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A Guide to Children Attire at a Wedding
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A Guide to Children Attire at a Wedding

Kids can be just as hard to dress as grownups. Check out Zola’s useful guide to kids’ wedding attire to make sure your little ones look spiffy.

LGBT+ Tips for Styling Two Suits Together
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Tips for Styling Two Suits Together

Looking to style two suits together for your wedding? Here's your go-to guide to double your dapper looks on your wedding day.

Who Pays for the Flower Girl Dress?
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Who Pays for the Flower Girl Dress?

There are plenty of costs to factor into your wedding budget. But is the flower girl’s dress one of them? Here’s Zola’s guide.

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What Is White Tie Wedding Attire?

Invited to a white tie wedding? Following the dress code is a must. Get expert tips on what to wear to a white tie wedding.

How to Pick Bridesmaid Dresses
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How to Pick Bridesmaid Dresses

Don’t know how to pick bridesmaid dresses? We can help. Read on to discover our top tips and advice.

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17 Mother of the Bride and Groom Outfits: The Complete Guide

Whether you are the mother of the bride or the mother of the groom, there are a few key things to remember as you shop for your dress. Check out Zola to learn more.

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A Quick Guide to Semi-Formal Wedding Attire for Men

Learn the ins and outs of semi-formal attire for men. Our guide offers outfit ideas and tips to perfect your look for any sophisticated occasion.

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What Should the Mother of the Groom Wear?

Wondering what the mother of the groom should wear to your wedding? Read on for our complete guide.

Groom Tuxedos
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A Complete Guide to Groom and Groomsmen Tuxedos + Ideas

Tuxedos are ideal for grooms at formal weddings and black-tie affairs. You can customize your tux with personalized details, such as special cufflinks and playful socks.

Guide to Bridesmaid Dress Styles
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Guide to Bridesmaid Dress Styles

There are many different routes you can go with your bridesmaids’ dresses. We have come up with a guide to the different styles to choose from. Read on.

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Can You Wear a Long Dress For Cocktail Attire?

There’s nothing more awkward than being over-dressed or under-dressed at a wedding. Luckily, Zola has you covered with this easy guide. Read on now.

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40+ Best Spring Wedding Guest Dresses

Wondering what to wear to a spring wedding? Browse our 50 favorite outfit ideas for inspiration!

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The main issue is finding a formal outfit that's comfortable enough for them to wear all day long—and anyone who's dressed in formalwear knows that \"comfortable\" and \"formal\" usually don’t go hand-in-hand. \n\nDon't fear: Zola is here with the ultimate guide on how to dress a child for a wedding, so everyone will be better equipped to enjoy the day in style. \n\n### Remember CBS\nCBS stands for comfort, budget, and size—the main things you need to keep in mind when shopping for children's formalwear. \n\nAvoid itchy, rough fabrics that aren’t breathable. While it might be cute to have them wear a bow tie for photos, consider how practical the chosen attire will be in the long run. It's smart to avoid any external tchotchkes that will just be bothersome throughout the day. \n\nIf the kid in mention has been invited to be a part of the wedding party, consult with the engaged couple about their ideas for colors and outfit ideas. This is a good time to keep the budget in mind—is this outfit a one-time splurge, or are you purchasing an outfit that can be reused and re-worn for other formal events, barring a major growth spurt? \n\nAnd speaking of growth spurts, consider sizing when buying your outfit. Kids grow, and they grow quickly, so if you're ordering custom clothes for a wedding party, it's better to go bigger and have them tailored in case of a sudden burst in height two months before the wedding. (In this case, you'll want to remember to account for alterations in the budget, particularly for girls' dresses, too). \n\n### The Dress Code Matters\n\nOut of respect for the engaged couple—someone you like enough to attend their wedding—your kid needs to fit in with the dress code for the affair. If the wedding is black tie, your kids should wear a button-down shirt or a dress. If the wedding is more casual, a good rule of thumb is \"dress like you're going to church with the grandparents.\" Kids can get away with a little more attire-wise at a less-formal wedding, but you still don't want them to stick out like a sore thumb. \n\n### Kids Shouldn't Wear White, Either\n\n![A Guide to Children Attire at a Wedding](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5AdyNYzvtfKsUrmJqhVBkg/efd286472ee6a02df811ed798f353027/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\nIt's obvious why one shouldn't wear white as a wedding guest. Unless it's a part of the dress code, it's considered rude and an attempt to upstage the bride. While no one will be thinking your kid is the person getting married (it's very common and popular to have the flower girl in a shade of white, cream, or light pink), it's better to err on the side of caution with light shades on the wedding day. \n\n### Consider Seasonality\nAs you would with your own outfit, it's important to keep the time of year and weather in mind when considering attire for a wedding. No kid is going to be comfortable in a floor-length navy ball gown in the middle of summer, nor will they love a button-down shirt and shorts in the winter. You can always bring a cardigan or a sweater along if getting cold is a concern, like at a beach wedding. Linens and laces for summer; satins and silk for winter. \n\n### Attire for Boys\nUnless the dress code is black tie formal, it's unlikely your little boy needs to wear a full-on tuxedo to a wedding. It's easy to dress them up—consider a collared shirt, a bow tie, and some nice dress shoes to keep them looking adorable. If the event is more formal, try a suit jacket. For pants, keep it neutral—greys, blacks, navy, and khaki are always going to make for an appropriate wedding outfit. \n\n### Attire for Girls\n![A Guide to Children Attire at a Wedding](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3wDMhalYVrnN2MoAfYEho8/605ca0610728baaadf85a3ec6ae215f9/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\nBaby girls and tulle skirts go hand in hand, and that combination can be worn year-round, with tights under the skirt during cooler months. As they get older, a floral sundress with a cardigan or a calf-length silk or satin dress with a sash is suitable for any wedding.\n\n### Attire for Teenagers\nBy the time your child is a teenager, they should be going along with the dress code as much as any other adult guest. Sundresses and cocktail dresses for young women, suit jackets and ties for young men. When it comes to shoes, dress shoes are good, but bring along a pair of flip-flops for your daughter. If she's not skilled in wearing heels, she'll thank you for thinking ahead. \n\nDressing kids for a formal event can be frustrating, but it doesn't have to be—they're just tiny adults, and nothing is as cute as a tiny little man or lady in dressy clothing. 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Choosing what you and your groom are going to wear.\n\nDeciding what to wear for your wedding is a big deal. Not only do you want to look and feel your best, but with the day being photographed, you can be sure this outfit will be remembered for years to come. If you and your SO are both planning to rock suits, you’re probably wondering the best way to pick styles that feel authentic to your day, your relationship, and your style. Here are our best tips for styling two suits together—as well as 20 wedding outfits to help inspire your own wedding look:\n\n## Shopping and Styling Tips For Grooms\n\nNeed some insights on how to shop and style your suits for your big day? Here are our top shopping and styling tips for same-sex groom wedding attire:\n\n- __Consider Your Wedding Vibe.__ The first step before looking for a suit is to determine your wedding day vibe and style. Contemplate things like the season, the __[location](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue)__, your wedding theme, and the formality of your event. While a formal, timeless space might call for traditional black tuxedos, a rustic barn might point more toward a smart __[casual look](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/casual-wedding-attire-guide)__ and a summer wedding on the beach would pair perfectly with a linen suit. Chat about what you envision your wedding looking like, and find ways to make your looks add to the overall theme of the event instead of clashing with it. Also, consider what your guests will wear and how you want the celebration to feel to avoid looking over- or under-dressed at your own wedding.\n\n![Tips for Styling Two Suits Together](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2GvFuI7b2lVEUtFHNEybY/8e2f6270e15bda9e4d079fc8b2d56514/B_inline_pineapple_sunrise.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Pineapple Sunrise\n\n- __Discuss Styles Ahead of Time.__ Prior to heading to the shops, sit down and chat about what you picture wearing on your wedding day. Did you always imagine yourself in a tux? In something more modern, like a tie-less suit or colorful ensemble? What about for your partner—is there something you imagined them wearing? While you want to both feel true to your own personal styles, talking about what you envision before trying things on will help you feel confident and informed as you check out different jackets and select patterns and fabrics.\n\n- __Shop Together or With a Friend.__ If you’re not one for superstition, consider shopping for your suits together, so you can find looks that complement each other. While some couples opt to wear matching suits, others like to find ways to stand out individually while looking complementary to each other. If you’d rather keep your outfit a secret until you walk down the aisle or for your first look, ask a mutual friend to shop with each of you. This way, you’ll have someone on the inside ensuring your styles complement each other. If your friend groups don’t overlap, you can also have your SO chat with the stylist helping you shop, so they’re able to help pull looks. Just call them up at the start of your appointment and your stylist will be able to take it from there.\n\n- __Get Matching Suits.__ One of the easiest ways to ensure your looks coordinate is to select matching suits. If you both have a similar style, select a suit that you both feel confident in. By the time they’re tailored and you add in accessories like ties, shoes, socks, and boutonnieres, you’ll each look individually great while creating a no-fuss cohesive look. If you want to differentiate your looks slightly, you could always wear different color shirts under the suits or switch things up with different ties in complementary colors.\n\n- __Choose the Same Fabric.__ Experimenting with fabrics is vital to suit shopping and plays a big role in how your overall look comes together. Keep in mind things like your venue, the level of formality, the temperature, and your personal styles when deciding. A good general rule is the more formal the event, the heavier/darker the fabric. Select lighter fabrics like linen for daytime, hot weather, beachy, or more casual events and heavier fabrics for nighttime, formal, or winter weddings. While expressing yourself on your wedding day is key, having suits in the same fabric will pull together your overall wedding style.\n\n![Tips for Styling Two Suits Together](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/32ny0PVJwlmJ1Hl6TIBAU5/48229a87067705f0ee40770fab66e5bb/B_inline-kathleen_marie_ward_photography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Kathleen Marie Ward Photography\n\n- __Play With Colors.__ If you have the same fabric and/or suit, experimenting with multiple colors is a great way to individually shine. Take a look at your color palette and find pops that you each love. Maybe one of you wears a black suit with a colorful bow tie, while the other wears a colored suit jacket and a black tie. Or maybe you each wear neutral-colored suits and mix things up with different, colorful pops in your ties, socks, pocket squares, suspenders, pant patterns, and boutonnieres. Alternatively, you could each wear a different color sport coat, but have your pocket square match your partner’s suit. There are plenty of ways to play with color, so don’t be afraid to make things bright.\n\n- __Experiment With Patterns.__ Another fun way to mix up your looks is to utilize patterns. You find some really amazing suits with patterns like plaid, paisley, or even floral, and this modern twist on traditional suits is a wonderful way to show your playful side. Maybe you get matching plaid suits in different colors or you opt for a tropical patterned shirt or tie under your dark, traditional suits. Either way, a good rule is to make sure to only select one big, loud pattern.\n\n- __Express Yourself With Accessories.__ One of the best ways to really showcase your style and personality is with accessories. This is your chance to really play it up, so don’t be afraid to have fun. Things like family rings, custom cufflinks, matching pocket squares, gifted watches, and glamorous tie clips are all ways to differentiate your coordinated looks or tie together your different styles.\n\nWhether it’s matching suits in different colors, different suits in the same fabric, or classic suits in bright, bold patterns, styling two suits together for your wedding day is a fun way to showcase your individual styles as well as your bond. As long as you feel comfortable and confident in your look, you can be sure your SO will love what you rock on the big day.\n\n## 20 Wedding Outfit Ideas for Same-Sex Grooms\nLooking for some outfit inspiration for your special day? Here are 20 wedding suit ideas to help you find the perfect look:\n\n### 1. Go Traditional With Matching Tuxedos...\nWhen it comes to menswear for weddings (including same-sex weddings!), you can’t go wrong with a tuxedo. A traditional black tux is the perfect look for both grooms—and creates a cohesive look for wedding photos.\n\n### 2. ...Or Matching Wedding Suits\nIf tuxes feel too formal, you can get a similarly cohesive look with matching suits. If you want to go traditional, try a gray, black, or blue suit.\n\n### 3. Wear Matching Suits In Different Colors\nIf you and your groom fall in love with the same suit—but don’t want to be completely matched—consider wearing the same suit, just in different colors (for example, one gray suit and one black suit). \n\n### 4. Add a Pop of Color\nWant a bolder look? Embrace color by going for an unexpected hue with your suit—for example, a rich shade of eggplant or a bright royal blue.\n\n### 5. Mix Bowties and Traditional Ties\nThere are so many different types of neck accessories—so why narrow it down to just one? For a fun look that coordinates without feeling overly “matching,” consider having one groom wear a traditional necktie and the other wear a bowtie.\n\n### 6. Matching Bowties\nIf you and your groom both love bowties, consider wearing matching ones...\n\n### 7. Different Bowties\n...or both rock bowties, but in different colors or patterns.\n\n### 8. Matching Ties\nIf bowties aren’t your style, go for matching ties. You can either wear the same exact ties for a matching look—or choose ties with different colors or patterns for more contrast.\n\n### 9. Wear Suits In Contrasting Colors...\nIf you really want to embrace contrast in your wedding look, consider wearing suits in contrasting colors—like a traditional black suit paired with a more brightly hued ensemble.\n\n### 10. ...Or Different Shades Of The Same Color\nIf you want a more subtle contrast in your wedding suits, consider going with suits that are the same color, but just different shades—like grey suits in heather grey and charcoal.\n\n### 11. Go Dark With Your Suits...\nDark colors, like midnight blue or eggplant, are great for a fall or winter wedding.\n\n### 12. ...Or Keep Things Light\nIf you’re getting married in the summer, you might consider going light with your wedding outfits—like matching linen suits.\n\n### 13. Keep It Casual With Blazers And Slacks\nNot every wedding is formal. If your upcoming nuptials are more on the casual side, consider keeping your outfits just as casual—and wearing blazers and slacks instead of suits or tuxes.\n\n### 14. Mixing Patterns With Your Shirts...\nIf you really want a bold look for you and your husband-to-be, consider mixing patterns! While mixing patterns on your suits might feel visually overwhelming, going with different patterns on your shirts can make for a fun look.\n\n### 15. ...Or Your Suits\nOr, if you really want to go with a patterned suit, have fun! Just make sure to pair a boldly patterned suit with a more traditional suit—either a solid suit or a suit with a very subtle pattern.\n\n### 16. Spice Up A Traditional Look With A Fun Pocket Square\nIf you want to go traditional with your wedding look—but still want to showcase your and your groom’s fun personalities—consider spicing up your look with a fun pocket square, either in a bright color or bold pattern.\n\n### 17. Wear Bright Shirts...\nBrightly colored shirts can really jazz up a traditional suit—so consider wearing matching shirts in your favorite bold hue (like pink).\n\n### 18. ...Or Shirts In Contrasting Colors\nAnother way to add visual interest to your wedding look courtesy of your shirts? Going with contrasting colors. Consider having one groom wear a light shirt and the other wear a dark shirt.\n\n### 19. Rock Bold Jackets\nIf you’re having a more casual wedding—but still want to embrace a bold look—opt out of a traditional blazer and go for a bolder jacket with a pattern and/or bright colors. (Just consider pairing with neutral or white shirts to keep the look from feeling visually overwhelming.)\n\n### 20. Go Custom\nThere are plenty of wedding looks you can get off the rack. But if you want same-sex wedding outfits that are truly your own, you’re going to want to go for custom suits. Work with a design to come up with outfits that speak to you and your groom’s style—and then wow all your guests when you walk down the aisle.","tag":"How To","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"There are many wedding suits to choose from, but, rest assured, we got you covered. Learn about the different wedding suit styles for your special day with this informative guide. ","title":"What Are the Different Wedding Suit Styles?","slug":"what-are-the-different-wedding-suit-styles","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4njJPne049MMwDcBon8aAt/a6aefad170a912821f7560c828d97ccf/Hero_FestiveMulticulturalCeremony_LishaWangPhotography.jpg","altText":"Different Wedding Suit Styles"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Tuxedos are ideal for grooms at formal weddings and black-tie affairs. You can customize your tux with personalized details, such as special cufflinks and playful socks.","title":"A Complete Guide to Groom and Groomsmen Tuxedos + Ideas","slug":"groom-tuxedo-ideas","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6ah6lIqItIOOt4VDWFaRiR/175de92399293ddb6962b0e9eeb42e27/Hero_EnglishGardenIntimateWeddingatHistoricKeelerTavern_CoreyLynnTuckerPhotography__1_.jpg","altText":"Groom Tuxedos"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"You don’t just want to look good on your big day; you want your groomsmen to look sharp, too. Read this guide for how you should go about choosing your and your groomsmen's suits.","title":"How to Choose Groom and Groomsmen Suits","slug":"how-to-choose-groom-and-groomsmen-suits","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5tbVGqKnSi1YA5QetQgKr5/99baca726b8b26b7182ced21c2b3bb7f/Hero_GlamorousWeddingatInnatNewHydePark__ManuelMontenegroPhotography__2_.jpg","altText":"Groom and Groomsmen Matching Suits"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":" If you’re not sure where to start when it comes to choosing wedding day clothing for men, check out our guide to groom’s attire. ","title":"A Complete Guide to Wedding Attire for Grooms","slug":"a-guide-to-grooms-attire","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3VMpMOUBZSyCkaeYeEmqgk/8db23790cfb65c8c8eebd5f2ecc5c522/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"groom in cobalt blue tux jacket"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:40:10.288Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"who-pays-for-the-flower-girl-dress","title":"Who Pays for the Flower Girl Dress?","excerpt":"There are plenty of costs to factor into your wedding budget. But is the flower girl’s dress one of them? Here’s Zola’s guide.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2021-11-07T02:36:15.898Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2XwTA1Xh7ZMkmJg5tsctgT/ed7995b444f9ee73496e5d743587ad4b/Hero_ClassicRosemaryAccentedSanFranSoiree_VeroSuhPhotography.jpg","altText":"Who Pays for the Flower Girl Dress?"},"heroCredit":"Vero Suh Photography","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- Typically, the parents of the flower girl pay for her dress.There are alternatives, such as the couple paying or splitting the cost between the couple and the parents\n- Flower girl dresses can range from about $40 to $500, depending on the style. There are endless options for adorable flower girl dresses for every occasion. \n- Flower girls will need other accessories, and it’s up to the couple and her parents to decide who will pay for these items.\n- Zola can help answer all of your wedding questions and provide advice to make your day go smoothly.","body":"The flower girl has a very important place in your wedding. She parades down the aisle before the bride tossing flower petals from a decorative basket. Flower girls are meant to symbolize good luck and fertility for the couple. She’s usually a young relative or the child of a close friend of the couple.\n\nFurther flower girl traditions dictate that the bride selects the flower girl’s dress, but the flower girl’s parents pay for the dress. However, this doesn’t always have to be the case. Here, we discuss:\n\n- Flower Girl Dress Payment Options\n- The Average Cost of a Flower Girl’s Dress\n- Tips for Selecting the Ideal Dress\n- Our Top Flower Girl Dress Ideas for Inspiration\n- The Other Things a Flower Girl Needs for the Wedding\n\n## Flower Girl Protocol \nWhen you decide whom you’d like to be the flower girl at your wedding, the first thing you need to do is ask her parents if they’ll allow her to participate. Once you’ve cleared that hurdle, you can open the discussion of who will pay for the dress. While traditionally the parents of the child pay, circumstances—economic or otherwise—can change this.\n\n### Alternative Arrangements\nIf you’d like to make alternative flower girl dress payment plans, here are three suggestions:\n\n- __The Couple Pays:__ If you want to show her parents your appreciation for allowing you to have their child in your wedding, you and your partner can offer to pay for the flower girl’s dress. This also gives you the option of buying a more expensive flower girl dress without having to worry about passing that cost on to her parents.\n\n- __Split the Cost:__ You might also want to ask the parents if they’d be willing to split the cost of the flower girl’s dress. If you’re on a tight budget, this is one way to limit costs without placing a large burden solely on her parents.\n\n- __Homemade Dress:__ Don’t underestimate the talents of the crafters in your family. If you have any relatives who enjoy sewing, ask them to make the flower girl’s dress for you. You’ll need to provide the fabric and other materials, but that won’t cost you nearly as much as a brand new dress. Bonus: Your flower girl will end up with a treasured, handmade piece to wear.\n\n## How Much Does a Flower Girl Dress Cost? \nAs you might imagine, the cost of a flower girl dress ranges widely. Off-the-rack dresses start around $40 and go up to about $150 for very intricate, fancy designs. A custom dress can cost up to $500. If alterations are needed, you’ll pay more. \n\nIf you’re not too choosy about the style or color, one way you can save on the flower girl’s dress is to check resale shops near you. Sometimes you can find a great deal on a gently used children’s dress.\n\nIt’s important to discuss the budget for a flower girl’s dress with her parents before making a final selection, especially if you expect them to pay for all, or part, of the dress’s cost. \n\n## Tips for Selecting an Exquisite Flower Girl Dress \nAlong with the budget, there are some other considerations that should go into selecting an amazing dress for your flower girl. These include:\n\n- __Style:__ You’ll want a style that goes with your wedding aesthetic. For example, a rustic wedding would pair with a flowy dress in a pastel color. On the other hand, simple monochrome and minimal accessories would suit a more modern affair. \n\n- __Length:__ When you’re deciding on the right dress, consider the age of the flower girl. If she’s younger, a long dress might not be the best choice, as her little feet are more likely to trip over the hem. An older flower girl can probably handle a longer dress in stride.\n\n- __Fabric:__ The flower girl is going to have to be in her dress all day. She’s going to run around to receive hugs and kisses from proud relatives, eat cake, and dance her heart out at the wedding. You want to make sure the dress isn’t made of a fabric that’s too thick, itchy, or otherwise uncomfortable. You should also stay away from fabrics that tear easily.\n\n- __Season:__ You also want to select a dress that’s seasonally appropriate. For example, a velvet dress, while adorable, isn’t a good choice for a summer wedding. Don’t forget to take the venue into account as well—is it outdoors with minimal shade? Indoors with plenty of climate control? Wherever she is, you want your flower girl to be comfortable throughout. \n\n- __Timing:__ Kids grow seemingly overnight. Make sure there’s enough time between buying the dress and the wedding to have it altered if needed, but not so much time that your flower girl can outgrow their dress.\n\n- __Age:__ If your flower girl is older or a little choosy, there’s no reason you can’t allow her to have a say in what she wears for your wedding. After all, you want her to be confident and comfortable, so she can enjoy the wedding and the important part she plays in it. \n\n## Before You Pick a Flower Girl Dress...\nWe know that you want every element of your wedding to fit together like the perfect pieces of a puzzle. For this to happen, you need to be strategic in your planning. For example, before you can brainstorm ideas for flower girl dresses, you need to decide on a theme, date, and venue for your wedding. These three components will help you to narrow down your style options to those that will be appropriate for the ceremony.\n\nIf you need a little help finding an ideal [wedding venu](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-venues)e, [Zola’s list of pre-screened venues](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-venues) is the best place to start. You can sort by location, price, size, and more. \n\n## Fantastic Flower Girl Dresses \nAfter you know when and where your wedding is going to be, it’s time to have fun planning the wedding party’s clothing. Here are some of our favorite flower girl dress ideas for every wedding venue and style:\n\n### A Mini Version of the Bride\nLittle girls often look up to the older women in their lives and want to grow up to be just like them. If you have a close relationship with your flower girl, don’t be surprised if she wants to wear a dress that looks like yours.\n\nA mini version of your dress is appropriate for any wedding style and will ensure that your flower girl feels special because she gets to dress just like you.\n\n### Little Bridesmaid\nYou can also model the flower girl’s dress after the bridesmaids’ dresses. It can be the same color in a style appropriate for a little girl, or the same dress in a tiny version. Either way, your wedding party will be gorgeous.\n\n### Ballet Style\nThis is a darling choice for younger flower girls. A leotard top and tulle tutu will be comfortable and won’t cause her to trip when she walks down the aisle or dances the night away at the reception.\n\n### Two-Tone \nIf your wedding has a modern look, a two-toned approach to the flower girl’s dress is an excellent complement to the rest of your decor. We like a dark-colored top with a pale skirt or the other way around. The contrast between the two pieces will be striking. \n\n### White Lace\nA white lace dress is one of the most flexible options for flower girl dresses. This look can fit with any wedding and dress style. White lace is lovely for:\n\n- __Full-Length:__ For the older flower girl, a long dress with white lace accents on the skirt and bodice will make her feel just like a princess. This timeless look is perfect for classic, elegant weddings.\n\n- __Short and Frilly:__ Younger girls will look darling in knee-length dresses with plenty of lace and ruffles. This style will also allow her to move freely without the risk of stumbling over the hem of the dress.\n\n- __Boho Style:__ Rustic weddings call for a simple dress with pretty white lace accents. Think shift dresses or simple sundress styles with a touch of lace on the straps. \n\nWhite lace is popular, because it works for many aesthetics and is easy to find in many bridal shops. It’s also appropriate for just about any theme, so there’s a lot to love about it.\n\n### Pretty in Pink\nIf you have a flower girl who’s known to get a little messy, pink is a smart alternative to white, since it’ll hide stains a bit better. You can go with a pale pink or a striking fuschia, depending on the color choices you make for your wedding.\n\n### Pastels\nMany couples choose pastels for spring and summer wedding colors. The wedding party outfits will typically follow the same palette. This presents an ideal opportunity for you to match your littlest attendant’s dress to the bridesmaids’ dresses. Some of our favorite pastels for spring and summer weddings are:\n\n- Mint green\n- Lavender\n- Peach\n- Sky blue\n- Lemon yellow\n- Light pink\n\nYou can even have each bridesmaid and the flower girl pick their own pastel color or dress style for a more diverse look.\n\n### Velvet\nWhile velvet isn’t a good choice for summer or spring weddings, it’s divine in fall or winter ceremonies, especially in cooler climates. Velvet will help keep your flower girl cozy during the ceremony and reception in cold weather. It’s also elegant and timeless. If you’re planning a traditional black-tie affair, a velvet flower girl dress will fit right in.\n\n### Bold Silk\nAnother style we love for weddings that feature bright colors is a bold silk dress. While many flower girl dresses tend to be white or pastel-toned, there’s no reason you can’t think outside the box and go with a dark color for the dress. The bold colors will make your wedding photos really shine.\n\n### Floral Sundress\nA floral sundress is a winsome and affordable choice for rustic, summer, or beach weddings. Some of our favorite flower designs for floral sundresses are:\n\n- Bright, happy sunflowers\n- Delicate pink roses\n- Sprays of lavender\n- Simple, yet sweet daisies\n- Lilies \n- Green leaves and wildflowers\n- Bold tulips\n\nAnother nice thing about sundresses is they’re typically cotton, linen, or another comfortable material. This means your flower girl won’t feel like she’s stuck inside a stiff, itchy dress all day.\n\n### Glitter\nGlittery dresses are sure to be a hit. You can find a dress with a sparkly skirt or sequined top. Your flower girl will be ecstatic when she notices how her dress shines in the light. This is a darling choice for formal weddings where she’ll be able to show off her dress during the reception as she dances.\n\n### Ballgown\nNothing will make your flower girl feel more like a princess than a full-length ball gown with lace, bows, ribbons—the works. Keep in mind that she’s going to have to be able to move around freely during the ceremony and at the reception afterward, so this style may not be appropriate for more active little girls.\n\n### White With a Bold Ribbon\nIf you’re planning an edgy, modern wedding, continue the look with your flower girl’s dress. A white dress with a thick, boldly-colored ribbon around the waist will be stunning. Some of our favorite bold colors to really stand out against a white dress include:\n\n- Black \n- Teal\n- Forest green\n- Red\n- Violet\n- Fuschia\n- Navy\n- Royal blue\n\nThis is also an easy way to incorporate your wedding colors into your flower girl’s dress.\n\n## What Else Does a Flower Girl Need? \nThe dress is just one component of a flower girl’s wedding day needs. Here’s what else you should consider:\n\n### Comfy Shoes\nIf you’ve ever been on your feet for hours in uncomfortable shoes, you know how awful it feels. Make sure your flower girl doesn’t get pinched toes or blisters from her shoes. There are plenty of cute options that are also comfortable, including:\n\n- Ballet slippers\n- Cushioned Mary Jane-style flats\n- Soft slip-on flats\n- Sandals (beware of tight straps)\n- Boots \n- Cute sneakers\n\nIt might be best to enlist the help of her parents when it comes to the right style and fit for flower girl shoes, as they’ll know what she’s most comfortable in.\n\n### Accessories\nThe accessories your flower girl will need can cover a wide range of items, including a:\n\n- Flower crown similar to your wedding flowers\n- Purse that coordinates with her dress\n- Tiara with sparkles and rhinestones\n- Bracelet that matches her dress\n- Necklace with her name or the words flower girl on it\n- Hat with ribbons for a beach wedding\n- Bouquet that matches the bride’s \n- Pair of earrings, if she has pierced ears\n- Gloves for cooler weather or more formal occasions\n- Headband or barrettes to keep her hair back\n\nThese will vary depending on your overall wedding aesthetic and the age of your flower girl. Who pays for these things is also up to you. Keep in mind that you’re asking a lot of her parents already, so anything you can help pay for will be a good way to show your appreciation.\n\n### Basket and Petals\nHer job is to toss petals as she walks down the aisle ahead of you. Therefore, the flower girl will need a basket and some petals to toss. You’ll want to check with the venue ahead of time—some places don’t allow petals or other items to be thrown around, because it creates a mess for them to clean up later.\n\nIf the venue allows, you can deviate from traditional petals in the basket and have the flower girl toss one of these instead:\n\n- Rice\n- Feathers\n- Leaves\n- Confetti\n- Glitter\n\nYou can make the basket out of many different materials to go with your wedding style. You’ll just want to make sure it’s an appropriate size for a little girl to carry as she walks.\n\nIf your venue won’t allow tossing of petals or another material, you can have her carry something else, such as a:\n\n- Cute sign with a funny or touching saying\n- Photograph of a deceased loved one \n- Handful of balloons\n- Magic wand with satin ribbons\n- Bouquet of flowers\n- Single stunning flower\n\nIf she really wants to carry a basket, try giving her one without anything in it, so that she’s not tempted to toss things on her way down the aisle.\n\n### Hair and Makeup\nWhile it’s up to the flower girl’s parents, she’ll probably love the chance to get her hair and makeup done with the rest of the bridal party. This is another area where the payment options should be discussed ahead of time to avoid awkward questions on the day of the wedding. \n\nAlternatively, you can also ask one of the bridesmaids if they’d be willing to help the flower girl get ready. She’ll love having her own personal helper and can still have her hair and makeup done without the additional cost.\n\n### Thank You Gift\nSomething that you’ll definitely pay for is a gift for your flower girl. It’s important to show her that you appreciate her participation in your wedding. If you need gift inspiration, [the Zola boutique](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop) has a bunch of customizable options for wedding party gifts. Some of our favorites for flower girls are:\n\n- __Flower Girl Robe:__ She’ll adore a personalized robe that says flower girl on the back. She can wear it while she’s getting ready for the wedding and keep it afterward as a reminder of the fun time she had. Bonus points if her robe matches the rest of the bridal party.\n\n- __Gift Box:__ Kids love to have their own place to keep things. You can present your flower girl with her own special box with her name on it to store her treasures in. \n\n- __Tote:__ Instead of a box, you can also give her a bag that has her name embroidered on it. You can fill the bag with small treats such as chocolate, stickers, and a stuffed animal.\n\n- __Jewelry:__ Older flower girls might appreciate a necklace with their name or a special message on it. Charm bracelets with little flower charms are equally delightful.\n\n- __Slippers:__ Fluffy slippers are a winning flower girl gift, especially if your wedding is in the fall or winter. They’ll keep her toes toasty in cold weather and are available in just about any style and design you can imagine.\n\n- __Personalized Water Bottle:__ You can have your flower girl’s name printed on a reusable water bottle in her favorite color. There are many styles out there that can be customized. For younger girls, you’ll want to select an option with a straw included for easier drinking.\n\n- __Books:__ If your flower girl is a book lover, you can give her a customized book that includes her name as one of the characters. Alternatively, if there’s a book series you know she loves, you can contribute to her collection.\n\n### Hotel Accommodations\nIf the flower girl and her family are from out of town, then they’ll need a place to stay. Typically, the parents will pay for the family’s hotel room, but you can offer to cover one night as a token of your gratitude for their participation in your wedding. It can be quite expensive to travel for a wedding, so any assistance from you will be appreciated.\n\n## Get Answers to All Your Wedding Questions With Zola \nMoney is always a touchy subject, even at weddings. You can avoid conflict by communicating clearly about who will pay for the flower girl’s dress and other needed materials from the start. \n\nThe flower girl’s outfit is just one tiny piece to the wedding puzzle. When you need inspiration or advice for all your wedding needs, we’re here for you.\n\nAt Zola, we strive to make your wedding dreams come true. When you [register with Zola](https://www.zola.com/), you can access our free website building tool, [wedding vendor lists](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors), and other resources. This makes your planning job much easier, so that you can relax and enjoy your beautiful wedding day.","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Finding a hairstylist for your wedding day can be stressful, but it doesn’t have to be. 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Get expert tips on what to wear to a white tie wedding.","author":"Janina Villanueva","publishedAt":"2020-12-03T21:34:51.954Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2XCyXvM5wQtDY0pPfOyvoy/3011a61f3dd6336e79371ce9fb11e803/inline_unsplash__3_.jpg","altText":"white tie wedding attire"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Attending weddings is always fun, but dressing up for the occasion can sometimes pose a challenge. You need to consider the season, the venue, and how elaborate the couple’s theme is based on their [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website) or [invitation](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop). Thankfully, when the invite indicates a specific dress code, you can at least narrow down the options you have in mind.\n\nBut what exactly do you wear when you see the dress code listed as “white tie?”\n\n## What Is White Tie Wedding Attire?\nWhite tie wedding attire is the most formal of all dress codes—sometimes indicated by the phrases “full evening dress” and “dress suit.” One step above black tie, this dress code typically consists of full-length gowns, full dresses, tuxedos, or dress coats with tails. It’s often required for the fanciest of events, such as royal banquets, state dinners, award ceremonies, galas, and extra formal weddings. \n\nThis traditional Western evening dress code dates back to the 1800s when aristocrats wore elaborate clothing at dinners and ceremonies. While it’s not very common nowadays, when you are invited to a white tie formal wedding, dressing the part is a must.\n\n### What Should Men Wear to a White Tie Wedding\nThe white tie basics for men are a well-fitting tuxedo or dress coat with tails, high waist trousers, a crisp white evening shirt, and a white waistcoat. The dress coat must be black or any dark shade (never white or off-white), and is often unbuttoned to show off the waistcoat. The dress shirt should be stiff, with a collar so high that the neck is almost hidden. Cufflinks are a must, and as the name states, the white tie attire requires a white bow tie, which should be hand-tied. If you opt to use a clip-on for your formal attire, make sure that it’s not visibly seen. Opera pumps or court shoes—loafers made with leather or velvet and have a distinctive silk bow across the front—are also standard for men. Another option is highly polished, laced-up shoes. This is most often paired with plain long, black socks, so no flesh is shown, even when sitting down.\n\n### What Should Women Wear To A White Tie Wedding?\n\n![What is White Tie Wedding Attire](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6E19xXsShwdHYl5x9Gmfrh/449c4ad647ef3893635088b9ad142a13/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\nFor ladies who like to dress up, a white tie affair is a dream: full-length ball gowns or floor-length evening dresses that can be paired with a fur mantle, pashmina, or bolero vest. Remember, this is not a casual wedding, so do not wear a cocktail dress or semi-formal ensemble. Dress to impress with a gown or full dress. \n\nAny silhouette gown works, so long as the shape flatters the body and the hem touches the ground. The dress is accentuated by perfectly styled hair (an updo is much more acceptable than loose hair), alluring makeup, and striking jewelry. High stiletto heels are a must, as well as a small, elegant clutch to complete the look. \n\n### What Accessories Should You Add to Formal Wear?\n\nThere are a few accessories that make a distinct difference between black tie and white tie. At white tie weddings, men should wear a beautiful boutonniere in addition to a pocket square to add a more formal feel. And if they really want to dress the part, they can wear a top hat and white dinner gloves. It’s also not too much to bring a dress cane and a pocket watch to perfectly complement the look. In some special cases, wearing military and civil medals—called white tie decorations—can be worn. \n\nLadies, on the other hand, though not essential, can wear white gloves that go past the elbows or tiaras to complete their formal wear look.\n\n### Don’t Sweat It \nDressing up for a white tie affair can be intimidating, but when you are neatly groomed and the clothes you choose fit you well, you’re already off to a good start. \n\nWhen it comes to a white tie wedding, stick to simple colors (but never wear a black shirt to a white tie event), and remember that less is more. You wouldn’t want to distract the newlyweds or draw attention to yourself for the wrong reasons. \n\nIf you’re stressed, think of it this way: The [strict wedding dress code](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/dos-donts-wedding-guest-fashion) of a white tie is actually a good thing—it leaves very little room for interpretation, so simply follow the rules to the letter, and you won’t go wrong.","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_WeddingBoutique"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":" If you’re not sure where to start when it comes to choosing wedding day clothing for men, check out our guide to groom’s attire. 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Read on to discover our top tips and advice.","author":"Jane Chertoff","publishedAt":"2020-12-30T21:55:24.563Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4AhnEF0yNH8LSyc7GUhb2s/63680b567e078217d706a9af7c6628f6/Hero_Sweet_FunEllistonVineyardsWedding_OnelovePhotography.jpg","altText":"How to Pick Bridesmaid Dresses"},"heroCredit":"Onelove Photography","body":"Picking out a [bridesmaids dress](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/bridesmaids-bridal-party) that looks fabulous on your body type doesn’t have to be complicated. There are so many options for bridesmaids dresses, from fit-and-flare to A-line, to halter, V-neck, and one-shoulder. There really is something out there for everyone. If you know where to look, you’re bound to find a dress style that’s both flattering and comfortable. To help inform your search, use this handy guide. \n\n## Petite Bridesmaid Dresses\nPetite gals may feel swallowed up by off-the-rack dresses, so alterations are key to getting the fit just right. That said, the best dresses for petite frames include dresses that are form-fitted at the waist and have shorter hemlines.\n\nAnything that draws attention up to the neck and shoulders like V-neck, spaghetti straps, or sleeveless dresses, will help elongate petite gals. Short dresses also look adorable on petite frames. But if you have your heart set on a longer dress style, it can work—as it’s expertly tailored for a petite frame.\n\n![How to Pick Bridesmaid Dresses | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2UbZ1HclAWqaMmfYUdmqBB/9dec5b4e2c75dba7eed5ad36e63161b9/Inline_Zola__13_.png) *Photo Credit* // Zola\n\n### Best bets: *A-line, V-neck, spaghetti straps, sleeveless necklines*\n\n##### Tall/Athletic Bridesmaid Dresses\nTall or athletic bridesmaids are long and lean, so they can get away with lots of different styles when going bridesmaid dress shopping. To create the illusion of a waist, however, consider a bridal gown with an empire waist or a column-style dress that you can wear with a belt. As for necklines and straps, try a halter or one-shoulder dress. Long maxi dresses are ideal for the tall bridesmaid, too. They still may need to be altered, though, and your tailor may be able to add extra material for length, if needed.\n\n### Best bets: *Empire waist, belted dress, halter, one-shoulder*\n\n##### Busty Bridesmaid Dresses\nFor more coverage, a scoop neckline or shoulder drapes work well. Or if they’re comfortable showing off a little more skin, they may love a sweetheart bodice or V-neck dress with wide straps. Just make sure everything is tailored well, so the fit shows off all your gal’s best assets. The right supportive undergarments are also key here.\n\n### Best bets: *Scoop neckline, shoulder drapes, sweetheart bodice, V-neck*\n\n##### Pear or Triangle-Shaped Bridesmaid Dresses\nPear or triangle shapes want to balance out their lower half. Look for fit-and-flare dresses, A-line, or a flared skirt with a top, if you’re open to separate pieces. As for necklines, strapless or V-neck lines will draw attention upward and help balance out the look.\n\n### Best bets: *Fit-and-flare, flare skirt with top (separates)* \n##### Plus-Size Bridesmaid Dresses\nPlus-size bridesmaids shouldn’t feel limited in their selection. There are so many great plus-size styles available that look great. Look for a trumpet style, A-line, or anything with a cinched or belted waist and details like a deep V-neck or even cap sleeves or thicker straps for more coverage.\n\n### Best bets: *Cap sleeves, A-line, empire waist, trumpet style*\n\n##### Bridesmaid Dresses for Pregnant Women\nGoing to be preggers on the big day? You can still have a gorgeous dress that fits your growing bump. Let the store know you’re looking for a maternity dress (if you’re going to be over five or six months on the wedding day) that can easily be taken out as needed. As for styles, look for an extendable empire waist in a soft fabric or a form-fitting mermaid gown that showcases the bump. \n\n### Best bets: *Soft fabrics, empire waist that sits above the bump, maternity mermaid gown, shoulder details*\n\n##### What Bridesmaid Dress Looks Best on Everyone?\n\n![How to Pick Bridesmaid Dresses | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/Pq7nNbBRlU6kxh4ymPCcG/cf0dd137b6bf09f9c5e030097b872db7/Inline_Lisette_Gatliff_Photography.png)\n*Photo Credit //* Lisette Gatliff Photography\n\nIf you’re getting married and searching for a dress that will look great on everyone, you can’t go wrong with an A-line dress that will be altered to everyone perfectly before the big day.\n\nIf you’re the bride, be sure to consider your [wedding’s color palette](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-your-wedding-colors) and overall style before selecting your bridal gown selection. Or better yet, why not choose a color and then let your girls decide on their own style dress? The photos will still look uniform and everyone will look great in their chosen silhouette. \n\nWhen it comes to bridesmaid dress shopping, there really aren’t too many rules. Whether you go for matching dresses or have all your girls in a different dress, the decision is really up to you and what you envision on your special day.\n\n*Visit Zola’s [bridal boutique](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/bridesmaids-bridal-party) for even more bridesmaid dress inspo.*","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Letting your bridesmaids pick their own dresses for your wedding day means confident bridesmaids and less stress for you. Here are the do’s and don'ts of letting your bridesmaids pick out their own dress. 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","slug":"what's-your-wedding-dress-style","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/XT5O9Ow3qVWpESyo1sR7n/0b62327143e978d96e6b02a198e6e22e/Hero_what_s_your_wedding_dress_style__dear_stacey_wedding_photography_.jpg","altText":"bride wearing long-sleeve lace dress sitting on a settee in the middle of a garden with a basket of cut purple lavender beside her"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"We’ve put together a list that will help you decide on the perfect length wedding dress. 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Check out Zola to learn more.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2020-12-16T18:51:52.618Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7dVCQQlOP19zfMJm7z10K4/d739dd2224080b0cff35dfcc12d8e662/Hero_RomanticAlFrescoWeddingatRamscaleStudios_Feather_FawnPhotography.jpg","altText":"well dressed wedding party"},"heroCredit":"Feather & Fawn Photography","body":"Your son or daughter's wedding is an exciting and eventful time—and, as the mother of one half of the happy couple, what you wear to the wedding events (like the __[bridal shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-bridal-shower)__ or rehearsal dinner) can feel like a big deal. But the most important piece of attire you'll choose leading up to your child's wedding? Your mother of the bride (or mother of the groom) dress.\n\nIf you're like some people, you've had your eye on the perfect dress since your child got engaged (or long before that!). But if you're not sure what to wear, all the choices can feel overwhelming. Should you go with a pastel color scheme or go with something bolder? Should you match their wedding colors or choose something different? Do you go with a midi dress, a long dress, or a jumpsuit? Do you go with something beaded or something with sequins, or just keep it simple? \n\nAnd on top of that, you might be wondering what the difference between the mother of the bride and the mother of the groom's dress is—and how to choose the right dress for your child's big day. Let's break it all down so you have all the information you need to feel confident about your mother's dress as you __[walk down the aisle](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-walks-the-mother-of-the-bride-down-the-aisle)__, greet guests, and celebrate the happy couple on their wedding day:\n\n

Taking the Lead and Shopping Schedules

\n\nThe most significant difference between the mother of the bride and __[mother of the groom attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-should-the-mother-of-the-groom-wear)__ has nothing to do with the garments themselves—but is actually how the gowns are selected and when. Traditional etiquette dictates that the mother of the bride takes the lead and shops for her wedding attire first; then, the mother of the groom can choose her dress.\n\nHowever, many modern women use this advice as more of a guideline than a strict rule. Our suggestion? Keep the lines of communication open throughout the wedding planning process. Here is our best advice for both women shopping for the perfect dress for a special occasion. \n\n### Mother of the Bride \n\nAs the [bride’s mother](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/mother-of-the-bride-duties), you may be privy to a lot of information about the details of the wedding and your daughter’s preferences. It’s your responsibility to understand what she wants from both you and the groom’s mother in terms of your attire.\n\n![Mother of the Bride vs. Mother of the Groom Dresses: What's the Difference?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/10iI83AXp4U2gcGI8fGDj4/0b30983365807e1003eb89dffe62848b/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\nTypically, you shouldn’t start shopping for a dress until the bride has selected her wedding dress as well as those for the bridal party. If this hasn’t happened by about six to eight months before the wedding, check in with your daughter to see if she has a timeline, or ask if she is ok with you beginning to shop. Then, make sure you call the [mother of the groom](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-should-the-mother-of-the-groom-wear) to let her know the details—like color and style—of the dress you plan to buy for the wedding day, plus share information about when you plan to start your search. This will give her a better idea of what kind of outfit she should be looking for—and when she should start looking.\n\n### Mother of the Groom\nAs the [groom’s mother](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/mother-of-the-grooms-duties), you’ll want to let the mother of the bride take the lead during the dress shopping process. Generally, you should expect to start your dress shopping around six months before the wedding. However, you should wait to hear from the bride’s mother before you begin. She should let you know the color and style of her dress, so you can coordinate by selecting a complimentary design. If you haven’t heard from her by about five months before the wedding, don’t be afraid to reach out and ask for an update on the dress code. She should appreciate that you want to respect traditional wedding attire etiquette and will hopefully be able to give you some extra details, so you can begin shopping for your perfect dress.\n\n

Coordinate Color and Formality

\n\nUnless you are specifically asked to do so by the bride, both mothers should avoid matching each other or the bridesmaids’ dresses. However, coordination is still crucial for chic photographs on the big day. So, at the very least, both mothers will want to wear colors that complement the other. But it’s important to check in with the bride before you make any decisions. Maybe she envisions everyone wearing neutral tones, or perhaps she prefers bold and bright. Regardless of her preference, chances are she has one, so make sure you know what it is.\n\nMake sure you’re both wearing the same formality of dress as well. Otherwise, photos will appear off-balanced, and it might be misconstrued that one mother is trying to outshine or outdo the other. If the mother of the bride selects a more casual and laid-back look, most likely approved by the bride herself, then the groom’s mother probably won’t want to choose an overly formal dress. Open communication is key.\n\n### Color palette ideas for your dress\nNot sure what kinds of colors would work best for your mother of the bride or mother of the groom dress? Here are a few [color palette ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-color-should-the-mother-of-the-bride-dress-be) to get your creative juices flowing:\n\n- __Neutrals.__ When in doubt, going with a neutral dress color—like black (despite some old style misconceptions, it's totally [appropriate to wear black to a wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/is-it-bad-luck-to-wear-black-to-a-wedding)!), navy, gray, or taupe—is always a safe bet. Neutrals also work particularly well at black tie weddings.\n- __Silver and gold.__ Another can't-miss palettes for mother of the bride or mother of the groom dresses? Different shades of silver and gold. Keep things classic or try variations of the shades, like a champagne, rose gold, or shimmery charcoal.\n- __Jewel tones.__ If you want something a bit more unique and eye-catching, jewel tones—like emerald or plum—are also a great option, particularly for fall or winter weddings.\n\n

Dress Length

\n\nThis is one element of the dresses that do not have to match, as long as the formality is coordinated. For example, if the [mother of the bride dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-attire-101-garden-edition) consists of a floor-length gown for an evening affair, the mother of the groom may decide to wear a knee-length cocktail dress. Similarly, if the bride’s mother chooses to wear a tea-length dress for a daytime garden wedding, the groom’s mother may opt for a flowy maxi dress. The length of your gown should be about what you are most comfortable in, so try out a few options and choose what works best for you and your style. \n\n![Mother of the Bride vs. Mother of the Groom Dresses: What's the Difference?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3xZ9A8WVqnXfKWJDVL1y6x/c5114cb97051065c0f40ee7528e3ec92/inline_Lisa_Houston_Photography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Lisa Houston Photography\n\n

Etiquette for Step-Mothers

\n\nIn general, you’ll do your best to avoid matching with the bridesmaids or the mothers of the couple getting married. However, to determine whether or not you should also coordinate with both mothers, check in with the bride. Chances are, you will be in at least a few group photos with the parents of the bride and groom, and perhaps the wedding party. So, you’ll want to wear something that doesn’t clash with the rest of the group in photos.\n\nMuch like the mother of the groom, step-mothers of both the bride or groom should follow the lead of the mother of the bride. Specifically, you’ll want to ensure both the mother of the bride and mother of the groom have selected their dresses before you begin looking for yours.\n\n

Dress Guidelines for All Mothers

\n\nThough you’re no longer relegated to wearing matronly dresses, there are a few guidelines mothers of the bride, mothers of the groom, and step-mothers should all follow when dress shopping:\n\n1. __No White:__ It may seem obvious, but wearing white on someone else’s wedding day is frowned upon. This includes shades of bright white, ivory, champagne, and some off-whites. \n2. __Avoid Black:__ As a color associated with grief, it’s best to avoid wearing a black dress to a wedding unless it’s a formal affair or has been approved by the bride. \n3. __Keep It Simple:__ The design of your dress does not need to be dull or drab, but you should attempt to keep things simple. Avoid too many embellishments or bold, dramatic colors. These eye-catching elements may distract guests from the bride, who should be the center of attention on her big day. \n4. __When in Doubt, Ask the Bride:__ If you’ve found a dress you love, but aren’t sure about the color, style, or formality, don’t be afraid to ask the bride for her opinion. Of course, you should feel beautiful and comfortable in whatever you wear, but she probably has a clear vision for the aesthetic of her big day, and you should attempt to support that. \n\nThe mother of the bride and mother of the groom dresses aren’t all that different in terms of colors, style, or design. The contrast between these two gowns is in how they are selected. Both women should consider the bride’s preferences, but the mother of the bride should be allowed to take the lead on dress shopping for all mothers and step-mothers of the bride and groom. Following these simple guidelines is sure to make the process go smoothly and efficiently. \n\n## Shopping Tips \nWant to make sure your dress shopping trip is a successful one? Make sure to keep these tips in mind:\n\n- __Bring a swatch of the bridesmaid's dress.__ If the bridesmaid's dresses are locked in, bring a swatch with you on your shopping trip; that way, you can avoid buying a dress that clashes.\n- __Shop in advance.__ You don't want to wait until the last minute to get your dress for your child's wedding. Make sure to buy your dress at least a few months in advance (three or more is ideal); that way, you have plenty of time to find the perfect attire—and to get any necessary alterations before the big day.\n- __Ask what to wear with the dress.__ Once you find the perfect dress, make sure to ask the salesperson for their insights on what else you'll need to wear with the dress—like undergarments, shapewear, pantyhose, shoes, and accessories.\n\n## Outfit Ideas for the Mother’s Dress\nNeed some more inspiration for your mother of the bride or groom dress? Check out these outfit ideas:\n\n#### For a black tie event, try a floor-length gown.\nA black tie wedding is all about formal attire. So, if your children are hosting a black tie affair, make sure to wear a floor-length gown or sequin dress—preferably in a neutral tone (no overly bold hues). Crepe and chiffon are more formal dress fabrics that are great choices for a black-tie affair.\n\n#### For semi-formal wedding, consider a cocktail dress or pant suit.\nWith a semi-formal wedding, you have more options. A mid-length cocktail dress is a great way to achieve an elegant look—for more pizzazz, look for one that has sequin detail or a statement-making ruffle. Or, if you prefer to be a bit more covered up, a wide-legged pants suit in an elegant fabric is a great alternative.\n\n#### For a beach wedding, rock a flowing sundress.\nBeach weddings are more laid-back and casual than other types of nuptials—and a formal dress would feel out of place. Opt for a well-cut, flowing sundress in a breathable fabric, like chiffon—and pair with dressy sandals to pull the look together (while still feeling comfortable on the sand!). Choose a vibrant color, or even a floral print for your dress.\n\n## 14 Best Mother of Bride and Groom Dress Ideas\n### 1. A-Line Dress\nFor a silhouette that's timeless, elegant, and always-flattering, you can't go wrong with an A-line style.\n\n[Mac Duggal Emery A-Line Hand-Embroidered V-Neck Gown](https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/mac-duggal-emery-a-line-hand-embroidered-v-neck-gown), $798, Anthropologie\n\n### 2. Evening Dress\nIf your child is having a black-tie wedding, you'll want to go more formal with a true evening dress. This is your chance to choose a gown with a dramatic neckline and plenty of sparkly sequins!\n\n[BHLDN Rosie Off-Shoulder Beaded Column Gown](https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/bhldn-rosie-off-shoulder-beaded-back-slit-column-gown), $350, Anthropologie\n\n### 3. Ball Gown\nA ball gown is another formal dress style for the mother of the bride or groom. This style has a similar silhouette to A-line dresses, but has a fuller skirt that's perfect for elegant events.\n\n[Adrianna Papell Beaded Mesh & Taffeta Ballgown](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/beaded-mesh-taffeta-ballgown/7309715), $299, Nordstrom\n\n### 4. Lace Dress\nIf you're all about the details, go for a delicate lace style. In a lighter color, a lace dress is perfect for a warm weather wedding. \n\n[Eliza J Scalloped Edge Lace Gown](https://www.bloomingdales.com/shop/product/eliza-j-scalloped-edge-lace-gown?ID=3620453&CategoryID=1018661), $268, Bloomingdale's\n\n### 5. V-Neck Dress\nDo you want to show off your décolletage? Choosing a dress with a V neckline is perfect if you want to show off your youthful side. \n\n[Oleg Cassini V-Neck Beaded Sheath Dress](https://www.davidsbridal.com/product/v-neck-beaded-sheath-with-illusion-sleeves-wgin5141d), $329.95, David's Bridal\n\n### 6. Halter Dress\nFor a high neck, exposed back look, go for a halter neckline. This style works well for formal weddings as well as semi-formal affairs.\n\n[Eliza J Bow Back Halter Gown](https://www.bloomingdales.com/shop/product/eliza-j-bow-back-halter-gown?ID=4614762&CategoryID=1018661), $228, Bloomingdale's\n\n### 7. Strapless Dress\nStrapless dresses are less popular picks for mothers of the bride and groom, so if you want to make a statement, this is the style for you.\n\n[Mac Duggal Amelie Floral Brocade Strapless Gown](https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/mac-duggal-amelie-floral-brocade-strapless-gown), $798, Bloomingdale's\n\n### 8. Long Sleeve Dress\nIf your child is getting married in the winter, or you feel more comfortable with a more modest style, choose a long sleeve dress.\n\n[Mac Duggal Reese V-Neck Pleated Long-Sleeve Gown](https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/mac-duggal-reese-v-neck-pleated-long-sleeve-gown), $458, Anthropologie\n\n### 9. Short Sleeve Dress\nIf you don't want to commit to a long sleeve style but want to cover your arms, a short sleeve dress is the perfect happy-medium.\n\n[XSCAPE Fit & Flare Gown](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/xscape-bead-sequin-fit-flare-gown/6715420), $378, Nordstrom\n\n### 10. Sleeveless Dress\nPlanning on tearing up the dance floor? Keep your cool in a sleeveless dress - just bring a jacket or shawl in case the evening gets chilly.\n\n[Pisarro Nights Beaded Mesh Gown](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/pisarro-nights-beaded-mesh-gown/5377948), $238, Nordstrom\n\n### 11. Cap Sleeve Dress\nFor a short sleeve dress look that feels a bit more tailored, choose a cap sleeve style. \n\n[Oleg Cassini Cap Sleeve Sequin Embroidered Sheath Dress](https://www.davidsbridal.com/product/scalloped-cap-sleeve-sequin-embroidered-sheath-wbm3351), $249.95, David's Bridal\n\n### 12. Flutter Sleeve Dress\nFlutter sleeves (flared, short sleeves) are designed to flatter your arms—and the looser fit is ideal if your child is getting married in warmer weather.\n\n[Alex Evenings V-Neck Dress with Flutter Sleeves](https://www.davidsbridal.com/product/v-neck-sequin-a-line-dress-with-flutter-sleeves-8196611), $259, David's Bridal\n\n### 13. Jacket Dress\nMany traditional mother of the bride dresses feature some sort of matching jacket. Today, there are plenty of modern takes on this practical look.\n\n[Alex Evenings Glitter-Dusted Mesh Sheath Dress with Bolero](https://www.davidsbridal.com/product/glitter-dusted-mesh-sheath-dress-with-bolero-125196ds), $199, David's Bridal\n\n### 14. Plus Size Dress\nMany mother of the bride and groom dresses are available in plus size options, so you can find a style that flatters your figure. \n\n[Mac Duggal Plus Beaded Gown](https://www.bloomingdales.com/shop/product/mac-duggal-beaded-gown?ID=4514611&CategoryID=1018661), $498, Bloomingdale's","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"You got the dress now top it all off with wedding accessories that will make your bridal look really stand out. Here are nine wedding accessories every bride needs.","title":"9 Wedding Accessories to Complete Your Bridal Look","slug":"wedding-accessories-bridal-look","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5MS0DHdPrcmuPH7sg3fnui/39dc64529a8adef60342b0f3c2b42db3/4106341.jpg","altText":"bride puts on wedding accessories"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"It’s easy to pick an outfit for a formal wedding, but what about a casual attire wedding? Read on to get some pointers on what to wear to a casual attire wedding. ","title":"Casual Wedding Attire Guide","slug":"casual-wedding-attire-guide","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6uuL6M77rEUl8NuQmPGrI6/12ef1b1f643341a710ceb9d7a3e01e3c/inline_cbrownphoto__1_.jpg","altText":"how to dress for a casual wedding dress code"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Is it ever too soon to buy a wedding dress? If you're wondering when to buy a wedding dress, Zola—the wedding expert—has all the answers right here.","title":"How Soon Should I Buy My Wedding Dress?","slug":"how-soon-should-i-buy-my-wedding-dress","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4QwUcVaMEWSNxjIWCFDIvQ/3e8337af6c6135579b09ddcfce7dd9f0/hero_Rick_Messina_Photography.jpg","altText":"married couple outside"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Finding the perfect wedding dress can sometimes feel as challenging as finding your soul mate. Luckily we’re here with a quick-and-easy quiz to help you figure out your ideal wedding style.","title":"What’s Your Wedding Dress Style? ","slug":"what's-your-wedding-dress-style","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/XT5O9Ow3qVWpESyo1sR7n/0b62327143e978d96e6b02a198e6e22e/Hero_what_s_your_wedding_dress_style__dear_stacey_wedding_photography_.jpg","altText":"bride wearing long-sleeve lace dress sitting on a settee in the middle of a garden with a basket of cut purple lavender beside her"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:40:06.936Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"semi-formal-attire-for-men","title":"A Quick Guide to Semi-Formal Wedding Attire for Men ","excerpt":"Learn the ins and outs of semi-formal attire for men. Our guide offers outfit ideas and tips to perfect your look for any sophisticated occasion.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-12-28T17:02:16.505Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/62tSXdhHV1VOBpQru0XU8e/1ea1c2badca0bc2b61136f7b0133550b/Hero_ClassicWeddingatOceanKeyResortandSpa_FreasPhotography.jpg","altText":"Semi-Formal Attire for Men"},"heroCredit":"Freas Photography","body":"Most guys know what [formal attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-dress-for-a-black-tie-formal-wedding) is, but a semi-formal dress code is a whole different ball game. And when you consider that \"semi\" can mean a tractor-trailer or the game before the final game, and there’s a whole new level of confusion. Rest assured that neither of these definitions has anything to do with semi-formal wedding attire for men! Here, we'll clarify what a men's semi-formal look is when it comes to wedding dress codes.\n\n## What Is the Difference Between Semi-Formal and Formal Attire? \nIn short, the word “semi” means half, so a semi-formal dress code lies somewhere in between casual and formal. A better way to define the prefix, in this case, is “sort of” or “somewhat” formal. So, for a semi-formal look, save the __[tuxedo](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_pants)__ for a [black-tie](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-should-men-dress-for-a-black-tie-wedding) or formal event. It’s not appropriate for a semi-formal event where suiting is more fitting.\n\n## What Is Appropriate to Wear to a Semi-Formal Event? \nKeep your tuxedo and white tie best in the closet. Whether you prefer a navy suit or light blue suit, or a pair of khakis with a lighter suit jacket, three piece suits, blazers, and chinos are all en vogue for semi-formal events. \n\nHowever, pay special attention to how you accessorize, as it doesn’t merely come down to a button-down, __[jacket](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_textured_gray_suit_jacket)__ and __[trousers](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_textured_gray_suit_pants)__. Shoes should be in pristine condition—dress shoes, loafers and oxfords are all great options.\n\nThe shirt—__[long-sleeved, preferably](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_white_dress_shirt)__—should be neatly pressed. A belt and socks are also necessities, and cufflinks add a nice touch.\n\nIf you’re unsure of the formality when going to a wedding that suggests semi-formal attire for men, adding a pocket square, suspenders and neckwear to a classic black suit will help your look fit the bill. You can toss these aside once you arrive at the event, if they make your look too formal. It’s better to be a bit overdressed. You can always dress your look down, rather than forgo the tie and wish you had worn it instead. \n\n![Semi-Formal Attire for Men | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6kS38U7hADntczmnPH0IEk/7f0dd7f570274b301210fd027b6f2ad6/Inline_Seedling_Photography.png) *Photo Credit* // Seedling Photography\n\n## Where Do Guys Wear Semi-Formal Attire? \n\nWeddings, of course, are our top answer, but there are other occasions where semi-formal wear is appropriate. You will have the perfect opportunity if you are heading to the theatre or an upscale restaurant. Guys may wear a blazer and trousers, along with loafers and cufflinks, to a holiday party or office event, which is a normal semi-formal event. In short, you’ll most likely wear your semi-formal [wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding) again, so making it an investment is a wise choice.\n\nAnother thing to consider is when the event is happening. Darker colors are appropriate for evening weddings, and lighter tones are more fitting for the day. However, don’t feel limited by that rule. Pale tones can complement an outdoor summer wedding as daylight lingers into the evening hours.\n\n## What Do I Do If There Is No Attire Listed on the Invitation? \nSeveral cues can be on the invitation itself, and here are a few suggestions on how to interpret those subtleties. Although these aren’t hard and fast rules, they can help guide your choices on [how to dress as a guest](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/dos-donts-wedding-guest-fashion). \n\nHowever, if you still have questions about the dress code, reach out to the couple to clarify. They would much rather have you ask than risk having you wear a [tuxedo](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_jacket) or denim to their semi-formal wedding.\n\n### 1. Look at the style. \nOften, classically designed invitations—such as plain and embossed with script font—are reserved for more formal events.\n\n### 2. Read the wording. \nTraditional stationery that “requests the honor of your presence” generally denotes a more upscale event.\n\n### 3. Note the time of day. \nCustomarily, a daytime wedding will range from a casual to semi-formal dress code. At the same time, evening events tend to be ritzier.\n\n### 4. Research the venue. \nA barn wedding can call for a less formal look. However, an urban hotel reception will require something a bit more posh.\n\n### 5. Consult the wedding website. \nCouples utilize their __[wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website)__ to answer a whole host of questions that can’t be addressed on the invitation alone. Head to their online invitation or FAQ section for clarification on their requested dress code.\n\n## Dos and Don’ts of Semi-Formal Attire for Weddings\n\n![Semi-Formal Attire for Men | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1s7mqou1Ay59dCExVkIHJu/6c4e7eafa2ee51ccefcff5a127de8326/Inline_Jessika_Feltz_Photography.png)\n*Photo Credit //* Jessika Feltz Photography\n\n1. __Don’t__ arrive underdressed. To reiterate, wear items such as a tie and pocket square, which can be taken off if you feel overdressed.\n2. __Do__ wear colors that correspond to the time of day—light for day and dark for nighttime.\n3. __Don’t__ wear extremes. As in, forego the tux, but don’t wear jeans, either.\n4. __Do__ pay attention to your details. Wear a belt and cufflinks, ensure that your dress shirt is pristine, and don’t forget socks for your dress shoes.\n5. __Don’t__ be afraid to mismatch your suiting. You can wear a suit, but a [jacket](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_navy_blue_suit_jacket) and [dress pants](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_navy_blue_suit_pants) are also a perfect combo.\n6. __Do__ be respectful of the dress code. If an invitation requests semi-formal wedding attire, it’s best to adhere to the directive and not go rogue.\n\n## A Quick Guide to Dressing the Wedding Party\nHopefully, if you’re getting married or are serving as a __[wedding attendant](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-many-people-in-wedding-party)__, you already grasp what semi-formal attire is. It’s appropriate for the groom and the __[wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one)__ to wear less-than-formal clothing. However, there are a few things to keep in mind.\n\n- __The groom should be more formal than the male attendants__. Saying “I do” on the big day garners extra attention, so take the opportunity while you can. Go a bit more formal than the [groomsmen](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-groomsmen-duties), in subtle ways. Opt for a bow tie instead of a traditional necktie. Wear a suit instead of separates. However you choose to express yourself, let everyone know that it’s your wedding day. \n- __Male attendants coordinate with—not match—the groom.__ Yes, the guys can be matchy-matchy, but let the groom stand out on his own. Coordinating colors and patterns for neckwear and suiting works well to create a cohesive look. \n- __Double grooms don’t have to match each other.__ In this case, each groom can choose to express themselves individually. However, be sure not to clash. Even if you both love [bold colors](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_brilliant_blue_suit_jacket), try to coordinate them with other elements of the wedding. \n\n## 10 Semi-Formal Wedding Attire Ideas for Men\n### 1. Classic Black Suit\nA classic black suit is always in style, and it's a perfect option for semi-formal affairs that are happening in the evening.\n\n[Modern Fit Wool Blend Suit](https://www.saksoff5th.com/product/saks-fifth-avenue-modern-fit-wool-blend-suit-0400017456739.html?site_refer=NPLA_GGL_Shopping&country=US¤cy=USD&dwvar_0400017456739_size=38_R&dwvar_0400017456739_color=BLACK), $199.99, Saks Off Fifth\n\n### 2. Navy Suit\nIf you want something that's as sleek as black but a little bit different, navy is a great color choice for any cocktail dress code. \n\n[1905 Collection Tailored Fit Suit](https://www.josbank.com/p/1905-collection-tailored-fit-suit-clearance-3WNDC), $159.99, Jos A. Bank\n\n### 3. Light Colored Suit\nIf you're looking for semi-formal wedding attire for a Southern or daytime wedding, go for a men's suit in a lighter color.\n\n[Kenneth Cole Reaction Men's Slim-Fit Stretch Linen Suit](https://www.macys.com/shop/product/kenneth-cole-reaction-mens-slim-fit-stretch-linen-solid-suit), $395, Macy's\n\n### 4. Lightweight Suit Jacket\nChoose a fabric like linen for a lightweight suit jacket option, and wear it with your go-to pair of chinos or dressy khakis. \n\n[JOE Joseph Abboud Linen Slim Fit Suit Jacket](https://www.menswearhouse.com/p/joe-joseph-abboud-linen-slim-fit-suit-separates-jacket-rose-3W8H3W8J11), $199.99, Men's Wearhouse\n\n### 5. Chinos\nIf you're going to a daytime wedding with a semi-formal dress code, chino pants are a comfortable, easy option.\n\n[Clark Straight-Fit Stretch Advantage Chino](https://www.brooksbrothers.com/clark-straight-fit-stretch-advantage-chino%C2%AE-pants/MR00511.html?dwvar_MR00511_Color=NAVY&quantity=1), $118, Brooks Brothers\n\n### 6. Khakis\nAre khakis more your thing? Pair these light-colored pants with your favorite navy suit jacket for a high-contrast, semi-formal outfit.\n\n[Stretch Weekday Warrior Dress Pants in Khaki](https://bonobos.com/products/stretch-weekday-warrior-dress-pants?color=thursday%20true%20khaki&pant-fit=athletic&pant-length=32&pant-waist=34&utm_medium=ppc&utm_source=google&utm_campaign=00_G-Shopping_US_NB_%7c_Pants_Jeans_%7c_DSK_TBL&utm_content=11375102844_116738842732&gclid=CjwKCAjwrdmhBhBBEiwA4Hx5g2XHRRcAZqirHigfMLGUpDz98vji9gB2xZzdvRhXv0_nE2xWtPyGoxoCVkEQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds), $119, Bonobos\n\n### 7. Dress Shoes\nA great pair of men's dress shoes are a must-have in any semi-formal wardrobe arsenal. A color like brown is so versatile - wear them with navy, gray or khaki suit separates. \n\n[Vince Camuto Lamson Cap Toe Oxford](https://www.dsw.com/en/us/product/vince-camuto-lamson-cap-toe-oxford/505129), $79.99, DSW\n\n### 8. Loafers\nFor a slightly more elevated dress shoe option, try a pair of loafers. \n\n[Johnston & Murphy Everett Suede Loafers](https://www.menswearhouse.com/p/johnston-murphy-everett-suede-loafers-black-41R502?source=google&CAWELAID=120259610001174994), $149.99, Men's Wearhouse\n\n### 9. Button-Down Shirt\nWhen it comes to semi-formal wedding attire, you can never have too many button-down shirts. A patterned one is an easy way to show off your personality under your suit jacket. \n\n[Button-Down Collar Stripe Shirt](https://www.charlestyrwhitt.com/us/button-down-collar-non-iron-stripe-shirt---cobalt-blue/FOB0636COB.html?gclid=CjwKCAjwrdmhBhBBEiwA4Hx5g4osArKIdr2Qwr11GfC-fTSLZlTUZaCkL53ueQFs9RYVG4A_uH7WwhoC6vgQAvD_BwE&marketing=true&utm_campaign=USA-Shopping-F15&marketingCode=us39t3&utm_source=google), $39.95, Charles Tyrwhitt\n\n### 10. Cufflinks\nCufflinks are one of the easiest ways to make any semi-formal wedding attire just a little more elevated. \n\n[Gold Round Cufflinks](https://suitsupply.com/en-us/men/accessories/cufflinks/gold-round-cufflinks/M293.html), $119, SuitSupply\n\nFor some guys, date night consists of a jacket and dress shoes. Others grab their favorite t-shirt and best-loved jeans to head out on the town. Depending on the circumstances, either outfit can be appropriate, yet only one qualifies as semi-formal attire. Suiting isn’t the norm for some, but a wedding is the absolute best reason to kick it up a notch.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"The style of a groom’s suit will help determine whether a bow tie or tie should be worn on their wedding day. ","title":"Should the Groom Wear a Tie or Bow Tie for Their Wedding?","slug":"should-the-groom-wear-a-tie-or-bow-tie-for-their-wedding","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6R74fvnnamtZnB9bDYqX3B/18c013868430462f5b11eceafa771fdc/Hero_RomanticBlack-TieWeddingatBrooklynBotanicGarden_NSTPictures.jpg","altText":"Should the Groom Wear a Tie or Bow Tie"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Garden wedding attire blends comfort and style with light fabrics and floral touches. Discover perfect outfits for an enchanting outdoor celebration.","title":"What to Wear to a Garden Attire Wedding + Outfit Ideas","slug":"wedding-attire-101-garden-edition","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How To","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7KWMJbQXACJUKgjm4SJk5p/351ea3ef7aea27d1454597021f0d5639/Hero_ClassicBlackTieWeddingatRiversideChurch_CinderandCo.jpg","altText":"Bride and groom outdoors under a flowering tree at a garden wedding"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"To help your groom’s crew achieve wedding party perfection, here’s a total rundown of both traditional and lesser-known duties that the groomsmen can handle to make your day a breeze.","title":"The Groomsmen Duties: A Full Breakdown","slug":"what-are-the-groomsmen-duties","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/fWwz6PEGcwUqySiyogssM/896f7054e8a5e377c932d0a30417662c/Groomsmen-Duties_DreamlifePhotosandVideo.jpg","altText":"groom and groomsmen in light grey suits"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Kids can be just as hard to dress as grownups. Check out Zola’s useful guide to kids’ wedding attire to make sure your little ones look spiffy. ","title":"A Guide to Children Attire at a Wedding","slug":"a-guide-to-children-attire-at-a-wedding","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How To","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/IYEYk6480FuOpDGbk0bbo/347aff317ced979cd7e33a9ce5f0adde/Hero_RomanticBlushWeddingatGlendaloughManor_LauraAnneWatson.jpg","altText":"A Guide to Children Attire at a Wedding"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:40:06.379Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"what-should-the-mother-of-the-groom-wear","title":"What Should the Mother of the Groom Wear?","excerpt":"Wondering what the mother of the groom should wear to your wedding? Read on for our complete guide.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2020-12-16T20:33:51.524Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3XYQnnhFxaJwQKwb4o3VdP/09b22c0665e884e05ef2a3f099378d4c/hero_Eyes_2_See_Photography.jpg","altText":"mother of the groom"},"heroCredit":"Eyes 2 See Photography","body":"Mothers are always valued members of a couple’s wedding party, whether it’s the mother of the bride or the mother of the groom. Both are honored and appreciated for their contributions to the bride and groom’s big day. \n\nThe mother of the groom in particular has several responsibilities, including helping plan the guest list for the groom’s side of the family and hosting the rehearsal dinner. It’s only natural that she looks exceptional when the big day rolls around. But what exactly should the mother of the groom wear? \n\n## Wedding Etiquette for the Mother of the Groom\n\nDepending upon how much of a stickler for tradition you are, there may be etiquette rules your family members and guests must follow. These rules may include a few about the wedding attire for the groom’s mother. \n\n### Dress Buying Traditions\n\nWondering if there’s a difference [between the mother of the bride dress and the mother of the groom dress?](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/mother-of-the-bride-vs-mother-of-the-groom-dresses-whats-the-difference) Traditionally, the mother of the bride decides on her dress first and then informs the groom’s mother. The mother of the groom can then get a dress that complements the [mother of the bride dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-attire-101-garden-edition) on the wedding day. \n\nKeep in mind that the two moms do not have to dress identical at all—the two dresses just have to be complementary, so they don't clash with each other, the wedding theme, or the bridesmaid dresses. \n\nIt’s worth noting, though: Nowadays, this tradition is considered more of a guideline than a hard rule. Still, it’s good guidance—especially if you haven’t heard otherwise. \n\n![Mother of the Groom Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/25fkY0wAnryA14ISsWlQEE/b10a6d827562696eacee5b1c7807476c/inline_rengim-mutevellioglu.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Rengim Mutevellioglu\n\n### Dress Etiquette\n\nAs stated before, the mother of the groom is an honored part of the special occasion, and she should dress accordingly. Both the mother of the bride and groom should select dresses that are similar in style and length and complementary to the wedding color palette and theme. \n\nBefore any shopping is done, consult with the bride or groom to get a better idea of their vision for the wedding day. For instance, flashy dresses and distracting colors wouldn’t be appropriate for a wedding with a soft, vintage theme. The mother of the groom should also avoid particular styles, such as low-cut necklines, thigh-split dresses, or tight skirts. \n\nJust keep in mind: Within reason, the mother of the groom should be able to dress according to her personality and comfort. \n\n### Dress Shopping Is Bonding Time\n\nIn today’s culture, mothers of the bride and groom often go dress shopping together and view it as an opportunity to bond and get to know one another better. Other moms might shop with the bride and bridesmaids as well, opting to make it a big gal’s day complete with a fancy lunch or dinner. This not only helps everyone get to know each other better, but also helps ensure that everyone looks great and dresses don’t clash. \n\n## Wedding Etiquette for Stepmoms of the Groom\n\nIf the groom’s family is a blended family, it can sometimes get complicated. The mother of the bride is only obliged to inform the mother of the groom about her wedding attire. Stepmothers, on the other hand, are the groom’s responsibility. It’s up to him to give her the required information, so that she can dress appropriately. \n\nOf course, this may be different in every family, because it depends on how close the groom is with his stepmother. If she’s considered a close family member and you plan to seat her in front with other family members, then she should choose her outfit in keeping with the colors and theme of the rest of the wedding party and family. However, if the two are not close and she is considered merely a guest, then she will be seated with guests and should have full freedom to dress however she likes (assuming it’s wedding appropriate!). There’s really no need for her attire to match the immediate family or wedding party—unless she just wants to.\n\n## Color Dos and Don’ts\n\n### Dos\n\nThere’s no end to the color palettes and wedding themes a bride might choose from. Depending on the theme, many mothers of the groom favor colors like:\n\n- Blues\n- Blushes\n- Mauves\n- Lavenders\n- Mint Green\n- Peach\n\nIf your wedding is a formal one, some mothers of the groom might prefer to wear shades of gold, dark silver, or even black. Other darker colors that might be worn include shades of :\n\n- Navy\n- Green\n- Purple\n- Red\n\n### Don’ts\n\nRemember, it’s a big fashion faux pas for someone in the immediate family or wedding party to wear white or any variation thereof. Even neutral colors like cream or beige are against dress code. \n\nOf course, some brides might not mind; some may even want their bridal party in white. When in doubt, though, it’s best to err on the side of caution. \n\n## Wedding Attire Styles for the Mother of the Groom\n\nIt’s important to consider age, body shape, and the time of year when deciding on a dress style for the mother of the groom.\n\n### Body Shape\n\nDifferent dress shapes flatter different body types:\n\n- Someone who is wider at the shoulder and narrower at the hips, like an inverted triangle, might look best in V-necklines and A-line skirts, with a nipped waist to create a shapely silhouette.\n- Someone with wider hips should focus on accentuating the top of her body with detailing or an off-the-shoulder neckline, along with fit and flare dress styles. \n- Someone with an hourglass figure should avoid baggy and loose dresses, or run the risk of looking frumpy.\n- Someone with a rectangle body shape might consider more form-fitting dresses.\n\nHowever, remember that these are just tips and guidelines. It’s more important to make sure that whatever style of dress the mother of the groom wears, she feels comfortable and attractive. \n\n### Time of Year\n\nThe mother of the groom should feel comfortable through the wedding ceremony and reception. That’s why it’s important to consider the season and whether or not the venue is indoor or outdoor when choosing a dress. For example, the mother of the bride can get away with wearing a casual sundress for an outdoor, summer beach wedding, but should wear a formal dress for an indoor, black-tie affair. \n\nDuring colder months, dresses can be accessorized with shawls, faux fur, and shrugs. Tailored jackets are another option that look great and help keep the groom’s mom toasty and warm. Also, if it’s simply too cold for a dress, pantsuits can be a good option to keep the legs covered. \n\nDepending on where you live, spring is typically warm, which means she could wear tea-length and cocktail dresses and be perfectly comfortable. Summer is also a great season for tea-length dresses. \n\n### Age-Appropriate\n\nRemember, there is such a thing as too sexy. The mother of the groom should avoid wearing anything that’s overtly sexy, such as deep necklines with cleavage or skirts that flash the thigh. If you know that the mother of the groom tends to dress a little on the risqué side, there’s nothing wrong with asking her to wear something that’s age-appropriate. \n\n![Mother of the Groom Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3ym2V6NZrPUABfEbT0eRIZ/9f244b1d9574d64e93c28a840b42a985/inline_stocksy.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Stocksy\n\n## Don’t Forget Accessories\n\nNo outfit is complete without matching accessories. For a mother of the groom, accessories might include: \n\n- Small clutch purse\n- Medium tote purse\n- Stylish hat or headband\n- Pretty necklace and earrings\n- Bangle bracelets\n\nWhatever accessories she wears, it should be something that complements her wedding attire and highlights her own unique style without taking attention away from you. \n\nIf the mother of the groom is uncomfortable with the neckline or sleeves of her chosen wedding attire, she could always add a trendy scarf or shawl. This does double duty by covering her up more and accessorizing her look. \n\nWedding attire for the mother of the groom really isn’t that complicated. Once there’s a theme, color palette, and venue in place, she’ll be able to pick just the right dress.\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Garden wedding attire blends comfort and style with light fabrics and floral touches. 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You can't go wrong with a simple gown. Check out Zola's guide to beautiful, simple wedding dresses.","title":"Simple Wedding Dresses That Are Elegant and Timeless","slug":"simple-wedding-dresses-that-are-elegant-and-timeless","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2SjlWOaxslfaqQ1FB2Pzmr/3422d8d0544ed3158ea19873b4540f3d/Hero_New__12_.jpg","altText":"couple kisses at wedding "},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:40:05.051Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"groom-tuxedo-ideas","title":"A Complete Guide to Groom and Groomsmen Tuxedos + Ideas","excerpt":"Tuxedos are ideal for grooms at formal weddings and black-tie affairs. You can customize your tux with personalized details, such as special cufflinks and playful socks.","author":"Laura Hensley","publishedAt":"2020-12-21T21:51:10.044Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6ah6lIqItIOOt4VDWFaRiR/175de92399293ddb6962b0e9eeb42e27/Hero_EnglishGardenIntimateWeddingatHistoricKeelerTavern_CoreyLynnTuckerPhotography__1_.jpg","altText":"Groom Tuxedos"},"heroCredit":"Corey Lynn Tucker Photography","body":"A tuxedo is an elegant wedding look for grooms, but there are options beyond the classic black tux.\n\nWedding celebrations are exceptionally special occasions, so looking the part with the right wedding wear is important. The general rule is that your and your wedding party's wedding attire should match the vibe of the [wedding location](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue), [theme](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-themes), and the to-be-wed couple. A tuxedo is a classic, elegant look for groomsmen.\n\nTuxedos are ideal for formal weddings and black-tie affairs. Groomsmen can customize their tux with personalized details, such as patterned socks and special cufflinks. Tuxedos are often black and worn with bow ties, but navy or gray tuxedo jackets can make a tux feel a bit less traditional. All of this and more should be top of mind when picking out your groomsmen's tuxedos—or even giving them some guidelines. Read on for more tips and need-to-know knowledge on the formal attire. \n\n## Know What Makes a Tuxedo a Tuxedo \n\n![Groom Tuxedo Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7dh3Ir88pgsa16q6gPuVre/d8692ff8bcbb13d535a9cf71b73e6dbc/Inline_Stephen_Gosling_Photography.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Stephen Gosling Photography\n\nBefore we jump into groom tuxedo ideas, let’s get one thing straight: Tuxedos and suits are not the same. The main difference between a tuxedo and a wedding suit is the fabric. So, what’s the difference between these wedding wear classics? \n\n__Tuxedos are often made of wool and have contrasting satin details, whereas suits typically do not.__ Satin appears on the jacket’s lapel, breast and waist pockets, and on the tux’s buttons. Tuxedo pants often have a satin stripe running down the leg, and typically do not have belt loops. This makes suspenders the pant-holder of choice when wearing a wedding tuxedo.\n\n__You can rock a single-breasted or double-breasted tuxedo jacket.__ Jackets have different lapel styles: a notch lapel, a shawl lapel, or a peak lapel. A cummerbund—waist covering—distinguishes tuxedos from suits, but they go in and out of popularity. If you choose to wear one (which is customary for true black-tie events) it should match the fabric of your lapels. Likewise, a low-cut vest is also part of the black-tie dress code. These formal vests have lapels and show off your dress shirt. It’s customary for bow ties to be worn with tuxedos, but, like all parts of a tuxedo, pick which elements suit you for your formal wedding.\n\nNow that we’ve cleared that up, here are some tuxedo ideas for grooms.\n\n## How to Choose Your Tuxedos\nBefore we get into the details, let's talk basics. When starting to think of what tuxedos you'd like for your groomsmen, there are a few things you need to consider first. Yes, formality, style, and color, are important (and we'll talk about each in a bit), but you can't decide on these things without first considering the following.\n\n- __Budget.__ It's crucial that you keep your groomsmen's budget top of mind. If each person is footing the bill for their own attire (more on that below), what they're comfortable paying will influence the rest of your decisions. Have a transparent conversation with each of your groomsmen or be prepared to have alternatives available.\n- __Weather and terrain.__ Second to budget is surroundings. Keep in mind what the atmosphere will be like on the day/evening/night of your wedding—not just aesthetic-wise, but in terms of location. Your wedding party's comfort should be a priority, so weather and terrain should factor into your choices. If you aren't familiar with the wedding location's conditions, get in touch with your vendor and keep tabs on expected temperatures.\n\nNow that we've covered two of the biggest factors in choosing your and your groomsmen's tuxedos, we can talk style.\n\n## Match Your Tuxedos With the Vibe of Your Wedding \n\nWhen shopping for a tux, you want to think about the overall [style of your wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/whats-your-wedding-style). Your [wedding venue](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-venues) is one of the main determining factors of your wedding aesthetic, so if you’re getting married at a farm, for example, you’ll all likely wear something more casual. A tuxedo is ideal for a swanky, formal wedding. Think venues such as a ballroom or fancy hotel. In other words, you want your tuxedos to match your wedding’s level of formality.\n\n## Popular Tuxedo Colors \n\nBlack tuxedos are considered the most formal. A black jacket with a white dress shirt and black bow tie is the most iconic tuxedo look. There are different variations of shirt collars, including wingtip and spread, which sit slightly differently over the bow tie. A black tux looks good in all seasons but is particularly suitable for cooler-weather weddings or evening affairs.\n\nIf your wedding is semi-formal, you can still rock a tuxedo—you may just want to wear a slightly less formal one. A navy tux with black satin lapel detailing is the perfect mix. The navy conveys a bit more of a laid-back vibe, while the satin finishes make you look polished and sharp. This color tux looks fantastic [during the fall](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue). \n\nGrey or burgundy tuxedo jackets paired with black pants are both contemporary. This aesthetic is perfect for grooms who want a classic look with a modern twist. Light grey evokes a more [spring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue) and summery feel, whereas dark grey and burgundy are best for [fall](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/outdoor-wedding-ideas-for-fall) or winter weddings. Grey is also a solid option for a daytime wedding. \n\nIf you like to step outside the box, you might be drawn to a printed or patterned tuxedo. A patterned tux is a bolder statement, so it isn’t for everyone. If you do choose to wear a print or pattern, it’s best to keep your dress shirt and bow tie a solid color. Too many patterns can clash. \n\nAnd, who says only brides can wear white? If you want to wear white on your wedding day, a white tuxedo looks very sharp when done properly. (Think Daniel Craig as James Bond in *Spectre*.) \n\n![Who Pays for the Groomsmen Suits?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/68XYb5wUsIZY6S2teHiZLR/bc59820ebe9d4cada55084c0f001074b/Inline_Michelle_Lawson_Photography.png) *Photo Credit* // Michelle Lawson Photography\n\n## Consider What Your Partner and the Wedding Party Are Wearing \n\nThis should go without saying: It’s important that your tuxedos compliment your spouse’s outfit and your groom attire. You don’t need to see your bride’s dress before the big day, but you should know its material and how formal it is. Shopping for a suitable tux will be a lot easier when you have an idea of what your partner is wearing.\n\nFor weddings with two grooms, tuxedos don’t need to be identical (unless you want them to be). But, again, they should look good together. A groom in a soft grey tux looks fine standing next to a groom in a light blue one.\n\nIt’s a personal choice when it comes to whether you want the [groom and groomsmen to match](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/groom-vs-groomsmen-attire-what-to-wear). Some grooms prefer for all the groomsmen to match one another, but will wear something slightly different themselves. Other grooms like their tuxedo to be the same as their groomsmen’s. If your tux is not going to match your groomsmen, make sure it at least complements their outfits. It looks odd when a groom is in a formal black tux and his groomsmen are in more casual suits. The level of formality should stay the same across the board. Establish a dress code for groomsmen and be upfront about what it entails.\n\n## Customize Your Tuxedo, and Accessorize \n\nHave fun with your tuxedos and play with bow ties and accessories. If you’re selecting a grey or navy tux, rock a bold or patterned bow tie. Pocket squares are an opportunity to mix things up and add both color and texture. Don’t be afraid to show off your personalities. Cufflinks are important components to tuxedos and another way to customize your look. Maybe you have a set of cufflinks passed on to you from your grandfather, or a shiny pair that you picked up at a vintage store. All these touches will make your tuxedo feel even more like you. \n\nLapel pins and boutonnieres are also popular tuxedo groomsmen accessories. Your boutonniere, if you choose to wear one, should match your [wedding flowers](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-pays-for-wedding-flowers) and your partner’s bouquet or boutonniere. If florals aren’t your thing, a lapel pin is a way to add some visual interest to your jacket. \n\nAnd, don’t forget about your shoes. Shoes are a fantastic way to show off your personality. Some grooms like classic leather loafers or black polished Oxfords—traditional tuxedo footwear. Others change into fashionable sneakers after the ceremony so that they can dance the night away. Again, show your style.","body2":"## Give Yourself Plenty of Time to Shop for Your Tuxedo\n\nShopping for a groom’s and groomsmen's tuxedos should not be left to the last minute. It can take anywhere from two to five months to measure, order, and tailor tuxedos. Custom-made orders may require even more time. Start this process early to avoid any stress.\n\n[Tuxedo jackets](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_jacket) can cost upwards of $129, and [pants at $65](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_pants). Unlike a suit, there are fewer occasions to wear a tux, so decide how much use you’ll get out of it when you’re deciding on a budget. If you want to save some money, consider renting a tux. \n\nAgain, don’t forget about your groomsmen. As we said, it’s up to you if you want your groomsmen to match. If you do go the matching route (or at least semi-matching) you need to factor your groomsmen’s suits into your timeline. If members of the wedding party will dress in the same tux, be sure to organize a shopping trip months in advance.\n\n![Groom Tuxedo Ideas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1tMF2sw47PkGD9Z4yR2a0X/cd8a4b45f421c51d34cd52f363066cbd/Inline_Kesha_Lambert_Photography.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Kesha Lambert Photography\n\n## Formal Tux Ideas\nAs mentioned, tuxedos are traditionally meant to be worn in formal events and settings. That being said, there isn't merely one formal tux or look to choose from. If you're hosting a formal or black-tie wedding, consider the following outfit ideas.\n\n- __Monochrome:__ One sleek look that's been growing in popularity is the monochrome tuxedo. Rather than stick with your standard black and white attire, opt for all-black or all-white looks. This will help you and your groomsmen stand apart from the rest of the crowd, without sacrificing any formality.\n- __Alternative colors and patterns:__ That being said, if you'd rather go for a different color or look altogether, you have more options. Colors like dark gray and patterns like pinstripes allow you to step outside the box, while still maintaining a very formal look.\n\n## Casual Tux Ideas\nWe know what you're thinking: Isn't a casual tuxedo just a suit? Isn't \"casual tux\" an oxymoron? To which we answer, not exactly. You can still opt for yourself and your groomsmen to wear tuxedos without them being extremely formal. If your wedding is a touch more laid back, consider the following ideas.\n\n- __Lighter colors:__ Perhaps your wedding's taking place on the coast or has a similarly breezy, high-end feel. In this case, we highly suggest considering lighter-colored tuxedos. Whites, off-whites, creams, beiges, and even lighter blue suits add a sense of effortlessness and light without sacrificing too much formality.\n- __Break it up:__ For a more laid-back look, break up the standard 3-piece tux and only use one or two of its elements. For example, dress pants and a vest over your button-down, but no jacket.\n- __Unique colors, patterns, and materials:__ Prints, patterns, out-of-the-box colors, and alternative materials (like velvet or linen) add a more casual flair to your typical tuxedo. Deviating from the usual black and white brings an air of fun, rather than keeping things strictly chic.\n\n## Groom and Groomsmen Tuxedo Etiquette FAQ\nEven if you now have some ideas in place, there still may be a few questions concerning etiquette on your mind. Before going shopping or reaching out to your groomsmen, take a look at the top three groomsmen tuxedo questions below.\n\n### Who pays for groomsmen attire?\nIn short, it depends. Traditionally, each individual will foot the bill for their own wedding outfit. This includes not only the tuxedo in question, but a tie or bowtie, shoes, socks, and any other accessories (cufflinks, etc.). However, if your budget allows, it's always a great gesture to cover some—or even all—of the attire costs.\n\n### Does everyone need the same tuxedo?\nTechnically, no. However, your group will look more cohesive if everyone is dressed in complimentary attire. This could be identical matching tuxes, matching tuxes with unique accessories (different socks or ties, for example), or tuxes that all fit into your wedding's color palette. The same basic guideline also applies to bridesmaids and other members of the wedding party.\n\n### When should tuxedos be ordered?\nIdeally, you should order yours and your groomsmen's tuxedos (or have them order individually) 4-6 months out from the wedding. This allows plenty of time to receive and try on the tux, as well as make any necessary alterations.\n\nTuxedos are a classic wedding look for grooms. While a black tux is a timeless—and elegant—outfit, you can play with different colors and accessories to create a more modern aesthetic. Talk to your SO, coordinate with your wedding party, and start shopping early. In a sharp-looking tux, you’ll feel confident all night long. ","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"widget2":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Seasons_Quiz"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"You don’t just want to look good on your big day; you want your groomsmen to look sharp, too. 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","title":"What Are the Different Wedding Suit Styles?","slug":"what-are-the-different-wedding-suit-styles","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4njJPne049MMwDcBon8aAt/a6aefad170a912821f7560c828d97ccf/Hero_FestiveMulticulturalCeremony_LishaWangPhotography.jpg","altText":"Different Wedding Suit Styles"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Read this guide to find out how to determine whom to ask to act as groomsmen in your wedding.","title":"How to Choose Your Groomsmen","slug":"how-to-choose-your-groomsmen","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5MPuNf6pXjbi9AyamCOjm0/0f9689ecf33ee1396edb47d5d320387d/Hero_TimelessWeddingatCodmanEstate_MeiLinBarralPhotography.jpg","altText":"How to Choose Your Groomsmen"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:40:04.187Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"guide-to-bridesmaid-dress-styles","title":"Guide to Bridesmaid Dress Styles","excerpt":"There are many different routes you can go with your bridesmaids’ dresses. We have come up with a guide to the different styles to choose from. Read on.","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2021-01-04T20:30:32.065Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5zdqxt2COSB24apACWpdrV/5ff035a4ee9b231443c88fe9f271eb31/Hero_GlamorousBlushPinkMuseumWedding_LotusEyePhotography.jpg","altText":"Guide to Bridesmaid Dress Styles"},"heroCredit":"Lotus Eye Photography","body":"One of the most exciting parts of planning a wedding is helping select ensembles for your wedding party. However, the desire to make everyone happy can also make it one of the most daunting, which is why it’s important to prioritize your own personal style and overall wedding theme. Some popular choices include:\n\n- Bohemian (lace bodice, flowy silhouettes, [florals](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/kleinfeldbridalparty_offtheshoulder_floral_bridesmaid_dress), and vintage styles)\n- Classic ([streamlined silhouettes](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/kleinfeldbridalparty_brushed_satin_long_vneck_bridesmaid_dress_cool_tones_lightblue), conservative necklines, and muted tones)\n- Glamorous ([sequins](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/adriannapappell_art_deco_beaded_blouson_dress_with_halter_neckline_blushgold), fitted bodices, slits, and luxe fabrics)\n- Whimsical (mismatched colors, [unexpected silhouettes](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/kleinfeldbridalparty_chiffon_highneck_bridesmaid_jumpsuit_navy), and fun accessories)\n- Modern (clean lines, architectural shapes, and [moody colors](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/birdygrey_gwennie_bridesmaid_dress_emerald))\n\nEven if you have your wedding style pinned down, the neverending challenge is to find a bridesmaid dress that is universal enough to work on everyone. To give you a better idea of some of your options, below are some of the most common bridesmaids dress styles, plus some guidance to help you select only the best for your wedding crew.\n\n### Short or Midi\n\n![Guide to Bridesmaid Dress Styles](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/63gXt5a6OW1JKTJCrQHBV0/bfe09801b323accf45d9f4c9ae61e7c9/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\nA popular pick for summer ceremonies and less formal affairs, [knee length](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/adriannapappell_beaded_cocktail_dress_lead) and mid-calf dresses are a versatile option for many types of weddings and venues. These [summer bridesmaid](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/summer-bridesmaids-dress-style-guide) dresses are especially fitting for barn, beach, and backyard weddings, but can often work at churches and more formal venues, too. When picking short bridesmaids dresses, it’s best to stick to knee-length styles, as they’re generally more sophisticated and conservative enough to work with most venues. Mid-calf styles are also rapidly growing in popularity, ranging from silk, slip-dress styles with a cowl neck to classic, strapless silhouettes with tulip hems.\n\n### Full-Length\nMaxi dresses tend to embody what most people think of when they picture a bridesmaid gown. The ideal, perfect dress pick for a formal affair, long gowns add a bit of drama and elegance to the big wedding day, whether it be at a winery, church, or garden estate. Like short dresses, these come in a variety of silhouettes, bodice styles, necklines, and sleeve lengths, so consider what works with your overall wedding theme, but also chat with your bridesmaids to see what they’re most comfortable in. If you like the look of maxi dresses but aren’t 100 percent sold, consider [styles with slits](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/fameandpartners_subtle_sweetheart_neckline_strappy_ball_gown) or high-low hems. There are even online retailers, such as [Birdy Grey](https://www.birdygrey.com/) and [Revelry](https://shoprevelry.com/), that specialize in full-length styles just for bridesmaids.\n\n### Convertible\nThe ultimate choice for a bride that prefers consistency but wants her posse to be happy, [convertible bridesmaids gowns](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/birdygrey_jane_convertible_bridesmaid_dress_taupe) can be found at just about every popular retailer. These dresses generally give you the option to change up the neckline, sleeve length, and overall bodice style. Even though every bridesmaid may be wearing the same dress, each one can be rocking a different look, giving them the opportunity to show off their personality and pick a dress style that they’re most comfortable in. These dresses also usually come in a variety of fabric choices, ranging from a luxe jersey knit to a classic tulle, so the styling options are endless.\n\n### Color-Matching\n![Guide to Bridesmaid Dress Styles](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6ODZMQOLlHS9DxcNbWpGFr/a4f950180a93b2513cc65ff6683fc236/inline_unsplash.jpg)*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\nSimilar to convertible dresses, this look is for dresses in nearly identical shades that otherwise vary in their silhouette, bodice style, or fabric. Though slightly “mismatched,” we think this look deserves its own category because unlike [mismatched bridesmaids dresses gowns](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/guide-to-bridesmaid-dress-styles), these dresses generally share more than one trait in common. Maybe you all decide on full-length, silk gowns in terracotta, but the neckline and sleeves length of the dresses vary. Or, you pick knee-length, navy dresses in various fabrics and silhouettes.\n\nThis look is great for those who prefer a bit of the “matchy” feel without being too constricting. It’s also a favorite amongst the bridal party, as it’s much easier to flatter a variety of body types and personal styles. To guarantee some level of consistency in the colors, consider purchasing the dresses from a single retailer or having a color swatch on hand as reference.\n\n### Floral or Printed\nFun and laid back, [floral dresses](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/kleinfeldbridalparty_floralprint_fauxwrap_bridesmaid_dress_ivory_rose) are a growing favorite of the last several years. Because they’re generally more casual than their solid counterparts, these gorgeous bridesmaids dresses are particularly popular in maxi styles. The overall lack of formality also makes them a popular choice for beach ceremonies, relaxed backyard weddings and events with a bohemian or vintage vibe.\n\nIf you’re a less traditional bride who likes bright colors and prints, floral dresses may be the way to go. This could mean anything from dainty florals in different shades of green, to a big, bold style in the same print and moody hue. It’s also okay to go shorter if you feel that it fits the ambience of the big day, or if the dresses have a more classic silhouette, like a streamlined midi with a tulip hem. Also be sure to consider some of the pieces of advice below if the dresses vary in color, style, or print.\n\n### Mismatched\nIf cohesiveness is important to you, one of the best ideas to consider is making sure that all the dresses have one trait in common. For example, maybe you tell them that the print and hem don’t matter, but that they all need to be in a similar shade of blue. Providing them with paint chips in associated shades is an easy way to do this. Or, maybe you decide to go with floral dresses in varying shades, but the print pulls it together and makes it work. \n\nHowever, if you’re not particularly attached to having the bridesmaids look alike, you’re not alone. Completely mismatched bridesmaid dresses are growing in popularity—varying in hems, colors, fabrics, and patterns. If this is more your style, we suggest consulting with the gals and keeping tabs on what they plan to buy, so that you can make sure that it’s consistent with the venue and what you envision for the day. You can even organize a group shopping trip if you think that’ll aid the decision-making process. Freedom is great, but too much freedom can be a bit overwhelming for your wedding party.\n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_WeddingBoutique"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Not sure what jewelry your bridesmaids should wear on your big day? Check out our favorite jewelry pieces that will make your wedding party stand out. Read on for details. \n","title":"How to Choose Bridesmaid Jewelry","slug":"how-to-choose-bridesmaid-jewelry","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1XVpi3JbIz9XTiXYUxjJVi/5845a6d345a062b500f628df43e9d6ff/Hero_ClassicallyElegantCharlotteWedding_CritseyRowePhotography.jpg","altText":"Bridesmaid Jewelry"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Looking for bridesmaid dresses for your special day? Get familiar with the average cost of a bridesmaid dress, and your options to fit your budget. 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Luckily, Zola has you covered with this easy guide. Read on now.","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-14T18:17:19.140Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6FbTEkIOvwhgnjNVFfvbPU/9fed0ee78b65647114b0bbc7e741fe5a/inline_hewittphotography.jpg","altText":"Cocktail wedding Attire"},"heroCredit":"Hewitt Photography","body":"Cocktail attire is generally associated with knee-length dresses, sophisticated heels, and simple suits. However, as one of the most popular (and versatile) dress codes, there are numerous ways that you can incorporate your own personal style in dressing for this type of wedding...starting with long dresses.\n\nFrom the color and fabric of the dress, to the hairstyle and accessories you pair with it, a maxi dress can easily pass as proper cocktail attire, if styled correctly. Below are a few pieces of advice to make sure that you’re picking the right gown and accessorizing it accordingly for a semi-formal ceremony.\n\n### Seasonality Matters\nIf the wedding takes place in the winter, no one is going to bat an eye at the fact that you’re wearing a long dress—if anything, it’s likely expected. All that the cocktail or semi-formal attire request means in the colder months is that you’re welcome to pick a more casual option than what you’d choose for a black-tie event. For example, while you may have picked a silk, emerald green number for a black-tie wedding, you might go for a long, cotton gown with moody florals instead. \n\n### Pick Your Silhouette (and Fabric) Wisely\nA fitted, full-length gown gives off a very different vibe than a flowy maxi with a slit. When planning what length of dress to wear, consider what would seem most cocktail-appropriate and feel the most comfortable to you. If you normally opt for more fitted dresses, maybe consider a knee-length shift or an A-line number, instead. However, if you’re comfortable in something with a lot of movement, then a lightweight maxi-dress is perfectly appropriate.\n\nIn addition to shape, fabrics play an important role in the overall formality of the dress. Fabrics such as satin, velvet, crepe, and organza are generally more suited for black-tie—unless you plan to really dress them down with accessories—while lightweight silk, cotton, and linen blends are much more fitting for a cocktail maxi-dress. Slits and high-low hems are also a fun way to dress down your ensemble, while incorporating a bit of personality.\n\n### Consider the Venue\n\n![Can you wear a long dress for cocktail attire?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4Af8XXHF0YtCmGwrEMXBKy/3ce3bccca2feadc1dafb2771656c2196/inline_chrislanephotography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Chris Lane Photography\n\nIf it’s a backyard wedding or farm setting, then you might not want your dress sweeping the floor the whole evening (or have to wear heels to keep your hem clean). Once you receive the official invitation (or link to the couple’s wedding website!), look up the venue and try to get a good idea of the types of surfaces that you’ll be walking on. There’s always the chance that they’ll rent flooring for the day, but you don’t want to have to rely on it. If you go long, try something that isn’t a ground-duster, or opt for a pair of comfy wedges to add a few inches.\n\n### Opt for Alternative Colors and Prints\nBecause you’re picking a slightly more formal silhouette by going full-length, you can go a little more casual with your color and print choices. If it’s a spring or summer event, maxi dresses in terra cotta or mustard tones are great options, as are dainty florals in vibrant colors. For fall and winter events, jewel tones are always a wise choice, but long-sleeved dresses in moody florals and vintage prints are fun alternatives, too. If you do choose a print, make sure that you pick more subtle accessories so that the look doesn’t become too busy, or make it seem like you’re trying to steal the show.\n\n### Keep It Natural\nIf you’ve got your heart set on wearing a full-length dress, then keep your hair and makeup as laid back as possible. There’s a big difference between cat eyes and a tightly pulled updo, versus relaxed, tousled waves and some subtle lipstick. Details such as undone braids, beachy waves, and natural, kinky curls are great options to complement a less formal maxi. So long as you’re considering the seasons and venue, details such as a low bun, a little bit of extra eye makeup, or a statement lip can work, too.\n\n### Dress It Down With Accessories\nEarrings, hairpieces, shoes, and bags are some of the simplest ways to dress an outfit up or down. Instead of a sparkly clutch, maybe opt for a relaxed crossbody bag in a fun color, instead. For a fall wedding, consider adding a sophisticated leather jacket over your floral maxi dress. A fancier alternative to a denim jacket, a leather jacket keeps you warm, but also ensures that you don’t look out of place. For a summer event, consider tasteful wedges or block heels in a fun print. Flats are also an option, if they’re polished enough (particularly if they’re in an unexpected fabric such as velvet or satin).\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_WeddingBoutique"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"It’s easy to pick an outfit for a formal wedding, but what about a casual attire wedding? Read on to get some pointers on what to wear to a casual attire wedding. ","title":"Casual Wedding Attire Guide","slug":"casual-wedding-attire-guide","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6uuL6M77rEUl8NuQmPGrI6/12ef1b1f643341a710ceb9d7a3e01e3c/inline_cbrownphoto__1_.jpg","altText":"how to dress for a casual wedding dress code"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Going to a wedding where the dress code is cocktail attire? We have come up with a guide to help you determine what fashion qualifies for this occasion. 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","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2022-02-04T18:52:21.987Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6ywWQfaXHny45gFGopYMVt/73f5b889c23e044dd2dfa6b9c34adb69/what-to-wear-to-a-spring-wedding.jpg","altText":"women taking selfie at spring wedding"},"heroCredit":"Getty Images","body":"With the approach of spring comes the official start of wedding season—which means it’s time to start thinking about what to wear to any spring weddings you’re attending! Of course, any potential [wedding guest](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/guest-at-wedding) attire should start with the bride’s dress code, but where do you go from there? Read below for etiquette tips, seasonal considerations, and favorite picks for what to wear to a spring wedding this season. \n\nFormal Spring Wedding Guest Dresses\n\nCasual Spring Wedding Guest Dresses\n\nSpring Wedding Shoes and Accessories\n\nFormal Spring Wedding Moodboard\n\nCasual Spring Wedding Moodboard\n\n## Seasonal Considerations\nWhile spring is a lovely time of year, early springtime months can still be chilly. If you’re wondering how to stay warm during a chillier spring wedding, follow these tips: \n\n- __Accessorize with a shawl:__ Just because it’s chilly doesn’t mean you can’t wear your favorite spring, short sleeve cocktail dress—just accessorize it with a shawl you can keep around your shoulders. \n\n- __Complement with a coat:__ Aside from being incredibly stylish, a long sleeve chic coat will keep you warm. \n\n- __Opt for close-toed shoes:__ You might be dying to wear those spring sandals, but you’re bound to be shivering if you wear them with a high-low dress to a cooler outdoor wedding. Instead, opt for pumps or slingbacks that keep your toes covered. \n\n__- Choose a dress with sleeves:__ A shift dress with sleeves is a wonderful way to add some warmth to your outfit.\n\n## Formal Spring Wedding Guest Dresses\n\n\n![formal-spring-wedding-outfit-ideas (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/16wSgQzA4uVLZa8Kyimt1s/f0d292d6e76959b5fa39553e610f56d0/formal-spring-wedding-outfit-ideas__1_.jpg)\n\n## 1. [Satin Maxi Dress – Lulus](https://www.lulus.com/products/red-carpet-ready-light-rose-floral-satin-jacquard-maxi-dress/1339616.html?utm_source=pepperjam&utm_medium=textlink&utm_content=88550&utm_campaign=8-11575&clickId=3827704879)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-1](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/MaVNAzsKVT8DTGfVfOrTT/68d74fa42ad16dddb349bda65767b671/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-1.jpg)\n\nThe subtle elegance of this gown’s embossed floral print design pairs perfectly with an asymmetrically cut maxi skirt for a touch of sultry flair.\n\n__Best for:__ The elegant guest \n\n## 2. [Hyacinth Tiered Floral Organza Dress – Staud](https://www.intermixonline.com/staud/hyacinth-tiered-floral-organza-dress/314-7247-CPPP.html?dwvar_314-7247-CPPP_color=650&cgid=dresses-gowns#start=1&prodIndex=4)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-2](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7qsquAVkYXd69ckkA30FY3/b28f389d490c24d9470c6c21f53344b8/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-2.jpg)\n\nFrom the delicate crew neckline and on-trend tiered silhouette to the cheerful magenta color and floral print, this stunning dress is sure to make a statement. \n\n__Best for:__ The cheerful guest \n\n## 3. [Nadira Dress – Ulla Johnson](https://ullajohnson.com/products/nadira-dress-ember?refSrc=6558522572896&nosto=productpage-nosto-1)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-3](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/Lgn7ibGK1cOhlW6JHAf4u/ea7a0a30c4d10470f408b4970331bd2d/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-3.jpg)\n\nTurn heads in this bohemian-style maxi dress that features an intricately smocked neckline and full sleeves. \n\n__Best for:__ The boho guest \n\n## 4. [Midleton Dress – Reformation](https://www.thereformation.com/products/petites-midleton-dress?color=Lottie&via=Z2lkOi8vcmVmb3JtYXRpb24td2VibGluYy9Xb3JrYXJlYTo6Q2F0YWxvZzo6Q2F0ZWdvcnkvNWIwMzFmZmQ3Y2FmNGE1OTMyZDk3OWUw) \n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-4](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2F7cTSASI5elXfry9KcClm/6d845af82ca7d70df1e205ce3a969f78/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-4.jpg)\n\nGive your standard floral-patterned dress an edge with this fully lined dress. The mock neckline, open-back style, and puffed sleeves make for a bold, slightly dramatic look. \n\n__Best for:__ The fashion-forward guest \n\n## 5. [Winslow Dress – Reformation](https://www.thereformation.com/products/winslow-dress?color=Celadon&via=Z2lkOi8vcmVmb3JtYXRpb24td2VibGluYy9Xb3JrYXJlYTo6Q2F0YWxvZzo6Q2F0ZWdvcnkvNWIwMzFmZmQ3Y2FmNGE1OTMyZDk3OWUw)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-5](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2EgqvlbMODaBTETTOLdm11/12195b5d5202cb87b5379999b44b4a05/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-5.jpg)\n\nThis airy wrap dress features an adjustable waist tie, so you can wear it as tight or loose as you please. While you can’t go wrong with this spring-inspired pastel shade, it’s also available in a few floral prints. \n\n__Best for:__ The graceful guest \n\n## 6. [Lace Maxi Dress – Anthropologie](https://www.bhldn.com/products/lacie-maxi-dress-berry?via=Z2lkOi8vdXJibi9Xb3JrYXJlYTo6Q2F0YWxvZzo6Q2F0ZWdvcnkvQ0E0RTYyQTE)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-6](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/10so09TzRaaL5oXsxOrzBL/fe66b80ff53b3579298bd8c388490554/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-6.jpg)\n\nThis flowing maxi dress features eye-catching sequined floral detail for a stunning outfit choice, with a free-flowing shape that means you don’t have to sacrifice comfort!\n\n__Best for:__ The glamorous guest \n\n## 7. [Maeve Ruffled Maxi Dress – Anthropologie](https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/maeve-ruffled-cover-up-maxi-dress?category=SEARCHRESULTS&color=055&searchparams=q%3Dbloom%2520wrap%2520maxi%2520dress&type=STANDARD&quantity=1)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-7](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7euM375Dz0G4fYhyZODgI1/77d8bb674ccec4c9954b43a9a18e529f/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-7.jpg)\n\nBold prints are in this season, and this dress balances them perfectly with soft, spring-inspired hues and romantic ruffle detailing.\n\n__Best for:__ The bold guest\n\n## 8. [Cowl Neck Midi Slip Dress – Dessy](https://dessy.com/dresses/bridesmaid/lovely-piper/?SSAID=314743&sscid=11k6_aohh1&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=sas&utm_campaign=314743#.YdxuYljMI-T)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-8](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4SLDc2t6Ljxd8g8VfNPbUC/4b2b22a0123272ba1db3aea844f0e563/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-8.jpg)\n\nThis delicate slip dress is simple yet stunning, with a trendy cowl neck and lux fabric. The convertible straps can be worn as a halter or threaded in a crisscross style in the back—both sure to turn heads. \n\n__Best for:__ The trendy guest \n\n## 9. [Nikita Floral Dress – Reformation](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/reformation-nikita-floral-dress/5102541?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FWedding%20Shop%2FWomen%2FWedding%20Guest&color=003) \n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-9](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7dxRTZDV2WOVK9cVDxnMk8/6699846539efd84303733d8a7438e5a8/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-9.jpg)\n\nTwirl across the dance floor in this flirty spring-worthy maxi dress. The ruffled trim, flowy skirt, and sweetheart neckline offer a romantic touch. \n\n__Best for:__ The romantic guest \n\n## 10. [Nicole Sweetheart Neck Dress – Dress the Population](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/dress-the-population-nicole-sweetheart-neck-cocktail-dress/5157641?origin=coordinating-5157641-0-2-PDP_1-recbot-also_viewed_graph&recs_placement=PDP_1&recs_strategy=also_viewed_graph&recs_source=recbot&recs_page_type=product&recs_seed=5102541&color=PINE)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-10](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2tydQs7SDb07lWjPS2mrO5/c8f59b32030e89eeb98d1555f8ccde20/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-10.jpg)\n\nThe classic cut of this dress creates a sensual look that’s still modest enough to wear to a wedding. Its contemporary crepe construction is ultra curve-flattering! \n\n__Best for:__ The formal guest \n\n## 11. [Amelie Dress – Anthropologie Weddings](https://www.anthropologie.com/bhldn-weddings)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-12](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1Kd4GnOF079t2TCAU7AGX5/b062fe8d0684eba2414024a5b1683e4d/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-12.jpg)\n\nThis airy maxi dress features fluttery layers of chiffon that create a romantic waterfall effect, balanced out by a tie waist detail. \n\n__Best for:__ The ethereal guest \n\n## 12. [Long Sleeve Maxi Dress – For Love and Lemons](https://forloveandlemons.com/products/chantal-long-sleeve-maxi-dress)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-13](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5et0W1vJOD0tIviswAZVIG/a865bb5e459772b5f5c568e8303cb7d2/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-13.jpg)\n\nIf you’re looking to add some edge to a romantic style, this flowing chiffon maxi dress makes it happen with modern cutouts and a fun metallic dot print.\n\n__Best for:__ The edgy guest \n\n__Best for:__ The relaxed guest \n\n## 13. [Strapless Bustier Maxi Dress – Lulus](https://www.lulus.com/products/wonderful-waltz-purple-floral-print-strapless-bustier-maxi-dress/1627036.html?src=evg&ref=product3_rr)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-15](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3TBYako9CNgQrNccYeL8dZ/e02d682a4d96dd0297bdc77e65ff0a33/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-15.jpg)\n\nShow up in style with this floral print maxi dress featuring understated purple hues. The strapless bustier-inspired bodice features side boning and corset-style seaming to create a structured shape that’s still breezy enough to hit the dance floor. \n\n__Best for:__ The put-together guest \n\n## 14. [Sleeveless 3D Guipure Lace Midi Dress – Marchesa Notte](https://www.verishop.com/marchesa-notte/marketplace/sleeveless-3d-guipure-lace-midi-dress/p7009602666690?variant_id=41429689172162)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-16](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/OtfqZjXUu4WokzJ994ssL/ae6a57f1290074d9391f2898428e4eec/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-16.jpg)\n\nAvailable in two gorgeous jewel tones, this lace midi dress was practically designed for a spring wedding! The scalloped lace detail across the straps adds a flirty touch, balanced by the classic A-line skirt cut. \n\n__Best for:__ The classic guest \n\n## 15. [Sunray Belted Pleated Midi Dress – Zimmerman](https://www.net-a-porter.com/en-us/shop/product/zimmermann/clothing/midi-dresses/sunray-belted-pleated-chiffon-midi-dress/25185454456225979)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-17](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/70QltUCSgYz0kt3bUj57aU/c1564cac19505b60ee5c3fdd22a82dc2/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-17.jpg)\n\nCut from breezy chiffon, the pleated detail in this dress creates a sophisticated look, and the gold-tone chain links threaded through the high neck and waist belt add an eye-catching yet subtle statement. \n\n__Best for:__ The stylish guest \n\n## 16. [Bow-Tie Maxi Dress – Hutch](https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/bow-tie-maxi-dress?category=dresses&color=009&type=STANDARD&quantity=1) \n[design: product image]\n\nThe bow-tie detail on this contemporary maxi dress makes for a style just as bold as it is elegant. \n\n__Best for:__ The statement-making guest \n\n## 17. [Floral Chiffon Midi Dress – BB Dakota x Steve Madden](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/bb-dakota-by-steve-madden-floral-chiffon-midi-dress/6561750?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FWedding%20Shop%2FWomen%2FWedding%20Guest&color=001)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-19](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/25Oq7GEuJMFC5Fz30AnQPS/11c84c90074f0e64660fb5447716a871/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-19.jpg)\n\nThis flouncy, floral print dress is spring-approved—made of airy chiffon and complete with subtle ruffle sleeve details.\n\n__Best for:__ The sophisticated guest \n\n## 18. [Beso E Coco Fringed Halter Dress – No Pise La Grama](https://www.saksfifthavenue.com/product/no-pise-la-grama-beso-e-coco-fringed-halter-dress-0400015506324.html?dwvar_0400015506324_color=LAVENDER&ranMID=13816&ranEAID=tv2R4u9rImY&ranSiteID=tv2R4u9rImY-DIONDcI4eym322xqUvW7sw&site_refer=AFF001&mid=13816&siteID=tv2R4u9rImY-DIONDcI4eym322xqUvW7sw&LSoid=894953&LSlinkid=10&LScreativeid=1)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-20](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6ShhiEplTR14Rvvz29HWMP/e36cb84147031d20c9b2a66c70f448d5/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-20.jpg)\n\nIf your style is more out-of-the-box, this gorgeous dress is for you. The flirty fringe adds depth and movement to your look, and a crossover halter neck completes this elegant silhouette. \n\n__Best for:__ The funky guest\n\n## 19. [Aveline Gown – Ulla Johnson](https://ullajohnson.com/collections/dresses/products/fiona-gown-tigerlilly)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-24](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1PijfzMT20Jv6xEvl1UQc0/6b675ac88962078ab36820f92f7be561/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-24.jpg)\n\nA spring-inspired Tigerlily floral pattern makes this smocked silk gown an absolute standout—not to mention delicate spaghetti strap shoulder ties and soft ruffle detailing. \n\n__Best for:__ The chic guest \n\n## 20. [Floral Cutout Gown – Mac Duggal](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/mac-duggal-floral-chiffon-cutout-long-sleeve-gown/6561067?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FWedding%20Shop%2FWomen%2FWedding%20Guest&color=004)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-25](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1Lw2xTVHPZEkgvITXt5rH8/ef5a5f35aeb144f2c4f85f02b3af0ed9/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-25.jpg)\n\nWe love this floral printed chiffon gown for a bold but still appropriate spring wedding outfit. Alluring cutouts and an open back with lace-up detail balance out the puff-shouldered sleeves of this sweeping, swoon-worthy dress. \n\n__Best for:__ The daring guest \n\n## Casual Spring Wedding Guest Dresses\n\n![casual-spring-wedding-outfit-ideas (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2O7C3tPtURsOplugSSchxQ/8b6c35440c52e2d0192ae5693628f26c/casual-spring-wedding-outfit-ideas__1_.jpg)\n\n## 21. [Floral Long Sleeve Mini Dress – Lulus](https://www.lulus.com/products/floral-to-see-black-floral-print-long-sleeve-mini-dress/663902.html)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-26](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6wJB4hUxunhGjyzdLu5gzv/02620dddd70eb091fe3b5b5bb0ed5012/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-26.jpg)\n\nThis dress is all about balance with a short hemline and modest, rounded neckline. The sheer decolletage detail adds an elegant flair to the playful ruffles on the sleeves and trim.\n\n__Best for:__ The floral-loving guest \n\n## 22. [Alela Mini Dress – LoveShackFancy](https://www.loveshackfancy.com/collections/dresses/products/alela-mini-dress-multi-tie-dye-d1455-992)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-27](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4kWXCo6nJEmSClAtdVeJGG/b83642367cf4a096a152a7488b75fc7c/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-27.jpg)\n\nThis custom hand-dyed floral lace mini dress is soft and romantic, perfect for a daytime spring wedding. The tie-dye pastel hues make this a fun choice that’s still structured and sophisticated. \n\n__Best for:__ The fun guest \n\n## 23. [Destiny Cut-Out Mini Wrap Dress – Jonathan Simkhai](https://www.intermixonline.com/jonathan-simkhai/destiny-cut-out-mini-wrap-dress/122-1037-ST+FRESHWATER.html?dwvar_122-1037-ST%20FRESHWATER_color=260&cgid=dresses-cocktail#start=1&prodIndex=7)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-28](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3zLT4dQqLLEIpHtYP5GEWU/5809472a1df00a705a135bd82467bf50/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-28.jpg)\n\nThis airy, pastel blue is the perfect springtime shade! This mini wrap dress creates a structured look thanks to the collared neckline and button sleeves, with a cutout detail on the back to give it some edge. \n\n__Best for:__ The tailored guest \n\n## 24. [Floral Chiffon Fit & Flare Mini Dress – Mac Duggal](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/mac-duggal-floral-chiffon-fit-flare-minidress/6413726?siteid=tv2R4u9rImY-kolGRyGhORJk_D6iBTOvWg&utm_source=rakuten&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=tv2R4u9rImY&utm_content=1&utm_term=894996&utm_channel=low_nd_affiliates&sp_source=rakuten&sp_campaign=tv2R4u9rImY)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-30](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4KbHNRTxPqh9AVSpoMe4cD/bb58afdc141b49cd24169ee681757640/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-30.jpg)\n\nEmbrace the romance with this fluttery chiffon mini dress in a sunny yellow hue. The floral print, ruffle hem, and open back add a touch of playfulness to this sweet springtime dress. \n\n__Best for:__ The sweet guest \n\n## 25. [Long Sleeve Ruched Center Dress – ASTR the Label](https://www.astrthelabel.com/collections/mini-dresses/products/long-sleeve-ruched-center-dress?color=BLUE%20DITSY)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-31](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3YkudoDQ0xbxrJT6gUKpuZ/dff287145763bba8d887f5686ea87ee8/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-31.jpg)\n\nIf your style leans cottagecore, this sweet mini dress is right up your alley. The V neckline creates a slimming silhouette that leads to a ruched center for added detail, along with puffed-shoulder sleeves that make a statement.\n\n__Best for:__ The cottagecore guest \n\n## 26. [Floral Cut-Out Mini Dress – Anthropologie](https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/floral-cut-out-mini-dress?category=dresses&color=266&type=STANDARD&quantity=1) \n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-32](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/75jTI4rdmSvk7hR9NLv5uG/47acdb9554bc1581a93a029fd40e2e5f/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-32.jpg)\n\nThis spirited floral mini dress uses bold hues and bright floral prints to create a stunning look for your next spring wedding event. We can’t get enough of the ruffled neckline and billowing sleeves! \n\n__Best for:__ The spirited guest \n\n## 27. [Santa Fe Dress – Yumi Kim](https://yumikim.com/products/santa-fe-dress?publisherId=73861&clickId=3835771726)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-33](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4NWVgxf02qrMbERdsgfcse/886ad574b4836d666b976a6a91dfc908/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-33.jpg)\n\nEmbrace the season’s blooming florals in this bright off-the-shoulder dress. Ruffle detailing makes for a fun and flirty fit that you won’t want to take off!\n\n__Best for:__ The vibrant guest \n\n## 28. [Manzanilla Floral Tiered Mini Dress – Agua by Agua Bendita](https://www.intermixonline.com/agua-by-agua-bendita/manzanilla-floral-tiered-mini-dress/9093-MANZANILLA.html?dwvar_9093-MANZANILLA_color=001&cgid=dresses-cocktail#start=1&prodIndex=23)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-34](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7c9crxOQIljbS8HZxosWc9/fb8e796fb7cced0ded10976c8e0c2400/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-34.jpg)\n\nTiered for a gorgeous flared hem, this floral mini dress practically screams spring! Romantic touches like a drawstring V neckline and delicate puff sleeves make this dress perfect for your next garden party wedding event. \n\n__Best for:__ The delicate guest \n\n## 29. [Wild Dreams Mini Dress – Show Me Your Mumu](https://showmeyourmumu.com/collections/occasion-cocktail/products/wild-dreams-mini-dress-retro?variant=39428248502315)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-35](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7q0wgOwf4q2KnrhbcCexm3/056b6bbd5d3840fc7d21431e2a854d2a/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-35.jpg)\n\nThis fun and flouncy mini dress is what vintage-inspired dreams are made of! We love the retro, paisley print in gorgeous springtime shades, and the tiered skirt makes this dress just as flattering as it is fashionable. \n\n__Best for:__ The retro guest \n\n## 30. [Tama Asymmetric Satin Twill Mini Dress – Cult Gaia](https://www.intermixonline.com/cult-gaia/tama-asymmetric-satin-twill-mini-dress/DR1953TW.html?dwvar_DR1953TW_color=620&cgid=dresses-cocktail#start=1&prodIndex=132)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-36](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/aMdXzvDBn692Rmaj0A8HU/cc70b469afcb21b2f2962893659f14e5/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-36.jpg)\n\nYou'll adore this satin slip dress if you tend to reach for simple, no-fuss dresses, especially in plus size. This dress kicks things up a notch with its asymmetric shoulder straps and gold-tone metallic accents. \n\n__Best for:__ The simple guest \n\n## 31. [Joaquin Halter Neck Jumpsuit – Black Halo](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/black-halo-joaquin-halter-neck-jumpsuit/5574407?origin=coordinating-5574407-0-4-PDP_1_OOS-recbot-also_viewed_graph&recs_placement=PDP_1_OOS&recs_strategy=also_viewed_graph&recs_source=recbot&recs_page_type=product&recs_seed=5574456&color=SORBET)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-37](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4aJ8q0IQxFJ3mEOJfHBVGa/7cb462c0167f14f712c4e57c974a780e/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-37.jpg)\n\nIf you’re looking for a non-dress option when deciding what to wear to a spring wedding, consider a jumpsuit. This stylish jumpsuit has a sleek halter neckline that makes a powerful statement, and the peachy color keeps it spring-appropriate.\n\n__Best for:__ The polished guest \n\n## 32. [Selkie Puff Mini Dress – BHLDN](https://www.bhldn.com/products/puff-mini-dress-baby-pinstripe?via=Z2lkOi8vdXJibi9Xb3JrYXJlYTo6Q2F0YWxvZzo6Q2F0ZWdvcnkvMTYwNDNCREM)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-38](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6ncb17EEoZL1daGphIDHL3/bbe08a5dc1f7df431e9d509d862b4b9f/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-38.jpg)\n\nFor an event as magical as a wedding, you need a dress to match. This playful mini dress evokes dreamy fairy-like vibes that perfectly fit the bill. \n\n__Best for:__ The majestic guest \n\n## 33. [Gianna Dress – MISA Los Angeles](https://www.verishop.com/misa-los-angeles/dresses-jumpsuits/gianna-dress/p7049277571266?color=bohemian_paisley) \n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-39](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2Lg1dioFKC983Qi2XJsj3V/b825ab1628b3c28e4211960e6fdeb4e7/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-39.jpg)\n\nThis dress makes dressing up for a spring wedding seem effortless. The long sleeves, smocked neckline, and paisley pattern come together to create the perfect rustic look. \n\n__Best for:__ The rustic guest \n\n## 34. [Sachin & Babi Kendal Dress – BHLDN](https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/sachin-babi-kendal-dress?category=dresses&color=066&type=STANDARD&quantity=1)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-40](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6WSDfgym6QeCispXbOfA4a/45c88ef123d5f766a5c19e7c3459e1d0/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-40.jpg)\n\nMake a statement in this tailored mini dress made with a metallic floral brocade. Puff sleeves add a playful finishing touch, and the soft, salmon hue is perfect for spring. \n\n__Best for:__ The eccentric guest \n\n## 35. [Lani Dress – With Jéan](https://withjean.com/products/lani-dress-viola-bloom)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-41](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1ovlKY9J0mQlkS76Vz7H0g/63dab612988cd809404c59192a300df6/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-41.jpg)\n\nSpring has sprung, so why not dress for it with this sweet slip-style dress? Designed with pastel blooms and adjustable shoulder ties, it’s effortlessly tailored for your next spring wedding event. \n\n__Best for:__ The pastel-loving guest \n\n## 36. [Lace Skater Dress – Lulus](https://www.lulus.com/products/lover-s-game-light-blue-lace-skater-dress/778142.html)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-43](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/QjsBevNKuqHXDh1w5i0Fw/dda03bbe7209eda955457dea78ad6a15/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-43.jpg)\n\nThis dress is casual enough for a laid-back dress code while still hitting the mark in terms of elegance. The floral lace overlay creates charming detail, and the halter neckline makes for a sophisticated silhouette. \n\n__Best for:__ The preppy guest \n\n## 37. [Haydn Dress – Petal and Pup](https://petalandpup.com/collections/wedding-guest/products/hadyn-dress-green)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-44](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4tBrEE2EYPXwmosPVppBC/4cf7e3436e64a1a8fc24826e7de18185/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-44.jpg)\n\nWe love this breezy dress for it’s mid-length sleeves and spring-worthy floral pattern. This dress is gorgeous while still being casual, and it’s versatile enough to wear again and again. \n\n__Best for:__ The whimsical guest \n\n## 38. [Rosa Floral Strapless Mini Dress – Agua by Agua Bendita](https://www.intermixonline.com/agua-by-agua-bendita/rosa-floral-strapless-mini-dress/9137-ROSA.html?dwvar_9137-ROSA_color=001&cgid=dresses-mini&irgwc=1&irclickid=zTQxvXyRxxyIT-jUfoV-HRbBUkG3Cn3lWQWQW40&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=Online%20Tracking%20Link&utm_source=Skimbit%20Ltd.#start=1&prodIndex=42)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-46](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4pp3e3tln6wMyVD5gFkGS4/d082f9d403fd06b14ad9dbdfe29e98b3/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-46.jpg)\n\nYou simply can’t go wrong with florals for spring—this dress is cut from cotton poplin, and has dainty ruffled trims that make for a wedding-approved style. \n\n__Best for:__ The lively guest \n\n## 39. [Halter Swing Mini Dress – Eva Franco](https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/eva-franco-halter-swing-mini-dress?category=dresses-tunic-swing&color=066&type=STANDARD&quantity=1)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-47](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2JiYTnbataDk25Dpi08YAz/b7bec6a9b0da98d4613b1bd9ac7dc508/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-47.jpg)\n\nA casual spring wedding dress code means more freedom to play around with fun colors and textures—enter this stunning swing dress. The textured floral detail is swoon-worthy! We think this dress would work great for your next bachelorette party, too.\n\n__Best for:__ The show-stopping guest \n\n## 40. [Rose Pink Long Sleeve Skater Dress – Lulus](https://www.lulus.com/products/believe-it-or-knot-rose-pink-long-sleeve-tie-front-skater-dress/733072.html)\n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-48](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3hV53P0iUOgF5C4RWqfKCQ/d639bfd81ab2afacc122ba4dd9f54273/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-48.jpg)\n\nThis rose-colored dress is perfect for your next outdoor spring wedding, especially if you think it could get chilly. The long sleeves will keep you warm while still looking chic. \n\n__Best for:__ The uncomplicated guest \n\n## 41. [Ivy Mini Dress – Anthropologie](https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/ivy-mini-dress?category=dresses-tunic-swing&color=009&type=STANDARD&quantity=1) \n![what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-49](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3Am80MXVROMThhQuNrEt7N/e93f1e4221f15d9a7321e6f79ea750a1/what-to-wear-to-spring-wedding-49.jpg)\n\nThis one-of-a-kind dress is artful and contemporary, with unique colors and patterns and a stunning modern cut. \n\n__Best for:__ The artsy guest \n\n## Spring Wedding Shoes and Accessories\n\nOnce you find the perfect spring [wedding guest](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/dos-donts-wedding-guest-fashion) outfit, your work isn’t finished yet—don’t forget shoes and accessories! The shoes and accessories you choose can help round out an outfit, and there are a few key considerations to remember to help you find the right items.\n\nFor shoes, you’ll want to look for something that’s both stylish and versatile so you can wear them more than once. Comfort is also an important factor—no one wants to be relegated to the dinner table while everyone else is on the dance floor because of a painful pair of shoes. Here are some helpful tips when choosing your shoes: \n\n- For outdoor weddings, avoid stilettos—they’ll sink into the grass or sand. Opt for a chunky or wedge heel instead. We love [these](https://www.shopbop.com/billie-wedge-slide-staud/vp/v=1/1539958327.htm?fm=search-viewall-shopbysize&os=false&ref=SB_PLP_NB_24&extid=affprg_linkshare_SB-25ZRSXYPVYg&cvosrc=affiliate.linkshare.25ZRSXYPVYg&affuid=s_wd.w_3561858.uts_gg&sharedid=42352&subid1=25ZRSXYPVYg-QmKlgpJvOp9UcBWuoAfGkQ) stylish wedge sandals by Staud, especially when paired with a v-neck dress. \n- For something versatile, go for heeled sandals in a nude color. [These](https://www.aldoshoes.com/us/en_US/jennifer-bone/p/13265636) strappy nude-heeled sandals will match just about everything! You can even wear them to a [black-tie event](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-dress-for-a-black-tie-formal-wedding). \n- For a formal spring wedding, avoid flat sandals, unless you’re the bride or bridesmaid. Even if it’s just an inch, something with a heel is more appropriate. The ankle strap on __[these](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/steve-madden-irenee-ankle-strap-sandal-women/4333055?origin=keywordsearch-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAll%20Results&color=200)__ sandals adds more comfort.\n- For a casual spring wedding, high heels aren’t a requirement, but flip flops are definitely out. It is a wedding, after all! \n\nLast but not least, finish everything off with some dazzling accessories. There’s tons of room to play when it comes to accessorizing, from cute clutches to statement earrings and necklaces. Whether you’ll be an early [summer wedding guest](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-summer-wedding) at a relaxed garden wedding or are considering highly formal dresses, follow these tips before you shop:\n\n- For purses, a small, handheld clutch is a no-fail option. You don’t want to lug a huge purse around! Opting for a neutral white, cream, or metallic color is best for versatility, but no color is off limits—like [this](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/aldo-triada-faux-leather-clutch/6484000?origin=keywordsearch-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAll%20Results&color=540) spring-worthy lavender clutch. \n- For jewelry, statement earrings are having a moment and work well if you’ll be sporting an updo. Anything goes, from bold colors to pearls! We love __[these](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/deepa-gurnani-jody-beaded-tassel-earrings/5940898?origin=keywordsearch-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAll%20Results&color=450)__ shimmery tassel earrings or __[these](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/sunshine-tienda-statement-drop-earrings/5971377?origin=keywordsearch-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAll%20Results&color=900)__ bright colors-blocked earrings if you want to make a statement. \n- For formal weddings, less is more when it comes to jewelry. A simple pearl necklace looks incredibly elegant with a lace dress, and a simple pair of stud earrings work well if you’re wearing your hair down with an off-the-shoulder dress. \n\n## Zola: Your Place for Wedding Guest Attire\nDeciding what to wear to a wedding can be tricky. However, what matters most is that you find something you love, especially if you’re the mother of the bride. As long as you stick to the couple’s dress code, finding the perfect winter wedding guest dress doesn’t have to be complicated. For more tips on party dresses and wedding guest etiquette, Zola has all the expert advice you need, from how to give a __[wedding speech](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-write-a-maid-of-honor-speech)__ to __[what to write in your wedding card](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-write-in-a-wedding-card)__.","tag":"How-To ","updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:40:02.565Z"}],"pagination":{"currentPage":2,"total":57},"subtopic":{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"let-bridesmaids-choose-own-dresses","title":"The Complete Guide to Mismatched Bridesmaid Dresses","excerpt":"Letting your bridesmaids pick their own dresses for your wedding day means confident bridesmaids and less stress for you. Here are the do’s and don'ts of letting your bridesmaids pick out their own dress. ","author":"Kathleen Wong","publishedAt":"2024-08-13T10:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6kKYuHOeeUvE5sqbavfpLI/a5b85a5d99beac71432d942beadfd696/katelyn-macmillan-5VhSc5jCA2g-unsplash.jpg","altText":"groom with bridesmaids in different dresses"},"heroCredit":"Katelyn Macmillan","tldr":"__Inside this article:__ \n- Why let your bridesmaids choose their own dress?\n- What could go wrong?\n- Guidelines to letting bridemaids pick a dress","body":"__TLDR:__\n- Letting bridesmaids pick their own dresses may seem risky, but it can give them confidence as they end up with a gown they love.\n- Be specific with any guidelines you have, such as if you have a specific color in mind or want a floor length dress.\n- Also, let them know what type of shoes and accessories you'd like your bridal party to wear on your big day.\n\n## Letting bridesmaids pick their own dresses\n\nYou whittled down your social circle into the __[perfect wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one)__ and now it’s time to decide what everyone’s going to wear. While it’s not necessary for the wedding party to wear matching outfits, many couples like to achieve a cohesive look. \n\nTraditionally, bridesmaids wear the same dress or outfit in the chosen wedding color. This helps the bride stand out in her [wedding dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/classic-wedding-dresses-for-the-traditional-bride), makes for visually cohesive photos, and also helps other wedding guests identify the members of the wedding party. \n\nHowever, many couples are loosening the reins and letting __[attendants choose dresses](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop)__ that reflect their individual maid of honor or bridesmaid style. With so much to plan for the wedding day, it may not be necessary to maintain control over everything. Mismatching dresses are one of the best ways to help your bridesmaids feel comfortable. They'll also have more freedom to select a dress that reflects their own style and flatters their body type. \n\nIf you're worried about letting go of control when it comes to mix and match bridesmaid dresses for your big day, don't worry. Or perhaps you just don't care and are willing to give free rein. From choosing bridesmaid dress colors to creating cohesive bridesmaid looks, here’s some wedding inspiration and insights to help you achieve a look that works for your wedding style and for your bridesmaids. \n\n## Why would I let my bridesmaids choose their own dresses?\n \nWe get it: It’s your wedding and it can feel easier to maintain control and just put your girls in the same bridesmaid dress style. However, there are some pluses to giving your attendants this freedom and not having them wear matching bridesmaid dresses.\n\n- __Comfort.__ Anyone who’s ever been a bridesmaid (or dress shopped for that matter) understands that being assigned a specific dress isn’t ideal. What works for one body doesn’t necessarily work for another and the potential resulting discomfort of a unified bridal party look can leave your bridesmaids feeling meh. If they can choose their own dresses, they can seek out different styles, necklines, and cuts that flatter their figures.\n- __Confidence.__ In that same vein, when you look good, you feel good. Let your bridesmaids [choose dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-pick-bridesmaid-dresses) they love (or at least feel comfortable in) and they’ll radiate confidence, not discomfort on your wedding day.\n- __Price.__ Money is often one of the biggest pain points for bridal parties. It’s [expensive to be a bridesmaid](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-bridesmaid-duties)! You don’t have to worry about settling on a price point that fits into everyone’s budget (or feeling guilty for choosing expensive dresses) if you let your bridesmaids choose their own dresses.\n\n![Zola - Mismatched Bridesmaids Dresses: How to Pull Off the Look](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/47xZofgiF7kwAgCW841P3u/2945a2669ac319627e743bc40307f78d/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n\n## Could skipping a specific dress go a little off the rails?\n \nDefinitely. Offering your bridesmaids free rein to select their outfits for your wedding is nerve-wracking. You don’t want to end up with an entirely mismatched situation (unless you do!). There are some cons to letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses.\n- __Cohesion.__ Obviously, if you let your bridesmaids choose their own dresses, they'll probably all pick different styles…and maybe even different colors. If you really want a traditionally cohesive look, maybe reconsider this route.\n- __Confusion.__ Too much of anything isn’t great—the same is true for bridal party freedom. Without any guidelines at all, you may find yourself answering a lot of texts about what’s OK and what’s not—from materials to color to price to length and more.\n\n## Guidelines for letting bridesmaids choose their own dresses\n \nMake the dress hunt easy for your bridesmaids and yourself by being clear about what you really do and don’t want. That way, every one from your maid of honor to junior bridesmaids can feel good in a dress that suits their body type.\n\n### 1. Do: Be specific.\nSure, you told your girls you wanted everyone in pastel green. Great! No, not great. When we say be specific, we mean be specific. If you have a look in mind, be clear about that. Here are some details you may want to be extra clear about:\n\n- __Dress color.__ If you have a dress color in mind, that’s great. However, what looks mauve to one person may be more pale violet to another. Picking a single color can make it difficult for bridesmaids to find dresses in the exact same shade from different vendors. Consider putting together a color palette of 3-4 complementary colors for your [bridesmaids to choose](https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingplanning/comments/pujak6/letting_bridesmaids_pick_dress_style/) from. or offer up a few vendors you’d like for them to order from.\n\n- __Length.__ Some brides don’t mind a variety of hemlines—floor-length, knee-length, mini, midi, etc. If you want all of your bridesmaids in the same length dress, let them know. Alternatively, if you really don’t mind different lengths, let them know that, too.\n\n- __Material.__ Satin, chiffon, charmeuse, crepe, taffeta—the world of dress materials is vast. If all of your bridesmaids are wearing the same exact color, dresses in different materials can be a nice way to add some dimension to the look. However, too many materials can also be a bit distracting. If you don’t want anyone in a jersey knit, make that clear.\n\n- __Style.__ By this, we mean the level of formality. If you’re having a black-tie wedding, you may not want your bridesmaids in semi-formal dresses. Be sure to outline the dress code clearly.\n\nClarity is key. Before you tell your bridesmaids they can choose their own dresses, come prepared with your own suggestions and requirements.\n\n### 2. Don’t: Forget about cost.\nWe like the idea that letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses may remove some of the financial strain. We also like the idea of a bride providing a shortlist (3-5) of dress vendors for the bridal party to choose from. If you go this route, consider selecting different styles you love in a variety of price ranges. Be considerate of your party’s financial situations—and be open to discussing it with any bridesmaid who may be in a tough spot.\n\n![Mismatched Bridesmaid Dresses Yellow](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2hmZIQ3ztPJpdpQndGPd87/bf0699bd01b2345d51b6221c07bbaa1a/Mismatched_Bridesmaid_Dresses_Yellow.jpg)\nPhoto by [Emma Lee Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/emma-lee-photography)\n\n### 3. Do: Make it a group activity.\nYou made a day out of wedding dress shopping…so why not make one out of bridesmaid dress shopping? Go to brunch and then hit the stores. Keep it simple and have a couple of boutiques picked out for the shopping expedition. Note: This may involve making appointments ahead of time. This way, your bridesmaids can choose a variety of dresses and you can be there in person to share immediate impressions. Not only is this just a fun wedding party activity, but it also helps busier bridesmaids find time to shop and nudges along any that err on the side of procrastination.\n\nIf your bridesmaids don’t live in the same area or can’t make the shopping day, that’s OK. Consider scheduling a Facetime with them as they shop. You can also create a dedicated group chat (if you haven’t already) to dress shopping.\n\n### 4. Don’t: Get complicated.\nAbove all, letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses shouldn’t be too complicated or stressful. In fact, it should potentially make things a little easier for you. These girls are your bridesmaids for a reason—and they want to make your wedding day go smoothly. Trust that they’ve got this under control and really, truly, let them take the reins on this one. (Don’t forget to __[thank them for their hard work](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/top-10-ways-to-thank-your-bridesmaids)__ in the planning process, either.)\n\nWho knows, they might even pick a dress they like so much, they’ll wear it again. Isn’t that the best-case scenario for any bridesmaid dress?\n\n### 5. Do: A final check-in.\nThere are the hair and makeup trials, the catering and cake tastings, and, of course, the bridesmaid dress check-in. It’s always a good idea to get on the same page after they've dress shopped and before anything is finalized. Make sure your bridesmaids run their final dress choices by you before they purchase. This way you can see if it fits into your ultimate vision or theme—and you eliminate any surprises and last-minute stress.\n\nGive your bridesmaids an absolute deadline for their final dress check-in. It sounds like a bridezilla move, but, trust us, it benefits them, too. You want everyone to have ample time to either find a new dress or get any necessary alterations. We recommend scheduling your check-in for about seven months ahead of the wedding. Therefore, let bridesmaids pick their own dresses well in advance.\n\n### 6. Don’t: Disregard shoes and accessories.\nBridesmaid attire doesn’t end with the dress. Accessories are everything, especially if you’re going for a mismatched bridesmaid dress look. Choosing a pair of shoes or a specific shoe style and color is an easy way to bring a cohesive look to your bridal party. \n\nIf you don’t have a shoe in mind, be sure to be clear about style. This way you avoid one girl in heels and another in flats. (If one of your bridesmaids needs to wear flats for a personal reason, though, we recommend hearing her out on that, of course.) Alternatively, you may want your bridal party in flats or sneakers. Again, just make sure you’re aligned.\n\nSimilarly, let your bridesmaids know what jewelry you do or don’t want them to wear. Traditionally, brides will purchase and then gift the jewelry they want their bridesmaids to wear. If you want to let them choose their own, that’s cool, too. Be sure, as always, to be clear about style.\n\nAnd don't forget about florals! Bridesmaid bouquets are an accessory in their own right, and will add cohesion to the look of your wedding party. Make sure that whatever flowers you're ordering will complement the bridesmaids' dresses. \n\n![Mismatched Christmas Bridesmaid Winter Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/lGiH566fp4nPH7kj6E8Dt/f3c59ea510b079cf8dbe3584bfa84354/Mismatched_Christmas_Bridesmaid_Winter_Dresses.jpg)\nPhoto by [Bokeh Love Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/bokeh-love-photography-llc)\n\n## 5 Mismatched bridesmaid dress ideas\n \nReady to get down to specifics? Here are some of the approaches you can take when building a mismatched bridal party look.\n\n### 1. Same color, different dress styles\nThis is one of the most straightforward approaches when it comes to choosing different bridesmaid dresses. You have them wearing the same exact color, like dusty blue or burnt orange, and ask your bridesmaids to find whatever dress they want in the chosen color. Add some cohesion to these different styles by giving them certain guidelines—for example, maybe you want them all to wear a maxi dress, or wear dresses that are in the same fabric. \n\n### 2. Same color, different neckline\nIf you're going to be strict about the color and style of the dress, you can give your bridesmaids some flexibility by letting them choose their own neckline. This is one of the best ways to accommodate different body types, as each girl can wear whatever cut she feels comfortable in. For example, maybe your maid of honor has a larger chest and would prefer a dress with straps—while another bridesmaid might love strapless styles.\n\n### 3. Same color, different textures\nTexture is a great way to create visual interest among your different bridesmaid dresses. For example, let's say you're having a [fall wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-look-in-fall-bridesmaid-dresses) and have asked your bridesmaids to wear burnt orange. Maybe one finds a satin dress she loves in the burnt orange shade, while another is drawn to a velvet style. Assign a texture to each maid that not only lets them show off their own personal style, but works well with the textures of the other dresses.\n\n### 4. Different shades of the same color palette\nIf you don't have a specific color in mind, keep it broad and ask bridesmaids to stick to a specific color scheme. For example, you might let your wedding party know to look for shades of green bridesmaid dresses (like sage and forest) or pink bridesmaid dresses (like dusty pink and fuschia). Ideally, this will create a sort of tonal, ombre-inspired look that's perfect for boho weddings.\n\n### 5. Different colors\nIf you want to make a bold statement with your bridal party, get creative by pairing different colors. You can choose a color family, like warm tones or cool tones, or choose a color scheme that reflects the season—for example, jewel tones for a moody winter wedding or pastel shades for a springtime celebration.\n\n![Letting Bridesmaids Pick Their Own Dress](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/0Auo6BBWFwwKMNbZmrGzA/dc4efb283015a188fd07e140c1a3da34/Letting_Bridesmaids_Pick_Their_Own_Dress.jpg)\nPhoto by [Anna So Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/anna-so-photography)\n\n## Thinking beyond the dresses\nEven if you're letting the [bridesmaids choose](https://www.quora.com/Will-you-choose-bridesmaid-dresses-for-your-bridesmaids-or-let-them-choose-their-own-Do-you-want-the-color-to-be-the-same-or-different) their own dress, you still have a lot on your plate while planning your special day. And Zola is here to help every step along the way. \n\nFrom [getting engaged](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/to-dos-after-you-get-engaged) and [announcing the big news](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-announce-your-engagement) to [selecting wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-invitations-paper-guide), we are here 24/7 with expert advice just waiting for you to learn. Happy planning!","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Pick out a thoughtful gift for the squad that shows up for you on your big day. 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Read our full, comprehensive guide on the most appropriate men’s attire that will make you look like you just stepped off the red carpet.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-12-28T17:16:07.930Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ib0hKIbbrVyFqK5kVrTba/419da62e0242fd57217d6ce823673ba4/Hero_Modern_Multi-CulturalWeddingat5226Elm_PaigeNewton.jpg","altText":"How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding"},"heroCredit":"Paige Newton","body":"Whether it’s the Golden Globes or the Grammys, many of us—male and female—watch for the styles. The fashion chatter usually centers around the ladies; however, there is something to be said for a guy who can successfully achieve a red carpet look. So, take your cues from award show fashion to gain inspiration for __[what to wear to a black-tie wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding)__, and forget about any casual attire.\n\nAlthough some guys go off-script and wear colorful and downright outlandish looks, it’s best to stick to the formal dress code rules and formal attire when attending a black-tie wedding. After all, not many can pull off the fashions that Lil Nas X wears at the Grammys. Actually, for most occasions, formal wedding outfits require black-tie attire, which means a tuxedo. A black tie outfit is the height of style, and, consequently, it’s an effortless look to sport. We’ll tell you how with our guide to __[dressing in your black-tie best](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-dress-for-a-black-tie-formal-wedding)__ for an evening wedding.\n\n![How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5xWzi6cRFkonwgW4riVJT5/e43866ef6817ca410e1a3e0da8e0850c/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Black Tie Dress Code Explained\nFirst things first—before we jump into how to dress for a black tie wedding, let's quickly cover where, exactly, the black-tie dress tie comes from.\n\nBlack tie is a semi-formal dress code that dates back to the 19th century. The dress code was popularized both in Britain and America. Both tuxedos and dark suits fall under the \"black tie\" umbrella—and while the dress code is semi-formal, it's generally [appropriate wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding) for more formal events.\n\n## The Perfect Pieces for a Black-Tie Wedding Look\nBlack-tie attire means that you should be wearing a black tuxedo or a dark suit (black suits, dark blue suits, and gray suits are all appropriate), but you can still let your personality shine through. With a few simple guidelines, you can put an outfit together worthy of the red carpet or wedding aisle.\n\n- __Tuxedo Jacket__ : Like the many takes on the classic cocktail dress, there are several __[styles of jackets](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_jacket)__. that work for black tie looks, like dinner jackets, tuxedo jackets, and more formal blazers. However, the common denominator in men’s black-tie suiting is the presence of satin on the lapels (whether it’s a notch lapel, peak lapel, or shawl lapel). Satin fabric also hides the buttons, which elevates the look of any black tux. Although black dress is the standard for black-tie events, darker tones of blue (like midnight blue) are acceptable. A good rule of thumb is to leave the single button closure fastened while standing, to maintain a fitted look (which can also be enhanced by a slim fit cut). \n\n- __Trousers__ : [Pants should match](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_pants) the jacket in both fabric and color. Satin goes down the outside seam on each pant leg, which serves to enhance the look. \n\n- __Crisp, Collared Shirt__ : A white shirt is the only acceptable color, but there is a little leeway with styling. Some tuxedo shirts are wing-tipped, but a [well-constructed oxford](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_tuxedo_shirt) would also suffice. Authentic tux shirts also have small pleats vertically across the chest to add interest. If you don't have an authentic tux shirt, ensure that your white dress shirt looks up to par. \n\n- __Black Shoes__ : Shiny, patent leather shoes are the norm for tuxedos, although quality black leather shoes or loafers will also do the trick. Don’t forget to wear socks. Over the calf, dark socks are ideal.\n\n- __Black Bow Tie__ : A [bow tie](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_bow_tie) allows those tiny pleats in the shirt to have their moment in the sun. Black is the traditional color, and be sure that your necktie neckwear is solid, not patterned.\n\n- __White Pocket Square__ : Dark jackets are in stark contrast to a pure white pocket square. However, it’s incredible how a [tiny square of fabric](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/birdygrey_didi_pocket_square_dustyblue) can create a cohesive look.\n\n- __Cufflinks__ : Unless you’re wearing an oxford, most tuxedo shirts close at the wrist with [cufflinks](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/edelweissjewelry_zola_love_collection_cufflinks_14kyellowgold). particularly if you’re wearing lengthier French cuffs. Subtly is better than going crazy with color, and be sure to match your cufflinks with other metals that you’re wearing. \n\n- __Studs__ : Although you will look like a stud in a tux, that’s not quite where we’re going with this. Upon close inspection, most tuxedo shirts have studs instead of buttons. These aren’t 100 percent necessary, but they do add to the look. Also, be sure to match metals with your cufflinks and other jewelry pieces. \n\n- __Vest or Cumberbund__ : These pieces are never meant to be worn in tandem. Covering your midsection with a cummerbund or vest is posh, but not completely necessary. If you do decide to wear one, remember that this isn’t high school. Black is best, so stay away from vibrant colors meant for prom.\n\n![How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/78mHneRzRZEno1T3RJAHp0/7b5a54fa7ba993829e03dedf46a4dea2/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Where to Get a Tux for a Black-Tie Wedding\n\n### How to Rent a Tuxedo Locally\nMost guys don’t have a tux hanging in their closet, but if they do, chances are that it doesn’t get much use. That’s where rentals come in handy. Many local bridal salons and upscale men’s shops rent tuxedos to grooms and other wedding party members. So if you need a black tie outfit, chances are that they can get you one, too.\n\n#### Pros of Renting a Tux Locally\nAn advantage of heading somewhere in person is that you can ensure a perfect fit. Also, if something is wrong—a missing button or loose hem—they can order another piece or fix it on site. You can also see fabrics and styles in person, which is a huge plus. \n\n#### Cons of Renting a Tux Locally\nThe downside to renting is usually drop-off times, especially if you’re traveling and rent at your final destination. Returning your tux before an early Sunday morning flight may prove difficult.\n\n### How to Rent a Tux Online\nIt seems that you can do just about anything with the internet at your fingertips, and renting a tux is one of them. Many businesses specialize in formalwear rentals, so be sure to select a longstanding one with a good reputation.\n\n#### Pros of Renting a Tux Online\nQuite often, companies have strict measurement guidelines on their website. However, many online rental sites will send you a tuxedo to test out before the main event. They are also a bit more flexible with return times, giving up to 72 hours to ship your pieces back.\n\n#### Cons of Renting a Tux Online\nAlthough rentals usually come with quick shipping, it’s tough to solve problems right away if something arrives damaged. Unless you can do a try on ahead of time, selecting fabrics and styles from afar can prove challenging. \n\n### Where to Buy a Tuxedo\nIf you’re the exception and have quite a few black-tie events coming up, investing in a tuxedo can save money in the long run. Many men’s clothiers sell tuxedos, although purchasing online is also an option. Be sure to order it well in advance of your black-tie wedding so that you can make exchanges if necessary.\n\n## In the Case of Black-Tie Optional\nYikes! You’re all set with what black-tie is, but the invitation adds one tiny, scary word after it—optional. Don’t worry. Demystifying the terminology is easier than it sounds, but this never, ever means that jeans and your favorite band t-shirt are okay.\n\nBlack-tie optional attire for weddings is a bit more relaxed than a tuxedo. Often, couples choose this option to alleviate any financial burden for their guests. After all, the expense of traveling and buying a wedding gift is enough without having to spring for new suiting. So, seeing the word “optional” is a good thing. \n\nThink of it as mimicking a tuxedo without wearing one. Dark suiting with a crisp, white shirt and black shoes are ideal. Also, add traditional accessories, such as a pocket square, dark bow tie, and cufflinks. Skip the studs and cummerbund, but feel free to wear a vest if you have one that matches your suit.\n\nThe rule of thumb is to stick to the dress code and wear your most formal wear. If you don’t own a suit, it’s probably the time to invest in one, or you could go the tuxedo rental route.\n\n*__Quick tip:__ Black-tie optional can also be referenced as “black-tie preferred.”*\n\nSo, whether you’re headed to a black-tie wedding or are one of the fortunate ones to walk the red carpet at a black-tie event, use our guide to get it right. With a few key pieces—either borrowed or purchased—you’ll soon be looking your best at the season’s best events. Which, of course, includes weddings.\n\n## 10 Black Tie Wedding Attire Ideas for Men\nLooking for some help with black tie attire? We’ve come up with these formal wedding outfit ideas to help you nail your look.\n\n### 1. Pronto Uomo Modern Fit Tuxedo Coat\nThis black __[Pronto Uomo tuxedo coat](https://www.menswearhouse.com/p/pronto-uomo-modern-fit-suit-separates-tuxedo-coat-black-3X933X9410)__ is a sleek and elegant choice for any black tie affair. The trim and modern fit provides plenty of comfort and mobility and features a two-button design and satin notch lapel. This tuxedo coat retails for $219.99 at Men’s Wearhouse.\n\n### 2. Stretch Tuxedo Shirt\nThis __[Stretch Tuxedo Shirt](https://bonobos.com/products/stretch-tuxedo-shirt)__ is a comfortable and snappy component of any black-tie outfit. The shirt features attractive mother-of-pearl buttons and double-knife pleats for some added texture. French cuffs tie the look together with an added touch of elegance—and ample opportunity to show off your favorite pair of cufflinks. This shirt retails for $179 from Bonobos.\n\n### 3. Barathea Tuxedo Pants\nFor a classic look that ties your look together, these black __[Barathea Tuxedo Pants](https://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=442547002)__ are the answer. These pants are made from 100% virgin wool from one of Italy’s oldest mills and tailored with a slim fit for a comfortable, natural look that works in any season. Available for $220 from Banana Republic.\n\n### 4. Black and Burgundy Paisley Tuxedo Vest Set\nElevate your look with this __[Black and Burgundy Paisley Tuxedo Vest Set](https://paulmalone.com/collections/tuxedo-vests/products/black-and-burgundy-paisley-tuxedo-vest-set)__. The set includes a wine red and black paisley microfiber vest, matching pocket square, and your choice of a matching necktie or pre-tied cravat—though you can also pair it with your favorite bow tie. Altogether, this set is an affordable and stylish solution for any formal wedding or black-tie event. Available for $39.97 from Paul Malone.\n\n### 5. Steel and Onyx Tuxedo Studs\nAccessorizing isn’t always the easiest—especially with black-tie attire. Fortunately, these __[Steel and Onyx Tuxedo Studs](https://propercloth.com/products/steel-and-onyx-tuxedo-studs-431.html)__ are the perfect addition for a modern and classy take on a tux. These steel studs are Italian-made and come four to a set, with each featuring a black onyx face. These tuxedo studs retail for $75 from Proper Cloth.\n\n### 6. Personalized Rose Gold Round Cufflinks\nThough some cufflinks fly under the radar, these __[Personalized Rose Gold Round Cufflinks](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cathysconcepts_personalized_rose_gold_round_cuff_links_u)__ make a statement. The elegant rose gold adds a bit of contrast to your getup—while the engraveable face adds a personalized touch. Available from Zola for $27.99.\n\n### 7. Cummerbund\nThis __[Cummerbund](https://theblacktux.com/collection/accessory/cummerbund)__ can help you truly embrace the formality of a black-tie outfit. Made of plain black silk and with adjustable backing, this cummerbund won’t cramp your style on the dancefloor, but will help you stand out as someone who respects tradition. Available to rent for $15 or to purchase for $30 from The Black Tux.\n\n### 8. Tux Plain Toe Derby\nLet your style shine with these liquid-shine __[Tux Plain Toe Derby](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/florsheim-tux-plain-toe-derby-men/4873534)__ patent leather dress shoes. These shows are elegant in their simplicity, with a cushioned footbed to keep you comfortable through the day’s—and night’s—festivities. Available from Nordstrom for $124.95.\n\n### 9. Cotton Pocket Square\nTo add a bit of color to your black-tie outfit, incorporate this stylish and formal light blue __[Cotton Pocket Square](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/deltoro_cotton_pocket_square_lightblue)__. This timeless accessory is made in Lake Como, Italy, from a high-quality cotton that helps elevate your look for any formal affair. Available from Zola for $25.\n\n### 10. Classic-Fit UltraFlex Stretch Black Solid Tuxedo Separates\nShopping for the various bits of a formal ensemble can be overwhelming and time-consuming. Fortunately, this set of __[Classic-Fit UltraFlex Stretch Black Solid Tuxedo Separates](https://www.macys.com/shop/product/lauren-ralph-lauren-mens-classic-fit-ultraflex-stretch-black-solid-tuxedo-separates?ID=10503427)__ has almost everything you need to meet a black-tie dress code. Separates include a tuxedo jacket, pants, and vest, giving you the opportunity to accessorize however you see fit. Retails for $56.25 - $202.50 from Macy’s.\n\n## FAQs About Black Tie Dress Code\nStill not 100% clear on what the black tie dress code is—and how to ensure your wedding attire fits that dress code? Let's take a look at some frequently asked questions about black tie wedding attire to give some additional perspective:\n\n1. __What is the difference between a tuxedo and a suit?__ The main difference between a tuxedo and a suit is that tuxedos have a host of satin features—like lapels, buttons, and pant stripes—that suits do not.\n\n2. __What kinds of weddings have black tie dress codes?__ The black tie dress code is reserved for events that take place in the evenings—so weddings that start after 6pm or so may have a black tie dress code, while more casual daytime affairs would not.\n\n3. __What is the difference between a black tie and a white tie wedding dress code?__ White tie is the most formal dress code—and as such, is reserved for formal occasions. Black tie is considered semi-formal.\n\n4. __What should you do if you're invited to a black tie wedding—but don't have a tuxedo?__ Not to worry! Most men don't own tuxedos. There are plenty of places where you can rent a tuxedo, whether you're a wedding guest or in the wedding party—and if that's not an option, a dark suit would also be appropriate.\n\n5. __Is there any way to incorporate color into black tie wedding attire?__ While there aren't many opportunities for incorporating color into black tie wedding attire, if it's important to you, you could add a pop of color with accessories, like a pocket square.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Learn the ins and outs of semi-formal attire for men. 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Luckily, Zola has you covered with this easy guide. Read on now.","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-14T18:17:19.140Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6FbTEkIOvwhgnjNVFfvbPU/9fed0ee78b65647114b0bbc7e741fe5a/inline_hewittphotography.jpg","altText":"Cocktail wedding Attire"},"heroCredit":"Hewitt Photography","body":"Cocktail attire is generally associated with knee-length dresses, sophisticated heels, and simple suits. However, as one of the most popular (and versatile) dress codes, there are numerous ways that you can incorporate your own personal style in dressing for this type of wedding...starting with long dresses.\n\nFrom the color and fabric of the dress, to the hairstyle and accessories you pair with it, a maxi dress can easily pass as proper cocktail attire, if styled correctly. Below are a few pieces of advice to make sure that you’re picking the right gown and accessorizing it accordingly for a semi-formal ceremony.\n\n### Seasonality Matters\nIf the wedding takes place in the winter, no one is going to bat an eye at the fact that you’re wearing a long dress—if anything, it’s likely expected. All that the cocktail or semi-formal attire request means in the colder months is that you’re welcome to pick a more casual option than what you’d choose for a black-tie event. For example, while you may have picked a silk, emerald green number for a black-tie wedding, you might go for a long, cotton gown with moody florals instead. \n\n### Pick Your Silhouette (and Fabric) Wisely\nA fitted, full-length gown gives off a very different vibe than a flowy maxi with a slit. When planning what length of dress to wear, consider what would seem most cocktail-appropriate and feel the most comfortable to you. If you normally opt for more fitted dresses, maybe consider a knee-length shift or an A-line number, instead. However, if you’re comfortable in something with a lot of movement, then a lightweight maxi-dress is perfectly appropriate.\n\nIn addition to shape, fabrics play an important role in the overall formality of the dress. Fabrics such as satin, velvet, crepe, and organza are generally more suited for black-tie—unless you plan to really dress them down with accessories—while lightweight silk, cotton, and linen blends are much more fitting for a cocktail maxi-dress. Slits and high-low hems are also a fun way to dress down your ensemble, while incorporating a bit of personality.\n\n### Consider the Venue\n\n![Can you wear a long dress for cocktail attire?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4Af8XXHF0YtCmGwrEMXBKy/3ce3bccca2feadc1dafb2771656c2196/inline_chrislanephotography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Chris Lane Photography\n\nIf it’s a backyard wedding or farm setting, then you might not want your dress sweeping the floor the whole evening (or have to wear heels to keep your hem clean). Once you receive the official invitation (or link to the couple’s wedding website!), look up the venue and try to get a good idea of the types of surfaces that you’ll be walking on. There’s always the chance that they’ll rent flooring for the day, but you don’t want to have to rely on it. If you go long, try something that isn’t a ground-duster, or opt for a pair of comfy wedges to add a few inches.\n\n### Opt for Alternative Colors and Prints\nBecause you’re picking a slightly more formal silhouette by going full-length, you can go a little more casual with your color and print choices. If it’s a spring or summer event, maxi dresses in terra cotta or mustard tones are great options, as are dainty florals in vibrant colors. For fall and winter events, jewel tones are always a wise choice, but long-sleeved dresses in moody florals and vintage prints are fun alternatives, too. If you do choose a print, make sure that you pick more subtle accessories so that the look doesn’t become too busy, or make it seem like you’re trying to steal the show.\n\n### Keep It Natural\nIf you’ve got your heart set on wearing a full-length dress, then keep your hair and makeup as laid back as possible. There’s a big difference between cat eyes and a tightly pulled updo, versus relaxed, tousled waves and some subtle lipstick. Details such as undone braids, beachy waves, and natural, kinky curls are great options to complement a less formal maxi. So long as you’re considering the seasons and venue, details such as a low bun, a little bit of extra eye makeup, or a statement lip can work, too.\n\n### Dress It Down With Accessories\nEarrings, hairpieces, shoes, and bags are some of the simplest ways to dress an outfit up or down. Instead of a sparkly clutch, maybe opt for a relaxed crossbody bag in a fun color, instead. For a fall wedding, consider adding a sophisticated leather jacket over your floral maxi dress. A fancier alternative to a denim jacket, a leather jacket keeps you warm, but also ensures that you don’t look out of place. For a summer event, consider tasteful wedges or block heels in a fun print. Flats are also an option, if they’re polished enough (particularly if they’re in an unexpected fabric such as velvet or satin).\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_WeddingBoutique"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"It’s easy to pick an outfit for a formal wedding, but what about a casual attire wedding? Read on to get some pointers on what to wear to a casual attire wedding. ","title":"Casual Wedding Attire Guide","slug":"casual-wedding-attire-guide","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6uuL6M77rEUl8NuQmPGrI6/12ef1b1f643341a710ceb9d7a3e01e3c/inline_cbrownphoto__1_.jpg","altText":"how to dress for a casual wedding dress code"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Going to a wedding where the dress code is cocktail attire? We have come up with a guide to help you determine what fashion qualifies for this occasion. 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Eyes will be on you throughout the wedding day and into the evening—and odds are you’ll be featured in many photos. Plus, you’ll want to feel your best. With all of this is mind, we’ve put together a comprehensive groom’s and groomsmen's attire guide.\n\n## What's the Difference?\n\nFirst thing’s first: What are the main differences between groom and groomsmen attire? Because suits and tuxedos can look fairly similar (especially in like colors), a few things a groom can do to stand out from his groomsmen are as follows:\n\n- Don a boutonniere. Doing so will also ensure that you coordinate with your partner.\n\n- Wear a different [tie](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-tie-for-groomsmen) or bowtie. This works especially well if your groomsmen’s are all matching.\n\n- Include a print. Wear a patterned blazer or suit jacket over your dress shirt, or patterned accessories, like socks or your pocket square.\n\n- Elevate your look. Differentiate yourself by wearing a different color, high quality fabric, or structure and silhouette. For example, if your groomsmen are wearing light gray or black, opt instead for dark gray or navy. Think along the lines of a bridal gown vs a bridesmaid’s dress.\n\nWith this in mind, read on for our guide.\n\n## Appropriate Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nSo, what is [appropriate](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/groomsmen-etiquette-101-a-beginners-guide) groom and groomsmen wedding attire? Here are some things to keep in mind:\n\n- The groom’s and groomsmen’s outfits should match the formality of the wedding and the venue.\n\n- Popular groom and groomsmen attire for more formal events include suits and tuxedos, while informal weddings allow for dress shirts and slacks.\n\n- If the groom’s attire matches the groomsmen, it’s important that everyone follows the dress code and goes shopping months in advance.\n\n- If the groom wants to stand out from the groomsmen, styling tricks can distinguish him from members of the wedding party.\n\n- Some grooms want all of their groomsmen to dress individually and not match one another. In these cases, establish a dress code and color palette for everyone to follow.\n\n## Groomsmen Attire FAQs\n### How to Choose Groomsmen Attire\nWhen it comes to selecting and even browsing for groomsmen clothing, there are several factors to be considered. Keeping these top-of-mind can be a tremendous aid in helping you decide on outfit pieces, fabrics, colors, fits, and more.\n\n- __Season.__ The season the wedding takes place in can have a large influence on what’s worn—especially if it’s an outdoor wedding. Take your cues from the weather and seasonal color palettes for attire that fits seamlessly.\n\n- __Time of Day.__ Depending on the season and your location, temperatures can vary drastically, from midday to late in the night. Consider what time (or times) of day you’ll be celebrating and dress accordingly. For example, if you’ll be out in the hot sun most of the time, you’ll want to opt for lighter, breezier fabrics.\n\n- __Wedding Venue.__ You wedding venue dictates much of the feeling and atmosphere of a wedding. Try to match its level of formality when deciding on your attire.\n\n- __Wedding’s Theme or Dress Code.__ Perhaps most crucial, pay special attention to any information the couple gives you prior to the wedding. Most often, you’ll be notified via invitation or wedding website of the wedding style and dress code. Take note of this when looking for an outfit—and always double check with the couple if you aren’t sure.\n\n### What Should the Groom and Groomsmen Wear?\nA [wedding’s venue](https://zola.app.link/o9Wx4NVYvcb) and [theme](https://zola.app.link/vxkYfJyN71) should inform what a groom and his groomsmen wear. It’s been said before, but it will be said again: Your outfit’s level of formality should reflect your wedding theme and wedding venue. If you’re getting married in your parents’ backyard, you don’t need to rock a tuxedo (unless that’s your thing). Likewise, nuptials at a place of worship call for a certain style of dress—it’s not appropriate to wear flip flops and a golf shirt in a church.\n\n### Who Pays for the Groomsmen Attire?\nAs with most things involved in wedding planning, this ultimately depends on the couple’s preferences. Most often, each individual groomsmen—as well as other members of the wedding party—will purchase or rent their own attire for the big day. Because of this, they usually also have a say in what they end up wearing. That said, there are cases in which the groom, couple, of even the groom’s parents will offer to chip in to cover some (or all) outfit expenses. This, however, highly depends on their budget and dress expectations.\n\nIn any case, communication about who’s going to pay should be communicated ASAP. Read: Before anyone agrees to be a groomsman. It’s crucial that everyone has all of the information they need, such as spending expectations, before committing.\n\n## 6 Groomsmen Attire Options\nOnce you determine how formal or informal you can be, decide what you want to wear. Some popular options for grooms and groomsmen include:\n\n### Formal Attire\n1. __[Tuxedos](https://zola.app.link/y2nb5n96Ocb)__. Tuxes are great for formal weddings and black-tie events. They can be worn during all four seasons, and are great for both indoor and outdoor weddings.\n\n2. __Dark suits__. These days, a nice two- and three-piece dark suit is acceptable for a wedding with a formal dress code. Make sure your suit is well fitted and pressed before the day of.\n\n### Semi-Formal Attire\n3. __[Suits](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-groom-and-groomsmen-suits)__, either three-piece or two-piece. A three-piece suit can be worn at formal weddings or semi-formal affairs. Two-piece groomsmen suits are a bit more casual and can be dressed down, even more so when the jacket is removed. In any case ,wedding suits should fit well and be pressed.\n\n### Casual Attire\n\n![How Many Groomsmen Is Normal? | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4BCAiHkxjk12bywl5iorO4/520a78ffa33671b2c8e4747187f5b956/inline_shutterstock_1_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Shutterstock\n\n4. __[Vest](https://zola.app.link/HcXfoUd7Ocb)__, __dress shirt__, __and slacks__. A play on the two-piece suit, wearing a vest over a dress shirt is a great look for more informal events or summer weddings.\n\n5. __[Dress shirt](https://zola.app.link/eLaNHDg7Ocb)__ __and slacks__. Paired with a tie or bow tie, this look can be accentuated by suspenders or a nice leather belt.\n\n6. __Shirt and khakis__. For informal or casual spring/summer weddings, skip the dress pants altogether and sport a pair of chinos with a nice shirt—tie optional.\n\n## Matching Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nTraditionally, a groom and his groomsmen wear matching tuxedos or suits, but today there are no hard rules. If you want the groom and groomsmen to wear the same attire, whether it be a suit or a dress shirt and pants, consider the following:\n\n- What is your [wedding theme](https://zola.app.link/vxkYfJyN71)/what are your wedding colors? If you’re having a fall, rustic wedding and are incorporating colors of blush and burgundy, the groom and groomsmen should follow suit. Gray suits with burgundy ties, for example, would be a way to stay on-theme.\n\n- What are everyone’s budget and location? It’s important to [talk about money when you’re at a wedding party](https://zola.app.link/gxLaAGyN71) to ensure that everyone can afford the same outfit. This can help determine whether you will rent, buy, or borrow garments. Remember that location affects availability and suit fitting appointments if you’re going the custom route.\n\n- Plan months in advance. If your groom and groomsmen attire matches, go shopping at least four to six months in advance to allow for enough time to order and tailor garments.\n\n- Another tip? Regardless of whether all groomsmen get fitted for their outfits at the same time and place, or do it individually, it’s a good idea to have everyone’s measurements [sent to the tailor two to four months before the wedding](https://zola.app.link/INwxgJyN71)—especially during peak wedding season—to ensure that everyone gets their clothing back on time.\n\nA popular style is for groomsmen to match one another, but the groom wears a slightly different, yet complementary, look. If you want the groomsmen to match, but the groom to stand out, consider the following:\n\n- Have the groomsmen’s attire match your wedding theme, but make the groom’s suit or tux slightly different by picking a feature color and highlighting it in different ways. For example, if forest green is one of your wedding colors, have the groomsmen wear green ties and [gray suits](https://zola.app.link/cE3oSTw7Ocb), while the groom wears a forest green suit and gray tie. This is a way to have everyone look good while standing together, yet still allowing the groom to stand out.\n\n## Mismatched Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nIf matching isn’t your thing, that’s cool. No groom and groomsmen need to dress the same. It’s important, however, that everyone at least looks cohesive and adheres to a dress code. A groomsman wearing linen pants will look odd next to a groomsman in a black tuxedo. The groom should set the tone and let everyone know how formal or casual they can dress and what color palette to stick to.\n\nIf you want all groomsmen to sport a navy two-piece suit, communicate what is appropriate. It’s one thing to say, “Everyone wears a blue suit!” but make sure that you also include dress shirts, ties, and shoe styles and colors. If your wedding is more casual and the groom is wearing nice slacks and a dress shirt, the groomsmen should follow. Use terms such as “business casual” and “semi-formal dress” to help the wedding party understand the level of formality that you want them to follow. Use photographs and share ideas with them. It’s a good idea to see (and approve) all groomsmen’s outfits before the wedding to make sure that they a) look good with what the groom is wearing, and b) are within the dress code. This helps to avoid any last-minute fashion disasters.\n\nIf the groom and groomsmen's attire doesn’t match, you can incorporate accessories to weave everyone together. Matching socks, ties or boutonnieres are all ways to let the groom and groomsmen stand out from one another, yet still complement each other’s looks.\n\nThe type of wedding you’re planning will dictate what the groom and groomsmen should wear. Look to other aspects of your wedding planning, such as venue, season, formality, and whether or not you want the groom and members of his wedding party to match. 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We've compiled a list of 10 places to shop plus moodboards for every wedding style.","publishedAt":"2024-08-13T16:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4mMWGycb0RlzWGFZTAJQt2/d899aec4756f6b7c139dd89e2dd3838e/androgynous-attire-for-weddings-hero.jpg","altText":"A woman wearing androgynous wedding attire during the sunset. "},"heroCredit":"Fly View Productions","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com","tldr":"__Inside this article:__ \n- How to find androgynous formal wear\n- Where to get androgynous wedding attire\n- How to personalize androgynous formal wear for every wedding type","body":"__TLDR:__\n- If you're looking for androgynous formal wear, be sure to consider your budget and preferred style before purchasing. \n- Several shops, like Duchess Clothier and SuitShop are perfect for fulfilling your androgynous wedding guest attire needs.\n- Consult our guide for styling for every type of [androgynous wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/gender-non-conforming-wedding-attire). Whether romantic, class, boho or beyond, we have visual cues to help.\n\n## Searching for androgynous wedding guest attire?\nDeciding what to [wear as a wedding guest](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/dos-donts-wedding-guest-fashion) is definitely not as easy as sampling everything at the [buffet table](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-food-ideas). But finding an outfit you love will make you feel your best and boost your confidence.\n\nIf a gender-neutral style is your style of choice, there are plenty of ways you can create a formal wear look that will make you feel your best. From classic to laid-back, we'll show you just how and where to find androgynous [wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding) and how you can style it depending on any wedding theme.\n\n## How to find androgynous formal wear \nWhether you're an experienced wedding attendee or this is your first time celebrating your favorite lovebirds, finding the perfect wedding attire can be overwhelming, especially if you're set on finding the perfect gender neutral wedding outfit. \n\nWe here at Zola have you covered with all of your wedding wear needs. Here are some steps on how to find androgynous wedding attire.\n\n### 1. Set a budget\nTo help avoid overspending and narrow down your options, the first step in finding the perfect androgynous wedding attire is to [set a budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/planning-101/budgeting). \n\nDecide how much you're willing to spend on the wedding outfit, taking into account not only necessary adjustments, such as [tailoring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-do-wedding-dress-alterations-cost), but also any accessories, shoes, and makeup you'll have to purchase. Do some research by looking at stores online and local boutiques to help you come up with a budget that makes sense.\n\n### 2. Decide on your preferred style\nAlthough having a budget will help you narrow down which stores to go to, having a general idea of what style of clothing you're looking for will help you figure out where to go. Consider your preferred style choices, what makes you feel the most comfortable, and the [wedding theme](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-themes). \n\nHaving a look in mind will make the process easier and faster. Find inspiration by looking at current fashion trends and social media accounts of people with a similar style as yours.\n\n### 3. Consider how much time you have\nLastly, consider how much time you have to find your gender-neutral wedding outfit since it will likely dictate whether you should shop online or in person. If you're short on time, might need your outfit tailored, or want to try it on first, find a couple of local stores to go to. Otherwise, shopping online can give you a wide range of options to choose from—just be sure to account for shipping times.\n\n![Androgynous Wedding Guest Attire](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ueZ9Qeq5seT7GOemiI1SN/546e8e8a38b3c4f83b6aba4831ebb05c/Androgynous_Wedding_Guest_Attire.jpg)\nPhoto by [Creatrix Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/creatrix-photography)\n\n## Where to get androgynous wedding attire \nIf you're still looking for places to shop for an outfit, there are many stores focusing on androgynous formal wear. These stores' main purpose is to provide you with an array of gender-neutral pieces, from formal wear to casual pieces, that will help you look and feel your best. Here are some that we recommend:\n\n### 1. The Tailory New York\nAnother custom suit option with online fittings is [The Tailory New York](https://thetailorynyc.com/), a women-owned clothing company that combines custom tailoring with modern fashion design. If you're looking for a bold and ambitious look, The Tailory has different clothing styles and colors, from modern fairytale to street chic. Their suits and tuxedos start at $1,450.\n\n### 2. Bindle & Keep\n\n[Bindle & Keep](https://www.bindleandkeep.com/) offers suits that are made just for you. If you want to have a suit created for your exact measurements, Bindle & Keep will do fittings both in person and online. They divide their suit options into three different pricing tiers varying by fabric, which ranges from $995 to $1,395. If you're considering custom-made androgynous wedding attire from Bindle & Keep, make sure to order ahead of time as their turnaround time is between 10 and 11 weeks.\n\n### 3. WILDFANG\nIf you're looking for a place where you can buy your everyday clothes but also find formal wear for your special event, [WILDFANG](https://www.wildfang.com/) is a good option. Its mission is to rethink gender norms and focus on androgynous outfits. At their store, you'll be able to find blazers, [dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-spring-wedding), and even accessories at a more affordable price, ranging from $70 to $200.\n\n### 4. Duchess Clothier\nIf you're looking for another made-to-fit option, [Duchess Clothier](https://www.duchessclothier.com/) creates androgynous outfits for every body and occasion. Their store is located in Portland, OR, where you'll get plenty of separate suit and shoe options, but they also let you create your own look by mixing and matching pieces. The price for their suits starts at $1,120 and they offer packages that also include dress shirts, ties, and pocket squares.\n\n### 5. Kirrin Finch\n[Kirrin Finch](https://kirrinfinch.com/) seeks to create fitting clothes that make you feel confident and comfortable. Their attire is designed to fit bodies of all shapes and sizes. They offer a wide range of androgynous formal wear, from dress shirts to suits and blazers. Prices range from $150 to $400 and offer a variety of silhouettes and colors.\n\n![Kirrin Finch Androgynous Formal Wear](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1lW1ojxP5jTJEjgXs2OkJu/98f85f274d87bcead990e2b668f5ee64/Kirrin_Finch_Androgynous_Formal_Wear.jpg)\n\n### 6. SuitShop\nIf you're looking for a more affordable option, or even considered [renting](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-does-a-tuxedo-rental-cost), [SuitShop](https://suitshop.com/) can provide you with high-quality clothing for a price that will make you feel as good as you look. At SuitShop, you can own a suit for as little as $199, and you'll get a variety of options to choose from with inclusive sizing. Plus, you can try your androgynous wedding attire for free for seven days.\n\n### 7. Birdy Grey\nAlthough [Birdy Grey](https://www.birdygrey.com/) fancies itself a [bridesmaid](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-bridesmaid-duties) dress retailer, they also offer options for suits and tuxedos that are tailored to perfection. At the online retailer, you'll also see a variety of shoes and accessories that are perfect for any wedding theme. Their gender-neutral wedding outfits are also affordable, starting at $199.\n\n### 8. Peau de Loup\n[Peau de Loup](https://www.peaudeloup.com/)'s goal is to make clothes for bodies and not genders, offering high-quality and limited clothing that accommodates curves. Aside from finding your androgynous wedding attire there, you'll also be able to get shoes, accessories, and casual clothing. Their formal wear is affordable, with prices starting at $98.\n\n### 9. HauteButch\nAnother brand that creates masculine clothing to fit women's bodies is [HauteButch](https://hautebutch.com/), a queer Black-owned brand. This small company creates innovative and diverse styles that represent who you are. They sell suits, vests, and accessories in a variety of styles and colors, with suits starting at around $200.\n\n### 10. Sharpe Suiting\n[Sharpe Suiting](https://sharpesuiting.com/) will help you achieve a look that will both fit your body and your style. They specialize in wedding attire and use their trademarked body measuring formula called “Andropometrics” to deliver you a custom suit. The process of purchasing a custom outfit will take around eight weeks, and a two-piece suit starts at $1,800.\n\n![Sharpe Androgynous Formal Wear](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/48SlVkaQrogBBmLLYA9Ogq/cdca55ee7c7ea3539d3123b08632e6af/Sharpe_Androgynous_Formal_Wear.jpg)\n\n## How to personalize androgynous formal wear for every wedding type \nNo matter how you express yourself, your wedding attire should fit the [wedding type](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/couples-top-wedding-themes) you’re attending or planning. Whether that is a classic chic wedding or a beach getaway, there are different ways you can personalize your androgynous formal wear according to the theme. \n\nWhen deciding on what to wear for the wedding, consider each element of your wedding attire, including accessories, shoes, and colors. You can also add your own personal touch by using elements that you usually wear—like your favorite watch or a pop of color that looks good on you.\n\n### 1. Classic\nClassic weddings are more traditional and elegant, and sometimes will require [black tie wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding). Whether your invite mentions a dress code or not, invest in looks in black, gray, or dark blue with solid fabric. If the wedding is during the summer, you might opt to wear lighter tones such as light gray or beige. \n\nYour look should be elegant and fitted, so if you’re going for a suit, consider wearing solid wool fabric, a black bowtie, and a collared white shirt. To complete your look, wear classic black leather shoes and gold and pearl jewelry, if that’s true to your style. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-classic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/630zTDv9adarWkCgmAY9X8/774dd5af04a72b617487675442696d26/androgynous-attire-for-classic-weddings.png)\n\n### 2. Rustic\n[Rustic weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue) are full of natural and wooden touches, which means you can go for a less formal look and have fun with textures. Look for clothing with lighter tones such as light blue and brown. For a more casual look, you could also forgo your blazer and wear only a vest with a collared shirt. \n\nAdd some texture to your look by choosing cotton or tweed blazers. Then complement your outfit with vintage brown leather shoes and patterned pocket squares. This is also your chance to wear your favorite shiny, gold jewelry or a leather watch. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-rustic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6X9V0pswklRpQ4DsMoebbj/62d44e6a3d9a4ae854cafbbe6905cd14/androgynous-attire-for-rustic-weddings.png)\n\n### 3. Beachy\n[Beach weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pros-and-cons-of-a-beach-wedding) are relaxed and calm, which means you get to enjoy the sea view and salty air with a more casual, bright look. Opt for light tones, like a pastel blue or green, or go for more colorful attire with florals. \n\nInvest in clothes with linen fabric so you can fully enjoy the ocean breeze. You might even want to roll up your sleeves or wear some nice shorts. Make your look even more beachy by adding colorful pocket flowers, accessories with seashells, and white loafers. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-beachy-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6Zf82q3mpqKJLcuDB84EWS/1362edaf2195c2480dab783a07118625/androgynous-attire-for-beachy-weddings.png)\n\n### 4. Modern\nModern weddings are more fashionable and bold, so if you like trendy styles or a monochromatic look, this is your chance to shine. In a modern wedding, you have the opportunity to be more creative by trying different fabrics or wearing a statement piece. \n\nConsider bold colors like dark green or burgundy, or try an all-black outfit with cuffed pants. Then complete your look with fashionable loafers or shiny black shoes and a gold watch. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-modern-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6hpxRcBcPre6QeHDQhrMgY/a531c502c266880425318f77c1b56270/androgynous-attire-for-modern-weddings.png)\n\n### 5. Garden\n[Garden weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/outdoor-wedding-ideas-for-fall) are fun and whimsical, so bring a playful spirit to your wedding attire. Consider floral and pinstripe fabrics, or go for a solid dark blue or purple look. Choose a breathable fabric, especially if the wedding will be outside during the summer. \n\nComplete your look by adding a tie in a pastel tone, or ditch the tie and go for an open collar style. Add flower accessories or a simple white pocket square to go with stitched vintage shoes. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-garden-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/QQIsPX3Pfi3nhwBvgFcNt/97fb6382f096e46eb5601fce444a8b09/androgynous-attire-for-garden-weddings.png)\n\n### 6. Romantic\nRomantic weddings are nothing short of dreamy and elegant. Go all in with a look that could've come out of a fairytale by wearing pastel pinks and blues and a blazer with silk details. \n\nTry suspenders, and match them with some classic leather shoes. For accessories, you can add delicate flower pins or shiny jewelry with diamonds and a gold watch.\n\n![androgynous-attire-for-romantic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1voWcJwI7i0vFWKLZTTWfa/09119df7011a734aa074ab55471930de/androgynous-attire-for-romantic-weddings.png)\n\n### 7. Boho\n[Boho weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/rustic-wedding-ideas) are more unconventional and relaxed, so this is your chance to rock a more laid-back look. Find outfits with lightweight and breathable fabrics and play around with different colors. \n\nDon't be shy when adding flowers or feathers to complement your look, or try a suede boho hat and match it with brown loafers. As for accessories, consider jewelry with colorful stones or gold fringe. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-boho-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/19ClGLMB3t5aDno8SdUPg0/b06b0754a417d786152b3240e245c6e8/androgynous-attire-for-boho-weddings.png)\n\nFinding the right [wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-guests/wedding-attire) doesn't have to be complicated. As long as you wear something you love and feel comfortable in, you'll radiate confidence walking in the venue. Luckily, you know exactly where to shop for androgynous wedding attire and how to personalize it according to each wedding theme.\n\nAre you the one getting married? Did you know that Zola can help with all of your wedding day needs? From using our [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) to creating a free [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website), get started today!","tag":"List","updatedAt":"2025-06-07T16:47:44.977Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"what-should-the-mother-of-the-groom-wear","title":"What Should the Mother of the Groom Wear?","excerpt":"Wondering what the mother of the groom should wear to your wedding? Read on for our complete guide.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2020-12-16T20:33:51.524Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3XYQnnhFxaJwQKwb4o3VdP/09b22c0665e884e05ef2a3f099378d4c/hero_Eyes_2_See_Photography.jpg","altText":"mother of the groom"},"heroCredit":"Eyes 2 See Photography","body":"Mothers are always valued members of a couple’s wedding party, whether it’s the mother of the bride or the mother of the groom. Both are honored and appreciated for their contributions to the bride and groom’s big day. \n\nThe mother of the groom in particular has several responsibilities, including helping plan the guest list for the groom’s side of the family and hosting the rehearsal dinner. It’s only natural that she looks exceptional when the big day rolls around. But what exactly should the mother of the groom wear? \n\n## Wedding Etiquette for the Mother of the Groom\n\nDepending upon how much of a stickler for tradition you are, there may be etiquette rules your family members and guests must follow. These rules may include a few about the wedding attire for the groom’s mother. \n\n### Dress Buying Traditions\n\nWondering if there’s a difference [between the mother of the bride dress and the mother of the groom dress?](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/mother-of-the-bride-vs-mother-of-the-groom-dresses-whats-the-difference) Traditionally, the mother of the bride decides on her dress first and then informs the groom’s mother. The mother of the groom can then get a dress that complements the [mother of the bride dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-attire-101-garden-edition) on the wedding day. \n\nKeep in mind that the two moms do not have to dress identical at all—the two dresses just have to be complementary, so they don't clash with each other, the wedding theme, or the bridesmaid dresses. \n\nIt’s worth noting, though: Nowadays, this tradition is considered more of a guideline than a hard rule. Still, it’s good guidance—especially if you haven’t heard otherwise. \n\n![Mother of the Groom Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/25fkY0wAnryA14ISsWlQEE/b10a6d827562696eacee5b1c7807476c/inline_rengim-mutevellioglu.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Rengim Mutevellioglu\n\n### Dress Etiquette\n\nAs stated before, the mother of the groom is an honored part of the special occasion, and she should dress accordingly. Both the mother of the bride and groom should select dresses that are similar in style and length and complementary to the wedding color palette and theme. \n\nBefore any shopping is done, consult with the bride or groom to get a better idea of their vision for the wedding day. For instance, flashy dresses and distracting colors wouldn’t be appropriate for a wedding with a soft, vintage theme. The mother of the groom should also avoid particular styles, such as low-cut necklines, thigh-split dresses, or tight skirts. \n\nJust keep in mind: Within reason, the mother of the groom should be able to dress according to her personality and comfort. \n\n### Dress Shopping Is Bonding Time\n\nIn today’s culture, mothers of the bride and groom often go dress shopping together and view it as an opportunity to bond and get to know one another better. Other moms might shop with the bride and bridesmaids as well, opting to make it a big gal’s day complete with a fancy lunch or dinner. This not only helps everyone get to know each other better, but also helps ensure that everyone looks great and dresses don’t clash. \n\n## Wedding Etiquette for Stepmoms of the Groom\n\nIf the groom’s family is a blended family, it can sometimes get complicated. The mother of the bride is only obliged to inform the mother of the groom about her wedding attire. Stepmothers, on the other hand, are the groom’s responsibility. It’s up to him to give her the required information, so that she can dress appropriately. \n\nOf course, this may be different in every family, because it depends on how close the groom is with his stepmother. If she’s considered a close family member and you plan to seat her in front with other family members, then she should choose her outfit in keeping with the colors and theme of the rest of the wedding party and family. However, if the two are not close and she is considered merely a guest, then she will be seated with guests and should have full freedom to dress however she likes (assuming it’s wedding appropriate!). There’s really no need for her attire to match the immediate family or wedding party—unless she just wants to.\n\n## Color Dos and Don’ts\n\n### Dos\n\nThere’s no end to the color palettes and wedding themes a bride might choose from. Depending on the theme, many mothers of the groom favor colors like:\n\n- Blues\n- Blushes\n- Mauves\n- Lavenders\n- Mint Green\n- Peach\n\nIf your wedding is a formal one, some mothers of the groom might prefer to wear shades of gold, dark silver, or even black. Other darker colors that might be worn include shades of :\n\n- Navy\n- Green\n- Purple\n- Red\n\n### Don’ts\n\nRemember, it’s a big fashion faux pas for someone in the immediate family or wedding party to wear white or any variation thereof. Even neutral colors like cream or beige are against dress code. \n\nOf course, some brides might not mind; some may even want their bridal party in white. When in doubt, though, it’s best to err on the side of caution. \n\n## Wedding Attire Styles for the Mother of the Groom\n\nIt’s important to consider age, body shape, and the time of year when deciding on a dress style for the mother of the groom.\n\n### Body Shape\n\nDifferent dress shapes flatter different body types:\n\n- Someone who is wider at the shoulder and narrower at the hips, like an inverted triangle, might look best in V-necklines and A-line skirts, with a nipped waist to create a shapely silhouette.\n- Someone with wider hips should focus on accentuating the top of her body with detailing or an off-the-shoulder neckline, along with fit and flare dress styles. \n- Someone with an hourglass figure should avoid baggy and loose dresses, or run the risk of looking frumpy.\n- Someone with a rectangle body shape might consider more form-fitting dresses.\n\nHowever, remember that these are just tips and guidelines. It’s more important to make sure that whatever style of dress the mother of the groom wears, she feels comfortable and attractive. \n\n### Time of Year\n\nThe mother of the groom should feel comfortable through the wedding ceremony and reception. That’s why it’s important to consider the season and whether or not the venue is indoor or outdoor when choosing a dress. For example, the mother of the bride can get away with wearing a casual sundress for an outdoor, summer beach wedding, but should wear a formal dress for an indoor, black-tie affair. \n\nDuring colder months, dresses can be accessorized with shawls, faux fur, and shrugs. Tailored jackets are another option that look great and help keep the groom’s mom toasty and warm. Also, if it’s simply too cold for a dress, pantsuits can be a good option to keep the legs covered. \n\nDepending on where you live, spring is typically warm, which means she could wear tea-length and cocktail dresses and be perfectly comfortable. Summer is also a great season for tea-length dresses. \n\n### Age-Appropriate\n\nRemember, there is such a thing as too sexy. The mother of the groom should avoid wearing anything that’s overtly sexy, such as deep necklines with cleavage or skirts that flash the thigh. If you know that the mother of the groom tends to dress a little on the risqué side, there’s nothing wrong with asking her to wear something that’s age-appropriate. \n\n![Mother of the Groom Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3ym2V6NZrPUABfEbT0eRIZ/9f244b1d9574d64e93c28a840b42a985/inline_stocksy.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Stocksy\n\n## Don’t Forget Accessories\n\nNo outfit is complete without matching accessories. For a mother of the groom, accessories might include: \n\n- Small clutch purse\n- Medium tote purse\n- Stylish hat or headband\n- Pretty necklace and earrings\n- Bangle bracelets\n\nWhatever accessories she wears, it should be something that complements her wedding attire and highlights her own unique style without taking attention away from you. \n\nIf the mother of the groom is uncomfortable with the neckline or sleeves of her chosen wedding attire, she could always add a trendy scarf or shawl. This does double duty by covering her up more and accessorizing her look. \n\nWedding attire for the mother of the groom really isn’t that complicated. Once there’s a theme, color palette, and venue in place, she’ll be able to pick just the right dress.\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Garden wedding attire blends comfort and style with light fabrics and floral touches. 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You can't go wrong with a simple gown. Check out Zola's guide to beautiful, simple wedding dresses.","title":"Simple Wedding Dresses That Are Elegant and Timeless","slug":"simple-wedding-dresses-that-are-elegant-and-timeless","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2SjlWOaxslfaqQ1FB2Pzmr/3422d8d0544ed3158ea19873b4540f3d/Hero_New__12_.jpg","altText":"couple kisses at wedding "},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:40:05.051Z"}],"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire","description":"Find wedding attire inspiration and advice for grooms, guests, bridesmaid, groomsmen and the rest of the wedding party. From black tie dress code guides to casual wedding attire inspiration to mother of the bride style ettiquete we'll help you look your best on the big day."},"topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty","description":"Whether you're a bride, groom, member of the wedding party, or guest, find expert wedding beauty and fashion advice to serve up those looks! From wedding hair and makeup tips and tricks to advice on wedding dresses, shoes and accessories to inspiration and etiquette for guest, you'll find everything you need!","subtopics":[{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding Hair & makeup","slug":"wedding-hair-makeup"},"slug":"a-guide-to-wedding-hair-and-makeup-costs","title":"A Guide to Wedding Hair & Makeup Costs","excerpt":"How much does a professional wedding hair & makeup artist cost? Find out with our ultimate guide to wedding hair and makeup costs. ","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2019-01-18T21:34:11.830Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/N7wFOsDeMIHq1oa7VEBpL/d7c18e73a265e3aa2d9f76196d5952a3/New_Hero.jpg","altText":"wedding hair and makeup cost"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- Bridal hair and makeup costs for brides or bridesmaids can run anywhere from $150-$600 depending on the type of hairstyle, products, and wedding makeup used.\n- Remember you’re primarily paying for your wedding hair and makeup artist’s time, so the more elaborate the glam , the higher the price tag.\n- Book your makeup artist(s) no less than three months before your wedding date to work out your preferred looks, scheduled times, and additional costs in advance. \n","body":"Your wedding day is one occasion on which you want to look your absolute, top-dollar best. Not only are you going to be immortalized in wedding photos for eternity, but since it should be one of the happiest days of your life, you want your external appearance to match the greatness you’re feeling inside. In order to put your face quite literally in the hands of a fabulous [wedding hair and makeup artist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-hair-stylists-and-makeup-artist-dos-and-donts), you’ll need to budget for hair and wedding makeup costs—whether you’re going for an understated natural look, full-on glam, or something in between with your hair and makeup services.\n\nBelow are the average prices you can expect to pay for wedding hair and makeup:\n\n- Bridal Hair and Makeup Costs: Expect to pay anywhere from $150-$600 for bridal hair and makeup. Typically, brides pay around $300 on average for hair and makeup, depending on the type of hairstyle, products, and wedding makeup used.\n\n- Bridesmaid Hair and Makeup Costs: Around $150 per bridesmaid in your bridal party. This average cost estimates $75 for makeup and $50-75 for hairstyling.\n\nFind out exactly what you should expect to pay for wedding hair and makeup costs with our ultimate guide below.\n\n## How Much Do Wedding Hair and Makeup Cost?\n \nThe average cost of wedding hair and makeup will vary considerably based upon your location, how many people and/or services you’re looking to schedule, and the intricacy of your styles. On the low end, wedding hair and makeup artists might only charge around $60 for a single application, but in large cities, bridal hair and makeup could cost over $1,000. That being said, the average price most couples spend on wedding hair and makeup is around __$300__—but anywhere within the range of __$150-$650__ is typical. \n\nIf a wedding hair and makeup artist needs to travel to the event (or to your getting-ready location), the cost could go up, as he or she might add a travel fee. If you’d like your stylist to remain on-site for touch ups (for example, a touch up after you put on your wedding dress), that could also raise your costs: most wedding hair and makeup artists will charge by the hour to remain at your wedding location, ranging anywhere from $30 to $125 per hour.\n\n## What’s Included in the Price of Wedding Hair and Makeup? \nAs mentioned above, you’re primarily paying for your wedding hair and makeup artist’s time. The higher [the number of hours that you’ll need to book your stylist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-long-does-wedding-hair-and-makeup-usually-take), the higher your price tag will be. In general, the tools and materials required to create your wedding hair and makeup look are included in the cost, but certain types of hairstyles, products, and makeup applications will run you more:\n\n- Wedding updos tend to cost more than blowout hairstyles, with the average price of an updo costing about $45 more __($51 for a blowout versus $95 for an updo)__.\n\n- Airbrush wedding makeup will cost more than a traditional makeup package. Expect to pay around __$50 more for airbrush application__, as the average cost of airbrush makeup is $155 while traditional makeup costs on average $100 per face.\n\nIn addition to beauty services on the actual wedding day, some artists offer free consultations and/or hair and makeup trials before the wedding—but some artists charge anywhere from $50 to $150 for trials. See below for more information about trials. See below for more pricing information to factor into your average wedding cost.\n\n## How Much Does a Wedding Hair and Makeup Trial Cost?\nIt just makes good sense to get a hair trial and makeup trial before your wedding to ensure that you and your stylist(s) are on the same page about what kind of wedding look you want. Yet not all hair and makeup artists offer this service for free (or as part of their consultation appointment). If you’re asked to pay for a wedding beauty trial, you could be looking at a cost of anywhere from $50-$150, with the average price being around __$75__. (Keep in mind that you may need to pay a separate fee for your hair trial and your makeup trial—bringing your total average cost up to $150.)\n\n## Should I Tip My Wedding Hair and Makeup Artist?\nJust like at a regular salon, tipping for wedding beauty services is generally expected. You should prepare to tip your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) anywhere from __15-25% of the total bill__ for their services if you think they’ve done a great job.\n\n## Are There Any Add-On Costs With Wedding Hair and Makeup?\nWe’ve already discussed a few of the “hidden” or add-on costs that you might discover when budgeting for your wedding hair and makeup. Here are some of the extra charges you might encounter for fancier styles, more expensive products or applications, or for simply more complex logistics:\n\n- __Skin prep__ in the weeks leading up to your big day, like [wedding facials](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-different-types-of-facials-for-brides), tanning, or any special products to give your skin that wedding day glow\n\n- __False eyelashes/false lashes, updo hairstyles__, or __airbrush makeup__ are usually more expensive.\n\n- __Nail services__, like a manicure and/or pedicure\n\n- __Travel fees__ might occur if your hair and makeup artist(s) are required to travel to your location. Factor in additional costs if mileage (for long distances) or parking fees also come into play.\n\n- __Trial runs__ of your wedding hairstyle and makeup might cost you an additional $50-100 per trial.\n\n- __[Hair extensions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/should-you-get-hair-extensions-for-your-wedding)__ if you want to add any length or volume to your hair for your bridal hairstyle\n\n- __Extra people__ beyond just the bride—such as the bridal party or the mother of the bride—will naturally add to your costs. A professional hair stylist and makeup artist might even need to bring an additional stylist or an assistant (for example, a makeup team for the bridal party or an extra stylist to manage bridesmaid and flower girl hair).\n\n- __Extra hours__ beyond the initial styling (for example, if you want touch ups later in the evening, or a different hairstyle for the reception) will cost you more, as you will be paying your hair and makeup artist by the hour to remain on-site.\n\n- __Tipping__ your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) is generally expected, just like at any salon appointment.\n\n## How Much Does Bridesmaid Hair and Makeup Cost?\nMother of the bride and/or bridesmaids makeup and hair generally costs around __$150__ per person, or if you want to break it down, around __$75 for makeup__ and __$50-$75 for hairstyling__ (blowout versus updo). Again, this number can go up based upon the location and the complexity of the style or the logistics.\n\n## Who Pays for Your Bridesmaids’ Hair and Makeup?\nIt depends: if the bride is requiring that her bridesmaids have their hair and makeup professionally done, then it’s expected that the bride (or her parents, depending on who’s paying for the wedding) cover these beauty costs. But if professional hair and makeup are being offered only as an option, then the bridesmaids should expect to pay for their own services. A bride might also consider whether she’d like to pay for her bridesmaids’ hair and makeup as part or all of the traditional bridesmaids’ gift.\n\n## How Far in Advance Should I Book My Wedding Hair Stylist and Makeup Artist?\nWe recommend you book your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) no less than three months before your wedding date. Of course, it’s always better to check this item off your __[Wedding Planning Checklist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist)__ earlier if possible—you’ll want to have plenty of time to choose your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) carefully, get to know him or her so you’re really comfortable on the big day, and schedule a trial run to iron out all the kinks before the wedding-day timeline begins ticking. Head over to Zola Inspiration to __[browse wedding hair and makeup stylists](https://www.zola.com/inspire/search)__ in your area right now!","body2":"## Should I Tip My Wedding Hair and Makeup Artist?\nJust like at a regular salon, tipping for wedding beauty services is generally expected. You should prepare to tip your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) anywhere from __15-25% of the total bill__ for their services if you think they’ve done a great job. \n\n## Are There Any Add-On Costs With Wedding Hair and Makeup?\n \nWe’ve already discussed a few of the “hidden” or add-on costs that you might discover when budgeting for your wedding hair and makeup. Here are some of the extra charges you might encounter for fancier styles, more expensive products or applications, or for simply more complex logistics: \n- __False eyelashes__, __updo hairstyles__, or __airbrush makeup__ are usually more expensive.\n- __Travel fees__ might occur if your hair and makeup artist(s) are required to travel to your location. Factor in additional costs if mileage (for long distances) or parking fees also come into play.\n- __Trial runs__ of your wedding hairstyle and makeup might cost you an additional $50-100 per trial. \n- __Extra people__ beyond just the bride—such as the bridal party or the mother of the bride—will naturally add to your costs. A professional hair stylist and makeup artist might even need to bring an additional stylist or an assistant.\n- __Extra hours__ beyond the initial styling (for example, if you want touch ups later in the evening, or a different hairstyle for the reception) will cost you more, as you will be paying your hair and makeup artist by the hour to remain on-site. \n- __Tipping__ your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) is generally expected, just like at any salon appointment.\n\n## How Much Does Bridesmaid Hair and Makeup Cost? \nWedding makeup for a bridesmaid or a mother of the bride generally costs around __$150__ per person, or if you want to break it down, around __$75 for makeup__ and __$50-$75 for hairstyling__ (blowout versus updo). Again, this number can go up based upon the location and the complexity of the style or the logistics.\n\n## Who Pays for Your Bridesmaids' Hair and Makeup? \nIt depends: if the bride is requiring that her bridesmaids have their hair and makeup professionally done, then it’s expected that the bride (or her parents, depending on who’s paying for the wedding) cover these beauty costs. But if professional hair and makeup are being offered only as an option, then the bridesmaids should expect to pay for their own services. A bride might also consider whether she’d like to pay for her bridesmaids’ hair and makeup as part or all of the traditional bridesmaids’ gift.\n\n## How Far in Advance Should I Book My Wedding Hair Stylist and Makeup Artist?\n \nWe recommend you book your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) no less than three months before your wedding date. Of course, it’s always better to check this item off your [Wedding Planning Checklist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist) earlier if possible—you’ll want to have plenty of time to choose your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) carefully, get to know him or her so you’re really comfortable on the big day, and schedule a trial run to iron out all the kinks before the wedding-day timeline begins ticking. Head over to Zola Inspiration to [browse wedding hair and makeup stylists](https://www.zola.com/inspire/search) in your area right now! ","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"To make sure that your wedding makeup is flawless and you’re looking your best on the big day, check out our tips for DIY wedding makeup below. 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Many gowns are left hanging in the back of a closet, collecting dust. If you have no other plans for it, donating your wedding dress can give it a second life! Now more than ever, many brides are struggling to pay for their wedding dresses. We’ve found several meaningful charities that accept preowned wedding dresses and provide them to new brides at an affordable price. \n\nIn this article:\n\n- Benefits of Donating Your Wedding Dress\n- How to Decide Where to Donate\n- Where to Donate Wedding Dresses\n- Ways to Repurpose Your Wedding Dress\n- How to Prepare Your Wedding Dress for Donation\n\n## Benefits of Donating Your Wedding Dress\n\n \n\nIf you’re still on the fence about whether or not to donate your wedding dress, here are a few benefits to consider.\n\n### 1. Supports a Bride in Need\nFrom disaster victims to the many couples struggling financially right now, many individuals are looking for affordable clothing, including wedding dresses. With millions of people unemployed or experiencing a significant decrease in income during the pandemic, many couples cannot afford their dream weddings. Your donation can help provide a dress for a bride experiencing financial hardships. \n\n### 2. Tax-Deductible\nAs a taxpayer, you can claim your charitable contributions of money or goods as itemized deductions when filing your taxes. The [IRS](https://www.irs.gov/publications/p526) recognizes a charitable contribution as a gift or donation to or for the use of a qualified organization, such as nonprofits. \n\n### 3. Helps to Declutter\nMany wedding gowns are only worn once. If you’re never planning to wear your wedding dress again, it’s just taking up space! Once you donate it along with other household items that you no longer need or use, you’ll have more room! \n\n### 4. Encourages an Eco-Friendly Lifestyle\nAn eco-friendly lifestyle means living in a way that isn’t harmful to the environment. Clothing that is thrown away eventually sits in a landfill, where they release carbon dioxide and other toxins into the air. According to [GreenDrop](https://www.gogreendrop.com/blog/3-reasons-you-should-donate-your-old-clothes-instead-of-throwing-them-away/), the production of new clothes and textiles uses hundreds of gallons of water and also causes 10% of global carbon emissions. By donating your wedding dress, you help reduce your carbon footprint.\n\n![Benefits of donating your wedding dress image](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6OAEerjF3eR2VFxgVVb9nI/cccf53c07871500f73bb688f87d3b1b9/benefits-of-donating-your-wedding-dress.jpg)\n\nThe best part is conscientious efforts can start during the wedding! You can donate the remaining wedding food to local shelters and [preserve flowers](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-preserve-flowers) from the bouquet. For more sustainability tips, check out these [eco-friendly wedding ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/eco-friendly-wedding).\n\n## How to Decide Where to Donate\n\n \n\nDeparting from your beloved wedding dress can be tough. After all, it holds sentimental value and memories from your special day. You may feel comfortable choosing a charity with a mission that matters the most to you. For example, you may want to honor your loved ones in the military by donating to an organization supporting veterans. Fortunately, you can find charitable organizations that support a variety of causes, including cancer research, disaster relief, human rights, environmental protection, and more!\n\n## Where to Donate Wedding Dresses\n\n \n\nDonating your wedding dress is a great way to honor it and give it new life. Through your generosity, someone else can experience the same joy you felt on your wedding day. You can donate to thrift stores, charities, community centers, and many other types of nonprofit organizations. Here is a list of several charities and organizations accepting wedding dresses during COVID-19.\n\n![Charities to donate a wedding dress](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1xq1qPDhGhlPh4z1Tqv0Cg/e7f10bcb6dd54b3e70bb4faff2224620/charities-to-donate-a-wedding-dress.jpg)\n\n### Brides Against Breast Cancer \nSupport the fight against breast cancer through [Brides Against Breast Cancer](https://www.bridesagainstbreastcancer.org/). This nonprofit is dedicated to providing early cancer awareness and detection programs as well as reducing the environmental impact of wedding dress manufacturing. The organization resells pre-owned wedding dresses at affordable prices, using the sales proceeds to help breast cancer causes. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dresses of 3–5 years in excellent condition and bridal accessories. \n\n__How to donate:__ Use the [donation form](https://www.bridesagainstbreastcancer.org/bride-donation-form/) on the website, email, or contact client service directly to receive shipping instructions.\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ The organization continues to accept wedding dress donations through the mail and is relaunching its online store in early 2021.\n\n### Adorned in Grace \nIf you would like to assist in sex trafficking prevention, consider donating your wedding dress to [Adorned in Grace](https://www.adornedingrace.org/). This faith-based organization has a mission to help sex trafficking victims and bring awareness to local communities. Adorned in Grace stores provide new and gently-used wedding dresses and formalwear. Sales proceeds that go towards funding professional counseling for trafficking survivors, awareness publications, and more. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dress less than five years old, mother-of-the-bride dresses, flower girl dresses, bridal accessories, and formalwear.\n\n__How to donate:__ Drop-off donations in-person or ship them to any of their [shop locations](https://www.adornedingrace.org/donate#donate-1).\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ Call or book an [appointment](https://www.adornedingrace.org/yourvisit) at one of their store locations in advance.\n\n### The Salvation Army\nSince 1865, [The Salvation Army](https://www.salvationarmyusa.org/usn/) has grown into an international movement in 130 countries around the world. This faith-based nonprofit organization provides numerous services, including adult rehabilitation, veteran support, prison ministry work, disaster relief, housing, hunger relief, and more. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Adult and children’s clothing, furniture, vehicles, household goods, and appliances with [guidelines](https://satruck.org/Home/DonationValueGuide#womens-clothing) for each.\n\n__How to donate:__ Find a drop-off location, visit one of its local thrift stores, or schedule a free pickup.\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ Most local Salvation Army thrift stores are open for business with [information](https://www.salvationarmyusa.org/usn/covid19/) on ways to help during the pandemic.\n\n### Brides for a Cause\n[Brides for a Cause](https://www.bridesforacause.com/) is a nonprofit bridal store that collects and resells wedding dresses to raise funds for dozens of women-focused [charities](https://www.bridesforacause.com/about/our-cause/). Since 2012, the store has given away over $1.2 million to charities that support women in the military, single mothers, abuse survivors, and more.\n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dresses no more than five years old and bridal accessories. \n\n__How to donate:__ You can mail or drop off at one of their store [locations](http://www.bridesforacause.com/locations/) or roadshow events. \n\n__COVID-19 update:__ Currently not accepting walk-ins. Clients must “reserve a room” in advance, wear a mask at all times, bring only one guest, and follow social distancing guidelines. \n\n### Goodwill Industries\nWith a mission to eliminate work opportunity barriers, Goodwill industries provide supportive services to help people train for careers and find jobs. Your donations support Goodwill’s job programs and services as well as help environmentally by reducing waste. Through its online [impact calculator](https://www.goodwill.org/your-impact/), you can see how much your donation can contribute to its mission. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Clothing and accessories, houseware, electronics, media, and furniture. \n\n__How to donate:__ [Find](https://www.goodwill.org/donate/donate-stuff/) a donation center or local drop-off bin.\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ Most Goodwill stores are open with social distancing protocols. All donations will be in quarantine, and curbside drop-offs are available. \n\n### Brides Across America\nIf you’d like to support the military and first responders, you can do so through [Bride Across America](https://www.bridesacrossamerica.com/) (BAA). Every year, this nonprofit donates 2,000 wedding dresses and covers the wedding costs of those recipients. With your donations, military members and first responders can register to receive a free wedding dress during BAA’s monthly giveaway events.\n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dress less than five years old, accessories, engagement rings, and wedding favors. \n\n__How to donate:__ Fill out and submit the [donation form](https://www.bridesacrossamerica.com/giving/give-a-dress) to receive the shipping address and instructions. \n\n__COVID-19 update:__ BAA is open for in-store [appointments](https://www.baaoutlet.com/common/appointment) only with new health and safety precautions. \n\n### Fairytale Brides on a Shoestring\n[Fairytale Brides on a Shoestring](https://www.fairytalebrides.org/) is a nonprofit boutique in Rockville, MD that sells reduced-priced wedding gowns. All of its net proceeds go towards Alzheimer’s Association, Cystic Fibrosis Foundation, and Johns Hopkins’ Suburban Hospital Breast Center.\n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dresses no more than five years old and professionally cleaned.\n\n__How to donate:__ Make an appointment on its website to drop off your donation or mail it to the store. \n\n__COVID-19 update:__ The store is open by [appointment only](https://my.setmore.com/shortBookingPage/b6a191ce-a3b1-43ae-ab65-fb9d2a10c05d) on select weekdays, where clients must wear masks at all times and follow the recommended COVID-19 guidelines. \n\n### Cherie Sustainable Bridal\nThis Maryland-based bridal boutique is a division of Success in Style (SIS), a nonprofit dedicated to supporting in-crisis individuals on their journeys to employment and life improvement. [Cherie Sustainable Bridal](https://www.cheriesb.com/) sells preowned wedding gowns at an affordable price and sends 100% of the proceeds to SIS. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dresses five years old and younger, and professional business attire.\n\n__How to donate:__ [Drop off](https://www.cheriesb.com/donate) the wedding dress in-person during business hours or mail it to the store location.\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ The store is open by [appointment](https://www.cheriesb.com/appointments) only and clients can bring only one guest to the consultation.\n\n### The Brides Project \nTo support adults and children impacted by cancer, you can donate to [The Brides Project](http://www.thebridesproject.org/). This is a nonprofit bridal boutique that offers eco- and budget-friendly wedding gowns to shoppers. All sales help provide free programs for families at the Cancer Support Community of Greater Ann Arbor. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dresses within five years old and bridal accessories. \n\n__How to donate:__ Drop off the [donation](http://www.thebridesproject.org/donate/) at their shop or mail it to their Cancer Support Community division following the mailing instructions. \n\n__COVID-19 update:__ Visitors must book appointments via website or email and follow their health and safety protocols.\n\n### The Emma and Evan Foundation\nThrough the [Emma and Evan Foundation](https://www.evefoundation.org/), you can support families who’ve lost an infant. This nonprofit organization repurposes wedding dress donations into infant burial gowns or “angel gowns,” bonnets, and other keepsake items available to grieving families for free. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Any wedding dresses, bridesmaid and flower girl dresses, prom and formal gowns, bridal accessories, and more.\n\n__How to donate:__ Contact the organization to receive their mailing address and donation release form beforehand. Additional donation instructions can be found on the FAQ page.\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ You can shop on their website for keepsake items and receive purchases via shipment.\n\n## Ways to Repurpose Your Wedding Dress\n\n \n\nIf you find that your wedding dress doesn’t meet the donation criteria of a few charities, transform it into something new! There are plenty of creative ways to repurpose your wedding dress. \n\nReuse the fabric for creating home decor and cherished keepsakes, such as pillows and baptism gowns for your children. Need new formalwear? Alter or hem your gown into a fun cocktail dress. If you’re not a fan of cutting up the dress, consider using it as a photo prop for your newborn. Lastly, you can use the buttons, beads, and other trimmings to make DIY jewelry and accessories!\n\n![Ideas for repurposing your wedding dress](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5KUNczqwIBuEuAagzrCs7w/7ff67c460a94625994aa2c31ff861799/ideas-for-repurposing-your-wedding-dress.jpg)\n\n## How to Prepare Your Wedding Dress for Donation\n\n \n\nWhile most charities and shops offer to clean your donation items, some have a few guidelines about donations. Others may also charge an extra fee for cleaning. Here is a checklist to follow in making sure your donations are in the best conditions. \n\n__1. Contact the Organizations in advance.__ Ask what they need specifically, as well as for their donation schedule and protocols. Most charities and thrift shops that accept wedding dresses require them to be less than five years old.\n\n__2. Inspect the gown for wear and tear.__ When left in storage for too long, some items and certain types of fabric may develop mold. If your wedding dress looks to be in bad condition, the charity will most likely have to throw it out.\n\n__3. Wash or dry clean in advance.__ This step is graciously helpful for the volunteers, especially if you’re donating your wedding dress or other items during the pandemic. According to the [CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/faq.html), the COVID-19 virus can remain on surfaces and certain fabrics for a couple of days. You can also use a disinfectant spray on non-washable items. \n\n__4. Double-check items before packing.__ Ensure you haven’t accidentally packed items you planned to keep. Always check the pockets for small personal items, such as wallets and money. \n\n__5. Organize your donations.__ This step is also helpful for volunteers at the charities and shops, who may have an overwhelming amount of items to sort through. You can assemble items by type and size, label your boxes or containers by season, and fold the clothing to ensure proper packing.\n\n![Best practices to prepare items for donation](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5xdwJ5IL2X7zJQNoA4bZV/2588209b19f8f786524c4ea835be09e7/best-practices-to-prepare-items-for-donation.jpg)\n\nIn addition to donating your wedding dress, take the concept of giving a step further by planning a charitable wedding! Have your [wedding ceremony](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-ceremony-programs) at a nonprofit venue and spread the word about charities on your [invites](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/paper). You can also find [vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors) who support a good cause. Visit our [expert advice](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice) pages for more creative ideas and wedding inspiration.","tag":"How-To ","updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:52:58.190Z"}],"name":"Wedding dresses","slug":"wedding-dresses","description":"From dress style and silhouette guides to stunning inspiration to money saving tips and tricks we help you find the perfect wedding dress for you, your wedding party and guests! Find everything you need to know about wedding dresses of every style and shape!"},{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Shoes & accessories","slug":"shoes-accessories"},"slug":"should-the-groom-wear-a-tie-or-bow-tie-for-their-wedding","title":"Should the Groom Wear a Tie or Bow Tie for Their Wedding?","excerpt":"The style of a groom’s suit will help determine whether a bow tie or tie should be worn on their wedding day. ","author":"Laura Hensley","publishedAt":"2020-12-28T16:41:04.964Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6R74fvnnamtZnB9bDYqX3B/18c013868430462f5b11eceafa771fdc/Hero_RomanticBlack-TieWeddingatBrooklynBotanicGarden_NSTPictures.jpg","altText":"Should the Groom Wear a Tie or Bow Tie"},"heroCredit":"NST Pictures","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- If you’re wearing a tuxedo, bow ties are the norm. For other [wedding suit styles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-different-wedding-suit-styles), either a bow tie or a tie can work\n- Coordinate with members of the wedding party. It looks odd if half the groomsmen are wearing bow ties and the others sport ties \n- There are different styles of bow ties and ties. Know which one is right for you. Use your bow tie or tie to show off your personality. \n","body":"While a tie or bow tie may seem like an inconsequential choice, the right neckwear really can make or break a wedding guest look. Read on to find out if you should pair your formalwear with a bow tie or regular tie on your wedding day.\n\n## What Are You Wearing? \n\nIf you’re wearing a [tuxedo](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_jacket), a bow tie is the way to go. A [bow tie](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_tuxedo_shirt) tux is considered one of the most dapper and formal wedding outfits for grooms—and is the proper dress code for a black tie wedding, black tie optional, or black-tie event. That’s not to say a necktie can’t be worn with a tuxedo, though. If your wedding is semi-formal and you’re wearing a tux, it’s perfectly acceptable to wear a traditional tie instead. It really all comes down to the formality—and [venue](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/planning-101/venues)—of your big day.\n\nSuits, on the other hand, allow for more flexibility. Traditionally, suits are worn with ties, but many grooms these days opt for bow ties. A bow tie with a suit jacket (or even just a dress shirt!) can dress a suit up or down. For example, a laid-back groom getting hitched at a __[rustic venue](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue)__ may opt for a trendy paisley bow tie with a __[light gray suit](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_textured_gray_suit_jacket)__. A groom saying “I do” at a formal venue may wear a three-piece navy suit with a maroon bow tie. Both outfits feature bow ties, but are very different looks.\n\nA tie can also dramatically affect the aesthetic of a groom’s outfit. Patterned ties can make a suit more formal or casual, depending on the print, just as lighter colors are best for __[spring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue)__/summer weddings and darker colors suit __[fall](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue)__/winter events. If your wedding venue and style are more laid-back, you can even take off your necktie after the ceremony.\n\nAnd if you want your outfit, as the groom, to stand out, consider groomsmen ties in a different color or pattern for your attendants. Or, you can wear a wedding bow tie with your groom's suit and accessorize your groomsmen with traditional neckties. \n\n## What Are Members of the Wedding Party Wearing? \n\nRegardless of whether you [choose to wear a tie](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-tie-for-groomsmen) or a bow tie, your groomsmen should coordinate with one another. Even if you aren’t sporting matching tuxedos or suits, you should be on the same page about neckwear. It can look very odd having a couple of members of the wedding party wearing a casual floral skinny tie, while others don a satin black bow tie. The exception to this rule? It’s okay for the groom to wear a bow tie while groomsmen wear ties. The groom is expected to stand out. And it's also ok for the ring bearer to wear something a little different, too - a bow tie in the same color as the groomsmen ties can be a very cute option.\n\n![Should the Groom Wear a Tie](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/45Ptx453nC3t4mG8wquXTz/b662d81ec74c03ee6ac4a2e85fdd25ff/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Different Types of Bow Ties and Ties \n\nColor, texture, fabric, and patterns all set neckwear apart and allow for personalization. For example, do you want your neckwear to be a neutral hue or make a colorful statement? Do you prefer a satin bow tie, or a silk bow tie? There are plenty of different tie styles and designs of both bow ties and neckties. Here are some of the most popular options:\n\n### Bow Ties\n\n#### Self-tie\nAs the name suggests, a self-tie bow tie is one that requires you to actually tie it yourself. If you’ve never tied a bow tie before, practice before your wedding day, so you nail the look. It can be challenging at first. \n\n#### Pre-tied\nPre-tied bow ties come with the knot sewn in place. This means you don’t have to worry about tying the bow tie yourself, but you do have to secure it around your shirt collar. Pre-tied bow ties are attached to an adjustable band. \n\n#### Clip-on\nThe easiest option out of all bow ties, a clip-on bow tie is ready to wear right away. It clips directly onto the collar of your shirt. While convenient, clip-on bow ties are often easy to spot, making them the most appropriate for children and not the most desirable option for grooms. \n\n### Ties\nTies come in a variety of fabrics, colors, and styles. Solid colors are classic choices for grooms, as they easily complement suits and dress shirts. There are many ways to tie a tie, but here are some of the popular styles. \n\n#### Windsor\nA Windsor knot, also called the “Full Windsor,” is a popular way to tie a tie and creates a fuller, sophisticated look. It’s one of the most common and classic knots, because it’s worn in both formal and semi-formal environments - so it's a great option for a [black tie wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding). It’s a timeless symmetrical style that looks fantastic with dress shirts and suit jackets.\n\n#### Half-Windsor\nA Half-Windsor knot is slightly smaller than the Windsor knot and is medium in size. Like the Windsor, this knot is very popular for its versatility. For grooms who want a formal or semi-formal look, consider a Half-Windsor knot—especially if your tie is made of a thicker fabric. \n\n#### Four-in-Hand\nThis knot is suitable for many occasions—except for the most formal. A four-in-hand knot is one of the easiest ways to tie a tie, which is why it’s so popular. It’s a slightly asymmetrical knot, and it’s best for casual button-down dress shirts. This knot is ideal if your tie is a heavier fabric.\n\n![Should the Groom Wear a Tie](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5gKc3G4PJkZWD3zrUYQfPx/e6a5e2ca0d5a53d09f55319a987e4a49/inline_unsplash.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## How to Tie a Bow Tie?\n\n### 1. Hang the bow tie flat around your neck, pulling one side about 1.5 inches longer than the other. The longer end should be on your right side.\n\n### 2. Cross the longer end of the bow tie over the shorter end. Bring the longer end underneath the shorter one, then out from the center. \n\n### 3. Fold the shorter end of the bow tie horizontally.\n\n### 4. Place the longer end over the shorter end. \n\n### 5. Fold the longer end of the bow tie horizontally.\n\n### 6. Insert the longer end through the loop at the back of the shorter end, creating a loose knot.\n\n### 7. Pull both ends gently to tighten the knot.\n\n### 8. Adjust as needed!\n\n## Bow Ties and Ties Can Show Off Personality \n\nLike any wedding accessory for grooms, bow ties and ties are a chance to add a hint of dapper flair to your formalwear. Some grooms like to wear a solid color suit with a polka dot bow tie, while others will match their tie to their wedding’s __[floral arrangements](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/decor-inspiration/flowers)__. It’s also fun to match your accessories with your __[wedding colors](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/decor-inspiration/wedding-colors)__. Another way to get creative is by matching your bow tie or tie to your socks or shoes, which can really help ground an outfit. \n\n## Other Accessories to Elevate Your Attire\nAccessories can instantly elevate and add personality to a tried-and-true suit look. If you're the groom, consider gifting your groomsmen one (or more!) of these accessories as a day-of wedding gift, thanking them for being part of your big day. \n\n### Cufflinks\nCufflinks serve a practical purpose as well as an aesthetic one - they'll make sure your shirt cuffs stay neatly fastened. Choose a pair that are engraved with your initials or your wedding date, or shop for a novelty pair of cufflinks in a creative shape (maybe something that nods to your pet or a hobby!).\n\n### Suspenders\nWhile your tuxedo should fit you well enough that you don't need a belt, suspenders can help keep your pants up - and are a must for a [black tie wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-dress-for-a-black-tie-formal-wedding).\n\n### Pocket Squares\nPocket squares can work with casual wedding guest looks and groomsmen suits alike. If you're a guest at an upcoming wedding, you can wear a patterned pocket square in your suit jacket in place of a tie. Or, if you're the groom or one of the groomsmen, a pocket square can take the place of a boutonniere. Choose one in a color or pattern that reflects your personality to add a little bit of pizzazz to any formalwear look.\n\n### Cummerbund\nIf your wedding reception is going to be a very formal [white tie](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-white-tie-wedding-attire) or black tie affair, you'll likely need a cummerbund to wear with your tuxedo. The functional purpose of a cummerbund is to cover the waistband and any awkward shirt bunching—keeping you photo-ready all night long. \n\n### Patterned Socks\nOne of the easiest ways to add personality to a suit and tie outfit is with a fun pair of socks. They'll only be noticeable when you sit down, so let a little bit of your personality come through with a quirky pattern or vibrant color. \n\n## Bottom Line\n\nAt the end of the day, the decision to wear a bow tie or tie as a groom at your wedding is up to you. Consider your [wedding style](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/decor-inspiration/wedding-style), your wedding venue, and what type of neckwear best matches your suit. It may seem like a small accessory, but it can really make or break a look. 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Check out our favorite jewelry pieces that will make your wedding party stand out. Read on for details. \n","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2021-01-04T16:24:20.434Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1XVpi3JbIz9XTiXYUxjJVi/5845a6d345a062b500f628df43e9d6ff/Hero_ClassicallyElegantCharlotteWedding_CritseyRowePhotography.jpg","altText":"Bridesmaid Jewelry"},"heroCredit":"Critsey Rowe Photography","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- The first step in selecting your bridesmaid jewelry is to match the color of your bridesmaid dresses to complementary metal colors (think rose gold for pink or blue for silver). \n- If you know how you want your bridesmaids to wear their hair and/or the necklines of their dresses, use that to select the style of your bridesmaid jewelry.\n- You can let your bridesmaids pick their own accessories to reflect their styles, or gift them the jewelry that you’d like them to wear. \n","body":"Once you’ve asked your bridesmaids to be a part of your wedding, the next step is to figure out the look that your party will rock on the big day. Are you thinking flashy and formal, or understated and elegant? Whatever the season, the venue, or the couple’s personal style, a wedding party look will help pull the whole aesthetic of the event together. If you’re wondering what bridesmaid jewelry you should select, we’ve broken down the top trends in wedding jewelry we’re breaking it all day so that you can say “yes” to the perfect sparkle and shine. \n\n## Match Your Metals and Gems \nA good rule when selecting jewelry is to match your metal colors to your bridesmaid dress colors. For example, [gold](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-jewelry?color=YELLOW) or [rose gold](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-jewelry?color=PINK) would look stunning with a pink dress, whereas sterling [silver or white gold](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-jewelry?color=GREY) would pop against a yellow or blue dress. As for colored stones for jewelry, bridesmaid accessories are a great way to incorporate other wedding colors into your wedding party ensemble. Consider a [simple pendant](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/auroralux_little_drop_of_magic_necklace_rosegold) or [drop earrings](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/winkofpinkshop_harlow_teardrop_wedding_earrings) in one of your more neutral wedding hues to pull together a cohesive look. \n\n![Zola: How to Choose Bridesmaid Jewelry](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44mtXgcXSkHE7GL0uoaFKP/bdad4f5c38c93cdf8e6b8494b737d2c8/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### Match the Bride\nIf you’re scratching your head over what accessories your bridesmaids should wear, consider what the bride is wearing as a solid jumping-off point. If she’s rocking [crystal earrings](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/auroralux_bloom_crystal_earrings) or a [pearl necklace](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/jilco_pearl_and_diamond_necklace_sterlingsilverwithyellowgoldoverlay), carry that over to your bridesmaid’s accessories. While you don’t want to have your bridesmaids match the bride exactly, pulling elements from her jewelry—like having the ‘maids rock [pearl pendants](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/auroralux_pearl_dangle_necklace) or a [crystal hair clip](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/usabride_portia_crystal_hair_clip_gold)—is an elegant way to form a cohesive look. \n\n### Compliment the Neckline and Hairstyles \nOnce you have your metals and gemstones selected, deciding the style and assortment of accessories is next. You want to make sure that the pieces complement your bridesmaids’ looks, as opposed to taking away from the vibe. Consider how you’d like your bridesmaids to wear their hair (if you have a preference, otherwise they’ll be happy to decide on their own) and/or the neckline of their dresses. [Dangle earrings](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=Dangle%2520earrings) are great for updos, whereas [studs](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=stud%2520earrings) are great for looks where hair will be worn down. One shoulder, halter, and illusion necklines don’t need necklaces (so opt for a [flashier pair of earrings](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/usabride_leia_crystal_drop_earrings_gold) or a [bracelet](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/usabride_ariana_opal_crystal_bracelet)), whereas strapless, sweetheart, and v-neck dresses create a lovely focal point for a necklace, whether it’s [showstopping](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/sorrelli_laurel_necklace) or [simple](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/kozakh_divya_necklace). \n\n### Keep It Simple\nWhile selecting accessories for your wedding party is fun, keep in mind that a few simple pieces will go further than a whole bunch of flashy in-your-face options. If you’re asking your bridesmaids to supply their own accessories, be conscious of the budget. Your pals won’t be excited to shell out money on new shoes, necklaces, and hairpieces in addition to their dresses and day-of glam. Even if you’re supplying the jewelry, opt for one or two focal pieces and keep the rest simple. A good rule of thumb is that if you have a [chunky necklace](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/sorrelli_posey_statement_necklace), opt for [simple earrings](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/sorrelli_round_crystal_stud_earring_sorrelli_essentials_darkchampagne) and visa versa. \n\n*As for how you’ll go about securing the bridesmaid jewelry and wedding party accessories, there are three major options that couples usually opt for:*\n\n![Zola: How to Choose Bridesmaid Jewelry](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1UawBuT9yhmSAghFyjGo53/5b9a6213cd45e187e3b61ab94716132c/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### Let Them Decide for Themselves \nIf you’re outfitting your bridesmaids in matching dresses, allowing your bridesmaids to pick their own accessories is a great way to let their individual personalities shine. While it might be a good idea to ask them to send pictures to either the bride or the maid of honor to avoid surprises, this is a fun way to let your bridesmaids get creative with their looks and potentially keep costs at bay (if they already have something that they can repurpose for the wedding). This option is also great if you’ve settled on a fabric, but are letting them pick their own necklines. Since some necklines look better with necklaces or earrings than others, this will allow them to accessorize properly for their individual looks. \n\n### Give Them Guidelines\nIf you’re letting your bridesmaids pick their own jewelry, but still want an overall cohesive look, give them guidelines to stick to so that you don’t run into any surprises. Maybe you want to stick with [pearls](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=pearl%2520jewelry) or [yellow gold jewelry](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-jewelry?color=YELLOW), or perhaps you’d like everyone to wear [drop earrings](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=drop%2520earrings) with their hair up. Giving your bridesmaids an idea of what you’re thinking and what guidelines to stick to will not only make their choices easier, but it will ensure that no one feels accidentally out of place on the big day. \n\n### Gift Them the Jewelry\nAsking your bridesmaids to buy new accessories can be tricky, especially if they’re on tight budgets or already shelled out a lot of money for things such as bridesmaid dresses and day-of glam. If you have the means (and you’re really set on them wearing matching jewelry), consider gifting them a bridesmaid jewelry set that you’d like them to wear. A [pendant necklace with their initials](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/katespadejewelry_rose_gold_intial_pendant_a) or some [drop earrings](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=drop%2520earrings) can serve as a great bridesmaid gift, and will also ensure that everyone looks uniform on your wedding day. \n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Seasons_Quiz"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Read our round-up of the best places to buy bridesmaid dresses online, plus storefronts to try them on in person. 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","slug":"who-pays-for-bridesmaids-dresses","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/13ZKNhp1wk9ozS31qOiyAH/1820e2294348f0818c2dea1b8a1eb251/Hero_BohoDesertWeddingatTroonNorthGolfClub_DrewBrashlerPhotography.jpg","altText":"Who Pays for Bridesmaid’s Dresses"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Don’t know how to pick bridesmaid dresses? We can help. Read on to discover our top tips and advice.","title":"How to Pick Bridesmaid Dresses","slug":"how-to-pick-bridesmaid-dresses","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4AhnEF0yNH8LSyc7GUhb2s/63680b567e078217d706a9af7c6628f6/Hero_Sweet_FunEllistonVineyardsWedding_OnelovePhotography.jpg","altText":"How to Pick Bridesmaid Dresses"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Letting your bridesmaids pick their own dresses for your wedding day means confident bridesmaids and less stress for you. 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From wedding shoes to accessories such as jewelry, veils, flower crowns and more, our expert style guides help you pull it all together!"},{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"let-bridesmaids-choose-own-dresses","title":"The Complete Guide to Mismatched Bridesmaid Dresses","excerpt":"Letting your bridesmaids pick their own dresses for your wedding day means confident bridesmaids and less stress for you. Here are the do’s and don'ts of letting your bridesmaids pick out their own dress. ","author":"Kathleen Wong","publishedAt":"2024-08-13T10:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6kKYuHOeeUvE5sqbavfpLI/a5b85a5d99beac71432d942beadfd696/katelyn-macmillan-5VhSc5jCA2g-unsplash.jpg","altText":"groom with bridesmaids in different dresses"},"heroCredit":"Katelyn Macmillan","tldr":"__Inside this article:__ \n- Why let your bridesmaids choose their own dress?\n- What could go wrong?\n- Guidelines to letting bridemaids pick a dress","body":"__TLDR:__\n- Letting bridesmaids pick their own dresses may seem risky, but it can give them confidence as they end up with a gown they love.\n- Be specific with any guidelines you have, such as if you have a specific color in mind or want a floor length dress.\n- Also, let them know what type of shoes and accessories you'd like your bridal party to wear on your big day.\n\n## Letting bridesmaids pick their own dresses\n\nYou whittled down your social circle into the __[perfect wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one)__ and now it’s time to decide what everyone’s going to wear. While it’s not necessary for the wedding party to wear matching outfits, many couples like to achieve a cohesive look. \n\nTraditionally, bridesmaids wear the same dress or outfit in the chosen wedding color. This helps the bride stand out in her [wedding dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/classic-wedding-dresses-for-the-traditional-bride), makes for visually cohesive photos, and also helps other wedding guests identify the members of the wedding party. \n\nHowever, many couples are loosening the reins and letting __[attendants choose dresses](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop)__ that reflect their individual maid of honor or bridesmaid style. With so much to plan for the wedding day, it may not be necessary to maintain control over everything. Mismatching dresses are one of the best ways to help your bridesmaids feel comfortable. They'll also have more freedom to select a dress that reflects their own style and flatters their body type. \n\nIf you're worried about letting go of control when it comes to mix and match bridesmaid dresses for your big day, don't worry. Or perhaps you just don't care and are willing to give free rein. From choosing bridesmaid dress colors to creating cohesive bridesmaid looks, here’s some wedding inspiration and insights to help you achieve a look that works for your wedding style and for your bridesmaids. \n\n## Why would I let my bridesmaids choose their own dresses?\n \nWe get it: It’s your wedding and it can feel easier to maintain control and just put your girls in the same bridesmaid dress style. However, there are some pluses to giving your attendants this freedom and not having them wear matching bridesmaid dresses.\n\n- __Comfort.__ Anyone who’s ever been a bridesmaid (or dress shopped for that matter) understands that being assigned a specific dress isn’t ideal. What works for one body doesn’t necessarily work for another and the potential resulting discomfort of a unified bridal party look can leave your bridesmaids feeling meh. If they can choose their own dresses, they can seek out different styles, necklines, and cuts that flatter their figures.\n- __Confidence.__ In that same vein, when you look good, you feel good. Let your bridesmaids [choose dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-pick-bridesmaid-dresses) they love (or at least feel comfortable in) and they’ll radiate confidence, not discomfort on your wedding day.\n- __Price.__ Money is often one of the biggest pain points for bridal parties. It’s [expensive to be a bridesmaid](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-bridesmaid-duties)! You don’t have to worry about settling on a price point that fits into everyone’s budget (or feeling guilty for choosing expensive dresses) if you let your bridesmaids choose their own dresses.\n\n![Zola - Mismatched Bridesmaids Dresses: How to Pull Off the Look](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/47xZofgiF7kwAgCW841P3u/2945a2669ac319627e743bc40307f78d/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n\n## Could skipping a specific dress go a little off the rails?\n \nDefinitely. Offering your bridesmaids free rein to select their outfits for your wedding is nerve-wracking. You don’t want to end up with an entirely mismatched situation (unless you do!). There are some cons to letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses.\n- __Cohesion.__ Obviously, if you let your bridesmaids choose their own dresses, they'll probably all pick different styles…and maybe even different colors. If you really want a traditionally cohesive look, maybe reconsider this route.\n- __Confusion.__ Too much of anything isn’t great—the same is true for bridal party freedom. Without any guidelines at all, you may find yourself answering a lot of texts about what’s OK and what’s not—from materials to color to price to length and more.\n\n## Guidelines for letting bridesmaids choose their own dresses\n \nMake the dress hunt easy for your bridesmaids and yourself by being clear about what you really do and don’t want. That way, every one from your maid of honor to junior bridesmaids can feel good in a dress that suits their body type.\n\n### 1. Do: Be specific.\nSure, you told your girls you wanted everyone in pastel green. Great! No, not great. When we say be specific, we mean be specific. If you have a look in mind, be clear about that. Here are some details you may want to be extra clear about:\n\n- __Dress color.__ If you have a dress color in mind, that’s great. However, what looks mauve to one person may be more pale violet to another. Picking a single color can make it difficult for bridesmaids to find dresses in the exact same shade from different vendors. Consider putting together a color palette of 3-4 complementary colors for your [bridesmaids to choose](https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingplanning/comments/pujak6/letting_bridesmaids_pick_dress_style/) from. or offer up a few vendors you’d like for them to order from.\n\n- __Length.__ Some brides don’t mind a variety of hemlines—floor-length, knee-length, mini, midi, etc. If you want all of your bridesmaids in the same length dress, let them know. Alternatively, if you really don’t mind different lengths, let them know that, too.\n\n- __Material.__ Satin, chiffon, charmeuse, crepe, taffeta—the world of dress materials is vast. If all of your bridesmaids are wearing the same exact color, dresses in different materials can be a nice way to add some dimension to the look. However, too many materials can also be a bit distracting. If you don’t want anyone in a jersey knit, make that clear.\n\n- __Style.__ By this, we mean the level of formality. If you’re having a black-tie wedding, you may not want your bridesmaids in semi-formal dresses. Be sure to outline the dress code clearly.\n\nClarity is key. Before you tell your bridesmaids they can choose their own dresses, come prepared with your own suggestions and requirements.\n\n### 2. Don’t: Forget about cost.\nWe like the idea that letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses may remove some of the financial strain. We also like the idea of a bride providing a shortlist (3-5) of dress vendors for the bridal party to choose from. If you go this route, consider selecting different styles you love in a variety of price ranges. Be considerate of your party’s financial situations—and be open to discussing it with any bridesmaid who may be in a tough spot.\n\n![Mismatched Bridesmaid Dresses Yellow](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2hmZIQ3ztPJpdpQndGPd87/bf0699bd01b2345d51b6221c07bbaa1a/Mismatched_Bridesmaid_Dresses_Yellow.jpg)\nPhoto by [Emma Lee Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/emma-lee-photography)\n\n### 3. Do: Make it a group activity.\nYou made a day out of wedding dress shopping…so why not make one out of bridesmaid dress shopping? Go to brunch and then hit the stores. Keep it simple and have a couple of boutiques picked out for the shopping expedition. Note: This may involve making appointments ahead of time. This way, your bridesmaids can choose a variety of dresses and you can be there in person to share immediate impressions. Not only is this just a fun wedding party activity, but it also helps busier bridesmaids find time to shop and nudges along any that err on the side of procrastination.\n\nIf your bridesmaids don’t live in the same area or can’t make the shopping day, that’s OK. Consider scheduling a Facetime with them as they shop. You can also create a dedicated group chat (if you haven’t already) to dress shopping.\n\n### 4. Don’t: Get complicated.\nAbove all, letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses shouldn’t be too complicated or stressful. In fact, it should potentially make things a little easier for you. These girls are your bridesmaids for a reason—and they want to make your wedding day go smoothly. Trust that they’ve got this under control and really, truly, let them take the reins on this one. (Don’t forget to __[thank them for their hard work](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/top-10-ways-to-thank-your-bridesmaids)__ in the planning process, either.)\n\nWho knows, they might even pick a dress they like so much, they’ll wear it again. Isn’t that the best-case scenario for any bridesmaid dress?\n\n### 5. Do: A final check-in.\nThere are the hair and makeup trials, the catering and cake tastings, and, of course, the bridesmaid dress check-in. It’s always a good idea to get on the same page after they've dress shopped and before anything is finalized. Make sure your bridesmaids run their final dress choices by you before they purchase. This way you can see if it fits into your ultimate vision or theme—and you eliminate any surprises and last-minute stress.\n\nGive your bridesmaids an absolute deadline for their final dress check-in. It sounds like a bridezilla move, but, trust us, it benefits them, too. You want everyone to have ample time to either find a new dress or get any necessary alterations. We recommend scheduling your check-in for about seven months ahead of the wedding. Therefore, let bridesmaids pick their own dresses well in advance.\n\n### 6. Don’t: Disregard shoes and accessories.\nBridesmaid attire doesn’t end with the dress. Accessories are everything, especially if you’re going for a mismatched bridesmaid dress look. Choosing a pair of shoes or a specific shoe style and color is an easy way to bring a cohesive look to your bridal party. \n\nIf you don’t have a shoe in mind, be sure to be clear about style. This way you avoid one girl in heels and another in flats. (If one of your bridesmaids needs to wear flats for a personal reason, though, we recommend hearing her out on that, of course.) Alternatively, you may want your bridal party in flats or sneakers. Again, just make sure you’re aligned.\n\nSimilarly, let your bridesmaids know what jewelry you do or don’t want them to wear. Traditionally, brides will purchase and then gift the jewelry they want their bridesmaids to wear. If you want to let them choose their own, that’s cool, too. Be sure, as always, to be clear about style.\n\nAnd don't forget about florals! Bridesmaid bouquets are an accessory in their own right, and will add cohesion to the look of your wedding party. Make sure that whatever flowers you're ordering will complement the bridesmaids' dresses. \n\n![Mismatched Christmas Bridesmaid Winter Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/lGiH566fp4nPH7kj6E8Dt/f3c59ea510b079cf8dbe3584bfa84354/Mismatched_Christmas_Bridesmaid_Winter_Dresses.jpg)\nPhoto by [Bokeh Love Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/bokeh-love-photography-llc)\n\n## 5 Mismatched bridesmaid dress ideas\n \nReady to get down to specifics? Here are some of the approaches you can take when building a mismatched bridal party look.\n\n### 1. Same color, different dress styles\nThis is one of the most straightforward approaches when it comes to choosing different bridesmaid dresses. You have them wearing the same exact color, like dusty blue or burnt orange, and ask your bridesmaids to find whatever dress they want in the chosen color. Add some cohesion to these different styles by giving them certain guidelines—for example, maybe you want them all to wear a maxi dress, or wear dresses that are in the same fabric. \n\n### 2. Same color, different neckline\nIf you're going to be strict about the color and style of the dress, you can give your bridesmaids some flexibility by letting them choose their own neckline. This is one of the best ways to accommodate different body types, as each girl can wear whatever cut she feels comfortable in. For example, maybe your maid of honor has a larger chest and would prefer a dress with straps—while another bridesmaid might love strapless styles.\n\n### 3. Same color, different textures\nTexture is a great way to create visual interest among your different bridesmaid dresses. For example, let's say you're having a [fall wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-look-in-fall-bridesmaid-dresses) and have asked your bridesmaids to wear burnt orange. Maybe one finds a satin dress she loves in the burnt orange shade, while another is drawn to a velvet style. Assign a texture to each maid that not only lets them show off their own personal style, but works well with the textures of the other dresses.\n\n### 4. Different shades of the same color palette\nIf you don't have a specific color in mind, keep it broad and ask bridesmaids to stick to a specific color scheme. For example, you might let your wedding party know to look for shades of green bridesmaid dresses (like sage and forest) or pink bridesmaid dresses (like dusty pink and fuschia). Ideally, this will create a sort of tonal, ombre-inspired look that's perfect for boho weddings.\n\n### 5. Different colors\nIf you want to make a bold statement with your bridal party, get creative by pairing different colors. You can choose a color family, like warm tones or cool tones, or choose a color scheme that reflects the season—for example, jewel tones for a moody winter wedding or pastel shades for a springtime celebration.\n\n![Letting Bridesmaids Pick Their Own Dress](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/0Auo6BBWFwwKMNbZmrGzA/dc4efb283015a188fd07e140c1a3da34/Letting_Bridesmaids_Pick_Their_Own_Dress.jpg)\nPhoto by [Anna So Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/anna-so-photography)\n\n## Thinking beyond the dresses\nEven if you're letting the [bridesmaids choose](https://www.quora.com/Will-you-choose-bridesmaid-dresses-for-your-bridesmaids-or-let-them-choose-their-own-Do-you-want-the-color-to-be-the-same-or-different) their own dress, you still have a lot on your plate while planning your special day. And Zola is here to help every step along the way. \n\nFrom [getting engaged](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/to-dos-after-you-get-engaged) and [announcing the big news](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-announce-your-engagement) to [selecting wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-invitations-paper-guide), we are here 24/7 with expert advice just waiting for you to learn. Happy planning!","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Pick out a thoughtful gift for the squad that shows up for you on your big day. 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Read our full, comprehensive guide on the most appropriate men’s attire that will make you look like you just stepped off the red carpet.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-12-28T17:16:07.930Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ib0hKIbbrVyFqK5kVrTba/419da62e0242fd57217d6ce823673ba4/Hero_Modern_Multi-CulturalWeddingat5226Elm_PaigeNewton.jpg","altText":"How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding"},"heroCredit":"Paige Newton","body":"Whether it’s the Golden Globes or the Grammys, many of us—male and female—watch for the styles. The fashion chatter usually centers around the ladies; however, there is something to be said for a guy who can successfully achieve a red carpet look. So, take your cues from award show fashion to gain inspiration for __[what to wear to a black-tie wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding)__, and forget about any casual attire.\n\nAlthough some guys go off-script and wear colorful and downright outlandish looks, it’s best to stick to the formal dress code rules and formal attire when attending a black-tie wedding. After all, not many can pull off the fashions that Lil Nas X wears at the Grammys. Actually, for most occasions, formal wedding outfits require black-tie attire, which means a tuxedo. A black tie outfit is the height of style, and, consequently, it’s an effortless look to sport. We’ll tell you how with our guide to __[dressing in your black-tie best](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-dress-for-a-black-tie-formal-wedding)__ for an evening wedding.\n\n![How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5xWzi6cRFkonwgW4riVJT5/e43866ef6817ca410e1a3e0da8e0850c/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Black Tie Dress Code Explained\nFirst things first—before we jump into how to dress for a black tie wedding, let's quickly cover where, exactly, the black-tie dress tie comes from.\n\nBlack tie is a semi-formal dress code that dates back to the 19th century. The dress code was popularized both in Britain and America. Both tuxedos and dark suits fall under the \"black tie\" umbrella—and while the dress code is semi-formal, it's generally [appropriate wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding) for more formal events.\n\n## The Perfect Pieces for a Black-Tie Wedding Look\nBlack-tie attire means that you should be wearing a black tuxedo or a dark suit (black suits, dark blue suits, and gray suits are all appropriate), but you can still let your personality shine through. With a few simple guidelines, you can put an outfit together worthy of the red carpet or wedding aisle.\n\n- __Tuxedo Jacket__ : Like the many takes on the classic cocktail dress, there are several __[styles of jackets](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_jacket)__. that work for black tie looks, like dinner jackets, tuxedo jackets, and more formal blazers. However, the common denominator in men’s black-tie suiting is the presence of satin on the lapels (whether it’s a notch lapel, peak lapel, or shawl lapel). Satin fabric also hides the buttons, which elevates the look of any black tux. Although black dress is the standard for black-tie events, darker tones of blue (like midnight blue) are acceptable. A good rule of thumb is to leave the single button closure fastened while standing, to maintain a fitted look (which can also be enhanced by a slim fit cut). \n\n- __Trousers__ : [Pants should match](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_pants) the jacket in both fabric and color. Satin goes down the outside seam on each pant leg, which serves to enhance the look. \n\n- __Crisp, Collared Shirt__ : A white shirt is the only acceptable color, but there is a little leeway with styling. Some tuxedo shirts are wing-tipped, but a [well-constructed oxford](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_tuxedo_shirt) would also suffice. Authentic tux shirts also have small pleats vertically across the chest to add interest. If you don't have an authentic tux shirt, ensure that your white dress shirt looks up to par. \n\n- __Black Shoes__ : Shiny, patent leather shoes are the norm for tuxedos, although quality black leather shoes or loafers will also do the trick. Don’t forget to wear socks. Over the calf, dark socks are ideal.\n\n- __Black Bow Tie__ : A [bow tie](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_bow_tie) allows those tiny pleats in the shirt to have their moment in the sun. Black is the traditional color, and be sure that your necktie neckwear is solid, not patterned.\n\n- __White Pocket Square__ : Dark jackets are in stark contrast to a pure white pocket square. However, it’s incredible how a [tiny square of fabric](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/birdygrey_didi_pocket_square_dustyblue) can create a cohesive look.\n\n- __Cufflinks__ : Unless you’re wearing an oxford, most tuxedo shirts close at the wrist with [cufflinks](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/edelweissjewelry_zola_love_collection_cufflinks_14kyellowgold). particularly if you’re wearing lengthier French cuffs. Subtly is better than going crazy with color, and be sure to match your cufflinks with other metals that you’re wearing. \n\n- __Studs__ : Although you will look like a stud in a tux, that’s not quite where we’re going with this. Upon close inspection, most tuxedo shirts have studs instead of buttons. These aren’t 100 percent necessary, but they do add to the look. Also, be sure to match metals with your cufflinks and other jewelry pieces. \n\n- __Vest or Cumberbund__ : These pieces are never meant to be worn in tandem. Covering your midsection with a cummerbund or vest is posh, but not completely necessary. If you do decide to wear one, remember that this isn’t high school. Black is best, so stay away from vibrant colors meant for prom.\n\n![How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/78mHneRzRZEno1T3RJAHp0/7b5a54fa7ba993829e03dedf46a4dea2/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Where to Get a Tux for a Black-Tie Wedding\n\n### How to Rent a Tuxedo Locally\nMost guys don’t have a tux hanging in their closet, but if they do, chances are that it doesn’t get much use. That’s where rentals come in handy. Many local bridal salons and upscale men’s shops rent tuxedos to grooms and other wedding party members. So if you need a black tie outfit, chances are that they can get you one, too.\n\n#### Pros of Renting a Tux Locally\nAn advantage of heading somewhere in person is that you can ensure a perfect fit. Also, if something is wrong—a missing button or loose hem—they can order another piece or fix it on site. You can also see fabrics and styles in person, which is a huge plus. \n\n#### Cons of Renting a Tux Locally\nThe downside to renting is usually drop-off times, especially if you’re traveling and rent at your final destination. Returning your tux before an early Sunday morning flight may prove difficult.\n\n### How to Rent a Tux Online\nIt seems that you can do just about anything with the internet at your fingertips, and renting a tux is one of them. Many businesses specialize in formalwear rentals, so be sure to select a longstanding one with a good reputation.\n\n#### Pros of Renting a Tux Online\nQuite often, companies have strict measurement guidelines on their website. However, many online rental sites will send you a tuxedo to test out before the main event. They are also a bit more flexible with return times, giving up to 72 hours to ship your pieces back.\n\n#### Cons of Renting a Tux Online\nAlthough rentals usually come with quick shipping, it’s tough to solve problems right away if something arrives damaged. Unless you can do a try on ahead of time, selecting fabrics and styles from afar can prove challenging. \n\n### Where to Buy a Tuxedo\nIf you’re the exception and have quite a few black-tie events coming up, investing in a tuxedo can save money in the long run. Many men’s clothiers sell tuxedos, although purchasing online is also an option. Be sure to order it well in advance of your black-tie wedding so that you can make exchanges if necessary.\n\n## In the Case of Black-Tie Optional\nYikes! You’re all set with what black-tie is, but the invitation adds one tiny, scary word after it—optional. Don’t worry. Demystifying the terminology is easier than it sounds, but this never, ever means that jeans and your favorite band t-shirt are okay.\n\nBlack-tie optional attire for weddings is a bit more relaxed than a tuxedo. Often, couples choose this option to alleviate any financial burden for their guests. After all, the expense of traveling and buying a wedding gift is enough without having to spring for new suiting. So, seeing the word “optional” is a good thing. \n\nThink of it as mimicking a tuxedo without wearing one. Dark suiting with a crisp, white shirt and black shoes are ideal. Also, add traditional accessories, such as a pocket square, dark bow tie, and cufflinks. Skip the studs and cummerbund, but feel free to wear a vest if you have one that matches your suit.\n\nThe rule of thumb is to stick to the dress code and wear your most formal wear. If you don’t own a suit, it’s probably the time to invest in one, or you could go the tuxedo rental route.\n\n*__Quick tip:__ Black-tie optional can also be referenced as “black-tie preferred.”*\n\nSo, whether you’re headed to a black-tie wedding or are one of the fortunate ones to walk the red carpet at a black-tie event, use our guide to get it right. With a few key pieces—either borrowed or purchased—you’ll soon be looking your best at the season’s best events. Which, of course, includes weddings.\n\n## 10 Black Tie Wedding Attire Ideas for Men\nLooking for some help with black tie attire? We’ve come up with these formal wedding outfit ideas to help you nail your look.\n\n### 1. Pronto Uomo Modern Fit Tuxedo Coat\nThis black __[Pronto Uomo tuxedo coat](https://www.menswearhouse.com/p/pronto-uomo-modern-fit-suit-separates-tuxedo-coat-black-3X933X9410)__ is a sleek and elegant choice for any black tie affair. The trim and modern fit provides plenty of comfort and mobility and features a two-button design and satin notch lapel. This tuxedo coat retails for $219.99 at Men’s Wearhouse.\n\n### 2. Stretch Tuxedo Shirt\nThis __[Stretch Tuxedo Shirt](https://bonobos.com/products/stretch-tuxedo-shirt)__ is a comfortable and snappy component of any black-tie outfit. The shirt features attractive mother-of-pearl buttons and double-knife pleats for some added texture. French cuffs tie the look together with an added touch of elegance—and ample opportunity to show off your favorite pair of cufflinks. This shirt retails for $179 from Bonobos.\n\n### 3. Barathea Tuxedo Pants\nFor a classic look that ties your look together, these black __[Barathea Tuxedo Pants](https://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=442547002)__ are the answer. These pants are made from 100% virgin wool from one of Italy’s oldest mills and tailored with a slim fit for a comfortable, natural look that works in any season. Available for $220 from Banana Republic.\n\n### 4. Black and Burgundy Paisley Tuxedo Vest Set\nElevate your look with this __[Black and Burgundy Paisley Tuxedo Vest Set](https://paulmalone.com/collections/tuxedo-vests/products/black-and-burgundy-paisley-tuxedo-vest-set)__. The set includes a wine red and black paisley microfiber vest, matching pocket square, and your choice of a matching necktie or pre-tied cravat—though you can also pair it with your favorite bow tie. Altogether, this set is an affordable and stylish solution for any formal wedding or black-tie event. Available for $39.97 from Paul Malone.\n\n### 5. Steel and Onyx Tuxedo Studs\nAccessorizing isn’t always the easiest—especially with black-tie attire. Fortunately, these __[Steel and Onyx Tuxedo Studs](https://propercloth.com/products/steel-and-onyx-tuxedo-studs-431.html)__ are the perfect addition for a modern and classy take on a tux. These steel studs are Italian-made and come four to a set, with each featuring a black onyx face. These tuxedo studs retail for $75 from Proper Cloth.\n\n### 6. Personalized Rose Gold Round Cufflinks\nThough some cufflinks fly under the radar, these __[Personalized Rose Gold Round Cufflinks](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cathysconcepts_personalized_rose_gold_round_cuff_links_u)__ make a statement. The elegant rose gold adds a bit of contrast to your getup—while the engraveable face adds a personalized touch. Available from Zola for $27.99.\n\n### 7. Cummerbund\nThis __[Cummerbund](https://theblacktux.com/collection/accessory/cummerbund)__ can help you truly embrace the formality of a black-tie outfit. Made of plain black silk and with adjustable backing, this cummerbund won’t cramp your style on the dancefloor, but will help you stand out as someone who respects tradition. Available to rent for $15 or to purchase for $30 from The Black Tux.\n\n### 8. Tux Plain Toe Derby\nLet your style shine with these liquid-shine __[Tux Plain Toe Derby](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/florsheim-tux-plain-toe-derby-men/4873534)__ patent leather dress shoes. These shows are elegant in their simplicity, with a cushioned footbed to keep you comfortable through the day’s—and night’s—festivities. Available from Nordstrom for $124.95.\n\n### 9. Cotton Pocket Square\nTo add a bit of color to your black-tie outfit, incorporate this stylish and formal light blue __[Cotton Pocket Square](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/deltoro_cotton_pocket_square_lightblue)__. This timeless accessory is made in Lake Como, Italy, from a high-quality cotton that helps elevate your look for any formal affair. Available from Zola for $25.\n\n### 10. Classic-Fit UltraFlex Stretch Black Solid Tuxedo Separates\nShopping for the various bits of a formal ensemble can be overwhelming and time-consuming. Fortunately, this set of __[Classic-Fit UltraFlex Stretch Black Solid Tuxedo Separates](https://www.macys.com/shop/product/lauren-ralph-lauren-mens-classic-fit-ultraflex-stretch-black-solid-tuxedo-separates?ID=10503427)__ has almost everything you need to meet a black-tie dress code. Separates include a tuxedo jacket, pants, and vest, giving you the opportunity to accessorize however you see fit. Retails for $56.25 - $202.50 from Macy’s.\n\n## FAQs About Black Tie Dress Code\nStill not 100% clear on what the black tie dress code is—and how to ensure your wedding attire fits that dress code? Let's take a look at some frequently asked questions about black tie wedding attire to give some additional perspective:\n\n1. __What is the difference between a tuxedo and a suit?__ The main difference between a tuxedo and a suit is that tuxedos have a host of satin features—like lapels, buttons, and pant stripes—that suits do not.\n\n2. __What kinds of weddings have black tie dress codes?__ The black tie dress code is reserved for events that take place in the evenings—so weddings that start after 6pm or so may have a black tie dress code, while more casual daytime affairs would not.\n\n3. __What is the difference between a black tie and a white tie wedding dress code?__ White tie is the most formal dress code—and as such, is reserved for formal occasions. Black tie is considered semi-formal.\n\n4. __What should you do if you're invited to a black tie wedding—but don't have a tuxedo?__ Not to worry! Most men don't own tuxedos. There are plenty of places where you can rent a tuxedo, whether you're a wedding guest or in the wedding party—and if that's not an option, a dark suit would also be appropriate.\n\n5. __Is there any way to incorporate color into black tie wedding attire?__ While there aren't many opportunities for incorporating color into black tie wedding attire, if it's important to you, you could add a pop of color with accessories, like a pocket square.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Learn the ins and outs of semi-formal attire for men. 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Luckily, Zola has you covered with this easy guide. Read on now.","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-14T18:17:19.140Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6FbTEkIOvwhgnjNVFfvbPU/9fed0ee78b65647114b0bbc7e741fe5a/inline_hewittphotography.jpg","altText":"Cocktail wedding Attire"},"heroCredit":"Hewitt Photography","body":"Cocktail attire is generally associated with knee-length dresses, sophisticated heels, and simple suits. However, as one of the most popular (and versatile) dress codes, there are numerous ways that you can incorporate your own personal style in dressing for this type of wedding...starting with long dresses.\n\nFrom the color and fabric of the dress, to the hairstyle and accessories you pair with it, a maxi dress can easily pass as proper cocktail attire, if styled correctly. Below are a few pieces of advice to make sure that you’re picking the right gown and accessorizing it accordingly for a semi-formal ceremony.\n\n### Seasonality Matters\nIf the wedding takes place in the winter, no one is going to bat an eye at the fact that you’re wearing a long dress—if anything, it’s likely expected. All that the cocktail or semi-formal attire request means in the colder months is that you’re welcome to pick a more casual option than what you’d choose for a black-tie event. For example, while you may have picked a silk, emerald green number for a black-tie wedding, you might go for a long, cotton gown with moody florals instead. \n\n### Pick Your Silhouette (and Fabric) Wisely\nA fitted, full-length gown gives off a very different vibe than a flowy maxi with a slit. When planning what length of dress to wear, consider what would seem most cocktail-appropriate and feel the most comfortable to you. If you normally opt for more fitted dresses, maybe consider a knee-length shift or an A-line number, instead. However, if you’re comfortable in something with a lot of movement, then a lightweight maxi-dress is perfectly appropriate.\n\nIn addition to shape, fabrics play an important role in the overall formality of the dress. Fabrics such as satin, velvet, crepe, and organza are generally more suited for black-tie—unless you plan to really dress them down with accessories—while lightweight silk, cotton, and linen blends are much more fitting for a cocktail maxi-dress. Slits and high-low hems are also a fun way to dress down your ensemble, while incorporating a bit of personality.\n\n### Consider the Venue\n\n![Can you wear a long dress for cocktail attire?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4Af8XXHF0YtCmGwrEMXBKy/3ce3bccca2feadc1dafb2771656c2196/inline_chrislanephotography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Chris Lane Photography\n\nIf it’s a backyard wedding or farm setting, then you might not want your dress sweeping the floor the whole evening (or have to wear heels to keep your hem clean). Once you receive the official invitation (or link to the couple’s wedding website!), look up the venue and try to get a good idea of the types of surfaces that you’ll be walking on. There’s always the chance that they’ll rent flooring for the day, but you don’t want to have to rely on it. If you go long, try something that isn’t a ground-duster, or opt for a pair of comfy wedges to add a few inches.\n\n### Opt for Alternative Colors and Prints\nBecause you’re picking a slightly more formal silhouette by going full-length, you can go a little more casual with your color and print choices. If it’s a spring or summer event, maxi dresses in terra cotta or mustard tones are great options, as are dainty florals in vibrant colors. For fall and winter events, jewel tones are always a wise choice, but long-sleeved dresses in moody florals and vintage prints are fun alternatives, too. If you do choose a print, make sure that you pick more subtle accessories so that the look doesn’t become too busy, or make it seem like you’re trying to steal the show.\n\n### Keep It Natural\nIf you’ve got your heart set on wearing a full-length dress, then keep your hair and makeup as laid back as possible. There’s a big difference between cat eyes and a tightly pulled updo, versus relaxed, tousled waves and some subtle lipstick. Details such as undone braids, beachy waves, and natural, kinky curls are great options to complement a less formal maxi. So long as you’re considering the seasons and venue, details such as a low bun, a little bit of extra eye makeup, or a statement lip can work, too.\n\n### Dress It Down With Accessories\nEarrings, hairpieces, shoes, and bags are some of the simplest ways to dress an outfit up or down. Instead of a sparkly clutch, maybe opt for a relaxed crossbody bag in a fun color, instead. For a fall wedding, consider adding a sophisticated leather jacket over your floral maxi dress. A fancier alternative to a denim jacket, a leather jacket keeps you warm, but also ensures that you don’t look out of place. For a summer event, consider tasteful wedges or block heels in a fun print. Flats are also an option, if they’re polished enough (particularly if they’re in an unexpected fabric such as velvet or satin).\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_WeddingBoutique"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"It’s easy to pick an outfit for a formal wedding, but what about a casual attire wedding? Read on to get some pointers on what to wear to a casual attire wedding. ","title":"Casual Wedding Attire Guide","slug":"casual-wedding-attire-guide","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6uuL6M77rEUl8NuQmPGrI6/12ef1b1f643341a710ceb9d7a3e01e3c/inline_cbrownphoto__1_.jpg","altText":"how to dress for a casual wedding dress code"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Going to a wedding where the dress code is cocktail attire? We have come up with a guide to help you determine what fashion qualifies for this occasion. 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Eyes will be on you throughout the wedding day and into the evening—and odds are you’ll be featured in many photos. Plus, you’ll want to feel your best. With all of this is mind, we’ve put together a comprehensive groom’s and groomsmen's attire guide.\n\n## What's the Difference?\n\nFirst thing’s first: What are the main differences between groom and groomsmen attire? Because suits and tuxedos can look fairly similar (especially in like colors), a few things a groom can do to stand out from his groomsmen are as follows:\n\n- Don a boutonniere. Doing so will also ensure that you coordinate with your partner.\n\n- Wear a different [tie](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-tie-for-groomsmen) or bowtie. This works especially well if your groomsmen’s are all matching.\n\n- Include a print. Wear a patterned blazer or suit jacket over your dress shirt, or patterned accessories, like socks or your pocket square.\n\n- Elevate your look. Differentiate yourself by wearing a different color, high quality fabric, or structure and silhouette. For example, if your groomsmen are wearing light gray or black, opt instead for dark gray or navy. Think along the lines of a bridal gown vs a bridesmaid’s dress.\n\nWith this in mind, read on for our guide.\n\n## Appropriate Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nSo, what is [appropriate](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/groomsmen-etiquette-101-a-beginners-guide) groom and groomsmen wedding attire? Here are some things to keep in mind:\n\n- The groom’s and groomsmen’s outfits should match the formality of the wedding and the venue.\n\n- Popular groom and groomsmen attire for more formal events include suits and tuxedos, while informal weddings allow for dress shirts and slacks.\n\n- If the groom’s attire matches the groomsmen, it’s important that everyone follows the dress code and goes shopping months in advance.\n\n- If the groom wants to stand out from the groomsmen, styling tricks can distinguish him from members of the wedding party.\n\n- Some grooms want all of their groomsmen to dress individually and not match one another. In these cases, establish a dress code and color palette for everyone to follow.\n\n## Groomsmen Attire FAQs\n### How to Choose Groomsmen Attire\nWhen it comes to selecting and even browsing for groomsmen clothing, there are several factors to be considered. Keeping these top-of-mind can be a tremendous aid in helping you decide on outfit pieces, fabrics, colors, fits, and more.\n\n- __Season.__ The season the wedding takes place in can have a large influence on what’s worn—especially if it’s an outdoor wedding. Take your cues from the weather and seasonal color palettes for attire that fits seamlessly.\n\n- __Time of Day.__ Depending on the season and your location, temperatures can vary drastically, from midday to late in the night. Consider what time (or times) of day you’ll be celebrating and dress accordingly. For example, if you’ll be out in the hot sun most of the time, you’ll want to opt for lighter, breezier fabrics.\n\n- __Wedding Venue.__ You wedding venue dictates much of the feeling and atmosphere of a wedding. Try to match its level of formality when deciding on your attire.\n\n- __Wedding’s Theme or Dress Code.__ Perhaps most crucial, pay special attention to any information the couple gives you prior to the wedding. Most often, you’ll be notified via invitation or wedding website of the wedding style and dress code. Take note of this when looking for an outfit—and always double check with the couple if you aren’t sure.\n\n### What Should the Groom and Groomsmen Wear?\nA [wedding’s venue](https://zola.app.link/o9Wx4NVYvcb) and [theme](https://zola.app.link/vxkYfJyN71) should inform what a groom and his groomsmen wear. It’s been said before, but it will be said again: Your outfit’s level of formality should reflect your wedding theme and wedding venue. If you’re getting married in your parents’ backyard, you don’t need to rock a tuxedo (unless that’s your thing). Likewise, nuptials at a place of worship call for a certain style of dress—it’s not appropriate to wear flip flops and a golf shirt in a church.\n\n### Who Pays for the Groomsmen Attire?\nAs with most things involved in wedding planning, this ultimately depends on the couple’s preferences. Most often, each individual groomsmen—as well as other members of the wedding party—will purchase or rent their own attire for the big day. Because of this, they usually also have a say in what they end up wearing. That said, there are cases in which the groom, couple, of even the groom’s parents will offer to chip in to cover some (or all) outfit expenses. This, however, highly depends on their budget and dress expectations.\n\nIn any case, communication about who’s going to pay should be communicated ASAP. Read: Before anyone agrees to be a groomsman. It’s crucial that everyone has all of the information they need, such as spending expectations, before committing.\n\n## 6 Groomsmen Attire Options\nOnce you determine how formal or informal you can be, decide what you want to wear. Some popular options for grooms and groomsmen include:\n\n### Formal Attire\n1. __[Tuxedos](https://zola.app.link/y2nb5n96Ocb)__. Tuxes are great for formal weddings and black-tie events. They can be worn during all four seasons, and are great for both indoor and outdoor weddings.\n\n2. __Dark suits__. These days, a nice two- and three-piece dark suit is acceptable for a wedding with a formal dress code. Make sure your suit is well fitted and pressed before the day of.\n\n### Semi-Formal Attire\n3. __[Suits](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-groom-and-groomsmen-suits)__, either three-piece or two-piece. A three-piece suit can be worn at formal weddings or semi-formal affairs. Two-piece groomsmen suits are a bit more casual and can be dressed down, even more so when the jacket is removed. In any case ,wedding suits should fit well and be pressed.\n\n### Casual Attire\n\n![How Many Groomsmen Is Normal? | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4BCAiHkxjk12bywl5iorO4/520a78ffa33671b2c8e4747187f5b956/inline_shutterstock_1_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Shutterstock\n\n4. __[Vest](https://zola.app.link/HcXfoUd7Ocb)__, __dress shirt__, __and slacks__. A play on the two-piece suit, wearing a vest over a dress shirt is a great look for more informal events or summer weddings.\n\n5. __[Dress shirt](https://zola.app.link/eLaNHDg7Ocb)__ __and slacks__. Paired with a tie or bow tie, this look can be accentuated by suspenders or a nice leather belt.\n\n6. __Shirt and khakis__. For informal or casual spring/summer weddings, skip the dress pants altogether and sport a pair of chinos with a nice shirt—tie optional.\n\n## Matching Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nTraditionally, a groom and his groomsmen wear matching tuxedos or suits, but today there are no hard rules. If you want the groom and groomsmen to wear the same attire, whether it be a suit or a dress shirt and pants, consider the following:\n\n- What is your [wedding theme](https://zola.app.link/vxkYfJyN71)/what are your wedding colors? If you’re having a fall, rustic wedding and are incorporating colors of blush and burgundy, the groom and groomsmen should follow suit. Gray suits with burgundy ties, for example, would be a way to stay on-theme.\n\n- What are everyone’s budget and location? It’s important to [talk about money when you’re at a wedding party](https://zola.app.link/gxLaAGyN71) to ensure that everyone can afford the same outfit. This can help determine whether you will rent, buy, or borrow garments. Remember that location affects availability and suit fitting appointments if you’re going the custom route.\n\n- Plan months in advance. If your groom and groomsmen attire matches, go shopping at least four to six months in advance to allow for enough time to order and tailor garments.\n\n- Another tip? Regardless of whether all groomsmen get fitted for their outfits at the same time and place, or do it individually, it’s a good idea to have everyone’s measurements [sent to the tailor two to four months before the wedding](https://zola.app.link/INwxgJyN71)—especially during peak wedding season—to ensure that everyone gets their clothing back on time.\n\nA popular style is for groomsmen to match one another, but the groom wears a slightly different, yet complementary, look. If you want the groomsmen to match, but the groom to stand out, consider the following:\n\n- Have the groomsmen’s attire match your wedding theme, but make the groom’s suit or tux slightly different by picking a feature color and highlighting it in different ways. For example, if forest green is one of your wedding colors, have the groomsmen wear green ties and [gray suits](https://zola.app.link/cE3oSTw7Ocb), while the groom wears a forest green suit and gray tie. This is a way to have everyone look good while standing together, yet still allowing the groom to stand out.\n\n## Mismatched Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nIf matching isn’t your thing, that’s cool. No groom and groomsmen need to dress the same. It’s important, however, that everyone at least looks cohesive and adheres to a dress code. A groomsman wearing linen pants will look odd next to a groomsman in a black tuxedo. The groom should set the tone and let everyone know how formal or casual they can dress and what color palette to stick to.\n\nIf you want all groomsmen to sport a navy two-piece suit, communicate what is appropriate. It’s one thing to say, “Everyone wears a blue suit!” but make sure that you also include dress shirts, ties, and shoe styles and colors. If your wedding is more casual and the groom is wearing nice slacks and a dress shirt, the groomsmen should follow. Use terms such as “business casual” and “semi-formal dress” to help the wedding party understand the level of formality that you want them to follow. Use photographs and share ideas with them. It’s a good idea to see (and approve) all groomsmen’s outfits before the wedding to make sure that they a) look good with what the groom is wearing, and b) are within the dress code. This helps to avoid any last-minute fashion disasters.\n\nIf the groom and groomsmen's attire doesn’t match, you can incorporate accessories to weave everyone together. Matching socks, ties or boutonnieres are all ways to let the groom and groomsmen stand out from one another, yet still complement each other’s looks.\n\nThe type of wedding you’re planning will dictate what the groom and groomsmen should wear. Look to other aspects of your wedding planning, such as venue, season, formality, and whether or not you want the groom and members of his wedding party to match. 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"},"heroCredit":"Fly View Productions","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com","tldr":"__Inside this article:__ \n- How to find androgynous formal wear\n- Where to get androgynous wedding attire\n- How to personalize androgynous formal wear for every wedding type","body":"__TLDR:__\n- If you're looking for androgynous formal wear, be sure to consider your budget and preferred style before purchasing. \n- Several shops, like Duchess Clothier and SuitShop are perfect for fulfilling your androgynous wedding guest attire needs.\n- Consult our guide for styling for every type of [androgynous wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/gender-non-conforming-wedding-attire). Whether romantic, class, boho or beyond, we have visual cues to help.\n\n## Searching for androgynous wedding guest attire?\nDeciding what to [wear as a wedding guest](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/dos-donts-wedding-guest-fashion) is definitely not as easy as sampling everything at the [buffet table](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-food-ideas). But finding an outfit you love will make you feel your best and boost your confidence.\n\nIf a gender-neutral style is your style of choice, there are plenty of ways you can create a formal wear look that will make you feel your best. From classic to laid-back, we'll show you just how and where to find androgynous [wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding) and how you can style it depending on any wedding theme.\n\n## How to find androgynous formal wear \nWhether you're an experienced wedding attendee or this is your first time celebrating your favorite lovebirds, finding the perfect wedding attire can be overwhelming, especially if you're set on finding the perfect gender neutral wedding outfit. \n\nWe here at Zola have you covered with all of your wedding wear needs. Here are some steps on how to find androgynous wedding attire.\n\n### 1. Set a budget\nTo help avoid overspending and narrow down your options, the first step in finding the perfect androgynous wedding attire is to [set a budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/planning-101/budgeting). \n\nDecide how much you're willing to spend on the wedding outfit, taking into account not only necessary adjustments, such as [tailoring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-do-wedding-dress-alterations-cost), but also any accessories, shoes, and makeup you'll have to purchase. Do some research by looking at stores online and local boutiques to help you come up with a budget that makes sense.\n\n### 2. Decide on your preferred style\nAlthough having a budget will help you narrow down which stores to go to, having a general idea of what style of clothing you're looking for will help you figure out where to go. Consider your preferred style choices, what makes you feel the most comfortable, and the [wedding theme](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-themes). \n\nHaving a look in mind will make the process easier and faster. Find inspiration by looking at current fashion trends and social media accounts of people with a similar style as yours.\n\n### 3. Consider how much time you have\nLastly, consider how much time you have to find your gender-neutral wedding outfit since it will likely dictate whether you should shop online or in person. If you're short on time, might need your outfit tailored, or want to try it on first, find a couple of local stores to go to. Otherwise, shopping online can give you a wide range of options to choose from—just be sure to account for shipping times.\n\n![Androgynous Wedding Guest Attire](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ueZ9Qeq5seT7GOemiI1SN/546e8e8a38b3c4f83b6aba4831ebb05c/Androgynous_Wedding_Guest_Attire.jpg)\nPhoto by [Creatrix Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/creatrix-photography)\n\n## Where to get androgynous wedding attire \nIf you're still looking for places to shop for an outfit, there are many stores focusing on androgynous formal wear. These stores' main purpose is to provide you with an array of gender-neutral pieces, from formal wear to casual pieces, that will help you look and feel your best. Here are some that we recommend:\n\n### 1. The Tailory New York\nAnother custom suit option with online fittings is [The Tailory New York](https://thetailorynyc.com/), a women-owned clothing company that combines custom tailoring with modern fashion design. If you're looking for a bold and ambitious look, The Tailory has different clothing styles and colors, from modern fairytale to street chic. Their suits and tuxedos start at $1,450.\n\n### 2. Bindle & Keep\n\n[Bindle & Keep](https://www.bindleandkeep.com/) offers suits that are made just for you. If you want to have a suit created for your exact measurements, Bindle & Keep will do fittings both in person and online. They divide their suit options into three different pricing tiers varying by fabric, which ranges from $995 to $1,395. If you're considering custom-made androgynous wedding attire from Bindle & Keep, make sure to order ahead of time as their turnaround time is between 10 and 11 weeks.\n\n### 3. WILDFANG\nIf you're looking for a place where you can buy your everyday clothes but also find formal wear for your special event, [WILDFANG](https://www.wildfang.com/) is a good option. Its mission is to rethink gender norms and focus on androgynous outfits. At their store, you'll be able to find blazers, [dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-spring-wedding), and even accessories at a more affordable price, ranging from $70 to $200.\n\n### 4. Duchess Clothier\nIf you're looking for another made-to-fit option, [Duchess Clothier](https://www.duchessclothier.com/) creates androgynous outfits for every body and occasion. Their store is located in Portland, OR, where you'll get plenty of separate suit and shoe options, but they also let you create your own look by mixing and matching pieces. The price for their suits starts at $1,120 and they offer packages that also include dress shirts, ties, and pocket squares.\n\n### 5. Kirrin Finch\n[Kirrin Finch](https://kirrinfinch.com/) seeks to create fitting clothes that make you feel confident and comfortable. Their attire is designed to fit bodies of all shapes and sizes. They offer a wide range of androgynous formal wear, from dress shirts to suits and blazers. Prices range from $150 to $400 and offer a variety of silhouettes and colors.\n\n![Kirrin Finch Androgynous Formal Wear](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1lW1ojxP5jTJEjgXs2OkJu/98f85f274d87bcead990e2b668f5ee64/Kirrin_Finch_Androgynous_Formal_Wear.jpg)\n\n### 6. SuitShop\nIf you're looking for a more affordable option, or even considered [renting](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-does-a-tuxedo-rental-cost), [SuitShop](https://suitshop.com/) can provide you with high-quality clothing for a price that will make you feel as good as you look. At SuitShop, you can own a suit for as little as $199, and you'll get a variety of options to choose from with inclusive sizing. Plus, you can try your androgynous wedding attire for free for seven days.\n\n### 7. Birdy Grey\nAlthough [Birdy Grey](https://www.birdygrey.com/) fancies itself a [bridesmaid](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-bridesmaid-duties) dress retailer, they also offer options for suits and tuxedos that are tailored to perfection. At the online retailer, you'll also see a variety of shoes and accessories that are perfect for any wedding theme. Their gender-neutral wedding outfits are also affordable, starting at $199.\n\n### 8. Peau de Loup\n[Peau de Loup](https://www.peaudeloup.com/)'s goal is to make clothes for bodies and not genders, offering high-quality and limited clothing that accommodates curves. Aside from finding your androgynous wedding attire there, you'll also be able to get shoes, accessories, and casual clothing. Their formal wear is affordable, with prices starting at $98.\n\n### 9. HauteButch\nAnother brand that creates masculine clothing to fit women's bodies is [HauteButch](https://hautebutch.com/), a queer Black-owned brand. This small company creates innovative and diverse styles that represent who you are. They sell suits, vests, and accessories in a variety of styles and colors, with suits starting at around $200.\n\n### 10. Sharpe Suiting\n[Sharpe Suiting](https://sharpesuiting.com/) will help you achieve a look that will both fit your body and your style. They specialize in wedding attire and use their trademarked body measuring formula called “Andropometrics” to deliver you a custom suit. The process of purchasing a custom outfit will take around eight weeks, and a two-piece suit starts at $1,800.\n\n![Sharpe Androgynous Formal Wear](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/48SlVkaQrogBBmLLYA9Ogq/cdca55ee7c7ea3539d3123b08632e6af/Sharpe_Androgynous_Formal_Wear.jpg)\n\n## How to personalize androgynous formal wear for every wedding type \nNo matter how you express yourself, your wedding attire should fit the [wedding type](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/couples-top-wedding-themes) you’re attending or planning. Whether that is a classic chic wedding or a beach getaway, there are different ways you can personalize your androgynous formal wear according to the theme. \n\nWhen deciding on what to wear for the wedding, consider each element of your wedding attire, including accessories, shoes, and colors. You can also add your own personal touch by using elements that you usually wear—like your favorite watch or a pop of color that looks good on you.\n\n### 1. Classic\nClassic weddings are more traditional and elegant, and sometimes will require [black tie wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding). Whether your invite mentions a dress code or not, invest in looks in black, gray, or dark blue with solid fabric. If the wedding is during the summer, you might opt to wear lighter tones such as light gray or beige. \n\nYour look should be elegant and fitted, so if you’re going for a suit, consider wearing solid wool fabric, a black bowtie, and a collared white shirt. To complete your look, wear classic black leather shoes and gold and pearl jewelry, if that’s true to your style. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-classic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/630zTDv9adarWkCgmAY9X8/774dd5af04a72b617487675442696d26/androgynous-attire-for-classic-weddings.png)\n\n### 2. Rustic\n[Rustic weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue) are full of natural and wooden touches, which means you can go for a less formal look and have fun with textures. Look for clothing with lighter tones such as light blue and brown. For a more casual look, you could also forgo your blazer and wear only a vest with a collared shirt. \n\nAdd some texture to your look by choosing cotton or tweed blazers. Then complement your outfit with vintage brown leather shoes and patterned pocket squares. This is also your chance to wear your favorite shiny, gold jewelry or a leather watch. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-rustic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6X9V0pswklRpQ4DsMoebbj/62d44e6a3d9a4ae854cafbbe6905cd14/androgynous-attire-for-rustic-weddings.png)\n\n### 3. Beachy\n[Beach weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pros-and-cons-of-a-beach-wedding) are relaxed and calm, which means you get to enjoy the sea view and salty air with a more casual, bright look. Opt for light tones, like a pastel blue or green, or go for more colorful attire with florals. \n\nInvest in clothes with linen fabric so you can fully enjoy the ocean breeze. You might even want to roll up your sleeves or wear some nice shorts. Make your look even more beachy by adding colorful pocket flowers, accessories with seashells, and white loafers. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-beachy-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6Zf82q3mpqKJLcuDB84EWS/1362edaf2195c2480dab783a07118625/androgynous-attire-for-beachy-weddings.png)\n\n### 4. Modern\nModern weddings are more fashionable and bold, so if you like trendy styles or a monochromatic look, this is your chance to shine. In a modern wedding, you have the opportunity to be more creative by trying different fabrics or wearing a statement piece. \n\nConsider bold colors like dark green or burgundy, or try an all-black outfit with cuffed pants. Then complete your look with fashionable loafers or shiny black shoes and a gold watch. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-modern-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6hpxRcBcPre6QeHDQhrMgY/a531c502c266880425318f77c1b56270/androgynous-attire-for-modern-weddings.png)\n\n### 5. Garden\n[Garden weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/outdoor-wedding-ideas-for-fall) are fun and whimsical, so bring a playful spirit to your wedding attire. Consider floral and pinstripe fabrics, or go for a solid dark blue or purple look. Choose a breathable fabric, especially if the wedding will be outside during the summer. \n\nComplete your look by adding a tie in a pastel tone, or ditch the tie and go for an open collar style. Add flower accessories or a simple white pocket square to go with stitched vintage shoes. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-garden-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/QQIsPX3Pfi3nhwBvgFcNt/97fb6382f096e46eb5601fce444a8b09/androgynous-attire-for-garden-weddings.png)\n\n### 6. Romantic\nRomantic weddings are nothing short of dreamy and elegant. Go all in with a look that could've come out of a fairytale by wearing pastel pinks and blues and a blazer with silk details. \n\nTry suspenders, and match them with some classic leather shoes. For accessories, you can add delicate flower pins or shiny jewelry with diamonds and a gold watch.\n\n![androgynous-attire-for-romantic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1voWcJwI7i0vFWKLZTTWfa/09119df7011a734aa074ab55471930de/androgynous-attire-for-romantic-weddings.png)\n\n### 7. Boho\n[Boho weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/rustic-wedding-ideas) are more unconventional and relaxed, so this is your chance to rock a more laid-back look. Find outfits with lightweight and breathable fabrics and play around with different colors. \n\nDon't be shy when adding flowers or feathers to complement your look, or try a suede boho hat and match it with brown loafers. As for accessories, consider jewelry with colorful stones or gold fringe. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-boho-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/19ClGLMB3t5aDno8SdUPg0/b06b0754a417d786152b3240e245c6e8/androgynous-attire-for-boho-weddings.png)\n\nFinding the right [wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-guests/wedding-attire) doesn't have to be complicated. As long as you wear something you love and feel comfortable in, you'll radiate confidence walking in the venue. Luckily, you know exactly where to shop for androgynous wedding attire and how to personalize it according to each wedding theme.\n\nAre you the one getting married? Did you know that Zola can help with all of your wedding day needs? From using our [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) to creating a free [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website), get started today!","tag":"List","updatedAt":"2025-06-07T16:47:44.977Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"what-should-the-mother-of-the-groom-wear","title":"What Should the Mother of the Groom Wear?","excerpt":"Wondering what the mother of the groom should wear to your wedding? Read on for our complete guide.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2020-12-16T20:33:51.524Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3XYQnnhFxaJwQKwb4o3VdP/09b22c0665e884e05ef2a3f099378d4c/hero_Eyes_2_See_Photography.jpg","altText":"mother of the groom"},"heroCredit":"Eyes 2 See Photography","body":"Mothers are always valued members of a couple’s wedding party, whether it’s the mother of the bride or the mother of the groom. Both are honored and appreciated for their contributions to the bride and groom’s big day. \n\nThe mother of the groom in particular has several responsibilities, including helping plan the guest list for the groom’s side of the family and hosting the rehearsal dinner. It’s only natural that she looks exceptional when the big day rolls around. But what exactly should the mother of the groom wear? \n\n## Wedding Etiquette for the Mother of the Groom\n\nDepending upon how much of a stickler for tradition you are, there may be etiquette rules your family members and guests must follow. These rules may include a few about the wedding attire for the groom’s mother. \n\n### Dress Buying Traditions\n\nWondering if there’s a difference [between the mother of the bride dress and the mother of the groom dress?](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/mother-of-the-bride-vs-mother-of-the-groom-dresses-whats-the-difference) Traditionally, the mother of the bride decides on her dress first and then informs the groom’s mother. The mother of the groom can then get a dress that complements the [mother of the bride dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-attire-101-garden-edition) on the wedding day. \n\nKeep in mind that the two moms do not have to dress identical at all—the two dresses just have to be complementary, so they don't clash with each other, the wedding theme, or the bridesmaid dresses. \n\nIt’s worth noting, though: Nowadays, this tradition is considered more of a guideline than a hard rule. Still, it’s good guidance—especially if you haven’t heard otherwise. \n\n![Mother of the Groom Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/25fkY0wAnryA14ISsWlQEE/b10a6d827562696eacee5b1c7807476c/inline_rengim-mutevellioglu.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Rengim Mutevellioglu\n\n### Dress Etiquette\n\nAs stated before, the mother of the groom is an honored part of the special occasion, and she should dress accordingly. Both the mother of the bride and groom should select dresses that are similar in style and length and complementary to the wedding color palette and theme. \n\nBefore any shopping is done, consult with the bride or groom to get a better idea of their vision for the wedding day. For instance, flashy dresses and distracting colors wouldn’t be appropriate for a wedding with a soft, vintage theme. The mother of the groom should also avoid particular styles, such as low-cut necklines, thigh-split dresses, or tight skirts. \n\nJust keep in mind: Within reason, the mother of the groom should be able to dress according to her personality and comfort. \n\n### Dress Shopping Is Bonding Time\n\nIn today’s culture, mothers of the bride and groom often go dress shopping together and view it as an opportunity to bond and get to know one another better. Other moms might shop with the bride and bridesmaids as well, opting to make it a big gal’s day complete with a fancy lunch or dinner. This not only helps everyone get to know each other better, but also helps ensure that everyone looks great and dresses don’t clash. \n\n## Wedding Etiquette for Stepmoms of the Groom\n\nIf the groom’s family is a blended family, it can sometimes get complicated. The mother of the bride is only obliged to inform the mother of the groom about her wedding attire. Stepmothers, on the other hand, are the groom’s responsibility. It’s up to him to give her the required information, so that she can dress appropriately. \n\nOf course, this may be different in every family, because it depends on how close the groom is with his stepmother. If she’s considered a close family member and you plan to seat her in front with other family members, then she should choose her outfit in keeping with the colors and theme of the rest of the wedding party and family. However, if the two are not close and she is considered merely a guest, then she will be seated with guests and should have full freedom to dress however she likes (assuming it’s wedding appropriate!). There’s really no need for her attire to match the immediate family or wedding party—unless she just wants to.\n\n## Color Dos and Don’ts\n\n### Dos\n\nThere’s no end to the color palettes and wedding themes a bride might choose from. Depending on the theme, many mothers of the groom favor colors like:\n\n- Blues\n- Blushes\n- Mauves\n- Lavenders\n- Mint Green\n- Peach\n\nIf your wedding is a formal one, some mothers of the groom might prefer to wear shades of gold, dark silver, or even black. Other darker colors that might be worn include shades of :\n\n- Navy\n- Green\n- Purple\n- Red\n\n### Don’ts\n\nRemember, it’s a big fashion faux pas for someone in the immediate family or wedding party to wear white or any variation thereof. Even neutral colors like cream or beige are against dress code. \n\nOf course, some brides might not mind; some may even want their bridal party in white. When in doubt, though, it’s best to err on the side of caution. \n\n## Wedding Attire Styles for the Mother of the Groom\n\nIt’s important to consider age, body shape, and the time of year when deciding on a dress style for the mother of the groom.\n\n### Body Shape\n\nDifferent dress shapes flatter different body types:\n\n- Someone who is wider at the shoulder and narrower at the hips, like an inverted triangle, might look best in V-necklines and A-line skirts, with a nipped waist to create a shapely silhouette.\n- Someone with wider hips should focus on accentuating the top of her body with detailing or an off-the-shoulder neckline, along with fit and flare dress styles. \n- Someone with an hourglass figure should avoid baggy and loose dresses, or run the risk of looking frumpy.\n- Someone with a rectangle body shape might consider more form-fitting dresses.\n\nHowever, remember that these are just tips and guidelines. It’s more important to make sure that whatever style of dress the mother of the groom wears, she feels comfortable and attractive. \n\n### Time of Year\n\nThe mother of the groom should feel comfortable through the wedding ceremony and reception. That’s why it’s important to consider the season and whether or not the venue is indoor or outdoor when choosing a dress. For example, the mother of the bride can get away with wearing a casual sundress for an outdoor, summer beach wedding, but should wear a formal dress for an indoor, black-tie affair. \n\nDuring colder months, dresses can be accessorized with shawls, faux fur, and shrugs. Tailored jackets are another option that look great and help keep the groom’s mom toasty and warm. Also, if it’s simply too cold for a dress, pantsuits can be a good option to keep the legs covered. \n\nDepending on where you live, spring is typically warm, which means she could wear tea-length and cocktail dresses and be perfectly comfortable. Summer is also a great season for tea-length dresses. \n\n### Age-Appropriate\n\nRemember, there is such a thing as too sexy. The mother of the groom should avoid wearing anything that’s overtly sexy, such as deep necklines with cleavage or skirts that flash the thigh. If you know that the mother of the groom tends to dress a little on the risqué side, there’s nothing wrong with asking her to wear something that’s age-appropriate. \n\n![Mother of the Groom Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3ym2V6NZrPUABfEbT0eRIZ/9f244b1d9574d64e93c28a840b42a985/inline_stocksy.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Stocksy\n\n## Don’t Forget Accessories\n\nNo outfit is complete without matching accessories. For a mother of the groom, accessories might include: \n\n- Small clutch purse\n- Medium tote purse\n- Stylish hat or headband\n- Pretty necklace and earrings\n- Bangle bracelets\n\nWhatever accessories she wears, it should be something that complements her wedding attire and highlights her own unique style without taking attention away from you. \n\nIf the mother of the groom is uncomfortable with the neckline or sleeves of her chosen wedding attire, she could always add a trendy scarf or shawl. This does double duty by covering her up more and accessorizing her look. \n\nWedding attire for the mother of the groom really isn’t that complicated. Once there’s a theme, color palette, and venue in place, she’ll be able to pick just the right dress.\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Garden wedding attire blends comfort and style with light fabrics and floral touches. 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"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/","tldr":"__Inside this article:__\n- What is the average wedding dress cost in 2025?\n- What does the average wedding dress cost?\n- How much should you spend on a wedding dress?\n- Average cost of wedding dress alterations\n- How much does a custom wedding dress cost?\n- Four factors that affect the cost of a wedding dress\n- How to save money on your wedding dress","body":"__TLDR__\n- Dresses fall into the $1,500-$2,500 range, but finding your dream wedding gown could cost more (or less) depending.\n- If you're on a strict budget, consider shopping at sample sales and trunk shows at your local bridal boutique.\n- Also, don't forget to factor in the cost of wedding dress alterations, which can add a significant amount.\n\nChoosing a wedding dress can be one of the most exciting parts of wedding planning. Whether you’ve fantasized about your dream wedding gown for years or haven’t yet [thought about your style](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what's-your-wedding-dress-style), you’re likely wondering, \"How much are wedding dresses, anyway?\"\n\nSo, to first answer the question about how much do wedding dresses cost: Today’s average cost of wedding dresses is between $1,500 - $2,500. However, the truth is that wedding dress costs vary wildly based on factors like the designer, fabric, and other key elements. If you have your eye on an Oscar de la Renta designer dress, it'll have a bigger price tag.\n\nIf that cost of a wedding dress number seems high, don’t worry. It’s more than possible to find a dress you love on a smaller budget. Once you understand what factors impact the cost of a dress, you’ll be able to narrow down what to look for and what to avoid when you start shopping.\n\nFrom the average wedding dress cost in 2025 to the average price of alterations, read on for everything you need to know about wedding dress costs.\n\n## What is the average wedding dress cost in 2025? \n\nAccording to a real weddings study, the average price of a wedding dress in 2025 is [$1,500 to $2,500](https://fash.com/costs/wedding-dress-cost). The average American wedding dress cost from a large retailer like David's Bridal starts at $500. A boutique dress costs around $2000+, and a designer/custom dress usually starts at $5,000. Some dresses cost $100 or less. Note: those are [pre-alterations prices](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-do-wedding-dress-alterations-cost).\n\n![Wedding Dress Costs](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4eWFohjCPq4s3jJY32BhI8/199418ebf5acd9c6a5eb2eb9709a59d6/Wedding_Dress_Costs.jpg) Photo by [Lex & Trev Photo + Film](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/lex-trev-photo-film--2)\n\n## What does the average wedding dress cost? \nAccording to a recent [wedding dress Reddit thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingdress/comments/184qza5/how_much_did_you_spend_on_your_dress/), the average cost of a wedding gown varies greatly depending on where folks shopped. Buying a gown at a trunk sale brings a lower price point than at a bridal boutique. Don't worry—our Zola experts will clue you in on how to save money. \n\nSo, is $2000 a good budget for a wedding dress? In our estimation, yes, but it all depends on your goals. That number is right in the middle of our average 2025 wedding dress budget. However, you also need to factor in alterations. The average is around $500, but that depends on how detailed your gown is and how many alterations you need.\n\n## How much should you spend on a wedding dress? \n\nYour wedding dress is just one of many expenses in [your wedding budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-set-your-wedding-budget). Be sure you’re clear on how much you’ll spend in other areas like your venue, florals, and vendors. Factor in [additional outfits](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/buying-two-wedding-dresses-101) for pre-wedding activities like your rehearsal dinner before you settle on a wedding dress budget.\n\nDon’t let your opinions be swayed too much by the average wedding dress cost. How much you should spend on a wedding dress depends entirely on your personal tastes and priorities. You might decide to buy a dress for $200 because you’d rather spend more on elaborate floral arrangements—or maybe you’re willing to spend as much as necessary if it means achieving your dream look.\n\nAside from considering other wedding expenses over a dress, decide if you might regret shelling out thousands for your dream dress after the big day. Whatever the answer might be, the key is knowing your priorities and adjusting your budget accordingly.\n\nDon’t forget to give some thought to your shoes, jewelry, and [accessories](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-accessories-bridal-look), all of which help tie your final look together—head over to Zola’s online [bridal boutique](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/bridal-boutique) for inspiration! So, how much should you pay for a wedding dress? It depends on your priorities and overall budget.\n\n__Expert Advice:__ Use Zola’s free [Wedding Budget Planner & Calculator](https://www.zola.com/wedding-budget) to make keeping track of your wedding expenses easy.\n\n## Average cost of wedding dress alterations \n\nMost alterations cost $75 to $300 and upward, but it depends on how labor-intensive your alterations are. Minor adjustments like taking a few inches off the hemline could cost less than $100. Major alterations like sleeves, new necklines, removing boning, or adding a [bustle](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-bustle-a-wedding-dress) can cost $300+.\n\nThe more layers your dress has, or the more intricate its design (beading, lace), the more expensive your alterations will be, even for “simple” adjustments like a hem. If you’re trying on a dress that you know will need big changes, it’s worth asking for a quote before you say yes.\n\nTo ensure your dress fits perfectly, plan on alterations, no matter how pricey your dress is. \n\nRead our [Ultimate Guide to Wedding Dress Alterations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-dress-alterations) for more.\n\n![Wedding Dress Costs 2025](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6V2CuzQbyzTxIFgZiWt3Ie/1879324fbbace6722f29dd94d9493d83/Wedding_Dress_Costs_2025.jpg) Photo by [Life Captured by CLN](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/life-captured-by-cln-photography)\n\n## How much does a custom wedding dress cost? \n\nThis is likely to be the most expensive option—the cost of a custom wedding dress can range anywhere from $6,000 to well over $10,000. Designing a custom gown can be ideal if you have a very specific vision in mind.\n\nIn general, the more couture the designer you go with, the more expensive the wedding dress price will be. However, you may be able to get a deep discount if you shop at a sample sale or trunk show. Ask your local bridal stores when they’re having these events if you’re interested in sample dresses.\n\nEven big-name designers have started making less expensive lines of their dresses for big-box bridal stores, so you may be able to find your dream wedding gown by shopping around.\n\n## Four factors that affect the cost of a wedding dress \n\nWedding dress prices first and foremost depend on whether you choose a [designer gown](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/7-black-wedding-designers-to-know) or a dress off the rack from a major retailer. Designer dress prices will always be more than manufactured dress prices, especially if you go for a handmade or custom-made gown. So, when you’re looking into the average cost of a wedding dress, keep this in mind. \n\nEven if you don’t choose a designer dress, styles with extensive embellishments (like lots of beading or embroidery) or luxurious fabrics like charmeuse will hike up the price. How much to spend on [wedding dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/tips-wedding-dress-shopping) depends on your style and budget, taking the below into consideration. \n\n### Fabric and materials\n\n![wedding-dress-fabrics](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/Oy7REHNucRp1zeBvffyxp/9a3f945bc90c582161bc7fefbb8228cd/wedding-dress-fabrics.png)\n\nThe fabric of your dress significantly impacts overall costs. Expect to pay more for luxury fabrics like silk, hand-embroidered lace, charmeuse, and certain types of satin.\n\nIf you’re after a lower price tag, consider synthetic or blended fabrics like polyester, chiffon, rayon, or crepe. If seeing “wedding dress” and “polyester” in the same sentence makes you cringe, hear us out—poly-blend fabrics have come a long way over the years, and you can find options that feel high-end for less.\n\n### The designer\n\nIf you’re eyeing a luxury designer gown, be prepared to spend significantly more—not only because designer dresses are typically made with higher-quality materials, but also because of the designer name itself. \n\nDresses by designers like Oscar de la Renta, Dolce & Gabbana, Elie Saab, and Vera Wang will all come with a higher price tag. For example, the starting price for the Vera Wang Bridal Collection is $2,900, and the Luxe Collection starts at $6,900.\n\n### Embellishments\n\nEmbellishments like hand-embroidered lace, intricate beading, and appliqués will all hike up the cost of your wedding dress due to the additional time and labor required to create them. \n\nMore elaborate constructions like fully boned corsets will also cost more—in general, the more detailed the fabric, [silhouette](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-dress-silhouettes), and embellishments, the higher the price will be compared to [simpler wedding dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/simple-wedding-dresses-that-are-elegant-and-timeless).\n\nIf you’re aiming to keep costs down, opt for gowns with a simple silhouette or find alternative ways to add visual interest to your look—you can easily do this with your jewelry, but also consider elements like a delicate belt or sash or an [eye-catching veil](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/14-wedding-veil-styles-and-lengths-every-bride-should-know).\n\n__Expert Advice:__ Opting for a simpler silhouette won’t always ensure a lower price tag—a minimal dress design made with high-end fabric will still cost more than more affordable fabrics.\n\n### Accessories\n\n![wedding-dress-cost-impacts](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/EhPCvrM1I1Yk67rf9KCF3/5d2f04880c2d65808b7da580754f8f99/wedding-dress-cost-impacts.png)\n\nThe dress itself may be the main event, but accessories like your jewelry, shoes, and a veil ([if you’re wearing one](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/veil-or-no-veil-the-pros-and-cons-of-each)) should all be factored into your overall cost. Plan to spend at least $200, but costs can easily climb to $500+ depending on the items you choose.\n\nDon’t think you have to buy your wedding accessories from a bridal store. Shop around at your favorite non-bridal stores to find similar pieces without the typical wedding mark-up. \n\n## How to save money on your wedding dress \n\n![save-on-wedding-dress](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1HERLQUQmzDPBf1wDFx3qJ/1eff092a23b5daeb67469b46df970757/save-on-wedding-dress.png)\n\nDon’t be fooled into thinking you can’t find your dream dress on a lower budget. There are countless retailers with affordable wedding dress options that can help you save money on your wedding dress budget.\n\nDavid’s Bridal, Azazie, and BHLDN all offer gowns for lower price points, and even big-box retailers like ASOS, Lulus, Reformation, and Revolve have dedicated bridal collections where you can find a stunning look for less.\n\nThere are plenty of other ways to save on your wedding dress cost if you’re willing to think outside the box:\n\n- __Shop bridesmaid, reception, and non-bridal formalwear collections:__ There’s no rule that says your wedding dress has to come from a bridal collection. Look for white or ivory dresses in alternative collections—you might be surprised!\n- __Opt for a rental:__ Find a splurge-worthy look for less by renting your dress on sites like [Rent the Runway](https://www.renttherunway.com/pdp/shop/bride/products?filters%5Bzip_code%5D=77304&filters%5Bduration%5D=4&filters%5BcanonicalSizes%5D%5B%5D=4&filters%5BunlimitedMinAvailability%5D=0&sort=recommended#1703271475367).\n- __Shop sample sales:__ Sample designer gowns have been tried on or gently used, but never actually purchased—they’re usually a fraction of the cost compared to other options you’ll find in a bridal boutique.\n- __Be strategic with seasons:__ You’ll pay more for a dress if you shop during the peak wedding seasons (spring and fall)—instead, shop during the summer and winter months to score discounted dresses from the previous season. This is one of the best ways to pay less than the average wedding dress cost.\n- __Shop secondhand:__ Find gently used designer dresses at a fraction of the cost (we’re talking up to 90% off!) on sites like [Stillwhite](https://www.stillwhite.com/), [Once Wed](https://www.oncewed.com/), and [Nearly Newlywed](https://www.nearlynewlywed.com/).\n\nAs much as it may be tempting, don’t try on dresses that are above your budget. Wearing a higher priced gown on your wedding day may feel good, but \n\nWhile knowing the average wedding dress cost is a helpful baseline, you can find your dream dress for much less (or more) than the national average. \n\nUltimately, how much you spend on finding your dream wedding dress is up to you. [Start shopping early](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-soon-should-i-buy-my-wedding-dress) to learn what style you’re after and narrow down your priorities. 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