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Whether you throw a wedding shower, bridal shower or jack and jill party, our experts make sure you have everything you need to plan the perfect event. Find guides, practical advice, and inspiration for the different types of shower celebrations.

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A Guide to Bridal Showers

This bridal shower guide will introduce you to the basics of bridal showers: traditional bridal shower etiquette (and which of those “rules” you can break), whom to invite, what to do, and who pays for it all.

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How to Throw a Bridal Shower in Your Own Backyard

A backyard bridal shower is a fun and affordable way to go about throwing what is the first in a series of pre-wedding festivities. Learn how it can be done today!

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7 Bridal Shower Traditions, Updated

Bridal showers are great celebrations but they could use some updating. Bring your bridal shower traditions into modern times with our guide to updating the traditional bridal shower.

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5 Wedding Shower Ideas For an Event That Fits Your Style

Today's couples are planning wedding showers how they want, where they want, and with who they want! Looking to do the same? Here are 5 unique wedding shower ideas that'll have you written all over them.

How to Create a Bridal Shower Backdrop for Photos

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4 Backdrop Ideas For Your Bridal Shower

Looking to create a stunning bridal shower backdrop for photos? Read on for more inspiration.

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Who Do I Invite to My Wedding Shower?

Planning your wedding shower and not sure who to invite? Explore our guide to find out who should attend and those you can potentially skip.

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The Best 35 Decor Ideas to Throw a Bridal Shower at Home

If you opt to have your bridal shower at home rather than at a venue, these bridal shower ideas will help.

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Top 20 Bridal Shower Food Ideas

Need to know what delectable delights are right for you and your guests? Here are our tips for planning your bridal shower menu.

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How To Plan A Bridal Shower To Remember

If you’re hosting a bridal shower and need a little guidance, here’s a step-by-step planning timeline to help you figure out what you need to do, and in what order, to pull off a great party.

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Wedding Shower Guide – Everything You Need To Know

Get all your wedding shower questions answered. From the guest list to thank you notes, we have you covered.

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What to Wear to a Bridal Shower as a Guest

Find ideal attire for a bridal shower. Explore outfit ideas, styles, and tips to shine as you celebrate the bride-to-be's special day

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Who Do You Invite to a Wedding Shower?

Uncover the art of crafting a guest list for the perfect wedding shower. Our guide helps you decide who to invite for a joyous celebration.

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If a bridal shower is in your near future, you might have a lot of questions: what exactly is a bridal shower? What should I expect if I am hosting, attending, or being honored at a bridal shower? Our bridal shower guide below will introduce you to the basics of bridal showers: traditional bridal shower etiquette (and which of those “rules” you can break), whom to invite, what to do, and who pays for it all.\n\n## What Is a Bridal Shower? \n- A bridal shower is a pre-wedding gathering where close family and friends of the bride “shower” her with affection, advice, amusement, and support. \n- Showers are usually daytime parties that involve food, drinks, and wedding-themed games or activities. \n- Traditionally guests give the bride gifts that will help establish her newly married life.\n- Regardless of whether it’s traditional or not, showers are a chance for friends and family of the bride and/or groom to get to know each other and match names with faces before the actual wedding.\n\n## Is a Bridal Shower Different Than a Wedding Shower? \nYes. A traditional bridal shower is just for the bride, and only female guests are invited. Wedding showers, however, are more modern and inclusive versions of bridal showers. Wedding showers invite both women and men to celebrate the upcoming wedding. \n\nYour choice to have a bridal or a wedding shower depends on what you, your host(s), and your partner prefer. Here are some differences you might find between traditional bridal showers and coed wedding showers: \n- A coed shower has a greater chance of occurring in the late afternoon or evening. All-female showers almost always occurs during the daytime. \n- Coed showers might have larger guest lists, as couples and/or whole families will be invited instead of only women. \n- Bridal showers will most likely involve more female-focused themes, favors, and games, such competing to see who can create the best wedding bouquet from toilet paper. \n\n## Who Throws The Bridal Shower?\nTraditionally the following people might host a bridal shower: \n- The maid or matron of honor\n- The bridesmaids\n- The bride’s mother\n- The groom’s mother\n- A close relative or family friend of the bride\n\nHowever these days, anyone who feels compelled to throw a wedding shower for a bride or a couple can certainly do so. Splitting the hosting duties can be a smart move: throwing a bridal shower is a fairly large undertaking, not to mention splitting the hosting means splitting the costs. If you’re taking on this task, check out our step-by-step guide on [how to plan a bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bridal-shower).\n\n## Who Should You Invite to a Bridal Shower?\nThe bride (and/or groom) should make a list of whom they’d like to invite to the shower and share it with the shower host(s). It’s traditional etiquette to only invite people to the bridal shower who are also invited to the wedding. Not only does this prevent feelings of exclusion, but since guests typically bring gifts to showers, it would be rude to expect a gift from someone who’s not invited to the wedding. A typical bridal shower guest list should include: \n- The wedding party\n- The bride and/or groom’s close and personal friends\n- The bride and/or groom’s coworkers, if they are good friends\n- The bride and/or groom’s close family members who live within a reasonable distance \n\n### Bridal Shower Guest List Size\nAn intimate bridal shower for 15 people is perfectly normal, as is a 50-person coed shower that feels more like a cocktail party. A variety of factors can influence the size of the guest list, such as: \n- the shower location\n- whether it’s the only shower being thrown\n- whether it’s a couples, coed, or all-female shower\n\n### Inviting Coworkers to Your Shower\nIf you are good friends with your co-workers, and plan to invite them to the wedding, then by all means invite them to your bridal shower. Keep in mind that if your office is small and only some of your coworkers will be invited, it’s best to privately ask those with an invitation to keep it quiet around the office. \n\n### Inviting Your Fiancé(e) to Your Shower\nIf you’re having a couples shower, then of course your soon-to-be-spouse should be invited! Otherwise, the decision is up to you: while traditionally your fiancé(e) would not attend a shower thrown in your honor, if you want him or her to come, why not? Your shower is a party for you, after all, so invite the people whom you’d most like around you during this special moment.\n\n### Inviting Out-of-Town Friends and Family to Your Shower \nIf you know that out-of-town friends or family realistically won’t be able to attend, there’s no need to invite them to the shower. Keep your shower guest list to locals, as well as the handful of people whom you know would never miss it. Here are some reasons why you should not invite out-of-towners to your shower: \n- Asking them to travel for the shower and the wedding might seem like you’re asking a lot.\n- Some people might feel obligated to send a gift even if they can’t attend, which may make the shower invitation seem like a solicitation for extra presents\n\nIf you’re worried about hurting distant friends or relatives by not inviting them, consider writing them a quick note or email explaining how you didn’t want them to feel pressured to attend considering the distance—and that sending a gift is not expected.\n\n## What Do You Do at a Bridal Shower?\nA bridal or wedding shower is a lot like any other party: guests mingle and chat, eat and drink, and sometimes come together as a group to do a focused activity. Here are the basic elements of a successful bridal shower: \n- A comfortable, semi-private location\n- Food, including anything from light bites, to dessert, to a full meal\n- Drinks, both with and without alcohol\n- Light background music\n- Unstructured time for guests to talk \n- Easy-going (perhaps optional) activities for guests to participate in, including: \n- Watching the bride and/or groom open gifts\n- Playing wedding or relationship-themed word games, puzzles, or trivia\n- A simple craft or hands-on activity\n- Small, inexpensive (but thoughtful) party favors\n\n### Does the Bride Have to Open Gifts at a Bridal Shower? \nWhile traditionally a good portion of the event is spent watching the bride (or couple) open up their shower gifts, opening presents at the party is not required if it makes her uncomfortable. Here are some reasons why a bride might not want to open up gifts at her shower:\n- She’s an introvert and is uncomfortable being the center of attention.\n- She doesn’t want to make anyone feel awkward about the size or price tag of their gift.\n- She doesn’t want to make anyone feel uncomfortable who didn’t bring a gift. \n- She’s worried she will bore her guests and kill the festive party vibe.\n- She’d rather use the time to eat, drink, and mingle with her gathered loved ones.\n\nIf any of these reasons feel compelling, then consider having a display shower. This is where guests bring their presents unwrapped, and they are “displayed” on a table for everyone to view for the duration of the party. In order to successfully host a display shower, communicate with the guests ahead of time to make sure they understand how it works, and provide labels and pens for guests to identify what they brought.\n\n### Playing Shower Games: The Pros and Cons \nMany people have questions surrounding bridal shower games, and whether or not you should include them in the shower you’re planning. While some find them fun and others would rather pass, there are pros and cons to have games at a wedding shower. \n\n__Pros:__ \n- Playing games can be a quick way to get all guests involved, even shy folks.\n- Games facilitate interaction and conversation between people who might not know each other.\n- Games can liven up an unengaged group of party guests.\n- Socially awkward strangers can focus on an activity, rather than making small talk.\n- Thoughtfully chosen shower games (that fit your personality) can actually be fun. \n\n__Cons:__ \n- Not everyone likes the idea of forced group “fun” that might create an clumsy or unnatural vibe.\n- If the crowd is getting along well, games force the organic flow of the party (and guests’ conversations) to come to a halt.\n- Many shower games feel cheesy, patriarchal or too gender normative, or just a bit silly and embarrassing to the bride or couple of honor. \n- Some shower games might reveal gaps in how well a couple knows or understands each other, which can be rather uncomfortable. \n\n### Alternative Bridal Shower Activities\nThere are many creative ways you can approach throwing a bridal shower that don’t involve traditional shower games and/or opening presents. Here are some ideas to spark your creativity: \n\n- Hire an in-home chef to come teach the group how to make a specific dish.\n- Have guests write down well-wishes for the couple in a special notebook.\n- Set up a DIY photobooth and have guests take selfie Polaroids.\n- Do a craft activity like decorating tote bags or cookies.\n- Have a professional florist conduct a class on how to arrange flowers. \n\nFor even more ideas, check out our article on other creative bridal shower ideas, and don’t be afraid to think outside the (gift) box.\n\n## Who Pays for The Bridal Shower?\nWhoever host the bridal shower typically pays for its expenses—but occasionally other people close to the bride and/or couple, such as their wedding party, parents, or siblings, might wish to contribute financially to the shower even if they are not hosting it. \n\nIf a group of people, such as the bridesmaids and the maid of honor, are throwing the shower together, then they can share expenses in two ways:\n1. Tally up all the individual costs and split final total evenly. \n2. Divide up and pay for different aspects of the event, such as the invitations, the drinks, the cake, or the favors. \n\nIf you’re planning a bridal shower and want step-by-step instructions on what to do and when, check out our timeline for [How To Plan A Bridal Shower.](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bridal-shower) ","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"If you’re hosting a bridal shower and need a little guidance, here’s a step-by-step planning timeline to help you figure out what you need to do, and in what order, to pull off a great party.","title":"How To Plan A Bridal Shower To Remember","slug":"how-to-plan-a-bridal-shower","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5AVNykInJuWweK0Imia8gM/632b15feafece7db3ce9f85ad7d3d0bf/Hero_New_Zola.jpg","altText":"woman in yellow dress holding antique tea cup with macaroons inside"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Find ideal attire for a bridal shower. 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Learn how it can be done today!","author":"Anni Irish","publishedAt":"2021-01-27T17:00:55.545Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7qIOGporD5kzkoFlrydNWY/c8d6c1bee6f3de68da751c26b4a99fcb/Hero_Unsplash_TabithaTurner.jpg","altText":"Bridal Shower in Your Own Backyar"},"heroCredit":"Tabitha Turner","body":"Trying to figure out [how to host a beautiful bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bridal-shower) that will be exciting for everyone? When you’re planning a bridal shower, settling on the venue is the biggest consideration. And sometimes the answer may be right in front of you: your backyard. \n\nChoosing to throw a bridal shower in your own backyard is a fun and affordable way to celebrate this special time, plus can allow you to add a lot of personal touches. The drawback? It requires an extra level of planning for the host. If you’ve decided to go this route, here are six tips to help you plan the best shower for the couple-to-be. \n\n### Consider the Time of Year\nOne factor to keep in mind when planning your backyard shower is the time of year. Depending on the season this will play a big role in determining how you should plan ahead and also what your guests level of comfort is. Try to think ahead and anticipate what having your event during a particular time of year means. \n\nFall, spring, and summer are ideal times to host an outdoor bridal shower. If you’re in an area where the seasons change, fall can provide a beautiful natural backdrop for your shower. \n\nIf you want to opt for a summertime bridal shower, pay attention to both the hottest time of year and the hottest time of day. If mid-afternoon is the hottest time of the day, for example, plan to have the party earlier or later in the day, so guests aren’t uncomfortable and sweating. If it’s a cooler time of year, consider telling guests to layer up or have a system in place to keep them warm. Do some research and see what works best for you. \n\n![Six Dos and Don'ts for a Backyard Wedding](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/a0hWmCY3VjUH4sDhdLunv/042be39717bf21dcee10b7696b281c86/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### Think About Bugs and Noise \nWhile the great outdoors is beautiful, it can also be a little tricky. If you’re thinking about having a shower in the spring or summer, bugs and other pests may be an issue that needs to be addressed. Do a little research on when mosquitos and other critters in your area are the most active. From there you can better pinpoint a time for the shower ensuring maximum comfort for yourself, your guests, and the couple getting married. \n\nAnother factor you’ll want to keep in mind is noise. Depending on the time of day and your relationship with your neighbors, you’ll definitely want to give them a heads up about the party. It’s also a good idea to ask them to avoid doing lawn work during the duration of the shower, so everyone can hear one another and have a great time. \n\n### Consider the Flow of the Space\nWhen you have guests over they usually end up in the kitchen or another room in your house you didn’t originally plan to have the party in. Think about the flow of your space for your backyard shower. Guests will have to use the bathroom, someone will want a drink refill or seconds on [bridal shower food](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-food-to-serve-at-your-bridal-shower), etc. Think about these details ahead of time, so you can anticipate people’s needs, but also control the flow of the space. \n\nTo minimize guest’s need to go indoors, set up a drink station outside. And think about directing guests to a downstairs bathroom rather than an upstairs one. Also think about where to place the food to help keep more folks outside versus inside. \n\nYou’ll also want to think about where in the backyard you’ll be hosting guests. Do you have an outdoor deck or finished patio, or will you host people on the lawn? Either way, make sure the ground is level, so people can move around safely and comfortably. You’ll also want to clean the area beforehand. \n\n### Make It Festive\nAlthough a backyard shower generally has a more laid-back vibe, you’ll definitely want to make it festive with some decorations. Have fun with the theme and keep the couple’s preferences in mind, but going classic with a garden party theme is never a bad idea. Feel free to get a little creative and take some fun risks with colors, flowers, balloons, streamers, and other shower favors you may find. \nFinding a color palette that will match with the bridal shower theme will make bridal shower decorations easier. Once you have a color palette, you can match the cake and dessert table with the bridal party decor to achieve a unified feel. \nYou’ll also want to set aside an area specifically for the gifts. Don’t forget to make it stand out, too. Make a fun sign using glitter pens, ribbons. flowers, or maybe even a personalized chalkboard. \n\nThe same goes for the welcome sign. Having a sign with the date, the couple’s names, and other thoughtful details will make the guest's entrance feel special and can act as a centerpiece for the party. Putting floral arrangements throughout the space is another nice touch as well. Try to incorporate the couple’s favorite flowers, giving them another special surprise for when they walk in.\n\n### Think About the Menu\n\n![How to Throw a Bridal Shower in Your Own Backyard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1EyoAdhLmjZv9JYIEwInPY/ca8dc4f2cb74ad9838e79d655d0a5cc4/inline_unsplash__1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Unsplash\n\nBecause a backyard shower tends to have a more casual vibe this is also something that will translate to the menu. Think about the couple getting married and try to work their favorite foods into the menu. Just don’t forget to think about the weather. You’ll want to pick an array of items that are both seasonal and will do well outside. \n\nSalads are always an excellent way to go and there are a variety of ways to approach this menu item. Try to use seasonal ingredients and things that don’t require a lot of attention once set up.Buffet style is also a great way to go and allows guests to eat at their leisure. Planning for a cookout with ice cream and pink lemonade can also be a fun and casual way to feed your guests and really get them to enjoy the backyard vibe. \n\nIf you have a larger budget and want to do a more elevated meal, having something catered can also be an option and frees you up to focus on other parts of the party. Having passed hors d'oeuvres or even a sit down lunch or dinner with waiters is always lovely, but it really all depends on what vibe you’re going for and how much you plan to spend.\n\n### Have a Plan B\nWhen you’re hosting any kind of party, there will inevitably be some kind of snafu. Sometimes the weather doesn’t cooperate or there’s an issue with the food. In these situations it's best to have a plan B.\n\nThink about renting a tent if that’s in your budget, or if it’s a small guest list, perhaps you already have a tent that may work to help shield people from the elements. If a tent isn’t an option, be prepared to host your guests inside. You may need to rearrange the furniture a bit to accommodate people, so try to enlist some friends or family to help. Once you’ve got the space situated, all that’s left to do is get the food and decorations ready. Typically, all the same things you planned for outside can be used inside.\n\nHaving a backyard shower really allows you to have a lot of flexibility and enables you to control every aspect of it. Although there are some larger planning concerns that need to be taken into consideration, it will allow you to have exactly the kind of shower you want and you can put your homey touch on it. A backyard shower will definitely be one to remember and all the added personal details and party decorations will really make the couple getting married feel special and loved. \n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Need to know what delectable delights are right for you and your guests? 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Bring your bridal shower traditions into modern times with our guide to updating the traditional bridal shower.","author":"McCall Minnor","publishedAt":"2019-10-15T16:32:47.960Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6vfYcGpnDLIGFdgeLZ9F2c/b59c2ca2f2e6e3c2dd505a2b1ecbc00b/HERO_Unsplash_1080x720__1_.jpg","altText":"bridal shower gifting tradition"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"While a [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers) is a generous gesture from loved ones, we can’t deny that some aspects of the celebration can be awkward and outdated. That’s not to say you shouldn’t have one—those closest to you want to celebrate you and you should let them. You may just prefer to put your own more modern spin on things. Here are a few common bridal shower traditions and easy ways to update them for a party that truly fits your vibe. \n\n## The Tradition: It’s just for women.\nTraditionally, a bridal shower is a pre-wedding celebration thrown in honor of the bride, during which guests “shower” her with gifts. It usually takes place during the day, is women-only, and is thrown by a woman close with the bride.\n\n__The Update:__ More and more couples are choosing instead to have a [coed wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/coed-wedding-shower) that includes everyone: both partners and both sets of friends and family. This way there’s much more wiggle room in terms of activities and the theme. Plus, including both partners is a practical and thoughtful way to celebrate both people and also bring family and friends together ahead of the wedding. \n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/532VVdWGgxiLyK341ZcdQ7/749150933cb579d72591628987db3df9/INLINE__Unsplash_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## The Tradition: It happens less than two months before the wedding.\nUsually, the bridal shower is held just before the wedding: about 2-8 weeks out. Older etiquette suggests that this is to prevent your wedding festivities from spanning more than a few months, thus inconveniencing guests.\n\n__The Update:__ While it’s considerate to keep your guests in mind, having your shower within this time frame might just not work. It’s also possible that you don’t want to have your shower so close to your ceremony, regardless of any other reason. Giving yourself more time between the two occasions allows you the opportunity to open and sort through gifts, send thank you notes, and, honestly, just relax a little. It’s a lot to go event-for-event. Choose a time that works best for you and (most of) your guests.\n\n## Tradition: It’s a feminine daytime event.\nThe traditional bridal shower is a brunch party, afternoon tea, or another daytime affair. And it’s likely to include small appetizers and desserts, beverages like mimosas, and typically feminine decor. \n\n__The Update:__ Your bridal shower or coed wedding shower doesn’t need to fall within any kind of themed parameters—and it doesn’t need to be a brunch either. Your shower can—and should—take on any form that best suits you (or you and your partner). Hire a local bartender and have a cocktail hour mixology class. Spend a weekend at the beach or spa. Wine tastings, cooking classes, hiking, art lessons—all acceptable. When it comes down to it, your shower should be an event you’ll enjoy. No one will care if it’s in the evening or not at someone’s home, so long as you’re celebrating with one another.\n\n## Tradition: You play games.\nGames are almost always included in the traditional bridal shower itinerary. Common bridal shower games include gift bingo, a toilet paper wedding dress competition, and newlywed questions.\n\n__The Update:__ While many enjoy these specific—and admittedly cheesy—games, they’re by no means required. If you’d rather skip couple’s trivia and spend time doing just about anything else, do that. If you still like the idea of Say you’d still like to gather everyone together to do something. No problem. Opt instead for a non-shower themed group activity (remember that fun mixology class idea we mentioned before?).\n\n## Tradition: Gifts are mandatory—and you open them in front of everyone.\nEveryone invited to a bridal shower is expected to bring a gift for the bride or couple (if it’s a wedding shower). The bride or couple then open each gift in front of their guests.\n\n__The Update:__ Let’s be honest—there’s ample opportunity to receive gifts throughout your engagement and wedding. Between the engagement party, wedding shower, bachelor or bachelorette parties, and wedding, guests may feel pressured to give multiple times. If this isn’t something you’re comfortable with (or if you simply don’t have room for a lot of gifts), feel free to tell guests to skip gifts. \n\nIf you do, however, include gifts in your shower, don’t feel pressure to open them in front of everyone. Let [your guests](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/invite-to-wedding-shower) know that you won’t be opening them during the party—or simply don’t mention it at all. Send thank you notes no more than a week after the party, though!\n\n![INLINE Zola 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/FyJVw92zu27pIrPVJqOid/1a745129b8eedb7f1ce847593d12c4ef/INLINE_Zola_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Zola\n\n## Tradition: Someone creates a ribbon bouquet.\nThe Tradition: Traditionally, while you’re unwrapping presents at a bridal shower, someone else is collecting the ribbons and bows and fashioning them into a bouquet. This bouquet is then to be used for practice during your wedding rehearsal.\n\n__The Update:__ Feel free to cut this tradition out entirely—especially if you don’t plan on opening gifts in front of everyone. While the sentiment is nice, you really can just use another bouquet of flowers (or nothing) during your rehearsal.\n\n## Tradition: Your fiancé brings flowers at the end\nOlder tradition suggests that your fiancé should show up towards the end of the party, to “surprise” you with flowers. This is considered a sweet way to included them into the festivities (and help you load gifts into the car). Often, the fiancé will show up thirty minutes to an hour before the shower is over and sometimes participate in games.\n\n__The Update:__ Whether your spouse to-be is busy (they might be at their own party) or wants to leave the shower to you, there’s no reason they need to make an appearance. Your shower is yours, after all, and maybe they’d rather avoid the spotlight. You can still have them show up to help relocate gifts, just wait until everyone has left and you’re heading out. On the other hand, if you’d like your partner to be more involved, consider making the entire thing co-ed.\n\nIn the end, your wedding shower is meant to celebrate you and your upcoming marriage. Don’t worry yourself with what’s expected of a typical party. Focus on having a good time and getting excited for the main event—your wedding! We can toast to that.","tag":"List","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Fill your bachelor party with groom-approved activities. 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Here are 5 unique wedding shower ideas that'll have you written all over them.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2022-04-04T22:04:29.862Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/Taf4dc1i2um23ofcS4Of7/2012161ad5f069f0a679d8be1db933c0/pexels-rodnae-productions-6224711__1__ccexpress.jpeg","altText":"Wedding Shower Ideas"},"heroCredit":"RODNAE Productions","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- Today’s couples are building on traditional bridal showers and having more creative wedding showers.\n- A wedding shower should showcase the personality of the couple while allowing them to mingle with loved ones before the big day.\n- Couples are hosting themed showers and having their guests come in costume and give theme-centric gifts.\n- Some showers, such as action-adventure showers, focus more on time together instead of giving presents.","body":"While you’re in the middle of wedding planning and asking loved ones to be in your wedding party, the chances are that at least some of them are thinking about how to celebrate you, which often includes a wedding shower. Once thought of as a [daytime, female-only event](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-traditions-updated) planned by a friend of the bride, today’s couples — which may or may not involve a female partner — choose to have more flexible wedding showers.\n\nThese modern showers take different forms, allowing couples to celebrate with friends and family before the big day. So often, couples are preoccupied at their wedding doing things from taking photos to focusing on their love for each other, and a wedding shower gives each partner a chance to connect with folks in a more intimate setting. \n\nSo, whether you’re helping plan your wedding shower or need to pass a few ideas along to a trusted friend, feel free to get creative. The shower is a way to branch off from the structure of the wedding itself and have an event that is authentic to your love story. Therefore, get inspired, [break away from tradition](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/classic-wedding-dresses-for-the-traditional-bride), and let those closest to you shower you with gifts, love, and attention before saying, “I do.” Here are ideas for alternative wedding showers to get you started thinking about your own personalized event.\n\n## Types of Wedding Showers for Every Couple\n\n### Traditional Wedding Shower \n*For the Classic Couple*\n\n![Zola Wedding Shower Styles - The Traditional Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6tu5nWvT0yXVShUWqfg7tS/72fe837845e28bb13605311d26d9501b/Frame_7.jpg)\n\n__How’s It Different:__ As a traditional bridal shower, the wedding shower takes cues from the classic showers without duplicating past events. For example, consider hosting a shower over a casual evening BBQ or a post-dinner cocktail hour instead of a daytime event. Also, be sure that both partners feel welcomed and consider inviting folks of all ages and stages of life, from your single groomsmen to your grandmother. A classic shower includes everyone while putting a fun twist on the traditional element of giving gifts.\n\n__Where to Host:__ Since the guest count could go a bit high, consider hosting this event at a close friend or family member’s home. A patio filled with blooming spring flowers or a living room with a view of the changing autumn landscape provides the perfect backdrop. \n\n__Who to Invite:__ You may want to skip out on inviting the littles if you’re hosting a late evening event, but otherwise, let families come as a group and allow your attendants to bring a plus one if they choose. \n\n__What to Wear:__ Since this event offers flexibility, let the time of day dictate the formality. Keep it casual and wear what you’d wear to brunch for a daytime event, or dress it up just a tad for a cocktail-centric shower. \n\n__What to Do:__ Opening gifts is crucial to a traditional wedding shower, so make time for presents. Since everyone in attendance should know the couple reasonably well, host a personalized trivia contest complete with a prize for who knows the most about the nearly-weds.\n\n__Top Themes for This Type of Shower:__ Time for Tea, Garden Party, Through the Decades (featuring photos of the couple from infancy through today)\n\n### Action-Adventure Shower \n*For the Couple Who Loves to Get Active*\n\n![Zola Wedding Shower Styles - Action-Adventure](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5Flbw3mQTEDfchQeNOzAl5/7e34b215737e2283cd865364c7dec527/Frame_8.jpg)\n\n__How’s It Different:__ An action-adventure shower focuses on getting everyone up and moving. Whether you host a yoga class at a nearby park, head to your local zip line, or take a trip hiking in South America, it’s all about movement — both in location and activity. This type of shower is perfect for couples who enjoy experiencing new things, traveling, or staying fit before the big day. \n\n__Where to Host:__ The hosting location depends on the activity you want to do. Most will require heading to a different place, such as driving to your local roller skating rink or rock climbing studio. Another option would be to host a class, such as pilates or salsa dancing, at a recreation center or your home if space allows. Heading overseas is also an option if you want to spend a few days in an alternate location. \n\n__Who to Invite:__ This is definitely not your grandmother’s shower unless she’s especially fit. When curating your guest list, be sure that you invite those who would genuinely enjoy the planned activity. If you want to ask folks who may not be physically able to participate, see if the instructor can make modifications so that people of all abilities can attend.\n\n__What to Wear:__ Comfortable clothing appropriate to the activity is best. Be sure to consult with the location or instructor first so you can communicate the proper attire — including footwear — to your guests. \n\n__What to Do:__ Gifts don’t have to be part of this type of shower, mainly because those attending will be paying to participate. Do the planned activity and make time to enjoy a post-workout meal or snack together.\n\n__Top Themes for This Type of Shower:__ 80s Activewear, 70s Yoga, Retro Vibes\n\n### Showerette \n*For the Couple Looking to Go Out With a Bang*\n\n![Zola Wedding Shower Styles - The Showerettes](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2wBEHxVFxKxLCki6hYtJRO/6e89f529fef4aab691943407e0fc7699/Frame_9.jpg)\n\n__How’s It Different:__ A showerette is simply a combination between a wedding shower and a bachelorette — or bachelor — party. Perfect for the long-distance couple or the one who has a short engagement, doing two events simultaneously is fabulous for maximizing time while minimizing the number of obligations. In addition, blending these two events allows for more fun, even bordering on the tastefully risque.\n\n__Where to Host:__ Since the showerette is doing double-duty, have it someplace filled with positive vibes. A local, vibrant restaurant or a posh [bar space](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/open-bar-weddings-a-guide) is ideal, especially if there is a private room. Planning a weekend full of fun in a sunny location allows enough time for everyone to let loose and then get themselves back together before heading home.\n\n__Who to Invite:__ The invitation list for this event should include guests who are incredibly close to one or both partners. So only invite those in your inner circle who allow you to let your hair down and be yourself.\n\n__What to Wear:__ With the bachelor/bachelorette party in mind, select something you’d wear on a night out with your closest friends. Also, don’t be afraid to show a little skin.\n\n__What to Do:__ Although everyone should party responsibility, a showerette is a chance to kick back, have a few cocktails, and dance the night away. Include gifts, but center them [around a theme](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/couples-top-wedding-themes), such as craft beer or lingerie\n\n__Top Themes for This Type of Shower:__ Cocktail Tasting, 90s Dance Party, Night in Vegas\n\n### Stock-the-Shelves Shower\n*For the Couple Who Loves to Collect *\n\n![Zola Wedding Shower Styles - Stock-the-Shelves Showers](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3KkwhGXlbuMfmteymPuV2B/5f9253620cbc87a476e7f83fc050a536/Frame_10.jpg)\n\n__How’s It Different:__ If you combine households or already have everything you need, there is probably no need for traditional wedding gifts, so consider stocking for your hobby instead. Whether you’re a newly obsessed plant parent or an avid movie memorabilia collector, having more of what you already love is always a good thing. Another option for a stock-the-something party is to ask folks to fill your bookshelves or bar with interesting and useful finds.\n\n__Where to Host:__ A stocking shower is ideal to host in the place that’s being filled. For a stock-the-bar event, spruce up your bar cart, and add items as you open them. For a collectibles party, clear your bookshelves, and let your guests place their items once you open them. Don’t worry — you can always shift things around after the wedding shower.\n\n__Who to Invite:__ A stock-the-shelves-style shower is one where you can invite your friends and family, depending on the theme. For example, if you collect Harry Potter items, kids could get in on the fun. However, you may want to make it adults only when asking for barware and craft spirits.\n\n__What to Wear:__ Unless the occasion or type of stocking calls for dressing up, let folks come comfy and casual. Think nice jeans and a pullover or an unstructured, floral dress.\n\n__What to Do:__ The main event here is opening gifts. However, the addition of letting folks place their items personalizes the event, and incorporating a trivia element adds a creative twist. \n\n__Top Themes for This Type of Shower:__ Barware, Library, Bookshelves, Outdoors\n\n### Trendy & Themed Shower \n*For the Dramatic, Playful Couple*\n\n![Zola Wedding Shower Styles - Trendy & Themed](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/IkScWj50OuOylupqGSCW3/ff3ffd44f7d0496ae4d61b1a954c9240/Frame_11.jpg)\n\nHow’s It Different: Who doesn’t love a good play on a theme? From [the invitation](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-invitation-checklist) to the wedding shower favors, select a motif and go all out by incorporating it into every element. Have folks dress up, play theme-centric games, and coordinate your food and drinks. A completely themed shower from start to finish is perfect for couples who love to have fun, dress up, and get creative. \n\n__Where to Host:__ Start by thinking of all the places you could hold your event that coordinate with your theme. Host a 50s party at a diner, or have a literary event at a local bookstore or library. \n\n__Who to Invite:__ Again, tailor your guest list to the theme of your event. For example, if your focus is outdoor games, it’s perfectly appropriate to invite family and friends of all ages. Alternatively, if you mimic the Roaring Twenties, you may only want to keep it to adults. \n\n__What to Wear:__ Of course, guests and the happy couple should dress according to the theme and go all out while doing so. \n\n__What to Do:__ A themed wedding shower lends itself to trivia games and costume contests, so do some research and come up with questions and prizes for both. Gifts can either coordinate with the motif or come off the [couple’s registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry/timeline?).\n\n__Top Themes for This Type of Shower:__ Movie Buff, Black and White, Luau\n\n## Zola: Your Place for Wedding Shower Planning\n\nNow that you have an idea of what to do for your wedding shower, it’s time to start planning: And Zola has all you need. From [basic shower information](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers) to [how to host a wedding shower at home](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-throw-a-bridal-shower-at-home), Zola has expert advice to guide you each step of the way.","tag":"How To","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Registry"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"We’ve rounded up some of the most creative wedding shower invite ideas to give you the inspiration you need to start planning the perfect celebration.","title":"10 Creative Wedding Shower Invite Ideas","slug":"10-creative-wedding-shower-invite-ideas","topic":"Invites & paper","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2M3j9Ni6gEQnraqrXwPob6/3f2dc76fa9dc0a17a67f0dde342f1801/HERO_CreativeWeddingShowerInviteIdeas___.jpg","altText":"Modeled drink and wine bottle"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Going to a wedding shower, but not sure what to bring? 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","slug":"who-do-you-invite-to-a-wedding-shower-from-the-grooms-side","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/731ezzbj9wtmb0day4GjKF/759b8d2e9fdc61ca46a8440d7c030967/HERO_WhoDoYouInvite_toaBridalShowerFromTheGroom_sSide.jpg","altText":"group of young women smiling"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Build Your Zola Registry","url":"https://www.zola.com/onboard/new"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:45.806Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding shower","slug":"wedding-shower"},"slug":"bridal-shower-backdrop","title":"4 Backdrop Ideas For Your Bridal Shower","excerpt":"Looking to create a stunning bridal shower backdrop for photos? Read on for more inspiration. ","author":"Amanda Mitchell","publishedAt":"2020-12-07T17:00:08.164Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4SJdSD7fFeJPYeyoXQke1g/0c04ec372a8831bbda2f57ccb88146c5/inline_unsplash__6_.jpg","altText":"How to Create a Bridal Shower Backdrop for Photos"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"A bridal shower is an excellent way to usher someone you love into the next stage of their life. But it’s far from stress-free for [hosts](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-typical-organizes-and-throws-a-bridal-shower): Will people have a good time? How much food should you order? What’s the budget? Where do you get bridal shower decorations? [The planning](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bridal-shower) can be daunting.\n\nLuckily, there are a few elements of the day that come sans stress—like an Instagram-ready bridal shower backdrop that your guests can use to capture a moment with their favorite person—the bride.\n\nBut how does a bridal shower photo backdrop come together? It’s much easier than you think: Here at Zola, we came up with the best way to create a DIY photo backdrop, as well as some clever and eye-catching decor ideas that can help you celebrate your friend.\n\n### Find the Right Wall\n\n![Bridal Shower Backdrop](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/12wUwusMHA1KPBvaV9l07v/3c49b03594b4ffd10b7718406f93029d/inline_unsplash__1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\nFirst things first: You'll want to figure out how to set up your [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers) backdrop. This can be determined by examining your space. If the party is outside, there may be a gorgeous tree or a wall of foliage you can decorate with streamers, letters, or twinkle lights for a built-in backdrop. If your party is set to take place indoors, try to locate a beautifully-painted wall in the venue. Even a plain white wall can be a great blank canvas to build upon to show off your [bridal shower theme](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-themes). \n\n### Or, Go Custom\n\nIf that doesn’t excite you, you can always order a custom backdrop from a place like Etsy or have one printed at Printastic. From there, you'll want to purchase a backdrop stand—like those you’d find at a portrait studio. Most standard backdrop stands can usually carry lightweight fabrics, canvases, foam, and paper, but anything heavier, like vinyl, might require a more heavy-duty stand. Putting up a backdrop stand is easy and pretty quick, making this a great option if you're short on time and in need of decor.\n\n### Now, Decorate Your Backdrop\n\nOkay, so you've settled on how you're going to build your backdrop, and now you're ready to really make it pop. There are plenty of ways to decorate your backdrop for your festivities.\n\n__Use lights:__ A beautiful and simple idea is to use Command hangers to drape string lights from the ceiling (or loop around your backdrop stand). \n\n__Use balloons:__ Balloons have always been popular—even more so now that we're becoming a far more photographic world. Buying a balloon garland in the colors of the special day and attaching it to your backdrop can be a game-changer for the event.\n\n__Use personalized letters:__ Make sure everyone knows who's being celebrated by decorating your backdrop with customizable acrylic or vinyl letters. You could even have an over-the-top banner printed to commemorate the day. \n\n__Use flowers:__ If you're using a foam board, covering it in fake flowers (you can push them through easily, no need for staples) in differing colors feels like a beautiful way to add to your celebration. If the floral budget is tight, opt for greenery garlands instead. \n\n__Use craft supplies:__ Fringed tinsel or fluffy yarn balls are another way of bringing in texture to your backdrop. And of course, paper. Paper, in a way, is almost built for a backdrop wall. You can hang streamers from the ceiling and have them rest against the backdrop for some texture and movement in your photos, or cut out paper garlands to hang down. \n\n__Use wrapping paper:__ Wrapping paper and wallpaper are always excellent choices for easy backdrop ideas. These materials are a breeze to work with and simple to clean up. \n\n## 4 Backdrop Ideas For Your Bridal Shower\nNow that you know the process, you're ready to gather some inspiration and get to work. In an attempt to aid and inspire, we've dropped four of our favorite bridal shower backdrop ideas—plus, how to put them together. Added bonus: Most of these can get multiple eases as wedding decor, party decor, or saved for future birthday parties and baby showers.\n\nBackdrops for your bridal shower's welcome sign, dessert table, and photo shoots are below.\n\n### 1. Fabric Streamers\nBy now, everyone's encountered a streamer wall or ten at various bachelorette parties, wedding showers, and engagement parties. The photo booth backdrop is a celebratory staple, exciting guests into taking selfies and having full-on themed photoshoots. They're simple to install and tons of fun as party decor—it's a win-win. That being said, if shining streamers don't fit your bridal party aesthetic or you want something a little different, we highly recommend swapping out streamers for strips of fabric. Panels made of lace, sheer chiffon, or colorful pieces make for a similarly beautiful backdrop, only more soft and elegant.\n\nTo create one of your own, first survey your bridal shower space. If there's a wall, fence, or even tree branch you can attach your fabric to, don't hesitate to utilize it. If not, get ahold of a wire, rack, laundry line, or similar. Then get large pieces of fabric and cut them into matching long and thin (around one to three inches in width) strips. Once you've got all of your finished pieces, tie them to your base. Finally, secure the ends of your base to a pole, wall, or ceiling if you want an arched appearance. Optional: Add matching florals or balloons around the top and sides \n\n### 2. Flower Wall\nFlower walls are exceptionally eye-catching, adding tons of texture and color to any party backdrop. From classic, to glam, to boho, they can be made to fit any theme or location. That being said, one can be quite the splurge if professionally made—especially if you want real florals. However, building one yourself (or with a couple helpers) can be easy and affordable.\n\nFirst, decide whether or not you want to purchase real florals and greenery or save some money and opt instead for faux versions. Then acquire a plywood or foam board and bring it down (or up) to your preferred size. Finally, with a visual in mind—or pinned to your Pinterest board—adhere the florals of your choice to your board. We suggest laying them out beforehand so you can get a good look before making anything permanent. Full floral backdrops are stunning, but those with exposed wood and minimal flowers are just as nice.\n\n### 3. Rustic Wood Backdrop\nWhether want something rustic and pared back or admittedly aren't the most crafty, a wood backdrop is an easy and stylish option. These backdrops work well both indoors and outdoors and immediately give off a warm and woodsy vibe. Plus, they can be assembled in various different ways, depending on how comfortable you or a helper is with woodworking. From simple single-panel backdrops, to floating walls, to spaced out planks with florals poking out in-between. You can even purchase already built, pre-loved wooden backdrops online on resale sites for ultimate ease. Add some string lights, hanging eucalyptus, or have a loved one with a steady hand paint the bride's name across the top, and your backdrop will be ready to go.\n\n### 4. Spell it Out\nEveryone loves themed event decor. One of the best ways to honor the bride-to-be and make a statement is to have a backdrop that spells out the occasion. What's wonderful about this idea is that the backdrop can be something as simple as a plain wall or fence. For letters you have a number of options, like balloons and widely popular glitter cardstock. Just purchase the needed letters for your special message and attach them to your backdrop of choice by string, push pin, or double-sided tape. Consider spelling something out like, \"Bride to Be,\" \"Miss to Mrs.\" or something more personalized like, \"Angela's Bridal Shower\" or \"Mrs. Garcia.\"\n\nWhatever you choose, Zola has every resource to make your bridal shower the festive event it should be, making it an easy and enjoyable day. ","tag":"How To","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Seasons_Quiz"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Whether you’re having a boho wedding or just want to incorporate more color, texture, and elements from nature into your wedding accessories, flower crowns are a great choice. 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","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2019-08-26T19:12:52.884Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2XbpZmfIcdYEomrhENfhEn/648a288482d78877b6b9a5d2965fa5f3/Hero_Unsplash.jpg","altText":"wedding shower"},"heroCredit":"Zola","body":"You probably have a good idea of who you’ll [invite to your wedding day](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-word-wedding-invitations) or bachelorette party. However, that’s not the only event that comes along on the wedding planning journey. If you plan to have a bridal shower or couple’s shower, you'll also need a guest list for that.\n\nFortunately, showers are typically much smaller than wedding ceremonies and receptions—and there’s a lot more flexibility when it comes to who to invite. Here, we break down all the common questions around who to invite to your wedding shower.\n\n## Do I have to invite my entire guest list to my wedding shower?\nNo. Your wedding party and close family members and friends reign supreme in this arena. And, assuming you’re having a traditional wedding of 100-200 guests, there are likely far more people invited to your wedding beyond those groups mentioned. So, you won’t invite every single person to your wedding shower that you invite to your wedding—and that’s OK. \n\nYou shouldn't feel bad about keeping your wedding shower intimate. In fact, the host or hostess may choose to narrow down their list to only the nearest and dearest people in their life and, in the case of a joint coed shower, their partner's life. Many of the popular games and [wedding shower traditions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers) wouldn’t lend well to a much larger guest list. The intimacy of a wedding shower allows that.\n\n![INLINE Photo by Brandy Angel Photography](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4CT9kTNW4erI8GQoLltYef/ed3b7f94013023f645089d61d4e687a2/INLINE_Photo_by_Brandy_Angel_Photography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Brandy Angel Photography\n\n## Should I have more than one wedding shower?\nTo make the guest list more manageable and make it easier for guests to attend, many couples choose to have more than one wedding shower. Traditionally, the mother of the bride's mom will host one wedding shower in the bride’s hometown and the mother of the groom will host another in his hometown. However, this is entirely up to you and your partner. You can have a joint bridal shower for both brides or a joint groom’s shower for two grooms. And, of course, the concept of a coed shower has also been gaining popularity.\n\nIt may sound excessive (especially as you plan all the other parts of your wedding experience), but multiple showers can allow you to invite more guests—and they won’t have to all travel so far to be there. \n\n## OK. So who do I invite?\nTo help you create your wedding shower invite list here’s are the people who definitely should attend and those you can potentially skip. \n\n### Close Family\nIf you’re having one wedding shower, both sides of the family and both sets of family friends should be invited. However, if you're having multiple bridal showers, you can invite the side of the family and family friends from that side only-or have a mix of both sides, depending on locations.\n\nIf you’re hosting a traditional bridal shower, it’s customary to invite women from both sides of each family. So, siblings, cousins, grandmothers, etc. The same would go for the men on both family sides for a groom-specific shower.\n\n### The Wedding Party\nSince the wedding shower is usually a more intimate celebration in honor of the upcoming nuptials, it’s imperative that the wedding party itself be invited. Oftentimes, the wedding party is involved in the actual planning of the wedding shower so their bridal shower invitation is almost assumed (although be sure to send out a physical invite, as well.) If you’re having a joint wedding shower you should invite both sides of the wedding party. \n\n### Best Friend(s)\nThe bride is the star of the show, so all of her friends should be first on the guest list, this of course includes the bridesmaid. This may or may not extend past the bridal party. If some of the bride’s close pals are not members of the wedding party, they too deserve an invite—and are likely hoping for one! Having their presence will only enhance the celebration factor and make the wedding shower games and activities all the more fun.\n\n![INLINE Cathy'sConcepts LoveWeddingGuestbookPuzzle](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1MTB3rHFcmvyTE8Evw5YRY/2d16fdd9d7b8399642c8fb071efc11c0/INLINE_Cathy_sConcepts_LoveWeddingGuestbookPuzzle.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Cathy's Concepts\n\n### Coworkers\nIf you have co-workers whom you’re close with—and you have room leftover—definitely include them in the wedding shower celebration. That said, obviously, don’t feel obligated to invite all of the people you come in close contact with during the work week. Only invite those coworkers that you consider friends and maybe get lunch with regularly or even occasionally hang out with outside the office.\n\nIf you do plan to invite only a handful of work friends and don’t intend to extend an invite to a larger group, be considerate of that. While your coworkers aren't likely all expecting an invitation, try not to talk too much about your bridal shower planning in the office around anyone not invited. It’s your shower, but there’s no reason to lay it thick around people who can’t come.\n\n### Distant Relatives \nWhen we say distant, we don’t only mean distance by location. While it’s customary to invite family to your shower who are also invited to the wedding, consider your relationship first. Your wedding shower is meant to be more intimate. You don’t need to fill the guest list with people who you aren’t particularly close with—yes, even if that includes your family members. \n\n### Anyone Not Invited To The Wedding\nYou don’t invite your full wedding guest list to the wedding shower. And you certainly don’t invite anyone not on that list. It’s generally seen as inappropriate and as if you’re pandering for gifts. If they’re not invited to the wedding day, they shouldn’t be invited to the shower. \n\nThe only exception here is in the case of those people invited to the wedding who cannot attend. You can still feel OK including them in your bridal shower invitation if they're close to you. They may be grateful for the invite so that they have a chance to partake even if they can’t be there on the big day. \n\nUltimately, the wedding party host decides who makes the bridal shower guest list. However, the couple’s input is necessary. 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It will certainly save you the process of first finding and then paying for a commercial event venue, any additional costs as far as décor and onsite arrangements. Plus, it might even help you curtail that never-ending bridal party guest list. \n\nNot sure where to begin? Here are a few bridal shower ideas to get you started on planning and what that will entail. Then, for inspiration, 35 of our favorite bridal shower decorations (or, wedding shower decorations, if that’s more your style). Read on for all of the need-to-knows below.\n\n## What to Keep in Mind When Planning an At-Home Bridal Shower\n\n### 1. Keep the Bridal Shower Guest List Practical\n\nYou’ll inevitably have less space to work with when planning an at-home shower, so remember to keep the guest list small. This will also conform to any safety precautions outlined by your city to address the pandemic.\n\nIf you’re having trouble paring down your guest list, consider implementing visitation windows of a few hours during the day. That way, you’ll see everyone you want in one day.\n\nAnd don’t forget to add a note about all the safety measures you’re taking to help guests feel more comfortable. \n\n### 2. Pace for Space\nThe space available at your home for all guests to freely move around might be limited, so keep in mind seating charts, flow of guests, and any specific games or other activities planned for the day. Have a designated space for gifts, and if you plan to unwrap in the presence of guests, ensure there’s adequate physical space for all to be seated during that time. \n\n### 3. Design Around Decor to Easily Create a Themed Shower\nWhen thinking of the bridal shower theme, you’ll want to design around the décor already present. Choose your theme for the event wisely, so you can minimize the amount of décor arrangements that need to be made ahead of the event. You can have an event planner come up with a shower theme and decorate your space, or you can do it yourself, but you will want to give it some thought for both budget and aesthetic reasons.\n\n### 5. Take It Outdoors\n\nWeather permitting, throwing a [bridal shower in your backyard](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-throw-a-bridal-shower-in-your-own-backyard), garden, or other outdoor spot is a great idea. This also easily addresses any social distancing and safety measures that must be followed. Should inclement weather threaten the celebration, you can always head back indoors. Another bonus: Outdoor venues typically require fewer decorations, so if there’s a change of plans, you won’t have to worry about wasted decor. \n\n![How to Throw a Bridal Shower at Home](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/37J3XYVnRPx3H56L9oLMw6/120a552c11ae1f746c6acf8499ef3dbc/inline_terrence_harrison_wedding_photography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Terrence Harrison Wedding Photography\n\n### 6. Plan for Virtual\nYou can always host a virtual bridal shower at home and have all your friends and family call in for a livestream event if you prefer not to have many people gathering at one location. Gifts can be sent to you ahead of the bridal shower and be unwrapped in real time for guests to see online. You can send guests a virtual background or cocktail recipe specially designed for the celebration, so everyone feels like part of a big event. This also makes for great photos and a cohesive video for your memory books later.\n\n### Don’t Forget the Food\n\nThe [bridal shower food menu](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-food-to-serve-at-your-bridal-shower) is just as important as any other element. If you’re hosting an in-person gathering, have several food stations across the space to help spread out guests. You can also opt for packed meals, bento boxes, or catered trays. For a virtual event, send little care bags with goodies to your guests ahead of their scheduled time with you. The food is certainly one aspect where you can splurge if you’re saving on your budget by throwing a bridal shower at home. Throwing a bridal shower at home can be as simple or involved as you’d like, depending on how much time, effort and other resources you have at your disposal. If you’re focused on preparing for your big wedding day, use this guide as a bridal shower checklist to ease some of the bridal shower planning. The most important factor though as the bride is to enjoy the celebrations and see the day unfold as planned. After all, it’s your special day and that’s all that matters.\n\n## 35 Bridal Shower Decor Ideas for a Perfect Celebration at Home\nWith your at-home bridal shower party need-to-knows covered, let’s talk decor. Hosting the celebration at home is no reason not to decorate. In fact, with free reign over the space and practically no limitations (such as those you might have at a venue or restaurant), your options actually vastly open up. For some inspiration, see 35 of our current favorites when it comes to bridal shower decor below.\n\n### 1. Bridal Chair\nOne popular element found at many bridal showers is a seat specifically for the bride. These are usually decorated in some way, be it covered in flowers, ribbon, tulle, or otherwise. Typically, the bride will sit here to lounge, eat, or—most often—open gifts, with her maid of honor at her side.\n\n### 2. Balloon Arch or Installation\nWho doesn’t love a large balloon piece? Whether you order one custom made or DIY one yourself, balloon arches and installations are eye-catching and sure to be the talk of the party (outside of the bride, of course). Have yours made within your party’s color scheme and set up by the entrance, gift table, dessert table, or photo booth.\n\n### 3. Balloon Letters\nTake balloons a step further by ordering letters that spell out the bride’s name, new last name (if she’s taking a new one), or similar wedding-style phrase.\n\n### 4. Floral Garland\nFor an enchanted garden affair, drape floral garlands over the backs of chairs, hang on a wall or across tree branches, or use as table runners.\n\n### 5. Champagne Tower or Wall\nA bridal shower is definitely a cause to celebrate. Start the party off right by having a pre-set champagne tower or wall set up by the time guests arrive. Encourage everyone to take a glass of bubbly, then gather everyone together for a special toast to kick things off.\n\n## 6. Dessert Display\nFood can easily function as decor, too. Tiered stands, metallic trays, and a well put-together dessert table can beautifully display cake, cupcakes, macarons, tarts, cookies, waffles (if a bridal shower brunch is the vibe), and more.\n\n### 7. Favor Table\nLikewise, your bridal shower favors can double as an eye-catching piece of decor. Whether you plan on giving out custom champagne flutes, soaps, jars of jam, or candles, they can be arranged beautifully atop a special table. Bonus points if the favors are on-theme with the shower.\n\n### 8. Monograms and Personalizations\nFor the classic and creative bridal shower, consider creating a monogram or personalized emblem that can be printed onto various pieces of shower decor. Think the bride’s initials or a symbol that’s representative of the theme. Include it on bridal shower invitations, napkins, signage, and similar for a chic and coordinated appearance.\n\n### 9. LED Balloons\nEvening celebrations would do well to take the leap from standard balloons to light-up LED balloons. These beautiful pieces of decor twinkle against an evening or nighttime backdrop, while adding a bit of whimsy to your shower.\n\n### 10. Photo Booth Backdrop\nGuests will flock to a gorgeous photo booth backdrop. These can vary greatly depending on your theme or party aesthetic, though we love those that are composed of florals, fabric, or balloons.\n\n### 11. Custom Place Cards\nPull your table settings together by purchasing or creating printable, custom place cards. Not only will these help your guests know where to sit, they’ll also help the event feel a touch more formal.\n\n### 12. Confetti Poppers\nAdd some excitement to the day by handing out confetti poppers in your color palette. Doing so towards the beginning of your bash means you’ll have a fun sprinkle of confetti all over the place for the rest of the shower. If poppers aren’t ideal (say, your dog gets afraid), try these [Gold Confetti Boxes ($1.99)](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/gingerray_gold_confetti) instead. Pro tip: If you’ll be outside, seek out biodegradable confetti—or, opt for flower petals instead.\n\n### 13. Mason Jar Centerpieces\nAmp up a boho-styled celebration by placing centerpieces in mason jars. These can be flowers, sure, but also greenery, candles, and even sand and shells.\n\n### 14. Chalkboard Sign\nSome of the most impressive decor pieces are incredibly simple to put together. Pull out or buy a sizable chalkboard and some chalk, then use both to create a custom sign. This can be anything from a welcome sign to a wedding countdown that the bride can take home and keep updating.\n\n### 15. Record Player Display\nSkip the Spotify playlist and, instead, have a nice record player on display spinning some of the bride’s favorite music. \n\n### 16. Custom Welcome Signage\nOrder or custom make a welcome sign just for the occasion. You can DIY your ow acrylic sign with vinyl letters or a paint pen and a plexiglass sheet.\n\n### 17. Letter Sign\nJust as eye-catching are letter signs, typically made of plastic, wood, and even often lights. If it’s in your budget (or you’re particularly crafty), order one with the couple’s last name. That way, it can be reused as wedding or home decor.\n\n### 18. Floral Arrangements\nTraditional, classic, and exceptionally fresh, nothing quite compares to fresh florals. Place bouquets around the room as centerpieces or decorative arrangements. Your choice of flowers, greenery, and even vase can be customized just to your liking.\n\n### 19. Refreshment Station\nWhether it’s a mimosa bar or a series of flavored water dispensers, guests are bound to love a refreshment station. Complete yours with a series of ingredients and toppings, such as fresh fruit.\n\n![How to Throw a Bridal Shower at Home](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/59fop6AxCcRb9ZQDHW9Xbg/a22d05f515cf9e53fe859c05e56cd767/inline_shutterstock.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Shutterstock\n\n### 20. Lanterns\nIndoor or outdoor, lanterns add a dose of elegance and whimsy to any occasion. Hang a few from tree branches, use them as centerpieces, or place them along a pathway into the shower.\n\n## 21. Printed Pictures\nLet’s get sentimental. Photographs can be a touching and beautiful way to adorn a bridal shower. There are multiple ways to use them, too. Turn photos of the happy couple into a hanging banner—which can also be used for bridal shower games, such as guessing how old the couple was or how long they’d been together. You can also ask each guest to bring a photo of themselves with the bride that can be hung on a corkboard or framed.\n\n### 22. Cards and Gifts Table\nIf the bride hasn’t expressed a desire for no [bridal shower gifts](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-shower-gifts), expect guests to bring at least a few. In preparation, set up a table specifically to receive them. Include a small sign indicating that it’s the gift table, a card holder, and perhaps some flower petals or confetti sprinkled atop the surface.\n\n### 23. String Lights\nString lights are not only magical, but extremely versatile. Hang them, drape them, wrap them around trees—the possibilities are virtually endless.\n\n### 24. Floating Tealight Candles\nTake advantage of any outdoor (or indoor) fountains by placing some tealight candles in the water. Lit or not, they’ll add an air of calm and finesse to the scene.\n\n### 25. Decorative Candles \nSimilarly, consider using decorative candles and candle holders all around your space. Votives, hurricane holders, taper candle holders, candelabras—the options are plentiful. If you’re concerned about open flames, LED candles are also beautiful without causing you worry.\n\n### 26. Themed Reusable Straws\nWhat’s better than a fun, themed straw? A nice, reusable straw that guests can take home. Order them in your occasion’s or the wedding’s color scheme and hand out as guests arrive or before a special toast. Just remember to purchase those that come with small carrying cases! Not only will your guests be thankful for the convenience, but you can further customize them.\n\n### 27. Pretty Parasols\nWill your bridal shower be outside in the sun? Consider purchasing and setting up parasols for your guests. Not only will they shield them from the heat, but look stylish while doing so.\n\n### 28. Vintage Dinnerware and Glassware\nTake your meal set-up to the next level with vintage dinnerware and/or glassware. Aside from looking stunning, this is actually quite easy to achieve. In the weeks leading up to the shower, go thrifting for pieces. Start a collection that you can clean up and use on the special day.\n\n### 29. Rustic Ladder\nFor a cottagecore styled shower, consider dressing up a rustic ladder. One can be used to display florals, candles, framed photographs, and an array of other decor pieces.\n\n### 30. Accessory Gifts\nExtend the decor to your guests by providing something they can all wear. Flower crowns, cowboy hats, sailor caps—whatever fits the bridal shower’s theme. What’s more, these can also act as bridal shower gifts.\n\n### 31. Draped Tulle\nCreate a scene straight out of a fantasy setting by using tulle in your decorating. This airy fabric can be used as a table runner, draped over branches, tied around chairs, and so much more.\n\n### 32. 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The bridal shower food should also be one of the items you leave some wiggle room in your budget for as you're planning your party.\n\nBut [planning](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bridal-shower) the menu can sometimes be a little daunting, because there are a lot of moving parts to consider––finger food, appetizers, seated meal, buffet—and even the bridal shower theme. The good news: Whatever kind of shower you’re throwing, there is a perfect menu to be catered to it. Below we take a look at some things to keep top-of-mind when planning a bridal shower menu, as well as 20 bridal shower food and drink ideas to inspire or choose from. \n\n## 20 Food and Drink Ideas\nNow that you’ve got an idea of how to select the bites and menu items for your shower, let’s talk inspiration. Below we share 20 of our favorite drink and food ideas, from towers, to skewers, to mimosas, and more.\n\n![What Food to Serve at Your Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NsCl6Ta9X1UiAf1hXbiB1/3b29e952ae3e96cb5b70453a8ef19d7d/shutterstock_150361421.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Shutterstock\n\n### 1. Non-Alcoholic Drink Dispensers\nAlong with any cocktails and bubbly you might have, you’ll want to provide a few non-alcoholic options. Or, perhaps you’re hosting a dry shower altogether. In either case, you can display beverages like lemonade, punch, and fruit-infused water in beautiful glass dispensers.\n\n### 2. Craft Cocktail Bar\nSet up a table that allows guests to mix together their own craft cocktails. Include a variety fresh ingredients, such as liquors, mixers, and garnishes. You can even put a few framed recipes on display.\n\n### 3. Mimosa and Breakfast Bar\nEarly to midday affairs benefit greatly from a mimosa and breakfast bar. Provide a variety of breakfast and brunch foods, like acai bowls, quiche, fresh fruit, yogurt, granola, and so on. Top it all off with some mimosa mixings for an ideal brunch set-up.\n\n### 4. Oversized Grazing Spread\nPerhaps you’d like some readily available bites for your guests. An easy and impressive option, here, is an oversized grazing table or platter. Include all of the necessities you’d have on a cheese board (such as cheeses, crackers, and jams), as well as crudité, fresh fruit, sliced meats, nuts, olives, honey, and/or olive oil.\n\n### 5. Charcuterie Boards\nWhat’s the difference in a grazing platter and charcuterie board? Well, while a grazing board has a variety of different snack foods, a charcuterie board focusses mainly on cured meats or pâtés. That being said, they’re often paired with cheese and crackers. Put together a few different boards and place them around your shower for your guests to pick from.\n\n### 6. Fresh Dips Spread\nAnother fresh and delicious hors d'oeuvre idea centers on a variety of dips. Display a handful of dips such as artichoke dip, guacamole, and salsa at the center of a table and surround them by dipping options like bread, crackers, tortilla chips, and crudité.\n\n### 7. Wine Pairings\nSimilarly, you can base an appetizer or bites off of wine pairings. Have the bride-to-be select two to four wines and pair each with a few complimentary foods. Consider cheeses, meats, desserts, and other small bites.\n\n### 8. Dessert Towers\nWho doesn’t love a beautiful display? For fancy affairs, place smaller desserts such as tarts, cheesecake bites, cupcakes, macarons, and brownies on tiered platters.\n\n### 9. High Tea Set-Up\nBridal showers inspired by regency-era shows such as Bridgerton will delight in a high tea set-up, complete with all of the fixings you’d find at a tea party—tea sandwiches, deviled eggs, chicken salad, scones, and, of course, a selection of teas.\n\n### 10. Finger Food\nIf the idea of small bites appeals to you, but you’re not keen on a high tea theme, consider sticking to finger food. Such foods—like finger sandwiches and pinwheels—are easy for guests to navigate and take with them as they mingle with other guests. This is a particularly good option if you aren’t planning on a sit-down meal.\n\n### 11. Seafood Stations\nFormal seaside celebrations can lean into their setting with various seafood stations. Guests are sure to be impressed by a selection of sushi, lobster rolls, oysters, or shrimp. Just be sure to have some beloved staples as well, for less adventurous guests.\n\n### 12. Pasta Bar\nSpeaking of beloved staples, you simply can’t go wrong with a pasta bar. Provide a few different types of pasta (bowtie, angel hair, etc.), as well as some sauces (tomato sauce, fettucine) and perhaps a few other options like gnocchi and allow guests to put their plates together with their favorites.\n\n### 13. Seasonal Salads\nSeasonal salads serve as a fool-proof app. You can cater a salad (or selection of salads) to compliment just about any main course, making them ideal for sit-down meals.\n\n### 14. Skewers\nBefore you sit for your main course, there are two things guests are likely to want to do: Snack and socialize. Make it easy on them by serving easy-to-eat skewers. Stack your sticks with caprese (mozzarella pearls, tomato, and balsamic), tortellini , an assortment of veggies, kebabs, or whatever else is in season.\n\n### 15. Flatbreads\nPerhaps you’d love to serve pizza, but want to step things up a bit. For a more formal alternative, consider artisan flatbreads. You can go traditional (tomato and mozzarella), step outside of the box (grilled apple and goat cheese), or have a few different options available.\n\n### 16. Fondue Set-Ups\nUnique and delicious, a few fondue stations are sure to excite your guests. Either set up a few large fountains (with cheese and chocolate, of course) for everyone to dip from on a large table or—our favorite—set up smaller fountains at each dinner table so everyone can sit and eat at their leisure.\n\n### 17. Professional Catering\nOf course, you can always rely on professional catering. Take the location of your bridal shower into account and reach out to local restaurants and caterers that match the formality of the shower, as well as the kind of food the bride would enjoy.\n\n### 18. Fair Food\nLaidback showers can lean into a fun summer theme with foods you’d find at your local fair. Present your guests with pretzels and cheese dip, corn on the cob, churros, snow cones—you get the idea. Top the whole thing off with a cotton candy machine for added flair.\n\n### 19. Fast Food Catering\nSo restaurant catering isn’t the feeling you’re going for. No problem. Non-traditional bridal showers can hire the bride or couple’s favorite fast food joint to cater the day. Some fast food restaurants, like In-N-Out, even have food trucks that can simply pull up to your event and serve. Not only is this a fun way to source your menu, but a personalized addition to the day.\n\n### 20. Champagne Tower\nDitch traditional desserts like cake (or don’t) and have a fun champagne tower moment. Once guests have settled in, direct their attention to a beautiful display of towered coupe glasses. Then, simply have the bride-to-be get pouring! Guests will be thrilled at the elegant display, as well as the handing out of freshly poured champagne. Plus, this gives the host(s) or bride a chance to give a lovely toast and thank everyone in attendance.\n\nUltimately, you have the final say. Do what makes the most sense for you, your partner, and your budget to craft the best bridal shower menu for you. There are a lot of ways to approach it, and although food is one of the big ticket items for a shower, it doesn't have to break the bank or be a stressful endeavor. Your family members, bridesmaids, close friends, and other guests will appreciate whatever you prepare for them.\n\nAnd if you need any help in your other bridal shower planning endeavors, such as [invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/cute-bridal-shower-brunch-invitations) or [bridal shower games](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/free-bridal-shower-printables), we’ve got you covered.\n\n## Things to Have in Mind\nDeciding on food and drinks isn’t exactly as easy as choosing what sounds good. There are several things you’ll want to take into consideration before setting anything in stone. \n\n### Consider the Time of Day and the Type of Shower\n\nWhether you’re having an evening bridal shower party or a bridal shower brunch, the time of day you’re planning to have your shower will play a factor in the kind of party food your menu will consist of. Are you going for a more relaxed vibe at your house or at a friend's? Are you springing for an event space or hosting it at a restaurant?\n\n- An afternoon cocktail hour shower will generally consist of smaller bites and hors d'oeuvres. There are so many ways this can go with twists on bar food, such as mini hamburger sliders made with veggie or impossible burgers, elevated tacos, or even Pan-Asian inspired dishes incorporating seafood such as shrimp and scallops. \n\n- If you're hosting a shower during dinner hour, consider serving heavier items, because some people may be expecting a full meal. Think caprese salads, dishes that incorporate hummus and other protein, or personalized pizzas with a twist. \n\n- If you’re hosting your party earlier in the day, a brunch menu may be more appropriate. You can’t go wrong with a take on waffles, pancakes, breakfast sandwich sliders, and fresh fruit. Also, don't skimp on things like hash browns and breakfast pastry classics like blueberry muffins, scones, and donuts. \n\n### Consider Hiring a Professional\nPlanning any kind of party regardless of its size is an undertaking. And when it involves potentially cooking a lot of food, the task can feel overwhelming. Depending on where you have your event, either at [home](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-throw-a-bridal-shower-at-home) or in a venue, one thing you can do to help alleviate the stress is to hire a professional chef or caterer. They can work with you to create a customized menu that incorporates your favorite party foods and others that are sure to be winners. \n\nWhen working with a chef or caterer, be sure to ask them their professional opinion on how to approach the menu. They can help give you advice on something you might have not considered and can help you get creative and come up with new takes on familiar dishes. Taking popular items such as avocado toast and doing a mini version of it as hors d'oeuvres can be the fun twist that will leave a memorable and delicious impression on your guests. \n\n### Try to Incorporate Seasonal Flavors\n\n![What Food to Serve at Your Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/25zCwz1OD84whrnaIzOp4X/b269666552fe94c286c68d7a2cf281d8/inline_cassy_velasquez_photography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Cassy Velasquez Photography\n\nWhen it comes to planning your bridal shower always remember to plan around the season. This can greatly affect both the kinds of food you can have and also where you will be having it. This will also ensure you’re working with the freshest, highest quality ingredients you can get. Going to a local farmers market, for example, can be a great way to help introduce you to items that are currently available and can also be a jumping off point for some menu items. \n\n- For summer and spring showers, think about seasonal berries and fruits that can be used to create beautiful fruit salads or berry-infused drinks or desserts. Also, consider the bounty of fresh vegetables available for a variety of veggie-inspired dishes.\n\n- For fall and winter, items such as leeks, squash, and other root vegetables can easily be used in a variety of ways—everything from complex sauces, soups, roasts, and more. Remember to think about how to use proteins in a way that incorporates the seasons, as well. \n\n### Get Creative With How You Serve Food\nThe sky's the limit when you’re planning your shower menu. Having a DIY element, such as a make-your-own ice cream sundae or sandwich bar is a fun way to get your guests talking and interacting with the food in a different way—a unique memory for sure. \n\nThe container you choose can also help mix things up. When you're looking for bowls, trays, and other serving vessels, think outside of the box. Using interesting containers to serve things such as a salad, dessert, or more can also elevate the food—especially if you’re opting to have food stations. \n\n### Think About Crowd-Pleasing Food Items\nWhen you're hosting any kind of party there are certain items you can never go wrong with. Cheese boards are one item that leave a lot of room for possibilities. You can include everything from:\n\n- Olives\n- Nuts\n- Marinated veggies\n- Pickles\n- Fruit\n- Cheeses from around the world\n- Cured meats\n\nIf you're strapped for ideas, considering food items that your hometown or state is known for can also be another way to get creative. For example, if you live in Vermont, incorporate maple syrup into your menu. You can also source local items from surrounding farms and merchants to show hometown pride. \n\n### Consider How You Want to Include Alcohol (or Not)\nAlthough a bridal shower is a celebratory occasion, you can decide how much or how little alcohol you want to include. If you choose to have a bar at your shower, you can limit it to things like beer and wine and just have drinks passed as opposed to offering a fully stocked bar. Signature cocktails are also all the rage nowadays and having two specialty drink items can also help to cut back on what people are drinking. No matter what, be sure to have some non-alcoholic options such as tea or orange juice on hand, too.","tag":"How To","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"All of your bridal shower gifts questions answered. 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But in the months leading up to the wedding day, there are other wedding-related events that the couple or their loved ones may choose to incorporate into the wedding planning process (like an engagement party or bachelorette party)—including the wedding shower, also known as a bridal shower.\n\nDo you want to plan a bridal shower the bride (and all the guests!) are sure to remember? Here’s everything you need to know to plan the best bridal shower: \n\n## What Happens at a Bridal Shower?\nIf you’ve never planned a bridal shower before, you may be wondering what is supposed to happen during this pre-wedding event. Bridal shower activities include having food and drinks, opening gifts, and playing games while celebrating the bride. Bridal showers should be as unique as the bride herself. Not all brides will want to play games, and not all brides will want drinks. Some brides will want a casual potluck, while others may prefer an upscale brunch.\n\nPlanning a bridal shower is much like planning any other party. If you’re hosting a bridal shower and need a little guidance, here’s a step-by-step planning timeline to help you figure out what you need to do, and in what order, to pull off a great party.\n\n## Who Throws a Bridal Shower?\nBridal showers are typically hosted by someone close to the bride—like the maid of honor, a family member, members of the bridal party or wedding party (like the bridesmaids), or close friends.\n\n## Who Should Be Invited To The Bridal Shower?\nHistorically, bridal showers were events for the important women in the bride’s life—including their family members, their partner’s family members, their bridal party, and their close friends. However, couples’ and co-ed showers are becoming more the norm—so, depending on the bride’s vision, you can include anyone and everyone that she’d like to invite.\n\n## Is The Couple Involved With The Process?\nThe couple’s level of involvement in planning the shower can vary widely. Some brides and/or couples want nothing to do with the planning process; they want to be totally surprised. Some want to share some generally bridal shower ideas with the host to give them direction—and others want to be involved in every step of the planning process. \n\nIf you’re planning a bridal shower, talk to the bride and ask her how involved she (and potentially her partner) would like to be in the process.\n\n## Steps To Plan The Perfect Bridal Shower\n\n### 1. Talk With The Bride About What Kind of Shower She Wants\n\nThe bridal shower is all about the bride—so you want to make sure to talk to the bride and get her insights and opinions on what kind of wedding shower she’d like.\n\nSome questions you may want to consider asking the bride-to-be include:\n\n- Does she want to open gifts? Play games? \n\n- Are there any bridal shower themes she would like for the shower—like a garden party or tea party?\n\n- How formal or informal would she like it to be? Does she have a particular venue or color palette in mind?\n\n### 2. Set The Date and Location for The Shower\nWhen and where you host the shower is another important element to consider. When choosing the data and location for the bridal shower, there are a few things you’ll want to keep in mind, including:\n\n- Consult with the bride and/or groom to nail down a date that works for everyone’s schedules. \n\n- An ideal wedding shower date should be a few months before the big day, and no closer than one month from the wedding date.\n\n- Shower venues can vary based on what the bride wants. We recommend presenting her with a few options to choose from\n\n### 3. Determine The Overall Shower Budget\nIf you’re throwing a wedding shower, you need to get clear about how much you can spend. Before you get too far into the planning process, make sure to:\n\n- Set a realistic budget. You want to throw a memorable event for the bride—but you don’t want to put yourself in a financially precarious situation to do so. Take a look at your finances and be realistic about what and how much you can spend.\n\n- Ask for help if you need it. While the host generally pays for the shower, it’s becoming more common for other loved ones to chip in; for example, if you’re the maid of honor, you might ask the bridesmaids to chip in for the shower. This will give you more money to work with—and help you throw a more memorable event (without completely breaking the bank!). \n\n### 4. Finalize The Shower Guest List\nWhile the wedding shower host takes care of most of the planning details, the one element you’ll likely want to get the couple’s input on is the guest list.\n\nHave the bride or couple give you a list of friends and family she/they’d like to invite, including their names, emails, phone numbers, and mailing addresses.\n\n### 5. Order Paper Invitations\n\nBridal showers aren’t last-minute events. You need to give guests plenty of time to mark their calendars and make arrangements to attend.\n\nIf you’re ordering custom bridal shower invitations, you’ll need to order them even further in advance. Order custom __[bridal shower invites](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop)__ at least six weeks before the shower date so you’ll have plenty of time to receive them and send them to guests.\n\n### 6. Create The Menu and Order Catering, If Necessary\nWhether you’re planning on having a sit down meal, a boozy [bridal shower brunch](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/cute-bridal-shower-brunch-invitations), or just having finger foods for guests to snack on, planning the menu is an important part of the shower planning process.\n\nWhen choosing foods, some things you’ll want to consider include:\n\n- Based upon how extravagant your shower menu is, research and hire a local caterer. Be sure to get a price quote so there are no surprises. \n\n- If the host or hosts are handling the food themselves, map out a timeline for when to shop for ingredients and supplies, when to prep, when to cook, and when to plate and serve the food. \n\n### 7. Order a Cake and/or Make Plans for Other Desserts\nWhen you’re planning the food, don’t forget about dessert! When planning your wedding shower desserts, make sure to:\n\n- Set a pick up time. If you’re ordering a cake from a bakery, request a pickup time (or delivery window) either the day before or earlier in the morning on the day of the shower.\n\n- If you’re baking the dessert yourself, make sure to do a trial run of the recipe at least a week before the shower. You don’t want to have something go wrong with the recipe at the last minute—and then have nothing to serve to guests at the event.\n\n- Consider whether you want to serve coffee alongside cake or dessert, and plan accordingly.\n\n### 8. Send Out Shower Invitations to Guests.\nIf you gave yourself enough time, about a month prior to the shower, your bridal shower invitations should have arrived—and when they do, it’s time to send them to guests.\n\n- Send your bridal shower invites through the post or email at least three to four weeks from the shower date.\n\n- If you’re sending out a digital invitation, also aim to send those out three to four weeks before the wedding shower.\n\n- Include a way for guests to RSVP to the shower, either via phone, email, or online for digital invitations, as well as an RSVP deadline.\n\n### 9. Choose a List of Beverages and/or Specialty Drinks to Serve.\nPlanning to toast the bride with some adult beverages? Here are a few things to keep in mind when planning the drink menu:\n\n- Research and choose a fun specialty cocktail that reflects the tastes of the bride.\n\n- Buy bottles of wine, liquor, beer, mixers, sparkling water, mineral water, and/or juice at bulk retailers for better discounts.\n\n- Make sure to have non-alcoholic options on hand for people who don’t drink.\n\n- Don’t forget bar accessories like festive straws, cocktail napkins, bottle openers, and cut lemons and limes.\n\n### 10. Decide Upon Shower Décor, and Shop For Any Needed Supplies\nYou want the bridal shower to feel festive and celebratory—and that means decorating the venue space.\n\nHow you decorate is up to you; shower decorations can include anything from fresh flowers in pretty vessels to candles in mason jars, paper garlands to banners or balloons, or anything else that coordinates with the shower theme. \n\nJust make sure you give yourself time to shop for all the decorations and, if necessary, to order them and have them shipped; two to three weeks before the event is a good time frame to shop for decor.\n\n### 11. Decide Upon Shower Games and/or Activities, and Shop for Any Needed Supplies\nIf you’re going to be playing any bridal shower games, you’ll want to gather any necessary supplies beforehand. And if those supplies include any printed elements, be sure to stock up on printer toner—you don’t want to run out last minute as you’re trying to print everything out for the guests!\n\n### 12. Choose and Purchase Shower Favors\nIf you’re going to hand out party favors to guest, you’ll want to buy or order them at least two weeks before the event—and have them packaged and ready to go to the venue on the day of the event.\n\nNot sure what to give out as favors? Some ideas include small potted plants or succulents, hand lotion, nail polish, lip balm, soaps, candles, a kitchen tool or gadget, a mini bottle of wine, a stemless wine glass, or something related to the shower theme.\n\n### 13. Stock Up on Partyware Essentials\nThere are certain things you need to throw a party—including a bridal shower—and you’ll want to shop for those things in the days leading up to the big event.\n\nSome partyware essentials you’ll want to stock up on prior to the shower include:\n\n- Disposable plates, cups, and utensils\n- Napkins and table linens\n- Trash bags\n- Paper towels and stain remover, in case of spills\n- Ice and an ice cooler\n\n### 14. One Day Before, Set Up As Much As Possible (Based on The Location), Including:\nDepending on where you’re hosting the bridal shower, you may be able to get in early (for example, the night before) to set up the space—and if you can get in early, you should take advantage of the extra set up time.\n\nSome elements you’ll want to consider setting up the day before the shower (if possible) include:\n\n- Décor\n- The bar table or area\n- The gifts table or area\n- Games and/or activities\n- Favors\n- Make-ahead food and drink items\n\n### 15. On The Day of The Shower:\nThe day of the shower has arrived! The hours leading up to the event are for tying up any loose ends and making sure everything (including you!) is ready for the bride’s special day, including:\n\n- Prepping all the final details\n\n- Getting dressed in your bridal shower [outfit](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-bridal-shower)\n\n- Wrapping and bringing your [bridal shower gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-shower-gifts), if you’re giving one\n\n- Getting to the shower location a few hours early to finish setting everything up\n\n- Enjoying a terrific bridal shower!\n\n## Use These Tips To Plan An Unforgettable Bridal Shower\nYou want to plan a wedding shower that the bride will never forget. And now that you know the steps you’ll need to take to plan the perfect shower, you’re armed with the information you need to create an unforgettable event for the bride and all of the guests. So what are you waiting for? 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","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2020-08-18T16:01:11.177Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5RapCbzn1LzOceHMpyYGah/7441b5c1dc5bd9b85a80b54b1f3c930b/Hero_Wedding-shower-guide_Stephanie-Dee-Photography.jpg","altText":"couple in front of art wall"},"heroCredit":"Stephanie Dee Photography","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\nJump around below and find out all there is to know about wedding showers!\n\n- Wedding Shower Basics: What Is a Wedding Shower? Who Hosts a Wedding Shower?\n- Wedding Shower Guest List: How Many People Are Typically Invited? \n- Wedding Shower Gifts: What Kind of Gift Should I Bring to a Shower?\n- Wedding Shower Activities: Do You Have to Play Games at a Shower?\n","body":"A pre-wedding rite of passage, the wedding shower is steeped in decades of history and tradition, but it’s an often overlooked element of wedding planning.\n\nWhether you’re planning your own wedding shower, hosting for someone else, or attending as a guest, you probably have a lot of questions.\n\nFrom preparing the guest list to sending out thank-you notes, our wedding shower guide will lead you through all the traditional protocols—as well as provide ideas to modernize your celebration, if you so choose. Read on for everything you need to know about bridal shower etiquette:\n\n## Wedding Shower Basics \n\n### What Is a Wedding Shower?\nFirst things first—[what is a bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-bridal-shower-and-what-is-its-purpose)?\n\nIntended as an opportunity for guests to “shower” the soon-to-be-married couple with affection, advice, amusement, and support, a wedding shower is a pre-wedding celebration. Typically, the festivities [will be held in the months leading up to the wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/when-should-you-have-a-wedding-shower) and may involve a variety of games, wedding-related trivia, and other activities. \n\n### Is It a Women-Only Celebration?\nTraditionally, these gatherings were referred to as bridal showers, where only the bride and other women were invited. However, this practice has evolved, and many modern wedding showers include [both halves of the couple](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/coed-wedding-shower), plus any guests they choose to invite. \n\n### What Is the Difference Between a Couple’s Shower and a Bridal Shower?\nBridal showers are the more traditional approach and would usually see only women in attendance. A couple’s shower (also known as a coed shower), on the other hand, will have a coed guest list—including friends and family members of both halves of the couple.\n\nWhile a traditional bridal shower is more likely to occur mid-day, a coed or couple’s shower is often held in the late afternoon or evening hours. Similarly, bridal showers typically revolve around bridal-centric themes, favors, and games, such as creating wedding bouquets from toilet paper, which are not as common at coed showers. \n\n![Wedding Shower Guide](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1djJUPQNXHAQsdumSYIAa1/4526c98a5650e05478374dd7f0685bbb/Inline_Wedding-shower-guide_Kate-edwards-photography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Kate Edwards Photography\n\n### Who Hosts a Wedding Shower?\nTraditionally, the bride’s maid of honor, bridesmaids, mother of the bride, and/or the groom’s mother host the shower. However, anyone who wants to throw a wedding shower can—and in some cases, the couple may throw one themselves. \n\nDepending on the type of celebration you’re having and the number of guests invited, sharing the hosting duties between two or three people can be a smart move, as the task is not small, and the cost of the event can be split.\n\nKeep in mind that the bridal shower guest list is determined by the bride and/or couple. If you’re planning a bridal shower, make sure to ask the bride and/or couple for their [wedding shower guest list](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/invite-to-wedding-shower) at least two months in advance so you have time to send out invites—and guests have time to RSVP. \n\n### Can I Have Two Showers?\nHaving multiple showers can be a great way to celebrate with a variety of people (e.g. one for local family members, one for close friends that live in the city). Particularly, if you have a large wedding guest list spread out over a variety of locations.\n\nHowever, the more showers you have, the trickier it is to navigate the guest list etiquette. When having multiple showers, your immediate family and wedding party should be the only people invited to more than one event; all other guests should only receive one shower invite. You also want to communicate to guests that they only need to attend one shower—and only one gift (if they choose to give one) is necessary. \n\n## Wedding Shower Guest List \n\n### How Many People Are Typically Invited? \nThis will depend on a variety of factors, like your venue and whether you’re hosting a couple’s shower. Traditionally, an intimate bridal shower will have about 15 guests invited, but a larger coed shower may see closer to 50 people invited. It’s really up to you!\n\n### Should I Invite My Co-Workers?\nIf you’re good friends with your co-workers and plan to invite them to the wedding, go for it. However, if your office is small and/or has a circle of co-worker friends and not all of them made the cut, it’s best to privately message those who did to keep their invite and chatter about the shower to themselves. You don’t want to make your other co-workers feel awkward or hurt their feelings.\n\n### Can My Fiancé Come to the Shower?\nTraditionally, your fiancé would not attend. However, if you want them to come, the decision is yours. Of course, if you have a couple’s shower, your soon-to-be-spouse should be in attendance.\n\n### Can I Invite People Who Are Not Invited to the Wedding?\nNo, many guests would find it rude to receive bridal shower invitations and not an invitation to the wedding itself, as showers are typically a gift-giving event. However, if you have invited someone to the wedding, and they have already indicated that they are unable to attend the wedding, inviting them to the shower can be a great way to include them in your celebration.\n\n### Do I Invite Out-of-Town Guests to the Shower If I Don’t Expect Them to Come?\nWhile this might seem like a nice gesture, they may assume that you’re expecting them to travel for the event. Even worse, they might perceive that you are attempting to get extra presents from those you know won’t be able to attend, but will still feel obligated to send a gift in their absence. Instead, it’s best to keep the guest list to local friends and family, as well as those you know won’t miss it.\n\nIf you’re worried about hurting distant friends or relatives by not inviting them, consider writing them a quick note or email explaining how you didn’t want them to feel pressured to attend considering the distance—and that sending a gift is not expected.","body2":"## Wedding Shower Gifts \n\n### Do Guests Always Bring Gifts?\nA bridal shower gift is the traditional way for guests to “shower” the bride or couple at the celebration. However, if you’re uncomfortable with or don’t need gifts from your registry, you can easily ask guests to support you in other ways, or request alternative gifts that might feel more in line with your needs and values as a couple, such as:\n\n- Donations to your favorite local charities.\n\n- Funs for your honeymoon.\n\n- Potted plants and flowers for the couple’s home.\n\n### What Kind of Gift Should I Bring to a Shower?\nIt can be challenging for guests to know [what type of gift you should bring to a wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-shower-gift-etiquette). Typically, referring to a couple’s wedding registry and selecting a gift from their hand-picked assortment that matches your preferred price point is the best option.\n\nIn some cases, a wedding shower host might request gifts in line with certain bridal shower themes, such as a pampering shower, where guests bring gifts to help the couple relax before the wedding (think candles, massage gift certificates, etc.), or a stock-the-kitchen shower, where guests bring cooking and baking essentials.\n\nIf you’re planning a shower, this is an excellent opportunity to customize the event to the unique couple you are celebrating, and show off their personalities.\n\n![Wedding Shower Guide](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6HXzK7UqLSDf8lVVZH66UJ/0fdc1d82bbb0dae44ccfef28072552cd/Inline_Wedding-shower-guide_Reminisce-photography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Reminisce Photography\n\n### Is It Acceptable to Go Off-Registry for Shower Gifts and Buy Something Cheeky?\nSee above—you’ll have to feel out the vibe. If this is an all-women shower with mostly younger friends and relatives attending, then being playful with your shower gift can be fun.\n\nIf you’re worried that older or more conservative guests in attendance might not appreciate your gift of lingerie or fuzzy handcuffs, stick to something off the [couple’s registry](https://www.zola.com/registry/overview). It’s better to play it safe if you’re not sure about the crowd—you don’t want to make the guest of honor feel uncomfortable.\n\n### Do Bridesmaids Bring Gifts?\nTraditionally, bridesmaids are expected to bring a gift to all pre-wedding events and give a wedding gift. However, each member of the bridal party’s financial situation is different, and their ability to furnish this many gifts will depend on how much they can afford to spend.\n\nAs a bride, keep in mind how much you’re already asking your bridesmaids to pay as participants in the wedding—think travel and accommodations for the bachelorette party, dresses, or hair and makeup services—as these costs add up. As a bridesmaid, consider what your total budget for the wedding is, and then contribute gifts based on what you can afford beyond the essential wedding expenses. \n\n### If I’m Attending Both the Wedding and the Shower, Do I Buy a Gift for Both?\nUnless the shower has been explicitly labeled a no-gifts shower, you should purchase a gift for both the shower and the wedding itself. However, if you’re on a budget, the shower gift does not need to be expensive or extravagant, and you can devote more of your funds to the wedding gift.\n\n### How Much Should I Spend on a Shower Gift?\nIf you’re invited to the wedding and pre-wedding events, use the 60-20-20 rule to budget for gifts. First, identify the total amount that you’re comfortable spending on gifts for this couple. Then, allocate 60 percent of that number to the wedding present, 20 percent to an engagement present, and 20 percent to a gift for the shower.\n\nIf you’re not sure where to start with your total budget, the average wedding gift purchased on Zola costs between $100 to $120, which would indicate a total budget of $166 to $200, with shower gifts amounting to $33 to $40.\n\n### Do I Have to Open Gifts at My Shower?\nNo. Remember, the shower is your celebration, so you can unwrap (or not) if you want to. Some couples or brides may find being the center of attention for a solid 45 minutes uncomfortable. Others would rather spend their time eating cake, sipping bubbly, and mingling with guests.\n\nIf you don’t want to open presents at the shower, consider having a gift display. Ask guests to bring their presents unwrapped, and add them to the “display” table when they arrive. Throughout the length of the party, guests can then view and admire the gifts. However, for this to work, your host will need to communicate this wish to your guests ahead of time, as well as provide labels and pens for guests to identify who brought what.\n\n## Wedding Shower Activities \n\n### Do You Have to Play Bridal Shower Games at a Shower?\nNo, this isn’t unnecessary. If you’d rather skip the “how well does the happy couple know each other?” trivia, then, by all means, do. That being said, be sure to include the essentials of a great party atmosphere, such as food, drinks, light background music, and a comfortable location or venue in order to create an environment that encourages your guests to meet and mingle.\n\n### Are There Any Shower Themes or Activities That Don’t Involve Everyone Staring and Fawning Over Me for 2 Hours?\nTotally. There are tons of [creative ways that you can approach throwing a wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-themes) that may not involve the traditional run-down of tea sandwiches, punch, and gift-opening spotlight. In fact, a non-traditional shower is a great way to express your individuality and create a unique experience for your guests. Get the whole group involved in something fun and hands-on, such as hiring a private chef to come teach the group how to make a specific dish, or have a professional florist conduct a class on how to arrange flowers. \n\n## Wedding Shower Thank-You Notes\n\n### When Should I Send Thank-You Cards for My Shower Gifts?\n[Thank-you notes](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop) should be sent as soon as possible after the event. Ideally, you want your guests to receive the note within two to three weeks of your shower, but especially before your wedding, as you’ll have your hands full after the big day with [thank you-writing duties](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-thank-you-card-etiquette) for all those wedding gifts. 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Explore outfit ideas, styles, and tips to shine as you celebrate the bride-to-be's special day","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2018-12-14T15:19:13.906Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3jyBNag7G8oqQco0QaI2om/840a6c239ab9c319db87cd86af04841b/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"What to wear to a bridal shower"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding-photographers/marni-rothschild-pictures/","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- Pastels, neutrals, florals, and bright celebratory colors are the way to go. And if there’s going to be games opt to wear something comfortable.\n- Avoid wearing white, black, or anything that may detract from the wedding festivities.\n- Bridal showers can range from formality, location, and season, so be sure to dress to fit the occasion.\n","body":"Choosing an outfit for a bridal shower is really no different than choosing what to wear to any other party. You’ll want to match the formality and season, be comfortable, look great, and photograph well in whatever you choose to wear. \n\n## Basic Rules for Bridal Shower Fashion\n \nWhile bridal showers can vary in terms or formality & theme, there are some bridal shower looks that will always fit the vibe:\n- Dress to impress, even if the theme is casual\n- Wear pastels, neutrals and bright colors to match the celebratory tone of the occasion\n- Floral prints are a great go-to\n- Wear something comfortable in case there are bridal shower games\n- Accentuate a neutral dress or top with bold shoes or accessories\n\n### What NOT to Wear to a Bridal Shower\n \n1. Don’t wear white. This wedding guest rule of etiquette applies to bridal showers as well. Since the bride-to-be often wears white to her shower, you don’t want to seem like you’re competing for her spotlight.\n\n2. Don’t wear black. Your bridal shower look should be celebratory, festive, and happy—black is a bit too somber and/or “date night out” to wear to a bridal shower. If you’re set on dark colors, opt for a softer gray or navy. \n\n3. Don’t wear anything too tight, sexy, or revealing. A bridal shower is not the time to flaunt your, um, assets. Since the guest list is usually all women, and since this event is technically part of the wedding festivities, keep things buttoned up. \n\nBut since bridal showers can come in all shapes and sizes—no two are the same—deciphering the dress code can be tricky. To help you choose a perfectly appropriate and flattering ensemble, we’ve outlined suggestions below for what to wear to a variety of different types of bridal showers based on their location, season, and formality. \n\n \n## What to Wear to a Fancy Bridal Shower\nLook for clues on your invitation to tell if a bridal shower will be on the fancier side. Invitation wording is generally a good indicator of formality: if numbers and abbreviations are spelled out, or if phrases like “request the pleasure of your company” are used, this is probably going to be a more formal bridal shower. Also look to see if the invitation provides words about the dress code, such as “festive” or “cocktail attire.” \nFor fancier bridal showers at upscale venues like country clubs, hotels, or restaurants, opt for cocktail attire, such as: \n- A cocktail (i.e. knee-length) dress\n- A pair of flowy, silk pants, a blouse, and a jacket\n- A sparkly pencil skirt, dark tights, and a cashmere sweater\n- A pair of satin ankle-length pants, a velvet blazer, and heels \n- Include accessories such as: \n - More formal, glitzy jewelry (real or costume)\n - A clutch or small purse\n\n## What to Wear to a Casual Bridal Shower\n\nIf the bridal shower is more casual, keep your outfit polished and festive but tone down on the level of formality. For example, swap out heels for ballet flats, if you’ll be more comfortable, or go for daytime fabrics like cotton, wool, and denim. Here are some ideas: \n\n- A gingham wrap dress\n- A pair of nice jeans, a floral top, and a faux fur vest\n- A denim shirt dress with knee-high boots\n- A summery jumpsuit \n- Include accessories such as: \n - Delicate jewelry\n - A crossbody purse or leather satchel ","body2":"## What to Wear to a Backyard Bridal Shower\n\nBackyard bridal showers are by nature less formal, although it’s never safe to assume that a bridal shower at a private home is casual. It’s a good idea to check in with the host(s)—if you’re attending an elegant garden party for high tea, showing up in jeans and Pumas would be embarrassing. Here are a few ideas for put-together looks suitable for a variety of seasons: \n\n- A flowing sundress \n- A pair of colored chinos and a structured top\n- A pair of dark jeans, a boho blouse, and ankle booties\n- A pleated midi skirt, a nice tank, and a linen jacket \n- Include accessories such as: \n - A wide-brimmed sun hat\n - Sunglasses\n - Sandals or wedges\n\n## What to Wear to a Restaurant Shower\n\nWhat you should wear to a bridal shower that’s held in a restaurant is really determined by the type and formality of the restaurant. If it’s a casual barbecue joint with outdoor picnic tables, opt for similar ideas to the casual or backyard showers above. If it’s a white tablecloth kind of restaurant, match the ambiance with an outfit that’s classy and chic, such as: \n\n- A lace sheath dress \n- An off-the-shoulder maxi dress\n- Matching separates, like a satin jacket and pajama-style pants\n- High-waisted trousers with a tie-neck blouse\n- Include accessories such as: \n - Block heels\n - Bright lipstick \n\n## What to Wear to a Fall or Winter Bridal Shower\n\nStick to rich, warm, or dark colors for bridal showers in the fall and winter months. Think burgundy, rust, navy, gray, brown, taupe, and forest green. Most showers during these months will be indoors, so don’t worry too much about outerwear, but reflect the season with long sleeves and hemlines and heavier fabrics. Check out these ideas: \n\n- A turtleneck sweater dress, opaque tights, and over-the-knee boots \n- A long-sleeve wrap dress\n- Wide-leg wool pants and an embroidered sweater\n- A crisp button-down tucked into a full skirt \n- Include accessories such as: \n - Dressy boots\n - Long, layered necklaces\n\n## What to Wear to a Spring or Summer Bridal Shower\n\nBright, light colors—pastels and hot hues all the way—rule when it comes to what to wear to spring or summer bridal showers, as do florals and other summery prints like gingham, madras plaid, and seersucker. Lightweight cotton, silk, and linen feel cool and crisp. 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Our guide helps you decide who to invite for a joyous celebration.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2020-08-12T18:55:31.223Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/731ezzbj9wtmb0day4GjKF/759b8d2e9fdc61ca46a8440d7c030967/HERO_WhoDoYouInvite_toaBridalShowerFromTheGroom_sSide.jpg","altText":"group of young women smiling"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Wedding shower etiquette can get tricky when factoring in hosting families from both sides. When it comes to [sending out invitations for a wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/when-to-send-out-bridal-shower-invites), the question of whom to invite from the groom’s side always arises. You may be inviting everyone you’ve ever known to join in on the festivities with you, but the same may not go for your soon-to-be in-laws and their family and friends. However, when it comes to any wedding-related event, it’s best to tread carefully and balance your wishes with being inclusive of others. \n\nA good rule of thumb to follow is to invite the groom’s closest female relatives and friends of the family. When the groom’s mother is co-hosting the wedding shower, there should be room on the guest list to include her sisters, aunts, and cousins, too. If you’re feeling unsure about the group becoming too large, talk with your wedding shower host about your concerns. Also, talk with your partner about what makes you feel the most comfortable when adding his side of the family to the mix.\n\n## Multiple Wedding Showers That Include Everyone\nA wedding shower is traditionally thrown by the maid of honor or the bride’s family. However, wedding showers can be held by any group of people who want to make you feel special, such as colleagues, church congregations, and your next-door neighbors. As a result, there may be multiple affairs and multiple guest lists, to which we say, the more the merrier.\n\n- One option is to have a family-only wedding shower that’s separate from the larger one you want to have with your friends. This keeps the celebration to a small circle, which allows both sides to come together and get to know each other over brunch or afternoon tea in a comfortable setting. \n\n- In addition to a separate family-only wedding shower and/or a friends-only wedding shower, there’s the option of a coed wedding shower. Though it’s not customary for the groom to make an appearance (except at the end when he helps to take gifts to the car), couples today like to celebrate together. This makes sense if the happy couple lives in another city, away from the majority of their friends and family. \n\nEven if the wedding shower starts out as ladies-only, it can turn into a co-ed celebration. At that time, the groom can bring whomever he wants to be part of the day. This option depends on the people who are hosting the event, where it’s hosted, and how long the occasion is scheduled to last. For example, if your mom and future mother-in-law are hosting a lovely wedding shower for close friends and family, extending the event and expanding the group is likely best done at another location. \n\nA wedding shower is usually kept intimate, reserved primarily for those nearest and dearest to you. If you want a smaller group, make your wishes known ahead of time to those who are planning the event. Alternatively, you can choose to put the guest list and coordination entirely into the hands of your hostesses, and revel in the number of people who want to show and celebrate you. \n\nEither way, a wedding shower is a beautiful occasion to toast to your upcoming nuptials and spend quality time with those you love.\n\n## Who Else to Put on the Wedding Shower Guest List?\nDetermining the key individuals who will make the guest list is easy. These will include the wedding party, sisters, moms, and best friends. From there, the invites become more selective. Other people that may be considered for the guest list are co-workers, childhood or college friends, and family acquaintances. \n\nIt’s important to remember that no matter who the wedding shower invitation is extended to, it’s poor etiquette to invite someone to your shower who is not invited to the wedding. Conversely, you do not have to invite every female wedding guest to your wedding shower, either. \n\n### Co-Workers\nWhile it may be tempting to invite co-workers, consider how close the relationship is outside of work. Invite people who know you as a couple. Also, think about the awkwardness that may ensue when you invite a few people from your company, but not everyone. It’s likely that one of your co-workers will want to host a wedding shower for you. Take her up on the offer and schedule something at work where everyone can attend as they please. \n\n### Childhood or College Friends\nIt’s easy to lose touch over the years with friends you had growing up. No matter how close you once were, years may go by without keeping in touch. On the other hand, it can be a sweet moment to reconnect with friends from the past during such a happy time in your life. An easy way to determine whether you should have them on the guest list or not is considering whether you feel excited or anxious about the reunion. If you’re the kind of friends who can go for long stretches of time, yet catch up like no time has passed, invite away. \n\n### Family Acquaintances\nIt’s your engagement, but the fact that you’re getting married is a big moment in the lives of your family, too. Your parents may go to the extreme and want to invite anyone that’s ever met you. If you have the feeling that it’s going this way, sit down with your mom or family member, and talk about keeping the group to a select few. There may be a need to compromise, because she likely will want a friend or neighbor there for her, too.\n\n![Who Do You Invite to a Wedding Shower from the Groom’s Side?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3LPGnYouLwy50tEiIZYmNy/3ff624f65c7c095cf6e4c24fb0098cec/INLINE2_WhoDoYouInvite_toaBridalShowerFromTheGroom_sSide.jpg)*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n## How to Determine the Size of the Guest List?\nFactors, such as space, budget, and date, will all make a difference in how big the guest list becomes. A wedding shower hosted at someone’s home likely can’t accommodate a large group comfortably, with everyone having equal time to spend with you. Additionally, most wedding showers have food and beverages, decorations, and party favors, all of which can quickly add up and blow a budget.\n\nFinally, the time of year will make a difference for who can and cannot attend. For example, a wedding shower may be larger when shower guests cannot make it to a destination wedding. Or, it may be smaller if the shower is hosted in another place than where the majority of guests live. The hostesses of the shower have final say on the number of people who can attend, simply because they are providing the space.\n\n## What Details Should the Invitation Include?\nThe hostesses and/or wedding party will take care of the invitations, which should go out approximately four to six weeks before the wedding shower. This gives people enough time to plan and make arrangements to attend. For an out-of-town event, they should be sent out a few months in advance. The invitations can mimic the colors and aesthetic of the wedding celebration, or it can illustrate the location or type of wedding shower that’s being held, such as a ladies’ luncheon or a backyard picnic. \n\nThe wedding shower [invitation](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop) should include the bride’s name (of course), date, and time of the wedding shower, location, and [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) information. It should also name the women who are hosting and a place to RSVP. Although the affair is usually less formal than the wedding itself, it still needs to feel special for the bride and have a sense of organization to it, even if the overall feeling is relaxed. For more guidance, see our guide on [how to word bridal shower invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-invitation-wording).\n\nA typical wedding shower timeline involves mingling and eating as guests arrive, followed by a game or two, and then the opening of [shower gifts](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-shower-gifts). However, wedding showers are customized to the bride’s preferences, which may involve ditching games and sharing stories together, or doing an activity as a group. It could also mean opening gifts with the groom instead of in front of the group. Making it as personal as possible is what will lead to a successful event. \n\n## Enjoy Every Moment Leading Up to the Big Day\nThe [wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers) is a momentous occasion, and one of the many mini-celebrations that lead up to the big day. When considering who is invited, think about the people who will add to the joy. It’s an afternoon to be spent with those closest to you, which often include members from the groom’s side, since they have been—or will soon be–intertwined with your life. They will be just as thrilled to add a new member to their family as you are to join theirs. \n\nEnjoy the cake, champagne, and feeling of love that surrounds you from the group of women who care about you most. It only adds to the excitement of the wedding day itself. Take a moment to soak it all in.\n\n![Who Do You Invite to a Wedding Shower from the Groom’s Side?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2f6IQ31vBfhXIHzRnNnaX0/626f0ec4f52d7dc9e1d99d407c9514e5/INLINE_WhoDoYouInvite_toaBridalShowerFromTheGroom_sSide.jpg)*Photo Credit //* Unsplash","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:54:38.431Z"}],"pagination":{"currentPage":2,"total":24},"subtopic":{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding shower","slug":"wedding-shower"},"slug":"how-to-write-a-bridal-shower-card","title":"What to Write in a Bridal Shower Card ","excerpt":"Find inspiration for bridal shower card messages with our tips, quotes, and examples. Craft heartfelt wishes that celebrate the bride-to-be in a special way.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2024-07-29T13:13-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1i6aeplGYDEzk7RquRxZ4K/388498136d2828ba63f64e25efd60cc2/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"What to write in a bridal shower card"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"__Inside this article:__\n\n- [Basic steps to writing a bridal shower card](#steps)\n- [General wedding shower card example](#sample)\n- [Simple shower card messages](#simple)\n- [What to write for a sister](#sister)\n- [What to write for a daughter-in-law](#daughter-in-law)\n- [What to write for a daughter](#daughter)\n- [What to write for a friend](#friend)\n- [What to write for a coworker](#coworker)\n- [Humorous bridal card messages](#card)\n- [Bridal shower quotes](#shower)","body":"__TLDR:__\n\n- A standard [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-vs-bridal-shower) card begins with congratulations, followed by compliments, personal stories, or encouragement, and ends with words of inspiration.\n- Keep things light or go super-sentimental, but remember the best bridal shower cards are personalized and come from the heart.\n- Don’t be afraid to use templates or examples for inspiration when writing a card for a daughter-in-law, sister, coworker, or friend.\n\n## Let's get to writing that bridal shower card\nLucky you—you’ve been invited to a [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-themes)! As you prepare to attend this festive pre-wedding party, you should be thinking of ways to help “shower” the bride-to-be with love, support, and encouragement on her route towards married life. \n\nA shower is supposed to be a special moment of togetherness for the bride where, surrounded by her closest family and friends, she’s able to forget about the stress of wedding planning and revel in the excitement of what lies ahead. However, you may find yourself wondering what to write in a bridal shower card. Yikes!\n\nBy following Zola's simple outlines of what to write, you’ll be sure to craft the perfect message. You could simply say, \"happy bridal shower,\" but there are so many other options to write in a bridal card. We're sure you can't wait to celebrate!\n\nAs a bridal shower guest, you can help her achieve these warm-and-fuzzy feelings by writing a lovely bridal shower message in a card attached to your gift. Below, find details and examples to help you to craft the perfect sentiment.\n\n![woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3kANG3FP0QuuQxkSb1vXSo/04ac6084f0e2c735c5a63d07f2e11f22/woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card.jpg)\n\n## How to write bridal shower card: basic steps\n\nWhile you should feel empowered to write whatever feels natural to you in your card, here are a few elements of a standard [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-traditions-updated) message that should make it easy for you to fill up that white space. Remember, the most important thing is to craft a message that feels personal, genuine, and reflects both your and the bride’s personalities and relationship. Celebrate the couple's true love and let them know they deserve all the happiness life has in store.\n\n__1. Begin with congratulations:__ Open your bridal shower message with the most basic of social graces. Offer your congratulations on her upcoming marriage, on finding the love of her life, on making it this far through wedding planning… whatever you feel she’ll appreciate the most.\n\n__2. Make her feel great:__ Offer the bride-to-be a compliment that will guarantee she feels amazing. You could tell her how beautiful she’ll look on her wedding day, or boost her confidence about the stellar choices she’s already made with the wedding details.\n\n__3. Share something personal:__ Perhaps you have a great memory about the beautiful bride that reflects her character strengths, the depth of your friendship, or how special her relationship is to her future spouse. The best card messages are the ones that feel thoughtful and unique, so don’t be afraid to get personal and write something from the heart.
\n\n__4. Offer encouragement:__ Since she’s about to embark on a major life journey, be sure to include well-wishes for her and her partner for a lifetime of happiness. Let her know you want her to have a wonderful and successful marriage ahead.\n\n__5. End with words of inspiration:__ Wrap up your bridal shower message with an uplifting thought, a piece of advice, or a quotation that leaves a lasting impression on the power of love and the beautiful, magical journey she’s about to take. \n\n## Bridal shower message example\n\nStaring at a blank card with a pen in hand? Lose your fear and get started by following this example of a bridal shower card message:\n\n*Dear Lauren,*\n\n*Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! I know you are going to make an absolutely stunning bride, and I simply can’t wait to see all of the beautiful wedding details that I know you’ve worked so hard to plan.*\n\n*I am so amazed and touched by the relationship you have created with Peter, and I know that the love you share runs very deep. From how you always encourage and support each other’s career goals, to the way you rock out on the dance floor together, I know you two will continue to find joy and strength in your shared love for years to come.*\n\n*I wish you nothing but a lifetime of laughter, happiness, and dance parties. As Gene Kelly said, “You dance love, and you dance joy, and you dance dreams.” Cheers to you and all the dancing to come! From your walk down the aisle, to the lifetime ahead, I'm excited to be part of your special day as you begin it together.*\n\n*Love,\nKate*\n\n![Creative Wedding Shower Invite Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5uwrWi9RcicSafmivDnAF3/2615a012fe6e66bc16954189d51980a7/INLINE_CreativeWeddingShowerInviteIdeas___.jpg)\n\n## Simple bridal shower messages\n\nSometimes less is more. Here are some examples of quick, simple messages to communicate your happy wishes.\n\n- So thrilled for you!\n- Cheers to a lifetime of love & happiness! You deserve it.\n- Congratulations on a wonderful partnership and years of happiness to come!\n- Showering you with the happiest of wishes!\n- Here’s to your special day! Thank you for letting me be a part of this joyous occasion.\n- Best wishes to you in this new chapter of your life!\n\n## Sample bridal shower wishes\nWhether you’re trying to keep things light, go super-sentimental, or remind the bride about your special relationship, there are tons of different bridal shower wishes you can share in your shower card. Get inspired with these sample messages for all types of moods and recipients. \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a sister\n\nA sister offers support and friendship, serves as a partner in crime, loans her favorite sweater, and knows the bride better than anyone else. A bridal shower card message should reflect the depth and nature of a sister-sister relationship, whether lighthearted or sentimental. \n- *My dear sister, can you believe this day has finally come? You have always been the sweetest little sister to me, and I can’t wait to watch you walk down the aisle. All my love, always!* \n- *From the time we used to play wedding in the backyard, to your many bad dates and terrible boyfriends I witnessed over the years, I am so thrilled that you’ve found the one to make you happy forever! You deserve all the happiness and love in the world.* \n- *Congratulations on being the most beautiful bride, sister, and friend in the world! I love you forever and am here for you always. Thank you for letting me be by your side throughout this wedding journey.*\n- *While I love Derek almost as much as I love you, we both know that the sister bond runs deep! Remember I have your back no matter what—but I know you will rock this marriage thing. Thank you for always being such a great big sister and role model. I love you!* \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a daughter-in-law\n\nWelcome your future daughter-in-law to the family and express your joy in continuing to build a relationship with her over the years to come. Feel free to share memories or thoughts about your son that would touch the bride’s heart.\n- *We are so lucky that our son has chosen you to be his lifelong partner! We can’t wait to see where love will take you both.* \n- *Welcome to the family! You are an incredible woman on your own, and we know you’ll make an even more incredible addition to our tribe. Congratulations!* \n- *I knew it would take a very special woman to serve as a match for Ash...and once I met you, I knew you were the one! I am so thrilled to welcome you into our family and wish the very best in all things for you both.* \n- *You are a stunning woman inside and out, and you will make a beautiful bride. We can’t wait for the big day and for all the years of love and togetherness that will follow.* \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a daughter\n\nWhat is more special than sending off a daughter into marriage? Share your heartfelt happiness, your advice on marriage, your memories of her as a child, and/or your wishes and hopes for the couple for the future in your bridal shower card. \n- *You fill my heart with light, and I am so thrilled that you have found someone to spend your life with. Congratulations on taking this next huge step!* \n- *My daughter, you’re an endless source of joy and love to me and your father, and I know Paul feels the same. Although you belong to each other now, we will always be here for you no matter what!* \n- *Every parent wants their child to find lifelong happiness, health, safety, and fulfillment—I know your future holds all these things and more with Jordan by your side. I couldn’t be more thrilled for you both, and can’t wait to see your love grow over the years!*\n- *Marriage is both an incredible blessing, and a lot of hard work. Through good times and bad, remember to be on the same team, listen as much as you talk, and never go to bed angry! Keep your love front and center, and I know you will have an incredible future together.* \n\n![mother-and-bride](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5hdzaDOVLWAJ92N9SUb7PF/cd6c9beea448954533c4d5c7430e0bd5/freshen-up-items.jpg)\n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a friend\n\nIf you’re writing a bridal shower card to [a friend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engaged-same-time-as-best-friend), let your message be personal and either funny or sweet (or both) depending on the nature of your friendship. Regardless of the tone, share your excitement for her big day, offer help or support as needed, and express your gratitude for being included. \n- *Congratulations! I am so happy for you both, and I know you will have the most amazing life together. Thanks for letting me share in the excitement!* \n- *As Beyoncé would say, may you always feel this “crazy in love.” Congratulations on a wonderful partnership and years of happiness to come!* \n- *Thank you so much for letting me take part in your celebration and “shower” you with love! Please let me know if there’s anything I can help you with leading up to the wedding.* \n- *Dear friend, I’m so glad you’ve found the one that makes your heart sing. I can’t wait to celebrate you both in a few months! Cheers to the most beautiful, smart, and kindest of brides.*\n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a coworker\n\nYou don’t have to go into great or complicated detail when writing a wedding shower card message to a coworker: keep it short, sweet, and simple. Offer your congratulations and share your enthusiasm and thanks for being included. \n- *I am so excited for you and Alex, and can’t wait for the big day! Thanks for including me in such a special celebration.* \n- *I remember the morning after your first date with Tom...you were glowing (and gushing!). I knew right then that you’d found your perfect match. I am so happy for you, and wish you both all the love in the world!* \n- *It’s clear that you and Taylor have a love that runs deep, and will last for a lifetime. Congratulations on your upcoming wedding and thank you for letting me play a small role in it! I’m so thrilled for you both.*\n- *As you make the transition from my “work wife” to a real wife, I know you will handle it with your characteristic grace, charm, and dedication. Congrats on this happy day, and best wishes for what’s to come!* \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card to be funny\n\nThere’s no rule that says you have to be serious when writing a shower card message. In all likelihood the bride will be reading a lot of heavy-handed and sentimental messages, so have some [fun with your words](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-write-in-a-wedding-card) to her… just be sure to keep things appropriate and respectful, of course. \n- *Best wishes for a lifetime of love, trust, and shared dishwashing duties!* \n- *You know I’m here for you no matter what, dear friend—even if that means tying ribbon around hundreds of tiny bottles of bubbles until 3 a.m. so that you can cross “wedding favors” off your to-do list. Happy wedding!* \n- *Wow, you’re getting married! Congratulations! Now that your love life is figured out, I expect you’ll have more time to help me figure out mine...kidding! But also, help me. Love you both and can’t wait for the wedding!* \n- *Congratulations on finding the match to your candle, the aloe to your sunburn, the Tabasco to your tacos. You two are a one hot match! Here’s to keeping the fire burning for years to come.* \n\n## Wedding shower quotes\n\nIf you’re coming up short on poetic ways to share your bridal shower wishes, don’t sweat. Talented wordsmiths have been talking about love and marriage for centuries, so let the pros express your thoughts for you with one of these bridal shower quotes. \n\n- “A happy marriage is a long conversation which always seems too short.” — Andre Marois\n- “True love is singing karaoke Under Pressure and letting the other person sing the Freddie Mercury part.” — Mindy Kaling\n- “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” — Mignon McLaughlin\n- “Who, being loved, is poor?” — Oscar Wilde\n- “Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.” — Maya Angelou\n- “If I had a flower for every time thought of you… I could walk through my garden forever.” — Alfred Tennyson\n- “Love is a two-way street constantly under construction.” — Carroll Bryant\n- “Every heart sings a song, incomplete, until another heart whispers back. Those who wish to sing always find a song. At the touch of a lover, everyone becomes a poet.” — Plato\n- “Sexiness wears thin after a while, and beauty fades. But to be married to a man who makes you laugh every day, now that’s a real treat.” — JoAnne Woodward\n- “Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.” — Emily Brönte\n- “Love is sharing your popcorn.” — Charles Schultz\n- “Before you marry a person, you should first make them use a computer with slow Internet service to see who they really are.” — Will Ferrell\n- \"To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe.\" — Anatole France\n- “I love being married. It's so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.” — Rita Rudner\n- \"Love must be as much a light as it is a flame.\" — Henry David Thoreau\n\n![Bridal Shower Registry and a Wedding Registry](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1EAKrUV9HfOuHzMJqB3SZL/43ba9cdf14f656eeafa3cf6899bfd85a/Hero_Zola__1_.jpg)\n\n## Ready to head to the wedding shower?\nNow that you know what to write in a bridal shower card, you may have other burning questions. Whether you're wondering what to give as a [bridal shower gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-shower-gifts) (\nhint: check their [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry)!) or need to know [what to wear](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-bridal-shower) to the event for the bride-to-be, Zola has you covered. From being a great [mother of the bride](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/mother-of-the-bride-duties) to [attending a wedding solo](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-attend-a-wedding-alone), Zola is here with expert advice for every step of the journey.\n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"This bridal shower guide will introduce you to the basics of bridal showers: traditional bridal shower etiquette (and which of those “rules” you can break), whom to invite, what to do, and who pays for it all.","title":"A Guide to Bridal Showers","slug":"a-guide-to-bridal-showers","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5o4uxtDjG6d4qgVGaLVrBU/16da092c9b0b80d7acca15ab930a1aef/A-Guide-to-Bridal-Showers.jpg","altText":"a bridal shower card labeled \"soon to be mrs.\" on the grass next to a few pastel-colored bridal shower cookies"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"If you’re hosting a bridal shower and need a little guidance, here’s a step-by-step planning timeline to help you figure out what you need to do, and in what order, to pull off a great party.","title":"How To Plan A Bridal Shower To Remember","slug":"how-to-plan-a-bridal-shower","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5AVNykInJuWweK0Imia8gM/632b15feafece7db3ce9f85ad7d3d0bf/Hero_New_Zola.jpg","altText":"woman in yellow dress holding antique tea cup with macaroons inside"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Find ideal attire for a bridal shower. 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Read our guide to gain insights on the average cost of a wedding cake this year.","title":"How Much Does the Average Wedding Cake Cost in 2025?","slug":"a-guide-to-wedding-cake-costs","topic":"Venues & vendors","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/ywuArPikb1BsvjvYzDQhn/24f27696b854c3c5a22eed69292c6c4b/Guide-to-Wedding-Cake-Costs-and-Price.jpg","altText":"Graphic of pink wedding cake with heart cake topper and price tag"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Dress to impress! Your go-to guide for wedding guest attire, from formal to casual. Find the perfect look for every dress code and celebration.","title":"Wedding Guest Attire: A Guide to Every Dress Code","slug":"what-to-wear-to-a-wedding","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5bgD1lwZNmIWCwyoiQgUI/abb4b34d02674b500f4edb610fb1eea6/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"wedding guests laughing with bride at wedding receptions"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-07-29T17:38:47.505Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding shower","slug":"wedding-shower"},"slug":"what-to-wear-to-a-bridal-shower","title":"What to Wear to a Bridal Shower as a Guest ","excerpt":"Find ideal attire for a bridal shower. Explore outfit ideas, styles, and tips to shine as you celebrate the bride-to-be's special day","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2018-12-14T15:19:13.906Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3jyBNag7G8oqQco0QaI2om/840a6c239ab9c319db87cd86af04841b/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"What to wear to a bridal shower"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding-photographers/marni-rothschild-pictures/","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- Pastels, neutrals, florals, and bright celebratory colors are the way to go. And if there’s going to be games opt to wear something comfortable.\n- Avoid wearing white, black, or anything that may detract from the wedding festivities.\n- Bridal showers can range from formality, location, and season, so be sure to dress to fit the occasion.\n","body":"Choosing an outfit for a bridal shower is really no different than choosing what to wear to any other party. You’ll want to match the formality and season, be comfortable, look great, and photograph well in whatever you choose to wear. \n\n## Basic Rules for Bridal Shower Fashion\n \nWhile bridal showers can vary in terms or formality & theme, there are some bridal shower looks that will always fit the vibe:\n- Dress to impress, even if the theme is casual\n- Wear pastels, neutrals and bright colors to match the celebratory tone of the occasion\n- Floral prints are a great go-to\n- Wear something comfortable in case there are bridal shower games\n- Accentuate a neutral dress or top with bold shoes or accessories\n\n### What NOT to Wear to a Bridal Shower\n \n1. Don’t wear white. This wedding guest rule of etiquette applies to bridal showers as well. Since the bride-to-be often wears white to her shower, you don’t want to seem like you’re competing for her spotlight.\n\n2. Don’t wear black. Your bridal shower look should be celebratory, festive, and happy—black is a bit too somber and/or “date night out” to wear to a bridal shower. If you’re set on dark colors, opt for a softer gray or navy. \n\n3. Don’t wear anything too tight, sexy, or revealing. A bridal shower is not the time to flaunt your, um, assets. Since the guest list is usually all women, and since this event is technically part of the wedding festivities, keep things buttoned up. \n\nBut since bridal showers can come in all shapes and sizes—no two are the same—deciphering the dress code can be tricky. To help you choose a perfectly appropriate and flattering ensemble, we’ve outlined suggestions below for what to wear to a variety of different types of bridal showers based on their location, season, and formality. \n\n \n## What to Wear to a Fancy Bridal Shower\nLook for clues on your invitation to tell if a bridal shower will be on the fancier side. Invitation wording is generally a good indicator of formality: if numbers and abbreviations are spelled out, or if phrases like “request the pleasure of your company” are used, this is probably going to be a more formal bridal shower. Also look to see if the invitation provides words about the dress code, such as “festive” or “cocktail attire.” \nFor fancier bridal showers at upscale venues like country clubs, hotels, or restaurants, opt for cocktail attire, such as: \n- A cocktail (i.e. knee-length) dress\n- A pair of flowy, silk pants, a blouse, and a jacket\n- A sparkly pencil skirt, dark tights, and a cashmere sweater\n- A pair of satin ankle-length pants, a velvet blazer, and heels \n- Include accessories such as: \n - More formal, glitzy jewelry (real or costume)\n - A clutch or small purse\n\n## What to Wear to a Casual Bridal Shower\n\nIf the bridal shower is more casual, keep your outfit polished and festive but tone down on the level of formality. For example, swap out heels for ballet flats, if you’ll be more comfortable, or go for daytime fabrics like cotton, wool, and denim. Here are some ideas: \n\n- A gingham wrap dress\n- A pair of nice jeans, a floral top, and a faux fur vest\n- A denim shirt dress with knee-high boots\n- A summery jumpsuit \n- Include accessories such as: \n - Delicate jewelry\n - A crossbody purse or leather satchel ","body2":"## What to Wear to a Backyard Bridal Shower\n\nBackyard bridal showers are by nature less formal, although it’s never safe to assume that a bridal shower at a private home is casual. It’s a good idea to check in with the host(s)—if you’re attending an elegant garden party for high tea, showing up in jeans and Pumas would be embarrassing. Here are a few ideas for put-together looks suitable for a variety of seasons: \n\n- A flowing sundress \n- A pair of colored chinos and a structured top\n- A pair of dark jeans, a boho blouse, and ankle booties\n- A pleated midi skirt, a nice tank, and a linen jacket \n- Include accessories such as: \n - A wide-brimmed sun hat\n - Sunglasses\n - Sandals or wedges\n\n## What to Wear to a Restaurant Shower\n\nWhat you should wear to a bridal shower that’s held in a restaurant is really determined by the type and formality of the restaurant. If it’s a casual barbecue joint with outdoor picnic tables, opt for similar ideas to the casual or backyard showers above. If it’s a white tablecloth kind of restaurant, match the ambiance with an outfit that’s classy and chic, such as: \n\n- A lace sheath dress \n- An off-the-shoulder maxi dress\n- Matching separates, like a satin jacket and pajama-style pants\n- High-waisted trousers with a tie-neck blouse\n- Include accessories such as: \n - Block heels\n - Bright lipstick \n\n## What to Wear to a Fall or Winter Bridal Shower\n\nStick to rich, warm, or dark colors for bridal showers in the fall and winter months. Think burgundy, rust, navy, gray, brown, taupe, and forest green. Most showers during these months will be indoors, so don’t worry too much about outerwear, but reflect the season with long sleeves and hemlines and heavier fabrics. Check out these ideas: \n\n- A turtleneck sweater dress, opaque tights, and over-the-knee boots \n- A long-sleeve wrap dress\n- Wide-leg wool pants and an embroidered sweater\n- A crisp button-down tucked into a full skirt \n- Include accessories such as: \n - Dressy boots\n - Long, layered necklaces\n\n## What to Wear to a Spring or Summer Bridal Shower\n\nBright, light colors—pastels and hot hues all the way—rule when it comes to what to wear to spring or summer bridal showers, as do florals and other summery prints like gingham, madras plaid, and seersucker. Lightweight cotton, silk, and linen feel cool and crisp. To get you inspired, here are some warm-weather shower outfit possibilities: \n\n- A linen jumpsuit\n- A floral, ruffled high-low dress\n- A pair of cropped white pants, a bright silk top, and floral wedges\n- A patterned tunic dress and lace-up sandals\n- Include accessories such as: \n - A rattan purse or straw tote\n - A fresh pedicure","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"This bridal shower guide will introduce you to the basics of bridal showers: traditional bridal shower etiquette (and which of those “rules” you can break), whom to invite, what to do, and who pays for it all.","title":"A Guide to Bridal Showers","slug":"a-guide-to-bridal-showers","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5o4uxtDjG6d4qgVGaLVrBU/16da092c9b0b80d7acca15ab930a1aef/A-Guide-to-Bridal-Showers.jpg","altText":"a bridal shower card labeled \"soon to be mrs.\" on the grass next to a few pastel-colored bridal shower cookies"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"If you’re hosting a bridal shower and need a little guidance, here’s a step-by-step planning timeline to help you figure out what you need to do, and in what order, to pull off a great party.","title":"How To Plan A Bridal Shower To Remember","slug":"how-to-plan-a-bridal-shower","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5AVNykInJuWweK0Imia8gM/632b15feafece7db3ce9f85ad7d3d0bf/Hero_New_Zola.jpg","altText":"woman in yellow dress holding antique tea cup with macaroons inside"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Dress to impress! 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Grab a pen—it’s time to spread the love!","author":"Emily Forrest and Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2024-04-10T09:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5GlWzMJKN61eHNXPxPVuI0/777bc1e0c90ceed6c32544b05d5a8312/Bridal-Shower-Thank-You-Card-Etiquette.jpg","altText":"Zola wedding thank you card graphic"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"__Inside this article:__\n\n- Bridal shower thank you card etiquette\n- 3 Things to consider before writing bridal shower thank you cards\n- Bridal shower thank you template\n- Bridal shower thank you card wording examples\n- FAQs about bridal shower thank you messages\n- Trust Zola with your stationery needs","body":"At the [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers), your friends and family members “showered” you with love and generous presents. Now it’s time to let your loved ones know how much you loved celebrating with them—and how much you appreciate the beautiful gifts you received—with a heartwarming [thank you card](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop). The task is easier said than done, especially if you struggle translating gratitude into written bridal shower thank you messages.\n\nBut don’t let writing bridal shower thank you notes cause you undue stress: we have the answers to all your gratefulness-centric etiquette questions, complete with [wording ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-invitation-wording) for what to write on your [bridal shower card](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers). \nGrab a pen—and that stack of blank thank you cards—let’s get to writing.\n\nNeed help writing wedding thank you notes instead? See our guide on [how to word wedding thank you cards](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-write-wedding-thank-you-cards).\n\n## Bridal shower thank you card etiquette \n\nNavigating all the rules for writing a thank you note can be a bit overwhelming, especially when you’re in the throes of [planning your wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-wedding), too. But there’s no need to stress—we’ve broken down the most important things to know below.\n\n- Dos \n - Write the note by hand to express your thoughtfulness. \n - Use a blank [thank you card](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop). \n - Keep a record of who attended and gave a bridal shower gift. \n - Plan what you’re going to say before writing. \n\n- Don’ts\n - Write too much. \n - Be critical of the gift (or the lack of a gift). \n - Mention the specific amount given for monetary gifts. \n\n## 3 Things to consider before writing bridal shower thank you cards \n\nBefore you begin writing, there are a few key questions you should ask yourself that will make crafting your thank you note easier.\n\n### 1. What is your relationship to the guest?\n\nIf you’re close with the guest, such as a bridesmaid or your best friend, your message should be personal and heartfelt. However, if you don’t know the guest well or just met them for the first time, a short and sweet thank you note is fine.\n\n### 2. Do you send a bridal shower thank you for someone who didn’t attend?\n\nIf the guest was able to celebrate with you in person, make sure to mention this in your thank you note. If they could not attend, let them know how much you missed them, and acknowledge their gift, of course.\n\n### 3. Did the guest provide a gift? \n\nIf so, what was it? Bridal shower thank you notes are required for every guest that attended your bridal shower, whether they brought a present or not. However, if a guest did purchase a gift, it’s important to specifically mention it in your note (see more on this below). The same goes for guests who mailed a gift but were unable to attend the party.\n\n![Thank You Card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5j6S7jfWH2TYKe8CEEnABO/97c2cfac5062b573a3f13a09f3b050e6/Invites_Jan2019_14.jpg)\n\n## Bridal shower thank you template \n\nNext, let’s look at the basic anatomy of thank you notes for bridal showers. Sticking to these six simple steps will structure your bridal shower thank you message and help reduce time spent mulling over how you should express your gratitude. \n\n### 1. Address them using their name.\n\n- Audra\n- Mrs. Jones\n\n### 2. Thank them for their presence.\n\n- Thank you so much for celebrating with me at my bridal shower!\n- I’m so grateful that you could be there to join me on this special day.\n\n### 3. Thank them for the gift.\n\n- Thank you so much for the beautiful set of cheese knives.\n- We so appreciate our new set of wine glasses.\n\n### 4. Share what you love about their present.\n\n- They’ve been such a great addition to our weekly cheese and charcuterie date night.\n- We think about you every Saturday when we pour ourselves a glass of wine and work on planning our upcoming wedding.\n\n### 5. Show your appreciation for them as a person.\n\n- Your friendship means so much to us. Thanks again for your support as we journey into married life together.\n- It was so fun to see you at the shower. We can’t wait to continue the celebration with you at our wedding.\n\n### 6. Sign off.\n- With love, Finny & Spencer\n- Cheers, Lynne & Toby\n\n![Thank You Card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5j6S7jfWH2TYKe8CEEnABO/97c2cfac5062b573a3f13a09f3b050e6/Invites_Jan2019_14.jpg)\n\n## 8 Bridal shower thank you card wording examples \n\nTo get the ink flowing, check out these simple bridal shower thank you [wording examples](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-word-wedding-invitations) for how to word thank you notes for all kinds of situations.\n\n### 1. Thank you message for a registry gift\n\nDear Molly,\nThank you so much for coming to my bridal shower last Saturday! We’re so grateful for the beautiful tea towels you gave us. They already make a great addition to our kitchen.\nYour friendship means so much to us and we can’t wait to celebrate with you at the wedding in a few weeks.\nLove, Kieran & Tina\n\n### 2. Bridal shower thank you messages for cash gifts\n\nDear Aunt Diana,\nIt was a true delight to see you at the shower. Thank you so much for your generous gift. We’ve just booked a glass bottom boat ride during our upcoming honeymoon, thanks to you. We’ll tell you all about the experience when we see you this Thanksgiving!\nThanks again for the support you’ve shown us throughout our engagement. We look forward to hitting the dance floor with you on the big day.\nAll our love, Emma & Julian\n\n### 3. Thank you wording for a gift you exchanged, didn’t like, or was awkward\n\nDear Mila,\nHow wonderful to see you at the bridal shower! Thank you for the bagel toaster you gave us. It was very generous, and we appreciate you thinking of us.\nLooking forward to having you at the wedding next month. We know that many more great memories will be made with you there!\nLove, Tessa & Will\n\n### 4. Bridal shower thank you message for someone who didn’t give a gift\n\nDear Beatriz,\nThank you for celebrating with me at my shower! I hope that you had an amazing time. It was great to see you there and catch up.\nThank you again for being there to honor this special time with us. Can’t wait to see you at the wedding!\nLove always, Ronan & Adrienne\n\n### 5. Thank you wording for someone who didn’t attend but sent a gift.\n\nDear Goldie,\nThank you so much for the beautiful luggage. We’ve already used the carry-ons at our weekend getaway in New York last weekend, and we can’t wait to show off these stylish suitcases on our honeymoon to Italy this spring.\nWe missed you at the shower, but we are so excited to see you at the wedding. Thank you again for the thoughtful gift!\nLove, Rebecca & Hannah\n\n### 6. Bridal shower message for a close friend\n\nDear Susie,\nThank you for celebrating with me at the bridal shower. Toby and I appreciate the awesome French press and coffee beans you gave us. We can’t help but think of you every time we sip our morning brew.\nYou have no idea how much your love has meant to us over the years. It will make our day so special to have you in the crowd on the big day, and we’re excited to see you bust one of your famous moves on the dance floor!\nMuch love, Lynne & Toby\n\n### 7. Bridal shower thank you messages for formal acquaintances\n\nDear Mrs. Perdu,\nPlease accept our sincere thanks for the beautiful picture frames you gave us. They make a lovely addition to our mantle, and we are looking forward to using them to display our favorite memories in the years to come.\nIt meant so much to us that you could attend the shower. Your kindness is appreciated, and we look forward to seeing you at the wedding.\nSincerely, Finny & Spencer\n\n### 8. Thank you note for the bridal shower host\n\nDear Amar,\nWords can’t express how truly grateful we are for the shower you planned and hosted. From the balloon display to the delicious cake pops, every detail was perfect. None of it would have been possible without you. Thank you for always being such an amazing friend and for supporting us through every detail of planning our wedding. Having you in our lives has made this special time even more meaningful.\nWe can’t wait to have you join us as we exchange our vows and journey into married life. Thanks again for everything you do.\nWith love, Audra & Charles\n\n![woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3kANG3FP0QuuQxkSb1vXSo/04ac6084f0e2c735c5a63d07f2e11f22/woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card.jpg)\n\n## FAQs about bridal shower thank you messages \n\n### When do I send bridal shower thank you cards? \n\nBridal shower thank you messages should be sent to each individual who attended your bridal shower and/or purchased a gift no more than two weeks after the date of the party.\n\n__Pro Tip:__ Purchase thank you cards before the bridal shower—especially if you’re using a custom design—so you already have them on hand immediately following the celebration.\n\n### Who should sign bridal shower thank you cards?\n\nAlthough it may feel like the gift was given just to you, bridal shower thank you cards should be signed by you and your partner. The only exception to this rule is when you receive a gift that’s clearly meant for only you (think lingerie, spa gift card, or other bride-centric gifts).\n\n### Can I combine wedding and bridal shower thank you messages?\n\nThe short answer? No. A different thank you note should be written for each event (bridal party, wedding ceremony, or even a baby shower) a guest attends, regardless of whether they brought a gift each time.\n\n## Trust Zola with your stationery needs \n\nNow that you’re well-versed in [etiquette](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-invitation-etiquette-top-mistakes-to-avoid-or-zola), don’t stop there! Zola can take care of all your [wedding paper needs](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/invites-paper/invitations). 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Find out in our latest guide.","publishedAt":"2021-02-10T15:59:41.993Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/LIMh0JnOloe51GM6q34L0/3326f8e7211fde5ad12d79776a17b8f6/Hero_IndustrialWeddingAtStAugustineChurchAnd26Bridge_SarahZimmermanPhoto.jpg","altText":"Bachelorette Party vs Bridal Shower"},"heroCredit":"Sarah Zimmerman Photo","body":"![Bachelorette Party vs Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5FZjHYn3xodt1GyCdHwa4g/204ec420c4862dfa06d48bdfd6be164e/inline_shutterstock2.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Shutterstock\n\nThere are so many events that happen before the actual wedding day itself. The engagement party, the wedding shower, and the bachelorette party. But, when it comes to the wedding shower and the bachelorette party, it's not always clear how to differentiate between the two events. \n\n## Bridal Shower vs. Bachelorette Party: Are the Wedding Shower and the Bachelorette Party the Same?\n\nNope, bridal showers and bachelorette parties are not the same thing. Bridal showers are meant to prepare the bride-to-be for her future life as a married woman, whereas a bachelorette party is meant for the bride to de-stress, celebrate, and enjoy her present pre-married life.\n\nAdditionally, wedding showers are hosted parties, where the host pays for the event—including the food, catering, decorations, and anything else—and invites the guests, whereas bachelorette parties are often co-hosted by the friends of the bride. \n\nWith bridal showers, it’s very common and often expected, that guests will arrive with gifts. These gifts are typically related to the home or the life between the new couple. The wedding shower is traditionally hosted by a friend or family member close to the bride and is often an afternoon or late morning affair. \n\nThe bachelorette party is usually a weekend away or a night out that is planned by the bride’s close friends, and, typically, her maid of honor. Though a thoughtful gesture, [bachelorette party gifts](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/9-bachelorette-party-gifts-for-the-bride) are usually not the main focus of the night. The focus is on ensuring that the bride has fun and enjoys herself. You may ask, [who pays for the bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-pays-for-the-bachelorette-party)? As compared to the wedding shower, the costs are usually split between the event attendees.\n\n## Who Is Invited to the Wedding Shower, and Who Is Invited to the Bachelorette Party? \n\nThe wedding shower typically includes a wide assortment of guests who are connected to the bride. Traditionally, the wedding shower guest list only extends to women guests, although today wedding showers increasingly will include male friends of the bride. The guests often include the bride’s female cousins, aunts, and extended family members; female family friends of her parents; and female members of her religious community or another group in which she participates. All ages are included in the wedding shower guest list. Some brides may also invite co-workers if they’re close, but this is not expected in most situations. \n\nThe bachelorette party almost always includes the wedding party, and then the bride’s close friends. Traditionally, bachelorette parties only included women's friends, but today the bride might want to include friends of all genders. The bachelorette party might be organized by one of the bridesmaids or the maid of honor, but the costs are usually shared by all the guests attending. \n\nA wedding shower is an event that usually includes a wider range of guests than the bachelorette party. The guest list is ultimately up to the host, as she is the one planning the event and opening her home. However, the host will likely consult with the bride to ensure that there are no mix-ups or hurt feelings. Older and younger female relatives should be invited to the wedding shower, but in most cases would be out of place at the bachelorette party. Some social friends of the bride might have no interest in attending the wedding shower, but would be appropriate guests for the bachelorette party. \n\n## What Happens at a Wedding Shower vs. a Bachelorette Party?\n\n![Bachelorette Party vs Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1TdhwA5VmBESvBQ5m0ro5g/52f1a00b392a4d619745974fda7309d2/inline_shutterstock3.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Shutterstock\n\nThe wedding shower includes the opening of gifts, sometimes toasts by some of her female relatives (such as her mother, aunt, or sister), and certain games or activities related to her soon-to-be-married life. The tone of the event should be appropriate to the diverse range of guests, which might include older, conservative family members or co-workers. The wedding shower is about celebrating the bride’s new life as part of a couple and is often focused on her broader community. \n\nBachelorette parties include fun activities planned by the bride’s friends, games related to the bride and her soon-to-be life partner, and social bonding. The bachelorette party is not suited for friends or family that are not part of the bride’s social circle, and often include activities that incorporate [bachelorette party game questions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-game-questions-youll-love) that are a little more raunchy or intimate than what would happen at the wedding shower. The bachelorette party is really about fun and joy and focused entirely on the bride and her friends before she becomes a married woman. \n\nKnowing the difference between a wedding shower and a bachelorette party will help ensure that you plan the perfect event for each occasion. \n\n__The Best Winter Bachelorette Party Ideas__\n\n- COZY CABINS!!\n- snowman competitions\n- spa retreat -- no better time than when it is miserable out there\n- sledding!\n- smores and fire \n- ice skating \n- matching cozy flannel pajamas or gloves \n- cabin with a hot tub\n- winter festival \n- face masks, hair masks \n\n__8 Best Bachelorette Party Destinations: __\n\n- Vegas \n- Mexico City \n- Montreal \n- Cruise \n- New Orleans\n- Austin, TX\n- Charleston, SC\n- Miami\n- Nashville\n- Savannah, Georgia \n\n__Bachelorette Party Game Questions__\n\n“Who knows you best?”\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Discover unique bachelorette party gifts for the bride-to-be. 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","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2024-10-03T10:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/76ZaCVd5YdZKoKivIuHdcz/a27134cd9c6c2c5c0caf8ec2a2e3542d/40-Bridal-Shower-Themes-for-Modern-Couples.jpg","altText":"bridal shower theme ideas"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"__Inside this article:__\n- Elegant Bridal Shower Themes\n- Adventurous Couple's Shower Themes\n- Fun Bridal Shower Themes\n- Laidback Wedding Shower Themes\n- Unique Bridal Shower Themes\n- Fall Bridal Shower Themes\n- Winter Bridal Shower Themes\n- Spring Bridal Shower Themes\n- Summer Bridal Shower Themes\n","body":"The bridal shower is a celebration of the bride-to-be that welcomes both family and friends to the party. Traditionally it's been a girls-only event, but many modern couples are opting to plan a joint __[couple's shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/coed-wedding-shower)__. Of course, you're welcome to extend a bridal shower invitation to anyone you'd like to celebrate your upcoming wedding.\n\nOne of the first steps of planning a bridal or couple's shower is choosing your party’s theme. There’s no end to theme opportunities, and you can plan any activity or decor you like. (Just keep in mind that this isn’t the __[bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-themes)__ and that your grandmother may be there, so keep things PG.)\n\nFrom tea time to beach bash, check out all 38 bridal shower theme ideas below.\n\n## Elegant Bridal Shower Themes\n \nAn elegant bridal shower is perfect for the classic couple who wants to celebrate with a beautiful and traditional party. The entertainment is food, conversation, and maybe some light party games, and the decor is chic and simple. If you’re interested in an elegant celebration, browse these bridal shower themes below:\n\n### 1. Garden Gala\nStart with a beautiful venue and host a garden party as everything’s beautiful and blooming. Light snacks, cocktails, and some fun games are all you need to make this party a hit. Nothing is simpler or more classy than a garden party.\n\n![Bridal Shower Themes](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7yiXszW9spLVh3NAgWaiDc/b49db3433730ecf4baa8e7e400bd1c65/1-bridal-shower-themes-sign-mockup.jpg) Photo via Zola\n\n[![Bridal Shower Themes](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5jrzVWHcWQyVfxHAfi6Y01/31913e407f44d97bd13e727f9150536a/bridal-shower-themes-download-wedding-signs.png)](//downloads.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/fwXHlwxQdHWAAXwgxeCh1/49397648ea58fc70d51d0aedf9c21e42/Zola-Wedding-Signs.pdf)\n\n### 2. Minimalist Mixer\nMinimalism is super trendy and a great way to gather reusable decorations. When it comes to bridal shower decorations, less is more! Choose small centerpieces like lanterns and succulents, and place signs with simple calligraphy on a plain or acrylic background. A beautiful venue will carry most of the weight for a minimalist party.\n\n![Minimal Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5q6xmBITOmc4DWRcXWhBOi/2e1aa9e4efc21fd3e3b238ba8c1fedcb/Minimal_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Captured By Maleah Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/captured-by-maleah-photography)\n\n### 3. Party in Paris\nAh, Paris—it’s everything classic romance and makes for a sophisticated party theme. French stripes, signs in French, and Eiffel Tower statuettes are easy, go-to decor. And, of course, what's a French shower without French food. Plenty of pastries, macarons, and a charcuterie board are delicious snacks that will elevate the party—and don’t forget __[wine to pair](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/cake-and-wine-pairings)__!\n\n![2-bridal-shower-themes-paris (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2e7KnLIYDt2NtZRgOmvqxn/0b729e16b72a89b46bfdd25132897078/2-bridal-shower-themes-paris__1_.jpg)\n\n### 4. Vintage Soiree\nThrow a party ‘70s style, or with whichever decade aesthetics you prefer. This is a perfect bridal shower theme for repurposing old furniture and decor. Collect vintage and intricate frames, as well as funky bottles and fabrics for tables and tapestries. Have your guests dress for the decade as inspiration to really throw it back.\n\n![3-bridal-shower-themes-vintage-soiree (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/017rex1qXGEnZzWT2m0s6g/77a8d8848078898fb540497f1420dc95/3-bridal-shower-themes-vintage-soiree__1_.jpg)\n\n### 5. Glitz and Glamor\nPlan a more sophisticated evening party with glittered cocktail attire and hors d’oeuvres. Host a wine tasting as entertainment and decorate with a simple floral arrangement, candles, anything that sparkles, and a few gold accents for a glam party with your friends.\n\n![Glitz and Glamour Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6RMLJtnEBIUaFwSBLnJcdY/1c715d96d5f333bf1d59a23cc52f1892/Glitz_and_Glamour_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Marigny Opera House](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/marigny-opera-house)\n\n[![bridal-shower-themes-download-elegant-moodboard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7BipeOW1c8F2p7ikTQ0sw4/542c210743e108da3a39d64fc17bdf73/bridal-shower-themes-download-elegant-moodboard.png)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2m4kDmJrQIGULTpnGbNR7W/424b9209b627676de73f6450b2a8ec30/bridal-shower-themes-elegant.png)\n\n## Adventurous Couple’s Shower Themes\n \nIf you’re looking for unique bridal shower themes, engaging games, and an energizing party atmosphere, then these adventurous themes are for you. These bridal shower themes are great for representing you as a couple and celebrating the things you love most:\n\n### 6. Boho Bash\nBohemian themes and decor are perfect for the casual couple. The best part of a boho bash is that there are plenty of opportunities to use thrifted and repurposed decor, so you can save some money and stay __[eco-friendly](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/eco-friendly-wedding)__. Grab some decorative frames for signs, boho pillows for seating, and plenty of wildflowers for a flower crown and the centerpieces.\n\n![Boho Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2ZIwL2JKvzbbJi4xn5WtlG/501c0a63621d87519543628fce7de13c/Boho_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Chellise Michael Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/chellise-michael-photography)\n\n### 7. Happily Ever After\nWhat’s better than a fairytale party for your happily ever after? Greenery, fairy lights, books, and some nods to your favorite fairytale stories will bring this theme to life. You can go with a bridal shower theme around the master of happily ever after—Disney. Choose your favorite Disney stories and characters and get creative—set each table with a different centerpiece theme, or dive in with a costume party and dress as your favorite Disney couple.\n\n![Fairytale Wedding Shower Theme](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4tQZwB8Typlp1NkHwPUjaw/9d4c131a3b31799944c5aac361212dfa/Fairytale_Wedding_Shower_Theme.jpg) Photo via [Woolverton Inn](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/woolverton-inn)\n\n### 8. Travel-Themed Bridal Shower\nCelebrate life’s big adventure with a trip around the world themed shower. Luggage, globes, and maps are all great decor pieces that are easy to find and use. Serve international favorites with their national flags, and include global monuments in your decor—like the Sphinx, Eiffel Tower, Leaning Tower of Pisa, or the Taj Mahal.\n\n![6-bridal-shower-themes-around-the-world](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2PesuuJAEbJprzovDEmOY8/0597ced533d88f51e533319c45cb7ef0/6-bridal-shower-themes-around-the-world.jpg)\nPhoto by [Kati Rosado](http://katirosado.com/contact)\n\n### 9. Mexican Food and Fun\nIf the bride is a Mexican cuisine enthusiast, then a Mexican-themed fiesta could be the perfect option for a bridal shower. Create a build-your-own taco bar and pair the food with refreshing margaritas (frozen or one the rocks—bride’s choice!).\n\n![Mexican Themed Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6vMw8hDdFoLPzxr6o5pvcC/c4f6438c362ff545850ac1e4c3d6b5f8/Mexican_Themed_Party.jpg) Photo by [JamsCreative Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/jamscreative-photography)\n\n### 10. Drama and Dancing\nDress up and get to dancing! Have everyone dress their best and decorate with rich jewel tones and dramatic lighting. The most important part is the perfect playlist everyone will enjoy, so take suggestions from your guests leading up to the party. Prepare fun cocktails and plenty of snacks, and you’re ready to go.\n\n![Wedding Dance Ladies](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2awo4Idmo8V3xaDcRB8QUZ/05b6bff2712a8a908e5a89d008aebba7/Wedding_Dance_Ladies.jpg) Photo by [Joyce Li Photo](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/joyce-li-photo)\n\n### 11. Under the Sea\nIf you’re all-in on the mermaid aesthetic, this may be the theme for you. Cool color palettes and some iridescent or silver metallics are your theme’s core. Gather seashells, glass pieces, and simple greenery arrangements for centerpieces. This is a great chance to repurpose wine bottles as candlestick holders with sand and shells inside—then let guests take home the marine-themed decor as bridal party favors.\n\n![Under the Sea Beach Wedding Table](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6a82w3p1nGjU31X39fG0rj/5919702498a7bfb3abe84682697cc462/Under_the_Sea_Beach_Wedding_Table.jpg) Photo by [Krystal Zaskey Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/krystal-zaskey-photography)\n\n[![bridal-shower-themes-download-adventurous-moodboard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/68kisdb07WwEjygaEdtOL7/a33e3c98803fa462b6e37b750912ae25/bridal-shower-themes-download-adventurous-moodboard.png)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4I0zC1PUoerR73vSCn0Bg9/9e2a658e9e93d9d12f6f663b592ded8e/bridal-shower-themes-adventurous.png)\n\n## Fun Bridal Shower Themes \n\n### 12. Karaoke Lounge\nTake a break from wedding planning and plan a karaoke party at home or out at a lounge — either way, you’re sure to have a good time. Prepare challenges with your favorite songs in a draw bag, or choose a genre to build your theme around. Push the theme further and ask your guests to come dressed as their favorite artists and perform to a music video.\n\n![Karaoke Wedding Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5mzdoPTEXSSIbCRjT5igqs/6a4ffce0be27b1fe09710c207336b5a3/Karaoke_Wedding_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Morgan Wiltse Photo Co.](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/morgan-wiltse-photo-co)\n\n### 13. Ice Cream Party\nWhen there's ice cream, there is always fun in store! Hire an ice cream truck to come to your event. You could also take it a step further and do a full ice cream sundae bar. Get several flavors of ice cream, and splurge on toppings—sprinkles, syrups, and more. Don't forget the cones or waffle bowls to enhance the event. \n\n![S-mores Ice Cream Sundae Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4LMR0QltpjA8Kufnc8LQoq/764f80376ff18627ade5b74557c29c11/S-mores_Ice_Cream_Sundae_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Pint's Peak Ice Cream](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-cakes-desserts/pints-peak-ice-cream)\n\n### 14. Game Night\nGame night is perfect for a night in with your friends, and everyone will warm up to each other quickly. Bring your favorite games and snacks, and get the party started. Decorate using Jenga pieces as a guest book for your friends and family to sign, and candy dice to top cupcakes. Or take it outside and play lawn games.\n\n![Lawn Games at a Wedding Reception](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6V3o1HPFvvSSpWqw7j6DCm/b2e768aa8635552305188dad3525b224/Lawn_Games_at_a_Wedding_Reception.jpg) Photo via [The Wedding Connection](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-planners/the-wedding-connection)\n\n### 15. Nautical\nIf you (and the engaged couple!) love being on the water, consider using a nautical bridal shower theme. Host your event by the sea, on the beach, or on a boat for added cohesion. However, it's also perfectly acceptable to have a blue and white palette and maritime touches for a land-centric party. \n\n![Nautical Bridal Shower Theme](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4txV3Tg5fsTby2WR8nAscV/d072de20b83f64d2279b823a9c3008d1/Nautical_Bridal_Shower_Theme.jpg) Photo by [Aprea Media](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/aprea-media)\n\n### 16. Candy Crush\nCelebrate your engagement to your crush with candy! Sweet, delicious, and super aesthetically pleasing, candy is an affordable and easy way to cover decor and favors for your guests. Arrange gumball bowls, giant lollipops, and macaron towers as centerpieces, and serve colorful and bubbly drinks for a great summer fun party theme. Not a fan of candy? Have homemade pastel color treats instead.\n\n![Dessert Bar for Reception](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2dr0ZZqsCNecbLJqzOnMAD/db2e187716f6c975778cd728a461e1e3/Dessert_Bar_for_Reception.jpg) Photo via [Twin Treats](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-cakes-desserts/twin-treats)\n\n## Laidback Wedding Shower Themes\n \nThese laidback shower themes are for the casual couple looking to host a great party all of their friends and family can enjoy. Find 10 bridal shower themes and trending party ideas that are all about you and your guests, instead of heavily themed decor and entertainment:\n\n### 17. Pajama Party\nFor the ultimate laid back event, invite guests to dress in their pjs. Host an evening event that goes late into the night, or have a morning brunch. The sky's the limit for this casual, fun event. It's also an ideal theme if you're hosting a lingerie shower where the bride can also give her attendants their wedding day robes at the event.\n\n![Pajama Party Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/741K8Hfz5Z5WG1HYRFf0t3/088b51dad241984586676b0dbedd46f0/Pajama_Party_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Hotel Arista](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/hotel-arista)\n\n### 18. Fruit Fest\nFruit themes are fresh and fun and bring a bright tropical vibe without the need for grass skirts. Vibrant fruit arrangements are great centerpieces by themselves, but some flowers and decorative trays wouldn’t hurt. Don’t forget the fruit cocktails, coconuts, and novelty straws — this party is all about the drinks.\n\n![Fruit Bachelorette Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/42VVD3mZn7IsrJRHDvBSzD/1580821430af54b2c765318327f477f8/Fruit_Bachelorette_Party.jpg) Photo via [Hill City Bride](https://hillcitybride.com/2017/05/citrus-bachelorette-party-styled-shoot/)\n\n### 19. Sock Hop\nGo back to the ‘50s with a fun sock hop themed party. Bring circle skirts and polka dots back for a night, and prepare a rocking playlist that will have everyone dancing. Retro signs and glass Coke bottles make for fun decor, and malt milkshakes are the perfect dessert.\n\n![Clinking Coke Bottles at Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/39rrbGkiQm1Jax3xKKx1Jk/7c0a6e95a3a28b1ce8af2d5c0f92d607/Clinking_Coke_Bottles_at_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Bradley Pisney](https://unsplash.com/@bradleypisney)\n\n### 20. Wine Tastings\nSchedule a wine tasting for your wedding shower. Not only is this perfect for a co-ed event, but you can organize it in various ways. Hire a limo and go from winery to winery doing several tastings. Or you can head to a winery with a vineyard on site and spend a few hours walking through the vines and sampling. Either way, a DD is vital, so put that on your list.\n\n![Wine Tasting Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3f7Oj2kxOS2427ekFg4wC6/0548ec4ed0dac20af00de180967041b9/Wine_Tasting_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Kym Ellis](https://unsplash.com/@kymellis)\n\n### 21. Brunch and Bubbly\nThe bridal brunch is simple and welcoming to all of your guests, and gives plenty of opportunity for the couple’s family and friends to get to know each other. The menu is full of brunch favorites, like waffles and scones—and, of course, you stock the bar with champagne, juice, and other __[mimosa bar](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-make-a-mimosa-bar)__ staples. Light floral arrangements and simple table settings are all you need to host a nice __[brunch](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/brunch-wedding)__.\n\n![10-bridal-shower-themes-brunch-and-bubbly (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6wOGbpj3KwpmsljYghFVJn/8a8bbc6418a7f8b15431fe9612a10abc/10-bridal-shower-themes-brunch-and-bubbly__1_.jpg) Photo via Zola\n\n[![bridal-shower-themes-download-laidback-moodboard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3oknARV7UK6Mj1pBdt7QkH/a6a0c07c809b7361b0e492c855d845a4/bridal-shower-themes-download-laidback-moodboard.png)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5BpHrs1JlVGebXUYNptl6L/6ec2848f7ceee432656915418153ed92/bridal-shower-themes-laidback.png)\n\n## Unique Bridal Shower Themes\n \nSome themes just don’t fit in a box. If you’re still looking for the perfect party idea, try one of these creative and trendy bridal shower theme ideas:\n\n### 22. Breakfast at Tiffany’s\nWhat’s more glamorous and classic than Breakfast at Tiffany’s? Decorate with Tiffany blue, or even get some Tiffany’s gift boxes and candles as centerpieces. Channel your inner Holly Golightly with a little black dress, and gift pearls and sunglasses as themed favors to your guests.\n\n![Brunch Wedding Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5oIrbZnmy0ssZz2ZWlxTnX/8df5feb85b1859e63da860bdb2a6f2be/Brunch_Wedding_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Rachel Park](https://unsplash.com/@therachelstory)\n\n### 23. Bold and Bright\nFill your party with bright colors and bold decor to bring a ton of energy and fun to your party. Choose a handful of your favorite colors, or cover everything in rainbows. Either way, you’re setting yourself up for plenty of photo-ops and unlimited possibilities.\n\n![Vibrant Wedding Shower Tablescape](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NM9triQ8FKUTjoUi3ARe5/742de0e3927783efe3644d5f74952a1e/Vibrant_Wedding_Shower_Tablescape.jpg) Photo by [Jason Rhee Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/jason-rhee-photography-llc)\n\n### 24. Classic Hollywood Chic\nYou can still have a glam party in the winter with a throwback to the silver screen. Decorate with jewel tones and gold accents, and centerpieces of pearls and ostrich feathers. Roll out the red carpet to a photobooth with props of faux-fur boas, beads, and other vintage accessories and a vintage-inspired [photo backdrop](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-backdrop).\n\n![Hollywood Glam Styled Event Wedding](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6ohR6cWSm8QqcVJqxI7O2N/a46b330a523c9468ff6d3c9c0dc90ae6/Hollywood_Glam_Styled_Event_Wedding.jpg) Photo via [Zola's Real Weddings](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding/old-hollywood-glamour-styled-shoot)\n\n### 25. Potter Party \nInvite all of your witch and wizard friends to celebrate with butterbeer and chocolate frogs. You can find recipes for all of your favorite magic treats and gift DIY wands and house badges to your friends. Marathon the movies, host a trivia game or play a quick Quidditch match. There’s plenty of Hogwarts fun for everyone.\n\n![Harry Potter Theme Wedding Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7wtJubue6dlPErnCtRbkKa/679d8a53027681bdaa73e47845972d18/Harry_Potter_Theme_Wedding_Shower.jpg) Photo via [The Winery at Bull Run](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/the-winery-at-bull-run)\n\n### 26. Blue and White\nIf you're in touch with decor trends, you've probably seen blue and white palettes everywhere. It's a classic! So, why not include it in a wedding shower? Scour thrift shops and antique stores for blue and white elements like dishes, vases, and more. Some can even be gifted to the bride-to-be. The added touch of decorative cookies brings an element of sophistication to the event. \n\n![Blue and White Cookies](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3nZ4X0Y2BUl58s1t31L3Q0/87d09e9d1913556ee425e70adaf022ff/Blue_and_White_Cookies.jpg) Photo via [The Everly](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/the-everly)\n\n### 27. Retro\nTo have a retro bridal shower, pick an era and go all out. You can mock the Roaring 20's or go with the hippie vibe of the 1970s. It's all up to you. Use Pinterest to search for inspiration for the various decades, and take cues from color palettes, fashions, and photo styling for your own era-inspired bridal shower.\n\n![Retro Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2c5FRZk3Xo8uO5AQoDzNAj/8aea45876f2bfdeaf156489c1e30ce19/Retro_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Love Wildly](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/love-wildly)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Fall \n\n### 28. Backyard Bonfire\nThe best way to relax with your favorite people is around a bonfire with s’mores, tunes, and drinks. Make sure you have plenty of seating and snacks, and this party is good to go. If you want to build decor, collect old tins and trays to display the snacks and place lanterns and string lights around the party to add to the vibe.\n\n![8-bridal-shower-themes-backyard-bonfire](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/Yqz2xEY7DjS08IqkMTkup/06e9651087dc4a332d3d4385fac7c037/8-bridal-shower-themes-backyard-bonfire.jpg)\nSource: [Allie Dearie Photography](http://alliedeariephotography.com/)\n\n### 29. Rustic and Cozy\nRustic-themed showers are having a moment. Whether you go with rustic farmhouse BBQ (think DIY mason jar flower arrangements, gingham linens and napkins, and homemade sweet tea), or a more comfy, cozy cabin vibe (think enjoying hot cocoa in pajamas in front of the fire while you play bridal shower games), this bridal shower theme is sure to appeal to brides that are more country than city.\n\n![9-bridal-shower-themes-comfy-cozy](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6a017sAwGsvQpaoT9kv7An/4c70551b6ad65362481722a035787f40/9-bridal-shower-themes-comfy-cozy.jpg) Photo by \n[Carina Skrobecki](https://www.carinaskrobecki.com/)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Winter \n\n### 30. Trim the Tree\nInvite your guests to help you trim your holiday tree with DIY ornaments. Collect some craft instructions for your guests and gather supplies to create keepsake ornaments for you and your partner. Cookies and eggnog are sure to get everyone in the festive spirit. (You could even have guests wrap bridal shower gifts in holiday paper!)\n\n![Christmas Bridal Shower Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2tgHfQcFvUlnrhmMJ8uczi/866564843aecf63d4ac3f622811d1cff/Christmas_Bridal_Shower_Ideas.jpg) Photo by [Limelight Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/limelight-photography)\n\n### 31. Winter Wonderland\nSnow and ice are nature’s glitter, so embrace the sparkle and celebrate a winter wonderland. Glitter centerpieces and warmth from candlelight are sure to set the mood. Pinecones and frosted evergreens are great for adding texture and colors, too.\n\n![Winter Wonderland Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/9H8GuAzenjgmLiwgNtFJd/dfc06f10a4e96593d52735a703656f7f/Winter_Wonderland_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [The Preserve at Chocorua](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/the-preserve-at-chocorua)\n\n### 32. Flannel and Frost\nDecorate your party with evergreens, flannel fabrics, and lanterns for a warm and inviting atmosphere for everyone. Cider drinks and spiced cookies are the perfect treats, and your guests will love playing group games and mingling.\n\n![Flannel Bridal Shower Theme](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/zBmzuRgSFTrWPJMFPgHhD/21372946bf45ebfa6086ae17634835e0/Flannel_Bridal_Shower_Theme.jpg) Photo on [Zola's Real Weddings](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding/plaid-accented-fall-styled-shoot)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Spring \n\n### 33. Lovely in Lemon\nFruit themes are hugely popular, and lemons may just top that list. They’re bright, refreshing, and so fun for a party. Decorate with yellow and white flowers with plenty of greenery, and of course lemons themselves. Host a lemonade and iced tea bar with a variety of flavors — lemon cupcakes and cookies are a must (and make for great take-home party favors!).\n\n![Lemon Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3txCeg3in7GnYkk0E6Os8t/a90377c1fc8cf146a6f1f1f833e675bc/Lemon_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Hill City Bride](https://hillcitybride.com/2020/01/bridal-shower-decorations/)\n\n### 34. Tea Party Time\nTea parties are a bridal shower classic and a great way to include everyone on your guest list. Rent or thrift adorable teaware, then gather some fresh flower bouquets for your tables, and voila—your decor is pretty much finished! Simple and sweet pastries and a collection of teas to sample is all the entertainment you need with good company at your wedding shower. (You could even send home personalized tea bags as bridal shower favors!)\n\n![Bridal Shower Tea Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6PkQtkyVcQC2ytoPGR6JmB/25f2d95f525d6969fb29cf23e2eeaad0/Bridal_Shower_Tea_Party.jpg) Photo by [Carolyn Christine](https://unsplash.com/@carolynchristine)\n\n### 35. Gives Me Butterflies\nThe bride-to-be is in love, so focus on the feeling. Throw a butterfly themed bridal shower at a butterly garden or botanical center. Release butterflies and have lovely, themed details, such as butterfly nets and vintage prints featuring the flying insects. It's perfect for spring! \n\n![Butterfly Themed Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5umS2PAkojSa4YYOcXvxAF/59e4e6cece3414eae51269e4281a20fd/Butterfly_Themed_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Peterson Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/petersen-photography-llc)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Summer \n\n### 36. Fair Food\nEveryone loves the fair, and even if you’re not into rides, how can you say no to fair food? The carnival aesthetic is a lot of fun to play with — saturated colors and novelty lights can take you a long way, and a Ferris wheel statue would be great. Of course, the centerpiece of this theme is the food! Rent decorative machines if you can, and serve caramel corn, corn dogs, and more. For an added splash, serve drinks topped with cotton candy.\n\n![Cotton Candy Cocktail](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/9LOxLRXh7LGoVzfOdIKVn/33423d89b2f7cee1c9a82c01b4babb58/Cotton_Candy_Cocktail.jpg) Photo by [Johann Trasch](https://unsplash.com/@cocktailbart)\n\n### 37. Beach Bash\nBeach themes are a bridal shower favorite. Subtle colors, seashells, and elegant candles can really elevate this theme if you’re looking for something more sophisticated or romantic. Of course, you can always plan a beach party with a pool, fun shades, and plenty of games.\n\n![7-bridal-shower-themes-beach-bash (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6bDCsVEIx3W5IVLzxiGJ5P/9172793b112dcf2b1526468f47c83b7e/7-bridal-shower-themes-beach-bash__1_.jpg)\nPhoto by [Amanda Hedgepeth](http://www.amandahedgepethphotography.com/)\n\n### 38. Tropical Luau\nA tropical bridal shower is the perfect way to bring fun, sun, and the tropics to your party. Plan a party by the pool with fruity drinks, beach decor, and fun inflatables that double as photo props. Pool parties are great for large guest lists and as a theme for a couple’s shower.\n\n![Bridal Shower Themes](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/29TdexcZKU8OFodcAPVQM4/b7a0a7fe5448fc084caa500fad553bc4/zola-1680x1060.jpg)\nPhoto by [Meagan Gibson](https://www.meagangibsonphotography.com/ \"Source: Meagan Gibson Photography\")\n\nWhether you’re hosting a throwback bash or a comfortable night in, your guests will be happy to receive their __[invites](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop)__, so choose the bridal shower theme that suits you best. Once you have your theme and decor ideas, the fun (and the countdown to the big day can really begin! So get to planning, add some fun __[printable games or activities](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/free-bridal-shower-printables)__, and enjoy your perfect party.","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-10-03T19:35:00.980Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding shower","slug":"wedding-shower"},"slug":"bridal-shower-traditions-updated","title":"7 Bridal Shower Traditions, Updated ","excerpt":"Bridal showers are great celebrations but they could use some updating. Bring your bridal shower traditions into modern times with our guide to updating the traditional bridal shower.","author":"McCall Minnor","publishedAt":"2019-10-15T16:32:47.960Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6vfYcGpnDLIGFdgeLZ9F2c/b59c2ca2f2e6e3c2dd505a2b1ecbc00b/HERO_Unsplash_1080x720__1_.jpg","altText":"bridal shower gifting tradition"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"While a [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers) is a generous gesture from loved ones, we can’t deny that some aspects of the celebration can be awkward and outdated. That’s not to say you shouldn’t have one—those closest to you want to celebrate you and you should let them. You may just prefer to put your own more modern spin on things. Here are a few common bridal shower traditions and easy ways to update them for a party that truly fits your vibe. \n\n## The Tradition: It’s just for women.\nTraditionally, a bridal shower is a pre-wedding celebration thrown in honor of the bride, during which guests “shower” her with gifts. It usually takes place during the day, is women-only, and is thrown by a woman close with the bride.\n\n__The Update:__ More and more couples are choosing instead to have a [coed wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/coed-wedding-shower) that includes everyone: both partners and both sets of friends and family. This way there’s much more wiggle room in terms of activities and the theme. Plus, including both partners is a practical and thoughtful way to celebrate both people and also bring family and friends together ahead of the wedding. \n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/532VVdWGgxiLyK341ZcdQ7/749150933cb579d72591628987db3df9/INLINE__Unsplash_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## The Tradition: It happens less than two months before the wedding.\nUsually, the bridal shower is held just before the wedding: about 2-8 weeks out. Older etiquette suggests that this is to prevent your wedding festivities from spanning more than a few months, thus inconveniencing guests.\n\n__The Update:__ While it’s considerate to keep your guests in mind, having your shower within this time frame might just not work. It’s also possible that you don’t want to have your shower so close to your ceremony, regardless of any other reason. Giving yourself more time between the two occasions allows you the opportunity to open and sort through gifts, send thank you notes, and, honestly, just relax a little. It’s a lot to go event-for-event. Choose a time that works best for you and (most of) your guests.\n\n## Tradition: It’s a feminine daytime event.\nThe traditional bridal shower is a brunch party, afternoon tea, or another daytime affair. And it’s likely to include small appetizers and desserts, beverages like mimosas, and typically feminine decor. \n\n__The Update:__ Your bridal shower or coed wedding shower doesn’t need to fall within any kind of themed parameters—and it doesn’t need to be a brunch either. Your shower can—and should—take on any form that best suits you (or you and your partner). Hire a local bartender and have a cocktail hour mixology class. Spend a weekend at the beach or spa. Wine tastings, cooking classes, hiking, art lessons—all acceptable. When it comes down to it, your shower should be an event you’ll enjoy. No one will care if it’s in the evening or not at someone’s home, so long as you’re celebrating with one another.\n\n## Tradition: You play games.\nGames are almost always included in the traditional bridal shower itinerary. Common bridal shower games include gift bingo, a toilet paper wedding dress competition, and newlywed questions.\n\n__The Update:__ While many enjoy these specific—and admittedly cheesy—games, they’re by no means required. If you’d rather skip couple’s trivia and spend time doing just about anything else, do that. If you still like the idea of Say you’d still like to gather everyone together to do something. No problem. Opt instead for a non-shower themed group activity (remember that fun mixology class idea we mentioned before?).\n\n## Tradition: Gifts are mandatory—and you open them in front of everyone.\nEveryone invited to a bridal shower is expected to bring a gift for the bride or couple (if it’s a wedding shower). The bride or couple then open each gift in front of their guests.\n\n__The Update:__ Let’s be honest—there’s ample opportunity to receive gifts throughout your engagement and wedding. Between the engagement party, wedding shower, bachelor or bachelorette parties, and wedding, guests may feel pressured to give multiple times. If this isn’t something you’re comfortable with (or if you simply don’t have room for a lot of gifts), feel free to tell guests to skip gifts. \n\nIf you do, however, include gifts in your shower, don’t feel pressure to open them in front of everyone. Let [your guests](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/invite-to-wedding-shower) know that you won’t be opening them during the party—or simply don’t mention it at all. Send thank you notes no more than a week after the party, though!\n\n![INLINE Zola 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/FyJVw92zu27pIrPVJqOid/1a745129b8eedb7f1ce847593d12c4ef/INLINE_Zola_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Zola\n\n## Tradition: Someone creates a ribbon bouquet.\nThe Tradition: Traditionally, while you’re unwrapping presents at a bridal shower, someone else is collecting the ribbons and bows and fashioning them into a bouquet. This bouquet is then to be used for practice during your wedding rehearsal.\n\n__The Update:__ Feel free to cut this tradition out entirely—especially if you don’t plan on opening gifts in front of everyone. While the sentiment is nice, you really can just use another bouquet of flowers (or nothing) during your rehearsal.\n\n## Tradition: Your fiancé brings flowers at the end\nOlder tradition suggests that your fiancé should show up towards the end of the party, to “surprise” you with flowers. This is considered a sweet way to included them into the festivities (and help you load gifts into the car). Often, the fiancé will show up thirty minutes to an hour before the shower is over and sometimes participate in games.\n\n__The Update:__ Whether your spouse to-be is busy (they might be at their own party) or wants to leave the shower to you, there’s no reason they need to make an appearance. Your shower is yours, after all, and maybe they’d rather avoid the spotlight. You can still have them show up to help relocate gifts, just wait until everyone has left and you’re heading out. On the other hand, if you’d like your partner to be more involved, consider making the entire thing co-ed.\n\nIn the end, your wedding shower is meant to celebrate you and your upcoming marriage. Don’t worry yourself with what’s expected of a typical party. Focus on having a good time and getting excited for the main event—your wedding! We can toast to that.","tag":"List","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Fill your bachelor party with groom-approved activities. 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Find guides, practical advice, and inspiration for the different types of shower celebrations."},"topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events","description":"Leading up to a wedding, there are many different parties and events couples can choose to throw. The list of wedding events includes (but isn't limited to) engagement party, bridal or wedding shower, bachelor and bachelorette parties, rehearsal dinner, and sometimes a farewell brunch. Of course, it's up to you which parties you'll include in your wedding celebrations. Our articles and guides help you decide which parties are right for you and help you plan the perfect events!","subtopics":[{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Engagement party","slug":"engagement-party"},"slug":"pre-wedding-events-guide","title":"Guide to All Wedding Parties & Events","excerpt":"We created a guide to all the different pre-wedding, post-wedding, and wedding-related events so you can decide what you’ll include as part of your wedding.","publishedAt":"2022-04-13T18:06:06.745Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5uuVJB4T2Ib4wDoicjCgbZ/9b21dc45e3155dd604137c1bf2a53c2a/Hero_1.jpg","altText":"Circular image of friends toasting with champagne glasses and sparkling lights"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Years ago, once couples got engaged, they had two celebrations to look forward to—the bridal shower and the rehearsal dinner. Although those traditions remain, as time has moved on, couples have become more creative with the addition of other events. No matter your reasoning for including extra celebrations in your wedding festivities schedule, seize the opportunity to gather with family and friends. Here’s our ultimate guide to all the different kinds of [parties and events](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events) you can include in your [wedding timeline](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist).\n\n## Engagement party\n\nThe question gets popped, a ring is placed on your finger, and it’s time to celebrate with loved ones. Ideally, an [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party) takes place within the first month of the proposal, but if your schedule prevents that timeline, do it whenever is most convenient.\n\nSince this is generally a more intimate celebration, hosting anything from a casual backyard barbecue with lawn games and a [small guest list](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-do-you-invite-to-an-engagement-party) to a more upscale dinner gathering is appropriate. \n\nIf your interest is piqued, there are more [engagement party ideas here](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-ideas).\n\nWho hosts the engagement party depends on your take on the event. If you and your future spouse want to have family and friends gather to [meet each other](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/introduce-families-after-engagement), feel free to host. However, if you’re going to be hands-off, have someone close, such as a sibling or parent, orchestrate the event.\n\n__Expert advice:__ Unless your wedding will be very small or a destination wedding, only invite people who will also be guests on your wedding day. \n\nSee all of our [engagement party articles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/engagement-party) for more expert tips.\n\n![Craig Adderley - Pre-wedding events](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5GFhw3on6e3FyKap4ONlH7/1b4acace342fc222441fc06c9f64c8a4/Inline_1.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Craig Adderley\n\n## Wedding showers\n\nOnce referred to as a bridal shower, today’s [wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-bridal-shower-and-what-is-its-purpose) is more inclusive than its formerly women-only predecessor ([read more about the difference here](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one)). While you can keep it to just the ladies if you’d like, the main focus of this event is to shower the happy couple with gifts, which can take on several forms. Guests can bring items off the [couple’s registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry), or the event can be [themed](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-themes). Think of giving articles related to experiences or stocking the couple’s bar.\n\nIt’s probably best to let someone else handle the hosting and inviting for your [wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-shower-guide). But that doesn’t mean you need to be hands-off. Talk to your sibling, best man, maid of honor, or parent—all appropriate choices for hosting a shower—about a theme and what type of gifts you’d like. Invite close friends and family members, and hold the event two to three months before the wedding. Do it at someone’s home or somewhere else that gives off intimate, celebratory vibes.\n\n### So, then, what is a bridal shower?\n\nA traditional [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers) celebrates the bride and is a gathering of her closest friends and family, typically all female. It’s often thrown by the bride’s side of the family and her bridal party, but it has evolved into an “anything goes” event for cost responsibility. The key difference here is that the focus is on the bride.\n\n### What is a Jack and Jill party?\n\nA Jack and Jill party is a modern, inclusive way to celebrate both sides of the couple at once before the big day. It mixes sides and genders and is usually more laid back in a way more and more couples are choosing. It’s a chance to celebrate the couple together with everyone they love. If your coed curious, read more about the [pros and cons of having a coed wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/coed-wedding-shower).\n\n__Expert advice:__ Find [wedding or bridal shower invitations](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/bridal-shower/shop) of all styles on Zola. You can even match them to your [wedding invites](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop)! \n\nFor more expert tips, explore all of our [wedding shower articles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/wedding-shower).\n\n## Bach parties\n\nToday’s couples have reframed the bachelor or bachelorette party to be more classy while still partying and making memories with people they are close to. Think about inviting your bridal party, siblings, and close friends—as long as they don’t feel stilted by not being asked to be an attendant.\n\nIt’s perfectly appropriate for you to host this event yourself. Your wedding party can also take the reins. Often, bachelor and bachelorette parties have everyone pay their own way, especially if you jet-set out of town for a long weekend. That said, this pre-wedding celebration is more about getting together and being festive than major expenses. So, feel free to be flexible so everyone involved can celebrate leading up to your wedding day.\n\n### Bachelorette parties\n[Bachelorette parties](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bachelorette-parties) celebrate the bride-to-be and can be anything from an elevated brunch, a night on the town, or weekend away somewhere festive. Most importantly, they should reflect the bachelorette’s personality and wishes and be a gathering of her nearest and dearest. \n\nRead our full [guide to planning a bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bachelorette-party) for more deets. \n\n### Bachelor parties\n\n[Bachelor parties](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bachelor-party) honor, you’ve guessed it — the bachelor. It’s basically just a gathering of the groom’s best friends and family spending time together. Normally, they do what the groom enjoys most whether it be sports, hiking, the casino — anything goes. \n\nCheck out [47 bachelor party ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelor-party-ideas) to find something for every groom.\n\n### Joint Bachelor/Bachelorette parties\n\nBrides, grooms, and same-sex couples looking for ways to celebrate together might opt for a joint bachelor/bachelorette party. ‘Bachelorx’ as some call it, is much more than a coed party – it's a fun and inclusive way to focus pre-wedding festivities on the couple as a whole. \n\nCheck out [how to throw a joint bach party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/joint-bachelor-bachelorette-party-games) for the step-by-step. \n\n__Expert advice:__ Get answers to all of your bach party questions, from theme ideas to planning guides to gift inspiration. Find everything [bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/bachelorette-party) or [bachelor party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/bachelor-party) in our expert advice sectionon. \n\n![Melike Benli - Pre-wedding events](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5z3OG5MnN3cpIavaOqAcrX/0b0cc0586ce31c6d2b89c163a6a6ef16/Inline_2.jpg)*Photo Credit* // Melike Benli\n\n## Aufruf\n\nJewish culture has many celebrations, such as Hanukkah and Yom Kippur, but a wedding-centric event that many look forward to is the Aufruf. Yiddish for “calling up,” the Aufruf is traditionally only meant for the groom, although in more modern synagogues, both partners can participate. The entire congregation takes part in this pre-wedding tradition, which happens at the temple the Saturday before the wedding.\n\nDuring the ceremony, the groom will give a blessing over the Torah. Inviting friends and family to the service is appropriate since this is a public display. However, dash all thoughts of the Aufruf being solemn. Sometimes, the rabbi will give the couple candy, signifying a sweet union and fruitfulness throughout the marriage. Some folks will also schedule a post-Aufruf meal to continue the festivities, depending on the circumstances. Additionally, the Aufruf is not to be confused with Shabbat Chatan, which is also for the groom but takes place after the big day.\n\n## Mehndi party\n\nBorrowing beautiful influences from Hindu and [Muslim traditions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/muslim-wedding-checklist), the mehndi party is a unique way to celebrate while focusing on self and practicing ancient rituals. Also known as a henna party, this event is generally held by the bride’s parents and involves placing beautiful, intricate designs on the bride’s hands and feet using henna dye.\n\nToday’s celebrations often include other close family members and friends of the bride. Because these events can take hours—depending on how many henna artists are available and the intricacy of the designs—hosting at a spa, home, or Airbnb can be a nice touch. Henna also darkens over time, so if you’d like to have these designs on your hands and feet for your wedding day, it’s best to have henna applied three days beforehand to allow the natural ink to darken.\n\n## Welcome party \n\nIf you’re having a [destination wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/destination-wedding-checklist) (or a [wedding weekend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/plan-wedding-weekend) people are traveling in for), it’s customary to have some form of welcome reception when your guests arrive at the wedding location. \n\nThis differs from the rehearsal dinner—which typically happens the night before the wedding and only hosts the bridal party and your closest family. \n\nA wedding welcome party can be as casual as welcome drinks or a barbecue once everyone arrives and settles in. It can also be as extravagant as your budget and style preferences allow. Just remember that it’s optional. \n\n## Sangeet \n\nOften celebrated in India, sangeet is all about merriment with many family and friends. As a result, the number of folks invited to sangeet will often outnumber the wedding reception. Folks get together to party — sing, dance, eat, drink — before the big day to showcase their support for the couple and gather with those they haven’t seen in a while. Because this is a large celebration, hosts can often vary and may depend on the number of guests invited.\n\nBecause of the higher guest count, hosting should happen at a [wedding venue](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue) or another location that can hold many people. Although, sometimes, the sangeet will include a smaller number of guests. When it comes to pre-wedding events, sangeets are one of the most flexible, meaning that the location, who hosts, and its proximity to the wedding day can all vary. However, one thing sangeets have in common is the presence of music, which is no wonder since the word means “music” in Sanskrit.\n\n## Rehearsal dinner \n\nThe [rehearsal dinner](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/unique-rehearsal-dinner-ideas) follows your wedding rehearsal, in which your officiant or wedding planner guides you and everyone involved through your wedding ceremony. Along with these people, it’s nice to [invite any close family members](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-to-invite-to-a-rehearsal-dinner) who are wedding guests, as well as those traveling in. \n\nAs expected, the rehearsal dinner is usually the evening before your wedding. As such, it’s best to host it somewhere close to the wedding venue. Choose a restaurant close by or see if your ceremony venue has a space that is not already dedicated to your wedding reception.\n\n## Wedding party/bridal luncheon \n\nIt’s always great to get together with your wedding party. Plus, if you’re a groom who wants to hold a groomsmen’s brunch, go for it! Traditionally, a bridesmaids or wedding party luncheon or brunch is a meal for bridesmaids and/or groomsmen focused on socializing the [wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-many-people-in-wedding-party). Breaking the ice before the big day is a fantastic way to set the tone. \n\nThe bridesmaids’ brunch usually takes place at a restaurant, café, or loved one’s home. If you’d like to host this event, feel free to take the reins. As for when it takes place, that comes down to your personal preference and everyone’s schedules. If everyone is local, picking a date should be simple, but if a few are long-distance, the event may have to take place closer to your [wedding day](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-planning-101/wedding-day).\n\n## After party \n\nJust because the DJ has played the last song and the lights have come up doesn’t mean the party has to be over. It’s becoming more and more common for couples to host an after party that is, quite literally, after the party. \n\nThis after-hours event usually involves extra cocktails and snacks, is in a different location than the reception itself, and can help to keep the party going. And going, and going. Find the best DJs and live bands for your after party on [Zola’s Vendor Marketplace](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-bands-djs).\n\n## Farewell brunch \n\nThe final culminating event of a wedding celebration is the [farewell brunch](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/fun-post-wedding-brunch-invitation-ideas). It can be hosted by the couple, the families, a close relative, or anyone else who offers. It’s typically reserved for guests who’ve spent the night in a designated hotel or resort.\n\nThe farewell brunch gives your guests a chance to regroup, enjoying breakfast and coffee before heading on their merry way. It’s not a mandatory event, but it’s definitely nice to have for both the couple and their guests. As a result, it’s a relatively easy way to put the cherry on top of a great wedding. \n\n## Final thoughts on extra wedding events\n\nAs you can see, weddings can be as simple as the ceremony and reception itself. Or can be a true series of parties and events that lead up to and even continue after the wedding itself. There are no obligations or limits to the amount of wedding fun you can have.\n\nOthers want to honor and celebrate you—both on and before your big day. Incorporating one or more of these wedding festivities gives you more opportunities to spend time and celebrate with everyone you love. The best part? You don’t have to get overwhelmed with planning everything when you’ve got Zola on your team. Get instant access to our full suite of free wedding planning tools when you [sign up](https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard/wedding-planning).","tag":"List","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Need to know what delectable delights are right for you and your guests? Here are our tips for planning your bridal shower menu.","title":"Top 20 Bridal Shower Food Ideas","slug":"what-food-to-serve-at-your-bridal-shower","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"How To","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1BOn3idAlUsoOONoa9Hrnm/5cdf2e6d3ed2fe2a5ec6913261d1ba8a/Hero_Unsplash_MaddiBazzocco.jpg","altText":"Food to Serve at Your Bridal Shower"},"type":"articlePage"}],"updatedAt":"2024-03-06T08:57:12.486Z"}],"name":"Engagement party","slug":"engagement-party","description":"Time to celebrate your engagement and offically kick-off things off with the people you love most! From who to invite to how to decorate your space, find all the advice and inspiration you need to plan your engagement party."},{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding shower","slug":"wedding-shower"},"slug":"how-to-write-a-bridal-shower-card","title":"What to Write in a Bridal Shower Card ","excerpt":"Find inspiration for bridal shower card messages with our tips, quotes, and examples. Craft heartfelt wishes that celebrate the bride-to-be in a special way.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2024-07-29T13:13-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1i6aeplGYDEzk7RquRxZ4K/388498136d2828ba63f64e25efd60cc2/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"What to write in a bridal shower card"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"__Inside this article:__\n\n- [Basic steps to writing a bridal shower card](#steps)\n- [General wedding shower card example](#sample)\n- [Simple shower card messages](#simple)\n- [What to write for a sister](#sister)\n- [What to write for a daughter-in-law](#daughter-in-law)\n- [What to write for a daughter](#daughter)\n- [What to write for a friend](#friend)\n- [What to write for a coworker](#coworker)\n- [Humorous bridal card messages](#card)\n- [Bridal shower quotes](#shower)","body":"__TLDR:__\n\n- A standard [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-vs-bridal-shower) card begins with congratulations, followed by compliments, personal stories, or encouragement, and ends with words of inspiration.\n- Keep things light or go super-sentimental, but remember the best bridal shower cards are personalized and come from the heart.\n- Don’t be afraid to use templates or examples for inspiration when writing a card for a daughter-in-law, sister, coworker, or friend.\n\n## Let's get to writing that bridal shower card\nLucky you—you’ve been invited to a [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-themes)! As you prepare to attend this festive pre-wedding party, you should be thinking of ways to help “shower” the bride-to-be with love, support, and encouragement on her route towards married life. \n\nA shower is supposed to be a special moment of togetherness for the bride where, surrounded by her closest family and friends, she’s able to forget about the stress of wedding planning and revel in the excitement of what lies ahead. However, you may find yourself wondering what to write in a bridal shower card. Yikes!\n\nBy following Zola's simple outlines of what to write, you’ll be sure to craft the perfect message. You could simply say, \"happy bridal shower,\" but there are so many other options to write in a bridal card. We're sure you can't wait to celebrate!\n\nAs a bridal shower guest, you can help her achieve these warm-and-fuzzy feelings by writing a lovely bridal shower message in a card attached to your gift. Below, find details and examples to help you to craft the perfect sentiment.\n\n![woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3kANG3FP0QuuQxkSb1vXSo/04ac6084f0e2c735c5a63d07f2e11f22/woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card.jpg)\n\n## How to write bridal shower card: basic steps\n\nWhile you should feel empowered to write whatever feels natural to you in your card, here are a few elements of a standard [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-traditions-updated) message that should make it easy for you to fill up that white space. Remember, the most important thing is to craft a message that feels personal, genuine, and reflects both your and the bride’s personalities and relationship. Celebrate the couple's true love and let them know they deserve all the happiness life has in store.\n\n__1. Begin with congratulations:__ Open your bridal shower message with the most basic of social graces. Offer your congratulations on her upcoming marriage, on finding the love of her life, on making it this far through wedding planning… whatever you feel she’ll appreciate the most.\n\n__2. Make her feel great:__ Offer the bride-to-be a compliment that will guarantee she feels amazing. You could tell her how beautiful she’ll look on her wedding day, or boost her confidence about the stellar choices she’s already made with the wedding details.\n\n__3. Share something personal:__ Perhaps you have a great memory about the beautiful bride that reflects her character strengths, the depth of your friendship, or how special her relationship is to her future spouse. The best card messages are the ones that feel thoughtful and unique, so don’t be afraid to get personal and write something from the heart.
\n\n__4. Offer encouragement:__ Since she’s about to embark on a major life journey, be sure to include well-wishes for her and her partner for a lifetime of happiness. Let her know you want her to have a wonderful and successful marriage ahead.\n\n__5. End with words of inspiration:__ Wrap up your bridal shower message with an uplifting thought, a piece of advice, or a quotation that leaves a lasting impression on the power of love and the beautiful, magical journey she’s about to take. \n\n## Bridal shower message example\n\nStaring at a blank card with a pen in hand? Lose your fear and get started by following this example of a bridal shower card message:\n\n*Dear Lauren,*\n\n*Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! I know you are going to make an absolutely stunning bride, and I simply can’t wait to see all of the beautiful wedding details that I know you’ve worked so hard to plan.*\n\n*I am so amazed and touched by the relationship you have created with Peter, and I know that the love you share runs very deep. From how you always encourage and support each other’s career goals, to the way you rock out on the dance floor together, I know you two will continue to find joy and strength in your shared love for years to come.*\n\n*I wish you nothing but a lifetime of laughter, happiness, and dance parties. As Gene Kelly said, “You dance love, and you dance joy, and you dance dreams.” Cheers to you and all the dancing to come! From your walk down the aisle, to the lifetime ahead, I'm excited to be part of your special day as you begin it together.*\n\n*Love,\nKate*\n\n![Creative Wedding Shower Invite Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5uwrWi9RcicSafmivDnAF3/2615a012fe6e66bc16954189d51980a7/INLINE_CreativeWeddingShowerInviteIdeas___.jpg)\n\n## Simple bridal shower messages\n\nSometimes less is more. Here are some examples of quick, simple messages to communicate your happy wishes.\n\n- So thrilled for you!\n- Cheers to a lifetime of love & happiness! You deserve it.\n- Congratulations on a wonderful partnership and years of happiness to come!\n- Showering you with the happiest of wishes!\n- Here’s to your special day! Thank you for letting me be a part of this joyous occasion.\n- Best wishes to you in this new chapter of your life!\n\n## Sample bridal shower wishes\nWhether you’re trying to keep things light, go super-sentimental, or remind the bride about your special relationship, there are tons of different bridal shower wishes you can share in your shower card. Get inspired with these sample messages for all types of moods and recipients. \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a sister\n\nA sister offers support and friendship, serves as a partner in crime, loans her favorite sweater, and knows the bride better than anyone else. A bridal shower card message should reflect the depth and nature of a sister-sister relationship, whether lighthearted or sentimental. \n- *My dear sister, can you believe this day has finally come? You have always been the sweetest little sister to me, and I can’t wait to watch you walk down the aisle. All my love, always!* \n- *From the time we used to play wedding in the backyard, to your many bad dates and terrible boyfriends I witnessed over the years, I am so thrilled that you’ve found the one to make you happy forever! You deserve all the happiness and love in the world.* \n- *Congratulations on being the most beautiful bride, sister, and friend in the world! I love you forever and am here for you always. Thank you for letting me be by your side throughout this wedding journey.*\n- *While I love Derek almost as much as I love you, we both know that the sister bond runs deep! Remember I have your back no matter what—but I know you will rock this marriage thing. Thank you for always being such a great big sister and role model. I love you!* \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a daughter-in-law\n\nWelcome your future daughter-in-law to the family and express your joy in continuing to build a relationship with her over the years to come. Feel free to share memories or thoughts about your son that would touch the bride’s heart.\n- *We are so lucky that our son has chosen you to be his lifelong partner! We can’t wait to see where love will take you both.* \n- *Welcome to the family! You are an incredible woman on your own, and we know you’ll make an even more incredible addition to our tribe. Congratulations!* \n- *I knew it would take a very special woman to serve as a match for Ash...and once I met you, I knew you were the one! I am so thrilled to welcome you into our family and wish the very best in all things for you both.* \n- *You are a stunning woman inside and out, and you will make a beautiful bride. We can’t wait for the big day and for all the years of love and togetherness that will follow.* \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a daughter\n\nWhat is more special than sending off a daughter into marriage? Share your heartfelt happiness, your advice on marriage, your memories of her as a child, and/or your wishes and hopes for the couple for the future in your bridal shower card. \n- *You fill my heart with light, and I am so thrilled that you have found someone to spend your life with. Congratulations on taking this next huge step!* \n- *My daughter, you’re an endless source of joy and love to me and your father, and I know Paul feels the same. Although you belong to each other now, we will always be here for you no matter what!* \n- *Every parent wants their child to find lifelong happiness, health, safety, and fulfillment—I know your future holds all these things and more with Jordan by your side. I couldn’t be more thrilled for you both, and can’t wait to see your love grow over the years!*\n- *Marriage is both an incredible blessing, and a lot of hard work. Through good times and bad, remember to be on the same team, listen as much as you talk, and never go to bed angry! Keep your love front and center, and I know you will have an incredible future together.* \n\n![mother-and-bride](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5hdzaDOVLWAJ92N9SUb7PF/cd6c9beea448954533c4d5c7430e0bd5/freshen-up-items.jpg)\n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a friend\n\nIf you’re writing a bridal shower card to [a friend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engaged-same-time-as-best-friend), let your message be personal and either funny or sweet (or both) depending on the nature of your friendship. Regardless of the tone, share your excitement for her big day, offer help or support as needed, and express your gratitude for being included. \n- *Congratulations! I am so happy for you both, and I know you will have the most amazing life together. Thanks for letting me share in the excitement!* \n- *As Beyoncé would say, may you always feel this “crazy in love.” Congratulations on a wonderful partnership and years of happiness to come!* \n- *Thank you so much for letting me take part in your celebration and “shower” you with love! Please let me know if there’s anything I can help you with leading up to the wedding.* \n- *Dear friend, I’m so glad you’ve found the one that makes your heart sing. I can’t wait to celebrate you both in a few months! Cheers to the most beautiful, smart, and kindest of brides.*\n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card for a coworker\n\nYou don’t have to go into great or complicated detail when writing a wedding shower card message to a coworker: keep it short, sweet, and simple. Offer your congratulations and share your enthusiasm and thanks for being included. \n- *I am so excited for you and Alex, and can’t wait for the big day! Thanks for including me in such a special celebration.* \n- *I remember the morning after your first date with Tom...you were glowing (and gushing!). I knew right then that you’d found your perfect match. I am so happy for you, and wish you both all the love in the world!* \n- *It’s clear that you and Taylor have a love that runs deep, and will last for a lifetime. Congratulations on your upcoming wedding and thank you for letting me play a small role in it! I’m so thrilled for you both.*\n- *As you make the transition from my “work wife” to a real wife, I know you will handle it with your characteristic grace, charm, and dedication. Congrats on this happy day, and best wishes for what’s to come!* \n\n### What to write in a bridal shower card to be funny\n\nThere’s no rule that says you have to be serious when writing a shower card message. In all likelihood the bride will be reading a lot of heavy-handed and sentimental messages, so have some [fun with your words](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-write-in-a-wedding-card) to her… just be sure to keep things appropriate and respectful, of course. \n- *Best wishes for a lifetime of love, trust, and shared dishwashing duties!* \n- *You know I’m here for you no matter what, dear friend—even if that means tying ribbon around hundreds of tiny bottles of bubbles until 3 a.m. so that you can cross “wedding favors” off your to-do list. Happy wedding!* \n- *Wow, you’re getting married! Congratulations! Now that your love life is figured out, I expect you’ll have more time to help me figure out mine...kidding! But also, help me. Love you both and can’t wait for the wedding!* \n- *Congratulations on finding the match to your candle, the aloe to your sunburn, the Tabasco to your tacos. You two are a one hot match! Here’s to keeping the fire burning for years to come.* \n\n## Wedding shower quotes\n\nIf you’re coming up short on poetic ways to share your bridal shower wishes, don’t sweat. Talented wordsmiths have been talking about love and marriage for centuries, so let the pros express your thoughts for you with one of these bridal shower quotes. \n\n- “A happy marriage is a long conversation which always seems too short.” — Andre Marois\n- “True love is singing karaoke Under Pressure and letting the other person sing the Freddie Mercury part.” — Mindy Kaling\n- “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” — Mignon McLaughlin\n- “Who, being loved, is poor?” — Oscar Wilde\n- “Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.” — Maya Angelou\n- “If I had a flower for every time thought of you… I could walk through my garden forever.” — Alfred Tennyson\n- “Love is a two-way street constantly under construction.” — Carroll Bryant\n- “Every heart sings a song, incomplete, until another heart whispers back. Those who wish to sing always find a song. At the touch of a lover, everyone becomes a poet.” — Plato\n- “Sexiness wears thin after a while, and beauty fades. But to be married to a man who makes you laugh every day, now that’s a real treat.” — JoAnne Woodward\n- “Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.” — Emily Brönte\n- “Love is sharing your popcorn.” — Charles Schultz\n- “Before you marry a person, you should first make them use a computer with slow Internet service to see who they really are.” — Will Ferrell\n- \"To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe.\" — Anatole France\n- “I love being married. It's so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.” — Rita Rudner\n- \"Love must be as much a light as it is a flame.\" — Henry David Thoreau\n\n![Bridal Shower Registry and a Wedding Registry](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1EAKrUV9HfOuHzMJqB3SZL/43ba9cdf14f656eeafa3cf6899bfd85a/Hero_Zola__1_.jpg)\n\n## Ready to head to the wedding shower?\nNow that you know what to write in a bridal shower card, you may have other burning questions. Whether you're wondering what to give as a [bridal shower gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-shower-gifts) (\nhint: check their [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry)!) or need to know [what to wear](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-bridal-shower) to the event for the bride-to-be, Zola has you covered. From being a great [mother of the bride](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/mother-of-the-bride-duties) to [attending a wedding solo](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-attend-a-wedding-alone), Zola is here with expert advice for every step of the journey.\n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"This bridal shower guide will introduce you to the basics of bridal showers: traditional bridal shower etiquette (and which of those “rules” you can break), whom to invite, what to do, and who pays for it all.","title":"A Guide to Bridal Showers","slug":"a-guide-to-bridal-showers","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5o4uxtDjG6d4qgVGaLVrBU/16da092c9b0b80d7acca15ab930a1aef/A-Guide-to-Bridal-Showers.jpg","altText":"a bridal shower card labeled \"soon to be mrs.\" on the grass next to a few pastel-colored bridal shower cookies"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"If you’re hosting a bridal shower and need a little guidance, here’s a step-by-step planning timeline to help you figure out what you need to do, and in what order, to pull off a great party.","title":"How To Plan A Bridal Shower To Remember","slug":"how-to-plan-a-bridal-shower","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5AVNykInJuWweK0Imia8gM/632b15feafece7db3ce9f85ad7d3d0bf/Hero_New_Zola.jpg","altText":"woman in yellow dress holding antique tea cup with macaroons inside"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Find ideal attire for a bridal shower. 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Explore outfit ideas, styles, and tips to shine as you celebrate the bride-to-be's special day","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2018-12-14T15:19:13.906Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3jyBNag7G8oqQco0QaI2om/840a6c239ab9c319db87cd86af04841b/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"What to wear to a bridal shower"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding-photographers/marni-rothschild-pictures/","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- Pastels, neutrals, florals, and bright celebratory colors are the way to go. And if there’s going to be games opt to wear something comfortable.\n- Avoid wearing white, black, or anything that may detract from the wedding festivities.\n- Bridal showers can range from formality, location, and season, so be sure to dress to fit the occasion.\n","body":"Choosing an outfit for a bridal shower is really no different than choosing what to wear to any other party. You’ll want to match the formality and season, be comfortable, look great, and photograph well in whatever you choose to wear. \n\n## Basic Rules for Bridal Shower Fashion\n \nWhile bridal showers can vary in terms or formality & theme, there are some bridal shower looks that will always fit the vibe:\n- Dress to impress, even if the theme is casual\n- Wear pastels, neutrals and bright colors to match the celebratory tone of the occasion\n- Floral prints are a great go-to\n- Wear something comfortable in case there are bridal shower games\n- Accentuate a neutral dress or top with bold shoes or accessories\n\n### What NOT to Wear to a Bridal Shower\n \n1. Don’t wear white. This wedding guest rule of etiquette applies to bridal showers as well. Since the bride-to-be often wears white to her shower, you don’t want to seem like you’re competing for her spotlight.\n\n2. Don’t wear black. Your bridal shower look should be celebratory, festive, and happy—black is a bit too somber and/or “date night out” to wear to a bridal shower. If you’re set on dark colors, opt for a softer gray or navy. \n\n3. Don’t wear anything too tight, sexy, or revealing. A bridal shower is not the time to flaunt your, um, assets. Since the guest list is usually all women, and since this event is technically part of the wedding festivities, keep things buttoned up. \n\nBut since bridal showers can come in all shapes and sizes—no two are the same—deciphering the dress code can be tricky. To help you choose a perfectly appropriate and flattering ensemble, we’ve outlined suggestions below for what to wear to a variety of different types of bridal showers based on their location, season, and formality. \n\n \n## What to Wear to a Fancy Bridal Shower\nLook for clues on your invitation to tell if a bridal shower will be on the fancier side. Invitation wording is generally a good indicator of formality: if numbers and abbreviations are spelled out, or if phrases like “request the pleasure of your company” are used, this is probably going to be a more formal bridal shower. Also look to see if the invitation provides words about the dress code, such as “festive” or “cocktail attire.” \nFor fancier bridal showers at upscale venues like country clubs, hotels, or restaurants, opt for cocktail attire, such as: \n- A cocktail (i.e. knee-length) dress\n- A pair of flowy, silk pants, a blouse, and a jacket\n- A sparkly pencil skirt, dark tights, and a cashmere sweater\n- A pair of satin ankle-length pants, a velvet blazer, and heels \n- Include accessories such as: \n - More formal, glitzy jewelry (real or costume)\n - A clutch or small purse\n\n## What to Wear to a Casual Bridal Shower\n\nIf the bridal shower is more casual, keep your outfit polished and festive but tone down on the level of formality. For example, swap out heels for ballet flats, if you’ll be more comfortable, or go for daytime fabrics like cotton, wool, and denim. Here are some ideas: \n\n- A gingham wrap dress\n- A pair of nice jeans, a floral top, and a faux fur vest\n- A denim shirt dress with knee-high boots\n- A summery jumpsuit \n- Include accessories such as: \n - Delicate jewelry\n - A crossbody purse or leather satchel ","body2":"## What to Wear to a Backyard Bridal Shower\n\nBackyard bridal showers are by nature less formal, although it’s never safe to assume that a bridal shower at a private home is casual. It’s a good idea to check in with the host(s)—if you’re attending an elegant garden party for high tea, showing up in jeans and Pumas would be embarrassing. Here are a few ideas for put-together looks suitable for a variety of seasons: \n\n- A flowing sundress \n- A pair of colored chinos and a structured top\n- A pair of dark jeans, a boho blouse, and ankle booties\n- A pleated midi skirt, a nice tank, and a linen jacket \n- Include accessories such as: \n - A wide-brimmed sun hat\n - Sunglasses\n - Sandals or wedges\n\n## What to Wear to a Restaurant Shower\n\nWhat you should wear to a bridal shower that’s held in a restaurant is really determined by the type and formality of the restaurant. If it’s a casual barbecue joint with outdoor picnic tables, opt for similar ideas to the casual or backyard showers above. If it’s a white tablecloth kind of restaurant, match the ambiance with an outfit that’s classy and chic, such as: \n\n- A lace sheath dress \n- An off-the-shoulder maxi dress\n- Matching separates, like a satin jacket and pajama-style pants\n- High-waisted trousers with a tie-neck blouse\n- Include accessories such as: \n - Block heels\n - Bright lipstick \n\n## What to Wear to a Fall or Winter Bridal Shower\n\nStick to rich, warm, or dark colors for bridal showers in the fall and winter months. Think burgundy, rust, navy, gray, brown, taupe, and forest green. Most showers during these months will be indoors, so don’t worry too much about outerwear, but reflect the season with long sleeves and hemlines and heavier fabrics. Check out these ideas: \n\n- A turtleneck sweater dress, opaque tights, and over-the-knee boots \n- A long-sleeve wrap dress\n- Wide-leg wool pants and an embroidered sweater\n- A crisp button-down tucked into a full skirt \n- Include accessories such as: \n - Dressy boots\n - Long, layered necklaces\n\n## What to Wear to a Spring or Summer Bridal Shower\n\nBright, light colors—pastels and hot hues all the way—rule when it comes to what to wear to spring or summer bridal showers, as do florals and other summery prints like gingham, madras plaid, and seersucker. Lightweight cotton, silk, and linen feel cool and crisp. To get you inspired, here are some warm-weather shower outfit possibilities: \n\n- A linen jumpsuit\n- A floral, ruffled high-low dress\n- A pair of cropped white pants, a bright silk top, and floral wedges\n- A patterned tunic dress and lace-up sandals\n- Include accessories such as: \n - A rattan purse or straw tote\n - A fresh pedicure","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"This bridal shower guide will introduce you to the basics of bridal showers: traditional bridal shower etiquette (and which of those “rules” you can break), whom to invite, what to do, and who pays for it all.","title":"A Guide to Bridal Showers","slug":"a-guide-to-bridal-showers","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5o4uxtDjG6d4qgVGaLVrBU/16da092c9b0b80d7acca15ab930a1aef/A-Guide-to-Bridal-Showers.jpg","altText":"a bridal shower card labeled \"soon to be mrs.\" on the grass next to a few pastel-colored bridal shower cookies"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"If you’re hosting a bridal shower and need a little guidance, here’s a step-by-step planning timeline to help you figure out what you need to do, and in what order, to pull off a great party.","title":"How To Plan A Bridal Shower To Remember","slug":"how-to-plan-a-bridal-shower","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5AVNykInJuWweK0Imia8gM/632b15feafece7db3ce9f85ad7d3d0bf/Hero_New_Zola.jpg","altText":"woman in yellow dress holding antique tea cup with macaroons inside"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Dress to impress! 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Grab a pen—it’s time to spread the love!","author":"Emily Forrest and Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2024-04-10T09:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5GlWzMJKN61eHNXPxPVuI0/777bc1e0c90ceed6c32544b05d5a8312/Bridal-Shower-Thank-You-Card-Etiquette.jpg","altText":"Zola wedding thank you card graphic"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"__Inside this article:__\n\n- Bridal shower thank you card etiquette\n- 3 Things to consider before writing bridal shower thank you cards\n- Bridal shower thank you template\n- Bridal shower thank you card wording examples\n- FAQs about bridal shower thank you messages\n- Trust Zola with your stationery needs","body":"At the [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers), your friends and family members “showered” you with love and generous presents. Now it’s time to let your loved ones know how much you loved celebrating with them—and how much you appreciate the beautiful gifts you received—with a heartwarming [thank you card](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop). The task is easier said than done, especially if you struggle translating gratitude into written bridal shower thank you messages.\n\nBut don’t let writing bridal shower thank you notes cause you undue stress: we have the answers to all your gratefulness-centric etiquette questions, complete with [wording ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-invitation-wording) for what to write on your [bridal shower card](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers). \nGrab a pen—and that stack of blank thank you cards—let’s get to writing.\n\nNeed help writing wedding thank you notes instead? See our guide on [how to word wedding thank you cards](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-write-wedding-thank-you-cards).\n\n## Bridal shower thank you card etiquette \n\nNavigating all the rules for writing a thank you note can be a bit overwhelming, especially when you’re in the throes of [planning your wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-wedding), too. But there’s no need to stress—we’ve broken down the most important things to know below.\n\n- Dos \n - Write the note by hand to express your thoughtfulness. \n - Use a blank [thank you card](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop). \n - Keep a record of who attended and gave a bridal shower gift. \n - Plan what you’re going to say before writing. \n\n- Don’ts\n - Write too much. \n - Be critical of the gift (or the lack of a gift). \n - Mention the specific amount given for monetary gifts. \n\n## 3 Things to consider before writing bridal shower thank you cards \n\nBefore you begin writing, there are a few key questions you should ask yourself that will make crafting your thank you note easier.\n\n### 1. What is your relationship to the guest?\n\nIf you’re close with the guest, such as a bridesmaid or your best friend, your message should be personal and heartfelt. However, if you don’t know the guest well or just met them for the first time, a short and sweet thank you note is fine.\n\n### 2. Do you send a bridal shower thank you for someone who didn’t attend?\n\nIf the guest was able to celebrate with you in person, make sure to mention this in your thank you note. If they could not attend, let them know how much you missed them, and acknowledge their gift, of course.\n\n### 3. Did the guest provide a gift? \n\nIf so, what was it? Bridal shower thank you notes are required for every guest that attended your bridal shower, whether they brought a present or not. However, if a guest did purchase a gift, it’s important to specifically mention it in your note (see more on this below). The same goes for guests who mailed a gift but were unable to attend the party.\n\n![Thank You Card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5j6S7jfWH2TYKe8CEEnABO/97c2cfac5062b573a3f13a09f3b050e6/Invites_Jan2019_14.jpg)\n\n## Bridal shower thank you template \n\nNext, let’s look at the basic anatomy of thank you notes for bridal showers. Sticking to these six simple steps will structure your bridal shower thank you message and help reduce time spent mulling over how you should express your gratitude. \n\n### 1. Address them using their name.\n\n- Audra\n- Mrs. Jones\n\n### 2. Thank them for their presence.\n\n- Thank you so much for celebrating with me at my bridal shower!\n- I’m so grateful that you could be there to join me on this special day.\n\n### 3. Thank them for the gift.\n\n- Thank you so much for the beautiful set of cheese knives.\n- We so appreciate our new set of wine glasses.\n\n### 4. Share what you love about their present.\n\n- They’ve been such a great addition to our weekly cheese and charcuterie date night.\n- We think about you every Saturday when we pour ourselves a glass of wine and work on planning our upcoming wedding.\n\n### 5. Show your appreciation for them as a person.\n\n- Your friendship means so much to us. Thanks again for your support as we journey into married life together.\n- It was so fun to see you at the shower. We can’t wait to continue the celebration with you at our wedding.\n\n### 6. Sign off.\n- With love, Finny & Spencer\n- Cheers, Lynne & Toby\n\n![Thank You Card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5j6S7jfWH2TYKe8CEEnABO/97c2cfac5062b573a3f13a09f3b050e6/Invites_Jan2019_14.jpg)\n\n## 8 Bridal shower thank you card wording examples \n\nTo get the ink flowing, check out these simple bridal shower thank you [wording examples](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-word-wedding-invitations) for how to word thank you notes for all kinds of situations.\n\n### 1. Thank you message for a registry gift\n\nDear Molly,\nThank you so much for coming to my bridal shower last Saturday! We’re so grateful for the beautiful tea towels you gave us. They already make a great addition to our kitchen.\nYour friendship means so much to us and we can’t wait to celebrate with you at the wedding in a few weeks.\nLove, Kieran & Tina\n\n### 2. Bridal shower thank you messages for cash gifts\n\nDear Aunt Diana,\nIt was a true delight to see you at the shower. Thank you so much for your generous gift. We’ve just booked a glass bottom boat ride during our upcoming honeymoon, thanks to you. We’ll tell you all about the experience when we see you this Thanksgiving!\nThanks again for the support you’ve shown us throughout our engagement. We look forward to hitting the dance floor with you on the big day.\nAll our love, Emma & Julian\n\n### 3. Thank you wording for a gift you exchanged, didn’t like, or was awkward\n\nDear Mila,\nHow wonderful to see you at the bridal shower! Thank you for the bagel toaster you gave us. It was very generous, and we appreciate you thinking of us.\nLooking forward to having you at the wedding next month. We know that many more great memories will be made with you there!\nLove, Tessa & Will\n\n### 4. Bridal shower thank you message for someone who didn’t give a gift\n\nDear Beatriz,\nThank you for celebrating with me at my shower! I hope that you had an amazing time. It was great to see you there and catch up.\nThank you again for being there to honor this special time with us. Can’t wait to see you at the wedding!\nLove always, Ronan & Adrienne\n\n### 5. Thank you wording for someone who didn’t attend but sent a gift.\n\nDear Goldie,\nThank you so much for the beautiful luggage. We’ve already used the carry-ons at our weekend getaway in New York last weekend, and we can’t wait to show off these stylish suitcases on our honeymoon to Italy this spring.\nWe missed you at the shower, but we are so excited to see you at the wedding. Thank you again for the thoughtful gift!\nLove, Rebecca & Hannah\n\n### 6. Bridal shower message for a close friend\n\nDear Susie,\nThank you for celebrating with me at the bridal shower. Toby and I appreciate the awesome French press and coffee beans you gave us. We can’t help but think of you every time we sip our morning brew.\nYou have no idea how much your love has meant to us over the years. It will make our day so special to have you in the crowd on the big day, and we’re excited to see you bust one of your famous moves on the dance floor!\nMuch love, Lynne & Toby\n\n### 7. Bridal shower thank you messages for formal acquaintances\n\nDear Mrs. Perdu,\nPlease accept our sincere thanks for the beautiful picture frames you gave us. They make a lovely addition to our mantle, and we are looking forward to using them to display our favorite memories in the years to come.\nIt meant so much to us that you could attend the shower. Your kindness is appreciated, and we look forward to seeing you at the wedding.\nSincerely, Finny & Spencer\n\n### 8. Thank you note for the bridal shower host\n\nDear Amar,\nWords can’t express how truly grateful we are for the shower you planned and hosted. From the balloon display to the delicious cake pops, every detail was perfect. None of it would have been possible without you. Thank you for always being such an amazing friend and for supporting us through every detail of planning our wedding. Having you in our lives has made this special time even more meaningful.\nWe can’t wait to have you join us as we exchange our vows and journey into married life. Thanks again for everything you do.\nWith love, Audra & Charles\n\n![woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3kANG3FP0QuuQxkSb1vXSo/04ac6084f0e2c735c5a63d07f2e11f22/woman-writing-in-wedding-gift-card.jpg)\n\n## FAQs about bridal shower thank you messages \n\n### When do I send bridal shower thank you cards? \n\nBridal shower thank you messages should be sent to each individual who attended your bridal shower and/or purchased a gift no more than two weeks after the date of the party.\n\n__Pro Tip:__ Purchase thank you cards before the bridal shower—especially if you’re using a custom design—so you already have them on hand immediately following the celebration.\n\n### Who should sign bridal shower thank you cards?\n\nAlthough it may feel like the gift was given just to you, bridal shower thank you cards should be signed by you and your partner. The only exception to this rule is when you receive a gift that’s clearly meant for only you (think lingerie, spa gift card, or other bride-centric gifts).\n\n### Can I combine wedding and bridal shower thank you messages?\n\nThe short answer? No. A different thank you note should be written for each event (bridal party, wedding ceremony, or even a baby shower) a guest attends, regardless of whether they brought a gift each time.\n\n## Trust Zola with your stationery needs \n\nNow that you’re well-versed in [etiquette](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-invitation-etiquette-top-mistakes-to-avoid-or-zola), don’t stop there! Zola can take care of all your [wedding paper needs](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/invites-paper/invitations). From choosing the right [stationery pieces](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-invitations-paper-guide) to artfully stuffing your [wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-stuff-wedding-invitations-a-complete-guide-to-creating-the-perfect), our expert advice is with you every step of the way to successfully complete everything on your wedding day [checklist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-invitation-checklist). \n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_InvitesPaper"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Craft heartfelt wedding thank you cards with our expert guide. 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Find out in our latest guide.","publishedAt":"2021-02-10T15:59:41.993Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/LIMh0JnOloe51GM6q34L0/3326f8e7211fde5ad12d79776a17b8f6/Hero_IndustrialWeddingAtStAugustineChurchAnd26Bridge_SarahZimmermanPhoto.jpg","altText":"Bachelorette Party vs Bridal Shower"},"heroCredit":"Sarah Zimmerman Photo","body":"![Bachelorette Party vs Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5FZjHYn3xodt1GyCdHwa4g/204ec420c4862dfa06d48bdfd6be164e/inline_shutterstock2.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Shutterstock\n\nThere are so many events that happen before the actual wedding day itself. The engagement party, the wedding shower, and the bachelorette party. But, when it comes to the wedding shower and the bachelorette party, it's not always clear how to differentiate between the two events. \n\n## Bridal Shower vs. Bachelorette Party: Are the Wedding Shower and the Bachelorette Party the Same?\n\nNope, bridal showers and bachelorette parties are not the same thing. Bridal showers are meant to prepare the bride-to-be for her future life as a married woman, whereas a bachelorette party is meant for the bride to de-stress, celebrate, and enjoy her present pre-married life.\n\nAdditionally, wedding showers are hosted parties, where the host pays for the event—including the food, catering, decorations, and anything else—and invites the guests, whereas bachelorette parties are often co-hosted by the friends of the bride. \n\nWith bridal showers, it’s very common and often expected, that guests will arrive with gifts. These gifts are typically related to the home or the life between the new couple. The wedding shower is traditionally hosted by a friend or family member close to the bride and is often an afternoon or late morning affair. \n\nThe bachelorette party is usually a weekend away or a night out that is planned by the bride’s close friends, and, typically, her maid of honor. Though a thoughtful gesture, [bachelorette party gifts](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/9-bachelorette-party-gifts-for-the-bride) are usually not the main focus of the night. The focus is on ensuring that the bride has fun and enjoys herself. You may ask, [who pays for the bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-pays-for-the-bachelorette-party)? As compared to the wedding shower, the costs are usually split between the event attendees.\n\n## Who Is Invited to the Wedding Shower, and Who Is Invited to the Bachelorette Party? \n\nThe wedding shower typically includes a wide assortment of guests who are connected to the bride. Traditionally, the wedding shower guest list only extends to women guests, although today wedding showers increasingly will include male friends of the bride. The guests often include the bride’s female cousins, aunts, and extended family members; female family friends of her parents; and female members of her religious community or another group in which she participates. All ages are included in the wedding shower guest list. Some brides may also invite co-workers if they’re close, but this is not expected in most situations. \n\nThe bachelorette party almost always includes the wedding party, and then the bride’s close friends. Traditionally, bachelorette parties only included women's friends, but today the bride might want to include friends of all genders. The bachelorette party might be organized by one of the bridesmaids or the maid of honor, but the costs are usually shared by all the guests attending. \n\nA wedding shower is an event that usually includes a wider range of guests than the bachelorette party. The guest list is ultimately up to the host, as she is the one planning the event and opening her home. However, the host will likely consult with the bride to ensure that there are no mix-ups or hurt feelings. Older and younger female relatives should be invited to the wedding shower, but in most cases would be out of place at the bachelorette party. Some social friends of the bride might have no interest in attending the wedding shower, but would be appropriate guests for the bachelorette party. \n\n## What Happens at a Wedding Shower vs. a Bachelorette Party?\n\n![Bachelorette Party vs Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1TdhwA5VmBESvBQ5m0ro5g/52f1a00b392a4d619745974fda7309d2/inline_shutterstock3.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Shutterstock\n\nThe wedding shower includes the opening of gifts, sometimes toasts by some of her female relatives (such as her mother, aunt, or sister), and certain games or activities related to her soon-to-be-married life. The tone of the event should be appropriate to the diverse range of guests, which might include older, conservative family members or co-workers. The wedding shower is about celebrating the bride’s new life as part of a couple and is often focused on her broader community. \n\nBachelorette parties include fun activities planned by the bride’s friends, games related to the bride and her soon-to-be life partner, and social bonding. The bachelorette party is not suited for friends or family that are not part of the bride’s social circle, and often include activities that incorporate [bachelorette party game questions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-game-questions-youll-love) that are a little more raunchy or intimate than what would happen at the wedding shower. The bachelorette party is really about fun and joy and focused entirely on the bride and her friends before she becomes a married woman. \n\nKnowing the difference between a wedding shower and a bachelorette party will help ensure that you plan the perfect event for each occasion. \n\n__The Best Winter Bachelorette Party Ideas__\n\n- COZY CABINS!!\n- snowman competitions\n- spa retreat -- no better time than when it is miserable out there\n- sledding!\n- smores and fire \n- ice skating \n- matching cozy flannel pajamas or gloves \n- cabin with a hot tub\n- winter festival \n- face masks, hair masks \n\n__8 Best Bachelorette Party Destinations: __\n\n- Vegas \n- Mexico City \n- Montreal \n- Cruise \n- New Orleans\n- Austin, TX\n- Charleston, SC\n- Miami\n- Nashville\n- Savannah, Georgia \n\n__Bachelorette Party Game Questions__\n\n“Who knows you best?”\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Discover unique bachelorette party gifts for the bride-to-be. Explore thoughtful ideas to make her celebration even more special.\n","title":"25 Best Bachelorette Gifts For The Bride","slug":"bachelorette-party-gifts-for-the-bride","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3Xtz5BdOXSAMpt2mOtHAgf/f40eeda1448084d60932d268ec036ac5/Hero_Zola__21_.jpg","altText":"Illustration graphic of 12 gift bags with hearts on them and tissue paper peeking out of each one"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Deciding who pays for the bachelorette party can be a tricky conversation. 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","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2024-10-03T10:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/76ZaCVd5YdZKoKivIuHdcz/a27134cd9c6c2c5c0caf8ec2a2e3542d/40-Bridal-Shower-Themes-for-Modern-Couples.jpg","altText":"bridal shower theme ideas"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"__Inside this article:__\n- Elegant Bridal Shower Themes\n- Adventurous Couple's Shower Themes\n- Fun Bridal Shower Themes\n- Laidback Wedding Shower Themes\n- Unique Bridal Shower Themes\n- Fall Bridal Shower Themes\n- Winter Bridal Shower Themes\n- Spring Bridal Shower Themes\n- Summer Bridal Shower Themes\n","body":"The bridal shower is a celebration of the bride-to-be that welcomes both family and friends to the party. Traditionally it's been a girls-only event, but many modern couples are opting to plan a joint __[couple's shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/coed-wedding-shower)__. Of course, you're welcome to extend a bridal shower invitation to anyone you'd like to celebrate your upcoming wedding.\n\nOne of the first steps of planning a bridal or couple's shower is choosing your party’s theme. There’s no end to theme opportunities, and you can plan any activity or decor you like. (Just keep in mind that this isn’t the __[bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-themes)__ and that your grandmother may be there, so keep things PG.)\n\nFrom tea time to beach bash, check out all 38 bridal shower theme ideas below.\n\n## Elegant Bridal Shower Themes\n \nAn elegant bridal shower is perfect for the classic couple who wants to celebrate with a beautiful and traditional party. The entertainment is food, conversation, and maybe some light party games, and the decor is chic and simple. If you’re interested in an elegant celebration, browse these bridal shower themes below:\n\n### 1. Garden Gala\nStart with a beautiful venue and host a garden party as everything’s beautiful and blooming. Light snacks, cocktails, and some fun games are all you need to make this party a hit. Nothing is simpler or more classy than a garden party.\n\n![Bridal Shower Themes](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7yiXszW9spLVh3NAgWaiDc/b49db3433730ecf4baa8e7e400bd1c65/1-bridal-shower-themes-sign-mockup.jpg) Photo via Zola\n\n[![Bridal Shower Themes](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5jrzVWHcWQyVfxHAfi6Y01/31913e407f44d97bd13e727f9150536a/bridal-shower-themes-download-wedding-signs.png)](//downloads.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/fwXHlwxQdHWAAXwgxeCh1/49397648ea58fc70d51d0aedf9c21e42/Zola-Wedding-Signs.pdf)\n\n### 2. Minimalist Mixer\nMinimalism is super trendy and a great way to gather reusable decorations. When it comes to bridal shower decorations, less is more! Choose small centerpieces like lanterns and succulents, and place signs with simple calligraphy on a plain or acrylic background. A beautiful venue will carry most of the weight for a minimalist party.\n\n![Minimal Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5q6xmBITOmc4DWRcXWhBOi/2e1aa9e4efc21fd3e3b238ba8c1fedcb/Minimal_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Captured By Maleah Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/captured-by-maleah-photography)\n\n### 3. Party in Paris\nAh, Paris—it’s everything classic romance and makes for a sophisticated party theme. French stripes, signs in French, and Eiffel Tower statuettes are easy, go-to decor. And, of course, what's a French shower without French food. Plenty of pastries, macarons, and a charcuterie board are delicious snacks that will elevate the party—and don’t forget __[wine to pair](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/cake-and-wine-pairings)__!\n\n![2-bridal-shower-themes-paris (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2e7KnLIYDt2NtZRgOmvqxn/0b729e16b72a89b46bfdd25132897078/2-bridal-shower-themes-paris__1_.jpg)\n\n### 4. Vintage Soiree\nThrow a party ‘70s style, or with whichever decade aesthetics you prefer. This is a perfect bridal shower theme for repurposing old furniture and decor. Collect vintage and intricate frames, as well as funky bottles and fabrics for tables and tapestries. Have your guests dress for the decade as inspiration to really throw it back.\n\n![3-bridal-shower-themes-vintage-soiree (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/017rex1qXGEnZzWT2m0s6g/77a8d8848078898fb540497f1420dc95/3-bridal-shower-themes-vintage-soiree__1_.jpg)\n\n### 5. Glitz and Glamor\nPlan a more sophisticated evening party with glittered cocktail attire and hors d’oeuvres. Host a wine tasting as entertainment and decorate with a simple floral arrangement, candles, anything that sparkles, and a few gold accents for a glam party with your friends.\n\n![Glitz and Glamour Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6RMLJtnEBIUaFwSBLnJcdY/1c715d96d5f333bf1d59a23cc52f1892/Glitz_and_Glamour_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Marigny Opera House](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/marigny-opera-house)\n\n[![bridal-shower-themes-download-elegant-moodboard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7BipeOW1c8F2p7ikTQ0sw4/542c210743e108da3a39d64fc17bdf73/bridal-shower-themes-download-elegant-moodboard.png)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2m4kDmJrQIGULTpnGbNR7W/424b9209b627676de73f6450b2a8ec30/bridal-shower-themes-elegant.png)\n\n## Adventurous Couple’s Shower Themes\n \nIf you’re looking for unique bridal shower themes, engaging games, and an energizing party atmosphere, then these adventurous themes are for you. These bridal shower themes are great for representing you as a couple and celebrating the things you love most:\n\n### 6. Boho Bash\nBohemian themes and decor are perfect for the casual couple. The best part of a boho bash is that there are plenty of opportunities to use thrifted and repurposed decor, so you can save some money and stay __[eco-friendly](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/eco-friendly-wedding)__. Grab some decorative frames for signs, boho pillows for seating, and plenty of wildflowers for a flower crown and the centerpieces.\n\n![Boho Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2ZIwL2JKvzbbJi4xn5WtlG/501c0a63621d87519543628fce7de13c/Boho_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Chellise Michael Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/chellise-michael-photography)\n\n### 7. Happily Ever After\nWhat’s better than a fairytale party for your happily ever after? Greenery, fairy lights, books, and some nods to your favorite fairytale stories will bring this theme to life. You can go with a bridal shower theme around the master of happily ever after—Disney. Choose your favorite Disney stories and characters and get creative—set each table with a different centerpiece theme, or dive in with a costume party and dress as your favorite Disney couple.\n\n![Fairytale Wedding Shower Theme](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4tQZwB8Typlp1NkHwPUjaw/9d4c131a3b31799944c5aac361212dfa/Fairytale_Wedding_Shower_Theme.jpg) Photo via [Woolverton Inn](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/woolverton-inn)\n\n### 8. Travel-Themed Bridal Shower\nCelebrate life’s big adventure with a trip around the world themed shower. Luggage, globes, and maps are all great decor pieces that are easy to find and use. Serve international favorites with their national flags, and include global monuments in your decor—like the Sphinx, Eiffel Tower, Leaning Tower of Pisa, or the Taj Mahal.\n\n![6-bridal-shower-themes-around-the-world](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2PesuuJAEbJprzovDEmOY8/0597ced533d88f51e533319c45cb7ef0/6-bridal-shower-themes-around-the-world.jpg)\nPhoto by [Kati Rosado](http://katirosado.com/contact)\n\n### 9. Mexican Food and Fun\nIf the bride is a Mexican cuisine enthusiast, then a Mexican-themed fiesta could be the perfect option for a bridal shower. Create a build-your-own taco bar and pair the food with refreshing margaritas (frozen or one the rocks—bride’s choice!).\n\n![Mexican Themed Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6vMw8hDdFoLPzxr6o5pvcC/c4f6438c362ff545850ac1e4c3d6b5f8/Mexican_Themed_Party.jpg) Photo by [JamsCreative Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/jamscreative-photography)\n\n### 10. Drama and Dancing\nDress up and get to dancing! Have everyone dress their best and decorate with rich jewel tones and dramatic lighting. The most important part is the perfect playlist everyone will enjoy, so take suggestions from your guests leading up to the party. Prepare fun cocktails and plenty of snacks, and you’re ready to go.\n\n![Wedding Dance Ladies](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2awo4Idmo8V3xaDcRB8QUZ/05b6bff2712a8a908e5a89d008aebba7/Wedding_Dance_Ladies.jpg) Photo by [Joyce Li Photo](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/joyce-li-photo)\n\n### 11. Under the Sea\nIf you’re all-in on the mermaid aesthetic, this may be the theme for you. Cool color palettes and some iridescent or silver metallics are your theme’s core. Gather seashells, glass pieces, and simple greenery arrangements for centerpieces. This is a great chance to repurpose wine bottles as candlestick holders with sand and shells inside—then let guests take home the marine-themed decor as bridal party favors.\n\n![Under the Sea Beach Wedding Table](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6a82w3p1nGjU31X39fG0rj/5919702498a7bfb3abe84682697cc462/Under_the_Sea_Beach_Wedding_Table.jpg) Photo by [Krystal Zaskey Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/krystal-zaskey-photography)\n\n[![bridal-shower-themes-download-adventurous-moodboard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/68kisdb07WwEjygaEdtOL7/a33e3c98803fa462b6e37b750912ae25/bridal-shower-themes-download-adventurous-moodboard.png)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4I0zC1PUoerR73vSCn0Bg9/9e2a658e9e93d9d12f6f663b592ded8e/bridal-shower-themes-adventurous.png)\n\n## Fun Bridal Shower Themes \n\n### 12. Karaoke Lounge\nTake a break from wedding planning and plan a karaoke party at home or out at a lounge — either way, you’re sure to have a good time. Prepare challenges with your favorite songs in a draw bag, or choose a genre to build your theme around. Push the theme further and ask your guests to come dressed as their favorite artists and perform to a music video.\n\n![Karaoke Wedding Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5mzdoPTEXSSIbCRjT5igqs/6a4ffce0be27b1fe09710c207336b5a3/Karaoke_Wedding_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Morgan Wiltse Photo Co.](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/morgan-wiltse-photo-co)\n\n### 13. Ice Cream Party\nWhen there's ice cream, there is always fun in store! Hire an ice cream truck to come to your event. You could also take it a step further and do a full ice cream sundae bar. Get several flavors of ice cream, and splurge on toppings—sprinkles, syrups, and more. Don't forget the cones or waffle bowls to enhance the event. \n\n![S-mores Ice Cream Sundae Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4LMR0QltpjA8Kufnc8LQoq/764f80376ff18627ade5b74557c29c11/S-mores_Ice_Cream_Sundae_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Pint's Peak Ice Cream](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-cakes-desserts/pints-peak-ice-cream)\n\n### 14. Game Night\nGame night is perfect for a night in with your friends, and everyone will warm up to each other quickly. Bring your favorite games and snacks, and get the party started. Decorate using Jenga pieces as a guest book for your friends and family to sign, and candy dice to top cupcakes. Or take it outside and play lawn games.\n\n![Lawn Games at a Wedding Reception](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6V3o1HPFvvSSpWqw7j6DCm/b2e768aa8635552305188dad3525b224/Lawn_Games_at_a_Wedding_Reception.jpg) Photo via [The Wedding Connection](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-planners/the-wedding-connection)\n\n### 15. Nautical\nIf you (and the engaged couple!) love being on the water, consider using a nautical bridal shower theme. Host your event by the sea, on the beach, or on a boat for added cohesion. However, it's also perfectly acceptable to have a blue and white palette and maritime touches for a land-centric party. \n\n![Nautical Bridal Shower Theme](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4txV3Tg5fsTby2WR8nAscV/d072de20b83f64d2279b823a9c3008d1/Nautical_Bridal_Shower_Theme.jpg) Photo by [Aprea Media](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/aprea-media)\n\n### 16. Candy Crush\nCelebrate your engagement to your crush with candy! Sweet, delicious, and super aesthetically pleasing, candy is an affordable and easy way to cover decor and favors for your guests. Arrange gumball bowls, giant lollipops, and macaron towers as centerpieces, and serve colorful and bubbly drinks for a great summer fun party theme. Not a fan of candy? Have homemade pastel color treats instead.\n\n![Dessert Bar for Reception](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2dr0ZZqsCNecbLJqzOnMAD/db2e187716f6c975778cd728a461e1e3/Dessert_Bar_for_Reception.jpg) Photo via [Twin Treats](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-cakes-desserts/twin-treats)\n\n## Laidback Wedding Shower Themes\n \nThese laidback shower themes are for the casual couple looking to host a great party all of their friends and family can enjoy. Find 10 bridal shower themes and trending party ideas that are all about you and your guests, instead of heavily themed decor and entertainment:\n\n### 17. Pajama Party\nFor the ultimate laid back event, invite guests to dress in their pjs. Host an evening event that goes late into the night, or have a morning brunch. The sky's the limit for this casual, fun event. It's also an ideal theme if you're hosting a lingerie shower where the bride can also give her attendants their wedding day robes at the event.\n\n![Pajama Party Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/741K8Hfz5Z5WG1HYRFf0t3/088b51dad241984586676b0dbedd46f0/Pajama_Party_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Hotel Arista](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/hotel-arista)\n\n### 18. Fruit Fest\nFruit themes are fresh and fun and bring a bright tropical vibe without the need for grass skirts. Vibrant fruit arrangements are great centerpieces by themselves, but some flowers and decorative trays wouldn’t hurt. Don’t forget the fruit cocktails, coconuts, and novelty straws — this party is all about the drinks.\n\n![Fruit Bachelorette Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/42VVD3mZn7IsrJRHDvBSzD/1580821430af54b2c765318327f477f8/Fruit_Bachelorette_Party.jpg) Photo via [Hill City Bride](https://hillcitybride.com/2017/05/citrus-bachelorette-party-styled-shoot/)\n\n### 19. Sock Hop\nGo back to the ‘50s with a fun sock hop themed party. Bring circle skirts and polka dots back for a night, and prepare a rocking playlist that will have everyone dancing. Retro signs and glass Coke bottles make for fun decor, and malt milkshakes are the perfect dessert.\n\n![Clinking Coke Bottles at Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/39rrbGkiQm1Jax3xKKx1Jk/7c0a6e95a3a28b1ce8af2d5c0f92d607/Clinking_Coke_Bottles_at_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Bradley Pisney](https://unsplash.com/@bradleypisney)\n\n### 20. Wine Tastings\nSchedule a wine tasting for your wedding shower. Not only is this perfect for a co-ed event, but you can organize it in various ways. Hire a limo and go from winery to winery doing several tastings. Or you can head to a winery with a vineyard on site and spend a few hours walking through the vines and sampling. Either way, a DD is vital, so put that on your list.\n\n![Wine Tasting Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3f7Oj2kxOS2427ekFg4wC6/0548ec4ed0dac20af00de180967041b9/Wine_Tasting_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Kym Ellis](https://unsplash.com/@kymellis)\n\n### 21. Brunch and Bubbly\nThe bridal brunch is simple and welcoming to all of your guests, and gives plenty of opportunity for the couple’s family and friends to get to know each other. The menu is full of brunch favorites, like waffles and scones—and, of course, you stock the bar with champagne, juice, and other __[mimosa bar](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-make-a-mimosa-bar)__ staples. Light floral arrangements and simple table settings are all you need to host a nice __[brunch](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/brunch-wedding)__.\n\n![10-bridal-shower-themes-brunch-and-bubbly (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6wOGbpj3KwpmsljYghFVJn/8a8bbc6418a7f8b15431fe9612a10abc/10-bridal-shower-themes-brunch-and-bubbly__1_.jpg) Photo via Zola\n\n[![bridal-shower-themes-download-laidback-moodboard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3oknARV7UK6Mj1pBdt7QkH/a6a0c07c809b7361b0e492c855d845a4/bridal-shower-themes-download-laidback-moodboard.png)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5BpHrs1JlVGebXUYNptl6L/6ec2848f7ceee432656915418153ed92/bridal-shower-themes-laidback.png)\n\n## Unique Bridal Shower Themes\n \nSome themes just don’t fit in a box. If you’re still looking for the perfect party idea, try one of these creative and trendy bridal shower theme ideas:\n\n### 22. Breakfast at Tiffany’s\nWhat’s more glamorous and classic than Breakfast at Tiffany’s? Decorate with Tiffany blue, or even get some Tiffany’s gift boxes and candles as centerpieces. Channel your inner Holly Golightly with a little black dress, and gift pearls and sunglasses as themed favors to your guests.\n\n![Brunch Wedding Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5oIrbZnmy0ssZz2ZWlxTnX/8df5feb85b1859e63da860bdb2a6f2be/Brunch_Wedding_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Rachel Park](https://unsplash.com/@therachelstory)\n\n### 23. Bold and Bright\nFill your party with bright colors and bold decor to bring a ton of energy and fun to your party. Choose a handful of your favorite colors, or cover everything in rainbows. Either way, you’re setting yourself up for plenty of photo-ops and unlimited possibilities.\n\n![Vibrant Wedding Shower Tablescape](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2NM9triQ8FKUTjoUi3ARe5/742de0e3927783efe3644d5f74952a1e/Vibrant_Wedding_Shower_Tablescape.jpg) Photo by [Jason Rhee Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/jason-rhee-photography-llc)\n\n### 24. Classic Hollywood Chic\nYou can still have a glam party in the winter with a throwback to the silver screen. Decorate with jewel tones and gold accents, and centerpieces of pearls and ostrich feathers. Roll out the red carpet to a photobooth with props of faux-fur boas, beads, and other vintage accessories and a vintage-inspired [photo backdrop](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-backdrop).\n\n![Hollywood Glam Styled Event Wedding](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6ohR6cWSm8QqcVJqxI7O2N/a46b330a523c9468ff6d3c9c0dc90ae6/Hollywood_Glam_Styled_Event_Wedding.jpg) Photo via [Zola's Real Weddings](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding/old-hollywood-glamour-styled-shoot)\n\n### 25. Potter Party \nInvite all of your witch and wizard friends to celebrate with butterbeer and chocolate frogs. You can find recipes for all of your favorite magic treats and gift DIY wands and house badges to your friends. Marathon the movies, host a trivia game or play a quick Quidditch match. There’s plenty of Hogwarts fun for everyone.\n\n![Harry Potter Theme Wedding Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7wtJubue6dlPErnCtRbkKa/679d8a53027681bdaa73e47845972d18/Harry_Potter_Theme_Wedding_Shower.jpg) Photo via [The Winery at Bull Run](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/the-winery-at-bull-run)\n\n### 26. Blue and White\nIf you're in touch with decor trends, you've probably seen blue and white palettes everywhere. It's a classic! So, why not include it in a wedding shower? Scour thrift shops and antique stores for blue and white elements like dishes, vases, and more. Some can even be gifted to the bride-to-be. The added touch of decorative cookies brings an element of sophistication to the event. \n\n![Blue and White Cookies](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3nZ4X0Y2BUl58s1t31L3Q0/87d09e9d1913556ee425e70adaf022ff/Blue_and_White_Cookies.jpg) Photo via [The Everly](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/the-everly)\n\n### 27. Retro\nTo have a retro bridal shower, pick an era and go all out. You can mock the Roaring 20's or go with the hippie vibe of the 1970s. It's all up to you. Use Pinterest to search for inspiration for the various decades, and take cues from color palettes, fashions, and photo styling for your own era-inspired bridal shower.\n\n![Retro Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2c5FRZk3Xo8uO5AQoDzNAj/8aea45876f2bfdeaf156489c1e30ce19/Retro_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Love Wildly](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/love-wildly)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Fall \n\n### 28. Backyard Bonfire\nThe best way to relax with your favorite people is around a bonfire with s’mores, tunes, and drinks. Make sure you have plenty of seating and snacks, and this party is good to go. If you want to build decor, collect old tins and trays to display the snacks and place lanterns and string lights around the party to add to the vibe.\n\n![8-bridal-shower-themes-backyard-bonfire](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/Yqz2xEY7DjS08IqkMTkup/06e9651087dc4a332d3d4385fac7c037/8-bridal-shower-themes-backyard-bonfire.jpg)\nSource: [Allie Dearie Photography](http://alliedeariephotography.com/)\n\n### 29. Rustic and Cozy\nRustic-themed showers are having a moment. Whether you go with rustic farmhouse BBQ (think DIY mason jar flower arrangements, gingham linens and napkins, and homemade sweet tea), or a more comfy, cozy cabin vibe (think enjoying hot cocoa in pajamas in front of the fire while you play bridal shower games), this bridal shower theme is sure to appeal to brides that are more country than city.\n\n![9-bridal-shower-themes-comfy-cozy](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6a017sAwGsvQpaoT9kv7An/4c70551b6ad65362481722a035787f40/9-bridal-shower-themes-comfy-cozy.jpg) Photo by \n[Carina Skrobecki](https://www.carinaskrobecki.com/)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Winter \n\n### 30. Trim the Tree\nInvite your guests to help you trim your holiday tree with DIY ornaments. Collect some craft instructions for your guests and gather supplies to create keepsake ornaments for you and your partner. Cookies and eggnog are sure to get everyone in the festive spirit. (You could even have guests wrap bridal shower gifts in holiday paper!)\n\n![Christmas Bridal Shower Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2tgHfQcFvUlnrhmMJ8uczi/866564843aecf63d4ac3f622811d1cff/Christmas_Bridal_Shower_Ideas.jpg) Photo by [Limelight Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/limelight-photography)\n\n### 31. Winter Wonderland\nSnow and ice are nature’s glitter, so embrace the sparkle and celebrate a winter wonderland. Glitter centerpieces and warmth from candlelight are sure to set the mood. Pinecones and frosted evergreens are great for adding texture and colors, too.\n\n![Winter Wonderland Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/9H8GuAzenjgmLiwgNtFJd/dfc06f10a4e96593d52735a703656f7f/Winter_Wonderland_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [The Preserve at Chocorua](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues/the-preserve-at-chocorua)\n\n### 32. Flannel and Frost\nDecorate your party with evergreens, flannel fabrics, and lanterns for a warm and inviting atmosphere for everyone. Cider drinks and spiced cookies are the perfect treats, and your guests will love playing group games and mingling.\n\n![Flannel Bridal Shower Theme](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/zBmzuRgSFTrWPJMFPgHhD/21372946bf45ebfa6086ae17634835e0/Flannel_Bridal_Shower_Theme.jpg) Photo on [Zola's Real Weddings](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding/plaid-accented-fall-styled-shoot)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Spring \n\n### 33. Lovely in Lemon\nFruit themes are hugely popular, and lemons may just top that list. They’re bright, refreshing, and so fun for a party. Decorate with yellow and white flowers with plenty of greenery, and of course lemons themselves. Host a lemonade and iced tea bar with a variety of flavors — lemon cupcakes and cookies are a must (and make for great take-home party favors!).\n\n![Lemon Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3txCeg3in7GnYkk0E6Os8t/a90377c1fc8cf146a6f1f1f833e675bc/Lemon_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo via [Hill City Bride](https://hillcitybride.com/2020/01/bridal-shower-decorations/)\n\n### 34. Tea Party Time\nTea parties are a bridal shower classic and a great way to include everyone on your guest list. Rent or thrift adorable teaware, then gather some fresh flower bouquets for your tables, and voila—your decor is pretty much finished! Simple and sweet pastries and a collection of teas to sample is all the entertainment you need with good company at your wedding shower. (You could even send home personalized tea bags as bridal shower favors!)\n\n![Bridal Shower Tea Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6PkQtkyVcQC2ytoPGR6JmB/25f2d95f525d6969fb29cf23e2eeaad0/Bridal_Shower_Tea_Party.jpg) Photo by [Carolyn Christine](https://unsplash.com/@carolynchristine)\n\n### 35. Gives Me Butterflies\nThe bride-to-be is in love, so focus on the feeling. Throw a butterfly themed bridal shower at a butterly garden or botanical center. Release butterflies and have lovely, themed details, such as butterfly nets and vintage prints featuring the flying insects. It's perfect for spring! \n\n![Butterfly Themed Bridal Shower](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5umS2PAkojSa4YYOcXvxAF/59e4e6cece3414eae51269e4281a20fd/Butterfly_Themed_Bridal_Shower.jpg) Photo by [Peterson Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/petersen-photography-llc)\n\n## Bridal Shower Themes for Summer \n\n### 36. Fair Food\nEveryone loves the fair, and even if you’re not into rides, how can you say no to fair food? The carnival aesthetic is a lot of fun to play with — saturated colors and novelty lights can take you a long way, and a Ferris wheel statue would be great. Of course, the centerpiece of this theme is the food! Rent decorative machines if you can, and serve caramel corn, corn dogs, and more. For an added splash, serve drinks topped with cotton candy.\n\n![Cotton Candy Cocktail](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/9LOxLRXh7LGoVzfOdIKVn/33423d89b2f7cee1c9a82c01b4babb58/Cotton_Candy_Cocktail.jpg) Photo by [Johann Trasch](https://unsplash.com/@cocktailbart)\n\n### 37. Beach Bash\nBeach themes are a bridal shower favorite. Subtle colors, seashells, and elegant candles can really elevate this theme if you’re looking for something more sophisticated or romantic. Of course, you can always plan a beach party with a pool, fun shades, and plenty of games.\n\n![7-bridal-shower-themes-beach-bash (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6bDCsVEIx3W5IVLzxiGJ5P/9172793b112dcf2b1526468f47c83b7e/7-bridal-shower-themes-beach-bash__1_.jpg)\nPhoto by [Amanda Hedgepeth](http://www.amandahedgepethphotography.com/)\n\n### 38. Tropical Luau\nA tropical bridal shower is the perfect way to bring fun, sun, and the tropics to your party. Plan a party by the pool with fruity drinks, beach decor, and fun inflatables that double as photo props. Pool parties are great for large guest lists and as a theme for a couple’s shower.\n\n![Bridal Shower Themes](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/29TdexcZKU8OFodcAPVQM4/b7a0a7fe5448fc084caa500fad553bc4/zola-1680x1060.jpg)\nPhoto by [Meagan Gibson](https://www.meagangibsonphotography.com/ \"Source: Meagan Gibson Photography\")\n\nWhether you’re hosting a throwback bash or a comfortable night in, your guests will be happy to receive their __[invites](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop)__, so choose the bridal shower theme that suits you best. Once you have your theme and decor ideas, the fun (and the countdown to the big day can really begin! So get to planning, add some fun __[printable games or activities](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/free-bridal-shower-printables)__, and enjoy your perfect party.","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-10-03T19:35:00.980Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding shower","slug":"wedding-shower"},"slug":"bridal-shower-traditions-updated","title":"7 Bridal Shower Traditions, Updated ","excerpt":"Bridal showers are great celebrations but they could use some updating. Bring your bridal shower traditions into modern times with our guide to updating the traditional bridal shower.","author":"McCall Minnor","publishedAt":"2019-10-15T16:32:47.960Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6vfYcGpnDLIGFdgeLZ9F2c/b59c2ca2f2e6e3c2dd505a2b1ecbc00b/HERO_Unsplash_1080x720__1_.jpg","altText":"bridal shower gifting tradition"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"While a [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers) is a generous gesture from loved ones, we can’t deny that some aspects of the celebration can be awkward and outdated. That’s not to say you shouldn’t have one—those closest to you want to celebrate you and you should let them. You may just prefer to put your own more modern spin on things. Here are a few common bridal shower traditions and easy ways to update them for a party that truly fits your vibe. \n\n## The Tradition: It’s just for women.\nTraditionally, a bridal shower is a pre-wedding celebration thrown in honor of the bride, during which guests “shower” her with gifts. It usually takes place during the day, is women-only, and is thrown by a woman close with the bride.\n\n__The Update:__ More and more couples are choosing instead to have a [coed wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/coed-wedding-shower) that includes everyone: both partners and both sets of friends and family. This way there’s much more wiggle room in terms of activities and the theme. Plus, including both partners is a practical and thoughtful way to celebrate both people and also bring family and friends together ahead of the wedding. \n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/532VVdWGgxiLyK341ZcdQ7/749150933cb579d72591628987db3df9/INLINE__Unsplash_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## The Tradition: It happens less than two months before the wedding.\nUsually, the bridal shower is held just before the wedding: about 2-8 weeks out. Older etiquette suggests that this is to prevent your wedding festivities from spanning more than a few months, thus inconveniencing guests.\n\n__The Update:__ While it’s considerate to keep your guests in mind, having your shower within this time frame might just not work. It’s also possible that you don’t want to have your shower so close to your ceremony, regardless of any other reason. Giving yourself more time between the two occasions allows you the opportunity to open and sort through gifts, send thank you notes, and, honestly, just relax a little. It’s a lot to go event-for-event. Choose a time that works best for you and (most of) your guests.\n\n## Tradition: It’s a feminine daytime event.\nThe traditional bridal shower is a brunch party, afternoon tea, or another daytime affair. And it’s likely to include small appetizers and desserts, beverages like mimosas, and typically feminine decor. \n\n__The Update:__ Your bridal shower or coed wedding shower doesn’t need to fall within any kind of themed parameters—and it doesn’t need to be a brunch either. Your shower can—and should—take on any form that best suits you (or you and your partner). Hire a local bartender and have a cocktail hour mixology class. Spend a weekend at the beach or spa. Wine tastings, cooking classes, hiking, art lessons—all acceptable. When it comes down to it, your shower should be an event you’ll enjoy. No one will care if it’s in the evening or not at someone’s home, so long as you’re celebrating with one another.\n\n## Tradition: You play games.\nGames are almost always included in the traditional bridal shower itinerary. Common bridal shower games include gift bingo, a toilet paper wedding dress competition, and newlywed questions.\n\n__The Update:__ While many enjoy these specific—and admittedly cheesy—games, they’re by no means required. If you’d rather skip couple’s trivia and spend time doing just about anything else, do that. If you still like the idea of Say you’d still like to gather everyone together to do something. No problem. Opt instead for a non-shower themed group activity (remember that fun mixology class idea we mentioned before?).\n\n## Tradition: Gifts are mandatory—and you open them in front of everyone.\nEveryone invited to a bridal shower is expected to bring a gift for the bride or couple (if it’s a wedding shower). The bride or couple then open each gift in front of their guests.\n\n__The Update:__ Let’s be honest—there’s ample opportunity to receive gifts throughout your engagement and wedding. Between the engagement party, wedding shower, bachelor or bachelorette parties, and wedding, guests may feel pressured to give multiple times. If this isn’t something you’re comfortable with (or if you simply don’t have room for a lot of gifts), feel free to tell guests to skip gifts. \n\nIf you do, however, include gifts in your shower, don’t feel pressure to open them in front of everyone. Let [your guests](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/invite-to-wedding-shower) know that you won’t be opening them during the party—or simply don’t mention it at all. Send thank you notes no more than a week after the party, though!\n\n![INLINE Zola 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/FyJVw92zu27pIrPVJqOid/1a745129b8eedb7f1ce847593d12c4ef/INLINE_Zola_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Zola\n\n## Tradition: Someone creates a ribbon bouquet.\nThe Tradition: Traditionally, while you’re unwrapping presents at a bridal shower, someone else is collecting the ribbons and bows and fashioning them into a bouquet. This bouquet is then to be used for practice during your wedding rehearsal.\n\n__The Update:__ Feel free to cut this tradition out entirely—especially if you don’t plan on opening gifts in front of everyone. While the sentiment is nice, you really can just use another bouquet of flowers (or nothing) during your rehearsal.\n\n## Tradition: Your fiancé brings flowers at the end\nOlder tradition suggests that your fiancé should show up towards the end of the party, to “surprise” you with flowers. This is considered a sweet way to included them into the festivities (and help you load gifts into the car). Often, the fiancé will show up thirty minutes to an hour before the shower is over and sometimes participate in games.\n\n__The Update:__ Whether your spouse to-be is busy (they might be at their own party) or wants to leave the shower to you, there’s no reason they need to make an appearance. Your shower is yours, after all, and maybe they’d rather avoid the spotlight. You can still have them show up to help relocate gifts, just wait until everyone has left and you’re heading out. On the other hand, if you’d like your partner to be more involved, consider making the entire thing co-ed.\n\nIn the end, your wedding shower is meant to celebrate you and your upcoming marriage. Don’t worry yourself with what’s expected of a typical party. Focus on having a good time and getting excited for the main event—your wedding! We can toast to that.","tag":"List","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Fill your bachelor party with groom-approved activities. 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Although giving presents is a nice gesture, they are usually optional, so don’t feel pressured. \n\nHowever, if you want to give the bride-to-be a treat, there are plenty of directions you can head. Select a lovely piece of jewelry, or pop open a bottle of champagne. You could always get her [lingerie](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-the-perfect-wedding-day-lingerie#:~:text=Choose%20lingerie%20that%20works%20with,for%20your%20dress%20or%20gown.) or a cheeky gag gift, but the door is also open to give her something more meaningful. \n\nIf you don’t know where to begin, start by selecting a bachelorette gift you think matches the bride’s personality. It’s also an appropriate time to give her something racy or funny that you wouldn’t dare [give her at the bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-shower-gifts) with her future mother-in-law looking on. \n\nHowever, after paying for the [bachelorette weekend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-checklist), you may want to discuss amongst the attendees if you want gift-giving at all. Another option is to set a limit on the gift’s cost. If everyone is traveling and paying for an out-of-town trip, there’s no need to burden everyone with an extra cost. \n\nBachelorette gifts for the bride don’t need to be expensive or extensive. You can choose a yummy treat or a bottle of Champagne for everyone to enjoy at the hotel before going out to show your love just as well. \n\n## Best bachelorette party gift ideas\n\nNow that we've got the etiquette covered let's dive into the gifts for the bachelorette party. The following are 25 of the best bachelorette gifts for the bride that we can think of!\n\n![gartner](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1u43YfE5fgwqlqVnRl6osU/af661f6fe58c9e80aa397ef1ee54baf3/gartner.webp)\n\n### 1. Lingerie\n\nLingerie is perhaps the most traditional bachelorette party gift. Look for something that she can wear on her wedding night, such as an “I do” [thong/garter set](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-usually-buys-the-brides-garter) or “bride” thong. Or, choose a beautiful chemise or cami that she can wear on her honeymoon and for years to come.\n\n![Morgan Lane Tommy PJ Set](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7jWj7a6N0FudeMw7YeCOkj/ce341ecf210c0616dbad643d3ec9ead9/Morgan_Lane_Tommy_PJ_Set.jpg)\n\n### 2. Luxurious pajamas\n\nIf giving lingerie isn't quite your style, opt instead to pamper the bride-to-be with a silky pair of pajamas like this [Morgan Lane Tommy PJ Set](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/morganlane_tommy_pj_set_chalk). A nice slip or matching set is both beautiful and practical. Plus, if the bride wants, she can even wear them while getting ready on the morning of her wedding.\n\n![spa gift basket](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/76nuzCBLZF06sMJJqv7Yrp/c2f57985f5f02019c278bff1e149dcc0/gift_basket.avif)\n\n### 3. Spa gift basket\n\nSome parts of [planning a wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-planning-guide) can be pretty stressful. So, a gorgeous [gift basket of spa treats](https://www.etsy.com/de-en/search?q=Spa%20Gift%20Basket&ref=search_bar) is exactly what she’ll need to relax when working her way through that endless wedding checklist. This is one of the best gifts to give at a bachelorette party, regardless of how well you know (or don’t know) the bride. It can be a collection of delicious products from a local spa or a homemade basket of goodies from brands you’ve sourced yourself.\n\n![satin lace robe](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2bhGVWiRROqxrk0zXRg5G0/7a86aee8aae1e28981987549d8324b45/satin_lace_robe.jpg)\n\n### 4. Robe\n\nYour gift doesn’t have to be racy or too sexy to be enjoyed. A pretty bridal robe, like this [Event Blossom Satin Lace Robe](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/eventblossom_satin_lace_robe_white), is perfect. She can enjoy wearing it at the spa during the bachelorette weekend and wear it again while getting ready on her wedding day. What a wonderful gift that she’s sure to enjoy after the wedding is over.\n\n![bridal care beauty box](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2U78iarhEM6aOgQzviWD7r/c320f765402390352af82095405735db/bridal_care_beauty_box.jpg)\n\n### 5. Bridal care beauty box\n\nWedding planning isn’t all cake tasting and Champagne sipping—it can be a stressful time, too. Spoil the bride-to-be with a bridal care box that contains a facial roller, face masks, and a ring cleaner. Or, create your own gift set (start with [The Prosperity Box](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/theurbanthemystic_the_prosperity_box_)). Include nail polish, bubble bath, or anything else you think that she’d like to be pampered with.\n\n![rina hat](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1lerKkC9FvRxfEPbMvDqxf/92aa9f60bf0e18ae85577cf1c1af8f0d/rina_hat.jpg)\n\n### 6. Sun hat and sunscreen\n\nIf the bachelorette is in a sunny locale such as Miami or Cancun, one fun bride-to-be bachelorette gift is a wide-brim hat ([Shiraleah’s Rina Hat](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/shiraleah_rina_hat) is our fave). A perfect addition is sunscreen, which she’ll be grateful to have all weekend long. You can also give her this gift at the bachelorette party with instructions for it to be used at a later date. if she’s having a destination wedding or going on a tropical honeymoon, she’ll be grateful for the gear.\n\n![bride to be sash](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4SfFh9DpTCTd1FA0c7BDGb/31b923cbe9c34ce58911b6bd11ca5935/bride_to_be_sash.jpg)\n\n### 7. Bride sash/swag for the weekend\n\nThe bridal sash is a long-honored tradition that is a must for any bachelorette weekend. It’s one of the staple gifts for bachelorettes who like to keep things traditional. Make this and any other fun swag, such as a tiara, flower crown, or veil, your gift to the bride. Just make sure to tell everyone that you’re in charge of these items so that she doesn’t get multiple sashes or tiaras. This [Foxblossom Co. Bride to Be Sash](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/foxblossomco_bride_to_be_sash) is a great option. \n\n![Kate Spade New York say yes mrs cz necklace](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2S2a56YsNmuroMPMekZ6RE/08ebc7378cf1fcae7eb47555e5e71fd3/Kate_Spade_New_York_say_yes_mrs_cz_necklace.jpg)\n\n### 8. Jewelry\n\nJewelry is always a classic and generous gift choice. Choose something fitting such as a “Mrs” necklace that she is sure to wear all the time. Or give her a pendant with her new monogram. Another sweet option is just a beautiful pair of earrings that you think she would love. We’re big fans of this [Kate Spade New York Say Yes Mrs. CZ Necklace](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/katespade_say_yes_mrs._cz_necklace). She can wear these out on the bachelorette weekend, on her honeymoon, and on future date nights, too. This is one of the best bachelorette gift ideas for brides who love their sparkles. \n\n![Monogram jewelry case](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1HgA285HkA60t1f5zzcYHA/40840ac71d4d9a5a6a1533fc5c29b422/Monogram_jewelry_case.avif)\n\n### 9. Monogram jewelry case\n\nFor the bride-to-be who already has a glowing jewelry collection, consider gifting a [Personalized Jewelry Case](https://www.etsy.com/de-en/listing/1577670358/custom-name-velvet-travel-jewelry?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=monogram+jewelry+box&ref=sr_gallery-1-2&pro=1&frs=1&organic_search_click=1). These can be found in a variety of shapes and styles, from boxes to pouches and bags. Some even include small mirrors on the inside, ideal for the bride who is always on the go. Make this gift extra special by getting their initials monogrammed along the top or side in shimmering foil or luxurious embossing or debossing. Expert advice: coordinate this gift with another bachelorette party-goer who plans on giving the bride-to-be jewelry.\n\n![Monogrammed luggage tags](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6gH43Y55tv89N3FWaRZPcB/48bec334a9e65db456036f54a9cc8e6d/Monogrammed_luggage_tags.jpg)\n\n### 10. Monogrammed luggage tags\n\nThese [The Paisley Box Luggage Tags](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thepaisleybox_luggage_tag) are sure to get oohs and ahhs. Not only are they among the best wedding gifts if you’re on a budget, but they’re also a great choice when it comes to bridal bachelorette gifts. If the bachelorette party takes place away from the bride’s town, they can also work as bachelorette gifts from the bride to her guests, with each of their initials. \n\n![Viski Meridian Coupe Glasses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6VYlIECO5lthln2NNpdohL/9212e446e5b16e99362ccf07e1666692/Viski_Meridian_Coupe_Glasses.jpg)\n\n### 11. Drink glasses and alcohol\n\nYou’re all likely to be drinking a lot this weekend. You might as well get the bride a gift that’s on theme. A bottle of her favorite spirit and these [Viski Meridian Coupe Glasses](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/viski_meridian_coupe_glass_set2) are spot-on. Or give whiskey glasses and a good bottle of spirits to enjoy together. Another option is to go custom and get personalized wine glasses or a monogrammed cocktail shaker. \n\nIf you’re [flying out for the bach weekend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/top-15-places-to-go-to-for-a-bachelorette-party), this gift is a bit more challenging. However, you could stop by duty-free or a liquor store when you arrive to pick something up. Alternatively, a customized shot glass (or set of them) can be a great gift idea to commemorate the bachelorette bash. Stainless steel or stemless, any one of these gifts is sure to get a lot of use.\n\n![Personalized tumbler](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4K8172g2uCLwEbkrOXkgHs/8cf006c45541c27e35a334c0708c2d78/Personalized_tumbler.jpg)\n\n### 12. Personalized tumbler\n\nWith considerable drinking—or traveling, or any physical activity—comes the need for lots of water. Think ahead on the bride's behalf by gifting a beautiful [Letter Tumbler from The Paisley Box](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thepaisleybox_30_oz._letter_tumbler_pink). They come in several colors, and you can personalize them with the bride's first initial (or new surname, if applicable) on it.\n\n![Personalized Leather Manicure Kit](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/kcUnyesBjXwYas0YwueFo/795b6d7213163e69d355caedfb7aff3b/Personalized_Leather_Manicure_Kit.avif)\n\n### 13. Manicure kit\n\nIf she’s running from A to B in the months leading up to her wedding day, the bride may not have time for a trip to the salon. So, a [Personalized Leather Manicure Kit](https://www.etsy.com/de-en/listing/1570756687/personalized-leather-manicure-set-custom?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=Manicure+Kit&ref=sc_gallery-1-1&pro=1&edd=1&sts=1&referrer_page_guid=1f016245-8faf-45a3-a753-09163165b7da&plkey=16deb8bcc951e9d14780781afac9a1f3edb8ef2f%3A1570756687) can keep her feeling her best no matter how frantic the wedding planning gets. And, of course, she can keep on using the manicure kit long after she’s said “I do!” This is one of the best bachelorette gifts for brides, both pre-wedding and post-wedding. \n\n![The Paisley Box Bride-s Notebook](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5CVj8Ky4izvEZc9XZTLSrP/53cd027e682285c38eb0678fd641fdad/The_Paisley_Box_Bride-s_Notebook.jpg)\n\n### 14. High-quality notebook\n\nSpeaking of notebooks, these little yet useful gifts are not to be overlooked. These are ideal for sentimental brides, as well as those who love their to-do lists and jotting down thoughts. She’ll enjoy a high-quality notebook to write in like this [The Paisley Box Bride's Notebook](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thepaisleybox_brides_notebook). Put a meaningful note or dedication on the first page and encourage her to document all of the fun leading up to the wedding.\n\n![Meaningful keepsake-](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4e1YuCEkGMtTQp91eT6Rcq/d1b779172fbd4ccae0c23e411fd10b41/Meaningful_keepsake-.png)\n### 15. Meaningful keepsake\n\nMothers of the bride(s) or groom(s), as well as maids or matrons of honor, may feel inclined to gift something with sentimental value attached. We know a [bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/bachelorette-party) is often a time for fun and practical gift-giving. But sometimes you just can't help but do something extra special. A locket, passed down piece of jewelry, or framed photo perfectly fit the bill for meaningful bachelorette gifts.\n\n![Personalized Gold Bride Book](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/46sVCsgwcipvASFeBrE1SU/dd8eb37c1d92c6513a2c3b6fca89d9ba/Personalized_Gold_Bride_Book.webp)\n\n### 16. Bride-to-be journal\n\nNo doubt she’ll have plenty of incredible memories from this time in her life. Consider gifting a journal in her favorite colors or from her favorite stationery brand (or a [Personalized Gold Bride Book](https://www.etsy.com/de-en/listing/1452764399/personalized-gold-bride-proposal?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=Bride-To-Be+Journal&ref=sr_gallery-1-8&edd=1&sts=1&referrer_page_guid=e2039ca4-b474-499e-b2ae-3ac9a4370a86&organic_search_click=1).) This will let her log thoughts and memories up until the big day and reminisce about them later in life. \n\n![Event Blossom Sparkle Mrs Makeup Bag](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4xexLSACuHCrinGMuyymU4/e1871f03f748e21d3c5c1cd051f7fb47/Event_Blossom_Sparkle_Mrs_Makeup_Bag.jpg)\n\n### 17. Luxe makeup bag\n\nMaybe she’s mentioned a stylish lipstick she’ll be wearing on her big day. Or perhaps she’s treating herself to some fancy brands to commemorate this special time. A new [Event Blossom Sparkle Mrs Makeup Bag](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/eventblossom_sparkle_mrs_makeup_bag) makes the whole thing feel even more special. \n\n![Subscription box](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3mzGkkkth5fU6xAyvuZjy0/12067807fc6046e12fb81824fcde6d04/Subscription_box.jpg)\n\n### 18. Subscription box\n\nYou can shape this gift around her interests, hobbies, and passions. Or you can pool efforts and each contribute something to a homemade box of goodies. While choosing a subscription box is a relatively stress-free option, you can also take inspiration from boxes online and build your own to fit her tastes. Not sure where to start? Think about her favorite snacks, jewelry brands, drinks, or other personal interests. \n\n![What Do You Meme](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5wcZ8Sa6H8HAmZDzifZgLX/d95ded8b143d7e14f44a3e6f8f60b11e/What_Do_You_Meme.jpg)\n\n### 19. Gag/joke gifts\n\nIf there’s ever a chance to give your friend a gag gift that’s funny or inappropriate, the bachelorette party is it. Just make sure this fits her personality and won’t be offensive in any way if she’s not up for it. Some examples of bachelorette gifts like this include edible underwear, vibrators, or other toys or games that you think she and her future spouse could enjoy together. Or, keep it simple with this [What Do You Meme? For The Girls Party Game](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/whatdoyoumeme_adult_party_game_for_the_girls). \n\nCheck out our articles, [Bachelorette Party Game Questions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-game-questions-youll-love) and [Bachelorette Party Games the Squad will Love](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-games), to help get the party going!\n\n![Upgraded tote](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/47bxFvOeZpZxB8mm3xaZ9O/b9f9bee71cf7c0b99830804d3ee250f3/Upgraded_tote.webp)\n\n### 20. Upgraded tote\n\nPerhaps one of the gifts with the most uses (travel, the market, day-to-day wear), a high-quality [Bridal Bundle Bag Set](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1422333158/personalized-bridal-bundle-bag-set-bride), which won't go underappreciated. If you're especially crafty, this can be personalized, but any pattern, print, or brand is sure to go over well. What's more, you can use a tote as a gift bag to hold something a little extra—like a bottle of wine or notebook.\n\n![HomeWetBar Highbury Custom Flask](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1RABzQnaQfzfJhZYcCU0ER/1e3e89b1028aa2ceb1aec545792d3908/HomeWetBar_Highbury_Custom_Flask.jpg)\n\n### 21. Personalized hip flask\nNot all bachelorette parties involve alcohol. But if hers does, a [HomeWetBar Highbury Custom Flask](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/homewetbar_highbury_custom_flask) is one of the best bachelorette gifts you’ll find. Got more budget left over? Buy her a bottle of her favorite spirit to go along with the hip flask. Better yet, if she’ll be changing her name, get her new initials printed on the flask as a reminder of exciting things to come.\n\n![Zola Wedding Albums Album Gift Card](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1wtMT8t9aQs5ibqgNgDx2J/1df1dd0edc3bd84e79d5e10955be831e/Zola_Wedding_Albums_Album_Gift_Card.jpg)\n\n### 22. Custom photo album\n\nFill a custom photo album with pictures from the bachelorette party, as well as all her other wedding memories. You can also stock it with favorite memories of you and the bride-to-be or a selection of photos of the bride and groom-to-be. Buy her a [Zola Wedding Albums Album Gift Card](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/zolaweddingalbums_classic_album_) if you’re not sure where to start.\n\n![Homesick Just Married Candle](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2V2873Urzz5mOep48xh8Lq/f636b1fa1593fa2371ecfb18bc9fcf8c/Homesick_Just_Married_Candle.jpg)\n\n### 23. Set of candles or a diffuser\n\nIf you want to step things up a notch, you can personalize these candles or the diffuser set with something significant. Add her wedding date, initials, name, or something else that’s special to her. Plus, her space will be smelling lovely in no time. We love this [Homesick Just Married Candle](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/homesick_just_married_candle).\n\n![Foxblossom Co. Bachelorette Party Bride Tank Top](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1FKBMoSGZspWnMcLG4VH5z/3c0bea905a891f5e7eeb0a5e78d741df/Foxblossom_Co._Bachelorette_Party_Bride_Tank_Top.jpg)\n\n### 24. Bride tank or t-shirt\n\nShe’s only going to be a bride once, so she might as well enjoy it to the fullest. A bride tank or T-shirt, like this [Foxblossom Co. Bachelorette Party Bride Tank Top](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/foxblossomco_bachelorette_party_bride_tank_top), will make her feel special. Of course, it will also guarantee she's the center of attention throughout the celebration and leading up to the [wedding day](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-planning-101/wedding-day).\n\n![custom stationery](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/27G8dXiNe7oEdZEJ2M70IO/1fedd05d6622fbe2f96546c261c8ec3f/custom_stationery.jpg)\n\n### 25. Thank you stationery \n\nA classic choice that never goes out of fashion. She could just send a round of “thank you” emails to family and friends. But being able to hand-write her gratitude on [custom stationery](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-planning-101/wedding-day)? That’s a whole lot more exciting. When it comes to bachelorette gifts, this is one of the most useful.\n\n## Bachelorette Gifts FAQs\n\n## What is a bachelorette party?\n\nA bachelorette party is a contemporary wedding tradition where a bride celebrates her final nights as a non-married woman. It's usually thrown by and spent with bridesmaids. However, the whole bridal party (maid of honor, mother of the bride, etc.) or other close friends and family members can also play host. Some couples are choosing to throw joint bachelor/bachelorette parties. If that peaks your interest, read our guide on [How to Throw a Joint Bach Party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/joint-bachelor-bachelorette-party-games).\n\nBachelorette parties may last a single evening, a weekend, or even an entire week. They can be extravagant, have a fun theme, or be laid back. During this time, a groom will likely have his own [bachelor party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelor-party-ideas) with his groomsmen and loved ones.\n\nTypical activities include, but are not limited to, spa days, lounging by the pool, scenic hikes, meals together, spending time in a decked-out Airbnb, and going out to drink and dance. Of course, brides and their parties may do whatever they consider a good time in celebration of the upcoming big day. Guests may also give wedding gifts to the bride, and hosts can give out bachelorette party favors.\n\nPlanning the party and need some theme inspo? Check out [60 Best Bachelorette Party Themes](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-themes).\n\n## Are gifts required?\n\nBachelorette gifts for the bride are usually optional—especially if your budget is tight. The host should discuss with everyone ahead of time to determine if gifts are required and what she is thinking in terms of what the bride might like. If someone in the group is crafty, they may offer to make the bridal sash or bedazzle the tiara as their gift.\n\nYou could also work the cost of the gift into your bachelorette weekend budget, such as offering to buy a round of shots or pay for the cupcakes. If you’re stretched thin and everyone else is bringing a gift, a nice card telling her how much she means to you, along with an offer to buy her lunch or coffee after she gets back from the honeymoon, will go a long way.\n\nStill looking for bachelorette gifts? [Explore more gifts here](https://www.zola.com/shop/collection/new-arrivals) on Zola. \n","tag":"Inspiration","nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Deciding who pays for the bachelorette party can be a tricky conversation. 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","title":"Our Ultimate 2025 Bachelorette Party Checklist","slug":"bachelorette-party-checklist","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4Hz4P0xKJr9Xlm7WmFWLDU/ef7c3fb560b76973a28a5acf71247617/bachelorette-party-checklist-hero.jpeg","altText":"Four people enjoying champagne on a rooftop, likely attending a bachelorette party and having used a bachelorette party checklist to plan their trip."},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Explore Wedding Boutique","url":"https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop"},"updatedAt":"2024-03-06T12:43:24.882Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Bachelorette party","slug":"bachelorette-party"},"slug":"bachelorette-party-themes","title":"60 Best Bachelorette Party Themes of 2024","excerpt":"Discover the 60 best bachelorette party themes of 2024 with ideas for activities, drinks, and food. Find the perfect party for every bride!","author":"Quinlan Grim","publishedAt":"2023-12-28T00:00-05:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/33vA9FilPkEXnDkMjTkg5F/e698249214e8c6ce0673ab8fbee59392/pexels-yuliia-auer-5303406.jpg","altText":"Bachelorette Party Themes & Party Names"},"heroCredit":"Yuliia Auer via Unsplash","heroCaption":"Bride and bridesmaids holding BRIDE balloons by a pool.","body":"Celebrating the bride at her bachelorette party is one of the best ways to de-stress before the wedding and get to know her closest friends. While some brides prefer an exciting weekend bash, others would rather relax with their favorite people. If you’ve been tasked with [planning a bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bachelorette-party), your job is to put the bride’s interests first and then fill in the rest of the details.\n\nOnce you have a clear idea of how the bride wants to celebrate, the fun begins! Maybe your bride has a [wedding theme](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-themes) she loves that you can incorporate into the bachelorette party. These themes range from wild and crazy to sophisticated and chill, so you can find the perfect theme to party with your crew. First, let’s take a look at the latest bach party trends…\n\n## What are the latest trends in bachelorette party themes?\n\n[Bachelorette parties](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bachelorette-parties) are constantly changing with the times. So, what are the latest bach party trends for 2024?\n\nWe’ve seen several trends continuing from 2023, plus hot new trends emerging. Here are some highlights:\n\n- Summer bach parties – Spring used to be the most popular season for bachelorette parties, but with the rise of fall wedding popularity, we’re seeing more bashes in mid-to-late summer. \n- Bachelorette photo shoots – Forget about the wedding photos — the latest trend is to hire a professional photographer for your bachelorette party to capture lasting memories. \n- Short and sweet bridal bashes – As more people return to the office, many bachelorette parties return to pre-pandemic length: one night or a weekend.\n- Daytime parties – The combination of short weekends and summer parties has more bridal party events starting in the daytime, from mimosa brunches to lounging poolside. \n\nTo sum it up, sunny, quick, well-documented parties are all the rage in 2024. But that doesn’t mean you have to go with what’s popular! Consider your bride’s preferences and choose the pre-wedding activities that fit her style. \n\nFeeling like you need a little inspo? Here are 60 fun ideas to get your creative juices flowing. \n\n## Favorite bachelorette party themes\n\nHere are a few witty bach party ideas we love this year.\n\n### 1. Bohemian bash party \n\nTake it easy and plan some relaxing activities for the boho bride. Get outdoors and explore some beautiful scenery by visiting a winery or going on a hike to bond with your bride tribe. To wind down, attend a group yoga or Pilates class and find your zen before the big day comes.\n\nAnother fun spin on a boho bachelorette is to go with a “Bachella” festival theme for the music lover. Bring in all the florals, earth tones and macramé decorations to create a chill vibe for your party. Vintage patterns and fabrics make great backdrops for photo booths and dinner parties.\n\n#### Activity ideas:\n\n- Make [flower crowns](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-make-a-flower-crown) with your crew\n- Attend a group yoga class\n- Have an outdoor patio party\n- Tour a vineyard\n\n#### Destination ideas:\n\n- Sonoma, California\n- Scottsdale, Arizona\n- Tulum, Mexico\n\n![bachelorette-party-ideas-boho](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2swfQJRFWGmHBTxz1zHHNt/9a7bb6e77b01463505c17787a7abff06/bachelorette-party-ideas-boho.jpg)\n\n__Sources:__ Vintage drink glasses via [Magnolia Studios](http://www.magnoliastudios.ca/) | Tattoos via [Fancy That Loved](https://www.etsy.com/listing/265895976/bride-tribe-temporary-bachelorette-party) | Tablescape via [Twink + Sis](http://www.twinkandsis.com/) | Boho chair via [Madison Short](https://madisonrshort.com) and [Christine McFarlane Events](https://www.christinemcfarlaneevents.com/) \n\n### 2. Let’s get nauti-cal\n\nWant to head somewhere warm and sunny with your crew? A nautical bachelorette is the way to go. Deck out your “I Do” crew with sailor hats, fanny packs, and beach hats to create a weekend fit for the sea. If you’re planning a destination bachelorette party, consider some beach getaways and try to book a beach house or boat ride. Nautical-themed goodies like inflatable beach balls, palm trees, and anchors make great decorations for your weekend pad.\n\nLet your hair down, put your toes in the sand and celebrate the bride’s last sail before the veil with a “Let’s Get Nauti” themed bachelorette.\n\n#### Activity ideas:\n\n- Go on a boat ride or rent jet skis\n- Grab some beach chairs and relax on the beach\n- Have a sandcastle competition with [wedding boutique prizes](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop)\n\n#### Destination ideas:\n\n- Destin, Florida\n- Nantucket, Massachusetts\n- Malibu, California\n\n![bachelorette-party-ideas-nautical](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6xkuLszHftoQfnASYjlHv9/8b0bca55c29e6797b7e4afa366393ef2/bachelorette-party-ideas-nautical.jpg)\n\n__Sources:__ Bride on a boat via [Katrina Malaiba](https://www.instagram.com/katrinamalaiba/) | Nautical goodies via [Everyday Pursuits](https://www.everydaypursuits.com/blog//2015/09/nautical-bachelorette-party-essentials.html) | Beach ball drink stirrers via [Studio DIY](https://studiodiy.com/2013/07/24/diy-beach-ball-drink-stirrers/) | Nautical table setting via [Pizzazzerie](https://pizzazzerie.com/parties-weve-styled/nautical-party-style-mud-pie-faves/) | Beach hats via [Love Always, Audrey](http://www.lovealwaysaudrey.com/2016/06/beach-bachelorette-party/)\n\n### 3. The final fiesta\n\nPerfect for any time of year, this theme brings together [delicious food](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-food-ideas) and bright colors to create an atmosphere that makes you want to sip margaritas with your senoritas. Celebrate the bride-to-be with a fiesta-themed party full of quirky cactus decor and piñatas. Using just balloons and streamers, you can turn any hotel room or guest house into a desert oasis. As for the tasty treats, margarita-flavored cupcakes and a nacho or taco bar make great party snacks.\n\nThis final fiesta will have all of your friends crashing for a siesta in the afternoon.\n\n#### Activity ideas:\n\n- Try out salsa dancing\n- Build your own taco bar\n- Take a swing at a pinata\n\n#### Destination ideas:\n\n- San Diego, California\n- Miami, Florida\n- Cancun, Mexico\n\n### 4. Glamping weekend\nBachelorette parties are perfect for escaping the stress of planning a wedding so why not escape to the great outdoors? For the bride who likes to explore and unwind, consider planning a weekend in the woods. Whether you decide to stay in a cabin or glamping tent, this weekend will be full of new experiences. Create a cozy atmosphere using lots of blankets and pillows to make your campsite feel like home. For party favors, you can make some adorable fire starter kits with matches or create your own rustic wood coasters.\n\nHead out to where the wild things are and create a weekend full of happy campers.\n\n#### Activity ideas:\n\n- Take a nature hike\n- Make s’mores around the campfire\n- Try outdoor sports like fishing or whitewater rafting\n\n#### Destination ideas:\n\n- Denver, Colorado\n- Jackson, Wyoming\n- Portland, Oregon\n\n### 5. Tropic like it’s hot\n\nTake the bachelorette party to the tropics for a weekend that feels like a mini-vacay. Palm leaf prints, fresh florals, and bold colors make this tropical party bright and cheery. Add some fun flamingo and pineapple decor to turn your room into a tropical oasis. Sip fruity cocktails by the pool or head to the beach for a fun day in the sun. This [tropical palm swimsuit](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/eventblossom_tropical_palm_swimsuit) is perfect for the occasion! \nGrab some fabulous straw beach hats, and bright pool floats for a pool party no one will forget.\n\nAs the bride says “aloha” to married life, take this weekend to pamper her best friends.\n\n#### Activity ideas:\n\n- Get group manicures and pedicures\n- Hang out poolside\n- Play prosecco pong\n\n#### Destination ideas:\n\n- Key West, Florida\n- Cabo San Lucas, Mexico\n- Palm Springs, California\n\n### 6. The disco ball dancing queens\n\nMamma Mia, here we go again! Tell the wedding party to bring their best platform shoes and sequin tops for an ABBA-inspired, 70’s themed bachelorette bash. Serve appetizers inspired by the decade. Chill by the beach or pool in the daytime, then hit the bars at night in your silliest ’70s outfits. \n\n#### Activity ideas:\n\n- Take Mamma Mia-inspired photo shoots\n- Go bar-hopping\n- Watch musicals in your PJs \n\n#### Destination ideas:\n\n- Los Angeles, California\n- Miami, Florida\n- Las Vegas, Nevada\n\n### 7. Last splash mermaid bash\nFor the mermaid bride trading her tail for a veil, celebrate her bachelorette by the sea. Use plenty of sparkles and soft pastel colors to decorate your under-the-sea party with bubbles, seashells, and sea creatures. As for dress code, have your mermaid squad pack their swimsuits and gift them beach towels as a party favor so they’ll have a souvenir to take home. Add some mermaid-themed snacks and dive in.\n\nWhether you’re by the pool or hanging at the beach, you can party your tails off in full mermaid fashion.\n\n#### Activity ideas:\n\n- Set up a Mermosa bar\n- Prepare for a night out with a mermaid glitter bar\n- Have a last splash pool party\n\n#### Destination ideas:\n\n- Charleston, South Carolina\n- Santa Monica, California\n- Seaside, Florida\n\n![bachelorette-party-ideas-mermaid](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/kUilxNyW9RZ88kfFcZAMv/b47120f894403d96e97ca19810ee8c33/bachelorette-party-ideas-mermaid.jpg)\n\n__Sources:__ Photobooth and koozie via [Vandi Fair](https://vandifair.com/mermaid-bachelorette-party/) | Mermaid glitter bar via [Rachel Emma Studio](https://www.rachelemmastudio.com/blog/2018/5/23/diy-ideas-for-pop-up-stations-at-your-wedding) | Macarons via [Taste by Spellbound](http://spellbound.bigcartel.com/)\n\n## Low-key bachelorette party themes\n\nFor the low-key bride, here are a few mellow ideas that fit any style and budget.\n\n### 8. Bachelorette slumber party\n\nHost a sleepover — or two — with your besties. Paint your nails, make delicious snacks, and watch some of the bride’s favorite movies. This bach theme is perfect for a stay-at-home bachelorette party or a vacation rental. If you’re up for it, you can throw in an outing like a brunch or a trip to a brewery.\n\n### 9. Manis and mimosas spa day\n\nOnly have a day to celebrate? No problem. Take the group on a spa day for facials, manicures, and relaxing massages. This is a great celebration to kick off with a mimosa brunch or enjoy champagne and light snacks without the day. The nice thing about this bachelorette theme is that you can do it anywhere. Your spa day can be one event in a bachelorette weekend or a stand-alone party. \n\n### 10. Backyard BBQ\n\nIf someone in your bridal party can share their home, why not host a backyard barbecue? This theme is super accommodating to brides or bridesmaids with families, jobs, and busy lives. Bring your cowgirl hat and cook up your favorite barbecue dishes. You can include yard games like darts or cornhole, blend some margaritas, or just hang out with your best friends.\n\n### 11. Yoga and wellness-themed\n\nWho says a bachelorette party has to be about late nights and partying? A wellness-themed bachelorette party is perfect for a bride who loves to take care of herself. You could attend a yoga class together or hire a yoga teacher to visit your vacation rental. Other activities might include a sauna, massages, meditation, or spin class. Food can include green juice, smoothies, or a meal out at your local vegan restaurant.\n\n### 12. Movie night\n\nHost a movie night in your home or backyard. You might want to rent a projector screen to watch the bride’s favorite movies on the big screen. Be sure to bring popcorn and other movie-friendly snacks. If you want to fit in other activities, consider a costume contest with [wedding boutique prizes](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/pre-wedding-activities/bachelorette-parties), movie-themed drinking games, or making specialty cocktails that go with the movie.\n\n### 13. Vintage vibe campout\n\nAirbnb and other rental sites offer trailer rentals. This can be the perfect setting for your vintage bachelorette party in the woods, [like this one](https://www.100layercake.com/2011/12/12/lets-get-cozy-bachelorette-party-shoot/). Bring a barbecue and some hot apple cider, play games, and listen to your favorite vintage tunes. Don’t forget to bring a camera to capture the adorable vintage vibes. \n\n### 14. Celestial celebration\n\nYour bride has found someone she loves to the moon and back — celebrate their love with a night amongst the stars. Hire a fortune teller to read your tarot cards and learn more about your star signs, getting in touch with the cosmos before the big day.\n\n### 15. Game night\n\nFor the casual yet competitive brides out there, why not host a game night? Have all your friends bring their favorite card games, board games, or drinking games if you want to get a little silly. Order takeout and have casual beers or cocktails as you spend the night laughing and playing together. \n\n## Celebrity bachelorette party themes\n\nYour bride is the star of her show. Help her feel like the star of every show with a dazzling celebrity-themed bachelorette party. \n\n### 16. The eras tour bachelorette fan party\n\nThrowing a party for a Swiftie? A Taylor Swift bachelorette theme is perfect for a Nashville retreat or a night out in your hometown. Tell your guests to dress as their favorite era, take pictures, and then hit the town. You’ll get plenty of attention on a bar crawl or at a trendy restaurant. \n\n### 17. Beyoncé bachelorette\n\nNo one throws a more fabulous party than Queen Bee herself. A Beyonce theme is ideal for a night out in the big city, whether it’s LA, Vegas, or New York. Guests can dress in their favorite looks and blast Beyonce as they get ready to go out. \n\n### 18. Love on tour bach\n\nIf your bride is a Harry Styles fan, she’ll adore a Love on Tour theme. Decorate your venue in pastel colors and play concert footage in the background. Bachelorette party attire can be anything from flowy hippy dresses to bright, 70’s-era tops — or better yet, dress up as Harry himself! \n\n### 19. Night in Paris\n\nEmbrace your inner sparkle with a night of glitz and glam. This theme goes well with champagne dinners or after a day at the spa. The dress code should involve shimmery items and the classic red lip. Consider a fashion show, complete with catwalks and catcalls from the party. If you're going out, grab a beret for everyone to wear and offer macarons as party favors. \n\n### 20. Bride to be in Glee\n\nCalling all Gleeks! When you send your bachelorette party invitations, tell your guests to dress as their favorite Glee character. You could spend a night binge-watching the show or head out for a bar crawl in your costumes. Food and drink ideas include “cafeteria-style” charcuterie boards, boozy slushies, and fondue “for two.” \n\n## Daring bachelorette party themes\n\nDoes your bride love the spotlight? Here are a few daring themes for her to show off her wild side before she enters married life.\n\n### 21. Wiggin out\n\nGet wiggy with it! Put on your silliest wigs and go out dancing with your crew. Other activities could include classic bachelorette party games, a silly photo shoot, or a dance party at home. Pair your wigs with extravagant outfits and enjoy dinner at a laidback venue before you hit the town.\n\n### 22. Bach and boujee\n\nTreat yourself to a night of indulgence. This theme includes gold decorations, luxurious spa treatments, and plenty of champagne. Make reservations at an elegant restaurant or cocktail bar. This can be a great opportunity for a boujee photoshoot or video.\n\n### 23. Casino night\n\nA destination bachelorette trip in Vegas is always fun. However, you can throw your own casino night anywhere. Dress up in your best cocktail attire and play card games or dice at home, or visit the closest casino. If you want to emphasize the Vegas theme, throw in an Elvis costume. Make sure to decorate with bold lights and bright colors.\n\n### 24. Fifty Shades of Grey\nFor the brides with a naughty side, host a Fifty Shades of Grey party. Have every guest bring a kinky gift for the bride. She can open her gifts at the party while enjoying snacks and themed drinks. Set out an empty journal or slips of paper to let guests contribute anonymous suggestions for how to put those gifts to good use.\n\n### 25. Champagne campaign\n\nPop the champagne! Champagne Campaign is a perfect theme for a bachelorette party or bridal shower. Enjoy a champagne brunch complete with pastries and other sweets. Or, have several types of champagne and offer tastings. For decoration inspiration, check out this [champagne balloon photo backdrop](https://karaspartyideas.com/2018/03/champagne-brunch-bridal-shower.html).\n\n### 26. Karaoke night\n\nGet silly with a karaoke night! Take the squad to your local karaoke bar or rent a karaoke machine and sing your favorite songs at home. This fun theme pairs well with fruity cocktails and fun, eccentric outfits. Don’t be afraid to let your silly side shine.\n\n## Adventurous bachelorette party themes\n\nHere are a few adventurous, outdoorsy bachelorette trip themes for brides who love to get out there. \n\n### 27. Winery weekend\n\nPlan a getaway to wine country! Napa Valley, California, is famous for producing some of the world’s best wines. It’s a great place to rent a vacation home and get away for the weekend. While you’re there, visit some renowned restaurants in Santa Rosa, go for a hike along the Russian River, or visit the coast about an hour away. \n\n### 28. Bae-watch beach bash\n\nTake your bride squad to the beach and pack your best “bae-watch” bikinis. Your bachelorette beach party can include surf lessons, suntanning, and tropical drinks. Any beach destination would work for this theme, but a warm climate like Southern California or Florida is ideal.\n\n### 29. Boots and bling before the ring\n\nGet on your hat and cowgirl boots for this country-themed bachelorette party. This is the perfect theme for destinations like Nashville, Tennessee or Austin, Texas. Even though you’re dressed in Western attire, don’t be afraid to shine with sequins, flashy jewelry, and plenty of pinks. \n\n### 30. The hunt is over\n\nThis jungle-themed bachelorette is like a mini-safari. Dress up in your favorite animal prints and explore the city of your choice. Let your bride show off her wild side — you can even complete the look with animal ears and tails as party favors.\n\n### 31. Last swing before the ring\n\nIs your bride a baseball fan? Head to a ballgame with your crew, dressed in your best flashy outfits. Bring signs and try to get your bride on the jumbotron! Beers and ballpark snacks are a must, but you can also pair this theme with a fun dinner or bar crawl after the game. \n\n### 32. Flannel fling before the ring\n\nFor the outdoorsy type, a cozy, campfire-themed bach party is perfect for fall. Wear your comfiest flannels and head out for a weekend in the woods. This can be a camping trip or a getaway to a rustic cabin. Make sure you pack some marshmallows for s’mores, hot chocolate, and other tasty fireside treats. \n\n### 33. Lake life weekend\n\nHead to the lake for a laidback weekend with your crew. Activities can include canoeing or kayaking, fishing, swimming, or just tanning by the water. Head into the local town for dinner, or stay in your rental cabin and cook together. \n\n### 34. Celebrating puppy love\n\nIf your bride is an animal lover, consider spending a day volunteering at your local animal shelter. Many shelters need volunteers to walk, play with, and help socialize their dogs. You might even be able to take the pups on a hike or spend a day at the park. The only challenge? Trying not to take one home! \n\n### 35. Vail before the veil\n\nA winter bachelorette party is perfect for a spring wedding — and there’s no better winter getaway than Vail, Colorado. Rent a cabin or book some hotel rooms and hit the slopes. Printed beanies are a great way for your group to stand out, whether you’re skiing, boarding, skating, or exploring town. \n\n### 36. Jetset to the next adventure\n\nFor the international bride! Design [bachelorette party invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-nail-down-bachelorette-party-invite-wording) that look like passports, then serve food and drinks from around the world. This is a budget-friendly option to explore new places without actually leaving home. \n\n### 37. Hiking and biking\n\nMake it an active bach party by planning hikes and bike trips to whichever destination you choose. Enjoy the scenery, visit local breweries, and take plenty of photos as you go. This is the perfect theme for a casual yet adventurous bride who loves the outdoors. \n\n## Classy bachelorette party themes\n\nFor the elegant brides, here are a few themes that will make your crew feel like royalty.\n\n### 38. High-tea party\n\nSwap the mimosas for tea and enjoy a sophisticated tea party, complete with finger sandwiches, sweets, and imported chocolates. Party decorations should include florals and bright colors. If fresh flowers are in your budget, they’ll add an elegant touch to the table.\n\n### 39. Painting and wine\n\nHost a wine and painting night with your bride squad. This is a unique bachelorette theme as it lets you make your own souvenirs. You can attend a wine-and-painting class, watch a YouTube video for instruction, or just grab your paintbrushes and get creative. To keep it budget-friendly, ask every attendee to bring a bottle of wine and a snack. If you don't drink all of the wine, the bride gets to keep it for future use.\n\n### 40. Brunch and bubbly\n\nEnjoy a classy brunch with a full mimosa bar [like this one](https://www.peachfullychic.com/domestic/entertain/fall-brunch-biscuit-mimosa-bar-ideas/). This can be the start of a longer bachelorette weekend or a standalone event. Decorations can include rose-gold balloons, flowers, and champagne bottle prints.\n\n### 41. Chop it like it’s hot cooking class\n\nPut your cooking skills to the test with a professional cooking class. It could be an in-person class at your local community center or an online class with a program like MasterClass. Pop a bottle of bubbly and get cooking while listening to the bride’s favorite tunes. For party supplies, consider cute custom aprons with the date and bride’s name!\n\n### 42. Kentucky derby\n\nGet “down and derby” with your squad. This theme is all about delicious Southern cooking and extravagant outfits. Make some mint juleps or sweet tea and hand out fun party favors like [these fabulous hats](https://ohhappyday.com/2017/04/kentucky-derby-party/). \n\n### 43. Garden party\n\nEmbrace your inner fairy princess with a frilly flower garden party. Dress up in pastel colors — you can even hand out fairy wings — and host a brunch or lunch in a green garden. This is a great chance to try your croquet skills. Decorations include fresh flowers, floral prints, tiaras, and sparkles. Serve plenty of sweet treats and tea or cocoa. \n\n## Dress-up bachelorette party themes\n\nIf you and your crew love to get creative, consider these fun dress-up themes and bachelorette group outfit ideas. \n\n### 44. Come On Barbie, let’s go party\n\nShe’s everything. He’s just (insert groom’s name). Celebrate your bride with pink everything, bright workout gear, and high heels at this Malibu pool party. You could choose classic Barbie attire or ask your goals to dress up as their favorite character from the Barbie movie. Other activities include rollerblading, a dance party, or hanging out on the beach.\n\n### 45. Rockstars meet up\n\nParty like a rockstar! Dress up as your favorite rockstars and hit the town. This is a great theme for a destination bachelorette party in Vegas or another big city. If your crew prefers to stay in, throw a karaoke party or play RockBand together.\n\n### 46. Back to the 90s\n\nHave your bride squad dress up in vintage outfits and dance to your favorite 90s bands. If you want to go out, bring a boombox and blast 90’s tunes as you travel from place to place. You can end the night watching 90’s movies and TV shows. \n\n### 47. Celebrate the 80s\n\nChannel your inner Madonna with this bachelorette theme featuring big hair and 80s tunes. Put on your best spandex outfits, slap RC cola labels on your drinks, and hit the town together. As a bonus, take your squad to a karaoke bar and perform like your favorite 80s artists.\n\n### 48. Time for a masquerade\n\nThrow a classic masquerade bash with your people. This is the perfect theme for a bachelorette trip to New Orleans — eat some jambalaya and beignets, throw on some masks and party beads, and let the good times roll.\n\n### 49. Gatsby themed bash\n\nCelebrate like it’s the roaring 20s with flapper dresses, jazz, and champagne cocktails. For inspiration, check out [this Great Gatsby party](http://theblissfulbalance.com/a-little-party-never-killed-nobody/). This theme can be tons of fun for a house party or daytime pool party. \n\n### 50. Breakfast at Tiffany’s\n\nChoose Tiffany-blue décor and pearls for this party. Ask your friends to wear their favorite black bachelorette party outfit and pair it with cat-eye glasses. Throw brunch at home or in a rented venue, then spend the day shopping and \ntreating yourselves.\n\n### 51. The Royal bachelorette\n\nMake your bride feel like a queen. Take inspiration from The Crown and throw a royal English bachelorette, including teatime and English treats. As a bonus, you can pick your royalty era and dress up as Victorian or Edwardian royalty.\n\n### 52. From muggle to Mrs.\n\nIf your bride is a Harry Potter fanatic, this is the theme for you. Make your own butterbeer, serve Bertie Bott’s Every Flavor Beans, and sort your party guests into Hogwarts houses. Your invitations and décor should revolve around the theme: “We solemnly swear we’re up to no good.”\n\n### 53. So fetch bachelorette\n\nYou can’t sip with us! Wear the classic pink outfits from Mean Girls and watch the movie together. Decorations can include burn book posters and cutouts of Aaron Samuels — maybe with the groom’s face. Print T-shirts with your favorite Mean Girls quotes as party favors.\n\n### 54. Happily ever after\n\nCelebrate your bride’s happily ever after with a fairytale-themed bachelorette party. Dress up as your favorite princesses, and make sure you give the bride a tiara. This is a great theme for a brunch or daytime bachelorette party.\n\n### 55. F-R-I-E-N-D-S\n\nIt’s The One Where She Gets Married! Pay tribute to the late, great Matthew Perry with a groovy bachelorette party based on the hit 90’s sitcom. Dress in vintage 90’s clothes, print custom Central Perk mugs or shot glasses, and create an iconic yellow picture frame photo booth.\n\n### 56. Unicorn glitter\n\nFor a girly bride who loves to go all-out, throw a unicorn glitter party. Tell everyone to wear their best sparkly outfits and hand out unicorn horns as party favors. This is one of the best bachelorette theme night outfits for an outgoing group who wants to attract plenty of attention when they hit the town.\n\n### 57. Getting meowied\n\nIs your bride a crazy cat lady? A kitty-inspired bachelorette can include cat ears, funny cat prints and T-shirts, and stuffed animals as party favors. One activity could be visiting a cat café. \n\n### 58. The Bachelorette\n\nShe’s ready to give out her final rose. If your squad is renting a mansion for your party, why not celebrate like you’re on The Bachelorette? Wear stunning cocktail dresses and binge-watch the series as you’re getting ready. For activities, pick your favorite date concepts from the show. \n\n### 59. Sex and the city\n\nGet inspired by the original iconic girl squad. This is a fabulous yet sophisticated theme for a bridal party that loves to dress up. Watch the TV series or movies as you get ready, then head out to your favorite cocktail bar dressed as the characters.\n\n### 60. Disney magic\n\nEvery bride deserves a magical bachelorette party. A Disney trip is an amazing choice for a destination bachelorette trip. However, you can also throw your own Disney Magic party at home with Disney-themed decorations, the bride’s favorite movies, and snacks and drinks inspired by the happiest place on Earth.\n\n### Find what you need to plan all your wedding activities at Zola\n\nOnce you pick your theme, it’s time to start planning. This is the fun part! You’ll find everything you need for the party, from [bachelorette party shirts](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/eventblossom_retro_bridal_party_fitted_tshirt) to the best [venues and vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors), at Zola. \n","body2":" \n\n### Bride's Final Fiesta\n\nPerfect for any time of year, this theme brings together delicious [food](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-food-ideas) and bright colors to create an atmosphere that makes you want to sip margaritas with your senoritas. Celebrate the bride to be with a fiesta themed party full of quirky cactus decor and pinatas. Using just balloons and streamers, you can turn any hotel room or guest house into a desert oasis. As for the tasty treats, margarita flavored cupcakes and a nacho or taco bar make great party snacks. \n\nThis final fiesta will have all of your girls crashing for a siesta in the afternoon. \n\n__Activity ideas:__\n- Try out salsa dancing\n- Build your own taco bar\n- Take a swing at a pinata\n\n__Destination ideas:__\n- San Diego, California\n- Miami, Florida\n- Cancun, Mexico\n\n![bachelorette-party-ideas-fiesta](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/68r9HBSRNt1Hlo6QPrs4Jp/2d888ba574a51c1765ac6b01893533ba/bachelorette-party-ideas-fiesta.jpg)\n\n__Sources:__ Fiesta sign via [Giggles Galore](https://gigglesgalore.net/boho-chicks-and-churros-fiesta-party/) | Fiesta cookies via [Cowtown Cookie Co.](https://www.cowtowncookieco.com/cookies) | Cactus balloons via [Design Improvised](https://designimprovised.com/2015/06/cactus-balloons.html) | Fiesta garland via [The House That Lars Built](http://thehousethatlarsbuilt.com/2018/04/printable-papel-picado-streamers.html/) | Siesta blanket and eyemasks via and [Simply Audree Kate](https://www.simplyaudreekate.com/bachelorette-weekend-arsenas-final-fiesta/) and [Brooke Marcella Photography](https://www.brookemarcella.com/)\n\n \n\n### Glamping Girls Weekend\n\nBachelorette parties are perfect for escaping the stress of planning a wedding so why not escape to the great outdoors? For the bride who likes to explore and unwind, consider planning a weekend in the woods for you and your girls. Whether you decide to stay in a cabin or glamping tent, this weekend will be full of new experiences. Create a cozy atmosphere using lots of blankets and pillows to make your campsite feel like home. For party favors, you can make some adorable fire starter kits with matches or create your own rustic wood coasters. \n\nHead out to where the wild things are and create a weekend full of happy campers. \n\n__Activity ideas:__\n- Take a nature hike\n- Make smores around the campfire\n- Try outdoor sports like fishing or whitewater rafting\n\n__Destination ideas:__\n- Denver, Colorado\n- Jackson, Wyoming\n- Portland, Oregon\n\n![bachelorette-party-ideas-glamping](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/aFK61BmuPalOGWV449AcE/802c15a17be4f288a8c81d230641d2e1/bachelorette-party-ideas-glamping.jpg)\n\n__Sources:__ Glamping tent and blankets via [Gypsy Canyon Baja](https://www.gypsycanyonbaja.com/) and [Ana and Jerome Photography](https://www.anaandjerome.com/) | Wooden coasters via [House of Hawthornes](https://www.houseofhawthornes.com/arrow-wood-slice-coasters/) | Camp rules via [Legally Crafty](https://www.legallycraftyblog.com/blog/a-weekend-in-the-woods-camp-themed-bachelorette-party) and [Just Add Confetti](https://www.justaddconfetti.com/) | S’mores bar via [Katherine Mendieta](http://www.katherinemendieta.com/travel/glamping-bachelorette-camp-wandawega-wisconsin)\n\n \n\n### Tropic Like It’s Hot\n\nTake the bachelorette party to the tropics for a weekend that feels like a mini-vacay. Palm leaf prints, fresh florals, and bold colors make this tropical party bright and cheery. Add some fun flamingo and pineapple decor to turn your room into a tropical oasis. Sip fruity cocktails by the pool or head to the beach for a fun day in the sun. Adorn some fabulous straw beach hats and bright pool floats for a pool party no one will forget. \n\nAs the bride says “aloha” to married life, take this weekend to pamper her special girls.\n\n__Activity ideas:__\n- Get group manicures and pedicures\n- Hangout poolside\n- Play prosecco pong\n\n__Destination ideas:__\n- Key West, Florida\n- Cabo San Lucas, Mexico\n- Palm Springs, California\n\n![bachelorette-party-ideas-tropical](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4dlWYjR63Dzu6Japx7Agt/87d6bb8f216631e54426f1bbfd9346b3/bachelorette-party-ideas-tropical.jpg) \n\n__Sources:__ Pastel party decor via [Everyday Pursuits](https://www.everydaypursuits.com/blog/2018/3/2/epic-palm-springs-bachelorette-party) & [Valorie Darling Photography](https://valoriedarlingphotography.com/) | Mimosa bar and floral ice cubes via [The Beauty Approach](http://www.injessiland.com/2017/06/08/vintage-tropical-baby-shower/) | Pool floats via [Madison Short](https://madisonrshort.com/tropical-bridesmaid-brunch/) and [Christine McFarlane Events](https://www.christinemcfarlaneevents.com/) | Flamingo party cups via [Boxwood Avenue](https://boxwoodavenue.com/blog/diy-flamingo-pineapple-party-cups) \n\n \n\n## Additional Bachelorette Party Themes for Every Bride\n\n\n### For the Low Key Bride\n- __No Boys Allowed Slumber Party:__ Watch endless movies, paint your nails and eat plenty of snacks for a sleepover-themed bachelorette like this one from [Studio DIY](https://studiodiy.com/2017/09/05/holographic-neon-slumber-party/).\n- __Mani’s and Mimosas Spa Day:__ Take the girls to a spa for some facials, manicures and of course, mimosas. \n- __Backyard BBQ:__ Perfect for when the weather is nice, invite your girl squad over for a chill backyard party full of barbeque and brews. \n- __Yoga Themed:__ For the yogi bride, “Namaslay” with your girls and find time to [relax](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/top-15-places-to-go-to-for-a-bachelorette-party) before the big day. \n- __Movie Night:__ Make it a marathon and wear your PJs for a cozy night in. Or, take the movie outside and set up a projector to watch under the stars. \n- __Vintage Vibe Campout:__ Go retro and unplug in a vintage trailer for a throwback weekend like this party from [100 Layer Cake](http://www.100layercake.com/bachelorette-shower/lets-get-cozy-bachelorette-party-shoot/).\n- __Celestial Celebration:__ Throw a star party and get in touch with the cosmos since the bride has found someone she loves to the moon and back. \n- __Game Night:__ Have all the girls bring their favorite board games and card games over and spend the night laughing and playing together. \n\n### For the Wife of the Party\n- __Winery Weekend:__ Hit the vineyards and feel like you’re on cloud wine with your crew. Tour multiple wineries for a weekend getaway that helps you stop and smell the rosé. \n- __Feyoncé Bachelorette:__ Since he put a ring on it, celebrate in true Beyoncé style with a glammed out bachelorette full of dancing and being fabulous.\n- __Brew and Views:__ Take the bride to be to a number of breweries around town and add some sightseeing onto your itinerary. \n- __Wiggin Out:__ Put on a silly wig with your crew and dance like nobody’s watching. Mix up hair colors and styles and go all out for the bride. \n- __Bach and Boujee:__ It's girls night out. Think gold, luxurious and lots of champagne. Indulge in a bachelorette party where you treat yourself and your crew. \n- __Casino:__ If you can’t make it to Vegas, bring the lively atmosphere to your bachelorette party with casino-themed games and decor. Throw in an Elvis costume and party it up Vegas style. \n- __Fifty Shades of Grey:__ Throw a panty party for the bride and gift her all kinds of intimates for her wedding night. \n- __Champagne Campaign:__ Pop the champagne, she’s changing her last name! Decorate the party with a champagne balloon wall like this one from [Kara's Party Ideas](https://karaspartyideas.com/2018/03/champagne-brunch-bridal-shower.html) for a great photo backdrop.\n\n### For the Adventurous Bride\n- __Baewatch Beach Bash:__ Wifeguard or bride to bae? Hit the beach for a fun weekend in the sun and sand.\n- __Boots and Bling Before the Ring:__ Saddle up and have a wild western party for the honkytonk bride complete with cowgirl boots, hats, and bandanas. \n- __The Hunt is Over:__ This jungle themed bachelorette lets you dress up as a wild thing and party it up with the bride. Lions, tigers, and bears—oh my!\n- __Last Swing Before the Ring:__ Attend a baseball game and root for #teambride as you guys round out the homestretch of wedding planning. \n- __Flannel Fling Before the Ring:__ Perfect for fall and winter, wear matching flannels for a cozy weekend in the cabin. \n- __Lake Life Weekend:__ Head to the lake for a relaxing weekend outside with your ladies like this photoshoot from [Tinker Tin](http://www.tinkertin.com/blog/tag/Camping). Take the boat out for a sunset cruise and “cheers” to the married life.\n- __Cheers Beaches:__ Rent a beach house and stay oceanside for a weekend celebrating the bride to be. \n- __Vail Before the Veil:__ Plan a trip to Colorado and spend the weekend hitting the slopes or cozying up by the fire.\n- __Traveling from Miss to Mrs:__ Make [bachelorette party invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-nail-down-bachelorette-party-invite-wording) that resemble passports or boarding passes and throw the jet-setting bride a travel-themed party with cuisine and drinks from all around the world.\n- __Hiking and Biking:__ No matter what city the party is in, try renting bikes for a cruise around town or hike a local nature trail. \n\n### For the Classy Bride\n- __Tea Party:__ Swap out mimosas for tea and throw a sophisticated tea party full of florals. \n- __Painting and Wine:__ Grab a glass and paintbrush and let the wine do the painting. This is one of the few bachelorette parties where you make your own souvenir. \n- __Brunch and Bubbly:__ Bring brunch to the bachelorette with a mimosa bar like this from [Peachfully Chic](http://www.peachfullychic.com/domestic/entertain/fall-brunch-biscuit-mimosa-bar-ideas/). \n- __Chop it Like it’s Hot Cooking Class:__ Test your kitchen skills and learn a new recipe with the girls by signing up for a cooking class. Pop open a bottle of bubbly and get cooking!\n- __Kentucky Derby:__ Get “Down and Derby” with your bride squad as you eat southern comfort food and wear extravagant hats like this party from [Oh Happy Day](http://ohhappyday.com/2017/04/kentucky-derby-party/).\n- __Garden Party:__ Host your own secret garden bachelorette and make your own floral bouquets or pick berries at a local farm. \n- __Night in Paris:__ Celebrate in Parisian style by hosting a bash with macarons, champagne, and French eats. \n\n### For the Bride Who Loves to Dress Up\n- __Rockstar:__ Party like a rockstar and dress as famous rockers before you hit the town. \n- __90s:__ If the bride is obsessed with all things 90s, have the bachelorette party dress up in vintage outfits and dance to your favorite 90s bands. \n- __80s:__ Girls just wanna have fun. Channel your inner Madonna and throw a bachelorette with big hair and tunes from the 80s. \n- __Masquerade:__ Perfect for a New Orleans bachelorette party, grab some masks and beads and let the good times roll. \n- __Gatsby:__ A little party never killed nobody! Dress up in flapper dancer outfits and throw a bach bash even Gatsby would be jealous of like this one from [The Blissful Balance](http://theblissfulbalance.com/a-little-party-never-killed-nobody/).\n- __Breakfast at Tiffany’s:__ Tiffany blue decor and pearls set the scene for the perfect party. Have the girls wear their favorite little black dress and a pair of sunglasses to complete the theme. \n- __The Royal Bachelorette:__ Make the bride feel like a true queen by throwing a royal bachelorette party complete with English treats and tea. \n- __Come on Barbie, Let’s Go Party:__ Pink everything. Host a Malibu pool party or wear your brightest workout gear for a party that is both plastic and fantastic. \n- __From Muggle to Mrs:__ Keep the butterbeer coming for the bride to be. Celebrate with your favorite wizards and solemnly swear you’ll be up to no good. \n- __So Fetch Bachelorette:__ You can’t sip with us. Wear the classic pink outfits and watch the movie on repeat for a bachelorette inspired by Mean Girls. \n- __Happily Ever After:__ For the fairytale bride, dress up as different princesses and throw a ball that doesn’t have to end at midnight. \n- __F-R-I-E-N-D-S:__ The One Where She Gets Married. Pay tribute to the classic 90s TV show by hosting a party with Central Perk coffee and a yellow picture frame photo booth. \n- __Unicorn:__ The bride found her unicorn! Throw her a magical bachelorette bash with glitter and rainbows to celebrate just how special she is. \n- __Getting Meowied:__ If your favorite cat lady is tying the knot soon, plan her last meow with plenty of kitty-inspired decorations and maybe a few furry friends. \n- __The Bachelorette:__ Who will get the final rose? Dress up in stunning cocktail dresses and bring out the roses and champagne. Bonus points if you stay in a bachelor-style mansion. \n- __Pineapple:__ Party like a pineapple and host a party full of tropical flavors and decor. \n- __Donut Delight:__ In case you ever needed an excuse to have a donut wall at your bachelorette party. Check out this donut board from [Going for Grace](http://www.goingforgrace.com/how-to-donut-board/) for inspiration. \n- __Sex and the City:__ This iconic girl squad makes the perfect theme for a bride who is both fabulous and sophisticated. Dress up as your favorite characters and play the TV series or movies in the background. \n\nAfter all the fun of a bachelorette party and [games](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-games) to be played, you’ll need to pick out the [perfect present](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) for the bride to be. The bride may have just found her match, but she’s always had a strong group of supportive girls surrounding her.","tag":"Bride's Crew","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":" All the tips you need so that your bachelorette party goes off without a hitch! 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Game\nYou can tell a lot about a person by their phone—whether it's packed with hundreds of photos of their dog, decked out in a bedazzled phone case, or full of notifications for unread texts and social media messages.\n\nAnd with the What's On Your Phone Game?, you can see what everyone's phone has to say about them; it's a fun way to see who in your Bride Tribe has the quirkiest things hidden on their phone in your bride tribe—and cal also be a great way to get to know the whole group on a deeper level. (Because this more of a \"get to know you\" game, this a fun icebreaker if you're hosting a bachelorette where some of your friends are meeting for the first time.)\n\n__Number of players: __\n\nUnlimited\n\n__What you need to play:__\n\nWith this fun game, you won’t need anything but your phones, a pen, and a prize (if you choose, that is!).\n\n__How to play:__\n\nFor this party game, print out the What's On Your Phone? printable game template and read each item on the list. As you read out each item, have your guests check the boxes that apply to them. Then, once you've read out all the items, have each person add up their totals and take turns sharing their tallies. Whoever has the most points wins!\n\n \n![What's On Your Phone Mock-Up](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1S7C6x5DqysPnOoLg1gxjD/c40fdbbf42c6ccddb7c9c02d0505104d/What_s_on_your_phone_Mock-Up.jpeg)\n[![What's On Your Phone Download Button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/47muOMwOYY50HbqfEgugh0/62959d21a6135999bed25a5b78f1bace/What_s_On_Your_Phone_Download_Button.png)\n](//assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1tgBOuS7ckRQhGJHI04Ox4/6f267cab8010cf0fc9030993a6af7010/What_s_On_Your_Phone.pdf)\n\n### Bachelorette Photo Challenge Scavenger Hunt\nIf you want your bachelorette party to have a more adventurous feel, hosting your own photo-centric bachelorette scavenger hunt is a great bachelorette party game option.\n\n__Number of players:__\n\nUnlimited\n\n__What you need to play:__\n\nEach team will need a camera and/or camera phone. Depending on how competitive your crew is, they may also want to rock some running shoes; that way, they can run from photo op to photo op—and not have to worry about uncomfortable shoes slowing them down!\n\n__How to play: __\n\nDivide your group into teams of two to three. Print out a copy of the photo scavenger hunt printable for each team—and let them know that the first team to capture all the photos on the list will be declared the winner.\n\nNot only is a photo scavenger hunt a fun, active way to celebrate your bachelorette party, it's also sure to generate some hilarious photos—making this one of the most funny bachelorette games on the list.\n\n \n![Bachelorette Photo Scavenger Hunt Mock-Up](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4j69VDx1UMVYYXIUkLVXJV/9279afe4fd54a35947d8711edbb667be/Scavenger_Hunt_Mock-Up.jpeg)\n[![Photo Scavenger Hunt Download Button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/24VigVhlX3a8P0z9UBKZdJ/194dfeb7563450bc3ba466f75dab25e7/Photo_Scavenger_Hunt_Game_Download_Button.png)\n](//assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5tmOCdEW94Ulw5AIsvuA78/58150c6704877ec2562db711c04a738c/Photo_Scavenger_Hunt_.pdf)\n\n### Bachelorette “Drink If…”\nIs your bachelorette crowd prefer cocktails and beer pong over good, old-fashioned game nights? If so, you'll need at least a few bachelorette party drinking games—and this bachelorette party idea might be exactly what you and your party pals need!\n\n__Number of players: __\n\nUnlimited\n\n__What you'll need:__\n\nBecause this is a drinking game, everyone will need a drink. (Got guests that don't drink alcohol? Not a problem—a [mocktail](https://https//www.tablespoon.com/meals/drinks/non-alcoholic-party-drinks-everyone-will-love) will work just fine!). You'll also need pens or pencils to check off items throughout the game.\n\n__How to play:__\n\nPrint out your \"Drink If..\" printable, grab your favorite drink, and have your fellow bachelorette party attendees do the same. Starting with \"Round 1,\" read out each item off the list—and have your guests check off each box that applies to them.\n\nAt the end of the round, whoever has checked off the most boxes takes a sip of their drink. Then, repeat for rounds two, three, and four.\n\n \n![Drink If Mock-Up](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/575Nq0I4wEszmTFKlLGcJU/0f5a3a5ff6586d80a665c44fa3781be1/Drink_If_Mock-Up.jpeg)\n[![Drink If Download Button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5BRcIyB0xZl1NoN3hWpVqw/47d17b904a5d441bc5f037b5a70b4933/Drink_If_Download_Button.png)\n](//assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4KvrjfhaXdySjMHxpMsdRJ/76fb7bdc718baed8eaedd8aeb485b890/Drink_If_Printable.pdf)\n\n## Printable Decorations For Your Bachelorette Party Games\n\n### Beach Bash Photo Booth\nIs all things beach the [theme of your bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-themes)? If the bachelorette party is being hosted on island time, set up a “shellfie” station in your hotel room with these free photo booth printables. Bachelorette party guests can strike their favorite pose and create photo keepsakes the bride can take home with her. (Need more ideas for your beachside bachelorette?) You can discover more ideas on how to create the perfect [island-themed bash](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-themes) here.\n\n__What you'll need:__\n\nTo use these printables, all you need is a printer and paper—and voila! Your DIY photo booth is ready to go!\n\n \n![Beach Bash Photo Booth Mock-Up](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1vMVOKdB9JyeMvJ4WNriwS/8d19d10699a61e7f98a8446426a52125/Beach_Bash_Photo_Booth_Mock-Up.jpeg)\n[![Beach Bash Photo Booth Props Download Button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4qil7Lfd8xIOH1txqMClgi/593a70f81fd74db0f63c2f7d7da18b9c/Beach_Bash_Photo_Booth_Props_Download_Button.png)\n](//assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4c3IF1HTHFjhcsTlrbTil9/f300eef4f0df65652a37aa94d02d8e8f/Beach_Bash_Photo_Booth_Props_Printable.pdf)\n\n## Ring Party Door Sign\nDecorate your party with a ring door sign taped on your front door. It’s only fitting since this is your last fling before you get the ring! This is especially useful for guests that are meeting you at a new location. Once they spot the ring, they’ll know exactly where they need to go!\n\n__What you'll need:__\n\nFor this printable bachelorette party decoration, you’ll need paper and a printer, cutting utensils, and tape to hang up each sign.\n\n \n![Door Sign Mock-Up](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3ybCgdDLqIlethWRhA6qD/3f29a6f16d4bad33044714b4104f26c8/Door_Sign_Mock-Up.jpeg)\n[![Diamond Ring Door Sign Download Button](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/721PDoNbRcJ6P5q8F8D4nu/e17349839ddf7c0830cb6b8c25f8aab4/Diamond_Ring_Door_Sign_Download_Button.png)\n](//assets.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4QxMUTTRCmn3Vt20Bk4a81/a62251d59907a8ee28543098d21ceefe/Diamond_Door_Sign.pdf)","body2":"## More Free Bachelorette Party Games \n\nReady for a full night of bachelorette party game fun? We found 19 additional free game options that would be the perfect additional to your last game night as a single person. Whether you're looking for a classy game night, something a bit more wild, and games fit for a classic girls’ night, we've got for every soon-to-be newlywed.\n\n### Clean and Classy Games\n- Like our What’s In Your Phone game? See what odd things your guests carry around with them by playing [What’s In Your Purse](https://www.elegantweddinginvites.com/wedding-blog/special-wednesday-top-5-free-printable-bridal-shower-games/). \n- Send the bride and groom off on the right foot by writing them a heart-felt (or funny) letter with this [printable](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/35778533/image/35780329/Advice-Happy-Couple). \n- Have guests that have yet to see your wedding day attire? See who knows your style best with these [Guess the Dress](https://de.bridetrendy.com/50152/10-bachelorette-party-und-braut-dusche-spiele-free-printables/) printables. \n- Wear your favorite lip color and have your bridal party kiss your single life goodbye with this framable [Kiss for the Future Mrs. keepsake](https://www.bespoke-bride.com/2016/08/17/kisses-for-the-future-mrs-free-printable-hen-party-guest-book/).\n- For all the celebrity experts out there, this is the perfect game! Match up some popular celebrity couples with this [Celeb Couple Quiz](http://www.mockeri.com/free-printable-bachelorette-games/).\n- See who really knows the bachelorette better than anyone else in the room playing [How Well Do You Know The Bachelorette?](https://www.prettyprintablesink.com/uncategorized/freebie-friday-how-well-do-you-know-the-bachelorette/). This [list of questions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-game-questions-youll-love) will help answer \"how well do you know the bride?\" for each of your party guests—and is a fun way to see who really knows you best.\n- Fill in the blanks with this [Advice for Newlyweds](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/35778533/image/35780130/Advice-Newlyweds) printable. Think of it as \"Newlywed Mad Libs,\" gather advice from your closest friends, from newlywed tips to travel inspiration—and use it to fill in the blanks.\n- Keep in mind that, because all these activities are clean and classy (and, as such, totally appropriate for family members), they can easily double as bridal shower games—even though the [vibe of a bridal shower and a bachelorette party can feel super different](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-vs-bridal-shower).\n\n### Wild Party Games\n- For this unique game, start a three-minute timer while your crew writes out classic bachelorette terms starting with each letter of the alphabet on this [Bachelorette Alphabet](http://www.mypartygames.com/free-printable-naughty-alphabet-game-bachelorette-party/) print out. Once your time’s up, read each out loud to see who takes home the cake!\n- Are you and your friends into lingerie? Have everyone bring a pair of lacy underthings—then play [Guess the Panties](https://www.partygameideas.com/bachelorette-guess-the-panties/) to see who brought what. It's like \"Guess Who\"—just for underwear!\n- Emojis have been around for years. See if you can figure out which emoji set means what playing this [Emoji Pictionary Game](https://www.mypartygames.com/free-printable-bridal-shower-emoji-pictionary-game/).\n- See who knows your love story best by having your guests fill out your [Love Story Map](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/40617199/image/40618511/Story-Map). \n- Want to kick off your bachelorette party with a solid pregame? If so, start off your party with a nice game of [Bachelorette Bottoms Up](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/40617199/image/40617544/Bottoms-Up-Game). \n- Put your thinking cap on and brainstorm quirky answers by playing [Bachelorette Balderdash](https://www.designsbymissmandee.com/2015/08/bachelorette-party-game-bachelorette-balderdash/). See which of your guests comes up with the best answers. \n\n### Girls’ Night In Games\n\n- If your group knows celebrities well, play [Match the Famous Couple](https://www.mypartygames.com/match-the-famous-couple-free-printable-game/). See who can correctly match well-known big name couples. \n- Unscramble classic bachelorette party phrases with this [Bachelorette Party Word Scramble](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/40617199/image/40617247/Marriage-Word-Scramble).\n- Go into a wild girls’ night with guidelines. Have each member of your group sign this [Bachelorette Party Agreement](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/40617199/image/40617542/Bachelorette-Party-Agreement) before starting. \n- We all know a fun night out on the town with your closest friends can hit you hard in the morning—especially if you have a few too many cocktails. Create a [Bachelorette Party Survival Kit](https://diyinspired.com/party-survival-kit-free-printables/) for all your guests—complete with everything you need to keep a hangover at bay (like water bottles and Tylenol.) Write the name of each member on printable labels or stickers to make sure everyone gets one.\n- Before the party starts, have the opposing partner fill out the [Quiz the Groom](https://www.shopstagandhen.com/products/quiz-the-groom-free-digital-download) printable. Once starting the party, quiz your guests to see who knows the groom best. \n- Get competitive and play [Bachelorette Pictionary](https://addionubilato.altervista.org/bachelorette-party-pictionary-game/) to see who scores the most points with this guessing game. Or, if drawing isn't your thing, have some fun with a rowdy game of charades!\n\n## Bachelorette Party Games You Can Buy \n\nComing up with your own bachelorette party games is great. But there are plenty of ready-to-go games that you can pick up at the store!\n\nHere are a few bachelorette party games you can buy to have on hand for the festivities:\n\n- __Bachelorette Bash.__ This bachelorette party game (which is available on [Amazon](https://www.amazon.com/Bachelorette-BASH-Party-Games/dp/B086P8GS5V/ref=asc_df_B086P8GS5V/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=513296421741&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=5096604817470211460&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9033611&hvtargid=pla-1260272780798&psc=1)) combines from classic slumber party games (like Truth or Dare and Never Have I Ever) with bride-centric trivia and other fun party games to create an experience you and your crew won't soon forget!\n- __Jenga.__ Jenga is a party favorite—and that includes for bachelorette parties!\n- __Pin the tail on the donkey.__ Pin the tail on the donkey may remind you of birthday parties when you were a kid. But there are *ahem* more adult versions that might feel more at home at a bachelorette party—especially if you're going for a more wild vibe.\n- __Cards.__ Having a set of cards on hand is a must for a bachelorette party—as it opens up the possibility of playing an endless number of card games, whether that's Crazy 8's, Go Fish, or a fun game of poker.\n\n## Bachelorette Party Game Prizes \nWant to reward your bride tribe for participating in your bachelorette party games? Here are some prize ideas that you can share with the winners—or with all your party guests as a way to say \"thanks for playing\" :\n\n- A personalized keepsake, like a water bottle or t-shirt \n- A bottle of champagne (or sparkling cider for the non-alcoholic crowd)\n- A gift certificate (for example, a coffee gift card or a gift certificate for a mani/pedi)\n\nYou want your bachelorette party to be an event you and your friends will never forget—and these bachelorette party games will help you create the kind of fun, unforgettable experience you're looking for!\n\nNeed more bachelorette party tips? For more planning tips, take a look at our guide to [bachelorette parties](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pack-for-a-bachelorette-party)—and check out our packing list for the bachelorette weekend so you don’t skip any essentials. And don’t forget to send [thank you cards](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop) after the event. \n\nCheers to your bachelorette party festivities!\n\n__Sources:__[ Elegant Wedding Invites ](https://www.elegantweddinginvites.com/wedding-blog/special-wednesday-top-5-free-printable-bridal-shower-games/)| [My Party Games 1](http://www.mypartygames.com/free-printable-naughty-alphabet-game-bachelorette-party/), [2](https://www.mypartygames.com/free-printable-bridal-shower-emoji-pictionary-game/), [3](https://www.mypartygames.com/match-the-famous-couple-free-printable-game/) | [Alexandra Winzer](https://alexandrawinzer.com/die-3-herzlichsten-spiele-fuer-den-junggesellinnenabschied/) | [Popsugar 1](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/40617199/image/40617247/Marriage-Word-Scramble), [2](https://www.popsugar.com/smart-living/photo-gallery/40617199/image/40617542/Bachelorette-Party-Agreement) | [Debridetrendy 1](https://de.bridetrendy.com/50152/10-bachelorette-party-und-braut-dusche-spiele-free-printables/), [2](https://de.bridetrendy.com/65163/diy-bachelorette-party-survival-kit-und-free-printables/) | [Shop Stag and Hen](https://www.shopstagandhen.com/products/quiz-the-groom-free-digital-download) | [Bachette](https://bachette.com/blogs/blog/free-printable-bachelorette-bingo-game) | [BeSpokeBride](https://www.bespoke-bride.com/2016/08/17/kisses-for-the-future-mrs-free-printable-hen-party-guest-book/) | [Mockeri](http://www.mockeri.com/free-printable-bachelorette-games/) | [Designs by miss Mandee](https://www.designsbymissmandee.com/2015/08/bachelorette-party-game-bachelorette-balderdash/) | [The House of Bachelorette 1](https://www.designsbymissmandee.com/2015/08/bachelorette-party-game-bachelorette-balderdash/), [2](https://www.thehouseofbachelorette.com/FREE_Bachelorette_Party_Checklist_p/free000chcklist.htm) | [Bachelorette Party Freebies](https://www.bachelorettepartyfreebies.com/free-printable-bachelorette-party-games/) | [E Wedding Favors](http://www.eweddingfavors.com/inspire/fun-bridal-shower-games-ideas/) ","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Planning your wedding shower and not sure who to invite? 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From weekend getaways to nighttime options, explore the best and most unique bachelor party ideas.","author":"Jane Chertoff and Georgie Darling","publishedAt":"2024-11-08T11:00-05:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3tsqFK8yqAYtlWDMjoh4FA/7633b0eb185f8df51dfe0d0ae0cedef8/kats-weil-CLD1i8hp008-unsplash.jpg","altText":"Low angle of groomsmen holding beer bottles and having a celebratory toast"},"heroCredit":" Kats Weil via Unsplash","heroCreditUrl":"https://unsplash.com/photos/low-angle-of-men-holding-beer-bottles-and-having-a-toast-CLD1i8hp008","tldr":"## Inside this article\n- Bachelor party ideas - weekend getaway ideas\n- Daytime bachelor party ideas\n- Nighttime bachelor party activities\n- Creative bachelor party ideas","body":"__TLDR:__\n- Bachelor parties don't have to be crazy events, as you can have something classy and create a great experience for your group.\n- Our list of ideas is comprehensive and contains ideas for all types of folks.\n- Just because we use the term \"bachelor party\" there are a lot of other instances where these event ideas will work.\n\n## Let's get started with bachelor party planning!\n\nAh, the bachelor party. The pre-wedding ritual of celebrating a groom before the wedding. Typically, while the bride-to-be spends her time at her bachelorette party, the groom-to-be would hold bachelor parties that involve a weekend away, a few nice meals, drinking, and other daytime activities that suit the groom’s style with his close friend(s) and [groomsmen](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/groomsmen-etiquette-101-a-beginners-guide). \n\nWe’ve come to understand that a great bachelor party consists of wild weekends full of debauchery—and they certainly can be. However, don’t get caught up in the stereotype: A bachelor party can be anything you want it to be. This [Reddit thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingplanning/comments/151d2at/need_bachelor_party_ideas/) proves it.\n\nZola has compiled a comprehensive list of ideas for bachelor party games and activities. So, whether you’re into the great outdoors, a super sports fan, or want to settle into the traditional bachelor party planning mentality, we have ideas for you.\n\nOf course, we also enlisted the help of a few experts, including McKenna Folmar, a wedding planner at [Events by McKenna](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-planners/events-by-mckenna). \"When it comes to bachelor parties, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach—especially with today’s creative grooms and their friends,\" she says. \"From sentimental gatherings to over-the-top adventures, bachelor parties have evolved far beyond the typical night out.\" So, are you ready for some great ideas? \n\nOnce you’ve read through the best bachelor party ideas below, read through our step-by-step guide on [planning a bachelor party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bachelor-party) to really get the wheels in motion.\n\n## Bachelor party ideas - weekend getaways \n\nIf your [bachelor party guests](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-to-invite-to-a-bachelor-party) live in various states (or even countries), it might be best to plan a [weekend away](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/best-bachelor-party-destinations). Whether meeting in a centralized location, or somewhere new and exciting, there are many different types of multi-day travel ideas for you and your friends to celebrate your [bachelor party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bachelor-parties).\n\nWhy are weekend getaways popular? \"Destination parties give the groom a mini-vacation before the wedding,\" reveals Folmar. \"It’s a chance to escape the routine and spend quality time with friends in a memorable location. These trips tend to go all out with fine dining, epic night-outs, and a sense of adventure.\"\n\n### 1. __Rent a cabin in the woods__ \nIf you’re someone who likes the idea of hanging out with your friends out in nature, try going this direction. Through platforms like [Airbnb](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/airbnb_airbnb_gift_card), you’ll be able to secure an amazing house or cabin that fits your entire group.\n\n### 2. __Visit a national park__ \nThe recent craze of collecting National Park stamps has nature lovers traveling near and far to see the best Mother Earth has to offer. Whether you decide on the Florida Everglades or California’s Yosemite there are 61 different parks to choose from in the USA.\n\n### 3. __Head off to Las Vegas__\nIt’s quintessential bachelor party territory. So grab a few buddies and head over to Sin City. Just remember: What happens in Vegas doesn’t always stay in Vegas.\n\n### 4. __Take a cruise__ \n[Cruise ships](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/cruise-lines) are a unique bachelor party option suitable for everyone in your bachelor party thanks to a bevy of entertaining options like bars, casinos, and pool decks.\n\n### 5. __Go camping__ \nSome of the best bachelor party camping ideas are hiking, fishing, or just hanging out with friends around a campfire.\n\n![Bachelor Party Ideas Camping](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2Jz6zYMC0nFbe9akXYL6QA/6fbb6f7d51fd9269617bc6f7a3eb7784/Bachelor_Party_Ideas_Camping.jpg)\nPhoto by Scott Goodwill on Unsplash\n\n### 6. __Visit the Kentucky Bourbon Trail__\nThis is one of the best bachelor party ideas for bourbon lovers, and the area surrounding Louisville is a must-go. Take a bus tour of popular bourbon distilleries—without having to worry about a designated driver.\n\n### 7. __Go to a live music festival__ \nIf you and your crew are big on music and partying, hit a major music festival together to enjoy the live band and night raves.\n\n### 8. __Visit a new country__ \nIf getting a new stamp on your passport sounds like an amazing idea, grab your crew and venture out. Check [airlines](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/airline) for deals and jump on an opportunity.\n\n### 9. __Rent an RV__ \nOutdoor bachelor party ideas don’t always have to involve the elements. While road tripping with your buddies may take longer than a weekend, rent an RV and make your way down a scenic road intended to be covered in a couple of days. Try the California coast or the Blue Ridge Parkway in the Carolinas.\n\n### 10. __Go off to the races__ \nIf dressing in seersucker and rocking a koozie are two of your favorite things, you might want to head off to the horse races. From the Kentucky Derby to the Preakness races in Maryland, there are many big events to choose from where you and your friends can sip on Mint Juleps and enjoy the weekend.\n\n### 11. __Plan a beach getaway__\nAccording to Brittney Poole, wedding planner at [Forever Moments](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-planners/forever-moments--2), heading surfside is a laid-back idea. \"Many of my couples tell me they take the weekend to relax on the sand,\" she says. \"Specifically, going during a festival or air show also makes the experience more memorable.\" One of her couples also did an over-the-top bach experience on the beaches of Cancun.\n\n### 12. __Opt for an urban event__\nAccording to Folmar, destination bachelor parties are still going strong, and she cites Nashville and Miami as topping the list for an unforgettable weekend of festivities. \"Whether it's booking a suite at a top resort, hitting exclusive clubs, or lounging by the pool with VIP service, these experiences are all about luxury and indulgence,\" she adds.\n\n### 13. __Rent a ski cabin__ \nWhen it comes to the best winter bachelor party ideas, renting a ski cabin is among the top. Being in an A-frame in the middle of the mountains is a great way to add in a sporting adventure while kicking off your bachelor party celebration through bonding with your friends.\n\n![pexels-nathan-moore-2479641](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3I66GIrQv6FKgSQvSjDMzy/dd5366b33b5748a1c167f61370b32e9a/pexels-nathan-moore-2479641.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Nathan Moore via Pexels\n\n## Daytime bachelor party ideas \n\n### 14. __Go for a hike__ \nSetting out on a day hike is a great way to enjoy your surroundings and have plenty of time for meaningful moments with your friends. Sometimes cheap bachelor party ideas like this one are the best for a little bonding time. \n\n### 15. __Float down a river__ \nGrab an inner tube and float along the river, if possible. Some locations even have bars and restaurants at various stops along your tube ride.\n\n### 16. __Sign up for an obstacle course__\nInstead of an individual or singular event, try signing up for an obstacle course that puts you together in teams. This is one of the most memorable sober bachelor party ideas that you’ll all enjoy. \n\n### 17. __Try paintballing__ \nIf competition is your thing, split into teams for a few rounds of paintball outside.\n\n### 18. __Throw a backyard BBQ__ \nFire up the grill, get out the floaties (if you have access to a pool), and throw an awesome BBQ bachelor party. If you or your friends don’t have an outlet to host a BBQ party, try looking online to see if you can rent a house in your area for the day.\n\n### 19. __Hit a food and wine festival__\nLooking for bachelor party food ideas for a groom who’s a foodie? Bring together the most delicious celebration by hitting up a food and wine festival. From Disney’s Epcot to the Catalina Wine Mixer, food and wine festivals are always a huge hit. Look up local food festivals nearby or in the surrounding cities.\n\n![Bachelor Party at Wine Festival Winery](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2c8XzZcUHfGkXKGEEYivs5/77ceac3e5672f71e2242a1f0e0454047/Bachelor_Party_at_Wine_Festival_Winery.jpg)\nPhoto by Khuc Le Thanh Danh on Unsplash\n\n### 20. __Take a brewery tour__ \nMany cities around the country pride themselves on their expansion of craft breweries. While places like Denver and Asheville have become popular, look around for local breweries in your city and see what flights of beer or tours they’d be happy to offer you and your friends for a bachelor party. Jump in a party bus and let someone else take the wheel for the day while you sit back and enjoy with friends.\n\n### 21. __Go on a food tour__ \nYou can live in a city or neighborhood for years and not know about all the best eats. A food tour is a great way to appease the empty stomach and the tastebuds.\n\n### 22. __Visit a vineyard__\nWhile you may need to head out of a city for this one, you may find that a beautiful vineyard is closer than you imagined. Find one within a few hours of you and enjoy a day full of wine tasting and cheese.\n\n### 23. __Go to a monster truck rally__ \nWatch cars crush other cars—a truly unique experience!\n\n### 24. __Buy tickets to NASCAR__\nThere are so many motorways consistently hosting NASCAR races. For your bachelor party, pick a track closest to you and see what driving fast really means.\n\n### 25. __Take a white water rafting trip__\nNothing says teamwork like sitting in a boat with your buddies as you’re scaling down the rapids.\n\n![White Water Rafting Bachelor Party Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2KUTR28vXDchkwKGjGy1cP/9d0aaed0c950cff10a0053240d68c972/White_Water_Rafting_Bachelor_Party_Ideas.jpg)\nPhoto by Anna Sullivan on Unsplash\n\n### 26. __Rent ATVs__ \nRide your way through some rough terrain on ATVs.\n\n### 27. __Go hunting__ \nOkay, so this is one of the more unique bachelor party ideas on our list: Skeet shooting. Hunting's humane cousin, skeet shooting requires a level of precision and skill. Compete against your friends to see who has the highest levels of concentration and dexterity.\n\n### 28. __Learn a new skill__ \nWhether you try painting, cooking, or axe throwing, find a local artisan who can teach your crew something new.\n\n### 29. __Do a night of go-kart racing__ \nGo-karts are fun no matter what age you are. Put the pedal down and whoop it up. This idea is a good one for alcohol-free friends.\n\n### 30. __Take a risk__ \nAccording to Folmar, adventure-themed bachelor parties are a big hit. \"Think weekend getaways filled with hiking, camping, and even extreme sports like rock climbing, white-water rafting, or zip-lining,\" she says. \"These trips are great because they not only offer a thrill but also give the groom a chance to bond with his closest friends in a natural setting, away from the noise of everyday life.\"\n\n### 31. __Rock climb__\nWhether on inside boulders or out in nature, there are plenty of mountains to be climbed by you and your guys.\n\n### 32. __Visit a theme park__ \nIf you love rollercoasters, find the closest one and see how many times you and your friends can ride the most thrilling one.\n\n![Ideas for Bachelor Parties Amusement Park Roller Coaster](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4jwtDybLrBToqumG7qC4mH/987c130f0d70a7be5fcbf134877ee401/Ideas_for_Bachelor_Parties_Amusement_Park_Roller_Coaster.jpg)\nPhoto by Jacob Capener on Unsplash\n\n### 33. __Try a tour or an Airbnb Experience__\nLook up local tours or experiences via booking platforms. It may surprise you what you learn that your home city or the city you’re staying in has to offer.\n\n### 34. __Go fishing__ \nThere’s a fish in your area to catch. A fishing trip is a great way to bond and pass the time with your friends for a memorable bachelor party.\n\n### 35. __Learn to surf__ \nWhile this activity pertains to those closest to the ocean, surfing is a great athletic activity that will count as your workout for the weekend.\n\n### 36. __Play competition games__ \nSpeaking of competition, bring the edge up a notch by having your party compete in competitive games. This can be anything from beer Olympics to friendly pick-up basketball.\n\n### 37. __Participate in a scavenger hunt__\nDon’t assume that low key bachelor party ideas are any less fun than those that require more time or money. Divide your party into teams and compete in a local scavenger hunt game—or design your own.\n\n### 38. __Go golfing__ \nIf the groom-to-be is big into his sports, consider some bachelor party golf ideas. It's a great way to enjoy hours of bonding while spending time outside with your friends. Bonus points if you and your friends have similar skill sets and can compete out on the course.\n\n![Golfing at Primland Resort for Groomsmen Bachelors](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7GjrR3Cu3eLavfTqe68UrF/cc74a4d965fa8b2af29e2cd886ea6c9b/Golfing_at_Primland_Resort_for_Groomsmen_Bachelors.jpg)\nPhoto by Kenan Kitchen on Unsplash\n\n## Nighttime bachelor party activities \n\n### 39. __Stargaze__\nWhether you’re searching for a sky of stars atop a mountain or in a field of fireflies, nature can add a surreal lens to your bachelor activities.\n\n### 40. __Go to a concert__\nIf your favorite band or musician is coming to a venue close to you, invite your friends along for a themed bachelor party. Hire a driver for the night to get you there and back home safely.\n\n### 41. __Eat a fancy dinner__\nElevate the usual bachelor experience with a special evening at a luxe restaurant.\n\n### 42. __Hit up a comedy club__ \nIf you’re looking for funny bachelor party ideas, this has the potential to be up there with the best.\n\n### 43. __Host a game night__ \nFrom Monopoly to Code Names, if you love board games or video games, invite your friends over for a game night.\n\n### 44. __Set up a bar crawl__ \nHave your Best Man (or most responsible person in the group) plan a themed bar crawl for your bachelor night.\n\n![INLINE JuliaKinnuenPhotography 1080x720 Melissa&Nic](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1BhFecxn3T47gvmOVgu1xo/1c0e099b74cabc306fa0cc21f22bd901/INLINE_JuliaKinnuenPhotography_1080x720_Melissa_Nic.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Julia Kinnunen\n\n### 45. __Sing karaoke__ \nRent a room, order some drinks, and sing your heart out to your favorite hits.\n\n### 46. __Escape the room__ \nHost your bachelor party at an escape the room venue, where the mental skills of everyone attending will work together to help you all escape.\n\n### 47. __Interactive experience__ \nFor fun bachelor party ideas that offer something a little different, try an interactive dinner. If you’ve never tried a murder mystery dinner or gone to Medieval Times, we highly recommend this entertaining meal style.\n\n### 48. __Go to a sporting event__ \nThere’s almost always a pro-sports game happening close by—even better if you go see the groom’s favorite team.\n\n### 49. __Hit the arcade or do laser tag__ \nBarcades—bar and arcade combination locations are popping up in most major cities. Sip on drinks and play your favorite old-school video games or test those rusty laser tag skills.\n\n### 50. __Go bowling__ \nBetween drinking pitchers of beer and hitting strikes or spares, you and your friends are bound to have an amazing time at your bachelor party.\n\n![Bowling for Bachelor Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1YcxDZF9gbL50SmqtT0wf/62b2b76fd7fd2c3928b09ab6e9f1b489/Bowling_for_Bachelor_Party.jpg)\nPhoto by Karla Rivera on Unsplash\n\nFinish each day with some nighttime fun that will keep the party going—if you have the energy. Just like that, you have a full bachelor party itinerary—no matter what kind of weekend you’re hoping to have with your crew. \n\n## Creative bachelor party ideas \n### 51. __Plan a sports weekend__\nDo you and your crew love sports? Turn it into a weekend event! \"For sports-loving grooms, planning a weekend around a major sporting event—like a championship game or golf tournament—is a great way to celebrate,\" says Folmar. \"A baseball road trip, golf outing, or even renting out a suite at a stadium can make for an incredible time.\"\n\n### 52. __Get sentimental__\nIt's ok to feel nostalgic. \"We’ve seen guys opt for a low-key weekend at a family cabin or a meaningful location,\" recommends Folmar. \"Others have arranged dinners with close friends and family members, where they share toasts, stories, and good company in a relaxed setting.\" These events foster a deep connection while reminiscing. \n\n### 53. __Build on a theme__\nThere is also an uptick in creative events. \"From themed murder mystery dinners to escape room challenges, the focus is on making the event interactive and engaging,\" Folmar says. \"For those looking to add a bit of creativity, themed parties can range from classic black-tie dinners to ‘80s throwback nights or movie marathons.\"\n\n### 54. __Go over the top__\nAt times, life calls for a once-in-a-lifetime experience, such as private yacht charters, helicopters, or renting out venues. According to Folmar, \"These events are all about luxury, with no detail overlooked—high-end catering, private entertainment, and exclusive locations are all part of the package.\"\n\n### 55. __Check things off the groom's bucket list__\nHave something on your bucket list? Build it into the bach party! \"Whether it’s skydiving, a cross-country road trip, or attending a once-in-a-lifetime concert, these bachelor parties are designed around a dream experience the groom has always wanted to do,\" suggests Folmar. Not only is it exciting, but the groom gets to do an amazing activity with his BFFs by his side.\n\n![Photo by Kimson Doan](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/45R0RRe3PJQVlgHKg67hRb/23ca90e54e88a6fccf5e4c9b904b0dde/Photo_by_Kimson_Doan_.jpg) Photo by [Kimson Doan](https://unsplash.com/photos/group-of-people-setting-up-campfire-AZMmUy2qL6A)\n\n## Why use the term \"bachelor party\" for our ideas?\n\nBTW: we use the term “bachelor party” throughout this article. But if you’re planning a bach bash, a bachelorx party, a wedding send-off, a [joint bach party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/joint-bachelor-bachelorette-party-games), or something else, we hope you have just as much fun trying out the ideas above.\n\n## How to personalize the bach bash\n\"No matter the style, bachelor parties have become an extension of the groom’s personality, offering endless opportunities for creativity and fun,\" says Folmar. \"Whether it’s an intimate gathering or an over-the-top celebration, the best bachelor parties are the ones that reflect the groom’s interests and bring together the people closest to him.\"\n\nNo matter which picks you choose from our list, you're sure to have a good time. Fill your bachelor party itinerary with these fun group activities that all your best men will enjoy. Are you headed to a bachlor party and need a gift for your groom? 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","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2018-12-18T18:35:35.713Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6xYvE1cGvmqiEWoqyMSoy0/c820939acd9d2ea06c136a83dc1d8a41/Hero_VentolaPhotography.jpg","altText":"groom and groomsmen"},"heroCredit":"Ventola Photography","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding-photographers/ventola-photography","body":"## What Is a Bachelor Party?\n\n- A bachelor party is common pre-wedding ritual that honors the groom as he celebrates his “last night(s)” as a single man with his closest buddies. \n- Traditionally a group of close male friends throw the bachelor party in the groom’s honor.\n- A bachelor party typically lasts for an entire weekend, but may also just be a single day or evening. It occurs either near the groom’s home or at a specially chosen destination. \n- Typical bachelor parties involve at least one (or a few) nice meals at restaurants, drinking and bar hopping, and some daytime activities like playing or watching live sports, hiking or fishing, or hanging by the beach or pool. \n\n## Who Throws The Bachelor Party?\n\nWhile traditionally the groom’s wedding party—the man of honor and groomsmen—throw the bachelor party, really anyone who is close to the groom can plan it. If the groom has chosen to not have a wedding party, or if it’s not ideal or possible for the best man to handle this responsibility, the following people would be good candidates:\n\n- a sibling of the groom\n- a close cousin of the groom\n- a group of the groom’s long-time coworkers\n- a dear childhood friend of the groom\n\nOrganizing a large group of guys to make travel plans, book hotel rooms, and maneuver in and out of public spaces for a weekend takes special skills. Not every friend or relation will be the ideal person to plan a bachelor party. Here are some questions you should ask when deciding if your best man, groomsman, or other buddy or relative should throw the bachelor party:\n\n1. Is he close enough to the groom to know what he will want from his bachelor party experience?\n2. Is good at handling logistics, making reservations, and organizing groups of people?\n3. Does he have good communication skills?\n4. Can he keep track of costs to make sure expenses are appropriately settled up during or after the party is over?\n\n## Who Should You Invite to a Bachelor Party?\n\nThe invite list for a bachelor party is pretty much up to the groom. He should make a list of names and contact information for everyone he’d like to include in his special day or weekend, and hand it off to the bachelor party organizer(s) to send out an invitation. If the party organizers feel like being fancy, an online invitation is generally formal enough for a casual event like a bachelor party. A group email also works in lieu of formal invitations.\n\nWhile most bachelor parties are all-male gatherings, there’s no hard-and-fast rule that says women can’t be invited to a groom’s weekend of honor. It’s his weekend, after all, so if he is especially close to his sister or a few female friends and wants them present, go with it. It might change the group dynamic and/or itinerary slightly, but follow the groom’s wishes.\n\nIn general, the list of bachelor party invitees will include some or all of the following people:\n\n- The best man\n- The groomsmen\n- Other close friends of the groom\n- Siblings, soon-to-be-siblings, or same-age relatives of the groom\n- Close co-workers of the groom who will also be invited to the wedding\n\n## Who Should You NOT Invite to a Bachelor Party?\n\nThere are only two major rules of thumb when determining who should not be put on the invitation list for a bachelor party:\n\n1. __Anyone who would make the groom feel uncomfortable:__ As this celebration is all about the groom, make sure that everyone who’s invited is someone that he feels comfortable being himself (in various states) around. People like the groom’s father (or even the bride’s father), his more senior relatives, former coaches or teachers, or any buddies with whom he’s had tension or difficult relations with might not be the right candidates.\n2. __Anyone who’s not also invited to the wedding:__ It’s a standard rule of etiquette for all pre-wedding festivities that invitations should only be sent to people who will also make the guest list for the wedding itself. Otherwise, a very awkward and uncomfortable situation may arise.\n\n## Who Pays for The Bachelor Party?\n\nThe guys who plan and attend the bachelor party—that is, everyone except the groom—typically share the costs of the night or weekend. The groom is generally treated to this revelry (or debauchery?) as a gift from his closest buds, who should cover his portion of the expenses and split them among the group.\n\nThe only exception to this practice of “groom goes free” is if the bachelor party is held at a far-off and/or expensive destination. If the decision is made to take the bachelor party to Europe or the Caribbean, for example, the groom might want to pay for his own travel or chip in for the hotel or Airbnb rental. If it’s important to him to have a luxe or exotic experience for his bachelor party, it’s a nice gesture to offer to defray the costs of that wish for his friends who want to participate but don’t have unlimited budgets.\n\n## Budgeting Tips for Bachelor Parties\n\nThe money portion of bachelor parties can get sticky, to say the least. When spirits are flying high (in more ways than one), it’s easy to throw budgetary caution to the wind: another round of shots! Let’s order the prime rib! The entrance fee to that club is totally worth it! Then, when the final tallies have been added up in the harsh light of day and everyone is told what they owe, shock and dismay may set in.\n\nTo prevent sticker shock at the end of the weekend, and to make sure everyone who attends is comfortable with the anticipated costs, follow these best practices when it comes to talking $$$ about bachelor parties.\n\n- The party planner(s) should do a some quick guesstimating ahead of time—like when invitations are sent, or early as plans are being formed—and __provide a rough estimate__ for how much each dude will need to contribute financially for the weekend. This will help guys who are on tighter budgets make informed, wise decisions about whether or not they can attend.\n- __Pick a few big-ticket splurges__ that everyone can agree on ahead of time, such as tickets to a pro sports game, a private yacht cruise for the day, or a fully loaded rental home. Then let folks choose their own level of spending for smaller things, like breakfasts and drink orders. This will allow budget-minded guys to choose cheaper options wherever it doesn’t impact the group’s activities.\n- Pick __one responsible point person__ to be in charge of tracking the group’s shared expenses. Have him use an expense-tracking and money-sharing app, like Splitwise, to make it super easy to keep tabs on how money has been spent and who owes whom what.\n- For some easy savings, look for __off-season options__ when picking the date of the bachelor party. September can still offer beautiful beach weather, but house rentals will be considerably cheaper after the peak season.\n- Likewise, look for __cost savings in your choice of accommodations__. Maybe you can stay at someone’s vacation condo or weekend cabin to save money. If you’re headed to a big city, stay somewhere that’s within walking distance of downtown to save money on transportation.\n\n## What Do You Do at a Bachelor Party?\n\nEvery bachelor party will be a little bit different, just like every groom himself. In general, the bachelor party should reflect the groom’s interests and personality. If music is his passion, try to organize the bachelor party around seeing live musical acts or, if there are musicians among his crew, devoting time to jamming late into the night. If he’s an outdoorsy guy, a bachelor party at a cabin in the woods, complete with hiking, fishing, and bonfire bonding, would be an ideal scenario.\n\nHere are a few basic pointers on what *most* bachelor parties involve, to give you a general sense of what to expect:\n\n- __Drinking:__ At home, in bars, at clubs, pretty much when and wherever… bachelor parties typically involve a decent amount of alcohol consumption.\n- __Fun daytime activities:__ Think watching live sports, guided eating or drinking tours, visiting museums and cultural institutions, doing something physical like hiking, biking, or surfing, or just chilling on the beach.\n- __Nice dinners out:__ Steakhouses are popular choices, but anything that suits the groom’s appetite (sushi, pizza, burgers, Mexican, Italian, seafood, etc.) goes.\n- __Nightclubs:__ From standard nightclubs with DJs, dancing, and bottle service to adults-only entertainment, most bachelor parties wind up at some form of club for late-night revelry.\n \n## Creative Bachelor Party Ideas\n\nIf you’re the brains behind your buddy’s bachelor party, you can’t go wrong with a classic evening of good food, strong drinks, and great friends just hanging out and celebrating the groom. But if you’re looking to take things up a notch—or if your groom isn’t into the standard bachelor party protocol—check out some of our creative bachelor party ideas below:\n\n- Go to a concert or music festival\n- Rent a cabin in the woods\n- Take a road trip on Route 66\n- Go fly fishing \n- Do a backyard pig roast\n- Go hiking and/or backpacking\n- Learn to surf\n- Attend a monster truck rally\n- Float down a river in inner tubes\n- Visit a national park\n- Rent a ski cabin and hit the slopes\n- Get tickets to a pro wrestling or boxing match\n- Rent an RV and go car camping \n- Practice shooting at a rifle club or skeet range\n- Go golfing\n- Compete on an obstacle course (bonus if it involves mud) \n- Play paintball and/or laser tag\n- Schedule a guided white water rafting trip\n- Learn a hands-on skill, like woodworking\n- Access your inner child by going to batting cages and playing arcade games\n- Attend a food or wine festival \n- Rent ATVs and go off-roading \n\n\n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_InvitesPaper"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"To help your groom’s crew achieve wedding party perfection, here’s a total rundown of both traditional and lesser-known duties that the groomsmen can handle to make your day a breeze.","title":"The Groomsmen Duties: A Full Breakdown","slug":"what-are-the-groomsmen-duties","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/fWwz6PEGcwUqySiyogssM/896f7054e8a5e377c932d0a30417662c/Groomsmen-Duties_DreamlifePhotosandVideo.jpg","altText":"groom and groomsmen in light grey suits"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Wedding toasts are tricky. 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We help you plan a party for each kind of bachelor."}],"featured":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Parties & events","slug":"parties-events"},"subtopic":{"name":"Engagement party","slug":"engagement-party"},"slug":"pre-wedding-events-guide","title":"Guide to All Wedding Parties & Events","excerpt":"We created a guide to all the different pre-wedding, post-wedding, and wedding-related events so you can decide what you’ll include as part of your wedding.","publishedAt":"2022-04-13T18:06:06.745Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5uuVJB4T2Ib4wDoicjCgbZ/9b21dc45e3155dd604137c1bf2a53c2a/Hero_1.jpg","altText":"Circular image of friends toasting with champagne glasses and sparkling lights"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Years ago, once couples got engaged, they had two celebrations to look forward to—the bridal shower and the rehearsal dinner. Although those traditions remain, as time has moved on, couples have become more creative with the addition of other events. No matter your reasoning for including extra celebrations in your wedding festivities schedule, seize the opportunity to gather with family and friends. Here’s our ultimate guide to all the different kinds of [parties and events](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events) you can include in your [wedding timeline](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist).\n\n## Engagement party\n\nThe question gets popped, a ring is placed on your finger, and it’s time to celebrate with loved ones. Ideally, an [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party) takes place within the first month of the proposal, but if your schedule prevents that timeline, do it whenever is most convenient.\n\nSince this is generally a more intimate celebration, hosting anything from a casual backyard barbecue with lawn games and a [small guest list](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-do-you-invite-to-an-engagement-party) to a more upscale dinner gathering is appropriate. \n\nIf your interest is piqued, there are more [engagement party ideas here](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-ideas).\n\nWho hosts the engagement party depends on your take on the event. If you and your future spouse want to have family and friends gather to [meet each other](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/introduce-families-after-engagement), feel free to host. However, if you’re going to be hands-off, have someone close, such as a sibling or parent, orchestrate the event.\n\n__Expert advice:__ Unless your wedding will be very small or a destination wedding, only invite people who will also be guests on your wedding day. \n\nSee all of our [engagement party articles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/engagement-party) for more expert tips.\n\n![Craig Adderley - Pre-wedding events](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5GFhw3on6e3FyKap4ONlH7/1b4acace342fc222441fc06c9f64c8a4/Inline_1.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Craig Adderley\n\n## Wedding showers\n\nOnce referred to as a bridal shower, today’s [wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-bridal-shower-and-what-is-its-purpose) is more inclusive than its formerly women-only predecessor ([read more about the difference here](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one)). While you can keep it to just the ladies if you’d like, the main focus of this event is to shower the happy couple with gifts, which can take on several forms. Guests can bring items off the [couple’s registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry), or the event can be [themed](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-themes). Think of giving articles related to experiences or stocking the couple’s bar.\n\nIt’s probably best to let someone else handle the hosting and inviting for your [wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-shower-guide). But that doesn’t mean you need to be hands-off. Talk to your sibling, best man, maid of honor, or parent—all appropriate choices for hosting a shower—about a theme and what type of gifts you’d like. Invite close friends and family members, and hold the event two to three months before the wedding. Do it at someone’s home or somewhere else that gives off intimate, celebratory vibes.\n\n### So, then, what is a bridal shower?\n\nA traditional [bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers) celebrates the bride and is a gathering of her closest friends and family, typically all female. It’s often thrown by the bride’s side of the family and her bridal party, but it has evolved into an “anything goes” event for cost responsibility. The key difference here is that the focus is on the bride.\n\n### What is a Jack and Jill party?\n\nA Jack and Jill party is a modern, inclusive way to celebrate both sides of the couple at once before the big day. It mixes sides and genders and is usually more laid back in a way more and more couples are choosing. It’s a chance to celebrate the couple together with everyone they love. If your coed curious, read more about the [pros and cons of having a coed wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/coed-wedding-shower).\n\n__Expert advice:__ Find [wedding or bridal shower invitations](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/bridal-shower/shop) of all styles on Zola. You can even match them to your [wedding invites](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop)! \n\nFor more expert tips, explore all of our [wedding shower articles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/wedding-shower).\n\n## Bach parties\n\nToday’s couples have reframed the bachelor or bachelorette party to be more classy while still partying and making memories with people they are close to. Think about inviting your bridal party, siblings, and close friends—as long as they don’t feel stilted by not being asked to be an attendant.\n\nIt’s perfectly appropriate for you to host this event yourself. Your wedding party can also take the reins. Often, bachelor and bachelorette parties have everyone pay their own way, especially if you jet-set out of town for a long weekend. That said, this pre-wedding celebration is more about getting together and being festive than major expenses. So, feel free to be flexible so everyone involved can celebrate leading up to your wedding day.\n\n### Bachelorette parties\n[Bachelorette parties](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bachelorette-parties) celebrate the bride-to-be and can be anything from an elevated brunch, a night on the town, or weekend away somewhere festive. Most importantly, they should reflect the bachelorette’s personality and wishes and be a gathering of her nearest and dearest. \n\nRead our full [guide to planning a bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bachelorette-party) for more deets. \n\n### Bachelor parties\n\n[Bachelor parties](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-bachelor-party) honor, you’ve guessed it — the bachelor. It’s basically just a gathering of the groom’s best friends and family spending time together. Normally, they do what the groom enjoys most whether it be sports, hiking, the casino — anything goes. \n\nCheck out [47 bachelor party ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelor-party-ideas) to find something for every groom.\n\n### Joint Bachelor/Bachelorette parties\n\nBrides, grooms, and same-sex couples looking for ways to celebrate together might opt for a joint bachelor/bachelorette party. ‘Bachelorx’ as some call it, is much more than a coed party – it's a fun and inclusive way to focus pre-wedding festivities on the couple as a whole. \n\nCheck out [how to throw a joint bach party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/joint-bachelor-bachelorette-party-games) for the step-by-step. \n\n__Expert advice:__ Get answers to all of your bach party questions, from theme ideas to planning guides to gift inspiration. Find everything [bachelorette party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/bachelorette-party) or [bachelor party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/parties-events/bachelor-party) in our expert advice sectionon. \n\n![Melike Benli - Pre-wedding events](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5z3OG5MnN3cpIavaOqAcrX/0b0cc0586ce31c6d2b89c163a6a6ef16/Inline_2.jpg)*Photo Credit* // Melike Benli\n\n## Aufruf\n\nJewish culture has many celebrations, such as Hanukkah and Yom Kippur, but a wedding-centric event that many look forward to is the Aufruf. Yiddish for “calling up,” the Aufruf is traditionally only meant for the groom, although in more modern synagogues, both partners can participate. The entire congregation takes part in this pre-wedding tradition, which happens at the temple the Saturday before the wedding.\n\nDuring the ceremony, the groom will give a blessing over the Torah. Inviting friends and family to the service is appropriate since this is a public display. However, dash all thoughts of the Aufruf being solemn. Sometimes, the rabbi will give the couple candy, signifying a sweet union and fruitfulness throughout the marriage. Some folks will also schedule a post-Aufruf meal to continue the festivities, depending on the circumstances. Additionally, the Aufruf is not to be confused with Shabbat Chatan, which is also for the groom but takes place after the big day.\n\n## Mehndi party\n\nBorrowing beautiful influences from Hindu and [Muslim traditions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/muslim-wedding-checklist), the mehndi party is a unique way to celebrate while focusing on self and practicing ancient rituals. Also known as a henna party, this event is generally held by the bride’s parents and involves placing beautiful, intricate designs on the bride’s hands and feet using henna dye.\n\nToday’s celebrations often include other close family members and friends of the bride. Because these events can take hours—depending on how many henna artists are available and the intricacy of the designs—hosting at a spa, home, or Airbnb can be a nice touch. Henna also darkens over time, so if you’d like to have these designs on your hands and feet for your wedding day, it’s best to have henna applied three days beforehand to allow the natural ink to darken.\n\n## Welcome party \n\nIf you’re having a [destination wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/destination-wedding-checklist) (or a [wedding weekend](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/plan-wedding-weekend) people are traveling in for), it’s customary to have some form of welcome reception when your guests arrive at the wedding location. \n\nThis differs from the rehearsal dinner—which typically happens the night before the wedding and only hosts the bridal party and your closest family. \n\nA wedding welcome party can be as casual as welcome drinks or a barbecue once everyone arrives and settles in. It can also be as extravagant as your budget and style preferences allow. Just remember that it’s optional. \n\n## Sangeet \n\nOften celebrated in India, sangeet is all about merriment with many family and friends. As a result, the number of folks invited to sangeet will often outnumber the wedding reception. Folks get together to party — sing, dance, eat, drink — before the big day to showcase their support for the couple and gather with those they haven’t seen in a while. Because this is a large celebration, hosts can often vary and may depend on the number of guests invited.\n\nBecause of the higher guest count, hosting should happen at a [wedding venue](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue) or another location that can hold many people. Although, sometimes, the sangeet will include a smaller number of guests. When it comes to pre-wedding events, sangeets are one of the most flexible, meaning that the location, who hosts, and its proximity to the wedding day can all vary. However, one thing sangeets have in common is the presence of music, which is no wonder since the word means “music” in Sanskrit.\n\n## Rehearsal dinner \n\nThe [rehearsal dinner](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/unique-rehearsal-dinner-ideas) follows your wedding rehearsal, in which your officiant or wedding planner guides you and everyone involved through your wedding ceremony. Along with these people, it’s nice to [invite any close family members](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-to-invite-to-a-rehearsal-dinner) who are wedding guests, as well as those traveling in. \n\nAs expected, the rehearsal dinner is usually the evening before your wedding. As such, it’s best to host it somewhere close to the wedding venue. Choose a restaurant close by or see if your ceremony venue has a space that is not already dedicated to your wedding reception.\n\n## Wedding party/bridal luncheon \n\nIt’s always great to get together with your wedding party. Plus, if you’re a groom who wants to hold a groomsmen’s brunch, go for it! Traditionally, a bridesmaids or wedding party luncheon or brunch is a meal for bridesmaids and/or groomsmen focused on socializing the [wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-many-people-in-wedding-party). Breaking the ice before the big day is a fantastic way to set the tone. \n\nThe bridesmaids’ brunch usually takes place at a restaurant, café, or loved one’s home. If you’d like to host this event, feel free to take the reins. As for when it takes place, that comes down to your personal preference and everyone’s schedules. If everyone is local, picking a date should be simple, but if a few are long-distance, the event may have to take place closer to your [wedding day](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-planning-101/wedding-day).\n\n## After party \n\nJust because the DJ has played the last song and the lights have come up doesn’t mean the party has to be over. It’s becoming more and more common for couples to host an after party that is, quite literally, after the party. \n\nThis after-hours event usually involves extra cocktails and snacks, is in a different location than the reception itself, and can help to keep the party going. And going, and going. Find the best DJs and live bands for your after party on [Zola’s Vendor Marketplace](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-bands-djs).\n\n## Farewell brunch \n\nThe final culminating event of a wedding celebration is the [farewell brunch](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/fun-post-wedding-brunch-invitation-ideas). It can be hosted by the couple, the families, a close relative, or anyone else who offers. It’s typically reserved for guests who’ve spent the night in a designated hotel or resort.\n\nThe farewell brunch gives your guests a chance to regroup, enjoying breakfast and coffee before heading on their merry way. It’s not a mandatory event, but it’s definitely nice to have for both the couple and their guests. As a result, it’s a relatively easy way to put the cherry on top of a great wedding. \n\n## Final thoughts on extra wedding events\n\nAs you can see, weddings can be as simple as the ceremony and reception itself. Or can be a true series of parties and events that lead up to and even continue after the wedding itself. There are no obligations or limits to the amount of wedding fun you can have.\n\nOthers want to honor and celebrate you—both on and before your big day. Incorporating one or more of these wedding festivities gives you more opportunities to spend time and celebrate with everyone you love. The best part? You don’t have to get overwhelmed with planning everything when you’ve got Zola on your team. 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Wedding shower

Whether you throw a wedding shower, bridal shower or jack and jill party, our experts make sure you have everything you need to plan the perfect event. Find guides, practical advice, and inspiration for the different types of shower celebrations.

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