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A Guide to Filipiniana Wedding Dresses
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A Guide to Filipiniana Wedding Dresses + 3 Ideas to Get Inspired

Learn how to create your perfect Filipiniana look on your wedding day.

What to Wear to an Indian Wedding
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What to Wear to an Indian Wedding

An invitation to an Indian wedding is an invitation to dress to the nines. Here are a few ideas for how to dress for an Indian wedding.

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Tuxedo vs. Suit: How to Pick Your Wedding Look

Zola and our friends at Generation Tux break down everything you need to know when picking the right wedding tux (or suit) for your big day.

groom in cobalt blue tux jacket
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A Complete Guide to Wedding Attire for Grooms

If you’re not sure where to start when it comes to choosing wedding day clothing for men, check out our guide to groom’s attire.

When Should You Order Bridesmaids Dresses
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When Should You Order Bridesmaids Dresses?

Don’t know when to order bridesmaid dresses before your wedding? Our experts can help! Read on to find out now.

Winter Bridesmaid Dress
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How to Choose the Perfect Winter Bridesmaid Dress

Winter calls for natural tones, longer hems, and sleeves. Read our guide for how to choose the perfect winter bridesmaid dress.

Different Wedding Suit Styles
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What Are the Different Wedding Suit Styles?

There are many wedding suits to choose from, but, rest assured, we got you covered. Learn about the different wedding suit styles for your special day with this informative guide.

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What to Wear to a Church Wedding

A church wedding typically requires a more conservative outfit choice. Check out our guide to a church wedding dress code.

What to Wear to a New Year’s Eve Wedding
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A Guide on What to Wear to a New Year’s Eve Wedding

What better way to ring in the new year than in style? Here's a guide on the best fits for a New Year's Eve wedding.

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\n \n\n\n\n\n\n\n \n ","subtopicPage":{"articles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"a-guide-to-filipiniana-wedding-dresses","title":"A Guide to Filipiniana Wedding Dresses + 3 Ideas to Get Inspired","excerpt":"Learn how to create your perfect Filipiniana look on your wedding day.","author":"Lisa Wong Macabasco","publishedAt":"2021-07-07T19:53:48.034Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5ikdd4LV2qIQVpPh70ORBR/01d82f7c656aa208e9e6b0aded01295d/Hero_VINTAGallery.jpg","altText":"A Guide to Filipiniana Wedding Dresses"},"heroCredit":"VINTAGallery","body":"The Philippines has a long and rich history of fashion, including intricately embroidered designs, delicate, but durable natural fabrics, and sartorial inspiration from Spain and the United States. Today, many first- and second-generation Filipino Americans or Filipino Canadians want to celebrate their culture and heritage on their wedding day (whether they're marrying another Filipino or Filipina or having a [multicultural wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/multicultural-wedding)) and actively consider how to include it while [wedding planning](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning), attire, and [gifts](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-gifts-from-around-the-world).\n\nThat’s where Caroline Mangosing’s Toronto-based modern Filipiniana label, Vinta Gallery, comes in. Originally founded in 2009 out of a Filipino community nonprofit, it began with a focus on traditional Filipino clothing such as [barong tagalogs](https://vintagallery.com/blogs/news/the-rich-and-interesting-history-of-the-barong-tagalog) (elaborately embroidered men’s shirts made of thin or sheer fabric). In 2016, with its popularity fueled by word of mouth, Vinta Gallery relaunched as an ethical, for-profit e-commerce company specializing in Filipino wedding attire. Today, Canadian-bsad Mangosing works with Manila-based Filipino designer and couturier Estelita Lagman to create modern takes on traditional Filipiniana wedding gowns and other wedding attire.\n\nIn May, Mangosing launched her [first Filipiniana wedding collection](https://vintagallery.com/collections/filipiniana-wedding-collection). Made to measure at the brand’s atelier in the Philippines, it’s a collection of simple, but detailed terno dresses, barong dresses, and men’s barongs. Each piece is versatile enough that you can accessorize to create your own personalized and unique look for your big day.\n\nMangosing believes that she’s the first, and perhaps the only, established designer making Filipiniana outside of the Philippines. “All of us immigrants wanted to be so American, and then now the second generation is like, ‘Wait, but we want to be Filipino’ because there's this uprising of people of color being empowered and wanting to know where they came from,” she says.\n\nHere, find more information about Filipiniana, and learn how to create your perfect Filipiniana look on your wedding day.\n\n### What Is Filipiniana?\nFilipiniana can refer to anything predominantly and uniquely Filipino, including culture, figurines, games, and fashion. In a fashion context, although Filipino attire has undergone many iterations throughout history, today the hallmark of traditional Filipiniana is the butterfly sleeves found on the terno dress, which are unique to Filipino fashion.\n\nMangosing’s key innovation has been to make the sleeves bendable so that her North American clients can wear a jacket over them without losing the sleeves’ distinctive shape. “I want the garments to be functional, and I want to be realistic to my consumers’ lifestyle[s],” she says. “Ternos are beautiful, but you can't take a subway in that dress.”\n\n### A Brief History of Filipiniana\nThe terno traces its [origins](https://vintagallery.com/blogs/news/the-filipiniana-dress-the-rebirth-of-the-terno) to the baro't saya, traditional Filipino clothing worn by women that consists of the blouse (\"baro\" or “camisa”); a folded rectangular piece of fabric worn over the shoulders (“pañuelo” or “fichu”); and a short rectangular cloth (\"tapis\") wrapped over top of a long skirt (“saya”). In the early Spanish colonial period, women from Luzon and Visayas wore these garments in layers of stripes and checkered patterns as a display of wealth.\n\nIn the 1860s, the blouse eventually gained popularity with bell sleeves, which were replaced with butterfly sleeves in the 1920s. Terno comes from the Spanish word “to match,” referring to a matching set of clothes made of the same fabric, and by the late 1940s, the terno evolved into a single-piece dress with butterfly sleeves. The 1950s and ‘60s were the terno’s golden era, with movie stars and fashionable women donning the dress to special events.\n\nImelda Marcos, former first lady of the Philippines, also had a hand in catapulting the iconic Filipiniana dress into the global stage in the 1970s and ‘80s, earning her the nickname “the Iron Butterfly.” “Imelda Marcos was a gorgeous beauty queen of a first lady who wore ternos out like nobody's business,” Mangosing effuses. “If you've ever seen her photos, sartorially she kills.”\n\nBut, the Marcos regime was brutal, and it tainted the terno by association. “There was a big hangover once they were ousted [in 1986], and people only associated ternos with her. I was like, ‘That's horrible. Let's not let her take this away—let's take it back. It's ours, it wasn't hers.’” It’s no coincidence that #RebelFilipiniana is frequently hashtagged with Vinta Gallery’s designs.\n\n### Elements of Filipiniana\n[Filipiniana elements](https://www.preview.ph/fashion/filipiniana-glossary-everything-you-need-to-know-a1879-20190914-lfrm) include specific garments and how they’re styled. Also known as the Filipiniana dress, mestiza dress, and Maria Clara dress, the terno is emblematic of the Philippines and the country’s movement toward modernity. A [mantilla](https://vintagallery.com/collections/filipiniana-wedding-collection/products/vanda-javierae-mantilla) is a traditional veil or shawl usually made with lace or silk, worn over the head and shoulders. In addition, the tapis can be wrapped across the waist and fastened with a knot on one side, or the panuelo or alampay (scarf) can be worn across the shoulders to cover the chest or even donned as a head scarf.\n\nEmbroidery is another signature of traditional Filipiniana, and Vinta Gallery’s [Barong Bestida](https://vintagallery.com/collections/filipiniana-wedding-collection/products/barong-bestida-vanda-javierae) features a design of Vanda javierae, an endangered species of flowering plant in the orchid family that’s native to the Philippines. \n\n### Filipiniana Fabrics\nPiña is a fabric made from pineapple leaves that’s one of the distinct characteristics of Filipiniana fashion. Jusi is another type of Filipiniana fabric originally made from banana leaves. Both are light as air and allow the garments (and the wearer) to breathe, which is often essential in the heat and humidity of the Philippines. But in the dry North American climate, these natural, often expensive fabrics can become brittle. Vinta Gallery’s designs are made of silk organza, duchess satin, and even cotton. \n\n### Tips for Buying Filipiniana\n__Be As Detailed As You Can About What You Want__\nDetermining [how to choose your wedding dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what's-your-wedding-dress-style) but Vinta Gallery makes it slightly easier to find your dream Filipiniana gown. Each Vinta Gallery piece is customized and personalized according to the bride’s preferences, so Mangosing says that it’s ideal if you already have a notion of what style you want, the look and feel of your wedding day, and the embroidery designs. “One of our favorite wedding-couple clients, both artists, came ready and prepared with the exact embroidery motifs they wanted for the terno dress sleeve and groom’s barong, which they researched and designed themselves!” Mangosing said.\n\n### Know Your Preferred Silhouette\nOf course, you may not have a very clear idea of what you want in your wedding gown yet—and that’s perfectly fine, Mangosing says. “It's really a collaboration right from the get-go.” But, at the very least, “go to a bridal store and figure out what silhouette you want, what you think is going to look good on you. That’s the foundational decision, and then we can work together on all the little details.”\n\n__Ask Yourself the Following Questions:__\n\n- What would wearing Filipiniana mean to me?\n- What type of Filipiniana wedding do I want?\n- What is the feeling/vibe that I want for my wedding?\n- What garments am I looking to get made (bridal gown, groom’s barong, entourage attire, etc.)?\n- What type of wedding dress or silhouette would suit me best? (Mangosing recommends this helpful [guideline](https://www.alinanova.com/blogs/news/the-guide-of-picking-up-wedding-dresses) on choosing the silhouette of your wedding gown.)\n- Do I want embroidery and other embellishments (beading, etc.), or do I want something more minimal, with a plain fabric such as lace or satin?\n- Do I want a veil? What type of veil do I want?\n\n### Give Yourself Plenty of Time\nMangosing advises a minimum of eight weeks for delivery after you submit your measurements and other customization requests. Most of her couture clients get in touch a year in advance (which she recommends), but allow at least four to six months for made-to-measure items to be crafted and sent from the Philippines. Keep this tip in mind while organizing other aspects of your big day, such as your [wedding venue](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-venues) and [wedding vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors).\n\nBy learning more about Filipiniana, you can better customize and tailor your wedding day look to your specific preferences, creating your own version of a Filipiniana-inspired wedding. “Just stay true to yourself and what’s most meaningful and authentic to you and your partner on your big day—and you can’t go wrong,” says Mangosing.\n\n## Filipiniana Dresses Inspiration\nNeed some inspiration for your Filipiniana wedding gown? Here are a few options to get the creative juices flowing:\n\n## [Drape Front Terno](https://vintagallery.com/collections/womens-dresses/products/drape-front-terno), Vinta Gallery \n\nPrice: $1000\n\nLooking to find the perfect blend between traditional Filpiniana and a modern wedding look? This gown takes the classic terno shape and modernizes it with elegant fabrics, like duchess satin and silk organza.\n\n## [Barong Bestida (Vanda Javierae)](https://vintagallery.com/collections/womens-dresses/products/barong-bestida-vanda-javierae), Vinta Gallery \n\nPrice: $1500\n\nWhile barongs have traditionally been known as male Filipino wedding attire, many modern designers are creating barongs tailored to women—including this design, which includes a structured top, bishop sleeves, and intricate embroidery on the bodice, skirt, and sleeves.\n\n## [Banaba Flower High Neck Pleat Front Camisa and Saya De Cola](https://vintagallery.com/collections/made-to-measure/products/banaba-flower-high-neck-pleat-front-camisa-and-saya-de-cola)\n\nPrice: $1400\n\nWant a more dramatic look for your Filipiniana wedding gown? 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Here are a few ideas for how to dress for an Indian wedding.","author":"Ruksana Hussain","publishedAt":"2021-12-20T07:37:48.882Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7EmfYtnbMP4CSaEbb6MoWr/d4f24a2935f914d1fb0190297458394c/Hero_TravelInspiredWeddingatLangdonFarmsGolfClub_SikoraPhotography.jpg","altText":"What to Wear to an Indian Wedding"},"heroCredit":"Sikora Photography","body":"Marriages in the Indian community are grand celebrations, sometimes with events lasting a few days featuring intricate rituals and ceremonies, depending on several factors, including religious and cultural norms. Your invite should give you some idea of what to wear to the wedding as a guest or the bridal party can advise on attire, but here are a few ideas to get you started:\n\n## Number of Outfits\n\nWhile you might be planning to attend only the wedding day, there may be other events associated with the wedding, both before and after, that you might also be invited to—especially if it’s a destination wedding. Check your invite to ensure you know which events you’re attending and where the venues are located when planning what to wear to an Indian wedding. You might need to plan for a few different options. For instance, a ceremony at a temple warrants more modest outfits compared to one held at a hotel’s banquet hall.\n\n## Dress for Comfort\n\nIndian wedding ceremonies can go anywhere from less than an hour to a full day(s) of festivities leading to the grand event. Typically, religious and cultural norms dictate these events, and if you’ve been invited to all of them, you want to dress comfortably. This way, you’ll be at ease whether you’re sitting, standing, eating, or dancing, indoors or outdoors. Choose a fabric that allows you to enjoy the day(s) rather than limits your involvement in the festivities. \n\n## Dress in Indian Outfits\n\nYou can shop online or ask the bridal party where they suggest you get your outfit. For women, sarees, lehengas, salwars, ghagras, and shararas are all Indian outfits that would be perfect for the occasion. For men, kurtas, sherwanis, and suits are all fair game. Do check if certain colors or patterns are not advised. For instance, black (sometimes associated with bad luck) or white (associated with funerals) are considered colors to stay away from. \n\n## Dress in Indo-Western Outfits\n\nFusion-style garments are acceptable to wear to an Indian wedding. A little online research or working with an Indian designer, wedding consultant, or even a member of the bridal party can give you some great ideas. Remember though: If not done well, this could come off as appropriation or a mockery of the culture and traditions. So, while fusion attire may give you the comfort of not having to dress entirely in Indian clothes, it is an area in which you should tread carefully. \n\n## Dress in Wedding Attire You Know\n\nWhen deciding what to wear to an Indian wedding, dress as you would for a wedding in your culture. This could mean a formal gown or evening dress, smart casuals, or a black tuxedo. But do keep in mind that you are attending an Indian wedding and might need to make some adjustments to your outfit. Too much skin show is frowned upon at traditional events or if the ceremony is in a religious venue. When in doubt, lean conservative rather than modern.\n\n## Break Out the Bling\n\nThere’s possibly no way to be overdressed at an Indian wedding, unless the couple and bridal party have consciously chosen to have a simpler gathering. Jewelry, especially made from gold and precious gems, is perfectly acceptable to flaunt at Indian weddings. In some cases, even male guests can accessorize with jewelry and be considered appropriately attired for the occasion. \n\n## Keep in Mind\n\nFor ceremonies, head coverings may be required for men and women, depending on different religions. Keeping a shawl or other piece of cloth handy is advised. Easy-to-wear footwear is also advised. Religious venues or locations considered sacred to the wedding party will ask that you take off your shoes before entering the premises. Certain Indian communities may also have ceremonies that require male and female guests to be seated separately, so be prepared to part ways at the venue and have your personal belongings on yourself. \n\nBright, joyous, and celebratory colors are all embraced at Indian weddings, and anything you wear that adds to the palette is a good choice. A little sparkle and glitter are always great at such momentous occasions, especially at Indian weddings.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Seasons_Quiz"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"In Zola’s First Look Report, over 3,000 engaged couples shared the wedding traditions that they’re keeping, leaving, and are split on for their 2022 weddings. 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While several wedding details, such as your venue choice and color palette, can express the nuances of your relationship, seize the opportunity to reflect your personal style. While the wedding dress has traditionally garnered the spotlight, today’s grooms — and brides — are choosing to wear modern, upscale suiting and slim-fit wedding tuxedos.\n\nNo matter who you are, navigating this type of fashion can be confusing, especially if you usually don a casual daily style. The good news is that choosing your wedding attire is simple and enjoyable, especially with the right company by your side. Zola and our friends at [Generation Tux](https://www.generationtux.com/?utm_source=ZOLA&utm_campaign=tracked-partnership&utm_medium=PARTNERSHIPS&Ref_Source=PARTNERSHIPS&RefDet1=ZOLA&RefDet2=PROSPECTING&RefDet3=tracked-partnership&RefDet4=article) are here to break down whether you should wear a suit or a tuxedo on the big day. \n\n## Tuxedo vs. Suit - What’s the Difference?\n\nIf you’ve ever looked back on your family’s photos, you’ve probably seen wedding images of your grandparents and parents. It was pretty easy to spot a tux as ruffled shirts poked out from wide-collared tuxedo jackets in the ‘70s. Your dad may have sported one with long tails if he got married in the ‘90s. Nowadays, the differences between tuxes and suits are a bit more nuanced.\n\nThe main difference is that tuxedos have satin — a dressier fabric with some shine — detailing. Satin appears typically on the buttons, lapels, pocket trimming, and side seams of the pants, and these subtle details add a bit of panache to various tuxedo styles. Because of this detailing, tuxedos are more formal than traditional suiting and should be saved for black-tie and special occasions.\n\nNot only do the ensembles differ, but tuxedos also require different accessories than suits. Tuxedos are often paired with shiny shoes, a bow tie, and a vest. The accompanying shirts usually feature subtle pleating and are worn with matching cufflinks and button covers. These delicate elements make a tuxedo feel more elevated than a suit.\n\n![GT BC ForTheMoment Groomsmen 5x7 (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1EdX6cuusSxcn5SVSX9t5b/a0d759c5e4e15989af1ca363dd1c9ca6/GT_BC_ForTheMoment_Groomsmen_5x7__1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // [Generation Tux](https://www.generationtux.com/?utm_source=ZOLA&utm_campaign=tracked-partnership&utm_medium=PARTNERSHIPS&Ref_Source=PARTNERSHIPS&RefDet1=ZOLA&RefDet2=PROSPECTING&RefDet3=tracked-partnership&RefDet4=article)\n\n## Which Costs More: A Wedding Tuxedo or Suit?\nIf you ask the average person which costs more, the resounding answer would be a tuxedo, but the real way to calculate the cost is to determine your needs. If you want to buy your wedding attire outright, a suit will almost always have a lower price tag unless you reach for bespoke or luxury brand suiting. However, if a suit is something you’ll wear repeatedly, the cost per wear could be pretty reasonable. Purchasing a tuxedo for your wedding day may not make sense unless you attend many formal events.\n\nThe good news is that the cost is about the same for a suit or tuxedo rental. For example, at [Generation Tux](https://www.generationtux.com/?utm_source=ZOLA&utm_campaign=tracked-partnership&utm_medium=PARTNERSHIPS&Ref_Source=PARTNERSHIPS&RefDet1=ZOLA&RefDet2=PROSPECTING&RefDet3=tracked-partnership&RefDet4=article), you can rent a formal black tuxedo or a smart navy blue suit for the same price, and you can also rent accessories to coordinate. Where you can save a little money is that if you wear suits regularly, you can pull fresh-looking accessories from your closet, such as wearing your favorite pocket square or heirloom cufflinks. In short, you’ll pay around the same price for either choice if you rent. ","body2":"## Pros and Cons of Wearing a Suit vs. Tuxedo\n\n- __A tux will garner attention.__ Your special day is a time to go all out and stand apart from your guests and [groomsmen](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/groom-vs-groomsmen-attire-what-to-wear), and a wedding tuxedo is a perfect way to accomplish that goal. However, if you aren’t comfortable with that level of formality, don’t feel you must wear a tux. It’s your wedding day, so you’ll already get noticed.\n- __What you wear indicates the level of formality.__ Wearing a tux to a casual, outdoor wedding may not be appropriate, just like a suit isn’t necessarily the right thing to wear to a black tie event. What the wedding couple wears indicates formality and can also dictate guest attire. Some guests may be uncomfortable getting dressed in cocktail or formal wear.\n- __A suit may not separate you from other guests.__ Again, it’s your wedding day, and you’ll probably meet some of your partner’s family and childhood friends for the first time. Wearing a tux can set you apart from everyone else to make it clear that you’re the one getting married.\n\n![Zola x Gen Tux 2](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7MIrdANoJTZD1iGEGxnQj9/41d2addee4d4a0b87eafeb97443cec67/_AA96045_CORRECTED.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // [Generation Tux](https://www.generationtux.com/?utm_source=ZOLA&utm_campaign=tracked-partnership&utm_medium=PARTNERSHIPS&Ref_Source=PARTNERSHIPS&RefDet1=ZOLA&RefDet2=PROSPECTING&RefDet3=tracked-partnership&RefDet4=article)\n\n## How to Know When to Opt for a Tuxedo vs. Suit\n\nWhether you’re simply weighing your options or are undecided about what attire to select, take a few keys from your wedding to decide. Subtle clues from your big day can help you determine your wedding day look.\n\n### Consider the Time of Day of Your Wedding\n\nOf course, traditional rules don’t always apply, but the old school of thought is that tuxedos were reserved for events after 5 pm. Choosing formalwear is perfect if you’re having a late afternoon or evening wedding. However, don’t shy away just because you’re getting married earlier in the day. You and your partner can dictate the formality of your wedding, so discuss what’s best. For an earlier event, a quality suit or gray wedding tuxedo is perfect, and if you’re having a nighttime wedding, opt for a darker tone, such as a black or dark blue tux.\n\n### Look to Your Wedding Venue for Cues\n\nSkip the tuxedo if you’re having an ultra-casual wedding or backyard barbecue, but a classic ballroom wedding reception calls for something a bit more white-tie. Some venues, such as wineries and barns, allow more flexibility in your outfit choice. The juxtaposition of wearing a charcoal tuxedo with notched lapels at a rustic wedding can be just the touch your event needs to push the level of formality.\n\n### Talk to Your Partner About Your Wedding Day\n\nAs you and your significant other plan your big day, have honest conversations about expectations. Your partner may want a classic, upscale wedding, whereas you’ve always envisioned a more casual event. If seeing you in your wedding tuxedo would be meaningful to the one you love, that is a great reason to select something more formal. You can always wear a tux but dress it down by wearing colorful socks or skipping the bow tie as a compromise. Conversely, if you’ve always envisioned yourself in a blue tuxedo — go for it! \n\n![GT BC ForTheMoment PalmDesertHero Crop](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1rze4MUKHEdvUht2eTV03H/8b60758497382c64fcc2b57f48b39e9b/GT_BC_ForTheMoment_PalmDesertHero_Crop.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // [Generation Tux](https://www.generationtux.com/?utm_source=ZOLA&utm_campaign=tracked-partnership&utm_medium=PARTNERSHIPS&Ref_Source=PARTNERSHIPS&RefDet1=ZOLA&RefDet2=PROSPECTING&RefDet3=tracked-partnership&RefDet4=article)\n\n## 3 Styling Tips for Suit and Tuxedo Styles\n\n### 1. Get the Right Fit\n\nSuits and tuxedos should make you look fabulous, but an ill-fitting set can ruin your entire look. When considering your wedding attire, ponder what makes you feel more comfortable in your everyday wear. If you enjoy wearing looser, more comfortable clothing, opt for a modern fit with a fashionable cut that isn’t too close to the body. If you dread anything baggy and like things more fitted, select the slim cut to show off your physique. Plus, with Generation Tux’s fit technology, you simply need to answer a few questions to determine what’s right for you. It’s just like having a tailor-made suit for your special day, regardless of gender (yes, women can look sharp in a suit or tux, too!).\n\n### 2. Play with Color\n\nEven if you aren’t bold with the tones you wear, your wedding day is the perfect time to infuse color. Accent classic black suits or tuxedos with a colorful pocket square, patterned tie, or quirky socks. Generation Tux also offers various blue-toned suits and wedding tuxedos, ranging from bold indigo to a more classic navy hue to have a more color-forward focus. When there are two grooms, select colors and tuxedo styles that go well together. You can each choose attire that represents your style, but you should both be in complementary looks. Bonus: Generation Tux will even send you color swatches to ensure you don’t clash.\n\n### 3. Add Modern Accessories\n\nAnother way to show off your style is to play with accessorizing your attire. Of course, items like shoes, socks, and a shirt are a must, but that doesn’t mean that these items have to be boring. For example, select a pink or plaid shirt to wear underneath. Other things like cummerbunds, ties, lapel pins, suspenders, and pocket squares are fun ways to play with tones and trends. You can even rent these items so you don’t have to purchase and keep them long term.\n\n![GT BC MultiCultural Hero](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5fL87zpxksaoqxn3g7JApV/c738f4dad51be37b8235e87a1e1a781c/GT_BC_MultiCultural_Hero.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // [Generation Tux](https://www.generationtux.com/?utm_source=ZOLA&utm_campaign=tracked-partnership&utm_medium=PARTNERSHIPS&Ref_Source=PARTNERSHIPS&RefDet1=ZOLA&RefDet2=PROSPECTING&RefDet3=tracked-partnership&RefDet4=article)\n\n## Pros of Renting Wedding Tuxedos and Suits\n\n- __Renting has a lower price tag.__ Of course, the first positive to renting your wedding attire is that it’s more economical than making a big purchase, especially if you don’t intend to wear any of it after the big day. \n- __Renting can come with a bonus.__ Generation Tux has [big perks](https://www.generationtux.com/groomsfree), meaning you may score a free rental or be able to keep your wedding day attire if your [groomsmen ](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-pays-for-the-groomsmen-suits)participate, too.\n- __Renting ensures a better fit.__ Because Generation Tux has a wide selection of suits and tuxes available — in color, style, sit, and fit — it’s easy to get a tailor-made look for your big day. Plus, you have a 48-hour try-on period to ensure your attire fits perfectly without hiring a tailor.\n- __Renting saves time in the long run.__ You probably have a long wedding checklist for your big day, so planning to order your tuxedo or suit early — [six months beforehand](https://www.generationtux.com/blog/how-far-in-advance-should-i-rent-my-tuxedo-or-suit) is suggested. Checking your suiting off your to-do list early means you can sit back and relax in the days leading up to your special day.\n- __Renting allows you to look better on a budget.__ Purchasing suits and wedding tuxedos can be pricey, but you still want to look good. Renting your wedding attire is ideal for looking amazing without a hefty price tag.\n\nAre you considering renting a suit or tuxedo for one of the most important days of your life? Trust [Generation Tux](https://www.generationtux.com/?utm_source=ZOLA&utm_campaign=tracked-partnership&utm_medium=PARTNERSHIPS&Ref_Source=PARTNERSHIPS&RefDet1=ZOLA&RefDet2=PROSPECTING&RefDet3=tracked-partnership&RefDet4=article) with your wedding day attire. Once you build your look and have your at-home try-on, you can proceed with confidence that you’ll look and feel your best on your big day. Having your suiting delivered straight to your door lets you concentrate on other things — like getting married to the one you love.","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"widget2":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_InvitesPaper"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Don't know where to shop for androgynous wedding attire? 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","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2018-12-13T16:01:29.041Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3VMpMOUBZSyCkaeYeEmqgk/8db23790cfb65c8c8eebd5f2ecc5c522/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"groom in cobalt blue tux jacket"},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/inspiration/wedding-photographers/kandi-daniel-studios","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- The most important part of choosing your suit as a groom is finding out your body measurements from a professional tailor. \n- Deciding whether to buy or rent a suit or tuxedo will depend on your budget, preferred style, desired wearability, and the level of formality at your wedding.\n- Whether you’re looking to blend in or stand out, consider which styling details for jackets, waistcoats, trousers, and accents will compliment both your body type and your wedding theme. \n","body":"The modern groom now approaches his wedding day attire as a reflection of his style and personality. While the classic wedding attire choices for grooms—a suit or tuxedo—are still the go-to attire for many grooms, others opt for more casual looks, like a dress shirt, slacks, and a blazer or a more laid-back linen shirt and khakis (perfect for a summer wedding).\n\nThe decision to wear a suit, tuxedo, or something less traditional on the big day is often a difficult dilemma for guys—especially now, when there are more attire options than ever. If you’re not sure where to start when it comes to choosing wedding day clothing for men, check out our guide to [groom’s attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/groom-vs-groomsmen-attire-what-to-wear) below.\n\n## Master Measurements \nThe most important part of choosing your suit is making sure that it’s sized appropriately for your body type. Getting measured is a must to ensure your wedding suit fits you perfectly and compliments your shape. \n\nIf you're getting a custom suit or tux, a professional tailor can take your measurements—and if you're getting your attire from a larger retailer, a salesperson can make sure you get measured accurately.\n\nFrom there, the choices about suit vs. tux, individual garments, materials, and cuts will all be easier knowing exactly what sizes you should be shopping for.\n\n## The Difference Between a Suit and a Tuxedo\nAt first glance, there isn’t a whole lot of difference between the physical appearance of a suit and a tux. Here are the main differences between these two menswear styles:\n\n- Tuxes tend to have satin features (such as the buttons, the lapels, and a stripe down the side of the pants) whereas suits do not.\n- Tuxes are typically worn with bow-ties and a cummerbund or vest, and the jacket might have a tail.\n- Suits usually have a standard suit jacket and are paired with a long tie (and sometimes a vest, depending on preference).\n\nWhen [choosing a suit](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-groom-and-groomsmen-suits) or a tux, focus on which style makes you feel comfortable, fits into your budget, and matches the formality of your wedding.\n\n![Groom and Groomsmen Suits](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/25zO6FbThOdt4gPJ7r0bNL/54971006e9ae1a52012f4677ac14181d/Inline_Manuel_Montenegro_Photography.png) *Photo Credit* // Manuel Montenegro Photography\n\n## The Pros and Cons of Suits and Tuxes\n### Suits\n\n__Pros:__\n- If purchased, can be worn multiple times after the wedding day to all sorts of events\n- Easier to personalize to match the wedding theme\n- Available in a wide range of [different styles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-different-wedding-suit-styles) and colors\n- Pairs easily paired with accessories, such as pocket squares, ties, boutonnieres, and shirts\n- Can be more comfortable\n- Great for slightly-less formal or informal weddings\n\n__Cons:__\n- Expensive to purchase\n- Certain colors and styles, such as light-colored suits, are not appropriate in all settings and seasons and thus aren’t as versatile\n- Looks out of place at really formal weddings\n\n### Tuxedos\n\n__Pros:__\n- Great for formal, black-tie weddings\n- Can look more refined and polished\n- Creates greater cohesion with less work for a large group of groomsmen\n- Available in fewer styles, but cuts down on decision-making\n- Most popular choice for grooms’ attire\n\n__Cons:__\n- Often not worn much after the wedding (unless the groom attends many formal, black-tie events)\n- Very expensive to purchase\n- Looks really out of place at informal weddings/events\n- Requires a special type of dress shirt (typically white with black buttons)\n- Though possible in other colors, black is the most widely available\n\n![How to Choose Your Groomsmen ](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1Te9ZGkMK4ouILmKG8cPat/8e167e413d62828c75b2388b0b1060dc/Inline_Sonju_Photography.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Sonju Photography\n\n## Price Comparisons \nThe price of a groom’s suit or tuxedo really depends on a combination of factors: \n- Where the groom lives\n- The store(s) where he is shopping\n- The suit or tuxedo design \n- The menswear designer\n- Whether you decide to rent or buy\n- How customized the details are\n- The quality of the materials \n\nBecause so many of these pricing factors are circumstantial, it’s best to shop around to compare prices in order to get a true comparison.\n\n### Buying Vs. Renting\n \n- If buying, tuxes tend to cost more than suits. \n- If renting, suits tend to cost more than tuxes. \n\nAnd, of course, if you opt to forego a suit or a tux for something more informal, there’s a good chance you’re looking at a lower price tag. (For example, khakis and a linen shirt are likely going to cost less than buying a custom blue suit or renting a tux.)\n\n## Formality Matters\nThe formality of a wedding will play a major role in whether a tuxedo, suit, or more laid-back attire is the right choice for a groom. Here’s some general advice to keep in mind when choosing groom's attire:\n\n1. __Suits are better for less formal events.__ Suits come in all kinds of different styles and can usually be tailored to fit various levels of formality, including semi-formal and casual weddings—while tuxedos tend to look out of place at more laid-back events (for example, a beach wedding).\n2. __Tuxes are better for more formal events.__ If the event has a formal dress code then the groom’s attire should be formal as well.\n3. __It’s best to match your the dressiness of your partner’s attire.__ Finally, the extravagance of the your partner’s attire should be taken into consideration. If your fiancé(e) is wearing something very formal or very informal, choose a look to match.","body2":"### Religious and Cultural Attire\nIf your religious or cultural ceremony requires different formalwear beyond a traditional Western look, you will most likely be seeking out a specialty clothier or tailor who can craft the traditional wedding garments you need. These experts, along with any knowledgeable family and friends you might bring along, can help you select and get fitted for the outfit(s) you’ll wear on your wedding day.\n\n### Military Attire\nIf you are a member of the military, you may wish to come to your wedding in your full military dress. Many branches of the military have various uniforms for different types of ceremonies, each with varying degrees of formality. If you decide to opt for military attire, choose the most formal uniform or military dress suitable for your rank to wear to your wedding.\n\n### Suit Care Tips \n1. __Make Sure It Fits__ — As a first step when trying on your groom attire, make sure that your suit, tux, or other clothing choices are properly tailored to your body. \n2. __Take Care Of Wrinkles__ — Make sure you know how to take care of your ensemble. If your suit needs to be steamed or pressed to look its best, get it done ahead of time. Don’t forget to properly wash, store, and iron (if necessary) your shirts, ties, and other fabric accessories, too.\n3. __Store Someplace Safe__ — Before (and after) the wedding, make sure that your groom attire is stored in a safe, secure place that’s free of moisture, extreme temperatures, or pests that can damage the fabric. \n\n![How to Choose Your Groomsmen ](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1Te9ZGkMK4ouILmKG8cPat/8e167e413d62828c75b2388b0b1060dc/Inline_Sonju_Photography.png) *Photo Credit* // Sonju Photography\n\n## Styling and Details\n \nWhile it might seem that grooms’ attire is pretty straightforward, there are plenty of pieces to mix and match to create the perfect wedding look.\n\nHere’s a breakdown of the different menswear elements that typically make up a groom’s wedding day look: \n\n### Jackets\n- As a general rule, slimmer and shorter jackets are in fashion at the moment. Avoid baggy suits or jackets that are too long.\n\n- Customization is easiest to pull off on a groom’s jacket. Whether choosing a funky print for the jacket lining, or choosing a jacket in a bright color or unique fabric like velvet, there are many possibilities here for adding a little flair. \n\n- Single- or double-breasted? This term simply refers to the way your suit buttons. \n 1. __Single-Breasted:__ A single-breasted suit has one row of buttons (usually no more than three) down the center. \n 2. __Double-Breasted:__ Double-breasted suits, as the name implies, double up, meaning you have four, six, or eight buttons in two adjacent rows.\n\nSingle-breasted jackets are more popular, as double-breasted jackets tend to look like they come from a very particular period in time—which might be handy if you’re having a retro-themed wedding.\n\n- Don’t forget the lapels. There are three main types:\n 1. __Notch:__ The notch lapel is the most common; it’s so named because there is a notch where the collar starts and the lapel ends. \n 2. __Peak:__ A peak lapel tapers into a point angled toward your shoulders. It’s a very formal, fashion-forward cut and can look out of place on the wrong suit. Suits with peak lapels tend to be more expensive because they’re more difficult to sew. \n 3. __Shawl:__ Shawl lapels are usually only seen on tuxedos and dinner jackets and feature a continuous curve. They’re very distinctive and also highly formal. \n\n- Even though they seem like small details, the type of buttons and cut of pocket that you choose will really affect the overall look of your suit. Don’t neglect these small, but impactful points of tailoring when choosing your wedding suit. \n\n### Waistcoats (or Vests)\n- A waistcoat is usually the third part of a three-piece suit, or the star of a more dressed down shirt-tie-waistcoat ensemble. They button in the front and have a built-in cinch at the back so you can adjust how fitted the waistcoat is to your body. \n\n### Trousers\n- Dress pants are available to you in all the same cuts as a normal pair of pants, and how they hang on you will really affect their look. The most crucial part of choosing the right trousers is making sure that they are the right length, revealing just the right amount of ankle. The area where your shoes touch the hem of your pants is called the break of the trousers. There are three main types: \n 1. __No Break:__ No break means the pants don’t actually touch your shoes, which has the effect of making your legs look a little longer. \n 2. __Half Break:__ Trousers with a half-break rest on the top of your shoes and are the most standard trouser length.\n 3. __Full Beak:__ Finally, there’s the full break, which means the fabric folds all the way around the ankle where it hits your shoes. Trousers with a full break can be hard to pull off well, especially on shorter men, who run the risk of looking like they forgot to get their pants hemmed at all.\n\n![How to Ask Someone to be Your Groomsmen](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4dh4v9FrffDQVtaAcBGqis/601fc717b833ceb89e9d28a8adbe4c6a/Inline_Christopher_Duggan_Photography.png) *Photo Credit* // Christopher Duggan Photography\n\n### The Accents\nEven if you go classic with the main aspects of your wedding day look, there’s room to personalize on a smaller scale with accessories. Whether it’s a patterned tie or a pair of heirloom cufflinks, these details can add sophistication and let your unique self shine. Here’s a breakdown of accessories to consider adding to your groom’s attire: \n\n#### Traditional Accessories\n- A bowtie or tie\n- A belt and/or suspenders\n- A watch\n- Cufflinks\n- A tie clip\n- A pocket square\n- Socks\n- Shoes\n\n#### Additional Accessories\n- Jewelry\n- Sunglasses\n- A hat\n- A scarf\n- A lapel pin\n\nWhen it comes to your wedding day look, here are a lot of menswear choices to consider. To make the decision-making easier, start slowly by consulting experts at local shops and browsing through our collection of [Real Weddings](https://www.zola.com/inspire/search) for other groom looks. And remember—there’s no need to stress. This is about having fun and finding attire that makes you feel comfortable and confident. 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Our experts can help! Read on to find out now.","author":"Jane Chertoff","publishedAt":"2020-12-30T22:00:37.951Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/76BvuppwTduYTjb9BHTQK5/9b67ff2e9b1f9b31881a679518739109/Hero_SophisticatedMemphisCelebration_JoshAndAleahPhotography.jpg","altText":"When Should You Order Bridesmaids Dresses"},"heroCredit":"Josh And Aleah Photography","body":"When you should order your bridesmaids dresses depends on a few factors. You want to leave plenty of time before the wedding to research and decide on a dress style and color. Then, you’ll want your girls to try on the dresses with plenty of time left for alterations and delivery. In general, six to eight months before the wedding is safe. \n\nHere’s a timeline on when to order bridesmaid dresses so that you can check it off your pre-wedding to-do list. \n\n## Do Your Research and Decide on a Dress\n\nNo matter where you are in the [wedding planning](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning) process, the first step is to do some research and determine what bridesmaid dress style, length, color, and material you like. You’ll also need to figure out the price point and let your bridesmaid’s know what budget you have in mind. For this part of the process, you might want to do your dress shopping online or in-store with a few bridesmaids, so that you can get a visual for how the dress will look. \n\nOnce you have a dress type in mind, you can check in with the manufacturer or online retailer and ask how long it will take to order the dresses. You should also confirm that they have enough in stock to accommodate all your girls. \n\nIf your girls are picking out their own dress, you may have more flexibility with the timeline. You’ll still want to give them plenty of notice and details about the color, style, length, or material you have in mind. That will give them time to shop for and pick out the perfect dress, plus make alterations, if needed. \n\n![When Should You Order Bridesmaids Dresses?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/HTnFWS5G4LtgbgfkNRBIl/93893f7dd82a79b80e3331ae536633e1/Inline_Nicole_Livingston_Photography.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Nicole Livingston Photography\n\n## 6 Months Before Wedding: Order Dresses \n\nAround six months before the big day is a sweet spot for ordering the dresses. Some designer dresses and other bridesmaid’s dresses from bridal boutiques may take two or three months to get your dresses in stock. Plus, you need to allow two months for alterations. You’ll also want to leave in some leeway time in case anything goes awry. Keep in mind, dresses and styles may change by the season. So, if you come across a dress you love, don’t wait too long before having your girls order it. \n\nAround six months before the wedding, if you have the bridesmaid gown picked out, go ahead and tell your ladies to order their dresses. \n\n## 2-4 Months Before Wedding: Make Alterations \n![When Should You Order Bridesmaids Dresses?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/45Zi3ocFvxunWPpr1UbeTk/c3947fd8e32d4a940cb7e34b9a144ecc/Inline_Zola__16_.png)\n*Photo Credit* // Zola\n\nOnce your bridesmaids’ dresses come in, you’ll need to allow plenty of time for alterations to be made. Bridesmaids’ dresses are usually ordered in specific sizes and then are typically altered as needed. Alterations can take a while, so you’ll want to make sure that your dresses come in at least a few months before the wedding. That way, if your bridesmaids go through one round of alterations and need another alteration last-minute to fix anything, there’s still enough time. \n\n## 1-2 Months Before Wedding: Schedule Final Fitting and Take Dresses Home\n\nYour bridesmaids will want to schedule a final fitting where they try on the dress to make sure that all the alterations are right. If everything looks great, they can take the dress home and keep it safely stored until the wedding day. \n\n## Should You Order Bridesmaid’s Dresses Online or In-Store? \n\nWhether you order your bridesmaids dresses online or in-store comes down to personal preference. If you prefer the personalized service you get with an in-store boutique, you can shop in-person. They will help you determine the exact timeline of when to order the dresses and may even offer alterations in-house. If your wedding party lives in different cities, having your bridesmaids [order online](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/bridesmaids-bridal-party) may work best. Just make sure that they order with plenty of time left for returns or exchanging sizes before the wedding. \n\n## When Should You Order Rental Bridesmaid’s Dresses? \n\nThe timeline for renting bridesmaids dresses is a bit tricky. Most sites only allow you to rent dresses for immediately before the event, and then they need to be returned the next day. Ideally, you’ll be ordering dresses from a site that allows your bridesmaids to receive the dress up to a week before the wedding. That way they can exchange it if it doesn’t fit with plenty of time. Some rental sites even allow at-home try-ons before the wedding, where you can choose from a few styles and sizes before deciding what you like best. If you’re only able to secure the dresses a few days before, have your bridesmaids order the same dress in two different sizes, so that they can use the one that fits best. ","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Don’t know how to pick bridesmaid dresses? We can help. Read on to discover our top tips and advice.","title":"How to Pick Bridesmaid Dresses","slug":"how-to-pick-bridesmaid-dresses","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4AhnEF0yNH8LSyc7GUhb2s/63680b567e078217d706a9af7c6628f6/Hero_Sweet_FunEllistonVineyardsWedding_OnelovePhotography.jpg","altText":"How to Pick Bridesmaid Dresses"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Letting your bridesmaids pick their own dresses for your wedding day means confident bridesmaids and less stress for you. Here are the do’s and don'ts of letting your bridesmaids pick out their own dress. 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Read our guide for how to choose the perfect winter bridesmaid dress.","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2021-01-05T19:57:36.791Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/33EXw4HPqBuzcEn3mal7pi/3c47795b4b0fc7e3395ef48779661f91/Hero_RomanticWinterWeddingatLoew-sPortofinoBayHotelatUniversal_BrittanyLeePhotography.jpg","altText":"Winter Bridesmaid Dress"},"heroCredit":"Brittany Lee Photography","body":"There’s something both glamorous and romantic about a winter wedding, whether you’re having an intimate indoor affair or posing outside amongst two feet of snow. But as the seasons shift, attire needs and expectations change dramatically. \n\nFor both brides and their bridal party, it’s important to think about how these changes influence dress choices and the overall vision of the big wedding day. To help, we’ve rounded up some simple tips for choosing the right bridesmaid attire for the chillier season.\n\n## Opt for Longer Hems\nIn general, longer dresses are more fitting for winter affairs, particularly in colder weather regions. Luckily full-length gowns are fairly traditional and available in a wide range of styles. [Wrap dresses](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/fameandpartners_raised_front_neck_wrap_dress) and [A-line styles](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/birdygrey_ryan_bridesmaid_dress_cabernet) are both extremely versatile [bridesmaid dress styles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/guide-to-bridesmaid-dress-styles) and can work across most dress codes.\n\nIf full-length dresses aren’t your style, you can always consider [a shorter style with long sleeves](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/fameandpartners_round_neck_bodycon_dress) or in a heavier fabric like [velvet](https://www.bhldn.com/products/nasha-dress-fog?gclid=Cj0KCQjwk8b7BRCaARIsAARRTL7ayehguvSfjGinBb3YnC_N9N5IkoCZzw8OkRhr-DfhzMEjorHvn6caArN6EALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds). Knee-length cocktail dresses with sequins are also a great winter look. \n\n## Keep Location in Mind. \n\nA winter ceremony in South Carolina is going to be very different from a New Year’s Eve wedding in Boston—not just in style, but in temperature. Whether you’re the bride or one of the maids, make sure to consider weather patterns as you start to look at dresses. There are alternative ways to keep warm, of course, but you still don’t want to be caught in a tank dress when the wind chill is below freezing. \n\nThis is especially important for destination weddings, as winter in the U.S. is actually summer in the Southern Hemisphere. If you’re planning a wedding in Argentina over the holidays and expecting cooler weather as a result, think again. The average temperature in December in Buenos Aires ranges from 70 to 80 degrees Fahrenheit. Make sure you do your research before making any big purchases.\n\n## Sleeves, Sleeves, Sleeves\n\nWe’re not saying long-sleeved gowns are always the way to go—we’re only suggesting that you avoid tank dresses with large cutouts if the weather is likely to be on the colder side. [Short, flutter sleeves](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/kleinfeldbridalparty_flutter_sleeve_long_bridesmaid_dress_indigo) or their [three-quarter-length counterparts](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/adriannapappell_scoop_back_sequin_gown_with_three_quarter_sleeves_lead) are not only flattering across many body types, but also meld with a variety of styles. Full-length sleeves are another great option for fancier affairs and look great on fitted and sequined gowns. \n\nNonetheless, if you can’t seem to shake the vision of silk Champagne-colored slips with low backs, then pick a venue where you’ll have some control over the temperature and make sure your maids have warm coats or pashminas to get from place to place.\n\n## Lean Toward Cooler, Natural Tones\nWhile you don’t need to look like an ice queen, going with hues that bring out your surroundings gives the overall look an effortless appeal. In the winter, this might mean considering “cooler” colors in shades of blue, purple, and green. For more formal affairs, consider pseudo neutrals, like [burgundy](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/khloejaymes_anabel_bridesmaid_dress_wine), navy, and [grayish blue](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/birdygrey_gwennie_bridesmaid_dress_dustyblue).\n\nThe primary exception might be [jewel tones](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/birdygrey_christina_convertible_dress_emerald), which have made a big comeback in the last several years. Mustard yellow and rich fuschia might seem out-of-place on their own, but these shades make a bold statement when paired with emerald greens and deep reds. Because of the richness of each hue, they work especially well at more formal events and glamorous venues.\n\n## Consider Accessories in Advance\nAs you start to look at winter bridesmaid dress options, consider how they can be accessorized. Accessories are a great way to make warm-weather styles more practical. For example, if you’re leaning toward a knee-length cocktail number that could easily be styled with some opaque tights and closed-toe heels, you might have a winner.\n\nTo make sure everyone is on the same page, consider gifting your maids matching jackets or picking out cozy shawls or pashminas that fit the color scheme. \n\n## Keep an Eye on the Details\nWhen temperatures drop, gowns with [sequins](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/adriannapappell_short_sleeve_beaded_blouson_gown_dustyblue) or big, billowy skirts no longer feel stuffy or fussy, but luxurious and sophisticated. Fabrics are also important, as the weight of fabric not only dictates how warm (or cold!) the bridesmaids will be, but can also influence the ambience or “mood” of the event. For example, if your wedding is relatively casual, you might want to consider fabrics like cotton canvas or [lightweight chiffon](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/kleinfeldbridalparty_coldshoulder_chiffon_bridesmaid_dress_cashmere) over satin or velvet. Lastly, if you’re the bride, make sure to keep the added expense of sequin dresses in mind. Gowns with [intricate beading](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/adriannapappell_floral_beaded_godet_long_dress_with_sheer_short_sleeves_rosegold) can often cost quite a bit more than their simpler counterparts.","tag":"How To","nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Need to know what to look for when shopping for fall wedding bridesmaid dresses? Check out our comprehensive guide today!\n","title":"What to Look For in Fall Bridesmaid Dresses","slug":"what-to-look-in-fall-bridesmaid-dresses","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/76X8slH4DGhTUpm5AqiFID/5d03ebe1a495418fbab9438778b1900a/wedding-photography-cWBVCP1mlYI-unsplash.jpg","altText":"Fall Bridesmaid Dresses"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Weddings are steeped in love, family, friends, and tradition. 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","author":"Laura Hensley","publishedAt":"2020-12-21T21:46:52.164Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4njJPne049MMwDcBon8aAt/a6aefad170a912821f7560c828d97ccf/Hero_FestiveMulticulturalCeremony_LishaWangPhotography.jpg","altText":"Different Wedding Suit Styles"},"heroCredit":"Lisha Wang Photography","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- When it comes to choosing a wedding suit, the general rule is that [the groom's attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-grooms-attire) should match the formality of the event. \n- Tuxedos are ideal for formal weddings, three-piece suits are great for semi-formal affairs, and both two-piece suits and summer suits convey a more laid-back vibe.\n- Keep your personal style in mind, too. There’s nothing worse than wearing something that you don’t feel comfortable in.\n","body":"\nFrom the [wedding venue](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-venues) to food to decor, there are a lot of decisions that go into [planning a wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/planning-101). As with [wedding dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what's-your-wedding-dress-style), there are plenty of different suit styles, so it’s a good idea to understand your options before you go shopping. You want to choose wedding attire that reflects your personality and makes you feel like you.\n\nReady to learn more? Here’s a breakdown of the different types of wedding suit styles. \n\n## What Is Your Wedding Venue and Vibe?\n\nFirst things first: Your wedding suit needs to complement the level of formality and the aesthetic of your wedding. If you’re getting married in the ballroom of a five-star hotel, your wedding attire should reflect that environment. A tuxedo or three-piece suit would be most appropriate in those types of spaces. You also want to consider what activities you’ll be doing on your wedding day so as to ensure that your suit allows you to move around with ease. \n\nTime of year and weather are also key factors. A laid-back, summer beach wedding calls for a breathable, less formal suit. Winter weddings mean warmer fabrics such as wool and tweed. If you haven’t booked your venue or locked down a wedding date, yet, hold off on purchasing a groom suit for now. Get the big details in order first. \n\n## Formal Wedding Suit Styles\n\n![What Are the Different Wedding Suit Styles? | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/15yP2yPdQMzofrU6gxkZ6X/5664db0c25e7dc5e5d1a64d80bfd57f8/Inline_Levi_Stolove_Photography__1_.png)\n*Photo Credit //* Levi Stolove Photography\n\n#### *Tuxedo* \nIf you’re having a formal wedding, a [tuxedo](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_jacket) is a classic choice. A tux is technically not a suit, but it’s a popular option for grooms who want a sophisticated look—they are classic and timeless. Tuxedos are ideal for fancier weddings (think ballrooms, hotels, and historical buildings) and evening events. Plus, there are many different [groom tuxedo ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/groom-tuxedo-ideas) that you can look into if you want to stand out on your big day.\n\nTuxedos are often made of wool and have contrasting satin details that appear on the jacket’s lapel, breast, and waist pockets. Tuxedo pants have a satin stripe running down the leg, and typically don’t have belt loops, thus making suspenders the pant-holder of choice. \nTuxedo jackets are either single or double-breasted, and they have different lapel styles, too. Traditionally, for black-tie events, tuxedos are worn with a cummerbund—waist covering—which should match the fabric of your jacket’s lapels. Low-cut vests are also a traditional component of tuxedos, but some grooms decide not to wear one. \n\n#### *Morning Suit*\nPopular in the U.K., morning suits (or morning dress) is considered a very formal daytime outfit. If you’re British, or planning a royal family-inspired wedding, a morning suit may be the look for you. \n\nLike all suits, a morning suit is made up of several parts. The single-breasted jacket—the morning coat—has a longer tail that makes an “S” shape over the bottom and extends to just below the back of the knees. Pants sit high on the waist, and their length should not be too long; the hem should hit just above the shoe. Morning suits are worn with a vest (waistcoat), crisp white dress shirt, and tie. Black leather Oxfords are classic shoes to wear with a morning suit. \n\n#### *Tailcoat Suit*\nAnother super formal wedding suit style is an evening tailcoat. Like morning coats, tailcoats have long tails that cover the bottom and hit the back of the knees. Tailcoats are often black, dark grey, or navy. The jacket is paired with a white dress shirt, high-waisted pants, and a waistcoat. One thing that makes a tailcoat different from other suit jackets is its waistline, which mirrors the wearer’s waistline. This means that the front of the jacket is shorter than most other suit jackets. It’s a super polished look that exudes elegance. \n\n## Semi-Formal Wedding Suit Styles\n\n#### *Three-Piece Wedding Suit*\n\nA three-piece wedding suit can be worn at a formal or semi-formal wedding. This suit consists of a jacket, pants, and a waistcoat, ie. a vest. Jackets can be either single-breasted or double-breasted, and are ideal for grooms who want to look sharp, but not out of place among guests. Suit material, color, and accessories can help dress a three-piece suit up or down, depending on your dress code. Soft grey is ideal for daytime or [warm-weather weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue), whereas navy, black, and burgundy are suitable for fall or evening events. Grooms can wear either a bow tie or tie with their suit, and they can mix things up with fun socks, a patterned pocket square, and sunglasses. \n\n## Less Formal, More Casual Wedding Suit Styles\n\n#### *Two-Piece Suit*\nA two-piece suit consists of a jacket and pants. The jacket can be single or double-breasted, but [single-breasted](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_navy_blue_suit_jacket) is a bit more of a casual option. The reason that two-piece suits are so popular is because they allow for a lot of personalization—think colors, fabrics, accessories, and shoes. Some grooms like to stick to classic colors such as navy or grey, while others will turn things up a notch by sporting a bolder color or fabric. Both three-piece and two-piece suits are solid investments, as they can be worn again after your wedding day to events such as business meetings, formal dinners, and special events. \n\n#### *Vest Only, or Dress Shirt Only* \nAnother casual option is wearing a [vest](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/planning-101) with a dress shirt and pants—no suit jacket. This look is popular for outdoor weddings in more [rustic venues](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue), such as converted barns or laid-back wineries. Some grooms opt to only wear a dress shirt—long or short sleeved—with pants and suspenders. This is a modern, hip aesthetic that looks good with a patterned bow tie and boutonniere. While a shirt-only look can be [pulled off in the fall](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue), it’s best for spring and summer weddings. For grooms who want to dress as casual as possible, swap out dress pants for nice jeans. \n#### *Casual Summer Suits*\nIf you’re having a destination wedding on a beach, you’ll want to wear something that’s weather appropriate and matches the vibe of your big day. Casual suits for a summer wedding, which are often made of breathable fabrics such as cotton or linen, are often worn without a tie and designed in light colors—think off-white, light beige, or soft blue. Seersucker or floral patterns add a touch of personality. Some grooms wear a casual dress shirt under the jacket, while others who really want to be informal rock a t-shirt. Footwear such as loafers, canvas sneakers, and even boat shoes can work. \n\nWhatever suit style you decide to wear on your wedding day, be sure to determine your budget, start shopping early, and match the aesthetic of your venue and dress code. Don’t ignore your personal preferences either; pick a style that best reflects your personality, and makes you feel good. You want your spouse to see you on your big day looking most like *you*. \n","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Tuxedos are ideal for grooms at formal weddings and black-tie affairs. You can customize your tux with personalized details, such as special cufflinks and playful socks.","title":"A Complete Guide to Groom and Groomsmen Tuxedos + Ideas","slug":"groom-tuxedo-ideas","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6ah6lIqItIOOt4VDWFaRiR/175de92399293ddb6962b0e9eeb42e27/Hero_EnglishGardenIntimateWeddingatHistoricKeelerTavern_CoreyLynnTuckerPhotography__1_.jpg","altText":"Groom Tuxedos"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"You don’t just want to look good on your big day; you want your groomsmen to look sharp, too. 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Check out our guide to a church wedding dress code.","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-09T20:27:26.004Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5T7VRQz8WDECa5mRgVhJYp/3894676428ca9327f1200449319208c1/inline_kathyizzyphotography.jpg","altText":"Church Wedding"},"heroCredit":"Unsplash","body":"They might be one of the most common ceremony venues, but churches still tend to throw guests for a loop when it comes to selecting wedding-day attire appropriate for that setting. Depending on the couple’s religious affiliation and the type of church that the ceremony is taking place at, dress codes can vary greatly, so make sure that you’re familiar with the venue and what to expect before you start narrowing down outfits. Below are some key pieces of advice to figure out when planning your fashion for a church wedding. \n\n### Know the Dress Code\n\n![What to Wear to a Church Wedding](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3xNVLwakY0JwANOaDWQon3/c6f876f294667a740a1540abf1bfea34/inline_kathyizzyphotography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Kathy Izzy Photography\n\nFirst and foremost, you’re not going to know what’s appropriate until you know the dress code. A good idea is to check the wedding invitation—along with wedding day details, such as times and locations, you should find guest attire guidelines. For a casual church wedding, this might mean a short-sleeved sundress that hits just below the knee or a relaxed, linen suit. For a more formal affair, formal attire such as a full-length silk gown or black, tailored suit will likely work best. There’s a lot of flexibility within each dress code, but because church weddings call for slightly more modest attire, it’s best to pick something you know would be appropriate over the outfit that might be a little more risque or ostentatious. After all, as a wedding guest, you should not be the center of attention—the bride and groom are. \n\n### Keep It Simple\n\nIf you’re feeling at all self-conscious about your wardrobe choices, simplicity is your best friend. Knee-length, minimalist frocks and tailored pantsuits are some of the most straightforward options and work with nearly any dress code. This also means avoiding anything flashy or attention-grabbing (think sparkles, sequins, dramatic hairstyles, and colorful makeup). Though they might be perfectly appropriate for your cousin’s celebration at the Art Institute of Chicago, it’s best to pick something less extravagant for a traditional church ceremony.\n\n### Pick Sophisticated Accessories\n\nJust like with simplicity, sophistication will always work in your favor. This means tailored looks, clean lines and timeless pieces that can be worn again and again. If your love for bright colors and sparkles makes it hard to find something appropriate, consider a sequined clutch or a red crossbody bag. If you love to go wild with accessories, maybe pick a multi-tiered pearl necklace or a stack of gold bangles to go with a simple, navy ensemble. There’s always a way to incorporate personal style with accessories while still abiding by the dress code.\n\n### Opt for More Coverage…\n\nWhen in doubt, an outfit with more coverage is almost always better at a church ceremony. If you’re opting for a dress, this often means picking a more conservative neckline and hemline. In general, it’s best to avoid styles such as shorts, minidresses, cutouts, plunging necklines, and extremely low backs. There are always exceptions, but in a place of worship, it’s best to play it safe and be as respectful as possible.\n\n### ...or Bring Something to Cover Up \n\nIf you have the perfect evening dress, but the spaghetti straps make you worried that you’re showing too much skin (or that you’ll be too cold for most of the ceremony), consider bringing a scarf or shawl to cover up, if necessary. Not only is it a stylish accessory, but it gives you the flexibility to wear something that you know you’re already comfortable in, while still abiding by the more modest dress code.\n\n### Get Creative With Colors, Fabrics, and Textures\n\nModest doesn’t have to mean boring, but we understand if understated elegance isn’t necessarily your thing. Longer hems, sleeves, and higher necklines mean more fabric to experiment with, so feel free to show your personality through [unexpected colors and textures](https://www.lulus.com/products/gala-ready-wine-red-off-the-shoulder-ruffle-midi-dress/856742.html) instead. Consider a velvet wrap dress in olive green or an A-line number with ruffles and billowy sleeves. Play with prints as another way to mix it up. Just make sure that you either pick a bold print in a neutral color or a more subtle print if you’re going with a brighter hue.\n\n### Mind the Seasons\n\nAs lovely as sleeves may be, you’re not going to be comfortable if it’s a mid-summer wedding and the church doesn’t have air conditioning. It’s always easier to cover up, so try wearing a sleeveless or cap-sleeve dress, and, instead, bringing a sweater, blazer, or shawl. For a winter wedding, consider layering tights with dresses and warm socks with suits. No matter the season, layers are your best friend.\n\n### Don’t Forget the Reception\n\n![What to Wear to a Church Wedding](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/8mAqFtjjFG5pULgQcG2jV/6245506a2d718cf358e59b66f3dadf84/inline_kateiversonphotography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Kate Iverson Photography\n\nIf there’s going to be a reception, chances are that it’s not going to take place at the church. In most cases, the reception falls directly after the wedding, meaning that there’s not a lot of time (if any) to go home and change. If you expect there to be a lot of drinking and dancing, you might decide to bring an extra pair of shoes, or swap out your sweater for a more glitzy blazer. As always, it’s a good idea to keep the venue in mind (and double check to confirm that the dress code is the same).\n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_WeddingBoutique"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"How does one go about choosing a wedding venue? 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Discover essential do's and don'ts for a flawless, elegant look. Dress to impress with our expert guide.","title":"Black Tie Wedding Attire: Do's and Don'ts ","slug":"what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3b3O9GlaB15QourRyIR7Ki/58ac27ececd6f88d7db19d9a052f689d/Hero_New__6_.jpg","altText":"couple in black tie wedding attire"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Explore Wedding Boutique","url":"https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:39:33.187Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"a-guide-on-what-to-wear-to-a-new-years-eve-wedding","title":"A Guide on What to Wear to a New Year’s Eve Wedding","excerpt":"What better way to ring in the new year than in style? Here's a guide on the best fits for a New Year's Eve wedding.","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2021-02-08T20:41:10.668Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/499ALUrBIj5lZJ2xXQQVuP/0085a4ba1ac25e9facdd7ec1a4275c7b/Hero_ClassicWinterWeddingatRochesterArtCenter_CopperandCoalPhotography.jpg","altText":"What to Wear to a New Year’s Eve Wedding"},"heroCredit":"Copper and Coal Photography","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- Determining what to wear to a New Year’s Eve wedding doesn’t have to be difficult, in fact, this is the prime time to get glammed up.\n- The dress code and locale of the wedding ceremony will help determine the length of your dress or if extra sparkle is needed. \n- If sequins and embellishments aren’t for you, try a jumpsuit or pants suit in metallic hues so you still shine at the NYE wedding celebration.","body":"Few occasions call for a red carpet moment, but a [New Year’s Eve wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-have-a-new-years-eve-wedding) ceremony is the best place to pull out all the stops to ring in the new year and toast to the newly married couple. While it’s not tradition to go over the top glitz and glam with the potential of stealing the attention from the bride and groom, it’s safe to assume the December 31 date was chosen for a reason—and that includes allowing guests to shine on their big day. \n\nWhen deciding upon New Year’s Eve wedding guest attire, color palette and style should be considered, but also think about what will make you look party-perfect from cocktail hour until after the ball drops. Here are some tips on what to wear as a guest to an NYE wedding.\n\n![A Guide on What to Wear to a New Year’s Eve Wedding- SR](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5ybzMwzGhrRZyS8MTwOGlc/1e8f4b6a03270ab36622967c2d99eeb7/inline_kelsey_halm_photography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Kelsey Halm Photography\n\n### What’s the Dress Code?\nDefer to the invitation to determine what the dress code is for the wedding. A New Year’s Eve wedding can be more formal, so you can wear a full-length dress, long sleeves, or even pack on accessories like beads and sequins. If the invite says semi-formal or black tie optional, you can pull out all the stops with an outfit that is worthy of a red carpet. But the best way to go about picking out your outfit is to also consider the vibe of the celebration and the location. If it’s cocktail hour, it’s okay to go with a short dress; if it’s a black-tie event, wear the long dress. \n\n### Do Wear Black\nNormally, all black can be frowned upon for a wedding. It’s not a funeral, after all. But, since it’s New Year’s Eve, a black dress with some beading and or sequins is a festive fun way to celebrate. \n\n### Do Not Wear White\nNew Year’s Eve weddings are formal and festive, but you still have to be mindful of not wearing white. White is reserved for the bride and groom. Unless the [New Year’s Eve wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/10-ideas-for-new-years-eve-wedding-invitations) ask for guests to wear white, it’s best to stay away from it and wear another color. \n\n### Avoid Casual Materials\nStay away from casual materials, including knit and cotton dresses. And avoid wearing summer dresses, since those tend to be more flowy and casual looking. Make sure your dress isn’t too short and revealing. If you do go more low key, dress it up with shimmering accents. \n\n### It’s Okay to Wear Pants\nThe tuxedo look is in for both men and women and works for any New Year’s Eve wedding. There are even some cute satin or velvet jumpsuits that you can dress up for a winter wedding.\n\n### Add Sequins and Shimmer to Make Your Look Shine \n\n![A Guide on What to Wear to a New Year’s Eve Wedding- SR](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/22ytT4ILo05ebyvaQGLUUX/ff561b234c4ce067ed3b0d32c5fc1094/inline_danto_photography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit * // Danto Photography\n\nAccording to [David’s Bridal](https://www.davidsbridal.com/Content_StyleandFashionGuide_WeartoWinterWedding), wearing crystals and adding a keyhole upgrade a dress to semi-formal. Keep the sparkle going by carrying a shimmering handbag and wearing shoes to match. When in doubt, a safe bet is always a [sequin-embellished dress](https://www.brides.com/new-years-eve-wedding-guest-dresses-4779804). \n\n### Twinkle Twinkle and Shine Bright \nIf sequins aren’t for you, there are other ways to add a hint of sparkle. Metallic colors are in, especially on New Year’s Eve. Whether it’s silver, gold, or even rose gold, metallic dresses with subtle amounts of sparkle or textures like velvet make a bold statement. Get even more creative by finding a dress that has fringe or even feathers around the bottom of the dress or pants. Plunging necklines also add to a look to give it just the right amount of glam. \n\n### Staying Warm at a New Year’s Eve Wedding\nWhen it comes to a cold-weather New Year’s Eve wedding, you’ll want to make sure you look stylish yet stay warm. Opt for long sleeves or wear a stole, wrap, or cover up like a caplet to keep you warm and fashionable. If you plan to wear a short dress, shimmery tights are another way to go.\n\nHowever, if the wedding is being held in a tropical destination, you’ll be warm already, so [show those shoulders](https://www.glamour.com/story/what-to-wear-to-a-new-years-eve-wedding) and legs. \n\nZola’s resources can help your guests navigate everything from dress code to what to purchase from your registry. [Zola](https://www.zola.com/) is here to help make it an effortless experience as you plan your wedding and as your guests prepare to celebrate your day.","tag":"How To","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"A New Year's Eve wedding = Double the celebration! Read on for our top ideas to pull it all off.","title":"30 of the Best New Year's Eve Wedding Ideas","slug":"11-best-new-years-eve-wedding-ideas","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"List","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6uJ17ocK4ZQC2glqbYQgPu/96688ad2dbe68b324c213237da62a26a/claire-rush-PalBR2nf-sw-unsplash.jpg","altText":"New Years Eve Wedding Ideas"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"No better way to celebrate a New Year's Eve wedding than with invitations that match the season. 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Here are the do’s and don'ts of letting your bridesmaids pick out their own dress. ","author":"Kathleen Wong","publishedAt":"2024-08-13T10:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6kKYuHOeeUvE5sqbavfpLI/a5b85a5d99beac71432d942beadfd696/katelyn-macmillan-5VhSc5jCA2g-unsplash.jpg","altText":"groom with bridesmaids in different dresses"},"heroCredit":"Katelyn Macmillan","tldr":"__Inside this article:__ \n- Why let your bridesmaids choose their own dress?\n- What could go wrong?\n- Guidelines to letting bridemaids pick a dress","body":"__TLDR:__\n- Letting bridesmaids pick their own dresses may seem risky, but it can give them confidence as they end up with a gown they love.\n- Be specific with any guidelines you have, such as if you have a specific color in mind or want a floor length dress.\n- Also, let them know what type of shoes and accessories you'd like your bridal party to wear on your big day.\n\n## Letting bridesmaids pick their own dresses\n\nYou whittled down your social circle into the __[perfect wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one)__ and now it’s time to decide what everyone’s going to wear. While it’s not necessary for the wedding party to wear matching outfits, many couples like to achieve a cohesive look. \n\nTraditionally, bridesmaids wear the same dress or outfit in the chosen wedding color. This helps the bride stand out in her [wedding dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/classic-wedding-dresses-for-the-traditional-bride), makes for visually cohesive photos, and also helps other wedding guests identify the members of the wedding party. \n\nHowever, many couples are loosening the reins and letting __[attendants choose dresses](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop)__ that reflect their individual maid of honor or bridesmaid style. With so much to plan for the wedding day, it may not be necessary to maintain control over everything. Mismatching dresses are one of the best ways to help your bridesmaids feel comfortable. They'll also have more freedom to select a dress that reflects their own style and flatters their body type. \n\nIf you're worried about letting go of control when it comes to mix and match bridesmaid dresses for your big day, don't worry. Or perhaps you just don't care and are willing to give free rein. From choosing bridesmaid dress colors to creating cohesive bridesmaid looks, here’s some wedding inspiration and insights to help you achieve a look that works for your wedding style and for your bridesmaids. \n\n## Why would I let my bridesmaids choose their own dresses?\n \nWe get it: It’s your wedding and it can feel easier to maintain control and just put your girls in the same bridesmaid dress style. However, there are some pluses to giving your attendants this freedom and not having them wear matching bridesmaid dresses.\n\n- __Comfort.__ Anyone who’s ever been a bridesmaid (or dress shopped for that matter) understands that being assigned a specific dress isn’t ideal. What works for one body doesn’t necessarily work for another and the potential resulting discomfort of a unified bridal party look can leave your bridesmaids feeling meh. If they can choose their own dresses, they can seek out different styles, necklines, and cuts that flatter their figures.\n- __Confidence.__ In that same vein, when you look good, you feel good. Let your bridesmaids [choose dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-pick-bridesmaid-dresses) they love (or at least feel comfortable in) and they’ll radiate confidence, not discomfort on your wedding day.\n- __Price.__ Money is often one of the biggest pain points for bridal parties. It’s [expensive to be a bridesmaid](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-bridesmaid-duties)! You don’t have to worry about settling on a price point that fits into everyone’s budget (or feeling guilty for choosing expensive dresses) if you let your bridesmaids choose their own dresses.\n\n![Zola - Mismatched Bridesmaids Dresses: How to Pull Off the Look](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/47xZofgiF7kwAgCW841P3u/2945a2669ac319627e743bc40307f78d/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n\n## Could skipping a specific dress go a little off the rails?\n \nDefinitely. Offering your bridesmaids free rein to select their outfits for your wedding is nerve-wracking. You don’t want to end up with an entirely mismatched situation (unless you do!). There are some cons to letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses.\n- __Cohesion.__ Obviously, if you let your bridesmaids choose their own dresses, they'll probably all pick different styles…and maybe even different colors. If you really want a traditionally cohesive look, maybe reconsider this route.\n- __Confusion.__ Too much of anything isn’t great—the same is true for bridal party freedom. Without any guidelines at all, you may find yourself answering a lot of texts about what’s OK and what’s not—from materials to color to price to length and more.\n\n## Guidelines for letting bridesmaids choose their own dresses\n \nMake the dress hunt easy for your bridesmaids and yourself by being clear about what you really do and don’t want. That way, every one from your maid of honor to junior bridesmaids can feel good in a dress that suits their body type.\n\n### 1. Do: Be specific.\nSure, you told your girls you wanted everyone in pastel green. Great! No, not great. When we say be specific, we mean be specific. If you have a look in mind, be clear about that. Here are some details you may want to be extra clear about:\n\n- __Dress color.__ If you have a dress color in mind, that’s great. However, what looks mauve to one person may be more pale violet to another. Picking a single color can make it difficult for bridesmaids to find dresses in the exact same shade from different vendors. Consider putting together a color palette of 3-4 complementary colors for your [bridesmaids to choose](https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingplanning/comments/pujak6/letting_bridesmaids_pick_dress_style/) from. or offer up a few vendors you’d like for them to order from.\n\n- __Length.__ Some brides don’t mind a variety of hemlines—floor-length, knee-length, mini, midi, etc. If you want all of your bridesmaids in the same length dress, let them know. Alternatively, if you really don’t mind different lengths, let them know that, too.\n\n- __Material.__ Satin, chiffon, charmeuse, crepe, taffeta—the world of dress materials is vast. If all of your bridesmaids are wearing the same exact color, dresses in different materials can be a nice way to add some dimension to the look. However, too many materials can also be a bit distracting. If you don’t want anyone in a jersey knit, make that clear.\n\n- __Style.__ By this, we mean the level of formality. If you’re having a black-tie wedding, you may not want your bridesmaids in semi-formal dresses. Be sure to outline the dress code clearly.\n\nClarity is key. Before you tell your bridesmaids they can choose their own dresses, come prepared with your own suggestions and requirements.\n\n### 2. Don’t: Forget about cost.\nWe like the idea that letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses may remove some of the financial strain. We also like the idea of a bride providing a shortlist (3-5) of dress vendors for the bridal party to choose from. If you go this route, consider selecting different styles you love in a variety of price ranges. Be considerate of your party’s financial situations—and be open to discussing it with any bridesmaid who may be in a tough spot.\n\n![Mismatched Bridesmaid Dresses Yellow](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2hmZIQ3ztPJpdpQndGPd87/bf0699bd01b2345d51b6221c07bbaa1a/Mismatched_Bridesmaid_Dresses_Yellow.jpg)\nPhoto by [Emma Lee Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/emma-lee-photography)\n\n### 3. Do: Make it a group activity.\nYou made a day out of wedding dress shopping…so why not make one out of bridesmaid dress shopping? Go to brunch and then hit the stores. Keep it simple and have a couple of boutiques picked out for the shopping expedition. Note: This may involve making appointments ahead of time. This way, your bridesmaids can choose a variety of dresses and you can be there in person to share immediate impressions. Not only is this just a fun wedding party activity, but it also helps busier bridesmaids find time to shop and nudges along any that err on the side of procrastination.\n\nIf your bridesmaids don’t live in the same area or can’t make the shopping day, that’s OK. Consider scheduling a Facetime with them as they shop. You can also create a dedicated group chat (if you haven’t already) to dress shopping.\n\n### 4. Don’t: Get complicated.\nAbove all, letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses shouldn’t be too complicated or stressful. In fact, it should potentially make things a little easier for you. These girls are your bridesmaids for a reason—and they want to make your wedding day go smoothly. Trust that they’ve got this under control and really, truly, let them take the reins on this one. (Don’t forget to __[thank them for their hard work](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/top-10-ways-to-thank-your-bridesmaids)__ in the planning process, either.)\n\nWho knows, they might even pick a dress they like so much, they’ll wear it again. Isn’t that the best-case scenario for any bridesmaid dress?\n\n### 5. Do: A final check-in.\nThere are the hair and makeup trials, the catering and cake tastings, and, of course, the bridesmaid dress check-in. It’s always a good idea to get on the same page after they've dress shopped and before anything is finalized. Make sure your bridesmaids run their final dress choices by you before they purchase. This way you can see if it fits into your ultimate vision or theme—and you eliminate any surprises and last-minute stress.\n\nGive your bridesmaids an absolute deadline for their final dress check-in. It sounds like a bridezilla move, but, trust us, it benefits them, too. You want everyone to have ample time to either find a new dress or get any necessary alterations. We recommend scheduling your check-in for about seven months ahead of the wedding. Therefore, let bridesmaids pick their own dresses well in advance.\n\n### 6. Don’t: Disregard shoes and accessories.\nBridesmaid attire doesn’t end with the dress. Accessories are everything, especially if you’re going for a mismatched bridesmaid dress look. Choosing a pair of shoes or a specific shoe style and color is an easy way to bring a cohesive look to your bridal party. \n\nIf you don’t have a shoe in mind, be sure to be clear about style. This way you avoid one girl in heels and another in flats. (If one of your bridesmaids needs to wear flats for a personal reason, though, we recommend hearing her out on that, of course.) Alternatively, you may want your bridal party in flats or sneakers. Again, just make sure you’re aligned.\n\nSimilarly, let your bridesmaids know what jewelry you do or don’t want them to wear. Traditionally, brides will purchase and then gift the jewelry they want their bridesmaids to wear. If you want to let them choose their own, that’s cool, too. Be sure, as always, to be clear about style.\n\nAnd don't forget about florals! Bridesmaid bouquets are an accessory in their own right, and will add cohesion to the look of your wedding party. Make sure that whatever flowers you're ordering will complement the bridesmaids' dresses. \n\n![Mismatched Christmas Bridesmaid Winter Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/lGiH566fp4nPH7kj6E8Dt/f3c59ea510b079cf8dbe3584bfa84354/Mismatched_Christmas_Bridesmaid_Winter_Dresses.jpg)\nPhoto by [Bokeh Love Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/bokeh-love-photography-llc)\n\n## 5 Mismatched bridesmaid dress ideas\n \nReady to get down to specifics? Here are some of the approaches you can take when building a mismatched bridal party look.\n\n### 1. Same color, different dress styles\nThis is one of the most straightforward approaches when it comes to choosing different bridesmaid dresses. You have them wearing the same exact color, like dusty blue or burnt orange, and ask your bridesmaids to find whatever dress they want in the chosen color. Add some cohesion to these different styles by giving them certain guidelines—for example, maybe you want them all to wear a maxi dress, or wear dresses that are in the same fabric. \n\n### 2. Same color, different neckline\nIf you're going to be strict about the color and style of the dress, you can give your bridesmaids some flexibility by letting them choose their own neckline. This is one of the best ways to accommodate different body types, as each girl can wear whatever cut she feels comfortable in. For example, maybe your maid of honor has a larger chest and would prefer a dress with straps—while another bridesmaid might love strapless styles.\n\n### 3. Same color, different textures\nTexture is a great way to create visual interest among your different bridesmaid dresses. For example, let's say you're having a [fall wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-look-in-fall-bridesmaid-dresses) and have asked your bridesmaids to wear burnt orange. Maybe one finds a satin dress she loves in the burnt orange shade, while another is drawn to a velvet style. Assign a texture to each maid that not only lets them show off their own personal style, but works well with the textures of the other dresses.\n\n### 4. Different shades of the same color palette\nIf you don't have a specific color in mind, keep it broad and ask bridesmaids to stick to a specific color scheme. For example, you might let your wedding party know to look for shades of green bridesmaid dresses (like sage and forest) or pink bridesmaid dresses (like dusty pink and fuschia). Ideally, this will create a sort of tonal, ombre-inspired look that's perfect for boho weddings.\n\n### 5. Different colors\nIf you want to make a bold statement with your bridal party, get creative by pairing different colors. You can choose a color family, like warm tones or cool tones, or choose a color scheme that reflects the season—for example, jewel tones for a moody winter wedding or pastel shades for a springtime celebration.\n\n![Letting Bridesmaids Pick Their Own Dress](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/0Auo6BBWFwwKMNbZmrGzA/dc4efb283015a188fd07e140c1a3da34/Letting_Bridesmaids_Pick_Their_Own_Dress.jpg)\nPhoto by [Anna So Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/anna-so-photography)\n\n## Thinking beyond the dresses\nEven if you're letting the [bridesmaids choose](https://www.quora.com/Will-you-choose-bridesmaid-dresses-for-your-bridesmaids-or-let-them-choose-their-own-Do-you-want-the-color-to-be-the-same-or-different) their own dress, you still have a lot on your plate while planning your special day. And Zola is here to help every step along the way. \n\nFrom [getting engaged](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/to-dos-after-you-get-engaged) and [announcing the big news](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-announce-your-engagement) to [selecting wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-invitations-paper-guide), we are here 24/7 with expert advice just waiting for you to learn. Happy planning!","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Pick out a thoughtful gift for the squad that shows up for you on your big day. 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Read our full, comprehensive guide on the most appropriate men’s attire that will make you look like you just stepped off the red carpet.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-12-28T17:16:07.930Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ib0hKIbbrVyFqK5kVrTba/419da62e0242fd57217d6ce823673ba4/Hero_Modern_Multi-CulturalWeddingat5226Elm_PaigeNewton.jpg","altText":"How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding"},"heroCredit":"Paige Newton","body":"Whether it’s the Golden Globes or the Grammys, many of us—male and female—watch for the styles. The fashion chatter usually centers around the ladies; however, there is something to be said for a guy who can successfully achieve a red carpet look. So, take your cues from award show fashion to gain inspiration for __[what to wear to a black-tie wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding)__, and forget about any casual attire.\n\nAlthough some guys go off-script and wear colorful and downright outlandish looks, it’s best to stick to the formal dress code rules and formal attire when attending a black-tie wedding. After all, not many can pull off the fashions that Lil Nas X wears at the Grammys. Actually, for most occasions, formal wedding outfits require black-tie attire, which means a tuxedo. A black tie outfit is the height of style, and, consequently, it’s an effortless look to sport. We’ll tell you how with our guide to __[dressing in your black-tie best](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-dress-for-a-black-tie-formal-wedding)__ for an evening wedding.\n\n![How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5xWzi6cRFkonwgW4riVJT5/e43866ef6817ca410e1a3e0da8e0850c/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Black Tie Dress Code Explained\nFirst things first—before we jump into how to dress for a black tie wedding, let's quickly cover where, exactly, the black-tie dress tie comes from.\n\nBlack tie is a semi-formal dress code that dates back to the 19th century. The dress code was popularized both in Britain and America. Both tuxedos and dark suits fall under the \"black tie\" umbrella—and while the dress code is semi-formal, it's generally [appropriate wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding) for more formal events.\n\n## The Perfect Pieces for a Black-Tie Wedding Look\nBlack-tie attire means that you should be wearing a black tuxedo or a dark suit (black suits, dark blue suits, and gray suits are all appropriate), but you can still let your personality shine through. With a few simple guidelines, you can put an outfit together worthy of the red carpet or wedding aisle.\n\n- __Tuxedo Jacket__ : Like the many takes on the classic cocktail dress, there are several __[styles of jackets](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_jacket)__. that work for black tie looks, like dinner jackets, tuxedo jackets, and more formal blazers. However, the common denominator in men’s black-tie suiting is the presence of satin on the lapels (whether it’s a notch lapel, peak lapel, or shawl lapel). Satin fabric also hides the buttons, which elevates the look of any black tux. Although black dress is the standard for black-tie events, darker tones of blue (like midnight blue) are acceptable. A good rule of thumb is to leave the single button closure fastened while standing, to maintain a fitted look (which can also be enhanced by a slim fit cut). \n\n- __Trousers__ : [Pants should match](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_pants) the jacket in both fabric and color. Satin goes down the outside seam on each pant leg, which serves to enhance the look. \n\n- __Crisp, Collared Shirt__ : A white shirt is the only acceptable color, but there is a little leeway with styling. Some tuxedo shirts are wing-tipped, but a [well-constructed oxford](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_tuxedo_shirt) would also suffice. Authentic tux shirts also have small pleats vertically across the chest to add interest. If you don't have an authentic tux shirt, ensure that your white dress shirt looks up to par. \n\n- __Black Shoes__ : Shiny, patent leather shoes are the norm for tuxedos, although quality black leather shoes or loafers will also do the trick. Don’t forget to wear socks. Over the calf, dark socks are ideal.\n\n- __Black Bow Tie__ : A [bow tie](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_bow_tie) allows those tiny pleats in the shirt to have their moment in the sun. Black is the traditional color, and be sure that your necktie neckwear is solid, not patterned.\n\n- __White Pocket Square__ : Dark jackets are in stark contrast to a pure white pocket square. However, it’s incredible how a [tiny square of fabric](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/birdygrey_didi_pocket_square_dustyblue) can create a cohesive look.\n\n- __Cufflinks__ : Unless you’re wearing an oxford, most tuxedo shirts close at the wrist with [cufflinks](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/edelweissjewelry_zola_love_collection_cufflinks_14kyellowgold). particularly if you’re wearing lengthier French cuffs. Subtly is better than going crazy with color, and be sure to match your cufflinks with other metals that you’re wearing. \n\n- __Studs__ : Although you will look like a stud in a tux, that’s not quite where we’re going with this. Upon close inspection, most tuxedo shirts have studs instead of buttons. These aren’t 100 percent necessary, but they do add to the look. Also, be sure to match metals with your cufflinks and other jewelry pieces. \n\n- __Vest or Cumberbund__ : These pieces are never meant to be worn in tandem. Covering your midsection with a cummerbund or vest is posh, but not completely necessary. If you do decide to wear one, remember that this isn’t high school. Black is best, so stay away from vibrant colors meant for prom.\n\n![How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/78mHneRzRZEno1T3RJAHp0/7b5a54fa7ba993829e03dedf46a4dea2/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Where to Get a Tux for a Black-Tie Wedding\n\n### How to Rent a Tuxedo Locally\nMost guys don’t have a tux hanging in their closet, but if they do, chances are that it doesn’t get much use. That’s where rentals come in handy. Many local bridal salons and upscale men’s shops rent tuxedos to grooms and other wedding party members. So if you need a black tie outfit, chances are that they can get you one, too.\n\n#### Pros of Renting a Tux Locally\nAn advantage of heading somewhere in person is that you can ensure a perfect fit. Also, if something is wrong—a missing button or loose hem—they can order another piece or fix it on site. You can also see fabrics and styles in person, which is a huge plus. \n\n#### Cons of Renting a Tux Locally\nThe downside to renting is usually drop-off times, especially if you’re traveling and rent at your final destination. Returning your tux before an early Sunday morning flight may prove difficult.\n\n### How to Rent a Tux Online\nIt seems that you can do just about anything with the internet at your fingertips, and renting a tux is one of them. Many businesses specialize in formalwear rentals, so be sure to select a longstanding one with a good reputation.\n\n#### Pros of Renting a Tux Online\nQuite often, companies have strict measurement guidelines on their website. However, many online rental sites will send you a tuxedo to test out before the main event. They are also a bit more flexible with return times, giving up to 72 hours to ship your pieces back.\n\n#### Cons of Renting a Tux Online\nAlthough rentals usually come with quick shipping, it’s tough to solve problems right away if something arrives damaged. Unless you can do a try on ahead of time, selecting fabrics and styles from afar can prove challenging. \n\n### Where to Buy a Tuxedo\nIf you’re the exception and have quite a few black-tie events coming up, investing in a tuxedo can save money in the long run. Many men’s clothiers sell tuxedos, although purchasing online is also an option. Be sure to order it well in advance of your black-tie wedding so that you can make exchanges if necessary.\n\n## In the Case of Black-Tie Optional\nYikes! You’re all set with what black-tie is, but the invitation adds one tiny, scary word after it—optional. Don’t worry. Demystifying the terminology is easier than it sounds, but this never, ever means that jeans and your favorite band t-shirt are okay.\n\nBlack-tie optional attire for weddings is a bit more relaxed than a tuxedo. Often, couples choose this option to alleviate any financial burden for their guests. After all, the expense of traveling and buying a wedding gift is enough without having to spring for new suiting. So, seeing the word “optional” is a good thing. \n\nThink of it as mimicking a tuxedo without wearing one. Dark suiting with a crisp, white shirt and black shoes are ideal. Also, add traditional accessories, such as a pocket square, dark bow tie, and cufflinks. Skip the studs and cummerbund, but feel free to wear a vest if you have one that matches your suit.\n\nThe rule of thumb is to stick to the dress code and wear your most formal wear. If you don’t own a suit, it’s probably the time to invest in one, or you could go the tuxedo rental route.\n\n*__Quick tip:__ Black-tie optional can also be referenced as “black-tie preferred.”*\n\nSo, whether you’re headed to a black-tie wedding or are one of the fortunate ones to walk the red carpet at a black-tie event, use our guide to get it right. With a few key pieces—either borrowed or purchased—you’ll soon be looking your best at the season’s best events. Which, of course, includes weddings.\n\n## 10 Black Tie Wedding Attire Ideas for Men\nLooking for some help with black tie attire? We’ve come up with these formal wedding outfit ideas to help you nail your look.\n\n### 1. Pronto Uomo Modern Fit Tuxedo Coat\nThis black __[Pronto Uomo tuxedo coat](https://www.menswearhouse.com/p/pronto-uomo-modern-fit-suit-separates-tuxedo-coat-black-3X933X9410)__ is a sleek and elegant choice for any black tie affair. The trim and modern fit provides plenty of comfort and mobility and features a two-button design and satin notch lapel. This tuxedo coat retails for $219.99 at Men’s Wearhouse.\n\n### 2. Stretch Tuxedo Shirt\nThis __[Stretch Tuxedo Shirt](https://bonobos.com/products/stretch-tuxedo-shirt)__ is a comfortable and snappy component of any black-tie outfit. The shirt features attractive mother-of-pearl buttons and double-knife pleats for some added texture. French cuffs tie the look together with an added touch of elegance—and ample opportunity to show off your favorite pair of cufflinks. This shirt retails for $179 from Bonobos.\n\n### 3. Barathea Tuxedo Pants\nFor a classic look that ties your look together, these black __[Barathea Tuxedo Pants](https://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=442547002)__ are the answer. These pants are made from 100% virgin wool from one of Italy’s oldest mills and tailored with a slim fit for a comfortable, natural look that works in any season. Available for $220 from Banana Republic.\n\n### 4. Black and Burgundy Paisley Tuxedo Vest Set\nElevate your look with this __[Black and Burgundy Paisley Tuxedo Vest Set](https://paulmalone.com/collections/tuxedo-vests/products/black-and-burgundy-paisley-tuxedo-vest-set)__. The set includes a wine red and black paisley microfiber vest, matching pocket square, and your choice of a matching necktie or pre-tied cravat—though you can also pair it with your favorite bow tie. Altogether, this set is an affordable and stylish solution for any formal wedding or black-tie event. Available for $39.97 from Paul Malone.\n\n### 5. Steel and Onyx Tuxedo Studs\nAccessorizing isn’t always the easiest—especially with black-tie attire. Fortunately, these __[Steel and Onyx Tuxedo Studs](https://propercloth.com/products/steel-and-onyx-tuxedo-studs-431.html)__ are the perfect addition for a modern and classy take on a tux. These steel studs are Italian-made and come four to a set, with each featuring a black onyx face. These tuxedo studs retail for $75 from Proper Cloth.\n\n### 6. Personalized Rose Gold Round Cufflinks\nThough some cufflinks fly under the radar, these __[Personalized Rose Gold Round Cufflinks](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cathysconcepts_personalized_rose_gold_round_cuff_links_u)__ make a statement. The elegant rose gold adds a bit of contrast to your getup—while the engraveable face adds a personalized touch. Available from Zola for $27.99.\n\n### 7. Cummerbund\nThis __[Cummerbund](https://theblacktux.com/collection/accessory/cummerbund)__ can help you truly embrace the formality of a black-tie outfit. Made of plain black silk and with adjustable backing, this cummerbund won’t cramp your style on the dancefloor, but will help you stand out as someone who respects tradition. Available to rent for $15 or to purchase for $30 from The Black Tux.\n\n### 8. Tux Plain Toe Derby\nLet your style shine with these liquid-shine __[Tux Plain Toe Derby](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/florsheim-tux-plain-toe-derby-men/4873534)__ patent leather dress shoes. These shows are elegant in their simplicity, with a cushioned footbed to keep you comfortable through the day’s—and night’s—festivities. Available from Nordstrom for $124.95.\n\n### 9. Cotton Pocket Square\nTo add a bit of color to your black-tie outfit, incorporate this stylish and formal light blue __[Cotton Pocket Square](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/deltoro_cotton_pocket_square_lightblue)__. This timeless accessory is made in Lake Como, Italy, from a high-quality cotton that helps elevate your look for any formal affair. Available from Zola for $25.\n\n### 10. Classic-Fit UltraFlex Stretch Black Solid Tuxedo Separates\nShopping for the various bits of a formal ensemble can be overwhelming and time-consuming. Fortunately, this set of __[Classic-Fit UltraFlex Stretch Black Solid Tuxedo Separates](https://www.macys.com/shop/product/lauren-ralph-lauren-mens-classic-fit-ultraflex-stretch-black-solid-tuxedo-separates?ID=10503427)__ has almost everything you need to meet a black-tie dress code. Separates include a tuxedo jacket, pants, and vest, giving you the opportunity to accessorize however you see fit. Retails for $56.25 - $202.50 from Macy’s.\n\n## FAQs About Black Tie Dress Code\nStill not 100% clear on what the black tie dress code is—and how to ensure your wedding attire fits that dress code? Let's take a look at some frequently asked questions about black tie wedding attire to give some additional perspective:\n\n1. __What is the difference between a tuxedo and a suit?__ The main difference between a tuxedo and a suit is that tuxedos have a host of satin features—like lapels, buttons, and pant stripes—that suits do not.\n\n2. __What kinds of weddings have black tie dress codes?__ The black tie dress code is reserved for events that take place in the evenings—so weddings that start after 6pm or so may have a black tie dress code, while more casual daytime affairs would not.\n\n3. __What is the difference between a black tie and a white tie wedding dress code?__ White tie is the most formal dress code—and as such, is reserved for formal occasions. Black tie is considered semi-formal.\n\n4. __What should you do if you're invited to a black tie wedding—but don't have a tuxedo?__ Not to worry! Most men don't own tuxedos. There are plenty of places where you can rent a tuxedo, whether you're a wedding guest or in the wedding party—and if that's not an option, a dark suit would also be appropriate.\n\n5. __Is there any way to incorporate color into black tie wedding attire?__ While there aren't many opportunities for incorporating color into black tie wedding attire, if it's important to you, you could add a pop of color with accessories, like a pocket square.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Learn the ins and outs of semi-formal attire for men. 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Luckily, Zola has you covered with this easy guide. Read on now.","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-14T18:17:19.140Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6FbTEkIOvwhgnjNVFfvbPU/9fed0ee78b65647114b0bbc7e741fe5a/inline_hewittphotography.jpg","altText":"Cocktail wedding Attire"},"heroCredit":"Hewitt Photography","body":"Cocktail attire is generally associated with knee-length dresses, sophisticated heels, and simple suits. However, as one of the most popular (and versatile) dress codes, there are numerous ways that you can incorporate your own personal style in dressing for this type of wedding...starting with long dresses.\n\nFrom the color and fabric of the dress, to the hairstyle and accessories you pair with it, a maxi dress can easily pass as proper cocktail attire, if styled correctly. Below are a few pieces of advice to make sure that you’re picking the right gown and accessorizing it accordingly for a semi-formal ceremony.\n\n### Seasonality Matters\nIf the wedding takes place in the winter, no one is going to bat an eye at the fact that you’re wearing a long dress—if anything, it’s likely expected. All that the cocktail or semi-formal attire request means in the colder months is that you’re welcome to pick a more casual option than what you’d choose for a black-tie event. For example, while you may have picked a silk, emerald green number for a black-tie wedding, you might go for a long, cotton gown with moody florals instead. \n\n### Pick Your Silhouette (and Fabric) Wisely\nA fitted, full-length gown gives off a very different vibe than a flowy maxi with a slit. When planning what length of dress to wear, consider what would seem most cocktail-appropriate and feel the most comfortable to you. If you normally opt for more fitted dresses, maybe consider a knee-length shift or an A-line number, instead. However, if you’re comfortable in something with a lot of movement, then a lightweight maxi-dress is perfectly appropriate.\n\nIn addition to shape, fabrics play an important role in the overall formality of the dress. Fabrics such as satin, velvet, crepe, and organza are generally more suited for black-tie—unless you plan to really dress them down with accessories—while lightweight silk, cotton, and linen blends are much more fitting for a cocktail maxi-dress. Slits and high-low hems are also a fun way to dress down your ensemble, while incorporating a bit of personality.\n\n### Consider the Venue\n\n![Can you wear a long dress for cocktail attire?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4Af8XXHF0YtCmGwrEMXBKy/3ce3bccca2feadc1dafb2771656c2196/inline_chrislanephotography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Chris Lane Photography\n\nIf it’s a backyard wedding or farm setting, then you might not want your dress sweeping the floor the whole evening (or have to wear heels to keep your hem clean). Once you receive the official invitation (or link to the couple’s wedding website!), look up the venue and try to get a good idea of the types of surfaces that you’ll be walking on. There’s always the chance that they’ll rent flooring for the day, but you don’t want to have to rely on it. If you go long, try something that isn’t a ground-duster, or opt for a pair of comfy wedges to add a few inches.\n\n### Opt for Alternative Colors and Prints\nBecause you’re picking a slightly more formal silhouette by going full-length, you can go a little more casual with your color and print choices. If it’s a spring or summer event, maxi dresses in terra cotta or mustard tones are great options, as are dainty florals in vibrant colors. For fall and winter events, jewel tones are always a wise choice, but long-sleeved dresses in moody florals and vintage prints are fun alternatives, too. If you do choose a print, make sure that you pick more subtle accessories so that the look doesn’t become too busy, or make it seem like you’re trying to steal the show.\n\n### Keep It Natural\nIf you’ve got your heart set on wearing a full-length dress, then keep your hair and makeup as laid back as possible. There’s a big difference between cat eyes and a tightly pulled updo, versus relaxed, tousled waves and some subtle lipstick. Details such as undone braids, beachy waves, and natural, kinky curls are great options to complement a less formal maxi. So long as you’re considering the seasons and venue, details such as a low bun, a little bit of extra eye makeup, or a statement lip can work, too.\n\n### Dress It Down With Accessories\nEarrings, hairpieces, shoes, and bags are some of the simplest ways to dress an outfit up or down. Instead of a sparkly clutch, maybe opt for a relaxed crossbody bag in a fun color, instead. For a fall wedding, consider adding a sophisticated leather jacket over your floral maxi dress. A fancier alternative to a denim jacket, a leather jacket keeps you warm, but also ensures that you don’t look out of place. For a summer event, consider tasteful wedges or block heels in a fun print. Flats are also an option, if they’re polished enough (particularly if they’re in an unexpected fabric such as velvet or satin).\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_WeddingBoutique"}},"featured":[{"excerpt":"Dress to impress! Your go-to guide for wedding guest attire, from formal to casual. Find the perfect look for every dress code and celebration.","title":"Wedding Guest Attire: A Guide to Every Dress Code","slug":"what-to-wear-to-a-wedding","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5bgD1lwZNmIWCwyoiQgUI/abb4b34d02674b500f4edb610fb1eea6/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"wedding guests laughing with bride at wedding receptions"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Find the perfect wedding dress at the perfect price—no matter what kind of look you’re going for. 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Eyes will be on you throughout the wedding day and into the evening—and odds are you’ll be featured in many photos. Plus, you’ll want to feel your best. With all of this is mind, we’ve put together a comprehensive groom’s and groomsmen's attire guide.\n\n## What's the Difference?\n\nFirst thing’s first: What are the main differences between groom and groomsmen attire? Because suits and tuxedos can look fairly similar (especially in like colors), a few things a groom can do to stand out from his groomsmen are as follows:\n\n- Don a boutonniere. Doing so will also ensure that you coordinate with your partner.\n\n- Wear a different [tie](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-tie-for-groomsmen) or bowtie. This works especially well if your groomsmen’s are all matching.\n\n- Include a print. Wear a patterned blazer or suit jacket over your dress shirt, or patterned accessories, like socks or your pocket square.\n\n- Elevate your look. Differentiate yourself by wearing a different color, high quality fabric, or structure and silhouette. For example, if your groomsmen are wearing light gray or black, opt instead for dark gray or navy. Think along the lines of a bridal gown vs a bridesmaid’s dress.\n\nWith this in mind, read on for our guide.\n\n## Appropriate Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nSo, what is [appropriate](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/groomsmen-etiquette-101-a-beginners-guide) groom and groomsmen wedding attire? Here are some things to keep in mind:\n\n- The groom’s and groomsmen’s outfits should match the formality of the wedding and the venue.\n\n- Popular groom and groomsmen attire for more formal events include suits and tuxedos, while informal weddings allow for dress shirts and slacks.\n\n- If the groom’s attire matches the groomsmen, it’s important that everyone follows the dress code and goes shopping months in advance.\n\n- If the groom wants to stand out from the groomsmen, styling tricks can distinguish him from members of the wedding party.\n\n- Some grooms want all of their groomsmen to dress individually and not match one another. In these cases, establish a dress code and color palette for everyone to follow.\n\n## Groomsmen Attire FAQs\n### How to Choose Groomsmen Attire\nWhen it comes to selecting and even browsing for groomsmen clothing, there are several factors to be considered. Keeping these top-of-mind can be a tremendous aid in helping you decide on outfit pieces, fabrics, colors, fits, and more.\n\n- __Season.__ The season the wedding takes place in can have a large influence on what’s worn—especially if it’s an outdoor wedding. Take your cues from the weather and seasonal color palettes for attire that fits seamlessly.\n\n- __Time of Day.__ Depending on the season and your location, temperatures can vary drastically, from midday to late in the night. Consider what time (or times) of day you’ll be celebrating and dress accordingly. For example, if you’ll be out in the hot sun most of the time, you’ll want to opt for lighter, breezier fabrics.\n\n- __Wedding Venue.__ You wedding venue dictates much of the feeling and atmosphere of a wedding. Try to match its level of formality when deciding on your attire.\n\n- __Wedding’s Theme or Dress Code.__ Perhaps most crucial, pay special attention to any information the couple gives you prior to the wedding. Most often, you’ll be notified via invitation or wedding website of the wedding style and dress code. Take note of this when looking for an outfit—and always double check with the couple if you aren’t sure.\n\n### What Should the Groom and Groomsmen Wear?\nA [wedding’s venue](https://zola.app.link/o9Wx4NVYvcb) and [theme](https://zola.app.link/vxkYfJyN71) should inform what a groom and his groomsmen wear. It’s been said before, but it will be said again: Your outfit’s level of formality should reflect your wedding theme and wedding venue. If you’re getting married in your parents’ backyard, you don’t need to rock a tuxedo (unless that’s your thing). Likewise, nuptials at a place of worship call for a certain style of dress—it’s not appropriate to wear flip flops and a golf shirt in a church.\n\n### Who Pays for the Groomsmen Attire?\nAs with most things involved in wedding planning, this ultimately depends on the couple’s preferences. Most often, each individual groomsmen—as well as other members of the wedding party—will purchase or rent their own attire for the big day. Because of this, they usually also have a say in what they end up wearing. That said, there are cases in which the groom, couple, of even the groom’s parents will offer to chip in to cover some (or all) outfit expenses. This, however, highly depends on their budget and dress expectations.\n\nIn any case, communication about who’s going to pay should be communicated ASAP. Read: Before anyone agrees to be a groomsman. It’s crucial that everyone has all of the information they need, such as spending expectations, before committing.\n\n## 6 Groomsmen Attire Options\nOnce you determine how formal or informal you can be, decide what you want to wear. Some popular options for grooms and groomsmen include:\n\n### Formal Attire\n1. __[Tuxedos](https://zola.app.link/y2nb5n96Ocb)__. Tuxes are great for formal weddings and black-tie events. They can be worn during all four seasons, and are great for both indoor and outdoor weddings.\n\n2. __Dark suits__. These days, a nice two- and three-piece dark suit is acceptable for a wedding with a formal dress code. Make sure your suit is well fitted and pressed before the day of.\n\n### Semi-Formal Attire\n3. __[Suits](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-groom-and-groomsmen-suits)__, either three-piece or two-piece. A three-piece suit can be worn at formal weddings or semi-formal affairs. Two-piece groomsmen suits are a bit more casual and can be dressed down, even more so when the jacket is removed. In any case ,wedding suits should fit well and be pressed.\n\n### Casual Attire\n\n![How Many Groomsmen Is Normal? | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4BCAiHkxjk12bywl5iorO4/520a78ffa33671b2c8e4747187f5b956/inline_shutterstock_1_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Shutterstock\n\n4. __[Vest](https://zola.app.link/HcXfoUd7Ocb)__, __dress shirt__, __and slacks__. A play on the two-piece suit, wearing a vest over a dress shirt is a great look for more informal events or summer weddings.\n\n5. __[Dress shirt](https://zola.app.link/eLaNHDg7Ocb)__ __and slacks__. Paired with a tie or bow tie, this look can be accentuated by suspenders or a nice leather belt.\n\n6. __Shirt and khakis__. For informal or casual spring/summer weddings, skip the dress pants altogether and sport a pair of chinos with a nice shirt—tie optional.\n\n## Matching Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nTraditionally, a groom and his groomsmen wear matching tuxedos or suits, but today there are no hard rules. If you want the groom and groomsmen to wear the same attire, whether it be a suit or a dress shirt and pants, consider the following:\n\n- What is your [wedding theme](https://zola.app.link/vxkYfJyN71)/what are your wedding colors? If you’re having a fall, rustic wedding and are incorporating colors of blush and burgundy, the groom and groomsmen should follow suit. Gray suits with burgundy ties, for example, would be a way to stay on-theme.\n\n- What are everyone’s budget and location? It’s important to [talk about money when you’re at a wedding party](https://zola.app.link/gxLaAGyN71) to ensure that everyone can afford the same outfit. This can help determine whether you will rent, buy, or borrow garments. Remember that location affects availability and suit fitting appointments if you’re going the custom route.\n\n- Plan months in advance. If your groom and groomsmen attire matches, go shopping at least four to six months in advance to allow for enough time to order and tailor garments.\n\n- Another tip? Regardless of whether all groomsmen get fitted for their outfits at the same time and place, or do it individually, it’s a good idea to have everyone’s measurements [sent to the tailor two to four months before the wedding](https://zola.app.link/INwxgJyN71)—especially during peak wedding season—to ensure that everyone gets their clothing back on time.\n\nA popular style is for groomsmen to match one another, but the groom wears a slightly different, yet complementary, look. If you want the groomsmen to match, but the groom to stand out, consider the following:\n\n- Have the groomsmen’s attire match your wedding theme, but make the groom’s suit or tux slightly different by picking a feature color and highlighting it in different ways. For example, if forest green is one of your wedding colors, have the groomsmen wear green ties and [gray suits](https://zola.app.link/cE3oSTw7Ocb), while the groom wears a forest green suit and gray tie. This is a way to have everyone look good while standing together, yet still allowing the groom to stand out.\n\n## Mismatched Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nIf matching isn’t your thing, that’s cool. No groom and groomsmen need to dress the same. It’s important, however, that everyone at least looks cohesive and adheres to a dress code. A groomsman wearing linen pants will look odd next to a groomsman in a black tuxedo. The groom should set the tone and let everyone know how formal or casual they can dress and what color palette to stick to.\n\nIf you want all groomsmen to sport a navy two-piece suit, communicate what is appropriate. It’s one thing to say, “Everyone wears a blue suit!” but make sure that you also include dress shirts, ties, and shoe styles and colors. If your wedding is more casual and the groom is wearing nice slacks and a dress shirt, the groomsmen should follow. Use terms such as “business casual” and “semi-formal dress” to help the wedding party understand the level of formality that you want them to follow. Use photographs and share ideas with them. It’s a good idea to see (and approve) all groomsmen’s outfits before the wedding to make sure that they a) look good with what the groom is wearing, and b) are within the dress code. This helps to avoid any last-minute fashion disasters.\n\nIf the groom and groomsmen's attire doesn’t match, you can incorporate accessories to weave everyone together. Matching socks, ties or boutonnieres are all ways to let the groom and groomsmen stand out from one another, yet still complement each other’s looks.\n\nThe type of wedding you’re planning will dictate what the groom and groomsmen should wear. Look to other aspects of your wedding planning, such as venue, season, formality, and whether or not you want the groom and members of his wedding party to match. There’s no right or wrong way to dress for a wedding, but there are ways to ensure that everyone’s attire looks cohesive and fantastic.","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Do the groomsmen pay for their groomsmen suits, or does that financial responsibility fall on the groom?","title":"Who Pays for the Groomsmen Suits?","slug":"who-pays-for-the-groomsmen-suits","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3t9k4RlVKl3wuoJpk0QAQN/02946995cdf688fa2269c7de00dc8b4d/Hero_GreatGatsbyWeddingatBridgesGolfClub_GriegCooperPhotographer.jpg","altText":"Who Pays for the Groomsmen Suits"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Read this guide to find out how to determine whom to ask to act as groomsmen in your wedding.","title":"How to Choose Your Groomsmen","slug":"how-to-choose-your-groomsmen","topic":"Wedding planning 101","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5MPuNf6pXjbi9AyamCOjm0/0f9689ecf33ee1396edb47d5d320387d/Hero_TimelessWeddingatCodmanEstate_MeiLinBarralPhotography.jpg","altText":"How to Choose Your Groomsmen"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"You don’t just want to look good on your big day; you want your groomsmen to look sharp, too. 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You can customize your tux with personalized details, such as special cufflinks and playful socks.","title":"A Complete Guide to Groom and Groomsmen Tuxedos + Ideas","slug":"groom-tuxedo-ideas","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6ah6lIqItIOOt4VDWFaRiR/175de92399293ddb6962b0e9eeb42e27/Hero_EnglishGardenIntimateWeddingatHistoricKeelerTavern_CoreyLynnTuckerPhotography__1_.jpg","altText":"Groom Tuxedos"},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:40:16.779Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"androgynous-wedding-attire","title":"Androgynous Wedding Attire: A Timeless Gender-Neutral Style Guide","excerpt":"Don't know where to shop for androgynous wedding attire? We've compiled a list of 10 places to shop plus moodboards for every wedding style.","publishedAt":"2024-08-13T16:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4mMWGycb0RlzWGFZTAJQt2/d899aec4756f6b7c139dd89e2dd3838e/androgynous-attire-for-weddings-hero.jpg","altText":"A woman wearing androgynous wedding attire during the sunset. "},"heroCredit":"Fly View Productions","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com","tldr":"__Inside this article:__ \n- How to find androgynous formal wear\n- Where to get androgynous wedding attire\n- How to personalize androgynous formal wear for every wedding type","body":"__TLDR:__\n- If you're looking for androgynous formal wear, be sure to consider your budget and preferred style before purchasing. \n- Several shops, like Duchess Clothier and SuitShop are perfect for fulfilling your androgynous wedding guest attire needs.\n- Consult our guide for styling for every type of [androgynous wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/gender-non-conforming-wedding-attire). Whether romantic, class, boho or beyond, we have visual cues to help.\n\n## Searching for androgynous wedding guest attire?\nDeciding what to [wear as a wedding guest](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/dos-donts-wedding-guest-fashion) is definitely not as easy as sampling everything at the [buffet table](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-food-ideas). But finding an outfit you love will make you feel your best and boost your confidence.\n\nIf a gender-neutral style is your style of choice, there are plenty of ways you can create a formal wear look that will make you feel your best. From classic to laid-back, we'll show you just how and where to find androgynous [wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding) and how you can style it depending on any wedding theme.\n\n## How to find androgynous formal wear \nWhether you're an experienced wedding attendee or this is your first time celebrating your favorite lovebirds, finding the perfect wedding attire can be overwhelming, especially if you're set on finding the perfect gender neutral wedding outfit. \n\nWe here at Zola have you covered with all of your wedding wear needs. Here are some steps on how to find androgynous wedding attire.\n\n### 1. Set a budget\nTo help avoid overspending and narrow down your options, the first step in finding the perfect androgynous wedding attire is to [set a budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/planning-101/budgeting). \n\nDecide how much you're willing to spend on the wedding outfit, taking into account not only necessary adjustments, such as [tailoring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-do-wedding-dress-alterations-cost), but also any accessories, shoes, and makeup you'll have to purchase. Do some research by looking at stores online and local boutiques to help you come up with a budget that makes sense.\n\n### 2. Decide on your preferred style\nAlthough having a budget will help you narrow down which stores to go to, having a general idea of what style of clothing you're looking for will help you figure out where to go. Consider your preferred style choices, what makes you feel the most comfortable, and the [wedding theme](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-themes). \n\nHaving a look in mind will make the process easier and faster. Find inspiration by looking at current fashion trends and social media accounts of people with a similar style as yours.\n\n### 3. Consider how much time you have\nLastly, consider how much time you have to find your gender-neutral wedding outfit since it will likely dictate whether you should shop online or in person. If you're short on time, might need your outfit tailored, or want to try it on first, find a couple of local stores to go to. Otherwise, shopping online can give you a wide range of options to choose from—just be sure to account for shipping times.\n\n![Androgynous Wedding Guest Attire](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ueZ9Qeq5seT7GOemiI1SN/546e8e8a38b3c4f83b6aba4831ebb05c/Androgynous_Wedding_Guest_Attire.jpg)\nPhoto by [Creatrix Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/creatrix-photography)\n\n## Where to get androgynous wedding attire \nIf you're still looking for places to shop for an outfit, there are many stores focusing on androgynous formal wear. These stores' main purpose is to provide you with an array of gender-neutral pieces, from formal wear to casual pieces, that will help you look and feel your best. Here are some that we recommend:\n\n### 1. The Tailory New York\nAnother custom suit option with online fittings is [The Tailory New York](https://thetailorynyc.com/), a women-owned clothing company that combines custom tailoring with modern fashion design. If you're looking for a bold and ambitious look, The Tailory has different clothing styles and colors, from modern fairytale to street chic. Their suits and tuxedos start at $1,450.\n\n### 2. Bindle & Keep\n\n[Bindle & Keep](https://www.bindleandkeep.com/) offers suits that are made just for you. If you want to have a suit created for your exact measurements, Bindle & Keep will do fittings both in person and online. They divide their suit options into three different pricing tiers varying by fabric, which ranges from $995 to $1,395. If you're considering custom-made androgynous wedding attire from Bindle & Keep, make sure to order ahead of time as their turnaround time is between 10 and 11 weeks.\n\n### 3. WILDFANG\nIf you're looking for a place where you can buy your everyday clothes but also find formal wear for your special event, [WILDFANG](https://www.wildfang.com/) is a good option. Its mission is to rethink gender norms and focus on androgynous outfits. At their store, you'll be able to find blazers, [dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-spring-wedding), and even accessories at a more affordable price, ranging from $70 to $200.\n\n### 4. Duchess Clothier\nIf you're looking for another made-to-fit option, [Duchess Clothier](https://www.duchessclothier.com/) creates androgynous outfits for every body and occasion. Their store is located in Portland, OR, where you'll get plenty of separate suit and shoe options, but they also let you create your own look by mixing and matching pieces. The price for their suits starts at $1,120 and they offer packages that also include dress shirts, ties, and pocket squares.\n\n### 5. Kirrin Finch\n[Kirrin Finch](https://kirrinfinch.com/) seeks to create fitting clothes that make you feel confident and comfortable. Their attire is designed to fit bodies of all shapes and sizes. They offer a wide range of androgynous formal wear, from dress shirts to suits and blazers. Prices range from $150 to $400 and offer a variety of silhouettes and colors.\n\n![Kirrin Finch Androgynous Formal Wear](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1lW1ojxP5jTJEjgXs2OkJu/98f85f274d87bcead990e2b668f5ee64/Kirrin_Finch_Androgynous_Formal_Wear.jpg)\n\n### 6. SuitShop\nIf you're looking for a more affordable option, or even considered [renting](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-does-a-tuxedo-rental-cost), [SuitShop](https://suitshop.com/) can provide you with high-quality clothing for a price that will make you feel as good as you look. At SuitShop, you can own a suit for as little as $199, and you'll get a variety of options to choose from with inclusive sizing. Plus, you can try your androgynous wedding attire for free for seven days.\n\n### 7. Birdy Grey\nAlthough [Birdy Grey](https://www.birdygrey.com/) fancies itself a [bridesmaid](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-bridesmaid-duties) dress retailer, they also offer options for suits and tuxedos that are tailored to perfection. At the online retailer, you'll also see a variety of shoes and accessories that are perfect for any wedding theme. Their gender-neutral wedding outfits are also affordable, starting at $199.\n\n### 8. Peau de Loup\n[Peau de Loup](https://www.peaudeloup.com/)'s goal is to make clothes for bodies and not genders, offering high-quality and limited clothing that accommodates curves. Aside from finding your androgynous wedding attire there, you'll also be able to get shoes, accessories, and casual clothing. Their formal wear is affordable, with prices starting at $98.\n\n### 9. HauteButch\nAnother brand that creates masculine clothing to fit women's bodies is [HauteButch](https://hautebutch.com/), a queer Black-owned brand. This small company creates innovative and diverse styles that represent who you are. They sell suits, vests, and accessories in a variety of styles and colors, with suits starting at around $200.\n\n### 10. Sharpe Suiting\n[Sharpe Suiting](https://sharpesuiting.com/) will help you achieve a look that will both fit your body and your style. They specialize in wedding attire and use their trademarked body measuring formula called “Andropometrics” to deliver you a custom suit. The process of purchasing a custom outfit will take around eight weeks, and a two-piece suit starts at $1,800.\n\n![Sharpe Androgynous Formal Wear](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/48SlVkaQrogBBmLLYA9Ogq/cdca55ee7c7ea3539d3123b08632e6af/Sharpe_Androgynous_Formal_Wear.jpg)\n\n## How to personalize androgynous formal wear for every wedding type \nNo matter how you express yourself, your wedding attire should fit the [wedding type](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/couples-top-wedding-themes) you’re attending or planning. Whether that is a classic chic wedding or a beach getaway, there are different ways you can personalize your androgynous formal wear according to the theme. \n\nWhen deciding on what to wear for the wedding, consider each element of your wedding attire, including accessories, shoes, and colors. You can also add your own personal touch by using elements that you usually wear—like your favorite watch or a pop of color that looks good on you.\n\n### 1. Classic\nClassic weddings are more traditional and elegant, and sometimes will require [black tie wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding). Whether your invite mentions a dress code or not, invest in looks in black, gray, or dark blue with solid fabric. If the wedding is during the summer, you might opt to wear lighter tones such as light gray or beige. \n\nYour look should be elegant and fitted, so if you’re going for a suit, consider wearing solid wool fabric, a black bowtie, and a collared white shirt. To complete your look, wear classic black leather shoes and gold and pearl jewelry, if that’s true to your style. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-classic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/630zTDv9adarWkCgmAY9X8/774dd5af04a72b617487675442696d26/androgynous-attire-for-classic-weddings.png)\n\n### 2. Rustic\n[Rustic weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue) are full of natural and wooden touches, which means you can go for a less formal look and have fun with textures. Look for clothing with lighter tones such as light blue and brown. For a more casual look, you could also forgo your blazer and wear only a vest with a collared shirt. \n\nAdd some texture to your look by choosing cotton or tweed blazers. Then complement your outfit with vintage brown leather shoes and patterned pocket squares. This is also your chance to wear your favorite shiny, gold jewelry or a leather watch. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-rustic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6X9V0pswklRpQ4DsMoebbj/62d44e6a3d9a4ae854cafbbe6905cd14/androgynous-attire-for-rustic-weddings.png)\n\n### 3. Beachy\n[Beach weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pros-and-cons-of-a-beach-wedding) are relaxed and calm, which means you get to enjoy the sea view and salty air with a more casual, bright look. Opt for light tones, like a pastel blue or green, or go for more colorful attire with florals. \n\nInvest in clothes with linen fabric so you can fully enjoy the ocean breeze. You might even want to roll up your sleeves or wear some nice shorts. Make your look even more beachy by adding colorful pocket flowers, accessories with seashells, and white loafers. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-beachy-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6Zf82q3mpqKJLcuDB84EWS/1362edaf2195c2480dab783a07118625/androgynous-attire-for-beachy-weddings.png)\n\n### 4. Modern\nModern weddings are more fashionable and bold, so if you like trendy styles or a monochromatic look, this is your chance to shine. In a modern wedding, you have the opportunity to be more creative by trying different fabrics or wearing a statement piece. \n\nConsider bold colors like dark green or burgundy, or try an all-black outfit with cuffed pants. Then complete your look with fashionable loafers or shiny black shoes and a gold watch. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-modern-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6hpxRcBcPre6QeHDQhrMgY/a531c502c266880425318f77c1b56270/androgynous-attire-for-modern-weddings.png)\n\n### 5. Garden\n[Garden weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/outdoor-wedding-ideas-for-fall) are fun and whimsical, so bring a playful spirit to your wedding attire. Consider floral and pinstripe fabrics, or go for a solid dark blue or purple look. Choose a breathable fabric, especially if the wedding will be outside during the summer. \n\nComplete your look by adding a tie in a pastel tone, or ditch the tie and go for an open collar style. Add flower accessories or a simple white pocket square to go with stitched vintage shoes. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-garden-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/QQIsPX3Pfi3nhwBvgFcNt/97fb6382f096e46eb5601fce444a8b09/androgynous-attire-for-garden-weddings.png)\n\n### 6. Romantic\nRomantic weddings are nothing short of dreamy and elegant. Go all in with a look that could've come out of a fairytale by wearing pastel pinks and blues and a blazer with silk details. \n\nTry suspenders, and match them with some classic leather shoes. For accessories, you can add delicate flower pins or shiny jewelry with diamonds and a gold watch.\n\n![androgynous-attire-for-romantic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1voWcJwI7i0vFWKLZTTWfa/09119df7011a734aa074ab55471930de/androgynous-attire-for-romantic-weddings.png)\n\n### 7. Boho\n[Boho weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/rustic-wedding-ideas) are more unconventional and relaxed, so this is your chance to rock a more laid-back look. Find outfits with lightweight and breathable fabrics and play around with different colors. \n\nDon't be shy when adding flowers or feathers to complement your look, or try a suede boho hat and match it with brown loafers. As for accessories, consider jewelry with colorful stones or gold fringe. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-boho-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/19ClGLMB3t5aDno8SdUPg0/b06b0754a417d786152b3240e245c6e8/androgynous-attire-for-boho-weddings.png)\n\nFinding the right [wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-guests/wedding-attire) doesn't have to be complicated. As long as you wear something you love and feel comfortable in, you'll radiate confidence walking in the venue. Luckily, you know exactly where to shop for androgynous wedding attire and how to personalize it according to each wedding theme.\n\nAre you the one getting married? Did you know that Zola can help with all of your wedding day needs? From using our [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) to creating a free [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website), get started today!","tag":"List","updatedAt":"2025-06-07T16:47:44.977Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"what-should-the-mother-of-the-groom-wear","title":"What Should the Mother of the Groom Wear?","excerpt":"Wondering what the mother of the groom should wear to your wedding? Read on for our complete guide.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2020-12-16T20:33:51.524Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3XYQnnhFxaJwQKwb4o3VdP/09b22c0665e884e05ef2a3f099378d4c/hero_Eyes_2_See_Photography.jpg","altText":"mother of the groom"},"heroCredit":"Eyes 2 See Photography","body":"Mothers are always valued members of a couple’s wedding party, whether it’s the mother of the bride or the mother of the groom. Both are honored and appreciated for their contributions to the bride and groom’s big day. \n\nThe mother of the groom in particular has several responsibilities, including helping plan the guest list for the groom’s side of the family and hosting the rehearsal dinner. It’s only natural that she looks exceptional when the big day rolls around. But what exactly should the mother of the groom wear? \n\n## Wedding Etiquette for the Mother of the Groom\n\nDepending upon how much of a stickler for tradition you are, there may be etiquette rules your family members and guests must follow. These rules may include a few about the wedding attire for the groom’s mother. \n\n### Dress Buying Traditions\n\nWondering if there’s a difference [between the mother of the bride dress and the mother of the groom dress?](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/mother-of-the-bride-vs-mother-of-the-groom-dresses-whats-the-difference) Traditionally, the mother of the bride decides on her dress first and then informs the groom’s mother. The mother of the groom can then get a dress that complements the [mother of the bride dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-attire-101-garden-edition) on the wedding day. \n\nKeep in mind that the two moms do not have to dress identical at all—the two dresses just have to be complementary, so they don't clash with each other, the wedding theme, or the bridesmaid dresses. \n\nIt’s worth noting, though: Nowadays, this tradition is considered more of a guideline than a hard rule. Still, it’s good guidance—especially if you haven’t heard otherwise. \n\n![Mother of the Groom Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/25fkY0wAnryA14ISsWlQEE/b10a6d827562696eacee5b1c7807476c/inline_rengim-mutevellioglu.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Rengim Mutevellioglu\n\n### Dress Etiquette\n\nAs stated before, the mother of the groom is an honored part of the special occasion, and she should dress accordingly. Both the mother of the bride and groom should select dresses that are similar in style and length and complementary to the wedding color palette and theme. \n\nBefore any shopping is done, consult with the bride or groom to get a better idea of their vision for the wedding day. For instance, flashy dresses and distracting colors wouldn’t be appropriate for a wedding with a soft, vintage theme. The mother of the groom should also avoid particular styles, such as low-cut necklines, thigh-split dresses, or tight skirts. \n\nJust keep in mind: Within reason, the mother of the groom should be able to dress according to her personality and comfort. \n\n### Dress Shopping Is Bonding Time\n\nIn today’s culture, mothers of the bride and groom often go dress shopping together and view it as an opportunity to bond and get to know one another better. Other moms might shop with the bride and bridesmaids as well, opting to make it a big gal’s day complete with a fancy lunch or dinner. This not only helps everyone get to know each other better, but also helps ensure that everyone looks great and dresses don’t clash. \n\n## Wedding Etiquette for Stepmoms of the Groom\n\nIf the groom’s family is a blended family, it can sometimes get complicated. The mother of the bride is only obliged to inform the mother of the groom about her wedding attire. Stepmothers, on the other hand, are the groom’s responsibility. It’s up to him to give her the required information, so that she can dress appropriately. \n\nOf course, this may be different in every family, because it depends on how close the groom is with his stepmother. If she’s considered a close family member and you plan to seat her in front with other family members, then she should choose her outfit in keeping with the colors and theme of the rest of the wedding party and family. However, if the two are not close and she is considered merely a guest, then she will be seated with guests and should have full freedom to dress however she likes (assuming it’s wedding appropriate!). There’s really no need for her attire to match the immediate family or wedding party—unless she just wants to.\n\n## Color Dos and Don’ts\n\n### Dos\n\nThere’s no end to the color palettes and wedding themes a bride might choose from. Depending on the theme, many mothers of the groom favor colors like:\n\n- Blues\n- Blushes\n- Mauves\n- Lavenders\n- Mint Green\n- Peach\n\nIf your wedding is a formal one, some mothers of the groom might prefer to wear shades of gold, dark silver, or even black. Other darker colors that might be worn include shades of :\n\n- Navy\n- Green\n- Purple\n- Red\n\n### Don’ts\n\nRemember, it’s a big fashion faux pas for someone in the immediate family or wedding party to wear white or any variation thereof. Even neutral colors like cream or beige are against dress code. \n\nOf course, some brides might not mind; some may even want their bridal party in white. When in doubt, though, it’s best to err on the side of caution. \n\n## Wedding Attire Styles for the Mother of the Groom\n\nIt’s important to consider age, body shape, and the time of year when deciding on a dress style for the mother of the groom.\n\n### Body Shape\n\nDifferent dress shapes flatter different body types:\n\n- Someone who is wider at the shoulder and narrower at the hips, like an inverted triangle, might look best in V-necklines and A-line skirts, with a nipped waist to create a shapely silhouette.\n- Someone with wider hips should focus on accentuating the top of her body with detailing or an off-the-shoulder neckline, along with fit and flare dress styles. \n- Someone with an hourglass figure should avoid baggy and loose dresses, or run the risk of looking frumpy.\n- Someone with a rectangle body shape might consider more form-fitting dresses.\n\nHowever, remember that these are just tips and guidelines. It’s more important to make sure that whatever style of dress the mother of the groom wears, she feels comfortable and attractive. \n\n### Time of Year\n\nThe mother of the groom should feel comfortable through the wedding ceremony and reception. That’s why it’s important to consider the season and whether or not the venue is indoor or outdoor when choosing a dress. For example, the mother of the bride can get away with wearing a casual sundress for an outdoor, summer beach wedding, but should wear a formal dress for an indoor, black-tie affair. \n\nDuring colder months, dresses can be accessorized with shawls, faux fur, and shrugs. Tailored jackets are another option that look great and help keep the groom’s mom toasty and warm. Also, if it’s simply too cold for a dress, pantsuits can be a good option to keep the legs covered. \n\nDepending on where you live, spring is typically warm, which means she could wear tea-length and cocktail dresses and be perfectly comfortable. Summer is also a great season for tea-length dresses. \n\n### Age-Appropriate\n\nRemember, there is such a thing as too sexy. The mother of the groom should avoid wearing anything that’s overtly sexy, such as deep necklines with cleavage or skirts that flash the thigh. If you know that the mother of the groom tends to dress a little on the risqué side, there’s nothing wrong with asking her to wear something that’s age-appropriate. \n\n![Mother of the Groom Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3ym2V6NZrPUABfEbT0eRIZ/9f244b1d9574d64e93c28a840b42a985/inline_stocksy.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Stocksy\n\n## Don’t Forget Accessories\n\nNo outfit is complete without matching accessories. For a mother of the groom, accessories might include: \n\n- Small clutch purse\n- Medium tote purse\n- Stylish hat or headband\n- Pretty necklace and earrings\n- Bangle bracelets\n\nWhatever accessories she wears, it should be something that complements her wedding attire and highlights her own unique style without taking attention away from you. \n\nIf the mother of the groom is uncomfortable with the neckline or sleeves of her chosen wedding attire, she could always add a trendy scarf or shawl. This does double duty by covering her up more and accessorizing her look. \n\nWedding attire for the mother of the groom really isn’t that complicated. Once there’s a theme, color palette, and venue in place, she’ll be able to pick just the right dress.\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Garden wedding attire blends comfort and style with light fabrics and floral touches. 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Check out Zola's guide to beautiful, simple wedding dresses.","title":"Simple Wedding Dresses That Are Elegant and Timeless","slug":"simple-wedding-dresses-that-are-elegant-and-timeless","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2SjlWOaxslfaqQ1FB2Pzmr/3422d8d0544ed3158ea19873b4540f3d/Hero_New__12_.jpg","altText":"couple kisses at wedding "},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:40:05.051Z"}],"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire","description":"Find wedding attire inspiration and advice for grooms, guests, bridesmaid, groomsmen and the rest of the wedding party. From black tie dress code guides to casual wedding attire inspiration to mother of the bride style ettiquete we'll help you look your best on the big day."},"topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty","description":"Whether you're a bride, groom, member of the wedding party, or guest, find expert wedding beauty and fashion advice to serve up those looks! From wedding hair and makeup tips and tricks to advice on wedding dresses, shoes and accessories to inspiration and etiquette for guest, you'll find everything you need!","subtopics":[{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding Hair & makeup","slug":"wedding-hair-makeup"},"slug":"a-guide-to-wedding-hair-and-makeup-costs","title":"A Guide to Wedding Hair & Makeup Costs","excerpt":"How much does a professional wedding hair & makeup artist cost? Find out with our ultimate guide to wedding hair and makeup costs. ","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2019-01-18T21:34:11.830Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/N7wFOsDeMIHq1oa7VEBpL/d7c18e73a265e3aa2d9f76196d5952a3/New_Hero.jpg","altText":"wedding hair and makeup cost"},"heroCredit":"Zola","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- Bridal hair and makeup costs for brides or bridesmaids can run anywhere from $150-$600 depending on the type of hairstyle, products, and wedding makeup used.\n- Remember you’re primarily paying for your wedding hair and makeup artist’s time, so the more elaborate the glam , the higher the price tag.\n- Book your makeup artist(s) no less than three months before your wedding date to work out your preferred looks, scheduled times, and additional costs in advance. \n","body":"Your wedding day is one occasion on which you want to look your absolute, top-dollar best. Not only are you going to be immortalized in wedding photos for eternity, but since it should be one of the happiest days of your life, you want your external appearance to match the greatness you’re feeling inside. In order to put your face quite literally in the hands of a fabulous [wedding hair and makeup artist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-hair-stylists-and-makeup-artist-dos-and-donts), you’ll need to budget for hair and wedding makeup costs—whether you’re going for an understated natural look, full-on glam, or something in between with your hair and makeup services.\n\nBelow are the average prices you can expect to pay for wedding hair and makeup:\n\n- Bridal Hair and Makeup Costs: Expect to pay anywhere from $150-$600 for bridal hair and makeup. Typically, brides pay around $300 on average for hair and makeup, depending on the type of hairstyle, products, and wedding makeup used.\n\n- Bridesmaid Hair and Makeup Costs: Around $150 per bridesmaid in your bridal party. This average cost estimates $75 for makeup and $50-75 for hairstyling.\n\nFind out exactly what you should expect to pay for wedding hair and makeup costs with our ultimate guide below.\n\n## How Much Do Wedding Hair and Makeup Cost?\n \nThe average cost of wedding hair and makeup will vary considerably based upon your location, how many people and/or services you’re looking to schedule, and the intricacy of your styles. On the low end, wedding hair and makeup artists might only charge around $60 for a single application, but in large cities, bridal hair and makeup could cost over $1,000. That being said, the average price most couples spend on wedding hair and makeup is around __$300__—but anywhere within the range of __$150-$650__ is typical. \n\nIf a wedding hair and makeup artist needs to travel to the event (or to your getting-ready location), the cost could go up, as he or she might add a travel fee. If you’d like your stylist to remain on-site for touch ups (for example, a touch up after you put on your wedding dress), that could also raise your costs: most wedding hair and makeup artists will charge by the hour to remain at your wedding location, ranging anywhere from $30 to $125 per hour.\n\n## What’s Included in the Price of Wedding Hair and Makeup? \nAs mentioned above, you’re primarily paying for your wedding hair and makeup artist’s time. The higher [the number of hours that you’ll need to book your stylist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-long-does-wedding-hair-and-makeup-usually-take), the higher your price tag will be. In general, the tools and materials required to create your wedding hair and makeup look are included in the cost, but certain types of hairstyles, products, and makeup applications will run you more:\n\n- Wedding updos tend to cost more than blowout hairstyles, with the average price of an updo costing about $45 more __($51 for a blowout versus $95 for an updo)__.\n\n- Airbrush wedding makeup will cost more than a traditional makeup package. Expect to pay around __$50 more for airbrush application__, as the average cost of airbrush makeup is $155 while traditional makeup costs on average $100 per face.\n\nIn addition to beauty services on the actual wedding day, some artists offer free consultations and/or hair and makeup trials before the wedding—but some artists charge anywhere from $50 to $150 for trials. See below for more information about trials. See below for more pricing information to factor into your average wedding cost.\n\n## How Much Does a Wedding Hair and Makeup Trial Cost?\nIt just makes good sense to get a hair trial and makeup trial before your wedding to ensure that you and your stylist(s) are on the same page about what kind of wedding look you want. Yet not all hair and makeup artists offer this service for free (or as part of their consultation appointment). If you’re asked to pay for a wedding beauty trial, you could be looking at a cost of anywhere from $50-$150, with the average price being around __$75__. (Keep in mind that you may need to pay a separate fee for your hair trial and your makeup trial—bringing your total average cost up to $150.)\n\n## Should I Tip My Wedding Hair and Makeup Artist?\nJust like at a regular salon, tipping for wedding beauty services is generally expected. You should prepare to tip your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) anywhere from __15-25% of the total bill__ for their services if you think they’ve done a great job.\n\n## Are There Any Add-On Costs With Wedding Hair and Makeup?\nWe’ve already discussed a few of the “hidden” or add-on costs that you might discover when budgeting for your wedding hair and makeup. Here are some of the extra charges you might encounter for fancier styles, more expensive products or applications, or for simply more complex logistics:\n\n- __Skin prep__ in the weeks leading up to your big day, like [wedding facials](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-different-types-of-facials-for-brides), tanning, or any special products to give your skin that wedding day glow\n\n- __False eyelashes/false lashes, updo hairstyles__, or __airbrush makeup__ are usually more expensive.\n\n- __Nail services__, like a manicure and/or pedicure\n\n- __Travel fees__ might occur if your hair and makeup artist(s) are required to travel to your location. Factor in additional costs if mileage (for long distances) or parking fees also come into play.\n\n- __Trial runs__ of your wedding hairstyle and makeup might cost you an additional $50-100 per trial.\n\n- __[Hair extensions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/should-you-get-hair-extensions-for-your-wedding)__ if you want to add any length or volume to your hair for your bridal hairstyle\n\n- __Extra people__ beyond just the bride—such as the bridal party or the mother of the bride—will naturally add to your costs. A professional hair stylist and makeup artist might even need to bring an additional stylist or an assistant (for example, a makeup team for the bridal party or an extra stylist to manage bridesmaid and flower girl hair).\n\n- __Extra hours__ beyond the initial styling (for example, if you want touch ups later in the evening, or a different hairstyle for the reception) will cost you more, as you will be paying your hair and makeup artist by the hour to remain on-site.\n\n- __Tipping__ your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) is generally expected, just like at any salon appointment.\n\n## How Much Does Bridesmaid Hair and Makeup Cost?\nMother of the bride and/or bridesmaids makeup and hair generally costs around __$150__ per person, or if you want to break it down, around __$75 for makeup__ and __$50-$75 for hairstyling__ (blowout versus updo). Again, this number can go up based upon the location and the complexity of the style or the logistics.\n\n## Who Pays for Your Bridesmaids’ Hair and Makeup?\nIt depends: if the bride is requiring that her bridesmaids have their hair and makeup professionally done, then it’s expected that the bride (or her parents, depending on who’s paying for the wedding) cover these beauty costs. But if professional hair and makeup are being offered only as an option, then the bridesmaids should expect to pay for their own services. A bride might also consider whether she’d like to pay for her bridesmaids’ hair and makeup as part or all of the traditional bridesmaids’ gift.\n\n## How Far in Advance Should I Book My Wedding Hair Stylist and Makeup Artist?\nWe recommend you book your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) no less than three months before your wedding date. Of course, it’s always better to check this item off your __[Wedding Planning Checklist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist)__ earlier if possible—you’ll want to have plenty of time to choose your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) carefully, get to know him or her so you’re really comfortable on the big day, and schedule a trial run to iron out all the kinks before the wedding-day timeline begins ticking. Head over to Zola Inspiration to __[browse wedding hair and makeup stylists](https://www.zola.com/inspire/search)__ in your area right now!","body2":"## Should I Tip My Wedding Hair and Makeup Artist?\nJust like at a regular salon, tipping for wedding beauty services is generally expected. You should prepare to tip your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) anywhere from __15-25% of the total bill__ for their services if you think they’ve done a great job. \n\n## Are There Any Add-On Costs With Wedding Hair and Makeup?\n \nWe’ve already discussed a few of the “hidden” or add-on costs that you might discover when budgeting for your wedding hair and makeup. Here are some of the extra charges you might encounter for fancier styles, more expensive products or applications, or for simply more complex logistics: \n- __False eyelashes__, __updo hairstyles__, or __airbrush makeup__ are usually more expensive.\n- __Travel fees__ might occur if your hair and makeup artist(s) are required to travel to your location. Factor in additional costs if mileage (for long distances) or parking fees also come into play.\n- __Trial runs__ of your wedding hairstyle and makeup might cost you an additional $50-100 per trial. \n- __Extra people__ beyond just the bride—such as the bridal party or the mother of the bride—will naturally add to your costs. A professional hair stylist and makeup artist might even need to bring an additional stylist or an assistant.\n- __Extra hours__ beyond the initial styling (for example, if you want touch ups later in the evening, or a different hairstyle for the reception) will cost you more, as you will be paying your hair and makeup artist by the hour to remain on-site. \n- __Tipping__ your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) is generally expected, just like at any salon appointment.\n\n## How Much Does Bridesmaid Hair and Makeup Cost? \nWedding makeup for a bridesmaid or a mother of the bride generally costs around __$150__ per person, or if you want to break it down, around __$75 for makeup__ and __$50-$75 for hairstyling__ (blowout versus updo). Again, this number can go up based upon the location and the complexity of the style or the logistics.\n\n## Who Pays for Your Bridesmaids' Hair and Makeup? \nIt depends: if the bride is requiring that her bridesmaids have their hair and makeup professionally done, then it’s expected that the bride (or her parents, depending on who’s paying for the wedding) cover these beauty costs. But if professional hair and makeup are being offered only as an option, then the bridesmaids should expect to pay for their own services. A bride might also consider whether she’d like to pay for her bridesmaids’ hair and makeup as part or all of the traditional bridesmaids’ gift.\n\n## How Far in Advance Should I Book My Wedding Hair Stylist and Makeup Artist?\n \nWe recommend you book your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) no less than three months before your wedding date. Of course, it’s always better to check this item off your [Wedding Planning Checklist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist) earlier if possible—you’ll want to have plenty of time to choose your wedding hair and makeup artist(s) carefully, get to know him or her so you’re really comfortable on the big day, and schedule a trial run to iron out all the kinks before the wedding-day timeline begins ticking. Head over to Zola Inspiration to [browse wedding hair and makeup stylists](https://www.zola.com/inspire/search) in your area right now! ","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"To make sure that your wedding makeup is flawless and you’re looking your best on the big day, check out our tips for DIY wedding makeup below. 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Here are our DIY wedding hair tips to follow for gorgeous wedding hairstyles you can pull off yourself.","title":"DIY Wedding Hair Tips","slug":"diy-wedding-hair-tips","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Wedding Hairstyles","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3B4JXngFOMWYGs2QSeuqKq/cd886b06bd7f132aacf49b6692d86e87/3937960.jpg","altText":"African-American bride side pose with beautiful hair curls"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Finding the perfect wedding dress can sometimes feel as challenging as finding your soul mate. Luckily we’re here with a quick-and-easy quiz to help you figure out your ideal wedding style.","title":"What’s Your Wedding Dress Style? 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Many gowns are left hanging in the back of a closet, collecting dust. If you have no other plans for it, donating your wedding dress can give it a second life! Now more than ever, many brides are struggling to pay for their wedding dresses. We’ve found several meaningful charities that accept preowned wedding dresses and provide them to new brides at an affordable price. \n\nIn this article:\n\n- Benefits of Donating Your Wedding Dress\n- How to Decide Where to Donate\n- Where to Donate Wedding Dresses\n- Ways to Repurpose Your Wedding Dress\n- How to Prepare Your Wedding Dress for Donation\n\n## Benefits of Donating Your Wedding Dress\n\n \n\nIf you’re still on the fence about whether or not to donate your wedding dress, here are a few benefits to consider.\n\n### 1. Supports a Bride in Need\nFrom disaster victims to the many couples struggling financially right now, many individuals are looking for affordable clothing, including wedding dresses. With millions of people unemployed or experiencing a significant decrease in income during the pandemic, many couples cannot afford their dream weddings. Your donation can help provide a dress for a bride experiencing financial hardships. \n\n### 2. Tax-Deductible\nAs a taxpayer, you can claim your charitable contributions of money or goods as itemized deductions when filing your taxes. The [IRS](https://www.irs.gov/publications/p526) recognizes a charitable contribution as a gift or donation to or for the use of a qualified organization, such as nonprofits. \n\n### 3. Helps to Declutter\nMany wedding gowns are only worn once. If you’re never planning to wear your wedding dress again, it’s just taking up space! Once you donate it along with other household items that you no longer need or use, you’ll have more room! \n\n### 4. Encourages an Eco-Friendly Lifestyle\nAn eco-friendly lifestyle means living in a way that isn’t harmful to the environment. Clothing that is thrown away eventually sits in a landfill, where they release carbon dioxide and other toxins into the air. According to [GreenDrop](https://www.gogreendrop.com/blog/3-reasons-you-should-donate-your-old-clothes-instead-of-throwing-them-away/), the production of new clothes and textiles uses hundreds of gallons of water and also causes 10% of global carbon emissions. By donating your wedding dress, you help reduce your carbon footprint.\n\n![Benefits of donating your wedding dress image](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6OAEerjF3eR2VFxgVVb9nI/cccf53c07871500f73bb688f87d3b1b9/benefits-of-donating-your-wedding-dress.jpg)\n\nThe best part is conscientious efforts can start during the wedding! You can donate the remaining wedding food to local shelters and [preserve flowers](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-preserve-flowers) from the bouquet. For more sustainability tips, check out these [eco-friendly wedding ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/eco-friendly-wedding).\n\n## How to Decide Where to Donate\n\n \n\nDeparting from your beloved wedding dress can be tough. After all, it holds sentimental value and memories from your special day. You may feel comfortable choosing a charity with a mission that matters the most to you. For example, you may want to honor your loved ones in the military by donating to an organization supporting veterans. Fortunately, you can find charitable organizations that support a variety of causes, including cancer research, disaster relief, human rights, environmental protection, and more!\n\n## Where to Donate Wedding Dresses\n\n \n\nDonating your wedding dress is a great way to honor it and give it new life. Through your generosity, someone else can experience the same joy you felt on your wedding day. You can donate to thrift stores, charities, community centers, and many other types of nonprofit organizations. Here is a list of several charities and organizations accepting wedding dresses during COVID-19.\n\n![Charities to donate a wedding dress](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1xq1qPDhGhlPh4z1Tqv0Cg/e7f10bcb6dd54b3e70bb4faff2224620/charities-to-donate-a-wedding-dress.jpg)\n\n### Brides Against Breast Cancer \nSupport the fight against breast cancer through [Brides Against Breast Cancer](https://www.bridesagainstbreastcancer.org/). This nonprofit is dedicated to providing early cancer awareness and detection programs as well as reducing the environmental impact of wedding dress manufacturing. The organization resells pre-owned wedding dresses at affordable prices, using the sales proceeds to help breast cancer causes. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dresses of 3–5 years in excellent condition and bridal accessories. \n\n__How to donate:__ Use the [donation form](https://www.bridesagainstbreastcancer.org/bride-donation-form/) on the website, email, or contact client service directly to receive shipping instructions.\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ The organization continues to accept wedding dress donations through the mail and is relaunching its online store in early 2021.\n\n### Adorned in Grace \nIf you would like to assist in sex trafficking prevention, consider donating your wedding dress to [Adorned in Grace](https://www.adornedingrace.org/). This faith-based organization has a mission to help sex trafficking victims and bring awareness to local communities. Adorned in Grace stores provide new and gently-used wedding dresses and formalwear. Sales proceeds that go towards funding professional counseling for trafficking survivors, awareness publications, and more. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dress less than five years old, mother-of-the-bride dresses, flower girl dresses, bridal accessories, and formalwear.\n\n__How to donate:__ Drop-off donations in-person or ship them to any of their [shop locations](https://www.adornedingrace.org/donate#donate-1).\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ Call or book an [appointment](https://www.adornedingrace.org/yourvisit) at one of their store locations in advance.\n\n### The Salvation Army\nSince 1865, [The Salvation Army](https://www.salvationarmyusa.org/usn/) has grown into an international movement in 130 countries around the world. This faith-based nonprofit organization provides numerous services, including adult rehabilitation, veteran support, prison ministry work, disaster relief, housing, hunger relief, and more. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Adult and children’s clothing, furniture, vehicles, household goods, and appliances with [guidelines](https://satruck.org/Home/DonationValueGuide#womens-clothing) for each.\n\n__How to donate:__ Find a drop-off location, visit one of its local thrift stores, or schedule a free pickup.\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ Most local Salvation Army thrift stores are open for business with [information](https://www.salvationarmyusa.org/usn/covid19/) on ways to help during the pandemic.\n\n### Brides for a Cause\n[Brides for a Cause](https://www.bridesforacause.com/) is a nonprofit bridal store that collects and resells wedding dresses to raise funds for dozens of women-focused [charities](https://www.bridesforacause.com/about/our-cause/). Since 2012, the store has given away over $1.2 million to charities that support women in the military, single mothers, abuse survivors, and more.\n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dresses no more than five years old and bridal accessories. \n\n__How to donate:__ You can mail or drop off at one of their store [locations](http://www.bridesforacause.com/locations/) or roadshow events. \n\n__COVID-19 update:__ Currently not accepting walk-ins. Clients must “reserve a room” in advance, wear a mask at all times, bring only one guest, and follow social distancing guidelines. \n\n### Goodwill Industries\nWith a mission to eliminate work opportunity barriers, Goodwill industries provide supportive services to help people train for careers and find jobs. Your donations support Goodwill’s job programs and services as well as help environmentally by reducing waste. Through its online [impact calculator](https://www.goodwill.org/your-impact/), you can see how much your donation can contribute to its mission. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Clothing and accessories, houseware, electronics, media, and furniture. \n\n__How to donate:__ [Find](https://www.goodwill.org/donate/donate-stuff/) a donation center or local drop-off bin.\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ Most Goodwill stores are open with social distancing protocols. All donations will be in quarantine, and curbside drop-offs are available. \n\n### Brides Across America\nIf you’d like to support the military and first responders, you can do so through [Bride Across America](https://www.bridesacrossamerica.com/) (BAA). Every year, this nonprofit donates 2,000 wedding dresses and covers the wedding costs of those recipients. With your donations, military members and first responders can register to receive a free wedding dress during BAA’s monthly giveaway events.\n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dress less than five years old, accessories, engagement rings, and wedding favors. \n\n__How to donate:__ Fill out and submit the [donation form](https://www.bridesacrossamerica.com/giving/give-a-dress) to receive the shipping address and instructions. \n\n__COVID-19 update:__ BAA is open for in-store [appointments](https://www.baaoutlet.com/common/appointment) only with new health and safety precautions. \n\n### Fairytale Brides on a Shoestring\n[Fairytale Brides on a Shoestring](https://www.fairytalebrides.org/) is a nonprofit boutique in Rockville, MD that sells reduced-priced wedding gowns. All of its net proceeds go towards Alzheimer’s Association, Cystic Fibrosis Foundation, and Johns Hopkins’ Suburban Hospital Breast Center.\n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dresses no more than five years old and professionally cleaned.\n\n__How to donate:__ Make an appointment on its website to drop off your donation or mail it to the store. \n\n__COVID-19 update:__ The store is open by [appointment only](https://my.setmore.com/shortBookingPage/b6a191ce-a3b1-43ae-ab65-fb9d2a10c05d) on select weekdays, where clients must wear masks at all times and follow the recommended COVID-19 guidelines. \n\n### Cherie Sustainable Bridal\nThis Maryland-based bridal boutique is a division of Success in Style (SIS), a nonprofit dedicated to supporting in-crisis individuals on their journeys to employment and life improvement. [Cherie Sustainable Bridal](https://www.cheriesb.com/) sells preowned wedding gowns at an affordable price and sends 100% of the proceeds to SIS. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dresses five years old and younger, and professional business attire.\n\n__How to donate:__ [Drop off](https://www.cheriesb.com/donate) the wedding dress in-person during business hours or mail it to the store location.\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ The store is open by [appointment](https://www.cheriesb.com/appointments) only and clients can bring only one guest to the consultation.\n\n### The Brides Project \nTo support adults and children impacted by cancer, you can donate to [The Brides Project](http://www.thebridesproject.org/). This is a nonprofit bridal boutique that offers eco- and budget-friendly wedding gowns to shoppers. All sales help provide free programs for families at the Cancer Support Community of Greater Ann Arbor. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Wedding dresses within five years old and bridal accessories. \n\n__How to donate:__ Drop off the [donation](http://www.thebridesproject.org/donate/) at their shop or mail it to their Cancer Support Community division following the mailing instructions. \n\n__COVID-19 update:__ Visitors must book appointments via website or email and follow their health and safety protocols.\n\n### The Emma and Evan Foundation\nThrough the [Emma and Evan Foundation](https://www.evefoundation.org/), you can support families who’ve lost an infant. This nonprofit organization repurposes wedding dress donations into infant burial gowns or “angel gowns,” bonnets, and other keepsake items available to grieving families for free. \n\n__Accepted items:__ Any wedding dresses, bridesmaid and flower girl dresses, prom and formal gowns, bridal accessories, and more.\n\n__How to donate:__ Contact the organization to receive their mailing address and donation release form beforehand. Additional donation instructions can be found on the FAQ page.\n\n__COVID-19 update:__ You can shop on their website for keepsake items and receive purchases via shipment.\n\n## Ways to Repurpose Your Wedding Dress\n\n \n\nIf you find that your wedding dress doesn’t meet the donation criteria of a few charities, transform it into something new! There are plenty of creative ways to repurpose your wedding dress. \n\nReuse the fabric for creating home decor and cherished keepsakes, such as pillows and baptism gowns for your children. Need new formalwear? Alter or hem your gown into a fun cocktail dress. If you’re not a fan of cutting up the dress, consider using it as a photo prop for your newborn. Lastly, you can use the buttons, beads, and other trimmings to make DIY jewelry and accessories!\n\n![Ideas for repurposing your wedding dress](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5KUNczqwIBuEuAagzrCs7w/7ff67c460a94625994aa2c31ff861799/ideas-for-repurposing-your-wedding-dress.jpg)\n\n## How to Prepare Your Wedding Dress for Donation\n\n \n\nWhile most charities and shops offer to clean your donation items, some have a few guidelines about donations. Others may also charge an extra fee for cleaning. Here is a checklist to follow in making sure your donations are in the best conditions. \n\n__1. Contact the Organizations in advance.__ Ask what they need specifically, as well as for their donation schedule and protocols. Most charities and thrift shops that accept wedding dresses require them to be less than five years old.\n\n__2. Inspect the gown for wear and tear.__ When left in storage for too long, some items and certain types of fabric may develop mold. If your wedding dress looks to be in bad condition, the charity will most likely have to throw it out.\n\n__3. Wash or dry clean in advance.__ This step is graciously helpful for the volunteers, especially if you’re donating your wedding dress or other items during the pandemic. According to the [CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/faq.html), the COVID-19 virus can remain on surfaces and certain fabrics for a couple of days. You can also use a disinfectant spray on non-washable items. \n\n__4. Double-check items before packing.__ Ensure you haven’t accidentally packed items you planned to keep. Always check the pockets for small personal items, such as wallets and money. \n\n__5. Organize your donations.__ This step is also helpful for volunteers at the charities and shops, who may have an overwhelming amount of items to sort through. You can assemble items by type and size, label your boxes or containers by season, and fold the clothing to ensure proper packing.\n\n![Best practices to prepare items for donation](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5xdwJ5IL2X7zJQNoA4bZV/2588209b19f8f786524c4ea835be09e7/best-practices-to-prepare-items-for-donation.jpg)\n\nIn addition to donating your wedding dress, take the concept of giving a step further by planning a charitable wedding! Have your [wedding ceremony](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-ceremony-programs) at a nonprofit venue and spread the word about charities on your [invites](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/paper). You can also find [vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors) who support a good cause. Visit our [expert advice](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice) pages for more creative ideas and wedding inspiration.","tag":"How-To ","updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:52:58.190Z"}],"name":"Wedding dresses","slug":"wedding-dresses","description":"From dress style and silhouette guides to stunning inspiration to money saving tips and tricks we help you find the perfect wedding dress for you, your wedding party and guests! Find everything you need to know about wedding dresses of every style and shape!"},{"featuredArticles":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Shoes & accessories","slug":"shoes-accessories"},"slug":"should-the-groom-wear-a-tie-or-bow-tie-for-their-wedding","title":"Should the Groom Wear a Tie or Bow Tie for Their Wedding?","excerpt":"The style of a groom’s suit will help determine whether a bow tie or tie should be worn on their wedding day. ","author":"Laura Hensley","publishedAt":"2020-12-28T16:41:04.964Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6R74fvnnamtZnB9bDYqX3B/18c013868430462f5b11eceafa771fdc/Hero_RomanticBlack-TieWeddingatBrooklynBotanicGarden_NSTPictures.jpg","altText":"Should the Groom Wear a Tie or Bow Tie"},"heroCredit":"NST Pictures","tldr":"## The First Look ✨\n\n- If you’re wearing a tuxedo, bow ties are the norm. For other [wedding suit styles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-different-wedding-suit-styles), either a bow tie or a tie can work\n- Coordinate with members of the wedding party. It looks odd if half the groomsmen are wearing bow ties and the others sport ties \n- There are different styles of bow ties and ties. Know which one is right for you. Use your bow tie or tie to show off your personality. \n","body":"While a tie or bow tie may seem like an inconsequential choice, the right neckwear really can make or break a wedding guest look. Read on to find out if you should pair your formalwear with a bow tie or regular tie on your wedding day.\n\n## What Are You Wearing? \n\nIf you’re wearing a [tuxedo](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_jacket), a bow tie is the way to go. A [bow tie](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_tuxedo_shirt) tux is considered one of the most dapper and formal wedding outfits for grooms—and is the proper dress code for a black tie wedding, black tie optional, or black-tie event. That’s not to say a necktie can’t be worn with a tuxedo, though. If your wedding is semi-formal and you’re wearing a tux, it’s perfectly acceptable to wear a traditional tie instead. It really all comes down to the formality—and [venue](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/planning-101/venues)—of your big day.\n\nSuits, on the other hand, allow for more flexibility. Traditionally, suits are worn with ties, but many grooms these days opt for bow ties. A bow tie with a suit jacket (or even just a dress shirt!) can dress a suit up or down. For example, a laid-back groom getting hitched at a __[rustic venue](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue)__ may opt for a trendy paisley bow tie with a __[light gray suit](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_textured_gray_suit_jacket)__. A groom saying “I do” at a formal venue may wear a three-piece navy suit with a maroon bow tie. Both outfits feature bow ties, but are very different looks.\n\nA tie can also dramatically affect the aesthetic of a groom’s outfit. Patterned ties can make a suit more formal or casual, depending on the print, just as lighter colors are best for __[spring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue)__/summer weddings and darker colors suit __[fall](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue)__/winter events. If your wedding venue and style are more laid-back, you can even take off your necktie after the ceremony.\n\nAnd if you want your outfit, as the groom, to stand out, consider groomsmen ties in a different color or pattern for your attendants. Or, you can wear a wedding bow tie with your groom's suit and accessorize your groomsmen with traditional neckties. \n\n## What Are Members of the Wedding Party Wearing? \n\nRegardless of whether you [choose to wear a tie](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-tie-for-groomsmen) or a bow tie, your groomsmen should coordinate with one another. Even if you aren’t sporting matching tuxedos or suits, you should be on the same page about neckwear. It can look very odd having a couple of members of the wedding party wearing a casual floral skinny tie, while others don a satin black bow tie. The exception to this rule? It’s okay for the groom to wear a bow tie while groomsmen wear ties. The groom is expected to stand out. And it's also ok for the ring bearer to wear something a little different, too - a bow tie in the same color as the groomsmen ties can be a very cute option.\n\n![Should the Groom Wear a Tie](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/45Ptx453nC3t4mG8wquXTz/b662d81ec74c03ee6ac4a2e85fdd25ff/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Different Types of Bow Ties and Ties \n\nColor, texture, fabric, and patterns all set neckwear apart and allow for personalization. For example, do you want your neckwear to be a neutral hue or make a colorful statement? Do you prefer a satin bow tie, or a silk bow tie? There are plenty of different tie styles and designs of both bow ties and neckties. Here are some of the most popular options:\n\n### Bow Ties\n\n#### Self-tie\nAs the name suggests, a self-tie bow tie is one that requires you to actually tie it yourself. If you’ve never tied a bow tie before, practice before your wedding day, so you nail the look. It can be challenging at first. \n\n#### Pre-tied\nPre-tied bow ties come with the knot sewn in place. This means you don’t have to worry about tying the bow tie yourself, but you do have to secure it around your shirt collar. Pre-tied bow ties are attached to an adjustable band. \n\n#### Clip-on\nThe easiest option out of all bow ties, a clip-on bow tie is ready to wear right away. It clips directly onto the collar of your shirt. While convenient, clip-on bow ties are often easy to spot, making them the most appropriate for children and not the most desirable option for grooms. \n\n### Ties\nTies come in a variety of fabrics, colors, and styles. Solid colors are classic choices for grooms, as they easily complement suits and dress shirts. There are many ways to tie a tie, but here are some of the popular styles. \n\n#### Windsor\nA Windsor knot, also called the “Full Windsor,” is a popular way to tie a tie and creates a fuller, sophisticated look. It’s one of the most common and classic knots, because it’s worn in both formal and semi-formal environments - so it's a great option for a [black tie wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding). It’s a timeless symmetrical style that looks fantastic with dress shirts and suit jackets.\n\n#### Half-Windsor\nA Half-Windsor knot is slightly smaller than the Windsor knot and is medium in size. Like the Windsor, this knot is very popular for its versatility. For grooms who want a formal or semi-formal look, consider a Half-Windsor knot—especially if your tie is made of a thicker fabric. \n\n#### Four-in-Hand\nThis knot is suitable for many occasions—except for the most formal. A four-in-hand knot is one of the easiest ways to tie a tie, which is why it’s so popular. It’s a slightly asymmetrical knot, and it’s best for casual button-down dress shirts. This knot is ideal if your tie is a heavier fabric.\n\n![Should the Groom Wear a Tie](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5gKc3G4PJkZWD3zrUYQfPx/e6a5e2ca0d5a53d09f55319a987e4a49/inline_unsplash.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## How to Tie a Bow Tie?\n\n### 1. Hang the bow tie flat around your neck, pulling one side about 1.5 inches longer than the other. The longer end should be on your right side.\n\n### 2. Cross the longer end of the bow tie over the shorter end. Bring the longer end underneath the shorter one, then out from the center. \n\n### 3. Fold the shorter end of the bow tie horizontally.\n\n### 4. Place the longer end over the shorter end. \n\n### 5. Fold the longer end of the bow tie horizontally.\n\n### 6. Insert the longer end through the loop at the back of the shorter end, creating a loose knot.\n\n### 7. Pull both ends gently to tighten the knot.\n\n### 8. Adjust as needed!\n\n## Bow Ties and Ties Can Show Off Personality \n\nLike any wedding accessory for grooms, bow ties and ties are a chance to add a hint of dapper flair to your formalwear. Some grooms like to wear a solid color suit with a polka dot bow tie, while others will match their tie to their wedding’s __[floral arrangements](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/decor-inspiration/flowers)__. It’s also fun to match your accessories with your __[wedding colors](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/decor-inspiration/wedding-colors)__. Another way to get creative is by matching your bow tie or tie to your socks or shoes, which can really help ground an outfit. \n\n## Other Accessories to Elevate Your Attire\nAccessories can instantly elevate and add personality to a tried-and-true suit look. If you're the groom, consider gifting your groomsmen one (or more!) of these accessories as a day-of wedding gift, thanking them for being part of your big day. \n\n### Cufflinks\nCufflinks serve a practical purpose as well as an aesthetic one - they'll make sure your shirt cuffs stay neatly fastened. Choose a pair that are engraved with your initials or your wedding date, or shop for a novelty pair of cufflinks in a creative shape (maybe something that nods to your pet or a hobby!).\n\n### Suspenders\nWhile your tuxedo should fit you well enough that you don't need a belt, suspenders can help keep your pants up - and are a must for a [black tie wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-dress-for-a-black-tie-formal-wedding).\n\n### Pocket Squares\nPocket squares can work with casual wedding guest looks and groomsmen suits alike. If you're a guest at an upcoming wedding, you can wear a patterned pocket square in your suit jacket in place of a tie. Or, if you're the groom or one of the groomsmen, a pocket square can take the place of a boutonniere. Choose one in a color or pattern that reflects your personality to add a little bit of pizzazz to any formalwear look.\n\n### Cummerbund\nIf your wedding reception is going to be a very formal [white tie](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-white-tie-wedding-attire) or black tie affair, you'll likely need a cummerbund to wear with your tuxedo. The functional purpose of a cummerbund is to cover the waistband and any awkward shirt bunching—keeping you photo-ready all night long. \n\n### Patterned Socks\nOne of the easiest ways to add personality to a suit and tie outfit is with a fun pair of socks. They'll only be noticeable when you sit down, so let a little bit of your personality come through with a quirky pattern or vibrant color. \n\n## Bottom Line\n\nAt the end of the day, the decision to wear a bow tie or tie as a groom at your wedding is up to you. Consider your [wedding style](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/decor-inspiration/wedding-style), your wedding venue, and what type of neckwear best matches your suit. It may seem like a small accessory, but it can really make or break a look. 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That is the question we will help you answer today.","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2020-12-16T19:06:48.931Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ZAK5ZspwGGI6kL3uVpfRc/24f3db618a0df13de4b99a6c0f5dbc7a/Hero_RomanticIndustrialWeddingat26Bridge_OnthetimesPhotography.jpg","altText":"wedding dress with a train"},"heroCredit":"Onthetimes Photography","body":"Some brides envision the wedding dress train before having any idea of what the rest of the dress will look like, while others have no concept of what a train is in the first place. A train is the extra fabric attached to the back of the dress that extends behind the bride as she walks. It can exude feelings of majesty and grandeur and make a bride feel like a bride, but depending on the style, it can also be easily damaged, difficult to move in, and expensive.\n\nIt’s important to consider what you want in a wedding dress and to determine whether or not you want a wedding dress train before you shop for your gown. To help you make your decision, we have outlined both the pros and the cons of a wedding dress train, as well as a few alternative options. Then, you can move on to selecting the type of train you’d like and the proper bustle to go with it. This is just the beginning of an endless series of small choices you’ll make while planning your wedding. \n\n## Pros of a Wedding Dress Train\n\n### The Dramatic Effect\nA common phrase you may hear (or say yourself) when wedding dress shopping or when watching a marathon of *Say Yes To The Dress* is “It’s a beautiful dress, but it doesn’t feel bridal.” This comment or some variation of the sort is typically due to the lack of drama or necessary *je ne sais quoi* the dress has. Sometimes, this can be solved with an embellished belt or a show-stopping veil, but almost always it can be solved with a train. A train is the epitome of “bridal.” It can turn an evening gown into a [bridal gown](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/bridal-dresses-gowns) and a beautiful dress into a wedding dress. \n\n### It Looks Great In Photos\nThe same qualities in a train that give it the ability to drop jaws and turn heads in person also apply in photos. Some of the most stunning wedding portraits we’ve seen capture our attention, because of an extravagant bridal train. \n\nThe train may extend any number of feet beyond the end of the skirt, which means it will create a dramatic, photo-worthy moment as you walk down the aisle. With the way it drapes across the floor and cascades down steps, it will draw all the attention to the one wearing it (you) both in person and in photos. If you want your wedding gown to make an impact on the pages of your wedding album, a train will accomplish it. \n\n![Train or No Train? What Are the Pros and Cons of Wedding Dress Trains?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3VNQtPiQYfT2uvrm1U46WV/046d25124faf12c3ae7cfd9dfbf220c8/inline_Grizzle_Photography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Grizzle Photography\n\n### There Are Plenty of Options to Choose From\nJust because you say “yes” to a dress with a train, doesn’t mean you’re committing to a lengthy, heavy, and unmanageable train. There are [wedding dress train types](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-different-types-of-wedding-dress-trains) of every shape and size to choose from, from understated styles that just sweep the floor to regal lengths that trail the bride by ten feet. \n\nChoosing a particular style dress doesn’t inhibit your ability to have a train and vice versa. Long trains can be shortened during alterations or even added. When you try on gowns, talk to your bridal consultant about how each style dress and its train can be converted, so you can find the right combination to match your preferences. \n\n## Cons of a Wedding Dress Train\n\n### The Potential for Damage\nUnfortunately, wedding dress trains aren’t all sunshine and roses. Considering they do drag along the floor, they can easily be damaged. From wedding guests (or even the groom) stepping on the hem, to mud, rocks, and twigs getting caught in the netting, there are plenty of threats a wedding dress train will encounter. \n\nWhile damage can occur to your dress at any given time, the probability of your gown’s train becoming stained or snagged is increased at an outdoor wedding. If you’re saying “I do” outdoors and are concerned about maintaining the quality of your wedding dress after the wedding day, you may want to forgo wearing a dress with a long train. And even though your gown’s train may be safe from the natural elements at an indoor wedding, it will still need to be bustled to prevent a shoe or two from going through it on the dance floor.\n\n### The Weight\nIt should come as no surprise that adding a lot of extra fabric to the skirt of a dress adds a lot of weight to it as well. The longer the train, the heavier it will be. If you select a lightweight style made of tulle or lace fabric, you may not notice a few extra pounds, but heavier fabrics and embellished styles will become heavy quickly. \n\nYou will be on your feet most of your wedding day and need to have the strength to not only stand throughout the ceremony, but also to carry your dress around with you all night. If it feels heavy at the bridal salon, try and picture wearing it for twelve-plus hours. By simply shortening the train length or selecting a dress without one, you can save yourself from fatigue on the wedding day and soreness thereafter.\n\n![Train or No Train? What Are the Pros and Cons of Wedding Dress Trains?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/47qKzgPqitKKZ0OQCTbn2i/6497512be7028dfc8947f6e4acab2d11/inline_OLLI_STUDIO.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // OLLI STUDIO\n\n### The Ability (or Lack Thereof) to Move\nAs we’ve expressed, moving around with a train behind you is no easy feat given the weight of it and the impending threats. Even if you opt for a shorter train, someone can easily step on it, or you could easily trip over it. A train requires assistance from your bridesmaids and eventually a bustle in order to navigate the day from the moment you dress to the moment you climb into the back of the getaway car. While you can likely manage the walk down the aisle without faltering, and the bridal train can look its best during the ceremony with a fluff from your MOH, the reception is a whole other story. Dancing, mingling, and making trips to and from the Champagne tower will be far more difficult with a train slowing you down. If you can bustle your dress before the reception you’ll be able to move through the evening with ease. \n\n### The Cost of Adding a Bustle \nWhile a bustle is all but compulsory, it does come at a cost. Unbeknownst to most, most wedding dresses don’t come with bustles so they need to be added during the alterations process. Elaborate bustles can put a dent in your alterations budget or blow it up completely. While a simple A-line gown and chapel-length train may only require a few loops, dresses with intricate beading, atypical seams, and extremely long trains will be expensive to bustle—and more difficult, too. \n\n## Wedding Dress Train Alternatives\nIf a train is beginning to sound like a lot of work, but the dramatic look of it is important to you, there are other options that can give you the best of both worlds. With all of the pros and none of the cons, these wedding dress train alternatives are easy to say “yes” to:\n\n### A Detachable Train\nA detachable train is a great alternative to a wedding dress with a traditional train for a variety of reasons, the most appealing of which is that you can easily remove it after the ceremony. A [detachable wedding train](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-do-you-attach-a-train-to-a-wedding-dress) allows you the drama of a train for the walk down the aisle. but the comfort of a shorter hemline for the dance floor. Detachable trains come in more than one style, too. Skirts and Watteaus, where the train hooks to the shoulders or upper back of the dress, and capes are all varieties of detachable trains that can give you the same or similar look to a traditional attached train. \n\n### A Longer Veil\nIf you want to wear a veil anyway, why not choose one with an extravagant length that makes up for what the dress lacks in train? A veil can provide the same spectacle as a train of similar length. Whether you opt to forgo a train because of budget or comfort, a veil has your back. \n\n### A Second Dress\nYour wedding dress should be everything you dreamed of and more—and if that means all your dreams can’t be met in one dress, wear a second one. A second dress can be chosen to meet all the stylistic qualities you’re looking for, but it can also be key in combating the cons of a train. Short and spicy, or floor-length and fun, there are plenty of reception-ready dresses to choose from. \n\nDid we help you make up your mind? Consider your wedding venue, style, and desired-comfort-level when deciding whether or not to have a wedding dress train. Nothing will compare to how you actually feel in the right wedding dress, so try them on, train and all, in order to find The One. \n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:53:51.406Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Shoes & accessories","slug":"shoes-accessories"},"slug":"how-to-choose-bridesmaid-jewelry","title":"How to Choose Bridesmaid Jewelry","excerpt":"Not sure what jewelry your bridesmaids should wear on your big day? Check out our favorite jewelry pieces that will make your wedding party stand out. Read on for details. \n","author":"Monica Mercuri","publishedAt":"2021-01-04T16:24:20.434Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1XVpi3JbIz9XTiXYUxjJVi/5845a6d345a062b500f628df43e9d6ff/Hero_ClassicallyElegantCharlotteWedding_CritseyRowePhotography.jpg","altText":"Bridesmaid Jewelry"},"heroCredit":"Critsey Rowe Photography","tldr":"## The First Look ✨ \n\n- The first step in selecting your bridesmaid jewelry is to match the color of your bridesmaid dresses to complementary metal colors (think rose gold for pink or blue for silver). \n- If you know how you want your bridesmaids to wear their hair and/or the necklines of their dresses, use that to select the style of your bridesmaid jewelry.\n- You can let your bridesmaids pick their own accessories to reflect their styles, or gift them the jewelry that you’d like them to wear. \n","body":"Once you’ve asked your bridesmaids to be a part of your wedding, the next step is to figure out the look that your party will rock on the big day. Are you thinking flashy and formal, or understated and elegant? Whatever the season, the venue, or the couple’s personal style, a wedding party look will help pull the whole aesthetic of the event together. If you’re wondering what bridesmaid jewelry you should select, we’ve broken down the top trends in wedding jewelry we’re breaking it all day so that you can say “yes” to the perfect sparkle and shine. \n\n## Match Your Metals and Gems \nA good rule when selecting jewelry is to match your metal colors to your bridesmaid dress colors. For example, [gold](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-jewelry?color=YELLOW) or [rose gold](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-jewelry?color=PINK) would look stunning with a pink dress, whereas sterling [silver or white gold](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-jewelry?color=GREY) would pop against a yellow or blue dress. As for colored stones for jewelry, bridesmaid accessories are a great way to incorporate other wedding colors into your wedding party ensemble. Consider a [simple pendant](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/auroralux_little_drop_of_magic_necklace_rosegold) or [drop earrings](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/winkofpinkshop_harlow_teardrop_wedding_earrings) in one of your more neutral wedding hues to pull together a cohesive look. \n\n![Zola: How to Choose Bridesmaid Jewelry](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/44mtXgcXSkHE7GL0uoaFKP/bdad4f5c38c93cdf8e6b8494b737d2c8/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### Match the Bride\nIf you’re scratching your head over what accessories your bridesmaids should wear, consider what the bride is wearing as a solid jumping-off point. If she’s rocking [crystal earrings](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/auroralux_bloom_crystal_earrings) or a [pearl necklace](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/jilco_pearl_and_diamond_necklace_sterlingsilverwithyellowgoldoverlay), carry that over to your bridesmaid’s accessories. While you don’t want to have your bridesmaids match the bride exactly, pulling elements from her jewelry—like having the ‘maids rock [pearl pendants](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/auroralux_pearl_dangle_necklace) or a [crystal hair clip](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/usabride_portia_crystal_hair_clip_gold)—is an elegant way to form a cohesive look. \n\n### Compliment the Neckline and Hairstyles \nOnce you have your metals and gemstones selected, deciding the style and assortment of accessories is next. You want to make sure that the pieces complement your bridesmaids’ looks, as opposed to taking away from the vibe. Consider how you’d like your bridesmaids to wear their hair (if you have a preference, otherwise they’ll be happy to decide on their own) and/or the neckline of their dresses. [Dangle earrings](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=Dangle%2520earrings) are great for updos, whereas [studs](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=stud%2520earrings) are great for looks where hair will be worn down. One shoulder, halter, and illusion necklines don’t need necklaces (so opt for a [flashier pair of earrings](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/usabride_leia_crystal_drop_earrings_gold) or a [bracelet](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/usabride_ariana_opal_crystal_bracelet)), whereas strapless, sweetheart, and v-neck dresses create a lovely focal point for a necklace, whether it’s [showstopping](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/sorrelli_laurel_necklace) or [simple](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/kozakh_divya_necklace). \n\n### Keep It Simple\nWhile selecting accessories for your wedding party is fun, keep in mind that a few simple pieces will go further than a whole bunch of flashy in-your-face options. If you’re asking your bridesmaids to supply their own accessories, be conscious of the budget. Your pals won’t be excited to shell out money on new shoes, necklaces, and hairpieces in addition to their dresses and day-of glam. Even if you’re supplying the jewelry, opt for one or two focal pieces and keep the rest simple. A good rule of thumb is that if you have a [chunky necklace](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/sorrelli_posey_statement_necklace), opt for [simple earrings](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/sorrelli_round_crystal_stud_earring_sorrelli_essentials_darkchampagne) and visa versa. \n\n*As for how you’ll go about securing the bridesmaid jewelry and wedding party accessories, there are three major options that couples usually opt for:*\n\n![Zola: How to Choose Bridesmaid Jewelry](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1UawBuT9yhmSAghFyjGo53/5b9a6213cd45e187e3b61ab94716132c/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n### Let Them Decide for Themselves \nIf you’re outfitting your bridesmaids in matching dresses, allowing your bridesmaids to pick their own accessories is a great way to let their individual personalities shine. While it might be a good idea to ask them to send pictures to either the bride or the maid of honor to avoid surprises, this is a fun way to let your bridesmaids get creative with their looks and potentially keep costs at bay (if they already have something that they can repurpose for the wedding). This option is also great if you’ve settled on a fabric, but are letting them pick their own necklines. Since some necklines look better with necklaces or earrings than others, this will allow them to accessorize properly for their individual looks. \n\n### Give Them Guidelines\nIf you’re letting your bridesmaids pick their own jewelry, but still want an overall cohesive look, give them guidelines to stick to so that you don’t run into any surprises. Maybe you want to stick with [pearls](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=pearl%2520jewelry) or [yellow gold jewelry](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-jewelry?color=YELLOW), or perhaps you’d like everyone to wear [drop earrings](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=drop%2520earrings) with their hair up. Giving your bridesmaids an idea of what you’re thinking and what guidelines to stick to will not only make their choices easier, but it will ensure that no one feels accidentally out of place on the big day. \n\n### Gift Them the Jewelry\nAsking your bridesmaids to buy new accessories can be tricky, especially if they’re on tight budgets or already shelled out a lot of money for things such as bridesmaid dresses and day-of glam. If you have the means (and you’re really set on them wearing matching jewelry), consider gifting them a bridesmaid jewelry set that you’d like them to wear. A [pendant necklace with their initials](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/katespadejewelry_rose_gold_intial_pendant_a) or some [drop earrings](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=drop%2520earrings) can serve as a great bridesmaid gift, and will also ensure that everyone looks uniform on your wedding day. \n","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Seasons_Quiz"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Not quite sure who should be paying for the bridesmaid's dresses at your wedding? Read our guide to our expert advice.","title":"Who Pays for Bridesmaid’s Dresses? ","slug":"who-pays-for-bridesmaids-dresses","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Advice","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/13ZKNhp1wk9ozS31qOiyAH/1820e2294348f0818c2dea1b8a1eb251/Hero_BohoDesertWeddingatTroonNorthGolfClub_DrewBrashlerPhotography.jpg","altText":"Who Pays for Bridesmaid’s Dresses"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Don’t know how to pick bridesmaid dresses? We can help. 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","author":"Kathleen Wong","publishedAt":"2024-08-13T10:00-04:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6kKYuHOeeUvE5sqbavfpLI/a5b85a5d99beac71432d942beadfd696/katelyn-macmillan-5VhSc5jCA2g-unsplash.jpg","altText":"groom with bridesmaids in different dresses"},"heroCredit":"Katelyn Macmillan","tldr":"__Inside this article:__ \n- Why let your bridesmaids choose their own dress?\n- What could go wrong?\n- Guidelines to letting bridemaids pick a dress","body":"__TLDR:__\n- Letting bridesmaids pick their own dresses may seem risky, but it can give them confidence as they end up with a gown they love.\n- Be specific with any guidelines you have, such as if you have a specific color in mind or want a floor length dress.\n- Also, let them know what type of shoes and accessories you'd like your bridal party to wear on your big day.\n\n## Letting bridesmaids pick their own dresses\n\nYou whittled down your social circle into the __[perfect wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one)__ and now it’s time to decide what everyone’s going to wear. While it’s not necessary for the wedding party to wear matching outfits, many couples like to achieve a cohesive look. \n\nTraditionally, bridesmaids wear the same dress or outfit in the chosen wedding color. This helps the bride stand out in her [wedding dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/classic-wedding-dresses-for-the-traditional-bride), makes for visually cohesive photos, and also helps other wedding guests identify the members of the wedding party. \n\nHowever, many couples are loosening the reins and letting __[attendants choose dresses](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop)__ that reflect their individual maid of honor or bridesmaid style. With so much to plan for the wedding day, it may not be necessary to maintain control over everything. Mismatching dresses are one of the best ways to help your bridesmaids feel comfortable. They'll also have more freedom to select a dress that reflects their own style and flatters their body type. \n\nIf you're worried about letting go of control when it comes to mix and match bridesmaid dresses for your big day, don't worry. Or perhaps you just don't care and are willing to give free rein. From choosing bridesmaid dress colors to creating cohesive bridesmaid looks, here’s some wedding inspiration and insights to help you achieve a look that works for your wedding style and for your bridesmaids. \n\n## Why would I let my bridesmaids choose their own dresses?\n \nWe get it: It’s your wedding and it can feel easier to maintain control and just put your girls in the same bridesmaid dress style. However, there are some pluses to giving your attendants this freedom and not having them wear matching bridesmaid dresses.\n\n- __Comfort.__ Anyone who’s ever been a bridesmaid (or dress shopped for that matter) understands that being assigned a specific dress isn’t ideal. What works for one body doesn’t necessarily work for another and the potential resulting discomfort of a unified bridal party look can leave your bridesmaids feeling meh. If they can choose their own dresses, they can seek out different styles, necklines, and cuts that flatter their figures.\n- __Confidence.__ In that same vein, when you look good, you feel good. Let your bridesmaids [choose dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-pick-bridesmaid-dresses) they love (or at least feel comfortable in) and they’ll radiate confidence, not discomfort on your wedding day.\n- __Price.__ Money is often one of the biggest pain points for bridal parties. It’s [expensive to be a bridesmaid](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-bridesmaid-duties)! You don’t have to worry about settling on a price point that fits into everyone’s budget (or feeling guilty for choosing expensive dresses) if you let your bridesmaids choose their own dresses.\n\n![Zola - Mismatched Bridesmaids Dresses: How to Pull Off the Look](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/47xZofgiF7kwAgCW841P3u/2945a2669ac319627e743bc40307f78d/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg)\n\n## Could skipping a specific dress go a little off the rails?\n \nDefinitely. Offering your bridesmaids free rein to select their outfits for your wedding is nerve-wracking. You don’t want to end up with an entirely mismatched situation (unless you do!). There are some cons to letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses.\n- __Cohesion.__ Obviously, if you let your bridesmaids choose their own dresses, they'll probably all pick different styles…and maybe even different colors. If you really want a traditionally cohesive look, maybe reconsider this route.\n- __Confusion.__ Too much of anything isn’t great—the same is true for bridal party freedom. Without any guidelines at all, you may find yourself answering a lot of texts about what’s OK and what’s not—from materials to color to price to length and more.\n\n## Guidelines for letting bridesmaids choose their own dresses\n \nMake the dress hunt easy for your bridesmaids and yourself by being clear about what you really do and don’t want. That way, every one from your maid of honor to junior bridesmaids can feel good in a dress that suits their body type.\n\n### 1. Do: Be specific.\nSure, you told your girls you wanted everyone in pastel green. Great! No, not great. When we say be specific, we mean be specific. If you have a look in mind, be clear about that. Here are some details you may want to be extra clear about:\n\n- __Dress color.__ If you have a dress color in mind, that’s great. However, what looks mauve to one person may be more pale violet to another. Picking a single color can make it difficult for bridesmaids to find dresses in the exact same shade from different vendors. Consider putting together a color palette of 3-4 complementary colors for your [bridesmaids to choose](https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingplanning/comments/pujak6/letting_bridesmaids_pick_dress_style/) from. or offer up a few vendors you’d like for them to order from.\n\n- __Length.__ Some brides don’t mind a variety of hemlines—floor-length, knee-length, mini, midi, etc. If you want all of your bridesmaids in the same length dress, let them know. Alternatively, if you really don’t mind different lengths, let them know that, too.\n\n- __Material.__ Satin, chiffon, charmeuse, crepe, taffeta—the world of dress materials is vast. If all of your bridesmaids are wearing the same exact color, dresses in different materials can be a nice way to add some dimension to the look. However, too many materials can also be a bit distracting. If you don’t want anyone in a jersey knit, make that clear.\n\n- __Style.__ By this, we mean the level of formality. If you’re having a black-tie wedding, you may not want your bridesmaids in semi-formal dresses. Be sure to outline the dress code clearly.\n\nClarity is key. Before you tell your bridesmaids they can choose their own dresses, come prepared with your own suggestions and requirements.\n\n### 2. Don’t: Forget about cost.\nWe like the idea that letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses may remove some of the financial strain. We also like the idea of a bride providing a shortlist (3-5) of dress vendors for the bridal party to choose from. If you go this route, consider selecting different styles you love in a variety of price ranges. Be considerate of your party’s financial situations—and be open to discussing it with any bridesmaid who may be in a tough spot.\n\n![Mismatched Bridesmaid Dresses Yellow](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2hmZIQ3ztPJpdpQndGPd87/bf0699bd01b2345d51b6221c07bbaa1a/Mismatched_Bridesmaid_Dresses_Yellow.jpg)\nPhoto by [Emma Lee Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/emma-lee-photography)\n\n### 3. Do: Make it a group activity.\nYou made a day out of wedding dress shopping…so why not make one out of bridesmaid dress shopping? Go to brunch and then hit the stores. Keep it simple and have a couple of boutiques picked out for the shopping expedition. Note: This may involve making appointments ahead of time. This way, your bridesmaids can choose a variety of dresses and you can be there in person to share immediate impressions. Not only is this just a fun wedding party activity, but it also helps busier bridesmaids find time to shop and nudges along any that err on the side of procrastination.\n\nIf your bridesmaids don’t live in the same area or can’t make the shopping day, that’s OK. Consider scheduling a Facetime with them as they shop. You can also create a dedicated group chat (if you haven’t already) to dress shopping.\n\n### 4. Don’t: Get complicated.\nAbove all, letting your bridesmaids choose their own dresses shouldn’t be too complicated or stressful. In fact, it should potentially make things a little easier for you. These girls are your bridesmaids for a reason—and they want to make your wedding day go smoothly. Trust that they’ve got this under control and really, truly, let them take the reins on this one. (Don’t forget to __[thank them for their hard work](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/top-10-ways-to-thank-your-bridesmaids)__ in the planning process, either.)\n\nWho knows, they might even pick a dress they like so much, they’ll wear it again. Isn’t that the best-case scenario for any bridesmaid dress?\n\n### 5. Do: A final check-in.\nThere are the hair and makeup trials, the catering and cake tastings, and, of course, the bridesmaid dress check-in. It’s always a good idea to get on the same page after they've dress shopped and before anything is finalized. Make sure your bridesmaids run their final dress choices by you before they purchase. This way you can see if it fits into your ultimate vision or theme—and you eliminate any surprises and last-minute stress.\n\nGive your bridesmaids an absolute deadline for their final dress check-in. It sounds like a bridezilla move, but, trust us, it benefits them, too. You want everyone to have ample time to either find a new dress or get any necessary alterations. We recommend scheduling your check-in for about seven months ahead of the wedding. Therefore, let bridesmaids pick their own dresses well in advance.\n\n### 6. Don’t: Disregard shoes and accessories.\nBridesmaid attire doesn’t end with the dress. Accessories are everything, especially if you’re going for a mismatched bridesmaid dress look. Choosing a pair of shoes or a specific shoe style and color is an easy way to bring a cohesive look to your bridal party. \n\nIf you don’t have a shoe in mind, be sure to be clear about style. This way you avoid one girl in heels and another in flats. (If one of your bridesmaids needs to wear flats for a personal reason, though, we recommend hearing her out on that, of course.) Alternatively, you may want your bridal party in flats or sneakers. Again, just make sure you’re aligned.\n\nSimilarly, let your bridesmaids know what jewelry you do or don’t want them to wear. Traditionally, brides will purchase and then gift the jewelry they want their bridesmaids to wear. If you want to let them choose their own, that’s cool, too. Be sure, as always, to be clear about style.\n\nAnd don't forget about florals! Bridesmaid bouquets are an accessory in their own right, and will add cohesion to the look of your wedding party. Make sure that whatever flowers you're ordering will complement the bridesmaids' dresses. \n\n![Mismatched Christmas Bridesmaid Winter Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/lGiH566fp4nPH7kj6E8Dt/f3c59ea510b079cf8dbe3584bfa84354/Mismatched_Christmas_Bridesmaid_Winter_Dresses.jpg)\nPhoto by [Bokeh Love Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/bokeh-love-photography-llc)\n\n## 5 Mismatched bridesmaid dress ideas\n \nReady to get down to specifics? Here are some of the approaches you can take when building a mismatched bridal party look.\n\n### 1. Same color, different dress styles\nThis is one of the most straightforward approaches when it comes to choosing different bridesmaid dresses. You have them wearing the same exact color, like dusty blue or burnt orange, and ask your bridesmaids to find whatever dress they want in the chosen color. Add some cohesion to these different styles by giving them certain guidelines—for example, maybe you want them all to wear a maxi dress, or wear dresses that are in the same fabric. \n\n### 2. Same color, different neckline\nIf you're going to be strict about the color and style of the dress, you can give your bridesmaids some flexibility by letting them choose their own neckline. This is one of the best ways to accommodate different body types, as each girl can wear whatever cut she feels comfortable in. For example, maybe your maid of honor has a larger chest and would prefer a dress with straps—while another bridesmaid might love strapless styles.\n\n### 3. Same color, different textures\nTexture is a great way to create visual interest among your different bridesmaid dresses. For example, let's say you're having a [fall wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-look-in-fall-bridesmaid-dresses) and have asked your bridesmaids to wear burnt orange. Maybe one finds a satin dress she loves in the burnt orange shade, while another is drawn to a velvet style. Assign a texture to each maid that not only lets them show off their own personal style, but works well with the textures of the other dresses.\n\n### 4. Different shades of the same color palette\nIf you don't have a specific color in mind, keep it broad and ask bridesmaids to stick to a specific color scheme. For example, you might let your wedding party know to look for shades of green bridesmaid dresses (like sage and forest) or pink bridesmaid dresses (like dusty pink and fuschia). Ideally, this will create a sort of tonal, ombre-inspired look that's perfect for boho weddings.\n\n### 5. Different colors\nIf you want to make a bold statement with your bridal party, get creative by pairing different colors. You can choose a color family, like warm tones or cool tones, or choose a color scheme that reflects the season—for example, jewel tones for a moody winter wedding or pastel shades for a springtime celebration.\n\n![Letting Bridesmaids Pick Their Own Dress](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/0Auo6BBWFwwKMNbZmrGzA/dc4efb283015a188fd07e140c1a3da34/Letting_Bridesmaids_Pick_Their_Own_Dress.jpg)\nPhoto by [Anna So Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/anna-so-photography)\n\n## Thinking beyond the dresses\nEven if you're letting the [bridesmaids choose](https://www.quora.com/Will-you-choose-bridesmaid-dresses-for-your-bridesmaids-or-let-them-choose-their-own-Do-you-want-the-color-to-be-the-same-or-different) their own dress, you still have a lot on your plate while planning your special day. And Zola is here to help every step along the way. \n\nFrom [getting engaged](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/to-dos-after-you-get-engaged) and [announcing the big news](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-announce-your-engagement) to [selecting wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-invitations-paper-guide), we are here 24/7 with expert advice just waiting for you to learn. Happy planning!","tag":"Inspiration","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Pick out a thoughtful gift for the squad that shows up for you on your big day. 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Read our full, comprehensive guide on the most appropriate men’s attire that will make you look like you just stepped off the red carpet.","author":"Jennifer Prince","publishedAt":"2020-12-28T17:16:07.930Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ib0hKIbbrVyFqK5kVrTba/419da62e0242fd57217d6ce823673ba4/Hero_Modern_Multi-CulturalWeddingat5226Elm_PaigeNewton.jpg","altText":"How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding"},"heroCredit":"Paige Newton","body":"Whether it’s the Golden Globes or the Grammys, many of us—male and female—watch for the styles. The fashion chatter usually centers around the ladies; however, there is something to be said for a guy who can successfully achieve a red carpet look. So, take your cues from award show fashion to gain inspiration for __[what to wear to a black-tie wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding)__, and forget about any casual attire.\n\nAlthough some guys go off-script and wear colorful and downright outlandish looks, it’s best to stick to the formal dress code rules and formal attire when attending a black-tie wedding. After all, not many can pull off the fashions that Lil Nas X wears at the Grammys. Actually, for most occasions, formal wedding outfits require black-tie attire, which means a tuxedo. A black tie outfit is the height of style, and, consequently, it’s an effortless look to sport. We’ll tell you how with our guide to __[dressing in your black-tie best](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-dress-for-a-black-tie-formal-wedding)__ for an evening wedding.\n\n![How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5xWzi6cRFkonwgW4riVJT5/e43866ef6817ca410e1a3e0da8e0850c/inline_unsplash.jpg)\n*Photo Credit //* Unsplash\n\n### Black Tie Dress Code Explained\nFirst things first—before we jump into how to dress for a black tie wedding, let's quickly cover where, exactly, the black-tie dress tie comes from.\n\nBlack tie is a semi-formal dress code that dates back to the 19th century. The dress code was popularized both in Britain and America. Both tuxedos and dark suits fall under the \"black tie\" umbrella—and while the dress code is semi-formal, it's generally [appropriate wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding) for more formal events.\n\n## The Perfect Pieces for a Black-Tie Wedding Look\nBlack-tie attire means that you should be wearing a black tuxedo or a dark suit (black suits, dark blue suits, and gray suits are all appropriate), but you can still let your personality shine through. With a few simple guidelines, you can put an outfit together worthy of the red carpet or wedding aisle.\n\n- __Tuxedo Jacket__ : Like the many takes on the classic cocktail dress, there are several __[styles of jackets](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_jacket)__. that work for black tie looks, like dinner jackets, tuxedo jackets, and more formal blazers. However, the common denominator in men’s black-tie suiting is the presence of satin on the lapels (whether it’s a notch lapel, peak lapel, or shawl lapel). Satin fabric also hides the buttons, which elevates the look of any black tux. Although black dress is the standard for black-tie events, darker tones of blue (like midnight blue) are acceptable. A good rule of thumb is to leave the single button closure fastened while standing, to maintain a fitted look (which can also be enhanced by a slim fit cut). \n\n- __Trousers__ : [Pants should match](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_black_tuxedo_pants) the jacket in both fabric and color. Satin goes down the outside seam on each pant leg, which serves to enhance the look. \n\n- __Crisp, Collared Shirt__ : A white shirt is the only acceptable color, but there is a little leeway with styling. Some tuxedo shirts are wing-tipped, but a [well-constructed oxford](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_tuxedo_shirt) would also suffice. Authentic tux shirts also have small pleats vertically across the chest to add interest. If you don't have an authentic tux shirt, ensure that your white dress shirt looks up to par. \n\n- __Black Shoes__ : Shiny, patent leather shoes are the norm for tuxedos, although quality black leather shoes or loafers will also do the trick. Don’t forget to wear socks. Over the calf, dark socks are ideal.\n\n- __Black Bow Tie__ : A [bow tie](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/thegroomsmansuit_classic_bow_tie) allows those tiny pleats in the shirt to have their moment in the sun. Black is the traditional color, and be sure that your necktie neckwear is solid, not patterned.\n\n- __White Pocket Square__ : Dark jackets are in stark contrast to a pure white pocket square. However, it’s incredible how a [tiny square of fabric](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/birdygrey_didi_pocket_square_dustyblue) can create a cohesive look.\n\n- __Cufflinks__ : Unless you’re wearing an oxford, most tuxedo shirts close at the wrist with [cufflinks](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/edelweissjewelry_zola_love_collection_cufflinks_14kyellowgold). particularly if you’re wearing lengthier French cuffs. Subtly is better than going crazy with color, and be sure to match your cufflinks with other metals that you’re wearing. \n\n- __Studs__ : Although you will look like a stud in a tux, that’s not quite where we’re going with this. Upon close inspection, most tuxedo shirts have studs instead of buttons. These aren’t 100 percent necessary, but they do add to the look. Also, be sure to match metals with your cufflinks and other jewelry pieces. \n\n- __Vest or Cumberbund__ : These pieces are never meant to be worn in tandem. Covering your midsection with a cummerbund or vest is posh, but not completely necessary. If you do decide to wear one, remember that this isn’t high school. Black is best, so stay away from vibrant colors meant for prom.\n\n![How Should Men Dress for a Black-Tie Wedding?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/78mHneRzRZEno1T3RJAHp0/7b5a54fa7ba993829e03dedf46a4dea2/inline_unsplash_1_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Unsplash\n\n## Where to Get a Tux for a Black-Tie Wedding\n\n### How to Rent a Tuxedo Locally\nMost guys don’t have a tux hanging in their closet, but if they do, chances are that it doesn’t get much use. That’s where rentals come in handy. Many local bridal salons and upscale men’s shops rent tuxedos to grooms and other wedding party members. So if you need a black tie outfit, chances are that they can get you one, too.\n\n#### Pros of Renting a Tux Locally\nAn advantage of heading somewhere in person is that you can ensure a perfect fit. Also, if something is wrong—a missing button or loose hem—they can order another piece or fix it on site. You can also see fabrics and styles in person, which is a huge plus. \n\n#### Cons of Renting a Tux Locally\nThe downside to renting is usually drop-off times, especially if you’re traveling and rent at your final destination. Returning your tux before an early Sunday morning flight may prove difficult.\n\n### How to Rent a Tux Online\nIt seems that you can do just about anything with the internet at your fingertips, and renting a tux is one of them. Many businesses specialize in formalwear rentals, so be sure to select a longstanding one with a good reputation.\n\n#### Pros of Renting a Tux Online\nQuite often, companies have strict measurement guidelines on their website. However, many online rental sites will send you a tuxedo to test out before the main event. They are also a bit more flexible with return times, giving up to 72 hours to ship your pieces back.\n\n#### Cons of Renting a Tux Online\nAlthough rentals usually come with quick shipping, it’s tough to solve problems right away if something arrives damaged. Unless you can do a try on ahead of time, selecting fabrics and styles from afar can prove challenging. \n\n### Where to Buy a Tuxedo\nIf you’re the exception and have quite a few black-tie events coming up, investing in a tuxedo can save money in the long run. Many men’s clothiers sell tuxedos, although purchasing online is also an option. Be sure to order it well in advance of your black-tie wedding so that you can make exchanges if necessary.\n\n## In the Case of Black-Tie Optional\nYikes! You’re all set with what black-tie is, but the invitation adds one tiny, scary word after it—optional. Don’t worry. Demystifying the terminology is easier than it sounds, but this never, ever means that jeans and your favorite band t-shirt are okay.\n\nBlack-tie optional attire for weddings is a bit more relaxed than a tuxedo. Often, couples choose this option to alleviate any financial burden for their guests. After all, the expense of traveling and buying a wedding gift is enough without having to spring for new suiting. So, seeing the word “optional” is a good thing. \n\nThink of it as mimicking a tuxedo without wearing one. Dark suiting with a crisp, white shirt and black shoes are ideal. Also, add traditional accessories, such as a pocket square, dark bow tie, and cufflinks. Skip the studs and cummerbund, but feel free to wear a vest if you have one that matches your suit.\n\nThe rule of thumb is to stick to the dress code and wear your most formal wear. If you don’t own a suit, it’s probably the time to invest in one, or you could go the tuxedo rental route.\n\n*__Quick tip:__ Black-tie optional can also be referenced as “black-tie preferred.”*\n\nSo, whether you’re headed to a black-tie wedding or are one of the fortunate ones to walk the red carpet at a black-tie event, use our guide to get it right. With a few key pieces—either borrowed or purchased—you’ll soon be looking your best at the season’s best events. Which, of course, includes weddings.\n\n## 10 Black Tie Wedding Attire Ideas for Men\nLooking for some help with black tie attire? We’ve come up with these formal wedding outfit ideas to help you nail your look.\n\n### 1. Pronto Uomo Modern Fit Tuxedo Coat\nThis black __[Pronto Uomo tuxedo coat](https://www.menswearhouse.com/p/pronto-uomo-modern-fit-suit-separates-tuxedo-coat-black-3X933X9410)__ is a sleek and elegant choice for any black tie affair. The trim and modern fit provides plenty of comfort and mobility and features a two-button design and satin notch lapel. This tuxedo coat retails for $219.99 at Men’s Wearhouse.\n\n### 2. Stretch Tuxedo Shirt\nThis __[Stretch Tuxedo Shirt](https://bonobos.com/products/stretch-tuxedo-shirt)__ is a comfortable and snappy component of any black-tie outfit. The shirt features attractive mother-of-pearl buttons and double-knife pleats for some added texture. French cuffs tie the look together with an added touch of elegance—and ample opportunity to show off your favorite pair of cufflinks. This shirt retails for $179 from Bonobos.\n\n### 3. Barathea Tuxedo Pants\nFor a classic look that ties your look together, these black __[Barathea Tuxedo Pants](https://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=442547002)__ are the answer. These pants are made from 100% virgin wool from one of Italy’s oldest mills and tailored with a slim fit for a comfortable, natural look that works in any season. Available for $220 from Banana Republic.\n\n### 4. Black and Burgundy Paisley Tuxedo Vest Set\nElevate your look with this __[Black and Burgundy Paisley Tuxedo Vest Set](https://paulmalone.com/collections/tuxedo-vests/products/black-and-burgundy-paisley-tuxedo-vest-set)__. The set includes a wine red and black paisley microfiber vest, matching pocket square, and your choice of a matching necktie or pre-tied cravat—though you can also pair it with your favorite bow tie. Altogether, this set is an affordable and stylish solution for any formal wedding or black-tie event. Available for $39.97 from Paul Malone.\n\n### 5. Steel and Onyx Tuxedo Studs\nAccessorizing isn’t always the easiest—especially with black-tie attire. Fortunately, these __[Steel and Onyx Tuxedo Studs](https://propercloth.com/products/steel-and-onyx-tuxedo-studs-431.html)__ are the perfect addition for a modern and classy take on a tux. These steel studs are Italian-made and come four to a set, with each featuring a black onyx face. These tuxedo studs retail for $75 from Proper Cloth.\n\n### 6. Personalized Rose Gold Round Cufflinks\nThough some cufflinks fly under the radar, these __[Personalized Rose Gold Round Cufflinks](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cathysconcepts_personalized_rose_gold_round_cuff_links_u)__ make a statement. The elegant rose gold adds a bit of contrast to your getup—while the engraveable face adds a personalized touch. Available from Zola for $27.99.\n\n### 7. Cummerbund\nThis __[Cummerbund](https://theblacktux.com/collection/accessory/cummerbund)__ can help you truly embrace the formality of a black-tie outfit. Made of plain black silk and with adjustable backing, this cummerbund won’t cramp your style on the dancefloor, but will help you stand out as someone who respects tradition. Available to rent for $15 or to purchase for $30 from The Black Tux.\n\n### 8. Tux Plain Toe Derby\nLet your style shine with these liquid-shine __[Tux Plain Toe Derby](https://www.nordstrom.com/s/florsheim-tux-plain-toe-derby-men/4873534)__ patent leather dress shoes. These shows are elegant in their simplicity, with a cushioned footbed to keep you comfortable through the day’s—and night’s—festivities. Available from Nordstrom for $124.95.\n\n### 9. Cotton Pocket Square\nTo add a bit of color to your black-tie outfit, incorporate this stylish and formal light blue __[Cotton Pocket Square](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/deltoro_cotton_pocket_square_lightblue)__. This timeless accessory is made in Lake Como, Italy, from a high-quality cotton that helps elevate your look for any formal affair. Available from Zola for $25.\n\n### 10. Classic-Fit UltraFlex Stretch Black Solid Tuxedo Separates\nShopping for the various bits of a formal ensemble can be overwhelming and time-consuming. Fortunately, this set of __[Classic-Fit UltraFlex Stretch Black Solid Tuxedo Separates](https://www.macys.com/shop/product/lauren-ralph-lauren-mens-classic-fit-ultraflex-stretch-black-solid-tuxedo-separates?ID=10503427)__ has almost everything you need to meet a black-tie dress code. Separates include a tuxedo jacket, pants, and vest, giving you the opportunity to accessorize however you see fit. Retails for $56.25 - $202.50 from Macy’s.\n\n## FAQs About Black Tie Dress Code\nStill not 100% clear on what the black tie dress code is—and how to ensure your wedding attire fits that dress code? Let's take a look at some frequently asked questions about black tie wedding attire to give some additional perspective:\n\n1. __What is the difference between a tuxedo and a suit?__ The main difference between a tuxedo and a suit is that tuxedos have a host of satin features—like lapels, buttons, and pant stripes—that suits do not.\n\n2. __What kinds of weddings have black tie dress codes?__ The black tie dress code is reserved for events that take place in the evenings—so weddings that start after 6pm or so may have a black tie dress code, while more casual daytime affairs would not.\n\n3. __What is the difference between a black tie and a white tie wedding dress code?__ White tie is the most formal dress code—and as such, is reserved for formal occasions. Black tie is considered semi-formal.\n\n4. __What should you do if you're invited to a black tie wedding—but don't have a tuxedo?__ Not to worry! Most men don't own tuxedos. There are plenty of places where you can rent a tuxedo, whether you're a wedding guest or in the wedding party—and if that's not an option, a dark suit would also be appropriate.\n\n5. __Is there any way to incorporate color into black tie wedding attire?__ While there aren't many opportunities for incorporating color into black tie wedding attire, if it's important to you, you could add a pop of color with accessories, like a pocket square.","tag":"How-To ","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Learn the ins and outs of semi-formal attire for men. 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Luckily, Zola has you covered with this easy guide. Read on now.","author":"Maggy Lehmicke","publishedAt":"2020-12-14T18:17:19.140Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6FbTEkIOvwhgnjNVFfvbPU/9fed0ee78b65647114b0bbc7e741fe5a/inline_hewittphotography.jpg","altText":"Cocktail wedding Attire"},"heroCredit":"Hewitt Photography","body":"Cocktail attire is generally associated with knee-length dresses, sophisticated heels, and simple suits. However, as one of the most popular (and versatile) dress codes, there are numerous ways that you can incorporate your own personal style in dressing for this type of wedding...starting with long dresses.\n\nFrom the color and fabric of the dress, to the hairstyle and accessories you pair with it, a maxi dress can easily pass as proper cocktail attire, if styled correctly. Below are a few pieces of advice to make sure that you’re picking the right gown and accessorizing it accordingly for a semi-formal ceremony.\n\n### Seasonality Matters\nIf the wedding takes place in the winter, no one is going to bat an eye at the fact that you’re wearing a long dress—if anything, it’s likely expected. All that the cocktail or semi-formal attire request means in the colder months is that you’re welcome to pick a more casual option than what you’d choose for a black-tie event. For example, while you may have picked a silk, emerald green number for a black-tie wedding, you might go for a long, cotton gown with moody florals instead. \n\n### Pick Your Silhouette (and Fabric) Wisely\nA fitted, full-length gown gives off a very different vibe than a flowy maxi with a slit. When planning what length of dress to wear, consider what would seem most cocktail-appropriate and feel the most comfortable to you. If you normally opt for more fitted dresses, maybe consider a knee-length shift or an A-line number, instead. However, if you’re comfortable in something with a lot of movement, then a lightweight maxi-dress is perfectly appropriate.\n\nIn addition to shape, fabrics play an important role in the overall formality of the dress. Fabrics such as satin, velvet, crepe, and organza are generally more suited for black-tie—unless you plan to really dress them down with accessories—while lightweight silk, cotton, and linen blends are much more fitting for a cocktail maxi-dress. Slits and high-low hems are also a fun way to dress down your ensemble, while incorporating a bit of personality.\n\n### Consider the Venue\n\n![Can you wear a long dress for cocktail attire?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4Af8XXHF0YtCmGwrEMXBKy/3ce3bccca2feadc1dafb2771656c2196/inline_chrislanephotography.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Chris Lane Photography\n\nIf it’s a backyard wedding or farm setting, then you might not want your dress sweeping the floor the whole evening (or have to wear heels to keep your hem clean). Once you receive the official invitation (or link to the couple’s wedding website!), look up the venue and try to get a good idea of the types of surfaces that you’ll be walking on. There’s always the chance that they’ll rent flooring for the day, but you don’t want to have to rely on it. If you go long, try something that isn’t a ground-duster, or opt for a pair of comfy wedges to add a few inches.\n\n### Opt for Alternative Colors and Prints\nBecause you’re picking a slightly more formal silhouette by going full-length, you can go a little more casual with your color and print choices. If it’s a spring or summer event, maxi dresses in terra cotta or mustard tones are great options, as are dainty florals in vibrant colors. For fall and winter events, jewel tones are always a wise choice, but long-sleeved dresses in moody florals and vintage prints are fun alternatives, too. If you do choose a print, make sure that you pick more subtle accessories so that the look doesn’t become too busy, or make it seem like you’re trying to steal the show.\n\n### Keep It Natural\nIf you’ve got your heart set on wearing a full-length dress, then keep your hair and makeup as laid back as possible. There’s a big difference between cat eyes and a tightly pulled updo, versus relaxed, tousled waves and some subtle lipstick. Details such as undone braids, beachy waves, and natural, kinky curls are great options to complement a less formal maxi. So long as you’re considering the seasons and venue, details such as a low bun, a little bit of extra eye makeup, or a statement lip can work, too.\n\n### Dress It Down With Accessories\nEarrings, hairpieces, shoes, and bags are some of the simplest ways to dress an outfit up or down. Instead of a sparkly clutch, maybe opt for a relaxed crossbody bag in a fun color, instead. For a fall wedding, consider adding a sophisticated leather jacket over your floral maxi dress. A fancier alternative to a denim jacket, a leather jacket keeps you warm, but also ensures that you don’t look out of place. For a summer event, consider tasteful wedges or block heels in a fun print. Flats are also an option, if they’re polished enough (particularly if they’re in an unexpected fabric such as velvet or satin).\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_WeddingBoutique"}},"featured":[{"excerpt":"Dress to impress! Your go-to guide for wedding guest attire, from formal to casual. Find the perfect look for every dress code and celebration.","title":"Wedding Guest Attire: A Guide to Every Dress Code","slug":"what-to-wear-to-a-wedding","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"How-To ","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5bgD1lwZNmIWCwyoiQgUI/abb4b34d02674b500f4edb610fb1eea6/Hero_New.jpg","altText":"wedding guests laughing with bride at wedding receptions"},"type":"articlePage"},{"excerpt":"Find the perfect wedding dress at the perfect price—no matter what kind of look you’re going for. 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Eyes will be on you throughout the wedding day and into the evening—and odds are you’ll be featured in many photos. Plus, you’ll want to feel your best. With all of this is mind, we’ve put together a comprehensive groom’s and groomsmen's attire guide.\n\n## What's the Difference?\n\nFirst thing’s first: What are the main differences between groom and groomsmen attire? Because suits and tuxedos can look fairly similar (especially in like colors), a few things a groom can do to stand out from his groomsmen are as follows:\n\n- Don a boutonniere. Doing so will also ensure that you coordinate with your partner.\n\n- Wear a different [tie](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-tie-for-groomsmen) or bowtie. This works especially well if your groomsmen’s are all matching.\n\n- Include a print. Wear a patterned blazer or suit jacket over your dress shirt, or patterned accessories, like socks or your pocket square.\n\n- Elevate your look. Differentiate yourself by wearing a different color, high quality fabric, or structure and silhouette. For example, if your groomsmen are wearing light gray or black, opt instead for dark gray or navy. Think along the lines of a bridal gown vs a bridesmaid’s dress.\n\nWith this in mind, read on for our guide.\n\n## Appropriate Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nSo, what is [appropriate](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/groomsmen-etiquette-101-a-beginners-guide) groom and groomsmen wedding attire? Here are some things to keep in mind:\n\n- The groom’s and groomsmen’s outfits should match the formality of the wedding and the venue.\n\n- Popular groom and groomsmen attire for more formal events include suits and tuxedos, while informal weddings allow for dress shirts and slacks.\n\n- If the groom’s attire matches the groomsmen, it’s important that everyone follows the dress code and goes shopping months in advance.\n\n- If the groom wants to stand out from the groomsmen, styling tricks can distinguish him from members of the wedding party.\n\n- Some grooms want all of their groomsmen to dress individually and not match one another. In these cases, establish a dress code and color palette for everyone to follow.\n\n## Groomsmen Attire FAQs\n### How to Choose Groomsmen Attire\nWhen it comes to selecting and even browsing for groomsmen clothing, there are several factors to be considered. Keeping these top-of-mind can be a tremendous aid in helping you decide on outfit pieces, fabrics, colors, fits, and more.\n\n- __Season.__ The season the wedding takes place in can have a large influence on what’s worn—especially if it’s an outdoor wedding. Take your cues from the weather and seasonal color palettes for attire that fits seamlessly.\n\n- __Time of Day.__ Depending on the season and your location, temperatures can vary drastically, from midday to late in the night. Consider what time (or times) of day you’ll be celebrating and dress accordingly. For example, if you’ll be out in the hot sun most of the time, you’ll want to opt for lighter, breezier fabrics.\n\n- __Wedding Venue.__ You wedding venue dictates much of the feeling and atmosphere of a wedding. Try to match its level of formality when deciding on your attire.\n\n- __Wedding’s Theme or Dress Code.__ Perhaps most crucial, pay special attention to any information the couple gives you prior to the wedding. Most often, you’ll be notified via invitation or wedding website of the wedding style and dress code. Take note of this when looking for an outfit—and always double check with the couple if you aren’t sure.\n\n### What Should the Groom and Groomsmen Wear?\nA [wedding’s venue](https://zola.app.link/o9Wx4NVYvcb) and [theme](https://zola.app.link/vxkYfJyN71) should inform what a groom and his groomsmen wear. It’s been said before, but it will be said again: Your outfit’s level of formality should reflect your wedding theme and wedding venue. If you’re getting married in your parents’ backyard, you don’t need to rock a tuxedo (unless that’s your thing). Likewise, nuptials at a place of worship call for a certain style of dress—it’s not appropriate to wear flip flops and a golf shirt in a church.\n\n### Who Pays for the Groomsmen Attire?\nAs with most things involved in wedding planning, this ultimately depends on the couple’s preferences. Most often, each individual groomsmen—as well as other members of the wedding party—will purchase or rent their own attire for the big day. Because of this, they usually also have a say in what they end up wearing. That said, there are cases in which the groom, couple, of even the groom’s parents will offer to chip in to cover some (or all) outfit expenses. This, however, highly depends on their budget and dress expectations.\n\nIn any case, communication about who’s going to pay should be communicated ASAP. Read: Before anyone agrees to be a groomsman. It’s crucial that everyone has all of the information they need, such as spending expectations, before committing.\n\n## 6 Groomsmen Attire Options\nOnce you determine how formal or informal you can be, decide what you want to wear. Some popular options for grooms and groomsmen include:\n\n### Formal Attire\n1. __[Tuxedos](https://zola.app.link/y2nb5n96Ocb)__. Tuxes are great for formal weddings and black-tie events. They can be worn during all four seasons, and are great for both indoor and outdoor weddings.\n\n2. __Dark suits__. These days, a nice two- and three-piece dark suit is acceptable for a wedding with a formal dress code. Make sure your suit is well fitted and pressed before the day of.\n\n### Semi-Formal Attire\n3. __[Suits](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-groom-and-groomsmen-suits)__, either three-piece or two-piece. A three-piece suit can be worn at formal weddings or semi-formal affairs. Two-piece groomsmen suits are a bit more casual and can be dressed down, even more so when the jacket is removed. In any case ,wedding suits should fit well and be pressed.\n\n### Casual Attire\n\n![How Many Groomsmen Is Normal? | Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4BCAiHkxjk12bywl5iorO4/520a78ffa33671b2c8e4747187f5b956/inline_shutterstock_1_.jpg) *Photo Credit* // Shutterstock\n\n4. __[Vest](https://zola.app.link/HcXfoUd7Ocb)__, __dress shirt__, __and slacks__. A play on the two-piece suit, wearing a vest over a dress shirt is a great look for more informal events or summer weddings.\n\n5. __[Dress shirt](https://zola.app.link/eLaNHDg7Ocb)__ __and slacks__. Paired with a tie or bow tie, this look can be accentuated by suspenders or a nice leather belt.\n\n6. __Shirt and khakis__. For informal or casual spring/summer weddings, skip the dress pants altogether and sport a pair of chinos with a nice shirt—tie optional.\n\n## Matching Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nTraditionally, a groom and his groomsmen wear matching tuxedos or suits, but today there are no hard rules. If you want the groom and groomsmen to wear the same attire, whether it be a suit or a dress shirt and pants, consider the following:\n\n- What is your [wedding theme](https://zola.app.link/vxkYfJyN71)/what are your wedding colors? If you’re having a fall, rustic wedding and are incorporating colors of blush and burgundy, the groom and groomsmen should follow suit. Gray suits with burgundy ties, for example, would be a way to stay on-theme.\n\n- What are everyone’s budget and location? It’s important to [talk about money when you’re at a wedding party](https://zola.app.link/gxLaAGyN71) to ensure that everyone can afford the same outfit. This can help determine whether you will rent, buy, or borrow garments. Remember that location affects availability and suit fitting appointments if you’re going the custom route.\n\n- Plan months in advance. If your groom and groomsmen attire matches, go shopping at least four to six months in advance to allow for enough time to order and tailor garments.\n\n- Another tip? Regardless of whether all groomsmen get fitted for their outfits at the same time and place, or do it individually, it’s a good idea to have everyone’s measurements [sent to the tailor two to four months before the wedding](https://zola.app.link/INwxgJyN71)—especially during peak wedding season—to ensure that everyone gets their clothing back on time.\n\nA popular style is for groomsmen to match one another, but the groom wears a slightly different, yet complementary, look. If you want the groomsmen to match, but the groom to stand out, consider the following:\n\n- Have the groomsmen’s attire match your wedding theme, but make the groom’s suit or tux slightly different by picking a feature color and highlighting it in different ways. For example, if forest green is one of your wedding colors, have the groomsmen wear green ties and [gray suits](https://zola.app.link/cE3oSTw7Ocb), while the groom wears a forest green suit and gray tie. This is a way to have everyone look good while standing together, yet still allowing the groom to stand out.\n\n## Mismatched Groom and Groomsmen Attire\nIf matching isn’t your thing, that’s cool. No groom and groomsmen need to dress the same. It’s important, however, that everyone at least looks cohesive and adheres to a dress code. A groomsman wearing linen pants will look odd next to a groomsman in a black tuxedo. The groom should set the tone and let everyone know how formal or casual they can dress and what color palette to stick to.\n\nIf you want all groomsmen to sport a navy two-piece suit, communicate what is appropriate. It’s one thing to say, “Everyone wears a blue suit!” but make sure that you also include dress shirts, ties, and shoe styles and colors. If your wedding is more casual and the groom is wearing nice slacks and a dress shirt, the groomsmen should follow. Use terms such as “business casual” and “semi-formal dress” to help the wedding party understand the level of formality that you want them to follow. Use photographs and share ideas with them. It’s a good idea to see (and approve) all groomsmen’s outfits before the wedding to make sure that they a) look good with what the groom is wearing, and b) are within the dress code. This helps to avoid any last-minute fashion disasters.\n\nIf the groom and groomsmen's attire doesn’t match, you can incorporate accessories to weave everyone together. Matching socks, ties or boutonnieres are all ways to let the groom and groomsmen stand out from one another, yet still complement each other’s looks.\n\nThe type of wedding you’re planning will dictate what the groom and groomsmen should wear. Look to other aspects of your wedding planning, such as venue, season, formality, and whether or not you want the groom and members of his wedding party to match. 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"},"heroCredit":"Fly View Productions","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com","tldr":"__Inside this article:__ \n- How to find androgynous formal wear\n- Where to get androgynous wedding attire\n- How to personalize androgynous formal wear for every wedding type","body":"__TLDR:__\n- If you're looking for androgynous formal wear, be sure to consider your budget and preferred style before purchasing. \n- Several shops, like Duchess Clothier and SuitShop are perfect for fulfilling your androgynous wedding guest attire needs.\n- Consult our guide for styling for every type of [androgynous wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/gender-non-conforming-wedding-attire). Whether romantic, class, boho or beyond, we have visual cues to help.\n\n## Searching for androgynous wedding guest attire?\nDeciding what to [wear as a wedding guest](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/dos-donts-wedding-guest-fashion) is definitely not as easy as sampling everything at the [buffet table](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-food-ideas). But finding an outfit you love will make you feel your best and boost your confidence.\n\nIf a gender-neutral style is your style of choice, there are plenty of ways you can create a formal wear look that will make you feel your best. From classic to laid-back, we'll show you just how and where to find androgynous [wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-wedding) and how you can style it depending on any wedding theme.\n\n## How to find androgynous formal wear \nWhether you're an experienced wedding attendee or this is your first time celebrating your favorite lovebirds, finding the perfect wedding attire can be overwhelming, especially if you're set on finding the perfect gender neutral wedding outfit. \n\nWe here at Zola have you covered with all of your wedding wear needs. Here are some steps on how to find androgynous wedding attire.\n\n### 1. Set a budget\nTo help avoid overspending and narrow down your options, the first step in finding the perfect androgynous wedding attire is to [set a budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/planning-101/budgeting). \n\nDecide how much you're willing to spend on the wedding outfit, taking into account not only necessary adjustments, such as [tailoring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-do-wedding-dress-alterations-cost), but also any accessories, shoes, and makeup you'll have to purchase. Do some research by looking at stores online and local boutiques to help you come up with a budget that makes sense.\n\n### 2. Decide on your preferred style\nAlthough having a budget will help you narrow down which stores to go to, having a general idea of what style of clothing you're looking for will help you figure out where to go. Consider your preferred style choices, what makes you feel the most comfortable, and the [wedding theme](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-themes). \n\nHaving a look in mind will make the process easier and faster. Find inspiration by looking at current fashion trends and social media accounts of people with a similar style as yours.\n\n### 3. Consider how much time you have\nLastly, consider how much time you have to find your gender-neutral wedding outfit since it will likely dictate whether you should shop online or in person. If you're short on time, might need your outfit tailored, or want to try it on first, find a couple of local stores to go to. Otherwise, shopping online can give you a wide range of options to choose from—just be sure to account for shipping times.\n\n![Androgynous Wedding Guest Attire](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4ueZ9Qeq5seT7GOemiI1SN/546e8e8a38b3c4f83b6aba4831ebb05c/Androgynous_Wedding_Guest_Attire.jpg)\nPhoto by [Creatrix Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/creatrix-photography)\n\n## Where to get androgynous wedding attire \nIf you're still looking for places to shop for an outfit, there are many stores focusing on androgynous formal wear. These stores' main purpose is to provide you with an array of gender-neutral pieces, from formal wear to casual pieces, that will help you look and feel your best. Here are some that we recommend:\n\n### 1. The Tailory New York\nAnother custom suit option with online fittings is [The Tailory New York](https://thetailorynyc.com/), a women-owned clothing company that combines custom tailoring with modern fashion design. If you're looking for a bold and ambitious look, The Tailory has different clothing styles and colors, from modern fairytale to street chic. Their suits and tuxedos start at $1,450.\n\n### 2. Bindle & Keep\n\n[Bindle & Keep](https://www.bindleandkeep.com/) offers suits that are made just for you. If you want to have a suit created for your exact measurements, Bindle & Keep will do fittings both in person and online. They divide their suit options into three different pricing tiers varying by fabric, which ranges from $995 to $1,395. If you're considering custom-made androgynous wedding attire from Bindle & Keep, make sure to order ahead of time as their turnaround time is between 10 and 11 weeks.\n\n### 3. WILDFANG\nIf you're looking for a place where you can buy your everyday clothes but also find formal wear for your special event, [WILDFANG](https://www.wildfang.com/) is a good option. Its mission is to rethink gender norms and focus on androgynous outfits. At their store, you'll be able to find blazers, [dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-to-a-spring-wedding), and even accessories at a more affordable price, ranging from $70 to $200.\n\n### 4. Duchess Clothier\nIf you're looking for another made-to-fit option, [Duchess Clothier](https://www.duchessclothier.com/) creates androgynous outfits for every body and occasion. Their store is located in Portland, OR, where you'll get plenty of separate suit and shoe options, but they also let you create your own look by mixing and matching pieces. The price for their suits starts at $1,120 and they offer packages that also include dress shirts, ties, and pocket squares.\n\n### 5. Kirrin Finch\n[Kirrin Finch](https://kirrinfinch.com/) seeks to create fitting clothes that make you feel confident and comfortable. Their attire is designed to fit bodies of all shapes and sizes. They offer a wide range of androgynous formal wear, from dress shirts to suits and blazers. Prices range from $150 to $400 and offer a variety of silhouettes and colors.\n\n![Kirrin Finch Androgynous Formal Wear](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1lW1ojxP5jTJEjgXs2OkJu/98f85f274d87bcead990e2b668f5ee64/Kirrin_Finch_Androgynous_Formal_Wear.jpg)\n\n### 6. SuitShop\nIf you're looking for a more affordable option, or even considered [renting](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-does-a-tuxedo-rental-cost), [SuitShop](https://suitshop.com/) can provide you with high-quality clothing for a price that will make you feel as good as you look. At SuitShop, you can own a suit for as little as $199, and you'll get a variety of options to choose from with inclusive sizing. Plus, you can try your androgynous wedding attire for free for seven days.\n\n### 7. Birdy Grey\nAlthough [Birdy Grey](https://www.birdygrey.com/) fancies itself a [bridesmaid](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-bridesmaid-duties) dress retailer, they also offer options for suits and tuxedos that are tailored to perfection. At the online retailer, you'll also see a variety of shoes and accessories that are perfect for any wedding theme. Their gender-neutral wedding outfits are also affordable, starting at $199.\n\n### 8. Peau de Loup\n[Peau de Loup](https://www.peaudeloup.com/)'s goal is to make clothes for bodies and not genders, offering high-quality and limited clothing that accommodates curves. Aside from finding your androgynous wedding attire there, you'll also be able to get shoes, accessories, and casual clothing. Their formal wear is affordable, with prices starting at $98.\n\n### 9. HauteButch\nAnother brand that creates masculine clothing to fit women's bodies is [HauteButch](https://hautebutch.com/), a queer Black-owned brand. This small company creates innovative and diverse styles that represent who you are. They sell suits, vests, and accessories in a variety of styles and colors, with suits starting at around $200.\n\n### 10. Sharpe Suiting\n[Sharpe Suiting](https://sharpesuiting.com/) will help you achieve a look that will both fit your body and your style. They specialize in wedding attire and use their trademarked body measuring formula called “Andropometrics” to deliver you a custom suit. The process of purchasing a custom outfit will take around eight weeks, and a two-piece suit starts at $1,800.\n\n![Sharpe Androgynous Formal Wear](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/48SlVkaQrogBBmLLYA9Ogq/cdca55ee7c7ea3539d3123b08632e6af/Sharpe_Androgynous_Formal_Wear.jpg)\n\n## How to personalize androgynous formal wear for every wedding type \nNo matter how you express yourself, your wedding attire should fit the [wedding type](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/couples-top-wedding-themes) you’re attending or planning. Whether that is a classic chic wedding or a beach getaway, there are different ways you can personalize your androgynous formal wear according to the theme. \n\nWhen deciding on what to wear for the wedding, consider each element of your wedding attire, including accessories, shoes, and colors. You can also add your own personal touch by using elements that you usually wear—like your favorite watch or a pop of color that looks good on you.\n\n### 1. Classic\nClassic weddings are more traditional and elegant, and sometimes will require [black tie wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding). Whether your invite mentions a dress code or not, invest in looks in black, gray, or dark blue with solid fabric. If the wedding is during the summer, you might opt to wear lighter tones such as light gray or beige. \n\nYour look should be elegant and fitted, so if you’re going for a suit, consider wearing solid wool fabric, a black bowtie, and a collared white shirt. To complete your look, wear classic black leather shoes and gold and pearl jewelry, if that’s true to your style. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-classic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/630zTDv9adarWkCgmAY9X8/774dd5af04a72b617487675442696d26/androgynous-attire-for-classic-weddings.png)\n\n### 2. Rustic\n[Rustic weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-a-wedding-venue) are full of natural and wooden touches, which means you can go for a less formal look and have fun with textures. Look for clothing with lighter tones such as light blue and brown. For a more casual look, you could also forgo your blazer and wear only a vest with a collared shirt. \n\nAdd some texture to your look by choosing cotton or tweed blazers. Then complement your outfit with vintage brown leather shoes and patterned pocket squares. This is also your chance to wear your favorite shiny, gold jewelry or a leather watch. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-rustic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6X9V0pswklRpQ4DsMoebbj/62d44e6a3d9a4ae854cafbbe6905cd14/androgynous-attire-for-rustic-weddings.png)\n\n### 3. Beachy\n[Beach weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/pros-and-cons-of-a-beach-wedding) are relaxed and calm, which means you get to enjoy the sea view and salty air with a more casual, bright look. Opt for light tones, like a pastel blue or green, or go for more colorful attire with florals. \n\nInvest in clothes with linen fabric so you can fully enjoy the ocean breeze. You might even want to roll up your sleeves or wear some nice shorts. Make your look even more beachy by adding colorful pocket flowers, accessories with seashells, and white loafers. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-beachy-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6Zf82q3mpqKJLcuDB84EWS/1362edaf2195c2480dab783a07118625/androgynous-attire-for-beachy-weddings.png)\n\n### 4. Modern\nModern weddings are more fashionable and bold, so if you like trendy styles or a monochromatic look, this is your chance to shine. In a modern wedding, you have the opportunity to be more creative by trying different fabrics or wearing a statement piece. \n\nConsider bold colors like dark green or burgundy, or try an all-black outfit with cuffed pants. Then complete your look with fashionable loafers or shiny black shoes and a gold watch. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-modern-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6hpxRcBcPre6QeHDQhrMgY/a531c502c266880425318f77c1b56270/androgynous-attire-for-modern-weddings.png)\n\n### 5. Garden\n[Garden weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/outdoor-wedding-ideas-for-fall) are fun and whimsical, so bring a playful spirit to your wedding attire. Consider floral and pinstripe fabrics, or go for a solid dark blue or purple look. Choose a breathable fabric, especially if the wedding will be outside during the summer. \n\nComplete your look by adding a tie in a pastel tone, or ditch the tie and go for an open collar style. Add flower accessories or a simple white pocket square to go with stitched vintage shoes. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-garden-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/QQIsPX3Pfi3nhwBvgFcNt/97fb6382f096e46eb5601fce444a8b09/androgynous-attire-for-garden-weddings.png)\n\n### 6. Romantic\nRomantic weddings are nothing short of dreamy and elegant. Go all in with a look that could've come out of a fairytale by wearing pastel pinks and blues and a blazer with silk details. \n\nTry suspenders, and match them with some classic leather shoes. For accessories, you can add delicate flower pins or shiny jewelry with diamonds and a gold watch.\n\n![androgynous-attire-for-romantic-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1voWcJwI7i0vFWKLZTTWfa/09119df7011a734aa074ab55471930de/androgynous-attire-for-romantic-weddings.png)\n\n### 7. Boho\n[Boho weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/rustic-wedding-ideas) are more unconventional and relaxed, so this is your chance to rock a more laid-back look. Find outfits with lightweight and breathable fabrics and play around with different colors. \n\nDon't be shy when adding flowers or feathers to complement your look, or try a suede boho hat and match it with brown loafers. As for accessories, consider jewelry with colorful stones or gold fringe. \n\n![androgynous-attire-for-boho-weddings](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/19ClGLMB3t5aDno8SdUPg0/b06b0754a417d786152b3240e245c6e8/androgynous-attire-for-boho-weddings.png)\n\nFinding the right [wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/wedding-guests/wedding-attire) doesn't have to be complicated. As long as you wear something you love and feel comfortable in, you'll radiate confidence walking in the venue. Luckily, you know exactly where to shop for androgynous wedding attire and how to personalize it according to each wedding theme.\n\nAre you the one getting married? Did you know that Zola can help with all of your wedding day needs? From using our [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) to creating a free [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website), get started today!","tag":"List","updatedAt":"2025-06-07T16:47:44.977Z"},{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire"},"slug":"what-should-the-mother-of-the-groom-wear","title":"What Should the Mother of the Groom Wear?","excerpt":"Wondering what the mother of the groom should wear to your wedding? Read on for our complete guide.","author":"Emily Forrest","publishedAt":"2020-12-16T20:33:51.524Z","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3XYQnnhFxaJwQKwb4o3VdP/09b22c0665e884e05ef2a3f099378d4c/hero_Eyes_2_See_Photography.jpg","altText":"mother of the groom"},"heroCredit":"Eyes 2 See Photography","body":"Mothers are always valued members of a couple’s wedding party, whether it’s the mother of the bride or the mother of the groom. Both are honored and appreciated for their contributions to the bride and groom’s big day. \n\nThe mother of the groom in particular has several responsibilities, including helping plan the guest list for the groom’s side of the family and hosting the rehearsal dinner. It’s only natural that she looks exceptional when the big day rolls around. But what exactly should the mother of the groom wear? \n\n## Wedding Etiquette for the Mother of the Groom\n\nDepending upon how much of a stickler for tradition you are, there may be etiquette rules your family members and guests must follow. These rules may include a few about the wedding attire for the groom’s mother. \n\n### Dress Buying Traditions\n\nWondering if there’s a difference [between the mother of the bride dress and the mother of the groom dress?](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/mother-of-the-bride-vs-mother-of-the-groom-dresses-whats-the-difference) Traditionally, the mother of the bride decides on her dress first and then informs the groom’s mother. The mother of the groom can then get a dress that complements the [mother of the bride dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-attire-101-garden-edition) on the wedding day. \n\nKeep in mind that the two moms do not have to dress identical at all—the two dresses just have to be complementary, so they don't clash with each other, the wedding theme, or the bridesmaid dresses. \n\nIt’s worth noting, though: Nowadays, this tradition is considered more of a guideline than a hard rule. Still, it’s good guidance—especially if you haven’t heard otherwise. \n\n![Mother of the Groom Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/25fkY0wAnryA14ISsWlQEE/b10a6d827562696eacee5b1c7807476c/inline_rengim-mutevellioglu.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Rengim Mutevellioglu\n\n### Dress Etiquette\n\nAs stated before, the mother of the groom is an honored part of the special occasion, and she should dress accordingly. Both the mother of the bride and groom should select dresses that are similar in style and length and complementary to the wedding color palette and theme. \n\nBefore any shopping is done, consult with the bride or groom to get a better idea of their vision for the wedding day. For instance, flashy dresses and distracting colors wouldn’t be appropriate for a wedding with a soft, vintage theme. The mother of the groom should also avoid particular styles, such as low-cut necklines, thigh-split dresses, or tight skirts. \n\nJust keep in mind: Within reason, the mother of the groom should be able to dress according to her personality and comfort. \n\n### Dress Shopping Is Bonding Time\n\nIn today’s culture, mothers of the bride and groom often go dress shopping together and view it as an opportunity to bond and get to know one another better. Other moms might shop with the bride and bridesmaids as well, opting to make it a big gal’s day complete with a fancy lunch or dinner. This not only helps everyone get to know each other better, but also helps ensure that everyone looks great and dresses don’t clash. \n\n## Wedding Etiquette for Stepmoms of the Groom\n\nIf the groom’s family is a blended family, it can sometimes get complicated. The mother of the bride is only obliged to inform the mother of the groom about her wedding attire. Stepmothers, on the other hand, are the groom’s responsibility. It’s up to him to give her the required information, so that she can dress appropriately. \n\nOf course, this may be different in every family, because it depends on how close the groom is with his stepmother. If she’s considered a close family member and you plan to seat her in front with other family members, then she should choose her outfit in keeping with the colors and theme of the rest of the wedding party and family. However, if the two are not close and she is considered merely a guest, then she will be seated with guests and should have full freedom to dress however she likes (assuming it’s wedding appropriate!). There’s really no need for her attire to match the immediate family or wedding party—unless she just wants to.\n\n## Color Dos and Don’ts\n\n### Dos\n\nThere’s no end to the color palettes and wedding themes a bride might choose from. Depending on the theme, many mothers of the groom favor colors like:\n\n- Blues\n- Blushes\n- Mauves\n- Lavenders\n- Mint Green\n- Peach\n\nIf your wedding is a formal one, some mothers of the groom might prefer to wear shades of gold, dark silver, or even black. Other darker colors that might be worn include shades of :\n\n- Navy\n- Green\n- Purple\n- Red\n\n### Don’ts\n\nRemember, it’s a big fashion faux pas for someone in the immediate family or wedding party to wear white or any variation thereof. Even neutral colors like cream or beige are against dress code. \n\nOf course, some brides might not mind; some may even want their bridal party in white. When in doubt, though, it’s best to err on the side of caution. \n\n## Wedding Attire Styles for the Mother of the Groom\n\nIt’s important to consider age, body shape, and the time of year when deciding on a dress style for the mother of the groom.\n\n### Body Shape\n\nDifferent dress shapes flatter different body types:\n\n- Someone who is wider at the shoulder and narrower at the hips, like an inverted triangle, might look best in V-necklines and A-line skirts, with a nipped waist to create a shapely silhouette.\n- Someone with wider hips should focus on accentuating the top of her body with detailing or an off-the-shoulder neckline, along with fit and flare dress styles. \n- Someone with an hourglass figure should avoid baggy and loose dresses, or run the risk of looking frumpy.\n- Someone with a rectangle body shape might consider more form-fitting dresses.\n\nHowever, remember that these are just tips and guidelines. It’s more important to make sure that whatever style of dress the mother of the groom wears, she feels comfortable and attractive. \n\n### Time of Year\n\nThe mother of the groom should feel comfortable through the wedding ceremony and reception. That’s why it’s important to consider the season and whether or not the venue is indoor or outdoor when choosing a dress. For example, the mother of the bride can get away with wearing a casual sundress for an outdoor, summer beach wedding, but should wear a formal dress for an indoor, black-tie affair. \n\nDuring colder months, dresses can be accessorized with shawls, faux fur, and shrugs. Tailored jackets are another option that look great and help keep the groom’s mom toasty and warm. Also, if it’s simply too cold for a dress, pantsuits can be a good option to keep the legs covered. \n\nDepending on where you live, spring is typically warm, which means she could wear tea-length and cocktail dresses and be perfectly comfortable. Summer is also a great season for tea-length dresses. \n\n### Age-Appropriate\n\nRemember, there is such a thing as too sexy. The mother of the groom should avoid wearing anything that’s overtly sexy, such as deep necklines with cleavage or skirts that flash the thigh. If you know that the mother of the groom tends to dress a little on the risqué side, there’s nothing wrong with asking her to wear something that’s age-appropriate. \n\n![Mother of the Groom Dresses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3ym2V6NZrPUABfEbT0eRIZ/9f244b1d9574d64e93c28a840b42a985/inline_stocksy.jpg)\n*Photo Credit* // Stocksy\n\n## Don’t Forget Accessories\n\nNo outfit is complete without matching accessories. For a mother of the groom, accessories might include: \n\n- Small clutch purse\n- Medium tote purse\n- Stylish hat or headband\n- Pretty necklace and earrings\n- Bangle bracelets\n\nWhatever accessories she wears, it should be something that complements her wedding attire and highlights her own unique style without taking attention away from you. \n\nIf the mother of the groom is uncomfortable with the neckline or sleeves of her chosen wedding attire, she could always add a trendy scarf or shawl. This does double duty by covering her up more and accessorizing her look. \n\nWedding attire for the mother of the groom really isn’t that complicated. Once there’s a theme, color palette, and venue in place, she’ll be able to pick just the right dress.\n","tag":"Advice","widget1":{"marketingModule":{"tag":"EA_Masterbrand"}},"nextUp":[{"excerpt":"Garden wedding attire blends comfort and style with light fabrics and floral touches. 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Check out Zola's guide to beautiful, simple wedding dresses.","title":"Simple Wedding Dresses That Are Elegant and Timeless","slug":"simple-wedding-dresses-that-are-elegant-and-timeless","topic":"Fashion & beauty","tag":"Inspiration","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2SjlWOaxslfaqQ1FB2Pzmr/3422d8d0544ed3158ea19873b4540f3d/Hero_New__12_.jpg","altText":"couple kisses at wedding "},"type":"articlePage"}],"stickyCta":{"copy":"Start Planning With Zola","url":"https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard?product=WEDDING_PLANNING"},"updatedAt":"2024-02-05T16:40:05.051Z"}],"name":"Wedding attire","slug":"wedding-attire","description":"Find wedding attire inspiration and advice for grooms, guests, bridesmaid, groomsmen and the rest of the wedding party. From black tie dress code guides to casual wedding attire inspiration to mother of the bride style ettiquete we'll help you look your best on the big day."}],"featured":[{"type":"articlePage","topic":{"name":"Fashion & beauty","slug":"fashion-beauty"},"subtopic":{"name":"Wedding dresses","slug":"wedding-dresses"},"slug":"average-wedding-dress-cost","title":"The Average Wedding Dress Cost in 2025","excerpt":"Today’s average wedding dress cost is between $1,500 - $2,500. We’ll give you a full breakdown of wedding dress costs, plus ways to save on your dream dress!","author":"Jane Chertoff and Georgie Darling","publishedAt":"2024-10-02T06:00-08:00","heroImage":{"src":"//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4IgzPKbJMjCnUvkugF2s6T/670bcf3bd50fa8684631321c31f0d15a/average-wedding-dress-cost-hero.jpg","altText":"A woman stands smiling in the mirror of a bridal dress boutique after trying on a wedding dress, indicating she researched the average wedding dress cost. "},"heroCredit":"Zola","heroCreditUrl":"https://www.zola.com/","tldr":"__Inside this article:__\n- What is the average wedding dress cost in 2025?\n- What does the average wedding dress cost?\n- How much should you spend on a wedding dress?\n- Average cost of wedding dress alterations\n- How much does a custom wedding dress cost?\n- Four factors that affect the cost of a wedding dress\n- How to save money on your wedding dress","body":"__TLDR__\n- Dresses fall into the $1,500-$2,500 range, but finding your dream wedding gown could cost more (or less) depending.\n- If you're on a strict budget, consider shopping at sample sales and trunk shows at your local bridal boutique.\n- Also, don't forget to factor in the cost of wedding dress alterations, which can add a significant amount.\n\nChoosing a wedding dress can be one of the most exciting parts of wedding planning. Whether you’ve fantasized about your dream wedding gown for years or haven’t yet [thought about your style](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what's-your-wedding-dress-style), you’re likely wondering, \"How much are wedding dresses, anyway?\"\n\nSo, to first answer the question about how much do wedding dresses cost: Today’s average cost of wedding dresses is between $1,500 - $2,500. However, the truth is that wedding dress costs vary wildly based on factors like the designer, fabric, and other key elements. If you have your eye on an Oscar de la Renta designer dress, it'll have a bigger price tag.\n\nIf that cost of a wedding dress number seems high, don’t worry. It’s more than possible to find a dress you love on a smaller budget. Once you understand what factors impact the cost of a dress, you’ll be able to narrow down what to look for and what to avoid when you start shopping.\n\nFrom the average wedding dress cost in 2025 to the average price of alterations, read on for everything you need to know about wedding dress costs.\n\n## What is the average wedding dress cost in 2025? \n\nAccording to a real weddings study, the average price of a wedding dress in 2025 is [$1,500 to $2,500](https://fash.com/costs/wedding-dress-cost). The average American wedding dress cost from a large retailer like David's Bridal starts at $500. A boutique dress costs around $2000+, and a designer/custom dress usually starts at $5,000. Some dresses cost $100 or less. Note: those are [pre-alterations prices](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-do-wedding-dress-alterations-cost).\n\n![Wedding Dress Costs](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4eWFohjCPq4s3jJY32BhI8/199418ebf5acd9c6a5eb2eb9709a59d6/Wedding_Dress_Costs.jpg) Photo by [Lex & Trev Photo + Film](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/lex-trev-photo-film--2)\n\n## What does the average wedding dress cost? \nAccording to a recent [wedding dress Reddit thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingdress/comments/184qza5/how_much_did_you_spend_on_your_dress/), the average cost of a wedding gown varies greatly depending on where folks shopped. Buying a gown at a trunk sale brings a lower price point than at a bridal boutique. Don't worry—our Zola experts will clue you in on how to save money. \n\nSo, is $2000 a good budget for a wedding dress? In our estimation, yes, but it all depends on your goals. That number is right in the middle of our average 2025 wedding dress budget. However, you also need to factor in alterations. The average is around $500, but that depends on how detailed your gown is and how many alterations you need.\n\n## How much should you spend on a wedding dress? \n\nYour wedding dress is just one of many expenses in [your wedding budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-set-your-wedding-budget). Be sure you’re clear on how much you’ll spend in other areas like your venue, florals, and vendors. Factor in [additional outfits](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/buying-two-wedding-dresses-101) for pre-wedding activities like your rehearsal dinner before you settle on a wedding dress budget.\n\nDon’t let your opinions be swayed too much by the average wedding dress cost. How much you should spend on a wedding dress depends entirely on your personal tastes and priorities. You might decide to buy a dress for $200 because you’d rather spend more on elaborate floral arrangements—or maybe you’re willing to spend as much as necessary if it means achieving your dream look.\n\nAside from considering other wedding expenses over a dress, decide if you might regret shelling out thousands for your dream dress after the big day. Whatever the answer might be, the key is knowing your priorities and adjusting your budget accordingly.\n\nDon’t forget to give some thought to your shoes, jewelry, and [accessories](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-accessories-bridal-look), all of which help tie your final look together—head over to Zola’s online [bridal boutique](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/bridal-boutique) for inspiration! So, how much should you pay for a wedding dress? It depends on your priorities and overall budget.\n\n__Expert Advice:__ Use Zola’s free [Wedding Budget Planner & Calculator](https://www.zola.com/wedding-budget) to make keeping track of your wedding expenses easy.\n\n## Average cost of wedding dress alterations \n\nMost alterations cost $75 to $300 and upward, but it depends on how labor-intensive your alterations are. Minor adjustments like taking a few inches off the hemline could cost less than $100. Major alterations like sleeves, new necklines, removing boning, or adding a [bustle](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-bustle-a-wedding-dress) can cost $300+.\n\nThe more layers your dress has, or the more intricate its design (beading, lace), the more expensive your alterations will be, even for “simple” adjustments like a hem. If you’re trying on a dress that you know will need big changes, it’s worth asking for a quote before you say yes.\n\nTo ensure your dress fits perfectly, plan on alterations, no matter how pricey your dress is. \n\nRead our [Ultimate Guide to Wedding Dress Alterations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-dress-alterations) for more.\n\n![Wedding Dress Costs 2025](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6V2CuzQbyzTxIFgZiWt3Ie/1879324fbbace6722f29dd94d9493d83/Wedding_Dress_Costs_2025.jpg) Photo by [Life Captured by CLN](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/life-captured-by-cln-photography)\n\n## How much does a custom wedding dress cost? \n\nThis is likely to be the most expensive option—the cost of a custom wedding dress can range anywhere from $6,000 to well over $10,000. Designing a custom gown can be ideal if you have a very specific vision in mind.\n\nIn general, the more couture the designer you go with, the more expensive the wedding dress price will be. However, you may be able to get a deep discount if you shop at a sample sale or trunk show. Ask your local bridal stores when they’re having these events if you’re interested in sample dresses.\n\nEven big-name designers have started making less expensive lines of their dresses for big-box bridal stores, so you may be able to find your dream wedding gown by shopping around.\n\n## Four factors that affect the cost of a wedding dress \n\nWedding dress prices first and foremost depend on whether you choose a [designer gown](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/7-black-wedding-designers-to-know) or a dress off the rack from a major retailer. Designer dress prices will always be more than manufactured dress prices, especially if you go for a handmade or custom-made gown. So, when you’re looking into the average cost of a wedding dress, keep this in mind. \n\nEven if you don’t choose a designer dress, styles with extensive embellishments (like lots of beading or embroidery) or luxurious fabrics like charmeuse will hike up the price. How much to spend on [wedding dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/tips-wedding-dress-shopping) depends on your style and budget, taking the below into consideration. \n\n### Fabric and materials\n\n![wedding-dress-fabrics](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/Oy7REHNucRp1zeBvffyxp/9a3f945bc90c582161bc7fefbb8228cd/wedding-dress-fabrics.png)\n\nThe fabric of your dress significantly impacts overall costs. Expect to pay more for luxury fabrics like silk, hand-embroidered lace, charmeuse, and certain types of satin.\n\nIf you’re after a lower price tag, consider synthetic or blended fabrics like polyester, chiffon, rayon, or crepe. If seeing “wedding dress” and “polyester” in the same sentence makes you cringe, hear us out—poly-blend fabrics have come a long way over the years, and you can find options that feel high-end for less.\n\n### The designer\n\nIf you’re eyeing a luxury designer gown, be prepared to spend significantly more—not only because designer dresses are typically made with higher-quality materials, but also because of the designer name itself. \n\nDresses by designers like Oscar de la Renta, Dolce & Gabbana, Elie Saab, and Vera Wang will all come with a higher price tag. For example, the starting price for the Vera Wang Bridal Collection is $2,900, and the Luxe Collection starts at $6,900.\n\n### Embellishments\n\nEmbellishments like hand-embroidered lace, intricate beading, and appliqués will all hike up the cost of your wedding dress due to the additional time and labor required to create them. \n\nMore elaborate constructions like fully boned corsets will also cost more—in general, the more detailed the fabric, [silhouette](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-dress-silhouettes), and embellishments, the higher the price will be compared to [simpler wedding dresses](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/simple-wedding-dresses-that-are-elegant-and-timeless).\n\nIf you’re aiming to keep costs down, opt for gowns with a simple silhouette or find alternative ways to add visual interest to your look—you can easily do this with your jewelry, but also consider elements like a delicate belt or sash or an [eye-catching veil](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/14-wedding-veil-styles-and-lengths-every-bride-should-know).\n\n__Expert Advice:__ Opting for a simpler silhouette won’t always ensure a lower price tag—a minimal dress design made with high-end fabric will still cost more than more affordable fabrics.\n\n### Accessories\n\n![wedding-dress-cost-impacts](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/EhPCvrM1I1Yk67rf9KCF3/5d2f04880c2d65808b7da580754f8f99/wedding-dress-cost-impacts.png)\n\nThe dress itself may be the main event, but accessories like your jewelry, shoes, and a veil ([if you’re wearing one](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/veil-or-no-veil-the-pros-and-cons-of-each)) should all be factored into your overall cost. Plan to spend at least $200, but costs can easily climb to $500+ depending on the items you choose.\n\nDon’t think you have to buy your wedding accessories from a bridal store. Shop around at your favorite non-bridal stores to find similar pieces without the typical wedding mark-up. \n\n## How to save money on your wedding dress \n\n![save-on-wedding-dress](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1HERLQUQmzDPBf1wDFx3qJ/1eff092a23b5daeb67469b46df970757/save-on-wedding-dress.png)\n\nDon’t be fooled into thinking you can’t find your dream dress on a lower budget. There are countless retailers with affordable wedding dress options that can help you save money on your wedding dress budget.\n\nDavid’s Bridal, Azazie, and BHLDN all offer gowns for lower price points, and even big-box retailers like ASOS, Lulus, Reformation, and Revolve have dedicated bridal collections where you can find a stunning look for less.\n\nThere are plenty of other ways to save on your wedding dress cost if you’re willing to think outside the box:\n\n- __Shop bridesmaid, reception, and non-bridal formalwear collections:__ There’s no rule that says your wedding dress has to come from a bridal collection. Look for white or ivory dresses in alternative collections—you might be surprised!\n- __Opt for a rental:__ Find a splurge-worthy look for less by renting your dress on sites like [Rent the Runway](https://www.renttherunway.com/pdp/shop/bride/products?filters%5Bzip_code%5D=77304&filters%5Bduration%5D=4&filters%5BcanonicalSizes%5D%5B%5D=4&filters%5BunlimitedMinAvailability%5D=0&sort=recommended#1703271475367).\n- __Shop sample sales:__ Sample designer gowns have been tried on or gently used, but never actually purchased—they’re usually a fraction of the cost compared to other options you’ll find in a bridal boutique.\n- __Be strategic with seasons:__ You’ll pay more for a dress if you shop during the peak wedding seasons (spring and fall)—instead, shop during the summer and winter months to score discounted dresses from the previous season. This is one of the best ways to pay less than the average wedding dress cost.\n- __Shop secondhand:__ Find gently used designer dresses at a fraction of the cost (we’re talking up to 90% off!) on sites like [Stillwhite](https://www.stillwhite.com/), [Once Wed](https://www.oncewed.com/), and [Nearly Newlywed](https://www.nearlynewlywed.com/).\n\nAs much as it may be tempting, don’t try on dresses that are above your budget. Wearing a higher priced gown on your wedding day may feel good, but \n\nWhile knowing the average wedding dress cost is a helpful baseline, you can find your dream dress for much less (or more) than the national average. \n\nUltimately, how much you spend on finding your dream wedding dress is up to you. [Start shopping early](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-soon-should-i-buy-my-wedding-dress) to learn what style you’re after and narrow down your priorities. 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