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Dos and Don'ts of Wedding Guest Fashion

With all those invites on your fridge, you’re probably asking yourself a few questions: what do you want for dinner in four months? Do you have a plus one? And most importantly, what are you going to wear? Here are a few wedding guest fashion tips, do's, and don’ts to ensure you are faux pas-free and win the award for best dressed.

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What to Wear to a Formal Wedding in the Mountains

From semi-formal to formal to black-tie, we break down each dress code for your mountain destination wedding. Read on for inspiration here.

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What Does a Flower Girl Wear?

From lace and tulle to flower crowns, here’s your guide to flower girl dresses and accessories from Zola, your wedding expert.

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What to Wear on Your Wedding Night—Based on Your Personality

What you wear on your wedding night should be whatever you feel most comfortable in. Whether you want to feel sexy or comfortable, there's a look to you in our guide to wedding night lingerie.

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What to Wear to a Beach Wedding

Attending a beach wedding and have no idea what to wear? From daytime to beach formal, we’ve got you covered. Read our guide here.

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What Color Should the Mother of the Bride Dress Be?

Picking the right color for your mother of the bride dress is about more than what’s flattering on you. Learn more about the dos and don’ts of mother of the bride dresses.

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What to Wear to an Engagement Party: Dress Codes and Outfit Ideas

Don’t know what to wear to an engagement party? Our experts can help. Read on to find out now.

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What to Look For in Fall Bridesmaid Dresses

Need to know what to look for when shopping for fall wedding bridesmaid dresses? Check out our comprehensive guide today!

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How to Choose a Tie for Groomsmen: A Step-by-Step Guide

Find out everything you need to know about choosing groomsmen ties for your special day.

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Cocktail Wedding Attire Guide

Going to a wedding where the dress code is cocktail attire? We have come up with a guide to help you determine what fashion qualifies for this occasion. Read on for outfit inspo.

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Cocktail Attire for Men: Dress Code Guide

Master cocktail attire for men with style tips and outfit ideas. Elevate your look for formal events with our fashion guide for the modern gentleman.

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How Much Do Bridesmaid Dresses Cost on Average?

Looking for bridesmaid dresses for your special day? Get familiar with the average cost of a bridesmaid dress, and your options to fit your budget. Read on.

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\n \n \n\n\n\n\n\n\n \n ","subtopicPage":{"articles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"dos-donts-wedding-guest-fashion","title":"Dos and Don'ts of Wedding Guest Fashion","excerpt":"With all those invites on your fridge, you’re probably asking yourself a few questions: what do you want for dinner in four months? Do you have a plus one? And most importantly, what are you going to wear? 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Here are a few critical do and don’ts to ensure you are faux pas-free and win the award for best dressed.\n\nRead on for our rules of women’s wedding guest fashion—so you’ll never again have to ask yourself before you walk out the door, “Can I get away with this?”\n\n![279444](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7I4gMNziRnzNB306ba4tU6/b2d0a895cf947dac6a6e02d2c2515c71/279444.jpg)\n\n*Photo Credit || [Sean Money + Elizabeth Fay](https://www.zola.com/inspire/search)*\n\n## Fashion Don’ts\n. . . . . . . . . .\n\nLet’s start with the wedding guest fashion faux pas that you want to avoid for the next shindig on your agenda. We’re starting with don’ts because, frankly, they’re more fun!\n\n- DON’T wear white, cream, or ivory (unless the couple has specifically asked guests to wear white). You should already know this, so let’s move on.\n\n- DON’T sport anything too short, too tight, too flashy, or too revealing. The golden rule here, ladies, is that if you would wear the dress out to the bar on a Friday night, you cannot throw it on the next day for a Saturday afternoon wedding. All eyes should be on the bride during the wedding; you don’t want to distract from that with your inappropriate display of skin. And don’t think you’re fooling anyone just because you threw on a cardigan.\n\n- DON’T forget to layer up. Be mindful of the weather (and the A/C!) and plan accordingly by bringing something to keep goosebumps at bay. This does not mean you should steal your date’s three-sizes-too-big suit jacket. You’ll be so grateful for that complementary pashmina or, better yet, a tailored blazer for a chic look when it starts to get a bit chilly after the sun sets.\n\n- DON’T wear jeans, unless you’re sure that this wedding is an extremely casual affair (as in, the groom is wearing jeans). We get it, some of us just aren’t dress-up people, but that in no way shape or form means you can wear jeans to a wedding. Not even your favorite dark wash, skinny cut, designer jeans. That doesn’t mean you have to stray from pants though! A tailored trouser is a solid alternative to denim.\n\n- DON’T try out a crazy print. That means step away from the technicolor animal print you’ve been trying to work into your rotation and instead hop into less eye-catching print that won’t dominate attention in group photographs.\n\n![612203](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5u4vXb5zzt1ZwJUZ0asof7/27923e8fc50b208ce930ac0880f6423a/612203.jpg)\n\n*Photo Credit || [Aaron and Jillian Photography](https://www.zola.com/inspire/search)*\n\n![279554](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/ROU5YUKxWxaZEYZKYUCtt/081b71602ac608fb0ba2922d77dcbe6a/279554.jpg)\n\n*Photo Credit || [Sean Money + Elizabeth Fay](https://www.zola.com/inspire/search)*\n\n## Fashion Dos\n. . . . . . . . . .\n\nFollow these dressing dos, and you’ll have no problem passing the test on wedding guest fashion.\n\n- DO read the wedding invitation. First things first: read the invitation, of course! If the bride specifies that she’s having a black-tie affair, you’ll need to wear either a floor-length gown or at least something that comes below the knees. On the other hand, if the invite says “beach casual,” a colorful sundress is perfect. If the invite says “cocktail attire,” wear a cocktail dress. If the couple has a [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website), you might also find this information there, and probably more in depth. If you’re really stuck on the dress code, don’t be afraid to reach out to the couple (well in advance of the big day) and ask what they have in mind.\n- DO attempt to find out the color of the bridesmaids’ dresses. You don’t want to look like a bridesmaid when you’re not one, so if it’s possible for you to find out what color the bridesmaids are sporting, by all means, do—and then choose a color that isn’t similar.\n- DO think of your footwear. You were asked to share in the couple’s celebration on their wedding day, not hired to aerate the grass. Wearing high heels to a garden or beach wedding is just seriously impractical. How can you enjoy the couple’s signature martini when your heels are constantly sinking into the ground? Instead, opt for a wedge or a stylish flat for outdoor weddings.\n- DO choose a bold accessory. If you have a summer packed with weddings, you may want to consider investing in an impeccably cut, solid-colored dress that you can wear to each soiree by just switching out the accessories. Go for a bold statement necklace, an over-sized envelope clutch, or a funky shoe. Little details like this will make sure you feel trendy and fashionable without breaking the bank.\n\n![612173](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1p9moN788dCfAPpsFdbna5/f88deb27ef0683cbd553dbaf56f22b44/612173.jpg)\n\n*Photo Credit || [Aaron and Jillian Photography](https://www.zola.com/inspire/search)*\n\n![279552](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/NnEuknVqaAKfVky0VWJFp/10dcdebd7a220b6780d5fde585e275c8/279552.jpg)\n\n*Photo Credit || [Sean Money + Elizabeth Fay](https://www.zola.com/inspire/search)*\n\n## For the Guys\n. . . . . . . . . .\n\nReal quick, some wedding guest fashion tips for the guys:\n\n- Unless the invitation says “black-tie” or “formal,” men should opt for suits over tuxes. Just as ladies don’t wear white so as to not upstage the bride, a man shouldn’t wear a tux for fear of upstaging the groom.\n- “Semi-formal” means a suit, either dark or light; only consider wearing khakis if the invitations says something along the lines of “casual.”\n- Rule of thumb: wear a tie. If you find out you’re overdressed, you can always take it off.\n- Short sleeve dress shirts: just don’t.\n- Don’t wear sneakers, no matter what the attire calls for.\n\nAnd there you have it! Now go forth and be fashionable. \n","tag":"General etiquette","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"All of your bridal shower gifts questions answered. 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Find the perfect look for every dress code and celebration.","title":"Wedding Guest Attire: A Guide to Every Dress Code","slug":"what-to-wear-to-a-wedding","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5bgD1lwZNmIWCwyoiQgUI/abb4b34d02674b500f4edb610fb1eea6/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"wedding guests laughing with bride at wedding receptions"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Don't know what to wear to a black-tie wedding? Discover essential do's and don'ts for a flawless, elegant look. 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Read on for inspiration here.","author":"Rachel Varina","publishedAt":"2021-01-22T20:27:02.821Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/ISLNeh3ovWcXCwp66xg7P/86cd489ea833cef492ac0dd60cd39b88/Hero_RusticColoradoNuptialswithStunningScenicView_DayleneWilsonPhotography.jpg","altText":"Formal Wedding in the Mountains Attire"},"heroCredit":"Daylene Wilson Photography","body":"A wedding in the mountains is one of the most magical places to say “I do.” If you’re attending a ceremony amongst the peaks, there’s a good chance that you’re trying to figure out how to dress for the special event. While there are different levels of formality, there's also the added question of whether or not the couple wants you to lean into the mountainous vibe and dress on-trend. We’re breaking it all down so that you can figure out what to wear to a formal wedding in the mountains with absolute confidence.\n\n## If the Invitation Just Says “Semi-Formal”\n\n![Zola: What to Wear to a Formal Wedding in the Mountains](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3O00Tq8XlneMhHade2iykJ/8ea63fb0da949a4df50ab2f91ad8f51d/inline_the_kents_photography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // The Kents Photography\n\nA semi-formal wedding dress code means that you want your outfit to fall somewhere between formal and casual, such as what you would wear to church, a nice dinner, or a chic job interview. The real determination here will be the time of the event: Steer toward darker colors for evening ceremonies and lighter colors and fabrics for daytime events. Additionally, make sure to keep an eye on the temperature, since [mountain wedding venues](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/which-type-of-wedding-venue-is-right-for-you) can be chillier than those at the base.\n\n*For Those Who Prefer a Masculine Style:*\nDepending on how formal the wedding venue looks (take a peek at the website to get an idea), you can wear either a suit and tie or a dinner jacket and dress pants. For shoes, you can wear dress shoes, dressy loafers, or oxfords. Items such as shorts, jeans, sneakers, short-sleeved shirts, polos, and t-shirts aren’t semi-formal (no matter how nice you think they look), so opt for something a little more elegant for the event. \n\n*For Those Who Prefer a Feminine Style:*\nA cocktail dress, nice suit or jumpsuit, or a dress skirt and top work well for semi-formal events. Just remember that there’s a chance that you might be walking in grass or uneven terrain, so check out the venue online and choose your shoes accordingly.\n\n## If the Invitation Says “Mountain Semi-Formal”\nJust like traditional semi-formal, a “mountain semi-formal” dress code means that the couple wants you to get dressed up as you would for a nice event, but lean into the mountain theme a bit, too. While you still want to avoid items such as sneakers, jeans, and tees, the couple is okay with you adding a special touch to your look, so consider adding in some on-themed elements or colors for the [mountain themed wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/outdoor-wedding-ideas-for-fall). \n\n*For Those Who Prefer a Masculine Style:*\nA suit and tie or a dinner jacket and dress pants are still appropriate for a mountain semi-formal event, but consider adding a touch of the theme to your look. Earthy tones such as tans, browns, greens, and blues are great ways to give a subtle nod to the ambiance. Or, for more flair, consider a button-down shirt with a pine tree or snowflake pattern worn under a dinner jacket, paired with some nice boots.\n\n*For Those Who Prefer a Feminine Style:*\nWhile a cocktail dress, skirt, and top, or jumpsuit are still the base of your look, think of ways that you can lean into the mountain feel. Consider a nice pair of booties, a [mountain wedding dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/simple-wedding-dresses-that-are-elegant-and-timeless), jacket with faux fur, flowy fabrics, turquoise jewelry, or a nice, knit sweater (especially if you get chilly as the sun goes down). \n\n## If the Invitation Just Says “Formal”\nFormal or “black-tie optional” means just that: The event is formal, and while it’s appropriate to dress black-tie, it’s not necessary. If you’re unsure which way to lean, chat with other guests and look up photos of the venue to gauge how fancy the event might be. When in doubt, always dress the more formal option because you can easily “dress down” by taking off a bow tie, letting down your hair, or leaving your jacket on a chair. \n\nSince the couple didn’t indicate that they want you to lean into the mountain theme, dress as you would for any other formal event, but keep an eye on things like the weather and the terrain to make sure that you’re comfortable. \n\n*For Those Who Prefer a Masculine Style:*\nA dark suit and tie, or a tuxedo (if you want to go more formal) with dress shoes. There’s no grey area here.\n\n*For Those Who Prefer a Feminine Style:*\nA long evening dress (but not a ball gown), a formal cocktail dress, or a dressy suit.\n\n## If the Invitation Says “Mountain Formal”\nIf the couple indicated that they’d like guests to have fun with the “mountain” concept in their looks, feel free to get creative, as long as you stick within the formal guidelines (and don’t go too flashy, so you don’t take away from the couple). After checking out the venue online, build your look with rich or crisp hues (depending on the time of day) and subtle, yet creative mountain elements.\n\n*For Those Who Prefer a Masculine Style:*\nIf you want to go the dressy route, stay traditional with a tux and dress shoes. If you want to play up the mountain theme, pair a dark or chic, Earthy-toned shirt under your suit jacket with dressy boots. Consider adding a tie and matching pocket square with a subtle nature pattern on it for an extra pop of pizzazz.\n\n*For Those Who Prefer a Feminine Style:*\nWhile you still want to rock an evening dress, formal cocktail dress, or a dressy suit, look for colors and fabrics that play up the natural vibe. \n\n## If the Invitation Just Says “Black-Tie”\nOne of the most formal dress codes, black-tie is just under white-tie in terms of elegance. The event usually takes place in the evening, but even if not, the dress code indicates that you should dress *almost* as formally as possible. \n\n*For Those Who Prefer a Masculine Style:*\nA black-tie wedding means one thing and one thing only: You need to wear a tuxedo. A black bow tie and patent leather shoes are also suggested, but the cummerbund is optional. If you don’t have a tux (and can’t rent one), a black suit and black tie will work in a pinch. \n\n*For Those Who Prefer a Feminine Style:*\nAn evening gown or your nicest, chicest cocktail dress or jumpsuit are appropriate, as are heels. While you don’t need to wear black, a lot of people will. Take a look at the venue to determine whether you can get away with stilettos or need something with a thicker heel. Additionally, consider bringing a faux-fur shrug or sophisticated jacket, in case the mountain air gives you a chill. \n\n## If the Invitation Says “Mountain Black-Tie”\nWhile the “black-tie” portion of the dress code indicates that you should dress majorly formal, the “mountain” part might be throwing you for a loop. Unlike less formal events, there’s less room here to be creative and play up the mountain feel, but with some precision and thought, you can easily pull it off. \n\n*For Those Who Prefer a Masculine Style:*\nWhile you still need to wear a tuxedo, the fact that the couple included a mountain component means that you have a few more options surrounding what tuxedo to don. While you still need to stick to dark colors, you can consider a dark blue, green, or grey tux, or select one with a slight pattern on the lapel. Additionally, you can wear nice, formal dark boots, a patterned bow tie, and a chic scarf if the ceremony is outdoors. \n\n*For Those Who Prefer a Feminine Style:*\nAn evening gown, your dressiest jumpsuit, or chicest cocktail dress are still appropriate, but consider selecting boho-style pieces made from soft, flowing fabrics in Earthy tones or with subtle nature patterns, such as leaves or touches of lace and fringe.\n\n### If the Invitation Just Says “White-Tie”\nThe most formal of all the dress codes, this is the formality reserved for events such as red carpet awards and dinners at the White House. If you were ever to bring your A-game, this is the time.\n\n*For Those Who Prefer a Masculine Style:*\nA long, black tailcoat, a white pique vest, a bow tie, opera pumps, and (optional) white gloves. \n\n*For Those Who Prefer a Feminine Style:*\nIf you ever dreamed of rocking a formal, full-length ball gown, this is your time to shine. Go all out with jewelry, formal hairstyles, heels, and full-glam makeup for the perfect white-tie look. Don’t forget a long, formal evening coat in case it gets cold on the mountain. \n\n### If the Invitation Says “Mountain White-Tie”\nIf the couple wants you to play up the “mountain” aspect at their white-tie wedding, make sure to still stick within the extremely formal dress code to ensure that you’re at their preferred level of formality.\n\n*For Those Who Prefer a Masculine Style:*\nA long, black tailcoat, a white pique vest, and a bow tie are still “musts,” but there are a few small ways you can add in some fun elements. Opt for dress shoes instead of opera pumps and wear a pair of festive socks or don a scarf as you would with a tuxedo for a chic take.\n\n*For Those Who Prefer a Feminine Style:*\nConsider a formal ball gown made from a flowy fabric in rich, Earthy tones (just nothing too light that could run the risk of looking white). Think accents such as lace, appliques, fringe, tiers, and ruffles. For an extra touch of whimsy, select a hairstyle that includes braids to complete your elegant boho look.\n\n![Zola: What to Wear to a Formal Wedding in the Mountains](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/16hPyKtjShvtyIJc7H8N09/d1403e8e4a82f2b3eac450386b772182/inline_onelove_photography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Onelove Photography\n\nWhether you’re attending a [mountain destination wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-best-wedding-destinations) or just a celebration amongst the peaks, knowing what to wear so that you feel comfortable and look your best is important. As long as you pay attention to the wording and adhere to the formality, you’ll be able to party with confidence as you celebrate the happy couple. \n","tag":"How To","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_WeddingBoutique"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Finding the perfect wedding venue can be a challenge. 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Check out Zola's guide to beautiful, simple wedding dresses.","title":"Simple Wedding Dresses That Are Elegant and Timeless","slug":"simple-wedding-dresses-that-are-elegant-and-timeless","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2SjlWOaxslfaqQ1FB2Pzmr/3422d8d0544ed3158ea19873b4540f3d/Hero_New__12_.jpg","altText":"couple kisses at wedding "},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Explore Wedding Boutique","url":"https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:40:00.790Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"what-does-a-flower-girl-wear","title":"What Does a Flower Girl Wear?","excerpt":"From lace and tulle to flower crowns, here’s your guide to flower girl dresses and accessories from Zola, your wedding expert. ","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2021-11-07T02:48:45.587Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/26BDKsVkb2wq8bv6sKaZxn/d6414821fd0db03744f2523c1104b53c/Hero_ModernSpringWeddingatTheElysian_LaPinata.jpg","altText":"What Does a Flower Girl Wear?"},"heroCredit":"La Pinata","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- If you do opt for a flower girl, talk to their parents about what style and budget they’re comfortable with in terms of wedding attire. \n- Flower girls may wear a traditional white dress that resembles the bride’s or opt for something more modern, like a floral sundress or jumpsuit. \n- Sometime shortly before or after the wedding, express your appreciation by sending the flower girl and their family a thank you note or a small gift.","body":"When planning a wedding, you’ll have to think about what kind of floral arrangements you’ll want for your venue and wedding party, but you should also think about who you might want to waltz down the aisle sprinkling soft petals along the way. Flower girls have been a part of wedding traditions for centuries, and if you plan to carry on the custom, there are a few things you’ll want to work out before your special day: \n\nHow do you choose a flower girl? What duties are they responsible for fulfilling? What are they expected to wear? We’ll walk you through everything you need to know about flower girls, including outfits, origins, and etiquette.\n\n## What is a Flower Girl? \nMany of us know flower girls as the adorable little girls who walk, crawl, or sometimes zig-zag down the aisle at a wedding, tossing petals to the best of their ability. It’s nearly impossible not to let out an audible “aww” as they strut in—they may even set off the waterworks long before the vow exchange begins. \n\nSometimes we’re so captivated by the cuteness of the little flower girl that we forget about what her responsibilities actually are. Here are the details: \n\n- Flower girls are often closely related to the soon-to-be-married couple. They can be a daughter, niece, goddaughter, cousin, or the daughter of a close family friend. When choosing your flower girl, talk with their parents about what’s expected to see if they’re up for the job. \n\n- Flower girls can range in age, but most tend to be between the ages of three and eight. If you have a close relative who’s a bit older but would still like them to be a part of the bridal party, consider including them as a junior bridesmaid or person of honor. \n\n- Wedding processions are bound to differ from one to the next, but traditionally, the flower girl enters just before the bride and just after the ring bearer. \n\n- Most flower girls decorate the aisles with precisely what their titles suggest: flowers. However, if you prefer to use something other than florals, consider lining the aisle with these alternatives instead:\n\n- Dried lavender\n- Feathers\n- Pinecones\n- Autumn leaves\n- Multicolored confetti or glitter\n\n## Outfitting the Flower Girl: What to Wear \nYou and your partner are bound to look absolutely wonderful at your wedding, but all eyes will certainly be on the flower girl, too. Whether they’re coming down the aisle in a wagon or accompanied by a sharply-dressed ring bearer, there’s just something so special about a team of petal-tossing tots helping to welcome the spouses-to-be to the altar. \n\nSince no one will want to miss such an adorable sight, it’s important to make sure your flower is outfitted properly. Consider the style you’ve chosen for your wedding day and adapt the flower girl’s attire accordingly. Need some outfit inspiration for the flower girl’s dress? Consider these elegant ensembles:\n\n- __Traditional Trappings:__ Wearing white to a wedding is a major faux pas, in most cases. The flower girl, however, may be one of the few attendees that gets a pass in this area. In a traditional ceremony, the flower girl dresses typically resemble the bride’s gown. Whether you opt for something with cream-colored tulle or powdery satin, make sure to find something your flower girl will be comfortable in throughout the day. \n\n- __Jazzy Jumpsuit:__ Speaking of comfort, flower girls who want to frolic and dance the day away might be more at home in a jumpsuit. It may break a bit from tradition, but it’s the ideal aesthetic for a modern wedding—and it can be easily dressed up with a few accessories and accents. Plus, it’s a party outfit that can easily be worn again and again. \n\n- __Floral and Bohemian:__ If you’re celebrating in a lush garden space or hosting a tropical destination wedding, consider dressing your flower girl in something light, flowy, and floral. Instead of a solid color, opt for a cute flower girl dress with subtle peony or wildflower accents. Top the perfect flower girl dress off with a flower crown for an added bit of bohemian flair. \n\n- __Country Chic:__ If you’re exchanging vows in the countryside or with a rustic barn as your backdrop, match your flower girl’s outfit to the occasion. Choose a simple white or cream-colored party dress, but combine it with a pair of leather boots and a denim jacket. Or pair tiny overalls with lace pockets or crocheted knee patches and sparkly Mary Janes. It’s a look that’s both casual and chic. \n\nTalk to your flower girl’s parents to find out more about their budget and to see if they have any style preferences for their child. Otherwise, feel free to find creative ways of coordinating their attire with the rest of the wedding party. Don’t forget to use [Zola’s vendor search tool](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors) to find a photographer in your area. These outfits are meant to be captured and kept in a photo album for years to come. \n\n## Everything Else You Need to Know About Flower Girls \nBy now, you’ve settled on what your flower girl should wear and how they’ll pitch in to help make the day one to remember. You’re probably also aware, however, that weddings are all about details. Well, that and celebrating you and your partner’s once-in-a-lifetime love, of course. \n\nFor everything else you didn’t know you needed to know about flower girls, read on:\n\n- __Make Them Feel Welcome at the Reception:__ Flower girls play a key role in the success of your ceremony, and they should probably be on the invite list for your reception, too. Some couples, however, are keen on having a kid-free soiree. If that’s the case, consider saving a spot for them at the cocktail hour. This way, they’ll still feel like they’re part of the celebration. \n\n- __Include Them at the Rehearsal Dinner:__ Just as your flower girl should feel welcome at the reception, the same goes for the rehearsal dinner. They’ll need to attend the rehearsal, of course, in order to run through the details of the day with the whole group. Afterward, be sure the rehearsal dinner guest list includes not only the flower girl, but also their parents. If they’re able to attend, consider setting up some kid-friendly activities to keep them entertained throughout the night. \n\n- __Coordinate Where to Stand or Sit:__ Being a flower girl might not seem like hard work, but it is when you’re a little one. They spend most of the morning getting combed, curled, and coached for the main event. By the time they make it down the aisle, they’re probably overwhelmed and possibly ready for a nap. If your flower girl is just a toddler, arrange to have them sit with their parents after making their entrance. Otherwise, assign them a spot to stand alongside the rest of the wedding party. \n\n- __Feel Free to Have Multiple Flower Girls:__ If you have several young relatives or close family friends who you’d like to incorporate into your wedding day, there’s no one stopping you from having more than one flower girl. If you do decide to have multiple, however, make sure each one has their own responsibilities. Enlist a couple to line the aisle up and down with petals and a few others to blow bubbles or hold signs. However you choose to arrange your wedding processional, make sure you do it in a way in which everyone feels equally included. \n\n- __Don’t Feel Like You Need to Stick to Tradition:__ Flower girls can add an extra dose of cuteness to any wedding event, but if you’d rather not have one at all, that’s perfectly okay. Some couples who opt for a more modern wedding style might ditch the idea of having a flower girl entirely, or may even find an alternative and include their cat or dog in the ceremony instead.\n\n## Gift Ideas for Your Flower Girl \nYour flower girl is probably delighted to take part in your special day. As exciting as it may be, however, it’s still a lot of work for both them and their parents. From picking out and paying for a dress to rehearsing the entrance (maybe just a few times over), it’s a responsibility that most of your regular wedding attendees don’t have. \n\nSometime before or after the wedding, be sure to say thank you in a way that feels right for you and your partner. You don’t need to spend lavishly on gifts, but a simple note or small memento is a nice way to let them know that you appreciate the time and effort spent. Browse the [selection of thank you cards at Zola](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop) to find one that matches your wedding aesthetic or read on for a few simple gift ideas that any flower girl would love. \n\n- __A Small Hair Accessory:__ At some point before your nuptials, choose a hair accessory that the flower girl can pair with their wedding day outfit. Opt for a delicate crown for a more bohemian style or a simple barrette for a timeless look that your flower girl can wear over again. \n\n- __Jewelry to Match Their Outfit:__ Another gift option that not only shows how much you appreciate your flower girl, but also completes the look for the big day? A small piece of jewelry. Find a dainty bracelet or a necklace with a charm that could be worn even into adulthood. It’s something that will remind them of your wedding day for years to come. \n\n- __An Embroidered Handkerchief:__ One day, your flower girl may even decide to hold onto something from your wedding for their “something old” on their special day. If you’re handy with a needle and thread, turn a handkerchief into a DIY gift by sewing a simple pattern, their name, and your wedding date into one of the corners. Otherwise, entrust a local crafter with the task for a gift that’s truly memorable and unique. \n\n- __A Personalized Stuffed Animal:__ Find out what your flower girl’s favorite animal is and shop locally to find a stuffed animal you think they’ll love. Give it an extra personal touch by customizing it with their name, initials, and the date of your wedding. Whether they choose to snuggle up with it every night or display it on a shelf, it’ll be a gift that will always remind them of the special part they played in your ceremony. \n\n- __A Matching Robe:__ If you’re giving your wedding party matching robes to get ready in the morning of your ceremony, help the flower girl feel included by gifting them a kid-sized robe of their own. Whether you choose something silky and floral or plaid and plush, coordinate design and sizes to make sure there’s one that fits right for everyone. \n\n- __An Activity Kit:__ Pack a few different surprises into a personalized flower girl tote. The bag itself can be re-used for school, toys, or travel, and the contents inside could include activities to keep them busy throughout the wedding weekend. Include a flower-themed picture book, coloring books, and personalized crayons, for example. Add in a few sweets, and it’s sure to be a hit. \n\nAgain, don’t feel like you need to overextend your wedding budget, but try to find some way of showing your flower girl how much you appreciate their involvement in your special day. Talk to your partner about how much you’re comfortable spending, and decide on the best type of gift for your budget from there. \n\n## Bonus: The History of Flower Girls \nLong before the weddings of today, flower girls were an integral part of elite Greek and Roman ceremonies. Instead of flowers, ancient wedding guests would find them carrying baskets of things such as wheat, rosemary, or an assortment of grains, tossing them along the wedding aisle just before the bride’s entrance. \n\nCenturies ago, however, they were seen as a symbol of fertility that would bring blessings of a fruitful future for the married couple. Nowadays, flower girls are often chosen to take part in the wedding ceremony as a thoughtful way of including a close family member or friend. \n\n## Plan Your Dream Day With Zola\nWhether you’re looking for the perfect accessory to pair with your flower girl’s outfit or are in search of your dream wedding venue, you can find everything you need right here at [Zola](https://www.zola.com/). We are your love-filled hub for all things wedding-related and can hardly wait to help couples just like you. Here’s why people are saying “I do” to planning their weddings with Zola:\n\n- Share the news of your special day with an appropriately-styled paper suite collection. Plus, you won’t have to worry about guest addressing or covering the cost of shipping. 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Whether you want to feel sexy or comfortable, there's a look to you in our guide to wedding night lingerie. ","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-02-13T20:51:02.305Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5CgiC74soye3GNaQ4XJN58/197266b553008d3e21bc4559004de661/Hero_Zola.jpg","altText":"couple on wedding night"},"heroCredit":"Zola","body":"We know you’re planning a wedding, a celebration filled to the brim with your loved ones. We also know at least one person has already raised the topic (and an eyebrow) of the wedding night, the first moments in 24 hours that you have alone with your partner, now officially as a married couple. Whether you’re planning a special surprise for the night or would prefer to kick back in your PJs and pass out, [you’ll want to dress the part](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-intimates).\n\nWhen it comes to picking out what to wear, Cora Harrington—also known as “[The Lingerie Addict](https://www.thelingerieaddict.com/)” and author of *In Intimate Detail*—encourages people to remember that all undergarments are lingerie, so there’s no reason to be intimidated. Know your size and get acquainted with the best brands for you, she says, not necessarily what’s most popular.\n\n![HERO Unsplash 1080x720 (13)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3awubzSX5JIN5puupuvRCv/b041a9178cc4ed508f9512cea3a2d143/HERO_Unsplash_1080x720__13_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n__So before you get shopping, there are a few tips to keep in mind:__\n\n- __Start with comfort.__ If you start with the brands you already like, it’s hard to go wrong. While your partner’s opinion is important, remember that your comfort and confidence level are key. Everything else is secondary.\n- __Don’t be afraid to abandon tradition.__ Though it might be long-established that you’re expected to wear white on your wedding night, this is really between you and your partner—so do what seems right for you. If white feels impractical or inauthentic to you, then skip it.\n- __Set a budget.__ Like anything, you don’t want to go in debt over something you’re only going to wear a handful of times, at most. Have a clear budget in mind to prevent any financial surprises.\n- __Consider its uses.__ Do you plan on wearing your bridal lingerie under your wedding dress? Are you doing a bridal boudoir shoot that you could use some cute new styles for? In addition to planning for the actual wedding night, these are all things to keep in mind.\n- __Plan ahead.__ It’s always a [good idea to go shopping](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop) for your bridal lingerie around the same time you do your dress fitting so you know that the lingerie will actually fit you on your wedding day.\n\n## How to Pick Your Wedding Night Look\nOnce you’ve ironed out the basics, it’s time to start thinking through [styles and silhouettes](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what's-your-wedding-dress-style). In addition to confidence and embracing your shape, it’s important to show off a bit of your personality. \n\nIf you’re not generally attracted to frill, bows and pink lace are probably not your cup of tea. Don’t try to force it. This is your chance to be extravagant (or extra cozy), but you also don’t want to feel out-of-place.\n\n### You’re new to lingerie...\nIf you’re starting from scratch, the best plan of action is to stick with what you know and love. Instead of opting for over-the-top, boudoir styles, consider choosing a pretty set from a brand you’re already comfortable with. Chances are the same designer who makes your favorite t-shirt bra has something a little lacier or revealing than you’d normally wear, but still feels genuine to you.\n\n### You’re all about comfort...\nMaybe you’re looking for [something soft and lacy](https://www.zola.com/shop/kit/cosabella-ceylon-collection?ref_type=CATEGORY_CHAIN&ref_key_0=wedding-intimates|Intimates&ref_key_1=lingerie|Lingerie) to surprise your partner or maybe you’d prefer to relax in some comfy PJs. If you and your SO have more of a popcorn-and-movie kind of night planned, a patterned tank and boyfriend briefs might be the ideal choice. If you’re feeling more indulgent, [a silk cami set is also a great option](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cosabella_rosie_camisole?ref_type=CATEGORY_CHAIN&ref_key_0=wedding-intimates|Intimates&ref_key_1=lingerie|Lingerie&ref_key_2=tops-camisoles|Tops%20%26%20Camisoles) that you’ll likely come back to time and time again. \n\n### You had a [boho wedding](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/real-weddings/boho)...\nYou’re all about that [repurposed look and it shows](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/whats-your-wedding-style). While lace bralettes and ruffled separates are great for those who simply have a more boho aesthetic, Harrington actually recommends vintage lingerie. It’s often higher quality than its modern counterparts. If the idea of wearing someone’s old undergarments bothers you, look for vintage pieces that are labeled “deadstock” or “new old stock,” meaning they have never been worn and are simply preserved in their original state.\n\n### You’re all about classic....\nMaybe you’ve worn lingerie in the past, but aren’t as confident with all the audacious styles that many ladies opt for on their wedding night. Consider something [sleek and simple](https://www.zola.com/shop/kit/cosabella-magnolia-collection?ref_type=CATEGORY_CHAIN&ref_key_0=wedding-intimates|Intimates&ref_key_1=lingerie|Lingerie), like a satin demi-bra and panty set in a rich hue. A matching or monogrammed silk pajama set is another great choice if you’re going for something more demure.\n\n![INLINE Unsplash 1080x720 (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4m1hLDG3RrohFZlEvybubP/f6a71238ee1cc66559bc04749db6ed77/INLINE__Unsplash_1080x720__1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### You’re feeling something Avant-garde...\nLike your wedding dress, your lingerie choices are likely to be less-than-typical. Consider flashier styles like lace bodysuits with clever cut-outs or eye-catching sets in unexpected colors. Hand-stitched seams, pretty paneling, and other thoughtful details are all more subtle ways to make a statement. If you’re going for something trendy, tattoo-print pieces in neutral tones and velvet separates that beg to be touched are both great options.\n\n### You want to go full 50 shades...\nWhen it comes to your lingerie choices, leather, harnesses, and [unexpected straps are your best friend](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cosabella_magnolia_garter_skirt?ref_type=CATEGORY_CHAIN&ref_key_0=wedding-intimates|Intimates&ref_key_1=lingerie|Lingerie&ref_key_2=garters|Garters). Focus on finding daring sets or separates that ooze sex appeal like an edgy frame bra with sheer cups or peekaboo bottoms that leave little to the imagination. Instead of pastels or neutrals, opt for colors like black and red to set the mood. Don’t forget: The bolder the better.\n\nWhatever your wedding night holds, slip into something comfortable that you and your partner can enjoy. Stick to brands you love and know for added coziness or break free from your traditional style and try something different. 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Whether the couple is requesting more of a formal beach wedding look or a relaxed casual beach wedding vibe, it’s a good idea to familiarize yourself with the different types of outfit ensembles that can be worn to a beachside wedding day celebration. \n\nIf you’re attending a beach wedding in the near future, below are some key tips to consider as you decide what you’re going to wear to the summer wedding.\n\n### Start With the Dress Code\n\nThough you might be familiar with casual, cocktail, and black tie dress codes, beach weddings have their own set of dress codes, usually ranging from daytime (or dressy casual) to beach formal. Reading the invitations and breaking down the specific dress code is a good place to start. If the couple requested daytime—or something more on the [casual wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/casual-wedding-attire-guide) side—then almost anything goes. Think day dresses, semi-casual separates, chinos, loafers, and casual makeup. Like with dressy casual, it’s always better to err on the side of business casual or smart casual attire, just in case.\n\nFor beach formal and other semi-formal attire, dress as elegantly as possible, while still considering the elements (such as sand and sun). A more formal maxi dress or sundresses worn with a flat, beaded sandals, or a linen shirt with a suits jacket with tasteful sandals or slides are perfectly appropriate. Sophistication is key, but don’t go for anything that would feel too out-of-place on a beach.\n\n### What Kind of “Beach” Is It?\n\n![What to wear to a beach wedding](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/XeRTNm4lAN0avKAAg6v8a/279099b0de5ff51c06c836a34d526a06/inline_unsplash__1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\nIn California and North Carolina, “beach” generally means flat terrain and sandy shoreline. However, in places such as Maine and Washington state, a beachside ceremony might include rocky cliffs and fairly changeable weather. It’s important to do your due diligence on the geography and weather patterns of the area where the couple is getting married if you want to be comfortable and dress appropriately for their big day.\n\n### Consider the Time of Year\nThough few people are likely to have a wedding ceremony on the Oregon coast in the winter, it’s a good idea to familiarize yourself with the weather during that specific time of year. While Seaside, Oregon may be cold and dreary in November, a location such as San Diego, California may average 65 to 70 degrees on the same fall day. Knowing what the weather is like that specific time of year can help you decide on fashion details such as jackets, layers, and even fabrics, because no one wants to be stuck outside in a wool suit during a Miami summer ceremony.\n\n### Look Up the Venue\nAnother easy way to gauge the overall formality and ambience of the event, is to do some research on the venue before you decide what to wear. If it’s at a resort, for example, you might opt for something more glamorous, while a B&B or state park would generally call for something more relaxed or bohemian. By looking up where the celebration takes place, you may also get a better idea of the walking surface—specifically as it applies to the reception. Though heels are generally frowned upon at beach events, you might opt for wedges or low, block heels if the dress code is fairly formal and the venue seems manageable.\n\n### Accessorize Wisely\nWith the variability of beach wedding dress codes, accessories play a more important role than they might otherwise play at a wedding or reception. This point is especially true for wedding shoes and outerwear, which are important to prioritize for any beach event. With footwear, consider having a pair of backups in case you misjudged the formality of the event (or would just prefer a pair of sandals to dance in). As for outerwear, a light sweater or blazer is always wise, even in warm places, as beaches are almost always a bit windy. Taking the elements into account is important, as you don’t want your favorite pair of feather earrings taking flight mid-ceremony (or ever). Hats are also worth considering if there’s going to be a lot of sun exposure. Beachy [wedding guest hairstyles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wear-natural-hair-for-wedding) are typically flowy and simple.\n\n### Look to Photos for Inspiration\nThere is no better place to find outfit inspiration than in the billions of wedding photos circulating the internet. Whether your cousin attended a beach wedding last fall or you prefer to get lost on Pinterest, feel free to dig through photos taken at beach events and see what outfits seem to make the most sense. If you follow any wedding photographers on Instagram, this is another good place to start. 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Learn more about the dos and don’ts of mother of the bride dresses.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2020-12-16T18:58:28.907Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/40w7mpWlL8MeCgLEiePGp/a0d8b8607581d467c0479f1d818cfe60/Hero_ModernDestinationWeddingatTheWLoft_NSTPictures.jpg","altText":"Mother of the Bride Dress"},"heroCredit":"NST Pictures","body":"Your daughter's wedding day is a huge deal—and you, of course, want to look your best; you want the perfect dress, the perfect wedding shoes, and [the perfect wedding hairstyle](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/mother-of-the-bride-hairstyle-ideas). \n\nAnd in the quest to look their best, one of the questions we hear a lot of [mother of the brides](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/mother-of-the-bride-duties) ask is what color dress they should wear on their daughter’s big day. \n\nAs a mother of a soon-to-be-married child, choosing a color scheme for your wedding attire can be a challenge — especially with so many different opinions online. To help, we’ve pulled together everything you need to know to choose the perfect color for your dress — including a definitive list of the dos and don’ts, common FAQs, and a color palette ideas to help get your creative juices flowing.\n\nReady to choose the perfect color for your mother of the bride dress? Let's jump in.\n\n

Do: Complement the Bridal Party

\n\nWhether your bride wants you to match the bridal party, wear a shade in the same color family as the bridesmaid dresses, or has no preference at all, it’s always good practice to make sure your dress complements the colors of the wedding party. You will be in a lot of photos with the wedding party, so your dress color mustn’t clash with those around you. Neutrals are usually a safe bet and can be embellished with metallics or contrasting neutrals for a more interesting design. \n\nIn addition to color, your dress should also complement the bridal party in terms of formality. For example, a formal evening gown (like a floor-length ball gown) would look out of place (and probably be uncomfortable!) at a daytime beach wedding—while a more casual pantsuit would be too informal for a more formal wedding or black tie event. So, be sure you have a clear understanding of the wedding dress code before shopping for your mother of the bride dress.\n\n

Don’t: Be Too Bold

\n\nSimilar to the above, there are a few colors you may want to avoid. More specifically, avoid anything too bold or flashy that would detract attention from your daughter on such a special occasion. Attention-grabbing colors like vibrant orange, bright red, or vivid yellow may not be the best choice.\n\nThat said, you’re not limited to muted neutrals and pastels either. When looking for a dress, you should explore a variety of colors, taking into account the planned environment of the wedding, as well as the time of year you will be celebrating.\n\nThese guidelines will not only help you make the best color choice, but can also be good advice in terms of style. Though you aren’t relegated to matronly dresses, you should aim to find something age-appropriate. If you’re unsure about the dress you’ve selected, ask your daughter what she thinks.\n\n![What Color Should the Mother of the Bride Dress Be?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3nfqdRjUOzXl5jKYC9kRhj/79d49e86ebb29b7b946a0ef0969f87d7/inline_Kara_Evans_Photographer.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Kara Evans Photographer\n\n

Do: Flatter Your Skin Tone

\n\nFinding colors that look good on you is usually a matter influenced by skin tone. Generally speaking, those with warm skin tones will look beautiful in warmer colors, while those with cool skin tones will radiate in cooler colors.\n\n__Warm Skin Tones:__ The best colors for these women reflect the colors of nature. Turn to hues of red, peach, coral, orange, amber, gold, and yellow. You will also look gorgeous in \"warmer\" shades of cool colors, such as olive, moss, orchid, and violet-red. The neutrals that work best for you include taupe, cappuccino, cream, and mushroom gravy. With a warm skin tone, you should avoid chilly colors, like icy blues, or rich jewel tones, as they can wash you out and make your skin look gray.\n\n__Cool Skin Tones:__ The best colors for you are bright blues, emeralds, and deep purples along with frosty shades of lavender, ice blue, or pink. For a warmer shade, you can try ruby, bright rosy red, or super-pale yellows. However, it’s best to avoid orange, tomato red, and strong yellows, which can clash with your skin completely. To go more neutral, seek out cool gray and navy.\n\nNeed help determining your skin tone? A simple at-home test may help. Simply look at the inside of your forearm and check the appearance of your veins in natural light. If your veins look blue or purple, you have a cool skin tone. Veins that appear green, or a greenish blue, indicate a warm skin tone. If you still aren’t sure, ask a shop assistant at the bridal boutique or any makeup counter to help you.\n\n

Don’t: Match the Bride

\n\nPerhaps the biggest no-no for a mother of the bride, or any guest at the wedding for that matter, is to match the bride's wedding dress. When searching for a dress color, this simply means to stay far away from any shades of the bride's gown — like white, ivory, or champagne. If you’d like to stick with a neutral color, try greys, taupe, beige, or other off-white hues. \n\nThat being said, if you know the bride has opted for a non-conventional color (we love a pink wedding dress!), you may be able to explore white dress styles—just get her approval first.\n\n

Do: Be Comfortable

\n\nWhile you want to be considerate of your daughter’s desires and coordinate the color of your dress, you will ultimately want to be comfortable in what you’re wearing. Trust us: The last thing you want to be thinking about when you’re trying to celebrate your daughter’s marriage is whether or not you look good in the color you’re wearing.\n\nIf your daughter is insistent that you wear a particular color that you don’t feel your best in, talk to her about it. Approach this conversation with another idea that complements the vision she’s trying to create. Who knows, you may show her something she hadn’t thought of.","body2":"## Color Palettes for Your Dress\nNeed some color inspiration for your mother of the bride dress? Here are a few color ideas to get your creative juices flowing—and choose the perfect color palette for your wedding attire:\n\n![What Color Should the Mother of the Bride Dress Be?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/TMCfEKOmcpzwtHqEzGjpj/f31874a7abb735b7ee0a1cfac8817923/inline_rengim-mutevellioglu.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Rengim Mutevellioglu\n\n#### Metallics\nWant to shine on your daughter's wedding day? Try a metallic color like silver, gold, or rose gold. \n\n#### Neutrals\nNeutrals like taupe, gray, or beige are a traditional choice for mother of the bride dresses; they feel classy, elegant, and sophisticated—and they're understated enough that they won't take any attention from the bride's attire.\n\n#### Pastels\nPastels like lavender, baby blue, or soft pink are a great choice for daytime weddings. You can also go with a pastel dress if you want the understated look of a neutral—but want more of a pop of color for your look.\n\n#### Deep hues\nIf you want something a bit bolder for your mother of the bride dress, try a deeper hue like burgundy, navy, or plum. These colors work particularly well for evening or winter weddings.\n\n## Mother of the Bride Wear FAQs\nChoosing the right color for your mother of the bride dress is only one element of your wedding attire. Let's take a look at some more common questions about mother of the bride wear—so you have all the information you need to find the perfect dress for your daughter's big day:\n\n### What should the mother of the bride wear to her daughter's wedding?\nThe best mother of the bride wedding attire depends on a variety of factors, including the formality of the wedding and your personal style. Generally, dresses (for example, a cocktail dress) or more formal separates (like a dressier pantsuit) would be appropriate.\n\n### Who chooses the mother of the bride dress—the mother or the bride?\nUltimately, you get to decide what you're going to wear to your daughter's wedding—but that doesn't mean she shouldn't have any input. Ask for her opinions about what she'd like you to wear (and what she'd like you to avoid!) and keep those opinions in mind as you're dress shopping.\n\n### What's the difference between mother of the bride and mother of the groom dresses?\nIf your daughter is marrying a man, you may wonder if you need to coordinate outfits with the mother of the groom. While there's no need for you to match each other perfectly, your son and daughter may want your [mother of the bride and mother of the groom dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/mother-of-the-bride-vs-mother-of-the-groom-dresses-whats-the-difference) to complement each other (or at least not clash!). Talk to your daughter—and if she wants your dress to coordinate with her future mother-in-law's attire, make sure to chat with mother of the groom and get on the same page before you buy your wedding outfit.","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Whether you are the mother of the bride or the mother of the groom, there are a few key things to remember as you shop for your dress. 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Read on to find out now.","author":"Anni Irish","publishedAt":"2020-12-15T02:25:41.497Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7q8YBqjKwvcAz7EwbccP7M/39cae5d7dae63e4f167bbce8a9e587ce/Inline_unsplash__1_.png","altText":"Wedding Engagement Party"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Whether it's you or someone you love getting married, between the engagement party, bachelorette and/or bachelor party, and, finally, the wedding, there’s also a lot of time and consideration that goes into planning your outfits.\n\nBut what, exactly, should you wear to an [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-an-engagement-party)—whether you're the bride, the groom, or a loved one there to celebrate the happy couple? \n\nLet's take a look at everything you need to know about engagement party attire—including what to wear, what not to wear, and how to choose the perfect look for any engagement celebration.\n\n### What Happens at an Engagement Party?\nFirst things first. Before we jump into what to wear to an engagement party, let's cover [what exactly happens at an engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-an-engagement-party).\n\nAn engagement party is a celebration that brings together close friends, family, and loved ones to celebrate the happy couple and their upcoming nuptials. Guests come together to mingle, have fun, share food and drinks (depending on the party, this could range from casual appetizers in the backyard to more formal dinners at a high-end restaurant or wedding venue), and—let's be real—admire the engagement ring.\n\nGenerally, the engagement party happens closer to the proposal than the wedding day—and is usually the first of any planned events related to the wedding.\n\n## What to Wear to an Engagement Party As the Host\n\nIf you’re hosting or about to attend an engagement party, you’ll want to pick out something special. And, typically, with these kinds of parties, there is a dress code. Nowadays, people host a range of parties that can be as casual as a backyard barbecue or a bar crawl, or something more refined and elegant as a coursed meal at a fine dining restaurant. \n\nDepending on the circumstances of the party, there are certain factors that you should consider when planning your engagement party outfit. You want to look and feel your best, but also consider what type of event you are attending. Whether you’re a couple of the moment, in the bridal party, or a guest, you’ll want to pick out something that you look and feel your best wearing.\n\n## Sticking to the Dress Code\n\nKnowing the [dress code](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding), as well as where the party is being held, are key details in having the right engagement outfit. Generally, the invitation to the party will indicate the kind of suggested attire, such as cocktail, business casual, etc., so remember to double-check any engagement party dress codes outlined on the invite. If you’re unsure of the proper attire, it's always a good idea to ask the host; that way, you'll be sure to pick an outfit that makes you feel comfortable—and not out of place—during the party.\n\nYou can also do a little research on the location of the party, as this can also influence your choice of clothes. Knowing the venue and where the event is an essential part of what to wear to the engagement party—as is the weather. (For example, if you're attending an engagement soiree at an upscale lounge in New York City in the dead of winter, a casual sundress probably wouldn't be the most appropriate outfit choice. On the flip side, if you're attending a casual summer engagement party on the beach, a long-sleeved turtleneck jumpsuit with high heels would probably feel out of place.)\n\nDepending on the season and/or where the party venue is located, the event may be held outside. As a general rule, outside events and parties tend to have a less formal dress code. If you're headed to a beach or pool party, or if you'll be hanging out in the grass, wedges, sandals, and open-toed shoes are a great option. However, if the party is being held in an indoor space, you might want to hold off on those sandals for another party—and choose a dressier shoe. When it doubt, dress as you would for any special evening event or nighttime party.\n\nTypically, most parties have a cocktail dress code—particularly if they take place in the evening. Cocktail party attire means that dresses will fall at or below the knee (or just a little above) and that high heels or flats are acceptable. For men, the cocktail attire dress code usually means a blazer with a button-down shirt and khakis (or nicer dress pants).\n\nThe invitation may also state semi-formal or dressy-casual. If you find yourself in one of those dress option categories, there's lots of room there to have fun with your outfit. If you're attending an event with one of these dress codes, look to the details of the event to determine the formality of your attire. For example, if it’s a relaxed atmosphere, such as someone's home or a low-key restaurant, you can go with a more casual look—and dress it up with accessories. If it’s at a more formal event space or fine dining establishment, you would want to err on the slightly more formal side of things—and go with a dressier look.\n\n## Dressing for the Occasion \n\n![What to Wear to an Engagement Party](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/23Gsxl0YxRTyFnu6H0BdCL/b5cd1bf3f162377a4bdc12d9e6c2dcba/Inline_unsplash.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\nOnce you've confirmed the kind of attire, then the real fun can begin––planning your outfit. You want to dress confidently and comfortably—but choosing the perfect outfit can also feel like added pressure (particularly if you're the guest of honor). Whatever your style is, you want to look and feel great, pick out something that’s a reflection of your personality and personal style, and choose a look that's appropriate for the engagement party you're attending.\n\nBut what, exactly, does that look like in terms of outfits?\n\n## What to Wear to an Engagement Party\n\nThere are a ton of different outfit [ideas for an engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-ideas) to choose from, including:\n\n- __A white showstopper.__ If you're the bride, you want to make a statement at your engagement party—and what better way to do so than a showstopper of a dress? As the bride, you can go with whatever type of dress you want. Have fun with it! Go for something eye-catching and unique that grabs people's attention (the party is in your honor, after all!). Whatever dress you choose, consider going with a white frock; because white is the traditional color for wedding dresses, it will immediately set you apart as the bride-to-be.\n- __The perfect engagement party dress.__ If you're attending someone else's engagement party, a dress is still a solid choice for attire. The kind of dress you wear will depend on the event. Going to a black-tie affair? A long gown or formal midi dress would be appropriate. Going to a more laid-back backyard BBQ? A fun maxi dress would be a great option. Want a dress with major versatility? You can't go wrong with a classic wrap dress. Just make sure to avoid anything white; as mentioned, a white dress is typically reserved for the bride at all wedding events—and you don't want your dress to compete.\n- __An eye-catching jumpsuit.__ If dresses aren't your style, a jumpsuit is a great alternative. For daytime or more laid-back engagement parties, you can keep it casual with a linen or cotton jumpsuit with some fun accessories (try layering a denim jacket!)—whereas for an evening or more formal engagement party, you'd want to go with a sleeker cut, fabric, and style.\n- __A suit.__ When it comes to attending an even somewhat dressy engagement party, you can't go wrong with a well-tailored suit. If you're the groom, a suit is also the perfect look for your engagement party; as the guest of honor, you want to show up looking your sharpest!\n- __A dress shirt and pants.__ A button-down shirt and dress pants is one of the most versatile engagement party looks for men, as it can work for both more casual and more dressy events.\n- __A more laid-back, casual outfit.__ If you're going to a more casual, relaxed engagement party, feel free to dress in a more casual, relaxed way—for example, a short-sleeved collared shirt and jeans.\n\nRegardless of what outfit you choose, pay attention to the fit of your garments! You want to feel confident and also be comfortable in what you’re wearing. \n\n### What should you not wear to an engagement party?\nNow that you have some ideas of what to wear to an engagement party, let's talk about a few things you definitely shouldn't wear:\n\n- __White.__ Again, white is typically reserved for the bride at any wedding-related events—so white dresses, jumpsuits, or other formal attire are a major no-no. You'll also want to avoid off-white and cream hues.\n- __Clothes that are too casual.__ While you can dress down for more casual engagement party, you don't want to look sloppy. Avoid items that could read as too casual, like athleisure wear or ripped jeans.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"The big day is coming - your friends are getting married! But should you bring an engagement gift? 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You'll find ideas you've never thought of and something for every couple. Happy planning!","title":"50 Best Engagement Party Ideas of 2024","slug":"engagement-party-ideas","topic":"Parties & events","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4Nv4GtlUw4LfNJVkpcFmSi/32aa338cea95b2f766f3f616efcc3985/50_Best_Engagement_Party_Ideas_hero__1_.png","altText":"People smiling and clinking wine glasses at a party"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Follow these step-by-step instructions for how to plan an engagement party to achieve guaranteed hosting success. 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","title":"How to Announce Your Engagement","slug":"how-to-announce-your-engagement","topic":"Getting engaged","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3hk4Xt2gcurIwwAACqfcxh/52d16b9f41ed4c4e63d6f316dcb0379d/How-to-Announce-your-Engagement.jpg","altText":"Couple makes engagement announcement"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:39:57.340Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"what-to-look-in-fall-bridesmaid-dresses","title":"What to Look For in Fall Bridesmaid Dresses","excerpt":"Need to know what to look for when shopping for fall wedding bridesmaid dresses? Check out our comprehensive guide today!\n","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2021-01-05T19:57:23.932Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/76X8slH4DGhTUpm5AqiFID/5d03ebe1a495418fbab9438778b1900a/wedding-photography-cWBVCP1mlYI-unsplash.jpg","altText":"Fall Bridesmaid Dresses"},"heroCredit":"Brittany Lee Photography","body":"As beautiful as a warm, summer day may be, the changing leaves and crisp, autumn air really set the mood for a romantic celebration. If you’re leaning toward a fall wedding, there are several things to consider, such as which flowers are in season, whether to go outdoors or stay indoors, and, of course, wedding party attire.\n\nDepending on your venue and geographical location, this may mean anything from knee-length shifts to sleeved, sequin gowns. If you’re looking for some added guidance on picking out the perfect bridesmaid ensembles, below are some key tips and creative wedding ideas to consider.\n\n### Work Around the Weather\nFall can be fickle, with temperatures sitting around 45 degrees in some areas and reaching up to 90 degrees in others. For this reason, you’re going to have to be flexible about bridesmaid dress lengths and styles. Full-length, black gowns might be a stunning addition to an October wedding, but likely won’t be comfortable for your maids if it’s 85 degrees outside. Maybe consider a knee-length black lace number, instead. Same goes for cooler temperatures, too. It’s not fair to ask your wedding party to rock silk, tank dresses at a backyard wedding in Seattle if the temperature isn’t expected to rise above 50 degrees.\n\n### Embrace Rich Hues\nAutumn is not the time to hold back or play it safe with muted pastels. Bold, jewel tones, dark colors and rich, earthy hues such as [olive](https://www.pinterest.com/pin/758082549770988607/) and terracotta all work great this time of year. If you want to keep it fairly light and neutral, consider warmer tones such as sand and [dusty rose](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/kleinfeldbridalparty_fauxwrap_long_jersey_bridesmaid_dress_tearose). Champagne-colored silk slips and warm gray gowns both transition really well into September and October. If you’re naturally drawn to cooler tones (think shades of blue), consider doing a range of mismatched styles to create a more balanced aesthetic. More vibrant hues with cool undertones, such as emerald green and deep teal, also work beautifully in the fall.\n\n### Make Use of Accessories\nAs the temperatures drop, accessories are no longer just pretty embellishments, but often have to be practical as well. No matter your venue, if the temperatures are on the chilly end, it’s wise to make sure that you have something to cover up just in case. For bridesmaids, if it’s a more casual affair, this could be as simple as a satin blazer or a black suede jacket. Just make sure that you talk it over as a group so that everything looks cohesive.\n\n### Consider Convertible Options\nBecause of the fickle weather that fall often brings, it’s important to have options for the wedding day, which is why convertible styles are often a wise pick. Being able to change something as simple as the neckline, sleeves, or bodice style can make a big difference, particularly if the ceremony will be outdoors. However, choosing bridesmaid dresses with slits or mid-calf hemlines are another way to keep things fairly versatile.\n\n### Keep Florals in Mind\nIf your bridesmaid bouquets are full of red and wine-colored flowers, you might not want to pick mismatched scarlet gowns; however, navy bridesmaid dresses might work well if you’re set on the crimson floral hues. In general, a bit of a contrast works really well in photos, so if you’re going with darker bouquets, you might want to consider bridesmaid dresses in a lighter shade or complementary color. On the flip side, burgundy and deep teal gowns look great with light, airy florals.\n\n### Make Room for Dramatic Textures and Silhouettes\nWhile many summer looks are breezy and easygoing, the changing of the seasons lends itself to more [glamorous, moody styles](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/khloejaymes_camille_bridesmaid_dress_bordeaux). Lightweight silk and linen can be swapped with velvet and satin, while delicate, ethereal details are replaced with detailed lace, elaborate beading, and dramatic hemlines. Retro styles with big, billowy sleeves or more structured, art deco details also transition well into fall. Consider pairing a [floor-length, beaded bridal gown](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/adriannapappell_art_deco_blouson_beaded_gown_dustyemerald) with architectural earrings and a vintage shrug to complete the look.\n\n### Opt for Pants, Instead\nIt’s no secret that jumpsuits and pantsuits are growing in popularity, and there’s no better time to try out this trend than the cozy, autumn months. Look for jumpsuits with a wrap-style top that’s universally flattering, or matching pantsuits in neutral hues to complement the vibrant fall colors.\n\nIf you go the pants route, be thoughtful about your fabric choices, as they can dramatically influence your look. Flirty, satin jumpsuits in shades of green will look on-point at a backyard wedding, while satin, champagne-colored pant suits and heels might work better for a more formal affair.\n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Winter calls for natural tones, longer hems, and sleeves. Read our guide for how to choose the perfect winter bridesmaid dress.","title":"How to Choose the Perfect Winter Bridesmaid Dress","slug":"how-to-choose-the-perfect-winter-bridesmaid-dress","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How To","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/33EXw4HPqBuzcEn3mal7pi/3c47795b4b0fc7e3395ef48779661f91/Hero_RomanticWinterWeddingatLoew-sPortofinoBayHotelatUniversal_BrittanyLeePhotography.jpg","altText":"Winter Bridesmaid Dress"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Weddings are steeped in love, family, friends, and tradition. 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","author":"Deanna deBara","publishedAt":"2020-12-11T19:35:07.990Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4eF0obdy2T3Frb6byGgwjL/982ade0824c70435ff45ea6afd23c278/Inline_PhotoDH.png","altText":"groomsmen ties"},"heroCredit":"Photo DH","body":"Asking your groomsmen to be at your wedding is one of the first items on the groom’s [wedding checklist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist). But, once you’ve asked your groomsmen to be in the [wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one), the next hurdle is figuring out what they’re going to wear while you [say you are “I do’s”]( https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-vows)—and that includes their groomsmen ties.\n\nThere are a huge variety of mens ties for weddings; there are ties of different colors, patterns, and materials. There are ties of different shapes and styles—like traditional ties, bow ties, or even more unexpected styles, like an ascot.\n\nIt's a lot to think about. So how, exactly, do you go about choosing a tie? What things do you need to consider when evaluating wedding ties? And, with so many ties out there, how do you narrow down your options and find the right tie for your groomsmen?\n\n## 1. Figure Out the Type of Tie You Want the Groomsmen to Wear…\nFirst things first. Before you jump into the nitty gritty of ties for weddings (and, more specifically, ties for groomsmen)—like color, pattern, and material—you need to figure out what type of tie you want your groomsmen to wear when they walk down the aisle.\n\nWhen you think of a wedding tie, chances are, the first thing that pops into your mind is a traditional necktie—a look that will work for just about any wedding party and event.\n\nBut if a traditional necktie doesn't feel like the right fit for your groomsmen, not to worry! Going traditional is far from the only neckwear option for your wedding party. So, if you opt out of the traditional necktie look, it's time to start thinking about alternative options—and narrow down the type of tie that you’d like them to wear.\n\nFor example, you could go with a bowtie (which is great for more casual looks), an ascot (which is more formal, and can work with a tuxedo and/or at black-tie wedding events), or a bolo—or “shoelace”—tie, a type of skinny tie that works well if you’re going for more of a country or western look. If you want to keep things more laid back, you could even opt out of ties altogether—and instead, have your groomsmen wear matching pocket squares or an accessory on their jacket's lapel (like a boutonniere).\n\nThere are no right or wrongs when it comes to wedding ties. But before making your selection, keep in mind what your overall wedding style will be. And you also want to make sure that, whatever tie you choose, it matches with the rest of their groomsmen accessories (like their socks, suspenders, pocket squares, or anything else they might be wearing).\n\nBottom line? There are a ton of different tie categories out there—so, before you attempt to choose a tie for your groomsmen, you want to narrow down which category of neckwear is going to be the right fit for your wedding day.\n\n## 2. ...And If You Want Them to Match\nOnce you've decided what type of tie you want your groomsmen to wear, the next decision you’ll want to make when choosing a tie for groomsmen is whether you want everyone’s tie to match.\n\nTraditionally, the groom, best man, and groomsmen would all wear the same wedding attire—including the same tie. If you want to keep things traditional, all your groomsmen should wear a matching tie—generally, a tie in one of the colors of your wedding color palette. \n\nThat being said, there's no rule book that says you have to keep things traditional with your groomsmen attire. Mismatching bridesmaid's dresses have become a serious trend in recent years—and there’s no reason that you can’t embrace that same mismatching philosophy on the groom’s side.\n\nIf you do decide to have your groomsmen wear different ties, the key to making them look “purposely mismatched”—instead of looking like each groomsman just wore whatever tie he felt like wearing that day—is to tie the look together (pun intended!) and create visual consistency with at least one feature.\n\nSo, for example, if you want all your groomsmen to wear a different type of tie, you should have them all wear a tie that’s the same color. Or, if you want them to wear different colors, they should all wear the same type of tie. That way, when you look at the groomsmen as a whole, they’ll look like they “go” together—even if they aren’t wearing the same matching tie. \n\nYou also want to make sure the groomsmen's ties match well with the grooms ties; you can either have the groomsmen wear the same exact tie at the groom—or, if you don't want to match ties exactly, again, choose one element that creates a sense of visual cohesion (for example, going with the same style, like a slim tie; wearing a tie in the same material, like a linen tie or silk tie; or going with the ties in a similar pattern, like polka dots, plaid, or paisley ties).\n\n![How to Choose a Tie for Groomsmen | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2g9xQLOhl95jv8n3VquQ3s/da6de32fe0aa77fe4617e903b8e1d754/Inline_Ripperton_Films.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Ripperton Films\n\n## 3. Choose the Colors and/or Patterns for the Tie\nSpeaking of colors, another element of choosing ties for your groomsmen is choosing the colors and/or patterns for the tie.\n\nWhen it comes to colors, if you want to keep things traditional, solid ties in classic colors, like black or gray, are a great option. Or, if from a visual perspective, you want to make it clear that your groomsmen are a part of your wedding party, you can go with a solid color tie that matches your [wedding colors](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-your-wedding-colors).\n\nSolid ties are a great, classic look—but they're certainly not your only option for ties for groomsmen. If you want to add a bit more visual interest to your groomsmen's wedding attire, consider a patterned tie (just make sure that it’s not too loud and doesn’t steal attention from you and your partner). When it comes to patterns, there is a huge variety to choose from; if you want to go for a more classic, subtle look, try a striped tie or a smaller print—while if you want something a bit more fun and unexpected, have fun with more eye-catching patterns, like a floral tie or a bold graphic print.\n\n## 4. Have Your Groomsmen Try on the Tie With the Wedding Attire\nOnce you’ve chosen your groomsmen’s ties, you want to have them try on the ties with the rest of their [wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-grooms-attire) to make sure that it all comes together—and you want to do it well before your wedding day.\n\nHaving your groomsmen try on their entire wedding outfit—ties included—before the big day will allow you to look everything over and make sure that it’s in line with your vision. And if it’s not? No worries! That’s why you want to do the try-on in advance—because if there’s something you don’t like, you have plenty of time to go back to square one and choose a different tie. \n\nDoing a try on also gives your groomsmen time to get used to their tie—and, if necessary, learn how to tie it (for example, not everyone knows how to get the perfect knot on an extra long tie or tie a bow tie correctly!).\n\n## 5. Buy or Rent a Few Extras\nGenerally, once you’ve chosen a tie for your groomsmen, they’re the ones that are responsible for buying (or renting) their neckwear. But, if you want to play it safe and make sure that every groomsman walks down the aisle in the tie you chose for them, it doesn’t hurt to buy (or rent) a few extra. That way, if something happens (for example, if a groomsman flies in for the wedding and his luggage gets lost, or if a groomsman spills a beverage on his tie and stains it right before he’s supposed to walk down the aisle), you have a few backups at the ready.\n\n## What Tie Fits Best For Different Wedding Themes?\nEvery wedding is different—and you should choose whatever groomsmen ties feel like the best fit for your wedding and wedding party.\n\nThat being said, there are certain types of ties that tend to work well with certain types of weddings.\n\nHere are a few groomsmen ties you may want to consider for different wedding themes:\n\n- __Black tie for a black-tie event.__ As the name suggests, the most appropriate tie for a black tie even is...a black tie. Go for a traditional length and shape—or, if you want your groomsmen to feel more trendy, go for a black tie in a more contemporary cut, like a skinny tie.\n- __Linen tie for a beach wedding.__ Beach weddings are casual and breezy. And if you could capture that vibe in a fabric, it would be linen—making linen ties the perfect option for groomsmen at an oceanfront wedding event.\n- __Patterned tie for a casual wedding.__ If you're throwing a more laid-back event, you can have more fun with your wedding attire—so consider having your groomsmen wear patterned ties with eye-catching prints and colors for your big day.\n\n## Choose the Tie That’s Right for You and Your Groomsmen\nWhen it comes to choosing a tie for your groomsmen, there’s no “one size fits all” approach. Ultimately, you have to choose the tie that feels right for you, your groomsmen, and your wedding. And, now that you know the things to consider when making that decision, all that’s left to do is get out there and get choosing.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Some fun ways to ask someone to be a groomsman at your wedding.","title":"10 Ideas to Ask Someone to be Your Groomsmen","slug":"how-to-ask-someone-to-be-your-groomsmen","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6SdLKiqjja9o1ZHGsKOHGE/c3a7f294ddfc57aa6bd47a4f5e4eda3f/Inline_Kindred_Photography.png","altText":"groomsmen at a wedding"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Everything you need to know to practice proper groomsmen etiquette is up on the blog. 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We have come up with a guide to help you determine what fashion qualifies for this occasion. Read on for outfit inspo.","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2020-12-14T18:09:17.461Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3WpdS9KlHLgEGXfcgQRMKa/657d85aff9fc787d7b92dc5a43aa55ac/inline_unsplash.jpg","altText":"Cocktail Wedding Attire "},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"Cocktail attire, sometimes also referred to as semi-formal, is one of the most classic wedding dress codes, and it can be seen far and wide, from church and city hall weddings to backyard and beach wedding ceremonies. It’s a safe bet for couples who would like their attendees to dress up a bit, without the event feeling too stuffy. It also gives a wedding guest attendees a lot of freedom so that they don’t feel like they have to go buy a new outfit something to wear for the big day.\n\nSo, what exactly does cocktail attire encompass? Though many retailers will likely have their own guide or reference (such as [this one by BHLDN](https://www.bhldn.com/weddingresources/dress-codes-explained?&utm_medium=paid_search&utm_source=google&utm_campaign=National_-_DSA&utm_term=Google_AdGroup&utm_content=Dresses&adpos=&creative=374089247478&device=c&matchtype=b&network=g&gclid=CjwKCAjwyo36BRAXEiwA24CwGXLcY2aLNXt24_W2ABAb-jJHxo9exNWyCkIHKLvwIDwH0ZNVU5R_aRoCfx0QAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds) or [this one by The Black Tux](https://theblacktux.com/blog/dress-codes-types-definitions/)), we’ve put together a few tips for achieving the ideal cocktail dress code look.\n\n### Choose Modest Hemlines and Necklines\n\nAs with almost all wedding attire, fairly modest necklines and longer hemlines are generally wise choices, particularly if the ceremony is taking place in a religious setting. A form-fitting dresses, a dressy jumpsuit,s and or pantsuits are generally acceptable—just use your best judgment and discretion, which includes ensuring that no undergarments are visible (whether intentional or not). If you wouldn’t want someone to wear a particular item or style at your wedding, it’s probably not a wise choice.\n\n### Abide by Tradition \nAlthough there’s plenty of room to get creative and show some personality with a cocktail dress code, you always want to make sure that you’re not trying to outshine the couple. Instead of wearing a sparkly, red dress or bright, floral suit jacket, maybe opt for showy earrings or shoes, instead. The same thing goes for wearing white (or shades of white), which is a definite no-no in most cases. \n\n### Keep the Couple in Mind\nAs an addendum to the above, if the couple isn’t particularly traditional, you can expect that their wedding probably won’t be. Your friend who’s a fashion designer in New York City is likely going to have a different style wedding than that of your cousin in rural Oregon, even if both invitations request cocktail attire. Whether they’re family or friends, you know the couple best and can use resources such as their wedding websites and invitations as clues toward the vibe and formality of the event.\n\n### Don’t Overlook Accessories\n\n![Cocktail Attire Guide](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1KIrlG541284XgnbCFEtYx/966b4727fbe9c6f68bf5a6d845db184c/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\nClutches and dainty crossbody bags always feel more wedding-ready than an oversize purse or satchel. When it comes to footwear, heels and cap toe shoes will generally feel more formal than flats or loafers. These are all fashion tips to keep in mind as you plan your overall wedding cocktail attire look. For example, you might decide to dress up a [casual wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/casual-wedding-attire-guide) dress with a glamorous clutch, or perhaps dress down a silk pantsuit with a more casual pair of shoes. Cocktail attire can cover a lot of ground, so don’t be afraid to accessorize accordingly.\n\n### Keep Seasonality (and the Venue) in Mind\nA long-sleeved, fitted shift and heels might be the perfect pick for a winter wedding ceremony at city hall, but might feel totally out of place at a summer wedding on the or beach wedding. Though dress codes are important, it’s also crucial to make sure that you’ll be comfortable for the four or five hours that you’ll be celebrating. For a winter weddings, this might mean bringing along a sleek jacket or faux-fur shawl. As for venues, make sure that you consider what kind of ground you might be walking on. Beach wedding attire has some obstacles. Stilettos don’t mix well with sand or lawns, so for backyard, beach, and barn weddings, flats or wedges are often the wiser choice.\n\n### Dress Codes Mean Different Things to Different People\nFor couples planning weddings, it’s important to understand that dress codes translate differently depending on the person. For example, some attendees might consider cocktail a step above semi-formal attire, while others may decipher semi-formal attire as something closer to [black tie formal](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-dress-for-a-black-tie-formal-wedding) optional. While dress codes may seem like the best way to convey attire expectations, it’s always nice to have a little blurb or supplementary description on your wedding website, too. It could say something as simple as: “Wear something you’d wear to a fancy restaurant in the summer” or “Dress as you would to a company cocktail party.”\n\n### Play It on the Safe Side\nLastly, even when expectations feel clear, there’s no harm in being overdressed. If you’re trying to decide between a tie or no tie, simply veer on the side of caution or bring one along, just in case. If you’re bouncing between a flowy summer dress and a slightly more formal shift, maybe go for the latter (or accessorize in a way that makes the look more sophisticated).\n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_WeddingBoutique"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"It’s easy to pick an outfit for a formal wedding, but what about a casual attire wedding? Read on to get some pointers on what to wear to a casual attire wedding. 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","slug":"what's-your-wedding-dress-style","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/XT5O9Ow3qVWpESyo1sR7n/0b62327143e978d96e6b02a198e6e22e/Hero_what_s_your_wedding_dress_style__dear_stacey_wedding_photography_.jpg","altText":"bride wearing long-sleeve lace dress sitting on a settee in the middle of a garden with a basket of cut purple lavender beside her"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Explore Wedding Boutique","url":"https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:39:55.031Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"cocktail-attire-for-men-a-comprehensive-guide","title":"Cocktail Attire for Men: Dress Code Guide ","excerpt":"Master cocktail attire for men with style tips and outfit ideas. Elevate your look for formal events with our fashion guide for the modern gentleman.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-12-28T17:09:16.597Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44agyrTTNhwWSkt7QoxfxT/5e7c84e77d4ed929a512634a7584507a/Hero_Pink_GoldSpringWeddingatTemeculaCreekInn_AperturebyAmandaPhotography.jpg","altText":"Cocktail Attire for Men"},"heroCredit":"Aperture by Amanda Photography","body":"Whether your standard drink is a whiskey sour, Tom Collins, or bourbon—neat, of course—you most likely have a [favorite cocktail](https://www.zola.com/shop/kit/bidkhome-marble-barware-collection). However, when it comes to men’s cocktail attire, that can be a complete mystery—and that’s ok. Our comprehensive guide will have you looking your best from what to wear and when to wear it, no matter what drink is in your hand.\n\n## Defining Cocktail Attire for Men\nInvitations most often arrive with some sort of dress code indicated, and we all want to arrive appropriately dressed for the occasion. But phrases like “smart casual” or “summer formal” can cause many to do a double-take. \n\nFortunately, men’s cocktail attire allows a bit of freedom within a range of looks. So, here are a few basics on pieces to include for the perfect cocktail style.\n\n- A jacket is a necessity, but that doesn’t necessarily mean suiting. Well-fitting blazers paired with coordinating—not matching—pants will work correctly. You can also choose to wear a suit, but stay away from the formality of a [solid black](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_jacket) suit.\n- Wear a tie. This can be either a bow tie or a necktie, and be sure to include it in your look. You can always take it off if you feel it’s too formal, but don’t skip out on neckwear. \n- Put on those dress shoes. Ensure they are in pristine condition by polishing them or replacing the laces, but trade sneakers for [upgraded footwear](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_frankie_brown_shoe). The only exception is fashion sneakers that have never seen the gymnasium.\n- Don’t forget your belt. If you’re transitioning into your cocktail attire while traveling or after work, double check that you packed your belt. It’s a frequently overlooked piece, but it’s essential for a polished look.\n- Have your best shirt dry cleaned and ready to go. A semi-formal occasion isn’t the time for the sniff test to see if you can wear that oxford once again. Keep it classy in a freshly [cleaned and pressed shirt.](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_white_dress_shirt) \n- Opt for extras. Even though there are relatively strict standards, don’t toss your personal style out the window. Add pops of personality with [cufflinks](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/edelweissjewelry_zola_love_collection_cufflinks_14kyellowgold) and a pocket square, if you choose. Patterned socks and carefully placed jewelry—such as a quality watch or gold bracelet—can also add an extra style element.\n\n![Cocktail Attire for Men: A Comprehensive Guide](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3REpNIpJLkBdSNqkQmDd5o/7edd6cea2e76d34ccecbe186af356770/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n## When to Wear Cocktail Attire for Men\nOf course, cocktail attire is expected when an invitation indicates it as the dress code. Beyond that, here are a few events where you may need to wear a suit jacket [and a tie.](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_slim_tie_eggplant) \n\n- __Weddings:__ Cocktail attire is often the standard for men, especially for an evening wedding. Luckily, invitations will typically state the type of dress. However, you can take cues from the time of day and [venue](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-find-an-affordable-wedding-venue) to figure out what type of cocktail wedding attire is expected. \n- __Celebrations:__ You don’t want to show up at your nephew’s first birthday cake smash in cocktail attire. Yet, there are occasions where a jacket and dress pants are the perfect fit. Retirement parties, anniversary celebrations, and rehearsal dinners are ideal opportunities to kick up your style a notch.\n- __Holiday Parties:__ The holidays lend themselves to dressing up a bit. Some families opt for cocktail attire during their Thanksgiving dinner. Similarly, heading to events such as office holiday parties and New Year’s Eve celebrations call for something more stylish. \n- __Business Events:__ Quite often, cocktail attire is appropriate in the workplace. Likewise, an after-hours business event, such as a reception or open house, may call for a suit [jacket and tie combo. ](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_brilliant_blue_suit_jacket)\n- __Cocktail Parties:__ The extravagant cocktail parties of the ‘50s and ‘60s have come back into vogue, providing the perfect opportunity to dress up a bit. \n\n## Final Tips for Nailing Wedding Cocktail Attire Like a Pro\nReach out to the couple if you have any questions at all about what to wear. The last thing you want to do is wear your best suit and bowtie to an ultra-casual backyard BBQ reception. \n\n#### Consider the Location\nAn invitation to a summer evening wedding can leave dress up to interpretation, but take cues from the venue. If the couple is getting married in a barn and having lawn games at their reception, chances are you can go for more casual cocktail attire. For a hotel wedding and reception, you can err on the more formal side of cocktail attire. When in doubt, reach out for clarification. \n\n#### Look at the Time of Day\nBrunch weddings are social and relaxing, and there’s a good chance the attire is too. In contrast, a late evening event calls for a bit more formality. You can get away with wearing [lighter colors](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_textured_gray_suit_jacket) during the daytime, such as camel and pale blue. However, nighttime calls for darker, more formal cocktail attire. \n\n#### Think About Your Hosts \nWe all know “that” couple who might buck trends and require cocktail attire for a more informal occasion. There will be photos, after all. Considering the couple and their level of formality can help you decide what to wear while keeping the event’s tone in mind.\n\n#### Add Color in the Right Places.\nThat fuschia suit you own fits like a glove, but it may not be the ideal choice for cocktail attire. In contrast, depending on the couple (see the previous point), it may work like a charm. However, when it comes to color, subtle is usually best. Although flecks of color in your [pocket square](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/birdygrey_didi_pocket_square_rosequartz), socks, and necktie can showcase personal style, think charcoal and navy tones for your base pieces. \n\n![Cocktail Attire for Men: A Comprehensive Guide](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1lDRZtSgbZBpMTl0cso493/067f404f92540cbbfe9ac0a205a5e368/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n#### Pick the Pristine\nWhen choosing your clothing pieces, consider their condition, fit, and cleanliness. Take a moment to buff scratches out of your belt, or take that old faithful jacket—with holes—out of your wardrobe. Being invited to a cocktail event is a great excuse to do a bit of closet inventory. If you find anything in need of TLC, either make repairs or ditch them. \n\n#### Consider the Questionable \nWhen it comes to jeans and cocktail attire, the answer is no—except when your host allows it. If your host is okay with denim, opt for dark blue or black hues, so that your look is still elevated. Skip the tennis shoes unless you have statement sneakers that are in immaculate condition. There should be no question when it comes to fit. Unless baggy is a part of your signature style, a perfect silhouette is the way to go. \n\nDressing for a special occasion can be a breeze by following a few guidelines. A jacket, tie, and a few simple accessories can set you up for success. \n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Learn the ins and outs of semi-formal attire for men. 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Discover perfect outfits for an enchanting outdoor celebration.","title":"What to Wear to a Garden Attire Wedding + Outfit Ideas","slug":"wedding-attire-101-garden-edition","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How To","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7KWMJbQXACJUKgjm4SJk5p/351ea3ef7aea27d1454597021f0d5639/Hero_ClassicBlackTieWeddingatRiversideChurch_CinderandCo.jpg","altText":"Bride and groom outdoors under a flowering tree at a garden wedding"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"To help your groom’s crew achieve wedding party perfection, here’s a total rundown of both traditional and lesser-known duties that the groomsmen can handle to make your day a breeze.","title":"The Groomsmen Duties: A Full Breakdown","slug":"what-are-the-groomsmen-duties","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/fWwz6PEGcwUqySiyogssM/896f7054e8a5e377c932d0a30417662c/Groomsmen-Duties_DreamlifePhotosandVideo.jpg","altText":"groom and groomsmen in light grey suits"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:39:54.478Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"how-much-do-bridesmaid-dresses-cost","title":"How Much Do Bridesmaid Dresses Cost on Average?","excerpt":"Looking for bridesmaid dresses for your special day? Get familiar with the average cost of a bridesmaid dress, and your options to fit your budget. Read on.","author":"Rachel Varina","publishedAt":"2021-01-04T17:38:42.676Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4rWYW7jhRKhHzhpMCJgoJn/4fbc97c2578c786911c1a4fa5718c0fc/Hero_Soft_AiryBohoWeddinginSanDiego_Nine10PhotoboothImages.jpg","altText":"average bridesmaid dress cost "},"heroCredit":"Nine 10 Photobooth Images","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- The average cost of a a bridesmaid dress is $150, but you can find gowns that will fit most every budget.\n- For bridesmaids with different budgets, styles, and/or body types, consider utilizing the mismatched bridesmaid dress trend. \n- Try to remember that no matter what your wedding party wears, the day will still be special.","body":"Deciding how to outfit your wedding party for the big day is one of the more challenging feats that couples face. Not only do you have to decide on colors and [bridesmaid dress styles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/guide-to-bridesmaid-dress-styles), but you have to make selections that respect everyone’s budgets. If you’re trying to figure out how to balance aesthetics with finances, we’ve got you covered. We’re breaking down everything from the average cost of bridesmaids’ dresses to where you can rent designer day-of looks. \n\n## What is the Average Cost of Bridesmaid Dresses? \nAccording to experts, the average cost of a bridesmaid dress is about $150. Keep in mind that’s the average cost for just one dress - multiply that average by the number of bridesmaids in your wedding party and the costs will add up quickly. The money you put towards a bridesmaid budget isn’t chump change, especially when considering all the other costs involved in a wedding. \n\nIn addition to the dress, there are things such as accessories, dress alterations, and day-of glam, as well as travel costs, gift costs, and extras, such as bachelorette party and wedding shower decorations, activities, and refreshments to consider. All in all, being in a wedding—whether you’re a bride, groom, parent, or member of the wedding party—is pricey, so keep that in mind when selecting bridesmaid dresses. \n\n![How Much Do Bridesmaid Dresses Cost?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4adMoIa0f6HSr63rWEPIzm/fbc329bd1172996f418da9dc7149446c/inline_unsplash.jpg)*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Pick a Price Range\nWhile it might not be the most comfortable topic to broach with your besties, chatting about bridesmaid budgets is important, so as to ensure that you respect everyone’s financial abilities. Reach out to each member of your wedding party individually to get an idea of what they feel comfortable paying. \n\nOffer your friends ranges from under $100, $100-$150, $150-$250, $250+ for dresses, which will help you narrow down choices when selecting bridesmaid dresses . There are tons of options in each range, so don’t worry about limiting your choices. If you do happen to fall in love with a style outside of the chosen range, offer to make up the difference yourself (if this doesn’t work for your wedding budget, consider looking for a similar dress in the chosen price range). \n\n## Consider Mismatched Dresses\n \nIf you’re asking your bridesmaids to buy their own dresses, there’s a good chance that your pals will have different body types, style preferences, and budgets. A great way to make sure that everyone feels comfortable is to let them each select their own gowns. Luckily, mismatched dresses are becoming much more popular (and create a chic wedding party look), so no one will bat an eye or wonder why your bridesmaids aren’t matching from head to toe. Give them guidelines (such as colors, fabric, and/or length) or pull together some options you love in different price ranges. \n\n## Look into Renting Dresses\nWhether your pals aren’t looking for dresses they can re-wear or you have your eye on a [designer label](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/bridesmaids-bridal-party?brands=5e311b0b31616d03cb92e498), renting bridesmaid dresses is a great way to secure your dream wedding party look at a lower price. Not only do sites such as [Rent the Runway](https://www.renttherunway.com/) provide a plethora of wedding-oriented designers, such as Badgley Mischka, to choose from, but the site offers formal options starting around $40 as well. Renting will be easier if you go the mismatched bridesmaid look route and let each gal pick her own style. Just make sure that everyone gets their orders in on time, and that your bridesmaids will feel beautiful at the wedding (while avoiding blowing through their savings in the process). \n\n## Factor in the Extras\n\n![How Much Do Bridesmaid Dresses Cost?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7MKRgrt7UXHeuj5qHlWnbg/628a7cf8260d2f729a7ca878f32e9e68/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\nWhile it’s important to consider the cost of the actual dresses, that’s not where the fees stop for bridesmaids. In addition to the cost of the gowns, consider the price of details such as dress alterations, [shoes](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/bridal-shoes), [accessories](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop-accessories), day-of hair and makeup, and the accommodations. While you’re not obligated to pick up the tab on everything, it’s nice when the engaged couple offers to alleviate some of the financial burden placed upon the wedding party (or at least find ways to keep costs down). Instead of asking everyone to get new shoes, let them pick their own (within a few boundaries) and send a pic to the bride or MOH for final approval, or give them the accessories or wedding day hair styling to make your bridesmaids feel pampered (and their budgets feel taken care of). \n\n## Remember the Big Picture \nUltimately, the day is about more than friends in matching gowns and the gleaming bridesmaid accessories. While it’s totally normal (and fun) to have a wedding day vision, don’t forget the real reason behind the celebration: It isn’t about the color-coordinated wedding party or the perfect pair of shoes. It’s about marrying the person of your dreams with your favorite people by your side. While it can be stressful coordinating outfits—especially if your bridesmaids have different budgets and body types—try to be flexible should any bridesmaid dress-related drama arise. And, remember that no matter what your bridal party wears, at the end of the day you’re still promising forever to your other half, which will make for a truly beautiful event. \n\nWhether your pals rock designer gowns, preowned dresses, or rented maxis, all that matters is that they’re there to celebrate you. However you outfit them, it’s their love for you that will truly make your bridesmaids look the part. \n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Read our round-up of the best places to buy bridesmaid dresses online, plus storefronts to try them on in person. Some budget-friendly, some unique, all flattering.\n","title":"Where to Buy Bridesmaid Dresses: 13 Shops + Answering FAQs","slug":"where-to-buy-bridesmaid-dresses","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2XC5WoAwwzfV7qUKlERL1B/3e27d6f5155bbc52158a4423ba100c97/Hero_EtherealCoastalRomanceStyledShoot_ArleneJacobsPhotography__2_.jpg","altText":"Bride sitting with her bridesmaids in pink dresses on the wedding day"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Not quite sure who should be paying for the bridesmaid's dresses at your wedding? Read our guide to our expert advice.","title":"Who Pays for Bridesmaid’s Dresses? ","slug":"who-pays-for-bridesmaids-dresses","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/13ZKNhp1wk9ozS31qOiyAH/1820e2294348f0818c2dea1b8a1eb251/Hero_BohoDesertWeddingatTroonNorthGolfClub_DrewBrashlerPhotography.jpg","altText":"Who Pays for Bridesmaid’s Dresses"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Don’t know when to order bridesmaid dresses before your wedding? Our experts can help! Read on to find out now.","title":"When Should You Order Bridesmaids Dresses?","slug":"when-should-you-order-bridesmaids-dresses","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/76BvuppwTduYTjb9BHTQK5/9b67ff2e9b1f9b31881a679518739109/Hero_SophisticatedMemphisCelebration_JoshAndAleahPhotography.jpg","altText":"When Should You Order Bridesmaids Dresses"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Today’s average wedding dress cost is between $1,500 - $2,500. We’ll give you a full breakdown of wedding dress costs, plus ways to save on your dream dress!","title":"The Average Wedding Dress Cost in 2025","slug":"average-wedding-dress-cost","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4IgzPKbJMjCnUvkugF2s6T/670bcf3bd50fa8684631321c31f0d15a/average-wedding-dress-cost-hero.jpg","altText":"A woman stands smiling in the mirror of a bridal dress boutique after trying on a wedding dress, indicating she researched the average wedding dress cost. "},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:39:53.995Z"}],"pagination":{"currentPage":3,"total":57},"subtopic":{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"let-bridesmaids-choose-own-dresses","title":"The Complete Guide to Mismatched Bridesmaid Dresses","excerpt":"Letting your bridesmaids pick their own dresses for your wedding day means confident bridesmaids and less stress for you. Here are the do’s and don'ts of letting your bridesmaids pick out their own dress. ","publishedAt":"2024-08-13T10:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6kKYuHOeeUvE5sqbavfpLI/a5b85a5d99beac71432d942beadfd696/katelyn-macmillan-5VhSc5jCA2g-unsplash.jpg","altText":"groom with bridesmaids in different dresses"},"heroCredit":"Katelyn Macmillan","tldr":"__Inside this article:__ \n- Why let your bridesmaids choose their own dress?\n- What could go wrong?\n- Guidelines to letting bridemaids pick a dress","body":"__TLDR:__\n- Letting bridesmaids pick their own dresses may seem risky, but it can give them confidence as they end up with a gown they love.\n- Be specific with any guidelines you have, such as if you have a specific color in mind or want a floor length dress.\n- Also, let them know what type of shoes and accessories you'd like your bridal party to wear on your big day.\n\n## Letting bridesmaids pick their own dresses\n\nYou whittled down your social circle into the __[perfect wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one)__ and now it’s time to decide what everyone’s going to wear. While it’s not necessary for the wedding party to wear matching outfits, many couples like to achieve a cohesive look. \n\nTraditionally, bridesmaids wear the same dress or outfit in the chosen wedding color. This helps the bride stand out in her [wedding dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/classic-wedding-dresses-for-the-traditional-bride), makes for visually cohesive photos, and also helps other wedding guests identify the members of the wedding party. \n\nHowever, many couples are loosening the reins and letting __[attendants choose dresses](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop)__ that reflect their individual maid of honor or bridesmaid style. With so much to plan for the wedding day, it may not be necessary to maintain control over everything. Mismatching dresses are one of the best ways to help your bridesmaids feel comfortable. They'll also have more freedom to select a dress that reflects their own style and flatters their body type. \n\nIf you're worried about letting go of control when it comes to mix and match bridesmaid dresses for your big day, don't worry. Or perhaps you just don't care and are willing to give free rein. From choosing bridesmaid dress colors to creating cohesive bridesmaid looks, here’s some wedding inspiration and insights to help you achieve a look that works for your wedding style and for your bridesmaids. \n\n## Why would I let my bridesmaids choose their own dresses?\n \nWe get it: It’s your wedding and it can feel easier to maintain control and just put your girls in the same bridesmaid dress style. However, there are some pluses to giving your attendants this freedom and not having them wear matching bridesmaid dresses.\n\n- __Comfort.__ Anyone who’s ever been a bridesmaid (or dress shopped for that matter) understands that being assigned a specific dress isn’t ideal. What works for one body doesn’t necessarily work for another and the potential resulting discomfort of a unified bridal party look can leave your bridesmaids feeling meh. If they can choose their own dresses, they can seek out different styles, necklines, and cuts that flatter their figures.\n- __Confidence.__ In that same vein, when you look good, you feel good. Let your bridesmaids [choose dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-pick-bridesmaid-dresses) they love (or at least feel comfortable in) and they’ll radiate confidence, not discomfort on your wedding day.\n- __Price.__ Money is often one of the biggest pain points for bridal parties. It’s [expensive to be a bridesmaid](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-bridesmaid-duties)! You don’t have to worry about settling on a price point that fits into everyone’s budget (or feeling guilty for choosing expensive dresses) if you let your bridesmaids choose their own dresses.\n\n![Zola - Mismatched Bridesmaids Dresses: How to Pull Off the Look](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/47xZofgiF7kwAgCW841P3u/2945a2669ac319627e743bc40307f78d/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n\n## Could skipping a specific dress go a little off the rails?\n \nDefinitely. Offering your bridesmaids free rein to select their outfits for your wedding is nerve-wracking. You don’t want to end up with an entirely mismatched situation (unless you do!). There are some cons to letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses.\n- __Cohesion.__ Obviously, if you let your bridesmaids choose their own dresses, they'll probably all pick different styles…and maybe even different colors. If you really want a traditionally cohesive look, maybe reconsider this route.\n- __Confusion.__ Too much of anything isn’t great—the same is true for bridal party freedom. Without any guidelines at all, you may find yourself answering a lot of texts about what’s OK and what’s not—from materials to color to price to length and more.\n\n## Guidelines for letting bridesmaids choose their own dresses\n \nMake the dress hunt easy for your bridesmaids and yourself by being clear about what you really do and don’t want. That way, every one from your maid of honor to junior bridesmaids can feel good in a dress that suits their body type.\n\n### 1. Do: Be specific.\nSure, you told your girls you wanted everyone in pastel green. Great! No, not great. When we say be specific, we mean be specific. If you have a look in mind, be clear about that. Here are some details you may want to be extra clear about:\n\n- __Dress color.__ If you have a dress color in mind, that’s great. However, what looks mauve to one person may be more pale violet to another. Picking a single color can make it difficult for bridesmaids to find dresses in the exact same shade from different vendors. Consider putting together a color palette of 3-4 complementary colors for your [bridesmaids to choose](https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingplanning/comments/pujak6/letting_bridesmaids_pick_dress_style/) from. or offer up a few vendors you’d like for them to order from.\n\n- __Length.__ Some brides don’t mind a variety of hemlines—floor-length, knee-length, mini, midi, etc. If you want all of your bridesmaids in the same length dress, let them know. Alternatively, if you really don’t mind different lengths, let them know that, too.\n\n- __Material.__ Satin, chiffon, charmeuse, crepe, taffeta—the world of dress materials is vast. If all of your bridesmaids are wearing the same exact color, dresses in different materials can be a nice way to add some dimension to the look. However, too many materials can also be a bit distracting. If you don’t want anyone in a jersey knit, make that clear.\n\n- __Style.__ By this, we mean the level of formality. If you’re having a black-tie wedding, you may not want your bridesmaids in semi-formal dresses. Be sure to outline the dress code clearly.\n\nClarity is key. Before you tell your bridesmaids they can choose their own dresses, come prepared with your own suggestions and requirements.\n\n### 2. Don’t: Forget about cost.\nWe like the idea that letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses may remove some of the financial strain. We also like the idea of a bride providing a shortlist (3-5) of dress vendors for the bridal party to choose from. If you go this route, consider selecting different styles you love in a variety of price ranges. Be considerate of your party’s financial situations—and be open to discussing it with any bridesmaid who may be in a tough spot.\n\n![Mismatched Bridesmaid Dresses Yellow](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2hmZIQ3ztPJpdpQndGPd87/bf0699bd01b2345d51b6221c07bbaa1a/Mismatched_Bridesmaid_Dresses_Yellow.jpg)\nPhoto by [Emma Lee Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/emma-lee-photography)\n\n### 3. Do: Make it a group activity.\nYou made a day out of wedding dress shopping…so why not make one out of bridesmaid dress shopping? Go to brunch and then hit the stores. Keep it simple and have a couple of boutiques picked out for the shopping expedition. Note: This may involve making appointments ahead of time. This way, your bridesmaids can choose a variety of dresses and you can be there in person to share immediate impressions. Not only is this just a fun wedding party activity, but it also helps busier bridesmaids find time to shop and nudges along any that err on the side of procrastination.\n\nIf your bridesmaids don’t live in the same area or can’t make the shopping day, that’s OK. Consider scheduling a Facetime with them as they shop. You can also create a dedicated group chat (if you haven’t already) to dress shopping.\n\n### 4. Don’t: Get complicated.\nAbove all, letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses shouldn’t be too complicated or stressful. In fact, it should potentially make things a little easier for you. These girls are your bridesmaids for a reason—and they want to make your wedding day go smoothly. Trust that they’ve got this under control and really, truly, let them take the reins on this one. (Don’t forget to __[thank them for their hard work](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/top-10-ways-to-thank-your-bridesmaids)__ in the planning process, either.)\n\nWho knows, they might even pick a dress they like so much, they’ll wear it again. Isn’t that the best-case scenario for any bridesmaid dress?\n\n### 5. Do: A final check-in.\nThere are the hair and makeup trials, the catering and cake tastings, and, of course, the bridesmaid dress check-in. It’s always a good idea to get on the same page after they've dress shopped and before anything is finalized. Make sure your bridesmaids run their final dress choices by you before they purchase. This way you can see if it fits into your ultimate vision or theme—and you eliminate any surprises and last-minute stress.\n\nGive your bridesmaids an absolute deadline for their final dress check-in. It sounds like a bridezilla move, but, trust us, it benefits them, too. You want everyone to have ample time to either find a new dress or get any necessary alterations. We recommend scheduling your check-in for about seven months ahead of the wedding. Therefore, let bridesmaids pick their own dresses well in advance.\n\n### 6. Don’t: Disregard shoes and accessories.\nBridesmaid attire doesn’t end with the dress. Accessories are everything, especially if you’re going for a mismatched bridesmaid dress look. Choosing a pair of shoes or a specific shoe style and color is an easy way to bring a cohesive look to your bridal party. \n\nIf you don’t have a shoe in mind, be sure to be clear about style. This way you avoid one girl in heels and another in flats. (If one of your bridesmaids needs to wear flats for a personal reason, though, we recommend hearing her out on that, of course.) Alternatively, you may want your bridal party in flats or sneakers. Again, just make sure you’re aligned.\n\nSimilarly, let your bridesmaids know what jewelry you do or don’t want them to wear. Traditionally, brides will purchase and then gift the jewelry they want their bridesmaids to wear. If you want to let them choose their own, that’s cool, too. Be sure, as always, to be clear about style.\n\nAnd don't forget about florals! Bridesmaid bouquets are an accessory in their own right, and will add cohesion to the look of your wedding party. Make sure that whatever flowers you're ordering will complement the bridesmaids' dresses. \n\n![Mismatched Christmas Bridesmaid Winter Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/lGiH566fp4nPH7kj6E8Dt/f3c59ea510b079cf8dbe3584bfa84354/Mismatched_Christmas_Bridesmaid_Winter_Dresses.jpg)\nPhoto by [Bokeh Love Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/bokeh-love-photography-llc)\n\n## 5 Mismatched bridesmaid dress ideas\n \nReady to get down to specifics? Here are some of the approaches you can take when building a mismatched bridal party look.\n\n### 1. Same color, different dress styles\nThis is one of the most straightforward approaches when it comes to choosing different bridesmaid dresses. You have them wearing the same exact color, like dusty blue or burnt orange, and ask your bridesmaids to find whatever dress they want in the chosen color. Add some cohesion to these different styles by giving them certain guidelines—for example, maybe you want them all to wear a maxi dress, or wear dresses that are in the same fabric. \n\n### 2. Same color, different neckline\nIf you're going to be strict about the color and style of the dress, you can give your bridesmaids some flexibility by letting them choose their own neckline. This is one of the best ways to accommodate different body types, as each girl can wear whatever cut she feels comfortable in. For example, maybe your maid of honor has a larger chest and would prefer a dress with straps—while another bridesmaid might love strapless styles.\n\n### 3. Same color, different textures\nTexture is a great way to create visual interest among your different bridesmaid dresses. For example, let's say you're having a [fall wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-look-in-fall-bridesmaid-dresses) and have asked your bridesmaids to wear burnt orange. Maybe one finds a satin dress she loves in the burnt orange shade, while another is drawn to a velvet style. Assign a texture to each maid that not only lets them show off their own personal style, but works well with the textures of the other dresses.\n\n### 4. Different shades of the same color palette\nIf you don't have a specific color in mind, keep it broad and ask bridesmaids to stick to a specific color scheme. For example, you might let your wedding party know to look for shades of green bridesmaid dresses (like sage and forest) or pink bridesmaid dresses (like dusty pink and fuschia). Ideally, this will create a sort of tonal, ombre-inspired look that's perfect for boho weddings.\n\n### 5. Different colors\nIf you want to make a bold statement with your bridal party, get creative by pairing different colors. You can choose a color family, like warm tones or cool tones, or choose a color scheme that reflects the season—for example, jewel tones for a moody winter wedding or pastel shades for a springtime celebration.\n\n![Letting Bridesmaids Pick Their Own Dress](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/0Auo6BBWFwwKMNbZmrGzA/dc4efb283015a188fd07e140c1a3da34/Letting_Bridesmaids_Pick_Their_Own_Dress.jpg)\nPhoto by [Anna So Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/anna-so-photography)\n\n## Thinking beyond the dresses\nEven if you're letting the [bridesmaids choose](https://www.quora.com/Will-you-choose-bridesmaid-dresses-for-your-bridesmaids-or-let-them-choose-their-own-Do-you-want-the-color-to-be-the-same-or-different) their own dress, you still have a lot on your plate while planning your special day. And Zola is here to help every step along the way. \n\nFrom [getting engaged](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/to-dos-after-you-get-engaged) and [announcing the big news](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-announce-your-engagement) to [selecting wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-invitations-paper-guide), we are here 24/7 with expert advice just waiting for you to learn. Happy planning!","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Pick out a thoughtful gift for the squad that shows up for you on your big day. 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Read our full, comprehensive guide on the most appropriate men’s attire that will make you look like you just stepped off the red carpet.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-12-28T17:16:07.930Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ib0hKIbbrVyFqK5kVrTba/419da62e0242fd57217d6ce823673ba4/Hero_Modern_Multi-CulturalWeddingat5226Elm_PaigeNewton.jpg","altText":"How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding"},"heroCredit":"Paige Newton","body":"Whether it’s the Golden Globes or the Grammys, many of us—male and female—watch for the styles. The fashion chatter usually centers around the ladies; however, there is something to be said for a guy who can successfully achieve a red carpet look. So, take your cues from award show fashion to gain inspiration for __[what to wear to a black-tie wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding)__, and forget about any casual attire.\n\nAlthough some guys go off-script and wear colorful and downright outlandish looks, it’s best to stick to the formal dress code rules and formal attire when attending a black-tie wedding. After all, not many can pull off the fashions that Lil Nas X wears at the Grammys. Actually, for most occasions, formal wedding outfits require black-tie attire, which means a tuxedo. A black tie outfit is the height of style, and, consequently, it’s an effortless look to sport. We’ll tell you how with our guide to __[dressing in your black-tie best](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-dress-for-a-black-tie-formal-wedding)__ for an evening wedding.\n\n![How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5xWzi6cRFkonwgW4riVJT5/e43866ef6817ca410e1a3e0da8e0850c/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Black Tie Dress Code Explained\nFirst things first—before we jump into how to dress for a black tie wedding, let's quickly cover where, exactly, the black-tie dress tie comes from.\n\nBlack tie is a semi-formal dress code that dates back to the 19th century. The dress code was popularized both in Britain and America. Both tuxedos and dark suits fall under the \"black tie\" umbrella—and while the dress code is semi-formal, it's generally [appropriate wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding) for more formal events.\n\n## The Perfect Pieces for a Black-Tie Wedding Look\nBlack-tie attire means that you should be wearing a black tuxedo or a dark suit (black suits, dark blue suits, and gray suits are all appropriate), but you can still let your personality shine through. With a few simple guidelines, you can put an outfit together worthy of the red carpet or wedding aisle.\n\n- __Tuxedo Jacket__ : Like the many takes on the classic cocktail dress, there are several __[styles of jackets](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_jacket)__. that work for black tie looks, like dinner jackets, tuxedo jackets, and more formal blazers. However, the common denominator in men’s black-tie suiting is the presence of satin on the lapels (whether it’s a notch lapel, peak lapel, or shawl lapel). Satin fabric also hides the buttons, which elevates the look of any black tux. Although black dress is the standard for black-tie events, darker tones of blue (like midnight blue) are acceptable. A good rule of thumb is to leave the single button closure fastened while standing, to maintain a fitted look (which can also be enhanced by a slim fit cut). \n\n- __Trousers__ : [Pants should match](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_pants) the jacket in both fabric and color. Satin goes down the outside seam on each pant leg, which serves to enhance the look. \n\n- __Crisp, Collared Shirt__ : A white shirt is the only acceptable color, but there is a little leeway with styling. Some tuxedo shirts are wing-tipped, but a [well-constructed oxford](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_tuxedo_shirt) would also suffice. Authentic tux shirts also have small pleats vertically across the chest to add interest. If you don't have an authentic tux shirt, ensure that your white dress shirt looks up to par. \n\n- __Black Shoes__ : Shiny, patent leather shoes are the norm for tuxedos, although quality black leather shoes or loafers will also do the trick. Don’t forget to wear socks. Over the calf, dark socks are ideal.\n\n- __Black Bow Tie__ : A [bow tie](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_bow_tie) allows those tiny pleats in the shirt to have their moment in the sun. Black is the traditional color, and be sure that your necktie neckwear is solid, not patterned.\n\n- __White Pocket Square__ : Dark jackets are in stark contrast to a pure white pocket square. However, it’s incredible how a [tiny square of fabric](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/birdygrey_didi_pocket_square_dustyblue) can create a cohesive look.\n\n- __Cufflinks__ : Unless you’re wearing an oxford, most tuxedo shirts close at the wrist with [cufflinks](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/edelweissjewelry_zola_love_collection_cufflinks_14kyellowgold). particularly if you’re wearing lengthier French cuffs. Subtly is better than going crazy with color, and be sure to match your cufflinks with other metals that you’re wearing. \n\n- __Studs__ : Although you will look like a stud in a tux, that’s not quite where we’re going with this. Upon close inspection, most tuxedo shirts have studs instead of buttons. These aren’t 100 percent necessary, but they do add to the look. Also, be sure to match metals with your cufflinks and other jewelry pieces. \n\n- __Vest or Cumberbund__ : These pieces are never meant to be worn in tandem. Covering your midsection with a cummerbund or vest is posh, but not completely necessary. If you do decide to wear one, remember that this isn’t high school. Black is best, so stay away from vibrant colors meant for prom.\n\n![How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/78mHneRzRZEno1T3RJAHp0/7b5a54fa7ba993829e03dedf46a4dea2/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Where to Get a Tux for a Black-Tie Wedding\n\n### How to Rent a Tuxedo Locally\nMost guys don’t have a tux hanging in their closet, but if they do, chances are that it doesn’t get much use. That’s where rentals come in handy. Many local bridal salons and upscale men’s shops rent tuxedos to grooms and other wedding party members. So if you need a black tie outfit, chances are that they can get you one, too.\n\n#### Pros of Renting a Tux Locally\nAn advantage of heading somewhere in person is that you can ensure a perfect fit. Also, if something is wrong—a missing button or loose hem—they can order another piece or fix it on site. You can also see fabrics and styles in person, which is a huge plus. \n\n#### Cons of Renting a Tux Locally\nThe downside to renting is usually drop-off times, especially if you’re traveling and rent at your final destination. Returning your tux before an early Sunday morning flight may prove difficult.\n\n### How to Rent a Tux Online\nIt seems that you can do just about anything with the internet at your fingertips, and renting a tux is one of them. Many businesses specialize in formalwear rentals, so be sure to select a longstanding one with a good reputation.\n\n#### Pros of Renting a Tux Online\nQuite often, companies have strict measurement guidelines on their website. However, many online rental sites will send you a tuxedo to test out before the main event. They are also a bit more flexible with return times, giving up to 72 hours to ship your pieces back.\n\n#### Cons of Renting a Tux Online\nAlthough rentals usually come with quick shipping, it’s tough to solve problems right away if something arrives damaged. Unless you can do a try on ahead of time, selecting fabrics and styles from afar can prove challenging. \n\n### Where to Buy a Tuxedo\nIf you’re the exception and have quite a few black-tie events coming up, investing in a tuxedo can save money in the long run. Many men’s clothiers sell tuxedos, although purchasing online is also an option. Be sure to order it well in advance of your black-tie wedding so that you can make exchanges if necessary.\n\n## In the Case of Black-Tie Optional\nYikes! You’re all set with what black-tie is, but the invitation adds one tiny, scary word after it—optional. Don’t worry. Demystifying the terminology is easier than it sounds, but this never, ever means that jeans and your favorite band t-shirt are okay.\n\nBlack-tie optional attire for weddings is a bit more relaxed than a tuxedo. Often, couples choose this option to alleviate any financial burden for their guests. After all, the expense of traveling and buying a wedding gift is enough without having to spring for new suiting. So, seeing the word “optional” is a good thing. \n\nThink of it as mimicking a tuxedo without wearing one. Dark suiting with a crisp, white shirt and black shoes are ideal. Also, add traditional accessories, such as a pocket square, dark bow tie, and cufflinks. Skip the studs and cummerbund, but feel free to wear a vest if you have one that matches your suit.\n\nThe rule of thumb is to stick to the dress code and wear your most formal wear. If you don’t own a suit, it’s probably the time to invest in one, or you could go the tuxedo rental route.\n\n*__Quick tip:__ Black-tie optional can also be referenced as “black-tie preferred.”*\n\nSo, whether you’re headed to a black-tie wedding or are one of the fortunate ones to walk the red carpet at a black-tie event, use our guide to get it right. With a few key pieces—either borrowed or purchased—you’ll soon be looking your best at the season’s best events. Which, of course, includes weddings.\n\n## 10 Black Tie Wedding Attire Ideas for Men\nLooking for some help with black tie attire? We’ve come up with these formal wedding outfit ideas to help you nail your look.\n\n### 1. Pronto Uomo Modern Fit Tuxedo Coat\nThis black __[Pronto Uomo tuxedo coat](https://www.menswearhouse.com/p/pronto-uomo-modern-fit-suit-separates-tuxedo-coat-black-3X933X9410)__ is a sleek and elegant choice for any black tie affair. The trim and modern fit provides plenty of comfort and mobility and features a two-button design and satin notch lapel. This tuxedo coat retails for $219.99 at Men’s Wearhouse.\n\n### 2. Stretch Tuxedo Shirt\nThis __[Stretch Tuxedo Shirt](https://bonobos.com/products/stretch-tuxedo-shirt)__ is a comfortable and snappy component of any black-tie outfit. The shirt features attractive mother-of-pearl buttons and double-knife pleats for some added texture. French cuffs tie the look together with an added touch of elegance—and ample opportunity to show off your favorite pair of cufflinks. This shirt retails for $179 from Bonobos.\n\n### 3. Barathea Tuxedo Pants\nFor a classic look that ties your look together, these black __[Barathea Tuxedo Pants](https://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=442547002)__ are the answer. These pants are made from 100% virgin wool from one of Italy’s oldest mills and tailored with a slim fit for a comfortable, natural look that works in any season. Available for $220 from Banana Republic.\n\n### 4. Black and Burgundy Paisley Tuxedo Vest Set\nElevate your look with this __[Black and Burgundy Paisley Tuxedo Vest Set](https://paulmalone.com/collections/tuxedo-vests/products/black-and-burgundy-paisley-tuxedo-vest-set)__. The set includes a wine red and black paisley microfiber vest, matching pocket square, and your choice of a matching necktie or pre-tied cravat—though you can also pair it with your favorite bow tie. Altogether, this set is an affordable and stylish solution for any formal wedding or black-tie event. Available for $39.97 from Paul Malone.\n\n### 5. Steel and Onyx Tuxedo Studs\nAccessorizing isn’t always the easiest—especially with black-tie attire. Fortunately, these __[Steel and Onyx Tuxedo Studs](https://propercloth.com/products/steel-and-onyx-tuxedo-studs-431.html)__ are the perfect addition for a modern and classy take on a tux. These steel studs are Italian-made and come four to a set, with each featuring a black onyx face. These tuxedo studs retail for $75 from Proper Cloth.\n\n### 6. Personalized Rose Gold Round Cufflinks\nThough some cufflinks fly under the radar, these __[Personalized Rose Gold Round Cufflinks](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cathysconcepts_personalized_rose_gold_round_cuff_links_u)__ make a statement. The elegant rose gold adds a bit of contrast to your getup—while the engraveable face adds a personalized touch. Available from Zola for $27.99.\n\n### 7. Cummerbund\nThis __[Cummerbund](https://theblacktux.com/collection/accessory/cummerbund)__ can help you truly embrace the formality of a black-tie outfit. Made of plain black silk and with adjustable backing, this cummerbund won’t cramp your style on the dancefloor, but will help you stand out as someone who respects tradition. Available to rent for $15 or to purchase for $30 from The Black Tux.\n\n### 8. Tux Plain Toe Derby\nLet your style shine with these liquid-shine __[Tux Plain Toe Derby](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/florsheim-tux-plain-toe-derby-men/4873534)__ patent leather dress shoes. These shows are elegant in their simplicity, with a cushioned footbed to keep you comfortable through the day’s—and night’s—festivities. Available from Nordstrom for $124.95.\n\n### 9. Cotton Pocket Square\nTo add a bit of color to your black-tie outfit, incorporate this stylish and formal light blue __[Cotton Pocket Square](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/deltoro_cotton_pocket_square_lightblue)__. This timeless accessory is made in Lake Como, Italy, from a high-quality cotton that helps elevate your look for any formal affair. Available from Zola for $25.\n\n### 10. Classic-Fit UltraFlex Stretch Black Solid Tuxedo Separates\nShopping for the various bits of a formal ensemble can be overwhelming and time-consuming. Fortunately, this set of __[Classic-Fit UltraFlex Stretch Black Solid Tuxedo Separates](https://www.macys.com/shop/product/lauren-ralph-lauren-mens-classic-fit-ultraflex-stretch-black-solid-tuxedo-separates?ID=10503427)__ has almost everything you need to meet a black-tie dress code. Separates include a tuxedo jacket, pants, and vest, giving you the opportunity to accessorize however you see fit. Retails for $56.25 - $202.50 from Macy’s.\n\n## FAQs About Black Tie Dress Code\nStill not 100% clear on what the black tie dress code is—and how to ensure your wedding attire fits that dress code? Let's take a look at some frequently asked questions about black tie wedding attire to give some additional perspective:\n\n1. __What is the difference between a tuxedo and a suit?__ The main difference between a tuxedo and a suit is that tuxedos have a host of satin features—like lapels, buttons, and pant stripes—that suits do not.\n\n2. __What kinds of weddings have black tie dress codes?__ The black tie dress code is reserved for events that take place in the evenings—so weddings that start after 6pm or so may have a black tie dress code, while more casual daytime affairs would not.\n\n3. __What is the difference between a black tie and a white tie wedding dress code?__ White tie is the most formal dress code—and as such, is reserved for formal occasions. Black tie is considered semi-formal.\n\n4. __What should you do if you're invited to a black tie wedding—but don't have a tuxedo?__ Not to worry! Most men don't own tuxedos. There are plenty of places where you can rent a tuxedo, whether you're a wedding guest or in the wedding party—and if that's not an option, a dark suit would also be appropriate.\n\n5. __Is there any way to incorporate color into black tie wedding attire?__ While there aren't many opportunities for incorporating color into black tie wedding attire, if it's important to you, you could add a pop of color with accessories, like a pocket square.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Learn the ins and outs of semi-formal attire for men. 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Elevate your look for formal events with our fashion guide for the modern gentleman.","title":"Cocktail Attire for Men: Dress Code Guide ","slug":"cocktail-attire-for-men-a-comprehensive-guide","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44agyrTTNhwWSkt7QoxfxT/5e7c84e77d4ed929a512634a7584507a/Hero_Pink_GoldSpringWeddingatTemeculaCreekInn_AperturebyAmandaPhotography.jpg","altText":"Cocktail Attire for Men"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Garden wedding attire blends comfort and style with light fabrics and floral touches. Discover perfect outfits for an enchanting outdoor celebration.","title":"What to Wear to a Garden Attire Wedding + Outfit Ideas","slug":"wedding-attire-101-garden-edition","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How To","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7KWMJbQXACJUKgjm4SJk5p/351ea3ef7aea27d1454597021f0d5639/Hero_ClassicBlackTieWeddingatRiversideChurch_CinderandCo.jpg","altText":"Bride and groom outdoors under a flowering tree at a garden wedding"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:39:41.733Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"can-you-wear-a-long-dress-for-cocktail-attire","title":"Can You Wear a Long Dress For Cocktail Attire?","excerpt":"There’s nothing more awkward than being over-dressed or under-dressed at a wedding. Luckily, Zola has you covered with this easy guide. Read on now.","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-14T18:17:19.140Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6FbTEkIOvwhgnjNVFfvbPU/9fed0ee78b65647114b0bbc7e741fe5a/inline_hewittphotography.jpg","altText":"Cocktail wedding Attire"},"heroCredit":"Hewitt Photography","body":"Cocktail attire is generally associated with knee-length dresses, sophisticated heels, and simple suits. However, as one of the most popular (and versatile) dress codes, there are numerous ways that you can incorporate your own personal style in dressing for this type of wedding...starting with long dresses.\n\nFrom the color and fabric of the dress, to the hairstyle and accessories you pair with it, a maxi dress can easily pass as proper cocktail attire, if styled correctly. Below are a few pieces of advice to make sure that you’re picking the right gown and accessorizing it accordingly for a semi-formal ceremony.\n\n### Seasonality Matters\nIf the wedding takes place in the winter, no one is going to bat an eye at the fact that you’re wearing a long dress—if anything, it’s likely expected. All that the cocktail or semi-formal attire request means in the colder months is that you’re welcome to pick a more casual option than what you’d choose for a black-tie event. For example, while you may have picked a silk, emerald green number for a black-tie wedding, you might go for a long, cotton gown with moody florals instead. \n\n### Pick Your Silhouette (and Fabric) Wisely\nA fitted, full-length gown gives off a very different vibe than a flowy maxi with a slit. When planning what length of dress to wear, consider what would seem most cocktail-appropriate and feel the most comfortable to you. If you normally opt for more fitted dresses, maybe consider a knee-length shift or an A-line number, instead. However, if you’re comfortable in something with a lot of movement, then a lightweight maxi-dress is perfectly appropriate.\n\nIn addition to shape, fabrics play an important role in the overall formality of the dress. Fabrics such as satin, velvet, crepe, and organza are generally more suited for black-tie—unless you plan to really dress them down with accessories—while lightweight silk, cotton, and linen blends are much more fitting for a cocktail maxi-dress. Slits and high-low hems are also a fun way to dress down your ensemble, while incorporating a bit of personality.\n\n### Consider the Venue\n\n![Can you wear a long dress for cocktail attire?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4Af8XXHF0YtCmGwrEMXBKy/3ce3bccca2feadc1dafb2771656c2196/inline_chrislanephotography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Chris Lane Photography\n\nIf it’s a backyard wedding or farm setting, then you might not want your dress sweeping the floor the whole evening (or have to wear heels to keep your hem clean). Once you receive the official invitation (or link to the couple’s wedding website!), look up the venue and try to get a good idea of the types of surfaces that you’ll be walking on. There’s always the chance that they’ll rent flooring for the day, but you don’t want to have to rely on it. If you go long, try something that isn’t a ground-duster, or opt for a pair of comfy wedges to add a few inches.\n\n### Opt for Alternative Colors and Prints\nBecause you’re picking a slightly more formal silhouette by going full-length, you can go a little more casual with your color and print choices. If it’s a spring or summer event, maxi dresses in terra cotta or mustard tones are great options, as are dainty florals in vibrant colors. For fall and winter events, jewel tones are always a wise choice, but long-sleeved dresses in moody florals and vintage prints are fun alternatives, too. If you do choose a print, make sure that you pick more subtle accessories so that the look doesn’t become too busy, or make it seem like you’re trying to steal the show.\n\n### Keep It Natural\nIf you’ve got your heart set on wearing a full-length dress, then keep your hair and makeup as laid back as possible. There’s a big difference between cat eyes and a tightly pulled updo, versus relaxed, tousled waves and some subtle lipstick. Details such as undone braids, beachy waves, and natural, kinky curls are great options to complement a less formal maxi. So long as you’re considering the seasons and venue, details such as a low bun, a little bit of extra eye makeup, or a statement lip can work, too.\n\n### Dress It Down With Accessories\nEarrings, hairpieces, shoes, and bags are some of the simplest ways to dress an outfit up or down. Instead of a sparkly clutch, maybe opt for a relaxed crossbody bag in a fun color, instead. For a fall wedding, consider adding a sophisticated leather jacket over your floral maxi dress. A fancier alternative to a denim jacket, a leather jacket keeps you warm, but also ensures that you don’t look out of place. For a summer event, consider tasteful wedges or block heels in a fun print. 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Eyes will be on you throughout the wedding day and into the evening—and odds are you’ll be featured in many photos. Plus, you’ll want to feel your best. With all of this is mind, we’ve put together a comprehensive groom’s and groomsmen's attire guide.\n\n## What's the Difference?\n\nFirst thing’s first: What are the main differences between groom and groomsmen attire? Because suits and tuxedos can look fairly similar (especially in like colors), a few things a groom can do to stand out from his groomsmen are as follows:\n\n- Don a boutonniere. Doing so will also ensure that you coordinate with your partner.\n\n- Wear a different [tie](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-tie-for-groomsmen) or bowtie. This works especially well if your groomsmen’s are all matching.\n\n- Include a print. Wear a patterned blazer or suit jacket over your dress shirt, or patterned accessories, like socks or your pocket square.\n\n- Elevate your look. Differentiate yourself by wearing a different color, high quality fabric, or structure and silhouette. For example, if your groomsmen are wearing light gray or black, opt instead for dark gray or navy. Think along the lines of a bridal gown vs a bridesmaid’s dress.\n\nWith this in mind, read on for our guide.\n\n## Appropriate Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nSo, what is [appropriate](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/groomsmen-etiquette-101-a-beginners-guide) groom and groomsmen wedding attire? Here are some things to keep in mind:\n\n- The groom’s and groomsmen’s outfits should match the formality of the wedding and the venue.\n\n- Popular groom and groomsmen attire for more formal events include suits and tuxedos, while informal weddings allow for dress shirts and slacks.\n\n- If the groom’s attire matches the groomsmen, it’s important that everyone follows the dress code and goes shopping months in advance.\n\n- If the groom wants to stand out from the groomsmen, styling tricks can distinguish him from members of the wedding party.\n\n- Some grooms want all of their groomsmen to dress individually and not match one another. In these cases, establish a dress code and color palette for everyone to follow.\n\n## Groomsmen Attire FAQs\n### How to Choose Groomsmen Attire\nWhen it comes to selecting and even browsing for groomsmen clothing, there are several factors to be considered. Keeping these top-of-mind can be a tremendous aid in helping you decide on outfit pieces, fabrics, colors, fits, and more.\n\n- __Season.__ The season the wedding takes place in can have a large influence on what’s worn—especially if it’s an outdoor wedding. Take your cues from the weather and seasonal color palettes for attire that fits seamlessly.\n\n- __Time of Day.__ Depending on the season and your location, temperatures can vary drastically, from midday to late in the night. Consider what time (or times) of day you’ll be celebrating and dress accordingly. For example, if you’ll be out in the hot sun most of the time, you’ll want to opt for lighter, breezier fabrics.\n\n- __Wedding Venue.__ You wedding venue dictates much of the feeling and atmosphere of a wedding. Try to match its level of formality when deciding on your attire.\n\n- __Wedding’s Theme or Dress Code.__ Perhaps most crucial, pay special attention to any information the couple gives you prior to the wedding. Most often, you’ll be notified via invitation or wedding website of the wedding style and dress code. Take note of this when looking for an outfit—and always double check with the couple if you aren’t sure.\n\n### What Should the Groom and Groomsmen Wear?\nA [wedding’s venue](https://zola.app.link/o9Wx4NVYvcb) and [theme](https://zola.app.link/vxkYfJyN71) should inform what a groom and his groomsmen wear. It’s been said before, but it will be said again: Your outfit’s level of formality should reflect your wedding theme and wedding venue. If you’re getting married in your parents’ backyard, you don’t need to rock a tuxedo (unless that’s your thing). Likewise, nuptials at a place of worship call for a certain style of dress—it’s not appropriate to wear flip flops and a golf shirt in a church.\n\n### Who Pays for the Groomsmen Attire?\nAs with most things involved in wedding planning, this ultimately depends on the couple’s preferences. Most often, each individual groomsmen—as well as other members of the wedding party—will purchase or rent their own attire for the big day. Because of this, they usually also have a say in what they end up wearing. That said, there are cases in which the groom, couple, of even the groom’s parents will offer to chip in to cover some (or all) outfit expenses. This, however, highly depends on their budget and dress expectations.\n\nIn any case, communication about who’s going to pay should be communicated ASAP. Read: Before anyone agrees to be a groomsman. It’s crucial that everyone has all of the information they need, such as spending expectations, before committing.\n\n## 6 Groomsmen Attire Options\nOnce you determine how formal or informal you can be, decide what you want to wear. Some popular options for grooms and groomsmen include:\n\n### Formal Attire\n1. __[Tuxedos](https://zola.app.link/y2nb5n96Ocb)__. Tuxes are great for formal weddings and black-tie events. They can be worn during all four seasons, and are great for both indoor and outdoor weddings.\n\n2. __Dark suits__. These days, a nice two- and three-piece dark suit is acceptable for a wedding with a formal dress code. Make sure your suit is well fitted and pressed before the day of.\n\n### Semi-Formal Attire\n3. __[Suits](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-groom-and-groomsmen-suits)__, either three-piece or two-piece. A three-piece suit can be worn at formal weddings or semi-formal affairs. Two-piece groomsmen suits are a bit more casual and can be dressed down, even more so when the jacket is removed. In any case ,wedding suits should fit well and be pressed.\n\n### Casual Attire\n\n![How Many Groomsmen Is Normal? | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4BCAiHkxjk12bywl5iorO4/520a78ffa33671b2c8e4747187f5b956/inline_shutterstock_1_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Shutterstock\n\n4. __[Vest](https://zola.app.link/HcXfoUd7Ocb)__, __dress shirt__, __and slacks__. A play on the two-piece suit, wearing a vest over a dress shirt is a great look for more informal events or summer weddings.\n\n5. __[Dress shirt](https://zola.app.link/eLaNHDg7Ocb)__ __and slacks__. Paired with a tie or bow tie, this look can be accentuated by suspenders or a nice leather belt.\n\n6. __Shirt and khakis__. For informal or casual spring/summer weddings, skip the dress pants altogether and sport a pair of chinos with a nice shirt—tie optional.\n\n## Matching Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nTraditionally, a groom and his groomsmen wear matching tuxedos or suits, but today there are no hard rules. If you want the groom and groomsmen to wear the same attire, whether it be a suit or a dress shirt and pants, consider the following:\n\n- What is your [wedding theme](https://zola.app.link/vxkYfJyN71)/what are your wedding colors? If you’re having a fall, rustic wedding and are incorporating colors of blush and burgundy, the groom and groomsmen should follow suit. Gray suits with burgundy ties, for example, would be a way to stay on-theme.\n\n- What are everyone’s budget and location? It’s important to [talk about money when you’re at a wedding party](https://zola.app.link/gxLaAGyN71) to ensure that everyone can afford the same outfit. This can help determine whether you will rent, buy, or borrow garments. Remember that location affects availability and suit fitting appointments if you’re going the custom route.\n\n- Plan months in advance. If your groom and groomsmen attire matches, go shopping at least four to six months in advance to allow for enough time to order and tailor garments.\n\n- Another tip? Regardless of whether all groomsmen get fitted for their outfits at the same time and place, or do it individually, it’s a good idea to have everyone’s measurements [sent to the tailor two to four months before the wedding](https://zola.app.link/INwxgJyN71)—especially during peak wedding season—to ensure that everyone gets their clothing back on time.\n\nA popular style is for groomsmen to match one another, but the groom wears a slightly different, yet complementary, look. If you want the groomsmen to match, but the groom to stand out, consider the following:\n\n- Have the groomsmen’s attire match your wedding theme, but make the groom’s suit or tux slightly different by picking a feature color and highlighting it in different ways. For example, if forest green is one of your wedding colors, have the groomsmen wear green ties and [gray suits](https://zola.app.link/cE3oSTw7Ocb), while the groom wears a forest green suit and gray tie. This is a way to have everyone look good while standing together, yet still allowing the groom to stand out.\n\n## Mismatched Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nIf matching isn’t your thing, that’s cool. No groom and groomsmen need to dress the same. It’s important, however, that everyone at least looks cohesive and adheres to a dress code. A groomsman wearing linen pants will look odd next to a groomsman in a black tuxedo. The groom should set the tone and let everyone know how formal or casual they can dress and what color palette to stick to.\n\nIf you want all groomsmen to sport a navy two-piece suit, communicate what is appropriate. It’s one thing to say, “Everyone wears a blue suit!” but make sure that you also include dress shirts, ties, and shoe styles and colors. If your wedding is more casual and the groom is wearing nice slacks and a dress shirt, the groomsmen should follow. Use terms such as “business casual” and “semi-formal dress” to help the wedding party understand the level of formality that you want them to follow. Use photographs and share ideas with them. It’s a good idea to see (and approve) all groomsmen’s outfits before the wedding to make sure that they a) look good with what the groom is wearing, and b) are within the dress code. This helps to avoid any last-minute fashion disasters.\n\nIf the groom and groomsmen's attire doesn’t match, you can incorporate accessories to weave everyone together. Matching socks, ties or boutonnieres are all ways to let the groom and groomsmen stand out from one another, yet still complement each other’s looks.\n\nThe type of wedding you’re planning will dictate what the groom and groomsmen should wear. Look to other aspects of your wedding planning, such as venue, season, formality, and whether or not you want the groom and members of his wedding party to match. There’s no right or wrong way to dress for a wedding, but there are ways to ensure that everyone’s attire looks cohesive and fantastic.","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Tuxedos are ideal for grooms at formal weddings and black-tie affairs. 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We've compiled a list of 10 places to shop plus moodboards for every wedding style.","publishedAt":"2024-08-13T16:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4mMWGycb0RlzWGFZTAJQt2/d899aec4756f6b7c139dd89e2dd3838e/androgynous-attire-for-weddings-hero.jpg","altText":"A woman wearing androgynous wedding attire during the sunset. "},"heroCredit":"Fly View Productions","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com","tldr":"__Inside this article:__ \n- How to find androgynous formal wear\n- Where to get androgynous wedding attire\n- How to personalize androgynous formal wear for every wedding type","body":"__TLDR:__\n- If you're looking for androgynous formal wear, be sure to consider your budget and preferred style before purchasing. \n- Several shops, like Duchess Clothier and SuitShop are perfect for fulfilling your androgynous wedding guest attire needs.\n- Consult our guide for styling for every type of [androgynous wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/gender-non-conforming-wedding-attire). Whether romantic, class, boho or beyond, we have visual cues to help.\n\n## Searching for androgynous wedding guest attire?\nDeciding what to [wear as a wedding guest](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/dos-donts-wedding-guest-fashion) is definitely not as easy as sampling everything at the [buffet table](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-food-ideas). But finding an outfit you love will make you feel your best and boost your confidence.\n\nIf a gender-neutral style is your style of choice, there are plenty of ways you can create a formal wear look that will make you feel your best. From classic to laid-back, we'll show you just how and where to find androgynous [wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding) and how you can style it depending on any wedding theme.\n\n## How to find androgynous formal wear \nWhether you're an experienced wedding attendee or this is your first time celebrating your favorite lovebirds, finding the perfect wedding attire can be overwhelming, especially if you're set on finding the perfect gender neutral wedding outfit. \n\nWe here at Zola have you covered with all of your wedding wear needs. Here are some steps on how to find androgynous wedding attire.\n\n### 1. Set a budget\nTo help avoid overspending and narrow down your options, the first step in finding the perfect androgynous wedding attire is to [set a budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/planning-101/budgeting). \n\nDecide how much you're willing to spend on the wedding outfit, taking into account not only necessary adjustments, such as [tailoring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-do-wedding-dress-alterations-cost), but also any accessories, shoes, and makeup you'll have to purchase. Do some research by looking at stores online and local boutiques to help you come up with a budget that makes sense.\n\n### 2. Decide on your preferred style\nAlthough having a budget will help you narrow down which stores to go to, having a general idea of what style of clothing you're looking for will help you figure out where to go. Consider your preferred style choices, what makes you feel the most comfortable, and the [wedding theme](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-themes). \n\nHaving a look in mind will make the process easier and faster. Find inspiration by looking at current fashion trends and social media accounts of people with a similar style as yours.\n\n### 3. Consider how much time you have\nLastly, consider how much time you have to find your gender-neutral wedding outfit since it will likely dictate whether you should shop online or in person. If you're short on time, might need your outfit tailored, or want to try it on first, find a couple of local stores to go to. Otherwise, shopping online can give you a wide range of options to choose from—just be sure to account for shipping times.\n\n![Androgynous Wedding Guest Attire](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ueZ9Qeq5seT7GOemiI1SN/546e8e8a38b3c4f83b6aba4831ebb05c/Androgynous_Wedding_Guest_Attire.jpg)\nPhoto by [Creatrix Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/creatrix-photography)\n\n## Where to get androgynous wedding attire \nIf you're still looking for places to shop for an outfit, there are many stores focusing on androgynous formal wear. These stores' main purpose is to provide you with an array of gender-neutral pieces, from formal wear to casual pieces, that will help you look and feel your best. Here are some that we recommend:\n\n### 1. The Tailory New York\nAnother custom suit option with online fittings is [The Tailory New York](https://thetailorynyc.com/), a women-owned clothing company that combines custom tailoring with modern fashion design. If you're looking for a bold and ambitious look, The Tailory has different clothing styles and colors, from modern fairytale to street chic. Their suits and tuxedos start at $1,450.\n\n### 2. Bindle & Keep\n\n[Bindle & Keep](https://www.bindleandkeep.com/) offers suits that are made just for you. If you want to have a suit created for your exact measurements, Bindle & Keep will do fittings both in person and online. They divide their suit options into three different pricing tiers varying by fabric, which ranges from $995 to $1,395. If you're considering custom-made androgynous wedding attire from Bindle & Keep, make sure to order ahead of time as their turnaround time is between 10 and 11 weeks.\n\n### 3. WILDFANG\nIf you're looking for a place where you can buy your everyday clothes but also find formal wear for your special event, [WILDFANG](https://www.wildfang.com/) is a good option. Its mission is to rethink gender norms and focus on androgynous outfits. At their store, you'll be able to find blazers, [dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-spring-wedding), and even accessories at a more affordable price, ranging from $70 to $200.\n\n### 4. Duchess Clothier\nIf you're looking for another made-to-fit option, [Duchess Clothier](https://www.duchessclothier.com/) creates androgynous outfits for every body and occasion. Their store is located in Portland, OR, where you'll get plenty of separate suit and shoe options, but they also let you create your own look by mixing and matching pieces. The price for their suits starts at $1,120 and they offer packages that also include dress shirts, ties, and pocket squares.\n\n### 5. Kirrin Finch\n[Kirrin Finch](https://kirrinfinch.com/) seeks to create fitting clothes that make you feel confident and comfortable. Their attire is designed to fit bodies of all shapes and sizes. They offer a wide range of androgynous formal wear, from dress shirts to suits and blazers. Prices range from $150 to $400 and offer a variety of silhouettes and colors.\n\n![Kirrin Finch Androgynous Formal Wear](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1lW1ojxP5jTJEjgXs2OkJu/98f85f274d87bcead990e2b668f5ee64/Kirrin_Finch_Androgynous_Formal_Wear.jpg)\n\n### 6. SuitShop\nIf you're looking for a more affordable option, or even considered [renting](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-does-a-tuxedo-rental-cost), [SuitShop](https://suitshop.com/) can provide you with high-quality clothing for a price that will make you feel as good as you look. At SuitShop, you can own a suit for as little as $199, and you'll get a variety of options to choose from with inclusive sizing. Plus, you can try your androgynous wedding attire for free for seven days.\n\n### 7. Birdy Grey\nAlthough [Birdy Grey](https://www.birdygrey.com/) fancies itself a [bridesmaid](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-bridesmaid-duties) dress retailer, they also offer options for suits and tuxedos that are tailored to perfection. At the online retailer, you'll also see a variety of shoes and accessories that are perfect for any wedding theme. Their gender-neutral wedding outfits are also affordable, starting at $199.\n\n### 8. Peau de Loup\n[Peau de Loup](https://www.peaudeloup.com/)'s goal is to make clothes for bodies and not genders, offering high-quality and limited clothing that accommodates curves. Aside from finding your androgynous wedding attire there, you'll also be able to get shoes, accessories, and casual clothing. Their formal wear is affordable, with prices starting at $98.\n\n### 9. HauteButch\nAnother brand that creates masculine clothing to fit women's bodies is [HauteButch](https://hautebutch.com/), a queer Black-owned brand. This small company creates innovative and diverse styles that represent who you are. They sell suits, vests, and accessories in a variety of styles and colors, with suits starting at around $200.\n\n### 10. Sharpe Suiting\n[Sharpe Suiting](https://sharpesuiting.com/) will help you achieve a look that will both fit your body and your style. They specialize in wedding attire and use their trademarked body measuring formula called “Andropometrics” to deliver you a custom suit. The process of purchasing a custom outfit will take around eight weeks, and a two-piece suit starts at $1,800.\n\n![Sharpe Androgynous Formal Wear](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/48SlVkaQrogBBmLLYA9Ogq/cdca55ee7c7ea3539d3123b08632e6af/Sharpe_Androgynous_Formal_Wear.jpg)\n\n## How to personalize androgynous formal wear for every wedding type \nNo matter how you express yourself, your wedding attire should fit the [wedding type](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/couples-top-wedding-themes) you’re attending or planning. Whether that is a classic chic wedding or a beach getaway, there are different ways you can personalize your androgynous formal wear according to the theme. \n\nWhen deciding on what to wear for the wedding, consider each element of your wedding attire, including accessories, shoes, and colors. You can also add your own personal touch by using elements that you usually wear—like your favorite watch or a pop of color that looks good on you.\n\n### 1. Classic\nClassic weddings are more traditional and elegant, and sometimes will require [black tie wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding). Whether your invite mentions a dress code or not, invest in looks in black, gray, or dark blue with solid fabric. If the wedding is during the summer, you might opt to wear lighter tones such as light gray or beige. \n\nYour look should be elegant and fitted, so if you’re going for a suit, consider wearing solid wool fabric, a black bowtie, and a collared white shirt. To complete your look, wear classic black leather shoes and gold and pearl jewelry, if that’s true to your style. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-classic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/630zTDv9adarWkCgmAY9X8/774dd5af04a72b617487675442696d26/androgynous-attire-for-classic-weddings.png)\n\n### 2. Rustic\n[Rustic weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue) are full of natural and wooden touches, which means you can go for a less formal look and have fun with textures. Look for clothing with lighter tones such as light blue and brown. For a more casual look, you could also forgo your blazer and wear only a vest with a collared shirt. \n\nAdd some texture to your look by choosing cotton or tweed blazers. Then complement your outfit with vintage brown leather shoes and patterned pocket squares. This is also your chance to wear your favorite shiny, gold jewelry or a leather watch. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-rustic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6X9V0pswklRpQ4DsMoebbj/62d44e6a3d9a4ae854cafbbe6905cd14/androgynous-attire-for-rustic-weddings.png)\n\n### 3. Beachy\n[Beach weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pros-and-cons-of-a-beach-wedding) are relaxed and calm, which means you get to enjoy the sea view and salty air with a more casual, bright look. Opt for light tones, like a pastel blue or green, or go for more colorful attire with florals. \n\nInvest in clothes with linen fabric so you can fully enjoy the ocean breeze. You might even want to roll up your sleeves or wear some nice shorts. Make your look even more beachy by adding colorful pocket flowers, accessories with seashells, and white loafers. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-beachy-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6Zf82q3mpqKJLcuDB84EWS/1362edaf2195c2480dab783a07118625/androgynous-attire-for-beachy-weddings.png)\n\n### 4. Modern\nModern weddings are more fashionable and bold, so if you like trendy styles or a monochromatic look, this is your chance to shine. In a modern wedding, you have the opportunity to be more creative by trying different fabrics or wearing a statement piece. \n\nConsider bold colors like dark green or burgundy, or try an all-black outfit with cuffed pants. Then complete your look with fashionable loafers or shiny black shoes and a gold watch. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-modern-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6hpxRcBcPre6QeHDQhrMgY/a531c502c266880425318f77c1b56270/androgynous-attire-for-modern-weddings.png)\n\n### 5. Garden\n[Garden weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/outdoor-wedding-ideas-for-fall) are fun and whimsical, so bring a playful spirit to your wedding attire. Consider floral and pinstripe fabrics, or go for a solid dark blue or purple look. Choose a breathable fabric, especially if the wedding will be outside during the summer. \n\nComplete your look by adding a tie in a pastel tone, or ditch the tie and go for an open collar style. Add flower accessories or a simple white pocket square to go with stitched vintage shoes. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-garden-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/QQIsPX3Pfi3nhwBvgFcNt/97fb6382f096e46eb5601fce444a8b09/androgynous-attire-for-garden-weddings.png)\n\n### 6. Romantic\nRomantic weddings are nothing short of dreamy and elegant. Go all in with a look that could've come out of a fairytale by wearing pastel pinks and blues and a blazer with silk details. \n\nTry suspenders, and match them with some classic leather shoes. For accessories, you can add delicate flower pins or shiny jewelry with diamonds and a gold watch.\n\n![androgynous-attire-for-romantic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1voWcJwI7i0vFWKLZTTWfa/09119df7011a734aa074ab55471930de/androgynous-attire-for-romantic-weddings.png)\n\n### 7. Boho\n[Boho weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/rustic-wedding-ideas) are more unconventional and relaxed, so this is your chance to rock a more laid-back look. Find outfits with lightweight and breathable fabrics and play around with different colors. \n\nDon't be shy when adding flowers or feathers to complement your look, or try a suede boho hat and match it with brown loafers. As for accessories, consider jewelry with colorful stones or gold fringe. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-boho-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/19ClGLMB3t5aDno8SdUPg0/b06b0754a417d786152b3240e245c6e8/androgynous-attire-for-boho-weddings.png)\n\nFinding the right [wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-guests/wedding-attire) doesn't have to be complicated. As long as you wear something you love and feel comfortable in, you'll radiate confidence walking in the venue. Luckily, you know exactly where to shop for androgynous wedding attire and how to personalize it according to each wedding theme.\n\nAre you the one getting married? Did you know that Zola can help with all of your wedding day needs? From using our [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) to creating a free [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website), get started today!","tag":"List","updatedAt":"2025-06-07T16:47:44.977Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"what-should-the-mother-of-the-groom-wear","title":"What Should the Mother of the Groom Wear?","excerpt":"Wondering what the mother of the groom should wear to your wedding? Read on for our complete guide.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2020-12-16T20:33:51.524Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3XYQnnhFxaJwQKwb4o3VdP/09b22c0665e884e05ef2a3f099378d4c/hero_Eyes_2_See_Photography.jpg","altText":"mother of the groom"},"heroCredit":"Eyes 2 See Photography","body":"Mothers are always valued members of a couple’s wedding party, whether it’s the mother of the bride or the mother of the groom. Both are honored and appreciated for their contributions to the bride and groom’s big day. \n\nThe mother of the groom in particular has several responsibilities, including helping plan the guest list for the groom’s side of the family and hosting the rehearsal dinner. It’s only natural that she looks exceptional when the big day rolls around. But what exactly should the mother of the groom wear? \n\n## Wedding Etiquette for the Mother of the Groom\n\nDepending upon how much of a stickler for tradition you are, there may be etiquette rules your family members and guests must follow. These rules may include a few about the wedding attire for the groom’s mother. \n\n### Dress Buying Traditions\n\nWondering if there’s a difference [between the mother of the bride dress and the mother of the groom dress?](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/mother-of-the-bride-vs-mother-of-the-groom-dresses-whats-the-difference) Traditionally, the mother of the bride decides on her dress first and then informs the groom’s mother. The mother of the groom can then get a dress that complements the [mother of the bride dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-attire-101-garden-edition) on the wedding day. \n\nKeep in mind that the two moms do not have to dress identical at all—the two dresses just have to be complementary, so they don't clash with each other, the wedding theme, or the bridesmaid dresses. \n\nIt’s worth noting, though: Nowadays, this tradition is considered more of a guideline than a hard rule. Still, it’s good guidance—especially if you haven’t heard otherwise. \n\n![Mother of the Groom Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/25fkY0wAnryA14ISsWlQEE/b10a6d827562696eacee5b1c7807476c/inline_rengim-mutevellioglu.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Rengim Mutevellioglu\n\n### Dress Etiquette\n\nAs stated before, the mother of the groom is an honored part of the special occasion, and she should dress accordingly. Both the mother of the bride and groom should select dresses that are similar in style and length and complementary to the wedding color palette and theme. \n\nBefore any shopping is done, consult with the bride or groom to get a better idea of their vision for the wedding day. For instance, flashy dresses and distracting colors wouldn’t be appropriate for a wedding with a soft, vintage theme. The mother of the groom should also avoid particular styles, such as low-cut necklines, thigh-split dresses, or tight skirts. \n\nJust keep in mind: Within reason, the mother of the groom should be able to dress according to her personality and comfort. \n\n### Dress Shopping Is Bonding Time\n\nIn today’s culture, mothers of the bride and groom often go dress shopping together and view it as an opportunity to bond and get to know one another better. Other moms might shop with the bride and bridesmaids as well, opting to make it a big gal’s day complete with a fancy lunch or dinner. This not only helps everyone get to know each other better, but also helps ensure that everyone looks great and dresses don’t clash. \n\n## Wedding Etiquette for Stepmoms of the Groom\n\nIf the groom’s family is a blended family, it can sometimes get complicated. The mother of the bride is only obliged to inform the mother of the groom about her wedding attire. Stepmothers, on the other hand, are the groom’s responsibility. It’s up to him to give her the required information, so that she can dress appropriately. \n\nOf course, this may be different in every family, because it depends on how close the groom is with his stepmother. If she’s considered a close family member and you plan to seat her in front with other family members, then she should choose her outfit in keeping with the colors and theme of the rest of the wedding party and family. However, if the two are not close and she is considered merely a guest, then she will be seated with guests and should have full freedom to dress however she likes (assuming it’s wedding appropriate!). There’s really no need for her attire to match the immediate family or wedding party—unless she just wants to.\n\n## Color Dos and Don’ts\n\n### Dos\n\nThere’s no end to the color palettes and wedding themes a bride might choose from. Depending on the theme, many mothers of the groom favor colors like:\n\n- Blues\n- Blushes\n- Mauves\n- Lavenders\n- Mint Green\n- Peach\n\nIf your wedding is a formal one, some mothers of the groom might prefer to wear shades of gold, dark silver, or even black. Other darker colors that might be worn include shades of :\n\n- Navy\n- Green\n- Purple\n- Red\n\n### Don’ts\n\nRemember, it’s a big fashion faux pas for someone in the immediate family or wedding party to wear white or any variation thereof. Even neutral colors like cream or beige are against dress code. \n\nOf course, some brides might not mind; some may even want their bridal party in white. When in doubt, though, it’s best to err on the side of caution. \n\n## Wedding Attire Styles for the Mother of the Groom\n\nIt’s important to consider age, body shape, and the time of year when deciding on a dress style for the mother of the groom.\n\n### Body Shape\n\nDifferent dress shapes flatter different body types:\n\n- Someone who is wider at the shoulder and narrower at the hips, like an inverted triangle, might look best in V-necklines and A-line skirts, with a nipped waist to create a shapely silhouette.\n- Someone with wider hips should focus on accentuating the top of her body with detailing or an off-the-shoulder neckline, along with fit and flare dress styles. \n- Someone with an hourglass figure should avoid baggy and loose dresses, or run the risk of looking frumpy.\n- Someone with a rectangle body shape might consider more form-fitting dresses.\n\nHowever, remember that these are just tips and guidelines. It’s more important to make sure that whatever style of dress the mother of the groom wears, she feels comfortable and attractive. \n\n### Time of Year\n\nThe mother of the groom should feel comfortable through the wedding ceremony and reception. That’s why it’s important to consider the season and whether or not the venue is indoor or outdoor when choosing a dress. For example, the mother of the bride can get away with wearing a casual sundress for an outdoor, summer beach wedding, but should wear a formal dress for an indoor, black-tie affair. \n\nDuring colder months, dresses can be accessorized with shawls, faux fur, and shrugs. Tailored jackets are another option that look great and help keep the groom’s mom toasty and warm. Also, if it’s simply too cold for a dress, pantsuits can be a good option to keep the legs covered. \n\nDepending on where you live, spring is typically warm, which means she could wear tea-length and cocktail dresses and be perfectly comfortable. Summer is also a great season for tea-length dresses. \n\n### Age-Appropriate\n\nRemember, there is such a thing as too sexy. The mother of the groom should avoid wearing anything that’s overtly sexy, such as deep necklines with cleavage or skirts that flash the thigh. If you know that the mother of the groom tends to dress a little on the risqué side, there’s nothing wrong with asking her to wear something that’s age-appropriate. \n\n![Mother of the Groom Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3ym2V6NZrPUABfEbT0eRIZ/9f244b1d9574d64e93c28a840b42a985/inline_stocksy.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Stocksy\n\n## Don’t Forget Accessories\n\nNo outfit is complete without matching accessories. For a mother of the groom, accessories might include: \n\n- Small clutch purse\n- Medium tote purse\n- Stylish hat or headband\n- Pretty necklace and earrings\n- Bangle bracelets\n\nWhatever accessories she wears, it should be something that complements her wedding attire and highlights her own unique style without taking attention away from you. \n\nIf the mother of the groom is uncomfortable with the neckline or sleeves of her chosen wedding attire, she could always add a trendy scarf or shawl. This does double duty by covering her up more and accessorizing her look. \n\nWedding attire for the mother of the groom really isn’t that complicated. Once there’s a theme, color palette, and venue in place, she’ll be able to pick just the right dress.\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Garden wedding attire blends comfort and style with light fabrics and floral touches. 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You can't go wrong with a simple gown. Check out Zola's guide to beautiful, simple wedding dresses.","title":"Simple Wedding Dresses That Are Elegant and Timeless","slug":"simple-wedding-dresses-that-are-elegant-and-timeless","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2SjlWOaxslfaqQ1FB2Pzmr/3422d8d0544ed3158ea19873b4540f3d/Hero_New__12_.jpg","altText":"couple kisses at wedding "},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:40:05.051Z"}],"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire","description":"Find wedding attire inspiration and advice for grooms, guests, bridesmaid, groomsmen and the rest of the wedding party. From black tie dress code guides to casual wedding attire inspiration to mother of the bride style ettiquete we'll help you look your best on the big day."},"topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty","description":"Whether you're a bride, groom, member of the wedding party, or guest, find expert wedding beauty and fashion advice to serve up those looks! From wedding hair and makeup tips and tricks to advice on wedding dresses, shoes and accessories to inspiration and etiquette for guest, you'll find everything you need!","subtopics":[{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding Hair & makeup","slug":"wedding-hair-makeup"},"slug":"a-guide-to-wedding-hair-and-makeup-costs","title":"A Guide to Wedding Hair & Makeup Costs","excerpt":"How much does a professional wedding hair & makeup artist cost? Find out with our ultimate guide to wedding hair and makeup costs. ","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2019-01-18T21:34:11.830Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/N7wFOsDeMIHq1oa7VEBpL/d7c18e73a265e3aa2d9f76196d5952a3/New_Hero.jpg","altText":"wedding hair and makeup cost"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- Bridal hair and makeup costs for brides or bridesmaids can run anywhere from $150-$600 depending on the type of hairstyle, products, and wedding makeup used.\n- Remember you’re primarily paying for your wedding hair and makeup artist’s time, so the more elaborate the glam , the higher the price tag.\n- Book your makeup artist(s) no less than three months before your wedding date to work out your preferred looks, scheduled times, and additional costs in advance. \n","body":"Your wedding day is one occasion on which you want to look your absolute, top-dollar best. Not only are you going to be immortalized in wedding photos for eternity, but since it should be one of the happiest days of your life, you want your external appearance to match the greatness you’re feeling inside. In order to put your face quite literally in the hands of a fabulous [wedding hair and makeup artist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-hair-stylists-and-makeup-artist-dos-and-donts), you’ll need to budget for hair and wedding makeup costs—whether you’re going for an understated natural look, full-on glam, or something in between with your hair and makeup services.\n\nBelow are the average prices you can expect to pay for wedding hair and makeup:\n\n- Bridal Hair and Makeup Costs: Expect to pay anywhere from $150-$600 for bridal hair and makeup. Typically, brides pay around $300 on average for hair and makeup, depending on the type of hairstyle, products, and wedding makeup used.\n\n- Bridesmaid Hair and Makeup Costs: Around $150 per bridesmaid in your bridal party. This average cost estimates $75 for makeup and $50-75 for hairstyling.\n\nFind out exactly what you should expect to pay for wedding hair and makeup costs with our ultimate guide below.\n\n## How Much Do Wedding Hair and Makeup Cost?\n \nThe average cost of wedding hair and makeup will vary considerably based upon your location, how many people and/or services you’re looking to schedule, and the intricacy of your styles. On the low end, wedding hair and makeup artists might only charge around $60 for a single application, but in large cities, bridal hair and makeup could cost over $1,000. That being said, the average price most couples spend on wedding hair and makeup is around __$300__—but anywhere within the range of __$150-$650__ is typical. \n\nIf a wedding hair and makeup artist needs to travel to the event (or to your getting-ready location), the cost could go up, as he or she might add a travel fee. If you’d like your stylist to remain on-site for touch ups (for example, a touch up after you put on your wedding dress), that could also raise your costs: most wedding hair and makeup artists will charge by the hour to remain at your wedding location, ranging anywhere from $30 to $125 per hour.\n\n## What’s Included in the Price of Wedding Hair and Makeup? \nAs mentioned above, you’re primarily paying for your wedding hair and makeup artist’s time. The higher [the number of hours that you’ll need to book your stylist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-long-does-wedding-hair-and-makeup-usually-take), the higher your price tag will be. In general, the tools and materials required to create your wedding hair and makeup look are included in the cost, but certain types of hairstyles, products, and makeup applications will run you more:\n\n- Wedding updos tend to cost more than blowout hairstyles, with the average price of an updo costing about $45 more __($51 for a blowout versus $95 for an updo)__.\n\n- Airbrush wedding makeup will cost more than a traditional makeup package. Expect to pay around __$50 more for airbrush application__, as the average cost of airbrush makeup is $155 while traditional makeup costs on average $100 per face.\n\nIn addition to beauty services on the actual wedding day, some artists offer free consultations and/or hair and makeup trials before the wedding—but some artists charge anywhere from $50 to $150 for trials. See below for more information about trials. See below for more pricing information to factor into your average wedding cost.\n\n## How Much Does a Wedding Hair and Makeup Trial Cost?\nIt just makes good sense to get a hair trial and makeup trial before your wedding to ensure that you and your stylist(s) are on the same page about what kind of wedding look you want. Yet not all hair and makeup artists offer this service for free (or as part of their consultation appointment). If you’re asked to pay for a wedding beauty trial, you could be looking at a cost of anywhere from $50-$150, with the average price being around __$75__. (Keep in mind that you may need to pay a separate fee for your hair trial and your makeup trial—bringing your total average cost up to $150.)\n\n## Should I Tip My Wedding Hair and Makeup Artist?\nJust like at a regular salon, tipping for wedding beauty services is generally expected. You should prepare to tip your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) anywhere from __15-25% of the total bill__ for their services if you think they’ve done a great job.\n\n## Are There Any Add-On Costs With Wedding Hair and Makeup?\nWe’ve already discussed a few of the “hidden” or add-on costs that you might discover when budgeting for your wedding hair and makeup. Here are some of the extra charges you might encounter for fancier styles, more expensive products or applications, or for simply more complex logistics:\n\n- __Skin prep__ in the weeks leading up to your big day, like [wedding facials](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-different-types-of-facials-for-brides), tanning, or any special products to give your skin that wedding day glow\n\n- __False eyelashes/false lashes, updo hairstyles__, or __airbrush makeup__ are usually more expensive.\n\n- __Nail services__, like a manicure and/or pedicure\n\n- __Travel fees__ might occur if your hair and makeup artist(s) are required to travel to your location. Factor in additional costs if mileage (for long distances) or parking fees also come into play.\n\n- __Trial runs__ of your wedding hairstyle and makeup might cost you an additional $50-100 per trial.\n\n- __[Hair extensions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/should-you-get-hair-extensions-for-your-wedding)__ if you want to add any length or volume to your hair for your bridal hairstyle\n\n- __Extra people__ beyond just the bride—such as the bridal party or the mother of the bride—will naturally add to your costs. A professional hair stylist and makeup artist might even need to bring an additional stylist or an assistant (for example, a makeup team for the bridal party or an extra stylist to manage bridesmaid and flower girl hair).\n\n- __Extra hours__ beyond the initial styling (for example, if you want touch ups later in the evening, or a different hairstyle for the reception) will cost you more, as you will be paying your hair and makeup artist by the hour to remain on-site.\n\n- __Tipping__ your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) is generally expected, just like at any salon appointment.\n\n## How Much Does Bridesmaid Hair and Makeup Cost?\nMother of the bride and/or bridesmaids makeup and hair generally costs around __$150__ per person, or if you want to break it down, around __$75 for makeup__ and __$50-$75 for hairstyling__ (blowout versus updo). Again, this number can go up based upon the location and the complexity of the style or the logistics.\n\n## Who Pays for Your Bridesmaids’ Hair and Makeup?\nIt depends: if the bride is requiring that her bridesmaids have their hair and makeup professionally done, then it’s expected that the bride (or her parents, depending on who’s paying for the wedding) cover these beauty costs. But if professional hair and makeup are being offered only as an option, then the bridesmaids should expect to pay for their own services. A bride might also consider whether she’d like to pay for her bridesmaids’ hair and makeup as part or all of the traditional bridesmaids’ gift.\n\n## How Far in Advance Should I Book My Wedding Hair Stylist and Makeup Artist?\nWe recommend you book your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) no less than three months before your wedding date. Of course, it’s always better to check this item off your __[Wedding Planning Checklist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist)__ earlier if possible—you’ll want to have plenty of time to choose your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) carefully, get to know him or her so you’re really comfortable on the big day, and schedule a trial run to iron out all the kinks before the wedding-day timeline begins ticking. Head over to Zola Inspiration to __[browse wedding hair and makeup stylists](https://www.zola.com/inspire/search)__ in your area right now!","body2":"## Should I Tip My Wedding Hair and Makeup Artist?\nJust like at a regular salon, tipping for wedding beauty services is generally expected. You should prepare to tip your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) anywhere from __15-25% of the total bill__ for their services if you think they’ve done a great job. \n\n## Are There Any Add-On Costs With Wedding Hair and Makeup?\n \nWe’ve already discussed a few of the “hidden” or add-on costs that you might discover when budgeting for your wedding hair and makeup. Here are some of the extra charges you might encounter for fancier styles, more expensive products or applications, or for simply more complex logistics: \n- __False eyelashes__, __updo hairstyles__, or __airbrush makeup__ are usually more expensive.\n- __Travel fees__ might occur if your hair and makeup artist(s) are required to travel to your location. Factor in additional costs if mileage (for long distances) or parking fees also come into play.\n- __Trial runs__ of your wedding hairstyle and makeup might cost you an additional $50-100 per trial. \n- __Extra people__ beyond just the bride—such as the bridal party or the mother of the bride—will naturally add to your costs. A professional hair stylist and makeup artist might even need to bring an additional stylist or an assistant.\n- __Extra hours__ beyond the initial styling (for example, if you want touch ups later in the evening, or a different hairstyle for the reception) will cost you more, as you will be paying your hair and makeup artist by the hour to remain on-site. \n- __Tipping__ your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) is generally expected, just like at any salon appointment.\n\n## How Much Does Bridesmaid Hair and Makeup Cost? \nWedding makeup for a bridesmaid or a mother of the bride generally costs around __$150__ per person, or if you want to break it down, around __$75 for makeup__ and __$50-$75 for hairstyling__ (blowout versus updo). Again, this number can go up based upon the location and the complexity of the style or the logistics.\n\n## Who Pays for Your Bridesmaids' Hair and Makeup? \nIt depends: if the bride is requiring that her bridesmaids have their hair and makeup professionally done, then it’s expected that the bride (or her parents, depending on who’s paying for the wedding) cover these beauty costs. But if professional hair and makeup are being offered only as an option, then the bridesmaids should expect to pay for their own services. A bride might also consider whether she’d like to pay for her bridesmaids’ hair and makeup as part or all of the traditional bridesmaids’ gift.\n\n## How Far in Advance Should I Book My Wedding Hair Stylist and Makeup Artist?\n \nWe recommend you book your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) no less than three months before your wedding date. 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Many gowns are left hanging in the back of a closet, collecting dust. If you have no other plans for it, donating your wedding dress can give it a second life! Now more than ever, many brides are struggling to pay for their wedding dresses. We’ve found several meaningful charities that accept preowned wedding dresses and provide them to new brides at an affordable price. \n\nIn this article:\n\n- Benefits of Donating Your Wedding Dress\n- How to Decide Where to Donate\n- Where to Donate Wedding Dresses\n- Ways to Repurpose Your Wedding Dress\n- How to Prepare Your Wedding Dress for Donation\n\n## Benefits of Donating Your Wedding Dress\n\n \n\nIf you’re still on the fence about whether or not to donate your wedding dress, here are a few benefits to consider.\n\n### 1. Supports a Bride in Need\nFrom disaster victims to the many couples struggling financially right now, many individuals are looking for affordable clothing, including wedding dresses. With millions of people unemployed or experiencing a significant decrease in income during the pandemic, many couples cannot afford their dream weddings. Your donation can help provide a dress for a bride experiencing financial hardships. \n\n### 2. Tax-Deductible\nAs a taxpayer, you can claim your charitable contributions of money or goods as itemized deductions when filing your taxes. The [IRS](https://www.irs.gov/publications/p526) recognizes a charitable contribution as a gift or donation to or for the use of a qualified organization, such as nonprofits. \n\n### 3. Helps to Declutter\nMany wedding gowns are only worn once. If you’re never planning to wear your wedding dress again, it’s just taking up space! Once you donate it along with other household items that you no longer need or use, you’ll have more room! \n\n### 4. Encourages an Eco-Friendly Lifestyle\nAn eco-friendly lifestyle means living in a way that isn’t harmful to the environment. Clothing that is thrown away eventually sits in a landfill, where they release carbon dioxide and other toxins into the air. According to [GreenDrop](https://www.gogreendrop.com/blog/3-reasons-you-should-donate-your-old-clothes-instead-of-throwing-them-away/), the production of new clothes and textiles uses hundreds of gallons of water and also causes 10% of global carbon emissions. By donating your wedding dress, you help reduce your carbon footprint.\n\n![Benefits of donating your wedding dress image](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6OAEerjF3eR2VFxgVVb9nI/cccf53c07871500f73bb688f87d3b1b9/benefits-of-donating-your-wedding-dress.jpg)\n\nThe best part is conscientious efforts can start during the wedding! You can donate the remaining wedding food to local shelters and [preserve flowers](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-preserve-flowers) from the bouquet. For more sustainability tips, check out these [eco-friendly wedding ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/eco-friendly-wedding).\n\n## How to Decide Where to Donate\n\n \n\nDeparting from your beloved wedding dress can be tough. After all, it holds sentimental value and memories from your special day. You may feel comfortable choosing a charity with a mission that matters the most to you. For example, you may want to honor your loved ones in the military by donating to an organization supporting veterans. Fortunately, you can find charitable organizations that support a variety of causes, including cancer research, disaster relief, human rights, environmental protection, and more!\n\n## Where to Donate Wedding Dresses\n\n \n\nDonating your wedding dress is a great way to honor it and give it new life. Through your generosity, someone else can experience the same joy you felt on your wedding day. You can donate to thrift stores, charities, community centers, and many other types of nonprofit organizations. Here is a list of several charities and organizations accepting wedding dresses during COVID-19.\n\n![Charities to donate a wedding dress](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1xq1qPDhGhlPh4z1Tqv0Cg/e7f10bcb6dd54b3e70bb4faff2224620/charities-to-donate-a-wedding-dress.jpg)\n\n### Brides Against Breast Cancer \nSupport the fight against breast cancer through [Brides Against Breast Cancer](https://www.bridesagainstbreastcancer.org/). This nonprofit is dedicated to providing early cancer awareness and detection programs as well as reducing the environmental impact of wedding dress manufacturing. The organization resells pre-owned wedding dresses at affordable prices, using the sales proceeds to help breast cancer causes. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dresses of 3–5 years in excellent condition and bridal accessories. \n\n__How to donate:__ Use the [donation form](https://www.bridesagainstbreastcancer.org/bride-donation-form/) on the website, email, or contact client service directly to receive shipping instructions.\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ The organization continues to accept wedding dress donations through the mail and is relaunching its online store in early 2021.\n\n### Adorned in Grace \nIf you would like to assist in sex trafficking prevention, consider donating your wedding dress to [Adorned in Grace](https://www.adornedingrace.org/). This faith-based organization has a mission to help sex trafficking victims and bring awareness to local communities. Adorned in Grace stores provide new and gently-used wedding dresses and formalwear. Sales proceeds that go towards funding professional counseling for trafficking survivors, awareness publications, and more. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dress less than five years old, mother-of-the-bride dresses, flower girl dresses, bridal accessories, and formalwear.\n\n__How to donate:__ Drop-off donations in-person or ship them to any of their [shop locations](https://www.adornedingrace.org/donate#donate-1).\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ Call or book an [appointment](https://www.adornedingrace.org/yourvisit) at one of their store locations in advance.\n\n### The Salvation Army\nSince 1865, [The Salvation Army](https://www.salvationarmyusa.org/usn/) has grown into an international movement in 130 countries around the world. This faith-based nonprofit organization provides numerous services, including adult rehabilitation, veteran support, prison ministry work, disaster relief, housing, hunger relief, and more. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Adult and children’s clothing, furniture, vehicles, household goods, and appliances with [guidelines](https://satruck.org/Home/DonationValueGuide#womens-clothing) for each.\n\n__How to donate:__ Find a drop-off location, visit one of its local thrift stores, or schedule a free pickup.\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ Most local Salvation Army thrift stores are open for business with [information](https://www.salvationarmyusa.org/usn/covid19/) on ways to help during the pandemic.\n\n### Brides for a Cause\n[Brides for a Cause](https://www.bridesforacause.com/) is a nonprofit bridal store that collects and resells wedding dresses to raise funds for dozens of women-focused [charities](https://www.bridesforacause.com/about/our-cause/). Since 2012, the store has given away over $1.2 million to charities that support women in the military, single mothers, abuse survivors, and more.\n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dresses no more than five years old and bridal accessories. \n\n__How to donate:__ You can mail or drop off at one of their store [locations](http://www.bridesforacause.com/locations/) or roadshow events. \n\n__COVID-19 update:__ Currently not accepting walk-ins. Clients must “reserve a room” in advance, wear a mask at all times, bring only one guest, and follow social distancing guidelines. \n\n### Goodwill Industries\nWith a mission to eliminate work opportunity barriers, Goodwill industries provide supportive services to help people train for careers and find jobs. Your donations support Goodwill’s job programs and services as well as help environmentally by reducing waste. Through its online [impact calculator](https://www.goodwill.org/your-impact/), you can see how much your donation can contribute to its mission. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Clothing and accessories, houseware, electronics, media, and furniture. \n\n__How to donate:__ [Find](https://www.goodwill.org/donate/donate-stuff/) a donation center or local drop-off bin.\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ Most Goodwill stores are open with social distancing protocols. All donations will be in quarantine, and curbside drop-offs are available. \n\n### Brides Across America\nIf you’d like to support the military and first responders, you can do so through [Bride Across America](https://www.bridesacrossamerica.com/) (BAA). Every year, this nonprofit donates 2,000 wedding dresses and covers the wedding costs of those recipients. With your donations, military members and first responders can register to receive a free wedding dress during BAA’s monthly giveaway events.\n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dress less than five years old, accessories, engagement rings, and wedding favors. \n\n__How to donate:__ Fill out and submit the [donation form](https://www.bridesacrossamerica.com/giving/give-a-dress) to receive the shipping address and instructions. \n\n__COVID-19 update:__ BAA is open for in-store [appointments](https://www.baaoutlet.com/common/appointment) only with new health and safety precautions. \n\n### Fairytale Brides on a Shoestring\n[Fairytale Brides on a Shoestring](https://www.fairytalebrides.org/) is a nonprofit boutique in Rockville, MD that sells reduced-priced wedding gowns. All of its net proceeds go towards Alzheimer’s Association, Cystic Fibrosis Foundation, and Johns Hopkins’ Suburban Hospital Breast Center.\n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dresses no more than five years old and professionally cleaned.\n\n__How to donate:__ Make an appointment on its website to drop off your donation or mail it to the store. \n\n__COVID-19 update:__ The store is open by [appointment only](https://my.setmore.com/shortBookingPage/b6a191ce-a3b1-43ae-ab65-fb9d2a10c05d) on select weekdays, where clients must wear masks at all times and follow the recommended COVID-19 guidelines. \n\n### Cherie Sustainable Bridal\nThis Maryland-based bridal boutique is a division of Success in Style (SIS), a nonprofit dedicated to supporting in-crisis individuals on their journeys to employment and life improvement. [Cherie Sustainable Bridal](https://www.cheriesb.com/) sells preowned wedding gowns at an affordable price and sends 100% of the proceeds to SIS. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dresses five years old and younger, and professional business attire.\n\n__How to donate:__ [Drop off](https://www.cheriesb.com/donate) the wedding dress in-person during business hours or mail it to the store location.\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ The store is open by [appointment](https://www.cheriesb.com/appointments) only and clients can bring only one guest to the consultation.\n\n### The Brides Project \nTo support adults and children impacted by cancer, you can donate to [The Brides Project](http://www.thebridesproject.org/). This is a nonprofit bridal boutique that offers eco- and budget-friendly wedding gowns to shoppers. All sales help provide free programs for families at the Cancer Support Community of Greater Ann Arbor. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dresses within five years old and bridal accessories. \n\n__How to donate:__ Drop off the [donation](http://www.thebridesproject.org/donate/) at their shop or mail it to their Cancer Support Community division following the mailing instructions. \n\n__COVID-19 update:__ Visitors must book appointments via website or email and follow their health and safety protocols.\n\n### The Emma and Evan Foundation\nThrough the [Emma and Evan Foundation](https://www.evefoundation.org/), you can support families who’ve lost an infant. This nonprofit organization repurposes wedding dress donations into infant burial gowns or “angel gowns,” bonnets, and other keepsake items available to grieving families for free. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Any wedding dresses, bridesmaid and flower girl dresses, prom and formal gowns, bridal accessories, and more.\n\n__How to donate:__ Contact the organization to receive their mailing address and donation release form beforehand. Additional donation instructions can be found on the FAQ page.\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ You can shop on their website for keepsake items and receive purchases via shipment.\n\n## Ways to Repurpose Your Wedding Dress\n\n \n\nIf you find that your wedding dress doesn’t meet the donation criteria of a few charities, transform it into something new! There are plenty of creative ways to repurpose your wedding dress. \n\nReuse the fabric for creating home decor and cherished keepsakes, such as pillows and baptism gowns for your children. Need new formalwear? Alter or hem your gown into a fun cocktail dress. If you’re not a fan of cutting up the dress, consider using it as a photo prop for your newborn. Lastly, you can use the buttons, beads, and other trimmings to make DIY jewelry and accessories!\n\n![Ideas for repurposing your wedding dress](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5KUNczqwIBuEuAagzrCs7w/7ff67c460a94625994aa2c31ff861799/ideas-for-repurposing-your-wedding-dress.jpg)\n\n## How to Prepare Your Wedding Dress for Donation\n\n \n\nWhile most charities and shops offer to clean your donation items, some have a few guidelines about donations. Others may also charge an extra fee for cleaning. Here is a checklist to follow in making sure your donations are in the best conditions. \n\n__1. Contact the Organizations in advance.__ Ask what they need specifically, as well as for their donation schedule and protocols. Most charities and thrift shops that accept wedding dresses require them to be less than five years old.\n\n__2. Inspect the gown for wear and tear.__ When left in storage for too long, some items and certain types of fabric may develop mold. If your wedding dress looks to be in bad condition, the charity will most likely have to throw it out.\n\n__3. Wash or dry clean in advance.__ This step is graciously helpful for the volunteers, especially if you’re donating your wedding dress or other items during the pandemic. According to the [CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/faq.html), the COVID-19 virus can remain on surfaces and certain fabrics for a couple of days. You can also use a disinfectant spray on non-washable items. \n\n__4. Double-check items before packing.__ Ensure you haven’t accidentally packed items you planned to keep. Always check the pockets for small personal items, such as wallets and money. \n\n__5. Organize your donations.__ This step is also helpful for volunteers at the charities and shops, who may have an overwhelming amount of items to sort through. You can assemble items by type and size, label your boxes or containers by season, and fold the clothing to ensure proper packing.\n\n![Best practices to prepare items for donation](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5xdwJ5IL2X7zJQNoA4bZV/2588209b19f8f786524c4ea835be09e7/best-practices-to-prepare-items-for-donation.jpg)\n\nIn addition to donating your wedding dress, take the concept of giving a step further by planning a charitable wedding! Have your [wedding ceremony](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-ceremony-programs) at a nonprofit venue and spread the word about charities on your [invites](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/paper). You can also find [vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors) who support a good cause. Visit our [expert advice](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice) pages for more creative ideas and wedding inspiration.","tag":"How-To ","updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:52:58.190Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding dresses","slug":"wedding-dresses"},"slug":"who-should-i-invite-wedding-dress-shopping","title":"Who Should I Invite Wedding Dress Shopping?","excerpt":"Wedding dress shopping is a special experience, but sometimes bringing too many loved ones invites too many opinions. Here’s how to decide who to bring wedding dress shopping.","author":"Laura Hensley","publishedAt":"2019-07-30T15:43:24.845Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4OUbaA2UeQynHFU6MA0hZ6/2e1b3cdc080590cc8225f9ad1ddd2d76/Hero_ModernDestinationWeddingatTheWLoft_NSTPictures.jpg","altText":"bride after wedding dress shopping"},"heroCredit":"Isle Media Photography","body":"Your mom likes classic A-line cuts, your best friend votes for lace, and your little sister is texting in the corner. You’re wedding dress shopping and *everyone* has a say (well, almost everyone). \n\nFinding the [right wedding dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/tips-wedding-dress-shopping) is an incredibly fun—but sometimes overwhelming—process. It’s important to feel special on your big day, so it’s only natural to seek out the opinions of those who matter most. It’s not always easy to decide who should join you while you shop and who’s better left at home. Here are some things to consider as you decide who to bring [wedding dress shopping](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop).\n\n## How To Decide Who To Bring \n\n### Put yourself first.\nFirst things first: wedding dress shopping is about you. It’s important to only invite people who you’re close to, and who will support you no matter what dress you pick. Of course, the point of bringing your family and friends along for the experience is to hear them out. Respect their opinions, but don’t invite anyone who will bring you down, or make you feel bad about what you like. [Weddings can be stressful](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-handle-overbearing-parents-when-wedding-planning) as is, so it’s important to minimize potential conflict wherever possible. \n\n### Think about personalities.\nYou also want to consider personalities. Is your cousin notoriously outspoken and hard to get along with? Does your high school best friend have amazing taste in fashion? You want a good mix of opinions, but keep it to those with opinions that inherently support you. By that we mean, invite people who know you, your partner, your style, and your personality. \n\nAvoid bringing people who push your buttons or easily upset you. Anyone who tends to speak just to be heard and doesn’t listen well is probably not a great pick. Think about the people in your life that will add to your shopping day, and make it more enjoyable—not less. \n\n### Don’t go overboard.\nWhile there’s no magic number for how many people you should bring wedding dress shopping, it’s important to remember that some bridal stores have guest limits, so check before sending out invites. Plus, if you’re someone who gets overwhelmed by groups, consider limiting your invites to three or four people. Consider the mix of the group, too, and if they’ll get along with each other. Experiences are defined by the kind of people you bring, not how many. \n\n![Alyssa Rachel Photographer InlineImage 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1UcHqSTGgd56uXGirCxusr/ffae8b87f657f8c94bb2fb5b19753212/Alyssa_Rachel_Photographer_InlineImage_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Alyssa Rachel Photography\n\n## Who to Invite Dress Shopping\n\n### Immediate Family \nTraditionally, the mother of the bride, sisters, and the closest friend (or friends) are involved in the dress hunt. Your future mother-in-law can be invited, too, if you’re tight with her and you want her to take part. \n\nIf your mom is part of your life, letting her watch you try on wedding dresses can be a really special experience. She has likely watched you grow up, and seeing you as a bride may make her emotional. Plus, she arguably knows you better than most people, so she can tell if a dress really reflects your personality. Likewise, sisters can be an invaluable sounding board, too. (They also know how to read your reactions and can act as mediators if things get a bit tense.) \n\nWhile it’s nice to have cousins included in your [wedding planning](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist), bringing them dress shopping isn’t always necessary. Again, if you’re super tight with them and want their level-headed advice, invite them along. Otherwise, cousins can lead to aunts and second cousins, and well, that’s a lot. If your extended family really wants to be involved in your wedding dress shopping, designate someone to send them photos so they still feel included. You can also FaceTime them in your chosen dress so they still see it before the wedding. \n\n### Close Friends \nFriends make shopping more enjoyable so having your besties watch you try on wedding dresses can make the day more fun. It’s also helpful to have people around your own age who appreciate current styles and trends.\n\nIf you’re a bit indecisive and have a friend who offers great advice, bring her along. Having someone help you make a decision and give objective feedback is important. On the flip side, if one of your friends is notoriously judgy and negative, she may be best at home. The important thing to remember is you’re inviting the friends who will help you make a decision and feel good about it. \n\n![Garden State Wedding Photo InlineImage 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4oA7EjVnq3iuX1shBW485r/42d574c83969a14b453fea42e7a86911/Garden_State_Wedding_Photo_InlineImage_1080x720.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Garden State Wedding Studio\n\n### Wedding Party \nSome brides may feel inclined to bring all the [members of their wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one), but too many cooks in the kitchen can mean too many varying opinions. You want people who [know your style](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what's-your-wedding-dress-style) and personality so they can ground you and give you honest answers (in a nice way, of course). If one or two people from your wedding party fit the bill, ask them to join. \n\nIf you’re not sure who to bring or are afraid of offending someone by not inviting them, only ask your maid or man of honor. This person may turn out to be your sibling anyway, depending on your wedding party. You can also include others at different points of the process, like dress fittings, so they’re not completely left out. \n\n### No One\nSome people prefer shopping for clothes alone, and wedding dresses are no exception. Shopping alone offers you a judgment-free space to really think about how you feel in a dress, without any outside opinions. While it’s great to have others chime in, sometimes emotions run high, and you need a solo shopping trip to determine if something is right for you. \n\nYou can always do a preliminary shop alone, and then once you’ve narrowed it down to a few dresses, ask some family and friends to tag along. \n\nWhile you love your family and friends, you’re the one wearing your wedding dress—not them. It’s important that you choose positive people to come wedding dress shopping with you who will make the experience more enjoyable. Listen to your gut, hear loved ones out, but in the end, go with a dress that you really love. ","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:53:11.707Z"}],"name":"Wedding dresses","slug":"wedding-dresses","description":"From dress style and silhouette guides to stunning inspiration to money saving tips and tricks we help you find the perfect wedding dress for you, your wedding party and guests! Find everything you need to know about wedding dresses of every style and shape!"},{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Shoes & accessories","slug":"shoes-accessories"},"slug":"should-the-groom-wear-a-tie-or-bow-tie-for-their-wedding","title":"Should the Groom Wear a Tie or Bow Tie for Their Wedding?","excerpt":"The style of a groom’s suit will help determine whether a bow tie or tie should be worn on their wedding day. ","author":"Laura Hensley","publishedAt":"2020-12-28T16:41:04.964Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6R74fvnnamtZnB9bDYqX3B/18c013868430462f5b11eceafa771fdc/Hero_RomanticBlack-TieWeddingatBrooklynBotanicGarden_NSTPictures.jpg","altText":"Should the Groom Wear a Tie or Bow Tie"},"heroCredit":"NST Pictures","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- If you’re wearing a tuxedo, bow ties are the norm. For other [wedding suit styles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-different-wedding-suit-styles), either a bow tie or a tie can work\n- Coordinate with members of the wedding party. It looks odd if half the groomsmen are wearing bow ties and the others sport ties \n- There are different styles of bow ties and ties. Know which one is right for you. Use your bow tie or tie to show off your personality. \n","body":"While a tie or bow tie may seem like an inconsequential choice, the right neckwear really can make or break a wedding guest look. Read on to find out if you should pair your formalwear with a bow tie or regular tie on your wedding day.\n\n## What Are You Wearing? \n\nIf you’re wearing a [tuxedo](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_jacket), a bow tie is the way to go. A [bow tie](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_tuxedo_shirt) tux is considered one of the most dapper and formal wedding outfits for grooms—and is the proper dress code for a black tie wedding, black tie optional, or black-tie event. That’s not to say a necktie can’t be worn with a tuxedo, though. If your wedding is semi-formal and you’re wearing a tux, it’s perfectly acceptable to wear a traditional tie instead. It really all comes down to the formality—and [venue](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/planning-101/venues)—of your big day.\n\nSuits, on the other hand, allow for more flexibility. Traditionally, suits are worn with ties, but many grooms these days opt for bow ties. A bow tie with a suit jacket (or even just a dress shirt!) can dress a suit up or down. For example, a laid-back groom getting hitched at a __[rustic venue](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue)__ may opt for a trendy paisley bow tie with a __[light gray suit](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_textured_gray_suit_jacket)__. A groom saying “I do” at a formal venue may wear a three-piece navy suit with a maroon bow tie. Both outfits feature bow ties, but are very different looks.\n\nA tie can also dramatically affect the aesthetic of a groom’s outfit. Patterned ties can make a suit more formal or casual, depending on the print, just as lighter colors are best for __[spring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue)__/summer weddings and darker colors suit __[fall](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue)__/winter events. If your wedding venue and style are more laid-back, you can even take off your necktie after the ceremony.\n\nAnd if you want your outfit, as the groom, to stand out, consider groomsmen ties in a different color or pattern for your attendants. Or, you can wear a wedding bow tie with your groom's suit and accessorize your groomsmen with traditional neckties. \n\n## What Are Members of the Wedding Party Wearing? \n\nRegardless of whether you [choose to wear a tie](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-tie-for-groomsmen) or a bow tie, your groomsmen should coordinate with one another. Even if you aren’t sporting matching tuxedos or suits, you should be on the same page about neckwear. It can look very odd having a couple of members of the wedding party wearing a casual floral skinny tie, while others don a satin black bow tie. The exception to this rule? It’s okay for the groom to wear a bow tie while groomsmen wear ties. The groom is expected to stand out. And it's also ok for the ring bearer to wear something a little different, too - a bow tie in the same color as the groomsmen ties can be a very cute option.\n\n![Should the Groom Wear a Tie](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/45Ptx453nC3t4mG8wquXTz/b662d81ec74c03ee6ac4a2e85fdd25ff/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Different Types of Bow Ties and Ties \n\nColor, texture, fabric, and patterns all set neckwear apart and allow for personalization. For example, do you want your neckwear to be a neutral hue or make a colorful statement? Do you prefer a satin bow tie, or a silk bow tie? There are plenty of different tie styles and designs of both bow ties and neckties. Here are some of the most popular options:\n\n### Bow Ties\n\n#### Self-tie\nAs the name suggests, a self-tie bow tie is one that requires you to actually tie it yourself. If you’ve never tied a bow tie before, practice before your wedding day, so you nail the look. It can be challenging at first. \n\n#### Pre-tied\nPre-tied bow ties come with the knot sewn in place. This means you don’t have to worry about tying the bow tie yourself, but you do have to secure it around your shirt collar. Pre-tied bow ties are attached to an adjustable band. \n\n#### Clip-on\nThe easiest option out of all bow ties, a clip-on bow tie is ready to wear right away. It clips directly onto the collar of your shirt. While convenient, clip-on bow ties are often easy to spot, making them the most appropriate for children and not the most desirable option for grooms. \n\n### Ties\nTies come in a variety of fabrics, colors, and styles. Solid colors are classic choices for grooms, as they easily complement suits and dress shirts. There are many ways to tie a tie, but here are some of the popular styles. \n\n#### Windsor\nA Windsor knot, also called the “Full Windsor,” is a popular way to tie a tie and creates a fuller, sophisticated look. It’s one of the most common and classic knots, because it’s worn in both formal and semi-formal environments - so it's a great option for a [black tie wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding). It’s a timeless symmetrical style that looks fantastic with dress shirts and suit jackets.\n\n#### Half-Windsor\nA Half-Windsor knot is slightly smaller than the Windsor knot and is medium in size. Like the Windsor, this knot is very popular for its versatility. For grooms who want a formal or semi-formal look, consider a Half-Windsor knot—especially if your tie is made of a thicker fabric. \n\n#### Four-in-Hand\nThis knot is suitable for many occasions—except for the most formal. A four-in-hand knot is one of the easiest ways to tie a tie, which is why it’s so popular. It’s a slightly asymmetrical knot, and it’s best for casual button-down dress shirts. This knot is ideal if your tie is a heavier fabric.\n\n![Should the Groom Wear a Tie](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5gKc3G4PJkZWD3zrUYQfPx/e6a5e2ca0d5a53d09f55319a987e4a49/inline_unsplash.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## How to Tie a Bow Tie?\n\n### 1. Hang the bow tie flat around your neck, pulling one side about 1.5 inches longer than the other. The longer end should be on your right side.\n\n### 2. Cross the longer end of the bow tie over the shorter end. Bring the longer end underneath the shorter one, then out from the center. \n\n### 3. Fold the shorter end of the bow tie horizontally.\n\n### 4. Place the longer end over the shorter end. \n\n### 5. Fold the longer end of the bow tie horizontally.\n\n### 6. Insert the longer end through the loop at the back of the shorter end, creating a loose knot.\n\n### 7. Pull both ends gently to tighten the knot.\n\n### 8. Adjust as needed!\n\n## Bow Ties and Ties Can Show Off Personality \n\nLike any wedding accessory for grooms, bow ties and ties are a chance to add a hint of dapper flair to your formalwear. Some grooms like to wear a solid color suit with a polka dot bow tie, while others will match their tie to their wedding’s __[floral arrangements](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/decor-inspiration/flowers)__. It’s also fun to match your accessories with your __[wedding colors](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/decor-inspiration/wedding-colors)__. Another way to get creative is by matching your bow tie or tie to your socks or shoes, which can really help ground an outfit. \n\n## Other Accessories to Elevate Your Attire\nAccessories can instantly elevate and add personality to a tried-and-true suit look. If you're the groom, consider gifting your groomsmen one (or more!) of these accessories as a day-of wedding gift, thanking them for being part of your big day. \n\n### Cufflinks\nCufflinks serve a practical purpose as well as an aesthetic one - they'll make sure your shirt cuffs stay neatly fastened. Choose a pair that are engraved with your initials or your wedding date, or shop for a novelty pair of cufflinks in a creative shape (maybe something that nods to your pet or a hobby!).\n\n### Suspenders\nWhile your tuxedo should fit you well enough that you don't need a belt, suspenders can help keep your pants up - and are a must for a [black tie wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-dress-for-a-black-tie-formal-wedding).\n\n### Pocket Squares\nPocket squares can work with casual wedding guest looks and groomsmen suits alike. If you're a guest at an upcoming wedding, you can wear a patterned pocket square in your suit jacket in place of a tie. Or, if you're the groom or one of the groomsmen, a pocket square can take the place of a boutonniere. Choose one in a color or pattern that reflects your personality to add a little bit of pizzazz to any formalwear look.\n\n### Cummerbund\nIf your wedding reception is going to be a very formal [white tie](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-white-tie-wedding-attire) or black tie affair, you'll likely need a cummerbund to wear with your tuxedo. The functional purpose of a cummerbund is to cover the waistband and any awkward shirt bunching—keeping you photo-ready all night long. \n\n### Patterned Socks\nOne of the easiest ways to add personality to a suit and tie outfit is with a fun pair of socks. They'll only be noticeable when you sit down, so let a little bit of your personality come through with a quirky pattern or vibrant color. \n\n## Bottom Line\n\nAt the end of the day, the decision to wear a bow tie or tie as a groom at your wedding is up to you. Consider your [wedding style](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/decor-inspiration/wedding-style), your wedding venue, and what type of neckwear best matches your suit. It may seem like a small accessory, but it can really make or break a look. 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The Pros and Cons of Wedding Dress Trains","excerpt":"To have or not to have a wedding dress train? That is the question we will help you answer today.","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2020-12-16T19:06:48.931Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ZAK5ZspwGGI6kL3uVpfRc/24f3db618a0df13de4b99a6c0f5dbc7a/Hero_RomanticIndustrialWeddingat26Bridge_OnthetimesPhotography.jpg","altText":"wedding dress with a train"},"heroCredit":"Onthetimes Photography","body":"Some brides envision the wedding dress train before having any idea of what the rest of the dress will look like, while others have no concept of what a train is in the first place. A train is the extra fabric attached to the back of the dress that extends behind the bride as she walks. It can exude feelings of majesty and grandeur and make a bride feel like a bride, but depending on the style, it can also be easily damaged, difficult to move in, and expensive.\n\nIt’s important to consider what you want in a wedding dress and to determine whether or not you want a wedding dress train before you shop for your gown. To help you make your decision, we have outlined both the pros and the cons of a wedding dress train, as well as a few alternative options. Then, you can move on to selecting the type of train you’d like and the proper bustle to go with it. This is just the beginning of an endless series of small choices you’ll make while planning your wedding. \n\n## Pros of a Wedding Dress Train\n\n### The Dramatic Effect\nA common phrase you may hear (or say yourself) when wedding dress shopping or when watching a marathon of *Say Yes To The Dress* is “It’s a beautiful dress, but it doesn’t feel bridal.” This comment or some variation of the sort is typically due to the lack of drama or necessary *je ne sais quoi* the dress has. Sometimes, this can be solved with an embellished belt or a show-stopping veil, but almost always it can be solved with a train. A train is the epitome of “bridal.” It can turn an evening gown into a [bridal gown](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/bridal-dresses-gowns) and a beautiful dress into a wedding dress. \n\n### It Looks Great In Photos\nThe same qualities in a train that give it the ability to drop jaws and turn heads in person also apply in photos. Some of the most stunning wedding portraits we’ve seen capture our attention, because of an extravagant bridal train. \n\nThe train may extend any number of feet beyond the end of the skirt, which means it will create a dramatic, photo-worthy moment as you walk down the aisle. With the way it drapes across the floor and cascades down steps, it will draw all the attention to the one wearing it (you) both in person and in photos. If you want your wedding gown to make an impact on the pages of your wedding album, a train will accomplish it. \n\n![Train or No Train? What Are the Pros and Cons of Wedding Dress Trains?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3VNQtPiQYfT2uvrm1U46WV/046d25124faf12c3ae7cfd9dfbf220c8/inline_Grizzle_Photography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Grizzle Photography\n\n### There Are Plenty of Options to Choose From\nJust because you say “yes” to a dress with a train, doesn’t mean you’re committing to a lengthy, heavy, and unmanageable train. There are [wedding dress train types](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-different-types-of-wedding-dress-trains) of every shape and size to choose from, from understated styles that just sweep the floor to regal lengths that trail the bride by ten feet. \n\nChoosing a particular style dress doesn’t inhibit your ability to have a train and vice versa. Long trains can be shortened during alterations or even added. When you try on gowns, talk to your bridal consultant about how each style dress and its train can be converted, so you can find the right combination to match your preferences. \n\n## Cons of a Wedding Dress Train\n\n### The Potential for Damage\nUnfortunately, wedding dress trains aren’t all sunshine and roses. Considering they do drag along the floor, they can easily be damaged. From wedding guests (or even the groom) stepping on the hem, to mud, rocks, and twigs getting caught in the netting, there are plenty of threats a wedding dress train will encounter. \n\nWhile damage can occur to your dress at any given time, the probability of your gown’s train becoming stained or snagged is increased at an outdoor wedding. If you’re saying “I do” outdoors and are concerned about maintaining the quality of your wedding dress after the wedding day, you may want to forgo wearing a dress with a long train. And even though your gown’s train may be safe from the natural elements at an indoor wedding, it will still need to be bustled to prevent a shoe or two from going through it on the dance floor.\n\n### The Weight\nIt should come as no surprise that adding a lot of extra fabric to the skirt of a dress adds a lot of weight to it as well. The longer the train, the heavier it will be. If you select a lightweight style made of tulle or lace fabric, you may not notice a few extra pounds, but heavier fabrics and embellished styles will become heavy quickly. \n\nYou will be on your feet most of your wedding day and need to have the strength to not only stand throughout the ceremony, but also to carry your dress around with you all night. If it feels heavy at the bridal salon, try and picture wearing it for twelve-plus hours. By simply shortening the train length or selecting a dress without one, you can save yourself from fatigue on the wedding day and soreness thereafter.\n\n![Train or No Train? What Are the Pros and Cons of Wedding Dress Trains?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/47qKzgPqitKKZ0OQCTbn2i/6497512be7028dfc8947f6e4acab2d11/inline_OLLI_STUDIO.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // OLLI STUDIO\n\n### The Ability (or Lack Thereof) to Move\nAs we’ve expressed, moving around with a train behind you is no easy feat given the weight of it and the impending threats. Even if you opt for a shorter train, someone can easily step on it, or you could easily trip over it. A train requires assistance from your bridesmaids and eventually a bustle in order to navigate the day from the moment you dress to the moment you climb into the back of the getaway car. While you can likely manage the walk down the aisle without faltering, and the bridal train can look its best during the ceremony with a fluff from your MOH, the reception is a whole other story. Dancing, mingling, and making trips to and from the Champagne tower will be far more difficult with a train slowing you down. If you can bustle your dress before the reception you’ll be able to move through the evening with ease. \n\n### The Cost of Adding a Bustle \nWhile a bustle is all but compulsory, it does come at a cost. Unbeknownst to most, most wedding dresses don’t come with bustles so they need to be added during the alterations process. Elaborate bustles can put a dent in your alterations budget or blow it up completely. While a simple A-line gown and chapel-length train may only require a few loops, dresses with intricate beading, atypical seams, and extremely long trains will be expensive to bustle—and more difficult, too. \n\n## Wedding Dress Train Alternatives\nIf a train is beginning to sound like a lot of work, but the dramatic look of it is important to you, there are other options that can give you the best of both worlds. With all of the pros and none of the cons, these wedding dress train alternatives are easy to say “yes” to:\n\n### A Detachable Train\nA detachable train is a great alternative to a wedding dress with a traditional train for a variety of reasons, the most appealing of which is that you can easily remove it after the ceremony. A [detachable wedding train](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-do-you-attach-a-train-to-a-wedding-dress) allows you the drama of a train for the walk down the aisle. but the comfort of a shorter hemline for the dance floor. Detachable trains come in more than one style, too. Skirts and Watteaus, where the train hooks to the shoulders or upper back of the dress, and capes are all varieties of detachable trains that can give you the same or similar look to a traditional attached train. \n\n### A Longer Veil\nIf you want to wear a veil anyway, why not choose one with an extravagant length that makes up for what the dress lacks in train? A veil can provide the same spectacle as a train of similar length. Whether you opt to forgo a train because of budget or comfort, a veil has your back. \n\n### A Second Dress\nYour wedding dress should be everything you dreamed of and more—and if that means all your dreams can’t be met in one dress, wear a second one. A second dress can be chosen to meet all the stylistic qualities you’re looking for, but it can also be key in combating the cons of a train. Short and spicy, or floor-length and fun, there are plenty of reception-ready dresses to choose from. \n\nDid we help you make up your mind? Consider your wedding venue, style, and desired-comfort-level when deciding whether or not to have a wedding dress train. Nothing will compare to how you actually feel in the right wedding dress, so try them on, train and all, in order to find The One. \n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:53:51.406Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Shoes & accessories","slug":"shoes-accessories"},"slug":"how-to-choose-bridesmaid-jewelry","title":"How to Choose Bridesmaid Jewelry","excerpt":"Not sure what jewelry your bridesmaids should wear on your big day? Check out our favorite jewelry pieces that will make your wedding party stand out. Read on for details. \n","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2021-01-04T16:24:20.434Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1XVpi3JbIz9XTiXYUxjJVi/5845a6d345a062b500f628df43e9d6ff/Hero_ClassicallyElegantCharlotteWedding_CritseyRowePhotography.jpg","altText":"Bridesmaid Jewelry"},"heroCredit":"Critsey Rowe Photography","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- The first step in selecting your bridesmaid jewelry is to match the color of your bridesmaid dresses to complementary metal colors (think rose gold for pink or blue for silver). \n- If you know how you want your bridesmaids to wear their hair and/or the necklines of their dresses, use that to select the style of your bridesmaid jewelry.\n- You can let your bridesmaids pick their own accessories to reflect their styles, or gift them the jewelry that you’d like them to wear. \n","body":"Once you’ve asked your bridesmaids to be a part of your wedding, the next step is to figure out the look that your party will rock on the big day. Are you thinking flashy and formal, or understated and elegant? Whatever the season, the venue, or the couple’s personal style, a wedding party look will help pull the whole aesthetic of the event together. If you’re wondering what bridesmaid jewelry you should select, we’ve broken down the top trends in wedding jewelry we’re breaking it all day so that you can say “yes” to the perfect sparkle and shine. \n\n## Match Your Metals and Gems \nA good rule when selecting jewelry is to match your metal colors to your bridesmaid dress colors. For example, [gold](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-jewelry?color=YELLOW) or [rose gold](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-jewelry?color=PINK) would look stunning with a pink dress, whereas sterling [silver or white gold](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-jewelry?color=GREY) would pop against a yellow or blue dress. As for colored stones for jewelry, bridesmaid accessories are a great way to incorporate other wedding colors into your wedding party ensemble. Consider a [simple pendant](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/auroralux_little_drop_of_magic_necklace_rosegold) or [drop earrings](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/winkofpinkshop_harlow_teardrop_wedding_earrings) in one of your more neutral wedding hues to pull together a cohesive look. \n\n![Zola: How to Choose Bridesmaid Jewelry](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44mtXgcXSkHE7GL0uoaFKP/bdad4f5c38c93cdf8e6b8494b737d2c8/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### Match the Bride\nIf you’re scratching your head over what accessories your bridesmaids should wear, consider what the bride is wearing as a solid jumping-off point. If she’s rocking [crystal earrings](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/auroralux_bloom_crystal_earrings) or a [pearl necklace](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/jilco_pearl_and_diamond_necklace_sterlingsilverwithyellowgoldoverlay), carry that over to your bridesmaid’s accessories. While you don’t want to have your bridesmaids match the bride exactly, pulling elements from her jewelry—like having the ‘maids rock [pearl pendants](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/auroralux_pearl_dangle_necklace) or a [crystal hair clip](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/usabride_portia_crystal_hair_clip_gold)—is an elegant way to form a cohesive look. \n\n### Compliment the Neckline and Hairstyles \nOnce you have your metals and gemstones selected, deciding the style and assortment of accessories is next. You want to make sure that the pieces complement your bridesmaids’ looks, as opposed to taking away from the vibe. Consider how you’d like your bridesmaids to wear their hair (if you have a preference, otherwise they’ll be happy to decide on their own) and/or the neckline of their dresses. [Dangle earrings](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=Dangle%2520earrings) are great for updos, whereas [studs](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=stud%2520earrings) are great for looks where hair will be worn down. One shoulder, halter, and illusion necklines don’t need necklaces (so opt for a [flashier pair of earrings](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/usabride_leia_crystal_drop_earrings_gold) or a [bracelet](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/usabride_ariana_opal_crystal_bracelet)), whereas strapless, sweetheart, and v-neck dresses create a lovely focal point for a necklace, whether it’s [showstopping](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/sorrelli_laurel_necklace) or [simple](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/kozakh_divya_necklace). \n\n### Keep It Simple\nWhile selecting accessories for your wedding party is fun, keep in mind that a few simple pieces will go further than a whole bunch of flashy in-your-face options. If you’re asking your bridesmaids to supply their own accessories, be conscious of the budget. Your pals won’t be excited to shell out money on new shoes, necklaces, and hairpieces in addition to their dresses and day-of glam. Even if you’re supplying the jewelry, opt for one or two focal pieces and keep the rest simple. A good rule of thumb is that if you have a [chunky necklace](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/sorrelli_posey_statement_necklace), opt for [simple earrings](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/sorrelli_round_crystal_stud_earring_sorrelli_essentials_darkchampagne) and visa versa. \n\n*As for how you’ll go about securing the bridesmaid jewelry and wedding party accessories, there are three major options that couples usually opt for:*\n\n![Zola: How to Choose Bridesmaid Jewelry](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1UawBuT9yhmSAghFyjGo53/5b9a6213cd45e187e3b61ab94716132c/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### Let Them Decide for Themselves \nIf you’re outfitting your bridesmaids in matching dresses, allowing your bridesmaids to pick their own accessories is a great way to let their individual personalities shine. While it might be a good idea to ask them to send pictures to either the bride or the maid of honor to avoid surprises, this is a fun way to let your bridesmaids get creative with their looks and potentially keep costs at bay (if they already have something that they can repurpose for the wedding). This option is also great if you’ve settled on a fabric, but are letting them pick their own necklines. Since some necklines look better with necklaces or earrings than others, this will allow them to accessorize properly for their individual looks. \n\n### Give Them Guidelines\nIf you’re letting your bridesmaids pick their own jewelry, but still want an overall cohesive look, give them guidelines to stick to so that you don’t run into any surprises. Maybe you want to stick with [pearls](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=pearl%2520jewelry) or [yellow gold jewelry](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-jewelry?color=YELLOW), or perhaps you’d like everyone to wear [drop earrings](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=drop%2520earrings) with their hair up. Giving your bridesmaids an idea of what you’re thinking and what guidelines to stick to will not only make their choices easier, but it will ensure that no one feels accidentally out of place on the big day. \n\n### Gift Them the Jewelry\nAsking your bridesmaids to buy new accessories can be tricky, especially if they’re on tight budgets or already shelled out a lot of money for things such as bridesmaid dresses and day-of glam. If you have the means (and you’re really set on them wearing matching jewelry), consider gifting them a bridesmaid jewelry set that you’d like them to wear. A [pendant necklace with their initials](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/katespadejewelry_rose_gold_intial_pendant_a) or some [drop earrings](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=drop%2520earrings) can serve as a great bridesmaid gift, and will also ensure that everyone looks uniform on your wedding day. \n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Seasons_Quiz"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Read our round-up of the best places to buy bridesmaid dresses online, plus storefronts to try them on in person. 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From wedding shoes to accessories such as jewelry, veils, flower crowns and more, our expert style guides help you pull it all together!"},{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"let-bridesmaids-choose-own-dresses","title":"The Complete Guide to Mismatched Bridesmaid Dresses","excerpt":"Letting your bridesmaids pick their own dresses for your wedding day means confident bridesmaids and less stress for you. Here are the do’s and don'ts of letting your bridesmaids pick out their own dress. ","publishedAt":"2024-08-13T10:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6kKYuHOeeUvE5sqbavfpLI/a5b85a5d99beac71432d942beadfd696/katelyn-macmillan-5VhSc5jCA2g-unsplash.jpg","altText":"groom with bridesmaids in different dresses"},"heroCredit":"Katelyn Macmillan","tldr":"__Inside this article:__ \n- Why let your bridesmaids choose their own dress?\n- What could go wrong?\n- Guidelines to letting bridemaids pick a dress","body":"__TLDR:__\n- Letting bridesmaids pick their own dresses may seem risky, but it can give them confidence as they end up with a gown they love.\n- Be specific with any guidelines you have, such as if you have a specific color in mind or want a floor length dress.\n- Also, let them know what type of shoes and accessories you'd like your bridal party to wear on your big day.\n\n## Letting bridesmaids pick their own dresses\n\nYou whittled down your social circle into the __[perfect wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one)__ and now it’s time to decide what everyone’s going to wear. While it’s not necessary for the wedding party to wear matching outfits, many couples like to achieve a cohesive look. \n\nTraditionally, bridesmaids wear the same dress or outfit in the chosen wedding color. This helps the bride stand out in her [wedding dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/classic-wedding-dresses-for-the-traditional-bride), makes for visually cohesive photos, and also helps other wedding guests identify the members of the wedding party. \n\nHowever, many couples are loosening the reins and letting __[attendants choose dresses](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop)__ that reflect their individual maid of honor or bridesmaid style. With so much to plan for the wedding day, it may not be necessary to maintain control over everything. Mismatching dresses are one of the best ways to help your bridesmaids feel comfortable. They'll also have more freedom to select a dress that reflects their own style and flatters their body type. \n\nIf you're worried about letting go of control when it comes to mix and match bridesmaid dresses for your big day, don't worry. Or perhaps you just don't care and are willing to give free rein. From choosing bridesmaid dress colors to creating cohesive bridesmaid looks, here’s some wedding inspiration and insights to help you achieve a look that works for your wedding style and for your bridesmaids. \n\n## Why would I let my bridesmaids choose their own dresses?\n \nWe get it: It’s your wedding and it can feel easier to maintain control and just put your girls in the same bridesmaid dress style. However, there are some pluses to giving your attendants this freedom and not having them wear matching bridesmaid dresses.\n\n- __Comfort.__ Anyone who’s ever been a bridesmaid (or dress shopped for that matter) understands that being assigned a specific dress isn’t ideal. What works for one body doesn’t necessarily work for another and the potential resulting discomfort of a unified bridal party look can leave your bridesmaids feeling meh. If they can choose their own dresses, they can seek out different styles, necklines, and cuts that flatter their figures.\n- __Confidence.__ In that same vein, when you look good, you feel good. Let your bridesmaids [choose dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-pick-bridesmaid-dresses) they love (or at least feel comfortable in) and they’ll radiate confidence, not discomfort on your wedding day.\n- __Price.__ Money is often one of the biggest pain points for bridal parties. It’s [expensive to be a bridesmaid](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-bridesmaid-duties)! You don’t have to worry about settling on a price point that fits into everyone’s budget (or feeling guilty for choosing expensive dresses) if you let your bridesmaids choose their own dresses.\n\n![Zola - Mismatched Bridesmaids Dresses: How to Pull Off the Look](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/47xZofgiF7kwAgCW841P3u/2945a2669ac319627e743bc40307f78d/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n\n## Could skipping a specific dress go a little off the rails?\n \nDefinitely. Offering your bridesmaids free rein to select their outfits for your wedding is nerve-wracking. You don’t want to end up with an entirely mismatched situation (unless you do!). There are some cons to letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses.\n- __Cohesion.__ Obviously, if you let your bridesmaids choose their own dresses, they'll probably all pick different styles…and maybe even different colors. If you really want a traditionally cohesive look, maybe reconsider this route.\n- __Confusion.__ Too much of anything isn’t great—the same is true for bridal party freedom. Without any guidelines at all, you may find yourself answering a lot of texts about what’s OK and what’s not—from materials to color to price to length and more.\n\n## Guidelines for letting bridesmaids choose their own dresses\n \nMake the dress hunt easy for your bridesmaids and yourself by being clear about what you really do and don’t want. That way, every one from your maid of honor to junior bridesmaids can feel good in a dress that suits their body type.\n\n### 1. Do: Be specific.\nSure, you told your girls you wanted everyone in pastel green. Great! No, not great. When we say be specific, we mean be specific. If you have a look in mind, be clear about that. Here are some details you may want to be extra clear about:\n\n- __Dress color.__ If you have a dress color in mind, that’s great. However, what looks mauve to one person may be more pale violet to another. Picking a single color can make it difficult for bridesmaids to find dresses in the exact same shade from different vendors. Consider putting together a color palette of 3-4 complementary colors for your [bridesmaids to choose](https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingplanning/comments/pujak6/letting_bridesmaids_pick_dress_style/) from. or offer up a few vendors you’d like for them to order from.\n\n- __Length.__ Some brides don’t mind a variety of hemlines—floor-length, knee-length, mini, midi, etc. If you want all of your bridesmaids in the same length dress, let them know. Alternatively, if you really don’t mind different lengths, let them know that, too.\n\n- __Material.__ Satin, chiffon, charmeuse, crepe, taffeta—the world of dress materials is vast. If all of your bridesmaids are wearing the same exact color, dresses in different materials can be a nice way to add some dimension to the look. However, too many materials can also be a bit distracting. If you don’t want anyone in a jersey knit, make that clear.\n\n- __Style.__ By this, we mean the level of formality. If you’re having a black-tie wedding, you may not want your bridesmaids in semi-formal dresses. Be sure to outline the dress code clearly.\n\nClarity is key. Before you tell your bridesmaids they can choose their own dresses, come prepared with your own suggestions and requirements.\n\n### 2. Don’t: Forget about cost.\nWe like the idea that letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses may remove some of the financial strain. We also like the idea of a bride providing a shortlist (3-5) of dress vendors for the bridal party to choose from. If you go this route, consider selecting different styles you love in a variety of price ranges. Be considerate of your party’s financial situations—and be open to discussing it with any bridesmaid who may be in a tough spot.\n\n![Mismatched Bridesmaid Dresses Yellow](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2hmZIQ3ztPJpdpQndGPd87/bf0699bd01b2345d51b6221c07bbaa1a/Mismatched_Bridesmaid_Dresses_Yellow.jpg)\nPhoto by [Emma Lee Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/emma-lee-photography)\n\n### 3. Do: Make it a group activity.\nYou made a day out of wedding dress shopping…so why not make one out of bridesmaid dress shopping? Go to brunch and then hit the stores. Keep it simple and have a couple of boutiques picked out for the shopping expedition. Note: This may involve making appointments ahead of time. This way, your bridesmaids can choose a variety of dresses and you can be there in person to share immediate impressions. Not only is this just a fun wedding party activity, but it also helps busier bridesmaids find time to shop and nudges along any that err on the side of procrastination.\n\nIf your bridesmaids don’t live in the same area or can’t make the shopping day, that’s OK. Consider scheduling a Facetime with them as they shop. You can also create a dedicated group chat (if you haven’t already) to dress shopping.\n\n### 4. Don’t: Get complicated.\nAbove all, letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses shouldn’t be too complicated or stressful. In fact, it should potentially make things a little easier for you. These girls are your bridesmaids for a reason—and they want to make your wedding day go smoothly. Trust that they’ve got this under control and really, truly, let them take the reins on this one. (Don’t forget to __[thank them for their hard work](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/top-10-ways-to-thank-your-bridesmaids)__ in the planning process, either.)\n\nWho knows, they might even pick a dress they like so much, they’ll wear it again. Isn’t that the best-case scenario for any bridesmaid dress?\n\n### 5. Do: A final check-in.\nThere are the hair and makeup trials, the catering and cake tastings, and, of course, the bridesmaid dress check-in. It’s always a good idea to get on the same page after they've dress shopped and before anything is finalized. Make sure your bridesmaids run their final dress choices by you before they purchase. This way you can see if it fits into your ultimate vision or theme—and you eliminate any surprises and last-minute stress.\n\nGive your bridesmaids an absolute deadline for their final dress check-in. It sounds like a bridezilla move, but, trust us, it benefits them, too. You want everyone to have ample time to either find a new dress or get any necessary alterations. We recommend scheduling your check-in for about seven months ahead of the wedding. Therefore, let bridesmaids pick their own dresses well in advance.\n\n### 6. Don’t: Disregard shoes and accessories.\nBridesmaid attire doesn’t end with the dress. Accessories are everything, especially if you’re going for a mismatched bridesmaid dress look. Choosing a pair of shoes or a specific shoe style and color is an easy way to bring a cohesive look to your bridal party. \n\nIf you don’t have a shoe in mind, be sure to be clear about style. This way you avoid one girl in heels and another in flats. (If one of your bridesmaids needs to wear flats for a personal reason, though, we recommend hearing her out on that, of course.) Alternatively, you may want your bridal party in flats or sneakers. Again, just make sure you’re aligned.\n\nSimilarly, let your bridesmaids know what jewelry you do or don’t want them to wear. Traditionally, brides will purchase and then gift the jewelry they want their bridesmaids to wear. If you want to let them choose their own, that’s cool, too. Be sure, as always, to be clear about style.\n\nAnd don't forget about florals! Bridesmaid bouquets are an accessory in their own right, and will add cohesion to the look of your wedding party. Make sure that whatever flowers you're ordering will complement the bridesmaids' dresses. \n\n![Mismatched Christmas Bridesmaid Winter Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/lGiH566fp4nPH7kj6E8Dt/f3c59ea510b079cf8dbe3584bfa84354/Mismatched_Christmas_Bridesmaid_Winter_Dresses.jpg)\nPhoto by [Bokeh Love Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/bokeh-love-photography-llc)\n\n## 5 Mismatched bridesmaid dress ideas\n \nReady to get down to specifics? Here are some of the approaches you can take when building a mismatched bridal party look.\n\n### 1. Same color, different dress styles\nThis is one of the most straightforward approaches when it comes to choosing different bridesmaid dresses. You have them wearing the same exact color, like dusty blue or burnt orange, and ask your bridesmaids to find whatever dress they want in the chosen color. Add some cohesion to these different styles by giving them certain guidelines—for example, maybe you want them all to wear a maxi dress, or wear dresses that are in the same fabric. \n\n### 2. Same color, different neckline\nIf you're going to be strict about the color and style of the dress, you can give your bridesmaids some flexibility by letting them choose their own neckline. This is one of the best ways to accommodate different body types, as each girl can wear whatever cut she feels comfortable in. For example, maybe your maid of honor has a larger chest and would prefer a dress with straps—while another bridesmaid might love strapless styles.\n\n### 3. Same color, different textures\nTexture is a great way to create visual interest among your different bridesmaid dresses. For example, let's say you're having a [fall wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-look-in-fall-bridesmaid-dresses) and have asked your bridesmaids to wear burnt orange. Maybe one finds a satin dress she loves in the burnt orange shade, while another is drawn to a velvet style. Assign a texture to each maid that not only lets them show off their own personal style, but works well with the textures of the other dresses.\n\n### 4. Different shades of the same color palette\nIf you don't have a specific color in mind, keep it broad and ask bridesmaids to stick to a specific color scheme. For example, you might let your wedding party know to look for shades of green bridesmaid dresses (like sage and forest) or pink bridesmaid dresses (like dusty pink and fuschia). Ideally, this will create a sort of tonal, ombre-inspired look that's perfect for boho weddings.\n\n### 5. Different colors\nIf you want to make a bold statement with your bridal party, get creative by pairing different colors. You can choose a color family, like warm tones or cool tones, or choose a color scheme that reflects the season—for example, jewel tones for a moody winter wedding or pastel shades for a springtime celebration.\n\n![Letting Bridesmaids Pick Their Own Dress](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/0Auo6BBWFwwKMNbZmrGzA/dc4efb283015a188fd07e140c1a3da34/Letting_Bridesmaids_Pick_Their_Own_Dress.jpg)\nPhoto by [Anna So Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/anna-so-photography)\n\n## Thinking beyond the dresses\nEven if you're letting the [bridesmaids choose](https://www.quora.com/Will-you-choose-bridesmaid-dresses-for-your-bridesmaids-or-let-them-choose-their-own-Do-you-want-the-color-to-be-the-same-or-different) their own dress, you still have a lot on your plate while planning your special day. And Zola is here to help every step along the way. \n\nFrom [getting engaged](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/to-dos-after-you-get-engaged) and [announcing the big news](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-announce-your-engagement) to [selecting wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-invitations-paper-guide), we are here 24/7 with expert advice just waiting for you to learn. Happy planning!","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Pick out a thoughtful gift for the squad that shows up for you on your big day. 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Read our full, comprehensive guide on the most appropriate men’s attire that will make you look like you just stepped off the red carpet.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-12-28T17:16:07.930Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ib0hKIbbrVyFqK5kVrTba/419da62e0242fd57217d6ce823673ba4/Hero_Modern_Multi-CulturalWeddingat5226Elm_PaigeNewton.jpg","altText":"How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding"},"heroCredit":"Paige Newton","body":"Whether it’s the Golden Globes or the Grammys, many of us—male and female—watch for the styles. The fashion chatter usually centers around the ladies; however, there is something to be said for a guy who can successfully achieve a red carpet look. So, take your cues from award show fashion to gain inspiration for __[what to wear to a black-tie wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding)__, and forget about any casual attire.\n\nAlthough some guys go off-script and wear colorful and downright outlandish looks, it’s best to stick to the formal dress code rules and formal attire when attending a black-tie wedding. After all, not many can pull off the fashions that Lil Nas X wears at the Grammys. Actually, for most occasions, formal wedding outfits require black-tie attire, which means a tuxedo. A black tie outfit is the height of style, and, consequently, it’s an effortless look to sport. We’ll tell you how with our guide to __[dressing in your black-tie best](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-dress-for-a-black-tie-formal-wedding)__ for an evening wedding.\n\n![How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5xWzi6cRFkonwgW4riVJT5/e43866ef6817ca410e1a3e0da8e0850c/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Black Tie Dress Code Explained\nFirst things first—before we jump into how to dress for a black tie wedding, let's quickly cover where, exactly, the black-tie dress tie comes from.\n\nBlack tie is a semi-formal dress code that dates back to the 19th century. The dress code was popularized both in Britain and America. Both tuxedos and dark suits fall under the \"black tie\" umbrella—and while the dress code is semi-formal, it's generally [appropriate wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding) for more formal events.\n\n## The Perfect Pieces for a Black-Tie Wedding Look\nBlack-tie attire means that you should be wearing a black tuxedo or a dark suit (black suits, dark blue suits, and gray suits are all appropriate), but you can still let your personality shine through. With a few simple guidelines, you can put an outfit together worthy of the red carpet or wedding aisle.\n\n- __Tuxedo Jacket__ : Like the many takes on the classic cocktail dress, there are several __[styles of jackets](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_jacket)__. that work for black tie looks, like dinner jackets, tuxedo jackets, and more formal blazers. However, the common denominator in men’s black-tie suiting is the presence of satin on the lapels (whether it’s a notch lapel, peak lapel, or shawl lapel). Satin fabric also hides the buttons, which elevates the look of any black tux. Although black dress is the standard for black-tie events, darker tones of blue (like midnight blue) are acceptable. A good rule of thumb is to leave the single button closure fastened while standing, to maintain a fitted look (which can also be enhanced by a slim fit cut). \n\n- __Trousers__ : [Pants should match](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_pants) the jacket in both fabric and color. Satin goes down the outside seam on each pant leg, which serves to enhance the look. \n\n- __Crisp, Collared Shirt__ : A white shirt is the only acceptable color, but there is a little leeway with styling. Some tuxedo shirts are wing-tipped, but a [well-constructed oxford](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_tuxedo_shirt) would also suffice. Authentic tux shirts also have small pleats vertically across the chest to add interest. If you don't have an authentic tux shirt, ensure that your white dress shirt looks up to par. \n\n- __Black Shoes__ : Shiny, patent leather shoes are the norm for tuxedos, although quality black leather shoes or loafers will also do the trick. Don’t forget to wear socks. Over the calf, dark socks are ideal.\n\n- __Black Bow Tie__ : A [bow tie](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_bow_tie) allows those tiny pleats in the shirt to have their moment in the sun. Black is the traditional color, and be sure that your necktie neckwear is solid, not patterned.\n\n- __White Pocket Square__ : Dark jackets are in stark contrast to a pure white pocket square. However, it’s incredible how a [tiny square of fabric](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/birdygrey_didi_pocket_square_dustyblue) can create a cohesive look.\n\n- __Cufflinks__ : Unless you’re wearing an oxford, most tuxedo shirts close at the wrist with [cufflinks](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/edelweissjewelry_zola_love_collection_cufflinks_14kyellowgold). particularly if you’re wearing lengthier French cuffs. Subtly is better than going crazy with color, and be sure to match your cufflinks with other metals that you’re wearing. \n\n- __Studs__ : Although you will look like a stud in a tux, that’s not quite where we’re going with this. Upon close inspection, most tuxedo shirts have studs instead of buttons. These aren’t 100 percent necessary, but they do add to the look. Also, be sure to match metals with your cufflinks and other jewelry pieces. \n\n- __Vest or Cumberbund__ : These pieces are never meant to be worn in tandem. Covering your midsection with a cummerbund or vest is posh, but not completely necessary. If you do decide to wear one, remember that this isn’t high school. Black is best, so stay away from vibrant colors meant for prom.\n\n![How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/78mHneRzRZEno1T3RJAHp0/7b5a54fa7ba993829e03dedf46a4dea2/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Where to Get a Tux for a Black-Tie Wedding\n\n### How to Rent a Tuxedo Locally\nMost guys don’t have a tux hanging in their closet, but if they do, chances are that it doesn’t get much use. That’s where rentals come in handy. Many local bridal salons and upscale men’s shops rent tuxedos to grooms and other wedding party members. So if you need a black tie outfit, chances are that they can get you one, too.\n\n#### Pros of Renting a Tux Locally\nAn advantage of heading somewhere in person is that you can ensure a perfect fit. Also, if something is wrong—a missing button or loose hem—they can order another piece or fix it on site. You can also see fabrics and styles in person, which is a huge plus. \n\n#### Cons of Renting a Tux Locally\nThe downside to renting is usually drop-off times, especially if you’re traveling and rent at your final destination. Returning your tux before an early Sunday morning flight may prove difficult.\n\n### How to Rent a Tux Online\nIt seems that you can do just about anything with the internet at your fingertips, and renting a tux is one of them. Many businesses specialize in formalwear rentals, so be sure to select a longstanding one with a good reputation.\n\n#### Pros of Renting a Tux Online\nQuite often, companies have strict measurement guidelines on their website. However, many online rental sites will send you a tuxedo to test out before the main event. They are also a bit more flexible with return times, giving up to 72 hours to ship your pieces back.\n\n#### Cons of Renting a Tux Online\nAlthough rentals usually come with quick shipping, it’s tough to solve problems right away if something arrives damaged. Unless you can do a try on ahead of time, selecting fabrics and styles from afar can prove challenging. \n\n### Where to Buy a Tuxedo\nIf you’re the exception and have quite a few black-tie events coming up, investing in a tuxedo can save money in the long run. Many men’s clothiers sell tuxedos, although purchasing online is also an option. Be sure to order it well in advance of your black-tie wedding so that you can make exchanges if necessary.\n\n## In the Case of Black-Tie Optional\nYikes! You’re all set with what black-tie is, but the invitation adds one tiny, scary word after it—optional. Don’t worry. Demystifying the terminology is easier than it sounds, but this never, ever means that jeans and your favorite band t-shirt are okay.\n\nBlack-tie optional attire for weddings is a bit more relaxed than a tuxedo. Often, couples choose this option to alleviate any financial burden for their guests. After all, the expense of traveling and buying a wedding gift is enough without having to spring for new suiting. So, seeing the word “optional” is a good thing. \n\nThink of it as mimicking a tuxedo without wearing one. Dark suiting with a crisp, white shirt and black shoes are ideal. Also, add traditional accessories, such as a pocket square, dark bow tie, and cufflinks. Skip the studs and cummerbund, but feel free to wear a vest if you have one that matches your suit.\n\nThe rule of thumb is to stick to the dress code and wear your most formal wear. If you don’t own a suit, it’s probably the time to invest in one, or you could go the tuxedo rental route.\n\n*__Quick tip:__ Black-tie optional can also be referenced as “black-tie preferred.”*\n\nSo, whether you’re headed to a black-tie wedding or are one of the fortunate ones to walk the red carpet at a black-tie event, use our guide to get it right. With a few key pieces—either borrowed or purchased—you’ll soon be looking your best at the season’s best events. Which, of course, includes weddings.\n\n## 10 Black Tie Wedding Attire Ideas for Men\nLooking for some help with black tie attire? We’ve come up with these formal wedding outfit ideas to help you nail your look.\n\n### 1. Pronto Uomo Modern Fit Tuxedo Coat\nThis black __[Pronto Uomo tuxedo coat](https://www.menswearhouse.com/p/pronto-uomo-modern-fit-suit-separates-tuxedo-coat-black-3X933X9410)__ is a sleek and elegant choice for any black tie affair. The trim and modern fit provides plenty of comfort and mobility and features a two-button design and satin notch lapel. This tuxedo coat retails for $219.99 at Men’s Wearhouse.\n\n### 2. Stretch Tuxedo Shirt\nThis __[Stretch Tuxedo Shirt](https://bonobos.com/products/stretch-tuxedo-shirt)__ is a comfortable and snappy component of any black-tie outfit. The shirt features attractive mother-of-pearl buttons and double-knife pleats for some added texture. French cuffs tie the look together with an added touch of elegance—and ample opportunity to show off your favorite pair of cufflinks. This shirt retails for $179 from Bonobos.\n\n### 3. Barathea Tuxedo Pants\nFor a classic look that ties your look together, these black __[Barathea Tuxedo Pants](https://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=442547002)__ are the answer. These pants are made from 100% virgin wool from one of Italy’s oldest mills and tailored with a slim fit for a comfortable, natural look that works in any season. Available for $220 from Banana Republic.\n\n### 4. Black and Burgundy Paisley Tuxedo Vest Set\nElevate your look with this __[Black and Burgundy Paisley Tuxedo Vest Set](https://paulmalone.com/collections/tuxedo-vests/products/black-and-burgundy-paisley-tuxedo-vest-set)__. The set includes a wine red and black paisley microfiber vest, matching pocket square, and your choice of a matching necktie or pre-tied cravat—though you can also pair it with your favorite bow tie. Altogether, this set is an affordable and stylish solution for any formal wedding or black-tie event. Available for $39.97 from Paul Malone.\n\n### 5. Steel and Onyx Tuxedo Studs\nAccessorizing isn’t always the easiest—especially with black-tie attire. Fortunately, these __[Steel and Onyx Tuxedo Studs](https://propercloth.com/products/steel-and-onyx-tuxedo-studs-431.html)__ are the perfect addition for a modern and classy take on a tux. These steel studs are Italian-made and come four to a set, with each featuring a black onyx face. These tuxedo studs retail for $75 from Proper Cloth.\n\n### 6. Personalized Rose Gold Round Cufflinks\nThough some cufflinks fly under the radar, these __[Personalized Rose Gold Round Cufflinks](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cathysconcepts_personalized_rose_gold_round_cuff_links_u)__ make a statement. The elegant rose gold adds a bit of contrast to your getup—while the engraveable face adds a personalized touch. Available from Zola for $27.99.\n\n### 7. Cummerbund\nThis __[Cummerbund](https://theblacktux.com/collection/accessory/cummerbund)__ can help you truly embrace the formality of a black-tie outfit. Made of plain black silk and with adjustable backing, this cummerbund won’t cramp your style on the dancefloor, but will help you stand out as someone who respects tradition. Available to rent for $15 or to purchase for $30 from The Black Tux.\n\n### 8. Tux Plain Toe Derby\nLet your style shine with these liquid-shine __[Tux Plain Toe Derby](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/florsheim-tux-plain-toe-derby-men/4873534)__ patent leather dress shoes. These shows are elegant in their simplicity, with a cushioned footbed to keep you comfortable through the day’s—and night’s—festivities. Available from Nordstrom for $124.95.\n\n### 9. Cotton Pocket Square\nTo add a bit of color to your black-tie outfit, incorporate this stylish and formal light blue __[Cotton Pocket Square](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/deltoro_cotton_pocket_square_lightblue)__. This timeless accessory is made in Lake Como, Italy, from a high-quality cotton that helps elevate your look for any formal affair. Available from Zola for $25.\n\n### 10. Classic-Fit UltraFlex Stretch Black Solid Tuxedo Separates\nShopping for the various bits of a formal ensemble can be overwhelming and time-consuming. Fortunately, this set of __[Classic-Fit UltraFlex Stretch Black Solid Tuxedo Separates](https://www.macys.com/shop/product/lauren-ralph-lauren-mens-classic-fit-ultraflex-stretch-black-solid-tuxedo-separates?ID=10503427)__ has almost everything you need to meet a black-tie dress code. Separates include a tuxedo jacket, pants, and vest, giving you the opportunity to accessorize however you see fit. Retails for $56.25 - $202.50 from Macy’s.\n\n## FAQs About Black Tie Dress Code\nStill not 100% clear on what the black tie dress code is—and how to ensure your wedding attire fits that dress code? Let's take a look at some frequently asked questions about black tie wedding attire to give some additional perspective:\n\n1. __What is the difference between a tuxedo and a suit?__ The main difference between a tuxedo and a suit is that tuxedos have a host of satin features—like lapels, buttons, and pant stripes—that suits do not.\n\n2. __What kinds of weddings have black tie dress codes?__ The black tie dress code is reserved for events that take place in the evenings—so weddings that start after 6pm or so may have a black tie dress code, while more casual daytime affairs would not.\n\n3. __What is the difference between a black tie and a white tie wedding dress code?__ White tie is the most formal dress code—and as such, is reserved for formal occasions. Black tie is considered semi-formal.\n\n4. __What should you do if you're invited to a black tie wedding—but don't have a tuxedo?__ Not to worry! Most men don't own tuxedos. There are plenty of places where you can rent a tuxedo, whether you're a wedding guest or in the wedding party—and if that's not an option, a dark suit would also be appropriate.\n\n5. __Is there any way to incorporate color into black tie wedding attire?__ While there aren't many opportunities for incorporating color into black tie wedding attire, if it's important to you, you could add a pop of color with accessories, like a pocket square.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Learn the ins and outs of semi-formal attire for men. 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Luckily, Zola has you covered with this easy guide. Read on now.","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-14T18:17:19.140Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6FbTEkIOvwhgnjNVFfvbPU/9fed0ee78b65647114b0bbc7e741fe5a/inline_hewittphotography.jpg","altText":"Cocktail wedding Attire"},"heroCredit":"Hewitt Photography","body":"Cocktail attire is generally associated with knee-length dresses, sophisticated heels, and simple suits. However, as one of the most popular (and versatile) dress codes, there are numerous ways that you can incorporate your own personal style in dressing for this type of wedding...starting with long dresses.\n\nFrom the color and fabric of the dress, to the hairstyle and accessories you pair with it, a maxi dress can easily pass as proper cocktail attire, if styled correctly. Below are a few pieces of advice to make sure that you’re picking the right gown and accessorizing it accordingly for a semi-formal ceremony.\n\n### Seasonality Matters\nIf the wedding takes place in the winter, no one is going to bat an eye at the fact that you’re wearing a long dress—if anything, it’s likely expected. All that the cocktail or semi-formal attire request means in the colder months is that you’re welcome to pick a more casual option than what you’d choose for a black-tie event. For example, while you may have picked a silk, emerald green number for a black-tie wedding, you might go for a long, cotton gown with moody florals instead. \n\n### Pick Your Silhouette (and Fabric) Wisely\nA fitted, full-length gown gives off a very different vibe than a flowy maxi with a slit. When planning what length of dress to wear, consider what would seem most cocktail-appropriate and feel the most comfortable to you. If you normally opt for more fitted dresses, maybe consider a knee-length shift or an A-line number, instead. However, if you’re comfortable in something with a lot of movement, then a lightweight maxi-dress is perfectly appropriate.\n\nIn addition to shape, fabrics play an important role in the overall formality of the dress. Fabrics such as satin, velvet, crepe, and organza are generally more suited for black-tie—unless you plan to really dress them down with accessories—while lightweight silk, cotton, and linen blends are much more fitting for a cocktail maxi-dress. Slits and high-low hems are also a fun way to dress down your ensemble, while incorporating a bit of personality.\n\n### Consider the Venue\n\n![Can you wear a long dress for cocktail attire?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4Af8XXHF0YtCmGwrEMXBKy/3ce3bccca2feadc1dafb2771656c2196/inline_chrislanephotography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Chris Lane Photography\n\nIf it’s a backyard wedding or farm setting, then you might not want your dress sweeping the floor the whole evening (or have to wear heels to keep your hem clean). Once you receive the official invitation (or link to the couple’s wedding website!), look up the venue and try to get a good idea of the types of surfaces that you’ll be walking on. There’s always the chance that they’ll rent flooring for the day, but you don’t want to have to rely on it. If you go long, try something that isn’t a ground-duster, or opt for a pair of comfy wedges to add a few inches.\n\n### Opt for Alternative Colors and Prints\nBecause you’re picking a slightly more formal silhouette by going full-length, you can go a little more casual with your color and print choices. If it’s a spring or summer event, maxi dresses in terra cotta or mustard tones are great options, as are dainty florals in vibrant colors. For fall and winter events, jewel tones are always a wise choice, but long-sleeved dresses in moody florals and vintage prints are fun alternatives, too. If you do choose a print, make sure that you pick more subtle accessories so that the look doesn’t become too busy, or make it seem like you’re trying to steal the show.\n\n### Keep It Natural\nIf you’ve got your heart set on wearing a full-length dress, then keep your hair and makeup as laid back as possible. There’s a big difference between cat eyes and a tightly pulled updo, versus relaxed, tousled waves and some subtle lipstick. Details such as undone braids, beachy waves, and natural, kinky curls are great options to complement a less formal maxi. So long as you’re considering the seasons and venue, details such as a low bun, a little bit of extra eye makeup, or a statement lip can work, too.\n\n### Dress It Down With Accessories\nEarrings, hairpieces, shoes, and bags are some of the simplest ways to dress an outfit up or down. Instead of a sparkly clutch, maybe opt for a relaxed crossbody bag in a fun color, instead. For a fall wedding, consider adding a sophisticated leather jacket over your floral maxi dress. A fancier alternative to a denim jacket, a leather jacket keeps you warm, but also ensures that you don’t look out of place. For a summer event, consider tasteful wedges or block heels in a fun print. Flats are also an option, if they’re polished enough (particularly if they’re in an unexpected fabric such as velvet or satin).\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_WeddingBoutique"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"It’s easy to pick an outfit for a formal wedding, but what about a casual attire wedding? Read on to get some pointers on what to wear to a casual attire wedding. ","title":"Casual Wedding Attire Guide","slug":"casual-wedding-attire-guide","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6uuL6M77rEUl8NuQmPGrI6/12ef1b1f643341a710ceb9d7a3e01e3c/inline_cbrownphoto__1_.jpg","altText":"how to dress for a casual wedding dress code"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Going to a wedding where the dress code is cocktail attire? We have come up with a guide to help you determine what fashion qualifies for this occasion. 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Eyes will be on you throughout the wedding day and into the evening—and odds are you’ll be featured in many photos. Plus, you’ll want to feel your best. With all of this is mind, we’ve put together a comprehensive groom’s and groomsmen's attire guide.\n\n## What's the Difference?\n\nFirst thing’s first: What are the main differences between groom and groomsmen attire? Because suits and tuxedos can look fairly similar (especially in like colors), a few things a groom can do to stand out from his groomsmen are as follows:\n\n- Don a boutonniere. Doing so will also ensure that you coordinate with your partner.\n\n- Wear a different [tie](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-tie-for-groomsmen) or bowtie. This works especially well if your groomsmen’s are all matching.\n\n- Include a print. Wear a patterned blazer or suit jacket over your dress shirt, or patterned accessories, like socks or your pocket square.\n\n- Elevate your look. Differentiate yourself by wearing a different color, high quality fabric, or structure and silhouette. For example, if your groomsmen are wearing light gray or black, opt instead for dark gray or navy. Think along the lines of a bridal gown vs a bridesmaid’s dress.\n\nWith this in mind, read on for our guide.\n\n## Appropriate Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nSo, what is [appropriate](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/groomsmen-etiquette-101-a-beginners-guide) groom and groomsmen wedding attire? Here are some things to keep in mind:\n\n- The groom’s and groomsmen’s outfits should match the formality of the wedding and the venue.\n\n- Popular groom and groomsmen attire for more formal events include suits and tuxedos, while informal weddings allow for dress shirts and slacks.\n\n- If the groom’s attire matches the groomsmen, it’s important that everyone follows the dress code and goes shopping months in advance.\n\n- If the groom wants to stand out from the groomsmen, styling tricks can distinguish him from members of the wedding party.\n\n- Some grooms want all of their groomsmen to dress individually and not match one another. In these cases, establish a dress code and color palette for everyone to follow.\n\n## Groomsmen Attire FAQs\n### How to Choose Groomsmen Attire\nWhen it comes to selecting and even browsing for groomsmen clothing, there are several factors to be considered. Keeping these top-of-mind can be a tremendous aid in helping you decide on outfit pieces, fabrics, colors, fits, and more.\n\n- __Season.__ The season the wedding takes place in can have a large influence on what’s worn—especially if it’s an outdoor wedding. Take your cues from the weather and seasonal color palettes for attire that fits seamlessly.\n\n- __Time of Day.__ Depending on the season and your location, temperatures can vary drastically, from midday to late in the night. Consider what time (or times) of day you’ll be celebrating and dress accordingly. For example, if you’ll be out in the hot sun most of the time, you’ll want to opt for lighter, breezier fabrics.\n\n- __Wedding Venue.__ You wedding venue dictates much of the feeling and atmosphere of a wedding. Try to match its level of formality when deciding on your attire.\n\n- __Wedding’s Theme or Dress Code.__ Perhaps most crucial, pay special attention to any information the couple gives you prior to the wedding. Most often, you’ll be notified via invitation or wedding website of the wedding style and dress code. Take note of this when looking for an outfit—and always double check with the couple if you aren’t sure.\n\n### What Should the Groom and Groomsmen Wear?\nA [wedding’s venue](https://zola.app.link/o9Wx4NVYvcb) and [theme](https://zola.app.link/vxkYfJyN71) should inform what a groom and his groomsmen wear. It’s been said before, but it will be said again: Your outfit’s level of formality should reflect your wedding theme and wedding venue. If you’re getting married in your parents’ backyard, you don’t need to rock a tuxedo (unless that’s your thing). Likewise, nuptials at a place of worship call for a certain style of dress—it’s not appropriate to wear flip flops and a golf shirt in a church.\n\n### Who Pays for the Groomsmen Attire?\nAs with most things involved in wedding planning, this ultimately depends on the couple’s preferences. Most often, each individual groomsmen—as well as other members of the wedding party—will purchase or rent their own attire for the big day. Because of this, they usually also have a say in what they end up wearing. That said, there are cases in which the groom, couple, of even the groom’s parents will offer to chip in to cover some (or all) outfit expenses. This, however, highly depends on their budget and dress expectations.\n\nIn any case, communication about who’s going to pay should be communicated ASAP. Read: Before anyone agrees to be a groomsman. It’s crucial that everyone has all of the information they need, such as spending expectations, before committing.\n\n## 6 Groomsmen Attire Options\nOnce you determine how formal or informal you can be, decide what you want to wear. Some popular options for grooms and groomsmen include:\n\n### Formal Attire\n1. __[Tuxedos](https://zola.app.link/y2nb5n96Ocb)__. Tuxes are great for formal weddings and black-tie events. They can be worn during all four seasons, and are great for both indoor and outdoor weddings.\n\n2. __Dark suits__. These days, a nice two- and three-piece dark suit is acceptable for a wedding with a formal dress code. Make sure your suit is well fitted and pressed before the day of.\n\n### Semi-Formal Attire\n3. __[Suits](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-groom-and-groomsmen-suits)__, either three-piece or two-piece. A three-piece suit can be worn at formal weddings or semi-formal affairs. Two-piece groomsmen suits are a bit more casual and can be dressed down, even more so when the jacket is removed. In any case ,wedding suits should fit well and be pressed.\n\n### Casual Attire\n\n![How Many Groomsmen Is Normal? | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4BCAiHkxjk12bywl5iorO4/520a78ffa33671b2c8e4747187f5b956/inline_shutterstock_1_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Shutterstock\n\n4. __[Vest](https://zola.app.link/HcXfoUd7Ocb)__, __dress shirt__, __and slacks__. A play on the two-piece suit, wearing a vest over a dress shirt is a great look for more informal events or summer weddings.\n\n5. __[Dress shirt](https://zola.app.link/eLaNHDg7Ocb)__ __and slacks__. Paired with a tie or bow tie, this look can be accentuated by suspenders or a nice leather belt.\n\n6. __Shirt and khakis__. For informal or casual spring/summer weddings, skip the dress pants altogether and sport a pair of chinos with a nice shirt—tie optional.\n\n## Matching Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nTraditionally, a groom and his groomsmen wear matching tuxedos or suits, but today there are no hard rules. If you want the groom and groomsmen to wear the same attire, whether it be a suit or a dress shirt and pants, consider the following:\n\n- What is your [wedding theme](https://zola.app.link/vxkYfJyN71)/what are your wedding colors? If you’re having a fall, rustic wedding and are incorporating colors of blush and burgundy, the groom and groomsmen should follow suit. Gray suits with burgundy ties, for example, would be a way to stay on-theme.\n\n- What are everyone’s budget and location? It’s important to [talk about money when you’re at a wedding party](https://zola.app.link/gxLaAGyN71) to ensure that everyone can afford the same outfit. This can help determine whether you will rent, buy, or borrow garments. Remember that location affects availability and suit fitting appointments if you’re going the custom route.\n\n- Plan months in advance. If your groom and groomsmen attire matches, go shopping at least four to six months in advance to allow for enough time to order and tailor garments.\n\n- Another tip? Regardless of whether all groomsmen get fitted for their outfits at the same time and place, or do it individually, it’s a good idea to have everyone’s measurements [sent to the tailor two to four months before the wedding](https://zola.app.link/INwxgJyN71)—especially during peak wedding season—to ensure that everyone gets their clothing back on time.\n\nA popular style is for groomsmen to match one another, but the groom wears a slightly different, yet complementary, look. If you want the groomsmen to match, but the groom to stand out, consider the following:\n\n- Have the groomsmen’s attire match your wedding theme, but make the groom’s suit or tux slightly different by picking a feature color and highlighting it in different ways. For example, if forest green is one of your wedding colors, have the groomsmen wear green ties and [gray suits](https://zola.app.link/cE3oSTw7Ocb), while the groom wears a forest green suit and gray tie. This is a way to have everyone look good while standing together, yet still allowing the groom to stand out.\n\n## Mismatched Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nIf matching isn’t your thing, that’s cool. No groom and groomsmen need to dress the same. It’s important, however, that everyone at least looks cohesive and adheres to a dress code. A groomsman wearing linen pants will look odd next to a groomsman in a black tuxedo. The groom should set the tone and let everyone know how formal or casual they can dress and what color palette to stick to.\n\nIf you want all groomsmen to sport a navy two-piece suit, communicate what is appropriate. It’s one thing to say, “Everyone wears a blue suit!” but make sure that you also include dress shirts, ties, and shoe styles and colors. If your wedding is more casual and the groom is wearing nice slacks and a dress shirt, the groomsmen should follow. Use terms such as “business casual” and “semi-formal dress” to help the wedding party understand the level of formality that you want them to follow. Use photographs and share ideas with them. It’s a good idea to see (and approve) all groomsmen’s outfits before the wedding to make sure that they a) look good with what the groom is wearing, and b) are within the dress code. This helps to avoid any last-minute fashion disasters.\n\nIf the groom and groomsmen's attire doesn’t match, you can incorporate accessories to weave everyone together. Matching socks, ties or boutonnieres are all ways to let the groom and groomsmen stand out from one another, yet still complement each other’s looks.\n\nThe type of wedding you’re planning will dictate what the groom and groomsmen should wear. Look to other aspects of your wedding planning, such as venue, season, formality, and whether or not you want the groom and members of his wedding party to match. There’s no right or wrong way to dress for a wedding, but there are ways to ensure that everyone’s attire looks cohesive and fantastic.","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Tuxedos are ideal for grooms at formal weddings and black-tie affairs. 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We've compiled a list of 10 places to shop plus moodboards for every wedding style.","publishedAt":"2024-08-13T16:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4mMWGycb0RlzWGFZTAJQt2/d899aec4756f6b7c139dd89e2dd3838e/androgynous-attire-for-weddings-hero.jpg","altText":"A woman wearing androgynous wedding attire during the sunset. "},"heroCredit":"Fly View Productions","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com","tldr":"__Inside this article:__ \n- How to find androgynous formal wear\n- Where to get androgynous wedding attire\n- How to personalize androgynous formal wear for every wedding type","body":"__TLDR:__\n- If you're looking for androgynous formal wear, be sure to consider your budget and preferred style before purchasing. \n- Several shops, like Duchess Clothier and SuitShop are perfect for fulfilling your androgynous wedding guest attire needs.\n- Consult our guide for styling for every type of [androgynous wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/gender-non-conforming-wedding-attire). Whether romantic, class, boho or beyond, we have visual cues to help.\n\n## Searching for androgynous wedding guest attire?\nDeciding what to [wear as a wedding guest](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/dos-donts-wedding-guest-fashion) is definitely not as easy as sampling everything at the [buffet table](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-food-ideas). But finding an outfit you love will make you feel your best and boost your confidence.\n\nIf a gender-neutral style is your style of choice, there are plenty of ways you can create a formal wear look that will make you feel your best. From classic to laid-back, we'll show you just how and where to find androgynous [wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding) and how you can style it depending on any wedding theme.\n\n## How to find androgynous formal wear \nWhether you're an experienced wedding attendee or this is your first time celebrating your favorite lovebirds, finding the perfect wedding attire can be overwhelming, especially if you're set on finding the perfect gender neutral wedding outfit. \n\nWe here at Zola have you covered with all of your wedding wear needs. Here are some steps on how to find androgynous wedding attire.\n\n### 1. Set a budget\nTo help avoid overspending and narrow down your options, the first step in finding the perfect androgynous wedding attire is to [set a budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/planning-101/budgeting). \n\nDecide how much you're willing to spend on the wedding outfit, taking into account not only necessary adjustments, such as [tailoring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-do-wedding-dress-alterations-cost), but also any accessories, shoes, and makeup you'll have to purchase. Do some research by looking at stores online and local boutiques to help you come up with a budget that makes sense.\n\n### 2. Decide on your preferred style\nAlthough having a budget will help you narrow down which stores to go to, having a general idea of what style of clothing you're looking for will help you figure out where to go. Consider your preferred style choices, what makes you feel the most comfortable, and the [wedding theme](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-themes). \n\nHaving a look in mind will make the process easier and faster. Find inspiration by looking at current fashion trends and social media accounts of people with a similar style as yours.\n\n### 3. Consider how much time you have\nLastly, consider how much time you have to find your gender-neutral wedding outfit since it will likely dictate whether you should shop online or in person. If you're short on time, might need your outfit tailored, or want to try it on first, find a couple of local stores to go to. Otherwise, shopping online can give you a wide range of options to choose from—just be sure to account for shipping times.\n\n![Androgynous Wedding Guest Attire](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ueZ9Qeq5seT7GOemiI1SN/546e8e8a38b3c4f83b6aba4831ebb05c/Androgynous_Wedding_Guest_Attire.jpg)\nPhoto by [Creatrix Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/creatrix-photography)\n\n## Where to get androgynous wedding attire \nIf you're still looking for places to shop for an outfit, there are many stores focusing on androgynous formal wear. These stores' main purpose is to provide you with an array of gender-neutral pieces, from formal wear to casual pieces, that will help you look and feel your best. Here are some that we recommend:\n\n### 1. The Tailory New York\nAnother custom suit option with online fittings is [The Tailory New York](https://thetailorynyc.com/), a women-owned clothing company that combines custom tailoring with modern fashion design. If you're looking for a bold and ambitious look, The Tailory has different clothing styles and colors, from modern fairytale to street chic. Their suits and tuxedos start at $1,450.\n\n### 2. Bindle & Keep\n\n[Bindle & Keep](https://www.bindleandkeep.com/) offers suits that are made just for you. If you want to have a suit created for your exact measurements, Bindle & Keep will do fittings both in person and online. They divide their suit options into three different pricing tiers varying by fabric, which ranges from $995 to $1,395. If you're considering custom-made androgynous wedding attire from Bindle & Keep, make sure to order ahead of time as their turnaround time is between 10 and 11 weeks.\n\n### 3. WILDFANG\nIf you're looking for a place where you can buy your everyday clothes but also find formal wear for your special event, [WILDFANG](https://www.wildfang.com/) is a good option. Its mission is to rethink gender norms and focus on androgynous outfits. At their store, you'll be able to find blazers, [dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-spring-wedding), and even accessories at a more affordable price, ranging from $70 to $200.\n\n### 4. Duchess Clothier\nIf you're looking for another made-to-fit option, [Duchess Clothier](https://www.duchessclothier.com/) creates androgynous outfits for every body and occasion. Their store is located in Portland, OR, where you'll get plenty of separate suit and shoe options, but they also let you create your own look by mixing and matching pieces. The price for their suits starts at $1,120 and they offer packages that also include dress shirts, ties, and pocket squares.\n\n### 5. Kirrin Finch\n[Kirrin Finch](https://kirrinfinch.com/) seeks to create fitting clothes that make you feel confident and comfortable. Their attire is designed to fit bodies of all shapes and sizes. They offer a wide range of androgynous formal wear, from dress shirts to suits and blazers. Prices range from $150 to $400 and offer a variety of silhouettes and colors.\n\n![Kirrin Finch Androgynous Formal Wear](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1lW1ojxP5jTJEjgXs2OkJu/98f85f274d87bcead990e2b668f5ee64/Kirrin_Finch_Androgynous_Formal_Wear.jpg)\n\n### 6. SuitShop\nIf you're looking for a more affordable option, or even considered [renting](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-does-a-tuxedo-rental-cost), [SuitShop](https://suitshop.com/) can provide you with high-quality clothing for a price that will make you feel as good as you look. At SuitShop, you can own a suit for as little as $199, and you'll get a variety of options to choose from with inclusive sizing. Plus, you can try your androgynous wedding attire for free for seven days.\n\n### 7. Birdy Grey\nAlthough [Birdy Grey](https://www.birdygrey.com/) fancies itself a [bridesmaid](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-bridesmaid-duties) dress retailer, they also offer options for suits and tuxedos that are tailored to perfection. At the online retailer, you'll also see a variety of shoes and accessories that are perfect for any wedding theme. Their gender-neutral wedding outfits are also affordable, starting at $199.\n\n### 8. Peau de Loup\n[Peau de Loup](https://www.peaudeloup.com/)'s goal is to make clothes for bodies and not genders, offering high-quality and limited clothing that accommodates curves. Aside from finding your androgynous wedding attire there, you'll also be able to get shoes, accessories, and casual clothing. Their formal wear is affordable, with prices starting at $98.\n\n### 9. HauteButch\nAnother brand that creates masculine clothing to fit women's bodies is [HauteButch](https://hautebutch.com/), a queer Black-owned brand. This small company creates innovative and diverse styles that represent who you are. They sell suits, vests, and accessories in a variety of styles and colors, with suits starting at around $200.\n\n### 10. Sharpe Suiting\n[Sharpe Suiting](https://sharpesuiting.com/) will help you achieve a look that will both fit your body and your style. They specialize in wedding attire and use their trademarked body measuring formula called “Andropometrics” to deliver you a custom suit. The process of purchasing a custom outfit will take around eight weeks, and a two-piece suit starts at $1,800.\n\n![Sharpe Androgynous Formal Wear](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/48SlVkaQrogBBmLLYA9Ogq/cdca55ee7c7ea3539d3123b08632e6af/Sharpe_Androgynous_Formal_Wear.jpg)\n\n## How to personalize androgynous formal wear for every wedding type \nNo matter how you express yourself, your wedding attire should fit the [wedding type](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/couples-top-wedding-themes) you’re attending or planning. Whether that is a classic chic wedding or a beach getaway, there are different ways you can personalize your androgynous formal wear according to the theme. \n\nWhen deciding on what to wear for the wedding, consider each element of your wedding attire, including accessories, shoes, and colors. You can also add your own personal touch by using elements that you usually wear—like your favorite watch or a pop of color that looks good on you.\n\n### 1. Classic\nClassic weddings are more traditional and elegant, and sometimes will require [black tie wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding). Whether your invite mentions a dress code or not, invest in looks in black, gray, or dark blue with solid fabric. If the wedding is during the summer, you might opt to wear lighter tones such as light gray or beige. \n\nYour look should be elegant and fitted, so if you’re going for a suit, consider wearing solid wool fabric, a black bowtie, and a collared white shirt. To complete your look, wear classic black leather shoes and gold and pearl jewelry, if that’s true to your style. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-classic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/630zTDv9adarWkCgmAY9X8/774dd5af04a72b617487675442696d26/androgynous-attire-for-classic-weddings.png)\n\n### 2. Rustic\n[Rustic weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue) are full of natural and wooden touches, which means you can go for a less formal look and have fun with textures. Look for clothing with lighter tones such as light blue and brown. For a more casual look, you could also forgo your blazer and wear only a vest with a collared shirt. \n\nAdd some texture to your look by choosing cotton or tweed blazers. Then complement your outfit with vintage brown leather shoes and patterned pocket squares. This is also your chance to wear your favorite shiny, gold jewelry or a leather watch. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-rustic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6X9V0pswklRpQ4DsMoebbj/62d44e6a3d9a4ae854cafbbe6905cd14/androgynous-attire-for-rustic-weddings.png)\n\n### 3. Beachy\n[Beach weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pros-and-cons-of-a-beach-wedding) are relaxed and calm, which means you get to enjoy the sea view and salty air with a more casual, bright look. Opt for light tones, like a pastel blue or green, or go for more colorful attire with florals. \n\nInvest in clothes with linen fabric so you can fully enjoy the ocean breeze. You might even want to roll up your sleeves or wear some nice shorts. Make your look even more beachy by adding colorful pocket flowers, accessories with seashells, and white loafers. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-beachy-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6Zf82q3mpqKJLcuDB84EWS/1362edaf2195c2480dab783a07118625/androgynous-attire-for-beachy-weddings.png)\n\n### 4. Modern\nModern weddings are more fashionable and bold, so if you like trendy styles or a monochromatic look, this is your chance to shine. In a modern wedding, you have the opportunity to be more creative by trying different fabrics or wearing a statement piece. \n\nConsider bold colors like dark green or burgundy, or try an all-black outfit with cuffed pants. Then complete your look with fashionable loafers or shiny black shoes and a gold watch. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-modern-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6hpxRcBcPre6QeHDQhrMgY/a531c502c266880425318f77c1b56270/androgynous-attire-for-modern-weddings.png)\n\n### 5. Garden\n[Garden weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/outdoor-wedding-ideas-for-fall) are fun and whimsical, so bring a playful spirit to your wedding attire. Consider floral and pinstripe fabrics, or go for a solid dark blue or purple look. Choose a breathable fabric, especially if the wedding will be outside during the summer. \n\nComplete your look by adding a tie in a pastel tone, or ditch the tie and go for an open collar style. Add flower accessories or a simple white pocket square to go with stitched vintage shoes. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-garden-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/QQIsPX3Pfi3nhwBvgFcNt/97fb6382f096e46eb5601fce444a8b09/androgynous-attire-for-garden-weddings.png)\n\n### 6. Romantic\nRomantic weddings are nothing short of dreamy and elegant. Go all in with a look that could've come out of a fairytale by wearing pastel pinks and blues and a blazer with silk details. \n\nTry suspenders, and match them with some classic leather shoes. For accessories, you can add delicate flower pins or shiny jewelry with diamonds and a gold watch.\n\n![androgynous-attire-for-romantic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1voWcJwI7i0vFWKLZTTWfa/09119df7011a734aa074ab55471930de/androgynous-attire-for-romantic-weddings.png)\n\n### 7. Boho\n[Boho weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/rustic-wedding-ideas) are more unconventional and relaxed, so this is your chance to rock a more laid-back look. Find outfits with lightweight and breathable fabrics and play around with different colors. \n\nDon't be shy when adding flowers or feathers to complement your look, or try a suede boho hat and match it with brown loafers. As for accessories, consider jewelry with colorful stones or gold fringe. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-boho-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/19ClGLMB3t5aDno8SdUPg0/b06b0754a417d786152b3240e245c6e8/androgynous-attire-for-boho-weddings.png)\n\nFinding the right [wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-guests/wedding-attire) doesn't have to be complicated. As long as you wear something you love and feel comfortable in, you'll radiate confidence walking in the venue. Luckily, you know exactly where to shop for androgynous wedding attire and how to personalize it according to each wedding theme.\n\nAre you the one getting married? Did you know that Zola can help with all of your wedding day needs? From using our [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) to creating a free [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website), get started today!","tag":"List","updatedAt":"2025-06-07T16:47:44.977Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"what-should-the-mother-of-the-groom-wear","title":"What Should the Mother of the Groom Wear?","excerpt":"Wondering what the mother of the groom should wear to your wedding? Read on for our complete guide.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2020-12-16T20:33:51.524Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3XYQnnhFxaJwQKwb4o3VdP/09b22c0665e884e05ef2a3f099378d4c/hero_Eyes_2_See_Photography.jpg","altText":"mother of the groom"},"heroCredit":"Eyes 2 See Photography","body":"Mothers are always valued members of a couple’s wedding party, whether it’s the mother of the bride or the mother of the groom. Both are honored and appreciated for their contributions to the bride and groom’s big day. \n\nThe mother of the groom in particular has several responsibilities, including helping plan the guest list for the groom’s side of the family and hosting the rehearsal dinner. It’s only natural that she looks exceptional when the big day rolls around. But what exactly should the mother of the groom wear? \n\n## Wedding Etiquette for the Mother of the Groom\n\nDepending upon how much of a stickler for tradition you are, there may be etiquette rules your family members and guests must follow. These rules may include a few about the wedding attire for the groom’s mother. \n\n### Dress Buying Traditions\n\nWondering if there’s a difference [between the mother of the bride dress and the mother of the groom dress?](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/mother-of-the-bride-vs-mother-of-the-groom-dresses-whats-the-difference) Traditionally, the mother of the bride decides on her dress first and then informs the groom’s mother. The mother of the groom can then get a dress that complements the [mother of the bride dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-attire-101-garden-edition) on the wedding day. \n\nKeep in mind that the two moms do not have to dress identical at all—the two dresses just have to be complementary, so they don't clash with each other, the wedding theme, or the bridesmaid dresses. \n\nIt’s worth noting, though: Nowadays, this tradition is considered more of a guideline than a hard rule. Still, it’s good guidance—especially if you haven’t heard otherwise. \n\n![Mother of the Groom Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/25fkY0wAnryA14ISsWlQEE/b10a6d827562696eacee5b1c7807476c/inline_rengim-mutevellioglu.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Rengim Mutevellioglu\n\n### Dress Etiquette\n\nAs stated before, the mother of the groom is an honored part of the special occasion, and she should dress accordingly. Both the mother of the bride and groom should select dresses that are similar in style and length and complementary to the wedding color palette and theme. \n\nBefore any shopping is done, consult with the bride or groom to get a better idea of their vision for the wedding day. For instance, flashy dresses and distracting colors wouldn’t be appropriate for a wedding with a soft, vintage theme. The mother of the groom should also avoid particular styles, such as low-cut necklines, thigh-split dresses, or tight skirts. \n\nJust keep in mind: Within reason, the mother of the groom should be able to dress according to her personality and comfort. \n\n### Dress Shopping Is Bonding Time\n\nIn today’s culture, mothers of the bride and groom often go dress shopping together and view it as an opportunity to bond and get to know one another better. Other moms might shop with the bride and bridesmaids as well, opting to make it a big gal’s day complete with a fancy lunch or dinner. This not only helps everyone get to know each other better, but also helps ensure that everyone looks great and dresses don’t clash. \n\n## Wedding Etiquette for Stepmoms of the Groom\n\nIf the groom’s family is a blended family, it can sometimes get complicated. The mother of the bride is only obliged to inform the mother of the groom about her wedding attire. Stepmothers, on the other hand, are the groom’s responsibility. It’s up to him to give her the required information, so that she can dress appropriately. \n\nOf course, this may be different in every family, because it depends on how close the groom is with his stepmother. If she’s considered a close family member and you plan to seat her in front with other family members, then she should choose her outfit in keeping with the colors and theme of the rest of the wedding party and family. However, if the two are not close and she is considered merely a guest, then she will be seated with guests and should have full freedom to dress however she likes (assuming it’s wedding appropriate!). There’s really no need for her attire to match the immediate family or wedding party—unless she just wants to.\n\n## Color Dos and Don’ts\n\n### Dos\n\nThere’s no end to the color palettes and wedding themes a bride might choose from. Depending on the theme, many mothers of the groom favor colors like:\n\n- Blues\n- Blushes\n- Mauves\n- Lavenders\n- Mint Green\n- Peach\n\nIf your wedding is a formal one, some mothers of the groom might prefer to wear shades of gold, dark silver, or even black. Other darker colors that might be worn include shades of :\n\n- Navy\n- Green\n- Purple\n- Red\n\n### Don’ts\n\nRemember, it’s a big fashion faux pas for someone in the immediate family or wedding party to wear white or any variation thereof. Even neutral colors like cream or beige are against dress code. \n\nOf course, some brides might not mind; some may even want their bridal party in white. When in doubt, though, it’s best to err on the side of caution. \n\n## Wedding Attire Styles for the Mother of the Groom\n\nIt’s important to consider age, body shape, and the time of year when deciding on a dress style for the mother of the groom.\n\n### Body Shape\n\nDifferent dress shapes flatter different body types:\n\n- Someone who is wider at the shoulder and narrower at the hips, like an inverted triangle, might look best in V-necklines and A-line skirts, with a nipped waist to create a shapely silhouette.\n- Someone with wider hips should focus on accentuating the top of her body with detailing or an off-the-shoulder neckline, along with fit and flare dress styles. \n- Someone with an hourglass figure should avoid baggy and loose dresses, or run the risk of looking frumpy.\n- Someone with a rectangle body shape might consider more form-fitting dresses.\n\nHowever, remember that these are just tips and guidelines. It’s more important to make sure that whatever style of dress the mother of the groom wears, she feels comfortable and attractive. \n\n### Time of Year\n\nThe mother of the groom should feel comfortable through the wedding ceremony and reception. That’s why it’s important to consider the season and whether or not the venue is indoor or outdoor when choosing a dress. For example, the mother of the bride can get away with wearing a casual sundress for an outdoor, summer beach wedding, but should wear a formal dress for an indoor, black-tie affair. \n\nDuring colder months, dresses can be accessorized with shawls, faux fur, and shrugs. Tailored jackets are another option that look great and help keep the groom’s mom toasty and warm. Also, if it’s simply too cold for a dress, pantsuits can be a good option to keep the legs covered. \n\nDepending on where you live, spring is typically warm, which means she could wear tea-length and cocktail dresses and be perfectly comfortable. Summer is also a great season for tea-length dresses. \n\n### Age-Appropriate\n\nRemember, there is such a thing as too sexy. The mother of the groom should avoid wearing anything that’s overtly sexy, such as deep necklines with cleavage or skirts that flash the thigh. If you know that the mother of the groom tends to dress a little on the risqué side, there’s nothing wrong with asking her to wear something that’s age-appropriate. \n\n![Mother of the Groom Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3ym2V6NZrPUABfEbT0eRIZ/9f244b1d9574d64e93c28a840b42a985/inline_stocksy.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Stocksy\n\n## Don’t Forget Accessories\n\nNo outfit is complete without matching accessories. For a mother of the groom, accessories might include: \n\n- Small clutch purse\n- Medium tote purse\n- Stylish hat or headband\n- Pretty necklace and earrings\n- Bangle bracelets\n\nWhatever accessories she wears, it should be something that complements her wedding attire and highlights her own unique style without taking attention away from you. \n\nIf the mother of the groom is uncomfortable with the neckline or sleeves of her chosen wedding attire, she could always add a trendy scarf or shawl. This does double duty by covering her up more and accessorizing her look. \n\nWedding attire for the mother of the groom really isn’t that complicated. Once there’s a theme, color palette, and venue in place, she’ll be able to pick just the right dress.\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Garden wedding attire blends comfort and style with light fabrics and floral touches. 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"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/","tldr":"__Inside this article:__\n- What is the average wedding dress cost in 2025?\n- What does the average wedding dress cost?\n- How much should you spend on a wedding dress?\n- Average cost of wedding dress alterations\n- How much does a custom wedding dress cost?\n- Four factors that affect the cost of a wedding dress\n- How to save money on your wedding dress","body":"__TLDR__\n- Dresses fall into the $1,500-$2,500 range, but finding your dream wedding gown could cost more (or less) depending.\n- If you're on a strict budget, consider shopping at sample sales and trunk shows at your local bridal boutique.\n- Also, don't forget to factor in the cost of wedding dress alterations, which can add a significant amount.\n\nChoosing a wedding dress can be one of the most exciting parts of wedding planning. Whether you’ve fantasized about your dream wedding gown for years or haven’t yet [thought about your style](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what's-your-wedding-dress-style), you’re likely wondering, \"How much are wedding dresses, anyway?\"\n\nSo, to first answer the question about how much do wedding dresses cost: Today’s average cost of wedding dresses is between $1,500 - $2,500. However, the truth is that wedding dress costs vary wildly based on factors like the designer, fabric, and other key elements. If you have your eye on an Oscar de la Renta designer dress, it'll have a bigger price tag.\n\nIf that cost of a wedding dress number seems high, don’t worry. It’s more than possible to find a dress you love on a smaller budget. Once you understand what factors impact the cost of a dress, you’ll be able to narrow down what to look for and what to avoid when you start shopping.\n\nFrom the average wedding dress cost in 2025 to the average price of alterations, read on for everything you need to know about wedding dress costs.\n\n## What is the average wedding dress cost in 2025? \n\nAccording to a real weddings study, the average price of a wedding dress in 2025 is [$1,500 to $2,500](https://fash.com/costs/wedding-dress-cost). The average American wedding dress cost from a large retailer like David's Bridal starts at $500. A boutique dress costs around $2000+, and a designer/custom dress usually starts at $5,000. Some dresses cost $100 or less. Note: those are [pre-alterations prices](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-do-wedding-dress-alterations-cost).\n\n![Wedding Dress Costs](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4eWFohjCPq4s3jJY32BhI8/199418ebf5acd9c6a5eb2eb9709a59d6/Wedding_Dress_Costs.jpg) Photo by [Lex & Trev Photo + Film](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/lex-trev-photo-film--2)\n\n## What does the average wedding dress cost? \nAccording to a recent [wedding dress Reddit thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingdress/comments/184qza5/how_much_did_you_spend_on_your_dress/), the average cost of a wedding gown varies greatly depending on where folks shopped. Buying a gown at a trunk sale brings a lower price point than at a bridal boutique. Don't worry—our Zola experts will clue you in on how to save money. \n\nSo, is $2000 a good budget for a wedding dress? In our estimation, yes, but it all depends on your goals. That number is right in the middle of our average 2025 wedding dress budget. However, you also need to factor in alterations. The average is around $500, but that depends on how detailed your gown is and how many alterations you need.\n\n## How much should you spend on a wedding dress? \n\nYour wedding dress is just one of many expenses in [your wedding budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-set-your-wedding-budget). Be sure you’re clear on how much you’ll spend in other areas like your venue, florals, and vendors. Factor in [additional outfits](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/buying-two-wedding-dresses-101) for pre-wedding activities like your rehearsal dinner before you settle on a wedding dress budget.\n\nDon’t let your opinions be swayed too much by the average wedding dress cost. How much you should spend on a wedding dress depends entirely on your personal tastes and priorities. You might decide to buy a dress for $200 because you’d rather spend more on elaborate floral arrangements—or maybe you’re willing to spend as much as necessary if it means achieving your dream look.\n\nAside from considering other wedding expenses over a dress, decide if you might regret shelling out thousands for your dream dress after the big day. Whatever the answer might be, the key is knowing your priorities and adjusting your budget accordingly.\n\nDon’t forget to give some thought to your shoes, jewelry, and [accessories](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-accessories-bridal-look), all of which help tie your final look together—head over to Zola’s online [bridal boutique](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/bridal-boutique) for inspiration! So, how much should you pay for a wedding dress? It depends on your priorities and overall budget.\n\n__Expert Advice:__ Use Zola’s free [Wedding Budget Planner & Calculator](https://www.zola.com/wedding-budget) to make keeping track of your wedding expenses easy.\n\n## Average cost of wedding dress alterations \n\nMost alterations cost $75 to $300 and upward, but it depends on how labor-intensive your alterations are. Minor adjustments like taking a few inches off the hemline could cost less than $100. Major alterations like sleeves, new necklines, removing boning, or adding a [bustle](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-bustle-a-wedding-dress) can cost $300+.\n\nThe more layers your dress has, or the more intricate its design (beading, lace), the more expensive your alterations will be, even for “simple” adjustments like a hem. If you’re trying on a dress that you know will need big changes, it’s worth asking for a quote before you say yes.\n\nTo ensure your dress fits perfectly, plan on alterations, no matter how pricey your dress is. \n\nRead our [Ultimate Guide to Wedding Dress Alterations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-dress-alterations) for more.\n\n![Wedding Dress Costs 2025](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6V2CuzQbyzTxIFgZiWt3Ie/1879324fbbace6722f29dd94d9493d83/Wedding_Dress_Costs_2025.jpg) Photo by [Life Captured by CLN](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/life-captured-by-cln-photography)\n\n## How much does a custom wedding dress cost? \n\nThis is likely to be the most expensive option—the cost of a custom wedding dress can range anywhere from $6,000 to well over $10,000. Designing a custom gown can be ideal if you have a very specific vision in mind.\n\nIn general, the more couture the designer you go with, the more expensive the wedding dress price will be. However, you may be able to get a deep discount if you shop at a sample sale or trunk show. Ask your local bridal stores when they’re having these events if you’re interested in sample dresses.\n\nEven big-name designers have started making less expensive lines of their dresses for big-box bridal stores, so you may be able to find your dream wedding gown by shopping around.\n\n## Four factors that affect the cost of a wedding dress \n\nWedding dress prices first and foremost depend on whether you choose a [designer gown](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/7-black-wedding-designers-to-know) or a dress off the rack from a major retailer. Designer dress prices will always be more than manufactured dress prices, especially if you go for a handmade or custom-made gown. So, when you’re looking into the average cost of a wedding dress, keep this in mind. \n\nEven if you don’t choose a designer dress, styles with extensive embellishments (like lots of beading or embroidery) or luxurious fabrics like charmeuse will hike up the price. How much to spend on [wedding dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/tips-wedding-dress-shopping) depends on your style and budget, taking the below into consideration. \n\n### Fabric and materials\n\n![wedding-dress-fabrics](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/Oy7REHNucRp1zeBvffyxp/9a3f945bc90c582161bc7fefbb8228cd/wedding-dress-fabrics.png)\n\nThe fabric of your dress significantly impacts overall costs. Expect to pay more for luxury fabrics like silk, hand-embroidered lace, charmeuse, and certain types of satin.\n\nIf you’re after a lower price tag, consider synthetic or blended fabrics like polyester, chiffon, rayon, or crepe. If seeing “wedding dress” and “polyester” in the same sentence makes you cringe, hear us out—poly-blend fabrics have come a long way over the years, and you can find options that feel high-end for less.\n\n### The designer\n\nIf you’re eyeing a luxury designer gown, be prepared to spend significantly more—not only because designer dresses are typically made with higher-quality materials, but also because of the designer name itself. \n\nDresses by designers like Oscar de la Renta, Dolce & Gabbana, Elie Saab, and Vera Wang will all come with a higher price tag. For example, the starting price for the Vera Wang Bridal Collection is $2,900, and the Luxe Collection starts at $6,900.\n\n### Embellishments\n\nEmbellishments like hand-embroidered lace, intricate beading, and appliqués will all hike up the cost of your wedding dress due to the additional time and labor required to create them. \n\nMore elaborate constructions like fully boned corsets will also cost more—in general, the more detailed the fabric, [silhouette](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-dress-silhouettes), and embellishments, the higher the price will be compared to [simpler wedding dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/simple-wedding-dresses-that-are-elegant-and-timeless).\n\nIf you’re aiming to keep costs down, opt for gowns with a simple silhouette or find alternative ways to add visual interest to your look—you can easily do this with your jewelry, but also consider elements like a delicate belt or sash or an [eye-catching veil](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/14-wedding-veil-styles-and-lengths-every-bride-should-know).\n\n__Expert Advice:__ Opting for a simpler silhouette won’t always ensure a lower price tag—a minimal dress design made with high-end fabric will still cost more than more affordable fabrics.\n\n### Accessories\n\n![wedding-dress-cost-impacts](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/EhPCvrM1I1Yk67rf9KCF3/5d2f04880c2d65808b7da580754f8f99/wedding-dress-cost-impacts.png)\n\nThe dress itself may be the main event, but accessories like your jewelry, shoes, and a veil ([if you’re wearing one](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/veil-or-no-veil-the-pros-and-cons-of-each)) should all be factored into your overall cost. Plan to spend at least $200, but costs can easily climb to $500+ depending on the items you choose.\n\nDon’t think you have to buy your wedding accessories from a bridal store. Shop around at your favorite non-bridal stores to find similar pieces without the typical wedding mark-up. \n\n## How to save money on your wedding dress \n\n![save-on-wedding-dress](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1HERLQUQmzDPBf1wDFx3qJ/1eff092a23b5daeb67469b46df970757/save-on-wedding-dress.png)\n\nDon’t be fooled into thinking you can’t find your dream dress on a lower budget. There are countless retailers with affordable wedding dress options that can help you save money on your wedding dress budget.\n\nDavid’s Bridal, Azazie, and BHLDN all offer gowns for lower price points, and even big-box retailers like ASOS, Lulus, Reformation, and Revolve have dedicated bridal collections where you can find a stunning look for less.\n\nThere are plenty of other ways to save on your wedding dress cost if you’re willing to think outside the box:\n\n- __Shop bridesmaid, reception, and non-bridal formalwear collections:__ There’s no rule that says your wedding dress has to come from a bridal collection. Look for white or ivory dresses in alternative collections—you might be surprised!\n- __Opt for a rental:__ Find a splurge-worthy look for less by renting your dress on sites like [Rent the Runway](https://www.renttherunway.com/pdp/shop/bride/products?filters%5Bzip_code%5D=77304&filters%5Bduration%5D=4&filters%5BcanonicalSizes%5D%5B%5D=4&filters%5BunlimitedMinAvailability%5D=0&sort=recommended#1703271475367).\n- __Shop sample sales:__ Sample designer gowns have been tried on or gently used, but never actually purchased—they’re usually a fraction of the cost compared to other options you’ll find in a bridal boutique.\n- __Be strategic with seasons:__ You’ll pay more for a dress if you shop during the peak wedding seasons (spring and fall)—instead, shop during the summer and winter months to score discounted dresses from the previous season. 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Wedding attire

Find wedding attire inspiration and advice for grooms, guests, bridesmaid, groomsmen and the rest of the wedding party. From black tie dress code guides to casual wedding attire inspiration to mother of the bride style ettiquete we'll help you look your best on the big day.

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