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Your guide to celebrating wedding anniversaries! From anniversary gifts by year to celebrating with a vow renewal ceremony, find all the advice and inspiration you need to make every anniversary super special.

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As weddings for love became popular in the late 19th century, wedding anniversary themes were standardized to help commend couples on their lives together with traditional gifts.\n\nOf course, like any tradition, these gifts have become modernized, and there are plenty of creative ways to gift paper that your partner will love. If you’re looking for wedding anniversary gift ideas, traditional themes are a great place to get inspiration before you visit your favorite boutique.\n\nAnniversaries are the perfect annual marker of your time together, but perhaps more important are the moments that define your relationship. Marriage milestones are wonderful times when you can see your lives growing and changing—like when you buy your first home. So to help you commemorate your firsts as a couple, check out our marriage milestones gift ideas below.\n\n## Traditional wedding anniversary gift ideas by year\n\nWith each year together, you’ve created hundreds of memories and grown significantly in your lives as individuals and as partners. That’s a beautiful thing to celebrate, and wedding anniversary gifts are the perfect way to show your partner that you love your life together.\n\nKeep things classic with an anniversary gift to suit each traditional theme, or mix things up with our ideas for modern gifting. Alternatively, take inspiration for your anniversary gifts by year from each year’s color, metal, or flower. \n\n## 1st Anniversary: paper\n\n![i love you cards](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2DdMy9kfTUUBspgU5MqEgX/ce7ce371f3708977eaea8e9ba3198a61/wedding-anniversary-gift-first-anniversary-paper-i-love-you-cards.jpg)\n\n\n\nPaper probably seems a little too simple. However, the possibilities are endless, and there are plenty of sentimental ways to gift paper. Consider a star map of your wedding day, a framed print of your first dance’s sheet music, or a poem of your first-year memories. If you want a little more wow, grab tickets to your favorite show, commission a custom painting, or schedule a one-year photo shoot.\n\n__Modern gift:__ Clocks are the modern alternative to paper, and you can gift a new watch or even DIY a custom clock for something extra special.\n\n#### 1-Year anniversary gift themes\n- Color: gold or yellow\n- Metal: gold\n- Flower: carnation\n\nTraditional: [Minted Art Gift Card\n](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/minted_art_giftcard_50)\nModern: [Madison Park Mason Wall Clock](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/madisonpark_mason_wall_clock)\n\n## 2nd Anniversary: cotton\n\n![wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-throw-pillow](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5bqfNtVxzms8nukPSoC25d/e5c0cebd0ae718280430fc11755488f2/wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-to-celebrate-each-milestone-1.jpg)\nBuy on Zola\n\nCotton offers plenty of creative gift opportunities. Your lives are closer-knit than ever, so a custom blanket or a new outfit can make for lovely and useful gifts. You can also go the decor route with unique throw pillows, a canvas print, or a tapestry for your wall.\n\n__Modern gift:__ China traditionally falls further down the list, but why wait for a beautiful collection of dishware you could be enjoying now.\n\n#### 2-Year anniversary gift themes\n\n- Color: red\n- Gemstone: garnet\n- Flower: Lily of the valley\n\nTraditional: [Parachute Cloud Cotton Robe](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/parachute_cloud_cotton_robe_bone)\n\nModern: [Lorenzo Import Margaret 57-Piece Bone China Dinnerware Set, Service for 8](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lorenzaimportsllc_margaret_57pc_bone_china_dinnerware_set_servicefor8)\n\n## 3rd Anniversary: leather\n\n![Leather Bag](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5qtHNgvbhASzBdNkpQz0nW/8e59e38654bbffb5901a01e22e088bfc/Leather_Duffel.jpg)\nBuy on Zola\n\nLeather can last a lifetime, so this is a great year to invest in a gift that can be loved forever. A new wallet or bag are go-tos for anyone. You can also consider something specific to your partner’s hobbies, like a leather guitar strap or custom journal cover. If you don’t love wearing hides, check out guilt-free vegan leather gifts from local artists and big brands alike.\n\n__Modern gift:__ Crystal and glass are great alternatives to leather. Consider a decorative candle or a matching decanter and glasses set.\n\n#### 3-Year anniversary gift themes\n\n- Color: white or jade green\n- Gemstone: pearl\n- Flower: sunflower\n\nTraditional: [Outset Leather Grill Gloves](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/outset_grill_gloves)\n\nModern: [Estelle Colored Glass Estelle Stemware Wine Glass](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/estellecoloredglass_estelle_stemware_wine_glass_set6_amethyst)\n\n## 4th Anniversary: fruit or flowers\n\n![Floral Earrings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2nqmUeh6E3oSJK7AjdlAra/903543559460763e59c6000e5dc2fd87/Floral_Earrings.jpg)\nBuy on Zola\n\nFruit and flowers are a beautiful way to celebrate how your love grows and blossoms every year. Live flowers are always appreciated, but you can also preserve your flowers to create unique home decor. For a lasting gift, consider planning a garden, planting a fruit tree, or gifting art and jewelry made of fruit and floral designs.\n\n__Modern gift:__ Appliances are always a good investment, so consider what your home needs the most or what new gadget would be the most fun to have. Air fryers and ice cream makers are two popular choices right now. \n\n#### 4-Year anniversary gift themes\n\n- Color: blue or green\n- Gemstone: blue topaz\n- Flower: hydrangea\n\nTraditional: [Mikasa Florale Collection Vase](https://www.zola.com/shop/kit/mikasa-florale-collection)\n\nModern: [Chemex Kitchen Appliances Collection](https://www.zola.com/shop/kit/chemex-kitchen-appliances-collection)\n\n## 5th Anniversary: wood\n\n![fifth anniversary wood print](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/65qbowrC4p8mJWvcnM3JeY/ef68dfb04e52752217d4bcffa454cf00/wedding-anniversary-gift-fifth-anniversary-wood-print.jpg)\n\n\n\nAfter five wonderful years together, the gift of wood is tradition. This is a super customizable material, so you can gift a charcuterie board and wine rack for wine pairings, an upgrade to your bedroom suite furniture, or a customized piece of wall art for your home.\n\n__Modern gift:__ Consider choosing a new silverware set if you’re a fan of hosting dinner parties, or even if you’ve just lost too many to the sink disposal.\n\n#### 5-Year anniversary gift themes\n\n- Color: blue, pink, or turquoise\n- Gemstone: sapphire\n- Flower: daisy\n\nTraditional: [Crate And Barrel Tondo Collection](https://www.zola.com/shop/kit/tondo-collection)\n\nModern: [ZWILLING Opus 45-Piece Flatware Set](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/zwilling_opus_45piece_flatwareset)\n\n## 6th Anniversary: iron\n\n![light fixture](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7pnfSrpKxj8W6vrhdWgrA3/38be2c0a013035978e24890dc2548f4b/wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-to-celebrate-each-milestone-4.jpg)\nBuy on Zola\n\nSix years of marriage is a true testament to your bond. Upgrade your kitchen with cast iron cookware that will last a lifetime, or line your yard with a beautiful new iron fence. Light fixtures, picture frames, and golf clubs are also great ways to gift iron.\n\n__Modern gift:__ If wood fits your aesthetic better, you can shop for garden lanterns and furniture or a decorative sign and puzzle to share.\n\n#### 6-Year anniversary gift themes\n- Color: purple, white, or turquoise\n- Gemstone: amethyst\n- Flower: calla lily\n\nTraditional: [Staub Cast Iron Frying Pan](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/staub_frypan_17_graphite)\n\nModern: [Crate And Barrel Wood Marble Wine Cooler](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/crate-and-barrel-wood-marble-wine-cooler)\n\n## 7th Anniversary: copper or wool\n\n![wool rug](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/SjzD9DItAiE2af4mdWB5J/cbb1ceb13dc14fae1cbc4465a92a3590/wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-to-celebrate-each-milestone-5.jpg)\nBuy on Zola\n\nCopper and wool are paired to symbolize a strong, loving, and comfortable marriage together and are great gifts for your lucky seventh year together. Plan a date night in with cozy wool socks and sweaters, then gift a wedding photoetched in copper, matching keychains, or a copper wallet insert of your wedding vows.\n\n__Modern gift:__ If you’re looking for more utility, you can upgrade your partner’s desk set with custom stationery and matching office tools.\n\n#### 7-Year anniversary gift themes\n- Color: onyx black or yellow\n- Gemstone: cnyx\n- Flower: freesia\n\nTraditional: [Godinger 9-Piece Copper Bar Set](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/godinger_copperbarset_9pc)\n\nModern: [Yamazaki Home Rin Desk Organizer](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/yamazakihome_rin_desk_organizer_white)\n\n## 8th Anniversary: bronze or pottery\n\n![honey pot](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2V62WKn0bA0fXHQaBzTTkF/a0b28316f648dfd435a7f818a05d68c7/wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-to-celebrate-each-milestone-6.jpg)\nBuy on Zola\n\nThis year is the perfect year to gift an experience. Register you and your partner for a pottery class and make your own gifts together. If you’d rather buy something, decorative bowls, mugs, and kitchen storage are all great places to start. For bronze, consider jewelry, chimes, or an engraved money clip.\n\n__Modern Gift__: Linen and lace are beautiful alternatives if you’d like to give something more delicate. You can buy your partner a stunning new outfit and plan a date night, or upgrade your home linens to something more luxurious.\n\n#### 8-Year anniversary gift themes\n- Color: bronze or pottery\n- Gemstone: tourmaline\n- Flower: lilac\n\nTraditional: [Farmhouse Pottery Silo Pitcher](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/farmhouse_silopitcher)\n\nModern: [CULTIVER Linen 3-Piece Duvet Set\n](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cultiver_linen_duvetcover_set_pencilstripe)\n\n## 9th Anniversary: willow or pottery\n\n![picnic basket](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4cBsueE9VtuRjj22gJEAep/49e1d3860ac2887573af92a44d2594da/wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-to-celebrate-each-milestone-7.jpg)\nBuy on Zola\n\nBeautiful vases, porcelain tea sets, and sculptures are great pottery gifts. Give willow as a new picnic basket, a stylish ottoman or woven chair, or simply as a potted willow tree.\n\n__Modern Gift__: Leather is great as luggage tags and a passport cover for your next trip, or as designer boots and a jacket for a fashionable partner.\n\n#### 9-Year anniversary gift themes\n- Color: terracotta or copper\n- Gemstone: lapis lazuli\n- Flower: bird of paradise\n\nTraditional: [East Fork Pottery The Mug](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/eastforkpottery_the_mug_set2_blueridge)\n\nModern: [Thucassi Leather Satchel Candle](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thucassi_leather_satchel_candle_4)\n\n## 10th Anniversary: tin or aluminum\n\n![Wall Clock](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3zGJ11AGvVzNqbDwmWRSNU/89d856588411e301d4c306268e0f4c41/Wall_Clock.jpg)\nBuy on Zola\n\nCongratulations on your tenth wedding anniversary! Tin and aluminum may seem like simple gifts, but they’re used in several high-tech products that allow you to really give something special for your decade celebration. Check out smartwatches, laptop upgrades, or a projector for movie night. You can always keep it simple with a tin of their favorite tea, decorative signs, and fun vintage tins.\n\n__Modern Gift__: Of course, if you really want to dazzle, the tenth wedding anniversary is also the diamond anniversary. Upgrade your wedding bands or propose to renew your vows.\n\n#### 10-Year anniversary gift themes\n\n- Color: silver or blue\n- Gemstone: diamond or blue sapphire\n- Flower: daffodil\n\nTraditional: [ILive Mini Projector with Bluetooth](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ilive_mini_projector_with_bluetooth)\n\nModern: [Ritani Ten Stone Diamond Wedding Ring ](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ritani_tenstone_wedding_ring_platinum)\n\n## 11th Anniversary: steel\n\n![barware set](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1Xk4ALg3k9rz3Wpiry7APa/ffb097dd4e79be62d5e251020b972641/wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-to-celebrate-each-milestone-9.jpg)\nBuy on Zola\n\nSteel is a great way to represent your strength and resilience after eleven years of marriage. The best part is that steel is super versatile, and your gift options are endless. Cocktail sets and whiskey stones, decorative bowls, and tumblers, or even tables and decor lamps can all make wonderful steel gifts.\n\n__Modern gift:__ While you may skip the diamonds this year, you can still give gorgeous fashion jewelry for a sparkling gift they’ll love.\n\n#### 11-Year anniversary gift themes\n\n- Color: turquoise\n- Gemstone: turquoise\n- Flower: morning glory\n\nTraditional: [Calphalon Premier Stainless Steel Cookware Set](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/calphalon_premier_stainless_steel_11pc_cookware_set)\n\nModern: [Kendra Scott Davie Sterling Silver Pave Pendant Necklace](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/kendrascott_davie_sterling_silver_pave_pendant_necklace)\n\n## 12th Anniversary: silk or linen\n\n![Silk Bedding Set](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/46zY2uklXt1lZvfsSSF6nn/a18aaa142b1a74d045cd8af1948c784a/Silk_Bedding_Set.jpg)\nBuy on Zola\n\nSilk is a lavish upgrade for your home and great for pillowcases, pajamas, and robes. Buy matching sets along with higher thread count linens, monogrammed towels, and cozy slippers to plan a spa day at home.\n\n__Modern gift:__ Pearls aren’t limited to stud earrings or necklaces. Look for items with pearl buttons, purl-knit sweaters, or even pearl inlays on a new guitar’s fretboard.\n\n#### 12-Year anniversary gift themes\n- Color: oyster white or beige\n- Gemstone: jade\n- Flower: peony\n\nTraditional: [Casper Casper Silk Pillowcase](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/casper1_mulberry_silk_pillowcase_indigo)\n\nModern: [Mariposa Personalized Pearled Frame\n](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/mariposa_pearled_frame_8_blank)\n\n## 13th Anniversary: lace\n\n![Black Lace Vase](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6fmFQA9SMjILQG846sowBc/b864e6ee0c98950f6289eb1465bc5a35/Black_Lace_Vase.jpg)\nBuy on Zola\n\nWhen choosing a lace gift, you may have to think outside the box a bit. Lace clothing is a good start, but you can find lace prints and designs on just about anything. Consider ordering a portrait made of lace, or pick up a bouquet of flowers or potted plant with a lace bow.\n\n__Modern gift:__ If lace isn’t your style, textiles are the modern theme, which gives you plenty of room for creativity. Order a custom quilt, tapestry, or a gorgeous new rug.\n\n#### 13-Year anniversary gift themes\n- Color: white\n- Gemstone: citrine\n- Flower: chrysanthemum\n\nTraditional: [Event Blossom Satin Lace Robe](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/eventblossom_satin_lace_robe_white)\n\nModern: [NuLOOM Rugs Outdoor Striped Yasmin Rug](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/nuloom_outdoor_striped_yasmin_rug)\n\n## 14th Anniversary: ivory\n\n![ivory vase](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5upWUJyTeIhcxjQltdHIc9/2756523081d5beee12c014e6cee3659a/wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-to-celebrate-each-milestone-12.jpg)\nBuy on Zola\n\nWhile the 14th anniversary is traditionally celebrated with ivory, you’ll want to choose a gift that looks like ivory. Faux ivory chess pieces, jewelry, and cufflinks are great alternatives. To celebrate elephants over ivory, you may even consider donating to protect wildlife or a trip to the zoo.\n\n__Modern gift:__ You can always skip the ivory and go for gold. Jewelry is an easy choice, but you can grab gold home decor or a journal with gold trim to document your favorite memories together.\n\n#### 14-Year anniversary gift themes\n- Color: ivory or gold\n- Gemstone: opal\n- Flower: dahlia\n\nTraditional: [Rifle Paper Co. X Loloi Les Fleurs Wildflower Rug](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/riflepapercoxloloi_les_fleurs_wildflower_rug_ivory)\n\nModern: [Kendra Scott Elisa Gold Vermeil Pendant Necklace](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/kendrascott_elisa_gold_vermeil_pendant_necklace)\n\n## 15th Anniversary: crystal\n\n![crystal glasses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/53mo3dYiIN3JTWioRbee67/dd08343a35847e2a36c9104d09f1b1b2/wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-to-celebrate-each-milestone-13.jpg)\nBuy on Zola\n\nWhat an amazing accomplishment to grow together over 15 years! Traditionally, couples give crystal gifts to celebrate their sparkling love. Crystal champagne flutes for a proper toast are a fitting idea. You may also consider wellness crystals, crystal candle holders, or trendy crystal platters.\n\n__Modern gift:__ The great thing about watches is that they can be worn and enjoyed every day. You could choose a smartwatch for utility or a fashion watch to really impress, or for a home-centric gift, choose a stylish clock.\n\n#### 15-Year anniversary gift themes\n- Color: ruby red\n- Gemstone: ruby\n- Flower: rose\n\nTraditional: [Waterford Lismore Pitcher](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/waterford_lismore_pitcherr)\n\nModern: [BIDKhome Marble Wall Clock with Gold Inlay](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/petrahome_marble_wall_clock_with_gold_inlay_9)\n\n## Marriage milestones to celebrate\n\n![marriage milestone tags](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6qvd87faF0eTmQWuTUYSbR/488b188d2625e4b9e2356d10e8c611ae/wedding-anniversary-gift-marriage-milestone-tags.jpg)\n\n\n\nEvery year deserves to be celebrated for the memories and triumphs of your relationship. Sprinkled within those years are marriage milestones that are special moments you’ll remember forever, and they’re perfect times to celebrate, too!\n\n### When you buy your first home\n\nYour first home together is a special first that really sets the foundation for the rest of your life. Celebrate with a portrait of your home, an ornate key ornament with your purchase date, or a custom welcome sign for your new front door.\n\n### When your family grows by one\n\nWhether by baby or pet, growing your family is a beautiful moment of love and compassion. When you announce a baby, celebrate with a photoshoot, your last one as just the two of you, and continue to capture the moments leading up to welcoming your new bundle of joy for a precious baby book.\n\nIf you’re welcoming a fur baby, consider a custom collar and matching bracelets to keep you all close, or a custom work of art, such as a needle felting or embroidery piece of your new pet.\n\n### When you host your first holiday at home\n\nAfter years of splitting family holidays, your first season as the host is a special occasion to add your own traditions. Of course, a family photo the day of is required, but you can also celebrate by updating your holiday decor. Custom stockings, a new Menorah, or enough lights for a Griswold Christmas will help welcome everyone into your home. Build a scrapbook, frame your holiday photo, or order a special ornament to always remember the occasion.\n\n### When you renew your vows\n\nAfter years of marriage, there’s no doubt you and your partner are different people. It’s beautiful to have learned, loved, and grown together, and renewing your vows is one of the best ways to show that you’re more in love than ever. After you renew your vows, celebrate with a second honeymoon, upgrade your wedding bands, or buy something for your home that you’ve been considering all these years. Whatever it is, make sure it’s special to you two.\n\n### When you plan your first road trip\n\nYou likely enjoyed your first trip together on your honeymoon, and your first road trip is another vacation full of memories and plenty of quality time in the car together. Collect mementos along the way at different rest stops, tourist shops, and roadside attractions. Keep a journal of your trip, what you saw, what you talked about, and even what you listened to. There’s a ton of fun to be had on a road trip and you’ll want to remember it all. Gifts and mementos are one of the best ways to remember your lives together and how you’ve grown. From your beginning as newlyweds to each anniversary and special memory, celebrate your love with something meaningful you can hold on to forever.\n\nReading ahead for years to come? 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Read this guide for some inspiration on choosing an anniversary gift for your husband.","author":"Shira Telushkin","publishedAt":"2020-12-09T20:58:32.932Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2vtI05eFyRNuMAfMKeIcT8/9c828f199ec0faa8cdf9f28e1c95d4e9/inline_unsplash__11_.jpg","altText":"Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas for Husband"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Your wedding anniversary is coming up, and you want to get your husband something he will love. While certain gifts are timeless, such as a watch or a tie, we know that it can be hard to find the right gift year after year. Fortunately, there are many gifts your husband will appreciate as a celebration of your wedding anniversary, and the [Zola](https://www.zola.com/) team is here to help. Here are some great wedding anniversary gift ideas for your husband. \n\n### Framed Photograph \nA particularly romantic, thoughtful gift would be a framed photograph of the two of you. This can be a large photograph to hang in your home or a smaller one he can display at the office or on a home desk. \n\n### Inscribed Book \nFor the literary husband, the perfect gift could be a novel, book of poetry, biography, or dramatic coffee table book inscribed with a note detailing why you think he would love the book. You can also highlight a particular poem, passage, or photograph within the book that made you think of him. The more you can personalize the gift, the more it will demonstrate how well you know him. \n\nFor this personalized gift, just be sure to choose a book that matches his interests. Now is not the time to choose a book that you love and hope he enjoys. \n\n### Bottle of Spirits\nFor the right husband, few gifts will beat a choice bottle of one of his favorite drinks. Whether he’s a whiskey, scotch, or a unique liqueur kind of guy, look for a bottle you know he would enjoy, but might not buy for himself. Feel free to browse his liquor cabinet or, a month or so in advance, ask him directly what bottles of alcohol he would be most excited to buy. As a bonus, this anniversary present is one that will be enjoyed over the course of many months, serving as an ongoing reminder of your celebration. \n\n![Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas for Husband](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/lWJVYCwgLXePLhpQ6QFX0/ca04d92e0fb605ed044d50d70f424acd/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Lessons Package \nIf you’re looking for a big deal anniversary present, perhaps for a milestone like the 25th anniversary, then consider a package of lessons for a skill your husband has expressed an interest in learning. This might mean tennis lessons, scuba diving lessons (if applicable to your area), sculpture classes, or even yoga or strength training. Whatever his passion, a package of lessons is a thoughtful gift that keeps on giving, and a fantastic way to demonstrate your support. \n\n### Travel Accessories\nFor your wedding anniversary gift, consider a gift for your husband that will upgrade his travel game. This could mean a new suitcase, an elegant travel bag with a slew of accessories (such as a scale for his luggage and a luxe eye mask), or even a personalized leather dopp kit embroidered with his initials. Just remember: For this gift, it’s best to think practically. A beautiful duffel bag without wheels might have that perfect vintage look you crave, but will probably gert limited use when compared to his compact, wheeled carry-on. \n\n### Equipment for Hobbies\nWhether it’s a chess set, a beer brewing kit, or a starter home garden, consider a wedding anniversary present that will support your husband in his hobbies. For a gift that really shines, pay attention to any new hobbies. Once you’re sure these are sustained interests, not a passing whim, get him the right gift to start his new passion. Think creatively: A new camera lens for his camera or upgraded sports equipment, for example, are likely to show how much you care about his interests. The key to selecting a meaningful gift is choosing one he will use and cherish, so try to really listen to how he talks about his hobbies and interests. \n\n### Framed Map \nA unique gift can be a framed map of a place to which your husband has a special connection. This could be the subway map of a city where he once lived, a medieval city map of one of his favorite travel destinations, or an artistically drawn map of his favorite country. If your husband really loves his hometown or has always loved ancient ruins, for example, a framed map of the area would be a unique and loving gift idea. \n\n### Flowers\nFor any wedding anniversary present, the gift of beautiful flowers is always a winner. For something that really shines, think out of the box, and don’t be afraid to choose arrangements with striking designs and off-beat colors. For example, you might consider black and white colors, dramatic designs with varied heights, or eye-catching flowers like birds of paradise or tiger lillies. Flowers are ultimately a gift of beauty, and this would be a lovely wedding anniversary gift for your husband. \n\nFinding the perfect wedding anniversary gift for your husband isn’t an easy task, but if you check out the Zola-approved suggestions above, you’ll find yourself with just the right gift idea. And if you’re searching for someone else, we’ve got you covered with plenty of ideas for [wedding anniversary gifts for your wife](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas) or [wedding anniversary gifts for parents](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas), too.","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Check out our latest blog for fun and creative 20th-anniversary ideas! 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","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T21:35:42.612Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44xqsjrS9WDU3wnTp475xF/06153ab78d0d9f3131e8cbc547c9628d/Inline_unsplash__11_.png","altText":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"How does one celebrate 20 grand years of marriage? Seems like a distant feat when you first wed, but then it comes along and you wonder where the years went. Your 20th wedding anniversary is the time to celebrate all the love and dedication to each other that has seen you both through the ebbs and flows of life together. \n\nTraditionally this anniversary is symbolized by gifts of porcelain or china, which signifies beauty and strength, but the modern marker for two decades of marriage is platinum—equally elegant and enduring. The associated colors for the occasion are emerald green and white, making the recommended gemstone—what else?—an emerald. \n\nThere are so many great ideas for presents and experiences related to these themes, so let’s take a look at a few 20th wedding anniversary ideas to make this a memorable moment. \n\n### Keep It Traditional\n\nGo totally traditional with a themed tea set for those late afternoon teas you’ll both enjoy in each other’s company or even a full-fledged dinner set for formal family dinners and other grand parties at home. \n\nSpeaking of home, china vases and picture frames, antique porcelain gift boxes, or sculptures and figurines to commemorate the occasion are all great 20th anniversary ideas. \n\nThat romantic picnic basket with all porcelain dinnerware for two is a great gift for the couple who already has everything for the home. \n\nIf you have a Chinatown neighborhood in your city, then the occasion calls for a date night out revisiting cherished spots you’ve been frequenting as a couple or new ones on your list you’ve always been planning to explore. \n\nOf course, if travel is on your mind, then that trip to China might be the perfect grand gift to celebrate your 20th anniversary. Use a china doll holding the tickets to announce the surprise getaway or some of the surprise experiences you’ve booked for your getaway. \n\n![20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2sLrSZn8iq9qVZSnNoFnm6/8ec12ad2095cbf3d2e67cf811e17375e/Inline_unsplash__10_.png)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Go Modern\n\nPlatinum jewelry is a subtle and sophisticated style alternative to other metal jewelry, so a sleek custom piece from a celebrated local designer will please your spouse. \n\nFor music lovers, an album from the year you were married or when your kids were born is a coveted gift that your special someone will absolutely adore. Other options include music from a favorite artist, orchestra, or a special performance that holds fond memories for them. \n\nIf your spouse has an affinity for a certain brand, get them to platinum status with that company’s loyalty program or credit card. Every time they’re able to use the perks and benefits, they’ll remember your thoughtfulness for their preferences. \n\nPlatinum watches from a brand known for its luxury watchmaking is a great addition to your wardrobe and a statement piece to wear to events. Plus, it’s a 20-year anniversary idea that your husband or wife will always remember. If you’ve been eyeing one that’s tailor-made for couples, then your 20th wedding anniversary presents a timely reason to invest in one.\n\nPlatinum accessories and decor, especially arranged as a surprise in personal spaces such as the family room, bedroom, otr private study area, are grand ways to show your significant other you’ve indulged in some thought in choosing their presents for the day. \n\n### Bring It Together With Green and White\n\nIf you’re celebrating with friends and family, emerald green and white table and home decorations make a lovely combination for party decor. Carry it through with balloons and streamers, and also for the special celebration cake. \n\nPack an at-home spa retreat gift basket filled with self-care products like bath bombs, comfort food, fragrant candles, and even a special cocktail kit for an anniversary celebration. \n\nOr, you could head out for a spa getaway to a destination with emerald in the name, such as Emerald Lakes in California, the Emerald Coast of Florida, or Emerald Isle in North Carolina. \n\nFor tech enthusiasts, accessories, whether wireless speakers or watch straps, in these colors make for an outstanding—and very useful—gift. \n\nHead down memory lane with a hardcover photo album or memory book in emerald green with white inserts filled with photos, show tickets, and other little events in your life you’re nostalgic for. Remember to leave plenty of space for the future you will spend together as a married couple. \n\nNo matter the manner you choose to mark your 20th wedding anniversary, it is a precious moment to behold as you plan for the next 20 years ahead. Make it a memorable one.","tag":"Inspiration","nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Looking to get your guests laughing at your wedding renewal? 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","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T18:35:30.762Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4PZSW1hObQ6TnM557egpbG/3ee842eade872a59be2ffc64a370f857/inline_unsplash__19___1_.jpg","altText":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"When it comes to simple vow renewal ideas, few couples know where to start. There are endless resources out there for those planning their wedding, but vow renewals haven’t yet received the same level of recognition.\n\nNo matter the location, reason for celebrating, or size of the soiree, there are many ways you can acknowledge this monumental moment in your marriage without being overly intricate. Below, find nine simple vow renewal ideas or jump straight to the section you’re most inspired by:\n\n1. [Have a Ceremony at Home](#have-a-ceremony-at-home)\n2. [Reread Your Original Vows](#reread-your-original-vows)\n3. [Celebrate With Your Children](#celebrate-with-your-children)\n4. [Have a Potluck](#have-a-potluck)\n5. [Go Simple With Attire](#go-simple-with-attire)\n6. [Rededicate Your Rings](#rededicate-your-rings)\n7. [Pick a Place With Meaning to Both of You](#pick-a-place-with-meaning-to-both-of-you)\n8. [Choose Your Invited Wisely](#choose-your-invited-wisely)\n9. [Do a Destination Vow Renewal](#do-a-destination-vow-renewal)\n\n## 9 Simple Vow Renewal Ideas\nHere is a list of simple, but special vow renewal ideas you can incorporate into your ceremony. \n\n### 1. Have a Ceremony at Home
\nOne of the simplest ways to celebrate your renewed love for one another is by holding a ceremony at home (also occasionally called an “at-home elopement”). Not only is it an intimate place to celebrate with your closest friends and family, but it’s also a great way to acknowledge the life you’ve built together as a couple. If you’ve got room for all your loved ones and a bit of green space for the vows ceremony, your home might be the perfect venue.\n\n### 2. Reread Your Original Vows
\nDon’t think that rereading your old [wedding vows]( https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-vows) is simply a way of avoiding writing new ones. Vows—like marriage—are meant to be a lifelong effort and commitment. By rereading your vows, you’re sending the message that you’re willing to make the same promises you made years ago, even if circumstances have changed. Is there anything more romantic than that? It also creates an inevitably sweet, sentimental moment that might trigger some tears.\n\n### 3. Celebrate With Your Children
\nIf the years between your wedding and vow renewal resulted in some little ones, then go ahead and find ways to include them in the big day. Maybe you mention them in the ceremony reading or let them serve as “hosts” for the event. You can even let one of your children perform as a makeshift officiant for an additional dose of charm. There are no rules, so have fun with it. \n\n### 4. Have a Potluck
\nIf you had an expensive wedding, no need to host a pricey vow renewal ceremony. Simply ask your friends and family to bring a favorite dish of theirs, and you can supply the beverages or desserts. This works especially well for at-home ceremonies and those in public spaces, like national parks or beaches. It might take a little bit of coordinating to make sure there’s something for everyone to eat, but it works for more casual celebrations and lets your guests feel like they contributed in some way.\n\n### 5. Go Simple With Attire
\nNo need to buy an extravagant gown or three-piece suit the second time around. Brides shouldn’t even feel the need to wear white if it doesn’t fit their style. Just go for something simple and elegant that works with your personalities, as well as the space you’re celebrating in. If you’re looking for something more formal, consider taking your wedding-day attire for a spin. Not only does it save some money, but it’s also a great way to honor your original wedding day.\n\n![Simple Vow Renewal Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1OHGj4DSxLbi6o3uxoEmYs/561bae65b5648a7440e9dc87e60dbaa2/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### 6. Rededicate Your Rings
\nThough ring exchanges aren’t required for a vow renewal ceremony, many couples choose to do something special with them to symbolize the next phase of their lives together. This can mean anything from having them blessed to getting them engraved with a sweet phrase or your vow renewal date. If you want to go all out, you can even purchase new rings to commemorate the occasion. (After all, if you’ve been married for a decade or more, it’s likely your tastes have changed.)\n\n### 7. Pick a Place With Meaning to Both of You
\n![Simple Vow Renewal Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2t1VuCDK7Rsi7OlBWnqb2Z/807a6dda70892cb51175425500b2281a/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\nThough couples are getting more and more creative with [wedding venues](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-venues), there are even fewer expectations when it comes to vow renewals. Maybe the restaurant where you got engaged has a great event space or your favorite coffee shop has an amazing underground roastery with lots of space. If you want to take a walk down memory lane, you could even choose to renew your vows at the original venue where you got married.\n\n### 8. Choose Your Invited Wisely
\nAs beautiful as print invitations are, they may not be right for a casual occasion. Consider opting for electronic invitations or even a simple email announcement that directs recipients toward a vow renewal website. You’re not only reducing the risk of invitations getting lost in the mail, but you’re also simultaneously keeping costs down. \n\nWith the abundance of options available these days it’s easy to make your digital invites feel both polished and personal. If you plan on going all out for your wedding renewal, choose [wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop) that are fit for the occasion. Remember,it’s up to the two of you as a couple to decide how you’ll want to celebrate this special day. \n\n### 9. Do a Destination Vow Renewal
\nAlways secretly dreamt of eloping despite having a large, traditional wedding? In that case, a destination vow renewal is a no-brainer. This could be anything from hosting an intimate ceremony on a beach in Tulum, Mexico to eloping on a sailboat in the South Pacific. Just note that if you’re planning a vow renewal in the near future, we highly suggest staying up-to-date on travel restrictions and observing the recommendations made by both the World Health Organization (WHO) and Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).\n\nNow that you know our top ideas for renewing marriage vows, it’s time to choose the perfect event for your special day. As long as love is the center of the event, we are sure you’ll have a beautiful and memorable vow renewal ceremony.\n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Don’t know how to decorate a space for a vow renewal? Our experts at Zola can help! Read on to discover more. 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Discover our top suggestions for funny renewal wedding vows here.","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T19:00:39.172Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/14SsQ3X0p4jSgW70Ku7hSo/0059254211a299da64d6c8c31ad123ed/inline_unsplash__21___1_.jpg","altText":"Funny Renewal Wedding Vows"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Vows are one of the original (and most meaningful) ways to highlight what you value most in your relationship. For many, having a husband or wife with a sense of humor is one of the secrets to an everlasting union. So why not embrace that the second time around at your wedding vow renewal ceremony?\n\nWhether you’re a comedian at heart or simply looking to entertain your guests, writing funny renewal wedding vows is a great way to commemorate your marriage thus far. Below are a few tips to help you embrace your lighthearted side and generate some laughs along the way at your vow renewal ceremony.\n\n### Pull Ideas From Your Original Wedding Vows\nWhether it’s a promise that one of you took a little too seriously (“cleaning more doesn’t mean vacuuming in the middle of the night”) or one that took on a whole new meaning (“who knew finding more shared hobbies would lead to entering an underwater hockey tournament?”), your original wedding vows are a great place to look for inspiration. This is especially effective if most of your guests are people who attended your wedding and heard your original wedding vows.\n\n### Reflect on Old Memories (Including the Wedding Day) \nFunny stories from when you first started dating your husband or wife always make great stories, because they’re full of humor and authenticity. The same goes for your wedding day. Chances are not everything went exactly as planned, so cracking jokes about what went wrong is a great way to lighten the mood and demonstrate that what you value most is the relationship itself.\n\n### Make Sure You’re on the Same Page as Your Partner\n\n![Funny Renewal Wedding Vows](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/63t5ZeVyOxxUQ24xMYA8E6/a7463efe34cac2f66861878708474639/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\nFunny vows are great, but if your partner is taking a more serious route, the unexpected humor can be a bit jarring at your renewal ceremony. If your partner is more of the sentimental or romantic type, make sure you let them know what route you’re going to take in advance of your vow renewal. If you’re both wannabe comedians and goofiness is your fallback, then you’re probably already on the right track. Just remember that your vows set the tone for the rest of the day, so you want them to feel authentic to you as a couple.\n\n### Mention Mistakes (and Make It Witty)\nWe’ve all failed in our relationships in one way or another. If addressed as a problem, it can be sad or frustrating, but if told in the form of a humorous recollection, it comes off more relatable. Maybe your initiative to cook more led to an adventure with the local fire station. Or, maybe your partner’s attempt to plan a surprise date failed when you wound up at the wrong restaurant. Even moments that may not have seemed funny at the time make some of the best memories and hilarious stories to share with your loved ones.\n\n### Be Self-Deprecating \nIf it’s in your repertoire, don’t be afraid to make fun of yourself. For example, maybe you vowed to make an effort to plan more vacations and your first attempt was a weekend camping trip that ended in disaster. It’s often easy to find lighthearted ways to pick on your partner, but highlighting your own mistakes is a great way to balance the humor and remind your SO that you know you’re not perfect either.\n\n### Include Something Serious or Sentimental \n\n![Funny Renewal Wedding Vows](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3G4JV49sJwIHyUHfrEtzFc/69d62539f97e40ae849ca3435b362939/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\nThough it doesn’t need to be the primary focus, it’s always nice to circle back to why you’re both standing there and how far you’ve come from your initial wedding day. Maybe your partner’s lighthearted (and sometimes childish) nature is what you love most about them. Or, maybe you acknowledge that humor is one of the greatest bonds the two of you have. No matter the focus, a brief moment of sincerity can go a long way.\n\n### Remember: There Aren’t Any Rules.\nJust like with your original [wedding vows](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-vows) (and [wedding planning](https://www.zola.com/) in general), there really are no rules. If you want to write a funny interpretation of a Shakespeare sonnet or create your own poem, go right ahead. If you’d prefer to keep things sentimental with a touch of humor here and there, that works too. If you do what feels right to you, your partner is sure to appreciate the thought behind it.\n\n### Sample Wording to Consider for Your Funny Vows:\n\n“*Ten years ago, I vowed to help you cook more dinners. That might have led to a lot of burnt pizza and the incessant sound of fire alarms, but here we are… and I’m still trying*.”\n\n“*To this day, our wedding remains one of the greatest days of my life. It was also the day I learned that seagulls like steak tartare as much as I do*.”\n\n“*After all these years, I’m so happy that we can still make each other laugh. Your humor has always been one of the greatest lights in my life and can make even the darkest days a little brighter*.”\n\n“*I vow to continue to plan more dates and fail miserably. To continue to pick up your dirty socks and not get upset when you vacuum between my toes while I’m trying to read.*”\n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Don’t know how to decorate a space for a vow renewal? Our experts at Zola can help! Read on to discover more. 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","author":"Ruksana Hussain","publishedAt":"2020-12-09T21:22:08.700Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6vSzCeo9SQR2HAhbB4gSPZ/9cc4155cea4fb39521ed4ae7ffe6ca20/inline_unsplash__14_.jpg","altText":"5 Year Anniversary Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Congratulations on making it to the five-year mark and the first of the milestone anniversaries you’ll celebrate in a big way. The traditional gift for the five-year wedding anniversary is wood, symbolizing your enduring relationship as a couple. The modern version includes flatware as an ideal gift for the home. And, if you’d like to go the floral route, then daisies are the recommended choice. Anything in a sapphire blue hue is also perfect for the momentous occasion. Below, our top five year anniversary ideas, so you can find the perfect gift for your special someone.\n\n### Begin With Blue\n\n![5 Year Anniversary Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6J3wcC4wDJBuUpHbIEGgQe/29ffd43266d33795f8bced32adfcf138/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\nFor the five-year anniversary, any jewelry featuring a priceless sapphire is a lovely gift to give. Make it even more special with a coordinated set or a special message etched on the back or on the inside.\n\nOther precious blue stones in sapphire tones include topaz, turquoise, and tanzanite. A statement pendant, ring, or bracelet starring these gems can also turn into family heirlooms to pass on with love to the next generation. \n\nWhether blue skies or blue seas, pick a spot and make a dash for it. A weekend getaway, especially a surprise event, is a fun way to commemorate the special day with loved ones. Make it memorable with the original bridal party sharing in the activities. \n\nA celebratory wreath with dark blue blooms, blue jade ornaments for festivals your family celebrates, or meditation stones placed around the home spreads the loving sentiment of comfort and belonging within your personal space. \n\n### About That Flatware\n\nOne of the most popular fifth anniversary ideas out there is flatware. Dinnertime together is a special moment shared every day, so why not choose themed flatware to adorn your table in celebration of your five-year wedding anniversary? Shop from a local designer you’ve been following or some custom designed offerings from local boutique stores. This gift idea is both practical and memorable, serving as the perfect token to celebrate the married couple.\n\nGo fancy with silver, gold, rose gold, or other metallic hues that will accentuate your existing dinnerware collections. For the hosts with the most fun parties, a cheese knife set truly stands out and is a great conversation starter at every celebration you throw from here on out. \n\nIf flatware doesn’t make the cut, then put a spin on it with a new set of bar tools to cherish signature cocktails with friends and loved ones when entertaining at home. Add a few recipes or even a subscription to a cocktail club to up the fun a notch.\n\n### Wood is Good\n\nIf you’re looking to give a traditional wood anniversary gift, there are many different directions you can go in. A wooden frame holding a special piece of artwork or one you created just for your spouse, a prized moment from your wedding day, or the lyrics of the first song you danced to as a couple is a great memento to add to the family frames in your home.\n\nOenophiles will enjoy the utility value of a well-crafted wooden wine serving tray to hold wine glasses, as well as some cheese, fruit, chocolate or other bites to indulge in during those cozy evening happy hours together. \n\nAlso, consider board games. Invest in wooden versions of much-loved games to play together with friends and family. So many fun moments are in store around this signature piece from your five-year anniversary celebration.\n\nFinally, mark the day with a barrel of wine. Support your favorite winemaker by purchasing a barrel of a varietal you both enjoy. Have bottles shipped or enjoy onsite when you visit the winery next for a sip of the special libation. \n\n### Daisies Speak Love\n\n![5 Year Anniversary Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4evEsmVsPiTfzvF6Y7kmqB/22f168b422daf716cc4e3359ea492b95/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\nA simple, yet gorgeous five-year wedding anniversary idea is a bouquet of beautiful blooms, and there’s nothing like a beautiful focal vase with a brilliant bouquet of daisies to announce the day. Get a little extra with multiple vases in different rooms as a surprise. If you have a backyard or even a small garden, then growing daisies in your personal space is a beautiful reminder of the day.\n\nDaisy print linen sheets in high-quality thread counts for your master bedroom is one five-year wedding anniversary gift you will both take comfort in over the years. Or extend the theme to other parts of your home with daisy patterned tablecloths, bath towels, and garden chair cushions.\n\nScented candles and perfumed oils are great stress busters, so add that daisy aroma to the list and revel in the calming effects of it all around your home. Many perfume brands include daisies in their fragrances. Choose one to match your spouse’s taste and preference. \n\nFor the health conscious, wild daisy tea from your local tea connoisseurs, complete with a themed gift basket is a symbolic way to show you care. Add a book, a daisy fragrance pillow, and some daisy-inspired confections to pair it with. \n\nHow you choose to symbolize your five-year wedding anniversary with your significant other or family and friends is a moment you will want to remember at other milestone anniversaries in the future. 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Find out everything you need to know with this complete guide.","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-21T22:10:53.445Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6inRTzKCfgUhXV3m23aKTp/f80a663cb4c1add3b2002e193a32a101/Inline_Nathalia_Frykman_Photography.png","altText":"Surprise Vow Renewal"},"heroCredit":"Nathalia Frykman Photography","body":"If you’re the spontaneous type, there is no better way to surprise your partner (or favorite couple) than with a vow renewal ceremony. Whether a big anniversary is coming up or you’ve overcome some recent hurdles in your relationship that you think are deserving of special recognition, vow renewals are an extremely memorable and romantic way to acknowledge how much you’ve grown as a couple.\n\nPlanning any surprise event comes with its own set of challenges, particularly when it comes to logistics (and keeping things a secret). Below, we’ve outlined some of our most prized pieces of advice to make sure that everything goes as smoothly as possible when planning a surprise vow renewal.\n\n## Set the Date Right Away for Your Surprise Vow Renewal\n![Zola - How to Have a Surprise Vow Renewal](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/23yDpj6joGDJjL1IYQaEse/100a76128d5f1190abb22437fd84ec6b/Inline_Zola.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Zola\n\nJust as with weddings, nothing else can be done (or booked) until you have a date set. If you’re planning the surprise for your partner, it should be fairly easy to find a date that works for you both. However, if you’re surprising a couple, you might have to ask some creative questions to get them to spill their availability without giving anything away when planning a wedding vow renewal. One of the easiest ways is to plan a pretend get-together with the couple, or gift them with fake reservations at their favorite restaurant where a car will pick them up instead. Just make sure that you have a backup plan in case they try to cancel or change things up.\n\n## Nail Down the Details ASAP (Starting With the Venue)\nNo matter who you’re planning for, you’re going to want to have a vision early on. Are you picturing an intimate ceremony at the couple’s home for a [simple wedding vow renewal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/simple-vow-renewal-ideas)? Or an epic, elopement-style shoot with just you and your partner? Vendors such as venues and photographers are often booked the furthest out, so make sure that you hammer out what’s most important for your wedding vow renewal as soon as you can.\n\n## Teamwork Makes the Dream Work\n\nLogistics, backup plans, and day-of coordination all become a lot easier when you’ve got someone else helping you out. Whether you’re planning for a couple or your partner, consider enrolling the help of a sibling or parent whom you know would enjoy being involved. A little bit of help will give you the opportunity to embrace what you’re good at and delegate the rest. If you’re not a killer planner, find a close friend who is. If creating a [wedding budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-set-your-wedding-budget) is not your thing, maybe reach out to your partner’s accountant cousin for assistance. The more the merrier, as long as they can keep a secret and not ruin the wedding vow renewal ceremony.\n\n## Be Thoughtful About Who You Invite\nIf it’s your ceremony, this shouldn’t be too difficult, but if you’re planning for a couple, creating the guest list might be one of the most stressful parts. One of the primary reasons to enlist the help of a close friend or relative is to help figure out who should be invited. Just remember that keeping the guest list to a minimum will not only reduce stress for you as the planner, but will also reduce the chances of a few people feeling left out. Also, the more people who know, the higher the chance of someone slipping up before the big day—so, make sure that it stays a big surprise.\n\n## Communicate With Guests As Early As Possible\nNo matter how many guests are invited, it’s best to keep them up to speed as soon as you’ve set a date, so that they can plan ahead. Whether you choose to communicate with the guests via regular print [wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop) or email, make sure that the “surprise” aspect is up front and obvious. Nothing is worse than spending hours planning something only for it to be ruined by a minor miscommunication.\n\n## Prioritize Logistics\nWhat happens when you’ve planned a beautiful event and realize at the last minute that the couple doesn’t have something to wear? Or you overlooked the transportation aspect and have to organize something at the last second? It’s easy to get so caught up in the fun parts of the planning process that you forget some of the most important details. This is where you could definitely use the help of some relatives or family friends. Just don’t worry about decor or the wine selection until you have all the logistics figured out.\n\n![Zola - How to Have a Surprise Vow Renewal](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6inRTzKCfgUhXV3m23aKTp/f80a663cb4c1add3b2002e193a32a101/Inline_Nathalia_Frykman_Photography.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Nathalia Frykman Photography\n\n## Be Flexible\nWith special events—big or small—something is bound to go wrong, and the chances of hitting a few bumps in the road are only amplified when planning a big surprise gathering. If you’re a perfectionist, make sure that you figure out the priorities early on and spend your energy making sure that the most important aspects are ironed out. It’s much easier to come up with a solution if you’re simply short a couple of chairs or table settings than it is to deal with a missing caterer (or worse, a missing couple). Hope for the best, plan for the worst, and recognize that the actual day will probably fall somewhere in the middle.\n\n## Make Sure You Have the Wedding Vows\nSince it’s a surprise, there’s no rewriting, so you have to make sure that you have the original vows on hand. Make sure that you’re able to track them down (or at least come up with a backup plan) before you start booking locations and vendors such as the [wedding venue and photographer](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-venues). If the vows are nowhere to be found, be sure to check old photos and videos from the wedding day. Vows are generally heavily documented, so don’t be afraid to reach out to family and friends for help tracking them down.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Looking to plan a vow renewal on a budget? Find out how with this helpful guide. ","title":"How to Do a Vow Renewal on a Budget","slug":"how-to-do-a-vow-renewal-on-a-budget","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/71YdJTv52AEpRdgm5Ayc3j/11d15cb790fc12bad52d3029c43486b8/Inline_Samantha_Rice_Photography.png","altText":"Vow Renewal on a Budget"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Feeling stuck when it comes to how to write your renewal vows? We can help. 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","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-21T22:08:22.188Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/71YdJTv52AEpRdgm5Ayc3j/11d15cb790fc12bad52d3029c43486b8/Inline_Samantha_Rice_Photography.png","altText":"Vow Renewal on a Budget"},"heroCredit":"Samantha Rice Photography","body":"When it comes to holding a budget vow renewal, many of the same tips and tricks apply that would with a wedding. Narrowing down your guest list, cutting back on [wedding stationery](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/paper), and tackling some small DIY projects are often the most common pieces of advice. However, vow renewals come with a very different set of expectations than weddings, so there’s a lot of room for creativity.\n\nIf you’ve got a vision for a beautiful event, but are struggling to find ways to cut costs, below are some of our top pieces of advice on how to plan a vow renewal on a budget.\n\n## Don’t Treat It like a Second Wedding\n![Zola - How to Have a Budget Vow Renewal](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4XtYMtRZJFoHGVxdAqWQSu/3c7531f540c32c64fad53539e324f507/Inline_Laura_Hollander_Photography__1_.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Laura Hollander Photography\n\nFor one primary reason: it isn’t one. This doesn’t mean that it’s any less special or less memorable–it simply means that it’s an entirely different celebration and should be treated as such. The word “wedding” is immediately associated with higher costs, so be clear about the purpose of your celebration from the get-go. There’s also less expectation surrounding wedding vow renewals, which gives you the opportunity to really do it your way–including keeping it cost-friendly.\n\nWhen planning a renewal ceremony, keep in the back of your mind what would make the day most special to you and your partner. If you want to spend the money to hold the ceremony at a distillery, but DIY everything else, then go for it. Embrace the sense of freedom that you might not have experienced the first time around.\n\n## Source Locally\nThis is one of the easiest ways to save money. Not only are local vendors more sustainable, but they’re also less likely to charge you an arm and a leg for details such as delivery fees when putting together a vow renewal celebration. If you look for florists and rental companies that are hyperlocal, chances are that they’re not only going to be less expensive, but they’re going to be more flexible than those located elsewhere.\n\nHowever, keep in mind that the more remote your [wedding venue](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-venues), the more money you’re likely to spend on vendors. If you’re planning an island vow renewal, for example, delivery costs are likely to be high, and local vendors might hike their prices if they’re the only option on the island. If you live in a tiny town or don’t have a lot of vendors and creatives in your area, Etsy is a great alternative for sourcing things such as [wedding decor](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/decorations) and accessories, while allowing you to still support small businesses.\n\n## Make It a Potluck\nThe argument against potlucks for weddings may still exist, but this isn’t a wedding, is it? If you’d prefer to get a food truck or do something a little bit more traditional, that’s always an option. But, inviting your guests to bring their favorite dish and indulge potluck-style is one of the easiest ways to bring costs down. Just make sure that you’re clear with everyone about expectations and have a system or spreadsheet to track what everyone is planning to bring. This is also something that you can assign out to a friend and/or family member to take care of so that you can keep stress levels low.\n\n## Keep It Intimate\nAs one of the most common recommendations in the book, there is nothing more cost-friendly than choosing an intimate affair over a massive celebration. Aside from the obvious savings, there are additional benefits to keeping your numbers down, including the natural rise in the cost per-person. Even on a budget, a smaller party means that you’re able to spend more money on each attendee, and it allows for some creative ideas, including fun favors and more elaborate place settings for your vow renewal celebration.\n\n## Host It at Home\nThere is unlikely to be a venue that is as budget-friendly as your own home (and no better way to commemorate the life that you’ve built together as a married couple). Just make sure that you’re realistic about the attendee capacity and the amount of work that it would require. If your house doesn’t have a backyard, or is too quaint for the event size that you’re imagining, then take the party to a public park. Whatever you choose to do, just make sure that you’re adhering to COVID-19 social distancing guidelines in your area and plan accordingly.\n\n## Avoid Rentals Altogether\nIf you’re planning a hefty-sized get-together, this can be a tough one, but for those organizing more intimate gatherings, avoiding rentals isn’t totally out of the question. If you’re hosting the vow renewal at home, the many pieces of furniture and décor that you have sitting around the house can be great alternatives to rentals. Mirrors, rugs, ottomans, candlesticks, and glassware are all common pieces that are easy to repurpose. Just ask your guests to each bring a lawn chair and you’ve got your bases covered.\n\n## Consider DIYing Some Elements\n![Zola - How to Have a Budget Vow Renewal](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/71YdJTv52AEpRdgm5Ayc3j/11d15cb790fc12bad52d3029c43486b8/Inline_Samantha_Rice_Photography.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Samantha Rice Photography\n\nInvitations, florals, and décor alone can easily cost a couple thousand dollars. Make sure that you prioritize what’s most important for you to have done professionally and what might be a fun project leading up to the big day. This also goes for your loved ones who you know are willing to lend a hand. If you’ve got a friend with a talent for creating bouquets, or a relative who’s adopted calligraphy as their quarantine hobby, don’t be afraid to ask them for help.\n\n## Purchase, Instead of Rent\nDespite the obvious, it can actually be much cheaper to purchase items such as table linens and table décor instead of renting them for your vow renewal celebration. Just make sure that you’re actually going to use them again or have somewhere to re-sell them so that they don’t go to waste. Décor items such as rugs, candlesticks, and runners are all popular picks to reuse down the road. You can even repurpose décor and florals as gifts to your attendees or loved ones who helped you coordinate the big day.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Feeling stuck when it comes to how to write your renewal vows? We can help. 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Check out our top 65th wedding anniversary ideas today.","author":"Shira Telushkin","publishedAt":"2020-10-20T19:16:31.628Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4c2cn6gb91F9jCRC05CMmB/e813bae0dc9d7376826f888f2e7151cf/hero_unsplash.jpg","altText":"65th Wedding Anniversary Ideas elderly couple"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"After 65 years together, there’s a lot to celebrate. The 65th wedding anniversary has come to be associated with sapphires, which symbolize loyalty, wisdom, and inner peace. This anniversary is often an intimate celebration, focusing on the devotion of the couple to one another, and marked with close family and friends. \n\nWhether you’re looking to celebrate your own 65th wedding anniversary or the 65th wedding anniversary of parents, grandparents, or friends, there are many wonderful ways to mark this occasion. Read on to discover our top 65th wedding anniversary ideas from the Zola team.\n\n## Gifts\n\n__Sapphire --__ Jewelry gifts are classic and thoughtful at any anniversary, but for the 65th wedding anniversary, sapphire—which is a beautiful, deep blue gemstone—is especially meaningful. Gifts for women may include rings, bracelets, necklaces, and earrings, while men may appreciate cufflinks, tie pins, or pendants. For couples where both partners wear rings, matching sapphire rings can be an especially dazzling option. \n\n__Flowers --__ For the 65th anniversary, one option is to send an arrangement of blue flowers, such as hydrangeas, forget-me-nots, or anything accented with delphiniums. Blue flowers are very striking, and the color evokes the loyalty and peacefulness associated with the milestone. Your local florist can also suggest blue flowers that are in season. \n\n__Matching Tattoos --__ This might seem unorthodox, but some couples celebrating their 65th wedding anniversary like to get matching tattoos to mark the occasion. Even couples that might have frowned on tattoos in their earlier years of marriage sometimes suddenly find themselves amenable to the idea. The tattoos can be meaningful, incorporate quotes or images, or just be a simple set of puzzle pieces that fit together. People of all ages can get tattoos, and tattoo artists will suggest which parts of the body are most suited to older skin. These are often small, discrete gestures of permanence to match the permanence of 65 years together. \n\n__Collect a Book of Letters --__ When celebrating the 65th anniversary of a happy couple, another way to mark the occasion is by collecting a book of letters from their families and friends celebrating their marriage. \n\n![65th Wedding Anniversary Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NNIRZ0BqcGlAAtIdmlOXK/bf2f4bdefbe2d140fd92859b135173cd/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n## Experiences \n\n__Organize a Family Game of Questions --__ For families celebrating the 65th anniversary of a couple, one party game can be to collect 65 questions about the couple’s life together. Have relatives write down questions, such as “How did you two meet?” or “Who said ‘I love you’ first?” and then put all the questions in a large bowl. The questions should be in good fun, and should ask about joyful moments in the couples’ history. Throughout the night, members can pick out questions at random to ask the couple, and learn more about their own family history. \n\n__Plan a Trip to a Location With a Special History --__ The 65th wedding anniversary is about indulging in meaningful memories! Couples can head to a spot that holds special meaning for them. This can be the first town where they lived after their wedding, the area where one of them grew up, or even a local park where they had a memorable date. For couples less up for traveling, they can go through pictures of this special place. \n\n__Create a Photo Album or Scrapbook --__ Create a photo album that has a photograph from every year of the marriage, or a scrapbook with a spread dedicated to each decade. This can include photographs, theatre tickets, newspapers clippings, invitations to other family celebrations, and other artifacts that make up the years of life. \n\n__Buy Tickets to a Show --__ Theatre, opera, music, dance, or any form of live entertainment is always a fun way to celebrate a major life event. Buy the best seats in the house, and be sure to clear the date with the couple in advance of buying any tickets. And, be mindful of comfort, show length, and acoustics to make sure that it’s an enjoyable experience for a couple celebrating their 65th wedding anniversary.\n\nNow that you’ve learned a number of unique 65th anniversary ideas, it’s time to choose the perfect one. Whether you go for a more traditional [anniversary gift for your loved one](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas) or you plan an anniversary party for all your friends and family, there are many ways to show your love. \n\n![65th Wedding Anniversary Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7mPkEOpWdRndzQ1wuTpMbj/76f35249510d64d7c403372e976a4c37/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n","tag":"Inspiration","updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:49:57.971Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"anniversary-quotes","title":"110 Happy Anniversary Quotes to Express Your Love","excerpt":"Want to wish someone a happy anniversary but unsure of how to put it into words? These anniversary quotes offer plenty of ideas to get you started. ","publishedAt":"2022-05-03T19:35:03.098Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/69O8ZbFrxXeFF4Adfgo1U5/cbc24c72a99f1b4d1938f93499d7530f/woman-giving-partner-anniversary-letter.jpg","altText":"woman giving partner anniversary letter"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/","heroCaption":"woman giving partner anniversary letter","body":"The wedding might be over, but anniversaries are a significant [milestone](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/diy-photo-booth) in a couple’s relationship that deserve to be celebrated. With all the ups and downs life can bring, reaching another year of marriage is no small feat, which makes sending anniversary wishes that much more special. \n\nTraditionally, there’s no [etiquette](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/guest-at-wedding) rule requiring you to send anniversary wishes to another couple. This doesn’t apply to your own relationship, though—spouses should definitely acknowledge the special day! That said, if you’re looking to wish someone a happy anniversary but are unsure of how to put your wishes into words, our anniversary quotes offer plenty of ideas to get you started. \n\nWhether you’re writing to your own partner or celebrating close friends or parents, we’ve included something for everyone. (You might also consider an [anniversary gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas) while you’re at it!)\n\n__Table of Contents__\n- What to Include in an Anniversary Message\n- Simple Happy Anniversary Quotes\n- Anniversary Quotes for Instagram Captions\n- Thoughtful Anniversary Quotes\n- Romantic Anniversary Quotes\n- Funny Anniversary Quotes\n- One-Year Anniversary Quotes\n- Anniversary Quotes for Friends\n- Anniversary Quotes for Parents\n\n\n## What to Include in an Anniversary Message\nIf you’re scratching your head for [what to write](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-write-in-a-wedding-card) in your anniversary message, don’t fear! Your message doesn’t have to be complicated. Here are some helpful places to get started when deciding on what to include in your anniversary message—you’ll find writing your heartfelt note isn’t so hard! \n\n- Make a toast\n- Share a memory\n- Offer words of encouragement\n- Celebrate the milestone \n- Call out the beauty of a lasting relationship \n- Reflect on your love for your partner \n\n![the-best-anniversary-quotes-qualities](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5SKxJMuHNoqTGXRscBsLZF/e474dd9224a0413817840a59a1a92cca/the-best-anniversary-quotes-qualities.png)\n\n## Simple Happy Anniversary Quotes \nYou can say a lot with not many words—a simple “Happy Anniversary” paired with one of the anniversary quotes below is all you need for a heartwarming message. Use the following quotes for inspiration if you’re celebrating your own anniversary, or skip below to find quotes for friends and loved ones. \n\n1. You make celebrating our love feel easy. Happy anniversary! \n2. Today, tomorrow, and always—our love never ends. Happy anniversary!\n3. Cheers to another year with my better half. \n4. Time truly flies when I’m with you. Happy anniversary! \n5. Cheers to another 365 days together and the many more to come!\n6. Life with you just makes sense—here’s to another year together. \n7. Thanks for being the best partner I could’ve asked for. Happy anniversary!\n8. Another year together and I’m still finding new things I love about you.\n9. Choosing you was the best decision I ever made. \n10. Loved you last year, loved you yesterday, love you still and always will. \n11. Our love story is my favorite. Happy anniversary to us! \n12. Happy anniversary to my person—how did I get so lucky? \n13. Today reminds me of why I fell in love with you, and my love has only grown. Happy anniversary today and always.\n14. I’m grateful for our love every day, but especially today. Happy anniversary!\n15. All of me loves all of you. Happy anniversary to my favorite person! \n\n## Anniversary Quotes for Instagram Captions\nYour anniversary is a significant milestone, so it makes sense you’d want to share a thoughtful post on social media commemorating the occasion. If you’re looking to celebrate your love on the ‘gram, use the list below to help you find the perfect caption. \n\n16. A year later and you still give me butterflies. #1yearanniversary\n17. 525,600 minutes as a married couple. #happyanniversary\n18. One year down, a lifetime to go. #happyweddinganniversary\n19. Ready for another trip around the sun? #1yearanniversary\n20. Life with you just keeps getting better—swipe for a surprise! #anniversarypresent\n21. 365 days of smiles, laughs, and reminders to take the trash out. #loveyouforever \n\n![anniversary-quote-shania-twain](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/8H8fPNI6Fj1IRYd3MDpO5/1262c47cb2f42910cd6ba0c87f12ce22/anniversary-quote-shania-twain.png)\n\n22. “You’re still the one I run to, the one that I belong to. You’re still the one I want for life.” —Shania Twain, “You’re Still the One”\n23. I said yes to a life with you. \n24. I can’t wait to grow old with you. \n25. “When I look at you, I can feel it. I look at you, and I’m home.” —Dory, “Finding Nemo”\n\n## Thoughtful Anniversary Quotes\nSometimes, sharing from the heart is tough. Use these quotes to help put your feelings into words. \n\n26. Life with you just keeps on getting better. \n27. You’ll never stop being my happy place. \n28. Sleeping by your side means endless sweet dreams. \n29. Yesterday,today and always, I still choose you! \n30. I am yours, and you are mine. \n31. Your love truly makes life sweeter. \n32. I can’t imagine a single day without you by my side. \n33. My heart still skips a beat when I look at you. \n34. Rain or shine, you’ll always be mine. \n35. The love I hold for you continues to grow, today and always. \n36. To the one who stole my heart, thank you for loving me so well. \n37. Our love is a rare gift that I’ll never let go of. \n38. The love we share is magnetic, and you make life pure magic. \n39. Cheers to another year with my best friend and better half.\n40. Saying yes to you was the smartest move I ever made. \n41. You’re more beautiful to me with each passing year, and this year is no exception.\n42. I’m convinced I won the lottery with you.\n43. I didn’t think I could love you more than I already do, but this special day has proved me wrong. \n44. In a sea of people, I have eyes only for you. \n45. Happy anniversary to a beautiful person who has given me the most beautiful life.\n46. Forever isn’t long enough with you. \n47. With you by my side, life could never get better. \n48. You’ve given me so many reasons to smile this past year, but my smile couldn’t be any bigger on this special day. \n49. Another year together and I still get butterflies when I look at you. \n50. You make my life better in every way. Thanks for choosing me today and every day. \n51. You’re the only one I want to wake up next to, day after day, year after year. \n52. Happy anniversary to my soulmate—how did I get so lucky? \n53. Today our relationship is one year older, and the depth of our love just keeps growing deeper. \n54. I thought I knew what true love was until I met you. \n55. My only regret is that I can’t go back in time so I could’ve met you sooner. Happy anniversary to my one true love. \n\n## Romantic Anniversary Quotes\nIf you consider yourself a hopeless romantic, these quotes are for you. \n\n56. Of all the love stories that exist, ours will always be my favorite.\n57. Words can’t express my unending love for you, especially on a day like today. \n58. “So how does it happen, great love? Nobody knows…but what I can tell you is that it happens in the blink of an eye. One moment you’re enjoying your life, and the next you’re wondering how you ever lived without them.” —Hitch, “Hitch”\n59. “I would rather share one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone.” —Arwen, “Lord of the Rings”\n60. “The best love is the kind that awakens the soul, that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds.” —Noah, “The Notebook”\n61. Happy anniversary to the only person in the world that I want beside me every day and every night for the rest of my life.\n62. “If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.” —A. A. Milne, “Winnie the Pooh”\n\n![anniversary-quote-winnie-the-pooh](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6plI9QETkNu0ijaR0ZSJyL/a43385dbb4ec192de9df0796843a6839/anniversary-quote-winnie-the-pooh.png)\n\n63. When a love is true, there is no ending. I hope we get to celebrate for many years to come. Happy anniversary!\n64. I believe everything happens for a reason because it led me to you. I love you, happy anniversary.\n65. From sending you good night texts to wishing you good morning, everything seems sweeter since I met you. Happy anniversary.\n\n## Funny Anniversary Quotes\nIf some light wit and humor is more your style, these quotes are guaranteed to make your partner crack a smile. \n\n66. I sometimes wonder how you put up with me, but then I remember that I put up with you too, so we’ll call it even. \n67. Since we first met, I’ve only wanted the best for you—which is obviously me!\n68. A wedding band is the smallest handcuff ever made—lucky for me, I’ve got a pretty great cellmate. I love you!\n69. If two people love each other, nothing is impossible. Except for deciding where to eat. We still haven't figured that one out yet. \n70. Happy anniversary to my special someone—I look forward to annoying you for the rest of your life!\n71. I love you more than anything, even my favorite pasta—just please don’t make me prove it. Happy anniversary!\n72. Happy anniversary, babe. No refunds! \n73. I’m amazed at how long we’ve tolerated each other. Cheers to another year! \n74. Our relationship has taught me so much—like that 99% of being married is just yelling “WHAT?” from across the house. \n75. Holy crap. We’re still married? You’re still mine? In that case, happy anniversary!\n\n## One-Year Anniversary Quotes\nCelebrating your first anniversary calls for something unique and special. These quotes can help you commemorate the occasion. \n\n76. One year down, our entire lives to go. \n77. “If I had only one anniversary to celebrate, I would want it with you.” —Byron Pulsifer\n78. This day is beyond special, and the first of many more to come. \n79. 365 days later and I’m still head over heels for you!\n80. Only one year in and you’re making this whole marriage thing seem easy. I love you!\n81. I’ve learned love is not about how many days, months, or years we’ve been together—it’s about how much we love each other every single day. \n82. Better than I was, more than I am. And all this happened by taking your hand.\n83. \"All that you are is all that I'll ever need.\" —Ed Sheeran, “Tenerife Sea”\n84. “How sweet it is to be loved by you.” —Marvin Gaye, “How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved By You)”\n\n![anniversary-quote-how-sweet-it-is](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2cksKc3GjDWLl7xdciFJA9/4a6542fc7b33185d444adcb255c12014/anniversary-quote-how-sweet-it-is.png)\n\n85. One year ago today, our souls became one. We might not be [newlyweds](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/newlywed-game-questions) anymore, but our love is stronger than ever. \n86. Our first year of love has taught me more than I thought possible about what true love really is. Happy anniversary to my person!\n87. Today marks the first milestone of countless moments that are still to be had. Cheers to our first anniversary! \n88. Our first year together is in the books, and all I can hope for is 99 more. I love you!\n89. Our hearts united one year ago on this beautiful day, and I know our love will only grow deeper with time. Happy first anniversary!\n90. I’d be lying if I said this past year wasn’t one of the best of my life. You’re my everything, today and forever!\n\n## Anniversary Quotes for Friends\nWishing your friends a happy anniversary is a thoughtful gesture that you can keep fairly laid-back. These quotes are some of our favorites! \n\n91. Happy anniversary to my favorite lovebirds! \n92. You two are proof that true love really does exist. \n93. Happy anniversary to our favorite couple!\n94. This might go without saying, but you two were made for each other. Happy anniversary!\n95. Sending our love and best wishes to the happy couple. Happy anniversary!\n96. The best thing to hold onto in life is each other, and you two do it beautifully.\n97. Wishing you both a long and wonderful life together on this special day!\n98. Cheers to you two and your endless love story. I can’t wait to see your relationship continue to grow.\n99. Thank you for being an example of true love and commitment. Happy anniversary!\n100. Nobody’s perfect, but together, you two are pretty close. \n\n## Anniversary Quotes for Parents\nAfter years of navigating the ups and downs of marriage, parents are often a beautiful example of lasting love. Sending them thoughtful anniversary wishes won’t go unnoticed—use these quotes to write the perfect note! \n\n101. Happy anniversary to the parents who never stop inspiring me. Best wishes on this special day!\n102. The only thing better than having you for parents is my children having you for grandparents. Happy anniversary, Mom and Dad! \n103. Watching you two grow closer with each passing year is more of a gift than you realize. Happy anniversary!\n104. Congratulations on another year of togetherness. You two melt my heart!\n105. Happy anniversary to my dear parents, who have shown us kids that “happily ever after” really can come true. \n106. All these years together and you two still represent what a loving, blissful marriage looks like. I love you, happy anniversary!\n107. The bond you share never fails to remind me of the power of true love. Happy anniversary!\n108. May your love overflow today as much as it did when you two first met. Happy anniversary! \n109. Thank you for never giving up on each other through all of life’s challenges. I’m sure us kids had nothing to do with those challenges. Happy anniversary!\n110. “You are the parents that all kids hope to have, you are the couple that all lovers hope to be, and you both are the pillars of support that every family wishes it had. Happy anniversary to the best parents ever.” —Anonymous\n\nWhether you’re wishing your closest friends a happy anniversary or celebrating your own with your partner, a thoughtful message can go a long way. Funny and witty or romantic and serious, there’s no wrong answer for the message you choose, so long as it comes from the heart. Cheers to love! \n","tag":"Newlywed Advice","updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:49:57.243Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"wedding-anniversary-invite-ideas","title":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas","excerpt":"So it’s your wedding anniversary and you want to throw a get-together to celebrate? Read our step-by-step guide for inspiration.","author":"McCall Minnor","publishedAt":"2020-12-09T15:40:06.900Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7IJ6B0KMXmqqXJpoYAxenM/9cebce3e0441a1accfa69aeda9d53965/inline_unsplash.jpg","altText":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Wedding anniversary celebrations can be a lot of fun, but many couples are unsure how to go about announcing the plans. If you fall into this camp, we’re happy to help. Here, the ultimate guide to the first step in the process: picking your wedding anniversary invitations. \n\n![Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6BEdKgEQ86R5NVrWUz989Z/5057911843f2fdfe4f56c3ef73ecb045/inline-unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Step One: Settle on Your Vision for the Event\n\nOf course, you’re inviting friends and family because you want to celebrate a big milestone anniversary with them. But what sort of atmosphere do you want your wedding anniversary invitation to evoke? A romantic, intimate evening devoted to toasts of love should have one sort of invitation, while a family barbeque or pool party with a focus on fun times in a homey environment should have a different sort of anniversary invite. \n\nThink about what’s motivating you to throw a public celebration, decide on your vision, and then you’ll have a much clearer idea of how to choose the perfect stationery. \n\n### Step Two: Select a Wedding Invitation Design\n\nNow that you have your vision, the next step is the invitation card design. Here are some fun ideas for wedding anniversary invitations: \n\n### Go Simple\n\nNothing says elegance like black and white, or any two-tone design. Prepare a simple cream, ivory, or off-white invitation card with a minimalist black design or border, or any beautiful contrasting color (like maroon or navy).\n\n### Go Cursive\n\nIf you really want your wedding anniversary invitation to stand out, consider using calligraphy to address the envelopes. \n\n### Go Green\n\nIn this day and age, there are many beautiful options for digital anniversary party invitations. In many cases, digital cards are just as attractive, plus make it easier to track down people’s contact information and allow you to monitor RSVPs. \n\n### Go Nostalgic\n\nThe wedding anniversary is the perfect time to dig up some wonderful photographs of you both together. Whether recent photographs or pictures from your wedding day or honeymoon, these special touches add personality. Choose up to three photos (any more may be too busy) to accentuate the text. Justnote: For the most formal level of invitations, pictures might not be appropriate, so consider adding a meaningful quote instead. \n\n### Go Creative\n\nSend invitations in little candy packages, or printed on chocolate bars, or with bags of personalized candy. Alternatively, you can send invitations rolled up and tied with ribbons or even scented cards. For smaller events, try to find a picture of the invited guest with the happy couple, and include that in the invitation. \n\nThis is a time to celebrate the two of you as a couple. Consider it a good excuse to get a bit fanciful and over the top when it comes to the invitations. Your guests will be delighted. \n\n### Go Postal\n\nFor invitations being sent through the mail, go the extra mile and get postage stamps that reflect the theme of love and marriage, such as hearts, snuggling birds, or ones that say love. For a milestone anniversary, vintage stamps lend a special touch. \n\n### Step Three: Craft the Wording \n\nOnce you have a vision for the anniversary party, it’s time to send out the perfect invitation, complete with wording that imparts your vision. \n\n### For Formal Events\n\nFor formal events, the wedding anniversary invitation wording should be elegant and sophisticated. Here are some examples:\n\n*James Madison and Martin Van Buren request the pleasure of your company at their wedding anniversary celebration.* \n\n*James Madison and Martin Van Buren cordially invite you to their wedding anniversary celebration.*\n\n*You are warmly invited to be our guest at a cocktail reception in celebration of our upcoming wedding anniversary.* \n\n*In honor of our upcoming wedding anniversary, we request the pleasure of your company. Please join us in celebrating so many years of love, joy, and happiness.* \n\n*Your presence is cordially requested at our upcoming wedding anniversary party.* \n\n### For Less Formal Events\n\nFor events that don’t require suits, ties, and fancy dresses, more casual wedding anniversary invitation wording is more appropriate. Here are some examples: \n\n*Please join us on the evening of October 20th, 2020 to celebrate our upcoming wedding anniversary. We invite you to share in our joy with food, drinks, and dancing. *\n\n*We would love to have you celebrate our 25th wedding anniversary with us. Help us create new memories with old friends.* \n\n*It’s a party, and we want you there! After 20 years of marriage, Susie and Daniel invite you to celebrate their wedding anniversary at an upcoming house reception. *\n\n*We are so excited to celebrate our upcoming wedding anniversary, and we would love to include you in our celebration.*\n\n### Step Four: The Details \n\nWith every wedding anniversary invitation, make sure you include all necessary information, including the date of the party, the time guests should arrive, the dress code, and the method by which they should RSVP. \n\nYou should also make sure there is an easy way for guests to confirm their presence, as nobody wants to chase after RSVPs when prepping for a special wedding anniversary. \n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_InvitesPaper"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"We have scoured the web for the most unique wedding invitations on the stationery scene, and we’re sharing them here. 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Our team at Zola can help! Read on for all our top tips and advice.","author":"Shira Telushkin","publishedAt":"2020-10-20T19:15:21.533Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/BJLmsNOenGEou5UNDoPyu/78b5cd597cd7e96cdb55375005ee8c9d/hero_unsplash.jpg","altText":"60th Wedding Anniversary Ideas elderly couple"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"The 60th wedding anniversary is a big deal—we’re celebrating six decades of marriage. \n\nTraditionally, the 60th wedding anniversary is known as the Diamond Anniversary, a designation that came into vogue after 1897 when Queen Victoria marked her 60 years of reign with a diamond jubilee celebration. This sparked new appreciation for 60 years as a milestone, and today many companies and businesses celebrate their 60th anniversaries with diamond themed events. \n\nWhen it comes to marriage, diamonds are an especially appropriate symbol. Diamonds, after all, are the strongest material on earth, and a 60th wedding anniversary is a time to celebrate the strength of a marriage that has reached this milestone. \n\nSo, how to celebrate a 60th wedding anniversary? Below are our top 60th wedding anniversary ideas!\n\n![60th Wedding Anniversary Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2Ewoag4jRqXeG4MfjbAAQC/cc5cf65e295632019e8b925a1732542c/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n## Traditional Diamond Gifts\n\nA diamond gift is always appreciated, especially if accompanied with a heartfelt message about the durability of your love for one another. If you’re looking for the perfect [wedding anniversary gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas), consider these diamond options below:\n\n__For Women:__ Gifts of necklaces, bracelets, and earrings can never go wrong. Make sure that you are buying something your wife doesn’t already have. You can also have fun with the theme of everlastingness—look for bracelets or necklaces designed in knots, for example, to signify unity and endurance. \n\n__For Men:__ Diamond watches, cufflinks, or rings make thoughtful gifts, or accessories such as a money clip will always work. \n\nWhile many gravitate towards traditional white diamonds, you can also look at raw diamonds, colored diamonds, or black diamonds to find a look that is a bit more unusual. Lab-grown diamonds are cheaper than natural diamonds and are often just as beautiful. There are also many brands that explicitly sell ethically-sourced diamonds (also known as conflict-free diamonds), which might add an extra layer of meaning to your gift. \n\nThe significance of diamonds can also be interpreted creatively. You can present diamond-patterned ties, diamond-patterned tablecloths, or diamond-cut decanters as gifts. Some couples will buy diamond-embossed household items, such as flasks or lighters, to celebrate. Let the theme of diamonds inspire you.\n\n![60th Wedding Anniversary Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/63GKOccKqmSWlz80RYmdYj/5f40799869f73e5450103a07726c7d6b/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n## Modern Ways to Celebrate\n\nFor many, diamond gifts don’t hit the right note, and today there are so many additional ways to celebrate this major milestone. Especially true at this stage in a marriage, a lot of people appreciate experiences over objects, because, by this point in life, many of us have accumulated all the things that we could want. Therefore, when thinking of planning your own celebration, or celebrating with a parent, grandparent, or loved one, think about gifts or experiences that are likely to deliver memorable moments (and not just languish in a back closet).\n\nSome modern ways to celebrate a 60th wedding anniversary include: \n\n__Throw a Party:__ Some couples would love to celebrate their 60th wedding anniversary with a party. For extra fun, you can organize a party themed around the concept of sixty, such as a hippie-themed, 1960s party. There are many 60th wedding anniversary party ideas, so get creative with your party planning and make it memorable!\n\n__Send Flowers:__ Flowers are a beautiful way to celebrate any occasion. To mark the 60th anniversary, you could buy an arrangement of sixty roses, or send an assortment of all-white flowers to evoke the theme of diamonds.\n\n__Put Together a Photo Album:__ An especially meaningful tribute to the marriage would be a photo album that has a photograph from every year of the marriage. \n\n__Organize a Family Photoshoot:__ The 60th wedding anniversary is often a celebration for the whole family, and one way to recognize this moment is to hire a photographer and take professional family photographs. This is also a great way to gather family together for a reunion to celebrate.\n\n__Plan a Day Trip:__ Organize a day trip to a nearby location that you’ve never visited before. If you’re unsure about where to go, consider looking for somewhere only within 60 miles of your home. This can be a beautiful park, an unusual landmark, or just a restaurant that you’ve always passed, yet never entered. Trying new experiences is a fun way to celebrate this stage in a marriage. \n\n__Buy Tickets to a Show:__ Tickets to a show are a great gift idea for anybody wishing to give the couple a memorable experience. Consider which theatre, opera, music, dance, or unusual entertainment options are available (such as Cirque du Soleil), and buy the best seats in the house! Of course, even if you want the show to be a surprise, make sure to clear the date with the couple in advance of buying any tickets. Also, be considerate of show length, comfort level of seating, and acoustics. An outdoor concert with poor speakers and floor seating is likely not the right event for a couple celebrating their 60th wedding anniversary.\n\n__Relive the Wedding Day in Photographs:__ For grandchildren, in particular, a lovely way to celebrate the 60th anniversary is to set aside a day to go through your grandparent’s wedding album with them, and ask lots of questions about the guests, who was there, and how the day came together. You’ll learn so much family history, and likely hear a surprising story or two. \n\n__Arrange a Special Anniversary Message:__ Looking for the perfect gift to celebrate a loved one? A number of places will issue a special anniversary message to couples who have been married for 60 years. Catholic couples can request a special papal blessing from the Vatican, and UK citizens can request a message from the Queen. Many local governments also issue announcements for the 60th wedding anniversary, so see if one makes sense for you.\n\nNow that you have a list of 60th anniversary ideas, it’s time to start planning. Whether you decide upon getting a special anniversary gift or you throw a party for the happy couple, there are many ways to acknowledge this special occasion. \n","tag":"Inspiration","updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:49:53.725Z"}],"pagination":{"currentPage":1,"total":18},"subtopic":{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"35th-wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-that-put-new-spins-on-coral-and-jade","title":"35 Unique 35th Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas","excerpt":"Check out our latest blog to discover our top 35th wedding anniversary ideas. Read our blog for more. ","author":"Taylor Bryant","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T20:58:08.897Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2rTlkpD9oaAPmb4dOEcKwz/e7500024365df97d78c5338f33be872f/inline_unsplash__25_.jpg","altText":"35 Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Ah, the 35th wedding anniversary. At this point, you’ve probably cycled through all of the “typical” milestone gifts such as jewelry (gold and sterling silver!), headphones, or framed pictures of each other. After three and a half decades of present exchanges, picking up with special anniversary gift ideas l might be a bit more difficult. Well, one easy way of avoiding the obvious is sticking to the traditional themes. \n\n## Jade: A Modern 35th Anniversary Wedding Gift\nIf traditional isn’t your style and you want to go with a more modern gift, try green jade, a gemstone known for its distinct and stunning green color. Jade represents good luck, good fortune, wealth, and wisdom, and is revered in many cultures around the world—and jade anniversary gifts are thought to bring that same luck, fortune, wealth, and wisdom to the couple celebrating 35 years of marriage.\n\n## Coral: A Traditional 35th Anniversary Wedding Gift\n\nThe thirty-five year anniversary is known as the coral gift year. The actual material, known as “the garden of the sea,” is found on the ocean floor and comes in a range of colors, the most noted being a salmon pink shade. It’s regarded as being an item of peace and transformation, and, back in the day, was believed to hold magical powers. If we’re looking for a symbolic link, coral often takes a long time to form and fully develop, much like a successful union—which is why this traditional gift is the perfect way to commemorate a long, happy marriage. \n\n## Jade: A Modern 35th Anniversary Wedding Gift\nIf traditional isn’t your style and you want to go with a more modern gift, try green jade, a gemstone known for its distinct and stunning green color. Jade represents good luck, good fortune, wealth, and wisdom, and is revered in many cultures around the world—and jade anniversary gifts are thought to bring that same luck, fortune, wealth, and wisdom to the couple celebrating 35 years of marriage.\n\n## 35th Anniversary Gift Ideas\nYou can, and should, use these two themes as jumping-off points, and we’ve also gathered up some 35th wedding anniversary ideas below. If you’re looking for the perfect gift idea for your 35th anniversary, we can help. From romantic dinner cruises to elegant jade golf tees, discover our top 35th wedding anniversary ideas (including coral anniversary gifts and jade anniversary gifts!) with this informative gift guide.\n\n### 1. [Plant Subscription](https://www.thesill.com/collections/plant-subscription) The Sill, Various Prices\nPlants are a great way of livening up any space, and jade ones, in particular, are of the succulent variety, which means that they hold water in their leaves. So, green thumb or not, they should be fairly easy to take care of. If you’re looking for unique 35th anniversary ideas, a plant subscription can be the best call. Start by presenting your partner with the initial jade plant, but make sure to mention that there will be a new one arriving every month to care for and cherish. Your collection of plants will grow just as your love has over the years.\n\n![inline unsplash (26)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4LFVwAOUUwGK2fziNM4v3b/dd99eb5d2f9a85a2ca28c9d2b3f04c0a/inline_unsplash__26_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### 2. [Coral Makeup Set](https://www.charlottetilbury.com/us/product/pillow-talk-makeup-secrets), Charlotte Tilbury, $128\nThe color coral is one of the more universally flattering shades out there. It pairs nicely with almost every skin tone and gives wearers a nice, authentic glow. A makeup set that includes a blush, eyeshadow, and lipstick is a perfect triple whammy if you’re looking for a coral anniversary gift.\n\n### 3. Trip to an Aquarium, Various Prices\nFor a chance to see some coral up close and personal without having to get wet, plan a fun trip to the aquarium (you’re never too old to watch penguins and otters socialize, trust us). Honestly, the coral will probably be the least exciting part of the day, and, if you don’t feel too guilty afterward, end with a romantic seafood dinner to celebrate your 35 year wedding anniversary.\n\n### 4. [Dinner Cruise](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cloud9_dinnercruise_ny), Zola, $389 per couple\nIf you live in New York—and you’re looking to get a little more intimate with the water (home of the coral!)—a dinner cruise with views of the Statue of Liberty, Empire State Building, and the Brooklyn Bridge is guaranteed to be a good time. \n\n### 5. [Wood and Jade Ring](https://www.etsy.com/listing/639612989/wood-ring-jade-bentwood-fumed-eucalyptus?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=mens%20jade%20ring&ref=sc_gallery-1-1&plkey=77774a9b57137edffa4ecfd0cd25a918339a92b6:639612989&frs=1&source=aw&utm_source=affiliate_window&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=us_location_buyer&utm_term=3657&utm_content=565019&awc=6220_1595609528_fef382ae6d1fb9a480247851e2fa6ce6), Etsy, $175\nA nostalgic nod to your fifth wedding anniversary, this handmade wooden band comes with a stunning jade inlay that’s both timeless and durable.\n\n### 6. [Coral Rose Box](https://saayarose.com/products/36-rose-box-classic?_pos=2&_sid=d19189014&_ss=r), SAAYA ROSE, $179\nFlowers are always a safe bet for an anniversary gift, but the problem lies in the fact that they start dying after a week or two. Eco-friendly, preserved roses (including coral shades!) last 365 days and will keep your house smelling fresh into your 36th year of matrimony. \n\n### 7. [Jade Golf Tees](https://saayarose.com/products/36-rose-box-classic?_pos=2&_sid=d19189014&_ss=r), Amazon, $23.98\nTee-off in style with a jade golf tee. Your partner’s golf buddies will be hiding their regular white tees in shame. Just like your partnership, the gemstone itself is one of the toughest.\n\n### 8. [Topgolf Gift Card](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/topgolf_topgolf_100_gift_card), Topgolf, Various Prices\nLooking for 35th anniversary ideas that involve your spouse’s favorite hobby? For a chance to really show off your new regal tees, book a couple of outings—either with your spouse, a group of friends, or another couple—to Topgolf for some friendly competition. (Bonus points if you wear coral and/or jade golf shirts!)\n\n### 9. [Rosette Jewelry Tray](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1129680815/rosette-tray-in-blue-gray-and-light?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+jewelry+dish&ref=sc_gallery-1-7&listing_id=1129680815&listing_slug=rosette-tray-in-blue-gray-and-light&plkey=2747c833c5c49e0ffa7cac57858a05c95eef4f9d%3A1129680815), Etsy, $65\nIf your partner needs a place to put their jewelry at the end of the day (perhaps a previous anniversary ring or other jewelry gift?), this unique jewelry tray—complete with coral rosettes—would make for a fantastic 35th anniversary gift (and provide your vanity with a little pop of color in the process!) \n\n### 10. [Reel Viewer](https://www.uncommongoods.com/product/create-your-own-reel-viewer?), Uncommon Goods, $29.95\nYou probably have enough photo albums, portraits, and personalized gifts to last you another 35 years, but what’s one more? At least this one is guaranteed to be unlike the others. Gather snapshots of your favorite memories and add them to a reel viewer (in the perfect coral shade!) to immortalize your time together. It’ll be nostalgia like you’ve never experienced before.\n\n### 11. [Jade Earrings in 12K Gold Filled, Vintage Style Green Jade Drop Earrings](https://www.etsy.com/listing/575745430/jade-earrings-in-12k-gold-filled-vintage?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sc_gallery-4-10&pro=1&frs=1&listing_id=575745430&listing_slug=jade-earrings-in-12k-gold-filled-vintage&plkey=ff065aa77dcf62ffbc50cbd01d94ae41aa9dbb11%3A575745430), Etsy, $127.92\nThese drop-style earrings, complete with jade stones, would make the perfect anniversary gift for anyone who loves all things vintage.\n\n### 12. [\"Tree of Love\" Art Print](https://www.etsy.com/listing/129625721/anniversary-gift-for-parents-15th-25th?click_key=0082723bfc6e327c72d4523b19dd0ef58b9f889e%3A129625721&click_sum=b2373ffe&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sr_gallery-5-41&organic_search_click=1&frs=1), Etsy, $27.75\nLove is, in many ways, like a tree; you plant roots, you give the tree attention, and, over time, it grows. So why not commemorate your tree growing for 35 years with this “Tree of Love” print? Customize with your name and wedding date—and order the jade shade to honor your 35th.\n\n### 13. [Green Jade Bangle Bracelet](https://www.etsy.com/listing/973399554/green-jade-bangle-bracelet-for-women-in?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sc_gallery-6-14&pro=1&frs=1&listing_id=973399554&listing_slug=green-jade-bangle-bracelet-for-women-in&plkey=bc2fcffaf62ee886a429ce6eddc52d90079e5ec3%3A973399554), Etsy, $183.92\nIf you want to gift your partners something simple—but fashionable—consider this piece of jade jewelry. The simple gold bangle is offset by two jade gemstones, creating a minimalist (but elegant!) look.\n\n#### 14. [Holzkern Watch in Tropical Forest](https://www.world.holzkern.com/en_world/tropical-forest-walnut-marble.html?utm_source=shopping&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=us-generic-watches&gclid=CjwKCAjwlcaRBhBYEiwAK341jdmpwTz8fJlCUhHjA-kem9ym7pc5T1Nhdnp5VvTp49bE94eR9-LmrhoCTDkQAvD_BwE), Holzkern, $199\nThis walnut watch features a jade green marble watch face. It feels timeless, elegant, and truly unique—making it a great way to commemorate your 35th wedding anniversary.\n\n### 15. [Jade Anniversary Journal](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1061811525/personalized-anniversary-journal-with?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+notebook&ref=sc_gallery-1-2&pro=1&frs=1&sts=1&listing_id=1061811525&listing_slug=personalized-anniversary-journal-with&plkey=e1b25cffc275c8dd5c928a65887494adfc6db2e0%3A1061811525), Etsy, $80.95\nMarriage is all about making memories—and if you want to give your partner a way to record those memories, this jade anniversary journal would make the perfect gift. Gold emboss your names and wedding date on the front cover to make the gift even more personal.\n\n### 16. [Bean Shaped Acrylic Clutch Purse In Emerald Green](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1152006895/bean-shaped-acrylic-clutch-purse-in?click_key=b1d5445e3af0bdfbb76684dae4a9d0f43c6cc416%3A1152006895&click_sum=a26f7c01&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+bag&ref=sr_gallery-1-14&organic_search_click=1&pro=1&frs=1), Etsy, $64\nIf you think your partner would like a unique gift, this clutch purse—which comes complete with vintage details and in a striking shade of jade green—is definitely one to consider.\n\n### 17. [Coral Red Drip Coffee Mug](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1169796900/coral-red-drip-coffee-mug?click_key=c534531d3e4c1bad231190c3c14c2978abaab325%3A1169796900&click_sum=a011022b&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+coffee+mugs&ref=sr_gallery-1-14&organic_search_click=1), Etsy, $22\nThe best anniversary gifts are the ones you actually use. And what gift is your partner sure to use just about every day? A coffee mug, of course! This handmade ceramic option—in the perfect shade of coral for your 35th!—can easily hold 10oz of coffee to help your loved one start their day off right.\n\n### 18. [Natural Jade Wine Glasses](https://www.etsy.com/listing/700855988/natural-jade-wine-glasses-made-by-hand?click_key=8747dcf3c6ae8fbba465e0a5cac3e2c83e8d7abb%3A700855988&click_sum=31feec14&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+wine+glasses&ref=sr_gallery-1-1&organic_search_click=1&pro=1&frs=1), Etsy, $8.50\nDo you and your partner love to end the day with a glass of Cabernet or Pinot Grigio? If so, you’ll want to toast 35 years together with these natural jade wine glasses.\n\n### 19. [Primalush Textured Robe](https://berkshireblanket.com/products/primalush-textured-robe?variant=40698742603955¤cy=USD&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic), Berkshire Blanket, $55\nAfter 35 years together, chances are, you and your partner are pretty comfortable around each other. But if you want them to feel even more comfortable, this textured robe from Berkshire Blanket (which comes in a soft jade shade) would make for a great gift.\n\n### 20. [Jade Guitar Pick](https://www.etsy.com/listing/198230244/jade-guitar-pick-canadian-jade-sold?click_key=57d4bad4e9996a0d851d49e7318e7f849f65774e%3A198230244&click_sum=9a7af501&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+guitar+pick&ref=sr_gallery-1-1&organic_search_click=1), Etsy, $15.98\nIf your partner spends their free time strumming on their guitar, this jade guitar pick would make a great gift.\n\n### 21. [Custom Personalized Engraving Jade Green Leaf Marble Single Pen Stand](https://www.etsy.com/listing/863934986/graduation-special-custom-personalized?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+pens&ref=sc_gallery-1-2&pro=1&frs=1&listing_id=863934986&listing_slug=graduation-special-custom-personalized&plkey=e42f5824a415036b3f7d9a4318945e73228f223f%3A863934986), Etsy, $71.76\nIf your partner likes to write (or just likes to decorate their desk!), this personalized marble pen stand would make a great gift. Engrave the jade base with their name—and, if you want it to remind them of your anniversary, your wedding date.\n\n### 22. [Jade Green Jug Vase, Saban Glassware](https://sabanglassware.com/product/jug-vase/?attribute_pa_color=jade-green&utm_source=Google%20Shopping&utm_campaign=Google%20&utm_medium=cpc&utm_term=18484&campaignid=16558146478&adgroupid=131359189421&network=u&device=c&gclid=CjwKCAjwlcaRBhBYEiwAK341jbfU87jpaluzbBePARBeER4orWXDXO6zno46osl2J9HQQYEY8VvezxoC8dIQAvD_BwE), $123.75\nIf you’re planning to bring your partner flowers for your anniversary, you’ll need something to put them in. And not only does this jade green vase make for the perfect flower receptacle, but it can also double as your anniversary gift!\n\n### 23. [Song Soundwave](https://www.etsy.com/listing/878917391/song-soundwave-anniversary-gift-jade?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+anniversary+gift&ref=sc_gallery-1-3&frs=1&sts=1&listing_id=878917391&listing_slug=song-soundwave-anniversary-gift-jade&plkey=f225bbad7c526e4a7ca149f8f3e57a26f9747a00%3A878917391), Etsy, $49\nYour first dance may have been 35 years ago—but we bet it’s still one of your favorite songs. Capture that moment and gift it to your partner with this art print, which turns your song into a soundwave. You can customize the color, but the jade option is perfect for the modern 35th wedding anniversary gift.\n\n### 24. [Jade & Coral Tree, Copper Wire Bonsai](https://www.etsy.com/listing/951062275/jade-coral-tree-35th-anniversary-gift?click_key=4e2b0e5418ee4f98f55bd3a49b2fc5515edcfb3a%3A951062275&click_sum=24982a2c&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sr_gallery-1-11&organic_search_click=1&etp=1&sts=1), Etsy, $57.39\nIf your partner’s idea of the perfect anniversary gift is a unique, memorable decorative item, this jade and coral wire bonsai tree is sure to be a hit.\n\n### 25. [Couples T-Shirts, ‘MARRIED SINCE’ set of 2 Matching Tees](https://www.etsy.com/listing/999544158/35th-anniversary-gift-in-coral-couples-t?click_key=7b63003c689c37dd87b367e80f70eb6639c59277%3A999544158&click_sum=4f10b31b&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sr_gallery-3-46&organic_search_click=1&frs=1), Etsy, $25\nIf you and your partner have a sense of humor, these couples’ t-shirts could be a cute (and funny!) way to celebrate your 35th anniversary.\n\n### 26. [Coral Sun Catcher](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1114307099/35th-wedding-anniversary-gift-coral?click_key=eb7835c93e71e1160867a40a123ecab9f1884bb5%3A1114307099&click_sum=fe87e355&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sr_gallery-4-17&organic_search_click=1&sca=1), Etsy, $19.77\nCapture the sun and commemorate 35 amazing years together with this coral sun catcher. It’s a great gift—and would make a great addition to a sunny window!\n\n### 27. [35th Coral anniversary necklace | Two peas In a pod](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1054047027/35th-coral-anniversary-necklace-two-peas?click_key=cd6231ef3a8794df5c0f5ac4e70606269f8bdfa5%3A1054047027&click_sum=cd673b74&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary+coral&ref=sr_gallery-4-35&organic_search_click=1&frs=1), Etsy, $106.34 \nAfter 35 years, you and your partner are definitely two peas in a pod. So why not use your gift to celebrate that? This “two peas in a pod” anniversary necklace features two stones of your choice in a silver pod. Your partner will be reminded of your bond every time they wear it!\n\n### 28. [35th Wedding Anniversary Sundial](https://www.etsy.com/listing/619000059/unique-35th-wedding-anniversary-sundial?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+gifts&ref=sc_gallery-1-12&frs=1&listing_id=619000059&listing_slug=unique-35th-wedding-anniversary-sundial&plkey=98f704ce8a7ae19d964db4a790ef6b1e4e1f7444%3A619000059), Etsy, $85.32\nA sundial can be a great addition to your backyard and an interesting, unexpected gift. And with this version, you can personalize the sundial to include your anniversary date—and commemorate your 35 wonderful years together.\n\n### 29. [RCA Retro Portable Home Theater Projector, Coral](https://www.beachcamera.com/products/rca-retro-480p-portable-home-theater-projector-rpj264-coral), Beach Camera, $64.95\nIs a move you and your partner’s idea of the perfect date night? If so, this home theater projector (in the perfect shade of coral!) can be a great gift—and a great way to recreate the move theater experience in your own home.\n\n### 30. [Turkish Blanket](https://www.etsy.com/listing/750657456/turkish-blanket-blanket-78x86-turkish?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+throw+blanket&ref=sc_gallery-1-3&pro=1&listing_id=750657456&listing_slug=turkish-blanket-blanket-78x86-turkish&plkey=f55e199d6b9ff6de582d117510e6e409e4d41437%3A750657456), Etsy, $23\nIs there any better way to spend your 35th anniversary than snuggled up with your loved one? We don’t think so—which is why this coral Turkish blanket would make such a great anniversary gift.\n\n### 31. [KitchenAid Artisan® Series 5 Quart Tilt-Head Stand Mixer](https://www.kitchenaid.com/countertop-appliances/stand-mixers/tilt-head-stand-mixers/p.artisan-series-5-quart-tilt-head-stand-mixer.ksm150psph.html), KitchenAid, $429.90\nIf your partner loves to bake, the KitchenAid Stand Mixer is the ultimate gift. (Seriously—ask any baker!) Commemorate your 35th anniversary by gifting your partner the stand mixer in the coral shade.\n\n### 32. [Coral Pink Bunny Rabbit Handmade Ceramic Ring Holder](https://www.etsy.com/listing/815507570/coral-pink-bunny-rabbit-handmade-ceramic?click_key=c7a775e5e7330986257c819ac5f57e1c2ef26708%3A815507570&click_sum=29d41a7c&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+ring+holder&ref=sr_gallery-1-8&organic_search_click=1&pro=1), Etsy, $25.49\nIf you and your partner need a safe (and adorable!) place to store your wedding rings while you sleep, this ceramic ring holder, which allows you to place your rings on the ears of two coral bunnies, would make the perfect gift for your anniversary.\n\n### 33. [Coral Flowers Gallery Wall, 8x10 Set of 4](https://www.etsy.com/listing/586929979/coral-flowers-gallery-wall-8x10-set-of-4?click_key=ce0a5b6b8d26dede5333fc2525fb6aa912e6e1bb%3A586929979&click_sum=16f83be6&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+art&ref=sr_gallery-1-36&organic_search_click=1&pro=1&frs=1&sts=1), Etsy, $49.95\nIf you want to give a 35th anniversary gift that can double as home decor, you should definitely consider this gallery set of four watercolor coral flower prints. (Just keep in mind that frames aren’t included—so if you want to deliver your gift ready to hang, you’ll have to purchase the frames separately.)\n\n### 34. [Omnia Coral By Bvlgari Eau De Toilette Spray For Women](https://www.amazon.com/Bvlgari-Omnia-Coral-Toilette-Spray/dp/B007C27HAA/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&qid=1451968065&sr=8-22&keywords=coral&linkCode=sl1&tag=oneextmar-20&linkId=5b4bf130bb2904a4a823979158218d09), Amazon, $87.93\nDoes your partner love perfume? If so, why not capture coral in a bottle? The Ombia Coral by Bvlgari comes in attractive coral packaging and has hints of goji berries, bergamot, berries, hibiscus flower, water lily, pomegranate and cedar wood. It’s perfect for a special occasion—like your 35th wedding anniversary!\n\n### 35. [24k Gold Forever Rose, The Forever Rose](https://theforeverrose.com/products/gold-dipped-rose-white-orange?variant=37576780775593¤cy=USD&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic&gclid=CjwKCAjwlcaRBhBYEiwAK341jcHlHKMaDyH3YsxV3ek6CRvXJ-KdvN56DcBOVndf8vrJ3WH4TWZ_xRoCdUkQAvD_BwE), $79.95\nA rose always makes for a great gift. But for your 35th anniversary, you want a special rose—like the Forever Rose, a real rose that’s dipped in 24K gold. Go with the Sunrise Rose, which is the perfect shade of coral—and the perfect option to celebrate your 35th.\n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Looking for simple vow renewal ideas? Discover top tips and recommendations from the pros at Zola today. ","title":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas","slug":"simple-vow-renewal-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4PZSW1hObQ6TnM557egpbG/3ee842eade872a59be2ffc64a370f857/inline_unsplash__19___1_.jpg","altText":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Don’t know how to decorate a space for a vow renewal? Our experts at Zola can help! Read on to discover more. 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","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T18:35:30.762Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4PZSW1hObQ6TnM557egpbG/3ee842eade872a59be2ffc64a370f857/inline_unsplash__19___1_.jpg","altText":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"When it comes to simple vow renewal ideas, few couples know where to start. There are endless resources out there for those planning their wedding, but vow renewals haven’t yet received the same level of recognition.\n\nNo matter the location, reason for celebrating, or size of the soiree, there are many ways you can acknowledge this monumental moment in your marriage without being overly intricate. Below, find nine simple vow renewal ideas or jump straight to the section you’re most inspired by:\n\n1. [Have a Ceremony at Home](#have-a-ceremony-at-home)\n2. [Reread Your Original Vows](#reread-your-original-vows)\n3. [Celebrate With Your Children](#celebrate-with-your-children)\n4. [Have a Potluck](#have-a-potluck)\n5. [Go Simple With Attire](#go-simple-with-attire)\n6. [Rededicate Your Rings](#rededicate-your-rings)\n7. [Pick a Place With Meaning to Both of You](#pick-a-place-with-meaning-to-both-of-you)\n8. [Choose Your Invited Wisely](#choose-your-invited-wisely)\n9. [Do a Destination Vow Renewal](#do-a-destination-vow-renewal)\n\n## 9 Simple Vow Renewal Ideas\nHere is a list of simple, but special vow renewal ideas you can incorporate into your ceremony. \n\n### 1. Have a Ceremony at Home
\nOne of the simplest ways to celebrate your renewed love for one another is by holding a ceremony at home (also occasionally called an “at-home elopement”). Not only is it an intimate place to celebrate with your closest friends and family, but it’s also a great way to acknowledge the life you’ve built together as a couple. If you’ve got room for all your loved ones and a bit of green space for the vows ceremony, your home might be the perfect venue.\n\n### 2. Reread Your Original Vows
\nDon’t think that rereading your old [wedding vows]( https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-vows) is simply a way of avoiding writing new ones. Vows—like marriage—are meant to be a lifelong effort and commitment. By rereading your vows, you’re sending the message that you’re willing to make the same promises you made years ago, even if circumstances have changed. Is there anything more romantic than that? It also creates an inevitably sweet, sentimental moment that might trigger some tears.\n\n### 3. Celebrate With Your Children
\nIf the years between your wedding and vow renewal resulted in some little ones, then go ahead and find ways to include them in the big day. Maybe you mention them in the ceremony reading or let them serve as “hosts” for the event. You can even let one of your children perform as a makeshift officiant for an additional dose of charm. There are no rules, so have fun with it. \n\n### 4. Have a Potluck
\nIf you had an expensive wedding, no need to host a pricey vow renewal ceremony. Simply ask your friends and family to bring a favorite dish of theirs, and you can supply the beverages or desserts. This works especially well for at-home ceremonies and those in public spaces, like national parks or beaches. It might take a little bit of coordinating to make sure there’s something for everyone to eat, but it works for more casual celebrations and lets your guests feel like they contributed in some way.\n\n### 5. Go Simple With Attire
\nNo need to buy an extravagant gown or three-piece suit the second time around. Brides shouldn’t even feel the need to wear white if it doesn’t fit their style. Just go for something simple and elegant that works with your personalities, as well as the space you’re celebrating in. If you’re looking for something more formal, consider taking your wedding-day attire for a spin. Not only does it save some money, but it’s also a great way to honor your original wedding day.\n\n![Simple Vow Renewal Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1OHGj4DSxLbi6o3uxoEmYs/561bae65b5648a7440e9dc87e60dbaa2/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### 6. Rededicate Your Rings
\nThough ring exchanges aren’t required for a vow renewal ceremony, many couples choose to do something special with them to symbolize the next phase of their lives together. This can mean anything from having them blessed to getting them engraved with a sweet phrase or your vow renewal date. If you want to go all out, you can even purchase new rings to commemorate the occasion. (After all, if you’ve been married for a decade or more, it’s likely your tastes have changed.)\n\n### 7. Pick a Place With Meaning to Both of You
\n![Simple Vow Renewal Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2t1VuCDK7Rsi7OlBWnqb2Z/807a6dda70892cb51175425500b2281a/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\nThough couples are getting more and more creative with [wedding venues](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-venues), there are even fewer expectations when it comes to vow renewals. Maybe the restaurant where you got engaged has a great event space or your favorite coffee shop has an amazing underground roastery with lots of space. If you want to take a walk down memory lane, you could even choose to renew your vows at the original venue where you got married.\n\n### 8. Choose Your Invited Wisely
\nAs beautiful as print invitations are, they may not be right for a casual occasion. Consider opting for electronic invitations or even a simple email announcement that directs recipients toward a vow renewal website. You’re not only reducing the risk of invitations getting lost in the mail, but you’re also simultaneously keeping costs down. \n\nWith the abundance of options available these days it’s easy to make your digital invites feel both polished and personal. If you plan on going all out for your wedding renewal, choose [wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop) that are fit for the occasion. Remember,it’s up to the two of you as a couple to decide how you’ll want to celebrate this special day. \n\n### 9. Do a Destination Vow Renewal
\nAlways secretly dreamt of eloping despite having a large, traditional wedding? In that case, a destination vow renewal is a no-brainer. This could be anything from hosting an intimate ceremony on a beach in Tulum, Mexico to eloping on a sailboat in the South Pacific. Just note that if you’re planning a vow renewal in the near future, we highly suggest staying up-to-date on travel restrictions and observing the recommendations made by both the World Health Organization (WHO) and Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).\n\nNow that you know our top ideas for renewing marriage vows, it’s time to choose the perfect event for your special day. As long as love is the center of the event, we are sure you’ll have a beautiful and memorable vow renewal ceremony.\n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Don’t know how to decorate a space for a vow renewal? Our experts at Zola can help! Read on to discover more. 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","title":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas","slug":"20th-wedding-anniversary-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44xqsjrS9WDU3wnTp475xF/06153ab78d0d9f3131e8cbc547c9628d/Inline_unsplash__11_.png","altText":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"So it’s your wedding anniversary and you want to throw a get-together to celebrate? 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","publishedAt":"2022-05-03T19:35:03.098Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/69O8ZbFrxXeFF4Adfgo1U5/cbc24c72a99f1b4d1938f93499d7530f/woman-giving-partner-anniversary-letter.jpg","altText":"woman giving partner anniversary letter"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/","heroCaption":"woman giving partner anniversary letter","body":"The wedding might be over, but anniversaries are a significant [milestone](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/diy-photo-booth) in a couple’s relationship that deserve to be celebrated. With all the ups and downs life can bring, reaching another year of marriage is no small feat, which makes sending anniversary wishes that much more special. \n\nTraditionally, there’s no [etiquette](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/guest-at-wedding) rule requiring you to send anniversary wishes to another couple. This doesn’t apply to your own relationship, though—spouses should definitely acknowledge the special day! That said, if you’re looking to wish someone a happy anniversary but are unsure of how to put your wishes into words, our anniversary quotes offer plenty of ideas to get you started. \n\nWhether you’re writing to your own partner or celebrating close friends or parents, we’ve included something for everyone. (You might also consider an [anniversary gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas) while you’re at it!)\n\n__Table of Contents__\n- What to Include in an Anniversary Message\n- Simple Happy Anniversary Quotes\n- Anniversary Quotes for Instagram Captions\n- Thoughtful Anniversary Quotes\n- Romantic Anniversary Quotes\n- Funny Anniversary Quotes\n- One-Year Anniversary Quotes\n- Anniversary Quotes for Friends\n- Anniversary Quotes for Parents\n\n\n## What to Include in an Anniversary Message\nIf you’re scratching your head for [what to write](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-write-in-a-wedding-card) in your anniversary message, don’t fear! Your message doesn’t have to be complicated. Here are some helpful places to get started when deciding on what to include in your anniversary message—you’ll find writing your heartfelt note isn’t so hard! \n\n- Make a toast\n- Share a memory\n- Offer words of encouragement\n- Celebrate the milestone \n- Call out the beauty of a lasting relationship \n- Reflect on your love for your partner \n\n![the-best-anniversary-quotes-qualities](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5SKxJMuHNoqTGXRscBsLZF/e474dd9224a0413817840a59a1a92cca/the-best-anniversary-quotes-qualities.png)\n\n## Simple Happy Anniversary Quotes \nYou can say a lot with not many words—a simple “Happy Anniversary” paired with one of the anniversary quotes below is all you need for a heartwarming message. Use the following quotes for inspiration if you’re celebrating your own anniversary, or skip below to find quotes for friends and loved ones. \n\n1. You make celebrating our love feel easy. Happy anniversary! \n2. Today, tomorrow, and always—our love never ends. Happy anniversary!\n3. Cheers to another year with my better half. \n4. Time truly flies when I’m with you. Happy anniversary! \n5. Cheers to another 365 days together and the many more to come!\n6. Life with you just makes sense—here’s to another year together. \n7. Thanks for being the best partner I could’ve asked for. Happy anniversary!\n8. Another year together and I’m still finding new things I love about you.\n9. Choosing you was the best decision I ever made. \n10. Loved you last year, loved you yesterday, love you still and always will. \n11. Our love story is my favorite. Happy anniversary to us! \n12. Happy anniversary to my person—how did I get so lucky? \n13. Today reminds me of why I fell in love with you, and my love has only grown. Happy anniversary today and always.\n14. I’m grateful for our love every day, but especially today. Happy anniversary!\n15. All of me loves all of you. Happy anniversary to my favorite person! \n\n## Anniversary Quotes for Instagram Captions\nYour anniversary is a significant milestone, so it makes sense you’d want to share a thoughtful post on social media commemorating the occasion. If you’re looking to celebrate your love on the ‘gram, use the list below to help you find the perfect caption. \n\n16. A year later and you still give me butterflies. #1yearanniversary\n17. 525,600 minutes as a married couple. #happyanniversary\n18. One year down, a lifetime to go. #happyweddinganniversary\n19. Ready for another trip around the sun? #1yearanniversary\n20. Life with you just keeps getting better—swipe for a surprise! #anniversarypresent\n21. 365 days of smiles, laughs, and reminders to take the trash out. #loveyouforever \n\n![anniversary-quote-shania-twain](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/8H8fPNI6Fj1IRYd3MDpO5/1262c47cb2f42910cd6ba0c87f12ce22/anniversary-quote-shania-twain.png)\n\n22. “You’re still the one I run to, the one that I belong to. You’re still the one I want for life.” —Shania Twain, “You’re Still the One”\n23. I said yes to a life with you. \n24. I can’t wait to grow old with you. \n25. “When I look at you, I can feel it. I look at you, and I’m home.” —Dory, “Finding Nemo”\n\n## Thoughtful Anniversary Quotes\nSometimes, sharing from the heart is tough. Use these quotes to help put your feelings into words. \n\n26. Life with you just keeps on getting better. \n27. You’ll never stop being my happy place. \n28. Sleeping by your side means endless sweet dreams. \n29. Yesterday,today and always, I still choose you! \n30. I am yours, and you are mine. \n31. Your love truly makes life sweeter. \n32. I can’t imagine a single day without you by my side. \n33. My heart still skips a beat when I look at you. \n34. Rain or shine, you’ll always be mine. \n35. The love I hold for you continues to grow, today and always. \n36. To the one who stole my heart, thank you for loving me so well. \n37. Our love is a rare gift that I’ll never let go of. \n38. The love we share is magnetic, and you make life pure magic. \n39. Cheers to another year with my best friend and better half.\n40. Saying yes to you was the smartest move I ever made. \n41. You’re more beautiful to me with each passing year, and this year is no exception.\n42. I’m convinced I won the lottery with you.\n43. I didn’t think I could love you more than I already do, but this special day has proved me wrong. \n44. In a sea of people, I have eyes only for you. \n45. Happy anniversary to a beautiful person who has given me the most beautiful life.\n46. Forever isn’t long enough with you. \n47. With you by my side, life could never get better. \n48. You’ve given me so many reasons to smile this past year, but my smile couldn’t be any bigger on this special day. \n49. Another year together and I still get butterflies when I look at you. \n50. You make my life better in every way. Thanks for choosing me today and every day. \n51. You’re the only one I want to wake up next to, day after day, year after year. \n52. Happy anniversary to my soulmate—how did I get so lucky? \n53. Today our relationship is one year older, and the depth of our love just keeps growing deeper. \n54. I thought I knew what true love was until I met you. \n55. My only regret is that I can’t go back in time so I could’ve met you sooner. Happy anniversary to my one true love. \n\n## Romantic Anniversary Quotes\nIf you consider yourself a hopeless romantic, these quotes are for you. \n\n56. Of all the love stories that exist, ours will always be my favorite.\n57. Words can’t express my unending love for you, especially on a day like today. \n58. “So how does it happen, great love? Nobody knows…but what I can tell you is that it happens in the blink of an eye. One moment you’re enjoying your life, and the next you’re wondering how you ever lived without them.” —Hitch, “Hitch”\n59. “I would rather share one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone.” —Arwen, “Lord of the Rings”\n60. “The best love is the kind that awakens the soul, that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds.” —Noah, “The Notebook”\n61. Happy anniversary to the only person in the world that I want beside me every day and every night for the rest of my life.\n62. “If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.” —A. A. Milne, “Winnie the Pooh”\n\n![anniversary-quote-winnie-the-pooh](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6plI9QETkNu0ijaR0ZSJyL/a43385dbb4ec192de9df0796843a6839/anniversary-quote-winnie-the-pooh.png)\n\n63. When a love is true, there is no ending. I hope we get to celebrate for many years to come. Happy anniversary!\n64. I believe everything happens for a reason because it led me to you. I love you, happy anniversary.\n65. From sending you good night texts to wishing you good morning, everything seems sweeter since I met you. Happy anniversary.\n\n## Funny Anniversary Quotes\nIf some light wit and humor is more your style, these quotes are guaranteed to make your partner crack a smile. \n\n66. I sometimes wonder how you put up with me, but then I remember that I put up with you too, so we’ll call it even. \n67. Since we first met, I’ve only wanted the best for you—which is obviously me!\n68. A wedding band is the smallest handcuff ever made—lucky for me, I’ve got a pretty great cellmate. I love you!\n69. If two people love each other, nothing is impossible. Except for deciding where to eat. We still haven't figured that one out yet. \n70. Happy anniversary to my special someone—I look forward to annoying you for the rest of your life!\n71. I love you more than anything, even my favorite pasta—just please don’t make me prove it. Happy anniversary!\n72. Happy anniversary, babe. No refunds! \n73. I’m amazed at how long we’ve tolerated each other. Cheers to another year! \n74. Our relationship has taught me so much—like that 99% of being married is just yelling “WHAT?” from across the house. \n75. Holy crap. We’re still married? You’re still mine? In that case, happy anniversary!\n\n## One-Year Anniversary Quotes\nCelebrating your first anniversary calls for something unique and special. These quotes can help you commemorate the occasion. \n\n76. One year down, our entire lives to go. \n77. “If I had only one anniversary to celebrate, I would want it with you.” —Byron Pulsifer\n78. This day is beyond special, and the first of many more to come. \n79. 365 days later and I’m still head over heels for you!\n80. Only one year in and you’re making this whole marriage thing seem easy. I love you!\n81. I’ve learned love is not about how many days, months, or years we’ve been together—it’s about how much we love each other every single day. \n82. Better than I was, more than I am. And all this happened by taking your hand.\n83. \"All that you are is all that I'll ever need.\" —Ed Sheeran, “Tenerife Sea”\n84. “How sweet it is to be loved by you.” —Marvin Gaye, “How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved By You)”\n\n![anniversary-quote-how-sweet-it-is](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2cksKc3GjDWLl7xdciFJA9/4a6542fc7b33185d444adcb255c12014/anniversary-quote-how-sweet-it-is.png)\n\n85. One year ago today, our souls became one. We might not be [newlyweds](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/newlywed-game-questions) anymore, but our love is stronger than ever. \n86. Our first year of love has taught me more than I thought possible about what true love really is. Happy anniversary to my person!\n87. Today marks the first milestone of countless moments that are still to be had. Cheers to our first anniversary! \n88. Our first year together is in the books, and all I can hope for is 99 more. I love you!\n89. Our hearts united one year ago on this beautiful day, and I know our love will only grow deeper with time. Happy first anniversary!\n90. I’d be lying if I said this past year wasn’t one of the best of my life. You’re my everything, today and forever!\n\n## Anniversary Quotes for Friends\nWishing your friends a happy anniversary is a thoughtful gesture that you can keep fairly laid-back. These quotes are some of our favorites! \n\n91. Happy anniversary to my favorite lovebirds! \n92. You two are proof that true love really does exist. \n93. Happy anniversary to our favorite couple!\n94. This might go without saying, but you two were made for each other. Happy anniversary!\n95. Sending our love and best wishes to the happy couple. Happy anniversary!\n96. The best thing to hold onto in life is each other, and you two do it beautifully.\n97. Wishing you both a long and wonderful life together on this special day!\n98. Cheers to you two and your endless love story. I can’t wait to see your relationship continue to grow.\n99. Thank you for being an example of true love and commitment. Happy anniversary!\n100. Nobody’s perfect, but together, you two are pretty close. \n\n## Anniversary Quotes for Parents\nAfter years of navigating the ups and downs of marriage, parents are often a beautiful example of lasting love. Sending them thoughtful anniversary wishes won’t go unnoticed—use these quotes to write the perfect note! \n\n101. Happy anniversary to the parents who never stop inspiring me. Best wishes on this special day!\n102. The only thing better than having you for parents is my children having you for grandparents. Happy anniversary, Mom and Dad! \n103. Watching you two grow closer with each passing year is more of a gift than you realize. Happy anniversary!\n104. Congratulations on another year of togetherness. You two melt my heart!\n105. Happy anniversary to my dear parents, who have shown us kids that “happily ever after” really can come true. \n106. All these years together and you two still represent what a loving, blissful marriage looks like. I love you, happy anniversary!\n107. The bond you share never fails to remind me of the power of true love. Happy anniversary!\n108. May your love overflow today as much as it did when you two first met. Happy anniversary! \n109. Thank you for never giving up on each other through all of life’s challenges. I’m sure us kids had nothing to do with those challenges. Happy anniversary!\n110. “You are the parents that all kids hope to have, you are the couple that all lovers hope to be, and you both are the pillars of support that every family wishes it had. Happy anniversary to the best parents ever.” —Anonymous\n\nWhether you’re wishing your closest friends a happy anniversary or celebrating your own with your partner, a thoughtful message can go a long way. Funny and witty or romantic and serious, there’s no wrong answer for the message you choose, so long as it comes from the heart. Cheers to love! \n","tag":"Newlywed Advice","updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:49:57.243Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"20th-wedding-anniversary-ideas","title":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas","excerpt":"Check out our latest blog for fun and creative 20th-anniversary ideas! Read our blog for more inspiration. ","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T21:35:42.612Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44xqsjrS9WDU3wnTp475xF/06153ab78d0d9f3131e8cbc547c9628d/Inline_unsplash__11_.png","altText":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"How does one celebrate 20 grand years of marriage? Seems like a distant feat when you first wed, but then it comes along and you wonder where the years went. Your 20th wedding anniversary is the time to celebrate all the love and dedication to each other that has seen you both through the ebbs and flows of life together. \n\nTraditionally this anniversary is symbolized by gifts of porcelain or china, which signifies beauty and strength, but the modern marker for two decades of marriage is platinum—equally elegant and enduring. The associated colors for the occasion are emerald green and white, making the recommended gemstone—what else?—an emerald. \n\nThere are so many great ideas for presents and experiences related to these themes, so let’s take a look at a few 20th wedding anniversary ideas to make this a memorable moment. \n\n### Keep It Traditional\n\nGo totally traditional with a themed tea set for those late afternoon teas you’ll both enjoy in each other’s company or even a full-fledged dinner set for formal family dinners and other grand parties at home. \n\nSpeaking of home, china vases and picture frames, antique porcelain gift boxes, or sculptures and figurines to commemorate the occasion are all great 20th anniversary ideas. \n\nThat romantic picnic basket with all porcelain dinnerware for two is a great gift for the couple who already has everything for the home. \n\nIf you have a Chinatown neighborhood in your city, then the occasion calls for a date night out revisiting cherished spots you’ve been frequenting as a couple or new ones on your list you’ve always been planning to explore. \n\nOf course, if travel is on your mind, then that trip to China might be the perfect grand gift to celebrate your 20th anniversary. Use a china doll holding the tickets to announce the surprise getaway or some of the surprise experiences you’ve booked for your getaway. \n\n![20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2sLrSZn8iq9qVZSnNoFnm6/8ec12ad2095cbf3d2e67cf811e17375e/Inline_unsplash__10_.png)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Go Modern\n\nPlatinum jewelry is a subtle and sophisticated style alternative to other metal jewelry, so a sleek custom piece from a celebrated local designer will please your spouse. \n\nFor music lovers, an album from the year you were married or when your kids were born is a coveted gift that your special someone will absolutely adore. Other options include music from a favorite artist, orchestra, or a special performance that holds fond memories for them. \n\nIf your spouse has an affinity for a certain brand, get them to platinum status with that company’s loyalty program or credit card. Every time they’re able to use the perks and benefits, they’ll remember your thoughtfulness for their preferences. \n\nPlatinum watches from a brand known for its luxury watchmaking is a great addition to your wardrobe and a statement piece to wear to events. Plus, it’s a 20-year anniversary idea that your husband or wife will always remember. If you’ve been eyeing one that’s tailor-made for couples, then your 20th wedding anniversary presents a timely reason to invest in one.\n\nPlatinum accessories and decor, especially arranged as a surprise in personal spaces such as the family room, bedroom, otr private study area, are grand ways to show your significant other you’ve indulged in some thought in choosing their presents for the day. \n\n### Bring It Together With Green and White\n\nIf you’re celebrating with friends and family, emerald green and white table and home decorations make a lovely combination for party decor. Carry it through with balloons and streamers, and also for the special celebration cake. \n\nPack an at-home spa retreat gift basket filled with self-care products like bath bombs, comfort food, fragrant candles, and even a special cocktail kit for an anniversary celebration. \n\nOr, you could head out for a spa getaway to a destination with emerald in the name, such as Emerald Lakes in California, the Emerald Coast of Florida, or Emerald Isle in North Carolina. \n\nFor tech enthusiasts, accessories, whether wireless speakers or watch straps, in these colors make for an outstanding—and very useful—gift. \n\nHead down memory lane with a hardcover photo album or memory book in emerald green with white inserts filled with photos, show tickets, and other little events in your life you’re nostalgic for. Remember to leave plenty of space for the future you will spend together as a married couple. \n\nNo matter the manner you choose to mark your 20th wedding anniversary, it is a precious moment to behold as you plan for the next 20 years ahead. Make it a memorable one.","tag":"Inspiration","nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Looking to get your guests laughing at your wedding renewal? 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","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-21T22:08:22.188Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/71YdJTv52AEpRdgm5Ayc3j/11d15cb790fc12bad52d3029c43486b8/Inline_Samantha_Rice_Photography.png","altText":"Vow Renewal on a Budget"},"heroCredit":"Samantha Rice Photography","body":"When it comes to holding a budget vow renewal, many of the same tips and tricks apply that would with a wedding. Narrowing down your guest list, cutting back on [wedding stationery](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/paper), and tackling some small DIY projects are often the most common pieces of advice. However, vow renewals come with a very different set of expectations than weddings, so there’s a lot of room for creativity.\n\nIf you’ve got a vision for a beautiful event, but are struggling to find ways to cut costs, below are some of our top pieces of advice on how to plan a vow renewal on a budget.\n\n## Don’t Treat It like a Second Wedding\n![Zola - How to Have a Budget Vow Renewal](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4XtYMtRZJFoHGVxdAqWQSu/3c7531f540c32c64fad53539e324f507/Inline_Laura_Hollander_Photography__1_.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Laura Hollander Photography\n\nFor one primary reason: it isn’t one. This doesn’t mean that it’s any less special or less memorable–it simply means that it’s an entirely different celebration and should be treated as such. The word “wedding” is immediately associated with higher costs, so be clear about the purpose of your celebration from the get-go. There’s also less expectation surrounding wedding vow renewals, which gives you the opportunity to really do it your way–including keeping it cost-friendly.\n\nWhen planning a renewal ceremony, keep in the back of your mind what would make the day most special to you and your partner. If you want to spend the money to hold the ceremony at a distillery, but DIY everything else, then go for it. Embrace the sense of freedom that you might not have experienced the first time around.\n\n## Source Locally\nThis is one of the easiest ways to save money. Not only are local vendors more sustainable, but they’re also less likely to charge you an arm and a leg for details such as delivery fees when putting together a vow renewal celebration. If you look for florists and rental companies that are hyperlocal, chances are that they’re not only going to be less expensive, but they’re going to be more flexible than those located elsewhere.\n\nHowever, keep in mind that the more remote your [wedding venue](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-venues), the more money you’re likely to spend on vendors. If you’re planning an island vow renewal, for example, delivery costs are likely to be high, and local vendors might hike their prices if they’re the only option on the island. If you live in a tiny town or don’t have a lot of vendors and creatives in your area, Etsy is a great alternative for sourcing things such as [wedding decor](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/decorations) and accessories, while allowing you to still support small businesses.\n\n## Make It a Potluck\nThe argument against potlucks for weddings may still exist, but this isn’t a wedding, is it? If you’d prefer to get a food truck or do something a little bit more traditional, that’s always an option. But, inviting your guests to bring their favorite dish and indulge potluck-style is one of the easiest ways to bring costs down. Just make sure that you’re clear with everyone about expectations and have a system or spreadsheet to track what everyone is planning to bring. This is also something that you can assign out to a friend and/or family member to take care of so that you can keep stress levels low.\n\n## Keep It Intimate\nAs one of the most common recommendations in the book, there is nothing more cost-friendly than choosing an intimate affair over a massive celebration. Aside from the obvious savings, there are additional benefits to keeping your numbers down, including the natural rise in the cost per-person. Even on a budget, a smaller party means that you’re able to spend more money on each attendee, and it allows for some creative ideas, including fun favors and more elaborate place settings for your vow renewal celebration.\n\n## Host It at Home\nThere is unlikely to be a venue that is as budget-friendly as your own home (and no better way to commemorate the life that you’ve built together as a married couple). Just make sure that you’re realistic about the attendee capacity and the amount of work that it would require. If your house doesn’t have a backyard, or is too quaint for the event size that you’re imagining, then take the party to a public park. Whatever you choose to do, just make sure that you’re adhering to COVID-19 social distancing guidelines in your area and plan accordingly.\n\n## Avoid Rentals Altogether\nIf you’re planning a hefty-sized get-together, this can be a tough one, but for those organizing more intimate gatherings, avoiding rentals isn’t totally out of the question. If you’re hosting the vow renewal at home, the many pieces of furniture and décor that you have sitting around the house can be great alternatives to rentals. Mirrors, rugs, ottomans, candlesticks, and glassware are all common pieces that are easy to repurpose. Just ask your guests to each bring a lawn chair and you’ve got your bases covered.\n\n## Consider DIYing Some Elements\n![Zola - How to Have a Budget Vow Renewal](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/71YdJTv52AEpRdgm5Ayc3j/11d15cb790fc12bad52d3029c43486b8/Inline_Samantha_Rice_Photography.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Samantha Rice Photography\n\nInvitations, florals, and décor alone can easily cost a couple thousand dollars. Make sure that you prioritize what’s most important for you to have done professionally and what might be a fun project leading up to the big day. This also goes for your loved ones who you know are willing to lend a hand. If you’ve got a friend with a talent for creating bouquets, or a relative who’s adopted calligraphy as their quarantine hobby, don’t be afraid to ask them for help.\n\n## Purchase, Instead of Rent\nDespite the obvious, it can actually be much cheaper to purchase items such as table linens and table décor instead of renting them for your vow renewal celebration. Just make sure that you’re actually going to use them again or have somewhere to re-sell them so that they don’t go to waste. Décor items such as rugs, candlesticks, and runners are all popular picks to reuse down the road. You can even repurpose décor and florals as gifts to your attendees or loved ones who helped you coordinate the big day.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Feeling stuck when it comes to how to write your renewal vows? We can help. 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Discover our top suggestions for funny renewal wedding vows here.","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T19:00:39.172Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/14SsQ3X0p4jSgW70Ku7hSo/0059254211a299da64d6c8c31ad123ed/inline_unsplash__21___1_.jpg","altText":"Funny Renewal Wedding Vows"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Vows are one of the original (and most meaningful) ways to highlight what you value most in your relationship. For many, having a husband or wife with a sense of humor is one of the secrets to an everlasting union. So why not embrace that the second time around at your wedding vow renewal ceremony?\n\nWhether you’re a comedian at heart or simply looking to entertain your guests, writing funny renewal wedding vows is a great way to commemorate your marriage thus far. Below are a few tips to help you embrace your lighthearted side and generate some laughs along the way at your vow renewal ceremony.\n\n### Pull Ideas From Your Original Wedding Vows\nWhether it’s a promise that one of you took a little too seriously (“cleaning more doesn’t mean vacuuming in the middle of the night”) or one that took on a whole new meaning (“who knew finding more shared hobbies would lead to entering an underwater hockey tournament?”), your original wedding vows are a great place to look for inspiration. This is especially effective if most of your guests are people who attended your wedding and heard your original wedding vows.\n\n### Reflect on Old Memories (Including the Wedding Day) \nFunny stories from when you first started dating your husband or wife always make great stories, because they’re full of humor and authenticity. The same goes for your wedding day. Chances are not everything went exactly as planned, so cracking jokes about what went wrong is a great way to lighten the mood and demonstrate that what you value most is the relationship itself.\n\n### Make Sure You’re on the Same Page as Your Partner\n\n![Funny Renewal Wedding Vows](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/63t5ZeVyOxxUQ24xMYA8E6/a7463efe34cac2f66861878708474639/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\nFunny vows are great, but if your partner is taking a more serious route, the unexpected humor can be a bit jarring at your renewal ceremony. If your partner is more of the sentimental or romantic type, make sure you let them know what route you’re going to take in advance of your vow renewal. If you’re both wannabe comedians and goofiness is your fallback, then you’re probably already on the right track. Just remember that your vows set the tone for the rest of the day, so you want them to feel authentic to you as a couple.\n\n### Mention Mistakes (and Make It Witty)\nWe’ve all failed in our relationships in one way or another. If addressed as a problem, it can be sad or frustrating, but if told in the form of a humorous recollection, it comes off more relatable. Maybe your initiative to cook more led to an adventure with the local fire station. Or, maybe your partner’s attempt to plan a surprise date failed when you wound up at the wrong restaurant. Even moments that may not have seemed funny at the time make some of the best memories and hilarious stories to share with your loved ones.\n\n### Be Self-Deprecating \nIf it’s in your repertoire, don’t be afraid to make fun of yourself. For example, maybe you vowed to make an effort to plan more vacations and your first attempt was a weekend camping trip that ended in disaster. It’s often easy to find lighthearted ways to pick on your partner, but highlighting your own mistakes is a great way to balance the humor and remind your SO that you know you’re not perfect either.\n\n### Include Something Serious or Sentimental \n\n![Funny Renewal Wedding Vows](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3G4JV49sJwIHyUHfrEtzFc/69d62539f97e40ae849ca3435b362939/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\nThough it doesn’t need to be the primary focus, it’s always nice to circle back to why you’re both standing there and how far you’ve come from your initial wedding day. Maybe your partner’s lighthearted (and sometimes childish) nature is what you love most about them. Or, maybe you acknowledge that humor is one of the greatest bonds the two of you have. No matter the focus, a brief moment of sincerity can go a long way.\n\n### Remember: There Aren’t Any Rules.\nJust like with your original [wedding vows](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-vows) (and [wedding planning](https://www.zola.com/) in general), there really are no rules. If you want to write a funny interpretation of a Shakespeare sonnet or create your own poem, go right ahead. If you’d prefer to keep things sentimental with a touch of humor here and there, that works too. If you do what feels right to you, your partner is sure to appreciate the thought behind it.\n\n### Sample Wording to Consider for Your Funny Vows:\n\n“*Ten years ago, I vowed to help you cook more dinners. That might have led to a lot of burnt pizza and the incessant sound of fire alarms, but here we are… and I’m still trying*.”\n\n“*To this day, our wedding remains one of the greatest days of my life. It was also the day I learned that seagulls like steak tartare as much as I do*.”\n\n“*After all these years, I’m so happy that we can still make each other laugh. Your humor has always been one of the greatest lights in my life and can make even the darkest days a little brighter*.”\n\n“*I vow to continue to plan more dates and fail miserably. To continue to pick up your dirty socks and not get upset when you vacuum between my toes while I’m trying to read.*”\n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Don’t know how to decorate a space for a vow renewal? Our experts at Zola can help! Read on to discover more. 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Maybe you've been dating for a while and need guidance on how to talk about the next steps. Or you're newly engaged and need advice on how to handle wedding planning stress. You'll also find advice for newlywed couples, like how to combine finances. Plus guides to celebrating anniversaries and renewing your vows! Whatever stage of the journey you're in, we're here to support you through it all.","subtopics":[{"featuredArticles":[],"name":"Dating","slug":"dating","description":"Whether you just started dating and are looking for special birthday gift ideas or have been dating for sometime and need guidance on how to talk about bringing your relationship to the next level. Find practical dating advice for every couple."},{"featuredArticles":[],"name":"Newly engaged couples","slug":"newly-engaged-couples","description":"Congratulations on your engagement! In the midst of planning your wedding, you might need general advice on navigating life as a newly engaged couple. 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Find expert marriage advice to guide you through the start of your forever and beyond."},{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"35th-wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-that-put-new-spins-on-coral-and-jade","title":"35 Unique 35th Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas","excerpt":"Check out our latest blog to discover our top 35th wedding anniversary ideas. Read our blog for more. ","author":"Taylor Bryant","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T20:58:08.897Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2rTlkpD9oaAPmb4dOEcKwz/e7500024365df97d78c5338f33be872f/inline_unsplash__25_.jpg","altText":"35 Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Ah, the 35th wedding anniversary. At this point, you’ve probably cycled through all of the “typical” milestone gifts such as jewelry (gold and sterling silver!), headphones, or framed pictures of each other. After three and a half decades of present exchanges, picking up with special anniversary gift ideas l might be a bit more difficult. Well, one easy way of avoiding the obvious is sticking to the traditional themes. \n\n## Jade: A Modern 35th Anniversary Wedding Gift\nIf traditional isn’t your style and you want to go with a more modern gift, try green jade, a gemstone known for its distinct and stunning green color. Jade represents good luck, good fortune, wealth, and wisdom, and is revered in many cultures around the world—and jade anniversary gifts are thought to bring that same luck, fortune, wealth, and wisdom to the couple celebrating 35 years of marriage.\n\n## Coral: A Traditional 35th Anniversary Wedding Gift\n\nThe thirty-five year anniversary is known as the coral gift year. The actual material, known as “the garden of the sea,” is found on the ocean floor and comes in a range of colors, the most noted being a salmon pink shade. It’s regarded as being an item of peace and transformation, and, back in the day, was believed to hold magical powers. If we’re looking for a symbolic link, coral often takes a long time to form and fully develop, much like a successful union—which is why this traditional gift is the perfect way to commemorate a long, happy marriage. \n\n## Jade: A Modern 35th Anniversary Wedding Gift\nIf traditional isn’t your style and you want to go with a more modern gift, try green jade, a gemstone known for its distinct and stunning green color. Jade represents good luck, good fortune, wealth, and wisdom, and is revered in many cultures around the world—and jade anniversary gifts are thought to bring that same luck, fortune, wealth, and wisdom to the couple celebrating 35 years of marriage.\n\n## 35th Anniversary Gift Ideas\nYou can, and should, use these two themes as jumping-off points, and we’ve also gathered up some 35th wedding anniversary ideas below. If you’re looking for the perfect gift idea for your 35th anniversary, we can help. From romantic dinner cruises to elegant jade golf tees, discover our top 35th wedding anniversary ideas (including coral anniversary gifts and jade anniversary gifts!) with this informative gift guide.\n\n### 1. [Plant Subscription](https://www.thesill.com/collections/plant-subscription) The Sill, Various Prices\nPlants are a great way of livening up any space, and jade ones, in particular, are of the succulent variety, which means that they hold water in their leaves. So, green thumb or not, they should be fairly easy to take care of. If you’re looking for unique 35th anniversary ideas, a plant subscription can be the best call. Start by presenting your partner with the initial jade plant, but make sure to mention that there will be a new one arriving every month to care for and cherish. Your collection of plants will grow just as your love has over the years.\n\n![inline unsplash (26)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4LFVwAOUUwGK2fziNM4v3b/dd99eb5d2f9a85a2ca28c9d2b3f04c0a/inline_unsplash__26_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### 2. [Coral Makeup Set](https://www.charlottetilbury.com/us/product/pillow-talk-makeup-secrets), Charlotte Tilbury, $128\nThe color coral is one of the more universally flattering shades out there. It pairs nicely with almost every skin tone and gives wearers a nice, authentic glow. A makeup set that includes a blush, eyeshadow, and lipstick is a perfect triple whammy if you’re looking for a coral anniversary gift.\n\n### 3. Trip to an Aquarium, Various Prices\nFor a chance to see some coral up close and personal without having to get wet, plan a fun trip to the aquarium (you’re never too old to watch penguins and otters socialize, trust us). Honestly, the coral will probably be the least exciting part of the day, and, if you don’t feel too guilty afterward, end with a romantic seafood dinner to celebrate your 35 year wedding anniversary.\n\n### 4. [Dinner Cruise](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cloud9_dinnercruise_ny), Zola, $389 per couple\nIf you live in New York—and you’re looking to get a little more intimate with the water (home of the coral!)—a dinner cruise with views of the Statue of Liberty, Empire State Building, and the Brooklyn Bridge is guaranteed to be a good time. \n\n### 5. [Wood and Jade Ring](https://www.etsy.com/listing/639612989/wood-ring-jade-bentwood-fumed-eucalyptus?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=mens%20jade%20ring&ref=sc_gallery-1-1&plkey=77774a9b57137edffa4ecfd0cd25a918339a92b6:639612989&frs=1&source=aw&utm_source=affiliate_window&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=us_location_buyer&utm_term=3657&utm_content=565019&awc=6220_1595609528_fef382ae6d1fb9a480247851e2fa6ce6), Etsy, $175\nA nostalgic nod to your fifth wedding anniversary, this handmade wooden band comes with a stunning jade inlay that’s both timeless and durable.\n\n### 6. [Coral Rose Box](https://saayarose.com/products/36-rose-box-classic?_pos=2&_sid=d19189014&_ss=r), SAAYA ROSE, $179\nFlowers are always a safe bet for an anniversary gift, but the problem lies in the fact that they start dying after a week or two. Eco-friendly, preserved roses (including coral shades!) last 365 days and will keep your house smelling fresh into your 36th year of matrimony. \n\n### 7. [Jade Golf Tees](https://saayarose.com/products/36-rose-box-classic?_pos=2&_sid=d19189014&_ss=r), Amazon, $23.98\nTee-off in style with a jade golf tee. Your partner’s golf buddies will be hiding their regular white tees in shame. Just like your partnership, the gemstone itself is one of the toughest.\n\n### 8. [Topgolf Gift Card](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/topgolf_topgolf_100_gift_card), Topgolf, Various Prices\nLooking for 35th anniversary ideas that involve your spouse’s favorite hobby? For a chance to really show off your new regal tees, book a couple of outings—either with your spouse, a group of friends, or another couple—to Topgolf for some friendly competition. (Bonus points if you wear coral and/or jade golf shirts!)\n\n### 9. [Rosette Jewelry Tray](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1129680815/rosette-tray-in-blue-gray-and-light?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+jewelry+dish&ref=sc_gallery-1-7&listing_id=1129680815&listing_slug=rosette-tray-in-blue-gray-and-light&plkey=2747c833c5c49e0ffa7cac57858a05c95eef4f9d%3A1129680815), Etsy, $65\nIf your partner needs a place to put their jewelry at the end of the day (perhaps a previous anniversary ring or other jewelry gift?), this unique jewelry tray—complete with coral rosettes—would make for a fantastic 35th anniversary gift (and provide your vanity with a little pop of color in the process!) \n\n### 10. [Reel Viewer](https://www.uncommongoods.com/product/create-your-own-reel-viewer?), Uncommon Goods, $29.95\nYou probably have enough photo albums, portraits, and personalized gifts to last you another 35 years, but what’s one more? At least this one is guaranteed to be unlike the others. Gather snapshots of your favorite memories and add them to a reel viewer (in the perfect coral shade!) to immortalize your time together. It’ll be nostalgia like you’ve never experienced before.\n\n### 11. [Jade Earrings in 12K Gold Filled, Vintage Style Green Jade Drop Earrings](https://www.etsy.com/listing/575745430/jade-earrings-in-12k-gold-filled-vintage?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sc_gallery-4-10&pro=1&frs=1&listing_id=575745430&listing_slug=jade-earrings-in-12k-gold-filled-vintage&plkey=ff065aa77dcf62ffbc50cbd01d94ae41aa9dbb11%3A575745430), Etsy, $127.92\nThese drop-style earrings, complete with jade stones, would make the perfect anniversary gift for anyone who loves all things vintage.\n\n### 12. [\"Tree of Love\" Art Print](https://www.etsy.com/listing/129625721/anniversary-gift-for-parents-15th-25th?click_key=0082723bfc6e327c72d4523b19dd0ef58b9f889e%3A129625721&click_sum=b2373ffe&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sr_gallery-5-41&organic_search_click=1&frs=1), Etsy, $27.75\nLove is, in many ways, like a tree; you plant roots, you give the tree attention, and, over time, it grows. So why not commemorate your tree growing for 35 years with this “Tree of Love” print? Customize with your name and wedding date—and order the jade shade to honor your 35th.\n\n### 13. [Green Jade Bangle Bracelet](https://www.etsy.com/listing/973399554/green-jade-bangle-bracelet-for-women-in?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sc_gallery-6-14&pro=1&frs=1&listing_id=973399554&listing_slug=green-jade-bangle-bracelet-for-women-in&plkey=bc2fcffaf62ee886a429ce6eddc52d90079e5ec3%3A973399554), Etsy, $183.92\nIf you want to gift your partners something simple—but fashionable—consider this piece of jade jewelry. The simple gold bangle is offset by two jade gemstones, creating a minimalist (but elegant!) look.\n\n#### 14. [Holzkern Watch in Tropical Forest](https://www.world.holzkern.com/en_world/tropical-forest-walnut-marble.html?utm_source=shopping&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=us-generic-watches&gclid=CjwKCAjwlcaRBhBYEiwAK341jdmpwTz8fJlCUhHjA-kem9ym7pc5T1Nhdnp5VvTp49bE94eR9-LmrhoCTDkQAvD_BwE), Holzkern, $199\nThis walnut watch features a jade green marble watch face. It feels timeless, elegant, and truly unique—making it a great way to commemorate your 35th wedding anniversary.\n\n### 15. [Jade Anniversary Journal](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1061811525/personalized-anniversary-journal-with?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+notebook&ref=sc_gallery-1-2&pro=1&frs=1&sts=1&listing_id=1061811525&listing_slug=personalized-anniversary-journal-with&plkey=e1b25cffc275c8dd5c928a65887494adfc6db2e0%3A1061811525), Etsy, $80.95\nMarriage is all about making memories—and if you want to give your partner a way to record those memories, this jade anniversary journal would make the perfect gift. Gold emboss your names and wedding date on the front cover to make the gift even more personal.\n\n### 16. [Bean Shaped Acrylic Clutch Purse In Emerald Green](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1152006895/bean-shaped-acrylic-clutch-purse-in?click_key=b1d5445e3af0bdfbb76684dae4a9d0f43c6cc416%3A1152006895&click_sum=a26f7c01&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+bag&ref=sr_gallery-1-14&organic_search_click=1&pro=1&frs=1), Etsy, $64\nIf you think your partner would like a unique gift, this clutch purse—which comes complete with vintage details and in a striking shade of jade green—is definitely one to consider.\n\n### 17. [Coral Red Drip Coffee Mug](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1169796900/coral-red-drip-coffee-mug?click_key=c534531d3e4c1bad231190c3c14c2978abaab325%3A1169796900&click_sum=a011022b&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+coffee+mugs&ref=sr_gallery-1-14&organic_search_click=1), Etsy, $22\nThe best anniversary gifts are the ones you actually use. And what gift is your partner sure to use just about every day? A coffee mug, of course! This handmade ceramic option—in the perfect shade of coral for your 35th!—can easily hold 10oz of coffee to help your loved one start their day off right.\n\n### 18. [Natural Jade Wine Glasses](https://www.etsy.com/listing/700855988/natural-jade-wine-glasses-made-by-hand?click_key=8747dcf3c6ae8fbba465e0a5cac3e2c83e8d7abb%3A700855988&click_sum=31feec14&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+wine+glasses&ref=sr_gallery-1-1&organic_search_click=1&pro=1&frs=1), Etsy, $8.50\nDo you and your partner love to end the day with a glass of Cabernet or Pinot Grigio? If so, you’ll want to toast 35 years together with these natural jade wine glasses.\n\n### 19. [Primalush Textured Robe](https://berkshireblanket.com/products/primalush-textured-robe?variant=40698742603955¤cy=USD&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic), Berkshire Blanket, $55\nAfter 35 years together, chances are, you and your partner are pretty comfortable around each other. But if you want them to feel even more comfortable, this textured robe from Berkshire Blanket (which comes in a soft jade shade) would make for a great gift.\n\n### 20. [Jade Guitar Pick](https://www.etsy.com/listing/198230244/jade-guitar-pick-canadian-jade-sold?click_key=57d4bad4e9996a0d851d49e7318e7f849f65774e%3A198230244&click_sum=9a7af501&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+guitar+pick&ref=sr_gallery-1-1&organic_search_click=1), Etsy, $15.98\nIf your partner spends their free time strumming on their guitar, this jade guitar pick would make a great gift.\n\n### 21. [Custom Personalized Engraving Jade Green Leaf Marble Single Pen Stand](https://www.etsy.com/listing/863934986/graduation-special-custom-personalized?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+pens&ref=sc_gallery-1-2&pro=1&frs=1&listing_id=863934986&listing_slug=graduation-special-custom-personalized&plkey=e42f5824a415036b3f7d9a4318945e73228f223f%3A863934986), Etsy, $71.76\nIf your partner likes to write (or just likes to decorate their desk!), this personalized marble pen stand would make a great gift. Engrave the jade base with their name—and, if you want it to remind them of your anniversary, your wedding date.\n\n### 22. [Jade Green Jug Vase, Saban Glassware](https://sabanglassware.com/product/jug-vase/?attribute_pa_color=jade-green&utm_source=Google%20Shopping&utm_campaign=Google%20&utm_medium=cpc&utm_term=18484&campaignid=16558146478&adgroupid=131359189421&network=u&device=c&gclid=CjwKCAjwlcaRBhBYEiwAK341jbfU87jpaluzbBePARBeER4orWXDXO6zno46osl2J9HQQYEY8VvezxoC8dIQAvD_BwE), $123.75\nIf you’re planning to bring your partner flowers for your anniversary, you’ll need something to put them in. And not only does this jade green vase make for the perfect flower receptacle, but it can also double as your anniversary gift!\n\n### 23. [Song Soundwave](https://www.etsy.com/listing/878917391/song-soundwave-anniversary-gift-jade?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+anniversary+gift&ref=sc_gallery-1-3&frs=1&sts=1&listing_id=878917391&listing_slug=song-soundwave-anniversary-gift-jade&plkey=f225bbad7c526e4a7ca149f8f3e57a26f9747a00%3A878917391), Etsy, $49\nYour first dance may have been 35 years ago—but we bet it’s still one of your favorite songs. Capture that moment and gift it to your partner with this art print, which turns your song into a soundwave. You can customize the color, but the jade option is perfect for the modern 35th wedding anniversary gift.\n\n### 24. [Jade & Coral Tree, Copper Wire Bonsai](https://www.etsy.com/listing/951062275/jade-coral-tree-35th-anniversary-gift?click_key=4e2b0e5418ee4f98f55bd3a49b2fc5515edcfb3a%3A951062275&click_sum=24982a2c&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sr_gallery-1-11&organic_search_click=1&etp=1&sts=1), Etsy, $57.39\nIf your partner’s idea of the perfect anniversary gift is a unique, memorable decorative item, this jade and coral wire bonsai tree is sure to be a hit.\n\n### 25. [Couples T-Shirts, ‘MARRIED SINCE’ set of 2 Matching Tees](https://www.etsy.com/listing/999544158/35th-anniversary-gift-in-coral-couples-t?click_key=7b63003c689c37dd87b367e80f70eb6639c59277%3A999544158&click_sum=4f10b31b&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sr_gallery-3-46&organic_search_click=1&frs=1), Etsy, $25\nIf you and your partner have a sense of humor, these couples’ t-shirts could be a cute (and funny!) way to celebrate your 35th anniversary.\n\n### 26. [Coral Sun Catcher](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1114307099/35th-wedding-anniversary-gift-coral?click_key=eb7835c93e71e1160867a40a123ecab9f1884bb5%3A1114307099&click_sum=fe87e355&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sr_gallery-4-17&organic_search_click=1&sca=1), Etsy, $19.77\nCapture the sun and commemorate 35 amazing years together with this coral sun catcher. It’s a great gift—and would make a great addition to a sunny window!\n\n### 27. [35th Coral anniversary necklace | Two peas In a pod](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1054047027/35th-coral-anniversary-necklace-two-peas?click_key=cd6231ef3a8794df5c0f5ac4e70606269f8bdfa5%3A1054047027&click_sum=cd673b74&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary+coral&ref=sr_gallery-4-35&organic_search_click=1&frs=1), Etsy, $106.34 \nAfter 35 years, you and your partner are definitely two peas in a pod. So why not use your gift to celebrate that? This “two peas in a pod” anniversary necklace features two stones of your choice in a silver pod. Your partner will be reminded of your bond every time they wear it!\n\n### 28. [35th Wedding Anniversary Sundial](https://www.etsy.com/listing/619000059/unique-35th-wedding-anniversary-sundial?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+gifts&ref=sc_gallery-1-12&frs=1&listing_id=619000059&listing_slug=unique-35th-wedding-anniversary-sundial&plkey=98f704ce8a7ae19d964db4a790ef6b1e4e1f7444%3A619000059), Etsy, $85.32\nA sundial can be a great addition to your backyard and an interesting, unexpected gift. And with this version, you can personalize the sundial to include your anniversary date—and commemorate your 35 wonderful years together.\n\n### 29. [RCA Retro Portable Home Theater Projector, Coral](https://www.beachcamera.com/products/rca-retro-480p-portable-home-theater-projector-rpj264-coral), Beach Camera, $64.95\nIs a move you and your partner’s idea of the perfect date night? If so, this home theater projector (in the perfect shade of coral!) can be a great gift—and a great way to recreate the move theater experience in your own home.\n\n### 30. [Turkish Blanket](https://www.etsy.com/listing/750657456/turkish-blanket-blanket-78x86-turkish?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+throw+blanket&ref=sc_gallery-1-3&pro=1&listing_id=750657456&listing_slug=turkish-blanket-blanket-78x86-turkish&plkey=f55e199d6b9ff6de582d117510e6e409e4d41437%3A750657456), Etsy, $23\nIs there any better way to spend your 35th anniversary than snuggled up with your loved one? We don’t think so—which is why this coral Turkish blanket would make such a great anniversary gift.\n\n### 31. [KitchenAid Artisan® Series 5 Quart Tilt-Head Stand Mixer](https://www.kitchenaid.com/countertop-appliances/stand-mixers/tilt-head-stand-mixers/p.artisan-series-5-quart-tilt-head-stand-mixer.ksm150psph.html), KitchenAid, $429.90\nIf your partner loves to bake, the KitchenAid Stand Mixer is the ultimate gift. (Seriously—ask any baker!) Commemorate your 35th anniversary by gifting your partner the stand mixer in the coral shade.\n\n### 32. [Coral Pink Bunny Rabbit Handmade Ceramic Ring Holder](https://www.etsy.com/listing/815507570/coral-pink-bunny-rabbit-handmade-ceramic?click_key=c7a775e5e7330986257c819ac5f57e1c2ef26708%3A815507570&click_sum=29d41a7c&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+ring+holder&ref=sr_gallery-1-8&organic_search_click=1&pro=1), Etsy, $25.49\nIf you and your partner need a safe (and adorable!) place to store your wedding rings while you sleep, this ceramic ring holder, which allows you to place your rings on the ears of two coral bunnies, would make the perfect gift for your anniversary.\n\n### 33. [Coral Flowers Gallery Wall, 8x10 Set of 4](https://www.etsy.com/listing/586929979/coral-flowers-gallery-wall-8x10-set-of-4?click_key=ce0a5b6b8d26dede5333fc2525fb6aa912e6e1bb%3A586929979&click_sum=16f83be6&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+art&ref=sr_gallery-1-36&organic_search_click=1&pro=1&frs=1&sts=1), Etsy, $49.95\nIf you want to give a 35th anniversary gift that can double as home decor, you should definitely consider this gallery set of four watercolor coral flower prints. (Just keep in mind that frames aren’t included—so if you want to deliver your gift ready to hang, you’ll have to purchase the frames separately.)\n\n### 34. [Omnia Coral By Bvlgari Eau De Toilette Spray For Women](https://www.amazon.com/Bvlgari-Omnia-Coral-Toilette-Spray/dp/B007C27HAA/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&qid=1451968065&sr=8-22&keywords=coral&linkCode=sl1&tag=oneextmar-20&linkId=5b4bf130bb2904a4a823979158218d09), Amazon, $87.93\nDoes your partner love perfume? If so, why not capture coral in a bottle? The Ombia Coral by Bvlgari comes in attractive coral packaging and has hints of goji berries, bergamot, berries, hibiscus flower, water lily, pomegranate and cedar wood. It’s perfect for a special occasion—like your 35th wedding anniversary!\n\n### 35. [24k Gold Forever Rose, The Forever Rose](https://theforeverrose.com/products/gold-dipped-rose-white-orange?variant=37576780775593¤cy=USD&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic&gclid=CjwKCAjwlcaRBhBYEiwAK341jcHlHKMaDyH3YsxV3ek6CRvXJ-KdvN56DcBOVndf8vrJ3WH4TWZ_xRoCdUkQAvD_BwE), $79.95\nA rose always makes for a great gift. But for your 35th anniversary, you want a special rose—like the Forever Rose, a real rose that’s dipped in 24K gold. Go with the Sunrise Rose, which is the perfect shade of coral—and the perfect option to celebrate your 35th.\n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Looking for simple vow renewal ideas? Discover top tips and recommendations from the pros at Zola today. ","title":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas","slug":"simple-vow-renewal-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4PZSW1hObQ6TnM557egpbG/3ee842eade872a59be2ffc64a370f857/inline_unsplash__19___1_.jpg","altText":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Don’t know how to decorate a space for a vow renewal? Our experts at Zola can help! Read on to discover more. 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","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T18:35:30.762Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4PZSW1hObQ6TnM557egpbG/3ee842eade872a59be2ffc64a370f857/inline_unsplash__19___1_.jpg","altText":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"When it comes to simple vow renewal ideas, few couples know where to start. There are endless resources out there for those planning their wedding, but vow renewals haven’t yet received the same level of recognition.\n\nNo matter the location, reason for celebrating, or size of the soiree, there are many ways you can acknowledge this monumental moment in your marriage without being overly intricate. Below, find nine simple vow renewal ideas or jump straight to the section you’re most inspired by:\n\n1. [Have a Ceremony at Home](#have-a-ceremony-at-home)\n2. [Reread Your Original Vows](#reread-your-original-vows)\n3. [Celebrate With Your Children](#celebrate-with-your-children)\n4. [Have a Potluck](#have-a-potluck)\n5. [Go Simple With Attire](#go-simple-with-attire)\n6. [Rededicate Your Rings](#rededicate-your-rings)\n7. [Pick a Place With Meaning to Both of You](#pick-a-place-with-meaning-to-both-of-you)\n8. [Choose Your Invited Wisely](#choose-your-invited-wisely)\n9. [Do a Destination Vow Renewal](#do-a-destination-vow-renewal)\n\n## 9 Simple Vow Renewal Ideas\nHere is a list of simple, but special vow renewal ideas you can incorporate into your ceremony. \n\n### 1. Have a Ceremony at Home
\nOne of the simplest ways to celebrate your renewed love for one another is by holding a ceremony at home (also occasionally called an “at-home elopement”). Not only is it an intimate place to celebrate with your closest friends and family, but it’s also a great way to acknowledge the life you’ve built together as a couple. If you’ve got room for all your loved ones and a bit of green space for the vows ceremony, your home might be the perfect venue.\n\n### 2. Reread Your Original Vows
\nDon’t think that rereading your old [wedding vows]( https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-vows) is simply a way of avoiding writing new ones. Vows—like marriage—are meant to be a lifelong effort and commitment. By rereading your vows, you’re sending the message that you’re willing to make the same promises you made years ago, even if circumstances have changed. Is there anything more romantic than that? It also creates an inevitably sweet, sentimental moment that might trigger some tears.\n\n### 3. Celebrate With Your Children
\nIf the years between your wedding and vow renewal resulted in some little ones, then go ahead and find ways to include them in the big day. Maybe you mention them in the ceremony reading or let them serve as “hosts” for the event. You can even let one of your children perform as a makeshift officiant for an additional dose of charm. There are no rules, so have fun with it. \n\n### 4. Have a Potluck
\nIf you had an expensive wedding, no need to host a pricey vow renewal ceremony. Simply ask your friends and family to bring a favorite dish of theirs, and you can supply the beverages or desserts. This works especially well for at-home ceremonies and those in public spaces, like national parks or beaches. It might take a little bit of coordinating to make sure there’s something for everyone to eat, but it works for more casual celebrations and lets your guests feel like they contributed in some way.\n\n### 5. Go Simple With Attire
\nNo need to buy an extravagant gown or three-piece suit the second time around. Brides shouldn’t even feel the need to wear white if it doesn’t fit their style. Just go for something simple and elegant that works with your personalities, as well as the space you’re celebrating in. If you’re looking for something more formal, consider taking your wedding-day attire for a spin. Not only does it save some money, but it’s also a great way to honor your original wedding day.\n\n![Simple Vow Renewal Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1OHGj4DSxLbi6o3uxoEmYs/561bae65b5648a7440e9dc87e60dbaa2/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### 6. Rededicate Your Rings
\nThough ring exchanges aren’t required for a vow renewal ceremony, many couples choose to do something special with them to symbolize the next phase of their lives together. This can mean anything from having them blessed to getting them engraved with a sweet phrase or your vow renewal date. If you want to go all out, you can even purchase new rings to commemorate the occasion. (After all, if you’ve been married for a decade or more, it’s likely your tastes have changed.)\n\n### 7. Pick a Place With Meaning to Both of You
\n![Simple Vow Renewal Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2t1VuCDK7Rsi7OlBWnqb2Z/807a6dda70892cb51175425500b2281a/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\nThough couples are getting more and more creative with [wedding venues](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-venues), there are even fewer expectations when it comes to vow renewals. Maybe the restaurant where you got engaged has a great event space or your favorite coffee shop has an amazing underground roastery with lots of space. If you want to take a walk down memory lane, you could even choose to renew your vows at the original venue where you got married.\n\n### 8. Choose Your Invited Wisely
\nAs beautiful as print invitations are, they may not be right for a casual occasion. Consider opting for electronic invitations or even a simple email announcement that directs recipients toward a vow renewal website. You’re not only reducing the risk of invitations getting lost in the mail, but you’re also simultaneously keeping costs down. \n\nWith the abundance of options available these days it’s easy to make your digital invites feel both polished and personal. If you plan on going all out for your wedding renewal, choose [wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop) that are fit for the occasion. Remember,it’s up to the two of you as a couple to decide how you’ll want to celebrate this special day. \n\n### 9. Do a Destination Vow Renewal
\nAlways secretly dreamt of eloping despite having a large, traditional wedding? In that case, a destination vow renewal is a no-brainer. This could be anything from hosting an intimate ceremony on a beach in Tulum, Mexico to eloping on a sailboat in the South Pacific. Just note that if you’re planning a vow renewal in the near future, we highly suggest staying up-to-date on travel restrictions and observing the recommendations made by both the World Health Organization (WHO) and Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).\n\nNow that you know our top ideas for renewing marriage vows, it’s time to choose the perfect event for your special day. As long as love is the center of the event, we are sure you’ll have a beautiful and memorable vow renewal ceremony.\n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Don’t know how to decorate a space for a vow renewal? Our experts at Zola can help! Read on to discover more. 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","title":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas","slug":"20th-wedding-anniversary-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44xqsjrS9WDU3wnTp475xF/06153ab78d0d9f3131e8cbc547c9628d/Inline_unsplash__11_.png","altText":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"So it’s your wedding anniversary and you want to throw a get-together to celebrate? 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","publishedAt":"2022-05-03T19:35:03.098Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/69O8ZbFrxXeFF4Adfgo1U5/cbc24c72a99f1b4d1938f93499d7530f/woman-giving-partner-anniversary-letter.jpg","altText":"woman giving partner anniversary letter"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/","heroCaption":"woman giving partner anniversary letter","body":"The wedding might be over, but anniversaries are a significant [milestone](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/diy-photo-booth) in a couple’s relationship that deserve to be celebrated. With all the ups and downs life can bring, reaching another year of marriage is no small feat, which makes sending anniversary wishes that much more special. \n\nTraditionally, there’s no [etiquette](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/guest-at-wedding) rule requiring you to send anniversary wishes to another couple. This doesn’t apply to your own relationship, though—spouses should definitely acknowledge the special day! That said, if you’re looking to wish someone a happy anniversary but are unsure of how to put your wishes into words, our anniversary quotes offer plenty of ideas to get you started. \n\nWhether you’re writing to your own partner or celebrating close friends or parents, we’ve included something for everyone. (You might also consider an [anniversary gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas) while you’re at it!)\n\n__Table of Contents__\n- What to Include in an Anniversary Message\n- Simple Happy Anniversary Quotes\n- Anniversary Quotes for Instagram Captions\n- Thoughtful Anniversary Quotes\n- Romantic Anniversary Quotes\n- Funny Anniversary Quotes\n- One-Year Anniversary Quotes\n- Anniversary Quotes for Friends\n- Anniversary Quotes for Parents\n\n\n## What to Include in an Anniversary Message\nIf you’re scratching your head for [what to write](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-write-in-a-wedding-card) in your anniversary message, don’t fear! Your message doesn’t have to be complicated. Here are some helpful places to get started when deciding on what to include in your anniversary message—you’ll find writing your heartfelt note isn’t so hard! \n\n- Make a toast\n- Share a memory\n- Offer words of encouragement\n- Celebrate the milestone \n- Call out the beauty of a lasting relationship \n- Reflect on your love for your partner \n\n![the-best-anniversary-quotes-qualities](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5SKxJMuHNoqTGXRscBsLZF/e474dd9224a0413817840a59a1a92cca/the-best-anniversary-quotes-qualities.png)\n\n## Simple Happy Anniversary Quotes \nYou can say a lot with not many words—a simple “Happy Anniversary” paired with one of the anniversary quotes below is all you need for a heartwarming message. Use the following quotes for inspiration if you’re celebrating your own anniversary, or skip below to find quotes for friends and loved ones. \n\n1. You make celebrating our love feel easy. Happy anniversary! \n2. Today, tomorrow, and always—our love never ends. Happy anniversary!\n3. Cheers to another year with my better half. \n4. Time truly flies when I’m with you. Happy anniversary! \n5. Cheers to another 365 days together and the many more to come!\n6. Life with you just makes sense—here’s to another year together. \n7. Thanks for being the best partner I could’ve asked for. Happy anniversary!\n8. Another year together and I’m still finding new things I love about you.\n9. Choosing you was the best decision I ever made. \n10. Loved you last year, loved you yesterday, love you still and always will. \n11. Our love story is my favorite. Happy anniversary to us! \n12. Happy anniversary to my person—how did I get so lucky? \n13. Today reminds me of why I fell in love with you, and my love has only grown. Happy anniversary today and always.\n14. I’m grateful for our love every day, but especially today. Happy anniversary!\n15. All of me loves all of you. Happy anniversary to my favorite person! \n\n## Anniversary Quotes for Instagram Captions\nYour anniversary is a significant milestone, so it makes sense you’d want to share a thoughtful post on social media commemorating the occasion. If you’re looking to celebrate your love on the ‘gram, use the list below to help you find the perfect caption. \n\n16. A year later and you still give me butterflies. #1yearanniversary\n17. 525,600 minutes as a married couple. #happyanniversary\n18. One year down, a lifetime to go. #happyweddinganniversary\n19. Ready for another trip around the sun? #1yearanniversary\n20. Life with you just keeps getting better—swipe for a surprise! #anniversarypresent\n21. 365 days of smiles, laughs, and reminders to take the trash out. #loveyouforever \n\n![anniversary-quote-shania-twain](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/8H8fPNI6Fj1IRYd3MDpO5/1262c47cb2f42910cd6ba0c87f12ce22/anniversary-quote-shania-twain.png)\n\n22. “You’re still the one I run to, the one that I belong to. You’re still the one I want for life.” —Shania Twain, “You’re Still the One”\n23. I said yes to a life with you. \n24. I can’t wait to grow old with you. \n25. “When I look at you, I can feel it. I look at you, and I’m home.” —Dory, “Finding Nemo”\n\n## Thoughtful Anniversary Quotes\nSometimes, sharing from the heart is tough. Use these quotes to help put your feelings into words. \n\n26. Life with you just keeps on getting better. \n27. You’ll never stop being my happy place. \n28. Sleeping by your side means endless sweet dreams. \n29. Yesterday,today and always, I still choose you! \n30. I am yours, and you are mine. \n31. Your love truly makes life sweeter. \n32. I can’t imagine a single day without you by my side. \n33. My heart still skips a beat when I look at you. \n34. Rain or shine, you’ll always be mine. \n35. The love I hold for you continues to grow, today and always. \n36. To the one who stole my heart, thank you for loving me so well. \n37. Our love is a rare gift that I’ll never let go of. \n38. The love we share is magnetic, and you make life pure magic. \n39. Cheers to another year with my best friend and better half.\n40. Saying yes to you was the smartest move I ever made. \n41. You’re more beautiful to me with each passing year, and this year is no exception.\n42. I’m convinced I won the lottery with you.\n43. I didn’t think I could love you more than I already do, but this special day has proved me wrong. \n44. In a sea of people, I have eyes only for you. \n45. Happy anniversary to a beautiful person who has given me the most beautiful life.\n46. Forever isn’t long enough with you. \n47. With you by my side, life could never get better. \n48. You’ve given me so many reasons to smile this past year, but my smile couldn’t be any bigger on this special day. \n49. Another year together and I still get butterflies when I look at you. \n50. You make my life better in every way. Thanks for choosing me today and every day. \n51. You’re the only one I want to wake up next to, day after day, year after year. \n52. Happy anniversary to my soulmate—how did I get so lucky? \n53. Today our relationship is one year older, and the depth of our love just keeps growing deeper. \n54. I thought I knew what true love was until I met you. \n55. My only regret is that I can’t go back in time so I could’ve met you sooner. Happy anniversary to my one true love. \n\n## Romantic Anniversary Quotes\nIf you consider yourself a hopeless romantic, these quotes are for you. \n\n56. Of all the love stories that exist, ours will always be my favorite.\n57. Words can’t express my unending love for you, especially on a day like today. \n58. “So how does it happen, great love? Nobody knows…but what I can tell you is that it happens in the blink of an eye. One moment you’re enjoying your life, and the next you’re wondering how you ever lived without them.” —Hitch, “Hitch”\n59. “I would rather share one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone.” —Arwen, “Lord of the Rings”\n60. “The best love is the kind that awakens the soul, that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds.” —Noah, “The Notebook”\n61. Happy anniversary to the only person in the world that I want beside me every day and every night for the rest of my life.\n62. “If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.” —A. A. Milne, “Winnie the Pooh”\n\n![anniversary-quote-winnie-the-pooh](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6plI9QETkNu0ijaR0ZSJyL/a43385dbb4ec192de9df0796843a6839/anniversary-quote-winnie-the-pooh.png)\n\n63. When a love is true, there is no ending. I hope we get to celebrate for many years to come. Happy anniversary!\n64. I believe everything happens for a reason because it led me to you. I love you, happy anniversary.\n65. From sending you good night texts to wishing you good morning, everything seems sweeter since I met you. Happy anniversary.\n\n## Funny Anniversary Quotes\nIf some light wit and humor is more your style, these quotes are guaranteed to make your partner crack a smile. \n\n66. I sometimes wonder how you put up with me, but then I remember that I put up with you too, so we’ll call it even. \n67. Since we first met, I’ve only wanted the best for you—which is obviously me!\n68. A wedding band is the smallest handcuff ever made—lucky for me, I’ve got a pretty great cellmate. I love you!\n69. If two people love each other, nothing is impossible. Except for deciding where to eat. We still haven't figured that one out yet. \n70. Happy anniversary to my special someone—I look forward to annoying you for the rest of your life!\n71. I love you more than anything, even my favorite pasta—just please don’t make me prove it. Happy anniversary!\n72. Happy anniversary, babe. No refunds! \n73. I’m amazed at how long we’ve tolerated each other. Cheers to another year! \n74. Our relationship has taught me so much—like that 99% of being married is just yelling “WHAT?” from across the house. \n75. Holy crap. We’re still married? You’re still mine? In that case, happy anniversary!\n\n## One-Year Anniversary Quotes\nCelebrating your first anniversary calls for something unique and special. These quotes can help you commemorate the occasion. \n\n76. One year down, our entire lives to go. \n77. “If I had only one anniversary to celebrate, I would want it with you.” —Byron Pulsifer\n78. This day is beyond special, and the first of many more to come. \n79. 365 days later and I’m still head over heels for you!\n80. Only one year in and you’re making this whole marriage thing seem easy. I love you!\n81. I’ve learned love is not about how many days, months, or years we’ve been together—it’s about how much we love each other every single day. \n82. Better than I was, more than I am. And all this happened by taking your hand.\n83. \"All that you are is all that I'll ever need.\" —Ed Sheeran, “Tenerife Sea”\n84. “How sweet it is to be loved by you.” —Marvin Gaye, “How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved By You)”\n\n![anniversary-quote-how-sweet-it-is](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2cksKc3GjDWLl7xdciFJA9/4a6542fc7b33185d444adcb255c12014/anniversary-quote-how-sweet-it-is.png)\n\n85. One year ago today, our souls became one. We might not be [newlyweds](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/newlywed-game-questions) anymore, but our love is stronger than ever. \n86. Our first year of love has taught me more than I thought possible about what true love really is. Happy anniversary to my person!\n87. Today marks the first milestone of countless moments that are still to be had. Cheers to our first anniversary! \n88. Our first year together is in the books, and all I can hope for is 99 more. I love you!\n89. Our hearts united one year ago on this beautiful day, and I know our love will only grow deeper with time. Happy first anniversary!\n90. I’d be lying if I said this past year wasn’t one of the best of my life. You’re my everything, today and forever!\n\n## Anniversary Quotes for Friends\nWishing your friends a happy anniversary is a thoughtful gesture that you can keep fairly laid-back. These quotes are some of our favorites! \n\n91. Happy anniversary to my favorite lovebirds! \n92. You two are proof that true love really does exist. \n93. Happy anniversary to our favorite couple!\n94. This might go without saying, but you two were made for each other. Happy anniversary!\n95. Sending our love and best wishes to the happy couple. Happy anniversary!\n96. The best thing to hold onto in life is each other, and you two do it beautifully.\n97. Wishing you both a long and wonderful life together on this special day!\n98. Cheers to you two and your endless love story. I can’t wait to see your relationship continue to grow.\n99. Thank you for being an example of true love and commitment. Happy anniversary!\n100. Nobody’s perfect, but together, you two are pretty close. \n\n## Anniversary Quotes for Parents\nAfter years of navigating the ups and downs of marriage, parents are often a beautiful example of lasting love. Sending them thoughtful anniversary wishes won’t go unnoticed—use these quotes to write the perfect note! \n\n101. Happy anniversary to the parents who never stop inspiring me. Best wishes on this special day!\n102. The only thing better than having you for parents is my children having you for grandparents. Happy anniversary, Mom and Dad! \n103. Watching you two grow closer with each passing year is more of a gift than you realize. Happy anniversary!\n104. Congratulations on another year of togetherness. You two melt my heart!\n105. Happy anniversary to my dear parents, who have shown us kids that “happily ever after” really can come true. \n106. All these years together and you two still represent what a loving, blissful marriage looks like. I love you, happy anniversary!\n107. The bond you share never fails to remind me of the power of true love. Happy anniversary!\n108. May your love overflow today as much as it did when you two first met. Happy anniversary! \n109. Thank you for never giving up on each other through all of life’s challenges. I’m sure us kids had nothing to do with those challenges. Happy anniversary!\n110. “You are the parents that all kids hope to have, you are the couple that all lovers hope to be, and you both are the pillars of support that every family wishes it had. Happy anniversary to the best parents ever.” —Anonymous\n\nWhether you’re wishing your closest friends a happy anniversary or celebrating your own with your partner, a thoughtful message can go a long way. Funny and witty or romantic and serious, there’s no wrong answer for the message you choose, so long as it comes from the heart. Cheers to love! \n","tag":"Newlywed Advice","updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:49:57.243Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"20th-wedding-anniversary-ideas","title":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas","excerpt":"Check out our latest blog for fun and creative 20th-anniversary ideas! Read our blog for more inspiration. ","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T21:35:42.612Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44xqsjrS9WDU3wnTp475xF/06153ab78d0d9f3131e8cbc547c9628d/Inline_unsplash__11_.png","altText":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"How does one celebrate 20 grand years of marriage? Seems like a distant feat when you first wed, but then it comes along and you wonder where the years went. Your 20th wedding anniversary is the time to celebrate all the love and dedication to each other that has seen you both through the ebbs and flows of life together. \n\nTraditionally this anniversary is symbolized by gifts of porcelain or china, which signifies beauty and strength, but the modern marker for two decades of marriage is platinum—equally elegant and enduring. The associated colors for the occasion are emerald green and white, making the recommended gemstone—what else?—an emerald. \n\nThere are so many great ideas for presents and experiences related to these themes, so let’s take a look at a few 20th wedding anniversary ideas to make this a memorable moment. \n\n### Keep It Traditional\n\nGo totally traditional with a themed tea set for those late afternoon teas you’ll both enjoy in each other’s company or even a full-fledged dinner set for formal family dinners and other grand parties at home. \n\nSpeaking of home, china vases and picture frames, antique porcelain gift boxes, or sculptures and figurines to commemorate the occasion are all great 20th anniversary ideas. \n\nThat romantic picnic basket with all porcelain dinnerware for two is a great gift for the couple who already has everything for the home. \n\nIf you have a Chinatown neighborhood in your city, then the occasion calls for a date night out revisiting cherished spots you’ve been frequenting as a couple or new ones on your list you’ve always been planning to explore. \n\nOf course, if travel is on your mind, then that trip to China might be the perfect grand gift to celebrate your 20th anniversary. Use a china doll holding the tickets to announce the surprise getaway or some of the surprise experiences you’ve booked for your getaway. \n\n![20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2sLrSZn8iq9qVZSnNoFnm6/8ec12ad2095cbf3d2e67cf811e17375e/Inline_unsplash__10_.png)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Go Modern\n\nPlatinum jewelry is a subtle and sophisticated style alternative to other metal jewelry, so a sleek custom piece from a celebrated local designer will please your spouse. \n\nFor music lovers, an album from the year you were married or when your kids were born is a coveted gift that your special someone will absolutely adore. Other options include music from a favorite artist, orchestra, or a special performance that holds fond memories for them. \n\nIf your spouse has an affinity for a certain brand, get them to platinum status with that company’s loyalty program or credit card. Every time they’re able to use the perks and benefits, they’ll remember your thoughtfulness for their preferences. \n\nPlatinum watches from a brand known for its luxury watchmaking is a great addition to your wardrobe and a statement piece to wear to events. Plus, it’s a 20-year anniversary idea that your husband or wife will always remember. If you’ve been eyeing one that’s tailor-made for couples, then your 20th wedding anniversary presents a timely reason to invest in one.\n\nPlatinum accessories and decor, especially arranged as a surprise in personal spaces such as the family room, bedroom, otr private study area, are grand ways to show your significant other you’ve indulged in some thought in choosing their presents for the day. \n\n### Bring It Together With Green and White\n\nIf you’re celebrating with friends and family, emerald green and white table and home decorations make a lovely combination for party decor. Carry it through with balloons and streamers, and also for the special celebration cake. \n\nPack an at-home spa retreat gift basket filled with self-care products like bath bombs, comfort food, fragrant candles, and even a special cocktail kit for an anniversary celebration. \n\nOr, you could head out for a spa getaway to a destination with emerald in the name, such as Emerald Lakes in California, the Emerald Coast of Florida, or Emerald Isle in North Carolina. \n\nFor tech enthusiasts, accessories, whether wireless speakers or watch straps, in these colors make for an outstanding—and very useful—gift. \n\nHead down memory lane with a hardcover photo album or memory book in emerald green with white inserts filled with photos, show tickets, and other little events in your life you’re nostalgic for. Remember to leave plenty of space for the future you will spend together as a married couple. \n\nNo matter the manner you choose to mark your 20th wedding anniversary, it is a precious moment to behold as you plan for the next 20 years ahead. Make it a memorable one.","tag":"Inspiration","nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Looking to get your guests laughing at your wedding renewal? 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","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-21T22:08:22.188Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/71YdJTv52AEpRdgm5Ayc3j/11d15cb790fc12bad52d3029c43486b8/Inline_Samantha_Rice_Photography.png","altText":"Vow Renewal on a Budget"},"heroCredit":"Samantha Rice Photography","body":"When it comes to holding a budget vow renewal, many of the same tips and tricks apply that would with a wedding. Narrowing down your guest list, cutting back on [wedding stationery](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/paper), and tackling some small DIY projects are often the most common pieces of advice. However, vow renewals come with a very different set of expectations than weddings, so there’s a lot of room for creativity.\n\nIf you’ve got a vision for a beautiful event, but are struggling to find ways to cut costs, below are some of our top pieces of advice on how to plan a vow renewal on a budget.\n\n## Don’t Treat It like a Second Wedding\n![Zola - How to Have a Budget Vow Renewal](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4XtYMtRZJFoHGVxdAqWQSu/3c7531f540c32c64fad53539e324f507/Inline_Laura_Hollander_Photography__1_.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Laura Hollander Photography\n\nFor one primary reason: it isn’t one. This doesn’t mean that it’s any less special or less memorable–it simply means that it’s an entirely different celebration and should be treated as such. The word “wedding” is immediately associated with higher costs, so be clear about the purpose of your celebration from the get-go. There’s also less expectation surrounding wedding vow renewals, which gives you the opportunity to really do it your way–including keeping it cost-friendly.\n\nWhen planning a renewal ceremony, keep in the back of your mind what would make the day most special to you and your partner. If you want to spend the money to hold the ceremony at a distillery, but DIY everything else, then go for it. Embrace the sense of freedom that you might not have experienced the first time around.\n\n## Source Locally\nThis is one of the easiest ways to save money. Not only are local vendors more sustainable, but they’re also less likely to charge you an arm and a leg for details such as delivery fees when putting together a vow renewal celebration. If you look for florists and rental companies that are hyperlocal, chances are that they’re not only going to be less expensive, but they’re going to be more flexible than those located elsewhere.\n\nHowever, keep in mind that the more remote your [wedding venue](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-venues), the more money you’re likely to spend on vendors. If you’re planning an island vow renewal, for example, delivery costs are likely to be high, and local vendors might hike their prices if they’re the only option on the island. If you live in a tiny town or don’t have a lot of vendors and creatives in your area, Etsy is a great alternative for sourcing things such as [wedding decor](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/decorations) and accessories, while allowing you to still support small businesses.\n\n## Make It a Potluck\nThe argument against potlucks for weddings may still exist, but this isn’t a wedding, is it? If you’d prefer to get a food truck or do something a little bit more traditional, that’s always an option. But, inviting your guests to bring their favorite dish and indulge potluck-style is one of the easiest ways to bring costs down. Just make sure that you’re clear with everyone about expectations and have a system or spreadsheet to track what everyone is planning to bring. This is also something that you can assign out to a friend and/or family member to take care of so that you can keep stress levels low.\n\n## Keep It Intimate\nAs one of the most common recommendations in the book, there is nothing more cost-friendly than choosing an intimate affair over a massive celebration. Aside from the obvious savings, there are additional benefits to keeping your numbers down, including the natural rise in the cost per-person. Even on a budget, a smaller party means that you’re able to spend more money on each attendee, and it allows for some creative ideas, including fun favors and more elaborate place settings for your vow renewal celebration.\n\n## Host It at Home\nThere is unlikely to be a venue that is as budget-friendly as your own home (and no better way to commemorate the life that you’ve built together as a married couple). Just make sure that you’re realistic about the attendee capacity and the amount of work that it would require. If your house doesn’t have a backyard, or is too quaint for the event size that you’re imagining, then take the party to a public park. Whatever you choose to do, just make sure that you’re adhering to COVID-19 social distancing guidelines in your area and plan accordingly.\n\n## Avoid Rentals Altogether\nIf you’re planning a hefty-sized get-together, this can be a tough one, but for those organizing more intimate gatherings, avoiding rentals isn’t totally out of the question. If you’re hosting the vow renewal at home, the many pieces of furniture and décor that you have sitting around the house can be great alternatives to rentals. Mirrors, rugs, ottomans, candlesticks, and glassware are all common pieces that are easy to repurpose. Just ask your guests to each bring a lawn chair and you’ve got your bases covered.\n\n## Consider DIYing Some Elements\n![Zola - How to Have a Budget Vow Renewal](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/71YdJTv52AEpRdgm5Ayc3j/11d15cb790fc12bad52d3029c43486b8/Inline_Samantha_Rice_Photography.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Samantha Rice Photography\n\nInvitations, florals, and décor alone can easily cost a couple thousand dollars. Make sure that you prioritize what’s most important for you to have done professionally and what might be a fun project leading up to the big day. This also goes for your loved ones who you know are willing to lend a hand. If you’ve got a friend with a talent for creating bouquets, or a relative who’s adopted calligraphy as their quarantine hobby, don’t be afraid to ask them for help.\n\n## Purchase, Instead of Rent\nDespite the obvious, it can actually be much cheaper to purchase items such as table linens and table décor instead of renting them for your vow renewal celebration. Just make sure that you’re actually going to use them again or have somewhere to re-sell them so that they don’t go to waste. Décor items such as rugs, candlesticks, and runners are all popular picks to reuse down the road. You can even repurpose décor and florals as gifts to your attendees or loved ones who helped you coordinate the big day.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Feeling stuck when it comes to how to write your renewal vows? We can help. 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","title":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas","slug":"simple-vow-renewal-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4PZSW1hObQ6TnM557egpbG/3ee842eade872a59be2ffc64a370f857/inline_unsplash__19___1_.jpg","altText":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Feeling stuck when it comes to how to write your renewal vows? We can help. 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Discover our top suggestions for funny renewal wedding vows here.","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T19:00:39.172Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/14SsQ3X0p4jSgW70Ku7hSo/0059254211a299da64d6c8c31ad123ed/inline_unsplash__21___1_.jpg","altText":"Funny Renewal Wedding Vows"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Vows are one of the original (and most meaningful) ways to highlight what you value most in your relationship. For many, having a husband or wife with a sense of humor is one of the secrets to an everlasting union. So why not embrace that the second time around at your wedding vow renewal ceremony?\n\nWhether you’re a comedian at heart or simply looking to entertain your guests, writing funny renewal wedding vows is a great way to commemorate your marriage thus far. Below are a few tips to help you embrace your lighthearted side and generate some laughs along the way at your vow renewal ceremony.\n\n### Pull Ideas From Your Original Wedding Vows\nWhether it’s a promise that one of you took a little too seriously (“cleaning more doesn’t mean vacuuming in the middle of the night”) or one that took on a whole new meaning (“who knew finding more shared hobbies would lead to entering an underwater hockey tournament?”), your original wedding vows are a great place to look for inspiration. This is especially effective if most of your guests are people who attended your wedding and heard your original wedding vows.\n\n### Reflect on Old Memories (Including the Wedding Day) \nFunny stories from when you first started dating your husband or wife always make great stories, because they’re full of humor and authenticity. The same goes for your wedding day. Chances are not everything went exactly as planned, so cracking jokes about what went wrong is a great way to lighten the mood and demonstrate that what you value most is the relationship itself.\n\n### Make Sure You’re on the Same Page as Your Partner\n\n![Funny Renewal Wedding Vows](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/63t5ZeVyOxxUQ24xMYA8E6/a7463efe34cac2f66861878708474639/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\nFunny vows are great, but if your partner is taking a more serious route, the unexpected humor can be a bit jarring at your renewal ceremony. If your partner is more of the sentimental or romantic type, make sure you let them know what route you’re going to take in advance of your vow renewal. If you’re both wannabe comedians and goofiness is your fallback, then you’re probably already on the right track. Just remember that your vows set the tone for the rest of the day, so you want them to feel authentic to you as a couple.\n\n### Mention Mistakes (and Make It Witty)\nWe’ve all failed in our relationships in one way or another. If addressed as a problem, it can be sad or frustrating, but if told in the form of a humorous recollection, it comes off more relatable. Maybe your initiative to cook more led to an adventure with the local fire station. Or, maybe your partner’s attempt to plan a surprise date failed when you wound up at the wrong restaurant. Even moments that may not have seemed funny at the time make some of the best memories and hilarious stories to share with your loved ones.\n\n### Be Self-Deprecating \nIf it’s in your repertoire, don’t be afraid to make fun of yourself. For example, maybe you vowed to make an effort to plan more vacations and your first attempt was a weekend camping trip that ended in disaster. It’s often easy to find lighthearted ways to pick on your partner, but highlighting your own mistakes is a great way to balance the humor and remind your SO that you know you’re not perfect either.\n\n### Include Something Serious or Sentimental \n\n![Funny Renewal Wedding Vows](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3G4JV49sJwIHyUHfrEtzFc/69d62539f97e40ae849ca3435b362939/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\nThough it doesn’t need to be the primary focus, it’s always nice to circle back to why you’re both standing there and how far you’ve come from your initial wedding day. Maybe your partner’s lighthearted (and sometimes childish) nature is what you love most about them. Or, maybe you acknowledge that humor is one of the greatest bonds the two of you have. No matter the focus, a brief moment of sincerity can go a long way.\n\n### Remember: There Aren’t Any Rules.\nJust like with your original [wedding vows](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-vows) (and [wedding planning](https://www.zola.com/) in general), there really are no rules. If you want to write a funny interpretation of a Shakespeare sonnet or create your own poem, go right ahead. If you’d prefer to keep things sentimental with a touch of humor here and there, that works too. If you do what feels right to you, your partner is sure to appreciate the thought behind it.\n\n### Sample Wording to Consider for Your Funny Vows:\n\n“*Ten years ago, I vowed to help you cook more dinners. That might have led to a lot of burnt pizza and the incessant sound of fire alarms, but here we are… and I’m still trying*.”\n\n“*To this day, our wedding remains one of the greatest days of my life. 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While your love for your partner may feel as strong as ever post-nuptials, marriages take effort and a continual choice to honor your vows daily. Make no mistake, this is no easy feat. That’s why there’s no shame in seeking out relationship advice that could aid in keeping your union as strong and healthy as ever.\n\nWe rounded up the [best advice for marriage](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/relationship-advice) from therapists and couples whose love has stood the test of time. See our 20 top marriage advice tips below.\n\n## 1. Marriage is work\n\nYou must be willing to put in the work. “You have to know that love is more than an emotion,” notes Mary Kay Cocharo, licensed marriage and family therapist. Being in a relationship, especially a marriage, needs more than your fondness for one another to last. “People fall in love, so they decide they should be partners and get married,” she says. “And while love is great and propels you into that commitment, it’s just the beginning. It’s not enough. A really good partnership takes commitment and kindness and generosity, and it requires tools like good communication.”\n\n![The 3 Best Pieces of Marriage Advice, According to a Marriage Therapist](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/21YPS00yipioc55eyxZxfr/bba0aaf048616219ca213681145abbc9/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## 2. Listen more\n\nWithout a doubt, every healthy marriage will hit a rough spot, be it internal or external. When that happens, your love for each other will be the thing that makes you want to get through it, but it can’t do all the heavy lifting alone. That’s when you have to be able to have productive conversations, understand your partner’s perspective, and decide how to move forward.\n\n## 3. The honeymoon will end\n\n“When couples get married, those early hormones and chemicals that happen towards the beginning of a relationship—the ones that launch us into commitment—start to wear off. Neuroscientists tell us this happens after about two years,” Cocharo explains. What she’s referring to is a study done by a team from the University of Pisa in Italy. They found that the bodily chemistry that makes people sexually attracted to a new partner lasts, at most, for two years. “They wear off, and now you’re looking at [your partner] and realize, oh, we have differences.”\n\nExpecting this and knowing it’s inevitable (and completely normal) softens the initial blow tremendously. If you recognize this before it happens, you can even work to make sure you have the tools to get through future married life difficulties.\n\n## 4. Use the right tools\n\nLearn and use relationship tools like good communication, healthy boundaries, and actively showing your partner love. These marriage work tools heavily aid in resolving disagreements and getting through those inevitable tough times. “Sometimes couples will hit something difficult and use that to mean they’ve chosen the wrong person or that it’s over. That’s just not true,” Cocharo says.\n\n“It’s hard, and sometimes you don’t have the proper tools. Maybe you didn’t grow up in a situation that taught you about love and respect or being a married partner. In that case, you just need to get the help. You don’t just give up.”\n\nNot sure where to get the tools? Consult a marriage therapist. There are also tons of helpful books, workbooks, workshops, and even phone apps (try [Love Nudge](https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.grootersproductions.challenge&hl=en)) you can use to do couples’ exercises and prompt conversations with your partner. So long as you’re willing to seek out help (and you have an internet connection), you have the ability to learn and use the tools that will take your marriage the distance.\n\n## 5. Take care of yourself\n\nAn often overlooked key part of having a successful marriage is taking care of yourself. “When some people get married, they think it’s their partner’s job to take care of them. In reality, everyone is busy and has a lot on their plate—you really do need to put on your own oxygen mask first,” says Cocharo. This isn’t to say that you can’t lean on your partner and vice-versa, but rather that when you get married, you should continue to treat your well-being and self-care as a priority. Don’t expect that responsibility to be handed off to your loved one. Making time for self care assures you’re happy and healthy and lets you bring your best self to the relationship.\n\n“Make sure you’re doing the things that make you a happy, healthy, whole person. Simple things like eating right, exercising, and getting out in nature. Maybe praying or meditating, reading, or whatever calms you down. Also, going to see friends and visiting family,” Cocharo suggests.\n\n## 6. Marriage is 60/40\n\nSome people say marriage is 50/50, but that’s really hard to measure, and it often ends up with both partners feeling shorted. With the [60/40 relationship rule](https://psychiatristsnyc.com/blog/want-a-successful-relationship-practice-this-one-rule/), a marriage is uneven, with both partners feeling like they’re giving 60%. When you put in 60%, “you’re giving your partner love on their terms,” says Mt. Sinai psychiatrist and relationship expert Amanda Itzkoff. “When both partners focus on giving 60% and taking just 40%, the relationship has an overwhelming chance of being successful.”\n\n![Stocksy txp05f31680VSp300 Large 4393583](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/M61DW5GeWvu5fk28aEm4F/6ff9b06201a5df87012dcbd2edecf6bd/Stocksy_txp05f31680VSp300_Large_4393583.jpg)\n\n## 7. Lose the battle, win the war\n\nYou might feel like you *have to get them to mow the lawn today, or if you pay for that new kitchen, you won’t save enough this year*. Go ahead and lose those smaller battles now to build a healthier marriage. As Benjamin Franklin famously said, “If you argue and rankle and contradict, you may achieve a victory sometimes, but it will be an empty victory because you will never get your opponent’s good will.”\n\n## 8. Start counseling before you need it\n\nWaiting until there’s a problem before you start marriage therapy is like waiting to get teeth pulled instead of flossing every night. According to Marriage.com, the [best time to start couple’s therapy](https://www.marriage.com/advice/pre-marriage/when-to-start-pre-marital-counseling/) is as soon as possible, and preferably before you’re married. Think of marriage counseling like coaching, not a sign that something is broken. Choose a good coach, and use it as an opportunity to work on and change yourself—not your partner.\n\n## 9. Listen to audiobooks\n\nOne chief cause of marital stress is endlessly replaying arguments after they have ended. After an argument, the tendency is to stew about it and try to make sense of it. While working to understand is healthy, it can put your emotions on perpetual simmer. Listening to an audiobook while you mow the lawn or do the dishes can keep you from stewing, give your feelings time to reset, and even show you good ideas that can help you strengthen your relationship. Get an Audible subscription or a free app from your local library.\n\n## 10. Eat first, fight later\n\nThis piece of marriage advice is so simple it’s easy to overlook it. Before you talk to your spouse, have a meal or at least a snack. [Eating a meal increases agreeableness](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25770700/) (so your partner is more likely to see your point of view) and reduces dominance and submissiveness (so you’re less likely to be overbearing or give in too easily). Feel a fight coming on? Take a snack break.\n\n## 11. Give grace\n\nSpoiler alert: Your spouse isn’t going to do everything right. In fact, they’ll often do things very wrong. If you keep a tally of every way they’ve let you down, you may win on points, but your relationship will lose. Grace is saying, “You did wrong, but I forgive you, and I love you anyway.” Give your partner a clean slate every day (and every hour). And while you’re at it, give some of that forgiveness to yourself.\n\n![The 3 Best Pieces of Marriage Advice, According to a Marriage Therapist](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1HJfLa2CMijLEdHHEsEu1S/a4c519b7964854f6d9dc505d26ea971a/inline_unsplash.jpg)*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## 12. Don’t assume\n\nOur brains are good at filling in the blanks. The problem is it’s easy to fill in someone else’s thoughts. That’s why talking without judging, arguing, or adding your opinions is so healthy for relationships. When you let your partner talk, you won’t have to fill in any blanks. You’ll know. Sound easy? It’s not. Active listening is a skill you’ll have to learn, like playing the piano or shooting jump shots. You can start with Kate Murphy’s eye-opening book, *[You’re Not Listening](https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Listening-Missing-Matters/dp/1250779871/ref=asc_df_1250779871/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=507975958237&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=4121891810911394376&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9009250&hvtargid=pla-927127602652&psc=1&mcid=8b3bcf03afe0323998a173033f904849&gclid=CjwKCAiAs6-sBhBmEiwA1Nl8s6BMtsMauL9PKTvLkL8cIwriOgAOodo2CRdL2l8b-3Dri_GbvanGvhoCsssQAvD_BwE)*.\n\n## 13. Learn to fight\n\nPrediction: you will fight. But—you can fight in a way that weakens your relationship or strengthens it. The secret here is that nobody is born knowing how to fight the right way. And though there’s plenty of great advice online (be respectful, take a break if things get heated, use active listening), they’re easier said than done. So, consider taking a class on how to fight. Some marriage counselors and churches offer fighting classes for couples, and the online [Couples Fight School](https://masteringconflict.com/couples-fight-school/) can be a fun, rewarding experience for both of you.\n\n## 14. Learn to apologize\n\nWe all know we should eat humble pie from time to time, but did you know there’s a right way and a wrong way? The key is to accept full responsibility (no buts), then take your lumps. Expect your partner to unload on you after you say you’re sorry and accept it with more listening. Then, be willing to make it right, give in, and give up something you thought you really wanted. (What’s more important, winning the argument or your marriage?)\n\n## 15. Be a team\n\nYou’re in this together. While this may sound like cliche marriage advice, the key point is to see problems as both of you vs the problem, not both of you against each other. Don’t blame each other. For a little inspiration, see this *Atlantic* article: [Marriage Is a Team Sport](https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2022/11/how-collaboration-can-improve-marriage-relationships/672048/).\n\n## 16. Spend now or spend later\n\nIs it too expensive to take your spouse out to eat once a week? Is time precious to you? You may want to spend time or money on things that set you up for a good life later, but what good will it do you if there’s nobody there to share it with? Spend a big chunk of your time and money on your spouse now, even if it’s not the smartest play for your career or finances. If you don’t, you may spend it later in divorce proceedings and custody arrangements.\n\n![newly engaged couple in debt](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7GFbYLisIT4eBAT2WM3y31/247792361f0df7f70e34e6d542dffcb1/HERO_Unsplash_1080x720__6_.jpg)\n\n## 17. Love is a decision, not a feeling\n\nIf you don’t feel loved, you may mistakenly conclude your marriage is a failure. And while [most couples](https://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/64-percent-of-americans-say-theyre-happy-in-their-relationships-300595502.html) report being happy with their marriages, there will undoubtedly be times you don’t feel loved at all. When that happens, take comfort in knowing that [love is more of a choice](https://psychcentral.com/relationships/love-is-a-choice-more-than-a-feeling) than a feeling. To choose from the heart, read the Amazon bestseller *[Love Is a Decision](https://www.amazon.com/Love-Decision-Gary-Smalley/dp/0849942683)* by marriage counselor Gary Smalley.\n\n## 18. Let them grow\n\n“You’re not the woman I married.” Surprise—she won’t be. In fact, 90% of adults will change at *least* one major personality trait in the next few years. So, if your marriage lasts 50 years, you might end up married to a completely different person from the one you said “I do” to. The gold nugget of marriage advice here is to accept that from the start. Instead of resisting change, expect it, celebrate it, and accept it.\n\n## 19. Just show up\n\nYou don’t have to have an opinion on every issue or a solution to every problem. You don’t even need to say something every time there’s a lull in the conversation. Sometimes, just your presence can show you’re there for your partner, and that can win their goodwill. That’s a lot better than looking like you have all the answers.\n\n## 20. You can’t fix them, so don’t\n\nYour partner is going to have flaws, and some of them will be big. You can encourage and support them, but you can’t repair their damage. While this can be a hard pill to swallow, you married them, not the person they could be. You can help that medicine go down by acknowledging your own flaws and spending some time reflecting on their strengths. Accept and honor who they are, [along with your differences](https://www.stanfordcouplescounseling.com/rebuilding-emotional-safety-strengthening-your-relationship-by-accepting-your-partners-differences-part-3/).\n\nAlthough we here at Zola concentrate on wedding planning, we also realize that your celebration is a small part of your lifetime together. While you’re [choosing flowers](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-most-popular-wedding-flowers), arranging the [ceremony](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-the-wedding-ceremony-order-of-events), and planning the [honeymoon](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/best-honeymoon-destinations), don’t forget that your wedding is the start of a lifetime together. We want to give you the best start you can have—from the planning stages of your engagement to the start of a beautiful life partnership. 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