list of people you may not want to include on the bachelor party guest list.\n\n### People Not Invited to Your Wedding\nThis should go without saying, but don’t invite anyone to your bachelor party who isn’t already invited to your wedding. If you’re having trouble with this, you may need to reevaluate your wedding guest list. (Of course, the exceptions is if you’re eloping or having a family-only wedding.) \n\nWith that being said, your bachelor party isn’t your wedding, so don’t invite every guy who’s coming to the wedding. You’ll have time to celebrate with your friends’ spouses and distant relatives on the big day, but the bachelor party is not the time for that. \n\n### People Under 21\nLet’s face it, [bachelor parties](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/pre-wedding-activities/bachelor-parties \" Bachelor Parties | Zola\") almost always involve drinking. Even if you’re having a more low key event, it’s probably best not to invite anyone under 21. You don’t want to be responsible for leaving someone home from the bar or encouraging underage drinking. \n\n### People You Aren’t Close With\nOf course, because every groom is different, every bachelor party will be a bit different. When deciding who to invite to the event, it comes down to who you want to celebrate with and how. Any or all of the people on this list are fair game. Take location, activities, and size into consideration, but don’t let them make or break relationships. This is, after all, supposed to be fun. \n\nFor more bachelor party resources, see our guides below:\n\n- 47 [Bachelor Party Ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelor-party-ideas \" 47 Bachelor Party Ideas for Every Groom | Zola\") for Every Type of Groom\n- [Best Man Duties](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-best-man-duties \" Best Man Duties: A Full Breakdown | Zola\"): A Full Breakdown","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_InvitesPaper"}},"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:57:18.304Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Bachelor party","slug":"bachelor-party"},"slug":"best-bachelor-party-destinations","title":"Best Bachelor Party Destinations","excerpt":"Looking for the best bachelor party destinations? Zola experts are here to help! 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Although this can certainly ring true for some, a bachelor party can be anything the groom wants it to be, and it doesn’t have to fall into the stereotype. Every groom is unique, so the style of the bachelor party varies widely depending on the groom’s personality and interests. \n \nAt its core, bachelor parties are pre-wedding rituals to celebrate the groom and help keep him relaxed during the days leading up to the wedding. Finding the ideal destination is a crucial component in planning a successful bachelor party. Whether you love the vibrant nightlife of South Beach, Miami or you prefer a relaxing weekend on a golf course in Palm Springs, California, we are here to help you find the perfect place for your party destination. To help kick-start planning an epic day or weekend, here’s a comprehensive list of the best bachelor party destinations. Whether you’re looking for a traditional bachelor party or leaning toward a more eclectic celebration, we have plenty of options for you.\n\n![Best Bachelor Party Destinations](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1gV6dWl0RCqPgNg0V1A2Hd/db8d0f5ece94498955b253ed1d870cdc/inline_shutterstock__1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Shutterstock\n\n## For the bachelor who loves live music:\n \n- __Nashville, Tennessee:__ Aptly called the “Music City,” Nashville is the perfect place for country music lovers. This lively city has great Southern food and live music bars ideal for pub crawls. Visit the [Grand Ole Opry](https://www.opry.com/about/) House for a guided tour and a taste of history.\n- __Austin, Texas:__ Austin is a music festival hotspot home to Austin City Limits and SXSW. Besides its festivals, Austin provides live music nearly every night at bars and restaurants. [Rainey Street and 6th Street](https://www.austintexas.org/music-scene/venue-guide/) have great options for live music. \n- __New Orleans, Louisiana:__ Home of Jazz Fest and Mardi Gras, New Orleans is a soulful and vibrant city known for its live music scene, renowned restaurants, fun nightlife scene, and haunted history. Take a walk down [Frenchman Street](https://frenchmenstreetlive.com/) for some awesome music clubs and restaurants such as Spotted Cat and d.b.a. Not to mention, New Orleans is known for its wild party scene, especially on the famous Bourbon Street. \n\n## For the bachelor who loves the beach:\n\n- __San Diego, California:__ If your groom loves to surf we suggest traveling to San Diego for his bachelor party. This California city has some amazing beaches and is a surfer’s paradise with its big waves. \n- __Cabo San Lucas, Mexico:__ For an ultra-relaxing bachelor party by the ocean, Cabo fits the bill. Whether you choose to snorkel, book a cruise, or chill on the beach with a beer in hand, Cabo is bound to be a sunny and fun party destination. Plus, it also offers an amazing nightlife scene for those that want an epic bachelor party in Mexico. \n- __Charleston, South Carolina:__ Charleston is great for a balance between relaxing on the beach and enjoying city life. This picturesque city is full of cobblestone streets, lovely architecture, and highly-rated restaurants. Be sure to check out [Folly Beach](https://www.thecrazytourist.com/10-best-beaches-in-charleston-south-carolina/#:~:text=10%20Best%20Beaches%20in%20Charleston%2C%20South%20Carolina%201,Hunting%20Island.%20...%2010%20Cherry%20Grove%20Beach.%20), one of the most popular and famous beaches in South Carolina. \n\n## For the bachelor who loves the great outdoors:\n\n- __Denver, Colorado:__ Known as the “[Mile High City](https://www.denver.org/articles/post/10-things-to-know-about-the-mile-high-city/#:~:text=10%20Things%20to%20Know%20About%20the%20Mile%20High,the%20largest%20city%20park%20systems%20in%20the%20country.),” Denver is a beautiful metropolis known for beautiful, natural landscapes. This Colorado destination is full of state parks, ideal fishing spots, local breweries, scenic cabins, and prime hiking locations. It’s the perfect bachelor party setting for outdoorsy grooms. \n- __Portland, Oregon:__ If you’re looking for a mix between a city celebration and an outdoor excursion, look no further than Portland. Oregon’s [largest and most populated city](https://worldpopulationreview.com/states/cities/oregon), Portland is full of hipster destinations and natural wonders. Whether you’re interested in a dinner cruise, river tour, pub crawl, or donut tasting, Portland has plenty to offer. \n- __Park City, Utah:__ With proximity to national parks and [world-class skiing opportunities](https://www.parkcityreservations.com/travel-guide/activities), Park City is a vibrant city. This part of Utah is especially beautiful during the winter months and is home to cultural festivals and great whiskey distilleries.\n\n## For the bachelor who loves to party:\n \n![Best Bachelor Party Destinations](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2mtDkoqim8fkA4udkdYaJ9/a86da1762b75eec47b53648ab03026c9/inline_shutterstock2.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Shutterstock\n\n- __Las Vegas, Nevada:__ No bachelor party destination list is complete without the mecca of all locations: Las Vegas. Known for its great nightlife, Las Vegas has some of the best casinos in the world, not to mention high-end clubs and hotels. This is the perfect celebration spot for a groom who likes to gamble and live a luxurious life. \n- __Miami, Florida:__ Miami embodies nightlife. This red-hot city has wonderful beaches, fancy rooftop and cocktail bars, and plenty of happy hours—not to mention a dynamic fashion and arts scene. What more could you ask for?\n- __Atlantic City, New Jersey:__ The East Coast version of Vegas, Atlantic City is a go-to pick for bachelor and bachelorette parties alike. From casinos and nightclubs to hotels and its iconic boardwalk, Atlantic City entertains everyone. \n\n## For the bachelor who loves sports:\n\n- __Philadelphia, Pennsylvania:__ For sports fans, it doesn’t get much better than Philly. It’s the site of plenty of stadiums and fields, and it’s home to the Philadelphia Eagles. Perfect for watching a game and eating some cheesesteaks, Philly is ideal for fantasy-league-loving grooms. \n- __Atlanta, Georgia:__ Visit Atlanta to check out the lauded College Football Hall of Fame. Not to mention, the city is home to three major sports teams: the Braves, Hawks, and Falcons. \n- __Boston, Massachusetts:__ Baseball fans will love Boston for its famous Fenway Park. However, Fenway is far from the only respected venue to watch games in Boston. Gillette Stadium, the fortress of football, also resides in Boston. No matter what sport your bachelor enjoys, there’s bound to be something for him in this city. \n\nWhether you’re looking for exciting nightlife or more casual ways to unwind, you can’t go wrong with any of these bachelor party destinations. Once you have selected your ideal bachelor party venue, you are well on your way to an unforgettable time. \n","tag":"List","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Fill your bachelor party with groom-approved activities. 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Here’s how to plan a bachelor party so that you can spend less time stressing and more time celebrating. ","author":"Rachel Varina","publishedAt":"2021-02-02T17:32:45.053Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2XQXuMbR5kItr3FxFjq3VI/cc57954382da2ef3890e8facc44707bc/Hero_Zola__15_.jpg","altText":"Plan a Bachelor Party"},"heroCredit":"Zola","body":"One of the most exciting aspects of wedding planning are the bach parties. That is, the bachelor party, bachelorette party, and/or [combined bach celebration](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/joint-bachelor-bachelorette-party-games). But when it comes time to plan a successful [bachelor party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bachelor-parties), odds are you have a lot of questions. From coordinating lodging to booking events, there are quite a few details that go into pulling off the perfect event. For that reason, we’re outlining all the details, be it etiquette, planning steps, and helpful tips for throughout.\n\nLearn how to plan a bachelor party—whether you’re the groom-to-be, best man, or one of the groomsmen—that will be talked about for years to come. See below for our comprehensive bachelor party planner walkthrough.\n\n## Bachelor Party Etiquette\nJust as your wedding day (and all that leads up to it) has special etiquette, so does a bachelor party. From timelines to considering your guests in all aspects, there’s much to consider when both planning and executing a stag party. That said, we’ve answered some of the most anticipated bachelor party etiquette questions, including:\n\n- __Who hosts the party?__ Traditionally, the bachelor party is thrown and hosted by the groom’s best man. That said, it can be—and is often—a group effort between the best man and the groom’s close friends and family members (AKA the groomsmen). There’s nothing stopping someone, however, from throwing their own bachelor party, should they want to go that route.\n\n- __When should it take place?__ In the months leading up to the wedding. We recommend planning a bachelor party three to six months out, depending on how extensive the festivities are and if there’s travel involved, and having the party one to three months prior to the big day.\n\n- __Can it take place on a holiday?__ This entirely depends on the desires of the group. We highly suggest avoiding any big holidays that might cause your groomsmen to be unavailable and miss out. They may, however, be comfortable with celebrating on a holiday such as Labor Day Weekend, since they likely won’t have to take off work. Just bare in mind that busy weekends can also mean higher prices and longer wait times.\n\n- __How involved should the groom be in planning?__ This is entirely up to the groom and the host. One or the other can take over planning, or it can be a collaborative process. The level of the groom’s involvement ultimately comes down to their personal preference, as they might have bachelor party ideas they want to use to celebrate. In any case, before getting started, have a conversation with them about it. Even if they don’t want to be heavily involved, it’s crucial that you get their opinions on certain aspects (ideal type of party, strippers vs no strippers, etc.)\n\n- __Should the guest list be approved?__ Yes. It should be the groom’s decision both how big or small the group is and [who is invited](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-to-invite-to-a-bachelor-party) to take part. Sure, this means a complete surprise is probably out of the question, but it ensures that they end up celebrating with their nearest and dearest.\n\n- __Do I need to send out invitations?__ Paper invitations aren’t necessary—though, you can definitely send them out if you’re hosting a fancy outing. Instead, get everyone’s phone numbers and create a group text where you can communicate directly, as well as compile information on availability, budget, and ideas.\n\n- __Who pays for what?__ Typically, every person pays their own way. One’s share might include transportation, accommodations, food, and activities. That being said, some parents of the groom may honor the tradition of contributing financially to the bachelor party. \n\n- __Should people bring gifts?__ Gifts aren’t expected at bachelor parties, though some celebrants might bring a fun gift to be enjoyed by the groom or group. Some groups or individuals may also choose to contribute financially towards the groom’s expenses. This could be transportation, lodging, a meal, an activity, drinks, or similar.\n\n## Steps for Bachelor Party Planning\nNow that you’re familiar with bachelor party etiquette, let’s talk planning. Though it might seem simple, planning a party (or bachelor weekend) is a multi-step process with a handful of logistics to juggle. That said, there’s no reason to be intimidated. To ensure you’ve got everything covered, take a look at our step-by-step process below.\n\n1. __Discuss plans with the groom.__ First and foremost, have a conversation with the groom about how they’d like to celebrate. Talk group size, location, activity, food, and the like. The purpose of a bachelor party is to celebrate them and their upcoming marriage, after all. And from sporting events, to paintball, to a spa weekend, to a trip to Austin or New York, [there’s plenty to choose from](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelor-party-ideas).\n\n2. __Create a guest list.__ Once you have an idea of what you’d like to do, create a group text with a groom-approved guest list. This creates an avenue for direct communication between everyone.\n\n3. __Decide on a budget.__ Within the group chat, ask people how much money they’re comfortable with sending—or, allow them to answer a poll anonymously. It’s crucial that you have this information before solidifying any plans.\n\n4. __Set a date/dates.__ With an ideal celebration and budget in mind, begin to narrow down a date. We recommend first going to the groom for their preference, then sending a few dates to the group to see which works best.\n\n5. __Collect RSVPs.__ With a solidified date (or dates) and budget, confirm how many people—and who, specifically—will be joining. We recommend knowing this before making any reservations, as it can effect pricing (e.g. hotel bookings).\n\n6. __Choose a venue or location.__ Next, decide on accommodations (if you’re traveling somewhere or hosting a staycation) or your venue. You’ll want to book this first and as soon as possible.\n\n7. __Make all bookings and reservations.__ Likewise, make a final decision on meals and activities, then coordinate all bookings and reservations.\n\n8. __Plan the Itinerary.__ Coinciding with Step 6, as you book, create a clear itinerary (or schedule) of activities. This doesn’t need to be down to this minute, but should include all booking and reservation times and locations.\n\n## Bachelor Party Planning Tips \n\n## 1. Assign Responsibilities\nThe first step when it comes to [bachelor party planning](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bachelor-parties) is figuring out who, exactly, is doing the planning. Some grooms like to be more involved and want to select everything from the location to the lodging to the activities, whereas other grooms want to be surprised. Ask the guest of honor what he prefers, and ask him if there’s anything he does (or doesn’t) want to do at his celebration. While you might have a specific vision in mind, make sure that it aligns with what he wants, because, ultimately, he’s the one that the day needs to be centered around. \n\n![How to Plan a Bachelor Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2zNr5OF9T0UaSt7rzk9Gic/aadd54e963da0aa93039bca6c4dce4ac/inline-unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Unsplash\n\n## 2. Consider the Groom’s Interests\nSome grooms dream of a rowdy Las Vegas bachelor party whereas others would prefer a cabin in Lake Tahoe for a low-key, nature-filled weekend. Before booking a hotel room suite in a party town, consider the groom’s personality and interests. Is he the kind of guy who loves to do shots and close down the bar? Or, does he lean more toward long hikes followed by some casual beers with his buds? There’s no set template for bachelor parties now, so don’t feel like you need to plan a Hollywood-inspired weekend if that’s not what the guest of honor likes. Additionally, check to see if there’s anything he does or does not want to do so that you don’t ruffle any feathers or leave him disappointed. \n\n## 3. Pick a Place He’ll Love\nBefore starting your search for the best [bachelor party destinations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/best-bachelor-party-destinations), ask the groom if he has a spot in mind. Some people always envision a specific spot or theme for their event, whereas others want to be surprised. If he knows where he wants to go, do your best to make it happen (assuming budget permits), otherwise, pull inspiration from it so that you can have an on-themed event. If he wants to be surprised, consider places that he’s been, places he loves, and what sort of bachelor party weekend he’s after to help you narrow down the location. \n\n## 4. Select a Budget and Let Everyone Know\nOne of the trickiest aspects to coordinate when it comes to planning a bachelor party is the budget. Before making any plans, be sure to have a candid conversation with the guests to figure out what everyone’s comfortable paying for the weekend. Additionally, some parties choose to pick up the groom’s portion of the tab, so be sure to factor that in before moving forward. Once you have a budget, make sure to account for details such as lodging, food and drink, activities, supplies, and transportation (such as Uber, cabs, and/or a party bus) to get around. It’s helpful to get a lump sum from each guest well before the event so that you don’t get stuck paying for someone’s part after the celebration is over. \n\n## 5. Be Mindful of the Guestlist\nBefore extending an invitation to everyone on the groom’s phone, ask him if there's anyone specifically that he does/does not want to invite. There’s a chance that he already has a guest list planned out, so ask him before inviting anyone who wasn’t on his original list. Some grooms have the mindset of “the more the merrier,” whereas others prefer to keep things smaller with just his inner circle. Additionally, before inviting his future brother-in-law or father-in-law, ask. Some guys love the idea of handing out a [bachelor party invitation](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelor-party-ideas) to a soon-to-be relative, whereas others prefer to celebrate sans in-laws. \n\n## 6. Determine a Good Date\nWhen it comes time to pick a day, the most important thing is that it works for the groom and any guests he really can’t picture celebrating without. Coordinate privately with him to see if he has a date in mind and if there’s anyone he needs to ensure will make it. Once you have a date (or a few workable options from the groom), open it up to the rest of the group. If they’re voting, select the date that works for the most people. If instead you just select a date, be prepared for some of the guests to have other obligations. That’s okay, as long as it works for the groom. \n\n## 7. Plan a Few Big Ticket Events\nWhile you don’t need to have every detail of the bachelor party planned from start to finish (but it might help from a time management standpoint), there are a few things that you’ll want to coordinate ahead of time. Make sure that you plan for any big-ticket items that you might need to block out time for or book in advance. Events such as tables at popular restaurants or clubs, tours at breweries or parks, boats, limos, and live music concerts all need to be booked well in advance, especially with a big group.\n\n## 8. Coordinate Travel and Lodging\n\n![How to Plan a Bachelor Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5mDp4Dvtf8wg2Ave638j49/2d4da758318e9b2e95c385c0b0fd6c0f/inline2_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Unsplash\n\nGetting everyone to the bachelor party destination location is another task item that the coordinator-in-charge will want to have figured out. Ensure that the guests know what time the events begin so that no one is flying in after a nice dinner or town tour begins, and check with your hotel or rental house to see what time check-in begins so that you’re not lugging your bags around for hours (you can always ask for an early check-in if your timeline starts a little earlier). If you’re trying to keep costs low, consider renting a home instead of hotel rooms, utilizing air mattresses, and trying to coordinate flights so that guests can ride together to the rental property.\n\n## 9. Stock Up on Supplies\nOne of the final components you’ll want to coordinate before the party starts is stocking up on supplies. Purchasing items such as snacks, meals, and drinks will not only cut down on costs (so you don’t have to eat out for every meal) but will give you the chance to have some downtime where you can all relax at your lodging without having to get ready and grab a cab. Plan out your grocery and meal list before heading to the store and assign a few people to get the supplies ASAP so that the fun can begin right away. \n\n## 10. Have Fun and Be Smart\nWhether you’re doing a grand weekend abroad or a night out in your hometown, the most important thing is that you have fun while being safe. Even though this is the time to cut loose, it’s also important to remember that whatever goes down at a bachelor party will eventually get back to the bride and the guests’ SOs. Don't do anything that’ll jeopardize those relationships or your safety and you can guarantee it’ll be one for the ages. As you plan a bachelor bash, remember: It ultimately doesn’t matter where the weekend takes place or what, exactly, you do. As long as you have fun and make memories with your VIPs, it will be the perfect pre-wedding celebration.\n\n## Conclusion\nBachelor parties are a chance to celebrate a loved one’s upcoming wedding, as well as let them know how much you care for them. Bonus: It can also serve as a bit of stress-relief amidst wedding planning. Ultimately, it’s most important that you throw the kind of party you know the groom will enjoy. That said, if you’re still wanting to double-check your planning skills, check out our separate [step-by-step guide](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bachelor-parties).\n","tag":"How To","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"You don’t have to limit your guest list to your groomsmen! These are the guys you should consider sending a bachelor party invite to and what to know before you do.","title":"Who to Invite to a Bachelor Party","slug":"who-to-invite-to-a-bachelor-party","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/lZUgjZ7Upe5a3keqVB7B8/fc18c69cef0bf83f6a7ebcb00b67a1d6/Hero_Rustic_RomanticinSanLuisObispo_DavidPascollaPhotography.jpg","altText":"bachelor party group photo"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Get all your questions about bachelor parties—from who is responsible for planning to what to do—in this comprehensive guide. 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Find advice on who to invite, where to go and what activities to do! We help you plan a party for each kind of bachelor."}],"featured":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Engagement party","slug":"engagement-party"},"slug":"pre-wedding-events-guide","title":"Guide to All Wedding Parties & Events","excerpt":"We created a guide to all the different pre-wedding, post-wedding, and wedding-related events so you can decide what you’ll include as part of your wedding.","author":"Jennifer Prince, Erin Celletti, and McCall Minnor","publishedAt":"2022-04-13T18:06:06.745Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5uuVJB4T2Ib4wDoicjCgbZ/9b21dc45e3155dd604137c1bf2a53c2a/Hero_1.jpg","altText":"Circular image of friends toasting with champagne glasses and sparkling lights"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Years ago, once couples got engaged, they had two celebrations to look forward to—the bridal shower and the rehearsal dinner. Although those traditions remain, as time has moved on, couples have become more creative with the addition of other events. No matter your reasoning for including extra celebrations in your wedding festivities schedule, seize the opportunity to gather with family and friends. Here’s our ultimate guide to all the different kinds of [parties and events](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events) you can include in your [wedding timeline](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist).\n\n## Engagement party\n\nThe question gets popped, a ring is placed on your finger, and it’s time to celebrate with loved ones. Ideally, an [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party) takes place within the first month of the proposal, but if your schedule prevents that timeline, do it whenever is most convenient.\n\nSince this is generally a more intimate celebration, hosting anything from a casual backyard barbecue with lawn games and a [small guest list](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-do-you-invite-to-an-engagement-party) to a more upscale dinner gathering is appropriate. \n\nIf your interest is piqued, there are more [engagement party ideas here](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-ideas).\n\nWho hosts the engagement party depends on your take on the event. If you and your future spouse want to have family and friends gather to [meet each other](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/introduce-families-after-engagement), feel free to host. However, if you’re going to be hands-off, have someone close, such as a sibling or parent, orchestrate the event.\n\n__Expert advice:__ Unless your wedding will be very small or a destination wedding, only invite people who will also be guests on your wedding day. \n\nSee all of our [engagement party articles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/engagement-party) for more expert tips.\n\n![Craig Adderley - Pre-wedding events](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5GFhw3on6e3FyKap4ONlH7/1b4acace342fc222441fc06c9f64c8a4/Inline_1.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Craig Adderley\n\n## Wedding showers\n\nOnce referred to as a bridal shower, today’s [wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-bridal-shower-and-what-is-its-purpose) is more inclusive than its formerly women-only predecessor ([read more about the difference here](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one)). While you can keep it to just the ladies if you’d like, the main focus of this event is to shower the happy couple with gifts, which can take on several forms. Guests can bring items off the [couple’s registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry), or the event can be [themed](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-themes). Think of giving articles related to experiences or stocking the couple’s bar.\n\nIt’s probably best to let someone else handle the hosting and inviting for your [wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-shower-guide). But that doesn’t mean you need to be hands-off. Talk to your sibling, best man, maid of honor, or parent—all appropriate choices for hosting a shower—about a theme and what type of gifts you’d like. Invite close friends and family members, and hold the event two to three months before the wedding. Do it at someone’s home or somewhere else that gives off intimate, celebratory vibes.\n\n### So, then, what is a bridal shower?\n\nA traditional [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers) celebrates the bride and is a gathering of her closest friends and family, typically all female. It’s often thrown by the bride’s side of the family and her bridal party, but it has evolved into an “anything goes” event for cost responsibility. The key difference here is that the focus is on the bride.\n\n### What is a Jack and Jill party?\n\nA Jack and Jill party is a modern, inclusive way to celebrate both sides of the couple at once before the big day. It mixes sides and genders and is usually more laid back in a way more and more couples are choosing. It’s a chance to celebrate the couple together with everyone they love. If your coed curious, read more about the [pros and cons of having a coed wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/coed-wedding-shower).\n\n__Expert advice:__ Find [wedding or bridal shower invitations](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/bridal-shower/shop) of all styles on Zola. You can even match them to your [wedding invites](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop)! \n\nFor more expert tips, explore all of our [wedding shower articles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/wedding-shower).\n\n## Bach parties\n\nToday’s couples have reframed the bachelor or bachelorette party to be more classy while still partying and making memories with people they are close to. Think about inviting your bridal party, siblings, and close friends—as long as they don’t feel stilted by not being asked to be an attendant.\n\nIt’s perfectly appropriate for you to host this event yourself. Your wedding party can also take the reins. Often, bachelor and bachelorette parties have everyone pay their own way, especially if you jet-set out of town for a long weekend. That said, this pre-wedding celebration is more about getting together and being festive than major expenses. So, feel free to be flexible so everyone involved can celebrate leading up to your wedding day.\n\n### Bachelorette parties\n[Bachelorette parties](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bachelorette-parties) celebrate the bride-to-be and can be anything from an elevated brunch, a night on the town, or weekend away somewhere festive. Most importantly, they should reflect the bachelorette’s personality and wishes and be a gathering of her nearest and dearest. \n\nRead our full [guide to planning a bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bachelorette-party) for more deets. \n\n### Bachelor parties\n\n[Bachelor parties](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bachelor-party) honor, you’ve guessed it — the bachelor. It’s basically just a gathering of the groom’s best friends and family spending time together. Normally, they do what the groom enjoys most whether it be sports, hiking, the casino — anything goes. \n\nCheck out [47 bachelor party ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelor-party-ideas) to find something for every groom.\n\n### Joint Bachelor/Bachelorette parties\n\nBrides, grooms, and same-sex couples looking for ways to celebrate together might opt for a joint bachelor/bachelorette party. ‘Bachelorx’ as some call it, is much more than a coed party – it's a fun and inclusive way to focus pre-wedding festivities on the couple as a whole. \n\nCheck out [how to throw a joint bach party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/joint-bachelor-bachelorette-party-games) for the step-by-step. \n\n__Expert advice:__ Get answers to all of your bach party questions, from theme ideas to planning guides to gift inspiration. Find everything [bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/bachelorette-party) or [bachelor party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/bachelor-party) in our expert advice sectionon. \n\n![Melike Benli - Pre-wedding events](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5z3OG5MnN3cpIavaOqAcrX/0b0cc0586ce31c6d2b89c163a6a6ef16/Inline_2.jpg)*Photo Credit* // Melike Benli\n\n## Aufruf\n\nJewish culture has many celebrations, such as Hanukkah and Yom Kippur, but a wedding-centric event that many look forward to is the Aufruf. Yiddish for “calling up,” the Aufruf is traditionally only meant for the groom, although in more modern synagogues, both partners can participate. The entire congregation takes part in this pre-wedding tradition, which happens at the temple the Saturday before the wedding.\n\nDuring the ceremony, the groom will give a blessing over the Torah. Inviting friends and family to the service is appropriate since this is a public display. However, dash all thoughts of the Aufruf being solemn. Sometimes, the rabbi will give the couple candy, signifying a sweet union and fruitfulness throughout the marriage. Some folks will also schedule a post-Aufruf meal to continue the festivities, depending on the circumstances. Additionally, the Aufruf is not to be confused with Shabbat Chatan, which is also for the groom but takes place after the big day.\n\n## Mehndi party\n\nBorrowing beautiful influences from Hindu and [Muslim traditions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/muslim-wedding-checklist), the mehndi party is a unique way to celebrate while focusing on self and practicing ancient rituals. Also known as a henna party, this event is generally held by the bride’s parents and involves placing beautiful, intricate designs on the bride’s hands and feet using henna dye.\n\nToday’s celebrations often include other close family members and friends of the bride. Because these events can take hours—depending on how many henna artists are available and the intricacy of the designs—hosting at a spa, home, or Airbnb can be a nice touch. Henna also darkens over time, so if you’d like to have these designs on your hands and feet for your wedding day, it’s best to have henna applied three days beforehand to allow the natural ink to darken.\n\n## Welcome party \n\nIf you’re having a [destination wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/destination-wedding-checklist) (or a [wedding weekend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/plan-wedding-weekend) people are traveling in for), it’s customary to have some form of welcome reception when your guests arrive at the wedding location. \n\nThis differs from the rehearsal dinner—which typically happens the night before the wedding and only hosts the bridal party and your closest family. \n\nA wedding welcome party can be as casual as welcome drinks or a barbecue once everyone arrives and settles in. It can also be as extravagant as your budget and style preferences allow. Just remember that it’s optional. \n\n## Sangeet \n\nOften celebrated in India, sangeet is all about merriment with many family and friends. As a result, the number of folks invited to sangeet will often outnumber the wedding reception. Folks get together to party — sing, dance, eat, drink — before the big day to showcase their support for the couple and gather with those they haven’t seen in a while. Because this is a large celebration, hosts can often vary and may depend on the number of guests invited.\n\nBecause of the higher guest count, hosting should happen at a [wedding venue](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue) or another location that can hold many people. Although, sometimes, the sangeet will include a smaller number of guests. When it comes to pre-wedding events, sangeets are one of the most flexible, meaning that the location, who hosts, and its proximity to the wedding day can all vary. However, one thing sangeets have in common is the presence of music, which is no wonder since the word means “music” in Sanskrit.\n\n## Rehearsal dinner \n\nThe [rehearsal dinner](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/unique-rehearsal-dinner-ideas) follows your wedding rehearsal, in which your officiant or wedding planner guides you and everyone involved through your wedding ceremony. Along with these people, it’s nice to [invite any close family members](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-to-invite-to-a-rehearsal-dinner) who are wedding guests, as well as those traveling in. \n\nAs expected, the rehearsal dinner is usually the evening before your wedding. As such, it’s best to host it somewhere close to the wedding venue. Choose a restaurant close by or see if your ceremony venue has a space that is not already dedicated to your wedding reception.\n\n## Wedding party/bridal luncheon \n\nIt’s always great to get together with your wedding party. Plus, if you’re a groom who wants to hold a groomsmen’s brunch, go for it! Traditionally, a bridesmaids or wedding party luncheon or brunch is a meal for bridesmaids and/or groomsmen focused on socializing the [wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-many-people-in-wedding-party). Breaking the ice before the big day is a fantastic way to set the tone. \n\nThe bridesmaids’ brunch usually takes place at a restaurant, café, or loved one’s home. If you’d like to host this event, feel free to take the reins. As for when it takes place, that comes down to your personal preference and everyone’s schedules. If everyone is local, picking a date should be simple, but if a few are long-distance, the event may have to take place closer to your [wedding day](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-planning-101/wedding-day).\n\n## After party \n\nJust because the DJ has played the last song and the lights have come up doesn’t mean the party has to be over. It’s becoming more and more common for couples to host an after party that is, quite literally, after the party. \n\nThis after-hours event usually involves extra cocktails and snacks, is in a different location than the reception itself, and can help to keep the party going. And going, and going. Find the best DJs and live bands for your after party on [Zola’s Vendor Marketplace](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-bands-djs).\n\n## Farewell brunch \n\nThe final culminating event of a wedding celebration is the [farewell brunch](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/fun-post-wedding-brunch-invitation-ideas). It can be hosted by the couple, the families, a close relative, or anyone else who offers. It’s typically reserved for guests who’ve spent the night in a designated hotel or resort.\n\nThe farewell brunch gives your guests a chance to regroup, enjoying breakfast and coffee before heading on their merry way. It’s not a mandatory event, but it’s definitely nice to have for both the couple and their guests. As a result, it’s a relatively easy way to put the cherry on top of a great wedding. \n\n## Final thoughts on extra wedding events\n\nAs you can see, weddings can be as simple as the ceremony and reception itself. Or can be a true series of parties and events that lead up to and even continue after the wedding itself. There are no obligations or limits to the amount of wedding fun you can have.\n\nOthers want to honor and celebrate you—both on and before your big day. Incorporating one or more of these wedding festivities gives you more opportunities to spend time and celebrate with everyone you love. The best part? You don’t have to get overwhelmed with planning everything when you’ve got Zola on your team. 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