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Your guide to engagement rings and wedding bands. Get advice from the experts on how to choose the perfect ring and how to insure it plus engagement ring trends and more!

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How to Measure your Wedding Ring Size: The Complete Guide

Looking to find the perfect engagement ring? Find out everything you need to know with our wedding ring size guide!

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The Ultimate Diamond Carat Size Guide

New to the world of wedding ring shopping? Find out everything you need to know with our diamond carat size guide from Zola.

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Understanding Internally Flawless Diamonds: The Guide

When grading diamonds, internally flawless diamonds are the creme de la creme. Read on to learn more about an internally flawless diamond’s characteristics.

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18 Karat Versus 24 Karat Gold Rings

The differences between 18 karat and 24 karat gold—and how it factors into choosing your engagement or wedding ring.

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The 10 Most Popular Wedding Ring Styles Right Now

We talk carats, cuts, cost, and comfort when choosing wedding ring styles in 2021.

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The 23 Best Modern Wedding Bands for Men + Tips

Looking for modern wedding bands for men? Our Zola experts are here to help. Read on for all there is to know.

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Which Finger Does a Wedding Ring Go On?

Ever wondered about the tradition behind wedding ring fingers? Here’s the real history and meaning of which finger a wedding ring goes on.

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Payment Plan for Your Wedding Rings

Financing your wedding rings can be a costly upfront investment. That’s why many jewelers offer wedding ring payment plans. Learn all about them here.

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Where You Can (and Can't) Wear Your Engagement Ring

Diamond experts share all the places you can wear your engagement ring and where you shouldn't wear your ring. Plus, tips for keeping your engagement ring like new.

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The Best Diamond Shape & Size For Your Finger

Different diamonds look different on different fingers. The diamond experts at The Clear Cut share which diamond shapes look best on which finger sizes.

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How to Pair Your Wedding Band With Your Engagement Ring

Experts share how to pair your wedding ring with your engagement ring. Pick the perfect wedding band for your style with these tips.

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How to Finance an Engagement Ring

Got questions on how to finance an engagement ring? Our experts can help. Read on to find out now.

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\n \n \n\n\n\n\n\n\n \n ","subtopicPage":{"articles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Rings","slug":"rings"},"slug":"wedding-ring-size-guide","title":"How to Measure your Wedding Ring Size: The Complete Guide","excerpt":"Looking to find the perfect engagement ring? Find out everything you need to know with our wedding ring size guide!","author":"Deanna deBara","publishedAt":"2020-10-20T16:07:52.424Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2LjvRXJbEPMx4XbrUR9QXr/8fb32f7ed5b8aa2f62b6aa4fb18a77ba/Hero_unsplash.jpg","altText":"Wedding Ring Size Guide"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"It’s the dream moment: You’re down on one knee, your SO just said “yes,” and you slip the beautiful ring on his or her eager finger. To anyone planning a proposal, you know there’s a lot that goes into the moment, but one thing’s for sure: You really want the ring to fit perfectly.\n\nWhether it’s for you or for someone special—this ring size guide can help ensure that once it’s time to slip that precious piece of metal over your or your future spouse’s knuckle, it’ll never have to come off. \n\n## How to Determine Wedding Ring Size\nThe good news: There’s a standard scale for men’s and women’s __[wedding ring sizes](https://zola.app.link/lGHZ7AfLTab)__. Basically, sizes are representative of the inner circumference of the ring in millimeters. Unfortunately, just like with clothing, different ring brands might vary slightly in their sizing, so be sure to check sizing charts for any variations. Additionally, while North American countries (including the US and Canada) utilize a numerical scale (that consists of half and quarter sizes), international scales may be different, so if you’re shopping abroad, keep an eye out for differentiations in size determination.\n\nSo, how do you figure out what size you need with so many moving pieces? It’s all about measuring, shopping smart, and understanding what it means for [wedding rings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-rings) to fit properly. Getting your finger measured by the store or jeweler where you’re purchasing your engagement ring is the best way to determine your size.\n\n### How to Tell If the Ring Fits\nWhether you’ve never worn a ring or you just want to ensure this very special piece fits securely, selecting the right ring size is vital. But how do you actually know if it feels right? Keep the following in mind to ensure you find the perfect fit:\n\n- The ring should be easy to slip on, but hard to slip off.\n- If it creates a permanent indent on your finger, it’s too tight.\n- If your finger bulges above or below the ring, it’s too tight. \n- If your ring is hard to take off in the morning, that’s normal (because your fingers swell while you sleep). \n- Your engagement or wedding ring should be tighter than standard rings (because this is one you can’t risk slipping off while working out, swimming, or working).\n- Once the ring is on, push it up from underneath. There should be a small space between your ring and your finger.\n\n## How to Find Your Ring Size at Home\nThough professional measuring eliminates any discrepancies over size charts and provides the peace of mind of a professional’s seal of approval, sometimes it’s simply not possible. Here’s how to figure out your size if you’re selecting and ordering an engagement ring from home. \n\n### 1. Measure a Ring\nMost jewelers and companies provide printed size charts you can compare to a ring that already fits. While [Google has tons of options](https://www.google.com/search?q=ring+size+chart&rlz=1C5CHFA_enUS844US844&sxsrf=ALeKk032FPiuq88b5pYaFfZzZrLEz5_Qqw:1598466325045&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwj9hvWLv7nrAhWPtVkKHYKgDIMQ_AUoAXoECA4QAw&biw=1360&bih=694) that will give you an idea, it’s a good idea to reach out to the company you’re buying from. For this method, you simply place the ring over the variously-sized printed circles to determine the correct fit. \n\n### 2. Measure Your Finger\nAnother great—and free—way to find your correct ring size at home is to use either a printable ring sizer or a piece of string. For the printable ring sizer, just [print it out](https://www.benbridge.com/education-ring-sizes.html) and cut a small slit where indicated. Then, with the numbers facing out, slip the tip of the sizer through the slot. From there, you’ll pull the sizer taut on your finger (where the ring will sit) and read the finger size.\n\nThe string test is another classic method, because it’s simple, doesn’t involve any printing, and is free. First, wrap a piece of string or floss around your ring finger and either cut it where it overlaps or make a small (yet visible) mark with a pen. Then, line the string up with a ruler (or ring size chart, if your jeweler has one) to see where the mark hits. Standard ring sizes (which come in half-sizes) are measured at 0.4-millimeter increments. To give you an idea, size three equals 14mm, size 3.4 equals 14.4mm, size four equals 14.8 mm, and so on. \n\nIt’s good to note, however, that there may be sizing variations depending on things such as printer settings or stretch of the string as well as general jeweler differentiations. If possible, use any and all tools or tips provided by the website you’re purchasing from. And when in doubt, reach out to the company with any questions before putting down your credit card number.\n\n![Wedding Ring Size Guide](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5OI745YLMRuuIq7meUzm1I/5e09fb6aadc56772af753d730d00f0da/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### 3. Use a Mandrel\nMost jewelers use a mandrel in-store to determine your correct ring size. The tool is basically just a graduated metal wand with markers for different sizes. If you have a ring you wear or know that fits, this is a great way to get a fairly accurate measurement. Simply slip the ring on the mandrel and when it stops, that indicates the size of the ring. [Mandrels are relatively inexpensive online](https://www.amazon.com/Mandril-tama%C3%B1o-anillo-acero-tama%C3%B1os/dp/B088KPQ46K/), so if you’re shopping from home, this is an ideal solution.\n\n### 4. Use a Ring Sizer\nAnother ideal solution to figuring out your ring size from home is to purchase a ring sizer. Whether plastic or metal, ring sizers look like a keychain with a whole bunch of different rings attached. Each of the rings comes with their sizes marked (and usually includes sizes one through 13). You simply slip each ring on until you find one that fits just right. __[These tools can be purchased online](https://www.amazon.com/MUDDER-Stainless-Ring-Gauges-Measuring/dp/B01CCG6IQY/)__—just make sure to remember that different companies’ rings may vary slightly in size, so if the specific boutique sells or provides its own sizers, opt to purchase from them.\n\n## Wedding Ring Sizing Chart\nNeed help finding your wedding ring size? Here’s a chart to help measure ring size and find the perfect fit for your engagement ring and wedding bands:\n\n## What to Do if My Wedding Ring Size Is Between Sizes?\nStandard ring sizes don’t offer accessibility to every type of ring finger. If your measurements fall in between sizes, go with the larger size. It’s significantly easier to resize a larger ring to a smaller finger than it is a smaller ring to a larger finger. \n\n## Ring Size Tips\nWhen debating between sizes or making a selection, keep these tips in mind to help determine your perfect ring size:\n\n- As mentioned, if you’re in between ring sizes, go up. \n- Before purchasing, check to see whether or not the ring can be resized. Some metals and designs with added diamonds or embellishments can’t be resized without compromising the look. \n- Your fingers actually change sizes throughout the year, and tend to be at their largest during the summer months, because the heat makes them swell. \n- The best time to get your finger sized is between lunch and dinner due to swelling.\n\n![Wedding Ring Size Guide](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3OBMS2DfzC26ZblIxfrKtq/5cba609e1457f8edfd5eb4751c24bfd1/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n## How to Find Your SO’s Ring Size\nIf you’re trying to figure out your SO’s ring size without him or her knowing (yay!), there are a few super sneaky ways to get the dirt without spilling the secret:\n\n### 1. Ask Around\nThere’s a chance your future fiance already knows his or her ring size, especially if they wear jewelry often. Consider asking a close friend or family member to see if they know this information—odds are your SO told a pal in hopes you might ask around. Even if you do get the 411, consider reinforcing this information by utilizing another method to ensure the fit is still good. \n\nIf they haven’t said anything to a friend, see if you can have a pal work it into the conversation and report back, double-agent style. \n\n### 2. Steal an Existing Ring They Wear\nIf your person wears a ring often (especially if it’s on the ring or middle finger), this is an easy way to figure out the size without them ever knowing. If you can manage to snatch it up and take it to the jeweler without causing too much panic, the jeweler will be able to determine exactly what size you need. \n\n### 3. Use Soap or Your Own Finger\nIf, however, he or she only ever takes their rings off briefly and you have to act fast, there is a solution: Get a new bar of soap and press their existing ring into it. This will create an imprint which you can then take to a jeweler. Otherwise, slip the ring on your own finger and take note of exactly where it lands. It’s not perfect science, but it will get you close enough to the size (and hopefully you can resize later, if needed).\n\n## How to Buy a Ring Online\nIn the modern age, buying a ring online is common, but it does come with a few caveats. Shopping online allows you to see a wide variety of __[engagement ring styles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-rings)__. (Same goes for [wedding ring styles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/popular-wedding-ring-styles-for-2021).) However, shopping online does have its downfalls. While forgoing a classic boutique might mean lower costs and more options, you do need to be cautious as you move forward. First, only buy from reputable sellers. Be on the lookout for extensive FAQ pages, customer reviews, and plenty of photos and videos. Read up on the return policy, resizing options, and warranty to ensure you’re prepared for any needed alterations. Finally, don’t be afraid to ask the store to send additional photos, assets, or even hope on a Facetime or Skype call. Even if it’s an [affordable wedding ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-find-an-affordable-wedding-ring), you’re making a real investment—so ask all the questions and, if something doesn’t feel right, chances are it’s not.","tag":"How-To ","updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:24.871Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Rings","slug":"rings"},"slug":"the-ultimate-diamond-carat-size-guide","title":"The Ultimate Diamond Carat Size Guide","excerpt":"New to the world of wedding ring shopping? Find out everything you need to know with our diamond carat size guide from Zola. ","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2020-11-04T17:30:38.642Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6ZHcBgTX0FDzoM78hum6te/0bdb61d69aa75660e339dbc6d9831a99/hero_unsplash.jpg","altText":"ruler to measure rings"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Out of all the proverbial fish in the sea, you found the one—your person. The human you want to be with for the rest of your life. Congrats! Just like people come in all shapes and sizes, so do diamonds. Thankfully, gemstones are a bit easier to figure out. Although we can’t demystify your partner, our diamond carat size guide can help you choose the perfect diamond engagement ring.\n\n## Beyond the Diamond Carat Chart\nBefore getting into the nitty-gritty of diamond weight comparisons, it’s essential to familiarize yourself with a few diamond facts not generally included on a diamond weight chart.\n\n![Diamond Carat Size Guide](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6qqRaWdWPTcYj8zOrHRHxJ/4656d22d739c26d29c4deaa70b44efd0/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Weight Is Not Equal to Diamond Carat Size\nYes, size matters. When someone gets engaged, we immediately want to see that stunner on their finger. The first thing we tend to notice is the size of the diamond engagement ring, and then our mind focuses on the shape, __[sparkle](https://zola.app.link/t03JzG5gAab)__, and details surrounding the stone. Even though the tendency is to interchange the terms “size” and “carat,” they are vastly different.\n\nThe term carat refers to the weight of the stone, measured in one of two ways. Using metric terms, one carat equals 0.2 grams or 200 micrograms, also equal to 100 points. So, a two-carat oval diamond ring will equal 0.4 grams or 400 points. Above all, a diamond weight calculator measures carats, but doesn’t necessarily indicate how large a stone will look.\n\n### One-carat Diamond Prices Vary Depending on Other Factors\nOf course, with great size comes great expenditure. The total weight of the stone is the determinant of [price](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-finance-an-engagement-ring). Diamond market price charts also vary annually, as the cost of diamonds fluctuates from year to year.\n\nOther factors—such as diamond cut, __[shape](https://zola.app.link/7klrzki7zab)__, color, and clarity (also known as “the four Cs” of diamonds)—impact the worth. A one-carat diamond price isn’t the same for each gemstone across the board. For example, a blemish-free, one-carat gem will be more expensive than the same size stone filled with imperfections. Although there are diamond price per carat calculators available, the gemstone must be considered in its entirety. In short, bigger doesn’t always equal better. \n\n### Diamond Carat Price Rises Exponentially With the Stone’s Weight.\nWhen you spy that perfect 1.5-carat oval diamond ring in the case, don’t assume that a three-carat diamond will be twice the price. As the weight of a single diamond increases, so does the price per carat. Likewise, a one-carat ring __[won’t cost the same](https://zola.app.link/KiNeuzyN71)__ as four quarter-carat stones.\n\nThus, it’s important to note that carat weight is not the same as total carat weight. Many rings have side stones used to calculate the total carat weight of the diamond engagement ring itself. For example, a __[multi-stone ring](https://zola.app.link/Bjq60Ev3Jab)__ may contain a half-carat center stone and two quarter-carat side stones. Although the total carat weight of the ring is one-carat, the value is not the same as a one-carat solitaire.\n\n## Things That Factor Into Diamond Carat Size\nNot everything can be solved by consulting a diamond size chart. Millimeter (mm) sizing measures across the surface of a diamond and doesn’t take into account its depth. Consequently, there are other factors to consider, such as shape and how the facets are cut.\n\n### Diamond Shape\nIf you’re on the hunt for oval engagement rings, it’s best not to consult a marquise diamond size chart. Although their forms are somewhat similar, the shape of your gemstone will significantly affect the weight. So, instead of comparing apples to oranges, it’s best to use the same shape stone when factoring in diamond carat size comparisons.\n\nSo, how big is a half-carat diamond? To know how it will look on your hand, consider your favorite shapes. Diamond size charts are generally specific to the shape of the stone. Indeed, you want to determine the __[best carat size](https://zola.app.link/KiRI0FT1Jab)__ for the width of your fingers. \n\n### Diamond Cut\nIf you think that a diamond’s cut and shape are the same, think again. What you see from the top is the shape, and the geometry is the cut. Due to nature, several factors—such as imperfections and light reflection—must be taken into account when carving a stone.\n\nIf an area has several __[inclusions](https://www.americangemsociety.org/page/diamondinclusions)__—or flaws—a gemstone cutter may cut the stone into the shape of a heart to better hide imperfections. In contrast, a less included area is ideal for a flawless, [emerald-cut diamond](https://zola.app.link/l8jlDF34Jab). Size charts often don’t take the stone’s cut into account, and the depth of the gem is also a factor. For example, a shallow 1.5-carat round cut diamond ring may appear the same size as a two-carat round diamond ring with a deeper cut.\n\n## Diamond Carat Size Guide\n### Diamond Size Comparison by Carat Weight\nGemstones are three-dimensional. Therefore, you can’t simply add the width of two half-carat stones to get the dimensions for a full carat. For reference, a US nickel is almost two mm thick—1.95 mm, to be exact.\n\n- 0.25 carat = 4.1 mm\n- .5 carat = 5.1 mm\n- 1 carat = 6.4 mm\n- 1.5 carat = 7.4 mm\n- 2 carat = 8.1 mm\n- 3 carat = 9.3 mm\n- 4 carat = 10.2 mm\n- 5 carat = 11 mm\n\n![Diamond Carat Size Guide](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4lXyh89kfkWpH5WZp5CIAr/11b3785ccb9b8bfa6aeb2275726c2a6e/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Diamond Carat Size Comparison by Shape\nThe slimming, little black dress is famous for a reason as it tricks the mind’s eye. That philosophy also works for diamonds. A long, thin marquise tends to look more substantial than a princess cut stone of the same weight. For reference, these are the approximate dimensions for one-carat stones.\n\n- Marquise = 10.5x5 mm\n- Pear = 8.5x5.5 mm\n- Oval = 8x5.5 mm\n- Emerald = 6.5x5 mm\n- Heart = 6.7 mm\n- Round = 6.4 mm round\n- Cushion = 6.5x5.5 mm\n- Asscher = 5.5 mm square\n- Princess = 5.5 mm square\n- Radiant = 6x5.5 mm\n\n## What Is the Average Carat Size for a Diamond Engagement Ring?\nAccording to a [recent study](https://www.ritani.com/blogs/news/average-carat-weight-diamond-engagement-ring), the most popular weight for an average engagement ring is between 1 and 1.9 carats, with the average carat weight coming in with an actual carat size of around 1.08 carats. So, if you're looking to purchase an average carat size engagement ring, aim for a ring somewhere in that range.\n\n## Choosing the Right Carat Size for You\nFiguring out how to pick engagement rings can be an intimidating task. One of the more daunting questions is “how do I decide the right carat size?” Two of the bigger factors that can help you decide what size is right for you are finances and lifestyle. \n\n### Finances\n\nOne of the first things you need to think about before purchasing an engagement ring is your budget. Understanding, and being realistic, about [what you can afford](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-finance-an-engagement-ring) can help you narrow down the right carat size for your partner. If you think they'd like a larger center stone—but you don't have the budget to pay for a larger diamond—consider a more affordable alternative, like a lab-grown diamond or a gemstone.\n\n### Lifestyle\nAnother thing to think about when choosing the right carat size for your partner? Their lifestyle. Buying an average-sized or smaller diamond is generally a good choice for an active person that plans to wear the ring daily—including during activities like hiking, traveling, or sports. However, if they’re more likely to only wear it on special occasions and/or want a center stone that’s sure to grab attention, then a larger carat weight engagement ring could be the better option.\n\n## FAQs\n### Can You Change Your Diamond's Carat Size?\nLooking for a unique way to celebrate an anniversary or major life event? Altering the stone in your ring can be a wonderful expression. The cost comes down to the price of the new center stone and adjustments needed. A solitaire ring, for example, will require the least amount of adjustments. However, if you have a ring with multiple diamonds in its setting, adding a larger diamond carat size will require more changes to be made by jewelers—which would increase the price.\n\n### Is a 1 Carat Diamond Big Enough?\nThe average diamond size of engagement rings bought today are within the 1 to 2 carat weight range, so a 1 carat diamond is a great size—and should qualify as “big enough” for most people.\n\n### What is a Normal Size Diamond?\nAbout half the rings bought in the US today are between 1 and 2 carats in weight. People on a budget usually stick with smaller diamonds since they’re more affordable—while people who are less concerned about affordability may opt for a larger diamond.\n\nKeep in mind, it’s not just the carat that determines how big a diamond is; shape and cut can also impact how large a diamond appears.\n\n### Is a Higher or Lower Carat Diamond Better?\nIs bigger really always better? A larger carat usually means a larger diamond, if that’s what you’re looking for. However, depending on the diamond clarity, color, shape, and cut, a smaller diamond may actually be of a higher quality. For example, a smaller carat diamond with better clarity and cut will have a more dazzling appearance than a large diamond with poor clarity.\n\n### Which diamond cut looks the biggest?\nIf you’re looking for crafty ways to make your ring appear larger, check out some of the alternative cuts that are offered. Different diamond cut styles, such as an oval diamond engagement ring, can make the gemstone appear larger than the actual carat size—and are often more affordable than the ever-popular round diamond engagement ring.\n\n### A Final Piece of Advice\nWe can chat all day about the weight, shape, and clarity of your diamond, and so can your jewelry person. But it’s very important to get documentation to go with your gemstone. Associations such as the Gemological Institute of America (__[GIA](https://www.gia.edu/)__) and American Gem Society (__[AGS](https://www.americangemsociety.org/page/agsdiamondgrading)__) have standards and grading systems for diamonds.\n\nAn engagement ring is a significant purchase. The proper documentation not only gives you confidence in your purchase, but is also vital for insurance purchases. If your diamond ring gets lost or stolen, your certificate can help replace it quickly.\n\nA diamond carat size guide wouldn’t be complete without noting the nuances that characterize the gemstone industry. But no matter your choice of stone, rest assured that it will __[represent your love](https://zola.app.link/c2l8PYEKGab)__ and commitment to your perfect catch.","tag":"How-To ","updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:24.105Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Rings","slug":"rings"},"slug":"what-are-internally-flawless-diamonds","title":"Understanding Internally Flawless Diamonds: The Guide","excerpt":"When grading diamonds, internally flawless diamonds are the creme de la creme. Read on to learn more about an internally flawless diamond’s characteristics.","author":"Deanna deBara","publishedAt":"2020-12-08T21:53:19.737Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2PO5jiL36nNhsSotMCGIC/cfbfd6525191d7102a31e77acc5de155/hero_unsplash.jpg","altText":"internally flawless diamond"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Let’s face it: There’s nothing better than perfection. The reassurance and comfort we gain from knowing that something we did, or have, is the absolute best is an unparalleled feeling. Unfortunately, though, perfection is very rare—even in something as brilliant as a diamond gemstone set in a beautiful engagement ring or in a set of [wedding bands](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-rings).\n\nThe process by which diamonds are created is chaotic. The earth spends hundreds, if not thousands of years, refining coal until it’s made perfect. Through immense pressure and over an extended period, the carbon within the earth is transformed into a glittering gem.\n\nEven though every diamond is created in the same fashion, the finished product is wildly unpredictable. As such, humans have created a scientific system for judging diamonds. Almost every commercial diamond in circulation is examined, judged, critiqued, and graded using a very specific scale and set of criteria by diamond experts. This set of criteria is important not just to the consumers purchasing the gems, but to the people selling them as well.\n\nA standardized diamond clarity scale gives us the ability to distinguish and separate, label, and prioritize. Within the grading scale that’s used to make such distinctions, there is a grade of diamond that is as rare as it is attainable: the internally flawless (IF) diamond.\n\n![What Are Internally Flawless Diamonds](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2CfLM23VmodaDYCMU6GX0s/daea91afa4cd664d3f15ac6fb936b7f4/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n## Grading a Diamond\nTo understand the rarity of internally flawless diamonds, it’s important to understand what the word “flawless” really means. All diamonds are graded according to their characteristics, with diamond prices based entirely on the diamond’s clarity grade.\n\nIn the United States, two foremost clarity grading authorities are trusted with the task of grading diamonds. These special entities are the Gemologists Institute of America (GIA) and the American Gemologist Society (AGS). Both are lauded institutions, but the GIA is the foremost authority on grading diamonds. Every diamond that’s sold by a jeweler in the United States receives a GIA or AGS grade. Most jewelers prefer GIA, but AGS is also a perfectly acceptable source for receiving diamond grades. \n\n### 4 C's of Diamonds\nWhen a jeweler receives a shipment of diamonds, they send those diamonds into either AGS or GIA for evaluation. These institutes then send the diamonds back with certificates explaining the grade and the criteria used to establish the grade. When grading diamonds, trained gemologists look at four distinctive attributes: cut, color, clarity, and carat weight.\n\nEach attribute offers distinctive insight into the overall value of the stone, and when collectively assessed, help determine an overall grade. Each of these four attributes has its own grading system, and as a result, the final grade of the diamond is simply a collection of all four grades.\n\nFor example, a diamond that is colorless, ideal cut, internally flawless, and one carat would have a grade of D, Excellent, IF, 1C. We will get to more of the specifics about the lingo a little later in the article, but for now, it’s important to note how the grading and the description have minor differences.\n\nFor example, you may notice that, while the description refers to the diamond color as “colorless,” the grade given is “D.” Each category has its lingo and abbreviation set, and the more familiar you are with these descriptors, the easier it becomes to understand the difference between individual diamonds and, ultimately, the rarity of Internally Flawless stones.\n## Cut and Clarity Come First\nWhen it comes to grading internally flawless diamonds, cut and clarity are the most important distinguishing characteristics. Cut and clarity are the two factors that play the biggest role in how much sparkle a diamond has. Cut quality especially plays a large role in how shiny the diamond is. If a diamond is cut too shallow, then the light simply reflects off the surface of the diamond, like it would a mirror. \n\n![What Are Internally Flawless Diamonds](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5o9NOY0SF30kJuJCKgZwWw/aa3a46e54ae3b059d72794e46614681a/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Cut \nIf a diamond is cut too deep, then the light has a hard time escaping the gem, which muffles the overall sparkle of the stone. A cut diamond needs just the right proportions to maximize brilliance, which is why cut is so important. If your internally flawless diamond is not cut to the right proportions, then the lack of inclusions within the stone will not matter—the light will not be able to properly refract within the stone.\n\nThere are four grades of cut for diamonds, and they are as follows:\n\n- Ideal (also called Excellent by GIA)\n- Very good\n- Good\n- Poor/Fair. \n\nSome bigger name jewelers and engagement ring specialists claim to have diamonds that are “super ideal” or “brilliant cut,” but these are not recognized by the GIA. When dealing with brand name retailers, it’s crucial to avoid these sales ploys.\n\nClaims are made that these elite diamonds are cut to a new standard that makes the stone sparkle more and shine brighter. While this cut of diamond may sound enticing, it’s simply not true. No one aspect of the diamond can make it shine or sparkle more or less; all four attributes contribute to the overall character of the stone.\n\nAdditionally, these super-ideal cuts are not recognized by the GIA or AGS, which means you are paying more for a “super-ideal” stone that will simply say excellent or ideal on the official report. If you have an option between ideal and super ideal, just stick with an ideal.\n\n### Clarity\nSimilarly, clarity plays a crucial role in the brilliance of an internally flawless diamond. The term internally flawless is itself a grade of clarity and speaks to a complete lack of inclusions within the diamond.\n\nUnlike the other characteristics of a diamond, clarity is the most subjective. There is no hard and fast rule for how big an inclusion needs to be or how many inclusions can exist within a certain range of clarity. Clarity is determined based on “inclusions,” which are the internal characteristics, or flaws, within the stone itself. Where diamond inclusions stop being subjective is with the internally flawless class.\n\nWhile there may be differentiating opinions between gemologist diamond experts about whether a diamond is very slightly included (VSI) or [very, very slightly included (VVSI)](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-ultimate-diamond-carat-size-guide), a lack of inclusions within the stone is very cut and dry. There is no questioning an internally flawless diamond as the complete lack of internal blemishes dictates that the diamond is, without question, internally flawless. \n\n## Diamond Clarity Grades\nThe GIA Clarity Scale contains 11 grades, with each diamond assigned a grade based on its size, nature, position, color or relief, and quantity of clarity characteristics visible under 10x magnification. Most diamonds graded by the GIA receive a grading of VS or SI; diamonds that receive an FL grading are incredibly rare, with few jewelers having ever seen one.\n\nGIA clarity grades from highest to lowest are:\n\n### 1. Flawless (FL)\nNo inclusions or blemishes are visible to a skilled grader using 10x magnification.\n\n### 2. Internally Flawless (IF)\nNo inclusions and only blemishes are visible to a skilled grader using 10x magnification.\n\n### 3 and 4. Very, Very Slightly Included (VVS1 and VVS2)\nInclusions are difficult for a skilled grader to see under 10x magnification.\n\n### 5 and 6. Very Slightly Included (VS1 and VS2)\nInclusions are minor and range from difficult to somewhat easy for a skilled to see under 10x magnification.\n\n### 7 and 8. Slightly Included (SI1 and SI2)\nInclusions are noticeable to a skilled grader under 10x magnification.\n\n### 9, 10, and 11. Included (I1, I2, and I3)\nInclusions are obvious under 10x magnification and may affect transparency and brilliance.\n\n## Flawless vs. Internally Flawless\nIt may strike you as strange that the word “internally” prefaces the clarity grade of flawless. After all, if a diamond doesn’t have any internal flaws, why not just call it flawless? Flawless diamonds are in a stratosphere all their own, and they are exceptionally rare. Outside of man-made diamonds, which can be carefully produced to perfection in a laboratory setting, nearly every diamond in existence has some kind of flaw or defect.\n\nInternally flawless diamonds are about as perfect as you would ever need a diamond to be. Internally flawless diamonds have no noticeable inclusions, but they do have some surface blemishes. That said, even to someone who specializes in precious stones, the actual flaws that create the difference between an internally flawless diamond and a flawless diamond are microscopic, minuscule, and minute. However, the divide between an internally flawless diamond and a flawless diamond is a staggering contrast that’s reflected not just in scarcity, but in the diamond’s worth and corresponding price difference.\n\n## Are Internally Flawless Diamonds Worth It?\nChoosing a beautiful diamond for an engagement ring can be challenging—and expensive. Internally flawless diamonds are stones with one of the highest grades (second only to FL diamonds)—which means, if you go for an IF diamond, your diamond engagement ring will be something to marvel at.\n\nThat said, you don’t always need to choose the best diamond available—especially if it’s outside of your budget. Because diamond clarity grading is based on what’s visible under magnification, it’s possible to buy a stone that appears flawless to the naked eye. This means you can buy a VVS, VS, or SI diamond (none of which have visible inclusions) for a significant price difference compared to the cost of an IF diamond—and the vast majority of people won’t be able to tell the difference.\n\nSo, the answer to the question “is an internally flawless diamond worth it?” It all depends. While there’s no denying an IF diamond is one of the best money can buy, depending on how much money you want to spend, you may be better off going with a diamond that, while not technically internally flawless, looks that way to the naked eye.\n\n## How to Pick Your Diamond\nChoosing the best diamond for your diamond engagement ring or [wedding ring](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=wedding%20rings) depends entirely on your budget and preferences. In other words, a flawless 1 carat diamond isn’t necessarily the gemstone you need to settle on to woo your partner (bigger isn’t always better!); sometimes, it’s the minor details that will help you find the perfect stone for you.\n\nIf you’re on the market for a new ring, visit different jewelers and retailers to inspect and compare diamonds with different attributes, including:\n\n- Carat size\n\n- Diamond color (like D color, E color, or F color for colorless diamonds)\n\n- [Diamond shape](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/best-diamond-shape-for-your-finger) (like round diamonds)\n\n- Diamond cut (like step cuts, including asscher, marquise, and emerald cut diamonds)\n\n- Grading (like IF and VVS diamonds)\n\nDepending on the diamond you want and the attributes that matter to you, you may have to strike a balance between the 4 C’s to stay within budget. For example, if you’re set on purchasing a 1 carat diamond, you may have to lower the clarity or color to find a price tag that works for you.\n\n## Don’t Judge a Diamond By It’s Grade\nWhen it comes to judging a diamond, be careful not to judge too sternly. While we all strive for perfection, sometimes a flaw or two is what keeps us grounded. In the case of the internally flawless diamond, it’s a lack of perfection that makes it special. For something that is such a visibly outward sign of beauty, the IF diamond reminds us, in a rich dose of cosmic irony, that it’s what’s inside that matters.","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_WeddingBoutique"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"New to the world of wedding ring shopping? Find out everything you need to know with our diamond carat size guide from Zola. ","title":"The Ultimate Diamond Carat Size Guide","slug":"the-ultimate-diamond-carat-size-guide","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6ZHcBgTX0FDzoM78hum6te/0bdb61d69aa75660e339dbc6d9831a99/hero_unsplash.jpg","altText":"ruler to measure rings"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"From how much you should expect to spend on a wedding ring to tips for how to choose the right one for you, check out this guide on wedding ring styles, types, and materials.","title":"A Guide to Wedding Rings","slug":"a-guide-to-wedding-rings","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5P3fQN4IfleT7GqBYDmSs/8149be86e6f0b1e35a8e477b1a792fe8/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"gold wedding band and three diamond eternity wedding bands on a white sequined fabric"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Got questions on how to finance an engagement ring? Our experts can help. Read on to find out now.","title":"How to Finance an Engagement Ring","slug":"how-to-finance-an-engagement-ring","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/ly1YKAgHTRF8cAIPdJ8yX/2b696d93ce89053fd3177a4fe5136cc4/hero_unsplash.jpg","altText":"couple admiring engagement rings"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Different diamonds look different on different fingers. 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","author":"Deanna deBara","publishedAt":"2021-03-30T15:50:06.895Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6EYQoZol7yopKHowKSGF1u/f3b3611bd36e4369df229a20a0308956/Hero_Zola_-_2021-03-30T114611.031.jpg","altText":"18 Karat Versus 24 Karat Gold Rings"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"- Chocolate wedding favors are a delicious idea for sending guests off with a sweet treat at the end of a fun evening.\n\n- Choose [seasonally appropriate chocolates](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-favor-ideas#season), like S’mores, for a summer wedding or hot chocolate mix for winter nuptials.\n\n- You can choose [elegant chocolate favors](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-favor-ideas#elegant), like geometric truffles, or even put your faces on M&M’s.","body":"When it comes to choosing an [engagement ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring) or [wedding ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-rings), there are a lot of decisions to make. What kind of style do you want? If you’re getting a diamond, do you want to go with a traditionally mined stone or a [lab-grown diamond](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-ultimate-diamond-carat-size-guide)? And if you’re forgoing a diamond for a more [unique wedding ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-rings), what stone (such as sapphire, aquamarine, or emerald) are you going for?\n\nIn addition to the style and stone you want for your ring, you also need to think of the material of the ring itself.\n\nMany couples choose gold for their wedding band or engagement ring setting. But, even if you decide gold is the right fit for your ring, there might be one more question to navigate—and that has to do with the karat.\n\nIf you’ve been looking at gold for your ring and aren’t sure what the difference between 18 karats and 24 karat gold is (or if it matters!), let’s take a look at 18 karats versus 24 karat gold.\n\n## What Does “Karat” Mean?\n\nBefore we jump into the differences between 18 karats and 24 karat gold, let’s quickly cover what that “k” stands for—and that’s karat.\n\nA karat is a unit that’s used to measure the purity and quality of gold. The higher the karat, the purer the gold. \n\nThe highest karat rating is 24 karat, which means that the gold hasn’t been mixed with any other metals; essentially, it’s pure gold. Anything less than 24 karat means that the gold was mixed with another precious metal, such as silver or copper.\n\n## The Difference Between 18 Karat Gold and 24 Karat Gold\n\n![18k vs 24k Gold ](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2Gt5C6FBu4RjAkoSEMr12o/4f53232032d6b46ed4af7fd4abe35cdf/inline_unsplash1.jpeg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\nSo, now that you understand what the “k” stands for in 18 karats and 24 karat gold, let’s cover the major differences between the two karats.\n\n### Purity\n\nAs mentioned, 24 karat is the highest karat rating, so when you purchase a piece of jewelry that’s 24 karat gold, you’re dealing with a piece that’s virtually 100 percent gold.\n\nEighteen karat gold, on the other hand, has a three-to-one ratio of gold to other metals. So, when you purchase a piece of 18 karat gold jewelry, the piece's gold content is 75 percent and the other 25 percent consists of alloyed metals.\n\n### Color\n\nWhen it comes to color, pure gold is more of a yellow hue—so, thanks to its purity level, 24 karat gold have a distinct (and bright!) yellow color. \n\nBecause 18 karat gold is mixed with other metals, it doesn’t have that “OMG it’s yellow” vibe going on—and, depending on the alloy metal it’s mixed with, 18 karat is available in a variety of shades and colors (such as white gold, rose gold, or a more copper-toned gold).\n\n### Durability\n\nYou would think that pure gold would be stronger than a gold alloy that’s mixed with other metals, right? Wrong.\n\nTwenty-four-karat gold is soft, pliable, and prone to scratching and other damages, making it a challenging material to work with (and not the most practical material for fine jewelry that’s going to be worn daily—such as an engagement ring or wedding band).\n\nThe addition of other alloyed metals makes 18 karat gold more durable than its purer counterpart; it’s stronger, sturdier, and better able to withstand the wear and tear that goes along with wearing a piece of jewelry day in and day out.\n\n### Value\n\nAnother difference between 24 karat gold and 18 karats gold is the price tag. Because 24 karat gold is purer than 18 karat gold, it’s more expensive—and you can expect to pay more for the same weight in 24 karat gold than you would for 18 karat gold.\n\n### Uses\n\nThanks to its durability, versatility, and variety of shades, 18 karat gold is a go-to for the jewelry of all sorts—including wedding jewelry.\n\nOn the other hand, while there is certainly 24 karat gold jewelry available on the market, that’s not the most popular use for 24 karat gold. Because 24 karat gold is as pure as you can get, many people buy it as in investment—and buy it in more investment-friendly forms (such as gold bars or coins).\n\n## Which Is Right for Your Wedding Ring?\n\n![18k vs 24k Gold ](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2zrtKxVBA1cDuxAN7DHVzP/c4740cb9cb211a94df33d75b1153b341/inline_unsplash.jpeg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\nSo, bottom line: When it comes to choosing a gold engagement ring or wedding band, which should you go for—18 karat or 24 karats gold?\n\nPretty much any way you look at it—including from durability, affordability, and aesthetic perspective—18 karat gold is the clear frontrunner for wedding jewelry. Because of its mixture with other metals, 18 karat gold is better able to withstand the wear and tear of daily use, it comes in a wider variety of shades and colors, and it has a [lower price tag](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-finance-an-engagement-ring), which makes it easier to work into your [wedding budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-set-your-wedding-budget). What’s not to love?\n\nNow, that being said, if your heart is set on 24 karat gold for your engagement ring or wedding band, go for it. It’s your ring and you should get the ring that feels right for you. Just make sure to talk to your jeweler about how to best care for your ring, prevent any damage, and ensure that it stays in tip-top shape on the top of your finger.","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"From how much you should expect to spend on a wedding ring to tips for how to choose the right one for you, check out this guide on wedding ring styles, types, and materials.","title":"A Guide to Wedding Rings","slug":"a-guide-to-wedding-rings","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5P3fQN4IfleT7GqBYDmSs/8149be86e6f0b1e35a8e477b1a792fe8/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"gold wedding band and three diamond eternity wedding bands on a white sequined fabric"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"We talk carats, cuts, cost, and comfort when choosing wedding ring styles in 2021.","title":"The 10 Most Popular Wedding Ring Styles Right Now","slug":"popular-wedding-ring-styles-for-2021","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7nIhIl44lEqekUugBh2Hhe/d01365f44559dc1b379d7e56a76575e5/Hero_Unsplash_Chuttersnap.jpg","altText":"Popular 2021 Wedding Ring Styles"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:22.512Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Rings","slug":"rings"},"slug":"popular-wedding-ring-styles-for-2021","title":"The 10 Most Popular Wedding Ring Styles Right Now","excerpt":"We talk carats, cuts, cost, and comfort when choosing wedding ring styles in 2021.","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2021-02-26T17:13:15.673Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7nIhIl44lEqekUugBh2Hhe/d01365f44559dc1b379d7e56a76575e5/Hero_Unsplash_Chuttersnap.jpg","altText":"Popular 2021 Wedding Ring Styles"},"heroCredit":"Chuttersnap","body":"We talk carats, cuts, cost, and comfort when choosing popular wedding ring styles right now.\n\nYour [wedding ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-rings) is the one piece of jewelry you want to enjoy wearing every single day. Not only is it quite the statement piece, but it’s a symbolic celebration of the eternal bond you share with your spouse. While there’s quite the variety to choose from—from metals, to stones, to cuts and styles—you also want to be mindful of cost and comfort. Most of all, your ring should be representative of your personal style and pair with your engagement ring.\n\nTo aid in your wedding band search, we’ve rounded up the top ten most popular wedding ring styles right now. From diamond adorned to sleek and minimalist, we explore each type—plus, give you some purchasable examples. \n\n### Diamond Wedding Rings\n\n ![Popular Wedding Ring Styles for 2021](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5gANKqKPb3vzMj3uYJm2K6/b3035bbf06b3706f72e73189b2670344/inline_Lorenzo_Media_Productions.jpg)\n *Photo Credit* // Lorenzo Media Productions\n\nThough engagement rings typically star diamonds, wedding rings are equal contenders. Nothing says elegance more than a diamond wedding ring. Whether you go with a gold or platinum band, a traditionally styled diamond ring, or a more modern embellished style, one thing is for sure: your wedding ring will make you the center of attention at your wedding and after.\n\n### 1. Harry Kotlar Criss-Cross Platinum Band With Melee Diamonds\nThis sleek platinum band ring is adorned with pavé diamonds and forms a crisscross X shape at its center. It’s ideal for those who want something chic and minimal, with tons of sparkle.\n\nPurchase on [Harry Kotlar](https://harrykotlar.com/collection/artisan-pav%C3%A9/bloom/j-6381)\n\n### Black Diamond Wedding Rings\n\nThough previously popular [men’s wedding bands](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pair-wedding-band-with-engagement-ring), wedding ring styles featuring black diamonds have become more popular among women’s wedding bands, too. Typically seen against a platinum or silver band, black diamonds shimmer differently from the gems usually found on wedding rings and deliver a polished contrast to commonly found modern wedding ring interpretations. They provide a subtle twist in color, but a big contrast in visual appeal. \n\n### 2. Belloria Gold & Black Diamond Band\nThis white gold and black diamond engagement ring is plated in black rhodium, giving it a gunmetal base color and a lot of durability. A diamond eternity band, it features black diamonds around its entire perimeter. With a simple shape and tons of shine, it’s stackable and unique.\n\nPurchase on [Yates & Co. Jewelers ($895)](https://www.yatesjewelers.com/black-gold-diamond-wedding-band.html)\n\n### Vintage Wedding Rings\n\nGaining popularity over the last few years, vintage wedding ring and vintage engagement ring styles have developed loyal followings. If you’re looking to add some old-world charm to your wedding, a vintage ring with exquisite designs, colorful gems, or other intricate details, is perfect. You have a few different eras to pick from and each has a signature style that will add oodles of sophistication to your wedding attire. \n\n### 3. AAA Fresh Seed Pearl 14k Solid Gold Vintage Wedding Band\nDeviate from the expected with a wedding band that features a series of freshwater pearls. This ring is easy to style and, moreover, can be made with one of three different metals—rose gold, yellow gold, or white gold.\n\nPurchase on [Etsy ($255)](https://www.etsy.com/listing/937352828/aaa-fresh-seed-pearl-14k-solid-gold?click_key=15848f885fb8d0782c11e1058efc97acf7d7a5c4%3A937352828&click_sum=da418bca&ref=hp_rf-1)\n\n### Mixed-Metal Wedding Rings\n\nRings that mix two precious metals add an element of novelty to your wedding band. These could be metals that both spouses favor and can lend themselves to some [unique design](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-rings) variations. Platinum with gold or rose gold immediately brings a different look and feel to the style. Blending that with an appropriate diamond cut or other colored gems will certainly make your jewelry choices the talk of the town.\n\n### 4. Vendôme Louis Cartier Wedding Band\nWhy settle for one metal in your ring band when you can opt for multiple? This contemporary wedding ring is the ultimate gold wedding band, featuring each popular gold metal—rose gold, white gold, and yellow gold—by stacking them one on top of the other for a sleek and stylish look.\n\nPurchase on [Cartier ($1,950)](https://www.cartier.com/en-us/jewelry/wedding-bands/vendome-louis-cartier/vendome-louis-cartier-wedding-band-CRB4052100.html)\n\n### Beaded Wedding Rings\n\nMoving away from a simple ring or wedding band, a beaded version brings another level of intricacy. Whether a vintage style, encrusted with smaller diamonds, or even studded with a little detailing on the edge, beaded wedding ring styles are great for wearing with your engagement ring or stacking up with other rings for different occasions. Paired with yellow gold, rose gold, or white gold, it emphasizes the gem or center stone and creates an understated charm with a modern twist. \n\n### 5. Brilliant Earth Juliet Ring\nPerhaps both flat bands and diamond wedding bands aren’t exactly your style. No problem. The Juliet ring from Brilliant Earth is comprised of small, delicate beads made out of white gold with a rhodium finish. The beads reach almost all the way around the ring, with a small space for sizing. It’s classic and artisan-inspired, making it easy to pair with an engagement ring.\n\nPurchase on [Brilliant Earth](https://www.brilliantearth.com/Juliet-Ring-White-Gold-BE2B17/)\n\n## Art Deco Wedding Rings\nPerhaps your style leans into a different time. Art Deco-inspired bands feature interesting colors, lines, and shapes that make for beautiful and unique wedding band jewelry designs. Expect to see a lot of geometric cut diamonds, interestingly set prongs, cluster rings, emerald stones, baguette diamonds, and even pearls.\n\n### 6. Half Eternity Baguette Cut Moissanite Wedding Band\nThis vintage moissanite ring consists of a half-band of baguette and round cut stones. Its pattern lends to an Art Deco jewelry look that’s interesting, while still appearing fairly classic. What’s more, its band shape makes it easy to stack with any engagement ring, especially those with solitaire settings.\n\nPurchase on [Etsy ($304)](https://www.etsy.com/listing/719631592/unique-half-eternity-baguette-cut?rec_type=ad&ref=pla_similar_listing_top-3&pro=1&frs=1&sts=1&plkey=311f71e2b4e3e45ab575ef67181ca3fa303a8b1f%3A719631592)\n\n## Marquise Wedding Rings\nIf you’re hoping to maintain the shine of a diamond-studded engagement band, but want something a little outside of the box, consider a marquise cut wedding ring. These rings possess all of the sparkle of a ring covered in round cut stones, but instead they take an elegant marquise shape. The marquise cut represents royalty and aristocracy, bringing a sense of nobility to any band.\n\n## 7. Marquise Diamond Shared Prong Women's Wedding Ring\nDelicate elegance takes shape in this diamond and solid gold wedding band. Available as one of three gold engagement rings (white gold, yellow gold, or a rose gold ring), it’s half-band design is both sophisticated and glamorous.\n\nPurchase on [Jalvi & Co. ($592)](https://jalviandco.com/products/copy-of-diamond-ring-marquise-diamond-ring-in-14k-gold-marquise-diamond-cluster-ring-diamond-engagement-wedding-ring?variant=40578859434165¤cy=USD&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic)\n\n### Themed Wedding Rings\n\n ![Popular Wedding Ring Styles for 2021](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5ESF77ra0Nl7CUmTcy7RR3/4f88997b358c65da7cbcc3f98604a015/inline_Bri_Johnson_Weddings_.jpg)\n *Photo Credit * // Bri Johnson Weddings\n\nIf you are both literature, film, or pop culture enthusiasts and will be having a themed wedding, then finding a unique wedding ring style aligned with your overall look and feel is also an option. Nobody can stop you from designing unique wedding bands, such as those that are vampire show-inspired or the intergalactic-themed style you’ve always had in mind. A custom design can make any wedding ring style from Beauty and the Beast to Star Trek come to life. \n\n### 8. Silver Tungsten Elvish Ring\nMega-fans of the high fantasy franchise Lord of the Rings will flock to this beautiful three-piece couple set. Not only does it include one wedding band, but a second for your spouse and a three-stone engagement ring. While the engagement ring is classic, the bands feature elvish engravings. They’re especially trendy wedding rings, with The Rings of Power streaming show.\n\nPurchase on [Etsy ($170)](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1245856662/elvish-ring-silver-tungsten-band-with?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=lord+of+the+rings+engagement+ring&ref=sr_gallery-1-9&pro=1&frs=1&sts=1&organic_search_click=1)\n\n## Couples Wedding Rings\n\nA coordinated wedding ring style is one to consider should you both like to head to the same jeweler for your wedding bands, save time amid wedding preparations, or simply have the remainder of your wedding day be truly personal and unique to you both. Including monogrammed accents, a special inscription, or other engraved lettering for matching wedding bands is one way to accomplish that. \n\n### 9. White Gold Eternity Wedding Ring Set\nCoordinating wedding bands are beautifully special—especially when they both still possess a little uniqueness to them. This Celtic white gold set features one ring with a winding design and a second with the same design, plus a thicker band section. Available in yellow gold, rose gold, and white gold, they’re a cool wedding rings choice for couples with similar tastes in jewelry.\n\nPurchase on [Etsy ($739)](https://www.etsy.com/listing/451289548/his-and-hers-celtic-wedding-band-set?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=wedding+ring+set&ref=sr_gallery_6)\n\n### Heirloom Wedding Rings\n\nNothing strengthens family bonds more than a family heirloom. Sometimes featuring family gemstones and sometimes starring multicolored or interlocking bands of gold, rose gold, and white gold to denote the past, present, and future of the married couple, heirloom wedding ring styles add a nod to your ancestors on a milestone occasion. \n\nYour wedding ring is one that holds much sentimental value to you so take the time to truly reflect on a style that you will love wearing daily. Enjoy the process of choosing the perfect engagement ring and/or wedding ring that both you and your spouse will cherish. \n","tag":"List","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"From how much you should expect to spend on a wedding ring to tips for how to choose the right one for you, check out this guide on wedding ring styles, types, and materials.","title":"A Guide to Wedding Rings","slug":"a-guide-to-wedding-rings","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5P3fQN4IfleT7GqBYDmSs/8149be86e6f0b1e35a8e477b1a792fe8/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"gold wedding band and three diamond eternity wedding bands on a white sequined fabric"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"New to the world of wedding ring shopping? Find out everything you need to know with our diamond carat size guide from Zola. ","title":"The Ultimate Diamond Carat Size Guide","slug":"the-ultimate-diamond-carat-size-guide","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6ZHcBgTX0FDzoM78hum6te/0bdb61d69aa75660e339dbc6d9831a99/hero_unsplash.jpg","altText":"ruler to measure rings"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Diamond experts share all the places you can wear your engagement ring and where you shouldn't wear your ring. Plus, tips for keeping your engagement ring like new.","title":"Where You Can (and Can't) Wear Your Engagement Ring","slug":"where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1EkyCSqm040daFYaobOyaH/00c105e08f44c0785713e860c896e31e/Hero_Zola__1_.jpg","altText":"where you can wear your engagment rings"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:21.385Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Rings","slug":"rings"},"slug":"how-to-choose-a-modern-mens-wedding-band","title":"The 23 Best Modern Wedding Bands for Men + Tips","excerpt":"Looking for modern wedding bands for men? Our Zola experts are here to help. Read on for all there is to know.","author":"Deanna deBara","publishedAt":"2020-10-27T15:13:49.308Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6D3fNy68y4tgZ77pTw5imt/c467f82af7d5f4d77b2d1fe5b101df0c/rsz_1levi-alvarez-l4j8u_rkt4s-unsplash.jpg","altText":"couple with fingers locked"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Styles circle back around. The show “Mad Men” portrayed the 1960s and impeccably followed every trend of the era, especially clothing and interior design. In fact, the show caused a resurgence of mid-century modern styling, which begs the question—Are styles from the ‘60s dated or current (or both)? The same principle goes when choosing a modern men’s wedding band. Cutting edge rings are innovative, yet give nods to the past, proving the adage that fashion is spherical.\n\nWhen you’re looking for a ring, there are several things to consider. And do not—we repeat, do not—let your wedding band go to the wayside. There is a lot of planning that goes into the wedding day, yet men’s wedding bands are for daily use, for a lifetime. Go into your purchase with that thought in mind and by following our advice below.\n\n## How to Choose a Modern Men’s Wedding Band\nLet’s take a look at the steps you’ll want to take to find the unique wedding ring that’s right for you:\n\n## Before Looking for a Band\n### Come Up With a Budget \nFortunately, men’s rings aren’t nearly as expensive as [diamond engagement rings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/best-diamond-shape-for-your-finger). However, there’s still a need to plan financially. Considerations, such as the type of metal and the presence of gemstones, will factor into the overall cost. As a result, going in with a budget in mind will help greatly. \n\n### Know How Durable Your Ring Needs to Be\nYour wedding ring is a piece of jewelry you’ll wear virtually every day—and, as such, you’ll want it to be durable. Vocation and lifestyle are components that will determine how durable your ring needs to be. Softer metals and gemstones may not be ideal for those who work with their hands or have active lifestyles. Considering your hobbies and daily activities should influence how sturdy the ring should be. Also, __[silicone wedding bands](https://zola.app.link/5BkvqZz7zab)__ aren’t as durable, but they are inexpensive and easily replaced.\n\n### Decide Whether You and Your Partner Will Have Matching Rings\nFirst, don’t feel as though you have to match. Second, it’s perfectly ok to do so. Matching wedding bands are sweet and can often be purchased simultaneously in wedding ring sets, which can mean a better deal. However, don’t be afraid to choose rings that show the unique personalities of each partner. (Also, before you choose, make sure the [wedding band pairs well with the engagement ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pair-wedding-band-with-engagement-ring).)\n\n### Figure Out Your Size \nJewelers can help determine your ring size, although there are also a few ways to figure it out at home. __[This handy guide](https://www.catbirdnyc.com/files/ring_sizing.pdf)__ offers a variety of charts with measurements to DIY your ring size using a string or a band that you already have. Another option is to purchase a ring sizer online and slide it on your finger to calculate.\n\n### Ponder Your Definition of Modern\nWhen considering modern men’s wedding bands, the interpretation of modern could be up for debate. The technical definition is “relating to the present or recent times as opposed to the remote past.” Consequently, some popular wedding bands give nods to former eras. So, it’s best to determine what the term means for you before you start your search.\n\n![How to Choose a Modern Men's Wedding Band](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3l4FBMnZV28GgDYINg7ltS/8e31acec2ae359cdb03fbbb6f7387c0e/rsz_watoker-derrick-okello-qugvvjhs9dc-unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n## Considerations for Modern Men’s Wedding Bands\n### Determine a Width\nMen’s wedding ring designs are usually measured in millimeters across the band to determine the width. Ultra-skinny rings can be as small as two millimeters, yet larger widths can be eight millimeters and beyond. Minimalist men’s wedding bands (for example, like a simple solid gold band)are __[on the thinner side](https://zola.app.link/y1aJd5F7zab)__, whereas statement pieces tend to be wider.\n\n### Decide on the Material\nIf there’s one thing that will dictate the cost of a popular wedding band, it’s the materials that compose it. Precious metals such as platinum, palladium, and gold are more costly than steel, chrome, or tungsten rings for men. Also, the [presence of gemstones]( https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ritani_mens_6mm_satinfinish_diamond_wedding_ring_18krosegold), the size, and their type—diamonds are more expensive than sapphires—or lack thereof is a personal decision. \n\n### Choose a Fit\nThe fit, also referred to as the profile, of modern men’s wedding bands is a bit of a mystery to most; however, it’s not difficult to understand. There are two classic fits, the more common standard fit and the [finger conforming comfort fit]( https://www.zola.com/shop/product/edelweissjewelry_mens_comfort_fit_band_18kyellowgold). However, there are also [other profiles to consider](https://i.pinimg.com/originals/bf/cc/50/bfcc50018a6e0f8549ec463fc3942f06.png), such as flat, concave, and D-shaped. \n\n### Settle on a Finish\nOf course, the construction of your ring will influence the finish. Men’s wood rings will have a grainy finish, and vintage wedding bands will come as-is. Conversely, when you select a metal ring, there are a variety of sheens available, ranging from shiny polished to more [a natural-looking hammered finish]( https://www.zola.com/shop/product/edelweissjewelry_mens_hammered_band_platinum). Knowing how reflective you want the metal to be can help you select the finish that is right for you. \n\n### Pick a Design\nThe design is perhaps one of the best parts of looking at unique men’s rings. Popular wedding bands feature engraving, etching, and stones, and others bear intricate cutouts and braiding. There is a [whole world of designs]( https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lashbrook_damascus_steel_wedding_band) out there worth exploring. If you still can’t find one, working with a designer on a custom ring is always an option. \n\n## After Narrowing Down Your Options\n### Do Your Research\nOnce you’ve settled on what type of ring you’d like, do your research. Compare prices online. Go to a variety of jewelry stores. If you’re a [bit off-budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-finance-an-engagement-ring), make simple swaps, such as [selecting chrome](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lashbrook_damascus_steel_wedding_band) instead of platinum, or skipping the gemstones. Heading into your purchase armed with knowledge is essential for finding the best modern men’s wedding bands.\n\n### Purchase Your Ring\nHopefully, you’ve found one in your price range, so you can seal the deal by actually buying it. Although, figure out a plan beforehand as to how that will happen. Jewelry stores often offer financing, or you can open a new credit card to take advantage of low introductory rates. \n\n### Take Care of Your Wedding Band, and Insure It\nAfter you say “I do,” be sure to maintain your ring. __[Clean it periodically](https://zola.app.link/t03JzG5gAab)__, and if the finish is faded or nicked, have it repolished, if possible. It’s also essential to add your ring to your insurance policy. Similarly, you could get __[separate insurance](https://zola.app.link/HqZhnPahAab)__ to replace the band if it’s lost or stolen.\n\nSo, head out on your search, and enjoy picking out a ring that suits your lifestyle. It’ll be so exciting to slip it on at your wedding ceremony. Would Don Draper approve? As a fictional character, he didn’t fare too well in the relationship department, though. All that matters is that you have the one you love, a ring to show your commitment, and a __[lifetime to spend together](https://zola.app.link/kgzQvTfhAab)__.\n\n## 23 Best Modern Wedding Bands for Men\nNot sure what you' want or what you’re looking for? Let’s take a look at some [men’s wedding rings](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/mens-wedding-rings) for inspiration:\n\n### 1. [Men's 6 mm Domed Comfort-Fit Wedding Ring/14k White Gold](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ritani_mens_6mm_domed_comfortfit_wedding_ring_14kwhitegold), Ritani, $360 on Zola\nCrafted for maximum comfort with a slightly rounded edge, this 6mm white gold band is sure to please. With a polish finish, the metal delivers just the right amount of shine.\n\n### 2. [Men's Comfort Fit Wedding Band/14k White Gold](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/edelweissjewelry_mens_comfort_fit_band_14kwhitegold), Edelweiss Jewelry, $800 on Zola\n\nThis elegant white gold ring sits on your finger with a sophistication that can’t be matched. Created with a flat, comfortable interior, this wedding band ensures a perfectly snug fit with a beautiful polish. \n\n### 3. [Classic Wedding Ring/14k White Gold](https://www.bluenile.com/wedding-rings/wedding-ring-14k-white-gold-3mm_20388), Blue Nile, $232\nIf you’re looking for a simple band solution, this classic ring may be the one for you. Perfect for day-to-day use, this low-profile band is so comfortable, you’ll practically forget it's there. Looking for a different finish? This wedding band ring also comes in yellow gold, rose gold, and platinum options.\n\n### 4. [Beveled Edge Matte Wedding Ring/14k White Gold](https://www.bluenile.com/wedding-rings/beveled-edge-matte-wedding-ring-14k-white-gold-6-mm_36657), Blue Nile, $952\nThis white gold band sports a matte-finish top that will combat scratches and scrapes—and with a flat interior and rounded edges, it will also fit snugly on your finger. In addition to white gold, this ring also comes in both yellow gold and platinum.\n\n### 5. [Men's Satin-Finish Polished Edge Wedding Ring/14k Yellow Gold](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ritani_mens_satinfinish_polished_edge_wedding_ring_14kyellowgold), Ritani, $730 on Zola\nThis 6mm 14k yellow gold ring (it also comes in white gold and platinum) is finished with satin polish that really makes it pop. If you want to stay within the realm of classicality, this ring is for you.\n\n### 6. [Mid-weight Comfort Fit Wedding Ring/14k Yellow Gold, Blue Nile](https://www.bluenile.com/wedding-rings/mid-weight-comfort-fit-wedding-band-14k-yellow-gold-5mm_47180), $552\nIf you’re looking for a yellow gold band that’s a bit more substantial, you might want to try this medium-weight ring. With a high-polish finish and curved inner edges for extra comfort, this 14k yellow solid gold ring also comes in white gold and platinum. \n\n### 7. [Comfort Fit Simple Thin Band/14k Yellow Gold](https://www.etsy.com/listing/492574022/14k-yellow-gold-band-2mm-thin-classic?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=men%26%2339%3Bs+yellow+gold+wedding+band&ref=sr_gallery-1-11&frs=1&etp=1&sts=1&organic_search_click=1), Etsy, $115\nLooking for a wedding band that won’t break the bank? This ring may be the perfect option for couples looking for affordability without sacrificing style or comfort.\n\n### 8. [Men's Simple Wedding Ring/14k Yellow Gold](https://www.etsy.com/listing/454306388/14k-yellow-gold-band-5mm-classic-dome?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=men%26%2339%3Bs+yellow+gold+wedding+band&ref=sr_gallery-1-13&frs=1&sts=1&organic_search_click=1), Etsy, $320\nWith a classic dome and polished finish, this 14k yellow gold wedding band may be the right choice.\n\n### 9. [Men's 4 mm Domed Comfort-Fit Wedding Ring/18k Rose Gold](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ritani_mens_4mm_domed_comfortfit_wedding_ring_18krosegold), Lashbrook, $580 on Zola\nWith a unique finish and classic feel, this 4mm rose gold ring sports a rounded inner-edge for maximum comfort with a low-profile feel. Check out the yellow and white gold alternatives for even more options!\n\n### 10. [Brushed Inlay Wedding Ring/14k Rose Gold](https://www.bluenile.com/wedding-rings/brushed-inlay-wedding-ring-4mm-14k-rose-gold_92893), Blue Nile, $632\nThe brushed center band of this 14k rose gold band is perfect for withstanding the rigors of a more active lifestyle. Perfect for day-to-day comfort and adventures, this band also comes in yellow gold, white gold, and platinum options.\n\n### 11. [Men's Black Diamond Wedding Band/14k Rose Gold](https://www.kay.com/neil-lane-mens-black-diamond-wedding-band-15-ct-tw-14k-rose-gold/p/V-141900908), Neil Lane, $1259.99\nThis 14k rose gold stunner is inlaid with treated, round-cut black diamonds to give off an intense, dark contrast. \n\n### 12. [Wedding Band/10k Rose Gold](https://www.kay.com/wedding-band-10k-rose-gold-4mm/p/V-244103103), Kay, $359.99\nWith a 4mm rose gold band, this unisex ring is a great blend of a classic design with a more modern finish. \n\n### 13. [Two-Tone Stone Finish Wedding Ring/14k Rose Gold, Lashbrook](https://www.bluenile.com/wedding-rings/two-tone-stone-finish-wedding-band-in-tantalum-and-14k-rose-gold-6-5-mm_81531), Blue Nile, $756.50\nThis modern, two-tone ring perfectly mixes a modern style with a classic finish. The wire-brushed black tantalum exterior combined with the 14k rose interior makes for an unexpected color combination—great for grooms looking for a more creative wedding band. \n\n### 14. [Men's Zirconium Wedding Band/Zirconium](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lashbrook_zirconium_wedding_band), Lashbrook, $360 on Zola\nThe intense black coloring of this zirconium wedding band is both modern and bold—and with a lightweight, scratch resistant coating, it’s also extremely durable.\n\n### 15. [Men's Meteorite & Cobalt Chrome Wedding Band/Cobalt Chrome](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lashbrook_meteorite_cobalt_chrome_wedding_band), Lashbrook, $1290 on Zola\nIf you’re looking for a wedding band that’s truly “out of this world”, you need to check out this ring from Lashbrook. Crafted with an authentic Gibeon meteorite, each band has slight deviations, making it a truly unique modern wedding ring.\n\n### 16. [Brushed Wedding Band with High Polish Edges/Palladium](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/christianbauer_brushed_wedding_band_with_high_polish_edges), Christian Bauer, $1624 on Zola\nTouting high-quality, durable materials, this Christian Bauer wedding band exudes quality and durability. With a brushed center band, there’s no need to worry about scratches and scrapes—but the modern design and elegant, polished edges make sure you don’t sacrifice style for durability.\n\n### 17. [Men's Zirconium Cross Satin Finish Wedding Band/Zirconium](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lashbrook_zirconium_cross_satin_finish_wedding_band), Lashbrook, $360 on Zola\nAre you looking for a wedding band that’s big, beautiful, and bold? This 8mm black zirconium with a cross satin finish is sure to fit the bill.\n\n### 18. [Men's Cobalt Chrome Cross Satin Finish Wedding Band/Cobalt Chrome](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lashbrook_cobalt_chrome_cross_satin_finish_wedding_band), Lashbrook, $330 on Zola\nConstructed from cobalt chrome, which is hypoallergenic, this modern wedding band is a great option for people that struggle with allergies to more common ring metals.\n\n### 19. [Men's 6 mm Satin-Finish Diamond Wedding Ring/Yellow and Rose Gold](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ritani_mens_6mm_satinfinish_diamond_wedding_ring_18krosegold), Ritani, $1560 on Zola\nLooking for a more luxe ring option? This 6mm diamond wedding ring is laden with .30 carats of diamonds and an 18k rose gold band that will lend a sense of elegance to any finger.\n\n### 20. [Milgrain Channel Set Diamond Wedding Ring/14k White Gold](https://www.bluenile.com/wedding-rings/milgrain-channel-set-diamond-ring-in-14k-white-gold_71535), Blue Nile, $1592\nWith a 14k white gold wedding band, this ring’s secure interior channel setting features seven round white diamonds. It’s also framed with twin rings of milgrain, adding to the intricate design. \n\n### 21. [Men’s Channel-Set Diamond Wedding Band/10k White Gold](https://www.helzberg.com/jewelry/men%E2%80%99s-channel-set-diamond-wedding-band-in-10k-white-gold-1-4-ct.-tw./2518595.html), Helzberg Diamonds, $599.99\nLooking for [wedding rings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-rings) with some bling? Consider this 10k white gold ring, complete with a nine-diamond interior channel, a must see.\n\n### 22. [Men’s 1 CT Lab Grown Diamond Wedding Band/Tantalum](https://www.helzberg.com/jewelry/mens-1-ct.-tw.-lab-grown-diamond-band-in-gray-tantalum/2508653.html?syte_ref=similar_items), Helzberg Diamonds, $1,999\nThis stunning band offers an elegant look with a durable feel—plus, the contrast between the diamond set interior and the band’s dark color adds visual interest. \n\n### 23. [Men’s Diamond Eternity Band/14k Yellow Gold](https://www.avianneandco.com/collections/eternity-bands/products/14k-yellow-solid-gold-mens-diamond-eternity-ring-band-1-00-ctw?variant=21158589956155), Avianne & Co., $606\nWith rings that feature anywhere from 0.4-1.4 carats worth of diamonds, this 14k yellow gold eternity ring has a ring for every budget.","tag":"How-To ","updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:20.638Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Rings","slug":"rings"},"slug":"which-finger-does-wedding-ring-go-on","title":"Which Finger Does a Wedding Ring Go On?","excerpt":"Ever wondered about the tradition behind wedding ring fingers? Here’s the real history and meaning of which finger a wedding ring goes on.","author":"Deanna deBara","publishedAt":"2022-05-13T22:00:43.668Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6n5TAmUhEYmVuv9LPsXsXE/3e47469616da955a6fa19f45de2d79e0/which-finger-does-your-wedding-ring-go-on.jpg","altText":"Close up of man putting wedding ring on woman's finger"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/","heroCaption":"man placing a wedding ring on woman's finger ","body":"When it comes to wedding ring placement and which finger to wear a wedding ring on, traditions vary around the world. In many cultures, people wear their wedding ring on the fourth finger on the left hand—often called the “ring finger.”\n\nBut that’s certainly not true of all cultures. Let’s take a deep dive into everything you need to know about wedding ring fingers, including a bit of history behind this custom—as well as more information about wedding ring placement traditions around the world:\n\n![ring-fingers-explained](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6iatpmPFuRn0Ug1r3sevR6/41504698e13dc633868817cf140dc6ad/ring-fingers-explained.png)\n\n### What Is the Significance of the Fourth Finger on the Left Hand?\nWedding rings were worn by __[ancient Egyptians](https://www.capetowndiamondmuseum.org/blog/2019/03/the-history-of-the-wedding-ring/)__ on the left-hand ring finger from around 4000 B.C., a custom that was later adopted by early civilizations in ancient Rome and Greece. This fourth-finger tradition comes from the belief that this particular digit connected directly to the heart via a vein that early Romans referred to as the vena amoris, or vein of love. Eventually, the ring finger came to symbolize the connection of two newlyweds’ hearts (both brides and grooms) and their shared union of love.\n\nAncient Romans believed the ring finger had a vein that ran directly to the heart, known as the *vena amoris*, or vein of love. \n\n![vein-of-love ](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7kw4YzvfUKn3qxDdehFLre/780d46d278dd81ed08cb9f87f61f9436/vein-of-love__1_.png)\n\n### Can I Wear My Wedding Ring on My Right Hand?\nShort answer: Yes! While wearing your wedding ring on your left-hand ring finger might be tradition, __[there’s no rule that says you have to follow that tradition](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-traditions-that-couples-are-having-at-their-weddings)__. Ultimately, the choice for your wedding finger comes down to personal preference. While wearing your wedding ring on your left-hand ring finger might be tradition, you can (and should!) wear your rings on whichever finger is most meaningful to you. \n\n![follow-your-own-tradition ](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7bYSg2HwCSQNg1cSMy74Lk/ae58f44d3fa2134b6384d0064c63cc57/follow-your-own-tradition__1_.png)\n\nIf you’re wondering about the meaning behind wearing your wedding ring on your right hand, the answer varies depending on different cultures and religions. While some early Romans adhered to the “vein of love” legend and placed the ring on the left hand, it’s also believed that some viewed the left hand as untrustworthy and unreliable, while the right hand symbolized honor and trust—thus, the wedding band was worn on the right hand.\n\nAncient legends aside, there are plenty of cultures today that wear wedding rings on the right hand. Again, it ultimately comes down to personal preference.\n\nFor example, wedding rings are more commonly worn on the right hand in certain Eastern European and Latin-American countries and in religions like Orthodox Christianity. In Jewish tradition and in other countries like Syria, Brazil, Turkey, and Lebanon, the wedding ring is worn on the right hand up until the wedding and transferred to the left hand after the ceremony. Ring Finger FAQs Which Finger Does a Promise Ring Go On? Traditionally given as an outward symbol of commitment to another person, promise rings are often worn on the ring finger (the fourth finger) of either hand. If worn on the left hand, it’s also common to move the promise ring to the right-hand ring finger after getting engaged. However, there’s no hard-and-fast rule—some people opt for the fourth-finger custom when it comes to their promise ring, while some choose to sport it on a different finger entirely.\n\n## Ring Finger Explained\nIn Western cultures, the traditional ring finger is the fourth finger on the left hand.\n\nNot all countries follow the Western ring finger tradition.\n\nTraditionally, wearing a ring on your ring finger signifies that you’re in a committed relationship.\n\nThere’s no rule that says you must follow the ring finger tradition. Do what feels right for you!\n\n## Other Wedding Ring Traditions Around the World \nAs mentioned, traditions around wedding ring placement by country and culture. Let’s take a look at wedding ring traditions of different countries around the globe: \n\n- __Russia.__ In Russia, people traditionally wear wedding rings on their right hand—more specifically, on the ring finger of the right hand.\n\n- __Germany.__ Germans also typically wear their wedding rings on their right-hand ring finger.\n\n- __Norway.__ Norway is another country that embraces the tradition of wearing a wedding ring on the fourth finger of the right hand.\n\n- __Austria.__ Austria borders Germany—and so it would make sense the two countries would share the tradition of wearing a wedding band on the ring finger of the right hand.\n\n- __India.__ Traditionally, Indian culture viewed the left hand as unlucky and/or unsanitary. As such, wedding rings are traditionally worn on the right-hand ring finger.\n\n### Which Finger Does an Engagement Ring Go On?\nIn most Western countries, it’s tradition to [wear an engagement ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring) on the fourth finger of the left hand. During the __[wedding ceremony](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-ceremony-programs)__, it’s common to shift the engagement ring to the right-hand ring finger once the wedding rings are exchanged—this stems from the tradition of wearing the wedding ring closest to the heart, but it also makes the wedding ring placement easier while the ceremony commences (just shift your engagement ring back to your left-hand ring finger after the ceremony!).\n\n![expert-ring-advice](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/30uILAVQpOrJj35NROlUxF/771bd757a71cea05289b42f208fe4dcd/expert-ring-advice.png)\n\n### Expert Advice\nShift your [engagement ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/dont-like-engagement-ring) to your right hand on your wedding day to make ring placement easier during the ceremony. Just shift it back to your left-hand ring afterward!\n\n### Can I Stack My Engagement Ring and Wedding Ring? \nDefinitely! If you’ve chosen to wear your engagement and wedding rings on the same finger, stacking is a popular way to sport them. How you stack them is up to you. If you want to follow the tradition of [wearing your wedding ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/popular-wedding-ring-styles-for-2021) closest to your heart, you’d place your wedding ring at the bottom of the stack toward the base of the knuckle. (If you’re concerned with your rings’ ability to stack neatly on top of each other, jewelers can help you get the right fit.)\n\nTo achieve this on your wedding day, it’s helpful to switch your engagement ring to your right hand before the ceremony—that way, your partner can easily slide the wedding ring on your left finger during the ring exchange. Top it off with your engagement ring afterward, and voila! You might also consider getting the two rings soldered together down the line to create a single stacked ring, if you like that look. \n### Can I Wear My Rings All the Time? \nIt might be tempting to keep your rings on all the time, but we recommend removing them occasionally—especially during certain activities—to avoid scratching the metal or clouding up the stone. Your day-to-day activities won’t harm your wedding rings, but here’s when you should remove them: \n\n- When working heavily with your hands\n- When working with harsh cleaning chemicals \n- In the shower (certain products may cause cloudy buildup on your stone) \n- While lifting weights \n- In chlorine pools or hot tubs\n- On the beach \n- Before bed to avoid finger swelling \n\nThat said, there’s always the option to switch out your wedding ring for a __[silicone ring](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/qalo_womens_modern_silicone_ring_tie-dye)__ if you’d prefer to keep a ring on at all times. The silicone material stands up against tough environments and activities like those outlined above, and is a great work-around if you don’t want to part with your ring!\n### Can I Wear Rings on My Ring Finger if I’m Not Engaged or Married? \nThere’s no reason why you can’t wear rings on your ring finger, even if you aren’t engaged or married! Whether there’s a diamond ring you’ve been eyeing for a while or you simply like wearing rings on your left-hand ring finger, there’s no rule preventing you from doing so.\n\nThat being said, people may make assumptions based on the long-standing ring finger tradition, and wearing a ring on that finger could lead others to assume you’re in a committed relationship. \n\nWhile ring finger traditions have long been held across the world, we like to remind couples that just because something is traditional doesn’t mean it’s right for everyone. You can choose to wear your rings on whichever fingers feel right to you—whether __[you’ve just said “I do”](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-ideas)__ or not! If you have, Zola’s Expert Advice is here to help every step of the way, from __[custom invitations](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop)__ to building the perfect __[wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website)__. Happy wedding planning!","tag":"Inspiration","updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:19.858Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Rings","slug":"rings"},"slug":"payment-plan-for-your-wedding-rings","title":"Payment Plan for Your Wedding Rings","excerpt":"Financing your wedding rings can be a costly upfront investment. That’s why many jewelers offer wedding ring payment plans. Learn all about them here.\n","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2021-05-25T16:18:44.764Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6BZP0Nc8oDBlFNURAwXDtL/4aedd9722e3d28321401c77d2cbc15df/Hero_Unsplash_JonathanPetit.jpg","altText":"Payment Plan for Your Wedding Rings"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- Wedding rings are a big investment, but payment plans are an excellent option for couples who aren’t ready to pay the full cost upfront.\n- Many jewelry stores offer their own financing options to delay payment anywhere from six to 12 months. Jewelers such as Jared’s, Blue Nile, and Reeds also offer credit cards with financing options, limited interest, and small annual fees.\n- Don’t forget to choose a ring that aligns with your personal style! Zola offers a variety of fine jewelry and wedding rings to adorn your wedding day attire.\n","body":"You can’t put a price tag on love, but, unfortunately, jewelers have put a rather hefty price tag on the symbols of your love: your wedding rings.\n\nThe price of rings and wedding bands adds up fast, especially when you consider how much money you’ll be spending on the rest of your wedding. To help you manage such a large purchase, you can opt for a wedding ring payment plan instead.\n\nWe’ve created a handy guide to walk you through financing your rings.\n\n__How to Finance Your Wedding Rings:__\n - Jewelry Store Financing
\n - Credit Card Financing
\n - Personal Loans
\n - Choosing the Perfect Wedding Rings
\n\n### Do You Need to Have Wedding Rings?\n\nNo rule says you and your partner have to purchase wedding rings. Some married couples opt for matching tattoos, matching (less expensive) jewelry sets, or even a shared experience, such as planting a sapling together in your backyard. \n\nIf allocating funds for a ring budget doesn’t work for you, then it doesn’t work for you—that’s okay! You may prefer to use the money you’re saving on a two-week honeymoon or downpayment on a new house, or even a more expensive wedding venue. Zola has a stunning collection of pre-screened [wedding venues](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors) with the option to search by price.\n\nYour lifelong commitment doesn’t need bling to be real or meaningful. It just needs your love and excitement to start this amazing new chapter together.\n\n## How to Finance Your Wedding Rings \n\nFirst things first: The average engagement ring costs around $4,000. Besides your house, car, and student loan payments, an engagement ring may be one of the bigger investments that you make in your life. \n\nThe average cost of a wedding band (the ring, not the music) in 2019 was $1,100 for women and $500 for men. While you may be able to find affordable wedding venues, caterers, photographers, and bands (both the rings and the music) at Zola, these costs can still add up—and fast. \n\nThere are several options when it comes to financing your wedding bands and engagement rings:\n\n- Finance through the jewelry store.\n- Use a credit card.\n- Take out a personal loan.\n\nBelow, we’ll outline the details of each option. Then, we'll offer a few tips to help you decide which financial plan is best for you. \n\n### Jewelry Store Financing \n\nWhether you’re perusing the cases at a mom-and-pop jeweler or browsing the sparkly displays at a national diamond retailer, chances are that you’ll be presented with the option to finance your ring through the shop itself. \n\nLike credit card companies, jewelry stores will run zero percent interest promotions to encourage buyers to choose their bands over competitors. \n\nThis promotion may last for a period of six to 12 months (or longer), with no payments required for a set amount of time. But all of these deals have an expiration date (and fine print caveats!), so be sure to get all the pertinent information about the promo before agreeing to anything.\nLike most retailers, jewelry stores will also offer credit cards as a financing option. \n\n### Jewelry Store Credit Cards \n\nFrom Jared’s to Blue Nile to Reeds, jewelry stores around the country offer credit cards with varying terms, interest rates, fees, and potential down payments. \n\nLet’s compare these three companies to give you a sense of what the terms may look like for a jewelry store credit card:\n\n- __Jared:__ Jared has several different credit cards to choose from. The Gold Card offers 12, 18, 36, and 48-month financing. Each financing option requires a minimum purchase amount, and both the 12 and 18-month options also require a 20 percent down payment that must be placed on a separate card. You can find out if you prequalify for this card online; most retail credit cards require a credit score of around 640. \n\n- __Blue Nile:__ The Blue Nile card boasts no annual fees, as well as access to special card-member-only promotions. Minimum payments are required each month, no matter your plan; Blue Nile’s three options are:\n\n - *Option 1* charges no interest if paid in full within six, 12, or 18 months. The six-month deal requires a minimum payment of $500, the 12-month minimum is $1,500, and the 18-month minimum is $2,000. \n\n - *Option 2* is 9.99 perfect APR financing for 24, 36, 48, or 60 months. The minimums are, respectively, $2,000, $3,000, $4,000, and $6,000. After your allotted time span is up, the APR goes up to a whopping 28.99 percent.\n\n - *Option 3* has no special terms, and new purchases are afforded a 25-day grace period if you pay your balance in full each month. \n\n- __Reeds:__ The Reeds credit card works with a points system—cardholders earn three points for every $1 spent. That means a $1,000 purchase will get you $30 in rewards and so on. Reeds has two main financing options:\n\n - *Option 1* is 9.99 percent APR for 60 months with a minimum purchase of $2,000. \n\n - *Option 2* is no interest, if paid in full within 6 months (minimum purchase of $299) or 12 months (minimum purchase of $1,000). \n\nSo, is taking out a jewelry store credit card in your best financial interest? Maybe not. \n\nWhile applying for a retail credit card can help you keep your credit varied (a consideration when calculating your credit score) it can also saddle you with hefty interest rates. However, retail credit cards are usually easier to obtain than other financing plans, and they’re certainly convenient—you’re buying and borrowing from the same place. \n\nWhen deciding on a wedding ring payment plan, consider your track record with other credit cards:\n\n- Are you able to make monthly payments on time for your current bills?\n\n- Will you have enough funds to pay off your ring or rings within the timeframe of the store’s promotional period? \n\nIf the answer is “no” to either of these questions, you may want to consider another form of financing for your wedding rings. \n\n### Credit Card Financing\n\nCouples shopping for wedding rings may choose to go with a traditional credit card financing method.\n\nOpening up a new card with a zero percent introductory APR is a popular choice. To qualify for cards with this interest rate, you will typically need a good (to excellent) credit score in the range of 670 or higher.\n\nIf your credit score falls within this range, here are a few questions to ask yourself before applying for that shiny new card:\n\n- How long is the introductory rate period? \n- What APR will you pay when this period is over?\n- Does the zero percent interest apply to all transactions?\n- Are there any fees?\n- Can I make monthly payments within the introductory period to pay off the ring before the interest rate goes up? \n\nThese cards not only help you with this one-time ring purchase, but they can also be beneficial to your overall credit and financial well-being. \n\nWhen used responsibly, a zero percent APR credit card can:\n\n- __Help you with your credit utilization ratio:__ Credit utilization accounts for 30 percent of your FICO credit score. This means that the more you owe per credit card, the more your credit score may be affected. If you can balance out your debt on several cards, keeping the balance low, your credit utilization ratio will be low and less likely to hurt your credit. \n\n- __Improve your credit mix:__ If you’ve shied away from credit cards in the past, this is a great chance to add variety to your credit mix in a responsible manner. Your credit mix accounts for 10 percent of your FICO score.\n\n- __Help you reduce debt:__ In addition to helping you fund this monumental purchase, zero percent APR cards can also help you reduce your debt. If you owe a high balance on another card with a high interest rate, you might feel like you’ll never get that card paid off. By transferring your high debt to your new zero percent interest rate card, you’ll be saving potentially hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars in saved interest. \n\nMany people choose to add another credit card to their collection because there are quite a few options available for zero percent APR cards.\n\nHere are just a few of the best zero percent APR credit cards currently on the market:\n\n__Best 20 months:__ The U.S. Bank Visa Platinum card gives you 20 months—almost two years—of zero percent interest on balance transfers and purchases. You can finance your rings and transfer hefty debt from another card if you choose. There’s also no annual fee attached. The regular APR will go up to 13.99-23.99 percent after the introductory period. \n\n__Best 18 months:__ The Citi Simplicity card features zero percent interest on balance transfers and purchases, with the regular APR going up to 14.74-24.74 percent after 18 months. There’s no annual fee, and balances can be transferred within four months of the account opening, which is a generous timeline compared to other cards.\n\n__Best cashback:__ The Discover It Cash Back card features a zero percent interest rate on balance transfers and purchases for 14 months with zero annual fees. This card also boasts impressive cashback rewards; you earn five percent cashback on rotating “bonus categories,” plus one percent back on all spending. The first year you also earn Discover’s new cardholder bonus. The interest rate on this card goes up to 11.99-22.99 percent APR after the introductory period. \n\nAs you can see, the greatest boon of choosing a zero percent APR credit card to finance your wedding rings is that this card can be used for a myriad of other purchases and balance transfers, too, potentially improving your financial well-being as you head into married life. \n\n### Personal Loan Financing \n\nIf you and your significant other don’t qualify for jewelry store financing or a zero percent APR credit card, taking out a personal loan is another option to finance your wedding rings. \n\nPersonal loans are usually easier to obtain if you have a lower credit score, but be wary of high interest rates. The average personal loan period is anywhere from 12 to 60 months, but you’ll want to try and pay off the loan in the shortest amount of time to avoid accruing too much interest.\n\nIf you just can’t wait to get your hands on those sparkly, delicate wedding rings, take a second and consider the following tips before taking out that personal loan to pay for them:\n\n- __Figure out how much you can realistically pay every month:__ Calculate your monthly bill payments—your spending on necessities such as groceries and toiletries, your emergency fund, and your allotment for “fun” purchases such as going out to dinner or your favorite daily coffee drink, and finally, the budget for your entire wedding. After doing the math, decide on a monthly payment that you can reasonably afford for your rings. Keep that number in mind when you’re shopping around for both rings and financing options. \n\n- __Compare all loan options:__ Don’t just look at the interest rates when choosing a personal loan. Be sure to compare interest, fees, and the terms of the payment plan when choosing your personal loan. For instance, let’s say the interest rate is wonderfully low, but the payment plan requires you to pay off the purchase in under six months. You may not be able to swing a higher monthly payment toward the loan in that short amount of time. \n\n- __Use a credit calculator:__ The best way to get an idea of what your monthly ring payment will be is to use a credit calculator. A free online calculator will use the price of your engagement ring, the interest rate of your loan, your credit score, and your loan term to determine your minimum monthly payments and the additional interest you’ll pay in using this particular option. \n\nExperts urge that no matter which wedding ring payment plan you land on, try to avoid spending outside of your means. Paying for gorgeous bling may be tempting in the moment, but will you want to be funding that platinum band for a decade?\n\n## Choosing the Perfect Wedding Ring \n\nNow that we’ve waded through the intricacies of finances and budgeting for a ring, let’s get to the fun part: picking the rings.\n\nWhether you have an exact ring in mind or just a vague idea of what you like, create a separate “must-have” list of qualities for the rings themselves. Continue to compare and contrast these two documents as you get closer to your purchase date—and big day.\n\nIf you’re a little lost as to what exactly you want in a ring, ask yourself the following questions:\n\n- __How will your ring fit into your lifestyle?__ Some people keep their jewelry on when they hit the gym, pool, or shower. If you plan to wear your wedding band day in and day out, you may want to choose rings that are made with more practical materials such as palladium, titanium, tungsten, or silicon, so that you can demonstrate your love without damaging your ring. \n\n- __Which ring style speaks to you?__ Study up on the different available ring styles. Even if you aren’t sure what the exact terminology is for a certain style and setting, or even why you're drawn to it, you’ll have an easier time communicating at the jewelry store if you know what gives you that warm, exciting feeling. Some popular styles include vintage Art Deco and mixed metals, and settings range from infinity setting to a solitaire setting. \n\n__Zola tip:__ Before your appointment, browse Zola’s extensive line-up of wedding bands. You can search based on material, brand, color, and price to get a better sense of what you love (and what you don’t).\n\n- __Will you have an engagement ring *and* wedding band?__ If you or your partner plan to wear both a wedding band and engagement ring, think about how these two pieces of jewelry will interact. They don’t need to match, necessarily, but make sure that they’ll fit comfortably. If your engagement ring features several diamonds or stones, you may not want a band that is too thick or one that is set with prominent stones as they may rub against your bottom ring. \n\n## Shop Wedding Rings and More at Zola \n\nZola has a multitude of resources to help you plan and execute everything from your engagement to your wedding day. If you’re carefully budgeting for wedding rings plus the wedding itself, you won’t want to stress over creating a beautiful [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website), choosing one-of-a-kind invitations, or finding quality vendors in your price range.\n\nZola takes care of all this for you, with more than 300 wedding website templates, customizable [wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop), and plenty of pre-screened [wedding vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors) to choose from. And, if you decide that financing your rings just isn’t worth it for you, Zola has highly affordable wedding rings that you can browse—no APR, credit check, or monthly payments necessary. \n\nReady to streamline the [wedding planning](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning) process? Check out Zola.\n\n__Sources:__ \n- [Zola. 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Plus, tips for keeping your engagement ring like new.","author":"Deanna deBara","publishedAt":"2019-12-26T16:54:49.731Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1EkyCSqm040daFYaobOyaH/00c105e08f44c0785713e860c896e31e/Hero_Zola__1_.jpg","altText":"where you can wear your engagment rings"},"heroCredit":"Zola","body":"After you get engaged, chances are, you’re going to want to rock that [engagement ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring) anywhere and everywhere you go. While there are plenty of places you can (and should) wear your bling, there are also some places where wearing your ring is a no-no if you want to keep it clean, safe, and sparkly. Let’s make this easy. The diamond experts at [The Clear Cut](https://theclearcut.co/) helped us outline where you can wear your engagement ring and where you can’t wear your engagement ring.\n\n\n\n## You CAN wear your engagement ring during your normal day-to-day activities.\nYour engagement ring is a symbol of your commitment and upcoming marriage to your partner, so it makes total sense that you’re going to want to wear it as often as possible.\n\nAnd the good news? For most of your normal, day-to-day activities, you can absolutely rock your bling. Going to work? Wear your engagement ring. Swinging by the grocery store? Wear your engagement ring. Meeting friends for dinner? Wear your engagement ring.\n\n## You CAN’T wear your engagement ring to bed.\nThere is, however, one place you go every day that you shouldn’t wear your wedding ring—and that’s to bed. \n\nSome people experience slight swelling in the hands overnight—and if your fingers swell while you sleep, it can not only feel uncomfortable, but it can make it harder to get your ring off in the morning. Plus, your ring can get snagged on your sheets, your blanket, your pajamas. It’s just not fun. \n\nWearing your engagement ring to bed could also put you at risk for injury. Diamonds can be sharp—and you don’t want to wake up in the middle of the night after scratching your face with your engagement ring.\n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7s96MB8mHAFphDMS9SC5oz/fb8ccde13dbf105e316715aa5372f11a/INLINE_Unsplash__1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## You CAN wear your engagement ring while tidying up—as long as you avoid harsh cleaning products. \nThere’s no need to take off your wedding ring for household chores like sweeping, laundry, or making the bed. There is, however, one exception to that rule—and that’s if you’re tackling any deep cleaning where you’ll be using harsh cleaning products that could damage your ring. \n\nIf you’re cleaning includes bleach, ammonia, or any other harsh chemicals, do yourself (and your diamond) a favor and take your engagement ring off beforehand.\n\n## You CAN’T wear your engagement ring in the shower.\nA shower is great for keeping you clean—but your ring? Not so much. All the products you use to clean your face, hair, and body can latch onto your diamond, creating a film that makes it look cloudy, dull, and all-around dirty. \n\nNot to mention that you don’t want your ring to slip off your finger and down the drain. Anyone who’s seen Apollo 13 knows that. So, don’t wear your ring in the shower and wait to put it back on until all your after-shower grooming activities (like slathering on lotion) are complete.\n\n## You CAN wear your engagement ring when you travel…\nIf you want to keep your ring on your finger during your travels (whether that’s on [your honeymoon](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/when-should-we-go-honeymoon), your [bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pack-for-a-bachelorette-party), or any other upcoming trips), there’s no reason you can’t. \n\nJust make sure to take the proper steps to keep your ring safe, like bringing along a ring stand to securely hold your ring while you sleep and never, ever leaving your ring unattended in a hotel room or vacation rental property.\n\nYou also shouldn’t travel with your engagement ring unless it’s insured. Read more about [engagement ring insurance here](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/reasons-to-insure-engagement-ring).\n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4POaDqNGbqYuOSQZDlNnUS/982c2bfdee2974ee70efc02f4e3838bb/INLINE_Unsplash_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## ...but you CAN’T wear it to the beach.\nOne travel destination that’s not the best fit for your engagement ring? The beach. Taking care of your skin at the beach means a lot of sunscreen. All that sunscreen will leave your diamond looking cloudy and dirty (and it’s also a pain in the neck to clean!). \n\nPlus, the ocean can spell disaster for your ring. Not only will the sand and saltwater quickly dirty up your ring, but your fingers actually get slightly smaller when you swim, and it goes without saying that losing your engagement ring in the ocean? Not exactly a day at the beach.\n\n## Engagement Ring Care Tips: How to Clean Your Ring at Home\n\n\n\nNo matter where you do or don’t wear your engagement ring, you always want to keep your bling as safe and sparkly as possible. Here are a few tips to keep it that way:\n\n- __Get your engagement ring insured.__ It doesn’t matter how careful you are or where you do/don’t wear your ring. Things happen, and you want to [make sure you’re insured](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/reasons-to-insure-engagement-ring) and covered should your ring gets lost, stolen, or damaged. \n- __Diamond looking dull? Clean up your ring at home.__ Wearing your ring certain places (like in the shower) can leave it looking dull. Get it back to sparkling with a [simple at-home engagement ring cleaning](https://theclearcut.co/blogs/clear-cut-classroom/cleaning-and-caring-for-your-engagement-ring). Fill a bowl with warm water and a few drops of Dawn dish soap and let your ring soak for a few minutes. Remove the engagement ring from the bowl, scrub with a soft-bristled toothbrush, and rinse off the excess soap with warm water (just make sure your sink drain is covered). Dry with a soft cloth or paper towel, and your ring will shine like new.\n- __When in doubt, wear a stand-in ring.__ If you’re going somewhere that makes you feel uneasy about wearing your wedding ring, it’s always better to be safe than sorry. When in doubt, leave your ring in a safe, secure place at home and wear a stand-in ring. You can get a cute silicone version for less than $10.\n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Unlock 50 unique engagement party ideas. You'll find ideas you've never thought of and something for every couple. 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Here's a complete guide to designing a wedding hashtag perfect for your big day.","title":"9 Easy Ways to Create Your Wedding Hashtag","slug":"9-easy-ways-to-create-your-wedding-hashtag","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/23UVWEQPhMa4e3bqlKEXQj/30624e2537f56014b66d9109d45a464f/Hero_New__1_.jpg","altText":"couple with wedding hashtag"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Getting engaged at the same time as your best friend can be exciting—and tricky. Here's how to manage expectations and be there for your friend as you plan your own wedding.","title":"How to Be Engaged at the Same Time As Your Best Friend","slug":"engaged-same-time-as-best-friend","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6Rc2R8CnYBAvDUljxL9qk2/431a71cd2fa527552615df47b88f9de0/HERO_PexelsAsyaCusima_1080x720.jpg","altText":"friends engaged at the same time"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:18.309Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Rings","slug":"rings"},"slug":"best-diamond-shape-for-your-finger","title":"The Best Diamond Shape & Size For Your Finger","excerpt":"Different diamonds look different on different fingers. The diamond experts at The Clear Cut share which diamond shapes look best on which finger sizes.","author":"McCall Minnor","publishedAt":"2019-12-26T15:52:16.629Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5ECvXhLPmPgOpov3xDS8WX/6546f0108bf3a0ca312f65037cce0c8b/Hero_Zola.jpg","altText":"best diamond shape for your finger type"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- A round brilliant cut will flatter most every finger shape, while long, thin fingers are better suited to elongated cuts.\n\n- People with chubby fingers find that oval and pear cuts suit them best.\n\n- Finally, if you have small fingers or hands, stick with a more delicate style that’s proportional to your anatomy.\n","body":"When it comes to shapes and styles, not all diamonds are created equal—and not all diamonds work equally well with every finger. You might be in love with your [best friend’s engagement](https://zola.app.link/01BPrmyN71) ring, but that same shape and style may not look the same when you try it on your own finger. It’s true: Different diamonds look different on different fingers. To help you find your perfect fit, we asked the diamond experts at [The Clear Cut](https://theclearcut.co/) to share how to find a diamond shape and style that works best with your ring finger. \n\n![INLINE ClearCut 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2ae4s50gqVHT9Vci2PuM2z/5dd9b34685d0dbae4639c773aa925f32/INLINE_ClearCut_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // The Clear Cut\n\n## What To Consider Before Choosing A Diamond Ring\nFirst things first—before we jump into the best diamond shapes and style for each finger type, let’s quickly go over some of the most important factors that go into choosing the right diamond ring for you.\n\nSome of the main criteria you’re going to want to consider when choosing the perfect diamond shape and style for your engagement ring include:\n\n### The Width and Length of Your Finger\nWhen choosing a diamond shape and style, you want to create a sense of balance and proportion on your finger—so the length, width, and overall size of your finger is going to dictate which diamonds are going to look balanced and proportionate.\n\n### The Size of the Stone\nThe size of a diamond is also going to play into how flattering a certain shape or style is going to look on your finger. As a rule of thumb, the larger the stone, the more noticeable any issues with balance, proportion, or unflattering shapes will be.\n\n### Your Personal Style\nIt doesn’t matter if a diamond shape or style “works” on your finger shape—if it doesn’t match your [personal style](https://zola.app.link/XXGCpJyN71), it’s not going to make you happy in the long run. Make sure you choose a diamond shape and style that feels like a reflection of your own personal taste—and that you’ll be happy rocking on your finger from now until forever.\n\n### Band Width\nNot only do the stones on your ring have a high impact, but the band. While material—silver, gold, white gold, rose gold, etc.—is important to consider, even more important is the width of the band. For example, if you have thinner fingers, a thicker band might overwhelm them. At the same time, if you prefer a ring with a lot of stones, a thin band might not be able to accommodate that. Also consider the style of wedding band you’d like to go with your engagement ring and how the widths of each band might look together.\n\n### Accent Gemstones\nPerhaps you’d like more than a singular diamond. Whether that means a ring design with a couple accent stones around the center stone or a band covered in pavé diamonds is up to your preference. Accent gemstones, too, can add a variety of shapes, styles, and uniqueness to a diamond ring. If that sounds like what you’re looking for, consider those that add color to a ring that’s diamond color is more classic. Also try those that add to the overall ring style.\n\n### Budget\nWe couldn’t talk about important deciding factors without discussing budget. While this isn’t the most exciting aspect of ring shopping, it’s paramount to think over before setting your heart on something. Set a realistic budget range for yourself and be transparent about it with any jewelers and/or sellers. If a proposal isn’t a total surprise, consider having an open conversation about budget and expectations with your partner.\n\n## Best Diamond Shape For Each Finger Type\nAs we said, different diamonds look different on different fingers and hands. Here’s how to figure out what diamond will best suit your finger.\n\n### A Universally Flattering Diamond That Looks Good On Every Finger\nA round brilliant is one of the most classic diamond shapes on the market. And it’s a classic for a reason. This diamond holds a lot of its weight at the top, which takes up a lot of real estate on your ring finger. Plus, because of the round diamond shape, you get a balanced look that will work on a variety of finger shapes and [sizes](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-ring-size-guide).\n\nWhile there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to choosing the right diamond shape/style, if you want a diamond that’s going to be [universally flattering](https://zola.app.link/vi2RlmyN71), the round brilliant is a solid choice.\n\n### For Long And Thin Fingers\nIf you have long, thin fingers, you’re going to want to choose a diamond shape that compliments your finger length. So, elongated diamonds are a fantastic choice.\n\nLuckily, there are a ton of different styles out there to choose from. A naturally elongated diamond shape, like an oval, pear, or marquise cut, will look gorgeous on your finger, as will an elongated radiant or an emerald cut. Just remember, if you have long fingers, you want your diamond to have a more elongated appearance to match. Moreover, solitaire rings (those with a single diamond on a band) can also look beautiful, as they won’t overwhelm your finger.\n\n__What to Avoid:__ Anything too square-shaped or princess cut. More square-shaped diamonds like a standard (not elongated) emerald or radiant cut aren’t always the most flattering on long, thin fingers. The shape can actually make your fingers look longer (and your ring can look disproportionate on your finger).\n\n### For Stout Fingers\nIf your fingers are on the thicker side, going with a more delicate diamond shape or style can actually make them look wider. Instead, look for a stone that’s going to really make a statement and take up a lot of real estate on your finger—like an oval or pear-shaped diamond.\n\n__What to Avoid:__ Narrow diamonds. You want a stone that’s going to fill out the width of your finger. If you have your heart set on a [narrower cut](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-different-diamond-cut-options), you can add side stones to create width and add a sense of balance.\n\n### For Small Fingers\nIf you have small hands, you have a serious benefit when shopping for engagement rings; everything is going to look bigger on your small fingers.\n\nOn the flip side, going with a diamond shape or style that’s overly big or bold can have the opposite effect, looking too over-the-top on your tiny finger. If your hands are noticeably small, make sure to stick to a more delicate style (such as a round cut, oval cut, or pear cut) that looks proportionate on your finger. On the other hand, opposing styles—such as elongated radiant cuts and emerald cuts—can look too harsh or overwhelming.\n\n__What to Avoid:__ Huge diamonds. As mentioned, any diamond you put on a small finger is going to look larger than it would on a bigger finger. So, oversized diamonds can look almost cartoonishly disproportionate on someone with extremely small hands.\n\n## Choosing The Perfect Diamond Carat Size\nFor those who don’t know, a carat is a unit of measurement in regards to a diamond’s (or gemstone’s) physical weight. Note that carat weight is just that—a stone’s weight, not the size of the diamond. Jewelers, gemologists, and similar ring and stone sellers will use diamond carat size in the description of diamond engagement rings in order to describe how heavy one’s cut diamond is. This weight will be the same across natural diamonds and lab grown diamonds, as their physical and chemical makeup is the same.\n\nFor reference, a half carat diamond weighs .1 grams, a 1 carat diamond weights .2 grams, a 2 carat diamond weights .4 grams, and so on and so forth. Pro tip: Diamond rings that don’t have a neat carat weight (such as a half carat, one carat, two carat, etc.) can sometimes cost less than those that do, despite being unnoticeable to the naked eye. When discussing stones, ring sizes, and the like with a jeweler, feel free to ask about carat sizes and to see those of similar weights.\n\nThese are some suggestions on which diamond cuts, shapes, and styles tend to work best with different finger types. Take the above information into consideration when figuring out how to choose a diamond shape, size, and style for your [engagement ring](https://zola.app.link/6iNeuzyN71).\n\nRemember, though, these are just suggestions. You’re the one (or your partner’s the one) who’s going to be wearing your ring every day, so ultimately, it’s up to you to get out there and find the diamond that feels perfect for you.\n\nFor more information regarding carat size (because we know it can be tricky), check out our [Ultimate Diamond Carat Size Guide](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-ultimate-diamond-carat-size-guide).","body2":"### If you have long, thin fingers, try an elongated diamond.\nIf you have long, thin fingers, you’re going to want to choose a diamond shape that compliments your finger length. So, elongated diamonds are a fantastic choice.\n\nLuckily, there are a ton of different styles out there to choose from. A naturally elongated diamond shape, like an oval or pear cut, will look gorgeous on your finger, as will an elongated radiant or an emerald cut. Just remember, if you have long fingers, you want your diamond to have a more elongated appearance to match. \n\n__What to Avoid:__ Anything too square-shaped. More square-shaped diamonds like a standard (not elongated) emerald or radiant cut aren’t always the most flattering on long, thin fingers. The shape can actually make your fingers look longer (and your ring can look disproportionate on your finger).\n\n### If you have stout fingers, try an oval or pear shape.\nIf your fingers are on the thicker side, going with a more delicate diamond shape or style can actually make them look wider. Instead, look for a stone that’s going to really make a statement and take up a lot of real estate on your finger—like an oval or pear-shaped diamond.\n\n__What to Avoid:__ Narrow diamonds. You want a stone that’s going to fill out the width of your finger. If you have your heart set on a narrower cut, you can add side stones to create width and add a sense of balance.\n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720 (10)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6HVbmW4UNMQkSp3HC0m9kz/d300c0aead944ea5c6ce4f95cec62db5/INLINE_Unsplash_1080x720__10_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### If you have small fingers, try to stick to a more delicate style\nIf you have small hands, you have a serious benefit when shopping for engagement rings; everything is going to look bigger on your small fingers.\n\nOn the flip side, going with a diamond shape or style that’s overly big or bold can have the opposite effect, looking too over-the-top on your tiny finger. If your hands are noticeably small, make sure to stick to a more delicate style that looks proportionate on your finger.\n\n__What to Avoid:__ Huge diamonds. As mentioned, any diamond you put on a small finger is going to look larger than it would on a bigger finger. So, oversized diamonds can look almost cartoonishly disproportionate on someone with extremely small hands.\n\nThese are some suggestions on which diamond cuts, shapes, and styles tend to work best with different finger types. Take these into consideration when figuring out how to choose a diamond shape for your [engagement ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring). \n\nRemember, though, these are just suggestions. You’re the one who’s going to be wearing your ring every day, so ultimately, it’s up to you to get out there and find the diamond that feels perfect for you. ","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Unlock 50 unique engagement party ideas. You'll find ideas you've never thought of and something for every couple. 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","title":"How to Announce Your Engagement","slug":"how-to-announce-your-engagement","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3hk4Xt2gcurIwwAACqfcxh/52d16b9f41ed4c4e63d6f316dcb0379d/How-to-Announce-your-Engagement.jpg","altText":"Couple makes engagement announcement"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Getting engaged at the same time as your best friend can be exciting—and tricky. Here's how to manage expectations and be there for your friend as you plan your own wedding.","title":"How to Be Engaged at the Same Time As Your Best Friend","slug":"engaged-same-time-as-best-friend","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6Rc2R8CnYBAvDUljxL9qk2/431a71cd2fa527552615df47b88f9de0/HERO_PexelsAsyaCusima_1080x720.jpg","altText":"friends engaged at the same time"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Diamond experts share all the places you can wear your engagement ring and where you shouldn't wear your ring. 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Here's how to make the most of those photos.\n","title":"12 Ways to Get The Most Out of Your Engagement Photos","slug":"how-to-get-most-out-of-your-engagement-photos","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Getting Engaged","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4DEuaFrXVcKgYHHKzYTPMa/ce4ad8cb1fd645069d15c4af106f045b/ErinJacksonPhotog.jpg","altText":"table with decoration pieces and Engagement Photo frame"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:17.512Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Rings","slug":"rings"},"slug":"pair-wedding-band-with-engagement-ring","title":"How to Pair Your Wedding Band With Your Engagement Ring","excerpt":"Experts share how to pair your wedding ring with your engagement ring. Pick the perfect wedding band for your style with these tips.","author":"McCall Minnor","publishedAt":"2019-12-26T17:49:06.608Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1cZbvJoWnvCqtffbwHOwyc/fccffde90e926066b5f947b0051fee6b/SPECIAL_HERO_Zola_1080x720__2_.jpg","altText":"engagement rings with wedding rings"},"heroCredit":"Zola","body":"Your [engagement ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring) symbolizes the beginning of your journey towards marriage. But it’s just the beginning. There’s one more ring to add to your finger that symbolizes the rest of your life with your partner: [your wedding ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-rings). Your engagement ring and your wedding band are like two pieces of your marriage puzzle—and, like any puzzle, those pieces need to work together. \n\nWhat works together for one person, though, may not work together for another. Your engagement ring and wedding band pairing should be one that fits your personal style and aesthetic. We worked with the diamond experts at [The Clear Cut](https://theclearcut.co/) Let’s to learn how to choose a wedding band that complements your engagement ring.\n\n![INLINE ClearCut 1080x 720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/fgFYlNtGC3XbFgViCHvrR/042efdc5c64190db7e7f508acfc46298/INLINE_ClearCut_1080x_720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // The Clear Cut\n\n## Start with the engagement ring.\nThe first ring you get is, of course, your engagement ring. Chances are, your engagement ring is going to be more intricate, unique, and attention-grabbing than your wedding band. So start with your engagement ring and then choose a wedding band that’s going to compliment it.\n\nFor example, if your engagement ring is a thicker, three-stone style that takes up a lot of real estate on your finger, you’ll probably want to pair it with a more delicate wedding band to create a sense of balance. If your engagement ring has a smaller stone, you might want to pair it with a simpler wedding band so it doesn’t steal your engagement ring’s thunder. \n\nThe point is, not only do you get your engagement ring first, but it’s designed to be the more prominent ring on your finger. So, when you’re figuring out [how to choose a wedding band](https://theclearcut.co/blogs/clear-cut-classroom/clear-cut-classroom-womens-wedding-bands), working around your engagement ring is the best place to start.\n\n## Choose your wedding band features.\nYou’re going to want to choose your wedding band with your engagement ring in mind. But that’s not the only thing to keep in mind when picking out your wedding band.\n\nWedding bands come in a variety of shapes, styles, cuts, and designs. When choosing a wedding band, some of the features you’ll want to consider include:\n\n- __Budget.__ Obviously, your [wedding budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-set-your-wedding-budget) is going to play a big role in what kind of wedding band you get. Make sure to work out how much you have to spend with your partner before you start looking at rings.\n- __Thickness of the band.__ When it comes to choosing your wedding band, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. You can have a thin, dainty band; a thicker, more substantial band; or just about any size in between. \n- __Metal.__ Many brides go with the same metal as their engagement ring—but you certainly don’t have to go that way. Mixing metals (like a white gold engagement ring and a [rose gold wedding](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/real-weddings/rose-gold) band) is definitely on-trend and can add visual interest to your ring finger.\n- __Stones or no stones.__ Do you want a plain wedding band or a wedding band with stones? If you go with stones, what stones do you want to feature on your band—and what cut/size/shape?\n\n![INLINE ClearCut 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3adDVF6Be5WAZoqTzqgt4v/3dd98e4c7afec39c960e16791b0f65c1/INLINE_ClearCut_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // The Clear Cut\n\n## Classic Engagement Ring And Wedding Band Pairings\nAgain, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to choosing the right wedding band. The right wedding band is going to entirely depend on you: what kind of engagement ring you have, what you’re looking for in your wedding band, and your personal style.\n\nThat said, here are a few tried-and-true engagement ring/wedding band combinations you might want to try:\n\n### If you have a classic solitaire ring, go for an attention-grabbing wedding band.\nThere’s nothing more classic than a solitaire ring. And while you can (of course) keep the classic look going with a simple wedding band, because this engagement ring is more understated, if you want to add some more “oomph” to your ring finger, you can also opt for a more attention-grabbing wedding band.\n\nBling out your wedding band with some additional diamonds or a contrasting metal (like platinum to rose gold). These details will add visual interest to your wedding band without detracting from your classic engagement ring.\n\n### If you have a step cut engagement ring, go for a classic wedding band.\nIf you have a step cut engagement ring (like an emerald or Asscher cut), you want to balance out the chunkiness of the stone with a more delicate wedding band. Opt for something thin, delicate, and understated to complement your larger, thicker stone(s). \n\n### If you have a vintage ring, go for a more intricate wedding band.\nVintage wedding rings tend to be unique, with interesting cuts, shapes, and settings. So, it only makes sense to pair your vintage wedding ring with a more intricate wedding band. Look for bands with an unusual, vintage-inspired, or organic feel. Going with a more antique-inspired look with your wedding band will be the perfect complement to your vintage engagement ring. \n\nRemember, there are no hard and fast rules for choosing a wedding band. Ultimately, you’re the person who’s going to be rocking your wedding band for life—so you’re the one who gets to choose the wedding band that’s perfect for you.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Unlock 50 unique engagement party ideas. You'll find ideas you've never thought of and something for every couple. Happy planning!","title":"50 Best Engagement Party Ideas of 2024","slug":"engagement-party-ideas","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4Nv4GtlUw4LfNJVkpcFmSi/32aa338cea95b2f766f3f616efcc3985/50_Best_Engagement_Party_Ideas_hero__1_.png","altText":"People smiling and clinking wine glasses at a party"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Different diamonds look different on different fingers. The diamond experts at The Clear Cut share which diamond shapes look best on which finger sizes.","title":"The Best Diamond Shape & Size For Your Finger","slug":"best-diamond-shape-for-your-finger","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5ECvXhLPmPgOpov3xDS8WX/6546f0108bf3a0ca312f65037cce0c8b/Hero_Zola.jpg","altText":"best diamond shape for your finger type"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"You're engaged! Now it's time to tell people. Here are the best ways to make an engagement announcement that works for you. ","title":"How to Announce Your Engagement","slug":"how-to-announce-your-engagement","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3hk4Xt2gcurIwwAACqfcxh/52d16b9f41ed4c4e63d6f316dcb0379d/How-to-Announce-your-Engagement.jpg","altText":"Couple makes engagement announcement"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Diamond experts share all the places you can wear your engagement ring and where you shouldn't wear your ring. Plus, tips for keeping your engagement ring like new.","title":"Where You Can (and Can't) Wear Your Engagement Ring","slug":"where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1EkyCSqm040daFYaobOyaH/00c105e08f44c0785713e860c896e31e/Hero_Zola__1_.jpg","altText":"where you can wear your engagment rings"},"type":"articlePage"}],"featured":[{"excerpt":"Dress your bridal party in jewelry that speaks to your wedding theme. Here are gorgeous bridal party jewelry picks for every wedding style. ","title":"27 Bridal Party Jewelry Pieces for Every Wedding Style","slug":"27-bridal-party-jewelry-pieces-for-every-wedding-style","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4BGIwdEfrohyR2Zgf7uYOK/e5ef7676b83684f7716f7726f185ae92/HERO_AuroraLux_StarlightEarrings.jpg","altText":"bridal party jewelry available on zola"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Engagement ring insurance is an easy way to achieve peace of mind and keep your jewelry safe. How much does it cost? Do you need it? And, if so, where can you find the best policy? We've got the answers.","title":"Is Engagement Ring Insurance Worth It?","slug":"reasons-to-insure-engagement-ring","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5lyFfo152e8WTcYhXSnlSs/71acdab1d21c284a4ad4246fbdebded5/daria-kopylova-PFORcnF1JqY-unsplash.jpg","altText":"Close up of female hand with engagement ring holding male hand across her chest"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"From how much you should expect to spend on a wedding ring to tips for how to choose the right one for you, check out this guide on wedding ring styles, types, and materials.","title":"A Guide to Wedding Rings","slug":"a-guide-to-wedding-rings","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5P3fQN4IfleT7GqBYDmSs/8149be86e6f0b1e35a8e477b1a792fe8/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"gold wedding band and three diamond eternity wedding bands on a white sequined fabric"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Want to know the difference between a protection plan and jewelry insurance? Learn what coverage is right for you to keep your wedding rings and other jewelry safe and secure. ","title":"Specialty Jewelry Insurance Vs. Protection Plans: What Do I Need?","slug":"specialty-jewelry-insurance-vs-protection-plans","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/AuBNwQenNb5IOCOzbGJTV/36112de80617cfa447a7e47fdbf08e0d/Specialty-Jewelry-Insurance-Vs-Protection-Plans-What-Do-I-Need.jpg","altText":"wedding ring insurance "},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:16.780Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Rings","slug":"rings"},"slug":"how-to-finance-an-engagement-ring","title":"How to Finance an Engagement Ring","excerpt":"Got questions on how to finance an engagement ring? Our experts can help. Read on to find out now.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-11-04T17:43:33.453Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/ly1YKAgHTRF8cAIPdJ8yX/2b696d93ce89053fd3177a4fe5136cc4/hero_unsplash.jpg","altText":"couple admiring engagement rings"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Ah, middle school, those awkward years where kids start to go through puberty and giggle around those that catch their eye. Many of them would pretend to be engaged to their would-be beau as they flash a massive rock on their finger—a Ring Pop, to be exact. Yes, those sweet rings are colorful and yummy, but as an adult, your jewelry should get a significant upgrade, which often leads to questions on how to finance an [engagement ring](https://zola.app.link/0oixcrRMLab).\n\nIf you want to “pop” the question, it’s wise to consider a less tasty, longer-lasting, and more valuable option. When it comes to paying for that big jewelry purchase, cash is ideal. But, if the candy type is [all you can afford](https://zola.app.link/YQMa4iBWLab), exploring engagement ring financing could be the answer. \n\n## Things to Consider With Engagement Ring Financing\nAs with any major purchase, such as a house or car, couples need to think about how they will foot [the bill](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-finance-an-engagement-ring). Money isn’t the most romantic topic, but couples should chat about the expenditure before the allure of a massive, sparkly diamond—and a smart salesperson at your local jewelry store—overtakes their senses. The cost of an engagement ring isn’t something to be glossed over. Instead, sit down with your partner and have a realistic conversation regarding the following. \n\n![How to Finance an Engagement Ring](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6hHVJeRfUWCkNcl6Ro0Z7X/5e4584047f00469cf3a6913228a10917/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n## Determine How Much to Spend\nYou probably want to land somewhere between Ring Pop and Kim K’s multi-million dollar stunner (which unfortunately was stolen, but [that’s another story](https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/kim-kardashian-engagement-ring-stolen-paris-replica-kanye-west-robbery-kkw-beauty-a9212396.html)). All comparisons aside, designating a specific price range for your bling will keep you from overextending [your budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-finance-an-engagement-ring).\n\nThere are ways to get what you crave, such as sacrificing diamond clarity or color in exchange for a higher carat weight. Do a bit of research on what you can afford and what tweaks you are willing to make.\n\n## Think Creatively\nIf you’ve been searching online, chances are you’ve found a [few head-turners](https://zola.app.link/TNdKkgU2Jab) that may be out of your price range. There are ways to get close to what you want without having to break the bank. Pre-loved, lesser priced rings abound in pawn shops, antique stores, and the estate sections of jewelry boutiques.\n\nThink creatively about where to secure your wedding ring. Doing so means that you may get more for your money or end up paying less.\n\n## Insure Your Wedding Rings\nSure, Kim can afford to repurchase an expensive diamond ring, but it would be a hardship for most of us. Even if it weren’t a burden financially, it would be discouraging to have to spring for a new ring. Insurance won’t replace the emotional toll of a sentimental piece being lost or stolen. But, if you [insure your ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/reasons-to-insure-engagement-ring), you can file a claim and replace it quickly.\n\nMost homeowners and renters [policies](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/specialty-jewelry-insurance-vs-protection-plans) include the jewelry inside your dwelling, but often it only [compensates up to a specific value](https://www.investopedia.com/articles/personal-finance/062615/it-worth-it-insure-my-wedding-ring.asp#:~:text=The%20general%20rule%20for%20insuring,bit%20more%20for%20your%20coverage.). Having an additional plan is reassurance that you can be reimbursed for the full replacement cost. \n\n## How to Finance an Engagement Ring\nLet’s face it, weddings are expensive—flowers, attire, venue, food. The list goes on, but the [budget may not](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-set-your-wedding-budget). Although an engagement ring will last well beyond the big day, going [deep into debt](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/should-we-go-into-debt-for-our-wedding) right out of the gate may not be wise or necessary. \n\n## 1. Use a Credit Card to Finance an Engagement Ring\nBefore you grab the plastic already tucked into your wallet, think about getting a brand new card. Many credit card companies offer low introductory rates—or zero-APR—and give bonus points for large purchases within the first few months.\n\nHowever, be aware of when these rates expire before swiping your card. If your current one already has a low rate or you’re saving reward points, weigh the benefits of your existing account before seeking a new one. \n\n## 2. See if Your Jeweler Offers Engagement Ring Financing\nFrequently, large jewelry chain stores offer to finance and/or they have their own credit cards. However, be sure to read the fine print before charging those engagement rings. Buy-now-pay-later plans are alluring, yet there may be harsh penalties for missing or delaying payment.\n\nJewelry stores with easy credit approval often have zero percent interest. Be sure to ask questions about when the rate will go up after the introductory offer. This increase is often described as deferred interest and can accompany no credit check, engagement ring financing. No matter the verbiage, be sure to review the specifications before signing on the dotted line.\n\n![How to Finance an Engagement Ring](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1HA33OEvkK5kSbkA7vGP6p/e16562e95be22545ed0c0d2d8af7aa38/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n## 3. Take Out a Personal Loan\nHearing “loan” sounds scary. Honestly, with our ever-present credit cards, we don’t often take out loans unless we’re financing a big purchase, such as a car or business start-up.\n\nFear aside, analyze securing a bank loan for engagement ring financing. With a personal loan, you’ll be able to make a monthly payment on your chosen wedding ring. Bad credit history may hurt your chances or increase your percentage rate, but having a good relationship with a local bank can prove beneficial. \n\n## 4. Think About Earning Extra Income\nStill looking for jewelry financing options for your wedding ring? Although this is a bit unconventional, decluttering is a fabulous way to earn extra money. Purging can be quite the motivator, especially if you’re combining households. With selling outlets such as Facebook Marketplace, eBay, and Craigslist, couples can earn cash quickly.\n\nOther alternatives are to hold a yard sale or take unwanted items to a pawn shop. You may be surprised about the items lying around your home that could help finance a ring long term. Another alternative is getting a part-time job or stepping up your side hustle to [cover the cost](https://zola.app.link/bxLaAGyN71).\n\nThat said, remember: The “three months’ salary” rule isn’t real wedding etiquette. The amount of money you end up spending on an engagement ring is entirely up to you and differs greatly from couple to couple.\n\n## Benefits and Drawbacks of Engagement Ring Financing\n\nDesc\n\n- __Pro: Credit card points.__ Most couples who choose to finance an engagement ring do so via credit card. Depending on your credit card—whether it’s a travel card, store credit card, or bank card—this could end up earning you a lot of points and/or benefits. In the case of travel points, it might even help contribute to honeymoon costs.\n\n- __Con: Interest rates.__ That said, charging an expensive engagement ring to your credit card can make it seem as though the spending doesn’t exist. If you can’t see it—outside of your bank statement—you may forget about it and be slow to pay it off. Out of sight, out of mind. This is where interest rates will get you. The longer you wait to achieve repayment, the more you’ll end up paying in interest charges—especially where high interest rates are concerned. This is why looking for lenders/borrowers with low interest can be paramount.\n\n- __Pro: Convenience.__ The most common reason for financing an engagement ring is time convenience. In short, you might not have all of the money you need right now, but still want to purchase the ring. Perhaps you’re going on a special trip soon or a holiday is coming up where you’d like to propose. In any case, financing allows you to purchase an engagement ring on a timeline that works for you. This may also allow you to take advantage of store sales, promotional periods, and in-store financing deals via retailers.\n\n- __Con: Credit score.__ Putting such a large charge on a credit card or taking out a personal loan can have a negative effect on otherwise good credit. Poor credit, in turn, has the potential to drastically affect your personal finances, including other wedding costs. If you charged the ring to a credit card, avoid this by paying more than the minimum amount each month. If you went through an issuer, stick to your payment plan and pay more when you can.\n\n## Conclusion\nAn engagement ring purchase is nothing short of a big deal. From loan amounts, to financing offers, to personal loans, this might not be a conversation or situation you look forward to working through. However, if you take the time to really research and weigh your options, you’re more likely to come out the other side in good financial shape. No matter how you choose to finance an engagement ring, be sure to head into the purchase with a bit of knowledge in hand about your options. Looking at diamond engagement rings is a time to level up, ditch the middle school Ring Pop, and propose with a stunner meant to last as long as your love.\n\nAnd for those times when your wedding budget seems to be getting the better of you, take advantage of Zola’s in-app budget calculator feature. Simply open the app, tap budget, and update with your wedding budget and spending.","tag":"How-To ","updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:16.068Z"}],"pagination":{"currentPage":2,"total":29},"subtopic":{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Rings","slug":"rings"},"slug":"best-diamond-shape-for-your-finger","title":"The Best Diamond Shape & Size For Your Finger","excerpt":"Different diamonds look different on different fingers. The diamond experts at The Clear Cut share which diamond shapes look best on which finger sizes.","author":"McCall Minnor","publishedAt":"2019-12-26T15:52:16.629Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5ECvXhLPmPgOpov3xDS8WX/6546f0108bf3a0ca312f65037cce0c8b/Hero_Zola.jpg","altText":"best diamond shape for your finger type"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- A round brilliant cut will flatter most every finger shape, while long, thin fingers are better suited to elongated cuts.\n\n- People with chubby fingers find that oval and pear cuts suit them best.\n\n- Finally, if you have small fingers or hands, stick with a more delicate style that’s proportional to your anatomy.\n","body":"When it comes to shapes and styles, not all diamonds are created equal—and not all diamonds work equally well with every finger. You might be in love with your [best friend’s engagement](https://zola.app.link/01BPrmyN71) ring, but that same shape and style may not look the same when you try it on your own finger. It’s true: Different diamonds look different on different fingers. To help you find your perfect fit, we asked the diamond experts at [The Clear Cut](https://theclearcut.co/) to share how to find a diamond shape and style that works best with your ring finger. \n\n![INLINE ClearCut 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2ae4s50gqVHT9Vci2PuM2z/5dd9b34685d0dbae4639c773aa925f32/INLINE_ClearCut_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // The Clear Cut\n\n## What To Consider Before Choosing A Diamond Ring\nFirst things first—before we jump into the best diamond shapes and style for each finger type, let’s quickly go over some of the most important factors that go into choosing the right diamond ring for you.\n\nSome of the main criteria you’re going to want to consider when choosing the perfect diamond shape and style for your engagement ring include:\n\n### The Width and Length of Your Finger\nWhen choosing a diamond shape and style, you want to create a sense of balance and proportion on your finger—so the length, width, and overall size of your finger is going to dictate which diamonds are going to look balanced and proportionate.\n\n### The Size of the Stone\nThe size of a diamond is also going to play into how flattering a certain shape or style is going to look on your finger. As a rule of thumb, the larger the stone, the more noticeable any issues with balance, proportion, or unflattering shapes will be.\n\n### Your Personal Style\nIt doesn’t matter if a diamond shape or style “works” on your finger shape—if it doesn’t match your [personal style](https://zola.app.link/XXGCpJyN71), it’s not going to make you happy in the long run. Make sure you choose a diamond shape and style that feels like a reflection of your own personal taste—and that you’ll be happy rocking on your finger from now until forever.\n\n### Band Width\nNot only do the stones on your ring have a high impact, but the band. While material—silver, gold, white gold, rose gold, etc.—is important to consider, even more important is the width of the band. For example, if you have thinner fingers, a thicker band might overwhelm them. At the same time, if you prefer a ring with a lot of stones, a thin band might not be able to accommodate that. Also consider the style of wedding band you’d like to go with your engagement ring and how the widths of each band might look together.\n\n### Accent Gemstones\nPerhaps you’d like more than a singular diamond. Whether that means a ring design with a couple accent stones around the center stone or a band covered in pavé diamonds is up to your preference. Accent gemstones, too, can add a variety of shapes, styles, and uniqueness to a diamond ring. If that sounds like what you’re looking for, consider those that add color to a ring that’s diamond color is more classic. Also try those that add to the overall ring style.\n\n### Budget\nWe couldn’t talk about important deciding factors without discussing budget. While this isn’t the most exciting aspect of ring shopping, it’s paramount to think over before setting your heart on something. Set a realistic budget range for yourself and be transparent about it with any jewelers and/or sellers. If a proposal isn’t a total surprise, consider having an open conversation about budget and expectations with your partner.\n\n## Best Diamond Shape For Each Finger Type\nAs we said, different diamonds look different on different fingers and hands. Here’s how to figure out what diamond will best suit your finger.\n\n### A Universally Flattering Diamond That Looks Good On Every Finger\nA round brilliant is one of the most classic diamond shapes on the market. And it’s a classic for a reason. This diamond holds a lot of its weight at the top, which takes up a lot of real estate on your ring finger. Plus, because of the round diamond shape, you get a balanced look that will work on a variety of finger shapes and [sizes](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-ring-size-guide).\n\nWhile there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to choosing the right diamond shape/style, if you want a diamond that’s going to be [universally flattering](https://zola.app.link/vi2RlmyN71), the round brilliant is a solid choice.\n\n### For Long And Thin Fingers\nIf you have long, thin fingers, you’re going to want to choose a diamond shape that compliments your finger length. So, elongated diamonds are a fantastic choice.\n\nLuckily, there are a ton of different styles out there to choose from. A naturally elongated diamond shape, like an oval, pear, or marquise cut, will look gorgeous on your finger, as will an elongated radiant or an emerald cut. Just remember, if you have long fingers, you want your diamond to have a more elongated appearance to match. Moreover, solitaire rings (those with a single diamond on a band) can also look beautiful, as they won’t overwhelm your finger.\n\n__What to Avoid:__ Anything too square-shaped or princess cut. More square-shaped diamonds like a standard (not elongated) emerald or radiant cut aren’t always the most flattering on long, thin fingers. The shape can actually make your fingers look longer (and your ring can look disproportionate on your finger).\n\n### For Stout Fingers\nIf your fingers are on the thicker side, going with a more delicate diamond shape or style can actually make them look wider. Instead, look for a stone that’s going to really make a statement and take up a lot of real estate on your finger—like an oval or pear-shaped diamond.\n\n__What to Avoid:__ Narrow diamonds. You want a stone that’s going to fill out the width of your finger. If you have your heart set on a [narrower cut](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-different-diamond-cut-options), you can add side stones to create width and add a sense of balance.\n\n### For Small Fingers\nIf you have small hands, you have a serious benefit when shopping for engagement rings; everything is going to look bigger on your small fingers.\n\nOn the flip side, going with a diamond shape or style that’s overly big or bold can have the opposite effect, looking too over-the-top on your tiny finger. If your hands are noticeably small, make sure to stick to a more delicate style (such as a round cut, oval cut, or pear cut) that looks proportionate on your finger. On the other hand, opposing styles—such as elongated radiant cuts and emerald cuts—can look too harsh or overwhelming.\n\n__What to Avoid:__ Huge diamonds. As mentioned, any diamond you put on a small finger is going to look larger than it would on a bigger finger. So, oversized diamonds can look almost cartoonishly disproportionate on someone with extremely small hands.\n\n## Choosing The Perfect Diamond Carat Size\nFor those who don’t know, a carat is a unit of measurement in regards to a diamond’s (or gemstone’s) physical weight. Note that carat weight is just that—a stone’s weight, not the size of the diamond. Jewelers, gemologists, and similar ring and stone sellers will use diamond carat size in the description of diamond engagement rings in order to describe how heavy one’s cut diamond is. This weight will be the same across natural diamonds and lab grown diamonds, as their physical and chemical makeup is the same.\n\nFor reference, a half carat diamond weighs .1 grams, a 1 carat diamond weights .2 grams, a 2 carat diamond weights .4 grams, and so on and so forth. Pro tip: Diamond rings that don’t have a neat carat weight (such as a half carat, one carat, two carat, etc.) can sometimes cost less than those that do, despite being unnoticeable to the naked eye. When discussing stones, ring sizes, and the like with a jeweler, feel free to ask about carat sizes and to see those of similar weights.\n\nThese are some suggestions on which diamond cuts, shapes, and styles tend to work best with different finger types. Take the above information into consideration when figuring out how to choose a diamond shape, size, and style for your [engagement ring](https://zola.app.link/6iNeuzyN71).\n\nRemember, though, these are just suggestions. You’re the one (or your partner’s the one) who’s going to be wearing your ring every day, so ultimately, it’s up to you to get out there and find the diamond that feels perfect for you.\n\nFor more information regarding carat size (because we know it can be tricky), check out our [Ultimate Diamond Carat Size Guide](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-ultimate-diamond-carat-size-guide).","body2":"### If you have long, thin fingers, try an elongated diamond.\nIf you have long, thin fingers, you’re going to want to choose a diamond shape that compliments your finger length. So, elongated diamonds are a fantastic choice.\n\nLuckily, there are a ton of different styles out there to choose from. A naturally elongated diamond shape, like an oval or pear cut, will look gorgeous on your finger, as will an elongated radiant or an emerald cut. Just remember, if you have long fingers, you want your diamond to have a more elongated appearance to match. \n\n__What to Avoid:__ Anything too square-shaped. More square-shaped diamonds like a standard (not elongated) emerald or radiant cut aren’t always the most flattering on long, thin fingers. The shape can actually make your fingers look longer (and your ring can look disproportionate on your finger).\n\n### If you have stout fingers, try an oval or pear shape.\nIf your fingers are on the thicker side, going with a more delicate diamond shape or style can actually make them look wider. Instead, look for a stone that’s going to really make a statement and take up a lot of real estate on your finger—like an oval or pear-shaped diamond.\n\n__What to Avoid:__ Narrow diamonds. You want a stone that’s going to fill out the width of your finger. If you have your heart set on a narrower cut, you can add side stones to create width and add a sense of balance.\n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720 (10)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6HVbmW4UNMQkSp3HC0m9kz/d300c0aead944ea5c6ce4f95cec62db5/INLINE_Unsplash_1080x720__10_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### If you have small fingers, try to stick to a more delicate style\nIf you have small hands, you have a serious benefit when shopping for engagement rings; everything is going to look bigger on your small fingers.\n\nOn the flip side, going with a diamond shape or style that’s overly big or bold can have the opposite effect, looking too over-the-top on your tiny finger. If your hands are noticeably small, make sure to stick to a more delicate style that looks proportionate on your finger.\n\n__What to Avoid:__ Huge diamonds. As mentioned, any diamond you put on a small finger is going to look larger than it would on a bigger finger. So, oversized diamonds can look almost cartoonishly disproportionate on someone with extremely small hands.\n\nThese are some suggestions on which diamond cuts, shapes, and styles tend to work best with different finger types. Take these into consideration when figuring out how to choose a diamond shape for your [engagement ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring). \n\nRemember, though, these are just suggestions. You’re the one who’s going to be wearing your ring every day, so ultimately, it’s up to you to get out there and find the diamond that feels perfect for you. ","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Unlock 50 unique engagement party ideas. You'll find ideas you've never thought of and something for every couple. 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Here are nine tips for how to deal without hurting your partner's feelings.\n","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2019-09-12T14:48:09.060Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/MS3dyElvqDAW4HZGjlULM/4cd4f592a1faaf3f23b1a68d2f74a294/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"woman hugs partner after engagement "},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"You probably thought a bit about how someone might propose to you before it ever happened. It’s exciting to imagine where and how it might happen—and what the ring might look like. We’re human! So what happens when your partner proposes, pulls out a ring, and… record scratch… you don’t love this unconditional gift? Don’t panic. Before you allow this to ruin your excitement, know that you still have options. Here’s what to do if you don’t like your [engagement ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring).\n\n## Give it some time.\nSo, it wasn’t love at first sight between you and the ring. That doesn’t mean it won’t grow on you. As unlikely as it sounds, when given some time, many begin to love their rings. First impressions can be deceiving with conditional gifts, so allow the shock to subside and sleep on it. Then wear it around for a few days. Pair it with your other __[jewelry](https://zola.app.link/oF4C3jyN71)__, ask your spouse why they chose it, and just live with it for a moment. You may find—especially if you don’t wear jewelry often—that you start to fall for it.\n\n![INLINE SteveCowellPhoto 1080x720 Jeff&Lauren](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7qynD26ddyPPULUAkOUEmD/66f1cd8a2f3edd829eb12c720e957db5/INLINE_SteveCowellPhoto_1080x720_Jeff_Lauren.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Steve Cowell Photo\n\n## Talk to your partner.\nAt the same time, don’t allow any negative feelings to linger. Avoid any possible brewing resentment by being honest with your partner. Open communication is a cornerstone of any marriage, even in the face of a difficult conversation. Simply be truthful and kind. Gently and tactfully let them know how you feel and say you’re open to discussing affordable options or compromises. In case you’re stuck, start with something like:\n\n*“[Name], I’m so excited to be marrying you, and I want to be honest with you about something that’s been on my mind. An engagement ring is something I’ve been excited about for a long time and I want to be happy with it forever.”*\n\nAlso, try not to feel guilty. We know, easier said than done. But at the same time: Yes, you dislike your engagement ring. No, you’re not an awful person. When all is said and done, both you and your partner just want to be excited about being together. A small hurdle in the process won’t change that.\n\n## Modify or personalize your engagement ring.\nWith some thought, some modifications might be all you need. Tweaking some details without trading out the entire ring is a creative, cost-effective solution. Examine what you like and dislike about it currently (such as the band, shape, or center stone). Then ask your jeweler if certain changes can be made. That way, you can maintain the parts you and your spouse love and update any you aren’t crazy about. Turn it into a creative project between the two of you.\n\nThis is also a potential solution for family heirlooms. If you’re inheriting a ring and would like for it to feel more you, broach the subject of adding some personalizations. This could mean resetting the stone, adding or removing side stones, or similar. Although, if you and your spouse plan on doing this, discuss it with the person who gave it to you, if possible. This keeps appreciation and respect at the forefront of the conversation and makes it less likely to feel offensive. \n\n## Don’t make size the issue.\nIf you don’t like your ring because you truthfully wish the stone was bigger, tread lightly. Telling your partner that the ring isn’t big enough could come across as ‘this isn’t expensive enough.’ Don’t make your partner feel like they couldn’t afford what you wanted or expected—especially considering they likely purchased the best they could for you. \n\nAsk yourself if it’s something else you don’t like, such as the material, type of stone, shape, or overall style. If it’s really about the stone size, though, keep your distaste quiet. You can always save up once you’re both more established and potentially get a bigger stone for an anniversary. This isn’t something to upset or concern your partner with.\n\n![INLINE Unsplash)1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6C7TBdMaFUTzHhoGO78zHj/bd0cb888a005203f933f7f151457523e/INLINE_Unsplash_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Be considerate of budget.\nIf you do plan to modify or get a new ring, be considerate of your partner’s __[budget](https://zola.app.link/8WoDoDyN71)__. Perhaps they can’t afford to get you your dream ring at the moment. That doesn’t mean they love you any less—or that you’re doomed to wear a ring you don’t adore. Be honest with yourself about whether or not this is a big deal and if you’re willing to compromise. Remember, this may feel paramount at the moment, but it’s far from the most important aspect of getting married. When suggesting alternatives to your spouse, ask that you’re both transparent about the expense and expectations.\n\n## Turn your attention to your wedding band.\nWhether you’ve chosen to keep your ring or just can’t bear to bring it up, all hope isn’t lost. You still have a chance to embellish it with the wedding band of your dreams. Adding your band may even change the way you feel about your [engagement ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring) entirely. For example, if you feel it’s lacking in a certain stylistic element (sparkle? gemstones?), make it present in your band. The addition just might turn the combination into a duo you adore.\n\n## Know the legalities of the ring for broken engagements.\nOne pressing question many couples have is what are the legal ramifications and rules about giving a carat engagement ring back. Can you get a full refund? Does the date of purchase matter? Is it ok to offer the ring up for resale or take it to a pawn shop? The reality is that each state has its own rules on what you can do with an engagement ring, so check with your state law. \n\nHowever, the first place you should start is by checking the return policy of the retailer’s store where the wedding ring was originally purchased. Even if you can’t return the ring — especially if you’ve gone beyond their days of purchase — they may have an exchange policy. That way, you can get another piece with the same value of the ring. If you purchased your diamond engagement ring on sale, the piece of jewelry may be more difficult to return, or you may be unable to exchange the original ring. \n\n## Can you return engagement ring?\nIn the end, you may decide to trade in your current ring for something different. That’s OK! After all, it’s an expensive item you’ll rarely remove. If your significant other purchased the ring from a jewelry store, you should be able to return or exchange it within a given time frame. That is, it’s in its original condition—so be mindful of it while contemplating. Also keep in mind that policies differ from store to store. Some require a restocking fee, while others only allow exchanges. Ask your jeweler about your options.\n\nIf neither is possible—say, your ring was custom-made—you can still try and sell it. We recommend that all custom rings get approval before they’re purchased, but realize that that’s not always the case. You should be able to set a reasonable price if it’s in mint condition. Just be sure to handle the situation delicately and be aware that it could be difficult to resell. Then, once you’ve been able to return, exchange, or sell, make an afternoon of trying on rings together with your partner. Turn the situation positive and learn more about each other’s style.\n\n## Are pawn shops an option?\nAlthough you won’t get the original purchase price for your piece, you can take your ring to a pawn shop. You’ll need to have your ring in-store so that the shop can place a value on your ring and offer you a price. Ebay and other resale sites are also an option. However, be sure to have the GIA paperwork to validate the piece.\n\nFast forward: You’ve discussed things and taken the steps you need to. Now do your best to swiftly move on. Don’t dwell—your engagement is to be enjoyed. Instead, move forward with the fun parts of wedding planning (like __[food tastings](https://zola.app.link/0iNeuzyN71)__ and __[honeymoon arrangements](https://zola.app.link/eHihVjjt52)__).","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Need inspiration for your wedding hashtag? Here's a complete guide to designing a wedding hashtag perfect for your big day.","title":"9 Easy Ways to Create Your Wedding Hashtag","slug":"9-easy-ways-to-create-your-wedding-hashtag","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/23UVWEQPhMa4e3bqlKEXQj/30624e2537f56014b66d9109d45a464f/Hero_New__1_.jpg","altText":"couple with wedding hashtag"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"You're engaged! Now it's time to tell people. Here are the best ways to make an engagement announcement that works for you. 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Plus, tips for keeping your engagement ring like new.","author":"Deanna deBara","publishedAt":"2019-12-26T16:54:49.731Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1EkyCSqm040daFYaobOyaH/00c105e08f44c0785713e860c896e31e/Hero_Zola__1_.jpg","altText":"where you can wear your engagment rings"},"heroCredit":"Zola","body":"After you get engaged, chances are, you’re going to want to rock that [engagement ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring) anywhere and everywhere you go. While there are plenty of places you can (and should) wear your bling, there are also some places where wearing your ring is a no-no if you want to keep it clean, safe, and sparkly. Let’s make this easy. The diamond experts at [The Clear Cut](https://theclearcut.co/) helped us outline where you can wear your engagement ring and where you can’t wear your engagement ring.\n\n\n\n## You CAN wear your engagement ring during your normal day-to-day activities.\nYour engagement ring is a symbol of your commitment and upcoming marriage to your partner, so it makes total sense that you’re going to want to wear it as often as possible.\n\nAnd the good news? For most of your normal, day-to-day activities, you can absolutely rock your bling. Going to work? Wear your engagement ring. Swinging by the grocery store? Wear your engagement ring. Meeting friends for dinner? Wear your engagement ring.\n\n## You CAN’T wear your engagement ring to bed.\nThere is, however, one place you go every day that you shouldn’t wear your wedding ring—and that’s to bed. \n\nSome people experience slight swelling in the hands overnight—and if your fingers swell while you sleep, it can not only feel uncomfortable, but it can make it harder to get your ring off in the morning. Plus, your ring can get snagged on your sheets, your blanket, your pajamas. It’s just not fun. \n\nWearing your engagement ring to bed could also put you at risk for injury. Diamonds can be sharp—and you don’t want to wake up in the middle of the night after scratching your face with your engagement ring.\n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7s96MB8mHAFphDMS9SC5oz/fb8ccde13dbf105e316715aa5372f11a/INLINE_Unsplash__1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## You CAN wear your engagement ring while tidying up—as long as you avoid harsh cleaning products. \nThere’s no need to take off your wedding ring for household chores like sweeping, laundry, or making the bed. There is, however, one exception to that rule—and that’s if you’re tackling any deep cleaning where you’ll be using harsh cleaning products that could damage your ring. \n\nIf you’re cleaning includes bleach, ammonia, or any other harsh chemicals, do yourself (and your diamond) a favor and take your engagement ring off beforehand.\n\n## You CAN’T wear your engagement ring in the shower.\nA shower is great for keeping you clean—but your ring? Not so much. All the products you use to clean your face, hair, and body can latch onto your diamond, creating a film that makes it look cloudy, dull, and all-around dirty. \n\nNot to mention that you don’t want your ring to slip off your finger and down the drain. Anyone who’s seen Apollo 13 knows that. So, don’t wear your ring in the shower and wait to put it back on until all your after-shower grooming activities (like slathering on lotion) are complete.\n\n## You CAN wear your engagement ring when you travel…\nIf you want to keep your ring on your finger during your travels (whether that’s on [your honeymoon](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/when-should-we-go-honeymoon), your [bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pack-for-a-bachelorette-party), or any other upcoming trips), there’s no reason you can’t. \n\nJust make sure to take the proper steps to keep your ring safe, like bringing along a ring stand to securely hold your ring while you sleep and never, ever leaving your ring unattended in a hotel room or vacation rental property.\n\nYou also shouldn’t travel with your engagement ring unless it’s insured. Read more about [engagement ring insurance here](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/reasons-to-insure-engagement-ring).\n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4POaDqNGbqYuOSQZDlNnUS/982c2bfdee2974ee70efc02f4e3838bb/INLINE_Unsplash_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## ...but you CAN’T wear it to the beach.\nOne travel destination that’s not the best fit for your engagement ring? The beach. Taking care of your skin at the beach means a lot of sunscreen. All that sunscreen will leave your diamond looking cloudy and dirty (and it’s also a pain in the neck to clean!). \n\nPlus, the ocean can spell disaster for your ring. Not only will the sand and saltwater quickly dirty up your ring, but your fingers actually get slightly smaller when you swim, and it goes without saying that losing your engagement ring in the ocean? Not exactly a day at the beach.\n\n## Engagement Ring Care Tips: How to Clean Your Ring at Home\n\n\n\nNo matter where you do or don’t wear your engagement ring, you always want to keep your bling as safe and sparkly as possible. Here are a few tips to keep it that way:\n\n- __Get your engagement ring insured.__ It doesn’t matter how careful you are or where you do/don’t wear your ring. Things happen, and you want to [make sure you’re insured](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/reasons-to-insure-engagement-ring) and covered should your ring gets lost, stolen, or damaged. \n- __Diamond looking dull? Clean up your ring at home.__ Wearing your ring certain places (like in the shower) can leave it looking dull. Get it back to sparkling with a [simple at-home engagement ring cleaning](https://theclearcut.co/blogs/clear-cut-classroom/cleaning-and-caring-for-your-engagement-ring). Fill a bowl with warm water and a few drops of Dawn dish soap and let your ring soak for a few minutes. Remove the engagement ring from the bowl, scrub with a soft-bristled toothbrush, and rinse off the excess soap with warm water (just make sure your sink drain is covered). Dry with a soft cloth or paper towel, and your ring will shine like new.\n- __When in doubt, wear a stand-in ring.__ If you’re going somewhere that makes you feel uneasy about wearing your wedding ring, it’s always better to be safe than sorry. When in doubt, leave your ring in a safe, secure place at home and wear a stand-in ring. You can get a cute silicone version for less than $10.\n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Unlock 50 unique engagement party ideas. You'll find ideas you've never thought of and something for every couple. 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Here’s What To Do Next!","slug":"to-dos-after-you-get-engaged","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6KWedC7RqcjzNqK8zy0LoU/286c6acfc830a30a9ac4d274ebf14501/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"Illustration graphic of an engagement ring box with a wedding ring and shine marks to indicate sparkle"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Different diamonds look different on different fingers. The diamond experts at The Clear Cut share which diamond shapes look best on which finger sizes.","title":"The Best Diamond Shape & Size For Your Finger","slug":"best-diamond-shape-for-your-finger","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5ECvXhLPmPgOpov3xDS8WX/6546f0108bf3a0ca312f65037cce0c8b/Hero_Zola.jpg","altText":"best diamond shape for your finger type"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"You're engaged! Now it's time to tell people. 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Considerations & Tips","excerpt":"How much you spend on a wedding ring will vary based on factors like diamond quality, material, and design complexity.","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2021-02-02T18:56:58.042Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7pErKRfOhRjuIBXrvUlyJo/0af59a23955abd6a5e2e9c17e462d689/Hero_Zola__22_.jpg","altText":"How Much to Spend on a Wedding Ring"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\nJump right into the wedding ring content here:\n- How Much To Spend On Wedding Rings: What To Consider\n- Determine Your Budget\n- What Style Of Wedding Ring Do You Want?\n- Consider Your Lifestyle, and Style of Your Engagement Ring\n- To Match or Not to Match\n- How To Save Money Buying Wedding Rings?","body":"Getting married is one of the biggest moments of your and your partner’s lives. You want the moment to be special and memorable for the both of you. But before saying “I do,” you’ll need to buy a wedding ring. So, how much should you spend?\n\n## How Much To Spend On Wedding Rings: What To Consider\n\nWhen it comes to how much to spend on a wedding ring, there's no one-size-fits-all solution (pun intended!). How much you spend will depend on a variety of factors, including:\n\n- __Your current financial situation.__ Your current financial situation will, in large part, dictate how much you should spend on wedding rings. Are you swimming in student loans and credit card debt? If so, going into further debt for an expensive ring probably isn't the best financial decision. As a good rule of thumb, if a ring's price tag would make it challenging to cover your current bills, it's too expensive—and you should look for something more affordable.\n- __How much you're willing to spend.__ As mentioned, there's no \"right\" amount to spend on a wedding ring—so how much you spend will depend on how much you're willing to spend. Some people default to the \"three month salary rule\"—while others wouldn't dream of dropping a few month's salary on a wedding ring. Ultimately, you have to decide what kind of ring budget you're comfortable with—and spend accordingly.\n- __Where you're shopping.__ Some retailers are more expensive than others—and if you want to go to a higher end retailer to shop for your wedding ring, you should expect to pay more than if you went to a local jeweler or shopped at more affordable jewelry stores or online retailers. \n- __What kind of ring you're shopping for.__ The kind of ring you're shopping for will play a major role in how much you end up spending. For example, more intricate rings (complete with diamonds and gemstones, like emeralds or rubies) will be more expensive than a simple band.\n- __The 4 C's.__ If you do go for a diamond ring, the 4 C's of diamonds—cut, color, clarity, and carat—will determine how much you ultimately pay. (For example, a 2 carat diamond is going to cost more than a 1 carat diamond—and a yellow diamond will typically cost more than a non-colored stone). \nNow that you know the different factors that come into play, let's jump into the actual steps to take when determining how much you should spend on a wedding ring for your soon-to-be spouse:\n\n## Determine Your Budget\n\nHow much money you should spend on your wedding ring depends on a lot of factors, including your style and budget.\n\nBefore you go shopping for a wedding ring, have an honest conversation with your partner about how much you’re both comfortable spending. If your significant other is planning to spend $500 on a simple band, but you’re looking at $1,500 rings, it's best to get on the same page before you go ring shopping.\n\nA budget will also help you understand what you can afford, and what [style of wedding ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/popular-wedding-ring-styles-for-2021) you should look for. Plain wedding bands can cost anywhere between [$250](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ritani_womens_classic_thin_knifeedge_wedding_ring_18krosegold) to $1,500 for women, depending on the metal. Bands that are larger, more intricate, or have diamonds (or other stones), can jump to anywhere between $1,000 to $6,000. This puts the average woman’s wedding ring cost at around $1,400 (which, while definitely less than average engagement ring prices, is still on the pricey side).\n\n[Men’s wedding bands](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pair-wedding-band-with-engagement-ring) can start at [$140](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/manlybands_the_grizzly_wedding_ring) for a tungsten band, hit well over $2,000 for a platinum band, or fall somewhere in the middle (like this [Men's Meteorite & Cobalt Chrome Wedding Band](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lashbrook_meteorite_cobalt_chrome_wedding_band)). The average cost for a man’s wedding band is around $560.\n\n## What Style of Wedding Ring Do You Want?\n\n![How Much to Spend on a Wedding Ring](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1lptiUIcRzE6faf9Fs5jhf/1c6f8aad16d50ec65ff5478530c36ce3/inline_Laura_Segall_Photography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Laura Segall Photography\n\nOnce you've locked in your budget, it's time to figure out how you want to spend that budget—and what type of wedding ring you actually want.\n\nMaterial and the wedding band’s weight will largely determine its cost. Yellow gold, white gold, and rose gold are less expensive than rings made of platinum, which is the most expensive metal.\n\nThe cost of white, yellow, or rose gold rings will depend on how many karats they are; the more karats, the more expensive it will be. However, it’s important to keep in mind that white gold needs to be rhodium-plated every few years, as it will eventually yellow.\n\nFor budget-conscious couples, tungsten is a more affordable option and is a very strong and scratch-resistant metal. Wood, ceramic, and silicone are also popular for their unique style, and they are [typically less expensive](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pair-wedding-band-with-engagement-ring)—especially silicone, which only costs around [$30](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/qalo_mens_classic_forged_silicone_ring?_branch_match_id=660637628017867376) per ring. \n\nYour wedding ring’s width will also play a factor in how much it costs. A thin band is one to three millimeters, a medium band is four to six millimeters, and a thick band ranges from seven to 10 millimeters. The thicker the band, the more material is needed, thus increasing the cost. \n\nIf you’re going to get a wedding ring that has some bling, expect to open your checkbook a bit more. Again, for wedding rings with diamonds (like this [Women's Baguette Diamond Eternity Band](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/edelweissjewelry_womens_baguette_diamond_eternity_band_18krosegold)), prices are based on the “[four Cs](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-ultimate-diamond-carat-size-guide)” of the diamonds: cut, carat, color, and clarity. The four Cs apply to both natural and lab-grown diamonds and are used collectively to rate the overall diamond quality.\n\nWedding rings with diamonds that are highly rated (think clear diamonds, expensive cuts, etc.) are going to cost more than a ring with lower-quality stones. You may also prefer pre-owned or vintage wedding rings—and the prices of these unique pieces can greatly vary.\n\n## Consider Your Lifestyle, and Style of Your Engagement Ring\n\nHow much you should spend on a wedding ring will also depend on your lifestyle and the type of work you do. If you’re a personal trainer, for example, and you’re used to lifting heavy weights, you’ll want a flatter wedding ring, as opposed to a raised one that could easily get scratched or dented. Your lifestyle will help you determine what type of material you need, too: Gold is more malleable, whereas platinum is more durable.\n\nFor people who also wear engagement rings, you want your wedding ring to match, or at least compliment its style. Some people opt to have their wedding ring made by the same jeweler who designed their engagement ring so that they are the same material and aesthetic. This is also a popular option for people who have uniquely shaped diamond engagement rings, and who want their wedding band to fit within its curves—also known as “enhancers.”\n\n### To Match or Not to Match\n\nDo you and your partner want your wedding rings to match? Some couples want their wedding bands to match one another, while others are OK with having different designs. If you’re going the matching route, you may be able to score a better price from a jeweler if they offer discounts for purchasing more than one wedding band—it never hurts to ask.\n\nIf you don’t want your wedding ring to match your partner’s, you’ll still need to consider how much both rings will cost in total. Because both people will exchange rings at your ceremony, you should factor in that cost when determining your total wedding budget. Wedding rings are an expense that couples often overlook when it comes to wedding planning [budgeting](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/planning-101/budgeting). \n\n![How Much to Spend on a Wedding Ring](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/crUesLMcsImL7wpu5rxV5/48cbf1bad9029eeadcdd2ddd80008416/inline_Viera_Photographics.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Viera Photography\n\n## How To Save Money Buying Wedding Rings?\n\nWant to find the perfect ring—without breaking the bank? Here are some tips on how to [save money on wedding rings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-find-an-affordable-wedding-ring):\n\n- __Go smaller.__ If you want a wedding ring with that comes decked out in precious stones, consider going with a smaller gemstone or diamond size. The smaller the stone, the more affordable the ring will be—and the more money you'll save.\n- __Buy at the right time.__ Jewelry retailers are just like any other type of store; at some point, they're going to have a sale—and if you wait to buy your ring until that sale hits, you can seriously save on your purchase. If you know where you want to shop for your ring, get on their mailing list—and be ready to shop when you get word of an upcoming sale.\n- __Look for family heirlooms.__ Often, wedding rings are passed down from family member to family member. And if someone in you or your partner's family has a wedding ring they'd like to pass down, not only does it eliminate the cost of the ring, but it also adds a special family sentiment to the ring—and that's priceless.\n- __Go thrifting.__ Buying a brand new ring can be pricey. But there are plenty of high-quality, pre-owned rings out there with a much lower price tag; all you have to do is find them. During the ring shopping process, make sure to hit up thrift stores, vintage shops, and online reselling platforms. While you'll probably have to do some more digging to find what you're looking for, you could stumble upon a unique ring that you couldn't find in any regular store—at a much more affordable price point. It's a win-win!\n\n### So, what's the verdict? How much money should you spend on your wedding rings?\n\nSo, bottom line: when it comes to shopping for wedding rings, just how much should you spend?\n\nAnd the answer is—it completely depends.\n\nAt the end of the day, there is no right or wrong amount of money to spend on your dream ring. It’s a largely personal choice that will depend on many factors, including your budget, lifestyle, and personal style preferences. Whether you spend a reasonable amount or a lot, you and your partner need to be on the same page when it comes to wedding ring costs. You want your wedding ring to last you your entire life—not break the bank before you even put it on. So budget accordingly!","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Diamond experts share all the places you can wear your engagement ring and where you shouldn't wear your ring. 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We've got the answers.","title":"Is Engagement Ring Insurance Worth It?","slug":"reasons-to-insure-engagement-ring","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5lyFfo152e8WTcYhXSnlSs/71acdab1d21c284a4ad4246fbdebded5/daria-kopylova-PFORcnF1JqY-unsplash.jpg","altText":"Close up of female hand with engagement ring holding male hand across her chest"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Want to know the difference between a protection plan and jewelry insurance? Learn what coverage is right for you to keep your wedding rings and other jewelry safe and secure. ","title":"Specialty Jewelry Insurance Vs. Protection Plans: What Do I Need?","slug":"specialty-jewelry-insurance-vs-protection-plans","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/AuBNwQenNb5IOCOzbGJTV/36112de80617cfa447a7e47fdbf08e0d/Specialty-Jewelry-Insurance-Vs-Protection-Plans-What-Do-I-Need.jpg","altText":"wedding ring insurance "},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"New to the world of wedding ring shopping? Find out everything you need to know with our diamond carat size guide from Zola. 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Look no further than our complete guide on finding affordable wedding rings.","publishedAt":"2020-11-04T17:39:43.698Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/mB01yUbJRNJr9VdEgjkGu/9530215ea1e16c721bc04d1812dd6dc8/hero_unsplash.jpg","altText":"black and white photo of wedding ring on hand"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Whoever came up with “first comes love, then comes marriage” missed a few steps along the way. Between those initial butterflies and a lifetime together are a lot of things, especially expensive things, one of which being the engagement ring. For most couples, finding a proposal-worthy piece tops the list, and there are __[affordable wedding rings](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-rings?sort=PRICE_ASCENDING)__ out there. With a bit of knowledge and creative thinking, you should be able to get your wedding jewelry for a song. Consider some of the below factors when planning to buy rings and also a few cheaper options for rings further down before you commit to buying what is possibly the most important jewelry commitment you’ll be making at that time.\n\n### How to Find an Affordable Wedding Ring? \n\n## 1. Save Up for a Sale\n\nBargain hunters unite! With a bit of planning, you can scope out jewelry stores for the timing of their annual clearance sales. Often, __[wedding rings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-rings)__ are overstocked or have been there a while. You may get a stunner wedding band or ring for a steal. Another option is to limit yourself to searching the store’s markdown section to find a quality diamond ring at a bargain price. You will probably find a good sale as one wedding season closes and turns to the next and some styles become less fashionable. You might also find a good sale during the holidays and can benefit from that steal, holding on to the ring until the actual big day.\n\n![How to Find an Affordable Wedding Ring](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/68KBz6X4CZp6Jqw2hOYO0V/93fe292973dcb0a9be0afbcc6e1ca99b/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n## 2. Look for Used Jewelry \nLocal, reputable pawn shops often have a plethora of discarded engagement rings. Make someone else’s loss your gain and scour cases for the perfect fit. Another option when shopping for an affordable engagement ring is to head to the estate section of your local jewelry store. There are often one-of-a-kind and vintage rings that you can get for a fraction of the cost of a new piece. Hunt for a cushion cut, marquise, or 925 sterling silver options too. \n\nYou can also find an affordable wedding ring at antique shops and via seller sites, such as Craigslist and Facebook Marketplace, but be wary. Ensure that the seller has the receipt or paperwork for the ring to ensure that you’re getting what you pay for. Also, see if your family has any remaining pieces in their jewelry stash. Using an heirloom can make proposing that much more special. You can also make a custom piece if you feel the heirloom design is outdated – just make sure you give the jewelry designer enough material to work with and a reference image for the look and feel you are going for as well as the right ring circumference for comfort fit.\n\n## 3. Consider Custom Engagement Rings\n\nNowadays, the word “custom” can come with a hefty price tag. However, that may not always be the case when hiring a jewelry designer. An artist can work __[within your price range](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-finance-an-engagement-ring)__ and offer a variety of options to fit within your budget and __[engagement ring style](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-rings)__. Plus, it’s a huge bonus to be able to get an affordable, one-of-a-kind piece. \n\nSuppose you have an heirloom diamond, or a discarded ring made of precious metal, that’s even better! Alloys can be melted, and gemstones added to create custom engagement rings. Using what you already have can reduce the cost and help you create the perfect ring.\n\n## 4. Switch to Alternative Metals\nDiamonds are valuable and are best set in metal that’s worthy of them. However, if you have your heart set on an expensive metal, such as platinum, you may want to opt for a different type. Alloys such as tungsten, __[steel](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lashbrook_damascus_steel_wedding_band)__, and titanium will lighten the cost of your ring. A big bonus is that some of the lesser-priced alternative metals are incredibly durable. So, what you lack in value, you gain in longevity. \n\n## 5. Tweak Your Gemstone\n\nA simple swap is to forgo the diamond and go with a look alike. Cubic zirconia has come a long way, and only the two of you will know it’s a dupe. Just be upfront with your fiance, as some have been caught trying to pass off a fake. Yikes! You could go with a different gem altogether, use a birthstone, or opt for a colored rock, such as sapphire or emerald. \n\nIf you must have a diamond ring, then there are ways to sacrifice in some areas to gain in others. For example, if the size is essential, look at stones that are lesser in quality. Lower-rated diamonds may have slight inclusions or a bit of a yellowish cast. If the diamond’s grade is crucial, then choose a slightly lower __[diamond carat size](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-ultimate-diamond-carat-size-guide)__ to put quality over quantity. Another option is to go for less expensive, __[lab-grown diamond](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-ultimate-diamond-carat-size-guide)__ engagement rings. \n\n![How to Find an Affordable Wedding Ring](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7m9P4BpMOcR5TNV6rTclmg/b42b152b8d4c61aac6a6feb4138541a4/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n## 6. Rethink a Solitaire\n\nOften, solitaire engagement rings are costly. There is also a significant difference between a one-carat diamond and a ring with a total diamond weight of one carat. Choosing a piece with several smaller stones, instead of one large rock can make your bling more affordable. \n\nIf your heart is set on a solitaire, go a bit under the weight you want. A .96 carat diamond is often less expensive than a one-carat ring. Even though the difference is only .04 carats, there are weight increments in the jewelry industry that serve as price markers.\n\n## 7. Talk to Your Salesperson\n\nA salesperson can often be your ally in choosing a bridal ring, engagement ring set, or diamond wedding bands, and the smaller the chain store, the better. If you head to a pawn shop or local jewelry boutique, sometimes you can ask for a percentage off the price. You may score a better deal, especially if you’re talking to the owner. Politely asking if they could extend a discount can go a long way. \n\nWhen dealing with a large chain, pick your clerk’s brain about __[affordable wedding rings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-finance-an-engagement-ring)__. Ask them if any specials are coming up or if any rings may be marked down soon. It’s a win for everyone, as you help them clear out their stock. \n\n## 8. Look Online for Affordable Rings\n\nMany couples enjoy shopping online so that they can compare prices and styles without being put on the spot. The added pressure of a salesperson can clutter the mind. Of course, the caveat with [purchasing online](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-finance-an-engagement-ring) is that you aren’t seeing the rings in person. Each natural diamond will vary in color and imperfections, so be aware of industry standards. Also, do your homework about the return policy, warranty, and payment options that a site offers. \n\n## 9. Purchase Your Engagement and Wedding Ring Set at the Same Time\n\nA car salesperson would probably faint if you told them you wanted to buy three cars at once, but don’t expect the same reaction from your jeweler. There may be added benefits to [purchasing three-piece wedding ring sets](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pair-wedding-band-with-engagement-ring), as buying pieces for both partners at once can help obtain a discount. __[Some bands](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pair-wedding-band-with-engagement-ring)__ are explicitly sold as an engagement and wedding ring set, which is often more economical.\n\n## 10. Weigh Your Financing Options\n\n“Cash is king” reigns true. Many stores offer a discount for using banknotes, and you will avoid interest and fees by doing so. Although, if you need to [finance your wedding ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-to-spend-on-a-wedding-ring), be aware of your options. Don’t just pop out a high-interest credit card and hope for the best. \n\nJewelry shops often offer to finance, but another option is to get a new credit card with a low introductory rate or zero-APR. Although neither of these will make your engagement ring more affordable, it will reduce your total cost. \n\n## 11. Buy Now, Upgrade Later\n\nIf you met the perfect person while going through grad school, opt for a modest or __[simple wedding ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-rings)__ now or even promise rings or eternity band, and then upgrade later to some fine jewelry. Chances are that you’ll be able to splurge once you are making money, instead of while you’re __[racking up student loans](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/to-dos-after-you-get-engaged)__.\n\nCheckout a placeholder gold ring, gold wedding band, or sterling silver rings to wear on a different finger eventually. It could also be passed down to future generations as a keepsake after it’s replaced. Another option is to sell the original ring, if it’s not sentimental, to help you afford another piece down the road.\n\nNo matter your stage in life, affordable wedding rings are within reach. Getting more for your money not only feels good, but it can make the time between love and marriage a bit easier on your pocketbook.\n\n### Top 5 Affordable Wedding Ring Options\n\nUnderstandably, not everyone has a grand budget to work with when it comes to rings so we’ve listed a few styles here that can broadly address that issue. Consider these options first before jumping for a ring that might be too expensive to afford at this time. There is always the opportunity to upgrade, exchange, or resell at a later day for a new ring. Check with your jewelry maker as well so you know what future options are available to you via the same store. \n\n### 1. Vintage rings\n\nSince vintage rings are used and don’t carry the same markup as newer jewelry does, this is one of the cheap wedding rings options to consider when budgeting for jewelry costs. That said, you can possibly find plenty of designs that align with the look and feel you are going for toward your big day. These will possibly cost you much lesser than a brand new designed or custom piece and you could come away from shopping for a ring benefitting from a pretty good deal. \n\n### 2. Cluster rings\n\nAs cluster rings don’t have one large centerpiece diamond or gemstone but rather several stones that are smaller and less expensive, this is also a reason why they are among favored cheap wedding ring options. Wearing ring clusters is quite fashionable and could give the illusion of one broad and fancy ring or clearly denote a set of rings worn individually. Depending on your style, you can choose a few different types of gold bands as well.\n\n### 3. Solitaires\n\nThese are classic, elegant, and budget-friendly choices. As there are no diamonds or gemstones taking pride of place in a solitaire band, this is a great cheap wedding ring option as well for those on a very rigid budget and not much leeway to spend on rings. Consider this a first stop when looking for rings before exploring other options. They never go out of style and can be a versatile piece that is worn with other outfits as well.\n\n### 4. Gemstone rings\n\nIf you are not very specific about going for the expensive mainstream gemstones that are always in demand and therefore sold at a premium price, you can still have a beautiful gemstone dotted ring at a much lesser price point. Research ahead to see which types and colors would best suit not just your outfit but also your skin tone and can be worn for long periods of time. That way you’ll have a few options in mind when you go shopping.\n\n### 5. Smaller accents\n\nInstead of one large attention-seeking diamond, consider several smaller diamond accents for a cheaper ring overall. This will also give you some leeway to play with the type of gold used – choose from rose gold, white gold, and yellow gold or even opt for a sterling silver bridal set. A princess cut might also be a good option to consider when on budget as the irregular shape makes them look larger to the naked eye than a regular round shape which is the most common and favored but also quite expensive. \n\nWhile this compilation is in no way exhaustive, it does provide a broad summary of the ring options you can consider for wedding rings if you are working on a lean budget. You may want to begin shopping around for designs ahead of time so you can truly review all the choices you have before finalizing on that one special ring.\n","tag":"How-To ","updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:12.918Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Rings","slug":"rings"},"slug":"a-guide-to-wedding-rings","title":"A Guide to Wedding Rings","excerpt":"From how much you should expect to spend on a wedding ring to tips for how to choose the right one for you, check out this guide on wedding ring styles, types, and materials.","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2019-02-22T19:10:38.243Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5P3fQN4IfleT7GqBYDmSs/8149be86e6f0b1e35a8e477b1a792fe8/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"gold wedding band and three diamond eternity wedding bands on a white sequined fabric"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding-photographers/sean-money-elizabeth-fay","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- There are many factors to consider such as cost, band width, band finish, and if you want matching rings or not with your partner.\n- Although there is a lot of thoughtful planning when it comes to pick out your wedding ring, this is a place for customization and for you and your partner to pick the perfect set that suits you!\n","body":"The big day is coming up but you still have to find the perfect wedding ring - don’t fret! Zola's put this guide together just for you.\n\n## Tips for Choosing a Wedding Ring \n\n### 1. Start Looking Early \n\nAllow yourself plenty of time to shop for and select a wedding ring. If you’re going to buy a ring from a [brick-and-mortar or online jeweler](https://www.zola.com/inspire/search), two to three months before your wedding date should allow you enough time to shop around, compare prices, order, and receive your rings in time. If you’re going for a totally custom ring, however, allow yourself even more time (at least six months). Engraving your wedding ring(s) will also add an additional month to your timeline. \n\n### 2. Set a Budget\n\nBefore you set foot into a jewelry shop or begin looking online, set a wedding ring budget. Much like shopping for a wedding dress, having a dollar amount in mind before you begin your search will help you avoid the heartache of falling in love with something that’s way out of your price range. See the below section (How Much Should You Spend On A Wedding Ring?) for the average cost of wedding rings for both men and women, and determine with your partner what you’re both comfortable spending—in the grand scheme of all your wedding expenses—on wedding rings.\n\n### 3. Think About Your Engagement Ring\n\nIf you’ll be wearing an engagement ring on the same finger as your wedding ring, you should consider how these two pieces of jewelry will interact. You want both rings to complement each other physically, and to fit comfortably together on your finger. There’s no rule that says your engagement ring and wedding band need to match exactly, but perhaps you want them made out of the same material (which also helps reduce potential reactions between metals), or perhaps you want one ring to be more simple and the other to be the standout piece with more stones and decoration. \n\nIf you do want your engagement and wedding rings to be a set, make this wish known to your partner when he or she is choosing an engagement ring—some rings and bands are contoured to fit together perfectly, and you could even score a better deal when buying both rings at the same time. \n\n### 4. Consider Your Lifestyle\n\nDo you exercise frequently, spend time outside gardening or swimming, or work with your hands daily? If you have an active lifestyle, you should think about which wedding ring design and material will be the most practical choice. A wedding ring with many diamonds or other small stones will require more frequent cleaning and maintenance, and should be protected from harsh chemicals or lots of banging and jostling. More simple bands in metals that are super-strong and scratch-resistant, like palladium, titanium, tungsten, or even silicone, are good choices for those who want to wear a wedding band daily without worrying about its upkeep. \n\n### 5. Decide If Your Rings Will Match\n\nThe coordination decisions don’t stop at your engagement ring. It’s a good idea to decide with your partner whether you’d like matching wedding bands before you begin shopping. For some couples, sharing every aspect of this symbol of eternal love—down to the color, look, and shape—adds an extra layer of romance. For others, matching bands don’t hold any additional significance, so each partner might prefer to express his or her individuality when it comes to wedding rings. \n\n### 6. Narrow Down Your Ring Style\n\nAfter thinking about your budget, what will work best with your engagement ring and your lifestyle, and yay or nay to matching bands, research different styles of wedding rings to home in on your preferences. Do you want a simple metal band, or a ring set with diamonds or other gemstones? Do you want a thin or thick band, something very traditional, or something more trendy and eye-catching? Look around at examples so you can begin your wedding ring shopping well-informed with a sense of your preferred styles.\n\n## How Much Should You Spend on a Wedding Ring?\n\nWhile the cost of a wedding ring can vary wildly based upon the ring’s material, style, and decorative elements, it can be helpful to have a ballpark range for what most couples are spending on their wedding rings. These averages can help you set realistic expectations and allocate an appropriate amount towards wedding rings in your overall wedding budget. \n\n- For women’s wedding bands, a plain band can cost anywhere from $300 to $1,500 depending on the metal. Prices increase to between $1,000 to $6,000 for a band that’s larger, more intricate, or set with diamonds or other stones. The average price of a woman’s wedding ring is around __$1,400__. \n\n- A men’s wedding band can start as low as $100 for a plain titanium band, to over $2,000 for a platinum band, with the average price being around __$560__.\n\nIn general, rings made of platinum will always cost more due to the more expensive nature of the metal—but platinum rings will last forever without any required maintenance. White or yellow gold are less expensive options, with prices decreasing by the carat number (lower carat golds are less expensive than higher carat golds). However white gold will need to be rhodium-plated every few years as the metal wears down and turns yellow. Palladium is another great, low-cost alternative to white gold and platinum that is largely maintenance-free.\n\n## Elements of a Wedding Ring\nAfter reading these helpful descriptions about the different elements that go into the design of a wedding ring, you’ll be a ring connoisseur. \n\n### Wedding Band Width\nRing bands come in varying widths from thin to thick. Besides affecting the overall aesthetic of the ring, a band’s width may also affect its comfort level, since it determines the amount of space being covered on your finger. Try on rings in different widths to be sure you’re choosing the right width for your finger (and for your engagement ring, if you’ll be wearing the two together. Here is the breakdown for a band’s size based on width:\n- __Thin:__ 1-3mm\n- __Medium:__ 4-6mm\n- __Thick:__ 7-10mm\n\n### Wedding Band Profile\nThe profile of a wedding band describes the shape of both the inside and outside of the ring. While there are several profile options, some are more popular than others. All ring profiles will affect the comfort of the ring, as it directly affects how the ring will rest on your finger.\n\n- __Court:__ this profile is the most traditional shape, with rounded corners both on the inside and outside of the ring that produce a comfortable fit. \n- __D-Shape:__ a D-shape ring is flat on the inside and rounded on the outside. It’s also very comfortable where the ring sits on the finger, and is a second traditional option. \n- __Flat:__ exactly how it sounds, a flat profile is flat on all sides. A flat ring looks chunky and substantial, but can require some getting used to fit-wise. \n- __Flat Court:__ a edgy profile with a more comfortable fit, a flat court ring looks flat from the outside but has a rounded inner edge. \n- __Flat-Sided Court:__ a flat-sided court ring is exactly like it sounds: a court ring (rounded inside and out) with flat sides. The flat sides give the ring a less domed profile, and also make it a good choice to rest alongside an engagement ring.\n- __Halo:__ a halo profile creates a band that is perfectly spherical all the way around. It’s one of the older and more classical shapes, as it was the easiest to design and make back in the day.\n- __Concave:__ another aesthetic choice, a concave ring has a rounded interior and a concave exterior for a unique band appearance. \n\n### Wedding Band Finish\nFrom shiny to matte, a ring’s finish has less to do with comfort and more to do with looks. Here are some popular types of wedding band finishes: \n\n- __Mirror:__ a polished finish with a shiny, reflective surface\n- __Fine Matte:__ a non-reflective, misty finish that doesn’t show any texture; created by tiny scratches in the surface.\n- __Coarse Matte:__ a non-reflective finish with visible texture; created by deeper scratches and embellishment on the surface.\n- __Hammered:__ a textured finish where the metal has been “hammered” to look dented all over.\n- __Sandblast:__ a textured finish caused by high-pressure sandblasting, resulting in a grainy appearance.\n- __Stardust:__ a more subtly textured finish with mixed areas of partial polish and partial sandblasting for a sparkling effect.\n\n## Wedding Ring Styles\n\nIt’s impossible to put together an exhaustive list of wedding ring styles, because the options out there are practically limitless. From simple, unadorned bands to complex designs featuring diamonds, etching, and mixed metals, you can most likely find any wedding ring you can dream up in your imagination. Here are some general wedding ring style categories that might help you understand, and then narrow down, the possible choices to find the look that’s right for you. \n\n### Minimalist Wedding Ring\nMinimalist wedding rings are simple, often just plain bands with little to no adornment. More embellished minimalist rings might include a row of small diamonds, a twisted rope or a flat-edge design, or an interesting textural finish. Minimalist wedding bands are great as subtle accents to more statement-making engagement rings. \n\n### Diamond Wedding Ring\n[Diamond wedding rings](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ritani_womens_micropave_diamond_wedding_ring_14kwhitegold) include one or multiple diamonds in their design. See below for an explanation of different types of stone settings—each of these settings shapes the final look of the ring. From rows of tiny pavé diamonds to larger stones set within channels or bars, a diamond wedding band adds a touch of sparkle and luxury to your ring set. \n\n### Eternity Wedding Ring\nAn eternity band is a type of diamond wedding ring, but is distinctive in that the [diamonds encircle the entire band](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/edelweissjewelry_womens_diamond_eternity_band_18krosegold) instead of just being placed in the front half. Eternity bands can be expensive due to the number of stones required, but are beautiful statements of elegant symmetry. They are great choices for those who want to just wear a statement wedding band, rather than an engagement ring-band combo. \n\n### Enhancers Wedding Ring\nEnhancers are two separate (top and bottom) rings designed to curve around and, well, enhance an engagement ring. Enhancers can come in a variety of metals and colors, and frequently include additional diamonds or stones. Some brides choose to solder together their enhancers and engagement ring for one large, unified ring. \n\n### Matching Wedding Ring\nAs we’ve discussed, matching wedding rings are his-and-hers sets of bands that either complement or exactly mimic each other. You can match your partner’s band by metal, by color, or by stone—the style possibilities are as endless as the love commitment they represent.\n\n### Engraved Wedding Ring\nEngraved wedding rings include a touch of extra personalization in the form of your names, wedding date, and/or a short message engraved on the interior of the band. If having an engraved wedding ring is important to you and your partner, be sure you choose a ring style that can accommodate engraving, both in width and in material. \n\n## Types of Wedding Band Stone Settings\n\n### Channel Setting \nIn this setting, [gemstones sit side-by-side in a “channel”](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/nagijewelers_14k_gold_light_scoop_prong_diamond_wedding_band_.25_ctw_yellow) formed by a top and a bottom track of precious metal. The stones are flush with the ring’s exterior, rather than protruding out from it. \n\n### Pavé Setting\nPavé means “paved” in French, and this setting aims to “pave” the ring with tiny diamonds by setting them very closely together. The stones are secured with small beads or mini-prongs that are minimally visible. Pave settings [create abundant sparkle factor](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ritani_tapered_pave_wedding_ring_rosegold). \n\n### Micro-Pavé Setting\nThe same concept as pavé, but with even smaller stones. [Micro-pavé settings](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ritani_doublemicropave_wedding_ring_platinum) include stones that are smaller than 0.1 - 0.2 carats, which is the size usually used in pavé-set rings.\n\n### Bar Setting\nGemstones are separated by metal bars in this setting, which is most often seen in diamond wedding bands or other rings where the stones form a continuous circle around a large portion of the ring. \n\n### Shared Prong Setting\nDiamonds or other [gems placed side-by-side other share prongs](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/nagijewelers_14k_gold_deep_scoop_prong_diamond_wedding_band_1.00_ctw_yellow) in this setting. Shared prongs make sense for rings that contain a long row of adjacent stones, as less metal means room for more stones. \n\n### Flush Setting\nAlso known as a “gypsy” setting, the stone here is inset into a hole in the band so that it’s flush with the metal. A flush setting can look very modern, or more antique, depending on the metal and style, but either way this setting is great for protecting the stone.\n\n## Types of Wedding Band Materials\nChoosing the metal for your wedding ring is one of the biggest decisions you’ll have to make when it comes to buying wedding bands. The metal will affect not only how the ring looks, but how it wears, what kind of maintenance is required, and the price of the ring. Get a leg up on your wedding ring metal research with these helpful descriptions. \n\n### The Precious Metals\n- #### Yellow Gold\n [Yellow gold](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/markenewyork_mens_classic_matte_14k_gold_wedding_band_slim) is the warm-hued metal that’s associated with traditional wedding rings. Gold comes in different karat weights, which indicate its purity: the higher the karat weight, the more pure gold is present in comparison to other alloys, and the harder and more expensive it is. Gold is easy to repair and polish, but is also the most malleable precious metal. \n\n- #### White Gold\n White gold is yellow gold that’s been alloyed with palladium and silver to achieve a polished shine, and then plated with rhodium to provide a layer of protection and a bright, white appearance. Rhodium plating does wear after time, so if you want to keep a silvery sheen to your white gold ring, you’ll need to replate it every so often. \n\n- #### Platinum\n Platinum is the premier choice of precious metals for wedding rings. It’s the most rare, most lasting, and most durable—and also therefore the most expensive. It’s naturally white, bright color will never fade, and platinum is also hypoallergenic. \n\n- #### Palladium\n A member of the platinum family, [palladium has bright white sheen](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/christianbauer_palladium_18k_white_gold_brushed_wedding_band) that won’t fade and doesn’t scratch easily. It’s less dense than platinum (but still a pure alloy), meaning it’s a lightweight, durable option that’s much less expensive than platinum. \n\n- #### Silver\n Like yellow gold, silver is a long-standing precious metal used for making jewelry. It is less expensive than other precious metals, largely because it is softer and less durable. To improve its durability, pure silver is often rhodium-plated and/or mixed with sterling silver. Silver will also scratch and tarnish over time, so prepare to schedule regular maintenance. \n\n- #### Vermeil\n If you want the look of gold but the durability of sterling silver, vermeil is a great option. A vermeil ring is made of sterling silver that’s been plated with a thick layer of gold (anywhere from 10k to 18k in weight). Vermeil will hold up well for many years with proper care. \n\n### The Alternative Metals \n- #### Titanium\n Titanium has grown in popularity for wedding bands, especially for men, as it’s incredibly strong, durable, and lightweight. It has a slightly darker gray appearance rather than a bright-white sheen, and is also naturally hypoallergenic. While titanium can withstand many elements, including chlorine and salt water, it can scratch. \n\n- #### Cobalt Chrome\n Cobalt chrome is an alloy of [cobalt and chromium](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lashbrook_meteorite_cobalt_chrome_wedding_band), and its bright white color most closely resembles platinum or white gold. It’s a popular choice for those who work with their hands for a living, as it is more scratch-resistance than titanium and nearly as lightweight. \n\n- #### Tungsten Carbide\n Tungsten Carbide is one of the most popular alternative metals due to its scratch-resistance and affordability. It comes in a variety of shades, from white to gray to black, and is much heavier than other alternative metals. Yet as it’s exceptionally hard, tungsten rings can actually shatter if they are dropped or suffers a blow. \n\n- #### Zirconium\n Another durable, anti-corrosive option, zirconium is similar to titanium is strength, weight, and hypoallergenic qualities. It naturally has a grey/white luster, however when treated with heat, it forms a black, scratch-resistance coating. Known as black zirconium, [this distinctive black look](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lashbrook_zirconium_cross_satin_finish_wedding_band) (it can polished or left matte) has recently become very popular.\n\n- #### Steel\n Stainless steel is great for small budgets, as it offers durability and strength at a lower price point. It has a brighter sheen than titanium or zirconium, but isn’t quite as bright as palladium or platinum. Like many other alternative metals, it’s hypo-allergenic. \n\n- #### Silicone\n Silicone rings are gaining in popularity, as those with active lifestyles or hands-on work don’t want to risk damaging a traditional metal ring. Silicone is affordable, durable, comfortable, and can even be made to mimic the look of metal if you want to have a more classic wedding ring look. \n\n- #### Wood\n Whether inlaid in metal or made entirely out of wood, wooden wedding rings have a distinct appeal for their unique look, eco-friendliness, and affordability. They are good choices for those with metal allergies or those who work around heat or electricity. Since they’re easy to find in matching sets, some couples like the idea of exchanging wooden rings due to the symbolic strength, protection, and regeneration associated with trees. Of course, wood is much less durable than metal, so wooden rings will need to be kept dry and removed before activities that could cause damage or scratching. \n\n## What Hand Does The Wedding Ring Go On? \nWhile it might seem like a simple question with a simple answer, which hand the wedding ring goes on is actually a more complicated investigation than you might think. Like many good questions, the answer depends upon context and will change based upon when and where you’re putting on a wedding ring. \n\n### General American Custom\nIn the US, most women and men wear their wedding rings on the fourth finger of their left hand (aka the “ring finger”), due to a false but charming belief passed down from ancient Romans that there’s a vein running directly from the heart to this finger. Dubbed the vena amoris (“vein of love”), it only made sense that the wedding ring be placed on this lifeline as a symbol of enduring love and lifelong commitment. Modern medicine now tells us that this love vein doesn’t really exist, but the tradition has persisted. \n\nHowever in other European and South American countries such as Russia, Greece, Germany, and Colombia, men and women wear wedding rings on their right hand. Some same-sex couples also prefer to wear their rings on the right hand to set themselves slightly apart from heteronormative tradition. So really, whichever hand you prefer is fine! \n\n### What About The Engagement Ring? \nIn most Western countries, the engagement ring is also worn on the ring finger of the left hand. Yet brides (and even grooms) in other countries opt for wearing engagement rings on the right hand, or wear it on one hand during the engagement period and transfer it to the other after the wedding. \nSince both engagement and wedding rings are typically worn on the same finger in American culture, their order has been defined as wedding band on the bottom, engagement ring on top—so your wedding band is still closest to your heart (in our cultural imagination, at least). \n\n### During The Wedding Ceremony\nSince most wedding ceremonies contain a ring exchange in which the wedding rings are physically placed on each person’s left hand, you might wonder how this will work if you’re already wearing an engagement ring on this finger. You have a couple of options here, so choose whichever one works best for you: \n\n1. Move your engagement ring to your right hand for the duration of the ceremony, leaving your wedding ring finger free and clear. 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Find resources and expert advice on your journey to engagement from choosing the perfect ring to popping to question to photographing and announcing the proposal. We guide you step-by-step though the beginning of your forever!","subtopics":[{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Rings","slug":"rings"},"slug":"best-diamond-shape-for-your-finger","title":"The Best Diamond Shape & Size For Your Finger","excerpt":"Different diamonds look different on different fingers. The diamond experts at The Clear Cut share which diamond shapes look best on which finger sizes.","author":"McCall Minnor","publishedAt":"2019-12-26T15:52:16.629Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5ECvXhLPmPgOpov3xDS8WX/6546f0108bf3a0ca312f65037cce0c8b/Hero_Zola.jpg","altText":"best diamond shape for your finger type"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- A round brilliant cut will flatter most every finger shape, while long, thin fingers are better suited to elongated cuts.\n\n- People with chubby fingers find that oval and pear cuts suit them best.\n\n- Finally, if you have small fingers or hands, stick with a more delicate style that’s proportional to your anatomy.\n","body":"When it comes to shapes and styles, not all diamonds are created equal—and not all diamonds work equally well with every finger. You might be in love with your [best friend’s engagement](https://zola.app.link/01BPrmyN71) ring, but that same shape and style may not look the same when you try it on your own finger. It’s true: Different diamonds look different on different fingers. To help you find your perfect fit, we asked the diamond experts at [The Clear Cut](https://theclearcut.co/) to share how to find a diamond shape and style that works best with your ring finger. \n\n![INLINE ClearCut 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2ae4s50gqVHT9Vci2PuM2z/5dd9b34685d0dbae4639c773aa925f32/INLINE_ClearCut_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // The Clear Cut\n\n## What To Consider Before Choosing A Diamond Ring\nFirst things first—before we jump into the best diamond shapes and style for each finger type, let’s quickly go over some of the most important factors that go into choosing the right diamond ring for you.\n\nSome of the main criteria you’re going to want to consider when choosing the perfect diamond shape and style for your engagement ring include:\n\n### The Width and Length of Your Finger\nWhen choosing a diamond shape and style, you want to create a sense of balance and proportion on your finger—so the length, width, and overall size of your finger is going to dictate which diamonds are going to look balanced and proportionate.\n\n### The Size of the Stone\nThe size of a diamond is also going to play into how flattering a certain shape or style is going to look on your finger. As a rule of thumb, the larger the stone, the more noticeable any issues with balance, proportion, or unflattering shapes will be.\n\n### Your Personal Style\nIt doesn’t matter if a diamond shape or style “works” on your finger shape—if it doesn’t match your [personal style](https://zola.app.link/XXGCpJyN71), it’s not going to make you happy in the long run. Make sure you choose a diamond shape and style that feels like a reflection of your own personal taste—and that you’ll be happy rocking on your finger from now until forever.\n\n### Band Width\nNot only do the stones on your ring have a high impact, but the band. While material—silver, gold, white gold, rose gold, etc.—is important to consider, even more important is the width of the band. For example, if you have thinner fingers, a thicker band might overwhelm them. At the same time, if you prefer a ring with a lot of stones, a thin band might not be able to accommodate that. Also consider the style of wedding band you’d like to go with your engagement ring and how the widths of each band might look together.\n\n### Accent Gemstones\nPerhaps you’d like more than a singular diamond. Whether that means a ring design with a couple accent stones around the center stone or a band covered in pavé diamonds is up to your preference. Accent gemstones, too, can add a variety of shapes, styles, and uniqueness to a diamond ring. If that sounds like what you’re looking for, consider those that add color to a ring that’s diamond color is more classic. Also try those that add to the overall ring style.\n\n### Budget\nWe couldn’t talk about important deciding factors without discussing budget. While this isn’t the most exciting aspect of ring shopping, it’s paramount to think over before setting your heart on something. Set a realistic budget range for yourself and be transparent about it with any jewelers and/or sellers. If a proposal isn’t a total surprise, consider having an open conversation about budget and expectations with your partner.\n\n## Best Diamond Shape For Each Finger Type\nAs we said, different diamonds look different on different fingers and hands. Here’s how to figure out what diamond will best suit your finger.\n\n### A Universally Flattering Diamond That Looks Good On Every Finger\nA round brilliant is one of the most classic diamond shapes on the market. And it’s a classic for a reason. This diamond holds a lot of its weight at the top, which takes up a lot of real estate on your ring finger. Plus, because of the round diamond shape, you get a balanced look that will work on a variety of finger shapes and [sizes](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-ring-size-guide).\n\nWhile there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to choosing the right diamond shape/style, if you want a diamond that’s going to be [universally flattering](https://zola.app.link/vi2RlmyN71), the round brilliant is a solid choice.\n\n### For Long And Thin Fingers\nIf you have long, thin fingers, you’re going to want to choose a diamond shape that compliments your finger length. So, elongated diamonds are a fantastic choice.\n\nLuckily, there are a ton of different styles out there to choose from. A naturally elongated diamond shape, like an oval, pear, or marquise cut, will look gorgeous on your finger, as will an elongated radiant or an emerald cut. Just remember, if you have long fingers, you want your diamond to have a more elongated appearance to match. Moreover, solitaire rings (those with a single diamond on a band) can also look beautiful, as they won’t overwhelm your finger.\n\n__What to Avoid:__ Anything too square-shaped or princess cut. More square-shaped diamonds like a standard (not elongated) emerald or radiant cut aren’t always the most flattering on long, thin fingers. The shape can actually make your fingers look longer (and your ring can look disproportionate on your finger).\n\n### For Stout Fingers\nIf your fingers are on the thicker side, going with a more delicate diamond shape or style can actually make them look wider. Instead, look for a stone that’s going to really make a statement and take up a lot of real estate on your finger—like an oval or pear-shaped diamond.\n\n__What to Avoid:__ Narrow diamonds. You want a stone that’s going to fill out the width of your finger. If you have your heart set on a [narrower cut](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-different-diamond-cut-options), you can add side stones to create width and add a sense of balance.\n\n### For Small Fingers\nIf you have small hands, you have a serious benefit when shopping for engagement rings; everything is going to look bigger on your small fingers.\n\nOn the flip side, going with a diamond shape or style that’s overly big or bold can have the opposite effect, looking too over-the-top on your tiny finger. If your hands are noticeably small, make sure to stick to a more delicate style (such as a round cut, oval cut, or pear cut) that looks proportionate on your finger. On the other hand, opposing styles—such as elongated radiant cuts and emerald cuts—can look too harsh or overwhelming.\n\n__What to Avoid:__ Huge diamonds. As mentioned, any diamond you put on a small finger is going to look larger than it would on a bigger finger. So, oversized diamonds can look almost cartoonishly disproportionate on someone with extremely small hands.\n\n## Choosing The Perfect Diamond Carat Size\nFor those who don’t know, a carat is a unit of measurement in regards to a diamond’s (or gemstone’s) physical weight. Note that carat weight is just that—a stone’s weight, not the size of the diamond. Jewelers, gemologists, and similar ring and stone sellers will use diamond carat size in the description of diamond engagement rings in order to describe how heavy one’s cut diamond is. This weight will be the same across natural diamonds and lab grown diamonds, as their physical and chemical makeup is the same.\n\nFor reference, a half carat diamond weighs .1 grams, a 1 carat diamond weights .2 grams, a 2 carat diamond weights .4 grams, and so on and so forth. Pro tip: Diamond rings that don’t have a neat carat weight (such as a half carat, one carat, two carat, etc.) can sometimes cost less than those that do, despite being unnoticeable to the naked eye. When discussing stones, ring sizes, and the like with a jeweler, feel free to ask about carat sizes and to see those of similar weights.\n\nThese are some suggestions on which diamond cuts, shapes, and styles tend to work best with different finger types. Take the above information into consideration when figuring out how to choose a diamond shape, size, and style for your [engagement ring](https://zola.app.link/6iNeuzyN71).\n\nRemember, though, these are just suggestions. You’re the one (or your partner’s the one) who’s going to be wearing your ring every day, so ultimately, it’s up to you to get out there and find the diamond that feels perfect for you.\n\nFor more information regarding carat size (because we know it can be tricky), check out our [Ultimate Diamond Carat Size Guide](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-ultimate-diamond-carat-size-guide).","body2":"### If you have long, thin fingers, try an elongated diamond.\nIf you have long, thin fingers, you’re going to want to choose a diamond shape that compliments your finger length. So, elongated diamonds are a fantastic choice.\n\nLuckily, there are a ton of different styles out there to choose from. A naturally elongated diamond shape, like an oval or pear cut, will look gorgeous on your finger, as will an elongated radiant or an emerald cut. Just remember, if you have long fingers, you want your diamond to have a more elongated appearance to match. \n\n__What to Avoid:__ Anything too square-shaped. More square-shaped diamonds like a standard (not elongated) emerald or radiant cut aren’t always the most flattering on long, thin fingers. The shape can actually make your fingers look longer (and your ring can look disproportionate on your finger).\n\n### If you have stout fingers, try an oval or pear shape.\nIf your fingers are on the thicker side, going with a more delicate diamond shape or style can actually make them look wider. Instead, look for a stone that’s going to really make a statement and take up a lot of real estate on your finger—like an oval or pear-shaped diamond.\n\n__What to Avoid:__ Narrow diamonds. You want a stone that’s going to fill out the width of your finger. If you have your heart set on a narrower cut, you can add side stones to create width and add a sense of balance.\n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720 (10)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6HVbmW4UNMQkSp3HC0m9kz/d300c0aead944ea5c6ce4f95cec62db5/INLINE_Unsplash_1080x720__10_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### If you have small fingers, try to stick to a more delicate style\nIf you have small hands, you have a serious benefit when shopping for engagement rings; everything is going to look bigger on your small fingers.\n\nOn the flip side, going with a diamond shape or style that’s overly big or bold can have the opposite effect, looking too over-the-top on your tiny finger. If your hands are noticeably small, make sure to stick to a more delicate style that looks proportionate on your finger.\n\n__What to Avoid:__ Huge diamonds. As mentioned, any diamond you put on a small finger is going to look larger than it would on a bigger finger. So, oversized diamonds can look almost cartoonishly disproportionate on someone with extremely small hands.\n\nThese are some suggestions on which diamond cuts, shapes, and styles tend to work best with different finger types. Take these into consideration when figuring out how to choose a diamond shape for your [engagement ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring). \n\nRemember, though, these are just suggestions. You’re the one who’s going to be wearing your ring every day, so ultimately, it’s up to you to get out there and find the diamond that feels perfect for you. ","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Unlock 50 unique engagement party ideas. You'll find ideas you've never thought of and something for every couple. 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Here’s What To Do Next!","slug":"to-dos-after-you-get-engaged","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6KWedC7RqcjzNqK8zy0LoU/286c6acfc830a30a9ac4d274ebf14501/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"Illustration graphic of an engagement ring box with a wedding ring and shine marks to indicate sparkle"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Got questions on how to finance an engagement ring? Our experts can help. Read on to find out now.","title":"How to Finance an Engagement Ring","slug":"how-to-finance-an-engagement-ring","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/ly1YKAgHTRF8cAIPdJ8yX/2b696d93ce89053fd3177a4fe5136cc4/hero_unsplash.jpg","altText":"couple admiring engagement rings"},"type":"articlePage"}],"featured":[{"excerpt":"You're engaged! Now it's time to tell people. Here are the best ways to make an engagement announcement that works for you. 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Here are nine tips for how to deal without hurting your partner's feelings.\n","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2019-09-12T14:48:09.060Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/MS3dyElvqDAW4HZGjlULM/4cd4f592a1faaf3f23b1a68d2f74a294/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"woman hugs partner after engagement "},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"You probably thought a bit about how someone might propose to you before it ever happened. It’s exciting to imagine where and how it might happen—and what the ring might look like. We’re human! So what happens when your partner proposes, pulls out a ring, and… record scratch… you don’t love this unconditional gift? Don’t panic. Before you allow this to ruin your excitement, know that you still have options. Here’s what to do if you don’t like your [engagement ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring).\n\n## Give it some time.\nSo, it wasn’t love at first sight between you and the ring. That doesn’t mean it won’t grow on you. As unlikely as it sounds, when given some time, many begin to love their rings. First impressions can be deceiving with conditional gifts, so allow the shock to subside and sleep on it. Then wear it around for a few days. Pair it with your other __[jewelry](https://zola.app.link/oF4C3jyN71)__, ask your spouse why they chose it, and just live with it for a moment. You may find—especially if you don’t wear jewelry often—that you start to fall for it.\n\n![INLINE SteveCowellPhoto 1080x720 Jeff&Lauren](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7qynD26ddyPPULUAkOUEmD/66f1cd8a2f3edd829eb12c720e957db5/INLINE_SteveCowellPhoto_1080x720_Jeff_Lauren.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Steve Cowell Photo\n\n## Talk to your partner.\nAt the same time, don’t allow any negative feelings to linger. Avoid any possible brewing resentment by being honest with your partner. Open communication is a cornerstone of any marriage, even in the face of a difficult conversation. Simply be truthful and kind. Gently and tactfully let them know how you feel and say you’re open to discussing affordable options or compromises. In case you’re stuck, start with something like:\n\n*“[Name], I’m so excited to be marrying you, and I want to be honest with you about something that’s been on my mind. An engagement ring is something I’ve been excited about for a long time and I want to be happy with it forever.”*\n\nAlso, try not to feel guilty. We know, easier said than done. But at the same time: Yes, you dislike your engagement ring. No, you’re not an awful person. When all is said and done, both you and your partner just want to be excited about being together. A small hurdle in the process won’t change that.\n\n## Modify or personalize your engagement ring.\nWith some thought, some modifications might be all you need. Tweaking some details without trading out the entire ring is a creative, cost-effective solution. Examine what you like and dislike about it currently (such as the band, shape, or center stone). Then ask your jeweler if certain changes can be made. That way, you can maintain the parts you and your spouse love and update any you aren’t crazy about. Turn it into a creative project between the two of you.\n\nThis is also a potential solution for family heirlooms. If you’re inheriting a ring and would like for it to feel more you, broach the subject of adding some personalizations. This could mean resetting the stone, adding or removing side stones, or similar. Although, if you and your spouse plan on doing this, discuss it with the person who gave it to you, if possible. This keeps appreciation and respect at the forefront of the conversation and makes it less likely to feel offensive. \n\n## Don’t make size the issue.\nIf you don’t like your ring because you truthfully wish the stone was bigger, tread lightly. Telling your partner that the ring isn’t big enough could come across as ‘this isn’t expensive enough.’ Don’t make your partner feel like they couldn’t afford what you wanted or expected—especially considering they likely purchased the best they could for you. \n\nAsk yourself if it’s something else you don’t like, such as the material, type of stone, shape, or overall style. If it’s really about the stone size, though, keep your distaste quiet. You can always save up once you’re both more established and potentially get a bigger stone for an anniversary. This isn’t something to upset or concern your partner with.\n\n![INLINE Unsplash)1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6C7TBdMaFUTzHhoGO78zHj/bd0cb888a005203f933f7f151457523e/INLINE_Unsplash_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Be considerate of budget.\nIf you do plan to modify or get a new ring, be considerate of your partner’s __[budget](https://zola.app.link/8WoDoDyN71)__. Perhaps they can’t afford to get you your dream ring at the moment. That doesn’t mean they love you any less—or that you’re doomed to wear a ring you don’t adore. Be honest with yourself about whether or not this is a big deal and if you’re willing to compromise. Remember, this may feel paramount at the moment, but it’s far from the most important aspect of getting married. When suggesting alternatives to your spouse, ask that you’re both transparent about the expense and expectations.\n\n## Turn your attention to your wedding band.\nWhether you’ve chosen to keep your ring or just can’t bear to bring it up, all hope isn’t lost. You still have a chance to embellish it with the wedding band of your dreams. Adding your band may even change the way you feel about your [engagement ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring) entirely. For example, if you feel it’s lacking in a certain stylistic element (sparkle? gemstones?), make it present in your band. The addition just might turn the combination into a duo you adore.\n\n## Know the legalities of the ring for broken engagements.\nOne pressing question many couples have is what are the legal ramifications and rules about giving a carat engagement ring back. Can you get a full refund? Does the date of purchase matter? Is it ok to offer the ring up for resale or take it to a pawn shop? The reality is that each state has its own rules on what you can do with an engagement ring, so check with your state law. \n\nHowever, the first place you should start is by checking the return policy of the retailer’s store where the wedding ring was originally purchased. Even if you can’t return the ring — especially if you’ve gone beyond their days of purchase — they may have an exchange policy. That way, you can get another piece with the same value of the ring. If you purchased your diamond engagement ring on sale, the piece of jewelry may be more difficult to return, or you may be unable to exchange the original ring. \n\n## Can you return engagement ring?\nIn the end, you may decide to trade in your current ring for something different. That’s OK! After all, it’s an expensive item you’ll rarely remove. If your significant other purchased the ring from a jewelry store, you should be able to return or exchange it within a given time frame. That is, it’s in its original condition—so be mindful of it while contemplating. Also keep in mind that policies differ from store to store. Some require a restocking fee, while others only allow exchanges. Ask your jeweler about your options.\n\nIf neither is possible—say, your ring was custom-made—you can still try and sell it. We recommend that all custom rings get approval before they’re purchased, but realize that that’s not always the case. You should be able to set a reasonable price if it’s in mint condition. Just be sure to handle the situation delicately and be aware that it could be difficult to resell. Then, once you’ve been able to return, exchange, or sell, make an afternoon of trying on rings together with your partner. Turn the situation positive and learn more about each other’s style.\n\n## Are pawn shops an option?\nAlthough you won’t get the original purchase price for your piece, you can take your ring to a pawn shop. You’ll need to have your ring in-store so that the shop can place a value on your ring and offer you a price. Ebay and other resale sites are also an option. However, be sure to have the GIA paperwork to validate the piece.\n\nFast forward: You’ve discussed things and taken the steps you need to. Now do your best to swiftly move on. Don’t dwell—your engagement is to be enjoyed. Instead, move forward with the fun parts of wedding planning (like __[food tastings](https://zola.app.link/0iNeuzyN71)__ and __[honeymoon arrangements](https://zola.app.link/eHihVjjt52)__).","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Need inspiration for your wedding hashtag? Here's a complete guide to designing a wedding hashtag perfect for your big day.","title":"9 Easy Ways to Create Your Wedding Hashtag","slug":"9-easy-ways-to-create-your-wedding-hashtag","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/23UVWEQPhMa4e3bqlKEXQj/30624e2537f56014b66d9109d45a464f/Hero_New__1_.jpg","altText":"couple with wedding hashtag"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"You're engaged! Now it's time to tell people. Here are the best ways to make an engagement announcement that works for you. 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Plus, tips for keeping your engagement ring like new.","author":"Deanna deBara","publishedAt":"2019-12-26T16:54:49.731Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1EkyCSqm040daFYaobOyaH/00c105e08f44c0785713e860c896e31e/Hero_Zola__1_.jpg","altText":"where you can wear your engagment rings"},"heroCredit":"Zola","body":"After you get engaged, chances are, you’re going to want to rock that [engagement ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring) anywhere and everywhere you go. While there are plenty of places you can (and should) wear your bling, there are also some places where wearing your ring is a no-no if you want to keep it clean, safe, and sparkly. Let’s make this easy. The diamond experts at [The Clear Cut](https://theclearcut.co/) helped us outline where you can wear your engagement ring and where you can’t wear your engagement ring.\n\n\n\n## You CAN wear your engagement ring during your normal day-to-day activities.\nYour engagement ring is a symbol of your commitment and upcoming marriage to your partner, so it makes total sense that you’re going to want to wear it as often as possible.\n\nAnd the good news? For most of your normal, day-to-day activities, you can absolutely rock your bling. Going to work? Wear your engagement ring. Swinging by the grocery store? Wear your engagement ring. Meeting friends for dinner? Wear your engagement ring.\n\n## You CAN’T wear your engagement ring to bed.\nThere is, however, one place you go every day that you shouldn’t wear your wedding ring—and that’s to bed. \n\nSome people experience slight swelling in the hands overnight—and if your fingers swell while you sleep, it can not only feel uncomfortable, but it can make it harder to get your ring off in the morning. Plus, your ring can get snagged on your sheets, your blanket, your pajamas. It’s just not fun. \n\nWearing your engagement ring to bed could also put you at risk for injury. Diamonds can be sharp—and you don’t want to wake up in the middle of the night after scratching your face with your engagement ring.\n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7s96MB8mHAFphDMS9SC5oz/fb8ccde13dbf105e316715aa5372f11a/INLINE_Unsplash__1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## You CAN wear your engagement ring while tidying up—as long as you avoid harsh cleaning products. \nThere’s no need to take off your wedding ring for household chores like sweeping, laundry, or making the bed. There is, however, one exception to that rule—and that’s if you’re tackling any deep cleaning where you’ll be using harsh cleaning products that could damage your ring. \n\nIf you’re cleaning includes bleach, ammonia, or any other harsh chemicals, do yourself (and your diamond) a favor and take your engagement ring off beforehand.\n\n## You CAN’T wear your engagement ring in the shower.\nA shower is great for keeping you clean—but your ring? Not so much. All the products you use to clean your face, hair, and body can latch onto your diamond, creating a film that makes it look cloudy, dull, and all-around dirty. \n\nNot to mention that you don’t want your ring to slip off your finger and down the drain. Anyone who’s seen Apollo 13 knows that. So, don’t wear your ring in the shower and wait to put it back on until all your after-shower grooming activities (like slathering on lotion) are complete.\n\n## You CAN wear your engagement ring when you travel…\nIf you want to keep your ring on your finger during your travels (whether that’s on [your honeymoon](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/when-should-we-go-honeymoon), your [bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pack-for-a-bachelorette-party), or any other upcoming trips), there’s no reason you can’t. \n\nJust make sure to take the proper steps to keep your ring safe, like bringing along a ring stand to securely hold your ring while you sleep and never, ever leaving your ring unattended in a hotel room or vacation rental property.\n\nYou also shouldn’t travel with your engagement ring unless it’s insured. Read more about [engagement ring insurance here](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/reasons-to-insure-engagement-ring).\n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4POaDqNGbqYuOSQZDlNnUS/982c2bfdee2974ee70efc02f4e3838bb/INLINE_Unsplash_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## ...but you CAN’T wear it to the beach.\nOne travel destination that’s not the best fit for your engagement ring? The beach. Taking care of your skin at the beach means a lot of sunscreen. All that sunscreen will leave your diamond looking cloudy and dirty (and it’s also a pain in the neck to clean!). \n\nPlus, the ocean can spell disaster for your ring. Not only will the sand and saltwater quickly dirty up your ring, but your fingers actually get slightly smaller when you swim, and it goes without saying that losing your engagement ring in the ocean? Not exactly a day at the beach.\n\n## Engagement Ring Care Tips: How to Clean Your Ring at Home\n\n\n\nNo matter where you do or don’t wear your engagement ring, you always want to keep your bling as safe and sparkly as possible. Here are a few tips to keep it that way:\n\n- __Get your engagement ring insured.__ It doesn’t matter how careful you are or where you do/don’t wear your ring. Things happen, and you want to [make sure you’re insured](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/reasons-to-insure-engagement-ring) and covered should your ring gets lost, stolen, or damaged. \n- __Diamond looking dull? Clean up your ring at home.__ Wearing your ring certain places (like in the shower) can leave it looking dull. Get it back to sparkling with a [simple at-home engagement ring cleaning](https://theclearcut.co/blogs/clear-cut-classroom/cleaning-and-caring-for-your-engagement-ring). Fill a bowl with warm water and a few drops of Dawn dish soap and let your ring soak for a few minutes. Remove the engagement ring from the bowl, scrub with a soft-bristled toothbrush, and rinse off the excess soap with warm water (just make sure your sink drain is covered). Dry with a soft cloth or paper towel, and your ring will shine like new.\n- __When in doubt, wear a stand-in ring.__ If you’re going somewhere that makes you feel uneasy about wearing your wedding ring, it’s always better to be safe than sorry. When in doubt, leave your ring in a safe, secure place at home and wear a stand-in ring. You can get a cute silicone version for less than $10.\n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Unlock 50 unique engagement party ideas. You'll find ideas you've never thought of and something for every couple. 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Here’s What To Do Next!","slug":"to-dos-after-you-get-engaged","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6KWedC7RqcjzNqK8zy0LoU/286c6acfc830a30a9ac4d274ebf14501/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"Illustration graphic of an engagement ring box with a wedding ring and shine marks to indicate sparkle"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Different diamonds look different on different fingers. The diamond experts at The Clear Cut share which diamond shapes look best on which finger sizes.","title":"The Best Diamond Shape & Size For Your Finger","slug":"best-diamond-shape-for-your-finger","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5ECvXhLPmPgOpov3xDS8WX/6546f0108bf3a0ca312f65037cce0c8b/Hero_Zola.jpg","altText":"best diamond shape for your finger type"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"You're engaged! Now it's time to tell people. 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Considerations & Tips","excerpt":"How much you spend on a wedding ring will vary based on factors like diamond quality, material, and design complexity.","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2021-02-02T18:56:58.042Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7pErKRfOhRjuIBXrvUlyJo/0af59a23955abd6a5e2e9c17e462d689/Hero_Zola__22_.jpg","altText":"How Much to Spend on a Wedding Ring"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\nJump right into the wedding ring content here:\n- How Much To Spend On Wedding Rings: What To Consider\n- Determine Your Budget\n- What Style Of Wedding Ring Do You Want?\n- Consider Your Lifestyle, and Style of Your Engagement Ring\n- To Match or Not to Match\n- How To Save Money Buying Wedding Rings?","body":"Getting married is one of the biggest moments of your and your partner’s lives. You want the moment to be special and memorable for the both of you. But before saying “I do,” you’ll need to buy a wedding ring. So, how much should you spend?\n\n## How Much To Spend On Wedding Rings: What To Consider\n\nWhen it comes to how much to spend on a wedding ring, there's no one-size-fits-all solution (pun intended!). How much you spend will depend on a variety of factors, including:\n\n- __Your current financial situation.__ Your current financial situation will, in large part, dictate how much you should spend on wedding rings. Are you swimming in student loans and credit card debt? If so, going into further debt for an expensive ring probably isn't the best financial decision. As a good rule of thumb, if a ring's price tag would make it challenging to cover your current bills, it's too expensive—and you should look for something more affordable.\n- __How much you're willing to spend.__ As mentioned, there's no \"right\" amount to spend on a wedding ring—so how much you spend will depend on how much you're willing to spend. Some people default to the \"three month salary rule\"—while others wouldn't dream of dropping a few month's salary on a wedding ring. Ultimately, you have to decide what kind of ring budget you're comfortable with—and spend accordingly.\n- __Where you're shopping.__ Some retailers are more expensive than others—and if you want to go to a higher end retailer to shop for your wedding ring, you should expect to pay more than if you went to a local jeweler or shopped at more affordable jewelry stores or online retailers. \n- __What kind of ring you're shopping for.__ The kind of ring you're shopping for will play a major role in how much you end up spending. For example, more intricate rings (complete with diamonds and gemstones, like emeralds or rubies) will be more expensive than a simple band.\n- __The 4 C's.__ If you do go for a diamond ring, the 4 C's of diamonds—cut, color, clarity, and carat—will determine how much you ultimately pay. (For example, a 2 carat diamond is going to cost more than a 1 carat diamond—and a yellow diamond will typically cost more than a non-colored stone). \nNow that you know the different factors that come into play, let's jump into the actual steps to take when determining how much you should spend on a wedding ring for your soon-to-be spouse:\n\n## Determine Your Budget\n\nHow much money you should spend on your wedding ring depends on a lot of factors, including your style and budget.\n\nBefore you go shopping for a wedding ring, have an honest conversation with your partner about how much you’re both comfortable spending. If your significant other is planning to spend $500 on a simple band, but you’re looking at $1,500 rings, it's best to get on the same page before you go ring shopping.\n\nA budget will also help you understand what you can afford, and what [style of wedding ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/popular-wedding-ring-styles-for-2021) you should look for. Plain wedding bands can cost anywhere between [$250](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ritani_womens_classic_thin_knifeedge_wedding_ring_18krosegold) to $1,500 for women, depending on the metal. Bands that are larger, more intricate, or have diamonds (or other stones), can jump to anywhere between $1,000 to $6,000. This puts the average woman’s wedding ring cost at around $1,400 (which, while definitely less than average engagement ring prices, is still on the pricey side).\n\n[Men’s wedding bands](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pair-wedding-band-with-engagement-ring) can start at [$140](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/manlybands_the_grizzly_wedding_ring) for a tungsten band, hit well over $2,000 for a platinum band, or fall somewhere in the middle (like this [Men's Meteorite & Cobalt Chrome Wedding Band](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lashbrook_meteorite_cobalt_chrome_wedding_band)). The average cost for a man’s wedding band is around $560.\n\n## What Style of Wedding Ring Do You Want?\n\n![How Much to Spend on a Wedding Ring](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1lptiUIcRzE6faf9Fs5jhf/1c6f8aad16d50ec65ff5478530c36ce3/inline_Laura_Segall_Photography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Laura Segall Photography\n\nOnce you've locked in your budget, it's time to figure out how you want to spend that budget—and what type of wedding ring you actually want.\n\nMaterial and the wedding band’s weight will largely determine its cost. Yellow gold, white gold, and rose gold are less expensive than rings made of platinum, which is the most expensive metal.\n\nThe cost of white, yellow, or rose gold rings will depend on how many karats they are; the more karats, the more expensive it will be. However, it’s important to keep in mind that white gold needs to be rhodium-plated every few years, as it will eventually yellow.\n\nFor budget-conscious couples, tungsten is a more affordable option and is a very strong and scratch-resistant metal. Wood, ceramic, and silicone are also popular for their unique style, and they are [typically less expensive](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pair-wedding-band-with-engagement-ring)—especially silicone, which only costs around [$30](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/qalo_mens_classic_forged_silicone_ring?_branch_match_id=660637628017867376) per ring. \n\nYour wedding ring’s width will also play a factor in how much it costs. A thin band is one to three millimeters, a medium band is four to six millimeters, and a thick band ranges from seven to 10 millimeters. The thicker the band, the more material is needed, thus increasing the cost. \n\nIf you’re going to get a wedding ring that has some bling, expect to open your checkbook a bit more. Again, for wedding rings with diamonds (like this [Women's Baguette Diamond Eternity Band](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/edelweissjewelry_womens_baguette_diamond_eternity_band_18krosegold)), prices are based on the “[four Cs](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-ultimate-diamond-carat-size-guide)” of the diamonds: cut, carat, color, and clarity. The four Cs apply to both natural and lab-grown diamonds and are used collectively to rate the overall diamond quality.\n\nWedding rings with diamonds that are highly rated (think clear diamonds, expensive cuts, etc.) are going to cost more than a ring with lower-quality stones. You may also prefer pre-owned or vintage wedding rings—and the prices of these unique pieces can greatly vary.\n\n## Consider Your Lifestyle, and Style of Your Engagement Ring\n\nHow much you should spend on a wedding ring will also depend on your lifestyle and the type of work you do. If you’re a personal trainer, for example, and you’re used to lifting heavy weights, you’ll want a flatter wedding ring, as opposed to a raised one that could easily get scratched or dented. Your lifestyle will help you determine what type of material you need, too: Gold is more malleable, whereas platinum is more durable.\n\nFor people who also wear engagement rings, you want your wedding ring to match, or at least compliment its style. Some people opt to have their wedding ring made by the same jeweler who designed their engagement ring so that they are the same material and aesthetic. This is also a popular option for people who have uniquely shaped diamond engagement rings, and who want their wedding band to fit within its curves—also known as “enhancers.”\n\n### To Match or Not to Match\n\nDo you and your partner want your wedding rings to match? Some couples want their wedding bands to match one another, while others are OK with having different designs. If you’re going the matching route, you may be able to score a better price from a jeweler if they offer discounts for purchasing more than one wedding band—it never hurts to ask.\n\nIf you don’t want your wedding ring to match your partner’s, you’ll still need to consider how much both rings will cost in total. Because both people will exchange rings at your ceremony, you should factor in that cost when determining your total wedding budget. Wedding rings are an expense that couples often overlook when it comes to wedding planning [budgeting](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/planning-101/budgeting). \n\n![How Much to Spend on a Wedding Ring](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/crUesLMcsImL7wpu5rxV5/48cbf1bad9029eeadcdd2ddd80008416/inline_Viera_Photographics.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Viera Photography\n\n## How To Save Money Buying Wedding Rings?\n\nWant to find the perfect ring—without breaking the bank? Here are some tips on how to [save money on wedding rings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-find-an-affordable-wedding-ring):\n\n- __Go smaller.__ If you want a wedding ring with that comes decked out in precious stones, consider going with a smaller gemstone or diamond size. The smaller the stone, the more affordable the ring will be—and the more money you'll save.\n- __Buy at the right time.__ Jewelry retailers are just like any other type of store; at some point, they're going to have a sale—and if you wait to buy your ring until that sale hits, you can seriously save on your purchase. If you know where you want to shop for your ring, get on their mailing list—and be ready to shop when you get word of an upcoming sale.\n- __Look for family heirlooms.__ Often, wedding rings are passed down from family member to family member. And if someone in you or your partner's family has a wedding ring they'd like to pass down, not only does it eliminate the cost of the ring, but it also adds a special family sentiment to the ring—and that's priceless.\n- __Go thrifting.__ Buying a brand new ring can be pricey. But there are plenty of high-quality, pre-owned rings out there with a much lower price tag; all you have to do is find them. During the ring shopping process, make sure to hit up thrift stores, vintage shops, and online reselling platforms. While you'll probably have to do some more digging to find what you're looking for, you could stumble upon a unique ring that you couldn't find in any regular store—at a much more affordable price point. It's a win-win!\n\n### So, what's the verdict? How much money should you spend on your wedding rings?\n\nSo, bottom line: when it comes to shopping for wedding rings, just how much should you spend?\n\nAnd the answer is—it completely depends.\n\nAt the end of the day, there is no right or wrong amount of money to spend on your dream ring. It’s a largely personal choice that will depend on many factors, including your budget, lifestyle, and personal style preferences. Whether you spend a reasonable amount or a lot, you and your partner need to be on the same page when it comes to wedding ring costs. You want your wedding ring to last you your entire life—not break the bank before you even put it on. So budget accordingly!","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Diamond experts share all the places you can wear your engagement ring and where you shouldn't wear your ring. 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We've got the answers.","title":"Is Engagement Ring Insurance Worth It?","slug":"reasons-to-insure-engagement-ring","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5lyFfo152e8WTcYhXSnlSs/71acdab1d21c284a4ad4246fbdebded5/daria-kopylova-PFORcnF1JqY-unsplash.jpg","altText":"Close up of female hand with engagement ring holding male hand across her chest"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Want to know the difference between a protection plan and jewelry insurance? Learn what coverage is right for you to keep your wedding rings and other jewelry safe and secure. ","title":"Specialty Jewelry Insurance Vs. Protection Plans: What Do I Need?","slug":"specialty-jewelry-insurance-vs-protection-plans","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/AuBNwQenNb5IOCOzbGJTV/36112de80617cfa447a7e47fdbf08e0d/Specialty-Jewelry-Insurance-Vs-Protection-Plans-What-Do-I-Need.jpg","altText":"wedding ring insurance "},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"New to the world of wedding ring shopping? Find out everything you need to know with our diamond carat size guide from Zola. ","title":"The Ultimate Diamond Carat Size Guide","slug":"the-ultimate-diamond-carat-size-guide","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6ZHcBgTX0FDzoM78hum6te/0bdb61d69aa75660e339dbc6d9831a99/hero_unsplash.jpg","altText":"ruler to measure rings"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:15.338Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Rings","slug":"rings"},"slug":"how-to-find-an-affordable-wedding-ring","title":"How to Find an Affordable Wedding Ring? and 5 Affordable Wedding Sets","excerpt":"Looking for ways to save and spend smarter on your wedding rings? Look no further than our complete guide on finding affordable wedding rings.","publishedAt":"2020-11-04T17:39:43.698Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/mB01yUbJRNJr9VdEgjkGu/9530215ea1e16c721bc04d1812dd6dc8/hero_unsplash.jpg","altText":"black and white photo of wedding ring on hand"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Whoever came up with “first comes love, then comes marriage” missed a few steps along the way. Between those initial butterflies and a lifetime together are a lot of things, especially expensive things, one of which being the engagement ring. For most couples, finding a proposal-worthy piece tops the list, and there are __[affordable wedding rings](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-rings?sort=PRICE_ASCENDING)__ out there. With a bit of knowledge and creative thinking, you should be able to get your wedding jewelry for a song. Consider some of the below factors when planning to buy rings and also a few cheaper options for rings further down before you commit to buying what is possibly the most important jewelry commitment you’ll be making at that time.\n\n### How to Find an Affordable Wedding Ring? \n\n## 1. Save Up for a Sale\n\nBargain hunters unite! With a bit of planning, you can scope out jewelry stores for the timing of their annual clearance sales. Often, __[wedding rings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-rings)__ are overstocked or have been there a while. You may get a stunner wedding band or ring for a steal. Another option is to limit yourself to searching the store’s markdown section to find a quality diamond ring at a bargain price. You will probably find a good sale as one wedding season closes and turns to the next and some styles become less fashionable. You might also find a good sale during the holidays and can benefit from that steal, holding on to the ring until the actual big day.\n\n![How to Find an Affordable Wedding Ring](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/68KBz6X4CZp6Jqw2hOYO0V/93fe292973dcb0a9be0afbcc6e1ca99b/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n## 2. Look for Used Jewelry \nLocal, reputable pawn shops often have a plethora of discarded engagement rings. Make someone else’s loss your gain and scour cases for the perfect fit. Another option when shopping for an affordable engagement ring is to head to the estate section of your local jewelry store. There are often one-of-a-kind and vintage rings that you can get for a fraction of the cost of a new piece. Hunt for a cushion cut, marquise, or 925 sterling silver options too. \n\nYou can also find an affordable wedding ring at antique shops and via seller sites, such as Craigslist and Facebook Marketplace, but be wary. Ensure that the seller has the receipt or paperwork for the ring to ensure that you’re getting what you pay for. Also, see if your family has any remaining pieces in their jewelry stash. Using an heirloom can make proposing that much more special. You can also make a custom piece if you feel the heirloom design is outdated – just make sure you give the jewelry designer enough material to work with and a reference image for the look and feel you are going for as well as the right ring circumference for comfort fit.\n\n## 3. Consider Custom Engagement Rings\n\nNowadays, the word “custom” can come with a hefty price tag. However, that may not always be the case when hiring a jewelry designer. An artist can work __[within your price range](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-finance-an-engagement-ring)__ and offer a variety of options to fit within your budget and __[engagement ring style](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-rings)__. Plus, it’s a huge bonus to be able to get an affordable, one-of-a-kind piece. \n\nSuppose you have an heirloom diamond, or a discarded ring made of precious metal, that’s even better! Alloys can be melted, and gemstones added to create custom engagement rings. Using what you already have can reduce the cost and help you create the perfect ring.\n\n## 4. Switch to Alternative Metals\nDiamonds are valuable and are best set in metal that’s worthy of them. However, if you have your heart set on an expensive metal, such as platinum, you may want to opt for a different type. Alloys such as tungsten, __[steel](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lashbrook_damascus_steel_wedding_band)__, and titanium will lighten the cost of your ring. A big bonus is that some of the lesser-priced alternative metals are incredibly durable. So, what you lack in value, you gain in longevity. \n\n## 5. Tweak Your Gemstone\n\nA simple swap is to forgo the diamond and go with a look alike. Cubic zirconia has come a long way, and only the two of you will know it’s a dupe. Just be upfront with your fiance, as some have been caught trying to pass off a fake. Yikes! You could go with a different gem altogether, use a birthstone, or opt for a colored rock, such as sapphire or emerald. \n\nIf you must have a diamond ring, then there are ways to sacrifice in some areas to gain in others. For example, if the size is essential, look at stones that are lesser in quality. Lower-rated diamonds may have slight inclusions or a bit of a yellowish cast. If the diamond’s grade is crucial, then choose a slightly lower __[diamond carat size](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-ultimate-diamond-carat-size-guide)__ to put quality over quantity. Another option is to go for less expensive, __[lab-grown diamond](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-ultimate-diamond-carat-size-guide)__ engagement rings. \n\n![How to Find an Affordable Wedding Ring](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7m9P4BpMOcR5TNV6rTclmg/b42b152b8d4c61aac6a6feb4138541a4/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n## 6. Rethink a Solitaire\n\nOften, solitaire engagement rings are costly. There is also a significant difference between a one-carat diamond and a ring with a total diamond weight of one carat. Choosing a piece with several smaller stones, instead of one large rock can make your bling more affordable. \n\nIf your heart is set on a solitaire, go a bit under the weight you want. A .96 carat diamond is often less expensive than a one-carat ring. Even though the difference is only .04 carats, there are weight increments in the jewelry industry that serve as price markers.\n\n## 7. Talk to Your Salesperson\n\nA salesperson can often be your ally in choosing a bridal ring, engagement ring set, or diamond wedding bands, and the smaller the chain store, the better. If you head to a pawn shop or local jewelry boutique, sometimes you can ask for a percentage off the price. You may score a better deal, especially if you’re talking to the owner. Politely asking if they could extend a discount can go a long way. \n\nWhen dealing with a large chain, pick your clerk’s brain about __[affordable wedding rings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-finance-an-engagement-ring)__. Ask them if any specials are coming up or if any rings may be marked down soon. It’s a win for everyone, as you help them clear out their stock. \n\n## 8. Look Online for Affordable Rings\n\nMany couples enjoy shopping online so that they can compare prices and styles without being put on the spot. The added pressure of a salesperson can clutter the mind. Of course, the caveat with [purchasing online](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-finance-an-engagement-ring) is that you aren’t seeing the rings in person. Each natural diamond will vary in color and imperfections, so be aware of industry standards. Also, do your homework about the return policy, warranty, and payment options that a site offers. \n\n## 9. Purchase Your Engagement and Wedding Ring Set at the Same Time\n\nA car salesperson would probably faint if you told them you wanted to buy three cars at once, but don’t expect the same reaction from your jeweler. There may be added benefits to [purchasing three-piece wedding ring sets](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pair-wedding-band-with-engagement-ring), as buying pieces for both partners at once can help obtain a discount. __[Some bands](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pair-wedding-band-with-engagement-ring)__ are explicitly sold as an engagement and wedding ring set, which is often more economical.\n\n## 10. Weigh Your Financing Options\n\n“Cash is king” reigns true. Many stores offer a discount for using banknotes, and you will avoid interest and fees by doing so. Although, if you need to [finance your wedding ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-to-spend-on-a-wedding-ring), be aware of your options. Don’t just pop out a high-interest credit card and hope for the best. \n\nJewelry shops often offer to finance, but another option is to get a new credit card with a low introductory rate or zero-APR. Although neither of these will make your engagement ring more affordable, it will reduce your total cost. \n\n## 11. Buy Now, Upgrade Later\n\nIf you met the perfect person while going through grad school, opt for a modest or __[simple wedding ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-rings)__ now or even promise rings or eternity band, and then upgrade later to some fine jewelry. Chances are that you’ll be able to splurge once you are making money, instead of while you’re __[racking up student loans](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/to-dos-after-you-get-engaged)__.\n\nCheckout a placeholder gold ring, gold wedding band, or sterling silver rings to wear on a different finger eventually. It could also be passed down to future generations as a keepsake after it’s replaced. Another option is to sell the original ring, if it’s not sentimental, to help you afford another piece down the road.\n\nNo matter your stage in life, affordable wedding rings are within reach. Getting more for your money not only feels good, but it can make the time between love and marriage a bit easier on your pocketbook.\n\n### Top 5 Affordable Wedding Ring Options\n\nUnderstandably, not everyone has a grand budget to work with when it comes to rings so we’ve listed a few styles here that can broadly address that issue. Consider these options first before jumping for a ring that might be too expensive to afford at this time. There is always the opportunity to upgrade, exchange, or resell at a later day for a new ring. Check with your jewelry maker as well so you know what future options are available to you via the same store. \n\n### 1. Vintage rings\n\nSince vintage rings are used and don’t carry the same markup as newer jewelry does, this is one of the cheap wedding rings options to consider when budgeting for jewelry costs. That said, you can possibly find plenty of designs that align with the look and feel you are going for toward your big day. These will possibly cost you much lesser than a brand new designed or custom piece and you could come away from shopping for a ring benefitting from a pretty good deal. \n\n### 2. Cluster rings\n\nAs cluster rings don’t have one large centerpiece diamond or gemstone but rather several stones that are smaller and less expensive, this is also a reason why they are among favored cheap wedding ring options. Wearing ring clusters is quite fashionable and could give the illusion of one broad and fancy ring or clearly denote a set of rings worn individually. Depending on your style, you can choose a few different types of gold bands as well.\n\n### 3. Solitaires\n\nThese are classic, elegant, and budget-friendly choices. As there are no diamonds or gemstones taking pride of place in a solitaire band, this is a great cheap wedding ring option as well for those on a very rigid budget and not much leeway to spend on rings. Consider this a first stop when looking for rings before exploring other options. They never go out of style and can be a versatile piece that is worn with other outfits as well.\n\n### 4. Gemstone rings\n\nIf you are not very specific about going for the expensive mainstream gemstones that are always in demand and therefore sold at a premium price, you can still have a beautiful gemstone dotted ring at a much lesser price point. Research ahead to see which types and colors would best suit not just your outfit but also your skin tone and can be worn for long periods of time. That way you’ll have a few options in mind when you go shopping.\n\n### 5. Smaller accents\n\nInstead of one large attention-seeking diamond, consider several smaller diamond accents for a cheaper ring overall. This will also give you some leeway to play with the type of gold used – choose from rose gold, white gold, and yellow gold or even opt for a sterling silver bridal set. A princess cut might also be a good option to consider when on budget as the irregular shape makes them look larger to the naked eye than a regular round shape which is the most common and favored but also quite expensive. \n\nWhile this compilation is in no way exhaustive, it does provide a broad summary of the ring options you can consider for wedding rings if you are working on a lean budget. You may want to begin shopping around for designs ahead of time so you can truly review all the choices you have before finalizing on that one special ring.\n","tag":"How-To ","updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:12.918Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Getting engaged","slug":"getting-engaged"},"subtopic":{"name":"Rings","slug":"rings"},"slug":"a-guide-to-wedding-rings","title":"A Guide to Wedding Rings","excerpt":"From how much you should expect to spend on a wedding ring to tips for how to choose the right one for you, check out this guide on wedding ring styles, types, and materials.","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2019-02-22T19:10:38.243Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5P3fQN4IfleT7GqBYDmSs/8149be86e6f0b1e35a8e477b1a792fe8/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"gold wedding band and three diamond eternity wedding bands on a white sequined fabric"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding-photographers/sean-money-elizabeth-fay","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- There are many factors to consider such as cost, band width, band finish, and if you want matching rings or not with your partner.\n- Although there is a lot of thoughtful planning when it comes to pick out your wedding ring, this is a place for customization and for you and your partner to pick the perfect set that suits you!\n","body":"The big day is coming up but you still have to find the perfect wedding ring - don’t fret! Zola's put this guide together just for you.\n\n## Tips for Choosing a Wedding Ring \n\n### 1. Start Looking Early \n\nAllow yourself plenty of time to shop for and select a wedding ring. If you’re going to buy a ring from a [brick-and-mortar or online jeweler](https://www.zola.com/inspire/search), two to three months before your wedding date should allow you enough time to shop around, compare prices, order, and receive your rings in time. If you’re going for a totally custom ring, however, allow yourself even more time (at least six months). Engraving your wedding ring(s) will also add an additional month to your timeline. \n\n### 2. Set a Budget\n\nBefore you set foot into a jewelry shop or begin looking online, set a wedding ring budget. Much like shopping for a wedding dress, having a dollar amount in mind before you begin your search will help you avoid the heartache of falling in love with something that’s way out of your price range. See the below section (How Much Should You Spend On A Wedding Ring?) for the average cost of wedding rings for both men and women, and determine with your partner what you’re both comfortable spending—in the grand scheme of all your wedding expenses—on wedding rings.\n\n### 3. Think About Your Engagement Ring\n\nIf you’ll be wearing an engagement ring on the same finger as your wedding ring, you should consider how these two pieces of jewelry will interact. You want both rings to complement each other physically, and to fit comfortably together on your finger. There’s no rule that says your engagement ring and wedding band need to match exactly, but perhaps you want them made out of the same material (which also helps reduce potential reactions between metals), or perhaps you want one ring to be more simple and the other to be the standout piece with more stones and decoration. \n\nIf you do want your engagement and wedding rings to be a set, make this wish known to your partner when he or she is choosing an engagement ring—some rings and bands are contoured to fit together perfectly, and you could even score a better deal when buying both rings at the same time. \n\n### 4. Consider Your Lifestyle\n\nDo you exercise frequently, spend time outside gardening or swimming, or work with your hands daily? If you have an active lifestyle, you should think about which wedding ring design and material will be the most practical choice. A wedding ring with many diamonds or other small stones will require more frequent cleaning and maintenance, and should be protected from harsh chemicals or lots of banging and jostling. More simple bands in metals that are super-strong and scratch-resistant, like palladium, titanium, tungsten, or even silicone, are good choices for those who want to wear a wedding band daily without worrying about its upkeep. \n\n### 5. Decide If Your Rings Will Match\n\nThe coordination decisions don’t stop at your engagement ring. It’s a good idea to decide with your partner whether you’d like matching wedding bands before you begin shopping. For some couples, sharing every aspect of this symbol of eternal love—down to the color, look, and shape—adds an extra layer of romance. For others, matching bands don’t hold any additional significance, so each partner might prefer to express his or her individuality when it comes to wedding rings. \n\n### 6. Narrow Down Your Ring Style\n\nAfter thinking about your budget, what will work best with your engagement ring and your lifestyle, and yay or nay to matching bands, research different styles of wedding rings to home in on your preferences. Do you want a simple metal band, or a ring set with diamonds or other gemstones? Do you want a thin or thick band, something very traditional, or something more trendy and eye-catching? Look around at examples so you can begin your wedding ring shopping well-informed with a sense of your preferred styles.\n\n## How Much Should You Spend on a Wedding Ring?\n\nWhile the cost of a wedding ring can vary wildly based upon the ring’s material, style, and decorative elements, it can be helpful to have a ballpark range for what most couples are spending on their wedding rings. These averages can help you set realistic expectations and allocate an appropriate amount towards wedding rings in your overall wedding budget. \n\n- For women’s wedding bands, a plain band can cost anywhere from $300 to $1,500 depending on the metal. Prices increase to between $1,000 to $6,000 for a band that’s larger, more intricate, or set with diamonds or other stones. The average price of a woman’s wedding ring is around __$1,400__. \n\n- A men’s wedding band can start as low as $100 for a plain titanium band, to over $2,000 for a platinum band, with the average price being around __$560__.\n\nIn general, rings made of platinum will always cost more due to the more expensive nature of the metal—but platinum rings will last forever without any required maintenance. White or yellow gold are less expensive options, with prices decreasing by the carat number (lower carat golds are less expensive than higher carat golds). However white gold will need to be rhodium-plated every few years as the metal wears down and turns yellow. Palladium is another great, low-cost alternative to white gold and platinum that is largely maintenance-free.\n\n## Elements of a Wedding Ring\nAfter reading these helpful descriptions about the different elements that go into the design of a wedding ring, you’ll be a ring connoisseur. \n\n### Wedding Band Width\nRing bands come in varying widths from thin to thick. Besides affecting the overall aesthetic of the ring, a band’s width may also affect its comfort level, since it determines the amount of space being covered on your finger. Try on rings in different widths to be sure you’re choosing the right width for your finger (and for your engagement ring, if you’ll be wearing the two together. Here is the breakdown for a band’s size based on width:\n- __Thin:__ 1-3mm\n- __Medium:__ 4-6mm\n- __Thick:__ 7-10mm\n\n### Wedding Band Profile\nThe profile of a wedding band describes the shape of both the inside and outside of the ring. While there are several profile options, some are more popular than others. All ring profiles will affect the comfort of the ring, as it directly affects how the ring will rest on your finger.\n\n- __Court:__ this profile is the most traditional shape, with rounded corners both on the inside and outside of the ring that produce a comfortable fit. \n- __D-Shape:__ a D-shape ring is flat on the inside and rounded on the outside. It’s also very comfortable where the ring sits on the finger, and is a second traditional option. \n- __Flat:__ exactly how it sounds, a flat profile is flat on all sides. A flat ring looks chunky and substantial, but can require some getting used to fit-wise. \n- __Flat Court:__ a edgy profile with a more comfortable fit, a flat court ring looks flat from the outside but has a rounded inner edge. \n- __Flat-Sided Court:__ a flat-sided court ring is exactly like it sounds: a court ring (rounded inside and out) with flat sides. The flat sides give the ring a less domed profile, and also make it a good choice to rest alongside an engagement ring.\n- __Halo:__ a halo profile creates a band that is perfectly spherical all the way around. It’s one of the older and more classical shapes, as it was the easiest to design and make back in the day.\n- __Concave:__ another aesthetic choice, a concave ring has a rounded interior and a concave exterior for a unique band appearance. \n\n### Wedding Band Finish\nFrom shiny to matte, a ring’s finish has less to do with comfort and more to do with looks. Here are some popular types of wedding band finishes: \n\n- __Mirror:__ a polished finish with a shiny, reflective surface\n- __Fine Matte:__ a non-reflective, misty finish that doesn’t show any texture; created by tiny scratches in the surface.\n- __Coarse Matte:__ a non-reflective finish with visible texture; created by deeper scratches and embellishment on the surface.\n- __Hammered:__ a textured finish where the metal has been “hammered” to look dented all over.\n- __Sandblast:__ a textured finish caused by high-pressure sandblasting, resulting in a grainy appearance.\n- __Stardust:__ a more subtly textured finish with mixed areas of partial polish and partial sandblasting for a sparkling effect.\n\n## Wedding Ring Styles\n\nIt’s impossible to put together an exhaustive list of wedding ring styles, because the options out there are practically limitless. From simple, unadorned bands to complex designs featuring diamonds, etching, and mixed metals, you can most likely find any wedding ring you can dream up in your imagination. Here are some general wedding ring style categories that might help you understand, and then narrow down, the possible choices to find the look that’s right for you. \n\n### Minimalist Wedding Ring\nMinimalist wedding rings are simple, often just plain bands with little to no adornment. More embellished minimalist rings might include a row of small diamonds, a twisted rope or a flat-edge design, or an interesting textural finish. Minimalist wedding bands are great as subtle accents to more statement-making engagement rings. \n\n### Diamond Wedding Ring\n[Diamond wedding rings](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ritani_womens_micropave_diamond_wedding_ring_14kwhitegold) include one or multiple diamonds in their design. See below for an explanation of different types of stone settings—each of these settings shapes the final look of the ring. From rows of tiny pavé diamonds to larger stones set within channels or bars, a diamond wedding band adds a touch of sparkle and luxury to your ring set. \n\n### Eternity Wedding Ring\nAn eternity band is a type of diamond wedding ring, but is distinctive in that the [diamonds encircle the entire band](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/edelweissjewelry_womens_diamond_eternity_band_18krosegold) instead of just being placed in the front half. Eternity bands can be expensive due to the number of stones required, but are beautiful statements of elegant symmetry. They are great choices for those who want to just wear a statement wedding band, rather than an engagement ring-band combo. \n\n### Enhancers Wedding Ring\nEnhancers are two separate (top and bottom) rings designed to curve around and, well, enhance an engagement ring. Enhancers can come in a variety of metals and colors, and frequently include additional diamonds or stones. Some brides choose to solder together their enhancers and engagement ring for one large, unified ring. \n\n### Matching Wedding Ring\nAs we’ve discussed, matching wedding rings are his-and-hers sets of bands that either complement or exactly mimic each other. You can match your partner’s band by metal, by color, or by stone—the style possibilities are as endless as the love commitment they represent.\n\n### Engraved Wedding Ring\nEngraved wedding rings include a touch of extra personalization in the form of your names, wedding date, and/or a short message engraved on the interior of the band. If having an engraved wedding ring is important to you and your partner, be sure you choose a ring style that can accommodate engraving, both in width and in material. \n\n## Types of Wedding Band Stone Settings\n\n### Channel Setting \nIn this setting, [gemstones sit side-by-side in a “channel”](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/nagijewelers_14k_gold_light_scoop_prong_diamond_wedding_band_.25_ctw_yellow) formed by a top and a bottom track of precious metal. The stones are flush with the ring’s exterior, rather than protruding out from it. \n\n### Pavé Setting\nPavé means “paved” in French, and this setting aims to “pave” the ring with tiny diamonds by setting them very closely together. The stones are secured with small beads or mini-prongs that are minimally visible. Pave settings [create abundant sparkle factor](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ritani_tapered_pave_wedding_ring_rosegold). \n\n### Micro-Pavé Setting\nThe same concept as pavé, but with even smaller stones. [Micro-pavé settings](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ritani_doublemicropave_wedding_ring_platinum) include stones that are smaller than 0.1 - 0.2 carats, which is the size usually used in pavé-set rings.\n\n### Bar Setting\nGemstones are separated by metal bars in this setting, which is most often seen in diamond wedding bands or other rings where the stones form a continuous circle around a large portion of the ring. \n\n### Shared Prong Setting\nDiamonds or other [gems placed side-by-side other share prongs](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/nagijewelers_14k_gold_deep_scoop_prong_diamond_wedding_band_1.00_ctw_yellow) in this setting. Shared prongs make sense for rings that contain a long row of adjacent stones, as less metal means room for more stones. \n\n### Flush Setting\nAlso known as a “gypsy” setting, the stone here is inset into a hole in the band so that it’s flush with the metal. A flush setting can look very modern, or more antique, depending on the metal and style, but either way this setting is great for protecting the stone.\n\n## Types of Wedding Band Materials\nChoosing the metal for your wedding ring is one of the biggest decisions you’ll have to make when it comes to buying wedding bands. The metal will affect not only how the ring looks, but how it wears, what kind of maintenance is required, and the price of the ring. Get a leg up on your wedding ring metal research with these helpful descriptions. \n\n### The Precious Metals\n- #### Yellow Gold\n [Yellow gold](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/markenewyork_mens_classic_matte_14k_gold_wedding_band_slim) is the warm-hued metal that’s associated with traditional wedding rings. Gold comes in different karat weights, which indicate its purity: the higher the karat weight, the more pure gold is present in comparison to other alloys, and the harder and more expensive it is. Gold is easy to repair and polish, but is also the most malleable precious metal. \n\n- #### White Gold\n White gold is yellow gold that’s been alloyed with palladium and silver to achieve a polished shine, and then plated with rhodium to provide a layer of protection and a bright, white appearance. Rhodium plating does wear after time, so if you want to keep a silvery sheen to your white gold ring, you’ll need to replate it every so often. \n\n- #### Platinum\n Platinum is the premier choice of precious metals for wedding rings. It’s the most rare, most lasting, and most durable—and also therefore the most expensive. It’s naturally white, bright color will never fade, and platinum is also hypoallergenic. \n\n- #### Palladium\n A member of the platinum family, [palladium has bright white sheen](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/christianbauer_palladium_18k_white_gold_brushed_wedding_band) that won’t fade and doesn’t scratch easily. It’s less dense than platinum (but still a pure alloy), meaning it’s a lightweight, durable option that’s much less expensive than platinum. \n\n- #### Silver\n Like yellow gold, silver is a long-standing precious metal used for making jewelry. It is less expensive than other precious metals, largely because it is softer and less durable. To improve its durability, pure silver is often rhodium-plated and/or mixed with sterling silver. Silver will also scratch and tarnish over time, so prepare to schedule regular maintenance. \n\n- #### Vermeil\n If you want the look of gold but the durability of sterling silver, vermeil is a great option. A vermeil ring is made of sterling silver that’s been plated with a thick layer of gold (anywhere from 10k to 18k in weight). Vermeil will hold up well for many years with proper care. \n\n### The Alternative Metals \n- #### Titanium\n Titanium has grown in popularity for wedding bands, especially for men, as it’s incredibly strong, durable, and lightweight. It has a slightly darker gray appearance rather than a bright-white sheen, and is also naturally hypoallergenic. While titanium can withstand many elements, including chlorine and salt water, it can scratch. \n\n- #### Cobalt Chrome\n Cobalt chrome is an alloy of [cobalt and chromium](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lashbrook_meteorite_cobalt_chrome_wedding_band), and its bright white color most closely resembles platinum or white gold. It’s a popular choice for those who work with their hands for a living, as it is more scratch-resistance than titanium and nearly as lightweight. \n\n- #### Tungsten Carbide\n Tungsten Carbide is one of the most popular alternative metals due to its scratch-resistance and affordability. It comes in a variety of shades, from white to gray to black, and is much heavier than other alternative metals. Yet as it’s exceptionally hard, tungsten rings can actually shatter if they are dropped or suffers a blow. \n\n- #### Zirconium\n Another durable, anti-corrosive option, zirconium is similar to titanium is strength, weight, and hypoallergenic qualities. It naturally has a grey/white luster, however when treated with heat, it forms a black, scratch-resistance coating. Known as black zirconium, [this distinctive black look](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lashbrook_zirconium_cross_satin_finish_wedding_band) (it can polished or left matte) has recently become very popular.\n\n- #### Steel\n Stainless steel is great for small budgets, as it offers durability and strength at a lower price point. It has a brighter sheen than titanium or zirconium, but isn’t quite as bright as palladium or platinum. Like many other alternative metals, it’s hypo-allergenic. \n\n- #### Silicone\n Silicone rings are gaining in popularity, as those with active lifestyles or hands-on work don’t want to risk damaging a traditional metal ring. Silicone is affordable, durable, comfortable, and can even be made to mimic the look of metal if you want to have a more classic wedding ring look. \n\n- #### Wood\n Whether inlaid in metal or made entirely out of wood, wooden wedding rings have a distinct appeal for their unique look, eco-friendliness, and affordability. They are good choices for those with metal allergies or those who work around heat or electricity. Since they’re easy to find in matching sets, some couples like the idea of exchanging wooden rings due to the symbolic strength, protection, and regeneration associated with trees. Of course, wood is much less durable than metal, so wooden rings will need to be kept dry and removed before activities that could cause damage or scratching. \n\n## What Hand Does The Wedding Ring Go On? \nWhile it might seem like a simple question with a simple answer, which hand the wedding ring goes on is actually a more complicated investigation than you might think. Like many good questions, the answer depends upon context and will change based upon when and where you’re putting on a wedding ring. \n\n### General American Custom\nIn the US, most women and men wear their wedding rings on the fourth finger of their left hand (aka the “ring finger”), due to a false but charming belief passed down from ancient Romans that there’s a vein running directly from the heart to this finger. Dubbed the vena amoris (“vein of love”), it only made sense that the wedding ring be placed on this lifeline as a symbol of enduring love and lifelong commitment. Modern medicine now tells us that this love vein doesn’t really exist, but the tradition has persisted. \n\nHowever in other European and South American countries such as Russia, Greece, Germany, and Colombia, men and women wear wedding rings on their right hand. Some same-sex couples also prefer to wear their rings on the right hand to set themselves slightly apart from heteronormative tradition. So really, whichever hand you prefer is fine! \n\n### What About The Engagement Ring? \nIn most Western countries, the engagement ring is also worn on the ring finger of the left hand. 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Yes, there’s wedding planning to do, but it doesn’t all need to happen at once.\n\n## Just got engaged, now what?\n \n\nWith the help of Zola, you’ll be off planning in a jiffy, but your list of to-do’s after engagement doesn’t have to be stressful. However, there are certain things you and your partner should accomplish in the first month (or so) after your engagement. Plus, you’ll discover the things you shouldn’t do right away, so you’ll know what to look forward to doing.\n\nSo, now that you’ve officially ticked “[getting engaged](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/getting-engaged)” off the list, it’s time to begin. First, congrats! Second, here’s your checklist of what’s coming up next as you begin to plan your wedding day. \n\n## 17 steps for the just engaged couple\n \n\n### 1. Celebrate\n\nIt might feel tough, but refrain from reaching for your phone right away. Instead, take some time to celebrate your engagement with your new fiancé. Make your way over to your favorite bar or restaurant and enjoy each other’s company. Take a walk on the beach or through your favorite part of the city.\n\nRegardless of the setting, enjoy the moment one-on-one (unless, of course, your loved ones were in on the [proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/getting-engaged/proposals) and are waiting in the wings). Before you know it, you’ll be up to your neck in wedding planning, so savor this time for all it’s worth. Bask in that newly engaged glow.\n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5TinaZh7eVfqET7ez5FgmP/527c65acd1e95d3ecf50b5852795015a/INLINE___Unsplash_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### 2. Share the news.\nWhen you’re ready to tell others, start with those closest to you. This is likely your immediate family (parents and siblings), other close relatives, and best friends. Ring them personally or pay a visit, if possible, but steer clear of text messages. While it might seem like the most efficient way to tell your people, it can feel a bit impersonal. Save text announcements for people you aren’t as close with.\n\nTypically, there’s a hierarchy that states you should tell family first. However, we realize that not all dynamics are the same. [Share the news of your engagement](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-announcements-101) with those you love in the order you deem most appropriate.\n\n### 3. Alert the (social) media\n\nThat is if you’re on social media, of course. Once you tell your close family and friends, now it’s time to tell the world. Share a status update on Facebook to say that you’re just engaged, or post a photo or story on Instagram. Take a selfie with your partner, show off [your ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/dont-like-engagement-ring), or upload a photo someone snapped of the actual engagement moment.\n\nYou’re engaged—you should absolutely share the story. However, we do caution against spamming your various timelines with [engagement news](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-announce-your-engagement). There will be plenty of opportunities to share wedding planning highlights as you work out details. Maybe don’t exhaust your followers with too much upfront.\n\n### 4. Tell your loved ones first\n\nIt's normal to be extremely thrilled and excited about the proposal. Of course, you want to let everyone within earshot—or everyone with access to a smartphone—know of the good news. We get it, it’s convenient to make a couple of posts online.\n\nAnd while it’s completely up to you who you tell and how you do it, you probably don’t want the friend you lost touch with after college to find out via Facebook that you’re engaged—before your own parents or best friends. \n\nHold off on making any social media posts until you’ve delivered the news to your important people in person, if not via a phone call.\n\n### 5. Start thinking about dates\nDue to desirable venues and [certain months](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/choosing-your-wedding-month) getting booked well in advance, it’s wise to start thinking about dates quite early. This is especially the case if you’re looking to have your wedding within a year or two of getting engaged. \n\nStart by discussing the ideal time of year or month with your significant other. Then, check for any holidays, birthdays, or other conflicts that you’d like to avoid double-booking. \n\nAlso, reach out to important loved ones, such as close friends and family members, to check for conflicts before settling on anything. Find out what works for you and those closest to you, and settle on a few days or weekends that you can ask potential [venues](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues) about.\n\n### 6. Start talking logistics\nYou and your partner have brainstormed locations, dates, and your wedding style—now’s the time to start setting things in stone. Be pragmatic in your discussions and decisions. Start by sitting down together and drawing out a personalized budget and timeline. Or, let Zola do the manual work for you – create a personalized wedding checklist, timeline and budget in just a few minutes. [Sign up and access our free wedding planning tools here](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/onboard).\n\nThere’s no official timeline you need to stick to but your own, by the way. If you want to be engaged for a couple of years, do that. Circle back to planning in a few months or years. If that’s not you, however, start with a location and date. Once you have both of those, reach out to venues. Figure out what they have for availability around your desired date and book it. From there, you can begin looking into and [securing other vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors#:~:text=Explore%20wedding%20vendors%20by%20category), such as a wedding planner, catering, and entertainment.\n\n### 7. Say your thank yous\n\nThroughout the first few weeks of being engaged, you might receive celebratory cards and even gifts from friends and family. This is even more likely if you have an engagement party. Maintain a list of everyone who sends or brings you a card and/or gift, so that you can send out proper [thank you cards](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop).\n\n### 8. Spend some time researching before booking\n\nRemember how important it is to think about the big picture? You’ll want to put considerable time into that before booking a venue or any vendors for your big day. You’re just engaged, after all. \n\nWe know that locking down a space or [photographer](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/questions-to-ask-wedding-photographer) you love ASAP can be stressful, but trust us, you want to take the time to be really clear about what you both want before making anything official. \n\nTry not to rush. Allow yourselves the time to dream, find inspiration, and bounce ideas and desires off of one another.\n\n### 9. Hold off on sorting the wedding party\n\nMaid of honor, best man, bridesmaids, groomsmen, and every bridal party and wedding party member in between… there’s potential for a lot of loved ones to be involved in your wedding day! While this is one of the most exciting parts of planning a wedding, we highly recommend you hold off a few weeks before asking anyone to officially take on a role. There are many details that can shape not only who you’ll want by your side but how many people you’ll be able to include. \n\nWait to ask your helpers until you’ve figured out your wedding’s basics—your budget, venue, and the type of wedding you want, to start.\n\n### 10. Keep things vague with guests for now\n\nAs with requests and potential wedding party members, hold off on inviting anyone to your wedding until you have planning underway. The excitement of being newly engaged, added to the love and well-wishes from all around, can have you wanting to share the excitement and invite everyone. Refrain. Better to keep things polite and vague now than to be put in an awkward position when someone doesn’t make the [guest list](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/guests) later on.\n\n### 11. Wait to purchase your wedding attire\n\nIt’s incredibly tempting to start trying on [wedding dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/tips-wedding-dress-shopping), suits, and other [wedding day attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/fashion-beauty/wedding-attire) soon after getting engaged. However, it’s crucial that you don’t jump in too soon. At this point, odds are you haven't yet decided on your budget or what you really want. \n\nRushing this process and making a purchase too soon out of excitement can lead to regret and financial issues down the line. Wait until you’re sure of what you’re looking for and can afford before making any try-on appointments.\n\n### 12. Relax\n\nOne more time: you just got engaged, so slow down. Wedding planning has the potential to be pretty stressful right off the bat. With guest list creation, wedding venue touring, budget making, and every other aspect of the wedding planning process right around the corner, don’t forget to make time to enjoy being engaged. \n\nSet some time aside for a relaxing date night, just the two of you. Put the beginning stages of planning on pause and focus on each other and how happy you are to be where you are right now.\n\n### 13. Expect some unsolicited advice\n\nUpon telling loved ones of your engagement, chances are you’re going to be hearing a lot of advice from those who have had a wedding. Take any and all unsolicited advice with grace, but don’t be quick to take it to heart. \n\nWhile you may come to agree with and appreciate some advice here and there, you definitely don’t need to take or even consider it all. Offer a “thank you,” pocket what gems you can, and move forward.\n\n### 14. Host an engagement party\n\nAfter saying yes, it’s time to celebrate! Depending on how you want to announce your engagement, this should take place before or after you post to social media. If you like the idea of telling your friends and family all at once, plan a surprise [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party) before making a public announcement. That way, the news is completely unexpected. Many couples also prefer to host a more formal engagement party (with invitations and maybe even scheduled activities) a few weeks after the engagement.\n\nIf your loved ones are already in the know, one or some of them may come forward and offer to host your party for you. Whatever you decide works—engagement parties aren’t necessary, so if you choose to have one, get creative with [engagement party ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-ideas) and celebrate however you want. Be aware, though: You shouldn’t invite anyone to the engagement party that you won’t invite to the wedding. Plan accordingly.\n\n### 15. Book an engagement shoot\n\nThis is another optional to-do. If an engagement photoshoot doesn’t sound like your style, stay with us for just a second. Engagement shoots are popular for a few reasons. Mainly, they’re usually free and come as an additional component of your wedding photography package. If you haven’t yet [booked a photographer](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers) (totally normal at this stage, by the way!), you can either wait until you do or you can hire another local photographer for this shoot.\n\nCouples also often see an [engagement shoot](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-take-authentic-engagement-photos) as an opportunity to get comfortable in front of the camera together. Again, if you have a photographer booked, this is a great time to get to know more about his or her style. This way, you’ll hopefully feel more natural when your photo is being taken from all angles come wedding day. Use your engagement photos on your [save the dates](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/save-the-date/shop), wedding website, and/or wedding invitations.\n\n### 16. Think big picture\n\nNow that you’re no longer just engaged, your engagement celebrations have probably slowed. Now it feels like time to really start thinking about your big day. Don’t stress yourself out by immediately looking into every single detail, though. Start off by discussing big-picture ideas with your partner. Now is the time to figure out if you’re both on the same page with your dream wedding style and guest count.\n\nTalk about everything from wedding location and wedding size to a potential color palette and wedding date options. And, of course, always be open to your partner’s ideas. Stay organized off the bat by gathering inspiration in a place that’s easy to access and edit. Pinterest board, Google Doc, computer folder, binder—whatever works for you.\n\n### 17. Make time to soak it all in\n\nWe’re aware that we’re reiterating here, but it’s worth the reminder. Don’t get so immediately wrapped up in wedding planning that you forget to enjoy being just engaged. Skipping over this part can lead to considerable stress later on. Pop some bubbly, spend quality time with your fiancé(e), and bask in the excitement from all of those closest to you.\n\n## Engagement rings and wedding bands\n \n\nIf you were over the moon to put your new [ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/getting-engaged/rings) on… only to find it didn’t quite fit, you’ll want to get it sized ASAP. This won’t be the most exciting part of getting engaged, but it’s necessary if you want to avoid losing your special stone.\n\nSpeaking of losing your ring, enter ring insurance! When it comes to what to do after getting engaged, sorting out insurance definitely isn’t the most exciting task. While it's not super sexy, it's highly recommended. Most jewelry experts suggest taking out a policy with a jewelry insurance provider (and not extending your homeowner’s or renter’s insurance to cover it). Head to a jeweler or another certified professional and get an appraisal. Here’s more on [engagement ring insurance](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/reasons-to-insure-engagement-ring).\n\n## FAQs about getting engaged and post-proposal to dos\n \n\n### What does it mean to be engaged?\nJust engaged? That means you and your partner have decided to get married and are planning your future together. Being engaged is more than just wearing a ring. It's an exciting and romantic phase of your relationship. However, it also comes with some responsibilities and challenges as you grow together.\n\n### What to do after getting engaged?\nFirst of all, remember to celebrate! Next on the list comes telling your family and friends. Then, start thinking about wedding dates, share your good news on social media (optional), and arrange an engagement party and/or photo shoot. For now, don't worry about the guest list or wedding attire.\n\n### How do we announce our engagement?\nHow you announce your engagement is completely up to you and your partner. Most couples like to tell their immediate family and friends face to face before announcing their good news on social media. Others will share the news through phone calls, TikTok, or traditional paper announcements.\n\n### How to start planning a wedding?\nThe first thing you'll need for wedding planning is a [wedding checklist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist) and a budget. You may want to create a wedding Google Drive and email to keep everything organized. Or you can use free budgeting and checklist tools from wedding planning sites like Zola. 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Whether you asked or answered, you just took the first step toward one of the happiest days (and chapters) of your life. You’ve probably heard that now the work begins—and, if you’re hoping to wed in a year or less, that’s true. Wait, wait, wait… don’t get overwhelmed. Yes, there’s wedding planning to do, but it doesn’t all need to happen at once.\n\n## Just got engaged, now what?\n \n\nWith the help of Zola, you’ll be off planning in a jiffy, but your list of to-do’s after engagement doesn’t have to be stressful. However, there are certain things you and your partner should accomplish in the first month (or so) after your engagement. Plus, you’ll discover the things you shouldn’t do right away, so you’ll know what to look forward to doing.\n\nSo, now that you’ve officially ticked “[getting engaged](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/getting-engaged)” off the list, it’s time to begin. First, congrats! Second, here’s your checklist of what’s coming up next as you begin to plan your wedding day. \n\n## 17 steps for the just engaged couple\n \n\n### 1. Celebrate\n\nIt might feel tough, but refrain from reaching for your phone right away. Instead, take some time to celebrate your engagement with your new fiancé. Make your way over to your favorite bar or restaurant and enjoy each other’s company. Take a walk on the beach or through your favorite part of the city.\n\nRegardless of the setting, enjoy the moment one-on-one (unless, of course, your loved ones were in on the [proposal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/getting-engaged/proposals) and are waiting in the wings). Before you know it, you’ll be up to your neck in wedding planning, so savor this time for all it’s worth. Bask in that newly engaged glow.\n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5TinaZh7eVfqET7ez5FgmP/527c65acd1e95d3ecf50b5852795015a/INLINE___Unsplash_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### 2. Share the news.\nWhen you’re ready to tell others, start with those closest to you. This is likely your immediate family (parents and siblings), other close relatives, and best friends. Ring them personally or pay a visit, if possible, but steer clear of text messages. While it might seem like the most efficient way to tell your people, it can feel a bit impersonal. Save text announcements for people you aren’t as close with.\n\nTypically, there’s a hierarchy that states you should tell family first. However, we realize that not all dynamics are the same. [Share the news of your engagement](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-announcements-101) with those you love in the order you deem most appropriate.\n\n### 3. Alert the (social) media\n\nThat is if you’re on social media, of course. Once you tell your close family and friends, now it’s time to tell the world. Share a status update on Facebook to say that you’re just engaged, or post a photo or story on Instagram. Take a selfie with your partner, show off [your ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/dont-like-engagement-ring), or upload a photo someone snapped of the actual engagement moment.\n\nYou’re engaged—you should absolutely share the story. However, we do caution against spamming your various timelines with [engagement news](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-announce-your-engagement). There will be plenty of opportunities to share wedding planning highlights as you work out details. Maybe don’t exhaust your followers with too much upfront.\n\n### 4. Tell your loved ones first\n\nIt's normal to be extremely thrilled and excited about the proposal. Of course, you want to let everyone within earshot—or everyone with access to a smartphone—know of the good news. We get it, it’s convenient to make a couple of posts online.\n\nAnd while it’s completely up to you who you tell and how you do it, you probably don’t want the friend you lost touch with after college to find out via Facebook that you’re engaged—before your own parents or best friends. \n\nHold off on making any social media posts until you’ve delivered the news to your important people in person, if not via a phone call.\n\n### 5. Start thinking about dates\nDue to desirable venues and [certain months](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/choosing-your-wedding-month) getting booked well in advance, it’s wise to start thinking about dates quite early. This is especially the case if you’re looking to have your wedding within a year or two of getting engaged. \n\nStart by discussing the ideal time of year or month with your significant other. Then, check for any holidays, birthdays, or other conflicts that you’d like to avoid double-booking. \n\nAlso, reach out to important loved ones, such as close friends and family members, to check for conflicts before settling on anything. Find out what works for you and those closest to you, and settle on a few days or weekends that you can ask potential [venues](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues) about.\n\n### 6. Start talking logistics\nYou and your partner have brainstormed locations, dates, and your wedding style—now’s the time to start setting things in stone. Be pragmatic in your discussions and decisions. Start by sitting down together and drawing out a personalized budget and timeline. Or, let Zola do the manual work for you – create a personalized wedding checklist, timeline and budget in just a few minutes. [Sign up and access our free wedding planning tools here](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/onboard).\n\nThere’s no official timeline you need to stick to but your own, by the way. If you want to be engaged for a couple of years, do that. Circle back to planning in a few months or years. If that’s not you, however, start with a location and date. Once you have both of those, reach out to venues. Figure out what they have for availability around your desired date and book it. From there, you can begin looking into and [securing other vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors#:~:text=Explore%20wedding%20vendors%20by%20category), such as a wedding planner, catering, and entertainment.\n\n### 7. Say your thank yous\n\nThroughout the first few weeks of being engaged, you might receive celebratory cards and even gifts from friends and family. This is even more likely if you have an engagement party. Maintain a list of everyone who sends or brings you a card and/or gift, so that you can send out proper [thank you cards](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop).\n\n### 8. Spend some time researching before booking\n\nRemember how important it is to think about the big picture? You’ll want to put considerable time into that before booking a venue or any vendors for your big day. You’re just engaged, after all. \n\nWe know that locking down a space or [photographer](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/questions-to-ask-wedding-photographer) you love ASAP can be stressful, but trust us, you want to take the time to be really clear about what you both want before making anything official. \n\nTry not to rush. Allow yourselves the time to dream, find inspiration, and bounce ideas and desires off of one another.\n\n### 9. Hold off on sorting the wedding party\n\nMaid of honor, best man, bridesmaids, groomsmen, and every bridal party and wedding party member in between… there’s potential for a lot of loved ones to be involved in your wedding day! While this is one of the most exciting parts of planning a wedding, we highly recommend you hold off a few weeks before asking anyone to officially take on a role. There are many details that can shape not only who you’ll want by your side but how many people you’ll be able to include. \n\nWait to ask your helpers until you’ve figured out your wedding’s basics—your budget, venue, and the type of wedding you want, to start.\n\n### 10. Keep things vague with guests for now\n\nAs with requests and potential wedding party members, hold off on inviting anyone to your wedding until you have planning underway. The excitement of being newly engaged, added to the love and well-wishes from all around, can have you wanting to share the excitement and invite everyone. Refrain. Better to keep things polite and vague now than to be put in an awkward position when someone doesn’t make the [guest list](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/guests) later on.\n\n### 11. Wait to purchase your wedding attire\n\nIt’s incredibly tempting to start trying on [wedding dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/tips-wedding-dress-shopping), suits, and other [wedding day attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/fashion-beauty/wedding-attire) soon after getting engaged. However, it’s crucial that you don’t jump in too soon. At this point, odds are you haven't yet decided on your budget or what you really want. \n\nRushing this process and making a purchase too soon out of excitement can lead to regret and financial issues down the line. Wait until you’re sure of what you’re looking for and can afford before making any try-on appointments.\n\n### 12. Relax\n\nOne more time: you just got engaged, so slow down. Wedding planning has the potential to be pretty stressful right off the bat. With guest list creation, wedding venue touring, budget making, and every other aspect of the wedding planning process right around the corner, don’t forget to make time to enjoy being engaged. \n\nSet some time aside for a relaxing date night, just the two of you. Put the beginning stages of planning on pause and focus on each other and how happy you are to be where you are right now.\n\n### 13. Expect some unsolicited advice\n\nUpon telling loved ones of your engagement, chances are you’re going to be hearing a lot of advice from those who have had a wedding. Take any and all unsolicited advice with grace, but don’t be quick to take it to heart. \n\nWhile you may come to agree with and appreciate some advice here and there, you definitely don’t need to take or even consider it all. Offer a “thank you,” pocket what gems you can, and move forward.\n\n### 14. Host an engagement party\n\nAfter saying yes, it’s time to celebrate! Depending on how you want to announce your engagement, this should take place before or after you post to social media. If you like the idea of telling your friends and family all at once, plan a surprise [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party) before making a public announcement. That way, the news is completely unexpected. Many couples also prefer to host a more formal engagement party (with invitations and maybe even scheduled activities) a few weeks after the engagement.\n\nIf your loved ones are already in the know, one or some of them may come forward and offer to host your party for you. Whatever you decide works—engagement parties aren’t necessary, so if you choose to have one, get creative with [engagement party ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-ideas) and celebrate however you want. Be aware, though: You shouldn’t invite anyone to the engagement party that you won’t invite to the wedding. Plan accordingly.\n\n### 15. Book an engagement shoot\n\nThis is another optional to-do. If an engagement photoshoot doesn’t sound like your style, stay with us for just a second. Engagement shoots are popular for a few reasons. Mainly, they’re usually free and come as an additional component of your wedding photography package. If you haven’t yet [booked a photographer](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers) (totally normal at this stage, by the way!), you can either wait until you do or you can hire another local photographer for this shoot.\n\nCouples also often see an [engagement shoot](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-take-authentic-engagement-photos) as an opportunity to get comfortable in front of the camera together. Again, if you have a photographer booked, this is a great time to get to know more about his or her style. This way, you’ll hopefully feel more natural when your photo is being taken from all angles come wedding day. Use your engagement photos on your [save the dates](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/save-the-date/shop), wedding website, and/or wedding invitations.\n\n### 16. Think big picture\n\nNow that you’re no longer just engaged, your engagement celebrations have probably slowed. Now it feels like time to really start thinking about your big day. Don’t stress yourself out by immediately looking into every single detail, though. Start off by discussing big-picture ideas with your partner. Now is the time to figure out if you’re both on the same page with your dream wedding style and guest count.\n\nTalk about everything from wedding location and wedding size to a potential color palette and wedding date options. And, of course, always be open to your partner’s ideas. Stay organized off the bat by gathering inspiration in a place that’s easy to access and edit. Pinterest board, Google Doc, computer folder, binder—whatever works for you.\n\n### 17. Make time to soak it all in\n\nWe’re aware that we’re reiterating here, but it’s worth the reminder. Don’t get so immediately wrapped up in wedding planning that you forget to enjoy being just engaged. Skipping over this part can lead to considerable stress later on. Pop some bubbly, spend quality time with your fiancé(e), and bask in the excitement from all of those closest to you.\n\n## Engagement rings and wedding bands\n \n\nIf you were over the moon to put your new [ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/getting-engaged/rings) on… only to find it didn’t quite fit, you’ll want to get it sized ASAP. This won’t be the most exciting part of getting engaged, but it’s necessary if you want to avoid losing your special stone.\n\nSpeaking of losing your ring, enter ring insurance! When it comes to what to do after getting engaged, sorting out insurance definitely isn’t the most exciting task. While it's not super sexy, it's highly recommended. Most jewelry experts suggest taking out a policy with a jewelry insurance provider (and not extending your homeowner’s or renter’s insurance to cover it). Head to a jeweler or another certified professional and get an appraisal. Here’s more on [engagement ring insurance](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/reasons-to-insure-engagement-ring).\n\n## FAQs about getting engaged and post-proposal to dos\n \n\n### What does it mean to be engaged?\nJust engaged? That means you and your partner have decided to get married and are planning your future together. Being engaged is more than just wearing a ring. It's an exciting and romantic phase of your relationship. However, it also comes with some responsibilities and challenges as you grow together.\n\n### What to do after getting engaged?\nFirst of all, remember to celebrate! Next on the list comes telling your family and friends. Then, start thinking about wedding dates, share your good news on social media (optional), and arrange an engagement party and/or photo shoot. For now, don't worry about the guest list or wedding attire.\n\n### How do we announce our engagement?\nHow you announce your engagement is completely up to you and your partner. Most couples like to tell their immediate family and friends face to face before announcing their good news on social media. Others will share the news through phone calls, TikTok, or traditional paper announcements.\n\n### How to start planning a wedding?\nThe first thing you'll need for wedding planning is a [wedding checklist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist) and a budget. You may want to create a wedding Google Drive and email to keep everything organized. Or you can use free budgeting and checklist tools from wedding planning sites like Zola. Then you can start on the finer details: where, when, what you'll wear, and who will take part.\n\n## Final Thoughts\n\nOnce you’ve checked these boxes, you’ll be ready to go all in on wedding planning. Buckle up because it can (read: probably will) get hectic. Just remember to take a pause every now and then to enjoy being engaged.\n\nHere at Zola, we have everything you need to make wedding planning as seamless (but exciting) as possible. Even if you don’t publish it yet, you can start working on your [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website) and making your wishlist on your [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) right away. Zola can help you every step along the way from proposal to your new life together as a married couple. 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Rings

Your guide to engagement rings and wedding bands. Get advice from the experts on how to choose the perfect ring and how to insure it plus engagement ring trends and more!

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