Relationship advice

Anniversaries

Your guide to celebrating wedding anniversaries! From anniversary gifts by year to celebrating with a vow renewal ceremony, find all the advice and inspiration you need to make every anniversary super special.

AllDatingNewly engaged couplesNewlywed couplesAnniversaries
35 Wedding Anniversary Ideas
Relationship advice

35 Unique 35th Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas

Check out our latest blog to discover our top 35th wedding anniversary ideas. Read our blog for more.

45th Wedding Anniversary Gift
Relationship advice

45th Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas

Looking for unique 45th wedding anniversary gifts? Check out our latest blog for our favorite gift ideas!

15th Wedding Anniversary Ideas
Relationship advice

15th Wedding Anniversary Ideas

In need of a few 15th-anniversary ideas? Our experts are here for you. Read on for our top tips and advice.

bride and groom celebrate wedding day outside
Relationship advice

First Year Anniversary Gifts That Make Paper Feel Special

Traditionally, first year anniversary gifts fall into the paper theme. Make paper feel special and valuable with our picks for the best paper first year anniversary gifts.

Catholic Vow Renewal
Relationship advice

How to Plan a Catholic Vow Renewal

Planning on doing a Catholic vow renewal to celebrate your marriage? Read on for our top tips and advice.

Vow Renewal Ceremony Decorations
Relationship advice

How to Decorate for a Vow Renewal Ceremony

Don’t know how to decorate a space for a vow renewal? Our experts at Zola can help! Read on to discover more.

Find even more wedding ideas, inspo, tips, and tricks

We’ve got wedding planning advice on everything from save the dates to wedding cakes.

\n
Web Accessibility
\n \n\n\n\n\n\n\n \n ","subtopicPage":{"articles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"35th-wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-that-put-new-spins-on-coral-and-jade","title":"35 Unique 35th Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas","excerpt":"Check out our latest blog to discover our top 35th wedding anniversary ideas. Read our blog for more. ","author":"Taylor Bryant","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T20:58:08.897Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2rTlkpD9oaAPmb4dOEcKwz/e7500024365df97d78c5338f33be872f/inline_unsplash__25_.jpg","altText":"35 Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Ah, the 35th wedding anniversary. At this point, you’ve probably cycled through all of the “typical” milestone gifts such as jewelry (gold and sterling silver!), headphones, or framed pictures of each other. After three and a half decades of present exchanges, picking up with special anniversary gift ideas l might be a bit more difficult. Well, one easy way of avoiding the obvious is sticking to the traditional themes. \n\n## Jade: A Modern 35th Anniversary Wedding Gift\nIf traditional isn’t your style and you want to go with a more modern gift, try green jade, a gemstone known for its distinct and stunning green color. Jade represents good luck, good fortune, wealth, and wisdom, and is revered in many cultures around the world—and jade anniversary gifts are thought to bring that same luck, fortune, wealth, and wisdom to the couple celebrating 35 years of marriage.\n\n## Coral: A Traditional 35th Anniversary Wedding Gift\n\nThe thirty-five year anniversary is known as the coral gift year. The actual material, known as “the garden of the sea,” is found on the ocean floor and comes in a range of colors, the most noted being a salmon pink shade. It’s regarded as being an item of peace and transformation, and, back in the day, was believed to hold magical powers. If we’re looking for a symbolic link, coral often takes a long time to form and fully develop, much like a successful union—which is why this traditional gift is the perfect way to commemorate a long, happy marriage. \n\n## Jade: A Modern 35th Anniversary Wedding Gift\nIf traditional isn’t your style and you want to go with a more modern gift, try green jade, a gemstone known for its distinct and stunning green color. Jade represents good luck, good fortune, wealth, and wisdom, and is revered in many cultures around the world—and jade anniversary gifts are thought to bring that same luck, fortune, wealth, and wisdom to the couple celebrating 35 years of marriage.\n\n## 35th Anniversary Gift Ideas\nYou can, and should, use these two themes as jumping-off points, and we’ve also gathered up some 35th wedding anniversary ideas below. If you’re looking for the perfect gift idea for your 35th anniversary, we can help. From romantic dinner cruises to elegant jade golf tees, discover our top 35th wedding anniversary ideas (including coral anniversary gifts and jade anniversary gifts!) with this informative gift guide.\n\n### 1. [Plant Subscription](https://www.thesill.com/collections/plant-subscription) The Sill, Various Prices\nPlants are a great way of livening up any space, and jade ones, in particular, are of the succulent variety, which means that they hold water in their leaves. So, green thumb or not, they should be fairly easy to take care of. If you’re looking for unique 35th anniversary ideas, a plant subscription can be the best call. Start by presenting your partner with the initial jade plant, but make sure to mention that there will be a new one arriving every month to care for and cherish. Your collection of plants will grow just as your love has over the years.\n\n![inline unsplash (26)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4LFVwAOUUwGK2fziNM4v3b/dd99eb5d2f9a85a2ca28c9d2b3f04c0a/inline_unsplash__26_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### 2. [Coral Makeup Set](https://www.charlottetilbury.com/us/product/pillow-talk-makeup-secrets), Charlotte Tilbury, $128\nThe color coral is one of the more universally flattering shades out there. It pairs nicely with almost every skin tone and gives wearers a nice, authentic glow. A makeup set that includes a blush, eyeshadow, and lipstick is a perfect triple whammy if you’re looking for a coral anniversary gift.\n\n### 3. Trip to an Aquarium, Various Prices\nFor a chance to see some coral up close and personal without having to get wet, plan a fun trip to the aquarium (you’re never too old to watch penguins and otters socialize, trust us). Honestly, the coral will probably be the least exciting part of the day, and, if you don’t feel too guilty afterward, end with a romantic seafood dinner to celebrate your 35 year wedding anniversary.\n\n### 4. [Dinner Cruise](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cloud9_dinnercruise_ny), Zola, $389 per couple\nIf you live in New York—and you’re looking to get a little more intimate with the water (home of the coral!)—a dinner cruise with views of the Statue of Liberty, Empire State Building, and the Brooklyn Bridge is guaranteed to be a good time. \n\n### 5. [Wood and Jade Ring](https://www.etsy.com/listing/639612989/wood-ring-jade-bentwood-fumed-eucalyptus?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=mens%20jade%20ring&ref=sc_gallery-1-1&plkey=77774a9b57137edffa4ecfd0cd25a918339a92b6:639612989&frs=1&source=aw&utm_source=affiliate_window&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=us_location_buyer&utm_term=3657&utm_content=565019&awc=6220_1595609528_fef382ae6d1fb9a480247851e2fa6ce6), Etsy, $175\nA nostalgic nod to your fifth wedding anniversary, this handmade wooden band comes with a stunning jade inlay that’s both timeless and durable.\n\n### 6. [Coral Rose Box](https://saayarose.com/products/36-rose-box-classic?_pos=2&_sid=d19189014&_ss=r), SAAYA ROSE, $179\nFlowers are always a safe bet for an anniversary gift, but the problem lies in the fact that they start dying after a week or two. Eco-friendly, preserved roses (including coral shades!) last 365 days and will keep your house smelling fresh into your 36th year of matrimony. \n\n### 7. [Jade Golf Tees](https://saayarose.com/products/36-rose-box-classic?_pos=2&_sid=d19189014&_ss=r), Amazon, $23.98\nTee-off in style with a jade golf tee. Your partner’s golf buddies will be hiding their regular white tees in shame. Just like your partnership, the gemstone itself is one of the toughest.\n\n### 8. [Topgolf Gift Card](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/topgolf_topgolf_100_gift_card), Topgolf, Various Prices\nLooking for 35th anniversary ideas that involve your spouse’s favorite hobby? For a chance to really show off your new regal tees, book a couple of outings—either with your spouse, a group of friends, or another couple—to Topgolf for some friendly competition. (Bonus points if you wear coral and/or jade golf shirts!)\n\n### 9. [Rosette Jewelry Tray](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1129680815/rosette-tray-in-blue-gray-and-light?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+jewelry+dish&ref=sc_gallery-1-7&listing_id=1129680815&listing_slug=rosette-tray-in-blue-gray-and-light&plkey=2747c833c5c49e0ffa7cac57858a05c95eef4f9d%3A1129680815), Etsy, $65\nIf your partner needs a place to put their jewelry at the end of the day (perhaps a previous anniversary ring or other jewelry gift?), this unique jewelry tray—complete with coral rosettes—would make for a fantastic 35th anniversary gift (and provide your vanity with a little pop of color in the process!) \n\n### 10. [Reel Viewer](https://www.uncommongoods.com/product/create-your-own-reel-viewer?), Uncommon Goods, $29.95\nYou probably have enough photo albums, portraits, and personalized gifts to last you another 35 years, but what’s one more? At least this one is guaranteed to be unlike the others. Gather snapshots of your favorite memories and add them to a reel viewer (in the perfect coral shade!) to immortalize your time together. It’ll be nostalgia like you’ve never experienced before.\n\n### 11. [Jade Earrings in 12K Gold Filled, Vintage Style Green Jade Drop Earrings](https://www.etsy.com/listing/575745430/jade-earrings-in-12k-gold-filled-vintage?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sc_gallery-4-10&pro=1&frs=1&listing_id=575745430&listing_slug=jade-earrings-in-12k-gold-filled-vintage&plkey=ff065aa77dcf62ffbc50cbd01d94ae41aa9dbb11%3A575745430), Etsy, $127.92\nThese drop-style earrings, complete with jade stones, would make the perfect anniversary gift for anyone who loves all things vintage.\n\n### 12. [\"Tree of Love\" Art Print](https://www.etsy.com/listing/129625721/anniversary-gift-for-parents-15th-25th?click_key=0082723bfc6e327c72d4523b19dd0ef58b9f889e%3A129625721&click_sum=b2373ffe&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sr_gallery-5-41&organic_search_click=1&frs=1), Etsy, $27.75\nLove is, in many ways, like a tree; you plant roots, you give the tree attention, and, over time, it grows. So why not commemorate your tree growing for 35 years with this “Tree of Love” print? Customize with your name and wedding date—and order the jade shade to honor your 35th.\n\n### 13. [Green Jade Bangle Bracelet](https://www.etsy.com/listing/973399554/green-jade-bangle-bracelet-for-women-in?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sc_gallery-6-14&pro=1&frs=1&listing_id=973399554&listing_slug=green-jade-bangle-bracelet-for-women-in&plkey=bc2fcffaf62ee886a429ce6eddc52d90079e5ec3%3A973399554), Etsy, $183.92\nIf you want to gift your partners something simple—but fashionable—consider this piece of jade jewelry. The simple gold bangle is offset by two jade gemstones, creating a minimalist (but elegant!) look.\n\n#### 14. [Holzkern Watch in Tropical Forest](https://www.world.holzkern.com/en_world/tropical-forest-walnut-marble.html?utm_source=shopping&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=us-generic-watches&gclid=CjwKCAjwlcaRBhBYEiwAK341jdmpwTz8fJlCUhHjA-kem9ym7pc5T1Nhdnp5VvTp49bE94eR9-LmrhoCTDkQAvD_BwE), Holzkern, $199\nThis walnut watch features a jade green marble watch face. It feels timeless, elegant, and truly unique—making it a great way to commemorate your 35th wedding anniversary.\n\n### 15. [Jade Anniversary Journal](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1061811525/personalized-anniversary-journal-with?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+notebook&ref=sc_gallery-1-2&pro=1&frs=1&sts=1&listing_id=1061811525&listing_slug=personalized-anniversary-journal-with&plkey=e1b25cffc275c8dd5c928a65887494adfc6db2e0%3A1061811525), Etsy, $80.95\nMarriage is all about making memories—and if you want to give your partner a way to record those memories, this jade anniversary journal would make the perfect gift. Gold emboss your names and wedding date on the front cover to make the gift even more personal.\n\n### 16. [Bean Shaped Acrylic Clutch Purse In Emerald Green](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1152006895/bean-shaped-acrylic-clutch-purse-in?click_key=b1d5445e3af0bdfbb76684dae4a9d0f43c6cc416%3A1152006895&click_sum=a26f7c01&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+bag&ref=sr_gallery-1-14&organic_search_click=1&pro=1&frs=1), Etsy, $64\nIf you think your partner would like a unique gift, this clutch purse—which comes complete with vintage details and in a striking shade of jade green—is definitely one to consider.\n\n### 17. [Coral Red Drip Coffee Mug](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1169796900/coral-red-drip-coffee-mug?click_key=c534531d3e4c1bad231190c3c14c2978abaab325%3A1169796900&click_sum=a011022b&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+coffee+mugs&ref=sr_gallery-1-14&organic_search_click=1), Etsy, $22\nThe best anniversary gifts are the ones you actually use. And what gift is your partner sure to use just about every day? A coffee mug, of course! This handmade ceramic option—in the perfect shade of coral for your 35th!—can easily hold 10oz of coffee to help your loved one start their day off right.\n\n### 18. [Natural Jade Wine Glasses](https://www.etsy.com/listing/700855988/natural-jade-wine-glasses-made-by-hand?click_key=8747dcf3c6ae8fbba465e0a5cac3e2c83e8d7abb%3A700855988&click_sum=31feec14&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+wine+glasses&ref=sr_gallery-1-1&organic_search_click=1&pro=1&frs=1), Etsy, $8.50\nDo you and your partner love to end the day with a glass of Cabernet or Pinot Grigio? If so, you’ll want to toast 35 years together with these natural jade wine glasses.\n\n### 19. [Primalush Textured Robe](https://berkshireblanket.com/products/primalush-textured-robe?variant=40698742603955¤cy=USD&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic), Berkshire Blanket, $55\nAfter 35 years together, chances are, you and your partner are pretty comfortable around each other. But if you want them to feel even more comfortable, this textured robe from Berkshire Blanket (which comes in a soft jade shade) would make for a great gift.\n\n### 20. [Jade Guitar Pick](https://www.etsy.com/listing/198230244/jade-guitar-pick-canadian-jade-sold?click_key=57d4bad4e9996a0d851d49e7318e7f849f65774e%3A198230244&click_sum=9a7af501&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+guitar+pick&ref=sr_gallery-1-1&organic_search_click=1), Etsy, $15.98\nIf your partner spends their free time strumming on their guitar, this jade guitar pick would make a great gift.\n\n### 21. [Custom Personalized Engraving Jade Green Leaf Marble Single Pen Stand](https://www.etsy.com/listing/863934986/graduation-special-custom-personalized?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+pens&ref=sc_gallery-1-2&pro=1&frs=1&listing_id=863934986&listing_slug=graduation-special-custom-personalized&plkey=e42f5824a415036b3f7d9a4318945e73228f223f%3A863934986), Etsy, $71.76\nIf your partner likes to write (or just likes to decorate their desk!), this personalized marble pen stand would make a great gift. Engrave the jade base with their name—and, if you want it to remind them of your anniversary, your wedding date.\n\n### 22. [Jade Green Jug Vase, Saban Glassware](https://sabanglassware.com/product/jug-vase/?attribute_pa_color=jade-green&utm_source=Google%20Shopping&utm_campaign=Google%20&utm_medium=cpc&utm_term=18484&campaignid=16558146478&adgroupid=131359189421&network=u&device=c&gclid=CjwKCAjwlcaRBhBYEiwAK341jbfU87jpaluzbBePARBeER4orWXDXO6zno46osl2J9HQQYEY8VvezxoC8dIQAvD_BwE), $123.75\nIf you’re planning to bring your partner flowers for your anniversary, you’ll need something to put them in. And not only does this jade green vase make for the perfect flower receptacle, but it can also double as your anniversary gift!\n\n### 23. [Song Soundwave](https://www.etsy.com/listing/878917391/song-soundwave-anniversary-gift-jade?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+anniversary+gift&ref=sc_gallery-1-3&frs=1&sts=1&listing_id=878917391&listing_slug=song-soundwave-anniversary-gift-jade&plkey=f225bbad7c526e4a7ca149f8f3e57a26f9747a00%3A878917391), Etsy, $49\nYour first dance may have been 35 years ago—but we bet it’s still one of your favorite songs. Capture that moment and gift it to your partner with this art print, which turns your song into a soundwave. You can customize the color, but the jade option is perfect for the modern 35th wedding anniversary gift.\n\n### 24. [Jade & Coral Tree, Copper Wire Bonsai](https://www.etsy.com/listing/951062275/jade-coral-tree-35th-anniversary-gift?click_key=4e2b0e5418ee4f98f55bd3a49b2fc5515edcfb3a%3A951062275&click_sum=24982a2c&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sr_gallery-1-11&organic_search_click=1&etp=1&sts=1), Etsy, $57.39\nIf your partner’s idea of the perfect anniversary gift is a unique, memorable decorative item, this jade and coral wire bonsai tree is sure to be a hit.\n\n### 25. [Couples T-Shirts, ‘MARRIED SINCE’ set of 2 Matching Tees](https://www.etsy.com/listing/999544158/35th-anniversary-gift-in-coral-couples-t?click_key=7b63003c689c37dd87b367e80f70eb6639c59277%3A999544158&click_sum=4f10b31b&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sr_gallery-3-46&organic_search_click=1&frs=1), Etsy, $25\nIf you and your partner have a sense of humor, these couples’ t-shirts could be a cute (and funny!) way to celebrate your 35th anniversary.\n\n### 26. [Coral Sun Catcher](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1114307099/35th-wedding-anniversary-gift-coral?click_key=eb7835c93e71e1160867a40a123ecab9f1884bb5%3A1114307099&click_sum=fe87e355&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sr_gallery-4-17&organic_search_click=1&sca=1), Etsy, $19.77\nCapture the sun and commemorate 35 amazing years together with this coral sun catcher. It’s a great gift—and would make a great addition to a sunny window!\n\n### 27. [35th Coral anniversary necklace | Two peas In a pod](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1054047027/35th-coral-anniversary-necklace-two-peas?click_key=cd6231ef3a8794df5c0f5ac4e70606269f8bdfa5%3A1054047027&click_sum=cd673b74&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary+coral&ref=sr_gallery-4-35&organic_search_click=1&frs=1), Etsy, $106.34 \nAfter 35 years, you and your partner are definitely two peas in a pod. So why not use your gift to celebrate that? This “two peas in a pod” anniversary necklace features two stones of your choice in a silver pod. Your partner will be reminded of your bond every time they wear it!\n\n### 28. [35th Wedding Anniversary Sundial](https://www.etsy.com/listing/619000059/unique-35th-wedding-anniversary-sundial?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+gifts&ref=sc_gallery-1-12&frs=1&listing_id=619000059&listing_slug=unique-35th-wedding-anniversary-sundial&plkey=98f704ce8a7ae19d964db4a790ef6b1e4e1f7444%3A619000059), Etsy, $85.32\nA sundial can be a great addition to your backyard and an interesting, unexpected gift. And with this version, you can personalize the sundial to include your anniversary date—and commemorate your 35 wonderful years together.\n\n### 29. [RCA Retro Portable Home Theater Projector, Coral](https://www.beachcamera.com/products/rca-retro-480p-portable-home-theater-projector-rpj264-coral), Beach Camera, $64.95\nIs a move you and your partner’s idea of the perfect date night? If so, this home theater projector (in the perfect shade of coral!) can be a great gift—and a great way to recreate the move theater experience in your own home.\n\n### 30. [Turkish Blanket](https://www.etsy.com/listing/750657456/turkish-blanket-blanket-78x86-turkish?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+throw+blanket&ref=sc_gallery-1-3&pro=1&listing_id=750657456&listing_slug=turkish-blanket-blanket-78x86-turkish&plkey=f55e199d6b9ff6de582d117510e6e409e4d41437%3A750657456), Etsy, $23\nIs there any better way to spend your 35th anniversary than snuggled up with your loved one? We don’t think so—which is why this coral Turkish blanket would make such a great anniversary gift.\n\n### 31. [KitchenAid Artisan® Series 5 Quart Tilt-Head Stand Mixer](https://www.kitchenaid.com/countertop-appliances/stand-mixers/tilt-head-stand-mixers/p.artisan-series-5-quart-tilt-head-stand-mixer.ksm150psph.html), KitchenAid, $429.90\nIf your partner loves to bake, the KitchenAid Stand Mixer is the ultimate gift. (Seriously—ask any baker!) Commemorate your 35th anniversary by gifting your partner the stand mixer in the coral shade.\n\n### 32. [Coral Pink Bunny Rabbit Handmade Ceramic Ring Holder](https://www.etsy.com/listing/815507570/coral-pink-bunny-rabbit-handmade-ceramic?click_key=c7a775e5e7330986257c819ac5f57e1c2ef26708%3A815507570&click_sum=29d41a7c&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+ring+holder&ref=sr_gallery-1-8&organic_search_click=1&pro=1), Etsy, $25.49\nIf you and your partner need a safe (and adorable!) place to store your wedding rings while you sleep, this ceramic ring holder, which allows you to place your rings on the ears of two coral bunnies, would make the perfect gift for your anniversary.\n\n### 33. [Coral Flowers Gallery Wall, 8x10 Set of 4](https://www.etsy.com/listing/586929979/coral-flowers-gallery-wall-8x10-set-of-4?click_key=ce0a5b6b8d26dede5333fc2525fb6aa912e6e1bb%3A586929979&click_sum=16f83be6&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+art&ref=sr_gallery-1-36&organic_search_click=1&pro=1&frs=1&sts=1), Etsy, $49.95\nIf you want to give a 35th anniversary gift that can double as home decor, you should definitely consider this gallery set of four watercolor coral flower prints. (Just keep in mind that frames aren’t included—so if you want to deliver your gift ready to hang, you’ll have to purchase the frames separately.)\n\n### 34. [Omnia Coral By Bvlgari Eau De Toilette Spray For Women](https://www.amazon.com/Bvlgari-Omnia-Coral-Toilette-Spray/dp/B007C27HAA/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&qid=1451968065&sr=8-22&keywords=coral&linkCode=sl1&tag=oneextmar-20&linkId=5b4bf130bb2904a4a823979158218d09), Amazon, $87.93\nDoes your partner love perfume? If so, why not capture coral in a bottle? The Ombia Coral by Bvlgari comes in attractive coral packaging and has hints of goji berries, bergamot, berries, hibiscus flower, water lily, pomegranate and cedar wood. It’s perfect for a special occasion—like your 35th wedding anniversary!\n\n### 35. [24k Gold Forever Rose, The Forever Rose](https://theforeverrose.com/products/gold-dipped-rose-white-orange?variant=37576780775593¤cy=USD&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic&gclid=CjwKCAjwlcaRBhBYEiwAK341jcHlHKMaDyH3YsxV3ek6CRvXJ-KdvN56DcBOVndf8vrJ3WH4TWZ_xRoCdUkQAvD_BwE), $79.95\nA rose always makes for a great gift. But for your 35th anniversary, you want a special rose—like the Forever Rose, a real rose that’s dipped in 24K gold. Go with the Sunrise Rose, which is the perfect shade of coral—and the perfect option to celebrate your 35th.\n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Looking for simple vow renewal ideas? Discover top tips and recommendations from the pros at Zola today. ","title":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas","slug":"simple-vow-renewal-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4PZSW1hObQ6TnM557egpbG/3ee842eade872a59be2ffc64a370f857/inline_unsplash__19___1_.jpg","altText":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Don’t know how to decorate a space for a vow renewal? Our experts at Zola can help! Read on to discover more. ","title":"How to Decorate for a Vow Renewal Ceremony","slug":"how-to-decorate-for-a-vow-renewal-ceremony","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NH6l2iaZEaPw38esQpXJX/ca8c3b551487d3e7591a18f4a3606df4/Inline_Chensley_Photography__1_.png","altText":"Vow Renewal Ceremony Decorations"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"}],"featured":[{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Wanting to think out the box for your upcoming wedding anniversary gifts? Read this guide for some inspiration on choosing an anniversary gift for your husband.","title":"Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas for Husband","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-for-husband","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2vtI05eFyRNuMAfMKeIcT8/9c828f199ec0faa8cdf9f28e1c95d4e9/inline_unsplash__11_.jpg","altText":"Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas for Husband"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"So it’s your wedding anniversary and you want to throw a get-together to celebrate? Read our step-by-step guide for inspiration.","title":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas","slug":"wedding-anniversary-invite-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7IJ6B0KMXmqqXJpoYAxenM/9cebce3e0441a1accfa69aeda9d53965/inline_unsplash.jpg","altText":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:49:52.792Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"45th-wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","title":"45th Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas","excerpt":"Looking for unique 45th wedding anniversary gifts? Check out our latest blog for our favorite gift ideas!","author":"Taylor Bryant","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T20:46:40.356Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5QJ5vVByGHmozH5A2PNrCX/1ff208bf3adaa33023bdc114a3eff472/Inline_unsplash__14_.png","altText":"45th Wedding Anniversary Gift "},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"### 45th Wedding Anniversary\n\nForty-five years and the love is still alive. You’ve got four and a half decades under your belt and that deserves taking a moment to pause and celebrate. \n\nThe traditional theme for this particular milestone is sapphire. The blue gemstone symbolizes wisdom, faithfulness, and sincerity, and is said to bring gifts of joy, prosperity, inner peace, and beauty—all things required in a marriage that’s lasted as long as yours has. The modern theme happens to be the same, which means that this year is all about the blue hue. \n\nIf you’re having trouble coming up with sweet and original 45th wedding anniversary party ideas, we’ve got a bunch of suggestions ahead. Some follow the traditional theme, while others are alternative ideas and experiences that we’re sure your loved one will appreciate. Keep reading to discover our favorite 45th wedding anniversary gift ideas.\n\n### [Sapphire Watch](https://www.nixon.com/us/en/sentry-chrono/A386.html?dwvar_color=1922&dwvar_size=00&gclid=CjwKCAjwjqT5BRAPEiwAJlBuBdRTGRUvgZO0CRQsvpzVklJNSMoZWml00Y3C_N_oZOstvXWa4r-g9BoCO3IQAvD_BwE)\nA color combination like gold and blue is unconventional and also really, really cool. The sapphire face will truly stand out amidst the other bland watches in your lineup. If you’re looking for 45th wedding anniversary gift ideas that are unique, yet classic, this watch will be the perfect gift. \n\n### [Hot Air Balloon Ride](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cloud9_napa_valley_hot_air_balloon_ride_sf)\nWe’re sure you’ve crossed off plenty of things on your bucket list while being together, so why not keep the streak going and book a ride on a hot air balloon? You’ll lift off at dawn and float atop mountains and valleys; it’ll be an anniversary worth remembering.\n\n### [A Personalized Bracelet](https://www.etsy.com/listing/202877494/handwriting-bracelet-signature-bracelet?ga_order=highest_reviews&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=handwriting+bracelet+rose+gold&ref=sc_gallery-1-2&plkey=44d4a7579850300c2135f5e0476f0e441c1c582c:202877494&pro=1&frs=1&col=1)\nIt’s easy to gift someone any old piece of jewelry, but in celebration of 45 years together, we suggest stepping it up a notch and adding a little personalization, such as a bracelet that you can engrave with a saying of your choice in your own handwriting. It’s a sentimental, unique touch.\n\n### [Blue Kitchen Appliance](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/staub_oval_cocotte_darkblue)\nLooking for a practical 45th anniversary gift? Your kitchen is likely in need of an upgrade at this point, so go for something fun and unexpected, such as a royal blue appliance. Dutch ovens are classics and can be passed down to your kids (or grandkids) for years to come.\n\n### [An Adventurous Date Night](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cloud9_ny_datenight_giftcard)\nHave date nights completely fallen to the wayside into year 45? Well, that’s understandable. Start them back up with a gift that will do the planning for you. All you have to do is pick from 20+ experiences, which range from a dessert tour to a champagne brunch cruise to sightseeing. Hopefully you’ll enjoy the day so much that you’ll start making a habit out of it again. \n\n### [Drinking Glasses](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/crate-and-barrel-vance-cut-glass-double-old-fashioned-glass)\nThis anniversary definitely deserves a toast or two, and these old-fashioned drinking glasses are perfect for doing just that. Celebrate this milestone anniversary with these beautiful drinking glasses and use them for years to come. \n\n__Blue Irises__\nWe wouldn’t typically recommend flowers as an anniversary present (at least not as the only present) but 45 is special because, while it’s not official, many credit the blue iris as being the traditional flower for this particular year. Plus, we’re suckers for uniquely colored plants (naturally, of course). Irises also symbolize faith and hope, which we can all use more of. But, if you can’t get your hands on the delicate flower, delphiniums, hydrangeas, and hyacinths are other blue-hued options.\n\n### [Wooden Wall Hanging](https://www.etsy.com/listing/838203911/45th-anniversary-gift-wooden-wall)\nHere’s a gift that tracks how much time you’ve spent together by literally counting the moments you’ve shared. Pictures are great, but it’s also nice to see the amount of love and the number of hugs and laughs exchanged spelled out as a reminder.\n\n### [Sapphire Earrings](https://www.bloomingdales.com/shop/product/blue-sapphire-diamond-oval-stud-earrings-in-14k-white-gold-100-exclusive?ID=1053938&CategoryID=3376)\nAdd some uniquely colored bling to your lady’s collection with a pair of sapphire blue earrings. Thankfully, blue looks great next to any hue. \n\n![Inline unsplash (15)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6yo36XhY2TwXV6JhiNlbJV/2630a7cd8d948f1d7b8f7dc262967db1/Inline_unsplash__15_.png) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### Trip to London\nFun fact: The Royal Family has a thing for sapphires. You might remember Princess Diana’s stunning sapphire engagement ring, which is now worn by Kate Middleton. Queen Elizabeth II was also given a matching sapphire and diamond set by her father King George VI for her wedding, which was just the start of her impressive jewelry collection. Additionally, she was the first British monarch to have a sapphire jubilee. \n\nWhich is why a trip to London would be a perfect and royally-fitting 45th anniversary getaway. You can visit the Tower of London to see the Queen’s array of jewels up close, take a stroll through Hyde Park, and even ride the London Eye. It’s the perfect trip for any anglophiles or even just someone who enjoys looking at pretty things. \n\n### [Blue Weighted Blanket](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/gravity_large_weighted_blanket_navy)\nThis might not be the most romantic gift of the bunch, but practical can be just as sweet as sentimental. We like this particular blanket because it's weighted, which means that it feels like a warm hug when you pull it on. The weight also helps to restore the nervous system and is said to aid in achieving a faster and deeper sleep. And, of course, it’s the perfect size for two so you can rest soundly together.\n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Check out our latest blog for fun and creative 20th-anniversary ideas! Read our blog for more inspiration. ","title":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas","slug":"20th-wedding-anniversary-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44xqsjrS9WDU3wnTp475xF/06153ab78d0d9f3131e8cbc547c9628d/Inline_unsplash__11_.png","altText":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Looking for simple vow renewal ideas? Discover top tips and recommendations from the pros at Zola today. ","title":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas","slug":"simple-vow-renewal-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4PZSW1hObQ6TnM557egpbG/3ee842eade872a59be2ffc64a370f857/inline_unsplash__19___1_.jpg","altText":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Looking to get your guests laughing at your wedding renewal? Discover our top suggestions for funny renewal wedding vows here.","title":"Funny Renewal Wedding Vows","slug":"funny-renewal-wedding-vows","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/14SsQ3X0p4jSgW70Ku7hSo/0059254211a299da64d6c8c31ad123ed/inline_unsplash__21___1_.jpg","altText":"Funny Renewal Wedding Vows"},"type":"articlePage"}],"featured":[{"excerpt":"So it’s your wedding anniversary and you want to throw a get-together to celebrate? Read our step-by-step guide for inspiration.","title":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas","slug":"wedding-anniversary-invite-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7IJ6B0KMXmqqXJpoYAxenM/9cebce3e0441a1accfa69aeda9d53965/inline_unsplash.jpg","altText":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Wanting to think out the box for your upcoming wedding anniversary gifts? Read this guide for some inspiration on choosing an anniversary gift for your husband.","title":"Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas for Husband","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-for-husband","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2vtI05eFyRNuMAfMKeIcT8/9c828f199ec0faa8cdf9f28e1c95d4e9/inline_unsplash__11_.jpg","altText":"Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas for Husband"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:49:51.806Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"15th-wedding-anniversary-ideas","title":"15th Wedding Anniversary Ideas","excerpt":"In need of a few 15th-anniversary ideas? Our experts are here for you. Read on for our top tips and advice. ","author":"Ruksana Hussain","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T21:43:27.515Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/298Ab1PkuHzGD1bzuZQjyg/137f068d5555329d9ab703fb3abe6990/inline_unsplash__29_.jpg","altText":"15th Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"A milestone moment, the 15th wedding anniversary is symbolized traditionally with crystal, denoting a crystal clear love between the couple. The modern iteration is a watch, honoring the time you’ve spent together and all that you have to look forward to. Roses are the floral tribute, while red is the color for the occasion and a red ruby is the gem of choice. \n\nClearly this is one of the easiest anniversaries to find the perfect gift. But if you’re in need of 15th anniversary ideas, our team at Zola can help. Below are some of our favorite 15th wedding anniversary ideas that are both unique and traditional. \n\n### Keep It Cool With Crystal\n\nCrystal glassware, engraved pint glasses, crystal decanters, or other barware add an extra shine to the minibar where you’ve both built a considerable lineup of favored libations over time. \n\nConsider a well-designed crystal glass 3D family photo for the mantle or by the fireplace to mark your 15th wedding anniversary with all the new members and memories over the years.\n\nFor the home, crystal glass centerpieces, serving platters, or bookends bring in some extra oomph and make for great conversation starters at your next party. Place them around your home and common spaces to enjoy every day. \n\nPair the gift with crystal ring holders, candlesticks, or table lamps for both to enjoy in the bedroom, an area that’s oftentimes left out of gifting considerations. \n\nMake a statement with a large crystal chandelier in the heart of your home or soothing salt lamps to invite health and wellness into your lives. Whichever crystal gift you choose, we’re sure this gift idea will be a complete success with your husband or wife.\n\n![15th Anniversary Ideas for Wedding | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6RcXDJx3os7zRMzO1xCfrE/bafe1b4759652edb24e53fb37e89b4fc/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Revel in the Roses\n\nFifteen red roses for the special occasion would be perfect. but let’s go the extra mile and make it 15 bouquets of red roses delivered throughout the day for those die-hard romantics. \n\nIf you live near rose gardens or botanical gardens where roses are in season, you now have a venue for a special evening organized for you both to celebrate your 15th wedding anniversary.\n\nFill up your home with rose-scented candles, essential oils, and even a custom blend unique rose fragrance from the local perfumery. Remember rose petals for the bathtub, and even leading all the way up to the cozy setting with Champagne flutes and music to boot.\n\nRed rose petals also feature as a surprise ingredient in celebratory dishes. Indulge in rose-flavored ice cream and liqueur, lemonade, and jello shots for fun dessert ideas. \n\nFind that restaurant near home that’s named after roses. For a play on words, take your spouse to the roses instead of bringing it all home to them. \n\n### Go Modern With Watches\n\nStylish wrist pieces with crystals or rose red elements is one of our favorite 15-year anniversary celebration ideas. Don’t forget to make a point to engrave your initials on there to remember the special occasion. \n\nIf your spouse is a collector, then a limited edition or vintage creation is a welcome addition to the cherished ever-growing collection, too.\n\nEven better, refurbish a hand-me-down piece from a parent or grandparent. There’s nothing like holding on to a little piece of family history in these moments. Add a little piece of you with an embellishment, monogram, or another subtle touch.\n\nFor those with their pulse on the latest trends, a high-tech smart watch with streamlined connectivity to all devices around the home is a thoughtful token of your love.\n\n### Paint the Town Red\n\nA red ruby jewelry collection in an intricate design beautifully wrapped in a bejeweled keepsake box will be a prized possession and the talk of the town.\n\nPack a basket to get your spouse red-y for a surprise picnic–you’ll need red wine, raspberries, red apples, cherry tomatoes, and a red blanket. \n\nFor a gift that really wows, there’s nothing like a red Porsche or Mercedes waiting outside to take you to your adventure. Rent out a luxury ride for your 15th wedding anniversary and drive around in style. \n\nTurn heads when you indulge with a shimmering red dress or suave red dinner jacket to show everyone you’re celebrating a big day in your lives.\n\nLet the color of love dictate the day. Rent out a red barn, deck it up with the couples’ favorite things and people, and host a grand party everyone will remember.\n\nNo matter what route you choose to spotlight this special day in your lives, remember to keep the good times rolling and fond memories flowing. On your 15th wedding anniversary, plan for another 15 years of wedded bliss and growing your home and hearth with your abundant love for each other.","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Check out our latest blog for fun and creative 20th-anniversary ideas! Read our blog for more inspiration. ","title":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas","slug":"20th-wedding-anniversary-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44xqsjrS9WDU3wnTp475xF/06153ab78d0d9f3131e8cbc547c9628d/Inline_unsplash__11_.png","altText":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Looking to get your guests laughing at your wedding renewal? Discover our top suggestions for funny renewal wedding vows here.","title":"Funny Renewal Wedding Vows","slug":"funny-renewal-wedding-vows","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/14SsQ3X0p4jSgW70Ku7hSo/0059254211a299da64d6c8c31ad123ed/inline_unsplash__21___1_.jpg","altText":"Funny Renewal Wedding Vows"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Looking for simple vow renewal ideas? Discover top tips and recommendations from the pros at Zola today. ","title":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas","slug":"simple-vow-renewal-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4PZSW1hObQ6TnM557egpbG/3ee842eade872a59be2ffc64a370f857/inline_unsplash__19___1_.jpg","altText":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"}],"featured":[{"excerpt":"So it’s your wedding anniversary and you want to throw a get-together to celebrate? Read our step-by-step guide for inspiration.","title":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas","slug":"wedding-anniversary-invite-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7IJ6B0KMXmqqXJpoYAxenM/9cebce3e0441a1accfa69aeda9d53965/inline_unsplash.jpg","altText":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Wanting to think out the box for your upcoming wedding anniversary gifts? Read this guide for some inspiration on choosing an anniversary gift for your husband.","title":"Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas for Husband","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-for-husband","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2vtI05eFyRNuMAfMKeIcT8/9c828f199ec0faa8cdf9f28e1c95d4e9/inline_unsplash__11_.jpg","altText":"Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas for Husband"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:49:50.776Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"first-year-anniversary-gifts","title":"First Year Anniversary Gifts That Make Paper Feel Special","excerpt":"Traditionally, first year anniversary gifts fall into the paper theme. Make paper feel special and valuable with our picks for the best paper first year anniversary gifts.","author":"McCall Minnor","publishedAt":"2019-09-24T15:17:30.563Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/15niRmv2ew4mXPccG8wJpH/767aa5aa99190c860a13e515ff83c26e/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"bride and groom celebrate wedding day outside"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- Paper gifts for your first year of marriage symbolize starting a new chapter together with your SO.\n- Gifts that fit into the paper category include notebooks, gift cards, print art, photos, and photobooks.\n- Personalized calendars and custom photo frames can hold some of your favorite memories as a couple and make great 1st anniversary gifts. \n","body":"Congratulations are in order—you’re about to celebrate your first wedding anniversary. Through thick and thin, better and worse, you’ve made it to the first of many milestones. Part of celebrating accordingly, of course, is picking the perfect gift for your partner. Sometimes this is easier said than done, especially if you’re sticking with traditional anniversary gift types. The first anniversary is the paper anniversary. Don’t worry–your gifts don’t need to feel drab or outdated. Here are some updated gift ideas for your first wedding anniversary.\n\n## Why Paper?\nIt’s true: Paper isn’t exactly the sexiest sounding anniversary gift. Don’t count it out yet, though. Paper is symbolic of starting a new blank slate or chapter together. In that way, it represents the newness of your marriage. Delicate and a bit fragile, paper also symbolizes the earliness of your union—it will only continue to grow stronger with time. \n\nIf you’re turned off by the antiquity of this tradition or you’re just having a hard time coming up with gifts that aren’t of the message in a bottle variety, read on. \n \n## Refillable Notebook\n![5bc0c1c1c268e97399efb0fd A 1600](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4YZduXpwz3TaTGT7kOzvw6/fef4853cde26caf1fa001948e6715a12/5bc0c1c1c268e97399efb0fd_A_1600.jpeg)\n*Photo Credit* // Graphic Image\n\nIt may not seem like much, but a high-quality refillable notebook is a wonderful gift—especially if your spouse has a way with words. It’s perfect for everyday note-taking, business tracking, studying, journaling, or just making grocery lists. If your partner is a writer or just prefers to handwrite reminders, this is their ideal companion. Upgrade it with a leather style that they can continue to fill for years to come. Write a heartfelt note on the first page, reflecting on how much you’ve enjoyed your initial year of wedded bliss.\n\n__Shop:__ [Leather Refillable Notebook](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/graphicimage_leather_refillable_notebook_black), $145\n\n## Gift Card \n![stubhub](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4M9ixem4dhTEduGe8UGLGz/6b7962868a7262efbeb6bcf9bea23267/stubhub.jpeg)\n*Photo Credit* // Stubhub\n\nLoophole! A gift card for tickets definitely fits into the paper anniversary theme. Gift cards are controversial in the gifting space—we get it. It doesn’t feel as personal as maybe a physical gift. Feel free to wash out that tired notion, though. Whether your spouse is a major sports fan, a movie addict, or a Broadway connoisseur, the gift of tickets will never not be cool to them. Plus, it’s an experience that takes you both out of the house for a fun out-of-the-box date—that’s the real gift. \n\n__Shop:__ [Stubhub Gift Card](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/stubhub_giftcard_200), $200\n\n## Art Print\n![5b689161c268e952cd094250 B 1600](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1fSAPlgswkTdXK3KahuZa2/50b23b0b53a966a0980b68ca4377e58f/5b689161c268e952cd094250_B_1600.jpeg)\n*Photo Credit* // Ashley Furniture\n\nCreative types can fulfill the paper tradition with a standout art print. A beautiful piece of wall art can serve as not only decoration but a reminder of something within your relationship. Find a piece that harkens back to the place you met, reminds you of your first vacation together, or is a copy of a piece from your favorite museum. Select something wall-worthy that reflects your partner, as well as your taste as a couple. Hang it in an area you both pass a lot or spend ample time in. It will serve as a constant reminder of the adventures to come. \n\n__Shop:__ [Berit Art Print](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ashleyfurniture_berit_art_print), $203\n","body2":"## Photo Prints\n![5787f39be4b002183c00718d D 1600](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/ITyppYbDvObPRMI93llFP/928af696cfe97d6ee137ed575858dd9a/5787f39be4b002183c00718d_D_1600.jpeg)\n*Photo Credit* // Artifact Uprising\n\nA classic for a reason, printed photos serve as a wonderful way to memoralize your big day. If you already have a lot of wedding photo prints, run through your selects again and choose ones that are a little less refined. Look for photos that feel most representative of the best moments of the day—laughing, dancing, crying, shot taking, what have you! \n\nPick a handful to frame and place them around your home as a sort of anniversary scavenger hunt. Your partner may find some immediately but others may continue to surprise him or her for days to come. It’s a wedding paper trail if you will.\n\n__Shop:__ [Everyday Prints](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/artifactuprising_square_print_25), $25\n\n## Wedding Photo Book\n![5787f39be4b002183c007188 C 1600](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3Mb4AovxfMo40SuOIhH444/b328a2ef9e0ce03ef14555ef3b30258c/5787f39be4b002183c007188_C_1600.jpeg)\n*Photo Credit* // Artifact Uprising\n\nIf individual photos aren’t your thing (or you already have plenty around your home), revisit the big day with a gorgeous hardcover photo book. Have your favorite wedding images (or other pictures from your relationship) printed in the style of a quality coffee table book. Write a sweet or funny message in the front cover to commemorate the occasion. Leave it out, stacked artfully in your living space for yourselves—and your guests—to marvel at regularly. \n\n__Shop:__ [Hardcover Wedding Photo Book](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/artifactuprising_hardcover_photobook), $60-$180\n\n## Personalized Calendar\n \n![5d0ce3c07bd3311840c70daf A 1600](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/60QOUlS7VYepALfV40YtTK/22856b0242b241b5e270c308ecbcf665/5d0ce3c07bd3311840c70daf_A_1600.jpeg)\n*Photo Credit* // Artifact Uprising\n\nA personalized calendar is a great first-year gift for two reasons. One, it’s made of (you guessed it) paper. Given some more thought, though, it’s also a symbol of time and looks forward to your next year as a married couple. Choose a customizable calendar and fill the months with photos of you and your spouse. These could be pulled straight from your wedding day, but if you want to get extra sentimental, choose a photo from each month of your first year of marriage. That way, as this next year begins, you can fondly look back at the one before.\n\nIf this feels a little high school sweetheart to you, upgrade the mentality. Purchase a calendar with a gorgeous leather cover or a high-quality metal easel. It will feel and look more valuable than the paper relics of your teens.\n\n__Shop:__ [Brass Easel Calendar](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/artifactuprising_brass_easel_calendar), $60\n\n## Custom Photo Framing\n \n![framing](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1EsAVrtHGGQppc9AfCky67/e004b82ba67757b35d3a630ce8a3e713/framing.jpeg)\n*Photo Credit* // Framebridge\n\nNothing says ‘settled in’ like a sophisticated gallery wall. To celebrate one year married, have your favorite photos of you and your spouse custom printed and framed. These days, online services make it incredibly easy to create and purchase professional prints. Simply upload your photos, select your framing style, and order. Soon enough, your photographs will be at your door and ready to hang, framed to perfection. Place them above your sofa, down a long hallway, along a staircase, or in the master bedroom for a stunning display.\n\n__Shop:__ [Triptych Framing](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/framebridge_gift_card_triptych), $450\n\nRegardless of what you choose, your spouse will greatly appreciate the thought you put into their gift. Don’t let the paper theme get you down. As you can see, it’s an easy material to make into a valuable gift that your partner will love. \n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_WeddingBoutique"}},"stickyCta":{"copy":"Explore Wedding Boutique","url":"https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:49:50.047Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"how-to-plan-a-catholic-vow-renewal","title":"How to Plan a Catholic Vow Renewal","excerpt":"Planning on doing a Catholic vow renewal to celebrate your marriage? Read on for our top tips and advice.","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T18:45:36.088Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6D3lcylsrmO9ZXbk6eMYQu/c9dc1433ea6513d28794ad0e85560594/inline_unsplash__20___1_.jpg","altText":"Catholic Vow Renewal"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Vow renewals often come with many questions...and when you incorporate faith into the mix, you’re served a whole set of new ones. When is a wedding vow renewal appropriate? What format should it be done in? Does the ceremony need to be in a place of worship? Are you supposed to send [vow renewal invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-renewal-invitations)?\n\nSince Catholic weddings are much more common than Catholic vow renewals, there’s naturally going to be more guidance available to couples getting married than those renewing their wedding vows. If you want your vow renewal ceremony to be closely linked with your Catholic faith, then there are some additional steps and questions to ask to make sure the ceremony is aligned with the church.\n\n![How to Plan a Catholic Vow Renewal | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1xvoIWOpJcLUwcaYJXhUhD/3a6b62a0ad923bd097012057ce8bce1c/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Focus on What Matters Most to You\nJust like any other vow renewal or marriage-related celebration, Catholic vow renewals can come in many different forms. If what’s most important to you is having your union validated by the church, then make sure you take all the proper steps and gather insight from advisors within the organization on how to do so. However, if you would like to incorporate parts of your faith without going through all of the proper processes, that’s okay, too. Just make sure you have a firm idea of where you stand as a couple before making any big decisions or financial commitments (like booking a [wedding venue](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-venues)).\n\n### Consult With a Priest or Pastor\nIf you want the vow renewal ceremony to be approved by the church, it’s extremely important to discuss the necessities and logistics with a Catholic priest or someone who can serve as your advisor. They’re not only helpful for providing spiritual guidance, but they’re also the ones who make sure that the church can bless your current union. In some cases, they may also be the ones “officiating” the vow renewal ceremony, depending on the route you choose to take.\n\n### Remember: A Vow renewal Is Not the Same as a Convalidation Ceremony\nIn the Catholic faith, a convalidation ceremony is a way of recognizing an otherwise legal marriage that was performed without Catholic oversight. Couples who married a partner of another faith, used a non-denominational officiant, or simply didn’t go through the proper process to have their marriage approved by the church (i.e. elopements) often consider convalidation ceremonies to legitimize their union.\n\nNonetheless, a vow renewal can (and sometimes, must) take the form of a convalidation ceremony or require one before the vow renewal can take place. If you and your partner eloped or fit any of the other descriptions above, your marriage may not formally be recognized by the Catholic Church until a convalidation ceremony takes place.\n\n![How to Plan a Catholic Vow Renewal | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2v86krBQroRoHWhECXusGt/12a547a2eb99f38eb29de27b0b101c29/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Know That There May Be Some Hurdles if Your Partner Isn’t Catholic\nAs mentioned above, even if you and your partner are legally married, there may be some stipulations that mean your union isn’t yet recognized by the Catholic Church. This isn’t a reason to fret, though—it just might mean taking a few extra steps to have your marriage validated by the church first.\n\nIf your partner is of another faith or denomination, it’s best to talk with a Catholic priest about your diocese’s policy on convalidation of marriage for interchurch couples. Even if you decide convalidation isn’t for you, there are many other ways you can incorporate your faith into the ceremony (or wedding vows themselves).\n\n### Keep Tradition in Mind, But Make It Your Own\nThe church may be the most obvious place to hold a Catholic vow renewal, but that doesn’t mean your backyard is out of the question for your vow renewal ceremony. And it's not uncommon for faith-based vow renewals to take place on a big anniversary, but that doesn’t mean you’re forced to wait 20 years to reaffirm your commitment to one another. While tradition may be important, what’s most important is that you plan a ceremony that feels most authentic to you as a couple.\n\nThis is a tricky one if your main priority is to validate your marriage through the church. However, if you’re the couple that’s looking to simply incorporate Catholic elements, there are plenty of other ways to acknowledge your faith. Consider having your pastor read a scripture that really resonates with you or including a cross as a backdrop to your renewal wedding ceremony. You can even find ways to include mentions of your faith in your vows themselves. Most importantly: Do what you feel most aligns with you and your beliefs.\n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Looking for simple vow renewal ideas? Discover top tips and recommendations from the pros at Zola today. ","title":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas","slug":"simple-vow-renewal-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4PZSW1hObQ6TnM557egpbG/3ee842eade872a59be2ffc64a370f857/inline_unsplash__19___1_.jpg","altText":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Don’t know how to decorate a space for a vow renewal? Our experts at Zola can help! Read on to discover more. ","title":"How to Decorate for a Vow Renewal Ceremony","slug":"how-to-decorate-for-a-vow-renewal-ceremony","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NH6l2iaZEaPw38esQpXJX/ca8c3b551487d3e7591a18f4a3606df4/Inline_Chensley_Photography__1_.png","altText":"Vow Renewal Ceremony Decorations"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"A church wedding typically requires a more conservative outfit choice. Check out our guide to a church wedding dress code.","title":"What to Wear to a Church Wedding","slug":"what-to-wear-to-a-church-wedding","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5T7VRQz8WDECa5mRgVhJYp/3894676428ca9327f1200449319208c1/inline_kathyizzyphotography.jpg","altText":"Church Wedding"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Wedding ceremony programs communicate valuable information to your guests about your ceremony service—find out all you need to know to choose, word, and personalize your wedding programs.","title":"A Guide to Wedding Ceremony Programs","slug":"a-guide-to-wedding-ceremony-programs","topic":"Invites & paper","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4a8Yv6GHxfxtGf2QeZBoia/5d468608976454f4745406901338458c/Program.jpg","altText":"wedding ceremony program from Zola on a table tucked half inside a leather clutch purse"},"type":"articlePage"}],"featured":[{"excerpt":"Check out our latest blog for fun and creative 20th-anniversary ideas! Read our blog for more inspiration. ","title":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas","slug":"20th-wedding-anniversary-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44xqsjrS9WDU3wnTp475xF/06153ab78d0d9f3131e8cbc547c9628d/Inline_unsplash__11_.png","altText":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Feeling stuck when it comes to how to write your renewal vows? We can help. Check out our latest tips here.","title":"8 Vow Renewal Wording Tips & Tricks","slug":"vow-renewal-wording-tips-and-tricks","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2OrLAgnlgpNbFhvXjMcFvF/bfc36b0ce58694d9f974aaf302327e30/inline_unsplash__22_.jpg","altText":"How to Write my Vow Renewals"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:49:49.266Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"how-to-decorate-for-a-vow-renewal-ceremony","title":"How to Decorate for a Vow Renewal Ceremony","excerpt":"Don’t know how to decorate a space for a vow renewal? Our experts at Zola can help! Read on to discover more. ","author":"Ruksana Hussain","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T21:58:53.768Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NH6l2iaZEaPw38esQpXJX/ca8c3b551487d3e7591a18f4a3606df4/Inline_Chensley_Photography__1_.png","altText":"Vow Renewal Ceremony Decorations"},"heroCredit":"Chensley Photography","body":"As special as your wedding celebration was, your vow renewal ceremony is an equally memorable occasion. And whether you choose to spend it solely with your partner, with some close family members. or with a larger group of friends, there are several ways to decorate the venue to make this a moment you will always remember. Here’s how to make it an outstanding affair you’ll always hold close to your heart.\n\n### Focus on Color\nTheme your entire vow renewal ceremony with colors that hold special meaning for you and your spouse. A valentine-themed party warrants red flowers and perfumed candles, while a royal theme could include purple and gold embellishments. \n\n### Mark It With Visuals\nUse photographs from your wedding day to decorate your home, garden or other special venue. You can affix each special snapshot to streamers hanging along windows, or place them in photo books for guests to sign their wishes. \n\n### Light It Up\nUse accent lights and LED fairy lights to create focal points that lead guests to special areas like your vow renewal spot, the guest book, the dance floor, and the food and drink stations. \n\n### Invite Nature In\n\n![Ideas For Vow Renewal Decorations | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3ccRP1tW7wQneoVdiwtMqq/95763c944d7aed5f73d9250c02b57337/Inline_Chensley_Photography.png)\n*Photo Credit //* Chensley Photography\n\nUse your surroundings as inspiration to decorate the space. Consider buckets of wildflowers at your ceremony, seasonal fruits and flowers in centerpieces, and a few potted plants at the entryway to our venue. \n\n### Focus on Food\nYour celebration cake and other dessert items, like party cupcakes, cookies, or chocolate carousels, can also serve as décor to enhance the ambiance and serve as props for the day’s special photos. \n\n### Beach Vibes Aplenty\nFor an oceanside vow renewal ceremony, set the mood by lighting up your venue with tiki torches. Chinese lanterns can also add extra color and character to the theme, plus make for great photos, too. \n\n### Photo Opps A-Flowing\nWhen you plan a seaside vow renewal, there’s no shortage of beautiful backdrops. But consider a sand and seashells photo frame as a photo booth idea. Alternatively, you can try a wreath of twigs and shells. \n\n### Surprise Elements\nChocolates shaped like shells, salt and pepper shakers in the shape of sea life, or votive candles that symbolize the life celebrated in this moment are splendid decor pieces to leave on each table. \n\n### Bring It Inland\nFor a venue with a lake or river backdrop, choose wooden chairs and tables for your party with the colors of the woods as inspiration for table names. \n\n### Cruise With Your Crew\nNautical-themed decor on an all-inclusive cruise can feature navy blue and white hues with sailor knot ropes, fish net table runners, anchor shaped centerpieces, and little sailboat favors as keepsakes. \n\n### Head to the Vineyards\nThe romantic feel of a wine-centric vow renewal celebration can’t be beat. On tables, bring together wine bottles and fresh fruit surrounded by chocolate, cheese, and charcuterie boards. And don’t forget the rustic charm of wooden barrels and floral arches.\n\n### Find a Historic Mansion \nBuild on the history of a local heritage venue. Have fun with all the elements, such as antique furniture to match that era, porcelain dinnerware for a themed meal, and elegant floral arrangements aligned with the look and feel of the property. \n\n### Plan a Destination Getaway\nWhether you choose a working ranch, an old castle, a spa and resort, or the city courthouse, you can incorporate local wedding decor to your venue. Bring a few personal keepsakes to tie everything together and share the milestone moment with everyone. \n\n### Recreate Your Wedding Day\nFor many, the only way to renew their vows is to recreate the special moment and this time with new family members and friends in tow. Add a few elements from the years that have passed by to the existing decor from your wedding day. \n\nYour vow renewal ceremony is a celebration of your life with your spouse. Make it unique in your own way to symbolize all that you have experienced together and everything you look forward to as a couple. While it may not be to the extravagant scale of your wedding itself, your vow renewal ceremony is the perfect way to reminisce about the special bond you both share that only grows stronger with time. \n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_WeddingBoutique"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Looking for simple vow renewal ideas? Discover top tips and recommendations from the pros at Zola today. ","title":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas","slug":"simple-vow-renewal-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4PZSW1hObQ6TnM557egpbG/3ee842eade872a59be2ffc64a370f857/inline_unsplash__19___1_.jpg","altText":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Feeling stuck when it comes to how to write your renewal vows? We can help. Check out our latest tips here.","title":"8 Vow Renewal Wording Tips & Tricks","slug":"vow-renewal-wording-tips-and-tricks","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2OrLAgnlgpNbFhvXjMcFvF/bfc36b0ce58694d9f974aaf302327e30/inline_unsplash__22_.jpg","altText":"How to Write my Vow Renewals"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Your wedding centerpieces don't have to feature dramatic florals in order to be beautiful. Save money and get creative with these 29 unique centerpiece ideas for your wedding reception. ","title":"29 Unique Wedding Centerpiece Ideas You'll Say \"Yes\" To","slug":"wedding-centerpiece-ideas","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"Wedding Style","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1aWsBliSOvNekdFYz2buxx/d846fe5dd67279c4fdf5c793c8c1fda0/Hero_New_Zola.jpg","altText":"Unique Wedding Centerpiece Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Get creative with these fall wedding ideas for the outdoor celebration of your dreams! See our favorite 25 wedding ideas inspired by autumn here. ","title":"25 Outdoor Wedding Ideas for Fall We Can’t Get Enough Of","slug":"outdoor-wedding-ideas-for-fall","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"Wedding Style","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4S1gsWvvtcCjDqt83d9HV4/59deb363dbbb99383d0a8c4cc7349555/25-Outdoor-Wedding-Ideas-for-Fall_CatDossettITakePhotosLLC.jpg","altText":"Outdoor Wedding Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"}],"featured":[{"excerpt":"Classic wedding themes are tried and true. Explore these 20 classic wedding themes with Zola, your wedding day experts!","title":"20 Classic Wedding Theme Ideas for an Unforgettable Celebration","slug":"10-classic-wedding-themes","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1UtlYrRvOVd4tN0Jpub4RM/90ffbe9b31f87e52d8ecfb00f555180a/Hero_New_DisneyFairytaleWeddingatTheCarriageHouse_C.BaronPhotography.jpg","altText":"couple on a beach"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Looking for fresh wedding table decoration ideas? Zola has got you covered. Check out our favorite styles with this complete guide.\n","title":"10 Gorgeous Wedding Table Decoration Ideas","slug":"wedding-table-decoration-ideas","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7LcylGVc7hX7LQxKTMGT1F/76f70aa9c2f450e89546d8ca88a16c7d/hero_unsplash.jpg","altText":"wedding table decoration"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Get creative with these fall wedding ideas for the outdoor celebration of your dreams! See our favorite 25 wedding ideas inspired by autumn here. ","title":"25 Outdoor Wedding Ideas for Fall We Can’t Get Enough Of","slug":"outdoor-wedding-ideas-for-fall","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"Wedding Style","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4S1gsWvvtcCjDqt83d9HV4/59deb363dbbb99383d0a8c4cc7349555/25-Outdoor-Wedding-Ideas-for-Fall_CatDossettITakePhotosLLC.jpg","altText":"Outdoor Wedding Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Need wedding cake ideas but don’t know where to start? We’ve got you covered with this list of 112 wedding cake ideas, organized by wedding season. ","title":"112 Wedding Cake Ideas & Designs","slug":"wedding-cake-ideas","topic":"Venues & vendors","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5V0DFlLCeXlId6h1UScbIm/b57fdd7bbf656730765e7a6c1d8ff03f/112-Wedding-Cake-Ideas-and-Designs.jpg","altText":"wedding-cake-ideas-by-season"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Explore Wedding Boutique","url":"https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:49:48.217Z"}],"pagination":{"currentPage":2,"total":18},"subtopic":{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"35th-wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-that-put-new-spins-on-coral-and-jade","title":"35 Unique 35th Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas","excerpt":"Check out our latest blog to discover our top 35th wedding anniversary ideas. Read our blog for more. ","author":"Taylor Bryant","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T20:58:08.897Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2rTlkpD9oaAPmb4dOEcKwz/e7500024365df97d78c5338f33be872f/inline_unsplash__25_.jpg","altText":"35 Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Ah, the 35th wedding anniversary. At this point, you’ve probably cycled through all of the “typical” milestone gifts such as jewelry (gold and sterling silver!), headphones, or framed pictures of each other. After three and a half decades of present exchanges, picking up with special anniversary gift ideas l might be a bit more difficult. Well, one easy way of avoiding the obvious is sticking to the traditional themes. \n\n## Jade: A Modern 35th Anniversary Wedding Gift\nIf traditional isn’t your style and you want to go with a more modern gift, try green jade, a gemstone known for its distinct and stunning green color. Jade represents good luck, good fortune, wealth, and wisdom, and is revered in many cultures around the world—and jade anniversary gifts are thought to bring that same luck, fortune, wealth, and wisdom to the couple celebrating 35 years of marriage.\n\n## Coral: A Traditional 35th Anniversary Wedding Gift\n\nThe thirty-five year anniversary is known as the coral gift year. The actual material, known as “the garden of the sea,” is found on the ocean floor and comes in a range of colors, the most noted being a salmon pink shade. It’s regarded as being an item of peace and transformation, and, back in the day, was believed to hold magical powers. If we’re looking for a symbolic link, coral often takes a long time to form and fully develop, much like a successful union—which is why this traditional gift is the perfect way to commemorate a long, happy marriage. \n\n## Jade: A Modern 35th Anniversary Wedding Gift\nIf traditional isn’t your style and you want to go with a more modern gift, try green jade, a gemstone known for its distinct and stunning green color. Jade represents good luck, good fortune, wealth, and wisdom, and is revered in many cultures around the world—and jade anniversary gifts are thought to bring that same luck, fortune, wealth, and wisdom to the couple celebrating 35 years of marriage.\n\n## 35th Anniversary Gift Ideas\nYou can, and should, use these two themes as jumping-off points, and we’ve also gathered up some 35th wedding anniversary ideas below. If you’re looking for the perfect gift idea for your 35th anniversary, we can help. From romantic dinner cruises to elegant jade golf tees, discover our top 35th wedding anniversary ideas (including coral anniversary gifts and jade anniversary gifts!) with this informative gift guide.\n\n### 1. [Plant Subscription](https://www.thesill.com/collections/plant-subscription) The Sill, Various Prices\nPlants are a great way of livening up any space, and jade ones, in particular, are of the succulent variety, which means that they hold water in their leaves. So, green thumb or not, they should be fairly easy to take care of. If you’re looking for unique 35th anniversary ideas, a plant subscription can be the best call. Start by presenting your partner with the initial jade plant, but make sure to mention that there will be a new one arriving every month to care for and cherish. Your collection of plants will grow just as your love has over the years.\n\n![inline unsplash (26)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4LFVwAOUUwGK2fziNM4v3b/dd99eb5d2f9a85a2ca28c9d2b3f04c0a/inline_unsplash__26_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### 2. [Coral Makeup Set](https://www.charlottetilbury.com/us/product/pillow-talk-makeup-secrets), Charlotte Tilbury, $128\nThe color coral is one of the more universally flattering shades out there. It pairs nicely with almost every skin tone and gives wearers a nice, authentic glow. A makeup set that includes a blush, eyeshadow, and lipstick is a perfect triple whammy if you’re looking for a coral anniversary gift.\n\n### 3. Trip to an Aquarium, Various Prices\nFor a chance to see some coral up close and personal without having to get wet, plan a fun trip to the aquarium (you’re never too old to watch penguins and otters socialize, trust us). Honestly, the coral will probably be the least exciting part of the day, and, if you don’t feel too guilty afterward, end with a romantic seafood dinner to celebrate your 35 year wedding anniversary.\n\n### 4. [Dinner Cruise](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cloud9_dinnercruise_ny), Zola, $389 per couple\nIf you live in New York—and you’re looking to get a little more intimate with the water (home of the coral!)—a dinner cruise with views of the Statue of Liberty, Empire State Building, and the Brooklyn Bridge is guaranteed to be a good time. \n\n### 5. [Wood and Jade Ring](https://www.etsy.com/listing/639612989/wood-ring-jade-bentwood-fumed-eucalyptus?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=mens%20jade%20ring&ref=sc_gallery-1-1&plkey=77774a9b57137edffa4ecfd0cd25a918339a92b6:639612989&frs=1&source=aw&utm_source=affiliate_window&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=us_location_buyer&utm_term=3657&utm_content=565019&awc=6220_1595609528_fef382ae6d1fb9a480247851e2fa6ce6), Etsy, $175\nA nostalgic nod to your fifth wedding anniversary, this handmade wooden band comes with a stunning jade inlay that’s both timeless and durable.\n\n### 6. [Coral Rose Box](https://saayarose.com/products/36-rose-box-classic?_pos=2&_sid=d19189014&_ss=r), SAAYA ROSE, $179\nFlowers are always a safe bet for an anniversary gift, but the problem lies in the fact that they start dying after a week or two. Eco-friendly, preserved roses (including coral shades!) last 365 days and will keep your house smelling fresh into your 36th year of matrimony. \n\n### 7. [Jade Golf Tees](https://saayarose.com/products/36-rose-box-classic?_pos=2&_sid=d19189014&_ss=r), Amazon, $23.98\nTee-off in style with a jade golf tee. Your partner’s golf buddies will be hiding their regular white tees in shame. Just like your partnership, the gemstone itself is one of the toughest.\n\n### 8. [Topgolf Gift Card](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/topgolf_topgolf_100_gift_card), Topgolf, Various Prices\nLooking for 35th anniversary ideas that involve your spouse’s favorite hobby? For a chance to really show off your new regal tees, book a couple of outings—either with your spouse, a group of friends, or another couple—to Topgolf for some friendly competition. (Bonus points if you wear coral and/or jade golf shirts!)\n\n### 9. [Rosette Jewelry Tray](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1129680815/rosette-tray-in-blue-gray-and-light?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+jewelry+dish&ref=sc_gallery-1-7&listing_id=1129680815&listing_slug=rosette-tray-in-blue-gray-and-light&plkey=2747c833c5c49e0ffa7cac57858a05c95eef4f9d%3A1129680815), Etsy, $65\nIf your partner needs a place to put their jewelry at the end of the day (perhaps a previous anniversary ring or other jewelry gift?), this unique jewelry tray—complete with coral rosettes—would make for a fantastic 35th anniversary gift (and provide your vanity with a little pop of color in the process!) \n\n### 10. [Reel Viewer](https://www.uncommongoods.com/product/create-your-own-reel-viewer?), Uncommon Goods, $29.95\nYou probably have enough photo albums, portraits, and personalized gifts to last you another 35 years, but what’s one more? At least this one is guaranteed to be unlike the others. Gather snapshots of your favorite memories and add them to a reel viewer (in the perfect coral shade!) to immortalize your time together. It’ll be nostalgia like you’ve never experienced before.\n\n### 11. [Jade Earrings in 12K Gold Filled, Vintage Style Green Jade Drop Earrings](https://www.etsy.com/listing/575745430/jade-earrings-in-12k-gold-filled-vintage?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sc_gallery-4-10&pro=1&frs=1&listing_id=575745430&listing_slug=jade-earrings-in-12k-gold-filled-vintage&plkey=ff065aa77dcf62ffbc50cbd01d94ae41aa9dbb11%3A575745430), Etsy, $127.92\nThese drop-style earrings, complete with jade stones, would make the perfect anniversary gift for anyone who loves all things vintage.\n\n### 12. [\"Tree of Love\" Art Print](https://www.etsy.com/listing/129625721/anniversary-gift-for-parents-15th-25th?click_key=0082723bfc6e327c72d4523b19dd0ef58b9f889e%3A129625721&click_sum=b2373ffe&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sr_gallery-5-41&organic_search_click=1&frs=1), Etsy, $27.75\nLove is, in many ways, like a tree; you plant roots, you give the tree attention, and, over time, it grows. So why not commemorate your tree growing for 35 years with this “Tree of Love” print? Customize with your name and wedding date—and order the jade shade to honor your 35th.\n\n### 13. [Green Jade Bangle Bracelet](https://www.etsy.com/listing/973399554/green-jade-bangle-bracelet-for-women-in?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sc_gallery-6-14&pro=1&frs=1&listing_id=973399554&listing_slug=green-jade-bangle-bracelet-for-women-in&plkey=bc2fcffaf62ee886a429ce6eddc52d90079e5ec3%3A973399554), Etsy, $183.92\nIf you want to gift your partners something simple—but fashionable—consider this piece of jade jewelry. The simple gold bangle is offset by two jade gemstones, creating a minimalist (but elegant!) look.\n\n#### 14. [Holzkern Watch in Tropical Forest](https://www.world.holzkern.com/en_world/tropical-forest-walnut-marble.html?utm_source=shopping&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=us-generic-watches&gclid=CjwKCAjwlcaRBhBYEiwAK341jdmpwTz8fJlCUhHjA-kem9ym7pc5T1Nhdnp5VvTp49bE94eR9-LmrhoCTDkQAvD_BwE), Holzkern, $199\nThis walnut watch features a jade green marble watch face. It feels timeless, elegant, and truly unique—making it a great way to commemorate your 35th wedding anniversary.\n\n### 15. [Jade Anniversary Journal](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1061811525/personalized-anniversary-journal-with?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+notebook&ref=sc_gallery-1-2&pro=1&frs=1&sts=1&listing_id=1061811525&listing_slug=personalized-anniversary-journal-with&plkey=e1b25cffc275c8dd5c928a65887494adfc6db2e0%3A1061811525), Etsy, $80.95\nMarriage is all about making memories—and if you want to give your partner a way to record those memories, this jade anniversary journal would make the perfect gift. Gold emboss your names and wedding date on the front cover to make the gift even more personal.\n\n### 16. [Bean Shaped Acrylic Clutch Purse In Emerald Green](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1152006895/bean-shaped-acrylic-clutch-purse-in?click_key=b1d5445e3af0bdfbb76684dae4a9d0f43c6cc416%3A1152006895&click_sum=a26f7c01&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+bag&ref=sr_gallery-1-14&organic_search_click=1&pro=1&frs=1), Etsy, $64\nIf you think your partner would like a unique gift, this clutch purse—which comes complete with vintage details and in a striking shade of jade green—is definitely one to consider.\n\n### 17. [Coral Red Drip Coffee Mug](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1169796900/coral-red-drip-coffee-mug?click_key=c534531d3e4c1bad231190c3c14c2978abaab325%3A1169796900&click_sum=a011022b&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+coffee+mugs&ref=sr_gallery-1-14&organic_search_click=1), Etsy, $22\nThe best anniversary gifts are the ones you actually use. And what gift is your partner sure to use just about every day? A coffee mug, of course! This handmade ceramic option—in the perfect shade of coral for your 35th!—can easily hold 10oz of coffee to help your loved one start their day off right.\n\n### 18. [Natural Jade Wine Glasses](https://www.etsy.com/listing/700855988/natural-jade-wine-glasses-made-by-hand?click_key=8747dcf3c6ae8fbba465e0a5cac3e2c83e8d7abb%3A700855988&click_sum=31feec14&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+wine+glasses&ref=sr_gallery-1-1&organic_search_click=1&pro=1&frs=1), Etsy, $8.50\nDo you and your partner love to end the day with a glass of Cabernet or Pinot Grigio? If so, you’ll want to toast 35 years together with these natural jade wine glasses.\n\n### 19. [Primalush Textured Robe](https://berkshireblanket.com/products/primalush-textured-robe?variant=40698742603955¤cy=USD&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic), Berkshire Blanket, $55\nAfter 35 years together, chances are, you and your partner are pretty comfortable around each other. But if you want them to feel even more comfortable, this textured robe from Berkshire Blanket (which comes in a soft jade shade) would make for a great gift.\n\n### 20. [Jade Guitar Pick](https://www.etsy.com/listing/198230244/jade-guitar-pick-canadian-jade-sold?click_key=57d4bad4e9996a0d851d49e7318e7f849f65774e%3A198230244&click_sum=9a7af501&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+guitar+pick&ref=sr_gallery-1-1&organic_search_click=1), Etsy, $15.98\nIf your partner spends their free time strumming on their guitar, this jade guitar pick would make a great gift.\n\n### 21. [Custom Personalized Engraving Jade Green Leaf Marble Single Pen Stand](https://www.etsy.com/listing/863934986/graduation-special-custom-personalized?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+pens&ref=sc_gallery-1-2&pro=1&frs=1&listing_id=863934986&listing_slug=graduation-special-custom-personalized&plkey=e42f5824a415036b3f7d9a4318945e73228f223f%3A863934986), Etsy, $71.76\nIf your partner likes to write (or just likes to decorate their desk!), this personalized marble pen stand would make a great gift. Engrave the jade base with their name—and, if you want it to remind them of your anniversary, your wedding date.\n\n### 22. [Jade Green Jug Vase, Saban Glassware](https://sabanglassware.com/product/jug-vase/?attribute_pa_color=jade-green&utm_source=Google%20Shopping&utm_campaign=Google%20&utm_medium=cpc&utm_term=18484&campaignid=16558146478&adgroupid=131359189421&network=u&device=c&gclid=CjwKCAjwlcaRBhBYEiwAK341jbfU87jpaluzbBePARBeER4orWXDXO6zno46osl2J9HQQYEY8VvezxoC8dIQAvD_BwE), $123.75\nIf you’re planning to bring your partner flowers for your anniversary, you’ll need something to put them in. And not only does this jade green vase make for the perfect flower receptacle, but it can also double as your anniversary gift!\n\n### 23. [Song Soundwave](https://www.etsy.com/listing/878917391/song-soundwave-anniversary-gift-jade?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+anniversary+gift&ref=sc_gallery-1-3&frs=1&sts=1&listing_id=878917391&listing_slug=song-soundwave-anniversary-gift-jade&plkey=f225bbad7c526e4a7ca149f8f3e57a26f9747a00%3A878917391), Etsy, $49\nYour first dance may have been 35 years ago—but we bet it’s still one of your favorite songs. Capture that moment and gift it to your partner with this art print, which turns your song into a soundwave. You can customize the color, but the jade option is perfect for the modern 35th wedding anniversary gift.\n\n### 24. [Jade & Coral Tree, Copper Wire Bonsai](https://www.etsy.com/listing/951062275/jade-coral-tree-35th-anniversary-gift?click_key=4e2b0e5418ee4f98f55bd3a49b2fc5515edcfb3a%3A951062275&click_sum=24982a2c&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sr_gallery-1-11&organic_search_click=1&etp=1&sts=1), Etsy, $57.39\nIf your partner’s idea of the perfect anniversary gift is a unique, memorable decorative item, this jade and coral wire bonsai tree is sure to be a hit.\n\n### 25. [Couples T-Shirts, ‘MARRIED SINCE’ set of 2 Matching Tees](https://www.etsy.com/listing/999544158/35th-anniversary-gift-in-coral-couples-t?click_key=7b63003c689c37dd87b367e80f70eb6639c59277%3A999544158&click_sum=4f10b31b&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sr_gallery-3-46&organic_search_click=1&frs=1), Etsy, $25\nIf you and your partner have a sense of humor, these couples’ t-shirts could be a cute (and funny!) way to celebrate your 35th anniversary.\n\n### 26. [Coral Sun Catcher](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1114307099/35th-wedding-anniversary-gift-coral?click_key=eb7835c93e71e1160867a40a123ecab9f1884bb5%3A1114307099&click_sum=fe87e355&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sr_gallery-4-17&organic_search_click=1&sca=1), Etsy, $19.77\nCapture the sun and commemorate 35 amazing years together with this coral sun catcher. It’s a great gift—and would make a great addition to a sunny window!\n\n### 27. [35th Coral anniversary necklace | Two peas In a pod](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1054047027/35th-coral-anniversary-necklace-two-peas?click_key=cd6231ef3a8794df5c0f5ac4e70606269f8bdfa5%3A1054047027&click_sum=cd673b74&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary+coral&ref=sr_gallery-4-35&organic_search_click=1&frs=1), Etsy, $106.34 \nAfter 35 years, you and your partner are definitely two peas in a pod. So why not use your gift to celebrate that? This “two peas in a pod” anniversary necklace features two stones of your choice in a silver pod. Your partner will be reminded of your bond every time they wear it!\n\n### 28. [35th Wedding Anniversary Sundial](https://www.etsy.com/listing/619000059/unique-35th-wedding-anniversary-sundial?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+gifts&ref=sc_gallery-1-12&frs=1&listing_id=619000059&listing_slug=unique-35th-wedding-anniversary-sundial&plkey=98f704ce8a7ae19d964db4a790ef6b1e4e1f7444%3A619000059), Etsy, $85.32\nA sundial can be a great addition to your backyard and an interesting, unexpected gift. And with this version, you can personalize the sundial to include your anniversary date—and commemorate your 35 wonderful years together.\n\n### 29. [RCA Retro Portable Home Theater Projector, Coral](https://www.beachcamera.com/products/rca-retro-480p-portable-home-theater-projector-rpj264-coral), Beach Camera, $64.95\nIs a move you and your partner’s idea of the perfect date night? If so, this home theater projector (in the perfect shade of coral!) can be a great gift—and a great way to recreate the move theater experience in your own home.\n\n### 30. [Turkish Blanket](https://www.etsy.com/listing/750657456/turkish-blanket-blanket-78x86-turkish?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+throw+blanket&ref=sc_gallery-1-3&pro=1&listing_id=750657456&listing_slug=turkish-blanket-blanket-78x86-turkish&plkey=f55e199d6b9ff6de582d117510e6e409e4d41437%3A750657456), Etsy, $23\nIs there any better way to spend your 35th anniversary than snuggled up with your loved one? We don’t think so—which is why this coral Turkish blanket would make such a great anniversary gift.\n\n### 31. [KitchenAid Artisan® Series 5 Quart Tilt-Head Stand Mixer](https://www.kitchenaid.com/countertop-appliances/stand-mixers/tilt-head-stand-mixers/p.artisan-series-5-quart-tilt-head-stand-mixer.ksm150psph.html), KitchenAid, $429.90\nIf your partner loves to bake, the KitchenAid Stand Mixer is the ultimate gift. (Seriously—ask any baker!) Commemorate your 35th anniversary by gifting your partner the stand mixer in the coral shade.\n\n### 32. [Coral Pink Bunny Rabbit Handmade Ceramic Ring Holder](https://www.etsy.com/listing/815507570/coral-pink-bunny-rabbit-handmade-ceramic?click_key=c7a775e5e7330986257c819ac5f57e1c2ef26708%3A815507570&click_sum=29d41a7c&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+ring+holder&ref=sr_gallery-1-8&organic_search_click=1&pro=1), Etsy, $25.49\nIf you and your partner need a safe (and adorable!) place to store your wedding rings while you sleep, this ceramic ring holder, which allows you to place your rings on the ears of two coral bunnies, would make the perfect gift for your anniversary.\n\n### 33. [Coral Flowers Gallery Wall, 8x10 Set of 4](https://www.etsy.com/listing/586929979/coral-flowers-gallery-wall-8x10-set-of-4?click_key=ce0a5b6b8d26dede5333fc2525fb6aa912e6e1bb%3A586929979&click_sum=16f83be6&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+art&ref=sr_gallery-1-36&organic_search_click=1&pro=1&frs=1&sts=1), Etsy, $49.95\nIf you want to give a 35th anniversary gift that can double as home decor, you should definitely consider this gallery set of four watercolor coral flower prints. (Just keep in mind that frames aren’t included—so if you want to deliver your gift ready to hang, you’ll have to purchase the frames separately.)\n\n### 34. [Omnia Coral By Bvlgari Eau De Toilette Spray For Women](https://www.amazon.com/Bvlgari-Omnia-Coral-Toilette-Spray/dp/B007C27HAA/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&qid=1451968065&sr=8-22&keywords=coral&linkCode=sl1&tag=oneextmar-20&linkId=5b4bf130bb2904a4a823979158218d09), Amazon, $87.93\nDoes your partner love perfume? If so, why not capture coral in a bottle? The Ombia Coral by Bvlgari comes in attractive coral packaging and has hints of goji berries, bergamot, berries, hibiscus flower, water lily, pomegranate and cedar wood. It’s perfect for a special occasion—like your 35th wedding anniversary!\n\n### 35. [24k Gold Forever Rose, The Forever Rose](https://theforeverrose.com/products/gold-dipped-rose-white-orange?variant=37576780775593¤cy=USD&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic&gclid=CjwKCAjwlcaRBhBYEiwAK341jcHlHKMaDyH3YsxV3ek6CRvXJ-KdvN56DcBOVndf8vrJ3WH4TWZ_xRoCdUkQAvD_BwE), $79.95\nA rose always makes for a great gift. But for your 35th anniversary, you want a special rose—like the Forever Rose, a real rose that’s dipped in 24K gold. Go with the Sunrise Rose, which is the perfect shade of coral—and the perfect option to celebrate your 35th.\n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Looking for simple vow renewal ideas? Discover top tips and recommendations from the pros at Zola today. ","title":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas","slug":"simple-vow-renewal-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4PZSW1hObQ6TnM557egpbG/3ee842eade872a59be2ffc64a370f857/inline_unsplash__19___1_.jpg","altText":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Don’t know how to decorate a space for a vow renewal? Our experts at Zola can help! Read on to discover more. ","title":"How to Decorate for a Vow Renewal Ceremony","slug":"how-to-decorate-for-a-vow-renewal-ceremony","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NH6l2iaZEaPw38esQpXJX/ca8c3b551487d3e7591a18f4a3606df4/Inline_Chensley_Photography__1_.png","altText":"Vow Renewal Ceremony Decorations"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"}],"featured":[{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Wanting to think out the box for your upcoming wedding anniversary gifts? Read this guide for some inspiration on choosing an anniversary gift for your husband.","title":"Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas for Husband","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-for-husband","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2vtI05eFyRNuMAfMKeIcT8/9c828f199ec0faa8cdf9f28e1c95d4e9/inline_unsplash__11_.jpg","altText":"Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas for Husband"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"So it’s your wedding anniversary and you want to throw a get-together to celebrate? Read our step-by-step guide for inspiration.","title":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas","slug":"wedding-anniversary-invite-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7IJ6B0KMXmqqXJpoYAxenM/9cebce3e0441a1accfa69aeda9d53965/inline_unsplash.jpg","altText":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:49:52.792Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"simple-vow-renewal-ideas","title":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas","excerpt":"Looking for simple vow renewal ideas? Discover top tips and recommendations from the pros at Zola today. ","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T18:35:30.762Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4PZSW1hObQ6TnM557egpbG/3ee842eade872a59be2ffc64a370f857/inline_unsplash__19___1_.jpg","altText":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"When it comes to simple vow renewal ideas, few couples know where to start. There are endless resources out there for those planning their wedding, but vow renewals haven’t yet received the same level of recognition.\n\nNo matter the location, reason for celebrating, or size of the soiree, there are many ways you can acknowledge this monumental moment in your marriage without being overly intricate. Below, find nine simple vow renewal ideas or jump straight to the section you’re most inspired by:\n\n1. [Have a Ceremony at Home](#have-a-ceremony-at-home)\n2. [Reread Your Original Vows](#reread-your-original-vows)\n3. [Celebrate With Your Children](#celebrate-with-your-children)\n4. [Have a Potluck](#have-a-potluck)\n5. [Go Simple With Attire](#go-simple-with-attire)\n6. [Rededicate Your Rings](#rededicate-your-rings)\n7. [Pick a Place With Meaning to Both of You](#pick-a-place-with-meaning-to-both-of-you)\n8. [Choose Your Invited Wisely](#choose-your-invited-wisely)\n9. [Do a Destination Vow Renewal](#do-a-destination-vow-renewal)\n\n## 9 Simple Vow Renewal Ideas\nHere is a list of simple, but special vow renewal ideas you can incorporate into your ceremony. \n\n### 1. Have a Ceremony at Home
\nOne of the simplest ways to celebrate your renewed love for one another is by holding a ceremony at home (also occasionally called an “at-home elopement”). Not only is it an intimate place to celebrate with your closest friends and family, but it’s also a great way to acknowledge the life you’ve built together as a couple. If you’ve got room for all your loved ones and a bit of green space for the vows ceremony, your home might be the perfect venue.\n\n### 2. Reread Your Original Vows
\nDon’t think that rereading your old [wedding vows]( https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-vows) is simply a way of avoiding writing new ones. Vows—like marriage—are meant to be a lifelong effort and commitment. By rereading your vows, you’re sending the message that you’re willing to make the same promises you made years ago, even if circumstances have changed. Is there anything more romantic than that? It also creates an inevitably sweet, sentimental moment that might trigger some tears.\n\n### 3. Celebrate With Your Children
\nIf the years between your wedding and vow renewal resulted in some little ones, then go ahead and find ways to include them in the big day. Maybe you mention them in the ceremony reading or let them serve as “hosts” for the event. You can even let one of your children perform as a makeshift officiant for an additional dose of charm. There are no rules, so have fun with it. \n\n### 4. Have a Potluck
\nIf you had an expensive wedding, no need to host a pricey vow renewal ceremony. Simply ask your friends and family to bring a favorite dish of theirs, and you can supply the beverages or desserts. This works especially well for at-home ceremonies and those in public spaces, like national parks or beaches. It might take a little bit of coordinating to make sure there’s something for everyone to eat, but it works for more casual celebrations and lets your guests feel like they contributed in some way.\n\n### 5. Go Simple With Attire
\nNo need to buy an extravagant gown or three-piece suit the second time around. Brides shouldn’t even feel the need to wear white if it doesn’t fit their style. Just go for something simple and elegant that works with your personalities, as well as the space you’re celebrating in. If you’re looking for something more formal, consider taking your wedding-day attire for a spin. Not only does it save some money, but it’s also a great way to honor your original wedding day.\n\n![Simple Vow Renewal Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1OHGj4DSxLbi6o3uxoEmYs/561bae65b5648a7440e9dc87e60dbaa2/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### 6. Rededicate Your Rings
\nThough ring exchanges aren’t required for a vow renewal ceremony, many couples choose to do something special with them to symbolize the next phase of their lives together. This can mean anything from having them blessed to getting them engraved with a sweet phrase or your vow renewal date. If you want to go all out, you can even purchase new rings to commemorate the occasion. (After all, if you’ve been married for a decade or more, it’s likely your tastes have changed.)\n\n### 7. Pick a Place With Meaning to Both of You
\n![Simple Vow Renewal Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2t1VuCDK7Rsi7OlBWnqb2Z/807a6dda70892cb51175425500b2281a/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\nThough couples are getting more and more creative with [wedding venues](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-venues), there are even fewer expectations when it comes to vow renewals. Maybe the restaurant where you got engaged has a great event space or your favorite coffee shop has an amazing underground roastery with lots of space. If you want to take a walk down memory lane, you could even choose to renew your vows at the original venue where you got married.\n\n### 8. Choose Your Invited Wisely
\nAs beautiful as print invitations are, they may not be right for a casual occasion. Consider opting for electronic invitations or even a simple email announcement that directs recipients toward a vow renewal website. You’re not only reducing the risk of invitations getting lost in the mail, but you’re also simultaneously keeping costs down. \n\nWith the abundance of options available these days it’s easy to make your digital invites feel both polished and personal. If you plan on going all out for your wedding renewal, choose [wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop) that are fit for the occasion. Remember,it’s up to the two of you as a couple to decide how you’ll want to celebrate this special day. \n\n### 9. Do a Destination Vow Renewal
\nAlways secretly dreamt of eloping despite having a large, traditional wedding? In that case, a destination vow renewal is a no-brainer. This could be anything from hosting an intimate ceremony on a beach in Tulum, Mexico to eloping on a sailboat in the South Pacific. Just note that if you’re planning a vow renewal in the near future, we highly suggest staying up-to-date on travel restrictions and observing the recommendations made by both the World Health Organization (WHO) and Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).\n\nNow that you know our top ideas for renewing marriage vows, it’s time to choose the perfect event for your special day. As long as love is the center of the event, we are sure you’ll have a beautiful and memorable vow renewal ceremony.\n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Don’t know how to decorate a space for a vow renewal? Our experts at Zola can help! Read on to discover more. ","title":"How to Decorate for a Vow Renewal Ceremony","slug":"how-to-decorate-for-a-vow-renewal-ceremony","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NH6l2iaZEaPw38esQpXJX/ca8c3b551487d3e7591a18f4a3606df4/Inline_Chensley_Photography__1_.png","altText":"Vow Renewal Ceremony Decorations"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Wondering if you should send wedding renewal invitations? Our experts explain the answer in this comprehensive guide.","title":"10 Ideas For Vow Renewal Invitations","slug":"wedding-renewal-invitations","topic":"Invites & paper","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4U5YGAECoxGdv1ZwoqNlSN/0d3756933a90c0b091f74d1250b6f894/jeremy-wong-weddings-464ps_nOflw-unsplash.jpg","altText":"older couple vow renewal"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Feeling stuck when it comes to how to write your renewal vows? We can help. Check out our latest tips here.","title":"8 Vow Renewal Wording Tips & Tricks","slug":"vow-renewal-wording-tips-and-tricks","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2OrLAgnlgpNbFhvXjMcFvF/bfc36b0ce58694d9f974aaf302327e30/inline_unsplash__22_.jpg","altText":"How to Write my Vow Renewals"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Looking to get your guests laughing at your wedding renewal? Discover our top suggestions for funny renewal wedding vows here.","title":"Funny Renewal Wedding Vows","slug":"funny-renewal-wedding-vows","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/14SsQ3X0p4jSgW70Ku7hSo/0059254211a299da64d6c8c31ad123ed/inline_unsplash__21___1_.jpg","altText":"Funny Renewal Wedding Vows"},"type":"articlePage"}],"featured":[{"excerpt":"Check out our latest blog for fun and creative 20th-anniversary ideas! Read our blog for more inspiration. ","title":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas","slug":"20th-wedding-anniversary-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44xqsjrS9WDU3wnTp475xF/06153ab78d0d9f3131e8cbc547c9628d/Inline_unsplash__11_.png","altText":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"So it’s your wedding anniversary and you want to throw a get-together to celebrate? Read our step-by-step guide for inspiration.","title":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas","slug":"wedding-anniversary-invite-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7IJ6B0KMXmqqXJpoYAxenM/9cebce3e0441a1accfa69aeda9d53965/inline_unsplash.jpg","altText":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:50:03.481Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"anniversary-quotes","title":"110 Happy Anniversary Quotes to Express Your Love","excerpt":"Want to wish someone a happy anniversary but unsure of how to put it into words? These anniversary quotes offer plenty of ideas to get you started. ","publishedAt":"2022-05-03T19:35:03.098Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/69O8ZbFrxXeFF4Adfgo1U5/cbc24c72a99f1b4d1938f93499d7530f/woman-giving-partner-anniversary-letter.jpg","altText":"woman giving partner anniversary letter"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/","heroCaption":"woman giving partner anniversary letter","body":"The wedding might be over, but anniversaries are a significant [milestone](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/diy-photo-booth) in a couple’s relationship that deserve to be celebrated. With all the ups and downs life can bring, reaching another year of marriage is no small feat, which makes sending anniversary wishes that much more special. \n\nTraditionally, there’s no [etiquette](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/guest-at-wedding) rule requiring you to send anniversary wishes to another couple. This doesn’t apply to your own relationship, though—spouses should definitely acknowledge the special day! That said, if you’re looking to wish someone a happy anniversary but are unsure of how to put your wishes into words, our anniversary quotes offer plenty of ideas to get you started. \n\nWhether you’re writing to your own partner or celebrating close friends or parents, we’ve included something for everyone. (You might also consider an [anniversary gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas) while you’re at it!)\n\n__Table of Contents__\n- What to Include in an Anniversary Message\n- Simple Happy Anniversary Quotes\n- Anniversary Quotes for Instagram Captions\n- Thoughtful Anniversary Quotes\n- Romantic Anniversary Quotes\n- Funny Anniversary Quotes\n- One-Year Anniversary Quotes\n- Anniversary Quotes for Friends\n- Anniversary Quotes for Parents\n\n\n## What to Include in an Anniversary Message\nIf you’re scratching your head for [what to write](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-write-in-a-wedding-card) in your anniversary message, don’t fear! Your message doesn’t have to be complicated. Here are some helpful places to get started when deciding on what to include in your anniversary message—you’ll find writing your heartfelt note isn’t so hard! \n\n- Make a toast\n- Share a memory\n- Offer words of encouragement\n- Celebrate the milestone \n- Call out the beauty of a lasting relationship \n- Reflect on your love for your partner \n\n![the-best-anniversary-quotes-qualities](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5SKxJMuHNoqTGXRscBsLZF/e474dd9224a0413817840a59a1a92cca/the-best-anniversary-quotes-qualities.png)\n\n## Simple Happy Anniversary Quotes \nYou can say a lot with not many words—a simple “Happy Anniversary” paired with one of the anniversary quotes below is all you need for a heartwarming message. Use the following quotes for inspiration if you’re celebrating your own anniversary, or skip below to find quotes for friends and loved ones. \n\n1. You make celebrating our love feel easy. Happy anniversary! \n2. Today, tomorrow, and always—our love never ends. Happy anniversary!\n3. Cheers to another year with my better half. \n4. Time truly flies when I’m with you. Happy anniversary! \n5. Cheers to another 365 days together and the many more to come!\n6. Life with you just makes sense—here’s to another year together. \n7. Thanks for being the best partner I could’ve asked for. Happy anniversary!\n8. Another year together and I’m still finding new things I love about you.\n9. Choosing you was the best decision I ever made. \n10. Loved you last year, loved you yesterday, love you still and always will. \n11. Our love story is my favorite. Happy anniversary to us! \n12. Happy anniversary to my person—how did I get so lucky? \n13. Today reminds me of why I fell in love with you, and my love has only grown. Happy anniversary today and always.\n14. I’m grateful for our love every day, but especially today. Happy anniversary!\n15. All of me loves all of you. Happy anniversary to my favorite person! \n\n## Anniversary Quotes for Instagram Captions\nYour anniversary is a significant milestone, so it makes sense you’d want to share a thoughtful post on social media commemorating the occasion. If you’re looking to celebrate your love on the ‘gram, use the list below to help you find the perfect caption. \n\n16. A year later and you still give me butterflies. #1yearanniversary\n17. 525,600 minutes as a married couple. #happyanniversary\n18. One year down, a lifetime to go. #happyweddinganniversary\n19. Ready for another trip around the sun? #1yearanniversary\n20. Life with you just keeps getting better—swipe for a surprise! #anniversarypresent\n21. 365 days of smiles, laughs, and reminders to take the trash out. #loveyouforever \n\n![anniversary-quote-shania-twain](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/8H8fPNI6Fj1IRYd3MDpO5/1262c47cb2f42910cd6ba0c87f12ce22/anniversary-quote-shania-twain.png)\n\n22. “You’re still the one I run to, the one that I belong to. You’re still the one I want for life.” —Shania Twain, “You’re Still the One”\n23. I said yes to a life with you. \n24. I can’t wait to grow old with you. \n25. “When I look at you, I can feel it. I look at you, and I’m home.” —Dory, “Finding Nemo”\n\n## Thoughtful Anniversary Quotes\nSometimes, sharing from the heart is tough. Use these quotes to help put your feelings into words. \n\n26. Life with you just keeps on getting better. \n27. You’ll never stop being my happy place. \n28. Sleeping by your side means endless sweet dreams. \n29. Yesterday,today and always, I still choose you! \n30. I am yours, and you are mine. \n31. Your love truly makes life sweeter. \n32. I can’t imagine a single day without you by my side. \n33. My heart still skips a beat when I look at you. \n34. Rain or shine, you’ll always be mine. \n35. The love I hold for you continues to grow, today and always. \n36. To the one who stole my heart, thank you for loving me so well. \n37. Our love is a rare gift that I’ll never let go of. \n38. The love we share is magnetic, and you make life pure magic. \n39. Cheers to another year with my best friend and better half.\n40. Saying yes to you was the smartest move I ever made. \n41. You’re more beautiful to me with each passing year, and this year is no exception.\n42. I’m convinced I won the lottery with you.\n43. I didn’t think I could love you more than I already do, but this special day has proved me wrong. \n44. In a sea of people, I have eyes only for you. \n45. Happy anniversary to a beautiful person who has given me the most beautiful life.\n46. Forever isn’t long enough with you. \n47. With you by my side, life could never get better. \n48. You’ve given me so many reasons to smile this past year, but my smile couldn’t be any bigger on this special day. \n49. Another year together and I still get butterflies when I look at you. \n50. You make my life better in every way. Thanks for choosing me today and every day. \n51. You’re the only one I want to wake up next to, day after day, year after year. \n52. Happy anniversary to my soulmate—how did I get so lucky? \n53. Today our relationship is one year older, and the depth of our love just keeps growing deeper. \n54. I thought I knew what true love was until I met you. \n55. My only regret is that I can’t go back in time so I could’ve met you sooner. Happy anniversary to my one true love. \n\n## Romantic Anniversary Quotes\nIf you consider yourself a hopeless romantic, these quotes are for you. \n\n56. Of all the love stories that exist, ours will always be my favorite.\n57. Words can’t express my unending love for you, especially on a day like today. \n58. “So how does it happen, great love? Nobody knows…but what I can tell you is that it happens in the blink of an eye. One moment you’re enjoying your life, and the next you’re wondering how you ever lived without them.” —Hitch, “Hitch”\n59. “I would rather share one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone.” —Arwen, “Lord of the Rings”\n60. “The best love is the kind that awakens the soul, that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds.” —Noah, “The Notebook”\n61. Happy anniversary to the only person in the world that I want beside me every day and every night for the rest of my life.\n62. “If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.” —A. A. Milne, “Winnie the Pooh”\n\n![anniversary-quote-winnie-the-pooh](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6plI9QETkNu0ijaR0ZSJyL/a43385dbb4ec192de9df0796843a6839/anniversary-quote-winnie-the-pooh.png)\n\n63. When a love is true, there is no ending. I hope we get to celebrate for many years to come. Happy anniversary!\n64. I believe everything happens for a reason because it led me to you. I love you, happy anniversary.\n65. From sending you good night texts to wishing you good morning, everything seems sweeter since I met you. Happy anniversary.\n\n## Funny Anniversary Quotes\nIf some light wit and humor is more your style, these quotes are guaranteed to make your partner crack a smile. \n\n66. I sometimes wonder how you put up with me, but then I remember that I put up with you too, so we’ll call it even. \n67. Since we first met, I’ve only wanted the best for you—which is obviously me!\n68. A wedding band is the smallest handcuff ever made—lucky for me, I’ve got a pretty great cellmate. I love you!\n69. If two people love each other, nothing is impossible. Except for deciding where to eat. We still haven't figured that one out yet. \n70. Happy anniversary to my special someone—I look forward to annoying you for the rest of your life!\n71. I love you more than anything, even my favorite pasta—just please don’t make me prove it. Happy anniversary!\n72. Happy anniversary, babe. No refunds! \n73. I’m amazed at how long we’ve tolerated each other. Cheers to another year! \n74. Our relationship has taught me so much—like that 99% of being married is just yelling “WHAT?” from across the house. \n75. Holy crap. We’re still married? You’re still mine? In that case, happy anniversary!\n\n## One-Year Anniversary Quotes\nCelebrating your first anniversary calls for something unique and special. These quotes can help you commemorate the occasion. \n\n76. One year down, our entire lives to go. \n77. “If I had only one anniversary to celebrate, I would want it with you.” —Byron Pulsifer\n78. This day is beyond special, and the first of many more to come. \n79. 365 days later and I’m still head over heels for you!\n80. Only one year in and you’re making this whole marriage thing seem easy. I love you!\n81. I’ve learned love is not about how many days, months, or years we’ve been together—it’s about how much we love each other every single day. \n82. Better than I was, more than I am. And all this happened by taking your hand.\n83. \"All that you are is all that I'll ever need.\" —Ed Sheeran, “Tenerife Sea”\n84. “How sweet it is to be loved by you.” —Marvin Gaye, “How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved By You)”\n\n![anniversary-quote-how-sweet-it-is](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2cksKc3GjDWLl7xdciFJA9/4a6542fc7b33185d444adcb255c12014/anniversary-quote-how-sweet-it-is.png)\n\n85. One year ago today, our souls became one. We might not be [newlyweds](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/newlywed-game-questions) anymore, but our love is stronger than ever. \n86. Our first year of love has taught me more than I thought possible about what true love really is. Happy anniversary to my person!\n87. Today marks the first milestone of countless moments that are still to be had. Cheers to our first anniversary! \n88. Our first year together is in the books, and all I can hope for is 99 more. I love you!\n89. Our hearts united one year ago on this beautiful day, and I know our love will only grow deeper with time. Happy first anniversary!\n90. I’d be lying if I said this past year wasn’t one of the best of my life. You’re my everything, today and forever!\n\n## Anniversary Quotes for Friends\nWishing your friends a happy anniversary is a thoughtful gesture that you can keep fairly laid-back. These quotes are some of our favorites! \n\n91. Happy anniversary to my favorite lovebirds! \n92. You two are proof that true love really does exist. \n93. Happy anniversary to our favorite couple!\n94. This might go without saying, but you two were made for each other. Happy anniversary!\n95. Sending our love and best wishes to the happy couple. Happy anniversary!\n96. The best thing to hold onto in life is each other, and you two do it beautifully.\n97. Wishing you both a long and wonderful life together on this special day!\n98. Cheers to you two and your endless love story. I can’t wait to see your relationship continue to grow.\n99. Thank you for being an example of true love and commitment. Happy anniversary!\n100. Nobody’s perfect, but together, you two are pretty close. \n\n## Anniversary Quotes for Parents\nAfter years of navigating the ups and downs of marriage, parents are often a beautiful example of lasting love. Sending them thoughtful anniversary wishes won’t go unnoticed—use these quotes to write the perfect note! \n\n101. Happy anniversary to the parents who never stop inspiring me. Best wishes on this special day!\n102. The only thing better than having you for parents is my children having you for grandparents. Happy anniversary, Mom and Dad! \n103. Watching you two grow closer with each passing year is more of a gift than you realize. Happy anniversary!\n104. Congratulations on another year of togetherness. You two melt my heart!\n105. Happy anniversary to my dear parents, who have shown us kids that “happily ever after” really can come true. \n106. All these years together and you two still represent what a loving, blissful marriage looks like. I love you, happy anniversary!\n107. The bond you share never fails to remind me of the power of true love. Happy anniversary!\n108. May your love overflow today as much as it did when you two first met. Happy anniversary! \n109. Thank you for never giving up on each other through all of life’s challenges. I’m sure us kids had nothing to do with those challenges. Happy anniversary!\n110. “You are the parents that all kids hope to have, you are the couple that all lovers hope to be, and you both are the pillars of support that every family wishes it had. Happy anniversary to the best parents ever.” —Anonymous\n\nWhether you’re wishing your closest friends a happy anniversary or celebrating your own with your partner, a thoughtful message can go a long way. Funny and witty or romantic and serious, there’s no wrong answer for the message you choose, so long as it comes from the heart. Cheers to love! \n","updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:49:57.243Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"20th-wedding-anniversary-ideas","title":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas","excerpt":"Check out our latest blog for fun and creative 20th-anniversary ideas! Read our blog for more inspiration. ","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T21:35:42.612Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44xqsjrS9WDU3wnTp475xF/06153ab78d0d9f3131e8cbc547c9628d/Inline_unsplash__11_.png","altText":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"How does one celebrate 20 grand years of marriage? Seems like a distant feat when you first wed, but then it comes along and you wonder where the years went. Your 20th wedding anniversary is the time to celebrate all the love and dedication to each other that has seen you both through the ebbs and flows of life together. \n\nTraditionally this anniversary is symbolized by gifts of porcelain or china, which signifies beauty and strength, but the modern marker for two decades of marriage is platinum—equally elegant and enduring. The associated colors for the occasion are emerald green and white, making the recommended gemstone—what else?—an emerald. \n\nThere are so many great ideas for presents and experiences related to these themes, so let’s take a look at a few 20th wedding anniversary ideas to make this a memorable moment. \n\n### Keep It Traditional\n\nGo totally traditional with a themed tea set for those late afternoon teas you’ll both enjoy in each other’s company or even a full-fledged dinner set for formal family dinners and other grand parties at home. \n\nSpeaking of home, china vases and picture frames, antique porcelain gift boxes, or sculptures and figurines to commemorate the occasion are all great 20th anniversary ideas. \n\nThat romantic picnic basket with all porcelain dinnerware for two is a great gift for the couple who already has everything for the home. \n\nIf you have a Chinatown neighborhood in your city, then the occasion calls for a date night out revisiting cherished spots you’ve been frequenting as a couple or new ones on your list you’ve always been planning to explore. \n\nOf course, if travel is on your mind, then that trip to China might be the perfect grand gift to celebrate your 20th anniversary. Use a china doll holding the tickets to announce the surprise getaway or some of the surprise experiences you’ve booked for your getaway. \n\n![20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2sLrSZn8iq9qVZSnNoFnm6/8ec12ad2095cbf3d2e67cf811e17375e/Inline_unsplash__10_.png)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Go Modern\n\nPlatinum jewelry is a subtle and sophisticated style alternative to other metal jewelry, so a sleek custom piece from a celebrated local designer will please your spouse. \n\nFor music lovers, an album from the year you were married or when your kids were born is a coveted gift that your special someone will absolutely adore. Other options include music from a favorite artist, orchestra, or a special performance that holds fond memories for them. \n\nIf your spouse has an affinity for a certain brand, get them to platinum status with that company’s loyalty program or credit card. Every time they’re able to use the perks and benefits, they’ll remember your thoughtfulness for their preferences. \n\nPlatinum watches from a brand known for its luxury watchmaking is a great addition to your wardrobe and a statement piece to wear to events. Plus, it’s a 20-year anniversary idea that your husband or wife will always remember. If you’ve been eyeing one that’s tailor-made for couples, then your 20th wedding anniversary presents a timely reason to invest in one.\n\nPlatinum accessories and decor, especially arranged as a surprise in personal spaces such as the family room, bedroom, otr private study area, are grand ways to show your significant other you’ve indulged in some thought in choosing their presents for the day. \n\n### Bring It Together With Green and White\n\nIf you’re celebrating with friends and family, emerald green and white table and home decorations make a lovely combination for party decor. Carry it through with balloons and streamers, and also for the special celebration cake. \n\nPack an at-home spa retreat gift basket filled with self-care products like bath bombs, comfort food, fragrant candles, and even a special cocktail kit for an anniversary celebration. \n\nOr, you could head out for a spa getaway to a destination with emerald in the name, such as Emerald Lakes in California, the Emerald Coast of Florida, or Emerald Isle in North Carolina. \n\nFor tech enthusiasts, accessories, whether wireless speakers or watch straps, in these colors make for an outstanding—and very useful—gift. \n\nHead down memory lane with a hardcover photo album or memory book in emerald green with white inserts filled with photos, show tickets, and other little events in your life you’re nostalgic for. Remember to leave plenty of space for the future you will spend together as a married couple. \n\nNo matter the manner you choose to mark your 20th wedding anniversary, it is a precious moment to behold as you plan for the next 20 years ahead. Make it a memorable one.","tag":"Inspiration","nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Looking to get your guests laughing at your wedding renewal? Discover our top suggestions for funny renewal wedding vows here.","title":"Funny Renewal Wedding Vows","slug":"funny-renewal-wedding-vows","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/14SsQ3X0p4jSgW70Ku7hSo/0059254211a299da64d6c8c31ad123ed/inline_unsplash__21___1_.jpg","altText":"Funny Renewal Wedding Vows"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Don’t know how to decorate a space for a vow renewal? Our experts at Zola can help! Read on to discover more. ","title":"How to Decorate for a Vow Renewal Ceremony","slug":"how-to-decorate-for-a-vow-renewal-ceremony","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NH6l2iaZEaPw38esQpXJX/ca8c3b551487d3e7591a18f4a3606df4/Inline_Chensley_Photography__1_.png","altText":"Vow Renewal Ceremony Decorations"},"type":"articlePage"}],"featured":[{"excerpt":"So it’s your wedding anniversary and you want to throw a get-together to celebrate? Read our step-by-step guide for inspiration.","title":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas","slug":"wedding-anniversary-invite-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7IJ6B0KMXmqqXJpoYAxenM/9cebce3e0441a1accfa69aeda9d53965/inline_unsplash.jpg","altText":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Wanting to think out the box for your upcoming wedding anniversary gifts? Read this guide for some inspiration on choosing an anniversary gift for your husband.","title":"Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas for Husband","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-for-husband","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2vtI05eFyRNuMAfMKeIcT8/9c828f199ec0faa8cdf9f28e1c95d4e9/inline_unsplash__11_.jpg","altText":"Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas for Husband"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:50:04.204Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"how-to-do-a-vow-renewal-on-a-budget","title":"How to Do a Vow Renewal on a Budget","excerpt":"Looking to plan a vow renewal on a budget? Find out how with this helpful guide. ","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-21T22:08:22.188Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/71YdJTv52AEpRdgm5Ayc3j/11d15cb790fc12bad52d3029c43486b8/Inline_Samantha_Rice_Photography.png","altText":"Vow Renewal on a Budget"},"heroCredit":"Samantha Rice Photography","body":"When it comes to holding a budget vow renewal, many of the same tips and tricks apply that would with a wedding. Narrowing down your guest list, cutting back on [wedding stationery](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/paper), and tackling some small DIY projects are often the most common pieces of advice. However, vow renewals come with a very different set of expectations than weddings, so there’s a lot of room for creativity.\n\nIf you’ve got a vision for a beautiful event, but are struggling to find ways to cut costs, below are some of our top pieces of advice on how to plan a vow renewal on a budget.\n\n## Don’t Treat It like a Second Wedding\n![Zola - How to Have a Budget Vow Renewal](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4XtYMtRZJFoHGVxdAqWQSu/3c7531f540c32c64fad53539e324f507/Inline_Laura_Hollander_Photography__1_.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Laura Hollander Photography\n\nFor one primary reason: it isn’t one. This doesn’t mean that it’s any less special or less memorable–it simply means that it’s an entirely different celebration and should be treated as such. The word “wedding” is immediately associated with higher costs, so be clear about the purpose of your celebration from the get-go. There’s also less expectation surrounding wedding vow renewals, which gives you the opportunity to really do it your way–including keeping it cost-friendly.\n\nWhen planning a renewal ceremony, keep in the back of your mind what would make the day most special to you and your partner. If you want to spend the money to hold the ceremony at a distillery, but DIY everything else, then go for it. Embrace the sense of freedom that you might not have experienced the first time around.\n\n## Source Locally\nThis is one of the easiest ways to save money. Not only are local vendors more sustainable, but they’re also less likely to charge you an arm and a leg for details such as delivery fees when putting together a vow renewal celebration. If you look for florists and rental companies that are hyperlocal, chances are that they’re not only going to be less expensive, but they’re going to be more flexible than those located elsewhere.\n\nHowever, keep in mind that the more remote your [wedding venue](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-venues), the more money you’re likely to spend on vendors. If you’re planning an island vow renewal, for example, delivery costs are likely to be high, and local vendors might hike their prices if they’re the only option on the island. If you live in a tiny town or don’t have a lot of vendors and creatives in your area, Etsy is a great alternative for sourcing things such as [wedding decor](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/decorations) and accessories, while allowing you to still support small businesses.\n\n## Make It a Potluck\nThe argument against potlucks for weddings may still exist, but this isn’t a wedding, is it? If you’d prefer to get a food truck or do something a little bit more traditional, that’s always an option. But, inviting your guests to bring their favorite dish and indulge potluck-style is one of the easiest ways to bring costs down. Just make sure that you’re clear with everyone about expectations and have a system or spreadsheet to track what everyone is planning to bring. This is also something that you can assign out to a friend and/or family member to take care of so that you can keep stress levels low.\n\n## Keep It Intimate\nAs one of the most common recommendations in the book, there is nothing more cost-friendly than choosing an intimate affair over a massive celebration. Aside from the obvious savings, there are additional benefits to keeping your numbers down, including the natural rise in the cost per-person. Even on a budget, a smaller party means that you’re able to spend more money on each attendee, and it allows for some creative ideas, including fun favors and more elaborate place settings for your vow renewal celebration.\n\n## Host It at Home\nThere is unlikely to be a venue that is as budget-friendly as your own home (and no better way to commemorate the life that you’ve built together as a married couple). Just make sure that you’re realistic about the attendee capacity and the amount of work that it would require. If your house doesn’t have a backyard, or is too quaint for the event size that you’re imagining, then take the party to a public park. Whatever you choose to do, just make sure that you’re adhering to COVID-19 social distancing guidelines in your area and plan accordingly.\n\n## Avoid Rentals Altogether\nIf you’re planning a hefty-sized get-together, this can be a tough one, but for those organizing more intimate gatherings, avoiding rentals isn’t totally out of the question. If you’re hosting the vow renewal at home, the many pieces of furniture and décor that you have sitting around the house can be great alternatives to rentals. Mirrors, rugs, ottomans, candlesticks, and glassware are all common pieces that are easy to repurpose. Just ask your guests to each bring a lawn chair and you’ve got your bases covered.\n\n## Consider DIYing Some Elements\n![Zola - How to Have a Budget Vow Renewal](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/71YdJTv52AEpRdgm5Ayc3j/11d15cb790fc12bad52d3029c43486b8/Inline_Samantha_Rice_Photography.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Samantha Rice Photography\n\nInvitations, florals, and décor alone can easily cost a couple thousand dollars. Make sure that you prioritize what’s most important for you to have done professionally and what might be a fun project leading up to the big day. This also goes for your loved ones who you know are willing to lend a hand. If you’ve got a friend with a talent for creating bouquets, or a relative who’s adopted calligraphy as their quarantine hobby, don’t be afraid to ask them for help.\n\n## Purchase, Instead of Rent\nDespite the obvious, it can actually be much cheaper to purchase items such as table linens and table décor instead of renting them for your vow renewal celebration. Just make sure that you’re actually going to use them again or have somewhere to re-sell them so that they don’t go to waste. Décor items such as rugs, candlesticks, and runners are all popular picks to reuse down the road. You can even repurpose décor and florals as gifts to your attendees or loved ones who helped you coordinate the big day.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Feeling stuck when it comes to how to write your renewal vows? We can help. Check out our latest tips here.","title":"8 Vow Renewal Wording Tips & Tricks","slug":"vow-renewal-wording-tips-and-tricks","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2OrLAgnlgpNbFhvXjMcFvF/bfc36b0ce58694d9f974aaf302327e30/inline_unsplash__22_.jpg","altText":"How to Write my Vow Renewals"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Looking for simple vow renewal ideas? Discover top tips and recommendations from the pros at Zola today. ","title":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas","slug":"simple-vow-renewal-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4PZSW1hObQ6TnM557egpbG/3ee842eade872a59be2ffc64a370f857/inline_unsplash__19___1_.jpg","altText":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Feeling stuck when it comes to how to write your renewal vows? We can help. Check out our latest tips here.","title":"8 Vow Renewal Wording Tips & Tricks","slug":"vow-renewal-wording-tips-and-tricks","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2OrLAgnlgpNbFhvXjMcFvF/bfc36b0ce58694d9f974aaf302327e30/inline_unsplash__22_.jpg","altText":"How to Write my Vow Renewals"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:49:58.680Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"funny-renewal-wedding-vows","title":"Funny Renewal Wedding Vows","excerpt":"Looking to get your guests laughing at your wedding renewal? Discover our top suggestions for funny renewal wedding vows here.","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T19:00:39.172Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/14SsQ3X0p4jSgW70Ku7hSo/0059254211a299da64d6c8c31ad123ed/inline_unsplash__21___1_.jpg","altText":"Funny Renewal Wedding Vows"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Vows are one of the original (and most meaningful) ways to highlight what you value most in your relationship. For many, having a husband or wife with a sense of humor is one of the secrets to an everlasting union. So why not embrace that the second time around at your wedding vow renewal ceremony?\n\nWhether you’re a comedian at heart or simply looking to entertain your guests, writing funny renewal wedding vows is a great way to commemorate your marriage thus far. Below are a few tips to help you embrace your lighthearted side and generate some laughs along the way at your vow renewal ceremony.\n\n### Pull Ideas From Your Original Wedding Vows\nWhether it’s a promise that one of you took a little too seriously (“cleaning more doesn’t mean vacuuming in the middle of the night”) or one that took on a whole new meaning (“who knew finding more shared hobbies would lead to entering an underwater hockey tournament?”), your original wedding vows are a great place to look for inspiration. This is especially effective if most of your guests are people who attended your wedding and heard your original wedding vows.\n\n### Reflect on Old Memories (Including the Wedding Day) \nFunny stories from when you first started dating your husband or wife always make great stories, because they’re full of humor and authenticity. The same goes for your wedding day. Chances are not everything went exactly as planned, so cracking jokes about what went wrong is a great way to lighten the mood and demonstrate that what you value most is the relationship itself.\n\n### Make Sure You’re on the Same Page as Your Partner\n\n![Funny Renewal Wedding Vows](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/63t5ZeVyOxxUQ24xMYA8E6/a7463efe34cac2f66861878708474639/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\nFunny vows are great, but if your partner is taking a more serious route, the unexpected humor can be a bit jarring at your renewal ceremony. If your partner is more of the sentimental or romantic type, make sure you let them know what route you’re going to take in advance of your vow renewal. If you’re both wannabe comedians and goofiness is your fallback, then you’re probably already on the right track. Just remember that your vows set the tone for the rest of the day, so you want them to feel authentic to you as a couple.\n\n### Mention Mistakes (and Make It Witty)\nWe’ve all failed in our relationships in one way or another. If addressed as a problem, it can be sad or frustrating, but if told in the form of a humorous recollection, it comes off more relatable. Maybe your initiative to cook more led to an adventure with the local fire station. Or, maybe your partner’s attempt to plan a surprise date failed when you wound up at the wrong restaurant. Even moments that may not have seemed funny at the time make some of the best memories and hilarious stories to share with your loved ones.\n\n### Be Self-Deprecating \nIf it’s in your repertoire, don’t be afraid to make fun of yourself. For example, maybe you vowed to make an effort to plan more vacations and your first attempt was a weekend camping trip that ended in disaster. It’s often easy to find lighthearted ways to pick on your partner, but highlighting your own mistakes is a great way to balance the humor and remind your SO that you know you’re not perfect either.\n\n### Include Something Serious or Sentimental \n\n![Funny Renewal Wedding Vows](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3G4JV49sJwIHyUHfrEtzFc/69d62539f97e40ae849ca3435b362939/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\nThough it doesn’t need to be the primary focus, it’s always nice to circle back to why you’re both standing there and how far you’ve come from your initial wedding day. Maybe your partner’s lighthearted (and sometimes childish) nature is what you love most about them. Or, maybe you acknowledge that humor is one of the greatest bonds the two of you have. No matter the focus, a brief moment of sincerity can go a long way.\n\n### Remember: There Aren’t Any Rules.\nJust like with your original [wedding vows](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-vows) (and [wedding planning](https://www.zola.com/) in general), there really are no rules. If you want to write a funny interpretation of a Shakespeare sonnet or create your own poem, go right ahead. If you’d prefer to keep things sentimental with a touch of humor here and there, that works too. If you do what feels right to you, your partner is sure to appreciate the thought behind it.\n\n### Sample Wording to Consider for Your Funny Vows:\n\n“*Ten years ago, I vowed to help you cook more dinners. That might have led to a lot of burnt pizza and the incessant sound of fire alarms, but here we are… and I’m still trying*.”\n\n“*To this day, our wedding remains one of the greatest days of my life. It was also the day I learned that seagulls like steak tartare as much as I do*.”\n\n“*After all these years, I’m so happy that we can still make each other laugh. Your humor has always been one of the greatest lights in my life and can make even the darkest days a little brighter*.”\n\n“*I vow to continue to plan more dates and fail miserably. To continue to pick up your dirty socks and not get upset when you vacuum between my toes while I’m trying to read.*”\n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Don’t know how to decorate a space for a vow renewal? Our experts at Zola can help! Read on to discover more. ","title":"How to Decorate for a Vow Renewal Ceremony","slug":"how-to-decorate-for-a-vow-renewal-ceremony","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NH6l2iaZEaPw38esQpXJX/ca8c3b551487d3e7591a18f4a3606df4/Inline_Chensley_Photography__1_.png","altText":"Vow Renewal Ceremony Decorations"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Looking for simple vow renewal ideas? Discover top tips and recommendations from the pros at Zola today. ","title":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas","slug":"simple-vow-renewal-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4PZSW1hObQ6TnM557egpbG/3ee842eade872a59be2ffc64a370f857/inline_unsplash__19___1_.jpg","altText":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Wondering if you should send wedding renewal invitations? Our experts explain the answer in this comprehensive guide.","title":"10 Ideas For Vow Renewal Invitations","slug":"wedding-renewal-invitations","topic":"Invites & paper","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4U5YGAECoxGdv1ZwoqNlSN/0d3756933a90c0b091f74d1250b6f894/jeremy-wong-weddings-464ps_nOflw-unsplash.jpg","altText":"older couple vow renewal"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Feeling stuck when it comes to how to write your renewal vows? We can help. Check out our latest tips here.","title":"8 Vow Renewal Wording Tips & Tricks","slug":"vow-renewal-wording-tips-and-tricks","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2OrLAgnlgpNbFhvXjMcFvF/bfc36b0ce58694d9f974aaf302327e30/inline_unsplash__22_.jpg","altText":"How to Write my Vow Renewals"},"type":"articlePage"}],"featured":[{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Check out our latest blog for fun and creative 20th-anniversary ideas! Read our blog for more inspiration. ","title":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas","slug":"20th-wedding-anniversary-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44xqsjrS9WDU3wnTp475xF/06153ab78d0d9f3131e8cbc547c9628d/Inline_unsplash__11_.png","altText":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Check out our latest blog to discover our top 35th wedding anniversary ideas. Read our blog for more. ","title":"35 Unique 35th Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas","slug":"35th-wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-that-put-new-spins-on-coral-and-jade","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2rTlkpD9oaAPmb4dOEcKwz/e7500024365df97d78c5338f33be872f/inline_unsplash__25_.jpg","altText":"35 Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"So it’s your wedding anniversary and you want to throw a get-together to celebrate? Read our step-by-step guide for inspiration.","title":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas","slug":"wedding-anniversary-invite-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7IJ6B0KMXmqqXJpoYAxenM/9cebce3e0441a1accfa69aeda9d53965/inline_unsplash.jpg","altText":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:50:00.923Z"}],"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries","description":"Your guide to celebrating wedding anniversaries! From anniversary gifts by year to celebrating with a vow renewal ceremony, find all the advice and inspiration you need to make every anniversary super special."},"topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","description":"Get relationship advice from the experts. Maybe you've been dating for a while and need guidance on how to talk about the next steps. Or you're newly engaged and need advice on how to handle wedding planning stress. You'll also find advice for newlywed couples, like how to combine finances. Plus guides to celebrating anniversaries and renewing your vows! Whatever stage of the journey you're in, we're here to support you through it all.","subtopics":[{"featuredArticles":[],"name":"Dating","slug":"dating","description":"Whether you just started dating and are looking for special birthday gift ideas or have been dating for sometime and need guidance on how to talk about bringing your relationship to the next level. Find practical dating advice for every couple."},{"featuredArticles":[],"name":"Newly engaged couples","slug":"newly-engaged-couples","description":"Congratulations on your engagement! In the midst of planning your wedding, you might need general advice on navigating life as a newly engaged couple. We give expert advice on topics like navigating a long distance engagement and answer questions like how to introduce your fiance to your family. We're here to guide and support you, in all ways, throughout this journey!"},{"name":"Newlywed couples","slug":"newlywed-couples","description":"Congrats Newlyweds! As your wedding celebrations come to an end, you might be asking yourselves some questions on topics like combining finances, navigating post-wedding blues (it's a thing!) or buying a house and preparing to start a family. Find expert marriage advice to guide you through the start of your forever and beyond."},{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"35th-wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-that-put-new-spins-on-coral-and-jade","title":"35 Unique 35th Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas","excerpt":"Check out our latest blog to discover our top 35th wedding anniversary ideas. Read our blog for more. ","author":"Taylor Bryant","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T20:58:08.897Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2rTlkpD9oaAPmb4dOEcKwz/e7500024365df97d78c5338f33be872f/inline_unsplash__25_.jpg","altText":"35 Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Ah, the 35th wedding anniversary. At this point, you’ve probably cycled through all of the “typical” milestone gifts such as jewelry (gold and sterling silver!), headphones, or framed pictures of each other. After three and a half decades of present exchanges, picking up with special anniversary gift ideas l might be a bit more difficult. Well, one easy way of avoiding the obvious is sticking to the traditional themes. \n\n## Jade: A Modern 35th Anniversary Wedding Gift\nIf traditional isn’t your style and you want to go with a more modern gift, try green jade, a gemstone known for its distinct and stunning green color. Jade represents good luck, good fortune, wealth, and wisdom, and is revered in many cultures around the world—and jade anniversary gifts are thought to bring that same luck, fortune, wealth, and wisdom to the couple celebrating 35 years of marriage.\n\n## Coral: A Traditional 35th Anniversary Wedding Gift\n\nThe thirty-five year anniversary is known as the coral gift year. The actual material, known as “the garden of the sea,” is found on the ocean floor and comes in a range of colors, the most noted being a salmon pink shade. It’s regarded as being an item of peace and transformation, and, back in the day, was believed to hold magical powers. If we’re looking for a symbolic link, coral often takes a long time to form and fully develop, much like a successful union—which is why this traditional gift is the perfect way to commemorate a long, happy marriage. \n\n## Jade: A Modern 35th Anniversary Wedding Gift\nIf traditional isn’t your style and you want to go with a more modern gift, try green jade, a gemstone known for its distinct and stunning green color. Jade represents good luck, good fortune, wealth, and wisdom, and is revered in many cultures around the world—and jade anniversary gifts are thought to bring that same luck, fortune, wealth, and wisdom to the couple celebrating 35 years of marriage.\n\n## 35th Anniversary Gift Ideas\nYou can, and should, use these two themes as jumping-off points, and we’ve also gathered up some 35th wedding anniversary ideas below. If you’re looking for the perfect gift idea for your 35th anniversary, we can help. From romantic dinner cruises to elegant jade golf tees, discover our top 35th wedding anniversary ideas (including coral anniversary gifts and jade anniversary gifts!) with this informative gift guide.\n\n### 1. [Plant Subscription](https://www.thesill.com/collections/plant-subscription) The Sill, Various Prices\nPlants are a great way of livening up any space, and jade ones, in particular, are of the succulent variety, which means that they hold water in their leaves. So, green thumb or not, they should be fairly easy to take care of. If you’re looking for unique 35th anniversary ideas, a plant subscription can be the best call. Start by presenting your partner with the initial jade plant, but make sure to mention that there will be a new one arriving every month to care for and cherish. Your collection of plants will grow just as your love has over the years.\n\n![inline unsplash (26)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4LFVwAOUUwGK2fziNM4v3b/dd99eb5d2f9a85a2ca28c9d2b3f04c0a/inline_unsplash__26_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### 2. [Coral Makeup Set](https://www.charlottetilbury.com/us/product/pillow-talk-makeup-secrets), Charlotte Tilbury, $128\nThe color coral is one of the more universally flattering shades out there. It pairs nicely with almost every skin tone and gives wearers a nice, authentic glow. A makeup set that includes a blush, eyeshadow, and lipstick is a perfect triple whammy if you’re looking for a coral anniversary gift.\n\n### 3. Trip to an Aquarium, Various Prices\nFor a chance to see some coral up close and personal without having to get wet, plan a fun trip to the aquarium (you’re never too old to watch penguins and otters socialize, trust us). Honestly, the coral will probably be the least exciting part of the day, and, if you don’t feel too guilty afterward, end with a romantic seafood dinner to celebrate your 35 year wedding anniversary.\n\n### 4. [Dinner Cruise](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cloud9_dinnercruise_ny), Zola, $389 per couple\nIf you live in New York—and you’re looking to get a little more intimate with the water (home of the coral!)—a dinner cruise with views of the Statue of Liberty, Empire State Building, and the Brooklyn Bridge is guaranteed to be a good time. \n\n### 5. [Wood and Jade Ring](https://www.etsy.com/listing/639612989/wood-ring-jade-bentwood-fumed-eucalyptus?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=mens%20jade%20ring&ref=sc_gallery-1-1&plkey=77774a9b57137edffa4ecfd0cd25a918339a92b6:639612989&frs=1&source=aw&utm_source=affiliate_window&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=us_location_buyer&utm_term=3657&utm_content=565019&awc=6220_1595609528_fef382ae6d1fb9a480247851e2fa6ce6), Etsy, $175\nA nostalgic nod to your fifth wedding anniversary, this handmade wooden band comes with a stunning jade inlay that’s both timeless and durable.\n\n### 6. [Coral Rose Box](https://saayarose.com/products/36-rose-box-classic?_pos=2&_sid=d19189014&_ss=r), SAAYA ROSE, $179\nFlowers are always a safe bet for an anniversary gift, but the problem lies in the fact that they start dying after a week or two. Eco-friendly, preserved roses (including coral shades!) last 365 days and will keep your house smelling fresh into your 36th year of matrimony. \n\n### 7. [Jade Golf Tees](https://saayarose.com/products/36-rose-box-classic?_pos=2&_sid=d19189014&_ss=r), Amazon, $23.98\nTee-off in style with a jade golf tee. Your partner’s golf buddies will be hiding their regular white tees in shame. Just like your partnership, the gemstone itself is one of the toughest.\n\n### 8. [Topgolf Gift Card](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/topgolf_topgolf_100_gift_card), Topgolf, Various Prices\nLooking for 35th anniversary ideas that involve your spouse’s favorite hobby? For a chance to really show off your new regal tees, book a couple of outings—either with your spouse, a group of friends, or another couple—to Topgolf for some friendly competition. (Bonus points if you wear coral and/or jade golf shirts!)\n\n### 9. [Rosette Jewelry Tray](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1129680815/rosette-tray-in-blue-gray-and-light?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+jewelry+dish&ref=sc_gallery-1-7&listing_id=1129680815&listing_slug=rosette-tray-in-blue-gray-and-light&plkey=2747c833c5c49e0ffa7cac57858a05c95eef4f9d%3A1129680815), Etsy, $65\nIf your partner needs a place to put their jewelry at the end of the day (perhaps a previous anniversary ring or other jewelry gift?), this unique jewelry tray—complete with coral rosettes—would make for a fantastic 35th anniversary gift (and provide your vanity with a little pop of color in the process!) \n\n### 10. [Reel Viewer](https://www.uncommongoods.com/product/create-your-own-reel-viewer?), Uncommon Goods, $29.95\nYou probably have enough photo albums, portraits, and personalized gifts to last you another 35 years, but what’s one more? At least this one is guaranteed to be unlike the others. Gather snapshots of your favorite memories and add them to a reel viewer (in the perfect coral shade!) to immortalize your time together. It’ll be nostalgia like you’ve never experienced before.\n\n### 11. [Jade Earrings in 12K Gold Filled, Vintage Style Green Jade Drop Earrings](https://www.etsy.com/listing/575745430/jade-earrings-in-12k-gold-filled-vintage?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sc_gallery-4-10&pro=1&frs=1&listing_id=575745430&listing_slug=jade-earrings-in-12k-gold-filled-vintage&plkey=ff065aa77dcf62ffbc50cbd01d94ae41aa9dbb11%3A575745430), Etsy, $127.92\nThese drop-style earrings, complete with jade stones, would make the perfect anniversary gift for anyone who loves all things vintage.\n\n### 12. [\"Tree of Love\" Art Print](https://www.etsy.com/listing/129625721/anniversary-gift-for-parents-15th-25th?click_key=0082723bfc6e327c72d4523b19dd0ef58b9f889e%3A129625721&click_sum=b2373ffe&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sr_gallery-5-41&organic_search_click=1&frs=1), Etsy, $27.75\nLove is, in many ways, like a tree; you plant roots, you give the tree attention, and, over time, it grows. So why not commemorate your tree growing for 35 years with this “Tree of Love” print? Customize with your name and wedding date—and order the jade shade to honor your 35th.\n\n### 13. [Green Jade Bangle Bracelet](https://www.etsy.com/listing/973399554/green-jade-bangle-bracelet-for-women-in?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sc_gallery-6-14&pro=1&frs=1&listing_id=973399554&listing_slug=green-jade-bangle-bracelet-for-women-in&plkey=bc2fcffaf62ee886a429ce6eddc52d90079e5ec3%3A973399554), Etsy, $183.92\nIf you want to gift your partners something simple—but fashionable—consider this piece of jade jewelry. The simple gold bangle is offset by two jade gemstones, creating a minimalist (but elegant!) look.\n\n#### 14. [Holzkern Watch in Tropical Forest](https://www.world.holzkern.com/en_world/tropical-forest-walnut-marble.html?utm_source=shopping&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=us-generic-watches&gclid=CjwKCAjwlcaRBhBYEiwAK341jdmpwTz8fJlCUhHjA-kem9ym7pc5T1Nhdnp5VvTp49bE94eR9-LmrhoCTDkQAvD_BwE), Holzkern, $199\nThis walnut watch features a jade green marble watch face. It feels timeless, elegant, and truly unique—making it a great way to commemorate your 35th wedding anniversary.\n\n### 15. [Jade Anniversary Journal](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1061811525/personalized-anniversary-journal-with?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+notebook&ref=sc_gallery-1-2&pro=1&frs=1&sts=1&listing_id=1061811525&listing_slug=personalized-anniversary-journal-with&plkey=e1b25cffc275c8dd5c928a65887494adfc6db2e0%3A1061811525), Etsy, $80.95\nMarriage is all about making memories—and if you want to give your partner a way to record those memories, this jade anniversary journal would make the perfect gift. Gold emboss your names and wedding date on the front cover to make the gift even more personal.\n\n### 16. [Bean Shaped Acrylic Clutch Purse In Emerald Green](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1152006895/bean-shaped-acrylic-clutch-purse-in?click_key=b1d5445e3af0bdfbb76684dae4a9d0f43c6cc416%3A1152006895&click_sum=a26f7c01&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+bag&ref=sr_gallery-1-14&organic_search_click=1&pro=1&frs=1), Etsy, $64\nIf you think your partner would like a unique gift, this clutch purse—which comes complete with vintage details and in a striking shade of jade green—is definitely one to consider.\n\n### 17. [Coral Red Drip Coffee Mug](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1169796900/coral-red-drip-coffee-mug?click_key=c534531d3e4c1bad231190c3c14c2978abaab325%3A1169796900&click_sum=a011022b&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+coffee+mugs&ref=sr_gallery-1-14&organic_search_click=1), Etsy, $22\nThe best anniversary gifts are the ones you actually use. And what gift is your partner sure to use just about every day? A coffee mug, of course! This handmade ceramic option—in the perfect shade of coral for your 35th!—can easily hold 10oz of coffee to help your loved one start their day off right.\n\n### 18. [Natural Jade Wine Glasses](https://www.etsy.com/listing/700855988/natural-jade-wine-glasses-made-by-hand?click_key=8747dcf3c6ae8fbba465e0a5cac3e2c83e8d7abb%3A700855988&click_sum=31feec14&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+wine+glasses&ref=sr_gallery-1-1&organic_search_click=1&pro=1&frs=1), Etsy, $8.50\nDo you and your partner love to end the day with a glass of Cabernet or Pinot Grigio? If so, you’ll want to toast 35 years together with these natural jade wine glasses.\n\n### 19. [Primalush Textured Robe](https://berkshireblanket.com/products/primalush-textured-robe?variant=40698742603955¤cy=USD&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic), Berkshire Blanket, $55\nAfter 35 years together, chances are, you and your partner are pretty comfortable around each other. But if you want them to feel even more comfortable, this textured robe from Berkshire Blanket (which comes in a soft jade shade) would make for a great gift.\n\n### 20. [Jade Guitar Pick](https://www.etsy.com/listing/198230244/jade-guitar-pick-canadian-jade-sold?click_key=57d4bad4e9996a0d851d49e7318e7f849f65774e%3A198230244&click_sum=9a7af501&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+guitar+pick&ref=sr_gallery-1-1&organic_search_click=1), Etsy, $15.98\nIf your partner spends their free time strumming on their guitar, this jade guitar pick would make a great gift.\n\n### 21. [Custom Personalized Engraving Jade Green Leaf Marble Single Pen Stand](https://www.etsy.com/listing/863934986/graduation-special-custom-personalized?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+pens&ref=sc_gallery-1-2&pro=1&frs=1&listing_id=863934986&listing_slug=graduation-special-custom-personalized&plkey=e42f5824a415036b3f7d9a4318945e73228f223f%3A863934986), Etsy, $71.76\nIf your partner likes to write (or just likes to decorate their desk!), this personalized marble pen stand would make a great gift. Engrave the jade base with their name—and, if you want it to remind them of your anniversary, your wedding date.\n\n### 22. [Jade Green Jug Vase, Saban Glassware](https://sabanglassware.com/product/jug-vase/?attribute_pa_color=jade-green&utm_source=Google%20Shopping&utm_campaign=Google%20&utm_medium=cpc&utm_term=18484&campaignid=16558146478&adgroupid=131359189421&network=u&device=c&gclid=CjwKCAjwlcaRBhBYEiwAK341jbfU87jpaluzbBePARBeER4orWXDXO6zno46osl2J9HQQYEY8VvezxoC8dIQAvD_BwE), $123.75\nIf you’re planning to bring your partner flowers for your anniversary, you’ll need something to put them in. And not only does this jade green vase make for the perfect flower receptacle, but it can also double as your anniversary gift!\n\n### 23. [Song Soundwave](https://www.etsy.com/listing/878917391/song-soundwave-anniversary-gift-jade?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=jade+anniversary+gift&ref=sc_gallery-1-3&frs=1&sts=1&listing_id=878917391&listing_slug=song-soundwave-anniversary-gift-jade&plkey=f225bbad7c526e4a7ca149f8f3e57a26f9747a00%3A878917391), Etsy, $49\nYour first dance may have been 35 years ago—but we bet it’s still one of your favorite songs. Capture that moment and gift it to your partner with this art print, which turns your song into a soundwave. You can customize the color, but the jade option is perfect for the modern 35th wedding anniversary gift.\n\n### 24. [Jade & Coral Tree, Copper Wire Bonsai](https://www.etsy.com/listing/951062275/jade-coral-tree-35th-anniversary-gift?click_key=4e2b0e5418ee4f98f55bd3a49b2fc5515edcfb3a%3A951062275&click_sum=24982a2c&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sr_gallery-1-11&organic_search_click=1&etp=1&sts=1), Etsy, $57.39\nIf your partner’s idea of the perfect anniversary gift is a unique, memorable decorative item, this jade and coral wire bonsai tree is sure to be a hit.\n\n### 25. [Couples T-Shirts, ‘MARRIED SINCE’ set of 2 Matching Tees](https://www.etsy.com/listing/999544158/35th-anniversary-gift-in-coral-couples-t?click_key=7b63003c689c37dd87b367e80f70eb6639c59277%3A999544158&click_sum=4f10b31b&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sr_gallery-3-46&organic_search_click=1&frs=1), Etsy, $25\nIf you and your partner have a sense of humor, these couples’ t-shirts could be a cute (and funny!) way to celebrate your 35th anniversary.\n\n### 26. [Coral Sun Catcher](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1114307099/35th-wedding-anniversary-gift-coral?click_key=eb7835c93e71e1160867a40a123ecab9f1884bb5%3A1114307099&click_sum=fe87e355&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary&ref=sr_gallery-4-17&organic_search_click=1&sca=1), Etsy, $19.77\nCapture the sun and commemorate 35 amazing years together with this coral sun catcher. It’s a great gift—and would make a great addition to a sunny window!\n\n### 27. [35th Coral anniversary necklace | Two peas In a pod](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1054047027/35th-coral-anniversary-necklace-two-peas?click_key=cd6231ef3a8794df5c0f5ac4e70606269f8bdfa5%3A1054047027&click_sum=cd673b74&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=35th+anniversary+coral&ref=sr_gallery-4-35&organic_search_click=1&frs=1), Etsy, $106.34 \nAfter 35 years, you and your partner are definitely two peas in a pod. So why not use your gift to celebrate that? This “two peas in a pod” anniversary necklace features two stones of your choice in a silver pod. Your partner will be reminded of your bond every time they wear it!\n\n### 28. [35th Wedding Anniversary Sundial](https://www.etsy.com/listing/619000059/unique-35th-wedding-anniversary-sundial?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+gifts&ref=sc_gallery-1-12&frs=1&listing_id=619000059&listing_slug=unique-35th-wedding-anniversary-sundial&plkey=98f704ce8a7ae19d964db4a790ef6b1e4e1f7444%3A619000059), Etsy, $85.32\nA sundial can be a great addition to your backyard and an interesting, unexpected gift. And with this version, you can personalize the sundial to include your anniversary date—and commemorate your 35 wonderful years together.\n\n### 29. [RCA Retro Portable Home Theater Projector, Coral](https://www.beachcamera.com/products/rca-retro-480p-portable-home-theater-projector-rpj264-coral), Beach Camera, $64.95\nIs a move you and your partner’s idea of the perfect date night? If so, this home theater projector (in the perfect shade of coral!) can be a great gift—and a great way to recreate the move theater experience in your own home.\n\n### 30. [Turkish Blanket](https://www.etsy.com/listing/750657456/turkish-blanket-blanket-78x86-turkish?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+throw+blanket&ref=sc_gallery-1-3&pro=1&listing_id=750657456&listing_slug=turkish-blanket-blanket-78x86-turkish&plkey=f55e199d6b9ff6de582d117510e6e409e4d41437%3A750657456), Etsy, $23\nIs there any better way to spend your 35th anniversary than snuggled up with your loved one? We don’t think so—which is why this coral Turkish blanket would make such a great anniversary gift.\n\n### 31. [KitchenAid Artisan® Series 5 Quart Tilt-Head Stand Mixer](https://www.kitchenaid.com/countertop-appliances/stand-mixers/tilt-head-stand-mixers/p.artisan-series-5-quart-tilt-head-stand-mixer.ksm150psph.html), KitchenAid, $429.90\nIf your partner loves to bake, the KitchenAid Stand Mixer is the ultimate gift. (Seriously—ask any baker!) Commemorate your 35th anniversary by gifting your partner the stand mixer in the coral shade.\n\n### 32. [Coral Pink Bunny Rabbit Handmade Ceramic Ring Holder](https://www.etsy.com/listing/815507570/coral-pink-bunny-rabbit-handmade-ceramic?click_key=c7a775e5e7330986257c819ac5f57e1c2ef26708%3A815507570&click_sum=29d41a7c&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+ring+holder&ref=sr_gallery-1-8&organic_search_click=1&pro=1), Etsy, $25.49\nIf you and your partner need a safe (and adorable!) place to store your wedding rings while you sleep, this ceramic ring holder, which allows you to place your rings on the ears of two coral bunnies, would make the perfect gift for your anniversary.\n\n### 33. [Coral Flowers Gallery Wall, 8x10 Set of 4](https://www.etsy.com/listing/586929979/coral-flowers-gallery-wall-8x10-set-of-4?click_key=ce0a5b6b8d26dede5333fc2525fb6aa912e6e1bb%3A586929979&click_sum=16f83be6&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=coral+art&ref=sr_gallery-1-36&organic_search_click=1&pro=1&frs=1&sts=1), Etsy, $49.95\nIf you want to give a 35th anniversary gift that can double as home decor, you should definitely consider this gallery set of four watercolor coral flower prints. (Just keep in mind that frames aren’t included—so if you want to deliver your gift ready to hang, you’ll have to purchase the frames separately.)\n\n### 34. [Omnia Coral By Bvlgari Eau De Toilette Spray For Women](https://www.amazon.com/Bvlgari-Omnia-Coral-Toilette-Spray/dp/B007C27HAA/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&qid=1451968065&sr=8-22&keywords=coral&linkCode=sl1&tag=oneextmar-20&linkId=5b4bf130bb2904a4a823979158218d09), Amazon, $87.93\nDoes your partner love perfume? If so, why not capture coral in a bottle? The Ombia Coral by Bvlgari comes in attractive coral packaging and has hints of goji berries, bergamot, berries, hibiscus flower, water lily, pomegranate and cedar wood. It’s perfect for a special occasion—like your 35th wedding anniversary!\n\n### 35. [24k Gold Forever Rose, The Forever Rose](https://theforeverrose.com/products/gold-dipped-rose-white-orange?variant=37576780775593¤cy=USD&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic&gclid=CjwKCAjwlcaRBhBYEiwAK341jcHlHKMaDyH3YsxV3ek6CRvXJ-KdvN56DcBOVndf8vrJ3WH4TWZ_xRoCdUkQAvD_BwE), $79.95\nA rose always makes for a great gift. But for your 35th anniversary, you want a special rose—like the Forever Rose, a real rose that’s dipped in 24K gold. Go with the Sunrise Rose, which is the perfect shade of coral—and the perfect option to celebrate your 35th.\n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Looking for simple vow renewal ideas? Discover top tips and recommendations from the pros at Zola today. ","title":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas","slug":"simple-vow-renewal-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4PZSW1hObQ6TnM557egpbG/3ee842eade872a59be2ffc64a370f857/inline_unsplash__19___1_.jpg","altText":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Don’t know how to decorate a space for a vow renewal? Our experts at Zola can help! Read on to discover more. ","title":"How to Decorate for a Vow Renewal Ceremony","slug":"how-to-decorate-for-a-vow-renewal-ceremony","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NH6l2iaZEaPw38esQpXJX/ca8c3b551487d3e7591a18f4a3606df4/Inline_Chensley_Photography__1_.png","altText":"Vow Renewal Ceremony Decorations"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"}],"featured":[{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Wanting to think out the box for your upcoming wedding anniversary gifts? Read this guide for some inspiration on choosing an anniversary gift for your husband.","title":"Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas for Husband","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-for-husband","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2vtI05eFyRNuMAfMKeIcT8/9c828f199ec0faa8cdf9f28e1c95d4e9/inline_unsplash__11_.jpg","altText":"Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas for Husband"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"So it’s your wedding anniversary and you want to throw a get-together to celebrate? Read our step-by-step guide for inspiration.","title":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas","slug":"wedding-anniversary-invite-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7IJ6B0KMXmqqXJpoYAxenM/9cebce3e0441a1accfa69aeda9d53965/inline_unsplash.jpg","altText":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:49:52.792Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"simple-vow-renewal-ideas","title":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas","excerpt":"Looking for simple vow renewal ideas? Discover top tips and recommendations from the pros at Zola today. ","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T18:35:30.762Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4PZSW1hObQ6TnM557egpbG/3ee842eade872a59be2ffc64a370f857/inline_unsplash__19___1_.jpg","altText":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"When it comes to simple vow renewal ideas, few couples know where to start. There are endless resources out there for those planning their wedding, but vow renewals haven’t yet received the same level of recognition.\n\nNo matter the location, reason for celebrating, or size of the soiree, there are many ways you can acknowledge this monumental moment in your marriage without being overly intricate. Below, find nine simple vow renewal ideas or jump straight to the section you’re most inspired by:\n\n1. [Have a Ceremony at Home](#have-a-ceremony-at-home)\n2. [Reread Your Original Vows](#reread-your-original-vows)\n3. [Celebrate With Your Children](#celebrate-with-your-children)\n4. [Have a Potluck](#have-a-potluck)\n5. [Go Simple With Attire](#go-simple-with-attire)\n6. [Rededicate Your Rings](#rededicate-your-rings)\n7. [Pick a Place With Meaning to Both of You](#pick-a-place-with-meaning-to-both-of-you)\n8. [Choose Your Invited Wisely](#choose-your-invited-wisely)\n9. [Do a Destination Vow Renewal](#do-a-destination-vow-renewal)\n\n## 9 Simple Vow Renewal Ideas\nHere is a list of simple, but special vow renewal ideas you can incorporate into your ceremony. \n\n### 1. Have a Ceremony at Home
\nOne of the simplest ways to celebrate your renewed love for one another is by holding a ceremony at home (also occasionally called an “at-home elopement”). Not only is it an intimate place to celebrate with your closest friends and family, but it’s also a great way to acknowledge the life you’ve built together as a couple. If you’ve got room for all your loved ones and a bit of green space for the vows ceremony, your home might be the perfect venue.\n\n### 2. Reread Your Original Vows
\nDon’t think that rereading your old [wedding vows]( https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-vows) is simply a way of avoiding writing new ones. Vows—like marriage—are meant to be a lifelong effort and commitment. By rereading your vows, you’re sending the message that you’re willing to make the same promises you made years ago, even if circumstances have changed. Is there anything more romantic than that? It also creates an inevitably sweet, sentimental moment that might trigger some tears.\n\n### 3. Celebrate With Your Children
\nIf the years between your wedding and vow renewal resulted in some little ones, then go ahead and find ways to include them in the big day. Maybe you mention them in the ceremony reading or let them serve as “hosts” for the event. You can even let one of your children perform as a makeshift officiant for an additional dose of charm. There are no rules, so have fun with it. \n\n### 4. Have a Potluck
\nIf you had an expensive wedding, no need to host a pricey vow renewal ceremony. Simply ask your friends and family to bring a favorite dish of theirs, and you can supply the beverages or desserts. This works especially well for at-home ceremonies and those in public spaces, like national parks or beaches. It might take a little bit of coordinating to make sure there’s something for everyone to eat, but it works for more casual celebrations and lets your guests feel like they contributed in some way.\n\n### 5. Go Simple With Attire
\nNo need to buy an extravagant gown or three-piece suit the second time around. Brides shouldn’t even feel the need to wear white if it doesn’t fit their style. Just go for something simple and elegant that works with your personalities, as well as the space you’re celebrating in. If you’re looking for something more formal, consider taking your wedding-day attire for a spin. Not only does it save some money, but it’s also a great way to honor your original wedding day.\n\n![Simple Vow Renewal Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1OHGj4DSxLbi6o3uxoEmYs/561bae65b5648a7440e9dc87e60dbaa2/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### 6. Rededicate Your Rings
\nThough ring exchanges aren’t required for a vow renewal ceremony, many couples choose to do something special with them to symbolize the next phase of their lives together. This can mean anything from having them blessed to getting them engraved with a sweet phrase or your vow renewal date. If you want to go all out, you can even purchase new rings to commemorate the occasion. (After all, if you’ve been married for a decade or more, it’s likely your tastes have changed.)\n\n### 7. Pick a Place With Meaning to Both of You
\n![Simple Vow Renewal Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2t1VuCDK7Rsi7OlBWnqb2Z/807a6dda70892cb51175425500b2281a/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\nThough couples are getting more and more creative with [wedding venues](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-venues), there are even fewer expectations when it comes to vow renewals. Maybe the restaurant where you got engaged has a great event space or your favorite coffee shop has an amazing underground roastery with lots of space. If you want to take a walk down memory lane, you could even choose to renew your vows at the original venue where you got married.\n\n### 8. Choose Your Invited Wisely
\nAs beautiful as print invitations are, they may not be right for a casual occasion. Consider opting for electronic invitations or even a simple email announcement that directs recipients toward a vow renewal website. You’re not only reducing the risk of invitations getting lost in the mail, but you’re also simultaneously keeping costs down. \n\nWith the abundance of options available these days it’s easy to make your digital invites feel both polished and personal. If you plan on going all out for your wedding renewal, choose [wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop) that are fit for the occasion. Remember,it’s up to the two of you as a couple to decide how you’ll want to celebrate this special day. \n\n### 9. Do a Destination Vow Renewal
\nAlways secretly dreamt of eloping despite having a large, traditional wedding? In that case, a destination vow renewal is a no-brainer. This could be anything from hosting an intimate ceremony on a beach in Tulum, Mexico to eloping on a sailboat in the South Pacific. Just note that if you’re planning a vow renewal in the near future, we highly suggest staying up-to-date on travel restrictions and observing the recommendations made by both the World Health Organization (WHO) and Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).\n\nNow that you know our top ideas for renewing marriage vows, it’s time to choose the perfect event for your special day. As long as love is the center of the event, we are sure you’ll have a beautiful and memorable vow renewal ceremony.\n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Don’t know how to decorate a space for a vow renewal? Our experts at Zola can help! Read on to discover more. ","title":"How to Decorate for a Vow Renewal Ceremony","slug":"how-to-decorate-for-a-vow-renewal-ceremony","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NH6l2iaZEaPw38esQpXJX/ca8c3b551487d3e7591a18f4a3606df4/Inline_Chensley_Photography__1_.png","altText":"Vow Renewal Ceremony Decorations"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Wondering if you should send wedding renewal invitations? Our experts explain the answer in this comprehensive guide.","title":"10 Ideas For Vow Renewal Invitations","slug":"wedding-renewal-invitations","topic":"Invites & paper","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4U5YGAECoxGdv1ZwoqNlSN/0d3756933a90c0b091f74d1250b6f894/jeremy-wong-weddings-464ps_nOflw-unsplash.jpg","altText":"older couple vow renewal"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Feeling stuck when it comes to how to write your renewal vows? We can help. Check out our latest tips here.","title":"8 Vow Renewal Wording Tips & Tricks","slug":"vow-renewal-wording-tips-and-tricks","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2OrLAgnlgpNbFhvXjMcFvF/bfc36b0ce58694d9f974aaf302327e30/inline_unsplash__22_.jpg","altText":"How to Write my Vow Renewals"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Looking to get your guests laughing at your wedding renewal? Discover our top suggestions for funny renewal wedding vows here.","title":"Funny Renewal Wedding Vows","slug":"funny-renewal-wedding-vows","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/14SsQ3X0p4jSgW70Ku7hSo/0059254211a299da64d6c8c31ad123ed/inline_unsplash__21___1_.jpg","altText":"Funny Renewal Wedding Vows"},"type":"articlePage"}],"featured":[{"excerpt":"Check out our latest blog for fun and creative 20th-anniversary ideas! Read our blog for more inspiration. ","title":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas","slug":"20th-wedding-anniversary-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44xqsjrS9WDU3wnTp475xF/06153ab78d0d9f3131e8cbc547c9628d/Inline_unsplash__11_.png","altText":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"So it’s your wedding anniversary and you want to throw a get-together to celebrate? Read our step-by-step guide for inspiration.","title":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas","slug":"wedding-anniversary-invite-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7IJ6B0KMXmqqXJpoYAxenM/9cebce3e0441a1accfa69aeda9d53965/inline_unsplash.jpg","altText":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:50:03.481Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"anniversary-quotes","title":"110 Happy Anniversary Quotes to Express Your Love","excerpt":"Want to wish someone a happy anniversary but unsure of how to put it into words? These anniversary quotes offer plenty of ideas to get you started. ","publishedAt":"2022-05-03T19:35:03.098Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/69O8ZbFrxXeFF4Adfgo1U5/cbc24c72a99f1b4d1938f93499d7530f/woman-giving-partner-anniversary-letter.jpg","altText":"woman giving partner anniversary letter"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/","heroCaption":"woman giving partner anniversary letter","body":"The wedding might be over, but anniversaries are a significant [milestone](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/diy-photo-booth) in a couple’s relationship that deserve to be celebrated. With all the ups and downs life can bring, reaching another year of marriage is no small feat, which makes sending anniversary wishes that much more special. \n\nTraditionally, there’s no [etiquette](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/guest-at-wedding) rule requiring you to send anniversary wishes to another couple. This doesn’t apply to your own relationship, though—spouses should definitely acknowledge the special day! That said, if you’re looking to wish someone a happy anniversary but are unsure of how to put your wishes into words, our anniversary quotes offer plenty of ideas to get you started. \n\nWhether you’re writing to your own partner or celebrating close friends or parents, we’ve included something for everyone. (You might also consider an [anniversary gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas) while you’re at it!)\n\n__Table of Contents__\n- What to Include in an Anniversary Message\n- Simple Happy Anniversary Quotes\n- Anniversary Quotes for Instagram Captions\n- Thoughtful Anniversary Quotes\n- Romantic Anniversary Quotes\n- Funny Anniversary Quotes\n- One-Year Anniversary Quotes\n- Anniversary Quotes for Friends\n- Anniversary Quotes for Parents\n\n\n## What to Include in an Anniversary Message\nIf you’re scratching your head for [what to write](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-write-in-a-wedding-card) in your anniversary message, don’t fear! Your message doesn’t have to be complicated. Here are some helpful places to get started when deciding on what to include in your anniversary message—you’ll find writing your heartfelt note isn’t so hard! \n\n- Make a toast\n- Share a memory\n- Offer words of encouragement\n- Celebrate the milestone \n- Call out the beauty of a lasting relationship \n- Reflect on your love for your partner \n\n![the-best-anniversary-quotes-qualities](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5SKxJMuHNoqTGXRscBsLZF/e474dd9224a0413817840a59a1a92cca/the-best-anniversary-quotes-qualities.png)\n\n## Simple Happy Anniversary Quotes \nYou can say a lot with not many words—a simple “Happy Anniversary” paired with one of the anniversary quotes below is all you need for a heartwarming message. Use the following quotes for inspiration if you’re celebrating your own anniversary, or skip below to find quotes for friends and loved ones. \n\n1. You make celebrating our love feel easy. Happy anniversary! \n2. Today, tomorrow, and always—our love never ends. Happy anniversary!\n3. Cheers to another year with my better half. \n4. Time truly flies when I’m with you. Happy anniversary! \n5. Cheers to another 365 days together and the many more to come!\n6. Life with you just makes sense—here’s to another year together. \n7. Thanks for being the best partner I could’ve asked for. Happy anniversary!\n8. Another year together and I’m still finding new things I love about you.\n9. Choosing you was the best decision I ever made. \n10. Loved you last year, loved you yesterday, love you still and always will. \n11. Our love story is my favorite. Happy anniversary to us! \n12. Happy anniversary to my person—how did I get so lucky? \n13. Today reminds me of why I fell in love with you, and my love has only grown. Happy anniversary today and always.\n14. I’m grateful for our love every day, but especially today. Happy anniversary!\n15. All of me loves all of you. Happy anniversary to my favorite person! \n\n## Anniversary Quotes for Instagram Captions\nYour anniversary is a significant milestone, so it makes sense you’d want to share a thoughtful post on social media commemorating the occasion. If you’re looking to celebrate your love on the ‘gram, use the list below to help you find the perfect caption. \n\n16. A year later and you still give me butterflies. #1yearanniversary\n17. 525,600 minutes as a married couple. #happyanniversary\n18. One year down, a lifetime to go. #happyweddinganniversary\n19. Ready for another trip around the sun? #1yearanniversary\n20. Life with you just keeps getting better—swipe for a surprise! #anniversarypresent\n21. 365 days of smiles, laughs, and reminders to take the trash out. #loveyouforever \n\n![anniversary-quote-shania-twain](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/8H8fPNI6Fj1IRYd3MDpO5/1262c47cb2f42910cd6ba0c87f12ce22/anniversary-quote-shania-twain.png)\n\n22. “You’re still the one I run to, the one that I belong to. You’re still the one I want for life.” —Shania Twain, “You’re Still the One”\n23. I said yes to a life with you. \n24. I can’t wait to grow old with you. \n25. “When I look at you, I can feel it. I look at you, and I’m home.” —Dory, “Finding Nemo”\n\n## Thoughtful Anniversary Quotes\nSometimes, sharing from the heart is tough. Use these quotes to help put your feelings into words. \n\n26. Life with you just keeps on getting better. \n27. You’ll never stop being my happy place. \n28. Sleeping by your side means endless sweet dreams. \n29. Yesterday,today and always, I still choose you! \n30. I am yours, and you are mine. \n31. Your love truly makes life sweeter. \n32. I can’t imagine a single day without you by my side. \n33. My heart still skips a beat when I look at you. \n34. Rain or shine, you’ll always be mine. \n35. The love I hold for you continues to grow, today and always. \n36. To the one who stole my heart, thank you for loving me so well. \n37. Our love is a rare gift that I’ll never let go of. \n38. The love we share is magnetic, and you make life pure magic. \n39. Cheers to another year with my best friend and better half.\n40. Saying yes to you was the smartest move I ever made. \n41. You’re more beautiful to me with each passing year, and this year is no exception.\n42. I’m convinced I won the lottery with you.\n43. I didn’t think I could love you more than I already do, but this special day has proved me wrong. \n44. In a sea of people, I have eyes only for you. \n45. Happy anniversary to a beautiful person who has given me the most beautiful life.\n46. Forever isn’t long enough with you. \n47. With you by my side, life could never get better. \n48. You’ve given me so many reasons to smile this past year, but my smile couldn’t be any bigger on this special day. \n49. Another year together and I still get butterflies when I look at you. \n50. You make my life better in every way. Thanks for choosing me today and every day. \n51. You’re the only one I want to wake up next to, day after day, year after year. \n52. Happy anniversary to my soulmate—how did I get so lucky? \n53. Today our relationship is one year older, and the depth of our love just keeps growing deeper. \n54. I thought I knew what true love was until I met you. \n55. My only regret is that I can’t go back in time so I could’ve met you sooner. Happy anniversary to my one true love. \n\n## Romantic Anniversary Quotes\nIf you consider yourself a hopeless romantic, these quotes are for you. \n\n56. Of all the love stories that exist, ours will always be my favorite.\n57. Words can’t express my unending love for you, especially on a day like today. \n58. “So how does it happen, great love? Nobody knows…but what I can tell you is that it happens in the blink of an eye. One moment you’re enjoying your life, and the next you’re wondering how you ever lived without them.” —Hitch, “Hitch”\n59. “I would rather share one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone.” —Arwen, “Lord of the Rings”\n60. “The best love is the kind that awakens the soul, that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds.” —Noah, “The Notebook”\n61. Happy anniversary to the only person in the world that I want beside me every day and every night for the rest of my life.\n62. “If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.” —A. A. Milne, “Winnie the Pooh”\n\n![anniversary-quote-winnie-the-pooh](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6plI9QETkNu0ijaR0ZSJyL/a43385dbb4ec192de9df0796843a6839/anniversary-quote-winnie-the-pooh.png)\n\n63. When a love is true, there is no ending. I hope we get to celebrate for many years to come. Happy anniversary!\n64. I believe everything happens for a reason because it led me to you. I love you, happy anniversary.\n65. From sending you good night texts to wishing you good morning, everything seems sweeter since I met you. Happy anniversary.\n\n## Funny Anniversary Quotes\nIf some light wit and humor is more your style, these quotes are guaranteed to make your partner crack a smile. \n\n66. I sometimes wonder how you put up with me, but then I remember that I put up with you too, so we’ll call it even. \n67. Since we first met, I’ve only wanted the best for you—which is obviously me!\n68. A wedding band is the smallest handcuff ever made—lucky for me, I’ve got a pretty great cellmate. I love you!\n69. If two people love each other, nothing is impossible. Except for deciding where to eat. We still haven't figured that one out yet. \n70. Happy anniversary to my special someone—I look forward to annoying you for the rest of your life!\n71. I love you more than anything, even my favorite pasta—just please don’t make me prove it. Happy anniversary!\n72. Happy anniversary, babe. No refunds! \n73. I’m amazed at how long we’ve tolerated each other. Cheers to another year! \n74. Our relationship has taught me so much—like that 99% of being married is just yelling “WHAT?” from across the house. \n75. Holy crap. We’re still married? You’re still mine? In that case, happy anniversary!\n\n## One-Year Anniversary Quotes\nCelebrating your first anniversary calls for something unique and special. These quotes can help you commemorate the occasion. \n\n76. One year down, our entire lives to go. \n77. “If I had only one anniversary to celebrate, I would want it with you.” —Byron Pulsifer\n78. This day is beyond special, and the first of many more to come. \n79. 365 days later and I’m still head over heels for you!\n80. Only one year in and you’re making this whole marriage thing seem easy. I love you!\n81. I’ve learned love is not about how many days, months, or years we’ve been together—it’s about how much we love each other every single day. \n82. Better than I was, more than I am. And all this happened by taking your hand.\n83. \"All that you are is all that I'll ever need.\" —Ed Sheeran, “Tenerife Sea”\n84. “How sweet it is to be loved by you.” —Marvin Gaye, “How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved By You)”\n\n![anniversary-quote-how-sweet-it-is](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2cksKc3GjDWLl7xdciFJA9/4a6542fc7b33185d444adcb255c12014/anniversary-quote-how-sweet-it-is.png)\n\n85. One year ago today, our souls became one. We might not be [newlyweds](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/newlywed-game-questions) anymore, but our love is stronger than ever. \n86. Our first year of love has taught me more than I thought possible about what true love really is. Happy anniversary to my person!\n87. Today marks the first milestone of countless moments that are still to be had. Cheers to our first anniversary! \n88. Our first year together is in the books, and all I can hope for is 99 more. I love you!\n89. Our hearts united one year ago on this beautiful day, and I know our love will only grow deeper with time. Happy first anniversary!\n90. I’d be lying if I said this past year wasn’t one of the best of my life. You’re my everything, today and forever!\n\n## Anniversary Quotes for Friends\nWishing your friends a happy anniversary is a thoughtful gesture that you can keep fairly laid-back. These quotes are some of our favorites! \n\n91. Happy anniversary to my favorite lovebirds! \n92. You two are proof that true love really does exist. \n93. Happy anniversary to our favorite couple!\n94. This might go without saying, but you two were made for each other. Happy anniversary!\n95. Sending our love and best wishes to the happy couple. Happy anniversary!\n96. The best thing to hold onto in life is each other, and you two do it beautifully.\n97. Wishing you both a long and wonderful life together on this special day!\n98. Cheers to you two and your endless love story. I can’t wait to see your relationship continue to grow.\n99. Thank you for being an example of true love and commitment. Happy anniversary!\n100. Nobody’s perfect, but together, you two are pretty close. \n\n## Anniversary Quotes for Parents\nAfter years of navigating the ups and downs of marriage, parents are often a beautiful example of lasting love. Sending them thoughtful anniversary wishes won’t go unnoticed—use these quotes to write the perfect note! \n\n101. Happy anniversary to the parents who never stop inspiring me. Best wishes on this special day!\n102. The only thing better than having you for parents is my children having you for grandparents. Happy anniversary, Mom and Dad! \n103. Watching you two grow closer with each passing year is more of a gift than you realize. Happy anniversary!\n104. Congratulations on another year of togetherness. You two melt my heart!\n105. Happy anniversary to my dear parents, who have shown us kids that “happily ever after” really can come true. \n106. All these years together and you two still represent what a loving, blissful marriage looks like. I love you, happy anniversary!\n107. The bond you share never fails to remind me of the power of true love. Happy anniversary!\n108. May your love overflow today as much as it did when you two first met. Happy anniversary! \n109. Thank you for never giving up on each other through all of life’s challenges. I’m sure us kids had nothing to do with those challenges. Happy anniversary!\n110. “You are the parents that all kids hope to have, you are the couple that all lovers hope to be, and you both are the pillars of support that every family wishes it had. Happy anniversary to the best parents ever.” —Anonymous\n\nWhether you’re wishing your closest friends a happy anniversary or celebrating your own with your partner, a thoughtful message can go a long way. Funny and witty or romantic and serious, there’s no wrong answer for the message you choose, so long as it comes from the heart. Cheers to love! \n","updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:49:57.243Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"20th-wedding-anniversary-ideas","title":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas","excerpt":"Check out our latest blog for fun and creative 20th-anniversary ideas! Read our blog for more inspiration. ","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T21:35:42.612Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44xqsjrS9WDU3wnTp475xF/06153ab78d0d9f3131e8cbc547c9628d/Inline_unsplash__11_.png","altText":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"How does one celebrate 20 grand years of marriage? Seems like a distant feat when you first wed, but then it comes along and you wonder where the years went. Your 20th wedding anniversary is the time to celebrate all the love and dedication to each other that has seen you both through the ebbs and flows of life together. \n\nTraditionally this anniversary is symbolized by gifts of porcelain or china, which signifies beauty and strength, but the modern marker for two decades of marriage is platinum—equally elegant and enduring. The associated colors for the occasion are emerald green and white, making the recommended gemstone—what else?—an emerald. \n\nThere are so many great ideas for presents and experiences related to these themes, so let’s take a look at a few 20th wedding anniversary ideas to make this a memorable moment. \n\n### Keep It Traditional\n\nGo totally traditional with a themed tea set for those late afternoon teas you’ll both enjoy in each other’s company or even a full-fledged dinner set for formal family dinners and other grand parties at home. \n\nSpeaking of home, china vases and picture frames, antique porcelain gift boxes, or sculptures and figurines to commemorate the occasion are all great 20th anniversary ideas. \n\nThat romantic picnic basket with all porcelain dinnerware for two is a great gift for the couple who already has everything for the home. \n\nIf you have a Chinatown neighborhood in your city, then the occasion calls for a date night out revisiting cherished spots you’ve been frequenting as a couple or new ones on your list you’ve always been planning to explore. \n\nOf course, if travel is on your mind, then that trip to China might be the perfect grand gift to celebrate your 20th anniversary. Use a china doll holding the tickets to announce the surprise getaway or some of the surprise experiences you’ve booked for your getaway. \n\n![20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2sLrSZn8iq9qVZSnNoFnm6/8ec12ad2095cbf3d2e67cf811e17375e/Inline_unsplash__10_.png)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Go Modern\n\nPlatinum jewelry is a subtle and sophisticated style alternative to other metal jewelry, so a sleek custom piece from a celebrated local designer will please your spouse. \n\nFor music lovers, an album from the year you were married or when your kids were born is a coveted gift that your special someone will absolutely adore. Other options include music from a favorite artist, orchestra, or a special performance that holds fond memories for them. \n\nIf your spouse has an affinity for a certain brand, get them to platinum status with that company’s loyalty program or credit card. Every time they’re able to use the perks and benefits, they’ll remember your thoughtfulness for their preferences. \n\nPlatinum watches from a brand known for its luxury watchmaking is a great addition to your wardrobe and a statement piece to wear to events. Plus, it’s a 20-year anniversary idea that your husband or wife will always remember. If you’ve been eyeing one that’s tailor-made for couples, then your 20th wedding anniversary presents a timely reason to invest in one.\n\nPlatinum accessories and decor, especially arranged as a surprise in personal spaces such as the family room, bedroom, otr private study area, are grand ways to show your significant other you’ve indulged in some thought in choosing their presents for the day. \n\n### Bring It Together With Green and White\n\nIf you’re celebrating with friends and family, emerald green and white table and home decorations make a lovely combination for party decor. Carry it through with balloons and streamers, and also for the special celebration cake. \n\nPack an at-home spa retreat gift basket filled with self-care products like bath bombs, comfort food, fragrant candles, and even a special cocktail kit for an anniversary celebration. \n\nOr, you could head out for a spa getaway to a destination with emerald in the name, such as Emerald Lakes in California, the Emerald Coast of Florida, or Emerald Isle in North Carolina. \n\nFor tech enthusiasts, accessories, whether wireless speakers or watch straps, in these colors make for an outstanding—and very useful—gift. \n\nHead down memory lane with a hardcover photo album or memory book in emerald green with white inserts filled with photos, show tickets, and other little events in your life you’re nostalgic for. Remember to leave plenty of space for the future you will spend together as a married couple. \n\nNo matter the manner you choose to mark your 20th wedding anniversary, it is a precious moment to behold as you plan for the next 20 years ahead. Make it a memorable one.","tag":"Inspiration","nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Looking to get your guests laughing at your wedding renewal? Discover our top suggestions for funny renewal wedding vows here.","title":"Funny Renewal Wedding Vows","slug":"funny-renewal-wedding-vows","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/14SsQ3X0p4jSgW70Ku7hSo/0059254211a299da64d6c8c31ad123ed/inline_unsplash__21___1_.jpg","altText":"Funny Renewal Wedding Vows"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Don’t know how to decorate a space for a vow renewal? Our experts at Zola can help! Read on to discover more. ","title":"How to Decorate for a Vow Renewal Ceremony","slug":"how-to-decorate-for-a-vow-renewal-ceremony","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NH6l2iaZEaPw38esQpXJX/ca8c3b551487d3e7591a18f4a3606df4/Inline_Chensley_Photography__1_.png","altText":"Vow Renewal Ceremony Decorations"},"type":"articlePage"}],"featured":[{"excerpt":"So it’s your wedding anniversary and you want to throw a get-together to celebrate? Read our step-by-step guide for inspiration.","title":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas","slug":"wedding-anniversary-invite-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7IJ6B0KMXmqqXJpoYAxenM/9cebce3e0441a1accfa69aeda9d53965/inline_unsplash.jpg","altText":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Wanting to think out the box for your upcoming wedding anniversary gifts? Read this guide for some inspiration on choosing an anniversary gift for your husband.","title":"Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas for Husband","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-for-husband","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2vtI05eFyRNuMAfMKeIcT8/9c828f199ec0faa8cdf9f28e1c95d4e9/inline_unsplash__11_.jpg","altText":"Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas for Husband"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:50:04.204Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"how-to-do-a-vow-renewal-on-a-budget","title":"How to Do a Vow Renewal on a Budget","excerpt":"Looking to plan a vow renewal on a budget? Find out how with this helpful guide. ","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-21T22:08:22.188Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/71YdJTv52AEpRdgm5Ayc3j/11d15cb790fc12bad52d3029c43486b8/Inline_Samantha_Rice_Photography.png","altText":"Vow Renewal on a Budget"},"heroCredit":"Samantha Rice Photography","body":"When it comes to holding a budget vow renewal, many of the same tips and tricks apply that would with a wedding. Narrowing down your guest list, cutting back on [wedding stationery](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/paper), and tackling some small DIY projects are often the most common pieces of advice. However, vow renewals come with a very different set of expectations than weddings, so there’s a lot of room for creativity.\n\nIf you’ve got a vision for a beautiful event, but are struggling to find ways to cut costs, below are some of our top pieces of advice on how to plan a vow renewal on a budget.\n\n## Don’t Treat It like a Second Wedding\n![Zola - How to Have a Budget Vow Renewal](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4XtYMtRZJFoHGVxdAqWQSu/3c7531f540c32c64fad53539e324f507/Inline_Laura_Hollander_Photography__1_.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Laura Hollander Photography\n\nFor one primary reason: it isn’t one. This doesn’t mean that it’s any less special or less memorable–it simply means that it’s an entirely different celebration and should be treated as such. The word “wedding” is immediately associated with higher costs, so be clear about the purpose of your celebration from the get-go. There’s also less expectation surrounding wedding vow renewals, which gives you the opportunity to really do it your way–including keeping it cost-friendly.\n\nWhen planning a renewal ceremony, keep in the back of your mind what would make the day most special to you and your partner. If you want to spend the money to hold the ceremony at a distillery, but DIY everything else, then go for it. Embrace the sense of freedom that you might not have experienced the first time around.\n\n## Source Locally\nThis is one of the easiest ways to save money. Not only are local vendors more sustainable, but they’re also less likely to charge you an arm and a leg for details such as delivery fees when putting together a vow renewal celebration. If you look for florists and rental companies that are hyperlocal, chances are that they’re not only going to be less expensive, but they’re going to be more flexible than those located elsewhere.\n\nHowever, keep in mind that the more remote your [wedding venue](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-venues), the more money you’re likely to spend on vendors. If you’re planning an island vow renewal, for example, delivery costs are likely to be high, and local vendors might hike their prices if they’re the only option on the island. If you live in a tiny town or don’t have a lot of vendors and creatives in your area, Etsy is a great alternative for sourcing things such as [wedding decor](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/decorations) and accessories, while allowing you to still support small businesses.\n\n## Make It a Potluck\nThe argument against potlucks for weddings may still exist, but this isn’t a wedding, is it? If you’d prefer to get a food truck or do something a little bit more traditional, that’s always an option. But, inviting your guests to bring their favorite dish and indulge potluck-style is one of the easiest ways to bring costs down. Just make sure that you’re clear with everyone about expectations and have a system or spreadsheet to track what everyone is planning to bring. This is also something that you can assign out to a friend and/or family member to take care of so that you can keep stress levels low.\n\n## Keep It Intimate\nAs one of the most common recommendations in the book, there is nothing more cost-friendly than choosing an intimate affair over a massive celebration. Aside from the obvious savings, there are additional benefits to keeping your numbers down, including the natural rise in the cost per-person. Even on a budget, a smaller party means that you’re able to spend more money on each attendee, and it allows for some creative ideas, including fun favors and more elaborate place settings for your vow renewal celebration.\n\n## Host It at Home\nThere is unlikely to be a venue that is as budget-friendly as your own home (and no better way to commemorate the life that you’ve built together as a married couple). Just make sure that you’re realistic about the attendee capacity and the amount of work that it would require. If your house doesn’t have a backyard, or is too quaint for the event size that you’re imagining, then take the party to a public park. Whatever you choose to do, just make sure that you’re adhering to COVID-19 social distancing guidelines in your area and plan accordingly.\n\n## Avoid Rentals Altogether\nIf you’re planning a hefty-sized get-together, this can be a tough one, but for those organizing more intimate gatherings, avoiding rentals isn’t totally out of the question. If you’re hosting the vow renewal at home, the many pieces of furniture and décor that you have sitting around the house can be great alternatives to rentals. Mirrors, rugs, ottomans, candlesticks, and glassware are all common pieces that are easy to repurpose. Just ask your guests to each bring a lawn chair and you’ve got your bases covered.\n\n## Consider DIYing Some Elements\n![Zola - How to Have a Budget Vow Renewal](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/71YdJTv52AEpRdgm5Ayc3j/11d15cb790fc12bad52d3029c43486b8/Inline_Samantha_Rice_Photography.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Samantha Rice Photography\n\nInvitations, florals, and décor alone can easily cost a couple thousand dollars. Make sure that you prioritize what’s most important for you to have done professionally and what might be a fun project leading up to the big day. This also goes for your loved ones who you know are willing to lend a hand. If you’ve got a friend with a talent for creating bouquets, or a relative who’s adopted calligraphy as their quarantine hobby, don’t be afraid to ask them for help.\n\n## Purchase, Instead of Rent\nDespite the obvious, it can actually be much cheaper to purchase items such as table linens and table décor instead of renting them for your vow renewal celebration. Just make sure that you’re actually going to use them again or have somewhere to re-sell them so that they don’t go to waste. Décor items such as rugs, candlesticks, and runners are all popular picks to reuse down the road. You can even repurpose décor and florals as gifts to your attendees or loved ones who helped you coordinate the big day.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Feeling stuck when it comes to how to write your renewal vows? We can help. Check out our latest tips here.","title":"8 Vow Renewal Wording Tips & Tricks","slug":"vow-renewal-wording-tips-and-tricks","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2OrLAgnlgpNbFhvXjMcFvF/bfc36b0ce58694d9f974aaf302327e30/inline_unsplash__22_.jpg","altText":"How to Write my Vow Renewals"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Looking for simple vow renewal ideas? Discover top tips and recommendations from the pros at Zola today. ","title":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas","slug":"simple-vow-renewal-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4PZSW1hObQ6TnM557egpbG/3ee842eade872a59be2ffc64a370f857/inline_unsplash__19___1_.jpg","altText":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Feeling stuck when it comes to how to write your renewal vows? We can help. Check out our latest tips here.","title":"8 Vow Renewal Wording Tips & Tricks","slug":"vow-renewal-wording-tips-and-tricks","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2OrLAgnlgpNbFhvXjMcFvF/bfc36b0ce58694d9f974aaf302327e30/inline_unsplash__22_.jpg","altText":"How to Write my Vow Renewals"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:49:58.680Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries"},"slug":"funny-renewal-wedding-vows","title":"Funny Renewal Wedding Vows","excerpt":"Looking to get your guests laughing at your wedding renewal? Discover our top suggestions for funny renewal wedding vows here.","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-10T19:00:39.172Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/14SsQ3X0p4jSgW70Ku7hSo/0059254211a299da64d6c8c31ad123ed/inline_unsplash__21___1_.jpg","altText":"Funny Renewal Wedding Vows"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Vows are one of the original (and most meaningful) ways to highlight what you value most in your relationship. For many, having a husband or wife with a sense of humor is one of the secrets to an everlasting union. So why not embrace that the second time around at your wedding vow renewal ceremony?\n\nWhether you’re a comedian at heart or simply looking to entertain your guests, writing funny renewal wedding vows is a great way to commemorate your marriage thus far. Below are a few tips to help you embrace your lighthearted side and generate some laughs along the way at your vow renewal ceremony.\n\n### Pull Ideas From Your Original Wedding Vows\nWhether it’s a promise that one of you took a little too seriously (“cleaning more doesn’t mean vacuuming in the middle of the night”) or one that took on a whole new meaning (“who knew finding more shared hobbies would lead to entering an underwater hockey tournament?”), your original wedding vows are a great place to look for inspiration. This is especially effective if most of your guests are people who attended your wedding and heard your original wedding vows.\n\n### Reflect on Old Memories (Including the Wedding Day) \nFunny stories from when you first started dating your husband or wife always make great stories, because they’re full of humor and authenticity. The same goes for your wedding day. Chances are not everything went exactly as planned, so cracking jokes about what went wrong is a great way to lighten the mood and demonstrate that what you value most is the relationship itself.\n\n### Make Sure You’re on the Same Page as Your Partner\n\n![Funny Renewal Wedding Vows](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/63t5ZeVyOxxUQ24xMYA8E6/a7463efe34cac2f66861878708474639/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\nFunny vows are great, but if your partner is taking a more serious route, the unexpected humor can be a bit jarring at your renewal ceremony. If your partner is more of the sentimental or romantic type, make sure you let them know what route you’re going to take in advance of your vow renewal. If you’re both wannabe comedians and goofiness is your fallback, then you’re probably already on the right track. Just remember that your vows set the tone for the rest of the day, so you want them to feel authentic to you as a couple.\n\n### Mention Mistakes (and Make It Witty)\nWe’ve all failed in our relationships in one way or another. If addressed as a problem, it can be sad or frustrating, but if told in the form of a humorous recollection, it comes off more relatable. Maybe your initiative to cook more led to an adventure with the local fire station. Or, maybe your partner’s attempt to plan a surprise date failed when you wound up at the wrong restaurant. Even moments that may not have seemed funny at the time make some of the best memories and hilarious stories to share with your loved ones.\n\n### Be Self-Deprecating \nIf it’s in your repertoire, don’t be afraid to make fun of yourself. For example, maybe you vowed to make an effort to plan more vacations and your first attempt was a weekend camping trip that ended in disaster. It’s often easy to find lighthearted ways to pick on your partner, but highlighting your own mistakes is a great way to balance the humor and remind your SO that you know you’re not perfect either.\n\n### Include Something Serious or Sentimental \n\n![Funny Renewal Wedding Vows](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3G4JV49sJwIHyUHfrEtzFc/69d62539f97e40ae849ca3435b362939/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\nThough it doesn’t need to be the primary focus, it’s always nice to circle back to why you’re both standing there and how far you’ve come from your initial wedding day. Maybe your partner’s lighthearted (and sometimes childish) nature is what you love most about them. Or, maybe you acknowledge that humor is one of the greatest bonds the two of you have. No matter the focus, a brief moment of sincerity can go a long way.\n\n### Remember: There Aren’t Any Rules.\nJust like with your original [wedding vows](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-vows) (and [wedding planning](https://www.zola.com/) in general), there really are no rules. If you want to write a funny interpretation of a Shakespeare sonnet or create your own poem, go right ahead. If you’d prefer to keep things sentimental with a touch of humor here and there, that works too. If you do what feels right to you, your partner is sure to appreciate the thought behind it.\n\n### Sample Wording to Consider for Your Funny Vows:\n\n“*Ten years ago, I vowed to help you cook more dinners. That might have led to a lot of burnt pizza and the incessant sound of fire alarms, but here we are… and I’m still trying*.”\n\n“*To this day, our wedding remains one of the greatest days of my life. It was also the day I learned that seagulls like steak tartare as much as I do*.”\n\n“*After all these years, I’m so happy that we can still make each other laugh. Your humor has always been one of the greatest lights in my life and can make even the darkest days a little brighter*.”\n\n“*I vow to continue to plan more dates and fail miserably. To continue to pick up your dirty socks and not get upset when you vacuum between my toes while I’m trying to read.*”\n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Don’t know how to decorate a space for a vow renewal? Our experts at Zola can help! Read on to discover more. ","title":"How to Decorate for a Vow Renewal Ceremony","slug":"how-to-decorate-for-a-vow-renewal-ceremony","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NH6l2iaZEaPw38esQpXJX/ca8c3b551487d3e7591a18f4a3606df4/Inline_Chensley_Photography__1_.png","altText":"Vow Renewal Ceremony Decorations"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Looking for simple vow renewal ideas? Discover top tips and recommendations from the pros at Zola today. ","title":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas","slug":"simple-vow-renewal-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4PZSW1hObQ6TnM557egpbG/3ee842eade872a59be2ffc64a370f857/inline_unsplash__19___1_.jpg","altText":"Simple Vow Renewal Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Wondering if you should send wedding renewal invitations? Our experts explain the answer in this comprehensive guide.","title":"10 Ideas For Vow Renewal Invitations","slug":"wedding-renewal-invitations","topic":"Invites & paper","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4U5YGAECoxGdv1ZwoqNlSN/0d3756933a90c0b091f74d1250b6f894/jeremy-wong-weddings-464ps_nOflw-unsplash.jpg","altText":"older couple vow renewal"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Feeling stuck when it comes to how to write your renewal vows? We can help. Check out our latest tips here.","title":"8 Vow Renewal Wording Tips & Tricks","slug":"vow-renewal-wording-tips-and-tricks","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2OrLAgnlgpNbFhvXjMcFvF/bfc36b0ce58694d9f974aaf302327e30/inline_unsplash__22_.jpg","altText":"How to Write my Vow Renewals"},"type":"articlePage"}],"featured":[{"excerpt":"Celebrate each year and every marriage milestone with traditional wedding anniversary gifts.\n","title":"Anniversary Gifts By Year: What to Give Your Partner and Why","slug":"wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2r5YVBBmqxb2rwtX0ZrjgE/d850a1bf7f7d5109fb4b1c93d433f710/Anniversary_Couple.jpg","altText":"Black man and woman in love celebrating an anniversary"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Check out our latest blog for fun and creative 20th-anniversary ideas! Read our blog for more inspiration. ","title":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas","slug":"20th-wedding-anniversary-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44xqsjrS9WDU3wnTp475xF/06153ab78d0d9f3131e8cbc547c9628d/Inline_unsplash__11_.png","altText":"20th Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Check out our latest blog to discover our top 35th wedding anniversary ideas. Read our blog for more. ","title":"35 Unique 35th Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas","slug":"35th-wedding-anniversary-gift-ideas-that-put-new-spins-on-coral-and-jade","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2rTlkpD9oaAPmb4dOEcKwz/e7500024365df97d78c5338f33be872f/inline_unsplash__25_.jpg","altText":"35 Wedding Anniversary Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"So it’s your wedding anniversary and you want to throw a get-together to celebrate? Read our step-by-step guide for inspiration.","title":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas","slug":"wedding-anniversary-invite-ideas","topic":"Relationship advice","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7IJ6B0KMXmqqXJpoYAxenM/9cebce3e0441a1accfa69aeda9d53965/inline_unsplash.jpg","altText":"Wedding Anniversary Invite Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:50:00.923Z"}],"name":"Anniversaries","slug":"anniversaries","description":"Your guide to celebrating wedding anniversaries! From anniversary gifts by year to celebrating with a vow renewal ceremony, find all the advice and inspiration you need to make every anniversary super special."}],"featured":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice"},"subtopic":{"name":"Newlywed couples","slug":"newlywed-couples"},"slug":"the-3-best-pieces-of-marriage-advice-according-to-a-marriage-therapist","title":"20 Best Marriage Advice Tips from Experts and Old Couples","excerpt":"We spoke with a marriage therapist and couples about their best marriage advice for engaged couples, newlyweds, and couples celebrating another year of marriage.","author":"McCall Minnor","publishedAt":"2024-03-19T11:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7yk1TfwWjXPYXYiIyuvc4B/a8e8f51ad7935471908fa94113c38734/Hero_MountainDestinationWeddingatTheMagnoliaVenue_HeatherFaulknerPhotograhy.jpg","altText":"Mixed race bride and groom looking at each other lovingly on their big day"},"heroCredit":"Heather Faulkner Photograhy","body":"Marriage isn’t all bliss and riding off into the night after you say your I do’s. While your love for your partner may feel as strong as ever post-nuptials, marriages take effort and a continual choice to honor your vows daily. Make no mistake, this is no easy feat. That’s why there’s no shame in seeking out relationship advice that could aid in keeping your union as strong and healthy as ever.\n\nWe rounded up the [best advice for marriage](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/relationship-advice) from therapists and couples whose love has stood the test of time. See our 20 top marriage advice tips below.\n\n## 1. Marriage is work\n\nYou must be willing to put in the work. “You have to know that love is more than an emotion,” notes Mary Kay Cocharo, licensed marriage and family therapist. Being in a relationship, especially a marriage, needs more than your fondness for one another to last. “People fall in love, so they decide they should be partners and get married,” she says. “And while love is great and propels you into that commitment, it’s just the beginning. It’s not enough. A really good partnership takes commitment and kindness and generosity, and it requires tools like good communication.”\n\n![The 3 Best Pieces of Marriage Advice, According to a Marriage Therapist](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/21YPS00yipioc55eyxZxfr/bba0aaf048616219ca213681145abbc9/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## 2. Listen more\n\nWithout a doubt, every healthy marriage will hit a rough spot, be it internal or external. When that happens, your love for each other will be the thing that makes you want to get through it, but it can’t do all the heavy lifting alone. That’s when you have to be able to have productive conversations, understand your partner’s perspective, and decide how to move forward.\n\n## 3. The honeymoon will end\n\n“When couples get married, those early hormones and chemicals that happen towards the beginning of a relationship—the ones that launch us into commitment—start to wear off. Neuroscientists tell us this happens after about two years,” Cocharo explains. What she’s referring to is a study done by a team from the University of Pisa in Italy. They found that the bodily chemistry that makes people sexually attracted to a new partner lasts, at most, for two years. “They wear off, and now you’re looking at [your partner] and realize, oh, we have differences.”\n\nExpecting this and knowing it’s inevitable (and completely normal) softens the initial blow tremendously. If you recognize this before it happens, you can even work to make sure you have the tools to get through future married life difficulties.\n\n## 4. Use the right tools\n\nLearn and use relationship tools like good communication, healthy boundaries, and actively showing your partner love. These marriage work tools heavily aid in resolving disagreements and getting through those inevitable tough times. “Sometimes couples will hit something difficult and use that to mean they’ve chosen the wrong person or that it’s over. That’s just not true,” Cocharo says.\n\n“It’s hard, and sometimes you don’t have the proper tools. Maybe you didn’t grow up in a situation that taught you about love and respect or being a married partner. In that case, you just need to get the help. You don’t just give up.”\n\nNot sure where to get the tools? Consult a marriage therapist. There are also tons of helpful books, workbooks, workshops, and even phone apps (try [Love Nudge](https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.grootersproductions.challenge&hl=en)) you can use to do couples’ exercises and prompt conversations with your partner. So long as you’re willing to seek out help (and you have an internet connection), you have the ability to learn and use the tools that will take your marriage the distance.\n\n## 5. Take care of yourself\n\nAn often overlooked key part of having a successful marriage is taking care of yourself. “When some people get married, they think it’s their partner’s job to take care of them. In reality, everyone is busy and has a lot on their plate—you really do need to put on your own oxygen mask first,” says Cocharo. This isn’t to say that you can’t lean on your partner and vice-versa, but rather that when you get married, you should continue to treat your well-being and self-care as a priority. Don’t expect that responsibility to be handed off to your loved one. Making time for self care assures you’re happy and healthy and lets you bring your best self to the relationship.\n\n“Make sure you’re doing the things that make you a happy, healthy, whole person. Simple things like eating right, exercising, and getting out in nature. Maybe praying or meditating, reading, or whatever calms you down. Also, going to see friends and visiting family,” Cocharo suggests.\n\n## 6. Marriage is 60/40\n\nSome people say marriage is 50/50, but that’s really hard to measure, and it often ends up with both partners feeling shorted. With the [60/40 relationship rule](https://psychiatristsnyc.com/blog/want-a-successful-relationship-practice-this-one-rule/), a marriage is uneven, with both partners feeling like they’re giving 60%. When you put in 60%, “you’re giving your partner love on their terms,” says Mt. Sinai psychiatrist and relationship expert Amanda Itzkoff. “When both partners focus on giving 60% and taking just 40%, the relationship has an overwhelming chance of being successful.”\n\n![Stocksy txp05f31680VSp300 Large 4393583](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/M61DW5GeWvu5fk28aEm4F/6ff9b06201a5df87012dcbd2edecf6bd/Stocksy_txp05f31680VSp300_Large_4393583.jpg)\n\n## 7. Lose the battle, win the war\n\nYou might feel like you *have to get them to mow the lawn today, or if you pay for that new kitchen, you won’t save enough this year*. Go ahead and lose those smaller battles now to build a healthier marriage. As Benjamin Franklin famously said, “If you argue and rankle and contradict, you may achieve a victory sometimes, but it will be an empty victory because you will never get your opponent’s good will.”\n\n## 8. Start counseling before you need it\n\nWaiting until there’s a problem before you start marriage therapy is like waiting to get teeth pulled instead of flossing every night. According to Marriage.com, the [best time to start couple’s therapy](https://www.marriage.com/advice/pre-marriage/when-to-start-pre-marital-counseling/) is as soon as possible, and preferably before you’re married. Think of marriage counseling like coaching, not a sign that something is broken. Choose a good coach, and use it as an opportunity to work on and change yourself—not your partner.\n\n## 9. Listen to audiobooks\n\nOne chief cause of marital stress is endlessly replaying arguments after they have ended. After an argument, the tendency is to stew about it and try to make sense of it. While working to understand is healthy, it can put your emotions on perpetual simmer. Listening to an audiobook while you mow the lawn or do the dishes can keep you from stewing, give your feelings time to reset, and even show you good ideas that can help you strengthen your relationship. Get an Audible subscription or a free app from your local library.\n\n## 10. Eat first, fight later\n\nThis piece of marriage advice is so simple it’s easy to overlook it. Before you talk to your spouse, have a meal or at least a snack. [Eating a meal increases agreeableness](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25770700/) (so your partner is more likely to see your point of view) and reduces dominance and submissiveness (so you’re less likely to be overbearing or give in too easily). Feel a fight coming on? Take a snack break.\n\n## 11. Give grace\n\nSpoiler alert: Your spouse isn’t going to do everything right. In fact, they’ll often do things very wrong. If you keep a tally of every way they’ve let you down, you may win on points, but your relationship will lose. Grace is saying, “You did wrong, but I forgive you, and I love you anyway.” Give your partner a clean slate every day (and every hour). And while you’re at it, give some of that forgiveness to yourself.\n\n![The 3 Best Pieces of Marriage Advice, According to a Marriage Therapist](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1HJfLa2CMijLEdHHEsEu1S/a4c519b7964854f6d9dc505d26ea971a/inline_unsplash.jpg)*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## 12. Don’t assume\n\nOur brains are good at filling in the blanks. The problem is it’s easy to fill in someone else’s thoughts. That’s why talking without judging, arguing, or adding your opinions is so healthy for relationships. When you let your partner talk, you won’t have to fill in any blanks. You’ll know. Sound easy? It’s not. Active listening is a skill you’ll have to learn, like playing the piano or shooting jump shots. You can start with Kate Murphy’s eye-opening book, *[You’re Not Listening](https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Listening-Missing-Matters/dp/1250779871/ref=asc_df_1250779871/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=507975958237&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=4121891810911394376&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9009250&hvtargid=pla-927127602652&psc=1&mcid=8b3bcf03afe0323998a173033f904849&gclid=CjwKCAiAs6-sBhBmEiwA1Nl8s6BMtsMauL9PKTvLkL8cIwriOgAOodo2CRdL2l8b-3Dri_GbvanGvhoCsssQAvD_BwE)*.\n\n## 13. Learn to fight\n\nPrediction: you will fight. But—you can fight in a way that weakens your relationship or strengthens it. The secret here is that nobody is born knowing how to fight the right way. And though there’s plenty of great advice online (be respectful, take a break if things get heated, use active listening), they’re easier said than done. So, consider taking a class on how to fight. Some marriage counselors and churches offer fighting classes for couples, and the online [Couples Fight School](https://masteringconflict.com/couples-fight-school/) can be a fun, rewarding experience for both of you.\n\n## 14. Learn to apologize\n\nWe all know we should eat humble pie from time to time, but did you know there’s a right way and a wrong way? The key is to accept full responsibility (no buts), then take your lumps. Expect your partner to unload on you after you say you’re sorry and accept it with more listening. Then, be willing to make it right, give in, and give up something you thought you really wanted. (What’s more important, winning the argument or your marriage?)\n\n## 15. Be a team\n\nYou’re in this together. While this may sound like cliche marriage advice, the key point is to see problems as both of you vs the problem, not both of you against each other. Don’t blame each other. For a little inspiration, see this *Atlantic* article: [Marriage Is a Team Sport](https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2022/11/how-collaboration-can-improve-marriage-relationships/672048/).\n\n## 16. Spend now or spend later\n\nIs it too expensive to take your spouse out to eat once a week? Is time precious to you? You may want to spend time or money on things that set you up for a good life later, but what good will it do you if there’s nobody there to share it with? Spend a big chunk of your time and money on your spouse now, even if it’s not the smartest play for your career or finances. If you don’t, you may spend it later in divorce proceedings and custody arrangements.\n\n![newly engaged couple in debt](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7GFbYLisIT4eBAT2WM3y31/247792361f0df7f70e34e6d542dffcb1/HERO_Unsplash_1080x720__6_.jpg)\n\n## 17. Love is a decision, not a feeling\n\nIf you don’t feel loved, you may mistakenly conclude your marriage is a failure. And while [most couples](https://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/64-percent-of-americans-say-theyre-happy-in-their-relationships-300595502.html) report being happy with their marriages, there will undoubtedly be times you don’t feel loved at all. When that happens, take comfort in knowing that [love is more of a choice](https://psychcentral.com/relationships/love-is-a-choice-more-than-a-feeling) than a feeling. To choose from the heart, read the Amazon bestseller *[Love Is a Decision](https://www.amazon.com/Love-Decision-Gary-Smalley/dp/0849942683)* by marriage counselor Gary Smalley.\n\n## 18. Let them grow\n\n“You’re not the woman I married.” Surprise—she won’t be. In fact, 90% of adults will change at *least* one major personality trait in the next few years. So, if your marriage lasts 50 years, you might end up married to a completely different person from the one you said “I do” to. The gold nugget of marriage advice here is to accept that from the start. Instead of resisting change, expect it, celebrate it, and accept it.\n\n## 19. Just show up\n\nYou don’t have to have an opinion on every issue or a solution to every problem. You don’t even need to say something every time there’s a lull in the conversation. Sometimes, just your presence can show you’re there for your partner, and that can win their goodwill. That’s a lot better than looking like you have all the answers.\n\n## 20. You can’t fix them, so don’t\n\nYour partner is going to have flaws, and some of them will be big. You can encourage and support them, but you can’t repair their damage. While this can be a hard pill to swallow, you married them, not the person they could be. You can help that medicine go down by acknowledging your own flaws and spending some time reflecting on their strengths. Accept and honor who they are, [along with your differences](https://www.stanfordcouplescounseling.com/rebuilding-emotional-safety-strengthening-your-relationship-by-accepting-your-partners-differences-part-3/).\n\nAlthough we here at Zola concentrate on wedding planning, we also realize that your celebration is a small part of your lifetime together. While you’re [choosing flowers](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-most-popular-wedding-flowers), arranging the [ceremony](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-the-wedding-ceremony-order-of-events), and planning the [honeymoon](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/best-honeymoon-destinations), don’t forget that your wedding is the start of a lifetime together. We want to give you the best start you can have—from the planning stages of your engagement to the start of a beautiful life partnership. ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-03-19T18:42:19.548Z"}]}},"userAgent":"Mozilla/5.0 AppleWebKit/537.36 (KHTML, like Gecko; compatible; ClaudeBot/1.0; +claudebot@anthropic.com)","userCtx":{"object_id":"6811d9b7e869bb6b6b35f33f","is_spoof":false,"has_registry":false,"has_wedding_account":false,"has_website":false,"has_guest_list":false,"has_inspiration_account":false,"has_invitation_account":false,"has_marketplace_account":false,"has_completed_onboarding":false,"has_store_account":false,"has_baby_registry":false,"is_inspiration_vendor":false,"is_inspiration_admin":false,"has_board_items":false,"is_guest":true,"user_experiments":{"yw-dashboard-v2-new-users":{"key":"yw-dashboard-v2-new-users","state":"NOT_IN_TEST","variation_key":"NOT_IN_TEST"},"paper-guest-addressing-improvements-v4":{"key":"paper-guest-addressing-improvements-v4","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST-1"},"paper-free-samples-secondary-nav":{"key":"paper-free-samples-secondary-nav","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"core-contact-collector-redesign":{"key":"core-contact-collector-redesign","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"hdyhau-subway":{"key":"hdyhau-subway","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"marketplace_featured_vendors_holdout":{"key":"marketplace_featured_vendors_holdout","state":"NOT_IN_TEST","variation_key":"NOT_IN_TEST"},"yw-dashboard-v2":{"key":"yw-dashboard-v2","state":"NOT_IN_TEST","variation_key":"NOT_IN_TEST"},"website-signup-landing-v2":{"key":"website-signup-landing-v2","state":"CONTROL","variation_key":"TEST-0"},"paper-wedding-shower-invitation":{"key":"paper-wedding-shower-invitation","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"payment-intent-vendor-upgrade-ramp":{"key":"payment-intent-vendor-upgrade-ramp","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"session-replay-sample-rate":{"key":"session-replay-sample-rate","state":"NOT_IN_TEST","variation_key":"NOT_IN_TEST"},"nav-paper-boutique":{"key":"nav-paper-boutique","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"single-page-website-onboarding":{"key":"single-page-website-onboarding","state":"CONTROL","variation_key":"TEST-0"},"ww-edit-hide-customization":{"key":"ww-edit-hide-customization","state":"CONTROL","variation_key":"TEST-0"},"vendor-credits-payment-intent":{"key":"vendor-credits-payment-intent","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"guest_list_desk_to_app":{"key":"guest_list_desk_to_app","state":"CONTROL","variation_key":"TEST-0"},"manage-registry-page-v2":{"key":"manage-registry-page-v2","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST-2"},"dstd-navigation-entry":{"key":"dstd-navigation-entry","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"dstd-website-entry":{"key":"dstd-website-entry","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"community":{"key":"community","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"onboarding-v3-gp-mobile":{"key":"onboarding-v3-gp-mobile","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST-1"},"marketplace-event-spaces-v2":{"key":"marketplace-event-spaces-v2","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"paper-add-ons":{"key":"paper-add-ons","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"hero_nav_image_crop":{"key":"hero_nav_image_crop","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"cards-registry-search-results":{"key":"cards-registry-search-results","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"hero-image-customization":{"key":"hero-image-customization","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"mobile-paper-preview":{"key":"mobile-paper-preview","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"website-marquee-fix":{"key":"website-marquee-fix","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"date-checkbox-update":{"key":"date-checkbox-update","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"marketplace-preauth-srp-pros-and-cons-release-ramp":{"key":"marketplace-preauth-srp-pros-and-cons-release-ramp","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"cards-customization-panel":{"key":"cards-customization-panel","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"change-design-improvements":{"key":"change-design-improvements","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"checkout-payment-intents-release-ramp":{"key":"checkout-payment-intents-release-ramp","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"core-desktop-nav-plan-flyout":{"key":"core-desktop-nav-plan-flyout","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST-1"},"improve-mweb-postauth-nav-products-2":{"key":"improve-mweb-postauth-nav-products-2","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST-1"},"content-quiz-experiment":{"key":"content-quiz-experiment","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST-2"},"checkout-better-hierarchy-v3":{"key":"checkout-better-hierarchy-v3","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST-2"},"ulp-txt-only-promo-banner":{"key":"ulp-txt-only-promo-banner","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"edit-banner-migration":{"key":"edit-banner-migration","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"marketplace-zendesk-chat":{"key":"marketplace-zendesk-chat","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"gift-giver-reminder-timing-v4":{"key":"gift-giver-reminder-timing-v4","state":"NOT_IN_TEST","variation_key":"NOT_IN_TEST"},"wedding-website-to-instant-registry-4":{"key":"wedding-website-to-instant-registry-4","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST-1"},"new-paper-type-signage":{"key":"new-paper-type-signage","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"core-budget-tool-mini-quiz-entry-point":{"key":"core-budget-tool-mini-quiz-entry-point","state":"CONTROL","variation_key":"TEST-0"},"external-registries-synching-messaging":{"key":"external-registries-synching-messaging","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"marketplace-post-inquiry-instant-registry-cross-conversion":{"key":"marketplace-post-inquiry-instant-registry-cross-conversion","state":"CONTROL","variation_key":"TEST-0"},"yw-wedding-essentials":{"key":"yw-wedding-essentials","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST-1"},"paper-premium-collections":{"key":"paper-premium-collections","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"paper-table-number":{"key":"paper-table-number","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"new-paper-type-napkins":{"key":"new-paper-type-napkins","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"vm-quiz-payoff":{"key":"vm-quiz-payoff","state":"CONTROL","variation_key":"TEST-0"},"onboarding-gp-desktop-jan-2023":{"key":"onboarding-gp-desktop-jan-2023","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST-1"},"payment-intent-upgrade-ramp":{"key":"payment-intent-upgrade-ramp","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"suites-nav":{"key":"suites-nav","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"new-paper-type-stickers":{"key":"new-paper-type-stickers","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"single-page-websites":{"key":"single-page-websites","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"wedding-website-to-instant-registry":{"key":"wedding-website-to-instant-registry","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST-1"},"easy-publish-website":{"key":"easy-publish-website","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"website-v2":{"key":"website-v2","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"secondary-nav-diy":{"key":"secondary-nav-diy","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"unify-paper-account":{"key":"unify-paper-account","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"cards-pdp-refresh":{"key":"cards-pdp-refresh","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"invites-promo-hide":{"key":"invites-promo-hide","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"edit-experience-improvements":{"key":"edit-experience-improvements","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"},"recaptcha-refactor":{"key":"recaptcha-refactor","state":"TEST","variation_key":"TEST"}}}},"__N_SSP":true},"page":"/expert-advice/topic/[slug]/[subtopicSlug]","query":{"page":"2","slug":"relationship-advice","subtopicSlug":"anniversaries"},"buildId":"web-preauth-0538fc67acdb3e3ea02d3ed650df16c71df530d2","assetPrefix":"https://d1tntvpcrzvon2.cloudfront.net/vpassets","runtimeConfig":{"MIXPANEL_PROJECT_TOKEN":"7a536271a9739a74faec2d35adf1748f","SEGMENT_ID":"5uA1DSKtOVYOwQFc8VmVrXWt5PioMQla","UPLOADCARE_PKEY":"bed481ea2bef6baf44de","ZOLA_ENV":"production","APP_VERSION":"1.3.49","FLAGS":{"PAPER_LP_SAMPLE_PACK_SECTION":false,"enableDatadog":true},"BABY_HOST":"https://baby.zola.com"},"isFallback":false,"gssp":true,"customServer":true}