Wedding attire

Find wedding attire inspiration and advice for grooms, guests, bridesmaid, groomsmen and the rest of the wedding party. From black tie dress code guides to casual wedding attire inspiration to mother of the bride style ettiquete we'll help you look your best on the big day.

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How Much Does a Tuxedo Rental Cost in 2023?

Learn how renting a tuxedo offers a smart and stylish solution for looking your best at formal events without the commitment of buying.

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Who Pays for Bridesmaid’s Dresses?

Not quite sure who should be paying for the bridesmaid's dresses at your wedding? Read our guide to our expert advice.

bride with bridesmaids in mismatched dresses

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7 Unconventional Bridesmaid Dress Alternatives for 2021

Go beyond traditional bridesmaid dresses with our picks for the top alternative bridesmaid outfit trends for the year.

how to dress for a casual wedding dress code

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Casual Wedding Attire Guide

It’s easy to pick an outfit for a formal wedding, but what about a casual attire wedding? Read on to get some pointers on what to wear to a casual attire wedding.

Is It Bad Luck to Wear Black to a Wedding

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Can You Wear Black to a Wedding? All You Need to Know

Is it bad luck to wear black to a wedding? Here’s what you need to know.

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How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?

Attending your first black-tie wedding and unsure of what to wear? Read our full, comprehensive guide on the most appropriate men’s attire that will make you look like you just stepped off the red carpet.

Gender Non-Conforming Wedding Attire Ideas

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Gender Non-Conforming Wedding Attire: Outfit Ideas + Dress Code Etiquette

Having a gender non-conforming dress code for your wedding is a great way to make all guests feel welcome and empowered.

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What Should the Father of the Bride Wear?

Wondering what the father of the bride should wear on your big day? Read our complete guide to find out.

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How to Choose Groom and Groomsmen Suits

You don’t just want to look good on your big day; you want your groomsmen to look sharp, too. Read this guide for how you should go about choosing your and your groomsmen's suits.

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Wedding Attire 101: Women's Beach Wedding Outfits

We put together a guide to assist you in picking out just what to wear to any kind of beach wedding.

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What to Wear to a Black Tie Wedding As a Guest + Outfit Ideas for Women

Discover the ultimate guide on what to wear for a black-tie wedding. Explore elegant attire options to ensure you look and feel your best for this formal celebration

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Summer Bridesmaids Dress Style Guide

Don’t know how to choose your summer bridesmaid dresses? We can help! Read on for more inspiration.

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\n \n \n\n\n\n\n\n\n \n ","subtopicPage":{"articles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"how-much-does-a-tuxedo-rental-cost","title":"How Much Does a Tuxedo Rental Cost in 2023? ","excerpt":"Learn how renting a tuxedo offers a smart and stylish solution for looking your best at formal events without the commitment of buying.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-12-28T17:45:32.524Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/19kuwX5TCRNcuAFvupTdzN/64a5e4ccb0e3328753afd0eed9249ae3/Hero_EnglishGardenIntimateWeddingatHistoricKeelerTavern_CoreyLynnTuckerPhotography.jpg","altText":"Tuxedo Rental Cost"},"heroCredit":"Corey Lynn Tucke rPhotography","body":"Unless you’re a butler or Bond—James Bond—you probably don’t have a tux stashed in your closet. Therefore, being asked to be in the [wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one) can send even the most well-dressed guy into a frenzy. However, rentals are a breeze and are much more economical than purchasing something that will merely hang in your closet. \n\n## What Pieces Are Available in a Wedding Tuxedo Rental?\nThe first things that come to mind with a wedding suit rental are the [jacket](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_jacket) and pants. Of course, it’s natural, as these are the traditional pieces that encompass what a tuxedo is all about. However, there are other pieces that you can rent for a complete ensemble.\n\nWhen you’re dealing with your wedding tux rental company, check to see what pieces they offer. Basic rentals may include the tuxedo solely, yet other companies may have extra accessories included in their rental price.\n\n- __Jacket:__ Of course, the tuxedo jacket is the central piece to a tux rental and will significantly impact your look. A variety of colors and cuts—such as slim fit—are available. If you’re a wedding guest at a black-tie event, feel free to showcase your style. However, if you’re in the [wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-groomsmen-duties), consult with the couple on their wishes for your look.\n- __Pants:__ Fortunately, tuxedo companies don’t just send [pants](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_pants) along with their tuxedo jackets. These are sized separately to ensure a fabulous fit so that guys can be comfortable in something that truly suits them. \n- __Shirt:__ Don’t sweat it if all of your white shirts have armpit stains. With a tuxedo rental, you can opt for a [crisp, white shirt](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_tuxedo_shirt) to come along with your order.\n- __Shoes:__ When wearing a tuxedo, you need to look your best from top to bottom. While many guys may not have a pair already in their closet, the acceptable dress shoe is [patent black leather](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_danny_black_shoe). Just take note: These usually cost extra. \n- __Waist Cover:__ Often, it’s best to have this included in your rental in the form of either a cummerbund or vest. Doing so ensures that the pieces coordinate well with the tuxedo itself. And this is an either-or situation, as you wouldn’t wear a vest and cumberbund at the same time.\n- __Tie:__ [Bow ties](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_bow_tie) are the norm, and—yep, you guessed it—these are also available to rent. A plethora of colors and patterns can be at your fingertips, so explore all that your rental company has available.\n- __Studs and Cufflinks:__ Studs are the black “dots” that serve to close the shirt instead of buttons. The same reigns true with cufflinks. A reputable tuxedo rental company should offer coordinating closures.\n- __Suspenders:__ For an added extra touch or to keep your pants up while dancing sans jacket, opt for rented suspenders. \n\n## How Much Does a Tuxedo Rental Cost?\nThere are quite a few factors that will affect your tuxedo rental prices. From the pieces you acquire—as in solely a jacket and pants vs. the full ensemble—to quality, the cost varies greatly. In short, you can spend as little as $50 for a bare-bones, cheap tuxedo rental or you can find a mid-range tux for about $250. Luxe tuxedos are more costly, with some ranging up to $400, but luckily, that’s not the norm.\n\nIf we’re talking about the average price, you can expect to budget $90 to $180 for your wedding suit rental. However, several factors will influence how much your tuxedo rental costs. \n\n- Type of tuxedo you’re renting\n- Rental company you choose\n- Chosen accessories\n- Fees, such as shipping and upcharges\n- Duration of rental\n\n![How Much Does a Tuxedo Rental Cost?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3W4FVwFZ0coClFx9AC2Kwj/03ec0220762e7cee5978d01a4420cfe4/inline_judahavenue.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Judah Avenue\n\n## Is It Better to Rent or Purchase a Wedding Tuxedo?\nIf you have several friends getting married at black-tie events, investing in a tuxedo can save money in the long run. Renting a tux over and over again can get pretty pricey. Consequently, if you’re in the wedding party, it may be best to forgo purchasing. Each couple may require a different tux style, so don’t get stuck with both purchase and rental costs. \n\n*P.S. If you’re in the market to buy a tuxedo, our [tuxedo pieces](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=tuxedo&spi=1) are very economical.* \n\n## Tips for a Successful Wedding Tux Rental\n\n### 1. Research Both Local and Online Tuxedo Rentals \nCheck with the bride to see where she purchased her wedding gown. Quite often, bridal shops will offer wedding tux rentals as a service to the guys in the wedding party. A local menswear store may also be a good option. And if you’re willing to do a bit of measuring, online tuxedo rentals can be convenient. Some will even send you a sample for sizing beforehand to ensure a perfect fit.\n\n### 2. Consider the Duration of Your Tux Rental \nMost tuxedo rental prices are for a set amount of time. Although this is usually a 24- to 48-hour window, check with your rental company to see how much they charge to extend the rental. With online rentals, there’s a bit of leeway, since shipping time is factored in. Often this is easier than trying to return a tuxedo in person post-wedding—especially if you’re traveling.\n\n### 3. Know About Any Extra Fees or Potential Penalties \nThat length of time mentioned above? It’s best to stick to it or make arrangements beforehand if you need extra hours. Penalties can be relatively stiff and often start at $20 per day. After all, the rental company needs to clean and press suiting before the next customer’s usage. \n\nBe aware of shipping fees, although many online tuxedo rentals offer this for free. However, if you’re renting or returning on a tight timeline, there may be a rush charge. A deposit is often required to secure your reservation beforehand. \n\nIn the dreaded case of a lost jacket or ripped pants, replacement and repair costs can also be jarring. Therefore, some companies charge a reasonable damage fee on each tux rented to account for small repairs. Read your contract, and ask about potential situations to be aware of what you’re getting into. \n\n### 4. Rent All of Your Tuxedos From the Same Location\nHaving the wedding party get wedding tuxes from the same place ensures cohesion, especially when it comes to fabric. Also consider adding in the fathers of the bride and groom into the rental process for the sake of ease. Doing so can make returns simple as one person can be designated to pick up and drop off the tuxes.\n\n### 5. Ask About Any Rental Perks\nIncluding anyone and everyone into one rental can be of benefit. Many locations offer discounts for a certain number of rentals. Quite often, [the groom](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-grooms-attire) can even score his suiting for free, which significantly helps with the budget. \n\n## Tuxedo Rental FAQs\n\n### What is the rental process like?\nThis may differ from company to company, but we can give you the basic run down. If you’re renting from a store, plan on visiting the location at least three times. The first to find your ideal tuxedo (e.g. color and fabric) and get fitted, the second to pick up and try on your rental, and the third to return it. If you find that something doesn’t fit the way you’d like, you might need to add an extra visit, but three tends to be the average.\n\nIf you’re renting online, you’ll be provided with photos or interactive tools that allow you to create your perfect ensemble. You’ll also be asked for your measurements. Then, you’ll either be offer an at-home try-on or be prompted to place your order. Once the wedding is over, you’ll mail the rented items back. Remember to read through any added fees and don’t hesitate to speak with a representative about any questions.\n\n### How far in advance should I place my order?\nThat’s right: Just like those who order and rent dresses to wear to a wedding, those looking to wear rented tuxedos need to be considerate of their timeline. At the very least, you should place your rental order two months in advance. With that in mind, you should probably start window shopping around five or six months out. That is, if you weren’t requested to rent a specific tux. This will allow you enough time to find a style you like, get measured, and try on your rental once it arrives in store (or at home, if you’re renting from online).\n\n### How should my tuxedo fit?\n[Groomsmen](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/groom-tuxedo-ideas) and others who don’t often wear tuxedos may not be aware of how exactly their formal wear should fit. Don’t fear. If you’re concerned about an ill-fitting tux, there are people you can turn to. If you choose to rent from an in-person store, a store associate will have all of the professional knowledge needed to find you the correct fit for a wedding. Don’t hesitate to ask for their advice, especially if you anticipate you’ll like a little more breathing room. If you’re renting from an online company, you should be provided with detailed measurement instructions and home try-on options. If you’re still questioning your fit, you can reach out to online representatives for advice.\n\n### What accessories do most rental companies offer?\nThe majority of tuxedo rental companies will not only offer the basic pieces (dress shirt, waist cover, jacket, pants), but a selection of accessories all in one place. Most often you’ll be able to find shoes, bow ties and ties, and suspenders. That being said, ask while you still have ample time to find what you need, should your rental company not have something.\n\n### What fees should I be aware of?\nNot all companies (online and in-person) will have the same list of fees. However, there are a few that you should keep an eye out for when window shopping and placing an order. They are: Rental extend fees, shipping (or rush shipping) fees, cleaning fees, damage/repair fees, and replacement fees. It’s paramount that you check for added costs, lest you get surprised by an unexpected charge.\n\nWeddings are quite the highlight, as family and friends gather to celebrate a special couple. Choosing a wedding tux rental can ensure that you arrive in style. Whether you’re the [best man](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-best-man-duties), the groom’s father, or a guest, look your best—and rival Sean Connery circa 1965—on the big day.","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":" If you’re not sure where to start when it comes to choosing wedding day clothing for men, check out our guide to groom’s attire. ","title":"A Complete Guide to Wedding Attire for Grooms","slug":"a-guide-to-grooms-attire","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3VMpMOUBZSyCkaeYeEmqgk/8db23790cfb65c8c8eebd5f2ecc5c522/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"groom in cobalt blue tux jacket"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Attending your first black-tie wedding and unsure of what to wear? Read our full, comprehensive guide on the most appropriate men’s attire that will make you look like you just stepped off the red carpet.","title":"How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?","slug":"how-should-men-dress-for-a-black-tie-wedding","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ib0hKIbbrVyFqK5kVrTba/419da62e0242fd57217d6ce823673ba4/Hero_Modern_Multi-CulturalWeddingat5226Elm_PaigeNewton.jpg","altText":"How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Learn the ins and outs of semi-formal attire for men. Our guide offers outfit ideas and tips to perfect your look for any sophisticated occasion.","title":"A Quick Guide to Semi-Formal Wedding Attire for Men ","slug":"semi-formal-attire-for-men","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/62tSXdhHV1VOBpQru0XU8e/1ea1c2badca0bc2b61136f7b0133550b/Hero_ClassicWeddingatOceanKeyResortandSpa_FreasPhotography.jpg","altText":"Semi-Formal Attire for Men"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Garden wedding attire blends comfort and style with light fabrics and floral touches. Discover perfect outfits for an enchanting outdoor celebration.","title":"What to Wear to a Garden Attire Wedding + Outfit Ideas","slug":"wedding-attire-101-garden-edition","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How To","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7KWMJbQXACJUKgjm4SJk5p/351ea3ef7aea27d1454597021f0d5639/Hero_ClassicBlackTieWeddingatRiversideChurch_CinderandCo.jpg","altText":"Bride and groom outdoors under a flowering tree at a garden wedding"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:39:45.552Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"who-pays-for-bridesmaids-dresses","title":"Who Pays for Bridesmaid’s Dresses? ","excerpt":"Not quite sure who should be paying for the bridesmaid's dresses at your wedding? Read our guide to our expert advice.","author":"Jane Chertoff","publishedAt":"2020-12-30T22:05:01.344Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/13ZKNhp1wk9ozS31qOiyAH/1820e2294348f0818c2dea1b8a1eb251/Hero_BohoDesertWeddingatTroonNorthGolfClub_DrewBrashlerPhotography.jpg","altText":"Who Pays for Bridesmaid’s Dresses"},"heroCredit":"Drew Brashler Photography","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- Brides with a generous wedding budget may offer to pay for bridesmaids dresses, but it’s customary (and expected) for bridesmaids to pay for their own dress. \n- Brides may offer to help contribute to bridesmaids who are students or are between jobs. \n- Bridesmaids may pick out their own dress in a color the bride chooses, ensuring everyone stays within her budget. \n","body":"The debate of who should pay for a bridesmaid’s dress is one that many couples might find themselves pondering amidst wedding planning. On one hand, you—of course—love your bridal party and want to show them how much you appreciate them. But it can be expensive to pay for bridesmaid costs on top of everything else going into your wedding day.\n\nSo what’s the right thing to do? Below, we explore some factors to take into consideration when deciding who should pay for the bridesmaid dresses, so you can make a fair and informed decision.\n\n### Who Traditionally Pays for Bridesmaid Dresses?\n\nAccording to traditional wedding etiquette, in the US and Australia, each member of the bridal party— including bridesmaids, Maid of Honor, Matron of Honor, and Mother of the Bride and Groom—is expected to [cover the cost](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-do-bridesmaids-pay-for) of their wedding day ensemble. That includes their outfit (be it a dress, jumpsuit, or otherwise), shoes, and accessories (including jewelry, unless gifted by the couple or bride). This is most often the case, even though the bride typically directly chooses or sets guidelines for the ensembles. \n\nThat being said, this tradition differs around the world. In the UK and Ireland, for example, the bride or couple more often than not pays for the bridesmaids' dresses. In any case, if you're unsure of what's traditional where you are, don't be afraid to ask friends and family (or do a quick internet search) to get an idea of what's more common in your area.\n\n![Who Should Pay for Bridesmaid’s Dresses? ](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3dSfRT1td89dtZGdupURz5/e44b71c2b559fbe33d9af857e5d1319c/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### Scenario One: Bride Pays \n\nIf you’ve ever been a bridesmaid before, you know just how pricey it is to be part of the wedding party. If budget allows, the bride may opt to cover the costs of the bridesmaid’s dresses herself to lessen the burden.\n\nThis scenario works best if you have a small bridal party—you probably don’t want to pay for 12 dresses, no matter how big the budget. This is also a good option if the bride has her heart set on exceptionally expensive dresses.\n\nIt, however, may also become the case if the bride has their heart set on someone being in their bridal party, but this person can't afford the preferred dress. As a kind gesture and thank you, the engaged couple may cover the cost of this person's dress. Bear in mind that this should be kept private, as to not make things awkward or have the other bridesmaids feel slighted.\n\nCovering the cost also isn't the only option. We highly suggest selecting your bridesmaids' dresses [as early as possible](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/when-should-you-order-bridesmaids-dresses), giving everyone enough time to save up for and order theirs, as well as get alterations if needed. Alternatively, you can opt for a bridal party of mismatched dresses that fall within a color scheme. Not only does this open the door to more affordable options (great for you), but allows bridesmaids to choose a dress they'll feel beautiful and comfortable in (great for them). You may love a certain style, but body types and bridesmaids' budgets vary. Mismatching tends to be a win-win.\n\n### Scenario Two: Bridesmaids Pay\n\nIt’s completely acceptable to ask each [bridesmaid to pay for her dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/guide-to-bridesmaid-dress-styles). After all, accepting an invitation to be part of the bridal party usually implies agreeing to these types of wedding expenses. (Although the bride should always be upfront about expected bridesmaid costs.)\n\nIf you do ask your girls to pay for their dresses, be sure to pick versatile [bridesmaid dress styles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/guide-to-bridesmaid-dress-styles) that aren’t going to blow anyone’s budget out of the water. You could also decide on a single color—like black, blush, or navy—or a color palette that matches your wedding scheme, then let [everyone pick out their dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/let-bridesmaids-choose-own-dresses). This way, your girls have some control over the cost and style. \n\n### Scenario Three: Bride Helps With Costs as Needed \n\nAnother option is to have your girls pay for their dresses, but help out with costs where you can. If you know one of your bridesmaids recently lost their job or is still in school, you can offer to help pay for all—or part—of her dress (as discussed above). Or, you can offer to cover the costs of alterations.\n\nIf you choose to go this route, it’s best to approach this on a case-by-case basis. And be graceful in how you handle the situation. Remember: Your friends are at your wedding because you love them. Don’t let the cost of a dress get in the way of your celebration and friendship.\n\n![Who Should Pay for Bridesmaid’s Dresses? ](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/cX8tcgIOZX9ZdSilG3v07/3e0c9dc003a005556b6f8b1a6f40dc4a/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### How Much Should Bridesmaid Dresses Cost? \n\nHow much you want to spend (or have your bridal party spend) on dresses comes down to personal preference, as well as your specific budget. However, to put some numbers out there, the [average cost of a bridesmaid dress ](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-do-bridesmaid-dresses-cost)is typically between [$100](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/birdygrey_jules_bridesmaid_dress_dustyblue) and $500. That being said, it’s possible to shop at a secondhand or resale shop for dresses if you’re on a budget. You could also look to a dress rental site for chic options at more affordable prices.\n\nIf you’re concerned about asking your bridesmaids to buy a dress at a certain price point, you can always tell them to [buy their dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/let-bridesmaids-choose-own-dresses) in the color of your choice. Just be sure to be detailed in your about what shade, length, material, and style they should be looking for—and always have a final conversation before any purchases are made.\n\n### Other Ways to Love on Your Bridal Party\n\nAre your bridesmaids each paying for their dresses? That’s completely acceptable. But, if you'd like, you can still show them some love in other ways. If you picked out the dress yourself, you can pay for the alterations. Or, if your budget allows, offer to pay for their hair and/or makeup services on the day. You can also always go the traditional route and give your maids a gift (bought or DIY'ed) at your bridal shower or bachelorette party to show your appreciation. A cute robe, earrings, or a necklace they can wear for the wedding and beyond are just a few great options. You can also go with one of the other great gift ideas listed [here](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridesmaid-gift-ideas).\n\n*Need more wedding party advice before the big day? Zola’s got you [covered](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-party).*\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Don’t know when to order bridesmaid dresses before your wedding? Our experts can help! Read on to find out now.","title":"When Should You Order Bridesmaids Dresses?","slug":"when-should-you-order-bridesmaids-dresses","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/76BvuppwTduYTjb9BHTQK5/9b67ff2e9b1f9b31881a679518739109/Hero_SophisticatedMemphisCelebration_JoshAndAleahPhotography.jpg","altText":"When Should You Order Bridesmaids Dresses"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Don’t know how to pick bridesmaid dresses? We can help. Read on to discover our top tips and advice.","title":"How to Pick Bridesmaid Dresses","slug":"how-to-pick-bridesmaid-dresses","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4AhnEF0yNH8LSyc7GUhb2s/63680b567e078217d706a9af7c6628f6/Hero_Sweet_FunEllistonVineyardsWedding_OnelovePhotography.jpg","altText":"How to Pick Bridesmaid Dresses"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Today’s average wedding dress cost is between $1,500 - $2,500. 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","title":"The Complete Guide to Mismatched Bridesmaid Dresses","slug":"let-bridesmaids-choose-own-dresses","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6kKYuHOeeUvE5sqbavfpLI/a5b85a5d99beac71432d942beadfd696/katelyn-macmillan-5VhSc5jCA2g-unsplash.jpg","altText":"groom with bridesmaids in different dresses"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:39:44.771Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"bridesmaid-dress-alternatives","title":"7 Unconventional Bridesmaid Dress Alternatives for 2021","excerpt":"Go beyond traditional bridesmaid dresses with our picks for the top alternative bridesmaid outfit trends for the year. ","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-02-04T17:39:20.245Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6NcgmWZYb3T7lm2sWPzmD6/f50eb5ea04cffe7fe2d864ff972841f7/HERO_GabbyChapinPhotography_1080x720_Alicia_Mathew.jpg","altText":"bride with bridesmaids in mismatched dresses"},"heroCredit":"Gabby Chapin Photography","body":"A new year, a new decade…and loads of new wedding trends. Classic blue, velvet, and architectural elements are just a few statement looks we expect to see more of in 2021. Whether your style is classic and elegant or [bohemian and whimsical](https://greenweddingshoes.com/styling-ideas-for-boho-bridesmaids/), it’s important that your [bridal crew](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-bridesmaid-duties) is rocking a look that feels true to you—particularly if you’re not the most traditional of brides.\n\nBridesmaids have a lot to look forward to with looks that offer them a lot more freedom and flexibility in years past. Below are some of our favorite alternatives to bridesmaid dresses that we expect to see gracing weddings in the coming seasons.\n\n![INLINE LeImage 1080x720 Amber&Jennifer](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/jJMesZP3jbgoRMoKs95Bi/00c548b41d4fa56144b8509462529616/INLINE_LeImage_1080x720_Amber_Jennifer.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Le Image\n\n## Jumpsuits\nIt’s no secret that bridesmaid jumpsuits were a big trend in 2020 and continue into 2021. They’re not only a great alternative for bridal parties who prefer pants to dresses but also come in a wide variety of styles that cater to a range of tastes. \n\nFor those wanting a streamlined look, [structured jumpsuits](https://www.onefabday.com/dublin-city-wedding-cool-bridal-style/) in fabrics like canvas and satin (depending on the style of the event, as well as the time of year) are a great fit. If you’re digging more of a comfy, romantic look, then those with a wrap-style-waist and flowy pant legs might be more your style. We’ve even seen rompers with pretty lace overlays for a laid-back, summer wedding.\n\n## Mismatched Florals\nChannel your inner beatnik with mismatched floral dresses that create a light, ethereal vibe great for [backyard weddings](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/real-weddings/backyard) and boho brides. If you want to save on real flowers or prefer to opt for lots of greenery, floral dresses are a not-so-subtle way to incorporate the beauty of the great outdoors into your event without feeling tacky. \n\nFeel free to give your bridesmaids a range of colors or guidance on dress length to help you direct the overall look and make sure it fits with your vision.\n\n## Two-piece Dresses.\nThough this trend has gained some momentum in recent years, two-piece bridesmaid sets are a great alternative for those who like to mix and match. If you’re a bride that prefers some level of coordination but doesn’t want the looks to be overly matchy, this is a great option. They’re also fairly easy to find, as many popular brands (such as [BHLDN](https://www.bhldn.com/) and Show Me Your Mumu) carry two-piece sets and separates. Slits, lace overlays, and differing necklines are just a few ways to vary the looks.\n\n## PYOD: Pick Your Own Dress\nIf you’re the ultimate laidback bride, [give your bridal party the freedom to pick their own dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/let-bridesmaids-choose-own-dresses) with little guidance or direction. One of the most daring of the unconventional bridesmaid trends, this not only gives your wedding party the opportunity to purchase something they’ll actually wear again—and lets their personalities shine on your big day. \n\nConsider giving your bridesmaids at least one restraint such as color scheme or dress length so they don’t get too overwhelmed and have at least one cohesive element throughout. \n\n![INLINE EllaKPhotography 1080x720 Cassidy&Jake (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/666gK2TlZKhLchRvJkMMZq/2285869fba066433750db1c3ad7000cd/INLINE_EllaKPhotography_1080x720_Cassidy_Jake__1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Ella K. Photography\n\n## Yellow\nA predicted trend for this year, yellow is remaking a bold statement in 2021 weddings. Consider choosing this vivid hue over the usual muted pastels and jewel tones that are common amongst bridesmaids dresses. Try opting for rich mustard, gold, and canary tones instead of pale Easter yellows that can often appear dated. This vibrant look can also be a great complement to Pantone’s color of the year if you’re thoughtful about your shades.\n\n## Power Suits\nPantsuits are not only far from traditional but look great in unexpected colors and fabrics such as off-white and flowy silk. Like dresses, suits can be fully customizable to fit the overall theme and mood of the event. Tuxedos work great for black-tie affairs while bow ties and tailored pants are a fun alternative for more easygoing events. \n\nStatement jewelry and sky-high heels are a couple of great ways to femme it up if you want. Bonus points if your suits [coordinate with the groomsmen](https://www.buzzfeed.com/terripous/bridesmaids-in-tuxes-photo).\n\n## Tiers\nLayers on layers on layers. While tiered bridal gowns may have come back in style in the past couple of years, it’s time for bridesmaids to have a shot at this classy (and slightly less fussy) alternative to ruffles. \n\nTiered dresses look good both short and long, making them a fun alternative for virtually every style and season. Try playing around with textures, fabrics, and necklines to find something that all of your bridesmaids feel comfortable in.\n\nFinding your perfect bridesmaid attire [doesn't have to be difficult](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/resolve-wedding-party-disagreements) or go a traditional route. Go beyond the standard bridesmaid dress and try something alternative and modern.","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Sometimes issues come up between wedding party members. 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","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-14T18:03:03.865Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6uuL6M77rEUl8NuQmPGrI6/12ef1b1f643341a710ceb9d7a3e01e3c/inline_cbrownphoto__1_.jpg","altText":"how to dress for a casual wedding dress code"},"heroCredit":"C Brown Photo","body":"Despite what you might expect, casual attire is one of the hardest for attendees to pin down, likely for fear of underdressing. Where fashion styles such as gowns, tuxedos, and stilettos might be the norm for black tie and cocktail attire, a casual dress code calls for button downs, slacks, summer dresses, and natural hairstyles.\n\nLuckily, the accessibility of this dress code generally means that you can find something to wear that’s already in your closet. If you’re looking for some guidance on where to start, we’ve put together some tips to serve as inspiration for your next casual attire wedding.\n\n### Keep Location in Mind\nCasual farm weddings are likely to have a very different ambience than their city hall or church counterparts, so make sure that you dress accordingly. Whereas you might wear an elegant shift and heels to the latter, the very same outfit might feel out of place in a barn. In addition to considering the city in which the event is taking place (ie. New York vs. Kansas City), make sure that the venue is also on your mind. Places such as farms, beaches, and backyards lend themselves to softer ground, so it’s best to avoid thin heels to be safe. \n\n### Mind the Seasons (and the Weather)\n\n![Casual Wedding Attire Guide](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2Z3TSv4dKkja5hIfkQyWpd/3e94feba91b779ac420894acae0aa189/inline_spotlightstudios.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Spotlight Studios\n\nBoat shoes are great if you’re attending a seaside ceremony in the summer, but might not do the job if it’s a spring celebration on the East Coast. Seasonality is an important element in planning, not only for predicting the weather, but also for choosing color palettes and patterns. For example, you might choose a mint green shift and wedges for a backyard summer affair, but swap it out for a black shift and plaid scarf in the fall.\n\nIf the ceremony is likely to take place outdoors, make sure that you check forecasts in advance and have a backup outfit on hand. Comfort is still important, no matter the season or location. After all, the couple put together an amazing event in hopes that all their attendees would have a good time.\n\n### Embrace the Possibility of Overdressing\nIf a wedding invitation explicitly says casual attire, then wearing a full-length ball gown is definitely over-the-top, but a little bit of understated elegance is always appreciated. As with most dress codes, casual means different things to different people, so avoid details such as tank tops, short skirts, and flip flops; think business casual or smart casual just to be on the safe side. This means choosing fashion such as cotton dresses, chinos, linen button downs, and low heels.\n\nIf you’re still having trouble figuring out what’s appropriate, consider what you’d wear to a business event or dinner with your mother-in-law. Most of us have attended smart casual events at some point in our lives, even if we didn’t think of it that way at the time.\n\n### Remember That Some Things Supersede Dress Codes\nCasual dress codes provide a lot of freedom, but that doesn’t mean breaking the unofficial wedding guest attire “rules” that we all know so well. This unwritten set of rules includes the list of the usual pieces not to wear to a wedding, including white dresses, overly revealing ensembles ,and (unless otherwise noted) denim. If you know the colors of the wedding party, it’s also best to avoid those if you can. With the flexibility that a casual dress code allows, it’s pretty easy to abide by these guidelines without much extra thought, though they’re always good to have in mind.\n\n### Utilize Backups\nIf you’re usually pretty lost when it comes to dress codes, there’s no harm in having some accessories on hand that you can swap out at the last second. Maybe you couldn’t decide between heels and flats, or you weren’t sure if a tie was overdoing it. These are items that you can bring with you and choose to wear (or not wear) once you see the venue or have a better gauge of the event’s formality. This could be as simple as carrying some red lipstick in your purse or leaving the crepe blazer in the car and wearing a light sweater instead. Who likes making those kinds of decisions anyway?\n\n### Have Fun With It\n\n![Casual Wedding Attire Guide](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7BpQLut6O1OKw0n3mQTJPM/cc9c06c05a187c4d2fae14f348cdf663/inline_cbrownphoto.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // C Brown Photo\n\nMore than any other dress code, a request for casual attire gives you the opportunity to really show your personality and have fun with accessories. Maybe you’ve been waiting for the perfect place to wear that two-piece, linen ensemble that you bought last summer, or you’re excited to whip out your favorite pair of wedges for the occasion. Colorful bags, printed bow ties, statement earrings, and leather loafers are all fair game. \n\nSo remember, as long as you check the wedding invitation for guest attire pointers, steer clear of a tuxedo or evening gown, and follow the suggestions laid out above, your casual wedding outfit will be a hit.\n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_WeddingBoutique"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Discover the ultimate guide on what to wear for a black-tie wedding. 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Here’s what you need to know.","author":"Lisa Wong Macabasco","publishedAt":"2021-02-08T16:40:56.017Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5VOnGqqW7lg0qy6EanIjHZ/3d1645125fcf4703ddfe5847c4d05785/Hero_HipModernWeddingatGirardBruncherie_HaleyRichterPhotography.jpg","altText":"Is It Bad Luck to Wear Black to a Wedding"},"heroCredit":"Haley Richter Photography","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- Previous generations considered black to be taboo for weddings or a sign of bad luck for the marriage.\n- In recent years the norms around wedding attire have changed and now it’s very common to see wedding guests in black ensembles. \n- Try to avoid the color if the bridesmaids or bride are wearing black or if it's considered bad luck according to a couple’s specific culture or traditions.","body":"Attending a wedding as a guest is an etiquette minefield. Once you’ve received the wedding invitation, one of the trickiest decisions you have to make is [what to wear](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding) on the wedding day. Perhaps you don’t have the time and budget to buy new __wedding guest dresses__—or maybe you have your eye on an amazing new frock or a favorite from your closet. In any case, you may find yourself wondering if it’s acceptable to wear black as your __wedding guest attire__. \n\nWhether you're considering an all-__black look__ or just need some inspiration on __wedding guest outfits__, here’s what you need to know about wearing black to a wedding and decoding __wedding invitations__ for clothing cues.\n\n### Can You Wear Black to a Wedding?\n \n![Zola_Is it Bad Luck to Wear Black to a Wedding?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5qWsMYf8oApSeZeO0zUWtL/fc9898ffac0566511e95ad2fcd60ed7e/inline_ripperton_films.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Ripperton Films\n\nYes, you can wear black to a wedding. That said, an all-__black look__ is more suited to some weddings than others based on factors like location, time, or dress code.\n\nIt’s also important to know that previous generations considered black to be taboo for weddings. In fact, it was thought to be a symbol of all things malevolent, a sign of bad luck for the marriage, or even a wedding guest’s statement against the marriage. According to Western cultures, black is traditionally considered the color of mourning. As such, a black __wedding guest outfit__ was thought to be inappropriate for the happiest day of someone’s life, and etiquette books traditionally advised against guests wearing black. But in recent years, guidelines around wedding attire have changed—mostly in the direction of loosening strict rules. Cocktail dresses are now widely regarded as acceptable __wedding guest attire__, and today you will see bridesmaids or even brides in chic black gowns. There might even be details on the __wedding invitation__ specifying a particular dress code or preferred color scheme…so make sure to read the invite carefully.\n \nHere are some key things to think about when deciding whether to wear black to a wedding—as well as some black wedding guest dresses and outfit options. \n\n## Consider the Wedding Locale\nIt’s very common to see guests wearing black to weddings that take place in metropolitan areas of the northeast United States, like New York and Boston. It’s much less frequently seen among guests attending an __outdoor wedding__ in the South, however, so you should think about wearing a more colorful look to a wedding held there. Formal or full-length black ensembles may also seem out of place at a __destination wedding__ in a warm weather or tropical setting. Likewise, you might want to stay away from wearing black if the couple is having a traditional church ceremony. Because black is still considered the color of mourning in a church, wearing it at somebody's wedding ceremony can be a faux pas.\n\n## Consult the Wedding Dress Code\nThe type of wedding you're attending will inform the wedding dress code. Is it a __[black-tie wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding)__ or __white tie wedding__? For a __formal wedding__ that lists the dress code as black tie, black outfits are certainly suitable, particularly if the celebration is held at a grand, __formal event__ venue like a museum or ballroom. \n\nAt a more __casual wedding__, however, wearing a full-length, formal black gown may seem too buttoned-up. For a beach wedding, consider a shorter, flowy dress; for a rustic or vineyard wedding, try a black dress featuring lace or other textural details.\n\nIt’s also become very common for bridesmaids to wear black. Try to find out what color they’re wearing, so you aren’t mistaken for the bridal party.\n\n## Think About the Time of the Wedding\nYou can also use the __time of day__—and the time of year—to guide your outfit decision. Traditionally, a black tie dress code is considered suitable for receptions beginning at 6 p.m. or later, while suits or morning suits are recommended for a __daytime wedding__. Though not all weddings follow these rules, guests can still generally apply them to their outfits, with lighter, more vibrant looks for daytime festivities and darker, more formal ones for evenings.\n\nAre you kicking off this __wedding season__ with a New Year's Eve __winter wedding__? An all-black outfit can be perfect for a nighttime, cold-weather celebration. Trying to choose an outfit for a __[summer wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-summer-wedding)__ later this season? In most cases, it's best to stay away from black and opt for a more colorful look.\n\n## Be Careful About Cultural Weddings \nIn some cultures—Hindu, for example—it’s traditionally unlucky to wear black on the big day. You should always be respectful of a couple’s traditions as a guest, and this is especially true if the parents of the couple are hosting the wedding and they (or the couple) consider wearing black inappropriate. In this case, or if you don’t know the couple well and there’s any question in your mind about what’s acceptable, it’s best to find something else to wear.\n\n## Just Don’t Wear White!\n![Zola_Is it Bad Luck to Wear Black to a Wedding?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6k34T2oDiuNOvkrhShgh0B/0c16b225781cb1dafe48a7a327d60523/inline_cami_grudzinski_fine_art_photography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Cami Grudzinski Fine Art Photography\n\nIn many situations, it’s suitable for guests to wear any color—except for white, a color that should be exclusively worn by the bride on her wedding day. Don’t take the focus away from the center of attention by wearing a white dress (or even one of a similar hue).\n\nWhile it may not work for every wedding situation, black is still generally acceptable for guests to wear to most weddings. But take care to consider the above factors before making a decision. Short of upstaging the bride, you should feel free to wear anything festive in any color. However, you don’t want to feel uncomfortable or risk offending anyone on this important day, so if there’s any doubt, it’s best to steer clear.\n\n## 7 Black Wedding Attire Ideas\n### 1. Little Black Dress\nYou can (almost) never go wrong with this classic style. The shorter length of a mini dress is a great compromise if you want to wear black to a casual or warm-weather __destination wedding__.\n\n[French Connection Whisper Crossover Cutout Minidress](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/french-connection-whisper-crossover-cutout-minidress/7268609?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FWomen%2FClothing%2FDresses%2FLittle%20Black%20Dresses&color=001), $128, Nordstrom\n\n### 2. Midi Dress\nSince this __wedding guest dress__ style has a slightly longer length, it will make your wedding day outfit feel just a little more formal.\n\n[Claire Midi Dress](https://showmeyourmumu.com/products/claire-midi-dress-black-luxe-satin), $188, Show Me Your Mumu\n\n### 3. Printed or Textured Dress\nMake your all-black look a little more interesting with a touch of texture or a pop of pattern. Choosing a pattern is a great way to lighten up your outfit if you're headed to a daytime or __destination wedding__.\n\n[The Lace Ellie Nap Dress](https://www.hillhousehome.com/products/the-lace-ellie-nap-dress-black-lace), $275, Hill House\n\n### 4. Jumpsuit\nLooking for a non-dress option for an upcoming wedding? A jumpsuit can be a great option—choose one in a luxe fabric, like silk or satin, for a dressier effect. \n\n[Chelsea 28 Twist-Detail Satin Jumpsuit](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/twist-detail-satin-jumpsuit/6963072?color=BLACK&country=US¤cy=USD&utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=seo_shopping&utm_channel=low_nd_seo_shopping&srsltid=AfAwrE4t5rqZOUTv8CNXbkkd85ErPUYAHrxcYFOb9_8nn82rMSJCjCoigrw), $49.50, Nordstrom\n\n### 5. Blazer\nA blazer is a great way to add a formal element to just about any wedding guest look. Consider layering a black blazer over your jumpsuit for a suit-inspired look, or use it to dress up a more casual __wedding guest dress__.\n\n[Basic Blazer](https://www.zara.com/us/en/basic-blazer-p01255998.html?v1=247940100), $89.90, Zara\n\n### 6. Black Suit\nA __black suit__ look is a formal attire option for people of [any gender](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/gender-non-conforming-wedding-attire). Pair a __black suit__ jacket with a lacey camisole and midi skirt for a more feminine look, or with a pair of trousers for a tailored touch.\n\n[Yachter Black Suit Jacket](https://bananarepublicfactory.gapfactory.com/browse/product.do), $90, Banana Republic\n\n### 7. Tuxedo\nIf you receive a wedding invitation that specifies white-tie attire, a __tuxedo__ is an absolute must. 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","title":"The Complete Guide to Mismatched Bridesmaid Dresses","slug":"let-bridesmaids-choose-own-dresses","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6kKYuHOeeUvE5sqbavfpLI/a5b85a5d99beac71432d942beadfd696/katelyn-macmillan-5VhSc5jCA2g-unsplash.jpg","altText":"groom with bridesmaids in different dresses"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:39:42.281Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"how-should-men-dress-for-a-black-tie-wedding","title":"How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?","excerpt":"Attending your first black-tie wedding and unsure of what to wear? Read our full, comprehensive guide on the most appropriate men’s attire that will make you look like you just stepped off the red carpet.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-12-28T17:16:07.930Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ib0hKIbbrVyFqK5kVrTba/419da62e0242fd57217d6ce823673ba4/Hero_Modern_Multi-CulturalWeddingat5226Elm_PaigeNewton.jpg","altText":"How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding"},"heroCredit":"Paige Newton","body":"Whether it’s the Golden Globes or the Grammys, many of us—male and female—watch for the styles. The fashion chatter usually centers around the ladies; however, there is something to be said for a guy who can successfully achieve a red carpet look. So, take your cues from award show fashion to gain inspiration for __[what to wear to a black-tie wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding)__, and forget about any casual attire.\n\nAlthough some guys go off-script and wear colorful and downright outlandish looks, it’s best to stick to the formal dress code rules and formal attire when attending a black-tie wedding. After all, not many can pull off the fashions that Lil Nas X wears at the Grammys. Actually, for most occasions, formal wedding outfits require black-tie attire, which means a tuxedo. A black tie outfit is the height of style, and, consequently, it’s an effortless look to sport. We’ll tell you how with our guide to __[dressing in your black-tie best](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-dress-for-a-black-tie-formal-wedding)__ for an evening wedding.\n\n![How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5xWzi6cRFkonwgW4riVJT5/e43866ef6817ca410e1a3e0da8e0850c/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Black Tie Dress Code Explained\nFirst things first—before we jump into how to dress for a black tie wedding, let's quickly cover where, exactly, the black-tie dress tie comes from.\n\nBlack tie is a semi-formal dress code that dates back to the 19th century. The dress code was popularized both in Britain and America. Both tuxedos and dark suits fall under the \"black tie\" umbrella—and while the dress code is semi-formal, it's generally [appropriate wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding) for more formal events.\n\n## The Perfect Pieces for a Black-Tie Wedding Look\nBlack-tie attire means that you should be wearing a black tuxedo or a dark suit (black suits, dark blue suits, and gray suits are all appropriate), but you can still let your personality shine through. With a few simple guidelines, you can put an outfit together worthy of the red carpet or wedding aisle.\n\n- __Tuxedo Jacket__ : Like the many takes on the classic cocktail dress, there are several __[styles of jackets](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_jacket)__. that work for black tie looks, like dinner jackets, tuxedo jackets, and more formal blazers. However, the common denominator in men’s black-tie suiting is the presence of satin on the lapels (whether it’s a notch lapel, peak lapel, or shawl lapel). Satin fabric also hides the buttons, which elevates the look of any black tux. Although black dress is the standard for black-tie events, darker tones of blue (like midnight blue) are acceptable. A good rule of thumb is to leave the single button closure fastened while standing, to maintain a fitted look (which can also be enhanced by a slim fit cut). \n\n- __Trousers__ : [Pants should match](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_pants) the jacket in both fabric and color. Satin goes down the outside seam on each pant leg, which serves to enhance the look. \n\n- __Crisp, Collared Shirt__ : A white shirt is the only acceptable color, but there is a little leeway with styling. Some tuxedo shirts are wing-tipped, but a [well-constructed oxford](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_tuxedo_shirt) would also suffice. Authentic tux shirts also have small pleats vertically across the chest to add interest. If you don't have an authentic tux shirt, ensure that your white dress shirt looks up to par. \n\n- __Black Shoes__ : Shiny, patent leather shoes are the norm for tuxedos, although quality black leather shoes or loafers will also do the trick. Don’t forget to wear socks. Over the calf, dark socks are ideal.\n\n- __Black Bow Tie__ : A [bow tie](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_bow_tie) allows those tiny pleats in the shirt to have their moment in the sun. Black is the traditional color, and be sure that your necktie neckwear is solid, not patterned.\n\n- __White Pocket Square__ : Dark jackets are in stark contrast to a pure white pocket square. However, it’s incredible how a [tiny square of fabric](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/birdygrey_didi_pocket_square_dustyblue) can create a cohesive look.\n\n- __Cufflinks__ : Unless you’re wearing an oxford, most tuxedo shirts close at the wrist with [cufflinks](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/edelweissjewelry_zola_love_collection_cufflinks_14kyellowgold). particularly if you’re wearing lengthier French cuffs. Subtly is better than going crazy with color, and be sure to match your cufflinks with other metals that you’re wearing. \n\n- __Studs__ : Although you will look like a stud in a tux, that’s not quite where we’re going with this. Upon close inspection, most tuxedo shirts have studs instead of buttons. These aren’t 100 percent necessary, but they do add to the look. Also, be sure to match metals with your cufflinks and other jewelry pieces. \n\n- __Vest or Cumberbund__ : These pieces are never meant to be worn in tandem. Covering your midsection with a cummerbund or vest is posh, but not completely necessary. If you do decide to wear one, remember that this isn’t high school. Black is best, so stay away from vibrant colors meant for prom.\n\n![How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/78mHneRzRZEno1T3RJAHp0/7b5a54fa7ba993829e03dedf46a4dea2/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Where to Get a Tux for a Black-Tie Wedding\n\n### How to Rent a Tuxedo Locally\nMost guys don’t have a tux hanging in their closet, but if they do, chances are that it doesn’t get much use. That’s where rentals come in handy. Many local bridal salons and upscale men’s shops rent tuxedos to grooms and other wedding party members. So if you need a black tie outfit, chances are that they can get you one, too.\n\n#### Pros of Renting a Tux Locally\nAn advantage of heading somewhere in person is that you can ensure a perfect fit. Also, if something is wrong—a missing button or loose hem—they can order another piece or fix it on site. You can also see fabrics and styles in person, which is a huge plus. \n\n#### Cons of Renting a Tux Locally\nThe downside to renting is usually drop-off times, especially if you’re traveling and rent at your final destination. Returning your tux before an early Sunday morning flight may prove difficult.\n\n### How to Rent a Tux Online\nIt seems that you can do just about anything with the internet at your fingertips, and renting a tux is one of them. Many businesses specialize in formalwear rentals, so be sure to select a longstanding one with a good reputation.\n\n#### Pros of Renting a Tux Online\nQuite often, companies have strict measurement guidelines on their website. However, many online rental sites will send you a tuxedo to test out before the main event. They are also a bit more flexible with return times, giving up to 72 hours to ship your pieces back.\n\n#### Cons of Renting a Tux Online\nAlthough rentals usually come with quick shipping, it’s tough to solve problems right away if something arrives damaged. Unless you can do a try on ahead of time, selecting fabrics and styles from afar can prove challenging. \n\n### Where to Buy a Tuxedo\nIf you’re the exception and have quite a few black-tie events coming up, investing in a tuxedo can save money in the long run. Many men’s clothiers sell tuxedos, although purchasing online is also an option. Be sure to order it well in advance of your black-tie wedding so that you can make exchanges if necessary.\n\n## In the Case of Black-Tie Optional\nYikes! You’re all set with what black-tie is, but the invitation adds one tiny, scary word after it—optional. Don’t worry. Demystifying the terminology is easier than it sounds, but this never, ever means that jeans and your favorite band t-shirt are okay.\n\nBlack-tie optional attire for weddings is a bit more relaxed than a tuxedo. Often, couples choose this option to alleviate any financial burden for their guests. After all, the expense of traveling and buying a wedding gift is enough without having to spring for new suiting. So, seeing the word “optional” is a good thing. \n\nThink of it as mimicking a tuxedo without wearing one. Dark suiting with a crisp, white shirt and black shoes are ideal. Also, add traditional accessories, such as a pocket square, dark bow tie, and cufflinks. Skip the studs and cummerbund, but feel free to wear a vest if you have one that matches your suit.\n\nThe rule of thumb is to stick to the dress code and wear your most formal wear. If you don’t own a suit, it’s probably the time to invest in one, or you could go the tuxedo rental route.\n\n*__Quick tip:__ Black-tie optional can also be referenced as “black-tie preferred.”*\n\nSo, whether you’re headed to a black-tie wedding or are one of the fortunate ones to walk the red carpet at a black-tie event, use our guide to get it right. With a few key pieces—either borrowed or purchased—you’ll soon be looking your best at the season’s best events. Which, of course, includes weddings.\n\n## 10 Black Tie Wedding Attire Ideas for Men\nLooking for some help with black tie attire? We’ve come up with these formal wedding outfit ideas to help you nail your look.\n\n### 1. Pronto Uomo Modern Fit Tuxedo Coat\nThis black __[Pronto Uomo tuxedo coat](https://www.menswearhouse.com/p/pronto-uomo-modern-fit-suit-separates-tuxedo-coat-black-3X933X9410)__ is a sleek and elegant choice for any black tie affair. The trim and modern fit provides plenty of comfort and mobility and features a two-button design and satin notch lapel. This tuxedo coat retails for $219.99 at Men’s Wearhouse.\n\n### 2. Stretch Tuxedo Shirt\nThis __[Stretch Tuxedo Shirt](https://bonobos.com/products/stretch-tuxedo-shirt)__ is a comfortable and snappy component of any black-tie outfit. The shirt features attractive mother-of-pearl buttons and double-knife pleats for some added texture. French cuffs tie the look together with an added touch of elegance—and ample opportunity to show off your favorite pair of cufflinks. This shirt retails for $179 from Bonobos.\n\n### 3. Barathea Tuxedo Pants\nFor a classic look that ties your look together, these black __[Barathea Tuxedo Pants](https://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=442547002)__ are the answer. These pants are made from 100% virgin wool from one of Italy’s oldest mills and tailored with a slim fit for a comfortable, natural look that works in any season. Available for $220 from Banana Republic.\n\n### 4. Black and Burgundy Paisley Tuxedo Vest Set\nElevate your look with this __[Black and Burgundy Paisley Tuxedo Vest Set](https://paulmalone.com/collections/tuxedo-vests/products/black-and-burgundy-paisley-tuxedo-vest-set)__. The set includes a wine red and black paisley microfiber vest, matching pocket square, and your choice of a matching necktie or pre-tied cravat—though you can also pair it with your favorite bow tie. Altogether, this set is an affordable and stylish solution for any formal wedding or black-tie event. Available for $39.97 from Paul Malone.\n\n### 5. Steel and Onyx Tuxedo Studs\nAccessorizing isn’t always the easiest—especially with black-tie attire. Fortunately, these __[Steel and Onyx Tuxedo Studs](https://propercloth.com/products/steel-and-onyx-tuxedo-studs-431.html)__ are the perfect addition for a modern and classy take on a tux. These steel studs are Italian-made and come four to a set, with each featuring a black onyx face. These tuxedo studs retail for $75 from Proper Cloth.\n\n### 6. Personalized Rose Gold Round Cufflinks\nThough some cufflinks fly under the radar, these __[Personalized Rose Gold Round Cufflinks](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cathysconcepts_personalized_rose_gold_round_cuff_links_u)__ make a statement. The elegant rose gold adds a bit of contrast to your getup—while the engraveable face adds a personalized touch. Available from Zola for $27.99.\n\n### 7. Cummerbund\nThis __[Cummerbund](https://theblacktux.com/collection/accessory/cummerbund)__ can help you truly embrace the formality of a black-tie outfit. Made of plain black silk and with adjustable backing, this cummerbund won’t cramp your style on the dancefloor, but will help you stand out as someone who respects tradition. Available to rent for $15 or to purchase for $30 from The Black Tux.\n\n### 8. Tux Plain Toe Derby\nLet your style shine with these liquid-shine __[Tux Plain Toe Derby](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/florsheim-tux-plain-toe-derby-men/4873534)__ patent leather dress shoes. These shows are elegant in their simplicity, with a cushioned footbed to keep you comfortable through the day’s—and night’s—festivities. Available from Nordstrom for $124.95.\n\n### 9. Cotton Pocket Square\nTo add a bit of color to your black-tie outfit, incorporate this stylish and formal light blue __[Cotton Pocket Square](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/deltoro_cotton_pocket_square_lightblue)__. This timeless accessory is made in Lake Como, Italy, from a high-quality cotton that helps elevate your look for any formal affair. Available from Zola for $25.\n\n### 10. Classic-Fit UltraFlex Stretch Black Solid Tuxedo Separates\nShopping for the various bits of a formal ensemble can be overwhelming and time-consuming. Fortunately, this set of __[Classic-Fit UltraFlex Stretch Black Solid Tuxedo Separates](https://www.macys.com/shop/product/lauren-ralph-lauren-mens-classic-fit-ultraflex-stretch-black-solid-tuxedo-separates?ID=10503427)__ has almost everything you need to meet a black-tie dress code. Separates include a tuxedo jacket, pants, and vest, giving you the opportunity to accessorize however you see fit. Retails for $56.25 - $202.50 from Macy’s.\n\n## FAQs About Black Tie Dress Code\nStill not 100% clear on what the black tie dress code is—and how to ensure your wedding attire fits that dress code? Let's take a look at some frequently asked questions about black tie wedding attire to give some additional perspective:\n\n1. __What is the difference between a tuxedo and a suit?__ The main difference between a tuxedo and a suit is that tuxedos have a host of satin features—like lapels, buttons, and pant stripes—that suits do not.\n\n2. __What kinds of weddings have black tie dress codes?__ The black tie dress code is reserved for events that take place in the evenings—so weddings that start after 6pm or so may have a black tie dress code, while more casual daytime affairs would not.\n\n3. __What is the difference between a black tie and a white tie wedding dress code?__ White tie is the most formal dress code—and as such, is reserved for formal occasions. Black tie is considered semi-formal.\n\n4. __What should you do if you're invited to a black tie wedding—but don't have a tuxedo?__ Not to worry! Most men don't own tuxedos. There are plenty of places where you can rent a tuxedo, whether you're a wedding guest or in the wedding party—and if that's not an option, a dark suit would also be appropriate.\n\n5. __Is there any way to incorporate color into black tie wedding attire?__ While there aren't many opportunities for incorporating color into black tie wedding attire, if it's important to you, you could add a pop of color with accessories, like a pocket square.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Learn the ins and outs of semi-formal attire for men. Our guide offers outfit ideas and tips to perfect your look for any sophisticated occasion.","title":"A Quick Guide to Semi-Formal Wedding Attire for Men ","slug":"semi-formal-attire-for-men","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/62tSXdhHV1VOBpQru0XU8e/1ea1c2badca0bc2b61136f7b0133550b/Hero_ClassicWeddingatOceanKeyResortandSpa_FreasPhotography.jpg","altText":"Semi-Formal Attire for Men"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"The style of a groom’s suit will help determine whether a bow tie or tie should be worn on their wedding day. 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Elevate your look for formal events with our fashion guide for the modern gentleman.","title":"Cocktail Attire for Men: Dress Code Guide ","slug":"cocktail-attire-for-men-a-comprehensive-guide","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44agyrTTNhwWSkt7QoxfxT/5e7c84e77d4ed929a512634a7584507a/Hero_Pink_GoldSpringWeddingatTemeculaCreekInn_AperturebyAmandaPhotography.jpg","altText":"Cocktail Attire for Men"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Garden wedding attire blends comfort and style with light fabrics and floral touches. Discover perfect outfits for an enchanting outdoor celebration.","title":"What to Wear to a Garden Attire Wedding + Outfit Ideas","slug":"wedding-attire-101-garden-edition","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How To","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7KWMJbQXACJUKgjm4SJk5p/351ea3ef7aea27d1454597021f0d5639/Hero_ClassicBlackTieWeddingatRiversideChurch_CinderandCo.jpg","altText":"Bride and groom outdoors under a flowering tree at a garden wedding"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:39:41.733Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"gender-non-conforming-wedding-attire","title":"Gender Non-Conforming Wedding Attire: Outfit Ideas + Dress Code Etiquette","excerpt":"Having a gender non-conforming dress code for your wedding is a great way to make all guests feel welcome and empowered.","author":"Anni Irish","publishedAt":"2022-06-30T21:33:35.034Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1iNUKVpSWBEhve9xRHaBMx/750444fb94dd2e5eb76e5251297e3e59/My_project__19_.png","altText":"Gender Non-Conforming Wedding Attire Ideas"},"heroCredit":"Brianne Emily Photography","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- Think about textures, patterns, and accessories and how little details can really make your wedding outfit stand out and also have your personality shine through. \n- There are several things you can do to help make your dress code more inclusive such as using non-gendered language and being open to conversations around the dress code.\n","body":"When it comes to picking out what to wear for a wedding there is a lot to consider. And often, there will be a dress code for the wedding i.e. casual, black tie optional, cocktail, etc. However vague these kinds of descriptions are, often, there are a lot of gendered elements that are wrapped up in that. \n\nFor people who identify as non-binary or LGBTQIA+, and have a more [gender non-conforming style](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/androgynous-wedding-attire), it can sometimes be difficult to know what to wear and to also the best way to communicate that to the people who are getting married. If you find yourself in that position, don't panic. You want to feel comfortable and confident in what you are wearing and also have a great time!\n\n__“Start with the pieces you feel the most confident in, then explore how they could be elevated.__ I'm a firm believer that you can pull off almost any silhouette if it's in the right material—try trading a comfy cotton tee for a luxe silk top or your high-waisted jeans for a badass high-rise trouser, then befriend your local tailor for the dreamiest fit,” said Chole Roach, a Brand Communications Manager at [Wildfang](https://www.wildfang.com/), a gender-inclusive fashion brand. \n\nHere are several tips for wedding guests and couples to help everyone get on the same page when it comes to having a gender non-conforming dress code and the best way to approach it. \n\n![non conforming dress codes Wilde Scout Photo Co.](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/KZ8VAv7BMPU26gCDbzAkW/3e4af0d1ec20203854e314831d417264/85028a97-b5c4-48a4-a381-aadb447b9d0e.jpeg)\n*Photo Credit* // Wilde Scout Photo Co.\n\n## Gender-Non Conforming Wedding Attire Ideas \n\nThere are lots of ways you as Nearlyweds can approach your gender non-conforming wedding look. On your big day, you both want to look your best and there are lots of ways to achieve this. \n\n### Mix & Match Traditionally \"Gendered\" Outfit Pieces\n\n__Pants, button-down shirts, ruffled shirts, blazers, skirts, skorts, jumpsuits and more are all different kinds of looks that can be mixed and matched for a wedding.__ And depending on the kind of event, can also be dressed up or dressed down with the right accessories. “I love mixing and matching traditionally masc & femme elements—think tailored vests over puff-sleeve tops, corset tops with structured trousers, or linen button-downs & flowing skirts (you can play the same game with your accessories). In search of a one-and-done option? Enter the mighty jumpsuit,” said Roach. \n\n#### Suits\nIn general, there is a lot of versatility that can be offered in suits. There are many very tailored, put-together outfits that really exist on a spectrum as well in terms of fit and fabric. Some are more fitted while others offer a more loose and airy look, it all depends on what you are going for. \n\nMaybe you want to dress down your suit by wearing a t-shirt instead. A vintage find that has an interesting pattern or texture can also give a suit another dimension. \n\n#### Shoes\n\nShoes are another big thing that can really make an outfit. If you have a super dressy look, and want to make it less formal, think about wearing a pair of sneakers. If your look is more casual and you want to dress it up, consider a sleek heel or shoes that have a more put-together look. \n\n#### Accessories\n\nAccessories are one way to really step up your look. They offer so much versatility and can add a dramatic layer in a really great way. From a well-placed pocket square, necklace, broach, bracelet, hat, or barrett, there are so many ways accessories can dress up (or down) your look. \n\n__Try to pick unique items that play on your wedding theme but also capture aspects of your personality in another way.__ There are lots of ways to think about formal weddings nowadays, and this can be done with specific fabrics you pick out as well as cuts. Flowers and boutiners and other small arrangements can also add a splash of color and fun to a look and also be something unexpected. The most important thing is feeling comfortable and confident in what you are wearing. \n\n### Styling Two Dresses or Two Suits Together\n\nYou want to dress in a way that feels authentic to you and also makes you look great. For some couples this may mean that [both are choosing to wear dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/lgbt-wedding-traditions-and-how-to-reinvent-old-ones) and/or [both choosing to wear suits](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/lgbt-wedding-traditions-and-how-to-reinvent-old-ones). However, even if you both are choosing the same kind of look, there are lots of ways to have your personality shine through in the color, fabric, and fit. No two people wear the same look the same way.\n\n#### Expressing Yourselves Through Color and Fit\n\nYou may not want to go with the traditional black tie and white dress scenario. Instead, pick colors you look and feel comfortable in and also really make you feel special. Be a little bold and have fun with your look! Going to a tailor or store that also specializes in gender-neutral looks if one is in your area can also give you more options and can help you really customize your look. \n\n![Non conforming dress codes Maya Elaine Photography, LLC](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1ZvVN8tEum5nJuk464TYGc/f741909b2fd07855dcc223b4151f1ebe/4beea2d5-c08c-4d08-b301-7a0d56555296.jpeg)\n*Photo Credit* // Maya Elaine Photography, LLC\n\n## A Guide to Creating Gender Non-Conforming Dress Codes \n\nToday, there are a many ways that people identify when it comes to both gender and sexual identity. As a result, it's important to meet people where they are at and to be respectful and open to things. One great way to help cultivate an inclusive space at your wedding, is to try and use language that reflects this attitude. People who identify as nonbinary for example, identify beyond the idea of what “male” and “female” are and express themselves how they see fit. \n\n__Nonbinary is an identity that is part of a larger term that consists of many different genders.__ One major thing to keep in mind as well is that gender is very different from how someone may present or express themselves. For people who are nonbinary in particular, how they dress is how they communicate their relationship to genders and more. \n\n### Use Inclusive Language\n\nTry not to think within a binary and recognize that there are lots of ways that people identify. As a result, [having inclusive language](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/gender-neutral-terms-to-use-wedding-planning) for invitations, and general wedding communications is important. __Eliminating gendered phrases such as “for the guys” and “for the girls” or “for women” and “for men” is one way to help make everyone feel comfortable.__ Instead using language such as “for everyone” or for the guests or referring to groups in more gender-neutral ways can help set a tone and also make everyone coming to your wedding feel more comfortable right off the bat. \n\nAsking people what their names and pronouns are gives all guests the chance to share this with you. This also sets a tone and will make guests coming feel comfortable. If you plan on using honorifics or titles on your invitations or paper goods, it's also a good idea to check in with guests about this. Asking how your wedding party members want to present can also inform how you may want to approach the dress code. This conversation can help give you some ideas and also make everyone feel comfortable. \n\n### Offer Flexible Attire Options\n\nThis same line of thinking also applies to the dress code for the wedding. Offering more options than just “suits” and “dresses” can help make guests feel more welcomed and also let them wear what they would like but also having an outfit that is appropriate for your big day. Terms such as casual and formal can be used to help indicate to your guests what the feel of the event is and help them make the right wardrobe choice. \n\n__Also consider having examples of images to help give guests an idea of what you'd like them to wear.__ Encouraging guests to wear outfits that they feel great about themselves in and having a dress code that is gender-less can help make all guests feel more welcomed and empowered in the process. \n\n### For Couples: Communicate with Guests \n\nRemember communication is key especially when you are trying to have a gender non-coforming dress code. This means for the couple getting married and also for their guests coming to the wedding, there are sure to be several conversations about the dress code. \n\nBeing open and respectful with one another is important. You may have some guests who are nervous about sharing their concerns about what to wear so listening and hearing them is vital. Try to make yourself available to people to talk as well whether you feel better communicating via email, phone or face to face. \n\nHaving some images of what you’d like to see guests in that match the dress code/theme of your wedding can be really helpful. This can give people a visual and also may spark some inspiration in their end if they are putting their look together. \n\n### For Guests: Communicate with the Couple\n\nBeing invited to a wedding is a big deal as a friend or loved one. While this should be a time to celebrate, for some folx who are non-binary, or identify another way, the invitation can also invoke some panic. Finding an outfit that is gender-neutral can feel stressful and if you need to communicate about this to the wedding hosts, this can also add another layer of complexity to the situation. If you find yourself in this situation, don’t worry. \n\nThe good news is, when it comes to fashion today, there really are no rules. And there are lots of ways to put together a look. However, if you are attending a wedding that has a specified dress code, this may feel like a roadblock. \n\n__Remember, the dress code for the wedding can help inform guests when it comes to figuring out what to wear but it doesn't have to define it.__ The dress code provides an outline of what to wear but at the end of the day you want to feel comfortable in the outfit you have on. If you find yourself in this position and are feeling uncertain about the dress code, reaching out to the couple who is getting married is a good idea. This will also give you the opportunity to be open about your situation and discuss the wedding. \nBy speaking directly to the couple who is getting married, you can ask if you have specific questions or want some things clarified about the wedding dress code. Some possible questions to ask are:\n\n- What are the dress code expectations you have for wedding guests?\n- Can you provide some examples of attire you are hoping guests will wear?\n- How closely do you want guests to follow the dress code?\n\n__Also, think about having some images ready of possible outfit options to share.__ This can help you narrow down what kind of look you are going for and also can give the couple an idea of the direction you are headed in. “Pictures, pictures, pictures! Familiarize yourself with the dress code as specified on the invitation, then share some inspo pics with elements that really inspire you—(silhouettes, fabrics, patterns, etc.). There are so many factors at play when it comes to a wedding outfit (comfort, style, temperature, Electric Slide-ability), so choose a few,” said Roach. \n\nWeddings are a time to celebrate. Having a gender-neutral dress code for your wedding can really help you and your guests feel like their most authentic selves; and in creating a space that is inclusive, this is helping everyone around you to feel empowered and happy on a day that is all about love.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_VendorMarketplace"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"We’ve compiled an A-Z glossary of the terminology that you’re bound to hear before your nuptials.","title":"Wedding Planning Glossary: A-Z","slug":"your-wedding-planning-glossary-a-z","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7LY9vYB718TL7SDCTZGZ0x/a99bd8eea86e8de43face4f987c737df/005.jpeg","altText":"Your Wedding Planning Glossary: A-Z"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Discover the ultimate guide on what to wear for a black-tie wedding. 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Here’s everything LGBTQ+ couples need to know about selecting traditions when wedding planning.","title":"LGBTQ+ Wedding Traditions—How to Reinvent Old Ones","slug":"lgbt-wedding-traditions-and-how-to-reinvent-old-ones","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"How To","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3iU4vcwcP6woL1lClZxxf0/196a5123ab7f2c418a94cf1fccf893a2/Hero_ElegantFallWeddingatEarlyMountainVineyards_MollyHaganPhotography.jpg","altText":"LGBTQ+ Wedding Traditions & How to Reinvent Old Ones"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Switching out traditionally gendered terms can actually be a fun and validating part of wedding planning! 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Read our complete guide to find out.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-12-28T17:24:17.306Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/35ZiBJATbRSSfUmcwEQcx2/0d2e13433551e3564ad94c09294e213d/Hero_GlamBlack-TieWeddingatSalamanderResort_Spa_ArvinPhotographyLLC.jpg","altText":"What Should the Father of the Bride Wear"},"heroCredit":"Arvin Photography LLC","body":"When it comes to wedding fashion for the bride’s parents, the attention seems to focus on the [mother of the bride.](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/mother-of-the-bride-duties) However, dad has earned his place, too. From being a role model to encouraging you to bike without training wheels, dad has been there through it all. Although most fashion chatter centers around mom, what the father of the bride wears also needs to be top-notch.\n\nAfter all, he will walk his daughter down the aisle and give a toast at the wedding reception. The bride’s father may even be footing the bill for the whole event. No matter his role, it’s a momentous day for dad. So, having him look—and feel—his best is of utmost importance. Here is a bit of sage advice about proper father of the bride attire. \n\n## Follow the Wedding’s Dress Code\nAll wedding guests should follow the dress code, let alone the parents of the couple getting married. However, there are a few suggestions beyond wearing the suggested apparel. Suppose the recommended code offers a bit of leeway, dress at the top of the code. It’s best to be a bit dressier rather than underdress. \n\nBut don’t let dad overdress. The bride’s father shouldn’t be wearing a tuxedo if the groom and [wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one) wear upscale suiting. Not only will he stand out, but he may also feel awkward by garnering unwanted attention.\n\n__Quick Tip__: The father of the bride should never outshine or dress more formally than the groom. \n\n![What Should the Father of the Bride Wear?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/26mmGU1x2zryKjZWoXLJaw/536b64b915f2c640d951dba5eacd9a3b/inline_unsplash.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Dress Similar—But Not Identical—to the Groomsmen\nDad deserves his moment to shine, so don’t make him a carbon copy of the [groomsmen](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-groomsmen-duties) or best man. After all, he is passing his once-little girl on to someone else. His look should stand alone, yet blend with other members of the wedding party. That includes details, such as pocket squares, socks, and [shoes](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_danny_black_shoe), too.\n\nIf your black-tie dress code has your attendants wearing tuxes, then the father of the bride should follow suit. He can wear the same tuxedo style, but he can go off-script a bit by changing the accessories. Have the bride’s father wear a necktie instead of a [bowtie](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_bow_tie), or put him in a different hue. \n\n__Quick Tip:__ Order the father of the bride’s tuxedo while you place your bridal party order.\n\n## Keep His Attire Flawless \nAs with any [suiting](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_textured_gray_suit_jacket), dad’s look should fit flawlessly. Tuxedo companies adhere to reasonably strict measuring standards, which means that fitting is usually a breeze. However, if dad is picking out a suit from his closet or purchasing a new one, have it tailored. Also, check for any areas that need attention, such as loose buttons or seams starting to tear.\n\nTake time to ensure that all dad’s pieces are in pristine condition, even for an ultra-casual beach wedding. In that case, check that dad’s Hawaiian print shirt and khaki shorts are clean, pressed, and ready to go. And don’t be afraid to tell him to ditch the cargo shorts. \n\n__Quick Tip:__ Even if they aren’t dry clean only, take the father of the bride’s shirt, pants, and suit to the cleaners. They will press them correctly for the big day. \n\n## Let His Personality Be on Display in a Good Way \nDon’t stifle your dad’s personality by forcing him to wear something that isn’t quite him. Work with the bride’s father to develop a cohesive look that still allows his fun, quirky, or creative side to shine through. \n\nEven if you’re adhering to a strict dress code, dad can get creative. A classically patterned tie, printed socks, or quirky pocket square can do the trick while not being the focal point. No matter what, be sure to talk to the father of the bride about his outfit. A chat will give him confidence while assuring you that he’ll arrive in style. \n\n__Quick Tip:__ Dad can also accessorize with jewelry, such as cufflinks or a statement watch—both of which make a sentimental father of the bride gift. \n\n## Stray Away From His Daily Workwear \nEveryone enjoys a bit of a break from work, and that also includes workwear. If your dad is used to rocking a suit at the office, vary his wedding look from his daily go-to. Although this may seem easy and even make your dad comfortable, you want your wedding day to be set apart. \n\nLook for suits in a different color or a subtle pattern to help him break from the norm. Ordering a tuxedo—most likely not his office wear—is a safe bet for a black tie event. However, if you choose a suit, help him choose a color and pattern different from what he already has. \n\n__Quick Tip__: If the father of the bride is getting a new suit, purchase it far enough in advance for alterations. \n\n## Talk to Both Dads About What They’re Wearing\nThe last thing you want to do is create tension with the other father. Both partners’ dads should look their best and follow the above rules. However, they shouldn’t necessarily match. Have a conversation with your dads about wedding wear, and let them weigh in on the decision. Their looks can reflect their taste while harmonizing with the overall style of the wedding. Having a chat with both of your dads together—even over Zoom—can help build a relationship. \n\n__Quick Tip:__ Keep in mind that the father of the bride and groom’s rules for wedding attire is the same.\n\n## Get Dad a Boutonniere\nWhen ordering flowers for your wedding ceremony, there’s a lot to think about. Bouquets, centerpieces, and ceremony arches are beautiful, but small details can make a difference in styling a look. Boutonnieres are a fabulous way to add a splash of color to dad’s lapel. \n\nHis bout can match the groomsmen, or you can take the opportunity to have matching ones for all father figures. Talk to your floral designer about how you can have a standout boutonniere for the father of the bride, without him standing out, of course. If your dad isn’t the boutonniere type, there are plenty of [boutonniere alternatives](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-grooms-attire) to choose from.\n\n__Quick Tip:__ The bout goes on the left lapel—his left, not yours. \n\n![What Should the Father of the Bride Wear?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7ybna41ZnC3hja5Lgg4NaM/370f14d02863ddda796ebfce7d396717/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n## There Are Some Exceptions\nCertain situations don’t allow for the father of the bride to be directly involved in the wedding ceremony. Distance, family dynamics, and even health can make for unique circumstances. In those cases, talk to dad about what he should wear. \n\nA quick discussion will help him be confident about what he’s wearing, while also feeling included in your wedding day. It will also assure you that he’ll look his best on your big day. \n\n__Quick Tip:__ To bout or not to bout? Include him in your boutonniere order if it’s appropriate. \n\nNo matter your dad’s style, taste, or lack thereof, keep him in the loop on your wedding day plans. He’ll always cherish that his daughter is all grown up and ready to start her life with her love. Let him have his moment and look smashing while doing so. \n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Attending your first black-tie wedding and unsure of what to wear? Read our full, comprehensive guide on the most appropriate men’s attire that will make you look like you just stepped off the red carpet.","title":"How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?","slug":"how-should-men-dress-for-a-black-tie-wedding","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ib0hKIbbrVyFqK5kVrTba/419da62e0242fd57217d6ce823673ba4/Hero_Modern_Multi-CulturalWeddingat5226Elm_PaigeNewton.jpg","altText":"How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Master cocktail attire for men with style tips and outfit ideas. Elevate your look for formal events with our fashion guide for the modern gentleman.","title":"Cocktail Attire for Men: Dress Code Guide ","slug":"cocktail-attire-for-men-a-comprehensive-guide","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44agyrTTNhwWSkt7QoxfxT/5e7c84e77d4ed929a512634a7584507a/Hero_Pink_GoldSpringWeddingatTemeculaCreekInn_AperturebyAmandaPhotography.jpg","altText":"Cocktail Attire for Men"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Learn the ins and outs of semi-formal attire for men. 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Read this guide for how you should go about choosing your and your groomsmen's suits.","author":"Laura Hensley","publishedAt":"2020-12-21T21:47:12.781Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5tbVGqKnSi1YA5QetQgKr5/99baca726b8b26b7182ced21c2b3bb7f/Hero_GlamorousWeddingatInnatNewHydePark__ManuelMontenegroPhotography__2_.jpg","altText":"Groom and Groomsmen Matching Suits"},"heroCredit":"Manuel Montenegro Photography","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- Traditionally, groomsmen’s suits match the groom’s suit, but everyone has their own preference. It’s common for groomsmen to match one another, while the groom rocks a slightly different look. \n- Coordination is key! If you let the groomsmen wear different suits, make the dress code clear, and make sure that suits are ordered in time.\n- Pros of matching groom and groomsmen suits: Everyone looks cohesive and good together in photos. Cons of matching groom and groomsmen suits: Not everyone feels comfortable in the same style, and people have different budgets. ","body":"\nSpoiler alert: It’s your choice whether or not you want your groom and [groomsmen](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-groomsmen-duties) suits to match. Traditionally, groomsmen’s suits match the groom’s, but everyone has their own preference. It’s common today for groomsmen to match one another, while the groom rocks a slightly different—but complementary—look. \n\n## Pros of Matching Groom and Groomsmen Suits\n\nUniforms are popular for a reason—they are easy. When the groom and groomsmen match, there’s no confusion over who is part of the wedding party; their outfits clearly separate them from the guests. Everyone looks the same, meaning that there’s a level of cohesion across members of the wedding party. Matching groomsmen suits also mean that they can easily be coordinated with bridesmaid dresses, so that everyone looks good standing together. It also saves a lot of headaches knowing what everyone will be wearing and that they will match the wedding style.\n\nSome grooms want their groomsmen to match one another, but will wear a different suit themselves. If you go this route, it’s still a good idea that the groom’s suit matches the style of the groomsmen, even if it’s a different color. If the groom wears dark grey, maybe the groomsmen [wear a lighter shade](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_textured_gray_suit_jacket). You want to look like you’re part of the same party, because you are. Remember, incorporating groomsmen accessories is a great way to make your groomsmen stand out from your other guests. Using a bow tie, suspenders, a patterned tie, or a boutonniere is an excellent way to incorporate a unique flare to your groomsmen attire.\n\n![Groom and Groomsmen Suits](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2sojdQYgAVMS26U753FawB/81948b09599c3fd60343130eb270f888/Inline_Zola__7_.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Zola\n\n## Cons of Matching Groom and Groomsmen Suits\n\nAn obvious con of matching groomsmen suits is the cost. If you’re going to expect all the groomsmen to wear the same outfit, you need to make sure that everyone has the financial means to do so. Buying a new wedding suit can cost hundreds of dollars—especially after alterations—so it’s important that everyone is able to spend money on a new groomsman suit. Keep in mind that your groomsmen have likely already [spent a decent amount on your wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/talk-money-in-a-wedding-party), so you don’t want to push them overboard. (Make sure that you [thank your groomsmen](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/awesome-groomsmen-gift-ideas-under-%252450) for all their work.)\n\nEverybody also has their own style, and there’s nothing worse than feeling uncomfortable in an outfit that isn’t you. Plus, people have different body types, meaning that what looks good on one groomsman may not look the same on the other groomsmen. Some men prefer single-breasted jackets, while others like double-breasted looks. Having the groomsmen match the groom doesn’t allow for individuality. \n\n### If You Decide to Match…\n\nIf the groom and groomsmen are going to match, make sure that you start shopping for suits early. It takes months to find a suit, get fitted, and wait for alterations. It’s often easiest to do suit fittings as a group at the same place so that there’s no confusion with timelines. Start this shopping process at least two to four months before the wedding to make sure that everyone gets their outfit back in time. \n\nIf you decide to have matching groom and groomsmen suits, coordinate with the bridesmaids, too. All members of the [wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-party) should be on the same page.\n\nWhile making all the groomsmen wear matching suits, it’s important to make sure that the style looks good on everyone, and that all members of the wedding party are okay with their outfit. They don’t have to be in love with your style, but you want to ensure that they feel comfortable in the suit you’re asking them to wear.\n\nThere are certain colors and styles that are versatile and look good on nearly everyone. Navy, for example, is a [classic suit color](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_navy_blue_suit_jacket) and looks fantastic paired with a [classic, white dress shirt](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_white_dress_shirt). You might also want all the groomsmen to wear the same suit, but have different colored ties. This is a fun way to match without looking identical. \n\n![Groom and Groomsmen Suits](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/25zO6FbThOdt4gPJ7r0bNL/54971006e9ae1a52012f4677ac14181d/Inline_Manuel_Montenegro_Photography.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Manuel Montenegro Photography\n\n### If You Decide Not to Match…\n\nIf you decide that you don’t want the groom and groomsmen to wear matching suits, it’s still important that all outfits look good all together, and that they convey the same aesthetic or wedding style. Groomsmen wearing summery pastel suits will look odd next to a groom in a velvet tux. Set the tone and let your groomsmen know what color palette to choose from, and what level of formality they should adhere to. It’s a good idea to stick to the same fabrics, too. It helps to show photos and actively take part in the shopping process.\n\nYou’ll also want to outline what accessories are appropriate. It’s one thing to ask everyone to find a dark blue suit, but what about their dress shirts, ties, and shoes? Make sure that you clearly communicate the dress code. Again, photos are very helpful, especially for the less fashionably inclined. \n\nAnother reason why having a clear aesthetic is important is so that the groomsmen can coordinate with other members of the wedding party. If the bridesmaids are dressing in pale blue, you want the groomsmen to either match or dress in a complimentary color. It also helps if groomsmen are clearly identifiable as members of the wedding party, and not regular guests. Adding something like a boutonniere can help set them apart. \n\nTo avoid any unexpected fashion mishaps, make sure that you see—and approve—all groomsmen’s suits before the big day. The last thing you want is to be surprised by a buddy who thought semi-formal meant golf shirts with dress pants. \n\n### Use Accessories to Personalize \n\nRegardless of whether you match with your groomsmen or not, accessories are fun ways to either bring you together, or set you apart. For instance, if you wear different suits, everyone can wear matching cufflinks or the same tie, so that there’s a uniformity across all outfits. Likewise, if the groom and groomsmen are not matching, you can all wear the same bow tie or socks. \n\nDeciding if you want the groom and groomsmen’s suits to match is a personal choice, but as long as everyone follows a dress code, your wedding party will look stylish.\n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"There are many wedding suits to choose from, but, rest assured, we got you covered. Learn about the different wedding suit styles for your special day with this informative guide. ","title":"What Are the Different Wedding Suit Styles?","slug":"what-are-the-different-wedding-suit-styles","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4njJPne049MMwDcBon8aAt/a6aefad170a912821f7560c828d97ccf/Hero_FestiveMulticulturalCeremony_LishaWangPhotography.jpg","altText":"Different Wedding Suit Styles"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Do the groomsmen pay for their groomsmen suits, or does that financial responsibility fall on the groom?","title":"Who Pays for the Groomsmen Suits?","slug":"who-pays-for-the-groomsmen-suits","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3t9k4RlVKl3wuoJpk0QAQN/02946995cdf688fa2269c7de00dc8b4d/Hero_GreatGatsbyWeddingatBridgesGolfClub_GriegCooperPhotographer.jpg","altText":"Who Pays for the Groomsmen Suits"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Read this guide to find out how to determine whom to ask to act as groomsmen in your wedding.","title":"How to Choose Your Groomsmen","slug":"how-to-choose-your-groomsmen","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5MPuNf6pXjbi9AyamCOjm0/0f9689ecf33ee1396edb47d5d320387d/Hero_TimelessWeddingatCodmanEstate_MeiLinBarralPhotography.jpg","altText":"How to Choose Your Groomsmen"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:39:39.354Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"wedding-attire-101-womens-beach-wedding-outfits","title":"Wedding Attire 101: Women's Beach Wedding Outfits","excerpt":"We put together a guide to assist you in picking out just what to wear to any kind of beach wedding.\n","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2021-02-09T16:59:22.890Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1EhxRLWM7qhUb67zOLl27O/603ad149f30671979fccc7e07c99011c/Hero_IntimateCoastalWeddingatSherwoodBeach_GodsWeddingPhotographer.jpg","altText":"Womens Beach Wedding Outfits"},"heroCredit":"Gods Wedding Photographer","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- Beach casual weddings call for flowy maxi dresses, high quality sundresses, rompers, and sandals or flats that are both dressy and comfortable to walk in.\n- Taking it up a notch, beach semi-formal requires higher quality pieces at tea length or longer, as well as formal flats, wedges, or thick heels.\n- Beach formal asks that you don a long dress or suit with your choice of appropriate footwear, although tea-length dresses and polished jumpsuits are also acceptable.","body":"Your wedding invitation has arrived, you’ve RSVP’d, and you’re over the moon to attend a loved one’s upcoming nuptials. What’s more, the celebration will be taking place in a truly stunning location: on the beach. Now, one of the few things you need to do to prepare as the date approaches (aside from ordering a thoughtful gift off of the couple’s registry) is to coordinate your outfit. To help in your search, we’ve put together a comprehensive guide to dressing for a wedding along the coast. \n\n![Wedding Attire 101: Womens Beach Wedding Outfits](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1pMhhosxggwUbV0PcFHMOG/946fda52d81fd3c09c6f7854156be625/inline_bow__tie_photo_video2.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Bow Tie Photo Video\n\n### Important Factors\n\nShopping for your [beach wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pros-and-cons-of-a-beach-wedding) outfit is in many ways similar to your standard wedding attire. Yet, as you begin browsing the possibilities, you’ll want to keep a few key factors about the day and location in mind. Before you start looking, consider the following to help you simplify and narrow down your search.\n\n- __Venue Type:__ The style of venue can help guide your outfit choice. For example, if the venue overlooks the beach but is indoor, on a patio, or a rooftop, you can approach your outfit as you typically would for any other wedding. In this case, you likely won’t be spending much, if any, time on the beach. If you do end up hitting the sand, just take off your shoes—odds are everyone else will be in the same boat. \n\nHowever, if the venue is the beach, a few more factors come into play. What will the terrain be? Will, there be a platform or will you be on the sand? What will the weather be like that day and night? How upscale will the setting be? If the ceremony or reception takes place on the beach, this information should ultimately inform your decision on what to wear.\n\n- __Weather:__ While ‘beach wedding’ typically prompts visions of sunshine and warm sand, coastal weather isn’t always predictable. Depending on the location, time of year (summer wedding, fall wedding, etc.), and even time of day (daytime wedding or nighttime wedding), temperatures can range from blazing hot to cold and breezy. As with any [outdoor wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/which-type-of-wedding-venue-is-right-for-you), consider what the weather in the area is like at that time of year. As the wedding date draws closer, keep an eye on the forecast. If it’s going to be warm, consider breathable fabrics like linen that will help you stay cool. If the weather calls for a gloomy day, keep long sleeves, layers, and thicker fabrics top of mind. In any case, maybe bring a shawl or wrap—just in case.\n\n- __Formality:__ As you can likely guess, this refers to how formal a wedding—and, therefore, your outfit—will be. The levels of formality are casual, semi-formal or cocktail attire, formal, black tie, and white tie, with each becoming increasingly formal and high-end. You can typically count on this being stated on the invitation; if it isn’t, you can always take the venue type, location, and time of day into account. When all else fails, don’t be afraid to ask the hosts. It’s better to make sure, rather than potentially end up looking and feeling out of place.\n\nThis is where choosing an outfit for a beach wedding can get confusing. The outfit you’d wear to a formal indoor wedding, for example, won’t inherently work for a formal beach wedding. This is for two reasons: practicality and style. If you aren’t inside or on a porch overlooking the beach, you’re outside amidst the wind and sand. This change in terrain and exposure to the elements means you’ll want your clothing to be practical and comfortable, while still being appropriate for the occasion. \n\nOn the other hand, beach weddings imply a certain kind of look that doesn’t go one-for-one with other wedding apparel. This mostly lends itself to lighter color palettes and breathable fabrics (so you probably shouldn’t opt for your staple little black dress). To get a better idea of what suits a seaside ceremony, let’s break down each basic level of formality.\n\n### Beach Casual\n\nThough it might sound like it, this dress code isn’t encouraging you to wear whatever it is you would on an outing to the beach. This is still a special occasion. To that end, you should avoid T-shirts, shorts, sandals, and even dresses that might look more like swimsuit coverups. Instead, lean towards flowy maxi dresses, high-quality sundresses, and rompers. \n\nIf it’s going to be warm, consider a cocktail dress or linen fabric for a more boho look. (If you go the linen route, make sure to steer away from a white dress to be polite to the bride.) Sticking with solid colors and nice silhouettes will take your clothing up a notch, adding some sophistication and differentiating your ensemble from your day-to-day clothing. \n\nAs for footwear, consider elegant dressy sandals or similarly dressy flats. When accessorizing, make it a point to limit over-the-top baubles, like chunky statement pieces, bright and distracting colors, or large-brim hats. Be on the safe side and keep it minimal unless the hosts tell you otherwise.\n\n### Beach Semi-Formal\n\nThe most notable differences between beach casual and semi-formal are outfit quality and length. Higher-end materials like silk and linen offer a more formal appearance to maxi dresses and sundresses and easily create a more polished look. Instead of shorter options, go for those that are below the knee, since adding length automatically ups your garment’s formality. Tea-length—which is a bit longer than calf-length and usually lands from one to three inches above the ankle—or maxi is strong go-to's. \n\nLikewise, swap your nice romper for a jumpsuit if that’s more your style. Similar to beach casual, footwear can include dressy sandals and flats. However, you might also consider wedges or thick heels, preferably with a low heel height, so you can easily traverse the sand and seashells. For some added style, experiment with wearing some minimal jewelry, like studs or pearls.\n\n### Beach Formal\n![Wedding Attire 101: Womens Beach Wedding Outfits](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6VrBndKgOyuFttsDCu7Clw/765a421d53d4b9b18939f8eb80afbd37/inline_bow__tie_photo_video.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Bow Tie Photo Video\n\nFor the most part, long dresses (note: not your more casual maxi dress) and suits are ideal when it comes to a beach formal dress code. That being said, because of the sandy landscape, tea-length dresses and upscale jumpsuits are also acceptable. This is especially the case when they’re in fabrics like silk, satin, crepe, and materials with more ornate details like lace. Try to avoid neutrals you’d see at different formal venues, like black and white, and instead seek out lighter colors that’ll complement the scenery.\n\nYour shoe choice should deviate from your standard stilettos, once again thanks to that tricky sand. This means you can stick with thicker heels or formal flats. If part of the celebration takes place off the beach (be it indoors, on a patio, or a platform), you might also consider showing up in a pair of nice heels and bringing a more casual pair to change into after.\n\nDressing for a beach wedding is a fun opportunity to bend the rules typically associated with traditional wedding attire. Because of the outdoor setting, comfortable fabrics, silhouettes, and shoes are encouraged throughout all levels of formality. If you’re still feeling uncertain, we highly suggest reaching out to the hosts for their input. And if for any reason you can’t get through, default to semi-formal. Worst case scenario, you’ll be slightly overdressed—and that certainly beats the alternative.\n","tag":"How To","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Seeking hair inspiration for your wedding day? With DIY tips from expert stylists, check out 50 diverse wedding hairstyles for every hair length, shape, and texture.","title":"50 Wedding Hairstyles for All Hair Types","slug":"wedding-hairstyles","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2f9iW5rW6QbHvSLgfTrzC2/4c2cc54d348e9806b17a283139d2fa01/wedding-hairstyles-hero.jpg","altText":"bride adding a flower to her hair"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Dressing for a beach wedding can be difficult, but Zola has you covered. Read on to learn about men's attire for a beach wedding.","title":"Wedding Attire 101: Men's Beach Attire","slug":"wedding-attire-101-mens-beach-attire","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How To","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/33eReGBKjfa1U0wv5QKb3a/65058288b6d05984e5a803f6fc2234c3/Hero_IntimateWinterElopementonMakenaCoveBeach_MariahMilan.jpg","altText":"Mens Beach Attire"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Weddings are steeped in love, family, friends, and tradition. Take a look at these gorgeous, traditional wedding dresses to find your perfect fit with Zola.","title":"Classic Wedding Dresses For The Traditional Bride","slug":"classic-wedding-dresses-for-the-traditional-bride","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/512UjLaFdPTOcMjscnM16l/c91186555d4d48bca1f48d4d04c5409b/inline_shutterstock__4_.png","altText":"Classic Wedding Dresses For The Traditional Bride"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"If you’re having a wedding on the beach, having beachy centerpieces can be a great nod to your theme. Here's a list of centerpiece ideas for your beach wedding.","title":"20 Beach Wedding Centerpieces Ideas You’ll Want to Try","slug":"beach-wedding-centerpiece-ideas","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/42zhrYayLaUvpaLOVuuf0Z/8b3d37f2875d655337d32fbf4d6fe797/Hero_CoastalChicBigIslandSoiree_AngieDiazPhotography.jpg","altText":"Beach Wedding Centerpieces"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:39:38.845Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"how-to-dress-for-a-black-tie-formal-wedding","title":"What to Wear to a Black Tie Wedding As a Guest + Outfit Ideas for Women","excerpt":"Discover the ultimate guide on what to wear for a black-tie wedding. Explore elegant attire options to ensure you look and feel your best for this formal celebration","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-14T17:55:03.098Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6XyP1N2JbA6A940xl7Pg30/82ef95f4c78589d25d689aa76295ac9d/inline__Salazar.png","altText":"Black Tie wedding dress code"},"heroCredit":"Salazar","body":"Don’t know what to wear to a black tie formal wedding? We’ve got you covered. Read on to find out now.\n\nEven today dress codes continue to be an enigma for many. Though less common than cocktail dress and dressy casual, black tie formal is one of the most important [dress codes for a wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding) to understand. But, even if you’ve attended a black tie affair in the past, what exactly does this specific dress code mean for weddings?\n\n## The Black Tie Basics\nAccording to the experts at [The Black Tux](https://theblacktux.com/blog/black-tie-attire-men-dress-code/), it’s important to remember that “black tie” wedding attire doesn’t simply equate to “stuffy and dated,” particularly when it comes to men’s attire. Though it’s one of the most formal dress codes, there are many ways that you can personalize your look, whether it be through bow ties, pocket squares, or cap toe shoes with contrasting panels. If you’re looking to select a new dress or outfit for the occasion, [BHLDN also has a great guide](https://www.bhldn.com/weddingresources/dress-codes-explained?&utm_medium=paid_search&utm_source=google&utm_campaign=National_-_DSA&utm_term=Google_AdGroup&utm_content=Dresses&adpos=&creative=374089247478&device=c&matchtype=b&network=g&gclid=CjwKCAjwyo36BRAXEiwA24CwGXLcY2aLNXt24_W2ABAb-jJHxo9exNWyCkIHKLvwIDwH0ZNVU5R_aRoCfx0QAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds) on how to achieve the perfect black tie formal wedding looks.\n\nBefore you invest in a new suit or floor-length gown, make sure that you clarify whether the wedding dress code is black tie or black tie optional. If it’s the latter, feel free to simply wear the best dress or suit you own, even if it errs a little bit more on the side of [cocktail attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/cocktail-wedding-attire-guide).\n\nA few more things to keep in mind when choosing black tie formal wear:\n\n### It’s Better to Overdress Than Underdress\n\nAside from the rare white tie affair, black tie events are about as fancy as it gets. While comfort is always important, this isn’t the time to try to bend the rules, no matter how much you love a nice pair of flats or casual loafers.\n\nWhen in doubt, simply opt for the fanciest dress or suit you own. Unless the invitation calls for a casual dress code, it’s unlikely for someone to notice if you’re slightly overdressed at a black tie event. However, remember that this isn’t an opportunity to upstage the bride (more on that below). By adhering to the dress code, you’re demonstrating your respect to the couple and their wishes on their big day.\n\n### Adhere to Basic Black Tie Formal Wedding Etiquette Rules\nIf you’ve attended a wedding in the past, then you likely know that white (as well as cream, ivory, and anything else in the “white” family) are typically off limits. Wearing anything too attention-grabbing or something that could be seen as an attempt to “upstage” the bride is also frowned upon. You might be looking for the perfect reason to purchase that red, ruffled organza gown, but if it’s going to mean all eyes are on you instead of the bride, then your friend’s wedding might not be the place to show off your new formal wear. This also means erring on the conservative side when it comes to revealing black tie attire, particularly if the ceremony is in a place of worship.\n\n### Black Tie Doesn’t Always Mean Gowns and Black Tuxedos for a Formal Wedding\nThis point is particularly important to remember for non-binary individuals who might feel left out by the traditional, gendered dress codes that are typical at a formal wedding. Nowadays there are a lot of options, ranging from more gender-fluid alternatives, such as elegant jumpsuits and pantsuits, to trendy, more high-fashion gowns.\n\nIf you’re still not sure what to wear, lean toward classic black tie fabrics, colors, and silhouettes, instead of focusing on a specific outfit or look. Silk and satin generally fit the more upscale nature of this type of event, while colors such as black, navy, and emerald green are also well-suited for a black tie ambience. Details such as shoes, hairstyles, and other accessories can also influence the overall sophistication of your look, so keep those in mind as you plan. The more elegant and refined, the better.\n\n### Keep the Venue in Mind\n\n![How to Dress for a Black Tie Formal Wedding](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2axAqmeG5NuqI4Gid3njiR/ea07df45a8088634a445560ec68cfc90/inline_Zola.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Zola\n\nBlack tie can mean different things at different places. For example, a black tie affair at an art museum may lend itself to a drastically different look than a black tie optional church wedding. While the church ceremony may call for something classic and relatively conservative, the event at the museum may provide room for something elegant with a little bit of personal flair. Generally, black tie events take place in fairly upscale, sophisticated locations, but that isn’t always the case, so just make sure that your formal attire coincides with the venue as much as the event itself.\n\n### Don’t Be Afraid to Clarify\nAs mentioned above, there are differences between black tie and formal black tie optional events, so it can be useful to clarify with the hosts before you dig yourself in a hole. This is particularly relevant for rehearsal dinners, which often go overlooked when it comes to dress codes. It’s best not to make any assumptions until you’ve read all the fine print. For example, the rehearsal dinner to a black tie wedding doesn’t necessarily call for the same upscale formal attire. Just make sure that you double check the [wedding invitation](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop) and [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website) before you reach out to anyone for clarification.\n\n## 8 Black Tie Outfit Ideas for Women\nEven with all of these black tie dress code tips in tow, you still may be lacking some inspiration. No fear, we’ve rounded up a few of our favorite options when it comes to dressing for this special, formal event. Find them below.\n\n### 1. Evening Gown\nTypically, the go-to wedding attire for women at a black tie event is an evening gown. If you choose to go this route, yours should be full-length, meaning the hemline reaches the floor. This shouldn’t be confused with maxi-length dresses, which most often land at your ankle and aren’t considered floor-length dresses. If you’re unsure if your hemline is formal enough, we highly recommend double checking the wedding’s dress code or sending a photo of your potential gown to the couple for their approval before purchasing.\n\n### 2. Upgraded Little Black Dress\nOn the other hand, you can almost always go with classic black. While many semi-formal events call for a nice little black dress, black-tie weddings should have you kicking things up a notch. Look for black gowns with floor-length hemlines and a silhouette you feel confident in. Think classic Bond leading lady. Complete the look with sleek heels and minimal jewelry for a wedding guest outfit that’s timeless and beautiful.\n\n### 3. Sleek Black Tuxedo\nPerhaps you’re one to dress for black tie to a tee. While many (including ourselves) love a great gown moment, you might prefer a crisp and stylish tuxedo. If this sounds like you, this is your opportunity to do it to the nines. Pair your tuxedo with a chic black bow tie or tie, cufflinks, your best dress shirt, and dress shoes. Keep it classic or throw in some personal touches with a colorful pocket square, socks, tie pin, or similar.\n\n### 4. Formal Jumpsuit\nWhile jumpsuits may have not been appropriate for very formal events in the past, they now come in a variety of classy and dressed up styles. So, if neither a dress nor a suit is exactly your kind of look, you can consider this a solid in-between. To keep your jumpsuit formal, we recommend seeking out those with fitted bodices, floor-length hems, and high quality materials. Similar to gowns and suits, aim for a sleek and elegant color.\n\n### 5. High Quality Fabrics\nThe fabric of your attire can complete shape not only how it feels, but how it looks. For example, linen comes off light and airy, ideal for a semi-formal beach wedding. Velvet, satin, sequins, and chiffon, however, can look sleek, stylish, and exceptionally put-together. The latter being ideal for a dress code of this caliber. Just make sure that you’re comfortable enough in a given fabric to sit, stand, and dance the day and/or night away in it.\n\n### 6. Interesting Necklines\nWe’re big fans of spaghettis straps and long sleeves. That said, nothing quite catches the eye and says sophisticated like a high neck, (appropriate) deep-v, off-the-shoulder, or strapless ensemble. As with all formal wear, in the weeks leading up to the wedding you’ll want to make sure that any one of these elements fits well. A high neck can be stunning and sleek—or a little awkward if it’s too loose. In any case, you’ll want to avoid your garment slipping or moving around.\n\n### 7. Jewel Tones\nIf you’re unsure of what color or colors to seek out while outfit shopping—say, the invitation or website didn’t specify—it’s typically your best bet to go with something classically formal. Enter jewel tones. Deep and vivid without being distracting, jewel tones like emerald, ruby, and deep amethyst are formal, flattering, and appropriate for most black-tie wedding ceremonies and receptions.\n\n### 8. Lace and Appliques\nJust the right details can take a gown from simple to extravagant (both of which can be stunning, by the way). A floor-length gown with lace overlay or appliques can look formal, stylish, and interesting—just be sure that you don’t wear any shades close to or including white. Doing so can take a wedding guest dress from lovely and acceptable to suspiciously [bride-like](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/simple-wedding-dresses-that-are-elegant-and-timeless).","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_RealWeddings"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Invited to a white tie wedding? Following the dress code is a must. 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Read on for more inspiration.","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2021-01-04T21:55:48.539Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/75loGr7bNvN8jJgMXjXMs/656f0ed016ac2074846f5f03dfe35f81/Hero_TropicalSummerCelebrationatHiddenCreekCountryClub_CapturedByCaseyPhotography.jpg","altText":"Summer Bridesmaids Dresses"},"heroCredit":" Captured By Casey Photography","body":"Summer is the ultimate wedding season, so when it comes to attire, you’ve got an abundance of options to choose from. But, before you start getting particular, it’s important to know the most common styles of summer bridesmaids dresses for your celebration. \n\n### Cocktail\nPerfect for semi-formal ceremonies, this classic, knee-length number is short enough to work in the summer heat, but formal enough to be beside you in your wedding gown. If you’re looking for summer wedding bridesmaid dresses, the cocktail dress is a great choice. \n\n### Midi/Tea Length\nThis trending [bridesmaid dress](https://www.zola.com/shop/collection/bridesmaid-dresses) style is great for both its versatility and its ability to flatter many different body types.\n\n### Maxi Dress\n![Zola - Summer Bridesmaids Dress Style Guide](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5mWF6qUgk8n8676TheRxc3/202d1988af991ade1d30ef59d9a19696/Inline_Kelsey_Leigh_Photography.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Kelsey Leigh Photography\n\nA bridesmaid classic, the maxi dress can be dressed up or down by playing around with prints, fabrics, and colors to cater to different venues and dress codes. The maxi dress is great for a summer wedding, if you want a longer style.\n\n### Convertible\nThis style of dress has grown in popularity for those who want a subtle, mismatched look. Plus, it gives your bridesmaids the ability to pick a style that works for them on your wedding day.\n\n### Sundress\nIf you’re hoping to have a less formal celebration, these laid-back styles work anywhere from your backyard to a barn or beach.\n\n### Jumpsuit\nGrowing in popularity, this modern twist on the bridesmaid gown is a great alternative for the less traditional bride, and it helps cater to those who may not feel as comfortable in dresses.\n\n+++\n\nSo, you’ve got the primary styles down, but you aren’t sure what works best with your venue or vision for your big day? Consider the wedding descriptions below to help you decide on what would suit you and your bride tribe best.\n\n__For a laid-back, beach wedding?__ [Minimalist maxis.](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/birdygrey_jan_bridesmaid_dress_navy)\n\nThough knee-length sundresses can work as well, simple maxis with an empire waist or breezy silhouette are a great pick for seaside weddings because they take the wind into account. Flowy hems, [delicate ruffles](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/birdygrey_jules_bridesmaid_dress_dustyblue), and off-the-shoulder styles all look great at the beach. The simpler the better, as you don’t want to detract from the views.\n\n__For a black-tie, ballroom affair?__ Sleek [jewel tone](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/birdygrey_gwennie_bridesmaid_dress_emerald) or [sequin gowns](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/adriannapappell_art_deco_beaded_blouson_dress_with_halter_neckline_gunmetal).\n\nIf you’re having a black-tie wedding, your guests are going to be dressed to the nines—so your bridal party needs to be, too. [Form-fitting styles](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/kleinfeldbridalparty_brushed_satin_long_vneck_bridesmaid_dress_cool_tones_lightblue) with ornate details are naturally glamorous, while deep, moody hues give an added sense of sophistication. If you live in a place that’s extremely hot and humid in the summer, consider lighter fabrics and sleeveless styles.\n\n__For a traditional, church ceremony?__ Wrap dresses or [sleeved styles](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/kleinfeldbridalparty_flutter_sleeve_long_bridesmaid_dress_indigo).\n\nWhether you’re going full-length or just below the knee, it’s best to stick to [classic silhouettes](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/khloejaymes_cayla_bridesmaid_dress_silver) when picking bridesmaid dresses for a more traditional, church summer wedding. Flowy sleeves, [high necks](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/fameandpartners_straight_neckline_strappy_twopc), and longer hems are all worth considering. [Convertible styles](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/birdygrey_jane_convertible_bridesmaid_dress_emerald) are also great if your bridesmaids want to mix it up for the reception.\n\n__For an intimate, backyard celebration?__ [Simple sundresses](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/fameandpartners_curved_neckline_backless_sundress).\n\nNo matter the length, color, or print, sundresses are a great pick for brides who are looking for something simple and laid-back for their backyard wedding. Just make sure that you select something with a lot of movement to fit the relaxed ambience of the day. Consider [fun prints](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/kleinfeldbridalparty_floralprint_fauxwrap_bridesmaid_dress_mauve_rose) such as preppy stripes or painterly florals if you want to add some personality or mix it up.\n\n__For an epic, mountainside mini-mony?__ [Mismatched](https://www.pinterest.com/pin/AZqP2MyQVX1Vb4JPJHm873-dm82K9BKyKuOOUi3v3m6pkWX7eZ_PWvw/) or convertible ensembles.\n![Zola - Summer Bridesmaids Dress Style Guide](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2HzYIzAsQYxw6zMHz3pAdh/1231e5ef8fb1b4e98305cf8636c9c77e/Inline_CoreyLynnTuckerPhotography.png)\n*Photo Credit* // CoreyLynnTuckerPhotography\n\nIf you’re having a “mini-mony” at a rustic location such as a national park or mountain cabin, it’s a good idea to give your bridesmaids some flexibility and let them pick something that they’ll be comfortable in. [Convertible dresses](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/birdygrey_christina_convertible_dress_sandytaupe) are great for this reason, though you can also go the mismatched route. Consider sticking to natural, earthy tones to bring out the natural beauty of your surroundings.\n\n__For a romantic, vineyard wedding?__ [Silk slips](https://www.pinterest.com/pin/81979655705730857/).\n\nThough these seamless, midi styles could be worn almost anywhere, they give an added sense of elegance and refinement to semi-formal summer affairs. These work best in muted hues and neutral tones such as [sand](https://www.pinterest.com/pin/233905774385200576/), blush, and [terracotta](https://www.pinterest.com/pin/563018692698237/). If you really want to make a statement, consider hopping on the recent trend of [white and off-white](https://www.pinterest.com/pin/109634572167669575/) bridesmaids gowns.\n\n__For a quaint and classic city ceremony?__ Classic shifts.\n\nWhether it’s at city hall or a historic library, you don’t want anything too fussy or frilly. Think [knee-length shifts](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/adriannapappell_beaded_cocktail_dress_lead), streamlined midis, and dresses with cool, [art deco details](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/adriannapappell_art_deco_blouson_beaded_gown_frostedsage). Sophisticated [jumpsuits](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/kleinfeldbridalparty_oneshoulder_long_bridesmaid_jumpsuit_cashmere) or satin pantsuits in a neutral hue are also a great way to mix it up and make it a little more modern, if the weather is reasonable.\n\nFor a quirky, festival-style celebration? Boho styles in vintage prints.\n\nEyelet lace, [ruffled silhouettes](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/fameandpartners_strappy_wrap_dress_with_ruffled_skirt), and pretty, retro florals are all great considerations for an unconventional, weekend-long wedding celebration. If you really want to bend the rules, consider putting your maids in flirty rompers, instead. [Two-piece sets](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/fameandpartners_straight_neckline_strappy_twopc) are another possibility if you’re looking to have your bridesmaids do a bit of a mismatched look.\n\nWhen it comes to choosing a beautiful dress for your ladies, the sky's the limit. At the end of the day, it's your wedding. Choose a bridesmaid gown that matches the color palette of your wedding, and choose a style that you think will look good on everyone.\n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"There are many different routes you can go with your bridesmaids’ dresses. 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Here are the do’s and don'ts of letting your bridesmaids pick out their own dress. ","author":"Kathleen Wong","publishedAt":"2024-08-13T10:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6kKYuHOeeUvE5sqbavfpLI/a5b85a5d99beac71432d942beadfd696/katelyn-macmillan-5VhSc5jCA2g-unsplash.jpg","altText":"groom with bridesmaids in different dresses"},"heroCredit":"Katelyn Macmillan","tldr":"__Inside this article:__ \n- Why let your bridesmaids choose their own dress?\n- What could go wrong?\n- Guidelines to letting bridemaids pick a dress","body":"__TLDR:__\n- Letting bridesmaids pick their own dresses may seem risky, but it can give them confidence as they end up with a gown they love.\n- Be specific with any guidelines you have, such as if you have a specific color in mind or want a floor length dress.\n- Also, let them know what type of shoes and accessories you'd like your bridal party to wear on your big day.\n\n## Letting bridesmaids pick their own dresses\n\nYou whittled down your social circle into the __[perfect wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one)__ and now it’s time to decide what everyone’s going to wear. While it’s not necessary for the wedding party to wear matching outfits, many couples like to achieve a cohesive look. \n\nTraditionally, bridesmaids wear the same dress or outfit in the chosen wedding color. This helps the bride stand out in her [wedding dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/classic-wedding-dresses-for-the-traditional-bride), makes for visually cohesive photos, and also helps other wedding guests identify the members of the wedding party. \n\nHowever, many couples are loosening the reins and letting __[attendants choose dresses](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop)__ that reflect their individual maid of honor or bridesmaid style. With so much to plan for the wedding day, it may not be necessary to maintain control over everything. Mismatching dresses are one of the best ways to help your bridesmaids feel comfortable. They'll also have more freedom to select a dress that reflects their own style and flatters their body type. \n\nIf you're worried about letting go of control when it comes to mix and match bridesmaid dresses for your big day, don't worry. Or perhaps you just don't care and are willing to give free rein. From choosing bridesmaid dress colors to creating cohesive bridesmaid looks, here’s some wedding inspiration and insights to help you achieve a look that works for your wedding style and for your bridesmaids. \n\n## Why would I let my bridesmaids choose their own dresses?\n \nWe get it: It’s your wedding and it can feel easier to maintain control and just put your girls in the same bridesmaid dress style. However, there are some pluses to giving your attendants this freedom and not having them wear matching bridesmaid dresses.\n\n- __Comfort.__ Anyone who’s ever been a bridesmaid (or dress shopped for that matter) understands that being assigned a specific dress isn’t ideal. What works for one body doesn’t necessarily work for another and the potential resulting discomfort of a unified bridal party look can leave your bridesmaids feeling meh. If they can choose their own dresses, they can seek out different styles, necklines, and cuts that flatter their figures.\n- __Confidence.__ In that same vein, when you look good, you feel good. Let your bridesmaids [choose dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-pick-bridesmaid-dresses) they love (or at least feel comfortable in) and they’ll radiate confidence, not discomfort on your wedding day.\n- __Price.__ Money is often one of the biggest pain points for bridal parties. It’s [expensive to be a bridesmaid](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-bridesmaid-duties)! You don’t have to worry about settling on a price point that fits into everyone’s budget (or feeling guilty for choosing expensive dresses) if you let your bridesmaids choose their own dresses.\n\n![Zola - Mismatched Bridesmaids Dresses: How to Pull Off the Look](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/47xZofgiF7kwAgCW841P3u/2945a2669ac319627e743bc40307f78d/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n\n## Could skipping a specific dress go a little off the rails?\n \nDefinitely. Offering your bridesmaids free rein to select their outfits for your wedding is nerve-wracking. You don’t want to end up with an entirely mismatched situation (unless you do!). There are some cons to letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses.\n- __Cohesion.__ Obviously, if you let your bridesmaids choose their own dresses, they'll probably all pick different styles…and maybe even different colors. If you really want a traditionally cohesive look, maybe reconsider this route.\n- __Confusion.__ Too much of anything isn’t great—the same is true for bridal party freedom. Without any guidelines at all, you may find yourself answering a lot of texts about what’s OK and what’s not—from materials to color to price to length and more.\n\n## Guidelines for letting bridesmaids choose their own dresses\n \nMake the dress hunt easy for your bridesmaids and yourself by being clear about what you really do and don’t want. That way, every one from your maid of honor to junior bridesmaids can feel good in a dress that suits their body type.\n\n### 1. Do: Be specific.\nSure, you told your girls you wanted everyone in pastel green. Great! No, not great. When we say be specific, we mean be specific. If you have a look in mind, be clear about that. Here are some details you may want to be extra clear about:\n\n- __Dress color.__ If you have a dress color in mind, that’s great. However, what looks mauve to one person may be more pale violet to another. Picking a single color can make it difficult for bridesmaids to find dresses in the exact same shade from different vendors. Consider putting together a color palette of 3-4 complementary colors for your [bridesmaids to choose](https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingplanning/comments/pujak6/letting_bridesmaids_pick_dress_style/) from. or offer up a few vendors you’d like for them to order from.\n\n- __Length.__ Some brides don’t mind a variety of hemlines—floor-length, knee-length, mini, midi, etc. If you want all of your bridesmaids in the same length dress, let them know. Alternatively, if you really don’t mind different lengths, let them know that, too.\n\n- __Material.__ Satin, chiffon, charmeuse, crepe, taffeta—the world of dress materials is vast. If all of your bridesmaids are wearing the same exact color, dresses in different materials can be a nice way to add some dimension to the look. However, too many materials can also be a bit distracting. If you don’t want anyone in a jersey knit, make that clear.\n\n- __Style.__ By this, we mean the level of formality. If you’re having a black-tie wedding, you may not want your bridesmaids in semi-formal dresses. Be sure to outline the dress code clearly.\n\nClarity is key. Before you tell your bridesmaids they can choose their own dresses, come prepared with your own suggestions and requirements.\n\n### 2. Don’t: Forget about cost.\nWe like the idea that letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses may remove some of the financial strain. We also like the idea of a bride providing a shortlist (3-5) of dress vendors for the bridal party to choose from. If you go this route, consider selecting different styles you love in a variety of price ranges. Be considerate of your party’s financial situations—and be open to discussing it with any bridesmaid who may be in a tough spot.\n\n![Mismatched Bridesmaid Dresses Yellow](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2hmZIQ3ztPJpdpQndGPd87/bf0699bd01b2345d51b6221c07bbaa1a/Mismatched_Bridesmaid_Dresses_Yellow.jpg)\nPhoto by [Emma Lee Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/emma-lee-photography)\n\n### 3. Do: Make it a group activity.\nYou made a day out of wedding dress shopping…so why not make one out of bridesmaid dress shopping? Go to brunch and then hit the stores. Keep it simple and have a couple of boutiques picked out for the shopping expedition. Note: This may involve making appointments ahead of time. This way, your bridesmaids can choose a variety of dresses and you can be there in person to share immediate impressions. Not only is this just a fun wedding party activity, but it also helps busier bridesmaids find time to shop and nudges along any that err on the side of procrastination.\n\nIf your bridesmaids don’t live in the same area or can’t make the shopping day, that’s OK. Consider scheduling a Facetime with them as they shop. You can also create a dedicated group chat (if you haven’t already) to dress shopping.\n\n### 4. Don’t: Get complicated.\nAbove all, letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses shouldn’t be too complicated or stressful. In fact, it should potentially make things a little easier for you. These girls are your bridesmaids for a reason—and they want to make your wedding day go smoothly. Trust that they’ve got this under control and really, truly, let them take the reins on this one. (Don’t forget to __[thank them for their hard work](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/top-10-ways-to-thank-your-bridesmaids)__ in the planning process, either.)\n\nWho knows, they might even pick a dress they like so much, they’ll wear it again. Isn’t that the best-case scenario for any bridesmaid dress?\n\n### 5. Do: A final check-in.\nThere are the hair and makeup trials, the catering and cake tastings, and, of course, the bridesmaid dress check-in. It’s always a good idea to get on the same page after they've dress shopped and before anything is finalized. Make sure your bridesmaids run their final dress choices by you before they purchase. This way you can see if it fits into your ultimate vision or theme—and you eliminate any surprises and last-minute stress.\n\nGive your bridesmaids an absolute deadline for their final dress check-in. It sounds like a bridezilla move, but, trust us, it benefits them, too. You want everyone to have ample time to either find a new dress or get any necessary alterations. We recommend scheduling your check-in for about seven months ahead of the wedding. Therefore, let bridesmaids pick their own dresses well in advance.\n\n### 6. Don’t: Disregard shoes and accessories.\nBridesmaid attire doesn’t end with the dress. Accessories are everything, especially if you’re going for a mismatched bridesmaid dress look. Choosing a pair of shoes or a specific shoe style and color is an easy way to bring a cohesive look to your bridal party. \n\nIf you don’t have a shoe in mind, be sure to be clear about style. This way you avoid one girl in heels and another in flats. (If one of your bridesmaids needs to wear flats for a personal reason, though, we recommend hearing her out on that, of course.) Alternatively, you may want your bridal party in flats or sneakers. Again, just make sure you’re aligned.\n\nSimilarly, let your bridesmaids know what jewelry you do or don’t want them to wear. Traditionally, brides will purchase and then gift the jewelry they want their bridesmaids to wear. If you want to let them choose their own, that’s cool, too. Be sure, as always, to be clear about style.\n\nAnd don't forget about florals! Bridesmaid bouquets are an accessory in their own right, and will add cohesion to the look of your wedding party. Make sure that whatever flowers you're ordering will complement the bridesmaids' dresses. \n\n![Mismatched Christmas Bridesmaid Winter Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/lGiH566fp4nPH7kj6E8Dt/f3c59ea510b079cf8dbe3584bfa84354/Mismatched_Christmas_Bridesmaid_Winter_Dresses.jpg)\nPhoto by [Bokeh Love Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/bokeh-love-photography-llc)\n\n## 5 Mismatched bridesmaid dress ideas\n \nReady to get down to specifics? Here are some of the approaches you can take when building a mismatched bridal party look.\n\n### 1. Same color, different dress styles\nThis is one of the most straightforward approaches when it comes to choosing different bridesmaid dresses. You have them wearing the same exact color, like dusty blue or burnt orange, and ask your bridesmaids to find whatever dress they want in the chosen color. Add some cohesion to these different styles by giving them certain guidelines—for example, maybe you want them all to wear a maxi dress, or wear dresses that are in the same fabric. \n\n### 2. Same color, different neckline\nIf you're going to be strict about the color and style of the dress, you can give your bridesmaids some flexibility by letting them choose their own neckline. This is one of the best ways to accommodate different body types, as each girl can wear whatever cut she feels comfortable in. For example, maybe your maid of honor has a larger chest and would prefer a dress with straps—while another bridesmaid might love strapless styles.\n\n### 3. Same color, different textures\nTexture is a great way to create visual interest among your different bridesmaid dresses. For example, let's say you're having a [fall wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-look-in-fall-bridesmaid-dresses) and have asked your bridesmaids to wear burnt orange. Maybe one finds a satin dress she loves in the burnt orange shade, while another is drawn to a velvet style. Assign a texture to each maid that not only lets them show off their own personal style, but works well with the textures of the other dresses.\n\n### 4. Different shades of the same color palette\nIf you don't have a specific color in mind, keep it broad and ask bridesmaids to stick to a specific color scheme. For example, you might let your wedding party know to look for shades of green bridesmaid dresses (like sage and forest) or pink bridesmaid dresses (like dusty pink and fuschia). Ideally, this will create a sort of tonal, ombre-inspired look that's perfect for boho weddings.\n\n### 5. Different colors\nIf you want to make a bold statement with your bridal party, get creative by pairing different colors. You can choose a color family, like warm tones or cool tones, or choose a color scheme that reflects the season—for example, jewel tones for a moody winter wedding or pastel shades for a springtime celebration.\n\n![Letting Bridesmaids Pick Their Own Dress](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/0Auo6BBWFwwKMNbZmrGzA/dc4efb283015a188fd07e140c1a3da34/Letting_Bridesmaids_Pick_Their_Own_Dress.jpg)\nPhoto by [Anna So Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/anna-so-photography)\n\n## Thinking beyond the dresses\nEven if you're letting the [bridesmaids choose](https://www.quora.com/Will-you-choose-bridesmaid-dresses-for-your-bridesmaids-or-let-them-choose-their-own-Do-you-want-the-color-to-be-the-same-or-different) their own dress, you still have a lot on your plate while planning your special day. 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Read our full, comprehensive guide on the most appropriate men’s attire that will make you look like you just stepped off the red carpet.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-12-28T17:16:07.930Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ib0hKIbbrVyFqK5kVrTba/419da62e0242fd57217d6ce823673ba4/Hero_Modern_Multi-CulturalWeddingat5226Elm_PaigeNewton.jpg","altText":"How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding"},"heroCredit":"Paige Newton","body":"Whether it’s the Golden Globes or the Grammys, many of us—male and female—watch for the styles. The fashion chatter usually centers around the ladies; however, there is something to be said for a guy who can successfully achieve a red carpet look. So, take your cues from award show fashion to gain inspiration for __[what to wear to a black-tie wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding)__, and forget about any casual attire.\n\nAlthough some guys go off-script and wear colorful and downright outlandish looks, it’s best to stick to the formal dress code rules and formal attire when attending a black-tie wedding. After all, not many can pull off the fashions that Lil Nas X wears at the Grammys. Actually, for most occasions, formal wedding outfits require black-tie attire, which means a tuxedo. A black tie outfit is the height of style, and, consequently, it’s an effortless look to sport. We’ll tell you how with our guide to __[dressing in your black-tie best](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-dress-for-a-black-tie-formal-wedding)__ for an evening wedding.\n\n![How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5xWzi6cRFkonwgW4riVJT5/e43866ef6817ca410e1a3e0da8e0850c/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Black Tie Dress Code Explained\nFirst things first—before we jump into how to dress for a black tie wedding, let's quickly cover where, exactly, the black-tie dress tie comes from.\n\nBlack tie is a semi-formal dress code that dates back to the 19th century. The dress code was popularized both in Britain and America. Both tuxedos and dark suits fall under the \"black tie\" umbrella—and while the dress code is semi-formal, it's generally [appropriate wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding) for more formal events.\n\n## The Perfect Pieces for a Black-Tie Wedding Look\nBlack-tie attire means that you should be wearing a black tuxedo or a dark suit (black suits, dark blue suits, and gray suits are all appropriate), but you can still let your personality shine through. With a few simple guidelines, you can put an outfit together worthy of the red carpet or wedding aisle.\n\n- __Tuxedo Jacket__ : Like the many takes on the classic cocktail dress, there are several __[styles of jackets](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_jacket)__. that work for black tie looks, like dinner jackets, tuxedo jackets, and more formal blazers. However, the common denominator in men’s black-tie suiting is the presence of satin on the lapels (whether it’s a notch lapel, peak lapel, or shawl lapel). Satin fabric also hides the buttons, which elevates the look of any black tux. Although black dress is the standard for black-tie events, darker tones of blue (like midnight blue) are acceptable. A good rule of thumb is to leave the single button closure fastened while standing, to maintain a fitted look (which can also be enhanced by a slim fit cut). \n\n- __Trousers__ : [Pants should match](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_pants) the jacket in both fabric and color. Satin goes down the outside seam on each pant leg, which serves to enhance the look. \n\n- __Crisp, Collared Shirt__ : A white shirt is the only acceptable color, but there is a little leeway with styling. Some tuxedo shirts are wing-tipped, but a [well-constructed oxford](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_tuxedo_shirt) would also suffice. Authentic tux shirts also have small pleats vertically across the chest to add interest. If you don't have an authentic tux shirt, ensure that your white dress shirt looks up to par. \n\n- __Black Shoes__ : Shiny, patent leather shoes are the norm for tuxedos, although quality black leather shoes or loafers will also do the trick. Don’t forget to wear socks. Over the calf, dark socks are ideal.\n\n- __Black Bow Tie__ : A [bow tie](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_bow_tie) allows those tiny pleats in the shirt to have their moment in the sun. Black is the traditional color, and be sure that your necktie neckwear is solid, not patterned.\n\n- __White Pocket Square__ : Dark jackets are in stark contrast to a pure white pocket square. However, it’s incredible how a [tiny square of fabric](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/birdygrey_didi_pocket_square_dustyblue) can create a cohesive look.\n\n- __Cufflinks__ : Unless you’re wearing an oxford, most tuxedo shirts close at the wrist with [cufflinks](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/edelweissjewelry_zola_love_collection_cufflinks_14kyellowgold). particularly if you’re wearing lengthier French cuffs. Subtly is better than going crazy with color, and be sure to match your cufflinks with other metals that you’re wearing. \n\n- __Studs__ : Although you will look like a stud in a tux, that’s not quite where we’re going with this. Upon close inspection, most tuxedo shirts have studs instead of buttons. These aren’t 100 percent necessary, but they do add to the look. Also, be sure to match metals with your cufflinks and other jewelry pieces. \n\n- __Vest or Cumberbund__ : These pieces are never meant to be worn in tandem. Covering your midsection with a cummerbund or vest is posh, but not completely necessary. If you do decide to wear one, remember that this isn’t high school. Black is best, so stay away from vibrant colors meant for prom.\n\n![How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/78mHneRzRZEno1T3RJAHp0/7b5a54fa7ba993829e03dedf46a4dea2/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Where to Get a Tux for a Black-Tie Wedding\n\n### How to Rent a Tuxedo Locally\nMost guys don’t have a tux hanging in their closet, but if they do, chances are that it doesn’t get much use. That’s where rentals come in handy. Many local bridal salons and upscale men’s shops rent tuxedos to grooms and other wedding party members. So if you need a black tie outfit, chances are that they can get you one, too.\n\n#### Pros of Renting a Tux Locally\nAn advantage of heading somewhere in person is that you can ensure a perfect fit. Also, if something is wrong—a missing button or loose hem—they can order another piece or fix it on site. You can also see fabrics and styles in person, which is a huge plus. \n\n#### Cons of Renting a Tux Locally\nThe downside to renting is usually drop-off times, especially if you’re traveling and rent at your final destination. Returning your tux before an early Sunday morning flight may prove difficult.\n\n### How to Rent a Tux Online\nIt seems that you can do just about anything with the internet at your fingertips, and renting a tux is one of them. Many businesses specialize in formalwear rentals, so be sure to select a longstanding one with a good reputation.\n\n#### Pros of Renting a Tux Online\nQuite often, companies have strict measurement guidelines on their website. However, many online rental sites will send you a tuxedo to test out before the main event. They are also a bit more flexible with return times, giving up to 72 hours to ship your pieces back.\n\n#### Cons of Renting a Tux Online\nAlthough rentals usually come with quick shipping, it’s tough to solve problems right away if something arrives damaged. Unless you can do a try on ahead of time, selecting fabrics and styles from afar can prove challenging. \n\n### Where to Buy a Tuxedo\nIf you’re the exception and have quite a few black-tie events coming up, investing in a tuxedo can save money in the long run. Many men’s clothiers sell tuxedos, although purchasing online is also an option. Be sure to order it well in advance of your black-tie wedding so that you can make exchanges if necessary.\n\n## In the Case of Black-Tie Optional\nYikes! You’re all set with what black-tie is, but the invitation adds one tiny, scary word after it—optional. Don’t worry. Demystifying the terminology is easier than it sounds, but this never, ever means that jeans and your favorite band t-shirt are okay.\n\nBlack-tie optional attire for weddings is a bit more relaxed than a tuxedo. Often, couples choose this option to alleviate any financial burden for their guests. After all, the expense of traveling and buying a wedding gift is enough without having to spring for new suiting. So, seeing the word “optional” is a good thing. \n\nThink of it as mimicking a tuxedo without wearing one. Dark suiting with a crisp, white shirt and black shoes are ideal. Also, add traditional accessories, such as a pocket square, dark bow tie, and cufflinks. Skip the studs and cummerbund, but feel free to wear a vest if you have one that matches your suit.\n\nThe rule of thumb is to stick to the dress code and wear your most formal wear. If you don’t own a suit, it’s probably the time to invest in one, or you could go the tuxedo rental route.\n\n*__Quick tip:__ Black-tie optional can also be referenced as “black-tie preferred.”*\n\nSo, whether you’re headed to a black-tie wedding or are one of the fortunate ones to walk the red carpet at a black-tie event, use our guide to get it right. With a few key pieces—either borrowed or purchased—you’ll soon be looking your best at the season’s best events. Which, of course, includes weddings.\n\n## 10 Black Tie Wedding Attire Ideas for Men\nLooking for some help with black tie attire? We’ve come up with these formal wedding outfit ideas to help you nail your look.\n\n### 1. Pronto Uomo Modern Fit Tuxedo Coat\nThis black __[Pronto Uomo tuxedo coat](https://www.menswearhouse.com/p/pronto-uomo-modern-fit-suit-separates-tuxedo-coat-black-3X933X9410)__ is a sleek and elegant choice for any black tie affair. The trim and modern fit provides plenty of comfort and mobility and features a two-button design and satin notch lapel. This tuxedo coat retails for $219.99 at Men’s Wearhouse.\n\n### 2. Stretch Tuxedo Shirt\nThis __[Stretch Tuxedo Shirt](https://bonobos.com/products/stretch-tuxedo-shirt)__ is a comfortable and snappy component of any black-tie outfit. The shirt features attractive mother-of-pearl buttons and double-knife pleats for some added texture. French cuffs tie the look together with an added touch of elegance—and ample opportunity to show off your favorite pair of cufflinks. This shirt retails for $179 from Bonobos.\n\n### 3. Barathea Tuxedo Pants\nFor a classic look that ties your look together, these black __[Barathea Tuxedo Pants](https://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=442547002)__ are the answer. These pants are made from 100% virgin wool from one of Italy’s oldest mills and tailored with a slim fit for a comfortable, natural look that works in any season. Available for $220 from Banana Republic.\n\n### 4. Black and Burgundy Paisley Tuxedo Vest Set\nElevate your look with this __[Black and Burgundy Paisley Tuxedo Vest Set](https://paulmalone.com/collections/tuxedo-vests/products/black-and-burgundy-paisley-tuxedo-vest-set)__. The set includes a wine red and black paisley microfiber vest, matching pocket square, and your choice of a matching necktie or pre-tied cravat—though you can also pair it with your favorite bow tie. Altogether, this set is an affordable and stylish solution for any formal wedding or black-tie event. Available for $39.97 from Paul Malone.\n\n### 5. Steel and Onyx Tuxedo Studs\nAccessorizing isn’t always the easiest—especially with black-tie attire. Fortunately, these __[Steel and Onyx Tuxedo Studs](https://propercloth.com/products/steel-and-onyx-tuxedo-studs-431.html)__ are the perfect addition for a modern and classy take on a tux. These steel studs are Italian-made and come four to a set, with each featuring a black onyx face. These tuxedo studs retail for $75 from Proper Cloth.\n\n### 6. Personalized Rose Gold Round Cufflinks\nThough some cufflinks fly under the radar, these __[Personalized Rose Gold Round Cufflinks](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cathysconcepts_personalized_rose_gold_round_cuff_links_u)__ make a statement. The elegant rose gold adds a bit of contrast to your getup—while the engraveable face adds a personalized touch. Available from Zola for $27.99.\n\n### 7. Cummerbund\nThis __[Cummerbund](https://theblacktux.com/collection/accessory/cummerbund)__ can help you truly embrace the formality of a black-tie outfit. Made of plain black silk and with adjustable backing, this cummerbund won’t cramp your style on the dancefloor, but will help you stand out as someone who respects tradition. Available to rent for $15 or to purchase for $30 from The Black Tux.\n\n### 8. Tux Plain Toe Derby\nLet your style shine with these liquid-shine __[Tux Plain Toe Derby](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/florsheim-tux-plain-toe-derby-men/4873534)__ patent leather dress shoes. These shows are elegant in their simplicity, with a cushioned footbed to keep you comfortable through the day’s—and night’s—festivities. Available from Nordstrom for $124.95.\n\n### 9. Cotton Pocket Square\nTo add a bit of color to your black-tie outfit, incorporate this stylish and formal light blue __[Cotton Pocket Square](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/deltoro_cotton_pocket_square_lightblue)__. This timeless accessory is made in Lake Como, Italy, from a high-quality cotton that helps elevate your look for any formal affair. Available from Zola for $25.\n\n### 10. Classic-Fit UltraFlex Stretch Black Solid Tuxedo Separates\nShopping for the various bits of a formal ensemble can be overwhelming and time-consuming. Fortunately, this set of __[Classic-Fit UltraFlex Stretch Black Solid Tuxedo Separates](https://www.macys.com/shop/product/lauren-ralph-lauren-mens-classic-fit-ultraflex-stretch-black-solid-tuxedo-separates?ID=10503427)__ has almost everything you need to meet a black-tie dress code. Separates include a tuxedo jacket, pants, and vest, giving you the opportunity to accessorize however you see fit. Retails for $56.25 - $202.50 from Macy’s.\n\n## FAQs About Black Tie Dress Code\nStill not 100% clear on what the black tie dress code is—and how to ensure your wedding attire fits that dress code? Let's take a look at some frequently asked questions about black tie wedding attire to give some additional perspective:\n\n1. __What is the difference between a tuxedo and a suit?__ The main difference between a tuxedo and a suit is that tuxedos have a host of satin features—like lapels, buttons, and pant stripes—that suits do not.\n\n2. __What kinds of weddings have black tie dress codes?__ The black tie dress code is reserved for events that take place in the evenings—so weddings that start after 6pm or so may have a black tie dress code, while more casual daytime affairs would not.\n\n3. __What is the difference between a black tie and a white tie wedding dress code?__ White tie is the most formal dress code—and as such, is reserved for formal occasions. Black tie is considered semi-formal.\n\n4. __What should you do if you're invited to a black tie wedding—but don't have a tuxedo?__ Not to worry! Most men don't own tuxedos. There are plenty of places where you can rent a tuxedo, whether you're a wedding guest or in the wedding party—and if that's not an option, a dark suit would also be appropriate.\n\n5. __Is there any way to incorporate color into black tie wedding attire?__ While there aren't many opportunities for incorporating color into black tie wedding attire, if it's important to you, you could add a pop of color with accessories, like a pocket square.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Learn the ins and outs of semi-formal attire for men. 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Luckily, Zola has you covered with this easy guide. Read on now.","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-14T18:17:19.140Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6FbTEkIOvwhgnjNVFfvbPU/9fed0ee78b65647114b0bbc7e741fe5a/inline_hewittphotography.jpg","altText":"Cocktail wedding Attire"},"heroCredit":"Hewitt Photography","body":"Cocktail attire is generally associated with knee-length dresses, sophisticated heels, and simple suits. However, as one of the most popular (and versatile) dress codes, there are numerous ways that you can incorporate your own personal style in dressing for this type of wedding...starting with long dresses.\n\nFrom the color and fabric of the dress, to the hairstyle and accessories you pair with it, a maxi dress can easily pass as proper cocktail attire, if styled correctly. Below are a few pieces of advice to make sure that you’re picking the right gown and accessorizing it accordingly for a semi-formal ceremony.\n\n### Seasonality Matters\nIf the wedding takes place in the winter, no one is going to bat an eye at the fact that you’re wearing a long dress—if anything, it’s likely expected. All that the cocktail or semi-formal attire request means in the colder months is that you’re welcome to pick a more casual option than what you’d choose for a black-tie event. For example, while you may have picked a silk, emerald green number for a black-tie wedding, you might go for a long, cotton gown with moody florals instead. \n\n### Pick Your Silhouette (and Fabric) Wisely\nA fitted, full-length gown gives off a very different vibe than a flowy maxi with a slit. When planning what length of dress to wear, consider what would seem most cocktail-appropriate and feel the most comfortable to you. If you normally opt for more fitted dresses, maybe consider a knee-length shift or an A-line number, instead. However, if you’re comfortable in something with a lot of movement, then a lightweight maxi-dress is perfectly appropriate.\n\nIn addition to shape, fabrics play an important role in the overall formality of the dress. Fabrics such as satin, velvet, crepe, and organza are generally more suited for black-tie—unless you plan to really dress them down with accessories—while lightweight silk, cotton, and linen blends are much more fitting for a cocktail maxi-dress. Slits and high-low hems are also a fun way to dress down your ensemble, while incorporating a bit of personality.\n\n### Consider the Venue\n\n![Can you wear a long dress for cocktail attire?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4Af8XXHF0YtCmGwrEMXBKy/3ce3bccca2feadc1dafb2771656c2196/inline_chrislanephotography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Chris Lane Photography\n\nIf it’s a backyard wedding or farm setting, then you might not want your dress sweeping the floor the whole evening (or have to wear heels to keep your hem clean). Once you receive the official invitation (or link to the couple’s wedding website!), look up the venue and try to get a good idea of the types of surfaces that you’ll be walking on. There’s always the chance that they’ll rent flooring for the day, but you don’t want to have to rely on it. If you go long, try something that isn’t a ground-duster, or opt for a pair of comfy wedges to add a few inches.\n\n### Opt for Alternative Colors and Prints\nBecause you’re picking a slightly more formal silhouette by going full-length, you can go a little more casual with your color and print choices. If it’s a spring or summer event, maxi dresses in terra cotta or mustard tones are great options, as are dainty florals in vibrant colors. For fall and winter events, jewel tones are always a wise choice, but long-sleeved dresses in moody florals and vintage prints are fun alternatives, too. If you do choose a print, make sure that you pick more subtle accessories so that the look doesn’t become too busy, or make it seem like you’re trying to steal the show.\n\n### Keep It Natural\nIf you’ve got your heart set on wearing a full-length dress, then keep your hair and makeup as laid back as possible. There’s a big difference between cat eyes and a tightly pulled updo, versus relaxed, tousled waves and some subtle lipstick. Details such as undone braids, beachy waves, and natural, kinky curls are great options to complement a less formal maxi. So long as you’re considering the seasons and venue, details such as a low bun, a little bit of extra eye makeup, or a statement lip can work, too.\n\n### Dress It Down With Accessories\nEarrings, hairpieces, shoes, and bags are some of the simplest ways to dress an outfit up or down. Instead of a sparkly clutch, maybe opt for a relaxed crossbody bag in a fun color, instead. For a fall wedding, consider adding a sophisticated leather jacket over your floral maxi dress. A fancier alternative to a denim jacket, a leather jacket keeps you warm, but also ensures that you don’t look out of place. For a summer event, consider tasteful wedges or block heels in a fun print. Flats are also an option, if they’re polished enough (particularly if they’re in an unexpected fabric such as velvet or satin).\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_WeddingBoutique"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"It’s easy to pick an outfit for a formal wedding, but what about a casual attire wedding? Read on to get some pointers on what to wear to a casual attire wedding. ","title":"Casual Wedding Attire Guide","slug":"casual-wedding-attire-guide","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6uuL6M77rEUl8NuQmPGrI6/12ef1b1f643341a710ceb9d7a3e01e3c/inline_cbrownphoto__1_.jpg","altText":"how to dress for a casual wedding dress code"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Discover the ultimate guide on what to wear for a black-tie wedding. 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Eyes will be on you throughout the wedding day and into the evening—and odds are you’ll be featured in many photos. Plus, you’ll want to feel your best. With all of this is mind, we’ve put together a comprehensive groom’s and groomsmen's attire guide.\n\n## What's the Difference?\n\nFirst thing’s first: What are the main differences between groom and groomsmen attire? Because suits and tuxedos can look fairly similar (especially in like colors), a few things a groom can do to stand out from his groomsmen are as follows:\n\n- Don a boutonniere. Doing so will also ensure that you coordinate with your partner.\n\n- Wear a different [tie](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-tie-for-groomsmen) or bowtie. This works especially well if your groomsmen’s are all matching.\n\n- Include a print. Wear a patterned blazer or suit jacket over your dress shirt, or patterned accessories, like socks or your pocket square.\n\n- Elevate your look. Differentiate yourself by wearing a different color, high quality fabric, or structure and silhouette. For example, if your groomsmen are wearing light gray or black, opt instead for dark gray or navy. Think along the lines of a bridal gown vs a bridesmaid’s dress.\n\nWith this in mind, read on for our guide.\n\n## Appropriate Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nSo, what is [appropriate](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/groomsmen-etiquette-101-a-beginners-guide) groom and groomsmen wedding attire? Here are some things to keep in mind:\n\n- The groom’s and groomsmen’s outfits should match the formality of the wedding and the venue.\n\n- Popular groom and groomsmen attire for more formal events include suits and tuxedos, while informal weddings allow for dress shirts and slacks.\n\n- If the groom’s attire matches the groomsmen, it’s important that everyone follows the dress code and goes shopping months in advance.\n\n- If the groom wants to stand out from the groomsmen, styling tricks can distinguish him from members of the wedding party.\n\n- Some grooms want all of their groomsmen to dress individually and not match one another. In these cases, establish a dress code and color palette for everyone to follow.\n\n## Groomsmen Attire FAQs\n### How to Choose Groomsmen Attire\nWhen it comes to selecting and even browsing for groomsmen clothing, there are several factors to be considered. Keeping these top-of-mind can be a tremendous aid in helping you decide on outfit pieces, fabrics, colors, fits, and more.\n\n- __Season.__ The season the wedding takes place in can have a large influence on what’s worn—especially if it’s an outdoor wedding. Take your cues from the weather and seasonal color palettes for attire that fits seamlessly.\n\n- __Time of Day.__ Depending on the season and your location, temperatures can vary drastically, from midday to late in the night. Consider what time (or times) of day you’ll be celebrating and dress accordingly. For example, if you’ll be out in the hot sun most of the time, you’ll want to opt for lighter, breezier fabrics.\n\n- __Wedding Venue.__ You wedding venue dictates much of the feeling and atmosphere of a wedding. Try to match its level of formality when deciding on your attire.\n\n- __Wedding’s Theme or Dress Code.__ Perhaps most crucial, pay special attention to any information the couple gives you prior to the wedding. Most often, you’ll be notified via invitation or wedding website of the wedding style and dress code. Take note of this when looking for an outfit—and always double check with the couple if you aren’t sure.\n\n### What Should the Groom and Groomsmen Wear?\nA [wedding’s venue](https://zola.app.link/o9Wx4NVYvcb) and [theme](https://zola.app.link/vxkYfJyN71) should inform what a groom and his groomsmen wear. It’s been said before, but it will be said again: Your outfit’s level of formality should reflect your wedding theme and wedding venue. If you’re getting married in your parents’ backyard, you don’t need to rock a tuxedo (unless that’s your thing). Likewise, nuptials at a place of worship call for a certain style of dress—it’s not appropriate to wear flip flops and a golf shirt in a church.\n\n### Who Pays for the Groomsmen Attire?\nAs with most things involved in wedding planning, this ultimately depends on the couple’s preferences. Most often, each individual groomsmen—as well as other members of the wedding party—will purchase or rent their own attire for the big day. Because of this, they usually also have a say in what they end up wearing. That said, there are cases in which the groom, couple, of even the groom’s parents will offer to chip in to cover some (or all) outfit expenses. This, however, highly depends on their budget and dress expectations.\n\nIn any case, communication about who’s going to pay should be communicated ASAP. Read: Before anyone agrees to be a groomsman. It’s crucial that everyone has all of the information they need, such as spending expectations, before committing.\n\n## 6 Groomsmen Attire Options\nOnce you determine how formal or informal you can be, decide what you want to wear. Some popular options for grooms and groomsmen include:\n\n### Formal Attire\n1. __[Tuxedos](https://zola.app.link/y2nb5n96Ocb)__. Tuxes are great for formal weddings and black-tie events. They can be worn during all four seasons, and are great for both indoor and outdoor weddings.\n\n2. __Dark suits__. These days, a nice two- and three-piece dark suit is acceptable for a wedding with a formal dress code. Make sure your suit is well fitted and pressed before the day of.\n\n### Semi-Formal Attire\n3. __[Suits](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-groom-and-groomsmen-suits)__, either three-piece or two-piece. A three-piece suit can be worn at formal weddings or semi-formal affairs. Two-piece groomsmen suits are a bit more casual and can be dressed down, even more so when the jacket is removed. In any case ,wedding suits should fit well and be pressed.\n\n### Casual Attire\n\n![How Many Groomsmen Is Normal? | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4BCAiHkxjk12bywl5iorO4/520a78ffa33671b2c8e4747187f5b956/inline_shutterstock_1_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Shutterstock\n\n4. __[Vest](https://zola.app.link/HcXfoUd7Ocb)__, __dress shirt__, __and slacks__. A play on the two-piece suit, wearing a vest over a dress shirt is a great look for more informal events or summer weddings.\n\n5. __[Dress shirt](https://zola.app.link/eLaNHDg7Ocb)__ __and slacks__. Paired with a tie or bow tie, this look can be accentuated by suspenders or a nice leather belt.\n\n6. __Shirt and khakis__. For informal or casual spring/summer weddings, skip the dress pants altogether and sport a pair of chinos with a nice shirt—tie optional.\n\n## Matching Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nTraditionally, a groom and his groomsmen wear matching tuxedos or suits, but today there are no hard rules. If you want the groom and groomsmen to wear the same attire, whether it be a suit or a dress shirt and pants, consider the following:\n\n- What is your [wedding theme](https://zola.app.link/vxkYfJyN71)/what are your wedding colors? If you’re having a fall, rustic wedding and are incorporating colors of blush and burgundy, the groom and groomsmen should follow suit. Gray suits with burgundy ties, for example, would be a way to stay on-theme.\n\n- What are everyone’s budget and location? It’s important to [talk about money when you’re at a wedding party](https://zola.app.link/gxLaAGyN71) to ensure that everyone can afford the same outfit. This can help determine whether you will rent, buy, or borrow garments. Remember that location affects availability and suit fitting appointments if you’re going the custom route.\n\n- Plan months in advance. If your groom and groomsmen attire matches, go shopping at least four to six months in advance to allow for enough time to order and tailor garments.\n\n- Another tip? Regardless of whether all groomsmen get fitted for their outfits at the same time and place, or do it individually, it’s a good idea to have everyone’s measurements [sent to the tailor two to four months before the wedding](https://zola.app.link/INwxgJyN71)—especially during peak wedding season—to ensure that everyone gets their clothing back on time.\n\nA popular style is for groomsmen to match one another, but the groom wears a slightly different, yet complementary, look. If you want the groomsmen to match, but the groom to stand out, consider the following:\n\n- Have the groomsmen’s attire match your wedding theme, but make the groom’s suit or tux slightly different by picking a feature color and highlighting it in different ways. For example, if forest green is one of your wedding colors, have the groomsmen wear green ties and [gray suits](https://zola.app.link/cE3oSTw7Ocb), while the groom wears a forest green suit and gray tie. This is a way to have everyone look good while standing together, yet still allowing the groom to stand out.\n\n## Mismatched Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nIf matching isn’t your thing, that’s cool. No groom and groomsmen need to dress the same. It’s important, however, that everyone at least looks cohesive and adheres to a dress code. A groomsman wearing linen pants will look odd next to a groomsman in a black tuxedo. The groom should set the tone and let everyone know how formal or casual they can dress and what color palette to stick to.\n\nIf you want all groomsmen to sport a navy two-piece suit, communicate what is appropriate. It’s one thing to say, “Everyone wears a blue suit!” but make sure that you also include dress shirts, ties, and shoe styles and colors. If your wedding is more casual and the groom is wearing nice slacks and a dress shirt, the groomsmen should follow. Use terms such as “business casual” and “semi-formal dress” to help the wedding party understand the level of formality that you want them to follow. Use photographs and share ideas with them. It’s a good idea to see (and approve) all groomsmen’s outfits before the wedding to make sure that they a) look good with what the groom is wearing, and b) are within the dress code. This helps to avoid any last-minute fashion disasters.\n\nIf the groom and groomsmen's attire doesn’t match, you can incorporate accessories to weave everyone together. Matching socks, ties or boutonnieres are all ways to let the groom and groomsmen stand out from one another, yet still complement each other’s looks.\n\nThe type of wedding you’re planning will dictate what the groom and groomsmen should wear. Look to other aspects of your wedding planning, such as venue, season, formality, and whether or not you want the groom and members of his wedding party to match. There’s no right or wrong way to dress for a wedding, but there are ways to ensure that everyone’s attire looks cohesive and fantastic.","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Do the groomsmen pay for their groomsmen suits, or does that financial responsibility fall on the groom?","title":"Who Pays for the Groomsmen Suits?","slug":"who-pays-for-the-groomsmen-suits","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3t9k4RlVKl3wuoJpk0QAQN/02946995cdf688fa2269c7de00dc8b4d/Hero_GreatGatsbyWeddingatBridgesGolfClub_GriegCooperPhotographer.jpg","altText":"Who Pays for the Groomsmen Suits"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Read this guide to find out how to determine whom to ask to act as groomsmen in your wedding.","title":"How to Choose Your Groomsmen","slug":"how-to-choose-your-groomsmen","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5MPuNf6pXjbi9AyamCOjm0/0f9689ecf33ee1396edb47d5d320387d/Hero_TimelessWeddingatCodmanEstate_MeiLinBarralPhotography.jpg","altText":"How to Choose Your Groomsmen"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"You don’t just want to look good on your big day; you want your groomsmen to look sharp, too. 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We've compiled a list of 10 places to shop plus moodboards for every wedding style.","publishedAt":"2024-08-13T16:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4mMWGycb0RlzWGFZTAJQt2/d899aec4756f6b7c139dd89e2dd3838e/androgynous-attire-for-weddings-hero.jpg","altText":"A woman wearing androgynous wedding attire during the sunset. "},"heroCredit":"Fly View Productions","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com","tldr":"__Inside this article:__ \n- How to find androgynous formal wear\n- Where to get androgynous wedding attire\n- How to personalize androgynous formal wear for every wedding type","body":"__TLDR:__\n- If you're looking for androgynous formal wear, be sure to consider your budget and preferred style before purchasing. \n- Several shops, like Duchess Clothier and SuitShop are perfect for fulfilling your androgynous wedding guest attire needs.\n- Consult our guide for styling for every type of [androgynous wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/gender-non-conforming-wedding-attire). Whether romantic, class, boho or beyond, we have visual cues to help.\n\n## Searching for androgynous wedding guest attire?\nDeciding what to [wear as a wedding guest](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/dos-donts-wedding-guest-fashion) is definitely not as easy as sampling everything at the [buffet table](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-food-ideas). But finding an outfit you love will make you feel your best and boost your confidence.\n\nIf a gender-neutral style is your style of choice, there are plenty of ways you can create a formal wear look that will make you feel your best. From classic to laid-back, we'll show you just how and where to find androgynous [wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding) and how you can style it depending on any wedding theme.\n\n## How to find androgynous formal wear \nWhether you're an experienced wedding attendee or this is your first time celebrating your favorite lovebirds, finding the perfect wedding attire can be overwhelming, especially if you're set on finding the perfect gender neutral wedding outfit. \n\nWe here at Zola have you covered with all of your wedding wear needs. Here are some steps on how to find androgynous wedding attire.\n\n### 1. Set a budget\nTo help avoid overspending and narrow down your options, the first step in finding the perfect androgynous wedding attire is to [set a budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/planning-101/budgeting). \n\nDecide how much you're willing to spend on the wedding outfit, taking into account not only necessary adjustments, such as [tailoring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-do-wedding-dress-alterations-cost), but also any accessories, shoes, and makeup you'll have to purchase. Do some research by looking at stores online and local boutiques to help you come up with a budget that makes sense.\n\n### 2. Decide on your preferred style\nAlthough having a budget will help you narrow down which stores to go to, having a general idea of what style of clothing you're looking for will help you figure out where to go. Consider your preferred style choices, what makes you feel the most comfortable, and the [wedding theme](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-themes). \n\nHaving a look in mind will make the process easier and faster. Find inspiration by looking at current fashion trends and social media accounts of people with a similar style as yours.\n\n### 3. Consider how much time you have\nLastly, consider how much time you have to find your gender-neutral wedding outfit since it will likely dictate whether you should shop online or in person. If you're short on time, might need your outfit tailored, or want to try it on first, find a couple of local stores to go to. Otherwise, shopping online can give you a wide range of options to choose from—just be sure to account for shipping times.\n\n![Androgynous Wedding Guest Attire](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ueZ9Qeq5seT7GOemiI1SN/546e8e8a38b3c4f83b6aba4831ebb05c/Androgynous_Wedding_Guest_Attire.jpg)\nPhoto by [Creatrix Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/creatrix-photography)\n\n## Where to get androgynous wedding attire \nIf you're still looking for places to shop for an outfit, there are many stores focusing on androgynous formal wear. These stores' main purpose is to provide you with an array of gender-neutral pieces, from formal wear to casual pieces, that will help you look and feel your best. Here are some that we recommend:\n\n### 1. The Tailory New York\nAnother custom suit option with online fittings is [The Tailory New York](https://thetailorynyc.com/), a women-owned clothing company that combines custom tailoring with modern fashion design. If you're looking for a bold and ambitious look, The Tailory has different clothing styles and colors, from modern fairytale to street chic. Their suits and tuxedos start at $1,450.\n\n### 2. Bindle & Keep\n\n[Bindle & Keep](https://www.bindleandkeep.com/) offers suits that are made just for you. If you want to have a suit created for your exact measurements, Bindle & Keep will do fittings both in person and online. They divide their suit options into three different pricing tiers varying by fabric, which ranges from $995 to $1,395. If you're considering custom-made androgynous wedding attire from Bindle & Keep, make sure to order ahead of time as their turnaround time is between 10 and 11 weeks.\n\n### 3. WILDFANG\nIf you're looking for a place where you can buy your everyday clothes but also find formal wear for your special event, [WILDFANG](https://www.wildfang.com/) is a good option. Its mission is to rethink gender norms and focus on androgynous outfits. At their store, you'll be able to find blazers, [dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-spring-wedding), and even accessories at a more affordable price, ranging from $70 to $200.\n\n### 4. Duchess Clothier\nIf you're looking for another made-to-fit option, [Duchess Clothier](https://www.duchessclothier.com/) creates androgynous outfits for every body and occasion. Their store is located in Portland, OR, where you'll get plenty of separate suit and shoe options, but they also let you create your own look by mixing and matching pieces. The price for their suits starts at $1,120 and they offer packages that also include dress shirts, ties, and pocket squares.\n\n### 5. Kirrin Finch\n[Kirrin Finch](https://kirrinfinch.com/) seeks to create fitting clothes that make you feel confident and comfortable. Their attire is designed to fit bodies of all shapes and sizes. They offer a wide range of androgynous formal wear, from dress shirts to suits and blazers. Prices range from $150 to $400 and offer a variety of silhouettes and colors.\n\n![Kirrin Finch Androgynous Formal Wear](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1lW1ojxP5jTJEjgXs2OkJu/98f85f274d87bcead990e2b668f5ee64/Kirrin_Finch_Androgynous_Formal_Wear.jpg)\n\n### 6. SuitShop\nIf you're looking for a more affordable option, or even considered [renting](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-does-a-tuxedo-rental-cost), [SuitShop](https://suitshop.com/) can provide you with high-quality clothing for a price that will make you feel as good as you look. At SuitShop, you can own a suit for as little as $199, and you'll get a variety of options to choose from with inclusive sizing. Plus, you can try your androgynous wedding attire for free for seven days.\n\n### 7. Birdy Grey\nAlthough [Birdy Grey](https://www.birdygrey.com/) fancies itself a [bridesmaid](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-bridesmaid-duties) dress retailer, they also offer options for suits and tuxedos that are tailored to perfection. At the online retailer, you'll also see a variety of shoes and accessories that are perfect for any wedding theme. Their gender-neutral wedding outfits are also affordable, starting at $199.\n\n### 8. Peau de Loup\n[Peau de Loup](https://www.peaudeloup.com/)'s goal is to make clothes for bodies and not genders, offering high-quality and limited clothing that accommodates curves. Aside from finding your androgynous wedding attire there, you'll also be able to get shoes, accessories, and casual clothing. Their formal wear is affordable, with prices starting at $98.\n\n### 9. HauteButch\nAnother brand that creates masculine clothing to fit women's bodies is [HauteButch](https://hautebutch.com/), a queer Black-owned brand. This small company creates innovative and diverse styles that represent who you are. They sell suits, vests, and accessories in a variety of styles and colors, with suits starting at around $200.\n\n### 10. Sharpe Suiting\n[Sharpe Suiting](https://sharpesuiting.com/) will help you achieve a look that will both fit your body and your style. They specialize in wedding attire and use their trademarked body measuring formula called “Andropometrics” to deliver you a custom suit. The process of purchasing a custom outfit will take around eight weeks, and a two-piece suit starts at $1,800.\n\n![Sharpe Androgynous Formal Wear](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/48SlVkaQrogBBmLLYA9Ogq/cdca55ee7c7ea3539d3123b08632e6af/Sharpe_Androgynous_Formal_Wear.jpg)\n\n## How to personalize androgynous formal wear for every wedding type \nNo matter how you express yourself, your wedding attire should fit the [wedding type](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/couples-top-wedding-themes) you’re attending or planning. Whether that is a classic chic wedding or a beach getaway, there are different ways you can personalize your androgynous formal wear according to the theme. \n\nWhen deciding on what to wear for the wedding, consider each element of your wedding attire, including accessories, shoes, and colors. You can also add your own personal touch by using elements that you usually wear—like your favorite watch or a pop of color that looks good on you.\n\n### 1. Classic\nClassic weddings are more traditional and elegant, and sometimes will require [black tie wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding). Whether your invite mentions a dress code or not, invest in looks in black, gray, or dark blue with solid fabric. If the wedding is during the summer, you might opt to wear lighter tones such as light gray or beige. \n\nYour look should be elegant and fitted, so if you’re going for a suit, consider wearing solid wool fabric, a black bowtie, and a collared white shirt. To complete your look, wear classic black leather shoes and gold and pearl jewelry, if that’s true to your style. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-classic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/630zTDv9adarWkCgmAY9X8/774dd5af04a72b617487675442696d26/androgynous-attire-for-classic-weddings.png)\n\n### 2. Rustic\n[Rustic weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue) are full of natural and wooden touches, which means you can go for a less formal look and have fun with textures. Look for clothing with lighter tones such as light blue and brown. For a more casual look, you could also forgo your blazer and wear only a vest with a collared shirt. \n\nAdd some texture to your look by choosing cotton or tweed blazers. Then complement your outfit with vintage brown leather shoes and patterned pocket squares. This is also your chance to wear your favorite shiny, gold jewelry or a leather watch. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-rustic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6X9V0pswklRpQ4DsMoebbj/62d44e6a3d9a4ae854cafbbe6905cd14/androgynous-attire-for-rustic-weddings.png)\n\n### 3. Beachy\n[Beach weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pros-and-cons-of-a-beach-wedding) are relaxed and calm, which means you get to enjoy the sea view and salty air with a more casual, bright look. Opt for light tones, like a pastel blue or green, or go for more colorful attire with florals. \n\nInvest in clothes with linen fabric so you can fully enjoy the ocean breeze. You might even want to roll up your sleeves or wear some nice shorts. Make your look even more beachy by adding colorful pocket flowers, accessories with seashells, and white loafers. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-beachy-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6Zf82q3mpqKJLcuDB84EWS/1362edaf2195c2480dab783a07118625/androgynous-attire-for-beachy-weddings.png)\n\n### 4. Modern\nModern weddings are more fashionable and bold, so if you like trendy styles or a monochromatic look, this is your chance to shine. In a modern wedding, you have the opportunity to be more creative by trying different fabrics or wearing a statement piece. \n\nConsider bold colors like dark green or burgundy, or try an all-black outfit with cuffed pants. Then complete your look with fashionable loafers or shiny black shoes and a gold watch. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-modern-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6hpxRcBcPre6QeHDQhrMgY/a531c502c266880425318f77c1b56270/androgynous-attire-for-modern-weddings.png)\n\n### 5. Garden\n[Garden weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/outdoor-wedding-ideas-for-fall) are fun and whimsical, so bring a playful spirit to your wedding attire. Consider floral and pinstripe fabrics, or go for a solid dark blue or purple look. Choose a breathable fabric, especially if the wedding will be outside during the summer. \n\nComplete your look by adding a tie in a pastel tone, or ditch the tie and go for an open collar style. Add flower accessories or a simple white pocket square to go with stitched vintage shoes. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-garden-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/QQIsPX3Pfi3nhwBvgFcNt/97fb6382f096e46eb5601fce444a8b09/androgynous-attire-for-garden-weddings.png)\n\n### 6. Romantic\nRomantic weddings are nothing short of dreamy and elegant. Go all in with a look that could've come out of a fairytale by wearing pastel pinks and blues and a blazer with silk details. \n\nTry suspenders, and match them with some classic leather shoes. For accessories, you can add delicate flower pins or shiny jewelry with diamonds and a gold watch.\n\n![androgynous-attire-for-romantic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1voWcJwI7i0vFWKLZTTWfa/09119df7011a734aa074ab55471930de/androgynous-attire-for-romantic-weddings.png)\n\n### 7. Boho\n[Boho weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/rustic-wedding-ideas) are more unconventional and relaxed, so this is your chance to rock a more laid-back look. Find outfits with lightweight and breathable fabrics and play around with different colors. \n\nDon't be shy when adding flowers or feathers to complement your look, or try a suede boho hat and match it with brown loafers. As for accessories, consider jewelry with colorful stones or gold fringe. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-boho-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/19ClGLMB3t5aDno8SdUPg0/b06b0754a417d786152b3240e245c6e8/androgynous-attire-for-boho-weddings.png)\n\nFinding the right [wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-guests/wedding-attire) doesn't have to be complicated. As long as you wear something you love and feel comfortable in, you'll radiate confidence walking in the venue. Luckily, you know exactly where to shop for androgynous wedding attire and how to personalize it according to each wedding theme.\n\nAre you the one getting married? Did you know that Zola can help with all of your wedding day needs? From using our [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) to creating a free [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website), get started today!","tag":"List","updatedAt":"2025-06-07T16:47:44.977Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"what-should-the-mother-of-the-groom-wear","title":"What Should the Mother of the Groom Wear?","excerpt":"Wondering what the mother of the groom should wear to your wedding? Read on for our complete guide.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2020-12-16T20:33:51.524Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3XYQnnhFxaJwQKwb4o3VdP/09b22c0665e884e05ef2a3f099378d4c/hero_Eyes_2_See_Photography.jpg","altText":"mother of the groom"},"heroCredit":"Eyes 2 See Photography","body":"Mothers are always valued members of a couple’s wedding party, whether it’s the mother of the bride or the mother of the groom. Both are honored and appreciated for their contributions to the bride and groom’s big day. \n\nThe mother of the groom in particular has several responsibilities, including helping plan the guest list for the groom’s side of the family and hosting the rehearsal dinner. It’s only natural that she looks exceptional when the big day rolls around. But what exactly should the mother of the groom wear? \n\n## Wedding Etiquette for the Mother of the Groom\n\nDepending upon how much of a stickler for tradition you are, there may be etiquette rules your family members and guests must follow. These rules may include a few about the wedding attire for the groom’s mother. \n\n### Dress Buying Traditions\n\nWondering if there’s a difference [between the mother of the bride dress and the mother of the groom dress?](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/mother-of-the-bride-vs-mother-of-the-groom-dresses-whats-the-difference) Traditionally, the mother of the bride decides on her dress first and then informs the groom’s mother. The mother of the groom can then get a dress that complements the [mother of the bride dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-attire-101-garden-edition) on the wedding day. \n\nKeep in mind that the two moms do not have to dress identical at all—the two dresses just have to be complementary, so they don't clash with each other, the wedding theme, or the bridesmaid dresses. \n\nIt’s worth noting, though: Nowadays, this tradition is considered more of a guideline than a hard rule. Still, it’s good guidance—especially if you haven’t heard otherwise. \n\n![Mother of the Groom Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/25fkY0wAnryA14ISsWlQEE/b10a6d827562696eacee5b1c7807476c/inline_rengim-mutevellioglu.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Rengim Mutevellioglu\n\n### Dress Etiquette\n\nAs stated before, the mother of the groom is an honored part of the special occasion, and she should dress accordingly. Both the mother of the bride and groom should select dresses that are similar in style and length and complementary to the wedding color palette and theme. \n\nBefore any shopping is done, consult with the bride or groom to get a better idea of their vision for the wedding day. For instance, flashy dresses and distracting colors wouldn’t be appropriate for a wedding with a soft, vintage theme. The mother of the groom should also avoid particular styles, such as low-cut necklines, thigh-split dresses, or tight skirts. \n\nJust keep in mind: Within reason, the mother of the groom should be able to dress according to her personality and comfort. \n\n### Dress Shopping Is Bonding Time\n\nIn today’s culture, mothers of the bride and groom often go dress shopping together and view it as an opportunity to bond and get to know one another better. Other moms might shop with the bride and bridesmaids as well, opting to make it a big gal’s day complete with a fancy lunch or dinner. This not only helps everyone get to know each other better, but also helps ensure that everyone looks great and dresses don’t clash. \n\n## Wedding Etiquette for Stepmoms of the Groom\n\nIf the groom’s family is a blended family, it can sometimes get complicated. The mother of the bride is only obliged to inform the mother of the groom about her wedding attire. Stepmothers, on the other hand, are the groom’s responsibility. It’s up to him to give her the required information, so that she can dress appropriately. \n\nOf course, this may be different in every family, because it depends on how close the groom is with his stepmother. If she’s considered a close family member and you plan to seat her in front with other family members, then she should choose her outfit in keeping with the colors and theme of the rest of the wedding party and family. However, if the two are not close and she is considered merely a guest, then she will be seated with guests and should have full freedom to dress however she likes (assuming it’s wedding appropriate!). There’s really no need for her attire to match the immediate family or wedding party—unless she just wants to.\n\n## Color Dos and Don’ts\n\n### Dos\n\nThere’s no end to the color palettes and wedding themes a bride might choose from. Depending on the theme, many mothers of the groom favor colors like:\n\n- Blues\n- Blushes\n- Mauves\n- Lavenders\n- Mint Green\n- Peach\n\nIf your wedding is a formal one, some mothers of the groom might prefer to wear shades of gold, dark silver, or even black. Other darker colors that might be worn include shades of :\n\n- Navy\n- Green\n- Purple\n- Red\n\n### Don’ts\n\nRemember, it’s a big fashion faux pas for someone in the immediate family or wedding party to wear white or any variation thereof. Even neutral colors like cream or beige are against dress code. \n\nOf course, some brides might not mind; some may even want their bridal party in white. When in doubt, though, it’s best to err on the side of caution. \n\n## Wedding Attire Styles for the Mother of the Groom\n\nIt’s important to consider age, body shape, and the time of year when deciding on a dress style for the mother of the groom.\n\n### Body Shape\n\nDifferent dress shapes flatter different body types:\n\n- Someone who is wider at the shoulder and narrower at the hips, like an inverted triangle, might look best in V-necklines and A-line skirts, with a nipped waist to create a shapely silhouette.\n- Someone with wider hips should focus on accentuating the top of her body with detailing or an off-the-shoulder neckline, along with fit and flare dress styles. \n- Someone with an hourglass figure should avoid baggy and loose dresses, or run the risk of looking frumpy.\n- Someone with a rectangle body shape might consider more form-fitting dresses.\n\nHowever, remember that these are just tips and guidelines. It’s more important to make sure that whatever style of dress the mother of the groom wears, she feels comfortable and attractive. \n\n### Time of Year\n\nThe mother of the groom should feel comfortable through the wedding ceremony and reception. That’s why it’s important to consider the season and whether or not the venue is indoor or outdoor when choosing a dress. For example, the mother of the bride can get away with wearing a casual sundress for an outdoor, summer beach wedding, but should wear a formal dress for an indoor, black-tie affair. \n\nDuring colder months, dresses can be accessorized with shawls, faux fur, and shrugs. Tailored jackets are another option that look great and help keep the groom’s mom toasty and warm. Also, if it’s simply too cold for a dress, pantsuits can be a good option to keep the legs covered. \n\nDepending on where you live, spring is typically warm, which means she could wear tea-length and cocktail dresses and be perfectly comfortable. Summer is also a great season for tea-length dresses. \n\n### Age-Appropriate\n\nRemember, there is such a thing as too sexy. The mother of the groom should avoid wearing anything that’s overtly sexy, such as deep necklines with cleavage or skirts that flash the thigh. If you know that the mother of the groom tends to dress a little on the risqué side, there’s nothing wrong with asking her to wear something that’s age-appropriate. \n\n![Mother of the Groom Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3ym2V6NZrPUABfEbT0eRIZ/9f244b1d9574d64e93c28a840b42a985/inline_stocksy.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Stocksy\n\n## Don’t Forget Accessories\n\nNo outfit is complete without matching accessories. For a mother of the groom, accessories might include: \n\n- Small clutch purse\n- Medium tote purse\n- Stylish hat or headband\n- Pretty necklace and earrings\n- Bangle bracelets\n\nWhatever accessories she wears, it should be something that complements her wedding attire and highlights her own unique style without taking attention away from you. \n\nIf the mother of the groom is uncomfortable with the neckline or sleeves of her chosen wedding attire, she could always add a trendy scarf or shawl. This does double duty by covering her up more and accessorizing her look. \n\nWedding attire for the mother of the groom really isn’t that complicated. Once there’s a theme, color palette, and venue in place, she’ll be able to pick just the right dress.\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Garden wedding attire blends comfort and style with light fabrics and floral touches. 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","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2019-01-18T21:34:11.830Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/N7wFOsDeMIHq1oa7VEBpL/d7c18e73a265e3aa2d9f76196d5952a3/New_Hero.jpg","altText":"wedding hair and makeup cost"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- Bridal hair and makeup costs for brides or bridesmaids can run anywhere from $150-$600 depending on the type of hairstyle, products, and wedding makeup used.\n- Remember you’re primarily paying for your wedding hair and makeup artist’s time, so the more elaborate the glam , the higher the price tag.\n- Book your makeup artist(s) no less than three months before your wedding date to work out your preferred looks, scheduled times, and additional costs in advance. \n","body":"Your wedding day is one occasion on which you want to look your absolute, top-dollar best. Not only are you going to be immortalized in wedding photos for eternity, but since it should be one of the happiest days of your life, you want your external appearance to match the greatness you’re feeling inside. In order to put your face quite literally in the hands of a fabulous [wedding hair and makeup artist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-hair-stylists-and-makeup-artist-dos-and-donts), you’ll need to budget for hair and wedding makeup costs—whether you’re going for an understated natural look, full-on glam, or something in between with your hair and makeup services.\n\nBelow are the average prices you can expect to pay for wedding hair and makeup:\n\n- Bridal Hair and Makeup Costs: Expect to pay anywhere from $150-$600 for bridal hair and makeup. Typically, brides pay around $300 on average for hair and makeup, depending on the type of hairstyle, products, and wedding makeup used.\n\n- Bridesmaid Hair and Makeup Costs: Around $150 per bridesmaid in your bridal party. This average cost estimates $75 for makeup and $50-75 for hairstyling.\n\nFind out exactly what you should expect to pay for wedding hair and makeup costs with our ultimate guide below.\n\n## How Much Do Wedding Hair and Makeup Cost?\n \nThe average cost of wedding hair and makeup will vary considerably based upon your location, how many people and/or services you’re looking to schedule, and the intricacy of your styles. On the low end, wedding hair and makeup artists might only charge around $60 for a single application, but in large cities, bridal hair and makeup could cost over $1,000. That being said, the average price most couples spend on wedding hair and makeup is around __$300__—but anywhere within the range of __$150-$650__ is typical. \n\nIf a wedding hair and makeup artist needs to travel to the event (or to your getting-ready location), the cost could go up, as he or she might add a travel fee. If you’d like your stylist to remain on-site for touch ups (for example, a touch up after you put on your wedding dress), that could also raise your costs: most wedding hair and makeup artists will charge by the hour to remain at your wedding location, ranging anywhere from $30 to $125 per hour.\n\n## What’s Included in the Price of Wedding Hair and Makeup? \nAs mentioned above, you’re primarily paying for your wedding hair and makeup artist’s time. The higher [the number of hours that you’ll need to book your stylist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-long-does-wedding-hair-and-makeup-usually-take), the higher your price tag will be. In general, the tools and materials required to create your wedding hair and makeup look are included in the cost, but certain types of hairstyles, products, and makeup applications will run you more:\n\n- Wedding updos tend to cost more than blowout hairstyles, with the average price of an updo costing about $45 more __($51 for a blowout versus $95 for an updo)__.\n\n- Airbrush wedding makeup will cost more than a traditional makeup package. Expect to pay around __$50 more for airbrush application__, as the average cost of airbrush makeup is $155 while traditional makeup costs on average $100 per face.\n\nIn addition to beauty services on the actual wedding day, some artists offer free consultations and/or hair and makeup trials before the wedding—but some artists charge anywhere from $50 to $150 for trials. See below for more information about trials. See below for more pricing information to factor into your average wedding cost.\n\n## How Much Does a Wedding Hair and Makeup Trial Cost?\nIt just makes good sense to get a hair trial and makeup trial before your wedding to ensure that you and your stylist(s) are on the same page about what kind of wedding look you want. Yet not all hair and makeup artists offer this service for free (or as part of their consultation appointment). If you’re asked to pay for a wedding beauty trial, you could be looking at a cost of anywhere from $50-$150, with the average price being around __$75__. (Keep in mind that you may need to pay a separate fee for your hair trial and your makeup trial—bringing your total average cost up to $150.)\n\n## Should I Tip My Wedding Hair and Makeup Artist?\nJust like at a regular salon, tipping for wedding beauty services is generally expected. You should prepare to tip your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) anywhere from __15-25% of the total bill__ for their services if you think they’ve done a great job.\n\n## Are There Any Add-On Costs With Wedding Hair and Makeup?\nWe’ve already discussed a few of the “hidden” or add-on costs that you might discover when budgeting for your wedding hair and makeup. Here are some of the extra charges you might encounter for fancier styles, more expensive products or applications, or for simply more complex logistics:\n\n- __Skin prep__ in the weeks leading up to your big day, like [wedding facials](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-different-types-of-facials-for-brides), tanning, or any special products to give your skin that wedding day glow\n\n- __False eyelashes/false lashes, updo hairstyles__, or __airbrush makeup__ are usually more expensive.\n\n- __Nail services__, like a manicure and/or pedicure\n\n- __Travel fees__ might occur if your hair and makeup artist(s) are required to travel to your location. Factor in additional costs if mileage (for long distances) or parking fees also come into play.\n\n- __Trial runs__ of your wedding hairstyle and makeup might cost you an additional $50-100 per trial.\n\n- __[Hair extensions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/should-you-get-hair-extensions-for-your-wedding)__ if you want to add any length or volume to your hair for your bridal hairstyle\n\n- __Extra people__ beyond just the bride—such as the bridal party or the mother of the bride—will naturally add to your costs. A professional hair stylist and makeup artist might even need to bring an additional stylist or an assistant (for example, a makeup team for the bridal party or an extra stylist to manage bridesmaid and flower girl hair).\n\n- __Extra hours__ beyond the initial styling (for example, if you want touch ups later in the evening, or a different hairstyle for the reception) will cost you more, as you will be paying your hair and makeup artist by the hour to remain on-site.\n\n- __Tipping__ your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) is generally expected, just like at any salon appointment.\n\n## How Much Does Bridesmaid Hair and Makeup Cost?\nMother of the bride and/or bridesmaids makeup and hair generally costs around __$150__ per person, or if you want to break it down, around __$75 for makeup__ and __$50-$75 for hairstyling__ (blowout versus updo). Again, this number can go up based upon the location and the complexity of the style or the logistics.\n\n## Who Pays for Your Bridesmaids’ Hair and Makeup?\nIt depends: if the bride is requiring that her bridesmaids have their hair and makeup professionally done, then it’s expected that the bride (or her parents, depending on who’s paying for the wedding) cover these beauty costs. But if professional hair and makeup are being offered only as an option, then the bridesmaids should expect to pay for their own services. A bride might also consider whether she’d like to pay for her bridesmaids’ hair and makeup as part or all of the traditional bridesmaids’ gift.\n\n## How Far in Advance Should I Book My Wedding Hair Stylist and Makeup Artist?\nWe recommend you book your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) no less than three months before your wedding date. Of course, it’s always better to check this item off your __[Wedding Planning Checklist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist)__ earlier if possible—you’ll want to have plenty of time to choose your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) carefully, get to know him or her so you’re really comfortable on the big day, and schedule a trial run to iron out all the kinks before the wedding-day timeline begins ticking. Head over to Zola Inspiration to __[browse wedding hair and makeup stylists](https://www.zola.com/inspire/search)__ in your area right now!","body2":"## Should I Tip My Wedding Hair and Makeup Artist?\nJust like at a regular salon, tipping for wedding beauty services is generally expected. You should prepare to tip your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) anywhere from __15-25% of the total bill__ for their services if you think they’ve done a great job. \n\n## Are There Any Add-On Costs With Wedding Hair and Makeup?\n \nWe’ve already discussed a few of the “hidden” or add-on costs that you might discover when budgeting for your wedding hair and makeup. Here are some of the extra charges you might encounter for fancier styles, more expensive products or applications, or for simply more complex logistics: \n- __False eyelashes__, __updo hairstyles__, or __airbrush makeup__ are usually more expensive.\n- __Travel fees__ might occur if your hair and makeup artist(s) are required to travel to your location. Factor in additional costs if mileage (for long distances) or parking fees also come into play.\n- __Trial runs__ of your wedding hairstyle and makeup might cost you an additional $50-100 per trial. \n- __Extra people__ beyond just the bride—such as the bridal party or the mother of the bride—will naturally add to your costs. A professional hair stylist and makeup artist might even need to bring an additional stylist or an assistant.\n- __Extra hours__ beyond the initial styling (for example, if you want touch ups later in the evening, or a different hairstyle for the reception) will cost you more, as you will be paying your hair and makeup artist by the hour to remain on-site. \n- __Tipping__ your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) is generally expected, just like at any salon appointment.\n\n## How Much Does Bridesmaid Hair and Makeup Cost? \nWedding makeup for a bridesmaid or a mother of the bride generally costs around __$150__ per person, or if you want to break it down, around __$75 for makeup__ and __$50-$75 for hairstyling__ (blowout versus updo). Again, this number can go up based upon the location and the complexity of the style or the logistics.\n\n## Who Pays for Your Bridesmaids' Hair and Makeup? \nIt depends: if the bride is requiring that her bridesmaids have their hair and makeup professionally done, then it’s expected that the bride (or her parents, depending on who’s paying for the wedding) cover these beauty costs. But if professional hair and makeup are being offered only as an option, then the bridesmaids should expect to pay for their own services. A bride might also consider whether she’d like to pay for her bridesmaids’ hair and makeup as part or all of the traditional bridesmaids’ gift.\n\n## How Far in Advance Should I Book My Wedding Hair Stylist and Makeup Artist?\n \nWe recommend you book your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) no less than three months before your wedding date. Of course, it’s always better to check this item off your [Wedding Planning Checklist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist) earlier if possible—you’ll want to have plenty of time to choose your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) carefully, get to know him or her so you’re really comfortable on the big day, and schedule a trial run to iron out all the kinks before the wedding-day timeline begins ticking. Head over to Zola Inspiration to [browse wedding hair and makeup stylists](https://www.zola.com/inspire/search) in your area right now! ","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"To make sure that your wedding makeup is flawless and you’re looking your best on the big day, check out our tips for DIY wedding makeup below. 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Here are our DIY wedding hair tips to follow for gorgeous wedding hairstyles you can pull off yourself.","title":"DIY Wedding Hair Tips","slug":"diy-wedding-hair-tips","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Wedding Hairstyles","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3B4JXngFOMWYGs2QSeuqKq/cd886b06bd7f132aacf49b6692d86e87/3937960.jpg","altText":"African-American bride side pose with beautiful hair curls"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Confused on how much to tip wedding vendors, which vendors to tip, and when to distribute tips? 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Many gowns are left hanging in the back of a closet, collecting dust. If you have no other plans for it, donating your wedding dress can give it a second life! Now more than ever, many brides are struggling to pay for their wedding dresses. We’ve found several meaningful charities that accept preowned wedding dresses and provide them to new brides at an affordable price. \n\nIn this article:\n\n- Benefits of Donating Your Wedding Dress\n- How to Decide Where to Donate\n- Where to Donate Wedding Dresses\n- Ways to Repurpose Your Wedding Dress\n- How to Prepare Your Wedding Dress for Donation\n\n## Benefits of Donating Your Wedding Dress\n\n \n\nIf you’re still on the fence about whether or not to donate your wedding dress, here are a few benefits to consider.\n\n### 1. Supports a Bride in Need\nFrom disaster victims to the many couples struggling financially right now, many individuals are looking for affordable clothing, including wedding dresses. With millions of people unemployed or experiencing a significant decrease in income during the pandemic, many couples cannot afford their dream weddings. Your donation can help provide a dress for a bride experiencing financial hardships. \n\n### 2. Tax-Deductible\nAs a taxpayer, you can claim your charitable contributions of money or goods as itemized deductions when filing your taxes. The [IRS](https://www.irs.gov/publications/p526) recognizes a charitable contribution as a gift or donation to or for the use of a qualified organization, such as nonprofits. \n\n### 3. Helps to Declutter\nMany wedding gowns are only worn once. If you’re never planning to wear your wedding dress again, it’s just taking up space! Once you donate it along with other household items that you no longer need or use, you’ll have more room! \n\n### 4. Encourages an Eco-Friendly Lifestyle\nAn eco-friendly lifestyle means living in a way that isn’t harmful to the environment. Clothing that is thrown away eventually sits in a landfill, where they release carbon dioxide and other toxins into the air. According to [GreenDrop](https://www.gogreendrop.com/blog/3-reasons-you-should-donate-your-old-clothes-instead-of-throwing-them-away/), the production of new clothes and textiles uses hundreds of gallons of water and also causes 10% of global carbon emissions. By donating your wedding dress, you help reduce your carbon footprint.\n\n![Benefits of donating your wedding dress image](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6OAEerjF3eR2VFxgVVb9nI/cccf53c07871500f73bb688f87d3b1b9/benefits-of-donating-your-wedding-dress.jpg)\n\nThe best part is conscientious efforts can start during the wedding! You can donate the remaining wedding food to local shelters and [preserve flowers](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-preserve-flowers) from the bouquet. For more sustainability tips, check out these [eco-friendly wedding ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/eco-friendly-wedding).\n\n## How to Decide Where to Donate\n\n \n\nDeparting from your beloved wedding dress can be tough. After all, it holds sentimental value and memories from your special day. You may feel comfortable choosing a charity with a mission that matters the most to you. For example, you may want to honor your loved ones in the military by donating to an organization supporting veterans. Fortunately, you can find charitable organizations that support a variety of causes, including cancer research, disaster relief, human rights, environmental protection, and more!\n\n## Where to Donate Wedding Dresses\n\n \n\nDonating your wedding dress is a great way to honor it and give it new life. Through your generosity, someone else can experience the same joy you felt on your wedding day. You can donate to thrift stores, charities, community centers, and many other types of nonprofit organizations. Here is a list of several charities and organizations accepting wedding dresses during COVID-19.\n\n![Charities to donate a wedding dress](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1xq1qPDhGhlPh4z1Tqv0Cg/e7f10bcb6dd54b3e70bb4faff2224620/charities-to-donate-a-wedding-dress.jpg)\n\n### Brides Against Breast Cancer \nSupport the fight against breast cancer through [Brides Against Breast Cancer](https://www.bridesagainstbreastcancer.org/). This nonprofit is dedicated to providing early cancer awareness and detection programs as well as reducing the environmental impact of wedding dress manufacturing. The organization resells pre-owned wedding dresses at affordable prices, using the sales proceeds to help breast cancer causes. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dresses of 3–5 years in excellent condition and bridal accessories. \n\n__How to donate:__ Use the [donation form](https://www.bridesagainstbreastcancer.org/bride-donation-form/) on the website, email, or contact client service directly to receive shipping instructions.\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ The organization continues to accept wedding dress donations through the mail and is relaunching its online store in early 2021.\n\n### Adorned in Grace \nIf you would like to assist in sex trafficking prevention, consider donating your wedding dress to [Adorned in Grace](https://www.adornedingrace.org/). This faith-based organization has a mission to help sex trafficking victims and bring awareness to local communities. Adorned in Grace stores provide new and gently-used wedding dresses and formalwear. Sales proceeds that go towards funding professional counseling for trafficking survivors, awareness publications, and more. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dress less than five years old, mother-of-the-bride dresses, flower girl dresses, bridal accessories, and formalwear.\n\n__How to donate:__ Drop-off donations in-person or ship them to any of their [shop locations](https://www.adornedingrace.org/donate#donate-1).\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ Call or book an [appointment](https://www.adornedingrace.org/yourvisit) at one of their store locations in advance.\n\n### The Salvation Army\nSince 1865, [The Salvation Army](https://www.salvationarmyusa.org/usn/) has grown into an international movement in 130 countries around the world. This faith-based nonprofit organization provides numerous services, including adult rehabilitation, veteran support, prison ministry work, disaster relief, housing, hunger relief, and more. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Adult and children’s clothing, furniture, vehicles, household goods, and appliances with [guidelines](https://satruck.org/Home/DonationValueGuide#womens-clothing) for each.\n\n__How to donate:__ Find a drop-off location, visit one of its local thrift stores, or schedule a free pickup.\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ Most local Salvation Army thrift stores are open for business with [information](https://www.salvationarmyusa.org/usn/covid19/) on ways to help during the pandemic.\n\n### Brides for a Cause\n[Brides for a Cause](https://www.bridesforacause.com/) is a nonprofit bridal store that collects and resells wedding dresses to raise funds for dozens of women-focused [charities](https://www.bridesforacause.com/about/our-cause/). Since 2012, the store has given away over $1.2 million to charities that support women in the military, single mothers, abuse survivors, and more.\n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dresses no more than five years old and bridal accessories. \n\n__How to donate:__ You can mail or drop off at one of their store [locations](http://www.bridesforacause.com/locations/) or roadshow events. \n\n__COVID-19 update:__ Currently not accepting walk-ins. Clients must “reserve a room” in advance, wear a mask at all times, bring only one guest, and follow social distancing guidelines. \n\n### Goodwill Industries\nWith a mission to eliminate work opportunity barriers, Goodwill industries provide supportive services to help people train for careers and find jobs. Your donations support Goodwill’s job programs and services as well as help environmentally by reducing waste. Through its online [impact calculator](https://www.goodwill.org/your-impact/), you can see how much your donation can contribute to its mission. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Clothing and accessories, houseware, electronics, media, and furniture. \n\n__How to donate:__ [Find](https://www.goodwill.org/donate/donate-stuff/) a donation center or local drop-off bin.\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ Most Goodwill stores are open with social distancing protocols. All donations will be in quarantine, and curbside drop-offs are available. \n\n### Brides Across America\nIf you’d like to support the military and first responders, you can do so through [Bride Across America](https://www.bridesacrossamerica.com/) (BAA). Every year, this nonprofit donates 2,000 wedding dresses and covers the wedding costs of those recipients. With your donations, military members and first responders can register to receive a free wedding dress during BAA’s monthly giveaway events.\n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dress less than five years old, accessories, engagement rings, and wedding favors. \n\n__How to donate:__ Fill out and submit the [donation form](https://www.bridesacrossamerica.com/giving/give-a-dress) to receive the shipping address and instructions. \n\n__COVID-19 update:__ BAA is open for in-store [appointments](https://www.baaoutlet.com/common/appointment) only with new health and safety precautions. \n\n### Fairytale Brides on a Shoestring\n[Fairytale Brides on a Shoestring](https://www.fairytalebrides.org/) is a nonprofit boutique in Rockville, MD that sells reduced-priced wedding gowns. All of its net proceeds go towards Alzheimer’s Association, Cystic Fibrosis Foundation, and Johns Hopkins’ Suburban Hospital Breast Center.\n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dresses no more than five years old and professionally cleaned.\n\n__How to donate:__ Make an appointment on its website to drop off your donation or mail it to the store. \n\n__COVID-19 update:__ The store is open by [appointment only](https://my.setmore.com/shortBookingPage/b6a191ce-a3b1-43ae-ab65-fb9d2a10c05d) on select weekdays, where clients must wear masks at all times and follow the recommended COVID-19 guidelines. \n\n### Cherie Sustainable Bridal\nThis Maryland-based bridal boutique is a division of Success in Style (SIS), a nonprofit dedicated to supporting in-crisis individuals on their journeys to employment and life improvement. [Cherie Sustainable Bridal](https://www.cheriesb.com/) sells preowned wedding gowns at an affordable price and sends 100% of the proceeds to SIS. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dresses five years old and younger, and professional business attire.\n\n__How to donate:__ [Drop off](https://www.cheriesb.com/donate) the wedding dress in-person during business hours or mail it to the store location.\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ The store is open by [appointment](https://www.cheriesb.com/appointments) only and clients can bring only one guest to the consultation.\n\n### The Brides Project \nTo support adults and children impacted by cancer, you can donate to [The Brides Project](http://www.thebridesproject.org/). This is a nonprofit bridal boutique that offers eco- and budget-friendly wedding gowns to shoppers. All sales help provide free programs for families at the Cancer Support Community of Greater Ann Arbor. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dresses within five years old and bridal accessories. \n\n__How to donate:__ Drop off the [donation](http://www.thebridesproject.org/donate/) at their shop or mail it to their Cancer Support Community division following the mailing instructions. \n\n__COVID-19 update:__ Visitors must book appointments via website or email and follow their health and safety protocols.\n\n### The Emma and Evan Foundation\nThrough the [Emma and Evan Foundation](https://www.evefoundation.org/), you can support families who’ve lost an infant. This nonprofit organization repurposes wedding dress donations into infant burial gowns or “angel gowns,” bonnets, and other keepsake items available to grieving families for free. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Any wedding dresses, bridesmaid and flower girl dresses, prom and formal gowns, bridal accessories, and more.\n\n__How to donate:__ Contact the organization to receive their mailing address and donation release form beforehand. Additional donation instructions can be found on the FAQ page.\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ You can shop on their website for keepsake items and receive purchases via shipment.\n\n## Ways to Repurpose Your Wedding Dress\n\n \n\nIf you find that your wedding dress doesn’t meet the donation criteria of a few charities, transform it into something new! There are plenty of creative ways to repurpose your wedding dress. \n\nReuse the fabric for creating home decor and cherished keepsakes, such as pillows and baptism gowns for your children. Need new formalwear? Alter or hem your gown into a fun cocktail dress. If you’re not a fan of cutting up the dress, consider using it as a photo prop for your newborn. Lastly, you can use the buttons, beads, and other trimmings to make DIY jewelry and accessories!\n\n![Ideas for repurposing your wedding dress](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5KUNczqwIBuEuAagzrCs7w/7ff67c460a94625994aa2c31ff861799/ideas-for-repurposing-your-wedding-dress.jpg)\n\n## How to Prepare Your Wedding Dress for Donation\n\n \n\nWhile most charities and shops offer to clean your donation items, some have a few guidelines about donations. Others may also charge an extra fee for cleaning. Here is a checklist to follow in making sure your donations are in the best conditions. \n\n__1. Contact the Organizations in advance.__ Ask what they need specifically, as well as for their donation schedule and protocols. Most charities and thrift shops that accept wedding dresses require them to be less than five years old.\n\n__2. Inspect the gown for wear and tear.__ When left in storage for too long, some items and certain types of fabric may develop mold. If your wedding dress looks to be in bad condition, the charity will most likely have to throw it out.\n\n__3. Wash or dry clean in advance.__ This step is graciously helpful for the volunteers, especially if you’re donating your wedding dress or other items during the pandemic. According to the [CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/faq.html), the COVID-19 virus can remain on surfaces and certain fabrics for a couple of days. You can also use a disinfectant spray on non-washable items. \n\n__4. Double-check items before packing.__ Ensure you haven’t accidentally packed items you planned to keep. Always check the pockets for small personal items, such as wallets and money. \n\n__5. Organize your donations.__ This step is also helpful for volunteers at the charities and shops, who may have an overwhelming amount of items to sort through. You can assemble items by type and size, label your boxes or containers by season, and fold the clothing to ensure proper packing.\n\n![Best practices to prepare items for donation](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5xdwJ5IL2X7zJQNoA4bZV/2588209b19f8f786524c4ea835be09e7/best-practices-to-prepare-items-for-donation.jpg)\n\nIn addition to donating your wedding dress, take the concept of giving a step further by planning a charitable wedding! Have your [wedding ceremony](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-ceremony-programs) at a nonprofit venue and spread the word about charities on your [invites](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/paper). You can also find [vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors) who support a good cause. Visit our [expert advice](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice) pages for more creative ideas and wedding inspiration.","tag":"How-To ","updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:52:58.190Z"}],"name":"Wedding dresses","slug":"wedding-dresses","description":"From dress style and silhouette guides to stunning inspiration to money saving tips and tricks we help you find the perfect wedding dress for you, your wedding party and guests! Find everything you need to know about wedding dresses of every style and shape!"},{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Shoes & accessories","slug":"shoes-accessories"},"slug":"should-the-groom-wear-a-tie-or-bow-tie-for-their-wedding","title":"Should the Groom Wear a Tie or Bow Tie for Their Wedding?","excerpt":"The style of a groom’s suit will help determine whether a bow tie or tie should be worn on their wedding day. ","author":"Laura Hensley","publishedAt":"2020-12-28T16:41:04.964Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6R74fvnnamtZnB9bDYqX3B/18c013868430462f5b11eceafa771fdc/Hero_RomanticBlack-TieWeddingatBrooklynBotanicGarden_NSTPictures.jpg","altText":"Should the Groom Wear a Tie or Bow Tie"},"heroCredit":"NST Pictures","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- If you’re wearing a tuxedo, bow ties are the norm. For other [wedding suit styles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-different-wedding-suit-styles), either a bow tie or a tie can work\n- Coordinate with members of the wedding party. It looks odd if half the groomsmen are wearing bow ties and the others sport ties \n- There are different styles of bow ties and ties. Know which one is right for you. Use your bow tie or tie to show off your personality. \n","body":"While a tie or bow tie may seem like an inconsequential choice, the right neckwear really can make or break a wedding guest look. Read on to find out if you should pair your formalwear with a bow tie or regular tie on your wedding day.\n\n## What Are You Wearing? \n\nIf you’re wearing a [tuxedo](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_jacket), a bow tie is the way to go. A [bow tie](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_tuxedo_shirt) tux is considered one of the most dapper and formal wedding outfits for grooms—and is the proper dress code for a black tie wedding, black tie optional, or black-tie event. That’s not to say a necktie can’t be worn with a tuxedo, though. If your wedding is semi-formal and you’re wearing a tux, it’s perfectly acceptable to wear a traditional tie instead. It really all comes down to the formality—and [venue](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/planning-101/venues)—of your big day.\n\nSuits, on the other hand, allow for more flexibility. Traditionally, suits are worn with ties, but many grooms these days opt for bow ties. A bow tie with a suit jacket (or even just a dress shirt!) can dress a suit up or down. For example, a laid-back groom getting hitched at a __[rustic venue](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue)__ may opt for a trendy paisley bow tie with a __[light gray suit](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_textured_gray_suit_jacket)__. A groom saying “I do” at a formal venue may wear a three-piece navy suit with a maroon bow tie. Both outfits feature bow ties, but are very different looks.\n\nA tie can also dramatically affect the aesthetic of a groom’s outfit. Patterned ties can make a suit more formal or casual, depending on the print, just as lighter colors are best for __[spring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue)__/summer weddings and darker colors suit __[fall](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue)__/winter events. If your wedding venue and style are more laid-back, you can even take off your necktie after the ceremony.\n\nAnd if you want your outfit, as the groom, to stand out, consider groomsmen ties in a different color or pattern for your attendants. Or, you can wear a wedding bow tie with your groom's suit and accessorize your groomsmen with traditional neckties. \n\n## What Are Members of the Wedding Party Wearing? \n\nRegardless of whether you [choose to wear a tie](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-tie-for-groomsmen) or a bow tie, your groomsmen should coordinate with one another. Even if you aren’t sporting matching tuxedos or suits, you should be on the same page about neckwear. It can look very odd having a couple of members of the wedding party wearing a casual floral skinny tie, while others don a satin black bow tie. The exception to this rule? It’s okay for the groom to wear a bow tie while groomsmen wear ties. The groom is expected to stand out. And it's also ok for the ring bearer to wear something a little different, too - a bow tie in the same color as the groomsmen ties can be a very cute option.\n\n![Should the Groom Wear a Tie](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/45Ptx453nC3t4mG8wquXTz/b662d81ec74c03ee6ac4a2e85fdd25ff/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Different Types of Bow Ties and Ties \n\nColor, texture, fabric, and patterns all set neckwear apart and allow for personalization. For example, do you want your neckwear to be a neutral hue or make a colorful statement? Do you prefer a satin bow tie, or a silk bow tie? There are plenty of different tie styles and designs of both bow ties and neckties. Here are some of the most popular options:\n\n### Bow Ties\n\n#### Self-tie\nAs the name suggests, a self-tie bow tie is one that requires you to actually tie it yourself. If you’ve never tied a bow tie before, practice before your wedding day, so you nail the look. It can be challenging at first. \n\n#### Pre-tied\nPre-tied bow ties come with the knot sewn in place. This means you don’t have to worry about tying the bow tie yourself, but you do have to secure it around your shirt collar. Pre-tied bow ties are attached to an adjustable band. \n\n#### Clip-on\nThe easiest option out of all bow ties, a clip-on bow tie is ready to wear right away. It clips directly onto the collar of your shirt. While convenient, clip-on bow ties are often easy to spot, making them the most appropriate for children and not the most desirable option for grooms. \n\n### Ties\nTies come in a variety of fabrics, colors, and styles. Solid colors are classic choices for grooms, as they easily complement suits and dress shirts. There are many ways to tie a tie, but here are some of the popular styles. \n\n#### Windsor\nA Windsor knot, also called the “Full Windsor,” is a popular way to tie a tie and creates a fuller, sophisticated look. It’s one of the most common and classic knots, because it’s worn in both formal and semi-formal environments - so it's a great option for a [black tie wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding). It’s a timeless symmetrical style that looks fantastic with dress shirts and suit jackets.\n\n#### Half-Windsor\nA Half-Windsor knot is slightly smaller than the Windsor knot and is medium in size. Like the Windsor, this knot is very popular for its versatility. For grooms who want a formal or semi-formal look, consider a Half-Windsor knot—especially if your tie is made of a thicker fabric. \n\n#### Four-in-Hand\nThis knot is suitable for many occasions—except for the most formal. A four-in-hand knot is one of the easiest ways to tie a tie, which is why it’s so popular. It’s a slightly asymmetrical knot, and it’s best for casual button-down dress shirts. This knot is ideal if your tie is a heavier fabric.\n\n![Should the Groom Wear a Tie](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5gKc3G4PJkZWD3zrUYQfPx/e6a5e2ca0d5a53d09f55319a987e4a49/inline_unsplash.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## How to Tie a Bow Tie?\n\n### 1. Hang the bow tie flat around your neck, pulling one side about 1.5 inches longer than the other. The longer end should be on your right side.\n\n### 2. Cross the longer end of the bow tie over the shorter end. Bring the longer end underneath the shorter one, then out from the center. \n\n### 3. Fold the shorter end of the bow tie horizontally.\n\n### 4. Place the longer end over the shorter end. \n\n### 5. Fold the longer end of the bow tie horizontally.\n\n### 6. Insert the longer end through the loop at the back of the shorter end, creating a loose knot.\n\n### 7. Pull both ends gently to tighten the knot.\n\n### 8. Adjust as needed!\n\n## Bow Ties and Ties Can Show Off Personality \n\nLike any wedding accessory for grooms, bow ties and ties are a chance to add a hint of dapper flair to your formalwear. Some grooms like to wear a solid color suit with a polka dot bow tie, while others will match their tie to their wedding’s __[floral arrangements](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/decor-inspiration/flowers)__. It’s also fun to match your accessories with your __[wedding colors](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/decor-inspiration/wedding-colors)__. Another way to get creative is by matching your bow tie or tie to your socks or shoes, which can really help ground an outfit. \n\n## Other Accessories to Elevate Your Attire\nAccessories can instantly elevate and add personality to a tried-and-true suit look. If you're the groom, consider gifting your groomsmen one (or more!) of these accessories as a day-of wedding gift, thanking them for being part of your big day. \n\n### Cufflinks\nCufflinks serve a practical purpose as well as an aesthetic one - they'll make sure your shirt cuffs stay neatly fastened. Choose a pair that are engraved with your initials or your wedding date, or shop for a novelty pair of cufflinks in a creative shape (maybe something that nods to your pet or a hobby!).\n\n### Suspenders\nWhile your tuxedo should fit you well enough that you don't need a belt, suspenders can help keep your pants up - and are a must for a [black tie wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-dress-for-a-black-tie-formal-wedding).\n\n### Pocket Squares\nPocket squares can work with casual wedding guest looks and groomsmen suits alike. If you're a guest at an upcoming wedding, you can wear a patterned pocket square in your suit jacket in place of a tie. Or, if you're the groom or one of the groomsmen, a pocket square can take the place of a boutonniere. Choose one in a color or pattern that reflects your personality to add a little bit of pizzazz to any formalwear look.\n\n### Cummerbund\nIf your wedding reception is going to be a very formal [white tie](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-white-tie-wedding-attire) or black tie affair, you'll likely need a cummerbund to wear with your tuxedo. The functional purpose of a cummerbund is to cover the waistband and any awkward shirt bunching—keeping you photo-ready all night long. \n\n### Patterned Socks\nOne of the easiest ways to add personality to a suit and tie outfit is with a fun pair of socks. They'll only be noticeable when you sit down, so let a little bit of your personality come through with a quirky pattern or vibrant color. \n\n## Bottom Line\n\nAt the end of the day, the decision to wear a bow tie or tie as a groom at your wedding is up to you. Consider your [wedding style](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/decor-inspiration/wedding-style), your wedding venue, and what type of neckwear best matches your suit. It may seem like a small accessory, but it can really make or break a look. 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That is the question we will help you answer today.","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2020-12-16T19:06:48.931Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ZAK5ZspwGGI6kL3uVpfRc/24f3db618a0df13de4b99a6c0f5dbc7a/Hero_RomanticIndustrialWeddingat26Bridge_OnthetimesPhotography.jpg","altText":"wedding dress with a train"},"heroCredit":"Onthetimes Photography","body":"Some brides envision the wedding dress train before having any idea of what the rest of the dress will look like, while others have no concept of what a train is in the first place. A train is the extra fabric attached to the back of the dress that extends behind the bride as she walks. It can exude feelings of majesty and grandeur and make a bride feel like a bride, but depending on the style, it can also be easily damaged, difficult to move in, and expensive.\n\nIt’s important to consider what you want in a wedding dress and to determine whether or not you want a wedding dress train before you shop for your gown. To help you make your decision, we have outlined both the pros and the cons of a wedding dress train, as well as a few alternative options. Then, you can move on to selecting the type of train you’d like and the proper bustle to go with it. This is just the beginning of an endless series of small choices you’ll make while planning your wedding. \n\n## Pros of a Wedding Dress Train\n\n### The Dramatic Effect\nA common phrase you may hear (or say yourself) when wedding dress shopping or when watching a marathon of *Say Yes To The Dress* is “It’s a beautiful dress, but it doesn’t feel bridal.” This comment or some variation of the sort is typically due to the lack of drama or necessary *je ne sais quoi* the dress has. Sometimes, this can be solved with an embellished belt or a show-stopping veil, but almost always it can be solved with a train. A train is the epitome of “bridal.” It can turn an evening gown into a [bridal gown](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/bridal-dresses-gowns) and a beautiful dress into a wedding dress. \n\n### It Looks Great In Photos\nThe same qualities in a train that give it the ability to drop jaws and turn heads in person also apply in photos. Some of the most stunning wedding portraits we’ve seen capture our attention, because of an extravagant bridal train. \n\nThe train may extend any number of feet beyond the end of the skirt, which means it will create a dramatic, photo-worthy moment as you walk down the aisle. With the way it drapes across the floor and cascades down steps, it will draw all the attention to the one wearing it (you) both in person and in photos. If you want your wedding gown to make an impact on the pages of your wedding album, a train will accomplish it. \n\n![Train or No Train? What Are the Pros and Cons of Wedding Dress Trains?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3VNQtPiQYfT2uvrm1U46WV/046d25124faf12c3ae7cfd9dfbf220c8/inline_Grizzle_Photography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Grizzle Photography\n\n### There Are Plenty of Options to Choose From\nJust because you say “yes” to a dress with a train, doesn’t mean you’re committing to a lengthy, heavy, and unmanageable train. There are [wedding dress train types](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-different-types-of-wedding-dress-trains) of every shape and size to choose from, from understated styles that just sweep the floor to regal lengths that trail the bride by ten feet. \n\nChoosing a particular style dress doesn’t inhibit your ability to have a train and vice versa. Long trains can be shortened during alterations or even added. When you try on gowns, talk to your bridal consultant about how each style dress and its train can be converted, so you can find the right combination to match your preferences. \n\n## Cons of a Wedding Dress Train\n\n### The Potential for Damage\nUnfortunately, wedding dress trains aren’t all sunshine and roses. Considering they do drag along the floor, they can easily be damaged. From wedding guests (or even the groom) stepping on the hem, to mud, rocks, and twigs getting caught in the netting, there are plenty of threats a wedding dress train will encounter. \n\nWhile damage can occur to your dress at any given time, the probability of your gown’s train becoming stained or snagged is increased at an outdoor wedding. If you’re saying “I do” outdoors and are concerned about maintaining the quality of your wedding dress after the wedding day, you may want to forgo wearing a dress with a long train. And even though your gown’s train may be safe from the natural elements at an indoor wedding, it will still need to be bustled to prevent a shoe or two from going through it on the dance floor.\n\n### The Weight\nIt should come as no surprise that adding a lot of extra fabric to the skirt of a dress adds a lot of weight to it as well. The longer the train, the heavier it will be. If you select a lightweight style made of tulle or lace fabric, you may not notice a few extra pounds, but heavier fabrics and embellished styles will become heavy quickly. \n\nYou will be on your feet most of your wedding day and need to have the strength to not only stand throughout the ceremony, but also to carry your dress around with you all night. If it feels heavy at the bridal salon, try and picture wearing it for twelve-plus hours. By simply shortening the train length or selecting a dress without one, you can save yourself from fatigue on the wedding day and soreness thereafter.\n\n![Train or No Train? What Are the Pros and Cons of Wedding Dress Trains?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/47qKzgPqitKKZ0OQCTbn2i/6497512be7028dfc8947f6e4acab2d11/inline_OLLI_STUDIO.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // OLLI STUDIO\n\n### The Ability (or Lack Thereof) to Move\nAs we’ve expressed, moving around with a train behind you is no easy feat given the weight of it and the impending threats. Even if you opt for a shorter train, someone can easily step on it, or you could easily trip over it. A train requires assistance from your bridesmaids and eventually a bustle in order to navigate the day from the moment you dress to the moment you climb into the back of the getaway car. While you can likely manage the walk down the aisle without faltering, and the bridal train can look its best during the ceremony with a fluff from your MOH, the reception is a whole other story. Dancing, mingling, and making trips to and from the Champagne tower will be far more difficult with a train slowing you down. If you can bustle your dress before the reception you’ll be able to move through the evening with ease. \n\n### The Cost of Adding a Bustle \nWhile a bustle is all but compulsory, it does come at a cost. Unbeknownst to most, most wedding dresses don’t come with bustles so they need to be added during the alterations process. Elaborate bustles can put a dent in your alterations budget or blow it up completely. While a simple A-line gown and chapel-length train may only require a few loops, dresses with intricate beading, atypical seams, and extremely long trains will be expensive to bustle—and more difficult, too. \n\n## Wedding Dress Train Alternatives\nIf a train is beginning to sound like a lot of work, but the dramatic look of it is important to you, there are other options that can give you the best of both worlds. With all of the pros and none of the cons, these wedding dress train alternatives are easy to say “yes” to:\n\n### A Detachable Train\nA detachable train is a great alternative to a wedding dress with a traditional train for a variety of reasons, the most appealing of which is that you can easily remove it after the ceremony. A [detachable wedding train](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-do-you-attach-a-train-to-a-wedding-dress) allows you the drama of a train for the walk down the aisle. but the comfort of a shorter hemline for the dance floor. Detachable trains come in more than one style, too. Skirts and Watteaus, where the train hooks to the shoulders or upper back of the dress, and capes are all varieties of detachable trains that can give you the same or similar look to a traditional attached train. \n\n### A Longer Veil\nIf you want to wear a veil anyway, why not choose one with an extravagant length that makes up for what the dress lacks in train? A veil can provide the same spectacle as a train of similar length. Whether you opt to forgo a train because of budget or comfort, a veil has your back. \n\n### A Second Dress\nYour wedding dress should be everything you dreamed of and more—and if that means all your dreams can’t be met in one dress, wear a second one. A second dress can be chosen to meet all the stylistic qualities you’re looking for, but it can also be key in combating the cons of a train. Short and spicy, or floor-length and fun, there are plenty of reception-ready dresses to choose from. \n\nDid we help you make up your mind? Consider your wedding venue, style, and desired-comfort-level when deciding whether or not to have a wedding dress train. Nothing will compare to how you actually feel in the right wedding dress, so try them on, train and all, in order to find The One. \n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:53:51.406Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Shoes & accessories","slug":"shoes-accessories"},"slug":"how-to-choose-bridesmaid-jewelry","title":"How to Choose Bridesmaid Jewelry","excerpt":"Not sure what jewelry your bridesmaids should wear on your big day? Check out our favorite jewelry pieces that will make your wedding party stand out. Read on for details. \n","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2021-01-04T16:24:20.434Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1XVpi3JbIz9XTiXYUxjJVi/5845a6d345a062b500f628df43e9d6ff/Hero_ClassicallyElegantCharlotteWedding_CritseyRowePhotography.jpg","altText":"Bridesmaid Jewelry"},"heroCredit":"Critsey Rowe Photography","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- The first step in selecting your bridesmaid jewelry is to match the color of your bridesmaid dresses to complementary metal colors (think rose gold for pink or blue for silver). \n- If you know how you want your bridesmaids to wear their hair and/or the necklines of their dresses, use that to select the style of your bridesmaid jewelry.\n- You can let your bridesmaids pick their own accessories to reflect their styles, or gift them the jewelry that you’d like them to wear. \n","body":"Once you’ve asked your bridesmaids to be a part of your wedding, the next step is to figure out the look that your party will rock on the big day. Are you thinking flashy and formal, or understated and elegant? Whatever the season, the venue, or the couple’s personal style, a wedding party look will help pull the whole aesthetic of the event together. If you’re wondering what bridesmaid jewelry you should select, we’ve broken down the top trends in wedding jewelry we’re breaking it all day so that you can say “yes” to the perfect sparkle and shine. \n\n## Match Your Metals and Gems \nA good rule when selecting jewelry is to match your metal colors to your bridesmaid dress colors. For example, [gold](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-jewelry?color=YELLOW) or [rose gold](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-jewelry?color=PINK) would look stunning with a pink dress, whereas sterling [silver or white gold](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-jewelry?color=GREY) would pop against a yellow or blue dress. As for colored stones for jewelry, bridesmaid accessories are a great way to incorporate other wedding colors into your wedding party ensemble. Consider a [simple pendant](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/auroralux_little_drop_of_magic_necklace_rosegold) or [drop earrings](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/winkofpinkshop_harlow_teardrop_wedding_earrings) in one of your more neutral wedding hues to pull together a cohesive look. \n\n![Zola: How to Choose Bridesmaid Jewelry](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44mtXgcXSkHE7GL0uoaFKP/bdad4f5c38c93cdf8e6b8494b737d2c8/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### Match the Bride\nIf you’re scratching your head over what accessories your bridesmaids should wear, consider what the bride is wearing as a solid jumping-off point. If she’s rocking [crystal earrings](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/auroralux_bloom_crystal_earrings) or a [pearl necklace](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/jilco_pearl_and_diamond_necklace_sterlingsilverwithyellowgoldoverlay), carry that over to your bridesmaid’s accessories. While you don’t want to have your bridesmaids match the bride exactly, pulling elements from her jewelry—like having the ‘maids rock [pearl pendants](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/auroralux_pearl_dangle_necklace) or a [crystal hair clip](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/usabride_portia_crystal_hair_clip_gold)—is an elegant way to form a cohesive look. \n\n### Compliment the Neckline and Hairstyles \nOnce you have your metals and gemstones selected, deciding the style and assortment of accessories is next. You want to make sure that the pieces complement your bridesmaids’ looks, as opposed to taking away from the vibe. Consider how you’d like your bridesmaids to wear their hair (if you have a preference, otherwise they’ll be happy to decide on their own) and/or the neckline of their dresses. [Dangle earrings](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=Dangle%2520earrings) are great for updos, whereas [studs](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=stud%2520earrings) are great for looks where hair will be worn down. One shoulder, halter, and illusion necklines don’t need necklaces (so opt for a [flashier pair of earrings](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/usabride_leia_crystal_drop_earrings_gold) or a [bracelet](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/usabride_ariana_opal_crystal_bracelet)), whereas strapless, sweetheart, and v-neck dresses create a lovely focal point for a necklace, whether it’s [showstopping](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/sorrelli_laurel_necklace) or [simple](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/kozakh_divya_necklace). \n\n### Keep It Simple\nWhile selecting accessories for your wedding party is fun, keep in mind that a few simple pieces will go further than a whole bunch of flashy in-your-face options. If you’re asking your bridesmaids to supply their own accessories, be conscious of the budget. Your pals won’t be excited to shell out money on new shoes, necklaces, and hairpieces in addition to their dresses and day-of glam. Even if you’re supplying the jewelry, opt for one or two focal pieces and keep the rest simple. A good rule of thumb is that if you have a [chunky necklace](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/sorrelli_posey_statement_necklace), opt for [simple earrings](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/sorrelli_round_crystal_stud_earring_sorrelli_essentials_darkchampagne) and visa versa. \n\n*As for how you’ll go about securing the bridesmaid jewelry and wedding party accessories, there are three major options that couples usually opt for:*\n\n![Zola: How to Choose Bridesmaid Jewelry](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1UawBuT9yhmSAghFyjGo53/5b9a6213cd45e187e3b61ab94716132c/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### Let Them Decide for Themselves \nIf you’re outfitting your bridesmaids in matching dresses, allowing your bridesmaids to pick their own accessories is a great way to let their individual personalities shine. While it might be a good idea to ask them to send pictures to either the bride or the maid of honor to avoid surprises, this is a fun way to let your bridesmaids get creative with their looks and potentially keep costs at bay (if they already have something that they can repurpose for the wedding). This option is also great if you’ve settled on a fabric, but are letting them pick their own necklines. Since some necklines look better with necklaces or earrings than others, this will allow them to accessorize properly for their individual looks. \n\n### Give Them Guidelines\nIf you’re letting your bridesmaids pick their own jewelry, but still want an overall cohesive look, give them guidelines to stick to so that you don’t run into any surprises. Maybe you want to stick with [pearls](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=pearl%2520jewelry) or [yellow gold jewelry](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-jewelry?color=YELLOW), or perhaps you’d like everyone to wear [drop earrings](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=drop%2520earrings) with their hair up. Giving your bridesmaids an idea of what you’re thinking and what guidelines to stick to will not only make their choices easier, but it will ensure that no one feels accidentally out of place on the big day. \n\n### Gift Them the Jewelry\nAsking your bridesmaids to buy new accessories can be tricky, especially if they’re on tight budgets or already shelled out a lot of money for things such as bridesmaid dresses and day-of glam. If you have the means (and you’re really set on them wearing matching jewelry), consider gifting them a bridesmaid jewelry set that you’d like them to wear. A [pendant necklace with their initials](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/katespadejewelry_rose_gold_intial_pendant_a) or some [drop earrings](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=drop%2520earrings) can serve as a great bridesmaid gift, and will also ensure that everyone looks uniform on your wedding day. \n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Seasons_Quiz"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Read our round-up of the best places to buy bridesmaid dresses online, plus storefronts to try them on in person. Some budget-friendly, some unique, all flattering.\n","title":"Where to Buy Bridesmaid Dresses: 13 Shops + Answering FAQs","slug":"where-to-buy-bridesmaid-dresses","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2XC5WoAwwzfV7qUKlERL1B/3e27d6f5155bbc52158a4423ba100c97/Hero_EtherealCoastalRomanceStyledShoot_ArleneJacobsPhotography__2_.jpg","altText":"Bride sitting with her bridesmaids in pink dresses on the wedding day"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Not quite sure who should be paying for the bridesmaid's dresses at your wedding? Read our guide to our expert advice.","title":"Who Pays for Bridesmaid’s Dresses? 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From wedding shoes to accessories such as jewelry, veils, flower crowns and more, our expert style guides help you pull it all together!"},{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"let-bridesmaids-choose-own-dresses","title":"The Complete Guide to Mismatched Bridesmaid Dresses","excerpt":"Letting your bridesmaids pick their own dresses for your wedding day means confident bridesmaids and less stress for you. Here are the do’s and don'ts of letting your bridesmaids pick out their own dress. ","author":"Kathleen Wong","publishedAt":"2024-08-13T10:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6kKYuHOeeUvE5sqbavfpLI/a5b85a5d99beac71432d942beadfd696/katelyn-macmillan-5VhSc5jCA2g-unsplash.jpg","altText":"groom with bridesmaids in different dresses"},"heroCredit":"Katelyn Macmillan","tldr":"__Inside this article:__ \n- Why let your bridesmaids choose their own dress?\n- What could go wrong?\n- Guidelines to letting bridemaids pick a dress","body":"__TLDR:__\n- Letting bridesmaids pick their own dresses may seem risky, but it can give them confidence as they end up with a gown they love.\n- Be specific with any guidelines you have, such as if you have a specific color in mind or want a floor length dress.\n- Also, let them know what type of shoes and accessories you'd like your bridal party to wear on your big day.\n\n## Letting bridesmaids pick their own dresses\n\nYou whittled down your social circle into the __[perfect wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one)__ and now it’s time to decide what everyone’s going to wear. While it’s not necessary for the wedding party to wear matching outfits, many couples like to achieve a cohesive look. \n\nTraditionally, bridesmaids wear the same dress or outfit in the chosen wedding color. This helps the bride stand out in her [wedding dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/classic-wedding-dresses-for-the-traditional-bride), makes for visually cohesive photos, and also helps other wedding guests identify the members of the wedding party. \n\nHowever, many couples are loosening the reins and letting __[attendants choose dresses](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop)__ that reflect their individual maid of honor or bridesmaid style. With so much to plan for the wedding day, it may not be necessary to maintain control over everything. Mismatching dresses are one of the best ways to help your bridesmaids feel comfortable. They'll also have more freedom to select a dress that reflects their own style and flatters their body type. \n\nIf you're worried about letting go of control when it comes to mix and match bridesmaid dresses for your big day, don't worry. Or perhaps you just don't care and are willing to give free rein. From choosing bridesmaid dress colors to creating cohesive bridesmaid looks, here’s some wedding inspiration and insights to help you achieve a look that works for your wedding style and for your bridesmaids. \n\n## Why would I let my bridesmaids choose their own dresses?\n \nWe get it: It’s your wedding and it can feel easier to maintain control and just put your girls in the same bridesmaid dress style. However, there are some pluses to giving your attendants this freedom and not having them wear matching bridesmaid dresses.\n\n- __Comfort.__ Anyone who’s ever been a bridesmaid (or dress shopped for that matter) understands that being assigned a specific dress isn’t ideal. What works for one body doesn’t necessarily work for another and the potential resulting discomfort of a unified bridal party look can leave your bridesmaids feeling meh. If they can choose their own dresses, they can seek out different styles, necklines, and cuts that flatter their figures.\n- __Confidence.__ In that same vein, when you look good, you feel good. Let your bridesmaids [choose dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-pick-bridesmaid-dresses) they love (or at least feel comfortable in) and they’ll radiate confidence, not discomfort on your wedding day.\n- __Price.__ Money is often one of the biggest pain points for bridal parties. It’s [expensive to be a bridesmaid](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-bridesmaid-duties)! You don’t have to worry about settling on a price point that fits into everyone’s budget (or feeling guilty for choosing expensive dresses) if you let your bridesmaids choose their own dresses.\n\n![Zola - Mismatched Bridesmaids Dresses: How to Pull Off the Look](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/47xZofgiF7kwAgCW841P3u/2945a2669ac319627e743bc40307f78d/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n\n## Could skipping a specific dress go a little off the rails?\n \nDefinitely. Offering your bridesmaids free rein to select their outfits for your wedding is nerve-wracking. You don’t want to end up with an entirely mismatched situation (unless you do!). There are some cons to letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses.\n- __Cohesion.__ Obviously, if you let your bridesmaids choose their own dresses, they'll probably all pick different styles…and maybe even different colors. If you really want a traditionally cohesive look, maybe reconsider this route.\n- __Confusion.__ Too much of anything isn’t great—the same is true for bridal party freedom. Without any guidelines at all, you may find yourself answering a lot of texts about what’s OK and what’s not—from materials to color to price to length and more.\n\n## Guidelines for letting bridesmaids choose their own dresses\n \nMake the dress hunt easy for your bridesmaids and yourself by being clear about what you really do and don’t want. That way, every one from your maid of honor to junior bridesmaids can feel good in a dress that suits their body type.\n\n### 1. Do: Be specific.\nSure, you told your girls you wanted everyone in pastel green. Great! No, not great. When we say be specific, we mean be specific. If you have a look in mind, be clear about that. Here are some details you may want to be extra clear about:\n\n- __Dress color.__ If you have a dress color in mind, that’s great. However, what looks mauve to one person may be more pale violet to another. Picking a single color can make it difficult for bridesmaids to find dresses in the exact same shade from different vendors. Consider putting together a color palette of 3-4 complementary colors for your [bridesmaids to choose](https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingplanning/comments/pujak6/letting_bridesmaids_pick_dress_style/) from. or offer up a few vendors you’d like for them to order from.\n\n- __Length.__ Some brides don’t mind a variety of hemlines—floor-length, knee-length, mini, midi, etc. If you want all of your bridesmaids in the same length dress, let them know. Alternatively, if you really don’t mind different lengths, let them know that, too.\n\n- __Material.__ Satin, chiffon, charmeuse, crepe, taffeta—the world of dress materials is vast. If all of your bridesmaids are wearing the same exact color, dresses in different materials can be a nice way to add some dimension to the look. However, too many materials can also be a bit distracting. If you don’t want anyone in a jersey knit, make that clear.\n\n- __Style.__ By this, we mean the level of formality. If you’re having a black-tie wedding, you may not want your bridesmaids in semi-formal dresses. Be sure to outline the dress code clearly.\n\nClarity is key. Before you tell your bridesmaids they can choose their own dresses, come prepared with your own suggestions and requirements.\n\n### 2. Don’t: Forget about cost.\nWe like the idea that letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses may remove some of the financial strain. We also like the idea of a bride providing a shortlist (3-5) of dress vendors for the bridal party to choose from. If you go this route, consider selecting different styles you love in a variety of price ranges. Be considerate of your party’s financial situations—and be open to discussing it with any bridesmaid who may be in a tough spot.\n\n![Mismatched Bridesmaid Dresses Yellow](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2hmZIQ3ztPJpdpQndGPd87/bf0699bd01b2345d51b6221c07bbaa1a/Mismatched_Bridesmaid_Dresses_Yellow.jpg)\nPhoto by [Emma Lee Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/emma-lee-photography)\n\n### 3. Do: Make it a group activity.\nYou made a day out of wedding dress shopping…so why not make one out of bridesmaid dress shopping? Go to brunch and then hit the stores. Keep it simple and have a couple of boutiques picked out for the shopping expedition. Note: This may involve making appointments ahead of time. This way, your bridesmaids can choose a variety of dresses and you can be there in person to share immediate impressions. Not only is this just a fun wedding party activity, but it also helps busier bridesmaids find time to shop and nudges along any that err on the side of procrastination.\n\nIf your bridesmaids don’t live in the same area or can’t make the shopping day, that’s OK. Consider scheduling a Facetime with them as they shop. You can also create a dedicated group chat (if you haven’t already) to dress shopping.\n\n### 4. Don’t: Get complicated.\nAbove all, letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses shouldn’t be too complicated or stressful. In fact, it should potentially make things a little easier for you. These girls are your bridesmaids for a reason—and they want to make your wedding day go smoothly. Trust that they’ve got this under control and really, truly, let them take the reins on this one. (Don’t forget to __[thank them for their hard work](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/top-10-ways-to-thank-your-bridesmaids)__ in the planning process, either.)\n\nWho knows, they might even pick a dress they like so much, they’ll wear it again. Isn’t that the best-case scenario for any bridesmaid dress?\n\n### 5. Do: A final check-in.\nThere are the hair and makeup trials, the catering and cake tastings, and, of course, the bridesmaid dress check-in. It’s always a good idea to get on the same page after they've dress shopped and before anything is finalized. Make sure your bridesmaids run their final dress choices by you before they purchase. This way you can see if it fits into your ultimate vision or theme—and you eliminate any surprises and last-minute stress.\n\nGive your bridesmaids an absolute deadline for their final dress check-in. It sounds like a bridezilla move, but, trust us, it benefits them, too. You want everyone to have ample time to either find a new dress or get any necessary alterations. We recommend scheduling your check-in for about seven months ahead of the wedding. Therefore, let bridesmaids pick their own dresses well in advance.\n\n### 6. Don’t: Disregard shoes and accessories.\nBridesmaid attire doesn’t end with the dress. Accessories are everything, especially if you’re going for a mismatched bridesmaid dress look. Choosing a pair of shoes or a specific shoe style and color is an easy way to bring a cohesive look to your bridal party. \n\nIf you don’t have a shoe in mind, be sure to be clear about style. This way you avoid one girl in heels and another in flats. (If one of your bridesmaids needs to wear flats for a personal reason, though, we recommend hearing her out on that, of course.) Alternatively, you may want your bridal party in flats or sneakers. Again, just make sure you’re aligned.\n\nSimilarly, let your bridesmaids know what jewelry you do or don’t want them to wear. Traditionally, brides will purchase and then gift the jewelry they want their bridesmaids to wear. If you want to let them choose their own, that’s cool, too. Be sure, as always, to be clear about style.\n\nAnd don't forget about florals! Bridesmaid bouquets are an accessory in their own right, and will add cohesion to the look of your wedding party. Make sure that whatever flowers you're ordering will complement the bridesmaids' dresses. \n\n![Mismatched Christmas Bridesmaid Winter Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/lGiH566fp4nPH7kj6E8Dt/f3c59ea510b079cf8dbe3584bfa84354/Mismatched_Christmas_Bridesmaid_Winter_Dresses.jpg)\nPhoto by [Bokeh Love Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/bokeh-love-photography-llc)\n\n## 5 Mismatched bridesmaid dress ideas\n \nReady to get down to specifics? Here are some of the approaches you can take when building a mismatched bridal party look.\n\n### 1. Same color, different dress styles\nThis is one of the most straightforward approaches when it comes to choosing different bridesmaid dresses. You have them wearing the same exact color, like dusty blue or burnt orange, and ask your bridesmaids to find whatever dress they want in the chosen color. Add some cohesion to these different styles by giving them certain guidelines—for example, maybe you want them all to wear a maxi dress, or wear dresses that are in the same fabric. \n\n### 2. Same color, different neckline\nIf you're going to be strict about the color and style of the dress, you can give your bridesmaids some flexibility by letting them choose their own neckline. This is one of the best ways to accommodate different body types, as each girl can wear whatever cut she feels comfortable in. For example, maybe your maid of honor has a larger chest and would prefer a dress with straps—while another bridesmaid might love strapless styles.\n\n### 3. Same color, different textures\nTexture is a great way to create visual interest among your different bridesmaid dresses. For example, let's say you're having a [fall wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-look-in-fall-bridesmaid-dresses) and have asked your bridesmaids to wear burnt orange. Maybe one finds a satin dress she loves in the burnt orange shade, while another is drawn to a velvet style. Assign a texture to each maid that not only lets them show off their own personal style, but works well with the textures of the other dresses.\n\n### 4. Different shades of the same color palette\nIf you don't have a specific color in mind, keep it broad and ask bridesmaids to stick to a specific color scheme. For example, you might let your wedding party know to look for shades of green bridesmaid dresses (like sage and forest) or pink bridesmaid dresses (like dusty pink and fuschia). Ideally, this will create a sort of tonal, ombre-inspired look that's perfect for boho weddings.\n\n### 5. Different colors\nIf you want to make a bold statement with your bridal party, get creative by pairing different colors. You can choose a color family, like warm tones or cool tones, or choose a color scheme that reflects the season—for example, jewel tones for a moody winter wedding or pastel shades for a springtime celebration.\n\n![Letting Bridesmaids Pick Their Own Dress](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/0Auo6BBWFwwKMNbZmrGzA/dc4efb283015a188fd07e140c1a3da34/Letting_Bridesmaids_Pick_Their_Own_Dress.jpg)\nPhoto by [Anna So Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/anna-so-photography)\n\n## Thinking beyond the dresses\nEven if you're letting the [bridesmaids choose](https://www.quora.com/Will-you-choose-bridesmaid-dresses-for-your-bridesmaids-or-let-them-choose-their-own-Do-you-want-the-color-to-be-the-same-or-different) their own dress, you still have a lot on your plate while planning your special day. 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Read our full, comprehensive guide on the most appropriate men’s attire that will make you look like you just stepped off the red carpet.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-12-28T17:16:07.930Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ib0hKIbbrVyFqK5kVrTba/419da62e0242fd57217d6ce823673ba4/Hero_Modern_Multi-CulturalWeddingat5226Elm_PaigeNewton.jpg","altText":"How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding"},"heroCredit":"Paige Newton","body":"Whether it’s the Golden Globes or the Grammys, many of us—male and female—watch for the styles. The fashion chatter usually centers around the ladies; however, there is something to be said for a guy who can successfully achieve a red carpet look. So, take your cues from award show fashion to gain inspiration for __[what to wear to a black-tie wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding)__, and forget about any casual attire.\n\nAlthough some guys go off-script and wear colorful and downright outlandish looks, it’s best to stick to the formal dress code rules and formal attire when attending a black-tie wedding. After all, not many can pull off the fashions that Lil Nas X wears at the Grammys. Actually, for most occasions, formal wedding outfits require black-tie attire, which means a tuxedo. A black tie outfit is the height of style, and, consequently, it’s an effortless look to sport. We’ll tell you how with our guide to __[dressing in your black-tie best](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-dress-for-a-black-tie-formal-wedding)__ for an evening wedding.\n\n![How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5xWzi6cRFkonwgW4riVJT5/e43866ef6817ca410e1a3e0da8e0850c/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Black Tie Dress Code Explained\nFirst things first—before we jump into how to dress for a black tie wedding, let's quickly cover where, exactly, the black-tie dress tie comes from.\n\nBlack tie is a semi-formal dress code that dates back to the 19th century. The dress code was popularized both in Britain and America. Both tuxedos and dark suits fall under the \"black tie\" umbrella—and while the dress code is semi-formal, it's generally [appropriate wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding) for more formal events.\n\n## The Perfect Pieces for a Black-Tie Wedding Look\nBlack-tie attire means that you should be wearing a black tuxedo or a dark suit (black suits, dark blue suits, and gray suits are all appropriate), but you can still let your personality shine through. With a few simple guidelines, you can put an outfit together worthy of the red carpet or wedding aisle.\n\n- __Tuxedo Jacket__ : Like the many takes on the classic cocktail dress, there are several __[styles of jackets](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_jacket)__. that work for black tie looks, like dinner jackets, tuxedo jackets, and more formal blazers. However, the common denominator in men’s black-tie suiting is the presence of satin on the lapels (whether it’s a notch lapel, peak lapel, or shawl lapel). Satin fabric also hides the buttons, which elevates the look of any black tux. Although black dress is the standard for black-tie events, darker tones of blue (like midnight blue) are acceptable. A good rule of thumb is to leave the single button closure fastened while standing, to maintain a fitted look (which can also be enhanced by a slim fit cut). \n\n- __Trousers__ : [Pants should match](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_pants) the jacket in both fabric and color. Satin goes down the outside seam on each pant leg, which serves to enhance the look. \n\n- __Crisp, Collared Shirt__ : A white shirt is the only acceptable color, but there is a little leeway with styling. Some tuxedo shirts are wing-tipped, but a [well-constructed oxford](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_tuxedo_shirt) would also suffice. Authentic tux shirts also have small pleats vertically across the chest to add interest. If you don't have an authentic tux shirt, ensure that your white dress shirt looks up to par. \n\n- __Black Shoes__ : Shiny, patent leather shoes are the norm for tuxedos, although quality black leather shoes or loafers will also do the trick. Don’t forget to wear socks. Over the calf, dark socks are ideal.\n\n- __Black Bow Tie__ : A [bow tie](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_bow_tie) allows those tiny pleats in the shirt to have their moment in the sun. Black is the traditional color, and be sure that your necktie neckwear is solid, not patterned.\n\n- __White Pocket Square__ : Dark jackets are in stark contrast to a pure white pocket square. However, it’s incredible how a [tiny square of fabric](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/birdygrey_didi_pocket_square_dustyblue) can create a cohesive look.\n\n- __Cufflinks__ : Unless you’re wearing an oxford, most tuxedo shirts close at the wrist with [cufflinks](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/edelweissjewelry_zola_love_collection_cufflinks_14kyellowgold). particularly if you’re wearing lengthier French cuffs. Subtly is better than going crazy with color, and be sure to match your cufflinks with other metals that you’re wearing. \n\n- __Studs__ : Although you will look like a stud in a tux, that’s not quite where we’re going with this. Upon close inspection, most tuxedo shirts have studs instead of buttons. These aren’t 100 percent necessary, but they do add to the look. Also, be sure to match metals with your cufflinks and other jewelry pieces. \n\n- __Vest or Cumberbund__ : These pieces are never meant to be worn in tandem. Covering your midsection with a cummerbund or vest is posh, but not completely necessary. If you do decide to wear one, remember that this isn’t high school. Black is best, so stay away from vibrant colors meant for prom.\n\n![How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/78mHneRzRZEno1T3RJAHp0/7b5a54fa7ba993829e03dedf46a4dea2/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Where to Get a Tux for a Black-Tie Wedding\n\n### How to Rent a Tuxedo Locally\nMost guys don’t have a tux hanging in their closet, but if they do, chances are that it doesn’t get much use. That’s where rentals come in handy. Many local bridal salons and upscale men’s shops rent tuxedos to grooms and other wedding party members. So if you need a black tie outfit, chances are that they can get you one, too.\n\n#### Pros of Renting a Tux Locally\nAn advantage of heading somewhere in person is that you can ensure a perfect fit. Also, if something is wrong—a missing button or loose hem—they can order another piece or fix it on site. You can also see fabrics and styles in person, which is a huge plus. \n\n#### Cons of Renting a Tux Locally\nThe downside to renting is usually drop-off times, especially if you’re traveling and rent at your final destination. Returning your tux before an early Sunday morning flight may prove difficult.\n\n### How to Rent a Tux Online\nIt seems that you can do just about anything with the internet at your fingertips, and renting a tux is one of them. Many businesses specialize in formalwear rentals, so be sure to select a longstanding one with a good reputation.\n\n#### Pros of Renting a Tux Online\nQuite often, companies have strict measurement guidelines on their website. However, many online rental sites will send you a tuxedo to test out before the main event. They are also a bit more flexible with return times, giving up to 72 hours to ship your pieces back.\n\n#### Cons of Renting a Tux Online\nAlthough rentals usually come with quick shipping, it’s tough to solve problems right away if something arrives damaged. Unless you can do a try on ahead of time, selecting fabrics and styles from afar can prove challenging. \n\n### Where to Buy a Tuxedo\nIf you’re the exception and have quite a few black-tie events coming up, investing in a tuxedo can save money in the long run. Many men’s clothiers sell tuxedos, although purchasing online is also an option. Be sure to order it well in advance of your black-tie wedding so that you can make exchanges if necessary.\n\n## In the Case of Black-Tie Optional\nYikes! You’re all set with what black-tie is, but the invitation adds one tiny, scary word after it—optional. Don’t worry. Demystifying the terminology is easier than it sounds, but this never, ever means that jeans and your favorite band t-shirt are okay.\n\nBlack-tie optional attire for weddings is a bit more relaxed than a tuxedo. Often, couples choose this option to alleviate any financial burden for their guests. After all, the expense of traveling and buying a wedding gift is enough without having to spring for new suiting. So, seeing the word “optional” is a good thing. \n\nThink of it as mimicking a tuxedo without wearing one. Dark suiting with a crisp, white shirt and black shoes are ideal. Also, add traditional accessories, such as a pocket square, dark bow tie, and cufflinks. Skip the studs and cummerbund, but feel free to wear a vest if you have one that matches your suit.\n\nThe rule of thumb is to stick to the dress code and wear your most formal wear. If you don’t own a suit, it’s probably the time to invest in one, or you could go the tuxedo rental route.\n\n*__Quick tip:__ Black-tie optional can also be referenced as “black-tie preferred.”*\n\nSo, whether you’re headed to a black-tie wedding or are one of the fortunate ones to walk the red carpet at a black-tie event, use our guide to get it right. With a few key pieces—either borrowed or purchased—you’ll soon be looking your best at the season’s best events. Which, of course, includes weddings.\n\n## 10 Black Tie Wedding Attire Ideas for Men\nLooking for some help with black tie attire? We’ve come up with these formal wedding outfit ideas to help you nail your look.\n\n### 1. Pronto Uomo Modern Fit Tuxedo Coat\nThis black __[Pronto Uomo tuxedo coat](https://www.menswearhouse.com/p/pronto-uomo-modern-fit-suit-separates-tuxedo-coat-black-3X933X9410)__ is a sleek and elegant choice for any black tie affair. The trim and modern fit provides plenty of comfort and mobility and features a two-button design and satin notch lapel. This tuxedo coat retails for $219.99 at Men’s Wearhouse.\n\n### 2. Stretch Tuxedo Shirt\nThis __[Stretch Tuxedo Shirt](https://bonobos.com/products/stretch-tuxedo-shirt)__ is a comfortable and snappy component of any black-tie outfit. The shirt features attractive mother-of-pearl buttons and double-knife pleats for some added texture. French cuffs tie the look together with an added touch of elegance—and ample opportunity to show off your favorite pair of cufflinks. This shirt retails for $179 from Bonobos.\n\n### 3. Barathea Tuxedo Pants\nFor a classic look that ties your look together, these black __[Barathea Tuxedo Pants](https://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=442547002)__ are the answer. These pants are made from 100% virgin wool from one of Italy’s oldest mills and tailored with a slim fit for a comfortable, natural look that works in any season. Available for $220 from Banana Republic.\n\n### 4. Black and Burgundy Paisley Tuxedo Vest Set\nElevate your look with this __[Black and Burgundy Paisley Tuxedo Vest Set](https://paulmalone.com/collections/tuxedo-vests/products/black-and-burgundy-paisley-tuxedo-vest-set)__. The set includes a wine red and black paisley microfiber vest, matching pocket square, and your choice of a matching necktie or pre-tied cravat—though you can also pair it with your favorite bow tie. Altogether, this set is an affordable and stylish solution for any formal wedding or black-tie event. Available for $39.97 from Paul Malone.\n\n### 5. Steel and Onyx Tuxedo Studs\nAccessorizing isn’t always the easiest—especially with black-tie attire. Fortunately, these __[Steel and Onyx Tuxedo Studs](https://propercloth.com/products/steel-and-onyx-tuxedo-studs-431.html)__ are the perfect addition for a modern and classy take on a tux. These steel studs are Italian-made and come four to a set, with each featuring a black onyx face. These tuxedo studs retail for $75 from Proper Cloth.\n\n### 6. Personalized Rose Gold Round Cufflinks\nThough some cufflinks fly under the radar, these __[Personalized Rose Gold Round Cufflinks](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cathysconcepts_personalized_rose_gold_round_cuff_links_u)__ make a statement. The elegant rose gold adds a bit of contrast to your getup—while the engraveable face adds a personalized touch. Available from Zola for $27.99.\n\n### 7. Cummerbund\nThis __[Cummerbund](https://theblacktux.com/collection/accessory/cummerbund)__ can help you truly embrace the formality of a black-tie outfit. Made of plain black silk and with adjustable backing, this cummerbund won’t cramp your style on the dancefloor, but will help you stand out as someone who respects tradition. Available to rent for $15 or to purchase for $30 from The Black Tux.\n\n### 8. Tux Plain Toe Derby\nLet your style shine with these liquid-shine __[Tux Plain Toe Derby](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/florsheim-tux-plain-toe-derby-men/4873534)__ patent leather dress shoes. These shows are elegant in their simplicity, with a cushioned footbed to keep you comfortable through the day’s—and night’s—festivities. Available from Nordstrom for $124.95.\n\n### 9. Cotton Pocket Square\nTo add a bit of color to your black-tie outfit, incorporate this stylish and formal light blue __[Cotton Pocket Square](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/deltoro_cotton_pocket_square_lightblue)__. This timeless accessory is made in Lake Como, Italy, from a high-quality cotton that helps elevate your look for any formal affair. Available from Zola for $25.\n\n### 10. Classic-Fit UltraFlex Stretch Black Solid Tuxedo Separates\nShopping for the various bits of a formal ensemble can be overwhelming and time-consuming. Fortunately, this set of __[Classic-Fit UltraFlex Stretch Black Solid Tuxedo Separates](https://www.macys.com/shop/product/lauren-ralph-lauren-mens-classic-fit-ultraflex-stretch-black-solid-tuxedo-separates?ID=10503427)__ has almost everything you need to meet a black-tie dress code. Separates include a tuxedo jacket, pants, and vest, giving you the opportunity to accessorize however you see fit. Retails for $56.25 - $202.50 from Macy’s.\n\n## FAQs About Black Tie Dress Code\nStill not 100% clear on what the black tie dress code is—and how to ensure your wedding attire fits that dress code? Let's take a look at some frequently asked questions about black tie wedding attire to give some additional perspective:\n\n1. __What is the difference between a tuxedo and a suit?__ The main difference between a tuxedo and a suit is that tuxedos have a host of satin features—like lapels, buttons, and pant stripes—that suits do not.\n\n2. __What kinds of weddings have black tie dress codes?__ The black tie dress code is reserved for events that take place in the evenings—so weddings that start after 6pm or so may have a black tie dress code, while more casual daytime affairs would not.\n\n3. __What is the difference between a black tie and a white tie wedding dress code?__ White tie is the most formal dress code—and as such, is reserved for formal occasions. Black tie is considered semi-formal.\n\n4. __What should you do if you're invited to a black tie wedding—but don't have a tuxedo?__ Not to worry! Most men don't own tuxedos. There are plenty of places where you can rent a tuxedo, whether you're a wedding guest or in the wedding party—and if that's not an option, a dark suit would also be appropriate.\n\n5. __Is there any way to incorporate color into black tie wedding attire?__ While there aren't many opportunities for incorporating color into black tie wedding attire, if it's important to you, you could add a pop of color with accessories, like a pocket square.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Learn the ins and outs of semi-formal attire for men. 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Luckily, Zola has you covered with this easy guide. Read on now.","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-14T18:17:19.140Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6FbTEkIOvwhgnjNVFfvbPU/9fed0ee78b65647114b0bbc7e741fe5a/inline_hewittphotography.jpg","altText":"Cocktail wedding Attire"},"heroCredit":"Hewitt Photography","body":"Cocktail attire is generally associated with knee-length dresses, sophisticated heels, and simple suits. However, as one of the most popular (and versatile) dress codes, there are numerous ways that you can incorporate your own personal style in dressing for this type of wedding...starting with long dresses.\n\nFrom the color and fabric of the dress, to the hairstyle and accessories you pair with it, a maxi dress can easily pass as proper cocktail attire, if styled correctly. Below are a few pieces of advice to make sure that you’re picking the right gown and accessorizing it accordingly for a semi-formal ceremony.\n\n### Seasonality Matters\nIf the wedding takes place in the winter, no one is going to bat an eye at the fact that you’re wearing a long dress—if anything, it’s likely expected. All that the cocktail or semi-formal attire request means in the colder months is that you’re welcome to pick a more casual option than what you’d choose for a black-tie event. For example, while you may have picked a silk, emerald green number for a black-tie wedding, you might go for a long, cotton gown with moody florals instead. \n\n### Pick Your Silhouette (and Fabric) Wisely\nA fitted, full-length gown gives off a very different vibe than a flowy maxi with a slit. When planning what length of dress to wear, consider what would seem most cocktail-appropriate and feel the most comfortable to you. If you normally opt for more fitted dresses, maybe consider a knee-length shift or an A-line number, instead. However, if you’re comfortable in something with a lot of movement, then a lightweight maxi-dress is perfectly appropriate.\n\nIn addition to shape, fabrics play an important role in the overall formality of the dress. Fabrics such as satin, velvet, crepe, and organza are generally more suited for black-tie—unless you plan to really dress them down with accessories—while lightweight silk, cotton, and linen blends are much more fitting for a cocktail maxi-dress. Slits and high-low hems are also a fun way to dress down your ensemble, while incorporating a bit of personality.\n\n### Consider the Venue\n\n![Can you wear a long dress for cocktail attire?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4Af8XXHF0YtCmGwrEMXBKy/3ce3bccca2feadc1dafb2771656c2196/inline_chrislanephotography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Chris Lane Photography\n\nIf it’s a backyard wedding or farm setting, then you might not want your dress sweeping the floor the whole evening (or have to wear heels to keep your hem clean). Once you receive the official invitation (or link to the couple’s wedding website!), look up the venue and try to get a good idea of the types of surfaces that you’ll be walking on. There’s always the chance that they’ll rent flooring for the day, but you don’t want to have to rely on it. If you go long, try something that isn’t a ground-duster, or opt for a pair of comfy wedges to add a few inches.\n\n### Opt for Alternative Colors and Prints\nBecause you’re picking a slightly more formal silhouette by going full-length, you can go a little more casual with your color and print choices. If it’s a spring or summer event, maxi dresses in terra cotta or mustard tones are great options, as are dainty florals in vibrant colors. For fall and winter events, jewel tones are always a wise choice, but long-sleeved dresses in moody florals and vintage prints are fun alternatives, too. If you do choose a print, make sure that you pick more subtle accessories so that the look doesn’t become too busy, or make it seem like you’re trying to steal the show.\n\n### Keep It Natural\nIf you’ve got your heart set on wearing a full-length dress, then keep your hair and makeup as laid back as possible. There’s a big difference between cat eyes and a tightly pulled updo, versus relaxed, tousled waves and some subtle lipstick. Details such as undone braids, beachy waves, and natural, kinky curls are great options to complement a less formal maxi. So long as you’re considering the seasons and venue, details such as a low bun, a little bit of extra eye makeup, or a statement lip can work, too.\n\n### Dress It Down With Accessories\nEarrings, hairpieces, shoes, and bags are some of the simplest ways to dress an outfit up or down. Instead of a sparkly clutch, maybe opt for a relaxed crossbody bag in a fun color, instead. For a fall wedding, consider adding a sophisticated leather jacket over your floral maxi dress. A fancier alternative to a denim jacket, a leather jacket keeps you warm, but also ensures that you don’t look out of place. For a summer event, consider tasteful wedges or block heels in a fun print. Flats are also an option, if they’re polished enough (particularly if they’re in an unexpected fabric such as velvet or satin).\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_WeddingBoutique"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"It’s easy to pick an outfit for a formal wedding, but what about a casual attire wedding? Read on to get some pointers on what to wear to a casual attire wedding. ","title":"Casual Wedding Attire Guide","slug":"casual-wedding-attire-guide","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6uuL6M77rEUl8NuQmPGrI6/12ef1b1f643341a710ceb9d7a3e01e3c/inline_cbrownphoto__1_.jpg","altText":"how to dress for a casual wedding dress code"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Discover the ultimate guide on what to wear for a black-tie wedding. 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Eyes will be on you throughout the wedding day and into the evening—and odds are you’ll be featured in many photos. Plus, you’ll want to feel your best. With all of this is mind, we’ve put together a comprehensive groom’s and groomsmen's attire guide.\n\n## What's the Difference?\n\nFirst thing’s first: What are the main differences between groom and groomsmen attire? Because suits and tuxedos can look fairly similar (especially in like colors), a few things a groom can do to stand out from his groomsmen are as follows:\n\n- Don a boutonniere. Doing so will also ensure that you coordinate with your partner.\n\n- Wear a different [tie](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-tie-for-groomsmen) or bowtie. This works especially well if your groomsmen’s are all matching.\n\n- Include a print. Wear a patterned blazer or suit jacket over your dress shirt, or patterned accessories, like socks or your pocket square.\n\n- Elevate your look. Differentiate yourself by wearing a different color, high quality fabric, or structure and silhouette. For example, if your groomsmen are wearing light gray or black, opt instead for dark gray or navy. Think along the lines of a bridal gown vs a bridesmaid’s dress.\n\nWith this in mind, read on for our guide.\n\n## Appropriate Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nSo, what is [appropriate](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/groomsmen-etiquette-101-a-beginners-guide) groom and groomsmen wedding attire? Here are some things to keep in mind:\n\n- The groom’s and groomsmen’s outfits should match the formality of the wedding and the venue.\n\n- Popular groom and groomsmen attire for more formal events include suits and tuxedos, while informal weddings allow for dress shirts and slacks.\n\n- If the groom’s attire matches the groomsmen, it’s important that everyone follows the dress code and goes shopping months in advance.\n\n- If the groom wants to stand out from the groomsmen, styling tricks can distinguish him from members of the wedding party.\n\n- Some grooms want all of their groomsmen to dress individually and not match one another. In these cases, establish a dress code and color palette for everyone to follow.\n\n## Groomsmen Attire FAQs\n### How to Choose Groomsmen Attire\nWhen it comes to selecting and even browsing for groomsmen clothing, there are several factors to be considered. Keeping these top-of-mind can be a tremendous aid in helping you decide on outfit pieces, fabrics, colors, fits, and more.\n\n- __Season.__ The season the wedding takes place in can have a large influence on what’s worn—especially if it’s an outdoor wedding. Take your cues from the weather and seasonal color palettes for attire that fits seamlessly.\n\n- __Time of Day.__ Depending on the season and your location, temperatures can vary drastically, from midday to late in the night. Consider what time (or times) of day you’ll be celebrating and dress accordingly. For example, if you’ll be out in the hot sun most of the time, you’ll want to opt for lighter, breezier fabrics.\n\n- __Wedding Venue.__ You wedding venue dictates much of the feeling and atmosphere of a wedding. Try to match its level of formality when deciding on your attire.\n\n- __Wedding’s Theme or Dress Code.__ Perhaps most crucial, pay special attention to any information the couple gives you prior to the wedding. Most often, you’ll be notified via invitation or wedding website of the wedding style and dress code. Take note of this when looking for an outfit—and always double check with the couple if you aren’t sure.\n\n### What Should the Groom and Groomsmen Wear?\nA [wedding’s venue](https://zola.app.link/o9Wx4NVYvcb) and [theme](https://zola.app.link/vxkYfJyN71) should inform what a groom and his groomsmen wear. It’s been said before, but it will be said again: Your outfit’s level of formality should reflect your wedding theme and wedding venue. If you’re getting married in your parents’ backyard, you don’t need to rock a tuxedo (unless that’s your thing). Likewise, nuptials at a place of worship call for a certain style of dress—it’s not appropriate to wear flip flops and a golf shirt in a church.\n\n### Who Pays for the Groomsmen Attire?\nAs with most things involved in wedding planning, this ultimately depends on the couple’s preferences. Most often, each individual groomsmen—as well as other members of the wedding party—will purchase or rent their own attire for the big day. Because of this, they usually also have a say in what they end up wearing. That said, there are cases in which the groom, couple, of even the groom’s parents will offer to chip in to cover some (or all) outfit expenses. This, however, highly depends on their budget and dress expectations.\n\nIn any case, communication about who’s going to pay should be communicated ASAP. Read: Before anyone agrees to be a groomsman. It’s crucial that everyone has all of the information they need, such as spending expectations, before committing.\n\n## 6 Groomsmen Attire Options\nOnce you determine how formal or informal you can be, decide what you want to wear. Some popular options for grooms and groomsmen include:\n\n### Formal Attire\n1. __[Tuxedos](https://zola.app.link/y2nb5n96Ocb)__. Tuxes are great for formal weddings and black-tie events. They can be worn during all four seasons, and are great for both indoor and outdoor weddings.\n\n2. __Dark suits__. These days, a nice two- and three-piece dark suit is acceptable for a wedding with a formal dress code. Make sure your suit is well fitted and pressed before the day of.\n\n### Semi-Formal Attire\n3. __[Suits](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-groom-and-groomsmen-suits)__, either three-piece or two-piece. A three-piece suit can be worn at formal weddings or semi-formal affairs. Two-piece groomsmen suits are a bit more casual and can be dressed down, even more so when the jacket is removed. In any case ,wedding suits should fit well and be pressed.\n\n### Casual Attire\n\n![How Many Groomsmen Is Normal? | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4BCAiHkxjk12bywl5iorO4/520a78ffa33671b2c8e4747187f5b956/inline_shutterstock_1_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Shutterstock\n\n4. __[Vest](https://zola.app.link/HcXfoUd7Ocb)__, __dress shirt__, __and slacks__. A play on the two-piece suit, wearing a vest over a dress shirt is a great look for more informal events or summer weddings.\n\n5. __[Dress shirt](https://zola.app.link/eLaNHDg7Ocb)__ __and slacks__. Paired with a tie or bow tie, this look can be accentuated by suspenders or a nice leather belt.\n\n6. __Shirt and khakis__. For informal or casual spring/summer weddings, skip the dress pants altogether and sport a pair of chinos with a nice shirt—tie optional.\n\n## Matching Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nTraditionally, a groom and his groomsmen wear matching tuxedos or suits, but today there are no hard rules. If you want the groom and groomsmen to wear the same attire, whether it be a suit or a dress shirt and pants, consider the following:\n\n- What is your [wedding theme](https://zola.app.link/vxkYfJyN71)/what are your wedding colors? If you’re having a fall, rustic wedding and are incorporating colors of blush and burgundy, the groom and groomsmen should follow suit. Gray suits with burgundy ties, for example, would be a way to stay on-theme.\n\n- What are everyone’s budget and location? It’s important to [talk about money when you’re at a wedding party](https://zola.app.link/gxLaAGyN71) to ensure that everyone can afford the same outfit. This can help determine whether you will rent, buy, or borrow garments. Remember that location affects availability and suit fitting appointments if you’re going the custom route.\n\n- Plan months in advance. If your groom and groomsmen attire matches, go shopping at least four to six months in advance to allow for enough time to order and tailor garments.\n\n- Another tip? Regardless of whether all groomsmen get fitted for their outfits at the same time and place, or do it individually, it’s a good idea to have everyone’s measurements [sent to the tailor two to four months before the wedding](https://zola.app.link/INwxgJyN71)—especially during peak wedding season—to ensure that everyone gets their clothing back on time.\n\nA popular style is for groomsmen to match one another, but the groom wears a slightly different, yet complementary, look. If you want the groomsmen to match, but the groom to stand out, consider the following:\n\n- Have the groomsmen’s attire match your wedding theme, but make the groom’s suit or tux slightly different by picking a feature color and highlighting it in different ways. For example, if forest green is one of your wedding colors, have the groomsmen wear green ties and [gray suits](https://zola.app.link/cE3oSTw7Ocb), while the groom wears a forest green suit and gray tie. This is a way to have everyone look good while standing together, yet still allowing the groom to stand out.\n\n## Mismatched Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nIf matching isn’t your thing, that’s cool. No groom and groomsmen need to dress the same. It’s important, however, that everyone at least looks cohesive and adheres to a dress code. A groomsman wearing linen pants will look odd next to a groomsman in a black tuxedo. The groom should set the tone and let everyone know how formal or casual they can dress and what color palette to stick to.\n\nIf you want all groomsmen to sport a navy two-piece suit, communicate what is appropriate. It’s one thing to say, “Everyone wears a blue suit!” but make sure that you also include dress shirts, ties, and shoe styles and colors. If your wedding is more casual and the groom is wearing nice slacks and a dress shirt, the groomsmen should follow. Use terms such as “business casual” and “semi-formal dress” to help the wedding party understand the level of formality that you want them to follow. Use photographs and share ideas with them. It’s a good idea to see (and approve) all groomsmen’s outfits before the wedding to make sure that they a) look good with what the groom is wearing, and b) are within the dress code. This helps to avoid any last-minute fashion disasters.\n\nIf the groom and groomsmen's attire doesn’t match, you can incorporate accessories to weave everyone together. Matching socks, ties or boutonnieres are all ways to let the groom and groomsmen stand out from one another, yet still complement each other’s looks.\n\nThe type of wedding you’re planning will dictate what the groom and groomsmen should wear. Look to other aspects of your wedding planning, such as venue, season, formality, and whether or not you want the groom and members of his wedding party to match. There’s no right or wrong way to dress for a wedding, but there are ways to ensure that everyone’s attire looks cohesive and fantastic.","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Do the groomsmen pay for their groomsmen suits, or does that financial responsibility fall on the groom?","title":"Who Pays for the Groomsmen Suits?","slug":"who-pays-for-the-groomsmen-suits","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3t9k4RlVKl3wuoJpk0QAQN/02946995cdf688fa2269c7de00dc8b4d/Hero_GreatGatsbyWeddingatBridgesGolfClub_GriegCooperPhotographer.jpg","altText":"Who Pays for the Groomsmen Suits"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Read this guide to find out how to determine whom to ask to act as groomsmen in your wedding.","title":"How to Choose Your Groomsmen","slug":"how-to-choose-your-groomsmen","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5MPuNf6pXjbi9AyamCOjm0/0f9689ecf33ee1396edb47d5d320387d/Hero_TimelessWeddingatCodmanEstate_MeiLinBarralPhotography.jpg","altText":"How to Choose Your Groomsmen"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"You don’t just want to look good on your big day; you want your groomsmen to look sharp, too. 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We've compiled a list of 10 places to shop plus moodboards for every wedding style.","publishedAt":"2024-08-13T16:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4mMWGycb0RlzWGFZTAJQt2/d899aec4756f6b7c139dd89e2dd3838e/androgynous-attire-for-weddings-hero.jpg","altText":"A woman wearing androgynous wedding attire during the sunset. "},"heroCredit":"Fly View Productions","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com","tldr":"__Inside this article:__ \n- How to find androgynous formal wear\n- Where to get androgynous wedding attire\n- How to personalize androgynous formal wear for every wedding type","body":"__TLDR:__\n- If you're looking for androgynous formal wear, be sure to consider your budget and preferred style before purchasing. \n- Several shops, like Duchess Clothier and SuitShop are perfect for fulfilling your androgynous wedding guest attire needs.\n- Consult our guide for styling for every type of [androgynous wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/gender-non-conforming-wedding-attire). Whether romantic, class, boho or beyond, we have visual cues to help.\n\n## Searching for androgynous wedding guest attire?\nDeciding what to [wear as a wedding guest](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/dos-donts-wedding-guest-fashion) is definitely not as easy as sampling everything at the [buffet table](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-food-ideas). But finding an outfit you love will make you feel your best and boost your confidence.\n\nIf a gender-neutral style is your style of choice, there are plenty of ways you can create a formal wear look that will make you feel your best. From classic to laid-back, we'll show you just how and where to find androgynous [wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding) and how you can style it depending on any wedding theme.\n\n## How to find androgynous formal wear \nWhether you're an experienced wedding attendee or this is your first time celebrating your favorite lovebirds, finding the perfect wedding attire can be overwhelming, especially if you're set on finding the perfect gender neutral wedding outfit. \n\nWe here at Zola have you covered with all of your wedding wear needs. Here are some steps on how to find androgynous wedding attire.\n\n### 1. Set a budget\nTo help avoid overspending and narrow down your options, the first step in finding the perfect androgynous wedding attire is to [set a budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/planning-101/budgeting). \n\nDecide how much you're willing to spend on the wedding outfit, taking into account not only necessary adjustments, such as [tailoring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-do-wedding-dress-alterations-cost), but also any accessories, shoes, and makeup you'll have to purchase. Do some research by looking at stores online and local boutiques to help you come up with a budget that makes sense.\n\n### 2. Decide on your preferred style\nAlthough having a budget will help you narrow down which stores to go to, having a general idea of what style of clothing you're looking for will help you figure out where to go. Consider your preferred style choices, what makes you feel the most comfortable, and the [wedding theme](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-themes). \n\nHaving a look in mind will make the process easier and faster. Find inspiration by looking at current fashion trends and social media accounts of people with a similar style as yours.\n\n### 3. Consider how much time you have\nLastly, consider how much time you have to find your gender-neutral wedding outfit since it will likely dictate whether you should shop online or in person. If you're short on time, might need your outfit tailored, or want to try it on first, find a couple of local stores to go to. Otherwise, shopping online can give you a wide range of options to choose from—just be sure to account for shipping times.\n\n![Androgynous Wedding Guest Attire](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ueZ9Qeq5seT7GOemiI1SN/546e8e8a38b3c4f83b6aba4831ebb05c/Androgynous_Wedding_Guest_Attire.jpg)\nPhoto by [Creatrix Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/creatrix-photography)\n\n## Where to get androgynous wedding attire \nIf you're still looking for places to shop for an outfit, there are many stores focusing on androgynous formal wear. These stores' main purpose is to provide you with an array of gender-neutral pieces, from formal wear to casual pieces, that will help you look and feel your best. Here are some that we recommend:\n\n### 1. The Tailory New York\nAnother custom suit option with online fittings is [The Tailory New York](https://thetailorynyc.com/), a women-owned clothing company that combines custom tailoring with modern fashion design. If you're looking for a bold and ambitious look, The Tailory has different clothing styles and colors, from modern fairytale to street chic. Their suits and tuxedos start at $1,450.\n\n### 2. Bindle & Keep\n\n[Bindle & Keep](https://www.bindleandkeep.com/) offers suits that are made just for you. If you want to have a suit created for your exact measurements, Bindle & Keep will do fittings both in person and online. They divide their suit options into three different pricing tiers varying by fabric, which ranges from $995 to $1,395. If you're considering custom-made androgynous wedding attire from Bindle & Keep, make sure to order ahead of time as their turnaround time is between 10 and 11 weeks.\n\n### 3. WILDFANG\nIf you're looking for a place where you can buy your everyday clothes but also find formal wear for your special event, [WILDFANG](https://www.wildfang.com/) is a good option. Its mission is to rethink gender norms and focus on androgynous outfits. At their store, you'll be able to find blazers, [dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-spring-wedding), and even accessories at a more affordable price, ranging from $70 to $200.\n\n### 4. Duchess Clothier\nIf you're looking for another made-to-fit option, [Duchess Clothier](https://www.duchessclothier.com/) creates androgynous outfits for every body and occasion. Their store is located in Portland, OR, where you'll get plenty of separate suit and shoe options, but they also let you create your own look by mixing and matching pieces. The price for their suits starts at $1,120 and they offer packages that also include dress shirts, ties, and pocket squares.\n\n### 5. Kirrin Finch\n[Kirrin Finch](https://kirrinfinch.com/) seeks to create fitting clothes that make you feel confident and comfortable. Their attire is designed to fit bodies of all shapes and sizes. They offer a wide range of androgynous formal wear, from dress shirts to suits and blazers. Prices range from $150 to $400 and offer a variety of silhouettes and colors.\n\n![Kirrin Finch Androgynous Formal Wear](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1lW1ojxP5jTJEjgXs2OkJu/98f85f274d87bcead990e2b668f5ee64/Kirrin_Finch_Androgynous_Formal_Wear.jpg)\n\n### 6. SuitShop\nIf you're looking for a more affordable option, or even considered [renting](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-does-a-tuxedo-rental-cost), [SuitShop](https://suitshop.com/) can provide you with high-quality clothing for a price that will make you feel as good as you look. At SuitShop, you can own a suit for as little as $199, and you'll get a variety of options to choose from with inclusive sizing. Plus, you can try your androgynous wedding attire for free for seven days.\n\n### 7. Birdy Grey\nAlthough [Birdy Grey](https://www.birdygrey.com/) fancies itself a [bridesmaid](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-bridesmaid-duties) dress retailer, they also offer options for suits and tuxedos that are tailored to perfection. At the online retailer, you'll also see a variety of shoes and accessories that are perfect for any wedding theme. Their gender-neutral wedding outfits are also affordable, starting at $199.\n\n### 8. Peau de Loup\n[Peau de Loup](https://www.peaudeloup.com/)'s goal is to make clothes for bodies and not genders, offering high-quality and limited clothing that accommodates curves. Aside from finding your androgynous wedding attire there, you'll also be able to get shoes, accessories, and casual clothing. Their formal wear is affordable, with prices starting at $98.\n\n### 9. HauteButch\nAnother brand that creates masculine clothing to fit women's bodies is [HauteButch](https://hautebutch.com/), a queer Black-owned brand. This small company creates innovative and diverse styles that represent who you are. They sell suits, vests, and accessories in a variety of styles and colors, with suits starting at around $200.\n\n### 10. Sharpe Suiting\n[Sharpe Suiting](https://sharpesuiting.com/) will help you achieve a look that will both fit your body and your style. They specialize in wedding attire and use their trademarked body measuring formula called “Andropometrics” to deliver you a custom suit. The process of purchasing a custom outfit will take around eight weeks, and a two-piece suit starts at $1,800.\n\n![Sharpe Androgynous Formal Wear](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/48SlVkaQrogBBmLLYA9Ogq/cdca55ee7c7ea3539d3123b08632e6af/Sharpe_Androgynous_Formal_Wear.jpg)\n\n## How to personalize androgynous formal wear for every wedding type \nNo matter how you express yourself, your wedding attire should fit the [wedding type](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/couples-top-wedding-themes) you’re attending or planning. Whether that is a classic chic wedding or a beach getaway, there are different ways you can personalize your androgynous formal wear according to the theme. \n\nWhen deciding on what to wear for the wedding, consider each element of your wedding attire, including accessories, shoes, and colors. You can also add your own personal touch by using elements that you usually wear—like your favorite watch or a pop of color that looks good on you.\n\n### 1. Classic\nClassic weddings are more traditional and elegant, and sometimes will require [black tie wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding). Whether your invite mentions a dress code or not, invest in looks in black, gray, or dark blue with solid fabric. If the wedding is during the summer, you might opt to wear lighter tones such as light gray or beige. \n\nYour look should be elegant and fitted, so if you’re going for a suit, consider wearing solid wool fabric, a black bowtie, and a collared white shirt. To complete your look, wear classic black leather shoes and gold and pearl jewelry, if that’s true to your style. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-classic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/630zTDv9adarWkCgmAY9X8/774dd5af04a72b617487675442696d26/androgynous-attire-for-classic-weddings.png)\n\n### 2. Rustic\n[Rustic weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue) are full of natural and wooden touches, which means you can go for a less formal look and have fun with textures. Look for clothing with lighter tones such as light blue and brown. For a more casual look, you could also forgo your blazer and wear only a vest with a collared shirt. \n\nAdd some texture to your look by choosing cotton or tweed blazers. Then complement your outfit with vintage brown leather shoes and patterned pocket squares. This is also your chance to wear your favorite shiny, gold jewelry or a leather watch. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-rustic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6X9V0pswklRpQ4DsMoebbj/62d44e6a3d9a4ae854cafbbe6905cd14/androgynous-attire-for-rustic-weddings.png)\n\n### 3. Beachy\n[Beach weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pros-and-cons-of-a-beach-wedding) are relaxed and calm, which means you get to enjoy the sea view and salty air with a more casual, bright look. Opt for light tones, like a pastel blue or green, or go for more colorful attire with florals. \n\nInvest in clothes with linen fabric so you can fully enjoy the ocean breeze. You might even want to roll up your sleeves or wear some nice shorts. Make your look even more beachy by adding colorful pocket flowers, accessories with seashells, and white loafers. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-beachy-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6Zf82q3mpqKJLcuDB84EWS/1362edaf2195c2480dab783a07118625/androgynous-attire-for-beachy-weddings.png)\n\n### 4. Modern\nModern weddings are more fashionable and bold, so if you like trendy styles or a monochromatic look, this is your chance to shine. In a modern wedding, you have the opportunity to be more creative by trying different fabrics or wearing a statement piece. \n\nConsider bold colors like dark green or burgundy, or try an all-black outfit with cuffed pants. Then complete your look with fashionable loafers or shiny black shoes and a gold watch. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-modern-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6hpxRcBcPre6QeHDQhrMgY/a531c502c266880425318f77c1b56270/androgynous-attire-for-modern-weddings.png)\n\n### 5. Garden\n[Garden weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/outdoor-wedding-ideas-for-fall) are fun and whimsical, so bring a playful spirit to your wedding attire. Consider floral and pinstripe fabrics, or go for a solid dark blue or purple look. Choose a breathable fabric, especially if the wedding will be outside during the summer. \n\nComplete your look by adding a tie in a pastel tone, or ditch the tie and go for an open collar style. Add flower accessories or a simple white pocket square to go with stitched vintage shoes. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-garden-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/QQIsPX3Pfi3nhwBvgFcNt/97fb6382f096e46eb5601fce444a8b09/androgynous-attire-for-garden-weddings.png)\n\n### 6. Romantic\nRomantic weddings are nothing short of dreamy and elegant. Go all in with a look that could've come out of a fairytale by wearing pastel pinks and blues and a blazer with silk details. \n\nTry suspenders, and match them with some classic leather shoes. For accessories, you can add delicate flower pins or shiny jewelry with diamonds and a gold watch.\n\n![androgynous-attire-for-romantic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1voWcJwI7i0vFWKLZTTWfa/09119df7011a734aa074ab55471930de/androgynous-attire-for-romantic-weddings.png)\n\n### 7. Boho\n[Boho weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/rustic-wedding-ideas) are more unconventional and relaxed, so this is your chance to rock a more laid-back look. Find outfits with lightweight and breathable fabrics and play around with different colors. \n\nDon't be shy when adding flowers or feathers to complement your look, or try a suede boho hat and match it with brown loafers. As for accessories, consider jewelry with colorful stones or gold fringe. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-boho-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/19ClGLMB3t5aDno8SdUPg0/b06b0754a417d786152b3240e245c6e8/androgynous-attire-for-boho-weddings.png)\n\nFinding the right [wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-guests/wedding-attire) doesn't have to be complicated. As long as you wear something you love and feel comfortable in, you'll radiate confidence walking in the venue. Luckily, you know exactly where to shop for androgynous wedding attire and how to personalize it according to each wedding theme.\n\nAre you the one getting married? Did you know that Zola can help with all of your wedding day needs? From using our [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) to creating a free [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website), get started today!","tag":"List","updatedAt":"2025-06-07T16:47:44.977Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"what-should-the-mother-of-the-groom-wear","title":"What Should the Mother of the Groom Wear?","excerpt":"Wondering what the mother of the groom should wear to your wedding? Read on for our complete guide.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2020-12-16T20:33:51.524Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3XYQnnhFxaJwQKwb4o3VdP/09b22c0665e884e05ef2a3f099378d4c/hero_Eyes_2_See_Photography.jpg","altText":"mother of the groom"},"heroCredit":"Eyes 2 See Photography","body":"Mothers are always valued members of a couple’s wedding party, whether it’s the mother of the bride or the mother of the groom. Both are honored and appreciated for their contributions to the bride and groom’s big day. \n\nThe mother of the groom in particular has several responsibilities, including helping plan the guest list for the groom’s side of the family and hosting the rehearsal dinner. It’s only natural that she looks exceptional when the big day rolls around. But what exactly should the mother of the groom wear? \n\n## Wedding Etiquette for the Mother of the Groom\n\nDepending upon how much of a stickler for tradition you are, there may be etiquette rules your family members and guests must follow. These rules may include a few about the wedding attire for the groom’s mother. \n\n### Dress Buying Traditions\n\nWondering if there’s a difference [between the mother of the bride dress and the mother of the groom dress?](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/mother-of-the-bride-vs-mother-of-the-groom-dresses-whats-the-difference) Traditionally, the mother of the bride decides on her dress first and then informs the groom’s mother. The mother of the groom can then get a dress that complements the [mother of the bride dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-attire-101-garden-edition) on the wedding day. \n\nKeep in mind that the two moms do not have to dress identical at all—the two dresses just have to be complementary, so they don't clash with each other, the wedding theme, or the bridesmaid dresses. \n\nIt’s worth noting, though: Nowadays, this tradition is considered more of a guideline than a hard rule. Still, it’s good guidance—especially if you haven’t heard otherwise. \n\n![Mother of the Groom Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/25fkY0wAnryA14ISsWlQEE/b10a6d827562696eacee5b1c7807476c/inline_rengim-mutevellioglu.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Rengim Mutevellioglu\n\n### Dress Etiquette\n\nAs stated before, the mother of the groom is an honored part of the special occasion, and she should dress accordingly. Both the mother of the bride and groom should select dresses that are similar in style and length and complementary to the wedding color palette and theme. \n\nBefore any shopping is done, consult with the bride or groom to get a better idea of their vision for the wedding day. For instance, flashy dresses and distracting colors wouldn’t be appropriate for a wedding with a soft, vintage theme. The mother of the groom should also avoid particular styles, such as low-cut necklines, thigh-split dresses, or tight skirts. \n\nJust keep in mind: Within reason, the mother of the groom should be able to dress according to her personality and comfort. \n\n### Dress Shopping Is Bonding Time\n\nIn today’s culture, mothers of the bride and groom often go dress shopping together and view it as an opportunity to bond and get to know one another better. Other moms might shop with the bride and bridesmaids as well, opting to make it a big gal’s day complete with a fancy lunch or dinner. This not only helps everyone get to know each other better, but also helps ensure that everyone looks great and dresses don’t clash. \n\n## Wedding Etiquette for Stepmoms of the Groom\n\nIf the groom’s family is a blended family, it can sometimes get complicated. The mother of the bride is only obliged to inform the mother of the groom about her wedding attire. Stepmothers, on the other hand, are the groom’s responsibility. It’s up to him to give her the required information, so that she can dress appropriately. \n\nOf course, this may be different in every family, because it depends on how close the groom is with his stepmother. If she’s considered a close family member and you plan to seat her in front with other family members, then she should choose her outfit in keeping with the colors and theme of the rest of the wedding party and family. However, if the two are not close and she is considered merely a guest, then she will be seated with guests and should have full freedom to dress however she likes (assuming it’s wedding appropriate!). There’s really no need for her attire to match the immediate family or wedding party—unless she just wants to.\n\n## Color Dos and Don’ts\n\n### Dos\n\nThere’s no end to the color palettes and wedding themes a bride might choose from. Depending on the theme, many mothers of the groom favor colors like:\n\n- Blues\n- Blushes\n- Mauves\n- Lavenders\n- Mint Green\n- Peach\n\nIf your wedding is a formal one, some mothers of the groom might prefer to wear shades of gold, dark silver, or even black. Other darker colors that might be worn include shades of :\n\n- Navy\n- Green\n- Purple\n- Red\n\n### Don’ts\n\nRemember, it’s a big fashion faux pas for someone in the immediate family or wedding party to wear white or any variation thereof. Even neutral colors like cream or beige are against dress code. \n\nOf course, some brides might not mind; some may even want their bridal party in white. When in doubt, though, it’s best to err on the side of caution. \n\n## Wedding Attire Styles for the Mother of the Groom\n\nIt’s important to consider age, body shape, and the time of year when deciding on a dress style for the mother of the groom.\n\n### Body Shape\n\nDifferent dress shapes flatter different body types:\n\n- Someone who is wider at the shoulder and narrower at the hips, like an inverted triangle, might look best in V-necklines and A-line skirts, with a nipped waist to create a shapely silhouette.\n- Someone with wider hips should focus on accentuating the top of her body with detailing or an off-the-shoulder neckline, along with fit and flare dress styles. \n- Someone with an hourglass figure should avoid baggy and loose dresses, or run the risk of looking frumpy.\n- Someone with a rectangle body shape might consider more form-fitting dresses.\n\nHowever, remember that these are just tips and guidelines. It’s more important to make sure that whatever style of dress the mother of the groom wears, she feels comfortable and attractive. \n\n### Time of Year\n\nThe mother of the groom should feel comfortable through the wedding ceremony and reception. That’s why it’s important to consider the season and whether or not the venue is indoor or outdoor when choosing a dress. For example, the mother of the bride can get away with wearing a casual sundress for an outdoor, summer beach wedding, but should wear a formal dress for an indoor, black-tie affair. \n\nDuring colder months, dresses can be accessorized with shawls, faux fur, and shrugs. Tailored jackets are another option that look great and help keep the groom’s mom toasty and warm. Also, if it’s simply too cold for a dress, pantsuits can be a good option to keep the legs covered. \n\nDepending on where you live, spring is typically warm, which means she could wear tea-length and cocktail dresses and be perfectly comfortable. Summer is also a great season for tea-length dresses. \n\n### Age-Appropriate\n\nRemember, there is such a thing as too sexy. The mother of the groom should avoid wearing anything that’s overtly sexy, such as deep necklines with cleavage or skirts that flash the thigh. If you know that the mother of the groom tends to dress a little on the risqué side, there’s nothing wrong with asking her to wear something that’s age-appropriate. \n\n![Mother of the Groom Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3ym2V6NZrPUABfEbT0eRIZ/9f244b1d9574d64e93c28a840b42a985/inline_stocksy.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Stocksy\n\n## Don’t Forget Accessories\n\nNo outfit is complete without matching accessories. For a mother of the groom, accessories might include: \n\n- Small clutch purse\n- Medium tote purse\n- Stylish hat or headband\n- Pretty necklace and earrings\n- Bangle bracelets\n\nWhatever accessories she wears, it should be something that complements her wedding attire and highlights her own unique style without taking attention away from you. \n\nIf the mother of the groom is uncomfortable with the neckline or sleeves of her chosen wedding attire, she could always add a trendy scarf or shawl. This does double duty by covering her up more and accessorizing her look. \n\nWedding attire for the mother of the groom really isn’t that complicated. Once there’s a theme, color palette, and venue in place, she’ll be able to pick just the right dress.\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Garden wedding attire blends comfort and style with light fabrics and floral touches. 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"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/","tldr":"__Inside this article:__\n- What is the average wedding dress cost in 2025?\n- What does the average wedding dress cost?\n- How much should you spend on a wedding dress?\n- Average cost of wedding dress alterations\n- How much does a custom wedding dress cost?\n- Four factors that affect the cost of a wedding dress\n- How to save money on your wedding dress","body":"__TLDR__\n- Dresses fall into the $1,500-$2,500 range, but finding your dream wedding gown could cost more (or less) depending.\n- If you're on a strict budget, consider shopping at sample sales and trunk shows at your local bridal boutique.\n- Also, don't forget to factor in the cost of wedding dress alterations, which can add a significant amount.\n\nChoosing a wedding dress can be one of the most exciting parts of wedding planning. Whether you’ve fantasized about your dream wedding gown for years or haven’t yet [thought about your style](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what's-your-wedding-dress-style), you’re likely wondering, \"How much are wedding dresses, anyway?\"\n\nSo, to first answer the question about how much do wedding dresses cost: Today’s average cost of wedding dresses is between $1,500 - $2,500. However, the truth is that wedding dress costs vary wildly based on factors like the designer, fabric, and other key elements. If you have your eye on an Oscar de la Renta designer dress, it'll have a bigger price tag.\n\nIf that cost of a wedding dress number seems high, don’t worry. It’s more than possible to find a dress you love on a smaller budget. Once you understand what factors impact the cost of a dress, you’ll be able to narrow down what to look for and what to avoid when you start shopping.\n\nFrom the average wedding dress cost in 2025 to the average price of alterations, read on for everything you need to know about wedding dress costs.\n\n## What is the average wedding dress cost in 2025? \n\nAccording to a real weddings study, the average price of a wedding dress in 2025 is [$1,500 to $2,500](https://fash.com/costs/wedding-dress-cost). The average American wedding dress cost from a large retailer like David's Bridal starts at $500. A boutique dress costs around $2000+, and a designer/custom dress usually starts at $5,000. Some dresses cost $100 or less. Note: those are [pre-alterations prices](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-do-wedding-dress-alterations-cost).\n\n![Wedding Dress Costs](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4eWFohjCPq4s3jJY32BhI8/199418ebf5acd9c6a5eb2eb9709a59d6/Wedding_Dress_Costs.jpg) Photo by [Lex & Trev Photo + Film](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/lex-trev-photo-film--2)\n\n## What does the average wedding dress cost? \nAccording to a recent [wedding dress Reddit thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingdress/comments/184qza5/how_much_did_you_spend_on_your_dress/), the average cost of a wedding gown varies greatly depending on where folks shopped. Buying a gown at a trunk sale brings a lower price point than at a bridal boutique. Don't worry—our Zola experts will clue you in on how to save money. \n\nSo, is $2000 a good budget for a wedding dress? In our estimation, yes, but it all depends on your goals. That number is right in the middle of our average 2025 wedding dress budget. However, you also need to factor in alterations. The average is around $500, but that depends on how detailed your gown is and how many alterations you need.\n\n## How much should you spend on a wedding dress? \n\nYour wedding dress is just one of many expenses in [your wedding budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-set-your-wedding-budget). Be sure you’re clear on how much you’ll spend in other areas like your venue, florals, and vendors. Factor in [additional outfits](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/buying-two-wedding-dresses-101) for pre-wedding activities like your rehearsal dinner before you settle on a wedding dress budget.\n\nDon’t let your opinions be swayed too much by the average wedding dress cost. How much you should spend on a wedding dress depends entirely on your personal tastes and priorities. You might decide to buy a dress for $200 because you’d rather spend more on elaborate floral arrangements—or maybe you’re willing to spend as much as necessary if it means achieving your dream look.\n\nAside from considering other wedding expenses over a dress, decide if you might regret shelling out thousands for your dream dress after the big day. Whatever the answer might be, the key is knowing your priorities and adjusting your budget accordingly.\n\nDon’t forget to give some thought to your shoes, jewelry, and [accessories](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-accessories-bridal-look), all of which help tie your final look together—head over to Zola’s online [bridal boutique](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/bridal-boutique) for inspiration! So, how much should you pay for a wedding dress? It depends on your priorities and overall budget.\n\n__Expert Advice:__ Use Zola’s free [Wedding Budget Planner & Calculator](https://www.zola.com/wedding-budget) to make keeping track of your wedding expenses easy.\n\n## Average cost of wedding dress alterations \n\nMost alterations cost $75 to $300 and upward, but it depends on how labor-intensive your alterations are. Minor adjustments like taking a few inches off the hemline could cost less than $100. Major alterations like sleeves, new necklines, removing boning, or adding a [bustle](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-bustle-a-wedding-dress) can cost $300+.\n\nThe more layers your dress has, or the more intricate its design (beading, lace), the more expensive your alterations will be, even for “simple” adjustments like a hem. If you’re trying on a dress that you know will need big changes, it’s worth asking for a quote before you say yes.\n\nTo ensure your dress fits perfectly, plan on alterations, no matter how pricey your dress is. \n\nRead our [Ultimate Guide to Wedding Dress Alterations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-dress-alterations) for more.\n\n![Wedding Dress Costs 2025](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6V2CuzQbyzTxIFgZiWt3Ie/1879324fbbace6722f29dd94d9493d83/Wedding_Dress_Costs_2025.jpg) Photo by [Life Captured by CLN](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/life-captured-by-cln-photography)\n\n## How much does a custom wedding dress cost? \n\nThis is likely to be the most expensive option—the cost of a custom wedding dress can range anywhere from $6,000 to well over $10,000. Designing a custom gown can be ideal if you have a very specific vision in mind.\n\nIn general, the more couture the designer you go with, the more expensive the wedding dress price will be. However, you may be able to get a deep discount if you shop at a sample sale or trunk show. Ask your local bridal stores when they’re having these events if you’re interested in sample dresses.\n\nEven big-name designers have started making less expensive lines of their dresses for big-box bridal stores, so you may be able to find your dream wedding gown by shopping around.\n\n## Four factors that affect the cost of a wedding dress \n\nWedding dress prices first and foremost depend on whether you choose a [designer gown](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/7-black-wedding-designers-to-know) or a dress off the rack from a major retailer. Designer dress prices will always be more than manufactured dress prices, especially if you go for a handmade or custom-made gown. So, when you’re looking into the average cost of a wedding dress, keep this in mind. \n\nEven if you don’t choose a designer dress, styles with extensive embellishments (like lots of beading or embroidery) or luxurious fabrics like charmeuse will hike up the price. How much to spend on [wedding dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/tips-wedding-dress-shopping) depends on your style and budget, taking the below into consideration. \n\n### Fabric and materials\n\n![wedding-dress-fabrics](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/Oy7REHNucRp1zeBvffyxp/9a3f945bc90c582161bc7fefbb8228cd/wedding-dress-fabrics.png)\n\nThe fabric of your dress significantly impacts overall costs. Expect to pay more for luxury fabrics like silk, hand-embroidered lace, charmeuse, and certain types of satin.\n\nIf you’re after a lower price tag, consider synthetic or blended fabrics like polyester, chiffon, rayon, or crepe. If seeing “wedding dress” and “polyester” in the same sentence makes you cringe, hear us out—poly-blend fabrics have come a long way over the years, and you can find options that feel high-end for less.\n\n### The designer\n\nIf you’re eyeing a luxury designer gown, be prepared to spend significantly more—not only because designer dresses are typically made with higher-quality materials, but also because of the designer name itself. \n\nDresses by designers like Oscar de la Renta, Dolce & Gabbana, Elie Saab, and Vera Wang will all come with a higher price tag. For example, the starting price for the Vera Wang Bridal Collection is $2,900, and the Luxe Collection starts at $6,900.\n\n### Embellishments\n\nEmbellishments like hand-embroidered lace, intricate beading, and appliqués will all hike up the cost of your wedding dress due to the additional time and labor required to create them. \n\nMore elaborate constructions like fully boned corsets will also cost more—in general, the more detailed the fabric, [silhouette](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-dress-silhouettes), and embellishments, the higher the price will be compared to [simpler wedding dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/simple-wedding-dresses-that-are-elegant-and-timeless).\n\nIf you’re aiming to keep costs down, opt for gowns with a simple silhouette or find alternative ways to add visual interest to your look—you can easily do this with your jewelry, but also consider elements like a delicate belt or sash or an [eye-catching veil](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/14-wedding-veil-styles-and-lengths-every-bride-should-know).\n\n__Expert Advice:__ Opting for a simpler silhouette won’t always ensure a lower price tag—a minimal dress design made with high-end fabric will still cost more than more affordable fabrics.\n\n### Accessories\n\n![wedding-dress-cost-impacts](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/EhPCvrM1I1Yk67rf9KCF3/5d2f04880c2d65808b7da580754f8f99/wedding-dress-cost-impacts.png)\n\nThe dress itself may be the main event, but accessories like your jewelry, shoes, and a veil ([if you’re wearing one](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/veil-or-no-veil-the-pros-and-cons-of-each)) should all be factored into your overall cost. Plan to spend at least $200, but costs can easily climb to $500+ depending on the items you choose.\n\nDon’t think you have to buy your wedding accessories from a bridal store. Shop around at your favorite non-bridal stores to find similar pieces without the typical wedding mark-up. \n\n## How to save money on your wedding dress \n\n![save-on-wedding-dress](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1HERLQUQmzDPBf1wDFx3qJ/1eff092a23b5daeb67469b46df970757/save-on-wedding-dress.png)\n\nDon’t be fooled into thinking you can’t find your dream dress on a lower budget. There are countless retailers with affordable wedding dress options that can help you save money on your wedding dress budget.\n\nDavid’s Bridal, Azazie, and BHLDN all offer gowns for lower price points, and even big-box retailers like ASOS, Lulus, Reformation, and Revolve have dedicated bridal collections where you can find a stunning look for less.\n\nThere are plenty of other ways to save on your wedding dress cost if you’re willing to think outside the box:\n\n- __Shop bridesmaid, reception, and non-bridal formalwear collections:__ There’s no rule that says your wedding dress has to come from a bridal collection. Look for white or ivory dresses in alternative collections—you might be surprised!\n- __Opt for a rental:__ Find a splurge-worthy look for less by renting your dress on sites like [Rent the Runway](https://www.renttherunway.com/pdp/shop/bride/products?filters%5Bzip_code%5D=77304&filters%5Bduration%5D=4&filters%5BcanonicalSizes%5D%5B%5D=4&filters%5BunlimitedMinAvailability%5D=0&sort=recommended#1703271475367).\n- __Shop sample sales:__ Sample designer gowns have been tried on or gently used, but never actually purchased—they’re usually a fraction of the cost compared to other options you’ll find in a bridal boutique.\n- __Be strategic with seasons:__ You’ll pay more for a dress if you shop during the peak wedding seasons (spring and fall)—instead, shop during the summer and winter months to score discounted dresses from the previous season. This is one of the best ways to pay less than the average wedding dress cost.\n- __Shop secondhand:__ Find gently used designer dresses at a fraction of the cost (we’re talking up to 90% off!) on sites like [Stillwhite](https://www.stillwhite.com/), [Once Wed](https://www.oncewed.com/), and [Nearly Newlywed](https://www.nearlynewlywed.com/).\n\nAs much as it may be tempting, don’t try on dresses that are above your budget. Wearing a higher priced gown on your wedding day may feel good, but \n\nWhile knowing the average wedding dress cost is a helpful baseline, you can find your dream dress for much less (or more) than the national average. \n\nUltimately, how much you spend on finding your dream wedding dress is up to you. [Start shopping early](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-soon-should-i-buy-my-wedding-dress) to learn what style you’re after and narrow down your priorities. 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